2015 VOW Wedding Planner

2015 WEDDING

PLANNER

Category Contents

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TRENDS Trends Spotlight, 2015 Trends

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PREPARATION & PLANNING Wedding Planning & the Internet, Creating the Concept, Plan the Ceremony & the Marriage,Your Wedding Budget, To-Do Timelines

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BEAUTY HEALTH & FITNESS Styled Make-up for your Wedding Day, The Skinny on Vitamins, Smoke Your Look, Shape-up, Carb Cycling PARTIES GIFTS & MORE Bridal Shower Etiquette, Bridal Shower as Unique as You, Gift Registry Checklist

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INVITATIONS & STATIONERY Your Special Delivery, Invitation Etiquette

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BRIDAL FASHIONS Wedding Gowns 2015, The Perfect Dress for your Body Type, The Perfect Color Scheme, Honor the Gown, The Perfect Wedding Style, Gown Made Only for You

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JEWELRY Wedding Band Trends, Keeping your ring Sparkling, Safe and Clean, Jewels for Everyone, The IN with the Ring

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CEREMONY & RECEPTION Perefect Ceremony Sites, Embrace your Theme

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CATERING, CAKES & BEVERAGES Catering Tips, 2015 Cakes Trends, Food and Wine Pairings

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MUSIC The First Song, Top 20 Ceremony Songs, Entertaining your guests at the Dance

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FLOWERS Complete your look with Flowers, The Perfect Flower

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PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY 10 Questions to ask your Wedding Photographer, Engagement Photos, You're not a Videographer, Just be in Love, Why you need a Wedding Video, Pin-up your Wedding Photography

137 HOTELS & TRANSPORTATION Tips in Bridal Transportation, Guest Accomidations 143 DESINATION WEDDINGS & HONEYMOONS Making it legal,Abroad, Where to Honeymoon, Explore your Personal Paradise, Packing for the trip of your Life 151 AFTER THE BIG DAY Changing your Name, Top 5 Reasons to use a Realtor, Custom Cabinetry, Mortgage Myths, Budget Worksheets

Photo attribution can be found on each of the section cover pages

Black Events & Advertising Inc. is the area's leading bridal marketing firm. Our specialty is connecting brides with local bridal companies to create stressfree wedding planning. We offer three products to the local bridal companies.

Designed to bring brides all of the magic of wedding planning! This full wedding planner is filled with specific sections which include articles, hints, tips and built-in tools.

We host the largest and only nationally-accredited bridal show in South Dakota. We spare no expense with our events and are known as the upscale, bestorganized bridal showcase in the area.

This website offers brides the opportunity to build a bride profile page, connect with vendors and have access to articles and resources. It is also the #1 bridal website in the state of South Dakota!

The wedding planner, shows and website all work together offering local bridal companies maximum exposure to local brides for a minimal investment, and the brides love all three!

For more information as a bride or bridal company, contact us: Black Events & Advertising Inc. 3313 S. Western Ave. Sioux Falls, SD 57105 (605) 332-6000 info@blackincevents.com

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PUBLISHED BY: BLACK EVENTS & ADVERTISING INC. Sioux Falls, SD Kari Black: President/CEO Brandon Julson: Graphic Designer Emily Sorenson: Creative Director Kristin Cooke: Event Director Sydney Bartunek: Writer

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VOW (Vision of Weddings) is sponsored by GonnaGetWed.com and is a registered trademark of Black Events & Advertising Inc. Black Inc. assumes no responsibility for unsolicited manuscripts, photographs or artwork, and reserves the right to reject any content, articles or advertising materials. Black Inc. reserves the right to edit, rewrite or reuse material. Contents may not be reproduced in any manner without written consent from Black Inc. Contents may be featured on GonnaGetWed.com.

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Why attend a bridal show? lanning a wedding can be one P of the most stressful events in your life. But it doesn’t need

to be! I star ted GonnaGetWed. com and the GonnaGetWed Bridal Showcases to help relieve stress from Brides! Attending a bridal show and creating a profile on GonnaGetWed.com can help ever y bride save time, meet with wedding industr y exper ts, get ideas, and see the latest wedding trends and fashions. These tips will help you get the most out of the GonnaGetWed Bridal Show.

Pre-register for the Show

Save time by registering before the show. Our lines are long, and pre-registration only takes a few minutes and will save you time in the check-in line. You still need to check into the show to get door prize registrations.

Bring your Friends & Family

Bringing your friends and family to the bridal show will help them feel involved and also give you a head-star t on gathering help for your wedding preparations.

Many brides bring their maids-ofhonor and their bridesmaids to help them with decisions. Many others will bring their mothers or soon to be mothers-in-law especially since they may be the ones paying for it all. Finally, don’t forget the GROOM! He can register for prizes, too, and should get involved early in the planning.

Bring Contact Return Labels

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booths throughout the show.

You will save a ton of time and energy by bringing return labels. We recommend including the following info: your name, address, phone number, wedding date, wedding city and email address.

Take Notes

Or bring your tablet. Just be sure to take notes of vendors you talked to and tr y to rate them or keep some sor t of record of who you liked best. You can also keep notes on ideas, thoughts, and dates of appointments made that day with vendors.

Take Pictures

Many exhibitors have neat displays and you may get some new ideas. Be sure to get permission from the exhibitor before you take photos. It is also fun to get photos of you and your friends and family attending the show for your wedding album.

Set a Budget

Setting your wedding budget and discussing who will be covering the different costs will help you focus on what to look for at the show. Come prepared with lists of questions to help determine if a vendor is right for you and also fits into your budget.

Bring your Checkbook

Many wedding vendors will offer a special discount during the show. Bridal shows draw in hundreds of brides and many with the same wedding date.

Some dates fill up quickly so being able to place a deposit with a vendor you find that you want to book will allow you to secure those professionals.

Prepare

Bring your questions for the different industr y professionals.

Tr y to review the vendors ahead of time that will be at the show.

This will allow you to seek out and spend time talking to those you are really interested in.

Register for Prizes

The GonnaGetWed bridal shows are known for offering the best prizes! These are given away throughout the day with bigger grand prize drawings at the end.

Ever y bride and Ever y groom can register so attend the show together to double your chances.

Wear Comfy Shoes

The bridal show is generally 4 hours long so making sure your feet don’t hur t so you can focus on the tasks at hand is impor tant.

So wear comfy shoes!

Stay All Day

Come early and leave late. This will allow you to visit all the vendors and find ever ything you need. After all, if you tried to go and visit each of the exhibitor’s locations it would take weeks!

So take advantage of having them all in one place for the day. ~ Kari Black, Founder GonnaGetWed.com

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Photography Spotlight Van Dyke Studios (605) 759-7080 stephanie_vandyke@yahoo.com

Feel confident knowing that your photographer will capture all the special moments of your big day, thus creating memories through photos that you will adore for years to come.

Reception Spotlight Sioux Falls Convention Center (605) 367-4100 DennySanfordPremierCenter.com 2015 trends are all about creating a “Memorable Experience” for your guests.

With our “Kitchen Experience” and “Bar Experience” you can provide an interactive element to your wedding reception at the Sioux Falls Convention Center.

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Trends Spotlight

Catering Spotlight MarketPlace Catering (605) 310-1258 laurie@alliancecom.net Create the dining experience you have envisioned with the perfect catering. With a variety of options to select from, choosing a menu to impress can be done with confidence and ease.

Cake Spotlight The Cake Lady (605) 370-1909 anna@thecakeladysf.com Gorgeous and moist cakes are the best of both worlds – eye catching and taste bud pleasing – allowing your guests to have a very sweet experience.

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Trends Spotlight

Bridal Fashion Spotlight Alan Evans Bridal (212) 236-8543 siouxfalls@alanevansbridal.com Become a stunning bride in the dress of your dreams – whether you’re a traditional bride looking to showcase your personality through small accent pieces or a modern brides looking for all the latest trends – there is a dress to please every fashion.

Bridemaids Fashion Spotlight The French Door (605) 332-8841 info@thefrenchdoorbridal.com Let your bridesmaids shine in their own way when allowing each to choose their own dress style within the color scheme. This is a seamless way to add personality and detail to your wedding party.

Destination Spotlight All About Travel (605) 339-8911 1-800-390-6610 AllAboutTravel.org Dreamy Destination Weddings & Honeymoons in Paradise!

Jewelers Spotlight Gunderson's (605) 338-9060 mark@gundersons.com Imagine the same excitement and passion of your wedding day each time you look at your wedding bands and engagement ring.You can achieve that feeling when you choose from a range of styles and cuts from trending to traditional.

Invitation Spotlight PaperWerks (605) 332-3599 krish@expresscopyandprinting.com

Floral accents throughout your invitations capture a fresh and alluring feel making it ideal for spring, summer and fall weddings. Incorporating floral into your invites also lends to the perfect pop of color and flare without being over the top.

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Trends

2015 Trends Trends come and go, but one the thing remains consistent from year to year: your wedding is about you, your groom and your life together!

Having fun and including some of the amazing things about your life is now one of the hottest wedding trends brides are focused on tailoring their weddings around their personalities or specific interests.

All in the Dress Intricate detail on the top half, especially the back of the dress, with the rest of the gown being very simple and elegant is an admired 2015 wedding dress trend. Lots of rhinestone and beading detail is being seen on the back of dresses creating that personalized and memorable feeling that is desired on the big dayperfect for the vintage or elegant bride.

Love Harry Potter books?

What about super heros?

A new trend that is making its way from the runways is the crop top wedding dress with the high-waisted full bottom skirt. Modern-edgy or boho brides are most likely to wear this style and do it in stunning fashion.

Who doesn’t, right? Why not include those elements into your photos or invitations? Highlighting tailored accents highlighting who you are as through personalized accents is a trend that only you can really embrace!

-Syndey bartunek, GonnaGetWEd.com

Photo by Greg & LaRae Photography

Trending Colors Wedding colors that keep popping up in 2015 are shades of cool blues and greens. In particular, dusty blue and mint green, while not paired together, are two colors that are popular as accent colors throughout wedding schemes from bridesmaids’ dresses to accent leafs in bouquets.

Gold accents are trendy for the vintage bride as well as sweeping floral patterns in the skirt of the gown.

Photo by studiofotographie

Photo by Sieversma Photography

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Trends

Wedding Party Groom and Groomsmen attire is shifting towards shades of gray rather than traditional black. Gray or even khaki is very popular paired with a more laid back approach which includes suspenders and bow ties rather than ties and vests. When it comes to bridesmaids, it is trendy to allow the bridesmaids to choose the style of their dress as long as it stays in the same color scheme. This is one example where brides enjoy the added personality and flare each bridesmaid can show through unique dress choice.

Photo by Greg & LaRae Photography

Photo by studiofotographie

Lock of Love Three main looks are trending in 2015 when it comes to hairstyles.

Up-dos are popular, either as a loose, wispy bun to the side or as a sleek elegant bun – also known as topknots. Both styles are a glamorous way that brides are drawing attention to not only their face but the beautiful beaded details on their dresses.

Another popular option for brides is to wear their hair down loose. Bring a photo of your dress along to your hair style consultation appointment – your neckline, dress and jewelry will all contribute to the perfect hairstyle for you wedding.

Photo by studiofotographie

Photo by Greg & LaRae Photography

Photo by Sieversma Photography

Photo by Greg & LaRae Photography

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Wedding Tips!

Things to have in mind as the big day approaches! u Pick your date wisely Choosing a day other than Saturday may be less expensive, but it may also require for your guests and wedding par ty to take more time off of work.

Depending on the time of year, that may make it challenging for out-of-town guests to attend.

Choose your date wisely!

u Don’t make guests wait You shouldn't have more than 2 hours between ceremony and reception. Plan something fun like a cocktail hour, a tour of downtown, or a wedding scavenger hunt for guests before the reception.

u Think the menu through Provide alternatives for people who have allergies, dietar y restrictions, or vegan/vegetarians. Having a kids menu is also a good idea!

u Think about the weather and

plan accordingly

You can look through the last 50 years of the farmers’ almanac tracking weather trends, but you never know what the weather will be like on your wedding day. If you are getting married outside, it could be hot, it could be cold, it could rain. Face it – it could snow! Make sure you have a back-up plan and that your wedding theme corresponds.

u Keep your guests budgets in

mind when registering

You and your groom are star ting out and you probably need ever ything to furnish this new life.

But your registr y should have more than 1000 thread Egyptian Cotton Sheets, Cr ystal glassware, and big screen TVs. Most likely, your friends and family have lives of their own they have to pay

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for and many of them may be traveling to your wedding. Your gift registr y should have a variety of price points. Sure, your co-workers may team up to buy you something special. But your retired aunt and uncle who still have your cousin living in their basement may need to buy you something a little less expensive – ever yone needs new towels!

u To drink or not to drink Whether you like to par ty or not, having a cash bar isn’t ver y inviting to your guest. Having ever yone getting tanked at an open bar isn’t great either. Tr y to find an option that will work, like offering a few drink tickets to people or offering free beer and wine. There is a way to find the happy medium between no drinks and free drinks.

u Anticipate the needs of your guests Leave some extra parking spaces toward the front both at the ceremony and the reception for elderly guests.

Make sure you have some extra comfor table chairs for people to sit on if need be.

u Greet each guest personally

The trend has been to greet ever yone at the wedding either in a receiving line at the back of the ceremony location or to greet them as they are exiting their seats.

Whichever way you choose to greet your guest, make sure you DO IT. They traveled here, they bought you a gift, they came for your special day – Say “Hello” & “Thank you”!

u Feed the Photographer/DJ/Band etc.

They work hard. Feed them. Enough said.

u It is your day. Enjoy it and don't forget to have fun!

Preparation Preparation & Planning & Photos by Elliment Photography

Planning

WEDDING PLANNING & THE INTERNET CREATING THE CONCEPT PLAN THE WEDDING & THE MARRIAGE WEDDING ETIQUETTE WEDDING BUDGET WORKSHEETS

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he modern bride can have wedding planning at her finger tips! Every detail of your wedding can travel with you everywhere you go – online! There are a lot of online resources available to help organize your thoughts, attach pictures, write documents, create checklists and stay on top of ALL of the wedding details.

Some sites are better than others!

GonnaGetWed.com – Okay, we are a bit partial, but we have created GonnaGetWed.com for this exact purpose! There are a lot of details to keep track of and there are a lot of national websites you can use to organize. But the national websites don’t connect you with the local vendors you will need to work with.

GonnaGetWed.com is your one-stop for wedding planning and connecting with the photographers, reception sites, florist and more right next door.

Pinterest – Who doesn’t love Pinterest?! Pinterest is a wonderful resource to see new trends, unique ideas, and traditional treasures. One of the best features of Pinterest is that you can create your own boards and pin different images to that board, or category. You can create a board called Flowers and as you search for flower arrangements online, you can pin your favorite pictures to that board. The challenge of Pinterest is that many times, the DIY projects you think will save you money don’t always work out the way you want. They either end up being more expensive or are a lot harder and don’t turn out as well.

Trello – Trello is a free online collaboration site that has nothing to do with weddings. But it is all about planning and collaborating with other people! It is free, although you can

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upgrade to paid versions, if you need.

You can create checklists, assign tasks, move items from “To-Do”, to “Doing”, to “Done.” For tasks that require Due Dates, you can export the calendar and import them into your email calendar to help stay on task!

Planning a wedding is a big task – a really big task! Using a wedding planner (like the VOW) is a great way to stay on track. The internet can help you search for and find great ideas, but those “great ideas” may not be right for you or your budget.

Connecting with local talent who can help you is going to be the best thing. Recent Sioux Falls bride Kristin Cooke’s advice for a great wedding is “having competent people helping you out.” Connect with local providers – connect with businesses you can rely on – that is truly the key to a seamless wedding day.

EMILY SORENSON, GONNAGETWED.COM

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Creating the concept how to pick the perfect theme for your wedding

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Take advantage of all types of online planning tools to help you figure out the tone for your wedding. Start pulling ideas from Pinterest, online wedding magazines, and blogs.This is a great way to get the ball rolling. By far it is the easiest way to find tons of ideas on how to personalize your wedding from real brides from all over the country.Also, don’t be afraid to find other ideas elsewhere besides the Internet. Check out local venues, garden centers, and wedding shows to find ideas. Collecting these ideas is the first step in creating a theme that is truly personal to you.

Inspiration P

Start gathering certain items that are near and dear to you.They can be anything! Maybe it’s a handbag with intricate beading or a photo of an exotic location; just make sure they are things you love. Once you have selected a few items start figuring out what exactly it is you love about those items. Are they all similar colors? Do they all have a bold pattern? Maybe they are all full of embellishments and intricate details. Once you have figured out the common factors you can use that as a starting point for creating your concept. This will help set the tone for your wedding whether it be bold, bright, soft, or modern.

Also don’t be afraid to think outside the box. If you find an item you love that is not traditionally used in wedding décor think of ideas on how you could incorporate it into your day. That idea could become the statement piece of your wedding and create a truly original concept.

