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EDITOR Linda Koch
ARTWORK & DESIGN Emily Galvin
CONTRIBUTORS Ellis Guy Victoria Ricketts Annaleigh Koch Chiara Aprea Christopher Wheatley Amanda Attwood Camille Kim Chloe Richards Evie Harris Lilly Ashford Jennifer Owens Michaela Gingell Kitty Woods Cathi Bew Katherine Henry
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6 What We’ve Been Up To 2015 9 20 Years of Big Girl’s Paradise with Linda Koch 10 Miss Plus Size United Kingdom 2015 Grand Finale 16 MPSUK Winner’s Stories 30 Michaela Gingell: Working in the Plus Size Fashion Industry 34 Betty Pamper: Why Plus Is Anything But Equal 37 Feline Frenzy Fashion 38 A Plus Size Collaboration 49 Kitty Wood: Behind The Lens 51 Trends Of The Season 57 Meet The Designer: Lerato Makwe 58 The British Plus Size Awards 2015 60 Hollie and Katie 72 Fabulous Winter Warming Warming Recipes
EDITOR’S LETTER Welcome to issue 12 of BGP Magazine, our wonderful Winter Edition. This issue, we have met so many inspirational women, done so many amazing things, and we have felt so inspired with creating the magazine for all our readers. This issue, we have had photoshoots with our Miss Plus Size United Kingdom winners, interviews with some top bloggers, an article from our very own psychic, Cathi Bew and much more! BGP Magazine has attended so many wonderful events within the plus size industry, including the Curvy Convention, The British Plus Size Awards, Miss Plus Size UK, and many more. The team pride themselves on bringing you quality content, and we are just as excited as you are for the new year and what it may bring. There are so many more amazing articles in this issue, but don’t take my word for it sit back and have a read. Please email me hello@bgpmagazine.co.uk if you would like to contribute to our next issue or blog!
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WHAT WE’VE BEEN UPTO 2015 - and who we’ve met along the way BGP Magazine have been all over the country this year attending plus size events and celebrating the fuller figure and admiring the progress of the plus size fashion industry. We had a great time at Manchester’s Curve Fashion Festival where we met some
incredible women who were incredibly well dressed! Felicity Hayward rocked the most amazing sequin jumpsuit major swoon! We also bumped into the gorgeous Hollie and Michaela, who you can read more about on pages 30 and 60. We also visited UK Plus Size Fashion
Top L-R: The Evans catwalk show, George from FullerFigureFullerBust and Amanda from Amanda Apparal, ASOS Stylist Felicity Hayward with Danielle Vanier, Michaela from Cardiffornia Gurl and Hollie from Pretty Big Butterflies
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Week, where met some really lovely brands from around the world. The fashion was extravagant and intriguing, and it was great to see Olivia Campbell modelling for Jane Watson, alternative model Sarah H wearing a gorgeous emerald gown from Studio 8, and we also caught up with MPSUK presenter Mary-Louise Chandler, who looked amazing modelling for Jessica Kane.
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YEARS OF BIG GIRLS PARADISE
This year, Big Girls Paradise celebrated it’s 20th birthday with an incredible BGP London Birthday Bash back in October and what an amazing night it was! Linda first created the BGP empire as a hobby in 1995, and a get together of friends. Over 200 people attended the official opening in Gossip’s Nightclub on Dean Street in the heart of London’s Soho. The club was revolutionary, and has grown over the years, leading on to all the other events she runs today, such as The British Plus Size Awards and Miss Plus Size United Kingdom. Linda introduced the world to the Curvy Kittens, (formerly known as the Big Bunny Girls) and the Paradise Guys, and over the years, herself and the club gathered copious amounts of press appearances, from documentaries to chat shows. Customers come from all walks of life and travel from far and wide to attend the club nights. So what’s next? Watch this space as we have a couple of big announcements to make in the new year! The club stands for everything plus size, and holds a strong belief in providing a platform of equality. come! Find out more at www.biggirlsparadise.com.
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h e Grand Final of Miss Plus Size United Kingdom 2015 took place earlier this year in September, and what a night it was! Fifteen beautiful, confident women took to the stage to compete for the crown of Miss Plus Size United Kingdom, after a year of interviews, boot camp training and more. The night started with a glamourous welcome reception, followed by a three course meal in one of the most beautifully lit ballrooms we’ve ever seen.
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UNITED KINGDO Welsh vocalist Russell Jones, from Britain’s Got Talent’s ‘Only Boys Aloud’, opened the show with an energetic performance remnant of a young Michael Buble, and left the room buzzing with excitement for the show to begin.
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Presenter Mary-Louise Chandler did an excellent job of introducing each contestant, starting with a casual wear round. It was truly amazing to watch all of the finalists brave the runway for the first time of the evening, and the audience cheered and clapped as each girl stepped out looking fabulous and confident. We then welcomed Amy Mottram, who found fame after making her way to the Judges Houses on X Factor in 2013. Amy blew the
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we couldn’t help but feel extremely proud of all the contestants rocking their bodies on the catwalk. After a short interval, vocal sensation and house down with her outstanding vocals, and received a standing ovation on more than one occasion. She really was incredible, and we’re sure that we’ll be seeing lots more of her to come in the future! Next came the swimwear round, which was a dazzling array
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of courage and confidence, and showed how much effort and time the girls had put into the pageant. We loved the amount of detail in some of the outfits the finalists wore, especially Leah’s ring master look and Michelle’s mermaid attire. This round is by far the most empowering, and
larger than life tribute act Blobbie Williams had the whole room on the floor dancing with his amazing renditions of well known Robbie William hits. This is the second time
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We all felt emotional hearing the finalists give their answers, varying from what the pageant means to them, to giving their definition of true beauty.
them, to giving their definition of true beauty. The contestants had done everything within their power to compete for the title, and it was now in the hands of the judges, who had the near impossible task of deciding who would win Miss Plus Size United Kingdom 2015. While the judges deliberated, singer Joey James took to the stage with some great songs which had the crowd on their feet for the third time during the evening. Finally, the time had come for the judges to reveal the winners of this year’s pageant. Judge Mark Singh and pageant mentor Sian Yapp took to the stage to hand out the crowns to the well deserving winners, and there wasn’t a dry eye in the house by the time they had all been announced! All in all, it was a fantastic evening and we we’ve seen him perform, and we had are confident that all of these amazing a bit of a fangirl moment when he was ladies will go on to do incredible on the stage. things, whether it’s in the plus size Last but not least, we witnessed the industry or not. They have already long awaited evening wear round - a inspired women across the country to beautiful mixture of elegance and love their bodies, and we can’t wait to charm. Having got to know them see what happens next! throughout the year long build up to the final, we all felt emotional hearing Turn over to meet the pageant winner’s the finalists give their answers, varying of this year’s Miss Plus Size United from what the pageant means to Kingdom 2015!
