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12 agatha ruiz de la prada BC gets the exclusive on the Spanish designer whose works are adored by fans of all ages 22 when infertility becomes a "guy thing" How to deal with the rise of more men shooting blanks 30 why attention deficit disorder doesn't have to be a prison Find out how one man overcame his ADD and pursued his dreams, and how families who are affected with the disorder can do the same

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On the Cover: kristine and oyo sotto with their children, kiel and ondrea

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32 breast cancer awareness month: beyond the controversy of screening Be prepared to help cope with a diagnosis with these tips from a pioneering psychotherapist 42 freak {food} fest We've prepared a comprehensive guide on how to create a spooktacular party table for your Halloween party 60 heaven sent (part 2) We catch up with the Hermosa-Sotto brood, as they happily focus on raising their now family of four, while pursuing their careers and business ventures 92 the great gatsbys BC gets the exclusive on mother-daughter tandem from Jerseylicious' very own Gatsby Salon

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Thrilla in Manila There is nothing more exciting than planning a party for your loved ones, so imagine getting to plan a shindig for your firstborn’s birthday during Halloween season?

It’s like Christmas, two months in advance. Which it is, in the eyes of my family, at least.

On October 28, I get to have a child with double digits for her age. What a big number it must be for her. With a little luck, Sabina will still be her child-like self for a few more years—here’s hoping I won’t ever have to drag her off a wrecking ball while she’s singing her heart out in the buff, or…twerking. Even just typing that word gives me a migraine. And so, birthday wishes are in order: Sabina, remember that we, your family, will always be lurking behind you. We love you too much, and will try to protect you always. May you always have the tenacity to pursue your dreams. Remember that each step of reaching that goal may not always be exciting (oftentimes, it’s a hard and dull climb) and that you may need to be pushed back sometimes in order to get ahead in life—this will make sense in the future.

Our unanswered prayers are usually the ones that mean the most—God really knows what we want and need more than what we think we do. I always thought having a thrilling career in New York would be my ultimate goal—but God knew what would make me happiest is seeing the three of you grow up, everyday.

May you be blessed with enough good fortune that you never have to sell neither your soul, nor your body, nor your principles. If you decide to become a baker, artist, or whatever, be the best you can be. You have to start practicing now, and if you don’t get it right, remember there is always another chance while you are alive, even when you think you’ve run out of chances.

On the topic of loved ones, to say our cover brood is my friends is sincerely an understatement. The Sottos are family to us, and I could not be prouder to have

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my family and i with our good friends, the hermosasottos in their home; interviewing designer agatha ruiz de la prada in new york

them on our pages. This is the second part of our shoot— the first was when our goddaughter, Ondrea, was still in her mom’s tummy. Today, she is walking, talking, and so full of charm and beauty that you can’t help but want to squeeze her. Kiel is a sweet big brother, and ever so handsome as when we first photographed him. Kristine is even more lovely and svelte than ever (that leather skirt is a size small, and looked to be 6 inches bigger so we had to clip and tape it in the back!). Motherhood is really Tin’s calling as she is happiest around her little ones. She is kind, generous, and intuitive. Oyo is her equally dashing counterpart—always quiet but extremely funny and principled when you get to know him. He is the perfect man for their household, and is always either at home, work, the gym, or at a prayer group with his family.

I hope you see the effort we put into our Halloween DIY foods and costumes. I made my first ever cake on the fly during the photo shoot. It turned out delicious, and was a good centerpiece for the spread. Our team (and my girls) had a blast shopping, prepping, and creating every single labor of love here. In fact, we love it so much that we are going to re-create it for our Halloween Kidstock! Stay tuned for that, as we would love to have a freak-fest (GP, naturally) with all of you.

This month is also geared towards breast cancer and ADHD Awareness, and I hope we are able to shed some light on these topics through our stories.

Since it’s our anniversary issue, please let me also thank everyone we’ve worked with and read BC that has made our 3 years in the Philippines a glorious ride. We look forward to making more memories with you all.

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“you never know where your style is from. But in one moment you can become a prisoner of your own style, because your style is more powerful than you.”

How did you start out?

Before becoming a designer, I wanted to be a painter. My father used to be a contemporary art collector in Spain, so I think that contemporary art has influenced me a lot. And one day, I decided to become a designer, and when I began to work in Spain, it was the period of La Movida. It was a very, very fine time to work in Madrid after the death of General Franco. It was a very active, and very free movement. There was a lot of nightlife. So I decided to become a designer. I began with the women’s collection.

When was this?

In the beginning of the ‘80s. People thought I was a little bit loco, a lot crazy, because I was doing dresses with wings and strange forms—like having hula hoops. But little by little, they got used to my style. A very big department store, El Corte Ingles, decided to make a contract with me, and I began to work for El Corte Ingles, which is one of the most important department stores in the world. And suddenly they said to me, “You have to do a children’s collection.”

Just like that?

Yes, so I said that I was not happy at all. I was thinking that they asked me to do that because they did not believe in my women’s collection. So we did a little collection for the children’s department in El Corte Ingles, and it was the most tremendous success I’ve had in my life. The other nice thing at that moment was that I had a daughter who was 3 years old. So it was very good for me, because it was much more fun when you have a daughter when you design things for children.

I tried a lot of the dresses I did on her.

People in Spain then were very afraid of my things. They wanted them, but

they were afraid of them—because of the colors and shapes. But they always want the best for their children, so that’s why they bought an extraordinary amount of dresses. We would come in with racks in El Corte Ingles, and they’d disappear in one week. In the history of El Corte Ingles, they never saw a phenomenon like that. In Spain, even if a woman spends very little on herself, she spends a lot on her children, and the big concurrence of Spain was always Italy. Italy is a very Catholic country with lots of children.

So, we began to go to a fair called Pitti Bimbo in Italy. The first time we went to Pitti, we were already invited to do a

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job, is the job itself. It’s not about becoming a multimillionaire. Everyday, you have lots of problems, but the only thing you have to realize is that problems are not the end of the world.

And it’s always positive when you have a problem and you can work past the problem.

But this wasn’t under El Corte Ingles anymore?

Why did you choose hearts and clouds, and all these bold prints?

No, it was always Agatha Ruiz. Only the clothes collection was an exclusive at El Corte Ingles. From the very first moment, it was always in my name.

So it was a success in other countries in Europe, but now we are coming to the United States, and it’s quite difficult because, I don’t know, maybe they think it’s really strange. I don’t think it’s so strange.

I think I have a very personal style, and you never know where your style is from. But in one moment you can become a prisoner of your own style, because your style is more powerful than you. Sometimes when you build a style then you no longer have the power to decide.

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fashion show. Little by little, it became a big success. Now we are selling perhaps more in Italy than in Spain—we are in 600 different shops. We also have all kinds of different things for babies—from shoes, socks, swimwear to cribs. We even did a little collection of books.

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It’s picking up a lot now.

I know that [in the U.S.] the baby’s press is helping me a lot. But apart from the press, I have spoken with some of the department stores and they think that it’s very crazy. I don’t think it’s crazy, because babies and children need a lot of color. I think everyone needs a lot of color.

That’s wonderful. Because even in countries where I don’t sell a lot, they say, “That’s Agatha Ruiz de la Prada’s style.” In Spain, we had a big problem with copies, some years ago. They even put my name and the logo.

Very true. Looking back, how much money did you have to start with for the business?

Yes, because the first 10 years or more are always about building. And sometimes a lot of people in business are not so patient.

I believe in a lot of partnerships. I have had more than 200 different partnerships with companies or other designers, architects, or painters. And I think you always learn something, no? Now they call it “co-branding,” which is one of the most interesting things you can do as a designer. About the Absolut people, I think they approached me, and Swatch is one of the best companies ever—they can do a product with as much creativity and technology at a democratic price. And that’s what I would like to do with my products—to be very avant-garde, very creative, and innovative from a technical point of view, and very democratic in the prices.

Were there ever any low points in your career?

Who are your closest friends in the industry?

There are always a lot of low points.

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I have been very lucky in Spain. There, you have 3 or 4 tycoons in the fashion

In the beginning, I had little money.

But I did not need money because I was living in the family house. And I could live in the family house for as long as I live. I think that when you begin a business, you have to be ready to invest for something like 10 years, without earning a penny.

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When you design your children’s line, what goes into your mind?

I think the children’s line is very easy to design. Too easy, sometimes. I think children are also much better clients. I try to do dresses that are half for play, and half a dress. If you have a child who is expecting a present from you, then you give her a T-shirt, she’s going to lose interest. But if you give her a T-shirt that has the most amazing print with a little doll inside, that makes her have a lot of imagination. And also, if I do the dresses of children in my size, I will go crazy over them. I tell you, 99%, I will wear them. It’s like when I do my women’s collection, I am one of the few designers in the world who wears her own creations. When you see other designers, they do a very crazy fashion show, and at the end, they go out with a white T-shirt and jeans.

What is the most exciting part of your career?

Everyday is absolutely exciting, because I am very enthusiastic about every little detail. This year, we want to open a store in China. In some days, they are so magical that they give you an enormous amount of energy. Two weeks ago, we did a very big exhibition in a museum in Barcelona. And the curator of that exhibition is the director of the museum of fashion in Paris.

