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55 30 / WEDDING WORKOUT Heather Haddad Gives Tips On Toning Up Before the Big Day

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48 / PHOTOGRAPHER CREATES TANGIBLE MEMORIES FOR HER CLIENTS From Weddings to Graduating Seniors, Mary Dawson Continues to Capture Poignant Memories 55 / THE PERFECT MATCH Celebrate the Most Important Day of Your Life With Beautiful Baubles From Area Jewelers 66 / COCKTAIL HOUR Get in the Wedding Spirit By Combining You Favorite Libation in a Colorful Hue 106 / FANTASTIC FLORALS Three Centerpieces Celebrate the Season’s Beautiful Blooms

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80 / KRESS BUILDING With the Help of Decorator Taylor Bennett, Architect Christie Echols and Husband Michael Turn a Former Department Store Into a Mixed-Use Space That is Both Industrial and Refined

162 / BAYOU BEATS While Animé and Eighties Fans Wait to Nerd-Out To The Mitch Laing Band’s Upcoming Albums, The Recent Marvel Album is Instantly Familiar and Fun

118 / THE ANIMATED ARTIST From Disney to Monroe, Jay Davis Has Evolved in His Artistic Journey

Looking For the Perfect Attire For a Summer Party? Choose an Outfit That is Cool, Yet Classically Elegant

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138 / BAYOU EATS Railway Coffee is a Fully, Immersive Experience Into the Complexities of Coffee 154 / BAYOU KIDZ This Father’s Day, Recognize the Special Men In Your Life

204 / TIME TO TALK What Parents and Youth Need To Know About Sexual Harrassment 204 / LOGTOWN PLANTATION Missy Robertson Talks To BayouLife Magazine About the Renovation and Opening of Logtown Plantation as an Event Venue and Bed and Breakfast

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14th wedding anniversary, and I still remember my wedding day like it was yesterday. My friends were running around trying to get margarita machines working, Maré, Vikki and Nick were putting the finishing touches on all the flowers and Kelly Moore Clark was busy taking pics – the first collaboration of many. In this month’s issue, we’ve compiled the best of the best wedding vendors in our area. On our cover this month is the breathtaking Anna Kirksey in a wedding gown from Magnolia Mariée. Taylor Bennett worked tirelessly with the help of Max Clark and Meagan Russell on our gorgeous balloon installation. We are extremely thankful to Amy Robinson at The Paper Market for providing all the balloons. Whether you are looking for custom invitations, bridal shower supplies, bridesmaids gifts, decorative items or more, go see Amy and the staff of The Paper Market for your wedding needs. I’ve known Mary Dawson for a few years. She’s not only been a staple at some important Livingston functions, she also photographed one of my first covers for BayouLife. She is a talented photographer and has captured poignant moments of North Louisiana residents for the last two decades. Naturally, she was a perfect fit for this month’s BayouIcon. Read about Mary on page 38. Last year on our travel issue, we interviewed Michelle John at her home in Austin. One of the first things I noticed upon entering her home was a giant floral painting by Jay Davis. Michelle told me that Jay was once an animator for Disney, but had recently moved back to Northeast

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1201 Royal Avenue Monroe, LA 71201 Phone 318.855.3185

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PUBLISHER & OWNER Cassie Livingston cassie@bayoulifemag.com Louisiana. I was thrilled to meet him at last month’s Off The Wall fundraiser for the Masur Museum of Art. You can read his story on page 118 of this month’s issue. On pages 212-218, Missy Robertson sits down to talk to LaRone Richardson about the renovation and opening of Logtown Plantation as an event venue and bed and breakfast. I love Heather Haddad’s energy. Everyday I see her at the Monroe Athletic Club, I know that I’ll be greeted with authentic enthusiasm. We asked her to give us a ‘wedding workout’ for brides and grooms before their upcoming nuptials. See her tips on pages 30-32. We are super excited to kick-off this year’s 3rd annual Bayou Buzz Awards. Make sure to pick up the July issue of BayouLife where winners will be listed. You can also find it on our Facebook page. And, a very special thank you to all the dads out there. A special shout out to my dad who has always been a cheerleader for me, who has rubbed my head when I’ve been sick or down, and has encouraged me to be my best. Happy Father’s Day!

Cassie

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Meredith McKinnie Dr. Timothy Mickel Guy Miller Evelyn O’Neal LaRone Richardson Cathi French-Roberts Delia Simpson Beatrice A. Tatem Melannie G. Turpin, DDS Vanelis Rivera Judy Wagoner Madeline Wheatherford

CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Andrew Bailey Kelly Moore Clark Jamie Dahlum Scarlett Garcia Anna Beth Guerriero Heather Land Hunter Romero ON THE COVER Anna Kirksey wearing gown from Magnolia Mariée. Hair and makeup by Meka Bennett. Photography by Kelly Moore Clark Balloon installation by Taylor Bennett, courtesy of The Paper Market Special thanks to The Hub BayouLife Magazine is published and distributed by Redbird Publishing, LLC. Circulation: 13,000 copies monthly. Postal subscriptions ($30) can be ordered online at www.bayoulifemag. com. BayouLife Magazine is not responsible for unsolicited photographs, manuscripts or other materials. Reproduction of contents without express written permission is prohibited.

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Alumni Spotlight ULM Alum: Chrissie Autin and Meghan Olinger

GRADUATE OF NEVILLE HIGH SCHOOL IN 1994, Chrissie Autin naturally enrolled in ULM with many of her classmates, but after two years, found herself ready to dive into the workforce. She took a job at State Farm, but when the Monroe office closed in 2004, she made her way back to ULM. Chrissie started in the Controller’s Office as an administrative assistant, but was drawn to Student Accounts, craving the interaction with the student body and the newness of each work day. From 2004-2017, she loved every minute of her time in that department. She hadn’t even thought of a change, until she was searching the job ads for her husband and saw the listing for Event Director for ULM’s Bayou Pointe Student Event Center. Meghan Olinger graduated Lafayette High School in 2003, and came to ULM for the atmospheric science program. She calls herself a “weather nerd/storm chaser,” a passion she’s promised her husband to forego for the meantime. As many of her atmospheric classes focused on analyzing data, Meghan changed her major to Speech Communication. Heavily involved during her tenure at ULM, Meghan danced as a Warbonnet all four years, was a member of AOII, SGA, 31 Ambassadors, Mortar Board, and Vice President of CAB. She served as an RA, Hall Director, and Executive Director of Up ‘Til Dawn. Meghan feels she grew up in college, “bled maroon and gold,” and graduated in 2007 with a BA in Communication Studies. Meghan began working at ULM in Recruitment & Admissions and loved interacting with potential students. She took a job in 2011 with the City of West Monroe as a volunteer coordinator managing Americorps volunteers. She got her first taste of nonprofit work and discovered a passion for making a difference in the lives of the less fortunate, eventually taking a position with the Red Cross helping victims of disaster. But her connection to ULM was strong, and she began looking to return in 2017. Chrissie was a natural fit for the Event Director position. She enjoys jobs that keep her constantly moving and problem solving. She had an event planning business for seven years prior and knew she could handle the responsibility. The VP of Student Affairs, Camile Currier, hired Chrissie and then Meghan shortly after. Both were 8 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

nervous, not knowing what to expect, but knowing their relationship was integral to the success of Bayou Pointe. Chrissie says it was “like an arranged marriage,” but one that has turned out beautifully. One of Chrissie’s former student workers Allison Crotwell had also been one of Meghan’s Americorps volunteers, and felt the twosome would make a dynamic duo. The ladies discovered they both were heavily invested in the success of Bayou Pointe, and that has made all the difference. The faculty and staff at ULM have played a huge part in both Chrissie and Meghan’s paths that led them to this point. For both Chrissie and Meghan, Lisa Miller has been a mentor and cheerleader. Directing Bayou Pointe means handling huge events, sometimes many in one week. They both insist Camile Currier is a “phenomenal boss,” always supportive of them, and Chrissie calls him a “blessing in all of this.” He knew what he was doing bringing them together, spotting cohesive talent potential. Chrissie and Meghan take tremendous pride in their work and in their building. Having been an event planner before, Chrissie remembers many venues would just hand the keys over, paying little attention to customer satisfaction. Chrissie and Meghan vow to do the opposite, paying particular attention to customer service, being on hand during events demanding perfection in an atmosphere where it is almost impossible. They are both members of the ULM Alumni association, a place for graduates and those who simply believe in the success of our regional university. The ULM Alumni Association reaches, connects and celebrates alumni and friends to build lifelong relationships, and commit to the university’s missions of academic freedom, scholarship, diversity, excellence, integrity and service. We represent alumni who honor the traditions of our university and who share a sense of achievement and pride. We create a network of professionals, establish scholarships and advocate for our University through community engagement. Members of the Alumni Association support countless initiatives, and annual memberships are just $35. To learn more or to become a member, please visit our new alumni network at ulm.edu/alumni.

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Washington Wine and Spirits Picking the Perfect Gift for Dad

ATHER’S DAY IS UPON US AND SUMMER IS RIGHT AROUND the corner! Your spirits guides here at Washington Wine and Spirits are happy to help you pick out the perfect gift for dad, as well as a great summer spirit that will leave you with a smile. 1910 OLD FINE WHISKY Old Forester’s fourth and final expression in the Whiskey Row Series, is a double barreled bourbon providing a silky, smooth combination of oatmeal raisin cookies, layers of milk chocolate, cinnamon, and toasted brown sugar. Lingering spices lead into a refined, charred oak finish. It is based on the first documented double barreled whisky that was distilled in… you guessed it -- 1910! Overall, this bourbon delivers a unique, satisfying experience that stands out far beyond its siblings and other double barreled expressions. This makes for a great Father’s Day gift. CROWN ROYAL NOBLE COLLECTION 13YR OLD BLENDERS’ MASH Achieving the #5 spot on the Whisky Advocate Top 20 list, this Canadian whisky is a must have. Distilled from 60% corn, 36% rye, and 4% malted barley, then matured in new oak, this whisky is massive, bourbon-like, and a silky smooth. Not to mention, it achieved the #5 spot on the Whisky Advocate Top 20 list and it is well deserved. After aging slowly in Canada’s cold winters for a minimum of 13 years, Blender’s Mash becomes very complex, yet not too woody. It is packed with creamy notes of caramel, vanilla, white pepper, dark fruits, floral tones, and an elegant spice that folds into a lingering oak finish. GINRAW GIN Coming all the way from Barcelona, GinRaw is causing quite the stir. The idea behind this gin was to truly capture the essence of the city. With the help of four masters in their craft: a chef, a sommelier, a mixologist and a perfumer, they exceeded their expectations. Although they come from different backgrounds, they each share a passion for the city. The use of low temperature distillation preserves the flavours and aromas of their botanicals, which include kaffir lime leave, lemon, citron, cardamom, coriander and laurel. GinRaw is the perfect summer spirit for poolside cocktails. SHIPWRECK VANILLA RUM Brimstone Hill’s cannons protected the beautiful island of St. Kitts and her valuable sugar cane for hundreds of years. This was a well trafficked pit stop for many ships dating all the way back to 1782. Although a beautiful island, St. Kitts is quite treacherous. Shipwreck Vanilla Rum is blended to match the old rums

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‘spiked’ with exotic spices and flavors that drifted ashore from distant lands. Handcrafted on the island of St. Kitts, their mission was simple - to make the best tasting rum in the world. Made with natural Madagascar vanilla, this rum offers powerful, intense flavors of sweet, creamy, spicy vanilla. This is another great summer spirit; that blends perfectly with a splash of ginger ale and a twist of lime. WHEATLEY VODKA Made by Harlen Wheatley, the Master Distiller at Buffalo Trace Distillery, this vodka was deliberately crafted using centuries of spirit-making knowledge. Wheatley is distilled a total of 10 times and triple-filtered, creating a delicate and balanced profile. Pure and crisp on the nose, a clean smooth taste with hints of soft vanilla, Wheatley delivers the kind of exceptional quality you would expect from the world’s most award-winning distillery. This vodka was made to be tasted for what it is, while still being able to stand up in a cocktail. Grilling season is here so before you make those trips to the lake, be sure to come by the shop and purchase the Doe’s Eat Place uncooked steaks and twice baked potatoes here at Washington Wine and Spirits. You can call us at (318) 816-5067 and we will have your steaks wrapped up and ready to go or just stop on by the shop and check out our amazing selection of wines, beers and spirits to pair perfectly with your fresh cut of steak. We thank you for all of your continued support for Doe’s Eat Place and Washington Wine and Spirits. We are open Monday-Thursday from 10:00 a.m. to 9:00 p.m. and Fridays and Saturdays from 10:00 a.m.-10:00 p.m. 6 oz Filet - $9.75 14 oz Bone-In Filet - $39.99 20 oz Ribeye - $21.24 1.5 lb T-Bone - $20.99 2.5 lb Porterhouse - $39.98 2-5 lb Sirloin - $9.99/lb

10 oz Filet - $16.24 1.5 lb Bone In Strip - $20.99 2 lb Bone In Ribeye - $35.98 2 lb T-Bone - $27.98 3 lb Porterhouse - $47.97 Twice Baked Potatoes - $4.99/each

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Confidence and Satisfaction The Woman’s Clinic Offers Expanded Services For Women’s Health and Beauty

OW OFTEN DOES A “WHAT IF” phrase cross your mind? “What if I was a size smaller, I could fit into that dress?” “What if I felt as good in all my pants as I do in my favorite pair?” These are questions we’ve all asked ourselves at one time or another. Confidence and lifestyle satisfaction play a big role in the care and well-being of today’s woman. At The Woman’s Clinic, our mission is to provide total care for today’s woman. In fulfilling that mission, we want to provide services that let us ask our patients these questions: “What if you could wear confidence?” “What if the fitting room was where everything fit?” “What if your all your pants were your good butt pants?” Over the last few months we’ve begun to provide types of services that answer these questions. We’ve seen confidence and satisfaction grow in our patients. We’re even more excited about the future of this than we were when we began. So, let’s take a moment and run through what we have to offer. In a recent survey of American women, 70% worry about developing a tummy bulge. 81% are concerned about maintaining their body shape and 45% are afraid cellulite will remain a concern. To address this, we will be offering a non-invasive body contouring product called Velashape. VelaShape III™ technology combines infrared light and bipolar radio frequency. This type of system stimulates the growth of new and better collagen and elastin. Velashape has been clinically proven to work on a variety of different treatments including: • Cellulite Reduction • Body Contouring

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• Shrinking of Fat Cells • Skin Tightening. In clinical trials, the body contouring power of Velashape led to a reduction of one whole dress size after treatment. Each treatment lasts about fifteen minutes and most patients describe the treatment as feeling like a warm massage. For many women, skin imperfections can impact self-confidence. We also know women considering facial rejuvenation procedures are inhibited by high cost, pain, downtime and side effects. We found that Sublative and Sublime skin treatments are an ideal solution. Sublative treatments improve the superficial imperfections of skin’s tone and texture by precisely directing bi-polar radio frequency into the skin. Healthy skin around the treated area accelerates the healing process of the skin and new collagen and skin cells are produced. Sublime treatments improve facial contour and overall skin quality by heating dermal tissue with combined bi-polar radio frequency and light energy, stimulating collagen production. Both treatments have been clinically proven to treat the following: • Stretch marks • Acne scaring • Reducing fine lines and wrinkles • Eye rejuvenation. These treatments provide the results you desire without the worry of more invasive procedures. They penetrate more deeply than creams and peels and address your skin’s overall tone and texture more effectively than injectables. And while results with more invasive procedures may be dramatic, few are

willing to incur the cost, risk, or downtime. No woman wants to lack confidence with intimacy. It is an important part of everyone’s satisfaction with life. To help with this, we will offer an in-office non-surgical treatment that uses laser energy in gynecological applications called CO2RE Intima. CO2RE Intima is a medical laser that delivers controlled C02 energy to the tissue improving skin tone, texture and appearance. Among its many uses it has been proven to treat the following: • Mild to moderate urinary incontinence • Help correct post-child birth and menopausal changes • Non-hormonal treatment for dryness • Improved confidence with intimacy. We know the thought of laser treatments in such a personal area may give some women pause. CO2RE Intima is FDA approved for a range of gynecological uses and patients experience mild to no discomfort with little downtime. If you would like to hear more about any of these options, please give us a call at (318)388-4030 to schedule a consultation. You can also visit us online at thewomansclinic. net and request a consultation. Be sure to like us on Facebook and Instagram for the latest updates and information from The Woman’s Clinic, too. Pictured Above – Bottom Row: Dr. Erin Gullatt, Dr. Sara Klug, Dr. Dawn Pennebaker, Dr. Adrienne Williams; Top Row: Dr. Amber Shemwell, Dr. Jason Wilson, Dr. David Bryan, Dr. Terry Tugwell, Dr. Won Lee, Dr. Laura Petty

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WEDDING RULES YOU SHOULD FOLLOW by ERIN SHARPLIN LOVE | erinlove@panachebyerin.com

hen it comes to weddings, many brides (and guests) are confused about what is considered proper etiquette and what is a “faux pas.” Although some tried and true rules have become more lenient, there are still some that should be followed now and for many more years to come. They are listed below. I hope they make this wedding season more enjoyable and relaxing for you. After all, now you will know exactly what to do! 1. It is inappropriate to invite a guest to a pre-wedding party but not the wedding itself. If done, this can appear callous and as though you are just inviting them to gain a gift. 2. Try not to make your guests wait past the scheduled hour of the wedding. I would suggest that ten minutes is the longest you should postpone the start time. 3. It is still frowned upon to list your registry information on your invitation. However, it is appropriate to list it on your wedding website instead. 4. Even though evites are easier and less costly, it is not in good taste to send them to a wedding guest. You should mail a professionally printed invitation instead. 5. Never make your guests pay for their drinks. If you are on a budget, you can skip alcoholic beverages altogether or limit the type of alcohol (wine and beer only, for instance) and you can limit the amount. When it is gone, it’s gone. 14 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

6. Don’t forget about your vendors! You should make accommodations so they are able to take a break and eat. 7. Try your best to greet all of your guests. They took the time to attend the wedding and to show you their support; it is only appropriate that they receive a proper “hello” and “thank you for coming.” 8. Your RSVP return envelope should have postage already included. Never make your guest place their own stamp on your return envelope. 9. If someone gives you a gift you must send them a handwritten thank-you note. No ifs, ands, or buts, please! 10. As a guest you should always send the RSVP card back in a timely manner. For some reason, many guests have become lax in responding to an RSVP when, in fact, it is very helpful for the bride and groom to know how many people they should prepare for. 11. If your children’s names are not listed on the invitation, they are not invited. Do not ask the couple if you can bring them because they will feel obliged to say yes. Take the opportunity to have a wonderful evening with your partner sans children. 12. On that same note…if your invitation does not list “and guest” you are to attend the wedding solo. 13. Always arrive to the ceremony ten minutes early. It is NOT okay to arrive to a wedding ceremony late. You can disrupt the entire event. 14. If you are invited to the ceremony and reception, never skip the ceremony

and go to the reception only. It will send the message that you are there only for the drinks and the party. 15. Leave cellphones in the car. If you must have yours on hand, turn the sound off. 16. Never wear white to a wedding. Yes, this rule still applies. On the other hand, black is okay to wear. 17. Never complain about anything. If the bride seats you next to your arch nemesis – mouth closed. If you dislike her floral design – mouth closed. If you don’t like the cake – mouth closed. Comprende? 18. As a guest, you should never post pictures of the bride and groom on social media. Allow them to post what they want the world to see. 19. RSVP means “Respondez, s’il vous plait,” which translates to “Please respond.” Therefore, it is inappropriate to put “Please RSVP” on your invitations because you are actually saying “please” twice. 20. And, finally, never get drunk! Limit your alcohol intake to one or two beverages and drink plenty of water. Creating a lasting memory is a great thing unless you are being remembered for how wasted you were. So, what do you think? Did you learn something new? Won’t you feel more comfortable when you next attend a wedding? The rules of etiquette always guide me in the right direction and I hope they will do the same for you. Have a great wedding season!

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Historical Impressions

A FAT H E R ’ S I N F L U E N C E

t is without question that fathers have a significant impact on their children. For most children it is a positive influence and kids look to emulate the best qualities of their father. Among these best qualities is often the desire to serve our nation and its people. My father enlisted in the U.S. Navy during the Korean War. After the 1953 armistice, his ship was sent to provide aid to the people of Vietnam. Dad’s then-underage father enlisted in the U.S. Army in 1916 and was sent to Texas to fight the hostile Pancho Villa. My father’s maternal grandfather served in the 3rd Virginia Infantry during the time of the Spanish American War. It is more difficult to trace my earlier ancestors but I do know my grandfather’s grandfather joined the 3rd Missouri Cavalry C.S.A. after his family was ill treated by the Northern troops. There is no doubt this family history influenced my own desire to serve. Perhaps more remarkable is how serving can lead to unexpected and novel experiences that further shape character. And these shaped character traits can then be passed on from father to children. Like my own father, my late father-inlaw was a wonderful father and role model for my wife and her siblings. It is silly, I know, but for some reason I delight in shocking or confounding people by telling them my father-in-law was a Japanese battleship sailor. Anyone who knows or has seen my wife is sure she does not have any Japanese ancestry. Tom Potts enlisted in the U.S. Navy after high school graduation in early 1945. In 1945 our nation anticipated at least another year or two of war as the allies developed plans to invade and conquer the home islands of Japan. No civilian and few in the government or military could have predicted the deployment of the atomic weapons at Hiroshima and Nagasaki and the subsequent immediate capitulation of the Japanese government.

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With the war now over, Pop was sent to Japan. He and about 130 other U.S. sailors were assigned to the IJN Nagato; the only Japanese battleship to survive to the end of World War II. On the Nagato there was no drinking water, no working galley (kitchen), no undamaged quarters (sleeping spaces) and all identification markings were in Japanese. Pop and the other sailors put their cots where ever they wanted to sleep and took a boat over to another ship three times a day for meals. The toilet facilities provided in any primitive American Boy Scout camp were far better than the officers’ “head” Pop used in the Nagato. My father-in-law had been reassigned by then but the Nagato was eventually towed to the Bikini Atoll in mid1946 and used in nuclear weapons testing. I remember a much older Pop opening Life Magazine’s 50th anniversary edition to a two-page picture of the Bikini bomb blast. He was convinced the vertical dark shape up in the middle of the mushroom column was the Nagato. Pop was a very devout Christian and a person who harbored no ill feelings towards others, and he passed these traits on to his children. His stories of interacting with the local civilians in post-war Japan are telling in this regard. It was pure “Pop” to have been a young U.S. sailor in a war-ravaged foreign country and to have encountered and made friends with a Presbyterian minister and his family from that same enemy country. I will let Pop’s own words describe the thoughts of the man who became the father to my wife. “How could I say [Mr. Matsuo] was my friend?” He was Japanese- one of the enemies. He was older than my father and I was still in my youth. He was wordly in wisdom and education, having attended universities in England and the United States, and I was barely out of high school. He treated me as his equal, frequently asking my opinions and answering my questions honestly.

“Historians continue to analyze the war with Japan, the occupation by the United States, and the recovery of the nation. But in 1946, I was privileged to hear thoughts on those subjects from a humble scholar who possessed great knowledge, experience and wisdom.” Pop communicated with Mr. Matsuo for a few more years but eventually lost track of him and was unable to locate the family when he and Mom traveled to Japan in 2001. But Mr. Matsuo must have seemed a father figure to a young, far-from-home Tom Potts because Pop never forgot what he learned during his visits with Mr. Matsuo. As Pop later wrote: “I carry fond memories of Mr. Matsuo, of the farewell dinner at his house and of our deep discussions. He taught me to value the wisdom of a person so different, and by his example, he taught me to accept all peoplepeople of different cultures and backgrounds but with feelings no different than mine- as fellow human beings to be treated with love, kindness and respect.” Mr. Matsuo made an indelible imprint on Tom Potts and Pop Potts made an indelible imprint on his children and eventually on me. My dad, Pop Potts and Mr. Matsuo are the type of men who represent all of what a good father should be and how a father can shape his children for the better. Happy Father’s Day Pop, Dad, and Mr. Matsuo.

BY GUY MILLER Vice Chair-Chennault Aviation and Military Museum

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Helping People Find Home Mark Sisk Helps You List It, Sell It and Move On!

HIS MONTH, I’D LIKE TO BRING SOME SOUND ADVICE to the homebuyers of NELA. You are ready to buy. YOU CALL ME and I say, “the first step is getting pre-approved.” How do you choose your lender? The promise of a quick approval through some internet-based company is tempting but why should you use a local lender? Here’s what Courtney Holyfield, Sr. Vice President at Guaranty Bank & Trust had to say on the matter: The purchase of a home is one of the biggest investments of your life. The process can be daunting and stressful and for this reason you should work with a local lender to walk with you through the process. Here are 5 reasons why you should keep your business local by choosing a local lender like Guaranty Bank and Trust. 1) REPUTATION: Local lenders and Realtors have good reasons to provide you with excellent service because they want you to be a source of referrals for future business. We live and work where you do and thus our reputation is our very livelihood. 2) RELIABILITY: Local lenders have a far better reputation for closing loans timely. Local lenders are more capable of analyzing your data prior to making big promises they can’t deliver. When you get a pre-approval from a local lender it carries more weight because Realtors and sellers are familiar with the company. 3) PERSONAL SERVICE: This is Guaranty Bank’s top priority. You can meet your lender face-to-face which can be very effective for resolving issues. Sometimes just knowing you can walk in an office and speak directly with your loan officer brings some peace to the process. 4) LOCAL EXPERTISE: As a local lender we know the area and local real estate market. In a situation where many offers are on the table, having a local trusted lender could be the difference in a seller accepting your offer or not. Some realtors and sellers may not even accept a pre-approval from a national company or online lenders due to previous bad experiences. There is no way that a good loan officer can effectively pre-qualify a borrower like a “rocket.” Much goes into a mortgage loan and loan officer expertise can make a big difference on your experience in the home-buying process.

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) BUY LOCAL, BORROW LOCAL: Help your local economy. 5 When using a local lender with loan officers and support staff who spend money locally, it is key to the success of locally owned businesses. The money circulating in our community has a positive impact. I know it is tempting to go online but remember we shop in local stores, eat at local restaurants, and attend church in our local community. It’s very likely the money you pay a local lender is used to help other local buyers and businesses down the line.

The staff at Guaranty Bank is ready to assist you in your home purchase or refinance mortgage needs. Let us show you why we are YOUR LOCAL LENDER! Call today at 318-388-8115 or stop by our Loan Production office located at 2101 Tower Drive Monroe, La. 71201. Guaranty Bank has been established since 1966 in many communities of Northeast Louisiana. Every part of our organization is local. You can apply online at courtneyholyfield.zipforhome.com or markholyfield.zipforhome.com. It’s lenders like this who make my job easier and take the hassle out of the homebuying process. Just this year I’ve seen deals fall through because of issues that would’ve been avoided by a simple, face-to-face conversation with a knowledgeable lender. My expertise as a Realtor can only go so far – at some point we must rely on the lenders, home inspectors, title attorneys, and many other professionals involved in the process. As always, I am available anytime to answer questions. It’s good to have someone knowledgeable on the “micro-markets” within our local housing market. Different homes qualify for different types of financing programs. Is the property eligible for 100% financing? Is flood insurance required? While I can’t quote you a rate or calculate your PMI, I am familiar with the many options that are available to homebuyers in our area. #shoplocal MARK SISK - REALTOR ® Real Estate Advisor

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“BALI, INDONESIA - IT’S THE ULTIMATE REMOTE PARADISE THAT HAS PHENOMENAL BEACHES, ARCHITECTURE, PEOPLE AND CULTURE.” -DEIDRA ADAIR

“MY HUSBAND AND I STAYED AT SANDALS LA TOC IN ST. LUCIA! THERE WERE SO MANY FUN THINGS WE DID LIKE CANDLELIGHT DINNER ON THE BEACH, JOE KNOWS TOUR, AND A SUNSET CRUISE! OVERALL AMAZING!”

“ST LUCIA, WE LOVED THE PRIVATE BEACH.”

-Victoria Arthur Christy

– Rebecca Lewis Smart

WHERE WAS YOUR

Honeymoon? “GLENWOOD SPRINGS, CO WHAT A VIEW.”

WE ASKED OUR BAYOULIFE READERS WHAT THEIR FAVORITE DETAIL ABOUT THE DESTINATION OF THEIR HONEMOON WAS AND HERE ARE SOME OF OUR FAVORITES

-Peyton Whaley Reed

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BREATHTAKING! NO TOURISTS AND NO TRAFFIC. OUR FAVORITE WAS BY FAR THE

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IN FEBRUARY.

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Brewing Good Times America’s Oldest Brewery Celebrates 190 Years BY DELIA SIMPSON, CRAFT BRAND MANAGER, CHOICE BRANDS, INC.

HE STORY OF YUENGLING IS THE STORY OF THE American Spirit. It’s a tale of shared dreams, individual tenacity and an unwavering dedication to standards of quality. Like many American stories it starts amid the dreams of countless young immigrants looking for opportunity and emerges from the strength and will of one family determined to build their legacy in a new country. The story of America’s Oldest Brewery began when David G. Yuengling arrived from Wuerttemberg Germany to settle in the sleepy, coal-mining town of Pottsville, Pennsylvania. Originally named The Eagle Brewery, today the Yuengling Brewery is still identified with the qualities of strength and pride, symbolic of the American eagle. Each Yuengling label still bears the eagle trademark chosen by young David Yuengling so long ago. Previously located on North Centre Street, current site of Pottsville’s City Hall, the brewery was completely destroyed by fire after only two years of operation. A new brewery was then constructed on Mahantongo Street, where operations continue today. Since it was founded in 1829, America’s Oldest Brewery has remained fiercely independent, family-owned and continuously operated by the Yuengling family for six generations. Yuengling can now be enjoyed in 22 states with core beer brands: Yuengling® Traditional Lager, Light Lager, Black & Tan, and Golden Pilsner – the first new core product in 17 years and introduced in 2018 by the 6th generation – Jen, Wendy, Debbie and Sheryl Yuengling. “As we celebrate our 190th anniversary, we are fortunate to have been in business longer than any other brewery in the United States,” said Jennifer Yuengling, Vice President of Operations and 6th Generation Brewer, D.G. Yuengling & Son, Inc. “We proudly reflect back on the generations of brewers, hundreds of employees, and thousands of loyal Yuengling drinkers that have supported us and all of the good times that we have been a part of along the way.” COMMEMORATIVE CANS In celebration of its 190th anniversary, Yuengling will release a series of five limited-edition, collectible Yuengling® Traditional Lager

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beer cans. Between January and May, a new 12-ounce can design will hit stores each month and showcase the evolution of Yuengling’s iconic eagle imagery that has graced labels since 1829, when the brewery was originally called the “Eagle Brewery.” Consumers are encouraged to collect each of the five cans throughout the year, which will be sold in both 12-pack and 24-pack cans. Specially marked packs will also have information on how consumers have the chance to win good times from the brewery. #YUENGLINGGOODTIMES Fans are invited to share their favorite Yuengling moments on social media using #YuenglingGoodTimes. Whether it’s celebrating after a winning score or making a toast at a special occasion, Yuengling wants to reward fans around the country who share their love for America’s Oldest Brewery. FREE 190TH ANNIVERSARY SUMMER CONCERT On July 13th, Yuengling will host a free summer concert in Pottsville, Pennsylvania to show appreciation for their loyal fans. The headliner will be none other than Louisiana’s own Better Than Ezra! Yuengling Brewery will welcome the community to join the 190th celebration with free live music. Food, beer and more fun will be available for purchase from local vendors. For more information, visit the Yuengling 190th Anniversary Summer Concert Celebration Facebook page. COLLECTIBLE ANNIVERSARY GLASSWARE SET Head on over to Choice Brands Facebook page (facebook.com/ choicebrands) and enter to win a set of collectible Yuengling glassware, as well as some delicious Yuengling to fill it. Simply find the post on our page (pinned at the top) and comment #YuenglingGoodTimes. The winner will be drawn on or around July 13th and will be announced on Facebook. Must be 21 to enter. No purchase necessary to win. Be sure to like Choice Brands on Facebook and follow us on Twitter and Instagram to keep up with local happenings and new product releases. In addition, you’ll find links to beer related articles, fun recipes, and much more! Find us at facebook.com/choicebrands, twitter.com/choicebrandsinc, and instagram.com/choicebrands.

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The Power of the Father Perspectives From A Daddy’s Girl BY BEATRICE TATEM, PH.D., LPC-S, NCC, ACS

HEN WRITING THIS ARTICLE I FOUND MYSELF focusing on and observing father-child relationships particularly father-daughter relationships and those who are “Daddy’s Girls.” Although it has been years since my father’s death I continue to self identify as a “Daddy’s Girl,” a title and role I cherish. When growing up I would ask my father, “Dad, what do you want for Father’s Day” and he would reply “for you to be happy, that will be the best Father‘s Day gift I can receive.” Whereas, my dad appreciated my thoughtfulness and recognized societal expectations to celebrate the day, he saw it as a gimmicky holiday invented for commercial purposes. He felt the role of father was to be taken seriously as it makes a difference in the lives of children. Fathers, he believed, are expected to be present, involved, loving and supportive and in this vein everyday was Father’s Day. Celebrated all around the world, our nations first Father’s Day was recognized on June 19, 1910. In 1972, Father’s Day officially became a nationwide holiday. We come to our definition and understanding of father through our interactions and experiences with our fathers. The meanings, feelings, thoughts, ideas we associate with our father’s are shaped by our relationships both good and bad. Father means many different things to many people. Some revere father as a pillar of strength, support and discipline one who teaches, guides and ushers us through life. Father to some means having unconditional love for a child even when they are at their worst. A father is quick to realize his children are human and that acting out is part of growing up. For many, a father’s job is endless and at times thankless. Some define father as daddy while others make a distinct difference between father and dad. Father to some is purely biological, whereas daddy signifies a role or relationship. Fathers have the ability to be firm and attentive and yet be playful and fun. Recently, when walking through the airport I noticed a child riding on his father’s luggage while his father pulled the luggage. The child smiled at me with a look that suggested, “I am having fun.” I turned to his father and said, “I can tell mommy is not around.“ The father commented, “You are right, she would have a fit.” The father then stated, “Buddy, we are not going to tell mommy about this, right?“ Fathers are often the initial standard in which children judge all men. Father’s often teach daughters what to expect, how to be and what they should accept when interacting with other men and a role model to their sons on how they

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can, should and need to be as men. Often we hear about the absent father and all of the negative consequences, the “dead beat dad” who fails to pay child support or the “Disneyland Dad” who shows up for fun weekends, celebratory occasions and milestone events. Through my work as therapist, I have also witnessed the dads who fight custody battles to be in their children’s lives, the dad’s who bring their children to therapy sessions (and there are many) and the dad’s who have been instrumental in their child’s life from birth. The positive impact of a father’s presence is lasting and yet the importance of having a dad around has been widely ignored. Fathers, as with mothers, are significant in the social, emotional and intellectual development of a child’s well-being. An involved father promotes inner growth and strength which means better outcomes for children and ultimately the adult they will become. Research has shown when fathers are engaged, females have fewer psychological problems, males have fewer behavioral problems, and both show enhanced cognitive development. Children look to their fathers to provide a feeling of security, both physically and emotionally. When children learn they can rely on their fathers they tend to have higher self-esteem, greater trust, more confidence, greater determination and are more likely to succeed. To all fathers/daddys, grandfathers, great-grandfathers, single fathers, co-parent dads, fathers-to-be, this article is in recognition of you. To step-fathers, godfathers, foster fathers, adoptive fathers and those who father without being a biological father know that you are valuable. To those that fulfill the role of father through their relationship as father-in-law, uncle, brother or nephew, you’re thanked for taking the time to connect. To coaches, mentors, teachers and those proudly embracing the role of father even when your last name is different, thanks for being there and choosing to participate as fathers when the biological father can not or will not. Eternal gratitude is extended to the fathers who no longer live amongst us but when living made an indelible difference in their child’s life. To all men who actualized through their presence and involvement the power of the father, Happy Father’s Day throughout the year and the years to come. Dr. Beatrice Tatem at Wellness Initiatives, LLC 2485 Tower, Suite 10, Monroe, La 71201, 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail.com.

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Historical House in Columbia Captain Blanks’ Steamboat House BY BRANDI CHAMBLESS

THE OUACHITA TELEGRAPH Saturday, October 5, 1889 | NEW ORLEANS, LA., October 3. - The steamer Corona, of the Ouachita Consolidated Line, left here at 7:30 last evening for the Ouachita River with a full cargo of freight and a good list of passengers. She exploded her boilers at False River, nearly opposite Port Hudson, at 11:45 this morning, causing the loss of the steamer and about forty lives. In the early 1930s, Lee Roy Adams II, as he was known by the residents of Columbia, Louisiana, made the prestigious trek to New Orleans in the footsteps of his father when he embarked upon a career in dentistry. Having every intention of returning home to join his father in business, he applied himself to his studies at Loyola University receiving the education that would fuel his lifelong career. Having three siblings also entering college, including a set of twins, Lee Roy survived the financial strain of the Great Depression by pacing himself through dental school. His brother, Blake would also pursue a career in dentistry. Besides having a father who was the local dentist, growing up in Columbia provided memorable childhood experiences. Since the small town was of great importance because of it’s life giving waterway, the Ouachita River, it was strategically located for importing of goods. Lee Roy’s family would buy fresh fruit in bulk off the steamboat, like a stalk of bananas to hang in the kitchen and snack on as they ripened. Another part of growing up in a river town was familiarity with the household name of Blanks. Captains J.W. “Jack” Blanks and brother F.A. Blanks were the steamboat kings of the Louisiana waterways. On October 3, 1889, one of the most ill-fated steamboat incidents of all times claimed the life of Captain Jack, President of the Ouachita River Consolidated Line. He had succeeded brother Captain F.A. Blanks, famously known for having built the victorian cottage known simply as Captain Blanks’ Steamboat House in Columbia. It was with the setting of this intimate town in mind, Lee Roy rose to become the president of his dental class and finish school. The young achiever had been so busy with classes, the only girls he had time to get to know were one or two fellow students. One was the 26 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

older sister of modern day New Orleans designer Mignon Faget who stood as a flower girl in his colleague’s wedding. But other than that, girls weren’t on the radar until the exact moment he spotted Marie Poelman in the Dominican university newspaper. She had been named the school’s Most Beautiful Girl. After seeing her, he told his friend, “I want to meet her. She is so pretty.” Lee Roy dressed to impress, and eventually won the heart of Marie’s mom. Four dental students had purchased an automobile to share and when he whisked Marie out for a double date, her father said, “I’m scared he knows a good thing when he sees it.” He was right. Lee Roy finished school, bought a two-carat engagement ring, and married young Marie at St. Louis Cathedral in New Orleans in 1940. He soon was drafted for WWII, but the family always attributed the military’s decision to not send any more dentists as the answer to Mary’s fervent prayers. When New Orleans native Marie, nine years her husband’s junior, left her parents behind to come as a new bride to Columbia, she had no idea that within a few years Captain F.A. Blanks’ granddaughter Lorraine would offer his historic home for sale. Their happily ever after continued as they purchased the four bedroom mansion of it’s day and began raising their four children Lee, John, Mary, and Sally. Three more children were eventually born into the family household, Betty, Kate, and Pete and the community was cared for by Dr. L.R. Adams for his entire lifetime. Marie’s parents retired in Columbia from New Orleans to help with the seven children. They spent time together in the winter parlor which was dressed with plush draperies and couches, but in summer, they dwelt together in the summer parlor and sipped refreshments on the wicker furniture. Today, all of the surviving children are scattered and have made the mutual decision to put this historic gem up for sale. “We grew up there, so it’s home,” said Mary Adams Riser, now 71. “Anytime you let home go, it’s sentimental. My parents had the most beautiful love story, an idyllic life. They were salt of the earth people who stressed honesty and staying close to God. Growing up in this home was just paradise.”

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Happy Birthday Chicken Salad Chick Celebrates One Year

HE MONROE LOCATION OPENED ON APRIL 25TH of 2018 and has just celebrated one full year of serving the south’s best chicken salad. Not only did they turn one but the Monroe team also attended the 2019 Chicken Salad Chick Reunion in Atlanta, Georgia on February 24th-26th and received the “New Chick on the Block” award. The New Chick on the Block award goes to the ownership group that demonstrates a commitment to the brand during site selection, construction, marketing, hiring and staffing for their grand opening and beyond, on-going community involvement and team engagement. The New Chick on the Block follows all policies and procedures, along with all recommendations and continues to make a significant impact in their community. Ashley, Matthew and Krista were certainly deserving of this and were excited to bring home The New Chick on the Block award to Monroe! The Chick’s moto for everything they do is ”Spread Joy-Enrich Lives-Serve Others,” and they have certainly done just that. They have participated in many fundraisers for our local community such as raising money for the Desiard Street Shelter by providing free meals. On Friends and Family Night, customers made generous donations that totaled $1,000.00. They have also raised $2,500 for our local Northeast Louisiana Food Bank through their giving card campaign. This is a card that the customer purchases for $5.00. You get a new offer each month and all offers combined have a value of $60. For example, one month you get a free large quick chick valued at $10.95. In return, The Chick donates the full $5.00 to a local charity. This year The Chick picked the Northeast Louisiana Food Bank to give back to. Chicken Salad Chick prides itself in giving back and being very involved in the community. For example, on Veteran’s Day, The Chick offers free chick meals to all veterans. How awesome is that! They show appreciation and give credit where credit is due. For Mother’s Day, they handed out beautiful roses at lunch for moms, and the Friday and Saturday before Easter, every customer was able to pick an egg that contained a prize such as a free drink, a tumbler, a free large Quick Chick, and some lucky customers got a chick cooler.

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Showing love and support for others is what Chicken Salad Chick is all about. The Chick also got involved with some of the local youth and co-sponsored a contest called “Essay for Excellence,” where students at local schools wrote an essay about a teacher that impacted their life. The winner, and his or her teacher, both received an Ipad for the best essay and let’s just say we have some very talented and smart kids in our area! On April 25th 2019, Chicken Salad Chick’s Monroe location celebrated it’s 1st birthday and it a celebration to remember! The day started off with a huge line in front of the building full of excited guests. This day was full of fun activities to get the community involved in the celebration. The Chick set up a fun photo booth with crazy props for people to use and take pictures with. Guests were able to leave with a strip of fun photos they could keep and remember this day. They had the cutest cupcake shots from Monroe’s Small Cakes that were absolutely delicious. The Chick also went one step further by having a DJ set up playing awesome tunes. The Chick also gave away free Chick tumblers to the first 50 guests at 10:30 a.m. and they did it again at 5p.m. They had great prizes to give away every hour to a few lucky customers, along with a drawing for two people to win free chicken salad for a whole year! This was definitely the place to be that Thursday for sure. Chicken Salad Chick also recently hosted a Customer Appreciation Day where everyone got a free scoop of Classic Carol. Now if this doesn’t show that The Chick cares for their customers and community, nothing will. Giving back and being willing to serve their local community is one of The Chicks main goals as a business and they are doing a great job! Stop by Chicken Salad Chick today and try their award winning chicken salad and become part of their wonderful family.

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T H E W E D D I N G WO R KO U T You have the date set, you've said "Yes to the dress" and all the small details are falling perfectly into place. Now it's time to focus on getting that body into shape for the big day. Make sure you plan your workouts weekly. Start NOW... Remember, Rome was not built in a day. photography by Kelly Moore Clark model Heather Haddad outfits provided by Monroe Athletic Club authorized retailer of lululemon

FULL BODY 3 sets 12-15 repetitions

BALL SLAMS

You will need a slam ball 15lbs to 20lbs. Start in a squat position bracing your core, grab ball and raise over head, with maximum effort/full strength follow the ball down to the ground & release slamming it into the ground, end in a squat position. Tips: Squat position â&#x20AC;&#x201C; feet outside the hips, brace your core, slam it like your mad at it!

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PLANK DUMBBELL ROWS You will need a 10lb to 15lb dumbbell. Start in a plank position with the dumbbell under your hand, row the dumbbell straight up extending above the back, return the dumbbell back to the floor for the next repetition. Tips: Hands right under your shoulders, strong hold through the core and back, hips squared to the floor as you row keeping your core tight.

BACK, ARMS & CORE 3 sets 12-15 repetitions each arm

1 1 ARMS, CHEST, SHOULDERS & BACK 3 sets 12-15 repetitions

ARNOLD PRESS WITH STATIC HOLD You will need 10lb to 15lb dumbbells. Seated upright on a bench hold the dumbbells out in front in a 90/90 angle, rotate the dumbbell out, up over head, back down to starting position for the next repetitions. 12 to 15 reps per arm before starting next arm.

Tips: Seated on a bench or a standing position, shoulders down and back & core engaged tight.

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WINDMILLS SHOULDERS, BACK, ARMS & OBLIQUES 3 sets 12-15 repetitions

You will need a 5lb to 10lb kettlebell. Start in a wide stance with toes turned out, holding a kettlebell (ball against your wrist), opposite arm facing down, turn head to look at kettlebell as you slowly lower your body sideways to opposite foot, brace your core as you rise. 12 to 15 reps per arm before starting next arm. Tips: make sure your hips are braced tight and not moving, bend at your waist as if trying to make a “C” with your torso.

LITTLE EXTRA If you want to add a little workout glitter try these burnouts in between your exercise sets: 12 to 15 push-ups (knees or toes) & bicep hammer curls.

Always focus on the muscle(s) you are working. If you are not feeling

the muscle or muscle groups working chances are you are not performing the exercise correctly. Make sure your weight selection is challenging but not too heavy that you fail.

Your body is an amazing machine so make sure you are fueling, aka

feeding, it properly before and after workouts. Get plenty of rest for muscle growth and repair. Drink lots of H20. Focus not on dieting rather creating a healthy lifestyle for you to pass down to your family. Heather Haddad Monroe Athletic Club - MAC Membership-Marketing-Fitness Director, ACSM – Certified Personal Trainer & Group Exercise Instructor. Heather is engaged to Adam Hunsucker and is planning a wedding for 2020.

