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EDITOR'S NOTE Help Your Child Love School, Be Prepared

It’s back-to-school time in Alabama, so parents, kids and even Birmingham Parent are taking a look at all things back to school. This month we’ve got a great story you don’t want to miss by writer Christina Katz about teaching your child to “love school.” It’s tough. Some of us parents may not have enjoyed school ourselves. Perhaps you yourself don’t have the favorite teacher this year, or the time to put in to the classroom as a volunteer that you’d like to. But Katz explains how a “positive” outlook from parents is contagious to the children (while conversely a negative outlook

will likely also be adopted by the kids). A love of school can also foster a love of learning. Check out Amanda Pritchard’s piece on equipping pre-kindergarten students with the right tools to foster a lifelong love of learning. It certainly starts early, but it’s never too late to catch the learning bug. What about going to high school for the first time? Check out Barbara Dianis’s piece on transitioning to high school. She offers tips to help you and your teen work together in the new world of high school, as grades get more and more important here. And while you helping your child love school, don’t miss the many resources in our EDUCATION & ENRICHMENT GUIDE 2014. Whether you need academic tutoring, a private school, after school activities, a dentist or many other things, this is your go-to list for back to school resources. My kids are grown, but they are still in school – in college. Don’t know if you’ve noticed our new column, “College Knowledge,” written each month by author Mandee Heller Adler. This month’s column is “Tips to Start the High School Year off Right.” Here’s to a great new 20142015 school year! Thanks for reading!

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TEACH YOUR CHILD TO

ENJOY SCHOOL Transitioning to

HIGH SCHOOL

Is Your Child's PLAYGROUND

SAFE?

Well House OFFERS HOPE for 27 Million Raising a PRINCESS Cruising DISNEY STYLE

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FOR THE LOVE OF LEARNING TEACH YOUR CHILD TO ENJOY SCHOOL

features

WELL HOUSE Hope for 27 Million

SHOWER THEM WITH LAUGHTER Seven Fun and Easy Baby Shower Games

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RAISING A PRINCESS A PAGE IN A BOOK: Finding the Ordinary in the Extraordinary TATTOOS: Piercings & Dye, Oh My! TRAVEL: Crusing Disney Style

departments

Education & Enrichment Guide How to Pack a Healthy Lunchbox

Editor’s Note Help Your Child Love School, Be Prepared

Tips to Start the High School Year Oﬀ RIght

Parenting with Dr. Friedman

First Class PreK Equipping Students with the Right Tools to Foster a Lifelong Love of Learning

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How Safe is Your Child’s Day Care Playground?

26 HOW SAFE IS YOUR CHILD'S DAY CARE PLAYGROUND

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School News August Pull Out Calendar August Expanded Calendar of Events Short Stuﬀ Ask the Specialist: Death by Children: Old Superman

parenting

Parenting with Dr. Friedman

My 15-year-old daughter has a friend whose mother is very lazy. She doesn’t clean her house or cook very often but she has her two teenage daughters trained to do what the mother should be doing. The girls go to school and are both good students while the mother doesn’t work. In fact, she does not do much besides eat, sleep and watch movies. The amazing thing is that she has really good kids who keep the house up nicely. They do most of the grocery shopping, the cleaning and the laundry. When mothers of their friends comment to them that they are doing their mother’s work, they take offense and defend her. They say that she is preparing them for life and giving them skills. Why do they not resent a mother who does so little for them? ANSWER: Children don’t get to choose their parents and they are dependent upon them. Even these children who do much of the housework still need the emotional and financial support this mother seems to provide to them. As one child with a problematic father told me, “He may be a jerk but he is the only father I have.” These children do not have another mother so they make the best of their situation. They bonded to her when they were too young to be critical. That bonding, which is also called love, is carrying them through. Once a person has decided to follow a particular path of behavior or has made a decision, the process of “cognitive dissonance” sets in. This is a term psychologists use to describe the mostly unconscious rationalization that occurs to justify the decision made. A person feels discomfort when what he already believes or knows is different from new information he receives. If the new knowledge contradicts what he has already committed to knowing, he is likely to resist the new information. If the new facts are humiliating, the person is not likely to admit that the new information is valuable or true. This mother must be giving her children some love, or she

must have done so in the past. Without this these children would not be so well behaved and cooperative. Of course it is also possible that they are receiving the emotional goodies that they need from another family member such as grandparents or their father. On the other hand, children who have been harshly disciplined can also be helpful and respectful. They do this out of fear of consequences. Guilt and fear can be powerful, if not healthy, motivators. However, a mother who is “lazy” rarely has the stamina to be a harsh disciplinarian. It takes energy to parent. Temperament plays a role in determining whether the children will be resentful or take up the slack for the mother’s shortfall. While some children rebel at adversity, others seem to rise to the occasion and take charge as these girls are doing. Some children seem to thrive on being needed in a tangible way. They not only take on the responsibility, they actually seem to thrive on it. Some children are more resilient than others are. These girls may retain their “glass half full attitude” or they may become more resentful as they grow older.

Vivian K. Friedman Ph. D. is a child and family psychologist at UAB, Department of Psychiatry. Send questions for response in this column to Viviankf@gmail.com. No personal replies are sent.

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Channeling her passion for music, Ayanna composes CDs of positive and uplifting music with the goal of showing youth that music can promote positive messages and create change. Ayanna wrote, composed, produced, recorded, marketed and distributed two albums – Freedom and LIFE – and then set out to perform her music live throughout the community.

Winners are chosen based on initiative, leadership, generosity and project benefits and outcome. Each regional-level winner qualifies for one of Kohl’s 10 national scholarships. National winners each receive a total of $10,000 in scholarships, and Kohl’s will donate $1,000 to a nonprofit organization on each national winner’s behalf. In total, Kohl’s will recognize more than 2,300 young volunteers with nearly $400,000 in scholarships and prizes. Since the program began in 2001, Kohl’s has recognized more than 22,000 kids, including the 2014 winners, with more than $4.3 million in scholarships and prizes. The Kohl’s Cares®Scholarship Program is part of Kohl’s Cares®, Kohl’s philanthropic program focused on improving the lives of children. For more information on the Kohl’s Cares® Scholarship Program visit kohlskids.com.

