SE21 December 2020

The only Community Magazine for Dulwich Village & West Dulwich Established 2006

Issue 169 - December 2020 In this issue What’s On Garden Talk Food & Drink Fitness Tips Link Age Southwark Pets Corner Education News The Last Word

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Welcome to SE21 Our last issue of the year and what a year it has been! I don’t think we are going to forget 2020 in a hurry. At the time of writing we are still in Lockdown 2.0 with no concrete news whether it will be lifted on the 2nd December. So as always please do check ahead if you are looking to go to an event or visit a shop, to make sure they are open. Even though many small business have had to close again for a month, so many now have a click and collect option; so please do support them if you can.

Our events pages start on page 6 this month with five full pages of online and in person events you can go to. Again, everything is subject to change, so please do check ahead. Remember to our visit our newly updated website www.arounddulwich.co.uk for our daily events calendar. Soon you will be able to add your own events, so watch this space.!

Link Age Southwark launch their Big Give Christmas Challenge with the opportunity to raise £24,000 in just 1 week! Full details pages 18 & 19.

The Central Southwark Community Hub (CSCH) has recently launched it’s Christmas Hamper Appeal and really need your donations. Find out more on page. 30.

The Last Word goes to Alastair Carnegie who is a local resident and owner of Carnegie Estate Agents Find out more on page 32.

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Angela Angela Burgess, Head of All Things Community SE Magazines/Around Dulwich

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Contents Welcome ..................................................................... 3 Events Calendar.......................................................... 4 What’s On.......................................... 6, 8, 10, 28 & 29 Garden Talk ............................................................. 12 Food & Drink ........................................................... 14 Fitness Tips............................................................... 16 Link Age Southwark Big Give Christmas Challenge.........................................................18 & 19

Pets Corner .............................................................. 20 Dulwich Hamlet Football Club .........................22 & 23 Financial Matters ..................................................... 24 Education News....................................................... 26 Central Southwark Community Hub Appeal ........... 30 The Last Word ......................................................... 32 Index ........................................................................ 34

January Deadline - 11 December (please allow an extra two days if design is required) To advertise in SE21 please contact Angela Burgess on 020 8693 9040 or e-mail: angela@semagazines.co.uk for further information. You can download our media pack from our website: www.semagazines.co.uk.

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Events Calendar - December Monday

Tuesday

30th

1st

A poetic evening with Barbara Kingsolver, see p6.

Wednesday

2nd

Thursday

3rd

Friday

4th

Saturday

5th

Sunday

6th

Tech Together, see p10.

BNI Adventurers Online Meeting, see p8.

Dulwich Park Amigo’s Magical Runners, p10.

New Mum’s Online pre-Christmas Group, see p6.

Show; Profits Explore your Voice by Weekly Horniman Live Stream Life to Albrighton Speaking & Exploring Market see p10.

Drawing & Painting, Tech Together, see p8 Community Centre Bell House Shakespeare, see p6. see p10.

Peckham Car Boot see p8.

Christmas Quiz, see Honor Oak WI, see p6. Zoom Portraiture @ Sale, see p10. page 8.

Dulwich Art Group, Dulwich Park see p8.

Runners see p6.

7th

8th

Monday Evening Bad Drawing Group, see p28.

Live Stream Life Short Post Life Drawing see p6.

Coping with Anxiety, see p28.

9th

10th

14th

21st

15th Coping with Anxiety, see p28.

New Mum’s Online Group, see p6.

16th

Guilded Walking Tour in Dulwich, see p29.

Live Stream Life Drawing & Painting, see p10.

The Arts Society Dulwich, p28.

17th

Honor Oak WI Craft Meeting, see p29.

Dulwich Park Runners see p8.

New Mum’s Online Group, see p6.

22nd

18th

23rd Zoom Portraiture @ Dulwich Art Group, see p8.

19th

29th

Bank Holiday Live Stream Life Drawing & Painting, see p8.

3oth Zoom Portraiture @ Dulwich Art Group, see p8.

Dulwich Park Runners, p10.

Weekly Horniman Market see p10.

20th

Pexmas Festive Market, see p29.

Live Stream Life Drawing & Painting, see p10.

BNI Adventurers Online Meeting, see p8.

Dulwich Park Runners, p10.

Weekly Horniman Market see p10.

Peckham Car Boot Sale, see p10.

24th BNI Adventurers Online Meeting, see p8.

25th Christmas Day

26th Boxing Day

27th Dulwich Park Runners, p10.

Weekly Horniman Market see p10.

Dulwich Park Runners see p8.

28th

13th

Tech Together, see p28

BNI Adventurers Online Meeting, see p8.

Pexmas Emporium, see p29.

Zoom Portraiture @ Dulwich Art Group, see p8.

Monday Evening Bad Drawing Group, see p28.

12th

Pexmas Festive Market, see p29.

Zoom Portraiture @ U3A Monthly meeting Dulwich Art Group, via Zoom p28 see p8.

Dulwich Park Runners see p8.

Monday Evening Bad Drawing Group, see p28.

11th

31st

1st

2nd

3rd

New Year’s Eve BNI Adventurers Online Meeting, see p8.

