Around DB February Issue 2020

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Why siblings fight (and how to make them stop) Lantau snakes (and what to do if you get bit) The Seychelles on a shoestring Chocolate puddings for your Valentine

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PROFILE - 22 Meet the artist: Judyanna Li

IN FOCUS - 26 Expert’s guide to Lantau snakes

EDUCATION - 34 Overcoming sibling rivalry

ESCAPES - 40 8 reasons to escape to the Seychelles

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RECIPES - 45 Chocolate treats to wow your Valentine

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SPOTLIGHT Tim Clark

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DB EVENTS

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SUCCESS STORY Alan Patrick

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GIVEAWAYS

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Q&A Relationship advice

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HK HAPPENINGS

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WISH LIST February must-haves

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ALL-GIRLS BEACH FESTIVAL

The DB Pirates held its annual International All-Girls Beach Festival on January 18 and 19. Hardfought rugby and netball matches were played across youth, minis’ and ladies’ teams, and the event also included a dragon-boat showcase.

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DB EVENTS

ISLAND DANCE AT THE AIA CARNIVAL

Performers from Island Dance, including a strong contingent from DB, shone on the community stage at the AIA Carnival on January 11.

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DBIS PTSA FLOWER MARKET

The Discovery Bay International School community celebrated Chinese New Year with a flower market on January 17. The event also delivered Chinese drumming performances and lion dances.

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DB EVENTS

SPCA DOGATHON

Dogs and their owners helped raise funds to support animal rescue, homing services and de-sexing programmes at the 34th SPCA Dogathon on January 5 at Hong Kong Disneyland Resort. The theme for this year’s event was 12 Zodiac Animals Walk Together.

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DB EVENTS

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To mark its 10th anniversary, HKILA is inviting all of its past and present students and their parents to join a celebration from 6pm to 9pm to toast its achievements over the past decade. For more information, email hkilacademy@gmail.com.

DISCOVER MALVERN COLLEGE Club Siena February 8

Calling all Yanks! Don’t miss the deadline to register to vote in the US 2020 primaries and presidential election. The Hong Kong League of Women Voters is hosting a voter registration event at The American Club on February 12 from 8.30am to 2.30pm. RSVP for your free tickets at www.eventbrite.hk.

DC BLOOD DRIVE Discovery College

The DB community is invited to join Discovery College at its first blood drive. The blood collected by the Hong Kong Red Cross will go to treat patients with chronic diseases, and those who stock.adobe.com are in need of surgery due to illness or accident. Sign up to donate blood during this event at bit.ly/DC-BloodDrive-Form.

February 13

AROMATHERAPY WORKSHOP HK Yoga and Wellness Center, DB North Plaza Did you know you can use essential oils to spice up your love life? Hoopla for Essentials reveals all in a one-and-a-half-hour workshop, priced at HK$100. Discover some easy-to-mix recipes that can be used to balance unsplash.com hormones and heighten pleasure. To RSVP, call certified aromatherapist Paula Lepore Burrough on 9774 1222.

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DB parents can learn more about the holistic education and extensive co-curricular programme provided at Malvern College Hong Kong at a 10.30am breakfast meeting at Club Siena. To register online, visit www.malverncollege.org.hk.

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VALENTINE’S ON THE BEACH

TWELFTH NIGHT

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No Valentine’s Day in DB would be complete without the annual candlelight event on Tai Pak Wan. Every year, the beach is lit up by thousands of candles arranged in heart-shaped displays, making it the ideal place for couples to canoodle. The fun starts at 6pm.

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Unrequited love, mistaken identity and pesky pranks performed by scheming servants! Catch Discovery College’s Hannah Ward playing the central role of Viola in Hong Kong Shakespeare Performance Association’s (HKSPA) condensed version of Twelfth Night. There are three performances over the Valentine’s Day weekend and admission is free.

For more information, visit the HKSPA’s Facebook page @ hkshakespeareperformanceassociation.

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STOCK UP AT THE PLAN

Court on February 1 from 2pm T MARKET across from Haven to 4.45pm. Call 2238 3617.

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R DB North Plaza on February 2, HELPERS classes at Yoga Bay, 9, 16 and 23 from 7am to 8am.

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SHOP THE DISCOVERY

in DB Plaza on February 9 from BAY SUNDAY MARKET 11am to 6pm. Visit www.handmadehongkong.com .

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As part of the HK$19.1 billion relief measures announced by the Financial Secretary in August 2019, a one-off student grant of HK$2,500 is being provided in the 2019/20 school year for all secondary dayschool, primary school and kindergarten students in Hong Kong. To download your child’s Student Grant Application Form, visit www.edb.gov.hk.

(food containers, packaging and ONS AND POLYSTYRENE fruit nets) to be collected for recycling at the waterfront side of Hemingway’s on February 16 from 9am to 11am. Visit the DB Green Facebook page.

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NEW in DB HK YOGA AND WELLNESS CENTER DB North Plaza

February 14

LANTAU HIGHLIGHTS VALENTINE’S WEEKEND

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New in DB Plaza, HK Yoga and Wellness Center offers a holistic approach to balancing the body, mind and spirit, as well as diverse and challenging yoga classes for all levels. It provides preand post- natal programmes; classes for families and individuals to learn about wellness; and alternative therapy workshops such as sound and energy healing. For the class schedule and to learn more, visit hkyoga.ru/DB.

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Enjoy a special rosé promotion over Valentine’s weekend at Treasure Island Beach Club. The beach club restaurant is open from 3pm to 10pm on February 14, from 10am to 10pm on February 15, and from 10am to 8pm on February 16. To find out more, visit www.treasureislandhk.com.

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Nothing says ‘I love you’ like a big sweaty kiss at the finish line of The Trail Hub’s Valentine’s Day Race. Teams of two compete in either the 9-kilometre Easy Love trail, or the 14-kilometre Tough Love, and each team must complete the whole course together. For more information and registration, visit www.thetrailhub.com.

SAVE the DATE TENNIS NATIONS CUP

Discovery Bay Recreation Club March 7-8

HARVEY LAW GROUP KART RACE Discovery Bay Road

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DBIS INTERNATIONAL FOOD FAIR

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The Tennis Nations Cup, now in its 27th edition, sees DBers dress in whacky national costumes as they battle it out on court. Expect food stalls as well as fun activities for kids. To know more, visit www.dbrc.hk.

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The first Harvey Law Group Kart Race in October 2015 attracted over 20 racers; the latest race in March 2019 saw over 80 children, aged 7 to 12, vying for trophies.

The races are split into age groups, and kids have the option to design and build their own kart. To register, visit www.hlgkartrace.com.

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One of the largest community events in DB, all are welcome at the annual DBIS International Food Fair. To enjoy a range of culinary delights from all corners of the globe, bring your own cup, eating utensils and takeout containers, or rent them from the eco team. The fair also delivers live music and a host of commercial and charity stalls. To find out more, visit www.dbis.edu.hk.