Tolbert Attends Girls State Jessica M. Tolbert recently represented Homewood High School at the 2014 session of American Legion Auxiliary Alabama Girls State, held on the campus of the University of Alabama. For one week, she was a citizen of an imaginary state and took part in the political life of her community, primarily through campaigning for and electing city, county, and state offices. She was elected attorney general. She learned the operation of government by Jessica M. Tolbert was was the recipient of sevparticipating in party eral academic awards at Homewood High School caucuses and through at the end of the 2013-14 school year, and selection for Girls State was among her honors. the election process. The daughter of Tyrone and Miriam Tolbert, Jessica was selected to attend the Girls State Program because of her outstanding leadership. Sponsored by the American Legion Auxiliary, Alabama Girls State is a laboratory of practical government, and a personal application of the duties, responsibilities, and privileges of being an American. In her high school and local community, Miss Tolbert is also involved with Congregation Beth Hallel Birmingham, Homewood High School Track and Field, debate team, Youth Leadership Development Program, National Honor Society, Teen Court, and American Legion Auxiliary.

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For the Love of Learning: TEACHING YOUR CHILD TO ENJOY SCHOOL

By Christina Katz

aising engaged students is not only the responsibility of the teachers and school administrators, but the job starts at home with every parent. You may

have anxiety, fears, or merely first-day jitters about your child going to school. But if you can muster up your courage and take a one-good-day-at-a-time approach, you will find that raising a child who loves school is easier than you might have imagined. Just follow these simple guidelines, keep your interactions with your school’s

employees constructive and upbeat, and watch the magic that occurs when your child loves learning.

SHARE TO PREPARE. Tell your child what you enjoyed about school. If your spouse enjoyed school, encourage him to share stories, too. But if you had a difficult time in school, share those stories with someone who is not your child. Talk to another adult about the ways you struggled, and how those struggles might color your expectations of what school will be like for your child. Get your fears and biases about school off your chest and let them go so you won’t unwittingly pass them on. Remember, your child is not you. That was then, this is now. STEP BACK. Some parents have trouble trusting that a school will care about their child as much as they do. And it’s true – teachers won’t treat your child like a parent would. They will probably expect more. And they will care about your child as educational professionals, who want to challenge your child so she can realize her potential, so let them do their jobs. Smart parents know that school is not just about academics. When your child is in school, she is learning how to be a member of a community. BE POSITIVE AND PROACTIVE. Try to find something to like about your school on a regular basis. If you don’t know what to like then you might not be aware enough. Have a working knowledge of the school layout. Introduce yourself to teachers on

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open-house days and meet the folks who work in the front office, including the principal. Make sure the teacher knows you are on her team. If you have a miscommunication or misunderstanding with a teacher or administrator, strive to work things out in a calm, proactive manner. Don’t hang on to negative perceptions or try to create negative consensus with other parents. Confident, secure parents seek solutions not squabbles. Put yourself in the teacher or administrator’s shoes before you pick up the phone or shoot off that e-mail. Remember, the way you would like to be treated is the way to behave, always, no matter how you feel in the heat of the moment.

GIVE WITHOUT STRINGS. Whether you work full time or not, there are typically two types of parent volunteers: those who willingly pitch in and help and those who don’t want to spend time at school but do it for their kids. Be honest about the kind of parent you are, so you can find ways to be a cheerful contributor to the school. If you like to pitch in, join the PTA or sign up to be a room parent. You will find plenty of opportunities to contribute, but do so without expectations of payoffs for your child based on your involvement. The benefits for your child come when you happily contribute, not when you use your position as an insider to create an ongoing list of how you would do things differently and better. Remember your role as a helper in the larger scheme of things. Be service-minded, looking for opportunities to match the school’s needs with what you have to offer. Do your best not to criticize parents who are less committed to volunteering than you, unless you wish to be judged back.

If you don’t want to spend a lot of time at school, your child could still benefit from seeing you at school once in a while, whether you enjoy volunteering or not. Break the school year up into three parts and try to pitch in to help or chaperone at least once each season. Don’t forget to get your spouse involved. Two reasonably involved parents are better than none. And don’t feel guilty about not being a parenting association volunteer. There are plenty of ways to contribute that don’t funnel through the PTA. Give money to financially support the programs of the PTA, if you can swing it. Then go to your child’s teacher when looking for ways to contribute in proximity to your child. No matter how you choose to contribute, when you give the way you want to give, you set a great example for your kids. Parents who invest energy cheerfully and proactively in their child’s school stand out in the crowd for all the right reasons, paving the way to success in school for all their children.

Christina Katz has always loved school and strives to pass this passion on to her daughter. She comes from an extended family of enthusiastic learners, teachers and educators. Her latest book is The Art of Making Time for Yourself, A Collection of Advice for Moms.

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TEN Transitioning to High School TIPS FOR By Barbara Dianis, MA ED

he transition from middle school studies to an early high school curriculum can be an exciting yet daunting experience for countless students. In the

transition, teenagers tend to realize that their study habits need an upgrade. However, not all ninth grade students know how to upgrade their scholastic systems and may find themselves falling behind in school for the first time. Here are 10 tips to successfully make that transition: PREPLAN A HOMEWORK AND STUDY TIME TO BEGIN THE SCHOOL YEAR. This helps students meet the scholastic increase of high school level studies. The plan should include additional study time even if the teen has study halls during their school day. The reason for this is some teens do not always effectively utilize their study hall sessions. TEENS ENTERING HIGH SCHOOL TYPICALLY NEED TO UPGRADE THEIR STUDY SKILLS to help them keep pace with their current curriculum. Teens benefit from reviewing the notes they take in each of their classes for at least five minutes a day. Reviewing the class notes taken will help them retain more core learning concepts and increase their ability to access the information on tests. PARENTS AND TEENS BENEFIT FROM CHECKING THE TEEN’S GRADES ONLINE TOGETHER several times a week. Parents who check their teen’s grades online show their adolescent they care about education. Also, if there are drops in their grades or missing assignments then educational solutions can be applied before their difficulty become a scholastic issue.

