Healing the Inner man /woman

Healing the person inside Life’s hurts cause damage to our souls the Inner man / woman and these hurts have an effect on us all the days of our lives they help shape us in our thinking and attitudes. Take the words spoken over us often as we grow up into teenagers, the words, “well done” have a positive effect on us they make us feel good inside in our minds, the words, “your useless,” have a devastating effect on us in that they cause to feel bad about ourselves, they can cause depression, thoughts of suicide and have a negative effect on our soul. They can make you feel insecure inadequate of no use or importance. They take root inside you in your soul, your mind.
Isn’t it amazing that words can have such a deep destructive effect on us, they can hang over us no matter where we go, they can have an effect on everything we do or say for the rest of your life, they have a terrific influence on our attitudes.
Positive words have a therapeutic effect on us because words like well done or good effort you’re a clever girl / boy, they create a positive attitude inside someone, they feel inside they can achieve anything if they put their minds to it and usually do.
Positive words have the power to create life around you; they make people like you and want to be with you, a negative person has the opposite effect on others they want to avoid them. Every bad feeling inside of you had a beginning somewhere, it may have been words spoken over you, to you or about you that you overheard, words like get rid of it, spoken to a pregnant mother by the child’s father or grandparents can have a lasting effect on the unborn child. I don’t want it, get that thing out of you, and get an abortion. These words or similar words have a lifetime consequence on your soul, some people feel at certain times in their lives the feelings that they wished they were never born, they can feel suicidal, they cannot figure out why at certain times of the year they feel like this and for a few days or weeks they have this feeling of thoughts of suicide or depression hanging like a great big black cloud hanging over them, then suddenly it lifts and they feel ok again. Those times if they are on a set date or time probably coincide with their mother, father or grandparent saying get rid of that thing inside you, and they feel less than human and can’t understand why they feel like this when only the other day they were in top form and life was great.
I know because for years and years I had feelings of emptiness hang over me and nothing I could do would lift it off of me, I just felt empty almost depressed and I suppose it is a form of depression. I believe that I had felt what my mother had felt while I was inside her womb, every feeling that she felt I felt those feelings, feelings of despair when she had no money to feed her family and those feelings of hers would enter my senses, and as a baby in my mother’s womb I took those feelings upon myself, they became a part of me. And those types of feelings could become a part of you because you sense and hear everything while in the womb; scientists have discovered recently the child hears everything inside its mother’s womb, we knew from before they found out that a child could hear while in the womb, John the Baptist leapt in the womb at the sound of Marys feet 2011 years ago, before modern technology was even dreamt of.
Luke 1 -41-And it occurred that when Elizabeth heard Mary's greeting, the baby leaped in her womb, and Elizabeth was filled with and controlled by the Holy Spirit. 42And she cried out with a loud cry, and then exclaimed, Blessed (favoured of God) above all other women are you! And blessed (favoured of God) is the Fruit of your womb! 43And how [have I deserved that this honour should] be granted to me, that the mother of my Lord should come to me? 44For behold, the instant the sound of your salutation reached my ears, the baby in my womb leaped for joy.
The baby heard the sounds of Mary’s footsteps as well as Elizabeth hearing both happened simultaneously. A child hears and feels things that happen whilst in the womb, and obviously doesn’t remember those things as it grows up they remain buried in the memory, and it is this area that I believe that God wishes to heal in us, those subconscious memories that cause us to feel they way we do.
