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PROFILE - 20 Jay Apungan still rockin’ in the free world

IN FOCUS - 24 Expert advice for DB trail runners

EDUCATION - 30 What modern kids can learn from the past

ESCAPES - 40 Armchair travel: gearing up for the Galapagos

RECIPES - 44 Classic fruit puddings with a zany modern twist

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MID-AUTUMN CELEBRATION AND GERMAN BEER FEST One World Spirit Association, a new non-governmental organisation in DB promoting the benefits of an integrated and culturally diverse community, hosted two events for residents in October. On October 1, there was a Mid-Autumn Festival performance of Chinese dance and Cantonese opera at the DB Community Hall, followed by a Hanfu parade from DB Plaza to Tai Pak Wan. On October 10, a German beer festival at Midvale Village offered up a beer drinking competition and barbecue, plus Bavarian music and dance.

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Paddlers from the Lantau Boat Club organised a charity ‘Pink Day’ on October 17, which included a 2-kilometre relay race from Tai Pak Wan to Sam Pak Wan, to raise funds for breast cancer awareness. All proceeds from the event and the sale of the club’s Pink Move shirts were donated to the Hong Kong Breast Cancer Foundation.

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CARGO BIKE RIDES FOR RMHC

To raise funds for Ronald McDonald House Charities (RMHC) in Hong Kong, DB resident Rob Prange provided free cargo bike rides to kids after a Tekkerz football training session on October 10 and again in both plazas on October 11. Rob, whose daughter Robin died at the age of eight after a five-year battle with leukaemia, raised HK$4,066 in two days for RMHC.

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The Axeman Cometh

DB musician and teacher Jay Javier Apungan is ready for the spotlight again, whenever it returns. Elizabeth Kerr reports November 2020 www.arounddb.com

ay Javier Apungan paid HK$10,000 to see Guns N’ Roses.On the notorious rock band’s last Hong Kong stop in 2018 Jay was getting ready for the night out with his wife, Kris Perry, and lost his wallet on the bus on his way to meet her. “My auntie called me so I answered the phone and put my wallet down beside me,” he recalls with a hearty chuckle and a shrug. It just so happened he was travelling to the Philippines the next day, so he’d just withdrawn a considerable chunk of change from the bank, after putting the HK$2,400 tickets in his wallet. The couple trekked out to AsiaWorld-Expo anyway and bought fresh tickets. “It’s one of the most expensive concerts I ever saw. But it was worth it, even if Axl Rose can’t hit those high notes anymore,” he finishes with a laugh. Jay greets visitors at his DB studio looking like, well, a rock star. The space is what you’d expect of a musician: there’s a double-tiered keyboard, a dozen guitars – his baby, a Fender Telecaster, and a Gibson Les Paul – are visible, and there’s a book (a gift) about living like Keith Richards propped behind the desk. Jay is rocking Black-era Kirk Hammett locks. Sadly, there’s no rock star attitude or Jack Daniels-littered sitting room. Or perhaps, fortunately. But there is a Christmas tree – in October. Effortlessly good-natured, Jay perches on a stool, flipping his hair every so often between sips of sparkling water. He’s alone these days; Kris and his eight and 12-year-old daughters Neve and Mia headed to her hometown of Indianapolis four months ago when the consumer electronics executive was offered a plum job. He hopes to see everyone near the end of the year, but he’s happy the girls are finally settling into life in a sleepy US suburb.

Jay Apungan at a gig at Hemingway’s in October

“They were born here. They can’t deal with the quiet, and being unable to walk off to Starbucks on their own,” he says. But they’re making new friends – and one has joined a band. Jay still has the family cat, Daisy, an SPCA adoptee, and of course the kids that come through three times a week for music lessons.

quite the singing voice and before long he was singing at parties, in church choirs, and anywhere that would help him contribute to the family.

Stay tuned

By the time he turned 16, Jay was getting a reputation around Manila for his guitar skills –and harbouring ambitions to travel, initially to Japan. He got side-tracked, however, by local band Stay Tuned.

A native of a town about four hours south of Manila – “one hour without traffic” – Jay started singing and playing music at age nine. His father had gone blind, and he was acting as the man’s eyes, and when his dad picked up the guitar so did he. The family discovered Jay had

“I believe in luck,” he says. “I was hanging out, having some beer with friends, and someone in the bar’s band recognised me from around town.” Stay Tuned was on the verge of losing its guitarist and so asked if Jay would be interested  in stepping in. One jam later they