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FIND YOUR

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AND ADVANCE YOUR CAREER article by Laura W. Clark

he story of the 1912 Titanic ship—a beautiful ocean vessel that ended in tragedy—fascinated me when I was 14. I was horrified to learn that people had been mostly saved according to their social class. So, when my school’s English speech instructor asked us to choose a topic we cared about, my selection was easy. I conducted research, created note cards, and practiced my speech for weeks. However, when it was my turn to speak, I walked slowly to the front of the classroom. That walk seemed to take an hour; my hands became clammy, my knees grew weak, and my mouth felt suddenly dry. I do not remember anything I said. I do remember feeling terrified. Never wanting to feel that way again, I forced myself to try other public speaking opportunities, and when my dad encouraged me to briefly address our congregation about my church camp counselor experiences in the Black Hills, I reluctantly accepted. I eventually joined my high school’s oral interpretation team, which meant public speaking in a competition format. Oral interpretation mostly consisted of reciting memorized content, so that somehow seemed less daunting. While I still didn’t enjoy public speaking, each time grew a little easier. Fast forward to 2005, when I became the University of Louisiana at Monroe’s media relations director and quickly realized I preferred to place others in front of the media cameras. Lisa Miller, one of ULM’s top administrators, astounded me. No matter the topic, when the camera focused on her, her excitement was contagious, and so she instantly captivated her audience. Inspired by her, and wanting to improve my speaking abilities, I began researching various techniques to calm my nerves. Now, I share what I have learned with university students enrolled in eULM’s public speaking course, and I also discuss effective speaking techniques with my business clients. Overall, fear of public speaking is America’s biggest phobia—25.3 percent say they fear speaking in front of crowds, according to a recent study published in the Washington Post. This dread outranks fear of surgery, drowning, and a myriad of other potentially life-threatening situations. But, why? When confronted with a threat, such as the thought of speaking poorly in front of a crowd, our bodies assume a fight or flight mode. We experience heart palpitations and other physical responses to our brain’s perceived threats. And, the threat feels very real. We worry about damaging our credibility and our image. When we are anxious, it is difficult to speak with confidence, and we begin 34 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

to associate public speaking with fear. Eventually, this fear prevents us from seizing public speaking opportunities—opportunities that could advance our careers. So, I offer these few tips for a successful speech: 1. Think about a successful one-on-one conversation you have exchanged with a colleague. While your audience only consisted of one, you clearly communicated your ideas aloud, proving that you are capable of doing so. 2. If you are asked to speak about a broad topic, narrow your message to something you feel passionately about. For example, if you are asked to speak about education, speak specifically about why education matters to you and how it has impacted your life. Your audience will connect with your message if they realize your connection. 3. Share anecdotes and keep statistics to a minimum. Scientists have analyzed brain activity in response to hearing stories versus hearing statistics. MRIs reveal the brain lights up when absorbing a riveting story. Conversely, interest wanes when the brain receives facts and figures. 4. Present a new idea. Our brains are wired to ignore cliché’s and common knowledge. Instead, we desire new information. Your idea does not have to be ground-breaking, but if it is novel in some interesting ways, you will keep your audience’s attention. 5. Practice. This can’t be stressed enough. The more we rehearse our speeches, the more comfortable we become with public speaking. Record yourself on your phone and watch the playback. Listen for filler words such as “um” and look for any physical fidgeting. 6. Before speaking, practice breathing techniques and assume the “power pose,” coined by Amy Cuddy in her now-famous TED Talk. These physical practices will calm your body before presentations. Most of all, it is important to remind yourself that you are knowledgeable and possess something important to contribute. A public speech is much like any other human interaction—it’s about human connection. If you are passionate about your topic and share your passions in a personal way, you will captivate your audience. Laura W. Clark, owner of Vivian’s Voice, LLC, a communications consulting company, can be reached at findyours@viviansvoice.com

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The Suit Scoop

A suit reflects a man’s style and his wedding is the epitome of that. Notches, buttons, lapels… All of the suit terminology can be confusing and overwhelming so we went to our resident suit expert, Ron Alexander of Ron Alexander Clothiers for Men, to get the scoop on all things suit! Narrow Notch Lapel

Shawl Lapel

Standard Notch Lapel

Standard Peak Lapel

Wide Notch Lapel

THREE TYPES OF LAPEL NOTCH

LAPEL The top of the lapel and the bottom of the collar meets in a notch. This is the most common type of lapel and suit a single breasted jacket.

PEAK LAPEL Has strong edges pointed toward the shoulders, and is more formal and always found on double breasted jackets. Peak with notch can be worn anytime.

SINGLE BREASTED VS. DOUBLE BREASTED

A single breasted jacket has two halves that button together at the front. A double breasted jacket has extra fabric that folds over from left to right.

SUIT JACKET BUTTONS ONE BUTTON SINGLE BREASTED SUIT JACKET Generally on a tuxedo and worn to black tie events TWO BUTTON SINGLE BREASTED SUIT JACKET Very classic and fits most body types, great for both social and business events. 36 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

SHAWL LAPEL This collar has a continuous curve without a break and are only seen on tuxedos and worn at black tie events. Shawl is considered formal wear- black tuxedo or white dinner jacket. Peak vs. Notch is personal preference Suits pictured available at Ron Alexander Clothiers for Men Illustration by Meagan Russell

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Photographer Creates Tangible Memories For Her Clients FROM WEDDINGS TO BABIES TO GRADUATING HIGH SCHOOL SENIORS, NORTHEAST LOUISIANA PHOTOGRAPHER MARY DAWSON CONTINUES TO CAPTURE POIGNANT MOMENTS BY L AU RA W C L A RK P HOTO G RA PH Y BY K E L LY M O O RE CLAR K hen newly-purchased, expensive lighting equipment crashed to the ground during a photo shoot, photographer Mary Dawson’s composure never wavered. In that moment, Tracy Ledford, Mary’s assistant and lifelong friend, treasured her colleague’s ability to simply “keep going.” Mary and Tracy had recently attended a photography conference where Mary invested in some high-end lighting. When they returned to Monroe, they decided to use the two new lights, which were on stands with umbrellas. Tracy was overseeing the lights when a gust of wind arose, caught one of the umbrellas, and quickly smashed the light into the cement. “I wanted to scream and cry with everything in me, but not Mary,” Tracy said. “She simply picked up the broken equipment, calmly walked to her car, and returned to the photo shoot with a different technique. That photo shoot ended up being one of the most beautiful ever. After we were finished, she looked up at me and said, ‘It happens, and it’s fine. We can always figure it out.’ I remember thinking, ‘How did I ever get so blessed?’ You can be vulnerable with Mary at all times. She is honest, pure, authentic, and always wants to be the best version of herself. She is self-taught and a lifelong learner. If she doesn’t know something, she will immediately say, ‘Let’s figure it out.’ I admire so much about her, but mostly her unending patience.” Mary’s patience and her ability to “keep going” have served her well. The youngest of eight children (including two stepbrothers and two step-sisters), Mary’s sisters said her middle name might as well have been, “Go” because their little sister was always plotting her next move and adapting to new challenges. Mary was only eight years old when her parents divorced in the 1960s, a time when divorce was not as commonplace as it is today. “I remember that time in my life being difficult,” Mary said. “I was standing outside Lakeshore Elementary, waiting for mom to pick me up, and a little girl walked up to me and said, ‘You’re the one living across town with your mom.’ I remember thinking, ‘How does she even know this?’ And the way she said it, I was devastated. However,

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Mary’s passion for photography remains a clear memory for Donna, who said, “She was so enthusiastic—she always wanted to cover the sporting events and club meetings to ensure we had both candid and formal group photos. And she always did a super job because she loved it. She has always been outgoing. I don’t know that Mary has ever met a stranger. Both as a teenager and now, if she sees someone who appears isolated, she will try to include them so they won’t feel alone.” Donna, along with Mary’s English teacher Nelwyn Norwood, instilled in Mary a love for American and British literature. Mary ultimately decided to pursue undergraduate and master’s degrees in English at then -Northeast Louisiana University, now known as the University of Louisiana Monroe. She continued to shoot photographs while in college, photographing her friends in her Kappa Delta sorority. In 1984, Mary moved to Houston, where she taught English to middle school students. It was there that she met student council president Tracy through the school’s secret pal program. Tracy would become her lifelong friend and eventually, her assistant. After a few years, Mary moved back to Monroe where she taught English and history at River Oaks High School and later, Ouachita Christian School, where she also served as the school’s English chairperson.

I was really fortunate because after both of my parents remarried, I had two sets of wonderful parents. Those early challenges, the resilience I learned, and the love I gained from having four parents shaped me into the person I am.” While all of her parents and older siblings influenced her, one of Mary’s biggest influences is her mother, Katie Hart, a strong and determined person. When Mary wasn’t playing baseball and riding bikes with neighborhood kids, or collecting Coke bottles and delivering them to Fontana’s store in exchange for candy, she was with her mother, who worked in a fabric shop. Her mother would tell people that Mary could determine fabric types by the age of five. One of Mary’s earliest memories is watching her mother sit at her sewing machine at home and create cheerleading outfits for local high schools, following a full day at the shop. Mary’s mother eventually opened her own fabric store in Monroe, and she also taught other women to sew. “My mother is quite something. She is sweet, kind, generous, and so talented. I think what I admire the most about her is her strength. I like to think that I inherited her strength, her people skills, and her kindness. Watching her step out on her own and open her own store really inspired me.” Mary would eventually mirror her mother’s entrepreneurial spirit. During Mary’s junior year at River Oaks High School, she gravitated toward art class and the school’s yearbook club. Donna Underwood, the yearbook advisor, “greatly influenced” Mary, who began taking photos for the yearbook. Mary’s dad, Rob Roberson, a WWII veteran and ALM Railroad executive, bought Mary her first camera, and Mary quickly immersed herself in all of her school’s activities, capturing football games, theatre productions, social activities, and more. “I absolutely loved yearbook photography because I got to be involved in so much. I felt like I was contributing in some way.” 40 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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ne evening, Mary found herself, camera in hand, on the football sidelines ones again. Her son Taylor was in sixth grade at Ouachita Christian School when football coach Steven Fitzhugh asked Mary to photograph a football game. Mary accepted, and for the next several years, she continued to take sports photos of her son and his teammates, both from the football sidelines and the baseball dug-out. “It was so unique—being in the dugout while my son played,” she said. “Watching him, I realized what a leader he had become. The entire experience was tremendous, and I loved it.” Then more photography opportunities began to appear. Even though Mary had no formal training, a friend asked her to shoot a wedding. She accepted, and carried one camera with black and white film and a second with color. She remembers the experience as “terrifying, but exhilarating.” A neighbor then asked Mary to photograph her new baby. Photography was quickly becoming a significant part of her life once again, Mary said. “I had to make a choice. I loved my 20 years of teaching, and I loved my students, so it was an agonizing decision. However, photography was pulling me. After a lot of prayer, I took the leap. And after my decision to pursue photography full-time, I felt an overwhelming sense of peace.” She formalized Dawson Photography in 2003, and since that time, has maintained relationships with many of her students, photographing their weddings, their children, and other momentous occasions in their lives. She is often asked about her favorite subject

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to photograph, but she doesn’t have one. She enjoys the excitement of graduating high school seniors, the anticipation exuding from a bride on her wedding day, and the “absolute joy” of documenting new babies. Tracy, who works remotely from Houston and helps Mary edit her photographs, said Mary is meticulous about details. Mary becomes emotionally invested in each photo session, which means getting to know everyone she is photographing, including hectic wedding parties. A typical wedding shoot includes an engagement session in which Mary observes how the couple interacts with one another, a bridal session, and then the 8-10 hour “adrenaline rush of capturing the wedding.” “The wedding day is mentally and physically challenging because I am managing all the emotions of the family,” Mary said. “Sometimes, the dynamic includes divorced parents, and I try to learn those kinds of details beforehand. Every member of the bridal party tells me his or her name, and their names stay with me. When you call someone by their name, they are more eager to cooperate. My main job is to ensure the bride stays calm and stress-free while I capture all of those moments that tell the story of her day. I’m very protective of my bride because I do not want her stressed. When you are photographing someone, the more comfortable you can make them feel, the better the images. If someone is trying to create drama or a stressful situation, I try to diffuse it immediately. Ultimately, it’s the couple’s day, and I want them to enjoy it. A wedding is exciting, and I believe it is truly an honor to be a part of that.” Her photography philosophy—whether it’s photographing newborns, weddings, or high school seniors—is to always ensure the

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My main job is to ensure the bride stays calm and stress-free while I capture all of those moments that tell the story of her day. I’m very protective of my bride because I do not want her stressed. When you are photographing someone, the more comfortable you can make them feel, the better the images. If someone is trying to create drama or a stressful situation, I try to diffuse it immediately. Ultimately, it’s the couple’s day, and I want them to enjoy it. A wedding is exciting, and I believe it is truly an honor to be a part of that.

with photographs of her family and her clients. Being surrounded by those images comforts her, she said. One of her favorites is a black and white photograph of her grandfather with his beloved horse. “A photograph is a moment in time. We capture the memories of our lifetime because doing so captures our present, which becomes our past. I’m a big proponent of printed images. I like to hold and touch a photograph instead of searching for it on a screen. For as long as I can remember, even as a child, I have been surrounded by photographs.” A significant portion of Mary’s childhood was spent with fellow Monroe native Dee Ledbetter. The two met at River Oaks High School when was Dee was 15 and Mary was 14. The best friends were referred to as “Mutt and Jeff” because while both were slender children, Dee was tall, and Mary was petite. Dee, who grew up in a home with sisters, was not exposed to a lot of outdoor activities— until she met Mary. The two rode four-wheelers, enjoyed weekend adventures at Lake D’Arbonne where Mary’s family had a house, went mud-hogging, and watched mud races with great delight. Dee describes her lifelong friend as a “little dynamite,” and not simply because of Mary’s size. “Mary has always been happy and full of fun. When we are together, we are always laughing. And, we have great conversations. Mary and I instantly connected because we have always had so much fun together. Our history anchors our friendship. I can always depend on her. If I called her in the middle of the night and needed something, I have no doubt she would rush to help me. That’s the kind of friend and person she is.” When Dee’s daughter attended Ouachita Christian School, Mary was still teaching. Dee quickly recognized her childhood friend whom she loved so much. “When I would watch Mary with her students, it struck me just how much they adored her. She is inherently fun, so she made teaching interesting. She still says connected with many of those former students. She really cares deeply about people. I love that about her,” Dee said. “I don’t know anybody who doesn’t love Mary; she is always happy for other people, and I treasure that because that’s what the world should be about.” Mary, who has photographed Dee’s family several times, will photograph the upcoming wedding of Dee’s daughter. Dee has watched Mary capture several weddings, and she is always left with one thought: “When Mary leaves a wedding, she leaves as more than a photographer, but also as a friend. She is very relational in everything she does.” Another of Mary’s lasting friendships is one she shares with her former high school yearbook advisor, Donna. Donna, who is now the executive director of Monroe’s QuesTECH Learning, wrote a book, “Quest for Success,” which is a series of stories about students who despite their learning challenges, all possessed the potential to be successful. Mary took portraits of each student for the project produced 10 years ago. “She has always supported my passions,” Donna said. “What I love about Mary is that she is the type of friend that you may not see for a month or more, but you know that she’s always there, and that she will do anything for you with a moment’s notice. That’s a lifelong friend. I was her teacher and mentor, and then we continued to share life experiences, such as childbirth and many of life’s other moments. My wish is that other students and teachers enjoy that kind of lasting friendship.” True to Mary’s “keep going” philosophy, she has other dreams in mind. “I started drawing in high school. I love to draw using pen and ink. I enjoy acrylic and oil painting, mostly of landscapes. While I don’t currently have enough time to paint, I plan to make time eventually. Right now, I’m content with my camera in my hand.” WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 43

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B&L Marine Offers Everything You Need for Summer Fun

OR SOME, SUMMER IS THE BEST time of year. The smell of sunscreen, fresh watermelons, poolside soaking and boat riding. The summer sun warming our spirits and getting everyone in the mood to get up, get outside and get on the water. One way to make this a summer to remember is finally getting yourself the boat you have been wanting for years. Whether it be a boat for water sports, fishing or both, B&L Marine in Monroe is here to help and get you started. For 45 years, B&L Marine has been family-owned and operated and conveniently located in the Lakeshore area of Monroe. Bill and Hazel Buckley started the dealership in 1973. In 1985, their son-in-law, Pat McDonald came to the dealership and started working his way up. He purchased the dealership in 1997 from Bill and Hazel and continues to run it today with the help of his son, Nick McDonald. The family is deeply rooted in the Lakeshore and Swartz area and continue to support the community which has come to know B&L Marine as a local landmark. Bill and Hazel’s goal was to make B&L Marine the best choice and a one-stop dealership for your sales, service and on the water fun. They continue that philosophy today with great customer service, the best products and the ability to handle any boating need that you may have. From fishing boats to ski boats, B&L has you covered. They pride themselves on having the best name brands and the most

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selection in all types of boats and equipment. Stop by their showroom and see what all they have to offer. Their knowledgeable staff is ready to help you make your decision. Their Xpress and Crestliner boats are all aluminum, with no wood, all welded, and both offer a lifetime weld warranty on their boats. Xpress is a name that has been around for a long time and has a reputation for being the best high performance aluminum boat on the market. Xpress can be stacked up against any other tournament bass boat on the market and usually for less money with more durability. Veranda Pontoons are a luxury pontoon and are a step above other pontoons on the market. Their patented aluminum interlocking deck allows the entire boat to be built without wood. That means Verandas are built to last a lifetime. The Relax series is the most economical way to get on the water in style. They are available in twin toon and triple toon versions and multiple interior formats. The VP and Vertex series are the best of the best in luxury and durability. From the plush interior and cooled cup holders, to the touch screen dash and reliable Yamaha V-MAX SHO outboard, you can’t go wrong with a Veranda Pontoon. Like a little adrenaline in your system? Then check out the new Moomba Tow-boat lineup. Moomba is the only true value brand in the inboard ski boat market, but don’t let that fool you. Moombas are consistently

some of the best looking and well optioned ski boats on the water. Whether you enjoy wakeboarding, surfing, skiing or tubing, Moomba will get you on the water without breaking the budget. Already have a boat? Before you hit the water this summer, make sure your boat is in tip top shape. B&L Marine provides boating services and the best quality parts. Bring your boat by and have it serviced now before it’s time to push off. They have a wide array of Slingshot and Hyperlite wakeboards and bindings. Nick, their watersports know it all, will have you out on the water in the best gear on the market at internet prices. They carry the ropes, lifevests, and other accessories needed to wakeboard. They also carry a large inventory of kneeboards, skis, and tubes from HO Sports. They offer a variety of marine products, and their selection of high quality boats is second to none. B&L Marine prides itself on having the friendliest and most knowledgeable staff in Northeast Louisiana. It is their goal to help our customers find the perfect boat to fit their lifestyle, along with the right parts and accessories to truly keep you on the water! B&L Marine 110 Old Bastrop Rd | Monroe, LA 71203 bandlmarine.com (318) 343-1250

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Haik Humble Eye Center Advancing the Art of Cataract Surgery with Breakthrough Technology

AIK HUMBLE EYE CENTER ophthalmologists are among the first in Northeast Louisiana to implement one of the most important cataract surgery innovations in recent history. The practice now offers patients the benefits of laser cataract surgery with the LenSx Laser. For more than a decade, femtosecond lasers have helped surgeons perform LASIK with unparalleled precision and accuracy. Now the LenSx Laser brings advanced accuracy and reproducibility to cataract surgery. Laser cataract surgery with the LenSx Laser is now available with Haik Humble Eye Center’s team of ophthalmologists that includes Dr. Thomas Parker, Dr. Baron Williamson, and Dr. Drew Thomas. WHAT IS A CATARACT? If you or someone you care for has been diagnosed with cataracts, you’re certainly not alone – cataracts are a natural part of the aging process, and they affect more than 20.5 million Americans over age 40. You’ve likely noticed that the cloudy vision caused by cataracts can affect your ability to enjoy activities like knitting, playing cards, watching TV, reading and golfing. A cataract occurs when the natural lens in your eye becomes cloudy, making it harder for light to enter your eye. Cataracts typically occur naturally as you age, and they often cause blurry vision, glare and rings of light known as halos—sometimes at night and while driving. WHAT IS CATARACT SURGERY? Thanks to innovative medical advances, cataract surgery is a common outpatient procedure. That means millions of patients just like you are getting back to their favorite activities every year. The goal of the operation

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is to break the cloudy cataract-affected lens into easily removable pieces, remove those pieces and insert an artificial intraocular lens (IOL) in place of the natural lens. Traditionally, surgeons accomplished this by making tiny incisions in the eye using a surgical knife. Today, patients have a choice: There’s manual surgery, and there are also bladeless procedures assisted by advanced laser technology. The LenSx Laser offers image guidance for predictability and enhanced precision. WHAT IS THE LENSX LASER? The LenSx Laser is the most technologically advanced procedure for laser cataract surgery. Designed to assist surgeons in the most difficult parts of cataract surgery, the LenSx Laser increases precision and predictability – and helps deliver better results. While our eyes all share the same basic anatomy, your eyes are totally unique when it comes to their size, depth, curvature and other key features. The advanced technology behind the LenSx Laser captures highresolution images of your eyes. These images yield precise measurements and data that help your surgeon plan and perform a procedure to exacting specifications – completely customized for each of your eyes. ADVANCING CATARACT SURGERY The LenSx Laser provides patients with computer-controlled precision as it automates some of the most challenging steps of cataract surgery. With laser cataract surgery, many of the steps that are currently performed manually by hand are now performed with the precision of a laser. Computer generated images of your eye allow your surgeon to customize the cataract procedure to your exact

individualized specifications, not attainable with traditional cataract surgery methods. The LenSx Laser is an advanced technology because it’s designed to offer: • A bladeless procedure that’s personalized to your eyes • Precise, reproducible performance • Enhanced control and efficiency • A customized procedure planned and performed for you by your surgeon. ADVANCED TECHNOLOGY LENSES Just as you can opt for laser-assisted cataract surgery, you can also choose the type of IOL that’s placed in your eye. If you’ve suffered from astigmatism all your life, a toric IOL may be the option for you. Toric IOLs are designed to counteract your astigmatism while treating your cataract. That could mean relief from glasses and contact lenses for certain activities. If you’ve been diagnosed with presbyopia, a multifocal IOL might be what you’re looking for. Presbyopia is a natural part of aging, and can force you to depend on reading glasses. Multifocal IOLs are designed to treat your cataract while helping you see better at near and intermediate distances. IT’S YOUR TREATMENT, AND YOUR CHOICE The LenSx Laser is a great cataract surgical option for many patients, but it may not be the right fit for everyone. When it comes time for your eye care doctor to recommend treatment and replacement lens options, your eye doctor will consider a variety of factors, as well as your lifestyle and hobbies. If you would like to find out more about cataract surgery options, please contact Haik Humble Eye Center at (318) 325-2610 or visit haikhumble.com.

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WE LCO ME GIFTS Offer your out-of-town wedding party the ultimate thank you with a customized breakfast box. Wrap up sweet treats like these blueberry and strawberry gluten-free pastries from Butter Bakery, assorted homemade mini muffins from Miss Kayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Sweets & Eats, and a delicious granola and berry yogurt from The Good Earth Juice & Salad Bar. Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

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ALVIN KAMARA RECEIVES KEY TO THE CITY At the Spartan Adventure Park grand opening, Major Jamie Mayo presented the New Orleans Saints running back, Alvin Kamara, with a key to the city. The Major thanked him for coming to Monroe and attending the event. Kamara also stayed to take pictures with guests. The grand opening was held at Spartan Adventure Park on Friday, May 17th in the Twin City Shopping Center.

The Louisiana Economic Development (LED) and the U.S. Small Business Administration recently announced the 2019 Louisiana Small Business Award winners at an event recognizing small business leaders who exemplify the entrepreneurial spirit of Louisiana. Two local businesses were among those recognized at a private reception at the Governor’s Mansion. Keisha Bell-Celestand was awarded the Women in Business Champion award. Celestand runs A Place for Her Counseling Center, providing girls and young ladies with outpatient mental health services designed to foster clients to live successful within their communities. Matt and Michelle Rainwater were awarded the Green and Sustainable Award for their business, Sanican, providing mobile and exterior residential and commercial cleaning service, using a state of the art system that cleans and sanitizes.

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CHICKEN SALAD CHICK CELEBRATES ANNIVERSARY On April 25, 2019, Chicken Salad Chick celebrated one full year of serving the south’s best chicken salad. They had a bash booth with crazy props for people to take pictures, a DJ playing music, and Small Cakes cupcakes were given out. This day was full of great prizes and fun and it was definitely a day to remember!

THE FANCY FOX FIRST YEAR CELEBRATION To celebrate their first year of business, The Fancy Fox had a giant Mother’s Day sale! Lemonade, cookies and mini cupcakes were served as guests were invited to shop. For the entire Mother’s Day weekend there was a 20% discount store wide. The Fancy Fox would like to thank the community for their continued support and everyone that helped celebrate their first year of business.

MR. P’S TEES & ORIGIN BANK PARTNERED TO RAISE MONEY FOR BOLEY ELEMENTARY Local t-shirt company, Mr. P’s Tees, recently held a fundraiser for Boley Elementary. The West Monroe elementary school was destroyed in a fire, resulting in a total loss. Owners Brent and Lissy Compton have created t-shirts that give back to local non-profit organizations and relief efforts. Lissy is a local art teacher herself so wanted to give back to the teachers that lost everything. She created a shirt that paid homage to the Boley mascot and proceeds from the sale of the shirt went to teachers at Boley Elementary. Origin Bank partnered with them and doubled the amount of the donation. Together, they donated over $11,000! 50 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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Celebrate with The Paper Market Local Shop Carries Decor, Party Supplies, Invitations and More!

ROM THE MOMENT SOMEONE POPS THE BIG QUESTION, The Paper Market has everything you need to celebrate. Located in Monroe near the corner of Forsythe Avenue and North 18th Street, the locally owned paper and party supply store has it all for the happy couple at every stage - from engagement to walking down the aisle. To cheers to the recently engaged couple, they offer a variety of fun accessories to decorate for an engagement party. From “She Said Yes!” banners to diamond ring party decor, you can find everything you need for a casual celebratory get together to an elegant affair. The Paper Market even carries some engagement “happies” like wine glasses, mugs and napkins that are perfect gifts to give to a recently engaged couple. The Paper Market also carries tasteful bachelorette party decor and accessories. Whether you are heading to the beach with your “Bride Tribe” or just going out to dinner with your “I Do Crew,” there are options for napkins, plates, necklaces and fun games to play. “One of our most popular items is our custom styrofoam cups,” said Amy Robinson, owner of The Paper Market. “They are a fun way to personalize the night and even add a monogram or wedding hashtag.” Balloons are always a favorite with bachelorette parties and The Paper Market has a wide selection. They even have small letter balloons where you can make your own personalized bachelorette banner. Another way to add some fun to the evening is with photo props. These are a cute way to mix it up with selfies and photos. There won’t be a wedding without a season of showers leading up to it. The Paper Market is known for their wall of solid color options for tablecloths, napkins, plates and utensils. These are an easy way to match any theme, plus they make for easy clean up. The Paper Market also carries an extensive line of premium clear plastic plates, utensils, tumblers and wine glasses if you wanted something a step up from paper. If you are looking for a particular theme, The Paper Market has plenty to choose from. “The luau is always a popular theme for a backyard couples shower and we have leis, grass skirts and tiki items,” said Amy. “Flamingo is also fun for a bridal shower and we have lots of cute options for that as well.” Even if you don’t have a theme, The Paper Market carries items such as

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chalkboard signs and kraft paper decor that are classics for any type of shower. And you can’t have a party, shower or wedding without an invitation. The Paper Market has seasoned professionals that can help walk you through selecting an entire invitation suite, from save the date cards to monogrammed thank you notes. You can browse through their selection in the store and view the options in person. “We have everything from affordable, casual cardstock options to letterpress and 100% cotton options,” said Amy. “And if you can’t come in the store or would like to browse from home, you can order from our website.” Their website has many of their options, and can ship straight to your house with a quick turnaround time. This is a great way to shop online, while still shopping local. As the big day approaches, there are always last minute items to pick up, DIY projects to complete and favors to prepare. The Paper Market carries a full line of kraft gift bags, cellophane bags, tissue, shredded paper and boxes. These are perfect for out-of-town wedding guests gift bags, favors, thank you gifts and more. You’ve got to thank the girls that will stand beside you on the big day and The Paper Market has several options when it comes to bridesmaid gifts. “Some ideas include clear acrylic wineglasses, cups, bags and pouches,” said Amy. From parties, showers and weddings, the trend of the year is balloon garland. This is a group of latex balloons of various sizes and colors attached together to complete a impactful look for photo backdrops, reception spaces and more. The Paper Market even carries a secret weapon when it comes to creating these - a clear plastic strip that you attach each balloon to in the evenly spaced holes, keeping the garland together. They can even build on-site or deliver a balloon garland to your special event. If you are recently engaged, the mother of the bride planning a wedding or hosting an upcoming shower, The Paper Market has everything you need to celebrate the big day!

The Latest Installment of Budweiser Reserve Collection: Budweiser Discovery Reserve American Red Lager

BOUT 3 WEEKS AGO, MARSALA Beverage released the new Budweiser Discovery Reserve American Red Lager to Northeast Louisiana. Discovery Reserve is a limited-edition beer brewed to celebrate the 50th anniversary of the Moon landing and the determination of the American spirit. Inspired by an archival Budweiser recipe from the time of the Apollo Moon missions, Discovery Reserve is brewed with medium-roast Voyager barley malt and features a light hoppy aroma, a toasted barley malt taste with a hint of toffee and a sharp finish. Discovery Reserve is brewed by Karissa Norrington, a Budweiser brewmaster and former U.S. Air Force Captain. “This Bud’s for those who challenged the odds and made the impossible, possible,” said Ricardo Marques, VP of Marketing Core & Value Brands at Anheuser-Busch. “Budweiser Discovery Reserve is our tribute to this epic moment in history, one that will certainly continue to inspire generations of present and future explorers.” Budweiser Discovery Reserve not only commemorates the pioneering American spirit that brought us to the Moon, it also recognizes future frontiers and is a nod to the United States Air Force, which worked in great partnership with the space program of the 1960s. For the eighth consecutive year, Budweiser is partnering with Folds of Honor to support those who serve. For every case of Budweiser Discovery Reserve sold, Budweiser will donate $1 to the Folds of Honor Foundation. Since 2011, Budweiser and its partners have donated nearly $16 million toward educational 54 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

scholarships, amounting to more than three thousand scholarships for military families across the country. “I salute Budweiser and their life-changing donations and continued commitment to Folds of Honor over the last eight years,” said Major Dan Rooney, founder and CEO of Folds of Honor. “We are proud to stand with them as they release Discovery Reserve, further illustrating their commitment to our armed forces.” The design of Budweiser Discovery Reserve is inspired by the past while recognizing the future; the 11 stars represent the Apollo 11 mission and the alternating bottle caps represent both our footsteps on the Moon and our next frontier, Mars. The historic Anheuser-Busch A & Eagle has also been updated to reflect the red planet with the Earth in the background. Finally, each bottle features wings and stars inspired by the original Budweiser cans. Budweiser Discovery Reserve is the newest addition to the popular Reserve Collection, preceded by Budweiser Reserve Copper Lager – the most successful Reserve Collection variant to date – Budweiser Freedom Reserve and Budweiser Repeal Reserve. Launched in September 2017, Budweiser’s Reserve Collection was first created to develop and debut new recipes and packaging tied to premium and relevant moments in time. The Reserve Collection has seen strong performance since launch; it is a top 10 market share gainer and shows a positive halo effect back to core Budweiser, helping drive total

Budweiser brand quality perception. ABOUT BUDWEISER Budweiser, an American-style lager, was introduced in 1876 when company founder Adolphus Busch set out to create the United States’ first truly national beer brand – brewed to be universally popular and transcend regional tastes. Each batch of Budweiser stays true to the same family recipe used by five generations of Busch family brewmasters. Budweiser is a medium-bodied, flavorful, crisp and pure beer with blended layers of premium American and European hop aromas, brewed for the perfect balance of flavor and refreshment. Budweiser is made using timehonored methods including “kraeusening” for natural carbonation and Beechwood aging, which results in unparalleled balance and character. Locally, Marsala Beverage employs about 100 full-time employees. Marsala Beverage, LP is the largest malt beverage, wine/spirits and non-alcoholic distributor in Northeast Louisiana. Their success is based on the fact that they never lose sight of delivering what is really important – quality products, timely service and a genuine concern for our customers’ needs. Annually, they deliver over 2.4 million cases of beverages to over 700 retail accounts. Please find us at www.marsalabeverage. com or follow us on social media: Facebook: Marsala Beverage Twitter: @marsalabeverage1 Instagram: @marsalabeverage

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The Perfect Match Celebrate the most romantic day of your life with beautiful baubles from area jewelers. Model: Anna Kirsksey Hair and Makeup by Meka Bennett Photography by Kelly Moore Clark Wedding dresses available at Magnolia MariĂŠe

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Complete your wedding look with these stackable 14k and diamond bracelets by VAHAN. A delicate .53 carat diamond bangle bracelet is worn on the right hand, along with a 1.37 carat diamond dinner ring. The engagement ring is 18k with a 3.07 carat diamond center stone. Anna looks gorgeous in this 14k diamond pendant necklace and chic diamond earrings.

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This collection of beautiful wedding baubles features a pear shape, rose cut diamond ring in 18k yellow gold. On her left arm is an 18k rose gold bracelet with 1.83 carat white and champagne diamonds. On the right arm she wears three bracelets with 18k rose gold and pavĂŠ diamonds. The necklace is 18k yellow gold and 3.16 carat briolette diamonds on an adjustable chain. The look is complete with 18k white and yellow gold and .58 carat rose cut diamonds, and a pearl and rhinestone headpiece.

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Anna looks radiant in this white gold and diamond necklace with pear-shaped Tanzinite center stone. A strand of 8.5-9mm gray akoya pearls is layered around her neck. She wears 1.95 carat diamond stud earrings set in a cocktail setting. On her left hand is a 14k white gold and 18k yellow gold, handmade engagement rin with a .75 carat oval diamond with diamond halo and a beautiful pavĂŠ gallery. On her right hand is a 1 carat diamond band set in platinum, and around her wrist is a white gold art deco bracelet featuring sapphires and 4.5 carat diamonds

Rolling on the River Cedar Creek’s Annual Spring Fundraiser

OLLING ON THE RIVER WAS THE THEME FOR Celebration 2019, Cedar Creek School’s annual spring fundraiser. Attendees were greeted by Cedar Creek alumni and event cochairs, Joanna and Bart Dugdale and Larkin and Ben Haddox as they entered the Ruston Civic Center on April 6th. The Rolling on the River inspired decor was cheerful and relaxed, of course the attire was casual. The sold-out crowd enjoyed live music provided by the amazing DJ – D Smooth throughout the evening. Bart Dugdale provided opening remarks celebrating his experience as a CC student and thanked the guests for their presence and support. He shared his gratitude for the quality education that he received and his appreciation for the wonderful opportunities that his children continue to have as Cedar Creek students. Cedar Creek parents, grandparents, faculty, alumni and friends enjoyed beverages from the Twin Cities Tavern while they visited the Captain’s Table Cook-Off to sample appetizers prepared by our Celebration cook-off teams. The delicacies included everything from jambalaya to fried Oreos and the competition was fierce. Congratulations to Jacob Landry and Jacob Simmons of The Smokin’ Dad’s cook-off team for winning first place in this year’s competition. Patrons perused the silent auction that offered an array of packages that included everything from spa days to cowboy boots along with romantic getaways and original art from area artists. Guests placed their competitive bids on over seventy packages. Auction Chair, Emily Pullin stated “we are extremely grateful for the generosity of our local art community and our area merchants for their ongoing support of this annual event.” Attendees moved about the Civic Center to visit Rolling Down the River themed food stations. This year’s event was catered by BBQ West, Crumb’s Catering, Ponchatoulas, Portico and Uptown Downtown all offering exceptional service and outstanding menus. Rolling on the River favorites included gumbo, meat pies, tacos, shrimp and grits, fried green tomatoes, BBQ sliders and a variety of desserts. Dinner was followed by the Big Wheel live auction that included class projects, a Limousine’s Unlimited night on the town and a hunting trip to name just a few. Event co-chairs Joanna Dugdale and Larkin Haddox shared the stage and provided descriptions of each auction item as it went up for bid. Auctioneer Ben Dance rallied the crowd as bidding went through the roof on a chartered flight for six and an

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amazing Meredith Pardue signed print, titled Carribea IV. Mikie Pearce, Ron Barron and Mandy Bush assisted with the live auction and were extremely pleased and grateful for the generosity of the guests. At the close of the live auction, event co-chair Ben Haddox encouraged guests to Keep the Big Wheel Turning with an opportunity for each of them to donate to the school’s ongoing facility improvement plan. He shared his passion for the school as a student, graduate, teacher, coach and current Dean of Students and expressed the importance of continuing to invest your time, talent and resources in the school. At the conclusion of his speech, parents, grandparents and friends of the Cedar Creek community “kept the big wheel turning” as they made donations dedicated to the final phase of our campus wide renovation plan. The plan includes improvements to the Library and existing Gymnasium. Exterior renovations include new siding, windows, doors and extension of the updated awning system. Bathroom and dressing room facilities will be updated, and the library will receive new furnishings. These much-needed improvements will greatly enhance our academic and athletic facilities. Celebration 2019 concluded with a drawing for the Fire and Ice Raffle package that included diamond hoop earrings along with a Big Green Egg. Former Celebration Chairperson, Alice Byrnes was thrilled when her name was drawn as this year’s raffle winner. Special thanks to National Jewelry and Hodge Bank and Trust for sponsoring the raffle again this year. The grand finale of the evening was a drawing for one year of Cedar Creek tuition. Cedar Creek grandparent, John Barnett was delighted when Andrew Yepson, Head of School drew his name and awarded him the prize for his grandchild’s tuition for the upcoming school year. Mr. Yepson expressed his appreciation for the generosity of the Cedar Creek community, “Each year, I am overwhelmed by our families and friends that continue to support this event. Their enthusiasm and generosity have provided Cedar Creek with the resources to complete numerous campus wide renovation projects.” The Cedar Creek community appreciates the generous support of our sponsors, merchants, parents, grandparents, alumni and friends that made Rolling on the River a success. Thank You! To learn more about Cedar Creek School please visit our website www.cedarcreekschool.org or contact Cedar Creek School. 318.255.7707.

Louisiana-Style Sanctuary Constructed by Jonathan Hill

N AUGUST 2017, RETIREES DAVID AND LISA TRUSSELL embarked on an eight month journey that would culminate in the completion of their Louisiana-style home, distinguished by a brick-laid front porch and white columns. In their sixties, the Trussells wanted to fill their life with the joys reaped from the seeds they had sown. Their one-floor sanctuary was diligently crafted to suit their easy going lifestyle and to welcome their adult children, five grandchildren, and Lisa’s eighty-seven year old mother. Turning to Jonathan Hill Construction, they found a team that attentively built for their needs and desires, all while maintaining a refreshing level of decorum often neglected in the bustle of a construction project. “My husband’s concerns were staying within a budget,” Lisa informs with a snicker, adding, “I think most men are concerned about that.” She stresses that one of Jonathan’s many strengths was staying within budget as well as keeping consistent communication. The couple never questioned whether they were over or under their planned financial mark. In fact, Lisa reports that after construction they were just under budget. From the couple’s first visit with Jonathan, they felt that he knew the dynamics of what they needed as retirees, especially needs that will be relevant ten years “down the road.” Downsizing was the Trussells’ initial motivation to build. They wanted to keep the furniture from their former home, so Jonathan’s job essentially became helping them design a floor plan that was livable. Lisa anticipated getting overwhelmed with choices, but Jonathan, with a proclivity for design, narrowed options down by offering three selections, simplifying the process for her. “We are take-your-shoesoff kind of people,” says Lisa. Jonathan, in-tune with his clients’ personality, built a comfort-centered and causal space where they would feel comfortable with their family and entertaining friends. There’s a wisdom in the way that Jonathan listens, says Lisa, which his team also reflects. Jonathan Hill Construction is a quality company because of the people Jonathan surrounds himself with, adds Lisa. The trust she had in his team is paramount to her recommendation. She often tells people that you can give Jonathan your floor plans and all 60 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

the details you want, leave the country, and return to a home that is exactly right. Lisa’s favorite room in the house is the kitchen, mainly because most of their entertainment revolves around food. From the kitchen counter backsplash to lantern-style gas lights, she credits Jonathan for helping her select creative room accents that helped maintain an inviting mood. David’s preferred hangout became the outside living area. There, Jonathan installed retractable screens, allowing them to have airflow and a fireplace. “We live there most of the year!” exclaims Lisa. The complexities of the building process are staggering, but Jonathan’s team is prepared to guide you through the nooks and crannies of an ultimately worthwhile experience. The Jonathan Hill Construction assurance is three-tiered. Their “eye for design” marries the structural details of constructing a home with a passion for design. Going “the extra mile” means that they are willing to create design selections for their clients and work alongside them from preparation to completion. Staying up to date on the latest trends, current laws, and state of the art technology is their “homework” to constantly better aid their customers to make informed decisions on everything from paint colors and light fixtures to appropriately sized air conditioning system. While Jonathan Hill Construction cannot “guarantee a perfect experience or a flawless home,” they profess their desire to give their clients both. The company’s goal is clear: to exceed customer expectation in quality and customer service. Visit www.jhillconstruction.com to learn about the different styles and sizes of homes that fit a wide-range of budgets. The overwhelming list of testimonials on their page show a succession of accolades describing satisfaction with Jonathan’s team, appreciation of a smooth experience, and gratitude for an outstanding finished product—custom homes for custom lives. Clearly, the Trussells’ experience with Jonathan Hill Construction is just one among many that amplify Jonathan’s ability to breathe life into your plans.

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Mexican Wedding Cookies Ingredients: 1 1/2c butter (room temperature) 3 c powdered sugar (3/4c for batter, rest dredging) 3 tsp. vanilla extract 3 c all-purpose flour 1/2 tsp. salt (divided) 1/2 c toasted pecans finely chopped

Preheat oven to 350. Place 1 1/2 cup butter, 3/4 cup powdered sugar and 3 tsp vanilla in large mixing bowl. Stir vigorously or beat with an electric mixer at medium speed until completely combined. In separate bowl, combine 3 cups all-purpose flour and 1/4 tsp. salt. Add flour to butter about 1/2 cup at a time, beating well after each addition. Fold in 1/2 cup nuts (toasted and finely chopped) Take small amount of dough and roll into 1 or 2 inch ball. Place on lightly greased cookie sheet about 2 inches apart. Bake for about 15 minutes at 350Âş. Mix 3/4 cup powdered sugar and 1/4 tsp salt. After taking cookies out of oven roll in powdered sugar. Place on rack to cool. If desired, roll cookies in sugar again once they have cooled completely.

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I REMEMBER my first visit to the City of Light a r t i cl e by PAUL L I PE

I REMEMBER my first visit to Paris and my initial glimpse of Notre but I do have some ideas relative to what some of them must have Dame. I was duly impressed with the Eiffel Tower, the Arc de experienced. Maybe we can profit from an examination of what surely Triumph, Sacre Coeur, the Champs Elysees, the Louvre, and numerous must have gone through some of their minds. First, most of them who began the work had to be aware that other beautiful sights in the City of Light, but none of them caught my imagination like the magnificent Cathedral of Notre Dame. So the construction, which took about two centuries of effort, was going perhaps you can understand something of the sadness that swept over to continue long after they died – what they were building was me when the news flash appeared on my computer screen announcing something from which they personally would not benefit. Knowing that this world-famous edifice was on fire. It was almost inconceivable that they would not be around to see the finished product, why did that this structure which had stood for over 800 years was threatened they persevere in their endeavors? I am convinced that some of them were committed to doing their best as an offering to God and as an with destruction. To say that Notre Dame was popular with tourists would be an attempt to contribute what they could to the good of future generations understatement – reports are that an average of 30,000 visitors, every of believers. In this group of workers, some would exert themselves out of fear of displeasing God, but day, passed through the doors of this I’m sure that others were laboring out historic church. That would qualify of a love for God Who had provided it as one of the most, if not the mostredemption for them and out of awe visited tourist attraction on this earth. for this Almighty One. Their’s was a Those who have had the opportunity labor of devotion to God. We might to visit this extraordinary church do well to have a similar motivation understand why it is so popular - it is for our actions and for those causes truly spectacular, and its long history we promote – whatever we attempt, is gripping. let us do it for His glory. It seems ironic, then, that this In addition, some of the workers building, which took almost 200 likely were doing their best to produce years to erect and which welcomed a place where future generations worshippers for more than eight might have their worship enhanced centuries, was almost reduced to by the beauty of the sanctuary. They rubble in a matter of a few hours. not only labored for God’s glory but This gives credence to the truth that also for the good of their fellow man. nothing made by man is eternal – “ THIS GIVES CREDENCE TO THE I do not have statistics relative only the eternal God can accomplish to casualties that occurred during that which lasts forever. Nonetheless, TRUTH THAT NOTHING MADE BY construction, but I am confident that, Notre Dame did survive a long time. MAN IS ETERNAL.” due to the nature of the structure, Construction on the cathedral began in 1163, and in 2013 its 850th anniversary was observed – it is over 600 some must have given their lives as the result of accidents associated years older than our nation. Yet it was almost destroyed on that recent with the building of Notre Dame. They braved the risks in order to pursue the goal of erecting the best structure they could which would evening of April 15th. Each time I have visited Notre Dame, I have looked in awe at be used for the worship of the Lord. They were not content to be the beauty of that massive cathedral and have wondered, given the “average” in their work – they gave the maximum for His glory. This tools available in the 12th and 13th centuries, how it was possible to is a commendable attitude for each one of us – to give Him glory as construct such a marvelous building. And I have thought about the we seek to minister to others with our best efforts. May at least some laborers who were engaged in doing the work of producing such a of what we attempt have a lasting effect as we devote ourselves to beautiful place of worship. Please understand that, despite what some the service of others. And may we all be thankful that at least part of of my friends may claim, I was NOT alive at the time Notre Dame Notre Dame still stands as a testimony to the devotion of those who was being built, so I have never actually met any of the workmen, took part in building this beautiful cathedral. 64 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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COC K TA IL H O UR

These three expertly crafted cocktails are sure to liven up cocktail hour. Get in the wedding spirit by combining you favorite libation in a colorful hue that coordinates with your wedding theme. Add fresh flowers, herbals and fruits to spritz up your mixer. Cheers! Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

BLUEBERRY MOJITO Waterfront Grill

Ingredients: 1.5 oz. simple silver rum 1 oz. lime juice 1 oz. simple syrup 8-12 mint leaves 10 blueberries (purée) 6 oz. club soda Muddle mint leaves in mixture of lime juice, rum and simple syrup. Pour in blueberry purée. Top with club soda. Garnish with fresh blueberries and mint leaves.