Now we are preparing in a little city in the center of Spain—Burgos—an exhibition of 25 years of work, with everything which are not just dresses. It’s going to be very interesting—the shoes, the perfumes, all the objects we have done in 25 years.

What are your plans for your company?

If I come to open that shop in China, then I expect that my children, as you said before, will come to help me.

You’ve been with Pedro Jota, the editor-in-chief of El Mundo, for years, and bcmag.ph

it’s great because he has his own career, and you have yours. Living with someone who has a different life from mine is very exciting. So when I arrive home, it has nothing to do with my work. And for him, it’s also the same. Because if I were a very political analyst journalist, it will be strange to live together.

And you have 2 children?

My son is turning 20, and my girl is 16 (Editor’s note: As of date of interview).

They are both teenagers. It’s really interesting because in the fashion industry, the most important group of people are the teenagers. Because when you are a teenager, it is the moment in your life when you need fashion. And if you understand what the teenagers need, you can do the most incredible things.

Do they wear your clothes?

No, because normally when you are a teenager you want to always to kill your father and mother, no? (Laughs) Do they want to become a designer?

No, my girl wants to become a politician. And my son wants to become a historian and study ancient history.

Who will manage Agatha?

I don’t know, but I think all that is temporary. Because when you are a teenager, you never know what’s going to happen. It’s the moment when you try to find yourself. And after that, I hope they will find me, and thank me a little bit. bc

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hat you don’t know can hurt you,” say integrated health specialists Dr. Michael Gelb and Dr. Howard Hindin. “Ninety percent of our brains are developed by age 12, so I’m asking parents to think about how a recurring decrease in the flow of b c PHILIPPINES { october 2013 }

oxygen and restful sleep to their child’s brain would affect his development,” says Dr. Gelb of The Gelb Center in New York, a holistic dentist known worldwide for pioneering integrative treatments.

“Pay close attention to your kid’s breathing; if he or she is suffering from

a sleep disorder, it may very well be obstructed breathing, which has been linked to attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, that’s causing the problem,” says Dr. Hindin of the Hindin Center for Whole Health Dentistry, who partners with Dr. Gelb in an interdisciplinary approach to treating chronic disease. bcmag.ph

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“Medical literature suggests that up to 80 percent of ADHD diagnoses have an airway/sleep component.”

months, 18 months, and 30 months of age, doctors can predict which ones are likely to develop disorders due to poor breathing.

October is the awareness month for ADHD—a non-discriminatory, brain-based medical disorder affecting people of every age, gender, IQ, and religious and socioeconomic background. The good news, Dr. Gelb says, is that many such disorders are preventable. When children are 6

The doctors say sleeping problems are serious and could very well require medical consultation. Additionally, they offer athome, do-it-yourself tips for children and adults to promote better breathing during sleep, which is when obstruction typically manifests.

Promote nasal breathing.

Prevent obesity.

Sadly, many people who suffer from breathing problems don’t even realize it’s a problem until something serious occurs, such as a car accident.

Obstruction often occurs in the nasal cavity. An easy way to experience deeper sleep and potentially curtail a developing problem is by using nasal spray. Apply the spray 15 minutes before bedtime.

Excessive weight and obesity are the most common causes of sleep apnea—pauses in breathing or shallow breaths while sleeping.

Obesity has more than doubled among children and tripled among adolescents in the past 30 years, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.

The best medicine for prevention is a healthy diet—fewer processed foods; less sugar, salt and fatty snacks; and regular exercise.

Create an ideal sleeping environment.

Turn your bedroom into a sleeper’s paradise with cozy, high thread-count sheets, new pillows, soft lighting, and soothing noises from a sound machine. Add to these aesthetics a couple helpful, practical tools. If you tend to grind your teeth when sleeping, a dental night guard can help you awake refreshed and with no jaw pain. Eyeshades help people who relax best in complete darkness.

If these home remedies are not proving effective, it’s time for a doctor to screen a patient’s tonsils and adenoids, which may be obstructive and need to be removed, Dr. Gelb says. Then, myofunctional therapy will help assist palatal expansion for better breathing, he says. bc

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About Howard Hindin, D.D.S.

Dr. Howard Hindin is trained in all aspects of general dentistry.

Since the 1990s, his practice has also focused on cosmetic dentistry, tempormandibular joint disorders, and craniofacial pain.

He is a graduate of New York University College of Dentistry.

An acknowledged pioneer in the relationship between dental issues and whole body health, Dr. Hindin is president (2000-present) of the Foundation for the Advancement of Innovative Medicine (FAIM).

He is also the co-founder of the American Association of Physiological Medicine and Dentistry (AAPMD).

About Michael Gelb, D.D.S., M.S.

Dr. Michael Gelb is an innovator in airway, breathing, sleep, and painful TMJ disorders pioneering Airway Centric. He has studied early intervention for sleep disordered breathing (SDB) specializing in how it relates to fatigue, focus, pain and the effects all of these can have on family health. He is the former director of the TMJ and Orofacial Pain Program at the NYU College of Dentistry and is currently clinical professor in the Department of Oral Medicine and Pathology at the NYU College of Dentistry. He is a co-inventor of the NORAD, or Nocturnal Oral Airway Dilator appliance that reduces snoring by positioning the patient’s tongue and jaw so that airways stay open. bcmag.ph

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hen infertility strikes, it can be a massive source of stress for couples, and many are too quick to assume it’s a female issue.

Alarmingly, the average sperm count for adult males has decreased by 50 percent since 1938 and is currently declining at a rate of 2 percent each year, according to a study in the British Medical Journal. Stress, exposure to environmental toxins and diets deficient in key vitamins and minerals are likely to blame.

“It’s a fact that one in six couples will have difficulty conceiving, but many aren’t aware that almost half the time,

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it’s the male who is the cause of the problem,” said fertility expert, Dr. Amos Grunebaum. “When couples address this issue, it’s been my experience that the woman is the first to see a specialist to determine her fertility status. It’s a little more difficult to get the man on board with doing the same thing. Some men just don’t want to acknowledge that they may have a fertility problem.

As such, they are more reluctant to get tested and I have seen a lot of men delay seeing a specialist or even avoid it completely.”

Unfortunately, Dr. Grunebaum can confirm these disturbing statistics as he has seen sperm counts decline in his over 25 years of practice. bcmag.ph

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With their new 2014 fashion shoe styles, Squeakers is rebranding as Little Green Trike Shoe Company to make room for new lines for older kids called Sproutin’ Up as well as new fashion kids shoe lines.

School Squeaks are kids’ shoes in college-themed colors that combine team color combinations with matching bows.

“Stompers is our new line of boots we developed a few years ago,” said Little Green Trike CEO Andi Jensen. “We designed a few styles and our customers wanted to see more.”

Today, LGT squeaking toddler shoes are available in hundreds of stores throughout the United States as well as overseas.

LGT’s new styles for 2014 also include a dozen new girls’ sandals in new bright colors, and new sandals for boys, in addition to their classic kids‘ shoe styles.

“We like what the Little Green Trike brand represents,” says Ms. Jensen. “Our kids and parents’ fondest memories.”

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“From my experience, low sperm count is one of the primary reasons that couples have a difficult time conceiving,” said Dr. Grunebaum, also a medical health advisor for Fairhaven Health. “Quite simply, the fewer sperm a man produces, the lower the likelihood that one will successfully fertilize the egg.”

jor cause of infertility, for many men, visiting a doctor or clinic to have a sperm analysis done can be a daunting task.

However, according to Dr. Grunebaum, there are a variety of ways men can help improve their reproductive health.

“There are many benefits from determining early on if sperm count is a problem for you,” Dr. Grunebaum said. “The sooner an issue is pinpointed, the sooner proper treatment can be started. Treatments for male infertility typically include lifestyle changes, vitamin, mineral or herbal supplementation, prescription medication, or even surgical procedures.

But before any of that can begin, the couple has to be able to communicate and agree to take action.”

“A diet rich in antioxidants such as Vitamins C, E, and Zinc can go a long way in improving sperm health. Exercising regularly plus limiting caffeine, alcohol, and tobacco intake can also help a great deal,” he added.

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or dads and dads-to-be, there are several ways to keep your fertility in check. The first step is to be aware of your overall health and consult a doctor to make sure your sperm count is well in the general average, which is 120 to 350 million per cubic meter. If your sperm count falls short, take a closer look at your lifestyle. Some factors such as smoking and alcohol contribute to infertility. Smoking causes blood vessels to narrow, thereby hindering the blood to flow to the genitals, making it more difficult to produce sperm. Smoking also damages the sperm membrane and can alter DNA, thereby causing birth defects in babies.

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“The testing process itself can be a little embarrassing and even more so when faced with the prospect of exposing their condition to the doctor, nurse, or office staff,” he added.

Pfizer has been providing remedies, alleviating symptoms, and helping families improve their quality of life through trusted medicines prescribed in over 100 countries. More and more people are discovering that when they choose Pfizer, they’re getting more than just a prescription for relief. They also receive peace of mind and confidence by knowing that Pfizer is safe, high in quality, and taken by millions of people around the world.

Plus, there’s a guarantee of efficacy that results from 150 years of expertise, research, and innovation. For medicine that has the stamp of trust and the mark of good value, more and more are choosing the brand of Pfizer.

underwear that does not raise the temperature of the testicles, or keeps it too close to the body.