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PHOTOS: EMILY GALVIN HAIR & MAKEUP: CHIARA APREA & CHRISTABEL MANU
As far back as I can remember, I’ve been plus size. Thinking back to when I was little brings great memories of my mum, dad and brothers. Before I was born, Dad was a chef and he loved to cook. I remember he would call me to watch and help him. I acquired a love for home cooked food. Food was a big part of family time, Dad would say it was like being back in Africa. The food was delicious, but eventually contributed to my weight gain. It wasn’t until secondary school that I started to feel insecure about my weight and appearance. During my first year, Mum suffered a bad mental breakdown and was hospitalised. All these new changes and issues in my life made me find comfort in food and I was bullied by boys, who called me names and followed me home shouting insults. My mum remained in hospital for most of my time at secondary school. This took it’s toll on Dad and he eventually became unwell also. I had to be the adult and help do things Mum and Dad would’ve done. I felt responsible for my younger brother Richard. Being a teenager was a bag of different emotions, I never felt like I belonged, and felt alienated because of how I looked and what I was going through. I lived in t-shirts, leggings
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JODIE FOLLEY
Meet the winner of Miss Plus Size United Kingdom 2015, the beautiful Jodie Folley. and boy’s shoes, as there were no girl’s shoes that fitted. I couldn’t afford to get a pair of shoes from Evans. I was 13 when I got my first Saturday job. This helped but yet again, my size meant I couldn’t find anything fashionable. At school, boys never gave me a second look. As I got older, older men would chat me up, I assumed they thought I was older because of my size. On nights out with friends I’d feel so uncomfortable. I’d get guys saying ‘You’re pretty for a fat/big girl’- at the time I felt like it was some sort of compliment. Now I realise how rude it was. After leaving school, I wanted to travel and felt free finally. I started to not let my size and past hold me back and worked hard and travelled to many different countries. I was always a big daddy’s girl. When I reached 21, Dad suffered a terrible stroke. He never recovered and had to go into full time care. This took it’s toll on me, I just didn’t want to be me anymore - I’d cry and talk to God, ask him why he gave me this life and this body. I began to starve myself and took slimming tablets to change what I looked like. I thought it would make me feel good. I lost
weight but in such an unhealthy way. I thought that would be the answer to my unhappiness but it wasn’t. In 2006, I met my husband - even now it puts a smile on my face because he wasn’t the type of guy I imagined I’d end up with. I grew up with people judging me and I think I did the same to him. He liked and accepted me for who I was and what I looked like. We had our first son, Zion, in 2007 and then our second, Kamarley, in 2011. After we had Kamarley, my husband became ill and suffered a breakdown. I became his carer. Throughout my life I felt like all I had done was look after everyone else, and never put time or effort into finding and loving myself. I decided to change things, we moved house. This was a chance for me to start working on myself and being a good parent and role model. I vowed to love myself and make a better life for me and my boys. I made an effort to show people I cared and loved them but didn’t with myself. I needed to stop pressuring myself to be something I wasn’t. As each day went on, I’d find things that would make me happy about
I vowed to love myself and make a better life for me and my boys.
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“I’ve experienced feeling total body acceptance and I want other men and women to feel it too.” myself. I started doing my make up more and buying myself new clothes. I started to gain more confidence. I decided to try and be a bit healthier but with no pressure on myself like the past. One day I came across the Miss Plus Size UK 2015 pageant, and when I told my brother about it, he kept saying I should apply and that I was beautiful. I was starting to embrace my size, and he said I’d be an inspiration to other plus size woman. I entered and was shocked and excited when I received an invitation to audition. The auditions were amazing, I met so many beautiful plus size women. I felt overwhelmed being with others who I could relate to. For once in my life, I was doing something for myself. When I found out I was a finalist I couldn’t believe it. I found great comfort in sharing my experience of growing up in a society where I never felt accepted or like I fitted in and how far I had come with embracing my size and loving myself the way I am. I had such a great response from people - I had men and woman telling me I was an inspiration, that they could relate. I had women asking
Jodie's prize for being crowned Miss Plus Size United Kingdom 2015 was: - A 7 day cruise in the Caribbean for 2 - A weeks holiday in Miami - A model contract with Pose Plus Models And lots of other goodies! where I got my clothes and shoes. I feel strongly about promoting body confidence whatever your size, colour or disability. The thought of women feeling the way I did empowers me. I think back to how alone I felt, I wonder how my life would’ve been if I’d had someone to talk to or to give me fashion tips, or to know that someone understood. I’ve experienced feeling total body acceptance and I want other men and women to feel it too. I love my life now, I don’t walk around wondering what other people are thinking, now I feel free. This year has been such a mixture of emotions I haven’t experienced before. Sadly, on the 8th April my dad passed away and it hit me hard. The pageant helped me through one of the hardest times of my life. It kept me focused on something positive. I know Dad would be so proud of me if he could see that I have finally accepted me, inspired people, and become Miss Plus Size United Kingdom 2015. Being part of MPSUK 2015 has changed my life and I’ll be forever grateful to Linda Koch and her team for helping me make such an amazing transition in my life.”
