SE21 December 2024

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Welcome to SE21

Another year is almost over and it feels good to be getting ready for Christmas. I hope that all SE21 readers have a restful time.

As usual I have rounded up all the great events taking place in and around Dulwich. The events pages start on page 6. December is another busy month for events, so we have an amazing nine pages of online and in person events happening in and around Dulwich. Remember to check out www.arounddulwich.co.uk for a full list of events, as there are too many to put in the magazine this monthl. Also events get added after I have gone to print.

Link Age Southwark launch their Big Give Christmas Challenge with the opportunity to raise £16,000 in just 1 week! Full details pages 26 & 27. I am hoping to make a great donation with the funds I raise from the Dulwich Charity Lunch, which I am really pleased to be running again this year. All the tickets sold out really quickly, but I am still looking for prizes for the raffle and auction. See page 23.

Remember the magazine depends on all the wondeful local advertisers, so please do let them know if you saw them in this magazine!

Wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year.

Until next time.

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Events Calendar - December

Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p18.

parkruns, see p24.

Further details where available can be found in the News and Events pages 6, 8, 9, 18, 19, 24, 25,

& 29. Please read as not all the events can fit on the calendar!

Dulwich WI, see page 29.
An Evening with Jon Sopel, see p19.
EDWI - Christmas Party, p28.
The Weekly Horniman Market see p8.
Winter Market Place see p24.
BNI Adventures, see p19.
Honor Oak WI, see p18.
BNI Adventures, see p19.
Junior parkruns, see p8. parkruns, see p24.
Lewisham Underwater Hockey, see p24.
Lewisham Underwater Hockey, see p24.
The Weekly Horniman Market see p8.
Junior parkruns, see p8.
The Weekly Horniman Market see p8.
Pantomine - a Very British Feast p28.
parkruns, see p24.
Carols by the Green see p24.
So Last Century’s Vintage Market, see p6.
Sally Ollerenshaw: Footsteps in Bloom Exhibition see p6.
Goose Green Lunch Club, p19.
Christmas Wreath Making workshop see p8.
Singaround, p25.
Dulwich Park Runners see p9.
Dulwich Park Runners see p9.
Dulwich Park Runners see p9.
Bach to Baby Family Concert p9.
Lewisham Underwater Hockey, see p24.
parkruns, see p24.
Japanese Stab Binding Workshop p28.
Vintage Christmas Card Printing p18.
Mara Scuplture see p19.
Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p18.
Goose Green Coffee Mornings, p18.
Goose Green Lunch Club, see p19.
Goose Green Lunch Club, p194.
Kimchi Workshop see p9.
Christingle p29.
Havelock Walk Winter Weekend, p6.
Vintage Market p28.
Christmas Wreath Workshop p25.
Live Band Karaoke, see p19.
Sally Ollerenshaw: Footsteps in Bloom Exhibition see p6.
Sally Ollerenshaw: Footsteps in Bloom Exhibition see p6.
TRIO Exhibition see page 8.
Bach to Baby Family Concert p9.
Bach to Baby Family Concert p9.
Mara Scuplture see p19.
Mara Scuplture see p19.
Dulwich Charity Lunch, see p24.
Junior parkruns, see p8.
Festive Artist Open House see p24. Goodrich Winter Fair p24. Church Christmas Fayre p25.
Christmas Wreath Workshop p25.
Carol Service at St John’s, p29.
Festive Yoga Workshop p25.
The Weekly Horniman Market see p8.
Alleyn’s Holiday Camp, see p29.
Junior parkruns, see p8.
The Weekly Horniman Market see p8.
Midnight Mass @ St John’s, see p29.
Day Sung Festival Eucharist @ St John’s, see p29. Christmas Eve
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What's On - December

Sunday 1 December: So Last Century's Christmas Vintage Market at the Gallery

10am-5pm. So Last Century is at Dulwich Picture Gallery for the first time this Winter. There will be a seasonally-curated collection of 20 of the best vintage traders, in DPG’s Linbury Room, Art Studio and Cloisters. Expect to find mid-century homeware, decorative objects, ceramics and glass, lighting, furniture, records, prints, antique maps and charts, French brocante, vintage clothes, jewellery and lots more.

In the Gallery gardens there’ll be mouth-watering street crêpes and galettes. The excellent Flotsam & Jetsam Cafe will be open too, serving food and drinks. Treat yourself to a glass of mulled wine or cup of hot chocolate from their outdoor stall. Be the first to get your tree, from the aptly-named Forest Hill Christmas trees who’ll be set up in the Gallery grounds. While you’re here, explore the enchanting Tirzah Garwood exhibition in the Gallery, delve into the Shop, and enjoy the landscaped gardens.

So put on your warmest coat and come along to the Gallery for lots of Christmas present inspiration, and an abundance of unusual and unique things to buy. FREE TICKETED ENTRY Stepfree entrances and level access throughout. Dogs aren’t allowed inside, sorry.

Free advance ticket at: solastcenturyfair.co.uk. Dulwich Picture Gallery, College Road SE21 7AD.

You can submit your events for free via our website: www.arounddulwich.co.uk

Until Sunday 15 December: Sarah Ollerenshaw: Footsteps in Bloom 10am-5pm

A solo exhibition featuring original paintings by Sarah Ollerenshaw, showcasing vibrant landscapes inspired by London’s parks and bluebell woods. 41 Dulwich Village, Dulwich, SE21 7BN. www.dallozcontemporary.co.uk

Sunday 1 December: Havelock Walk Winter Weekend

11am-6pm. Winter Weekend on Havelock Walk! Come and join us on the cobbles…visit a selection of art studios and a craft fair - lots to see and some great presents to be had! Plus live music from Oliver Anderson, food, mulled wine and pre xmas fun! Seasons greetings everyone. https://www.havelockwalkstudios.com.

Sunday 1 December: Cockpit Winter Open Studios 2024

12pm-6pm. Cockpit is an award-winning social enterprise and has launched the careers of some of the biggest names in contemporary craft. Open Studios is your opportunity to discover one-of-a-kind pieces, meet incredible craftspeople and find truly special gifts for the holiday season while supporting independent makers. Lewisham residents get half-price admission in Deptford.

BOOK: cockpitstudios.org/open-studios. Cockpit Deptford, 18-22 Creekside SE8 3DZ.

What's On - December

Until Wednesday 4

December: TRIO Exhibition at Jeannie Avent Gallery

This November the Jeannie Avent Gallery is home to TRIO, an all-female exhibition made up of Louise C. Galizia, Ana Gallego and Corin Ashleigh Brown. Having exhibited alongside each other at various South London art shows and events over the last decade, Louise, Ana and Corin come together in this one-off multidisciplinary show. Trio celebrates the collaborative and supportive nature of exhibition, and the show is an exciting mix of illustration, painting, and mosaic.