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PROFILE told him where to show up the next day to start. “I was very early,” he says, laughing again. He was 18. Jay stuck with Stay Tuned for eight years, touring in Penang and Singapore before the group disbanded following a series of minor tiffs. It was then he got offered a contract to work at stalwart Hong Kong nightspot Insomnia. He landed in 2003, and for seven years he ripped through personal and fan favourites there, and at the Hard Rock Café and Adrenaline (at Happy Valley Racecourse) among others. He cites influences including Carlos Santana and the Eagles’ Glenn Frey. “If you play these, you’re a guitar player in the Philippines. But one of my favourites is Gary Moore. Slash is ok, Matthias Jabs is ok too. And oh my gosh, I can’t believe he just died: Eddie Van Halen!” Jay gets animated when he talks about music. He describes the Telecaster as having a “brilliance” to it, and the Les Paul as “fat and rock.” He doesn’t quite understand the enduring charm of Hotel California, but admits “the solo is unbelievable.” He’s working on mastering AC/DC’s Thunderstruck – Australians ask for it all the time – but he has a dark secret. “To be honest? My favourites are oldies: Johnny Mathis, The Platters and the crooners from the 1940s, ’50s and ’60s.”

Local shredder Insomnia was a good career move both professionally and personally: Jay met Kris almost immediately after arriving. “I’d been here about two weeks, and we met at a gig I was playing. At Chasers. That was one of the best bars I’ve ever played. I loved that bar,” he recalls of the old Knutsford Terrace haunt. The bar may be

Jay’s influences vary from Carlos Santana to Johnny Mathis

gone but the couple flourished, relocating to DB after the birth of their first daughter. “We were living in Hung Hom, and there was no place for kids. I was teaching a friend of mine guitar, and he lived in DB, so I came here to teach him,” Jay explains. Interest piqued, Jay saw a realtor and looked around – then told Kris, who didn’t need much convincing considering the space they could get for their money. Still gigging at the time, Jay relished the change of pace, and he still does. “After work it’s always nice to get on the ferry and just… let it all go and relax,” he says. His daughters were also the reason he opened JK International Music Production in 2012 (www. jkmusicint.com). The late nights and boozy venues were getting to be a bit much, so he turned his attention to JK – producing, booking and teaching during normal business hours. “I wanted to reduce the nightshift work because it left me no time during the day. I’d finish a gig at Dusk till Dawn at 6am, my ferry

would be at 6:30am, all my kids’ teachers would be on the boat, and I’m out of it,” he says with a shake of the head. “Sometimes they’d have to wake me up. It wasn’t good. I started the business so I could be home more, and pick the girls up from school.” Though teaching is keeping him busy, ask if Jay has missed playing live during the pandemic and the answer is an instant, “Oh god, yes.” He can’t wait to get up on stage again, pooh-poohing the idea of retiring, and laments the loss of The Big Picnic this month. “That’s one of the best events in Discovery Bay. I love it. It’s very freeing. There are whole families in the audience, and your kids can see you play.” For now though, he relies on low-key Sunday shows at Hemingway’s to scratch the performance itch, something he chalks up to his typical Filipino upbringing, where singing is part of everyday life. “We sing all the time. We’d sing carols in October. Did you notice my Christmas tree?” He points out the aforementioned tree with a cheeky grin. “That’s Pinoy style!”

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With the weather getting cooler, now is an ideal time for beginners to hit the trails for the first time, or – for those with more experience – to start training in preparation for a race. Elizabeth Jerabek gets the lowdown on gear, nutrition and motivation from three local experts Nikki Han on her way up to Tiger’s Head in the Everest Challenge, 2020

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here are many reasons to live in Discovery Bay, but having Lantau Country Park right in your backyard is one of the best. During COVID-19, this proximity to some of best trails in Hong Kong has provided a lifeline for many DB residents.

“Night-time hiking and trail running are getting popular and are a good way to beat the crowds, beat the heat and enjoy fantastic sightings of Hong Kong’s wildlife,” Shakeel adds. “If you are planning to run at night you not only need a good headlamp, but also a small auxiliary torch as backup.”

With so many trails leading out from DB, it’s up to you whether you want to challenge yourself with a tough uphill sprint in preparation for a race or simply get a little gentle exercise on a Sunday morning.

Shakeel is quick to highlight recent innovations in the way trail running gear is made. “Changes in outerwear not only include new styles, but also a greater choice in fabrics, such as high-tech superbreathable polyesters, bamboo fibres or classic Merino wool,” he says. “GPS watches have become more affordable and superlightweight with longer battery run times.

The gear According to Shakeel Nawaz, director of retail operations for Escapade Sports, the most important consideration for trail runners is their shoes. “The outer sole of the shoe is the most significant difference between a typical running shoe and a trail variant,” he says. “The outer soles of trail running shoes have lugs, which provide increased traction. Some trail running shoes have shorter lugs, which are better suited for the hard surfaces often found on many of the paved concrete trails in Hong Kong. Other trail running shoes have longer more aggressive lugs on the outer soles, which are better suited to runs on loose, soggy or wet trails and paths.” Once properly shod, how much other gear you need is again determined by the kind of trail you are tackling. “A short run might only require a water bottle, energy bar, Octopus card and a phone – all of which could be carried easily in a waist pouch,” explains Shakeel. “But a 30K walk across Lantau would call for a hydration pack where – in addition to the reservoir for water – you could carry some extra food and electrolytes, a jacket and other essentials like trail poles.