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While it’s no secret that DBers love their wine, you may be surprised to know that there’s a world-class palate amongst us. Alexander Grasic sits down with Tim Clark, who has just received one of the most prestigious wine-tasting awards in the world

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o Tim, what exactly have you won? Well, over the past six years I have sat several exams with the Wine & Spirit Education Trust (WSET). They teach you how wine (and spirits) are made, about different varieties across the globe, and how to taste them consistently and effectively. I sat my Level 4 Diploma (the highest level WSET offers) in September of last year and, in November, I was told I had won the Vintners’ Cup, meaning that I received the highest aggregate score in my exams out of anyone in 2019. You must be following in some pretty big footsteps? Many of the most respected names in the business have won this award over the years. Jancis Robinson, a doyenne of the industry, who wrote the Oxford Companion to Wine, a reference book I used in my studies, won in 1978. Sarah Heller, a fellow HongKonger, won in 2013. You can take WSET courses in over 70 countries and there are over 50,000 qualifiers (Level 1 and up) a year. The Vintners’ Cup is sponsored by London’s Worshipful Company of Vintners, one of the oldest guilds in the city. So, you had your work cut out for you? Absolutely. It was harder than university – a two-year slog. The Level 4 Diploma course consists of six units, so that’s six written exams and four assessed tastings, plus one research paper (citations and all).

I wouldn’t have been able to do any of it without the support of my wife Bethan and our daughter Stanley. Tell us more about the wine tasting, the best bit surely? I had hundreds of bottles of wine and spirits to taste, many of which are still sitting on my kitchen counter and floor. That in itself was a challenge. Many of the more recherché bottles had to be ordered in the UK and individually brought back. I bought tiny 3-millilitre commercial samples of the fine spirits so as to avoid financial ruin, and I invested in this contraption called a Coravin that allows you to siphon the wine out of the bottle through the cork via a needle. Bottles closed with natural cork reseal after accessing. Of course, the Coravin only works on still wine, not on sparkling. There’s nothing you can do to keep an opened bottle of sparkling wine fizzy beyond a day or so. How did you refine your palate? Well, practice, as they say, makes perfect… and I got some unexpected help from Dr Jackie Ng at Herbal Healthcares in DB Plaza. I found that his Chinese medicine detox, which I was on purely for health reasons, really helped heighten my sense of taste and smell. What’s next? The classic job after getting this diploma is a wine buyer but that’s not for me. I’m looking into wine education. I plan to hold formal classes as well as one-to-one sessions. But, for now, I’m hosting people at my house for informal tastings; I have to get through all those bottles somehow! Writing is another passion of mine and I plan to start a website to demystify wine. I want to write about the industry and wines in Hong Kong, and I’d like to share my experience of WSET to help others on their courses. I’m also talking to your editor about writing a series of articles for Around DB. So, wine lovers stay tuned! www.arounddb.com February 2020

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SUCCESS STORY

Entrepreneur of the month Jack Brown, co-founder and director of Invest Islands

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y business is a property brokerage company based in Indonesia and Hong Kong. At Invest Islands, our main aim is to provide foreign investors with a secure ownership structure; we put a big focus on the legal aspects of purchasing property in Indonesia. My business partner Kevin Deisser and I also have a Lombok-based charity called Invest Islands Foundation, and Organika, an organic fruit and vegetable plantation. We own Tapaz, a restaurant/ bar in nearby Gili Trawangan and have just opened Vinoteca, a wine bar in Kuta. In setting up Invest Islands in 2014, we started very small with an office on Lamma. I lived in the back room. Kevin was based in Indonesia. We purchased a small block of land in Lombok, in a good location with road, water and electricity access, and we focused on how we could increase its value quickly, with minimal investment. We subdivided it, and sold off the plots for a profit. Once we’d proved that the concept worked, we repeated it on a larger scale. After the first 18 months, we were in a position to hire staff and expand our marketing. To succeed in business, you need a good idea – you need to spot a gap in the market that no one else has seen. You need a lot of drive, self-belief, friends and financial backing. You also need good advisers/ mentors. What interests me most about my business right now is our charity, Invest Islands Foundation. We are involving local communities, and focusing on education and waste management. We organise beach clean-ups and encourage responsible reuse of plastic. We were happy to see the first school we’ve built open recently in Batu Banke. My highlight of 2019 was seeing our plastic-shredding machine in Torok Bay become operational. The plastics are gathered and sorted by local women, who were previously unemployed and in extreme poverty. The programme is aimed at empowering locals, as well as future-proofing the plastic problem, so that we can all enjoy Lombok’s beautiful beaches for years to come. The greatest challenge I face is delegation. We have a lot of projects running at once and we obviously have to delegate and trust each department head to make good decisions. There isn’t time to micromanage and I’m not a great believer in micromanagement anyway because it doesn’t let people grow. Keeping a balance is important but it can be challenging. My immediate goal is to complete our resort project in Torok Bay, which should be operational within the next two to three years. I’m focused on our building projects; we have some major construction firms and big names in hotel management interested. My greatest achievement is Invest Islands, and a volley I hit straight off a corner when I was playing amateur football in the UK… FIND IT • Invest Islands, Rm 402, 4/F Kai Tak Commercial Bldg, 2-2A Morrison St, Sheung Wan, 5802 5980, info@invest-islands.com, www.invest-islands.com www.arounddb.com February 2020

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HERE’S YOUR CHANCE TO WIN PRIZES! Around DB prizes are incredibly easy to get your hands on, and you have until the 10th of the month to apply. Scan the QR code, or go to www.arounddb.com/giveaways, select the giveaway you want, and enter your details into the online form

WIN A MARNAUT DIVING WATCH

Marnaut watch company is offering one reader a Marnaut Dark Surge 300M Automatic Two-Tone timepiece worth HK$4,295.

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Established in 2018 by DB resident Mario Jutronic, Marnaut is an independent watch brand that prides itself on making stand-out, high-performance ocean timepieces inspired by mid-20th century design. Marnaut’s stylish and enduring limited-batch dive watches work at depths of 300 metres and combine high-grade materials with quality craftsmanship. To find out more, visit www.marnaut.com.

WIN TICKETS TO SEE STICK MAN

ABA Productions is offering two readers four tickets each (worth HK$435 each) to see Stick Man, part of this year’s KidsFest theatre festival, at Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts, Wanchai on February 21 at 5pm.

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The world outside the family tree is a dangerous place for Stick Man. A dog wants to play fetch with him, a swan builds a nest with him and he even ends up on a fire. Touching, funny and utterly original, Stick Man features a trio of top actors and is packed full of puppetry, songs, live music and funky dance moves. For more information, visit www.kidsfest.com.hk.

Congratulations to last month’s winners Catherine Lam, Irene Bang-Isaak, Hanisha Daswani and Kevin Mirchandani for VVIP tickets to The Great Circus of Europe; Andy Green (Bubble), Edith McCosker (Maxi) and Louise Taylor (Smart) for a sparkling water machine from SodaMagic; and Nancy Belanger and Ilona Kazimirko for tickets to the finale of Beare’s Premiere Music Festival.

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Over the years, Judyanna Li has worked tirelessly to interest her students in the art of traditional Chinese painting.

Elizabeth Kerr meets the esteemed artist and educator, who is now looking to retire and refocus on her own creativity

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Oil painting is quite messy,” explains artist and teacher Judyanna Li of the classical Chinese art form she was drawn to three decades ago and which she remains passionate about to this day.

Sitting in a little studio in the flat she moved into with her husband just a week before, Judyanna looks relaxed, sporting a Jean Sebergesque pixie cut that shaves a decade off her 62 years. The studio walls are lined with art books, drawings, canvases and prints, and the biggest piece of furniture in the room is the expandable table that Judyanna works at. There’s barely a removal box in sight, and the flat is remarkably organised. It might look effortless, but it’s not.

“I’m exhausted,” Judyanna says with a chuckle.