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EARLY HIGH SCHOOL STUDENTS WHO ARE PLANNING TO ATTEND COLLEGE need to be working on building their application resume. Teens may want to join an extracurricular club, sport or perform a few hours of community outreach for service hours. These activities are good to include in the college application resume, and can help teens find hobbies that they truly enjoy. TESTS AND QUIZZES BECOME AN IMPORTANT PART of the high school

academic experience and teens should add more study and preparation time to the system they used in middle school. Early high school students benefit from studying for tests and quizzes several days before they are given. Waiting until the day before a test may not be the best option for new high school student because of the increase in hard terms and general information. PARENTS SHOULD TRY AND COMMUNICATE WITH THEIR TEEN’S HIGH SCHOOL TEACHERS several times a year. According to a Bridgeland and Morison study conducted in 2006, one reason teens drop out of school is a “lack of parent engagement.” High school students who have parents communicate with the school are less likely to drop out.

AS SOON AS A STUDENT BEGINS TO SLIDE ACADEMICALLY, EDUCATIONAL SOLUTIONS SHOULD BE APPLIED to help the teen overcome their academic obstacles. All too often grade declines are not addressed early enough because the parent may feel it is a problem that will correct itself. It is generally better to address the problem early on, before the student grades begin to spiral downward. MAKE LEARNING FUN DURING HOMEWORK AND STUDY TIME. They can make the flash cards from their study material and make review time into a game show format using flash cards. PARENTS CAN HELP THEIR TEEN DEVELOP AN INTEREST IN LEARNING BY ASKING their teen to tell them three concepts they learned in their classes each day. This keeps parents involved and kids sharp!

TEENS TYPICALLY BENEFIT FROM REVIEWING FOR TESTS AND QUIZZES WITH A FRIEND in their class. Reviewing with one or more friends can add

Reviewing the class notes taken will help them retain more core learning concepts and increase their ability to access the information on tests. interest and fun to study and review time. When a student is asked to teach a core concept to another student they generally have an increase in their own understanding and better retain the core concepts.

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JOSEPH BRUNO MONTESSORI ACADEMY Our educational practices are built around the belief that children are born with the need to explore, discover and a strong desire to learn. We treat their curiosity and creativity with great care, allowing them to explore their interests from an early age. Lessons provided make learning exciting and stimulate desire to find out more. Lessons are given to small groups or individuals, so that they can understand the concepts presented. Our students are our first priority, and we take time to listen and help them find answers. Older students learn through seminars, lab experiments, and hands-on projects. Reading, research, and discussion are important parts of our curriculum. At Bruno Montessori Academy, we encourage our students to develop independence, responsibility, resourcefulness, and organizational skills. In the Lower Elementary, students learn to use individual work plans listing their weekly goals. When you visit JBMA, you see students working individually and cooperatively, enjoying the total learning experience. The enthusiasm must be seen to be believed! Children learn the importance of respect for one another and for their class environment. Our high expectations for the students teach them to set higher standards for themselves. JBMA currently serves toddlers to the 8th grade.

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Consider courses and teachers and decide if the choices are good. A student wants to be sufficiently challenged, but not overwhelmed. It’s important to take challenging courses, but it’s just as important that a student will do well in them. Now is the time to switch classes.

Look at the school’s clubs, activities, sports and classes. The beginning of the school year is the best time for exploring interests. Once a student decides what he wants to try, find out how to get involved in those organizations. If a student didn’t like what he was doing last year, make a change. Try something new.

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First Class PreK: EQUIPPING STUDENTS WITH THE RIGHT TOOLS TO FOSTER A LIFELONG LOVE OF LEARNING By Amanda Pritchard

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irst Class Pre-K, a division of the Alabama Department of Children’s Affairs Office of School Readiness, has developed a set of standards that allow pre-kindergarten students to thrive. Offering “effective, high quality early childhood experiences that prepare Alabama’s children for school success and lifelong learning,” First Class has seen outstanding accomplishments in the voluntary pre-K programs set up throughout the greater Birmingham area. Leeds city schools and several St. Clair County schools (Springville, Moody, Odenville and Margaret) along with various programs around the state are nationally recognized. “Our pre-K program is continuing to thrive,” says Lisa Shaddix, Leeds principal. “Our pre-K teachers and their assistants attended the annual Pre-K conference this summer. The pre-K classrooms have become a part of our overall school culture, participating in our PE classes, and specials such as art, music and story time.” Alabama pre-K programs are leading the nation and one of only four states in the U.S.

that meet all 10 of the quality benchmarks put in place by the National Institute for Early Education Research. “We saw great progress from the beginning to the end of school in all areas of social interaction, problem solving as well as academics,” says Jan Bailey, St. Clair County school improvement coordinator, pre-K director and textbook coordinator for K-5. “This progress motivated us to apply for more pre-K classrooms and we have added our sixth pre-K classroom this summer. “We will continue to apply and want to serve as many four-year-old children as possible. In fact, our first pre-K students will be entering the 6th grade and three-fourths of the class is above average to gifted students.” During the 2013-2014 school year, Gov. Robert Bentley toured Leeds Elementary School and announced that 93 grants were awarded to pre-K programs across the state, totaling $7.3 million. For 2014-2015 that number will increase, allowing 1,800 more four-year-olds to access these voluntary pre-K programs. A recent study conducted by the Public Affairs Re-

search Council of America (PARCA) determined students who attend high-quality pre-K programs are more likely to graduate from high school, attend college and make higher wages as adults than students who had not. Perhaps the most intriguing discovery in the PARCA study was that such quality programs closes the academic achievement gap between low-income children and their higher income peers by 25 percent. Chosen through a random lottery system, Leeds Elementary welcomes 36 pre-K students this year while St. Clair County readies for 105 students. “We have purchased a variety of technology devices which will be used in each classroom next year,” Shaddix says. “Each classroom will be equipped with SmartBoard technology, sets of iPads and we also purchased the Smart Interactive table.” “Our students thrive in the classroom and our goals for our students are for them to learn how to make good choices, problem solve and learn how to interact socially. The academics come easy with all that in place,” Bailey says.

