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CONTENTS COMMUNITY Around the Community . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .6
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JEWISH THOUGHT Rabbi Zvi Teichman. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 34
PEOPLE 613 Seconds . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 17
HUMOR & ENTERTAINMENT Centerfold. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 42 Notable Quotes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 48
FEATURE A New Era in the Middle East?. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 54
LIFESTYLES World Builders. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 40 Forgotten Heroes. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 44 Dating Dialogue. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 51 Mental Health Corner. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 58 Political Crossfire. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 59 Gluten Free Recipe Column. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 60 Your Money. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 61
Dear readers, When I was a teenager, and we would form teams to play sports, I generally allowed the other captain to pick the better players. This meant he had the better team and was expected to win. My team, on the other hand, was expected to lose. An emotional winwin situation: if we won, everyone was impressed, and if we lost— well, what did you expect! While deferring decisions can come from a good place, especially on non-consequential issues, it can also be an escape from responsibility. “You decide; I’d rather not be responsible,” is a negative response if we are supposed to be in charge at that moment. Each one of us is supposed to be a leader in certain areas of our lives. If, in the name of humility, we shy away from that responsibility, saying, “Who am I?” we have not only failed those around us, we have failed ourselves. Taking a position of strength and focusing on what’s needed to get the job done isn’t selfish, it’s the right thing to do. As children, spouses, parents, and members of our community, we need to strengthen what we have to offer and play our specific instrument in the orchestra called life to the best of our ability. All previous generations have their eyes on our us, amazed at our resilience in the face apathy and at times mockery of all that we hold dear. May we finish our mission, ushering in the times of Mashiach in 5780 yet! Wishing you a wonderful Shabbos, Shalom
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any Talmidim, returning to the States after spending a year learning in Eretz Yisroel at Yeshivos such as Ohr Samayach, Aish, Shappells, Machon Yaakov and Machon Shlomo, seek to settle in a Frum community. They are searching for opportunities for Shiurim, Chavrusa learning and likeminded Chaveirim. At the same time, they are seeking professional employment and even Shidduchim. It can be difficult to find them all in the same place. People can find it challenging when transitioning from Yeshiva into a new community, especially with the pressures of starting out on your own. Enter the Bais Chaburah The transition was made so much smoother - Talmidim were informed about our efforts on their behalf. A furnished apartment was rented and we were able to arrange daily Shiurim, Shabbos Seudos as well as Shidduch and Job Networking. This program, which was founded
by Rabbi Zvi Schwartz, is a new addition to his summer program of Jinternship. Due to COVID, this summer, the regular programming was changed. Phil Massey, a Jinternship Alumni and recent graduate from Penn State, took advantage of the opportunity to live at the Bais Chaburah and par-
ticipate in its many Shiurim. Phil is getting ready to go to Israel to spend a year at Ohr Samayach starting this Elul. Bezras Hashem the Chaburah is soon to finish Perek Ben Sorer U’Morer with Shiurim in Halacha, Chumash and Mishnah. The new approach is al-
ready achieving its goals with three of the participants having secured jobs. The Chaburah has generated much excitement and has provided a great opportunity for Talmidim returning from a year of growth at Yeshiva with the need to be engaged with experienced Rebbeim. The Shiurim are rooted in acquiring a Kinyan in Gemara and Hashkafa. Rabbi Schwartz says, “COVID has shined a light on the many Talmidim who are Moser Nefesh to learn a year at Yeshiva. When they return, they often have to live on their own without much support. In addition, it is a challenge to find the appropriate learning and social opportunities that are so vital. It’s incredible how the Bais Chaburah has turned this challenge around and created a Makom Torah that has attracted young men with so much talent and dedication. The Siyata Dishmaya and enthusiasm is very palpable. We look forward to continued growth”
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n the heels of the Israeli government’s decision to allow American high school graduates to enter the country for seminary and yeshiva, on Sunday, August 2nd, Bais Yaakov and Bnos Yisroel students attended the annual “Stay Safe in Israel” workshop, in social distance style of course. Led by Frank Storch and held at Bnos Yisroel, the workshop advised students on various useful tips. Students were provided a Stay Safe in Israel guide and a swag bag of essentials for their flight including KN95 masks for the plane. This year, the workshop topics covered basics such as what to plan for before the trip, personal and health safety during the year, etc. but also more current issues regarding Covid-19 safety concerns during travel. “As students prepare themselves for a year away from home where the focus is on learning independence and growing spiritually and emotionally, another important priority must be their safety and security. Students need to learn to be mindful and always alert of their surroundings. Obviously, that is important in the United States as well but even more so in Israel. Whether that means students need to remember to lock the door to their dorm building or respond correctly to a suspicious object on a bus, awareness is a critical tool that a can potentially save lives,” said Mr. Storch. Rabbi Tzvi Gluck of Amudim said, “There are so many personal safety and security risks when young adults are traveling and experiencing new things in new places. Without parental guidance, the Stay Safe in Israel guide is a strong resource and tool for teenagers living on their own for the first time and I have had students tell me that the guide’s Israel Emergency Card, which lists critical emergency phone numbers, has saved them numerous times.” Bnos Yisroel Principal, Mrs. Ahuvah Heyman, noted how the guide is always so appreciated by students and parents since it provides a thor-
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ough yet comprehensive resource for so much that is important to know, plan, and discuss before leaving to Israel for the year. “The Stay Safe in Israel workshop takes it to another level by bringing the guide to life. The presentation makes the girls think about how to respond in different scenarios to ensure their safety. For example, what should they do if they are running late and won’t make it back in time for curfew? Is it really worth getting in a taxi that might not be safe or is it better to call their madricha, explain the situation, and get in a taxi that may take longer to arrive but is from a trusted company? These are hard decisions to make and without considering all the consequences students may make the wrong choice and unfortunately even a dangerous one. Obviously, not every circumstance can be predicted or planned for but just showing the girls to approach their behavior with a safety perspective in mind is invaluable.” Regarding Covid, Mr. Storch suggests, “Maximize safety protocols when booking flights, at the airport, and on the plane. Online check-in or touchless check in options must be explored to limit exposure.” He stressed to students the importance of keeping their masks on except for when eating and to make sure to bring and use hand sanitizer often. Students were also reminded to choose a window seat so there is less contact with people, and to disinfect plane seats, armrests, and tray tables. For a free download of the Stay Safe in Israel guide, and various other critical safety guides and community resources, visit chesedfund.com. Contact Frank Storch with any questions or comments at info@chesedfund.com or 410-340-1000.
ens of thousands of vote-bymail ballots were rejected and went uncounted in Maryland’s June primary, according to a summary of the state’s first vote-by-mail election triggered by the coronavirus pandemic. The tally of rejected ballots was 34,948, which amounted to 2.39% of the nearly 3.6 million mail-in votes that were cast. The numbers, while considered low by state elections authorities, are an indication that voting by mail brings a higher risk of errors that can disqualify ballots, according to State Board of Elections deputy administrator Nikki Charlson. The percentages were in-line with previous absentee voting figures and did not affect the outcome of any races, Charleson said. She noted that in-person voting results in much lower error rates, while the vote-by-mail primary resulted in higher than normal participation rates. “We do see a higher rate of rejecting ballots with absentee,” Charleson said. “You’re just not completing the process in the presence of trained election officials.” Leading reasons for the rejection of ballots during the June primary were a failure to get the ballot mailed in time and a failure to sign the ballot envelope to verify the voter’s identity.
According to the SBE’s election report: More than 87% of the rejects arrived late Nearly 9.5% of the rejects were because voters failed to sign the envelope Other reasons for vote-by-mail rejections in Maryland have included everything from unsealed envelopes to a small number of unregistered voters submitting ballots. There is an extremely low incidence of people voting more than once. During the June primary, the Board of Elections disqualified 181 ballots out of 3.5 million, or .00005% of votes cast for voting more than one ballot. Charlson explained that in the past some voters have turned up at polls in-person even after casting an absentee ballot. She said the numbers do not indicate any widespread fraud. Charleson noted vote-by-mail ballots have an envelope that is bar-coded with an individual voter ID tracking number to verify every voter. Voters must also sign the envelope to verify their identity, or the ballot will be rejected. In Maryland, mail-in ballots for the November General Election must be requested. Requests can be made online, or by texting the letters VBM to 77788. Additionally, ballot request applications will be mailed to every registered voter beginning Aug. 24. Voters who want to vote-by-mail or by leaving a ballot in a drop box must fill out the application and return it before receiving a ballot.
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a r y l a n d ’ s unemployment rate fell to 7.6 percent in July, preliminary data released by the U.S. Department of Labor Friday shows. The state added 53,900 jobs in July, reducing the unemployment rate from 8.3 to 7.6 percent. Nationwide, the unemployment rate sits at 10.2 percent.
Maryland’s unemployment rate is below neighboring states, the data shows. Delaware and Pennsylvania sit at 10.4 percent unemployment, while Virginia saw eight percent unemployment in July. Washington, D.C.’s unemployment rate, meanwhile, sits at 8.4 percent. Just under half of Maryland’s job growth in July came from the leisure and hospitality industry, while the education and health services sectors saw slight job losses.
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ll teams arrived promptly to the PeoplesBank fields at Reisterstown Regional Park, ready to partake in the slow pitch league. It was a fun and grueling regular season but the dust has settled and the top four teams have made their way into the Premier Financial post-season where they will vie for a spot in the championship and the chance to bring home the coveted, Premier Financial Trophy. The seedings for the playoffs are as follows: 1. LBSI 2. Levin & Gann 3. The Kitchen Spot 4. Fired Up Promotions LBSI will play Fired Up Promotions while Levin and Gann will play Fired Up Promotions this coming Sunday (8/30) at 9:30 AM. (The winners of those games will face off on Labor Day, in the championship.)
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Read the remainder of this article for some of the highlights from Week 7, which helped set the stage for the playoffs.
Aitan Lewis led off with a single to center field and Josh Rosenbloom followed with a single of his own. The next two hitters flied out, leaving it up to Rookie Max Cantor to keep Fired Up’s hopes alive. Cantor came through with a hard single to center to load the bases, which brough All-Star SS Ab Reznick to the plate.
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LBSI snatched the number 1 seed and cruised into the playoffs, following a big win against The Kitchen Spot. With the best regular season record on the line for both teams, this was a game that promised excitement and competitiveness. But ultimately it was the work of LBSI pitcher, Aharon Ad-
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In what was a wild back-and-forth affair, Fired Up Promotions came out on top, grabbing the final playoff spot by capitalizing on Ab Reznick’s 4 hits, which included a walkoff, game-winning, bases-clearing double in the bottom of the ninth. Early in the game, Fired Up grabbed the reigns claiming a 6-1 lead. But Donny Ankri Architects battled back and took the lead in the fourth. Fired Up regained the upper hand, taking a 9-5 headed into the top of the seventh. Donny Ankri himself tied the game at 9 with some clutch hitting but Fired Up’s Shloimie Scheinfeld responded by hitting an impressive two-run double to give Fired Up an 11-9 lead. The Architects once again fought back and took a 14-13 lead into the ninth. The Architects threatened again in the top of the ninth, scoring one more run and loading the bases with only one out. But it would be Fired Up 3B Noam Shiman who saved the day, scooping a hard grounder, stepping on third for one out and then making a strong throw to the plate to complete an inning ending double play. Fired Up entered the bottom of the ninth down 15-13, knowing that they needed three runs to pull out the
With a 1-0 count, Reznick hit a hard line drive to the right-center gap, scoring Lewis, Rosenbloom and Cantor for the walk-off win.