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SOPHIE WILSON
1st Runner Up Miss Plus Size United Kingdom 2015 From when I was a baby, I was placed into the care of my Nana who brought me up as her own for 22 years. Throughout my younger years I was an active sporty girl and swam competitively, but I had always been “the big girl”. People used to laugh and put me down and I was bullied badly. During my early teens, I started at a theatre school and participated in shows each year, but often they had to sew 2 costumes together for me to participate which was highly embarrassing. I loved being on stage and felt so at home but I wasn’t catered for. I was asked to do some modelling but thinner girls always got the jobs. At college, people thought I had gone crazy when I took dance as an A level, but I went on to dance for two years with the Royal ballet partnership scheme and at Covent Garden. The whole of my childhood, people were sniggering, laughing, putting me down to make me feel as though I wasn’t able to succeed. The one thing I learnt was, if they knock me down, I’ll prove I can come out fighting, and I did, every time. Blood, sweat and tears went into everything to show, as a bigger girl, I wasn’t a waste of space and I could achieve what I put my heart into. After college, I went on to marry and have my daughter so I had some time out of the spotlight. I focused on being a mum and working hard to provide for us - when my husband left me for
another women 6 months after she was born. It just pushed me harder to succeed. I set up my own training provider company and started to get bookings ready for when I was able to return to work after maternity leave. Life was far from easy, but I managed with help from my family. I then met my partner and my step son, who taught me family time is worth everything and being a team is nothing to shy away from. My life became settled and I was content with what I had achieved. I was looking on the internet one evening and an advert for a plus size pageant popped up. I couldn’t believe my eyes, this was what I could only have dreamed of. I applied and got an interview, then waited for what seemed a lifetime to hear if I had made it through. I received an email - I had made it to the finals! It was my time to show what I am capable of. The last 12 months have been the best experience of my life. To take home the title, Miss Plus Size UK, 1st runner up, is literally such an honour. I finally have managed to be appreciated for who I am, what I stand for and how I look. I am so proud of myself and I have the best family I could ask for. Now I want to enter the plus size modelling industry, I want to become a role model for people who have always been put down in life. My motto will always be close to my heart, “ they said I couldn’t, but I did!”.
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2nd Runner Up & Miss Personality 2015 The first time I ever felt uncomfortable about my weight was when I was 14. We were getting weighed and I said to my friend, “I hope I don’t get weighed, I weigh 9 and a half stone”. The girl sat directly behind me whispered, “Don’t worry, so do I”. I didn’t get picked, neither did she but I remember the feeling of my stomach in knots. Of being afraid what people would think. Looking back, I was a normal healthy size for my age and height, but the thought of everyone knowing my weight was daunting. I’ve always battled with weight and personal acceptance. I believe the most important factor in feeling content in life is to accept what you look like and embrace it. Don’t hide yourself away. You only live once, so why not just go for it. If you want to wear a bikini, wear a bikini! Fashion has always been a big thing. I enjoy putting outfits together but it’s only been recently that I’ve been confident to wear them. I don’t hide my body anymore. It took a while to get there but now, I co-own a plus size clothing shop and online website, Topsy Curvy, with my best friend. Through Topsy Curvy, I found out about the Miss Plus Size UK pageant and decided to enter. I thought being tattooed and pierced would be a problem. I was used to dressing models, not being one! The pageant has inspired me to be confident and push myself to do new things. I’ve met so many friends and had an empowering experience which I love to share. Coming third and winning Miss Personality was amazing and was more than I ever expected. When my name was called I couldn’t believe it. I remember looking over at my family and friends who came to support me and beaming from ear to ear. As the cameras flashed, I posed in my sash and crowns and felt amazing. Everyone deserves to feel like that.”
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Leah Deacon 3rd Place 2015 People said I’d never amount to anything. During my secondary education, I changed schools and I left with hardly any GCSEs. I attended college to retake the main subjects to apply to medical school. As a child, I was sexually abused and suffered flashbacks. I had depression after a 10-year relationship ended - I lost my job and suffered financially. I had to sell my car and belongings. I was homeless for a while and a victim of domestic violence. However, without struggle there is no progress. I wasn’t always confident; I was bullied because I didn’t fit in. I was called every name – I found solace in food; I loathed myself. If it wasn’t for my past, I wouldn’t be on this journey, or be determined to show I can succeed. I’ve always believed in altruism, putting others’ needs before my own, as my mother taught me. At 11 years old, I found my mother, blood pouring down her face - she’d been stabbed. I wished I could have done more. From that instant, I knew I wanted to be a doctor. I’ve cared for my mother, offered her support, and she’s a survivor. I always remind her that we are human and aren’t invincible. I would like to promote body confidence through education and raise more awareness of causes like Samaritans, Alzheimer’s Society and Cancer Research UK. I took part in Race for Life, as my aunt passed away from a brain tumour. My grandmother also passed away after having dementia. I’m currently working to pay for medical school. I’m following my dreams. I achieved distinctions in my medical diploma. The old saying ‘sticks and stones may break your bones, but words may never hurt me’ comes to mind. I am so grateful that I was a part of Miss Plus Size UK 2015, and how it helped me grow and change.”
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elizabeth bowman 4th Place 2015 Growing up I was aware I was chubby. All my friends were tiny and I wasn’t like them. I had friends but it didn’t stop the teasing. I was ginger, fat and wore glasses. Secondary school was the same but the names hurt more. I’d come home crying to Mum after a skinny girl made a snide comment and every boy turned away. I never felt comfortable. I couldn’t wear trendy clothes - the more down I got about my weight, the more it piled on. Mum and Dad helped me diet but I was a secret eater. I thought I couldn’t go fishing with my Dad in case I sunk the boat. They told me I was beautiful. I wish I realised it then. After school I lost weight (8st in total) and was more paranoid than ever! I qualified as a hairstylist and started work. The weight came back but I was happy with my life until I had to leave as I didn’t have the “right look”. The fact I was bigger than people in magazines made me starve myself. I went to the doctors, I tried pills, even mentioned a gastric band but was told I was too small. One night a documentary about Miss Plus Size International came on TV. I was in awe of these people standing up for natural beauty and straight away I thought I’d give it a go. My journey with Miss Plus Size UK and the girls has been amazing. It’s bought out confidence within me and has been the best journey of my life - it’s only just starting! I want to inspire women and show them big is beautiful! I want more plus size clothing shops on the high street so girls don’t feel the way I did. I look back and think about the girls and boys that made fun of me, the ex-boyfriend that made me go to the gym and think, “I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. I’m still big! I’m a beauty queen. Watch this space, because I’m going to fill it!”