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How Safe IS YOUR CHILD’S DAY CARE PLAYGROUND? does the center enforce these rules? What do other parents say? As a parent, you should know the factors that determine health and safety before enrolling. Your child’s well-being could be at risk. How does the child center measure up? According to the latest research from the U.S. Consumer Products Commission (CPSC), more than 200,000 children per year end up in hospitals because of playground related injuries. The vast majority involved falls or equipment failure, with a lesser percentage caused by hazards around the playground, collisions with others or equipment or becoming trapped in the equipment. The same research also found there were 40 deaths associated with playground equipment, with 6 the average age. Here are some things to consider as you check things out:

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arents know that outdoor exercise and playgrounds offer young children many benefits. Fresh air, exploring new games, forming friendships, learning creativity through play and solving their own problems are only a few of the pluses. When allowed to run and play, children gain freedom to express themselves. Energy is released. Attitudes improve. As a parent, you realize your child needs these opportunities, yet you are concerned about faculty equipment, improper surfaces and careless behavior by others, all of which could cause an accident or become a safety issue. Fortunately, today’s centers for children have guidelines and regulations that protect youngsters. But

reduced with the proper playground surface. This material should be soft and thick enough to lessen the impact if the child falls. Rubber mats allow children in wheelchairs to move about. Hard surfaces, such as concrete, asphalt and blacktop are unsafe; so is grass, soil and packedearth. Rain causes the area to become packed and lessens the capacity to soften a fall. Playgrounds that use shredded rubber, wood chips (avoid those containing chromate copper arsenate (CCA) treatment as they pose a potential health hazard). It is recommended that equipment up to 8 feet high contain loose-fill surface material. Remember, no surface materials are safe for equipment higher than 12 feet. Also, when you visit a playground, do you see broken glass? Twisted metal? Check the surroundings for broken fences or gates.

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PRESIDENTIAL JOKE DAY

U.S. COAST GUARD DAY

MIDDLE CHILD DAY

Movie and Market Day, 1-2:30pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library, Calera.

Lunch and Learn: the Buzz on Pollinators, 11:30am Birmingham Botanical Gardens.

LEFTHANDERS DAY

14 Devon Hind signs his book Run for your Life!, 7pm, Hoover Library.

Alabama Family Rights Association, 6pm, Hoover Public Library.

NATIONAL LIGHTHOUSE DAY

It is the last of the summer months.

Many cultures call this month the harvest month or the time of harvest.

August is a month of summer vacation and holiday for many children around the world.

Lunch and Learn: Porous, Permeable and Pervious, 11:30am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens.

The Islamic holiday of Ramadan runs from mid-July to mid-August.

Augustus renamed the month of Sextilis because many of his greatest triumphs occurred during this month.

Fun Facts about August

THURSDAY

August in the Northern Hemisphere is similar to February in the Southern Hemisphere.

WEDNESDAY

created the Julian calendar in 45 BC, two days were added giving the month 31 days. The month was later renamed Augustus in honor of the first emperor of Rome, Caesar Augustus.

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History: In the original Roman calendar the month of August was called Sextilis. This was because it was the sixth month of the year. Later, after January and February were added to the calendar, it became the eighth month of the year. At the time the month had 29 days. When Julius Caesar

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MONDAY

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NATIONAL RASPBERRY CREAM PIE DAY

FRIDAY

Bart’s Art Cart, 11am Birmingham Museum of Art.

Free Classes from Magic City Chess U, 10am-12pm, Birmingham Public Library, second ﬂoor.

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Homeschooling Workshop, 10am-3pm, Chelsea City Hall.

Pepper Place Market, 7am-12pm, Pepper Place.

$5 Fun Days, Birmingham Zoo.

Author Event: Lou Anders, 4-6pm, Barnes and Noble Booksellers at The Summit.

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SATURDAY

August 2014 HIGHLIGHTS

Children’s Dance Foundation Community Fest, 2-5pm, Children’s Dance Foundation.

LAZY DAY

Bart’s Art Cart, 11am, Birmingham Museum of Art.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family, 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. FREE.

$5 Fun Days, Birmingham Zoo.

SUNDAY

See the daily calendar of events in detail beginning on page 30.

SENIOR CITIZEN’S DAY

NATIONAL DOG DAY

Cuentos para Niños, 10:30am-11am, Pelham Library.

Neuroscience Café presents Schizophrenia: Lessons from the Clinic and the Laboratory 6:30pm, Hoover Library

JUST BECAUSE DAY

RACE YOUR MOUSE DAY

MORE HERBS, LESS SALT DAY

Chirps and Chips, 7-10pm, Birmingham Botanical Gardens.

Bart’s Art Cart, 11am Birmingham Museum of Art .

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family, 10am Birmingham Botanical Gardens.

Pepper Place Market, 7am-12pm, Pepper Place.

Bart’s Art Cart, 11am, Birmingham Museum of Art .

Fultondale Founder’s Day Festival, 10am5pm, Black Creek Park.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family, 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens.

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9 SATURDAY Author Event: Lou Anders 4-6pm, Barnes and Noble Booksellers at The Summit. Local author Lou Anders celebrates the debut of his novel Frostborn. 205-298-0665, http://store-locator.barnesandnoble.com/event/83245. FREE. $5 Fun Days Birmingham Zoo. Discounted $5 admission. www.birminghamzoo.com. Pepper Place Market 7am-12pm, Pepper Place. See Aug. 2.

The Alabama Family Rights Association will meet on Aug. 14 at Hoover Public Library regarding post-custody child rearing issues during the school year. 2 SATURDAY $5 Fun Days Birmingham Zoo. Discounted $5 admission. www.birminghamzoo.com. Pepper Place Market 7am-noon, Pepper Place. Pepper Place Market brings the best Alabama growers, food producers and artisans to Birmingham each week. Rain or shine! www.pepperplacemarket.com. FREE. Free Classes from Magic City Chess U 10am-noon, Birmingham Public Library, second ﬂoor. Learn to play or improve your play in these free classes. 205-8622018, http://magiccitychessu. wix.com/magiccitychessu. FREE. Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family

10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Pre-school children and their families go on a shape hunt with Anwen! Go through the garden hunting for shapes and discussing why plants grow that way. 205-5406642, www.freshairfamily.org. FREE. Bart’s Art Cart 11am, Birmingham Museum of Art. This drop-in art program for kids and families features a different theme from the galleries and an art activity each month. Stop by to make art with Bart. August: Folded Foil Fun. www. artsbma.org. FREE.