TRIO promises to deliver a variety of interest and an opportunity to purchase original artworks and prints. Come and meet the women behind the work as they share their individual talents and celebrate the creative bond they have developed over the years.

@louisecgalizia_art

@anagallegoillustration

@corinashleighb

Jeannie Avent Gallery, 14 North Cross Road, SE22 9EU

Sundays 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29

December: Junior Parkrun

Peckham Rye - 9am - 9:30am

A free, weekly, timed run for 4–14-year-olds, to get fit, stay healthy and have fun! We run 2km every Sunday morning at 9am, through rain and shine. The course is visible, well-marshalled, and all held on the paths around the sports pitches. Peckham Rye Park, Colyton Road, SE22 0NE. www.parkrun.org.uk/peckhamrye-juniors/

Brockwell Park - 9am - 9:30am

A free 2km fun run for 4–14-year-olds every Sunday in Brockwell Park. Just register on parkrun.com to get a barcode and meet behind the lido at 8:55 for a briefing. Come rain or shine, Easter, or Christmas we meet every week. Brockwell Park, Dulwich Road SE24 0PA. www.parkrun.org.uk/brockwell-juniors/

Sundays 1, 8, 15, 22 & 29

December: Horniman Market

10am – 3pm. Located on the Bandstand Terrace, you will find stalls selling seasonal fruit and vegetables, artisan bread and cheese, organic meat, and delicious street food. If that’s not enough to have you feeling like our overstuffed walrus, we also have regular guest traders specialising in treats such as luxury chocolates, delightful drinks, irresistible cakes, and tasty pickle and preserves. www.horniman.ac.uk/ 100 London Road, Forest Hill, SE23 3PQ.

Monday 2 December: Christmas Wreath Making Workshop 7pm-9pm

Join Wildside London at Bell House, Dulwich Village for a Christmas Wreath workshop. Kick off the festive season by learning to create a gorgeous wreath with an array of seasonal florals, some of which we have foraged from the beautiful gardens of Bell House.

Our workshops are fun, immersive and relaxed, and we provide all the materials and instruction to enable you to design and build a fabulous wreath. The evening provides an opportunity to plan a creative get-together with friends or family that will put you right into the Christmas spirit. Tickets are £65 per person and includes mulled wine and mince pies.

Bell House, 27 College Road, Dulwich, SE21 7BG. www.bellhouse.co.uk.

Tuesday 3 & Friday 13

December: Bach to Baby Christmas Family Concert

10.30am-11.30am. Grab your family, harness up your fastest reindeer and meet us at a Bach to Baby concert for the perfect prelude to the holiday season! Bach to Baby is the critically acclaimed concert series for babies, toddlers and their carers. Tots dance, roam about and revel in the wonder of live music, while you take a moment out of your busy day to hear top notch performances by outstanding musicians, with your young babes in tow. Remember: Up to 2 children come FREE on every Adult Ticket! Book directly at: www.bachtobaby.com.

St. John the Evangelist, 62A East Dulwich Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9AT.

Also on Monday 16 December at St. Barnabas Church, 40 Calton Avenue, London SE21 7DG

Tuesdays 3, 10, 17 & 24 & 31 December: Weekly Online

Breathing Class

7pm – 7.40pm. A 40-minute breathing and relaxation class. Unwind, centre yourself and use the breath to help relax and prepare for a restful evening. Using different breathing techniques that can be incorporated into your day along with a few gentle mat-based stretches and ending with Yoga Nidra a full body guided meditation for deep relaxation. All welcome. No experience is needed. £7. To join please use: https://liveyogateachers.com/classes/ meditation-open-level-kerry-flower

You can submit your events for free via our website: www.arounddulwich.co.uk

Tuesday 3 December: Festive Kimchi Fermentation Workshop 7pm-8pm

Join Lorraine from @SouthLondonFerments in the Studio at West 16th for a hands-on Festive Kimchi Fermentation Workshop! The Brussels sprout kimchi is back for one time only this year.

PS: sprouts are optional so if you’re not a fan of them, you can leave them out and make a classic vegan Korean kimchi.

The kimchi will be ready in time for Christmas lunch. No experience of fermentation required, and the recipe is vegan. Cheese & kimchi toasties provided (contains dairy and gluten) and Kombucha cocktail on arrival. Non-alcoholic option available.

You will take home a 500ml jar of kimchi to ferment with full instructions. £50 pp general admission. Ticket price includes all materials, a delicious cheese and kimchi toastie and a West 16th kombucha cocktail. Please note: we buy fresh ingredients for the workshop, so unfortunately cannot refund any tickets, however if you are unable to make it for whatever reason, you are welcome to send someone along in your place. Suitable for ages 18+. West 16th Cafe, Half Moon Lane, Herne Hill, SE24. www.tickettailor.com/events/west16th/1429539

Tuesdays 3, 10, 17, 24 & 31

December:

DPR Social Runs

7:30pm – 8:30pm. Fantastic local running club. Social runs every Tuesday 7.30pm at Trevor Bailey Sports Ground on the south circular. Plus runs every Sunday morning; coached sessions on Thursdays; cross country races; competitions; weekends away; frequent social activities. Come along on a Tuesday to try us out!

www.dulwichparkrunners.co.uk enquiries@dulwichparkrunners.com Trevor Bailey Club House Dulwich Common SE21 7HA

Dulwich Hamlet FC

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The December football fun’s upon us and that means festive fixtures galore. It’s party time. To get us in the mood the month kicks off with a spicy cup tie, as our Women’s firsts travel to Chatham Town for an Isthmian Cup quarter-final clash on Wednesday 4th. So far in this competition our Women have finished 9-0 and 5-0 winners, so expect more of the same to send us into the semis and the party season.

The following Saturday the 7th, our Men host Dover Athletic at Champion Hill. A top of the table side and big scorers themselves; though surely Dover wouldn’t be rude enough to spoil our Christmas party, which follows straight after the match.

The Hamlet fans’ knees up is hosted by the Supporters’ Trust in the clubhouse at Champion Hill and promises superb raffle prizes, extended Mega Container opening for all your Christmas shopping and DJs with all the tunes. We’ll be raising funds for the centenary trip to Altona in Hamburg next year so join us after the match, and late into the night, if you can.

Our Women have an early start the next morning as they travel to Norwich in one of the standout trips of the season. Despite being newly promoted our Hamlet side only narrowly lost out to Norwich City on the first day of the campaign and are more than holding their own at this level, currently only three points behind The Canaries. Away days like this are to be savoured and sung about.