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Roberta Wilson
Miss Photogenic & Miss Congeniality 2015
I’ve always been a big girl, a 10 pound 10 baby and now a size 24, 6ft 1, 22 year old. When I was 12 I was diagnosed with 4 bulging discs, 2 curvatures of the spine (scoliosis), degenerative disc disease, arthritis of the spine and sciatica. I spent years in and out of hospital, eventually becoming bed bound. Ever since I was young I had always dreamt of opening a drama school for disabled children, but everything got put on hold. After dropping out of sixth form due to pain, I was at a real low point in my life and became suicidal, I couldn’t begin to imagine my life without pain and suffering, I was in a dark place. There was nothing the doctors could do, and said in the future my discs would eventually cause paralysis. After continually trying everything possible I had come to the end of my tether. I threw my painkillers out, and said to myself ‘you are worth more than this’, I got up and started again. I tried college another two times but it wasn’t for me. I learnt to drive, I got into beauty, and I loved it. I applied for Pose Plus Models, and then Miss Plus Size UK. I have made some amazing friends through this and done modelling and now work in Topsy Curvy with two of the most amazing girls who make me feel like I belong, finally. I hope to show the world beauty has no shape, no religion, no disability, no sexual orientation, no nothing. Everyone is worth more than we are told. If I can change one person’s perception then I will be happy. I’d just like to thank all my amazing friends and family who have been patient with me and shown nothing but encouragement and support throughout my journey so far. I now have a beautiful god daughter, and I want her to grow up knowing she is beautiful and can be anything she wants to be. I have an amazing support system and I couldn’t be more grateful.”
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You can find out more about Michaela at her blog www.cardifforniagurl.co.uk.
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embroidered in to the fabric , the pin up model who had inspired my designs. This love and passion grew so much that when it came to college choices in chool for some people is a 2007, I knew I wanted to take a fashion place that holds bad or good course. I was fortunate that my local memories. I was constantly college also had a dedicated creative bullied and taunted for my department that taught a fashion weight yet, I still loved to attend classes. and clothing BTEC diploma. I really I have the creative department to started to shine and my confidence and thank for that. As soon as I stepped knowledge grew. I was never afraid to in to comprehensive school in 2002, be myself and soon learnt my passions and in to the textiles room I mapped grew in other directions from designing. out the path I was going to take in my I chose to attend university in 2009, career. Pictures of Vivienne Westwood applying for their fashion promotion creations were strung across the walls, course. I felt the course would allow to and seeing her no nonsense attitude me progress and gave amazing job explode through her clothing, inspired prospects at the end of my studies. This me to do the same. is where I had to start fighting barriers. When it came to art or textiles lessons I was inactively encouraged to focus on I had a chance to escape and let my plus size for many years. When it came imagination run wild. I didn’t have to to my third year I was given creative worry about the taunts about my size control of my projects and I really and weight, I could simply be me. pushed my ideas in the direction of plus Teachers were incredibly supportive of size fashion, focusing mainly on that myself and encouraged me to create one side of the fashion industry. Idea garments I could wear. Of course I after idea I worked on projects based had to buy ready-made patterns, but on promotions for plus size brands, I’ll never forget the first item I made. even creating my own company and A swing skirt in polka dot material ethos. Through this research I got in with the letters spelling Bettie Page contact with industry professionals who
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at the time, I defnitely didn’t realise how big the industry was going to take off in the up and coming years. Having these contacts was vital in what would happen next. I approached each contact asking for internships. Within any sector of the fashion industry work experience is a must. I knew I still I really pushed had a long way to go but with the my ideas in the contacts I had, direction of plus and the buzz size fashion, surrounding plus focusing mainly on size ever growing that one side of the I knew I had to take the chance fashion industry. of securing an opportunity. Anna Scholz, my now boss was the first company to offer me that opportunity to shine. A three month internship, which would take me back to using some design and pattern cutting knowledge. Anna was someone who I had looked up to and researched throughout my education. A brand who I had aspired to own and wear. After my time there I then moved on
to a three month internship with New Look Inspire. I was working alongside the buying team there. It was very admin based and very fast paced. In the three months there I spotted so much stock that had gone through the buying process on to the shop floor within weeks. I learnt so much from actually being in a working environment and gained so much more knowledge and experience. I was fortunate that my hard work paid off and I was offered a chance to interview for a job with Anna Scholz. October just gone was my two year anniversary with the Anna Scholz team. I am currently the web shop manager and copywriter, as well as looking after other parts such as press. It’s a rewarding job that I love. I mean who else can say they work alongside someone who they’ve admired for years? Alongside my education and my career I’ve kept a blog that documents my journey. It’s something that has given me even more confidence and has helped me gain the greatest support. I have met people who have inspired me and can call some pretty amazing bloggers friends. I feel extremely lucky that my hard work has paid off. I often think back to my younger self who could only dream of the opportunities I have been given. A lot of hard work and dedication really does pay off. My story though has taught me to be unapologetic for who I am, this being because I have managed to get to where I want to be just by being myself. If you have a dream whatever it may be don’t think it’s unachievable. Don’t let your size, shape, ethnicity stop you. Just be you and chase that dream.”
