Wedding Guide 2015 by Southland Publishing

THAT SPECIAL DAY COUPLES RECOUNT HOW THEY MET AND WHO THEY CALLED TO HELP THEM CELEBRATE THE BIGGEST DAY OF THEIR LIVES

A GIFT TO THE BRIDE AND GROOM

LET PROFESSIONAL PLANNERS AND COORDINATORS NAVIGATE THE MAZE OF DETAILS INVOLVED WITH PRODUCING YOUR WEDDING

DESTINATION: HAPPINESS

A LITTLE RESEARCH, RESOURCEFULNESS AND PATIENCE WILL MAKE A DESTINATION WEDDING AN ENCHANTING EVENT

A SPECIAL PRESENTATION BY

PHOTO: Sari Makki / Courtesy of Ric R. Roman II and Monica Flores Roman

THAT SPECIAL DAY

COUPLES RECOUNT HOW THEY MET AND WHO THEY CALLED TO HELP THEM CELEBRATE THE BIGGEST DAY OF THEIR LIVES BY REBECCA KUZINS

23 A GIFT TO THE BRIDE AND GROOM

LET PROFESSIONAL PLANNERS AND COORDINATORS NAVIGATE THE MAZE OF DETAILS INVOLVED WITH PRODUCING YOUR WEDDING

BY REBECCA KUZINS

25 DESTINATION: HAPPINESS

A LITTLE RESEARCH, RESOURCEFULNESS AND PATIENCE WILL MAKE A DESTINATION WEDDING AN ENCHANTING EVENT

BY SHEILA MENDES COLEMAN ABOUT THE COVER: Photo by Sari Makki / Courtesy of Ric R. Roman II and Monica Flores Roman

EDITOR Kevin Uhrich DEPUTY EDITOR André Coleman ART DIRECTOR Carla Cortez ASSISTANT ART DIRECTOR Stephanie Torres PRODUCTION DESIGNERS Tim Oliver, Rochelle Bassarear WRITER Sheila Mendes Coleman, Rebecca Kuzins ADVERTISING DIRECTOR Dina Stegon SALES AND MARKETING Lisa Chase, Brenda Clarke, Leslie Lamm OFFICE ASSISTANT Ann Weathersbee HUMAN RESOURCES Andrea E. Baker BUSINESS MANAGER Linda Lam ACCOUNTING Kacie Cobian, Sharon Huie, Teni Keshishian PUBLISHER Jon Guynn SOUTHL AND PUBLISHING V. P. OF FINANCE Michael Nagami V. P. OF OPERATIONS David Comden PRESIDENT Bruce Bolkin

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COUPLES RECOUNT HOW THEY MET AND WHO THEY CALLED TO HELP THEM CELEBRATE THE BIGGEST DAY OF THEIR LIVES

First comes love, then the marriage proposal, followed by the often intense preparations needed to create a memorable and magical wedding. One of the most pressing details is the choice of vendors who will take photographs, cater the food, provide wedding apparel for the bride and groom and supply other services on wedding day. While some couples let wedding planners select vendors, others prefer to do this themselves. This is a tale of five weddings — and the vendors who contributed to the events’ success.

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ic R. Roman and Monica Flores Roman met at a professionals’ networking event, eyeing each other from opposite sides of the room. Several months later the two had their second meeting at an office birthday party at Lola’s martini bar. They started discretely dating, keeping their office romance secret for more than a year as they built a successful financial practice. One night last year, Ric told Monica they were meeting clients for dinner. But the dinner was at Lola’s and the clients were nowhere in sight. Ric read Monica a poem he wrote to express his love, then got down on one knee, pulled out a ring and asked her to marry him. The two were married at St. Philip the Apostle Church, the site of Monica’s elementary and middle school, and held their wedding reception at Alverno High School, which Monica also attended and where she now serves on the board of directors and chairs the marketing and development committee. Monica’s father, who owns a tequila company, gave each wedding guest a bottle of extra anejo tequila decorated with the bride and groom’s logo.