“Ten years ago, finding a pair of poles usually meant settling for a pair that a mountaineer would want on a K2-bound expedition,” he adds. “But now you can find lightweight aluminium and carbon fibre poles that can be quickly and easily folded away with the pull of a string. Hydration packs to head lamps, shoes to caps, everything has evolved and choices have improved.”

Fitness and nutrition DB resident Michael Skobierski started trail running eight years ago when he arrived in Hong Kong. “I was looking for a way to access all the hills I kept seeing from the office and I was fascinated by Hong Kong’s natural beauty,” he says. “I was amazed at how quickly you can exit the urban area and find yourself in completely different environments.” Michael’s basic advice for trail runners is to put on your shoes and go: “You don’t need much for a short trail run and you can be ready with five minutes of preparation.” But with that said, he has some valuable wisdom to

share. Michael was a member of the winning team, Gone RunningJoint Dynamics, in the 2018 Oxfam Trailwalker race, as well as the Lantau 70 and Lantau Vertical individual champion in 2017, and the King of the Hills overall champion 2017/ 2018. For those transitioning from road to trail running, Michael says the biggest challenge is the constant up and down across different surfaces. “When you are running on the road, you can usually hold a steady pace. But on the trail, you need to constantly brake and accelerate due to turns, technical downhills or steep uphills,” he explains. “For trail runs over a longer distance, you might not run the uphill but power hike instead to conserve energy.” In Lantau the conditions on the trail can be very tough and a steep climb in the sun will quickly wear down your reserves, so it is important to be mindful of your nutrition and hydration. “There are many different formulas, and you will want to try different things to see what works best for you,” Michael says. “I usually hydrate from the start and make sure I have a constant calorie intake. For each hour of running I have 500ml of liquid and at least 100cal of nutrition (solid food such as banana, granola bars or energy gels), and I keep the intake steady from the start.” Trail runners often experience injuries as a result of over use, as repetitive movements over a long time can wear down joints and ligaments. “The strong impact of running downhill can be very tough for the feet and knees while some preconditions like an unbalanced stride will also result in injuries,” Michael confirms. Cross training, consequently, is important for trail runners, particularly exercise targeting the  core and hip strength.

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Giving your body sufficient recovery time to rest and heal after a run or series of runs is equally important. “The beauty of trail running in Lantau is the variety and you can keep changing between hillier trail runs or flat runs. Or you can take a break one day with a run on the road, as well as changing the intensity of the runs,” Michael says. “But there are different forms of fatigue, and when you notice any of them I would either just do a very easy and short pleasure run or not run at all.”

Staying motivated DB resident Nikki Han has been trail running for seven years and is a member of the Hong Kong Sports Clinic Team affiliated with Lantau Base Camp in Mui Wo. In 2019, Nikki was also one of the top three finalists in the non-stop, 300-kilometre Hong Kong Four Trails Ultra Challenge (HK4TUC). Nikki beat out 26 local and international runners to finish in third place in 58 hours and become the first woman to do so. “Trail running is awesome,” she says. “It makes you feel free. It clears your head and everything you see makes sense. The trails teach you. They keep you calm and not so worried about ‘stuff.’ The more you run the more you filter out all the meaningless stuff.” Speaking of motivation, it also helps to hit the trails to benefit a good cause, as Nikki did on August 15 to celebrate her 50th birthday and to raise awareness for Asia Trail Girls (ATG), an organisation dedicated to helping girls and women from all over Asia discover the beauty of trail running. “My goal was to inspire and encourage ladies of a similar

Michael Skobierski racing up Lantau Peak in the Lantau Vertical, 2017

age to challenge themselves, to keep moving forward,” says Nikki. “I want other women to see the benefits that come with trail running. Doesn’t matter how fast or slow you are, just getting out there is the thing you can do for yourself.”

her, and she also did five loops on her own.

As part of the ATG Vert - Race for Elevation Challenge, Nikki completed an ‘Everest’ by running 20 laps from the bottom of the golf course road in DB to the top of Tiger’s Head and back down – in 22 hours. Nikki started the challenge at 6am on August 15 and finished at 9am on August 16. She was joined by 15 trail running friends who each ran a loop with

You can go south through Nim Shue Wan to reach Mui Wo, Pui O and eventually Tai O. You can go west and up to Tiger’s Head and veer off towards Tung Chung, or turn north to follow the path that overlooks Hong Kong Disneyland. All of these routes are interlinked, meaning you can run and hike here for years and still find yourself covering new ground.

Nikki’s Everest Challenge route is popular with both veteran trail runners and casual weekend hikers, as are many of the trails that lead out from Discovery Bay.

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020 has been a tough year financially for people across the globe, however it is not only our material lives that have been affected. The pandemic has caused substantial and, in some cases, irreversible changes to our emotional lives. Due to a myriad of reasons many marriages have become casualties during this challenging time.

