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46 / BAYOU ARTIST: GARY RATCLIFF Ratcliff is a Potter, Painter and Professor Who Has Spent a Career Teaching Others His Craft 102 / BUILDLING FOR LIFE Brian Allen Has Devoted Almost a Decade to the St. Judeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Dream Home Program 126 / A FITTING TRIBUTE Tim McIlveene Transformed a MissionTrip and a Love of a New Culture Into a Memorial for His Globe-Trotting Sister 136 / TALES FROM INDIA The home of Alpa and Dr. Jeet Patel Honors Their Indian Culture Both Architecturally and Artistically

152 / BACK TO THE FUTURE Durrett Law & Title Undertakes Historic Building Renovation in Ruston 164 / AT THE TABLE Stone House Eats in Rayville is Based on Faith, Family and Fellowship 178 / PINK LADIES Five Local Women Share with BayouLife Their Very Personal Experiences with Breast Cancer

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190 / FOLLOW SUIT Add a Little Business to Your Casual with These Suiting Looks from Area Boutiques

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BayouLife

HIS MONTH MARKS OUR

fifth anniversary of BayouLife Magazine. We’ve come a long way since our first issue. Truthfully, I was terrified the first year of the magazine, but I had some amazing people who were, and still are, always encouraging. My husband has always been supportive throughout the late nights and panic attacks, keeping our kids days in a row and giving me head rubs after a long night. My parents are quick to brag on me when I’m feeling a little selfconscious and Maré Brennan has offered advice from the beginning. I remember sitting in our tiny office on Honor Street and Lori French walked in. She told me how great the magazine was, in about 50 words, and walked out making all of us feel like we were doing something right. Our sales manager, Ashley Hubenthal, would come by and visit and make us all laugh well before she joined the family. Melanie Moffett has been my right hand woman for almost a decade now and still manages to amaze me with her talents every day. Martin Meyers has recently signed on as our staff photographer – even though he’s had that unofficial title for years. We are truly lucky to have his uber genius photography skills highlighted in the pages of BayouLife every month. We’ve had staff come and go, but through it all, we’ve always stayed friends with those who have spent time in our office. This month is our fall home issue and we were so lucky to be introduced to Alpa and Dr. Jeet Patel by our friend, Courtney Wetzel. Their home is absolutely beautiful and is a refreshing take on color after recent trends have led to more neutral tones. Their Indian heritage is displayed throughout the home with Sari-inspired hues in deep reds, oranges and blues. See this gorgeous home page 136.

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Melissa Durrett graced the cover of last month’s style issue and this month she welcomed us in their newly renovated office in downtown Ruston. Take a tour on page 152. My first semester at University of Louisiana at Monroe, I met one of my best friends in Gary Ratcliff’s handbuilt pottery classes. This month, we met up with Gary to discuss life and art, and his plans for retirement. See this month’s BayouArtist on page 46. Brian Allen has long been recognized as one of Northeast Louisiana’s prominent builders. He’s taken on the St. Jude’s Dream Home for almost a decade now and has even accomplished a zero-cost build. Read about our BayouIcon on page 102. When Rheagan Sutton, our former office manager, called and told me she’d be in town for a month, I immediately enlisted her to model for us. Thanks to our friends, Ashley and Friday Ellis, we shot this menswear-inspired fashion spread at Governors Cigar and Pipe. Martin G Meyers and Meka Bennett teamed up for this smokin’ hot shoot. See it on page 190. We hope you enjoy reading this month’s issue of BayouLife Magazine. Thank you for keeping it local. ~

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PUBLISHER Cassie Livingston cassie@bayoulifemag.com EDITOR Maré Brennan mare@bayoulifemag.com COPY EDITING Kelly Jones ART DIRECTOR Melanie Moffett melanie@bayoulifemag.com GRAPHIC DESIGNER Katie Sloan katie@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING MANAGER Ashley Hubenthal ashley@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Amanda Singley amanda@bayoulifemag.com ADVERTISING SALES EXECUTIVE Savannah Starring savannah@bayoulifemag.com STAFF PHOTOGRAPHER Martin G Meyers

CONTRIBUTING WRITERS Staci Mitchell Albritton Amanda Moore Dan Chason Dr. Timothy Mickel Guy Miller Kenny Covington Lou Davenport Matt Rainwater Cindy Gist Foust Kay Stothart Rector April Honaker Delia Simpson Paul Lipe P. Allen Smith Beatrice A. Tatem Erin Love Dr. Robert Marx Analeise Thomas Meredith McKinnie Vanelis Rivera CONTRIBUTING PHOTOGRAPHERS Kelly Moore Clark ON THE COVER Back to the Future: Durrett Law & Title Undertakes Historic Building Renovation in Ruston Cover Photo by Martin G Meyers BayouLife Magazine is published and distributed by Redbird Publishing, LLC. Circulation: 13,000 copies monthly. Postal subscriptions ($20) can be ordered online at www.bayoulifemag. com. BayouLife Magazine is not responsible for unsolicited photographs, manuscripts or other materials. Reproduction of contents without express written permission is prohibited.

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The Gardens at Georgia Tucker Local Group Restoring, Renovating and Celebrating Former Elementary School

N THE COMING MONTHS, NEW LIFE WILL BE BREATHED into the historic Georgia Tucker Elementary School. The site is being completely restored and returning to its grandeur as it opens as an assisted living home - The Gardens at Georgia Tucker. The building is located in the heart of the Garden District in Monroe. The school was built in 1920 on land donated by Colonel Frank P. Stubbs in honor of his mother, Georgia Tucker Stubbs. Georgia had a daughter who married Dr. Robert Layton and built the Layton Castle on South Grand so the family has quite an extensive connection to the Monroe area and its development. The school is one of the last remaining examples of Mediterranean Revival architecture in northern Louisiana. The architecture style came into prominence in the 1920s and 1930s evolving from rekindled interest in Italian Renaissance palaces and seaside villas dating from the sixteenth century. This style is primarily found in California and Florida, typically multistory and based on a rectangular floor plan, and features massive, symmetrical primary facades. Tile roofs, arches and keystones are also characteristics of this style. All the features can be seen in the architecture of Georgia Tucker Elementary School, which closed in 1999. The school board had planned to renovate the building and make it a central office, but those plans changed, allowing for this new opportunity. The Gardens at Georgia Tucker will officially open in January of 2018, and will begin accepting applications in October of this year. There are two phases planned, the first of which will be completed in the coming months. The former auditorium will be home to a large common area for visiting, entertaining, church services and more. Residential rooms will be located off of the large school hallways. In the first phase, there will be 20 rooms – a mix of studio, one bedroom and two bedroom styles. Amenities include a fitness room, a beauty salon and catered meals. There will also be a gorgeous garden area for residents to enjoy as well. There are 40 more rooms planned for the second phase. The entire building will have a comfortable and homey feel, adding to the garden district charm of the neighborhood.

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When the property first became available, many people were wary that an out-of-town or out-of-state developer would come in, with no care for the history behind the building, letting it deteriorate and not to be mindful to the interests of the neighborhood. However, a local management team formed and is committed to bringing the building back to life. The team consists of four partners with experience in renovations, development, nursing homes, assisted living facilities and medicine. Dr. Matt Sanderson, local dentist at Apple Dental, is overseeing the development and restoration of the property. He owns several properties in downtown Monroe and is currently restoring those to their former glory as well. “I am excited to be able to restore this property and maintain and preserve a lot of the original architecture and features,” said Dr. Sanderson. “We love the character of the building and want to keep that as true as possible as we restore it.” Paul Coburn and Dawne Smith bring nursing home and assisted living facility experience to the table. Between the two of them, they own 12 facilities throughout Louisiana and Texas. They have an extensive successful portfolio, including Avalon Place in Monroe. Dr. Tom Dansby rounds out the ownership team, with experience in medicine and medical facilities. “We researched and found that there was a serious need for assisted living in the north Monroe area and we are eager to be able to provide that to the residents of our community and their families,” said Dr. Sanderson. “We think it will be a real asset to the neighborhood and to the city.” The group plans an open house in December, once the renovations are complete, and they are preparing to open for their residents in January. Nearly a century after the school opened for the first time to the school children of Monroe, it will be open and home to The Gardens at Georgia Tucker.

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Washington Wine and Spirits Home is Where the Heart is

HEY SAY THAT HOME IS WHERE THE HEART IS, BUT what does that truly mean? If we take that statement to its core, home can be anywhere, but we feel that you are most at home with the right food and the right drink. Food and drink conjure memories of loved ones both past and present. Like your grandmother’s famous dessert to your dad’s favorite bottle of wine, let us guide you through a few things that will help you feel at home no matter where you are. WINES Almost everyone has heard of or shared a bottle of Robert Mondavi’s fantastic wines. Although he recently passed away, his winery and vineyards have been producing since 1966. His Bordeaux style blend, BDX, is an impressive big blend that will make you or your guests feel welcome, or try the Mondavi Reserve from the To Kalon Vineyard, possibly the premiere vineyard of California, which is an absolute stunner. Over the last 15 years Dave Phinney has been making a huge name for himself with his big, fruity wines, and their exceptionally designed colorful labels. His wines have become some of the most sought after in our store over the last year, bolstered by his eye catching labels. His wines are expertly crafted pieces of art just like the labels they are packaged with. From his fantastic ventures into the beautiful varietal that is French Grenache with products like D66 and Shatter, he has shown flexibility of place. He has crafted amazing blends such as Machete, which was No. 6 on the 2016 Wine Spectator Top 100, Abstract, and the incredible Papillon are all under the Orin Swift umbrella. Recently he started a new venture called G.B. Crane. They have three new wines under the label which include a 95 percent Zinfandel in Disciples, an old-vine Zinfandel, Petite Syrah, and Merlot blend called El Coco, and finally, the G.B. Crane Vineyard Cabernet Sauvignon. The Cab is a big crowd pleaser and is a perfect way to celebrate in your home, or to maybe celebrate a new home, with its big flavors and 98+ points rating. SPIRITS When it comes to spirits for the home we could think of nothing better than Glenmorangie. Glenmorangie is a perfect spirit for the 10 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

home, as its name is believed to be derived from the Gaelic Gleann Mòr na Sìth which means “vale of tranquility”. Since 1983 it has been the best selling single malt in Scotland. Boasting the tallest stills in all of Scotland, the Glenmorangie is a light spirit that takes cask maturation exceptionally well from classic sherry barrels to sauternes to baked Malmsey Madeira barrels. It’s a spirit of the people that is refined and yet flexible. A strong, but easy backbone that supports and drives whatever is used to influence it. Try “The Original,” 10 year old, or one of the many fantastic expressions of their 12 year olds such as the Lasanta (Sherry), Quinta Rubin (Port), or Nectar D’Or (Sauternes). We also love the limited edition Bacalta (Baked Madeira), 18-year, and their stunning Signet. Home is a flexible place that serves many purposes such as a place of laughter, safe haven, and entertainment and what could be a better spirit to represent that flexibility, other than Glenmorangie. Don’t forget that we now sell Doe’s Eat Place steaks uncooked at the shop for you to take home for your backyard BBQs and tailgates! We sell the standard cuts from the Doe’s menu but if you call ahead we will gladly custom cut a steak to your specification and we also offer entire loins and ribeyes. Below are the standard cuts and before-tax prices that we offer: 6 oz Filet - $9.75 14 oz Bone-In Filet - $39.99 20 oz Ribeye - $21.24 1.5 lb T-Bone - $20.99 2.5 lb Porterhouse - $39.98 2-5 lb Sirloin - $9.99/lb

10 oz Filet - $16.24 1.5 lb Bone In Strip - $20.99 2 lb Bone In Ribeye - $35.98 2 lb T-Bone - $27.98 3 lb Porterhouse - $47.97

Thank you for shopping with us here at Washington Wine & Spirits!

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Gridiron Gourmet Beer-Infused Recipes to Spice up Your Tailgate

BY DELIA SIMPSON, CRAFT, SPECIALTY, AND IMPORT MANAGER, CHOICE BRANDS, INC.

VERYONE KNOWS THAT BEER AND snacks are an integral part of tailgate parties. Try out these beer-infused recipes to up your food game this season! Dome Defender Beer Brats Ingredients • 3 packages of bratwurst (or 15 links) • 1 package of bacon (16 oz.) • 2-12oz Bottles Miller Lite • 2/3 cup brown sugar • 1 tsp cayenne pepper • 1 tsp dry mustard or turmeric • Any mustard of choice for dipping Directions Preheat oven to 425º F. Line a jelly roll or shallow baking pan with foil or parchment paper. Pierce each of your brats several times with a fork. In a large skillet, place half of the bratwursts and pour in 2 bottles of Miller Lite. Once the beer is close to boiling, turn it down to low and let the brats simmer for 15-20 minutes, turning after 10 minutes. The brats are done when they are no longer pink on the inside. Repeat with second half of brats. In the meantime, cut your bacon in thirds. In a separate bowl mix the brown sugar, dry mustard, and cayenne pepper together. Now that the brats are done, let them cool until you can handle them. Then cut the brats into thirds. Wrap a piece of bacon around each brat, roll it in your sugar mixture and place on your baking sheet with the bacon flap side down. Bake them for about 20-25 minutes. Let them drain on paper towels before serving. 12 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Heroic Hops Caramelized Onion Dip Ingredients • 3 Tbsp unsalted butter • 1 Tbsp olive oil • 2 Tbsp brown sugar • 1 tsp salt • 3 medium yellow onions, diced • 1/4 cup Flying Tiger Heroic Hops IPA • 1/2 cup mayo • 1/4 cup cream cheese, softened to room temperature • 1/4 cup sour cream • 4 slices thick-cut bacon, cooked until crisp and chopped • 6 ounces cheese, grated (Swiss, Cheddar, and Gruyere) • crusty bread or tortilla chips, for serving Directions Combine butter and olive oil over medium-high heat in a large non-stick skillet. Once the butter has melted, whisk in the brown sugar and 1 teaspoon of salt. Add onions and sauté on medium-high heat for about 5 minutes, stirring constantly. Lower the heat to medium-low and caramelized the onions for approximately 40-45 minutes and stir occasionally. Once the onions have just begun to brown, add the IPA and crank the heat back up to medium. Cook until the beer has cooked out and reduced (5-10 min) and all you have left are the caramelized onions. Remove from heat and set aside to cool slightly. Preheat your oven to 400°F. In a medium bowl, stir together the mayo, cream cheese,

sour cream, bacon, a dash of salt and pepper and most of the cheese (reserving about 1 ounce to sprinkle on top). Add the caramelized onions to the mixture and stir to combine. Pour the mixture into an 8x8-inch baking – dish, and smooth to even out. Sprinkle the remaining cheese on top and bake, uncovered, for about 20-25 minutes, or until the top is bubbly and just beginning to brown. Remove from heat and serve immediately with crusty bread or tortilla chips. Enjoy! Be sure to like Choice Brands on Facebook and follow us on Twitter and Instagram to keep up with local happenings and new product releases. In addition, you’ll find links to beer related articles, fun recipes, and much more! As a bonus, we will be posting a trivia question each month for a chance to win cool, beer related prizes. This month’s question is: What famed Saints running back tandem was known as Thunder and Lightning? Hint: they were both drafted by the Saints in 1976. Go to our Facebook page, post your answer in the comments section (the trivia post will be pinned to the top) and you’ll be entered to win (must be at least 21 years of age)! Find us at facebook.com/choicebrands, twitter. com/choicebrandsinc, and instagram.com/ choicebrands. Good luck!

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Our View of Self in the World See the World and Let the World See You BY BEATRICE TATEM, PH.D., LPC-S, NCC, ACS

N MY WALL HANGS A FRAMED copy of My Declaration of Self Esteem… I Am Me, an affirmation by Virginia Satir, family therapist, social worker and author. I discovered this affirmation while counseling incarcerated young men who were labeled “Juvenile Lifers.“ The statement was tacked to a door as worn as the men I counseled. Inspired by the sentiment conveyed, I turned to one of the men and asked him to read it to the group. Immediately, I realized by the look on his face I had committed a faux pas, he could not read and neither could the majority of the other men. I had made a request that compromised his feelings of self. In my attempt to down play my mistake I read the affirmation. The quote reads: I AM ME in all the world there is no one else like me. Everything that comes out of me is authentically mine because I alone chose it-I own everything about me, my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether-They be to others or to myself-I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears-I own all of my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me. By so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all of my parts. I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and for ways to find out more about me. However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever 14 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

I think and feel. At a given moment in time is authentically me. If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought and felt turn out to be unfitting, I can discard that which is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded. I can see, hear, feel, think, say and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me. I own me, and therefore, I can engineer me. I am me and I AM OKAY. I continue to share this affirmation with clients. I have found, the words, “I am me” and “I am okay” resonates with clients. Whatever we come to in life, what successes we experience, most at some point experience a dip in self-esteem that needs to be uplifted. Often, the difference between someone with a healthy self-esteem versus a low self-esteem is steeped in the acknowledgement of one’s strengths and weaknesses and navigating confidently through the world with that awareness. Self-esteem simply means appreciating you for who you are Good self-esteem is a valuable gift to be nurtured. I see clients across the life span and have learned our self-esteem is affected across the span of our lives. It affects relationships, shapes our view of self in the world, impacts performance at work and in school and affects nearly every part of our lives. Some base it on popularity, the way you look, the money you have and the status you obtain. Frequently, I ask clients to complete a self-esteem exercise. Clients are asked to rank their feelings and thoughts and then list

what they regard as personal strengths and weaknesses. This activity highlights strengths versus weaknesses while encouraging the client to recognize potential, to consider new possibilities, to explore his or her thoughts and perceptions of self. Ways to nurture your self-esteem. Create your own affirmations and self affirm. Explore, value and appreciate yourself. Identify what you have to offer others and the world. Recognize the people, situations, circumstances and places that enhance your self-esteem. As you grow in life evaluate yourself based on what is happening for you now and not a past you. Adjust your selfimage and self-esteem to match your current abilities and skill. Over coming obstacles boosts self-esteem … identify a challenge you can realistically complete. Own your talents, expertise and smarts and engage in the things you do well. Celebrate how much you know while learning more. Compliments feed self-esteem; accept them graciously. Avoid comparing yourself to others. You are unique. Love yourself and if you do not, address it; self love feels awesome. Be the best you can be when possible. Go out and see the world and let the world see you. For more information about counseling services and outreach programming, contact Dr. Tatem at Wellness Initiatives, LLC, 1900 North 18th Street, Suite 414, Monroe, La 71201, 318-410-1555 or at btatem.bt@gmail. com.

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9th Annual Think Pink Tea Put on Your Best Tea Party Hat and Come Celebrate Life!

N HONOR OF NATIONAL BREAST Cancer Awareness Month, recognized annually in October, Glenwood’s Breast Health Center will host its 9th Annual Think Pink Tea on Friday, October 20, at the West Monroe Convention Center. It is a wonderful time to gather with friends as we celebrate life and the healing power of laughter. Attendees will enjoy a delicious light lunch and a variety of teas along with exclusive shopping with beauty, home décor, clothing and bath product vendors. This widely popular event helps to spread the important message of early detection while celebrating the lives of breast cancer survivors in an empowering way. This year’s keynote speaker, Lillie Shockney, Administrative Director of the Johns Hopkins Breast Center, is back by popular demand! At the 2015 Think Pink Tea, she had the audience rolling with laughter! That’s because she believes in its healing powers. “You need to incorporate humor even if it is dark humor,” said Shockney. A genuine belly laugh causes the human body to produce T cells, she said, and T cells help destroy cancer cells. They also increase endorphins, hormones secreted within the brain and nervous system, she said, reducing pain and stress. A two-time breast cancer survivor, Lillie has published 14 books and more than 250 peer-reviewed articles. She has won more than two dozen awards for her work from national organizations like Susan G. Komen for the Cure. Due to limited seating, reservations are required. A $15 admission includes the program, luncheon, shopping privileges and tea. Payment is due when reservations are made. Tickets may be purchased online at www.grmc.com/think-pink-tea. Tickets may

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also be purchased at Glenwood Medical Mall. Call 318-329-8590 for ticket information. GLENWOOD BREAST HEALTH CENTER Center Of Excellence. Centered On You. The Glenwood Breast Health Center has been recognized as a Breast Imaging Center of Excellence by the American College of Radiology and is a participant with NQMBC. We believe women deserve to be empowered to actively participate in decisions about their care and treatment. We are committed to equipping patients with knowledge and encouragement throughout their treatment journey. Services Include: • 2D digital mammography with CAD (computer-aided detection) • 3D digital mammography coming soon! • MRI with CAD • Ultrasound • Breast intervention/biopsy • Dexascan for bone density • WOW Yoga Classes 3D MAMMOGRAPHY Coming Soon! 3D mammography is a revolutionary screening and diagnostic breast imaging tool to improve the early detection of breast cancer. It is an FDA-approved advanced technology that takes multiple images, or X-rays, of breast tissue to recreate a 3D picture of the breast, unlike traditional mammography that only takes a single image. Two of the top benefits are improving the early detection of breast cancer and providing peace of mind due to greater clarity and improved accuracy. The increased accuracy reduces call-backs and spares many

women the anxiety, inconvenience and expense of coming back for further imaging. The multiple images give our radiologists clearer images that make it easier to detect breast cancer, even in dense breast tissue. WALK-IN MAMMOGRAMS For Added Convenience Busy women shouldn’t neglect their health. We’ve made it easier to stay in check by offering walk-in screening mammograms to allow them to take care of their gynecological and mammogram exams all in one day, or to stop by when it’s convenient for them. Once the screening is complete, the images are evaluated by a radiologist who reports directly to the patient’s provider. Patients receive a letter with the results, or a call to schedule additional testing within 10 days. All screening mammograms require a physician’s order. BREAST PATIENT NAVIGATION PROGRAM Help along the Journey Glenwood’s Breast Patient Navigation Program provides patients with seamless and timely coordination of their clinical, educational, and supportive needs as they progress through breast cancer diagnosis and treatment. This service is provided free of charge to all Glenwood breast patients. For more information about Glenwood’s breast health and women’s services, call 877-726-WELL (9355) or visit www.grmc.com.

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GROW A PEAR ARTICLE BY P. ALLEN SMITH

Kieffer pears grown at Moss Mountain Farm

pples have always been more popular than pears, and I’ve often wondered if Eve had eaten a pear instead of an apple if that would still be the case. Though the poor pear may not be associated with Christendom, like apples, they can be baked in tarts, preserved in jars, or paired with cheese and eaten raw. And this time of year, pears can and should take center stage. It all starts with the tree. I love to grow pears espalier style, an oldschool method where the tree is planted near a wall or structure and the limbs are trained to grow alongside a frame, rather than straight up into the air. For our forefathers, this growing method meant fruit could be picked without a ladder, and the trees would take up less space. But even though I have access to ladders and room to grow, I simply enjoy the challenge and the process. My go-to espalier design is the candelabra, where the branches grow out and then up, to look like a row of candles. My Jewish friends call it a “pear menorah.” And espalier trees planted in this way can form a natural wall, barrier, or backdrop 18 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

in your garden. However, espalier can be tricky. Sometimes, I start a project and Mother Nature, or even her stubborn offspring, will have other plans. I keep a few of my failed espaliers – killed by a rampant case of fire blight -- as a reminder that she holds the final wild card. Picking the Right Pear Anyone who has bitten into a gritty Bosc, expecting the sweetness of an Anjou, will tell you not all pears are created equal. They vary in sweetness, flavor and juiciness, so the variety you choose for your recipe is important. Here’s a quick primer: • Kieffer - My favorite variety to grow, mainly because they’re the only ones I’m very good at. They’re a lesser-known variety developed in the 1860s in Pennsylvania and can thrive in northern and southern states. The trees produce beautiful blooms, and the fruit is great for canning and baking. My mother and my aunts would finely shred Kieffers for pear honey and used them in preserves and pies. • Green Anjou - The sweetest, most prevalent pear. It’s an all-purpose fruit that’s juicy, mellow and delightful raw but also great for

baking and roasting. • Red Anjou - Like the Green Anjou but sweeter, and with a hint of spice replacing the citrus. Opt for this one when you want to add some color to your plate. • Bartlett - Typically used for canning, and generally not eaten raw. This variety has lots of juice, so it’s best for purees or baking. • Red Bartlett - Like green Bartlett but a little sweeter, so it’s eaten raw more often, but also great for preserves. • Bosc - Tall and brownish with firm flesh which is best for baking and poaching, and perfect for tarts. • Concorde - Another all-purpose pear, slightly more tart than the Anjou, but still good when raw. Great for baking but because it doesn’t brown as quickly once you cut it, it’s ideal for garnish. In season: September to February. • Seckel - A small variety with soft insides that’s best eaten raw. These are so sweet, sometimes they’re called “sugar pears.” Try pairing with cheese and wine. • Comice - Another juicy and sweet pear with silky flesh and a mellow flavor. Best raw. • Forelle - You will know this pear by its

speckled skin, which resembles a trout. It has a firm, crisp flavor much like a green apple. • Starkrimson - Tell-tale red coloring holds a soft and juicy variety with a floral, almost perfumy flavor, which mellows out when baked. Use to add unexpected color to tarts and other pear desserts.

Photo credits: Kieffer pears grown at Moss Mountain Farm - Photographer Mark Fonville

Espaliered pears growing at Moss Mountain Farm

Crunchy Pear Salad with Bartlett Pears

SPINACH, PEAR AND CRANBERRY SALAD

P. Allen Smith is an author, television host and conservationist with a passion for American style. His show “Garden Home” airs on LPB, KLTM, KLPA and AETN. Check your local listings for “Garden Style.” Smith uses his Arkansas home, Moss Mountain Farm, as an epicenter for promoting the local food movement, organic gardening and the preservation of heritage poultry breeds. He created his farm to serve as a place of inspiration, education and conservation and provides visitors from around the country with tours of his property, which may be booked at pallensmith.com/tours.

1/2 cup extra-virgin olive oil 2 tablespoons balsamic vinegar 2 teaspoons whole-grain mustard 1 teaspoon sugar 1 teaspoon kosher or sea salt Freshly ground pepper 1 cup thinly sliced red onion, chilled in cold water for 30 minutes 1/3 cup sweetened dried cranberries 8 cups lightly packed fresh baby spinach leaves, stemmed if needed 2 firm but ripe pears (do not peel), quartered lengthwise, cored, and cut into long, thin slices 2/3 cup sliced almonds To make the dressing: • Combine the olive oil, balsamic vinegar, mustard, sugar, and salt in a mason jar. • Throw in a pinch of pepper. • Secure the lid on the jar and shake vigorously until blended well. Then set aside 2 tablespoons. • Put the 2 tablespoons of dressing in a bowl and stir in the dried cranberries. Set aside. This will soften the cranberries so they’re not so chewy. • Strain the red onions. Chilling the red onion slices in cold water will crisp them up and take away the raw onion taste. • In a large bowl, put 8 cups of fresh spinach, your sliced onions, and 2 thinly sliced pears. Give the remaining dressing in the jar one last shake and pour it over the salad. • Add the cranberries and toss so the dressing fully coats the spinach. Serve immediately. Makes about 4 servings. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | OCTOBER 2017 19

Alumni Spotlight ULM Alumni: The Traxlers

OR STEVE R. TRAXLER, BUILDING HIS BUSINESS, Traxler Construction Co., has been his focus for the past 39 years. Continuing to grow amidst a sometimes-struggling Louisiana economy took time, patience, and acute business acumen. After a brief stint as a Computer Science major, Steve transferred into Building Construction in 1969 and graduated in 1973. He had been around construction most of his life, his father having been a heavy equipment operator and then the superintendent of roads and drainage in Franklin Parish. Steve worked road construction a few summers and quickly decided he’d rather build buildings. The first two years on campus he lived in Sherrouse and was eventually a member of Sigma Lambda Chi, a society recognizing outstanding students in Construction. Steve particularly remembers Thurman Potts, the first department head for the School of Construction, calling him an “inspiration to all of us.” Potts was encouraging, upbeat, vigorously promoted the school and helped “his boys” acquire job offers during and after graduation. Steve worked for a construction company down south for five years after graduating, but he longed to be back home saying, “the country boy was a fish out of water in New Orleans.” So in March of 1978, he started Traxler Construction with little money and depended heavily on smaller jobs. Business was good from ‘78-’82, then ‘83-’89 was rougher as the economy was suffering in Louisiana. But the company gradually grew, with its largest year doing a little over $23 million. Some of the recent growth has been a result of his sons joining the company; both are graduates of ULM. Steve Traxler Jr. attended ULM from 2000-2005, also graduating in Construction. He had always enjoyed working in the summers with his dad, and liked working with his hands. Steve Jr., never even considered doing anything else. He fondly remembers Dr. Bray who simplified construction, speaking in layman’s terms and making it more understandable. And Dr. Ensminger displayed a passion for construction and made Steve Jr., want to enjoy it as well. A lot of what he learned happened in the field, alongside his dad, but the benefit of taking the classes while doing the work helped it all make more sense. His surveying class especially helps him in work today, one of his strongest points being surveying and layouts. The younger brother, Stewart Traxler, attended ULM from 2003-2007, and graduated in Criminal Justice. He admits he had no idea at 18 what he wanted to be when he grew up. He remembers being at freshmen orientation, asked to pick a major, and feeling intense pressure. He always liked law and law studies, and chose Criminal Justice with the idea that 20 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

he would perhaps attend law school after graduation. While he enjoyed the program, after two years he realized he wouldn’t be going to law school and instead chose the quickest path to graduation. What Stewart learned the most out of college was personal responsibility. He says, “The classes weren’t hard, but going to classes was hard.” He learned he had to take care of himself, be a grownup. ULM allotted him the time and environment to do so. After a class that allowed him to do a ride-along, Stewart realized being a cop wasn’t for him, and he turned to Dad who encouraged him to take a construction class. In the summers, Stewart worked alongside his dad and brother, but at the time, resented not being able to go waste time with his friends. In retrospect, he’s grateful for the time he had in the field to prepare for his superintendent roles today. Steve forced him to get up and go to work, and Stewart credits his work ethic today to his dad. ULM is a family affair for the Traxlers, with all of the gentlemen’s wives being ULM alumni as well. Steve’s wife, Lily Traxler, graduated in Psychology. Audrey Traxler, married to Steve Jr., graduated in Nursing. And Stewart’s wife Alecia finished in Dental Hygiene. With the strong connection to the institution, it’s no surprise the Traxlers give back to ULM with both financial contributions and renovation and building projects. The largest project to date is the Student Event Center currently under construction on the bayou. It is scheduled to be completed in December of this year and will feature a banquet hall, theater, multi-purpose room and practice facility for the cheerleaders and dance line. Other renovation projects on campus by Traxler Construction include Schultz Dining Hall in 2015 and Starbucks in 2016. They’ve worked on the intramural fields, batting cages and chair backs in Malone Stadium and Walker Hall, as well. Investing in their community and helping construct and renovate ULM, their school, is a privilege for the Traxlers. And they will continue to work with, and for, ULM for the betterment of their community. The ULM Alumni Association reaches, connects and celebrates alumni and friends to build lifelong relationships, and commit to the university’s missions of academic freedom, scholarship, diversity, excellence, integrity and service. We represent alumni who honor the traditions of our university and who share a sense of achievement and pride. We create a network of professionals, establish scholarships and advocate for our University through community engagement. Members of the Alumni Association, like the Traxlers, support countless initiatives, and annual memberships are just $35. To learn more or to become a member, please visit our new alumni network at ulm.edu/alumni.

Think. Act. Move. Cathi French Roberts and Lori French are intrigued with home, fashion, music, far flung travels, and artisan moments. Cathi and Lori have been involved in the international fashion and design industry for the past 25 years. A myriad of projects have given them vast opportunities to travel throughout North America and Europe. Join them for a colloquium of inspiration and ideas for your life and home. Casual can be elegant and fun rises to all occasions.

Cathi French Roberts & Lori French

Fall Inspirations Why not have a fall gathering to usher in the upcoming season? What inspires you?

hed horns of all shapes and sizes are such a versatile choice in home décor. Lately we have discovered the most beautiful horn lamps and shades that can really define a space! One of a kind pieces like this lighting element make a statement and a leather embossed base makes it a keep sake.

ocal farmers markets offer everything – think beyond pumpkins and mums this year! Why not transition your herbs and fall lettuces as your fall theme. Think about cutting and bringing a group of these like, rosemary, Russian tarragon, dill, basil, chives, caladiums and arugula as well. These aromatic and savory gems lift spirits all year round! Random varieties of these healing herbs mixed together welcome this glorious weather. Francis Coenen has such exquisite taste in her home and gardens. Instead of traditional shrubs in the front of her home, Francis planted Rosemary and permitted it to shrub. When walking into her entrance the fragrance is so delightful. Lately she has been getting her pots ready for winter cabbages.

hat will you serve on that cool afternoon for guests who pop in after a leisurely bike ride? Olive oils in a tiny dish, feta cheese, different kinds of crunchy breads and crackers, and a variety of olives – tastefully delicious!

o you have a talisman that is sentimental? This is your new coffee table conversation piece. Place on an inspirational oversized book near a lighted soothing candle and relish in a memory. The Cicada is the symbol of Provence. For thousands of years, many believed them to have divine good luck as the song of the Cicada would fill the evening air. These glorious creatures sing when summer is ending and signal the beginning of fall. They represent hospitality and are quite interesting with their rich history.

We are enjoying ideas and inspirations from excerpts of this lovely book.

FOR YOUR OWN FRENCH TWIST CONSULTATION, CALL CATHI AND LORI AT 318-355-3041

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Egret Landing

Now Taking Lot Reservations for Phase Two

ESTLED BETWEEN BAYOU DeSiard and Black Bayou Lake National Wildlife Refuge, Egret Landing is an attractive residential development, which exemplifies the perfect blend of luxury and leisure. Egret Landing is surrounded by nature trails, lakes and bayous just minutes away from The City of Monroe and the Town of Sterlington and within easy reach of restaurants, shopping, work and schools. Egret Landing’s newest phase of development sits high and dry on the natural ridge that runs along the banks of idyllic Bayou DeSiard and backs up to Black Bayou National Wildlife Refuge, an extremely biodiverse wildlife preserve that will always remain unspoiled. No lots throughout Egret Landing flooded during the recent high water disaster of March 2016. Offering a wide array of options for families is key to understanding the concept of living at Egret Landing. While Phase I has been zoned as part of The City of Monroe, including utilities and schools, Phase II of Egret Landing has been zoned for The Town of Sterlington. Families with students living in Phase II would be able to attend Sterlington’s Elementary, Middle and High Schools and take advantage of Sterlington’s utilities as well. Phase II includes 19 bayou frontage lots, 10 townhouses that overlook the large greenspace filled with amenities, 5 large refuge lots, 9 lots that are accessed from the front and 48 smaller lots that are accessed through a rear loading alleyway. All of Phase II backs up to the wildlife refuge offering glimpses of large deer, playful red foxes and extraordinary opportunities for bird lovers to see a huge array of species. Lots throughout

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Egret Landing range from $65,000 and up. “No other community in all of Northeast Louisiana has an amenities package like Egret Landing,” says David Sorrell, Development Director of Egret Landing. With trails that meander the wilds of Black Bayou NWR, an amphitheatre complete with a stage, a playground designed specifically for little ones, a Little League ball park, basketball court, and a pavilion designed for gathering, Phase II of Egret Landing is building on the strong reasons to consider life amid the live oak-lined streets of the development. Other amenities include a public boat ramp to Bayou DeSiard, underground utilities, AT&T Internet connectivity, Atmos Energy, security cameras and streetlights throughout, sidewalks that run throughout the development and multiple roundabouts to slow traffic. In addition, thoughtful architecture plays a large part in ensuring a cohesive feel throughout Egret Landing. For example, all architecture must meet certain requirements, like a minimum of nine-foot ceilings, specific roof pitches, clay roof tiles and gas lights. Since Phase I was developed, several residents have moved in, gotten settled and fallen in love with their homes and the area. When asked why they chose Egret Landing over other developments, here is what some of the residents had to say: • We desired a neighborhood that was ideal for our growing family life. Egret Landing stands unparalleled in fulfilling and exceeding our desires due to its beautiful scenery and great amenities. • We wanted to be in a really nice neighborhood, something fairly new with access to good builders building custom

homes. The fact that Egret Landing is off the highway, a bit hidden, and close to work are great benefits. We also like the development plans for the next phases as well as other local developments in the area. We wanted to be in a good economic growth area where development was being well managed. • We liked the new construction, and compared to other new housing in Monroe, the quality, craftsmanship, and the smart design of the house stood out to us. These are some of the best houses, not only in Louisiana, but the whole country. Some of the residents’ favorite things about Egret Landing include: • Our favorite thing about Egret Landing is the quiet, family friendly atmosphere. We love our neighbors and are excited to raise our daughter in a community full of kind and caring people. • We really like being close to work and having great access to suburban shopping and services. We also like the layout of the neighborhood, the style of the houses, and the people we have met. • The undisturbed peace, the birds chirping in the morning, our deer neighbors and our dear neighbors. For your own private tour of Egret Landing, call David Sorrell at 318.547.7084 or email david@holyfield-inc.com. Be sure to sign up at www.egretlandingmonroe.com/contact to learn more about finding your family’s place within this unique development at one with the beauty of nature and the necessities of modern living.

Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School JGS Celebrates Community, School and Family IT’S THAT TIME OF YEAR AGAIN! Now that fall is finally right around the corner, our amazing PTO and volunteer parents are busy organizing the 3rd Annual JGS Fall Festival set for October 21st at 5:30 p.m. This event signifies the culmination of The JGS School Annual Fund Campaign, which began in mid-August. The Annual Fund Campaign is a yearly giving campaign meant to produce better results than many small fundraisers combined. It has replaced our fall fundraising events of years past such as Rock-N-Bowl, Boo at the Barn, and magazine and cookie dough sales. We saw tremendous success this past school year with our “Top Ram” competitors who battled to solicit funds for votes. They poured their hearts and souls into the fundraising competition making an extraordinary difference in the operating budget of our school. WHO WILL BE NAMED “JGS TAILGATE CHAMPION?” This year’s annual fund campaign is centered around a friendly college football competition. When donating to the JGS School Annual Fund, donors will have the opportunity to vote for their favorite college football team on the JGS Annual Fund Donor Card. The winning football team at the end of the annual fund campaign will be announced at this year’s JGS Fall Festival Celebration and will have their game televised at the “JGS Tailgate Champion” party at Flying Tiger Brewery. Donors contributing $500 and above in donations will be invited to the private celebration at Flying Tiger Brewery! It is sure to be an exciting competition! CAMPAIGN SUCCESS IN YEARS PAST. The success of our previous Annual Fund Campaigns and Fall Festival celebrations are outstanding examples of the always supportive community that JGS has been blessed to be a part of for over 50 years. It is truly humbling to experience the amount of love, faith and generosity Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School receives from our families, friends and church parishioners. At JGS, we are blessed with faithful teachers, a loving principal and caring staff, who strive daily to provide a safe, productive and Christ-centered environment for all students. We pray that God will continue to bless us and provide for our school as He has always done in the past. We ask that you prayerfully consider supporting the JGS School Annual Fund and at the same time place a vote for your favorite college football team. You may do this by filling out one of our annual fund pledge/donation cards, which can be picked 26 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

up at the school office, online at www.jesusgoodshepherd.org, or in the church gathering space. COME JOIN THE FAMILY FRIENDLY FUN. We hope that you can join us for our celebration of community, school and family at the 3rd Annual JGS Fall Festival. There will be a silent auction, country store, amusement rides for the children, food vendors and class carnival-style booths. Thank you in advance to our wonderful community for always supporting Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School and we look forward to seeing you at our fall celebration. Many thanks to our current sponsors of the JGS School Annual Fund as of 9/13/2017: Eddleman Dental; Felicia and Mead Hardwick; Nicole and Scott Barron; Micah and Haley Pulliam; Michael and Christie Echols; John and Jessica Storm; Mark and Courtney Holyfield, Dr. and Mrs. Justin Tarver, Chad and Sandy Beasinger, Dr. and Mrs. Carson Rutz, Lise and Jean Poirrier; Mary and Jay Hardwick; J. Michael Inzina; Jeff Leaumont State Farm; Charles J. Ledoux; Molly and Pat Leaumont; Dr. and Mrs. Randy Taylor; Derek and Olga Koecher; Charles and Brenda Taylor; Gerald and Ashley Tonore; Don and Tara McEnery; The Southwell Family; Steve and Cindy Gray, Pat Blanchard; Michael and Vickie Mellino; Mitchell and Jodie Miletello; Richard and Rosa Lee King; Jack and Debbie Gazzo; Saundra and Clint Shepard; Cliff and Joan Carr; Bob and Nell Seegers; Kiran Seshagiri; Jake TanProcare Therapy of Monroe, LLC.; Blair and Allison Sherman; Ike and Connie Stokes; Lisa and Tony Patrick; Lynda and Doug Cookston; John Semmes; Misti Hajj, Inc.; Barbara Dupont Estis; The Wetzel Family; Corre and Richard Criswell; Richard and Lola Gremillion; Jessica Hays; Sam and Kathy Terracina; John F. Savage; Kathi Savage; Carol Busby; The Bonney Family; Mr. and Mrs. Douglas Coon; Rick Mascagni; Jott and Michael Ann Delcambre; Daniel and Olga Trejo; Wendy Juneau; Michael and Annie Ajlani; Scott and Cindy McCormick; William and Edith Sirmon Families interested in finding out more about Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic School or the JGS School Annual Fund are encouraged to visit our website, www.jesusgoodshepherd.org, and Facebook page or contact the school office directly at 318-325-8569. Tours are given every Tuesday at 9 a.m. and by appointment with our principal, Mrs. Lisa Patrick.

