BC Magazine Philippines May 2013 Mikaela and Chucho Martinez

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HAPPY NEW GEAR:

The Baby List: Picks for Your Child’s Clothing, Feeding, and Sleeping Needs Nearby Day Destinations for Your Brood

Part 1 of Our Back-toSchool List

BC’s Curated Beauty Picks for Mother’s Day Stroller Spotlight: What ‘Wheels’ are You Driving?

Protect Your Skin from the Big “C”

CHUCHO MARTINEZ Have fun in the sun as they talk about the first time they met, young parenthood, careers, and raising their darlings, Noelle and Tyler

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INSIDE BC contents 10 don't blame it on sunshine Summer protection for you and your brood 16 protect the skin you're in How to take care of your skin, especially during the hot months 30 making a splash Check out our especiallycurated (and tested) bath-time must-haves for your baby 28 when fear pushes you, push back!

An inspirational story from a cancer-surviving marine on how to gain perspective in life

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On the Cover: Mikaela and Chucho martinez with their children, noelle and tyler

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43 electronics have replaced mom and dad at the dinner table Learn electronic etiquette especially during mealtime with this quick, useful guide

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50 summer lovin' We check in with the Lagdameo-Martinez family, as they wind down a summer to remember 64 happy new (school) year Everything you need to send your children to school--in full gear and battle-ready 72 me time These adorable kids take time out for some pampering and relaxation, all in the latest summer ensembles 86 love, angel, music, baby Whether it’s for sleeping, feeding, or going out, we’ve got your most precious cargo covered

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Mother’s Days

I recently had to ponder on what the special month of May signifies for a 3-time momma like myself (5-time, if you count our two furry ones). Honestly, I most often feel like a champion in the eyes of my kids (except when I get loaded at work and get cranky, sigh). If there is anything I love doing and have absolutely no regrets about, it is having my family. I did not go through your typical, “marriage first before kids,” and haven’t had my church wedding to this day. We even found out about my eldest through the oddest of circumstances. My first time at becoming a mother is what I consider my true coming-of-age.

Early in 2003, I was battling years of intense, sometimes incapacitating stomach pains. No medication worked, so I felt that it was time to undergo an endoscopy to find out if I had something more scary lurking about my body than bouts of hyperacidity. Before I could do so, the doctor advised me to have a pregnancy test, just to rule that out, since he would be performing the procedure. It was at around 5 AM the next day (the first, most potent urine!) that I found out I was carrying Sabina, and although we were thrilled beyond belief, we were just as scared because our financial situation as a couple has never been shakier. We were publishers starting out in an industry that drains your money way before you can gain it back. I had just quit a stable, higher-paying job about a month before the pregnancy. Apart from that, my gastroenteritis was still a problem, which was cured after my daughter was born and I discovered the wonders of the coconut—but that is another story altogether.

While pregnant, I remember my husband, Tom, myself, and our 3-year old Lab who recently passed away, Bruce, praying outside the church of Kawilihan Village where we used to reside and hold our office. I think we lived there for about a year, to be in closer proximity to our partners and advertisers.

Sometimes the worry about our company’s situation would be so overwhelming, that we would just hop on our car and go outside and head to the church and pray at 3 AM. It is at those moments when we would feel weakest, that God would fill us with faith and hope.

Eventually, due to my pregnancy, we had to move out of the office and live back at my 4-flight walkup condominium in the south. But when the walking up and down got too much

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for me (with no laundry and help at the time), we had to rent a small townhouse for my and the baby’s wellbeing, which also became sort of a home office where our partners would go to all the time. The question was: As publishers, how would we survive on our combined monthly income of P27,000, when our rent alone was already at P12,500? With a stream of bills on food, electricity, medical bills, cellphones, domestic help, gas, baby stuff, etc. to worry about, it was a miracle that we were able to give birth at a good hospital and provide for our first, with the grace of God and the help of family, business associates, and friends.

Long story short, our then men’s magazine (which we sold to our partners in 2006) surged in popularity and consequently, in its income, after Sabina was born. We call each of our children our lucky charms. It was through her birth that I came up with the idea of making BC, for parents like myself who had no clue on what to buy for my child. I had to call other mom friends to find out about the littlest stuff—like where to buy cute baby clothes, what baby bottle to buy, etc. So you see, we all have our own tales to tell. This is only a piece of my first installment. Our 2nd heaven sent, Maxine, took us to an adventure living around the New York area and in Beverly Hills, which I will tell you more about as we go along. And my 3rd, Mathis’ adventure, has only just begun, and we hold our breaths watching it unfold.

Our cover family, the beautiful Martinezs, have their own interesting and unique story—with Mikaela being a relatively young mom at 19, and Chucho, who is some years her senior—but I will leave it up to the couple to tell you about theirs.

Now that I have two kids in elementary, the school dynamics have changed. Both will be having more homework that they will bug us about haha, and I know that this is a time for big changes because they will be teens in a blink, so I’m just clinging on to their childhood as much as I can. This year, I saved myself a trip to the mall by buying their bags and lunch gear from our curated back-to-school list, so that was a huge relief. Why I didn’t do that in the past is beyond me. Naturally, I had to pick up a few items for our Mathis from our other editorials because I can never resist adorable baby stuff, which as you will tell from our pages, is way too many.

It is with my head bowed that I wish you all a Happy Mother’s Day. Yours is a story that should be told, as many moms are unsung heroes need to be revered. If I may invite you to email us yours to be published in BC, that would be amazing, as we always look for inspiring stories to tell. You know how to reach me.

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Kariz Tanya Favis Editor-in-Chief

Kariz Tanya Favis Chairman & President

Martin Favis Creative Director

Martin Favis Vice President & Publisher

Valerie Anne del Castillo Senior Editor & Assistant to the Publisher

Mark Cabalang Production Manager & Senior Graphics Artist

Aiya Mai Rodjel Editorial Assistant

Ahlee Del Rosario Graphics Artist

Job Ambrosio Director

Dennis Castillo Online Director

Charina Mitra Finance Manager

Maricel Bancolita Account Manager

Contributors Xie Antonio, Raymond Ko, Sammie Marasigan, Mark Ocampo, Elizabeth Cunnane Philips, Dr. Justin Piasecki, Jay Platt, Ethan Ralston, Mary Jo Rapini, MED, LPC

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don’t blame it on sunshine

Keep your kids safe from harmful UV rays with these sun protection products. Or just blame it on the boogie

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f you don’t like your kids wearing clothes (what the?), going under trees, or you especially detest carrying an umbrella around to block out the sun’s excess radiation—better stock up on some good ol’ sunblock lotion. Did you know that almost half of all new cancers found are skin cancers? If this bit is enough to scare the bejesus out of you, here are some skin protectants that block out the harmful rays of Mr. Sun, Sun, Mr. Golden Sun. A sunblock physically blocks the sun’s harmful UV (a

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SUN PROTECTION natural form of radiation, which can be damaging to everyone alive when exposed to high doses). Chemical sunblocks scatter, reflect, and physically block UV radiation. The most wellknown chemical sunblock is zinc oxide (remember how we used to paint shapes on our faces at the beach with it and when the zinc dries out we’d get ourselves a nice little heart-shaped tan line smack dab in the middle of our eyebrows? What do you mean you never did that?). Anyway, check out this hot list.

It’s a sunny daze...

Apply sunsreen to exposed areas of the skin at least 15 minutes prior to going out. If your baby is under 6 months of age, ask your pediatrician for a, “GO BAKE” signal, and if kiddo is under 2 years of age, use products with a minimum of SPF15. For children who have sensitive skin, make sure to read the label and look for the word, “hypoallergenic.” A good rule of thumb to follow when buying sunblock is, “the higher the SPF (Sun Protection Factor), the better.” Take your time when buying a good product, because sometimes we tend to get carried-away by the P100,000 prize that await 2013’s “Ms. Golden Glow.”

Your baby girl won’t be eligible yet anyway. Oh, you were thinking about yourself? Oh. bc

1 Sun is Shining SPF30 Baby Sunblock by INDIGO BABY, P400, multiply.com/indigomanila 2 Vital Sun Protection Lotion SPF 40 for Children by KIEHL’S 3 Prickly Heat Baby Powder by JOHNSON’S 4 Barrier Balm by AROMABABY, aromababy.com 5 Baby Oil by HUMAN NATURE, P140, thefarm.ph 6 Daily Sun Protection Lotion SPF15

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Not a lot people are aware of the difference between “sunscreen” and “sunblock.”

Sunscreen contains chemicals that absorb UV rays before they damage the skin, while sunblock contains particles that act as a physical wall against UV rays.