Color P

What colors are you drawn to on an everyday basis? A great starting point is taking a look at the colors you surround yourself with. Take a look at your closet and your home décor. Once you have found a color you like pick a hue that compliments it as an accent color. This can be anything from the opposite color on the color wheel to a darker or lighter shade of the original hue you selected. This pallet will then become the color scheme you use throughout your wedding. Make sure to consider your color selections in the season you will be getting married. Also consider colors that may compliment blooms or foliage that are in season for your wedding.

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Once you have found all of these elements its time to solidify your theme. Come up with a word or phrase to describe your wedding from all of the items you have selected. Keep it short and sweet.This will help you make sure you stick to your original concept when selecting certain items for the big day.

Create P Now that you have your color pallet and a concept it’s time to put it all together into a visual story of what you visualize for your day. Gather all your magazine clippings, photos, color swatches, and other items and create a small storyboard or scrapbook. Creating this will allow you to show a visual representation of what your vision is to family, friends, and most important of all your vendors. Make sure to make it small enough that it can easily be taken with you when selecting items such as bridesmaid dresses and your cake for the big day. The most important thing to remember through this process is no idea is too corky or crazy. Make sure it is what you want and that it is a true reflection of you and your groom as a couple.The more personal you make it, the more special the day becomes. If you remember those few things you will have created a wedding your guests will never forget.

- Lucy Henglefelt, Redefined Design & Events

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Plan the Ceremony & the marriage

“ I now pronounce you husband and wife…”

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his announcement marks the end of the marriage ceremony and the beginning of married life. Without a doubt, one of the most important things to realize is that marriage is a covenant relationship in which God is a part of the union. He created man and woman and instituted the marriage union. God no longer sees you as two individuals, He sees you as one with two individual personalities.

“A man shall leave his father and mother and shall be joinedto his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.”

(Ephesians 5:31) One of the most important strengths in your marriage will be cultivating open and strong communication. The most powerful force on earth is a husband and wife who understand each other, and are in agreement concerning their home, life, and future plans together. Jesus said, “If two of you agree on earth concerning anything you ask, it will be done for you by My Father who is in heaven” (Matthew 18:19). Always remember that in making decisions, you will be each other’s best counsel. Every decision will affect you both, so agreement is vital.

The goal in your marriage relationship is to move into a level of conversation where you are open to share about anything and everything. At this level there are no areas that you have to hide or cover up, no areas where you are limited, no touchy subjects you can’t talk about. In other words, there is nothing hidden and you can enjoy transparency and openness. You can avoid many challenges in your marriage if you learn to listen, and give opportunity for both parties to speak.

Communication breaks down when one is afraid that what they have to say will be rejected or put down, or maybe they will be embarrassed or criticized. Don’t let that be a barrier in your relationship. Sometimes one spouse won’t talk, because anything they say they feel put down. Learn to break through these fears and communicate with openness and willingness to listen. Set your goals on agreement, loving understanding, and be willing to compromise. One of your greatest joys in your relationship will be deep, intimate, heart to heart talks on a daily basis. So set aside time regularly whether over coffee in the morning, during lunch or in the evening on the deck. Identify some place and time where you can open up and share freely together. It will strengthen every other area of your life, home, and family you are building together.

I’d like to suggest one book that will help start you off on the right foot: “His Needs, Her Needs” by Willard Harley. May your marriage reflect the love and kindness of God! - Vicky & Michael Bang, Faith Family Church

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- Vicky & Michael Bang, Faith Family Church

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Who pays for what?

Wedding P

lanning a wedding can be both stressful and expensive. Here is a list of who traditionally pays for what items in the wedding:

Bride’s Family

• Engagement Party (optional) • Stationary – Save-the-dates, Invitations, etc.

• Bridal Consultant • Wedding Gown/Accessories • Flowers for Ceremony & Reception • Bridesmaid’s Bouquets • Reception • Music • Photography • Videography • Ceremony • Transportation to Reception • Family’s Wedding Attire (Mother of the Bride dress, Father of the Bride’s suit or Tux, etc.)

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Bride

• Grooms Ring • Wedding gift for Groom • Bridesmaid’s luncheon • Gifts for Bridesmaids

Groom’s Family

• Rehearsal Dinner • Engagement Party (optional) • Wedding Attire

Groom

• Bride’s Rings • Marriage License • Officiants Fee • Grooms formalwear • Brides Bouquet, Boutineers for family • Gifts for groomsmen • Gift for the bride • Gift for parents • Honeymoon • Transportation to the honeymoon

Attendants

• Bachelor and Bachelorette Parties • Gifts for the Bride and Groom • Their own wedding attire (i.e. suit/ tux rental & dresses, shoes, etc.)

• Their own transportation to the wedding (airfare, etc.)

Of course, remember this is just a guideline, not a rule! Every wedding is different, every family is different and everyone has a different situation, so each bride and groom will have to work out the details of who pays for what themselves. In the last few years it has been in fashion for the couple to pay for everything and the families help with what they can, the key is always a budget! So start yours today, and happy planning!

-Emily Sorenson, GonnaGetWed.com

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Your Wedding Budget Figuring out how much to spend on your wedding can be tough – there are a lot of things to consider! How many guests? What type of venue for the reception? A destination wedding or a wedding down the street? Outdoor or indoor? Are you going to pay for it all yourself or are your parents going to help?

Every wedding is different and every budget should be different. Here is a little guide to help you determine approximately how much you should be spending on each area of your wedding.

Reception/Entertainment Dress/Accessories Photography Flowers Ceremony music Invitations/Stationery Wedding Rings Gifts Wedding Cake Hair/ Make-up/ Nails Miscellaneous

45% 8% 10% 8% 10% 2% 2% 2% 2% 2% 9%

• Establish a solid budget • Determine the type of wedding you would like • Look for venues • Everything else can fall in line

Reception Dress/Accesories Photography Flowers Ceremony/Music Invitations/Stationery

Wedding rings Gifts Wedding cake Hair/Make-up/Nails Miscehllenous

Be an educated consumer! Look for deals. Booking a venue during their off season may yield in a discounted rate. Renting decorations may be more affordable than buying. Explore your options – there is always another option. Look at them and choose what is best for you and your groom.

The most important thing to think about when planning a budget is the big picture! Yes – this is the most important day of your life, but the point to getting married is to build a life with your spouse. Starting out $20,000 in debt isn’t the best idea. Nor is spending your parent’s retirement savings!

Maybe your ideal wedding is a small personal affair with close friends and family. Or maybe you will invite everyone who follows you on Pinterest! Decide what type of wedding you will have before you start making purchases and paying deposits. Remember, this is his wedding also. Make sure you are planning something you both will really love.

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Your Wedding Budget Anticipated

Actual

Beauty, Health & Fitness:

$

$

Parties, Gifts & More:

$

$

Invitations & Stationery:

$

$

Bridal Fashions:

$

$

Jewelry:

$

$

Ceremony :

$

$

Reception:

$

$

Food & Beverage:

$

$

Music:

$

$

Flowers:

$

$

Photography/Videography:

$

$

Hotel/Transportation:

$

$

Honeymoon/Travel:

$

$

Misc. Items:

$

$

Your Total Wedding Budget =

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Your Wedding Budget Beauty, Health & Fitness

Parties, Gifts & More

Bride’s Hair

$

Bridal Party Gifts

$

Makeup

$

Groom’s Gift

$

Nails/Manicure

$

Bride’s Gift

$

Pedicure

$

Parents' Gifts

$

Tanning

$

Gifts forWedding Attendants

$

Gym Membership/Weightloss

$

Favors

$

Teeth Whitening

Bridal Shower

$ $

Skin care Treatments

$ $ $

Misc.

$

Massage/Facial

Bachelorette/Bachelor Party

SUBTOTAL: SUBTOTAL:

$

Wedding Gown

Invitations

$

Veil & Headpiece

Reply Cards

$

Undergarments/Garter

Thank You Cards

$

Shoes & Hosiery

Save the Date Cards

$

Other Accessories

Guest Book & Pen

$

Bridesmaids' Dresses

Napkins

$

Flower Girl Dress(es)

Programs

$

Groom’s Attire

Place Cards

$ $

Socks, Shoes, Tie, Etc. Groomsmen Formal

Maps/Direction Cards

$

Wear

Guest Accommodation

$

Misc.

Cards

$ $

SUBTOTAL: 18

Bridal Fashions:

EngagementAnnouncements

Calligrapher

$

$

Invitations/Stationery:

Stamps/Postage

$

$

$ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $ $

SUBTOTAL:

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Your Wedding Budget Jewelry:

Ceremony:

Her Engagement Ring

$

Officiant Fee

$

Her Wedding Ring

$

Location Fee

$

His Wedding Ring

$

Marriage License

$

Ceremony Jewelry

$

Ring Pillow

$

Bridesmaid Jewelry

$

Unity Candles

$

Custom Engraving

$

Isle Runner

$

Sizing & Sottering

$

Other Rentals

$

Other:

$

Misc.

$

SUBTOTAL:

$

Reception:

SUBTOTAL:

$

Food/Beverages:

Site Fee

$

Reception Hors d’oeuvres

Centerpieces

$

$

Reception Dinner

$

Chairs & Tables

$

Bar Setup Fee

Linens

$

Keg Bar Fees

$ $

Dance Floor

$

Cake & Cake Stand

$

China & Glassware

$

Corkage Fee

Serving Pieces

$

Punch, Mints & Nuts

$ $

Decorations & Supplies

$

Misc.

$

Rentals

$ $

Misc.

SUBTOTAL: SUBTOTAL:

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$

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Your Wedding Budget Ceremony Music: Vocalist/Ensemble Pianist/Organist Guitarist/Violinist/Cellist Other: ________________

Flowers: $ $ $ $

Reception Music:

Bridesmaids & Flower Girl Ceremony Flowers

$ $ $

Reception Flowers

$

Altar Flowers

$

Mother/Grandmother Corsages

$

Cocktail Hour Musicians

$

Other Helpers' Corsages

$

DJ

$

Groom Boutonnieres

$

Band

$

Dad/Other Men Boutonnieres

$

Other: ________________

$

Centerpieces

$

Head Table Flowers

$

Cake Flowers, Guest Book

$

SUBTOTAL:

Photography:

$

SUBTOTAL:

$

Wedding Photos

$

Digital Files

$

Photo Albums

$

Additional Prints

$

Transportation:

Custom Framing

$

Limousine/Transportation

Videographer Final Video & Copies Unedited Video Other:

SUBTOTAL:

$

Hotel:

Engagement Photos

Videography:

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Beverage Fees Parents' Transportation Tips or Gratuity Other:

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Entertainment

$

Misc.

$

$

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To Do Timeline Shortly After Engagement

6 - 9 Months

q Introduce families q Have an engagement party q Set wedding date q Get organized and keep track of details and vendor information q Meet with all parties financially responsible q Set overall budget and sub-budgets q Assign expenses to all parties q Interview and hire wedding coordinator q Attend wedding shows and related events to gather information q Select and secure ceremony location and officiant q Select and confirm inclement weather plan if outside location q Select and secure reception location and catering q Interview wedding photographers and videographers q Secure photographer and videographer

q Narrow down the guest list q Have each family compile guests' current addresses q Apply for permits pertaining to reception such as parking,

9 - 12 Months q Start workout/weight loss program q Take engagement pictures q Send engagement announcement to local papers with photo q Select and confirm the bridal party q Select colors, themes and details q Start shopping for bridal gown and bridal party attire q Start guest list q Select and secure cake designer q Research floral preferences and start wish list q Interview and hire ceremony musicians/vocalists q Book a DJ / band q Start planning honeymoon and meet with travel agent q Apply for passport, if needed q Meet with officiant and schedule premarital classes

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fireworks, alcohol, etc.

Order wedding gown allowing time for 2-3 fittings Get a swatch of fabric from gown for matching accessories Select and order bridesmaid gowns Shop for accessories: bra/panties, hosiery, headpiece,veil, petticoat/slip, gloves, jewelry, wrap/shawl, handbag, garter, etc.

Start looking for formal wear – take your fiancé to match styles Consider purchased vs. rented suits or tuxedos Purchase groom’s wedding band Purchase bride’s wedding band Buy additional jewelry insurance Purchase wedding day jewelry for everyone Get your rings sized and engraved Investigate ethnic customs and cultural traditions to incorporate Purchase wedding insurance Start planning your ceremony music and song selections Start looking for decor, rentals, etc.

Schedule a tasting with your caterer Book rehearsal dinner and caterer Meet with florists to start selecting flowers Send all deposits due Select and book transportation Reserve wedding night suite Block guest rooms Make honeymoon down payment

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To Do Timeline 4 - 6 Months

2 - 4 Months

q Review and select gift registry(s) q Start skin care treatments or have consultation q Make plans for any dental work q Start looking at party favors q Decide on a personal wedding logo concept q Finalize guest list and send save the dates q Select and order invitations and personalized stationery q Prepare maps/driving directions q Prepare guest accommodation information q Prepare list of area attractions for out of town guests q Hire calligrapher q Order personalized items like napkins and ribbons q Order personalized party favors and gifts q Attend first fitting; bring shoes, lingerie and accessories q Have bridesmaids schedule and attend fittings q Shop for mothers' dresses or attire q Get fitted for purchased men's attire requiring tailoring q Order all men's attire after fitting q Select cuff links, shirts, ties, etc. and order if getting

q Schedule teeth whitening q Set up hair and makeup appointments q Schedule a spa day bridal party for week of wedding q Get blood tests/physicals for marriage certificate q Attend second fittings q Start dance instruction classes q Engrave cake server, knife, etc. q Select and order gifts for bridal party, parents, etc. q Mail all wedding invitations q Purchase or make guest book q Have programs designed and printed q Mail rehearsal dinner invitations q Choose and reserve formal wear if renting; have all the

monogrammed q Make reservations for all wedding rentals q Double check all reservations with wedding vendors q Discuss menu and finalize selections with caterer q Finalize all ceremony music: prelude, attendants’ processional, bride’s processional, ceremony/interludes, recessional and postlude q Provide musicians with all sheet music q Start song lists for reception and dance q Finalize honeymoon plans q Assign and confirm wedding responsibilities with friends and family (coordinator, reception tables, greeters, host /hostess, etc.)

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men fitted Choose what groomsmen will be wearing: ties, bow ties, cummerbunds, etc.

Finalize times for rehearsal with officiant Finalize and purchase final decorations, ring pillow, flower girl basket, garter, candles, toasting glasses, favors, centerpieces, card box, disposable cameras, etc.

Choose readings and readers; provide for practice Finalize details with cake designer Purchase cake topper Finalize fresh flower order Create photo montage for reception Make list of photos you want taken with both families Finalize transportation details Meet insurance agents to ensure all insurance is in place Plan bridesmaids' luncheon Schedule vacation from work Confirm ceremony details and ceremony music Get any immunizations needed for honeymoon

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To Do Timeline 6 - 8 Weeks

2 Weeks

q Schedule to start tanning

q Make groom hair appointment for cut/color q Test run with hair designer and makeup artist q Get ring sautered q Schedule and have facials q Get waxed for him/her q Attend spa and relaxation day for bridal party q Deliver welcome bags to hotel for guest rooms q Write out placement cards for assigned seating q Prepare wedding announcement for the newspaper q Pick up wedding dress: try it on one last time q Write any toasts or words of thanks for reception q Tally guests' meal count & inform caterer q Arrange for cleanup after ceremony & reception q Confirm all arrangements with ALL your vendors q Put all final payments due on wedding day in envelopes q Confirm out-of-town guest reservations with hotel q Assemble wedding day emergency kit, including: sewing

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(Spray tans no closer than 1 week before wedding) Plan bachelor/bachelorette parties Recruit friends to help with party favor assembly Have all bridal showers Follow-up with guests who have not RSVP’d Mail shower and party thank you cards Set up your final wedding-dress fitting Verify all groomsmen were fitted, purchased suits, had final fitting (wear dress shoes to fitting) Finish pre-marital classes Confirm all ceremony and reception details Decide on wedding vows Finalize the ceremony contents with officiant Double check when all final payments are due Schedule floral preservation for bouquet Have photographer and videographer visit all sites Finalize details with photographer and videographer Prepare contact info for all wedding vendors Get shoes dyed Put together children’s party favors/entertainment kits

4 - 6 Weeks q Buy gift for fiancé q Pick up wedding rings q Plan seating arrangements for reception q Decide on order of reception including toasts, dinner, cake cutting, etc.

q Finalize music selections: first dance, father-daughter, etc. q Go over music selections with DJ/Band q Get box for cake top q Line up sitters for children at ceremony q Attend final fittings for everyone q Practice bustling wedding dress

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kit, clear fingernail polish, extra nylons, hairspray, stain remover wipes, etc.

Pack all accessories: jewelry, veil, shoes, panty hose, etc.