Dulwich Park Runners see p8.

Forthcoming Events Further details where available can be found in the News and Events pages 6, 8, 10, 28 & 29. Please read as not all the events can fit on the calendar!

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What's On - December Notice Please note that all this information was correct at the time of going to press. However please do check details ahead, as the lockdown may be extended and this could affect some events.

Tuesday 1 December: Explore Your Voice by Speaking and Exploring Shakespeare

Tuesday 1 December: Honor Oak WI We meet on the first Tuesday of each month, currently via Zoom, at 7:30pm. @honoroakwi @honoroakwi @Honoroak_WI / honoroakwi@gmail.com

Tuesdays 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 December: Dulwich Park Runners Social runs in small groups: we meet at 7:30pm on Tuesdays and 9am on Sunday mornings.

New runners welcome. All levels of ability are welcome. Social runs, lots of competitions, coaching and other great socially distanced activities. DPR: Building a Local Running Community www.dulwichparkrunners.co.uk or write to: enquiries@dulwichparkrunners.com

Tuesday 1st December A poetic evening with Barbara Kingsolver 10:30 - 11:30am. Bell House is pleased to welcome Matthew Collins back for ‘Speaking Shakespeare’, a four-part voice course focusing on Romeo and Juliet in which participants will explore Shakespeare’s most famous lovers by speaking them. www.bellhouse.co.uk/allevents

Tuesdays 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29 December: Life Drawing & Painting 7pm-8.30pm. This is an online drawing & painting session conducted via Zoom.Long pose life painting and drawing. A single pose held for three hours with 5 minute model breaks every 25 minutes. This class will be run by Freya Tate, a wonderful artist with a sharp eye and a playful line. The session will be life model focused but Freya will introduce chaotic elements to challenge you and move your drawing on to higher levels.

The Dulwich Art Group & School, 4a Champion Hill SE5 8AH. www.dulwichartgroup.co.uk.

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7.30pm. The poems of How to Fly (in Ten Thousand Easy Lessons) find breath and lightness in the common business of living, from the bestselling author of The Poisonwood Bible.

Join us for an evening with Barbara Kingsolver as she reads from her collection. Barbara Kingsolver’s generous collection is divided into thematic sections that loop and interweave to form a carefully patterned whole. A wonderful series of ‘How to’ poems that balance tonguein-cheek pragmatism with revelatory wisdom, a complicated yet affirmative family pilgrimage to Italy, cherished childhood memories, the perils and pleasures of being a [female] writer, elegies to lost loved ones, and elegies to the planet. https://www.village-books.co.uk/

Wednesdays 2, 9 & 16 December: Online New Mums’ Group 10.30am-12pm. Free online weekly drop-in group for mothers with children under one. All sessions are free and will be held using Zoom. You will need to register in order to access the link to join each session. Register via www.bellhouse.co.uk.

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Friday 4 December: Amigo’s Magical pre-Christmas Show!

11am. Join us for friendly and engaging sessions to help you make the most of the internet. www.bellhouse.co.uk.

Wednesdays 2, 9, 16, 23 & 30 December: ZOOM PORTRAITURE @ Dulwich Art Group & School 2pm-5pm. This is an online life drawing class with the Dulwich Art Group. This is a clothed portrait session conducted via Zoom to allow for interaction between participants. The Dulwich Art Group & School, 4a Champion Hill SE5 8AH. www.dulwichartgroup.co.uk.

Thursdays 3, 10, 17 & 24 December: BNI Adventurers (online meeting) 6.45am-8.30am. Are you looking to grow your business? We have kept £9.4million in the local economy this year alone. We’ve changed the way the world does business……now it Dulwich’s turn.

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Thursday 3 December: Bell House Christmas Quiz 2020 7.30pm-8.30pm. Begin your Christmas with Bell House!

Bell House presents its Christmas Quiz for 2020.

This year it will be online and you can join from the comfort of your own home. There is no entry fee but please donate to our pond project. Book at: https://www.bellhouse.co.uk/allevents

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Profits to Albrighton Community Centre 6pm-7pm. Get your sparkle and spells ready to have some fun!

Live from Hogwarts castle “AMIGO” will be making sweets out of smelly socks, ear wax and other weird stuff as well as showing you a range of other magical things. Get your magic wands and party outfits out for the ultimate magic show of 2020. Please arrive at Hogwarts (via the zoom link) 10 minutes early to be admitted to the Magic Waiting Room and the show will begin promptly at 6pm.

In this strange and difficult time, we live in, many things are different and the festive season is no exception but we will be sure to bring you some fantastic magical and fun entertainment that the whole family can enjoy together.

Once you have purchased a ticket, you will receive a Zoom link via email (please check your spam folder if not received within 2 working days or email inegbue@gmail.com and we will re-send the link). Profits will go to the Albrighton Community Centre Fridge, helping vulnerable families in need this autumn/winter.

We look forward to seeing you at the show :).

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What's On - December Saturdays 5, 12 & 19 December: Live Stream Life Drawing & Painting

Saturday 5 December: Tech Together - Making & Sending Christmas Cards Online 11am. Join us for friendly and engaging sessions to help you make the most of the internet. www.bellhouse.co.uk.