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Historical Impressions

LIFE ON THE HOME FRONT

HAT DO YOU THINK about your life at home? Are you able to purchase all that you need or reasonably desire for the time you spend at home? Do you enjoy your leisure time at home? Is your home comfortable and attractive enough for your own satisfaction and enjoyment? Sometimes what we need or want may be taken by external forces. We have little or no control over floods, tornados, job loss and other disasters which affect our homes and our life at home. Most of us alive in America today have not experienced this directly but war can affect home life as well. After December 7, 1941, everyday life across America was dramatically altered. It became obvious very quickly that Americans at home would have to give up comforts, and even reduce some essentials, for our country to win the global war. Enormous quantities of manpower, armaments, aircraft, naval vessels, food and material would be required to overcome America’s enemies. And all of the manpower and raw materials were needed immediately. In 1942 a rationing program was established that set limits on 20 commodities that were needed for the war effort. Also, as factories converted to war production, some items, like automobiles and home appliances, were no longer made. Americans were asked to, “Use it up – Wear it out – Make it do – or Do without” and to “Do with less–so they’ll have enough;” “they” referring to U.S. troops. Tires were the first item to be rationed in January 1942 because supplies of natural rubber were interrupted. Limits were then set on the amount of gasoline that could be purchased over a set period of time. In June 1942 the Combined Food Board was set up to coordinate the worldwide supply of

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food to the Allied forces. By 1943 civilians needed government-issued ration coupons to purchase coffee, sugar, meat, cheese, butter, lard, margarine, canned foods, dried fruits, jam, gasoline, bicycles, fuel oil, clothing, silk or nylon stockings, shoes, and many other items. A person had to appear before a local rationing board to get a classification and to receive a book of ration stamps. Each person in a household received a ration book, even babies and children. Ration stamps were valid only for a set period to prevent hoarding. To purchase gasoline, for example, the driver had to present a gas card along with a ration book and cash. Because of gasoline rationing, sightseeing drives and automobile racing of any kind were banned. Materials vital to the war effort were collected and recycled. There were scrap metal drives and rubber collection drives so these materials could be recycled and used to produce war material. A town founded by Civil War veterans actually voted to melt down cannonballs used in a memorial to Union soldiers. Even bacon fat was collected and turned into glycerin for soap and explosives. Children were not exempted from the home front war effort. The collection of recyclable materials was often done by youth groups. Children were also sent out to harvest milkweed for use in lifejackets. Today we spend time and effort getting and maintaining attractive lawns. During WWII, families were encouraged to plow up their lawns and grow “Victory Gardens.” These “Victory Gardens” provided Americans with 60 percent of the produce they consumed. Given the strength of the attack on Pearl Harbor, there was a legitimate fear our West Coast mainland could also be attacked. Further, it became apparent that German U-boats were using the lights of

coastal cities in the East and the South to sink ships leaving harbor. For these reasons, blackouts were mandated in every city, even those far from the coast. No exterior lighting was allowed and blackout curtains were placed over windows at night. Women no longer worked mostly in the home. Women took over the jobs of absent men in droves. By 1943, six million women were employed, nearly half of them in defense. Americans uncomplainingly volunteered for war effort duties instead of spending time in leisure activities at home. Civilians were recruited into State Guards to replace the National Guardsmen who were sent overseas. The Civil Air Patrol provided personnel for search-and-rescue, anti-submarine patrols and transport duties. The Coast Guard Auxiliary used civilian boats and crews for similar anti-submarine and rescue roles. On a less somber note, the United Service Organizations (USO) was founded to provide morale and recreation services to uniformed military personnel. Towers were built in coastal and border towns and spotters were trained to recognize enemy aircraft. Even in the Midwest and Plains states, many dedicated aircraft spotters took up their posts night after night watching the skies in parts of the country that no enemy aircraft of that era could possibly hope to reach. How many Americans today would be willing to give up their current quality of home life to aid a national effort? We call those who fought in WWII the “Greatest Generation.” That name certainly applies to those on the home front as well.

BY GUY MILLER Vice Chair-Chennault Aviation and Military Museum

Taking Action

Being Proactive in Combating Breast Cancer

REAST CANCER IS THE MOST COMMONLY DIAGNOSED cancer in women. We must be vigilant about self-detection regular exams and risk factors. While October is an important month to honor those who have fought—and are still fighting—breast cancer, we need to be proactive in combating this disease all year long. Despite all of the publicity surrounding breast cancer, I am surprised at the number of women who do not perform monthly selfexaminations, or receive yearly (or even sporadic) mammograms. Perhaps this is because information regarding examinations can be confusing and even conflicting. Our female population is inundated with so much inconsistent information and subsequent myths regarding breast cancer that it is difficult to determine a preventative path. I feel strongly that inaction is dangerous. The average woman’s lifetime risk of getting breast cancer is about 12 percent, which means 1 in 8 women will endure breast cancer. On a brighter note, breast cancer mortality has steadily decreased in the last several decades, mainly due to early detection, screening, and improved treatment options. The American College of Obstetrics and Gynecology (ACOG) guidelines recommend three important actions: • Mammograms • Clinical breast examinations • Self-examinations Different organizations give various opinions and recommendations regarding when and how these three actions should occur. I recommend the ACOG suggestions, which are closely related to the American Cancer Society guidelines. •M ammography should be offered at age 40 and then annually or biennially. •C linical breast examinations should begin at age 25 and be performed every 1-3 years until age 40; at that time, examinations should become annual. •B reast self-examinations should be performed by high-risk patients beginning at age 20. In regard to self-examinations, I often hear comments such as: “I don’t know what I am feeling for,” or “all I feel are lumps.” I understand these comments, and I try to reassure my patients that if they are familiar with the architecture of their breasts, they will detect something abnormal. Women should watch for changes such as a mass, pain, redness, or an onset of nipple discharge. It is a physician’s duty to

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BY LAURIE LEBLEU-VASZILY, MD, OBSTETRICIAN AND GYNECOLOGIST ON STAFF AT P&S SURGICAL HOSPITAL

guide our patients in the diagnosis of this change. Another hot topic in breast cancer today is the dense breast, or the breast with more than normal glandular tissue. Women with dense breasts have an increased risk of breast cancer, and unfortunately, there is reduced sensitivity in the detection of cancer using mammography. One myth regarding dense breasts is that a mammogram is useless. This is not true for all dense breasts; there are varying levels of density. The density of the breast changes over time and can vary during the menstrual cycle phases. Some experts suggest women with dense breasts undergo mammograms in the first two weeks following their menstrual cycles. The MRI can also screen dense breasts. Unfortunately, the machine quality and the radiologist’s experience can affect the findings. Current studies show many false positive findings that lead to invasive biopsies or surgeries. Mammography is still the premium screening tool for dense breasts. I recommend mammograms and continued open dialogue with one’s doctor. Breast cancer risk factors: • Age (women, 50-79, are at the highest risk) • Inherited genetic mutations for breast cancer •T wo or more first-degree relatives with breast cancer, usually diagnosed prior to age 45, on either side of one’s family; family history of ovarian cancer or other hereditary breast and ovarian syndromeassociated cancer (such as prostate cancer and pancreatic cancer). • High density of breast tissue (not just dense, but highly dense) • Biopsy-confirmed atypical hyperplasia of breast • Early initiation of menses and/or late menopause • Obesity (postmenopausal) So much can be accomplished to detect breast cancer so that treatment can begin early. Be conscientious about screening. Learn your family history, and dig deeper to learn the details. Make your appointments, conduct your self-examinations, and call your doctor with any changes. P&S Surgical Hospital is a Center of Excellence in Minimally Invasive Gynecology—one of the country’s first 100 hospitals to earn the distinction. Dr. LeBleu-Vaszily, along with several of her colleagues, is certified in Minimally Invasive Gynecology.

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BAYOU BUZZWORTHY LA PURCHASE GARDENS AND ZOO Bradley Hall and his crew at Riverside Landscaping recently revamped the lion enclosure at Louisiana Purchase Gardens and Zoo. African lions Baja and Roco now have a home with large boulders to rest on, a sand pile to play in, cat-friendly plants and a yard with better drainage thanks to the time, energy and materials donated by Bradley and his staff.

FOOD BANK OF NORTHEAST LOUISIANA On August 4th, Senator Bill Cassidy visited the Food Bank of Northeast Louisiana. Food Bank Executive Director Jean Toth gave Senator Cassidy a tour of the facility as they talked about hunger in our community and the solutions that can be provided by private citizens, businesses and government all working together. “We are so thankful that Senator Cassidy was able to visit the Food Bank and hear about how hunger is affecting people in our community,” said Toth. “We hope that Senator Cassidy will support federal programs that help provide healthy, nutritious foods to the 73,000 food-insecure people in our area.” Others in attendance included Sen. Cassidy staffers Angie Robert and Brian McNabb; Rep. Charles “Bubba” Chaney; and Food Bank Board Members Dana Taylor, Bill Smith, Juanita Woods, Roger Parker, Brian Varner and Thomas Proger.

2018 ST. JUDE DREAM HOME GROUND BREAKING On August 9th, BRACO Construction and St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital held a ground breaking ceremony at the site of the 2018 St. Jude Dream Home in Sterlington’s Bayou Trace Subdivision. Jan Strickland, lead designer on the project, as well as local St. Jude repreresentatives and community leaders, were on-hand for this special event.

HOUSE BEAUTIFUL Local teen Margaret Ellis Goff recently had her bedroom and lounge featured in the September issue of House Beautiful. Designer Melissa Rufty of New Orleans did a fabulous job creating a modern, yet funky, space for Margaret Ellis and her friends to hang out!

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DELHI FIRST BAPTIST CHURCH Delhi First Baptist Church celebrated its 145th anniversary on July 2, 2017. After the morning service, members participated in digging up a time capsule that had been buried in 1992 during the church’s 120-year anniversary. Individuals representing various age groups passed the shovel to take part in uncovering the capsule and to signify the importance of every member of the church body. A barbecue fellowship complete with peach cobbler and ice cream was enjoyed after this celebration.

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Material Things The Perfect Place for Fall Must-Haves

ITH THE CRISPNESS OF AUTUMN AND THE holidays just around the corner, now is the perfect time to do a little sprucing up in your home ... or, even a major redo! This time of year always makes me think of the October, eight short years ago, when Peggy and I opened the doors of Material Things over on Park Avenue. What an exciting time that was ... it’s still exciting and fulfilling, especially when Cathi, Lauren and I start opening boxes of new merchandise. I’m still hosting my bi-monthly Sip and See featuring local and Louisiana artisans. This month, I will have Ruston artist mother/ daughter duo, Patricia Tate Jones and Maggie Jones Boudreaux. Their art will be here on Thursday, October 5th. So, please come by for a little bite, a drink and meet these wonderful ladies along with their fabulous art. Allison Adair Taylor will be here as well with her beautiful handmade earrings and jewelry, she crafts each piece from vintage beads and findings. Some of the other things happening around the shop are all of the new lines that I am carrying now. From a wonderful, high-end furniture company to small, personal gift items and everything in between. I feel certain that we have exactly what you need for getting your space ready for the holidays and the perfect gifts for your loved ones. My new furniture line is Caracole, which offers high style furniture, filled with personality at an exceptional value. It is truly breath taking. Currently, I have one of their upholstered beds, a sideboard and a table with a pair of Klismo chairs. Also, new art from Kate Spade as well as other art pieces are in stock now . I told someone the other day that it looks like the land of a thousand tables in this shop, there are so many choices for side and occasional tables right now! Just to touch on a few of my new gift lines: French body care by Lothantique, Vince Kitira taper candles, furniture care kits by Christopher Pourny, and elegant home keeping items by Andree Jardin. Another perfect gift idea would be one of the coffee table and decorating books that I carry now. I have many of the just-released titles for you to select from. You can never go wrong with the gift of scent: Kenneth. Turner’s Signature scent in a candle, diffuser and room spray has

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become a No. one seller for me ... it is divine. I also have several other home scents that are sure to please anyone on your list. Sovaro, my cork lined cooler product has introduced new items to their company: they now offer soft sided coolers that you can carry by hand or one that is a backpack. Also, they have diffuser style water bottles and a new color for their insulated cups ... it’s a beautiful shade of blue. Of course, I still have my special order fabric lines and my workrooms where we can make anything from window treatments to bedding. An exciting new thing available from many of the fabric companies and from my upholstered furniture line is Crypton Fabric. You can spill red wine on it and it beads up and rolls off. The MT Company is my main source for upholstered furniture. They have a wide range of fabrics, including the Crypton that I referenced. All of their construction is eight-way hand tied with superior quality and made in High Point, NC. They work with several different designers in the industry and even offer a Washable Wonders Slipcovered line. If you don’t want to go the custom route for your bedding, my ready made option is Lili Alssandra, it is luxury designer bedding of the highest quality. The absolute best of both worlds: high end details and craftsmanship mixed with the practicality of being washer and dryer safe. This company is based in San Antonio, TX, and ships quickly. The options are endless which ever avenue you decide to pursue. I definitely still carry a lot of my tried and true lines including Uttermost, Aidan Gray, Regina Andrew, Gabby and so many more. These companies offer a wide range of items from traditional, transitional to modern and contemporary. Spanning your entire room from lighting down to rugs, the choices are endless! When I can get my hands on vintage and antique finds, I grab those up, too. A well rounded mix of new and vintage/antique pieces in your home makes for the perfect combination. If you have not stopped in, please come by and check out what we are all about! I think you will be pleasantly surprised.

Kindest Regards, Joyce

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Fields Receives Fritsche Service Award Dr. Tom Fields Recognized for Over 35 Years of Service to St. Frederick Family

ISHOP MICHAEL DUCA BEGAN the September 7, 2017, Alumni, Family and Friends’ Principal’s Reception with prayer. He recognized the vision and building plans of St. Frederick administration, board and support organizations in continuing to upgrade the campus and raise the bar in education. Hall of Fame Coach Ray Gambino presented the 2017 Nancy Fritsche Award to the family of this year’s recipient, Dr. Tom Fields, was unable to attend the Alumni, Family and Friends Principal’s Reception. Dr. Fields was recognized for his 35 years of service to St. Frederick High School. Gambino said that Dr. Fields had not only donated his services for years at St. Frederick but also at another school where he coached. Donna Fields said this award meant so much to Tom because of his commitment to education and it is very special to the family since they have five children and four grandchildren who are graduates of St. Frederick. She said her sons were defensive players who intercepted passes to score for the Warriors but that Dr. Fields missed both of the plays because he was providing care to injured players. In fact, one of those injured players was on the opposing team. Donna said St. Frederick provided the preparation her children needed to be successful in their careers and that includes a lawyer, doctor and one executive recruiter for one of the largest companies in our state. Principal David thanked teachers, coaches and staff for their efforts in providing the individual attention that students need to excel. He reminded everyone that the St. Fred

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STREAM (Science, Technology, Religion, Engineering, Arts and Math) curriculum is the only program being offered in this area. Athletic Director and Head Coach Jeff Tannehill recognized coaches and introduced two alumni that he coached in football. He added that these young men were superior athletes who could play for any school in our area. And both of them excelled in academics at St. Frederick and are continuing that achievement at the university level in a tough pre-med program. Tannehill said these are just two examples of the kind of outstanding, successful students that St. Frederick prepares for college. Wendell Manning, President of the St. Frederick Board of Directors, introduced officers and members of the Parents Association, Warriors Club, Alumni, Family and Friends, Warrior Foundation and the Dalton Fund. He also recognized Dr. Bob Webber and Fred Bennett. Judge Manning also discussed the strategic vision for the school and introduced the proposed master faculty plan and feasibility study themed “A New Vision, Building on Success.” Dr. Webber reminded supporters that Blair David was recruited because of his statewide recognition as the STEM leader and as the future principal of St. Frederick. Bennett is the architect for the master plan expansion that includes a new STREAM building, a student art performance facility, new school roof, new chapel, track and more. This year’s Principal’s Reception to honor Blair David was held at the home of Kindra and Eddie Neitz in Monroe on September 7, 2017. Flowers and decorations

were arranged by Sara Taylor and Kindra Neitz. Food and beverages for the event were provided by Thurman’s, Marsala Beverage, Peggy Sullivan, Choice Brands, Trent Crawford with Progressive Bank, Dino Taylor, Fat Pelican, Leazel McDonald, Melanie Christian, Eric Mahaffey and others. Peggy Sullivan, Alumni, Family and Friends President, thanked sponsors for the auction items at the Principal’s Reception Silent Auction that included: • Dinner with Principal David at Genusa’s • A weekend in Sandestin • Dinner for 20 from Catfish Charlie’s • Lake house weekend on Caney Lake donated by Ann and Chap Breard • Date night for two at Copeland’s prepared by Chef Michelle Cascio donated by Alana and John Belton • $400 discount card for tires or service at Cartown Tires and Service • Dinner for four at Geno’s Italian Restaurant donated by John Bruscato • Spa Package with facial by Wendy Nelson and massage by Mary Beth Dickerson donated by Spa Nouvelle • Pamper Me Package with facial donated by Kayla Edwards St. Frederick is a college prep school serving grades 7 through 12, that welcomes students of all denominations, with a diverse student body comprised of 50 percent Catholic and 50 percent non-Catholic students.

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I REMEMBER a life-altering experience a r t i cl e by PAUL L I PE

I REMEMBER the night, and the football game, when my new bride, It would take a miracle for the Bears to pull out a win. Well, what Linda, became a “dyed-in-the-wool” fan of the Delhi Bear football team. happened was about as close to a miracle as one can get. On what It was late in the 1962 season, and the contest was being played at the turned out to be the final play of the game, the Delhi quarterback did home of the Bears’ perennial arch rival, the Tallulah Trojans. Throughout the unexpected – he dropped back to pass! And he connected with his most of their season, the Bears had won by comfortable, and often, very running back who headed down field. Not knowing how much time wide margins. In those games, my wife actually wanted the opponents remained in the game, knowledgeable fans were yelling for the runner to score! Don’t misunderstand; she to get out of bounds and to stop the wanted Delhi to win, but just not by clock. Thankfully, the ball carrier such a big differential. had other things in mind. At about All of that would change on midfield, he successfully eluded the that cold, rainy night when the final two defenders and crossed the Bears encountered the Trojans. goal line to make the score Delhi Because of the inclement weather, 12 – Tallulah 7. It was then that we the game turned into a defensive learned that the final seconds of struggle, with neither team able the contest had elapsed during this to sustain much of a drive. Delhi unbelievable play! did score first, and they kicked the My spouse was elated and would extra point, but a penalty required ever after bleed Bear blood! But a re-kick, which failed, leaving it took a pretty amazing event to the score at 6-0. Then the home produce this change in her attitude. team scored and successfully Have you ever experienced such made the PAT, resulting in a 7-6 a sensational event that altered your lead. That score held up as the life or your way of thinking? Or has game grew close to its end – how anything happened that produced a “HAVE YOU EVER EXPERIENCED close to the end was a mystery to turn-about in the way you behave or SUCH A SENSATIONAL EVENT THAT the fans, because the clock on the that has been life-altering? ALTERED YOUR LIFE OR YOUR WAY OF scoreboard malfunctioned, leaving One such occurrence comes to my the spectators to guess at how much THINKING?” mind. It happened centuries ago, time was left in the contest – the not too long after the death and announcer did occasionally tell us how much time remained, but that resurrection of Jesus Christ. A Jewish religious leader, Saul of Tarsus, was not the same as being able to glance at the clock for ourselves. was on his way to Damascus with the authority to arrest any followers The moment was electric – all the viewers on the visitors’ side of the of this Christ and to bring them back to Jerusalem to be tried for their stadium, including my wife, Linda, were yelling for a touchdown, but “heresy.” Before he could reach his destination, he had an encounter we all were aware of how unlikely that was. We had the ball, but inside with the One Whose followers he was threatening. (Acts 9:1-22) Saul our own 20-yard line with just seconds remaining in the game. Delhi (whose Greek name was Paul) experienced a dramatic change on the coach Raymond Richards was not inclined to pass the ball, reasoning road to Damascus, a change that resulted in the rapid expansion of that on a pass play three things could happen, and two of them were Christianity and in his writing a significant portion of the New Testament. bad – one, the intended receiver could catch the ball (that’s good), but, As a consequence of the change in this man’s life, many of us have secondly, the pass could miss its target or could be dropped (that’s not experienced a similar change through faith in the One Paul met that day, good), or, thirdly, the defensive team could intercept the pass (that’s and we are now “dyed-in-the-wool” adherents to the teachings and the definitely not good). Given the coach’s philosophy and the terrible work of our Lord. I have yet to meet anyone who, having made that weather conditions, any thoughts of passing the ball had been shelved. change, regrets his decision – so I recommend the same to any who are And our chances for victory were practically non-existent. looking for something to give more meaning and purpose to their lives. 38 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

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PAINT TO YOUR PASSION Ten paint colors selected to help create the rooms of your dreams BY MICHAEL DEVAULT FARROW AND BALL Dead Salmon No. 28 A subtle shade whose name refers to the flat or ‘dead’ finish of an aged pink painted at Kedleston Hall in 1805. An exquisite color that’s perfect for candlelit dining rooms. For a taste of true design match this color with Gilded French mirrors, aged ebonized choosier furniture and a wall laden with European oil portraits.

FARROW AND BALL French Gray No. 18 French Gray is really much more green than grey, but characterfully flits between the two depending on the light and time of day. Taking inspiration from French design and wallpapers used in the 19th century, it creates the most relaxed of rooms. This soothing hue is perfect for exterior woodwork and a particular favorite for front doors or garden furniture where it sits seamlessly amongst the greenery.

SHERWIN WILLIAMS White Flour SW 7102 Sensual and sensible. This unctuous color can turn a drab room into a spectacular space and usually is a feature in most of my designed spaces. This color is remarkable paired with rich dark mahogany. Perfect for interior, exterior and all the spaces in between.

FARROW AND BALL Hague Blue No. 30 A deep dark blue. Hague Blue takes its name from the fantastically colored woodwork much used by the Dutch, and still works wonderfully to ground baseboards or as an accent color on the walls.

SHERWIN WILLIAMS Oyster Bay SW-6206 Exemplary color where nature and design are the same. Blue green in nature, this color reminds me of the cool, shallow marshes of the North Eastern seaboard. This color is ideal for bathroom walls and cabinets, kitchen cabinets, interior shelving, and furniture. I think this color really looks best used in a matte finish.

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FARROW AND BALL Mouse’s Back No. 40 This grey brown classic takes its characterful name from the fawny color of the British field mouse. Much like its namesake, the green based Mouse’s Back is quiet in nature and feels soft in rooms both large and small. It will read greener when used on the walls of under-lit rooms and is the perfect accent on furniture or floors.

SHERWIN WILLIAMS Malabar SW-9110 This brave beige is reminiscent of something larger, something more global. It reminds me of forgotten desert spice routes. The warmth of this color is what makes it a star of any room setting. Pair this with Aubergine, rich deep reds, bright blues and emerald greens for a look that is truly globally inspired.

FOR A WHILE, it seemed the world was a study of grays. Kitchen cabinets went from faux antiqued to battleship, and no bathroom was safe from the ubiquitous Light Gray. Entire sections of paint store swatch displays were devoted to shades of gray. That’s changing, though, according to interior designer Gregory Hudgins, who is excited about the end of the Gray Period. He’s seeing it in his own practice, and in fine homes and small bungalows alike, there’s a new trend.“The shift is away from ‘150 Shades of Grey’ to adding in more color,” Gregory says. He notes that the colors aren’t loud or even particularly bold. Instead, they’ve got a more classic feel. “The colors are soft but strong. The grey trend didn’t have staying power.” That’s because of one simple reason, Gregory thinks. Gray is, ultimately, gray.“Once everyone painted everything gray there was a realization that everything now looks exactly the same,” Gregory says. “I think having the neutrality of gray and adding color on top of that base is allowing people and designers to infuse individuality into homes and spaces.” Gregory helped BayouLife select some popular colors to help infuse your gray spaces with a pop of color. And these days, as Gregory’s top paints colors suggest, there is no standard in the palette. It’s up to you to decide the look you want. Here are his suggestions of great places to start.

BENJAMIN MOORE Wrought Iron 2124-10 A historic and strong warm color that is perfectly at home in a modern setting or traditional home. I love this color painted on low ceilings, window exteriors, and staircase railings and spindles. Have your painter spray this in an ultra-glossy finish on your front door for a unforgettable entranceway.

BENJAMIN MOORE Guilford Green HC 116 A classic color that is livable and easy to coordinate. This relaxing green has so much character that it would be hard not to paint everything this color. I love using this color and only changing the sheen levels in a room.

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Ingredients 2 cup Cooked Pumpkin 1 1/4 cup Sugar 2 eggs 2 tsp Cinnamon 1 tsp Nutmeg 1 large can Pet Milk 1 tsp Vanilla

Directions • Beat eggs, sugar, spices, milk and vanilla together. Add pumpkin and mix well. • Pour into unbaked pie shell and bake at 400º for 15 minutes, then 350º for 45 minutes.

Pastry 1 cup Flour (plain) 1/2 tsp Salt

1/2 cup Shortening 1/4 - 1/2 cup Ice Water

Mix only to moisten. Roll out on lightly floured surface.

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In the last year, there has been a resurgence in wallpapers. From botanicals to grass cloth, metallics to geometric patterns, homeowners are embracing the wallpapered room.

WALLPAPER: RETURN OF THE PATTERN How time-honored traditions of papering drywall are revolutionizing the modern home BY MICHAEL DEVAULT

IN FOYERS AND DINING ROOMS of the most fashionable homes, from Manhattan to Malibu, trendy homeowners are turning to a venerated art to refresh their homes and stay on the cutting edge of décor. For almost a decade, wallpaper was on the decline, losing ground to slate grays and endless variations of creme and beige, but thanks to some new technologies and a shift toward patterns, wallpaper is staging a comeback. Haven’s Sandy McMillan knows a thing or two about this trend. For the past few seasons, she’s fielded more requests for clients seeking the traditional elegance wallpaper can bring to a room. What started out as a slow trickle just a couple of years ago is now a full-fledged movement. “We’ve definitely seen a resurgence in the last year with wallpaper,” Sandy tells BayouLife. “People are using a lot of metallics and natural papers. And geometrics are just huge.” Whether it’s a paper with Oriental patterns in copper-on-brown or muted, tone-on-tone zigzags, geometric patterns on wallpa-

per are finding their way into the chicest décor. Sandy believes part of the attraction of wallpaper is its ability to dramatically transform small spaces – especially bathrooms and foyers, where small-space accents have been the norm for more than a decade. Now, the style is shifting to bring a touch of the dramatic out of the small spaces and into larger rooms. Accent walls in a dining room or living room lend a sense of individuality. And when it comes to picking a pattern, these days it seems the sky’s the limit for almost any budget. “Just recently, we’ve gotten in a lot of books with large-scale botanicals,” Sandy says. “Part of the reason the industry is showcasing some of those more complicated prints is that they can render them digitally now. It’s a lot easier for them to offer different color combinations on a large scale, thanks to digital printing.” Whether you’re looking for large botanical patterns or subtle, traditional grass cloth, it’s all possible. One new development Sandy’s seeing in the books is a unique com-

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bination of grass cloth and patterns printed on them. She says it makes for a great effect. “You can get a tone-on-tone pattern printed on top of the grass cloth, which provides depth and texture,” she says. “You can also get designs printed on silk, too, for a more elegant, luxurious look.” When wallpaper began its decline 10 years ago, Toile and small-pattern florals featuring images like heather, baby’s breath, or lavender flowers were all the rage. Today, that’s definitely not the case. In fact, designers caution against busy patterns that date too quickly. “We always suggest subtle wallpapers because they have a longer life than large-scale botanicals or busier prints,” she says. “That’s just my thought on spending that money and investing the time to put it up – look for something classic, and there are a lot of classic papers out there right now.” If you’re worried you might not be able to afford the latest Gracie hand-painted murals or even the higher-end metallics, Sandy cautions against dismissing wallpaper as out of your price range. In

fact, even a cursory glance at wallpaper prices puts some quality papers well within the price range of a fresh coat or two of quality paints. That’s even more true when you begin to consider the cost of pigments and labor for painters versus a single laborer for a good wallpaper job. No matter your budget, wallpaper is an elegant, stylish and timeless possibility for redoing that taupe bathroom or adding an individual bit of pop to a sleepy guest bedroom. With the nearly endless choices in material, quality, design and color – Sandy says they have more books now than ever before to browse through – you’re sure to find a wallpaper that speaks to your tastes and your budget. “We have a huge variety of different prices in wallpapers,” Sandy says. “Some of the digitally printed papers are more affordable than the others. There are other beautiful textures, too, that are new and unique – glass and silk and motherof-pearl. We even have affordable, rich and beautiful natural textures as well.”

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B AY O U ARTIST

ARTICLE BY APRIL CLARK HONAKER \ PHOTOGRAPHY BY KELLY MOORE CLARK

hen Gary Ratcliff left his hometown of Dallas, Texas, to attend Central College in McPherson, Kansas, the thought of being an artist had never crossed his mind. “The only thing I was good at in school was math,” he said. Gary struggled with dyslexia, which made subjects that involved reading and writing more difficult, but he had always been drawn to things that allowed him to use his hands. In grade school, Gary recalls picking up a chalk rock and carving it with a piece of broken glass. Afterward, he was able to trade the carving for a pen. Although this moment didn’t seem significant then, it was the first time Gary’s creativity had proven its value. Growing up, Gary continued to use his hands to help his family build an addition to their house, and he learned the basics of carpentry from his grandfather. He also enjoyed the shop programs in school, such as plastics shop and power mechanics. As a teenager, Gary continued to build things, including walkie talkies, transistor radios and even a crossbow pistol from a diagram in Popular Mechanics. For a time, Gary thought he might become an engineer, but he continued to struggle with academics, and during his sophomore year, he started to feel lost. He was unsure what to do with his life and felt so discouraged at one point that he wanted to give up on college. In that moment, he asked God to help him find something he was good at, and next semester, God answered his prayer with an introductory painting class that changed his perspective on life. “I took oil painting and fell in love with it,” he said. “I learned art was about design and philosophy, and I threw myself into it.” Given his history with dyslexia, Gary was especially drawn to art’s ability to communicate without words on both conscious and subconscious levels. He loved the painting class so much that he found himself painting for 12-hour stretches on Sunday afternoons. During this time, he started to consider pursuing art more seriously and decided to tell his parents about his newfound passion. Fortunately, they were supportive and asked only that he really think through the decision before committing. So Gary made a list of pros and cons, and in the end, he decided to transfer to Greenville College in Illinois, where he earned his Bachelor of Fine Arts with a focus on painting and ceramics. In his years at Greenville, Gary went from being a novice painter to being selected art student of the year and winning the undergraduate art competition. A pivotal moment came during his junior year. “For my undergraduate show as a junior, I knew I had to come up with a series of paintings my professor couldn’t point to in a magazine,” Gary said. In the search for an original idea, Gary found himself drawn to sidewalks, especially their cracks and the way they become records of the events in their environment. “It made me see the world as a tremendous chain reaction of cause and effect,” he said. “It really opened my eyes to how what I did affected other people and how what they did affected me. I began to see this connection between things and how we all touch each other’s lives.” Just as sidewalks are records of their environment, people are records of their experiences. According to Gary, “There were some really beautiful moments in that discovery.” In one of those moments, Gary found himself watching three men as a jackhammer broke up concrete nearby. As he processed the scene, the jackhammer’s approach became a metaphor for death. It was a moment of realization and acceptance of mortality for him.

GARY R AT C L I F F

Ratcliff is a potter, painter and professor who has spent a career teaching others his craft. Now retired, Gary looks to nature to inspire him and hopes to produce work that is uplifting and positive.

As he prepared to create his first series of paintings inspired by these meditations, Gary realized that even the smallest moments touch and shape us. Looking at our relationships to one another and our environment, as well as our relationship to time, Gary said, “It makes all of our activity more valuable and more important. Our daily activities leave a mark.” In pop culture, this concept was famously illustrated in the 2004 movie The Butterfly Effect, in which Evan Treborn (Ashton Kutcher) travels back in time to prevent several traumatic events only to discover that the slightest change to the past could have dramatic consequences on the present. Gary’s earliest paintings and his newest works reflect this interconnectedness. According to Gary, the process of creating art reflects it as well. A single brush stroke or the slightest movement on the wheel can change everything. Completing his junior-year painting series changed Gary’s life, and afterward, he continued to define himself as an artist. Aesthetically, his work is very textural, both visually and tactilely. Although the meaning of his work goes beyond the surface, Gary has always been drawn to surfaces and textures. “It’s just part of who I am,” he said. During his senior year, Gary added another type of art to his repertoire. While passing through the halls of the art building, he caught a glimpse of one of the ceramics professors demonstrating on the wheel and he stood in the doorway mesmerized. The next semester he decided to take that class and said, “I found that clay was the perfect material for me because with clay I got to be the artist and the technician.” According to Gary, making ceramics requires a bit engineering, chemistry and physics in addition to creativity. Wheel throwing also brought Gary back to the hands-on projects he’d done as a kid and presented a new challenge. “If I was going to work with clay,” he said, “I needed to find something not done in the last 6,000 years.” Creating truly original work is always a challenge, but it’s one artists continually face. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | OCTOBER 2017 47

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ary was able to find ways to make his work distinctive while continuing to emphasize surface and texture. For Gary, creating unique work is one of the many problems artists must solve. Figuring out what message to communicate and how best to communicate it are other problems. According to Gary, “Art is a problem that is never quite fully solved.” Fortunately, Gary likes solving problems and said, “There’s excitement in it.” When a problem can’t be solved in the first attempt, it may take several tries, but Gary said, “Art teaches you to risk and take chances.” If something doesn’t work, you try something else. “Without the struggle,” he said, “it doesn’t mean as much.” And once you solve the problem, you always find a new one, which keeps things interesting. Because artists are often taught to work in series, when they solve a problem and create something they’re proud of, they must then ask the question, “How many different ways can I do this?” Gary said he likes to think of the way God approached creation when dealing with this question. “In the beginning, God created, and his creations reflect his identity,” Gary said. “Things I create reflect my identity.” God also created everything in series, so we have all kinds of fish, birds, trees, and people. As a child of God, Gary said, “I’m programmed to find different solutions to problems. I think it goes back to being dyslexic and trying to find a different way to say something. It’s part of my nature to be a little different in some ways.” In addition to approaching artistic problems in unique ways, Gary has always focused on honing his skills. As a student, he felt encouraged after reading bios of famous artists who produced their best works later in life. “I liked the idea that I could get better at it,” he said, “and the pots I make now are better than the ones I made 20 years ago.” Over the years, he has emphasized craftsmanship and pushed himself to improve, but a lot of special people and opportunities have helped him grow as an artist. 48 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Shortly after Gary first discovered his love of ceramics, he was offered a life-changing opportunity from Nelson Yoder, one of his pottery professors at Greenville. Yoder invited Gary to help him open an arts and crafts store in an old sportsmen’s hotel in northern Michigan. The opportunity required that Gary help with the labor, and in exchange, he was able to practice throwing pots on a daily basis. During that summer, Gary learned rapidly and improved his craft immensely. He was also able to travel all over Michigan selling his work at various festivals. He said, “It made me realize I could sit and make money every day and enjoy doing it.” After that summer, Gary returned to Texas and worked as a dot etcher performing color corrections for a business specializing in offset lithography. He worked 60 hours a week and was on call seven days a week, but he was able to add his earnings to the savings he’d started in Michigan. Soon, he was able to attend graduate school at East Texas State University (now Texas A&M, Commerce) and earn his Master of Fine Arts. While in school, Gary also continued to sell his pottery. With these earnings, his savings, an assistantship, and a scholarship, he was able to finish his degree with very little debt. After graduating in 1977, Gary secured a position at the University of Louisiana in Monroe. Although he and his wife Sharon had initially planned to remain in Monroe for only a few years, it quickly became home, and after 39 years of teaching ceramics at ULM, Gary retired last year with professor emeritus status. He said, “I feel really blessed that I had a career all those years doing something I love doing.” Although he’s officially retired from teaching, he certainly hasn’t retired as an artist. He continues to use the ceramics studio at ULM and has a home studio in the works. In the last year, Gary has also returned to painting for the first time since 1970. He attributes the decision in part to the encouragement of Jared Stokes, curator of The Palace Gallery, where his work will be on exhibition during the October Downtown Gallery Crawl. Gary said he’s energized by spending time alone creating art, so he plans to keep moving and producing for as long as he can. Of course, one of the best perks of this alone time is that it gives him something to share with others, which has always been important to him. “I hope they enjoy it,” he said. “I think that’s really the whole purpose—to bring peace and comfort, to do what beauty does.” Gary looks to nature and the things around him for inspiration and tries to reproduce the beauty he sees there. “Things I perceive as beautiful are good, positive and truthful,” he said. “I think beauty has a role to play in bringing peace to our lives. We all have enough struggles and trials. We need something uplifting, positive, comforting.” Gary hopes others can look at his work in the same way they might look at nature’s wonders and find some peace or comfort there.

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SEASONAL SOFAS

The latest trend in comfy couches is as individual as the buyer – with a lot of movement BY MICHAEL DEVAULT

SPEND JUST A FEW MINUTES just a few minutes in a furniture store shopping for a new sofa, and chances are you’ll find a dozen different styles from a dozen different schools of design. It’s no secret that tastes in sofas, loveseats and couches have been shifting for a while, but as Sleepy Hollow Furniture’s Jo Tiffany Faulk explains, there’s a lot going on in the world of our favorite napping spots. The biggest trend she’s seeing are sofas and loveseats that rock or recline. It seems buyers are in love with kicking back in front of their TVs with their feet up. “Motion sofas are coming in strong to the market,” Jo Tiffany says. Once the domain of the Man Cave or the kids’ den, a sofa with built-in recliners is becoming a mainstay in even the most formal living room settings. “People want sofas and loveseats that recline. They want that extra comfort.” As far as styles go, the reclining sofa is pretty much the

only trend that’s easily definable. Swaybacks, tufted Chesterfields, Mid-Century inspired box sofas, and even wood trimmed and riveted sofas are all staking corners of the market. Jo Tiffany credits much of the move to an individualized sofa to websites like Pinterest and shows on DIY Network and HGTV. “People get their own inspirations from these sources that they then want to see in their homes,” she says. “So when they come shopping for a sofa, they’re looking for something that matches their vision.” One of the big positives of the move toward an individualized style is an end to the biggest trend of the last decade: the throwaway sofa. For the last few years, consumers have purchased less expensive sofas in more trendy styles with an eye to tossing them to the curb after a few years. That’s beginning to change. “People are picking sofas and other larger furniture pieces for a more timeless look, and they’re

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picking longer lasting pieces,” Jo Tiffany says. “Now, instead of changing the sofa or the loveseat, they’re swapping out accents. The color palettes are changing so often that’s a better way for them to keep up.” On a style front, Jo Tiffany says it’s impossible to point to this look or that upholstery choice and label it the “in” look. Instead, she says the push for individuality means customers are picking a wide variety of modern and traditional styles, upholstery and colors. For folks like Jo Tiffany and her team at Sleepy Hollow, that means spending time getting to know the customer, their needs, and how their new sofa fits into their home. “We ask the questions that help people customize a new sofa based on their home, their uses, their style,” she says. Children, entertaining, even small animal safety can come into play. “If they have a small dog or small cat, they may choose to have the cush-

ions attached to the back, so that the pet doesn’t slip in between the cushion and the seat frame.” Durable upholsteries and leather are still going strong, and that fits with the overall sofa market as it transitions back to long-term investments for active households. Sofas, after all, are one of the most used – and abused – pieces of furniture in a home. So buying quality makes sense both from a design and an economic point of view. Meanwhile, there’s one other interesting transformation taking place in the sofa buyer market. Buyers are becoming seasonal.“There are very specific times that we sell traditional sofas one after the other,” Jo Tiffany says. “Then, you’ll switch to a different season of the year and everyone wants sectionals. All of this has happened in one year. It just confirms that people really are starting to see what their own style is and then making their choices.”

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TRENDY TEXTILES

Smart fabric choices can change your décor – and how you live in it BY MICHAEL DEVAULT

TRANSFORMING A HOME CAN be a chore, but with just a little effort, and a little attention to detail, you can breathe new life into even the most tired décor with new fabric choices. Throw pillows, draperies, upholstery and bedding are the canvas – sometimes, quite literally, as Holly Richard tells it – upon which we cast our individual tastes. At Fabulous Fabrics, 2017 has been an exciting year. Like so many other areas of design and décor, trends are on the move at Fabulous Fabrics, where discerning designers and homemakers go for the latest in quality fabric and textile products. One emerging trend that has Holly and her team excited is the return of bold colors. “Color is coming back in a big way,” she says. “But it’s coming back in a subtle way, too. Neutral bases are getting splashes of color in various patterns. And pillows and smaller upholstered pieces are also trending towards color, as well.” Oranges, reds, blues, teal, and even indigo are all popular selections in current home accessories. That’s translating to some exciting and unique choices in draperies

and upholstery, in particular. Holly says one thing that’s emerged is an innovative move in draperies that’s bringing just a pop of color to drab décor. “What we’re starting to see is a standard, three-pleat drape in a nice, tone-on-tone pattern or even a solid color, but trimmed out with a tape trim on the leading edge,” she says. The result is even plain fabrics become bold, statement pieces. When it comes to upholstery, patterns are one thing. The material itself is another animal all together – and our beasts, be they our pets or our children, are driving one of the hottest trends in upholstered furniture. Holly explains. “Young couples are coming in and searching for high performance fabrics,” she says. “They want the light colors, the solids and the subtle patterns. But they also have shied away from them in the past because they have kids or pets.” Now, thanks to a new class of durable, washable fabric choices, they can have that trendy white sofa and kids and dogs at the same time. She’s even been sending lots of samples out of the store for testing purposes. “They’ll come in, get samples in colors and pat-

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terns they like, and then take them home and do stain and durability tests,” she says with a laugh. The goal: a trendy furniture piece that can live up to the demands of the contemporary family, be they mud, food spills, or unruly pets. “Performance fabrics are all the rage right now.” Adding that special splash of color or individuality to the décor is relying more now than ever on pillows. Gads and gads of pillows, piled in corners, filling sofas, overflowing bedding. “People love pillows, colorful, patterned pillows,” Holly says. “It used to be they’d want a couple of accent pillows on a sofa. Now, my customers are looking to fill up that sofa or loveseat with pillows, and they’re loving color.” Colors and patterns are trending more toward the Hollywood Regency patterns – strong geometrics and stripes – over traditional paisley and florals, though Holly points out that paisleys and florals are quite traditional and never really out of style. Another touch of glitz from the Hollywood Regency trend is metallic elements in fabrics.

Holly says customers are flocking to fabrics with a metallic sheen, whether it’s thanks to an individual thread or two of silver or gold or full-on shimmer fabrics with gold applications over the whole of the fabric’s face. That’s especially true of draperies, which Holly says are increasingly moving toward metallic fabrics. Speaking of upholstery, one reemerging trend Holly has noticed over the past year has been a resurgence in upholstered headboards. She and her team have seen sleek, squared headboards, curvy headboards, Chesterfield and tufted, and dimpled headboards alike. “Upholstered headboards are raging right now,” Holly says. “People are looking for neutral, long-term styles with a touch of custom – nail heads or cording. But they’re really into upholstered headboards.” No matter the textile application, there’s a pattern and a color fit for your décor. And as the trend toward geometrics and colors continues, Holly says the selection of fabrics is continuing to evolve.