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The Chiropractors jumped out to an early 1-0 lead thanks to the aggressive baserunning of Yehuda Abedon but on the very next play, Hillel Stutman was thrown out at the plate by 1st baseman Shlomo Rosenstein, putting an end to the early rally. As the game went on, Kaylah Diamonds took over, scoring 10 unanswered runs, capped off by a 2 run, opposite field homerun by Moshe Tuchman. It was a well-played, fun, competitive game, but Kaylah Diamonds was just too much for the Chiropractors and was able to take home the W with a final score of 10-2.
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Levin and Gann pulled off an impressive victory, capping off the regular season with a 22-8 win against Seven Seas Sushi. The combination of strong pitching from captain Yaakov Rappaport, shut down defense by Aron Meister, David Pensak, Ben Gutman, and Shalom Ryback, and timely hitting by Alexander Weil, Simcha Malin, and Akiva Slepoy, proved to be too much for the Fish Men. Levin and Gann now prepares for a 1st round match in the playoffs against The Kitchen Spot.
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For those consumers who are not venturing out – on vacation or even to a local food store -- Rabbi Goldberg hosted a “COVID-19 Kashrus” webinar featuring STAR-K Kashrus Administrator Rabbi Sholom Tendler. Discussion topics included food shopping from home and which products require kosher certification and which don’t. Rabbi Tendler’s onsite video tour with a mashgiach at a STAR-K restaurant demonstrated how social distancing and other COVID-related protocols are being implemented in STAR-K food establishments.
Last, but not least, STAR-K Kashrus Administrator Rabbi Dovid Heber, held a Zoom seminar with the high-functioning special-needs young adults of Harmony Services/Kinor Dovid, a day-habilitation program located in Brooklyn, New York. Rabbi Heber held a Q & A session on the appropriate bracha to make on a variety of cereals and other items. I was invited to return on Zoom the following week, as a follow-up to Rabbi Heber’s shiur, to speak to this audience about STAR-K. One of Harmony’s rebbeim/mentors, Rabbi Moshe Boylan, who arranged the program, expressed his thanks in a letter: Dear Mrs. Pensak, Thank you so much for interviewing our chevra in Harmony Services/ Kinor Dovid. The olam enjoyed learning about STAR-K and the Baltimore community, and you showed them respect and appreciation for their accomplishments. We also thank Rav Dovid Heber, shlit”a, who answered our questions in Hilchos Berachos (which we are learning currently). We were impressed how he gave us his time willingly, as if he had all the time in the world. He was also very well-prepared for our questions, answering them right away without any preparation…Our virtual meetings with the staff of STAR-K were educational, geared to their level, and helped our agency make the individuals feel part of the overall community. Thank you very much and tizku l’mitzvos. Rabbi Moshe Boylan
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Kushner to Make Israel Trip Jared Kushner is slated to make a surprise trip to Israel in the first week of September accompanied by White House envoy to the peace process, Avi Berkowitz. President Trump’s National Security Adviser Robert O’Brien and Iran envoy Brian Hooke are also expected to join the delegation. According to reports, Kushner and Berkowitz want to congratulate leaders in Israel and the United Arab Emirates on their recent normalization agreement and get updated on how negotiations are progressing.
Apart from visiting Jerusalem, the senior Trump administration officials will head to the United Arab Emirates. While in Israel, Kushner is expected to meet with Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu and Defense Minister Benny Gantz. In Abu Dhabi, the U.S. delegation will huddle with Crown Prince Muhammad bin Zayed. In addition, the White House is currently trying to coordinate meet-
ings in Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, and Oman. President Donald Trump recently said that he hoped Saudi Arabia would join Abu Dhabi in normalizing its ties with the Jewish state while rumors swirl that Bahrain and Oman will announce their own agreement with Israel shortly. Trump is reportedly seeking to mark the newfound peace agreement between Israel and the UAE by hosting a celebratory signing ceremony in September at the White House’s Rose Garden. Even if no additional Arab countries establish diplomatic relations with Israel by then, the White House wants representatives from a slew of Arab states to attend the event. However, Israeli and Arab officials say that hammering out the final agreement between Israel and the United Arab Emirates is expected to take longer than expected. Both countries have tapped special negotiations task forces with bringing the deal to completion since the historic breakthrough was announced in early August.
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Turkey’s President Recep Erdogan has vowed to lead a united front against normalization with Israel following the recent diplomatic breakthrough between the Jewish state and the UAE. In a phone conversation with PA President Mahmoud Abbas on Saturday, Erdogan reiterated his full and unrelenting support for the Palestinian cause. Blasting the UAE for normalizing its relations with Israel, Erdogan called on other Arab countries to battle the Jewish State “and not accept any step of normalization before the Palestinians achieve their independence with East Jerusalem is its capital.” The Turkish leader added that he will call an urgent meeting of the foreign ministers of the member states of the Islamic Cooperation Organization to express their support for the PA. Abbas responded by thanking Erdogan for his efforts to unite the various Palestinian factions in order to thwart Israel’s diplomatic moves. Erdogan has emerged as a vocal opponent of Abu Dhabi’s decision to normalize its relations with Israel. Soon after the breakthrough was announced, he threatened to suspend Turkey’s diplomatic ties with the UAE and recall its envoy. Later, Erdogan said that “history will never forgive” any Arab country that agrees to official ties with Jerusalem. “The move against Palestine is not a step that can be stomached. Now, Palestine is either closing or withdrawing its embassy,” said Erdogan. “The same thing is valid for us now. “I told him [the foreign minister] we may also take a step in the direction of suspending diplomatic ties with the Abu Dhabi leadership or pulling back our ambassador.” While Israel and Turkey are officially allies, the bilateral ties between Ankara and Jerusalem have deteriorated over the last decade. Israel’s embassy in Turkey has remained empty ever since its diplomats were expelled in 2016, and the IDF’s annual intelligence report recently listed Turkey as a threat for the first time. Erdogan, who leads an Islamist movement, is also a strong supporter of the Hamas terror group and allows its leadership to operate out of his country’s capital. Hamas’ activities in Turkey include planning attacks
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Israel’s coronavirus czar confirmed that he will ban flights to Ukraine in the weeks leading up to Rosh Hashana in order to prevent people from embarking on pilgrimages to Uman. In an interview on Saturday evening, Professor Roni Gamzu warned that the thousands of chassidim seeking to visit Rabbi Nachman of Breslov’s burial site in Uman were liable to become “a coronavirus terror attack.” Noting that the gravesite visits to Uman are characterized by thousands of people who stay in cramped and crowded conditions, Gamzu said that Israel had no choice other than to prohibit its citizens from traveling there. “Uman is not a holiday in Tishrei, and it is not a sacred thing. It is merely a party and should not be done. It can bring us closer to another full lockdown,” said Gamzu. “The entire government should be determined to win the trust of the public and tell the chassidim not to travel to Uman at this time.” He added, “This is pikuach nefesh. I hereby announce – there will be no flights to Uman. Period.” UTJ head and Construction Minister Yaakov Litzman promised to fight the ban, which he called “a slap in the face to all Breslov chassidim. “Prof. Roni Gamzu’s letter to the President of Ukraine against the departure of the followers of Breslov oversteps his authority and bypasses the political route which is the purview of the prime minister, the health minister, and the Coronavirus Cabinet,” Litzman told Israel’s Channel 12. Gamzu, a senior medical execu-
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tive tasked with heading Israel’s battle against COVID-19, has been publicly pressing the government to prevent its citizens from traveling to Uman. Last Thursday, Gamzu demanded that the “Coronavirus Cabinet� order the Israeli Airports Authority to completely cancel all current scheduled flights to Ukraine and airports with connecting flights to Kiev. Later, he tweeted that the popular holiday pilgrimage would result “in a mass contagion event not only among thousands of passengers but also among locals in Ukraine.� Gamzu also sent an official letter to Ukraine’s prime minister requesting that he ban Israeli citizens from entering. The letter came after the Ukrainian government reversed an earlier decision to refuse entry to people traveling to Uman. Instead, anyone who could prove that they tested negative for the virus would be allowed into the country but would need to follow social distancing guidelines. In the meantime, Israel’s Health Ministry is pressuring Breslov leaders to order their followers to forgo traveling to Uman this Rosh Hashana.
Dodging Shin Bet Tracking Israelis are using innovative methods to dodge the Shin Bet’s phone tracking system. Ever since the initial coronavirus outbreak in March, Israel has been using the Shin Bet security service for its contact tracing efforts. While the intelligence agency usually utilizes its substantial phone tracking capabilities to fight terrorism, it was put into service to detect who had been near known disease carriers. The signals intelligence apparatus pinpoints a person’s location by triangulating its data with nearby cell phone towers. While effective in uncovering terror cells in the West Bank, the system is notoriously faulty when used to fight the coronavirus outbreak and has mistakenly sent as much as 50,000 Israelis into mandatory quarantine. Among other things, the Shin Bet is incapable of knowing if a disease carrier and a nearby person are in different rooms, if they came within six feet of each other, or if they were even on
the same floor. In recent weeks, more and more Israelis have been complaining that they received a text message informing them that they had been in contact with a coronavirus carrier at a time they were sleeping or alone at home. With no way to appeal the Shin Bet’s decision, Israelis are beginning to use methods commonly practiced by terrorists to evade surveillance. According to media reports, the most common practice is leaving home without one’s smartphone or leaving it on airplane mode. Another method is switching to a “dumb phone� that is not connected to the internet. Sales of such devices have jumped 200% since the tracking program began as Israelis turn to them to avoid “false positives� that would force them to quarantine for no reason. The adoption of such tactics has the Shin Bet worried that its expensive technological means will be ineffective in fighting terrorism as militants will discover new ways to thwart its surveillance system. Last month, Shin Bet head Nadav Argaman pleaded with the security cabinet not to extend his agency’s mandate, telling ministers that it was doing “catastrophic damage� to its intelligence gathering abilities. In addition, Israeli lawmakers are concerned that the growing tendency to evade the Shin Bet’s tracking will hamper the effort to curb the pandemic’s spread. This challenge is compounded by the fact that, as a democratic state, Israel has no way to ban its citizens from utilizing such tactics. “This is a problem,� admitted Communications Minister Yoaz Hendel. “Ultimately, we are not a police state. We will not manage to compel the citizens of the State of Israel to keep to the health regulations.�
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hu was noncommittal. After days of deliberation, Netanyahu announced that he accepted the compromise in a prime-time press conference on Sunday evening following days of escalating political drama. “Out of national responsibility I decided to accept the compromise proposal of MK Hauser,” the prime minister said. “This proposal enables the immediate flow of funds to citizens and the economy, and it prevents the need for elections.” While maintaining that it is “time for unity and not for elections,” Netanyahu bashed Kahol Lavan for acting as a “government inside the government.” An election would find the Likud in a precarious position, as both the party and Netanyahu have been steadily dropping in the polls as of late. A survey commissioned by Army Radio last week found that the Likud would get only 31 seats in the event of an election, down from 40 in June. In addition, 59% of respondents said that Netanyahu would be responsible for the collapse of the coalition, while only 34% viewed him as fit to remain as prime minister.