Funny as it may sound, don’t use your laptop on your lap for prolonged periods, as the heat can affect your testicles. Remember that cooler temperature is best for healthy sperm production.

Check your diet. Are you eating the right food to keep your sperm healthy? Go for food that contains zinc, folic acid, vitamin C, and essential fatty acids, like Omega 3. For those who want an extra boost, herbal supplements are available in the market, such as panax ginseng, ginkgo biloba, saw palmetto berry, nutmeg, among others. bc

Maintaining one’s good health is always a stepping stone for better fertility and overall wellness. If you’re one of those who like to go the extra mile and take health supplements, consider a multivitamin formula that gives you essential nutrients for your everyday needs. Centrum provides as much as 30 vitamins and minerals, as it is a complete multivitamin and mineral formula that helps ensure adequate nutrient intake. bcmag.ph

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As we move into the ‘Ber months, we review some of the newest strollers in the market to give you what’s fresh, and what’s nice to give (and receive!) in the coming holidays A Walk on the Clouds The feather-light Aprica Air Ria features a high seat (to keep your baby higher from the ground, thereby avoiding heat and dust), multi-capsule hood that blocks off over 99% of ultraviolet rays, a 5-point sold belt pad, a ventilation seat system, and a unique cushion that supports proper position of your child. It is recommended for use up to 15kg or up to 3 years of age.

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“This stroller truly lives up to its name because of the weight—or lack thereof—and it’s amazing. You’ll love how you can easily maneuver this stroller when you’re carrying your child with one hand, and slinging your diaper bag on the other. Weighing only 4.8 kg (basically as much as your laptop and purse), the Aprica Air Ria enables you to fold and unfold with just one hand, showing us exactly how much Aprica understands our need for easy and quick access.”

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Boasting of a parent console with covered storage with integrated headphone cord access, our other favorite feature is the free (did I mention, free?) second Discovery Infant Car Seat stay-in-car base that the system is equipped with— allowing for easy transfers from home to cars, and among two different vehicles.

The stroller stands alone when folded; the child tray is deeper than the usual, and even features double cup holders. There is also a full sized basket, plus a canopy with a peek-aboo window. Bonus for us “drivers” is the handle, which has energy absorbing foam for our comfort. And for the most important aspect, the stroller is side impact tested, meeting or exceeding all applicable Federal Safety Standards. Hoo-ha!

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“The best part about a conglomerate launching new products is that they can afford all the best features and not have to sacrifice on safety tests and usability. I also love that Evenflo is upping their game in terms of their look. This way, a family’s needs for comfort, protection, and style are all met—and at a very non-discriminating price point, at that.”

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What’s worse is that the numbers of children being diagnosed are rising at an unprecedented rate. According to the Centers for Disease Control, a million more kids had a parent-reported ADD diagnosis in 2007 compared to 2003 in the U.S., a 22 percent increase in 4 years. More than 4.1 million had a current diagnosis in 2007 and 2.7 million were taking medication for the disorder.

Bernardo, who went from growing up with ADD to authoring his first book, Johnny Paradise, believes that the stigma of ADD does not have to be an impediment in the lives of those who are diagnosed. While living with ADD can be challenging, Bernardo believes it only makes overcoming those chal-

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lenges more rewarding.

“I’ve lived with ADD for 55 years,” he said.

“I have it and I passed it to my children, so I am intimate with both sides of the ADD equation. I know what it is to live with it as a patient, and I know what it is to raise children who have it. The odd thing is that I have no problem with either. Some elements of life are made more difficult by ADD, but it does not make achievement and success impossible. My issue is how others can sometimes treat it as an excuse or a reason why they and their kids do not achieve.

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overcoming o b s ta c l e s that ADD presents. People just have to show a little faith.”

Bernardo is living proof, having just published his first novel, with several more on the way. For him, the novels are as much about telling good stories as they are about making a statement.

“It took me five years to write my first book,” he added. “But I finished it.

Without ADD, maybe it would have taken five months, but that doesn’t

matter. There are people without ADD who struggle for years to write their books, but never finish. I made it to the finish line, even though no one would have faulted me for giving up

the dream. My point is that anything is possible. ADD can be a hindrance, but it doesn’t have to be a showstopper. The secret is to discard the stigma, forget the people who say you’ll never be able to fulfill your dreams, and embrace only the words and wishes of those who support you. Stop looking to others for inspiration. Find the inspiration inside yourself, and pilot your own ship. If you want it bad enough, you can make it happen.”

ADD and ADHD

What is ADHD and how does it differ from ADD? Attention-deficit disorder (ADD) is the term previously used to describe children who find it hard to pay attention, but are not highly impulsive or hyperactive, while ADHD (Attention-Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) is the umbrella disorder in which ADD belongs to.

According to Dr. Steven Kurtz of the Child Mind Institute, one can think of ADHD as having three

scales—inattention, hyperactivity, and impulsivity.

Children who are diagnosed with ADHD or ADD are often rated using these scales. Because the symptoms of this disorder may well persist into adulthood and there is no cure for it to this day, it is important for parents to be aware on how to deal with children with these disorders as they grow. Here are some tips on how to help your child, and your family, cope with this disorder:

Be open and communicate properly.

Break it down to basics, and be organized.

Kids who have ADHD or ADD may not completely understand what they're going through, and may not be aware that they are acting differently from their peers. This might cause problems at school, so make sure to explain to your child that while what he has makes him different, it does not make him less of a person than his peers.

When dealing with a child with ADHD, it's best to simplify things for him or her. If you're offering him a snack, ask him if he wants fruit or yogurt, and avoid too many options so that he isn't overwhelmed. Make his playroom and study area as organized as possible. Turn off the TV and keep away toys and video games during homework time to help him focus on his tasks. Keep his things in the same place every day—for example, a schoolbag may be placed on a chair by his door or desk, so he will always remember that area for his bag.

Be supportive.

Some children who have ADHD and/or ADD may have learning disabilities, problems with understanding and communicating, anxiety disorders, depression, conduct disorder, Tourette syndrome, and a string of other disorders that is linked to ADHD/ ADD. Make sure that you and your family are able to address his needs accordingly, by going to the doctor and seeking advice about medication, tests, and behavioral therapy, among other options. Make sure you're ready with information on patient and family history as well.

Connect with your school teacher, administrators, and counselors.

If they are already aware of your child's condition, they can better help him deal with his tasks in school, or address concerns in the classroom. Get in touch with DepEd for special programs under their Special Education Division to find out the best options for your child. bc

About Robert Bernardo Born in 1955, Robert Bernardo grew up in New Jersey and attended various schools. His Attention Deficit Disorder made it difficult for him to achieve, but he never gave up on his education.

He continues to pursue a college degree, and has faith that he will graduate.

He has a wife, Lisa, and three teenage kids, Adam, Emily and David.

He was an investment broker during his years in Southern California, and also started and sold several highway construction businesses since moving to Texas 20 years ago. It has always been his passion to write on a full-time basis.

“My issue now is how others can sometimes treat it as an excuse or a reason why they and their kids do not achieve. I think that’s the wrong approach, and it only fuels the stigma surrounding ADD.” bcmag.ph

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“Embedded in the message driving the campaign every October includes instruction to women to strongly consider getting screened for breast cancer, which is often asymptomatic during the early stages, in the hopes of finding cancer before it metastasizes,” says cancer psychotherapist Dr. Niki Barr, author of

Emotional Wellness, The Other Half of Treating Cancer.

“Debate over the efficacy of screenings has arisen as new studies reveal possible shortfalls: self-examinations haven’t been proven effective; younger women experience false positives due to denser breast tissue, as well as missed positives, despite clinical examinations; and rebcmag.ph

breast cancer cently published studies such as The New England Journal of Medicine’s findings on three decades of screening have been mixed, Dr. Barr says.

The latter found that screenings did reduce late-stage cancer rates, to a small extent, but mammograms also drastically increased overdiagnosis and unnecessary treatment, including surgeries, toxic drugs and an incalculable amount of stress and suffering, she says.

“I think each woman needs to consider screenings on an individual basis. Family history, age, and other risk factors should be considered in their decision,” Dr. Barr says. “It’s equally important to remember that, should you or a loved one be diagnosed with breast cancer, you should care for your emotional well-being as much as you take measures to restore physical well-being.” exercises to tend your mental health “Catch” anxious feelings before they become anxiety: Prevent anxious

thoughts from becoming fullblown anxiety by “catching” those feelings before they intensify. If you find anxious thoughts repeating themselves in your mind, take out some index cards and a pen and write them down, one by one, one per card. When you’ve written them all down, try to identify which one thought started the chain reaction. Then find the thought that came next. Continue until you have each thought in order. Now, go back to the first thought and write down a new thought that does not make you feel anxious. When the first thought comes to mind, substitute it with the second thought. Continue through the list until you have positive, empowering thoughts for each negative, anxious one.

Release painful feelings and then let them go: Writing down painful

thoughts and feelings through journaling is an excellent way of exorcising them. Some people find rereading what they’ve written can be helpful, but others hesitate to use this tool for fear someone will find it and read their private thoughts. For those people, Barr suggests an extra measure of release: shred the pages while focusing on “letting go” of those feelings.