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Importantly, of course, couples have found themselves in each otherâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s company much more than usual. More time together means more interaction, which potentially leads to more conflicts. Small irritations are amplified into colossal issues that cannot be ignored. In addition, disagreements over how to conduct oneself during a pandemic are leading couples to question or even re-evaluate their compatibility, as they contemplate how best to balance the needs of society at large with their own.

Money has long been a significant make-or-break factor in marriages and it has become a major source of conflict during the pandemic, since many people have been forced to take unpaid leave or a pay cut; some have even been laid off. The reduction in household income has led to a drastic shift in lifestyle choices for many couples, as well as additional emotional duress. The resolution to these financial disagreements may be an age-old

one that applies to any relationship at any stage â&#x20AC;&#x201C; communication. Effective communication is key. Only when expectations and desires are clearly expressed can couples move forward as a united front. How we spend, save and invest reflects our values, beliefs and habits. The amount of money that we have impacts our lifestyle directly. When partners disagree on how to handle their finances, the damage caused to the relationship can seem irreversible. Effective communication can help bridge this fundamental gap. Therapy is not a dirty word. Counselling can be highly effective for couples who are at odds for financial reasons. It gives them the opportunity to communicate effectively and openly in the presence of a skilled mediator. Within a secure environment, they can open up to each other, understand each other, re-imagine a future together and possibly save their marriage.

Being able to communicate openly with each other is particularly important at the current time since the change in tone and tempo of society has prompted many of us to reflect more deeply on our present and future circumstances. Life cannot go on as normal. How, then, should we proceed? Conflicts regarding money have been exacerbated and if a couple feels their relationship is in jeopardy, they should not hesitate to seek help from a marriage guidance counsellor. If it is impossible for a couple to resolve their issues, the next step is dissolution of the marriage. To deal with such circumstances, couples need to understand both the bigger picture and the finer details of the legal proceedings. At Withers, we have a number of specialist family lawyers, speaking fluent English, Cantonese, Mandarin and French, who are ready to talk you through the various options that would best suit your family circumstances. Please feel free to contact us to learn more about how our family lawyers can help you.

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hen I was at school, history lessons – learning about the Magna Carta, the Battle of Hastings, Agincourt, Bosworth and Bannockburn along with the names of unknown kings fighting unknown battles in unknown places – were the most boring I could imagine. They were just names and dates but I had to remember them because I knew that in a very short time, there would be a test. In the back of my mind was the question: ‘Why do I have to learn about this when I’ll never use it again when I grow up?’ And you can be sure our children’s minds work the same way as ours did.

used to be but its lessons can teach us things that are important for life today. History can be the richest of all stories, the saddest of stories and the most shocking of stories. It’s a story of all people, in all places, at all times and because we know of that history, we can decide what may happen in the future.

transformation. Images, video, sound bites, tweets and interactive apps are just some of the ways through which they learn nowadays. So, keeping that in mind, we need to share our knowledge of history in a way that will be engaging.

Movies are a great place to start, as you want to make sure that learning about history is exciting and fun. It provides identity and shows us Look to the old Hollywood classics models of good and responsible like Ben-Hur or The Great Escape, behaviour, as well as teaching us as well as more recent releases like how to learn from the mistakes Guy Ritchie’s King Arthur: Legend of others. History helps us of the Sword. Children will soon understand how society can realise that being a ‘historian’ is like change and develop. If we don’t being a time detective; they’ll start teach our children to connect with looking everywhere for clues to help them build up a picture of what happened long ago. On the small screen too, Look to the old Hollywood they’ll find plenty of grist for the mill, through popular, classics like Ben-Hur or blockbusting series like The Great Escape, as well as Game of Thrones and Downton Abbey.

But now that we’re older and wiser, we understand that our children can learn a lot by looking closer at the past. As we get older, our perception changes, as do our interests. All of a sudden, these characters are not eccentric anymore and we realise they were real people with real personalities. They fought battles, they fell in love, they made mistakes and they were vulnerable to diseases. Just like us. All of a sudden history becomes exciting. And then at some stage, almost like a revelation, we realise that learning history has many important benefits as well. By understanding our past, and where we came from, we hope to understand where we are now and even decide what might happen in the future. The way things are now is a consequence of the things that happened in the past. The way things will be tomorrow will be a consequence of the way things are now.

more recent releases like Guy Ritchie’s King Arthur: Legend of the Sword history, then the consequences for our society could be disastrous. The more we know about the past the better prepared we are for the future because by remembering the past, we realise that we are responsible for building a legacy for the generations that follow us. Considering that greed caused The War of the Roses, family misunderstandings caused the First World War and the need for power caused the Second World War, who would want to repeat them? As the Spanish philosopher George Santayana said: “Those who do not remember the past are condemned to repeat it.”