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GETTING SET FOR THE HOLIDAYS Transitioning your home between festivities doesn’t have to break the bank BY MICHAEL DEVAULT

WITH THE HOLIDAYS JUST around the corner, it’s never too soon to start planning for holiday decorations. Already, some major retailers are stocking their Christmas aisles, but with Halloween and Thanksgiving on deck first, chances are you’re looking at a hectic few months. Material Things owner Joyce Simms knows a thing or two about holiday decorating, and she has a few tips to help you get ready for the holidays, set a home that’s inviting and warm, and save a few bucks in the process. That starts with taking stock of what you have around your house already. “Shopping your home is a good first step, because when we move things, very often it’s like we get a whole new house out of it,” Joyce tells BayouLife. Whether it’s repositioning art to better accentuate the colors you’ve chosen for the season or moving a sofa to make room for a Christmas tree, you have to be thoughtful about how you rearrange your space. “For instance, I just ordered two new chairs for my

house, and one of them has to go in the spot I put my Christmas tree. I don’t know what I’ll do because it’s not going to be something that’s easy to move.” By considering her options, Joyce knows she’ll be able to accommodate her Christmas tree and the chairs, and at the same time put her home in the holiday spirit. It can be challenging, but there are minor changes you can make to help you accomplish your goals. Joyce suggests considering a return to practices from before we enjoyed the comforts of central heating. “People used to put down rugs when the seasons turned cooler, change the drapes to heavier drapes, and break out the thicker bedding,” she says. “Some people still do that, but even if you don’t, you can borrow from the practice. Put out pillows and throws with a warmer feel and deeper colors that are seasonal.” Another time-tested practice that helps achieve warmth in the cold winter months: bring in greenery from the outdoors. Evergreens,

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leafy plants, and other outdoor elements lend a sense of life to the colder months. Just a simple garland runner on a dining table can make all the difference in a dining room. And when it comes time to set the table, Joyce recommends a change there, as well. While you don’t have to have a set of Christmas dishes emblazoned with trees, there are subtler choices that can stand out. “Choosing a warmer pattern for the fall and winter over the typically cooler patterns of spring and summer really alters the mood of a meal,” she says. “So does swapping out the scents in your candles to heavier, warmer scented candles.” Decorating for the holidays is all about creating an ambiance – warm lighting, deep rich colors, and a hearty aroma are all just elements in the tapestry you’re creating for your family and guests. The holidays also provide a great time to update your décor to get ahead of the latest trends. This year at market, Joyce saw

fabrics trending toward African and Indian-inspired motifs – both of which are great fits for winter. Adding them now puts your home ahead of the trend as more products arrive in stores. Joyce’s advice for holiday home transformations doesn’t just include a list of what you should do. She also has a tip for something you shouldn’t do. Don’t overdo the flash and glam effects. “You can go overboard with flashy and glitzy glitter elements,” she says. “Less glitter is almost always better. So use it sparingly.” There’s nothing wrong with adding a twinkle to the tree or even a sheen to your dining table. But stop short of turning your house into a sea of sparkles, and you’ll enjoy the space even more. That’s what holiday transformations are all about, Joyce points out. “If it’s what you truly like, and if you truly love it, then it’s going to look great,” she says. “You just need to stay true to what you love and enjoy. Don’t worry about what everyone else does.”

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Never Lose Hope LA Oncology is Ready to Help Fight BY DR. SANJAY JOSEPH

CTOBER IS THE MONTH THAT HAS BECOME synonymous with breast cancer. Breast cancer is a disease that does not discriminate based on age, color, race or gender. Instead, it is the disease that we, in the Oncology community, are fighting to find a cure for at all stages. The solidarity shown for survivors and fighters during the month of October is awe-inspiring. But, that show of strength should not be kept solely for the month of October. We should continue this push for answers and cures year round regardless of cancer type. No person’s diagnosis is just represented by a color. It is represented by the fight, the struggle, the grit, and the tenacity that all cancer patients and their caretakers must have. Dr. Gallagher and I are honored to work in a community that rallies around cancer patients. This area displays amazing acts of kindness every day for our cancer patients, such as raising money, doing meal trains, and most importantly, praying for their overall well-being. We witness so much love on so many occasions. The cancer world needs more communities like Monroe, West Monroe and our surrounding areas to encourage other communities to step up their game and rally around their fellow cancer patients not just when called upon. The statistics for breast cancer patients are more encouraging with every year that goes by. Within the Oncology community, the focus for most breast cancer research currently is for stage 4 and triple negative breast cancer patients, as the cure rate is high for those with breast cancer stage 0 to 3. Dr. Gallagher and I are proud to serve this community six days a week. We have portal access to UAMS, MD Anderson and the Mayo Clinic. This access allows us to give patients treatment right here at home, while allowing patients to access top tertiary centers around the world. Our clinic has many advancements that we look forward to revealing within the coming months. Thank you for supporting us and letting us care for your loved ones. It truly is nothing short of an honor. Dr. Gallagher and I are both humble servants of God. For every patient we have come into contact with, we are grateful to God for putting them in our lives. Also, we are blessed with the most kind and warm staff. Our nurses and staff go above and beyond the call of duty to ensure that patients feel loved and cared for, like we would care for 56 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

our own family members. The nurses and staff have developed relationships with the patients separate from Dr. Gallagher and I, by praying for the patients’ care and motivating them throughout their treatment. This, in addition to great medical care, is truly what an oncology clinic is supposed to be about. Cancer is a diagnosis, but it most definitely does not define the patient. Treatment and incidence rates vary for different types of cancer, and cancer cure rates do tend to be much higher in the earlier stages. At Louisiana Oncology, we want to be where you turn when you are ready to fight cancer. We want to fight cancer with you. To schedule an appointment, please call our office at 318-322-HOPE (4673). My prayers go out to all of you with cancer. Never lose faith. Never lose hope. “The Lord will fight for you; you only need to be still.” Exodus 14:14 Louisiana Oncology, LLC, is a located at the Glenwood Medical Mall in Suite 113. The practice takes pride in caring for patients with cancer and blood disorders. Dr. Joseph founded the practice and opened its doors in 2012. Dr. Gallagher later joined and has been an excellent partner in the practice. The office is unique as it is set up with a physician portal to MD Anderson, and has access to patient records if a patient has gone to MD Anderson for any extent of care even if it was for a second opinion. This gives patients the opportunity to receive the same quality of care from an institution like MD Anderson while staying close to home. Louisiana Oncology follows the National Comprehensive Cancer Network (NCCN) guidelines that have been formulated and updated by cancer experts from the leading institutions in the country. The practice also partners with other physicians in the community to coordinate the radiation treatment and surgery procedures that patients may require. The clinic provides an ambient setting for patients with peaceful artwork, such as photography of some of the best Louisiana has to offer, all in the hopes of providing serenity during treatment.

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Judge Stephens’ Record Earns Broad Support Record of Fairness and Working with Others Gives Him an Advantage

UDGE STEPHENS IS A TOUGH JUDGE but he is always fair. He is an example of how faith and hard work make the impossible possible. He deserves our support.” – Phil Trahan, Ouachita Parish. Whether they are an individual, a business or an attorney, everyone wants to be treated fairly in court. It is a major compliment for Judge Jimbo Stephens to garner equal support from lawyers who practice on opposing sides of legal issues. It is because of Judge Stephens’ experiences in his private practice that he has a philosophy of treating lawyers, their clients and other judges with courtesy and respect which is the way he wanted to be treated when he came before a judge. Judge Stephens’ record of fairness and his broad range of experience have given him an advantage in the campaign for the Second Circuit Court of Appeal. Judge Stephens’ experience has not been limited to one area of the law. His experience includes every area of the law, and he has tried or presided over more than 50 jury trials. As the Chief Judge of the Fifth Judicial District, Judge Stephens’ broad experience makes him the best prepared candidate for the Court of Appeal. This broad experience is important for a judge on the Second Circuit because the court hears and decides cases that include criminal, civil, domestic and injury cases. “We all call an attorney when we have a legal question, so ask an attorney why Judge Stephens is the best legal choice for Court of Appeal.” – James Jones, Ouachita Parish “For the last 20 plus years, I’ve known Jimbo Stephens as a lawyer, a judge and a friend. He has the right experience, work ethic

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and - most importantly - the right temperament to represent Northeast Louisiana on the Court of Appeal.” – Kix Brooks, Brooks and Dunn, North Louisiana native. Judge Stephens’ practice of treating everyone with respect and fairness gives him an advantage as a candidate for the Court of Appeal. “Judge Stephens has a record of working well with others, which is absolutely necessary on the Second Circuit Court of Appeal since panels of judges working together make the decisions.” – Alex Barham, Morehouse Parish Judge Stephens thinks a judge should be independent of party politics, which is why he is registered as an Independent. Stephens’ wife Faith, a Republican, supports his position that a judge should be independent. Judge Stephens upholds the constitution and does not advocate or legislate from the bench. He believes in individual rights, especially our right to bear arms. He has strong law enforcement support because of his record of helping law enforcement protect our families. “Judge Stephens is the law-and-order judge who follows in the footsteps of his father, Judge Sonny Stephens, and his grandfather, Sheriff A. J. Stephens.” – Sheriff Jerry Philley, West Carroll “We need Judge Jimbo Stephens on the Court of Appeal to help law enforcement keep our families safe.” – Sheriff Gary Gilley, Richland Parish. “Judge Stephens has always had our back in helping law enforcement protect our communities.” – Sheriff Kevin Cobb, Franklin Parish. Stephens is a graduate of the LSU Law

Center, with 34 years of legal experience. Jimbo is a member of the Louisiana District Judges Association, Former President of Fifth District Bar Association, Chief Judge of Fifth JDC, Franklin Parish Chamber of Commerce, Winnsboro Masonic Lodge #246, New Hope Lodge #328, Barak Shrine Temple, Experimental Aircraft Association, Aircraft Owners and Pilots Association, NRA, National Wild Turkey Federation and other organizations. Jimbo and his wife, Faith, have three children and three grandchildren, with a fourth grandchild on the way. Jimbo and Faith attend St. Mary’s Church. Faith and Jimbo live on their farm and continue the fifth generation of family farming. This year they have planted corn and soy beans and had excellent harvest yields. “Jimbo lost his right hand in an accident when he was 11 years old, but that did not stop him from becoming a rodeo competitor, an airplane pilot, a fifth-generation family farmer and a judge.” – Buckshot Sims, Franklin Parish. Jimbo attributes his success in overcoming obstacles to his family, his faith and hard work. He wants his grandchildren to learn the importance of hard work and family values. This Second Circuit Court of Appeal race is to fill the seat held by Judge Larry Lolly. This division of the Second Circuit is comprised of part of Ouachita, Morehouse and West Carroll Parishes and all of Richland and Franklin Parishes.

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Affinity Health Group Celebrating Over a Decade of Quality Care

N OCTOBER 2007, AFFINITY HEALTH group, l.l.c., a wholly-owned subsidiary of Vantage Heath Plan (Vantage), was formed as a group medical practice. The physicians of Affinity have combined their resources to provide patients enhanced access to quality healthcare. A group practice also gives doctors access to the latest developments in healthcare technology and education. What started out as a small group of physicians who wanted to improve care and help lower healthcare costs is now one of the largest group medical practices in the area.

GROWTH AND DEVELOPMENT: Affinity’s most recent growth was made possible by renovating existing historic properties as well as constructing and opening new offices. Affinity opened the Affinity Corporate Annex building in October 2014 after a complete rennovation. The building, formerly Advantage Staffing, which once housed the Sears and Roebuck store, is located at 328 DeSiard Street. It dates back to the early 1920s. The newly remodeled Affinity Health Management Center (HMC) opened in 2015. The 12,000 square foot facility is located at 1325 Louisville Ave., Monroe. Affinity welcomed new physicians in a variety of specialized areas. This included the celebrated return of northeast Louisiana’s newest Otolaryngologist, Dr. Joel Norris, as well as the recruiting of Drs. Stephen Houseworth and Clemens Soeller, Orthopedic Surgeons, and Dr. Alvaro Manrique, Cardiologist and Electrophysiologist, and Dr. Patrick Smith, General Surgeon. In summer of 2017, Affinity opened its second full-service pharmacy, Affinity Pharmacy at Oliver Road. The pharmacy is 60 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

located at 920 Oliver Road in Monroe and hours of operation are Monday through Friday from 7 a.m. to 6 p.m. QUALITY CARE AND TECHNOLOGY: Affinity has eight clinics that are designated Vantage Case Management Clinics (CMCs). All other Affinity clinics can refer patients to the CMCs when they need specialized services such as wound care, clinical pharmacy services, nutritional advice, diabetic education, diabetic foot care or tobacco cessation. Electronic Medical Records connect all Affinity offices. The electronic medical records allow the medical staff to conveniently access the patients’ medical records so they can provide immediate and comprehensive care. This helps reduce waiting periods and duplicated paperwork. Medical histories are updated after each visit to ensure the patients’ complete medical records are always available. E-Scribe (electronic prescription services) allows all physicians to send patient prescriptions electronically to most pharmacies. Medications are made available to patients quickly and with less hassle through E-Scribe. In March, Affinity celebrated the completion and opening of the Affinity Specialty Building at Broadmoor, located at 2516 Broadmoor Boulevard in Monroe. This new three-story facility is divided into 15 medical suites with more than 100 medical professionals. In addition to medical offices, the Affinity Specialty Building also houses on-site CT scan and X-ray, a nuclear medicine suite, cardiac stress test machine, a clinical laboratory, administration offices, three conference rooms, outside courtyard

and balcony space, and two boardrooms. Specialties housed within the Affinity Specialty Building include Cardiology, ENT, General Surgery, Orthopedics, and Urology. PROOF OF EXCELLENCE: By 2017, 15 of Affinity’s medical offices earned Level III recognition (highest ranking) by National Committee for Quality Assurance (NCQA). These recognitions honor those practices that help create a promising model of healthcare that aims to improve the quality and efficiency of care and promote partnerships between the patients and their physicians. NCQA also acknowledges nontraditional clinics that provide outpatient health consultation or treatment of an acute/ episodic illness. Practices which meet the standards demonstrate they have established connections to information, patients and other providers that allow them to: • Know and use patient histories • Follow up with patients and providers • Manage patient populations and use evidence-based care • Employ electronic tools to prevent medical errors Affinity providers and their staff serve 22 clinics in north Louisiana. Affinity employs more than 500 medical and administrative professionals. At Affinity Health Group, our mission is to proactively seek opportunities to improve the quality of healthcare while balancing the cost of that care. Affinity is committed to service, patient satisfaction, healthy solutions and overall wellness of patients. For more information about Affinity Health Group, visit www.myaffinityhealth.com or call 318-807-7875.

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Marsala Beverage Find the Perfect Brew for Your Fall Celebration CORONA Good friends. Good times. Good cerveza. When you bring the three together, unforgettable moments and unbeatable experiences are bound to happen. Corona embodies that carefree state of mind you find when you’re truly living in the moment. With ice-cold Corona in your cooler and good company by your side, your beach is never far away. Since it first hit the United States in 1981, Corona Extra has become the fastest-growing imported beer in the country’s history. Brewed and bottled in Mexico since 1925, Corona Extra is now the No. 1-selling imported beer and No. 5-selling beer overall in the U.S. In 1989, Corona Light made its U.S. debut, quickly making a name for itself and growing to become the No. 1-selling imported light beer in the country. Today, Corona Light is the Light Cerveza—a full-flavored imported lager with only 99 calories. Corona embraces the expression of “saber vivir”—knowing how to live. That means embodying an aspirational lifestyle that’s lively, social and infectiously fun, without trying too hard to impress or taking things too seriously. Defined by the laid-back image created by Corona consumers in its first few years in the U.S., this cerveza remains dedicated to a positive, carefree state of mind. CORONA EXTRA With a refreshing, smooth taste balanced between heavier European imports and lighter domestic beer, Corona is an even-keeled cerveza with fruity-honey aromas and a touch of malt. The flavor is crisp, clean and well 62 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

balanced between hops and malt, a superior taste profile from superior ingredients—the finest-quality blend of filtered water, malted barley, hops, corn and yeast. CORONA LIGHT Corona Light is a pilsner-style lager with a uniquely refreshing taste—brewed for outstanding light flavor with a crisp, clean finish. Its pleasant, fruity-honey aroma and distinctive hop flavor make it a favorite of those seeking a light beer that’s full of flavor. Corona Light’s naturally easy-drinking style makes it perfect for pairing with spicy and citrus-infused dishes. NEGRA MODELO When it comes to all the different ways we celebrate Latino culture through food and drink, Modelo Negra’s rich, smooth taste is the perfect way to enhance the flavors. See how Masterchef Rick Bayless uses Modelo Negra to give timeless Mexican recipes a modern spin. MODELO ESPECIAL Well-balanced taste and light hop character with a crisp, clean finish. Modelo Especial is characterized by an orange blossom honey aroma with a hint of herb. Modelo Especial is a beer born with the Fighting Spirit. It’s brewed with time, effort, and determination to create the model Mexican lager. Everyone knows that hard work deserves a fitting reward – a Pilsner-style Lager with a clean, crisp taste VICTORIA Victoria, a pilsener-vienna type beer, is the most traditional of Modelo´s brand

portfolio. Unique for its bitterness and strong flavor which instantly pleases even the most demanding consumer. With more than 135 years of excellence, Victoria is one of the oldest beers produced in Mexico. PACIFICO In 1900, three German brewers established Cervecería del Pacifico in the small Mexican port town of Mazatlán. Word of the exceptionally drinkable pilsner-style lager traveled fast. Soon, thirst for Pacifico spread from Sinaloa and up the rugged Baja coastline. Fast forward to the early 1970s. A group of California surfers ventured south in their van to explore the breaks along the coast. Eventually they found themselves in Baja, where they also discovered hidden surf spots, friendly cantinas, and a beloved local beer called Pacifico. Excited by their find, the story goes, the wandering surfers loaded up a few cases of the rich golden lager into their van and returned north, becoming the first importers of Pacifico. Back in Southern California, the Baja-born cerveza gained a passionate following among surfers who journeyed south for the breaks, and returned with a beer well worth the trip. Today, our journey from tiny cantinas in Baja, to SoCal in the back of surf vans, to places off the beaten path has made Pacifico a symbol of discovery and the perfect way to celebrate it. Now, it’s your turn. Go explore, because where the map ends is where adventure begins.

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Holidays in CedarTown

Celebrating 28 Years as North Louisiana’s Premier Holiday Shopping Market!

OLIDAYS IN CEDARTOWN WILL OPEN WITH THE Holiday Brunch Blitz on Thursday, November 9th from 10 a.m. till noon at the Ruston Civic Center. Guests will visit a variety of brunch stations hosted by area chefs and restaurants as they enjoy exclusive early shopping. The Brunch Blitz includes live entertainment, cooking demonstrations and tasty brunch bites and beverages provided by Campatori Catering with Chef John Shirley, Crumbs Catering with Chefs Jodie Bimle Morphew and Olivia Stinson, Devine Wines and Spirits, La Bamba Authentic Mexican Restaurant, Parish Press, Ponchatoula’s, Newk’s Eatery and Uptown Downtown with Morgan Garrison. Brunch is sure to please the palette and will be served from 10 till noon. Brunch tickets are $15 and must be purchased in advance as there is a limited number available. This is the perfect way to begin the holiday season and get a head start on your shopping while enjoying live music and holiday demonstrations. The bonus for Brunch Blitz guests is private shopping before Holidays in CedarTown opens to the public on Thursday, November 9th, from 12 p.m. to 6 p.m. Avoid the stress of last-minute shopping with one-stop shopping that includes an abundance of unique merchants from across the Southeast. Holidays after Hours is Thursday evening from 6 to 8:30 p.m., featuring complimentary appetizers from Beau Vines, BBQ West, Ben Christmas Catering, Iron Cactus, Social Bites, Portico, Roma Italian Bistro and The Keg Package and Cork Room. The evening will also include live music provided by DJ D-Smooth, holiday demonstrations and door prizes. Holidays After Hours is the perfect place to check off that shopping list while enjoying an evening of entertainment and a sampling of fabulous food. Admission is $10 and tickets may be purchased in advance with a limited number available at the door the night of the event. Whether you are shopping for a weekend chef, your mother-inlaw, the men on your list, your child’s teacher or neighbor you are sure to find the perfect gifts all in one place. From fashion items to home decor, personalized items to toys and books, cowboy boots to specialty foods, handcrafted jewelry to outdoor living, your choices are limitless. Holidays in CedarTown is truly North Louisiana’s premier holiday shopping market! Our goal is providing our shoppers a unique experience and exceptional shopping. You will be able to enjoy

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the Holiday Brunch Blitz on Thursday morning featuring area chefs and restaurants, join us for Holidays after Hours on Thursday evening for live music and amazing appetizers, and shop Friday and Saturday from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. You will find exceptional gifts while you enjoy three wonderful days of shopping. There’s no shopping like Holidays in CedarTown shopping! Of course, you will want to bring your little ones out Saturday for two very special children’s holiday events. Jingles and Jammies is Saturday morning at 10 a.m. and 11 a.m. and features The Night Before Christmas story time along with breakfast and pictures with Santa. Saturday afternoon features Holiday Crafts and Treats from 2 till 4 p.m. where each child will complete a Christmas craft provided by the North Central Louisiana Arts Council and enjoy a treat. Admission is $5 and may be paid in advance or at the door. As is the tradition at Holidays in CedarTown we are once again inviting all area educators to join us with complimentary admission Saturday, simply present your employee ID at the ticket booth when you arrive. Just our way of saying thank you for your commitment and dedication to the children in our community. To show our support for the Louisiana Tech Bulldogs as they match up against Florida Atlantic on Saturday afternoon, all Tech fans wearing their Tech spirit wear will receive free general admission Friday from noon till 5 p.m. and Saturday from 10 a.m. till game time! Visit Holidays in CedarTown and it may just be your lucky day! Make sure you purchase a ticket for the iPad and Apple Watch Raffle; tickets are $5 each or three for $10 and the winner receives both items. Tickets may be purchased in advance or at the three-day event. Who wouldn’t be delighted to find both items under the tree. SPECIAL EVENTS Thursday, November 9th Holiday Brunch Blitz from 10 a.m. till noon Complimentary Brunch Bites and Beverages, Live Music ~ Cooking Demonstrations ~ Door Prizes. Exclusive shopping avoiding the hustle and bustle of the crowd. Tickets $15 Holidays After Hours from 6 to 8:30 p.m. Complimentary Appetizers & Beverages ~ Live Music ~ Door Prizes. Admission: $10 CONTINUED ON PAGE 118

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CL U T T E R WHAT IS IT COSTING YOU? by Erin Sharplin Love erinlove@panachebyerin.com

id I get your attention? The thought of losing money definitely gets my attention, and it should get yours, too. Clutter can sneak up on us and begin accumulating without much warning. One second a countertop can have only a couple of stacks of mail on it, and the next we can barely even see the countertop. One second the pantry is manageable, and the next it is a jumbled mess. I could go on and on, but you get the point. Clutter is sneaky, but did you realize it was COSTING you? I’m not just talking about monetary expense. For clarification, see below. The No. 1 way that clutter is costing you is a financial one. Which of these situations below sound familiar to you? • You eat out a lot because a home-cooked meal sounds too daunting. Cooking healthy meals for you and your family would be easy and stress-free if kitchen space were organized and user-friendly. Obviously, eating out costs more money than eating in. • You have to rent a storage building to store the items that will not fit into your home. Are you holding onto items that you can’t utilize? Why?? Your possessions should serve you, either by function or with emotional value. If something isn’t serving you, give it to someone to whom it will be of use. Renting a storage building costs extra money each month! • You bought a gift for someone, but you forgot or couldn’t find it when the time came, so you had to go out and purchase another one. This happens so frequently with my clients! It never fails … We begin the sorting and purging process, and I hear the client exclaim, “I wondered where that went!” • You frequently pay late fees because you forgot about or lost the bill. If you had a proper system for incoming and outgoing mail, this would never happen. How much money have you wasted on late fees? • You know that you have a can of tomato paste, for instance, but your pantry is in such a state that you don’t feel like digging for it. You go ahead and buy another can. Don’t further clutter your kitchen or pantry by purchasing duplicate items. Better yet, come up with some clever recipes and use most of what is in your pantry before purchasing more. I have different sections in my pantry and wait 68 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

until the section is empty before shopping for more. Planning meals ahead of time will also cut down on wasting money as well as food. • You have a closet full of clothing but nothing to wear, so you purchase a new outfit for the upcoming party. Unfortunately, this is a big issue for us women! We have a “ton” of clothes, but our closets are in such a mess that we have no idea what is actually in there. What a waste! I could mention so many more situations where clutter can cost you financially but I am going to move on to the ways that clutter costs you in time. • You are frequently late because you couldn’t find your keys (or purse, or wallet). If you don’t have a designated place to lay your keys upon entering, I recommend you create one now! This will save you time in the future and will have you arriving early for a change! • Tax season is upon you and now you are searching for all of the appropriate receipts. Take a little time now to save a lot of time later. File as you go instead of all at once or not at all. • Your boss has asked you for the notes from the most recent meeting, but they are buried under all of the incoming mail and other papers. Here goes the frantic, time-wasting, mad dash to find the notes! Not only does this look bad to your boss, it is also a huge waste of your valuable time. An organized desk leads to business success. • You are trying to get dressed for work, but you can’t find the match to the shoes you want to wear. It is amongst many others that have been tossed onto the floor. Not only is this a waste of time, it is also a potential waste of money, too. Not taking proper care of your shoes will increase the likelihood that you will need a new pair sooner rather than later. The above situations can cost money and time, but they can also increase the stress that is currently in your life. So, with that said, not only does clutter cost money and time, it can also cost you your health. What more encouragement do you need to finally get organized? If you have questions, I am here to answer them! Please contact me at erinlove@panachebyerin.com.

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article by Kenny Covington

FISHING

With Kenny

Catching Bass in Falling Fall Water

ake drawdowns are nothing new anymore. It seems each year more and more of our local waters are being lowered for one reason or another and while it does serve its purpose, it can make fishing for bass tougher than it usually is during autumn. In this month’s column we are going to discuss where the bass go once the days get shorter and the water starts to fall. There are two things to remember about fall-season bass, regardless of where you are fishing; bass will be baitfish and, for the most part, bottom contour oriented. A body of water’s level doesn’t change this. Less water in a lake can actually make the process of finding fish much easier. It isn’t uncommon for our lakes to be lowered as much as five or six feet during the fall/winter months and this can be intimidating when looking at what appears to be a brand new lake to fish. The areas we have always fished are often dry land and you are faced with a new set of issues when it comes to solving the puzzle of finding fish. Instead of fishing the back end of a cove, you now may have to focus on the smaller points leading into these coves that are now dry land. Fishing shallower flats is still a viable option but you will need to focus on areas out in front of the coves you would have fished with normal lake levels. The idea is to view the lake as you would if it were at normal pool stage, but it will require being more open minded and using a bit of imagination. As we mentioned earlier, another thing we want to do is focus on the shad schools. As the days get longer and the nights begin to

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cool down, baitfish will group into large schools and begin migrating to the backs of major creeks and coves. As the old saying goes, “If you find the baitfish, you will find the bass.” In the fall of the year, this is never truer. While following this migration be aware of the water depths in which you are fishing. A subtle bottom change is all that is needed to hold a school of bass this time of year. The bass have one thing in mind and that is to eat, and the presence of baitfish simply puts the odds in your favor. Often, a 3-foot flat can have all the perfect ingredients, good cover as well as a structure change such as a small drop off, but the lack of baitfish will be determine if you have success in this particular area. Some other things to consider when fishing the fall drawdowns is the presence of aquatic vegetation such as coontail moss or milfoil. Areas with these types of healthy grass are bass magnets! The edges of lily pad fields can be good because the depth change found on the edge of them. Channel edges can be spectacular but can also be spotty if there is an overabundance of boat traffic on a particular lake. So now we are out on the lake and we have an idea what we are looking for, what lures or techniques should we try? One of the key things to remember during this time of year is to cover water until you locate actively feeding fish. My choice for search lures is quite simple. Early in the fall I like a ¼ chrome/blue Rat L Trap, a ½ double willow leaf bladed spinnerbait, a Spook, a Pop R and a Square billed crankbait. If I am fishing stained to clear water, I will use shad patterns 90 percent of the time. With these five lures I can effectively cover the water column from the surface to depths of at least six feet. Once active fish are located then you can slow down with more precise lures and pick an area apart. A Texas rigged senko, a 3/8 ounce finesse jig, a Texas rigged Zoom Baby Brush Hog and a Carolina rig will catch just about any fish that hasn’t fallen for the aforementioned search lures. Color preferences are usually that of the fishermen but shades of watermelon or purple seem to work regardless of the water you are fishing. A quick tip: don’t overlook dying the tips of your soft plastics in chartreuse. Often times the slight color change makes all the difference in the world when it comes to catching a few extra fish. As you can see there are endless possibilities when it comes to fishing a lake that has been taken well below its normal level. I have heard anglers refer to fishing lakes under draw-down conditions as “shooting fish in a barrel” and this does carry some concerns. We have to do a better job controlling our resources and making sure we don’t do more harm than good when it comes to keeping fish. The issue isn’t keeping enough fish for a good fish fry. The issue is keeping way more than he allotted limit and consistently doing so. This is no way to keep a fishery in good condition once the water levels return to normal. Wow, it looks like we have run out of space again for another month! I do hope we have passed along some information that will help you put more fish in the boat this fall. Please be careful out in the woods and on the water! Catch one for me and I will see you next month.

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A. ALDEN’S MEMO Atlanta and Dallas based fashion sales representative for Reeves & Company, Analeise Thomas, shares the top home décor trends according to Pinterest.

Top Home Trends

his month I wanted to share with you some trends that are happening in the home space. Many of you know all about Pinterest but for those of you who don’t, it is a free website where users can upload, save, sort and manage images, mostly pertaining to fashion, food and home décor. It’s an amazing resource for party ideas, outfit inspiration and home décor design all right at your fingertips. I’ve scoured Pinterest for the top home trends for Fall 2017. Some were practical and applicable; others were not. These were my favorites.

BUTTERFLIES

PRINTED DINNERWARE

Bring fantasy indoors with elegantly appointed butterfly wallpaper and home décor.

From modern prints to traditional patterns, dinnerware can be a focal point in fall and holiday table settings. Choose a print and build the table décor around it.

BLUSH

Though fall is usually associated with deep hues of red and oranges, This season we seeing a lot of blush. Embrace this ladylike hue with accent pieces of bold furniture choices.

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GREENERY

During colder months, bring in greenery from the outdoors. Leafy plants and other outdoor elements lend life during these seasons.

Advanced Dermatology Care Dr. Loretta Gremillion Offers the Best in Medical, Surgical and Cosmetic Dermatology

R. LORETTA GREMILLION, OF Advanced Dermatology Care, is Board Certified by the American Board of Dermatology. She is a native of West Monroe, LA, and is a graduate of West Monroe High School. Dr. Gremillion received her undergraduate degree in pharmacy from the University of Louisiana at Monroe. She attended medical school at Louisiana State University Health Sciences Center in Shreveport and performed her residency training at Louisiana State University Health Sciences Center in New Orleans where she trained in both medical dermatology and cosmetic dermatology. In addition to her residency, she completed a research fellowship at Wayne State University in Detroit, Michigan. Her interests include medical, surgical, and cosmetic dermatology. She has worked in multiple clinical trials, including research in eczema treatment, acne, psoriasis and warts. Dr. Gremillion has attended numerous injectables courses for Botox, Juvéderm, Sculptra, Voluma, Volbella and Kybella. She enjoys and is proficient in performing cosmetic and medical laser dermatology procedures. She has the Sciton, Lightsheer Duet, the Ultrashape and the eTwo-sublative devices. ULTRASHAPE UltraShape, now offered at Advanced Dermatology Care, may be what you’ve been searching for. It is a new, highly effective, painfree, nonsurgical device that may help get rid of that stubborn belly fat that can be so hard to get rid of with only diet and exercise. This state-of-the-art procedure has no side effects, no pain, and virtually no downtime. The rapidly changing pressure waves cause fat cells 74 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

to rupture and release triglycerides which are then eliminated by the body. The treatments do not rely on heat or freezing and the skin treatments give a smooth, contoured result. Typical regimen features three skin treatments spaced two weeks apart. The results are very effective. In clinical studies, patients had a 32 percent fat reduction (versus 24 percent fat reduction from the leading competitor). KYBELLA Do you have some extra fullness beneath your chin? Maybe it’s something you’ve had your whole life, something that developed over the years, or something you noticed recently. This is a condition called submental fullness, which some people refer to as “double chin.” Ladies and gentlemen, meet Kybella. It’s a FDA-approved injection, which contains a naturally occurring molecule that eats away at fat.This injection treats submental fullness. Kybella destroys the fat cells which are then absorbed by the body. Patients may need 2-4 treatments for desired results. After being treated with KYBELLA®, patients in a clinical study reported greater improvement in selfperception than patients treated with placebo, including feeling happier and looking younger based on their chin profile. They also reported feeling less embarrassed, less self-conscious, less overweight and less bothered by the fullness under their chin. ETWO SUBLATIVE SKIN REJUVENATION If you want younger, firmer-looking skin the eTwo laser, developed by Syneron Candela, is designed to produce the fastest results with aggressive yet gentle treatment. The eTwo provides two treatment options: Sublative treatment for resurfacing and the Sublime

treatment for tightening of the skin. The eTwo Sublative treatment permits energy to penetrate the dermis and minimizes damage to the top layer of skin. Other treatments typically overheat this skin layer to force new skin to the surface, resulting in scabs, redness, and irritation. With the eTwo, youthful skin is brought to the surface in a more effective and gentle method. Downtime for this procedure is minimal compared to other sublative treatments. The Sublime eTwo treatment uses fractionated bi-polar radio frequency and infrared light, penetrating through the skin without overheating the top layer. This innovative treatment method allows energy to aggressively penetrate through the deepest layers of skin for ideal skin tightening, while minimizing downtime. ETwo laser treatments for facial rejuvenation typically take 20 to 40 minutes. We recommend three treatments spaced four to six weeks apart to see optimal results. If you’re looking for a less-invasive approach to skin resurfacing and tightening, call Advanced Dermatology Care today and ask about the eTwo laser. Dr. Gremillion and her staff take pride in and strive to provide the best patient skin care in north Louisiana. From medical to cosmetic, laser treatment or surgery, Advanced Dermatology Care can serve all of your skin care needs. Dr. Gremillion is currently taking new patients. Call us today at 318-323-8799 to make an appointment.

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DOWNTOWN GALLERY CRAWL Downtown Gallery Crawl’s 10th Anniversary is Cool!

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ctober 5 is the perfect time to be out and about for an evening’s visit with one’s neighbors and friends while enjoying wonderful art, good food and live music in our lovely historic downtowns. Now may even be a great time to begin holiday shopping! Produced by the Downtown Arts Alliance as well as numerous faithful sponsors, the Downtown Gallery Crawl spans the Ouachita River with eight galleries in downtown Monroe and one in West Monroe. Both resident and guest artists from the area and beyond enjoy sharing their talents with northeast Louisianians of all ages. The event is always free, the only expense incurred if you decide to buy some original art. The Ramble Bus will be on Antique Alley for this Crawl, while more music, food and drink will be scattered among the galleries. Don’t forget to pick up your “passport” and get it stamped at each gallery for a free prize at partner Flying Tiger afterward. In partnership with the Outside Gallery, the Masur Museum (through its Alt-Ex program) will present Social Vices, an outdoor installation by Zach Hannibal. Social Vices deals with how social media affects our relationships and sense of connection with people around us. Hannibal is a graphic designer and illustrator from Ruston. His work can be found on t-shirts, stickers, posters, magazines, and skateboards throughout Northeast Louisiana. Hannibal earned his BFA from Louisiana Tech in 2016. Rick Sikes’ Downtown Gallery presents Tom Richard, who lives and works in Monticello, Arkansas, as a professor of art. With numerous solo exhibitions throughout the area and inclusion in over 100 national juried and invitational exhibitions, his work addresses issues of history and identity through specific historical art references and images of childhood toys. Subjects such as cowboy and Indian figures, superhero dolls, army guys, Peeps, green M&M’s, rubber ducks and king cake baby Jesuses have

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5 been combined with images of chaos theory diagrams, bomb explosions, optical illusions, and organizational theory diagrams. The work is both serious and fun, the intent being to combine grand themes from art with the sometimes playful, sometimes scary, sometimes perplexing images and themes that form individual and communal experience of identity and history. “Open Studio” is the highly descriptive title of October’s Gallery Crawl show in the Big Room, curated by Anna Rowan. Actual studio spaces where works are in progress by Leigh Buffington, Alyssa Guidry-Posey, Emily Caldwell, and Anna Rowan will be open for guests to see and experience. And, of course, tasty food and drink will be available for all to enjoy. “Full Tilt,” at UPSTAIRS gallery is the collection of painting, photography, mixed media work and collage curated by Emily Caldwell and created by Anna Rowan, Jenny Ellerbe, Leigh Buffington, and Emily Caldwell, as well as nature-inspired jewelry by Amy Ouchley. This month, The Palace Gallery will show one of our very own. The immensely talented and skilled Gary Ratcliff will be showing two types of work in this exhibit: painted surfaces, beautifully broken and cracked, along with his trademark ceramics. They are both expressions of the concept of testifying and exploring cause and effect. Ratcliff’s body of work demonstrates the infinite possibilities to change and impact the world with a few simple cause-and-effect moments. As always, Sugar Gallery will have some sweet things going on during the Crawl. Sugar welcomes new gallery artist Douglas Breckenridge. Breckenridge, who divides his time between architecture and painting, is

known for his oil paintings that include streetscapes, figure paintings and landscapes. Sugar’s guest artist for October is Lisa Harp with Harp Strings Jewelry. Her mission: to rethink forgotten antique and vintage buttons into one-of-a-kind jewelry such as unique necklaces, bracelets and rings. Leah Smith Reitzell will have new work including a new style of abstracted bayous as well as some Louisiana-themed Marc Chagall-inspired pieces. Her son, Noah Reitzell, will be making his Crawl debut with his own bayou pieces. Melanie Douthit will have new mixed media and watercolor paintings. Also at Sugar are Scott Stone’s decorative guitars and prints, nature photography by Burg Ransom, and unique lamps by Chris D. Cox. October will be full of sweet surprises at Sugar Gallery. Rumo’s Gallery, curated by Austin Bantel and hosted by owners Russell and Morgan Moore, features Shelly Nealy as its October artist with the show “Transitions and Reactions.” Her art reflects the many transitions and reactions in her life experiences. From her BFA in studio art to her interest in textures and architectural coatings, she has transitioned to an eclectic, mixed-media style. Nealy’s journey as an artist is ever evolving as her life evolves. Making and creating art feeds her soul, says Nealy. Lots of other fun things will be happening on the West Monroe side of the Gallery Crawl including the Ramble Bus, live music, and food trucks. This should be super fun! The Garrett House, curated by Brooke Foy, looks forward to this show every year! This is the gallery’s 2nd annual “Go Local” show. Over 20 local artists have agreed to participate in this fundraiser art show! This show is a great opportunity to bring a great CONTINUED ON PAGE 118

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Love Finds a Way

KAILEY PINSON AND JOSH CONLEE MARRIED IN DOWNTOWN LITTLE ROCK

he old adages that “timing is everything” and “everything happens for a reason” certainly rang true in the courtship of Kailey Pinson and Josh Conlee. After graduating from Physical Therapy School at Arkansas State, Kailey, a Jonesboro, Arkansas, native, made the move to Little Rock, where she found her first job as a physical therapist at University of Arkansas for Medical Sciences (UAMS). Josh, who grew up in Longview, Texas, before moving to Monroe in high school, was attending UAMS pursuing his masters and fellowship in hospital administration after graduating from Millsaps with an MBA. Kailey remembers first noticing Josh across lingering glances in the hospital’s cafeteria. Glances turned into smiles, then one day Kailey turned the corner after exiting an elevator and walked face to face into Josh, and in that second, mustered the courage to introduce herself. Shortly afterward Josh tracked her down on the med center campus and asked her out to

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dinner for the “best first date of their lives.” The rest, they say, is history. For a couple this special, the proposal had to be just as perfect. After Josh asked for Kailey’s hand, he visited Kailey’s Neenah, her grandmother, to discuss the ring. The center diamond for Kailey’s ring came from her Neenah’s wedding ring that Kailey’s grandfather had given her. As her grandfather has passed from this life, this ring will always hold an extra special meaning for Kailey and her family. Josh knew Kailey loved Old Southern architecture and arranged a tour of Oak Alley Plantation before embarking on a cruise with her family out of New Orleans. Playing it “cool,” Josh put the ring in his pocket and toured the grounds of the antebellum jewel with Kailey. When she walked over to a private nook near a giant live oak, he seized the moment and surprised her on bended knee. After her shock wore off, she immediately and enthusiastically said, “Yes!” On July 1, 2017, Kailey and Josh were

joined together in Holy Matrimony by Brett Barber. The ceremony and reception were held at the historic Junior League of Little Rock’s stately building and ballroom in downtown Little Rock. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Randy Pinson of Jonesboro, Arkansas. She is the granddaughter of Mrs. Jan Beard and the late Mr. John W. Beard and Mr. and Mrs. Jim Pinson. The groom is the son of Mrs. Karmann Conlee and Mr. Fred Conlee Jr. He is the grandson of Mrs. Charlotte Conlee and the late Mr. Fred Conlee, Sr. and Mr. Samuel Lasuzzo, III and the late Mrs. Wanda Lasuzzo. The bride, given in marriage by her parents, wore a strapless mermaid gown fashioned of lace with a sweetheart neckline. She carried a bouquet of her favorite white and pale pink roses and white hydrangeas interspersed with greenery. Kailey’s matrons of honor were Allison Wilson and Jill Caraway. Katie Beineke served as maid of honor. Bridesmaids were Caitlin Winey, Anne Marie Cason, Victoria Pinson, Alison Davis, Allyn Johnson and Megan Kerley. Bridesmaids wore long black strapless gowns accented with pearl necklaces and carried bouquets of white roses and greenery. Also attending the bride were Madison Harvey, Lauren Nunnally and Sommer Summers. Josh’s brother, Ian Conlee, served as his best man. Groomsmen were Adam Haywood, Kody Pinson, Boomer Hudson, Jason Riggins, Miles Sager, Andrew Pearce, Andrew Hatten and Josh Worsham. Ushers for the ceremony included Erik Stark and Will Watson. The groom and groomsmen wore elegant black tuxedos with white rose boutonnieres. Junior attendants for the ceremony included Finley Caraway and Webb Wilson along with Jack and Camryn Beard. Craig Wilson sang “The Lord’s Prayer” as a prelude to the service, which concluded with the always fun “Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)” performed by the Dizzy 7 band. The beaming couple led their guests to the reception’s ballroom dance floor where guests danced the night away to Motown, Big Band, Latin and Dixie sounds. The bride’s cake, made by MaryAnn Green of Cakes for a Cause from Jonesboro, Arkansas, was a three-tiered confection topped with a silver script “C” and was a traditional white cake. Themed for the groom’s favorite football team, the Green Bay Packers, the groom’s cake was Josh’s favorite carrot cake with a cream cheese icing, created by the Blue Cake Company out of Little Rock. The couple enjoyed a honeymoon in Barbados at Sandals Resort and are making their home in Little Rock, Arkansas, where Kailey is a pediatric physical therapist in North Little Rock and Josh works in hospital administration at UAMS in Little Rock. The rehearsal dinner was hosted by Mr. Andy Conlee and Ms. Karmann Conlee at Copper Grill, located in downtown Little Rock. Held in a private dining area, guests were served prime rib and stuffed chicken breast. Tables at the simple and elegant affair were decorated with white hydrangeas and illuminated by candlelight.