V endors Wedding Venue: St. Philip the Apostle Church Reception Venue: Villa del Sol d’Oro, on the campus of Alverno High School Photographer/Videographer: Sari Makki Photography Cake: Jaime Cakes Catering: Santa Anita Gardens Catering Rentals: Lindbergh McPherson Lighting: Majjak Productions Entertainment: The D’Jay Company Bridal Gown: ProNovias Bridesmaids Dresses: Alfred Angelo Groom Tux: Northridge Suit Outlet Hair/Makeup: Egle Miciene Stationery/Invitations: On Graphics Design Transportation: VIP Limo

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ARROYO WEDDING RESOURCE DIRECTORY 3rd Generation

Castle Green

We are the premier vintage jewelry, wristwatch and fine art dealer located in historic Old Town Pasadena. We provide the highest level of service, expertise and value to our clientele. Our expert staff consists of GIA certified gemologists, master-jewelers, appraisers, and watch makers. Our merchandise is inspected, appraised and brought back to extra-fine condition. Our unsurpassed quality and competitive pricing guarantee our customers the finest product. thirdgenerationco.com 56 S. De Lacey Ave., Pasadena (626) 844-0471

You have just discovered the ideal setting for your wedding, special celebration or film project. We invite you to explore the most unique landmark in Southern California, where sophistication meets history in an eclectic mix of mystery and beauty. Relax in the Moorish, Turkish and Victorian salons. Dance in the Palm terrace ballroom or take a stroll in the lush, private gardens. Come join us for a memorable occasion. Call for a private tour (626) 793-0359 or visit www.castlegreen.com.

Athenix Body Sculpting

When you are choosing the most important dress of your life, do not leave things to chance. A custom designed dress will make you feel your most amazing on your special day. Here at Connie Tao Designs, we bring you the one–of–kind dress that will make your wedding day one to always remember. Come have a free consultation so you can have a dress that represents your truest self on your big day. 23 N. Mentor Ave., Pasadena, CA 91106 (626)765-5939 connietaodesigns.com

Specializing in the art of creating beautiful bodies.At Athenix, we specialize in body contouring to give you the body you’ve always dreamed of without the downtime and difficult recovery of traditional liposuction and plastic surgery. We use the latest body sculpting technologies and techniques to give you the body you desire. Our procedures are performed by plastic and cosmetic surgeons who are artists in sculpting the body, so you get the best results in the safest environment. That’s the Athenix advantage. Call today and schedule your complimentary consultation at 1-855-ATHENIX.

Beauty Culture Beauty Culture by Lani Lee provides individual care and attention to your beauty and body slimming needs. We offer the most advanced skin and body treatments that are designed to achieve the best results. 715 S. 1st. Ave. #A Arcadia, Ca (626) 447-7555 www.beautyculturebylanilee.com

Connie Tao Designs

ll Fornaio Step inside Il Fornaio and take an award-winning culinary journey through Italy. Specialties include housemade pastas, wood-fired pizza, grilled fish, authentic risotto and rotisserie meats. Fresh pastas are made daily. Each month we feature a special menu from a different region of Italy. With an event coordinator on site to handle all of your needs, Il Fornaio is the perfect location for special events and business functions. Repeat recipient of The

Wine Spectator’s “Award of Excellence”. 24 West Union St. Pasadena (626) 683-9797 banquets.pasadena@ilfo.com http://www.banquets. pasadena@ilfo.com

Integrity Lash We specialize in eyelash extensions. Our lash extensions are not only able to dress your lashes for your wedding; they are designed to be experienced for an extended period of time. LA Magazine & LA Hotlist chose us in 2014 as the best Lash Salon to get your eyelash extensions done. Over the last 9 years we have done more than 24,000 eyelash applications. Please call at least a month in advance to schedule. Integritylash.com 350 South Lake Avenue #290 Pasadena, CA (626) 437-4000.