Give your mind respite by escaping through music and meditation:

Music is a tonic for many things: It can help us relax, lift our spirits, provide an escape from anxious thoughts and the here and now. Always have favorite CDs easily accessible (or load your iPod or iPhone with all of your favorite, uplifting tracks) so you can escape with music whenever you need to. Meditation CDs are available to help you learn how to meditate and to provide guided imagery for meditation, which is scientifically proven to trigger soothing chemical changes in

the brain. Try Meditation for Beginners

by Jack Kornfield or Guided Mindfulness Meditation by Jon Kabat-Zin. Finally, sleep is an absolute must for both physical and emotional health. If you’re having trouble sleeping, there are CDs and downloads to help! Try Sleep Through Insomnia by KRS Edstrom.

“Having an actual box, with three-dimensional items, gives patients something tangible to use during a confusing time,” Dr. Barr says. bc

About Niki Barr, Ph.D. Niki Barr, Ph.D. founded a pioneering psychotherapy practice dedicated to working with cancer patients in all stages of the disease, along with their family members, caregivers, and friends. In her book, she describes an “emotional wellness toolbox” patients can put together with effective and simple strategies, ready to use at any time, for helping them move forward through cancer. Dr. Barr is a dynamic and popular speaker, sharing her insights with cancer patients and clinicians across the U.S.

“Should you or a loved one be diagnosed with breast cancer, you should care for your emotional well-being as much as you take measures to restore physical well-being.” bcmag.ph

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We all know the risk that SIDS (Sudden Infant Death Syndrome) poses on our babies as soon as they are born, so make sure your child’s sleeping area is free of heavy bedding, pillows, or anything that might topple over his or her head and obstruct his or her breathing. Proper sleepwear are those that are light and comfortable that won’t let your baby overheat. Some of our recommendations include Halo’s Sleepsack, a wearable blanket that replaces traditional blankets that may cover your baby’s face and cause struggled breathing. If you’re leaning more towards organic materials, Aden + Anais also offers the Slumber collection, sleeping bags that helps reduce the risk of overheating.

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“Happiness has been appropriately cited as a goal in political debates on issues from taxation, to the social safety net, to marriage equality, but the debate is often confused,” says Wallace, author of A Short Course in Happiness: Practical Steps to a Happier Life, which topped Amazon’s Self-Help Best

“Some people claim that happiness is all in your DNA or bank account. The truth is that happiness is largely a matter of everyday choices and actions. There are straightforward, well-researched and effective things every one of us can do to create greater happiness in our lives and in the lives of those we care about.” bcmag.ph

achieving goals The essential elements of a happy life are not mysterious, she says.

Research shows that the happiest people do four basic things that make the difference: they focus on what is good and positive in their lives; cope effectively with life’s inevitable challenges; develop strong relationships; and pursue meaningful goals.

“We can all become happier by putting our efforts into these areas,” Wallace says.

One of the first steps we can take is to get past some of the common misperceptions about happiness that can stand in our way. Wallace offers these four examples.

Misconception #1:

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Happiness is about getting the big things right.

It’s natural to think that if we were suddenly rich, beautiful, and living on the beach somewhere, we’d be happy. But that type of good fortune turns out to have a surprisingly small impact on happiness. The happiest people are most often not those in the most enviable circumstances, but those who cultivate positive emotional outlooks and actions.

So how can we do it? “Take concrete steps to practice optimism, gratitude, kindness and self-compassion in your everyday life,” says Wallace. “The cumulative effect of those everyday choices can have a tremendous impact on how you experience your life.”

Happy people suppress negative emotions. Happy people actually experience sadness, grief, worry, and other so-called negative emotions nearly as frequently as unhappy people do. The difference is what happens when those feelings occur. Happier people are generally able to experience negative feelings without losing hope for the future. “They give themselves permission to feel sad, angry, or lonely, but they remain confident that things will get better. As a result, their sadness progresses into hope and action rather than regressing into anxiety and despair.”

Pursuing happiness is self-centered. The strongest of all conclusions drawn by researchers into emotional well-being is that our happiness is determined more by our relationships with other people than by any other single factor.

The happiest people build their lives around good, trusting relationships. “If other priorities are getting in the way of your relationships,” says Wallace, “take steps to shift the balance back to where it will really make a difference.”

“I’ll be happy when I achieve my goals.” Have you ever noticed that when someone wins the Super Bowl or an Academy Award, or when you achieve a long-sought ambition, that wonderful sense of accomplishment and happiness seems to fade faster than you’d expect? “That’s just the way our brains work,” says Wallace. “Committed goal pursuit is one of the keys to a happy life, but most of the happiness we get from striving for goals comes while we’re making progress toward them, not after we achieve them. That’s why it’s so important that we choose goals that are in sync with what we love and value, and that we make a conscious effort to enjoy them along the way.”

“Some people claim that happiness is all in your DNA or bank account. The truth is that happiness is largely a matter of everyday choices and actions.”

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These little goody bags can serve as party snacks or take home treats for your kids and guests.

Materials assorted candy and chocolate (Note: individually-wrapped is best) orange and green crepe paper glue scissors

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INSTRUCTIONS 1. Cut your orange crepe paper into circles around 10 inches in diameter. Cut the short end of your crepe paper 1 cm thick. This will create a string of green crepe paper. 2. Take half a handful of assorted candy or chocolate (around 5 to 7 pieces, depending on the size) and wrap it with white Japanese paper. Roll it gently in your hands to create a circular shape. 3. Place this on top of 2 orange crepe papers (cut into circles). Take the edges of the crepe paper to form a tiny circular bag. 4. Twist the ends of the crepe paper until it looks like a pumpkin. Take some glue on one finger and spread it on the base of the twist, up to the tip. 5. Take your green crepe paper and wrap it around the twist, from the base upward, until the orange crepe paper cannot be seen. Fasten with more glue. bcmag.ph

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Spook-corn Easy and enjoyable, cheese popcorn will add a timeless touch to your party table.

Ingredients black and orange cartolina paper scissors tape corn kernels (you can also opt for plain microwavable popcorn) cheese flavoring Preparation

Create squares (around 8 inches by 8 inches) out of your black and orange cartolina. You can also use Halloween themed wrapping paper for this. 2. Twist one corner to create a cone and fasten with tape.

3. Cook the corn kernels in a pot with a little oil and wait til they pop. You can also use microwavable popcorn. 4. Scoop into each cone and add a dash of salt to taste, and top with cheese flavoring.

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Broomstick Get your little witches ready for take off with these sweet, salty, and magical broomsticks that your kids can help you make in advance.

INGREDIENTS pretzel sticks chocolate cups juice straw

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Preparation

Upturn your chocolate cups.

Using a juice straw, create a small hole on the bottom. 2.

Stick your pretzels into the hole and make sure they don’t come off. You can cut off some of the sticks to make them look like smaller brooms.

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Eerie Earwax Don’t get grossed out just yet, these ear buds are sweet and tasty, and your kids will love the ‘eww’ factor that goes into creating them.

Ingredients cookie or peanut butter small white marshmallows juice straws scissors

Preparation

Using a pair of scissors, take your juice straws and cut them into two. If it’s hard to stick straw into a marshmallow, poke with a fork first. 2. Take two marshmallows and stick them at the end of each juice straw to create an “ear bud.” 3. Dab a little cookie or peanut butter on both ends of the “ear bud” for makeshift earwax, and place on a plate.

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Worms and Skeletons in Dirt (with shovel) Freak out your guests with these super cute dessert cups that take at most 10 minutes to make.

Ingredients chocolate milk drink powder gummi worms white chocolate (to be melted) plastic cups wooden spoons (these will serve as your shovel)

Preparation

1. Melt the white chocolate in the microwave or in a small stovetop pan for about a minute, or until it’s soft and easy to pour. 2. Take your skeleton mold (available online or at specialty stores like Gourdo’s) and pour in the chocolate. Keep chilled until the chocolate hardens 3. Take your plastic cups and fill half of it with chocolate milk drink powder. Toss in your gummi worms for a set of Worms in Dirt. 4.

Carefully detach the chocolate from the skeleton mold and toss into the cups with chocolate milk drink powder for your Skeleton in Dirt. Toss in a wooden spoon (available in supermarkets) for the ‘shovel.’

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Gooey Gauze Your guests are in for a bloody surprise with these “used bandages” that are as gross as they are yummy.

Ingredients graham crackers cream cheese or cream cheese spread strawberry jam

Preparation

Break your graham crackers into three (right on the perforated part of the cracker). Lay them out on a tin pan to create a creepy hospital effect. 2. Take your cream cheese and slice them into squares around 2cm by 2cm. Place a square on the middle of each cut up graham cracker. 3. Dab a little strawberry jam on top of the cream cheese slice for some “blood.”

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JACK-O-LOLLIES Halloween wouldn’t be complete with good ol’ Jack, so get ready to melt some chocolate for some sweet fun.

Ingredients jack-O-lantern mold white chocolate milk chocolate orange food coloring lollipop sticks (or juice straws)

Preparation

Melt white and milk chocolate separately as indicated in previous instructions. Mix orange food coloring into melted white chocolate. 2. Place the lollipop sticks or juice straws into the mold. Pour in your chocolate and refrigerate until solid.

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deadly apples You don’t have to be Snow White to fall for these delicious red “apples.”

