April 2025 ALT Magazine

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Excitement ahead…

In my January editorial, I shared that I had some exciting things happening in my life; things I wasn’t quite ready to share yet. They have finally happened! On March 11, 2025, I received my Texas Real Estate License!

I cannot tell you how relieved I was to hear I had passed the real estate exam – on the first try! It is one of the most difficult tests I have ever taken. I was quite relieved and happy that I didn’t have to keep studying. So much for that thought! I didn’t realize that to get my Arkansas license, another 60 hours of classwork was required. So on to the next test! I’m determined to pass that one too.

I love this magazine and getting to know all my customers and all the people we do articles on. I don’t plan to let that go. I just can’t. I have been doing this for over 15 years, and it’s engrained in my brain. (There’s a lot going on in there lately! LOL) Anyway, with the way the magazine world and the real estate world work, it should be the perfect combination.  When one is busy, the other slows down and vice versa. Perfect, right?

Let me know if I can help you with either one –or your photography needs as well! Somebody responded to my initial post “Do you ever stop?” The answer is a resounding NO! I don’t plan on stopping. I must have something to keep me busy. I especially love it when the busy stuff is something I enjoy.

So, if you would like to advertise in ALT, please give me a call. If you would like your portraits made, give me a call. And if you are ready to list or buy a property, give me a call!  I’m here for you. I will work hard to help you.

Thanks for coming to my Ted Talk! May God bless you and yours…

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THE RIPPLE EFFECT

Alysia Nicholle Moore, more commonly known as Ally Moore, was a sold-out Christian, a loving friend, and a beautiful family member. Ally was born on October 6, 2004, in Texarkana and is described by her father, Joseph Moore, as the perfect baby. “She was the baby that never cried and was always content. Some of my earliest memories with Ally are singing her to sleep every night. She was also an intelligent child, catching onto things very well. I could tell there was something special about Ally, that she would be a world-changer and could pretty much accomplish anything,” Joseph says.

Ally was very unique and the center of attention. Of course, this sparked some sibling rivalry, but there was no doubt that Ally loved them dearly.

Ally’s younger years were filled with gymnastics and competition cheer with North East Texas Elite Gymnastics, Dance & Cheer. “I remember when Ally would hold my hands and use her feet to climb up my body and flip over. That is how we started teaching her to tumble. That is one of my favorite memories with her,” Ally’s father says. Everything that Ally decided to do, she excelled at it with her go-getter attitude. “One time, I took Ally and her sisters to Magic Springs, and there was an attraction that emulated surfing. She was the type of kid who could figure it out and have it down the first try. She was good at everything!”

Ally began schooling at Morris Elementary, excelling in her grades, then onto Texas Middle School, and finished her high school career at Texas High School, where she graduated in 2023. Cheerleading was everything to Ally during her high school years. “She was great at it! I enjoyed watching her cheer at various games!” her father adds.

Joseph clearly remembers teaching Ally to drive. “I live in the country, and Ally came to visit eight years ago. I remember her learning to drive in my Kia Soul. She was excited about driving and was so focused. I would stare at her and tell her how great of a job she was doing. Anything she did, she wanted to do the best, including driving,” Joseph says.

Ally held an entrepreneurial and creative spirit. “In elementary school, she started a shoe company. Ally and her friend bedazzled and dyed white shoes. She was independently businessminded. Later, she had a golden retriever, Lottie Mae, who inspired her to open her own small business, L&M Bandanas.”

Ally was a friend who would go above and beyond for the ones she loved. It did not matter what Ally had going on in her life; she always placed her friends before her personal ambitions. “She made sure to console her friends who were down or having a hard time. She was there to walk through life with them and encourage them along the way,” Joseph says. “Ally never met a stranger; she was a person who would make friends in any environment and uplift anyone and everyone. She was the life of the party and a sense of security.” Ally’s friends describe her as a person who was there for everyone. Ally touched so many lives – through school, her time as a Brookhill counselor, her sporting career, and beyond – she created a ripple effect.

God was everything to Ally – He was first and foremost in her life. Her father says, “She definitely

believed in redeemed salvation through Jesus Christ. She was raised that way, and it was something she carried. She had a strong identity in Christ. Ally was good about sharing her faith with her friends and on social media. She was not ashamed of her faith and never withdrew from it.”

After high school, Ally began her college studies at Arkansas State University. A member of the Alpha Gamma Delta Sorority, Ally studied psychology with the dream of helping special needs children. Naturally, she also cheered with the A-State Spirit Squads, and her teammates reflected on how they were forever touched and impacted by Ally’s life.

What may have seemed like a perfect life was only part of the story. She faced struggles at Arkansas State and needed to return to Texarkana after the spring semester. There were moments of isolation, and sometimes, they overwhelmed Ally’s joy. On February 7, 2025, Ally Moore took her own life. She struggled silently while having so many positive accomplishments in her life. One may never fully understand the true reason why this unfortunate event occurred but by pulling back the layers, her father hopes one person can be helped through Ally’s legacy. “The enemy wants to rob us of our joy by deception. He makes us think we are only defined by our mistakes and failures. I want to encourage everyone to lean into the pain of their current situation because the only way to get past a hard time is to go through the valley (Psalm 23:4),” Joseph says. “So many kids, just like Ally, are struggling silently. Social media is a pressure of its own – seeing all the highlights of people’s lives left Ally feeling like she was not living up to being the best. Everyone gives their highlights; they never display their struggles in life on there. Ally was also a go-getter and perfectionist, and the weight of school and the thought of not being able to return to school created a feeling of despair that stole her hope of the future that she had excitedly dreamed of and worked hard for. That burden of despair can lead us into a mental state of tunnel vision and the illusion of being stuck where we are forever without hope of another outcome.”

