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EDITOR'S NOTE

Happy Birthday

FROM BIRMINGHAM PARENT

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editorial Publishers David & Carol Evans Editor Carol Muse Evans Associate Editor Lori Chandler Pruitt Calendar & Business David Evans

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t may not be your birthday month or that of your child, but this month Birmingham Parent celebrates the Celebration – birthday parties, team parties and all types of celebrations.

Celebrating birthdays seems to span across all cultures. The passing of another year, the accomplishment of growing another year older and wiser, and all that it entails, is meaningful in just about any language.

And for the child, the birthday is often a major milestone.

From the “going to school” age, to driving at 16, to the “sweet sixteen,” becoming an adult at 18, and many more, a child’s birthday may denote special privileges and/or responsibilities. Some religions, such as the Jewish faith, celebrate certain birthdays as major milestones in a child’s spiritual development.

This month, Birmingham Parent brings you our Ultimate Birthday Party Guide 2014. It’s a directory you’ll want to keep all year long. Brought to you exclusively by Birmingham Parent and BirthdaysinBirmingham.com, you can access our

print version or the great online version at www.birthdaysinbirmingham.com any time you need a party place, entertainer, cake or more.

Be sure to check out Jan Pierce’s article about how to have a budget-friendly party, too. It’s on page 18. And remember, you’re making memories – it’s all about the celebration, not the dollars spent.

On a more serious note, I received a phone call a few months ago from local mom Danielle Henchcliffe, whose son, Stanley, had a serious accident in their home. It’s a parent’s worst nightmare – but Danielle wanted to share her story to prevent it from happening to someone else’s child. Be sure to read “When Home isn’t Safe; Finding and Fixing Hidden Dangers” on page 26 to learn more.

Of course, we’ve got our great calendar of events this month – and watch our website calendar, Facebook and Twitter for great events that didn’t make the print calendar. We’ll share them every chance we get.

Have a wonderful Fourth of July!

Thanks for picking up this issue!

Carol Muse Evans, Publisher/Editor carol@birminghamparent.com

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Home Isn’t 26 When So Safe: Finding and Fixing Hidden Dangers

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Parenting with Dr. Friedman My daughters will soon be three and six. With the three-year age difference you might think that they wouldn’t fight, but they do. The 3-year-year-old pulls her sister’s hair and kicks her until the 6-year-old feels the need to retaliate, even as I am standing right there telling her to back away. Some people say let them fight it out, but this just doesn’t seem right. They could get injured and I don’t want them to see fighting as an option. My three-year-old is sweet in every other way, but she is very aggressive where her sister is concerned or if she feels she is bring slighted by being the youngest. Spanking them and telling them not to hit each other doesn’t work and seems to be counterproductive. My 6-year-old simply is a teaser and can’t seem to stop. Please help!

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answer: Fighting between siblings is not part of normal behavior. It always indicates issues of jealousy and competition between the brothers and sisters. When there is enough love and attention to go around, there is no need to compete for the limited supply.

Letting them fight it out doesn’t work to resolve the problem. It simply allows the stronger child to win. If you let them fight it out, you will end up protecting the younger child which will only make the older one angry. Nothing fuels sibling rivalry more effectively than a parent choosing sides or seeming to favor one child over the other. Letting them fight it out would also be

giving them the message that conflicts are resolved by hair pulling and kicking.

The correct punishment for fighting is separation. “If you can’t get along then you can’t play together.” Send each child to her own room. Make sure neither is with you. The punishment for social conflict is social isolation.

Scarcity fuels competition. If there is not enough to go around (attention, cake, first turns etc.) they will fight.

By making sure that there is enough for both girls to get their needs met, you decrease the competition.

When they fight over who got the biggest piece of cake, interrupt them and tell them that instead of focusing on

what the other child got, you want them to tell you what they need. Tell them you will meet each child’s needs. If they need a bigger piece of cake they can have one. They will quickly learn that more cake is not what they are after.

Some parents unknowingly encourage sibling rivalry by attempting to be even handed all the time. By over-emphasizing that things should always be equal, you are teaching them to watch and measure what the sibling gets. In place of promising “the same” you want to emphasize that each child will get what he needs and that sometimes one will get more than the other because he needs more than the other at that time.

If they have trouble making this transition in their thinking, carry it to an extreme. Buy them exactly the same thing- Size 7 dresses for both girls when your younger child wears a size 4, and baby toys for both that your nearly six-year-old has long ago outgrown. They will soon see that their needs are different and they don’t really want everything to be the same for both.