3 SUNDAY $5 Fun Days Birmingham Zoo. Discounted $5 admission. www.birminghamzoo.com.

5 TUESDAY Movie and Market Day 1-2:30pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library. Enjoy a family movie and then stop by Calera Farmer’s Market. 205-668-7200, http://cityofcalera.org. FREE. American Girl Summer Reading Bookmark Craft 4-6pm, American Girl Atlanta. Celebrate summer reading with American Girl! Decorate a bookmark and summer reading log to keep track of all the great books read. Includes a doll-sized poster to take home. 877-247-5223, www.americangirl.com/atlanta. FREE.

6 WEDNESDAY Lunch and Learn: Porous, Permeable and Pervious 11:30am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Discover beautiful

Homeschooling Workshop 10am-3pm, Chelsea City Hall. Considering homeschooling? Starting the homeschool journey? Need a refresher? Parents only. 205-201-0327, http:// homeschoolingworkshop0814. eventbrite.com. FREE. Free Classes from Magic City Chess U 10am-12pm, Birmingham Public Library, second ﬂoor. See Aug. 2. Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. A member of the Birmingham Botanical Gardens educational staff will take pre-school children and their families on a hands-on educational adventure through the gardens. 205-540-6642, www.freshairfamily.org. FREE. Bart’s Art Cart 11am Birmingham Museum of Art. See Aug. 2. $5 Fun Days Birmingham Zoo. Discounted $5 admission. www.birminghamzoo.com. Wake Up With the Animals Birmingham Zoo. Have you ever woken up to a lion’s roar?

Events may change after publication deadline; please phone ahead to conﬁrm important information. The deadline for submitting calendar items for the Sept. 2014 issue is Aug. 3. Mail calendar items to: Calendar, Birmingham Parent, 3590B Hwy 31 S #289, Pelham, AL 35124; fax to 987-7600; e-mail to calendar@BirminghamParent.com; or enter directly to the online calendar at www.birminghamparent.com. Entries added online after the print deadline will not appear in the print version. Information cannot be accepted over the phone. Birmingham Parent publishes a calendar 11 times a year. January events are included in the December issue. Guidelines: Birmingham Parent’s calendar is designed to be a resource and service to the community and our readers. Events which are open to the public, fund-raisers, free classes, etc., are events that may be included in our monthly calendar. We reserve the right to reject any event or listing due to rules or space restrictions. For questions regarding calendar entries, call 987-7700. 30 | birminghamparent | august 2014

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American Girl Summer Reading Bookmark Craft 4-6pm, American Girl, Atlanta. See Aug. 5.

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Lunch and Learn: the Buzz on Pollinators 11:30am Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Learn how to entice bee pollinators into your garden. Bring lunch; the gardens will provide drinks and desserts. 205-414-3950, www.bbgardens.org. FREE.

Children’s Dance Foundation Community Fest 2-5pm, Children’s Dance Foundation. Fun and creative activities for the whole family! www.childrensdancefoundation.org. BIRMINGHAM PARENT is a sponsor. FREE.

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Neuroscience Café presents Schizophrenia: Lessons from the Clinic and the Laboratory 6:30pm, Hoover Library. Adrienne Lahti, M.D, and Lynn Dobrunz, Ph.D, of the UAB Comprehensive Neuroscience Center will give insights into schizophrenia. www. hooverlibrary.org. FREE.

Alabama Family Rights Association 6pm, Hoover Public Library. Children need each of their two fit parents. Topic: Dealing with post-custody child rearing issues during the school year. www.alfra.org. FREE. Meet the Artist: Larry K. Martin 6-8pm, Aldridge Gardens. After a career in tropical medicine, Alabama native Larry K. Martin became a renowned wildlife artist. His works can be found on greeting cards, murals and collectible items, in both houses of Congress and in the oﬃce of former Gov. Bob Riley. www.aldridgegardens.com. Devon Hind signs his book Run for your Life! 7pm, Hoover Library. Hoover High School Coach Devon Hind will share life lessons and stories of leadership with a book signing to follow. www. hooverlibrary.org. FREE.

16 SATURDAY Pepper Place Market 7am-12pm, Pepper Place. See Aug. 2. Free Classes from Magic City Chess U 10am-12pm, Birmingham Public Library, second ﬂoor. See Aug. 2. Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Go on a magical storytelling hike with Fresh

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22 FRIDAY Chirps and Chips 7-10pm, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Alabama Wildlife Center’s junior board, Raptor Force, hosts this 3rd annual event where patrons will be “Betting on the Birds.” This fun-filled night benefiting AWC will include casino style games, live entertainment featuring local artist Susan Shoemaker, silent auctions, prize drawings, complimentary hors d’oeuvres, wine & beer. Tickets $50 per person. For additional details: www.awrc. org 205-663-7930 Ext. 8, www.awrc.org.

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Free Classes from Magic City Chess U 10am-12pm, Birmingham Public Library, Second Floor. See Aug. 2. Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. A member of the Birmingham Botanical Gardens educational staff will take pre-school children and their families on a hands-on educational adventure through the gardens. 205-540-6642, www.freshairfamily.org. FREE. Fultondale Founder’s Day Festival 10am-5pm, Black Creek Park. Live entertainment, food, free kids zone, pony rides and vendors. 205-841-4481, http:// fultondalefoundersday.com. FREE. The Bell Center’s Tailgate Challenge 11am-2pm, The Summit, in front of Carmike Theatres. The Bell Center provides a fun way for football fans to celebrate the upcoming football season with tailgating food. Celebrity judges will

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30 SATURDAY Pepper Place Market 7am-12pm, Pepper Place. See Aug. 2. Free Classes from Magic City Chess U 10am-12pm, Birmingham Public Library, See Aug. 2. Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Go on a magical storytelling hike with Fresh Air Family’s Verna Gates. Are there fairies and dragons in the Gardens? We will be on the lookout! Fairy house building to follow. 205-540-6642, www.freshairfamily.org. FREE.

Here is a listing of free Tot Shots clinics around Birmingham this month. Immunizations are offered free of charge up to age 19. A parent or legal guardian must accompany the child and must bring an immunization record. For more information, see www.jcdh.org or call 205-930-1450. Tot Shots Clinic no longer provides immunizations to children who are insured.