Sundays 6, 13, 20 & 27 December: The weekly Horniman Market

10am-1pm. This is a drop-in drawing and painting session with the Dulwich Art Group conducted via Zoom with limited studio slots.

Untutored sessions with a long pose generally held for three weeks giving the artist a chance to produce a more considered piece of work.

Our models are carefully chosen and are lit with professional lights. Advice is always on tap but we tend to leave you to your own devices unless encouraged. The Dulwich Art Group & School, 4a Champion Hill SE5 8AH. www.dulwichartgroup.co.uk.

Sundays, 6, 13, 20 & 27 December: Dulwich Park Runners Social runs in small groups: we meet at 9am on Sunday mornings. New runners welcome.

If you’d like to come along have a look at our website: www.dulwichparkrunners.co.uk or write to: enquiries@dulwichparkrunners.com All levels of ability are welcome. Social runs, lots of competitions, coaching and other great socially distanced activities. DPR: Building a Local Running Community

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10am – 3pm. The Market is still open with a smaller group of traders than usual, to provide essential food items including fresh fruit, vegetables, cheese, bread and meat. The Market will be accepting card payments only. During lockdown The Café and kiosks are also open as follows, for takeaway only: • Café – daily, 9am – 4pm • Bandstand kiosk – daily, 9am – 4pm • Café Terrace kiosk – weekends only, 11am – 4pm – serving sweet crepes and savoury galettes.

Please note, the Horniman Gardens and Gardens toilets are now open, with the usual Gardens opening hours. www.horniman.ac.uk.

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Garden Talk with Janine Winlaw | Instagram @janinewinlaw It’s chilly out there, the lawn’s looking muddy and the borders tatty, but a bit of tidying now will make the garden look neat over the Christmas period and get you one step ahead for spring…

Cut Back… …but don’t be too tidy. Some perennials such as sedum have attractive seed heads that look great covered in frost or dew. Ornamental grasses also add winter structure as do dried out hydrangea heads – both can be pruned in spring.

Cut back perennials that are looking tatty and brown such as peonies and Verbena bonariensis to around to 5cm from ground level.

(Leave more tender plants such as penstemon until April or May after the frosts.)

Wisteria can be pruned now and give roses a light trim, removing long or damaged shoots.

Now they’re dormant, apples, pears, currants and autumn fruiting raspberries can also be pruned from now on. Likewise, trim off any dead, diseased or rubbing branches from shrubs and trees. Acers and birch are particularly suited to pruning now, before the sap starts to flow. But there’s no need to go overboard as many plants such as buddleja and late flowering clematis can wait until early February.

Reorganise And Plant…

This is a good time to move plants that are in the wrong place – too big, not thriving or overcrowded, adding organic matter as you go. Since they’re dormant, as long as the ground’s not frozen, they will adjust to being moved or divided. Try to work on boards, so as not to compact the soil.

You can also plant trees, shrubs and bare root fruit trees, soft fruit bushes and roses now.

Clear Up Throw away any annuals such as sweet peas and cosmos. You can always replace with cyclamen or viola for winter colour Keep raking leaves from the lawn and remove them from borders -– especially rose leaves with black spot (burn or destroy anything diseased rather than composting it). If you have masses of leaves, bag them up – making a few holes in the bag - and leave them at the end of 12 | SE21 - December 2020

the garden for fantastic leaf mould. Keep on top of weeds and clear up messy areas with piles of pots or clutter that create a winter home for snails and slugs. Clean and store stakes and garden furniture.

Mulch Finish off the borders with a mulch of bulky organic matter or bark, especially around anything recently pruned, newly planted or tender such as Verbena bonariensis or penstemon. This will improve soil texture, suppress weeds and add a bit of frost protection. (Ideally this is done before the soil gets too cold.)

Lawn Care If the weather’s mild you may still need to cut the grass in dry weather – on a high setting. But keep off the lawn if it’s wet or frosty.

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Pick some holly, cotoneaster, ivy and other evergreens with berries for the festive period!

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Parsnip & Apple Cake With Walnut Frosting Recipes from Suzanne James | www.suzannejames.co.uk Method

It has been a pretty rotten year all round, but there is nothing like a slice of cake to cheer you up! This is one of the cakes we have been selling at Fifty Seven, our venue (now takeaway in COVID times) at Northcross Road. As it is made with Parsnips & Apple we feel sure that it qualifies as a slice of your five a day!

Ingredients You will need a 12inch deep round tin & parchment to line it.

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230g self raising flour 1tsp baking powder 1.5tsp cinnamon powder 1 teaspoon ground nutmeg 1tsp mixed spice 200g caster sugar 100g walnuts chopped 3 eggs 150ml sunflower oil 400g grated parsnips* 100g grated apples* *(Squeeze in a tea towel to remove all juice) 2 oranges zested

For the Frosting • • • •

1x 200g tub cream cheese (light preferably) 250g unsalted butter 200g icing sugar 1 tsp vanilla extract Plus chopped walnuts to decorate!