For further reading I recommend the book: Siblings Without Rivalry by Faber and Mazlish. Another excellent book about siblings is Mixed Feelings by Francine Klagsbrun. It deals with sibling relationships in adulthood.

Vivian K. Friedman Ph. D. is a child and family psychologist at UAB, Department of Psychiatry. Send questions for response in this column to Viviankf@gmail.com. No personal replies are sent.

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NoBullying Warns of Dangers Lurking Behind the Internet Trend of ‘Selfies’

Selfies seem to be the latest Internet trend taking the web by storm, but teens do not realize the dangers they are putting themselves and others they love into.

NoBullying tells you today what lurks behind a selfie.

The article discusses the possible dangers that can be triggered by sharing one “compromising” selfie and explains the dangers that selfies can pose.

For an example, the selfie can reveal the location of the people in the selfie, so imagine one stranger online detecting a teen’s hometown or home address all through one potentially harmless photo.

The selfie also poses risks in the form of information about someone they didn’t want to reveal, including their personal information. When a selfie is taken and posted, it gives out clothing descriptions of what they wear. This can lead to a stalker or other person learning more about the people and the patterns they have and the places they tend to frequent.

Macartan Mulligan, co-founder of NoBullying.com, says, “A selfie isn’t just a fun photo taken by a

teen recording a good time – a selfie will go online and last forever and might never disappear. It all boils down to good parenting and a good explanation on the digital footprint we leave behind.”

He also added that anyone suffering from bullying in any form or way can always find advice and help on the NoBullying website – but if anyone is suffering from severe bullying or cyberbullying, the best thing is to talk to someone locally – a parent, teacher or local organization that has been set up to help with specialized councilors to deal with this topic.

For more information, visit http://nobullying.com.

Sheriff’s Corner with Jefferson County Sheriff Mike Hale: ATV SAFETY Summertime is here and everyone is busy enjoying the outdoors. All- terrain vehicles (ATVs) have gained great popularity. But too often, safety is forgotten or neglected.

The results can be death or serious injury.

Here are some safety tips to keep your ATV rides safe and fun: Before you ride your ATV, read the owner’s manual carefully. Take a Certified Safe Rider’s Course. Be sure to study your manual and look at your ATV to memorize the location of the controls.

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Choose shoes that have a closed toe.

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The number one piece of protective gear for adults and children is the helmet.

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Wear the chin strap snugly. Also, make sure your helmet is certified. Athletic headgear, such as skateboard, hockey and football helmets are not acceptable. And remember, most ATVs are not street legal.

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A.C.E. Angels, Clowns & Elephants featuring “Whistler the Clown” 205-979-4948

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Games on the Move 205- 640-1741

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Backyard Movie Parties 205-595-3549 www.backyardmovieparties.com

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Your child’s birthday is coming up, and you’re scanning the horizon to find the perfect venue. Will it be a fast food joint with video games, or will it be the local pizza shop with the six-foot-tall mouse? Your palms are getting sweaty. Maybe Junior doesn’t need to invite quite so many friends because this is going to be expensive.

Stop and take a deep breath. Here’s a fact: Young children don’t really care about having birthday parties that cost a lot of money. Surprised?

Don’t be. Maybe your child has attended one of those expensive bashes with catered food, rented facilities, hired entertainment and giant bouncy houses, and you feel you just can’t measure up.

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INVITATIONS: There are fancy engraved invitations or storebought ones. Adults may admire their color and style, but the child invited is just excited to be going to a party. Instead of buying invitations, why not get your birthday boy or girl involved in the invitation process and allow him to write the party information on a nice piece of colored paper? Or how about using copies of a digital photo of your child and let her add the information to that? Keep it simple, personal and engaging.

Either hand out the homemade invitations personally or put them in the mail. All you’ve spent is the cost of a stamp.

FUN: Why not plan this year’s party around a theme? It should be something currently “cool” in your child’s life. A movie theme, a cartoon, pirates, princesses, Winnie the Pooh characters, Spider Man, or something in the natural realm, such as favorite animals or flowers. Follow the theme throughout all the hand-crafted decorations, banners, streamers, hand decorated paper tablecloths, etc. If you do gardening as a theme, plan a craft in which each child decorates a pot and then plants a flower or seed. Plant grass seed in a cup with a face on it, and Voila! Hair in ten days! If you do pirates as your theme, make the prizes those nifty

gold-covered chocolate coins. Or plan a scavenger hunt with clues and the coins as the treasure.