Days later on Tuesday 10th our Men are on the road too, visiting The Dripping Pan in Lewes – scene of the recent, agonisingly narrow defeat in the FA Cup for our Women – where they’ll try to even the score and keep up our party spirit.

Saturday 14th sees our Men still on at the road and heading to Dartford; followed by our Women hosting London Seaward at Champion Hill on Sunday 15th. After that they can start to think about the tinsel, with no further fixtures scheduled before the new year – cue: another party.

But no such let up for our Men, or our fantastic staff and volunteers at Champion Hill, as we host Cray Valley Paper Mills on Saturday

21st – the perfect time to stock up your stockings with all things pink ‘n’ blue – before a festive thriller at the Hill when Carshalton Athletic visit us on Boxing Day.

Before the year’s out our Men visit Whitehawk on Saturday 28th, then on New Year’s Day head to Cray Wanderers’ Flamingo Park on the Sidcup Bypass. If that isn’t enough to put you in the party mood, I don’t know what is. How about the chance to join our Supporters’ Trust – the voice of our fans at the heart of our community – or the thought of the Hamlet Hounds calendar for 2025, coming soon. It’s all gearing up at Champion Hill, so let’s get the party started. Up the Hamlet!

@DulwichHamletFC / @dhstorg

@DulwichHamletFC @dulwichhamletfc / @dhfc_w

Champion Hill Stadium, Edgar Kail Way, East Dulwich, London SE22 8BD.

Glowing Winter Colour

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Bark, Berries & Colourful Stems For Glowing Winter Colour

Whether it’s attractive bark, shiny berries or a splash of colour, there are lots of plants to add winter interest to your garden….

Beautiful Bark

Betula utilis var. jacquemontii has beautiful white bark, which glows out in soft wintery light. It’s lovely as a multi-stem and fab underplanted with snowdrops and crocuses.

Prunus serrula is another winter showstopper with shiny mahogany bark striped with lenticels. Parrotia persica has steely grey bark that flakes off in patches giving interest and texture in winter.

Acer griseum (Paperbark Maple) is a small tree with chestnut bark that peels off to reveal cinnamon coloured wood beneath. Or for a brighter, redder bark, try Acer palmatum ‘Sangokaku.’

Fabulous Flowers

Clematis cirrhosa ‘Jingle Bells’ has creamy bell-like flowers and evergreen foliage from December. Or for a splash of pinky brown look out for Clematis cirrhosa var. purpurascens ‘Freckles’. Both ideally need a sheltered south-facing wall. Cyclamen coum are delicate hardy cyclamen with tiny pink flowers and silvery leaves (December to March) that make a gorgeous carpet under deciduous shrubs and trees with ferns and snowdrops.

Hamamelis x intermedia ‘Jelena’ is a shrub that makes a winter focal point with its delicate golden orange scented thread-like petals on bare stems from Dec and March. Great for bringing into the house for a scented flower display.

Winter flowering daphnes such as Daphne odora with its delicate clusters of pale pink flowers will give you a lift on a cold day and Edgeworthia, closely related to daphnes, has clusters of scented yellow flowers on bare stems in winter, for some serious wow factor!

Winter-scented viburnum such as V. bodnantense and closely related Viburnum farreri both have clusters of sweet-smelling flowers on bare stems. Viburnum tinus has clusters of winter flowering white flowers.

Stunning Stems

Cornus alba ‘Sibirica’ (Dogwood), with its brilliant coral stems in winter makes a wonderful display in a largish group. I also like Cornus alba ‘Elegantissima’ which has variegated leaves in summer. Intersperse with gleaming olive stemmed Cornus sericea ‘Flaviramea’ and orange stemmed Cornus ‘Midwinter Fire’ for more impact or underplant with crocus or bright evergreen grasses such as Carex ‘Evergold’.

Corylus avellana ‘Contorta’ (contorted hazel) has curling stems and catkins that make a lovely focal point in a winter garden.

Beguiling Berries

Callicarpa bodinieri var. giraldii ‘Profusion’ has clusters of amazing purple/pink berries, which cling to bare branches – bringing a serious wow factor to the garden in winter.

Nandina domestica is an upright airy shrub with spectacular clusters of bright red berries in the winter against purplish leaves.

Ilex aquifolium ‘J.C.van Tol’ is an almost spineless self-fertile holly so has guaranteed bright red berries on dark into winter – or until the birds get at them!

Rosa rugosa roses such as Roseraie de l’Hay are tough useful roses with big red hips into winter. Alternatively R. moyesiii has long orange hips and Rosa glauca is striking with purple grey foliage and red hips – all bringing jolly cheer in the gloomy winter months.

Reading for Pleasure

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We’ve lost the art of reading for pleasure – no wonder kids are losing interest

“Once upon a time…” those words meant something – and perhaps that phrase would have been amongst the most commonly used by parents with their children during the first, crucial decade of their lives. Not anymore. Last week’s National Literacy Trust report found that nearly half of parents had not read with their young child at least once a day (49.4%) in the last year. Last year’s “What kids are reading report” by Renaissance Learning revealed a 4.4% decrease in the number of books being read by pupils in the UK – a decline seen most acutely in secondary school aged children. And the complexity of the books they are reading has also fallen. In Scotland, the average reading age for children was 3 years below the norm. UK teachers surveyed, described a third of their pupils as “weak readers”. The National Literacy Trust – who surveyed children’s reading for pleasure in 2023 - found a 26% decrease since 2005 in the number of children who read daily in their free time. The lowest rates were seen amongst children receiving free school meals. So, what are kids reading? The short answer is not enough and nowhere near as much as they used to. Why does this matter? Should it matter? It’s clear that children have other ways to access information and engage with the digital world, curating their digital personas and socialising across many networks and apps, all of which, of course, require reading. In her excellent article: “Why Children Have Stopped Reading”,1 Mary Wakefield writes that consumption of short form digital content is an inadequate substitute for the depths and lengths of a carefully constructed narrative. She points out that the TikTok presentation of information, which works on the basis of temporary tantalisation, click-bait cliff-hangers and unresolved narratives, presents the very opposite of what deep immersion in the lengthy, developed storyline of a good book offers children. This, she says, is affecting the way they think, process information, and engage with the

world. Jonathan Haidt makes the same claim in “The Anxious Generation”; children’s brains are being rewired because of what they are doing online, particularly on smartphones, and what they are not doing in the “real world” which I would argue also includes long-form reading.

During my career as an English teacher, I have found that, very often, the books that land are the ones that are subversive, transgressive – like Lemony Snickett. The enduring popularity of adventure books is in part because they show kids learning about the world by removing them from it. They don’t try to preach; they try to entertain and often end up teaching the most important lessons of all.