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duty military, including Army, Navy, Air Force, Coast Guard, Marines, National Guard and Reserve members, with up to five family members, through September 1. Does not include IMAX movies. IMAX Movies: TO THE ARCTIC. An extraordinary journey to the top of the world, this documentary adventure tells the ultimate tale of survival. The film takes audiences on a never-before-experienced journey into the lives of a mother polar bear and her twin sevenmonth-old cubs as they navigate the changing Arctic wilderness they call home.. Through April 30, 2015. GREAT WHITE SHARK. The Great White Shark is an iconic predator. Explore the Great White’s place in our imaginations, in our fears, and in the reality of its role at the top of the oceanic food chain. Shot on location in South Africa, New Zealand, Mexico and California, the film looks to find the truth behind the mythic creature forever stigmatized by its portrayal in the world’s first blockbuster movie, JAWS. Through August 31. JERUSALEM. Explore for the first time in IMAX this crossroads of civilization and faith. The film conveys the story of Jerusalem in all its beauty and diversity, illuminating global public opinion and understanding about Jerusalem on a vast scale, presenting an exceptional vision of Jerusalem – as a city of universal historical, spiritual, cultural and archaeological importance. Through November 26. ISLAND OF LEMURS: MADAGASCAR. Academy Award® winner Morgan Freeman (Mil-

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Birmingham Author Debuts New Children’s Book

DON’T MISS THREE BIG SKYWATCHING EVENTS THIS MONTH! By Karri Ferron, Production Editor, Astronomy magazine

Birmingham author Lou Anders has written a new children’s book where readers embark on a sweeping epic fantasy. The book, Thrones and Bones, features Karn, who is destined to take over the family farm in Norr�ngard – but he’d rather be playing the board game Thrones and Bones. Thianna is half human, half frost giantess. She’s too tall to blend in with other humans but too short to be taken seriously as a giant. When family intrigues force Karn and Thianna to flee into the wilderness, they have to keep their sense of humor and their wits about them. But survival can be challenging when you’re being chased by a 1,500-year-old dragon, Helltoppr the undead warrior and his undead minions, an evil uncle, wyverns, and an assortment of trolls and giants. Anders also has created the Thrones and Bones board game. He is the editorial and art director of Pyr, a fantasy and science fiction imprint, and is the recipient of a Hugo Award and a Chesley Award. He has published over 500 articles and stories on science fiction and fantasy television and literature. A prolific speaker, Anders regularly attends writing conventions around the country. His research on Norse mythology turned into a love affair with Viking culture, culminating in a first visit to Norway while working on the final draft of Frostborn, a novel that he hopes will appeal to boys and girls equally. He and his family reside in Birmingham, Alabama. You can visit Anders online at louanders.com and ThronesandBones.com. Follow him on Twitter at @LouAnders.

August marks the point in the summer in which our families’ and our children’s summer vacation routines grow stalest. It’s also full of opportunities for even the most amateur observer to take in some big sky watching happenings without the aid of a telescope. Shake up that routine and budget a late bedtime one night this August for one of the following sky events. Any of these simple observing targets could be an unforgettable memory for you and your child:

AUGUST 10 – The “Super Moon.” While the “Super Moon” isn’t a huge sky event because full moon isn’t the best time to view the Moon (it’s difficult to see any of its surface details during that time), it does garner lots of attention. August 10 features the largest Full Moon of 2014, which occurs because this Full Moon happens at the same time the Moon makes its closest approach to Earth on its elliptical orbit. AUGUST 12 – The peak of the Perseids meteor shower. A popular meteor shower each year, the Perseids will feature plenty of “shooting stars” at night. Find a spot away from city lights, look the opposite direction of the Moon, and take in these stunning space rocks.

Photo courtesy of Astronomy magazine

AUGUST 18 – Venus and Jupiter come together. The two brightest planets, Venus and Jupiter, will make a spectacular pair before dawn. Catch those two as they appear close together in the eastern sky, and then stay up for a beautiful sunrise 30 minutes later. Saturn and Mars will line up in a less impressive but still colorful union that you can view through binoculars during August’s final two weeks. Closing out the month, on the 31st, a crescent Moon joins the scene in the western evening sky. If none of these specific dates works for your family, though, there’s still plenty to look at in the August moonless sky at the end of the month. At this time of year, the band of our galaxy, the Milky Way, rides high overhead by 10 p.m. local time. Take your kids away from city lights for a spectacular view they won’t soon forget, and see if they can point out some of the most popular star patterns summer has to offer: the Northern Cross of the constellation Cygnus, the W of Cassiopeia, the Teapot of Sagittarius, or even the Summer Triangle, composed of some of the season’s brightest stars, Deneb, Vega, and Altair. And before you know it, Labor Day will be here. To learn more about sky watching, visit http://astronomy.com/.

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Summer Safety Doesn't End in August

By Jefferson County Sheriff Mike Hale It’s still summertime and children’s safety is still at issue. Here are a few important issues that should be reviewed every summer. Sun Related Dangers Too frequently, we read a sad story about a child or pet who was left in a car unintentionally, on a hot, sunny day. Temperatures can hit 160 degrees if parked in the sun. And, it happens quickly! Some parents may not want to take their child in and out of their cumbersome car seat for what they believe will be a quick stop. But, the stakes are too high. Here are a few helpful hits on how to avoid this tragedy:

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By Paige Townley

Paige Townley is a Birmingham freelance writer.

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hile the faces of sex trafficking are always different – a 32-yearold woman, a 13-year-old girl or even a young boy – the stories are usually the same. A victim is identified by a new “friend” who gains the victim’s admiration and trust, sometimes even the trust of the victim’s family, and eventually convinces the victim to run away from home. At that point, the trap is set. The victim, who on average is a teenager between the ages of 12 and 14, is forced into a lifestyle of prostitution with no way out. “It just isn’t what you think it is, some poor, abused girl running from a troubled family life,” says “Jenny,” who answered a want ad for a modeling job and spent the next three years captive as a sex slave. “No, it’s clean and it’s nice. These pimps are altering their techniques to snare vulnerable girls any way that they can. It could be anybody. Some new friend you made on Facebook. Some really awesome guy you meet at the beach or at the mall. It could even be your best friend.” For “Anna,” the person she thought was her best friend, Maggie, turned out to be a “bottom girl” – someone who recruits for traffickers. When Anna confided in Maggie she was unhappy with how strict her par-

ents were and that she needed a job, that’s all it took for Maggie to snare Anna into five years as a sex slave. “That’s where it all started,” Anna says. “Three months from that time, life as I knew it was over. I went on several dates and I finally met this guy and he introduced me to a whole new world. He bought me DVDs and clothes and perfume, just anything I wanted. I loved him. I mean, this guy was the one. He convinced me to leave home and I guess I was willing to do anything, so I did. And he said we should go to Vegas and that I needed to sleep with several guys in in order to get the money. Just do that one thing and we’d have our dream life. “He began questioning me about the money I was bringing in and he began beating me and took all of my identification away. It was over. He wasn’t my boyfriend; he was my pimp. And the scariest part is I didn’t even see it coming.” These scenarios aren’t just happening in other countries or just other bigger cities around the United States. They are happening right here in Birmingham, in our own backyards. “Sex traffickers are all over the place – in our schools, in our church, at our airport, at our bus stops,” says Alexa Likis