A homemade piñata is a lot of fun. A large paper bag painted or decorated with markers and filled with candies works just fine. The things you can’t make or have the children make might be ordered from a catalog company such as Oriental Trading Company. Or make a visit to the local dollar store. Kids want games, crafts, songs, and handson activities. They don’t want to sit back and be entertained.

FAVORS: After the birthday boy

FOOD: When the kids have played

As you plan your next birthday party, keep in mind that fun for children is all about the energy. The most elaborate party site and most expensive decorations are lost on children if there is no enthusiasm for the event. Get the children involved, make it the most special day for your family by working together to invite, decorate, and plan fun activities. Keep a few surprises up your sleeve. They might come in the form of scavenger hunts,

games, won prizes, done crafts, and used up a lot of energy, they’re ready for food. They don’t care if the plates and cups are decorated or not; they just want cake and ice cream. The cake can be homemade as well, as long as there is plenty of it. Here again, your child can be involved in the creation of the food items. He can add frosting and jelly beans to the tops of the cupcakes. She can help mix up the punch.

or girl has opened presents, it’s time for guests to go home.

Children always enjoy having a small favor to take with them to remember their exciting day. Simple party favors can be inexpensive stickers, small toys matching the theme, or a printed drawing matching the theme to color at home. If you’ve had a craft as part of the fun, then each child will have that to take home. Whatever you choose can be very simple and not costly. It’s a memento, not a gift.

pi atas, or other games and activities that will delight all the attendees, including the birthday child.

Whatever you do, don’t fall into the trap of overspending when it comes to party planning. Follow the interests of your child, keep it simple but fun. Include all the basics and you’ll have a terrific party on a budget that won’t break the bank.

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A Night with Calera Police and Fire Department, 5:306:30pm, Roy Downs Public Library.

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Teen Anime Movie Night, 5:30-7pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library.

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Glue Gun Gang, 6:30pm, Hoover Public Library.

What does a Warrior Wear?, 10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art.

Movie and Market Day, 1-2:30pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library.

Summer Reading Bookmark Craft, 4-6pm, American Girl Store in Atlanta. See July 1.

What does a Warrior Wear?

10:30-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See July 1.

Summer Reading Bookmark Craft, 4-6pm, American Girl Store, Atlanta.

Movie and Market Day, 1-2:30pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library, Calera

What does a Warrior Wear? 10:3011:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art.

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Glue Gun Gang, 10:30am, Hoover Public Library.

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PJ Storytime, 6-7pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library.

Travel to Paris, 2pm Hoover Public Library.

FRIDAY

Free Friday Flicks, 6pm Veteran’s Park, Hoover. This week’s movie: Despicable Me 2.

Free Friday Flicks, 6pm, Veteran’s Park, Hoover. This week’s movie: The Croods.

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Thunder on the Mountain Fireworks Display, 9pm, Red Mountain near Vulcan.

65 Years of Great BBQ on 4th of July, 10am-3pm, Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church.

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4th of July and Red River Hogs Birthday Celebrations Regular hours, Birmingham Zoo.

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Bart’s Books, 11am-12pm, Birmingham Museum of Art.

Bart’s Art Cart: Super Scrolls, 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art.

Pepper Place Market, 7am-12pm, Pepper Place.

Super Saturday at CHOM!, 10am-4pm, Children’s Hands-On Museum.

Bees Up Close, 9-10:30am, Aldridge Botanical Gardens.

Bart’s Art Cart: Super Scrolls, 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art.

Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family, 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens.

Pepper Place Market 7am-12pm, Pepper Place.

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SUNDAY

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Movie and Market Day 1-2:30pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library. See July 1.

Eating Fresh from the Garden with Chef ‘E’, 6:30pm, Hoover Public Library

Lego Game Night, 5:30-6:30pm, Roy Downs Public Library.

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Many countries have their Independence Day during the month of July.

These include the United States, Belarus, Venezuela, Argentina, Belgium, the Bahamas, and the Maldives. The national days for France and Canada occur in July as well.

Birmingham Zoo Fun Days Visit the zoo during $5 Fun Days.

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July's birthstone, the ruby, is often associated with contentment, love, passion, and integrity.

It is sometimes called the Hay month because the grass dries out due to a lack of rain and can be made into hay.

Sometimes the hot, long days of July are called the "dog days of summer".

It is similar to January in the Southern Hemisphere.

July is the warmest month in the Northern Hemisphere on average.

Wild West Day, 10am, 1pm, 3pm.

Heart of Dixie Railroad Museum.

Birmingham Zoo Fun Days, Regular hours. $5.