Ingredients red gelatin vanilla or fruit flavoring apple-shaped cookie cutter

Preparation 1. Cook gelatin as indicated in the packaging and add flavor as desired. Pour into a shallow plastic container. Let sit until solid. 2. Using an apple-shaped cookie cutter, create apple shapes and carefully layout on a chopping board or plate.

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Monster pizza Perfect for the Halloween season, deep red tomatoes are nutritious fruits that are packed with anti-oxidants such as lycopene, zea-xanthin, vitamin A, and vitamin C. Not bad for a basic kitchen staple.

Ingredients pizza dough pizza sauce cheese slices arugula capers cookie cutters in Halloween shapes (ghost, cat, bat, owl, etc.)

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Preparation

For basic pizzas with ready made doughs and sauces, all you have to do is put together the ingredients. But if you have your own dough and sauce recipe, go on and make your own. 2. Once the dough has risen, dampen it with olive oil before heating in a pre-heated oven for a minute or two. Bring the crust back out and season with your pizza sauce. You can make your own homemade pizza sauce with your favorite herbs and spices, it’s really up to you to get creative with this dish.

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3. Take your cheese singles and cut them out into shapes using your cookie cutters. We used shapes such as a ghost, owl, cat, and moon for this Halloween-themed recipe.

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Ingredients Cake: 2 2/3 cups all-purpose flour 1/4 cup cocoa powder 3/4 cup, 1 tablespoon granulated sugar 1/3 cup light brown sugar 2 teaspoons baking powder 1 teaspoon baking soda 1/2 teaspoon salt 3 eggs 1 tablespoon vanilla extract 1/2 cup coconut oil 3/4 cup unsalted butter, melted and cooled 1 1/3 cups cold water Icing: 6 ounces milk or semi-sweet chocolate 1 cup, 2 tablespoons unsalted butter, softened or at room temperature 1 3/4 cups confectioners’ sugar, sifted 1 tablespoon vanilla extract Preparation Cake: 1. Preheat

your oven to 350°F while lining and buttering the bottom of 2 8-inch cake pans. 2. In a large bowl, mix together the flour, cocoa, sugars, baking powder, baking soda, and salt. In a separate bowl, whisk together the eggs and vanilla until blended well. 3. In another mixing bowl, beat together the melted butter and coconut oil using an electric mixer. If by hand, do the same strokes over and over. Beat in the water. 4. Add the dry ingredients all at once and with mix together, using slow speed. Add in the egg mixture and blend again until well-combined. Once done, pour the mixture into the prepared tins. 5. Bake the cakes for 45 to 50 minutes, or until you stick a toothpick in and it comes out clean.

Take them out of the oven and let sit for 15 minutes on a wire rack. Turn the cakes out on the rack to cool completely.

Fudge icing: 1. Melt the chocolate

in the microwave for two to three minutes on medium heat. Or for a ‘healthier’ approach, melt chocolate in a bowl placed on top of a pan with about 1/2 inch of simmering water. If you’re using chocolate blocks, it’s recommended that you chop it up into pieces and heat it in the microwave on low for about a minute. Let cool slightly. 2. In a separate bowl, beat the butter using a mixer until soft and creamy. Add the sifted confectioner’s sugar and beat again until mixture is light and fluffy. Slowly add the vanilla and chocolate, and mix together until everything is glossy and smooth.

3. Take a 1/3 of the icing and use it to sandwich the middle of the cake. Ice the top and sides using the rest of the icing, with a rubber spatula.

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Freaky Fudge Cake A party is never complete without any cake, that’s why we whipped up a delectable treat for the whole family.

This cake is easy to make and is chocolate flavored—a crowd pleaser, of course. Decorate it with chocolate skeletons and other Halloween-themed candy from specialty stores and you’re good to go.

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Beheaded and Galacticupcakes Add a cryptic charm to your favorite cupcakes with these decorative tips.

Ingredients alien cupcake decors skeleton head mold red and green food coloring white chocolate salted caramel cupcakes Preparation 1. Bake your salted caramel cupcakes according to your go-to recipe. You can also opt to order from your favorite bakery, to save you time. 2. For the Galacti-cupcakes, just take your alien cupcake decors and stick them on top of each cupcake. 3. For Beheaded, melt your white chocolate on a stovetop pan or in the microwave for about 50 seconds to 1 minute.

4. Immediately mix in the red or green food coloring. Note that some chocolate brands tend to stiffen more rapidly when food coloring is added, so make sure to mix quickly and pour into the skull mold as soon as you’re done mixing in the color. 5. Let sit in the chiller for around 30 minutes or until chocolate is solid and comes off the mold easily. 6. Place the skull head on top of your cupcake and serve.

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BAT water Those of you who have a penchant for flavored water will enjoy this easy-to-do and creeptastic refreshment.

Ingredients glasses or mugs black straws bat-shaped mold red gelatin (purple is another great option) Preparation 1. Cook gelatin as indicated on the packaging and pour into the bat mold. 2. Let sit until solid. Drop 4-5 pieces of bats into your glass or mug. 3. Take one bat and let sit on the rim of the glass or mug, like you would with a slice of lemon.

KOOKY CUPS WITH VAMPIRE’S POISON Create a spooky drink by preparing your favorite red-colored juice drink and add a scary touch to your party cups using googly eyes.

MATERIALS white colored paper cups colored pens (black and red are usually available at home, but you can go all out and be as creative as you can and create your own little critters) googly eyes glue

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Preparation 1. Take a white colored paper cup and stick one, two, or three googly eyes on them using glue. Let dry. 2. Draw on scary monster faces using colored pens.

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HALLOWEEN PLAYLIST No party is complete without music, so turn up the speakers and check out our favorites for the season.

1. “Bad” by Michael Jackson 2. “Ghostbusters” by Ray Parker Jr. 3. “This is Halloween” by Halloween Town

(from The Nightmare Before Christmas) “Smooth Criminal” by Michael Jackson 5. “Everything at Once” by Lenka 6. “Monster Mash” by Bobby Pickett 7. “Thriller” by Michael Jackson 8. “Halloween Song” by Wade Denning and Kay Lande 9. “Witches’ Brew” by Hap Palmer 10. “Mouse in a Haunted House” by Mini Monsters Club 11. “Halloween” by Princess Katie and Racer Steve 12. “It’s Halloween” by Mini Monsters Club 4.

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heaven Keeping up with one of the entertainment industry’s most stunning families as they venture into new adventures as a family of four

sent (part 2) P h o t og r ap h s by ma r ti n a n d Ka r iz T a n y a F avis S t yli n g a n d wo r ds by k a r iz ta n y a favis A ddi t io n al P h o t og r ap h s by M a r k C abala n g M ak e up by A L B ER T K U RN I A W A N Hai r by F E L I C I T Y S O N P h o t og r ap h y A ssis t a n t A hl e e D e l Rosa r io s t yli n g assis t a n t s val e r i e a n n e d e l castillo a n d ai y a mai r odj e l s h o t o n loca t io n a t th e fa r m r e sto a n d th e fa r m hous e , alaba n g hills , mu n ti n lupa

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“I can’t compare the feeling of seeing my children happy and excited when they see me come home.”­ —Oyo, on his favorite part of fatherhood

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Tin: Denim lace dress, P13,400, and scarf, P28,800, both by PAUL SMITH . Brown heels by GIBI, P2,699.75 Ondrea: White dress with flower detail by MOTHERCARE, P1,299 . Multicolored flats by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P1,399.75 Oyo: Brown cardigan

by CLOTH LOGIC, stylist’s own . Blue striped slim fit shirt, P13,100, London map neck tie, P6,100, both by PAUL SMITH . White high-cut sneakers by CONVERSE, model’s own Kiel: Gray sweater by VINEYARD VINES, stylist’s own . Army green pants by MOTHERCARE, P899 . Orange shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P400 bcmag.ph

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Kiel: Blue button down shirt by MOTHERCARE, P749 . Blue vest by LITTLE MARC JACOBS . Beige pants

by COTTON ON KIDS, P1,349 . Gray and yellow shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P400 Oyo: Green plaid shirt by TOMMY HILFIGER, P5,650 . Blue laced loafers by GIBI, P2,199.75 Ondrea: White cardigan by DKNY . Gray striped shirt by DIESEL . Purple skirt by BITZ KIDS . White mary janes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P1,599.75 Tin: Floral printed dress by FRENCH CONNECTION, P6,950 . Nude pointed-toe pumps by ZARA, P3,995 . Gold necklace, SM Accessories

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“Everyday is a challenge, the most important thing is who you will trust in those challenges.

That should be God alone.”

—Oyo, on the daily trials of the business

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Tin: Dress with houndstooth print by ZARA, P2,995 . Nude pumps

by GIBI, P1,699.75 Ondrea: White jacket by JUICY COUTURE, stylist’s own . Red dress by ELLE, P1,699.75 . Black and white houndstooth mary janes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA Kiel: T-shirt

by LITTLE MARC JACOBS . Jeans by EARNEST SEWN . Shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P1,899.75 Oyo: Denim shirt by ZARA, P2,595 . Brown loafers by GIBI, P1,999.75 bcmag.ph

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Oyo: Black waterproof blazer by PAUL SMITH, P44,900 . Gray longsleeved shirt by BLEACH CATASTROPHE, P1,195 Tin: Steffi color block blazer by TOMMY HILFIGER, P10,850 . Navy blue printed dress by FRENCH CONNECTION, P6,950

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“All I felt was excitement and hope for many things to come.