Research has shown a clear link between more reading time in school and higher reading attainment. The biggest gain in reading occurs when more than 30 mins of a student’s school day is devoted to engaged reading time. I’m calling for that reading time to be ringfenced for pure enjoyment of the gifts books bring to us –right up through the secondary schools years – to allow children to see books as a refuge, a source of relief, adventures for their imagination, and to escape the all too many pressures of growing up.

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Control What You Can

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Small Steps to Endof-Year Resilience

As we approach the final stretch of the year, many of us feel as if we’re competing in a personal “Wimbledon” every day— constantly facing high-stakes tasks, tight deadlines, and the pressure to perform at our peak. Recently, I have spoken at many events and a recurring question keeps popping up: “Every day feels like a ‘Wimbledon’. With so much happening, how can I manage when I don’t even have time to take my annual leave?” My, somewhat simple advice, to the undoubtedly complex problem of tackling this sense of overwhelm and maintaining resilience in high-pressure times: control what you can.

Focus on the Controllable Elements

When life feels chaotic, one powerful strategy is to focus on the aspects you have control over. A few key areas to prioritise:

1) Sleep – Quality sleep is foundational to performance and resilience. Aim to wind down with a routine that works for you, whether it’s reading a book, practicing mindfulness, or setting boundaries with technology. It could be an hour, 30 minutes or even just 15 minutes where you prepare yourself for sleep. This restful recharge is critical for handling high-stress periods.

2) Movement – Incorporate movement into your day, even if it’s just a short walk, a quick stretch, or a movement snack. Exercise releases endorphins, improves mood, and can be a valuable way to clear your mind during busy times.

3) Hydration – Staying hydrated is often overlooked, but it’s vital for energy and focus. Make a habit of sipping water regularly throughout the day, as even mild dehydration can impact cognitive function and mood.

4) Energising Nutrition – Focus on foods that support sustained energy, like leafy greens, whole grains, lean proteins, and healthy fats. Try to avoid highly processed, sugary foods that lead to crashes in energy levels and mood.

The Dual Benefit of Taking Control

Focusing on what you can control doesn’t just provide structure in busy times; it has a dual benefit. First, it offers a sense of stability amid the chaos, allowing you to take the reins over your routine when external factors feel overwhelming. Second, each of these small actions contributes to your wellbeing, energy, and overall mood, making you better equipped to tackle whatever’s on your plate you can’t control.

Focus on Small Changes

We can’t always change our workload or the demands of the season, but we can always take small steps to protect our energy and resilience. Remember, it’s not about achieving perfection—it’s about being mindful of the little things that keep you at your best, especially when everything else feels out of control. Small changes, when done consistently, over time have a big impact. So, as we head toward year-end, consider focusing on these controllable factors. You might just find that the small steps help you feel a bit more grounded, energised, and ready to take on the challenges of each day. Wishing you all the best as you finish the year strong!

What's On - December

Tuesdays 3, 10, 17 & 24 & 31

December: Life Drawing and Painting 7pm – 8pm

This is an online drawing & painting session conducted via Zoom. Long pose life painting and drawing. A single pose held for three hours with 5-minute model breaks every 25 minutes. The Dulwich Art Group & School. www.dulwichartgroup.co.uk

Tuesday 3 December:

Honor Oak WI 7.30pm-9.30pm

A friendly and supportive group of women of all ages, backgrounds and interests. December's meeting is Christmas craft and we are making metal tree decorations in silver, copper and gold tones. Non-members are very welcome with a £5 charge towards craft materials - we’d love to see you! honoroakwi@gmail.com.

Instagram @honoroak_wi. www.facebook.com/groups/honoroakwi.

Stanstead Lodge Café, Northwood Road, SE23 1DD

Tuesday 3 December: Online Talk - Through the Valley:

East to West Dulwich Changes Over Time

8pm-9pm. Dulwich has ample evidence of its past through the medium of documents, map illustrations and photographs. Yet the area is constantly changing, evolving over time because of wars, social, economic and technical change which have been its drivers. Local historian and shopkeeper Brian Green attempts to explain some of these catalysts in this illustrated talk. Brian has a lifetime’s collection of images of past Dulwich together with first-hand memories, interviews with past residents and hours spent in the archives. www.bellhouse.co.uk.

Wednesdays 4, 11, 18

December: Goose Green Coffee Morning 11am-12.30pm

Do drop into Goose Green Coffee Morning for a warm welcome, coffee, tea and cake! We are open every Wednesday, it's a great place to get to know others from the local community. All welcome! Free! St John The Evangelist, East Dulwich, 62A East Dulwich Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9AT. All are welcome!

Wednesdays 4, 11, 18

December: Zoom Portraiture @ Dulwich Art Group & School

2pm – 5pm. Paint a clothed model with a focus on the portrait over two three-hour sessions. We give you a wide view and a closer portrait view so you can work out the framing for yourself. The model will at times be engaged in conversation in order to bring some animation to the face. Online Event: www.dulwichartgroup.co.uk.

Wednesday 4 December: Vintage Christmas Card Printing 10am-1pm

Come and end the year in our ever-popular Christmas Printing Workshop in the new Print Room & Bindery using our historic 1860’s Albion printing press, a trio of Adana vintage hand presses and a few Showcard presses too. There will be glitter, there will be Christmas card designs galore and opportunities to print a big Festive Banner or make some joyful bunting. There may even be mince pies. The workshop will be run by the Creative Directors of the Print Room & Bindery - Simon Trewin and Tania HurtNewton. Tickets are £60 per person. Bell House, 27 College Road, Dulwich, SE21 7BG. www.bellhouse.co.uk.

What's On - December

Wednesday 4 December:

An Evening with Jon Sopel

7.30pm-8.30pm. n 2022, after eight years of political reporting in the US, Jon Sopel moved home to the UK. Having spent almost a third of his career abroad, he returned to find a very different country to the one he left. In Strangeland, Jon examines the new post-Brexit Britain with fresh eyes, as a native who’s been out but come back. With his characteristic wit and clarity, he unpicks the changes that have rendered his homeland almost unrecognisable from the country he once knew.

Jon Sopel was the BBC’s North America Editor for 8 years, before launching The News Agents podcast with Emily Maitlis and Lewis Goodall in August 2022. During his time at the BBC, he covered the 2016 and 2020 elections and Trump’s White House at first hand, reporting for the BBC across TV, radio and online. He is the author of If Only They Didn’t Speak English: Notes from Trump’s America, A Year at the Circus: Inside Trump’s White House and UnPresidented: Politics, Pandemics and the Race that Trumped All Others

Book & ticket: £35 (includes a copy of 'Strangeland' RRP £22). A Village Books & Alleyn's Schools Enterprises event.