La Canada Thursday Club The ideal location for your wedding is amidst ancient Oak trees and colorful flowers in La Canada Flintridge. The private Mediterranean courtyard offers a picturesque fountain for exchanging vows, hosting a cocktail reception or dinner of up to 150 guests and celebrating under the stars. The beautiful historic clubhouse offers a recently renovated bridal dressing room and large kitchen. The main room offers the perfect setting for dining and dancing to band or DJ. Ample parking in private lot. To tour the property, please contact our private events rental manager (818) 790-1166 or email is: LCTCRentals@gmail.com. 4440 Woodleigh Lane, La Canada Flintridge – www.lacanadathursdayclub.org

The Langham Huntington, Pasadena The ultimate Southern California wedding venue, The Langham Huntington, Pasadena

offers outdoor weddings in our beautiful Horseshoe and Japanese gardens and luxurious receptions in our historic ballrooms. This iconic landmark hotel has been an enchanting wedding destination for more than 100 years, and was the stunning backdrop for ABC’s The Bachelorette: Ashley and J.P.’s Wedding. From intimate to extravagant, traditional to unexpected, The Langham Huntington is the perfect wedding venue where life long memories are created. 1401 South Oak Knoll Avenue Pasadena, CA 91106 (626) 568 3900 pasadena.langhamhotels.com

Light Up The Night Entertainment Services Light Up the Night Entertainment Services (LUNES) is a premier lighting and sound production company in Pasadena and Los Angeles offering top quality entertainment for any event. LUNES can cover all your entertainment needs including special effects concert lighting, decorative up-lighting, sound system rental, wedding DJ, or live music! Please contact us for your next event and make it truly a night to remember. (626) 327-2539 LightUptheNightEntertainment@gmail.com Lightupthenightes.com (626) 327-2539

Margaritas Restaurant and Pepe’s Mexican Food Need a place for your next party but don’t want to cook or clean? We have the perfect place for you. Our banquet room seats up to 50 people for your next special party. It’s a warm and inviting place where you and your guests can eat superb Mexican food and drinks and

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atrice Cardamone Veyna and Brandon Veyna have been inseparable since they met seven years ago. Back then, Patrice, a student at Pepperdine University, and her friends stopped at Duke’s Restaurant in Malibu before heading for spring break in Palm Springs. “I had just sworn off guys,” Patrice recalls. “However, right when we walked into Duke’s there was a very handsome surfer guy at the bar laughing with his buddies and my heart and head at the same time went ‘oh no, we are in trouble.’” The two discovered they had many things in common, such as growing up in Catholic households and attending Catholic schools. Five years later, Brandon proposed while the two attended Patrice’s family reunion at the Outer Banks, North Carolina. As they walked along the beach, Patrice saw a heart drawn in the sand. Then Brandon got down on one knee, told Patrice how much he loved her and said he wanted her to be his wife. The two got married in August 2014 at the Holy Family Catholic Church in South Pasadena.

V endors Wedding Venue: Holy Family Church Reception Venue: A family friend’s home in Altadena. Photographer/Videographer: Debra Morrison Cake: The Walrus & Hedgehog (see Directory) Floral: Vavé Studios (see Directory) Entertainment and Lighting: Light Up the Night Entertainment Services (see Directory) Bridal Gown: Panaché Bridal Bridesmaid’s Dresses: Victoria’s Secret Groom Tux: Neda Menswear Hair Salon: LuxeLab Makeup Salon: Heather Pepe Stationery/Invitations/Menus/Place Cards: Alyssa Stefek Photography

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ARROYO WEDDING RESOURCE DIRECTORY continued from page 9 have fun. We’ll take care of the cooking, you just sit, relax and eat and drink and of course, have fun! Margaritas Restaurant 155 S. Rosemead Blvd. Pasadena, CA (626) 449-4193. Pepe’s 2272 Honolulu Ave. Montrose, CA (818) 248-6622. www.margaritasmexicanfood.com

Meat District Co. Are you planning your wedding and looking for that special place to hold your rehearsal dinner and/or wedding shower? Look no further! Meat District Co. in Old Pasadena is the unique dining experience you are looking for. Their meats are 100% natural, prime dry aged for a minimum of 21 days. An enticing blend of old school charm and contemporary style in an open yet rustic space evoking a comfortable and inviting atmosphere where guests are encouraged to eat, drink and relax – let us help make your event stress free and one to remember! Meatdistrictco.com (626) 765-9002. 69 N. Raymond Ave. Pasadena, CA