A native of Hong Kong, Judyanna and her husband Danny Ho have been living in Discovery Bay since the late 1980s. They moved around as their family grew and contracted, but Judyanna is one of the original DB residents. At the time, she and her husband were working at establishing their own construction business, which had offices in Kwun Tong. “We moved here because it was far enough away to let us relax and unwind on the way back. We worked in construction and it was high stress. The ride home was nice.

And we didn’t go out that much,” she says of what was then a very different neighbourhood.

Judyanna didn’t come from an arty family or get side-tracked into traditional commerce after art school. She got into art simply because she came to appreciate the beauty of it – and she did so relatively late in life. She was nearly 30 and had just had her first daughter. As a new mother without a long commute every day, she found time to study traditional Chinese painting privately. Her tutor was the prominent Hong

Kong artist Mok E-Den, who himself tutored under renowned artist Ting Yin-yung. Ten years later and about to become a mother for the second time, she decided to get more serious about her art too.

“I’m very lucky,” Judyanna says.

“We had a successful business when I had our second child. I’d studied painting for a decade and thought maybe it was time to put more into it. Not another business per se, but more than just a hobby.”

And more than just a hobby Judyanna’s art certainly became.

She has shown her work to critical acclaim in Hong Kong and on the mainland, one of her paintings, Mt Huang in Mist, hangs in Jingmen Art Museum, and she’s listed in a 1998 directory of the most eminent Chinese artists worldwide.

The educator But back to the early days (1995), when Judyanna set up an art studio in DB with the aim to focus on her own work and promote interest in the art of Chinese painting in the younger generation. She soon started teaching Chinese painting to children and adults – at the Discovery Bay Recreation Club (DBRC) from 1997 to 2017; at the DB Alliance Church Community Centre from 2000 to 2019, and at Jean M Wong for Arts in Kowloon Bay and North Point from 1999 to the present.

Judyanna’s classes were a big hit from the get-go, as were the highprofile exhibitions she held with her students. The first Exhibition of Chinese Paintings by Judyanna Li and Her Students was held at Hong Kong City Hall in 1997.

Notably too, in 2000, Judyanna jointly organised the Exhibition of Chinese Painting by Children in Hong Kong and Shenzhen with Guan Shanyue Art Museum.

“When I teach (the majority of can always get by watching the

young children my students), I some inspiration way they paint,”

Judyanna says. “And I’m happy to say a few of my students have turned professional in the art field.

“I love to promote Chinese painting at schools,” Judyanna adds. “I’ve done this at numerous schools over the years, including Discovery College and Singapore International School (Hong Kong), and the response from both students and teachers has been amazing. Parents tend to focus on academics, on maths and English, and kids have so many after-school activities. There’s less time for art.

It’s very competitive out there.”

Painting in the traditional style Judyanna’s preferred art form is recognisable for its distinct watercolour-like brush strokes that focus on flora, fauna and idealised landscapes. Even those with only a passing knowledge of art will be familiar with the elegant simplicity that is a hallmark of the style. “Chinese painting is similar to watercolour but the outcome is different because of the paper and the process,” explains Judyanna. “I only need two brushes, a bottle of ink and four colours.

That’s it. And the beauty comes from that. I’m a very simple person. I don’t need fuss.”

Judyanna’s work has the spare focus – a single bird, a single branch – that is a hallmark of guóhuà, with a touch of Mok E-Den and her own unfussy personality thrown in. Most of her paintings are drawn from memory and simple observation, often from her morning walks around DB, and occasionally a photograph.

When asked about her career, Judyanna is charmingly reticent, choosing to focus on her relatively low-key solo exhibitions held at the DBRC in 2014 and 2016. “The purpose of my solo exhibitions in DB was to raise funding for a local charity group called UniHeart, which was founded in 2011 by a group of professionals who are  committed to helping others and

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The esteemed artist Asked about her success as an artist in the wider world beyond DB, Judyanna again modestly ducks the question, saying, “I exhibited most frequently between 1997 and 2007.”

Fortunately, she refers me to one of her exhibition booklets, and there’s a biography. Here are some highlights: In July 1997 (just two years after she got serious about her art), Judyanna was asked to participate in a Shenzhen Art Museum exhibition commemorating the Hong Kong handover. In 1998, her paintings were featured in the directory Calligraphy and Painting Collection of Eminent Chinese of World Over [sic]. In October 2003,

she was invited by the Department of Calligraphy and Painting in Jingmen to participate in an exhibition of Chinese calligraphy and paintings by famous artists in the region. (Judyanna’s family originally came from Guandong.)

It was at this time that Mt Huang in Mist was picked up by Jingmen Art Museum.

Judyanna’s first exhibition at Hong Kong City Hall was in 1998, where she presented over 50 paintings.

She participated in the Exhibition of Chinese Paintings by Members of the Ge Shan Art Society in 2002 and 2004, and in The Delight of Chinese Painting in 2004. Her last major exhibition, an Exhibition of Chinese Paintings by Judyanna Li and Her Students, was in 2007, also at Hong Kong City Hall.

When she started out, Judyanna

wasn’t convinced her artistic curiosity would translate into a second career, but here she is. “I found the depth of a few simple strokes very interesting, but I didn’t think I would be able to paint. But then again, when I was young, I was in a choir and I didn’t think I could sing,” she says with a laugh.

Though she’s not making any promises, 2020 will be the year Judyanna gives up teaching for good and toys with another solo exhibition (her last was at the DBRC in 2016). Perhaps she’ll also start experimenting with portraits. “I’d love to, but I’m not sure yet how to work my own style into that. It takes time, and I hope I still have time. I would also like to spend more time on my golf game. I’m now playing three to four times a week,” she finishes with another laugh. “There’s so much life to enjoy.”

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Expert’s guide to

Lantau snakes

Photos courtesy of William Sargent & www.wikimedia.org

Government snake catcher William Sargent provides Beverly Au with the lowdown on Hong Kong’s snake population, and in so doing reveals that there’s really very little for us to fear

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ong Kong is home to some 50 species of snake, including the tiny 10-centimetre Common Blind Snake, the giant Burmese Python (up to 8 metres) and the world’s largest venomous snake, the King Cobra (up to 5 metres).

You could live in town without ever seeing one but here in Lantau we live in very close proximity to them. For local ophiophilists, like government snake catcher William Sargent, who has captured, relocated and

photographed thousands of snakes over the past 25 years, this is one of the main draws of island life.

especially in developed countries where snake bites are far less of a healthcare issue.

Fear of snakes is widespread, and some researchers believe phobias related to reptiles (and snakes specifically) are evolutionary, developed by our ancestors as a survival mechanism. But, having grown up around Lantau snakes and developed a real passion for them, William believes their bad reputation is hugely exaggerated,

“Hiking through long grass or overgrown trails, you’ve a fair chance of encountering a WhiteLipped Pit Viper (Bamboo Snake) waiting for his prey,” William opens. “Walking in rural areas at night, you could well spot a Banded Krait. I am not called out to DB that often, to be honest, but when I am it’s been for a real mix

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Overcoming ophidiophobia “Snakes are so understudied and misunderstood, and there’s so much myth around them. Logic and statistics don’t come into fear,” William reasons when trying to explain the often-misplaced fear of snakes. “As with anything, if you don’t understand it and there is potential danger, people often panic or think the worst.

“Unlike our bovine or aquatic mammal friends, reptiles – particularly snakes – have very little in the way of community understanding or support. The general lack of knowledge of these fascinating creatures has led to hysteria in some cases, and encounters that often don’t end well for our scaly wildlife.”