SUNSET SKIES

adaptation of Stormy Morning St. Germain available at Tonore’s Wine Cellar Ingredients: 1 oz. Créme de Violet 1 oz. St. Germain elderflower liqueur fresh lime juice 4 oz. Champagne splash of tonic blackberries to garnish Pour créme de violet over ice. Add St. Germain and lime juice, top with your choice of Champagne and tonic. Add blackberries and edible flowers to garnish.

STR AWBERRY SANGRIA

Schramsberg Brut Rosé available at Washington Wine & Spirits Ingredients: 1/2 cup simple syrup 1 cup vodka 1 bottle Schramsberg Brut Rosé 15 strawberries (sliced) 1 handful fresh basil seltzer water Mix the ingredients in a large pitcher. Pour into a glass and serve over ice. Add pomegranate seeds as a garnish.

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ROSES AND RHINESTONES There is no doubt that when it comes to creating masterpieces, Thurman Dickey of Thurmanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Food Factory is the king of cakes. This five-tier wedding cake with buttercream icing features hand-piped rosettes with five beautiful handcrafted sugar roses. Accented with rhinestones, this cake is fit for a royal wedding. The bride chose a classic white cake with a touch of almond and vanilla flavoring, cream cheese filling and old-fashioned buttercream icing. Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

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COPPER RUN The creative confectioners at Miss Kay’s Sweets & Treats created a beautiful 2-tier blue and copper wedding cake. For the bride that likes a modern design, this cake combines a traditional white wedding cake with cream cheese on the bottom layer and the groom’s favorite on the top – yellow cake with rich chocolate icing. Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

Everything Artsy Event and Floral Design

O…YOU ARE ENGAGED! IT’S WONDERFUL, EXCITING, exhilarating and then the questions come out of nowhere! When and where are you getting married and what type of wedding are you going to have? As brides begin thinking about their events, they are often confused about how much to spend, where to obtain specialized services, and how to choose vendors. These worries often mount as quickly as the cost of the event. After the excitement wears off and the reality settles in, it’s shocking to discover how much preparation is involved. The average wedding can take more than two hundred and fifty hours to plan. With today’s hectic lifestyles, many brides may not have time to compare all the options, making sure they get the best deal and making sure all the details are in place. This is where a good wedding designer’s number will come in handy. Not long ago, a wedding designer was thought of as a luxury, only used by the wealthy. Now a designer is an essential element of a well-planned affair. Couples are faced with decisions about everything from invitation wording to venue options as well as many other details, both big and small. It’s not surprising that they turn to professional help. Designers are not here to make decisions for you but to guide and assist you in making informed decisions. Their training, knowledge, and experience will turn your dreams and expectations into reality. They want you to host a beautiful and distinctive event with no worries. You should enjoy your wedding and remember it always as one of the greatest events of your life! Being experienced in negotiating contracts with vendors and suppliers, the wedding designer saves you valuable time and money. The designer can take advantage of discounts not available to private parties and avoid costly mistakes while turning your dreams into reality. Tanya Paul is just that person. She is the owner and lead designer of Everything Artsy Events located in Ruston, Louisiana. She graduated from Louisiana Tech with a BFA in Graphic Design and a Master’s Degree in Education. Tanya is a former Art Teacher turned amazing florist, designer and everything a bride needs to make her dream wedding a reality. Upon meeting her you get a true sense of who she is and how she conducts her events. “Tasteful, classy and professional” are just a few of the words used by her

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clients in describing Tanya and her events. She truly treats each event as if it were her own. She loves a challenge and is constantly adding to her collection of events, from trendy to classic, she has you covered in the most stunning, beautiful styles. Her reviews on Facebook and Instagram are filled with amazing photos and designs. Tanya’s background in art combined with her passion for design are the perfect combination for professional event planning. She incorporates custom, one-of-kind pieces of art into her design work such as hand painted aisle runners and unique signage. Tanya has an incredible team of family and friends that work with her “to produce the most dreamy events that one’s imagination can come up with” as quoted by one of her clients. Everything you need for an event is provided by or delivered to Tanya at your venue. No running around town, last minute to rent or return items used in your event. She takes care of everything. As one Father of the Bride was quoted, “The fact that she set up and took down the event was money well spent. We literally only returned the keys to the venue the next day!” In a recent interview with newlyweds, Michael and Ali Garriga, the couple gave us more details about why they chose Everything Artsy. Ali and Michael expressed how incredible it was to be able to walk in before the ceremony started, and get to experience it all, without the stress of doing it themselves. Ali says, “Tanya really listens to what you want, and she gets to know you as a couple so that your wedding décor reflects your vision and personalities. I was never worried about how everything would look because I knew if Tanya and her team were doing it, it would be done 110%. The tiniest of details didn’t go unnoticed.” Tanya has a vast collection of decorating materials and resources on hand for any and every type of event. Her shop is full of antique furniture, chandeliers, unique vases and glassware along with a full range of linen options. Everything Artsy Events has everything needed to create your dream wedding. If Tanya doesn’t already have what you want or need, she will find a way to make it happen. She and her team welcome new ideas and challenges for events and would love the opportunity to work with you!

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BLU S H B L O O M S This simple, chic bouquet is elegantly appointed with with spray roses and garden roses in blush hues, seeded eucalyptus and hypericum berries. A brass vase serves as the perfect vessel for this lovely arrangement by Everything Artsy. Place setting and crystal glasses provided by Muffin Tin.

Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

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CASCADING F LO RALS This elegantly arranged centerpiece cascades over a beautiful gold tone pedestal urn to enhance the most exquisite of venues. Gracefully filling the urn are white hydrangea, Playablanca roses, calla lilies, Queen Anneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s lace, Italian Ruscus, varigated pittosporum, seeded eucalyptus, and Carpe Diem roses. The professionals at Trappings - Home of Ruston Florist willl help design the perfect centerpiece for your once in a lifetime celebration. Linens and table setting availabe at Dansbyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Taylor Rental.

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N ATUR E â&#x20AC;&#x2122;S BO U NT Y A large, natural wood container holds magenta-hued ranunculus, simple carnations, eucalyptus, scabiosa, stock, stunning Quicksand roses and fern plumosa. Perfect for an indoor or outdoor wedding, this arrangement styled by Fine Folks is paired with an elegant table setting from Muffin Tin and linens sourced from Dansbyâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Taylor Rental.

Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

KRESS BUILDING With the help of decorator Taylor Bennett, architect Christie Echols and husband Michael turn a former department store into an mixed-use space that is both industrial and refined. TEX T B Y CA S S IE L I V I N G STO N PHOTOG RA P H Y B Y K E L LY M O O R E C L AR K With a passion for development and area improvement, Michael Echols and his wife Christie are known for their work restoring historic properties and creating special places for businesses and community in downtown Monroe. Before recently announcing his election bid for State Representative, the dynamic duo hosted an open house of their newest revitalization effort, the Kress Building. Located at 217 DeSiard Street in downtown Monroe, the newly renovated Kress Building was once home to the S.H. Kress & Co. Department Store. Built in 1947, the Kress Building has been one of the most structurally significant buildings that the Echols have transformed. Constructed of concrete and reinforced metal trusses, the framework and fabric of the building provided a great foundation for Christie’s architectural vision. She designed the mixed use building to include commercial space at street level with six luxury apartments located in the two-story plus mezzanine floors of the building. Next door, the Baker Building was also recently renovated by the couple and now adjoins the Kress Building by a bridgeway that connects the two over a charming alley. Modeled after a successful open house for Baker Building, the Echols held a public viewing for the spaces during the April Downtown Gallery Crawl and enlisted the help of six local designers to stage five of the luxury apartments. The finished product was exceptional, and the spaces reflected the designers’ personal aesthetic balanced by the industrial architecture of the building. Designers on the project included Taylor Bennett, Set Staging’s design duo Brandi Brownlee Howard and Heather Land, Shawn Brazzell, Margaret Moses, and Paul Michael Company decorators Gabriela Landress and Cole Brown. Participating retailers included Levee Gallery, Palette House, Paul Michael Company, Material Things, Three Threads and Walsworth & Company. Christie, a licensed architect, explains that the opportunity to express her creativity is extended to her by the financial wizardry that her husband Michael offers to their partnership. “I had full creative control of the building, which was fostered by Michael’s ability to find funding for this project. His resourcefulness, along with his passion for

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historic preservation and the revitalization of downtown Monroe, help keep me motivated. Being able to share this dream and vision makes the work really satisfying.” Echols said she was also glad to partner with TAAG’s Brian McGuire and Robert Ellis to produce construction documents for the project, and draftsman Gaylon Perry of Perry Home Designs. Another great collaboration was the addition of Taylor Bennett to the design team. Christie adds “Because Taylor lives downtown, he is invested on a level that really helped make the design of the apartments special. He was not only designing his own home, but also crafting an experience for those wanting to live in downtown. He brought beautiful, light and airy designs to the spaces, and I was able to draft his ideas together. It was an amazing experience having a designer to collaborate with. His gentle and quiet disposition is balanced by his dependability, strong work ethic and utterly stunning design sensibility.” Throughout the apartments’ spaces, Christie used doors and light fixtures original to the building, as well as wood salvaged from one of their previous restorations. The building’s steel-frame windows and exposed beamwork were utilized to full advantage. Christie says, “We felt like the industrial elements were part of the built-in character that we wanted to celebrate. We kept the exposed columns and piping wherever we could and balanced that with a lot of pure geometries

and clean lines.” The finishes, like classic oversized tiles, beautiful v-groove cabinets, crystal globe chandeliers, chosen by Christie and Taylor for each apartment, offers an aesthetic that also complements the industrial design of the building. Storage abounds in each wellappointed kitchen with custom millwork by Rucker’s Custom Cabinets. Joe Gremillion and his team at Twin City Granite installed gorgeous granite and quartz countertops throughout the building. Plumbing fixtures were sourced from Coburn’s Kitchen & Bath. Using a streamlined palette, walls and trim are painted Sherwin Williams’ Pure White, Functional Gray, Acier and Folkstone, woodwork is painted Benjamin Moore’s Mediterranean Olive and Heather by Dunn Edwards, and exposed beams are painted Sherwin Williams’ Tricorn Black. While Christie and Michael Echols are finding new purposes and renewed life for old buildings, the real joy has been the substantial and meaningful difference they are making in the community. Through the process of rebuilding our downtown, the couple’s endeavors have sparked wonderful relationships with all kinds of creative people. Christie says, “We’re building a community of people who have become pioneers for downtown Monroe. What has grown from this is a strong sense of community, a group of friends who have come together and are making a neighborhood. Now things are starting to get fun.”

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he smallest of the Kress Building’s apartments was staged by design duo Brandi Brownlee Howard and Heather Land. After garnering terrific feedback from their collaboration on the Baker Building, the two launched a company called Set Staging. Says Brandi, “Heather and I have loved working together on smaller projects, but Christie offered us the ability to really showcase our talents on a grand level, and what developed was a business that appeals to our love of design and spaces.” Brandi and Heather are known for their Global/ Boho style aesthetic which combines a layered, collected feel and love of travel. The duo sourced from their personal collection, along with pieces from Material Things and Sallie Anzelmo at Three Threads. In the apartment, a metal and glass desk from Material Things mirrors the industrial aesthetic, while lucite chairs add a modern feel. A large horse head statue is prominently featured under an abstract painting by Sallie Anzelmo. Christie says, “I love the cabinets in this apartment. We wanted the v-groove cabinets to come all the way to the bottom, because although they had a very rustic, traditional concept, we wanted them to read modern.” Hand-painted stemless champagne flutes available at Three Threads sit on top of a wood accent wall. In the bedroom, linens from Material Things are used, along with an oversized tassel that adorns the wall, and a large format abstract painting by Sallie Anzelmo. The bathroom uses clean modern lines hidden behind an original chartreuse door. A steel frame shower stall, sleek white subway tiles, and a corrugated sliding door leading to the closet add a modern industrial vibe to the apartment. “I really wanted people visiting Monroe to have an opportunity to stay in a warm and inviting space. We decided after the public viewing to make this apartment available to rent through Airbnb for at least a while. It’s important to me to not only create opportunities for talent to bloom, but also generate interest in the revitalization efforts of downtown Monroe. We hope that the rental will help cultivate growth within our community,” says Christie.

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ocal designer and artist, Margaret Moses chose home furnishings sourced from her store Palette House. A large diptych that Moses painted in earth-tone hues echos the subtle neutrals reflective in the space, and is hung above a sofa by the eco-friendly upholstery company, Lee Industries. Moses uses the ceiling heights, lightcolored walls, and large mirrors to reflect light in the space. Artwork by Jeff Brown and Tim Hayes, provided by Levee Gallery, is exhibited throughout the apartment. Staying true to the industrial character already inherent to the building, Echols left a ladder in the living area. She explains, “During the renovation, the ladder served as the only way to get to the roof, so several friends were tortured with a trek up the rungs. Not only was it original to the building, it became a functional element in the room.” Moses uses the ladder to display planters and luxurious throws from Palette House. “My home is a mix of old and new, and that is what I wanted to bring to this design,” says Margaret. The burl chest and antiqued patina on the mirror juxtaposed with modern chairs and Willy Guhl-styled iron planters reflect the designer’s personal style. In the bedroom, the upholstered bed with nailhead trim is dressed with bedding by Matteo, and a chic, white upholstered chair anchors the space. The bathroom is a study of refinement offering a custom vanity with a simple seal keeping the articulated design and execution the focus.

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aul Michael Company’s resident interior decorators, Cole Brown and Gabriela Landress were tasked with staging one of the larger two-bedroom apartments. Says Christie, “This apartment is moody and dramatic with rich, darkhued walls that give the space an elegant feel. The pure geometries found in the kitchen, between the rectangular framework and globe chandelier, has a relationship that adds a formality to the room.” Large steel windows line the spacious open-concept living room. Most of the furniture used to decorate the apartment was designed by Paul Michael and manufactured in Dermott, Arkansas. Large steer horns sit atop a custom table made from salvaged 18-wheeler floor boards and an iron base. Explains Cole, “Paul is very resourceful and likes to repurpose interesting materials. A few years ago, a box truck called “Big Red” broke down and was no longer drivable. Paul decided to rip out the floor boards and use the materials to start making furniture. This catapulted our line of Paul Michael exclusive 18-wheeler furniture.” The spacious master-suite has soaring 14 ft. ceilings. A wood frame bed is dressed in a black and white motif adds a rustic, but modern touch. The master bathroom features dual vanities and a large soaking tub, creating a serene environment that is both stylish and functional. Artwork, custom agate, and crystal pieces populate the sleek black countertops and gray walls. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 87

CO-D ESIG N ER KRESS B U IL D IN G | TAYLOR BENNETT aylor Bennett jumped at the opportunity to co-design the Kress Building and quickly realized on the first walk-thru that not only did he want to help with the transformation, he also wanted to make it his home. “I fell in love with the historic windows that cover the width of the living area, with authentic details that include the original hardware and iron cranks. In the morning, the space is bathed in sunlight and feels airy and bright.” The furnishings in the home reflect Taylor’s signature style, a very clean-masculine look layered with features that are both utilitarian and beautiful. A dumbwaiter, original to the Kress Department Store, takes focus in the living area, while a feature wood shelving wall adds balance. Artwork sourced from Levee Gallery, a painting by Bernard Mattox, is hung above a MidCentury dresser. Slip-covered armchairs and a German Bierkeller table add a rustic touch. Bennett’s favorite neutral, green, is found in a olive-hue on the bottom cabinets in the kitchen. Sleek, white quartz countertops and square tile on the backsplash add a modern feel. In the guest bathroom, Christie and Taylor co-designed a slated-wood vanity constructed by 1x2 panels that is a base for a simple porcelain sink. In the bedroom, a custom-designed headboard by Joshua Mitchell is punctuated by artwork from Levee Gallery and Courtney Wetzel. Neutral linens dress the bed and a cowhide rug is layered on the floor. In describing his work on this project, Taylor said, “ Being able to collaborate with Christie provided me with a wealth of knowledge. She has a real vision and gift for preserving and elevating a property’s historical and architectural significance. Christie allowed me to explore with colors, materials and finishes, while providing inspired execution that maximized the design of the space.”

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SHAWN B RA ZZEL L D ESIG N S | SHAWN BR A ZZELL ocal interior designer Shawn Brazzell partnered with Walsworth & Company to fulfill her creative vision for the apartment. “I don’t usually get to design for an industrial space, so this assignment gave me an outlet to express my personal style while giving a nod to the history of the building.” “The sofa was the first thing I chose for the space. I love the chartreuse color and Mid-Century aesthetic,” said Shawn. The living room is demarcated by stripes that appear on the floor where long rows of storage bins once stood.“Historically, part of the floors were covered by shelving and what wasn’t covered aged differently. The result was a natural patina that created a broad stripe on the concrete floors. I loved the character that it added and made the choice to leave them untouched,” explains Christie. Brazzell added a centrally placed console flanked by a concrete and wood dining table, adding division to the open floor plan. A large eat-in kitchen is flooded with light from the wall of original steel windows. Sleek, white subway tiles keep the lines clean while olivehued built-ins provide ample pantry space. In the master bedroom, a four poster bed with upholstered panels is dressed with a white coverlet and crocodile-patterned duvet. A slate-blue leather armchair adds a burst of color to the well-appointed room. An original door is hung barn-style invigorating an old structure with modern sensibilities and beckoning guests to enter the luxurious master bathroom. Brazzell was able to offer an ebullient spirit of design to an industrial space. From the crimson-hued gladiolus to the bayou-themed artwork by Brandy Williams, the apartment is a display of color and refinement. To schedule your tour of the remaining Kress Building apartments and see if downtown living is right for you, call Michael Echols at 318.366.7370.

The Venue with the View Bayou Landing Offers an Exceptional Venue for Your Next Event

N 2015, OWNERS KAYCEE AND DOUG WOOD transformed Bayou Landing located on Bayou DeSiard into a stunning one-stop wedding venue. This venue offers a spacious floor plan of 5,500 square feet with three unique sections: two beautifully appointed interior levels and winding decks onto Bayou DeSiard with scenic underwater lighting. From its indoor and outdoor levels, to its unique bayou landscape, Bayou Landing will make any gathering an exceptional experience for guests, as well as the host. From conception to completion, the staff at Bayou Landing will meet with clients to ensure that all needs are understood and met. They provide turnkey service for your event providing the venue, setup, food, bar, rentals and one of the most beautiful views in Northeast Louisiana. The Bayou Landing team offers 40 years’ combined experience in event management, food service and catering. When planning your event, you will have one dedicated contact person who will handle all details for venue setup, catering and bar services. Bayou Landing strives to make planning your event as stress free as possible. Bayou Landing can accommodate seated meals up to 200 guests (depending upon your layout and spacing needs), hors d’oeuvres reception up to 250-300 guests and standing room up to 400 guests. Included with the venue rental, is the use of 250 gorgeous mahogany folding wood chairs, 30- 60” round tables, 10-6’ rectangular tables, 2-8’ rectangular tables, 6 bistro tables, as well as outdoor seating to accommodate additional seating space. Setup and breakdown of your tables and chairs for your event is included in your rental. If you choose to use the in-house caterer, Bayou Landing Catering Company, all clean up is included. Here are some questions often asked by clients: Is there an outdoor space where my guests can mingle? Bayou Landing does have a covered, open-air deck overlooking Bayou DeSiard. Café lighting, accent lighting in the Cypress

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trees and underwater lighting create an enchanting ambiance for those looking for an outdoor space where guests can mingle. Do we have to work off a preset menu or can you create a custom menu for our event? And what is provided? Bayou Landing Catering Company offers clients full service catering, a catering manager and staff on-site during your event, as well as creating a custom menu to fit the needs for your event. For catering provided by Bayou Landing, all serve ware, chafers, serving pieces are supplied at no additional charge. Linens may be provided as well as upscale china, silver and glassware if desired. Can I hold my ceremony here, too? Is there a bride’s changing area? Bayou Landing can accommodate your ceremony of up to 160 seated guests ( 100 on the lower level, with additional seating on the upper level overlooking the ceremony) or 200+ with standing room. A private bride’s room is available. What is the main reason I should book my event at Bayou Landing? When choosing this venue for your event, you deal with only one person for setup, catering and bar services, not multiple contact people. You have access to the entire venue, not just a portion. There is ample convenient parking. Whether you are looking for an exceptional venue for a wedding, reception, corporate gathering, conference, or family/class reunion, Bayou Landing offers a complete package unsurpassed in the area. From the full service catering options to their attention to details, this venue with the view offers clients professional service at an idyllic location. For more information about Bayou Landing, visit our website at BayouLanding.BIZ or call us at (318) 737-7061

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Impacting and Inspiring Five Years of Serving the Community

LINT EASTWOOD’S SQUINTING EYES, LOW PERCHED black hat, and hands hidden under an unflinching serape. Winston Churchill’s dour stare, starched black suit, and stout fingers gripping an ivory cane. Fidel Castro’s impish smirk, olive drab collar, and wispy black beard. When the word cigar is mentioned, these are among the images that the mind conjures. Often, if not Eastwood’s jaw clenched around a gnarled cigarillo or Churchill’s slack lips draped around a burly ever-present Romeo y Julieta or the dense haze encircling Castro’s head, the image likely involves a man of supreme maleness—alone, hardened by life, taking no guff, and wordlessly winning any argument with steely eyes and flowing machismo. Maybe this is an inaccurate and negative overview of images and perceptions connected to the word cigar, however. Perhaps “cigar” should entice people to think not of a lone wolf but of a room filled with people exuding laughter and smiles, gifting handshakes and hugs. Perhaps “cigar” should not be linked with the harshness of life but with love and fellowship and the joys that come with waking to every emerging sunrise. Perhaps instead of inducing a stoic silence, a cigar is an invitation to converse, to relax for hours while paying no mind to the clock, to meet a friend for the first time or reunite with one from a time long lost. The word cigar does mean these wonderful things to Friday Ellis of Governors Cigar and Pipe, and thankfully, it’s a feeling he has shared with his community for the past five years. Ellis certainly created Governors with the hope of successfully providing established smokers a place to relax and appreciate global cigar brands while simultaneously introducing burgeoning aficionados to a pastime with as great a history and legacy as enjoying wine. In addition, he strove to also become a force within the community in the developmental efforts for the revitalization of Monroe. In fact, Ellis takes great pride in admitting that for as much time as it took to establish his own shop, and as much time it continues to take for perpetual growth, he has also spent as much or more time “away from Governors to help others grow their passions and dreams.” With a desire to put community enhancement first, the priority to build a web of successful small businesses where proprietors relied on one another closely thereafter, and his own personal achievements at the back, Ellis has proven over the previous half decade that his

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intent to “create a community” over getting people to enter his doors was and is of the utmost significance. He even used his own business as a nerve center at times, stating that it is “more than a shop. It’s a meeting place for people, a place for relationships to grow.” Indeed, this is true as on any given day or night, several local and regional business owners may be found lounging and talking, sampling cigars and bourbon, and strengthening bonds underneath steady strains of legendary Southern musicians. Over the past five years, Ellis has impacted the community through his efforts. He consistently encourages others to do as he has done—create a business centered on a passion, devoting time and energy and know how to get it going, then reciprocate the love given by those who appreciate his craft as much as he does. This involves unseen tireless hours behind the scenes, cleaning floors and tables; restocking; missing valuable time with loved ones. Being a business owner requires a great deal of the day and night, but though these difficulties drain a person, those who see the prizes at the end and wish to share them with others makes the long days and sometimes longer evenings completely worth it. This is especially true when the owner recognizes that his success comes about as a team effort and does all he can to help others reach those same heights. Ellis strongly said he is simply “proud” of the “growth, work, and community.” Regional business success means a highly functioning system is in place and is smoothly running, and it requires consistent energies to keep it going, something Ellis is happy to do. At this point in time, Friday and Ashley Ellis are satisfied with their work, but they also know that the way they play the game is a lifestyle, not a timecard to be punched for a few hours per day. Their work is one dedicated to a community they are exceedingly thankful for. Ellis is quick to praise his customers and vendors as they commit their dollars and hours to help him and others succeed and enjoy life. At the end of the day, that enjoyment, the smiles on the faces of the people sitting in leather chairs talking and smoking cigars and relishing the company of others is what it’s all about for Friday. Go see for yourself, and try not to join in.

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Continuing The Legacy Signature Quality With Elegant Charm

USTON FLORIST IS AN OLD FRIEND WITH A BRAND new look. Now called “Trappings – Home of Ruston Florist,” this unique establishment offers the same quality customer service and warm, relaxed atmosphere that has served this area for more than 40 years. “Trappings provides one-stop shopping under one roof,” said Jeanie McCartney, a buyer for the store. Under the able management of new owner, Melodye Tanner, assisted by a management team that includes Jeanie McCartney and Kathy Plunkett, Trappings is taking its signature qualities to a new level. The boutique captures the essence of classic, elegant charm with a stylish collection of jewelry, clothing and accessories for women. Gift and home furnishing areas offer cookware and mixes for the gourmet, bedding, furniture (antique and new); and a new gift section for men. The well-known floral department continues to provide Trappings the same quality of floral design that is the defining feature of Ruston Florist. Trappings offers expanded lines in all departments. The boutique features jewelry by Brighton, Julie Vos, Susan Shaw and Alisha D. Foxcoft, Crown Linen, Match Point, Mosaic, Lior, Sympli, and Up are included in the new clothing lines. Crown Linen Bedding and Cozy Earth made from bamboo and silk, are exclusive to Trappings and offer unparalleled sleeping comfort and beauty. Jack Black and Frey offer a variety of toiletries, including shaving kits and beard care items, as well as laundry products with the man in mind. In the men’s section you will also find Brighton belts, money clips, cigar cases, barware, leather weekend and messenger bags, boot jacks, sporting desk accessories and so much more. Trappings also offers many fragrance options: Porter Cale and Michel candles; scents and soaps for both men and women; and several decorative defusers. The perfect gift for any occasion can be found at Trappings. The shop carries a large selection of kitchen and tabletop accessories. Vagabond House is an addition to any table. Staub cookware and grillware by Wilton Armetele are also available. Treat yourself or gift someone with handsome decanters, beautiful serving pieces and

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other unique items found nowhere else in Ruston. Shop and register for your special occasion in our gift department, and don’t forget – we giftwrap and deliver. Trappings – Home of Ruston Florist has fresh flowers, plants, and floral arrangements, custom baskets and balloon bouquets that can be made to order. Under the able leadership of Kathy Plunkett and Shelby Barnett, with over 81 years combined experience, our floral designers can create a wide array of silk arrangements suitable for funerals and cemeteries. Flowers are very personal and can bring joy and positivity even in dark times. We choose flowers to celebrate life’s special moments – birth, love, marriage and even to honor our loved ones in death. A single flower or a large arrangement may express love, remembrance, apology, support or simply be a thoughtful gesture. The giving of flowers is one of the oldest human traditions, playing a significant role in celebrations and as expressions of affection. Though specific meanings and traditions may change, flowers remain a part of life’s special moments. Trappings – Home of Ruston Florist embraces these life events and will help you select the perfect flowers to relay your message. Rounding out all departments, Rene Womack makes sure your deliveries come to you in good condition and in a timely manner. There are big plans in the future for Trappings. In addition to online shopping and extended hours of operation, the store’s back patio will be transformed into an outdoor space for luncheons, afternoon teas, style shows, special occasion gatherings, and photoshoots. “Our goal is to carry the legacy of Ruston Florist forward while continuing to offer new products and our trademark customer service,” Tanner said. Trappings – Home of Ruston Florist is located at 1103 Farmerville Highway in Ruston, Louisiana. Contact them at (318) 255-8747, www. rustonflorist.com, and like and follow them on Facebook. Store hours are 8 a.m. – 5 p.m. Monday through Friday and 9 a.m.- noon Saturdays. Make plans for mid-June to attend the week long Grand Opening of Trappings – Home of Ruston Florist.

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These Aren’t Your Mama’s Braces JK, Mom, I Know I Just Put Your Braces On Last Month! By Melannie G. Turpin, DDS

OW! AREN’T WE ALL GLAD BRACES DON’T LOOK like this anymore? Our patients have many more options for orthodontic treatment than they had in the past. We offer tooth colored ceramic braces, Invisalign clear aligners, and hightech metal brackets and wires that make braces go so much faster and smoother than before. Our new technology has made the process of getting models of the teeth so much easier – just a quick 3D scan of your teeth and we can bypass the old impression technique – no goop! No gag! No worries! We can fabricate all of our appliances including retainers directly from 3D printed models. WHEN SHOULD I BRING MY CHILD TO SEE YOU? The American Association of Orthodontists recommends children get their first check-up with an AAO orthodontist at the first recognition of an orthodontic problem, but no later than age 7. WHAT’S THE DEAL WITH ALL THESE YOUNG KIDS NEEDING BRACES EARLY? Many of our patients do not need early intervention, but in certain cases, this intervention is needed to avoid severe orthodontic and dental problems in the future. The doctors at Turpin Orthodontics can evaluate your child at the complimentary consultation and advise you on treatment needs. A referral from your dentist is not required, just call our friendly staff and someone will help you set up an initial exam. WHY DO SOME PEOPLE HAVE TO HAVE BRACES TWICE? When early treatment is done to correct crossbites and early malocclusion, sometimes growth is insufficient to correct the malocclusion and/or the remaining permanent teeth come in crooked or spaced. This can be corrected when most of the permanent teeth come in and may require elastics to help correct the bite. IS IT TOO LATE? NO! Several of our patients are adults who either never had orthodontic treatment, or had treatment in the past, but have had some shifting over the years. Adults now are more conscientious than ever about achieving beautiful smiles and caring for their teeth. It is important to be able to smile with confidence! So, for real, my own mom came to me and asked for braces because her spaces were bothering her. I am happy to report that she is doing great with them and doesn’t complain of pain or trouble eating. She 98 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

went with the metal version, but we have adults in all modalities of treatment. It is very common to see adults in braces these days, so, it’s not just for kids! HOW DO THE TEETH STAY STRAIGHT? We give all our patients retainers to wear after the braces or clear aligner treatment is done. This is our maintenance phase and we encourage our patients to wear them at night for as long as they want their teeth to stay straight. Think of it like exercise: If you get your body into excellent shape, then stop doing any sort of exercise, you lose all the benefits and your body goes back to its prior state. No one wants their teeth to shift back to the positions they were in before treatment so consistent retainer wear is a must. HOW LONG WILL I WEAR MY BRACES OR ALIGNERS? Everyone’s teeth are different, so it will not be the same for everyone. It is important to remember that moving teeth takes time. Slow, consistent forces are recommended to prevent damage to the teeth, roots, bone and supporting tissues. Fast is not better and can damage your teeth. Beware of fast fixes Orthodontics is a process and the results are worth it. Make sure to allow enough time before the next major event in your life (prom, graduation, wedding, being elected President of the United States, getting awarded the Nobel Peace Prize, etc.), so that you can smile confidently for the paparazzi! Dr. Melannie Grafton Turpin and Dr. Corbin J. Turpin, III, are both board-certified by the American Board of Orthodontics and have been serving the Northeast Louisiana area since 2001. Dr. Melannie followed in the footsteps of her father, Dr. Hoye Grafton (also a board-certified orthodontist), who practiced orthodontics in the Ruston area for 40 years. Turpin Orthodontics is continuing the excellence in care that has been a standard in the family since 1966. Getting started with braces or clear aligners has never been easier! Let Turpin Orthodontics be your one stop for all your orthodontic needs. Call for a complimentary consultation today! 318-699-9699.

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Let’s Hear It for a Safe Summer Tips to Prevent Summer’s Most Common Injuries BY CHASE LOBRANO, MD

CHOOL’S OUT, SUMMERTIME AND GOOD TIMES ARE ready to prevail! Unfortunately, the increase in temperature often corelates with an increase in injuries. Emergency rooms across the country see an increase in fractures, strains, dehydration and heat exhaustion. Whether you’re hitting the lake, the bike path, maintaining the perfect summer yard or introducing a new sport or activity on vacation, its important to follow some basic steps that can keep you safe and injury free this summer. Summertime injuries do not play favorites…. it doesn’t matter whether you’re young or old, the heat of a Louisiana summer can take its toll. Before you celebrate the season, remember these tips to keep you and your family injury free and safe this summer: • Drink your water and keep a summertime (slower) pace. Dehydration is no joke! Drinking water, especially while exposed to the summer heat keeps our body temperature normal and keeps your muscles lubricated. As you sweat, your body is depleted of fluids and you can suffer from muscle cramps. Take breaks often during activity, drink water and allow your body to rest and restore… these breaks will allow you time to enjoy the beautiful views on the lake or admire the garden you’re maintain, while allowing the body time to rehydrate and recharge. • Southerners love and take great pride in their lawns and landscape and summer seems to be the time when we dig in and take full advantage of the sunny weather. It’s important to take precautions when gardening and caring for your lawn. Make sure to wear protective eyewear, long pants and closed toed shoes when operating power equipment like lawn mowers and keep your hands away from mower blades. Gardening should not be “back breaking.” Protect your knees and your back by using your legs when lifting heavy objects, using a garden stool when planting, opting for raised planters, and using tools with long handles. • To prevent overuse injuries, make sure you condition and strength train, so your body can become accustomed to increased levels of outdoor activity. Summer often means swimming, golfing, biking and often we want to jump right in and go wild with summer fun. Know you’ll get there but overexerting yourself can mean pain

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later. Pace yourself, take water breaks often and always stretch prior to exercise. Taking time to stretch before exercise will loosen the muscles, ligaments and joints and reduce the risk of activitybased injuries. • Be sweet to your feet. Summertime means flip-flops and sandals. Although flip-flops may seem like an optimal choice for summer, prolonged wear of them can prevent your feet from getting adequate support. Flip-flops offer no arch support, heel cushioning or shock absorption which often leads to tendinitis and even sprained ankles. Unsupported feet take a lot more stress than supported feet. Flipflops are not intended for long-term wear and are more appropriate to flat surfaces… they are great for protecting the bottom of the feet when walking around the pool, as well as, a preventative from athletes’ foot if showering at public showers at the beach, pools and dorms. Flip-flops are not great for outdoor sports or yard work. Inevitably, in the summer, I more than likely will be treating a sprained ankle, fracture or severe ligament injury because someone decided to jump and catch a frisbee while wearing flip flops or sandals and the ER will unfortunately see toes and limbs that have suffered the wrath of lawn mowers blades. Moderation is key… limit the flip-flops to poolside and wear proper footwear for certain outdoor activities. All of us at Orthopedic Specialists wish you a safe and injury free summer. Stay active and hydrated and remember to stretch before you decide to hike, bike or hit the golf course. If muscle and joint pain get you down, remember we’re always here to help. Chase Lobrano, MD is an orthopedic surgeon specializing in total joint replacement of the knee and hip particularly, Mako Robotic Joint replacement of the knee and hip. He practices at Orthopedic Specialists of Louisiana with locations in both Shreveport and Bossier City. To schedule an evaluation with Dr. Lobrano, please call his clinic: 866.759.9679 or visit: orthopedicspecialistsla.com.

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Catering that Goes Above and Beyond Let Chef Pat Nolan Take Care Of You

NE OF MONROE’S MOST beloved caterers has now opened a new culinary pop-up restaurant called Nolan’s Bistro at Castle Hall located at 125 St. John street in the heart of downtown Monroe ,right down from the Vantage building. Chef Pat Nolan’s Restaurant will feature a host of dishes that have made Chef Pat one of the region’s most popular caterers, and she will also be introducing new dishes along the way. When it comes to food, Chef Pat Nolan knows what she’s doing. Each day she prepares amazing food so you can dine in or pick up on those busy days. To find out what she will be cooking for the week, make sure to follow her facebook page: Chef Pat Nolan Catering, so you won’t miss out on any of the great meals. Planning an event can sometimes be very stressful and having good food is listed at the top of the to-do list. The food at an event can either make an event just ok or make it an event people will remember. Chef Pat has her own unique way of making people remember her food. She can cater to anyone’s wants, needs and style for any event. “I’m very well-known for good food,” she says. “People know there’s no way they’d ever get a bad meal from Chef Pat, and we’re going to continue pushing to make it even better.” The newest catering trend has been charcuterie boards filled with multiple gourmet cheeses, many different types of cured meats, a variety of different grapes and fruit, different types of olives, nuts, etc. It’s no

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surprise these beautiful boards are so popular seeing that they are very appealing to the eye and taste amazing. Chef Pat has taken this hot new trend and made it her own by making the presentation of these boards breathtakingly gorgeous. What makes Chef Pat Nolan different is the way she presents everything she does. Not only does she come with the most delicious food, but she presents it in the most elaborate manner. She definitely takes her time and focuses on the whole picture not just the food aspect. She has big copper dishes and big wooden planks that she uses for her presentations that are very versatile and can cater to anyone’s style of event. She comes with an abundance of green ivy’s, greenery and flowers taking the presentation one step further. Here are just a few things people have said about Chef Pat Nolan: “I’m going to take a second to brag on my friend and awesome chef, Chef Pat Nolan. This is the second group of our SFHS kids that she has prepared Homecoming dinner for. Both times, the service, quality of the food and attention to detail could not have been more perfect. The kids love it and ask to go back! With our group of freshmen, she even seated them with their dates and took away their phones for the meal. I know this may seem trivial to some of us who grew up

without cell phones, but in this era where kids communicate via screen, this was a welcomed change. She’s an amazing lady and even better cook! Thank you, Chef Pat, for yet another successful Homecoming dinner! We look forward to doing it again very soon!” - Misti C. “Chef Pat catered a breakfast, lunch and dinner for 3 christian bands who did a show in West Monroe (Colton Dixon, Building 429, and Finding Favour.) She went above and beyond to make the entire experience for them a great one. They raved that it was the best catering that they had ever had while on tour. I will use her again, for sure, for the next show! Thank you Chef Pat and her amazing crew!!” - Mike K. “It does not get better than this folks... amazing talent right here in Monroe. I lived 7 years in New Orleans and she wins my prize as the best gumbo I have ever had, Best in the state by a landslide! Her steaks were second to none, also! Melts in your mouth good! Sweet lady only adds to the package! Job well done!” - Dennis P

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Lee Junior High Celebrates Outstanding Students and Faculty REAGAN WISE Coach Reagan Wise is a 7th grade American history teacher at Lee Junior High, and he has been an educator for two and a half years. He is a Neville alumni, and he graduated from the University of Arkansas at Monticello with a bachelor’s degree in Health and Physical Education, a minor in history and a master’s in Health and Physical Education. The desire to help students’ change their lives for the better is what motivated Coach Wise to pursue a career in education and made the quote, “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world,” from Nelson Mandela, a quote Reagan firmly accepts as truth. He believes that in order for his students to achieve their potential and possibilities, they must work hard. On top of his stellar teaching skills, he is a football and baseball coach at Neville High School, and his dedication to coaching is just as intense as the one in his classroom. Outside of the school setting, Coach Wise can be found hunting, fishing or spending time with his wife and nine month old son. JOHN STEWART EWING John Stewart Ewing was selected as Lee Junior High’s 2019 Student of the Year because he embodies the traits Lee looks for in all of their students. He is dedicated, friendly, and driven to ensure he succeeds in all he does, and he bleeds black and gold. John Stewart is 13 years old and son to Jason and Lyndsey Ewing, and he has excelled academically throughout his time in the Monroe City School System. He has consistently been on the honor roll during his school year, and he is an avid reader who has had the honor of being a “million word reader” on several occasions. Along with hard work in the classroom, John Stewart can be found working with his church and in the community, and he also participates in several extracurricular activities at Lee Junior High. He has been a member of LJH’s student council, football and baseball teams and yearbook staff. John Stewart is an active participant in St. Paul’s United Methodist Church youth program and attends youth group on Wednesday and Sunday nights. He has volunteered and served at the Desiard Street Shelter and is a huge supporter of ULM athletics.

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BRE’ANN WASHINGTON Bre’Ann Washington has been a superstar tiger during her two years at Lee Junior High. Bre’Ann was a member of the LJH cheer team, takes gifted and advanced math classes, and is also on the robotics team. However, Bre’Ann is famous at her school and in the Monroe City School District for her excellence when it comes to spelling. She has been competing in the school spelling bee since she was in fourth grade, has been to regionals four times, and nationals once. This year Bre’Ann faced some tough competition at the school level, but she came out with the win. She is headed to nationals in Washington, D.C. this summer which will mark her second trip. Countless hours of practice and studying go into preparing for her competitions. Bre’Ann uses numerous strategies to help her master words ranging from using the website, spellingbee.com, utilizing a paper-based dictionary for definitions, pronunciations, and the etymology, and having friends work with her. Bre’Ann has learned how to juggle her school work along with studying for this spelling endeavor to ensure she is successful in all she strives to achieve. The mission of Robert E. Lee Junior High School is to provide a safe place where all students can achieve their academic potential. While pursuing that mission, one of our primary goals is to ease the transition from elementary school to junior high school and from junior high school to high school. We work closely with our feeder elementary schools and with Neville High School to achieve a balance that not only continues to nurture students, but also encourages the independence and responsibility necessary for high school. We offer a variety of opportunities for students to excel in academics, athletics, and the arts in order for each student to find his or her niche on campus. From soccer to cheerleading to football to softball, our athletics program offers something for almost everyone. Likewise, we have choir, piano laboratory, art, computer applications, Spanish, band, and orchestra as electives for our eclectic student population. Lee Junior High School also offers many high school credit classes. Preparing your child to excel in his or her high school experience.

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article by SHANNON DAHLUM photos by JAMIE DAHLUM

HOW TO RAMP UP YOUR METABOLISM THIS SUMMER

Part One: Optimizing Sleep

ummer’s here, which means that diet season is, too! There seems to be no diet too severe for desperate beachgoers hoping to shed some weight and feel more confident in their bathing suits. But if diets just don’t work for you, you aren’t alone. Maybe they helped with fat loss at one time, but if you’ve been a yo-yo dieter for years, it probably seems like nothing you do anymore can cause that weight to budge. All that dieting has probably created a rebound of excess weight gain and an inability to drop it, despite calorie deprivation and hours of exercise. This is because dieting really only serves to slow down your metabolism in the long run, while providing short term results, if any. They key to finally finding and maintaining your healthiest weight doesn’t lie in another calorie deprivation diet, but in building up

the efficiency of your metabolism. If you’re looking for a program that will provide fast results, this isn’t it. Actually, the steps I’m going to outline for you here will help to undo the damage those programs have done on your weary body. Rather than dieting hard this summer, I challenge you to follow along with me and use your summer months to build up your metabolism, so that when back to school season hits again, you’ll be able to effortlessly reach and maintain a healthy weight. Better yet, you’ll have more energy! This is part one in a three-part series in which I’ll walk you through three key steps needed to reboot your metabolism. You’re going to learn how to shut off the emergency switch that has triggered your body to store excess fat and conserve energy, making you feel tired, cranky and

overweight. Each part of this series will walk you through one lifestyle element to work on for the month, and by the time the next issue of BayouLife Magazine lands in your driveway, you should have created a new habit surrounding that aspect of your lifestyle and moved closer to rediscovering the metabolism you had once long ago. Metabolism refers to chemical reactions that happen within every cell of your body to provide energy. The mitochondria are the powerhouses within your cells that combine the nutrients you eat with the oxygen you breathe to create usable energy for your body to burn. The food you eat isn’t usable as fuel just because you ate it. It has to be transformed by these mitochondria into fuel. If your metabolism is sluggish, it means that your mitochondria aren’t doing a great job of converting nutrients into fuel, and more of these nutrients will have to be

stored as fat. Your energy levels will suffer and you’ll have a hard time losing weight. The rate at which your metabolism converts food into fuel isn’t set in stone; it’s variable. It constantly fluctuates and responds to the inputs you give it. If you’ve been on a low calorie diet for a period of time, your metabolism will respond by down regulating. It’s receiving the signal that there isn’t ample food available, so in order to survive, it’s going to store as much as possible to prevent you from becoming malnourished. Rather than creating energy to burn from the limited amount of food you’re getting, your metabolism opts to store that energy as fat. Imagine that you suddenly lost your job and you only had your spouse’s income to live on, rather than the double income you’re accustomed to. Instead of buying the steak and lobster you’re used to, you’d probably load up on those cheap packs of ramen noodles. You’d start pinching pennies and socking away what you could to be sure you had enough money to cover your bills. Your metabolism reacts the same way to a calorie deficit that you would in a financial deficit; it stops spending energy frivolously, instead socking more away into fat storage to be sure there is enough to cover your survival functions. Another factor that determines your rate of metabolism is the health of your mitochondria- those powerhouses that turn food into fuel. If they aren’t receiving the nutrients they need in order to function efficiently, they’ll struggle to perform their best. All the nutrients that can’t be converted into fuel by the struggling mitochondria wind up being stored as fat. To “speed up your metabolism” simply means that you’re making your mitochondria better at converting food into fuel. You do this by giving your body the signal that there’s plenty of energy available to burn and no need to sock any away for emergencies. It’s also important to give your mitochondria the tools they need to be able to efficiently convert nutrients into fuel. The first tool we’re adding to your toolbox this month is sleep. Sleep is a vital part of your circadian rhythm, which regulates your hormones and neurotransmitters. When in balance, these help your body to function smoothly. When you’re deprived of quality sleep, or aren’t sleeping on a regular schedule, your hormones get out of whack, inflammation builds up in your body, and you can’t convert nutrients into fuel as efficiently. A sleep schedule that works with your circadian rhythm to promote healthy hormone levels and neurotransmitters follows the cues of the sun. When it gets dark outside, you should begin to feel sleepy and get ready for bed. Lights out should happen no later than 10:30pm in order to prevent that “second wind” that will keep you up into the wee hours of the morning. When the sun rises, you should also begin to stir and wake naturally, feeling well rested and ready to start your day. Does this kind of sleep pattern sound like a wonderful, but distant, memory? Then keep reading! I’m going to give you some important nutritional tips that will encourage your body to achieve quality sleep again.