Photography by Meredith Benton Photography

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BayouTrends

Fall will soon be in full swing, and here are all the items to prepare you for a fashionable fall season. Merlot isn’t just a wine, but comes in trendy tops and accessories. Here are the items available to you from area retailers.

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RELATIONSHIPS

Meredith’s Musings Deconstructing Divorce | By Meredith McKinnie

e’ll call her Corinne. She’s a wife, a mother, a giver, a human soul going through the motions, blinded by failure, but encouraged by hope. Eight months ago she filed for divorce from her husband of nine years and 11 months. One month shy of 10 years. As if that extra month, that crowning achievement of surviving a marriage for a decade would give validity to a union that had long since been broken. She wouldn’t allow that. She took the hammer, shattered the invisible web of lies holding her picture perfect union together; the web had become too cumbersome to navigate. It felt fake; it was fake. And she’s not fake. She lives with regret. She doesn’t openly say so, but she alludes to regret. “I wish I had finished my degree.” Does she need it now for what she does? No. Will she likely ever need it in her field? No. But now, unlike before, she realizes she needs it for her. Regret is hard, but it’s what you do with it that defines your character. You can settle for the weight of regret, or you can pick it up and drop kick it in the face. She’s a kicker. You should see her legs. She felt she was doing the right thing, 82 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

staying in an unhappy marriage for kids who were not witnessing a real marriage. They were seeing bitterness, loss, and sadness – routine forced as a means of escaping the reality of emotions. Hurt hurts. Hurt shows. And even a three-year-old is not blind to hurt. She can see when Mommy is sad. She can see when Daddy is mad. She comes in at night and crawls into that three-foot gap between Mommy and Daddy in the king sized bed, a human bridge between the two, the creation of both of them. And they cuddle her on their opposite sides. “How can we make something so perfect and be so far from perfection? How can we shatter her world, force her to divide her time, redefine her idea of family for our own comfort? When does it become better for her for us to be apart?” She pondered this for years. She pondered it before her daughter was born. She felt guilty for bringing her into anything less than happiness, but couldn’t imagine life without her all the same. She looks like her daddy. She’s strong-willed like her daddy. And it pains her to even acknowledge his qualities in her. Her hate for him is that strong. How can she love the qualities in this angel that she despises so in her husband? “Will she be reckless like him? Will she

suffer? Will I suffer? Am I being selfish?” The first night the kids were gone she cried. She cried in silence on the back porch because it was the first night of many. This would now be her life. Every other weekend and two nights alternating weeks her house would go from chaos to quiet. She used to complain about the chaos, but the silence is claustrophobic. She used to list the many grandiose ideas of things she would do without the responsibility of motherhood, but now, on that quiet porch, she can’t remember any of them. She just feels the silence, like a fog she can’t see through. They tell her she will come to value her quiet time, that she needs a break, but how would she know? She’s never really had one. She craves normality, even dysfunctional normality. After almost 10 years, it’s all she knows. And while she knew her life with him was torture, there was a comfort in knowing. This silence, she doesn’t know. It’s eerie and unnatural, and she invited it. While she didn’t wreck the marriage, she opened the door to its ending. She bears the weight. She tried ... She failed ... but she’s still trying...

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FOCUSING ON OUR HEALTH As Parents, We Must Take Time Out to Care for Ourselves article by Cindy G. Foust

ello, BayouLife nation from the comfort of my big chair where I find myself convalescing following my surgery this past week. You heard me right, readers, I had surgery on Monday and back to writing on Friday… nope, there is no rest for the weary. I’m just kidding, because the reality is I could hardly wait to get started on this month’s column. Now, I know it is October, which screams all things fall and Halloween, and that should be easy for me to write about, right? I mean, who wouldn’t want the recipe for Roasted Zombie Eyeballs or Candy Corn Jello… but no, I’m not really feeling that, this month. Instead, I decided to focus on the parents of this great community we live in for this month’s feature. That’s right, I’m going to by-pass all the writing I do each month in an effort to encourage our kids to be kind, wellrounded, non-bullying, neatas-a-pin, healthy, sensitive, respectful young people. Wow, that was a mouthful. Did I leave anything out? No, this month I decided that the focus should be on the parents that make up the fabric of our BayouLife community. So, as Barry Manilow sings, This One’s for You, because I think it’s an important message and if I had a soapbox, which I don’t, but if I did, I would ask you to close your eyes right now and imagine me standing on it. This past week I had the misfortune of experiencing a health-related calamity. More clearly put, I had to have two heart stents. Can you say sadness? But, as with many of the experiences that I have faced over the last five years (exactly the length of time I have nearly been writing for this magazine, 60 columns, to be exact, and I hope I get a watch for my loyal and dedicated service), this one, too, is finding its way to the pages of this column. I first want to thank my good doctor and his staff, for taking such good care of me during this whole ordeal, and while I don’t ever advertise for anyone (just shoot me a text, I’ll hook

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you up), I would like to say that appreciation just isn’t a big enough word. But, I’m getting ahead of myself and the real basis for this column. The truth is (and it’s kind of ugly), I have been having heart related symptoms almost a year. But like many people, I just dismissed them. I have Web M.D. after all, and when my chest was getting tight after simply going up my stairs, then I blamed it on indigestion (which I don’t think I have ever had in my life); and when my arm would tingle or ache, then I would blame it on carpal tunnel (which I don’t have a diagnosis for either); or when I would lie in my bed at night and I would feel somewhat winded or out of breath (in a completely sedentary, nonexertion position), then I would just think I had eaten too much and I was full (which I never do, because I am very skinny and I can hide behind a straw.) So one afternoon, like Dorothy and Toto, I took off down the yellow-brick road for a brisk, fall-is-in-the-air walk, and nearly had to crawl back to my house. Wait, what? I’m sorry, but my internet medical degree didn’t have a logical explanation for this one. So would commence the exhaustive process of diagnostic testing on the old (only 51-years mind you) ticker. For those of you who know me well, you most likely would agree that I have had some rather unfortunate things happen to me over the years, and well, it might be reasonable to think that the stress of such incidents might have caused my heart to just finally break. That sounds like a good Hallmark movie to me, but the truth is, my doctor says my heart muscle is in fact, strong and healthy. My arteries, ehhh, not so much. But, after my successful stent placement, as the old southern adage goes, “I am living in high cotton, now.” But here’s the real story, I put off these symptoms for a long period of time; I made excuses; I ignored what my body was telling CONTINUED ON PAGE148

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A Canopy of Love LANDYN YOUNG AND JOHN LUFFEY, III CELEBRATE UNDER CHANDELIER-LIT OAK TREES

andyn Michelle Young and John Louis Luffey, III were united in marriage on Saturday, June 10, 2017, at Jesus the Good Shepherd Catholic Church. Deacon Tom Deal officiated at the wedding ceremony. The bride is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Donald McEnery and the groom is the son of Mr. and Mrs. John Louis Luffey, Jr., all of Monroe. The weekend festivities began with a rehearsal celebration at Bayou DeSiard Country Club. Guests were treated to Louisiana seafood specialties while they listened to the sounds of Robert Finley, “The Soul Man,” and toasted the bride and groom. On Saturday, the bride and her wedding party enjoyed the day getting their hair and makeup done by The Parlor House, followed by a champagne toasting at the home of Dr. and Mrs. Walter Sartor on Island Drive. The groom’s wedding party enjoyed a luncheon and pool party given by Mrs. Kay Shipp at the Luffey home.

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Given in marriage by her father, the bride wore an Amy Kuschel trumpet silhouette lace gown with matching lace bolero. The bride added a cathedral length veil trimmed in Alençon lace. The 11 bridesmaids wore Jenny Yoo dresses in a shade of fig. The bridesmaids were Laurel Young, Sophie Barksdale, Kelsi Dickerson, Anne Hatcher, Mary Ingram, Leslie Kennedy, Brooke Lauve, Lillian Paxton, Caroline Scott, Laine Shemwell, and Marcelle Wainer. Flower girls were nieces of the groom, Rosemary, Margaret and Jane Paxton. The groom and his groomsmen wore summer linen suits. His groomsmen were John Luffey, Jr., Reggie Carroll, Levi Cook, Brett Dabdoub, Matthew Dickerson, Wesley Harris, Land Ledbetter, Johnny Mickel, Kyle Moore, Albert Paxton, Kirk Pfefferlie, Thad Ryan, and Michael Wren. Ring bearers were the bride’s brothers, Parker and Paxton McEnery.

Flowers on the altar were designed by Brenda Till and held hydrangeas, roses and seasonal greenery. Chandeliers floated above the wedding guests from 100-year-old live oak trees as they entered the reception at the home of Mr. and Mrs. Tom Clark on Island Drive. Arrangements of white and blue hydrangeas and white lilies adorned the tables under the tents, created by Gregory Hudgins. Guests enjoyed delicacies prepared by Thurmanâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Catering and danced the night away to the sound of BRW from New Orleans. At midnight, the bride and groom left in a vintage Cadillac under a canopy of sparklers. Following the wedding, the couple traveled to Ocean Springs, Mississippi, and the Florida Gulf Coast, and later that month to Cabo San Lucas for their honeymoon celebration. They have chosen Monroe as their home where the bride is employed as a teacher at Jesus the Good Shepherd School and the groom is a realtor with NAI Faulk and Foster.

Photography by Caitlin B Photography

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FLOWERS

Fall Harvest

“I love how at the end of the summer the afternoon shadows start to lengthen. And I adore how zinnias are still bright and vibrant,” explains Gregory Hudgins, the designer behind this inspirational floral arrangement. Using a slightly taller modern, grey container, Hudgins has artfully arranged sculptural branches of winged elm and combined them with locally-sourced organic zinnias in hues of fuschia, bright orange, red, tangerine and hot pink. ARRANGEMENT BY GREGORY HUDGINS PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARTIN G MEYERS

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Indian Summer Moons Local designer Gregory Hudgins looked to nature for seasonal inspiration for this month’s floral arrangements. “I am dazzled by the super bright Indian Summer moons,” says Hudgins. “This is the time when doors and windows open to welcome the cooler mornings and soft breezy afternoons.” Here, Hudgins arranges billy balls which appear to revolve around fuzzy, green triclinium and spikes of variegated flax in a neutral grey, modern container. ARRANGEMENT BY GREGORY HUDGINS PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARTIN G MEYERS

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Simply Lou Watch the Birdie! article and illustration by Lou Davenport

few years ago at a family get together, we played a game called “What’s your Secret?” I’m a fairly “open book,” but I did write down something that I thought many of them would not know. “I am a bird watcher!” Nobody guessed. Now, I’m not nearly as avid a “bird watcher” as I used to be. In my neighborhood now, there aren’t nearly as many interesting species as I enjoyed when I lived in Vicksburg. But I still like to watch the ones that are! There’s a little hummingbird that loves the red honeysuckle that grows right outside my window. Blue Jays and Mockingbirds enjoy splashing around in my bird bath. They also “pester” my cats which makes me laugh. I have a feeder in the backyard for cardinals. Did you know they are the first and last species of bird to feed each day at feeders? And, some kinds of birds won’t come to a feeder at all. When I lived in Vicksburg, I had a friend who kept telling me about the birds that came to her feeder or what kind of bird she’d seen 92 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

somewhere. It got my interest so I bought a feeder and hung it from a branch right outside the living room window. It didn’t take long for the birds to find it and then, I was hooked. Vicksburg, being on the Mississippi River, sits right on one of the four major “fly ways” across the United States. Migratory birds usually follow waterways. I also lived on a lake and that was an added bonus. It wasn’t long before I had some binoculars and “Peterson’s Field Guide to Eastern Birds.” (In my opinion, it’s still the best book you will ever find about identifying birds). By all the notations in my guide, it seems it was 1988 when I went “bird crazy.” Every bird I saw and identified, I’d write the date beside its picture. After a few years, several birds seemed to show up on nearly the same day each year! I am a “stickler” for identifying them. I learned all about wing bars, beak shapes, tail shapes, top knots or “not,” and habitats. I learned what species lived in my area year round, in the winter or just the summer.

Purple Martins were the first migrants to arrive each year. A neighbor had a “martin house” so I knew when they showed up, other species would soon follow. I’d get excited when I saw the first hummingbird of the year and readied their feeder. Business at my bird feeder at the window began to “get busy,” too. Besides my “year round residents,” the “summer vacationers” would begin to arrive. Sitting on my deck with my binoculars, I saw my first “Prothonotory Warbler.” It remains my favorite bird. It always arrived in April and nested somewhere around the lake. They are so yellow, they almost glow. It’s a big name for such a tiny bird. Two other beautiful species were around the lake each year, a pair of “Orchard Orioles” and a pair of “Great Crested Flycatchers!” The Orioles built a “cup shaped” nest in a little oak tree by our house. I never could find where those “Flycatchers” nested though. I usually got a glimpse of “Summer Tanagers” on their way to their nesting grounds. There were some “entertaining” birds around the lake year round. There was a post in the lake that a large “Kingfisher” claimed. They are such fun to watch when they dive for fish. There was a “Great Blue Heron” and a “Green Heron” that “fished” around out back. The “Green Heron” had orange legs and “lurched” along as he crept up on fish. “He” also made the strangest clicking noise when he was stalking. When the weather would start to cool, the migrations would start again. All kinds of ducks found our lake. Some stayed for the winter, others would just rest and be on their way. A flock of “Ring Necked Ducks” always came in but stayed out in the middle of the lake. Several Canadian Geese came in one day and stayed. They were still residents when I moved! “Goldfinch” would arrive at the feeder and “fuss” with all the other birds. “Purple and House Finch” were there, too. Through the years, I noticed that there were a lot more “House Finch” than “Purple Finch” and figured out why. “House Finch” are bullies. Little “Junkos” or “snow birds” came and will only eat seeds on the ground. Among all the birds would be plenty of “Carolina Chickadees,” “Tufted Titmice,” and “Cardinals.” Chicka-dee-dee-dee! Speaking of woodpeckers, I got to see all kinds of them! The “Pileated Woodpecker”is huge and loud! It is said that “Woody the Woodpecker” was fashioned after them. There’s a little one called a “Downy Woodpecker” and in-between sizes such as “Red Headed Woodpecker,” “Red-Bellied Woodpecker” and the “Common Flicker.” It is also theorized that the “Ivory Billed

Woodpecker”may be extinct. Nobody knows for sure, but, they have become a legend to birders and are called “The Ghost Bird” or “The Elvis Bird!” We were “fortunate” to have three white geese who thought our backyard was “theirs.” No need for an alarm system, they “honked” their honkers loudly if anything or anybody dared come in “their” backyard! I saw them chase people just trying to fish! We kept them fed on cracked corn so we were safe! We added to the “waterfowl” population by incubating some “muscovy duck” eggs. They aren’t the most attractive of ducks, but, oh, they were fun! Every egg hatched and we put them on our back porch. Every day I had to hose down the floor, er poop. When it was time for them to swim on their own, I led them down to the lake. I scooped each one up and put them in the water. They swam around and I turned to go back. They followed me! I was their DUCK MAMA! It took awhile for me to convince them I wasn’t. They all grew up and would come sit on the deck with me while I drank coffee. When I left, my “children” were still there! I thought I had become pretty knowledgeable about birds and there was a local “bird watching” group called “The Vicksbirders.” They always went on the

annual “Christmas Bird Count” and on field trips down South. I thought that would be a great group to join. WRONG! Oh, they were all very nice people, but, I knew I was a “first grader” among “Ph.D’s” the first and only meeting I attended. These people used the “scientific names” to speak about birds! I was in way over my head! Did you know a “Blue Jay” is a Cyanocitta cristata? Well, I didn’t either. I could tell they had all seen some amazing birds, but I just didn’t know what kinds. I learned quickly that a degree in ornithology was not going to be in my future and it was too damn cold to go out “counting birds.” I am happy with my “amateur standing.” I lived for a short while in Jackson Parish and saw some interesting birds. I finally saw a flock of “Indigo Buntings’ that are the most vivid shade of blue. I saw a “Blue Grosbeak” and had a large flock of “Rose Breasted Grosbeaks” come to my feeder. And I got to see my one and only “Painted Bunting.” When I worked at the Masur Museum, a flock of “Cedar Waxwings” flew over just as my co-worker Lenard and I were walking from the museum back door to the Carriage House. In a split second, they started “carpet bombing” us after their lunch of mulberries! Lenard was, and is always, impeccably dressed and that day he had on a white

dress shirt. He started running and hollering “They’re Poopin’ Lou! They’re Poopin!” He didn’t get one speck on him but since I was laughing at him ... well, they got me! Watch out for flocks of them! Up on Bayou Bartholomew, my cousins, Judi and Margaret are living in “bird heaven.” Right now there’s a flock of “Whistling Ducks” that enjoy being fed by everyone. Those ducks are smart and know a “good thing when they find it!” I had never seen them before! I got to add a new bird to my “life list,” which I hadn’t added to in several years. Sometimes as a parent, you don’t think you influence your children very much. But, lo and behold, my daughter Paige got interested in birds. I got her the newest edition of Peterson’s Field Guide to Eastern Birds! I bought my daughter Carolyn a bird feeder for her birthday since she, too, has gotten interested in birds. I see a field trip with the daughters to Black Bayou soon. Now, if I can just get my buddy Burg to tell me where he sees all those “Painted Buntings” he photographs! See y’all next month! Illustration based on original woodblock print by Lisa Brawn

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BUILDING FOR LIFE Brian Allen has devoted almost a decade to the St. Judeâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Dream Home program. article by MICHAEL DEVAULT photography by MARTIN G MEYERS

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or Brian Allen, 2016 was probably the busiest year of his life. The owner of Braco Construction Co., out of Rayville, he was in the midst of a half-dozen house constructions, his family was traveling extensively between competitive shooting events, and he decided it was a good time to join the Richland Parish Chamber of Commerce, the Louisiana Precision Rifle Club and raise a little extra money for St. Jude’s. There was only one problem: in 2016, there was neither a Richland Parish Chamber of Commerce nor a Louisiana Precision Rifle Club. If he wanted one, he’d have to be a part of starting one – which is precisely what Brian did. “Coincidentally, the year of the 2016 Dream Home, I pushed a strong effort to do something that not very many Dream Homes do – and that’s build for zero cost,” he says. While he was starting multiple organizations and touring nationally for competitive shooting, he knew setting a goal of zero-cost for a $250,000 house was a stretch, even for his team. Building the St. Jude’s Dream Home is a privilege builders in communities of all sizes covet. The homes are spacious, stylish and well-apportioned, and they have to be to demand the price of the raffle tickets that drive the program. Money from the raffle is donated to the hospital, and the ultimate goal is to raise as much of the cost of the home from outside of ticket sales as possible, in order to push even more money toward cancer research. Communities get behind the push for the Dream Home raffle in a big way. Businesses donate money for sponsorships, and home goods stores donate fixtures, furniture, paint. But building a home for a true “zero cost” – with none of the raffle dollars going to pay for construction – is a rare feat. In fact, in 2015, the year before Brian and Braco decided to push for a zero-cost house, only three homes in the country had made the zero-dollar mark. The home Brian and his team built in 2015 cost roughly $80,000. So they had a ways to go. Brian was unfazed. A master builder with decades of experience, he knows how to trim costs and control spending. And, as a respected veteran of the St. Jude’s Dream Home program, he carries the gravitas to request donations, be those donations 104 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Brian Allen is a master builder who has donated nearly a decade of time to St. Jude’s Dream Homes. In 2016, he pushed to build the donated home for zero cost and accomplished that goal with the help of his team and community. financial in the form of sponsorships or in kind for goods, services and materials. Complicating matters even further for Brian in 2016 – he was a charter member of the Richland Chamber, started a statewide rifle club, and still had to manage his own building company for his clients – he had another demand on his time. “That was the year I was president of the Northeast Louisiana Homebuilders Association,” he says, laughing. “We kind of had a lot going on.” Nevertheless, Brian pushed forward. He knew he could trust the people who help make Braco a success. All he had to do was continue to work hard, push himself, and trust his team to turn his visions he had a reality. It’s the same tactic he’s used for decades, and the same practices his father and brother used in their building and construction businesses before him. In a very real way, building is in Brian’s blood. He started building for his father, when he was young, though he recalls building structures out of found wood when he was a kid. Camps in the woods, clubhouses and tree houses, even a few animal enclosures went up under his design. His father helped him learn the ropes on various jobs, and by the time he left high school, he was an accomplished artisan in his own right. He even constructed a small dais in the speech and theatre classroom at Riverfield Academy, where he went to high school. His brother, who is several years his

senior, invited Brian to take a position with his construction company, which Brian gleefully accepted. For 20 years, he worked for his brother’s construction company, where he continued to learn the family trade. “My father was a builder, and my older brother followed in his footsteps,” he says. Building is something that feeds Brian’s soul. “I feel like I’m almost a third-generation builder because of that. It’s just something I love. I think I like building because I like backing up and getting to see what I’ve done. So many people don’t have that, the ability to look and see what they’ve created at the end of a work day.” So with building in his genes, a drive to improve the community and give something special to St. Jude’s, and an $80,000 year-overyear gap to close, Brian set to work. They got out the word that they wanted to cross the zero-cost threshold, and the community got behind the effort. Subcontractors were coming out of the woodwork to help with the home, Brian says, and local businesses jumped on board in a bigger way than ever before. “This is our St. Jude’s Dream Home team’s accomplishment,” Brian says. “Without donors all over northeast Louisiana, our subcontractors and even the local media – we’re all a team – and without that team, we wouldn’t have been able to meet that zero cost goal.” The 2016 St. Jude’s Dream Home effort in Northeast Louisiana raised a staggering $750,000 – and built a 3,000 square foot house

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Not only is Allen a master builder in Northeast Louisiana, he also was awarded St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital’s National Builder of the Year Award and the Most Cost-Reductive Home award. He’s also a championship shooter, too. Brian is ranked in the Top 5 in the nation in the open division, and his son and wife are both top ranked shooters as well.

for not a penny of out-of-pocket costs. That year, St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital rewarded Braco’s efforts with their National Builder of the Year Award. They also received the Most Cost-Reductive Home award, as well. It was a long road to zero, too. When Braco began building the St. Jude’s Dream Home eight years ago, the community spent upwards of $300,000 on the home. His second year, Brian had trimmed that to $140,000. 106 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

It’s clear that Braco – and everything else Brian does – is a family affair. The father of two, he and his wife travel extensively with their children – a 30-year-old son, Bradley, and 15 year-old daughter, Taylor – for competitive rifle meets. Bradley also works for Braco along side his father and two other long-time employees, Kirk and Ray. When Brian speaks of the pair, who’ve worked with him for decades, it’s clear they’re family, too. That’s possibly because building houses

is as much about building relationships as it is about assembling bits of wood and piping. Brian counts among his “best friends” the dozens of families for whom he’s built houses over the years. He rattles off a few facts about this client or that family, and within just a few minutes, he’s sharing stories about people he genuinely cares for. “That’s the kind of lasting relationships we end up creating,” he says. “We do vacations with them, visit on the holidays – and so do our employees. We’ll run into customers we haven’t seen in a while, and they’ll want to know how Ray, Kirk, and Bradley are doing.” They form the same relationships on the road at their many shooting competitions. This is a relatively recent addition to the family’s activities. Though they all grew up shooting guns, hunting and taking target practice, they got into shooting because of fellow Rayville resident Dustin Morris, who won the National PRS championship in 2014 – and promptly donated his winnings to the project. When Dustin’s boss, U.S. Rep. Ralph Abraham, heard about the gesture, he chipped in a chunk of his congressional salary, fulfilling a campaign pledge to donate a significant portion of his pay to charities back home. Why? Because that’s what folks in Richland Parish do, Brian says. That – and apparently become master shooters. “I don’t know what it is about the Richland Parish area that produces such strong shooters, but my whole and Dustin’s whole family all perform really well in these competitions,” he says. It’s not a brag, but more of just a statement of fact. A fact that is, by the way, beyond dispute. Brian is ranked in the Top 5 in the nation in the open division. His son, Bradley, is tied for 2nd Place. Christine, his wife, is in the Top 50 nationally overall and the No. 1 ranked female competing. Even Taylor is in on the family pastime, and as of this writing, she was the top-ranked woman in Louisiana. At the end of the day, though, it’s all about building for the Allen family, and they’re respected in the local building community as a fair and honest company with a proven track record of quality. Part of that reputation comes from the way he approaches each house. Instead of a percentage markup, Braco sets a flat fee for the building – cost plus, Brian calls it. He lets the client know before the first shovel hits dirt the money he’s making off their house. They tell him what they’re looking for, the amenities they want, and that drives the remainder of the price. That’s not to suggest there are different types of building Braco does. In fact, it’s just the contrary. He’s quick to point out that, whether a house is $100 a square foot or $200

a square foot, the work stays the same. “We always build to the same quality,” he says. “I use the same subcontractors and the same materials on the $100-a-foot home as we do on a $200-a-foot home. We also give the same service to those two homeowners.” The result is a home-building experience in which homeowners don’t feel like the builder has incentive to drive up costs. Further confirming this for his clients, he presents them with each and every invoice. They see the cost of every nail, every door frame. It can be a cumbersome process, but

he feels it helps the homeowner proceed with confidence and knowledge. “Sometimes, they’ll have an invoice that’s not even a dollar,” he says, laughing. But the result is a home for which they know exactly what they’ve spent – and why, if they end up over budget, they ended up there. “We don’t charge for change orders or estimates,” he says. “We make that fixed fee, and we stay with that.” They’re building houses all the time – he has about 10 going right now, in various states of progress. And they’re going to

continue building the St. Jude’s Dream Home for at least the foreseeable future. His goal is to make it at least to year 10 for the organization. After all, their mission is one he firmly believes in. “Not long after we became involved with St. Jude’s, our daughter was diagnosed with Chron’s Disease,” he says. “That’s not nearly what these families are dealing with, but having a child with a chronic condition certainly gives me appreciation for what these families are going through.” That St. Jude’s focuses its efforts not just on curing juvenile cancer but also on quality of life and support for parents and families makes the work that much more important for them. “St. Jude’s is instrumental in helping ease life for the families of their patients,” he says. “I can see the home being built, and then we turn around and know the money we’re raising is going somewhere to help find a cure for childhood cancer.” Brian Allen and Braco Construction are entering their 8th year as the builder of the St. Jude’s Dream Home in northeastern Louisiana. You can find out more information about the project or get involved at their Facebook page.

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Risk Factors for Breast Cancer Common Risk Factors to Consider

TUDIES HAVE SHOWN THAT YOUR RISK FOR BREAST cancer is due to a combination of factors; however, main factors are being a woman and getting older. Having a risk factor does not mean you will get the disease, and not all risk factors for breast cancer have the same effect. • Getting older. The risk increases with age; most are diagnosed after age 50. • Genetic mutations. Inherited changes (mutations) to certain genes, such as BRCA1 and BRCA2. • Early menstrual period. Women who start their periods before age 12 are exposed to hormones longer, raising the risk by a small amount. • Late or no pregnancy. A first pregnancy after age 30 and never having a full-term pregnancy can raise one’s risk. • Starting menopause after age 55. Like starting one’s period early, being exposed to estrogen hormones for a longer time later in life also raises the risk. • Not being physically active. Women who are not physically active have a higher risk. • Being overweight after menopause. Older women who are overweight have a higher risk than those at a normal weight. • Having dense breasts. Dense breasts have more connective tissue than fatty tissue, which can sometimes make it hard to see tumors on a mammogram. Women with dense breasts are more likely to get breast cancer. • Using combination hormone therapy. Taking hormones to replace missing estrogen and progesterone in menopause for more than five years raises the risk. • Taking oral contraceptives. Certain forms of oral contraceptive pills have been found to raise one’s risk. • Personal history of breast cancer. Women who have had breast cancer are more likely to get it a second time. • Personal history of certain non-cancerous breast diseases. Some non-cancerous breast diseases such as atypical hyperplasia or lobular carcinoma in situ are associated with a higher risk of getting breast cancer. • Family history of breast cancer. A woman’s risk is higher if she has a mother, sister, or daughter (first-degree relative) or multiple family members on either her mother’s or father’s side of the family who have had breast cancer. Having a first-degree male relative with breast cancer also raises a woman’s risk. • Previous treatment using radiation therapy. Women who had radiation therapy to the chest or breasts before age 30 have a higher risk later in life. • Women who took the drug diethylstilbestrol (DES) have a higher risk. Women whose mothers took DES while pregnant with them are also at risk. • Drinking alcohol. Studies show that a woman’s risk increases with the more alcohol she drinks. Research suggests that other factors such as smoking, being exposed to chemicals that can cause cancer, and night shift working also may increase breast cancer risk. Source: cdc.gov

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St. Francis Foundation 2 Cars, 2 Winners

T. FRANCIS MEDICAL CENTER IS COMMITTED TO providing the infants and children in our region with the highest quality of healthcare in a safe and caring environment. St. Francis has this area’s only Level III Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) and Pediatric Intensive Care Unit (PICU). Annually, approximately 1,700 babies are born at St. Francis, 500 premature babies are cared for in our NICU, 700 children receive services in our PICU and pediatric unit, and 600 specialized pediatric sedation procedures are provided. Our 35-bed NICU has a team consisting of more than 75 nurses, respiratory therapists, case managers, lactation consultants, physical and occupational therapist, along with 2 neonatologists and 6 neonatal nurse practitioners. Our NICU team is made up of highly trained and skilled staff caring for the most fragile patients and their families. We’re proud to provide the most extensive pediatric services in the region. Children sometimes enter our doors ill, frightened and anxious. The pediatric team, consisting of 9 pediatric physician specialists and 26 specialized pediatric nurses and staff, provides care not only to the child, but to the whole family by putting a kind, human face on healthcare. Our pediatric services consist of a 12-bed pediatric unit and a 6-bed PICU, the only PICU in Northeast Louisiana. Families come from all over northeast Louisiana, as well as parts of Mississippi and Arkansas, to have St. Francis care for their children. We understand how hard it is for families in times of crisis and we want to ensure that St. Francis is able to provide the necessary services for some of our sickest children and babies as close to their home as possible. Since 1984, our neonatal transport team has brought almost 1,600 babies from area hospitals to St. Francis NICU. St. Francis offers the only Level III NICU and the area’s only PICU along with pediatric specialists including neurology, neurosurgery, gastroenterology, cardiology, endocrinology, and neonatology. Another added benefit is that we have direct access to Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Hospital in Baton Rouge, our sister hospital. Because of this partnership, families have access to specialized pediatric clinics offered in Monroe, such as gastroenterology and endocrinology. And if children do need a higher level of hospital care, Our Lady of the Lake Children’s Hospital provides additional specialty physicians and services allowing the families and children to stay in Louisiana. While our neonatal and pediatric services have earned a reputation for high quality care over the past years, critical equipment upgrades, enhanced services, and expanded access to care and specialists are necessary to continue to provide the best care possible for our children. Funds raised through the St. Francis Foundation’s “2 Cars 2 Winners Raffle” go directly to benefit the NICU, PICU and specialized pediatric unit and services. Purchase your tickets today at stfran.com and help St. Francis continue to provide the best possible care and treatment for our babies and children.

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Fabulous Fabric: Premier Fabric Source What’s Your Vision of a Beautiful Home?

T WON’T TAKE LONG TO FIND your vision once you step into Fabulous Fabric! From every texture to any color imaginable we have it all. Now is the time to put your custom orders in for window treatments and pillows. Our friendly and knowledgeable team are ready to help make your vision come to life for all your interior decorating projects. Jump into fall with rich textured velvets in beautiful hues. A very easy way to bring a seasonal touch to your home is simply with a few warm and earthy throw pillows which we keep in stock at all times. Velvets always bring luxury and elegance to any room whether it’s on a headboard, accent chair, draperies or just beautiful extra-large pillows. Velvet just may be the fabric of the season and is always a classic in interior design. Nothing says Luxe like an emerald green sofa. Rich shades of blue and green are the trending colors. Let us entice you to come in and feel

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the softness of our velvets. We can help you incorporate this luxurious fabric into your interiors. Don’t forget we stock Revolution fabrics too. If you’ve always wanted a white upholstery fabric on a chair or sofa but feared the wear and tear your children and pets may have on it, your worries are over. You can have that white sofa you’ve always wanted because Revolution fabric is totally cleanable. We’ve put it to the test and so have our customers. It’s amazing! And of course, neutrals and solids in all textures are still the most popular choices. We are well stocked! Some of our designer collections include Vern Yip, Nate Berkus, Charlotte Moss, Jaclyn Smith, Kate Spade New York, Eileen Katheryn Boyd and Tilton Fenwick. We carry fabrics from Fabricut, Duralee, Kravet, Highland Court & many others. Peacock Alley is a bedding line known for its curated collection of luxury bedding that is modern, yet classic. From coverlets in

matelesse’s and linens to duvets in sateens and linens, Peacock Alley is perfect to start a beautiful custom bedding ensemble. We can also order Peacock Alley custom embroderiery sheets and monogrammed towels. We have just brought back from market a new area rug line from Capel Rugs. We have a variety of samples to pick from and large 8x11 indoor/outdoor rugs in stock in two shades. Not only will you find the largest selection of in-stock drapery and upholstery fabrics for many miles but you will also find one of the largest libraries of special order fabrics. We’ve moved this section to the back of our store to give our customers and designers a quiet space to work. Follow us on Facebook and Instagram to see all the new fabrics that arrive weekly. Also, enter our Instagram Contest where you could win a pair of custom made pillows in one of our favorite fabrics. We will announce the winner on October 7th. Look for the contest post to enter.

Frozen Fat, Thinner You

New Applicators Make Coolsculpting Faster, Better BY TIMOTHY J. MICKEL, MD, CERTIFIED, AMERICAN BOARD OF PLASTIC SURGERY

OST OF YOU HAVE PROBABLY heard of CoolSculpting, an FDA approved, non-invasive fat removal procedure, that is clinically proven to reduce bulges of unwanted fat without needles, without surgery and – most importantly – without downtime. Mickel Plastic Surgery was one of the first practices in this region to offer CoolSculpting, and our results over the past seven years have been impressive. Yet as good as the procedure has been at freezing and reducing unwanted fat, it has just gotten significantly better! We are excited to introduce a new series of CoolSculpting applicators that make treatments quicker, more comfortable and more effective than ever! The new Coolfit, Coolcore and Coolcurve Advantage applicators allow more precise sculpting of the abdomen and hips, and also allow treatment of several areas that the old applicators couldn’t treat - such as the upper arm, the inner knee and the inner thigh. These

applicators are significantly more comfortable than the older applicators and have reduced treatment time to only 35 minutes per area – almost 50 percent faster. In addition, the new Coolsmooth applicator, while not as fast as the others, is a non-suction, surface applicator that can be applied to the outer thigh – enabling treatment of an area that before now could only be reduced with liposuction. CoolSculpting uses an ingenious concept called cryolipolysis developed by researchers at Harvard Medical School. It works by delivering precise, even cooling to the fat layer causing fat cells to freeze, then slowly die and release their contents. The fatty material is picked up and removed by the lymphatic system and the fat layer that was frozen becomes thinner. Studies of hundreds of patients who have undergone CoolSculpting treatments have shown no ill effects from this fat cell rupture. Improvement is gradual and progressive, peaking at two to three months. Most patients experience a 20 -

25 percent reduction in the thickness of the fat with the first treatment and a little less with each subsequent treatment. Only one area can be treated at a time, and as I said, the procedure takes about 35 minutes per area for the Advantage applicators and just over an hour for the Coolsmooth device. No sedation is needed, so you can drive yourself to and from the office. No compression garments are necessary after the treatments, and you can literally return to your normal activities, including exercise, immediately. Our experience over the past seven years indicates that while some improvement is noticeable after one treatment, most patients require three sessions for an optimal result. Because we want every patient to get the best result possible, we no longer offer single sessions. Treatments are sold as a package of three sessions at a significantly discounted rate. Of course the procedure is not for everyone. The ideal patient is close to their ideal weight and has relatively small, localized areas of fat without a lot of saggy skin. So if you are reasonably fit and close to your ideal weight but still have areas of unwanted fat, then CoolSculpting may be right for you. Call Mickel Plastic Surgery at 388-2050 today to set up a free consultation, or come join us Tuesday, October 17, from 5:30 – 7:30 at our office for wine, cheese, Flying Tiger beer and an informational session on Coolsculpting.

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Taking Your Parties to the Next Level Book Dickie’s Custom Selfies for Your Next Party or Event

HE NAME DICKEY IS SYNONYMOUS WITH EVENTS and celebrations throughout Northeast Louisiana. For the past 40 years, Thurman Dickey has been serving food, desserts and delicacies to party patrons. And now, his son, Doug Dickey, has started his own company – Dickey’s Custom Selfies. This state-of-the-art, open air photo booth is one-of-a-kind. You may have seen his set-up at parties in the last few months, as it has been a hit at weddings, class reunions, homecomings and more. This selfie booth allows party goers to take their pictures on different backgrounds and even a green screen. For an extra touch, companies can add their logo and couples can add their monograms or trendy hashtags for wedding receptions. The booth comes with a professional on-site attendant, as well as delivery, set up and breakdown, so you don’t have to worry with anything. The process is pretty simple; you grab your friends, date, family or whoever you want to create a fun memory with, snag some props and step into the booth. Make a funny face, give your best Zoolander impression and take the picture. You can use the stylus to draw or doodle on the picture or add fun clipart or emojis. Depending on the set up, you can get one picture on a 4x6 printout or a 4-picture strip. You can have the picture emailed to you or upload it directly to your

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facebook, Twitter or Snapchat account. There are even animated GIF capabilities, video messaging and slo-motion videos. You can share the picture with your friends on social media or have a fun takehome from a party. At the end of the night, there will be an online photo gallery where you can view all of the pictures from the event. • • • • • •

Dickey’s Custom Selfies are perfect for: Parties Corporate Events Proms Weddings Homecomings Class Reunions For more information or to book Dickey’s Custom Selefies for your next event, call Doug Dickey at 318-557-9672 or visit dickeyscustomselfies.com

Fiesta Nutrition Center

Local and Craft Beer and Organic Wine Now at Fiesta

WINE AND BEER SET WAS always a part of my plan. I love offering the most unique items in all categories. The focus of the selection we offer is items that are organic, locally made and hard to find in our region. This offering of wine and beer rounds out our store for one-stop healthy and gourmet shopping” says Robin Hitt, Manager and Grocery Buyer. Organic wine is made from grapes grown in accordance with principles of organic farming, which typically excludes the use of artificial chemical fertilizers, pesticides, fungicides and herbicides. Sulfites are naturally occurring, not added, and are at a low level. After much research and taste-testing, Fiesta has put together a beautiful section of unique wines, beer, ciders, sake, and sangrias from around the world. It rivals

a selection that would be found in a metropolitan city. Here are some that highlight the diversity and excitement in the category: FREY ORGANIC CALIFORNIA WHITE TABLE WINE This is a bright and crisp dry white wine filled with pleasant flavors of ripe melons and pear. Also available from Frey are a rich earthy Cabernet Sauvignon and Red Table Wine Blend. CUMA MALBEC Cuma means pure and clean in the language of the Aymara people from the north region of Australia , where these organic grapes are grown in splendor. MOONSTONE Coconut Lemongrass Sake. Craft sake

with a contrast of sweet and dry, perfect to serve with Thai and Indian foods, or simply on the rocks. SAMUEL SMITH’S ORGANIC PERRY Dry, sparkling pear cider, refreshing on a hot day. Gluten-free! CRAFT BEER Curated near us are brands like Crying Eagle, Nola and Flying Tiger. To accompany a fine choice from the liquor section, fine cheeses and other party or dinner items are now a part of the Good Earth Juice and Salad Bar’s grab-and-go section, located inside Fiesta. Our staff loves the opportunity to recommend items from these interesting and fun additions to the Fiesta experience!

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BAYOU OUTDOORS

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article by Dan Chason

used to swing a pretty mean shotgun. In fact, I would rather have my .870 Remington with me than any gun I own as it just fits me naturally. It comes so naturally because a shotgun was the first gun I personally owned and the first one that I just had a natural eye for when it came to hitting what I aimed at. It was 1970 and I was living in Millry, Alabama. One day at school, we were told about an event put on by the local sheriff where all children were invited to experience the shooting sports. I told my Dad about it and gained permission to attend. I was 9 years old. I didn’t sleep the night before as I imagined medals dangling from my neck. I was no stranger to shooting or shotguns as I had shot my Dad’s 12 gauge J.C. Higgins pump shotgun for almost 2 years. Not only that, my Dad had given me my first single shot .20 gauge for Christmas the year before and I was ready. Or at least I thought I was. When I arrived via my trusty bicycle, there were kids going every which way. The Sheriff lined us all up for the standard safety speech. I eyed the gun rack and saw every kind of shotgun a man could ever see. I was pumped up. I stepped up to the line for my first try at skeet shooting and the deputy handed me a 12 gauge single shot that was as long as my bicycle. I yelled “pull,” and that is the last thing I remember. I hit the skeet, or so they told me, and continued until I was crowned the champion of the event. I don’t know where that medal is today but it probably got locked up by my Mama as I would not take it off. It was a proud day. 114 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Flash forward to the proud age of 50 and there I am on a range with a man I grew to call a friend, Vernon Bradley. I had my trusty shotgun and an awkward grin, my mind telling me this was going to be a repeat of my younger days. When I saw Vernon shoot not one, but six, straight skeet FROM THE HIP, I knew I was out of my league. This man, I soon learned was a shooting legend. Teaching everything from the Boy Scouts, 4-H and many a junior shooter, I soon took to his teaching as a mindful protege’. Vernon’s wife, Ashley is a six-time Louisiana champion in sporting clays and a National Champion as well. First thing I thought was if she is the champion, there is no way I’m shooting in her presence. Vernon is the ultimate instructor. Hand gun, shotgun, rifle or muzzle loader all find their home on his range. I have watched him take an experience shooter or a novice to levels never seen. His quick advise is this: Match the shooter to the gun, not the gun to the shooter. Stay with a 20 gauge if you are under 5’10” as 12 gauge guns are made for the frame. When it comes to shooting live birds, the most common mistake is the shooter doesn’t trust their dominant eye. The dominate eye dictates the swing and shot placement. As a pro duck guide, he has seen shooters hit one, miss five and hit one. The reason, he says, is the variation of shot shells and not patterning the gun to assure it will hit where you aim. This is accomplished by patterning the gun on a paper target.