Many a child has been welcomed the moment the parents discovered they were in the womb and they were received in great joy, or some at first registered shock and ‘oh, no’ were their initial reaction but then after a day or two they settled down and grew to love their child within them. For some mothers and fathers having another child when they have no financial means of supporting another child is quiteupsetting and “normal.” And is not something to condemn themselves for, there are millions of people just like you, and remember that God does not condemn you either,
I am not talking about those “normal” reactions but the ones that completely reject the child within the womb and the child suffers rejection. God on the other hand always wanted you because he planned for you to come into being as a human being on the date you were conceived, you were never an accident, even if your mother was raped, you were still not an accident; God never planned that your mother would be raped or that this was his perfect will for you to enter the word through rape, but he did plan for you to enter the world through the sperm meeting the ovum. How you came to be in this world does not matter, the fact is you are in the world and God personally loves you, even if everyone else rejects you, and God has a plan for your life, and that plan is for you to receive salvation through his Son Jesus and enter heaven at that moment of receiving him into your heart. Life in this world is not fair, there are shitty things that happen to people and some terrible things have happened to individuals, but that does not take away from the fact that you were wanted and planned by God. God planned for you to come into this world in a perfect state, but the enemy prowls around seeking whom he can destroy like a hungry roaring lion as scripture says.
1 Peter 5:7- Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.8 be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. 9 Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings. (New International Version, ©2011)
Romans-8-1- there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus.Your enemy the devil is like a roaring lion seeking someone to destroy, at the time of your entry into this world through God’s plans for you, The devil came around and caused your mum to be raped, this was not the plan of God but the devil knows God’s plans and he sent a sicko to rape your mother at the time that should have been the right time for you to come into existence on this planet. The devil knows the plans of God, remember he once roamed around heaven as God’s choicest and most powerful angel, he was there when God discussed his plans with Jesus and the Holy Spirit, and he saw that God intended to create you through your mother and your father, so he arranged a rapist to get to your mother first, but God even knew that scenario and still desired you be born, because he loves you no matter what way you came into being, and he loves you and has a new plan for you, a plan for his perfect will to be accomplished, and not his permissive will, which allows things to happen to us when we do our own thing.
God’s perfect will is that you never sin, but do you sin, yes because God allows you to sin, he doesn’t want you to sin but he allows you to do what you want to do, he loves you unconditionally, and unconditional love allows you to do what you want and not what God desires of you. He is in love with you because you are his son or daughter, and he desires to bless his children with good things, so no matter what happened to you in the past, God turns it to good for you later on. You are the strong person you are because of the things that happened to you through circumstances.
I know that for a fact the devil cannot defeat me for one simple reason, I went through a terrible time in my life for over ten years where Satan the devil destroyed my life almost. But then I came through this terrible time and in coming out of it through the grace of God I realised that the devil can never defeat me ever again. Even if he kicks me around the place almost wiping me out, and defeats me in battle after battle, I know that God will turn my defeats into victory and into good for me when I give my defeats to him, I know this now in my spirit not just in my mind, even if I am beaten senseless God will take out of it victory for me later on after I give it to him for his glory, in this way Satan knows I can never be defeated ever because Overwhelming victory is ours through Christ Jesus. You are not an accident of birth, you are the person God intended to bring into this world as his child and no matter what way you entered this world you were wanted by God even if your mother or father didn’t want you, God wanted you to come into being, God planned for you from before time even began, God intended for you to be born and to be his child, no matter what way Satan the devil screwed the plans of God up, God had a plan “B” and you are either plan A or plan B but either way you were planned and wanted. You can chose to sit and feel sorry for yourself all the days of your life or you can stop right now and become a blessing to others by allowing God to sort you out once and for all by giving your life, shitty as it is over to God to use for his glory and your good.
I again point to myself as someone having “feelings of rejections” as a child and as an adult and I am supersensitive to rejection. I don’t allow those feelings to get the better of me and I resist them every time they arrive, but like everyone else I get those feelings and they are only that “feelings and emotions.” If you allow it feelings and emotions will destroy you and bring you down into depression or worse, you have to resist negative emotions with the name of
Jesus and calling his light to fill you up with positive emotions, you can chose which emotions to follow, you can chose to be negative or you can chose to be positive, which ever emotion you chose will help shape your life and future if you allow them. When negative emotions surface accept they happened one time but are not happening now to you, and then change those thoughts and think of some good times or emotions and exercise authority overpowering those negative emotions with thanksgiving for the good that happened to you through the grace of God, as provided for the Christian as a part of their salvation package. You have the power in you to change things, do so now today.
My mother always told me this story about me, and even on her death bed she reminded me of this story.