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ficials. In a meeting with Netanyahu on Monday, U.S. Secretary of State Mike Pompeo promised to always maintain Israel’s military edge but admitted that the Trump administration will likely approve the sale of the F-35’s to Abu Dhabi. “The U.S. has legal requirements with respect to the QME, and we will respect that,” Pompeo said. “We have a 20-plus year security relationship with the UAE as well.” However, Pompeo said that the United States needed to “‘make sure we are delivering the equipment the UAE needs to defend themselves from the…threat of the Islamic Republic.”
Steve Bannon in Hot Water Former senior Trump administration advisor Steve Bannon and three other people are facing federal fraud charges in connection to a crowd-funded effort to build a wall on the border with Mexico. Bannon and Brian Kolfage were arrested last Thursday on a yacht off the coast of Connecticut and were handed over to New York City prosecutors. Bannon pleaded not guilty on Friday to charges of conspiracy to commit wire fraud and conspiracy to commit money laundering. Bannon was released the same day on a $5 million bond backed by $2 million in real estate. Outside the Manhattan courthouse, Bannon called the arrest “a political hit job” designed to prevent him and others from building a wall on the Mexican border. “This entire fiasco is to stop people who want to build the wall,” Bannon told reporters. According to prosecutors, Bannon and four other co-defendants misappropriated donations given to the crowdfunded effort, We Build The Wall. Established in 2018, the non-profit raised $25 million for the federal government to use to construct a wall on the U.S.-Mexico border. While the group represented itself as a non-profit and promised that
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through, Michigan Governor Gretchen Whitmer acknowledged that it “may not completely provide all that Flint needs” but maintained that it constituted “one step on the road to justice.” “What happened in Flint should have never happened, and financial compensation with this settlement is just one of the many ways we can continue to show our support for the city of Flint and its families,” said Whitmer after the settlement was announced last Thursday. “We hear and respect those voices and understand that healing Flint will take a long time ... The uncertainty and troubles that the people of Flint have endured is unconscionable,” Whitmer added. “It is time for the State to do what it can and take this critical step forward so that we can keep working towards the brighter future that the people of Flint and our entire state deserve.”
750M Genetically Modified Mosquitoes A controversial project that will release 750 million genetically modified insects in the Florida Keys received its final approval on Friday from state officials. The project is overseen by the Oxitec biotechnology company and will inject millions of male Aedes aegypti mosquitoes onto southern Florida in 2021. With the male bugs genetically altered to prevent future procreation, Florida officials hope that they will mate with their female counterparts. This would destroy the native mosquito population by preventing them from laying eggs, reducing the transmission of dangerous diseases such as dengue or Zika virus. The project has been approved by the Environmental Protection Agency (EPA) and has already been implemented in Brazil. “This is an exciting development because it represents the groundbreaking work of hundreds of passionate people over more than a decade in multiple countries, all of whom want to protect communities from dengue, Zika, yellow fever, and other vec-
tor-borne diseases,” said Oxitec CEO Grey Frandsen. The project has been heavily criticized by environmental groups, who warn that it could result in unintended consequences and is liable to devastate native ecosystems. Opponents allege that the lab-grown mosquitoes are liable to transmit diseases to native Floridians and say that the full longterm effects of the program have not yet been studied. A Change.org petition calling to scrap Oxitec’s initiative “to use Florida as a testing ground for these mutant bugs” has been signed by 240,000 people.
Kellyanne Conway Quits Kellyanne Conway, a senior advisor in the Trump administration, announced that she will be departing the White House by next month to focus on her family. Conway’s husband, George, a prominent anti-Trump activist, will also leave his job at the Never Trump Lincoln Project PAC for similar reasons. “I will be transitioning from the White House at the end of this month. George is also making changes,” said Kellyanne Conway in a statement. “We disagree about plenty but we are united on what matters most: the kids. Our four children are teens and tweens starting a new academic year, in middle school and high school, remotely from home for at least a few months. “As millions of parents nationwide know, kids ‘doing school from home’ requires a level of attention and vigilance that is as unusual as these times.” George Conway said in a separate tweet that he would be abandoning his anti-Trump advocacy to “devote more time to family matters.” He added, “Needless to say, I continue to support the Lincoln Project and its mission. Passionately.” Despite her stated intention to take a break from national politics, Kellyanne will still speak at the Republican National Convention on Monday. The Conways’ private life had been the subject of immense speculation, as one of the president’s closest advisors is married to a fervent Never Trump-
er. The couple has frequently bickered on Twitter, while President Trump has called George “a total loser.” The political tensions have also widened to include their 15-year-old daughter Claudia, who has emerged as a prominent Trump critic. In a series of videos she posted on the video app TikTok, the Trump-hating teen has publicly bashed her mother for her work advising the president. Last week, Claudia attacked her mother for being “selfish,” saying her line of work “ruined my life to begin with.” In another post, she said that she and her father “agree on nothing politically other than hating the president.” A veteran pollster, Kellyanne Conway had worked for Senator Ted Cruz during his presidential run before moving to the Trump campaign prior to the 2016 election. She rose to become one of Trump’s most trusted advisors and remained in a White House characterized by high staff turnover. After Trump’s shock victory in 2016, Conway became the first woman to lead a presidential campaign to victory and was credited by the president for “playing a crucial role in my victory.”
Anti-Semitic Posters on LA Freeway California Jews were outraged after a series of anti-Semitic posters were plastered above a major Los Angeles freeway last week. The offending banners were hung on an overpass above the 405 freeway in Los Angeles on Tuesday. One poster read, “The Jews Want a Race War,” while another touted “GoyimTV,” an anti-Semitic website responsible for hanging the signs.
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Biden Apologizes to Linda Sarsour After presidential hopeful Joe Biden publicly denounced Palestinian-American activist Linda Sarsour, senior aides in his campaign privately apologized for his remarks. In a conference call with senior Muslim American representatives on Sunday, Ashley Allison expressed her apologies for Biden’s opposition to Sarsour. Allison, who is director of the Biden campaign’s national coalitions project, said that she was “sorry’” for the candidate’s statements. Biden’s top foreign policy adviser Tony Blinken added that he felt per-
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Honey is a Great Cure A new study has shown honey to be more effective than antibiotics in treating cough and cold symptoms. According to the study, published last week in BMJ Evidence-Based Medicine, honey was the most effective at improving symptoms of upper respiratory tract infections. In one trial, patients who ingested honey reduced their symptoms by one to two days. Honey was found to be particularly effective in improving the frequency and severity of coughs. Aside from babies under 1 year of age and those with allergies, honey is safe for most people. Antibiotics, on the other hand, are associated with “significant adverse effects” in children and adults. “Upper respiratory tract infections are the most frequent reason for antibiotic prescription,” wrote the Oxford University researchers. “Since the majority of URTIs are viral, antibiotic prescription is both ineffective and inappropriate. However, a lack of effective alternatives, as well as a desire to preserve the patient-doctor relationship, both contribute to antibiotic over-prescription.” Researchers said that it’s difficult to determine the degree to which honey improved the symptoms, as it is a complex and heterogeneous substance. Regardless, the team recommended honey as an effective alternative to
Hoping to determine what flag works best for its residents, Mississippi will be flying five flags on August 25 in Jackson. Voters will decide on which new flag will replace the flag that had included the Confederate battle emblem. The five proposed designs were chosen by the Mississippi State Flag Commission. The flags will fly so people could see how they look fluttering in the breeze or hanging limply without wind. Additionally, they are flying the flags because flags look different high on a pole than they do as drawings on a computer screen. In late June, Mississippi legislators voted to retire the last state flag to include the Confederate battle emblem, which has been broadly condemned as racist. The change came amid widespread national protests over racial injustice after the death of George Floyd. Leaders from business, religion, education and sports — including the Southeastern Conference — lobbied legislators to scrap Mississippi’s 126-year-old flag, saying that the banner did not properly represent a state with a 38% black population. The law shelving the flag specified that a new banner cannot include the Confederate emblem and must have
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Slogan Social Distancing Well, if you thought that it was important to maintain six-feet social distancing, KFC is taking it to another level. Kentucky Fried Chicken, the crispy chicken giant, is now scrapping its famous “finger lickin’ good” slogan because it may give customers ideas about licking their fingers at a time when people should be vigilant about keeping their hands clean. On Monday, the company said that the 64-year-old slogan “doesn’t feel quite right.”