The MCT at Alleyn's, Townley Road SE22 8SU. www.village-books.co.uk/events.

Thursday 5 – Wednesday 18

December: Mara Sculpture

Discover the soul of Zimbabwean Stone Sculpture. Jeannie Avent Gallery, 14 North Cross Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9EU. www.marasculpture.com.

Thursday 5, 12 & 19

December: Goose Green Lunch Club 12.30pm-2pm

The lunch club is a friendly and informal club for people over 55. We meet every Thursday during term time and enjoy a delicious main course and dessert with tea and coffee for £5. If you’re interested in joining us for lunch or if you would like to volunteer with us, please call:

Martin 07939 288885 / Barbara 0208 693 2090

Goose Green Centre, St John’s Church, 62A East Dulwich Road, East Dulwich SE22 9AT.

Thursdays 5, 12, 19

December: BNI Adventures

6:30am – 8:30am. Part of the award winning multi-national networking organisation, BNI, Adventurers brings together businesses local to Dulwich with the aim of passing business and keeping money in the local community. Givers gain, and members of Adventurers have excelled at both over the last 12 months. Breakfast included. FREE PARKING. Get referrals: boost your business! Contact Hayley 07843 989728 for information. Register at: www.eventbrite.co.uk

Dulwich & Sydenham Golf Club, Grange Lane, College Road, Dulwich, SE21 7LH.

Friday 6 December: Live Band Karaoke

7pm-11.30pm. Reckon you've got the swagger of Jagger? Well, this is your moment. Belt out classics from Dolly Parton to Dizzee Rascal, live on stage, backed by a stunning 5 piece band, in front of a supportive crowd. Lyrics are provided on a screen, and our compere will be on stage with you to add those critical BVs or keep things on track... Pick from over 350 tunes from all genres. Sign up to sing at the venue, then keep an eye on the 'up next' screen. See instagram @lbkpeckham for a taste of what's in store. https://www.livebandkaraoke.london/ The Ivy House, 40 Stuart Road SE15 3BE

You can submit your events for free via our website:

Keeping Dogs Happy and Safe at Christmas

Christmas can be a tricky time. With all those meals to cook, and children and guests to entertain, the family dog is usually last on the list. Bored dogs can add up to a Christmas disaster, not to mention unwelcome emergency vet visits, because Fido has tried to eat the Christmas baubles or golloped down part of the Christmas pudding. Set up a safe space for your dog and make time to settle them down with some great indoor games.

1) Work That Nose

Dogs ‘see’ the world through their noses so give them problem solving scent games.

• Get some opaque containers, plastic flower pots are good- around 4 or five is ideal.

• Without your dog seeing, hide a smelly food treat inside a pot.

• Let your dog go over and sniff it out. If they sniff the right pot, touching it with their nose or paw or just staring, lift the pot and let them get the treat.

• With practice your dog will locate the treat more quickly. Next start spacing the pots further apart.

• Eventually you can add more pots and even start hiding them in different rooms around the house.

2) Hide & Seek

Teach your dog to ‘find’ or ‘search’ on command.

• Tether or have someone hold your dog while you hold out a treat or toy for them to sniff.

• Place the object a few feet or yards, where your dog can see it, go back to the dog, and let them sniff your hand, then say ‘find’ and point towards the hidden object.

• Say ‘yeeeees’ as they get closer and nothing if as they move further away.

• If they find it hard at first, help by pointing or walking up to the object.

• When they find it praise them.

• They will soon get the hang of it and you will not need to help.

• Once your dog starts to actively sniff the ground or air as they search do not say a word, they are now focussing and on task.

• Eventually you may be able to hide the object out of sight, in increasingly difficult locations around the home.

3) Wild & Freeze

Teach your dog to ‘rev up’ in short bursts and then calm down with an instant sit.

• Dance around on the spot, flinging your arms and legs around and at the same time repeat to your pup in a silly, squeaky voice ‘go wild’ –encourage your dog to leap around with you.

• Do this for 5 seconds.

• Now stop dead and fold your arms to your chest saying ‘freeze.’ Your dog should also stop. Say ‘sit.’ Hold for five seconds then ‘go wild’ again.

• You can slightly vary the duration of each freeze session, keep your dog guessing when they can move again.

• Avoid slippery floors for this game. If your dog is excitable or ‘bitey’ this game may not be suitable. Remember, dogs get used to having you round all the time at Christmas, so keep up any separation training. There is lots of good advice about hidden seasonal dangers and keeping dogs safe at Christmas on the Dogs Trust website, be sure to look. Have a great Christmas everyone.

Financial Matters

What Employment Status Are You?

It seems as though employers are becoming more powerful! Isn’t that a bold statement? Yes, and there is evidence to back it up. Hold on, here goes. Increasingly, employees are sharing their lived experience. It often goes like this: “my employer has asked me to go self-employed; or I have been given an option to work as a selfemployed person or on the books.” However, my favourite is the nursery owner who muted the idea that she was considering making all her staff selfemployed.

Given such a choice, it’s true some employees would jump at it. However, let’s rewind and back-up a bit. Linguistically there is something of an oxymoron in these statements, “…staff selfemployed.”

Staff and self-employed are two different tax statuses. Staff are employees and taxable under pay as you earn. Self-employed individuals are not employees and independent contractors or business owners, responsible for all things pertaining to their obtaining assignments to paying their income taxes, national insurance, pension and tax returns.

Moreover the self-employed person does not have any statutory employment rights or benefits. They also do not have any entitlement to being paid the national minimum wage, employer pension contributions, annual leave and all the other employment rights and benefits that flows from being an employee.

With the brief awareness of self-employment, are you still happy to jump for joy at the offer? If you are there are a few more hurdles. Firstly, an employer cannot make any employee self-employed or offer them such a wonderful opportunity. Secondly, the status of self-employment is conditional upon meeting certain requirements prescribed by HMRC and the individual must have deliberately chosen this option at the outset.

Unfortunately, many individuals who state that they are self-employed on reflection are not and at worse subject to unethical employment

practices by some employers. Why? Firstly, employers irrespective of their muscle, bulk or size cannot convert an employee to selfemployed today, tomorrow or any day. Secondly, those who have achieved this feat have and are breaching employment legislation by failing to pay employer national insurance, employer pension contributions, provide annual leave entitlement and in some cases not adhering to minimum wage legislation.

Therefore, the next time you get an offer of being employed as a self-employed worker do pause, reflect and ask yourself who is the real winner in this oxymoron statement.

The army of self-employed have chosen this course of working, not employment. The two words are not interchangeable. Individuals can choose their mode of working subject to a set of conditions. One is either employed or self-employed.