1 Daily Sun Protection Lotion SPF 30 by JOHNSON’S BABY 2 Cover Up Baby Sunscreen for Face & Body SPF50 by babyganics, babyganics.com 3 Slide! Baby Cologne (Playtime Collection) by JOHNSON’S 4 Baby Cooling Bath

by JOHNSON’S 5 Protective Cream UVB SPF50+ for delicate and fragile skin by MUSTELA

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the best choices for breastfeeding moms this mother’s day On this special day, explore the joys of motherhood from a new angle, created by Mothercare The globally renowned retailer that provides parents the world over with nearly everything they need in caring for their children introduces an innovative new feeding range that is developed by experts and approved by parents, too.

Carefully researched and expertly developed, the fresh, affordable range includes 31 completely new lines to help moms and dads find everything they need to feed their baby only the best—in the way that comes most naturally to them.

We all know the importance of breast milk, and it is our duty to provide our children with the best nutrition.

Mothercare understands and supports this responsibility, which is why they are introducing a new gift for breastfeeding moms this Mother’s Day— the Innosense feeding range, created with three years of expert insight, vision and passion, and in collaboration with renowned industrial designer, Daniel Weil. The innovative range has 21 design registrations and five patents pending.

The Innosense breast pump has a unique 3-position function which enables milk-expressing moms to hold it in one of three different positions, enabling you to personalize the hold position that best provides you with the ultimate comfort. It also has a roller ball function that provides a very easy control over pump speed.

The Innosense range also features the unique bottle with the revolutionary “off center” teat, which is available on all bottles. These bottles have been designed to achieve the ultimate feeding position by promoting better eye contact for bonding between parent and baby, while minimizing air ingestion—just what you need during the intimate moments of feeding your breast milk to your child.

More than just breast pumps and bottles, Innosense also provides parents with the signature lozenge shape electric steam steriliser, which features an efficient stacking design, thus saving space in the kitchen, and an easy to grip handle that prevents contact with

the hot unit.

Mothercare Head of Design Paul Walker says of the new range, “Over the years, bottle shape has evolved in the search for the perfect bottle, but each has had its pros and cons. We’ve worked closely with industry experts and moms, and gathered all our innovative know-how to produce this new and unique Innosense range.”

Mothercare’s Parenting Expert, Liz Day adds, “We recognize that every woman, and indeed every baby, is different and believe that the decision on who to feed one’s baby is ultimately for the parent to take. We’re delighted to introduce the new Innosense range to give parents everything they need to nourish their babies in a way that suits them.”

Visit any of the ten Mothercare stores in the country: Active Fun BHS, Greenbelt 5, Harbor Point, Robinsons Galleria, Robinsons Magnolia, Shangri-la Plaza, SM Masinag, Trinoma, Abreeza Mall Davao and Centrio Mall CDO. bc

For over 50 years, Mothercare has been the global retail to care for parents, with over 1,300 stores in 60 countries across the globe. The brand is loved and trusted by families, and provides parents (and parents-to-be) with everything they need in a one-stop shop that offers great quality and innovative products for families that are expecting, and those with children up to 8 years. Whether you’re a parent, soon-tobe-parent, or just a caring friend or relative who wants to give the best, drop by Mothercare and give only the best this Mother’s Day.

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“There is no “best” sunscreen— the best one for you is the one you can afford, is convenient and comfortable.”

protect the skin you’re in Learn how to protect the largest organ in your body and make sure that sun rays and heat do minimal damage during this hot season W o r ds by D r . J u sti n P iasec k i A ddi t io n al wo r ds by A i y a M ai R odjel

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ay is “Skin Cancer Awareness” month, and in a tropical country like the Philippines, it pays to be in the know on how to take care of our skin. There are many methods to cure skin-related diseases but prevention is always better than cure. Dr. Justin Piasecki, top skin cancer doctor and plastic surgeon, shares some useful tips to prevent the risk of skin cancer. bcmag.ph

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bc report Don't forget your lips! During summer, your lips are more prone to dryness and chapping from the heat and wind. Make sure to use lip balm that has SPF to protect your lips from damage.

Ultra Lemonlime Skin Protection Moisturizing Lip Balm with Vitamin E and Aloe by CHAPSTICK, P81 Tips to prevent the risk of skin cancer

Cancer warning signs include a spot or sore that continues to itch, hurt, scab, or bleed for over two weeks.

Also: any growth, mole, beauty mark or brown spot that changes in color, texture, size, thickness, is irregular and asymmetrical, and bigger than the size of a pencil eraser.

Use sunscreen frequently and liberally, even on cloudy or hazy days.

Makeup with SPF is no substitute for sunscreen— it’s about 14 times less effective and 1/3 of skin cancers occur above the neck.

Do NOT go to a tanning machine to get a base tan, it radiates your skin in a harmful way.

Purchase a “broad spectrum” or “full spectrum” sunscreen. This provides protection from every form of light.

There are two types of light that can harm your skin—UVA and UVB.

No one agrees on a “good SPF number,” but a minimum of 30 is recommended by most.

Studies have shown that certain red foods—particularly tomatoes and apples, help reduce the risk of sunburn.

Check the sunscreen expiration date. Its shelf life is shortened if exposed to high temperatures. A good suggestion is to start fresh each summer.

Some ingredients to look for in sunscreen include avobenzone, cinoxate, ecamsule, oxybenzone, and sulisobenzone.

To increase clothing SPF, use laundry additives. One packet washes a skin-saving SPF 30 into every garment which lasts up to 20 washes.

Sunglasses protect your eyes from UV rays and reduce the risk of cataracts. They also protect delicate

skin around the eyes.

People often forget about their scalp––mist your scalp and hairline with a spray sunscreen.

When sunburned, take antiinflammatory medication like Aspirin or Ibuprofen on a regular basis.

There is no “best” sunscreen— the best one for you is the one you can afford, is convenient and comfortable. bc

Pfizer has been providing remedies, alleviating symptoms, and helping families improve their quality of life through trusted medicines prescribed in over 100 countries.

More and more people are discovering that when they choose Pfizer, they’re getting more than just a prescription for relief. They’re also receive peace of mind and confidence by knowing that Pfizer is safe, high in quality, and taken by millions of people around the world. Plus, there’s a guarantee of efficacy that results from 150 years of expertise, research, and innovation. For medicine that has the stamp of trust and the mark of good value, more and more are choosing the brand of Pfizer.

About the Author

Dr. Justin Piasecki graduated from Stanford with honors, Vanderbilt Medical School, completed a 5 year Plastic Surgery Residency at the University of Wisconsin, and a Mohs Surgery fellowship at the University of British Columbia. He is board-certified by the American Board of Plastic Surgeons, the American Board of Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery, and has trained under some of the most respected dermapathologists in North America. He also directs the AAAHC accredited, Medicare Certified Operating Room, and internationally acclaimed Skin Cancer Center.

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Treat your tresses! During the hot months, avoid (or abstain) from styling your hair with hot items such as straightening irons, curling irons, and blow dryers to avoid damage. Use sulfate-free shampoo especially for color-treated hair, as shampoos with sulfate content cause your hair color to fade faster), and layer up on keratinrich conditioner, making sure you keep it on your hair for at least 2 minutes before rinsing.

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stroller spotlight Before you head for the door to grab your baby’s new pram, first meet the Quinny Moodd and Fizz Humbug P H OTO G R A P H S B Y M A R K C A BA L A N G

Quinny Moodd by Britto Available at KJ concepts Available to Zulily (zulily.com)

A work of art designed by renowned artist Romero Britto, this stylish and smart stroller is packed which special features such as an adjustable footrest and pushbar, and detachable wheels. Its high protection sun canopy offers the highest (50+) UV protection for your child to enjoy the day even with the sun out, while its raincover offers protection so you can brave any kind of weather. For your convenience, the Quinny Moodd cover is water and dirt repellant so you can simply wipe away any spills and its shopping basket can hold weight up to 11 lbs. With all these awesome features and its beautiful design, what more can you ask for?

Editor’s NOTE (WORTHY): “The automatic unfold feature is tops in my book, and I always love the cushion-y seat of the Quinny. I’m certain my little one is always comfy and sound. The collaboration between Britto only ups the ante in terms of its visual aesthetics, of what already is a winning stroller in all aspects.”

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h e a d in g out Editor’s NOTE (WORTHY): “Not many (if at all) umbrella strollers have cup holders, which goes to show you how experienced Silver Cross is when it comes to the needs of mobile parent. The affordable price point (P9,495 at Mothercare stores) is also a major plus for those who want a sleek and durable ride without dipping into the tuition fee funds.”

—Kariz Favis, BC EIC

SILVER CROSS FIZZ HUMBUG

A bit about the brand’s history and present day, as told to BC in our exclusive Q&A with Silver Cross principal, Monica Tsang.