July was originally the month of Quintilis in the Roman calendar. It was the fifth month of the year until January and February were added in 450 BC. It got its original name from the Latin word for fifth. Later the name was changed to Julius in honor of Julius Caesar who was born on July 12.

Free Friday Flicks, 6pm Veteran’s Park, Hoover. See July 11.

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What does a Warrior Wear?

10:30am-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. What does a Warrior Wear? Samurai aren’t our only warriors! Go beyond Japan to find them. What kind of warriors will you find in the Museum? You may see the armor they wear, you may see them in an artwork, or you may see them as a sculpture. http:// artsbma.org. FREE. Movie and Market Day 1-2:30pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library. Come enjoy a family movie and then stop by Calera Farmer’s Market. 205-6687200, http://cityofcalera.org.

FREE. Summer Reading Bookmark Craft 4-6pm, American Girl Store in Atlanta. At this craft event, your girl will decorate her own bookmark and summer reading log to keep track of all the great books she’ll read over break. Includes a doll-sized poster to take home. 877-2475223, www.americangirl.com/ atlanta. FREE.

3 THURSDAYS 4th of July and Red River Hogs Birthday Celebrations Regular hours, Birmingham Zoo. The Zoo will celebrate the 7th birthday of the red river hogs, Star, Spangle and Banner! In honor of this holiday, all active and retired military and their dependents can take advantage of free admission to the Zoo with proof of military I.D. July 3-6. 879-0409, www. birminghamzoo.com.

4 FRIDAY 65 Years of Great BBQ on 4th of July 10am-3pm, Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church.

Alabama’s longest running BBQ festival celebrating 65

years in Birmingham. Our Lady of Sorrows Catholic Church celebrates its Fourth of July Festival and will feature 5,000 pounds of slow cooked BBQ and more than 1,500 plates served over 5 hours. Guests can win $5,000 in the raffle. A total of $11,000 will be given away from the raffle. www. ourladyofsorrows.com.

Thunder on the Mountain Fireworks Display 9pm, Red Mountain near Vulcan. A Birmingham traditions for decades, Thunder on the Mountain is the city’s annual fireworks display and the largest in Alabama. FREE. 4th of July and Red River Hogs Birthday Celebrations Regular hours, Birmingham Zoo. The Zoo will celebrate the 7th birthday of the red river hogs, Star, Spangle and Banner! In honor of this holiday, all active and retired military and their dependents can take advantage of free admission to the Zoo with proof of military I.D. July 3-6. 879-0409, www. birminghamzoo.com.

5 SATURDAY Pepper Place Market 7am-12pm, Pepper Place.

Pepper Place Market brings the best Alabama growers, food producers and artisans to Birmingham each week. Rain or Shine! www.pepperplacemarket.com. FREE. Free Classes from Magic City Chess U 10am-12pm, Birmingham Public Library, Second Floor. Learn to play or improve your play in these free classes. 205-8622018, http://magiccitychessu. wix.com/magiccitychessu.

FREE. Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am, Birmingham Botanical Gardens. Hikes for Tykes is a guided tour of the Birmingham

Events may change after publication deadline; please phone ahead to confirm important information. The deadline for submitting calendar items for the August 2014 issue is July 3. Mail calendar items to: Calendar, Birmingham Parent, 3590B Hwy 31 S #289, Pelham, AL 35124; fax to 987-7600; e-mail to calendar@BirminghamParent.com; or enter directly to the online calendar at www.birminghamparent.com. Entries added online after the print deadline will not appear in the print version. Information cannot be accepted over the phone. Birmingham Parent publishes a calendar 11 times a year. January events are included in the December issue.

Guidelines: Birmingham Parent’s calendar is designed to be a resource and service to the community and our readers. Events which are open to the public, fund-raisers, free classes, etc., are events that may be included in our monthly calendar. We reserve the right to reject any event or listing due to rules or space restrictions. For questions regarding calendar entries, call 987-7700.

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10:30am-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See July 1.

Bart’s Art Cart: Super Scrolls 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. This drop-in art program for kids and families features a different theme from our galleries and art activity each month. In July, we will extend the colors of spring with cherry blossoms and bamboo! Study the careful and intentional art-making of Japanese artists in our Japanese galleries and the Lethal Beauty exhibition.

Make your own scroll inspired by nature to remember spring. www.artsbma.org. FREE. 4th of July and Red River Hogs Birthday Celebrations Regular hours, Birmingham Zoo, see July 4.