Delegate post wedding tux returns Get information for name change Confirm rehearsal plans and finalize guest count Apply for marriage license Mail itinerary to wedding party and those involved Confirm and make final honeymoon payment

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Night Before Wedding

q Have bachelor/bachelorette parties q Wrap wedding party gifts q Practice on site with musicians and vocalists q Print out several copies of the seating chart arrangements

q Rehearse the ceremony details with wedding party q Discuss seating details with ushers; practice q Show parents and grandparents where they will be seated q Give marriage license to officiant q Finish any ceremony site decorations q Have rehearsal dinner q Give gifts to wedding party q Make arrangements for vehicles to be delivered to reception site on the wedding day

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for those seating guests Make arrangements to decorate the reception location Finalize seating arrangement Make mints and finish favors Start packing for honeymoon Break in shoes and scuff the bottoms

1 -2 Days

Day of Wedding

q Pickup rented men's attire and try on at shop q Finalize envelopes with payments and cash tips q Confirm rehearsal time with those involved q Deliver your wedding gown, bridesmaids' dresses,

q Have a nice breakfast and drink lots of water q Wear a button up shirt to your hair and makeup appointments q Allow plenty of time to get dressed q Take photos before or after ceremony q Get witness signatures on the certificate q Make payments that are due q Remember thank you card for officiant q Relax & Have Fun!

accessories and other items to ceremony site if they can be safely stored

Day Before Wedding q Decorate the ceremony location q Decorate the reception location q Get manicure/pedicure done

After Wedding q Return tuxedos to rental shop q Go on your honeymoon q Send out all final thank you notes q Make sure insurance information was properly changed q File for name change q Change name on all insurance, home, car, bank accounts, etc

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Wedding Day Emergency Kit A checklist of things every bride should have on hand on her wedding day.

Be prepared! Check off items as you assemble your kit.

GROOMING Hand lotion, wet wipes Tissues Cotton balls, cotton swabs Makeup Makeup remover Nail polish in shade worn Nail polish remover Nail file Tweezers Small grooming scissors Small hand towel Lint brush

Curling iron, hot rollers Hair dryer Brush, comb Hairspray, hair gel Bobby pins, hair elastics, barrettes Headband/clips Toothbrush, toothpaste, floss Mouthwash Baby powder Deodorant Perfume Tissues

ATTIRE “Throwaway� garter Clearnail polish for runs in panty-hose Extra earring backs Extra buttons Flat shoes for the reception Extra panty-hose

Safety pins and a sewing kit with thread Masking tape or sewing tape (for last-minute ripped hems) Small scissors (for thread) Club soda or other stain removal solutions Iron and/or steamer

HEALTH/MEDICAL Antacid Bandages Aspirin, pain relievers Feminine hygiene products (tampons, panty liners, etc.)

Upset stomach remedy Antihistamine, cold remedy, any prescription medications

MISCELLANEOUS Extra copies of directions to reception Small flashlight Breath mints Folding utility knife Duct tape Cell phone and phone numbers of all wedding participants Snacks Cooler with juice, sodas and bottled water Contact information for all vendors

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Vendor Information QUESTIONS TO ASK ALL VENDORS YOU HIRE... u Do you have liability insurance? u Is there a deposit due and when? u When is the balance due? u What is the cancellation policy? u Do you accept credit cards? uHow do you handle unforeseen issues? u Do you have a backup plan if something goes wrong on our wedding day?

GENERAL VENDOR HIRING HINTS u Ask friends and family to recommend service providers and venues that were satisfactory. u Talk to your friends who were recently married. They are an excellent source of knowledge. u The first question to ask potential service providers: Do you have my date open? This will save

you time and energy if they do not. u Meet with several vendors in each category before you hire any particular one, even if you really loved the first one you met. u Be sure to conduct an interview with a potential vendor, regardless if you have several great referrals for him or her.Your personalities might clash, indicating a wrong fit for you. u Ask for a tour, samples, demos, previews, pictures and referrals from all your vendors before they are hired. Don’t just take their word for it. u Once you find a vendor you want… don’t wait, book them!

GENERAL CONTRACT GUIDELINES u Look over the entire contract. If you don’t understand something, ask them! If you have an

attorney, you may want them to review the larger contracts. u Make sure your contracts all have the date, time, location and a detailed description of all services and items to be provided by the vendor. u Make sure the contract includes ALL fees and how they apply: late fees, overtime charges, gratuities, open-ended charges, etc. Also make sure they include times, if time sensitive, and try to put a cap on prices if they could get out of control. u Contracts must stipulate the deposit amount, due date and all payments and amounts due. u Do not sign if you do not agree with any part of the contract. Instead, negotiate the details and have a new contract drafted that you feel comfortable signing. u Make sure you get a copy of the contract before you leave with both signatures and the date singed.

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Questions to Ask! Questions for Wedding Consultant/Planner u Do you have a portfolio with photos of

weddings you’ve planned? u Do you have a business license? u How long have you been in business? u Are you certified? By what association? u What is your fee? Do you charge hourly, a flat fee or a percentage of the total wedding budget? u If the fee is hourly or based on a percentage, are you willing to put a cap on the total fee? u Can we hire you to plan the entire event? u Can we hire you to help with just some of the planning? u Can we hire you to help on the wedding day only? u What details do you handle? u What details won’t you handle? u How many meetings should we plan to have? u Can we conduct business by phone, fax or e-mail? u If site has been selected: Do you know the catering manager/events planner at our site? u Do you have vendors you’ve worked with in the past? u Are there a few you like for each service or just one vendor for each? u Do these service providers offer your clients discounts?

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u Do these service providers give you a personal financial incentive to work with them, aside from any discount that we may receive? u What would the process be for selecting and hiring vendors for our wedding? u Do you like to take complete control or do you welcome our ideas and participation?

u Will you be on hand the day of the wedding? u How many other events will you be organizing that day? u How many people on your staff will be at the wedding? u How long has your staff worked with you? u How will you (and your staff) be dressed? u Do you have liability insurance? u How does the payment schedule work? u What is your cancellation policy? u Do you have references? If hiring consultant to be at wedding: u What happens if you are ill on our wedding day? u Do you require meals? u Will you travel if necessary? u Will there be additional expenses for parking and travel?

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Beauty,Health,& Fitness

Photos by Greg & LaRae Photography

MAKE-UP STYLE | THE SKINNY ON VITAMINS SMOKE YOUR LOOK | SHAPE UP CARB CYCLING

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Styled Makeup for your wedding day

Once you know what bridal style you gravitate most towards, picking your wedding day make-up will be an easy task.

The modern bride lives to make an impression, and her wedding day style is no exception. Modern brides, go for a high impact eye shadow, choosing one color for your orbital bone and lid, and a contrasting color for your crease. Balance out this look with a neutral lip color.

The vintage bride embodies nostalgia like no other. She can effortlessly channel Marilyn Monroe and her iconic red lip.

Choose this huge wisely. For brides with cool undertones, look for berries and crimsons. For brides with warm undertones, find rouge with an orange tint. But don’t forget about your cheeks! Blushed dimples will complete your vintage look for your wedding day.

The traditional bride’s look is centered on her classic beauty.

Accent your features naturally with gold or champagne colored eye shadow and a soft pink lip. Choose a lip liner just one shade darker than your lipstick for contrast. Finish off your lips with a sheer gloss and give to your maid of honor for reapplication throughout the day.

The elegant bride loves all things sophisticated. Her timeless make up style is made easy with a wine colored smoky eye for her big day. With a neutral base brush the claret shade on your lid and finish the look with a liquid eyeliner.

On the inside corners of your eyes, tap your neutral eye shadow to brighten your eyes.

No matter which style you choose for your wedding day look, remember to own it. Your confidence will make you more beautiful than the makeup on your face ever will!

-Kristin Cooke GonnaGetWed.com

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Photo by Van Dyke Studios

Van Dyke Studios

NO MATTER WHICH STYLE YOU CHOOSE FOR YOUR WEDDING DAY LOOK , REMEMBER TO OWN IT .

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Photo by Van Dyke Studios

Photo by Van Dyke Studios

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Photo by Van Dyke Studios

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The Re:Balance Center is Sioux Falls newest destination for therapeutic alternatives to Re:Balance your mind, body and spirit. We offer several options to help manage stress and promote weight-loss not only in preparation for your wedding, but to meet your overall wellness goals.

We offer juice detox programs, colon hydrotherapy, nutritional coaching, personal training and more. Schedule a session in our Photon Genius to burn 700 calories per session and leave with healthy, radiant skin!

Feel your best on your big day! Call today to schedule an appointment with one of our Wellness Professionals to customize a Bride-to-Be wellness program for you!

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The

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ou're engaged; Congratulations!

You may be like all the other brides who want amazing photos of her with her life mate, after all, it's going to be posted to Facebook, it's going to hang in not only your home, but in the homes of your parents and grandparents.Yes, everyone will see if you had great hair and skin, how you fit into your wedding dress, and how relaxed (or stressed) you were during the photo shoot.You will want to look your best, but where do you start?

Studies say Vitamin A (also known as retinoids) can aid in reducing wrinkles, fading brown spots, and smooth skin texture.Vitamin A is available in lotions, creams, capsules and some prescriptions. Vitamin C is similar to Vitamin A in that it also helps smooth skin and fade brown spots by inhibiting free radicals that trigger wrinkling, sagging, and other aging changes. Rather than searching

for the perfect, most likely expensive, potion or lotion, consider turning to produce instead. Pomegranate fruit contains both Vitamin A and Vitamin C and may be enjoyed as a delicious whole fruit snack. Other fresh fruit, like lemon or papaya, can be used on the skin topically straight from the grocery store too! After washing your face clean, you can actually use the flesh side of a papaya skin to apply as a peel.Yes, rub the flesh side of a papaya on clean skin (chunks and all) and let it dry before you rinse it clean with cold water for a great enzymatic peel for improved skin texture and a beautiful glow! If you are concerned about pigmentation or acne, lemon can be applied directly to clean skin. The citric acid in lemons acts as a natural bleaching component. Add 2 Tsp of lemon juice to 3 Tbsp of water and apply to affected area with

cotton pad. Allow to sit on skin for up to 30 minutes and rinse clean with cold water.You may repeat this as often as necessary. If you experience any skin irritation, you can add organic honey to mixture for a calming, hydrating effect. Regular use of pure, fresh lemon juice applied to skin can also heal acne. Simply dilute and apply to the skin the same way as discussed, leave on for up to 15 minutes, and rinse clean with cold water. Lemons are full of Vitamin C, Vitamin B, Phosphorous, and Carbohydrates. The fruit acids are amazing as a beauty enhancer, and if you regularly consume water with fresh squeezed lemons, add organic honey if you'd like for taste, you can clean you system internally and attain acne-free skin. Lemons are a beauty must!

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rides are changing. Today’s trends are contemporary and urban, and that is why smokey eyes are such a beautiful, modern bridal look. The days when brides had to choose between two looks for their wedding are gone. Now, brides can be more adventurous and start having fun with their make up!

Smokey eyes are not just a nighttime look anymore. With this universal look, it doesn’t matter what skin tone or eye color you have, there’s a smokey look for everyone. So here are a few tips to achieve the perfect smokey eye on your wedding day: 1. Prepare the lid The key to keeping eyeshadow from melting into your eyelid crease as the day goes on is to keep eyelids oil-free.

To do this, start with an eyeshadow base or primer. Swipe it across the eye and let it dry before you continue to the next step.

2. Apply eyeliner If you’re going for a typical black, brown or gray smoky eye, apply liner in one of those colors above the upper lash line, drawing the line thicker in the middle of eye. If you’re opting for a jewel-toned eye, line eyes with a purple, blue or deep green eye liner.

3. Blend in color on bottom lashes For color on the bottom of your eyes, use an eyeliner pencil, because they’re easiest to smudge. Once the line is drawn, run your finger over it to smudge the line. You can also apply a bit of shadow to get full smudge effect.

4. Apply light base color Sweep a light, shimmery shadow over the lids to your brow bone.

5. Blend the darker color Be sure to keep the dark color below the crease. Using an eyeshadow brush, blend in color starting at your lash line, blending up. Make sure to blend color into the lash line so the eye liner disappears. Stop the deep color your at crease. The key here is to blend, blend, blend!

6. Double-check your work Make sure both eyes match, and blend the colors with a Q-tip if needed.

7. Top it off with mascara You’ll want to finish the look by applying a few coats of mascara so lashes are thick and dark.

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PROTIEN builds and maintains muscles.

Protein also breaks down more slowly than carbs and fat,which burns even more calories and helps you feel fuller longer.

CARBS / STARCHES are the preferred fuel source for your muscles and organs, and they come in healthy versions (vegetables, fruits, grains, and legumes), and not-so-healthy versions (cakes, cookies, soda, doughnuts, candy, and many processed foods). Healthy carbs are also crucial for burning calories, and since they break down more slowly than those not-sohealthy carbs, they keep your blood sugar and energy levels steady, and they also keep your calorie-burning furnace hot so it burns more calories!

HEALTHY FATS Healthy fats (unsaturated fats) eaten in moderation help the development and function of your eyes and brain and help prevent heart disease, stroke, depression, and arthritis. Healthy fats also help keep your energy levels steady and keep you from feeling hungry.

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• You’ll eat the foods you love.

Reduce coffee, soda, energy drinks with artificial sweeteners

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Cheese sticks – part skim, low fat Hard Boiled Eggs Unsalted almonds or nuts

• You’ll build lean, strong muscles.

SO WHY DO WE ALTERNATE HIGH-CARB & LOW-CARB DAYS IN CARB CYLCING? Healthy fats (unsaturated fats) eaten in moderation help the development and function of your eyes and brain and help prevent heart disease, stroke, depression, and arthritis. Healthy fats also help keep your energy levels steady and keep you from feeling hungry.

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Is there an additional cost for a trial run or is it part of the fee if I book your services?

Will you stay to help me with my hair, veil, headpiece and make-up touch-ups after the ceremony? At what additional cost?

How long will it take to have my hair and makeup done?

Do you bring your own equipment and hair products?

What kind of space and lighting do you need?

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How many hair styles and makeup can you complete and how long do you need?

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How long will it take and what is the fee?

If you are not at the wedding, can you provide me with hair products and makeup for quick fixes?

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Will you bring an assistant or additional help?

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Will you or your assistant style my attendants’ hair and do their makeup?

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Choose a hairstyle you are comfortable with. You want to look like yourself on your wedding day.

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Plan a practice for your hair and makeup to make sure you like the style and colors. Once completed, take photos of the final look so you can refer to them on your day.

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Take it easy on the tan. Don’t try to cram in two months of tanning in one week. For spray on tanning have your last treatment at least one week prior to the wedding.

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Don’t make drastic changes to your body right before your wedding. Don’t starve yourself or resort to crash dieting. Instead opt for a 4-6 month exercise routine.

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Prepare a reasonable weight loss plan and stick to it!

(A pound a week is the healthiest.)

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Ask friends to work out with you. This will keep you motivated and on track.

Don’t get a brand new haircut before your wedding; just get a trim a few weeks before.

u Don’t have a facial or any other skin treatments within two weeks of your wedding. You want to have time for your skin to recover and you don’t want red blotchy skin.

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If you are having your makeup professionally done, purchase or ask for samples so that you’ll be able to do touch ups throughout the day.

Eat smaller portions and incorporate more fruits and vegetables into your diet to keep you satisfied.

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Zit Zapper: use a concealer one shade lighter than your skin tone under foundation.

Carry a supply of blotting tissues so you can keep the shine off your nose and forehead.

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Parties, Gifts & More

BRIDAL SHOWER ETIQUETTE GIFT REGISTRY CHECKLISTS

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A bridal shower is one of those parties that are fun and practical at the same time. Whether your shower is being hosted by your Maid of Honor, your female (distant) relatives, or your future in-laws, bridal shower etiquette can never be overlooked.

1. Let the Hostess Host - You have a say in EVERY aspect of your big day, but not your shower. Your shower is being hosted by someone who loves you, let them host. They may ask for a guests list, but beyond that, your input should be limited.

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2. Arrive early - Yes, it's your party. But by arriving earlier than your guests, you will have the opportunity to greet everyone as they enter. Your guests are there to see and spoil YOU, after all.

3. Keep a List - Appoint someone with nice handwriting to keep the list of all your gifts and their givers. This will come in handy when writing your thank you notes. Which brings us to...

4.Thank Yous - Along with your verbal thank you to all your guests and hosts the day of your shower, written thank yous should be sent within the following week, NO EXCUSES! You will have lots of reasons to write thank yous during your engagement and by putting it off, you are more apt to forget someone.

5. Gift Your Hostess - Along with your handwritten thank you, a small gift for the hostess to show your appreciation is acceptable. Flowers, a personalized jewelry box, or tickets to their favorite play are all options.

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- Kristin Cooke, GonnaGetWed.com

Susanne Nester (Independant Consultant)

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Bridal Shower as unique as you!

There are a lot of ways celebrate your upcoming nuptials: Toilet Paper Bride, Name the Cake, and the ever popular “How well do you know each other� quiz, but if you are looking for something a little more unique (and a little more fun) try a ladies night painting party!

Painting parties are a great way to get together with friends and try something new! The instructors help you every step of the way - even if you don't feel artisitc, they can help advise you through the entire painting! The paint, canvas, easels, aprons and brushes are usualy provided.

At the end of the night, everyone has a self-created painting to take home and hang directly on the wall!

Call us to set up your Ladies Night Out, Date Night with your Groom, Bridal Shower and / or Bachelorette Party!

Looking Forward to Painting the Town Red with You! - Wine & Canvas, Sioux Falls, SD

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Each Other!