I was sitting in the garden digging aged about five, and my father came over to me to see what I was doing, and she told me that I turned and looked up at him and said, “you’s don’t love me,” I as a child felt rejected and unloved and for whatever reason I felt this I have no idea, but I know from my mother always telling this story to me so often that somewhere I was right, because even on her death bed she reminded me of what I had said, I knew she always felt guilty about this incident because she always reminded me about it growing up, even dying she had to say one more time to me and I told her she more than made up to me by all the love she gave me growing up.
The greatest Joy I ever had in my life was bringing my mother and father to the lord because my mother was always afraid of dying, she wasn’t just afraid she was terrified she told me, and on one occasion as she lay dying in hospital, I told her about Jesus loving her and forgiving her all her sins and she renounced republicanism and repented and gave her life to Jesus. Then miraculously her stats changed and she became better and they let her out of hospital and she lived for another six or seven years until she was seventy one. On her actual death bed she told me she was no longer afraid and couldn’t wait to die. When my mother died I was holding her hand and just before she breathed her last, I felt the lord prompting me to let my little sister hold her hand, and so I got up and told my little sister to hold mums hand and I stood at the bottom of the bed and placed my hand on her toes, then when my mother died I felt her spirit leave her body and a joy that I have never experienced before or since rushed through me as I felt her spirit leave, passing through me on its way to heaven. I couldn’t cry after that and my family worried that I didn’t cry, but I felt my mother’s joy at receiving eternal life, and I know that same joy awaits me when I go to Jesus and my place in him in heaven. I received a lot of healing when my mother died, spiritual healing because of the experience I had of her passing through me with amazing joy filling me as she passed through me. I know she is safe in the arms of Jesus because of that awesome joy she felt, and God allowed me to feel it also, praise God.
{****{now please note;****neither you or I have the right to be angry at or to resent or hate our mothers or fathers because of what they felt that transmitted unto you, because when you grow up and have children of your own, you too could have those same feelings happen to you because of the circumstances in your life. You don’t have the right to judge your mum or dad; you have enough mistakes and bad things of your own to deal with. Your parents are human;
they faced pressures every day of their lives, some pressures they had they could not cope with, maybe because they never had anyone to help or love them in the way you have been loved by them, so don’t go blaming anyone, that’s life and you suffered the fallout from the bad side of it. It’s time to move on and get some healing from the effects that were placed on you, through no fault of your parents. ****}
We are who we are because of our parents love, they loved us as best as they could, and who knows what kind of life they went through. I know my mother and father both had a tough upbringing. I knew my father was demoralised by his alcoholic father and rejected by his mother in favour of the younger brother he became a transvestite because of the things that happened to him.
And my mother looked after her brothers and sisters after her mother died in childbirth, and she had to take on the roll of mother to her siblings, at a very young age, so life wasn’t easy for either of them. You know you’re greater than you think you are because of them, or by who ever brought you up if you had no parents.
People can do things to you that can have a lasting effect and these things play on your mind and upset you. Things like sexual abuse, physical abuse, mental abuse, spiritual abuse, from a father, brother, mother, sister, teacher, priest, nun etc, or friend, and these things have a lasting effect on you unless Jesus heals it.
These things that happened to you can destroy your joy, your feelings of happiness, one minute you are feeling happy the next this awful thought of what happened to you comes into your mind and leaves you feeling depressed worthless, suicidal, or empty. This brings your spirit right down into the dumps, and God does not want you feeling like this so what is God doing about it then.
I could take you into meditations and different little meditations that can help you, but the truth is, even with those meditations the thoughts still come back. So I asked God to show me how to help you collectively as a group of people with different happenings in their lives. And the lord says this to you. The one mistake we make as Christians is trying to bury what happened to us, showing it down deeper and deeper inside you and it is not going away like this, we as children of the light should do the very opposite, we need to bring horrible memories to the surface and expose them to the light of Christ Jesus. Saying Jesus this is what happened to me when I was young or growing up, now I surrender it to your awesome light so that it can no longer hold me in bondage in darkness.
