Health is as delicate as it is personal. No two cases, stories, or experiences are the same. Plus, there is always more to be found and unfound. The state of health— individually and collectively— changes by the day, by the hour, by the minute. The same goes for the health system we all live within.
There is one constant, though: the opportunity for us—as an industry, a community, and especially as individuals—to take charge of our health. This month, we’re debunking some Medicare myths and sharing some mustknows, too. As they say, the more you know, the better.
It’s hard to hear—and even harder to implement—but it’s true:
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no one can help us if we don’t help ourselves. It’s on each of us to do our research, ask for help, and seek second opinions.
Whatever you’ve been putting off—changing your plan, making an appointment, improving your diet—consider this your reminder! Doing what you can today is a step toward better health tomorrow— and beyond.
Meagan Walker Doxtad Executive Editor
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Buffalo HEADWAY SUPPORT
GROUPS For individuals who have sustained brain injuries, their families, and caregivers; exchange information and resources, and find mutual support and encouragement. Info: 408-3100 or headwayofwny.org.
Buffalo PARKINSON’S CAREGIVER SUPPORT GROUP meets on the first Thursday of each month at Elma Town Hall (1600 Bowen Road). Call or text Marcia 553-3030 for more information.
Buffalo ZERO/US TOO! PROSTATE CANCER SUPPORT GROUP meets on the first Tuesday of each month at the Buffalo VA Hospital (3495 Bailey Avenue, Room 301) 7-9 p.m. and at Sisters Hospital, St. Joe’s Campus (2605 Harlem Road in the First Floor Community Room) 7-9 p.m., on the third Tuesday of each month. Free and open to all.
Buffalo LGBTQ MEMORY LOSS CAREGIVERS PROGRAM: The Pride Center of WNY offers support and education for people providing care for a person with Alzheimer’s Disease and other dementias. For information: 852-7743 or pridecenterwny.org.
Clarence WNY MEDICARE SMART START PROGRAM offers free help applying for Medicare. WNY MEDICARE SMARTSAVER PROGRAM offers free help to review, research, maximize coverage, and minimize out-of-pocket expenses. Services offered through WNY Medicare Resource Center. Info: 833-0252 or wnymedicare.org.
Depew BREAST CANCER NETWORK OF WNY Call 7060060 or visit bcnwny.org for more information.
Derby GRAYCLIFF DOCENTS
NEEDED Upon completion of the Graycliff Docent Training Program, trainees will have the knowledge and confidence to present the stories of Graycliff to visitors in their own way. Explore opportunities at: experiencegraycliff.org/support/ volunteer.
East Aurora CHRONIC PAIN/ FIBROMYALGIA SUPPORT
GROUP meets at First Baptist Church (591 Porterville Road, East Aurora) from 10-11:30 a.m. on the third Saturday of each month. Facilitators are Sue Allen, retired RN; Rev. Dr. Barbara Hulsing; and Diane Weston, MA. Meetings will also be available via Zoom; contact Barbara at barb.hulsing@gmail.com or 5740164 for info.
Erie County FOSTER GRANDPARENT PROGRAM
Erie County residents ages 55+: stay active and reap social-emotional health benefits by developing oneon-one relationships with children in a school setting. Stipend included. For info: 896-6388 or ccwny.org/ older-adults.
Erie County RECEIVE OR MAKE A FRIENDLY CALL! Participants and caring volunteers are sought for the free Catholic Charities’ Telephone Assurance Program (TAP) geared to adults 60+ and adults with disabilities who experience loneliness due to isolation. Volunteers must be at least 21 years old; all training is provided. To learn more about receiving calls volunteering, contact Catholic Charities at 262-6164 or TAP@ccwny.org.
Gowanda HEALTHY COMMUNITY ALLIANCE
Activities open to the public age 50+ (no residency requirements), Concord Senior Center, 1 School Street, Gowanda; for schedule, visit communityalliance.org; 532-1010.
Hamburg ALZHEIMER’S CAREGIVER SUPPORT
GROUP for males; call 626-0600 or visit alz.org/wny for info.
Niagara Falls SENIOR COMPANION/FOSTER GRANDPARENT PROGRAM
Looking for seniors who enjoy working with their peers or children. Volunteers receive a tax-free stipend, transportation assistance, and supplemental insurance coverage while volunteering. If you are 55+ and want to make a difference, call 2858224 Jennifer Britton (ext. 217) for Senior Companions and Kelly Carr (ext. 228) for Foster Grandparents.
Niagara Falls SINGLES SOCIAL CLUB: This active 50+ crowd holds Meet & Greets second Fridays at Tim Hortons (8500 Niagara Falls Boulevard) and dances third Friday at Buff Social Club (2565 Young St.). For more info, see Facebook: SINGLES SOCIAL CLUB or call 550-1232.