Greeters & Seaters

Bridesmaids & Groomsmen

Guest Book Attendant

Ushers

Flower Pinner

Flower Girl & Ring Bearer

Musicians & Vocalists

Parents

Officiant

Grandparents

Readers

Personal Attendants

Punch Servers

Host & Hostess

Cake Cutter & Servers

Advice at a Glance! u Gifts for your bridesmaids may be presented at the bridesmaids’ luncheon, the rehearsal dinner or before the wedding as everyone is getting ready.

u The groom gives presents to his groomsmen at the bachelor party or rehearsal dinner.

u Gifts for attendants may be the same or different.

However, if they are all the same you might want to consider personalizing them.

u Gifts for child attendants are either taken care of by the bride or given by the bride and groom as a couple.

These gifts can either be given before the ceremony or at the rehearsal dinner.

u Give your parents their gifts at a time when you are alone together so it is more personal and special.

u If you and your groom wish to exchange gifts, you can do so the night before the wedding or on your wedding night. Consider doing this alone as it will feel more intimate.

u The earlier you register, the better.Your close friends and family may want to purchase engagement gifts for you. Be sure to check your registry often for discontinued items.

u Call before going to a store to register because some stores may require an appointment.

u Give yourself plenty of time when registering because it can be time-consuming.

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Invitations & Stationery

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Choosing an invitation style.

While a panel card (or single rectangle sheet) invitation is the most popular style, there are many options when it comes to choosing your invitation. Pocket-style designs keep all of your information cards, like the accommodations, reception and rsvp cards, tidy and organized for your guests. Shapes are also popular, including circles and cards with decorative corner cuts.

Many of these styles don’t require extra postage, so feel free to break from the mold and make your invitation unique.

It’s all in the details.

A fresh and very popular detail is to print a simple design or pattern that matches your theme on the back of your invitation.

This gives a thoughtful, “finished” look to the invitation.

Envelope liners, personalized stamps and the use of textured materials also help to create a unique invitation. Use ribbon, twine and various paper textures to craft the perfect look.

Choosing the right font.

First, make sure you can read it! If you can’t, your guests won’t be able to, either. Script fonts are perfect for formal invitations, but be sure to see a proof with your names and information in the selected font, to be sure it’s legible. When choosing a script font, look at how the loops on the letters overlay one another.

Many times, just a little bit of spacing between the letters allows the font to be read more easily. Sans Serif fonts are great for modern invitations, and a combination of script and serif fonts is perfect for vintage-inspired invitations.

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Don’t forget the "Day-of" details.

Items like menu cards, place cards, table numbers and favors continue the theme of your wedding from the ceremony to the reception. It’s easy to extend the design elements you have chosen for your invitation and ceremony program onto other items your guests will see.

Top Wedding Invitation Elements for 2015: Lace, damask, floral, stripes, chevron, and a hint of sparkle.

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the names in alphabetical order on separate lines.

• Check your guest list to ensure guest names and addresses are correct.

• Children's names should go on the inner envelope. If you're not using an inner envelope, be sure the children's names go on a separate line under the parents' names. (If children's names are left off of an invitation, it implies they are not invited.) Children over the age of 18 who are living with their parents should receive their own invitation.

he guest list is set, but how exactly do you address the envelopes?

Who comes first, and what is this “and guest” business? Follow these simple guidelines to get your invitations to the post office in no time.

• Be sure to use formal names; no nicknames or initials. Always spell out titles or degrees, like Doctor.

• Always use Mr. and Mrs. for married couples with the same last name. If the married couple have different last names, then use Mr. and Ms. and place the names on the same line in alphabetical order.

• If a couple is not married but living together, use Mr. and Ms. and place

• Women who are widowed should be addressed using their late husband's name with Mrs. as the title.

put the guest on a separate line. If you know whom he or she will be bringing, feel free to include that person's name on a separate line on the envelope.

• All words in the address should be spelled out, including street names and other identifiers, like Apartment or Post Office Box. The names of the city and state should also be spelled out.

• The return address should go on the back flap of the envelope. Much like the guest’s address, all words in the return address should be spelled out.

-PaperWerks, Sioux Falls, SD

• When inviting single persons who are welcome to bring a guest, use Mr., Ms. or Miss, followed by their name and "and Guest" on the inner envelope.

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that make up the wedding invitation, and how do they affect the cost?

u Can you print additional pieces to include with the invitations, such as maps/direction cards and accommodation cards? u What are our printing and paper options, and how do they affect the cost?

u Is there an extra fee for addressing envelopes? u Do we assemble the invitations and stuff envelopes ourselves?

u What is the difference in cost, if any, between ordering extra invitations up front or after the initial order has been placed?

u Will we be able to see a proof before any pieces are printed? Do you do calligraphy? If you don’t, do you work with someone who does? Does he/she give discounts to your customers?

u Can we see samples of different printing techniques, paper styles and type styles?

u When do we need to place an order?

u If you do calligraphy:What are your fees? What do they include?

u When would the invitations be ready?

Advice at a Glance u Try to order all stationery items at the same time.

u Registry information should be noted on the invitation

u When ordering invitations, be sure to order extras for keepsakes, guests who get added to your list later and extra invitations needed because of mistakes made while addressing them.

u The words “request the honor of your presence” are

u If you will be inviting a friend or family member to

bring a date but you do not know the date’s name, address the outer envelope to your friend only. On the inner envelope you can include the words “and Guest” after your friend’s or relative’s name.

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or included in the envelope.

traditionally reserved for religious ceremonies. Phrases like “request the pleasure of your company” or “would be delighted for you to attend” are typically used for a civil ceremony or reception.

u If you are unsure about the proper etiquette on

invitation wording, consult with your local invitation specialist for his/her recommendations, especially where divorced families apply.

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It is important to understand that a wedding dress should not always be trendy. It should be timeless andmakes you feel gorgeous.

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Don't be afraid to try on different styles. It's important so you can find the best fit.

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Don't Overwhelm Yourself - Start with visiting at least 3 bridal shops and see how that goes. If you havent found anything you like then try a few more. You dont have to hit every shop in town!

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Be sure to start early when shopping for your dress. You want to give yourself enough time to look at all your options. Also don't be afraid to try on style you've never really been fond of. You might be suprised how different styles look on you!

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Splurging on the dress is ok as long as you can afford it! Set a limit for the amount you're willing to spend on your dress and stick to it!

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Be sure you pick the people who are coming with you wisely. Everyone is going to have his or her own opinion but remember yours is the only that matters!

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Be honest with your bridal consultant. She is there to make sure you are confident on your wedding day. If you're not a fan of something she is suggesting, say so!

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Tip from the experts!

When you are trying on dresses for the first time, be open to suggestion from your bridal consultant. Dresses will look very different hanging on a rack than they do on you! Many brides arrive with a particular style in mind to find that when they put it on, it doesn't compliment their physique the way they would like. Our Bridal Consultants are there to help Make Sure You're Comfortable. The dress may be absolutely stunning, but you lookif your very best on your wedding - they will suggest dresses and styles for you to you're miserable in it you'll be hating it by the end of the night. Keep try, but in only you that can choose your lots perfect dress!and beads tend to be very heavy! mind gowns with of layers The French Door

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Everything you need to know on picking the perfect wedding day jewels!

Now that you’ve said YES to that dress, it’s time to talk sparkly things. Finding the perfect jewelry can sometimes feel like an overwhelming task, but if you follow these 4 simple rules you’ll be checking that item off your VOW Wedding List in no time!

1- Gold, Silver, Pearls? Oh my!

If you have embellishments on your dress in gold, stick to gold based jewelry, and vice versa with silver, pearls, or rose gold. If your dress does not have embellishments, refer to the following: White Gown- Pearls and platinum based jewels will adorn a crisp white dress best.

Slightly Off-White Gown- Gold, silver, rose gold, and pearl all work well.

Ivory/Champagne Gown-Gold jewelry will look best with this creamy tint of fabric.

2- Play up that Decolletage

Sweetheart or Strapless- Most dresses of this style have embellishments outlining the neckline. Skip the necklace to avoid too much jewels on your neck, and add in a great pair of chandelier earrings instead. If your dress is more on the plain side, opt for a bold statement necklace.

V-Neck- Drop down earrings or a long pendant necklace work great with this universally flattering neckline.

Halter- Adding a necklace to this type of dress will take away from the beauty of it. Stick to dangling or chandelier earrings and a bold cuff bracelet.

Illusion- If you have delicate lace or mesh adorning the top of your dress, opt for small, studded earrings or a fun headpiece.

Choose from a crystal headband, birdcage veil, or a ring of flowers.

Off the Shoulders- With this neckline, you really can’t go wrong with any style of necklace. From drop downs, to statement pieces, or single and double stands - they all work!

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3- Don’t forget the Maids

4- Stay True to Yourself

When it comes to finding the perfect jewelry for your bridesmaids, don’t over think it. If your maids are all wearing the same dress, mix it up by getting them all different necklaces or earrings. If they are wearing different dresses, use the guidelines above to choose the right pieces for each of their unique necklines. Just remember, if you have silver, pearls, or rose gold for your dress, carry that same color palette over to their jewels as well. This will create a wonderfully balanced look between you and all of your favorite women.

The most important thing to remember when choosing the perfect trinkets for your special day is that they should reflect you, and your style. If you’re not comfortable with large, chandelier earrings, stick to small studs. Love a bold statement necklace? Go for it! If you're comfortable in what you’re rocking, you’re guaranteed to sparkle!

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for your body type!

To make sure you are looking your best on your big day, it's important to identify which dress fits your body shape best.

Unfortunately, we don't live in a perfect world where every dress looks the same on every woman. We are different, and we can celebrate this difference in the bridal fashions we choose for ourselves. Following the rules for your body shape will give you the freedom to look and feel amazing on your wedding day.

Identify your body shape. This is the critical first step of finding the dress that will look best on you.

Straight physique - One Shoulder

Which best defines you: Straight: Little definition between bust, waist and hip measurements.

Pear: Fuller at the hips and rear, and smaller on top.

Hourglass: Curvaceous, with full bust, defined waist and full hips.

Apple: Narrowest point is above the natural waist, at the ribs.

Full bust: Bust measurement is fuller than hips and rear.

After you have identified your body shape, you can start trying dresses that will most flatter your shape: Straight: By wearing an A-line or empire waist dress, you will create some curves. Also one-shoulder styles will flatter your figure by creating a dramatic silhouette.

Pear: Empire waist dress will extenuate your smallest part and bring attention to your waist. Strapless dresses will also be flattering on a pear-shaped bride bringing the attention to her upper body.

Hourglass: An A-line dress is most flattering on an hourglass figure as it draws attention to her classic feminine form.

Wrap dresses also create this effect.

Apple: A wedding dress featuring an empire waist will draw the eye up, taking attention away from the middle and allowing a looser fit. Neck details also bring the focus up.

Full bust: Classic V-neck dresses draw the eye downward for a slimming effect.

A full skirt and details at the hem help balance out the btottom half.

- Kristin Cooke GonnaGetWed.com

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Hour Glass physique - Wrap style

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for the most important day

Although the wedding is all about the Bridal Gown, Bridesmaid fashions are just as important! Bridesmaids dresses may be long or short, although the knee length provides the ‘maids an opportunity to wear the dress again after the wedding.

Other trends include hi-low hem lines and raised necklines for a feminine and flattering, more modest look.

Chiffon and Lace are the two main fabric trends for 2014. Both of these fabrics create soft, vintage looks many brides are leaning toward.

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bridesmaids may be difficult. Allowing the bridesmaids to choose their own dress style and color may help all of your bridesmaids look their best!

Choose a couple different styles and colors for the ‘maids to choose from to help everyone look their best, while still matching the theme and color scheme for your wedding day.

Popular wedding colors for this year include charcoal or platinum gray, and shades of purple, coral, and turquoise.

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here was a time when etiquette would strongly dictate a certain tuxedo for a certain time of day – or that you weren’t allowed to bend the rules on how formal the tuxedo should be for the venue where your wedding would be held.

The only hard fast rule that applies today is that the groom needs to honor your gown by matching the style and formality. Everything centers around your gown. Here’s a few tips to ensure that your groom is truly honoring your gown – and honoring the importance of the moment when you both say, “I do”.

• If your gown is formal, full length and elegant with a long train and a mid to long veil Groom: Black or navy tuxedo with a

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bow tie (preferably white / ivory to match gown).

• If your gown is elegant and full length with a mid to short train and a mid to short veil Groom: Black or colored tuxedo with a bow tie or a Windsor knot tie .

• If your gown is simple and full length with no train and a short veil or no veil at all Groom: A tuxedo or a dark suit.

• If your gown is short with no train and no veil Groom:A suit or possibly dress pants and a vest and tie or even a shirt with rolled up sleeves for a more casual look.

Another great way to spice up the day if you’ve picked a more formal

theme, but want to have some fun with the tuxedos, is to add some accessories that will only come out when you want them to – or at the reception – try these ideas!

1. Add colored socks and suspenders.

2. Choose a second vest to change into at the reception.

3. Bring a second tuxedo to change into at the reception.

Honor the importance of this day, this moment and your gown by dressing your groom in something that truly shows he’s special and he cared enough to dress for the occasion.

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Once you have a feel for the style of gown you may like, make your appointment at a bridal salon.

Make your appointment count! Plan to spend a couple of hours and try on several different styles – you may arrive thinking a sweetheart neckline with a trumpet skirt is the dress for you and then hate it once it’s on! Your bridal consultant will chat with you about your price range and the styles you like. She will pull dresses for you to try on that fit into your budget and your style. If there is something you don’t like – be sure to let her know!

Once your gown has been selected, the bridal shop will take all of your measurements. Your information will be sent to the gown designers so they can start to make your dress. Your wedding gown may be the one thing you wear in your life that is made just for you!

Once your gown has arrived, they bridal shop will set up a fitting. The day of your fitting, bring the shoes and undergarments you plan on wearing the day of your wedding. The seamstress will help you get your dress on and see where adjustments will need to be made to make sure your dress fit you best.

Your final fitting will be scheduled a few weeks out from your wedding day. This is a good time to bring in the jewelry you plan on wearing, as well as your shoes and lingerie so you may see how the entire ensemble looks!

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Questions to Ask! Bridal Fashions (Wedding Gown) u Do I need an appointment to see and try on gowns? u What is the price range of the gowns? u How long does it take to order a gown? u Will I be assigned a sales associate or will I try on gowns alone?

Bridal Fashions (Bridesmaids/Flower Girls) u Do you offer discounts for bridesmaids’/flower girls’ dresses if I purchase my gown here?

u What styles do you recommend for a group with different sizes/body types?

u How do you handle dress orders and fittings for out-of-

u Can I take pictures of the gowns I like? u Do I need to bring special undergarments and shoes to try on gowns or do you provide these?

u Are some styles or fabrics better for certain seasons? u Can any of the designs be customized? u How much is the gown I’m interested in? u What does the gown price include? u How much deposit is required? u When is the balance due?

town bridesmaids? Can ­­ you ship your dresses?

u How far in advance do we need to order the dresses? u How long after we place the order will the dresses arrive? u What is the price of the dress? u Do you offer alterations? If not, do you work with someone who offers your customers a discount?

u If so, are alterations extra? If so, do you steam the gowns after final alterations?

u Do you offer discounts on bridesmaid accessories such as shoes and jewelry with the purchase of their gowns?

Bridal Fashions (Alterations) u How many fittings will there be? u How far in advance of the wedding will the gown be ready for the first fitting?

u Does the alterations include bustles?

If not what is

the additional cost?

u Do you deliver to the church on my wedding day? u Can I hire someone to bustle me after the ceremony?

What is the fee?

u Do you steam the gown after final alterations? u Do you handle care for the gown after the wedding? u Can you recommend a good wedding gown cleaner/

u How much deposit is required? u When is the balance due?

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Tips from the experts!

While everyone thinks shopping is great fun I advise you to only bring 2 or 3 people. Bring your mother or closest relative and friends whose opinions you value. A crowd will only end up being confusing and sometimes hurtful. Too many opinions that are about themselves and not you! I have countless unhappy brides who tell me they want to come back later without the entourage.

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Questions to Ask! Men's Attire (If renting): u How far in advance do I need to reserve the rentals? u What different styles do you offer? u How old is the formal wear you rent out? u Will I be able to examine the actual suit I will be wearing? u What is included as part of the package? u What is the cost? u How do fittings/alterations work? Are they included in the cost?

u When can I pick up the ensemble? u What course of action do you take if the rentals are not available for pickup on time or the wrong size is delivered?

u Is the ensemble cleaned and pressed before pickup? u When is the ensemble due back and how do late fees work?

u Will I incur extra charges if the tuxedo gets stained or do

Men's Attire (If buying): u How far in advance of the wedding do I need to place my order?

u What is included in the price? u Are alterations extra? u How many fittings will there be? u Is there anything I need to bring to the fittings? u Do you sell shoes and accessories? If not, do you have discount relationships with stores that do?

u Do you offer rentals for groomsmen? u What is the cost of the tuxedo/suit I’m interested in?

u When would the tuxedo/suit be ready? u How much deposit is required? u Will you press or steam the tuxedo/suit?

If so, what is the cost?

you assume there will be some amount of wear and tear?

u Do you offer discounts for groomsmen if I rent my attire from your store?

u How much of a deposit is required? u When is the balance due?