BC: As a new parent, what are the factors to consider when choosing a stroller?

Monica Tsang: It depends on the lifestyle of

the parent, but common factors are the weight and how easy the stroller is to fold and maneuver.

BC: Your founder, inventor William Wilson, created Silver Cross to transport his own children. Is the Wilson family still involved at present? If not, who took over?

M: No, Alan Halsall purchased the brand

just over 10 years ago. It is still a family-run business however, with both of Alan’s sons involved.

BC: Your company began in 1877, and has been trusted by over 10 million parents worldwide.

How does it feel to be awarded this kind of confidence?

M: Confidence is drawn from experience—our

heritage is for all to see.

BC: When does a child graduate from a pram, to a pram system, to a pushchair?

M: Usually when they are able to support them-

selves sitting up.

BC: Where are the strollers designed and manufactured?

M: Designed in UK and HK, and manufac-

tured in China and the UK.

BC: What are the testing processes that your strollers and car seats go through?

M: Each product has to pass the local testing

before it can be introduced into the market.

We ensure ALL of our products pass the necessary tests.

BC: Who are the more famous Silver Cross customers (royalty, politicians, and celebrities)?

M:UK Royal Family, Elton John, and Lily

Allen, to name but a few.

BC: You have also ventured into toys, plush, furniture, and linens. When will we see these product offerings in Asia?

M: They are already in our flagship store in HK,

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“Most people have no idea of what they’re capable of; I think they’re almost trained by fear to not attempt the amazing things they dream of. But I’m living proof—if you can overcome fear, you can overcome almost anything,” says Jay Platt, whose feats include swimming across the Mississippi River while handcuffed, shackled and blindfolded. He’s the subject of the new documentary, “Living Unstoppable,” (LivingUnstoppable.com). bcmag.ph

person a l e x periences Platt was living his dream as a U.S. Marine when a cancer syndrome called von Hippel Lindau (VHL) exploded like a bomb on his life. It caused tumors in his brain and on his spine, as well as kidney cancer and the loss of his left eye.

“I was mad at the world, and maybe part of me was afraid of the fact that I would be considered a handicapped person,” says Platt, who was retired from

the Marines due to his health.

After a personal journey of acceptance, however, Platt went on accomplish feats many world-class athletes wouldn’t consider. Along with his record-breaking Mississippi swim, he swam from Alcatraz Island to San Francisco with his hands and feet tied, and he was one of fewer than 300 people to have hiked the 2,100-mile southbound Appalachian Trail.

platt talks about four areas that helped him overcome fear and anxiety in order to rebuild his body, mind and spirit.

Focus on the joys in life:

Spiritual preparation:

When you realize it’s not all about you, the annoying voice that tells you to be afraid begins to shrivel and loses its poison. While still reeling from his diagnosis and its effects on his life, Platt heard the carefree laughter of a severely handicapped girl being pushed in her wheelchair by her mother. “‘Listen to the birds, Momma,’ I heard her say—she was just so happy to experience that simple pleasure,” he says. “That, more than anything, sent me on a positive path.” His family, friends and those to whom he donates money through various charities gives Platt strength.

Just as Platt trains physically for his feats, he finds it essential to work out spiritually in order to stand up to the fear and anxieties that life’s trials bring. To that end, he surrounds himself with positive messages and positive people, including his friend Les Brown, the influential author of the self-help book, Live Your Dreams.

Use setbacks as a motivator:

When something bad happens, one of the most common responses is fear—fear that it will happen again; fear that you’re less than you used to be; or irrational fear. Platt always knew he’d be a Marine; when he was forced to retire early, he had to recalibrate his entire life.

“One of my favorite quotes is ‘What are you doing now?’—It doesn’t matter what you used to be,” he says. Platt is always looking forward to achieving his next goal.

Remember a greater good:

When he started experiencing complications from VHL, which first manifested in his left eye, Platt promised God that he’d devote his life to others if he got through the scare. He has kept that promise—his Appalachian Trail hike alone raised $109,000 for charity.

“Staying true to a promise might be the most emotionally solid aid to overcoming fear,” Platt says. bc

“When you realize it’s not all about you, the annoying voice that tells you to be afraid begins to shrivel and loses its poison.”

About Jay Platt Jay Platt was medically retired from the Marine Corps in 1998 after suffering complications from the cancer syndrome von Hippel Lindau (VHL), a genetic disease that resulted in brain and spinal tumors, kidney cancer, and the loss of his left eye. When told his future would be considerably dimmer than his past, Platt set out to rebuild himself physically, mentally and spiritually, and to challenge himself by setting demanding physical goals. He was one of fewer than 300 people to have hiked the 2,100-mile southbound Appalachian Trail; one of three to swim from Alcatraz Island to San Francisco with hands and feet tied; and the only person to swim across the Mississippi River while blindfolded, handcuffed and shackled. The proceeds from his adventures and sales of his documentary benefit non-profits, including the VHL Family Alliance. bcmag.ph

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How to Shampoo the Hair

Hair follicles begin to develop on an unborn baby at 9 weeks gestation, with scalp hairs appearing at 20 weeks.

As children get older and their hair begins to grow, a little shampoo will help to cleanse more effectively - this can be used around 4 weeks.

Within the first 4 months of life, the first coat of scalp hair is shed in a wave pattern, and hairs then begin their normal daily growing and falling cycle.

How Often Should You Wash Babies’ Hair?

It is safe to shampoo your baby’s hair every day, provided you are using a mild shampoo, such as Johnson’s Top-to-Toe Wash.

A baby’s head is so small that you only need one hand to shampoo with.

About the author: Elizabeth Cunnane Phillips, Philip Kingsley hair expert and mother of two, knows first hand how important scalp and hair health is for babies. Having completed her studies in London, and admitted as an associate member of the Institute of Trichologists in the UK, Elizabeth joined Philips Kingsley’s US team in 1989. She has played an integral role in their New York practice on all Trichological aspects, working with their core team to formulate solutions in their in-house lab, providing treatments in the clinic and engaging closely with our clients often from the point of initial contact in person or by phone.

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Cradle Cap

Daily shampooing helps to prevent the occurrence of cradle cap, the infant form of an adult scalp condition, pityriasis amiantacea.

Cradle Cap most commonly occurs in babies up to three months old.

Conditioning the Hair

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It is in this light that the following destinations are suggested for that oh-soneeded respite from the daily grind.

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It does not automatically come to mind as a day-trip destination for a family with pre-school aged children, but Las Casas Filipinas de Acuzar does the job rather nicely. How is this possible? Well, read on. Located in Bagac, Bataan, it is a lazy 3-hour drive from Balintawak along the NLEX, SCTEX, and Bataan Highways. It is located along the coast, so Las Casas does have a beach, but the main attraction is the living history lesson the entire family can experience by being there.

Entering the compound transports one back a century or so to the height of colonial life in the Philippines. There is a main plaza where cultural shows are performed and a hotel made to look like a commercial building in the old Escolta district of Manila. Cars aren’t allowed in the compound, so we had to walk to the resort office which was a

bahay-na-bato in the middle of the plaza. The walk alone satisfied our kids’ need for open space. The plaza is wide and the cobblestones used to pave it gave the kids quite a challenge. It was such a new experience for them that they asked us if they could run around.

While the kids were expending their energy, we inquired about the activities the resort has to offer. We were told that they have a swimming pool and beach area. Some evenings they have a cultural show, but if you just wanted to see the houses, you could join the free walking tour. As it happened, we arrived a few minutes before the next scheduled tour so we decided to join it.

The tour is conducted by a lady dressed in a baro’t saya or a gentleman in a barong tagalog. It starts out in the plaza and moves around the big com-

pound, which is made to look like a rich Filipino enclave during the Spanish colonial era. It really is a tour of the 25-plus antique houses that comprises the collection of the developer of Las Casas. Wanting to make the experience interesting for our kids, my wife and I were pointing out details and explaining things to them. Surprisingly, our pre-school aged children showed more enthusiasm than we expected. Going from house to house, they were unfazed. I guess it reminds them of walking around the neighborhood to visit their friends. The bonus here is that they can actually enter all the houses. Our kids trudged up and down the grand staircases, entered all the rooms and looked out of every window they could find. It was turning out to be a challenge for us parents, but the kids were having fun so we just let

1 Inside one of the casas at Las Casas Filipinas de Acuzar 2 One of the houses in Escolta 3 Las Casas Filipinas de Acuzar during daytime 4 Donoco bridge during twilight 2

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At the tail-end of the tour, we were ushered into an air-conditioned house that serves as a museum of sorts for all the antique pieces that came with the houses. Here, the kids’ curiosity were piqued. They kept on pointing at things and asking the questions such as, “What’s that?”, “What’s this?”, “What does this do?”, etc. We were quite tired after the tour, so we went in search of some refreshments. There are a couple of restaurants in Las Casas. One serves Filipino food while the other serves Italian cuisine. There is also a general store that has bakery products, coffee, juices, and sodas. We chose the general store. While sitting at the tables in front of the general store, my wife and I noticed that the establishment right next door is a small spa offering foot massages. There were no second thoughts.