See where it hits and adjust chokes accordingly. The other big mistake shooters make is being planted in their stance. Shotgun shooting is natural. Swing in the direction of the target and trust your eyes. Shoot with the dominant eye and keep both eyes open. Vernon is a student of the new sport called Helice. This sport is a modification of the “pigeon shoots” of days ago. According to him, if you sport yourself a good shooter, take part in a Helice shoot and you will understand what it takes to consistently shoot any game bird in any situation. Vernon was a part of the 1994 Olympics where he worked with the Great Britain team in Atlanta as a diagnostic trainer. This accomplishment pales in his eyes when it comes to the hundreds of 4-H’ers and Boy Scout youngsters who have learned the proper way to shoot from someone who starts them with the basics and takes them to heights only limited by their desires. The secret is stance, establishing the dominant eye and a lot of patience when teaching a young shooter. As a grandfather or father, it is easy to hand a child or beginning shooter a gun and take pride in watching them learn. When setting up a first-time shooter, remember to start small. Handing a young or small statured shooter a 12 gauge with a 3-inch magnum only builds a flincher for life. Start with small loads (8shot) with a light gun. Remember ear and eye protection. Let them learn to enjoy the shooting sports. It is no fun to have a gun handed to you that knocks you down or blackens your eye. There is not much incentive there to repeat it if it is not enjoyed. Start with low brass shells with a 20 gauge and work from there. Vernon’s ideology and long term work has proven to produce world class shooters. He offers private instruction as well as shooting classes for groups or organizations. You can reach him at 318-366-3825. My advice is to listen, watch and enjoy. Maybe he will even do some hip shooting for you as well.

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Introducing SoftWash Services SaniCan Offers Residential and Commercial Wash Services BY MATT RAINWATER

ANICAN STARTED OUT AS A CRAZY IDEA, somewhere around 2010, while I was working on the pipeline. I’ll never forget coming home, to our house in Shreveport at the time, and telling my wife, Michelle, “Baby, I think we should start a garbage can cleaning service!” I knew she was going to tell me I was crazy, but to my surprise, she thought it was as good of an idea as I did. We just knew we had a million dollar business idea and couldn’t wait to retire by 30! I mean, how many garbage can cleaning services have you seen in your lifetime! Originally, we planned on starting our business in Shreveport where there were tons of big neighborhoods with plenty of garbage cans and lots of money from the recent oil boom and casinos. Little did we know, God had different plans. By October 2015, we had made our way back home to Northeast Louisiana, and we finally made the decision to start our business in Richland Parish. We really thought we might not be able to find a bank to take a risk on such a crazy idea. It was kind of funny going to the different banks and pitching our business plan to them. “So you’re telling me you need how much? For a garbage can cleaning business?” With the support of our family and finally getting our business loan, we got our first garbage can cleaning trailer on February 13th, 2016, delivered to our house in Oak Ridge. The residential garbage cans were really slow to take off at first, so we switched our focus to commercial dumpsters. We picked up several businesses in Richland and Ouachita Parish. Our dumpster and bin cleaning service continued to grow over the next several months and opened the door to expand our services into exterior cleaning. We purchased our first SoftWash system in November of last year. We never expected it to take off like it did. What makes our SoftWash application so attractive to our customers is that they no longer have to worry about the damage that comes along with typical high pressure washing. Since then, we have purchased another equipped truck, cleaned more than 200 houses and businesses all over NELA, and are maintaining over 100 dumpsters and residential cans! With all this being said, without a doubt, we would not be where we are today without the support of all the great people and businesses of NELA. This is the best place in the world.

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Farmers Market On Tower Celebrate the End of the Season

CTOBER MARKS THE END TO OUR INAUGURAL season of the Farmers Market on Tower. Each Saturday we choose a theme for the market. The themes are based on one of these three elements: community service, cultural experience and/or healthy living. October’s themes will encompass all three elements in some way. Here are a few of the themes that we have in October. OCTOBER 7 Paint the Market Red: Bringing awareness for the American Heart Association The market, along with the American Heart Association, will provide awareness, literature and encouragement. There will be a red chalk station where anyone can draw hearts in the circle driveway. Northeast Children’s Museum will sponsor a heart themed activity for the kids. We will feature heart healthy menus and foods. OCTOBER 14 Fiesta at the Farmers Market on Tower: Celebrating National Hispanic Heritage Month The market will feature Latin and Hispanic foods, crafts and visual arts. There will also be Latin and Hispanic traditional dancing and singing. If you are interested in participating in the Farmers Market Fiesta and your food, product or service meets the Latin or Hispanic origin theme, please contact Deidra Adair at ccsnorthlamarketing@gmail. com. OCTOBER 28 Plant-A-Palooza: A market honoring all things “Green” We are teaming up with LSU Agriculture Association, Northeast Louisiana Masters Gardeners and Ouachita Green to feature fall plants, gardening, planting guidance and plant education. Come out and purchase beautiful fall plants and greenery and help make Northeast Louisiana beautiful. OCTOBER 31 Tent-Or-Treat at the Farmers Market on Tower: A Halloween Family Spooktacular Join us on Halloween, October 31st from 5 to 8 p.m. for a family friendly fun place to trick-or-treat. We are inviting local businesses and organizations to decorate tents in which to pass out goodies (candy, coupons, toys). We will feature Spooktacular Halloween themed music by the Brian Sivils Band, food with a haunting twist, and activities that will get us all in the Halloween spirit. If you are a business, group or organization interested in participating in the Tent-Or-Treat at Farmers Market, please contact Deidra Adair at ccsnorthlamarketing@gmail.com. Please “Like” our Farmers Market on Tower Facebook page to see our various events and market themes. The Farmers Market on Tower organizers would like to thank our community, farmers, vendors, artisans, musicians, and sponsors for coming out each week and supporting the market. We would also like to thank our sponsors: CC’s Coffee House, Newk’s Eatery, The Holistic Chamber of Commerce, Northeast Louisiana Children’s Museum, Ouachita Green, For His Temple Foods, Tim and Gwen Green, and Joe and Linda Holyfield. Without our sponsors, we would have been unable to bring this wonderful community event to Northeast Louisiana WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | OCTOBER 2017 117

Holidays in CedarTown Continued From Page 64 Saturday, November 11th Jingles and Jammies 10 a.m. and 11 a.m. Admission $5 in advance or at the door Holiday Crafts and Treats 2 till 4 p.m. Open to the Public Admission: $5 Thursday, November 9th ~ 12 to 6 p.m. Friday, November 9th ~ 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Saturday, November 11th ~ 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Brunch Blitz, Holiday After Hours, Jingles and Jammies, and iPad/Apple Watch raffle tickets may be purchased in advance by calling Cedar Creek School. Contact information is listed below: Holidays in CedarTown is a project of the Cedar Creek School Parent Club. For sponsorship, merchant or ticket information contact: Cedar Creek School 2400 Cedar Creek Drive ~ Ruston, LA 71270 318-255-7707 ~ www.cedarcreekschool.org facebook.com/HolidaysInCedarTown Cedar Creek School practices an open non-discriminatory admission policy.

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Downtown Gallery Crawl Continued From Page 76

number of our artists together to help raise some funds for a local non-profit while also supporting the artists. Also, food truck Caster and Chicory will be selling their awesome beignets and coffee. So far, some of our local favorites who will be showing art at the Garrett House are Emery Thibodeaux, Victoria Smith, Lissy Sanders, Caroline Youngblood, Staci Albritton, Alyssa Guidry-Posey, Heather Gill, Kshana Davis, Mashall Smith, Staci Austin, Aleta Eley, Leah Reitzel, Michael Casey, Melanie Douthit, Ally Sutton and more. The featured artist at Arender Gallery will be Cliff Tresner, who recently was named the William R. Hammond Professor of Liberal Arts at ULM. Familiar to many arts patrons, Tresner’s work combines sculpture and painting, exemplified in pieces/assemblages such as End Goals, four panels with carved objects and found items on a wood shelf; Rock Table, wood, steel and paint; and Growth, wood and steel—all of which are new creations. The artists of the Downtown Arts Alliance, as well as their appreciative public, sincerely thank the always-generous DAA sponsors, especially Sunquest Properties, Louisiana Pain Care, Creed and Creed Law Firm, Fiesta Nutrition Center/The Good Earth Salad Bar, Cross Keys Bank, Lavalle Salomon Law Office, Dr. Terry Tugwell, Bayou Roux Restaurant, Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitors Bureau, Masur Museum of Art, Northeast Louisiana Arts Council, Sir Speedy, the News-Star, KEDM Public Radio, DeltaStyle, Louisiana Division of the Arts, Choice Brands and Marsala Beverage. Sponsorships are still available. For information on levels of support and benefits, see the organization’s website at www.downtowngallerycrawl.com and Facebook page (search Downtown Gallery Crawl).

Southern Bath & Kitchen Here to Help You with Your Dream Home

OUTHERN BATH AND KITCHEN IS CURRENTLY ranked the No. 1 plumbing supplier by Supply House Times. Southern Pipe & Supply, Southern Bath & Kitchen’s parent company, was recognized by Fortune Magazine as a great work place and as “One of The Top 100 Medium Size Companies to Work for in 2016-2017.” They are the only company in the wholesale distribution industry to be chosen. The company began as a small scrap metal business in 1918 by a Russian entrepreneur (Louis Davidson). The business officially changed to plumbing supply in 1938, changing its name to Southern Pipe & Supply. Marty Davidson, the third generation of the Davidson family, is the Chairman of the Board for Southern Pipe, and his son, Jay (fourth generation) is the current President. There are more than 100 locations in Mississippi, Alabama, Louisiana, Georgia, Arkansas, Florida and Tennessee. Southern Pipe & Supply is one of the largest privately held, independent distributors of brand name plumbing, HVAC, industrial, mechanical, and water works supplies in the Southeast. The Headquarters and the company’s 250,000 square-foot distribution center are located in Meridian, Mississippi, and Southern Pipe has served this area for longer than 40 years.

Southern Bath & Kitchen is Southern Pipe & Supply’s retail division, specializing in finished goods for the kitchen and bath. They provide each customer with personalized service, industry expertise, and top brands like Kohler, Delta, Moen, Whirlpool, Viking and more. Southern Bath & Kitchen will walk you through the entire process of designing your dream bath, kitchen and outdoor space. This intimate touch is what Southern Bath & Kitchen is known for, and to give you the best service possible. Appointments are encouraged to reserve your space and have their undivided attention for as long as your design project takes. Whether you are a contractor working on a big building project or a homeowner planning your dream kitchen or bathroom, Southern Pipe can show what it’s like to experience intimate customer service. To them, you’re part of the family. Call for your appointment at 318-387-9184 and they will be more than happy to help you with your dream home. Or simply stop by their beautiful showroom at 109 S. Pavilion Circle in West Monroe.

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A Special Collection of Local Favorites Junior League Cookbooks Continue the Tradition

UNIOR LEAGUE OF MONROE cookbooks represent a key piece of the community, heritage and tradition. Beginning with The Cotton Country Collection, published in 1972, Celebrations on the Bayou and Cooking in High Cotton complete the collection. Junior League women and the greater community have been sharing these recipes and cooking these meals for families, friends and guests for generations. We are sharing these recipes, with the hopes of continuing the tradition of sharing these cookbooks with new generations, those new to the area and those outside our region. These cookbooks are more than just the recipes that fill their pages and more importantly, they were created to directly support the community through their proceeds. Louisiana Crawfish Bake Cooking in High Cotton, pg. 92 Submitted by Tara Ambrose Ingredients: • 1 bell pepper, chopped • 1 bunch of green onions (chopped) • ½ cup (1 stick) butter or margarine

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• 1 (10 ounce) can mild tomatoes with green chilies • 1 (10 ounce) can French onion soup • 1 (10 ounce) can golden mushroom soup • 1 cup uncooked rice • 1 pound of crawfish tails Directions: Preheat the oven to 350 degrees. Saute’ bell pepper and green onions in the butter in a skillet until soft. Add the tomatoes with green chilies, French onion soup, golden mushroom soup, rice and crawfish tails and mix well. Spoon into a 9 x 13-inch baking dish. Bake for 45 to 60 minutes or until the rice is tender and the liquid is absorbed. Note: Shrimp can be used instead of the crawfish tails. Servings: 6 *Submission note: Spraying the inside of the baking pan prior to adding the mixture with a non-stick cooking spray allows for easy serving and less hassle in cleaning afterwards. Additionally, covering the dish with aluminum foil prior to baking will also prevent overdrying of the rice and keep your dish moist.

ARToberfest Tickets on Sale Celebrate ARToberfest: October 13, 2017

ICKETS ARE NOW AVAILABLE FOR the North Central Louisiana Arts Council’s 8th Annual ARToberfest, which will take place Friday, Oct. 13 at the Norton Building in Downtown Ruston. ARToberfest, sponsored by Durrett Law and Title, is NCLAC’s beer-tasting fundraiser that supports arts programs such as the Southern Circuit Independent Film series. Early bird tickets, of which there are a limited quantity, will give guests a first taste of the brews available, as well as this year’s commemorative pint glass from Fine Line Supply. General Admission tickets will also offer tastes of all the beers, and a commemorative tasting glass from Utility Brewing. All guests will have access to snack foods from Super One, as well as an assortment of delicious food trucks from which to purchase dinner: Wild Thang Meats, Ono’s Hawaiian, Beau Jack’s, Tacos de Guero, and Raus Bakhaus.

Marsala Beverage will provide commercial beers for guests to sample, and area home brewers and regional breweries will offer samples as well. Home brewers will compete for bragging rights with the Devine Home Brewer awards, sponsored by Devine Wines and Spirits. The Keg Package & Corkroom will provide sound, and this year’s music line up includes Bethany Raybourn, Hank Dammit, The Untouchables, and Heaven & HotRods. Tickets are $45 for Early Bird admission, with entry at 5 p.m.; $30 for General Admission, with entry at 6:30 p.m.; $10 for Designated Driver tickets. The Selfie Stop, raffles, a giveaway from Catahoula CrossFit, and lawn games in the Carriageway will offer additional fun for guests, as will the special 2017 t-shirt and pint glasses that are available for purchase. Our team of hardworking volunteers will be treated to dinner, thanks to Rosemary’s Kitchen, and will also receive a

special ARToberfest volunteer shirt, thanks to PetStar. Guests must be 21 or older. The event ends at 10 p.m. Anyone interested in volunteering may email the NCLAC office at nclac5@gmail. com. NCLAC thanks all the sponsors who are contributing to make this 8th year a success! Tickets are available at Fine Line Supply, 207 N Trenton in Ruston, or online at nclac.org Call (318) 255-1450 for more information. The Norton Building is located at 207 West Mississippi in Ruston. NCLAC is supported by its members, and also by a grant from the Louisiana Division of the Arts, Office of Cultural Development, Department of Culture, Recreation and Tourism in cooperation with the Louisiana State Arts Council and administered by the Shreveport Regional Arts Council.

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Choice Brands Beer Tasting On Wednesday, August 30th, Washington Wine and Spirits hosted a tasting of select beers from Merchant du Vin and Flying Tiger Brewery. An array of fine Belgian and Belgian-inspired brews were on the menu. Flying Tiger’s James Simpson and Rob Brewer were on hand to sample their newly bottled On’ry Abbot, a Belgian Style Strong Ale, available in 750ml bottles for a limited time. Local connoisseurs sipped and savored the rare selection while discussing their favorite subject - beer!

On the BayouScene

1 Phil Walters and Deacon James 2 Lauren and Wade Stewart 3 Susan and Shane Brooks 4 Rob Brewer and Delia Simpson 5 Jeff Burchfield and Tim Kerrigan 6 Lorenzo Treadway and Paul Vingiello

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St. Francis Offering Latest in Breast Cancer Technology First Medical Provider in the USA Offering All Three of the Latest Technologies Together for Comprehensive Breast Cancer Detection Services GENIUS™ 3D MAMMOGRAPHY™ EXAM In conventional 2D mammography, overlapping tissue is a leading reason why small breast cancers may be missed and normal tissue may appear abnormal, leading to unnecessary callbacks. A Genius 3D mammography exam includes both 2D images and tomosynthesis scans. During the tomosynthesis-dimensional portion of the exam, an X-ray arm sweeps in a slight arc over the breast, taking multiple images. A computer then converts the images into a stack of thin layers, allowing the radiologist to review the breast tissue one layer at a time. A Genius exam requires no additional compression and takes just a few seconds longer than a conventional 2D breast cancer screening exam. Genius 3D mammography is recommended for women of all ages and breast densities and allows radiologists to more effectively pinpoint the size, shape and location of abnormalities. This leads to better detection and greater peace of mind for patients. Large clinical studies in the U.S. and Europe have demonstrated the positive benefits of a Genius 3D Mammography™ exam. The largest study to date on breast cancer screening using the Genius exam was published in the June 25, 2014, issue of the Journal of the American Medical Association (JAMA). Findings include: • A 41 percent increase in the detection of invasive breast cancers.

• A 29 percent increase in the detection of all breast cancers. • A 15 percent decrease in women recalled for additional imaging. AFFIRM™ PRONE BIOPSY GUIDANCE SYSTEM Providing radiologists true 360° access to lesions in a shorter procedure time, this biopsy system also allows for enhanced patient comfort through ergonomic design and an array of patient positioning aids. SMARTCURVE™ BREAST STABILIZATION SYSTEM This system is clinically proven to offer greater patient comfort through the use of a curved compression surface mirroring the shape of a woman’s breast. This helps reduce pinching while providing even compression across the entire breast. St. Francis Medical Center is committed to the fight against breast cancer. If you would like to schedule a Genius 3D Mammography™ exam, or have questions, please contact Kitty DeGree Breast Health Center, located within the St. Francis Community Health Center on 2600 Tower Drive in Monroe, at (318) 812-PINK.

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2nd Annual Pumpkin Fest Event Set for Saturday, October 21st

HEN YOU CAN SMELL AUTUMN DANCING IN THE breeze and the sweet chill of pumpkin and sunburnt leaves, it’s time to have a festival with crafts, hayrides and all things edible. Join DBK Dance and Performing Arts and the Downtown West Monroe Revitalization Group as we host our second annual Pumpkin Fest on Saturday, October 21st with the help of 88.7 The Cross and Power 92.7. The streets of downtown West Monroe will be filled with vendors, food, crafts, entertainment, and so much more. Be sure to arrive early, as the first 500 people in attendance will receive a shopper’s bag supplied by 88.7 and 92.7 filled with goodies. You also don't want to miss a chance to join in on the raffles for great door prizes provided by each of our vendors! This is a wonderful family friendly event for all ages. For our furry friends, a pet costume parade begins at 11 a.m., thanks to Extreme Cars and Trucks. For not so furry friends, please gather around the stage at noon as our Big Pumpkin sponsors, Harrison Lilly/Keller Williams and Hayes Harkey Title, present entertainment provided by the students of DBK Dance and Performing Arts. Of course, we can’t have a Pumpkin Fest without a costume contest for the kids. Following the entertainment, kids of all ages will line the stage as they show off their favorite, nottoo-spooky choice of costume. A special thank you to Richland State Bank for not only sponsoring this event, but providing the judging as well. They will have a tough job on their hands. Richland State Bank is a founding member of the Downtown Revitalization Group and a huge supporter of DBK Dance, and we are thankful to welcome them as anchor sponsor of this event. Great prizes will be awarded to our winners of both the Pet Parade and Costume Contest! If you think a pet parade, entertainment, and a costume contest are all, we’ve only just begun. The entire day is filled with shopping from local vendors, such as Laminin by Missy Robertson, Believe Tees, Lularoe, Cindi’s Designs, This House, Soaring in His Gift and many more. You can also eat as much as your heart desires of fall treats and baked goods from Sweet Treats, beignets from Caster and Chicory, sweet tea and sandwiches from Newks, turkey legs from Heckard's Bar-B-Que, or coffee from CC’s Coffee House. The kids can enjoy painting rocks for Ouachita Parish Rocks, hayrides, a pumpkin patch with a great photo op, jumpers, and canvas painting, just to name a few activities. We hope you will join us as we celebrate all things fall and enjoy a family friendly community event for all ages. For more information on available sponsorship levels or vendor packets, you may email dbkpumpkinfest@yahoo.com.

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Your Hometown Urologist A Thank You to Our Medical Community BY DR. ROBERT MARX

ANUARY OF THIS YEAR, I WAS ASSAULTED WHILE ON vacation in South America. As a result of the attack, I sustained a compound, complex fracture of the ulna and radius in my right arm. Since then I have had three surgeries on my arm. This was a traumatic experience for my wife and me to say the least, but through it I have experienced kindness I never knew existed in the world. The grace of God has carried me through this ordeal, but I would like to thank the doctors and nurses in Buenos Aires, here in Monroe and at the Mayo Clinic, for their devoted care. I would like to personally thank Vantage Health Plan for covering emergency services out of the country as well as four trips to the Mayo Clinic and Delta Airlines for smooth travel, last minute changes to my itinerary, and their kind attention. Dr. deGravelle and Dr. Trettin, at the Orthopedic Clinic, and their rehab department deserve a huge thank you for facilitating my quick referral to Mayo and my ongoing care and physical therapy. I would also like to thank my patients for their patience awaiting my return to the office and thank all of you in the community who keep me in your prayers. I cannot say enough about the impact all this kindness has had on me. I am usually on the other end of this arrangement and not accustomed to being cared for by strangers. It has been a very painful blessing, not one I want to repeat, but still a blessing. I have since returned to work and I am enjoying seeing all of my patients again. It is good to be back on the â&#x20AC;&#x153;correctâ&#x20AC;? side of this arrangement. Conveniently located in the Glenwood Medical Mall, we are happy to be accepting new patients. Contact us today for an appointment. 102 Thomas Road, Suite 108 West Monroe, LA 71291 Phone: 318-329-8464 Fax: 877-301-5648 Monday, Tuesday, Thursday: 9 a.m.-5 p.m. Friday: 9 a.m.-noon Closed Wednesday, Saturday and Sunday

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A FITTING TRIBUTE

Tim McIlveene transformed a mission trip and a love of a new culture into a memorial for his globe-trotting sister

a r t i c l e M I C H A E L D EVAU LT p o r t ra i t by A B I G A I L B E R RY

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t first glance, Tim McIlveene appears somewhat of a homebody. The Ouachita graduate attended ULM and earned an MBA before going to work for then-U.S. Rep. John Cooksey in his district office. That’s about the time wanderlust set in. A Southern Baptist by faith and upbringing, Tim sought a mission posting through the church. The denomination’s mission office immediately shipped him off to Southeast Asia. “I’d never been to Asia,” he says. “I had no idea what to expect.” A tangential result of his travels to Asia and China became collections of vintage postcards from around the world, beginning with the earliest British colonies in Malaysia, known then as British Malaya. In traveling the world, working on missions for the Southern Baptist Mission Board, Tim had big shoes to fill. His sister, Aimee, had touched every continent with the exception of Australia, worked for women and children in some of the poorest and most distressed communities on earth, and had even been to the Gaza Strip to work with kids there. In 2001, Aimee contracted a rare virus and passed away, leaving behind a legacy that Tim wanted to honor. He just wasn’t quite sure how. Until inspiration struck him, he needed to earn a living. The three-year post with the Mission Board ended, and after a second stint with Rep. Cooksey’s office, he returned to northeastern Louisiana, this time to a job with CenturyLink in their governmental affairs department. It was here that he stumbled upon the way he would honor his sister’s memory. While in Malaysia, he had taken up collecting vintage postcards from the colonial era. He brought his collection home, and he framed them. “My friends and family loved them,” he said. “People just raved about them. I didn’t think that much about it, but a designer friend suggested I should think about marketing it.” That’s when the idea struck him. His globe-trotting sister’s work could continue if he could find a way to generate a little income from his hobby of collecting old postcards. “In her 22 years, she really packed a lot into it,” he says. “That’s one reason why, today, we’re trying to work with women and children. That’s what was near and dear to her.” That was in 2016. Just a year later, British Malaya Shop is off and running, a thriving online boutique that’s carving out a noticeable following through its website, britishmalayashop.com, Instagram and Etsy.

TIM MCILVENE is owner of BRITISH MALAYA SHOP, which specializes in unique art, décor and home goods curated from around the world.

The company specializes in unique art, décor, and home goods carefully curated from around the world. Tim’s collections start with images from the Malaysian island of Pnang – the original British Malaya colony. One item is a canvas-printed collection of façades, each of which has been carefully framed to highlight the unique architecture of the Malaysian people. Another photo depicts a playful mural of two children on a bicycle. A third captures a bicycle taxi driver’s brief moment of respite, his lined face suggesting that, at any minute, a fare could hop aboard and he’d be off. From Thailand, British Malaya offers a line of Celadon ceramic elephants. A pair of petite salt and pepper shakers in a light jade would make a fitting and playful addition to the breakfast table, where the morning sun could play with the crackleature while adding just a touch of whimsy to the table. Cornflower smiling elephants continue the motif of Thailand’s sacred elephant, and the line also includes rabbits and monkeys, as well.

Wherever Tim travels, he continues curating a collection of products and objets d’arts. A recent vacation to Bali yielded a new line of textiles. He’s especially proud of the Balinese throw pillows and napkins. “I went for vacation and found this line,” he says. “I ordered a bunch of them when I got back. I could barely wait to get them online. They pair well with many of our dinnerware products.” When it comes to setting a table, British Malaya offers a collection of Japanese ceramic plates in several varieties of cobalt-on-white patterns. A tightly-grouped spoke pattern evokes images of an eye, while looserspoked patterns evoke a spinning wheel. One pattern features prominent geometrics, while a fourth, striped dish evokes thoughts of bamboo in the wind. “These plates just pop when they’re on the table,” Tim says. “They make quite a statement.” While the company’s offerings continue to grow, the heart of British Malaya remains the collection of art prints. There are the

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postcard images he’s collected and curated over the years. Also, a series of stamps – enlarged to provide a better look at the artistry and detail – suggest a sense of writing home.

nother recent line of imagery Tim and company have begun offering are vintage maps. And by vintage, that is to say really vintage – as far back as the 1700s. A 1762 Vintage “L’Asie” French Map of Asia Art Print features exquisite detailing, including an intricately engraved title block and legend. Another print – an 1889 Malay/Singapore Peninsula Map Asia Vintage Art Print – takes a slightly more academic tone in its depiction of British Malaysia. Each of the prints are offered in a host of sizes ranging from a diminutive 5x7 up to a statement-piece 18x24. They are printed on archival quality paper and are suitable for fine framing. Another recently added line of prints features art prints from Africa and Asia. Just like a village bazaar in the Far East, it seems that no matter the corner you turn, you’ll find something new and exciting to catch your fancy at British Malaya. All of the products British Malaya offers are responsibly sourced and curated. Postcards are in-domain images from 70, 80 or even 100 years ago, all drawn from the diverse postcard collecting community. The textiles and the ceramics are also responsibily sourced. “They aren’t mass produced,” Tim says. “They’re all handdone, fair trade items. That’s a really important part of what we do – that the artists aren’t being exploited for their work, and that we’re not contributing to bad things happening in their villages and communities.” Spend a few hours browsing the British Malaya website, and it becomes clear that Tim has put a tremendous amount of effort into selecting each item. The result is a stunning amalgam of cultures that mirrors the blending of the cultures that occurred

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in Malaysia and China during the colonial periods, particularly in Pnang, for which Tim still holds a place in his heart. “Malay, Chinese, Indians, and Europeans blended the region into a culture that mixed all of those elements together,” he says. “That’s reflected in their architecture, the food, the communities. It’s a wonderful place.” Though not everyone can visit Pnang, Malaysia, or postcolonial China, they can bring a piece of those worlds to their homes through British Malaya. And though these beautiful products have traveled across the globe to get here, owning a small piece of the world isn’t particularly expensive. In fact, Tim works to ensure that British Malaya products are affordable. For example, a set of dessert plates that could easily command $120 or more in a retail shop are available for just over $44. Art prints start at $13.80. Even the textiles are quite reasonably priced, with beautiful Balinese prints priced at $22.50 for a set of four. And those Thai elephants? Also reasonably priced, with items ranging from $23 to $54, give or take. Though they’ve only been around for a year or so, Tim says the momentum the company has built so far is remarkable. Tim’s keeping his day job at CenturyLink, too. After all, even though British Malaya is growing, the primary purpose of the company is to support local artists and the communities his sister loved to serve. Still, he’s excited with the reception and the growth. “It’s amazing to watch the web traffic grow, to get inquiries from around the world,” he says. “I’m only online, and so it’s been interesting to learn how all of that works. But we’re steadily growing, and I get smarter and better at this every day.”

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Straighten Up at NELA Dental

Affordable and Convenient Orthodontic Options for Adults Not Your Mamma’s Braces Many of us grew up with the idea that the only solution was to endure years of uncomfortable, traditional braces. Modern treatments like Six Month Smiles braces and Clear Correct® systems offered at NELA Dental have completely changed the way we address the problem of misaligned teeth. Both are efficient and safe solutions for transforming your smile and boosting your self-confidence. Invisible Correction Clear Correct® aligners can alleviate problems with crowding, spacing, and uneven teeth. Treatment with Clear Correct® involves a series of clear, custom-made aligners that are virtually invisible. You will receive a series of aligner trays that you will change at two-week intervals to gently reposition your teeth into correct alignment. Clear Correct® aligners are made of a smooth, plastic material that is comfortable

and eliminates irritation. The aligners are removable and designed to be taken out while eating, brushing, and flossing. If you play contact sports Clear Correct® trays can be removed, allowing you to wear a protective mouth guard. Treatment times vary by individual, but results are typically achieved in about 12 months for adults. Smile Big in Six Months? Treatment with Six Month Smiles braces is similar to that of conventional adult orthodontics, but they have one major difference. Traditional long-term orthodontics are designed to perfect the patient’s dental bite. However, tooth alignment issues for many adults are not related to problems with their dental bite. Six Month Smiles braces have significantly shorter treatment times because the goal is not to alter the patient’s bite, only straighten the visible teeth. Six Month Smiles treatment focuses only on the teeth that show

when you smile. The braces do not interfere with your appearance or day-to-day life. The clear brackets and tooth colored wires will gently reposition your teeth without affecting appearance. Treatment with Six Month Smiles braces is generally more affordable than traditional braces or veneers. Desired results are usually achieved in about four to nine months, with an average treatment time of six months. NELA Dental is Here to Help Our dentists have helped many patients achieve their goals of a healthy, perfectly aligned, dream smile. We provide personalized care and make it easy to obtain the treatment you need with stress-free financing options. Contact one of our three locations in Farmerville, Monroe, or Oak Grove for your FREE consultation and Start Smiling Today!

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Arts and Cultural Events in Ruston Experience Ruston Today

ALL IS HERE! AND COLLEGE football isn’t the only thing returning to Ruston and Lincoln Parish. Mark your calendars for a season filled with events celebrating Ruston’s rich arts culture, all taking place in beautiful, historic Downtown Ruston. Coming up October 13 is Ruston’s largest beer tasting event, Artoberfest! In its 8th year, this event has become a highly anticipated one in Northeast Louisiana. Beer enthusiasts gather in the Norton Building, located in Downtown Ruston, to sample an impressive selection of craft beers. Showcased are known local brews, impressive home brewers, and some commercials beers as well. Live music will also be on site, along with food trucks in the courtyard. The event begins at 6:30 p.m. Tickets are $30 for general admission and sell out quickly! Get a chance to arrive at 5 p.m. for sampling with the $45 early bird ticket.

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Proceeds raised from this event go to benefit the North Central Louisiana Arts Council (NCLAC) and their programs like Holiday Arts Tour and Southern Circuit Film Tour. Immediately following Artoberfest is another anticipated event, Ruston Makers Fair! The fair will be held October 13 from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. in Downtown Ruston. This bi-annual event is family friendly and completely free to attend. Attendees can look forward to live music, food trucks, and most importantly - items available from some of the most talented designers, artists and makers of all kinds in Northeast Louisiana. Works include original paintings and ceramics, custom designed t-shirts, wood workings, handmade jewelry and clothing, all-natural soaps and much more. NCLAC has partnered again this year with the Southern Circuit Tour of Independent Filmmakers to bring a series

of documentaries and fiction films to the Dixie Center for the Arts. October 26 at 7 p.m., “Score” will be on the big screen and will sound incredible with the Dixie’s sound system! The documentary brings Hollywood’s premier composers together to give viewers a privileged look inside the musical challenges and creative secrecy of the world’s widest known music genre – the film score. This film is not to be missed! Tickets are only $5 and $3 for students. Attendees are invited to stick around after the film for a Q&A session with the filmmaker. And don’t forget, the series runs through April 18, 2018! For more information on these events or how to purchase tickets, visit www.experienceruston. com or call at (318) 255-2031. The Ruston Visitors Center is open 6 days a week, including Saturdays 9 a.m.-2 p.m.

Rhymes is More Than Just Renovations Rhymes Renovations and Contracting Offers Custom Work and More

ANDY RHYMES HAS ALWAYS had an insatiable quest to build, create and recreate, which led him to NLU, now University of Louisiana Monroe, where he double majored with degrees in Construction Management (Pure and Applied Science) and Management. “When I was 7 or 8, I remembering building a fort out of scrap wood in my backyard on Pargoud Boulevard,” says Randy, whose grandfather owned a lumber company in Marietta, Georgia. And he continues to build projects along Pargoud, just on a bigger scale. Since 2002, Randy has been a licensed residential general contractor. Randy has a particular affinity for restoration and has done several renovation projects over the past decade, but that isn’t where his work ends. “While I have worked on historic and vintage properties, I am also capable of and enjoy new construction,” says Randy. “My goal is to become one of northeast Louisiana’s

premier contractors for custom builds from developing and fine-tuning plans to the final luxurious finishes which take a home to the next level.” Randy’s customers have a discerning eye for detail and he has the ability to make sure the final product looks seamless. “When I am working on a remodel, I make sure that the jobs are accurate, historical and aesthetically pleasing, keeping the architectural integrity intact, to the best of my ability.” says Randy. He acknowledges his specialty is making an addition or renovation to an older home or office look as if it was always as up-to-date and modern while keeping the integrity of the structure and the time period in which it was built. That may mean custom moldings or antique brick that may need to be sourced. “The rooflines are very important to me,” he adds. “The work has to be architecturally correct and pleasing. You want to achieve the

look without compromising the integrity of the home or office.” Steve Brennan, one of Rhymes Renovations’ many repeat clients, says, “Randy goes the extra mile to make each space, whether it is new construction or a renovation, look perfect. Randy’s finished work and professionalism are top-notch, and we couldn’t be more pleased with the projects he has completed for our family both inside and out. He and his crew won’t stop until the customer is completely satisfied.” “I truly believe that it is so important to do things right the first time,” says Randy. “Blood, sweat and tears go into all the work we do. One of the homes I’ve been most proud of is the completely custom home on Milton Street that we designed and built.” The home is based on a New Orleans style design with an abundance of exposed antique brick arches, custom wrought iron, copper accents, a stunning courtyard and an inviting porte-cochere. This is just one example of the custom work that Randy Rhymes can provide to anyone looking to build from the ground up or renovate an existing home. To experience the level of care and detail that Rhymes Renovations can bring to your next construction project, call Randy today at 318.348.4287.

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Painting Exhibition at Parish Press See the Great Works of Emily Pullin

ORTH CENTRAL LOUISIANA ARTS Council (NCLAC) is pleased to announce an exhibit of paintings by local artist Emily Pullin. Ms. Pullin is an art educator, teaching elementary art at Cedar Creek School in Ruston, LA. She holds two art degrees: a Master of Arts in Teaching, K-12, and a Bachelor of Interior Design, both from Louisiana Tech University. The exhibition will be on display through November 28, with an Artist Meet and Greet on September 28. Emily grew up in a creative family and always knew that she would be in the arts in some form, but never considered herself a painter until recently. She has always been an admirer of photographer William Wegman. It was looking at his work that gave Emily the inspiration to pick up a brush and create a work of her own Weimaraner, Atticus. People quickly began commissioning Ms. Pullin to paint portraits of their dogs, and she has

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been painting “man’s best friend” ever since. Through her pet portrait commissions, she has pushed herself to establish her own style of work. Her work balances detailed images with an organic background. Ms. Pullin is very honored to be showing a series of more personal works in her solo exhibition. Of her art, Emily Pullin states: “This series of paintings focuses on objects and images that define me. All of these works have familial significance, some from the past and some from the present. For me, they are haunting reminders of what made me who I am and who my children will be as they grow into adults – rooted in what defines them, family.” Parish Press is located at 1007 North Trenton Street, Ruston LA, and is a locally owned coffee shop that features beignets, muffins, bagels, and favorite coffee drinks.

For more information about the painting exhibition by Emily Pullin, and NCLAC, visit www.nclac.org In partnership with Parish Press, NCLAC presents art exhibitions that feature work by regional artists. Works are available for purchase by calling the NCLAC office at (318) 255-1450 between the hours of 9 a.m. and 3 p.m., MondayFriday. NCLAC is supported by its members, including its corporate members: First National Bank, Origin Bank, Bank of Ruston, Driggers Outdoor, and The Peach 99.3. NCLAC is also supported by a grant from the Louisiana Division of the Arts, Office of Cultural Development, Department of Culture, Recreation and Tourism in cooperation with the Louisiana State Arts Council, and administered by Shreveport Regional Arts Council. Funding has also been provided by the National Endowment for the Arts.

Traditions Antiques

Luxurious European Antiques and More

OR OVER 25 YEARS, PAM WOOD AND MELANIE LILES HAVE been making twice-yearly trips overseas seeking of Europe’s finest antique furniture, lighting, paintings, mirrors and decorative accessories to fill their iconic store, Traditions Antiques. Located on West Monroe’s Antique Alley, Traditions is stocked with the trappings of European luxury. This last unexpected trip arose out of the need to fill a shipping container that was an overflow from the pair’s last trip overseas. The intrepid antique hunting duo’s most recent trip took them to the coast of Cornwall where they toured prehistoric sights like Stonehenge and the spectacular Minack Theatre. They also took the time to pick up a few souvenirs for their fellow Aidan Turner admirers, after all, they were in Poldark country. Melanie and Pam’s itinerary took them to a large fair in Northern England and to private sellers’ estates. “We set up appointments ahead of time. Most of our vendors will pull things in advance specifically for us, because they know what we like!” says Melanie. “We love knowing the history of the pieces we purchase. Our familiarity with antiques has given us the opportunity to learn more about the regions and circa dates of the pieces we buy. For instance, the types of wood, hardware and construction can help date pieces. The more you look, the more you know.” And these two women know a lot about Europe’s finest antiques.

The trends in Europe often dictate what the trends will be in America. “Creams and neutrals seem to be a fading trend. Bold colors and accent pieces are coming in,” says Melanie. In an effort to keep their store stocked with exquisite offerings, the two make sure to purchase one-of-a-kind pieces that can’t be found anywhere else locally. This shipment contains a beautiful hand-painted chest from the 1800s with a Noah’s Ark scene, which would be perfect for a child’s nursery. Unusual finds like a Gothic altar, find modern-day use as an accent piece, while dark mahogany and walnut furniture abound throughout Traditions’ collection. Decorative objects and artwork are among the most coveted pieces to be found at Traditions and serve as wonderful holiday gifts. Gorgeous blue and white platters with red roses in a vase would make an excellent holiday table setting, while copper would add a punch to any kitchen at Thanksgiving. Looking for the person who has everything? Traditions offers stunning crystal decanters, magolica pieces, horned-handled cutlery, French bread boards, barley twist candlesticks, French oyster platters, beautiful silver trays and more. The antique hunters have returned and when their ship comes in, the very best of Europe will have arrived in West Monroe. Make it your home for the holidays at Traditions Antiques, located at 313 Trenton Street in West Monroe.