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Advice at a Glance! u Style your hair and apply make-up before dress shopping, so you get the full effect.

u Be sure your are comfortable in the gown you select.

You will be wearing it the entire day and don't want to take away from your experience.

u Bring your wedding day shoes and undergarments to your fitting.

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u Keep an open mind when trying on gowns and try on many different styles. To avoid feeling overwhelmed, do not try on too many gowns in one day.

u The friction of a slip or crinoline can sometimes shred hosiery. Do a test run at home.

u If you’re the same height or taller than your groom consider wearing elegant ballet flats.

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Jewelry WEDDING BAND TRENDS KEEPING YOUR RING SPARKLING SAFE & CLEAN JEWELS FOR EVERYONE | THE "IN" WITH THE RING

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hat will brides be wearing this year? Depending on who you talk to, the trends are either playing it safe, or throwing out the rulebook. As always, it comes down to the wearer. How you accessorize and finish a dress – and whether it really fits with your personal tastes – are what help create its presence. Ring designers clued us into the hottest new engagement ring styles. A simple solitaire may be a classic (and safe) choice, but 2015 is a year full of trends, specially in jewelry!

Rose, Yellow and White Gold -

No longer are brides looking for just white metal settings. The modern bride is keen on the two-tone luxury of white gold mixed with yellow or rose gold. Lush and posh are the key terms for these settings.

Unique Diamond Shapes - Round and Princess shaped diamonds are still the front runners, but unique shapes are becoming a more popular option.

With celebrities favoring shapes like cushion, oval, pear and emerald, our local brides are taking notice!

The Traditional Metals for Grooms - Alternative metals continue

to be popular for many of our grooms.

The bravado and durability of metals like Damascus steel, titanium, chrome and black zirconium meet the needs of the contemporary groom.

Stackable Wedding Bands - Who

says you can’t have it all? Brides are selecting more than one wedding band to perfectly stack with their engagement rings or simply with each other. It lends a more personalized and individual look for the fashionista!

Wedding Day Jewelry Remember! don't pick jewelry for the sake of wearing jewelry.

The style of your dress is the best indicator as to whether you need jewelry. Enhance the beauty of your dress with jewelry, don't ruin or hide it when selecting bridal jewelry. This is why you should allow your dress to decide what is needed as far as jewelry. Do you have a lower neckline that a necklace and earrings would complement? Are your sleeves short enough for a bracelet to be added gracefully? Reflect the type of jewelry with various features of your dress. In some cases if the gems are liberal on a dress, then balance is created by selecting jewelry that is simpler. Allow your hairstyle to dictate wedding jewelry 74

selection. If you are wearing your hair up, then earrings that hang may be appropriate. But, again, every item of jewelry you choose needs to complement your dress as a whole, and your final look needs to show you off, not camouflage you. Choose jewelry that reflects your personality and who you are.You want to feel comfortable in what you are wearing. You have presumably selected a dress that matches your personality, so do the same with your jewelry. If you feel more comfortable with simpler jewelry, then select items that match your dress and your personal style.

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nowing the fundamentals of ring care is a great way to ensure ever-lasting beauty. Sparkling and Shiny – Scheduling maintenance appointments with your jeweler at least once a year is important to ensure the prongs are tights, the diamond isn’t loose and there no hairline cracks in the shank. There is also usually a professional “shine-up” included too. In addition, always remove your ring when cleaning or touching harsh chemicals as bleach or other cleaning agents can dull the finish of a ring – which means less sparkle for you! Safe and Sound – Purchasing insurance is a necessity to protect your financial investment in the

event that something gets lost, stolen or damaged. You may also strongly consider getting your jewelry appraised every five years as the cost of diamonds and precious metals go up. If you were to lose a ring that was appraised 10 years ago, the insured value would be far less than the actual replacement cost. Also, follow the rule to not remove your ring in public. Since washing your hands in a public restroom is a must, you will need to resist the temptation to remove your ring while you’re lathering up so you don’t have to worry about leaving it at the sink, or dropping it down the drain. Clean and Polished – Make sure to handle your diamond sparingly since your fingers provide enough oil from

your skin to alter the way your diamond looks and always clean your diamond regularly. One simple way to easily clean your ring is to soak the diamond in an ammonia-based household cleaner overnight, once or twice weekly. In the morning, simply remove the diamond form the cleaner and brush it off with a soft, clean toothbrush to remove any leftover dirt. Finally, rinse the ring and diamond with water and wipe with a soft, lint-free cloth.

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he bride isn’t the only one T who will be wearing jewels at your wedding – don’t forget

teardrop jewel earrings in the wedding color palette are a great way to adorn your ‘Maids.

When setting your girls up for their style, point them in the direction you would like. If you want the ‘Maids to wear a particular style of jewelry, it may be best to find them yourself and gift them to the girls during the Rehearsal Dinner.

Another popular trend is delicate, asymmetrical necklaces. The length of the necklaces will vary based on the neckline of the dresses, but 2015 is showing trends of delicate metal strands with small pearl or gem pendants in any length.

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you is another popular trend for 2015! Simple bracelets and necklaces with the infinity symbol are also very popular amongst brides and their ‘Maids.

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The"IN" with the Ring Your wedding rings lasts longer than the one day; you get enjoyment every day wearing them as they represents the commitment you made to each other. Here are some tips I have from my 20 years of helping couples select the perfect ring to represent their marriage.

Educate Yourself Start with the American Gem Society (ags.org), a fantastic nonprofit, non bias educational source you can trust. Keep in mind, diamonds are one of the most intensely graded items on the planet, there is a lot to know, and the more prepared you are, the more confident you will be to select the perfect diamond.

Get the inside scoop Listen up guys….one of the most important things you can do is get the inside scoop on the ring style she has been dreaming of. One thing I hear on a regular basis working in a jewelry store are women telling me they would never have chosen the ring they received and how much they would have preferred a different style. Be creative and observant, asks her friends for help, even take her shopping with you! just figure out the ring of her dreams and do what you and your budget allows to get it. If you really want everything to be a surprise and you are not sure of the style preferred, choose the diamond and propose with a solitaire; then allow her to come with you to choose the setting she would love to wear.

Your opinion doesn’t matter It’s not about you; your opinion does not matter when choosing the ring for your soon to be bride or groom. Each of us has our own individual taste, and each of us have to look at the ring on our finger every day for the rest of our life. The best answer, when asked what you think, is always say “I like what you like.”

Another Sale… Really?

The jewelry industry is notorious for sales, just like the car industry. Don’t get sucked into the hype. Take your time; this is a very important purchase! Shop around, forget about the retail price it originally was, instead look at the bottom dollar price presented and compare your options to find out where you will get the most for your dollar.

Avoid extended warranties and service plans Consumer reports says it best; “An expensive gamble, the majority of buyers never use the coverage.”

Many jewelry stores offer extended warranties and service plans for your engagement ring purchases, they are expensive, and usually have an abundance of fine print, restrictions, exclusions and expiration dates. They are a profit powerhouse for the jewelry stores that sell them. It is better to skip the extended warranty or service plan; purchase a quality ring, take care of it, have it cleaned and inspected regularly. Understand that service work or repairs will be needed over the years; a ring will not last forever, just don’t prepay for work you may never need.

Steel, is that all your worth?

A new trend in the jewelry industry is alternative metals, especially in men’s wedding bands. While these rings are very cool, inexpensive, and seem like a great place to save money in the wedding budget, you may end up disappointed in a few years. Customers who have selected and worn these steel wedding bands over the years and are now coming back to select something new because of the drawbacks of steel bands. Most cannot be refinished, cannot be sized, some cannot be exposed to certain chemicals like chlorine, and some have alloys in them that some people are allergic to. Stick with a precious metal for your wedding bands, they may be a bit more expensive, but they can be sized, refinished, you will always have the original ring blessed at your ceremony, it is something of value you can pass on, because you and your marriage are worth it.

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Questions to Ask! u How long does it take to order rings or do you have them ready to take home?

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Do you have loose diamonds to choose from?

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Can a ring be resized later or does the decoration on it prevent this?

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Do you engrave?

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Is there an additional charge to have a ring resized once it comes in?

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If so, what is the cost and how long does it take?

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If not, can you recommend a jeweler who engraves?

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Once we’ve decided what we want, will you show us sample arrangements?

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What are the prices of the bands? Hers?/His?

u How much is the item(s) we like?

Advice at a Glance! u Many couples choose to have their rings engraved on the inside with their initials, wedding date, a short phrase or something else that is meaningful to them.

u Machine engraving is cheaper than hand engraving; however, the person that does the hand engraving makes a deeper cut which is a longer-lasting inscription.

u Brides shouldn’t wear a ton of jewelry on their wedding day; less is often more! Items to choose from include bracelets, earrings, necklaces and other rings.

At most, pair only two of these items along with your wedding rings. If you choose to wear a necklace, it should be small and discreet, no longer than 14-16 inches and never low enough to emphasize cleavage.

In addition, pearls shouldn’t be larger than the largest pearl on the wedding dress.

u Make sure to put in writing exactly what you want your inscription to say. Keep a copy for your records.

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Ceremony & Reception THE PERFECT CEREMONY SITE EMBRACE YOUR THEME PRIVATE VENUE, BEAUTIFUL CEREMONY

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The Perfect Ceremony Site Each year more brides are opting for diferent and original sites for their wedding ceremony. There are many beautiful and romantic options to choose from! If you are interested in a unique experience for your wedding day, here are some alternative wedding ceremony sites to consider.

Which one fits you best?

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Rustic weddings are not just in the country! The rustic wedding offers brides with lots of creativity and love of natural earth tones the ability to create unique and fun features for the ceremony and reception. This is also a great theme for couples that are earth friendly. Many of the elements used recently in rustic weddings are reused or repurposed items such as tin cans, mason jars, burlap bags, and metal and tin pieces such as wagon wheels. Often the muted colors of the natural elements allow the wedding accent color to really give a pop of color and create a dramatic affect! With the rustic theme, rust is definitely a plus!

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Brides that value tradition often go for the traditional wedding venue – the Church! These brides also tend to plan their wedding by the book. This means elements such as “the Grand Entrance,” “Welcome Toasts,” “Cutting the Cake,” and so on. Traditional weddings often appeal to older generations who feel the wedding is more about the two families merging than just the couple. Often times, traditional weddings are easier to plan because there are hundreds of planners and guides to help you create the perfect day!

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UNIQUE /MODERN There is no definition of a Modern Wedding; however here are a few words that can start to describe things that are found in a modern style: Clean, Crisp, and Bling.

Modern brides prefer gray scale and monochromatic colors, with pops of color that offer a bold contrast.

Receptions center around lean crisp shapes, and simple designs with a less is more attitude. Modern brides opt for soaring ceilings and loft like atmospheres that include even a few retro like accents!

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PrivateVenue Beautiful Ceremony Fantastic!

Is the word to describe the response received by this unique outdoor wedding venue just south of Parker. It has been a wedding a week at Penny Tree Events and the dates are filling quickly for 2015! Private and secluded, Penny Tree has been the choice for the couple seeking a very special location for their wedding celebration.

Serenity!

This unique offering has allowed couples with families from a distance to stay at the venue, granting some extremely precious time to renew acquaintances or meet for the very first time in a serene and private environment.

Parker, South Dakota • 605-360-5414 Whether it’s a barefoot walk in the lush lawn with that www.visitpennytree.com new relative, a quiet moment on the spacious patio near the waterfall, or a vigorous hike on the groomed trails through the native prairie grass, Penny Tree offers what no allowing for that beautiful picture of the newlyweds with other venue can.

Mr. Sun winking goodbye to daylight on your special day. Guests are enchanted by the most surreal wedding Dreams! evening in the rustic Pavilion, surrounded by the lighted Every couple has a dream of that perfect day. The Penny tree backdrop.

Tree staff will take that dream and work to ensure you realize it to every detail possible in a professional and Flexibility: The Penny Tree mission is to allow couples positive way. many choices when planning their wedding. The ability to select their caterer and to bring in their own beverages Picture-Perfect! has been an attractive aspect of the venue. Decorating Photographers love Penny Tree Events! The property is possibilities are endless and precious family heirlooms are meticulously maintained and photo opportunities abound. often brought in to tell the story of the couples’ love of During the day, you are likely to walk on the most lush family. Tables and chairs to seat 300 are available at the grass your pinkies have ever experienced, begging your venue. The experienced staff at Penny Tree works side by entire wedding party to go barefooting under the blue side with the couple to realize their perfect wedding day.

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Tips from the experts!

“When it comes to finding your perfect reception venue, narrow it down to your top 5 locations. Then schedule your tours back to back and take lots of photos (if allowed).

Be sure to ask the same questions at each venue and find out about every inclusion and add on. After going over all the prices, contracts and details, look through your photos.

You’ll remember the atmosphere of each venue and how it made you feel. Choose the venue where you can envision your family and friends laughing, dancing and celebrating the most beautiful day of your life. It will make your wedding day a dream come true.”

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Your wedding day style should be about you. Whether you go for a traditional theme or something more off-the-beaten path, choosing your theme early helps you plan for your big day. With such a wide variety of locations, styles, decorations and more, making sure every element of your wedding stays on theme is a great way to narrow down the decorations or styles you move forward with. Here are the wedding themes we love from three local brides!

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Are there any requirements we must fulfill to get married here?

If outdoor, is there an indoor backup plan for inclement weather? If not, can we set up a tent?

Is there a room in which my attendants and I can dress?

Are there any restrictions regarding Instruments or music selections?

Are there ample electrical outlets to suit their needs?

What is the capacity of parking?

Will we or any readers be heard easily without a microphone? Is one available if necessary?

Is there an organ or a piano? Can we hire an outside musician to play it?

Is photography or videography permitted during the ceremony?

Can we bring in our own flowers and decorations?

Do you have any decorations we can use?

If so, is there a charge?

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u Is throwing confetti, flower petals or blowing bubbles allowed after the ceremony?

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Can we assign family/friends for readings/prayers or songs?

Will you perform the ceremony outside a house of worship?

Will you give a sermon or speech? If so, can we see a copy before the wedding?

Do you permit photography or videography during the ceremony?

Do you have any restrictions regarding music?

Do you have any restrictions on the bride's or bridesmaids' attire?

Will you attend the rehearsal?

What is expected of us in terms of pre-marital classes?

How many pre-wedding meetings will we have with you?

Is there a fee, or is a donation acceptable?

Tip from the experts!

HELP…I don’t know if I should do a Plated Meal or Buffet?

What is most popular? What should we do? What is the best choice? These are all typical questions discussed between a bride and groom. I always advise couples to do what makes the most sense for them. It is important to consider the demographics of any group that you are serving food and beverage to. However, for an event as personal and important as your wedding reception, I like to say the customary “rules” do not, or at least should not, completely apply.

Your wedding reception venue should be available and happy to offer advice on choices that characteristically go over better, and will meet the needs of your event.

Thinking about what style you would like is the first step. Plated meals give the event a more formal feel with servers attending each table and presenting a plate in front of each guest. A buffet or reception style (stations or appetizers) allow for a more social and casual environment for your guests.

What about doing something a little out of the ordinary? Is there something in between? I have great news for you - there is! If this sounds like an attractive option to you, “Family Style” is the way to go! Family style requires the proper setup, which happens to be a trendy new look of long tables. I like the “feel” of the atmosphere this arrangement creates, and it definitely generates buzz among your guests. The setup literally mirrors a family dinner, allowing for a very natural way to get your guests talking. Now for the foodservice!

The food is delivered to each table in separate dishes, and placed in the center of the table. Naturally, your guests will grab for the dishes and pass them around the table to the other guests. Some of the best choices for this style of service might be Italian, Mexican, or Indian cuisines; however other options could also be accommodated successfully.

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u What dates and times do you have available?

u Is there enough space for a band or disc jockey to set up? Where would the band or disc jockey be?

u What is the fee for site rental? u Is there a service charge on top of the bill?

If so, how much?

u Do you have an event director present on my wedding day?

u Is there a dance floor? u Is there food and beverage minimum? u Is there an on-site caterer? u Are there kitchen facilities and can I bring in an off-site caterer?

u Will other parties be booked at the same time? How is that handled?

u How many people can you comfortably serve for a dinner or cocktail reception?

u Will anything affect the capacity of the space, ex: addition of a dance floor?

u Do you provide tables, chairs, linens, china

space set up?

u Does your facility have any decorations we can use? u Is there a place to set up a gift table? u Is there a place to change into going-away outfits?

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u Is there a full bar option or just beer/wine? u What’s the corkage fee if I bring my own wine? u If outdoors: Is the ground even enough to set out chairs and tables for the cocktail hour and/or the

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u If outdoors: Is there a backup plan for inclement weather?

u If outdoors: Is there room for portable toilets? u Could parking be an issue? u Are there any additional costs: cleaning fees, insurance-fee waivers, etc?

u Do you have liability insurance? u

Can you provide a list of references who have had weddings here recently?

