THE FIVE SECRETS TO LIVING THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS
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INTRODUCTION
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THE POSSIBILITY PROCESS
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THE FREEDOM FACTOR
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THE NOW FACTOR
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THE SECRET TO ABUNDANCE
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VISIONING PROCESS
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CLOSING THOUGHTS
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INTRODUCTION
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Hi, I’m Lisa Kalmin. I am one of the founders and principal of WorldWorks Trainings. I have spent the last 34 years plus developing myself as a transformational leader and spent the last 33 years plus coaching tens of thousands of people how to live the life of their dreams. Regardless of the circumstances and obstacles you are facing, imagine having a technology that can help you achieve your highest goals and dreams no matter what. Whether you are brand new to using transformational tools to achieve your goals and dreams or even if you have many years of experience in transformation and self-development, the technology I am going to share with you is timeless and proven to get results. This is for you if:
Lisa Kalmin—founder of WorldWorks Trainings and co-founder of Inspire Coaching.
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you want to improve your life personally, professionally, financially or physically;
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you are at a crossroads in your life;
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you want to go to the next level;
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you have had success in area, but are looking for a breakthrough in another area of your life;
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you want to impact your own life and make a profound difference for others;
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you want to achieve your highest goals and dreams;
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you are a professional, entrepreneur, a mother, a father, an artist or even retired looking for what’s next; and/or
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you are motivated to expand yourself and create your dreams with joy and grace.
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I am going to share 5 key distinctions for creating success and fulfillment in your life. First, you are going to learn THE POSSIBILITY PROCESS, which is going to help you change the perception of how you live life so you can open possibilities that seemed impossible before. Next, I am going to teach you THE FREEDOM FACTOR, where we show you how to be responsible for your choices so you have freedom and power to achieve your highest goals.
Number 3, is the THE NOW FACTOR, where we teach you the secret to creating an inspired life right now! Then, THE SECRET TO ABUNDANCE, where you will learn to allow the flow of abundance into your life. And finally, I will give you a VISIONING PROCESS, so you can learn how to manifest your vision NOW! One of the challenges I have noticed is that most people end up working really hard and often don’t reach their true potential or success. They end up putting in lots of time and energy without achieving the results they really want and deserve. They end up feeling frustrated and struggling even though they are smart and talented. If you are one of those people I believe you are committed… you just may not be accessing the most powerful tools to support you. I am going to give you five distinctions that will support you in living an inspired and purposeful life, as well as simple applications. If you embrace and begin to practice these five essentials, you will begin to create your heartfelt desires with freedom and joy.
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Helps you turn negative experiences into empowering ones so you can have joy, freedom and power.
[Previous page.] Trust and be open to flow.
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One of the things the Dalai Lama says is that 90% of human suffering is determined by how we see our life and our world. With the Possibility Process, you begin to look at the events of your life as neutral, that they have no inherent meaning. Now, they have meaning to you because as human beings we are meaning-making machines. However, if you take a moment and realize that you bring the meaning or interpretation to the event, then you could actually bring a different interpretation to the exact same event! Just look at how witnesses of a traffic accident have completely different memories of the same event. When you start realizing this, new possibilities open up for you immediately. I’ll give you a big example for me. When I was 27 years old, my parents divorced and it was very painful for me. In the trainings, I reinvented my interpretation of their divorce. My dad is remarried and I have a little brother who is 32 and a little sister who is 28. I also have a 10 year old nephew. I would never have had a brother or sister (I grew up as an only child) and experienced that joy. I am also much more connected to my mom out of their divorce. Now if you asked me would I rather they had stayed married…yes, but given the fact that they are divorced, I have reinterpreted the event to experience gratitude and joy.
In time, glacial passages reveal paths to freedom.
APPLICATION Next time you feel like something negative has happened whether you feel like you were the one that generated it or someone/something else did - just stop for a moment, notice and feel all your feelings. Then, write down five other ways you could see that same situation in a positive way. Actually write down five different interpretations of the exact same event that are empowering to you. If you actually practice this in writing for 30 days, then you will begin to think that way and see so much possibility in your life events. 11 THE FIVE SECRETS TO LIVING THE LIFE OF YOUR DREAMS
Patience brews possibility.