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tales from india

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The home of Alpa and Dr. Jeet Patel honors their Indian culture both architecturally and artistically. Article MARÃ&#x2030; BRENNAN Photography MARTIN MEYERS Contractor CHUCK BURKETT Interior Design CARMEN HILL-EBERTS

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In the living room, high backed “statement” sofas in a neutral fabric and a traditional Indian swing in lacquered black with gold accents provide a central conversational area that honors the couple’s culture. The swing was found on a trip to visit Alpa’s grandmother in India, where every home has a traditional swing.

hen the Mughal emperor Shah Jahan built the Taj Mahal to honor his wife in 1632, the artisans created an enduring Wonder of the World. In Monroe, Dr. Jeet Patel and his wife, Alpa, honor their Indian culture architecturally and artistically in their home nestled in a secluded subdivision in the heart of Monroe. Arched double doors beneath a wrought iron Juliet balcony welcome guests to the Patel home. Manicured boxwoods, sculpted hollies and soaring crepe myrtles around the home’s parking court provide a serene landscape at the edge of the quiet cul de sac. As a reverence, a beautifully crafted leaded glass window with the “Om” symbol (three curves, a semicircle and a dot) is positioned near the entrance to the home. “Om” is one of the most sacred symbols in Hinduism and is considered to be the totality of the Universe, surrounding all creation. At the left of the property an automatic wrought iron gate swings open to allow access to the family’s garage. From the outside of the property, one would imagine the home to follow a traditional Acadian French tableau; however, to step foot in the Patel home is to be enveloped in a sari of color, texture and space firmly rooted in the Indian tradition. Born in Canada, Alpa grew up in Kentucky and Florida, and attended the University of Florida and obtained a BS degree in Health Science Education. Jeet was born in England but moved to Bossier, LA at the age of 10. He and his twin brother attended LSU-S then LSU Dental School in New Orleans. The couple, who have now been married for 19 years and have three boys, were set up by a matchmaking aunt from Florida who knew both. After 5 years in New Orleans, the Patels moved to Monroe to open Affordable Dentures, when their oldest child was only three months old. After living in Frenchman’s Bend for seven years, Jeet and Alpa began working on plans to build a new home that would fit their growing family. Says Alpa, “We worked with draftsman Randy Shultz for two years, really thinking about the details of this house. When we saw this new subdivision going in, we thought this would be a great fit for our family.” When the couple finished up plans, they enlisted Chuck Burkett as their builder and interior designer Carmen Hill-Eberts to help with finishes. “I love Carmen’s eye for detail and her ideas for making our spaces work even better,” says Alpa. 138 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Above: The open double-height foyer features creamy marble-toned tile floors and a gently curving staircase. The couple searched for the perfect Indian design-inspired pendant light as evidenced by the lantern with arches that hangs in the space. Right: Arched double doors beneath a wrought iron Juliet balcony welcome guests to the Patel home. Twelve foot ceilings throughout the home add to the sense of light and grandness from room to room. The Patels wanted as many eco-friendly solutions as possible. Distressed wood floors are made from recycled wood planks, and low VOC particle board and paints were used throughout. “We love color,” exclaims Alpa as we pass through one of the amazingly crafted India-inspired arches that builder Chuck Burkett was able to construct. Alpa relates how one of the contractor’s craftsmen, originally from South Africa, was wellversed in unusual arch construction. “We wanted Indian touches in our home. I got the idea for the arches from a magazine article. You will see that neutral rooms lead into rooms that are inspired by vibrant, jewel tones of Indian sari fabrics,” says the homeowner. “This house was my job. I wanted it to look like I envisioned and

Carmen helped me make that happen.” The open double-height foyer features creamy marble-toned tile floors and a gently curving staircase that leads upstairs to two of the boys’ bedrooms, a guest room and dedicated movie theatre. The couple searched for the perfect Indian design -inspired pendant light as evidenced by the lantern with arches that hangs in the space. A pair of commissioned “Atmostpheric” paintings by Sue Sartor hold court in the grand space. Flooring throughout the home was sourced and installed at Dupuy Flooring in Ruston. On the left side of the foyer, antique Indian carved wood temple columns from Art of Old India delineate the entrance to the Patel’s dining room, resplendent in hues of tangerine and aubergine. A pair of antique carved wooden doors sourced by Carmen from Art of Old India were custom retrofitted with a wrought iron door

frame custom made by Shayne Wallace of Iron Clad Designs. Wallace is the artisan who is responsible for the wrought iron work throughout the home. The doors open into the more formal, central living room of home. In the dining room, a painting of the Taj Mahal using oranges, saffron and aubergine hues by performance artist J. Zumo was a gift that was painted during Alpa’s fortieth birthday celebration in Houston. The dining room ceiling is painted with a distressed technique in a tangerine by Teresa Clark. Built in storage and display cabinets on either side of the antique doors provide places for storing serve ware. An adjacent butler’s pantry features a hidden dish drawer and a mini wine cellar. In the living room, high backed “statement” sofas in a neutral fabric and a traditional Indian swing in lacquered black with gold accents provide a central conversational area that honors the couple’s culture. The swing was found on a trip to visit Alpa’s grandmother in India, where every home has a traditional swing. The large fireplace and abstract art by Polly Spence provide a focal point. The couples’ boys enjoy practicing piano and providing ambient music for their parents on the black lacquer baby grand piano. The Patel’s open floor plan kitchen and

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den are truly the heart of the home. The kitchen is complete with two dishwashers, an enormous gas range, warming drawers and more. The uppermost doors of the kitchen’s cabinetry are outfitted in custom metalwork inserts. The kitchen flooring tiles are laid in a pleasing herringbone pattern. Tumbled travertine mosaic tiles cover the opening between the kitchen and the den area. A large custom banquette, upholstered in a creamy toned shagreen-like faux leather, is built into the kitchen island and provides ample seating for the family around a large round custom breakfast table. The leather upholstery keeps clean-up from being a chore. Just beyond the kitchen, a small elevator makes trips upstairs with luggage for guests a breeze. In the master bedroom, the couple commissioned a custom upholstered headboard with nailhead trim. The trey ceiling was silver leafed by artist Teresa Clark. The silver leaf carries through to customer designed valances. A pair of paintings by Polly Spence flank either side of a gas and crystal modernist fireplace. A hallway that leads to the en suite master bath finds a spiral staircase, which connects Jeet’s office upstairs to the master bedroom. The master closet was space planned by Barry Becton and leaves no stone unturned. A painting by Courtney Wetzel is a study in

calming neutrals. The master bath features red and oxblood red mosaic tiles applied to walls behind the freestanding soaking tub from LCR and on the walls of the walk-in glass door shower. Dark grey cabinets and light marble counters provide the perfect foil for the room’s warmth. One of Jeet’s cousins said it would be cool to have a basketball court at the house. Jeet and the boys love playing basketball indoors, and Alpa knew it would be helpful to have room for three rambunctious boys to run around in. The half-court regulation basketball gym attached to the home is a winner no matter how you play the game. LSU colors dominate and set the tone for epic battles. Laughs Alpa, “I compromised on the size of the master suite to have this court.”

powder room just beyond the kitchen near the gym is a Sariinspired treasure; walls are papered in a hand-stamped gold, oversized, traditional Indian pattern. The ceiling of the room is wallpapered as well with a gold tiger stripe. Onyx-like floor tile adds to the jewel qualities of the space. The playroom which opens into the gym has great features like built-in storage to keep toys hidden until they are ready to be played

Above: The Patelâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s open floor plan kitchen and den are truly the heart of the home. Tumbled travertine mosaic tiles cover the opening between the kitchen and den area. Right: A powder room is papered in a hand-stamped gold, oversized, traditional Indian pattern. Below: The trey ceiling in the coupleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s master bedroom was silver leafed by artist Teresa Clark.

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Left: The master bath features red and oxblood red mosaic tiles applied to walls behind the freestanding soaking tub from LCR and on the walls of the walk-in glass door shower. Below: Family and friends often gather upstairs in the Patelâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s movie room for big games or favorite flicks. One of Jeetâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s cousins said it would be cool to have a basketball court at the house. Jeet and the boys love playing basketball indoors, and Alpa knew it would be helpful to have room for three rambunctious boys to run around in. The half-court regulation basketball gym attached to the home is a winner no matter how you play the game. LSU colors dominate and set the tone for epic battles.

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T with. Colorful green walls and matching ceiling amp up the emphasis on whimsical color and provide an inviting space for the homeowners’ children and their friends to kick back and play. Speaking of play, family and friends often gather upstairs in the Patel’s movie room for big games or favorite flicks. Bronze stingray faux leather reclining chairs make comfort a priority. An old-fashioned movie curtain and

custom valance designed by Carmen dress the space in luxurious fabrics. NetTech installed the state-of-the-art technology. Light boxes of famous movie posters line the walls, which are painted the same bronzed chocolate color as the ceiling. A wet bar with a copper sink and fixtures is embellished with a mosaic tile backsplash. Carpet from Dupuy helps with acoustics in the room.

he upstairs guest bathroom features stainless mosaic tiles on grid with a dark grey slate tile. Just down the hallway, Jeet’s home office pays homage to his English roots. Union Jack pillows, tailored curtains, and navy walls lend a cheery, United Kingdom vibe to the space. The whole family loves spending time under the vaulted ceiling in the outdoor living area which is screened in, open to breezes but not pests. The area contains a full outdoor kitchen with grill, sink prep area, refrigeration and more. The cabinetry features twig drawer pulls and granite countertops. Hardware and drawer pulls throughout the home were sourced from Key Millwork & Supply. Says Alpa, “I wanted an outdoor space that was usable year round.” A large stacked stone fireplace provides a focal point for a semi circular sectional sofa. The outdoor room looks out onto the gardens and terraces designed by Rhymes Oliver and executed by Al Hayward of Big Al’s Lawn Service. Exploring their Indian culture and traditions in an eclectic and modern way is achieved with success through the Patel’s use of vibrant color and the mix of antique and contemporary furnishings and finishes.

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Ruston’s Loyal Blue Weekends Rocking the Railroad in Downtown Ruston

RIDAY NIGHTS IN DOWNTOWN Ruston are booming! Rock the Railroad celebrates Louisiana Tech football and Ruston’s arts and culture every Friday night before a LA Tech home game. The event begins at 5:30 p.m. in Railroad Park on Park Avenue with live music on the outdoor stage. Champ and LA Tech spirit groups perform a community-wide pep rally, and then it’s music, food and brews all evening long. The best part, it’s FREE to attend! Friday, Oct. 20, Rock the Railroad will give attendees a taste of fall in Ruston. Mums and pumpkins from Townsend House will be set up for sale benefitting DART and Teen Challenge. Bring the kids out to pick a pumpkin to decorate at NCLAC’s pumpkin painting station. Other activities include face painting, sidewalk games and bounce houses. Many downtown merchants are also staying open late with the Tech Bar Bop

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Band making special appearances inside stores. Food trucks will be on site, as well as Devine Wine and the Keg Package with beer, wine, and other beverages, and Uptown Downtown with sweets and snacks. The Peach 99.3’s Rick Godley will be on-site playing your favorite tunes. Bring your lawn chairs and blankets and settle in for a night of easy listening. Bring the crew out to mix, mingle and enjoy the crisp, cool October air with beautiful Downtown Ruston in the background. Rock the Railroad is only the beginning of an event filled Loyal Blue Weekend. On Saturday, locals and visitors alike can walk, shop and dine in Downtown Ruston before the big game against Southern Miss. Select merchants will be opening early for shoppers and The Peach 99.3 will be taking game day requests for you to enjoy while

browsing. Avoid game day traffic by parking downtown and taking the Tech Trolley to Joe Aillet Stadium. The trolley runs continuously five hours prior to kick-off and one hour after the game, completely free of charge. On Sunday, Beau Vines Steakhouse and Rosemary’s Kitchen in Ruston have created specialty Loyal Blue Weekend brunch menus. Try the RK Smoked Gouda Cheese Grits made with tomato gravy or Beau Vine’s signature Crème Brûlée French Toast. Embracing football traditions makes Ruston and Lincoln Parish Louisiana’s College Town. Grab your friends and family and head Downtown Ruston every home game weekend as we celebrate Ruston’s culture and loyalty to the Bulldogs. For more information and a complete list of events, visit www.experienceruston.com or give us a call at (318) 255-2031.

Haven: Interiors, Fine Paper and Gifts A Valuable Design Resource

AVEN IS A GREAT DESIGN SHOP that offers luxurious bedding, elegant accessories to complete your home, and a wonderful selection of distinctive gifts. A premier shopping destination in our area you won’t want to miss! Owned by licensed interior designer Sandy McMillan, Haven is a valuable design resource for our area. This boutique’s selections reflect the owner’s interior design background, hours of research, and countless market visits. This fall, Haven is offering the perfect design accessories to complete your home. New design arrivals include beautiful trays, decorative bowls, and interesting vases and lamps. Coffee table accessories can absolutely complete a room. In addition to stunning accessories, Haven is a great place to order furniture. This shop is the exclusive dealer in Monroe for Sherrill Furniture, known for high quality upholstered pieces with abundant fabric

choices. Bernhardt furniture is another great line that is showcased in Haven with its stylish and functional pieces. In-store assistance is available to coordinate new furniture for your space. Add a refreshing design element in your home with wallpaper from one of their designer lines. Wallpapers from Designer’s Guild, Nina Campbell, Candice Olson, and Schumacher can provide interest to a space that cannot be achieved by paint alone. Update the look of a bedroom with a stunning new bed. A line of designer upholstered headboards is available in a quick ship program with an assortment of styles and fabric selections. Pair that with a luxurious coverlet and throw pillows from Haven and you have just transformed your space. Inside of Haven, you will also find a residential and commercial interior design firm that has been serving Monroe and the surrounding area for more than 20 years.

This licensed interior design firm specializes in remodeling and new construction projects, furniture procurement, finish selection, space planning and other full-scale design services. In addition to great design, Haven should be your destination for perfect gift ideas. With a selection for all ages, you are sure to always find something special in their exclusive lines. Jewelry, pajamas, robes, bath products, and picture frames are just a few of the many things you will find at Haven. With so many new items debuting this fall, be sure to stop by and shop the new arrivals! Shoppers know Haven always provides wonderful customer service and beautiful, complimentary gift wrapping to complete your shopping experience. Treat yourself and your home with a visit to Haven!

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Family Portraits and More

Upcoming Portrait Specials at Albritton Photography BY STACI ALBRITTON MITCHELL

I EVERYONE! FALL IS IN THE AIR AND ALBRITTON Photography is excited about our Fall and holiday portrait specials. Pumpkins, Families, Santa and Christmas are always fun at Albritton Photography. Let’s talk about Pumpkin Specials first. Albritton Photography has its own pumpkin patch at our outdoor studio. We also have new “sets” to go along with the pumpkins this year. Mini Sessions are offered on Oct. 10, 19 and 26 in the afternoons and evenings. This is a fun, inexpensive way to get some great outdoor portraits of your children. Fall is also the time when most outdoor family portraits are taken. We celebrate families by offering a Fall Family Portrait Special and Sunday sessions. This year our Fall Family Portrait Special is from October 17 through November 20. The outdoor session fee is 50 percent off. Albritton Photography’s large outdoor studio is beautiful. Or, make your family portrait even more special by having it done at your home, camp or favorite place. Regardless of whether you use our outdoor studio or your location, GET YOUR FAMILY PHOTOGRAPHED. I hear regrets all the time about families not having a current family portrait. I never hear negative comments about having too many family and

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children portraits. Have trouble getting the family together? I will be photographing Sunday, Nov. 5th at my outdoor studio just for families and children. The Sunday sessions go fast, so call now to schedule your appointment. Santa comes to Albritton Photography on Tuesday, Nov. 21, and Wednesday, Nov. 22. It’s so much fun to see the children with Santa! We will have three new sets for our clients to choose their favorite. You can choose between S’mores with Santa, Twinkle, Twinkle, Classic Christmas and Christmas at Home. We are so excited about Christmas this year. Mini Sessions with (or without) Santa will be offered Nov. 21 and 22. These always get filled early so don’t delay in calling. Christmas Mini Sessions (without Santa) will also be offered Nov. 28, 29 and 30. These sessions can be just children or families. Send out awesome Christmas cards this year with a great portrait. And lastly, Santa and Albritton Photography will be at The Mother Hen on Trenton Street in West Monroe on Saturday, Dec. 2 from 9 a.m. – 12 noon for portraits. Come see Santa at a fantastic children’s store in festive downtown West Monroe. Don’t forget to call Albritton Photography at 324-9118 to schedule your appointments!

Teresa’s Flooring and Decorating Changing the Way We Look at Floors

INCE 2003,TERESA’S FLOORING AND DECORATING has provided this community with the best selection of flooring, granite counter tops, tile, carpeting and much more. Always keeping the customer in mind, we offer a service that stands above the rest. With our clean, organized showroom and warehouse, we strive to make your decision process as easy as possible. At Teresa’s Flooring and Decorating, nothing is more important to us than our customers. We take pride in our customer service. By being local we can cater to each person and guarantee that clients are completely satisfied with their selections. In doing this, our customers keep coming back and are considered a part of our family. We look forward to your patronage and believe that customer satisfaction should be guaranteed. We are proud of our products and offer them at competitive prices. Continually going out of our way, we strive to show our customers the value in choosing Teresa’s Flooring and Decorating. Offering the best possible products to our customers is just one of the ways we stand out from the competition. With options for

every room in the house we provide a huge selection of hardwood, tile and laminate flooring, vinyl plank, quartz, granite and more. Teresa’s Flooring and Decorating also provides decorating, flooring removal, maintenance and installation to Monroe and West Monroe, as well as the surrounding areas including Ruston, Columbia, Bastrop and Crossett. Much more than just a place to find flooring, we have a wide selection of custom showers with installation, tub surrounds and back-splashes. Also, we have the largest showroom in North Louisiana that is covered in all types of flooring, providing an opportunity to see your floor laid out before you purchase. Stop by our showroom at 2601 Cypress Street in West Monroe or call 318.340.1667 to get a free estimate and experience the easiest way to design your home. Our staff will help you every step of the way in making your dream home a reality. For contractors, designers, do-it-yourselfers, come to our warehouse store at 2204 Cypress Street (the big blue building) for even more savings on your next home project.

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FOCUSING ON OUR HEALTH Continued From Page 84 me, and just kept on with my very busy and important life. And why? To be honest, I’m not entirely sure, but it was totally unnecessary, but fortunately, very fixable. Some people aren’t that lucky though, and that’s what I am here to say (well, scream, if my keys would let me.) If you are having even the slightest of symptoms, no matter what ailment you might be experiencing, please address it with your doctor. Five years ago, I was diagnosed with breast cancer and from the day of my first symptom to my final diagnosis was only two and a half weeks. Yes, it scared the Bejeezes out of me, but I had to know what I was facing. At the time I had a seventh grader and a second grader, and I was worried Scott would have to marry a 22-year old college graduate so she could tutor our kids. So why, you might ask, didn’t I treat these symptoms, five years later, with the same aggression? I can’t answer that, except, I think, I just wanted it to be something else. I didn’t

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want to have heart disease at 51 years old. Listen, with that mentality, I could have been the real life Dorothy and Toto and we might have really had to go to Oz to get me a heart. But, as it turns out, I get to keep the one I’ve got. Thanks to the attentiveness of my doctor and his staff, over the week long progression of testing, I finally got the answer, and the treatment, I needed. And again, I thank God for modern medicine and skilled health care providers that help put you back on your feet. So what do you say, readers, are you still with me? A good nurse told me that most of the time (not always but most) our bodies start telling us when something is wrong. Please, heed those warnings, friends, and make your appointment today. Good health is something that most of us probably take for granted until we are facing a medical crisis. My doctor suggested that a lot of times, in his discipline of cardiology, he gets his patients when they have already had a heart attack, or their heart muscle

has been so damaged that it makes his job much more difficult in giving them a good outcome. Don’t wait, make your health a priority, because after I finally did, I get to be here, at the end of my column, feeling very grateful to be doing good (well, except for my groin, wait, can I say groin in a children’s column?) and looking forward to the cardiovascular therapy that my doctor is such a proponent of. No, that’s a lie, I’m not looking forward to it, but I have researched it and I realize the importance and the necessity of this kind of treatment. Along with, of course, regular exercise and a good healthy diet (with the occasional dosage of cheesecake, wait, my fingers just typed that without my permission), that should make a good medical recipe for a healthy future and many opportunities to advocate for placing importance on your health. Happy Fall, readers, may this season be filled with faith, family and good health.

Superior Service and More

O’Nealgas Has Been Serving Northeast Louisiana for Over 60 Years

N MARCH OF 1952 IN HIS SMALL hometown of Choudrant, La, John A. O’Neal founded O’Neal Butane. He started the business with one delivery truck and one employee providing “butane” gas service to residents of the community. As years have passed, the business has grown dramatically. O’Nealgas, Inc., now has a small fleet of delivery and service trucks and 68 employees in eight office locations, 20 parishes in Louisiana and five counties in Arkansas. For 65 years O’Nealgas has earned their success based on three principles, all of which are driven by the contribution of outstanding employees. First, they have always sold and delivered the highest quality products to their customers. Second, they have made a conscious effort to deliver the best gas service in the industry. Third, they believe being a family-owned company

adds value to the customer and community. Tom O’Neal, John and MeJ’s oldest son, came to work for the family in 1977 after finishing college. In June of 2001, Tom took the active seat as President of O’Nealgas, Inc., and is Owner and President of Hercules Transport, Inc., a bulk liquid carrier, also based out of Choudrant, La. STAND-OUT QUALITY OF SERVICE Unlike many large corporate propane retailers, our family-owned company prides itself on providing for our customers — even after an initial sale has been made. We offer “service after sale,” which means that our in-house specialists will be available to assist with product repairs and maintenance of any product you purchase from O’Nealgas. Furthermore, our team can assist with installation needs such as new piping for, or modifications to, propane systems.

TYPES OF SERVICE PROVIDED O’Nealgas provides a number of services to make sure you enjoy the warmth and comfort of our products. Some of our most frequently requested services are listed below: • Propane rental tank maintenance such as painting and regulator replacement • Piping installation for new propane service • Modification of existing propane system • Testing for leaks and safety measures • Propane tank replacement and disposal • Installing propane appliances purchased from O’Nealgas At this time O’Nealgas is unable to provide piping services for natural gas customers but can refer you to a licensed plumber that can complete the service for you.

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Guaranty Bank and Trust

GBT Loan Production Office is Here to Help with All Your Mortgage Needs

UARANTY BANK AND TRUST Company of Delhi (GBT) is pleased to announce its expansion with the opening of the bank’s Loan Production Office located at 2101 Tower Drive in Monroe. The LPO specializes in long term fixed rate mortgage loans that the bank will be offering to its existing customers, as well as others throughout northeast Louisiana. To head this expansion, GBT hired Courtney Holyfield who is a 15-year veteran of the mortgage lending business in the Monroe/ West Monroe market. Holyfield recalls her decision on taking this new position, “I was very excited to be part of such a wonderful organization. GBT has been my personal bank for many years and I already had great relationships with many of its officers and employees. It just seemed like the right fit for me.” The LPO opened its doors April 1st and has been in full swing ever since.

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The office opened with four employees but quickly expanded to nine as of the middle of August 2017, when Mark Holyfield and his team joined the bank. GBT is now pleased to offer a full suite of mortgage options such as FHA, VA, USDA, and Conventional loans. According to Holyfield, GBT offers a niche product of manufactured housing loans for both existing and new build land/ home packages. GBT also offers interim construction loans with the LPO doing the permanent, long-term financing. Holyfield stated, “We are truly your ‘one stop shop’ for all your mortgage needs. Customers may apply at any of the conveniently located branches or at the LPO office. We enjoy walk-ins but anyone can apply easily right over the phone by calling 318-388-8115.” Guaranty Bank and Trust Company is proud of the tradition of service that it has produced since its founding in 1966.

We have always striven to remain a safe depository for our customers and a source of consistent financial support for the communities that we serve. As a commercial bank, Guaranty Bank and Trust Company welcomes the opportunity to serve you. The staff, management and Board of Directors are committed to the philosophy that a bank does not have to be the largest in order to provide the best in services and products. Guaranty Bank and Trust Company of Delhi has served the communities of northeast Louisiana for over 50 years, with offices in Delhi, Rayville, Richmond, Epps, Oak Grove, Start, West Monroe, Sterlington, and now Monroe.

Do You Suffer from Excessive Acid Reflux? St. Francis Now Offering Minimally Invasive LINX® Procedure for Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease (GERD) WHAT IS GERD? Gastroesophageal reflux disease (GERD), also referred to as reflux, is a chronic digestive disease in which acid and bile flow back from the stomach into the esophagus, creating pain and often causing damage to the lining of the esophagus. GERD usually has a life-long negative impact on an individual’s quality of life. GERD is caused by a weak lower esophageal sphincter (LES). Normally the LES acts like a one-way valve, allowing food and liquid to pass through to the stomach, but preventing stomach contents from flowing back into the esophagus. WHAT IS LINX® AND HOW DOES IT PREVENT REFLUX? The LINX Reflux Management System augments the LES reinforcing the body’s natural barrier to reflux. The LINX System is a small, flexible band of magnets enclosed

in titanium beads. The beads are connected by titanium wires. The magnetic attraction between the beads helps keep the LES closed to prevent reflux. Swallowing temporarily breaks the magnetic bond, allowing food and liquid to pass into the stomach. Magnetic attraction between the beads closes the LES after swallowing, reinforcing the barrier to reflux. HOW IS LINX IMPLANTED? LINX is placed around the esophagus just above the stomach using a common, minimally invasive, surgical technique called laparoscopy. Patients are placed under general anesthesia during the procedure, which is generally completed in less than one hour. Once implanted, the device will begin working immediately. LINX is designed to be a lifelong implant.

WHAT HAPPENS AFTER TREATMENT? Following the procedure, under a physician’s guidance, patients should be able to resume a normal diet immediately and will typically resume normal activities in less than a week. Side effects are generally minimal and resolve over time. Your doctor will be able to give you more information. The LINX procedure now being offered at St. Francis Medical Center may be an option for those suffering from Gastroesophageal Reflux Disease (GERD). Patient assessments for LINX are currently provided only through the Gastroenterology Clinic, located in Monroe, West Monroe or Ruston, at (318) 3252634 or (800) 293-2634.

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photography by MARTIN G MEYERS story by MARE BRENNAN architechture by CASSIDY KEIM interior design by JULIE MAYS

DURRETT LAW & TITLE UNDERTAKES HISTORIC BUILDING RENOVATION IN RUSTON

ack in the summer of 2015, attorneys and brothers Andy and BJay Durrett saw the raw potential and envisioned the possibilities for renovating a dilapidated shell of a building in the heart of Ruston’s charming downtown. Inspired by the work of other preservationists in Ruston and Monroe, the Durrett brothers looked at the big picture and worked with Ruston and Louisiana State officials as well as an architecture historian from Louisiana Tech and local architect Cassdy Keim to help expand Ruston’s existing historic downtown district to include even more worthy properties to be saved. More blocks downtown were painstakingly researched and mapped for inclusion to be eligible for Federal Historic Rehabilitation Tax Credits as well as State Commercial Tax Credits. As one can imagine, creating an economic/historic federal tax district and getting it approved took a while. So while the brothers were working with various governmental entities to expand the district, their architect Cassidy Keim was working on plans to renovate and modernize the building while keeping the integrity of the historic space. Keim’s first pass for the building was not as modern as the end result, which has a liberal use of glass, steel and maple. Construction got underway in February 2016, when Chris Moran Construction was tasked with the renovations which were completed in June 2017. The youngest Durrett brother, Teddy, served as the job’s project manager for Moran Construction, making this truly a family affair. Melissa Durrett, BJay’s wife and the law firm’s office manager, worked closely with Ruston-based interior designer Julie Mays to develop

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the distinctly personal atmosphere for each office. Mays was enlisted to achieve the cohesive, comfortable, functional, client friendly, and above all, beautifully appointed spaces together for this on-the-move law firm and real estate title office. Built in 1919 on the footprint of what was once the town’s blacksmith shop, the Durrett Law & Title Building has had many iterations over the course of its near century of existence. With soaring 30 foot ceilings, the structure was originally built as a “moving picture” house. Over the course of time, the building has been home to an antique store and served as a workspace and warehouse. When the Durretts bought the building in June 2015, they were faced with a “blank slate,” according to Andy. Because of the historic nature of the property, the exposed brick in the back offices were left exposed while plaster-covered brick walls elsewhere in the building was repaired and restored to their former glory. The upstairs loft retains its original steel beams, as well. Downstairs, gleaming floors of self-leveling concrete and geo-epoxy were given a multi-layered dark stain and polished to a mirror-like finish. To maximize the efficiency of the building yet maintain a streamlined, minimalist approach to interiors, Keim drew plans for a new roof and added insulation to the outside of the building. All new HVAC were installed using a NEST computer-controlled climate system to conserve electricity. Modernist interiors dazzle with exacting, knife-edged joinery, where walls meet ceilings and floors. No architectural detail has been spared, and the execution is flawless. During the process, when applying for the preservation tax credits, work would have to come to a halt. B’Jay described points at which applying for those credits were almost scrapped. One of the very few dark days occurred when the entire storefront of the building had been completely finished by the contractor yet did not meet the approval of the tax credit commission. Undeterred, back to the drawing board they went. The result is storefront windows allowing passersbys to

enjoy peer into the reception area as they walk or drive by. Outdoors, a custom fabricated sign and awning was created by Mike Stevens at RapidSigns. As clients enter the building, the double height reception space is illuminated by a customized Edison bulb fixture created by Chris Hart, who also crafted the law firm’s sign. The receptionist desk is a long waterfall of marble with a matching credenza with dark grey painted drawers. Mays designed a chic and comfortable area centered around a plush, velvet teal sofa. An agate side table is lit from within and offers a soft glow at night. Keim designed a natural maple shiplap wall that wraps overhead and leads down the central hallway to offices. Details like custom drilled air vents in the maple make this project truly custom. The sleekness of the architecture and long spans of uninterrupted walls lend itself to modern canvases by some of Ruston’s most noted artists. Andy and BJay add they want to be a venue for showcasing local artists, and the firm is slated to be a stop on the upcoming Ruston Art Crawl in December. “Julie was instrumental in helping us figure out the art needed to complement these spaces,” explains Andy, whose own office features the work of Adrianna Speer. Frosted glass offers privacy in the firm’s boardroom. The room features a custom wet bar with honed black countertops and sleek cabinetry. Rolling black leather chairs surround a custom board table. A custom chandelier by Chris Hart provides a plethora of light for the Durretts’ real estate closings and client meetings. A large abstract by Joey Slaughter injects slices of bright color into the space. Each office along the hallway is connected visually through similar color palettes and architecture yet individual spaces reflect their occupants’ personalities through art and furnishings. Husband and wife, BJay and Melissa, share adjoining offices and relish their time spent working together. BJay’s space features a standing shelf desk which is wrapped in metal and is attached to the way with rustic metal hardware. His sitting desk, anchored by a WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | OCTOBER 2017 155

pieced hide rug, features a live wooden edge. A large piece by Joey Slaughter injects raw energy into the space. An ergonomic ball chair keeps BJay on his toes while visitors can relax in a grey leather “womb” chair. An overhead, exposed steel beam, original to the structure, separates BJay and Melissa’s offices.

elissa’s desk is a crisp and white with stripes of gold that lead to delicate gilded metal legs. Chris Hart built Melissa a small sitting-height shelf desk of maple with hardware that is the feminine counterpoint to her husband’s shelf desk. In Melissa’s office, Mays has designed a glamorous seating area grounded by a conversation-starting, pie-shaped cocktail table of rustic wood. A pair of gilded metal chairs upholstered in a creamy leather with strips of saddle-colored leather “arms” up the wow factor. Across the hall, Andy’s office pushes the boundaries on tradition. A teal velvet sofa is paired with mid-century modern chairs upholstered in a deep navy and a patterned rug. Andy’s desk and credenza are custom-built in a U-shape with a thick maple top and crisp waterfall edge. All three canvases in his office are the work of LA Tech MFA artist Adrianna Speer. Says Melissa, “I can tell you the men are happier and more productive since we have been in the new offices.” Mays adds, “It’s fun to design residential and commercial spaces that really work for my clients.” When working with the Durretts, she would often pull together and narrow down options for the men to see, allowing them to choose the options they liked the best for their own spaces. The end result? Some very happy clients. Keim thoughtfully designed men’s and women’s restrooms for privacy. Chris Moran built custom vanities for each space, using industrial pipe with counters of honed black granite. White subway tiles line the walls. Above the vanity, a floating mirror glows from a light hidden behind. Railings for the stairs were designed by Keim to be more industrial and are softened by treads of wide plank maple. Upstairs, the loft is a soaring space where the

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original beams of the building are visible. For the Ruston-based architect, functional never means pedestrian. Moran fabricated an air intake unit designed by Keim. The steel plate is dotted with perfectly placed lozenge-shaped holes that elevates air intake into the realm of modern art. More offices could occupy the floating loft space, giving the firm plenty of options for growth in the future. A glorious Red Stag European mount comes into view as one reaches the top of the staircase. Andy bagged the trophy on a family retreat in Huntsville, Texas, and his father, Johnny Durrett, taxidermied the enormous antlers. The loft space now includes a full kitchen and bath along with built-in storage and areas for relaxing. In the loft’s kitchen, lucite counterstools tuck neatly under the waterfall edge quartz countertops. Two lucite pendants shine from above. Future plans include a mural on the back of the building that would further engage the public in interaction with this beloved building. Says Melissa of the process, “I hope it encourages and inspires other to take on projects like this!” There is no doubt that this vision of what can be will move Ruston further into the forefront of preservation and innovative rehabilitations of historic properties. She adds “The importance of reinvesting in property goes beyond just the time and money we put in. These buildings are worth saving. As we expand and grow our firm, this building is a manifestation of our commitment to our community. It is so nice to see downtown come alive!”

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Staging Gets It Sold

Make Your House Stand Out with MarketFair Staging

OME STAGING IS ABOUT illusions. It’s how David Copperfield would sell a house. It’s magical. It’s beyond decorating and cleaning. It’s about perfecting the art of creating moods. Staging makes your house look bigger, brighter, cleaner, warmer, more loving and, best of all, it makes home buyers want to buy it. Instantly! It’s about adding the small details: the lipstick, mascara and, for simplicity, a stunning, single strand of pearls. • 81 percent of buyers find it easier to visualize a property as their future home when it is staged • On average, a staged home sells 88% faster and for 20 percent more than a home that isn’t staged. You’ve been looking for ways to make your house stand out from the crowd and

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MarketFair Staging is here to help! From consultation all the way to full design implementation, their team is equipped to help you sell your house for maximum dollar in minimum time. Having expertise in both the local real estate market and the design world, makes their service a true necessity when getting your home ready to sell. “I’ve seen first hand that a home staged by MarketFair helped my seller produce an offer of $15,000 more than we discussed when I listed the property,” Brian Bendily, Realtor, John Rea Realty, said. Aleta H. Eley has always loved sharing her artistic outlook through music, dance, visual art and design – but truly enjoys putting her business sense to work by capitalizing on the real estate knowledge she learned from her father. Staging is a service she offered her own clients, but

quickly recognized it was an amenity sought by many sellers and agents. Her real estate appraiser husband and 5 children are an active part of both selling real estate and staging it. “I love design and I love real estate; staging enables me to do both. Hopefully I am passing the torch on to my kids, giving them the ability to follow in my father’s footsteps!” With over 15 years of professional design experience and a unique eye for pulling together a collected and curated space, Brandi Howard has designed everything from clothing, handbags and jewelry to photoshoots, events and environments. Her true love and passion is to help people LOVE where they live. ”Sometimes it’s hard for people to visualize how awesome a house can be - they just need a little help painting the picture!” Brandi and Aleta would love to help you get your home ready to put on the market, but if you aren’t looking to sell, don’t let that stop you from calling. MarketFair Staging and ReDesign is here to help if you need construction consultation, event design help or just need to “fluff” your space and give it new life. Look them up on Facebook and Instagram to see their many design installations!

Makers of Handmade Fine Jewelery Let DuPont Jewelers Create a One-of-a-Kind Piece for You

UYING A PIECE OF JEWELRY IS THE START OF A relationship. When buying a piece of jewelry in today’s Internet world, the relationship becomes even more important. OK! OK! I get it, it’s easy it’s quick and it’s impersonal. The Internet is good for buying most things – and that’s what you want. But, for something as personal as jewelry, there is a better experience. I hear about mall stores selling extended warranties that are not inexpensive, or that someone buys a piece of jewelry from a website, but finds out minor adjustments take weeks, not to mention, the expense and hassle of shipping. In our store, every piece we sell is the start of a new relationship. We hope you bring your jewelry item in frequently for cleaning, and once a year we will refinish your jewelry item to like-new condition. It will look just like it did on the special day you received it. All this free of charge and for a lifetime. If you break a piece of jewelry or lose a diamond or gemstone, we will repair it on-site. All repairs are professionally done at our jewelry store located on the corner of Forsythe and 19th Street in Monroe. Usually repairs are completed within three days. Everyone has jewelry in their jewelry box that they are tired of. You may want to trade it for a new design or we can redesign your jewelry and create a new piece you never thought would be possible.

We can even use your own diamonds and pay you for your old mountings. Here’s a good use for the Internet ... Find a design and we can duplicate it. Your idea, plus our talent, making beautiful jewelry. Of course, it won’t be made in China or India, but made in the USA – in Louisiana – in Monroe, on the corner of Forsythe and 19th Street. Someone told me after hearing about our business, “You’re an old school jeweler.“ I smiled and said, “Yes, I guess we are.” I kinda like that. Yes, we really make jewelry from scratch, and intimately know jewelry and diamonds. We are Gemologists and Jewelry Designers. Let’s start a relationship the next time you’re thinking of jewelry.

– James DuPont www.DupontJewelers.com facebook/dupontjewelers Trade – Restore – Redesign — Sell Dupont Jewelers on Forsythe in Monroe Makers of Handmade Fine Jewelry

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Bath Bombs, Foaming Sugar Scrubs and Bath Salts Deer Creek Bath Co.

FTER RESEARCHING MANY other bath bomb products out there and seeing the harsh ingredients used in them, we wanted to master the perfect bath creation; one that we would use ourselves. We spent many, many hours failing while trying to create the perfect handmade bath bomb but it finally happened, and Deer Creek Bath Co., was born. When we decided to expand our product line we researched and found that sugar scrubs complemented bath bombs. We bought from other companies and found them to be gritty and rough, so once again we tested formulas over and over until we came up with something unique. The result was a buttery foaming sugar scrub that’s creamy, luxurious and, as best as we can describe it, a fluffy like frosting. Our scrub cleanses, moisturizes, and exfoliates. All of our products are handmade right here in Bonita, La, using only the highest quality ingredients.

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• Our Bath Bombs are handmade circular fizzies that you drop in a warm bath, infused with skin nourishing oils such as sweet almond oil and grapeseed oil. The bath bombs release a wonderful fragrance and have Epsom salt for therapeutic healing. • Our Foaming Body Sugar Scrubs exfoliate and lather up like soap without the oily mess of traditional scrubs. Our scrubs are in a fluffy, frosting-like soap base containing a drizzle of olive oil to cleanse, exfoliate, and hydrate the entire body. Our scrubs can be used both in the bath and shower and feel like butter to the skin. • Our Bath Salts are everything you need to detoxify, relax, renew and totally pamper yourself! We use the highest quality, USP grade Epsom salt available with magnesium sulfate that is known for its exceptional therapeutic value and purity. Most of our products include Epsom salt

which relieves stress and relaxes tired, achy muscles and is enhanced by our extra fragrant aromas. Our bath bombs are mixed with luxurious ingredients like Epsom Salt, Citric Acid, Sweet Almond Oil, and Grape Seed Oil that literally “explodes” like a little bomb in your tub to relax, soothe and make your skin ultra-soft to the touch. Our goal at Deer Creek Bath Co., is to make fun, fabulous, hand-crafted products, from only the finest ingredients that are affordable to everyone. Each product is made fresh to order and created to be different from competitors with bold, unique fragrances and bright, saturated colors to make them fun to look at and even more fun to use! With the quality of our products and pricing, we have experienced overwhelming popularity. We sincerely hope our products bring you incredible relaxation that makes you feel and smell fabulous!

Caring for Your Outdoor Cushions The Patio Place Offers Simple and Easy Tips

E UNDERSTAND THE DESIRE our customers have to protect the investment they make in their outdoor spaces. Well, you’ll be happy to know that maintaining the original appearance of your outdoor cushions, pillows and umbrellas is not a labor that will rob you of an entire Saturday. With a little routine cleaning and by using some of the tips provided here, you will see keeping your fabrics looking their best is simple and easy. The Patio Place carries 100 percent solution dyed acrylics from Sunbrella and Outdura, which are the very best fabrics for any outdoor application. These durable fibers are resistant to fade and mildew while still giving you some beautiful patterns for a stylish outdoor living space. By beginning with the best available outdoor fabrics, you’ve already taken one major step in the right direction. Proper maintenance, like with anything else we own, will keep these fabrics looking

their best. By simply brushing off dirt before it has time to set in to the fabric or wiping up spills as soon as they happen, spots and stains will be easily avoided. For stubborn spots, stains, or mildew, these fabrics can withstand bleach when appropriately diluted, but begin cleaning with a mild soap and warm water. Always rinse your cushions thoroughly after cleaning. Another tip to further protect your outdoor fabrics and their appearance is to cover your furniture and cushions when they are not getting a lot of use or during harsh weather conditions. The Patio Place carries a wide variety of Treasure Garden covers, and can always order for more specific pieces. These covers are durable and water resistant with cinch locks to secure a snug fit. For added convenience and ease, they are also machine washable. The Patio Place and Treasure Garden offer a complete line of protective furniture covers

that will fit any style or brand of outdoor furniture so you can protect your investment year round! Our protective furniture covers are made from RhinoWeave™, a Treasure Garden exclusive! RhinoWeave™ is machine washable and comes in an attractive champagne color. It is designed to be durable, breathable, water resistant and will not crack or peel like vinyl. All covers feature the spring cinch lock to secure into place for a snug fit, water resistant zippers (for modular styles only), a convenient storage pouch sewn onto most covers and are machine washable. With any other questions regarding your outdoor furniture and fabrics, feel free to stop by and speak with any of our knowledgeable staff at The Patio Place. Our store hours are 10 a.m. - 6 p.m. Monday through Friday and 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. on Saturdays. We look forward to helping you make your outdoor paradise.

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We Are More Than Just Brick

Acme Brick Offers Flooring, Tile, Outdoor Kitchen Options and More

INCE ITS FOUNDING IN 1891, ACME Brick has continually advanced the art and science of brickmaking, to make brick an affordable, sustainable, enduring and beautiful choice for America’s homeowers, builders, contractors, institutions and businesses. With locations throughout the United States, Acme has been in their current Monroe location since 1978, supplying homes and businesses throughout Northeast Louisiana with bricks they can depend on. However, Acme does more than just brick. Acme offers homeowners, contractors and builders options for flooring. Wood flooring has an elegant look that can add warmth and character to any room. Recent advances in manufacturing and finishes mean that wood floors can now be installed throughout the home and over a wide variety of subfloors. A growing trend is luxury vinyl plank flooring - a durable, affordable and

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waterproof option. If it’s been awhile since you’ve purchased tile, you’re in for quite a surprise. Acme Brick Tile & Stone offers a variety of porcelain, ceramic and stone flooring. Decorative accents, hand painted wall tiles, glass and stone mosaics and metal accents are also available. Acme can help you turn a yard into an all-purpose family room. Build patios and walkways from quality clay brick pavers from Acme, Pine Hall and other manufacturers. But don’t stop there. Acme carries all the materials you need to add built-in grills and outdoor kitchen equipment, fireplaces, and fire pits. And to terrace or contour your yard front or back - Acme offers concrete segmental retaining wall units. When it comes to grills and outdoor kitchens, Acme has freestanding portable models that feature integrated all stainless

steel carts with storage below grill and fold down side shelves. Most packages include side burners and backburners. A built-in island grill is the heart of an outdoor kitchen. In the showroom, Acme carries all the elements of a fully equipped outdoor kitchen: access doors, cabinets, and of course, the materials for the kitchen enclosure. Stone is just another material that Acme offers for homeowners and commercial projects. From burnished block, cast stone, manufactured stone and natural stone, Acme has a variety of stones to use throughout the interior and exterior of your home. If you are looking for the wow factor to personalize your living spaces, Acme offers a new option for homeowners - elegant iron doors. These inspired exterior and interior doorways are an elegant and affordable. All of these items and more are available to see at the Acme Showroom in Monroe. Their friendly and helpful staff have other 50 years experience and are ready to help start or complete your project, no matter the size or budget. Bring your plans or ideas to our experienced and knowledgeable staff, and feel confident that they can help make your project a success.