Noor Noor is a boutique event space situated in historic downtown Pasadena. Our mission is to earn the trust of our Clients by producing consistent and flawless events. Readers of Pasadena Weekly have affirmed our dedication to this mission by voting Noor “Best of Pasadena” 4 years in a row. Noor features two gorgeous indoor ballrooms along with a stunning outdoor space. Noor’s culinary team brings a wealth of knowledge to the table. Whether planning an intimate gathering or a lavish gala, Noor’s professional team of organizers will take care of every last detail leaving you free to enjoy your day. 260 East Colorado Blvd. Pasadena (626) 793-4518 – noorevents.com

Oh! U Beauty Med Spa All brides and grooms want to shine on their wedding day especially for photos that will be viewed for generations. Oh U Beauty will help you to have healthy, glowing skin for that special day and meet your specific skin and body care needs. Check our website for specials on Botox, Fillers, Laser Hair Removal, facials & much more. Oh!UBeauty has become one of the leading providers of medical aesthetic treatments in Southern California by staffing some of the industry’s elite aesthetic professionals. They’re also one of the only med-spas in the San Gabriel Valley to offer Coolsculpting, the cool, new non-surgical way to eliminate stubborn fat and get rid of the excess weight so you look amazing on your big day! To learn more visit us at www.oubeauty.com or call for a consultation (818) 551-1682.

Pelletteria Italian Leather Boutique The Italian Leather Boutique announces that it has recently received its spring and summer collection of exquisite women leather goods imported directly from the best Italian producers, all bearing the insignia of “Made in Italy,” the guarantee of top quality Italian design, manufacture, and fashion. Pelletteria offers the trendiest fashions in shoes, bags, purses,

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jackets, scarves, and accessories in vibrant colors for the discerning woman who wants to look and feel her best. 38 South Raymond Ave. Pasadena, (626) 231-3999 pelletteriapasadena.com

Restaurant Republic Catering For Catering, Restaurant Republic Catering has Pasadena’s 3 most popular Restaurants to choose. Lucky Boy offers a diverse menu including our Famous Pastrami, 14 Lb. Cheeseburgers and everyone’s favorite Breakfast Burrito. In addition, we offer Paco’s Mexican Restaurant for your Mexican Cuisine cravings of Shaved Meat Tacos or Paco’s Taco Bar Buffet. Lastly, City Café offers All American Cuisine of Mac n Cheese, Short Ribs, Burgers, Pizzas, Pastas, Steaks and Seafood. For all your catering needs, Call 626-437-3167 or christina@therestaurantrepublic.com. Free Delivery over $300. Lucky Boy 640 S. Arroyo Parkway, Pasadena, CA 91105 Lucky Boy 531 E. Walnut St., Pasadena Pacos Mexican Restaurant 200 E. Foothill Blvd. Arcadia, CA 91006 City Café 607 N. Azusa Ave. Azusa, CA 91702

Santa Anita Park Santa Anita is available for non-racing private rental year-round. With virtually our entire facility available, the only limit is your imagination. Able to accommodate from 50 to 5,000 people, we customize an event to fit your needs and budget. Some events include weddings, holiday parties, formal sit-down dinners, auctions, proms, business meetings and company picnics. Our Executive Chef tailors your menu for your special day from elegant hors d’oeuvre parties to sumptuous sit-down dinners. Santa Anita Park, 285 W. Huntington Drive, Arcadia. Call (626) 572-7223.

The Scott Pavilion on Raymond Located in the heart of Old Pasadena, the beautiful newly renovated Scott Pavilion on Raymond, with seating capacity up to 250, offers the perfect setting for your next celebration or event. Additional meeting rooms and a spacious, shaded patio are also available for your convenience. For more information please contact Raul Martinez / Judy Starlight at (626) 685-6706 or visit www. pasadenaseniorcenter.org

Starr House A perfect mix of sophistication and creative genius awards Starr House Pasadena’s favorite for 10 years! Pasadena’s fashion forward beauty salon is nestled in the quaint Mission district of San Marino where a diverse and talented staff of 15 specialize in hair color, cutting, straightening and curling, manis and pedis, waxing and professional make up application. Starr House prides itself on it’s unique attention to detail, continuous education program and customer service making this jewel well worth visiting! 2636 Mission St. San Marino, Ca 91108 (626)7990828 www.starrhouse.com