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1 G ET A DEQUAT E P R OT EIN Dietary protein contains the amino acids required for building the neurotransmitters needed to help your nervous system relax and encourage sleep. For example, tryptophan (along with adequate B vitamins) is required for making serotonin, a neurotransmitter required for normal sleep patterns. Food sources of tryptophan are poultry, salmon, tuna, shellfish, and red meat, along with soybeans, brown rice, cottage cheese, peanuts and sesame seeds. Another neurotransmitter, called GABA, inhibits over-activity in the brain and decreases anxiety and stress. It has a calming effect on the nervous system, and insufficient levels make sleeping difficult. GABA production requires the amino acid taurine, which is only available in seafood, red meat and, eggs. Ensuring that you get daily servings of taurine containing foods in the diet can decrease anxiety and the production of stress hormones that may prevent you from being able to rest. Eating protein at every meal from a variety of high quality animal sources will ensure you’re getting the amino acids needed to build these, and other, important neurotransmitters. Your body can’t use vegetarian sources of protein as efficiently as it can use animal sources, so if you’re a vegetarian, you’ll need to eat more total protein to get the same physiological effects. Include a wide variety of plant proteins, and if needed, explore supplementing with amino acids with your healthcare provider.

2 EAT CA R BO H YDR AT ES WIT H DINNER If you have a hard time falling asleep, try adding a source of complex carbs into your evening meal, especially if you’re a low-carb dieter. Many people find that falling asleep at night can be a challenge as a side effect of low carb diets. This effect seems to be even more pronounced in women. Dietary carbs activate a pathway in the brain, called the orexin pathway, that makes you feel sleepy. There are pharmaceutical sleep aids that work by directly targeting the orexin pathway. Just add in some sweet potato or whole grains to your evening meal and see if it helps you drift off more easily.

3 INCLU D E M AGN E S I U M RI CH F O O D S Magnesium is an essential nutrient, which means your body can’t create it and must get it from your diet. It’s required for the proper functioning of hundreds of enzymes, plays a role in the metabolism of food, and is necessary for muscle relaxation and calming the nervous system. If you’re under stress, eat sugar, drink alcohol, and/or exercise, your body is using a lot of magnesium. Magnesium deficiency is rampant in our culture and can lead to muscle spasms, constipation and insomnia, to name only a few possible symptoms. Good food sources of magnesium include sunflower seeds, almonds, sesame seeds, spinach, cashews, black beans, black eyed peas, kidney beans and brown rice. It may also be helpful to supplement with magnesium, but read the label and look for forms that end in “-ate” because they’re better utilized by your body. For example, choose magnesium glycinate or magnesium citrate over magnesium oxide. It’s best to take the supplement in the evening, because it can have a relaxing effect, which is exactly what you’re after! As always, check with your healthcare provider before supplementing, because magnesium may interfere with other pharmaceuticals. Certain forms of magnesium supplementation can lead to diarrhea if too high of a dose is used, especially with magnesium citrate. To be able to get enough magnesium in your system, it’s a great idea to also absorb it through your skin! Applying magnesium gels or creams is a way of bypassing your digestive system to get that magnesium directly into your tissue. Epsom salts are also high in magnesium, so adding them to your tub and soaking for twenty minutes is a great way to increase your levels.

4 GET A D E Q UAT E SU N E X P O S U RE The area of you brain responsible for sleep has a high concentration of vitamin D3 receptors. If these receptors aren’t filling up on the D3 they’re looking for, the sleep-wake cycle will be disrupted. The best way to fill up on this nutrient is with exposure to the sun. This is the most usable form of D3 for your body. To obtain adequate amounts of D3, a general rule of thumb is to get outside and let the sun hit your skin for about 15 minutes several times per week. Taking a walk with your arms exposed, without sunscreen, should do the trick. If you have a dark complexion, you may require more sun exposure, while lighter complexions may require less. Just pay attention to your skin- getting a slight color change indicates that you’ve had enough exposure, but don’t expose your skin long enough to burn. In addition to getting the D3 you need, daily sun exposure will also help your body regulate it’s circadian rhythm, which helps you release your sleep/ wake hormones at the appropriate times. Taking a D3 supplement is also an option, but it’s always a good idea to have your levels checked by your healthcare provider and let them guide you on the appropriate amount of supplementation. Research has shown that D3 levels below 50ng/ ml will disrupt sleep, but so will levels that exceed 80ng/dl. It’s important to have your blood levels tested to ensure you remain within that sweet spot.

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AVOID SCREET TIME FROM YOUR PHONE, COMPUTER, OR TV WITHIN TWO HOURS OF BED OT H ER T IP S Lastly, here are some other simple tips to ensure you get the best quality sleep you can. • Avoid alcohol before bed. It may help you fall asleep quickly but disrupts your natural sleep patterns, leading to less restorative sleep. • Finish your last meal 2-3 hours before bed and don’t eat anything else. Eating close to bedtime can lead to blood sugar crashes during the night that will disrupt sleep. In addition, it forces your body to divert energy away from the restorative processes that should be happening in order to work on digesting that food. Instead of snacking after dinner, try sipping on herbal tea that includes chamomile, lavender, and/or valerian; herbs that are known to help promote relaxation and sleep. • Avoid screen time from your phone, computer or TV within two hours of bed. Studies have shown that exposure to this type of light delays the release of melatonin, a sleep hormone, making it difficult to fall asleep. Try taking a walk after dinner, soaking in the bath, or reading a book instead. • Sleep in a cool, dark room. The ideal temperature for inducing sleep is between 60-67 degrees. Be sure there are no lights, even from digital devices, as they can disrupt your sleep hormones. Taking the time to prioritize your sleep patterns is a very important step in maintaining hormonal balance and optimizing your metabolism. In fact, a healthy sleep pattern is often the first thing I look at with clients who are struggling to lose weight. Incorporate the tips outlined here to set the foundation for a more efficient metabolism, and next month, we’ll dive into the next step in the process!

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PEN AND INK Shannan Inman of Paperglaze Calligraphy creates a personalized invitation with handlettering and pen-and-ink drawings. Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

CLASSIC ELEGANCE Haley Williams and Taylor Dement of Creative Occasions keep things classic with this simple and elegant monogram design. Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

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FUN FLORALS Amy Robinson at The Paper Market offers brides a variety of designs to choose from like this stylized floral watercolor suite. Photograph by Kelly Moore Clark

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FISHING

With Kenny

Three Ways to Finesse Fish

atience is not one of my best virtues. Not in life and especially not on the water. I like to turn my trolling motor on, point my boat down a bank and cover as much water in a day’s time that is humanly possible. I don’t have time to slow down! Since I used the first few lines of my article explaining to you my lack of patience, I am going to use the rest of our space explaining a few of my favorite finesse fishing tactics. These techniques are slow and methodical but are fantastic ways to catch numbers of bass and also big ones. All it takes is a little patience. For years a Carolina rig and a Texas rigged worm were considered the tried and true methods for catching inactive fish. The Texas rig has been around since the 1960’s and the Carolina rig wasn’t far behind. Both techniques were area specific and required the angler to pinpoint their presentations, old school finesse bass fishing at its finest. Fast forward a few decades and suddenly finesse fishing has taken on a completely different identity. While the Carolina and Texas rigs still have their place, they have fallen out of favor. The Shaky head, drop shot, and Wacky worm are now the dominant techniques and it is hard to argue their success. While many consider them to be light line specific, all three can be just as effective when used with standard fishing tackle. The Shaky head was once simply referred to as a ball head jig. The plastic worm was threaded on the hook shank leaving the hook exposed and was effectively used in areas that didn’t have a lot of cover. Then someone came along and decided to turn the worm around, insert the hook back into the worm just as you would when Texas rigging a worm and suddenly a new fishing sensation was born. The Shaky head is arguably the best fish catching technique in the modern day world of bass fishing. It works in clear, stained and even 114 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

muddy water. You can flip trees, cast it around boat docks, fish deep channel ledges and even poke around brush piles with it. It can be used at night, spring, summer, winter or fall. This technique may be the perfect fish catcher. While many people prefer to use a Shaky head on a spinning rod with fairly light line, I have had better success using lighter bait casting equipment. I like to use a 6’10 medium/heavy rod with 10 lb. line. My choice of Shaky head is the Sure Hook-Up Shaky head and my favorite size is a 3/16th size ball head. The 1/8th ounce and the ¼ ounce are also good choices depending on water depth and the amount of wind. When I first saw a Drop Shot I have to admit I wasn’t overly impressed. “Someone doesn’t know how to tie on a Carolina rig,” is what immediately came to my mind and didn’t give it a second thought. That is until I began reading and hearing about all the fish that were being caught on this technique. It’s has proven to be another easy and deadly way to catch bass so I always keep the needed tackle in my boat to rig one up. Here are a couple of things that you can do to make your Drop Shot more effective. The first thing I like to do is tie on a small swivel above the Drop Shot itself. This will prevent line twist that happens as the setup is falling to the bottom. The next thing I want to make sure I do is tie on the hook before I do anything else. Once I tie the hook on, I can then adjust the length of line below the hook before attaching my weight. This also allows me to determine how much line I have above the hook before I tie to my aforementioned swivel. Another thing I like to do is Texas rig my Drop Shot which allows me to fish in and around cover. The size hook should be based on the size worm you are using. My choice is a 1/0 offset worm hook because most of the time I use smaller four and five inch finesse worms. If I use larger trick worms then I may go up to a 3/0 hook but it is always the offset style because it seems to hold the worm in place better. Weight styles and sizes are individual preference but I prefer to use a 3/8 ounce weight. The key to the Drop Shot is move your soft plastic while still keeping bottom contact with the weight. This contact is critical when the fish are relating to the bottom but this technique works well on suspended fish that aren’t relating to structure or cover. The last finesse technique I want to talk about is Wacky worming. The concept is simple, the presentation is simple, and if you have patience, the technique is killer. Take your favorite Senko style soft stick bait, take a straight shank 1/0 or 2/0 worm hook, hook the worm in the middle of the egg sack and you have officially rigged up a Wacky worm. Most people prefer using spinning tackle with this technique because it is an excellent choice when skipping the Wacky worm under tree limbs and boat docks. Anglers often use a 20 lb. braid main line then tie a 6 foot leader of 10 lb. monofilament or fluorocarbon to it to so they have both the strength of braid and a shock absorbing feature that is important on the hook set. Throw it out and let it sink. Once it hits bottom pick it up a couple more times. Reel it in and then repeat the process. If it sounds simple that’s because it is but this is a fantastic way to catch inactive fish that faster moving fishermen can’t get to bite. It just takes a little patience! Oh, and one last thing before we go. Don’t get too caught up on the colors of your soft plastics regardless of which one of these techniques you choose. As long as your choice is watermelon/red, green pumpkin or Junebug, you can’t go wrong. It looks like we have run out of time and space for this month. Make sure you take extra care while on the water this summer and if you happen to be wetting a hook, be sure to catch one for me! See you next month!

Meredith’s Musings Daddy of Little Girls |

By Meredith McKinnie

This is a love letter to the daddy of my girls. I fell in love with the man, but fell more in love with the father.

arrying a man who is already a dad was a blessing. It was a preview of the father he would be to our children together. I remember seeing his heart, his big open inclusive heart. He thrived in the family unit, having been raised in a close-knit environment of people who enjoyed each other’s company and took every opportunity to be together. He made me crave a style of family I didn’t realize I wanted. Seeing him be a father awoke the mother in me. My first pregnancy two years ago was new to me, but not to him. I could curl up in his comfort with the experience. And while I had my own female battles with the process, his familiarity made me feel safe. He knew parenthood, and he knew me. He became my safe space, and I curled up in the safety of a man who had our unborn child’s and my best interest in mind. When I ranted, he let me. When I cried, he held me. He’s the best listener I know, knowing more than a response, I just want to be heard. A few days after she was born, I would watch him swaddle her, still learning myself. He would hold almost her entire five-pound body in the palm of his hand, angling her up toward his face. He would open his eyes real wide as he spoke, as if giving her the best chance to get lost in them, to find a focal point. He would carry full on conversations about how he was her daddy and she would always have parents who loved her. He would scrunch his nose at her milkdrunk face and comment how she had more hair than he did, how tiny she was, yet strong. He made her feel safe as he had me while I carried her for nine months. Now, some of my favorite moments are the early-morning hours when he soothes her tired soul. I can hear him talking to her in that same voice through the baby monitor, calming her as he always does

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me. She has my spirit, and sometimes she fights a diaper change or fresh clothes and he makes jokes, saying over and over, “Daddy always wins. Daddy always wins.” He turns her tears into laughter, turning her upside down, forcing baby chuckles. He puts her to bed most evenings, tucking her into her crib, winding the mobile, and starting Mother Goose for her nightly reading. On the nights when necessary, he may stay in there an hour, resting alongside her until she finally rests her tired eyes. He relishes in mundane tasks like feedings, pulling up a chair to stay eye level and discussing her day as she munches carrots and blueberries and chicken. She mumbles little two-word responses now, nodding her head emphatically as she speaks, so pleased that daddy takes such an interest in her thoughts. Like me, she just wants to be heard. He looks most comfortable on the couch with all of his girls, human and canine, curled up all over his 6’4 frame. We’re due with another little girl in August, and I can’t wait for her to join this bubble of love that we’ve created. This will be a new experience for both of us, having two children under the age of two, but I’m not scared. I have a partner who was meant to be a daddy of little girls, who brings out the little girl in me. I couldn’t have chosen a better man to show my girls kindness, empathy, and strength. He’s the kind of man I always deserved, but doubted I would find. He’s the kind of daddy all little girls deserve, yet mine got. Later this year we will have more chuckles, more voices, more love to expand our love bubble. As a mother, I rest easy in the knowledge of a home most focused on love, centered on togetherness, bound by strength. He and I have each other, we have the girls, and most importantly, we have him.

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THE ANIMATED ARTIST FROM DISNEY TO MONROE, JAY DAVIS HAS EVOLVED IN HIS ARTISTIC JOURNEY. WHETHER HE’S CREATING BY HAND OR WIELDING HIS COMPUTER SKILLS, DAVIS BELIEVES IT’S IMPORTANT TO BALANCE THE INFLUENCE OF LIFE AND IMAGINATION. A RTI CLE B Y A PR I L H O NA KE R PHOTOGR A PHY B Y KE LLY M O O R E CLARK

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have a little darkness and mystery. I like things that are beautiful but also a little terrifying.”

JAY N. DAVIS was the type of kid who carried a sketchbook with him everywhere. He knew from an early age that he wanted to be an artist, but when he graduated from River Oaks School in Monroe and headed to college, he majored in architecture instead. At the time, he was confident his parents would not support a decision to major in art, so he chose the path of least resistance. Architecture was a choice they could support, and it would allow him to be creative. Plus, it wasn’t too hard to sneak in an art elective every semester. When Davis graduated with his Bachelor of Arts in architecture from Louisiana State University in Baton Rouge, he had just completed an internship at Architecture+ in Monroe. Working there was fun, and he was optimistic about a career in architecture. Unfortunately, his first real job at a firm in Dallas was not what he’d dreamed of. Davis found himself designing toilets, which he said was the opposite of fun. Before diving headlong into a field he wasn’t sure he could love, Davis decided to go back to school to study computer graphics at Texas A&M University. Afterward, he was immediately hired by Disney where he enjoyed working in animation for 13 years. For his first assignment at Disney, he was as an assistant animator for The Hunchback of Notre Dame. He also worked on Atlantis: The Lost Empire, Dinosaur, and other films, but his favorite was Meet the Robinsons. For this film, he was the supervising animator for Doris, the evil hat.

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In 2007, Davis left Disney and moved to London where he worked on Hellboy II: The Golden Army and was responsible for animating the Golden Army robots. Seeing the art department’s work on this film inspired him to start painting. Soon after finishing his work on Hellboy II, Davis moved back to the states and lived in Los Angeles where he found a supportive community of artists. “They were such good people and friendly,” he said. They willingly offered help and advice when he needed it. In fact, Davis received some of the best art-related advice he’s ever gotten from an artist he met in an improv acting group there. Actor and artist Jeffrey Bowers, who learned painting from his dad, told Davis, “Just be kind to yourself. Don’t be critical. Say ‘yes’ to the things you’re putting on the canvas.” As a perfectionist, Davis found this advice really helpful. “If you’re too critical, you can be paralyzed,” he said. Another important lesson he’s learned through art is to trust that the end result will be okay. Sometimes the middle stages of a project can be messy and discouraging, but most of the time, Davis said, “If it’s a good idea, you’re just not there yet.” Planning well and having a goal in mind also helps. These lessons have given Davis the perseverance to finish even the most intimidating projects. While living in L.A. and honing his oil painting skills, Davis developed a relationship with Hyaena Gallery in Burbank. Hyaena carries dark, lowbrow, underground, and outsider art—the kind of art Davis is drawn to and likes to collect. His own early work, which he described as “dark, erotic, surrealism,” fit their aesthetic and helped him secure his first exhibition. Through Hyaena, Davis made his first sale, a painting called “Devil at the Crossroads,” to a collector from New York. Although his work has changed quite a bit since moving back to Louisiana, he’s still drawn to the darker side of art and life. “I like things to have a little darkness and mystery,” he said. “I like things that are beautiful but also a little terrifying.” There has to be a certain edginess and uniqueness to keep him interested. Since moving back in 2016, Davis’s work has grown more realistic, and he’s been especially inspired by Louisiana’s plants and animals. In fact, in December 2018, Arender Studio featured an exhibition of Davis’s work consisting solely of magnolias in various lights and stages of bloom. Although Davis grew up around magnolias, several years away allowed him to see them with fresh eyes. “You move away, and you forget how cool they are,” he said. “There’s something nostalgic about them too.” The unique smell still brings back memories of throwing the seed pods at each other as a kid. Now, as an adult, Davis enjoys the sights and smells of Louisiana while walking his dog Johnson around area parks, and he always carries a camera to capture the magnolias, mushrooms, flowers, and other things he finds interesting. “When I see something in nature that’s exciting,” he said, “there’s usually a pattern.” He’s captured fern

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fronds unfurling, millipedes curled under logs, mushrooms lodged step-style on tree trunks, and thousands of magnolia blooms. Another flower he’s found interesting enough to render in art is the spider lily with its downward arc of petals and its upward arc of stamens. “They’re so weird and intricate,” he said. Even in his earlier, darker work, spirals were a prominent feature. Since his college days, he’s loved fractals, Fibonacci spirals, and the Golden Mean. For this reason, he also enjoys spirals in nature and in other artists’ work. For example, he’s a fan of filmmaker and animator Tim Burton’s work and local artist Doug Kennedy’s Mojo paintings. Given his long-standing interest in spiral geometry, it’s not surprising that the crisscrossing and spiraling patterns on the seed pods of magnolias have featured prominently in his magnolia series. His attention to detail in this series is evident in the carefully formed spirals on each tiny stamen. He attributes this level of precision partly to a botanical illustration course he took while living briefly in Austin, Texas. But precision has been important to much of his work—not only in the realm of fine art, but also in drafting, designing, illustration, and animation. “If it’s not perfect, I’m not gonna show it,” Davis said. He has high standards for what he makes and what he likes. “There’s a bar it’s gotta rise to,” he said. At the same time, he admitted there are times when looseness is called for, rather than precision. According to Davis, “perfection is whatever the piece of art needs.” With regard to his creative process, making something perfect requires multiple steps that start with planning and sketching. In the beginning, he converts an idea to a thumbnail sketch, but he also compares the 122 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

work to one or more references, and takes care to ensure the elements of composition and design are working. Getting the darks and lights right is key, which is why Davis sometimes uses indirect painting. It’s important to him that the work looks good from across the room as well as up close, and the darks and lights have a powerful effect on how a piece looks from a distance. For Davis, another key to creating successful pieces is using his imagination. While the early work Davis created in L.A. was driven largely by imagination, his more recent work here in Louisiana has been driven largely by photographic reference. But he wants to express his personal, artistic voice more, and as a result, he’s started working more from imagination again in preparation for his next exhibition at the Levee Gallery in August. “I need to make sure there’s enough weirdness in it to keep me happy,” he said. In addition to creating work with a dose of weirdness, Davis has been known to sneak hidden elements into his work just as he snuck art classes past his parents in college. He’s a bit of a prankster, and seeing what he can get past the viewer is fun. It’s something he’s done off and on since college. At LSU, he created a t-shirt design that was voted on by the student chapter of the American Institute of Architects. The design, which contained 28 hidden images, won the competition and was printed before anyone noticed. At that point, Davis said some people were pretty upset. “It was juvenile,” he said, “but it still tickles me.” On several other occasions early in Davis’s career, attempts were made to censor works he created that involved nudity. In his first job as an architect in Dallas, Davis created a t-shirt design that featured

nudes floating in the air. Although the firm as a whole rejected the design, one “maverick partner,” as Davis called him, fronted the money to have the design printed anyway. In another similar incident, administration at Texas A&M tried to stop printing on a another student-voted t-shirt design, but Davis had already collected the money, so he obscured the Texas A&M logo and printed the shirts anyway. Davis definitely has a history of creating controversial work, but someone has always loved and supported what he was doing. In fact, he said times have even changed at Texas A&M where his infamous t-shirt design now lives on in the form of a trophy awarded during the annual Immersive Visualization Competition. Of course, he admitted that having a former roommate who is now head of the department may have had something to do with the change of heart, but Davis isn’t aware of any complaints about the awards. Although he likes to test the limits of what’s culturally acceptable at times, he said he hasn’t hidden any surprises in his recent work and finds other ways to mix things up. In addition to drawing and painting by hand these days, Davis still uses his animation skills. His most recent gig was for the video game State of Decay 2, an open-world zombie survival game. His experience with Disney and his work on Hellboy II, Fantastic Beasts and Where to Find Them, and The Huntsman: Winter’s War have also equipped him with the skills needed to teach animation, which he does online through Animation Mentor. According to Davis, there are more similarities in 2-dimensional art and animation than we might imagine. “You have to be a pretty good traditional drawer to be an animator,” he said. “It’s easy to forget that drawing is important, but it’s super important.” In fact, Davis frequently uses 2-D drawing on a tablet to make his 3-D animation better. “It’s more immediate,” he said. While studying computer-generated animation in school, Davis’s drawing skills gave him an advantage. He already had a strong foundation in drawing, so the hardest part was learning the computer software. Davis defines animation as the presentation of drawings over time. The movement, speed, arcs, and flow add another dimension—another layer of art. But the two go hand in hand. Whether he’s creating by hand or wielding his computer skills, Davis believes it’s important to balance the influence of life and imagination. This is a balance he continually aims to strike. Although he admits he hasn’t figured everything out yet, he said a good massage usually helps. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 123

College Scholarship Giveaway

Shelter Insurance® Foundation and James Bradly Smith Sponsor WMHS Scholarship

HIS APRIL,THE SHELTER INSURANCE® FOUNDATION awarded three $2000 scholarships to graduates of West Monroe High School. Shelter Agent James Bradly Smith sponsors and partially funded this scholarship. A committee of local high school officials and community leaders selected the local recipients. The committee considered each applicant’s scholastic achievements, educational goals, citizenship, moral character and participation and leadership in school and community activities. The scholarship was given without regard to race, disability, religion, national origin or gender of the applicants. Vashtia Addison, Zorria Williams and Reece Aultman are this years winners of the 2019 Shelter Insurance® Foundation Scholarship Giveaway. Vashtia Addison is planning on attending University of Louisiana Monroe in the fall and majoring in Finance with hopes to get her real-estate license. Zorria Williams also plans on furthering her education at University of Louisiana Monroe while majoring in the nursing program. Reece Aultman will be attending Southeastern in the fall and majoring in finance. The students may apply the scholarship funds toward tuition, fees, or campus housing for any course of study beginning the fall after the recipient’s high school graduation and leading to an

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academic degree at any accredited college or university. The Shelter Insurance Foundation is a not-for-profit corporation for charitable and educational purposes. It is sponsored by the Shelter Insurance Companies - offering auto, home, life, farm and business insurance services to customers in 14 states via a network of local insurance agents and headquartered in Columbia, Missouri. As your Shelter agent, James Bradly Smith can help you make sure you get the right coverage at the right price, while providing the quality service you expect. Feel free to give him a call to discuss your insurance options today! Proudly serving West Monroe, Louisiana and surrounding areas. James Bradly Smith 2916 Cypress St, Ste 4 | West Monroe, LA 71291 318-322-0171 (Office) BradJSmith@ShelterInsurance.com Open: Monday–Friday 9 a.m. - 5 p.m.

From Bachelor Pad to Family Home Making the Newlywed’s First Home Perfect

T’S WEDDING SEASON, AND THAT means many couples are searching for their perfect first home together — or they’re trying to decide whose home to move into and restyle. For those in the latter category, making a home that was once a “theirs” become an “ours” is an undertaking that requires patience, attention to detail and, most importantly, a shared effort to ensure the overall design feels collaborative. Making the change from a bachelor or bachelorette pad to a shared home starts with assessing modifications that are needed; creating a welcoming, modern family home is a matter of choosing appropriate colors, furniture, decor and appliances.

COLOR YOUR WORLD Consider starting fresh by embracing an entirely new color palette; select a wall color that is easily matched or paired with complementary colors. Cozy up your living room by enveloping the space in warm, soothing neutrals like tanned camel or buttery

yellows. Bedrooms can instantly become relaxing sanctuaries with cool tones like vibrant blues or charcoal grays. Bright whites or greige tones for kitchens and bathrooms make the space feel clean and on-trend while allowing for a variety of cabinet decor options, plumbing fixtures and lighting selections to make a beautiful impression in each room. Once you’ve selected a color palette, find furniture and fixtures with mixed metals, leather accents or other unique decor features that can tastefully showcase your design personalities. Just by adding interesting pendant lighting pieces, your home will instantly feel more welcoming. Remember the rule of three in accent pieces: repeat a color or finish at least three times to make the space feel intentionally designed. EMBRACE YOUR (NEW) SPACE If you or your spouse were accustomed to displaying favorite sports paraphernalia in the living room, making the space look more

like a post-game celebration station than a family-friendly area — consider substituting super fan staples with decor items like throw pillows or sofa blankets in the same color palette. If a room feels too feminine, replace an overload of pastels, glittered or floral pieces by incorporating a similar level of shine by hanging decorative mirrors or selecting mixed metal frames for wall art. Replacing old appliances — such as an old coffee pot, bathtub or refrigerator — with newer models is an additional way to make your home feel brand new. When you work together to decide what your mutual design preference is, your home will feel more collaborative. Create spaces that appeal to everyone. When shopping, seek the advice of your spouse and family if necessary. After all, your loved ones will be more excited about any changes if they helped create the new space. COUNT ON COBURN’S If you’re planning to convert a former bachelor or bachelorette pad, visit the Coburn’s Kitchen & Bath Showroom in Ruston or West Monroe for project ideas and product guidance. Our design consultants and experienced staff take the stress out of the redesign and renovation processes and will help you create spaces you’ll enjoy for years to come.

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Better Sleep and Stress-relief

CBD Comes in Multiple Options for Your Lifestyle Needs

HAT IS CBD? BESIDES BEING the most talked about plant compound in the news in recent history, CBD (Cannabidiol ) is a promising phytocannabinoid found in agricultural hemp. It has been recognized for its benefits on human and animal health and is capable of affecting nearly every biological process of the body. Support of our body’s endocannaboinoid system with CBD may provide better sleep, proper inflammation response, and stress-relief. It’s amazing that the hemp plant is so versatile that it is used to produce items such as oil, rope, paper, household items, clothing and now, CBD extract is a beneficial medicinal compound. Here is a good check-list when shopping for a CBD product.

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1. Buy from a reputable store that has spent time vetting companies for quality and has educated their staff. 2. Seek out science-based companies that promote a science-based portfolio, as opposed to companies making outrageous health claims or prescribing. 3. Look for evidence that shows that the product was processed in a facility that complies with current good manufacturing practices (CGMPs.) Some companies offer a “QR” code on the label that can be scanned with a smartphone that will indicate incredible information (origin and date of plant being processed, accurate potency, etc.) A COA (Certificate of Analysis) should be available upon request . These are measures that promote transparency and legitimacy.

Fiesta Nutrition Center offers a wide selection of brands , including Plus CBD, Charlotte’s Web, Garden of Life, and Fountain of Health. Choose from tinctures, capsules, sublingual sprays, and gummies. Several brands offer a version for pets. Topicals are available in balms, lotions and patches. A good word to describe Fiesta’s view about which products to offer their customers is “uncompromising,” not a follower of trends or fads. We value our customer’s trust and want their investments in their health to be sound ones. Stop by Fiesta Nutrition Center today at 1211 North 18th Street in Monroe, or visit the website at fiestanutrition,com

Not Just Aesthetic Surgery Dr. Mickel & His Staff Offer In-Office Procedures BY Timothy J. Mickel, MD, FACS - Certified, AmericanBoard of Plastic Surgery

XCESSIVE SWEATING - HYPERHIDROSIS can shatter confidence, ruin clothes and strain relationships. This devastating condition affects about 5% of the population, but another 20-30% sweat enough to have an impact on lifestyle and activities. Excessive sweating can cause social anxiety, withdrawal and embarrassment, and can affect overall quality of life. Over the course of a lifetime you could spend a fortune on powerful antiperspirants - which could have health issues - or armpit Botox, which is temporary, not to mention the money you spend replacing clothes. Or, you could have a one-time treatment that destroys your sweat glands and at the same time reduces odor and armpit hair. MiraDry is a revolutionary new treatment that uses thermal energy to heat the armpit, where bothersome sweat and odor glands reside, and safely eliminate them. MiraDry is a non-invasive treatment that takes about

an hour, is done under local anesthesia, has little or no downtime, and results in an 8085% reduction in perspiration and odor in just one treatment. As a side benefit, there is also a 40-50% reduction in armpit hair – regardless of the color. Most patients can return to their normal activities immediately after treatment, although there may be mild localized soreness, swelling or numbness that can last a week or two. The results are immediate and lasting – the sweat and odor glands eliminated by MiraDry are gone for good. A single treatment is sufficient for the majority of patients, although an occasional heavy sweater may need a second treatment in four to six months. While your body does need sweat glands to cool itself, you have 2 – 4 million of them so eliminating the trouble making 2% that reside in your armpit won’t affect your ability to stay cool. All MiraDry treatments are done in my office by Kasey Burks, a licensed nurse

practitioner. Kasey is trained and experienced not only in performing MiraDry, but also in performing Botox and filler injections as well as FemTouch vaginal rejuvenation treatments. FemTouch is a fractionated CO2 laser with an established track record of safety and effectiveness. FemTouch allows rapid, safe, comfortable, non-surgical treatment for a variety of peri-menopausal vaginal symptoms in women from their 30’s to their 60’s, and it has revolutionized laser vaginal rejuvenation. FemTouch helps with mild stress urinary incontinence, vaginal dryness, painful intercourse and vaginal laxity after childbirth. FemTouch is a simple procedure performed in my office that takes just a few minutes and requires no anesthesia or special postprocedure care. Generally, FemTouch requires just 2-4 short office treatments until the desired result is achieved. All FemTouch treatments are done by my nurse practitioner, Kasey Burks, in the privacy and comfort of my office. So, whether you have excessive sweating, wrinkles or peri-menopausal vaginal symptoms, call Mickel Plastic Surgery at (318) 388-2050 and set up a free consultation with Kasey to see if MiraDry or FemTouch is right for you. From surgery to lasers and everything in-between, when it comes to looking and feeling your best, if it works, we have it!

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Monroe’s Newest “POP UP” Furniture Store Hidden Finds Monroe Features New, Used and Slightly Blemished Furniture

RE YOU LOOKING TO UPDATE your home this summer? Maybe you’ve got a recent high school graduate headed off to college and searching for some swanky furniture to outfit their new apartment? You’ve probably found all kinds of cool new stuff on those popular furniture websites, but who wants to pay those retail prices? Plus, you’ve got shipping AND you have to put the furniture together when it arrives. Why should you have to choose between finding great style and value? Hidden Finds Monroe wants you to know that you don’t have to compromise. Hidden Finds is a brand new pop-up style store in Monroe, LA featuring new, used, and slightly blemished furniture and home decor from those popular online retailers you love at deeply discounted prices. You’ll see pieces you

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recognize from the web, as well as some very cool “hidden finds.” The inventory includes couches, couch beds, coffee tables, dressers, buffets, children’s furniture, barstools, side tables and beds as well as home accessories. Hidden Finds has a constantly evolving inventory and will open in early July, but you’ll want to hurry. Their inventory depends on incoming shipments, and once it’s gone, its gone. The “pop-up” sales will be announced via Instagram and Facebook, and you won’t want to miss a single one. Make sure to pull in if you see that “NEW TRUCK” sign outside the store! Located right between File Depot and MoeBiz at 2318 Armand Connector, Hidden Finds was born from the creative minds of Ann and Chap Breard. They believe that style shouldn’t break the bank, and redecorating

your home should be a fun and stress free experience. Ann and Chap recently renovated the former Moore’s Fitness building on Armand Connector to bring together three companies under one roof. Ann and Chap are so excited to be able to bring Monroe its first truly stylish and modern “pop-up” furniture store. “We can’t wait to open the doors on the first Saturday and let people see what we have in store for them. I seriously think this is going to bring so much fun back to decorating for everyone!” says Ann Breard. “Whether you are looking to redo an entire room or just add some fun pieces to an existing space, we have something for everyone!” For a sneak peek of what Hidden Finds has in store for you, follow them on Instagram @ HiddenFindsMonroe or look them up on Facebook!

Bridal Party Headquarters Dansby’s Taylor Rental

IS THE SEASON FOR BEAUTIFUL brides and their engagement parties and weddings filled with memorable touches and little extras that make guests and the wedding party feel comfortable and loved. Dansby’s Taylor Rental is our area’s one-stop wedding and party planning shop for area brides, their moms and wedding planners. Brides will love the new selection of items to make wedding dreams come true. Sandy Dansby has just returned from market in Dallas, where she found decorative items that will elevate weddings and parties with your own personal and extraordinary style. With a discerning eye toward the tastes of modern brides, Sandy is bringing in a whole new standard of gorgeous items to help you create the wedding of your dreams. When a wedding, reception or party calls

for outdoor accommodations, Dansby’s Taylor Rental totally has you covered. A monumental tent with tall ceilings, chandeliers and draping fabrics is the foundation for a night under the stars, spent on the dance floor with wellwishers, and the rental center has just invested in a state-of-the-art tent perfect for any occasion. Also available are modern white sofas and loveseats to create intimate conversation areas with a contemporary twist. Dansby’s Taylor Rental offers an array of decorative lanterns, candelabra and vases in styles that range from farmhouse chic to Old World elegance. Order your tables from Taylor Rental and make them sing with custom linens which accentuate your chosen color scheme and add gilded Chiavari, or sometimes called Tiffany, chairs for a look that evokes fairytale settings. Choose from a wide variety

of stemware and glassware, including hard to find champagne coupes, to complete your bar. If your plans call for a seated dinner, choose from elegant gold rimmed plates, chargers, and silverware. For elegant backdrops for marriage ceremonies, Dansby’s Taylor Rental has an infinite array of arches, moon gates, and even boxwood hedges or walls to create a sanctuary for special moments. Let our experts Susan, Laura and LaTorell help you plan your next event. Dansby’s Taylor Rental is a bride’s beginning point of departure when organizing and designing the perfect wedding to be remembered for years to come.

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River Oaks Luncheon

The annual River Oaks PTO Scholarsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; Luncheon was held at noon on May 1, 2019. The event took place at Bayou DeSiard Country Club, where families of the honorees were invited to honor these exceptional students and their achievements. River Oaks School is located on Finks Hideaway in Monroe, serves preschool through 12th grade and always strives for excellence in academics, the arts and athletics.

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On the BayouScene 1 Avery, Andy and Kelly Woodring 2 Danny, Melissa and John Saye 3 Mahi and Vamsi Sreedhara 4 Alexa and Ally Chance 5 Kami and Anna Grace Spann 6 Franklin, Janie and Don Simpson 7 Melissa, Brandon and Ronnie Dorsey 8 Brent, Samuel and Wendy Alexander 9 Morgan, Joel, Erin and Patrick Turner 10 Nicole, Sydney and Joey Morris 11 LeAnn and Jada Allen 12 Holton, Cindy and Aubrey Vance 13 Keisha, Ashley and Tyler Avery 14 DeAnna, Jason and Nolan Yelverton 15 Ethan and Marcia Parker 16 Jamie and Aaron Stanley 17 KaraLe, Hallie and Robin Causey

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G A L L E R Y of H O M E S 103 Pecan Drive

245 Preston Road

2101 Marie Place

California Casual in a fantastic West Monroe neighborhood! Freshly remodeled in 2017 with style enough to be featured in a magazine. Gourmet kitchen, beautiful hardwood floors and soaring ceilings! Invisible fence and sprinkler system just add to the amazing feel of this home. Don’t miss your opportunity to have an Instagram worthy house! MLS# 187836 Aleta Eley - John Rea Realty 318.805.1695

Own your own Park\Wildlife Sanctuary; 18+\- acres of unspoiled secluded land. A covered and screened dock overlooks pond, stocked with bream, white perch, and bass. There is a bonus room that could be used as a 3rd bedroom. The 2699 hqsft house has an effective age of just 5 years, the original 1300 hsqft cottage was totally remodeled in 2014, additional 1300 hsqft was added on. The Bendily Group - John Rea Realty MLS#187812 318.381.2077

King Stubbs character & work expressed all that is best of the classical tradition with graceful distinction. His mastery proportion is evident; Crown Moulding, 9 ft. & 10 ft. ceilings. 3BR/2 ½ BA main living area, 2 fireplaces, Roof less than 6 yrs. Old, wood flooring in formal areas, beautiful staircase in foyer – landscaped to perfection. Guest area, sitting area 9x14.5 & BDR 16x21. Simply elegant, elegantly simple. DB Real Estate - Deanie Baker 113-MPDB-MLS#188099

101 Bluff Drive

Seller will pay $5000 of buyers closing costs with acceptable offer! Walk in on the second floor and let your jaw drop at the grand staircase leading up to the third floor. Gaze at the unique peg wood floors and be surrounded by nothing but southern charm. An updated kitchen is perfect for all those entertaining get togethers that this house is perfect for. Head on to the back balcony and enjoy a cup of coffee while swinging on the porch swing overlooking the gated gunite pool and 2.5 acres that leads down to the lake. Impressive amount of storage space! Priced way under appraised value, this house won’t last long. MLS#187653 Heather Guillot, Vanguard Realty, 318.331.4229

108 Hilton Street

2219 Pargoud Blvd.

Beautifully restored 5BR/3.5BA Garden District home. Built in 1935, this home features architectural details perfectly preserved from another era while boasting premium modern amenities. All new electrical wiring, HVAC systems, windows, digital surveillance system, and plumbing. Original wood floors beautifully refinished. Spray foam insulation in all exterior walls, underneath the home, and 18’’ insulation in attic along with all LED lighting & all new appliances are sure to minimize the home’s energy usage. Entire structure was re-leveled and re-inforced. Large backyard enclosed with 8’ privacy fence. MLS#184972 Mark Sisk 318.801.4344

Great 4BR/3BA home in one of Monroe’s most desired locations! Completely updated & move-in ready. Spacious master suite w/ HUGE walk-in closet (I challenge you to fill this one up)! The large living room has tons of natural light. Split-bedroom floor plan gives everyone their own space! Tremendous opportunity in North Monroe! MLS#187492 Mark Sisk 318.801.4344

1160 Owens Road

3605 Scenic Drive

448 Hwy 134

Come check out this stunning home on 2 acres in Calhoun. House sits up on a hill surrounded by trees giving the perfect amount of privacy. Built in 2015, this house offers 5 bedrooms, 3.5 baths, open floor plan, stunning granite and copper sink in kitchen, leathered granite in master bath, wood ceiling accents and even has a huge workshop that’s an additional 1200 square footage. Don’t miss out on this home and everything has to offer. Make your appointment today! MLS#187397 Heather Guillot, Vanguard Realty, 318.331.4229

Tucked away on a quiet, cul-de-sac street, this home has a grand front porch shaded by a beautiful oak tree. A grand foyer with brick floors leads you into either the beautiful dining room or into the cozy study. The kitchen has been re-designed. Brick flooring adorns the comfortable living room. Downstairs you will find 3 bedrooms, one designed as another master bedroom, in-law area or perfect teen or college student room. Upstairs is a grand master bedroom with an extra-large bathroom. This house has a beautiful in-ground pool with hot spa attached. All of this sits on a bayou with a pier! MLS#185718 Heather Guillot, Vanguard Realty, 318.331.4229

Enjoy summer on the bayou with fishing/kayaking in your own backyard! Open floor plan, huge remodeled kitchen with plenty of cabinets, granite, subway tile, large living area, all new bathrooms, master has walk in shower w 3 shower heads & rock floor, huge tub, custom shelving, sinks, & fixtures. Fresh paint, rec lighting, two (2015) 80 gal Rheem Pro water heaters, (2012) 4.5 ton Carrier A/C & so much more! MLS# 183020 Melissa Evans - Coldwell Banker Group One Realty 318.789.7875

Louisiana Opera

An Offer That Cannot Be Refused

HAT HAPPENS WHEN ONE OFTHE MOST BELOVED of Italian comic operas, Don Pasquale, meets some of the most iconic characters in one of the best known cinema classics, The Godfather, sung in English? It is going to be zany, crazy, with a familiar twist that Francis Coppola would approve of, especially since the famous film director’s father, Carmine Coppola, was an opera conductor! Come and be prepared to be entertained at the Emy-Lou Biedenharn Recital Hall on the campus of the University of LouisianaMonroe on Friday, June 7th at 7:30 pm, and a Sunday matinee on June 9th at 2:00 pm. This delightful comedy will be staged with a look reminiscent of the Godfather films, as the characters of the opera themselves could be members of Don Corleone’s family. This brings an odd familiarity to the opera, a fresh look that is fun and surprising. Performing the lead roles in the opera are professional singeractors familiar to Monroe audiences: returning to sing are baritone Ron Ulen singing the title role. He has performed leading baritone roles during a 19-year career in Germany and Switzerland, where he still sings frequently. He sang the title role in the Louisiana Opera’s first production in 2011, Rigoletto (with Claire Vangelisti and Bray Wilkins in the cast.) Also returning to the area by popular demand is Corey McKern, who first performed here in The Barber of Seville, followed by leading roles in the Magic Flute, and then Susannah. He has performed leading opera roles in La Boheme in Santa Fe and New York City. Our very own Claire Vangelisti sings the leading role of Adina, while her love interest, Ernesto, is played by Monroe native Bray Wilkins, who is a professional singer now based in New York City. These performances mark the first time Bray has returned to sing in Monroe since 2011. Baylor University faculty member Jeffrey Peterson will conduct the performances, while Richard Seiler is the pianist, and Mark Ross Clark directs. Joining the production are ULM students who gain valuable experience on the stage while participating in the rehearsal process with seasoned professionals on campus. New York City-based Bray Wilkins grew up in Monroe, and went to college to study musical theatre as a baritone in Idaho. There he was discovered as a young singer with great potential by the Seattle Opera, and he became a young artist for three years in Seattle while switching his voice type to tenor. He returned to Monroe about 10 years ago with his family for a couple of years. While he worked on developing his voice and teaching private voice lessons, his wife Kajsa was a collaborative pianist at ULM on staff, and was the music director at Grace School. It was during this time that Bray sang the leading role in the Strauss Theatre as Curly in Oklahoma! and the Duke in the premiere performance of Rigoletto with the Louisiana Opera. General admission tickets are $25, and can be purchased at the Fiesta Nutrition Center on 18th St. in Monroe. Student tickets are $5, while VIP reserved select-seat tickets with a reception with the artists are $50. Tickets can also be reserved in advance by calling 342-3247. For more information, see ulm.edu/vapa/opera.