Joseph’s wishes today are for everyone to be the example Ally set when it came to being kind to everyone. “You never know what the person across from you is dealing with or going through. Your kindness could affect the trajectory of their life. A kind word, a smile, a ‘How can I help you?’ could change someone’s path. Unfortunately, in this culture, we pass by others without ever saying hi. Let’s stop and, just like Ally, realize that you can help someone, and it doesn’t have to be on a large scale. Do something small and be the ripple effect,” Joseph says.

“The number of people that showed up at Ally’s funeral was amazing and a beautiful testament to the lives she touched on this earth. Brookhill counselors, some of whom she had not even met, came. That shows Ally’s ripple effect as a person. It speaks volumes.”

Joseph believes that Ally would want others to seek help when they feel stuck in life. Daryl Mitchell, a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in the private practice of psychotherapy, provided insight into suicidal feelings and advice for those who may be facing a similar situation or know someone. Daryl has a Bachelor of Business Administration and a Master of Social Work from the University of Arkansas at Little Rock. He has taught at the university level and has counseled people of all ages in inpatient and outpatient settings.

“Everyone has a narrative about ourselves that we live by. If something goes terribly wrong with that narrative, then suicide is a thought that comes to us. Most people bat it away, but then other times, the threat to ourselves is more serious. Anybody and everybody is at risk for suicide. You can never know how someone thinks or feels about themselves, and it can change really fast,” Daryl says.

Many times, when a person commits suicide, they do not let anyone know. The ones who talk about suicide are asking for help from their friends or family. Daryl believes you must take every conversation seriously and not gloss it over. “Don’t say, ‘Oh, you’re ok, everybody loves you, you’re so great.’ That may not be what the person is feeling or thinking. You have to actually ask them, ‘What’s happening? How are you doing? Have you had any disappointments lately?’” Daryl says.

“Risk factors leading to suicide can include substance abuse, big disruptions in the family like divorce or separation, financial losses, and the death of someone close, especially if the death was from a suicide,” Daryl says. “Some warning signs that someone may be at risk for committing suicide include them talking about the future without them in it and people who start giving away their things. Also, if they have been depressed and all of a sudden, they are happy about everything, that is a warning sign. It may be that they have been struggling with the decision to end their life, and now they’ve decided to go through with the action.”

If you believe someone you know is struggling with suicide, the best plan of action is to get them to talk about how they feel, how they see themselves, and what they believe about their life and

how it is going. Daryl said to help them see positive attributes and be more hopeful. “Hope is the opposite of depression. If you want to know how to cure depression, it is through hope. A person has to have hope – even the Bible says that. ‘Sorrow not, even as others who have no hope.’ Encourage that person to re-think how they are thinking about themselves and their life. Suicide occurs when someone has decided the narrative of their life is false, not working, hopeless, or cannot get better.”

Daryl also encourages younger people to bring in a trusted adult, a parent, a teen pastor at church, or a school counselor. “Let your friend know how much you love and care for them, and ask for their consent to bring in a trusted adult to help with the situation. Offer to go with your friend and have the tough conversation,” Daryl says. “Do not ever be embarrassed to ask your friend if they are suicidal or have had those thoughts come to their mind.”

Even though having these types of conversations is very uncomfortable, it is worth it. Daryl explains, “I am 63 and cannot believe the pressure on our young people. They are scrutinized and judged – everyone watches every single move they make. If I wanted to play sports one year and skip the next, no one said anything. The pressure also comes academically. There is so much pressure to be perfect, have your grades perfect, and have your social life perfect – it is as if they don’t have room to make mistakes. I’m not just thinking about high school kids, but also young adults, like Ally Moore.”

Suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Even if your life is not living up to the narrative you have set forth in your head, you are still loved and wanted. Give yourself grace when life’s mistakes happen, realize you are not alone, and the pain you are currently coping with can be overcome with help.

It is important to note that thoughts and actions are two different things—your suicidal thoughts do not have to become a reality. There is no deadline; no one’s pushing you to act on these thoughts immediately.

Wait.

Wait and put some distance between your suicidal thoughts and suicidal actions.

Find someone you trust and let them know how bad things are. Do not let fear, shame, or embarrassment prevent you from seeking help. If the first person you reach out to doesn’t seem to understand, try someone else.

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The Glass Firm is pleased to announce the association of Nick Newton, Of Counsel, with the firm.

Nick brings over 20 years of legal experience as a transactional attorney in real estate, probate, estate planning and taxation, and providing guidance to various business entities. He has represented numerous individuals and businesses throughout the country including the greater Texarkana area. Nick is licensed to practice law in all state courts in Texas and Arkansas. He received his Bachelor of Business Administration (BBA) from Baylor University, Master of Business Administration (MBA) from the University of Central Arkansas, Juris Doctor (JD) from the University of Arkansas at Little Rock and Master of Law (LLM) in Taxation from Southern Methodist University. Nick is also a Certified Public Accountant (CPA) in Texas. Please call to schedule an appointment with Nick to discuss your real estate and estate planning needs, federal and state tax questions, tax preparation and returns, or the needs of your business organization. We are excited about this opportunity to offer additional services to our clients with the addition of Nick to our legal team.