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WHY PLUS IS ANYTHING BUT EQUAL ...AND I’M NOT GRATEFUL. WRITTEN BY BETTY PAMPER
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ratitude, it’s a beautiful thing. Recognising your blessings and seeing value in even small positive actions is a brilliant habit. Which is why it makes me sad to state that recently I have been feeling rather ungrateful indeed. Bitter, in fact, positively mutinous. What has triggered this petulance? The use of so called “size acceptance” in fashion campaigns which are anything but. It’s been a slow burn, brands occasionally using a curvier model in amongst the more traditional Amazonian size zero lines ups, patting themselves on the back at how progressive they are whilst still presenting a beauty ideal which for the majority of plus size women may as well be from another planet. It’s such a cop out that quite honestly it barely warranted a mention. However something more insidious has started to happen which does warrant a mention, which did
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make myself and many, many others sit up and take notice. I’m talking about plus size fashion labels making diversity into a campaign, rinsing as much publicity and profile raising as possible from this concept whilst still very much only showing representations of what can only be described as “Good fats” What is a “Good fat”? Well to my mind usually it’s a white, able bodied size 16-18 (often very tall) with (and this is the most important bit) chub distribution in all the right places. Yep - no visible belly outline, no triple chins and always without fail an “hour glass” shape. You see someone, somewhere decided that to be a bit “curvy” is fine, it’s womanly, it’s soft and sexy but once this curviness changes into out and out fatness, perhaps with less waist definition, or god forbid big upper arms or breasts which aren’t high and firm it then becomes unmarketable-
“THEY ARE PLAYING THE RETAIL EQUIVALENT OF “I WANT TO SLEEP WITH YOU BUT LET IT BE OUR SECRET”
nobody wants to see that apparently. Except perhaps they do. I know I do and being told that this “Good fat” representation is hugely progressive and I should be grateful makes me feel angry. Two companies who have exemplified this in recent times have been Lane Bryant with their Plusisequal campaign and Evans who promoted their #stylehasnosize slogan at UK Plus Size Fashion Week. Both companies who make clothes for plus size women of all shapes and sizes (and I would imagine do not turn away customers based on whether they are in the “Good fat” category ) still chose to use models who were all at the lower end of plus size despite selling ranges which go up to a size 32. Whilst I may take little notice of regular brands pulling these kind of stunts, its utterly depressing to see companies whose core customer base are women
who are not catered to by most fashion labels not wanting to be associated with them because they have been drinking from the “fashion model industry standards” cup again. Yes, we have all heard the
arguments that the modelling industry has its own laws, its own “standards” which are all based around sample sizes and that we should all just shut up, but as a plus size woman who spends money with these companies it leaves me feeling they are playing the retail equivalent of “I want to sleep with you but let it be our secret”. We are like the fat girlfriend who never gets introduced to the other half’s family because whilst they enjoy the benefits of hanging with the fat chick they don’t want to publicly acknowledge it.
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“THEY SEND THE MESSAGE THAT STYLE DOES INDEED HAVE A SIZE, AND A SHAPE AND AN ETHNICITY AND IT’S NOT ONE MANY PLUS SIZE WOMEN CAN RELATE TO.”
You can read more about Betty over at her blog pampersand curves.com.
Its disrespectful, it’s rude and it’s anything but progressive. I am not saying that plus size clothing companies shouldn’t use models who are at the lower end of plus because that is also being judgemental about a body type. Women who fall into the size 16-18 category deserve to see the clothes on a shape and size they relate to, but I also want to see clothes modelled by women from the upper size categories, women who don’t have flat tummies, who maybe have big hammy arms like my own, women who like me have chunky necks that regularly pop shirt collar buttons. Only then will I be grateful. Until then these campaigns just appear cynical. They send the message that style does indeed have a size, and a shape and an ethnicity and it’s not one many plus size women can relate to and that’s one hashtag I can’t get behind.” Do you feel strongly about this? Let us know your thoughts at hello@bgpmagazine.co.uk and be featured in our next issue!
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Feline Frenzy
Purrrfect for Cat Lovers!
L-R: CAT SOCKS FROM ACCESSORIZE // CATWOMAN BISCUIT FROM BISCUITEERS BAKING // CAT PENCIL CASE, £2 FROM TIGER STORES // BEADED CAT EARS FROM M&CO // CAT MASK, £2 FROM PRIMARK // CAT EAR FUR CLIP, £15 FROM DUNE // CAT WALL CLOCK, £14.99 FROM GETTINGPERSONAL.CO.UK // CAT NECKLACE, £19.95 FROM LITTLE MOOSE CAMDEN MARKET // FELINE TOTE BAG, £2 FROM TIGER STORES
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BEHIND THE LENS...
Meet Kitty Wood, 27, plus size blogger, YouTuber and fashion photographer.
WHAT INSPIRED YOU TO START PLUS SIZE BLOGGING? Discovering amazing plus size bloggers and inspiring babes on the internet. I found Jessica Luxery on tumblr and felt so inspired, they are so body positive and are totally fearless when it comes to how they present themselves. I then started looking at people who focus on fashion more, and found Nancy of Sugar, Darling? and decided I wanted in! I hadn’t ever really been into fashion, I’d always been scared to experiment, and blogging has really helped push my sense of style and encourage me to try different looks I never would have before. HAVE YOU ALWAYS BEEN INTERESTED IN PHOTOGRAPHY? I started taking photos in 2007, so it’s been a big part of my life for a long time now. I always loved art, but sucked at drawing and painting, so picking up a
camera seemed like an obvious choice because I felt like I had an eye for it, but needed something I could learn. I started out taking photos of my friends, then evolved into working with models and designers from there. WHAT DO YOU LOVE MOST ABOUT COLLABORATING WITH PLUS SIZE FASHION DESIGNERS AND MODELS? Being able to combine plus size fashion with my photography is amazing. There is so little diversity in the art and fashion world, and to be able to introduce different people to it is a wonderful feeling. I think being a plus size woman, I know what it feels like to not see yourself in the media, and I want to be a part of changing that. My philosophy for my photography has always been that I wanted to present a version of reality. Obviously a photo is styled, and lighting changes how people look, but I try to show real people. I won’t edit skin, remove
scars or stretchmarks, change someone’s figure, and I think people involved in the plus size community really get that, and don’t want to be presented as anything other than what they really are. I’ve met a lot of really wonderful people because of the plus size community. WHAT ARE YOUR PLANS FOR THE FUTURE? More of everything! I recently started a YouTube channel and have been really enjoying that (search for Kitty Rambles A Lot), more blogging, and more photography. I want to work with more plus size bloggers as a photographer, so don’t be afraid to get in touch! I’m hoping in the next year to attend more events and travel more, I just want to meet lots of people and adventure as much as possible! And of course, I’m getting married next year which is the big plan for next year!