William believes that the best way to overcome ophidiophobia is to educate yourself about snakes and observe them at first hand. He advises we attend one of his snake talks or safaris, talk to other experts or do some basic online research at home. A visit to Kadoorie Farm and Botanic Garden in Tai Po, a haven for injured and captured snakes, can also be helpful.

William with a Burmese Python

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“If you spot a snake, your best bet is to take a photo (if it’s safe to do so) and get it identified correctly (I recommend the Hong Kong Snake Facebook page for this), and if it needs moving, then dial 999,” William adds. “It’s worth noting that the police are an emergency service and should not be called out for non-threatening situations.

Most of the call-outs I get don’t

fit that bill. In my experience, the majority of stories about Cobra sightings in DB have to be taken with a large pinch of salt.”

It sounds obvious, but if you do happen upon a snake, don’t be tempted to pick it up or try to kill it.

“Snakes will only bite defensively, so if you don’t bother them, they’re unlikely to bother you,” says William. “Most hide in the bushes, in the hope that you won’t come near them.”

Instead of fearing snakes, William wants people to understand that they fill a vital role in the ecosystem, and that killing one species can affect others. In China, nearly all of the larger snake species are classed as vulnerable, threatened or endangered. In Hong Kong, the only protected snake is the Burmese Python.

“It’s all about getting educated and knowing more about snakes,” William says. “When you see a snake in the wild, in its natural habitat, it’s a fascinating and beautiful creature. I have taken people out in the field to photograph snakes, and very quickly their reaction goes from ‘Yuk!’ or ‘OMG!’ to ‘Wow, that’s a  fascinating creature!’”

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White-Lipped Pit Viper

Banded Krait

Toxic but not dangerous Hong Kong has some very toxic snakes, however it’s important to bear in mind that there is a difference between danger and toxicity. Contrary to common belief, there are no ‘certain death’ species in Hong Kong and fatalities are almost non-existent. The last recorded snake-bite death in Hong Kong occurred over 20 years ago.

“There used to be around 300 bites a year in the ’90s,” William explains. “That number has come down to less than 150 now, as Hong Kong’s economy has become less agriculture based.

The majority happen at night, in rural areas or on trails, when people don’t see them and end up stepping on them.”

There are seven commonly found land snakes that can cause serious medical issues if they bite you and inject venom: WhiteLipped Pit Viper, Chinese Cobra, King Cobra, Many Banded Krait, Banded Krait, Red Neck Keelback and MacClelland’s Coral Snake.

In addition, there are two other species that are rarely seen, but can cause toxic bites – the Mountain Pit Viper and PointedScale Viper.

“By far the most common extremely toxic snake in Hong Kong is the Chinese Cobra, which grows to about 1.5 metres and can be found in most habitats during the day or night,” says William.

“They are prolific on account of

their less specific food and habitat requirements, in other words, they eat nearly anything including other reptiles, frogs and mammals. They have a sleek, stocky black or tan body, and an easily recognisable white marking behind their head (like a batman logo or smiley face).”

The vast majority of recorded venomous snake bites in Hong Kong come from the White-Lipped Pit Viper. These beautiful brightgreen ambush hunters rely on their camouflage to disguise them from their prey and they can remain motionless for hours. Their bite can be very painful and cause localised tissue damage.

What to do if you get bitten In the very unlikely chance that you get bitten by a snake, remain calm and get yourself to the nearest accident and emergency department straight away. In order to administer the appropriate treatment, it’s useful for the hospital staff to know which type of snake you’ve been bitten by. So, while you should calmly move away from the snake, if you are able to get

King Cobra

a good look at it, or take a quick photo, that will help.

“Venomous snake bites can be extremely serious and can inflict permanent injuries, but if you get to a hospital quickly (in under an hour) it will dramatically reduce the chances of major complications,” William says.

“Hong Kong has world-class treatment for bites; even in the case of highly toxic snakes, treatment is extremely effective.”

William has some first-aid tips for anyone who’s been bitten and is on their way to hospital. “If you are bitten by a White-Lipped Pit Viper, elevate the bite and do not wrap the bite site as this will concentrate the venom,” he advises. “WhiteLipped Pit Vipers have hemotoxic venom, which attacks blood and tissue, so it’s preferable to allow it to dilute in your body to reduce tissue damage. Cobras, Kraits and Coral Snakes are part of a family of snakes with potent venom which attacks the nervous system, therefore slowing the spread of the venom through light bandages over the bite site is recommended.”

FIND IT If you would like to learn more about Hong Kong’s snakes, the Hong Kong Snake Facebook page, set up by William in 2016, is a good resource, filled with pictures and videos of snakes, most posted by people seeking help to identify a species. William also runs occasional snake safaris and talks, and you can contact him at williamsargent@moontrekker.com. For urgent snake removal call emergency services on 999, or text William on 9470 8442 and include an image of the snake, if possible.

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DEAR AUDE AND BRUCE Can you help? Our cell phones are ruining family time!

I can’t stand it anymore… when we sit down together as a family to eat, no one talks, we’re all too busy on our cell phones. Airplane mode is all very well, but what we urgently need is meal mode.

What can I do to get us off our phones and back to being a family? DISCONNECTED IN DB

BRUCE: This is such a pressing

issue and one that we are all facing, so thanks for reaching out. According to the Washington Post, teens are spending close to nine hours per day connected to their phones, while tweens are spending fully six hours per day on their phones. And the New York Times states that 33% of people would rather give up sex than the use of their phone. So given this, and the urgent need to take a few steps back, how can a family begin to reclaim mealtime?

our phones. As Zen Master Thich Nhat Hanh said, “When you love someone, the best thing you can offer is your presence. How can you love if you are not there?”

BRUCE: There is no doubt that we all live very busy lives and because of this we carry tension with us, often on a daily basis, until we are able to release it. The interesting catch-22 in regards to mealtime is that, finally, in our day, we have a space to slow

down, or stop all together and just be present. But in this state of momentary relaxation a space is also opened for our stress and tension to come to the surface and thus, meals can often be a sour time, characterised by fights, arguments and disagreements.

AUDE: During mealtimes, we

have the opportunity to sit with our partner and/ or kids and ask them questions. But, as Bruce says, in that moment of connection, all the

AUDE: Firstly, congratulations on having meals together as a family. Even with the use of phones or screens, having this space established is already a huge step towards connection.

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BRUCE: Indeed. To break bread together – to sit together, relax and share food is so important. It is a cornerstone of our society.

AUDE: We are social

creatures at our core and we’re hardwired to connect, talk and share.

We all need to feel as though we belong to a group, a family, and that we are connected to our loved ones. Given this, we need to take a moment to think about the message we are sending to those in front of us when we are busy on

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burden from the day may spill over and onto your loved ones. We’ve all been there. You’ve had a long day, you finally get to sit down, and your partner asks you how you are, and it’s just too much; you don’t have the strength to even begin that conversation. Your partner may really desire this conversation but what you need is a quiet moment to relax.

our phone is taking us away from our humanity, our needs and our happiness. These are all aspects of a connected family, and the first step to reconnecting as a family is to work towards open, honest and sincere conversation.

Instead of simply asking how someone’s day went, find a way to make this a more direct and meaningful exchange.

AUDE: It’s the same with our

BRUCE: If you don’t know where to begin with that (perhaps communication is so detached that this is unfamiliar territory for your family, and that’s fine for now), then limit your conversation to light topics (discussing upcoming holidays for instance, or how your kids’ friends are doing). Note that this is not idle small talk. What you are doing is finding joyous, stressfree common ground from which to begin building connections during mealtimes.

kids… for kids reading this (bravo by the way), how annoying is it always to be asked, ‘How was school? What did you do today?’