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1) Preheat the oven to 1500C. 2) Sieve together the self-raising flour, baking powder, cinnamon powder, ground nutmeg & mixed spice.

3) Sprinkle in the caster sugar.

4) Chop the walnuts and add to the mixture.

5) Beat the eggs and sunflower oil together to emulsify and add to the mixture.

6) Grate the parsnips and apples and squeeze through a tea towel to remove all the juice, then fold into the mixture.

7) Add the zest from two oranges to the mixture and fold in.

8) Line your 12inch deep round tin with parchment & pour the cake mix in.

9) Bake 25 – 30 minutes at 1500C. 10) Combine the frosting ingredients – cream cheese, butter, icing sugar and vanilla extract.

11) Beat until smooth.

12) When the cake is cool pour over the cake and then pop the chopped walnuts on the top.

Enjoy!

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Five Signs Of Burnout

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How To Spot When You May Be On The Burnout Spectrum This month I’d like to talk to you about the five signs of burnout, that show you may be moving on that huge burnout spectrum. Perhaps a few red flags going up in terms of your health and wellbeing, all the way through to burnout. Now it’s a long way to go from these early warning signs, but it would be great, if we could identify these things to stop things in their tracks in the early part of that burnout spectrum.

I was influenced by Gail North and Herbert Freudenberger‘s burnout spectrums. They created the burnout spectrum with 12 points.

1) Apathy And Anhedonia Apathy means you can’t be bothered and everything feels like an effort.

Anhedonia is a loss of pleasure in things you would ordinarily find pleasurable. You used to love a game of tennis or a dog walk. Now you just don’t feel it. You don’t get the joy from it.

Combined with apathy, you can’t be bothered to go out and do those things and try to get that joy back. This is a sign on the burnout spectrum.

2) Feeling Deeply Fatigued You feel deeply fatigued, real tiredness, tiredness in the bones. Tiredness perhaps that you just don’t seem to be able to overcome or even get enough sleep to overcome.

3) Finding It Hard To Shut Off You may feel you just can’t shut off. You might find that you’re dreaming about work or dreaming about some of the problems and anxieties in your life. That your mind is racing and you find it very, very difficult to close that off and to move on. You may find it challenging to get any headspace.

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on the burnout spectrum. You may notice this in yourself as well. You may feel that you’re not your usual effervescent self.

5) The Body Keeps The Score This last point is arguably the most important, which is that the body keeps the score. Even if you’re able to push through, ploughing on regardless, which is so common in business and British culture. Know that you can ignore the signs the body sends you, but it does keep the score.

You might notice hair loss. You might notice weight gain or weight loss. Experience other kinds of physical symptoms such as headaches, unexplained, aches and pains. I’ve even known more dramatic symptoms than that. For example, the scarring of a forehead.

You can try and push these signs of burnout stuff aside and ignore the red flags to your health and wellbeing, but it will come back eventually to rear its head. So please don’t ignore it.

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ink Age Southwark is a vibrant local charity providing friendly volunteer support to isolated people aged over 60. They work to reduce loneliness by helping older people and those living with dementia to maintain active lives, by providing befriending, group activities, transport, and light DIY and gardening services across the community.

The charity will soon be launching their Big Give Christmas Challenge with the opportunity to raise ÂŁ24,000 in just 1 week! These funds will be used to reduce isolation and loneliness experienced by older people living in Southwark, by enabling Link Age Southwark to diversify the way they offer their groups, to include face-to-face, online platforms and conference calling. Ultimately, this will help them to ensure nobody is excluded in the community.

Link Age Southwark’s social and activity groups provide a much-needed break in the week for some, a chance to socialise and move about. For others, the groups may be the only time they speak to another person for several days or weeks at a time. Last year alone, the charity ran 26 groups who met 758 times, with a record 6,160 attendees in total.

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our work. It feels hard to reach out again after so much has been given by the local community, but any contribution that you can make to this appeal will be very gratefully received.”

You can support Link Age Southwark by donating to their Big Give Christmas Challenge beginning on #GivingTuesday, between midday on 1st December to midday on 8th December. During the campaign, donations to the charity will be generously matched by individual sponsors and their Big Give Champion, The Julia and Hans Rausing Trust, meaning the value of your donation will be doubled.

How can you get involved?

Visit Link Age Southwark’s campaign page: https://donate.thebiggive.org.uk/campaign/LAS and make a donation from 12pm on 1st December (#GivingTuesday). The campaign will close at 12pm on Tuesday 8th December.

If you are unable to donate at this time but still want to support Link Age Southwark’s Christmas Challenge, you can do so by telling your friends, family and colleagues or sharing the campaign on social media.

The feedback the charity receives from their evaluations confirms that the groups have a clear social function and increase attendee’s energy levels.

96% of group members reported they were either happy or very happy with the groups, with one member saying, “Group session gives me a big uplift.

We sing and talk. It’s nice to socialise.”

Another member’s husband commented on the impact the musical group has on his wife, who lives with dementia; “She used to love music […] and the group helps her to connect some way through music.” So far, the charity have moved 6 of their groups online and had 1 group meeting in a COVIDsafe way, up until the latest national restrictions.