6 SUNDAY 4th of July and Red River Hogs Birthday Celebrations Regular hours, Birmingham Zoo, see July 4.

7 MONDAY Teen Anime Movie Night 5:30-7pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library. Teen Anime Movie Night. The audience will pick the movie for us to watch from a large selection. Refreshments will be served and Cosplay is welcome! 205-668-7200, http://cityofcalera.org. FREE.

8 TUESDAY What does a Warrior Wear?

10:30am-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See July 1.

Summer Reading Bookmark Craft 4-6pm, American Girl Store in Atlanta. See July 1.

Movie and Market Day 1-2:30pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library. See July 1.

will give tips on traveling to the City of Light. 205-444-7840, www.hooverlibrary.org. FREE. PJ Storytime 6-7pm, Roy Downs Memorial Library. Brush you teeth, put on you PJs and come to the library to hear a bedtime story. 205668-7200, http://cityofcalera. org. FREE.

11 FRIDAY Free Friday Flicks 6pm Veteran’s Park in Hoover.

Grab a blanket, your family and friends, and come for a free family ďŹ lm every Friday night this summer. Come early and visit vendors, grab some food and enjoy fun activities.

Presented by ALAGASCO and Backyard Movie Parties, and sponsored by Birmingham Parent. Follow us on twitter for any weather updates a movie @BYMovieParties or friend Backyard Movie Parties on Facebook. Movie begins at dusk. This week’s movie: The Croods. www.backyardmovieparties.com. FREE.

12 SATURDAY Pepper Place Market 7am-12pm, Pepper Place.

See July 5.

Bees Up Close 9am-10:30am, Aldridge Gardens. Program. Using a webcam, participants will see a beehive up close, and will learn about the ins and outs of the hive. From the comfort of Aldridge House, beekeepers will take the class through a hive inspection, explaining a worker’s daily chores, discussing drones and telling what it really takes to be ‘queen.’ Find out what all the buzz is about! Fees range from $5 to $26. http://aldridgegardens. com. Fee. Free Classes from Magic City Chess U 10am-12pm, Birmingham Public Library, Second Floor. See July 5.

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Hikes for Tykes with Fresh Air Family 10am Birmingham Botanical Gardens. See July 5.

Travel to Paris 2pm Hoover Public Library.

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Bart’s Art Cart: Super Scrolls 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. See July 5.

Super Saturday at CHOM! 10am-4pm, Children’s HandsOn Museum. Super Saturday at CHOM! The Best Dot-to-Dot Exhibit and Scavenger Hunt!

All activities included in admission. 205-349-4235, http:// chomonline.org. FEE.

14 MONDAY A Night with Calera Police and Fire Department 5:30-6:30pm, Roy Downs Public Library. Enjoy a night of forensic fun, ďŹ ngerprinting, ďŹ nger print art and a photo booth. 205-668-7200, http:// cityofcalera.org. FREE.

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10:30am-11:30am, Birmingham Museum of Art. See July 1.

Summer Reading Bookmark Craft 4-6pm, American Girl Store in Atlanta. See July 1.

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Wild West Day 10am, 1pm, 3pm. Heart of Dixie Rail. Travel back to the 1800s and experience life in the Wild West! Enjoy a train ride through the forests of Shelby County.

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Bart’s Art Cart: Super Scrolls 11am-1pm, Birmingham Museum of Art. See July 5.

Math and Science Day Run 12-4pm, Five Points West Library. The annual math and science day run by Science for Kids, hosted by the Five Points West Library will highlight the theme “Slave Science--African Contributions to Science before Slavery.” Children from ages four and up are welcome to engage in hands on activities.

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When Home isn’t so Safe: FINDING AND FIXING HIDDEN DANGERS

By Carol Muse Evans

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ast November, 4-year-old Stanley Henchcliffe of Birmingham was spending his second night in his own bedroom, having been a co-sleeper for most of his young life. It was 10 p.m., and his family had just gone to bed when they experienced what they call their worst nightmare.

They heard a crash, and both parents ran into his bedroom. Stanley’s feet were in the bottom drawer of

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a TV stand, and the TV itself was about two feet from his head. It looked like Stanley was sleeping, but he wouldn’t wake up.

Stanley’s dad picked him up and put him on the bed, but Stanley wasn’t breathing, and he was turning blue. They didn’t even know if and where the TV hit him – they saw no immediate bruising, cuts, etc.

Paramedics came and found no broken bones, and his vitals were normal.

Yet The Henchcliffes knew something wasn’t quite right. Stanley’s breathing became labored at the hospital, and they put in a breathing tube and sedated him. The family waited for a CT scan in what his mom said was the longest 45 minutes of her life. “We spent a lot of this time on our faces on the floor, begging God for him to be okay,” Danielle recalls.