We made sure that the kids were settled and we booked the earliest available slot. The foot massage area had a really good view of the plaza and the area where our kids were happily snacking away, so we were quite confident that we could enjoy our foot massage while watching over the children.

While doing so, we agreed that we never really expected our kids to have fun, but they did.

It was basically a picture book come to life. Rather than just reading about it, we were experiencing it—and I guess that made all the difference.

THE FUN FARM AT STA. ELENA

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what is touted to be the best-managed golf course in the country, but really, this suggestion has nothing to do with playing a round of golf. It is an honestto-goodness, family day-trip destination.

The Fun Farm at Sta. Elena is located in Cabuyao, Laguna, within the confines of the Sta. Elena development of

the Tantoco family. From our house in the northern part of Metro Manila, it is an easy hour and a half drive along C-5 and SLEX. Once within the gate of the development, it is another 5 minutes or so to get to the Fun Farm, but one hardly notices it. It is a smooth, windows-down drive through a vast, wind-

swept grassland that immediately helps in the dissipation of one’s city-induced stress. I notice my wife take deeper breaths and I hear my kids excitedly point out every cow they see.

At the Fun Farm itself, the de-stressing continues. The only sign of urbanity is a very large social hall that looks like a giant gazebo, and very tastefully designed rustic toilets. Other than that, the rest of the place looks like it could pass off as a provincial barrio, albeit very well-manicured. The entire area is dotted with mature trees that provide a canopy which makes lounging al fresco a comfortable proposition even at high noon. Open fields as far as the eye could see, carabaos, and horses meandering down dirt paths, ducks placidly swimming in the pond, and chickens poking about in a make-shift office complete the picture.

There are a number of activities that children can enjoy, but the first activity that my children chose to do was to go boating. It didn’t look like anything special, just a fiberglass shell shaped into a boat with a couple of wooden oars, but my wife and I couldn’t help feeling happy seeing that our children were having a wonderful time helping the farm hand paddle in circles. While watching our kids enjoy themselves, we picked up some makeshift fishing rods made from bamboo poles and cast our lines into the pond to try our luck with the fish.

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feeding some of the animals. We went around to the animal houses and asked what animals could be fed. We were told that all the animals had already been fed except for some very dangerously ravenous guinea pigs. My wife and I looked at each other and tried not to laugh for the sake of our kids. Levity aside, we did enjoy it. Our children had a grand time handfeeding the little rascals. I was surprised at how dangerous it all looked because the guinea pigs were climbing on top of each other just to get at the carrot stick being offered by my son. As expected, feeding the animals made all of us hungry, so off we went to the picnic area for some lunch.

Lunch was a very languid affair. We had to bring our own because the Fun Farm does not provide any food for guests. This did give us a chance to savor the very best our fast food chains had to offer. No one could resist digging into a container full of deep-fried chicken accompanied by some refreshing coleslaw. My wife and I even took this as an opportunity to regale our children with stories of the picnics 1

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While the kids were being pulled around in a cart, my wife and I took a stroll around the compound. We talked about the days when life was a little bit slower, and swapped tales told to us by our grandparents about a more laid-back and genteel era. We sat on the grass, felt the wind on our faces, and walked along the dirt paths. We connected with nature and realized that the time spent experiencing the simple way of life helped us connect with each other, with our children and with ourselves.

THE SEAHORSE VILLAGE AT ANVAYA COVE

Many things have been written about Anvaya Cove, Ayala Land Premiere’s leisure community in Morong, Bataan. It is touted as a luxurious getaway for world weary captains of industry and their families. It is even known as an outdoor playground for families with an active lifestyle. The question is, what does Anvaya Cove have to offer for those families with children of preschool age? Will there be areas with age-appropriate activities for children ranging from 3 to 6 years of age?

With my wife, kids, yayas (this is the Philippines, after all) and gear loaded into the vehicle, we made our way North to find answers.

After a serene two and a half hour drive from Quezon City, along the NLEX, SCTEX, and through the winding mountain passes of SBMA, we arrive at the entrance gate of Anvaya. My wife’s interest is immediately piqued by the choice of vegetation adorning the surrounding landscape. “It reminds me of southern California”,

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she says. I, on the other hand, notice the on-going development of the area and see that our country’s economic health has translated into beautiful vacation homes. The kids, well, let’s just say that they’ve been giddy ever since they saw the ocean from the top of the mountain. A couple of minutes later, we were at the welcome pavilion of the Beach and Nature Club unloading our belongings. Administrative matters settled and ice-cold welcome drinks consumed, we were let loose to enjoy the many activities on offer.

While looking around to take stock of our surroundings, we became aware of the unmistakable sound of little children laughing in delight. Further investigation revealed that the laughter was coming from the direction of a fenced area. “That’s curious,” my wife said. I agreed. As we stepped closer, we saw that a sizable area of the club was set aside to make a mini-club within the premises. It even had its own entry foyer manned by dedicated staff.

Called the Seahorse Village, it is an

area dedicated to preschool aged children.

The Seahorse Village is the complete package. The kids couldn’t wait to put on their swim suits and run into the pool. With yayas in tow (of course), they half-ran, half-stumbled toward the bath area to change. Being a great believer that the manner any establishment is run is reflected in the way its shower/bath areas are kept and maintained, we followed to see what it was like. Needless to say, we were quite impressed with its open plan, airy atmosphere and the use of high-quality materials and fixtures. There are lockers to let for when the yayas need a secure place to stash their gear. Beach towels are available and complete bath products and toiletries are provided. The staff members are attentive and ensure that the bath area is spic and span all of the time.

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“Rather than just reading about it, we were experiencing it— and I guess that made all the difference.” ing area of the pool is lined with the artificial turf to ensure the safety of the children. The pool itself was designed for toddler bliss, what with a bubble motif and water slide. A very attentive lifeguard is always on duty and the deepest part is only 2-feet deep, with a portion just a few inches deep for very young children to wade in. Also, the bubble motif serves a function. What appears as bubbles are actually marbles protruding from the swimming pool tiles. The protrusions make the floor of the pool less slippery, hence, safer for kids. “Do you like the pool?” my wife asked. “Yup!” They said again. The younger of the two told us that the floor of the pool tickled their feet. Seeing that the kids were already having a lot of fun in the water, my wife and I decided to grab some lunch at the beachside restaurant.

Between the good food, the laidback atmosphere and the sound of the waves lapping the shore, my wife and I lost track of time.

We finished lunch after an hour and a half, and hurriedly made our way back to check on the kids.

When we did get back, our kids were no longer in the pool. Worry was about to creep in, but then we heard our little boys calling, “Mom! Dad! We’re over here!” We went over to where they were and saw one of our children hanging from nets made of rope, while the other was clambering

up a well-made jungle gym that looked strong enough to hold 50 kids at the same time. It had ladders, tunnels, a rope bridge and even a ship’s wheel.

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“That looks like fun,” I said. “Yeah!”

My boys shouted in unison. My wife and I looked at each other knowingly and seeing that they would again be satisfied playing for the next couple of hours, we headed for the spa to get our much needed massage.

It was late afternoon when we emerged from the spa. Curious as to how our kids were doing, we headed over once again to the Seahorse Village. What we saw were two very content little kids, already dressed, but not ready to go, quietly playing in the air-conditioned and very comfortable playroom. Floor to ceiling windows allow natural light to fill the space, while the floor is lined with soft rubber matting both for comfort and safety. Numerous non-toxic, developmental toys are on stock for the free use of the children and a substantial number of very comfortable bean bags are scattered around the playroom for use as lounge chairs or even makeshift beds upon which children can have their regular nap.

turized to prevent any slipping, while the ground around it was lined with outdoor matting that would absorb impact in case any child was enthusiastic enough to jump from the gym.

On the drive home, my wife and I looked back on our day and realized that we all had a great time. Our children had a blast, really.

We created memories for our family to cherish and share. And, to our delight, we were able to spend some quality time with each other as well. bc

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“Family dinners are so important for continuing communication among the family members.”

was out for dinner last week. My husband and I went to a family restaurant we both really like. It’s low key, just the right amount of noise, and the food is wholesome and fresh. The restaurant attracts families because of the prices, but the families eating there are different than they used to be. Family dinners are fun because the whole family gets together and talks about the day’s events and who said what to whom. Moms and dads can be heard laughing at their kid’s antics and expressions. This particular night there was some of that interaction, but also a new interaction that I call “electronic parenting.”