I began this book asking the lord to show me how I can do an inner healing with a group of people because It takes a tremendous amount of time which I do not have these days to go rooting around inside someone’s mind {soul} with the Holy Spirit, on a one to one basis, and this book is the result of what he is revealing to me, teaching me and you how to do things with his grace simply and effectively through God’s grace and power.
The first thing we have to do as Christians is to forget the past and that can only be done after confronting it bringing it into the present examining it in the light of Christ Jesus who reveals areas of darkness inside us and then illuminates it so that it can be crushed to death by the light of the world Christ Jesus.
Philippians 3-13-
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I do not consider, brethren, that I have captured and made it my own [yet]; but one thing I do [it is my one aspiration]: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead, {forget the past}
14I press on toward the goal to win the [supreme and heavenly] prize to which God in Christ Jesus is calling us upward.
15So let those [of us] who are spiritually mature and full-grown have this mind and hold these convictions; and if in any respect you have a different attitude of mind, God will make that clear to you also.
16Only let us hold true to what we have already attained and walk and order our lives by that.
God speaks to us here through Paul and he says one thing “I do,” {Not God does} but “I do,” forget what lies behind, forget the past and look only at what lies ahead. How we defeat negative happenings in our lives is by doing as God says and he says through Paul, forget the past, and look forward only to what lies ahead. This can only truly happen when we give to God all that happened to us no matter how terrible, because God will turn that terrible thing to good for those who love him and do his will. We turn the defeat into victory by giving our terrible pasts to God and he then later on turns them to good for us and we can then think of these things and they bring only thoughts of victory.
I know I can take you back in time with the lord Jesus and go into those terrible times and ask him to bring healing light to those areas, but this is the way that God wants you to grow victorious, growing in strength out of your greatest weakness, that is spiritual growth and no amount of soul searching can ever bring that victory into your life, but when you sincerely give them to God he is the one who will turn them to good for you and others later on.
There are areas of darkness in my life terrible sexual things that happened to me, what should I do about these things you may be asking?
If these things have been done to you, you can ask Jesus to take you back to that moment when these things happened, and you can ask Jesus to touch those areas with his healing light, to go into {inside you} every part of you that was defiled and ask for that light to remove this darkness from you. This is no different than what I would do if praying with you on your own, you then have to make a conscious decision to forgive the person /persons who done these things to you, and you have to hand them over to the lord so that he can deal with them spiritually, if you don’tdo so you willcarry thoseperson/s around with you allthedays of your life. All healing begins and ends with forgiveness, you either need to forgive a person/s or yourself for what happened in your life. You have to forgive yourself for thinking that you were to blame for what happened to you and even if you were to blame you have to forgive yourself right now because Jesus died to forgive you “everything” every sin you committed, have all been paid for by Jesus.
Right now I am going to say a prayer for you and I know from experience that I don’t have to be there with you, because I have prayed with many over the phone and the lord healed them. Prayer;
In the name of the living Omnipotent God and in the power of the name of Jesus light of the world, I command all darkness still within you the reader to depart right now in the name of Jesus, I command his light to fill every dark recess of your mind and body and to bring all darkness into the light and remove it permanently in Jesus light of the worlds name, leave
this person now. Lord I ask that your peace and love fill this area also where darkness had been lodged as you have now filled it with light, so there is tranquillity in all areas of this person’s spirit, soul and body. I break every attachment that a spirit has taken root, in Jesus name and I command it to be uprooted.
God tells us to forget the past and that means that you don’t give it priority in your life when thoughts come into your mind you are the one responsible to get rid of them God won’t it’s up to you as a child of God because God gave you his Son’s name Jesus to resist the enemy when he attacks. God won’t resist the enemy for you he gave you the power in his Sons name Jesus name above every other name as your most capable weapon against Satan’s thoughts.
Thoughts will come into your mind again after getting prayed with but that is natural, that is the enemy trying to get back in control and trying to put you down with condemnation and condemnation is a lie told to you by your enemy the devil because Romans-8-1 there is no condemnation for those who belong to Christ Jesus. This word of God never changes it remains the same forever and forever. You must resist the enemy and he will eventually get tired trying because he knows he can’t get back in to your mind.