There was good news and bad news when the doctors came in. Stanley’s chest, lungs and heart were great, but he was very sick. He had a significant skull fracture and brain bleed, which would lead to a blood transfusion, a blood clot, an allergic reaction and what eventually, was diagnosed as a traumatic brain injury that would likely follow him the rest of his life.

But Stanley improved, and went home five days later, facing possible surgeries, physical therapy and learning to do many things all over again. The Hencliffes were grateful, though, and the ICU nurse hugged Danielle and told her they “didn’t think he’d make it.”

What happened to Stanley is something you don’t hear people talk about much, but it was a very common injury in the 1980s when these larger, heavier TVs were common.

Now it’s still more common than you’d think, Danielle says, because many people who buy the lighter, flat screen TVs are moving the older, larger TVs that still work great into children’s rooms and playrooms for video games, movies and more. And if they aren’t secure, the results can be dangerous and downright deadly.

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family health Check out http://kidshealth.org/parent/ firstaid_safe/home/household_checklist. html for a great list. Among the concerns in the home are:

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“We thought we were good parents.

We never imagined something like that,” Danielle recalls. “I was embarrassed, and my husband was more than me. He thought he failed as a parent and a husband. We thought we’d be judged.”

But they weren’t alone. In the Hencliffes’ case, the TV had already been in Stanley’s room for a year. But it was never secure, and Danielle says they didn’t know. Now they are reaching out to other parents to warn them of the dangers.

Julie Farmer, RN, MPH, Kohl’s Think First Alabama Special Coordinator at Children’s of Alabama, says the Henchcliffes story, unfortunately, is too common.

Older TVs are one of the many safety concerns for young children in the home.

“Just about any TV nowadays needs to be secured,” Farmer says.

From TVs to older homes with lead paint, to stair accidents, toys, to bathtub falls, drownings and scaldings, to the simple rugs without anti-slip pads that can cause dangerous falls, the home needs to be examined for safety, not just for children, but for adults and the elderly.

It’s never too late to make the home safe. Kidshealth.org has several great home checklists to help you make your home safe.

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Kitchen appliances such as stove and refrigerator Kitchen utensils such as knives and other sharp items Access to cleaning products Access to plastic bags Poisonous house plants High chair safety Lead paint on walls, beds, etc.

Older cribs and secured hardware Window blinds, curtains and cords Fire retardant sleep ware and cords on clothing

“We thought we were good parents.

We never imagined something like that,” Danielle recalls. “I was embarrassed, and my husband was more than me. He thought he failed as a parent and a husband. We thought we’d be judged.”

But they weren’t alone.

Smoke alarms Access to medication Access to alcohol Access to firearms and ammunition Space heater safety Electrical outlet access Carbon monoxide detectors, especially if you cook or heat with gas TVs, computers and other large items being SECURED Working fireplace safety Mirrors and pictures on the wall hung securely, as well as furniture items like tall bookcases Anti-slip rugs Safety bars or guards on upper level windows Stickers on clear glass doors Checking to be sure hand-me-down baby equipment, toys and clothes have not been recalled Stops on removable drawers so they cannot be pulled out Stair safety Secured bunk beds and bunk bed safety Is the thermostat on the hot water heater set below 120°F (49°C)?

Are razor blades, nail scissors, and other sharp tools stored in a locked cabinet?

Are laundry chutes locked with childproof locks?

Outdoor pool safety and safety in the yard

You can also visit the American Academy of Pediatrics at http://www.healthychildren.org/ English/safety-prevention/athome/Pages/Home-Safety-HeresHow.aspx for other great tips on making your home safer. You cannot fix what you don’t know is dangerous, so educate yourself on the potential dangers in your home, and grandma’s, too.

Today, Stanley has returned to preschool and is doing well, but he still has issues. “Most of his struggles are emotional now, more than he ever had before the accident,” Danielle says. “He is forever diagnosed with a traumatic brain injury.

“Some days he plays with me – he’s still a 4-year-old boy,” she says. “This is our path, this is the journey we are on now. If I can just help one person prevent this – it’s my soapbox now.”

Carol Muse Evans is publisher and editor of Birmingham Parent, and a parent of two.

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Saint Rose Academy 2014 Graduation Twenty-one eighth graders graduated from Saint Rose Academy. Gigi Griffin and Katy Snoddy received the St. Thomas Aquinas award for academic excellence and Christian Peterson and Mollie Parker were given the St. Martin de Porres award for Christian service.