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enise Robb and Michael Vanier’s relationship proves that dating websites can work. Denise, a political science professor at Pierce College, and Michael, who teaches computer science at Caltech, met on e-Harmony and discovered they had a lot in common. In addition to being professors, they both love cats and write comedy. When Michael first told Denise he was a comedy writer, she recalls she was skeptical because “most people who said ‘I have some great jokes for you’ simply weren’t funny. Mike turned out to be hysterical.” He eventually wrote material that was well received when Denise, a professional standup comic, performed it. Mike also took Denise to the Dorothy Chandler Pavilion to see what she describes as “the worst opera we had ever seen based on David Cronenberg’s horror movie ‘The Fly.’” While they were discussing the opera’s awfulness, Mike pulled out a ring, got on his knees and proposed. The couple was married by the Rev. Tera Little at the Neighborhood Unitarian Universalist Church in Pasadena, where they also held their wedding reception. Denise gave birth to their son Joshua a year later.

V endors Wedding & Reception Venue: Neighborhood Unitarian Universalist Church Photographer/Videographer: Leslie Barton Cake: Sweet and Organic Desserts Flowers: Mina McFarland Catering: Doomie’s Home Cooking Entertainment: DJ and karaoke by Johnny Stewart Bridal Gown: One Night Affair Hair Salon: Cheveux Salon Makeup Salon: Veronica Lane Garcia

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Timeless Celebrations Have you ever noticed that every live celebration experience has all of the same basic party elements? Think about it….For every “very special” occasion we celebrate… weddings, birthdays or anniversaries, community milestones, fund raising galas for charity or even a corporate conference & product launch, we all start with an “Reason, Season or Goal” to come together. We select a date, send out the invitations, set tables, chairs, china, create a menu, as there is always food, dim the lights, kick up the music, guests arrive…and the “magic” begins…Timeless Celebrations, your Southern California full service Wedding & Event Production Company, supports your event design & planning process from start to finish. Here is just an idea of the skills & services you will experience as we work together to create your vision….Let’s Begin! Timelesscelebrations.com or call us at (626) 222-1808

Title Boxing A fitness club with a punch. TITLE Boxing Club offers explosive total body boxing and kickboxing fitness workouts that help women and men burn up to 1,000 calories per hour in group classes. If you are looking for a fitness club that offers effective group exercise classes and personal training, TITLE Boxing Club is the fitness club for you. The classes provide fun, challenging, and efficient workouts. Also available are a slection of boxing gloves, fitness apparel and accessories. 87 Fraser Alley, Old Pasadena (626) 340-2500, oldpasadena.titleboxingclub.com

gifts, wedding decor and home goods– from delicate lace and silk dressing robes, adorable ceramic cake toppers, the perfect something blue, and linen bow-ties for the guys. That tiny missing detail....you’ll find it in our special little boutique. 950 Mission St, South Pasadena (323) 487-9147

ViP Salons Hair Design International Take the first step for your special day by being treated like Royalty that you deserve. ViP Salons Hair Design will give you The ViP Bridal Royal Treatment, Hair and Make Up by our International Team. We offer pre wedding day skin care, hair treatments, air brush tanning and waxing. Trial Hair and Make Up Package or Individual Pricing available. 310 Arroyo Pkwy Ste. 8, Pasadena (626) 460-8835 vipsalonsca.com

VROMAN’S BOOKSTORE – Pen & Stationery Department Vroman’s is your go-to store when you’re looking for everything from that special gift for that very special event to a quick something for the hostess. Behold the enchanting array of fine writing instruments, stationery and invitations. Our quaint, cozy wedding salon offers all the accoutrements for your wedding day – from guest books to bridesmaid gifts to invitations. Step into the salon and let us take some of the stress and guess work out of selecting your invitations – shower, bachelorette and wedding, too! 695 E. Colorado Blvd., Pasadena. vromansbookstore. com (626) 449-5320