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Bayou Dental Group

Improve Your Appearance, Improve Your Life BY DAVID D. FINLEY, DDS, FAACD, FAGD

NY GOOD DENTIST IS INTERESTED IN SAVING ALL of your natural teeth. But natural teeth aren’t always attractive teeth. They can be crooked individually, out of alignment with each other, and discolored. That’s where I, as a cosmetic dentist, can help you get the smile of your dreams. The latest technologies in cosmetic dentistry mean that you really can enjoy your life more fully and have the smile of your dreams. If your teeth are less-than-ideal and causing you pain, discomfort, or embarrassment, then now is the time to find a cosmetic dentist to help you solve your problems. We have seen patient after patient returned to a full and happy life no longer selfconscious about their smile, no longer hiding their mouth at any opportunity, no longer letting their teeth hold them back from the life they want to lead. And now, you can join them! WHAT WE CAN DO FOR YOU Here is what you will receive when you see a cosmetic dentist: ● Y our Dream Smile – Imagine waking up in the morning, looking in the mirror, and seeing the most beautiful smile looking right back at you! ● I mproved Self-Confidence – Flashing your gorgeous smile will make you feel incredible and more confident. ● R educed Risk of Future Problems – With a small correction to your teeth now, you could save having to deal with far more serious problems in the future. This is the time to sort out any issues that you might have, no matter how small and seemingly insignificant they may be. I take a patient’s smile very seriously and consider myself an intricate planner. I also involve the patient in the process every step of the way. On any given smile creation case, we’ll take photographs and then create a wax model to show exactly what your smile will look like after treatment. As an added bonus, you should know that I’ve been creating smiles for more than 30 years and have taken hundreds of hours in continuing education. I take pride in my work in the office and with the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry, where I am the 61st accredited Fellow. My office has won the annual smile competition at the American Academy of Cosmetic Dentistry several years in a row with our restorative and cosmetic dental solutions. TRUST A DENTIST WITH YOUR TEETH WHITENING Many people are tempted to try do-it-yourself teeth whitening. Professional teeth whitening will work faster and protect sensitive gums and tooth-root surfaces better than over-the-counter whitening products. Having an oral exam before you begin any whitening process is an important first step, as we want to make sure your tooth discoloration is not the result of a dental condition in need of treatment. We offer ZOOM! whitening and professional tray whitening in our office. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 133

Monroe Athletic Club For All Your Athletic Needs

INCE IT OPENED IN THE 90S, THE MONROE ATHLETIC Club has grown in every facet from facilities and amenities to membership base. To this day the Monroe Athletic Club prides itself in being one of the most complete family Fitness Centers in the south! The Monroe Athletic Club houses a 30,000 square foot fitness center which accommodates a complete array of top notch, state of the art fitness equipment. A full line of brand name commercial cardio, resistance, and free weight equipment is conveniently placed and accessorized with Club member’s needs in mind. Across from the parking you will find a lighted fitness park which includes a walking/running trail and a complete circuit of apparatuses designed for the outdoor fitness enthusiast. A sand volleyball court, basketball court, and baseball field complete with batting cages are spread throughout the grounds, as well. Full service Aveda product stocked locker rooms, complimentary bath and workout towels and Community Coffee are also available as you enter the lobby. Match that up with a fully trained and certified team of fitness professionals and you have the ideal location for a perfect workout! The MAC is continuously growing and changing to fit the needs of the members. To fully service the community they are now an authorized retailer of lululemon. Founded by Chip Wilson in Vancouver, Canada in 1998, lululemon is a yoga-inspired, technical athletic apparel company for women and men. Their first designs were made for women to wear during yoga. Through plenty of feedback from their guests, ambassadors and elite athletes, they now design for yoga, running, cycling, training and most other sweaty pursuits for women and men. Not to mention, their designers are athletes and sweat-minded people, too. When it comes to creating functional gear, it’s all in the details. From hidden pockets that keep your phone bounce-free on commutes to emergency Cuffins™ sleeves on chilly days, lululemon has designed these features with you (and the ways you like to sweat) in mind. For them, there are no accidents when it comes to design. Every pocket, pull and hem is constructed to help you stay focused on your workout. Quality products for a quality workout, the MAC displays a great selection right when you walk through the doors. Clothing for men and women, yoga mats and more. Any of these items would be a great gift for Father’s Day. Stop by tour the facilities and grab dad something he will use for Father’s Day.

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Diabetes: A Complicated Disease Get the Facts About Diabetes

Myth: If you are overweight or obese, you will eventually develop type 2 diabetes. Fact: Being overweight is a risk factor for developing this disease, but other risk factors such as family history, ethnicity and age also play a role. Myth: Eating too much sugar causes diabetes. Fact: The answer is not so simple. Type 1 diabetes is caused by genetics and unknown factors that trigger the onset of the disease; type 2 diabetes is caused by genetics and lifestyle factors. Being overweight does increase your risk for developing type 2 diabetes, and a diet high in calories from any source contributes to weight gain. Myth: Diabetes is not that serious of a disease. Fact: Diabetes causes more deaths a year than breast cancer and AIDS combined. Myth: People with diabetes should eat special diabetic foods. Fact: A healthy meal plan for people with diabetes is low in saturated and trans fat, moderate in salt and sugar, with meals based on lean protein, non-starchy vegetables, whole grains, healthy fats and fruit. Myth: If you have diabetes, you should only eat small amounts of starchy foods, such as bread, potatoes and pasta. Fact: Starchy foods can be part of a healthy meal plan, but portion size is key. Myth: People with diabetes can't eat sweets or chocolate. Fact: If eaten as part of a healthy meal plan, or combined with exercise, sweets and desserts can be eaten by people with diabetes. The key to sweets is to have a very small portion and save them for special occasions so you focus your meal on more healthful foods. Myth: You can catch diabetes from someone else. Fact: No, diabetes is not contagious. Myth: People with diabetes are more likely to get colds and other illnesses. Fact: You are no more likely to get a cold or another illness if you have diabetes. Myth: If you have type 2 diabetes and your doctor says you need to start using insulin, it means you're failing to take care of your diabetes properly. Fact: For most people, type 2 diabetes is a progressive disease. When first diagnosed, many people with type 2 diabetes can keep their blood glucose at a healthy level with oral medications. But over time, the body gradually produces less and less of its own insulin, and eventually oral medications may not be enough to keep blood glucose levels normal. Myth: Fruit is a healthy food. Therefore, it is ok to eat as much of it as you wish. Fact: Fruit is a healthy food. It contains fiber and lots of vitamins and minerals. Because fruits contain carbohydrates, they do raise blood glucose (also called blood sugar) and need to be included in your meal plan. Talk to your dietitian about the amount, frequency and types of fruits you should eat. Source: American Diabetes Association

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A Shocking Transformation Combating Cellulite with Shockwave Therapy

ELLULITE IS A FRUSTRATING and discouraging problem for millions of women. It targets young and old, large and thin. It’s typically most pronounced around the hips, buttocks, arms or legs of women. We have all tried various creams, potions, exercise regimens, and fad diets which simply don’t work. That’s because cellulite is not a fat problem — it’s a skin problem. Cellulite is made up of fat cells that can’t be burned as fuel, so dieting and exercise won’t eliminate them. Once we get it, we feel cursed because it simply gets worse over time. Many influential factors, such as genetics, poor diet, lack of exercise, smoking, imbalanced hormone levels, and weight, cause fat deposits below the skin to be strangulated by fibrous, connective tissue, called “septae,” thereby making circulation difficult and trapping fluids. Eventually, this connective tissue scleroses (hardens) leading to the dreaded dimpling and that orange peel appearance.   At Professional Laser Center we

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are committed to obtaining the most advanced technologies in treating fat and cellulite. EXTRACORPOREAL SHOCKWAVE THERAPY and INFRARED LASER THERAPY were added to our list of services over the last year. Shockwave Therapy is a painless, non-invasive treatment that quickly and dramatically improves the appearance of cellulite and recontours the body. It uses powerful ultrasound waves to disrupt the scar tissue and connective tissue, improving circulation and initiating collagen production for thicker, more elastic skin. A total of 6 to 8 treatments, twice a week for three to four weeks is recommended. Up to four areas of the body can be treated at a time. Each session lasts about 15 minutes per area. Shockwave Therapy also has a prolonged effect. The results are stored at least one year, which means no expensive maintenance treatments. As photos show below and on our website, www.professionallaser.com, the results only get better over the next three to 12 months.

Infrared Laser Therapy is a great adjunct to Shockwave Therapy because it drastically tightens loose skin. Many women have cellulite and loose skin around their arms, abdomen, batwings, and knees. The laser delivers a beam of high-intensity, infrared light that deeply penetrates the skin tissue. The light heats the water content of your skin which stimulates collagen production, causing the skin to contract and tighten. This treatment utilizes patented, cutting-edge, Krypton Light Technology to safely target skin imperfections and tighten the skin. It can be performed alone or immediately after Shockwave, Microneedling, or IPL to heighten results. It can be used on loose, wrinkled skin anywhere on the face or body. Start your treatments now so you can be ready for summer pool and beach activities. For a free consultation or to schedule an appointment, call 318-361-9066. For a list of all our services, visit our website www.professionallaser.com.

Thurman’s Food Factory Much More Than Dessert

OR OVER 30 YEARS, THURMAN Dickey has created culinary dreams and delicious desserts and has become a staple on the catering scene in Northeast Louisiana. While his work can be seen on display at a wedding on any given weekend in the Monroe, West Monroe and Ruston area, he has been known to travel to Texas, Mississippi and Arkansas to cater events. His shop on Stubbs Avenue in Monroe is known for the plate lunch specials Monday through Friday and for having casseroles and frozen dishes readily available to pick up for a sick friend, housewarming or just a Wednesday night supper. However, Thurman and his staff are known for their cakes! Their classic tiered white bridal cake is a staple at many wedding receptions. They offer classic favorite flavors like white, chocolate and yellow, as well as specialty flavors like Italian Crème, Red Velvet, German Chocolate and Lemon Torte.

Their round wedding cakes can serve a small party of 15 to a large reception for 500. With half a decade of experience, Thurman’s has plenty of classic cakes to choose from but can create a design your bring in as well. They have the ability to do special designs with icing, spray designs and 3-D cakes. Round and sheet birthday cakes are available as well, whether you are looking to serve four or a hundred. And if you want to sample some of the delicious dessert but don’t have a party on the books, you can always swing by the shop and pick up a sheet cake off the table that Thurman’s has readily available. Often you can find sweet flavors like Neiman Marcus, Earthquake, Fudge Factory, Heavenly Hash and more. On a daily basis, there are fresh cookies, breads and pastries like cupcakes, pralines, petit fours to choose from. If you are looking for more of a savory treat, there are always those delicious cheese straws! Thurman’s is much more than dessert.

With their extensive catering menu, they can take care of your wedding reception from beginning to end. They offer some Louisiana staples like boudin balls, shrimp dip, meat pies, marinated crab claws, jambalaya, oysters and even a roasted pig for an added flair. It isn’t a party without a dip and there are plenty to choose from at Thurman’s – crab, spinach artichoke, cheese, grits and corn, B.L.T, blackeye pea, spinach, vidala onion and seven layered Mexican dip. For the main course, you can choose from ham, beef tenderloin, ribs, brisket, turkey, Swedish meatballs, ribs, catfish and more. They also have traditional party platters with vegetables, cheeses, fruit, meat and sandwiches. Whether you are looking for catering for your wedding, rehearsal dinner or shower, Thurman’s will make it is a memorable event. There is no party too large or too small that Thurman’s can’t handle!

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RAILWAY COFFEE Railway is a fully immersive experience into the complexities of coffee. With three locations open in Ruston, Railway Coffee is bringing out the best in people and coffee A RT I C L E B Y VA N E L I S R I V E R A PHOTOGRAPHY BY ANDREW BAILEY

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ive years ago, “native Rustonian” Michael Davis drank bad coffee at work. Not inclined to empty the sugar box into his cup to make it taste better, he Googled the search threads “good coffee” and “better coffee.” What he found was a world of specialty coffee that would lead to opening three locations of Ruston’s optimum brew house—Railway Coffee. Davis has seen Ruston go from a small family, college town to a bustling hive. In those early years, most college students went home on the weekend. “They weren’t commiting to the community idea yet,” he says. He remembers driving through what looked like a ghost town wondering what it would be like if the downtown had attractions that would encourage people to stay and engage. “I knew from growing up that it would be cool to be a part of it. I didn’t know what it would look like. I didn’t have coffee in my mind at that point, certainly not owning a business at that point,” he says, enthusiastically adding, “We have such cool bones here.” Ruston pride runs deep in Davis. A Ruston High School alum, he played baseball with the intentions of going pro. He also played at Centenary College in Shreveport as a health and exercise science major and then transferred to Louisiana Tech as a sociology major. He met his wife, Jana Davis, at Tech and married as a postgrad, quickly taking a job at his father’s construction company (where he had his coffee epiphany.) In his Google search he learned that there are homeroasters who buy directly from small farmers all over the world. Though they pay a little bit more than the commodity price, they’re assisting the development of small farms and the local communities of that area. Davis began buying from a co-op in Nicaragua called Gold Mountain Coffee Growers (a relationship he still maintains) who use their premiums to build schools, clean water wells, and offer computer programming classes for the girls of the community. The idea that he could have better coffee at home if he roasted the beans himself was his personal rabbit hole. Davis began roasting as a hobby around November 2014, transforming his relationship with coffee. “I look forward to the process of brewing,” he

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says, appreciating the array of smells and flavors. From that place and are located at old display windows and the side-center of the of respect, he had the idea to expand his brewing to the community room where a velvet steel-blue couch invites chatty friends. Small with the hopes of impacting the communities of the small farmers he wooden tables seat four, two tall dinner-style tables cozy-up a bought from as well as his own. Suddenly he’s buying green beans back corner, and three mounted wood work-desks (local handyfrom countries like Colombia, Guatemala, and Brazil, quickly turning work of Legacy Woodworking) seat two. An exposed wood his small-scale home roasting around. Tastings for family and friends ceiling compliments the industrial look of the main walls—one became e-commerce, then farmers markets, and finally, a location. peeled to its patchy first layer then sealed, and the other layered The first Railway Coffee location opened on October 13, 2016 in with galvanized metal. Hanging Edison string lights complete downtown Ruston. They stayed there for two years before moving the chic subterranean feel of a relaxed space, saturated with the the coffee shop a block away, keeping the original location with the invigorating smell of coffee. intention of opening a wholesale roasting facility. Not only would that What distinguishes Railway Coffee is their crafty know-how allow them to roast, grind, and bag at a larger scale, they also wanted of specialty coffee, which is typically free of any major defects that to use the space to bring the community occur because of bugs, harvesting, and/ in for home brewing workshops. A year or processing. In other words, it’s a purer Connecting with coffee makes me ago, the couple’s current partners came coffee. These special batches of beans are think about so many different people. on board—Brooks and Nicole Harris. graded on a scale of sixty to one hundred I think about the farmers, I think Thanks to their investment and handsthrough a process called cupping where on involvement, the team opened up the coffee is grinded into a cupping bowl about us roasting it, I think about current location of their downtown café and smelled for identifying aromatics. the people that come here and directly parallel to the railroad tracks. Water is then added, the mixture is enjoy it as well. To me, it’s a spiritual Around the same time, the team signed steeped for four minutes, and when a experience in the way that I’m a lease for the northside location and crust forms, it is broken, revealing a new opened both locations within four days aroma. Aromatics are again explored, connecting with so many people. of each other. Each location has its own the Q graders (that’s what the experts ~ MICH AEL D AVIS personality. The northsider is a smaller are called) further identifying aromatic space with a modern minimalistic layout, descriptors—sweet, harsh, bitter—then whereas the downtown location, more spacious, vindicates the old they slurp the coffee, “which is the nerdiest thing,” laughs Davis. bones of the storied building. “The look just evolved,” says Davis, When slurping, an expert’s teeth are meant to water-hose the referring to the mod-boho look of their downtown location. The team coffee so that it is aerated into all parts of the mouth, where a has taken advantage of the extensive space, creating a variety of areas seasoned palate would pick up sweet up front, sour on the sides, suitable for different customer needs. Lounge areas are marked by and bitter in the back. Q graders analyze whether flavor notes natural rattan wingback chairs accented with patterned throw pillows are balanced or if one flavor is overpowering another. They’re also looking for specific descriptors, like hints of blueberry, dark chocolate, toffee, or floral. “People get so stuck on the coffee terminology of medium roast or dark roast, or bold,” says Davis, adding, “It’s not wrong. It’s just incomplete.” Every coffee has distinct flavor characteristics based on where it’s grown, country of origin, altitude, variety of coffee, and how it is processed. Davis considers his job as a roaster is to understand all of those variables in order to roast in a way that brings out the best in that coffee. Anything less he considers an injustice to the farmers who base their livelihood on producing a crop that costs more to produce. Railway has direct trade relationships with co-op farms in Nicaragua, Guatemala, and the African countries of Burundi and Uganda. Davis also buys from importing companies that sell beans from countries like Costa Rica, Brazil, Colombia, and Indonesia. “We try to always keep some of the Nicaraguan because it’s really good,” enthuses Michael. While usually associated with a medium roast profile, Railway’s Nicaraguan has flavor notes of cherry and sometimes chocolate. The Colombian is usually used for espressos, while other beans are rotated based on their growing season. For obvious reasons, coffee is a staple that has been regarded solely for its ability to wake us up. “Caffeine—it’s a means to an end,” Davis jokes. But he likes to talk about coffee as if it were a fine wine. “When we start to tell people about fruity notes in coffee, some of them are like I don’t want that mess, just give me the darkest thing you have.” Of course, Railway is happy to oblige, but “you’re missing out on some really good coffee,” says Davis. 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not appreciate that. But, he prompts people not to shy away from different flavor profiles. Davis understands that a coffee menu can be overwhelming because the item listings are often traditionally Italian or Spanish drinks: cappuccino, macchiato, cortado. But Davis encourages you to have a conversation with your Railway barista, who is prepared to supply recommendations based on your level of comfort or curiousity. As a general rule, Davis does not encourage sugary, chocolatey drinks, because they mask the flavor of the coffee. A coffee novice should try a Railway latte with oat milk, one of their in-house sugar free syrups (vanilla, almond, lavender, and other seasonal flavors), and a sprinkle of cinnamon. An intermediate drinker is encouraged to try any Railway brew but just black. It’s a bolder way to drink your coffee but not as risky as the concentrated espresso. Expert drinkers should test their fiend-level with a Railway manual pourover, which invites all of the coffee into the “extraction party” and also keeps sediment at bay, resulting in a cleaner pour. “It’s like the pulp free version of coffee,” Davis says. In addition, tag-team your pour-over with the coffee purist’s dream: the espresso. Treat yourself further with one of Railway’s tasty baked goods. Their baker, Emily Allen, dishes out warm flaky croissants, savory bacon and cheddar scones, artisan breads, and a few paleo and health conscious options. “We can’t keep her stuff in stock,” says Davis. Railway is a fully immersive experience into the complexities of coffee. And while it all begins with a green coffee bean, the roasting process is where science and art meet. “It’s a lot of using data to make a plan, but we have to check how our plan worked and retool it if we have to, but then there is no right way to do it,” informs Davis. 142 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Dedicated to maintaining the integrity of the bean, he researches new beans with the help of knowledgeable importers. He then compares the chemistry of a bean to his built database, which provides him an idea of where to begin the roasting process. Even then, there’s a lot of trial and error. Michael has ended up roasting three batches three different ways, cupped them, and then scored them in an effort to find the best one. When teaching roasters, Davis’ discourse becomes precise, referring to development time, a certain time during the roast process between “first crack” to the end of the roast. That time slot can be shortened, stretched out, or altered, and is often described in a percent of development time. “That’s just a really coffee nerd way to say it,” he laughs. Now that he thinks of it, he has, in fact, used his sociology degree in his business. Watching human behavior is not only key in understanding consumer behavior, it also widens our social lens. Railway wants to enhance people’s lifestyle, whether it’s the people that work for them or those seeking a caffeinated sanctuary. For Davis, connecting with coffee is a holistic experience: “It makes me think about so many different people. I think about the farmers, I think about us roasting it, I think about the people that come here and enjoy it as well. To me, it’s a spiritual experience in the way that I’m connecting with so many people.” There is unity in sharing, and when it comes to Railway’s coffee, there’s an interconnected web that spans the globe, one that reminds us to be more socially aware, kinder, and giving—but first, coffee! Visit both locations at 130 W. Park Ave. Ruston, LA and 103 Pelican Blvd. Ruston, LA. Follow them on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter to be the first to know when their wholesale will open.

St. Francis Medical Center Awarded ‘A’ Safety The Leapfrog Group Designates Excellent Safety Grade

T. FRANCIS MEDICAL CENTER WAS awarded an ‘A’ from The Leapfrog Group’s spring 2019 Leapfrog Hospital Safety Grade. The designation recognizes St. Francis Medical Center’s efforts in protecting patients from harm and providing safer healthcare. The hospital was also awarded an ‘A” in the fall of 2018. “To have received this national recognition again as one of the country’s safest hospitals is a result of our entire team’s daily pursuit of excellence,” said Kristin Wolkart, President and CEO of St. Francis Medical Center. “Whether it is patient safety initiatives like using new technology to reducing falls or patient-centered rounding to involve the patient and family in the plan-of-care, our physicians and dedicated team members never stop improving and innovating on behalf of those we serve. We are extremely proud to have this recognition

affirm we are doing the right things for our patients and our community.” The Leapfrog Group is a national nonprofit organization committed to improving health care quality and safety for consumers and purchasers. The Safety Grade assigns an ‘A’, ‘B’, ‘C’, ‘D’ or ‘F’ grade to hospitals across the country based on their performance in preventing medical errors, injuries, accidents, infections and other harms to patients in their care. “To be recognized nationally as an ‘A’ hospital is an accomplishment the whole community should take pride in,” said Leah Binder, president and CEO of The Leapfrog Group. “Hospitals that earn an ‘A’ grade are making it a priority to protect patients from preventable medical harm and error. We congratulate hospital leaders, board members, staff, volunteers and clinicians who work so hard to earn this A.”

Developed under the guidance of a national expert panel, the Leapfrog Hospital Safety Grade uses 28 measures of publicly available hospital safety data to assign grades to more than 2,600 U.S. acute-care hospitals twice per year. The Hospital Safety Grade’s methodology is peer-reviewed and fully transparent, and the results are free to the public. St. Francis Medical Center joins Our Lady Lourdes Regional Medical Center and Our Lady of the Lake Regional Medical Center, all part of the Franciscan Missionaries of Our Lady Health System, in being recognized with a Leapfrog ‘A’ for patient safety.

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Butter Bakery in Downtown Monroe Gluten Free Bakery Offers Breakfast, Lunch And More!

OWNTOWN MONROE IS growing more and more with new businesses and residential opportunities. In the middle of it all is Butter Bakery, located in the Vantage Building on DeSiard Street. This bakery gets all the comments and likes on Facebook any time they post a picture of their culinary creations like Swiss roll Cake, Monte Cristo grilled cheese sandwich or caramel banana pie. Sometimes the people who flock to the bakery to try their social media sensational items don’t even realize said items are gluten free. That’s right…the entire bakery is gluten free, meaning free of all forms of wheat, barley and rye. They have even started to offer some dairy free and vegan items. Like most good ideas, Butter Bakery was born out of necessity. Charity Jones and her husband Adam, opened the bakery after getting such

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feedback, and slight begging, from friends and family. Adam’s family is gluten free and to accommodate them, Charity started baking gluten free cakes and sweet treats for family get-togethers and celebrations. She expanded her skills and mastered elusive gluten free items like choux pastry and bread. The opportunity came to open the bakery and Charity has been testing and trying out new products ever since. Butter Bakery offers standard items like cookies, cakes, brownies, muffins, as well as unique items like eclairs, monkey bread and candied apples. They are open for breakfast with items like quiche, cinnamon rolls, handmade pop tarts, greek yogurt and banana nut muffins. Lunch options rotate and some favorites include baked potato, cheese fries, roast beef po-boy and nachos, just to name a few.

If you have an upcoming special event such as birthday party, wedding or baby shower, you can order a cake to celebrate! Charity is always experimenting with cake flavors and can do anything from a simple strawberry funfetti cake with bright sprinkles to a lemon cake with whipped cream cheese frosting topped with fresh berries to a rich and decadent chocolate cake covered in crumbled Butterfingers! You can also place orders for a fresh loaf of French bread or a rosemary focaccia, perfect for a family dinner! Be sure to stop by Butter Bakery Monday through Friday and see what is available in their case for you try. You will probably discover a new favorite sweet treat, only to be replaced by whatever Charity creates next!

St. Frederick High School Class of 2019 Congratulations to an Outstanding Senior Class

T FREDERICK HIGH SCHOOL’S 2019 commencement exercises were held on Tuesday, May 14, 2019 at Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic Church. A Baccalaureate Mass of celebration was held prior to graduation led by the Very Reverend Peter Mangum who is serving as Diocesan Administrator of the Diocese of Shreveport, Louisiana. There was a large crowd including families and friends there to congratulate the students. Also in attendance was Sister Carol Shively, Superintendent of Schools for the Diocese of Shreveport. The SFHS Class of 2019 was an outstanding group in many ways. Academically they are one of the highest performing groups of students in school history. The average ACT for the group was 25, with the top fifteen percent of graduates scoring 30 or above. The students have taken advantage of the numerous dual enrollment college courses offered at St. Frederick. The average student in the Class of 2019 earned thirty dual enrollment hours,

which are honored at all Louisiana colleges and universities, as well as the majority of institutions of higher learning nationwide. Additionally, senior Julian James was selected as a National Merit Finalist. The Class of 2019 received over $3,000,000.00 in scholarship offers in addition to their TOPS earnings! This year’s Valedictorian is Frances Doyle, daughter of Alicia Doyle. Frances also received the Luffey Memorial Scholarship which is one of the highest honors a senior at St. Frederick can be selected to receive. She plans to attend the University of Arkansas and major in business. St. Frederick’s Class of 2019 Salutatorian is Annelise Juneau. Annie is the daughter of Wendy and Bud Crow and Benji Juneau. She plans to attend Louisiana State University and major in biology. In addition to maintaining a perfect 4.0 GPA, Annie was selected as a member of the LHSAA All Academic Composite Team in three sports, basketball, cross country, and track.

Other awards presented at the ceremony went to seniors Jacob Allbritton and Gabriela Trejo who were selected to receive the 2019 Bishop’s Medals. These awards go to students who exhibit leadership, scholarship, character, and community service. The Spirit of St. Frederick Award goes to one community member and one faculty member who exhibit and live by the values for which St. Frederick stands. Misti Cordell was selected as the community recipient of the Spirit of St. Frederick, and Joni Dollar was chosen as the faculty winner. St. Frederick High School prides itself in developing each student’s fullest potential: spiritually, intellectually, athletically, and socially. The mission of St. Frederick High is to nurture students to be living examples of Jesus Christ in an atmosphere of academic excellence. Parents interested in providing their student with an exceptional, college preparatory high school education should contact the school at 318-323-9636.

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Strickland Interiors

Offering Design, Consulting and Styling

INCE SHE WAS A CHILD, JAN Strickland has been fascinated with architecture, furnishings and overall design. Growing up in Rayville, her family traveled to local destinations like the Biedenharn Museum and Garden and the Masur Museum to far away places throughout Europe, and Jan took in all the unique buildings and design elements. “I just remember being fascinated with design and I have always known it is what I want to do with my life,” said Jan. She took that passion to the University of Alabama where she studied and graduated with a B.S. in Interior Design and completed an internship in Foley, Alabama. Upon graduation, she honed her skills with design firms in Birmingham and Montgomery, Alabama and recently moved back to her roots to Northeast Louisiana. She is a proud allied member of the American Society of Interior Designers and works regularly to complete continuing education classes, ensuring she is up-to-date on all things design! She is married

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to her husband, Josh Strickland and they are raising two children, Jey and Evy, while Jan continues to follow her passion of design. Strickland Interiors offers design services for residential and commercial properties across Northeast Louisiana and beyond. “I recently worked on a beach front property where I chose the exterior paint colors as well as selected furnishings for the interior lobby,” said Jan. Each project that Jan works on depends on the client’s needs. Some projects are smaller and can be completed by changing paint colors, getting a new light fixture, selecting new furniture or rearranging what the client already has. Other times, Jan works with a home builder or architect on floor plans to design a client’s home for years to come. “I really look at the long term and what a family needs out of a home for the next several years,” said Jan. “You can always pick out something you like on Pinterest or online that is aesthetically appealing, but it is important that is practical and works with your needs.”

Building a home can be overwhelming to some and Jan can help relieve some of the stress and anxiety. She can select paint colors, tile, brick, stone, flooring, plumbing fixtures, cabinet style and more. She also works with a variety of budgets. When you hire Strickland Interiors, Jan meets with you at the space, home or commercial building you are working on for an initial consultation. She will look at the space and get an idea for your vision and go from there. She can create a mood board with a complete look or meet you at a local retailer to look at different options for the space. Jan will work one on one with you to ensure your vision is fulfilled. Recently, Jan was the lead designer for the St. Jude’s Dream Home for the second year in a row. “It is important for me to give back to the community that I grew up in,” said Jan. “I am so happy that I can use my passion to help local families!”

If You Haven’t Seen the VUE You Haven’t Seen Natchez

ATCHEZ, MISSISSIPPI IS THE jewel of the Mississippi River. The oldest settlement on the Mississippi River is rich with history and full of character. With extravagant antebellum mansions, rich African-American heritage, Native American history, culinary deliciousness, and amazing sites, Natchez has something for everyone. For generations, the hotel upon the bluff has been the setting for southern hospitality both big and small. In a community where legacy is valued, the places that provide the backdrop for great memories reign supreme. These are exciting times with ownership strongly tied into the community for generations. They remember their own traditions here and understands that a renewed sense of service, renovated accommodations, and fresh food and beverage offerings resonate with a large family of travelers and locals alike.

Hotel Vue highlights its orientation to the mighty Mississippi and what this river has meant to this community. In the daylight, the endless flow of the river continues as far as the eye can see. A warm glowing sunset is witnessed at dusk from our balcony porches, river view rooms, and our newly constructed gazebo. Hotel Vue’s décor has been refreshed to intrigue all guests by looking back at Natchez’s history throughout its artwork and forward with the comfort and interest of modern accessories. Details strike a balance between the amenities of the Ascend Collection of Hotels and the uniqueness of a local bed and breakfast. Hotel Vue and the Pilot House are the perfect venue for all wedding activities: bridesmaids luncheons, rehearsal dinners, ceremonies, receptions, and wedding brunches. By offering a variety of venues

overlooking the Mississippi River to make your day not only exquisite, but picturesque. Our newly constructed outdoor gazebo on the Bluff is the perfect place to say, “I do.” After your ceremony, guests are invited to the Ballroom and the Pilot House to celebrate your vows and families uniting. Our variety of venues, hotel guest rooms, and catering options set our property apart from everywhere else in Natchez. With fresh menus, gorgeous views, comfortable rooms, your guests are sure to enjoy your special day. If you’re considering a weekend stay, meeting or convention, or celebrating your big day – consider Hotel Vue and the Pilot House, where we are able to make your dreams reality.

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Simply Lou WILDIN’ OFF article by Lou Davenport

et me first explain the title of this month’s column, “Wildin’ Off.” If you are a member of my family, you already know, but for those of you that want to learn a new “slang phrase,” I’m going to give ya’ll one of my Aunt Mayvonne’s favorite sayings. Now, she thought me, Judi and Loretta were wild girls. We were not even close! But if we did get to go ride around to look at the men, she’d say we “better not be out there wildin’ off!” We still use it! Even the younger second generation kids know the saying. So, since I’m going to write about wildflowers and native plants, I thought “wildin’ off” sounded pretty fitting! To you, Maisie! When they would come to Bastrop, they got the lecture again. “You needn’t think(she loved that phrase) you are going to Lou’s and go “wilding off.” Again, we were some wild ones, and would be home by 10 p.m. All my children went to school in Vicksburg,

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and when you became a freshman at Warren Central High School, in science you made a “bug collection” (yuck) and a “wild flower” collection. I let Larry help Carolyn with those bugs because I just couldn’t “gas” a beautiful butterfly. I had problems with sticking pins in those bugs, too. Not my thing. But, I helped her with her wildflower collection and ended up becoming addicted to them. I still am and I still know a lot of them. There’s native plants, too, and they are very addictive, too. I have several in my yard. When Adam got to the 9th grade, they stopped doing the bug collection. Thank goodness; but, there was still the wildflower collection. The only thing they changed was you no longer had to get the roots of the plant, too. That made for a less messy looking speciman so I was so glad all we had to do was clip and then press them. Even though I know Carolyn and Adam weren’t nearly as excited about wildflowers

as me, they did do some work on their project. I found stuff that wasn’t on the list of flowers to collect. I was just “wild about wild flowers!” There was a strip of very old woods between our subdivision and the one next to ours. That strip was nothing but virgin woods and they were going to clear it and build more subdivisions. When I saw what was growing out in those woods, I almost started a protest! But, instead, I just“rescued” several, which at the time was illegal for some plants. But I couldn’t just let them be plowed under. I dug up a Jack in the pulpit and a golden dragon, I wish I could have rescued more but I was already being very “James Bond” like: dressed in black, black bag with the illegal plants. Wow! It was fun! I did plant them in my yard and they got bigger by the year. By the time I moved, my Jack in the pulpit was about three foot tall and so was the golden dragon. I guess the statute of limitations has run out by now and I am out of state, so I don’t think they’d really want me. Too cheap to arrest me and try me! I don’t have the plants anymore, either! I don’t think Mississippi would want me back anyway over two rescued plants. I did buy five Jack in the pulpits last year online and now, they are growing happily in my back yard. There are so many wildflowers everywhere. Some grow in specialized areas like bogs or dry prairies. The bluebonnets of Texas are probably just winding down their yearly show and if you’ve never seen them in full bloom, I highly recommend it. “Indian blanket” is always growing along side it and it’s spectacular. I saw a real Turk’s Cap Lily up on a mountain in South Carolina and got so excited (it’s the little things you know.) Right now is just about prime time to go see the wildflowers. Most are right beside the highway! On 165 north, there’s some of the most beautiful vetch I’ve ever seen. It’s so purple it almost glows. There’s goldenrod, wild sunflowers and I even saw some “horsetail” plant in the muddy ditch near Brookshire’s. I’ve seen cardinal flower at Lake Clairborne, white, crimson and red clover and lyre leafed sage. One of my favorites is Venus looking glass and blueeyed grass. Such tiny little gems! I have wild violets, trumpet honeysuckle, and swamp spider lillies. I love yellow goats beard and tansy. Oak leaf hydrangeas are considered

a wild flower! Yellow jasamine, artemesia, periwinkle, and dusty miller are, as well! We cannot forget hurricane lillies who keep multiplying in my yard! Blackeyed Susans will be here soon and there’s lots of its cousins already blooming. Also, can’t forget spiderworts. You can dig some up on the roadside or if you are lucky like I was, a nice bird pooped plenty! Bees and hummingbirds love most wild flowers especially the red and pink ones. Louisiana has some exquisite native plants as well as wild ones. The beautiful Louisiana iris in purple and a reddish brown is one of the most famous. There’s a wild azalea that grows out in the woods and smells so good! The common “redbud” tree is considered a Louisiana native plant. There’s so many more to mention but I don’t have the room. But I can tell you if you notice the little flowers in your yard, maybe get yourself a “Petersen’s Field Guide.” You will probably get hooked like I did. I love to learn new things, I think we should always

be learning. It was 20 years ago when I got the “wild flower bug” and I’ve still got it. I’ve been trying to learn trees which is not that easy. There’s a lot of oaks around here. I have also been teaching myself how to make books, as in journals, and bound books, by watching YouTube videos. It’s really fun but I’m no pro yet. Keep learning! Never stop! I’m going to a folk painting workshop in Alabama in June, and I cannot wait. Folk painting isn’t as easy as you might think, there’s a lot more planning and thought. I was supposed to go get to see my lifelong favorite band, “The Rolling Stones,” but Mick had to have surgery. But, it sounds like he’s doing well but, I’m going to see Chris Stapleton and Merle Haggard’s son at the Strass. I make no promises that I won’t be standing up singing! No, I will be “wilding off!” That’s my Mother’s Day present, so, my summer is shaping up pretty good. My yard needs so much work, but, if it gets done, it gets done, if it doesn’t, it doesn’t. I think your whole personality changes after 65, and

I don’t mind. I’ve never been as happy as I am right now! Live your life your way! I’d like to thank my friend, Carolyn Files, for inviting me to be their guest speaker for May at Morehouse Literary Forum. What a wonderful, warm reception they gave me and I had two added surprises, my friend, Mary Churchwell and my teacher in senior English at BHS, Mary Jane White were there. It had been way too long and you know, she hasn’t changed. The rest of the ladies were just what Bastrop Ladies are....LADIES! And, I thank all of ya’ll again. As my friend Dianne Cage says, “Now, ya’ll be sweet!” That goes from me, too. See you next month with music reviews!

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Azalea Estates of Monroe

Compassionately Caring for North Louisiana’s Seniors for Over 23 Years

ZALEA ESTATES ASSISTED LIVING and Retirement Communities are owned and managed by the original founders, who have more than 100 years of combined experience in caring for seniors. Our company strives to set new standards each year for services, amenities, and programs designed to keep our residents as active and independent as possible. While our communities’ surroundings and home-like atmospheres are wonderful, what truly sets Azalea Estates apart is our staff and their understanding of the true meaning of service to our residents. Our goal is for you to walk into one of our Azalea Estates and say, “It feels like home.” We strive to accommodate all of our residents and make them feel at home. We have individual apartments in single bedroom or two bedroom. We also have a studio option available, as well as, our new

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secured “Legacy Wing.” The Legacy Wing provides care for residents with Dementia and Alzheimer’s Disease. We want our residents to be comfortable and happy while staying at Azalea Estates. Some of the accommodations we provide are weekly housekeeping and laundry service. We also provide transportation to and from doctor appointments. There are scheduled daily group activities, weekly social outings, family dinners and special events. Table service breakfast, lunch and dinner in the dining hall everyday. We want the transition into assisted living to be easy and carefree. Our living options include: • Retired Living • Assisted Living • Memory Care • Respite Care.

Few other senior living communities can compare to the lifestyle, features, amenities, and outstanding value that Azalea Estates offers each resident. The very best way to learn about us is to come by and see our communities, have a meal with us, meet our residents and staff, and see how much fun we have and how you can make tomorrow better than today. Special offering is happening now for a limited time. Please call or stop by to see how you or your loved ones can continue living YOUR best life. Azalea Estates of Monroe 318-350-6576 4380 Old Sterlington Rd. Monroe, LA 71203

The Wedding of Your Dreams The Mansion at Red Hill

HE PERFECT LOCATION FOR THE MOST STUNNING wedding a girl could dream of isThe Mansion at Red Hill, an elegant Bed and Breakfast that creates a romantic backdrop for a brideâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s special day. The inviting beauty of the manicured acres, stocked pond, serene setting and elegant home are perfect to make your special occasion decadent and luxurious. Quite and private, the Mansion can be found off I-20 in Northeast Louisiana, north of the town of Delhi. It is situated on 85 acres of lush grassland with groves of trees and a large pond, complete with a fountain and pavilion. The Mansion has an executive suite, four bedrooms, an elevator for our guests needing assistance, two living rooms, a dining room, library, a grand staircase foyer, rear courtyard and an expansive front gallery. There are nearly an uncountable amount of settings for bridals and wedding photos. Nearby sites include the Poverty Point World Heritage Site and Black Bear Golf Club. Included in the wedding package are the use of the front porch, courtyard, grounds, the lower floor of the Mansion, 100 white chairs, 17 round tables, linen for the tables, clean-up and set-up for the event, three staff members, and the 1,000-sq. ft.

Honeymoon Suite. The Honeymoon Suite is available for the bride and her attendants to dress for the big event. The Mansion also provides a delicious breakfast for the newlyweds the following day. Elegance and decadence are guaranteed in all aspects of The Mansion at Red Hill. If weather is factor on your special day, the interior of The Mansion is spacious and can accommodate all guests. As soon as guests enter the front entrance way they will be greeted by a grand foyer with a large beautiful staircase and views to the back courtyard. The property is available at 8 a.m. the day of your wedding, giving ample time to be pampered and have pictures taken before guests arrive. The Mansion offers brides unparalleled customer service and strives to make each bride feel at peace and beautiful on their special day. For more information call 318.878.5155 and start planning your dream wedding today. Photos provided by Desirae Gooding Photography, Kim Wilhite and Divinely Favored Photo Co.

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Father’s Day Fertility Positive Steps Offers Hope

ESPITE STEREOTYPES ABOUT women being more passionate about building families (“maternal instincts,”) there are many men who deeply want to be fathers. Many men wonder whether their “swimmers are drowning” or in the “shallow end of the gene pool.” Fortunately testing for counts is relatively easy, where a semen analysis can give a quick result as to whether or not there is a meaningful issue with male fertility. As long as there are reasonable sperm counts and a couple can have unprotected relations approximately every three days around the middle of the cycle, the likelihood that male factor is driving subfertility is low. When counts are low, the question is what can be done to improve them. A thorough evaluation can identify many

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causes. Extremes of weight (too thin or too heavy) can affect sperm production. High levels of heat can also be important. This can be found in HVAC workers in hot attics, men with larger thighs who are long distance truck drivers, hot tub users, and more. Testosterone use is increasingly common, which can lower sperm counts from 80,000,000 to undetectable fairly quickly. However, several causes for low to no counts are also invisible. For example, some men are born without part of the vas deferens, so they are effectively born with a vasectomy. Others have testes that simply don’t make sperm and some actually are missing DNA on the Y chromosome that guides sperm production. These are causes that can’t be fixed through a “healthier lifestyle.” Many men think they know they

are fertile simply because they “own the equipment” which is much like saying that if you have a heart, you are therefore a cardiologist. If things aren’t working, where a couple has had unprotected relations for a year without becoming pregnant, it is often easier just to have a specialist quickly figure it out for you. At Positive Steps Fertility, we routinely help couples become pregnant quickly and affordably. We hope to help you on your journey and Happy Father’s Day! Please join us on Facebook every first Friday of the month for First Friday Fertility Live 12:00 p.m. CST.

Miss Kay’s Sweets & Eats Offers Catering for Any Event

ISS KAY’S SWEETS & EATS AT 401 TRENTON ST. IN West Monroe is the best place for your party! We have experience in all types of events including wedding receptions, rehearsal dinners, birthday parties, cupcake decorating parties, corporate meetings, church groups, retirement and graduation parties and more. Call Jon Gimber, our catering specialist, at 318-582-5871 today to get a quote! OFFERINGS We are able to accommodate nearly any request you may have. We offer hors d’oeuvres such as hot boudin dip, bacon-wrapped shrimp, honey-glazed steak bites, b-b-q pork or pizza sliders and much more. For larger meals, just a few of our many specialties are items such as cheesy chicken spaghetti, chicken cordon bleu, bacon wrapped pork tenderloin or any of the delicious sandwiches on our regular lunch menu. If you’re looking for a Louisiana-themed feast, we can do hot crawfish or shrimp boils, a big fish fry or a big-pot of jambalaya or gumbo cooked right in front of you. Of course we offer dessert as well! We have a large number of cakes, pies, or assorted treats like brownies, cookies, cake pops and of course, fresh pralines that will make your party a success. ON SITE Our lovely location on historic Antique Alley overlooks all of downtown West Monroe and is a popular spot for out-of-towners to

enjoy some unique views, shops and services available in our area. We have a large, covered patio that can accommodate large parties or groups and can even include live music or a DJ booth. Inside the restaurant is an old-school ambience and charm that oozes from our more than 100year old building. The large garage doors can be opened onto the patio to create a breezy indoor-outdoor flow and allows for music to be heard all through the building. The patio also includes several portable heaters for cooler nights, as well as checkers and corn hole and picnic table seating thats fun for families and kids. OFF SITE Sometimes you just wanna bring the party home, and we can help you with that! Want a hot, fresh coffee and beignet station at your event? We got it covered! Want to boil shrimp or crawfish or fry fish in your own backyard? We can do that! We’ll bring everything you and your guests need to your home, office, church or venue. All you have to do is relax and enjoy your company! THE MAGIC SCHOOL BUS We have a funky Miss Kay’s mobile catering unit that is an old parish mini school bus. This thing is sure to turn heads when it’s parked at your event! We can serve any hot meal or cool treat from the bus’s chalkboard serving hatch. It’s a fun way to bring some character to any outdoor space!

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B AYOUKID Z

RECOGNIZING SPECIAL DADS This Father’s Day Recognize The Special Men In Your Life article by Cindy G. Foust

elcome readers, to the award winning, longest running column in BayouLife. Wait. I’ve got to fact check that statement. Yeah, I haven’t been given any awards and I’m not sure I am the longest running column, but I needed something to grab your attention, and that sounded pretty busy and important so here we are. It will be the first of June by the time BayouLife makes it to your driveway and summer will be in full swing. I’m not sure how things are in your homes, but at ours, we are in desperate need of a break. Like the screeching halt, take a breather, catch your breath, and RECHARGE (yes, I am screaming in all caps,) I love this time of year because to me, there is nothing better than having my kids, our family and friends at our house, eating and enjoying the summer. That’s life readers, being with the ones you love, making the most of your time together and eating my good food. I realize I just gave myself a compliment, which I rarely do, for as most of you know, it’s usually the opposite and I’m making fun of myself. But cooking? Naw…that is no silly joke where I am concerned because Cindy Foust can “get down cow” in the kitchen. It’s my only 154 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

hobby and the only thing I study. Well, that’s not true, I also study fashion. Well, that’s not true either, most of the time I’m a walking dress code violation that has to be reeled in or coached by my 14-year old daughter (insert dramatic eye roll here.)

Are ya’ll having trouble following me this month, I mean, what in the world is this month’s column about except a little bit of nothing. Well, let’s turn that nothing into something and morph right into the month of June and a very special holiday, Father’s Day. Of course, this gets me all in my feels thinking about my own dad, as I am sure it does for many of you. I’m very lucky to still have my daddy, and I’m very privileged to

watch my husband carve out that role for my children. In both cases, I’m one lucky girl. My husband reminded me at Mother’s Day (as he does every year) that I’m not his mother, Elsie Ophelia is his mother (and was she a good one, at that),and I get that philosophy (still doesn’t give him the green light to not give me a pedicure), but I think one of my greatest privileges is watching him be a father to our children. When I was growing up, like any typical kid, I don’t think I gave enough thought to how lucky I was to have the father I did. Strong, hardworking, funny, and someone who had high expectations for my behavior (insert clearing your throat here.) Let me tell you right now, the memory of sitting in church with my dad’s long 6’6 arm laying on the pew behind my head did it’s intimidating job, because I kept my lips buttoned and my eyes toward Jesus. My daddy has always carried himself with such integrity and was my first teacher in the lesson that there’s always two sides to every story. He has always been steadfast in the family that plays together, eats together and prays together stays together. He has been a father rich in tradition, especially at the holidays. What a gift, and what a role model to have when you become a parent.