As adults we need to learn to listen to our children, and to let them express themselves without judgment or preconceived ideas about what they should be thinking, saying and doing. Often children will stop talking because they feel they are being criticised or judged, so we need to start to open up, listen and discover our children.

This is listening to understand… not listening to respond.

BRUCE: Given Aude’s point about lack of meaningful communication, and given that the last thing we want is to regurgitate this stress from our day at mealtimes, it’s no wonder that we retreat back to the non-questioning, nonjudgmental arena provided by our phones. The instant gratification of the phone or tablet is so much more alluring than the prospect of opening back into the stress of the day. So how can this be remedied?

How can a family work towards healthy and flowing conversation and exchange?

AUDE: This is no easy task to be

sure. It is so much easier to grab a phone and get lost in it, than it is to establish a genuine connection to others. However, the very nature of

Once the family is reassured that mealtime conversation can actually be relaxed, and that it can provide instant gratification via meaningful connection in a way phones cannot, then you’ve re-established trust. Everyone can begin to look forward to sitting down together and being in peace together. When such a connection is established, it is easily felt; everyone knows that they are being truly heard, recognised and understood.

AUDE:

BRUCE: So, with that trust established, what’s the next step?

AUDE: One simple and efficient

idea is to have everyone come to an agreement that all phones will be turned off and kept in a separate room during all meals. Importantly, the ‘mealtime phone ban’ needs to be fully supported by all members of the family, meaning that parents must practice what they preach – it’s no good saying that you need a phone with you at all times because of work demands.

BRUCE: This point is really critical as kids should not feel that the rules of the house only apply to them, and that their parents are exempt. Such a dichotomy of power would create a split within the family, thus bringing you back to square one.

AUDE: With the phones out of

the way, you have an opportunity to reconnect as a family and reestablish productive mealtimes.

As discussed previously, try to keep the conversation light and open. And make time to really enjoy the food (practice mindful eating, allowing the pleasure you gain from the food to flow into the conversation and vice versa).

Soon the family should be back on track in a loving and cohesive space. Use this moment to be fully grateful for the family, the love, the home and the food.

FIND IT Aude Garderet is a Practitioner of Psychotherapy and Bruce Taylor is a Reiki Master Healer, both are DB residents. You can contact them at A and B Therapy, aandbtherapy@gmail.com, www.aandbtherapy.com.

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EDUCATION

Overcoming sibling rivalry Fighting between brothers and sisters is a concern for almost all parents of two or more kids.

Anoush Davies shares some positive discipline techniques to help everybody get along

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ll children fight no matter their age or gender. This is simply a fact and we have to accept it. (I have three sons and the fights they have with each other are part of our everyday life, and I remember my own childhood fights with my younger sister). Moreover, conflict is a very important part of human relationships. It is necessary for personal development and setting boundaries. It also enables kids to understand emotions such as annoyance, anger and rage, which is just as important as an understanding of joy and happiness.

As parents, however, we do need

to do everything we can to make sure that fights between kids don’t become too violent with bullying of siblings, or the suppression of one child by another. It is important for us to understand where the line lies between innocent pushing and shoving, and the development of unhealthy relationships with one child forever the victim and the other always the abuser.

There are very many reasons why brothers and sisters fight with each other: To gain the attention of parents: “Why is Daddy playing football with my brother when I want to play cars with him?” To win at any cost: “I need to fight back.

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upset and not knowing how to deal with it: “He is calling me names so I will kick him.” Fighting for justice as they see it: “That’s so unfair – he always gets the first slice of cake.” Sometimes kids fight simply because they are bored and don’t know what else to do. And then, of course, there is the classic, where the younger sibling annoys the elder one who puts up with it for a long, long time and then one day… Kapow!

Often, when parents interfere, things only get worse as we tend to take sides. We label our kids: “Come on, you are a big boy and she is small. You should be the smart/ kind one and let her

have what she wants,” and so on.

Then, without fully appreciating a situation, we punish the kids: “Go to your room and think about your behaviour.” “I am not interested in your reasons; you are grounded for a week.” “No iPad until Easter.”

with physical and mental activities the less time they have to fight with each other. Encourage them in their various pursuits and also participate. Lay down a challenge: “Let’s all do 15 press-ups and see if we can make it 20 by the end of the week.”

But what if we look at things from a different point of view, focusing on the idea that there are no bad children, just good and bad behaviours? What if we try to get our kids to hear each other, to develop their emotionalintelligence skills and behaviour, and to look for compromise and conflict resolution?

8 Make them think. If the fight is getting out of control, pull your kids apart and tell them they are now responsible for each other and have to stay seated until they both agree to continue. This will encourage them to seek an agreement rather than carry on fighting.

Alternatively, you could send both kids to another room and tell them they can come out once they have reached an agreement.

Positive discipline tips 1 Stay neutral – don’t take sides.

Even when it is clear who is right and who is wrong don’t simply side with the victim. All you will do is confirm the obvious and it is unlikely that you will resolve the problem.

2 Remain calm on the outside,

even if you are angry inside.

Breathe out and speak calmly.

This is usually much more effective than shouting.

3 Break it up. Physically remove

your kids from each other but not necessarily to different rooms – just create distance and, again, stay neutral while doing so, even if a much younger sibling is involved.

Take the younger child’s hand and say to him in front of his elder brother or sister: “We are going to sit down on the couch now and calm down.” Then ask the elder sibling to calm down and sit down also. Once kids are treated equally there is no victim or bully.

4 Remove the object of the fight.

If kids are fighting over a toy or gadget, calmly take it away.

Promise to return it once they have agreed on how they will share it.

Sitting together to resolve issues

5 Pay calm attention. Sometimes

kids like having a fight in front of their parents. They may be hoping for tacit acceptance of such behaviour and they could be seeking to impress you with their strength and fighting ability.

If the situation is contained and it is more play-fighting than anything violent, then don’t interfere. Just stay nearby and express your full awareness that they seem able to resolve their differences without you. After a while you can safely leave the room knowing that the fighting will end quickly – the kids will see no point in performing without an audience.

6 Leave them to it. Sometimes

fighting is necessary simply as a release of energy, especially for boys. So, if you are sure they are having fun and just practising their skills, and that no one is in danger, then let them be.

7 Provide an alternative. Kids are

full of energy so the busier they are

Once the conflict has passed and you are sitting together, perhaps at dinner, talk about feelings. Tell your kids how sad it makes you feel when they are fighting with each other and how good it would be to find mutually acceptable ways of preventing conflict in the future.

Express your readiness to listen to both sides, to stay neutral and to brainstorm possible solutions. You can even write a ‘conflict-resolution plan’ together and put it up on the wall. Then, the next time a situation threatens to develop, you can raise an eyebrow and point to the plan that they helped create.

And, once again, stay neutral and don’t compare your kids. When we compare, label and take sides, we encourage competition and conflict and create a victim/ bully relationship that in the long run simply won’t work.

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6 common reasons

why siblings fight 1 3 5 Kids are possessive about their things – toys, phones, clothes, diaries – so, touching or taking each other’s stuff invites trouble. This is serious stuff. Fights can erupt because one child used a crayon that belonged to his brother – five years ago. Siblings fight to see who is ‘top dog.’ You can expect a regular tug-of-war to be waged over who controls the TV remote.