We trusted God so much that He will come through in anything and everything.”

— On the transition from being an actress to a mother

Tin: Black ribbed midriff top, P2,295 black leather skirt, P2,595, both

by ZARA . Blue peeptoe pumps by GIBI, P2,999.75

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Ondrea: Floral dress by 77 KIDS, ae.com/77kids .

Lavender and white striped headband by CAKEWALK

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Kiel: Nirvana smile tee, P799, green cordoroy pants, P1,349, both by COTTON ON KIDS . Brown boots by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P2,099.75 Oyo: Brown leather jacket

by ZARA, P5,990 . White shirt by with print by BLEACH CATASTROPHE, P1,295 . Blue shoes by GIBI, P2,999.75 Ondrea: Striped dress by BARBIE, P799.75 . Pink shoes by TOMS, model’s own On background: Red Buggy Car by WONDERWORLD, P3,120, Numa the Organic and Eco Baby Store

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Let your kids transform into their favorite hero or character this Halloween with these easy-to-make DIY costumes that make for special bonding time with your tots, too

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Marko: Brown t-shirt by CHILDISH CLOTHING, childishclothing.com . Blue jeans by LUCKY BRAND, luckybrand.com . Blue shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P1,399.75

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Rocketboy Materials: 2 empty potato chip canisters 2 plastic or paper cups (rim must be larger than the canister) 2 wooden popsicle sticks or stirrers yellow and orange crepe or Japanese paper black cartolina foil tape glue scissors cutter stapler Instructions: 1. Take your empty potato chip canister and tape the plastic cover so it won’t come off. Wrap the canister with foil using glue and tape.

You don’t need to wrap the silver can bottom. Push down the excess foil on the upper part (plastic cover) of the canister and fasten with tape. Do the same with the other canister. 2. Using a cutter, make two cuts on the side of each potato chip canister. Slide in your popsicle stick or stirrer and attach the other canister on the other end. You can opt to put instant glue on the holes so it can hold the sticks better. Wrap the sticks with foil. 3. Wrap your paper cup in foil using glue and tape.

Cut the excess foil and fold inward on the cup’s rim and use tape to attach inside.

Do the same with the bottom of the cup, folding down and fastening it with tape. 4.

Attach tape to the top rims of the canisters and press down until sturdy. 5. Cut out strips of yellow and orange Japanese or crepe paper. Cut diagonally on one end like you would in making a ribbon. 6.

Alternately put together the strips and fasten them with a stapler. 7. Attach the strips to the bottom of the canister (metal side) using tape. 8. Create straps out of black cartolina by folding an inch thick of the paper four times. Glue it shut and place strips of foil as a design. 9. Measure the straps on your child before fastening them on the rocket using tape. bcmag.ph

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Quito: (Look 1) Black hoodie by SHAMPOODLE, shampoodle.com .

Blue jeans by DIESEL, diesel.com . Orange shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P400 (Look 2) Chambray shirt by COTTON ON KIDS . Grateful Dead t-shirt by ROWDY SPROUT, rowdysprout.com . Purple pants by COTTON ON KIDS (Look 3: Safari Tour Guide) Green polo by PETIT BATEAU . Brown pants by OILILY, oililyshop.com . Yellow shoes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P400 (Look 4) Striped polo by D MO BABY, dmobaby.com . Pants by COTTON ON KIDS, P1,199 . Blue suede shoes

by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P1,899.75

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Instructions: 1. To make your binoculars, take your toilet paper cores and attach them together using two popsicle sticks or stirrers.

Fasten them with glue or tape on one side. 2. Using a cutter, create a “+” on the outer side of each toilet paper core. Tie the two paper bag handles together and insert each end in the “+” hole. Tie a knot on the end of the string, so it will hold the toilet paper core. 3. Take your paper bag and measure it against your child. Once you have an estimate, fold the paper bag in two vertically and cut out a semi-circle for your child’s head. On the front side of the paper bag, cut vertically so it will appear like a vest. 4. Open the paper bag and cut out holes for the sleeves.

Using glue, attach two small brown envelopes on the front side of the vest, to serve as pockets.

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Cheerleader The basics for this outfit is a short, pleated skirt, a t-shirt, rubber shoes, and pigtails.

You can create pompoms from almost any type of art paper available in the house—cartolina, metallic paper, crepe paper, plastic string, or even decorative pompoms from your last party.

Sabina: (Look 1: Cheerleader) Purple shirt with sequined dog by JUICY COUTURE, juicycouture.com . Black pleated skirt with bow by KICO KIDS, kicokids.com . Sneakers by TOUGH KIDS, SM Department Store (Look 2) Denim strapped top by DIESEL, diesel.com . Printed pants by H&M, hm.com . Yellow shoes by VINCENT, vincentshoestore.com . Charm bracelet by PINK BOX

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ROCK STAR Dress your handsome young man in sleek boots, a dark, grungy-looking shirt and a black jacket (perfect for the holiday weather) and you got yourself a rock star in the making. You can also toss in a bandana or a pair of shades, and he’ll be ready to rock the stage.

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Mathis: (Look 1: Rockstar) Black jacket by DKNY, dkny.com . Black t-shirt with grunge skull print by BITZ KIDS, bitzkidsnyc.com . Black corduroy pants by TEA COLLECTION, teacollection. com . Black boots by SEE KAI RUN, seekairun.com (Look 2) Blue plaid newsboy cap, blue and white striped cardigan, pants, all by H&M, hm.com . Black “Rock On” t-shirt by EDGY BABY . Baby elephant red fall 2013 shoe by LIVIE & LUCA, livieandluca.com

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Jellyfish Materials: metallic paper sheets in blue and silver leftover gift ribbons in blue, light blue, and purple (or any sea-toned color your child likes; 1 meter long for every ribbon works well) white crepe paper bubble wrap sombrero tape scissors

Instructions: 1. Place the sombrero on top of a spread out sheet of crepe paper, making sure that one side overlaps to the base of cap. Cut the crepe paper so that the other end also extends to the other side of the base. 2. Wrap the sombrero with crepe paper using tape. 3. Create a small hole on the crepe paper where the cap of the sombrero is. Create a cross (+) then proceed to cut each quarter into two. Fold them inwards (into the cap) and fasten with tape. 4. Turn over your sombrero and take your bubble wrap, placing it on the rim of your sombrero, making sure it’s as crumpled and fluffy as it can be. 5. Place a sheet of crepe paper over it and proceed to wrap the sombrero, making sure the bubble wrap stays in the rim area. 6. Keep the metallic paper sheet rolled, but loosen them a bit to make cutting easier. Cut around an inch thick to create curled strips. Do this for both the silver and blue metallic paper sheets. 7. Attach the metallic paper sheets and ribbons alternately around the rim of the hat using tape. You can curl the ends of the ribbons by pulling them against a pair of scissors. Make sure you leave space in front of the hat, so your child can see where she’s walking.

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Rocio: (Look 1) Peach brocade dress with bow by BABY FASHIONISTAS, P1,399 . Dr. Seuss sneakers by CONVERSE, converse.com (Look 2: Jellyfish) Royal blue dress by SOPHIE CATALOU, P3,399, chichimary.com . Yellow strappy flats by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P1,399.75 (Look 3) Printed dress with red collar by BABY FASHIONISTAS, P999 . Red mary janes by FLORSHEIM KIDS USA, P1,499.75 bcmag.ph

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ANGEL Creating an angel costume is quite easy— just pick out a white dress, pair it with white pants or leggings and a cream cardigan and you’re good to go. Angel wings are available at costume stores, but if you’re DIY-ing, you can use cardboard from old TV boxes and cotton, feathers, or even coffee filters to create texture.

Attach garter to your wings and your child will be ready for a heavenly Halloween treat.

HALLOWEEN HOLIDAY SAFETY TIPS Let spooky ghosts and evil witches be the only thing you have to worry about this season. Your family’s safety should always be the priority no matter what the occasion. Here are some tips on how to make your holiday a safe, fun, and meaningful one for your whole brood.

1. For colder climates, begin by purchasing a costume that’s at least one size larger to allow for insulating layers underneath. For sunnier days, choose those that have light material that will let the breeze through to avoid overheating.

2. Add reflective tape to costumes and candy buckets.

3. Use safety pins to shorten long costumes and avoid tripping.

4. Sew your child’s name and phone number inside costume in case she or he gets lost.

5. Ask older kids who trick-or-treat by themselves to plan a route and share it with a grown-up.

Set a return time.

6. Instruct kids not to eat treats until a grown-up has inspected them first. Candy that’s already been opened should be tossed. For little kids, trade small, hard candy for soft treats, as these could be a choking hazard.