Learning from the past

Bringing history to life

History not only provides us with a nostalgic glimpse of how things

The way our children absorb information is undergoing a rapid

Apps are of course another great way to bring history to life, with games, interesting visuals and interactive multimedia features making study fun. Take Timeline Eons: All major historical events are organised on a timeline, so children can zoom in and out to learn about different time periods. Ancient Rome from Britannica Kids is another very welldesigned app – it includes mediarich material, games and quizzes. My grandkids also rate Faking It, a free app from The Metropolitan Museum of Art, which teaches history through iconic photos. And what about storytelling? We were telling stories long before the golden-haired, blue-eyed Vikings sailed dragon-prowed boats up a river in Northumbria one cold miserable January morning in 793AD, and we are still listening to these stories told by today’s raconteurs and writers, and by our grandparents and parents. Hence  the word ‘his-story.’

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Interactive apps are a great way to bring history to life

Using stories to teach history From a very young age, children are taught to recognise and appreciate stories that they are told. At bedtime especially, a wave of hushed concentration envelops children as they hear the words ‘once upon a time’, and there are hundreds of titles, not necessarily nonfiction books, to choose from. For example, there is the story of King Arthur and the Knights of the Round Table. Although fictitious, this tale is full of intrigue and bravery, dashing knights on white horses and swooning damsels in distress. Then we have the story of Robin Hood and his Merry Men robbing from the rich and giving to the poor, while romping though Sherwood Forest in Lincoln-green long johns. For something closer to our times, there is Mark Twain’s The Adventures of Huckleberry Finn which offers readers a glimpse of what life was like in 19th century

America and addresses important issues from the past – slavery, for example. The book list is endless and in every one, there is a story to grab children’s imagination. With just one chapter a night, it’s possible to take the time to answer any questions your children may have about the stories you choose. Who knows, soon your children may start reaching for the historical fiction shelf on their own. Growing up in Hong Kong, our children are already exposed to different cultures and values,

and history helps to open their minds and allows them to learn the importance of world cultures. By exploring the different stages of history, they understand the importance of major events and the mistakes that were made. Mistakes that we hope will never be repeated. And isn’t that what we really want? To make our children’s future better than our past? In the immortal words of the English poet and novelist Rudyard Kipling: “If history were taught in the form of stories, it would never be forgotten.”

DB resident Trisha Hughes is the author of five books including the bestselling V2V historical trilogy, that provides a thrilling and highly accessible ride through the British monarchy from the time of the Vikings to the present day. For more on Trisha, visit www.trishahughesauthor.com and www.vikingstovirgin.com.

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his month, we’re talking about Christmas. Afterall, in the Philippines the Christmas season has already begun. From September onwards, our houses are lovingly decorated, trees are put up, and parol (Christmas stars) are secured in place. ‘Tis the season to be jolly, is what we say – but the truth is Christmas can sometimes be far from jolly for migrant domestic

workers. It’s a special time of year for the family but a stressful time for finances.

lasting Christmas memories with your family – memories that won’t break your budget.

Christmas will be very different this year. Most of you reading this will be unable to travel home due to lockdowns, travel restrictions or greater expenses, and you are probably feeling sad to miss this special time. But even though you’re far away, you can still create

Christmas on a budget

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Usually when you go home for Christmas, you take gifts for everyone. This year, you feel you must send gifts by post but it’s very expensive to send so many. What should you do?

It can be uplifting to give to our loved ones, but the most important thing to remember is that money and gifts do not replace love. Why do you feel you need to send so many gifts? Are you overcompensating because you can’t be at home this year?

total amount spent must fit into your monthly budget – don’t forget to include the cost of postage. If you’re spending more than you can afford on sending these gifts, then you need to look at your list again and make some tough decisions.

If you’re giving aguinaldo (money traditionally given at Christmas in the Philippines), consider giving a smaller amount, reducing the number of recipients or even giving a nonmonetary gift instead.

Take the time to check different options for your gifts. Perhaps there is a better deal out there. Also consider if your gift can be valued as a second-hand item, which would reduce your customs charges.

You might already have been collecting gifts for your balikbayan box (cargo that is sent to family in the Philippines) but it’s worth pausing to consider whether you can handle this expense right now. The gifts you’ve gathered might keep for next Christmas, or for the next time you go home. Keep your long-term goals in mind: The money for the fancy mobile phone that you’d like to send to your son could help with a down payment on your dream house. Incidentally, this is also a great time to think about planning ahead for next year – if you set aside a small amount as part of your budget every month, you can ensure that gift-giving doesn’t come as a stressful surprise in 2021. Whatever you do, do not take a loan to buy or post gifts. When you borrow money, you have to pay interest on that loan, making your gifts even more expensive and taking you further away from your long-term goals. Make a realistic list of everyone you really need to give a gift to and allocate a maximum amount that you will spend per person. This is important because the

The foundation of gift-giving is all about expressing sincere thought and love. So, why not post loved ones a handwritten Christmas card or letter, and either make your own gifts or send upcycled second-hand ones. You could also consider gifting books or classes that support your loved one’s interests. The personal touch speaks volumes.