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Oversized Scarf in Herringbone, £18.00, from Asos Knitted Bobble Hat, £15.00, Look Again Navy Boyfriend Jacket, £25, Yours Clothing Creme Basic Top, £TBA, Elvi Blue Denim Midwash Pear Fit Skinny Jeans, £30, Evans
Goes with everything!
One thing we have learnt about winter fashion is that layering is a fantastic way to accept the winter but still look on point. Combining several differents patterns and textures gives your outfit more depth and individuality, whilst providing you with some extra warmth, and even better, a reason to buy more clothes! We suggest wearing some plain, neutral clothing and layering it with a snuggly, patterned scarf! Take a peek at these gorgeous ankle boots with that funky plaid-fringe trim! We love it! Sole Diva Fringe Ankle Boots, £60.00, from Simply Be
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Plus Size Mermaid’s Slogan Tshirt, £12.00, from MissGuided
The grunge life has to be lived at least once by every girl, and black is always a winner when it comes to clothing, we love this tee and ripped denim look.
Butterfly by Matthew Williamson, £24.00, from Debenhams
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Wide Fit Chunky Biker Boot, £25.00, from Matalan
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Spice Floppy Hat, £29.00, from Accessorize
Jersey Polo Neck Jumper (Black), £12.99, from Bon Prix
Red Herring Grey Fringed Shoulder Bag, £25.00, from Debenhams
If you’re a fan of all things seventies and truly love this eclectic decade, and love everything from bell bottom jeans, peasant shirts, and high-waisted pants, then you will be feeling sexy and free, true to the era, in this cute outfit. With this retro dress and a warm polo underneath, teamed with a cute floppy hat, a fringed bag and knee highs, everyone will be looking your way in no time!
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Plus Size Grey Faux Fur Gilet, £29.99, from New Look Plus
Drape your body in faux fur for that glamorous look we are seeing everywhere, making it the warmest trend of 2015! Abigail Woven Wrap Front Blouse, £20.00, from Boohoo
Mono Treggings, £24.00, DP Curve
Brown Faux Fur Shoulder Bag, Price TBA, from Wallis Black Suede Wedge Ankle Boots, £18, Primark
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The perfect LBD for any occassion Callie Thorpe wears Ronen Chen Black Jersey Dress, £94, Evans
Embellished Oval Earrings, £7.99, TK Maxx
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Wide Fit Black Glitter Heel Sandals, £29.99, New Look
Black Cape Chiffon Dress, £30, Evans // Gold Sparkle Key Hole Skater Dress, £38, Dorothy Perkins Curve
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MEET TH E D ES IG N ER BGP Magazine meets plus size designer Lerato Makwe, from South African fashion brand Popzen Doll.
Tell us a little about yourself! My name is Lerato Makwe - a plus model, creative designer and motivational speaker from South Africa. Born 19 November 1987 raised by a single parent. I have an 11 year old son. I’ve been in the plus size industry for almost 6 years; I love fashion it’s been in my blood since day one and I feel good dressing plus size women. Have you always been interested in fashion? Thinking back, not really. When I was young I used to dream of being a ballet dancer but when I grew up I fell in love with fashion, but unfortunately I didn’t have the finances
to study a fashion designing so I took an alternative course. When did Popzen Doll begin? Popzen Doll started in 2010, informally, where I only catered for family and close friends until I got demands from word of mouth that people would love to a hold of my collection. What inspired you to work in the plus size industry? The realization that plus size fashion wasn’t as impacting as it is now and the fact that it was hard to get a hold of. How does the plus size market in Africa differ to the UK? I think the United Kingdom plus size market acknowledges the plus size industry, within the African continent it is not acknowledged as much. What inspired your collection? The different cultures and styles in South Africa. The different patterns every culture portrays with their traditional wear. What is your favorite piece? The blue and white Daisy D, it is made with Shweshwe patterns. It represents elegance and classiness. What do you see for the future of Popzen Doll? I see it becoming an international brand. With boutiques around New York, UK and many more cities around the world.
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The show opened with Letitia George from BBC’s The Voice, with an amazing rendition of ‘I Feel Good’, which raised the roof and got the night off to a brilliant start. Other performers included Bethany Churcher, who blew us away with an emotional performance of Emelie Sande’s Read All About It. Her performance really reminded us of just how talented she truly is. Ashleigh Owen was hysterical, and had the audience in fits of laughter with her amazing act. Chiara Aprea and Jeff Brazier did an amazing job of presenting the awards, with their charm and professional manner. Jeff was so genuine
Congratulations to all of the winners at this year’s British Plus Size Awards! BEST CELEBRITY FEMALE Lisa Riley BEST CELEBRITY MALE Peter Kay BEST MODEL Bishamber Das BEST ENTERTAINER The Honeybuns BEST BURLESQUE PERFORMER Kiki DeVille BEST HIGH STREET RETAILER Yours Clothing BEST ONLINE RETAILER
and friendly, we couldn’t help but fall in love with him. Chiara looked drop dead gorgeous on stage, and was so inspiring. Everyone deserved their awards, and there is no doubt that they were happy and grateful to receive them! Although we didn’t win Best Magazine this year, we had some amazing competition and we think Slink deserved the title! Some of the other titles included Best Celebrity Male/Female, Best Accessories Range, Best Fashion Blog, Best Swimwear Range, and many more (you can read the list of winners on their website). We also met Tom Seals and his band, they were such lovely guys and all amazing musicians! Everybody loved
Curvelesque’s burlesque act, and Jo Frost gave us a spectacular rendition of ‘Pearl’s a Singer’ – boy it was good! The night ended with a fab performance from Britain’s Got Talent’s plus size girl band, The Honeybuns. The lineup was insane, and we can’t wait to see who is on board for next year! One of our favourite aspects of the evening was the all round, body-positive atmosphere. It is so empowering to see everyone having a great time with like-minded individuals, in a space of support and encouragement. It’s a rare occurrence that a vast amount of members of the plus-size industry are able to come together, and we were so proud to be a part of it. We are so excited for next year! Visit the BPSA website at britishplussizeawards.co.uk for more information on how you can be a part of the British Plus Size Awards 2016.