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After months of planning your special day, sitting down to a great meal is one of the best ways to share the excitement with your family and friends.“Comfort” foods, such as melt in your mouth roast beef, baked chicken and charbroiled pork loin are satisfying and give your guests energy to dance through the night. If you wish to go a bit more non-traditional consider a menu of smokehouse products like beef brisket, pulled pork, ribs and chicken. One local company specializing in these is called Crazy Bob’s and is provided through MarketPlace Catering.

Often when you book a caterer all you get is the food! At MarketPlace Catering, you get so much more than that! Real plates and silverware are always included at NO extra cost, a staff of servers to set up the buffet and even bus off the tables when the meal is completed. If the venue that you select does not already offer linens and napkins, those can be provided as well, and with a possibility of no cost to you.

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MarketPlace Catering also offers a complimentary tasting session for up to 4 people.This is the perfect time to discuss any food allergies or special dietary requirements (like gluten free or vegetarian) so chef "Crazy Bob" Larsen can adjust the ingredients to meet your needs.With everything made from scratch your guests will have a delicious meal!

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Tips from the experts!

“Find a caterer that focuses on tailoring your menu to best reflect you and your fiancé. At The Riviera by Rocco’s, we post menus to our website to give you a starting point when determining your wedding menu. However, it’s our absolute favorite when we get requests for items not even listed. Maybe you and your fiancé got engaged in Greece.

Tell us and we’ll put together a gorgeous Greek spread to compliment your love story. And if it’s a request we cannot do, we will tell you up front so you can find a caterer that best fits your style”

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Wedding Cake Trends 2015 Trends

With all of the cake design possibilities, you might be easily overwhelmed. Many brides have a love hate relationship with Pinterest and like sights. You can view wonderful and fresh ideas but tend to second-guess yourself on the next click of the mouse.

Metallic The metallic cake trend is quickly rising.

Using edible 24 kt gold leaf , sliver griller or even bronze metallic air brush can give you that old Hollywood glam or art deco feel.

Consider the theme and feel of your wedding reception. Is it casual, elegant, rustic or just a fun party.

NAKED This design is wonderful for those looking for a rustic, natural concept. Using wild flowers, succulents and berries to decorate is most popular.

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Textures Many cakes are being designed with different types of textures. Lace, ruffles, piping and different techniques in frosting for cakes can add and play on the elegant classical style.

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Hand Painted Hand painted wedding cakes are also growing popularity. The cake becomes a canvas to be painted with the details that tie in all your wedding elements and is a “one of a kind” piece of art on display for your wedding day.

Simple & Elegant There is a lot to be said for a simple– clean look. Whether you prefer buttercream or fondant, you can get a crisp pure look.

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Dessert Bar Many brides are opting for a smaller stature wedding cake and a dessert bar for the majority of their guests. These are fun and the bride and groom can really share their favorite flavors with the guests including pies, assorted bars, cheesecake, desert shots and yes, the popular cupcake

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Grooms Cake The wedding cake is generally a representation of the theme and feel of the wedding with ruffles, lace and flowers, probably not his favorite things.

It is becoming popular to also have a grooms cake that represents his likes.

From sports, hunting, fishing and even favorite video games can be represented.

Grooms cakes are generally presented at the rehearsal dinner or at the wedding reception. If the cake is a surprise, you might want to consider creating a gift box without a bottom to place over the cake.

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Robert Mondavi Private Select

Created to celebrate the diversity of California’s wine growing regions, Robert Mondavi Private Selection wines are sourced from vineyards ideally suited for each variety, resulting in quality wines that go elegantly and easily to the table for every occasion.

- Cabernet, Merlot, Zinfandel, Pinot Noir, Chardonnay, Sauvignon Blanc, Pinot Grigio...

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At Napa Cellars, we're putting a modern spin on classic Napa wines, combining Napa's legendary traditions with contemporary sensibilities to create delicious wines that possess all of the character you've come to expect from Napa, but with an attitude and price that we think you'll find rather refreshing. In doing so, we're redefining what Napa wine can be. Cheers!

- Cabernet, Merlot, Zinfandel, Pinot Noir, Chardonnay, Sauvignon Blanc

These iconic brands have been hand selected to enhance your wedding day. From fruity and sweet to brash and bold, every wine listed below posses great character, style and pedigreed.

Kendall Jackson Chardonnay Chateau Ste Michelle Riesling La Crema Pinot Noir Seghesio Zinfandel J Lohr Cabernet Joel Gott 815 Cabernet Nicholas Fueillatte Champagne

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u It is smart to hire a caterer who carries liability insurance.

u If you are having a tasting, be sure that the food will be prepared by the same chef who will cook on the day of your wedding.

u If a caterer will not show you an operating license or health permit, don’t hire him or her!

u If you are having an outdoor wedding in warm

u It is a common courtesy to offer meals to service providers such as the officiant, musicians, the DJ, the photographer, the videographer as well as their assistants.

weather, consult with your cake designer about what ingredients will be able to hold up in the heat.

u If your cake is going to be topped with fresh fruit, find out when the fruit will be added.You want this to be

u It is important to make sure you have an adequate amount of wait staff to serve your guests. If you are having a seated meal, it is best to have one server for every 8-10 person table. If you are having a buffet, it is

done as close to the presentation time as possible for the cake to look its best.

u Remember that any flowers on or near the cake must be nonpoisonous and free from pesticides.

best to have at least one server for every 25 people.

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Questions to Ask! Caterers u Do you offer all types of service: seated, buffet, station and cocktails?

u Who will be the chef on duty on our wedding day? u Are there set menu packages or can one be custommade?

u Do you offer special meals (kosher, low-fat, vegetarian)?

u Will you/the chef prepare special family recipes? u Do you offer tastings to help your clients select the menu? Is there an additional charge?

u Would the tastings be prepared by the same person doing the food for our wedding?

u Is champagne for a toast included? If not, what is the charge?

u What happens if additional guests show up who didn't RSVP?

u Can you explain the bar fee? u Is there a corkage fee? u Do you offer children’s meals at a lower price? u What is the server/guest ratio? u Do you provide the tables, chairs, linens, china, glassware, serving pieces, etc?

u How are the setup and cleanup handled? u How are you licensed?

Can we see your health permit?

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Cake Designer u Do you have a portfolio from which we can select a style?

u Will you create a custom design based on our vision? u Have you worked with real flowers? u If I want fresh flowers on my cake, do you provide them? Will you coordinate it with my florist or am I responsible to get those to you?

u Do you offer a cake tasting? u Is the cake prepared and then frozen or is it prepared fresh for the wedding day?

u How are your cakes priced? By the slice? u Do you have a list of cakes with their prices that I can have?

u Is delivery and setup included? If not, what is the additional cost?

u Do you provide items like cake toppers, stands, tiers, cake-cutters, etc?

u Do you rent them? u What are the costs? u Will you create a smaller cake for display and prepare a less expensive sheet cake for serving?

u Will you prepare a groom’s cake? If so, what are our choices and what is the fee?

u How far in advance do we need to place our order? Is your health department licensing up to date?

u Can we see your permit?

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he kind of music you pick for your wedding dance will have a huge impact on the entire atmosphere of the evening! So, there is a lot to consider before you begin choosing your songs.

First of all, what is the overall theme or feel of the day. Is it soft and romantic, or vibrant and colorful? You should try to match your music with the theme for the day. How are you bringing you and your fiancé’s personality into the day? The music you choose should not only entertain your guests, but it should also reflect on your personality as a couple.

Learn a simple, choreographed group dance to surprise your guests and rock your reception. Or, take lessons to make your first dance memorable (in a good way)! A few examples of songs:

TOP 10 RECEPTION SONGS:

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Just a Kiss – Lady Antebellum

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Get Up Ouffa That Thing – James Brown A Thousand Years – Christina Perri God gave me you – Blake Shelton Your Song – Ellie Goulding I Want to Dance with Somebody – Whitney Houston Everybody – Ingrid Michaelson I Saw Her Standing There – The Beatles This is How We Do It – Montell Jordan Celebration – Kool & The Gang

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TOP ACTIVITES & GAMES TO PLAY 1. The Shoe Game – This comical game is a great way for guests to get to know the bride and groom better. You can also get your guests in on the fun by letting them vote on bride vs. groom.

2. Wedding I Spy – This is a wonderful way to get extra photos from your wedding. Ask your guests to use their digital cameras or smartphones to capture the moments even the best photographers sometimes miss.

3. Table Games – Keep your guests entertained with some table games: wedding guest bingo, Mad Libs or Booklets (tcome up with a question for each table and put a mini booklet and pens for guests to add their ideas).

4.Yard Games – Beanbag Toss, Ring toss, Oversized Jenga,

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hen couples start to plan their budget their biggest mistake is often setting a budget without understanding how far that budget will go; especially when it comes to the DJ and Dance! When brides are surveyed after their wedding year after year the number one thing that brides wished they would have spent more on it is their wedding dance! In fact 100% of brides surveyed said they would have spent more money on the entertainment if they could do it all over again.

The Dance or reception is the defining memory for most of the guests. If the dance was lame and boring that is what they will remember. But if the dance ROCKED, they remember what a fantastic wedding it was.

Beware of inexpensive entertainment!

Of course a DJ who has a 10 year old set of worn out speakers and pirated list of songs who only DJ’s part-time as a hobby is going to cost far less than a DJ who devotes a large amount of time and

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money to have the best equipment and offer high end amazing event!

Think of your wedding dance like a wedding ring. What would you get for $500 vs. $2500? Would you be excited to show off the $500 ring like you would a $2500 ring? No of course not. The more experienced and better DJ’s cost more…period!

So as you plan your wedding dance, instead of setting a budget first, interview your top 3 DJ choices and then evaluate what they offer and what the cost is.

From there set your budget according to how big of a wow factor you want to create for your guests. One thing you will not regret is having the dance of your life!

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Ceremony Songs 1. Better Together – Jack Johnson 2. A Million Ways – The Nylons 3. Be Mine – David Gray 4. A Long and Winding Road – The Beatles 5. Fly Me To The Moon – Frank Sinatra 6. A Groovy Kind of Love – Phil Collins 7. Your Everything – Keith Urban 8. We Must Be In Love – Pure Soul 9. Fairytale – Enya 10. Promise – Jagged Edge 11. She’s Got A Way – Billy Joel 12. Ribbon in the Sky – Stevie Wonder 13. Power of Love – Celine Dion 14. Just Because – Nikka Costa 15. Lucky – Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat 16. Come Away With Me – Norah Jones 17. Canon in D – Pachelbel 18. Angels – Robin Thicke 19. Bittersweet Symphony (instrumental only) – The Verve 20. Falling in Love – The O’Neill Brothers - GonnaGetWed.com 116

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Entertaining your guests

at the dance!

The “Shoe Game” is a great ice breaker, and gets a lot of laughs! Set two chairs back to back in the middle of the dance floor and ask the bride and groom to take a seat. Have the maid of honor remove both the groom’s shoes and the Best man remove the brides; then give them each a shoe of theirs and one of their spouse.

Then the DJ announces “This game is to show how much the new Mr./Mrs. John and Jane Doe really know about each other… I will ask you a question and you raise the shoe that you think best fits the answer to the question…his show for him and her shoe for her.”

Sometimes the bride will put up her shoe, and the groom will put up his, and the guests will roar. This can also be done with parents of the bride or groom or other guests. The trick is, do not let the couple know the questions ahead of time.

QUESTIONS TO CONSIDER:

6 Who wakes up first in the morning?

6 Who has the wackiest family?

6 Who takes the longer shower?

6 Who’s the better driver?

6 Who spends the most time getting ready to go out?

6 Who spends more money?

6 Now that you’re married,Who will be the first to say… “not tonight”.

6 Who is in control of the checkbook?

6 Who steals the cover’s more ?

6 Who wears the pants in the family?

6 Who’s most likely to get lost?

6 Who is always right?

6 Who’s the most likely to wake up grumpy in the morning ?

6 Who is more into their looks?

6 Who is the biggest flirt?

6 Who is the more serious person?

6 Who is more likely to get injured?

6 Who made the first move?

6 Who is in charge of the remote?

6 Who is the better kisser?

6 Who said “I LOVE YOU” first?

6 Who is more likely to kill a spider in the house?

6 Who’s the better cook?

6 Who is better at keeping secrets?

6 Who is most likely to pass gas in front of the other first?

6 Who’s most likely to be running late?

6 And finally… Who do you love the most in the whole wide world?

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wedding day, do you have a backup?

length do you require?

What types of music do you usually play while the meal is being served and is it included in the fee?

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How many hours does this include?

Of playing time? Of setting up and breaking down equipment?

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signed by both parties.This way everyone is on the

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same page and everyone is paid for their services.

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Have the musicians arrive to set up at least one hour before the ceremony begins!

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your entertainment stay late, you are bound to incur

completely different when heard on the beach than

overtime fees, which are much more expensive.

in a grand ballroom. Make sure you take this into consideration when choosing a band or DJ.

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brides holding them. Here are some ideas to help you incorporate flowers into your wedding style.

For a classic, elegant wedding the rose is a staple. An allwhite rose bouquet will compliment your dress perfectly while standing out again your bridesmaids’ dresses.

If your wedding leans to the romantic side peonies and hydrangeas will give your big day the head-over-heels feeling you desire. These full blooms will bring your romantic wedding to life!

If vintage is your style, a colorful blend of wildflowers will accent your wedding perfectly. Ask your florist about blooms in season to better capture the look!

The modern bride loves a showstopper! Orchids, lilies and anemones will make your modern wedding stand out above the rest!

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Color blocking is when a color is chosen and different kinds of flowers are picked to match that specific color palette, creating a dramatic grouping effect.

The intense concentration of each strategicallyplaced color will draw attention to the flowers while the assorted textures will create depth. Stick to two or three colors, anymore than that and you might end up losing the bold effect.

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Popular wedding flower right now • Peonies • Ranunculous • Calla Lillies • Orchids • Hydrangeas Fragile Flowers: • Stephenotis • Tulips • Gerbera Daisies • Freesia • Gardenias Fun Filler Flowers • Astilbee • Queens Annes Lace • Hypericum Berries • Licodendrum • Monet Casino • Baby’s Breath

30 minutes of water can help refresh your flowers, keeping them beautiful and perky the whole day.

Don't forget to dry them off!

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Questions to Ask! u Can we see photos of weddings you’ve done? u Do you have one particular style or will you work with us to create arrangements that match our vision?

u Have you done any events at our site? u Once we’ve decided what we want, will you show us

u What are the costs for the different elements we are interested in?

u Will the flowers we’re interested in be in season at the time of our wedding? If not, can you suggest some similar looking alternatives to save money?

u How do you feel about transforming pew

sample arrangements?

u Are arrangements made the day of or before? How are they stored?

u Will you be available on the wedding day to arrange and set up or will someone else be doing this?

u Can you work with our cake designer if we want flowers on the cake? Are you familiar with the safety issues regarding edible flowers free from pesticides?

arrangements from the ceremony into centerpieces for the reception to help ease our budget?

u Are there delivery and setup fees? u Will you be working on any other events on our wedding day?

u What time would the flowers be delivered and when would you (and your team) arrive to set up?

Advice at a Glance! u Check to see if any bridesmaid or groomsmen

have allergies to any particular flowers. If so, try to stay away from those types for bouquets, corsages and boutonnieres. u Don’t incorporate flowers that have a strong scent in your reception centerpieces. u Floral arrangements should be delivered as late as possible, or kept refrigerated for freshness. u Refrain from touching or allowing others to touch your flowers. Oils from your fingers will brown and sometimes crush delicate petals.

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u See how long specific flowers stay fresh. You don’t

want your bouquets or arrangements to start to wilt or turn brown halfway through your day. u If the florist has more than one staff member working with you, make sure that they are all informed of the exact plans for your wedding day. u Bring pictures of types of flowers and arrangements that you like to your floral interviews. In addition, bring pictures of the ceremony and reception sites, and swatches of your dress and your bridesmaids’ dresses to find coordinating flowers.

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10 Questions to Ask Your

Wedding Photographer

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Will you be the photographer the day of my wedding?

Some larger studios have multiple photographers that may vary in style and personality.

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How would you describe your photography style?

Make sure you book a photographer that has a similar sense of style as you do.

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Will you have a second shooter? A

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How long have you been shooting weddings? Experience is

second shooter will allow for multiple angles of the same scene.

always good, but mostly, their experience and price should go together.

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Do you edit your photos? If you are concerned

with blemishes being removed or any editing, make sure the photographer would be willing to do so.

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Can I see your work from a full wedding day? The photographers

website showcases their best work (which it should). You want to ask to see a wedding from start to finish, from getting ready to the reception.

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important to make sure your budget can handle what you are booking.

photographer will work with you closely all day. It is crucial that you get along with them and enjoy their personality!

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Tips from the experts!

The day of your wedding can be pretty overwhelming - especially if you have hair and make-up appointments. Finding the time to take all of the photos you would like is very important to planning the schedule of events for the day. After you get your hair appointment set, call your photographer! I like to sit down with brides and chat over all of the photos they would like, determine when it would be best to take those photos and how long each session should take. Cut out the stress – let’s make the schedule together!

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Engagement Photos

Dress Your Best!

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Choosing outfits for you and your fiance to wear during your engagement photos can be fun for somebrides and torture for others. No worries! We’re here for you!

sweaters and warm colors will compliment your surroundings.