As government guidelines continue to change, it is essential for Link Age Southwark to adapt and expand the way they offer their groups to the older people they work with.

Sophie Wellings, Director at Link Age Southwark says: “2020 has been a challenging and complex year for us all. We have been overwhelmed by the support and goodwill that we have received from the community. The money that we raise from the Big Give contributes significantly each year in supporting SE21 - December 2020 | 19

Christmas Memo Pets Corner with Leonie St Clair | www.londondogstraining.co.uk

Twelve Days Of Christmas Memo For Lockdown Puppy Owners Lockdown has seen an unprecedented increase in puppy ownership. Many of you are first time dog owners. With the Christmas season now only weeks away, I felt it would be useful for newbie owners to have a quickie Christmas pitfalls puppy guide. I have included links to further information.

1) Many human foods are toxic and even deadly for dogs. Chocolate, dried fruits, grapes, nuts, onions are just a few of the dangerous ingredients that can land your pup at the vet, or worse.

2) Christmas plants and decorations can also be very dangerous if ingested. Cabling for fairy lights and batteries are just one example of things your puppy may try to chew. See: www.bluecross.org.uk/pet-advice/christmasdangers-dogs 3) Don’t forget external hazards like anti-freeze, sometimes present in floor cleaners. It tastes like nectar to your pup but is deadly in even tiny quantities.

4) Think about using baby gates, a pen or crate so your puppy or dog can be given a safe area when you cannot supervise.

5) Remember pups need 18-20 hours’ sleep a day. Ensure your pup has a quiet area and encourage chew and settle periods. No-one wants an adrenalin charged puppy.

6) At Christmas and other holidays, it is easy to get caught up in festivities and forget the young animal’s needs. Ensure your pup has an array of suitable edible chews, of different textures. These will keep her occupied when you are busy with presents or cooking. Remember, teething can be a protracted affair and the back teeth are still bedding in at twelve months.

7) Take time to teach your pup problem solving games as well as letting him run around. Brain work will tire and relax your pup beautifully.

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8) Teach your pup to find things, put part of her daily food ration into toys so she can chew and snuffle for the goodies.

9) If your pup is short-haired, do get a coat for rainy or cold days.

10) Be careful not to over exercise pups and young dogs in wet or slippery conditions. A bad slip can cause lasting damage to tender puppy joints.

11) Fireworks season continues and before you know it, we’ll have New Year celebrations too. Read up about how to prepare. www.dogstrust.org.uk/help-advice/dog-care/ fireworks 12) Don’t forget to leave your pup on her own for short periods. In lockdown and on holidays pups soon get used to you being around all the time and will suffer when that stops. Keep up separation training. www.abtc.org.uk/owners/covid-19/ Have a wonderful Christmas with your puppy and let’s look forward to a better year in 2021!

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s we clatter towards Christmas, it is true to say that the youthful and somewhat injury depleted Dulwich Hamlet men’s side is yet to burn as brightly as many fans had hoped. A few draws, a few more defeats, and a limp departure from the FA Cup in the last qualifying round have left SE22’s finest camped in the foothills of the league.

If ever a club is driven by the roar and jangle of its home crowd it is the sons of Edgar Kail. And boy has Champion Hill ever missed its roar.

Yet hope burns eternal in The Rabble’s breast. Surely, the fans cry, the time must come when the team pull up their pink and blue socks, find their football mojo, and start ascending the treacherous slopes of National League South like a latter day Norgay. Well Amen to that and watch this space sports fans.

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Hamlet universe however where the ever spicy Dulwich Hamlet Women’s team have put in some stellar performances recently. Just prior to lockdown, DHWFC took on high-flying Dartford, coming from 0-2 behind to win a ripsnorter 3-2. All this in front of a rocking record crowd of 586. The Hamlet women now go top of their league.

Unfortunately during lockdown all football below the National league has been put on ice.

So while the “elite” Dulwich Hamlet men’s team continue to play behind closed doors, the women’s team must wait until 2 December to find out whether and when they can resume their allconquering season.

In the meantime however, the club is very much alive and well. For one, all Dulwich Hamlet home games continue to be streamed absolutely free on the club’s Tube channel (www.youtube. com/c/DulwichHamletTV). So you can don your

pink and blue, bellow at the screen, and cheer on your Hamlet heroes from the comfort of your own home.

The experience is so life like you can even apply to be a virtual mascot at a Dulwich Hamlet game. Check out https://dhst.org.uk/news/virtualmascots-wanted for how you can do just that.

If you’re feeling generous while you’re at it, you can chip in a few virtual coins to sustain the brilliant media team at https://www.justgiving.com/ crowdfunding/dhfctv. Talking of generous, Dulwich Hamlet fans have raised over £1200 through the sale of Hamlet branded face masks. Thanks to all those who have helped.