ASOS BEST SWIMWEAR RANGE Simply Be BEST FOOTWEAR RANGE Evans BEST ACCESSORIES RANGE Daisy and Eve BEST BRIDAL RANGE Edith and Winston BEST LINGERIE BRAND Elomi BEST MENSWEAR RANGE Jacamo BEST DESIGNER Anna Scholz BEST SUPERMARKET RANGE George at Asda BEST FASHION EVENT UKPSFW BEST MAGAZINE Slink BEST NEW BLOG Curves ‘n’ Curls BEST FASHION BLOG Pampers and Curves BEST BLOGGER Georgina Horne BEST PERSON IN BUSINESS
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HOLLIE & KATIE In October, BGP Magazine met up with the lovely Hollie from award winning blog Pretty Big Butterflies, and Katie, who owns the fun and inspiration blog Toodaloo Katie, for a 70’s inspired photoshoot. The shoot itself was so much fun, we loved the fashion provided by fashion forward brands Elvi and New Look, and the girls looked stunning! We absolutely loved working with this gorgeous pair, and hope to work with them again in the future.
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Elvi - Black Polo Neck - £25.00 Suedette Broomstick Skirt - £55.00 Faux Fur Gilet - £69.00 New Look – Wide Fit Rust Suedette Button Side Platform Block Heels - £24.99 Red Curved Studded Saddle Bag - £12.99 Gold 70’s Agate Slice Necklace £9.99
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Elvi - Black Polo Neck - £25.00 New Look – Plus Size Blue Authentic Ripped Knee Skinny Jeans - £24.99 (HOLLIE) Elvi – Blue Denim Jeggings - £35.00 (KATIE) Elvi - Suedette Fringe Jacket - £65.00 New Look – Wide Fit Tan Metal Trim Block Hell Ankle Boots - £29.99
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New Look - Plus Size Rust Hanky Hem Vest - £7.99New Look - Navy Bootcut Jeans - £14.99 New Look - Yellow Fringe Blanket Wrap £17.99 New Look – Wide Fit Tan Metal Trim Block Hell Ankle Boots - £29.99 New Look - Burgundy Layered Fringed Shopper Bag - £24.99 New Look – Gold 70’s Agate Slice Necklace £9.99
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Winter Warmers
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Butternut Squash Soup 1 medium butternut squash 1 ½ pints vegetable broth (or chicken stock) 1 medium onion 2 cloves garlic olive oil 1 oz butter 1 teaspoon cumin seeds 2 teaspoons red pepper flakes 3 tablespoons milk teaspoon sea salt teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
Method: Pre-heat oven to about 180 degrees. Cut squash into quarters, arrange in a baking tray and drizzle with olive oil. Sprinkle the with chilli flakes, cumin seeds, and salt & pepper, then roast in oven for 40-50 minutes. Once the squash is cooked through, leave to cool then peel off the skin. In a pan, heat the butter on a medium heat, then sweat the garlic and onions until clear and soft. Pour in the stock and simmer gently then add in the chunks of squash. Simmer gently for five minutes, then blitz with a blender or liquidiser until smooth. Return to the pan, and if it’s too thick add a couple of tbsp milk. Serve with cream for an extra indulgent treat!
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Apple Crumble Beef Bourguignon 1.5kg/3lb5oz chuck beef or braising steak, cut into 5cm/2in pieces 3 tbsp olive oil 1 large carrot, peeled and cut into chunks 1 large onion, peeled and cut into chunks 2 sticks celery, rough chopped 2 bottles red burgundy wine 2 sprigs fresh thyme 1 head garlic, cut in half horizontally 4 bay leaves 50g/2oz unsalted butter 225g/8oz whole piece of smoked bacon or pancetta 450g/1lb shallots, peeled 2 tbsp plain flour 375g/12oz chestnut mushrooms 290ml/½ pint fresh beef stock 5 tbsp brandy Freshly chopped flatleaf parsley
Method: Tip beef into bowl with bay leaves, thyme, wine and some pepper, cover and leave in fridge overnight. Heat oven to 200C/180C fan/gas 6. Place colander over bowl and strain the marinated meat, keep the wine. Heat half the oil in frying pan, then brown the meat. Put on plate once browned. When all the meat is browned, pour wine into frying pan and bubble to release any caramelised bits from pan. Heat rest of the oil in a large casserole and fry carrots and chopped onions until they start to colour. Stir in flour for 1 min, then add tomato purée. Add beef and any juices, the wine from frying pan and rest of the wine and herbs. Season and bring to simmer. Give a good stir, cover. Put in oven, bake for 2 hrs until meat is really tender. Heat butter in a frying pan, add bacon and pearl onions. Sizzle for 10 mins til bacon starts to crisp and onions soften and colour. Add mushrooms, fry for 5 mins, then stir into stew and heat for 10 mins. Serve with chopped parsley.
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For the crumble: 300g/10½oz plain flour, sieved pinch of salt 175g/6oz unrefined brown sugar 200g/7oz unsalted butter, cubed at room temperature Knob of butter for greasing For the filling: 450g/1lb apples, peeled, cored and cut into 1cm/½in pieces 50g/2oz unrefined brown sugar 1 tbsp plain flour 1 pinch of ground cinnamon
Method: Preheat the oven to 180C/350F/Gas 4. Place flour and sugar in a bowl and mix. Rub cubes of butter at a time into the mixture. Keep rubbing til it’s like breadcrumbs. Place the fruit in a bowl and sprinkle sugar, flour and cinnamon. Stir well (but don’t break up the fruit)! Butter a 24cm/9in dish. Spoon fruit mixture into base, then sprinkle the crumble on top. Bake in oven for 40-45 mins until the crumble is browned and the fruit mixture bubbling. Serve with thick cream or custard.