Introducing 3D Dental Imaging

Most Advanced Technology Available in Dental Radiology

R. PATRICK MCGEE IS PROUD TO introduce the most advanced imaging system available in dentistry today: the i-CAT® CBCT 3-dimensional x-ray system. What is CBCT 3D imaging? CBCT stands for cone beam computed tomography. It is the most recent advancement in dental imaging sciences. Unlike conventional 2-D dental imaging, 3-D imaging gives a more precise and accurate representation of anatomical structures. This precision has multiple benefits to the dentist as well as to the patient. One of those benefits is much more accurate diagnostic information that can be obtained from a 3-dimensional image set compared to a single 2-dimensional image. With 3-D imaging, pathology can be readily identified in both its location and severity. “Often times a patient will present to my

practice with symptoms that are not easily replicated, said Dr. Patrick McGee. “In such a case, a standard 2-D radiograph shows very little information. Using the i-CAT® CBCT, a 3-D image will show virtually any pathology that is present. This means that the patient’s problem can be treated efficiently and accurately.” Another state-of-the-art feature of the i-CAT® is the ability to perform guided implant surgeries. Guided dental implant surgery allows for patients to have a much quicker procedure with much less postoperative discomfort. How does guided implant surgery work exactly? When a patient is first interested in dental implants, a CBCT 3-D image is acquired. Next, the implant position and angulation is planned digitally in a treatment planning software. Finally, a surgical guide is fabricated to

place in the patient’s mouth at the time of the procedure. With this guide, the implant procedure is completed much quicker with 100 percent accuracy, avoiding vital anatomic structures which allow for safer procedures with less complications. “I would like to invite you to see for yourself what 3-D imaging has to offer. We offer free consultations for implants, which include an i-CAT® CBCT image,” said Dr. McGee. “We have very flexible hours and offer financing options to allow you to get the smile you want. Visit our website or Facebook page for a in-depth look at our practice and what sets us apart. Our goal is to offer each patient unsurpassed, comprehensive dental treatment. We hope to see you soon!”

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STONE HOUSE EATS ClÃ©lie and Henry Stone speak to BayouLife about their restaurant in Rayville that is based on faith, family and fellowship. article by Vanelis Rivera and photography by Martin G Meyers

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n Rayville, Louisiana, an unassuming home-style restaurant awaits your company. Owners Reverend Clélie Stone and her husband Reverend Henry Ryall Stone have created a food ministry that speaks to faith, family, and fellowship. The beginnings of Stone House Eats is the epitome of faith in action. The married couple would constantly fantasize on the what ifs of owning a restaurant uniquely tied to their culinary taste and vision. The consistency and saturation of such thoughts emboldened Clélie to pave her own direction. She became a seeker, considering any opportunity as a step toward the proverbial door that would lead to her ambition. Clélie began her cooking career at a Christian camp in Mer Rouge, Louisiana, and also shared another kitchen at a church to kickstart her catering business. Through the constant hauling of appliances and food, she quickly learned that, “You can’t share a kitchen.” Word of mouth led Clélie to the current owners of the Stone House Eats property, who took a chance on the self-made chef. Thanks to a $5,000 loan from her uncle, Bubber Brown, Clélie was able to sign the contract at the end of December 2014. One step at a time, as if stone by stone, Clélie and her husband began preparations for their opening. “I had one employee. I interviewed one person and I hired that one person. It was a step of faith every day,” she indicated. Claiming that their preparatory measures were the “world’s worst business plan,” the couple kept trudging through, working from five in the morning to late evening, finally opening the doors of their restaurant on February 3, 2015. On day one, Clélie’s advertising strategy included baking mini bread loaves, suiting up in a grey chef coat and her mother’s pearls, and walking around the block offering neighboring businesses a loaf of bread and her business card. Faithfulness became the Stones’ business model. Using her sarcastic wit Clélie noted, “We just opened the doors and believed that people would risk their lives and come here and eat.” In a more declarative tone, she followed with, “Making that bread every day. Being open. Making contact with people. It’s hard work, but good work.”

Clelie’s dive into the restaurant was not a random impulse. Her grandfather was Justin Wilson, PBS TV personality who had his own Cajun cooking show. Wilson was known for his fictitious Cajun persona. While Clélie may not have adopted her grandfather’s preferred aesthetic of a light blue button-up and cherry red bow tie and overalls, she shares his reverence for “regular old people food.” This cooking pedigree also has origins from her maternal line. Her Uncle Bubber owns Panola Pepper Corporation in Lake Providence, Louisiana, a company that began with family recipes, particularly the “time honored secret recipe for Panola Gourmet Pepper Sauce.” He also recently opened Providence Foods. The shop features specialties including “sliced green tomatoes, tomato relish, jalapeno relish, chowchow, barbecue sauce and other vegetable and relish medleys,” some of which are for sale at Stone House Eats. When you walk into Stone House Eats, you are walking into hey y’all comfort. Walls adorned with black and white family framed-photos, porcelain and wine cork decor, white-brushed brick fireplaces, and a motley of wood dining sets, make you feel like you can lay down your load. Indistinct sultry smells from the kitchen permeate the two cozy dining rooms that comprise the dining space. Expect Monic, longtime employee and sweet tea specialist, to greet you as one would an old friend. Say yes to her sweet tea brew, guaranteed to refresh with hints of mint and a special addition of Earl Grey. Clélie, the only cook, handles ingredients with intention, precision, and confidence in spite of having no formal culinary training. Her dishes demonstrate a keen refined palate, an exciting exploration of common ingredients, and imaginative pairings. Unmistakable passion seeps from the harmony of her food, the dining experience, and the family’s eagerness to serve. “We want people to be blessed by the food, blessed by the company, and blessed by us as we serve,” Henry conveyed. Ingredients are fashioned with patience and care, arising from Henry’s belief that “the passion and the power, the charisma of a meal, come from the work that is put into it.” Currently only serving lunch, the menu at Stone House Eats changes weekly, featuring stunningly balanced items such as oven-roasted chicken carbonara with fresh garden veggies, Clélie’s take on muffuletta made with their own bread and olive spread, and meatloaf with mashed potatoes and sautéed cabbage dressed with a sweet and sour tomato sauce flavored with Panola Gourmet Sauce. Their extensive lunch items are promoted on their website and Facebook page, and are sure to entice an array of tastes. WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | OCTOBER 2017 165

uided by the transformative significance of coming together as a family at the dinner table, Clélie introduced First Fridays Steak and Seafood night. She believes, “the family meal is the first place that order is established. So much happens around a dinner table. The food is never the star. It is always the people.” Henry added, “We want people to sit down and have conversations. We think of this as a ministry.” Undeniably, this occasional, reservation-only, fine dining opportunity at Stone House Eats is not one to leave on your to-do list. Last month’s menu was artistically crafted. A charming starter conceptualized by their daughter Zöe arrived after drink orders: mini honey-dill biscuits, an ingenious pairing. Appetizer options included barbecued jumbo shrimp cooked in a fresh house-made barbecue sauce of tomato, finely chopped veggies, butter, white wine, and seasonings. This homemade barbecue medley is the type of sauce that does not need a protein. It’s run-down-yourchin good. Another savory appetizer to delve into is the Catfish Quenelle with Creole Crab sauce. This airy, fluffy delight is made from a mix of catfish, rice flour, and seasonings served with a house-made creamy creole sauce with crab meat. You’ve had nothing else like them! Clélie dubbed them, “A dumpling on steroids.” The Stones strive to buy local and fresh products to make as much as they can from scratch, which is what makes their offerings superior. Henry claims that if they find a better product, they often will change to that. The meat from their aged Angus ribeye is from Robinson’s Meat Market in Rayville. A 16-ounce ribeye, seasoned and cooked to order,

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rests amid twice baked potatoes filled with a creamy mixture of housemade pimento cheese – a velvety experience-and roasted asparagus spears tied with a thick cut of bacon, also from Robinson’s. Another favorite entrée is the seafood crepe with oysters Rockefeller sauce. Two enticing crepes are filled with a creamy fusion of shrimp and crab situated on a creole sauce, topped with oysters Rockefeller sauce, and plated with your choice of asparagus or savory-sweet green bean bundles. Each entrée is served with your choice of either a house salad of mixed greens, purple onions, grape tomatoes, and your choice of housemade dressing, or the house wedge salad with blue cheese dressing, bacon crumbles, and shredded boiled eggs. Ending a first Friday dinner without dessert would be an unfortunate mistake, as Clélie masterfully crafts a dessert lover’s paradise. On the list of three items is a chocolate mousse cake roll with chantilly cream, white chocolate bread pudding, and personal pecan pie with bourbon vanilla ice cream, a favorite among regulars. It’s a browned-butter pecan pie baked in a muffin tin and served warm with bourbon vanilla ice cream. Such an elaborate three course menu merits a lasting eating experience, which is why Henry makes it clear that the Stones are not in the business of “pushing people in and pushing people out” of their restaurant. If you “want to come in and eat and sit for two hours, please have at it.” The Stones want you to stay, promising hot cups of coffee while they clean up. The Stones have also extended their Stone House Eats kitchen in the form of fridge and freezer items that can be ordered for pick-up at the store. Fridge items include fresh tarragon chicken salad, house made pimento cheese, house made bread (regular or flax-seed loaf, made fresh everyday); meanwhile, the freezer is stocked for your

The Stones strive to buy local and fresh products in order to make as much as they can from scratch.

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picking with cheesy chicken spaghetti, crawfish, Louisiana red beans and rice, fresh lasagna, and, customer favorite, chicken pot pie. Monroe hopefuls can take advantage of special deliveries made to Arlette at 1603 N. 18th Street, usually on Fridays. Deliveries are listed and scheduled on the Stone House Eats website. These deliveries are order-based and must be received the day before delivery. Whether for lunch, first Friday dinners, or any of their plentiful catered events, the Stone House Eats dining experience is a collective effort: Husband, daughter Zöe, son Nathan, Monic, and kitchen hand “Vee.” “Everyone is required to multi-task. You don’t just get to be in the corner and do the salad. Everyone needs to go over everyone else’s steps so that we are covering each other,” explained Clélie. This seemingly humble family establishment is a stronghold. The Stones have weathered the challenges of owning a restaurant with grace and incredible fortitude. It is not a secret that the restaurant business is not for the faint hearted. “We think about quitting all the time, but in the end we like taking care of people. We think of this as an extension of our table,” affirmed Henry. Clélie’s message is one that envelops an entire community. She credits the restaurant’s success to the town of Rayville, alongside the parishes of Richland, Morehouse, and Madison. “They have been incredibly generous and kind to us. If we enjoy any success it is because of those good people!” Eating at Stone House Eats is partaking in the grace-filled simplicity of communing at a table with good food and good conversation--The priceless moments that become the pillars of our lives. Stone House Eats is located at 828 Julia Street in Rayville, Louisiana. Learn more about their lunch hours and their next First Friday Steak and Seafood night on their website, www.stonehouseeats.com. Find them on Facebook or reach the restaurant at 318.267.4457. 168 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

Sylvestri Earns Honors at Regional Conference Raville Native Attends Southern Regions Intern Conference

en Sylvestri, a Risk Management and Insurance major, participated in a nine-week summer internship with Gallagher Global Brokerage at its Monroe location. At the end of the internship, Sylvestri and his partner were named the GGB Division Sales Competition Winners at the 2017 Southern Regions Intern Conference in Houston, Texas. Sylvestri and his partner appeared before a panel of executives who judged their presentation entitled “Why Gallagher.” Their sales pitch was on the industry’s concerns of rising terrorism and cyber liability. “We made our scenario that we were presenting to a group that was made up of a stadium owner (CEO) and their fellow leadership execs,” Sylvestri explained.

“We were pitching to them how Gallagher’s specialties in the fields of terrorism coverage and cyber coverage were uncontested.” Competing against 18 GGB offices from six states, Sylvestri and his partner competed in four rounds to win the competition. The senior from Rayville said the intern experience really prepared him for his future in risk management, saying, “The overall experience of my internship was great. It allowed me to travel and network with hundreds of interns and employers

from all over the country (and world) and get handson experience with great people from the great office in Monroe. “It also allowed me to develop as a person and as a professional. It was such an honor to get to represent ULM against some bigger colleges, but at the same time, it was so great to win that competition. It shows the quality of education coming from the ULM College of Business, and the Risk Management Program. I felt like I was more exposed and familiar with the industry in comparison to students from other programs,” he said.

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3D Mammography at Delhi Hospital If You Could See Her Future, Would You Change it?

SISTER. A DAUGHTER. A MOTHER. A WIFE. Cancer does not care when or who it strikes. Breast cancer can be remarkably adept at hiding so early detection is vital in the ongoing fight against the disease. Thankfully, innovative technology continues to emerge that is finding new ways to overcome this challenge. Delhi Hospital is proud to be one of the first healthcare providers in the region to offer the latest in state-of-the-art breast cancer screening â&#x20AC;&#x201C; 3D Mammography. 3D Mammography is the most accurate breast cancer screening available and we are proud to offer this lifesaving service to our community. Research has revealed that cancers found during early screening exams are often smaller in size and still confined to the breast, as compared to those found later. When considering both the factors of size and spread of breast cancer - the most important predictors of prognosis for women with the disease - early detection has become a strategic focus in cancer prevention and care. Mammography itself continues to be an extremely valuable tool in this battle. The current gold standard is 2D digital mammography and although this digital mammogram is successful in identifying a large number of cancers, it still has its limitations. With conventional 2D mammography, the radiologist is viewing all the complexities of your breast tissue in one flat image. These flat images can be challenging to interpret because some of the tissues may overlap and obscure cancerous areas. Think of it like the pages in a book - when you look down at the cover you cannot see all of the pages, but if you open it up you can go through the entire book page-by-page and see everything in great detail. 3D Mammography is designed with this same concept in mind. Most importantly, 3D mammography can detect 40 percent smaller, more invasive cancers that are missed with the conventional 2D mammogram. These precise 3D images reveal small breast tumors when they are easiest to treat. Also, these superior 3D images aid doctors in determining the difference between breast tumors and harmless areas that might have looked like a problem on a standard mammography image. This results in fewer callbacks for additional mammograms and other procedures like breast biopsy or ultrasound â&#x20AC;Ś and that means less stress and more peace of mind for you. The fight against breast cancer takes a huge leap forward with the availability of 3D Mammography. With fewer false positives and the ability to detect a greater number of small invasive breast cancers, Delhi Hospital will continue to do its part in saving lives with the implementation of 3D Mammography. We are proud to take the lead in breast imaging by offering this unprecedented technology to the women of our community. Contact us at (318) 878-6306 to schedule your 3D Mammogram today. Earlier detection-fewer false alarms. The test matters. Learn more at www. delhihospital.com.

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KEDM Annual Beer Tasting Celebrate 10th Annual Beer Tasting

HARING A BEER OR TWO WITH FRIENDS IS ONE OF life’s many joys! Friends of KEDM announces the highly anticipated Fall Beer Tasting, a community celebration and fundraiser benefiting 90.3 KEDM Public Radio. Now in its 10th year, the event takes place on Thursday, October 19th from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Marsala Beverage Event Pavilion located at 825 Stone Avenue in Monroe. Fall is a season when fresh hops are available and best consumed. Flavors get toasty and colors deepen for a true taste of the harvest. “We’re pleased to present solid standbys from Anheuser-Busch, innovative craft brews, and ciders including some of autumn’s finest offerings” says Tyler Flemister, vice president of marketing at Marsala Beverage. This year, Josh Madden returns with live music and entertainment. And Rhoda Brown’s Hog Wash Caboose will be on site to offer his championship slow cooked Bar-B-Que for $10 per plate. “Music fans and beer enthusiasts can enjoy good food, good beer, and good company while supporting KEDM,” says Babbette Adcock, president of Friends of KEDM. “This annual party supports the great work KEDM does in our community.” The Fall Membership Campaign at KEDM is raising funds to deliver national, state and local news along with diverse music celebrating all our community has to offer. KEDM makes a significant contribution to the cultural richness of our region and is a powerful medium, building awareness and engagement to foster a connected community. KEDM’s Policy and a Pint explores issues that can affect positive change in the region. The most recent conversation about Workforce Development brought together education and business leaders for a dynamic discussion of preparing a workforce with strengths in soft skills, critical thinking, and problem solving. Other recent topics covered Ouachita River water level management, Public Art, and Historic Preservation. Vintage Alan Lomax recordings took center stage at the KEDM Roots Revival at Live Oaks Bar and Ballroom. The evening premiered original music based on Lomax’s work such as Goodnight Irene, Diamond Joe and Black Betty. Dr. Barry Ancelet served as a guide on the cultural journey with musicians including Doug Duffey, Jig the Alien, Brian Sivils, Kirby Rambin and Kenny Bill Stinson. Events like these provide northeast Louisiana with the only source for NPR News, music and cultural connections. Gather your friends for the hearty and robust flavors of fall and support your local public radio station at the KEDM Fall Beer Tasting! Admission is $15 at the gate.

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Think Before You Ink Introducing Dermapen TattOff™ BY JUDY WAGONER

HO SAID TATTOOS WERE designed to last forever? Thanks to revolutionary advancements in microneedling technology, Dermapen TattOff will quickly rid you of what you would like to forget. Professional Laser Center in Monroe proves once again it’s at the forefront of cutting edge technology in Medical Aesthetics in north Louisiana. It’s one of only six providers of the Dermapen TattOff Tattoo Removal System in the entire country. This amazing technology allows tattoo removal of ALL colors, without the use of lasers. Instead, the Dermapen TattOff uses microneedling, which deposits an acid into the tattoo. The pigment is then brought to the surface of the skin in the form of a scab, instead of sending it into the

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lymphatic system as when a laser is used. Many tattoo inks contain heavy metals that have been linked to a large number of health problems, including cancer and neurodegenerative diseases. Among the most concerning metals found in tattoos are mercury, lead, antimony, beryllium, cadmium and arsenic. Many also contain dangerous phthalates and hydrocarbons. Phthalates have been shown to damage the liver, kidneys, lungs and reproductive systems in animal studies. Until now, the most common method of removing tattoos was with a laser, which dissolves the ink. Their components are then absorbed into the body and bloodstream. Many may never be fully eliminated from the body, and even those components which do get eliminated, may

cause damage before they are eliminated. But now there is a much safer way to remove your unwanted tattoo. A specialized acid compound is gently infused to the depth of the ink deposits with 11 microneedles. The micro-trauma causes a regenerative response, which forms a scab. The scab physically draws up the tattoo pigment. Once the scab falls off, so does the unwanted color. No ink particles are absorbed into the body or bloodstream. The Dermapen TattOff is also less painful and expensive (due to the reduced number of treatments). Only one to four treatments are required, as opposed to 8 to 10 treatments with the laser, and it won’t damage your natural skin pigment. Another plus is the Dermapen TattOff is ‘color-blind’ and will REMOVE ALL COLORS, including the most exotic hues and blends, unlike lasers that can only treat a limited range of colors. It’s also suitable for the permanent removal of cosmetic, professionally applied, and amateur tattoos. For a free consultation, call 318-361-9066.

Fall in Love at Woodstock

Candles and Home Accessories Now in Stock at Woodstock!

ALL IS FINALLY HERE! FOR NEARLY seven years, Woodstock has been the place to find the perfect addition to your home, porch or garden. You know it is officially fall at the shop because we have our pumpkins out and could not be more excited! And where there are pumpkins, there are pumpkin candles. Our dear customers have loved finding the perfect pumpkin candle for the past few seasons, and this year we stocked even more. There is something for everyone, whether you are looking to fill your home with the scent of autumn or need to grab a happy to take to a Halloween party, bunco night or any fun fall night ahead. Our Rewind candles have been a customer favorite for years. Each fragrance is designed to mimic the flavors and aromas you find in your favorite varietal of wine or drink, poured in their signature recycled

wine bottles. Their fall seasonal candle is Spiked Cider, with hints of warm apple, cinnamon, clove and dark buttered rum. Another brand, Illume, has a fall candle that is already flying off the shelves! This seasonal candle has notes of pumpkin, nutmeg and sandalwood. It comes in a variety of sizes, including the cutest ceramic pumpkin with a copper lid. And of course, LAFCO is not one to disappoint with its fall candle, Golden Chestnut. It is a woodsy candle with warm chestnuts, hazelnut cream, and vanilla sugar. LAFCO Ski House is the most popular candle and is now in stock! Plus, it comes in three different sizes to fit every room perfectly. Ski House is by far our bestselling fall candle with notes of sandalwood, leather and frankincense. These are just to name a few! We have gotten tons of new accent pieces for the fall as well. We have quite the

selection of new bud vases, botanical wall art and home dĂŠcor items to start stocking up on for teacher gifts or stashing away those Christmas presents! Our baby room is freshly stocked with Little Unicorn swaddles, bibs, washcloths and quilts in your favorite prints along with some other great everyday baby lines. Milkbarn is sure to please your baby with an everyday relaxing look and feel. And, we also now carry locally owned Mr. Pâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Tees for your little one! Be sure to stop by Woodstock at 1806 N 3rd Street Monroe, LA, 71201 in the Garden District to get a head start on the holiday season, and keep your ear out for our Holiday Open House coming soon!

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BAYOU BUZZWORTHY UPTOWN DOWNTOWN GRAND OPENING

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On Thursday, September 7, Uptown Downtown started its Grand Opening celebrations with a ribbon cutting put on by the Ruston Chamber of Commerce. Uptown Downtown is a cakery, bakery, and eatery that offers a variety of sweets and treats. Morgan Garrison and her soon-to-be husband were supported by having many key people of the Ruston Community in attendance. Uptown Downtown is a wonderful addition to Downtown Ruston.

TENNIS CHAMPIONSHIP Eight teams from USTA Southern region earned bids to play in the national championship round of the largest adult recreational tennis league in the world by winning the 2017 USTA League 40 and Over Southern Sectional Championships. Among the winners was Monroe’s very own USTA 40 & over 4.0 Ladies Tennis Team, captained by Virginia Eddleman, including Debbie Garner, Janet Simon, Ree McCain, Rebekah Anzalone, Ann McIntyre, Dianne Graham, Brenda Wilson, Beth McNeil, Mary Brooks, Rachel Patterson, Lenette Romero, Huong “Lisa” Pham, Catherine Hardy, Tracie Coons and Dinah Singer. The win qualifies this tenacious team for USTA Nationals in Orlando, FL, slated for October.

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The local Boys and Girls Club held a grand re-opening on Sept. 6 after receiving a much-needed upgrade to the facility. The celebration marked the re-opening of the club, and the kids were welcomed back later that afternoon. “We were excited about the renovation because our kids deserved better than what we had for them,” said William Awl, Director of Operations for the Boys and Girls Club of Northeast Louisiana.

Custom Designs by Kim’s Floor Décor Kim’s Offers Professional Installation and More

IM’S FLOOR DÉCOR IN WEST Monroe is one of the best flooring and home décor stores in the area. They can give a personalized free estimate and the staff will work with you until you have exactly what you dreamed. Kim’s is pleased to offer professional installation on granite, laminate, vinyl, ceramic and carpet for residential and commercial buildings. From flooring to tile work and from kitchen backsplashes to custom showers, Kim’s Floor Décor can do it all. Here’s what customers are saying: “Best flooring store hands down! Professional and goes above and beyond to make her customers happy. Kim has redone all the floors, granite, etc., in my house since the devastating flood in March. Spent countless hours working with me and so many others.” – Melanie Sampognaro

“Kim designed my counters and back splash years ago and later did my flooring. I LOVED it! People still ask me who did my backsplash because it’s so unique and beautiful. Look no further if you are wanting professionalism!!” – Christi Brasiel “Great quality at very reasonable pricing. The staff at Kim’s goes the extra mile! She’s got a great eye to decorate and that’s included in your purchase! Kim keeps her word! Love my floors and carpet! Installation was fast too! #noonebetter” – Kim Cox “Kim and her crew not only do excellent work, and use quality products, but she is an outstanding decorator and is with you every step of the way! Kim and her family are a hometown business, anytime

you can support our locals please do ... with Kim, you just can’t go wrong!!” – Kelly Choat Quality work with quality people. If you are looking to build or remodel please consider Kim’s Floor Décor. They will help you every step of the way, through the design process to the installation and more. Kim herself can create custom design to appeal to every style. With free estimates you can’t go wrong so call Kim today and let this be the beginning of having the home you always envisioned. 1309 Glenwood Dr. West Monroe, LA 71291 Phone: 318-323-0646 Open Monday-Friday 8 a.m. - 5 p.m. and Saturdays by appointment

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Sparrows Home Décor and Gifts What is the Price of Two Sparrows? BY AMANDA MOORE

WNING A BUSINESS WAS A dream my husband and I had for many years, we just didn’t know exactly what we wanted to do. All we knew was we didn’t want to just have a business we wanted to have a place that would make a difference in people’s lives. God placed a precious lady in my life who had a little shop and she would tell me about all the ladies she had the opportunity to meet and pray with and I knew that’s what I wanted to do. My husband and I prayed over it and after we decided on the business, it was then time to come up with a name. I sat down with my Bible and when I opened it my eyes were immediately drawn to Matthew 10:29-31. “What is the price of two sparrows – one copper coin? But not a single sparrow can fall to the ground without your Father knowing it. And the

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very hairs on your head are all numbered. So don’t be afraid; you are more valuable to God than a whole flock of sparrows.” We knew without a doubt that we had the perfect name, and in August 2014, we opened Sparrows. We offer unique items and gifts for everybody. From babies to men, we accommodate everyone. Gift wrapping is also provided free of charge as our gift to you for shopping at Sparrows. Our great selection includes: • Candles • Soaps • Dip Mixes • Jewelry • Yard Flags • Seasonal Décor • Kitchen Items • Religious Items

Start your holiday shopping early. Sparrows is located next to Highland School in West Monroe and is a place to come to not only find unique home décor and gifts but a place to come and enjoy a peaceful shopping experience. Every customer who walks through the door is a gift. I cherish the ladies I have the opportunity to meet and talk with and pray with. Even if you aren’t looking for anything in particular, I would love for you to stop by and say hi and take a look around. Sparrows 903 Warren Dr. Suite D West Monroe, LA 71291 318-537-9784

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Five local women share with BayouLife their very personal experiences with breast cancer. As breast cancer survivors, these women hope to inspire and uplift others who may be battling this disease and educate women about the importance of early detection.

Non-profit organizations, including the Susan G. Komen Organization and the American Cancer Society, are dedicated to saving lives by investing in research to prevent and cure breast cancer and improving the lives of women affected by the disease. Donations of time and financial resources can help them reach these goals. To volunteer or donate, contact Susan G. Komen of North Louisiana at 318-966-8130 or visit their website at www. komennorthlouisiana.org; and contact the Monroe chapter of the American Cancer Society at 318-398-7248 or visit their website at www.cancer.org. INTERVIEWS BY KAY RECTOR AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY MARTIN G MEYERS WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM | OCTOBER 2017 177

KAYE BOQUET Clothed with Strength and Dignity

hen Kaye Boquet finally decided to fully retire in 2014, she assumed that she and Gene, her husband of 35 years, would spend the next few years peacefully enjoying their leisure time. They looked forward to spending time with each other, doing volunteer work and enjoying life in their hometown of Winnsboro. Boquet taught school in Franklin Parish for 32 years. After retiring from the public school system, she immediately went to work as a school counselor at Franklin Academy, where she served for 10 years. They believed the time had come for them to relax. As sometimes happens, life did not unfold according to their plan. A routine check-up and mammogram in August of 2014, led to the discovery of a malignant tumor in Boquet’s breast, and soon they were meeting with a surgeon, discussing options. Because the tumor was small, Boquet elected and underwent a lumpectomy in September. Unfortunately though, the cancer was not confined to the tumor as they had hoped. It had spread to her lymph nodes, requiring additional surgery and chemotherapy. Anxious and worried, Boquet remembers waking up one morning around 3 a.m., unable to sleep. She says the words of a familiar Christian hymn kept running through her mind: “God Will Take Care of You.” She suddenly felt a strong sense of peace and after that, her anxiety began to decline. “I knew then, God is taking care of this. I can’t but He can. He is going to give me the wisdom to do what I need to do,” she recalls thinking. Knowing that she needed an oncologist, she begin doing extensive research. Boquet says she talked to at least 30 people who had had cancer, asking for their opinions and advice. She eventually narrowed her choices down to two oncologists, but could not decide between the two. Boquet’s son suggested that she consult her primary care physician and seek his advice. “My question to him was this: ‘Who would you send your mother to?’ He told me that he would choose Dr. Joseph, and explained all the reasons why,” Boquet recalls. “I said to him: ‘If he’s good enough for your mother, then he’s good enough for me.’” Boquet says when she first met with Dr. Sanjay Joseph in West Monroe, she was in a panic. She carried a legal pad with her, with pages and pages of notes and questions. “Dr. Joseph talked to Gene and me and without even being asked, he answered every single question that we had,” says Boquet. “After that first visit, everybody in his office at Louisiana Oncology knew my name and Gene’s name, recognized us and treated us like family.” Under the careful direction of Dr. Joseph and his staff, Boquet underwent 16 rounds of chemotherapy. It was a terribly difficult experience. After just a couple of treatments, Boquet became severely dehydrated and had to be hospitalized for 10 days, five of those in the Intensive Care Unit. She developed a bleeding ulcer, necessitating another stay in ICU. She contracted a bacterial infection known as “C. diff,” short for clostridium difficile, something Boquet describes as “a horrible, horrible intestinal infection.” Eventually, she was able to tolerate and complete the chemotherapy. Following chemotherapy, she had 34 radiation treatments. Boquet remembers that soon after her second chemotherapy treatment, she was washing her hair when huge chunks of it began to 178 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

come out in her hands. Within a few minutes, she was left with only one small patch of hair on her head. After trying to shave it herself, she ended up going to her hairdresser, who finished the job for her, leaving her completely bald. “Losing my hair didn’t really bother me too much,” Boquet says. “I didn’t want to fool with a wig, so I bought some hats and wore those. I had seen pictures of women with these cute scarves tied around their heads and I wanted to do that. But when I tried it, I could never make them work. So, I just wore hats.” Looking back, Boquet is thankful to have had the support of her husband and son as well as so many friends during her battle with breast cancer. Boquet is an only child and both of her parents are deceased. Her son, now 32, lives several hours away in New Orleans. “Gene was really my support,” Boquet says of her husband. “He drove me to every single doctor’s appointment and all of my chemo treatments except two. He only missed those two because he had his own doctor’s appointments in Shreveport,” Boquet says. “He was there with me every step of the way.” Boquet is a member of a group of ladies in Winnsboro who share a love of knitting and gather once a month in one another’s homes to share a meal and to knit. These women came together to help her and Gene, providing meals and offering to help with whatever they needed during her surgeries and cancer treatments. In October of 2014, Boquet’s co-workers, former students and friends at Franklin Academy held a “Pink Out” pep rally in her honor. To help defray her medical costs, the school raised funds by selling t-shirts designed by one of the students. The shirts depict a butterfly, and the words of Proverbs 31:25, a favorite scripture: “She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future.” Years before her cancer diagnosis, the butterfly had become for Boquet a symbol of hope and comfort. After her mother passed away in 2008, the family held a graveside service, during which the minister prayed for a sign from God of his presence there. Within seconds, a butterfly flew in front of his face. Butterflies appeared again at the graveside service of her mother’s only brother, this time in the cold of mid-November, when butterflies are scarce. Since that time, the butterfly has remained for her a reminder of God’s constant presence in her life. She wears a necklace with a silver butterfly as a symbol of her faith. In October of 2015, Franklin Academy invited Boquet to return for their annual “Pink Out” Breast Cancer Awareness pep rally, this time presenting her with a crown in honor of her recovery and remission. Boquet has been in remission for two years now, and is hopeful that breast cancer is a part of her past. She and Gene are finally enjoying their retirement, and she looks with optimism to the future, secure in the knowledge that with faith in God she can handle whatever it may bring. Boquet hopes that by sharing her experience, she can encourage other women to be proactive about their health by having regular check-ups and mammograms. “Thank goodness for mammograms,” Boquet says, emphasizing the importance of frequent screenings. “I had a normal mammogram in 2013. Where would I be if I had not had another one in 2014?”

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KELLY HUDNALL Stronger than Ever

elly Hudnall celebrated her fiftieth birthday in July of this year, surrounded by family and friends, delighting in the joy of the occasion. Unlike some women, Hudnall does not shy away from disclosing her age. Nor does she waste time worrying about the negative aspects of getting older. She is, in fact, thankful to be doing just that. There was a time not very long ago when Hudnall feared she might not make this mid-century milestone. In 2008, Hudnall was recently divorced, working two jobs and caring for her two children, son Connor and daughter Hannah. While she was still reeling from the emotional turmoil of divorce, Hudnall lost her grandmother, with whom she had a very close relationship. After struggling to overcome these losses, she was finally beginning to feel optimistic again, looking forward to better days ahead. Unfortunately, her hopes for the new year were dashed early in 2009. In February, Hudnall learned that she had breast cancer. Specifically, she was diagnosed with Stage 3 invasive lobular carcinoma. Because her mother is a breast cancer survivor, Hudnall says that she had been having regular mammograms since she was in her twenties, beginning preventative care at a much younger age than most women. In June of 2008, her routine mammogram results appeared to be normal. It was only four months later in October that Hudnall noticed a visible lump on the top of her left breast. “I didn’t think anything of it because my mammogram in June was fine,” she recalls. “It wasn’t painful, so I just assumed it was a cyst and nothing to worry about.” By February of 2009, Hudnall says the lump remained but had not grown or changed. She visited her doctor as a precaution, just to have it checked out. A biopsy revealed the presence of an active, aggressive form of breast cancer that had already begun to spread. After discussing and weighing her treatment options, Hudnall elected to have a double mastectomy even though preliminary x-rays did not show signs of cancer in her right breast. Post-surgical pathology results, however, revealed the existence of cancer cells in that breast as well. “It was a blessing from God that I decided to have the double mastectomy,” Hudnall believes. “Otherwise, I would have gone through it all over again.” As soon as she recovered from surgery, Hudnall began chemotherapy, making frequent trips from West Monroe to MD Anderson in Houston. Although she took a month off for surgery and recovery, Hudnall continued working during her chemotherapy. A native of West Monroe and a Northeast Louisiana University graduate, Hudnall has been an educator for almost 20 years. She teaches Kindergarten at Crosley Elementary School in West Monroe, and also works as a tutor with the After School Program at St. Paul’s United Methodist Church in Monroe. “I wanted to be there for my children, so I went back and finished out the school year with them,” Hudnall remembers. She spent the summer of 2009 completing her chemotherapy treatments and resting, trying to regain her strength. As she began the new school year in August of 2009, Hudnall also began radiation treatments. “I would teach my kindergarten class, then go have radiation, and then go tutor my students at St. Paul’s,” she recalls. “People would ask me how I could do all of that. Most of all, you have to have a positive attitude. And you have to keep going. I didn’t really have a choice.” Caring for her own children, Connor and Hannah, and providing for them was a priority, regardless of her illness. “In some ways it was good for me to keep working,” Hudnall 180 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

says. “There were times that I was so busy I would actually forget for a minute that I had cancer.” Hudnall attributes her ability to persevere during difficult times to the support she receives from her family. She feels fortunate that she has always been able to rely on her parents, sister and brother-in-law for whatever she has needed throughout her battle with breast cancer. “They are my support unit,” Hudnall says. “Without them, I don’t know what I would do.” Hudnall says her students, fellow teachers and co-workers have also been extremely supportive, praying for her and being there for her when she was ill and traveling to Houston for cancer treatments. “I am very blessed to be a part of Crosley Elementary,” Hudnall says. “The people there are my second family.” After extensive radiation treatments, Hudnall’s cancer was finally determined to be in remission. Unfortunately, this reprieve was only temporary. In September of 2014, her cancer returned with a vengeance. Hudnall recalls that swelling in her stomach was the first sign that something was amiss. Although she was eating less and less, she experienced significant weight gain and was having issues with her stomach. A CT scan and other tests led to a diagnosis of malignant ascites, an accumulation of cancerous fluid in her abdomen. She was told that cancer cells were present in her bones as well as her abdomen. Using a tube that doctors inserted in her abdomen to drain off the excess fluid, Hudnall managed the ascites at home for six months before beginning treatment at MD Anderson. “MD Anderson saved my life,” Hudnall insists. “The people there are wonderful.” Through oral chemotherapy, she has been able to maintain her regular activities, continue working and caring for her children and live her life as normally as possible. “My cancer cells are still there, but they are dormant. The cancer is not active. I feel good now. I feel normal,” Hudnall says. She insists that although she will likely have cancer for the remainder of her life, her condition is manageable through oral medication. With faith, friends and family, Hudnall knows that she will be okay. She and her sister, Kathy, have always been very close, and their bond has been strengthened by enduring Hudnall’s breast cancer ordeal together. “My sister is my soul. She goes to Houston with me every four months, and we make a girls’ road trip out of it, using it as our time together,” Hudnall says. “Cancer is horrible,” admits Hudnall. “But I think if you can face it with a positive attitude it makes all the difference.” She describes losing all of her hair, and the terrible nausea and other symptoms brought on by the chemotherapy. “It has been very hard being a single parent and having cancer. You feel helpless to take care of your child and do for them while you are so sick. And it’s hard for your children to see you so sick,” she says. Even though it was extremely difficult, she pushed herself to keep life as normal as possible for herself and her children. She bought a nice wig and continued to get dressed and put on makeup, going to work each day that she could, taking her daughter to school and activities. “I have cried myself to sleep many nights,” Hudnall admits. “But this has made me a much stronger person.” Hudnall recalls that early in her battle with breast cancer, she heard Kelly Clarkson’s song, “Stronger.” It became her motto, and she would listen to it as a reminder of her own strength. “God has His hand on me, and I am going to be okay,” Hudnall says. “I am stronger than I’ve ever been.”

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MICHELLE WILLIAMS A New Chapter

ust months before her fortieth birthday, Michelle Williams visited her gynecologist for a routine annual checkup. During her examination, the doctor felt a lump in one of Williams’ breasts and recommended a mammogram. Williams had never had a mammogram, as she had no family history of breast cancer and was not yet 40, the age at which preventative screenings were usually recommended. Her first mammogram led to a needle biopsy of the lump that was detected. Williams went alone for the biopsy, unconcerned because she remembered her mother having repeat mammograms and even biopsies due to dense breast tissue and occasional lumps, always with benign results. Unfortunately, Williams was not that lucky. The doctor gave her the unexpected news that she had breast cancer. Within a week of her diagnosis, Williams underwent a lumpectomy. Following her surgery, the surgeon explained that he was unable to get “clear margins,” meaning that there were still cancer cells in the surrounding breast tissue. There were also concerns about the possibility of cancer in her other breast. At that point, Williams began to conduct her own investigation into treatment options. Through her research, Williams discovered Kirklin Clinic of UAB Hospital in Birmingham, Alabama, with one of the nation’s leading breast cancer treatment facilities. At that time, Williams was living in Alabama, where she had moved with her husband. She made an appointment with both an oncologist and a surgeon at Kirklin. “I asked the surgeon whether I could have a double mastectomy even if cancer was in only one breast.” Williams recalls. “He said they would do that if that’s what I wanted to do. I told him that is what I wanted to do.” Confident in her decision, Williams checked into UAB Hospital on the day before her fortieth birthday for a double mastectomy. She believes now that it was the best decision she could have made. The surgical procedure that Williams chose involved not only complete removal of her breast tissue but also a full reconstruction of both breasts using fat from her abdomen. A relatively new procedure, it is often referred to as DIEP, an acronym for deep inferior epigastric perforators, the blood vessels which are surgically removed along with fat and transferred to the chest. Williams says she was concerned about having artificial implants and preferred this more natural method of reconstruction. The single surgery was performed by multiple surgeons over the course of 11 hours. Five months post-surgery, Williams began chemotherapy. Chemotherapy treatment was something she discussed at length with the physicians at Kirklin before electing. The oncologists recommended it, but advised that it was precautionary and that she could decline or defer it. Ultimately she decided to proceed with a treatment plan that included six rounds of chemotherapy. Years before she was diagnosed with breast cancer, Williams had a complete hysterectomy. Since her hysterectomy, she had been taking hormone replacement medication which curbed the unpleasant symptoms of menopause, such as hot flashes and night sweats. On her oncologist’s recommendation, Williams discontinued hormone replacement therapy during chemotherapy, resulting in a brutal combination of menopausal symptoms and sickening chemotherapy side effects. For weeks she struggled, contending with intense hot flashes brought on by the sudden cessation of replacement hormones coupled with severe nausea and vomiting. The chemotherapy also resulted in the loss of her hair which, while not physically painful, was emotionally difficult. With her family and friends hundreds of miles away in Northeast Louisiana, Williams says she felt terribly alone during that time. She completed her chemotherapy and finally began to recover her strength,

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both physically and mentally. After battling a life-threatening illness and enduring her diagnosis, surgery, recovery and treatment with minimal support, Williams bravely decided to make some major life changes. She eventually divorced and moved back to her hometown of Monroe, near her son who was who was in high school. She landed a job at the University of Louisiana at Monroe and went back to school to earn a college degree, something she had always wanted to achieve. “I kept talking to my son about the importance of a college education,” Williams says. “And I realized then that I needed to go to college, too.” She worked full time in the Student Accounts Office at ULM while taking classes each semester, graduating just a few weeks before her son graduated from Louisiana Tech. As she was finishing her degree at ULM, she received a job offer from Waste Management, where she had worked before moving to Alabama. “Before I moved, I had this awesome job that I loved. I liked the work I was doing, I loved the people, and it paid me a good salary,” Williams says. “I always regretted leaving there.” She was thrilled to have the opportunity return to Waste Management and resume the job that she wished she had never left. Williams is now the Industrial Account Manager at Waste Management, helping industrial plants manage their hazard and non-hazardous waste. “It is crazy the way things just fell into place for me after I came back here,” Williams says of her return to Louisiana. Out of a sense of gratitude and a strong conviction that no woman should have to battle breast cancer alone, Williams began volunteering with area organizations whose mission is to support breast cancer patients during their treatment and recovery. She became a mentor with the American Cancer Society’s “Reach to Recovery” program. “Reach to Recovery matches up newly diagnosed cancer patients with survivors,” Williams explains. “Matches are based on age, type of cancer and type of treatment, those sorts of things. Newly diagnosed patients are given a choice to participate if they want to. If the patient agrees, then I reach out to that person and introduce myself and just talk to them and help in any way that I can.” Williams says Reach to Recovery is a great program even for patients who have a strong support system. “Interacting with someone who has been through what they’re going through is very powerful,” she says. Williams also volunteers with the local Susan G. Komen chapter, helping with registration at the Race for the Cure and participating in other events. One thing that Williams hopes to convey to other breast cancer patients is the importance of being your own health care advocate. “It’s so important to educate yourself and to make decisions you are comfortable with,” she notes. “When I was looking at surgery and treatment options, I wanted the doctors’ expertise, opinions and recommendations, but I wanted to be the one to make the call. A lot of patients don’t realize all the options they have.” For example, Williams opted not to allow the placement of a port for chemotherapy, something she notes that a lot of patients assume they have to have. While that was a relatively small decision, it was an important one for her. Opting to undergo a double mastectomy and the particular type of surgery she elected were much more significant choices. “These are all very personal decisions, and each patient has to do what they believe is best for them.” In retrospect, Williams is glad she made the health care decisions she made, and is surprised at how much she was able to endure, physically and emotionally. She believes that because of her breast cancer, she had the courage to start a whole new chapter of her life, one in which she is independent, strong and happier than she has ever been.