Joyce Miller, a mother, grandmother, greatgrandmother, retired nurse, and now aesthetician, is a Christian woman and inspiration to younger women. “As anyone has, I have dealt with setbacks in my career and personal life over the past 70 years,” Joyce says. “I have been very fortunate to have wonderful friendships with godly individuals who have provided the right encouragement and counsel just when I needed it. My relationship with God has given me the faith to know that I do not have to tackle obstacles alone, and while I know it is easy to get caught up in circumstances and pain, I remember that my glass is never half empty.”

Joyce’s past experiences and her faith allow her to encourage young girls to embrace their strength and potential. “Young women should be offered respect and encouragement to step out of their comfort zones and reminded that it only takes three seconds of bravery to potentially

JOYCE MILLER Aesthetician, Beauty and Wellness Center

make a change in their lives. We should pray over them and for them and allow them the opportunities to be successful through leadership programs in and out of school. Young women should believe that they can do anything they set their minds to, and we can do that by volunteering our time and mentorship to them,” she says.

Joyce began her life journey in Vivian, Louisiana, with her parents Jewel and Lillian Treadway. She is the middle child of two brothers, Alvin and Curtis. “My family and I moved to San Manuel, Arizona, where my father worked in a copper mine when I was a young child. I have always been very close to my brothers, who were my best playmates. I was a bit of a tomboy and spent all my time outside playing baseball, riding a skateboard, and exploring the deserts and caves of Arizona. After a strike at the mine, our family moved back to Texarkana, where I attended and graduated from Texas High School. While at Texas High School, I also obtained a license in cosmetology,” Joyce says.

With the cosmetology license Joyce earned during high school, she put herself through the nursing program at Texarkana College, where she became a registered nurse in her 20s. Joyce then worked for 38 years in the nursing field and retired. However, she was not ready to go home and sit down; she was ready for a new adventure. “I have always loved skincare, so I applied for a job with Dr. David and Susan Whitten at the Beauty and Wellness Center. I provide facials, microdermabrasion, and multiple other skincare procedures here. We have machines for skin tightening, cellulite reduction, laser hair removal, as well as our Venus machines that are FDA approved for fibromyalgia. I love my job and the people I work with. We have a real family feel to our office, and I look forward to seeing my clients who have become great friends of mine,” Joyce says.

Joyce enjoys her growing family as well. “I have a son, Chad, and a daughter, Kari. They have blessed me with four grandchildren and two great-grandchildren, with one more on the way!”

she says. Joyce delights in being a special guest in her daughter’s classroom setting. She says, “Kari is a culinary arts teacher at Paul Pewitt High School, and I enjoy helping out in her kitchen and classroom with her students. I teach them about the importance of proper handwashing techniques and speak on certain food-borne illnesses that can occur from improper food handling and poor cooking practices. I am able to share with them health cases that I have witnessed during my career as a nurse.” However, that is not the only way Joyce gives back. “Church is an important part of my life, and through ministry, I am able to volunteer for community service events that focus on women’s services, expectant mothers, and children’s ministries. Through my job at the Beauty and Wellness Center, we provide skincare education, product sampling, and mini-procedures at local events, nursing homes, and church outreach programs. I have enjoyed volunteering and pouring out God’s love to women at events such as Remember Me with Joy and Fearfully and Wonderfully Made.”

Because self-care and mental wellness are so important for women and mothers to keep their tanks full to run their homes, careers, and personal lives, Joyce encourages the women in her life to find an activity that rejuvenates their minds and bodies. She says, “I have a sign in my house that says, ‘My Therapist Lives in the Barn.’ I have horses that provide companionship, sometimes frustrations, but always entertainment and unconditional love. In addition to my horses, I enjoy dancing. Not only is it great exercise, but I also love music, and when I hear a great beat, I can’t stay in my seat. I participate in Country Western dancing locally and at festivals

in Texas, Louisiana, and Oklahoma. In the past few years, I have started West Coast Swing, which I do two or three times a week here in Texarkana and at events in Arkansas.”

Joyce believes that knowledge is power, and any woman who wants to be in leadership should educate herself and then set goals. “Women aspiring to be leaders should build strong relationships and

keep the company of others in positive leadership positions that will help you achieve the goals you have set for yourself. Women should build one another up and celebrate each other’s accomplishments,” Joyce says.

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Mendy Sharp was born to her parents and one older sister in Fort Worth, Texas. Shortly after, she moved to East Texas, where she was raised in the city of Maud. Mendy stayed active in extracurricular activities and in the teen group at Maud First Baptist Church, where she helped in the nursery and often played her clarinet in church.

After graduating in the top ten of her class at Maud High School, she attended Texarkana College, earning an associate’s degree, and transferred to Texas A&M UniversityTexarkana to complete her bachelor’s degree and teacher prep program. Mendy began her teaching profession, and after ten years, she returned to the same university to earn a master’s degree in Curriculum and Instruction, a Principal certification, and a Superintendent certification. “I was driven by my constant passion for learning, my desire to have new experiences and to help others grow and learn,” Mendy says.