7. Remove masks when crossing the street, and cross only at corners.

8. Don’t walk between parked cars.

9. Carry a flashlight. If possible, also bring along a colored light for better night vision.

10. Be careful near candles and jack-o’-lanterns.

11. Only visit homes that have an outside light on.

12. Accept treats at the door, and don’t go inside a stranger’s home.

13. Avoid petting animals without asking first.

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Maxine: (Look 1: Angel) White knitted jacket by GAP, gap.com . White pants by A. BIRD, abirdbaby.com (Look 2) Red plaid shirt, blue horse print pants by H&M, hm.com . Red boots by AIGLE, aigleboots.com (Look 3) Red and white striped cardigan by PETIT BATEAU . Purple dress by SOFT, softclothing.net . Red boots by AIGLE, aigleboots.com

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DRYPERS WEEWEEDRY DIapers Did you know that Drypers now has four botanical extracts for skin moisturizing? Aloe vera, chamomile, vitamin E, and olive extracts are now present in Drypers Wee Wee Dry, helping to moisturize and rejuvenate your baby’s skin, thereby keeping it clean, healthy, and comfortable.

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APRICA KAROON PLUS PINK For parents who love to travel, invest in a stroller that is lightweight but does not compromise quality and your baby’s comfort. Aprica’s dual-facing Karoon Plus Stroller in pink features a 3D suspension system, one-touch 5-point harness, reversible handle, and 170˚degree full reclining seat for your baby’s utmost comfort. It also has an inner protective cushion and air ventilation back rest, and a big canopy with mesh window to protect your baby from dust, wind, and heat. facebook. com/ApricaPH; Baby Company stores

PHILIPS AVENT COMFORT DOUBLE ELECTRIC BREAST PUMP Breastfeeding has gotten easier and more enjoyable with Philips Avent’s Comfort Double Electric Breast Pump, which allows us to sit more comfortably, without having to lean forward for milk letdown, thereby expressing more milk in less time. It also features a soft massage cushion with warm feel, and 3 pumping settings that allows you to pump at your own pace. 667-9000; Baby Company and Mothercare stores; avent.com or philips.com.ph

Pfizer What value are you getting for your money when you buy medicine? Pfizer goes beyond providing relief and recovery.

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For medicine that has the stamp of trust and the mark of good value, choose the brand of Pfizer.

NEUTROGENA HEALTHY BEAUTY CIRCLE Become an expert of your own skin while earning rewards with Neutrogena’s recently launched Healthy Beauty Circle, the first digital social consumer relationship platform that enables you to access expert skincare, give and receive advice and share experiences, and purchase Neutrogena products through an online store. facebook.com/neutrogenaphilippines

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RELA X AND UNWIND How to Be an Explorer of the World by Keri Smith, P545

Wreck This Journal author Keri Smith’s “Portable Life Museum” encourages us to be more observant about the world around us and document them—whether through taking notes, collecting things during our travels, copying, tracing, and really just record what catches our eye. This guided journal is beautifully created with hand-illustrated pages, further enticing us to explore and discover our environment. Interactive prompts will keep us on our toes, and will keep our senses keener in understanding everything outside of our brain.

Other Books “Get What You Want: The Art of Making and Manifesting Your Intentions” by Tony Burroughs, P714

Author of 9 books, cofounder of The Intenders of the Highest Good (intenders.com), and Huffington Post blogger, Tony Burroughs’s Get What You Want talks about how, 17 years ago in Hawaii, he met a man who took him under his wing and taught him “The Information,” teachings about life that will enable him to live meaningfully—with love, peace, and abundance. In this book, Burroughs stresses one’s intentions and how it can shape one’s self, and how it can manifest the best in a person.

“Happier at Home” by Gretchen Rubin, P899

Author, blogger, and speaker Grechen Rubin released her latest bestselling book in 2012, focusing this time on how to become happier at home.

While she spoke of happiness in general in her previous book The Happiness Project, she now takes on matters of the family in this book set in one school year, in which she tackles different theme per month. As a mother of two herself, she discusses topics that matter, like possessions, time, marriage, and parenthood.

Like its predecessor, this is packed with Rubin’s fine storytelling, philosophy, and experimentation.

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“Adulting: How to become a Grown-up in 468 easy(ish) Steps” by Kelly Williams Brown, P599

Whether you’re a young mom or approaching your mid-30’s, this book, which is based on Kelly Williams Brown’s blog, Adulting (adulting.com), talks about growing up and everything from getting your own apartment, building relationships with co-workers, with all the funny and quirky stories from Brown, who is a previous features reporter and award-winning humor columnist for the Statesman Journal in Salem, Oregon. This shelve-filler is also perfect for parents who have college-graduating kids who are still navigating the seas of adulthood.

“The Tap” by Frank McKinney

Renowned real-estate artist and five-time international best-selling author Frank McKinney believes that God taps us to answer prayers and present life-changing opportunities. The Tap teaches us how to open ourselves up to God’s tap and learning how to feel it and act upon it. While McKinney isn’t a preacher, he believes that faithful stewardship is key to receiving blessings. In his book, we can learn how to enrich our lives and respond to God’ tap, and subsequently, succeed in life.

“The Happiness Choice: The Five Decisions That Will Take You From Where You Are to Where You Want to Be” by Marilyn Tam, P1,123

Sometimes it takes one woman to be an inspiration for many.

Author Marilyn Tam used to be an unwanted, neglected, and abused child in Hong Kong, until she turned her life around and became an international businesswoman and humanitarian who is perfectly at peace with herself. She offers great advice, principles, tools, and philosophies that will enable us to change our perspective and achieve our goals of a wellbalanced, happy, and healthy life.

“Answering the Central Question” by Peter Demarest and Harvey Schoof

Ever wondered how the mind-brain connection works? Written by Peter Demarest and Harvey Schoof, this book gives us new insights on how our brain works, and how we can use this to make real and lasting changes in our lives. Discover your untapped potential through science and technologies behind the value-centered personal, leadership, and organizational development processes, and ask the question, “What choice can I make and action can I take, in this moment, to create the greatest net value?” bcmag.ph

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From the creator of Love Actually and Nothing Hill comes a comedy about love and time travel. At the age of 21, Tim Lake (Domhnall Gleeson) found out he can travel through time and he decided to use his power to get a girlfriend (Rachel MacAdams).

In the end, this movie discovers that making the most out of life may not need time travel at all.

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The much anticipated second installment of the Hunger Games trilogy is about Katniss Everdeen (Jennifer Lawrence) and Peeta Mellark (Josh Hutcherson) as they become the target of the Capitol after winning the 74th annual Hunger Games. This action-packed adventure movie also stars Liam Hemsworth, Elizabeth Banks, and Stanley Tucci, and is directed by Francis Lawrence, who also directed the first film.

Two turkeys go on a mission to find a time machine and change history so that not one turkey will have to suffer for Thanksgiving. They travel back to the first Thanksgiving to prevent turkeys from becoming the traditional holiday meal. This animated film features the voices of Owen Wilson, Woody Harrelson, and Amy Poehler, and is directed by Toy Story’s Jimmy Hayward.

Adapted by Downtown Abbey writer Julian Fellowes, and directed by Carlos Carlei, this 21st century take on the William Shakespeare epic love story features an all-star cast including Hailee Steinfeld, Douglas Booth, Ed Westwick, and Paul Giammatti. While it does not use Shakespeare’s traditional dialogue, it still features the play’s plot, leading up to the untimely death of the star-crossed lovers.

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creepy, fun apps More entertainment for your family through these fun apps that also celebrate the season

CHART-TOPPING TRACKS New music to catch up on this Halloween holiday season, and more tracks to fill up your iPods

House of Shadows, $0.99

For kids ages 4 and up, this app will help hone their problem solving skills inside a haunted house where the player’s little sister has wandered. You are now tasked to bring her to safety while avoiding monsters in this hide-and-seek game.

Create A Monster HD, $0.99

A fun game for kids of all ages, this will inspire the artist in you and let you create any kind of monster you like with your own imagination.

You can even review your work in the Monster Art Gallery! This app features a wide range of color choices and Facebook and Twitter integration, too.

Vocab Ninja - Halloween Special (Full), $0.99

Brush up your vocabulary skills with this fun game that features amazing graphical effects and educational content, all with the pumpkin smashing action.

flick-or-treat Funny and entertaining videos that celebrate the month of pumpkins, witches, and all things spooktacular Happy Halloween Funny Animation

Watch how this witch prepares for takeoff on the scariest night of our lives as she brings out her broom, which seems to have some technical difficulties (or just plain has a life of its own).

Wubbzy Halloween Music Video

This super cool track (which explains what Halloween is all about in 1 minute and 30 seconds) is the perfect background for your Halloween party, as it’s upbeat and fun, with an equally entertaining music video to match.

The Skeleton Dance

Let your kids learn more about their growing bodies with the Skeleton Dance, which explains our different kinds of bones—all while dancing to this quirky beat. bcmag.ph

“Counting Stars” by One Republic

The Colorado band is back with a new track from their 2013 record, Native. The band comes out strong with a fresh sound, and comes a long way from Apologize.

“Radioactive” by Imagine Dragons

The chart-topper from breakout artist Imagine Dragons speaks about stepping out and making a change.

“Roar” by Katy Perry

The singer/songwriter has shed her bubblegum pop image for a more au naturel look with her new single that talks about empowerment.

“Brave” by Sara Bareilles

Another track that talks about self-empowerment, Brave features Bareilles’ amazing songwriting skill and strong vocals.

“Best Song Ever” by One Direction

Like it or not, this boyband has taken the world by storm, and this track is another one of those infectious ones you’ll be dancing to till the holidays.