As a self-employed person, you set your own rate. Other attributes of being self-employed are as follows:

• you can send someone else to do the job for you

• you can have several customers simultaneously

• you can choose when to carry out the work

• you provide your resources to undertake the work

• you are solely responsible for the success or failure of the work and your business

It’s probably fair to contend that not many employees, set out to be self-employed to run their own business, when applying for a job

Furthermore being assigned or granted selfemployment status by HMRC does not mean you are self-employed for life or for every engagement undertaken. For example, A local maths tutor providing private tuition may well be self-employed to their many clients. However, if they undertake a revision class for a UK school or college, they may find for that engagement they are not selfemployed but employed. Both employees and employers need to be aware of who has the authority to make a person self-employed. In truth the authority rests with neither party.

What's On - December

Fridays 6, 13, 20 & 27

December: Lewisham

Underwater Hockey Club

7:30pm – 9pm. Try out underwater hockey at Forest Hill pools every Friday evening. We’re a mixed ability club who play for fun and exercise. Complete beginners welcome - we’ll ease you in gently and have kit you can borrow. Forest Hill Pools, Dartmouth Road SE23 2HZ www.luwhc.org.uk

Saturdays 7, 14, 21 & 28

December: Parkrun 9am – 10am Dulwich Parkrun

Free, weekly timed 5k run, jog, or walk in Dulwich Park starting from Queen Mary’s Gate. Register once and bring your printed barcode (can be used at any parkrun across the world). Firsttimers briefing at 08.50. Also in Peckham Rye, Brockwell and Crystal Palace parks. https://www.parkrun.org.uk/dulwich/

Peckham Rye Park Run

A 3-lap anti clockwise course, entirely on tarmac and is mainly flat and therefore a potential PB course The start & finish are located close to the Colyton Road entrance of the park. Peckham Rye Park, Colyton Road SE15 4JR. https://www.parkrun.org.uk/peckhamrye/

Friday 6 December:

Dulwich Charity Lunch

12.30pm-4pm. The Lordship Pub, 211 Lordship Lane, East Dulwich, SE22 8HA

Dulwich Charity Lunch is now in its 23rd year, helping raise funds for local charity Link Age Southwark. Tickets: £36 for a two-course lunch with wine at www.dulwichlunch.co.uk.

PLEASE NOTE: THIS IS A TICKET-ONLY EVENT

Saturday 7 December:

Carols by the Green

11am-1pm. Come along and sing - or listen toyour favourite carols at this popular local event at St John the Evangelist, East Dulwich. Warm up with mulled wine, mince pies and get some Christmas shopping done at our festive stalls. St John the Evangelist, East Dulwich, 62A East Dulwich Road, East Dulwich SE22 9AT.

Saturday 7 & Sunday 8

December: Winter Market Place 10.30am-4pm

Lewisham School of Arts and Design at Adult Learning Lewisham, brings together a group of designers, artists and learners selling jewellery, pottery, artwork, prints, glass, upholstery, cushions, decorative textiles, seasonal cards, artisan bread and floral designs. A fantastic opportunity to enjoy, browse, purchase and commission a bespoke piece and even join a class with Adult Learning Lewisham. Brockley Rise Adult Learning Centre, SE23 1PR www.lewisham.gov.uk/adultlearning

Saturday 7 & Sunday 8

December: Festive Artist Open

House Walters Way Art Collective 11am-8pm (Sat) & 11am-6pm (Sun). Meet local artists and enjoy an intimate shopping experience set in a wonderful self-build wooden house. Affordable unique gifts: Fine Art Prints, Cards, Ceramics, Reformed Glass, illustration, plants, and local Cider for sale. Free glass of mulled wine between 6 - 8pm on Saturday. 10 Walters Way, Honor Oak Park, SE23 3LH https://walterswayartcolle.wixsite.com/mysite

Saturday

7 December:

Goodrich Winter Fair

12pm-3pm. Live music, bouncy castle, stalls and games, Christmas hampers, fog dogs and bar. Santa’s Grotto and mulled wine and smores! Goodrich Community Primary School, Goodrich Road, East Dulwich, SE22 0EP.

What's On - December

Saturday 7th December:

Lambeth Wind Orchestra

Christmas Concert 3pm-4pm

Join Lambeth Wind Orchestra at St. Barnabas Church, Dulwich for their Christmas concert. The concert will feature the narrated piece 'Twas the Night Before Christmas and other Christmas tunes. Children and young people are very welcome to attend. Tickets are £10 for adults and free for under 16s. A collection will be made in aid of Music Masters, a local charity providing music education to children in Lambeth and South London who LWO are supporting. www.lambethwindorchestra.org.uk

Sunday 8 December:

Seasonal Singaround

7pm-10.30pm. At our Seasonal Singaround, we intersperse festive songs and carols sung in unison (we provide the words!) with songs sung by individual people or small groups of people. All are welcome, to sing or to listen. £5 cash or BACS. For lots more information, please see our website www.thegooseisout.com. The Ivy House, 40 Stuart Road, Nunhead, SE15 3BE.

Sunday 8 December: St

Clements with St Peter Church Christmas Fayre

11.30am-2.30pm. Come join our festive fun. We will have lots of stalls including gifts, books, cakes, bric-a-brac, tombola and a raffle with some fantastic local prizes! There will be hot sausage rolls, mince pies and warming mulled wine. Access is from 140 Friern Road or on Barry Road opposite Silvester Road.

Sunday 8 December:

Messiah & Messa di GloriaBlackheath Choir 7.30pm-10pm

Blackheath Choir sing Handel's famous 'Messiah' and Puccini's dramatic 'Messa di Gloria' - joined by a full orchestra and professional soloists, it's a concert not to be missed! Tickets are £16 in advance from tickets@blackheathchoir.org.uk or £20 on the door. Under 18s HALF PRICE at £8. St Margaret's Church is accessible and there will be a bar for refreshments during the interval. http://blackheathchoir.org.uk/events. St Margaret's Church, Brandram Road, SE13 5DL

Monday 9 & Sunday 15

December; Christmas

Wreath Workshop

7pm-9pm (Mon) 1pm-3pm (Sun). Join our wreath workshop with Elizabeth from The Dulwich Petal Project and create a unique handmade wreath, just in time for Christmas. The perfect way to impress your friends and family with something truly beautiful! Come and create a gorgeous wreath to adorn your front door throughout the festive season. Elizabeth will guide you step by step, using a selection of seasonal foliage, dried fruits, festive decorations and beautiful velvet ribbon. All materials included along with a glass of something to toast the festive season. courses@alleyns.org.uk / 0208 613 5027. www.alleyns.org.uk. Alleyn's School, Junior School Art Room, Townley Road SE22 8SU

Wednesday 11 December:

Festive Yoga Workshop

7.30pm-8.45pm. Join me for a magical, candlelit Christmas Yoga Workshop in the ambient festive setting of St.Barnabas Parish Hall. Surrounded by the glow of candles (LED) and the soothing scent of frankincense, you’ll be guided through a gentle blend of meditation, yin yoga, slow flow, and deeply restorative yoga Nidra. Beginners welcome. Please bring your own mat and any other equipment you like to practice with. Arrive 5-10 minutes before the practice begins, the doors will be closed at 7:30pm. www.studio-om.co.uk/events/christmasyoga.