MENDY SHARP

Executive Director of Community and Business Education, Texarkana College

Today, Mendy is married to her husband, Kevin Sharp, and they have two children: Seth (22) and Kaylynn (18). “Motherhood is a journey filled with both incredible highs and challenging lows. A former teacher, colleague, and mentor once told me when I was a new mother, ‘Your children will bring you your greatest joy and your greatest sorrow.’ That statement means more today than ever before, as it is etched into this path of being a mother. The joys of this journey include the unconditional love that develops between mother and child and the personal growth that comes from nurturing and guiding them. The joy of celebrating their milestones and successes brings you more pride than any success you have ever achieved on your own. However, motherhood also brings in a flood of guilt and self-doubt. Working mom guilt is real when you are trying to serve and balance work life and family life, instill a spiritual life, and grow your own. Sleep deprivation and loss of independence can be a challenge as you navigate all the developmental changes that come with raising kids,” Mendy explains.

Maintaining the balance of work life, motherhood, and self-care does not come without practice.

Mendy’s spiritual life is closely intertwined with her self-care and mental wellbeing. “Studying the Word of God, spending time in prayer, and quiet time in the Word are hallmarks for me and my mental well-being. Also, calling on the prayer warriors God has blessed me with when I physically and emotionally can’t do it alone,” she says. “In 2018, my husband was diagnosed with a rare head and neck cancer. My son had just entered high school, my daughter was in the fifth grade, and I was in my first year as a high school principal, which was a very demanding job. This diagnosis changed the footprint of our lives from that day forward. We were quickly thrust into what seemed like a new universe, requiring my husband to move to Houston to receive daily treatments at MD Anderson. I was left in Texarkana with the kids, trying to maintain normalcy

for them, lead a high school of 700 students, and commute on weekends and breaks to support and care for my husband. I had always been the one to help others and struggled to receive help; however, this season forced me to accept help and call on others directly to help me stay afloat. The love, kindness and service we experienced from our family, friends, church family, neighbors and strangers were truly the hands and feet of Christ at work.”

Through the journey of her education career, Mendy now enjoys a successful career as the Executive Director of Community and Business Education at Texarkana College. Her department at Texarkana College allows her to foster lifelong learning in our community. She works with instructors and trainers to build and offer training programs that upskill the workforce, attain workforce credentials, or build classes that allow individuals to pursue a skill or a hobby.

Mendy remains very invested in education and often volunteers her time through different agencies. “I serve on the Executive Board of a state committee for Texas Administrators in Continuing Education. I also serve on the planning committee for this state organization, planning

the annual conference. I have been a session facilitator for two years and will be facilitating two sessions at the 2025 conference. I have also been the President of the Pleasant Grove High School Theatre Booster Club for two years and chaired the club’s fundraising committee,” Mendy says.

Mendy also gives back to the Texarkana community through her church and Leadership Texarkana. She states, “For almost 20 years, my family has been active members at Northern Hills Baptist Church, formerly County Avenue. During this time, I served in the church nursery, taught various ages

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in Sunday School, led and served in various Vacation Bible School roles, and served in other capacities. Additionally, I currently serve on the Board of Directors for Leadership Texarkana, where my primary responsibility is planning professional learning sessions for the community with others on the planning committee.”

Mendy’s advice for younger women includes embracing your unique strengths and perspectives, as they are invaluable in any leadership role. “Don’t be afraid to take risks and step outside your comfort zone. Look at challenges as an opportunity to explore and create

solutions. Prioritize your spiritual life and self-care, and always have a trusted mentor in front of you and behind you. Remember most of all that leadership is not title or authority; it’s about collaborating, inspiring, and empowering,” Mendy says.

Mendy challenges the current generation to take every opportunity as women leaders to mentor a young girl. Volunteer in church or in community organizations that give you the chance to inspire them and build their confidence in who they are and what they have to offer.

TRACY SPRADLIN

Owner & Broker, Impact Realty Group LLC

Tracy Spradlin, owner and broker of Impact Realty Group LLC, exemplifies a strong woman who has made a successful career in the real estate business. Tracy spent her childhood in different areas as her father was a Sargent Major in the United States Army. Tracy and her two brothers and one sister lived in Montgomery, Alabama, and then transferred to Stuttgart, Germany. The family was eventually transferred to Jackson, Mississippi, and after her father’s retirement, they settled in his hometown of New Boston, Texas, where Tracy graduated high school. “My parents were my biggest cheerleaders and supportive of me no matter what I was going through. They both gave me the best guidance in life I could have ever hoped to have,” Tracy says. “My mom taught me to be independent and go after anything I wanted to achieve in life. They were the best role models and the most amazing and loving parents.”

Tracy attended Texarkana College and obtained

her Accounting Degree soon after. She then married the love of her life, Bill Spradlin. “Bill works hard to make all my dreams come true. He makes all my spontaneous ideas come to fruition!” Tracy says. Together, the couple has two amazing children: a son, Payton Laney, and a daughter, Megan Trubia. They also have three grandchildren: Laiken (8), Elaina (6), and Emilia (1).

Tracy describes motherhood, saying, “The most fun I had was spending time with the kids going to baseball games, soccer, football, dance and majorette and band events. That is where lots of memories were made. The best part of being a parent is watching your kids grow up to be amazing adults, achieving all their goals, and then becoming parents. Our grandchildren are our pride and joy. We are at every milestone and event in their lives that we can possibly attend. They say there is no love like it until you have grandchildren; that is absolutely true.”