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There is only one way to experience freedom and power in your life…and that is to BE responsible for all of it.
[Previous page.] Welcome to freedom.
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In taking the Possibility Process to another level…I am going to teach you the Freedom Factor. There is only one way to experience freedom and power in your life…and that is to BE responsible for all of it. I often hear people say I “take” responsibility for something. That is a start, however it’s not the most powerful way to be responsible. Your opportunity is to reframe you life from blame and victim to responsible and accountable. If you are the responsible agent in your life, then whatever occurs in your life (even the yucky stuff), you generated it and if you don’t like it, you are the one who can have it be different. If you are not responsible, then you have to be a victim to someone or something else. When you feel like a victim, you feel powerless. So even if you don’t quite know how to change something you don’t like, you can absolutely decide how you are going to relate to what occurred. If you are personally responsible (not blaming yourself or feeling guilty!) then you have freedom… you are not caught in the spiral of “poor me.” And you have the power and freedom to begin to have it be different. APPLICATION Whenever you feel victimized or like a victim, notice what is the “core” feeling that is being triggered. Then reframe the event to be personally responsible...why did it happen? What is the lesson? This does not mean you have to condone the other person’s behavior.
You are unlimited.
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Help you be what you want to be right now—rather than waiting to get the results to feel that way.
[Previous page.] You are limitless.
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Most of us want to be successful and fulfilled, but we think we have to do certain things or have certain results to feel fulfilled, joyful, confident, or happy. For example, I remember thinking when I have that good job and buy my own home, then I will be successful. That Have-Do-Be or Do-Have-Be formula means you are always waiting to be fulfilled. The Now Factor means that you can “be” who you want to be now! Be-Do-Have means that you can be happy, joyful, confident, loving, powerful right now. You do not have to wait for certain results to be that way. So, if you want to have a loving, joyful, passionate romantic relationship…start being joyful, loving and passionate right now to attract that wonderful partner. Think about it…how is it that so many people on our planet HAVE very little compared to most of us? Yet, so many of them are happy and fulfilled. They choose to see their life as joyful and therefore, are joyful! I have met many people like this along the way, and they really do get it about BEing who you want to be and the rest will follow. Try it!
The universe is working in your favor.
APPLICATION Next time you feel like something negative has happened — whether you feel like you were the one that Write down what you want to Have (things), then how you would feel once you had those things/accomplishments. Begin to BE those qualities NOW… and notice what you attract!
Be-Do-Have now!
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Learn to allow the flow of abundance into your life.
[Previous page.] Grow wild.
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1. OUTFLOW Meaning, e.g.: give, share, take action benefitting others.
Examples of outflow: you bring bagels to work for everyone, you call your mom or grandma to check in on them, you allow someone in front of you in traffic, you are a good listener, you cook for the people you love, you give to charity (money or time or both), you mentor or develop others to learn, you are open-hearted even when you don’t want to be… Outflow is any way you are giving your energy, time, love to others in small ways and big ways. Outflowing opens the door to abundance flowing into you. If you are holding your energy in…there is no space for new energy to come into you. APPLICATION
Generous outflow.
Every time you can give to someone…do so. Open a door, call a friend who needs support, volunteer to bring the donuts, volunteer or raise money for a school, charity or movement, send positive energy to people. 2. COMPLETION AND FORGIVENESS If you are incomplete with anything, abundance cannot come to you. That incompletion is taking up space. So, for example, you haven’t filed your taxes for 2017. You borrowed something from someone and haven’t returned it. OR you are incomplete with some past relationship.
APPLICATION In order to complete you have 3 choices: •
If you can or choose to complete something: write it down, put
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Abundance and rebirth.
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a deadline on it and do it, i.e. I will go file my past taxes by October 15. Or make the call to a past relationship and communicate responsibly your part in the breakdown. Heck, Adele has made 2 hit songs with this!
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If it is something that cannot be completed or you are just not choosing to complete it, write it down on a piece of paper, give yourself permission to feel whatever feelings go with it, then, declare it complete (you can even write complete in big red letters over the entire paper) and, literally, crumple the piece of paper up and throw it away. Be done with it.
