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Reinventing yourself Who will you be post COVID-19? By Kimberlee Davis
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here is no shortage of lessons to be learned from COVID-19. In addition to the economic and health adjustments, we are all scrambling to make a deluge of new challenges that have yet to be considered still looms around the corner. As we navigate our way through these rough waters of financial hardships, stress and anxiety, let’s make sure to maintain our sense of control and handle the problems that we are empowered to solve. The best way to do this is by reevaluating our finances, focusing on our long-term goals, and reflecting inward on our own identity. From a corporate securities lawyer and an investment banker, to an entrepreneur and stay-at-home mom, I have reinvented myself many times over. Some changes were for the better, others not so much. I have found that the key to making solid transitions is to start them in a quiet place like the unique setting of the quarantine. With mouths to feed, bills to pay and immune systems to protect, taking stock on the bigger picture might seem like a low priority at the moment, but it really shouldn’t be. Ultimately, who we choose to be—either in business, in wealth, in family or just plain spiritually—will determine our paths forward out of this crisis. Amid the chaos and loss of control, our own sense of self is one of the few things we can control. Plus, sheltering in place gives us a unique opportunity to do some personal observation, self-reflection, introspection and evaluation because we are not losing time in the dash to in-person meetings and child soccer practices. The first question that a lot of us get stuck on is: Where do we start? Having gone through several personal and
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professional reinventions myself, I have found great value in beginning with a deep exploration into my hierarchy of values. This consists of the following important questions: › What is important to my emotional development as a person? › What is important to my economic goals? › What is important to my interpersonal relations and social/ethical perspective? All three are equally important and must be looked at holistically and practically. We can stand back and reflect on our lives as they were pre-coronavirus, and examine if we were happy and if our finances survived. In our society, we
seem to be perpetually busy. For many of us, this outbreak has been a hard stop, forcing us to spend time with our loved ones, get comfortable being alone and taking a moment to think about the things that really matter. Using this time to think about how your financial situation held up, ask yourself what areas can be improved upon. Did you have enough in your savings to cover a couple months of bills if you were to get furloughed from your job? Did you notice how much less money you were spending on frivolous things like your morning coffee? Taking this time to reflect and thoroughly comb through your spending habits and fiscal well-being will help you plan for the future, and give you the knowledge and tools you need to make better choices after this is all over. Having more idle time also allows us to enjoy ordinary activities such as reading, yoga, exercise, painting, listening to music, cooking and reconnecting with our interests. Instead of succumbing to the pressure and uncertainty, embrace the stillness and relearn how to be thoughtful. Just because the pandemic is tragic—and, of course, it certainly is— does not mean it is not also a great chance to spend more time together, talk without rushing and determine how we can continue this in a post-coronavirus environment. There may be a wonderful recalibration to consider, which never would have been possible during the rat race of the so-called “normal” life we used to know. We should all examine the strengths of our relationships and family to gauge how we are surviving as a wife, mother, friend and/or businesswoman. In this state of quiet, what do we value and how do we prioritize it among all the other noise?
May-June 2020