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DR. RIXIE THOMPSON Coaching in Pink Shoes

two-time breast cancer survivor, Dr. Rixie Thompson epitomizes hope and optimism. She claims, however, that this has not always been the case. Many years ago when she was first diagnosed, she felt lost and hopeless, not knowing where to turn for help. Today, it is Thompson’s mission to insure that other women with breast cancer have the support they need to cope with their illness. Thompson grew up in the small town of Homer, Louisiana, and attended Grambling State University, where she earned a Bachelor of Science degree in Computer Information Systems and later a Master’s degree in Public Administration. While an undergraduate student at Grambling, she met and married her husband, Dwight Thompson. The couple had been married five years and had a three-year-old daughter when Thompson noticed a lump in her left breast. Unconcerned because it was not causing any pain, Thompson waited a couple of months before she visited a doctor about it. Upon examination, her gynecologist ordered a biopsy. Two days later, the doctor’s office called and asked her to come back in, suggesting she bring her husband. “I knew then it wasn’t good,” Thompson recalls. “We went in, and the doctor said those four dreadful words: ‘You have breast cancer.’” The Thompsons met with a local surgeon recommended by her gynecologist, who insisted she undergo an immediate radical mastectomy. Without giving them any detailed information about the procedure or options for less extensive surgery, he led her to believe that her prognosis was poor. Devastated, she broke the news to her family. “I came back home and cried for two weeks,” Thompson says. “But then I began to pray. I told God that if I have to do this, I want the best doctors in the nation. Now, at the time I think I had $33.15 in my checking account, but I was convinced that I was going to hire the best doctors in the nation.” Thompson laughs now when she remembers going to the bank to take out a loan for her medical care. She told the banker that if she did not live, her husband would pay the loan back for her. “We were only 25 years old at the time,” Thompson says of her diagnosis in 1984. They flew to MD Anderson, where they met with a patient educator to discuss her diagnosis and treatment options. “This one lady there changed my life,” Thompson says. “After she explained in detail what was going on in my body, she held up a piece of paper with a number on it. She said this is the number of women who survive breast cancer.” Thompson says she was suddenly full of relief and hope as she realized that she could survive her breast cancer diagnosis. “My tears stopped, and I made up my mind that I was going to be in that number.” The Thompsons stayed at MD Anderson for a month while Rixie underwent a modified radical mastectomy. Surgeons removed the entire breast as well as most of the lymph nodes under her arm. Because there was cancer present in the lymph nodes, chemotherapy was recommended. Back home in Louisiana, Thompson endured six months of chemotherapy treatment under the direction of a physician in West Monroe. “I was hospitalized after every single treatment,” Thompson recalls. She lost all of her hair after the second treatment, and by treatment No. 3, she weighed only 84 pounds, down from a normal weight of 150. “I was a wreck. I cried all of the time. I was so sick and had so many mouth sores that I couldn’t eat. I didn’t want to live at that point,” she remembers. “My husband was amazing during all of this,” Thompson says. “He was my constant caregiver. He fed me with a spoon when I was sick from chemo. He stayed with me in the hospital for a month while I had surgery and later, after chemo, sleeping on chairs and couches in my hospital room. When we left MD Anderson after my surgery he took care of my wounds and drains. There is no way I would have

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made it without him.” Thompson remembers that after one of her worst bouts with chemo side effects, she heard her husband praying for her to live. She says that made her want to fight harder for him and for their daughter, Tiffany. Thompson insists that in the midst of those first few months of chemotherapy, the hardest part of her battle with breast cancer, she really came to know God for the first time. She had always been a Christian, attending church and even teaching Sunday school, but it was during this darkest time of her life that she developed a true relationship with Him. She says that chemotherapy drew her to Christ and to a deeper prayer life. After completing chemotherapy, Thompson returned to her job as a computer analyst at Louisiana Tech. She and her husband had their second child, a son named Chase. After 10 years, she left Louisiana Tech and began working at Grambling. Life with her husband and two children was normal and satisfying. But in 2007, Thompson was again diagnosed with breast cancer. A routine mammogram revealed the presence of invasive ductal carcinoma in her remaining breast. This time, Thompson says, she knew exactly what to do. “Over the years since my first diagnosis, I had educated myself about breast cancer,” Thompson says. They went immediately to MD Anderson. Her cancer was declared to be Stage 0 and because it had not spread, radiation and chemotherapy were not necessary. She underwent another mastectomy, removing her remaining breast. Because of her tendency toward keloid scarring, Thompson elected not to have reconstructive surgery. In the intervening years between her first diagnosis in 1984 and her 2007 diagnosis, Thompson had not only learned all she could about breast cancer, but had begun to educate other women about breast cancer and support those who had the disease. She became a certified mentor with the American Cancer Society’s Reach to Recovery program to mentor and encourage other women as they battle breast cancer. She participated in fundraisers and awareness campaigns such as the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure. Since overcoming breast cancer a second time, she has continued that work in earnest. “I don’t want other women to have to wear the bra that I’m wearing,” Thompson says. Thompson formed a local support group for women in the Ruston and Grambling area dealing with breast cancer. The group, which has been meeting once a month for over 10 years, calls themselves “More Than Conquerors,” a Biblical reference to Romans 8:37. They are an active group that not only supports one another, but also participates together in events and fundraisers such as the Race for the Cure, the Pink Parade on GSU’s campus and the Pink Princess Gala. They invite anyone interested in joining them to attend their meetings which take place on the second Tuesday of each month at the Pizza Hut in Ruston. Thompson is now an ordained minister and evangelist as well as a life coach. She obtained a Master’s degree in Theology and a Doctorate degree in Divinity, and founded the “Coaching in Pink Shoes” Ministry. Through this ministry, she serves as a survivorship coach, using the Word of God and her personal experiences to help women whose lives have been affected by breast cancer. Through the CIPS website, teleconferencing, Skype and social media outlets, Thompson is able to reach out to women all over the country to spread her message of hope and healing. “Because I have walked in their shoes, I am able to relate to the women I coach. I’ve been there,” says Thompson. “I coach them through the anxiety, the depression, the anger and the financial troubles, all the things that they are going through. I share with them the Word of God that got me through it.” She has also written a book, entitled Coaching In Pink Shoes, that is scheduled for publication later this year. Thompson can be reached through her website, www. coachinginpinkshoes.com, or by email at drrixie@coachinginpinkshoes.com.

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JO MADDOX Closer to God

n early September of 2016, Jo Maddox was preparing to run in the Susan G. Komen Race for the Cure in Monroe’s Forsythe Park. She and her sister had been getting together throughout the summer to run, training for the race. It was something they were doing in support of women whose lives had been effected by breast cancer. Maddox had no idea then that she would become one of those women. With the race just a couple of weeks away, Maddox visited her gynecologist for her annual checkup. During the examination, she pointed out a change in the appearance of one of her breasts. Maddox says she had always tried to follow the recommendations of doctors and organizations like Komen who promote self-examination as a means of early detection of breast cancer. “Honestly, though, I was never really sure what I was supposed to feel or if I was doing the self-exams right,” says Maddox, a sentiment expressed by many women. This, however, was a visible change, a slight inversion of the nipple which caused her concern. Dr. David Bryan, her gynecologist, immediately ordered a diagnostic mammogram and later a biopsy of a suspicious mass revealed by the mammogram. The news delivered to Maddox, just two days before her fiftieth birthday, was not good. She had breast cancer. Hopeful that the cancer was in an early stage and curable, she and her husband met with a local surgeon. Dr. Frank Sartor recommended that she visit MD Anderson for additional diagnostic scans, and arranged an appointment for her in Houston. A comprehensive battery of tests at MD Anderson confirmed Dr. Bryan’s diagnosis, but with a much bleaker outlook than they had hoped. Maddox had three breast tumors of significant size as well as cancerous lymph nodes. She was shocked to learn that she had Stage 3-C breast cancer and would need extensive treatment and surgery. Because her disease had significantly progressed, Maddox quickly began very aggressive chemotherapy. Maddox says she was able to undergo chemotherapy treatment under the direction of local oncologist Dr. Sanjay Joseph using the protocol recommended by physicians at MD Anderson. “The care and the people at MD Anderson are wonderful, but the idea of having to go back and forth to Houston for treatment was kind of overwhelming. The level of compassion that they have at Louisiana Oncology is no less than at MD Anderson. Maddox’s chemotherapy involved 12 weeks of Taxol, a medication that interferes with the growth of cancer cells, followed by four biweekly treatments of Adriamycin, dubbed “Red Devil” for its strength and terribly unpleasant side effects. She was able to complete her chemotherapy in 20 weeks with no delays because of colds or other common illnesses that patients often contract. She was also fortunate that she did not develop neuropathy or other more harsh side effects typical with “Red Devil” treatment. A Vice-President at Guaranty Bank in Monroe, Maddox continued to work throughout her chemotherapy regimen. “I would go have blood work on my lunch hour on Mondays and do my chemo on Tuesday afternoons. Thursdays were my worst days,” she recalls. “Towards the end, I would only work maybe an hour or two on Thursdays and sometimes only half the day on Fridays.” Maddox says that continuing to work was, in some ways, an act of defiance. “You feel like cancer is holding your life hostage,” she says. “I just refused to let it get me.” Maddox is grateful for her “work family” at Guaranty Bank, who was so supportive during her struggle with breast cancer. Her customers were also very caring, checking on her and bringing her gifts and cards to remind her they were thinking of her. She recalls how kind and supportive people were during the worst of her illness. With the loss of her hair, which had always been long, her illness became more obvious. “People I didn’t even know were praying for me,” she says. A week after she completed chemotherapy, Maddox returned to

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MD Anderson for an ultrasound, MRI and other tests to determine the next course of action. She and her husband met with a surgeon to discuss options. Because the surgeon did not yet have the results of her latest scans, he covered a myriad of possible surgical options, some rather drastic. “It was a terrible day,” recalls Maddox. “I was still recovering from the last Red Devil treatment the week before. I felt horrible, and the surgeries he talked about sounded awful.” Feeling dejected, they went to eat at Carrabba’s Italian Grill, a favorite nearby restaurant. While there, a friend of the restaurant owner reached out to them anonymously, expediting their seating, paying their bill and sending a beautiful hardcover book about the restaurant’s history to their table. Having lost his wife to cancer a few months before, this man they had never met recognized their distress and just wanted to make their day a little better. It was a welcome gesture of kindness that Maddox still remembers. Heeding the advice of her doctors to stay as active as she could during treatment, Maddox tried to walk almost every day. One morning, while walking in her neighborhood, she encountered a lady on a bicycle. The lady stopped and asked Maddox if she could pray for her. “She put her hands on me, and she prayed with me,” Maddox recalls. “At the time, my daughter was in college and about to turn 21. I always had this dream that I would take her on a mother-daughter trip for her 21st birthday. Instead, I was having surgery two days before her 21st birthday, so I couldn’t even take her out to lunch. That made me so sad, and I was so worried about her.” Miraculously, this lady whom Maddox had never met assured her that her daughter was going to be okay. Maddox was astounded because she never told the lady she had a daughter. After her encounter with the lady she now refers to as an “angel,” Maddox felt peacefully confident in her prediction. Ultimately, Maddox did not have to undergo any of the more drastic operations the surgeon at MD Anderson initially described. “The chemo essentially dissolved the tumors,” Maddox says. “The only thing left was a tumor bed where the tumor had been.” Because cancer was still in her lymph nodes, Maddox had to have radiation treatment. She says the necessity of radiation affected her decision about breast surgery. She opted for a segmental mastectomy, which involved removal of about forty percent of her breast tissue. The five and a half hour surgery also included breast reconstruction. Following surgery, MD Anderson referred her to radiation oncologist Dr. Ross Bland at Northeast Louisiana Cancer Institute, where she was able to have radiation treatment locally. “It has been a wild year,” Maddox notes. “You go through so many emotions when this happens to you. There is definitely a mourning period when you are first diagnosed. You feel shell shocked and have a lot of anxiety. One of the emotions that you wouldn’t expect is guilt.” She recalls feeling guilt as well as sadness when she thought of how her husband and her daughter were affected by her illness. Maddox also felt guilty that her co-workers at Guaranty Bank had to compensate for her absence at work. Maddox credits her husband, Malcolm Maddox, with keeping her strong and positive, standing by her through every step of her illness, treatment and recovery. On May 24th of this year, the couple’s nineyear wedding anniversary, Malcolm surprised her with a brand new convertible, something she has always wanted. In the card he had printed, he encouraged her to take a “victory lap” in her new convertible when she beat breast cancer. Maddox says her husband’s support, along with her faith, have helped her get through her ordeal. “God has carried me through all of this,” Maddox insists. “This will bring you closer to God than anything. There were times that I could literally feel the prayers that others were sending up for me.” Maddox strongly believes that God allowed her to survive breast cancer for a reason, and she looks forward to whatever He has in store for her.

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St. Francis Foundation Raffle St. Francis Foundation officially kicked off its 2 Cars, 2 Winners raffle on September 6 at Anna Gray Noe Park in downtown Monroe, across from the hospital on Jackson Street. Tickets are available for purchase for $50 for a chance to win a 2017 Toyota 4Runner or 2017 Nissan Titan. All proceeds benefit St. Francis Medical Centerâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s NICU and pediatric services. KNOE-TV8 and The Radio People broadcast live and partners from Sparks Nissan, Van Trow Toyota and Go Auto Insurance were also on hand.

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FOLLOW SUIT This fall, everyone’s crazy about the sharp-dressed woman. These dapper styles take trends from menswear and combine blazers with jeans and loafers with corsets. Find these looks at our area boutiques.

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HERRINGSTONE’S

Rheagan looks smokin’ hot in this velvet brown blazer. It’s layered over a ribbed sleeveless sweater tank, and paired with these ultra-cool jeans with button-fly design and front slit. Complete the look with these great transitional slouch booties, beaded and crystal necklace and black felt hat.

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Sporty and serene, this classic racer back style tank offers full coverage and light support, and is perfect for everyday activities. Get a littleÂ edgy this season with a legging inspired by street wear and moto trends. Throw on a blazer and turn this performance look into a fierce fashion statement you will wear far more than just inÂ yoga.

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THE FASHION OF RUSTON Boy meets girl in this tailored black blazer with metallic accents. Layer it over a black mock turtleneck knit sweater and these high-rise distressed skinny jeans. Slip on a classic loafter with stacked heel and Kelly Wynne snakeskin satchel for a look that Audrey Hepburn would rock.

K-SERA BOUTIQUE This chic oversized tee features a white crew neckline and a black underbust crop corset that laces down the front. Pair it with these black high rise ankle skinny jeans and heels with polished studs, round toe and a stacked heel.

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ULMâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s The Pursuit On Thursday, August 24, Fant-Ewing Coliseum was packed as the ULM Athletic Foundation hosted its annual event, The Pursuit. This event coincided with the first week of school, as well as the unveiling of the new ULM logo, so the Warhawk spirit was definitely in the air. Coach Matt Viator shared his plans for the 2017 football season and Coach Keith Richard gave an update on the highly anticipated basketball season. President Nick Bruno shared his vision for the upcoming year, exciting changes around campus and some of ULMâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s many accomplishments. The crowd was decked out in maroon and gold, and enjoyed delicious food from Waterfront Grill, Catfish Cabin and The Fieldhouse.

On the BayouScene 1 Lisa Miller and Julia Letlow 2 Jan Daniels and Ramona Martin 3G inger Holton and Ashley West 4 L uke Letlow, Sharon Chaney and Beverly Jarrell 5 Tim Clark, Linda Holyfield and Laura Clark 6 T om Dansby, Dr. Nick Bruno, Archie Bradshaw and Ellis Lewis 7 David and Sharon Marchman and Malcom Maddox 8 L yle and Lisa Miller with Richard Hood 9 Elizabeth Hamman, Kylie Knotts and Olivia Bailey 10 S am Weems and Matt Viator 11 TJ Scarborough and Morgan Livingston 12 Cory Brown and Brett Bennett 13 Shane and Riley Bridges 14 T ammy and Lance Stanfill 15 Sissy and Dr. Gary Jones 16 Schantel Viator and Diane Miletello 17 Stewart Cathey, Chris Horrell and Bret Munson 18 Linda Bruno and Mike Wollen 19 Sonni Bennett and Jamie Hilburn 20 Cory Crowe and Adrienne LaFrance-Wells 21 Mary Elizabeth and Bradley Bridges 22 Cyndi Tatum and Lila Strode 23 Charles Marsala and Damon Marsala 24 Louis Luffey and Reggie Carroll 25 Nick Floyd and Bill Cheek

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Principal’s Reception

On Thursday, September 7, the St. Frederick Alumni Family and Friends hosted its annual Principal’s Reception at the home of Kindra and Eddie Neitz. This is the primary membership drive for the group, whose proceeds go to tuition assistance and scholarships. This year’s event honored principal Blair David, who highlighted St. Frederick’s academic, sports and other extracurricular achievements. Wendell Manning, President of the St. Frederick Board of Directors, introduced board members and the Athletic Director and Head Coach, while Jeff Tannehill introduced coaches and gave a preview of the 2017 season. Hall of Fame Coach Ray Gambino presented the Nancy Fritsche Award to Dr. Thomas Fields Jr. for their many years of service to St. Frederick High School.

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Charles and Jo McDonald Sean Christian and Tom Riggs Mike Brodtman and Eric Mahaffey Sister Carol Shively, Jennifer and Blair David and Bishop Michael Duca 5B rad Smith, Eddie Neitz, Grant Goza and Delton Dearman 6 Darrell Evans, Steven Ingram and August Roconni 7 Jeff and Meghan Foote with Dr. Bob Webber 8 Fred Amman and Charles Marsala 9C hrissy Evans, Lisa Ware and Rhonda Davis 10 Amie Smith and Jennifer Parker 11 S eth Christian and Buster Craig 12 Brenda Marsala, Mandy Pruitt and Martha Amman 13 Alana and Clark Cooper 14 Judy and Fred Bennett 15 Kindra and Eddie Neitz 16 Fred Amman and Judge Wendell Manning 17 Tracy and Darren Oglesby 18 Faith Stephens and Sherry Mahaffey 19 Dino and Sara Taylor

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Willie’s Duck Diner Last month, Willie’s Duck Diner celebrated the grand re-opening of their restaurant with a ribbon cutting and appearances from Willie and Korie Robertson, Godwin, Martin and more. On Saturday, September 9, Uncle Si made an appearance at the restaurant in West Monroe as kids played games, bounced in jumpers and enjoyed cotton candy. Inside, guests from all over enjoyed scrumptious food like duck, catfish, shrimp, okra, meatloaf, and of course, some of Miss Kay’s delicious desserts.

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Bayou Jamb 2017

On Saturday, August 26, Bayou Jamb took place on the campus of ULM with eight local schools playing throughout the day. Sterlington played St. Frederick, Mangham took on OCS, Ruston went up against Ouachita and the West Monroe Rebels battled the Neville Tigers. Bayou Jamb began in 2006 and is now considered Louisianaâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s largest one-day high school football event. Bayou Jamb 2017 was made by possible by St. Francis Medical Center, Origin Bank, Creed & Creed, The Orthopaedic Clinic, Louisiana Pain Care and Randallâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Fine Meats, along with various other local sponsors.

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McKinney Fall Open House

On Saturday, August 19, McKinney Outdoor hosted their Fall Open House at their Outdoor Superstore in Ruston, La. Hundreds of people turned out to enjoy the free food and refreshments, as well as the live music. There were cold drinks and cotton candy and representatives from Origin Bank were on hand serving up hot dogs. Shoppers were able to take advantage of deals on ATVs, side-by-sides, guns, ammo, bows, deer stands and apparel throughout the store. Kelby Glover was the winner of the grand prize drawing and took home a Honda ATV.

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Ken Ryals and Jeff Johnson Kerry Ellis and Jeremy Grogan J oey Chop and JT Duncan Toni and Madi Spillman with Adysen and Candice Breeland 5M anning Bennett, Michael Lee and Ben Denny 6 Corey and Brooklyn Jones with Layla 7 Gary Bell and JJ Bell-Harper 8 Cannon Harper and Cole Lamkin 9 E lizabeth Moses and Jobec Stevenson 10 Tyler McCorkle and Poltan Stegall 11 T im Everett and Blake Brown 12 Chase Anderson and David Darland 13 Lynette and Marcus Bailey 14 C helsea Soileau and Randy McKinnie 15 D awn and Shane Batterton 16 Donna Ott and Sheree McCain 17 Brady and Richie McKinney 18 Clint Stephenson, Emma Claire Stephenson and Landen Yates

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Bayou Jamb Press Conference Bayou Jamb kicked off a week of festivities on Tuesday, August 22, with their Media Day and Hospital Tour at St. Francis Medical Center in downtown Monroe. Coaches from the eight participating teams, as well as their top players, were on hand to address the media and visit with patients and staff. Special guests in attendance include Ace the Warhawk; Lifetime Achievement Award Honorees Coach Dell Ashley and Coach Donnie Easterling; The Family of Coach Hoss Garrett (posthumously); and Coach Sonny Smith.

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Front Door Housing United Way of Northeast Louisiana Announces Efforts to Reduce Homelessness

nited Way of Northeast Louisiana has announced immediate action to fill a gap resulting from the temporary closure of the Salvation Army emergency shelter. Beginning in 2016, United Way of Northeast Louisiana convened “Community Conversations on Homelessness,” a community collaborative of area non-profits, faith-based organizations, government, and businesses to discuss solutions to reduce homelessness. From these on-going conversations, an immediate, temporary solution has been developed. Temporary emergency shelter beds are being provided by Christopher Youth Center, DeSiard Street Shelter, Family Promise, Louisiana Baptist Children’s HomeHome Place, Monroe Area Guidance, Rays of Sonshine, Two Penny Missions, and the Wellspring. The total number of beds exceeds that which was previously offered by the Salvation Army emergency shelter. To defray additional agency expenses incurred over and above normal operating costs, United Way has established a Community Crisis Fund, and

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will be the fiscal agent. A community panel will convene to review and disperse available funds to these non-profits who request additional grant funding to temporarily expand their services. The United Way of Northeast Louisiana funding of the Salvation Army ended June 30, 2017, after the agency was unable to provide basic accountability information required from all partner agencies. Providing temporary beds addresses the immediate need for what is a long-term issue. United Way also announced an approach to addressing the long-term issue, Front Door for Housing. Ron Barron, Chairman of the United Way Board of Directors, said, “United Way is committed to investing in long-term solutions by providing grant funding to launch Front Door for Housing, a new initiative which utilizes best practices that bridge the gap between people facing homelessness and those who can provide services.” United Way of Northeast Louisiana’s grant to the Wellspring will provide a street outreach staff person who will quickly contact

and engage homeless individuals or families in services, as well as a data liaison who will track the progress of persons identified as they move toward appropriate housing programs. United Way’s grant to Christopher Youth Center will enable them to employ a housing navigator, providing knowledgeable case management to quickly guide individuals and families through the process of qualifying homeless persons for help. The Community Conversations on Homelessness Collaborative will continue to develop and expand long range solutions. For more information about United Way’s efforts to fight homelessness, contact Janet Durden, president of United Way of Northeast Louisiana, at 318-325-3869, or by email at jdurden@unitedwaynela.org. United Way of Northeast Louisiana fights for the Education, Financial Stability, Health, and Basic Needs of every person in our community. For more information about United Way of Northeast Louisiana, visit unitedwaynela.org or simply call 2-1-1.

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Brown Bag Concert Series Tell Siri (or Alexa), “Schedule Me for fun on Wednesdays at Brown Bag Concerts Series!”

se Siri (or Alexa) for something really important! Create a calendar entry for lunch each Wednesday in October at the Northeast Louisiana Arts Council’s noontime outdoor Brown Bag Concert Series! Pack a picnic and come on down to Monroe’s own urban oasis, beautiful Anna Gray Noe Park in downtown Monroe. Unplug, kick back, and enjoy the ever-changing show -- country, rock, show tunes, blues, old standards, and much more. Some seating is provided, though picnic blankets and lawn chairs are welcome. Of course, the performances are FREE, thanks to CenturyLink, Origin Bank and the City of Monroe. Not sure? We’ll sweeten the day with free sweets! We’ve got complimentary cookies, thanks to Mulhearn Corporation, and lemonade and water, courtesy First Baptist Church of Monroe (which is also our in-caseof-rain venue)! Thanks also to Kilpatrick’s for providing a tent to shade our performers as they put on the show! Check out the lineup, then put that digital assistant to work scheduling you to play! OCT. 4 • MASON GRANADE A long-time series favorite, Mason has been performing more than thirty years and is a regular at such diverse venues as regional cafes and night spots to Worship Leader at

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Bethel Baptist Church in West Monroe. If your playlist includes Eagles, America and the Beatles, Mason’s your guy! OCT. 11 • JORDAN AND STACEY SHEPPARD Husband and wife duo Jordan and Stacey Sheppard have been playing all over the southeast since 2008. Inspired by many different artists and genres, their sound is a blend of country, soul, blues, and rock ‘n roll. They have both been nominated multiple times for best vocalist in the NELA music awards. Come see for yourself at today’s series outing. OCT. 18 • THE ODEN FAMILY Another husband-wife duo, Greg and Kristen Oden are active participants in local, regional, and national music education and performance. Both are faculty at West Monroe High School, Greg as choral director and Kristen teaching piano lab and assisting in the vocal music deptartment Greg has also conducted choirs in great cathedrals worldwide including at Carnegie Hall in 2016. Kristen is a soughtafter soprano and adjudicator and teacher to private piano and vocal students. Not

surprisingly, their two kids are following in their talented footsteps! Son Blake is a ULM nursing student, but he makes time for the ULM Concert Choir and Chamber Singers. Daughter Morgan, a sophomore at WMHS, is active in the Rebel Choir and Band. Come hear for yourself as the family brings all this inspiring talent, training, and skill to the stage for our third outing of the series. OCT. 25 • MIKE MCKENZIE This opener for Tim McGraw, T. Graham Brown, and Bryan White closes our series with his own unique style. Mike McKenzie is one of the busiest performers in the region, something he’s been doing since he was a kid, playing everyone’s favorite country, classic rock and funk. Mike’s appearances are always fun and entertaining, and we’re excited to wrap up the series with this local legend! For more information or to confirm the show will go on in case of rain, call the Arts Council office at 396-9520. Visit the Arts Council online at www. nelaarts.com or find us on Facebook!

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Twin City Ballet Company 2017-18 Season Offers Something for Everyone

PICTURE IS WORTH A THOUSAND WORDS. MOVING pictures are worth infinitely more. And what better way to describe dance than moving pictures? Treat yourself to a season of storytelling through movement with three great performances by Twin City Ballet Company. For decades, Twin City Ballet Company has been synonymous with excellence, beauty and joy. The company has thrived under the direction of Linda Lavender Ford. Years of training, commitment and an abundance of love from Mrs. Linda have molded Twin City Ballet Company dancers into the finest around. Each time these dancers take the stage, their incredible talent is on full display. The 2017-2018 season performances promise to keep the rich tradition of excellence alive. Long-time patrons will be amazed that TCB continues to get even better, while newcomers to the audience will wonder how they never knew such talent was nurtured in our communities. Twin City Ballet Company presents three season performances, giving the public a chance to watch in wonder as local young artists take the stage. From contemporary to classical, the company’s diverse repertoire offers something for everyone. Twin City Ballet Company’s season opening event, Talk of the Town, will feature high-energy, soulful dancing. Choreographers Leaia Alsup, Joe Istre and Kristy Nilsson have created stirring pieces that display the incredible strength and artistry that Twin City Ballet is known for. Familiar music, such as Willie Nelson and Mumford and Sons, complement the rich sound of strings from Italian composer Ezio Bosso. This promises to be an evening all dance lovers will enjoy. October 28, 2017, 7:30 p.m., Brown Theatre at ULM. Everyone’s favorite classic is back! Yes, it’s time for Rudolph, with all the heart-filled adventure the story brings. Joe Istre’s version of this timeless story begins as a young Rudolph struggles to fit in. Over time and with the love of some very special friends, Rudolph heroically saves Christmas with his historic flight that stormy Christmas Eve! Jack Howard Auditorium will be filled time and time again with thousands of excited children celebrating the magic and mystery of the Christmas season. The culmination of this week-long extravaganza is the Gala performance, when Twin City Ballet Company’s amazing array of dancers will also present Act II of the most beloved Christmas ballet of all, The Nutcracker. Set to Peter Tchaikovsky’s famous score, and 206 OCTOBER 2017 | WWW.BAYOULIFEMAG.COM

choreographed by Victoria Vittum-deBethancourt, this portion of the story sees Clara wander through an amazing snow scene and into the Land of the Sweets. Guest artists, Elizabeth Keller and Daniel Sarabia will perform the iconic roles of Sugar Plum Fairy and Cavalier. Delight in the Sugar Plum Fairy’s court as the Arabian coffee, Chinese tea, Spanish chocolates and more perform for Clara. As patrons of Twin City Ballet, you won’t want to miss our annual Festival of Trees, featuring Christmas trees that have been decorated by local designers. Elaborate wreaths and home décor, coupled with the beautiful trees will fill the Monroe Civic Center Lobby with Christmas joy! Patrons come early and enjoy pre-performance refreshments while bidding on holiday packages of trees, trips and goodies. This magical evening is sure to make holiday shopping feel like a walk through the Sugar Plum Forest! December 2, 2017, 7:30 p.m., Jack Howard Theatre, Monroe Civic Center. Beautiful dancing and an outdoor setting combine to make an unforgettable evening for patrons of North Louisiana’s signature spring arts event, Ballet Under the Stars. Celebrated choreographers work their magic to produce a varied, full-spectrum concert of dance that covers many genres. Picturesque Kiroli Park creates the perfect backdrop for our dancers to share their incredible strength, musicality, beauty and joy of dance. April 20-21, 2018, Kiroli Park Amphitheatre. Children of all ages will fill the seats and watch in wonder and delight as Twin City Ballet presents area schools with a special children’s ballet. Peals of laughter, excited applause, and energetic play go handin-hand with this annual event designed and created especially for our younger audiences. April 18-20, 2018, Kiroli Park Amphitheatre. In addition to these performances, TCB hosts and participates in special events in the community, some of which are the Holly Jolly Breakfast, Festival of Trees, Bringing in Santa at Glenwood Medical Mall and partnering with Cascio’s Chateau for Northeast Louisiana Arts Council’s North Delta Food and Wine Festival. Please visit our website, twincityballet.org for more information about our season, dancers and director, or to purchase tickets for upcoming events. Memberships and sponsorships are available for individuals and businesses wanting to lend support to this meaningful non-profit organization that aims to enrich the arts in Northeast Louisiana. photo by Martin Graham Meyers Photography

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Calendar of Events For a full list of event happenings in Northeast Louisiana, see our website at www.bayoulifemag.com Through October 2017 2017 Ark-La-Miss Fair The Fair has been a major part of Monroe/West Monroe for decades. It brings joy and fun to family and friends while providing a great way to give back to the community! For a daily schedule of events, visit the website! We’ll see you at the fair! Venue: Monroe Civic Center, 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: Hours vary by day. Cost: Prices vary. Phone: 318-329-2225 October 5 Downtown River Jam featuring Josh Love Band and The Waterboys Blues sensation Joshua Love and his band will burn up downtown Monroe on October 5th at Bry park. Opening up the show are local favorites! 2 Dudes Catering will be on hand serving up some delicious eats and Choice Brands, Inc., will be doing free beer samplings! Venue: Bry Park, 110 DeSiard Street, Monroe Hours: 5 p.m. - 9 p.m. Cost: Free Phone: 318-329-3254 October 7 Bark in the Park A 5K run for serious exercise hounds (two-legged) and a 1K walk and 1k fun run with your pet. Your participation will help ORVAL (Ouachita River Valley Animal League) continue its Animal Assistance Programs. No pet necessary to participate! Walk in memory of a pet, for yourself, or to help the cause! Venue: Forsythe Park, Riverside Drive and Forsythe Avenue, Monroe Hours: 7 a.m. - 12 p.m. Cost: $20 per race; $8 for each extra pet Phone: 318-376-0331 Bloody Mary Fest Enjoy 4 hours of tasting delicious, hand crafted bloody

mary’s from 12 different restaurants or bars, then vote for your favorite! The tastings are from 12 p.m. to 4 p.m. Market hours run from 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. Ticket holders will receive a punch card that is good for the number of participating restaurants and bars. Ticket holders must be 21+ to attend and have a valid ID. There will be vendors and food trucks to quench your needs. Venue: Downtown RiverMarket, 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Cost: Presale tickets from August 1st- October 6th are $25. $35 at the door Phone: 318-807-1735 Landry Vineyards presents: Mason Granade Landry Vineyards winery outdoor concert featuring Mason Granade! A variety of Classic Rock music will have you, family and friends dancing all night. Make sure you pack your lawn chair, blanket and picnic dinner and enjoy the outdoor show! Venue: Landry Vineyards, 5699 New Natchitoches Road, West Monroe Hours: 3:30 p.m. - 7:00 p.m. Cost: Adults: $10; Ages 13-18: $5; Children 12 and under: Free Phone: 318-557-9051 October 10 Fall Chautauqua Series The first event of this education series covers the outlaws and gangsters of Lincoln Parish and the lawmen who fought them. Local historian Wesley Harris leads the discussion on local history. Time: 6 p.m. Location: Lincoln Parish Museum Admission: Free Contact: 318-251-0018 October 13 North Delta Food and Wine Festival: A Rare Culinary Celebration Don’t miss this exciting culinary event featuring local chefs as well as guest chefs from around the country. Enjoy food, drink, music and fun at this culinary celebration. Be sure to

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head to SQ’s on the Ouachita for the Chef’s Party after the main event! Venue: West Monroe Convention Center, 901 Ridge Avenue, West Monroe Hours: Culinary Celebration from 6 to 9 p.m.; After party begins at 9:15 p.m. Cost: $50 General Admission Phone: 318-396-5000 ARToberfest Don’t miss Ruston’s largest beer tasting event featuring local and home brewers! Artoberfest offers a selection of craft beers as well as commercial, live music, food trucks, and more! Proceeds go to benefit the North Central Louisiana Arts Council. Time: 6:30 p.m. Location: The Norton Building, Downtown Ruston Admission: General admission tickets $30 Contact: 318-255-1450 Justin Moore: Hell on a Highway Justin Moore is on his 2017 Hell On A Highway Tour with special guest Dylan Scott and plays concerts across North America. Get tickets for the shows BEFORE they sell out -- with no busy signals or waiting rooms! Venue: Monroe Civic Center, 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 7:30 p.m. Cost: starting at $42 Phone: 318-329-2225 October 14 5K Boogie On Da’ Bayou Walk/Run Friends of Black Bayou invite you to run or walk in our 1st 5K Trail Run/Walk! All ages and abilities are encouraged to participate. This is the kick off event for the annual Fall Celebration! Come for the 5K and stay for all the amazing events and lunch! Fun for the whole family butterfly release, birdhouse building, turning the Blue Goose migration marker, free canoeing, native animal displays, hands-on arts activities, face-painting, temporary tattoos,

refuge photography contest, GPS game, fish fry lunch and more! Venue: Black Bayou NWR, 480 Richland Pl Drive, Monroe Hours: 8:30 a.m. Cost: $30 Phone: 318-387-1114 North Delta Food and Wine Festival: Brew on the Bridge Beer, food trucks, and more on the Endom Bridge, spanning the Ouachita River. Venue: Endom Bridge, 100 DeSiard Street, Monroe Hours: 11:00 a.m. - 2:00 p.m. Ruston Makers Fair This annual event celebrates the rich arts culture of North Louisiana. Come out to shop works from local artists and makers of all kinds with live music and tasty food! Works include original paintings, ceramics, custom t-shirt designs, wood working and much more! Time: 3 p.m. - 8 p.m. Location: Downtown Ruston Admission: Free to attend Contact: 318-245-6970 Wine for the Wild Zoo Fundraiser Support the Louisiana Purchase Gardens and Zoo at this fun concert in the vineyard. Louisiana Soul Revival featuring Doug Duffey will have you dancing the night away. Food trucks will be on site. The tasting room will be open and wagon tours through the vineyard will be offered, as well. Come celebrate an afternoon of fun with your family and community while listening to local music, eating Cajun food and enjoying Landry Vineyard’s wine. Venue: 5699 New Natchitoches Road, West Monroe Hours: 3:30 - 7 p.m. Cost: $10 in advance; $15 at the door Phone: 318-376-2501 October 15 North Delta Food and Wine Festival: Brunch Enjoy an Italian celebratory brunch at Cascio’s Chateau.

Venue: Cascio’s Chateau, 2001 Louisville Avenue, Monroe Hours: 11 a.m. - 2 p.m. Phone: 318-325-0384 Bayou Independent Wrestling’s Home Sweet Home Six huge matches on this ticket featuring Vordell Walker vs. Shane Taylor. Venue: West Monroe Convention Center, 901 Ridge Avenue, West Monroe Hours: 3 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Cost: $10 in advance Phone: 318-396-5000 October 17 Fall Chautauqua Series The education event tells the story of Grambling, LA “An American Success Story.” Phyllis Miller, Grambling Historic Preservationist, leads the discussion on local history. Time: 6 p.m. Location: Lincoln Parish Museum Admission: Free Contact: 318-251-0018 October 20 Rock the Railroad “Harvest Haul” Come out to Railroad Park for fall activities for the family, pep rally from LA Tech spirit groups, music and food and brews! Time: 5:30 p.m. - 8 p.m. Location: Railroad Park Admission: Free to attend Contact: 318-255-2031 October 21 St. Paschal Herbal Harvest Original Arts and Crafts Festival FREE event which will host more than 60 vendors selling original artisan arts and crafts. St. Paschal will be selling herb plants and foods prepared by our church members. Delicious Herbed Chicken Salad, Taco Soup, Grilled Sausage, freshly baked Breads, Cakes, Cookies and Sweets, Almond Tea and Cold Drinks will be available for purchase. Bring the entire family for a fun time. This is the 26th year for this event. Venue: St. Paschal’s Catholic Church, 711 North 7th Street, West Monroe Hours: 9 a.m. - 3 p.m. Cost: FREE Phone: 318-237-4840 Louisiana Food and Music Festival Enjoy live music throughout the day while trying out a variety of food trucks and vendors! And, as with

every other RiverMarket, vendors are out selling a variety of products, services, and art. Venue: Downtown RiverMarket, 316 South Grand, Monroe Hours: 10 a.m. - 4 p.m. Cost: Free Admission Phone: 318-807-1735 Pumpkin Fest Kids will love this pumpkin themed fall festival featuring arts, crafts, dancing and more. Venue: Antique Alley, 100-400 blocks of Trenton Street, West Monroe Hours: 10 a.m. - 3 p.m. Landry Vineyards presents: Lisa Spann and Company Landry Vineyards winery outdoor concert featuring Mason Granade! A variety of Classic Rock music will have you, family and friends dancing all night. Make sure you pack your lawn chair, blanket and picnic dinner and enjoy the outdoor show! Venue: Landry Vineyard, 5699 New Natchitoches Road, West Monroe Hours: 3 p.m. - 6:30 p.m. Cost: Adults: $10; Ages 13-18: $5; Children 12 and under: Free Phone: 318-557-9051 Louisiana State Games: Cross Country Meet Join in on the fun at the Louisiana State Games Cross Country meet. Venue: ULM, 700 University Avenue, Monroe Phone: 318-387-5691 October 24 Fall Chautauqua Series Learn more about Lincoln Parish landmarks in this education series led by radio personality, Rick Godley. Time: 6 p.m. Location: Lincoln Parish Museum Admission: Free Contact: 318-251-0018 October 26 Big Church Night Out! The Newsboys, Sidewalk Prophets, 7eventh Time Down, and more perform for one big church night out! Other artists include Blanca, Derek Minor and Adam Agee. Also featuring illusionist Brock Gill, and worship with Jamison Strain. Hosted by Jeremy Willet, this family-friendly event is sure to be a

night to remember! Venue: Monroe Civic Center, 401 Lea Joyner Memorial Expressway, Monroe Hours: 7 p.m. Cost: starting at $18.00 Phone: 318-329-2225 October 27-29 The Mousetrap A group of strangers is stranded in a boarding house during a snow storm, one of whom is a murderer. The suspects include the newly married couple who run the house, and the suspicious-in-theirminds nearly wreck their perfect marriage. Others are spinster with a curious background, an architect who seems better equipped to be a chef, a retired Army major, a strange little man who claims his car has overturned in a drift, and a jurist who makes life miserable for everyone. Into their midst comes a policeman, traveling on skis. He no sooner arrives, when the jurist is killed. Another famous Agatha Christie switch finish! Chalk up another superb intrigue for the foremost mystery writer of her time. Venue: Strauss Theatre Center, 1300 Lamy Lane, Monroe Hours: Friday and Saturday 7 p.m.; Sunday 2 p.m. Cost: $30 plus tax for Adult/$10 for Student Phone: 318-323-6681 October 28 Celebrate Your Heroes 5k and 1 Mile Fun Run Louisiana Hospice and Palliative Care is hosting the first Hospice Promise Fundraiser “Celebrate Your Heroes” 5k and 1 mile Fun Run/Walk! All money raised at this event will benefit Hospice patients and families in our community with non-hospice related expenses they are unable to afford, such as rent and utility bills, emergency repairs, personal care items and food assistance. The foundation also provides funding for patients’ last wishes, burial assistance and community projects like bereavement camps for children and educational outreach programs for end-of-life care. Dress up as your favorite hero! Awards will be given for teams with the best team name, best costume and largest team. Individuals in costume will be eligible for door prizes. Gift card

prizes will be awarded for first place finishers. Medals for second and third place finishers. Age Groups: 14 and under,15-19, 20-29, 30-39, 40-49, 50-59, 60 and over. Celebrate your favorite hero on our Hero Wall. For a $20 donation, send us a 4x6 photo and write-up of your hero and we will feature them during the race. Register in person at Louisiana Hospice, 1101 Hudson Lane, Suite D, Monroe, LA 71201. Register online@ Venue: Chennault Park, 8475 Millhaven Road, Monroe Hours: 1 mile fun run at 8 a.m., 5k at 8:45 a.m. Cost: $20 (1mile), $25 (5k) includes race t-shirt Phone: 318-322-2235 Boo at the Zoo ZombieBoo at the Zoo with Costume Contests, Best Zombie Walk Contest, and Best Zombie Moan Contest. There will be games, candy and fun for the whole family. Venue: Louisiana Purchase Gardens and Zoo, 1405 Bernstein Park Road, Monroe Hours: 10 a.m. - 3:00 p.m. Cost: $7 Phone: (318) 329-2138 Enjoy your stay in MonroeWest Monroe! We at the Monroe-West Monroe Convention and Visitor’s Bureau hope you have a great stay here! Please feel free to call us at 800-843-1872 if you have any questions. You may also stop by our offices at 601 Constitution Drive, West Monroe for brochures, coupons and additional information. Visit www.monroe-westmonroe. org for information about events in Ouachita Parish and visit www.rustonlincoln.com for events in Lincoln Parish.

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