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There are certain flaws that are chronic and cannot be cured. The male members of the nation of Ammon and Moav, the products of the incestuous act of desperation when the daughters of Lot thinking the world was coming to an end mated with their father Lot, are forever condemned, despite having converted to Judaism, from entering the congregation of G-d, prohibited from ever marrying a standard Jewish women. The reason for their being so ostracized stems from their ancestors lack of gratitude to the descendants of Avraham Avinu. Despite the fact that Avraham saved their patriarch Lot and their mothers — the daughters of Lot, first from captivity in the hands of the four kings in the battle of the four and five kings and once again years later from the upheaval of Sodom, owing their entire existence to his intervention and merit on their behalf, they betrayed this loyal ‘brother’ when Avraham’s descendants left Egypt, ignoring this beaten relative, never offering them bread and water, nor any brotherly concern. It would seem then, that this trait of ingratitude is anathema to the essence of what comprises a Jew. Could it be that simply not going forward in greeting their relative and offering food and drink disqualifies all its male descendants for all of posterity from ever attaining a full status as a member in the congregation of G-d? The Torah though adds one more reason why the Moabites are to be shunned. The Moabites fearing being overtaken by their ‘cousins’, hired Bilaam to curse and eradicate the Jewish nation. Wouldn’t this desire to place a powerful curse upon them eclipse the
rather minor offense of their not having reached out to them in kindness? Why would the Torah even mention their lack of brotherhood as a sign of their ungratefulness when they displayed a much harsher display of this character flaw in wanting to affect them with terrible curses? There is a famous Yiddish expression that goes: וואס האב איך איהם אזוי פיל גוטס געטאן אז ער האט מיך אזוי ? — פיינטWhat great favor have I done to him that he hates me so much? It is one thing to lack appreciation for a kindness done, but when one’s ego doesn’t let him rest in the knowledge that he is indebted to someone else, prodding him not merely to defensively ignore the favor that came his way but to develop a hatred for the one that exposes ‘my’ vulnerability, that is when ingratitude becomes a fatal flaw. One who is totally absorbed with himself and his wants, needing constant validation, will be incapable not only of gratitude but in valuing another person at all. Lot is saved from the upheaval of Sodom. The angel directs him to seek refuge on the mountain. Lot begs to let him stay in Tzoar instead, which is closer by. The Midrash explains that Lot feared being in the proximity of Avraham which would make him pale in significance and preferred being among others of lesser stature so that he may appear righteous. The angel accedes to his request. Did the angel err in directing him to a location that might endanger Lot due to his diminished standing? Certainly not. His concession was an affirmation of Lot’s inability to see beyond himself, which didn’t permit
him to be portrayed as saved solely in the merit of Avraham. How indignant! Even when his very life is at stake Lot’s narcissistic attitude pleads desperately for a meager portion of merit, enabling him to ‘survive’ on his own credit, denying the merit of his loving, selfless and devoted Uncle/brother-inlaw, Avraham. How pathetic. One who is blind to anyone but oneself is undeserving of kindness. In fact, regarding this nation specifically the Torah forewarns — You shall not seek their peace or welfare, all your days, forever. The Targum Yonoson on this verse asserts that this prohibition extends not only to the gentile members of these nations but even to a Ammonite or Moabite who converted and is now fully Jewish is afflicted with this ‘genetic’ flaw and one must refrain from acting kindly toward him so as not to violate this prohibition to ‘not seek his welfare’. Is it possible to fathom that the ‘Torah of Kindness’ could expect someone to survive amongst our people without ever being the recipient of kind-heartedness? Rabbi Eliezer of Metz, the 12th century French Tosafist, asserts that kindness may not be initiated to the members of this corrupt nation but one may repay acts of benevolence they have extended our way, with kindness in turn. He brings proof from an episode where King David acted kindly towards Chanun, the son of the Ammonite king Nachash, in gratitude to his father Nachash who gave refuge to a member of King David’s family. Perhaps the antidote to this inherent defect is to force a member of these imperfect nations to become so devoted and selfless towards their fellow Jews so that others in turn will be permitted to respond to them in kind. The very first message in the acronym of Elul alluding to the verse in Shir HaShirim, ודודי לי- אני לדודי, I am
to my beloved and my beloved is to me, is the word אני, ‘I’. We must first discover ourselves. Who am ‘I’, indeed? The great Gaon, Rabbi Shimon Shkop writes that our job is to expand the who ‘I’ am to include our family, friends, community and the world, coming to the understanding that we were placed in this world to define who we are by the yardstick of how far reaching our actions are in impacting the world around us. “If I am not for myself, who is?”— Each one of us must take ownership of that responsibility, to define the ‘I’ — for no one else can. “But if I am for myself, who am I?” — If we only seek to placate our personal needs and stoke our ego, existing solely within the space from the top of our heads to the sole of our feet, then we are indeed nothing, and have no true identity. )(הקדמה שערי יושר One of the tactics of Elul in assuring a successful Day Judgment, the great scholar and ethicist, Rabbi Yisroel Salanter suggests, is to become a person, שרבים צריכים לו, whom the masses need him. In the words of the famed Mashgiach, Rabbi Shlomo Wolbe: The masses need him - one who is not an egoist, one who does not live for himself! His attributes: kindness, patience, love for humanity. Pure in fear, who toils in Torah. One doesn’t have to be an Askan, a community official but just to share in the burden of others even if he never leaves the walls of his four cubits. The true image of a Jew is one who is valued and needed by others. May we each become ‘men of the world’ in defining the special role we each play in promoting the honor of Heaven. In that merit we are guaranteed a favorable judgment on Rosh Hashana.
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for a Shabbos-observing Jew in the early 20th century was not easy in America. Friday after Friday, men would be fired from their jobs. It took a courageous group of men to make the move upstate where it would be easier to find an occupation that would not interfere with their values. In the summer of 1920, the Woodbourne Shul was founded. The shul was not just a place where people came to daven. It was an active center for an active Jewish community. What better place to hold a slaugh-
terhouse for kosher meat than the back room of the shul? The years passed with much victory and advancement for the Shabbos Jew. The city boasted large communities with many job opportunities. Slowly, the children of so many ended up moving back, seeking their fortune there. Across America, hundreds of shuls were forced to close their doors, boarding them up or selling them to others. The glorious Woodbourne Shul did not escape that fate. At the turn of the millennia, eighty years after opening, saturated with thousands of teffilos and
dozens of bar mitzvah celebrations, the shul had no choice but to close its beautiful doors forever. The board members were adamant that a holy edifice as such should not be sold or defiled. For ten long years, the shul sat boarded up in silence, waiting. There was an elderly woman, well into her eighties, devotedly caring for the kever of the Menuchas Asher, Rav Asher Anshil, of blessed memory. When asked what prompted this, she replied: “When I was in my forties, the doctors had already given up on my life. I prostrated myself on the kever and tear-
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fully davened. Ever since then, I devotedly maintain the upkeep of this special tzaddik’s resting place.” The legacy of this miracle worker continued when his son replanted his father’s community in Crown Heights. The kehilla was of great acclaim and merited an annual visit from the Satmar Rav, Rav Yoel. It was in this setting that the next generation, Rav Mordechai Zev Jungreis, Nikolsburger Rebbe, was born. Every alumnus of Yeshivas Rabbeinu Chaim Berlin will remember his year with Rabbi Jungreis with ease. Giving and loving are the two traits that are oft repeated when describing that unusual time. Just recently, a talmid brought his grandson to the Rebbe for an upsherin, a sure example of the type of bond that is formed between rebbi and talmid. But there’s more. A young married man with a few children of his own revealed something fascinating. When he was a young boy in Yeshivas Chaim Berlin, he was known as a troublemaker. Rebbi upon rebbi would send him out of class to wander the halls. However, every boy knew “that if you get kicked out, you go to Rabbi Jungreis’ class.” The man attributed his success in staying frum and bringing up a family to that safe haven where everyone was unequivocally loved and accepted for who he is. Where others struggled in the area of chinuch, the Rebbe thrived and achieved. It is with this background that we begin to understand the miracle that occurred. The Rebbe heard the silent plea of that forlorn building standing erect on Main Street and decided that the time had come to reinstate it. The building that had served
closes at two in the morning. That’s just the inside. Outside, the minyanim are in full swing. The three hours of closure are very important for a Rebbe who never leaves his post during opening hours. He makes sure to use some of the time for sleeping. Don’t see the Rebbe? He must have gone to the bakery to buy more cake. Maybe he’s running low on lollipops for the children. There is no Nikolsburger gabbai. The Rebbe trusts nobody with this holy task. “Why don’t you lie down for a few minutes?” urges his son. “I rest in the car on the way to the bakery,” responds the Rebbe. “That’s when I get to sit down.”
with his precious talmidim. “Are you still interested?” they wanted to know. “I’m driving right up!” he exclaimed as he jumped into his car for the long trip. There were a lot of conditions and obstacles, but soon enough, they were in business. The Rebbe got to work ceremoniously placing a cardboard box in front of the shul proclaiming: “Minyan Mincha.” Passing cars rolled down their windows, unabashedly sharing their opinion: “vus machstu meshuga?” [Why are you making yourself crazy?] they wondered. “Nothing will come of it.” But the Rebbe pulled through, and the shul would open after one more necessary step. The Rebbe ran to a printing store and ordered a
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You are a diamond in the eyes of this defending angel. its members faithfully for eighty years and lay dormant for ten was about to fulfill a role not unlike its original one. There were Jews, tens of thousands of them, making the trip up to the Catskills to vacation. Camps and bungalow colonies were bursting at the seams, and it seemed that there was a lot more freedom, and loneliness, for children at risk. They were there, roaming the streets; hollow, sad eyes, but who even noticed them? Did anyone even care? The Rebbe cared. The Rebbe’s heart was open for them. But here’s the secret. The Rebbe loves them because he loves everyone. Be he a fellow Rebbe, Litvishe Rosh Yeshiva, at-risk teen, or anyone in between, you are a diamond in the eyes of this defending angel. So he worked hard. He bargained, cajoled, and begged the skeptical board members to reopen. “There is a need, it’s time, and we’re ready,” he claimed, but there was a lot of red tape, ill feelings, and disbelief to work through. He got the call while sitting in Chaim Berlin
large laminated sign. With this, the shul was fully operational. The sign read: “EVERYONE IS WELCOME.” Only with this can the doors open. With the purchase of the building, the expenses started mounting. Electricity, water, refreshments, as the crowd quickly grew. To everyone’s disbelief, over 1,000 people entered through those doors in 2010, the first year they were reopened. By 2011, there were 10,000. Today, there are thousands entering daily. Just count the used cups. “Why is the Rebbe’s gartel wet?” people wanted to know. Come on over at 5:30 in the morning, you’ll see the Rebbe, rag in hand, wiping down each outside table in the aftermath of a downpour. There’s a full day of learning and davening ahead. Shacharis starts at 6:05 a.m. When’s the next minyan? “As soon as there’s a minyan!” says the Rebbe. Come in at any given time, and you are likely to see six minyanim in full swing. See only five? That means you’re a tzenter! Don’t be fooled if you’re told that Nikolsburg
Soon enough, the building got too crowded. It was time to extend. “If there’s room in the heart, there’s room in the building,” he proclaimed after being offered money for renovations. Last year, the Rebbe acquiesced to building a deck behind the shul. Nobody was quite sure what changed. Then the world turned upside down. Will there be a shul this year? What about the people who don’t want to daven inside? The new deck held all the answers. Those concerned about Corona can stay outside. Those with antibodies come right in. While the Rebbe himself is always makpid to wear a mask, the open-door policy will remain regardless. The sign on the door urges all entering to follow suit; nobody is turned away. “We must listen to the government and make a Kiddush Hashem,” the Rebbe says. There is one thing that is never tolerated in Nikolsburg. One thing so appalling that even the Rebbe cannot bear. Machlokes is unwelcome here. Just look around the shul. It’s self-explanatory; only harmony. Take a look at the Rebbe’s shtender. There are lists of names. People come for tefillos and brachos from this humble man. After all, he is a Rebbe. Recently, a boy was lost in the forest. Bochurim came down to speak to the Rebbe. “Go back to camp and tell everyone to calm down,” he said with a forcefulness those closest to him didn’t know he possessed. “Tell everyone that he will be found.” Sounds typical of a Rebbe. Now let me tell you about atypical miracles. Every amud has a chiyuv. Would these people have been able to get one every day in a typical shul? Many admit that they would’ve missed davening with a minyan if not for this shul. Forgot your tefilin? Maybe you just never had any? Help yourself to a pair from the gemach. Don’t be shy. Nobody’s looking at you. Looking to make up a few missed minyanim? Just walk around the shul and stock up on kaddish. This is the legacy passed down in the Jungreis family. Miracle workers. The minyan is culled together from Kew Garden Hills to Satmar. Nobody stares at you. Nobody cares what you’re wearing. All are loved and accepted. Miracles! Do you have another way to describe a day in Nikolsburg?