At several of the tables, we noted kids with iPads or phones engaged in their activity. There was absolutely no communication between mom, dad, and the kids. The kids were careful not to spill food on their electronic devices and what seemed to make the biggest

impact was one time when one of the mom's almost dropped the ketchup on the child's iPad. The kid became animated and basically scolded mom. I was hopeful that if the electronics were babysitting the kids, at least mom and dad would have some intimate time, but no, that wasn't the case. Mom and dad didn't really engage with each other either; dad was fidgeting with his phone or mom looked frazzled. I thought about this scenario for several days because I am concerned about what these kids' concept of family will be.

Family dinners are so important for continuing communication among the family members. Dinnertime is a time we listen to one another, are reminded of table manners and also mentored about appropriate behavior between mom, dad and kids. You don't have to eat at home to have a family dinner, but a family dinner is so much more than eating. It's important that families real-

ize the invaluable opportunity to have an electronic-free meal. Parenting has a lot to do with setting boundaries, saying no, and also making sure you teach your child appropriate social behavior.

If your child is on the phone or iPad during dinner, they are in their own virtual world and not engaged with the family.

There is no doubt that we are moving in a more electronic wave for the future.

Smart phones are smarter than many humans, and as we continue to evolve and grow with technology, it will be more and more important that families keep their boundaries strong to preserve the unity of family. The only way to do this is to stay engaged with your kids and your spouse, and keep sacred some of the family rituals such as family meals.

Below are some suggestions for keeping your family together and engaged. Your kids may groan, but believe me, in time they will come back and thank you.

Here are some thoughts on having a family dinner:

As much as possible, have family meals during the week.

These don’t have to be done at home; however, they should include your whole family.

Have a plate or a container where all electronics are dropped prior to dinner. Make sure you silence them as the noise of a text or email incites the mind and distracts from family.

Conversation at the dinner table should be kept at a level where everyone can hear one another and you can also enjoy the food.

Make sure you remember you are parents at the table and not your child’s friend. If a derogatory word or motion is made at the table, correct your child/ spouse. The dinner table should remain family friendly.

Continue to show respect and manners with your child at the dinner table. One of a parent’s most important jobs is socializing their child so that the child can feel confident in their ability to demonstrate manners and respect for others.

We cannot go backwards in time, nor should we, but as we continue into the digital age there are some rituals we must keep sacred as a family. Family dinners are one of those. A family is only as strong as its leaders; so parents, it's time to parent at the dinner table. Electronics can never teach your child family values as well as a parent. bc

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un w in d Yoga Fun for Toddlers, Children, & You (Juliet Pegrum, 2010)

Summer encourages kids to engage in sports and fitness activities, and one safe, fun, and playful way is to get into yoga. Yoga has been long lauded as an effective way to keep fit, but not most people know that even kids can do yoga. Author, yoga teacher, and mother Juliet Pegrum shows us how to let our tykes (as young as age three) enjoy the benefits of yoga in this guide. Developing strength, good posture, concentration, and self-confidence are just some of the things your child can achieve with this book, and they can also enjoy performing poses such as the cat, lion, downward dog, and teapot, boat, table or chair.

Other Books This Is Not How I Thought It Would Be: Remodeling Motherhood to Get the Lives We Want Today (Kristin Maschka, 2009)

Kristin Maschka is the president of Mothers & More, a U.S. organization that focuses on the issues that mothers face at home, at work, and in their personal lives. She is the author of the Los Angeles Times Bestseller, This is Not How I Thought It Would Be, which compiles stories from moms all over the U.S., including her own, to form a go-to for relatable, funny, and at times endearing anecdotes on how motherhood is perceived by society and the media today, and how one can remodel it to shape the life they want to live.

The Perks of Being a Wallflower (Stephen Chbosky, 1999)

The widely successful novel paired with the movie released in 2012 has generated buzz on this epistolary coming-of-age novel by Stephen Chbosky, who perfectly voices 15-year old “Charlie,” as he writes letters to the readers. The book follows his journey through his first year in high school, as he deals with being a “wallflower,”—a shy and unpopular kid who discovers friends in the liberated brother-sister tandem, Patrick and Sam. As Charlie copes with the death of his aunt on his seventh birthday, we realize that Charlie is dealing with more than just the trauma of losing someone you love, and possibly, the demons of his past.

Dash and Lily’s Book of Dares (Rachel Cohn and David Levithan, 2010)

From the NY Times bestselling authors of Nick & Norah’s Infinite Playlist comes the magical story of two strangers in the middle of December, bound by one red notebook full of clues and dares. It all starts when Lily leaves the red notebook in her favorite bookstore shelf in the hopes of finding a guy who’s up to all the antics she had written down.

Along comes Dash, who’s up for the dares. But the challenge for the two is to find out if their real-life personas are as compatible as their notebook versions, as they trek across NYC in search of each other. Rachel Cohn and David captures the essence of finding love during the season of miracles. bcmag.ph

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She’s a Teenager!

(Arden GreenspanGoldberg, 2011)

If you have a daughter aged 11 to 19, this book would be the go-to for advice, techniques, and skills to help you deal with your growing lady. Written by family and marriage psychotherapist specializing in teen and young adult issues, Arden Greenspan-Goldberg talks about how parents can deal with their own worries while cultivating a better, more open relationship with their daughters. It is a preparation manual of sorts that can help you help your child tackle topics such as sex, drugs, bullying, eating disorders, sexting, and other growing pains and issues that come with being a teenager.

The Fault in Our Stars (John Green, 2012)

Best-selling author John Green’s first solo novel, The Fault in Our Stars is a soulful take on the fragility of life and how love changes the game of things. Mainly for a juvenile audience, it still hits a strong chord among all ages. The book follows terminal cancer patient Hazel Lancaster, as she is forced to join a support group for children living with the disease. It is there where she meets Augustus Waters, a former athlete whose devastating story involves him losing his leg to osteosarcoma. The two are then bound by Peter van Houten, the author of Hazel’s favorite book, An Imperial Affliction. Find out what awaits the two in this beautiful tale of love and life. { MAY 2013 } b c PHILIPPINES

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One of the world’s favorite Avengers comes back to the big screen with Robert Downey, Jr. reprising his role as Tony Stark. In this action-packed film, Iron Man faces his biggest enemy yet in the form of Mandarin (played by Prince of Persia’s Sir Ben Kingsley), a leader of an international terrorist organization. Gwyneth Paltrow also reprises her role as Pepper Potts, joining the cast that also features James Rhodes, Guy Pearce, and Rebecca Hall, among others.

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Directed by Don Scardino, this comedy film stars Steve Carell as Burt Wonderstone and Steve Buscemi as Anton Marvelton, two highly successful Las Vegas magicians who come to the end of their professional partnership when Anton gets injured during one of their tricks. As Burt continues on, he finds himself lost in the shadow of street magician Steve Gray (Jim Carrey). Find out what hilarity ensues when Burt convinces his good friend to get back on the bandwagon to continue their magical journey together.

The adorable creatures from Pixar and Disney’s hit comedy film, Monsters, Inc. are back in a story set 10 years before the first movie. It follows the story of Mike (Billy Crystal), as he goes off to college to major in scaring.

The teaser trailers, released in June 2012, featured Mike coming up with various excuses not to go to school.

The Dan Scanlon-directed film also features the voices of John Goodman, Steve Buscemi, Kelsey Grammer, and Charlie Day.

Based on William Joyce’s children’s book The Leaf Men and the Brave Good Bugs, Epic is an animated fantasty-adventure drama film that follows Mary Katherine (Amanda Seyfried) as she leaves home in search for her lost father, Professor Bomba (Jason Sudeikis), after he hikes into the forest he often studies, and subsequently disappears.

There, she finds herself shrunken and among the Leafmen, including Nod (Josh Hutcherson) and Ronin (Colin Farrell).

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iPAD APPS Nothing to do this summer season? These simple yet addictive game apps will surely beat your summer blues.

AUDIO BOX Whatever your trip is this summer, these songs will surely make it in your playlist

Fruit Slasher

Slash as many fruits as you can while avoiding the pesky hamster with this fun, interactive game.

Fruits Robo

Teach your kids the name of every fruit under the sun with this educational app.

Fruits Pang

A charming and easy-touse puzzle game featuring smiling fruits.

“What About Us” by The Saturdays

This latest offering from this UK girl group (which includes BC U.S. cover mom Una Healy) is the perfect companion to your summer adventures.

Youtube Fun Files Have a laugh with these videos of adorable, silly little babies

Dragon Baby

Watch this little boy give super heroes a run for their money with this epic battle scene.