And finally, in the news we’ve all been waiting for, you can now buy the new replica Dulwich Hamlet kit. This season’s shirt is right smart and will render any wearer the envy of Lordship Lane. So with Christmas approaching, why not take a look at all the Hamlet merchandise

available via the Supporters’ Trust website www.dhst.org.uk and buy yourself or a loved a special gift in pink and blue. Last order date for Christmas which guarantees delivery is Thursday 3. Any orders placed after this date will certainly be processed, but might not arrive in time for the big day.

A merry Christmas to all from Champion Hill.

And keep your eyes on the club website (www. dulwichhamletfc.co.uk) for news and updates on fixtures.

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Christmas In An Unprecedented Time I guess if Stanley Adams was still alive in 2020 he would have rewritten his classic song “What a difference a day makes” and given us “What a difference a year makes”. Perhaps the first verse would read, 365 days later has brought us a pandemic with irreversible change. For as we look forward to Christmas and waving goodbye to 2020, we are all in a transformational different place from 365 days ago, yet we have to face the arrival of Christmas and all the things that we all assign to it. In many or some quarters the religious significance has long since been lost or forgotten.

The economic landscape for everyone is different from what was perceived, planned or imaginable at the start of the year. Households across our region and nationwide has felt the effects of Covid-19. Whether it is furlough, loss of employment, business shut down or any combination plus more, households are experiencing the ongoing effects. All these transformation and unplanned effects have a direct impact on our Christmas plans.

Therefore how will households cope with the festive season of 2020, whether in lockdown (stay-at-home safe) or tier 1, 2 or 3? This will be the real test of financial acumen and challenge.

To understand how households were facing up to the challenge, some of our readers shared their opinions.

“Control the controllables is the mantra for families this Christmas. Can you purchase less expensive smaller items for gifts? Are brands important or is there a similar less expensive alternative available that can also help the local economy. Shop local to save the high street.

Make your own rather than buying in can help save pounds. From crackers to Christmas cards for family- recycle and reuse.” said Lawrence Wilson a small business owner with a young family.

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“parents should not be going broke buying presents. If parents talk to their children, they’ll learn that children are more resilient than they are give them credit. Sometimes buying lavish gifts for children is a reflection how parents feel and not whether it’s what the child needs.”

Jackie also added, “children want your time and for children love is spelt T I M E. The lesson is children value the time spent with them greater than being showered with lavish boxes of gifts.”

Petra Boucher a local VA provided an alternative strategy that will see her through Christmas 2020. “Experience has taught me that December and January can be expensive months.

So for several years I have arranged my finances so I my recurring debts are paid via direct debit.

However, they are paid over 10 months or less which means I have no direct debits in December and January. This reduces any financial pressure on me for Christmas.”

Seven Tips for Christmas 2020 Consequently, for Christmas 2020, more than ever consider the following seven tips: 1) Set a budget for any planned expenditure; 2) Spend within your budget. The lesson of 2020 is tomorrow events will not occur as planned; 3) Avoid any form of borrowing; 4) Keep it simple, remember just like how children spell love, happiness can also be spelt TIME! 5) Be creative, ask what can we make rather than buy; 6) Past behaviour may not serve us well today.

Don’t be afraid to substitute items in your shopping basket, eg will replacing turkey with chicken harm you?

7) Build on that community spirit of sharing, rekindled and witnessed across our communities since March 2020.

As we approach a memorable Christmas season 2020, households may wish to remember the words from Stanley Adams’ original hit, “What a difference a day makes, twenty-four little hours”

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Communicating Effectively Education News from Alleyn's | www.alleyns.org.uk Karen Lane, Speech and Language Therapist at Alleyn’s Junior School, talks about how we can help develop our child’s speech.

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arents and carers play an integral role in helping children develop speech and language skills. Many of us may have experienced the temptation to hand a child a device to distract them, especially with the added stresses of our current challenging times, but are we missing out on opportunities to teach our toddlers and young children real communication skills?

Play Creative play is essential for unlocking emerging vocabulary. Teddy bears’ picnics, den building, Playdoh, and sand play are all great shared activities, and for babies as young as six months you can use single word naming to model words.

By 12 months a toddler should have 50 – 100 words.

After that you can model two- and three-word phrases to help your child develop short sentences by two years old. Remember, there is a wide range of “normal” so don’t panic if your two-year-old isn’t speaking in sentences – they may need a little longer.

Articulation Sounds develop at different ages and not all children speak clearly at first. If other people can’t understand your child at three however, it might be time to get an assessment. Therapy waiting times can be long so it’s better to seek a GP referral early than assume your child will grow out of it.

When children have difficulty expressing their thoughts and feelings or find it hard to understand rules for social interaction, their frustrations can result in behaviour difficulties. Be patient and try to understand why your child is frustrated. Get down to their level, maintain eye contact and give them time to express themselves.

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questions like, “What is the capital city of...?”.

This might impress the in-laws but rote learning is less valuable than asking open ended questions like “What do you think about…?” or “I wonder what would happen if…”, which are more likely to stimulate a child’s thinking, develop a love of learning and also their ability to use reasoning skills when they start school.

Reading Reading to your child can help them develop a thirst for good stories. Even after they have learned to read, continue reading to your child to help expand their vocabulary, their understanding of story structures and to provide you both with valuable time together. Play family games like Boggle, Blurt, and Articulate too, to boost your child’s vocabulary.