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ast Friday, I realized a dream, a dream that G-d would allow me to save someone’s life, but actually save the person’s life from start to finish. Not just be a part of the medical process that saved them but to actually save them with my own two hands. I have been a paramedic for the past 20 years, and I have participated in countless CPR cases, some of them have been successful, others were not. I have been a participant in saving someone’s life many times, part of a team that did its job and passed on a live patient who survived their ordeal with the help of doctors in hospitals as well as the first responders who arrived before or after me. But over my many years, I have never yet been the person who arrived first at a scene where a person was dead. I had yet to be the person who connected my defibrillator to them and become the messenger of G-d who was primarily responsible for bringing that person back from the dead. For years, I have dreamed of doing this, and every time an EMT or paramedic wrote a story in a WhatsApp group that they responded to an emergency, brought a patient’s pulse back, and that a few days later the person was released from the hospital without any neurological damage, I felt happy for them. But in my heart, I desired that one day the decree would fall that I would be able to be that person who wrote this story. Last Friday, that day came. I was in the middle of cooking for Shabbos. It was 5:21 p.m., and I received a phone call from my friend’s husband who lives in the building opposite me. I was on the other line, so his call went to my call waiting. He called me again. It went to call wait-
ing again. I switched calls and answered him but the line went dead. A second later, there was a knock at my door. At the door was their eldest son, a 12-year-old boy. In an incredibly calm and collected voice, he said: “My mother hit her head. She is bleeding and unconscious.” When I heard this, my husband and I ran to our car, grabbed my medical supplies, and rushed over to their house. When we got to the house, we heard screams, “Over here. Over here.” We ran into the room and found my friend, a 38-year-old woman, unconscious. She was not breath-
gan to calm him and helped him calm the children. I kept telling my friend that she had to come back to us. She had to come back to her husband, her children, her community, and her friends. After 17 minutes of CPR and four shocks from my defibrillator, she finally listened to me and came back. Her vital signs began to look good again, and the ambulance crew took her to the hospital. Social service representatives from the city arrived and asked how they could help the family. That Shabbat was not an easy one on a personal level. My husband and
When her husband told me the news, we both began to cry tears of joy and happiness.
ing and had no pulse. Her quick-witted husband was performing chest compressions. He had taken one of my first aid courses many years ago. I alerted dispatch to the situation and began a full-on CPR and attached a defibrillator. It recognized a heartbeat and applied one shock. I began ventilating my friend as her husband continued compressions. Then we switched. In minutes, the room filled with United Hatzalah volunteer first responders and ambulance teams. Together, we conducted a synchronized CPR that was for the ages. As we took over CPR from my friend, my husband, who is not a trained first responder, took the man aside and be-
I were worried about our friend’s condition, and we helped the family cope in any way that we could. As we are not able to use our phones on Shabbat except for emergencies, we had no way of knowing what was transpiring in the hospital and how our friend was doing. Together with other neighbors, we watched the children while the father accompanied the mother at the hospital. Finally, on Saturday night, I spoke with the husband and heard that my friend’s situation was not looking good. We were asked to pray for her that she may have a full recovery. He said: “The doctors don’t know what caused her to collapse, and they don’t know how long her brain went
without oxygen. They can’t tell me if or when she will wake up. We need a miracle.” I spread the word around our community that the family was in need of our continued help and prayers. On Tuesday, we got word from the hospital that my friend woke up and was breathing on her own. She was able to recognize her husband and even spoke to her children. There are no words to describe the joyous feeling I had. When her husband told me the news, we both began to cry tears of joy and happiness, each of us on our respective sides of the phone call. There is no doubt that the compressions that I had taught her husband had helped and that our intervention and beginning CPR so quickly were what saved my friend’s life. I pray and thank the L-rd who gave me the chance to be one of his messengers and save the life of my friend. I want to thank United Hatzalah, the organization in which I volunteer, for giving me the training, equipment, and ability to save a life. I also want to thank my husband, who is also a volunteer with the organization and helped me realize this dream and every other dream that I have, as weird and wild as they are. To you, the readers, I say: go learn first aid because the day will come when it will be your turn to save a life. It may even be the life of someone whom you hold very dear to your hearts and you will need to know what to do.
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Going Postal
I’ve never seen a weirder group of people than at the post office. It looks like people are crawling out from under rocks to go to the post office.- Sebastian Maniscalco
The way I understand it, the Russians are sort of a combination of evil and incompetence...sort of like the Post Office with tanks.- Emo Philips
Mail your packages early so the post office can lose them in time for [the holidays].- Johnny Carson Let’s turn inflation over to the Post Office. That’ll slow it down. -Mo Udall
Why do they put pictures of criminals up in the Post Office? What are we supposed to do, write to them? Why don’t they just put their pictures on the postage stamps so the postmen can look for them while they deliver the mail? -Steven Wright
The post office is raising the price of stamps again. I heard that and said to myself, “If only there was
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The Post Office is very careful nowadays. When they get a package marked “Fragile,” they throw it underhand. -Milton Berle
Under Lenin, the Soviet Union was like a religious revival; under Stalin, like a prison; under Khrushchev, like a circus; and under Brezhnev, like the U.S. Post Office. -Jimmy Carter
From the outside, the CIA seems pretty exotic, but from the inside, it’s a big bureaucratic place. Think “post office with spies.” -Barry Eisler
The Post Office says they’re raising the price of stamps by one cent because they need to upgrade their equipment. Apparently, they’re going from semiauDovidatics to uzis. -Conan O’Brien
I love how the postal system has this financial emotional meltdown every three to five years that their business model from 1630 isn’t working anymore. I can’t understand how a 21st century information system based on licking, walking, and a random number of pennies is struggling to compete. – Jerry Seinfeld
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Dovid wants to send Shira an expensive ring through the mail. The only problem is that everything sent through the mail is stolen unless there is a lock put on it. Both Dovid and Shira have plenty of locks and keys but they don’t have any of the same locks or keys. How can Dovid send Shira the ring without it getting stolen?
See answer below Answer to Riddle: Dovid puts one of his locks on the box with the ring in it. When Shira gets it, she puts one of her own locks on the box and sends it back to Dovid. Finally, Dovid takes his lock off of the box and sends it back to Shira who can then unlock her own lock and retrieve the ring.
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an inexpensive electronic way of communicating.”- David Letterman
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2. The Sidney, Montana, post office delivers to 272 addresses. How many miles is the mail route (which is completed every day) in this rural area? a. 9.6 miles b. 23 miles c. 47 miles d. 190.7 miles
4. What is the official motto of the United State Postal Service? a. You lick em’ we ship ‘em.
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5. This British Guiana 1 Cent Magenta stamps is the most expensive stamp ever sold. How much did it sell for at a 2014 Sotheby’s auction? a. $304,569 b. $2,400,000 c. $9,480,000 d. $23,000,000 6. Approximately how many mailboxes are there in use across the U.S.? a. 85,000 b. 142,000 c. 311,000 d. 1.1 million
8. In 2000, the USPS delivered 207.9 billion pieces of mail. How many pieces of mail did the USPS deliver in 2019? a. 230.4 billion b. 195.5 billion c. 142.6 billion d. 990 million 9. What does ZIP code stand for? a. Zone Improvement Plan b. Zone In person c. Zygodactylous Ichthytaxidermy Panharmonicon d. Zone in Population
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Wisdom key: 7-9 correct: Newman? Is that you? Well, heeeeellllllloooooo Newman! 3-6 correct: Not bad, but your brain doesn’t exactly have its own ZIP code 0-2 correct: You have been licking too many envelopes
A lady bought a stamp at the post office and asked the clerk, “Shall I stick it on myself?” The clerk replied, “It’ll get there faster if you stick it on the envelope.”
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b. There is no motto c. Neither snow nor rain nor heat nor gloom of night stays these couriers from the swift completion of their appointed rounds. d. Ready to go wherever the envelope takes us.
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7. When was the last year that the USPS recorded a profit? a. 1967 b. 1994 c. 2006 d. 2015
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The USS Missouri in World War II By Avi Heiligman
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fter the surrender of Germany in May 1945, the attention of the Allied armies turned towards defeating Japan. American forces had pushed them back to the Japanese home islands with the capture of Iwo Jima and Okinawa. In August, B-29 Superfortress bombers dropped atomic bombs on the cities of Hiroshima and Nagasaki. On August 14, President Truman announced to the American public that he had received a message from Japan in which they accepted the terms of unconditional surrender put forth by the Potsdam Declaration. A battleship was chosen for the official signing of the surrender agreement. For the most part, battleships were a thing of the past by the end of World War II but the USS Missouri (BB-63) served with distinction for many years after the war and was even present during the 1991 Persian Gulf War. Battleships are large armored warships outfitted with large caliber guns and were built during the
18th and 19th centuries. Other ships, like aircraft carriers and smaller fast ships like destroyers and submarines, eventually made the battleship obsolete by the end of World War II but they did play a significant role in the war effort. The Japanese realized that they would need to neutralize Allied battleships in order to conquer territory, and in December 1941, they sank or damaged all of the American battleships at Pearl Harbor. When it came to building battleships, the British, Americans and Japanese commissioned more than any other country. The Iowa-class battleships were intended to track down large, fast Japanese warships such as the Kongo-class battle-cruisers that were very active during the war. Four Iowa-class battleships were ordered between 1939 and 1940. The Missouri was the last to be launched in January 1944 after the Iowa, New Jersey and Wisconsin were completed. She had nine 16” guns in her main battery, twenty 5” guns, and over a
General MacArthur signing documents during the surrender ceremony aboard the USS Missouri
hundred anti-aircraft guns on board. Two-thousand-seven-hundred sailors and marines served on the Missouri during World War II. Her first assignment was to serve as a screening vessel for aircraft carriers that were launching strikes against Japan. She provided fire support during the invasion of Iwo Jima in February 1945. During March, she went with aircraft carriers as they went to the Japanese mainland for another raid. It was during these raids that the Missouri shot down four enemy planes headed for the American group. Then, with other battleships, she bombarded Okinawa in preparation for the upcoming landings. On April 11, she was hit by a low-flying kamikaze suicide plane but suffered very little damage and no casualties. She then shot down a second suicide bomber headed for the task force. Six days later, the Missouri detected a Japanese submarine and relayed the coordinates to a hunter-killer light carrier group which in turn sank the I-56 submarine. In other action off of Okinawa, she shot down five enemy planes, fought off sixteen air raids on her task group, and destroyed many shore installations in assisting the troops on shore. For the rest of the war, she assisted in bombarding the Japanese home islands and was off the coast of Japan when the atomic bomb was dropped on Nagasaki. After the announcement that the Japanese were going to surrender, the Missouri steamed into Tokyo Bay on August 29. British Admiral Bruce Fraser was already on board
to bestow an honor on Admiral “Bull” Halsey and more high-ranking officers boarded for the surrender ceremony on September 2. Eleven Japanese officials were present for the surrender that was signed by the foreign minister Mamoru Shigemitsu and the Chief of the Army General Staff Yoshijiro Umezu. General Douglas MacArthur presided over the ceremony and began by stating, “It is my earnest hope –indeed the hope of all mankind – that from this solemn occasion a better world shall emerge out of the blood and carnage of the past, a world founded upon faith and understanding, a world dedicated to the dignity of man and the fulfillment of his most cherished wish for freedom, tolerance, and justice.” He then accepted the surrender document and signed, as he was the Supreme Commander of the Allied Powers. Representatives from nine Allied countries signed the document. These included: American Admiral Chester W. Nimitz, Chinese General Hsu Yung-chang for China, AdmiY ral Fraser for the United Kingdom, Russian Lieutenant General Kuzma Derevyanko for the Soviet Union, Australian General Sir Thomas Blamey for Australia, Canadian Colonel Lawrence Moore Cosgrave for Canada, French General Philippe Leclerc, Lieutenant Admiral C. E. L. Helfrich for the Netherlands, and Air Vice-Marshal Leonard M. Isitt for New Zealand. The surrender docurments were then taken to Washington, D.C., and presented to President Harry Truman before being put on
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46 display at the National Archives. The entire proceedings took just 23 minutes, and the Missouri left Tokyo Bay the next day. She picked up passengers on Guam and was back at Pearl Harbor on September 20. A month later, she was in New York for Navy Day celebrations, and President Truman boarded the now-famous battleship after she fired a 21gun salute. By December, she was in dry-dock for an overhaul. Over the next few years, she took part in many training exercises, goodwill tours, and celebrations. President Truman really liked the ship and kept it in the active fleet against the advice of his advisors. In January 1950, the Missouri was the only battleship left in the U.S. Navy’s active fleet when she ran aground off the coast of Virginia. Soon she was refloated, repaired, and was ready for action when the Korean War broke out later that year. Throughout the war, she provided support for the U.N. troops on shore and a few times
fired on Communist positions. She left Korea in March 1951 and went back to the United States. A year later, she set out again for Korea for a second tour of duty during the war. Again, she bombarded coastal po-
placed in mothballs at Puget Sound Naval Yard. Almost thirty years passed when, in 1984, the Missouri was taken out of the mothballs and reoutfitted, modernized, and recommissioned
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sitions in support of ground troops. After the deployment, she went on more training exercises and in 1954 sailed to Western Europe with the three other battleships of her class. The other three ships had been recommissioned, and this was the only timed they sailed together. In 1955, the Missouri was deactivated and was
into the navy. All of her anti-aircraft weapons were removed and replaced with modern weapons like Tomahawk cruise missiles. New radar was installed as well as improved electronic controls. These upgrades took two years; the battleship was recommissioned in May 1986. She took an around-the-globe tour and in 1987
was in the Persian Gulf escorting oil tankers from Kuwait as part of Operation Earnest Will. In November 1990, she set off for the Persian Gulf again and took part in Operation Desert Storm. Over a five-day period, she fired a total of 28 Tomahawk cruise missiles. She then went north and fired her main guns at an Iraqi command bunker. She fired her guns several more times and was shot at twice – both missed. One sailor on the Missouri was wounded during a friendly fire incident with a frigate. In 1992, the Missouri was decommissioned for the final time and is now a museum ship in Hawaii. She was the site where World War II formally ended. Her long and storied career is one that is to be remembered. Avi Heiligman is a weekly contributor to The Jewish Home. He welcomes your comments and suggestions for future columns and can be reached at aviheiligman@gmail.com.