James -4-7-Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you in terror. {KJV Bible}
Remember thoughts come into the mind, they are not in the mind, memories are in the mind,- the thought come into the mind, either by yourself or by some evil spirit but the enemy brings the worst thoughts into your mind especially if you have got rid of them, and he will try and get you to accept those thoughts again and will say, ‘you were not healed at all, you still have those thoughts in you,’ but it is he the enemy that is trying to plant those thoughts in your mind again, don’t allow him resist the enemy when he attacks and he will flee in terror. Keep in mind what the word of God says here in this scripture, “submit yourself to God, {first} then resist the devils temptations and the devils will fell from you in terror.”
Do you know that you cannot go back for even a moment in time as much as we would love to be able to do so? No matter what happened to you growing up remains exactly where it is, it only has a hold on your mind and body, it has no hold over your spirit, and it can only re-play over and over again in your mind until you confront it in the name of Jesus the light of the world. If we were able to go back in time and change something don’t you think almost everyone in this world would do so, but there is something that most Christian’s don’t realise is the things that happen to you helped shape you character, they for the most of us make us grow stronger more determined not to allow those things to happen to us ever again, and this is because God has poured out grace on us, as each evil incident happens to us. God can’t interfere in this world because scripture says, Satan is this God of this world, but God can take good out of every evil incident that happened to you, no matter how horrifying.
Romans 8-27-And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God. 28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose {Amplified bible}
The Holy Spirit searches our hearts those areas that have been wounded and afflicted, and he works everything to good for those who love the lord, but he can only do so when you ask him. The Holy Spirit is a gentleman he will never override your will, he will wait until he is asked. He knows the hurts and afflictions and he stands ready to change those hurts into good by his grace and love.
For an example; over the years I was abused by British soldiers, they degraded me in front of my wife; they kept me under control at gun point, while one of them searched her while I stood frustrated helpless and angry this soldier practically groped her in front of me and laughed sneeringly into my face as he done so and Rose was pregnant at the time, and so obvious distressed. I vowed to kill them if given a chance, then I became a Christian and I had to forgive because I wanted more of God than I wanted revenge against British soldiers, but that memory remained until I surrendered all my negative memories and emotions to the lord. If I had waited until I got all my bad and painful memories healed I would still be sitting getting healed today they were that many.
I know from experience that to surrender all painful memories over to the lord for healing he does so and then he turns them to good later on, he turned my hatred against the British Army to good because later on I witnessed to other IRA and UVF members in Magilligan prison, and I met soldiers and prison wardens who prayed for the prisoners and our prayer meeting before we entered the compounds praying that souls would be saved and lives changed. Years later I am best friends with a former soldier who was stationed in Derry in my area, I prayed with him in Turkey for healing and God graciously healed him and saved his soul as he gave his life to the lord. Also I am best friends with Sam a former enemy of mine, a retired undercover policeman who has admitted killing IRA men in Ireland. But God turned everything to good here also I prayed with Sam for healing and also with his wife later on and God healed him and healed his wife and saved the both of them. God turns everything to good for those who love him when we surrender everything over to him, and it is not until we do can things or memories be healed and changed from a tormenting memory to become a source of healing for others, and God will lead others who suffered the same as us across our path so we in turn can share what we now know and help them by setting them free. In all things God works for the good of those who love him,
We don’t see the future, we can’t see how God could take a horrific situation that is happening to us and change that state of affairs for good for us later on, we just can’t see the plans God has for us and his plans are for our good and to give us a hope, they are not for our destruction; we don’t trust God when we go through trials and bad times, we can’t understand how God can change what happened to good, why did he allow what happened to me in the first place even if it was to bring good out of it? Why didn’t he just stop what happened to me, you may well be asking. I don’t know but I do know that he will use it for our future victory to make us stronger people making us into warriors for him who having been through a tough time has toughened us up. Tough times help shape our characters, they make us healthier people, more
compassionate for those who are afflicted with the same things happening to them that happened to us.