Making special memories You miss your family and Christmas is the best time for you to bond with them. How can you make this Christmas special if you’re not there? It’s completely understandable for you to feel sad that you can’t be at home with your loved ones. You

work hard throughout the year to provide them with a better future, so of course you cherish this time with them. But you really don’t have to rely on gifts to make this Christmas ‘special.’ This year, make the theme ‘special memories.’ Plan some fun, inexpensive activities that you can do together online. Your loved ones will value the quality time you spend with them. You could sing Christmas carols or ‘share’ a special dinner together – you could even have a lovely meal delivered to them on Christmas Day. Take the time to have personal conversations with your children or partners this Christmas. It’s been a tough year for them too. Talk to them about your Christmas wishes for the family, and allow them to share their thoughts and even their concerns if that’s what they need. These memories will last much longer than their happiness over a new toy or gadget. Finally, don’t forget your happiness this Christmas. Be sure to treat yourself to a small gift or a special meal with friends. Take the time to recognise everything you’ve achieved, everything you’ve overcome, and all your dreams for the future.

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FENG SHUI: THE LIVING ROOM For many of us the living room is the true heart of the home, so it’s important to get the sheng chi (beneficial energy) flowing. Samantha Wong reports

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ne of the reasons minimalist design schemes appeal to so many of us is that they radiate sheng chi (beneficial energy). A pared back, clutterfree room is harmonious and well-balanced; it’s calming without being dull and it has a sense of flow – all essentials for good feng shui. So, if you are reworking your living room to improve the feng shui, start by decluttering it. Throw out what you can (that pile of old magazines on the coffee table) and find storage solutions for things you use on a regular basis. It’s worth investing in a few simple pieces that will free up space – perhaps you need a bookcase or a couple of side tables with in-built storage. You’re aiming to fill your room with only the (attractive) necessities,

and this goes for larger pieces too – get rid of the chair you never sit in and the painting you no longer look at.

The basic elements Paring down will immediately up the feel of any living room, as will giving some thought to furniture placement. Work with scale and proportion to create harmony between pieces of furniture, and make sure there’s enough space for chi to flow. Group chairs to promote conversation and togetherness, and put the TV in a cabinet so that you can really switch off from it every now and then. A word here about tech – televisions, stereos, computers and phones are all associated with yang (male energy), so you need to go big on ying (female) energy elsewhere

in the living room. This is easy enough to achieve – avoid painting the walls stark white opting instead for cream or earth tones, and swap out any overpowering paintings or oversized pieces of furniture. Minimalist design schemes rely on clean lines and angular shapes but be sure to introduce a few yingboosting curves. A circular coffee table will immediately soften things up, as will curvy design motifs on your soft furnishings. Another thing you need to ensure in the living room, as in every room in the home, is that each of the five elements (wood, fire, earth, metal and water) is well represented. We’ve talked, in previous issues, about how you can up the presence of a particular element in a room through colour use. For instance, you can invite more wood energy  into a room by introducing some

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green-coloured or real-wood furnishings. But note that the shapes you choose to decorate with are also important, since each shape represents a specific element. Triangles and stars are associated with fire, squares with earth, round shapes with metal, curvy shapes with water, and rectangles with wood. Chi can’t flow in a room filled with stagnant air, so be mindful about that and open your windows regularly. You can also freshen a room by burning incense sticks or, better, using an aromatherapy diffuser. The healing power of essential oils works on many levels, making a room smell good, while purifying its energy. Good lighting is another must. Don’t limit your living room to a single ceiling lamp because si chi (bad feng-shui energy) breeds in both harshly- and dimly-lit spaces. Layered lighting works best, meaning you have a number of fixtures – ceiling, standing and table – placed liberally around the room. Fire up some candles too.

Playing with fire Mirrors are another great way to bounce light around a living room, while also making the space look bigger. They introduce a calm, fresh energy but they possess a lot of magic, so you need to be a little bit cautious with them. Mirrors literally and metaphorically double what they reflect, which means they need to reflect something positive, like a beautiful view or favourite piece of furniture. A mirror above the sofa might look stylish but if it’s reflecting a neglected corner, that feeling is likely being doubled in your life.

Minimalist design relies on angular shapes but you also need a few ying-boosting curves

Mirrors are also linked to selfesteem, so stick to full-length ones in which you can see yourself completely. If your body is ‘cut’ in your reflection, your energy is cut, and you’re telling yourself that you don’t measure up. Lastly, it’s time to throw caution to the wind and play with fire.

You can brighten any space with a splash of red and in so doing you introduce the fire element of joy, warmth, love and excitement. Good feng shui is all about balance, so you’ll want a good mix of colours in your living room but pick up a rug or throw in a warm and nurturing shade of red and you’ll feel the benefit.