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Notable Quotes “Say What?!”
If you look at Joe Biden’s goals and Bernie Sanders’s goals, they’re not that different. - President Obama, in a recent interview
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People are worried about looting, and there are literal lives being taken away? There are people who are dying, and y’all are mad about looting Mag Mile? Get over it! These buildings are insured. - Black Lives Matter activist Alycia Moaton urging protestors in Chicago to loot stores
Sadly, the domestic enemies to our voting system and honoring our Constitution are right at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue with their allies in the Congress of the United States.
In the beginning of this, he said, “If you have a problem, you blame me. The buck stops at my desk.” He has yet to take any accountability and now we know he is writing a book about his leadership in the middle of the pandemic. I think he actually should be writing condolence cards to people.
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- Fox News senior meteorologist Janice Dean, who lost family members in New York due to Governor Andrew Cuomo’s order requiring nursing homes to open their doors to patients with corona
My grandfather’s 99th birthday would have been tomorrow. Growing up, he had to cross the street if a white person was coming. He suffered the indignity of being forced out of school as a third grader to pick cotton, and never learned to read or write. Yet, he lived to see his grandson become the first African American to be elected to both the United States House and Senate. Our family went from Cotton to Congress in one lifetime. And that’s why I believe the next American century can be better than the last. - Sen. Tim Scott (R-SC) addressing the Republican National Convention as the keynote speaker on Monday night
- Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi responding to an argument against vote by mail by Rep. Steve Scalise (R-LA), who several years ago was shot and almost killed by a crazed liberal
The President did what he said he said he would do: he took action. He formed a School Safety Commission that issued dozens of recommendations to make schools safer. But I’ll bet you never heard about that. Instead, the media turned my daughter’s murder into a coordinated attack on President Trump, Republicans, and the Second Amendment. In fact, when President Trump asked me to sit next to him when he announced the Commission’s findings, the media’s first question wasn’t about protecting kids. It was about the government shutdown. President Trump turned to me and said, “Can you believe these people, Andy? We’re trying to talk about school safety, and this is what they do?” - Andrew Pollack, who lost his daughter, Meadow, during the Parkland shooting in 2018, speaking at the Republican National Convention
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I am sorry that that happened. And I hope that whatever trust was broken, that this conversation is one small step to help build back the trust. - Joe Biden’s coalitions director Ashley Allison on a call with Jew-hater Linda Sarsour and fellow Muslims apologizing to them for the Biden campaign distancing itself from Sarsour after Sarsour spoke at the Democratic National Convention and promising that Biden does, in fact, consider Sarsour a vital partner in his work
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Behind me, you’ll see the city of Danbury sewer plant. And we are going to rename it the John Oliver Memorial Sewer Plant. Why? Because it’s full of [garbage], just like you, John. - Danbury Mayor Mark Boughton in a Facebook video after faux-social justice warrior John Oliver trashed the Connecticut town in a HBO monologue
We find ourselves in a unique situation — having an iconic slogan that doesn’t quite fit in the current environment. While we are pausing the use of “It’s Finger Lickin’ Good,” rest assured the food craved by so many people around the world isn’t changing one bit. - KFC announcing it will temporarily halt the use of its “It’s Finger Lickin’ Good” catchphrase because the notso-hygienic prompt feels “inappropriate” in light of the coronavirus pandemic and the need for hygienic vigilance
The world is going to end if we don’t get a green new deal. The world is going to end if we keep on bombing and allowing Israeli brigades to go into Palestine. – A Black Lives Matter activist leading a protest in Chicago
Joe Biden should not concede under any circumstances. - Hillary Clinton, in an interview on Showtime, talking about how Joe Biden should handle an election defeat this coming November 3
- Kurt Eichenwald, who spent two decades writing for the New York Times, in a tweet after First Lady Melania Trump unveiled renovations to the Rose Garden
It’s good to see you all. Hope you had a great weekend at your convention. - President Trump trolling the media during a press conference after the Democratic National Convention
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50 Those false promises – spread the wealth, defund the police, trust a socialist state more than your family and your community – they don’t sound radical to my ears. They sound familiar. When Fidel Castro was asked if he was a communist, he said he was a Roman Catholic. He knew he had to hide the truth. But the country I was born in is gone, totally destroyed. - Cuban-American businessman Máximo Álvarez, who came to the U.S. alone as a child from Cuba under Operation Peter Pan, warning America at the Republican National Convention (RNC) about the danger of socialism
When I watch the news in Seattle and Chicago and Portland, when I see history being rewritten, when I hear the promises – I hear echoes of a former life I never wanted to hear again. I see shadows I thought I had outrun. I heard the promises of Fidel Castro. And I can never forget all those who grew up around me, who looked like me, who suffered and starved and died because they believed those empty promises. They swallowed the communist poison pill.
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We could fact-check this convention all night. People were saying you didn’t fact-check the Democrats. They are not lying, the way Trump does. Do politicians lie? Of course, both parties engage in it… But not like Donald Trump. Nobody lies the way this man does, has, and will that I’ve ever seen in politics. So he’s lying to you. - Chris Cuomo on CNN explaining why his network did not fact-check the Democratic National Convention last week but is doing so to the Republican National Convention
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Dear Navidaters,
The Rebbetzin Rebbetzin Faigie Horowitz, M.S. ou are right not to tell your friend yourself to fix her teeth since you think she will feel hurt. People
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are very sensitive about personal appearance. If you and your friend are close, you may get to it indirectly. At some point, when you talk about dating in general and rehash what advisors such as seminary teachers have told you about the topic of dating, you can
bring up something I have mentioned in this space several times. Instead of focusing on one’s “list” and what the other person brings to a potential relationship, focusing on what one can offer someone else is a very healthy way of approaching the search for a spouse.
This is a process that involves looking at oneself and asking, who am I? What are my strengths? What qualities can I offer someone else? And then one proceeds to the next series of questions. What type of person can use my strengths? What kind of person will value what I have to of-
Disclaimer: This column is not intended to diagnose or otherwise conclude resolutions to any questions. Our intention is not to offer any definitive conclusions to any particular question, rather offer areas of exploration for the author and reader. Due to the nature of the column receiving only a short snapshot of an issue, without the benefit of an actual discussion, the panel’s role is to offer a range of possibilities. We hope to open up meaningful dialogue and individual exploration.
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This question may sound weird, but I don’t know who else to ask. I am 21 years old. My friend is the same age as me. Recently, she has been complaining to me that she never gets any second dates from guys. My friend is a great person – she is kind, fun, and smart. She will make a great wife. I believe I know why she is not getting a second date: she has very bad teeth and the first time someone sees her and she smiles, they generally are taken aback. After a while, though, you don’t notice her terrible orthodontia. Here’s my question: I feel bad that she’s not getting second dates, and I know that it’s probably from that. How do I get the message to her to get her to do something about it? I really don’t want to tell her myself. It would really hurt her feelings. Any suggestions would be appreciated.
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The Panel fer? This, obviously, involves looking in the mirror both figuratively and literally. Serious self-assessment involves maturity and self-knowledge, which come with time. Hopefully, daters reach that point and can be objective about all their qualities.
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would like to turn the question around for a moment for our readership to think about. Do women ever turn guys down due to aesthetics and/ or bad teeth? Have you ever heard of a woman nixing her date due to poor dental hygiene? As a shadchan, I get this type of feedback; it happens all the time. Recently, a woman gave a “no” to a guy because the topic of their morning routines came up. The guy confided that he only brushes his teeth at night, because “I don’t eat anything in the meantime. Why brush in the morning? It’s a waste of time.” This was enough to make the woman run the other way. It happens to be this man has nice white, straight teeth but the thought of going out on another date with a man who does not brush in the morning was enough to end it. Many times, bad dental hygiene comes with side effects such as bad breath, which might be exacerbating the problem. As you have articulated, it is possible that bad dental hygiene can hinder the progress of relationships. This applies to both men and women. If your friend is perfectly happy despite her negative shidduch experience, I would say, do not mention it. If she is not bothered by it, why are you? However, if your friend confides in you, and is depressed about shidduchim, that is a different story. If it is negatively impacting her life, your case for saying something gets stronger. When she is asking you for advice, you can honestly tell her how incredible she is. Elaborate on your
opinion: there is nothing about her character which would hinder someone from giving her a second date. What can possibly be the problem? You can then, however, ease into the dental topic. You can gently suggest that she may want to see a dentist for poor orthodontics. Frame it in a way that conveys the message: “Who knows? Could it be just a physical thing that could easily be fixed?” This is a delicate topic that must be handled sensitively largely based on the closeness of your relationship. Use your intuition to guide you to the route you wish to take. Hatzlacha to both of you on your dating journeys!