Delayed speech and language development can impact a child’s progress at school. If you feel worried, trust your instincts and consult your GP for a referral to a Speech and Language Therapist.

Empowering children to communicate effectively can help them unleash a lifelong love of learning.

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What's On - December Mondays 7, 14 & 21 December: Monday Evening Bad Drawing Group

Tuesday 8 December: Dulwich & District u3a Festive Fun!

7pm – 8.30pm. The starting point for this group is that we are all rubbish at drawing, even if we’ve been doing it for ages. From there we proceed with freedom, enjoying the journey with no investment in the outcome.

We use live streaming via Zoom, so artists will be able to communicate with each other and be part of an art group, even when not physically in the same location.

This online class is open to everyone. Join us after 6.45pm so we can say hi!

Cost: £8 per session £5 for students – email us with details of your student status: info@dulwichartgroup.co.uk – we’ll give you a discount code. The Dulwich Art Group & School, 4a Champion Hill SE5 8AH. www.dulwichartgroup.co.uk.

From 2pm on Zoom. A cheerful festive seasonal monthly meeting including a quiz, music and a talk on paintings of wintry scenes. Joining details will be sent on the 7th December.

More details at dulwich-u3a.uk/events.

Contact secretary@dulwich-u3a.uk for the link to the Zoom meeting.

Thursday 10 December: The Arts Society Dulwich Zoom lecture

Tuesday 8 & 15 December: Coping with Anxiety 6pm-7.30pm. This new drop-in series of online sessions are aimed at teenagers and young professionals from 18-25 years of age. You are not alone in feeling anxious. The group is a safe space to discuss any anxiety-related feelings, emotions, and everyday experiences of dealing with the burden of anxiety. Anxiety can really diminish the quality of everyday experiences, from school, work and relationships. Find out more at www.bellhouse.co.uk.

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7.50pm – 9pm. The Arts Society Dulwich Zoom lecture: The Christmas Story in Renaissance Art, 7.50 for 8pm (members only). www.theartssocietydulwich.org.uk

Saturday 12 December: Tech Together - Tips for choosing a mobile phone contract 11am. Join us for friendly and engaging sessions to help you make the most of the internet. www.bellhouse.co.uk.

What's On - December Guilded Walk in Dulwich Saturday 12th December, 2pm Join a guided walk in Dulwich (Maximum 6 guests). To order your gift vouchers,or to book a walk, and for more information, email: info@walkinglondonhistory.com

Saturday 12 / 19 & Sunday 13 / 20 December: Pexmas 2020 Festive Market

Tuesday 15 December: Honor Oak WI Craft Club Our Craft Club runs on the 3rd Tuesday of each month –currently via Zoom at 7:30pm @honoroakwi @honoroakwi @Honoroak_WI / honoroakwi@gmail.com

Wednesday 16, Thursday 17 & Friday 18 December: Pexmas Emporium 2-5pm or 6-9pm. A bookable shopping experience with 25+ traders, each hosting a bigger boutique style pop up for their brand. Less chance of queuing, more time to shop, with more space.

A standard ticket grants individual access for a 3 hour shopping session. Book now for 2pm or 6pm shopping times.

A Loyalty card ticket grants individual entry plus a 10% discount for all boutiques in your chosen Emporium slot, PLUS 10% off the Pexmas Online Store till the end of October 2021. https://www.pexmas.com/pexmas-2020

11am-6pm. Two weekends of independent Festive Markets, with 50+ different traders each day. More focussed shopping at the weekday Pexmas Emporium. Workshops from traders to DIY your way to the holidays. Plus we host our first Pop Up Shop! Watch this space for more.

Copeland Gallery, 133 Copeland Road, SE15 3SN https://www.pexmas.com

COMING SOON! - Nimble Arts Holiday Clubs

Covid-secure 2021 Ofsted-registered creative holiday clubs for 4-11s 8am-6.30pm at Goodrich Primary SE22 0EP are now open for booking up till the end of the summer holidays! Book 1-5 days flexibly each week, pay by card, childcare voucher, tax-free childcare or spread the cost of all your 2021 holiday childcare with one of our instalment plans. Every day is a brand-new creative adventure launched every morning by our resident robot Switcher. Age-specific video and live workshops combining a huge variety of arts forms, creative play, teamwork, indoor and outdoor physical challenges and an emphasis on making friends in bubbles of 15 all come together at a Nimble Arts club, staffed by our highly experienced and qualified DBSchecked team. £52 for 8am - 5pm with flexible drop-off and pick-up and £6.50 for late pick-up 5 - 6.30pm with sibling discounts available. Children can attend from their 4th birthday, and we are able to open as a registered childcare company even in Tier 3/full lockdown. We can’t wait for you to join the fun - school holidays SORTED! To find out more visit www.nimblearts.co.uk • February Half-Term: 15th - 19th February 2021 • Easter Holidays: 6th - 16th April 2021 (Not Open Easter Monday 5th April) • Spring Half-Term: 1st - 4th June 2021 (Not Open Bank Holiday Monday 31st May) • Summer Holidays: 5 Weeks From 26th July - 27th August 2021 If you’d like to get in touch with any questions please email info@nimblearts.co.uk or call 0333 014 2576 SE21 - December 2020 | 29

Central Southwark Community Hub Christmas Hamper Appeal https://cschub.enthuse.com/christmashampers2020#!/ From left to right: Felicia (CEO), Linda, Josefina and Daisy.