Conversely, dresses in bright iced colors look beautiful paired with wedge sandals in the spring time.

photographer, there may be time or location limitations. If you have the opportunity, change into another outfit half way through. Then you have more options in photos to print!

The first thing you are going to need to consider is the season in which your photos are being taken. It's importan to platn your pictures at least six months before your wedding in order to use your photos for save-the-dates and wedding website. Every season has the opportunity to take beautiful pictures, but your outfits should correspond accordingly.

• Choose solids--By choosing to wear solid colors in your engagement pictures, you are ensuring the attention and camera focus will be on you and your fiance the entire time.

• Keep accessories simple--Besides your engagement ring, chose only one other accessory for each outfit.

Once the season is decided and booked with your photographer, the next step is to pick YOUR outfit. Here are some things to keep in mind: • Consider the season--This one's easy.

If you're taking pictures in the fall, kneehigh boots,

• Choose classic styles--You don't want to have to look back on your engagement pictures five years from now and think "What was I thinking?"

By choosing classic styles for your outfits, you will be ensuring the longevity of your photos.

• Choose two or three different outfit combinations. When you set your shoot with your

The next thing will be to chose your fiance's outfit. It's important that you use the rules above for him, too.

Coordinate, but don't match! To make sure you and your fiance have the most perfect pictures, coordinate your style and formality. Lastly, but most importantly, be confident in yourselves!

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es, yes, everyone has an HD video camera these days, but that does not mean they can capture your wedding day in a meaningful way. There is so much more to a wedding video than just some footage. If you decide to save money and just have Uncle James shoot your wedding, be prepared to be disappointed!

There are a few things to consider when deciding whether or not to hire a videographer or go it alone:

• Pay the extra to have a second camera and cameraman! This allows for a better ability to get more footage and from different angels which will deliver a much more inclusive video.

• Sound is essential! Have someone experienced in capturing the right sounds will make for a neat video.

The couple will appreciate not only being able to see the ceremony but hear the VOW they spoke that day!

• Editing allows for a movie like feel! During the editing process things such as, special effects, highlight reels, etc., will create a smooth wedding video. Simple cuts here and there will take hours of video and create a sleek final video.

• Fun extras that can be added include: thehowwe-fell-love story, engagement story, and special stories from friends and family, which can really make the video a true treasure for the couple.

If you hire an experienced videographer there are other things they will do to prepare for shooting your wedding that you may never think of. Here are a few of those things: • Research the Church and Reception venue to know ahead of the best placements of the cameras so they don’t miss anything.

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So while this article does not provide all the great reasons to hire a videographer, hopefully it has given you something to think about!

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Why? Keep reading!

Candid, relaxed, spontaneous looking, sweet and playful photos are in right now.

I can promise you that a huge percentage of those photos did not happen because a photographer was standing in front of them, posing them and giving instructions on how to whisper in each other's ear.The photos found on pinterest that everyone wants to duplicate happened because a man and a woman were so in love and so into each other that those poses and looks came naturally. Now, I'm sure most of you are thinking, “duh, it's my wedding day, of course I'm going to be in love.”

But think about it, you have been planning this day for months, sometimes years. You have last minutes details dancing in your head, worries of people being where they need to be when they need to be, and hopes that the day runs as smoothly as 132

you have dreamed it would. Don't let yourself be distracted for your photos by all those thoughts and worries.

Before your photos begin, take that time during your 'first look' of each other, to take a deep breath, forget the craziness of the day, and settle in for an hour or so of just the two of you and a crazy person with a camera.

change who you are and please don't try to do something that you know will make you uncomfortable. Here is a list of things to think about before you get to the wedding day photos.

I tell my couples, “I'm going to set you up, do a couple posed shots and then step back and that is when you do your thing”. Forget about me, stare into each others eyes, whisper secrets, and tickle each other if you want to. I do this with almost every pose I set a couple up in.

Allowing yourself to be in the moment with the person you love makes a world of difference. That comes across in your photos more than you will ever know.

2. Talk with each other about your photos. As a bride searching pinterest for ideas, don't leave your groom out.

Now, not everyone is comfortable enough to just settle in and share kisses and be all sweet and intimate with others around, and that is totally fine. You can't

1. Do an engagement session with your photographer. This makes a huge difference when it comes to the big day.

3. Be yourself!! You fell in love with each other, you know each other, you make each other feel comfortable.

The overall thing to remember is to be yourself and let your love for each other shine through!

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o you are in the midst of planning your wedding and you are going through the checklist...venue, gown, caterer... when you come across the topic of video. Some couples know from the beginning that they want a video, others wait until the last minute and still others ask, 'Why would I ever need a video? After all, we have a photographer right?' Why then do you need a video?The answer lies in the fact that video has an inherently different affect on couples than any other medium available. Photos are great and are definitely recommended, but there is something to be said about how a video camera, while in the hands of a professional, captures the emotion of your day...the day.

A bride said that when she and her 6 foot 3 inch tall, 240 pound husband watched their video together, he cried recalling all the memories and emotions of seeing his new wife come down the aisle. Another bride watched her video again after her father passed away, and said that the Father Daughter dance was the way she wanted to remember him.Video, well done, has the power to capture these memories unlike anything else.

Perhaps reliving these moments through video is starting to appeal to you. But, how do you decide who to hire?

If you are like a lot of brides, you think of someone in your family who owns a video camera. Unless your family member is a professional, this is definitely not advisable.

Besides, wouldn't you want your family member to enjoy your day with you, instead of worrying about manning a camera?

The latest trend is to hire a production company that focuses on weddings and has a portfolio of actual weddings they have done. This way you can see their finished work and decide if their visual style is right for you and your spouse. This option generally ranges in price from around $1500 to $5500, and produces the highest quality video to highlight your day.

Wherever you are in the planning stage, consider hiring a professional to help capture your day.

It can make all the difference.

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your wedding photography Boudoir photography is a new sexy trend for brides to give to their grooms as a gift on their wedding day. The photos are usually taken with very few, if any, clothes on, but the style is more of an implied nude. The bride may be positioned on her stomach or the photo taken from the back, so even though she may not be wearing anything, she also isn’t showing anything. The photos should be classy sexy – not R rated!

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You and your photographer can talk over the details of the location. Sometimes your photographer will rent a hotel room or a private B&B to allow you the opportunity to get ready and take your photos in private.

What should I wear?

Wear something that makes you feel sexy – that can be a simple as a white collared men’s dress shirt, black lingerie, or a lace robe. Be sure to bring a variety of items for you to change into (and out of), but also bring a pair of sexy high heels and some necklaces as props.

How to get comfortable?

Posing half naked in front of someone you may not know very well might not be the easiest thing to do. Consider bringing a friend to make you feel more relaxed (maybe some champagne too…). The shoot may take a couple of hours and the first few photos may be pretty stiff. But after a little bit of joking around and getting more relaxed, it will be easier to be comfortable in front of the camera.

What should I do with the photos after?

Many photographers can help you make a mini photo book to give to your groom as part of his wedding present. You can also give a photo to your husband as gifts throughout your marriage like a seductive trail of breadcrumbs.

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u Consider taking formal portraits before the ceremony so you and the wedding party can enjoy the cocktail hour. If you are superstitious and don’t want to take shots with your groom before the ceremony, just take all the formal shots that don’t include him ahead of time.

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entire wedding he/she shot to get a realistic idea of their ability.

Make sure the photographer/videographer brings extra equipment in case something breaks or malfunctions so you're not left with important moments not photographed or recorded.

u Without him knowing, say something special to the groom on tape so he is happily surprised when he sees it. Also consider a special 1 year anniversary message recorded separately for that special night.

u Serve non-alcoholic drinks and hors d’oeuvres to those who will be posing for pictures prior to arriving at the reception site to keep your bridal party lively for the pictures. Take any photos immediately upon arrival before party members begin drinking or are distracted.

u The number of photos the photographer guarantees to shoot should be greater than the number you want to include in your album so you have the largest selection possible.

u The photographer or videographer you hire should u

Don’t forget to give the photographer and videographer any special instructions or restrictions by the officiant or the ceremony site ahead of time.

have experience shooting in conditions similar to yours. Be sure to view samples of work done in similar conditions.

u The videographer should have a wireless u Have your photographer take candid pictures of your parents that you could possibly have framed as gifts for them.

u Figure out before the wedding day if you want the videographer to interview your guests.

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Here are some tips we think can help you plan!

1. Book early! Make sure your reservation is in between 3 – 6 months ahead of your wedding. Depending on the time of year, there may be a lot of other events requiring rented transportation. Book early to help ensure you have exactly what you want lined.

2. Think outside the box – maybe line up something nontraditional! Rent an old car (or just ask the owner to drive you and the groom), line up a horse trailer, or go for the horse drawn carriage. There are a lot of options out there, you just need to think ahead and plan according to your unique bridal style!

3. Think about who all needs transportation.

Do you plan on having the bridal party travel with you? What about your parents? Are their children in the wedding? A common trend is to have the bridal party travel in a limo bus and have some drinks along the way.

Consider who all will be riding in the bus to best accommodate everyone. Don’t forget to ask your photographer to join you. Also – the bus won’t be staying around to take you back to your car at the ceremony location!

Make sure there is a way to get back to cars at the end of the night!

4. Make the reservation in person. You don’t want to be surprised the day of your wedding.

Make sure the transportation you have lined up meets your standards by checking it out in person.

5. Plan for delays – every trip will take longer.

Whether someone forgot their purse inside and need to run in to get it or you encounter unexpected traffic, there will be delays on the day of your wedding. Add 20 minutes – maybe 30 – just to make sure you have plenty of time for every, “Oh, just let me grab…”

6. Most often you are paying by the hour for transportation with an minimum amount of time required. Be cognizant of how long it takes to get to places, how long the driver is waiting for you and for how many hours you are paying them.

7. Plan your travel style! Have fun with this - make a playlist of your favorite songs, bring a box of fun costumes to wear in your pictures, or choose a unique ride – travel in your style on your big day!

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ooting the bill for out of town wedding guests overnight accommodations and flights isn't your responsibility, however you can make the stay more enjoyable for them. Taking the time to secure a discount on a block of rooms will do 2 things:

1. Saves your guests time money and stress. Booking a hotel in an unfamiliar city takes time to research and causes stress.

Reserving a block or rooms with reduce anxiety and generally means your guests receive a discount from the standard price.

2. Allows your friends and relatives to stay close to each other for the duration of the wedding. Weddings are a great chance to spend quality time with people you love and staying in the same hotels allows them to capitalize on every extra minute.

Many couples prefer to stay in a hotel on their wedding night. Depending on how many guests book a room, often the couple gets the honeymoon suite at a discounted rate or for free!

Here are a few questions to ask when deciding what hotel to recommend to your guests: 1.

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Do you offer any transportation services?

Do you have any special accommodations?

Do you offer a honeymoon suite with the room block?

In the end your guests will appreciate your willingness to make their trip great!

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Questions to Ask! Hotels u Do you offer a special rate for a block of rooms for

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What is the fee? Is the gratuity included?

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What amenities does that rate include?

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What are the charges for any extra amenities

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What date must guests reserve rooms to receive the

accommodate?

(champagne,TV, bar, etc.) that we might want?

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Is there a honeymoon suite? If so, is it available on the date of our wedding?

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What are the check-in and check-out times?

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Do you have a courtesy shuttle for guest

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How do overtime charges work?

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If an hourly rate: Does the clock start when the driver leaves the base or when the passengers are picked up?

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Will guests have the choice of single or double?

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Is there a minimum numbers of nights stay required?

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Can we get into rooms prior to our guests’ arrival to leave welcome baskets? Can we leave them at the

If we book the vehicle for the duration of the event, will the driver wait for us at our location during that entire

transportation? If so, to what locations?

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How many passengers can the vehicle(s) comfortably

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How old are the vehicles, and what kind of insurance do you have?

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Are each of these drivers familiar with the area?

front desk for our guests at check in?

Gifts for Your Guests Staying in Hotels!

Want to do something special for your out-of-town guests? Make up some gift baskets to put in their hotel rooms or have the front desk hand them out as guests arrive at the hotel. Here is a list of ideas that you could include in a guest gift basket: • Toiletries (lotions, soaps, toothpaste, floss, etc.)

• Food Items (fruit, nuts, pretzels, candy, cookies) • Notepad and Pen • Tea/Hot Chocolate Packets • Mints and Gum • Magazines • Children Items (coloring books, crayons, puzzles)

• List of Area Attractions • Maps • Recommended Restaurants • Schedule of Activities • Directions to Ceremony/Reception Locations • Handwritten Thank You Note • A List of Important Places (pharmacy, grocery store, ATM, etc.)

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very country has different legal requirements for marriage and when you are planning your destination wedding, you want to do everything you can to make your dream ceremony meets the requirements … rather than just a really beautiful demonstration requiring a quick elopement upon returning home. Here is a quick list to help get you on the path but make sure to check with your experienced travel agent. They can help you plan every aspect of your destination wedding to ensure you are meeting legal requirements and having the wedding of your dreams!

Mexico • Passports & Tourist Visas ( they will get them upon your arrival to Mexico) • Blood test results (typically performed at your wedding location) • Passports & Tourists cards/visas from 4 witnesses (could be relatives, families, friends) • Copy of Birth certificates from Bride & Groom •Arrive 4 business days in advance, from Monday to Friday (arrival day, Saturday, Sunday and holidays do not count) •4 witnesses they must be arrive 4 business days in advance, from Monday to Friday (arrival day, Saturday, Sunday and holidays do not count).

St Lucia & Bahamas • Original state-issued birth certificate** or a valid passport • Notarized documents are not accepted • Residency requirement of 72 hours, which must include 3 business days (day of arrival/weekends not included).

Example: Friday arrivals can be married on Thursday. Monday arrivals can be married on Friday Dominican Republic • Birth Certificate of the bride and groom • Document of single unmarried status (divorce or widow(er) certificate). Ten months must have elapsed since the date of the last divorce.

• A photocopy of the passport of the bride and groom (or other document used to enter the Dominican Republic.

• Photocopies of the passports of the witnesses who are not family members.

• Certificate of Single Status for each of the parties.

• All documents must be authenticated by the couples’ nearest Dominican Consulate before they arrive in the country.

• All documents must be legally translated into Spanish in such consulate or by a legal interpreter in the Dominican Republic.

If you are planning a destination wedding, it is because you WANT to get married at the destination – not elope when you get back home. For help planning your Destination Wedding and making sure you meet all of the legal requirements for that destination, your experienced travel agent can help you every step of the way! *If either the Bride or Groom were previously married, a divorce decree or death certificate will need to be provided as well. **Legal name changes or legal adoptions papers if applicable

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To save you from enjoying the interior of your room on your honeymoon, it’s important to know where to travel to experience the best weather possible.

Here is a list of honeymoon destinations by month they experience the best weather: • January & February- Argentina, Australia, Bahamas, Bali, Belize, Brazil, Caribbean, Central & South Africa, Chile, Costa Rica, Ecuador, Maldives, Mexico, Morocco, New Zealand, & the Florida Keys • March- Argentina, Australia, Bahamas, Belize, Brazil, Caribbean, Central & South Africa, Chile, Costa Rica, Ecuador, Egypt, French Polynesia, Hawaii, Maldives, Mexico, Morocco, & the Florida Keys • April- Argentina, Bahamas, Belize, Brazil, Canada, Caribbean, Central & South Africa, Chile, Costa Rica, Ecuador, Egypt, French Polynesia, Hawaii, Italy, Maldives, Mauritius, Mexico, Morocco, Spain, the Florida Keys, USA • May- Belize, Bermuda, Brazil, Britain, Canada, Caribbean, Central & South Africa, Czech Republic, Fiji, France, French Polynesia, Greece, Hawaii, Ireland, Italy, Madagascar, Maldives, Mauritius, Mexico, Morocco, Seychelles, Spain, Thailand, the Florida Keys, USA • June- Bermuda, Brazil, Britain, Canada, Central & South Africa, Czech Republic, Fiji,

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France, French Polynesia, Greece, Hawaii, Ireland, Italy, Madagascar, Maldives, Mauritius, Seychelles, Spain, Thailand, USA (Alaska, Northeast) • July & August- Bermuda, Brazil, Britain, Canada, Central & South Africa, Czech Republic, Fiji, France, French Polynesia, Ireland, Kenya, Madagascar, Malaysia, Seychelles, Thailand, USA (Alaska, Northeast) • September- Australia, Bermuda, Brazil, Britain, Canada, Central & South Africa, Czech Republic, Fiji, France, French Polynesia, Greece, Ireland, Italy, Madagascar, Maldives, Mauritius, Seychelles, Spain, Thailand, USA • October- Australia, Bali, Belize, Bermuda, Brazil, Canada, Central & South Africa, Egypt, Fiji, French Polynesia, Hawaii, Italy, Madagascar, Maldives, Mauritius, Mexico, Morocco, Seychelles, Spain, USA • November- Australia, Bahamas, Bali, Belize, Brazil, Central & South Africa, Egypt, French Polynesia, Hawaii, Mauritius, Mexico, Morocco, New Zealand, Seychelles, Spain • December- Argentina, Australia, Bahamas, Bali, Belize, Brazil, Caribbean, Central & South Africa, Chile, Costa Rica, Ecuador, Mexico, Morocco, New Zealand, the Florida Keys

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• Expert Guidance/First-Hand Knowledge for Travel Destinations/Options: Travel consultants are trained experts with extensive, first-hand experience to map the way through the information overload, customizing a trip that is tailor-made just for you!