The class bought a new flagpole for the school and made donations to the school kindergarten playground fund and the National Adrenal Diseases Foundation in honor of a classmate who suffers from Addison’s disease. Most of the class of 2014 will

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He was selected from a national pool of applicants for the highly highly competitive merit-based scholarship.

YFU is an educational nonprofit that advances intercultural understanding, mutual respect, and social responsibility through exchanges for youth, families, and communities. Along with the FUSYE scholarship, YFU USA administers hundreds of additional government and corporate funded scholarships for high schools students. The students selected for these programs represent some of the most talented youth.

For additional information about exchange opportunities with YFU, including scholarships, hosting an international student, volunteering, or community cultural tours please call 1.800.TEENAGE or visit www.YFUUSA.org.

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She feeds Kitty and leaves him in the kitchen to eat. But when she returns, the kitchen is in complete shambles. Exasperated, Lily puts Kitty in the den while she cleans up the kitchen mess, only to find the den dirty and destroyed upon her return. (NOTE: by this time observant readers may note the book’s endpapers, which indicate that wild animals have escaped the zoo that same day – in particular, an enormous tiger. Glimpses of tiger stripes can also be seen lurking in the backgrounds of these kittenish crime scenes.)

Lily is about to decide that kittens are more trouble that they’re worth, until her tiny kitten ‘appears’ to frighten away a threatening dog. Readers will enjoy discovering that a “naughty kitty” is sometimes the best kitty!

From his cat-like perspective, Tink enjoys all the best things in life with his family. He reads with Dad (from squarely in the middle of the newspaper). He plays with the girls (helpfully scattering chess pieces around the board). It’s paradise for an indoor cat. But when his unapproved (and clandestine) diet of houseplants, rubber bands and packing peanuts sends him to the vet, Tink gets a brief taste of the outdoors through his carrier and bides his time until he can slip outside. But years later when he makes his foray out into the wider world, he finds that the world may have to help him get back home! From the author of Skippy Jon Jones, this adorable title will become a favorite read as you and your kids read it to “bits & pieces”!

One day in Royaltown Palace, when Daddy and Mommy are busy with other tasks, Princess Penelope decides to make friends with a mischievous kitten. The kitten is in Mommy’s knitting basket and entangled in bright pink yarn. And when Penelope’s overture to play sends the kitten dashing off leaving a twisting pink trail in his wake – the chase is on! The kitten’s trail through the royal abode is an embossed, pink glittery line that wends its way across the pages, over and under, inside and out of all the places a playful kitten can scamper.

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Tips for Writing the

College Essay

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A well-written personal essay can help students improve their chances for college admission. An essay may be shorter than 150 words, but the words one chooses can mean the difference between a “maybe” and a “yes.”

The writing tells the admissions committee how and why a student is different from everybody else. The summer is an opportune time for students to brainstorm, rewrite and polish essays.

While there is no exact formula for the perfect admission essay, here are some tips students should consider when trying to make a lasting impression:

Write about yourself. The admissions committee isn’t looking to learn about the American Revolution or bioresearch; they’re looking to learn about the student – his/her achievements, obstacles, goals, passions, personality, values, and character. Whatever topic a student chooses, make sure you shine through.

Focus on one facet of yourself. Admissions committees are looking for an in-depth essay. Pick one project, one activity, or one passion. The magic is in the details. Make the reader remember you.

Tell a good story. Demonstrate how you are compassionate – don’t just tell readers you are. If you had a difficulty, don’t give a laundry list of complaints.

Explain how you overcame them.

Keep it real. Don’t make things up or try to come across as someone completely different than yourself.

If you speak from the heart, it will show and your essay will flow more easily.

that they can’t learn from reading the other sections of your application.

Add a little something about the school. Mention something specific about the school, especially something academic. Adding something about the school’s academic programs shows you did research and there’s a scholarly reason you’re applying there.

Avoid scientific words, acronyms, industry jargon, or foreign phrases. The essay needs to be easy for anyone to read. As smart as admissions readers are, you also cannot assume that they know all the latest words or complex industry terms.

Check your grammar and spelling. You can write conversationally, but the grammar and spelling still need to be correct. And don’t solely rely on your computer’s spell-checker. Often times, the wrong word (spelled correctly) can slip by.

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Show the essay to someone who can give you objective feedback. Sometimes you can get too close to the

If you’ve taken six AP courses in one year, don’t list this or that you “love to learn” unless it relates directly to the focus of your essay. Admissions officers want to learn something about you from your essay

essay and be unable to see it clearly. Other people can often tell if there isn’t enough being revealed, or your essay rambles, or if you’re not making the impression you’d want to.