The Zaidy Dr. Jeffrey Galler have a multi-level reaction to your letter. Simple: Sometimes, a direct approach is best. If she’s a good friend, she’ll appreciate your cosmetic feedback. Next time your friend mentions the “second date” problem, you can tell her that: In studies that analyze what a person notices when meeting someone for the very first time, a person’s smile always ranks high on the list. (Others are eyes, hair, attire, and body language.) Today, highly esthetic, Clear Aligner Orthodontics is relatively easy, virtually unnoticeable, affordable, and involves very little discomfort. Crooked, unattractive teeth often make oral hygiene difficult and can cause bad breath. Deep: If you nevertheless worry that it might impair your friendship if you tell your friend that she should fix her unattractive smile, you can try an indirect approach: You can try the old, “My cous-
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in in Wisconsin just had her teeth straightened with Invisalign, and wow, she looks terrific!” Or, put the shadchan to work. Call her shadchan and suggest that she, without mentioning your own name, recommends esthetic dentistry to your friend. Let her discuss how some young men might be turned off by an unattractive smile. Or, you can ask a computer savvy co-conspirator to send an anonymous text to your friend, with a link to the very informative website, www. Invisalign.com. Also, include a link to the American Academy of Clear Aligners (www.aacaligners.com), where the “Locate Our Members” tab will help her find local dentists who are experts in the field. (Note to readers: Among the dif-
Serious selfassessment involves maturity and self-knowledge, which come with time.
ferent companies offering Clear Aligner Orthodontics, Invisalign is the most scientific, predictable, and popular, with over 1.5 million cases in 2019. And, in my strong opinion, avoid “Smile Direct Club.”)
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This “avoidance” enables a person to have a handy excuse, or rationale, for effectively avoiding the stress of experiencing failure, or the stress of facing anxiety-provoking, daunting new stages in life. Psychological counseling might be helpful here. Good luck, and here’s hoping that you and your friend will have much to smile about at each other’s weddings.
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hank you for asking this question. As we know, the topic of “looks’’ in shidduchim can be a very sensitive one. I want to answer by first explaining the basis of Creation and the world we currently live in by going back to the beginning with Adam and Eve. Before Adam and Eve sinned and ate from the Tree of Knowledge they were completely spiritual beings with little awareness of the physical aspects of life. However, once they sinned,
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hank you for your email. Your question speaks to a true inner conflict many friends face. Do I tell my friend a well-intentioned truth that may hurt her in the short term or damage our friendship? I think the answer to your question depends on the nature of your friendship. I have friends who tell me like it is, and I appreciate it. Other friendships have a different nature. I can tell how much you care about
your friend and want her to find her bashert. I am concerned that your friend is well aware of her orthodontia and perhaps cannot afford to fix it. As a matter of fact, if it is as bad as you say it is, I’m fairly confident that she has to be aware of the situation. What would the point then be of telling her?
Only you know the nature of your friendship and how your friend might feel if you tell her her teeth are the reason she doesn’t get a second date. I would tread very lightly as sometimes friendships do not recover from comments like this. I don’t feel comfortable encouraging you one way or another because I don’t know if your friend will be able to hear this and if she even has the means to take care of this issue. Should you decide to say something, be prepared for the possibility of losing her as a friend. Perhaps there is a relative of hers that you can
you have an idea that may help. You can reassure her how beautiful she is. Make sure to give personal examples of how you enhance your appearance before dates as well. Sympathize with her about how difficult and at times how superficial the dating world can seem. I know it is not easy to have to tell someone a piece of constructive advice, however, I am sure many of us can think back to a time when someone had to tell us something painful for our benefit. At the moment, it does not feel good but ultimately that advice can be very helpful. I wish you and your friend much hatzlacha and may you find your matches very soon! Shidduchim is not an easy parsha but may this be a stepping-stone to lead you to your soulmate and a fulfilling and happy life.
speak to...a mentor, her rebbetzin, etc. Good luck with your decision! Jennifer
Jennifer Mann, LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist and dating and relationship coach working with individuals, couples, and families in private practice at 123 Maple Avenue in Cedarhurst, NY. She also teaches a psychology course at Touro College. To set up a consultation or to ask questions, please call 516-224-7779, ext. 2. Visit www.thenavidaters.com for more information. If you would like to submit a dating or relationship question to the panel anonymously, please email thenavidaters@gmail.com. You can follow The Navidaters on FB and Instagram for dating and relationship advice.
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they suddenly became aware of their physicality and covered themselves with fig leaves (Bereishis 3:7). What this is essentially saying is that they were no longer completely spiritual and the awareness of physicality and more materialistic matters became a part of their world and consequently, ours as well. Before their sin, Adam and Eve only saw each other as souls. They didn’t even notice their bodies. Once they sinned, the two of them suddenly became more aware of their surroundings and the physical world. They were no longer able to view life on a purely spiritual plane. While we would all love to be completely spiritual beings that simply is not our reality. Your friend is probably a wonderful girl but if her teeth are as noticeably damaged as you describe, people, by nature, will notice it. The question becomes: if and how do you tell her? Perhaps if you approach her kindly in a loving and non-judgmental way she will hear you. In life, it is not as much what we say as it is how we say it. You can tell her that you were thinking about her conundrum in not getting past a first date and
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Deeper: Are you sure that the problem is orthodontic? It might be something else. Urge your friend to call the shadchanim that have set her up and request honest feedback about what is making the boys say “no” after a first date. A good shadchan will understand and give her the proper feedback. Deepest: Let’s think about this a bit more deeply. How is it possible that your friend is unaware of her dental problem? It just doesn’t make sense. Doesn’t she look in the mirror? Don’t you think her parents told her? Don’t you think her dentist recommended esthetic improvements, over the past decade of checkups? What I am most concerned about is a psychological defense mechanism called “avoidance” that could be playing a role in your friend’s behavior. Sometimes, folks purposely avoid fixing a smile, or eliminating a bad habit, or correcting similar problems that could clearly impact a person’s ability to attract a marriage partner or perform up to their potential at work.
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“Land for Peace” doctrine, other nations such as Sudan, Bahrain, Oman, and Morocco are said to be readying to announce their own relations with the Jewish State. This has the opportunity to completely revamp Israel’s strategic position in the Middle East. Since its founding in 1948, the Arab world has refused to recognize its existence. Israel is widely reviled across the Islamic world, with 26 Muslim nations refusing to recognize the country’s right to exist. In the Middle East, only Egypt and Jordan have formal peace treaties with the Jewish State, although the ties between Jerusalem and its aforementioned former adversaries are commonly seen as a “cold peace” at best.” Yet now, Israelis have awakened to a new world where they are direct
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ast week’s historic breakthrough gives the UAE Jewish community a chance to finally emerge from the shadows. For over two decades, more than 1,500 Jews from around the world have lived comfortably in the Arab country. While the sheikdom refrained from recognizing the Jewish state until last week, it enabled the flourishing community to practice its religion undisturbed. As opposed to countries in the Middle East such as Yemen and Egypt, the UAE’s Jewish community congregation does not have an illustrious history dating back thousands of years. Members of the community are mostly foreign businessmen, with the majority of them hailing from Israel or the United States. Currently, there are three different Jewish houses of worship in the United Arab Emirates: a Chabad synagogue, a Modern Orthodox-oriented congregation, and an “egalitarian” one. Thousands of Jews pass through the country every year for business. The first kosher catering service in the Persian Gulf recently opened for business. A Jewish school was also recently founded and already has 40 students. The Jewish community puts extreme importance on discretion. Public opinion in the country is mostly pro-Palestinian, and there are many locals who view the warming relations with Israel as a betrayal. As such, Jewish congregants make sure to keep a low profile, usually refraining from announcing their presence and do not openly sport Jewish articles of clothing in public. “The Jewish community of the Emirates, as it’s known, meets in an unmarked home in a residential location in Dubai so as to attract little attention in this predominantly Muslim country,” wrote Religion News Service in 2018 in an article about one of the three synagogues. “It draws about 200 Jews, many of them business people from all over the world who have flocked to the UAE to take part in its growing economic power as it shifts from a reliance on oil and trade to technology and artificial intelligence.” The oldest Jewish community in the Emirates is led by Ross Kriel, a business development executive residing in the Emirates. Founded 12 years ago, the congregation holds prayers in a nondescript home near the famous Burj Al-Arab hotel in Dubai. Kriel has repeatedly reiterated that, althoughy needing to keep a low profile, his flock has never experienced any cases of anti-Semitism. “There are no guards at the entrance to the house. We have community members from Antwerp, Paris, and Geneva who feel safer here than in Europe,” Kriel said. “The only anti-Semitism I’ve experienced was from Europeans. There is a social contract of mutual respect here between all parts of the real society.” Kriel added that he never thought that he would witness the Jewish State and his adopted country establishing full diplomatic ties. “Only a week ago, the things happening today were still a dream, like seeing the Israelis and Emirati flags flying side by side on the front pages of local newspapers,” Kriel said. In November, his oldest son will turn 13, granting
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“We have conducted quiet diplomacy and sent very public signals to help shift the dynamics and promote the possible,” he went on. “With the region’s two most capable militaries, common concerns about terrorism and aggression, and a deep and long relationship with the United States, the UAE and Israel could form closer and more effective security cooperation,” he wrote two months ago. “As the two most advanced and diversified economies in the region, expanded business and financial ties could accelerate growth and stability across the Middle East.” He noted the existence and religious freedom of a Jewish community in Dubai and the fact that Israel was invited to participate in the 2020 World Expo, planned to take place in the city this summer, but was postponed to 2021 due to the coronavirus pandemic. “These are the carrots – the incentives, the upsides – for Israel. Greater security. Direct links. Expanded markets. Growing acceptance. This is what normal could be,” he wrote. In conclusion, al-Otaiba noted that much of the Arab world “would like to believe Israel is an opportunity, not an enemy. We face too many common dangers and see the great potential of warmer ties.”
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n a foreshadowing of things to come, on June 12, 2020, UAE Minister of State Yousef Al-Otaiba issued an unprecedented op-ed in the Hebrew Yedioth Ahronoth daily paper. In it, the UAE’s ambassador to the U.S. acknowledged that Israel and much of the Arab world have grown closer in recent years. He warned, though, that Israeli plans for annexation are a hinderance to talks of normalizing ties with other nations. Al-Otaiba was one of the three Arab ambassadors to attend the White House ceremony in January during which U.S. President Donald Trump unveiled his peace plan for the Middle East. The UAE has long “promoted engagement and conflict reduction, helped to create incentives-carrots rather than sticks – and focused attention on the collective benefits for all parties,” he wrote. For instance, Abu Dhabi has listed Hezbollah a terrorist organization and has condemned Hamas.
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flights from Ben Gurion Airport to Abu Dhabi and other Arab capitals. With the Palestinians’ veto now a thing of the past, business ties with the oil-rich Gulf states will flourish; Israelis may soon find themselves getting on the short three-hour flight in order to vacation among the towering skyscrapers of Dubai. “This historic change will also advance peace with the Arab world and, in the end, peace, true peace, monitored, secure, with the Palestinians as well,” Netanyahu exulted. “It is different from those that preceded it in that it is based on two principles: ‘peace for peace,’ and ‘peace through strength,’” Netanyahu added. “Under this doctrine, Israel is not required to withdraw from any territory and together the two countries openly reap the fruits of a full peace: investments, trade, tourism, health, agriculture, environmental protection, and in many other fields, including defense, of course,” he said.