I write in this column frequently that parenting is the single hardest thing you will ever do in your life, not even building a space shuttle or climbing Mt. Everest is harder. We have consulted all of our parents, mine, his and ours, through the years, when we were conflicted, confused or just needed reassurance that we were doing the right thing, or in some cases, after we did the wrong thing. This is life, readers, and this small village that we have insulated ourselves with could not have been more secure. We are lucky, and we know it. As Father’s Day draws closer, most of us make special plans or send special cards or get special gifts, if we are lucky enough to still have our fathers with us. These rituals are important, I mean, every dad likes to get a new tie or a coffee mug with “World’s Greatest Dad” on it, right? But more importantly, if you ask our “dads” what it is they want for Father’s Day, I believe their answer would pretty much sound the same…they want time with their children… with their families. Time…it doesn’t cost anything, and yet, it’s the most valuable thing we have. And it’s the most valuable gift we can give.

From the parenting principles of Cindy G. Foust, I think children need to be taught early that life doesn’t have to revolve at a break neck speed. It’s okay to slow down, take a deep breath and make time for the really important things. Grandparents particularly, are going to love this column, because they live for those nuggets of time our kids give them. I wish I had a dollar for every time I’ve walked in my house and my dad said “Where’s Robert Scott?” Hello, what am I, chopped liver? Of course, I am, because after you have a baby, you no longer get to be the baby. And I’m totally okay with it. So let’s do it, BayouLife friends, let’s get this holiday started. What an opportunity to honor the men in our life, dads, granddads, husbands (yes, Scott, that’s you)…make an extra effort perhaps, and I’m talking to myself, too. Have a surprise Father’s Day party, serve them breakfast in bed (usually a tradition for moms, but flip it), let the kids do the cooking (okay, that might be a stretch… unless the men in your life like Jell-O and microwave Mac-N-Cheese.) You are never too old to make homemade cards…or a homemade gift…grandparents live for that

stuff. I know these recommendations are what many of you already do, or perhaps they are really simple and elementary, but guess what? They work. So let’s do like we have been doing for years now, readers, let’s celebrate together. I love that thought. The community that we are so fortunate to live in, all celebrating the most important men in our life…together. Happy Father’s Day and happy summer, beloved BayouLife community. I hope it will be filled with all the love, good food and family that you can stuff into it...like a big ole BayouLife Oreo cookie. I can’t wait to be back next month with a great gardening column with my recommendations on the best eyewear for gardeners, how to weed your garden and where to stand with your camera for the best garden pictures. It should be titillating. What you’ve come to expect from “Bayou KidZ”, without a doubt.

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Choosing the Right Stationery

Creative Occasions Makes Your Event Easy and Effortless

OUR EVENT STARTS HERE. Choosing the right stationery for your event is so important. That’s why we’re here to help you make that decision with confidence, so you can set the tone and make the right impression. Working with Creative Occasions makes planning your event a unique, custom and stress-free experience. We can provide all things stationery or printed for your wedding or for any other needs. From business cards to yard signs or invitations to koozies, if your name can go on it, we can do it! Creative Occasions is a small, local establishment operating under Peregrine and providing a new approach to stationery and design solutions. We work one-on-one with you from start to finish in order to make your vision come to life. We start with a free, faceto-face consultation to lay the foundation for a customer-provider relationship and the groundwork for your order. You will work

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directly with Haley Williams, our graphic designer, to create the perfect, custom image or wedding logo. From there we will guide you through the process of choosing the right items and quantities to fit your specific needs, match your style and bring your ideas to life. Browse our current designs and items on our Facebook page or let us help you come up with your own. The other half of our staff, Taylor, will work with you to finalize your orderoffering free quotes, payment options, specials and discounts. Since opening in February 2018, Creative Occasions has been featured in several of the area’s Bridal expos, staying up-to-date on what’s trending in the world of brides. Whether your style is simple and elegant, extravagant or whimsical we want to help you showcase life’s most meaningful moments in your own character. As an authorized Carlson Craft vendor, we give you access to some of the highest quality and most unique items

available while still being able to customize your design. At the same time, we are also able to offer an array of quality items done in-house. This presents a more economical option as well as a solution to time-pressed situations. Either way we allow you to order all of your wedding stationery and custom favors in one order, saving you time and money. This eliminates the headache of using multiple vendors and trying to coordinate everything together so you can enjoy this special and exciting time of planning your dream wedding. Creative Occasions prides ourselves on the ability to work closely with and fulfill the visions of each of our clients. Managed and operated by two working moms and best friends, we fully understand the roller coaster life can be at times and therefore the need for an efficient, reliable and reasonable option for rendering and representing the events you want to remember forever.

Smile Big on Your Big Day

Add a Visit to NELA Dental to Your Wedding Plans

AKE SURE YOUR WEDDING preparation includes a visit to NELA Dental. Our team can whiten, straighten, and make your smile stand out on the big day. We offer fast and affordable teeth whitening, veneers and resin boding, as well as multiple options for orthodontics. WHITE TEETH, WHITE WEDDING Let your smile shine bright on your big day with teeth whitening from NELA Dental. We are proud to offer Zoom Whitening, affordable treatments to whiten your smile in one visit. The treatment also includes takehome whitening trays to ensure the best results. By combining in-house LED technology and at home treatment, patients will see their whitest smile in a week’s time. THE BONDS OF LOVE & RESIN Resin bonding is another type of cosmetic solution for chipped, gapped, and stained teeth and fillings. The material is shaped and

molded to your teeth to give the appearance of a straighter, whiter smile. Resin bonding can be completed in a single appointment. SMILE NEW ON YOUR DAY Veneers are a wonderful option to improve your smile and it’s great for those with slight imperfections such as teeth that are stained, chipped or have gaps. Veneers are custom-made thin shells that are attached to the front surface of your teeth to change their color, shape, size, or length. STRAIGHTER SMILES DOWN THE AISLE Modern treatments like Six Month Smiles Braces and Invisalign® at NELA Dental. These types of teeth alignment methods are an efficient and safe solution for transforming your smile and boosting your self-confidence. Treatment with Six Month Smiles braces is similar to that of conventional adult orthodontics, but they have one major difference. This treatment focuses only on

the teeth that show when you smile. The clear brackets and tooth colored wires will gently reposition your teeth without affecting appearance. Six Month Smiles braces are generally more affordable than traditional braces or veneers. Desired results are usually achieved in about four to nine months, with an average treatment time of six months. If traditional braces are not for you, consider Invisalign®. These custom-made clear aligner trays will straighten your teeth while allowing you to continue to enjoy your favorite foods and activities. They are virtually invisible so most people will not even be aware you are wearing them. The dentists at NELA Dental can create a 3D image of your teeth in just minutes using an iTero Scanner. Before your eyes, see your smile transform with the Invisalign Outcome Simulator. SAY YES TO NELA DENTAL We provide personalized care and make it easy to obtain the treatment you need with stress-free financing options, as well as membership plans. Head over to neladental. com for more information. Contact one of our three locations in Farmerville, Monroe, or Oak Grove for your FREE consultation and Start Smiling Today!

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Paperglaze Calligraphy Use Unique Hand Lettering to Highlight Your Big Day

HERE’S NOTHING QUITE LIKE CUSTOM CALLIGRAPHY to punctuate the special moments in your life - especially your wedding! Shannan Inman from Paperglaze Calligraphy (est. in 2008) has specialized in addressing services, custom invitations and wedding signage for over 20 years. INVITATION DESIGN Your wedding invitation should be unique and one of a kind just like you. Paperglaze Calligraphy works alongside area stationers/ printers to craft a custom invitation for each bride. For a truly custom invitation, each component of the invitation suite can be completely written out in calligraphy. Another popular and less expensive option is “spot calligraphy,” which highlights important items (e.g. names and venue) while the rest of the invitation is typeset with a beautiful classic font. More calligraphy details can be added with hand-drawn maps, custom crests and beautifully scripted monograms. ADDRESSING There are several reasons why a calligrapher is a good investment in addressing your invitations. First of all, this is one of the most important days of your life, and your invitation is extremely special. Many people spare no expense on creating the perfect invitation; however, “the icing (or should I say, “glaze”) on the cake “ is the beautiful addressing. It is the first impression of your big day and sets the tone of the celebration to come. Second, a hand addressed invitation signifies that you value your guests and their presence at your wedding. It is wonderful to hear compliments concerning the beautiful piece of mail that they received and how excited they are about your big day. Third, it is considered good etiquette to have your wedding invitations hand addressed. Labels are highly discouraged, as it often looks both lazy and tacky. An experienced calligrapher will also be familiar with how to correctly address your guests with distinguished titles. Finally, and maybe more importantly, a calligrapher saves you much needed time. As a bride, you will be extremely busy planning the many details of your wedding. A calligrapher will be able to use their experience to make your invitations and envelopes look cohesive together, which is another thing you will not have to worry about in your planning process. WHERE TO START Once you've narrowed down what services you are needing, email Paperglaze Calligraphy to ask for basic details and a quote. Include your wedding date, approximate guest count and a general description of your wedding style, as well as the services you're interested in (envelope addressing, wedding signage, etc), so you can receive a more accurate quote and timeline. Keep in mind that much like a popular wedding venue, experienced calligraphers book up fast, so start the process early. E-MAIL - shannan@paperglaze.com • PHONE: 318-914-1116

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Top Brand Products For The Outdoorsy Dads

T TWIN CITY OUTDOOR EQUIPMENT, THEIR MISSION is to offer you the latest in parts and products at the best prices, and with unparalleled service. They provide the best, top name brands possible for your lawn equipment like STIHL, Honda and GRAVELY. STIHL brand has all of your smaller equipment while GRAVELY has all of your top mowers, commercial and residential. They also have top of the line Hobie fishing kayaks that have changed the game. Father’s Day is around the corner so don’t wait until it’s too late to get your dad the gift he really wants. Welded into the DNA of every Gravely zero-turn mower is the power and performance you need to do the job right. From easy-touse controls to dynamic framework to optimized lines of sight, our machines are built smart and strong—right down to the last detail. STIHL is the #1 selling brand of gasoline-powered handheld outdoor power equipment in America. An accomplishment that’s even more impressive when you realize none of our products are sold in big box stores. STIHL is only sold by servicing dealers, people who are professionals in the use of outdoor power tools. Hobie’s original Pro Angler fishing kayak packs some extreme fishing utility. These kayaks have six horizontal rod lockers, enough tackle compartments to empty a store and an elevated seat. New for 2019, the Mirage Pro Angler 14 comes standard with the Hobie Guardian Retractable Transducer Shield. There’s a non-skid deck for standing—a huge advantage for sight kayak fishing—and veritable acres of H-Rail for mounting rod holders and electronics. All this on a spacious 14foot platform, with no need for a gas tank. Hobie’s unique MirageDrive with Glide Technology provides efficient, quiet propulsion. The Mirage Outback by Hobie has been rated the #1 pedal fishing kayak and for the time in over a decade the best-selling Mirage Outback has been redisigned. New for 2019, the Mirage Outback comes standard with the Hobie Guardian Retractable Transducer Shield. This fully-loaded fishing machine is built for every conceivable fishing expedition, whether you’re prowling the ocean for monster gamefish or stalking bass in your favorite freshwater fishing hole. The extra-wide standing deck offers an improved casting platform and convenient vantage point for sight fishing, allowing for superior vision from above while the revolutionary Guardian Transducer Shield gives you multidimensional vision below. The Smokin Brothers “30” Premier Grill has become their most popular grill. This grill comes with the PID Program Control, double wall insulated fire box, four multi-directional casters and the convenience of a built in work surface with the front loading hopper design. With the purchase of a built in kit, this grill can be inserted into an outdoor kitchen (Weight 205 lbs with 792 sq inches cooking surface.) An additional long top grid 8 x 29.5 is available for purchase to add more cooking surface, also available for this grill is a side shelf that easily folds down for storing. Stop by and see for yourself these amazing pieces of equipment and kayaks and everything they have to offer. The helpful staff at Twin City Outdoor and can show you up close and personal all of their features and the quality of these amazing products. Be sure to follow them on Facebook for updates of the new Twin City Outdoor super store coming this summer to West Monroe. It’s going to be more than you ever expected! WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 159

Local Owner Leads Empire Alice Givens, owner of Carlstedt’s LLC

NATIVE OF WEST MONROE, ALICE GIVENS IS A local entrepreneur leading a floral empire. As the sole owner of Carlstedt’s LLC, she has 13 locations throughout the southeastern United States, employs over 200 team members and sells more than $20 million in flowers and floral accessories a year. But she is quick to let you know that she isn’t done yet. “Our growth is rapidly increasing and within the next three years, I expect for that annual number to be over $100 million!” said Givens. “I consider John Maxwell one of my mentors and I often repeat to myself one of his sayings, ‘Anyone who thinks the sky is the limit has a limited imagination.’ It is one of my life mottos!” Givens has been working with flowers for over a quarter of a century but her journey didn’t begin at the top. She began as a delivery driver for the company that she now runs and operates. Starting from humble beginnings keeps Givens grounded and keeps her focused on delivering value and creating a family feeling in a corporate world. When you talk to her, it is evident that she is passionate about what she does and wants everyone to catch the flower fever! “Flowers are such an important part of life” she says, “but I think the problem is people don’t realize just how important they are! Our goal at Carlstedt’s is to make flowers a part of everyone’s daily life, because flowers stregthen relationships. What is a funeral without flowers? Or a wedding? Or even a Tuesday? Flowers change lives.” As an importer and wholesaler of fresh cut flowers, Carlstedt’s sells directly to more than 20,000 customers, but through their partnerships with some of the “big box” retail outlets like Amazon, Walmart and Wholefoods, they reach millions more customers around the world indirectly. “People don’t realize it, but we sell flowers to everyone!” Givens explains. “If you want a beautiful work of art, then go to one of the thousands of flower shops we supply. But you can also walk right into one of our flower coolers, pick what you’d like, go home and experiment and create something on your own. It is very therapeutic!” Alice is excited about the future of Carlstedt’s, as they continue to grow and evolve. “We are just around the corner from launching Flowergeneral.com 2.0! This online platform will add so much value from growers to the end enjoyer of flowers and floral accessories. It will showcase top retailers in all our deliverable areas, our preferred vendor farms, our grocers, pharmacies, cash and carry, and more, with world class videos and top of the line pre-made bouquets for enjoyers of all ages!” Givens knows where her company is headed and only questions how she can continue to help local florists and floral fans with their next project!

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Jewelry by James

Helping Make That Special Moment Last Forever

ORKING WITH A COUPLE TO MAKE THEIR engagement and wedding ring is one of my favorite and most rewarding pleasures. When a couple enters our store, usually, it is obvious the purpose of their visit. This experience has changed over the years, but one thing seems to never change, their hope, excitement, and apprehension of shopping for the perfect ring. We usually start off the conversation by talking about their likes and dislikes in style, color of metal, style of cut for the center stone, and style of the mounting. Do you like a simple solitaire or maybe a very popular halo setting? What about a vintage look or perhaps an infinity style, or a single or double row of diamonds on the side, with your choice of precious metal. This is where the conversation changes from the past. My questions start with have you seen a style you like? That is usually when the phone comes out, and I am shown a picture of the dream ring for the bride to be. Now usually that’s when a sales person will start searching their store for a “somewhat” look alike ring, or they offer to order a ring for them. I smile because I know I have an opportunity to make a ring that will be exactly what she wants and not be like any other ring. It will be made perfectly and uniquely for her. We discuss the process of how to get started, how long it takes – usually six to eight weeks. Do they own stones they want to incorporate into the design or will they be selecting a stone from our beautiful loose diamonds? At some point, I have a private conversation with the groom to be, where we talk about budget and a date he is planning to pop the question, then I usually put on my counseling hat. I remind him that this is where the pressure really comes, because you got to make it special! She will remember this moment the rest of her life and all her friends will be asking, “How did your fiancé’ propose?” Don’t make yourself look bad in front of her friends. One thing I started doing a few years ago was sending pictures to the groom to be, as I am making the ring and reach significant points in the process. We shape the ring, assemble it, drill the holes for the placement of the stones, engrave the ring, set the diamonds, and hand polish the ring to a glowing finish. He gets text or emails enabling him to see the design being created in real time. We stamp the ring with the very prestigious stamp “handmade.” Only jewelry made without any mechanized process can have this stamp. Then we do something most jewelers don’t do, we stamp our name in the ring, a reminder of our commitment to you and your bride. Are you looking for the perfect ring? Come in and let’s visit. Let’s make a beautiful ring and memory that will last a lifetime.

James DuPont wwww.DupontJewelers.com facebook/dupontjewelers Trade - Restore - Redesign - Sell Dupont Jewelers on Forsythe in Monroe Makers of Handmade Fine Jewelry

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U O Y BA S T A BE

WHILE ANIME AND EIGHTIES FANS WAIT TO NERDOUT TO THE MITCH LAING BAND’S UPCOMING ALBUMS, THE RECENT MARVEL ALBUM IS INSTANTLY FAMILIAR AND FUN. OVERALL, IT’S A HARD ROCK ALBUM THAT ADMIXES CLASSIC TUNES WITH STRAIGHTFORWARD SONGS THAT CAPTURE THE HEART OF EACH CHARACTER.

With top-grossing films like Black Panther, Avengers: Infinity War, and Avengers: Endgame, it’s become intriguingly apparent that we crave extraordinary humanity. We recognize our own struggles and shortcomings with those of the warriors on movie screens or pages of comic books, probably because we’re all going through our own hero’s journey though we don’t always recognize it. Mitch Laing, frontman and guitarist of the Mitch Laing Band, was on a musical hero’s journey, and the events leading to his two concept albums show that persistence and hard work clears the path. “Without comic books, I wouldn’t know how to read,” says Mitch. Diagnosed with severe dyslexia at a young age, Mitch’s parents frantically tried to help their son by taking him to the Sylvan Learning Center and hiring tutors. Nothing worked until his mother, activating her supermom powers, took him to the first Clint’s Comics store. She told him that he could pick out five comic books, and if he read them all by the end of the week, they would return for five more. Every night, mother and son sat down and read comics together. Even after his mom stopped buying comics for him, he frequented the store until he graduated high school. His first selections foreshadowed his band’s LPs. On his first visit, he unknowingly grabbed all DC Comics superheroes—Batman, Swamp Thing, Flash, Green Lantern, and Aquaman—which became the focus of Justice (2017.) On his second visit, he ended up with Marvel heroes, like Ghost Rider and Spiderman, spotlighted in Avenge (2019.) Clearly, his passions were destined to converge, but as a kid, his sole reason for picking up the guitar was to bond with his father, a long haul trucker he saw forty-eight hours a week. Learning guitar at nine and bass at eleven readied him for joining a band. Encouraged by his father, he began his search at church. His performance peaked with the praise band Uncommon, who toured in other states to shows of hundreds to thousands of people. Led by his success and the confidence of youth, he quit praise and started 1 Method, a Christian metal band, where he met current bass and guitar players of The Mitch Laing Band—respectively, Jeremy Harrington and Kyle Simpson. Expecting to pull the same audience numbers as before, he quickly met the grueling reality of a newborn band. Six years later, he and Jeremy played together in a few other bands, including Borderline and Amie’s Escape, which was a Nirvana-Weezer cover band. Though songs for the band’s first album were composed between 2006-2009, the band, as an entity, started in 2016.

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“The Mitch Laing Band got started essentially out of my need for my family to have health insurance,” says Mitch. With a one year old, he was prompted to drop all the bands he worked with and projects in the making to play at restaurants and patios. Already considering composing a superhero album since The Dark Knight was released, he set to record his DC concept album solo. He began recording at Tipitina’s Music Co-op, located in downtown Monroe. Other musicians frequenting the studio began to listen, showing interest and encouraging Mitch to start a band. Though his musician line-up has changed since the first album, he welcomes rotating members, particularly because most of the players are dads and husbands with other professional obligations. Mitch now works at KTVE, owns his own production company, and produces a reality TV show on the local CW called Rednecks for Hire. “The musician line-up that we have now is the line-up I hope to keep forever,” Mitch says. The group established synchronicity as a result of years playing together which aids the songwriting experience. Mitch admits he often has a clear vision of his music that includes bass, guitar, keyboard, and drum parts. “As a songwriter, the biggest difficulty when writing with other musicians is translating the parts you have envisioned in your head without sounding like you’re telling people what to do,” he says. But Jeremy and Kyle, instinctively anticipate Mitch’s vision, resulting in a proactive exchange of ideas and the playful music that has become their staple. If you haven’t already thought it, the band skirts a fine copyright line—they had to change their recent album cover— but their immersion into the concept band genre is solidified. Before the release of their DC album, they already had three concept album ideas lined up, but the Marvel album wasn’t one of them. Prompted by fans, Marvel got immediately prioritized, a timely choice with the release of Avengers: Endgame as the epic conclusion of Marvel’s Infinity Saga. The goal became to compose albums that would stand alone, produced, recorded, and mixed in-house. Their next album will be a nod to anime fans: a punk Naruto album focusing on the young ninja’s saga which will be called Hokage (“fire shadow” in Japanese). Next on their agenda is a heavy metal homage to movie monsters from the eighties like Freddy Krueger, Jason Voorhees, and Michael Myers. Thirdly, they’ve planned a mish-mash style album called Toy Box which will cover all the eighties cartoons that they grew up loving, including Star Wars, Ghostbusters, and Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles. While anime and eighties fans wait to nerd-out to the upcoming albums, the band’s recent Marvel album is instantly familiar and fun. Overall, it’s a hard rock album that admixes classic tunes with straightforward songs that capture the heart of each character. When writing about his fictional childhood luminaries, Mitch takes an immersive approach to his songwriting. For instance, before writing the Ghost Rider song, “Flames on the Highway,” he spent a full day consuming Ghost Rider media—he watched the Nicolas Cage movies, read his extensive comic book collection, and watched season four of Agents of Shield. He wanted to match the character with

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BAYOUBEATS | THE MITCH LAING BAND spaghetti western guitar licks and drew additional inspiration from Johnny Cash’s “Ghost Rider in the Sky,” which he listened to while reading his Ghost Rider comics. Avenge is the creative regurgitations of Mitch’s superhero media consumptions. “We wanted to make sure the music matched the personality of the character,” says Mitch. An endeavor most significantly noted in “Genius, Billionaire, Playboy, Philanthropist,” a heavy dubstep track meticulously composed with the help of Chris Esswein (stage name AvonovA), which is meant to match business magnate, Tony Stark. Songs also range based on social and personal insights. Spiderman’s song, “Web-slinger,” reflects his pop-icon status, so the song is “poppy and upbeat,” almost “teeny-boppy,” explains Mitch. Meanwhile, Captain America’s track “Star Spangled Avenger” becomes the album’s “Freebird” or “Fade to Black.” The song takes the perspective of what Captain America would think of America if he showed up right now. Mitch takes a few risque liberties with lyrics, but the moral of the song can be summarized in the line, Cause this don’t look like America, from his side of the shield. Another reflective ballad is the song “Life,” which is the only non-superhero song. “When you’re in a world of fantasy, you still need to have one foot in reality,” Mitch explains. It acts as the album’s balancing element, one that hits home for him: “I feel that’s where I’m starting to get in life. I’m in my mid-thirties at this point. More things are going to be taken away than given to me from here on out.” Mitch barely completes the last word when Jeremy effortlessly blurts, “Like your hair.” Mitch deadpans a playful vulgarity, then both stream spells of laughter, as Mitch expresses his grievances about Jeremy’s thick-hair genetics.

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It doesn’t take long for the dust to settle at the backend of Villains Comics & Collectibles. Surrounded by shelves of the most powerful fictional characters in the galaxy, Mitch reveals that the character after his own heart is Swamp Thing. “That’s Weezy’s superhero,” he says enthusiastically, “He’s so overpowered and underestimated because people forget that he is the avatar for the planet earth. All plant life and photosynthesis, all things that create life, that’s his domain.” Often Mitch finds himself defending Swamp Thing, arguing that the Louisiana-based humanoid could easily end Superman with a single touch by dangerously turning up Superman’s photosynthesis to “a thousand.” It would overload Superman “like a battery,” a plot line explored in a comic timeline where Superman turns evil. Even when wearisome comic-based discussions ensue, he enjoys sitting down with fans after a show. Clearly, Mitch is a wellspring of comic book knowledge, and in building them into his songs, he’s created a musical encyclopedia, distinctly made for those enthralled with the superhero mythology. Mitch, like most superheroes, isn’t chasing fandom: “I’ve always wanted just to be in a band that makes records every couple of years, and tours the nation. I don’t want to be the Foo Fighters. I’d rather be the Toadies.” The stories of superheroes—their triumphs and weaknesses—speak to all those who seek greatness in themselves. If you can connect to those emblematic men and women, you can connect to the energetic, intelligent, and talented music of The Mitch Laing Band. Listen to The Mitch Laing Band on Spotify and follow them on Facebook to learn about their summer tour with Hellgrimm. Show this local, OG band some love!

Let Tonore’s Cater to You Every Event Big or Small

ET’S ADMIT IT - WHILE GUESTS are always happy to celebrate the union of a dear friend or family member, their favorite part of the wedding is the food and the booze (especially the latter.) A good wedding bar setup can really enhance the guest experience. But there can be a lot more to the standard drink bar than serving up beer. Glassware, mixers, and delivery is something that no one really wants to think about while planning the rest of their big day! Planning a special event: birthday party, engagement party, class reunion or even wedding reception, let Russell at Tonores help you find the right combination for your occasion. On a budget? No problem! At Tonores Wine Cellar, they can help you pick out the best options for your budget. There’s one surefire way to make your wedding memorable (in the worst possible

way): run out of alcohol. To prevent this reception catastrophe, let Tonore’s do all of the work for you! Russell can do everything from start to finish. He is equipped with tables, table clothes, glassware, everything you need for your event. He does any size event from personal tastings to huge weddings. Just tell him exactly what you want and he and his team can do the rest.

Not everyone can dedicate a significant chunk of their reception budget to a night of unlimited, free-flowing spirits. That’s why we’ve come up with a few alternatives to the full, open bar that aren’t a cash bar (because you should never ask your guests to enjoy your party out-of-pocket.) Here’s how to cut back on wedding reception alcohol without depriving your guests.

THE OPEN BAR An open bar is the most gracious approach. Guests can order any drink at the bar, and you’ll have to pick up the tab when the party is done. Because there’s no limit, people may drink like guppies. Know anyone who tends to imbibe too much? Tell the bartender in advance. Anyone planning to serve alcohol at their wedding will probably agree that an open bar is ideal—but we know it can get pricey.

THE LIMITED BAR You offer a selection of drinks—beer, wine, and a signature cocktail, for example— and set specific consumption times, such as the cocktail hour, the toasts and during dancing.. Keep it simple with the essentials: wine, beer and a signature drink. With the option of beer, vino and a hard-alcoholic sip, you should be able to satisfy pretty much everyone’s cocktail cravings.

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finefolks by Lindsey + Taylor Inspired By Art, Nature And Louisiana’s Rich Culture

E ARE LINDSEY LOWE AND Taylor Bennett for finefolks. We are two southern curators that have a passion for creating beautiful things. We could tell you stories of growing up in the same small town, all the crazy projects we’ve collaborated on over the years, or the time we attempted our first wedding bouquet… but we will spare you the details. finefolks is two friends who love making events come to life, whether it’s a fancy soiree, a backyard shindig, a classy southern wedding, or whatever else you can dream up! We have a passion for creating beautiful and unique events. Inspired by art, nature and Louisiana’s rich culture, we try to craft each event to the individualized style of our clients. Finefolks. provides the modern day bride and groom with a unique, stylish yet cost effective service in the areas of wedding

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styling and florals. We would love to design some florals for you, curate your next event, or even just grab coffee and have some good conversation. As our business has evolved and grown, one of the things we have truly enjoyed is meeting friends through our floral workshops. This is just one of the ways we get to share our passion for floral design with the community. We have produced and participated in workshops with BayouLife, as well as local retailers and establishments. This is our favorite way to share our knowledge with people who are looking to learn. A typical workshop is a pretty casual and in an informal atmosphere. One of our favorite places that we have done a workshop is Lindsey’s backporch. Participants can come in and socialize over wine and a classic cheeseboard we have created. After

everyone has gotten to know each other, we start talking through the basics of floral arranging like choosing the correct container. We talk about the seasonal florals available at that time and walk you through the steps of creating a floral arrangement. At the end, everyone walks away with their own floral arrangement, a little bit of floral knowlege, and of course, new friends! We are already looking forward to our next workshop this summer. Be sure to follow us on Facebook and Instagram where we will post the dates soon. We invite you to gather your girlfriends and join us! We also offer private workshops with at least six of your friends. Whether you are planning an upcoming wedding, would like to order an arrangement for a special occassion or join us at a floral workshop, we would love to share our passion for all things floral with you!

Chateau Rouge on the Bayou The Perfect Venue for Your Next Event

ASMYNE MCCONNELL IS A graduate of the University of Louisiana at Monroe and Southern University Law Center. Jasmyne has lived in Monroe for the past 15 years, and is a practicing attorney and a proud investor in the Monroe area. She has served as an Assistant District Attorney for several years primarily handling domestic violence cases. She now primarily handles real estate transactions and successions through her title company, Cajun Title Agency, LLC. Jasmyne takes great pride in being the mother of two beautiful little boys, Nicholas II and Jaxon, and being a great wife to her husband Nicholas of nearly 10 years. Jasmyne saw a great need in this community and started to make plans to fulfill that need. Jasmyne got into this business because she was searching for something that fits what she

felt Ouachita Parish was missing. She wanted something that people could enjoy, but was also in a private, secluded area. She wanted to look for places that were not in the traditional flow of the city but were close enough without having to leave the area. This is when Jasmyne came across this venue and fell in love with everything about it. This new building with a red roof is how she came up with the name Chateau Rouge(red) and the rest is history. Chateau Rouge was designed to fit the person that loves to relax and enjoy the Louisiana culture without the hustle and bustle of the traditional scenes. Being a stone hop away from ULM and Desiard street, they offer an environment that is calming but fun; secluded but close to everything you need. This venue is equipped for family reunions, beautiful weddings, baby showers,

graduation parties, birthday parties, etc. If you have an event, they have got you covered. This venue is so versatile, you can change the ambiance of a room to cater to your liking very easily. The venue has one large room used for larger gatherings. A smaller room with a gorgeous wrap around covered porch, a nice pavilion, and a four their deck that leads out to the bayou. Perfect for those special ceremonies. If you are needing that perfect venue for your special day or event Jasmyne at Chateau Rouge has the perfect place. She can be reach edby phone at 318-953-4034 or by email at chateaurouge320@gmail.com. To check out more pictures and information on the venue visit their facebook page: Chateau Rouge on the Bayou.

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Protect Your Smile All Summer Long

CHOOL IS OUT FOR SUMMER! THAT MEANS TRAVEL, family fun days, sports camps, and home runs at summer ball. Let’s not make it time for emergency trips to the dentist. The National Youth Sports Foundation estimates that over 5 million teeth will be knocked out in sporting activities this year. These injuries will happen to children, high school and college athletes. Did you know dental injuries are the most common type of head injury sustained during sports participation? It is estimated about 40% of all dental injuries occur while playing sports and 80% of dental injuries occur with the front two teeth. Don’t let a summer of fastballs and cannonballs lead to a Christmas wishlist of your two front teeth. Wearing a mouth guard is one of the best ways to protect and prevent injury to your teeth, tongue and lips. Less than 7% of athletes wear mouth guards. The American Academy of Pediatric Dentistry recommends a mouth guard for all children and youth participating in any organized sports activities. Mouth guards not only significantly reduce dental injuries, but they are cost effective. A single damaged tooth can cost thousands of dollars (more than 20 times the preventative cost of a professional grade mouth guard) and months to years of dental visits to restore yours or your child’s smile. Not all mouth guards are created equal. Using a custom-fit mouth guard from your dentist is recommended. A mouth guard made by your dentist will be custom fit to your teeth, allowing it to provide more protection, be comfortable, and easier to speak with. There are a variety of materials, thicknesses, and colors to choose from. Make a statement with team colors, or even blend in with clear. If you and your kids enjoy sports or other high-risk activities, protect your mouth, and your summer fun. If you’re interested in a custom fitted mouth guard for the athlete in your family, contact our office today. Let’s ensure your teeth and family fun make great memories all year long. Dr. Jan T. Bagwell has over 30 years of experience and recently welcomed her daughter, Dr. Jessica J. Johnston into her practice. Their office is located in Monroe on 165 North and offers patients complete general and cosmetic dental treatments. Their team is dedicated to using the newest technologies and techniques, as well as state-ofthe-art equipment, to enhance your smile and make it as healthy and beautiful as possible. They offer regular hygiene checkups as well as general dentistry services like partials, dentures, extractions and root canals. They also offer cosmetic dental treatments such as teeth whitening, veneers, porcelain crowns, and implant restorations in order to improve the appearance of your teeth and make them more cosmetically pleasing. Dr. Jan T. Bagwell and Dr. Jessica J. Johnston always work with compassion to make their patients feel as relaxed as possible and provide the best possible dental care. Make your appointment today and let them help you put your best smile forward!

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Summertime Sale

Featured Brands Discounted For Trunk Show BY DR. ANTHONY LAMAR

N JUNE 11TH FROM 1:00-5:00 WE WILL BE having our 9th annual trunk show featuring frames from Oakley, Jones New York Petite, Carolina Herrera, Lucky Brand, and more. Frames will be available for men and women of all ages, and children too! We will be performing eye exams like normal so if you haven’t had a recent eye exam feel free to schedule an appointment so you will have an up to date glasses prescription to take advantage of the trunk show. We also have a large selection of sunglass wear to help your eyes stay protected and comfortable in the summer sun. In most cases, vision insurance even covers prescription sunglasses. Discounts will be available and we will have refreshments and door prizes as well. Our theme this year for the trunk show is “Under Construction.” We are proud to announce that we will be expanding this year with an addition on the back of the office. This addition will provide more space for patient care, decreasing patient wait times and allowing us to provide better care more efficiently. We will also be expanding our parking lot so that coming to see us will be even easier than ever before. We are excited for the future of patient care here at Family Eye Care, and are committed to investing in the best technology available for the good of our patients. We have invested in some new technology in the past few years to more accurately treat dry eye disease. The feedback from our patients so far has been very positive. The Lipiscan gives us the ability to detect the cause of dry eye in most patients. We can then use this information to recommend specific treatments tailored to the patient’s particular type of dry eye. The lipiflow is a new treatment for the most common cause of dry eye, MGD (Meibomian Gland Disease). This cause of dry eye is most common in people who use digital devices (smart phones, tablets, computers) many hours per day. Patients who are good candidates for this treatment generally notice an improvement in symptoms that can last from six months to several years. If your eyes ever burn, water, feel “gritty”, or your vision fluctuates you would be a great candidate for the Lipiscan, and possibly also the Lipiflow treatment. Please feel free to contact us at 318-807-2020 if you have further questions about this new technology or would like to schedule an appointment to have us evaluate your dry eyes.

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Something For Everyone Personalized For You

WNER OF ROSE BOUTIQUE, KAYE HILL SAYS THAT, “Our philosophy is to love and serve our customers, that’s it. Everything we do within these walls is about meeting the needs of people.” In fact, everything about this little gem in the heart of Rayville is personal. According to Sew Southern Embroidery owner, Amy Gladney, that’s even her motto, “Everything is personal.” Gladney shares her space with Rose Boutique, along with a few others. Rose Boutique has been a mainstay in clothing generations of ladies in Northeast Louisiana for more than twenty years. Rose is one of the largest Flax dealers in the state and while Flax remains her most requested and beloved brand. Rose also carries other lines of linen and cotton groups. Winnsboro native Jean Bryan also shares space with Hill and brings with her lines such as Kleen, Crown Linen and Match Point. Of course, every ensemble needs a little bling to complete the outfit. Stella & Dot Jewelry is also placed throughout the shop and offers plenty of choices. Dora Heath, a Stella & Dot Stylist adds a touch of elegance throughout the shop. ”She’s a real blessing to Rose,” says Hill. It’s apparent Hill knows her customers. She greets most of them at the door by name and is very often greeted with a hug. After the pleasantries, Hill gets down to business and personalizes their shopping experience. Meander through Sew Southern Embroidery and you will find a vast array of items that can be personalized. “Embroidery is in our name, but it’s certainly not the only thing we do.” says Gladney. Sew Southern also offers custom etched cutting boards, personalized glassware, etched casserole dishes and insulated beverage holders, among other things. “Generally, I visit with my customers a bit to find what they are looking for. I ask a lot of questions,” says Gladney. “Together, we can create something that brings joy to both the giver and the receiver.” While all of the items are personal many of them are also very practical and reasonably priced. In particular, the etched casserole dishes. “There’s no guessing whose dish this is,” Gladney says laughingly. “This dish will make it home after the Superbowl party or the church dinner.” In keeping with the personal touch, Gladney often works with brides to create a unique design for all items requested in their bridal registry. In addition to custom gifts Sew Southern also offers a number of unique baby items. Embroidered heirloom baby quilts, custom bibs and burp cloths and even etched ‘sippy cups’ are available. It doesn’t stop with babies, however, CJ’s Closet is also housed inside the Rose and offers darling children’s clothing at affordable prices. Suffice to say, there are many wonderful items for all ages and stages of life under one roof. Stop by and see what else this unique blend of stores has for you!

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Timeless and Elegant A Historical Venue to Start Your Future

ARK MANOR IS UPDATING AND EXPANDING TO BRING only the best to the brides of Northeast Louisiana. This historical venue has all of the modern amenities and itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s 150 acres of rolling hills and rustic woodlands await you and the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. Elegant, beautiful, accessible and accommodating are the words that describe Park Manor. Perfect for any event or photo session. The property includes an amazing plantation home front with a brick walkway, a breath-taking bridal cottage and dressing room, and the brand new enclosed reception hall that is perfect for any season. ANY WEATHER, ANY SEASON. Park Manor would like to reveal their newly renovated and expanded reception hall that can host your wedding guests if the weather does not permit an outdoor wedding. The new reception hall can accommodate your guests for the ceremony as well as the reception if need be. It is large enough for food, dancing, tables and chairs, a fireplace and a large flat screen T.V. that is perfect for slideshows. It comes complete with its own sound system and whether itâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s hot or cold outside the hall has heat and air-conditioning. Park Manor has designed the new reception hall to go with all wedding decor. A modern farm house look, with three windows at the center that were designed and built in the 1850s. These windows were installed as the focal point of this grand space and would make a beautiful background for a ceremony. The plantation home itself was built in the 1860s. Its beauty and history make it the perfect location for a wedding. The front of the house is adorned with large white columns, a balcony and grand doorway and can be easily decorated to match each brides particular style. The brick pathway leads from the bridal cottage all the way to the front steps up to the house and one can simply envision themselves walking down the aisle. Before the wedding, brides can get ready and enjoy the day in the private Bridal Cottage on the property. Decorated in a dreamy rustic vintage style, the bridal cottage is the perfect place for the bride and her bridesmaids to relax before the big event. Schedule your appointment now to view for yourself the exciting new changes that Park Manor has accomplished. Tammy Warner would love a chance to help you make your dream wedding a reality. Call her at 318.239.2146 or you can email her at tammy@ parkmanorvenue.com.

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HAMMER TIME BY DAN CHASON

he month of June is one of my favorites when it comes to snatching crappie. Whether you fish a lake with deep water or an old shallower oxbow, there are a few techniques in June that can really add meat to your live well. Allow me to describe a few:

STANDARD JIGGING

This method is accomplished with a 10 foot or longer jig pole (I recommend a quality pole such as a BnM) and your choice of jig. Jigs as in any lure selection come in all shapes, sizes and colors. The best way to figure out what color and size is through a little research. What is the water clarity? What kind of cover is there? What is the history on the lake as to color preference? It is hard to go wrong with basic color patterns: Black/chartreuse, pink and electric chicken and the basic hair jig in shad colors are hard to beat. It is best to determine your head size by the type of cover being fished. The biggest mistake people make in picking a jig size is they go too heavy on the jig head. Crappie are a predator fish and like to hit something on the fall. If the cover allows it, go light with a 1/16 and graduate up as allowed. A heavier jig head allows you to fish faster and cover more water, but you will miss many finicky bites if the conditions are not right. Kind of the unknown rule is to fish heavier jig heads pre-front and go lighter after a weather front comes through. The fish tend to hold tighter to cover after a front so you need to slow down to capitalize on that bite.

BRUSH TOPS

If you want to extend your days on the water, there is no better way than to sink brush tops for crappie. Look for ditches or creeks and lay these tops along these honey holes. I use almost exclusively willow tops. Cut the tops into lengths of around 2 to 3 feet and place in a bucket. Pour concrete and let it settle and drop them. Another method I like is to take the whole top and lay it flat where the top of the 174 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

brush top/tree is laying over the creek. This attracts bait fish such as shad which attracts crappie and bass. The way to “freshen” your tops is a well kept secret I will share. Take a knee high panty hose and fill with rice bran. Tie to a brick and drop in your tops. Shad love the rice bran and it tends to hold them on the tops for longer periods of time. Remember to always lay a top where you are dropping a jig “with the grain.” Pulling a jig into a top the wrong way means lots of hang ups and lost jigs.

SPIDER RIGGING

This method is probably the most deadly during the heat of summer. I use a 4 pole rig and put a 14 foot pole, then a 12, 11 then 10 in that order. This keeps the jigs from tangling and is especially helpful when you get a fish on the line. Spider rigging is very simple. Look on your graph and find the thermocline. This is going to be a line you can see going from right to left across your screen. Remember that crappie ALWAYS feed up. If the thermocline is at say 10 feet, fish just above that with your rigs. I start with pole 1 and put it out at one depth with color A, then the second pole has a different color and depth, and so on. When you get bit, change all over to that depth and color. Trolling a spider rig is not hard. If you don’t know the contour you are fishing, look for obvious patterns. A point coming off the bank will indicate a depth change in the waters out from it. Ditches flowing into the lake, bridges and boat docks usually have structure close. Graph these and make a plot. I triangulate instead of using the GPS. I get a mark such as a tree and make a straight course for it. I then return two boat lengths out and repeat. Spider rigging is deadly in the summer even if you use a straight shiner. I stay away from live bait as it attracts all fish such as gar and bar fish. When I stay with straight jigs, I rarely catch a trash fish. Remember to keep

a marker handy and throw it out when bit and make circles around it. Seeing visible bait such as groups of shad is a dead giveaway of a crappie hiding place.

LONG LINING

This method is a little more technical as it is dependent on a controlled speed with your trolling motor. It is almost impossible to do with a standard foot controlled motor or in high wind with same. The trick here is much like spider rigging but very dependent on electronics. Let out about 30 to 40 yards of line on the same rig but position the poles on the right or left of your boat. If you make a turn, do it slowly and concentrate on the poles’ tips. This method is very effective in deeper water and the depth of jigs are dependent on speed. I like to use a road runner type jig when long lining. I go heavier on the outside pole and lighten up until I’m at a 1/16 ounce on my inside line. Color patterns are the same but I find that brighter is better. So the next time you are craving filets, try some different tactics. These tactics are tried and true and will put more fish in your boat. Remember to take a kid or veteran with you and catch one for me! See you next month.

ROSE BOUTIQUE

This navy linen dress by FLAX is the perfect attire for a summer wedding. Pair it with silver stackable bracelets and statement earrings.

garden romance Looking for the perfect attire for a summer party? Choose an outfit that is cool, yet classically elegant.

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Payten is pretty in pink in this magenty dress that features a knot-front with sweeping skirt. Keep the look chic with a pair of simple white pointed toe heels. Accessorize with statement earrings and gold bangle bracelets.

ELEVEN 26 BOUTIQUE

This elegant ,one-shoulder yellow dress features a stunning slit front. Pair it with these stunning silver sequin heels. Accessorize with layered bracelets, and necklace with hoop drop.

Oral Surgery Associates Center for Advanced Dental Implants

EVEN OUT OF TEN PEOPLE experience tooth loss. Today, more and more people are seeking replacement of missing teeth with dental implants. Dental implants, in the hands of experienced experts can be a long-term tooth replacement solution. Dental implants are titanium cylinders that are embedded into the jaw similar to natural teeth. Some of the very beneficial characteristics of Dental implants include avoidance of having to alter adjacent healthy teeth, and slowing or stopping the natural process of bone loss that occurs under traditional bridges and removable dentures. A well placed and properly maintained dental implant can last a lifetime. For individuals that have suffered loss of all or the majority of their teeth dental implants are often the best option to restore ideal esthetics and function. Dental implants can be used to hold loose fitting dentures in place or support a full arch of teeth for improved

chewing capacity and quality of life. The Allon-4â&#x201E;˘ treatment concepts provided by our staff of Board Certified surgeons in conjunction with your general dentist, allows for removal of failing teeth and replacement with a full arch of teeth that are fixed on 4 implants the same day. This is a predictable procedure that offers a more affordable and efficient treatment alternative to multiple procedures for tooth removal, bone grafting and implant placement. Can I have my tooth or teeth replaced in an hour, in a morning or in a day? The answer to this question is YES, but there are important principles that must be followed that are vital to the health of a successful dental implant and prosthesis. Our oral and maxillofacial surgeons work closely with your dentist and dental lab technicians to provide the most esthetic and functionally reliable outcomes for you. The highly educated and highly skilled surgeons at the Oral Surgery Associates Center for Advanced Dental Implants can thoroughly

evaluate your medical and dental health to determine if you are a viable candidate for dental implants. Doctors Geist, Willis, Fowlkes, and Gregory are all board certified oral and maxillofacial surgeons serving the Northeast Louisiana community. They offer the most advanced care in oral surgical procedures. They utilize one of the areas only computed topography (CT) guided dynamic surgical navigation system or X-Nav, along with their unmatched surgical eduation and training, to provide the most accurate and advanced dental implant surgical placement. They work closely with area dentists to provide a 4-hour smile procedure, in which patients receive a new smile supported by dental implants in as little time as a single morning. In addition to dental implant surgery they also specialize in wisdom tooth removal, advanced oral bone grafting, corrective jaw surgery, oral and maxillofacial pathology, TMJ disorders and obstructive sleep apnea. If you are interested in finding out if you are a candidate for dental implants or any of the other services that Oral Surgery Associates provides, contact their office at 318-388-2621 or visit their website - Oralsurgeryassociates. com. They have offices in Monroe and Ruston and their fully qualified surgeons are happy to discuss your surgical options with you!