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Carry-on:

Bathroom Items (pack travel sized if possible):

• Passports • Driver’s Licenses • Airline Tickets • Hotel Reservation Confirmation • Money/Traveler’s Checks/Credit/Check Card • Calling Card • Emergency Phone Numbers • Prescription Medicine • Contraception • Aspirin • Small Makeup Bag • Toothbrush/Toothpaste • Brush • Valuable Jewelry • Camera • Headphones and MP3 Player • Underwear/Change of Clothing • Books/Magazines • Light Sweater/Jacket • Sunglasses

HER Checked Bag:

• Pair of Jeans/Khakis • Casual Shirts (t-shirts, tank tops, etc.)

• Sundress/Evening Dress • Shorts • Cardigan/Sweater for Cool Evenings • Swimsuits/Swimsuit Cover-Up • Evening Purse • Lingerie • Socks/Underwear/Bras (strapless) • Jewelry/Accessories • Walking Shoes/Sandals • Evening Shoes/Sandals

HIS Checked Bag:

• Pair of Jeans/Khakis • Pair of Nice Slacks • Casual Shirts (t-shirts, short sleeves, etc.)

• Light Jacket or Pullover • Shorts • Polo and/or Button Down Shirts • Tie and Sports Jacket (For nicer restaurants) • Swimsuits • Walking Shoes/Sandals • Dress Shoes • Socks/Underwear

• Toothbrush/Toothpaste/Floss • Deodorant • Razor/Shaving Cream • Body Lotion/Sunscreen/Aloe Vera • Nail File/Clippers/Tweezer • Cosmetics and Make-up Remover • Lip Balm • Brush/Comb • Shampoo/Conditioner • Hair Accessories (clips, headbands, etc.)

• Hairspray/Styling Products • Hair Dryer/Curling Iron • Feminine Hygiene Products • Soap and Face Cleanser/Moisturizer • Contact Lens Solution/Storage Case

Misc. Items:

• Travel Alarm • Antibacterial Wipes/Hand Sanitizer • Earplugs • Sewing Kit • Work Out Clothes and Sneakers • Chargers for Cell Phones, MP3 Players, Camera, etc.

• Various Sizes of Re-sealable Plastic Bags • Small First Aid Kit with the following: Anti-itch Cream, Aspirin, Band-Aids, Antacid, Antihistamine, Motion Sickness/Diarrhea Medicine

Items to leave with family and friends while you are away:

• Your Itinerary with Hotel Information/ Numbers • Photocopies of your passports, credit cards, traveler’s check receipts • A sealed copy of your wills, life insurancepolicy numbers and important financial information

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What do your services include?

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How long has the agency been in business?

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Have you ever visited the destination we’re discussing?

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Have you sent many couples to a particular resort?

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Do you have any photos/brochures of positional hotels (including pictures of rooms)?

u

What is the cost of the trip we’re interested in and what is included? (Be sure to get costs for all

Destination Weddings u What is the weather like in the destination we’re considering at the time we’ll be there?

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Do we need to be concerned about drinking the water, eating any foods, or any safety issues?

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Do we need a passport, a visa, or any other travel documents?

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Do we need any immunizations?

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What is the airfare for the dates and times we want?

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Can we get a nonstop or direct flight, or do we need to change planes?

u

How do these options affect the cost?

u

Is there a limit to the amount of checked or carry-on luggage?

elements, such as transportation to destination, hotel accommodations, car rentals, etc.)

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Are meals and drinks included in the rate?

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What type of travel insurance is offered?

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What is the payment policy?

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What is the additional cost, if any?

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What is the cancellation policy?

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How does payment work?

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Choosing the perfect romantic travel destination for your Destination Wedding or Honeymoon will depend on a number of important factors. Budget, length of flight, style of resort and perhaps the amount of near-by attractions and activities - all considerations in planning your Romantic stay. Some destinations offer discounted prices during their offseason, some couples prefer a quick flight time, others may prefer to get a little more off-the-beaten path. Knowing which travel destination is right for you is the first step in planning the perfect Romantic Getaway. This is where working with a Travel Professional can save you time, money, frustration and offer personal service and recommendations! You already have enough to do with planning your wedding, you don’t need the stress about hoping you’ve planned a memorable Honeymoon. Your honeymoon should be the time you get to sit back, relax and enjoy your new life together.

So the next time you are thinking about booking your impersonal online reservation, consider booking with someone who cares and is there for you… a Travel Professional!

CHANGING YOUR NAME | TOP 5 REASONS TO USE A REALTOR CUSTOM BUILT CABINETS | MOTGAGE MYTHS BUDGET WORKSHEETS

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hether you decide to take your husband’s last name is up to you. If you do it, there are a lot of different places where you have to change it.

These are the different areas where most people have to change their name: • Social Security Card • Drivers License • Auto Registration • Credit Cards

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South Dakota has very strict guidelines about getting a new Drivers License. The items you will need to bring to get a new Drivers License with your new last name: • Birth Certificate • Your current Drivers License or state issued ID • Your Marriage license • Paystub with your name, address, and social security number • A piece of mail with your new address with your husband • Another piece of mail, a bill preferably, with your name and your new address.

The most important thing to remember here is this – It may be challenging and it may be annoying, but all of these companies have hoops for you to jump through when changing your name to protect you! They want to make sure you really are who you say you are so that no one can take your identity and ruin your credit, steal your money, make the first part of your new life together awful.

• Bank accounts • Utilities

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• Medical Organizations •Legal Documents (Will, Power of Attorney, etc) • Billed services (phone bill, insurance, etc) This can be a long list and not everything has to be done at once. Many of these organizations can change your name over the phone. Others, Banks and Credit Unions for example, want to see a copy of the Marriage Certificate and your Drivers License before they will change the name on the account.

When you are ready to change your Social Security Card, here are the local offices to connect with. You may be able to fill out forms online as well if you are interested.

• Sioux Falls Social Security office: 2400 W. 49th Street, Sioux Falls, SD • Yankton Social Security office: 121 W. 3rd St,Yankton, SD • Aberdeen Social Security office: 115 4th Ave SE, Aberdeen, SD • Sioux City, IA Social Security office: 3555 Southern Hills Dr Sioux City, IA For the Social Security Administration, you will need to bring your driver’s license, your marriage certificate, and fill out a name change form. After all of your materials are submitted you should receive your card in the mail in a couple of weeks.

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SPECIALITIES 3 MOVE - UP BUYERS 3 FIRST-TIME HOMEBUYERS 3 LISTING SPECIALIST 3 INVESTORS 3 LUXARY HOMES

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YOU SHOULD USE A REALTOR!

1. We Know The Market Realtors® pride themselves on knowing specifics on their local real estate market. Using an agent that knows their local market well saves you time and is much more convenient if you are looking to buy or sell your home! If you’re selling, your agent should be able to give you a very good idea of what your home may really be worth by filling you in on what your neighborhood trends are doing, what you can do to save time and money, and how to read an offer when you get one.

If you are buying a home, your agent may have access to all of the listings you see on the Multiple Listing Service (as long as they are a part of their local Association of Realtors®). Your agent can also really give you peace of mind to know you’re not paying more than you really should when you find that perfect place to call home.

2. Contracts Can Be Scary Having an agent to walk you through all of the paperwork can be comforting! Making sure you understand all of the terms of the contract is what we do. We also make sure that ALL necessary paperwork is done correctly. Because there is so much that goes into a sale or a purchase of a home, it is important to make sure you have someone on your side, advocating and negotiating on YOUR behalf; don’t take it on alone!

3. Time Is Of The Essence Many agents have very good relationships with other real estate professionals in the area. A contract will specify deadlines for things like home inspections, appraisals, and mortgage loan specifics. Using a Realtor® who is connected will help make sure your offer or sale is being handled in a timely manner and following the contract as it should.

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4. You Need Objective Information Sure, the home you want to buy is really pretty… It’s painted well, staged with nice furniture, and it has a great view! BUT, are you seeing the hail damage on the roof and siding, termite damage in the basement, or the moldy trim in the corner?

Realtors® provide a due diligence to their clients during home showings and can help you see things that you may have missed. Use an agent that can help you see the BIG picture!

5. After Closing What happens after you move?! Many questions can pop up that were overlooked in the excitement of closing. Your Realtor® should be ready to take your call and assist with answering your questions, even after closing!

- MAGGIE MILLER, HEGG REALTORS

BRANDON MARTENS (605)261-9673 MAGGIE MILLER (605)360-3609

www.brandonmartens.com 2804 E. 26th St., Sioux Falls, SD 57103

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Custom Built Cabinets There is a lot of confusion surrounding the words “custom built” when it comes to cabinets.

The main difference is craftsmanship! True custom cabinets are made to last.

Webster’s Dictionary defines the term custom built in the following manner: built to individual order/specifications. One could assume that means cabinet size, style, finish. This is not so, however. Custom built is made to suit ones budget, taste, but most importantly, made to fit exactly in the space available.

The difference between custom built cabinets and prefabricated is that the “prefab” cabinets are made in standard dimensions and anything different becomes “custom” in their eyes. For example, if you have an 11 foot wall, the prefab will come in 18 inch, 24 inch 38 inch, etc. In any event you are left with a void. Something has to fill that void whether it’s a divider, filler or pans leaving unusable space. A custom cabinet on the other hand will be made to specifically fit that area giving you use of the entire space.

A cabinet is made of basically a box, face frame, door, drawer and shelves. So when comparing the two, one must take into consideration all of the elements listed below.

Custom

Box-solid wood, solid back Corners held together solid, nailed etc Cut outs fit and ready for appliances drawers joints are toung & groove, solid wood Paint, (stain) can be matched to your home

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1/4 inch back, thin sides Plastic cornersa glued/hot glued installer has to rebuild to fir appliances joints nailed ot glue limited color choices These are just some of the differences. Of course, one can “upgrade” the prefab cabinets with better drawer guides, a stronger box, better hinges, but in the end, when you compare the price of the upgrades with the basic custom cabinet, the cost is similar. At the end of the day a true custom cabinet shop offer a much better quality, more customization and a happy home owner!

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CONGRATULATIONS You’re ready to start your new life together!

Mortgage Myth #1 – My credit score suffers when I shop for a mortgage.

Inquiries into your credit can affect your score. Your credit score can have an impact on which programs you qualify for and what rate you receive. However, if several lenders pull credit within a short period of time, it should not affect your score. If you go to a lender every week for a month or two, then yes, your score may take a hit. If you are going to shop for a mortgage, do it by applying at all the lenders in the same week, if possible, to avoid issues that can affect your qualifying rate and terms.

Mortgage Myth #2 – A 30-Year Fixed Rate Mortgage is the way to go.

Rates on fixed rate loans are historically low. But the consumer has many options including 10-year, 15-year, 20-year or even a 25-year fixed rate loan. Rates usually improve the shorter the term of the loan. Also, Adjustable Rate Mortgages are at historic lows as well and for the right situation, can save the borrower thousands in interest. Talking to a mortgage lender will help you determine what loan structure fits your financial needs.

Mortgage Myth #3 – I will have mortgage insurance on my loan forever.

If you have a loan that requires mortgage insurance, it will eventually fall off. For example, FHA loans drop the insurance when your loan balance reaches 78% of the original value of the home at the time of financing. Conventional loans will also remove your mortgage insurance at the 78% mark. You can always request it be removed early if you think your home has appreciated enough, but might have to do an appraisal to support the value. Mortgage insurance is a great tool to help you get in to a home, but it won’t be required forever. Under some circumstances, it's even tax deductible.

Getting into the right home is easier with the right mortgage.

The best place to start is with one of the market’s most experienced mortgage teams.

You’ll be surprised at how fast and simple the loan process can be if it’s done right. Before you know it, you’ll have a mortgage that fits your lifestyle and a great new home to go with it.

Give us a call. We’ll get it done!

Mortgage Myth #4 – Banks aren’t lending, it's hard and takes too long get approved.

While it is true that state income programs have disappeared, people who make their payments and can show their income, can and will get a loan. Some programs have increased their minimum credit score requirements to 620 or higher. If your credit score is under that, start working on it now! One or two 30-day late payments will not normally affect your approval but it may affect the interest rate you qualify for. When you go to the appointment with your mortgage lender, bring your most recent two years of income tax returns, current pay stubs and current bank statements. If you have all the supporting documentation, your lender should be able to tell you what you are approved for that same day, or shortly thereafter.

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It's no small task packing your things, deciding whether to rent a truck or hire a mover, & keeping the whole process organized.

This checklist takes you step by step - from what to do 2 months in advance to the weeks following your move.

2-4 DAYS BEFORE MOVE

□ Defrost your freezer & clean the fridge □ Make sure essential tools are handy (screwdrivers, wrench, pliers, etc) □ Pack a bag for water bottles, pen/paper, snacks, documents, & essentials □ Set aside boxes/items that you’re moving yourself (make sure you have room)

1-2 MONTHS BEFORE MOVE

□ Create binder/folder for moving records (estimates, receipts, inventory lists, etc.) □ Plan your moving method (truck rental, hiring movers, etc) & get cost estimates; acquire packing materials (boxes, tape, stuffing, markers, etc.) □ Research storage facilities if needed □ Schedule disconnection/connection of utilities at old & new place □ Phone □ Internet □ Cable □ Water □ Garbage □ Gas □ Electric □ Plan how you’ll arrange furniture in the new place - use a floor plan or sketch □ Schedule transfer of records and get copies of any records needed (medical, dental, etc.) □ Return borrowed, checked-out & rented items and get things back that you have lent out

1-4 WEEKS BEFORE MOVE

MOVING DAY

□ Remove bedding & take apart beds □ Go early to pick up the truck if you rented one □ Take movers/helpers through the house informing them of what to do □ Walk through the empty place to check for things left behind - look behind doors □ Take inventory before movers leave, sign bill of lading & use a padlock to lock the truck □ Leave your contact info for new residents to forward mail □ Make sure your movers have the correct new address □ Lock the windows & doors, turn off the lights At your new place …

□ Verify utilities are working - especially power, water, heating, & cooling □ Perform an initial inspection, note all damages, take photographs if needed □ Direct movers/helpers where to put things □ Assemble beds with bedding □ Begin unpacking, starting with kitchen & bathroom

□ Finalize moving method & make arrangements with those involved □ Begin packing non-essential items, label boxes by room & contents □ Separate valuable items to transport yourself - label as DO NOT MOVING IN - WEEKS 1-2 MOVE □ Keep a box out for storing pieces, parts & essential tools that you will want to keep with you on move day - label as PARTS / DO NOT MOVE □ Check for damages while unpacking - be aware of deadline for insurance claims □ Fill out a Change of Address form at a post office or online □ Replace locks if necessary & make at least 2 copies of the new keys □ Provide important contacts with your new address: □ Employers □ Family & Friends □ Attorney □ Accountant □ Banks □ Confirm that mail is now arriving at your new address □ Make sure your previous utilities have been paid for & canceled □ Memberships □ Credit Cards □ Insurance □ Others □ Schedule a time to get a local driving license & update vehicle □ Cancel automated payment plans & local accounts if necessary □ Pack items separately that you’ll need right away at your new place □ Find new doctors, dentists, etc, depending on your needs & insuranceregistration □ Plan to take the day off for moving day □ Begin to pack suitcases with clothes & personal items for the trip □ Update your renters insurance or homeowners insurance if needed □ Schedule cancellation of services for your old place □ Newspaper □ Housecleaning □ Lawn □ Pool □ Water Delivery START YOUR LIFE TOGETHER □ Check your furniture for damages - note damages on your inventory □ Make sure all paperwork for the old & new place is complete □ Get rid of flammables such as paint, propane, & gasoline □ Try & use up perishable food

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Advice at a Glance

24 Steps to Improve Your Credit.

1. Pay your bills on time.

2. Don’t bounce checks.

3. Think long term.

4. Start small.

5. Visit local lenders first.

6. Apply for a local department store charge or credit card.

7. Apply for a secured card.

8. Apply for a small loan or a low-limit credit card guaranteed by a creditworthy cosigner.

9. Review your credit report at least once each year and correct inaccurate information.

10. Review your credit report 2-3 months before you apply for a car, mortgage or home equity loan.

11. Avoid letting any account be turned over to a collection agency.

12. Avoid having judgments filed against you in court.

13. Bankruptcy is the LAST RESORT, rather than an easy way out.

14. Any time you are denied credit, review your report to see what negative information is reported.

15. After 6 months of working on your credit history, apply for another small loan or credit card.

16. Avoid switching employers.

17. Avoid moving from rental to rental.

18. Set up a savings and a checking account.

19. Have reputable credit references.

20. Work hard to increase your income.

21. Work hard to decrease your debt.

22. Demonstrate that you are living within your budget.

23. Avoid consigning and guaranteeing loans for others.

24. Avoid excessive inquiries into your credit report.

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