Ownership.

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Personal space. As kids

reach different stages of development, their evolving needs can significantly affect how they relate to one another.

Young kids don’t understand that, sometimes, older siblings need their personal space and will often feel the need to be left alone. When that is not respected, it can fuel a fight that neither sibling intended to start.

Unequal

treatment.

Siblings often get treated unequally despite parents’ best intentions. The elder may get more pocket money and more new clothes (no hand-me-downs), while the younger may get more attention and more hugs. This can result in resentment and rivalry.

When one sibling gets something (even if it’s just the blue cereal bowl with flowers on it), no matter if her sister really wants it or not, she just has to have it.

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Parental praise. Most

of them don’t say it out loud, but all children crave their parent’s attention and praise. While one sibling may be good at academics, the other may be good at sports; while one may be good at music, the other may be good at dancing. If praise is not dealt out equally between

siblings, feelings get hurt and jealousy rears its ugly head.

Stress. Everyday angst can trigger fights between anyone, so it’s no wonder that stressed-out siblings, who spend a lot of time together, end up taking out their frustration on each other. Siblings know how to push each other’s buttons – if one is at a low ebb because he’s had a hard day at school, it can be all too easy for his sister to push him over the edge.

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Siblings are often good at the same or similar things, which means a sense of competition is bound to arise between them. If one child wins a trophy for something that her brother is also good at, things can turn sour fast.

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ESCAPES 5 Creole food The Seychellois look like they represent every culture in the world and their cuisine does too: tuna and king fish are staples, grilled or steamed with ginger and chillies.

You will enjoy Indian-influenced curries, plenty of coconut milkand lemongrass-based recipes, and rice with every meal. And, of course, you can enjoy your seafood fresh, and coconuts cut straight from the trees.

Creole cuisine is as fresh as it comes

6 Jungle treks Should you tire of your hammock, you can book a nature tour, or join a hike into the interior rainforest to delight in the island’s exotic flora and fauna. Mahe’s highest peak is 95-metre Morne Seychellois, which forms part of a national park of the same name. There are 12 trails in the 10 kilometre-long park, with rocky outcrops providing glorious panoramic views.

Rocky outcrops deliver glorious views

7 Gentle wildlife In the Seychelles, the indigenous wildlife is well protected, and visitors are given the opportunity to participate in various conservation projects, from observing freeroaming giant tortoises and exotic birds, to assisting turtle hatchlings and cultivating sea coral. As in the Galapagos, the wildlife shares the environment with you, rather than the other way around.

Sea turtles come ashore to nest during the daytime

8 Island hopping To most of us Mahe is laid-back, but to the Seychellois on neighbouring islands, it’s stressful. Hop on a boat to La Digue, and make your way through the tiny town, to reach deserted granite boulder-strewn beaches. Or visit sleepy Praslin, where the coco de mer (giant nuts shaped like a woman’s derrière) grow. You can walk within the UNESCO-protected Vallee de Mai to get a glimpse of them in their natural habitat.

Praslin Island’s boulder-strewn beach

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Family law expertise across Hong Kong and Australia Angie Todd is a family law specialist focused on protecting her clients’ interests.

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RECIPES

LOVE BITES

Why not spend the evening at home on February 14?

These decadent chocolate desserts are wildly indulgent and surprisingly easy to make

Chocolate Lava Cake Makes 6 • 100g butter, plus extra to grease • 100g dark chocolate, chopped • 150g light brown soft sugar • 3 large eggs • ½tsp vanilla extract • 50g plain flour

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• Single cream, to serve Heat the oven to 200ºC. Butter 6 dariole moulds and place on a baking tray. Put the butter and chocolate in a heatproof bowl and set over a pan of hot water, stirring until smooth. Set aside to cool slightly. Using an electric hand whisk, mix in the sugar, then the eggs, one at a time, followed by the vanilla extract and plain flour. Divide the mixture among the darioles, and bake for 10 to 12 minutes until the tops are firm to the touch but the middles still feel squidgy. Carefully run a knife around the edge of each pudding, then turn out onto individual plates  and serve with single cream.

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RECIPES

Chocolate Truffles Makes 20+ • 8oz dark chocolate, very finely chopped • 160ml heavy cream • 1tbsp unsalted butter, softened to room temperature • ½tsp vanilla extract (optional) • Toppings (optional) Place the chocolate in a heatproof bowl. Set aside. Bring 160ml cream (118ml cream if using milk chocolate) to a simmer. Add the butter to the chocolate and pour the cream evenly on top. Leave to rest for 5 minutes. Add the vanilla extract then stir until the chocolate has completely melted.

(If the chocolate won’t melt, place the heatproof bowl over a pot of simmering water and stir.) Pour into a flat shallow dish, place a piece of clingfilm directly on the surface and refrigerate for 1 to 2 hours. Scoop the truffle mixture into 1 tablespoon-sized mounds on a lined baking sheet.

Refrigerate for 30 minutes before rolling into balls. Roll each ball into toppings, such as unsweetened cocoa powder, sprinkles, crushed nuts, or melted chocolate.

Store in the fridge and serve at room temperature.

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Chocolate Mousse Serves 6 • 200g dark chocolate, broken into pieces • 3 large eggs, separated • 50g caster sugar Place the chocolate and 120ml of water in a large heatproof bowl set over a pan of just simmering water. Heat gently, stirring, until the chocolate is melted. Remove from the heat and leave to cool slightly, then stir in the egg yolks with a wooden spoon until well combined. In a large bowl, whisk the egg whites with the sugar until stiff peaks form, then gently fold into the chocolate mixture. Spoon the mousse into individual dishes and chill for at least 2 hours.

Scatter with chocolate shavings to serve.

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HK HAPPENINGS

BANKSY: GENIUS OR VANDAL? Portal 6311, Kowloon Bay

Through March 1

10 FUN THINGS TO DO IN HK THIS MONTH! AIA CARNIVAL Central Harbourfront Event Space, Central Through February 16

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Banksy, the controversial British artist whose true identity is still unknown, is considered one of the leading representatives of contemporary Street Art. This internationally acclaimed exhibition, of over 70 works from private collections, includes original paintings, sculptures, installations, videos and photographs. For more information, visit banksyexhibitionhk.com.

KIDSFEST!

Hong Kong Academy for Performing Arts, Wanchai Produced by ABA Productions, KidsFest is dedicated to providing exciting theatre for the whole family. This month, catch Mr Men and Little Miss (February 1 to 2), The Gruffalo’s www.cahootsni.com Child (February 7 to www.kidsfest.com.hk 9), The Snail and the Whale (February 6, 8 and 9), Erth’s Dinosaur Zoo (February 13 to 16), Dr Bunhead’s Blast Off (February 14 to 16), Stick Man (February 21 to 23) and Peter Pan (February 20, 22 and 23). For more information, visit www.kidsfest.com.hk. For tickets, starting at HK$195, visit premier.hkticketing.com.

Through February 23

tgec.asia

At once a carnival and a festival, the AIA Carnival delivers rides, games, attractions, food and much more. The Great Circus of Europe is back again this year in the big top with a brand-new troupe of performers. For more information and tickets, starting at HK$85, visit tgec.asia.

THE SLEEPING BEAUTY

Freespace, West Kowloon Cultural District February 8-9

CHEERS!

Across Hong Kong The Leisure and Cultural Services Department’s annual ‘Cheers!’ Series delivers a full line-up of family fun ranging from music and dance to puppetry, acrobatics, multimedia performances www.lcsd.gov.hk/cp and film.