The Walrus & the Hedgehog University Club Of Pasadena Welcome…We are delighted and honored that you are interested in celebrating your special day at one of Pasadena’s most beautiful wedding venues. Nestled in the heart of Pasadena, the University Club features multiple salons to host 2 to 250 guests including an outdoor patio just perfect for a garden style ceremony or reception. From ceremony to receptions, our full-service venue does it all, custom cuisine, design & décor, plus entertainment & valet so all you have to do is say “I Do” and live “Happily Ever After”. Call today and let the University Club of Pasadena help you to plan and produce “Your” unique wedding day. Please contact our Events Department to arrange your visit to Pasadena’s Historic Jewel: University Club of Pasadena, 175 North Oakland Ave., Pasadena, CA 91101 626-793-5157 www.universityclubpasadena.com

Vavé Studios Flower Shop & Boutique Vavé Studios is located in South Pasadena, California– offering floral design for weddings and special events. We gain our inspiration from classical and contemporary art, as well as the lush landscapes of California. Our philosophy is that nature adds a depth of beauty to our lives and we love working closely with our brides to help them achieve their vibe and vision for their wedding day. Our storefront is also home to a mix of wonderfully curated

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The Walrus and the Hedgehog is a trio of culinary artist combining their experience with the multitude of flavors found in Southern California. We seek out local fresh ingredients, making full flavored meals and desserts. Working directly with each client to ensure that they will have the perfect food pairing with every occasion. Lend us your taste buds for your next event. Thewalrusandthehedgehog@gmail.com (626) 827-0069

Westminster Presbyterian Church Westminster’s majestic French Gothic Cathedral is the choice of many couples for their marriage ceremony. At Westminster, a wedding is a beautiful worship celebration where two people unite their lives in God’s presence. The joyous celebration of this union in our sanctuary is open to all who seriously desire it. Non-member weddings are part of our ministry. If the bride and groom are active members of another church, Westminster welcomes the participation of their clergy alongside our own as part of our ministry and mission. Inquiries regarding wedding dates and times as well as receptions and other facility usages may be made by calling or emailing the Church Administrator at weddings.wpcpas.org or (626) 794-7141. 1757 North Lake Avenue - Pasadena, CA 91104 ■

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any people start training in martial arts and fi nd a lifestyle. Nina and Kristopher Burranasombati started training in Brazilian JiuJitsu and found each other. They were both white belts the day they met and over a few years they “choked” their way to a loving relationship. In that time they both received blue belts, ran marathons, traveled together, and took part in many adventures. After three years of dating, Kristopher pulled off the ultimate submission — he proposed to Nina during a fictitious belt promotion ceremony with the help of Professor Alberto Crane at Gracie Barra in Burbank. Kristopher got down on one knee and presented Nina with a beautiful pearshaped ring and asked her to marry him…she excitedly responded, “Yes!” After the proposal they continued class and it was business as usual on the mats. When people ask Nina how Kristopher proposed, she usually sums it up by saying, “Proposed, slapped, bumped and rolled… True story!” The two were married outdoors on a beautiful fall evening with lots of romantic candles. “Married life is great,” Nina says. “A family that trains together stays together.”

V endors Wedding & Reception Venue: The Little White House at Calamigos Equestrian Center Photographer: Bruno Ohara Videographer: Envision Production Cake: Portos Bakery Floral: My Flower Guy Entertainment: VIP DJ Entertainment Wedding Planner/Consultant: Peggy Kelley, Timeless Celebrations (see Directory) Bridal Gown: Unique Vintage Hair & Make-up: Acree Beauty Invitations: Simply Stated Stationery

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hen Darlene and David Caro fi rst met nearly two years ago, it was nothing short of destiny being fulfi lled. “It felt like we’ve known each other for years,” says Darlene. As Darlene describes it, the two met for dinner at a local restaurant, and from the moment they saw one another, they were in love. “We danced the night away,” she recalls. “We were engrossed in nonstop conversation. … It was like we had known each other for a lifetime.” David and Darlene were actually talking about their ideas about marriage when David popped the question. “That’s when David reached in his pocket and pulled out this small black velvet box. He dropped to one knee and va va voom — he looked in my eyes and asked me to share the rest of his life with him while placing this big, beautiful diamond ring on my fi nger.”