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GREAT GALAPAGOS! 40

It was this remote, volcanic archipelago that inspired Charles Darwinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s ground-breaking theory of natural selection and, 185 years since his visit, you can still see much of the enchanting wildlife that captivated him. Dorothy Veitch reports

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Enchanted Isles Lying 1,000 kilometres off the coast of Ecuador, the Galapagos Islands are probably the most famous wildlifewatching destination on the planet. The isolated terrain, now fiercely protected, shelters an incredible diversity of plant and animal species, many found nowhere else on Earth. It’s a terrific place to visit any time of year. Temperatures range from 21°-30°C.

Sea lions cavorting on the sand

Heavenly wildlife The Galapagos is made up of 13 volcanic islands, six smaller ones and more than 100 islets, and each has its own unique landscape and wildlife. One island is best known for its birdlife, another for prehistoric-looking marine iguanas and yet another for giant tortoises. However, you find many species, such as sea lions, lava lizards, turnstones and whimbrels, at most visitor sites.

View from the top of Bartolomé Island

Protected national park An impressive 97% of the Galapagos is designated as national park and you can only visit specific visitor sites accompanied by certified naturalist guides. At each visitor site, you’re shown a marked trail that you must stick to – you can’t go wondering off on your own disturbing the wildlife. Some sites have wet landings (you wade to shore from skiffs) and others have dry landings (you step foot directly on dry land). The Galapagos National Park limits the number of visitors to each island and coordinates each tour ship’s itinerary.

Tourism is strictly controlled

Birds of paradise Be sure to make it to Genovessa Island, known as Bird Island because of the many and varied bird species that nest there. You spot blue-footed boobies tapping out their bizarre mating rituals, frigate birds flaunting their red bellies and gigantic gulls snuggling up in the  crook of a lava rock.

A red-bellied frigate bird

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Befriending sharks Diving and snorkelling are a must in the Galapagos, bringing you nose to nose with fabulous tropical fish and rays. On land, visitors are asked to keep a 2-metre distance from the wildlife but this is not the case underwater. Even the sharks are friendly â&#x20AC;&#x201C; they have no interest in eating people thanks to the great abundance of tasty fish.

Diving with whale shark

Relaxing with iguanas One of the most surprising things about the Galapagos is just how fearless the wildlife is. The birds and animals give you no more than a cursory glance. And the absence of natural predators on many of the islands means that those that have made it all the way to this remote spot can live and breed in safety and without restriction.

Marine iguanas are found only on the Galapagos Islands

Getting around The best way to see as much as possible is to book a cabin on a liveaboard boat. The tour ships vary in size and each has accommodation to fit most budgets. Visitors enjoy packed itineraries, with activities ranging from snorkelling to hiking. In the evening, the ships up anchor and sail to another location, so that each day brings a new island to explore.

Tour ships accommodate some 170,000 tourists a year

Hunkering down If you want a day or two to get back your land legs, you can opt to stay ashore on the islands of Santa Cruz, San Cristobal, Floreana or Isabela. A short kayak away you might find a sheltered cove where oversized plovers nest in the cliffs. And wading into the sea, you might experience the thrill of seeing a penguin dive off a rock and dart past you, before circling back for another look.

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Rhubarb and strawberry crumble Serves 4

• 1tbsp cornflour • 185g golden caster sugar • 450g strawberries, hulled and halved* • 450g rhubarb, cut into chunky lengths* • 140g plain flour • 50g ground almonds • 100g butter, chopped* • 25g flaked almonds

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Preheat the oven to 190°C. Combine the cornflour and 85g caster sugar in a large bowl, then toss in the strawberries and rhubarb until well coated. Cook over a gentle heat, stirring until the fruit softens and the released juices thicken. Tip the fruit mixture into a 750ml ovenproof dish, scraping in the juice. To make the crumble, mix the flour, ground almonds and remaining sugar in a bowl, then rub in the butter to form a crumbly mixture. Add the flaked almonds, then scatter the crumble mixture over the fruit. Bake for 35 minutes until the fruit is tender and the crumble golden. Serve with clotted or sour cream.

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Pear and ginger loaf cake Serves 8

• 200g unsalted butter* • 100g caster sugar • 100g soft brown sugar • 2 large eggs, beaten* • 1tsp vanilla extract • 200g self-raising flour • 1tsp baking powder • 2 balls stem ginger in syrup, drained and chopped • 2 pears, peeled, cored and roughly chopped* • 3tbsp syrup from the ginger jar • 3tbsp granulated sugar Heat the oven to 160°C. Beat the butter, caster sugar and brown sugar together, then gradually stir in the eggs and vanilla extract. Fold the flour, baking powder and a pinch of salt into the mix, then stir in the stem ginger and pears. Pour the mixture into a lined, 1,200ml loaf tin. Smooth the surface, then bake for about 1 hour until a skewer inserted in the centre comes out clean. Leave to cool. To make the glaze, mix the syrup with the granulated sugar and 1 teaspoon of water. Poke the surface of the loaf all over with a skewer, then pour on the syrup.  Serve hot or cold.