February’s performances include Nufonia Must Fall (February 1), Glimpse (February 6 to 9), Dot/line/plane@SuperBaby (February 7 to 16) and Wallaby’s Seat-belt (February 8 to 23). For more information, visit www.lcsd.gov.hk/cp. For tickets, starting at HK$150, visit www.urbtix.hk.

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Masterminded by renowned Hong Kong choreographer Yuri Ng, Ballet Classics for Children: The Sleeping Beauty is a one-hour abridged version of Tchaikovsky’s three-act classic.

Hong Kong Ballet’s performance promises to enchant children with its innovative blend of storytelling, dance and audience interaction. For more information and tickets, starting at HK$200, visit www.hkballet.com.

HK HAPPENINGS

THE DINOSAUR FOOTPRINTS

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Tsuen Wan Town Hall Auditorium, Tsuen Wan February 9

HONG KONG ARTS FESTIVAL Across Hong Kong

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Kids can experience dinosaurs through the power of music during The Dinosaur Footprints, a Hong Kong Philharmonic Swire Sunday Family Series performance.

After the show, Dr Dino, aka Dr Michael Pittman of Hong Kong University, is presenting a child-centric introduction to palaeontology. For more information and tickets, starting at HK$180, visit www.hkphil.org.

February 13 to March 14

HONG KONG MARATHON Across Hong Kong

The Standard Chartered Hong Kong Marathon includes a full and half marathon, 10-kilometre run, youth dash and family run, plus 10- and www.marathonnewbie.com 3-kilometre wheelchair races. Registration is now closed but spectators are invited to cheer on the 80,000 runners as they make their way to the finish line. For more information, visit www.hkmarathon.com.

February 9

STIFF LITTLE FINGERS This Town Needs, Yau Tong

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Experience world-class opera, music, theatre and dance at the 48th Hong Kong Arts Festival. Some 1,800 international and local talents, including the Igor Moiseyev Ballet, Philharmonix and Salzburg Marionette Theatre, are putting on 123 performances. For more information, visit www.hk.artsfestival.org. For tickets, starting at HK$200, visit www.urbtix.hk.

LONGINES MASTERS OF HONG KONG AsiaWorld-Expo, Chek Lap Kok February 14-16

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Celebrating the 40th anniversary of debut album Inflammable Material, Stiff Little Fingers (SLF) is playing Hong Kong for the first time in February. Formed in Belfast, Northern Ireland, SLF wrote about their own lives growing up at the height of The Troubles and their ground-breaking debut album put them right at the forefront of the punk movement. For tickets, starting at HK$490, visit www.ticketflap.com.

www.longines.com.au

Back for its eighth year, the Asian leg of the Longines Masters series, known as the Grand Slam of indoor show jumping, features heart-pounding action from the world’s top riders and horses. The three-day event also offers world-class entertainment, fashion, art and food. For more information and tickets, starting at HK$230, visit www.longinesmasters.com. www.arounddb.com February 2020

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DB FACES

Snaps COMMUNITY

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HEALTH & WELLBEING

AKASH MOVING & HANDYMAN SERVICES

• Local packing, moving, storage & handyman service • All kinds of transport services • Inbound shipment clearance • Having stuff delivered from China?

They are not delivering to DB Or Lantau?

Have it sent to the Akash office in Kwai Chung & delivered to your home.

Contact 2421 8088, info@akash.hk, www.akash.hk

HEALTH & WELLBEING

ENGLISH ASTROLOGER IN DB

Want to know more about your life, love, career or finances?

English astrologer Lynda is in DB until the end of the month.

To book an appointment at HK$600 per hour, text 9851 2622 or 07456 414720 (UK)

FACIAL REFLEX THERAPY IN DB

Try Facial Reflex Therapy for: • Stress management • Normalising menstruation • Sleeping disorders • Skin issues (due to hormonal imbalance, allergies etc) • Depression; ADHD; Bipolar disorder Facial Reflex Therapy is a natural face-lifting beauty regime. It also boosts confidence & learning ability.

Contact Tina at 9855 7086 (WhatsApp)

VR, HYPNOSIS: INDIVIDUAL &/ OR COUPLES THERAPY

Virtual-reality programmes for PTSD, addictions, phobias (fear of flying/ public speaking/ bridges/ enclosed spaces/ storms) • Couples’ conflicts • Overeating • Career/relationship stress • Anger management • Nail biting • Exam jitters Divorce/ post-divorce/ career coaching • Quit smoking quickly.

Dr Melanie Bryan, Psy.D. Clinical Psychologist, Hypnotherapist.

Contact 2575 7707, www.mindmatters.hk

HOME SERVICES

SPORTS

TRIMCO HK LIMITED

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• Painting • Decorating • Renovation • Cladding • Tiling Contact Steve Donovan at 6149 0894 (call or WhatsApp), trimcohk@gmail.com

Well known in the Hong Kong MMA community, Marc Guyon guides you through your journey to become a martial artist. As a former whitecollar-turned-professional fighter, Marc’s understanding of looking for peak performance in all your occupations & activities is like nothing in Hong Kong.

Contact 9303 2996, marcguyonkungfu@gmail.com, www.marcguyon.com

MPF Services QDAP Insurances VHIS Protection Wealth Management Candy Cheung Financial Planning Manager Bachelor of Business

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DB PROPERTY FOR RENT

LUXURY APARTMENTS IN SIENA 2

Spacious 600 square-foot apartments – quiet with sea views over park, near Club Siena & DB Tunnel. Fully furnished with washer/ drier, bed linen, kitchenware, 55” TVs, wi-fi, NOW TV & sound bar. Contact the owner on 9317 0624, nialady2011@gmail.com

If you are looking to rent or sell a property and would like to see it listed on this page, email philip@baymedia.com.hk

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For info please call Thomas 9871 0771 or Baguio 6776 8400 Email: baguiowong@hotmail.com

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HE A LT H & W EL L BEING

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Mui Wo Inn Silvermine Beach Resort Tai O Heritage Hotel

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U T IL I T Y, SERV ICES & E MERGENC Y HOT L INES

Tung Chung Ambulance Depot Tung Chung Fire Station Tung Chung Police Station

FOOD, RES TAUR A N T S & BA RS

Bahce - Turkish Restaurant Café Bar Bathers Caffe Paradiso (Tom’s Café) Cafe Isara China Bear Deer Horn Restaurant & Bar Kebab Korner La Pizzeria Lantana Italian Bistro Le Jardin de Sophie Long Island Mucho Gusto Robert’s Market Stoep @ High Tide Restaurant The China Beach Club The Gallery The Kitchen The Water Buffalo Treasure Island Restaurant

L E A RNING CEN T RES

HOME & REPA IRS

Akash Removals Mega Power Engineering/Locksmiths Mr. Chan 24-hours Handyman Shun Yu Engineering

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Lee Hing Loong Hon Kee Transportation Company Lantau Tours New Lantao Bus Company

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DB NUMBERS COMMUNITY & HEALTH Bayside Dental Practice, North Plaza BMSE, North Plaza DB Alliance Church Community Centre DB Anglican Church DB International Community Church Discovery Bay Medical Centre Health & Care Dental Clinic Herbal Health Care Island Health Island Veterinary Services The Neighbourhood Advice-Action Council, North Plaza Trinity Chapel

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DAILY NECESSITIES 7-Eleven Convenience Store Fusion by PARKnSHOP Watson’s Pharmacy Wellcome, North Plaza Star Mart, North Plaza