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Are Vasectomies Really Permanent?

By Rodney Dennis, MD

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Rodney L. Dennis, MD, is a board-certified urologist at Urology Centers of Alabama and performs vasectomy reversal procedures at Brookwood Medical Center.

ith the development of the high-powered operating microscope, vasectomy reversal surgery has become much more precise and pregnancy rates have significantly improved. Couples generally have many questions when it comes to the vasectomy reversal procedure and expected outcomes.

RE-CONNECTING THE TUBES A vasectomy is a relatively simple surgery that involves cutting the tubes that carry the sperm, called the vas deferens, to keep sperm from traveling to the prostate. A vasectomy reversal is a more challenging surgery, so finding an experienced urologist with a positive reputation is important. Vasectomy reversal involves reconnecting the vas deferens tubes and removing any scarring tissue or existing blockage.

THE BEST CANDIDATES FOR VASECTOMY REVERSAL Men who are less than six years from their vasectomy and have children with their present partner are ideal candidates for vasectomy reversal. While this is the ideal scenario, most of my patients who undergo vasectomy reversal are six to 15 years from the procedure with a new partner. Reversal is still possible in men who are beyond 15 years, but it often requires the more technical vasoepididymostomy procedures and pregnancy success rates are not as high.

It all depends on individual biology and working closely with a fertility care team to maximize success rates.

Most men continue to produce sperm from their testicles for most of their lives, so age is not usually a factor in the success of vasectomy reversal. However, it is important to confirm that there are no hormonal or erectile problems with the male when determining if surgery is an appropriate option. The age of the female trying to conceive should be taken into consideration, as pregnancy may be more difficult in women over age 35.

SURGERY SUCCESS RATES Patients who had vasectomies within six years of seeking a reversal should have about a 60 percent chance of achieving a pregnancy with his partner. In general, this success rate will gradually decline as the time from the sterilization surgery increases.

The average time from a vasectomy reversal to pregnancy is about nine to 14 months, but pregnancies have also occurred in some patients before the usual three-month semen analysis. It all depends on individual biology and working closely with a fertility care team to maximize success rates.

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death by children

I Quit

By Bull Garlington

I quit.

I am hip deep in laundry.

There are seventeen more shoes than feet in our front hall – not pairs, just shoes.

There’s a kid I don’t know sleeping on the couch. There’s a dog I don’t know drinking out of my toilet. My fridge is loaded to the gills with old Chinese food and outdated Go-Gurts. I’m out of bread, eggs, milk, hot dogs, and Ho Hos. I haven’t shaved in four days. I have no clean towels.

This experiment called “summer” has run its course and it’s an epic fail.

I know when I’ve been beat.

Christopher “Bull” Garlington is a syndicated humor writer and a Birmingham native. His first book, by the same name as his column, is available at Amazon.com.

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I wander into my son’s room where he’s fallen asleep like a true warrior, in a puddle of drool surrounded by a crenelated edifice of Brisk cans and spent instant snack ramen bowls. It’s snackhenge.

The dinner table is piled to the roof beams with clean clothes. I put them there with the admonition my kids ought to put away their own duds.

They just started changing in the dining room. There’s a Wii avatar staring at me from the flatscreen. He seems angry, impatient, like he’s been standing there a long time.

He’s looking at me like he’s thinking “Well? What are you going to do now?”

What am I going to do?

The only sane thing left. This experiment called “summer” has run its course and it’s an epic fail. I know when I’ve been beat. I grab my keys, my

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I quit.

I’ve been a slave for nine long weeks. A kept man. A minion for my miniature overlords and I’ve had it. I need to refill my man card.

I go to my favorite cigar lounge and disappear into a deep leather chair under a cloud of fine Nicaraguan smoke. I break out a good book. I order a cup of coffee so strong it can bend time. I wallow deeper into the leather, tilt my hat down over my eyes, and crack the spine on the book.

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Nicaragua.

Seriously. I’m hungry.

I quit.

LOL, dad. You’re funny.

Danny needs a ride home and his dog pooped in the kitchen.

I quit.

Dad? It’s a good cigar. I mean, really, really good. I keep

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Dad, Connor is grubhubbing a pizza. Can I get a pizza?

I quit.

LOL. Hilarious. I’m starving. Some dog pooped in the kitchen.

I quit.

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I quit.

It’s been a long summer.

You probably need a minivacation.

I quit.

Our house is full of kids and dogs and they’re all starving to death. Maybe you should— I quit.

If you quit your duties . . .

I’ll quit mine.

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