James, development director of the WellHouse, a faith-based and Christcentered nonprofit organization that works to rescue individuals being trafficked. “Your son or daughter can still be living at home but someone may be pursuing them, maybe even their best friend at school, saying ‘hey, do you want to make more money than you could ever imagine?’ That’s why you must know what is going on with your kids. We had one little girl we rescued who came from a great family, but she wanted to go to the mall and decided to hitchhike and the wrong person picked her up. These traffickers are everywhere, and they are trained to look for these kids. They just know who to pick on and who to target.” Not only is sex trafficking a $13 billion industry in the United States alone, but also it’s the fastest growing criminal industry in the world, second only to drugs and weapons. Approximately 27 million people a year are trafficked worldwide for labor and sexual exploitation, 80 percent of which are female and 50 percent are children. Four times the number of people were sold as slaves in 2013 as the year before the Civil War, with 75 percent of them being trafficked as sex slaves.

A Superhighway of Human Trafficking Much of this trafficking goes directly through Birmingham along Interstate 20, a road dubbed the Super Highway of Human Trafficking. In fact, I-20 between Birmingham and Atlanta is the number one road in the country for human sex trafficking. This fact is one of many that drives the work of the WellHouse, a nonprofit founded by Tajuan McCarty, a former sex trafficking victim. The WellHouse team is devoted to rescuing women and children who are being sexually exploited not only in the Birmingham area but also across the country. “Seventy-seven percent of the women and children we have rescued are from Alabama,” James says. “The other 23 percent we have rescued have been as far away as Washington or as far south as Boca Raton, Florida. Even the women we’ve rescued outside of Birmingham, outside of Alabama, have been through Birmingham at least once.” The WellHouse made its first rescue in 2011, rescuing 14 total women that year. Then in 2012, 19 were rescued. “In 2012, we had over 1,100 calls on our 800 number, which is our crisis line,” says James, adding that the ages they have rescued have varied from 13 to 54. “Last year, over 100 women and girls, including two males, were rescued, and we had over 2,850 calls on our crisis line.” The WellHouse actually receives more calls on its

crisis line than the national human trafficking hotline. One reason for this, James notes, is that of the 150 total beds in the United States that are available to human trafficking victims, 27 of those are at the WellHouse’s shelter. The organization is hoping to increase that number to more than 50 by the end of the year. Another reason the WellHouse is so frequently called upon is that it is the only 24-hour shelter offering immediate housing assistance to victims. “We are the only agency that doesn’t require identification,” says James. “We know these women aren’t going to have their identification because that is always taken away from them immediately so that they will be completely dependent on the traffickers. That’s one thing that is sometimes hard for people to understand. I get the question a lot, ‘why don’t they just leave?’ Well, they can’t. They get stuck in that situation when they don’t have a birth certificate or a drivers’ license. Those are the first things taken away from them, and you can’t do anything without them.” In addition to rescuing victims and providing immediate, safe housing, the WellHouse also focuses on getting sex trafficking victims back on their feet. They help victims get their drivers’ license, birth certificate or other identification back, provide them with necessities they need such as clothing and toiletries, take them to a doctor and to get any medications they may need, as well as get them access to mental

healthcare, detoxification and trauma counseling. Because they refuse to take any money from the victims, if they even have any to help pay, the WellHouse relies solely on donations as they don’t receive federal grants. While most victims stay at the shelter on average 30 to 45 days, the WellHouse doesn’t put any requirements or restraints on them. “Some certainly stay longer than the 30 to 45 days,” James says. “We never put a ‘you have to do it this way’ rule on them because of the trauma they have been through and the post-traumatic stress many of them have. Some recover faster, some recover slower. Then once they are done at the shelter, they can decide if they want to go join our programs.” The WellHouse’s programs include all sorts of learning opportunities for the women to learn to be independent. “We focus on job development, life skills,

streets to initiate personal encounters with women and children in need as well as spread the word in the community. “We work strategically in a variety of areas to try to get the right relationships with people, like motel owners, for example, so that they will let us come in and talk to any victims they know are at their motels,” James explains. “We’ve had several rescues from that.” Thanks to the organization’s longstanding commitment, the Birmingham division of the FBI awarded the 2013 FBI Director’s Community Leadership Award to the WellHouse. But the real award for everyone at the organization would be putting a stop to sex trafficking. “If we don’t stop it here, we can’t stop it,” James says. “We have to look in our own backyards. Alabama has to wake up. We’re seeing women and children come in here who have been tortured. We picked up

Seventy-seven percent of the women and children we have rescued are from Alabama anything from finances to how to change a flat tire,” James explains. “And we teach them to save money so they can eventually get their own place.” While striving to help so many women rebuild their lives on a daily basis, the WellHouse team never loses sight of the urgency to rescue victims by any means possible. Locally, the team organizes a weekly “Special Ops,” an outreach effort initiative in which the team hits the

one girl from an emergency room who had splinters in her body. We had another girl who was literally born to be trafficked. And it’s happening right now. And for every one we save, there are so many more still out there.” For more information about the WellHouse, sex trafficking or to watch their video, I-20: The Sex Trafficking Superhighway, for more stories from survivors like the ones included here, visit www.the-wellhouse.org. birminghamparent.com | 37

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VIRTUES THAT SPELL “PRINCESS,” AN EXCERPT FROM JOHN CROYLE’S NEW BOOK

So forget about mattresses and peas. Here are the signs of a true princess – eight virtues that spell out the word PRINCESS:

Praiseworthiness. A

princess understands that she is worthy of praise simply because she is made in the image of God. The more she understands that she is innately praiseworthy, the more she lives in a praiseworthy manner. She becomes what she already is: praiseworthy.