Linkage Southwark

Southwark centenarian says support from local charity is like being part of ‘one big family’ The 100-year-old is encouraging everyone to donate to Link Age Southwark’s Big Give Christmas Challenge.

Winnie has been a regular attendee of the charity’s activity groups and social events since 1993. She currently enjoys a weekly Wednesday games hour and the Warm Spaces offering on Fridays, that provides a hot meal, warmth and good company to people struggling with the costof-living crisis.

When speaking about Link Age Southwark, Winnie says “people belong together, I know that

the people who come here all wanted to get out from their four walls and see something different.”

Link Age Southwark supports older people and those living with dementia to feel more connected to their local community. They do this by providing regular activity groups across Southwark that are free to access, as well as volunteer befrienders to those people who are housebound.

Winnie cherishes this, “justlikeonebigfamily, all the friendships I’ve made. I’ve got to know

different people, different ways of life, different cultures.”

Winnie grew up in Azenby Road, Peckham, the youngest of 11 children. She recalls the street nearby that was originally a plague pit, then consecrated ground before being tarmacked over. Known today as Warwick Gardens, Winnie says, “we used to play on it as kids, chalking on it, skipping and hopscotch.”

She left school during the war, working first in a laundrette, then as a ‘Nippy’ in a J Lyons tea shop, before becoming a clerk in the army. When war ended, she recalls, “thousands of people going out and celebrating, everyone out on the street talking to each other and making plans for a party.”

Throughout the years Winnie has shared these stories with groups about reminiscence, at shows in local theatres, or simply over a game of dominoeswhere Winnie is the reigning champion!

Social contact and connection are central to Link Age Southwark’s mission in creating communities where older people thrive. Winnie is one of 862 people supported this year, as the need

for their services continues to increase. The charity relies on donations to support the work and will be taking part in the Big Give Christmas Challenge 2024 between 3rd and 10th December.

Aiming to raise £16,000 in just one week, each £1 donated is matched by money from the pledge pot, so your donation is doubled! This fundraiser starts on Tuesday 3rd December – you can donate at https://bit.ly/3CxqYuT from midday with the campaign closing on Tuesday 10th December. Double the difference you can make for our older community this Christmas.

What's On - December

Thursday 12 December:

Pantomime - a Very British Feast

8pm-9pm

Over 2500 years in the making, the great British pantomime is a very potent brew indeed. Mix the earliest Greek and Roman drama with commedia dell'arte and medieval morality plays, stir in a sprig of 17th century masque, a dash of 18th century harlequinade and a hefty shot of Victorian music hall and hey presto, you have the modern pantomime. Lecturer: Giles Ramsay. Visitors welcome £10 at the door, cash or card. JAGS Sixth Form Lecture Theatre, Green Dale SE22 8TJ www.theartssocietydulwich.org.uk/programme/lectures

Thursday 12 December: East Dulwich WI - The Magical Christmas Party

7.30pm-9.30pm. For our December event we are rolling out the magic with David Harry, The Delusionist! He will bring that magical stardust to our Christmas party to round up 2024. David is an engaging entertainer, combining an easygoing charm and stunning magic to remember.

He has performed at the Twickenham Stadium, the Edinburgh Fringe Festival, the BFI Southbank, the Park Lane Hilton, many Charity events and most recently at the Guildhall Finale ball. David is also a full-time London Guide.

The East Dulwich WI welcomes guests to this event, first time guests attend for free, returning guests pay a fee of £5.00. We welcome new members, member ship for the year April'2024 to March 2025 when joining in December 2024 is £24.00. Email: join@eastdulwichwi.co.uk

The Castle Pub, Upstairs Function room, 280 Crystal Palace Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9JH.

Friday 13 December:

Bookbinding: Japanese Stab binding workshop 10am-4pm

This taster session is designed to introduce you to basic binding and box making skills that you can build on at future workshops. You will take home three different stab bound soft back books (4-hole, Noble and Tortoise shell stitches) and a slip case. A materials and equipment kindly donated to us from Dulwich College and The London Library. ONLY 3 PLACES AVAILABLE and If time allows you will also be able to have a go at printing your own book plate on one of our vintage letterpress machines.

Tickets: £60 per person. Bell House, 27 College Road, Dulwich, SE21 7BG. www.bellhouse.co.uk.

Sunday 15 December: So Last Century's Vintage Market at Gipsy Hill Brewery 11am-5pm

20+ vintage traders will be filing the Brewery’s event space, and spilling out into the yard. You can expect to find mid 20th century furniture, art, lighting, homeware and ceramics, decorative objects, prints, records, vintage clothes, jewellery and lots more, all displayed with a seasonal flavour! Most traders take card payments, and will deliver locally if you want to buy something big. Outside in the yard there’ll be amazing street food and coffee provided by KERB+. Naturally there’ll be mulled wine to enjoy, and the Gipsy Hill Taproom will be serving up plenty of pints from their big range of excellent draught beer - all brewed on site. FREE ENTRY. Step-free entrance, and level access throughout. Dog friendly.

www.solastcenturyfair.co.uk. Gipsy Hill Brewery, Unit 5, 160 Hamilton Road SE27 9SF

What's On - December

Sunday 15 December:

Carol Service at St John the Evangelist 6pm-7pm

Join us for a traditional service with the singing of carols, readings as well as anthems by the St John's choir, and brass band. Refreshments will be served afterwards. This service will last approximately an hour. St John the Evangelist, East Dulwich, 62A East Dulwich Road SE22 9AT.

Monday 16 – Friday 20 December: Alleyn's Holiday Camp 9am-4.45pm

We welcome children who are between Year 1 and Year 6 from any school, not just those attending school at Alleyn’s. Please note we are unable to take children attending school in Reception. With an emphasis on participation, we help children acquire new skills and confidence whilst making new friends. Our friendly team ensures that every day is bursting with variety and enjoyment. Days are planned carefully so there is plenty for every child to choose from. www.alleyns.org.uk.