V endors Wedding & Reception Venue: University Club (see Directory) Photographer/Videographer: Pablo Cruz of LaughnLove Photography Cake: Artistic Cakes Floral: Penelope Designs Linens: GBS Linens Entertainment: Ace Band Wedding Planner/Consultant: Penelope Designs Bridal Gown: Alfred Angelo Bridesmaids Dresses: Macy’s Hair Salon: Raul Velasquez Make-up: Artistry by Valerie Invitations: Norma Ornelas

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BRIDE AND

GROOM LET PROFESSIONAL PLANNERS AND COORDINATORS NAVIGATE THE MAZE OF DETAILS INVOLVED WITH PRODUCING YOUR WEDDING BY REBECCA KUZINS

ouples who want their wedding ceremony to be a memorable, specially designed occasion will eventually have to answer these two questions: Should they have a do-it-yourself wedding, planned by the bride and groom with help from friends and family? Or should they hire a professional wedding planner to handle the many tasks associated with these events? Not surprisingly, Pasadena-area wedding planners maintain their services can alleviate a couple’s stress by allowing a more experienced and knowledgeable person to sweat the small — and large — details. “I truly believe a professional wedding planner is a gift to the bride and groom,” says Candace Lam of Pasadena-based Love Is Sweet Events. “It gives them peace of mind and lets them enjoy their wedding. Some people think they can do it themselves. But it can get very stressful on their wedding day. They shouldn’t have to be calling the vendors, asking where the cake is. The photographer will be constantly taking their pictures on wedding day, and this stress shows in the pictures.” “We know all the vendors,” says Chabeli Sanchez, a wedding planner and the owner of P.S. & Associates Event Planning. “That takes all the legwork out of planning. I don’t have to hunt on the Internet for 10 hours to fi nd a vendor. “A lot of brides these days want a more do-it-yourself, smaller, intimate wedding,” she adds. “But they still need someone to run the show the day of the wedding.” That “someone” can be a wedding coordinator.

“There are differences between a planner and a coordinator,” says Cindy Pham of Mad Love Events. “A wedding planner plans the whole wedding. A coordinator takes over the month before or the day of the wedding and executes the couple’s plans, so the pair has time to plan the wedding themselves. You don’t spend all the money to have a planner, but you have someone who can help the couple enjoy their wedding day.” Mad Love Events offers four options ranging from extensive, longterm wedding production to wedding-day-only coordination. Love Is Sweet Events provides four packages, with the coordination-only option starting at $1,900 and the more comprehensive “Love with All of Your Heart Planning Package” starting at $6,500. Pham estimates it will cost at least $8,000 to hire a planner, and between $2,500 and $3,000 for a coordinator, while Sanchez says it can cost anywhere from $1,000 to $10,000 or more for wedding planning services. However, some wedding planners argue they can actually save their clients’ money. “We get discounts from vendors,” says Sanchez. Couples who hire professionals must also be comfortable relinquishing control of the details to someone else — a problem for those who prefer to be in charge. “It’s always good to have someone for support and guidance, to give their professional opinions and suggestions and cohesive designs, who will help you along the way,” says Pham. ■ ARROYO WEDDINGS | 23

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DESTINATION: HAPPINESS A LITTLE RESEARCH, RESOURCEFULNESS AND PATIENCE WILL MAKE A DESTINATION WEDDING AN ENCHANTING EVENT BY SHEILA MENDES COLEMAN

ince time immemorial, it has been a fantasy for many a bride that’s often thought to be out of reach or impractical, but the destination wedding can also be a viable option for most brides who want to create an unforgettable, unique day fi lled with magic and love. A survey shows that approximately 24 percent of weddings performed in 2013 were destination weddings, according to TheKnot.com. “Couples are more focused than ever on creating a unique, personalized and once-in-a-lifetime experience for their guests — plus they’re doing so in a modern way by planning from their smartphones, publicizing details on social media and more,” said TheKnot.com cofounder Carley Roney. With traditional wedding ceremonies costing on average $29,000, destination weddings, which are usually smaller, are often a far cheaper and less-stressful way to marry. Anxious couples often encounter such unwelcomed pressure from things like guest lists, place-settings and décor that it becomes simpler to keep attendance, and the involvement of family and friends, to a minimum. Older brides and those planning second or third marriages often choose a destination wedding because they’ve already experienced the pomp and circumstance of more traditional ceremonies. And many families see these events as a wonderful way to reunite several generations for a much-needed vacation. California native Francine Cohen’s Las Vegas wedding was held at the home of extended family members who lived close to all the