“I Need Your Love” by Calvin Harris feat. Ellie Goulding

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the great gatsbys Fierce and sassy, these Jersey mamas certainly know how to make a statement with their straightforward personalities and spirited styles. Get to know another side of the women behind Jerseylicious’ Gatsby Salon, where fun and mayhem combine for an hour’s worth of entertainment guilty pleasure

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2010, Jerseylicious changed the landscape of reality television. It follows the colorful lives of the owners and crew of Gatsby Salon in Green Brook, NJ, headed by mother-and-daughter team Gayle Giacomo and Christy Pereira.

The salon is also home to a crew of animated hair and makeup artists who also bring an interesting mix of drama and comedy to the table. BC brings you an intimate conversation with the owners of the salon, as they think back to amusing stories, starting out, and motherhood.

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Gayle Giacomo Can you tell us a bit more about the history of Gatsby?

G: In 1977, my husband Daniel

[Gianfrancesco] fulfilled his dream of creating his own ideal of a salon experience, opening the world-famous Gatsby Salon. Daniel was always ahead of his time when it came to trends, techniques and tools. His inherent artistic ability is what drove him to new innovations and creative ideas.

His love of creating beauty brought his teachings to television, showcasing hair styles based on face shape and hair texture. He would inform the audience what style worked best with their face shape, as well as how to do their styles at home. He backed up this education with tools that we sold to assist in athome styling, such as the “face framer.”

Daniel also invented artistic tools to help fellow hairdressers with precise cutting techniques. Daniel is recognized as one of the most influential and inspiring educators and artistic hair designers that has trained thousands of hair stylists in the art of hair design and salon management. When Daniel passed away in 1998, he left the legacy of his unique exceptional hair design techniques to me, which still lives on at the Gatsby Salon.

How did your husband influence the success of the salon?

G: Daniel brought his dream to

life by opening Gatsby Salon on the core beliefs that this industry required constant education, impeccable customer care as well as ever-changing décor.

He was a leader, innovator, and a true visionary. Before his passing, the salon was under construction to be Gatsby Salon & Spa. He was always expanding his business to meet his clients’ needs, and at this time, adding spa services did just that.

How was it like raising a family, and having to manage the salon?

G: It was difficult as it is for any working

mother trying to raise children. But we

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had a great staff and a wonderful family to help watch Christy and baby Daniel when they were too young to attend school.

Can you tell us about the renovation?

Who designed its interiors?

G: I reinvented Gatsby Salon to reflect

my personal style and vision, all the while continuing to build upon the fundamental values Daniel instilled in Gatsby. For the first two decades of Gatsby Salon’s existence, I was the woman behind the man. Although he had been gone for [more than] ten years, I never felt it was time to step out of his shadow and make it my own. As hard as it was, I knew it was time. This move and renovation was difficult for me, but equally as hard for my staff.

The old location and design will forever be linked to my husband. It was his last gift to them and we had to say goodbye.

Any funny stories about Christy when she was young?

G: When Christy was a little girl,

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would dress her up depending on the holiday. On Christmas, she was an elf handing out gifts to the staff, and cupid on Valentine’s Day handing out carnations to guests. Christy grew up within the walls of Gatsby, so many of her funny moments were at the salon.

Who is your personal style icon?

G: Elizabeth Taylor. She was sexy

yet sophisticated, elegant, classy, she had it all.

If you had only 5 things you could use for a quick beauty touchup, what would those tools be?

G: Stila’s One Step foundation! It’s

a concealer, foundation, powder, everything all in one…Definitely comes to the rescue. A blow dryer and boar bristle brush to tame my hair.

Mascara and lip gloss.

Describe the moment when you first found out you were picked for the reality series.

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girl when the call came in. Who would have ever thought I would have this opportunity to live my husband’s dream of television fame through his salon.

What is your biggest accomplishment as a mother?

G: After my husband died, I had to play

the role of mother and father to my youngest, who was only eight years old.

I juggled running a business and parenting my distraught children. Getting through those years in one piece was my biggest accomplishment.

How did you feel when Christy gave birth to your granddaughter?

G: Unbelievably ecstatic! It’s extraor-

dinary to have a grandchild. Seeing your child have their own; knowing the emotions and joy that she was feeling as I had felt thirty years prior when giving birth to Christy. I was quite emotional during that time. It was even more special to me that my father got to meet her before he passed.

What is the most important lesson you’ve learned as a mother?

G: Selflessness. When you become

a mother, your life isn’t about you anymore. It’s about showing and giving all the love and nurturing you possess to your new bundle of joy. And as they grow, you continue to be selfless, always

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putting your children and their needs first. That’s why women are made for this job!

Did you ever think that a salon in NJ could garner this much interest from viewers?

G: Yes, actually. I think people from

NJ are quite interesting, especially for television. We are bold and loud. We are not afraid to share our opinions. So no, I’m not surprised that television audiences would want to watch the mayhem of NJ on television.

Christy Pereira

made sure she had time for family, no matter how busy she was with work.

My brother and I were her priority at all times. She taught us to dress nicely because the better you look, the better you feel. However, having a hairdresser mom so into fashion was a little difficult to keep up with.

Favorite childhood memory?

C: That would have to be

Christmas mornings with my mom and stepfather, Danny. They were insane! You couldn’t see the floor of the living room because the gifts were piled high. Now as an adult, I think they were crazy because I know all the money that went into it.

What was it like growing up in New Jersey?

C: I’ve never known anything differ-

What sparked your interest in styling?

C: I grew up at Gatsby so it was a no-

If you had a choice on where to raise your daughter, would you raise her in NJ? C: Definitely here in Jersey. I’m proud

What are your favorite cosmetic products and brands?

C: Gatsby’s Structura Shaping Spray

ent! But I always loved the change in seasons and looked forward to summers down the shore at Cape May.

to be from Jersey and my daughter will be too. Although many winter months make me want to move to Miami, I really love experiencing the changing seasons.

How is Gayle like as a mother?

C: Gayle is a great mom. She

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brainer to get involved, but styling was not for me. So I went the management route!

saves my hair on many days. It took me a long time to find a signature perfume, but I found Flower Bomb by Viktor & Rolf and it rocks!

What are the values your mother taught you that you’d like to pass on to your child? bcmag.ph

jerseylicious My mother and father have always been big on family. We would spend every Sunday at my Grandma and Pop’s house for Sunday dinner. And every chance we got to see each other, we did.

My family is very close, and I hope it continues to be as it grows.

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How was it like dealing with your pregnancy while filming?

C: As you saw, my feet and legs

swelled quite early on, which presented its obstacles. It was crazy and tiring, but I trucked along and now have those memories through the Jerseylicious episodes. I like to think I was a trooper.

Did you have any unusual cravings during your pregnancy?

C: The only craving was chocolate chip

cookies. Prior to being pregnant, I never really ate sweets, but when I was pregnant with Daniella, I would eat them all the time, for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, if I could. I was obsessed with them.

Describe the moment when you first saw your daughter.

C: I was amazed, just absolutely

amazed. While I was pregnant, I truly did not have a preference whether I had a boy or girl. But when she was born and my husband Danny told me it was a girl and that she was beautiful, perfect, and amazing, I got really emotional. This made me realize that deep down, I must have really wanted a girl.

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How did you get back in shape so soon after giving birth?

C: I tried sticking to a healthy diet dur-

ing and after being pregnant, which I think has helped a lot. But I wasn’t allowed to do any exercise right after giving birth to get back into shape, because I had a C-section. So I feel lucky that eating healthy was all that I needed for the weight to come off.

Now, I try to work out once a week to keep tone, but that’s all.

Are there any major lifestyle changes now that you’re a mother?

C: Of course. I try to not let my life

revolve purely around her eating and sleeping schedule, but it’s really hard.

I feel guilty when I don’t keep her on her routine and be at home for naps and whatnot. Danny and I used to go out for dinner every Saturday night, and now we go for the “early bird special” with Daniella before her bedtime. We’ve tried to stay true to ourselves, just modified.

What are your mommy must-haves?

C: The first is my Timi and Leslie dia-

per bag. I need a stylish yet practical bag because you need something big enough to hold all of your baby needs, yet stylish enough to pass as your purse. The second is the DVD player in my car. Daniella hates [riding] in the car! So to keep her occupied and from screaming while I’m trying to drive, the DVD player distracts her.

And I love my Helen Ficalora necklace with Daniella’s initials so I feel her with me when she’s physically not with me.

What do you like shopping for when it comes to Daniella?

C: All girly clothes. I can’t get enough

of them. I love getting her entire outfits from her tops and bottoms to matching headbands and shoes.

How is Danny like as a father?

C: He’s great. Danny has always

been very good with kids, having our niece and nephew as practice. But with Daniella, he’s very hands-on, helping out with everything. We split everything for the most part down the center–from feedings to changings. There is no dirty diaper that he’s afraid of.

What are the best and worst traits you are finding out about yourself now that you’re a mom?

C: I’m extremely organized, which

helps with my everyday life with work, filming, and family. I found that when you become a mom, you can be overly obsessed with little things.

So learning to let things go has definitely been therapeutic and relaxing for me. The hardest thing has been punctuality. I’ve always been early for everything, but now I’m finding that I run about ten minutes behind. Learning to juggle life with child has been good, but an ontime life with child is still difficult to achieve. bc

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