As a bustling career woman, Tracy states there is no “typical day” in the real estate world. “Every day brings something new. Impact Realty Group LLC is a Real

Estate Office and Property Management Company. There is never a dull moment when you deal with sellers, buyers, and the property management side. It definitely keeps the days interesting!” Tracy explains.

Real Estate has many ups and downs, and Tracy warns that you must prepare yourself for the feast and famine sides of the business. “When starting our own business in 2008, we went through plenty of struggles. There were many growing pains, and we had to navigate what was best for our company and fit how we wanted our business to grow. We decided to build our office, which was a big step and a little scary financially— sometimes stepping out of your comfort zone pays off. You just have to believe in yourself. Fortunately, I have an awesome husband who supports me and tries to make all my dreams come true!” Tracy says.

Tracy also has a life outside the real estate world filled with shopping, working out, and self-care. “I work out every day, either doing Pilates or riding my Peloton bike. Spending time at our lake house works wonders for my

mental well-being. And talking to one of the grandkids or all of them on Facetime each day puts the biggest smile on my face,” she says. Tracy also gives to the Texarkana community through donations to school organizations and serving on past committees for the Race for the Cure.

Her advice to younger women is to always believe in yourself and never give up on your dreams or goals. “Try to seek opportunities to develop leadership skills early, focus on building strong communication skills and listening abilities. Try to empower others while also learning from mistakes you make along the way. Seek mentorship and practice leadership behaviors,” Tracy says.

When asked what Tracy would say to her 25-year-old self, she mentioned, “Don’t be afraid to follow your dreams. Take the big steps early in life, and do not wait for the right time. If you think you are ready for whatever you want to achieve in life, know you are. I guess if there is one statement or more like an attitude or motto, mine would be ‘Bring it. I was made for this.’”

THE RUNNING LEGACY OF THE LANGFORDS

TONY AND COLTON LANGFORD

Tony Langford grew up in Gilmer, Texas, but his early life was difficult. His parents divorced at a young age, and Tony’s mother worked numerous hours to support the family, which led to her lack of presence in the home. “To be honest, I started drinking at the age of 12. I drank 24/7 and started getting into a ton of trouble. I was not a bad kid; I just did dumb things out of boredom,” Tony says.

“I started helping in my father’s roofing business, Randy Langford Roofing, when I was seven years old, cleaning the ground. At 12, I started nailing shingles part-time through the summers and weekends. At 16, when I quit school, I started working full-time. By 17, I was running a sub-crew for my father. I will say that in my early years, I looked at roofing as a miserable job. I hate the heat with a passion, so I looked at it as an ‘unimpressive’ job. But as I entered my mid-20s, I have grown to appreciate and be proud of what I do. This career has allowed me to support my family well. I am very proud of our legacy and our name,” Tony says.

Tony moved to Texarkana in his 20s and began advertising the Tony Langford Roofing & Construction business. He began doing one job here and another there, and the business bloomed once his name got out. Today, the company works on 16-25 houses per week, with their highest week yielding 32 houses.

“It doesn’t matter what I am doing in life – work, school, sports – I go all out. One of my kids said to me, ‘You are the most competitive guy I have ever seen.’ Well, it has gotten me to where I am today,” Tony says.

Tony welcomed his first son, Colton, when he was 18. “I put the brakes on my childhood dumb moves when I brought Colton home. I did not want my children to experience the childhood I grew up with. At first, I was excited to have Colton. I 100% did not know what I was doing, but having Colton was a great feeling,” he says. Tony worked a lot, but he knew the importance of spending a lot of time with Colton and did just that. The father-son duo started with sports, although Colton decided he did not like that. They often went to the movies and did other things that sparked Colton’s interest.

During high school, Colton excelled in his academic classes. He graduated from Pleasant Grove High School in 2016 and began his collegiate studies at Henderson State University. Soon, he graduated Magna Cum Laude with a bachelor’s degree in history and a minor

in political science. “Colton graduated with honors and received a 50% scholarship to law school. He earned his Juris Doctorate and Graduate Certificate in Business Law, cum laude, from the University of Arkansas School of Law, Fayetteville,” Tony says. Most of Colton’s work experience was in the legal aid field, helping low-income people get the legal help they needed but could not afford. With Colton’s efforts, he was awarded the Pro Bono Student Volunteer of the Year Award from the Legal Aid of Arkansas and was a recipient of the Pro Bono Silver Medallion at the University of Arkansas School of Law.

The father-son duo decided to embark upon a two-week vacation before Colton faced the bar exam. “We drove the entire Route 66!” Tony says. “Afterwards, Colton worked as a legal aid at Langdon Davis while preparing for his bar exam. Colton took the Arkansas Bar Exam in February 2023 and scored the highest in Arkansas and the top one percent of nationwide scores. Colton received several job offers and settled with the Langdon Davis Law Firm in Texarkana.”

Today, Colton enjoys a successful career at the local law firm. He does not specialize in one specific area; rather, he practices family law, contract drafting, business law, and personal injury. “Colton is built completely on logic. Every decision is calculated and thought out. He is very honest, caring, and goodhearted,” Tony says.

Colton recently won the prestigious 2024 Texarkana’s Top Young Lawyer award, which is voted on by Texarkana residents through ALT Magazine.