I was paralyzed when I was young, three different time for about a year at a time, did I blame God, I never even gave him a thought when I was young and paralysed, but I know I have compassion inside me for those who are suffering invalidity God turned what happened to me for the good of others much later on in my life. I don’t have this surge of oh’h’h poor cripple, I don’t even think like that, But I know when someone relishes all the attention they get from being crippled and which ones really want to get healed. This is all part of me this is my make up as they say I just know deep down when a person really wants to get healed or if they would rather stay in their wheel chairs.
This is not the inner healing the way that you though that you were going to get but when we do things God’s way they have a lasting effect on us spiritually, you will become a spiritual giant for the lord when God heals his way.
{1}-First identify the problem, the hurt that is wedged into the darkness within you and extend forgiveness towards the person / people responsible for your hurts.
{2}-Then bring it to Jesus
{3}-Then bring the light of the world into it
{4}-Bind up the evil using the hurt or problem to cause pain to you.
{5}-Then command the light of Jesus to drive all that is left in darkness out in “Jesus the light of the world’s name.”
{6}-Then give thanks that Jesus done what you asked.
{7}-Then most importantly of all, ask the lord to fill you with the word of God in reference as to how he sees you and what he thinks of you
{8}-A spirit or spirits, after being driven out go to barren places and finding no rest they return to where they came out of and try and get entry again, that is why it is so important to fill that empty place with the word of God so that the room is full and there is no room for the spirit /s to enter again and so they leave searching for another victim.
Ephesians -1-4- 4Even as [in His love] He chose us [actually picked us out for Himself as His own] in Christ before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy (consecrated and set apart for Him) and blameless in His sight, even above reproach, before Him in love.
5For He foreordained us (destined us, planned in love for us) to be adopted (revealed) as His own children through Jesus Christ, in accordance with the purpose of His will [because it pleased Him and was His kind intent] 6[So that we might be] to the praise and thecommendationofHisgloriousgrace(favourandmercy),whichHesofreelybestowed on us in the Beloved. 7In Him we have redemption (deliverance and salvation) through His blood, the remission (forgiveness) of our offenses (shortcomings and trespasses), in
accordancewiththerichesandthegenerosityofHisgraciousfavour, 8WhichHelavished upon us in every kind of wisdom and understanding (practical insight and prudence), 9Making known to us the mystery (secret) of His will (of His plan, of His purpose). [And it is this:] In accordance with His good pleasure (His merciful intention) which He had previously purposed and set forth in Him, {Jesus}
Ephesians-1-11- In Him {Jesus} we also were made [God's] heritage (portion) and we obtained an inheritance; for we had been foreordained (chosen and appointed beforehand) in accordance with His purpose, Who works out everything in agreement with the counsel and design of His [own] will,
These two scriptures are enough on their own to fill your spirit so that those evil spirits cannot get back into you and cause the hurting to start again. I used different colours to highlight the most important parts of this word of God, so that you could see how important that you are to God. For example the colour purple in Ephesians-1-11- is important because it highlights and tells you that you were foreordained which means chosen before the world began, that shows you how important you are to God that he actually chose you personally before he even made a world.
This part is for those ministering healing to the body of Christ and is to be used to bring healing and deliverance to the body of Christ. After giving this teaching, you are to lay hands on those needing healing, you are to command darkness to leave using the instructions on the next page.
forgiveness
, you have been hurt deeply and you have to forgive deeply, you do not have a choice in this if you wish to be in right standing with God and claim to be a Christian.
Matthew -6-9 Our Father in heaven: May your holy name be honoured; 10 may your Kingdom come; may your will be done on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us today the food we need]12 Forgive us the wrongs we have done, as we forgive the wrongs that others have done to us.13 Do not bring us to hard testing, but keep us safe from the Evil-One.
14 If you forgive others the wrongs they have done to you, your Father in heaven will also forgive you.15 but if you do not forgive others, then your Father will not forgive the wrongs you have done.
We forgive not for the others persons sake but because of ours!