Righteousness. Though

she lives in a fallen world, where everybody walks with a limp, a princess stands straight and walks tall. She lives according to God’s normal, not the world’s normal. A righteous person isn’t simply a person who has to be right all the time; she’s a person who is aligned with the

right ways that God intended us to live.

Initiative. Because

she understands her praiseworthiness, and because her righteousness aligns her with God’s best, a princess takes initiative in doing good in the world. A princess makes good things happen.

Nurture. God built into

girls and women an instinct for nurture that boys and men simply don’t have in the same way. As you nurture your princess, you will equip her to nurture others. And by practicing nurture, she grows toward godly womanhood and will pass that along to her daughters.

Character. A girl of character knows what her deepest desires are and chooses accordingly, ignoring all the short-term and temporary desires and pleasures that might throw her off the trail of her deepest joy. Raising your princess to be a woman of character means helping her get in touch with her truest desires so that she can resist her lesser ones. Empowerment. A prin-

cess possesses great power. Your princess needs to understand that life isn’t just something that happens to her. She has the power to choose, the power to make a big difference not only in her own life, but in the lives of others.

Servant-heartedness.

A princess finds purpose not in being served, but in serving. It is important for your princess to understand that it is truly a pleasure to serve other people.

Stability. The previous

seven virtues can’t take root and grow unless you provide your daughter with a stable environment. Stability isn’t so much a virtue as the necessary condition for the other seven virtues to grow. As you provide stability for your daughter, she will grow into the kind of person who helps create stability for others.

Each of the following chapters will discuss

one of these eight virtues, providing a self-evaluation so you can check how well you are instilling that virtue in your daughter, followed by stories and examples, practical helps and suggestions, and an examination of what the Bible—and especially Proverbs 31—has to say about that virtue.

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PIERCINGS &DYE, OH MY! By Lori Chandler Pruitt

hen parenting teens, it’s often said “pick your battles” when it comes to allowing them to express themselves in different ways. But when it comes to wanting tattoos and body piercings, there’s a lot more to consider than green hair dye and funky clothing. Information is key. Although written parental consent is required for anyone under 18 to get a tattoo or piercing in the state of Alabama, even if a teen is already of age and determined to follow through, it’s still essential for parents to be involved to understand the process and risks. “Tattoos last forever. Trying to remove them costs thousands of dollars and time, so it’s important to have an open dialogue between the parent and child about this,” says Dr. Stewart Hill, a pediatrician with Pell City Pediatrics, a Children’s of Alabama-based clinic. “Generally, it is safe if you go to a reputable, properly licensed tattoo facility, but there are still some risks of contracting hepatitis B and C, HIV and tetanus from the procedure. And complications also can include bacterial skin infections and itching. I have seen a lot of sensitivity to the dyes used.”

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As for body piercings, such as ear piercings, Hill also recommends going to a qualified facility to have it done – not to be done between friends. Piercings such as those in the tongue and other areas require special care as well and unfortunately have been associated with serious infections and other problems. By law, all facilities performing body piercing, tattooing and branding are required to obtain a yearly license from the county board of health, as does the person doing the work. County health departments in the state inspect tattoo facilities at least twice a year, says Jeff Swinney, environmental health program manager for the Jefferson County Department of Health. He and Tekela Wimberly, environmental health specialist, see quite a few minors who come in with parents for the procedures. “We have an inspection sheet that we go by, just like restaurants, to check for compliance for each safety item,” Wimberly says. “Tattoo facilities have a choice of using disposable needles or sterilizing needles for tattoos, so we make sure the correct equipment is there to sterilize needles.” Swinney says most facilities

are very much aware of regulations and cleanliness/safety concerns and stay in compliance. Even so, customers should carefully look to make sure the facility is clean. Ensure that the artist appears clean, washes his/her hands; will pull out their equipment in front of you and that the ink is in a small cup to dip the needle, all for a single client’s use only. Facility operators are required to provide customers a disclosure statement of the risks involved and information on the care of the tattoo or piercing. Parents of those under 18 can give permission via a form with a photocopy of their identification, and must be present during all procedures. Facility operators are to keep records of all clients. All facilities have a grade of pass/fail rather than a specific score. “We do not get into the quality of the artist’s actual work, but we make sure all facilities are regulated,” Wimberly says. Artists are required to have a license to perform the work as well as the facility permit. Hill says teens who are of age may be adamant about wanting a tattoo or piercing, but it’s important to keep the lines of communication

open with parents so that it can be done safely. “Go with your parent instead of to someone else’s basement,” he says. “And you will need to care for the tattoo afterwards, so that help will be needed.” Beyond the thrill of tattoos and piercings for some teens, there are other things to consider. Watching television can convince some teens that such adornments are mainstream, but they are not, according to Dr. Vivian Friedman, a child and family psychologist at UAB’s Department of Psychiatry. “It is still primarily a subset and minority of people embracing tattoos,” she says. “Originally, because they are painful to get, it was a

Teens who are of age may be adamant about wanting a tattoo or piercing, but it’s important to keep the lines of communication open with parents so that it can be done safely. sign of masculinity and toughness to be tattooed. There is still an undercurrent of that thinking.” One reason parents and teens need to have an open dialogue is that in some cases, tattoos may indicate a troubled teen who needs help. “Among my adolescent patients who like tattoos there is a preponderance of troubled young people who are hurting themselves as they have been hurt (emotionally or physically),” she says. “This is especially true of those who have large numbers of tattoos.” As for those with underage children, “parents should understand that they can say no,” even to those of age, in order to discuss it further. Friedman says. It is hard for many teens to think too far into the future, so it is important that parents be involved whatever the age. “Tattoos will exclude a person from many high paying jobs,” Friedman says. “It will also limit your social options. Social sub-groups tend to either condone or exclude members based on their having tattoos or not. Tattoos channel you into a group of like-minded people.” Lori Chandler Pruitt is associate editor of Birmingham Parent.

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