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If it something that is emotionally incomplete, forgive yourself or the other person. Through forgiveness, you take your power back. Even if the event was hurtful to you or to the other person, forgiveness gives you freedom. Forgiveness is actually letting it go. So be cautious that you are not saying you have forgiven but still feel resentment or guilt.
3. APPRECIATION Scarcity (the opposite of abundance) cannot exist in an open hearted, generous spirit. Appreciate people often. It only takes a few minutes and creates a huge opening for abundance to flow through you. Appreciation leaves the other person filled up! So, I want to appreciate you for taking the time and spending the energy to read this piece. I know you are the kind of person who is committed to being the best human being you can be and you are willing to invest yourself in your own growth for the benefit of the people you love. Thank you! See how easy it is! Celebrate now!
APPLICATION Appreciate 3 people in your life today. Try it for 7 days and see how you feel!
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4. AFFIRMATIONS You may be saying to yourself, “really, affirmations?! Those are so hokey!” I used to say that until I began to use affirmations to transform my results. An affirmation is a statement that something is already so. And you are putting energy into what you want, not what you don’t want. For example, “I am enjoying my new and spacious home”, rather than, “we need to move from this overcrowded house.” APPLICATION Start by creating an affirmation and practice saying it twice a day for 30 days. Abundance follows affirmative energy…give it a try! There are plenty of affirmation examples online or write your own. Make sure to speak what you want, not what you do NOT want.
Patience and focus delivers.
5. ENTHUSIASM Enthusiasm comes from the Greek term “en theos”, the God within. Enthusiasm brings the energy of abundance to you quickly. Now, most of us are very enthusiastic at a sporting event or at a concert! You can increase abundance by being enthusiastic about everything, especially if you usually are not. Be excited about walking the dog…the dog IS! Be enthusiastic about going to work; see what happens to your attitude and results. I have twin boys that are almost 8 years old, they get excited about EVERYTHING. They are my best reminders. Try it! APPLICATION
Practice being joyful, excited, and enthusiastic about your life — especially times when you are typically frustrated, angry, grumpy, et cetera!
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Courage!
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Operate now in the future you want.
[Previous page.] Get vision-centered.
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We’ve talked a little about affirmations and their value. The Visioning Process takes that to a whole new level. The Visioning Process is simple, however its not always so easy to practice.
In The Visioning Process you literally operate as if the future you want, the vision you want already is. We call this “standing in the future.” Most people stay stuck in the past. So for example if you are determined to lose 15 lbs, you would go out and by a pair of pants for your new size. It is as if you can see, hear, taste and feel that vision now. Vision Boards are a great way to begin practicing this process, as well as closed-eye meditations. APPLICATION Write out your vision for your life, minimum one standard notebook size page, in the present tense and read it everyday for 30 days. It is CRITICAL to write it as if it has already come true. You can also record it on your phone and listen to it everyday as you workout or drive or even walk the dogs.
Go BIG!
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The distinctions I have just shared with you are not new…they have been supporting people in transforming their lives for over 40 years. I learned them by participating in the WorldWorks trainings 33 years ago and by coaching and training these distinctions for 32 years. And they take integration and application. The integration for me happened in the workshops themselves. By fully experiencing the distinctions, they became cellular learning. Then by practicing the distinctions in my life with the kind of coaching I received as part of the workshops, I began to master them. If you truly want to transform your life, create breakthrough results, it requires that you reinvent how you see yourself and the world, then it requires distinct action with support and coaching so that you stay on track! (We all veer off course…it's the support system around us that makes a monumental difference.) Check out my book on Amazon.com: The Problem is How You See The Problem.
The WorldWorks Trainings and my personal coaching are designed to have you experientially transform your framework and world view in order to access breakthrough results immediately! If you are looking for a shift in your romantic relationships, creating a romantic relationship, becoming an influential speaker, transforming your family, living your purpose, creating financial abundance, or empowering your health and well being, reach out to me. I would love to support you! Feel free to email me with questions and/or feedback! lisa@worldworkstrainings.com
To your extraordinary future! LISA KALMIN
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