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him a chance to host the first bar mitzvah in UAE history. Meanwhile, the Chabad house is overseen by Rabbi Levi Duchman. Originally from the U.S., Duchman moved to Dubai a few years ago and set up a hub of Judaism that offers courses in religious observance, kosher food, and prayer services. Recently, Duchman’s Jewish Community of the UAE Facebook page sparked interest throughout the Gulf by releasing a video showing his prayer quorum reciting a blessing for the welfare of UAE King Zayed Bin Khalifa. The clip featured a professional cantor and musical accompaniment. In the video, the exquisite synagogue is showcased and a slew of UAE royals are seen in the sanctuary along with a large portrait of the late Lubavitcher Rebbe, Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson, zt”l. The video racked up more than half a million hits in under a month after UAE Ambassador to London Mansoor Abulhoul posted it on his personal Twitter page. “The blessing, sung in Hebrew, is set to footage of the UAE’s major landmarks, artwork of UAE leaders, and men in the traditional black and white Jewish prayer shawl known as the tallit,” reported Saudi Arabia’s Al Arabiya television station. After the news of the breakthrough agreement between Israel and the UAE became public, Rabbi Duchman told the Israeli media that the Jews have nothing to fear from the Arab State. “We built a Jewish community – we have Torah study, kashrut, a community and strong support from the government. I’m not surprised that our leaders are so special. I believed this would happen,” said the rabbi. “The United Arab Emirates is a leader in all that is good for humanity. I believe that, as a result of the peace agreement, more Jews will join our community. We are prepared; the infrastructure is ready.”
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Jews. In January 2019, Crown Prince Mohammed Bin Zayed declared that the calendar year would be named the “Year of Tolerance.” In May, New York University chaplain Rabbi Yehuda Sarna was named the community’s first chief rabbi. “What we see is the first emergence of the first new Jewish community emerging in the Arab world for centuries,” Rabbi Sarna said upon taking the position. This past September, the UAE announced that it would build the country’s first-ever official synagogue. The house of worship will be constructed as part of a multifaith center known as the Abrahamic Family House that is slated to be finished in 2022. The UAE’s embrace of the Jewish community picked up pace recently as the surreptitious talks to establish diplomatic relations between Dubai and Jerusalem heated up. Earlier this month, the UAE arranged for a family of Yemenite Jews to be reunited after not seeing each other for 15 years. Pictures of the reunion in Abu Dhabi showed a large charedi family surrounded by a collection of children and an elderly woman in a wheelchair. A few days later, Rabbi Yehuda Sarna led a virtual Kabalat Shabbat over Zoom with Jewish communities from around the world. The event was attended by a slew of Jewish dignitaries from all over the world, including American Jewish Committee head David Harris and Rabbi Pinchas Goldschmidt, president of President of the Conference of European Rabbis (CER). “I believe that what we are observing is the unfolding of His Highness’ vision of tolerance, synergy, and the fusion of past and future,” said Rabbi Sarna. “What excites me most about the agreement is the potential to collaborate on education and culture.” Solly Wolf, a prominent member of Dubai’s Jewish community, told Ynet that the change in attitude from the ruling family has been especially apparent of late. “A few months ago, some might have had an issue if you were seen walking inside a mall with a yarmulke on your head,” Wolf said. “Today, there is no issue with that whatsoever. You see ultra-Orthodox Jews walking around the street with a tzizit, and no one says a thing. “We were surprised by the timing, but we knew it was coming,” added Wolf. “We have been feeling more free for a while now, but even more so now. We kept a low profile in the past, but over the past year, the authorities have given us permission to open synagogues.”
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“You Are So Paranoid!” By Rabbi Azriel Hauptman
Paranoia is one of those words that has become part of our everyday speech but is often misused. People who suffer from phobias or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD) are often accusingly told, “You are so paranoid!” In reality, those who suffer anxiety disorders such as OCD are technically not paranoid. The difference between anxiety and paranoia is a critical one that must be understood in order to achieve a better understanding of some of the challenges
that people face when suffering from various mental health disorders. Before we get ahead of ourselves, let us define paranoia. Paranoia is a condition that is characterized by systemized delusions of persecution, conspiracy and perceived threat against the person. Paranoia is often accompanied with false accusations and a general distrust of others. People with paranoia often view an accidental incident as intentional and generally feel that everyone is out to
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PPD does externally look very similar to certain aspects of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD) who also may suffer from hypervigilance of threats. When one suffers a traumatic event, it can lead him to view the world as a dangerous and unsafe place. They may isolate themselves and take extreme safety precautions. However, despite the similarities to PPD, there are clear differences between PPD and PTSD, as the hypervigilance that is associated with PTSD was absent before the traumatic event and is therefore not considered part of one’s personality but a condition brought on by the trauma. Additionally, individuals with PTSD often understand that their fears are irrational. As with virtually all mental health symptoms, paranoia is on a spectrum and we all have at least a little bit of paranoia. Paranoia becomes a problem that requires intervention when it has a significant negative impact on the person’s ability to function. Unfortunately, one of the main obstacles to treatment is that people with clinical levels of paranoia are convinced that nothing is wrong with them and that everyone else is the problem. If someone you know seems to be suffering from paranoia, it might be worthwhile to seek intervention for yourself from a mental health professional in order to receive help in navigating this difficult landscape. This is a service of Relief Resources. Relief is an organization that provides mental health referrals, education, and support to the frum community. Rabbi Yisrael Slansky is director of the Baltimore branch of Relief. He can be contacted at 410-448-8356 or at yslansky@reliefhelp.org
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he can still place a bet on the game. But the IRS has just taken steps to make that pleasure a little harder for those enjoying the newest way to bet on the action. Today’s sports books feature slick websites, mobile apps, and electronic cash transfers. But underneath that glitz, they work pretty much just like the Mob, except without the pinkie rings. You make your bet, plus a 10% “vigorish,” to win even money. You give the points, or take the over, just like you would with Vinnie down at the corner bar. Online sports books
pay an excise tax of 0.25% of the total amount wagered if the bets are legal in the state where they’re accepted, and 2.0% if they’re not. (Vinnie doesn’t pay the tax, but he won’t pass along the savings, either.) Fantasy sports contests, by contrast, don’t take bets on teams. You pay an entry fee to create your own roster by cherry-picking players from across the league, then bet on their individual performances. What Red Sox fan wouldn’t love betting on Mitch Moreland’s bat without worrying about the team’s minor-league pitching? It’s the sports-betting equivalent of trading derivatives on Wall Street. (Just don’t forget that if it was derivatives, in the form of mortgage-backed bonds, that cratered the global economy in 20072008.)
wise guys with baseball bats are heading out to start collecting — at least, not yet. General Counsel Memoranda are formal legal opinions from the Counsel’s office responding to internal IRS inquiries. But they don’t have the same binding force as statute or regulations. DraftKings hasn’t said anything about the memo. FanDuel has already said they look forward to working with the IRS to resolve the issue. Of course, the IRS hits the jackpot on your winnings, too. If they total more than 600$, your DFS operator will even issue a 1099. If you lose, it’s been unclear up until now whether fantasies sports losses are gambling losses (in which case you can deduct them against other gambling wins), or hobby losses (in which case you’re out
Last month, the IRS General Counsel issued an opinion holding that daily fantasy sports (DFS) operators like FanDuel and DraftKings should pay that same excise tax on those entry fees. Now, a quarter of a percent may not sound like much of a lift. But remember, it applies to the whole wager. Most DFS operators structure their prize pools to pay out around 85% to winners. Then they pay their own expenses out of the remaining 15% rake. So, while twenty-five cents out of a $100 bet isn’t much — two bits out of a fifteen-buck rake adds up fast! Last month’s memo doesn’t mean
of luck). But if the IRS is going to tax entry fees as “wagers,” it seems only sporting to treat losses the same. We’re pretty sure you’re not interested in gambling when it comes to your taxes. So come to us for the edge you need. Proactive planning is the consensus pick for paying less, and we can make you the favorite against the IRS! Allan J Rolnick is a CPA who has been in practice for over 30 years in Queens, NY. He welcomes your comments and can be reached at 718-896-8715 or at allanjrcpa@aol.com.
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Black Bean and Chorizo Chili By Naomi Nachman
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CHILI b 2 chorizo sausages, diced b 1 Spanish onion, diced b 1 green bell pepper, diced b 1 red bell pepper, diced b 4 cloves garlic, minced b 2 pounds ground beef b 3 (15-ounce) cans black beans, rinsed and drained b 1 ½ jars crushed tomatoes b 1 ½ tablespoons chili powder b 1 tablespoon ground cumin b 1 ½ teaspoons dried oregano b ½ teaspoon cinnamon b ¼ cup dark brown sugar b Salt, to taste b Juice of 1 lime b ½ bar 80% cocoa bittersweet chocolate
CHILI 1. Heat a large nonstick pot over medium-high heat. Sauté the chorizo until it renders some of its fat and gets slightly crispy.
TOSTONES bGreen plantains, peeled bCanola oil, for frying bKosher salt bFresh limes
2. Remove chorizo from the pot (leave the fat for sautéing the vegetables). Add chopped onion, bell peppers and garlic and sauté until tender. 3. Remove from the pot. Add ground beef and cook, breaking up the meat until it is browned. 4.
Drain the fat from the meat and add chorizo and vegetables back to the pot. Add beans and tomatoes and mix well. Add remaining ingredients, except for the chocolate, and bring to a boil.
TOSTONES 1. Slice the plantains on the diagonal, about ½ to ¾-inch thick. 2. Shallow fry the plantains in oil on both sides until lightly golden brown. 3. While the plantains are still warm, place between a sheet of parchment paper and press down firmly with a plate to flatten. 4.
Return the flattened plantains to the oil and fry a second time until crisp and golden. Sprinkle with salt and a squeeze of lime (optional) before serving.
5. Serve with chili.
5. Reduce heat, and simmer, covered, for 20 minutes, stirring occasionally. 6. Add chocolate and simmer for an additional 30 minutes to one hour, until the chili has thickened and the flavors have melded. Naomi Nachman, the owner of The Aussie Gourmet, caters weekly and Shabbat/ Yom Tov meals for families and individuals within The Five Towns and neighboring communities, with a specialty in Pesach catering. Naomi is a contributing editor to this paper and also produces and hosts her own weekly radio show on the Nachum Segal Network stream called “A Table for Two with Naomi Nachman.” Naomi gives cooking presentations for organizations and private groups throughout the New York/New Jersey Metropolitan area. In addition, Naomi has been a guest host on the QVC TV network and has been featured in cookbooks, magazines as well as other media covering topics related to cuisine preparation and personal chefs. To obtain additional recipes, join The Aussie Gourmet on Facebook or visit Naomi’s blog. Naomi can be reached through her website, www.theaussiegourmet.com or at (516) 295-9669.
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