2987 2987 2987 2947 2366

4401 7486 4089 9092 6534

FINANCIAL SERVICES Bank of China HSBC Parsons White Wealth Management The Stephen Putnam Practice

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FOOD & BEVERAGE, HOTELS 22º North Auberge Discovery Bay (Hotel), North Plaza Café Bord de Mer & Lounge, North Plaza Caffe Pascucci Cali-Mex, North Plaza Coyote Mexican Cantina Ebeneezer’s Epic Foods, North Plaza Figos Seaside Café First Korean Restaurant Gilmore’s by the Golden Pig Healthy Chicken, North Plaza Hemingway’s il Bel Paese Island Café Koh Tomyums La Creation & Châteraisé McSorley’s Ale House Mirch Masala, North Plaza Moofish, North Plaza Pacific Coffee Paisano’s, North Plaza Peony Chinese Restaurant PizzaExpress Solera Starbucks DB North Plaza Subway The Pier Bar Three Sheet Marquee Bar TigerLily Uncle Russ, North Plaza Zak’s

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DRS Company Good Luck Engineering Red Velvet Hoi Yu Transportation Hung Kee Co Japan Home Centre May’s furniture & curtain design Rapee-living Rich Point Hardware Materials Tai Fat Hardware Store Wing On Department Store Yours Electrical Centre

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CLOTHING & ACCESSORIES Action X, North Plaza Nomadic

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Discovery Montessori School A reputable & well-known international school for authentic Montessori Bilingual (English & Chinese) Education for children aged 1 to 12 years. Beautiful campus & highly qualified teachers (15 years+ experience). Contact 2987 1201, enquiry@dms.edu.hk, www.dms.edu.hk

Future Stars Dance Academy Dance classes based on the ISTD requirements conducted in a fun, disciplined & safe environment. Contact melissa@futurestarsdanceacademy.com, Futurestars Dance Academy Hong Kong Facebook page, Instagram: @futurestarsHk

Island Dance ISTD Freestyle, ISTD Hip Hop, RAD Ballet, tap & Bollywood classes at DBRC, Club Siena & DB Plaza. Five professional instructors, teaching six days a week.

Contact 2987 1571, 9159 0663, info@islanddance.com.hk, www.islanddance.com.hk

Little Explorers The longest running playgroup in DB, Little Explorers eases the transition between home play and kindergarten for children, aged 18 months and up. Contact 6331 7215, LittleExplorersDB@gmail.com

Tree of Joy A fun, engaging & supportive environment in which children play & learn. Programmes include drop-off nursery class, parent-toddler class, afternoon camp & a cooking class Contact 9787 2755, info@treeofjoydb.com, www.treeofjoydb.com

Woodentots Woodentots is a Montessori playgroup providing a caring & nurturing environment in DB Plaza. Run by a qualified Montessori teacher for children aged 18 months to 6 years. Contact 6108 9131, woodentotsdb@gmail.com

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Bayview House of Children DB International School (Kindergarten) DB International School (Pri / Sec) Discovery College Discovery Mind International Play Centre Discovery Mind Kindergarten Discovery Mind Primary School, North Plaza Discovery Montessori Academy, North Plaza Discovery Montessori School, North Plaza DMR School of Ballet Dr. Bear Education Centre Early Adventures Playgroup Epic Adventurers Eye Level Education Learning Centre Funfit HK International Learning Academy, North Plaza Kumon, North Plaza La Petite Enfance Kindergarten L’Ecole Pierre et Marie Curie Education centre Links Parenting, North Plaza Little Explorers English For Kids Mandarin for Munchkins, North Plaza Mathemagic – home tutoring Mathnasium SKH Wei Lun Primary School Treasure House Zhi Zhi Chinese

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OTHER SERVICES

Harvey Law Group International law firm offering a wide range of commercial & personal legal services. Meeting facilities available in DB. Contact 2416 8618, dboffice@harveylawcorporation.com, www.harveylawcorporation.com

Martina Stevens Photography Photographer based in Discovery Bay specialising in small and exclusive projects. Newborns, Maternity, Family and Lifestyle photography.Contact 9487 5242, martina@martinastevensphotography.com, www.martinastevensphotography.com Gillian florist, North Plaza Manulife P-Solution The Optical House Well Supreme Laundry Services

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DB NUMBERS PETS Kristy’s Paradise - Cat Sitter in Discovery Bay Mypetshop, North Plaza Pets Gallery Ready, Pet, Go!

TOYS & KIDS’ PARTIES 6201 2987 2987 5721

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PROPERTY LISTINGS EPS Property Consultants Headland Homes Kingsland DB Land Master Property OKAY.COM

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SOCIAL, SPORTS & EQUIPMENT

Bo Bo House Toysland

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TRANSPORT SERVICES DB Golf Cart Services DB Transportation Services Limousine Rental Passenger Telephone Hotline Wiselink Golf Cart Services

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OUT THERE

DB Drivers

What with pounding on the accelerator and screaming to a stop, racing around Discovery Bay isn’t all it’s cracked up to be, says Peter Sherwood

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arrived in Hong Kong the week it was claimed a British Crown colony. OK, it just feels that long. And I have ridden in taxis here since they were rickshaws. Again, not true. But it seems like it and there’s a reason, one that makes the city unique.

Hundreds of thousands of cabbies have been trained to drive like experimental robots.

Our local traffic warriors start with a beginners’ manual drafted by the dodgem industry, then they pick the rest up via an oral tradition handed down the generations, or by osmosis. A series of 12hour shifts cover a lifetime; the ritual begins from day one and continues to retirement as an experiential lesson in how to jerk a motor vehicle to death.

Illustration by Terry Chow

I have nothing against Hong Kong cabbies; in my experience they are good and hard-working people.

But you know what I’m talking about because you will have fumed about the same hereditary madness – jumping on the accelerator every 10 seconds, and riding the brakes down the slightest incline.

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accelerators as if in a desperate need to pump fuel into an engine that must soon disintegrate under the hammering. At the end of the run, passengers, nevertheless, offer a courteous ‘thank you’ to the driver, probably for having arrived unscathed. Then, they rush home and throw up.

Neither gratuitous operation holds even a modicum of sense or purpose. It’s not as if the operator is intent on inflicting nausea and headaches on his suffering passengers. We know this is true because he inflicts the same punishment on himself, and it would be statistically impossible for all taxi drivers to be pathological masochists. Or is it?

Transport tremors To escape the infuriation of being shaken to and fro till my brain turned to mush and vital organs liquefied, I moved to Discovery Bay where, for a while, the disturbing practice appeared not to exist. But now the contagion has reached our shores, with some bus drivers pounding their

The act of stopping a bus is another lesson in the art of the passenger shake and quiver. Nervous lurches over the last few metres are humorously designed to test your balance if you´re standing.

Having recovered from the previous night’s uphill beating to get home, I am ready by morning to confront the excesses of being bounced down the hill like a wounded goat. It’s a five-minute ride and it follows the same quakingly hilarious pattern as the evening prior. That’s when you feel the awesome power of what is possible with massive hydraulic brakes on a bus weighing 12 tonnes. These monsters can stop almost instantly; inert passengers run the risk of being hurled splattering into the windshield like so many mosquitoes.

Peter Sherwood has lived in DB for over 20 years. The former head of an international public relations firm, Peter is the author of 15 books and has written around 400 satirical columns for the South China Morning Post.

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