Tony desired for Colton to become a good, hardworking, intelligent, kind, and happy son. Colton did just that. He took the framework his father provided and shaped his character and approach to life into something Tony is extremely proud of today. “I am proud of the man Colton is, how he treats people, his work ethic, and his accomplishments. He genuinely is a good person. Not all my kids operate like Colton; I’ve never had to force him to do things in life. He has been a God-send as a son and saved me a lot of stress and headaches,” Tony says.

Drug Take Back Initiative Operation Medicine Cabinet

The Texarkana Arkansas Police Department is proud to partner with Texarkana Emergency Center in an effort to remove unused and out of date prescription medicines from your homes.

•It is important to know that law enforcement is only interested in the removal of unused and/or outdated medications from the homes of our citizens.

•It matters not whose name is on the prescription, by whom it was prescribed, where it was prescribed, or where you reside.

•We stress that it makes no difference if you live in Texas or Arkansas.

•We take back all medications, no questions asked. You can remove the label if you desire but it’s not necessary.

•We ask that you do not deposit needles (sharps), inhalers, medication from businesses or clinics, ointments, lotions, liquids, aerosol cans, hydrogen peroxide, or thermometers.

One box has been placed behind the Bi State Justice Building at 100 N. State Line Ave., Texarkana, Arkansas and another outside the Texarkana Emergency Center, 4646 Cowhorn Creek Rd., Texarkana, Texas. These boxes are regularly checked and the contents are immediately packaged for destruction. If you would like to personally drop your medications off to law enforcement, you can at the Miller County Sheriff’s Office on East Street and Bi State Justice Building in Texarkana.

National Take Back Day April 26, 2025 8am - 12pm at Texarkana Emergency Center & Hospital

You can learn more about this program by visiting www.artakeback.org or on Facebook by searching Arkansas Take Back or Arkansas Drug take Back.

I AM THE KEY TO YOUR DREAM HOME

Home Trends Real Estate Agents Are Loving for Boosting Home Sales!

When selling your home, these trends impact today’s market significantly! Here is what agents can’t get enough of:

Open, Airy Spaces

Buyers love homes that feel spacious and light. Knock down unnecessary walls or open up a room to make it feel bigger and more inviting!

Neutral Color Palettes

Soft, neutral colors (think warm grays, whites, and beige) make a home feel fresh and versatile—appealing to the widest range of buyers.

Sustainable Features

Eco-friendly upgrades, like energy-efficient appliances, solar panels, and low-flow fixtures, are in demand and can set your home apart!

Updated Kitchens and Bathrooms

Small refreshes, such as modern backsplashes, new hardware, and updated lighting, can make a huge difference without breaking the bank.

Smart Home Features

Think smart thermostats, lighting, and security systems— these tech-savvy upgrades are a must-have for today’s buyers!

Indoor-Outdoor Living

Creating seamless connections between indoor and outdoor spaces—whether a cozy patio or a beautifully landscaped garden—has never been more popular!

Want to make your home stand out in today’s competitive market? Contact me, and let’s

Selling season is officially in full swing! If you are looking to sell quickly, here is the most important tip: Price it right. First impressions matter; a well-priced home gets more attention and showings from the start. Overpricing can lead to your home sitting on the market longer, making buyers wonder if something is wrong. When priced right, you will attract buyers who are ready to make offers. In a hot market, a well-priced home will stand out and can lead to multiple offers!

Pricing strategically is the key to a fast sale, so let’s make sure you are set up for success!

KEEP AN EYE OUT FOR HIDDEN GEMS

Real Estate Easter Eggs? Let’s Decode Them!

In the world of real estate, Easter eggs are hidden gems or subtle details in a property that might not be immediately obvious but hold incredible value or potential! These can be anything from unexpected features to clever design elements that make a home stand out. Here is what to look out for:

Unique Architecture

Hidden spaces or quirky design features that give a home character.

Landscaping Surprises

Secret garden spots, beautiful trees, or hidden patios that add charm.

Quality Finishes

High-end appliances or materials tucked away that boost the home’s value.

Bonus Storage

Unexpected closets, attic space, or even basement potential that adds functional value.

Pro Tip: When touring homes, look for these hidden gems. They could be the reason a house is worth more than it seems at first glance.

What Easter eggs have you discovered in your home search?

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Runnin' WJ Ranch and Texarkana Resources for the Disabled, Inc. have partnered together to raise money for individual with disabilities in the community. They will be hosting the first ever Pork on a Fork Fundraiser.

This event will be an evening of delicious BBQ food, refreshing brews, live music and more. This event will be supporting 2 non-profits with 1 mission, to improve the lives of those with disabilities!

Our goal is $30,000, and every cent of it will go toward our programs supporting people with disabilities. For more information about our inaugural Pork on a Fork Fundraiser, please visit our website runninwjranch.com.

When a buyer or seller chooses a Realtor® to act on their behalf, they’re also handing over enormous responsibility. Debbie Brower is not only aware of this responsibility, Debbie lives and breathes it every day. For years, she has assisted individuals and companies throughout the area in growing their business. She now has chosen to channel that energy to help you with your real estate needs.

A great result happens when your Realtor® has the systems and support to take care of every detail. The very best results are created by following a proven formula. Hope is not a strategy and luck is not a factor. As she has always done, Debbie will work hard for you. Call 903-278-4444 for an appointment today!