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entral Southwark Community Hub (CSCH) is a charity based in Camberwell tackling food insecurity in the local community.

During lockdown in Spring, the number of people they were supporting on a weekly basis increased from 30 to nearly 200. They expect to see another surge in demand during these last two months of the year.

In Southwark, 40% of children live in poverty - for these children and their families, Christmas can be a particularly difficult time.

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families with food and gifts this festive season.

You can help them to reach as many families as possible this year. Any amount you can give, however big or small, will help to provide a hamper filled with Christmas goodies to a local family in need.

To make a donation today and give the gift of food this Christmas please go to: https://cschub.enthuse.com/christmashampers2020#!/

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The Last Word – Alastair Carnegie What do you most value about the area?

There is a fantastic community spirit which has emerged during the pandemic. From the outset, a street WhatsApp group was created with over 100 people to support each other. Covid continues to be a serious concern, but it has made many people look at how they live and interact with others, which is not always typical of London neighborhoods. This has reinforced my positive feelings about the area and in particular our street.

What one thing would you change?

The traffic has worsened over the past 15 years, the current road closures in place and further restrictions have not helped. It takes longer than ever to travel between East and West Dulwich, which is frustrating for an estate agent travelling to viewings and appraisals.

Do you belong to any groups?

I am a local resident and owner of Carnegie Estate Agents, managing the recently set up a Dulwich office linked to my family business in Hertfordshire.

After many years of working in the international property industry I am keen to ensure people get great value and have a positive experience.

How long have you lived in the area?

I have lived in London for the past 25 years, formally as a ‘north of the river’ resident. Love wrenched me out of my comfort zone down to South East London, specifically West Dulwich, 17 years ago. It was not as bad as I’d feared…!

What brought you here?

We needed a bigger house and found the perfect renovation project here on Clive Road. We spent a year doing it up with a 4-year old and new baby in tow, spending a large amount of time living between parents’ and friends’ houses. The fabulous schools, sense of community and access to parks and the wood were big attractions.

What has changed most during that time?

West Dulwich, in particular, has become busier and even more desirable as a place to live. There are now more shops, better performing local schools and numerous places to eat. The increasing number of local boutique shops is another great attraction.

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I have been a rugby coach at Old Alleynians Rugby club for the past 12 years. I currently coach the U15 Girls and help coach the U11 Boys. It’s a fantastic family club for all, and my whole family play or help out there – my wife may even make you a latte if you pop down on a Sunday morning!

Your favourite place for a night out?

I’m a big fan of the local brewery taprooms of which there are plenty in this area, most notably the Brixton Brewery taproom, the Gypsy Hill Taproom, Canopy and The Bullfinch. I’m always happy to support local businesses, especially craft beer breweries!

Where are you to be found on a Saturday?

Working! I own an Estate Agency so work on Saturday mornings. In the afternoon I enjoy dog walks with the family or catching up with friends and going out (in a post-Covid world) ....

What is your favourite place to eat?

We had a fantastic meal out at the Dulwich Lyceum recently, delicious and reasonable. I also love Thai Crystal and the scotch eggs in the Rosendale pub are definitely worth a mention!

Where’s your favourite place to walk?

I thoroughly enjoy the peace of Dulwich woods, one of the closest areas of true woodland to central London. www.carnegieuk.com

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Index of Advertisers A Little Photographic: Christmas Cards ....................11 The Little Clipper .......................................................33 London Glassblowing.................................................13 Mac Support ..............................................................15 Marcus Bishop Associates ........................................17 Modern Heirlooms by Clara.......................................15 Oven Rescue ...............................................................7 Piercy & Co ..................................................................5 Rocket Garden Design .................................................9 SE Magazines: Local Advertising ..................... 25 & 27 SS PC Repairs ............................................................17 Sky High Builders ......................................................17 Smart Business Networking ......................................23 Village Books..............................................................11 Walking London History Tours..................................117 Walsh Glazing.............................................................23

Alexandra Nurseries ..................................................11 Ayrton Windows & Doors.............................................2 Bells Bathrooms & Kitchens.........................................9 Bespoke Windows .......................................................5 Carnegie Estate Agents..............................................35 The Clinic: Self Care: Guilt Free Box...........................23 The Clipper ................................................................33 Coco Mia Design: Handmade Headbands...................5 Cooking with Scissors ...............................................23 The Dovetail Joint ......................................................15 Dream Doors: Quality Kitchen Facelifts .....................13 Dulwich Carpet Company ...........................................7 Dulwich Park Christmas Cards ..................................11 Helen Balkwil: Boy from the Moor - New Book...........9 Home Instead Senior Care ....................................Back Knocker & Foskett (Solicitors) ....................................9

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