“Feel This Moment” by Pit Bull featuring Christina Aguilera

Dance the night away with this feel good song about living in the moment.

“Ready or Not” by Bridgit Mendler

The perfect track to crank up when you’re prepping for your next summer getaway.

Baby Eating Watermelon

It’s hard to tell whether the baby is eating the watermelon or if the watermelon is eating the baby.

“Boomerang” by Nicole Scherzinger

Twins Mimic Daddy’s Sneeze

“Explosions” by Ellie Goulding

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Nicole Scherzinger is back with a fun song about staying strong no matter what life throws at you.

Sit back and relax with this mesmerizing track by British beauty Ellie Goulding.

“Mirrors” by Justin Timberlake

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tunning, graceful, charming—those are just a few words to describe Mikaela Lagdameo-Martinez, the multifaceted, angelic-voiced mom who has done countless print and TVCs. Wife to professional golfer Chucho Martinez, model, entrepreneur, and broker, Mikaela is a headturning beauty whose modeling career began and burgeoned in her teen years, during which she met her eventual husband, Chucho serendipitously at a common friend’s party. We delve into the love story and family life of the Martinezes in their cozy, quiet home in the south, which also houses their lovely and intelligent children—8-year old Noelle and 4-year old Tyler. bcmag.ph

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We give space to each other.

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He never stops me from being anything.”

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K: How did that come about? It was you first?

M: Yup. My dad used to accompany me

to VTRs, so they all knew him.

K: He must be handsome.

M: And he also went for

VTRs and he also gets the roles naman.

K: That’s great, and you’re also part owner of Elan, the modeling company.

M: That’s where I started, actually.

K:How long was that?

M: Probably 15 years

ago. I was one of the models that started young in Elan.

Then eventually, I became a partner.

So I really grew up with Elan and now, it’s so much more fun and there’s much more meaning. It means so much more to me than the business of the agency, since I started there.

K: There was history. Okay, you were, what, 12?

M: No, I was 15 or 14, yeah.

MIKAELA Kariz: Best childhood memories with your family?

M: My brothers, we would swim.

We would roll in the mud. We would play in the rain.

K: In the mud? (Laughs) M: Yeah! I loved swimming

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around in the mud, and then we traveled...I just remember everything being fun. So being a mom now, I always want my kids to have the best childhood ever.

Like it’s so nice even if everything is all about computer games, my kids still have time in the park, and everyday they look forward to playing with other kids in the park—and they’re okay to be under the sun or crawl on the grass. I super love that, despite this “age.”

K: They get whole childhood experience.

Okay, so you’re a family of models. Your parents also got into it, right?

M: Yeah. We did some ads together re-

K: The modeling industry, as we know, is very competitive. How do you keep yourself relevant? Why do people still choose to hire you over others?

M: I don’t know. I guess it’s my work

ethic also. Ever since I started, I was always serious about time. I’m very careful about that. I know people are always on Pinoy time and all. I’m always there on time ‘cause I don’t like people waiting up for me. Also, I really like to keep things professional, I really do my best.

Even though I’m a mom, all the more I should exert more effort to compete with all these young females. I also keep relationships with the people I worked with before. There, I guess I don’t change. I keep myself grounded, K: You’re very nice.

M: I make sure that

nothing gets to my head, because it shouldn’t. I mean, I don’t see the point of changing your attitude just because you’ve been there longer. Just keep things professional.

K: You also work in the financial sector

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K: Have you ever heard of the movie “Boiler Room”?

M: Oh yeah, I’ve heard of it.

K: Watch it, it’s nice. So why did you get into gourmet siopao?

M: A few years ago, my father-in-law

passed away.

K: Oh, sorry to hear that.

M: We did this in memory

of him, because 30 years ago in Dumaguete, they actually had a siopao business.

So we sort of brought it back, but we reinvented it. We have wheat now. We have healthier kind of siopao. So it’s really [in] honor [of] him.

K: That’s very nice. So how do you juggle everything? You’re a mom, you’re a broker, you’re a model. That’s a lot.

M: It’s really about making time for

everything. My job is 9 to 5, Monday to Friday—but as soon as I’m done, I head home. I always have time for the kids. I have breakfast with them and the weekends, we really spend together.

K: And it helps that they’re also bigger.

And they go to school.

M: Yeah, exactly. While they’re at

as a broker, so how did you get into that? We go back to Gourmet Pao. M: We actually started this business

four years ago. Gourmet siopao with 40 different flavors. We have corned beef, tuna, vegetarian siopao, all sorts, and it’s all original recipes. And so this company, which I work in, ICAP, they ordered siopao. And I was very hands-on before. I was delivering all the siopao with my driver. I delivered to the company, and then I was watching what they do and I was like, “Hey, this is interesting. I’ve never heard of this job before.” And they said, “We’re actually hiring now if you want to try,” and I was like, “Hmm, I’ll think about it,” so I went for it. I’ve never worked for anyone before. I was always my own boss, you know? So now, I really see myself being in the industry for a

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while and it’s interesting. I mean, you can’t model forever. Of course, I’d love to have this in this life forever but you know this one is really a career that I want to build.

K: That’s nice. What does a broker do exactly?

M: Basically, we trade bonds, so we

deal with different banks, and we shout, “Yours! Mine!” You know, stuff like that.

K: Is it like Wall Street?

M: Sort of like that, but

a smaller scale.

school also, it works well. We find time to go to the beach. We always try to do things together, like Twister games. We go to the mall, we watch movies. My kids love doing art. It’s just really knowing your priorities. For modeling and stuff, I can take leaves or I schedule it after work. So it’s really about knowing how to divide time properly and I’m not at all stressed out, actually.

K: Yeah, it shows.

M: It sounds like

I do a lot of things, but it actually works well. I just have to make sure I put it in my calendar. For me, that matters too.

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“They’re honest with themselves and we treat them like grownups.

But they do act like kids also which I want. I want them to be kids because they are kids.

But I want them also to be responsible already even if they’re still young.”

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K: You look really relaxed to me. Like you’re very zen. Let’s talk about you and your husband. He is a pro golfer?

M: Pro, yeah.

K: No strict diets? No nothing?

M: Not really. I love food.

careful.

I’m just

K: How did you guys meet? You mentioned your are 9 years apart.

M: Yeah!

K: He’s definitely older.

M: When I first met

him, I was 15, so he was at the birthday party of my friend, who was actually my manager before, Cecille. So we were there to party, and I was there with my dad— cause my dad is always with me whenever I got out.

K: That’s so cute. I so want to be like that to my kids.

M: And then [Chucho] goes like, “So

Cecille, who’s she?” And she goes, “By the way, that’s her dad.” (Laughs) And he was like, “Oh okay,” so we met and nothing. I didn’t even really mind him at all. I was like, “Hi, nice to meet you,” and I didn’t care. I was 15. So I think he was on a trip. He was actually leaving for Hawaii in a few bcmag.ph

hours. So from there, he was gonna head to the airport. For golf. And then two years came by and he sends me a text ‘cause I had this shampoo ad out. It was all over the mall, all over the billboards, everything. Then he texts me, “Hey, Sunsilk girl.” He goes like, “How are you? What are you doing for summer?” I said, “Nothing much. I just want to go swimming.”

Then he invited me to Southwoods, to the club where he plays a lot [of] golf, but I didn’t really like him—he was a friend. I brought my brother, of course, so we went swimming for the day and then after that, he asked me, “Hey, do you want to watch a movie?”

The following day, we went to watch a movie, with my brother again.

K: Guarded.

M: Yeah, then

he asked again, “Let’s have dinner. Let’s have lunch.” And then we started to see each other, almost everyday. I didn’t really like him yet then.

K: When was this?

M: I was 17. Before

we got together, I was like, “You know I’m not allowed to date, so you have to ask my dad.”

So he had to ask my dad, and my dad,

allowed it actually and then there.

K: So your dad liked him.

M: Yeah.

K: Good for Chucho.

M: Then after that…yeah,

I got pregnant. We had a baby two years after, I was 19.

K: After you were dating. When you were boyfriend and girlfriend.

M: So at 19, we had a baby. I was

also graduating college that year, so it all worked out. I thought it was the end of the world for me, because I was modeling. I had contracts but I was fine. I always wanted to be a mom, and I saw myself right after school, I knew I was gonna be a mom somehow. We got married two years after. Our daughter was our flower girl, Noelle.

K: So nice.

M: We didn’t

wanna rush into it, you know, and take it easy. We got married at Southwoods, where we had our first date. And then we lived there. That was our first home, by the golf course.

K: Did you really? Oh, nice!

M: I know! So we were like,

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with Southwoods, right? We met, our first date was there. Our wedding was there, and our first home was there.