Debbie Brower

PUTTING MORE LIFE INTO THE 10-YEAR RULE

RETIREMENT & LONGEVITY

Non-eligible designated beneficiaries have 10 years to draw down inherited qualified retirement accounts; here, we explore ways to extend the life of that wealth.

With the recent finalization of the 10-year rule for IRAs, introduced by the SECURE Act, beneficiaries of qualified retirement accounts now need to think more strategically about what they’re inheriting.

“Historically, the strategy was simple: owners would put as much money as they could into qualified accounts, because beneficiaries could then roll those funds into inherited IRAs and take distributions over their life expectancies,” says Jim Kidney, CPWA®, who supervises the financial planning consulting practice at Raymond James. “Then the SECURE Act comes along, and what could’ve been payments over multiple decades is now payments over one.”

The rule requires that non-eligible beneficiaries – broadly, non-spousal beneficiaries of an account – deplete the funds inherited from a qualified account within 10 years of the owner’s passing.

But even with the addition of a countdown clock, there are ways for beneficiaries to make the most of the time they have.

The rules of the rule

As we covered in another recent article on the 10-year rule, it applies differently to

different beneficiaries. There are two overall categories: eligible designated beneficiaries and non-eligible designated beneficiaries. For the eligible set, the rule doesn’t actually change much. Most can still open an inherited IRA and elect to take distributions over their life expectancies, with children being eligible until they reach 21, at which point the 10-year rule kicks in.

For non-eligible heirs, however, the 10year rule is universal, but the way in which distributions can or must be taken differs.

If an account owner passes away before reaching their required beginning date, the day they must take their first RMD, a beneficiary has more distribution flexibility. They can elect consistent or graduated distributions over all or some of the 10 years. Or, they can take a lump sum in the 10th year.

In cases where an account owner has already taken one or more RMDs before death, the beneficiary must also take RMDs. They can elect to take more than the minimum, but the RMD must be taken each year.

There’s also the most clear-cut option: An heir could opt to take a lump-sum payment in lieu of opening an inherited IRA with the

funds. For substantial accounts, however, this would generate a significant tax bill and is generally to be avoided.

Planning, Jim says, is now a critical factor for beneficiaries. “Things have gotten much more complex. It’s really important for all the parties involved to be aware of the requirements and to have strategic discussions that include professional advisors.”

To maximize, start by minimizing

Jim also emphasizes the outsized role taxes play in these situations.

There are some steps account owners can take pre-emptively to benefit their heirs, like converting a traditional IRA to a Roth account and paying taxes up front so beneficiaries can inherit the account tax-free, if certain criteria are met. But once a qualified account changes hands, strategic timing becomes key.

Beneficiaries are often in their prime earning years and sitting in the attendant higher tax brackets, so taking larger distributions or a lump-sum could launch them into an even higher one.

If a beneficiary’s tax picture is unlikely to change much in the coming years, one option would be for them to take distributions proportionally over the 10-year window – in the first year, take one-tenth, then one-ninth, then oneeighth, etc.

Those closer to retirement might consider taking the minimum distribution or, if it’s an option, taking nothing while they’re still working, and then once they retire, begin taking distributions or begin taking larger ones.

Whatever the strategy, having one is now an important part of the conversation. And having conversations, Jim says, especially those between account owners and their beneficiaries, is crucial.

Saving it forward

Today’s beneficiaries are tomorrow’s benefactors. And what they’re learning about the process of inheriting an asset like this now, can be used to help set their own heirs up for success.

“It’s about being more mindful of what you’ll be passing along,” Jim says. “The chairs have been rearranged to a degree, so it’s important to take the time to think about what you want for your heirs and plan accordingly.”

One area where he recommends extra deliberation is who an account owner names as their beneficiary in the first place.

People typically name a spouse or significant other. In the case of a large IRA, a more strategic approach would be to split things up, leaving 80% to a spouse and 20% to children, for example. The spouse could then name the children as their beneficiaries and potentially extend the account’s life across two 10-year clocks.

A potential beneficiary’s tax position is also important. For example, if an account owner has heirs in different tax brackets, those in the lower bracket might be better candidates to inherit a large IRA.

“The worst thing you can do here is ignore it,” Jim says. “It’s important as an owner and as a beneficiary to consider this as part of your overall finances and to have a plan.”

This material is being provided for information purposes only and is not a complete description, nor is it a recommendation. Raymond James does not provide tax or legal advice. Please discuss these matters with the appropriate professional. Withdrawals from tax-deferred accounts may be subject to income taxes, and prior to age 59.5 a 10% federal penalty tax may apply.

Converting a traditional IRA into a Roth IRA may involve additional taxation. When converted to a Roth, you pay federal income taxes on the converted amount, but no further taxes in the future. Unless certain criteria are met, Roth IRA owners must be 59½ or older and have held the IRA for five years before tax-free withdrawals are permitted. Each converted amount is subject to its own five-year holding period, unless the owner is 59.5 or older.

Raymond James & Associates, Inc., member New York Stock Exchange / SIPC, and Raymond James Financial Services, Inc., member FINRA / SIPC, are subsidiaries of Raymond James Financial, Inc.

Raymond James® and Raymond James Financial® are registered trademarks of Raymond James Financial, Inc.

© 2023 Raymond James Financial, Inc. All rights reserved.

Suzie TK SnippeTS

How Do You Begin Writing a Book?