amenities of the Las Vegas Strip, allowing her to provide virtually free entertainment to invited guests. “The best part was not having to fi nd a place since my Aunt Sandy lived out there already,” she said. In the last several years, there has been a decided shift in popularity with regard to exciting places to wed. Many adventurous couples-to-be are apt to see the exchanging of vows as an important part of a larger experience, and opt for locales that challenge and thrill, as well as delight. Las Vegas is a perennial favorite for quick and elaborate nuptials alike and continues to top the list of most popular places to wed. Of course, exotic locales such as Fiji, the Caribbean, the Bahamas, Bermuda, Jamaica, South America, Paris and Italy remain popular and will continue to beckon lovers. Thrill-seeking couples are also opting for more imaginative locations, such as New Zealand, South Africa, Eastern Europe and Tibet. Despite the benefits, the out-of-town wedding isn’t for the faint of heart. Cohen experienced her share of frustrations when planning her Vegas wedding. “The worst part of it was not knowing anyone out there who was providing the services, having to use a minister we didn’t know and finding places to get all of our wedding stuff, like flowers, haircuts and deejays.” With a bit of research, resourcefulness, proper support and a lot of patience, a destination wedding can be an enchanting way for lovers to create a memorable merge. ■ ARROYO WEDDINGS | 25

UPCOMING SELECT SOUTHERN CALIFORNIA WEDDING SHOWS Sunday, May 31, 2015 10am-4pm Fairplex Pomona 1861 Fairplex Drive Pomona, California 91768 www.BrideWorld.com Admission is $12/person Sunday, June 7, 2015 10:30am-2:30pm Fenyes Estate Gardens 470 West Walnut Street Pasadena, California 91103 www.bridalshowsoutherncalifornia.com Complimentary Admission Sunday, June 7, 2015 11am-3pm Long Beach Convention Center 300 East Ocean Boulevard Long Beach, California 90802 www.premierbridalshows.com Admission is $10 at the door Sunday, June 7, 2015 10am-4pm Crowne Plaza Redondo Beach and Marina Hotel 300 North Harbor Drive Redondo Beach, California 90277 www.brideworld.com Admission is $12/person Sunday, June 7, 2015 10:30am-2:30pm Fenyes Estate Gardens 470 West Walnut Street Pasadena, California 91103 www.bridalshowsoutherncalifornia.com Complimentary Admission Sunday, June 14, 2015 11am-3pm Ontario Convention Center 26

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2000 Convention Center Way Ontario, California 91764 www.premierbridalshows.com Admission is $10 at the door Wednesday, June 24, 2015 6pm-9pm Courtyard by Marriott Baldwin Park 14635 Baldwin Park Towne Center Baldwin Park, California 91722 www.marriott.com Free Admission Sunday, July 12, 2015 10:30am-2:30pm Belmont Shore Chalet 5107 E Ocean Boulevard Long Beach, California 90803 www.bridalshowsoutherncalifornia.com Complimentary Admission Sunday, August 2, 2015 11:00am - 3:00pm Sheraton Fairplex Pomona 601 W McKinley Ave Pomona, CA 91768 www.bridalshowplace,net Admission is $10 at door Sunday, August 9, 2015 11:00am - 4:00pm The Queen Mary 1126 Queens Hwy Long Beach, CA 90802 www.bridalshowplace,net Admission is $10 at door Sunday, August 9, 2015 11am-3pm Hyatt Westlake Plaza in Thousand Oaks 880 South Westlake Boulevard Westlake Village, California 91361 www.bridalpremiere.com Admission is $10 at door/$8 online

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