K: Lucky place for you. So much meaning. Was there any proposal?

M: That’s what’s funny, because

I remember we were at his house, and his family was there and his mom arrived.

I saw him sneak up to her and I’m like, okay. I thought, whatever. I was just watching TV, and then he runs to his room. Then he goes to the cabinet and locks something, I don’t know. I was like, “What’s that?” He was like, “No, nothing, nothing.” I was like, “Okay.”

And then later on, he goes, “I can’t take it anymore.” Then he goes to the cabinet, and he goes [to me], “Will you marry me?” Like that! So random.

So I’m like, “Okay! Wait!” (Laughs) But yeah, that’s how it happened. Super random.

K: And then his mom was there?

M: Yeah, and his family, actually. So he

wasn’t meant to propose then, but he just had the ring right there and he just

couldn’t, you know— K: (Laughs) That’s so funny. What was your initial reaction when you got pregnant? Were you scared?

M: Honestly, I cried and laughed

at the same time. Because I didn’t really know until I was 4 months. I really didn’t know anything. I was happy but I was scared, and we told my parents right away. I didn’t know how to say it but to show because I didn’t know. I even did a cover shoot and I was doing commercials back then.

K: That’s a normal reaction naman, something like that. Especially when it’s so unexpected, and at that age.

M: I know.

K: How do you guys bond, apart from golf every weekend?

M: We watch movies together. We talk

a lot because my husband’s very talkative. (Laughs) We have a lot of conversations and sometimes, we go out.

We meet up with friends. Have a glass of wine.

K: You’re both from the south so that works out. Your friends are mostly from here?

M: Makati, actually so we go out, out.

K: What is the secret of your successful marriage, apart from the talking? You also have the kids of course to keep you together.

M: I feel that we respect each other’s

differences. We give space to each other. We never pull each other back.

If I want to do something, he supports me. He never stops me from being anything. I am the same with him. I guess it really helps that we’re good friends, and we really are honest and you really talk. You just keep the friendship there.

K: Let’s talk about motherhood. How has motherhood changed you as a person?

M: I think it’s the best. Motherhood—I

think it’s the best thing that can ever happen to a woman.

K: That’s true. I agree.

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You know, there’s so much direction in life and you feel like everything you do, there’s a purpose. I don’t know, they’re just so much fun.

M:

K: It’s so hard to imagine yourself outside of a mother when you have kids.

M: Yeah, they’re the best.

K: Yes, they are. Describe your parenting style. Are you a strict mom?

M: In a way, we are strict. How do I ex-

plain this? You grow up and your parents spank you, and they shout at you.

You know, how we all grew up, “Grr, sit in the corner.” Remembering how I was as a kid and looking at that, it’s like I remember how I felt, so I really don’t want my kids to feel that way.

What we do is we really talk to our kids like adults, and I feel like they respond so well. I don’t have problems with my kids. They never have tantrums.

They don’t whine, and they speak out.

We teach them actually how to speak out and explain how they feel. If you wanna cry, it’s okay, cry but then they know how to deal with it. They’re honest with themselves and we treat them like grownups. But they do act like kids also, which I want. I want them to be kids because they are kids. I want them also to be responsible already, even if they’re still young. I want them to be able to know, to be in touch with their emotions…

K: [So they know how] to deal with the bigger world.

M: That’s how we are with them. They

sleep at 7:30. They’re the ones who say, “Okay, Mom. It’s time to sleep.”

K: How nice. I wish my kids would do that. I’m like, “It’s 10 o’clock. I am sleeping.” I sleep, and they’re awake.

M: They love sleeping early, and they

like waking up early also. They’re very neat. They fix their own stuff. They have their own style. We teach them how to express how they feel by their room. They choose their room color.

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because I wanna develop who they really are.

K: Their individuality. Which brings me to how it’s like being a mother to a boy versus a girl?

M: They’re so different. Like Noelle,

she’s more on the artsy side, so she’s very feminine. She’s very quiet, poised. She loves art and music. Tyler is like, “Hey guys!” He’s the you know, “I love everyone.” He’s the PR person.

K: He’s the life of the party.

M: He likes entertaining people

singing, his dancing.

by his

K: Oh wow. He does that?

M: He loves that, he likes

doing exhibition rounds here, and he loves shaking hands with people. So they’re different.

K: How do you divide the parenting responsibilities? Who’s in charge of what?

M: Well, since I’m the one who’s in

the office every day, he’s the one with the kids during the day.

K: They’re not babies anymore anyway.

M: We have our times together. Some-

times I go with Noelle to the parlor and we have our nails done. [Tyler] and Chucho, they go to the barber together.

Sometimes, I do errands, groceries, I take both of them. There’s no specific thing that we have. We both do our part.

K: That’s nice. What’s inside your mommy purse? What are your must haves?

M: Well, I have, of course, my check

book.

K: (Laughs) That’s so funny.

M: (Laughs) I have my check

book with

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me all the time. You’ll never know when you need it.

M:

K: (Laughs) I never bring my check book so I’m surprised you said that.

M: Sometimes, the ATMs don’t work.

K: Because you’re a Christian family.

M: They always remind us, “Come

K: That’s true.

M: So I have

my check book all the time in my wallet. My perfume, my phone of course, my portable charger because the phones die all the time.

(Laughs) I don’t really keep make up with me much. Just lip balm and blush.

K: I would like you to view my bag some time. (Laughs) Because they’re so much trash. There’s like a first aid kit. I overpack.

M: Really?

K: My husband tells me all the time, “What the hell is inside that?” Anyway, lastly, what are your wishes and aspirations for your children?

M: I just want them to have a better

life than we ever had. I want them to be happy. I want them to be the better version of— K: You and Chucho.

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Yeah, and I just want them to have Jesus in their life.

on, it’s time to pray.” And we do our own prayers. And Tyler, he’s so cute, he thanks God for little things. He thanks God for his yaya. He thanks God for little things like the chicken that he ate today, or the new blanket that he has. You know, I love that they’re so grounded. I really wanna make sure that they stay grounded even if they’re old, even if they become really successful business people. I don’t know what they wanna do. I just really want them to remain grounded, and know who they are as a person.

K: Like you.

M: I just want

lives.

Jesus to be really in their

CHUCHO BC: Tell us more about your background.

How did you become a financial adviser and businessman?

Chucho: First, as a financial adviser,

that’s easy. My family is full of financial advisers, I just grew up surrounded by it. As a businessman, it kinda just

happened. I guess I’ve always been interested in putting things together, especially businesses that have good potential for profit.

BC: How did you get into golf, and make a career as a pro thereafter?

C: It was my best friend in Dumaguete

who influenced me. I was into soccer in Silliman University and when we moved to Manila, I had to choose another sport, so that’s how golf started.

[With] a lot of time spent in the golf course and the amazing support I got from my parents, it was just a matter of time that a professional career came about. Golf is a huge part of my life.

BC: Biggest challenges you had to face as a professional?

C: As golfer? A lot. Every tournament

I join brings a lot of challenges. In teaching a student, a lot of challenges come from there also—every student is different. As long as it’s golf-related, I can handle [it]. But if there’s one student [who] is my biggest challenge— not because she’s not good but because I cannot fail—that would be Mika.

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cial adviser, every new and old client is a challenge. For the new ones, convincing them that the plans I’m offering are the best for them, and for the old, making sure that they’re always protected and secure.

BC: How did you and Mika meet?

C: We met in my then talent agent Ceci-

lle Laigo’s birthday party in Craic.

BC: First impression of her?

C: Wow! When I saw her, I asked Cecille

who she was, not knowing that her daddy was in front of us. But after I found out that she was only 15, I still didn’t mind. Hehe!

BC: You mentioned being from Dumaguete. Why did you all move to Manila?

C: It was my parents’ decision, and

I didn’t really mind at all. I was just so amazed on how wide the streets were here in Manila. That shows you how probinsyano I was. But looking back, I’m glad my parents decided to move here.

BC: Most important lesson you learned from your parents?

C: Stick together no matter what.

BC: How has fatherhood changed your outlook in life?

C: It didn’t change [my outlook in life],

it made it better. I guess you grow up.

But I prefer being a father and a hus-

band than being single. I enjoy every minute of it.

BC: How has parenthood changed the way you see your wife?

C: Nothing can change the way I see

my wife. For me, I can’t live without her, honestly. I won’t be able to function properly. I know that because I feel it when she goes on trips and I’m left at home.

BC: Most memorable experience during your wedding?

C: When she said, “I do.”

BC: Any funny or embarrassing ones?

C: I guess when we were thanking

everyone and she was talking, and was taking a long time that I had to grab the microphone back.

BC: Funniest moment as a dad?