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Apple pie Serves 6

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Combine 285g flour, 8g sugar and a pinch of salt. Using your hands, work the butter into the flour until the mixture is shaggy. Make a well in the centre and pour in the sour cream; mix until the dough begins to clump. Separate the dough into two equal disks, sprinkle with flour, wrap and refrigerate for at least an hour. Toss the sliced apples with 25g flour, 112g sugar, the spices and vanilla extract. Roll out one disk of dough to a 12-inch circle. Place on a 9-inch pie plate, and arrange the apples on top. Roll out the top crust and place over the apples, pressing the top and bottom dough rounds together at the edges. Brush with egg yolk, and cut slits in the top. Bake at 190°C for an hour, until the crust is golden and the juices are bubbling. Serve with vanilla ice cream.

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DB NUMBERS COMMUNITY & HEALTH Bayside Dental Practice, North Plaza BMSE, North Plaza DB Alliance Church Community Centre DB Anglican Church DB International Community Church Discovery Bay Medical Centre Health & Care Dental Clinic Herbal Health Care Island Health Island Veterinary Services The Neighbourhood Advice-Action Council, North Plaza Trinity Chapel

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Discovery Montessori School A reputable & well-known international school for authentic Montessori Bilingual (English & Chinese) Education for children aged 1 to 12 years. Beautiful campus & highly qualified teachers (15 years+ experience). Contact 2987 1201, enquiry@dms.edu.hk, www.dms.edu.hk

Future Stars Dance Academy Dance classes based on the ISTD requirements conducted in a fun, disciplined & safe environment. Contact melissa@futurestarsdanceacademy.com, Futurestars Dance Academy Hong Kong Facebook page, Instagram: @futurestarsHk

Island Dance ISTD Freestyle, ISTD Hip Hop, RAD Ballet, tap & Bollywood classes at DBRC, Club Siena & DB Plaza. Five professional instructors, teaching six days a week. Contact 2987 1571, 9159 0663, info@islanddance.com.hk, www.islanddance.com.hk

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OUT THERE

Where Babies Come From Doting dad Peter Sherwood takes a satirical swipe at parenthood and questions our irresistible urge to procreate

recent BBC headline – Remarkable Decline in Fertility – suggested zero population growth in some countries. So, what’s the problem? It led me to scribble an admission of things I know little about.

Illustration by Terry Chow

Decades writing esoteric nonsense proves the less I know the easier it gets. Profound insights into a subject only complicate and confuse. So, it is with procreation, a bank-busting practice I’ve managed to avoid, and for which the benefactors (my two adopted kids) of what is hilariously called my ‘estate,’ should be thankful. They’ll get a bigger share of the loot, although half of not much is not a lot.

My pathetic excuse for resisting the temptation is that more homo sapiens in my image would be intolerable. It’s hard enough looking in the mirror shaving.

are born, the mist of romance dissolves, and then She ceases to give a damn. You’re on your own.

Social scientists observe that exactly 100% of all serious romantic relationships before marriage are doomed. (I didn’t need research nerds to tell me that.) After marriage, at least 50% are headed for the scrapheap. In other words, the chance of a successful lifelong partnership is right up there with a trifecta on the 2.30 at Happy Valley. But still we make babies.

Producing offspring may not be intellectually demanding, but judging by the huge numbers of new-borns one has to wonder if some parents are even certain of the cause. Seems it works like this: The human brain goes to mush (and mine has often been soggier than most) via a powerful chemical reaction called, scientifically, ‘the fragrant cloud of heavenly delight.’ Without this irrational biological rush, we would look too ridiculous to each other for any meaningful entanglement of ‘love’ to eventuate.

Given the cosmic randomness of what Mother Nature does when unleashed, had I reproduced I’d be no more enlightened. Babies

Of course, some people know precisely what causes kids and carry on anyway, driven by an apparent implacable algorithm.

But I do love the little twerps, especially my own. The problem is they don’t stay little. They can eat an entire supermarket shelf of Coco-Pops in one sitting and cost billions to educate. And when they hit early teens an obnoxious streak tends to emerge; it’s the Great Mother’s way of making sure we don’t miss them when they leave the nest. Meanwhile we sit at home cringing as they race off with high-octane enthusiasm to engage in every dumb act we remember doing with horror and regret. In its infinite quest for replication of the species, nature doesn’t make us go all gooey and sentimental to produce a cantankerous twoyear-old. She’s smarter than that, demanding a bubbly little baby to fuss over. So potent is the love cloud, we’re blinded to any possibility that said baby might become a spotty teen, anxious to let us know how stupid we are. Later they begin thinking maybe we weren’t such imbeciles after all – before admitting, in our dotage, they were right the first time.

Peter Sherwood has lived in DB for over 20 years. The former head of an international public relations firm, Peter is the author of 15 books and has written around 400 satirical columns for the South China Morning Post.

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