Luke-6- No! Love your enemies and do good to them; lend and expect nothing back. You will then have a great reward, and you will be children of the Most High God. For he is good to the ungrateful and the wicked,36 be merciful just as your Father is merciful.
37 Do not judge others, and God will not judge you; do not condemn others, and God will not condemn you; forgive others, and God will forgive you.38 Give to others, and God will give to you. Indeed, you will receive a full measure, a generous helping, poured into your hands, all that you can hold. The measure you use for others is the one that God will use for you.
Hurts remain inside us because we don’t, or don’t know that we need to forgive, to release others so that we can be released ourselves. Hurts go down inside us into the dark recess of our souls and take root.
Hebrews-12-15-Exercise foresight and be on the watch to look [after one another], to see that no one falls back from and fails to secure God's grace (His unmerited favour and spiritual blessing), in order that no root of resentment (rancour, bitterness, or hatred) shoots forth and causes trouble and bitter torment, and the many become contaminated and defiled by it- it causes deep trouble hurting many in their “spiritual lives” {Amplified bible}
Inner healing is doing things God’s way, God says let no root of bitterness take root in you. In another scripture he says it is better to accept mistreatment and just leave it at that.
Explain through the next few scriptures the need for genuine forgiveness and what happens to them if they refuse to forgive.
Matthew-18-23-“Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. 24 as he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. 25 Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.
26 “At this the servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ 27 The servant’s master took pity on him, cancelled the debt and let him go.
28 “But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins.[i] He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay it back.’
30 “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. 31 When the other servants saw what had happened, they were outraged and went and told their master everything that had happened.
32 “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I cancelled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. 33 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ 34 In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.
35 “This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive your brother or sister from your heart.”
Refusing to forgive keeps you in bondage not the other person, and cause sickness and disease in the body, because you are not in harmony with God’s will. No matter how seriously have been hurt, you are the one who has to forgive because Jesus died for the rapist and child abuser and drunkard and thief and for every sinner, just in the same way he died for you, he has no favourites.
24Youknowthatyourrealmasterwillgiveyouaninheritanceasyourreward.ItisChrist, your real master, whom you are serving. 25The person who does wrong will be paid back for the wrong he has done. God does not play favourites.
Have people examine themselves and think back with God’s grace over every bad experience at this point, then they need to forgive by choice sincerely, then you the minister of healing has to anoint them and command healing in “Jesus the light of the world’s name.”
{1}-The things of darkness the hidden hurt need to be brought into the light of Christ, {2}-Then they need to be uprooted by the act of forgiveness, {3}-The light of the world needs to go in and cleanse out the house, *****Those ministering healing are to do this part now {3-4-5-7 and anoint people with olive oil, {blessed if possible} and command the “name of Jesus light of the world” to cleanse out all the darkness in their soul and body. ***** {4}-And all attachments to spirits have to be cast out as they have attached themselves to the root and keep everyone in bondage to those painful memories. {5}-Spiritual soul ties must be broken
{6}-Guilt removed in some cases ===Romans 3-23 {7}-Break every effect and negative word spoken over the people in the name of Jesus the redeemer.
{8}-Give every bad experience over to God surrender them now and God will turn them to good later on for you.
Romans 8-27-And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God. 28 And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose {Amplified bible}
18If possible, so far as it depends on you, be at peace with all men.19Never take your own revenge, beloved, but leave room for the wrath of God, for it is written, "(VENGEANCE IS MINE, I WILL REPAY," says the Lord. 20" BUT IF YOUR ENEMY IS HUNGRY, FEED HIM, AND IF HE IS THIRSTY, GIVE HIM A DRINK; FOR IN SO DOING YOU WILL HEAP BURNING COALS ON HIS HEAD."
**** I have used this with amazing effects in peoples lives. Always keep an ear open to hear from the Holy Spirit because as you pray with different people the lord will give you words of knowledge for them, speak them if possible over them if private words whisper in their ear the word the lord gave you.
Remember have people standing when you do this as people fall under the anointing of the Holy Spirit and receive even greater healing this way; have someone with you standing behind the people you lay hands on.