C: Oh wow! We have that every

single day. I love making my kids laugh, so I’ll do anything for that—from dancing foolishly to doing crazy stuff.

BC: Do you plan to add to your brood?

C: Sure.

BC: Best and hardest part about parenthood?

C: Best part of being a parent

is when your son and daughter call you, “the best dad in the universe.” The hardest is when you stop being a parent. bc

“Best part of being a parent is when your son and daughter call you ‘the best dad in the universe.’”

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Boat shoes by Flying Dutchman Mika: Yellow Dress by Forever 21, P1,325 . White pumps by CHARLES & KEITH, P1,799 Noelle: Bracelet

by SM Accessories, P69.75 .

White tank top by C&C California .

Black and white skirt by Florsheim Kids, P699.75 . Yellow sling bag by SM Accessories . Yellow flats by Sugar kids, SM Department Store Tyler: Red soldier’s cap, yellow shirt, both by Periwinkle . Chambray shirt by Gingersnaps . Green shoes by Tough Kids, P599, SM Department Store

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Clockwise from bottom left: 1 Red butterfly lunch purse by DABBAWALLA, P1,350 . Pink Minnie tumbler by SM ACCESSORIES, P119.75 2 Blue elephant freezer pack by SKIPHOP, P595, Mothercare Stores . Blue Spongebob Sports bottle by SM ACCESSORIES, P149.75 3 Man of Steel lunch box by SM ACCESSORIES, P299.75 . Mickey Mouse tin lunch box by SM ACCESSORIES, P249.75 4 Combi Cooler Bag shqark ocean blue by LASSIG, P1,750 5 Green mini soft lunch kit in Minnie Mouse design by SM ACCESORIES, P199.75 6 Out of This World Spaceship lunch bag

by DABBAWALLA, 1,550 7 Red fox lunch bag by SKIPHOP, P595, Mothercare Stores . Lavander princess tumbler, by SM ACCESSORIES, P149.75 8 Green Phineas & Ferb tin lunch box by SM ACCESSORIES, P249.75 9 Blue AIR lunch bag by ELLE, P799.75

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1 Black shoes for boys by FLORSHEIM KIDS, P2,099.75 2 Blue rubber shoes by SMARTFIT 3 Brown flat shoes by NATURINO 4 Black shoes with pink design by SKECHERS 5 Black Mary Janes

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1 Trolley lion in olive/blue by LASSIG, P3,450 2 Pink Hello Kitty backpack by SM ACCESSORIES, P1,199.75 3 Blue backpack by HELLO KITTY, Rustan’s Department store 4 Zoo luggage little kid rolling luggage in ladybug design by skiphop, P1,795 5 Big backpack in starlight olive by LASSIG, P2,450 6 Pink 16” backpack w/ juicer

by BARBIE, P899.75 7 Zoo luggage little kid rolling luggage in owl design by skiphop, P1,795 8 Batman backpack by SM ACCESSORIES, P799.75 9 Light red backpack by elle, P1,299 10 Black ribbon backpack by ELLE GIRL, P2,249.75

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me time

All exhausted from summer activities, these kids seem ready for some pampering and quality time by themselves. Dressed to the nines, of course.

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(Opposite page) Mylee: Denim dress by MOTHERCARE, P1,299 .

Red shoes by ELLE, P899.75 (This page) Michael: Red shirt by ELLE, P699.75 .

Brown pants, P649 and brown shoes, P1,299, both

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Samara: Pink dress by MOTHERCARE, P1,299 . Gold shoes by TARTE TATIN, P999.95

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Michael: Blue shirt by AGATHA RUIZ de LA PRADA . Green Pants

by MOTHERCARe, P749 . Sneakers

by PEDIPED, stylist’s own Sam: Teal long sleeved shirt by LA MADE KIDS, stylist’s own . Khaki pants by PERIWINKLE, P895 . Brown shoes

by FLORSHEIM KIDS, P2,199.75

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Aila: Yellow Dress by BABY EGGI, stylist’s own . White shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDs, P700 Sam: Green shirt by DIESEL, stylist’s own . Red checkered shorts by MOTHERCARE, P849 . Gray shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS, P2,099.75 Mylee: Purple vest

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Samara: Yellow dress by PERIWINKLE, P995 . Gold shoes by ELLE, P899.75

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(This page) Liam: Blue striped shirt by MOTHERCARE, P499 . Denim pants by PETIT BATEAU, stylist’s own Michael: Plaid shirt by PERIWINKLE, P695 . Gray pants by ELLE, P1,099.75 Background: Pink flip flops by HAVAIANAS

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Sam: Brown striped shirt, P699.75 and mahogany pants, P1,299.75, both by ELLE . Brown shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS, P2,199.75 (Opposite page) Aila: Purple Dress by BARBIE, P2,499.75 . Pink shrug

by MILO AND MILK, stylist’s own . Pink and Ivory Shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS, P700

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(This page) Liam: Black striped shirt by QUIKSILVER . Gray shoes by SMARTFIT, stylist’s own . Red pants

by MOTHERCARE, P749 (Opposite page) Michael: Green shirt by DAVID AND GOLIATH, P895 . Denim pants

by DIESEL . Rubber shoes by ECKO UNLIMITED, both stylist’s own Mylee: Pink dress by right bank babies, stylist’s own . Pink shoes by BABY FASHIONISTAs, P1,199 Samara: Red dress by ELLE, P1,799.75 . Gold shoes by TARTE TATIN, P999.95

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On Liam: Black striped shirt by QUIKSILVER and Gray shoes by SMARTFIT, stylist’s own . Red pants by MOTHERCARE, P749 On Michael: Green shirt by DAVID AND GOLIATH, P895 . Denim pants

by DIESEL, stylist’s own

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(Opposite page) Aila: Blue dress, P1,249.95 and gold shoes, P999.95, both by TARTE TATIN Liam: . Black shirt by DAVID AND GOLIATH, P895 . Blue shorts

by MOTHERCARE, P699

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1 2-piece child’s flatware set by TRAMONTINA FARROUPILHA S.A., Baby Company Stores 2 Silicone mealtime set OOGAA, P899.75, multiply.com/ thehappybabyshop 3 Patented spill-proof medication dispensing sippy cup by SIPPY SURE, sippysure.com 4 Wooden dove by SASSY baby 5 Toddler 2-bowl set

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by KNUCKLEHEADS, knuckleheadsclothing.com 3 Rocket tie dye shirt by da lil guys 4 Pink plaid polo with gray vest by CRIB COUTURE, P349.75, SM Department Store 5 Brown rocker shirt by DA LIL GUYS

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by PETITE CREATIONS, P400, multiply. com/thehappybabyshop 2 Light grey baby blanket by PETITES FRITES, petitesfrites. com 3 Snuggle bug organic fitted crib sheets

by AIDEN + ANAIS, adenandanais.com 4 Digs Dog House Magnetic Shape-Sorter by KUSHIES, kushies.com 5 Water expanding plush toy in teddy bear by WABITOY, multiply.com/thehappybabyshop 6 Bugs musical mobile by REDBOX bcmag.ph

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1 Pink sleeveless top and polkadot skirt set by CRIB COUTURE, P349.75, SM Department Store 2 Collared top with dog prints and yellow lining by CRIB COUTURE, P349.75, SM Department Store 3 Baby Top flip flops in light blue by HAVAIANAS 4 Printed top by zutano, zutano.com 5 Newsboy hat by FORE AXEL & HUDSON, foreaxelandhudson.com 6 Classig twofer dress by PAIGE LAUREN, paigelaurenbaby.com

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n April 16, TOMS held the annual, global One Day Without Shoes event at Alabang Town Center’s Town Plaza, where dozens upon dozens of people of all ages converged to take off their shoes and go barefoot in solidarity with the children who experience life without shoes. The group was invited to take off their shoes and walk on dirt, stones, and pebbles to experience how it feels for children who live in poverty and cannot afford footwear, thereby becoming even more prone to sickness and disease. Participants walked from the Town Plaza to Commerce Avenue and through Corte de las Palmas in bare feet. The event, which aims to bring awareness to global children’s health and education issues, was hosted

by Paolo Abrera and Tricia Chiongbian-Conception, and featured a musical performance, photo ops, in which guests and participants took home their printed out pictures, and other fun activities.

1 Displays that depict the situation of children without access to proper footwear 2 Notes and pledges written by participants 3 Exhibit showing how TOMS has provided shoes to the less fortunate children in the Philippines 4 Host Paolo Abrera 5 Host Tricia Chiongbian-Conception 6 TOMS display of merchandise 7 TOMS’ Tonichi Balaguer with BC’s Cel Bancolita and Valerie Anne del Castillo

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