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40 Years of Serving Our Community More Than Just A Catering Service

OUNTIFUL FOODS CATERING has been providing fabulous food, professional staffing, and full service planning to our community since 1979. Their specialties include Southern American and Cajun flavors with only the freshest of ingredients. Owner, Gail Elkin and her team work with you to create the event of your dreams. Bountiful Foods Catering strives to perfect every little detail in their food, preparation and presentation. They look forward to the opporunity of being a part of your next special event. On their menu you will find a selection of hot, small plate appertizers, gourmet dips and soups, a cold selection and a carving station with carver. The menu includes breakfast, lunch and dinner buffets and even a pre-plated selection. Desserts and wedding cakes are also available.

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Bountiful Foods Catering offers more than just tasty food to impress your guests. From small office meetings to large weddings and fundraisers, their catering team has the culinary skills, experience, and tools to serve you and your guests. They know the demands placed upon event planning, professionals and organizations. Their goal is to insist your special event is perfect down to the last detail. Whether you are planning a wedding to remember, celebration with friends, or a holiday party let Bountiful Foods Catering provide the professional staff and planning services that you are looking for. Experience a warm southern tradition with them. • Banquets • Corporate Parties • Conventions • Wedding Receptions • Wedding & Specialty Cakes.

After your guests have gone, Bountiful Foods can clean up as well. Call to learn about customized menu options to fit your style. Bountiful Foods Catering looks forward to hearing from you! A local family business, Bountiful Foods Catering has been a part of this community for 40 years and would love to help make your event perfect. They are located in the heart of Monroe at 1807 Pine St. Call (318) 325-0062 to book your date. Visit their website www. bountifulfoodscatering.com or their Facebook page for their full menu and services.

Happily Ever After Starts Here Magnolia Mariée Bridal Boutique

HOOSING A WEDDING DRESS CAN BE ONE OF THE most exciting parts of getting married. Every bride-to-be has an idea of their dream bridal gown and making that dream come true can be trying. Magnolia Mariée Bridal Boutique has perfected the art of making this process fun, relaxing, memorable and stress-free. In the heart of downtown Natchez, Mississippi, brides are finding their dream dress in a handpicked selection of modern gowns fashioned in our classy bridal boutique. The boutique is set on the corner of Main Street and North Canal. Sunlight shines through the grand windows providing beautiful natural light to better view the bride’s selection. Magnolia Mariée carries a great collection of exquisite bridal gowns, veils, hair pieces and jewelry. Not only do they cater to the brides, but also to the whole bridal party. Magnolia Mariée carries a wide variety of bridesmaid gowns, Mother of the Bride gowns and they offer tuxedo rental. Call to make an appointment and reserve the space for your bridal party. From the moment you enter their doors they want to know all about you and your wedding day. They want to know your likes, dislikes, style, vision, and most importantly what you want your perfect gown to look like on your perfect day. Your experience at

Magnolia Mariée will be one of the most memorable as you prepare for walking down the aisle. They reserve a two-hour window for you to browse the bridal room, choose your favorites and try on those you love. Your wedding gown purchase is just the beginning of the experience with them. From choosing your dress, to months later when you step into your gown for alterations, they will help you every step of the way. You will receive an unmatched level of customer service and a once-in-a-lifetime experience with your friends and family making the dress selection process as perfect as the day you say, “I do.” Call 601-446-6400 for an appointment today for a wonderful wedding gown shopping experience. Everyone has an independent expression of who they are. It is Magnolia Mariée’s goal to capture the unique quality and personality of every bride, and helping you find your happily ever after.

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The Banks on the Bayou ABI NELSON AND HUTTON BANKS EXHANGE VOWS AT FIRST UNITED METHODIST CHURCH AND CELEBRATE AT BAYOU POINTE NEAR ULM CAMPUS

bi Gail Nelson, daughter of Mr. Leo and Mrs. Jan Nelson of Monroe, LA, and Sedric Hutton Banks, son of Mr. Sedric Banks and Mr. Gary and Mrs. Beverly Graham of Monroe, LA, exchanged marriage vows before their family and friends on Saturday, October 27th, 2018 at 6:00p.m. in the evening. The ceremony was held at the First United Methodist Church in Monroe, LA. Attendees were sent beautiful ivory linen with black pressed ink invitations printed from Sir Speedy in Monroe, LA with ivory envelopes, and addressed with calligraphy by the hands of the bride. Abi and Emily, her sister and Matron of Honor, spent the afternoon with hairstylist Kelly Hosea, formerly of Rain Salon and makeup artist Hillary Dans of Rain Salon. Emily wore a luxurious dark teal colored off the shoulder chiffon dress with ruffle

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bodice designed by Jenny Woo for Bella Bridesmaids, located in Baton Rouge, LA. Abi’s mother, Jan, wore a lovely navy dress by Xscape from Dillard’s. The bride took great care to choose her “Something Old, New, Borrowed and Blue” for her wedding day. Something old was the bride’s veil, a vintage Neiman Marcus veil that the groom’s mother saved as a keepsake, and her bouquet was wrapped in a cuff from her mother’s wedding dress. Her something new was her beautiful gown, a chic crème pearl Mikado mermaid dress with a sweetheart neckline and off the shoulder sleeves, designed by Essense of Australia for Bustle in Baton Rouge, LA. Her something borrowed was a silver heirloom necklace from her aunt. Her something blue was two navy lace garters with Mrs. Banks embroidered, from Etsy.

Hutton waited patiently in the church courtyard for his opportunity to see his bride before the ceremony for a private first look. Hutton wore a classic black tuxedo, designed by Neil Allyn for King of Hearts in Monroe, LA. A short time after the first look, the blushing bride walked down the aisle, escorted by her proud father, carrying a stunning bouquet by fine folks., who beautifully crafted an arrangement of roses, green hydrangeas, berries and eucalyptus with wood duck feathers, mallard feathers and Spanish moss accents. Standing with Hutton was his father, Sedric. Beautiful organ pipes and stained glass windows surrounded the bride and groom, while their family and friends witnessed their holy union. Following the ceremony and formal portraits with Madeline Grace Photography, LLC, Abi and Hutton signed their marriage license and continued to the reception. The guests, upon arriving at Bayou Pointe, were greeted with beautiful floral arrangements, delicious food and amazing music. Guests surrounded the bride and groom as they danced to The Temptation of Adam by Josh Ritter. Following their dance, Mr. Nelson swept his daughter onto the floor while Dancing in the Moonlight by King Harvest played. Hutton spun his adoring mother around the floor to Fly Me to the Moon by Frank Sinatra and Count Bassie. Guests enjoyed delightful dishes catered by Kim Romero of Bayou Landing, including spinach artichoke dip, pork tenderloin, a Louisiana rice bar of red beans and rice and gumbo and a pirogue display full of fresh jumbo gulf shrimp. Iron Cactus served the bride’s signature drink, “Marry Me Margaritas,” along with Arnold Palmers from Bayou Landing, and a beer, wine and whiskey bar. The bride chose five different sized, double layer, white cakes with her maternal grandmother’s special caramel icing. The cakes were accented with flowers and framed wedding portraits of the bride’s grandparents with their own wedding cakes and their vintage cake toppers on the table. The groom chose mini red velvet cupcakes topped with mini mallard ducks from Smallcakes. The festivities continued on with delightful music from local band comprised of the talented Jeff Hicks, Paul Amy, Toby Traylor and Adam Ryland. The dance floor was never empty and there were laughs to be heard everywhere. The evening closed with a fun confetti exit, surrounding Abi and Hutton with love from family and friends. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 183

Just Take The Shot

The Importance of Capturing Every Moment

EY THERE! MY NAME IS MADELINE WEATHERFORD. I am a wife, dog-mom, aunt to two amazing boys and a human who loves many things including sushi, belaying others at rock gyms and photographing magical memories. I also thoroughly enjoy serving everyone around me because serving is like therapy. Making things amazing for others makes me happier than anything in the world and that is why my next words will sting a bit. I could make a clichĂŠ statement about photography being crucial and you must hire the best photographer for your wedding. I would sound like I am making a sales pitch; however, I have something else on my mind. While weddings are a milestone that you should have captured so you can cherish the memories for the rest of your life and your future family can pass them on for generationsâ&#x20AC;Ś you have another obligation, an obligation to take the shot. You will have days where you feel less than human and unworthy of a smile. You will have wonderful days full of laughter and hope. Your family and friends will want to see you during your highs, your lows, and everything in between. Beauty and self-worth are feelings we all experience at different times during our lives. If we feel anything less than beautiful, we typically withdraw from everything around us. We can no longer afford to do so. I have found myself hiding behind my camera, capturing the happiest moments of beautiful lives, and not allowing myself to be seen. Not because I am secretly an agent on a mission to be the best photographer possible, but I do not want to be remembered the way I see myself. It has taken years to realize that others see me for the person they love and have good times with, not the body I see in the mirror. Not the messy-haired, coffee-addicted woman who crouches at a desk all day, and definitely not the woman with flaws. No one needs to see that crazy lady. With that being said, I decided to take the shot daily. I try to take a simple selfie at a moment when I feel my worst because the worst of times propel me to become better. Being human means someone else who is struggling has someone to relate to. I do not have to post the images or show them off, just hold them as a reminder for the future. A reminder that when things are hard, I have been through a different kind of hard and I know I can make it through. In the end, take the shot, every shot, because every moment is worth something to someone around you.

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KöR Whitening Seeing is Believing

DDLEMAN CRIGLER DENTAL IS EXCITED TO NOW offer KöR Whitening! The best whitening system on the market, KöR Whitening is considered revolutionary for our time and is widely accepted as the most effective tooth whitening system ever developed by whitening expert, Dr. Rod Kurthy. Unlike other typical teeth whitening procedures, KöR is known for providing truly remarkable long-term results. For those looking for optimal tooth whitening, some benefits of KöR Whitening include the following: • KöR is the only recognized system in the world that will whiten tetracycline (dark) stained teeth, which was previously thought to be impossible. • KöR is the first company in the world to continuously refrigerate the whitening gels from the moment of manufacture through delivery to you, ensuring absolute potency and effectiveness. Refrigeration is a key part of the KöR system. • With KöR, you whiten while you sleep in total comfort, so there is no need to find time to whiten during your busy day. KöR-Seal Whitening Trays are so comfortable that most patients wake up in the morning having forgotten the trays are even in their mouths. • With easy, periodic, at-home maintenance, your teeth will stay permanently white, even while you continue to drink your favorites like red wine, tea, black coffee, etc. • During the whitening process, the vast majority of patients typically experience very low to no tooth sensitivity at all. • The KöR procedure is comfortable and decades of scientific research and millions of whitening cases have proven KöR Whitening is entirely safe for our teeth and gums. The result is a radiantly white smile that you will LOVE! • KöR is ideal for all ages! From ages 14 to 90, KöR Whitening is effective because KöR rejuvenates the youthful ability of your teeth to absorb oxygen. Oxygen from KöR Whitening gel is absorbed deeply into the tooth, dissolving stain molecules. • As long as you take proper care of your teeth at home and listen to our advice on how to maintain your results, our patients can get to enjoy their whiter and brighter smiles for a very long time. We are proud to be the ONLY dental office in the area offering KöR Tray Whitening. KöR offers the right combination of highpotency peroxide gels, storage/delivery and follow-up maintenance. To celebrate this exciting new service, we are offering a 50% discount on KöR Tray Whitening (regularly $395) during the month of June to the first 10 patients (new and existing) who call us to schedule. Are you ready to make a beautiful yet conservative change to your smile? Call us today to schedule a consult and get your teeth brighter and whiter today, just in time for wedding season, going off to college, or planning your retirement party. After all, your smile is our passion! We look forward to seeing you, so give us a call today at 318-322-2013! WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 185

Sunset Wedding on the Bayou

SUSAN DIANNE ROBINSON AND DR. STEVEN KEITH SCHWAB EXCHANGE VOWS AT THE BEAUTIFUL BAYOU LANDING

usan Dianne Robinson of West Monroe, LA and Dr. Steven Keith Schwab of Monroe, LA exchanged vows on October 27, 2018 at Bayou Landing in Monroe. Susan is the daughter of Scott and Janice Robinson. Steven is the son of Keith Schwab and Kathryn and Chris Waters. The ceremony took place on the lower level of the venue overlooking the breathtaking view of Bayou DeSiard and a perfectly-timed sunset. Held at 5 oâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;clock in the evening, the wedding was officiated by Dr. Ed Adams. The couple opted for a small bridal party that consisted of some of their closest family members. Jennifer Robinson and Matt Adams served as the maid of honor and the best man. Kate and Connor Robinson, children of Scotty and Ashley Robinson, charmed the crowd as the flower girl and ring bearer. The couple participated in the

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braiding of a unity ropeâ&#x20AC;&#x201D;as they wanted to express their strong desire to center their marriage around God and their Christian faith. Surrounded by many friends and their loving families, it was absolutely an autumn day to remember. Following the ceremony, guests enjoyed a variety of foods from Bayou Landing Catering Company, and they finished off their meal with cake from Classy Cake Creations. Benji Guice provided the music for the ceremony and the reception. During the ceremony, the talented Leah Reitzell created a live painting for the couple to have as a keepsake; it is now proudly displayed in their home. The entire day, from makeup and hair to sending off the newlyweds, was captured by Chasity Estis with Chaatography. Posey Productions provided videography. Hair services were provided by Cassie Wade, and makeup was

beautifully applied by Kaylee Salean. Jordan Warner and Penny Bivens dedicated a great deal of their time planning and decorating to transform the venue into a whimsical world with lights, flowers, and many pumpkins. The day after the wedding, the joyful couple took off on an early-morning flight for their honeymoon in The Bahamas. With the help of many vendors and loved ones, October 27, 2018 was the perfect day to start off a beautiful marriage. The Schwabs currently reside in West Monroe. Steven is a physical therapist with Dan Wood Physical Therapy, and Susan is employed at the Northeast Louisiana Association of Realtors.

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Vacation Bible School Is Back

The First Weekend of June - The Marketplace “Paul’s Journeys”

ORSYTHE CHURCH OF CHRIST IS HOSTING VACATION Bible School on Sunday, June 2nd through Wednesday, June 5th from 6:30-9:00 p.m. The kids “travel” back in time to learn of the everyday life in the time of Jesus. While dressed in Biblical time clothing, the children will visit the marketplace and go to different shops each night. In each shop, they learn about the habits, traditions, and lifestyles of 37-67 A.D. Each child gets to make jewelry, lap boards, ropes, pottery, and other items. This year, travelers visit a carpenter’s shop and a storyteller’s tent. They also get to worship God in the first century ways at the Synagogue School and learn to write on scrolls in the Hebrew language. By using gold pebbles and coins, they can purchase candies and herbs. To add to the ancient atmosphere, Roman guards, live sheep, beggars, apostles and Jesus will roam the marketplace acting out several scenes from the Bible. The children will learn first hand what it was like to live during the time of Jesus. The Marketplace “Paul’s Journeys” is open to the community. Please make plans to attend this fun, free and exciting time. Call 318.387.4467 or email donna@primowebsites.net to register. We would love to have your place secured before the big day of June

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2nd. There is no charge and no fees. This is a completely free event and welcomes children of all ages! The Forsythe Church of Christ in Monroe, Louisiana is a community of faith meeting on Forsythe Avenue. We invite you and your family to visit our worship assemblies and Bible classes. You will find a warm welcome, a simple and reverent worship assembly, and a strong commitment to the teachings of the Bible. With regular services each Sunday we would love to have you visit with us. If you have any questions, please feel free to email or call. We look forward in sharing this incredible journey with you! Forsythe Church of Christ 2101 Forsythe Ave. Monroe, LA 71201 318.387.4467 Join us for Sunday Worship Sunday Schedule: 9:15 a.m. - Breakfast 10:00 a.m. - Worship 11:10 a.m. Bible Classes for all ages

Helping Make Memories Steve’s Jewelry in Bastrop

T STEVE’S JEWELRY THEY BELIEVE THAT THE experience of shopping for an engagement ring is just as important as the purchase. Helping a newly engaged couple find the perfect ring is something they take pride in. The proposal is one of the most memorable moments in a young couple’s life together and is one of the first stepping stones to a happy marriage. Steve’s Jewelry is committed to making sure this process is done beautifully and perfectly. They understand that there is a lot that goes into choosing an engagement ring. There are many different styles, designer lines and you also have to consider the bride-to-be’s personal taste in jewelry. Steve’s Jewelry carries a large selection of engagement rings and men’s wedding bands. They look forward to sitting down and assisting couples to better understand what exactly they are buying. The diamond is the most important part of an engagement ring and it can be costly. That’s why Steve’s Jewelry likes to take the time to educate their customers before a purchase, so they know what they have and what they are paying for. Not only do they specialize in wedding and engagement jewelry, Steve’s provides a full showroom of fine jewelry, watches, gift items and more. They are able to do custom work using computer-aided

design and custom wax carvings. They also have a full jewelry repair workshop to help restore all of your most valued treasures. At Steve’s Jewelry they believe that the best part of being a jeweler is being able to take someone’s piece of jewelry that has been damaged and make it look new again. Being able to help restore someone’s sentimental items is something the staff at Steve’s Jewelry values most. Their friendly and professional customer service is what separates them from the others. They will go the extra mile to ensure that their customers are pleased with their purchase, jewelry repair or custom design. For over 40 years Steve’s Jewelry has provided northeast Louisiana with high quality pieces, amazing customer service and fine jewelry. Thanking God for the success of the business, Steve’s Jewelry also acknowledges their customers and is grateful for their business. Steve’s Jewelry 109 E Madison Ave., Bastrop, LA 318 281 4120 Follow them on Facebook

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Rustic Wedding

HANNAH GRACE GIVENS AND TREY ANTHONY HALDER MARRIED AT THE MEADOW WEDDING BARN

annah Grace Givens and Trey Anthony Halder were united in marriage on March 9, 2019 at the rustic Meadow Wedding Barn in Eros, Louisiana. The bride is the daughter of Merle and Alice Givens of West Monroe and Jodie Bartmess of Enterprise. The groom is the son of Eric and Kimberly Halder of Kingland, Georgia. Brother Jeff Luellen officiated the ceremony. Hannah and Trey met and dated in high school and got engaged on February 14, 2018. The excited young couple did not let a little ran deter their big day and had the ceremony inside the barn. With exposed wood beams and lights struck from one side of the building to the other, it was perfect. Alice Givens, owner of Carlstedt’s, is the step-mother of the bride so, of course, there were fresh flowers all around. Large vintage milk jugs lined the aisle and overflowed with florals, greenery and bundles 190 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

of baby’s breath. Designers Sharon Trawick and Robin Daniels of Carlstedt’s arranged all of the flowers, adding to the already beautiful setting. The bride’s bouquet was adorned with blue crystal beads that Hannah’s greatgrandmother wore on her wedding day. The bridal party included Abby Puckett, maid of honor and Allie Givens, Macey Roark and Morgan Jeffery as bridesmaids. The best man was Derek Halder and Alex Kolgaklis, Alex Watson and Travis Kilcommons served as groomsmen. Flower girls were Hattie Grace Givens, Mary Barnett and Locklyn Bryan and Cotton and Miles Givens were ring bearers. The service included many sentimental and meaningful moments. The couple exchanged rings that were passed down from their grandparents and they washed each other’s feet to represent the humility and service to one another, just as Jesus washed his disciples’ feet.

The reception started with the couple’s first dance to “The Way She Loves Me” by Cody Johnson and guests enjoyed gumbo prepared by Chad Puckett, as well as food from Rhonda Williams of Simply Southern Catering. The bridal cake was a classic white buttercream decorated with fresh florals and greenery and the groom’s cake was chocolate and topped with a mallard duck. Both cakes were from Allbritton’s Cake House. Everyone danced the night away to music from Hot Shot DJ. The next day, the couple hopped on a plane to Hawaii, where they enjoyed a seven day honeymoon. They currently reside in Ruston. Hannah and Trey are blessed by God’s grace and cannot thank Him enough for their marriage. They will always look to Him for guidance and continue to honor Him with their marriage for years to come.

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Grillin’ and Chillin’ Since 1997 A Favorite in the Monroe Community

OR 22 YEARS, THIS LOCAL restaurant has been one of Monroe Louisiana’s favorite places to dine. Waterfront Grill opened its doors February 14, 1997 and has been providing this community with some of the best grilled plates in the area since. With a casual setting on Bayou DeSiard and a menu featuring the highest quality steaks and assortment of savory seafood dishes, it’s not hard to see why Waterfront Grill has lasted so long. The Weems family has mastered the grill and has created a special niche that customers, whether they be a local resident or passerby, find delectable. They have perfected their menu with items that can appeal to any clientele, all without the use of a single frier and this summer Waterfront Grill’s daily lunch specials are changing the game. Every Wednesday they serve their classic “PaPaw’s” beef tips and rice dish with a side of green beans and a biscuit. A perfect southern classic, it’s no

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wonder its a fan favorite. More lunch specials include: wine and herb baked catfish served over wild rice and a side of broccoli, bacon and cheddar burger with ranch roasted potatoes, chicken and dumplings with cabbage and cornbread. They also serve blackened shrimp tacos for Taco Tuesday with jalapeño aioli, mango salsa and Spanish rice. But one of the more popular plates would have to be the shrimp and cheesy grits. Made with andouille sausage and bell peppers, this bowl is a perfect blend of cajun flavors. Stopping by for dinner? You can never go wrong ordering oysters, steak or pork chops from the menu at Waterfront. Their frenched, center cut pork chops are made from a premium selection of meat and are chargrilled flawlessly harnessing the flavors of the seasoning and the natural juices. Pork chops may not be your first choice when dining out but saying that you would be

missing out if you didn’t try these would be an understatement. Waterfront Grill has evolved over the years, and will continue to evolve, to ensure that this family restaurant remains a local favorite. Providing gluten-free options, Waterfront strives to accommodate to each and every one of their customers. Every aspect of the restaurant is infused with a sense of community and hometown pride. The walls are adored with ULM memorabilia, large windows on the back wall provide views of the patio overlooking the bayou, and the cuisine itself is a statement of Louisiana. You can find them next to ULM’s campus at 5201 DeSiard St., open 11a.m. - 9 p.m. Monday-Saturday or simply call in your order at 318.345.0064

Dynamic Duo Teams Up for Local Events Adrienne Steele and Alana Babb Join Forces

OR NEARLY EIGHT YEARS, Adrienne Steele of Sage Events has been helping brides get down the aisle here in Northeast Louisiana. From full planning, to day of coordinating, to directing ceremonies, Sage Events is a full service event management company. As a certified Wedding Planner and member of the Association of Bridal Consultants, Adrienne is passionate about weddings. With nearly 20 years of event planning experience, Adrienne’s knowledge of special events is extensive. From proms and social events, casting calls at a performing arts academy, to the events and golf tournament director at English Turn Country Club in New Orleans, to now owning Sage Events in West Monroe, there is not much she hasn’t been a part of. “The best part about my job is that it’s not a job at all.,” said Adrienne. “I get to be a part of one of the most important days

of a bride’s life. I love the fact that each event is different from the last, they are never the same!” Recently Adrienne and Sage Events partnered with Alana Babb of Something Borrowed Event Rentals and Styling. Together they are working on creating a one-stop-shop for all event planning and decorating needs. With decor rentals and design services, their team will be able to design, decorate and direct your event from beginning to end, including set up and breakdown. With her experience in event coordination in the healthcare industry, Alana has expertise in planning and decorating for special events and local health fairs so this is a natural transition. “We are excited to be able to offer a storefront where brides can come and see options when it comes to event and design,” said Alana. Something Borrowed offers an

array of styles and decor, including oneof-a-kind vintage pieces. A favorite is the 100-year-old church pews that offer a rich history as well as a unique seating option. Other services available include wedding and event invitation design, cups, koozies, wine glasses, coasters and other fun giveaways for wedding and events. They can even design t-shirts, robes and other personalized items for the bridal party. They recently added mobile bar rentals and bartending packages to their services as well. The dynamic duo of Adrienne Steele of Sage Events and Alana Babb of Something Borrowed Event Rentals and Styling are excited to be able to offer their services together. If you are planning a wedding, shower, dinner, or corporate/special event, Sage Events and Something Borrowed can help you from beginning to end!

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New Orleans Nuptials

JACQUELYN AMELIA KENNEDY AND SPENCER SHELTON CRAFT MARRIED IN A FABULOUS FRENCH QUARTER WEDDING

acquelyn Amelia Kennedy and Spencer Shelton Craft were united in marriage March 30, 2019, at The Jaxson in New Orleans, Louisiana. The Rev. Morgan MacIntire officiated. Amelia is the daughter of Jacquelyn Quinn Kennedy of Shreveport, Louisiana, and Larry Edward Kennedy of Arkadelphia, Arkansas. Amelia is the granddaughter of William and Elsie Quinn, Lorena Kennedy of Arkadelphia and the late Earl Craig Kennedy. Spencer is the son of Darrel and Liz Craft of Monroe, Louisiana. Spencer is the grandson of the late Shelton and Mary Claire Jones of Charleston, South Carolina, and James and Donis Craft of Vidalia, Louisiana. On the day before the wedding, the bridesmaids were honored with a luncheon hosted by the bride’s and groom’s aunts at

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The Bourbon House in New Orleans. That evening, the groom’s parents hosted a seated dinner for the rehearsal party at Brennan’s Restaurant. After the wedding ceremony, a reception followed at the The Jaxson. The Phunky Monkeys of New Orleans kept the wedding party and guests dancing the night away after the fabulous second line throughout the French Quarter. With catering by New Orleans Catering Company and the Jaxson staff, the reception menu featured a raw and chargrilled oyster bar, several stations with traditional New Orleans cuisine such as chicken and sausage gumbo and shrimp napoleon over fried eggplant, plus a delicious spread of hors d’oeuvres passed around to guests during the evening. Stunning floral arrangements of vibrant

coral, peach, and ivory roses paired with tulips and light apricot lisianthus were created for the wedding and reception by Bella Blooms Floral of Metairie, Louisiana. The bride’s cake, accented by the same floral theme, and groom’s LSU cookie cake were designed and created by NOLA Sweet Life Bakery in New Orleans, Louisiana. Presented by her father, the bride chose an elegant lace gown from Bridal Boutique in Lewisville, Texas. The dress was a Devany, designed by Pronovias Group of Barcelona, Spain Krysta Lorraine Cyr of Bossier City, Louisiana, served as maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Mary Anne Moore of Richmond, Virginia; Brigid Ellen Towey, Hilary Salmon Orf and Elizabeth Ann Paradoski, all of St. Louis, Missouri; and Sarie Swearingen McNair, Susan Swearingen

Anglin, Sarah Catherine Laborde and Emily Alexandra Fultz, all of Shreveport. Darrel Craft, father of the groom, served as best man. Thomas Marshall Craft of Monroe, brother of the groom, as well as Edward Quinn Kennedy of Shreveport and brother of the bride, were groomsmen. Stephen Tyler Shoaf of Greensboro, North Carolina; Andrew Charles Broussard of Lafayette, Louisiana; Brady McNeil Hadden of New Orleans; Stephen James Mayronne Jr. of Monroe, Louisiana; Cameron Wheeler Ellerbeck of Houston, Texas; and Reagan Hunter Johnson of Shreveport were also groomsmen. Amelia is a graduate of Loyola College Prep and the University of Mississippi with a bachelor’s degree in nutrition. She is employed by Red Ball Oxygen in Shreveport. Spencer is a graduate of St. Frederick High School and Louisiana State University with a bachelor’s degree in accounting. He is employed with Cactus Wellhead in Bossier City. Following a honeymoon to St. Lucia, the couple has made their home in Shreveport. Photography courtesy of Berg Photography of Shreveport WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 195

ULM Honors Program Students Win Quiz Bowl ULM Students Recently Attended the Annual Meeting of the LCHC

TUDENTS FROM THE UNIVERSITY of Louisiana Monroe Honors Program recently attended the annual meeting of the Louisiana Collegiate Honors Council (LCHC) hosted by Dillard University in New Orleans. Attending the conference were honors students from colleges and universities across Louisiana. In all, 57 students represented ULM, making ULM the largest delegation at the conference. “I am extremely proud of how wellrepresented and how well-prepared our honors students were at LCHC,” said Dr. Joshua Stockley, Director of the ULM Honors Program. “ULM had more attendees and student presentations than any other institution, which speaks volumes about the amount of collaboration between professors and students and the quality of research conducted by students at ULM.”

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The ULM Honors Program defeated the University of Louisiana at Lafayette in the quiz bowl competition, earning the designation of 2019 quiz bowl champions among honors programs in Louisiana. Competing for quiz bowl were Bria Winfree (junior, history), Rayni Amato (junior, psychology), Cameron Ott (junior, political science), Kushal Timilsina (sophomore, computer information systems), Lydia Mills (junior, English), David Hagensee (junior, computer science), Kaitlyn Morris (sophomore, elementary education) and Destenae Mosby (junior, psychology.) “Competing in quiz bowl and defeating the defending champions was a great experience,” said Bria Winfree, captain of the honors program quiz bowl team. “We practiced all year, so it was satisfying to see our hard work and dedication pay off. Participating in the ULM honors program has

been one of the best decisions of my collegiate career thus far.” Nine students presented papers based on research conducted at ULM, including, Chelsea Bock (senior, toxicology), Mallory Crawford (senior, biology), Linsey Hrabovsky (senior, nursing), Aaron Nguyen (senior, biology), Bailey Mabou (senior, toxicology), Anne Marie Hancock (senior, biology), Shivam Kharga (senior, computer science), Arohan Rimal (sophomore, biology), and Madison Crusan (senior, political science.) The Louisiana Collegiate Honors Council is an association of honors program directors and students from universities and colleges across Louisiana. Students present papers and posters showcasing their own work and research, discuss specific issues related to the furtherance of successful honors programs and careers, and compete in the quiz bowl competition.

Celebrating Magical Moments Trusting Gods Plan

LLISON BRISTER AND HER husband Dustin, grew up in Franklin Parish. After high school, they both attended and graduated from Louisiana Tech University. While there, they met on a blind date in 2000 and the rest is history. They got married on April 27, 2002 and loved Ruston so much they decided to stay and raise their four kids there. Dustin went to work in the medical sales field, and Allison became a teacher for 13 years. Their kids became so busy with their sports and activities that they decided for Allison to become a “stay-at-home” mom, and that is what she has dedicated her life to these past three years. One day Allison was working in their flower beds at home when the Lord told her to build a venue. She calls her husband, who was at a baseball game with their son, and tells him the big news. He thought she had completely

lost her mind. She remembers telling him that they had to do this, not to be scared, and the design and purpose would be revealed at a later time. They never had any intentions of becoming business owners, much less an event venue owner. Oddly enough though, they have such JOY in what they get to do each weekend. Whether it’s the hard work that takes place; getting to watch their children grow and become responsible little adults; the couples that they get to meet and grow to love; or the farm team they get to train and watch implement the venue’s success as youth. It’s been such a neat experience for these two. Not easy, but a truly joyful experience! Dustin and Allison have such a passion for young couples trying to figure out life. They get to know each couple and solidly invest in them and their lives if willing. They teach the young adults at their church, so it’s

very natural for them and their children to be a part of this age-group’s lives. It took them two long years to design, develop, and build the venue. She remembers thinking they would never finish, but what God was doing during this “season of life” was revealing His will for them and White Oak. It’s purpose was never for Allison or Dustin’s monetary gain, but to truly love on others and help those in need. One thing about White Oak Venue, is that they get to love on people that God brings their way, but in return, it also allows them to be servants and complete the real work needed within this community. Their kids get to experience the joy with them, and get to see what hard work is truly about and that serving others is a wonderful gift. Please visit their website at whiteoakvenue.com.

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Ballet Under the Stars Spring was in the air and so was the joy of dance at the annual Ballet Under the Stars. This event was held on Friday, April 26th and Saturday, April 27th at Kiroli Park and is presented by the Twin City Ballet Company. It is considered North Louisianaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s signature spring arts event. Act I, The Magical Garden, was written and choreographed by Joe Istre while Act II showcased choreography by Krislynne Flowers, Diane Maroney-Grigsby, Leaia Alsup, Cherri Barnett and Joe Istre. Former TCB dancer Jacie Scott and vocalist Jodi Wright also joined the company as guest artists. The crowd enjoyed watching beautiful dancers perform in an unbelievable outdoor setting, making for an unforgettable evening of dance. Local food trucks were on hand with food and drinks, and patrons enjoyed light cocktails from the Twin City Board of Directors.

On the BayouScene 1 Lauren and Donna Chandler with Shelby Babcock 2 Mary Taylor and Jim Lewis 3 Anya and Cambra Fulco 4 S awyer and Hope Robertson with Virginia Sue Barr 5 T raci Babusek with Rene and Lauren Robinson 6 Adyson Crick and Julianna Tan 7 L illie Mitchell, Meredith Crowder and Brinkley Bennett 8 S arah Beth Witherington, Taylor Elliott and Bentley Lewis 9 E mma Salomon, London Coplen and Madelynn Rawls 10 K ay Harrison, Meghan Sellar and Mary Beth Johnson 11 Allison, Libby and Lauren Nunnelee 12 G inger and Michael Ezell 13 T aylor Lilley, Solina Hamilton and Shelley Hamilton 14 G reg Hicks and Anna and Phil Jones 15 B elle Joiner, Olivia McMillon, Lynnon Jefferson and Presley Fulco 16 J ake Tan and Mary Dy 17 D enise Harrison and Miranda Moss 18 N icole Leggett and Charlotte Crawford 19 J oe Istre and Kim Taylor 20 M elanie and Tommy Usrey, Barry Stevens, Georgia and Bill Street 21 K ate Myers, Abby Martin, Ginger Johnson, Tatum Brasher, Anna Grace Lee and Madelyn Carroll

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Chorus Conducts Open Rehearsals Piney Hills Harmony/Sweet Adelines International

INEY HILLS HARMONY CHORUS of Sweet Adelines is holding open rehearsals throughout the summer and invites area women of all ages to come sing with them. Chorus members come from across North Louisiana to participate in the Ruston-based group. The a cappella chorus is learning new songs and dusting off old ones such as “Happy,” “Heartache Tonight,” “Life Is a Highway,” “Dancing in the Street,” “Mama Mia,” “Down to the River to Pray” and “Turn Your Radio On.” Rehearsals are at 6 p.m. Thursdays at 212 N. Bonner in the fellowship hall. Attendees do not have to read music or have a solo voice. The award-winning chorus bills itself as friendly, fun-loving and accepting. The current international theme is “Life on a High Note” and

Piney Hills Harmony Chorus is expanding and looking for new members. Call 318.348.2291 for more information. encourages chorus guests to “find more than your voice; find a sisterhood that lasts a lifetime.” For more information call Carol Ogle at 348-2291. For possible changes in rehearsal details, visit the Facebook page Piney Hills Harmony / Sweet Adelines International.

New Music on the Bayou Festival Three days, six concerts, 30+ composers - The fourth annual New Music on the Bayou Festival will take place throughout the communities of Monroe, West Monroe, and Ruston from June 6th through June 8th. More than thirty composers from around the country will descend upon the north Louisiana area to have their works performed by area musicians. Composers will be available for discussion of their work immediately following each concert. Venues include Biedenharn Recital Hall (June 6, 1pm), the Rialto Gallery (June 6, 7pm), Louisiana Tech Biomedical Building (June 7, 1pm), Ruston Artisans (June 7, 7pm), Black Bayou National Wildlife Refuge, (June 8, 10am), Banf iedenharn Museum and Gardens (June 8, 7pm). The final concert will include two choreographed works performed in the “ballet garden” of the Biedenharn Gardens and the announcement of the Black Bayou Composition Contest Winner. All events prior to Saturday evening are free and open to the public. Tickets for the Saturday evening concert at the Biedenharn Museum and Gardens can be purchased for that concert through their website for $20.

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Blend of the Bayou

On May 5th, the Blend of the Bayou event took place at the beautiful Island Drive home of Sue and Dr. Walter Sartor of Monroe. This is the 22nd year the Arts Council of Northeast Louisiana presented this event that features local men who cook and brew, as well as local artists. This is one of our favorite events of the year and this year’s Cinco de Mayo theme made it even better! The BayouLife men were a hit with their now famous tamales, that they created and hand rolled themselves. The Sartor family’s driveway became a well-curated art gallery, featuring paintings, drawings and pottery from area artists. This event is just one of the ways that the Arts Council raises money in order to nurture a vibrant regional arts culture through support, promotion and education.

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Flower Show at Chennault

The Monroe Garden Study League recently hosted a Garden Club of America flower show at the Chennault Aviation and Military Museum in Monroe on May 7 - 8, 2019. Rosie the Riveter, along with General Chennault and his Flying Tigers, served as inspiration for the show, themed “We Can Do It!” It featured groundbreaking contemporary floral design, horticulture, photography, botanical art, and a conservation exhibit that explored creating pollinator friendly landscapes. This directly ties in with the Monroe Garden Study League’s work to bring native wildflowers and grasses to the medians of Highway 165 near St. Joseph Nursing Home. Exhibitors for the show came from as far as Hawaii, with representation from both coasts as well as Texas, Tennessee, Arkansas, Mississippi, and Louisiana.

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Dragon Boat Festival The boats returned to Bayou DeSiard for another year, in what has quickly become one of Monroe’s signature events. The Bayou DeSiard Dragon Boat Festival was held May 13th, and spectators turned out to watch teams compete for the top prize–bragging rights as the top Dragon Boat team of the year. First National Bank was the title sponsor of the Children’s Coalition of Northeast Louisiana’s main fundraising event for the year. Cold drinks were provided by Choice Brands and Southern Beverage Company, and eats were served by various local food trucks. This year’s event was kicked off by the Draggin’ Tails Family Fun Run, presented by Fleet Feet of Monroe.

On the BayouScene 1 Emily Lara and Cruse Lara 2 Chris and Allee Clark 3 Harley McCurdy, Shannon Black and Caitlin Crow 4A bigail Kirby, Morgan Carter, Rayanna Fanton and Avery Brown 5G arret Simmons, Eli Extine, Chase Simmons, Will Fitzhugh and Thomas Kulp 6 Josh Perot, Tedd Hull and David Salen 7 S kyler Parhms, Chelsea Parhms and Shirley Cocker 8K yle Nix, Xan Nix and Alyssa Nix 9 J ennifer Gray, Hunter Tyler and Gabby Reno 10 G race Brennan and David Salen 11 Holly Allen, Marcia Allen and Chasity Allen 12 W esley Apel, Michael and Sonya Fronsoe, Zee Zee Wilson and Amy Akers 13 G recia Rojas, Kiara Moore, Saledad Palomo, Aubrey Maxey, Taylor Lee and Ari Slayton 14 J ustin and Bethany Sutherland and Jennifer Bird 15 A ngel Crawford, Bryan Crawford, Sharley Turbville, Sarah Turbville and Lucy Turbville 16 A mani Phillips, Maggie Flores and Trinity Wallace 17 R ussell and Julie Kicey 18 J anine and Ted Hopkins, Deanie Baker, Don Dixon and Shelia Dixon 19 E ddie Hernandez, Ivy Parhms, Andrea Dyer, Julie Emory and Angie D’angelo

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Cathi French Roberts & Lori French

hen thinking about your summer “reads,” it usually doesn’t include a glossy pictured hardback coffee table book does it? However, just because you may not want to drag this type of book to the beach or pool, doesn’t mean you can’t catch up on some inspirational reading. These treasures are a great way to gather visual inspiration and such personal gifts when inscribed. Thumbing through pictures in a well edited book on a subject you adore or something you simply want to learn more about is just like scrolling through Instagram. Except it’s not...you can’t compare the feeling, touch and familiar aroma of the printed page. When we buy a coffee table book, it helps define our aesthetic and offers a reflection of our personalities. In this throw-away, delete, edited digital version of life (that we all are guilty of consuming) our acquired tastes of enlightened living can be recognized by the presence of our real-life books in our favorite spaces.

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among boys. And it can occur anywhere: middle and high schools, in the workplace, in the community, or on-line via social media. It is important to recognize that sexual harassment by and between youth goes beyond bullying in that it is of a sexual nature and it isn’t limited to people of the same age. Adults may sexually harass young people, though when youth BY THE CHILDREN’S COALITION FOR NORTHEAST LOUISIANA experience sexual harassment, it is most often coming from people in the same age group. Sexual harassment comes in many forms exual harassment is a broad term, Bias has provided crisis intervention and such as: sexual name calling, unwanted including many types of unwelcome prevention to victims throughout her career. touching and sexual advances, making jokes, verbal and physical sexual attention. In her current role, she provides primary comments or gestures to or about someone, It is different from sexual prevention education spreading sexual rumors (in person, by text assault. Sexual assault throughout nine parishes or online), writing sexual messages about refers to sexual contact or behavior, in Northeast Louisiana to people in public places or on social media, often physical, that occurs without individuals across the lifespan. showing someone an inappropriate sexual the consent of the victim. Sexual Her credentials include picture or video or asking someone to send harassment generally violates civil certifications as a Certified you a naked photo of themselves, pinching, laws—we have a right to work or Peer Support Specialist, Peer grabbing or pulling at someone’s clothing in learn without being harassed— Recovery Support Specialist, a purposefully sexual way, repeatedly asking but in many cases is not a criminal Mental Health First Aid someone to go out after the person has said act, while sexual assault usually Responder, and Suicide 101. no, and pressuring someone for sex or sexual refers to acts that are criminal Ms. Bias has an associate’s favors. such as rape, forcing someone to degree in Behavioral Sciences perform sexual acts or unwanted from Louisiana Delta Q: Why is it important for parents to talk sexual touching. Research shows Community College and is to their children about sexual harassment? that 87% of teenage girls and pursuing a bachelor’s degree What is a good way to start the conversation? A: Tweens and teens need to understand and 40% of teenage boys reported being the in Applied Behavioral Science. consent, respect, healthy boundaries and victim of sexual harassment. The Harvard School of Education (2017) found that only Q: What do parents and youth need to know healthy relationship characteristics as well as unhealthy ones in order to decide what’s ok a quarter of teens and young adults have about sexual harassment? ever had a conversation with their parents A: Sexual harassment can be defined for themselves and others and what is not. If about how to avoid being sexually harassed as unwelcome attention of a sexual nature, they do not receive this input from trusted, or harassing others. This means the majority occurring through verbal and/or physical reliable, responsible adults in their lives, they of young people are left to their own devices interaction. It can involve comments, gestures, may rely on inaccurate or unhealthy messages to figure out what exactly constitutes sexual actions or attention that is intended to hurt, they receive from others. This could lead to harassment—a topic so nuanced that many offend, or intimidate another person. Sexual tolerance of uncomfortable or hurtful behavior adults don’t fully understand it. harassment can be experienced at any age directed toward them from others as well as an Yolanda Bias is the Sexual Assault and it can happen to both females and males; inability to stand up for victims of harassment Prevention Specialist for The Wellspring and it happens not only between individuals of and to those who harass others. If youth adopt she has been with the agency for 3 years. Ms. opposite genders, but also among girls or unhealthy attitudes and beliefs about sexually

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harassing behaviors, they themselves may engage in such behaviors. Not talking about or ignoring sexual harassment will not make it go away. Never be afraid to bring up the topic of sexual harassment. Use open-ended questions and refrain from judgment if they describe personal incidents or things that may have happened to friends. A good way to start a conversation is to engage your child by describing something you have read or heard about sexual harassment among youth. Ask if they have had friends or teachers talking about it. Have they ever observed anything of this nature that made them feel uncomfortable? What are their thoughts? Taking these kinds of steps helps to open communication about how to prevent sexual harassment and how to handle it should it occur. Q: What are some of the short and long-term outcomes of not talking about sexual harassment? What is the worst thing that could happen? A: I repeat, not talking about or ignoring sexual harassment will not make it go away. One of the most important roles for parents is to be aware of changes in their child’s behavior. Sexual harassment can affect a teen’s grades, increase school absenteeism, cause distractions in school or work performance, or lead to isolating from one’s peers. There may be changes in eating habits and weight, feelings of a lack of control over one’s life, low self-esteem, as well as psychosomatic symptoms such as headaches, stomach pains, insomnia and irritability. Some longterm outcomes include substance abuse, self-harming behaviors, and suicidal thoughts. Certainly the worst thing that could happen would be for anyone to act on his or her suicidal thoughts. People who are sexually harassed can feel threatened and scared and experience a great deal of emotional stress. It helps to know what sexual harassment is and listen to your children as well as ask them clarifying questions if something sounds suspicious. If you notice any possible signs that your child has experienced unwanted or unwelcome comments or behaviors, talk with them. Let them know you believe them and that you want to help them stop the harassment. If your child isn’t comfortable talking to you about their experiences reassure them and provide them with another trusted adult. Don’t ignore what is happening.

87% of teenage girls and 40% of teenage boys reported being the victim of sexual harassment

RESOURCES TeensHealth

TeensHealth is a great resource (https://kidshealth.org/en/ teens/harassment.html) for more information about sexual harassment and all kinds of health-related issues. In both English and Spanish, the site provides different doorways for parents, kids and teens and educators to gain information about topics such as sexual health, body, mind, food and fitness, and drugs and alcohol.

Jan Daniels, Youth Development Director at the Children’s Coalition, works with middle schools in northeast Louisiana to provide the suicide prevention program Signs of Suicide (SOS) and the the program Rights, Respect and Responsibility which addresses dating violence and healthy relationships. The Coalition will be offering a series of classes this Spring for parents to learn more about the sexual health of their teens and how they can have healthy relationships. Call Jan at (318) 323-8775 or go to www.childrenscoalition.org to learn more about how you can get these programs at your child’s school.