Alleyn’s School Townley Road, SE22 8SU

Monday 16 December: Dulwich WI Monthly Meeting

7:30pm-9:30pm. Launched in 2018, the Dulwich WI is a supportive and stimulating group for women of all ages and backgrounds. We meet once a month at Kix Bar + Kitchen, 57 North Cross Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9ET. We would love to meet you and look forward to welcoming you to our group. www.dulwichwi.com

Tuesday 24 December:

Christmas Services at St John the Evangelist

Christingle 3pm-4pm & 4.30pm-5.30pm

Join us at St John the Evangelist, East Dulwich as we tell the story of Jesus' birth, sing Christmas songs, and light our Christingle candles. These services are especially suitable for families and little ones. Two services, 3pm & 4.30pm.

Midnight Mass 11.30pm-1am.

Join us at St John's for this beautiful late-night service that celebrates the birth of Christ, the Light of the World, coming to us in the midst of darkness. This service includes the singing of carols, music by the St John's Choir and brass band, a sermon and Holy Communion. It will last approximately 1hr 20 minutes.

https://www.stjohnseastdulwich.org

Wednesday 25 December: Christmas Day Sung Festival

Eucharist at St John the Evangelist 10am-11am

Join us at St John the Evangelist, East Dulwich to celebrate Christmas morning and the birth of Jesus, 'Emmanuel - God with us', with carols, music, readings, a sermon, and Holy Communion in a service lasting just over one hour.

St John the Evangelist, East Dulwich, 62A East Dulwich Road, East Dulwich, SE22 9AT.

You can submit your events for free via our website: www.arounddulwich.co.uk

Volunteer Drivers Needed

For 30 years, Link Age Southwark has eased loneliness and reduced social isolation for local older people and those living with a diagnosis of dementia. Today, they urgently need more volunteer drivers like Mark. Every Thursday, he collects four older women, from very different backgrounds, driving them to and from singing sessions run by the charity.

“I enjoy listening to them chat when I’m driving them. Hearing about their lives and families is fascinating – they may have limited mobility now, but one of them told me that at 18 she’d been a long jump champion!

They seem to really appreciate the interaction – they’ll ask about my sons, my dogs – it’s lovely to just be me. I retired last year from a very highpressure career where I was constantly ‘on call’. I wanted to explore other aspects of what I can bring to the world.

Link Age Southwark needed drivers. I have a roomy car, and it was an opportunity to give my

BabyBallet

The award winning movement to music, dance & singing programme for boys and girls from 6 months upwards run with a fun, safe and caring environment. Classes in Dulwich. Call Stephanie 07809 148348 | www.babyballet.co.uk.

HartBeeps

Mondays at Christ Church, 263 Barry Road, East Dulwich, SE22 0JT. Mondays 10am Happy House, 11.15am Baby Beeps & 12.30pm Baby Bells.. http://hartbeeps.com

Family Space

Free, creative workshops that take place on the last Saturday of the month at the South London Gallery, 6567 Peckham Road. For children aged 5-12 years old with their parents and carers. Drop-in, no need to book. www.southlondongallery.org

Little Superhero Training

Practice your Superhero moves! Discover Superhero fun facts! Any Little Heroes, Boys and Girls aged 2 - 5, Come along for a FREE taster session. Mondays & Fridays (term time only) St Barnabas Parish Hall, 23 Dulwich Village, SE21 7BT. Contact Lucy 07813 791757 | lucy@littleherocompany.com www.littleherocompany.com

brain a rest, whilst hopefully making a difference. Being a volunteer driver makes me feel good: you’re taking time – listening and being there for others.”

To find out more about becoming a Link Age Southwark volunteer, contact 020 8299 2623; volunteering@linkagesouthwark.org or visit: www.linkagesouthwark.org

Mini Athletics (SE London)

Winning the gold medal for children’s sports classes! Start your child’s fantastic journey in athletic development, designed for toddlers up to children of 7 years old. All through a fun play-based format. To try us out, contact Sam: 07811787153 | smcdermott@miniathletics.com www.miniathletics.com

Tennis-4-Kids

Learn young, have fun. Rally around for a smashing time. Serving ages 3-11. Rackets supplied; fun guaranteed. Gordon 07877 391005 | www.tennis-4-kids.com | gordonwood@hotmail.co.uk

‘Unicornios y Dinosaurios’

Fun and interactive Spanish language play classes, for children aged 0-5, and their parents and carers. Thursdays mornings (term-time only) in East Dulwich. Suitable for all levels of Spanish! Contact Hazel on 07852 553 239 or hazelcarr@ hotmail.com.

Your Class Here

If you would like to advertise your children’s class here, please e-mail angela@semagazines.co.uk for details.

Ripe Old Age

Practical Advice for Navigating Later Life |

How can it happen? You read stories in the paper, a daughter is arrested for taking her aged, desperately unhappy, mother out of a care home; another son is in court challenging a will having been disinherited from an anticipated large capital sum. Whether supporting older parents or just reaching later life ourselves, it is useful to understand certain key legal issues relating to mental capacity, healthcare decision-making, financial protection, elderly abuse, and estate planning.

Mental Capacity. Where a person lacks mental capacity to make decisions regarding health, finances, or welfare the Mental Capacity Act 2005 (MCA) in essence provides that (a) individuals should be presumed to have capacity unless proven otherwise; and (b) any actions on behalf of someone lacking capacity must be in their best interests; and (c) the appointment of a Powers of Attorney being a trusted person to make financial or health-related decisions. Any such appointment can only be made before the person loses mental capacity.

Healthcare The Care Act 2014 requires local authorities to assess and meet the care needs of elderly people, promoting their wellbeing and independence. The act stresses a “personalized care approach,” aiming to ensure that care services

meet the specific needs of elderly individuals. Older adults are also protected by the Human Rights Act 1998 which ensures dignity and respect in healthcare settings allowing claims for neglect or abuse in care homes or hospitals.

Financial Protection Elderly people are especially vulnerable financial and physical abuse. In the past terrible examples have occurred which could have been averted but for public sector bodies being more “joined up”. The Safeguarding Vulnerable Groups Act 2006 creates legal duties to report abuse or risk of abuse to local authorities who are required to set up Safeguarding Boards. These boards are legally required to investigate claims of abuse or neglect, offering support and protection to vulnerable adults.

Estate Planning without a valid will our estate would be distributed under the rules of intestacy. Most law relating to wills is contained in the historic Wills Act 1837. Key issues to note include: any will is automatically revoked by marriage (unless the will is made in contemplation of marriage); a will is only valid if it is made with mental capacity and without duress or undue influence; the will must be in writing, signed and witnessed by at least two people who are present at the same time and are not beneficiaries or married to beneficiaries under the will.

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