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Faliraki, Greece 8th - 15th June 2016 The ultimate size friendly holiday with like-minded people. We take over a hotel complex for the week, we have our own promoted party nights, pub crawls, spa day, sightseeing on the island, water sports, tours and relaxing by the pool or beach. Action or Relaxation – you choose your very own adventure at the Aegean Sea, tour the close by exotic beaches & islands or simply enjoy the sunshine and spectacular views chatting to new friends! Our hotel is a 5-minute walk from Faliraki Beach, the hotel offers rooms and selfcatering studios with private balcony. Facilities include a swimming pool complete with pool-side snack bar, sunbeds and umbrellas. Satellite TV, kettle and fridge are included in each of the air conditioned en-suite rooms. Twin, double and triple rooms available. You will have a team of 18-30 stone holiday reps there ready to ensure you have an amazing holiday!
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An alternative winner’s story... Michelle Carter tells BGP Magazine why winning isn’t eveything...
I first entered Miss Plus Size UK with the main purpose of meeting like minded women and having some fun along the way, winning would be an extra bonus. Having been a bigger girl for most of my life, I have always been made to feel slightly inferior to my slimmer counterparts. Intentionally or not, some of those closest to me have often made me feel less than worthwhile simply due to my size. As time went on, I found myself wanting to take part in this pageant, not just to meet people, but to help inspire other people who may have been made to feel the same way because of their size, or indeed any other way they deem fit to live their life. The whole experience was a one off, from meeting incredible girls at boot camp, doing mock catwalks (which terrified me), to
approaching the finals and taking part in the final show. I can get up and talk in front of people without a problem, but if it’s anything else, I’m a bag of nerves. The journey that I and the other girls went through was very individual, as everyone had their own reasons for taking part. For me, I want to advocate that it is ok to like and love yourself - in fact, you are allowed to be fat and happy, and that being fat and beautiful are not mutually exclusive. The whole experience from start to finish has been one of selfdiscovery, one of understanding who I am and what I want to achieve within this community. No, I did not place in the finals, however I did gain confidence, and even walked on a catwalk in next to nothing in the swimwear round; something I could never have imagined doing. I hope that
I also made my friends and family proud of me. Since the finals, I have been working with Taking Shape and Apples and Pears, and I have big plans for the New Year. I know that all those who were crowned will do their utmost to spread positive vibes throughout their own communities, but I also know that myself and those who didn’t win have also gained a lot from entering this event and have already, and will continue to, work with and avidly support the plussize community. No, I did not place, but this is not the end. It was simply a platform from which only good things can come. I am so glad that I took part in Miss Plus Size UK. ‘Be You, Be Bold and Be True to yourself.’ Follow my blog at www.myfatandi.wordpress.com
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THE COLOUR OF CHRISTMAS W
e tend to light more candles at Christmas than any other time of the year. I love candlelight, not only because it is very flattering to those of us of a certain age, ahem, but also for the sense of magic and wonder they create. Did you know that every candle colour has its own meaning? No? Well let me “enlighten” you…
White is the purest colour and promotes heightened spirituality and protection. It is a feminine energy as it symbolises the full moon. It is used for enlightenment, purification, sincerity, protection and cleansing. Pink is the colour of femininity and symbolises heartfelt love and self-love. It boosts romance, affection, emotional balance and a caring nature. Green, as well as bringing prosperity, abundance, good luck and success, can also protect against greed and jealousy. It also relates to fertility, nurturing and ambition. Orange candles recharge depleted energy and restore vitality. Ideal for boosting self-confidence and optimism and therefore attracting good fortune. Brown is often used as protection from psychic attack and can also help with being more decisive and proves beneficial as a study aid. Candles are often used in the casting of spells. If you believe using spells are a bit “woo woo”, think of it as the simple act of stating your intention, your wish, and putting it “out there.” Using a symbolic coloured candle helps emphasise and give credence to your intent. Christmas is even more wonderful if we have
someone special to share it with. Because of the plethora of parties, work dos, and events, it also presents any unattached ladies with more opportunities to meet that special someone. Want to help things along? If so, I have a simple candle spell ritual to share with you. Firstly, always use an unused candle that has never been lit before and, if possible, made from beeswax. As pink is the colour associated with Venus the Goddess of love, select a pink candle, and a candle of your favourite colour to represent you. Play a CD or tape of romantic music that means something to you personally but NOT one that you associate with a past love. It is important you don’t allow anyone specific to enter your mind while doing this spell. Light the candle you have chosen to represent you and place it on a sheet of white cardboard. Light a pink candle to represent your new love and draw a heart around the pink candle using a red marker pen or crayon. Every day, for one week, relight the candles in the evening and move them slightly closer together so that, on the last day, the candles are as close together as possible.
Wishing you all a very merry, blessed Christmas, and a happy, healthy, prosperous 2016! For a “heads up” on 2016, visit our website to purchase a 12 month Tarotscope email reading. Quote ”BGP” to receive a 10% discount until 31st January 2016. A perfect personal, unique gift. Cathi x
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What’s coming up... from UK Plus Size Events BIG GIRLS PARADISE - www.biggirlsparadise.com BGP LONDON Saturday 16th January 2016 At The Slug And Lettuce, 25 St Mary Axe, London EC3A 8AA Doors open 8.30pm – 2.30am | Tickets £12.50 before 10pm and £15 after CURVY CONVENTION 2016 - www.curvyconvention.co.uk Saturday 21st May 2016 Now taking vendor and catwalk bookings More info coming soon 18-30 STONE HOLIDAYS - www.18to30stoneholidays.co.uk Faliraki, Greece, 8th - 15th June 2016 Full details available at www.18to30stoneholidays.co.uk
ON BEHALF OF EVERYONE HERE AT BGP MAGAZINE, WE WISH YOU ALL A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!
ADVERTISE WITH BGP MAGAZINE Advertising in BGP Magazine is a fantastic way to reach your prime target audience. We are now offering advertising on our website, which come in 1 month, 2 month and 3 month packages. We also offer featured blog posts, guest blog posts and more. If you are interested in finding out more about our advertising packages, running a competition, featuring on our website or taking part in our fashion shoots, you can contact us at advertise@bgpmagazine.co.uk.
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