Q: If my child reports they have experienced sexual harassment, what is the best way to get help? A: If your child reports they have experienced sexual harassment believe them! Sexual harassment is illegal and you have the right to report it to the proper authorities when it happens. Know that everyone has the right to feel safe in school. Schools have a duty to prevent harassment, to have policies against it, to investigate complaints, and to take prompt action to stop harassment when it occurs. Always follow-up on what is being done about any report you make. You may also choose to report the incident to law enforcement or seek legal advice. If you have concerns about harassment, bullying, or other forms of violence, seek help. The Wellspring is our region’s accredited Sexual Assault Center. We offer a 24/7 sexual assault hotline to assist: 318-3231505. Counseling services are also available through The Wellspring Counseling and Family Development Center for individuals and families impacted by sexual harassment. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 205

3rd Annual Morehouse May Madness For the third year in a row, Morehouse Parish celebrated its 3rd Annual Morehouse May Madness Street Festival on May 4th. With so much success the first two years, organizers expanded the event and added even more entertainment and activities. The streets of downtown Bastrop around the historical square played host to the visitors, vendor and live music. An antique tractor exhibit, ATV exhibit, Farmerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Market, art show, kids zone, food and merchant vendors and more were all on display for guests as they strolled the streets of downtown Bastrop listening to live music. Even with the rain, community members came out to celebrate, shop and eat with family, friends and neighbors. Each year, the festival gets bigger and better and we canâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t wait to see what they have in store for next year!

On the BayouScene 1 Ray Witherington and Jack Clement 2 Carly Jo Turnbow, Pam and Ava Stokes 3 Scott Fleming and Betty Crouch 4 J anice Moore, Leslie Book, Alice Adams, Renee and James Ogden 5K rista Benson and Meredith Clement 6 Tim and Meredith Comans 7 S herra Fertitta and Maggie Generoso 8D eanne Black and Phyllis Pepper 9K ara Rider, Shakita Washington and Barbara Bradley 10 M ichael Echols and DJ Fortenberry 11 F riday and Ashley Ellis, Zuli and Sam Riser 12 L atonya and Sammie Peoples 13 S ussan Polnnigs and Sandi Rallinson 14 C arol Costello and Vicki Carpenter 15 E llie Dyess, Scarlett, Whitley and Ella Johnson 16 K enneth and Jennifer Stephenson and Tifani Thomas

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Warriors Wear It Well For the fifteenth year in a row, the graduating class of St. Frederick High School presented their “Warriors Wear It Well” style show tradition. The event was held April 25th at the West Monroe Convention Center and the theme was “The Great Grads-bys.” The senior class modeled fashions and trends from local boutiques and businesses. Not only did it feature a fashion aspect, but also incorporated each student’s personality and a look into their future ahead. As the show came to a close, the SFHS alumni walk celebrated the tradition and continual support of the St. Frederick family. This annual event is a fundraiser for St. Frederick High School, a Catholic school with a diverse student body from many religious backgrounds and walks of life. Congratulations to the staff and seniors of St. Frederick on another excellent event!

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Wine Over Water Wine Over Water took place on Thursday, April 25th on the campus of the University of Louisiana at Monroe. Blue Cross Blue Shield of Louisiana sponsored a patron party held on the 7th floor of the ULM Library, overlooking the beautiful campus. Guests enjoyed hors dâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;oeuvres and the sounds of Rod Allen Payne and Trevor Davis. While predicated bad weather moved the main event from the bridge to Bayou Pointe event center, the party did not stop! There were over 30 local restaurants with wine from Southern Glazerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Wine and Spirits and beer from Marsala Beverage. Everyone danced the night away to the always fun and festive Flashback 5. Proceeds from the event benefit the The Spirit of the Warhawk Endowed Scholarship, which is instrumental in attracting local scholars to ULM.

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WEDDING VENDOR DIRECTORY

A Resource for Local Couples Getting Ready for Their Big Day

Wedding Attire: Eleven 26 Boutique 314 Trenton St., West Monroe, 318-737-7207 Carrying bridal party and formal dresses Fashion Post 4800 I-55, #9, Jackson, MS, 601-362-5171 Featuring Mother of the Bride and Mother of the Groom dresses Magnolia Mariée 200 Main St., Natchez, MS, 601-446-6400 Gowns and accessories for brides and bridal party, plus tuxedo rental Ron Alexander Clothiers for Men 1615 N. 18th St., Monroe, 318-387-4409 Men’s suits, shoes and accessories Catering & Food: Bountiful Catering 1807 Pine St., Monroe, LA, 318-325-0062 Catering specializing in Southern American and Cajun flavors Chef Pat Nolan 125 St. John St., Monroe, LA, 318-237-4859 Catering with breathtaking presentations Chicken Salad Chick 1191 Lamy Lane, Suite 7 Monroe, LA, 318-322-4425 Catering for bridal showers and receptions Doe’s Eat Place 300 Washington St. Monroe, LA, 318-737-7169 Offers onsite and offsite catering Miss Kay’s Sweets & Eats 401 Trenton St. West Monroe, LA, 318-582-5872 Offers onsite and offsite catering Newk’s Eatery Monroe, West Monroe and Ruston Catering includes hand-crafted sandwiches, salads, soups and desserts Teriyaki Grill 1912 E Kentucky Ave., Ruston, 318-254-0777 Health-conscious options - chicken, steak and shrimp in a signature teriyaki sauce Thurman’s Food Factory 1608 Stubbs Ave., Monroe, 318-387-7848 Offering catering including classic hors d’oeuvres, dips, trays, meats and more Waterfront Grill 5201 Desiard Street Monroe, LA , 318-345-0064 Cajun style seafood on the banks of the beautiful Bayou DeSiard

Bakery: Butter Bakery 130 DeSiard St. (inside Vantage Building) Monroe, LA, 318-855-3774 Bakery specializing in gluten-free items Miss Kay’s Sweets & Eats 401 Trenton St. West Monroe, LA, 318-582-5872 Offers onsite and offsite catering Thurman’s Food Factory 1608 Stubbs Ave., Monroe, 318-387-7848 Cakes, cupcakes, petit fours and more Photographer: Madeline Grace Photography/ Black Label Boudoir Monroe, 318-884-0801 Engagement pictures, day of wedding festivities and boudoir sessions Venue: Bayou Landing 7805 Desiard St., Monroe, 318-737-7061 The venue with a view that offers food, bar and set up Bayou Pointe Warhawk Way, Monroe, 318-342-1900 Idealic venue overlooking Bayou DeSiard Chateau Rouge 320 Virginia St., Monroe, 318-953-4034 Versatile venue on the bayou Hotel Vue 130 John R. Junkin Dr. Natchez, MS, 601-442-9976 Venue in Downtown Natchez overlooking the Mississippi River Mansion at Red Hill 66 Hwy 854, Delhi, 318-878-5155 Ideal venue for romantic outdoor wedding Park Manor 5868 Mer Rouge Rd., Bastrop, 318-239-2146 Beautiful and historic wedding and party venue in a plantation setting Vantage Rooftop Garden & Tower Banquet Room Monroe, 318-998-2860 These venues offer historical elegance with modern convenience in downtown Monroe White Oak Venue 515 LA 3072, Ruston, 318-614-0040 Rustic and elegant venue in a country setting Jewelry: Dupont Jewelers 1874 Forsythe Ave., Monroe, 318-855-4695

Handcrafted fine jewelry with exceptional quality Hollis & Co. 1815 Avenue of America, Monroe 318-322-7794 Stunning collection of fine jewelry and antique pieces Marty and Mark’s Jewelry & Watch Repair 224 Trenton St., West Monroe Selection of fine jewelry Steve’s Jewelry 109 East Madison Ave, Bastrop, 318-281-4120 Quality fine jewelry and engagement rings Event Planner: Everything Artsy Events 244 Jill Loop, Ruston, 318-548-4935 Complete wedding and event planning Sage Events & Design Monroe, 318-557-9757 Decor, styling and event coordination Florals: Carlstedt’s/Flower General 1507 Siddon St., Monroe, 318-388-0080 Distributor of fresh-cut flowers and floral accessories Everything Artsy Events 244 Jill Loop, Ruston, 318-548-4935 Styling and floral services fine folks. Northeast Louisiana, 318-538-8126 Florals, weddings and events Petals and Pearls 4208 Sterlington Rd., Monroe, 318-605-3503 Full service florist Trappings/Home of Ruston Florist 1103 Farmerville Hwy, Ruston, 318-255-8747 Full service florist Transportation: JPS Executive Transportation 5410 Operations Road, Monroe, 318-512-4218 Fleet includes full length Expeditions, limousines and Mercedes-Benz bus Rivertown Limo Sterlington, 318-528-RIDE Locally owned limo servicing northeast louisiana Beauty: Mickel Plastic Surgery 903 N 2nd St., Monroe, 318-388-2050 Medispa offering body sculpting, facials, fillers, laser hair removal and more. Professional Laser Center 1900 N. 18th St., Suite 209, Monroe 318-361-9066 Unique and effective services that beautify and heal the outer body

Spa Nouvelle/Derma MediQ 1705 Lamy Ln., Monroe, 318-807-1060 Full service spa with services, procedures and products for the entire bridal party Spirits: Tonore’s Wine Cellar 801 Louisville Ave., Monroe, 318-325-4100 Providing beverages, cheese and wine for wedding events Washington Wine 300 Washington St., Monroe, 318-816-5067 Unique bottle shop with wide selection of wine, spirits and beers Invitations: Creative Occasions Monroe, 318-355-0530 Invitations, custom favors and stationery Nib & Flow Design Winnsboro, 318-235-9951 Specializing in custom stationery, envelope calligraphy and bespoke keepsakes Paper Market 1818 Forsythe Ave., Monroe, 318-537-9721 Specializing in paper and party supplies with custom stationery and invitations Paperglaze Calligraphy Ruston, 318-914-1116 Specializing in envelope addressing and unique hand lettering Laginappe: Dansby’s Taylor Rental 2102 Forsythe Ave. Monroe, 318-323-0600 Your wedding rental headquarters Governor’s Cigar and Pipe 1004 N. Third St., Monroe, 318-654-7129 Offering cigar bar setup for special events Legends 32 Cigar and Vape Lounge 2000 East Kentucky Ave., Ruston Offering unique cigars, perfect for wedding party gifts Material Things 2305 Forsythe Ave., Monroe, 318-699-8964 A variety of special gifts perfect for the bridal showers The Muffin Tin 1904 Glenmar Ave., Monroe, 318-323-3753 Registry available for china, crystal, kitchen accessories, decor and more The Trenton House 300 Trenton St., West Monroe, 318-388-4315 Registry available for china, crystal, kitchen accessories, decor and more

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Missy Robertson talks to BayouLife Magazine about the renovation and opening of Logtown Plantation as an event venue and bed and breakfast. ARTICL E B Y L ARO N E RI CH ARD SO N PO RT R A IT PHOTOG RA PHY B Y LO RI M I CH E L L E PH OTO GRAPH Y INT ER IO R AND EXTERIOR PHOTOG RA PHY B Y K E VI N B E ASL E Y

esident celebrities Missy and Jase Robertson recently announced the grand opening of Logtown Plantation, northeast Louisiana’s newest (yet oldest) event venue and bed & breakfast. This elegant estate, central to the history of our Ouachita Valley, has been lovingly renovated by the Robertsons to accommodate any type of special event or celebration. Whether it be an unforgettable wedding, reception, birthday or anniversary, a family or class reunion, formal dinner, fundraiser, corporate function or community concert, the event possibilities are endless. Since this is BayouLife’s annual Wedding Issue, our central focus here will be the plantation’s perfect suitability not only as a wedding venue, but all things associated with the happy event. What better place to host the ultimate bridal shower or bridesmaids’ brunch? Do you envision a late afternoon wedding on the lawn, with a celebration in the outdoor reception hall? Imagine the fabulous surroundings the house would provide for your wedding portrait, announcement party, or rehearsal dinner. There’s even a honeymoon cottage on-site. Maybe you just need a tiny corner of a garden or the formal parlor for a small,

intimate ceremony. Whatever your needs, whatever the size of your event, Missy has tried to think of everything to make the bride and groom’s special day absolutely perfect. In fact, it was an impending wedding that eventually led Missy to this beautiful piece of Louisiana history. “A few years ago,” Missy begins, “one of my friends asked me to help her find a barn to rent for her daughter’s wedding. We couldn’t find a thing. She was so disappointed.” That fruitless endeavor planted a seed in Missy’s mind...find a piece of property where she and Jase could build a barn to host weddings and other occasions. Then in duck season of 2017, Missy says she looked down at her iPad and “saw this dot on Zillow.” Intrigued with its location right on the Ouachita River, she made an appointment to view the property and asked Jase if he would like to accompany her. “He was looking for some new hunting property at the time. It was love at first sight,” she says, recalling their reaction to the 11-acre estate. “Jase fell in love with the property, and I fell in love with the house and its history.” When the realtor opened the front door to the house, Jase headed instead towards the back of the property. Not even stopping to look at the house, he paused just long enough

to announce over his shoulder, “We want it!” When he realized that his parents’ land was just a five-minute boat ride away on the other side of the river, and their home was just a 20-minute boat ride, he was really over the moon. “I wish I had thought to video his reaction,” laughs Missy. “Jase actually broke into a happy dance!” The beloved property was promptly secured and the rest, as they say, is history. But, oh what a history it is... A N IN TRIG U IN G PAST The year was 1783, and Louisiana, largely still wild and unsettled, was yet to become a state of the young country called the United States of America. A former Frenchsettled territory, the area known as Louisiana belonged to Spain at the time. Spanish Governor Esteban (Estevan) Rodriguez Miro commissioned French-born Jean Baptiste Filhiol to establish a new Spanish outpost, Poste d’Ouachita, northward along the wilderness of the Ouachita River. Filhiol (the Spanish called him Don Juan Filhiol) would later build a fort in the area for protection against Indians, naming it Fort Miro in honor of his commandant. In 1785, Filhiol was awarded an enormous land grant from Governor Miro, WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 213

235 acres of which would come to comprise the original Logtown Plantation, established in 1798. Around 1820, Fort Miro’s name was changed to Monroe, either after the first steamboat to reach it via the Ouachita River, or in honor of U.S. President James Monroe; both explanations have been recorded. Jean Baptiste Filhiol would come to be celebrated as the father of Monroe. TH E HOUS E In 1847, Filhiol’s grandson and namesake, Jean Baptiste Filhiol (1815 - 1885) and his wife, Nancy St. Clair Bellew Filhiol (1820 -1887) built a two-room cottage from cypress trees cut and sawn onsite. Bricks for the piers and chimneys were similarly made onsite. Fellow Frenchman and cabinetmaker H. Layoux, directed the construction of the cottage in the Greek Revival style. The doors, fan windows and window sashes, all made by hand years before the Civil War, survive to this day. Through the years, the home gradually expanded to meet the growing family’s needs. In the 1880s, Roland M. Filhiol (1848 - 1906) added a bedroom and bathroom – still in use today - incorporating the use of stained glass and innovative pocket windows. Because of an increased possibility of housefires in those days, a home’s kitchen was often built away from the main house. Such was the case at Logtown Plantation, and Roland had the kitchen and dining room moved adjacent to the house, adding Victorian “steamboat gothic” millwork to the dining room’s ceiling. Original to 214 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

the home, the dining room light fixture probably initially burned kerosene. In 1910, another Filhiol descendent and namesake, John Baptist Filhiol (1876-1946), had the kitchen and dining room connected to the main house, bringing them under the same roof for the first time since 1847. Amazingly, the home remained occupied continuously by the highly esteemed Filhiol family until 1999. Marie Adelle Filhiol (1908-1997), former principal of Logtown School, was the last Filhiol to live on the property. The house changed hands just twice more before being acquired by Missy and Jase. T HE REN OVATION Because the property has been placed on the National Register of Historic Places, extreme care was taken with the restoration process. “We didn’t touch a thing until we had lived with the house for eight months,” recalls Missy. “We took the time to actually get to know this house like you get to know a person.” Though she didn’t actually live in the house, she felt like she did. It was a painstakingly slow process. Missy spent countless hours walking through rooms, weighing reno options, and making sure the improvements, unless strictly cosmetic, would only affect areas that were not original to the home. In fact, in the oldest parts of the home, you may see where there used to be a wood-burning stove pipe that was covered and painted over in a restoration accomplished over a hundred years ago. Or you’ll notice a small,

neat circle in the wall, evidence of an industrious, well-meaning soul long ago who used tin can lids to efficiently cover holes in the wall. During renovation, original materials either found on site, or unusable in their current form, were routinely incorporated into the design whenever possible. For example, the gorgeous 10-foot long dining table adjacent to the kitchen was constructed with portions of the ceiling of the original 1847 barn. “Our contractor, Jeremy Andrews, was amazing,” shares Missy. “Sometimes I’d find a photograph in a magazine to explain what I wanted, and Jeremy would work his magic from there.” The result of this meticulous care, methodical planning and attention to detail is stunning. The visual impact is almost indescribable, and pictures don’t do it justice. Think Joanna Gaines meets Scarlett O’Hara…absolute southern perfection. THE M A IN HOU SE B ED R O O MS Dressed in yellow wallpaper dappled with roses, the Camellia Room is so named because a garden of camellia bushes can be viewed through its tall, stately, multi-paned windows, original to the house. Two queen-size white iron beds make this a perfect second bedroom for a family. This area of the home was built in 1847, making this the oldest bedroom. Its ceilings were originally (and still) painted Robin’s Egg Blue, reportedly to keep evil spirits away, and they have only been repainted twice since. A half bath connects this room with the front parlor, and a full bath is located just a short distance away. Jase found a longforgotten marble lavatory, with its original mirror intact, in the barn. True to their mission of salvaging WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 215

as much as possible, the Robertsons used this exquisite find in the half bath, which may have been its home ages ago. The Cypress Suite features a king-size poster bed complete with romantic, white bed hangings, and a twin daybed. The walls and bedding accents are a calming, restful spa blue. “I tried to use some of this blue in every room,” relates Missy, “to ensure a good visual flow.” The en suite was the first bathroom in the house, and it still has the original stained-glass transoms and pocket windows. With a nod to spa-like amenities, Missy added a custom walk-in shower, complete with multiple shower heads. Looking directly onto the property’s centuries-old pecan orchard, the aptly named king-sized Pecan View Suite boasts a dressing area and en suite bath large enough to accommodate the bride, her mom and her bridesmaids as they prepare for the big event. (In fact, the use of this suite is included in your special day’s package price.) A gorgeous claw-foot tub, separate shower, multiple massive mirrors, perfect lighting, sumptuous fixtures and accessories...everything imaginable is provided to make for stress-free preparation and memorable pre-wedding photos. Missy’s thoughtful, personal touches are everywhere, and she has spared nothing to ensure everything was perfect. “See that vanity bench and fainting couch?” Missy asks, grinning. “They were my grandmother’s.” MAG N OLI A COT TAG E How do you describe the perfect honeymoon getaway? Two words: Magnolia Cottage. Upon opening the door to this dreamy, detached hideaway, you stand momentarily transfixed, visually absorbing the sense of history and the timelessness of simple elegance. Whitewashed shiplap walls and gleaming hardwood floors beckon. An elegant chandelier hangs from the original ancient beadboard ceiling, looking down on a massive iron king bed dressed in luxurious grey and white. Missy designed the adjoining double-vanity bathroom around the home’s original claw foot tub, circa 1880, and the custom walk-in shower is outfitted with large rain heads. The cottage also thoughtfully offers a fridge, microwave and coffee pot. Will you ever want to leave? Probably not. 216 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

F U L L HOU SE REN TA L Depending on availability, renting the entire main house PLUS Magnolia Cottage is also and option. Doing so will save $100 per night over renting each room separately. The Full House Rental includes 4 bedrooms and 4 1/2 bathrooms, with sleeping in beds for 11. You may also use the sofas and/or bring your personal air mattresses to accommodate up to 25 people overnight. The large, brand new kitchen was designed with every modern convenience, including a 6-burner Thor stove with griddle. Enjoy the convenience of a beautifully appointed beverage center furnished with espresso machine, Keurig coffeemaker, regular drip coffee pot, wine cooler and ice machine. Two massive dining tables, one adjacent to the kitchen and one in the “gothic steamboat” dining room, plus the large kitchen island, offer seating for up to 25 people. The entire home can be your private getaway for the night, a weekend or an extended stay. THE G ROU N D S Encompassing 11 acres and situated along the banks of the Ouachita River, the property feels much further away than the actual 10-minute drive from Monroe proper. Absolute quiet, that exquisite, rare gift bestowed on us by secluded places, is broken only by the melody of birdsong. Gentle, welcome breezes sough through ancient branches, like a mother softly shushing her young. Occasionally, and especially on a still night, a train whistle and soft rumble of tracks can be heard far across the cornfields. Rather than disrupting the quiet, the sound actually enhances the rurality of Logtown Plantation, and to many, will elicit childhood remembrances of that lonesome, yet somehow comforting sound. The white picket fence surrounding the “flower yard” originally graced the home of Jean Baptiste and Nancy Filhiol’s close friend, M. Avet, who resided on Esplanade Avenue in New Orleans. When replacing his picket fence with a new iron one in the late 1800s, he recalled how much the Filhiols had admired it, so he had it shipped via boat to his dear friends in north Louisiana. The grounds are replete with southern plants of every description. In their season, iris, gladiola, cannas, gardenia, jasmine, daylilies, daffodils, spider lilies, nandina, fern, stargazer lilies, ivy, roses, hydrangea, sweet bush and wildflowers nod and bob their heads like sleepy children. Peruvian Scilla grace the periphery of the birdbath, curtsying in the breeze, vying for attention. Family tradition holds that the original bulbs were a gift to the first Madame Filhiol from Don Juan’s cousin, the Compte de Grammont. Four massive magnolia trees stand sentinel at each corner of the house, a profusion of snowy blossoms spilling perfume from their cradles of dark, waxy foliage. Ancient cypress, ageless in their beauty, stand alongside them, tall and proud. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | JUNE 2019 217

OUTD OOR R E C E PT IO N HAL L B AR N Lent historic charm by the original barn just a stone’s throw away, the renovated Reception Hall Barn is the perfect outdoor space to host a southern celebration. Throw open the immense, custom-made, seethrough barn doors and dance the night away on the new dance floor. Massive chandeliers lend their graceful elegance, and at night, hanging string lights sparkle like fireflies on a soft summer breeze. Your caterer will love you. A caterer’s kitchen, complete with a generous three-bay stainless-steel sink, warming oven, cooler, stainless steel tables, commercial ice machine and freezer, is located conveniently nearby on the ground floor of the caretaker’s cottage. Consistent with Missy’s and Jase’s attention to detail, the grounds are misted regularly to ensure no unwanted winged guests can spoil your big day. MAKE I T H A P P E N An estate this expansive requires constant hands-on attention, ably supplied by Roger and Carmen Andrews who live in the newly constructed caretaker’s cottage above the garage. “These two are an absolute God-send!” says Missy of the property’s on-site caretakers. “They keep the house and property in top condition, and even more importantly, they are awesome hosts.” If you have any questions about this one-of-a-kind venue, scheduling an event or B&B stay, or planning your wedding, call Carmen at 318-537-3717 or email her at info@logtownplantation.com. Be sure to visit the Logtown Plantation Facebook page and its website, www. logtownplantation.com. Here you’ll find complete booking information, amazing photos, and even more of the plantation’s fascinating history. Click the “contract here” button at the bottom of the site’s “Weddings” page to access the Wedding Venue Rental Agreement that contains each party’s contractual obligations, included amenities, and fees. On the website’s “Contact Us” page is a list of local wedding vendors personally recommended by Missy. In addition, this page offers contact and fee information for Logtown Plantation’s personal wedding coordinator, should you need one. “We’ve tried to think of everything,” concludes Missy. “Jase and I realized from the beginning that this is a special place, an integral part of Louisiana’s history, of this region’s history. We’re so glad to be able to share it with the people in our community.” You’ll be glad, too. Inherently beautiful and exquisitely romantic, what better place to begin your very own “happily ever after.” 218 JUNE 2019 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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LEGENDS 23 CIGAR & VAPE LOUNGE

THE MUFFIN TIN GOVERNOR’S CIGAR & PIPE HOLLIS & COMPANY

TWIN CITY OUTDOORS

FAMILY EYE CARE

THE PAPER MARKET WASHINGTON WINE AND SPIRITS

THE MUFFIN TIN

TRAPPINGS

RON ALEXANDER CLOTHIERS

SLEEPY HOLLOW

MATERIAL THINGS

STEVE’S JEWELRY

3B OUTDOOR HAIK HUMBLE EYE CENTER

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HAIK HUMBLE EYE CENTER

B&L MARINE

SLEEPY HOLLOW

GOVERNORS CIGAR & PIPE MATERIAL THINGS

SEW SOUTHERN EMBROIDERY

MONROE ATHLETIC CLUB

FIESTA NUTRITION CENTER

3B OUTDOOR TRAPPINGS

B&L MARINE

AZURE POOLS AND SPAS

DUPONT JEWELERS

LEGENDS 23 CIGAR & VAPE LOUNGE TONORE’S WINE CELLAR

WASHINGTON WINE AND SPIRITS

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Calendar of Events For a full list of event happenings in Northeast Louisiana, see our website at www.bayoulifemag.com May 16-June29 Finding Beauty in the Mundane “Finding Beauty in the Mundane” will feature paintings by Julie Crews (Ruston, LA), Victoria Smith Amos (Monroe, LA), Emily Caldwell (Monroe, LA), Gale Gibbs (Rockwall, TX), and Lee Gibson (Starkville, MS) and handmade jewelry by Laura Wood (Penland, NC) and Drew McKevitt (Philadelphia, Pennsylvania and Petawawa, Ontario). This exhibit will be on display from May 16th-June 29th. All events are free and open to the pubic unless otherwise stated. Venue: Levee Gallery 1617 N 18th Street, Monroe Hours: Varies Cost:Free Phone: 318-537-9006 June 1 SlabFest Custom Truck/Car and Bike Show Event will have over 30 judged categories for all vehicles. There will also be a music sound off also known as Trunk Wars for all of the music fanatics. A pop-up shop will be held inside of the Convention Center featuring boutiques bakeries and other local businesses. Food Trucks will be in attendance as well. Trunk Wars, Food Vendors, Local Business Pop-Up Shop, and more! Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Cost: $15-$75 Phone: 318-329-2225 Bookmaking Workshop for Adults with Frank Hamrick In this workshop, participants will make two books. The first book will be a simple hardbound, pamphlet stitch book. The second book will be a more complex Coptic hardbound book. All the essential bookmaking materials and tools will be provided. No previous experience is necessary. Students will have a good foundation in bookmaking after completing this workshop. There will be an hour break for lunch on Saturday.

Venue: Masur Museum of Art 1400 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 9:00 a.m. -5:00 p.m. Cost: $135 for museum members, $155 for non-members Phone: 318-329-2237 Community Health & Wellness Expo One-Stop Shop for healthcare, fitness and nutrition. Weight loss education, fitness & nutrition, healthy living tips. There will be free workout classes all day. Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Houts: 10:00 a.m. Cost: Free Phone: 318-791-5074 National Trails Hike/World Atlatl Day An introductory video followed by a ranger-led hike showcasing the mounds, earthworks, and nature found in the park. The hike is approximately two hours. Both events are weather permitting. For more information call 888.926.5492 toll free or 318.926.5492 locally. Venue: Poverty Point World Heritage Site 6859 Highway 577, Pioneer Hours: 10:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. Cost: $4 Phone: 888-926-5492 DoMo BrewFest 2019 DoMo Brewfest returns for the 4th annual event on Saturday, June 1, 2019. DJ Rob Lloyd will be entertaining for the evening. There will be food available from 2 Dudes Brew & Que, The Crazy Popper, The Etouffee Lady and Tony’s Pizza. There will be a beer garden featuring over 200 tastings including wine from Landry Vineyards. There will be games including corn holes and Jenga. In addition to local distributors and breweries, homebrewers from Louisiana and Texas will also be at Brewfest. Beer styles from them will include stouts, ales, IPAs, Kölsch’s, and even home-brewed cider. Wine samples from Landry Vineyard will also be available. Varieties of ciders, spritzers, and seltzers will also be

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available. Plenty of parking, AC, and restrooms will be available. Must be 21 or older. T-shirts are available online at domobrewfest.com. Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 5:00 p.m. -9:00p.m. Cost: $25 Phone: 318-329-2225 Downtown Cinema Presents: The Princess Bride Inconceivable! Join Downtown Cinema on a great adventure as they show The Princess Bride. As always, admission, popcorn and water are FREE! Just bring your own seating. Movie starts at dark (approx. 8:00 p.m.) Venue: Downtown Cinema 220 Desiard St., Monroe Hours: 7:30 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Cost: Free June 1-29 Showcase: 3-C Cowgirl Photography “The beauty and fullness of ranching heritage in photos” Young, emerging artist Caitlyn Dionne will showcase her photography that centers on her love of horses. Almost six years ago, Caitlyn Dionne looked through the lens of a camera and realized she could capture something beautiful to preserve a moment in time—the feelings and emotions—forever as she puts. More online at www. schepismuseum.com or email schepismuseum1916@gmail.com for more information. Venue: The Schepis Museum 106 Main Street, Columbia Hours: 10a.m.-5p.m. M-Sat Cost: Free Phone: 318-649-9931 June 2 Float the Ouachita Float the Ouachita on June 2nd! Launch at the Forsythe boat ramp and land at the shorelines of Warehouse No.1 Restaurant. The after party will be at Flying Tiger Brewery where they will also be hosting BoleyPalooza!

Don't miss out on a fun day floating the Ouachita River! Venue: Forsythe Boat Dock 2100 Riverside Dr, Monroe 1608 N. 5th Street, Monroe Hours: 11:00 a.m. - 1:00 p.m. June 3-6 The Mike Federico Summer Baseball Camp for Kids The Mike Federico Summer Baseball Camp for Kids will be a fun, interactive camp for kids. The camp will consist of skill instruction and fun games throughout the four days of camp. Campers will get hands on instruction from the ULM coaching staff and players in hitting, pitching, base running and defensive positions. Grades K-7th. Ages 5-12. Venue: ULM Warhawk Field Warhawk Way, Monroe 2006 Riverside Drive, Monroe Hours: 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Cost: $200 Phone: 318-342-1000 June 3-7 Art Camp: "Adventures in Art" with Jenny Burnham - AGES 5-8 Learn drawing and design skills while experimenting with a variety of materials. Students will try their hand at sculpture, drawing, painting, printmaking, and more! Students will tour the museum and develop art vocabulary. Venue: Masur Museum of Art 1400 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 9:30 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Cost: $100 non-member/ $85 member Phone: 318-329-2237 June 6 Downtown After Dark Join Antique Alley for late night shopping. You will earn one ticket for the door prize drawings for every ten dollars spent at participating stores. There will be special promotions and sales at participating merchants. Venue: Antique Alley 100-400 blocks of Trenton Street, West Monroe Hours: 5:00 p.m.

June 7-9 Big Creek Trade Days Big Creek Trade Days is held monthly on the weekend before the second Monday with over 100 indoor and outdoor vendors, food trucks, and fun for all ages! Handicap accessible with scooter rentals available on-site. Venue: 327 California Plant Road, Dubach Hours: Friday 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Saturday 11 a.m.-9 p.m. Sunday 10 a.m.-4 p.m. Phone: 318-325-9160 Cost: $5 for parking Phone: 318-680-1304 June 8 Zoobilation 2019 “Strut like Tut” Get ready to “Strut like Tut!" Tut is a white camel who loves to strut his stuff! Join the Louisiana Purchase Zoo for pictures with Tut, a walk like an Egyptian contest, games, crafts, bounce house, water slide, animal education, food trucks and live music by the Josh Madden Band! Venue: Louisiana Purchase Zoo 1405 Bernstein Park Road, Monroe Hours: 9:00 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. Cost: $8, 2 and under Free Phone: 318-329-2400 Children's Fundays at the Biedenharn Join the Biedenharn Museum and Gardens the 2nd Saturday of the Month from 10a.m.-12p.m. for their Children's Fundays at the Biedenharn! They'll have crafts and fun for ages 3-16, so bring the kids and come enjoy the gardens! Cost is $5 per child; Accompanying adults enter free. *All children MUST be accompanied by an adult* Venue: Biedenharn Museum and Gardens 2006 Riverside Drive, Monroe Hours: 10:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Cost: $5 Phone: 318-387-5281 Sundress and Seersucker Come out in your sundress or seersucker and enjoy an event on the Bayou! Live music and refreshments will be provided. Cigars will be available for purchase. A portion of proceeds will be donated to charity. Venue: Chateau Rouge On The Bayou 320 Virginia Street, Monroe Hours: 2:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Cost: $35 Phone: Phone: 318-953-4034

Reader's Lounge Book Exhibit & Author Panel Attendees can expect a free, family-friendly gathering with the opportunity to have up-closeand personal conversations with a diverse line-up of authors from around the world as the event serves as an exclusive ‘Readers Meet Up’ for book lovers of all ages. Venue: Northeast Louisiana Delta African American Heritage Museum 1051 Chennault Park Drive, Monroe Hours: 3:00 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Cost: Free Phone: 318-342-8889 Landry Vineyards Music Concert Mason Granade Mason Granade plays classic rock, country, oldies and dance music. Jambalaya, cheese trays, 4 types of boudin, wine Bellini's and drinks will be offered for purchase. Don't forget to bring your lawn chairs and blankets to relax on the lawn or call to reserve a table. Food and cold drinks are welcomed but please do not bring pets or outside alcohol. The tasting room will open at 11:00 a.m. and will carry through to the end of the concert. Come celebrate an afternoon of fun with your family and community! Venue: Landry Vineyards 5699 New Natchitoches Road, West Monroe Hours: 4:00 p.m. - 7:30 p.m. Cost: adults $10.00 young adults 13-18 years $5.00 children 12 and under are free. Phone: 318-557-9051

101 Horseshoe Lake Road, Monroe Hours: 9:00 a.m. - 12:30 p.m. Cost: $85 per camper, 2 or more campers $75 per camper Phone: 318-325-2062 June 13 Marty Haggard - A Tribute to My Dad, Merle Haggard Thursday, June 13 in Monroe, LA at the Strauss Theatre Center -Marty Haggard, oldest son of the legendary Merle Haggard, pays tribute to his dad through stories and songs. Enjoy an evening of real country music. Marty will be available after the show to meet, greet and sign autographs. Venue: Strauss Theatre Center 1300 Lamy Lane, Monroe Downtown Ruston Hours: 7:00 p.m. Cost: $27 Phone: 318-323-6681 Beer & Bards Beer & Bards takes place on the 2nd Thursday of every month at Enoch’s Irish Cafe and Pub. It begins at roughly 7:00p.m. Anyone with questions or who wishes to read can reach Jack Heflin, ULM English Professor and Beer & Bards host, by either sending a message on the Beer & Bards Facebook page or contacting him directly at heflin@ulm.edu. Venue: Enoch's Irish Pub 507 Louisville Ave, Monroe Hours: 7:00 p.m. - 9:00 p.m. Phone: 318-388-3662

New Music on the Bayou Join the Biedenharn Museum and Gardens Saturday, June 8th at 7p.m. to celebrate New Music on the Bayou with Mel Mobley. This will be a concert to remember! Tickets are $20/person. Call 318-387-5281 or visit bmuseum.org today. Venue: Biedenharn Museum and Gardens 2006 Riverside Drive, Monroe Hours: 7:00 p.m. Cost: $20 Phone: 318-387-5281

June 14 Theresa Marsala Memorial Golf Classic The Theresa Marsala Memorial Golf Classic will be May 10th at the Frenchman's Bend Golf Course! 4 Man Scramble. 8a.m. &1p.m. shotgun. Join the Cancer Foundation League for a day of fun with raffle prizes, food and drinks, breakfast by McDonalds and all for a great cause! All proceeds benefiting The Cancer Foundation League. Venue: Frenchman's Bend Golf Course Cost: Entry Fee $540 per team

June 10-14 Summer Youth Bowling Camp Campers will learn bowling basics & scoring. Hot lunch will be served every day. House balls and shoes will be provided. Don't miss out on this fun camp! Ages 7-17. Venue: Bayou Bowl

Herons on the Bayou the Big Reveal Celebration Enjoy a Community Wide Reveal Celebrations for the Herons on the Bayou Public Sculpture Project. They are wrapping up this big project by bringing all of the Herons out to Kiroli Park to reveal their awesome

designs! This will be a fun night of celebrations with live music and to top it off there will be ice cream, coke floats, and sweats of all kinds! Venue: Kiroli Park 820 Kiroli Road, West Monroe Hours: 6:00 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Cost: Free Phone: 318-396-4016 June 15 Disc Golf - Louisiana State Games Enjoy a day of disc golf at the Louisiana State Games on June 15th! Venue: Chennault Park & Golf Course 8475 Millhaven Road, Monroe Phone: 318-329-2454 Food Truck Festival & Tracker Boat Show The Rivermarket is celebrating the Food Truck Festival! Enjoy delicious foods as well as shopping with great local vendors. This event will include several different food trucks, that will be serving several different types of food. Tracker Boating Center will be there showing off some of their newest boats and barges. This event is family friendly, and there will be something for the whole family to enjoy! Venue: Downtown Riverwalk 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 10:00 a.m. - 4:00 p.m. Cost: Free Phone: 318-812-0450 June 17-20 The Wizard of Oz: Young Performers Edition Join the Ruston Community Theatre young performers as they journey along the yellow brick road. Ticket available online and at the Dixie Theatre. Venue: Dixie Center for the Arts Cost: $12/$6 for students Hours: Showtimes vary by day Phone: 318-255-1450 June 17-21 Chennault STEM Innovation Summer Camp Chennault STEM Innovation Summer Camps are an exciting opportunity for Children in grades 5-8 to engage in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, Math) activities. All camps will be taught on-site at Chennault Aviation and Military Museum, so students will interact with authentic primary source artifacts making history personally meaningful and

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exceptionally vivid. Students will learn about the technological and scientific innovations used in WWI through current conflicts. Various subjects will be taught including aviation, communication, and medicine. Four sections of the STEM camp will be offered with two available for boys and girls and two for girls only. Venue: Chennault Aviation and Military Museum 701 Kansas Lane, Monroe Hours: 9:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Cost: $150 per child Phone: 318-362-5540 June 19 Arts Council Summer Film Series: As Is By Nick Cave On June 19th, audiences will have the chance to learn about the stories of numerous volunteers, local artists and participants from four social service organizations in the nine-block Shreveport Common neighborhood, all weaved together to create the production, AS IS by Nick Cave. $5 admission if you are not an Arts Council member. Attendees must be 21+. Venue: Flying Tiger Brewery 506 North 2nd Street, Monroe Hours: 7:00 p.m. Cost: $5 Phone: 318-547-1738 June 20-22 Miss Louisiana Pageant The Miss America Organization is the world's largest competitive scholarship program for young women, and one of the nation's

leading achievement programs. The Miss Louisiana Pageant will be held at the Monroe Civic Center June 2022. Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Phone: 318-329-2225 June 21 Downtown RiverMarket - Drive Thru Farmers Market The Downtown RiverMarket will have local farmers on the south end serving fresh vegetables, homemade snacks, and sauces. Stop by and drive thru to pick up some of your favorite fresh goodies from our local farmers. Venue: RiverMarket 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 12:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m. Phone: 318-807-9985 Monroe Dream Hunt Golf Tournament The second annual Monroe Dream Hunt Golf Tournament is coming up. The Dream Hunt Foundation will be hosting this event at Frenchman's Bend Golf & Health Club. Spots are limited to the first 25 teams that sign up. You will have a chance to win an ATV by hitting a Holein-One, purchase raffle tickets and bid on auction items. Complimentary local food vendors will be available throughout the course. Come ready to play and support a great cause. Combo includes hole signage, one 4-man team and Dream Hunt gifts for $500. Hole includes hole signage and sponsors a Child's Dream Hunt for $100. Team includes one 4-man team and Dream Hunt Gifts for

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$400 Mulligans $20/per player. To purchase in advance please contact Amanda Dowden at 318-349-4391 or mail a check to 315 Deer Crossing Stonewall, La 71078. Venue: Frenchman's Bend Golf Course 1484 Frenchman's Bend, Monroe Hours: 12:30 p.m. - 6:00 p.m. Annual Solstice Celebration on the Lake Join Black Bayou for their annual solstice celebration to enjoy the longest day of the year and the first day of summer. If you have your own boat, they encourage you to join them. Canoes/kayaks may be rented starting at 6:30 and reservations are required for that. The ranger will be out for a guided tour if wanted but not required. Reservations required for canoe/kayak rental - $10/person - call 387-1114. Venue: Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Refuge 480 Richland Pl Drive, Monroe Hours: 6:30 p.m. – 9:00 p.m. Phone: 318-329-2225 Cost: $10 per canoe rental, otherwise free Phone: 318-387-1114 Louisiana Peachstock: Battle of the Bands Don’t miss this lively night at the 2nd Annual Louisiana Peachstock: Battle of the Bands! Five bands will compete for the grand prize of $1,500 plus the opportunity to open for the 2020 Louisiana Peach Festival. Venue: Railroad Park, 101 E Park Ave, Ruston

Cost: Festival entrance fees apply $10 Friday/ $15 weekend pass Hours: 5-10 p.m. Phone: 318-255-2031 June 21-22 Louisiana Peach Festival Don’t miss the 69th annual Louisiana Peach Festival in downtown Ruston! The weekend will be filled with live entertainment, activities for families, arts & crafts, contents, and of course, deliciously sweet peach treats! Saturday’s concert headliner will be cover band Bag of Donuts. Venue: Downtown Ruston Cost: $10 per day/$15 weekend pass Hours: Friday 12-10 p.m. Saturday 8 a.m.-10 p.m. Phone: 318-255-2031 June 22 World Heritage Site Declaration The site will hold activities in recognition of its 5th Anniversary of declaration as a World Heritage Site by the United Nations Educational, Scientific and Cultural Organization (UNESCO.) For more information call 888.926.5492 toll free or 318.926.5492 locally. Venue: Poverty Point World Heritage Site 6859 Highway 577, Pioneer Phone: 888-926-5492 Monroe BASH BASH is a military-themed, fun-filled evening benefiting the American Red Cross of Northeast Louisiana. BASH offers participants a chance to enjoy fabulous food and refreshments from Outback Steakhouse and Marsala Beverage,

catch the on-going world tour of The Flaming Asburys and bid on unique auction items, such as a rare framed Beatles Album signed by all four Beatles. And all to support the programs and services of the Red Cross in our community. Venue: Monroe Regional Airport Hangar 9, 5200 Operations Road, Monroe Hours: 7:30 p.m. - 11:00 p.m. Phone: 318-329-2454 Louisiana Peach Festival Parade Join Ruston, LA for the 2019 Louisiana Peach Festival Parade! Fun and festive floats will be decked out for this year’s theme “A Peach in Time” throwing out candy and prizes! Venue: Downtown Ruston Cost: Free to attend Hours: 9:00 a.m. Phone: 318-255-2031 June 24-28 Art Camp: "Photo Fun Under the Sun" w/ Rhyan Taylor - AGES 9-12 Students will discover historical photographic processes and printing methods with a creative and modern twist. Venue: Masur Museum of Art 1400 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 9:30 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Cost: $100 non-member/ $85 member Phone: 318-329-2237 2019 NCLAC Summer Arts Camp Experience art in a new way with the NCLAC’s Summer Art Camp.This five-day arts camp features music, visual arts, and drama.Activities such

as sculpting, painting, improv, and percussion will be led by art teachers, professional artists, and local volunteers. The camp is available for children ages 2nd through 7th grade. Venue: 212 N. Vienna Street, Ruston Hours: 9 a.m.-12 p.m. Cost: $65/$70 after April 15th Phone: 318-255-1450 June 28 Ouachita Live Concert - Emerald Accent FREE Outdoor Live Music Event! Stop by Downtown West Monroe every Last Friday March October for a musical event. Venue: Antique Alley 100-400 blocks of Trenton Street, West Monroe Hours: 5:30 p.m. - 8:00 p.m. Cost: Free June 29 Native American Storytelling Join the Interpretive Ranger to hear stories and to share stories about Native American culture. For more information call 888.926.5492 toll free or 318.926.5492 locally. Venue: Poverty Point World Heritage Site 6859 Highway 577, Pioneer Hours: 9:15 a.m. - 10:00 a.m. Cost: $4 Phone: 888-926-5492 Downtown Cinema Presents: The Sandlot You're killing me, Smalls! Don't miss The Sandlot on the big screen at Downtown Cinema. Admission, popcorn and water are free, just bring your own seating. Movie starts at dark. Venue: Downtown Cinema

220 Desiard St., Monroe Hours: 7:30 p.m. - 10:30 p.m. Cost: Free June 30 WWE Live: SummerSlam Heatwave Tour Enjoy live wrestling on June 30th at the Monroe Civic Center! Venue: Monroe Civic Center 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 5:00 p.m. Cost: $15-$325 Phone: 318-329-2225 June 1-2, 7-8 Monroe Symphony League Book Sale Two buildings full of hardbacks, paperbacks, magazines, records, sheet music, CDs and much more. New to the sale is the Corner Store which features many gently used home decorating and entertainment items. Many books and magazines priced 25-50 cents. The proceeds from the 3 annual book sales are used to support the projects of the Monroe Symphony League. Venue: Monroe Symphony League Book Room 320 North 4th Street, Monroe Hours: Saturday: 9:00 a.m. - 5:00 p.m. Sunday: 1:00 p.m. - 5:00 p.m. Cost: Saturday: $2, Sunday: Free Phone: 318-537-5171

snacks, and sauces. Stop by and drive thru to pick up some of your favorite fresh goodies from our local farmers. Venue: Antique Alley 100-400 blocks of Trenton Street, West Monroe Venue: RiverMarket 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 12:00 p.m. - 2:00 p.m. Phone: 318-807-9985 June 17-21, 24-28 Camp Creative Your child will be exposed to many different art forms including painting with acrylics and watercolors, drawing, mixed media collage, and more! With several projects each day, this camp is the perfect way to start developing artistic skills. Supplies and snacks will be provided. Ages 5-12. Venue: MoJoy Studio 106 Summer Ln, West Monroe Hours: 8:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m. Cost: $175 per week Phone: 318-884-8334

June 7, 21 Downtown RiverMarket - Drive Thru Farmers Market The Downtown RiverMarket will have local farmers on the south end serving fresh vegetables, homemade