My vision of a writer was someone sitting at a typewriter, repeatedly pulling a page out of the carriage and throwing the crumpled pages in the trash because of a mistyped sentence or idea.

I’m one of those folks who never thought I was a writer but had a story to tell. My comfort zone was a piano bench. I began playing when I was 9 years old, and played by ear; if you hummed it, I could play it. Now, my piano bench has become a writer’s pen. I didn’t stop playing; I added writing to my achievements list.

There is a book in all of us. Writing your life history is a legacy for your children, grandchildren, and greatgrandchildren, and you learn a lot about yourself. These stories will be lost if you don’t write them down. Begin typing your thoughts, and before long, you have a book. I was 73, so age is not a deterrent.

Each year, on Valentine’s Day, my friends encouraged me to write a condensed version of the events of my love story. My husband and I met and fell in love in 1958, but a returned letter separated us. Fifteen years later, while miles apart, we found our way back to each other, and seven months later, we married. During those months of dating, he wrote me the most beautiful love letters and captured my heart.

The impossibility of finding each other again in a world without technology or the Internet was a stroke of luck. With over 450 miles separating us, we knew getting back together without a Google app was a “God thing.”

In 2015, I was devastated by the loss of my husband. He was my life! To find comfort in my grief, I began reading the hundreds of 45-year-old letters, and yes, I had kept them all. As I read them, I realized I had many memories to write down.

There is a lot of research involved in writing. Whether fiction or non-fiction, you must have your data correct. You can’t write a story describing a movie in a book set in the ‘60s, but the film you referenced was not released until 1970.

It took several years of research and numerous interviews while traveling back 50 years. In the process, I enjoyed expressing myself on paper and started writing stories about them. Now, I have published a few short stories on Amazon.

AGAINST ALL ODDS We Found The Perfect Love is a beautiful 454-page love story that reveals how we went against the odds of finding each other again and blending two hearts with perfect love. My Love Story In A Nutshell is the condensed version.

I gained a new respect for writers. Now, when I walk into any bookstore, I don’t see books but the time to write them.

We each have a story to tell. Begin yours today.

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Fish Tales with Mike Brower

Ramp Etiquette 101

As spring approaches, the weekend boaters will be venturing out to test the waters. We have all been at the ramp when “Joe the Moron” gets there to launch or take out his boat. You know the guy: he pulls up, then backs down taking up the whole ramp so no one else can use it. He then proceeds to take everything out of the truck and loads it into the boat taking time to have lunch or dinner in the process.

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You would think that kind of guy would figure out that the other ten boats/trailers lined up waiting on him need to get on with their business too. But he pays no attention to those around him because he is trying to direct the family, load the boat, and then launch. Don’t be that kind of guy. (We do make fun of them.) They need to be reminded that the ramp is for launching or loading and not for making sure the beer has ice or the sandwiches are loaded, or whether there are enough life jackets. All that should be done BEFORE you back down the ramp away from the head of the ramp, and out of everyone’s way. When you start to load or unload, a decent boater should only be on the ramp for less than 90 seconds unless you are driving, loading/unloading by yourself. Take any more time than that and you are a “Ramp Hog.” Don’t be that guy. Sunday Services, 10 am 2101 E 50th St, Texarkana, AR 71854

April EVENTS IN TEXARKANA, USA

Cece Winans will be LIVE at First Baptist Church in Texarkana, TX. Tickets can purchased by scanning the QR code. Concert attendees should expect a night of worship that is unapologetically honest, celebratory, and unifying, where the full body of Christ can come and worship our King, Jesus, TOGETHER!

Learn to sow throw pillows, clothing, bags, blankets, quilts and more! Adult and children classes with beginner and advanced lessons available. Bring your own sewing machine and join the Texarkana, Arkansas Recreation Center from 9:00am-3:00pm.

Experience the world’s most in-demand ballet, “Swan Lake,” presented by Classical Arts Entertainment and performed by the State Ballet Theatre of Ukraine. A full-scale production features Tchaikovsky’s legendary score, along with the exquisite Artistic Direction by Andrei Litvinov, bringing the masterpiece choreography by Marius Petipa and Lev Ivanov to life. Tickets availbe at the Perot Theatre.

STATE OF THE CITIES

Join the Texarkana Chamber of Commerce for the annual State of the Cities Breakfast, where local leaders come together to share key updates, accomplishments, and future plans for our region. This highly anticipated event will feature a year-in-review from the mayors of Texarkana, AR; Texarkana, TX; and Nash, TX, offering valuable insights into the progress, challenges, and vision for each city. This breakfast gathering provides a unique opportunity for business professionals, community members, and local stakeholders to hear firsthand about economic developments, infrastructure improvements, and initiatives shaping the future of the Texarkana region.

April 11th from 6-9pm in Downtown Texarkana!

CASA and the Texarkana Children’s Advocacy Center invite

you to join them on Saturday, April 26th, 2025, for their annual Colorful 5K. The 11th CASA & TCAC Colorful 5k is a 3.1-mile fitness run/walk within the 145 acres of Spring Lake Park. Onsite registration begins at 8:00 am. The kids’ race will start at 8:30 am and the adult race will start at 9:00 am. Register by April 4th to be guaranteed a t-shirt and color bag. Register at https://runsignup.com/ Race/TX/Texarkana/CASAColorful5K

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