Northtowns SOARING SPIRITS
WNY Widowed people meet for conversation, meals, and support. Ongoing meetings take place at Hillview Restaurant (6135 Transit Road) and Family Tree Restaurant (4336 North Bailey Avenue). Learn more at soaringspirits.org and on Facebook. For information, contact Toni (admucilli@gmail.com) or Debbie (howndeb@hotmail.com).
Online IMAGINE BUFFALO SPEAKER SERIES Presented by the Buffalo & Erie County Public Library in conjunction with C-SAAHN and ImagineLifelongLearning.com via Zoom every Tuesday at 12:30 p.m. Each week features a local speaker and Q&A. FREE. Visit website for Zoom link: buffalolib.libcal.com.
Online LAUGHTER WELLNESS
Come as you are, just bring your laughter! Tuesdays at 11 a.m. FREE. Visit facebook.com/BuffaloLaughers for information.
Southtowns NEW HORIZONS MUSIC Calling all musicians 50+. For info, email Janet Stout at 354janet@gmail.com and visit newhorizonsmusic.org.
Williamsville MCGUIRE GROUP MEMORY CARE SUPPORT: Coordinated with the Alzheimer’s Association, with caregiving tips and coping mechanisms. Info: 632-3700 or mcguiregroup.com.
West Seneca PARKINSON’S SOCIAL GROUP Make new friends every third Wednesday of the month at 6 p.m. at St. John’s Evangelical Lutheran Church (3512 Clinton Street). Info: 674-3287 or recmab@aol.com.
Multiple Locations TOPS CLUBS Take Off Pounds Sensibly Clubs offer tools, programs, support, and fellowship for healthy living and weight management.
Akron For info, call Diane 542-4980
Niagara Falls For info, call Shelley 550-1232
Farnham For info, call 934-9619
Lancaster For info, call Eva 407-0539
Silver Creek For info, call 680-0313 Tonawanda For info, call 693-5161 West Seneca For info, call 474-9125 www.tops.org
What you call a plant matters The importance of scientific names
Gardeners talk to me constantly about plants—of course! But when using common names, confusion frequently arises as to what we are talking about! That’s why scientific names of plants are important.
CAROL ANN HARLOS
Reacquaintance with an old friend led to much sharing about plants and life. She showed me seeds from her moon flowers, and I reminisced about growing moon flowers on a trellis near the front door of our home about fortyfive years ago and waiting all summer for them to flower; I didn’t realize back then that the flowers opened at night; I thought they remained closed and was disappointed. One night, I went outside in the dark and the flowers were not only open but were visited by sphinx moths!
My friend looked at me quizzically. “That is so strange, Carol Ann,” she said. “Moon flower in the daytime. It isn’t a vine.” I realized she was talking
about Datura, a member of the Solanaceae family, and I was talking about Impomea alba, a member of the morning glory family.
Impomea albais blooms at dusk, and each bloom lasts only one night. This happens late in the summer when many other plants have finished blooming. The flowers are plentiful, though short-lived.
Datura is a member of the nightshade family Solanaceae; this means it’s related to tomatoes, potatoes, eggplant, tobacco (do you grow Nicotiana? It is a “flowering tobacco”), belladonna, Brugmansia, peppers, nightshades, petunia, henbanes, calibrachoa, and more. This family includes many plants toxic to humans and Datura is one of them. Classified as an invasive species in New York State, it is sometimes called jimsonweed or other names and it can be fatal if ingested. All parts of the plant are toxic to some degree, which is why it is also called “devil’s trumpet.” Its fruit is a cool-looking spiny capsule; when it matures, it splits open to release its seeds. Aha… this is what my friend had.
Another friend involved in the same conversation asked about the difference between Datura and Brugmansia
This relative of Datura shares many features including toxicity. Its flowers also resemble trumpets, but they point downward; the flowers of Datura point upward.
By the way, other plants in the Solanaceae family are toxic if eaten. You weren’t going to eat your tomato or potato plants, were you? You may have heard that years ago, people thought tomatoes were poisonous because the plants were toxic. It was even called a “poison apple!” This was not stupidity but based on familiarity with a plant family that contains so many toxic plants.
An interesting aside: I have arthritis in my hands. I went to a hand specialist. Alternatives included antiinflammatory medicine, shots in the finger joints, or joint fusion. I was also told to pay attention and watch consumption of plants from the Solanaceae family! I could not find research to support this. What to do?
Keep moving.
My dear readers, you may remember that Carolus Linnaeus devised a system of plant naming. Each plant or animal has a unique name: a genus name and a species name. So a true tomato is Solanum lycospericum (“wolf
peach”) no matter where in the world it is. This is important for accurate communication. If you want to learn something new, look up the scientific name for a plant of interest to you; it is quite fascinating. You will learn history, plant structure, the names of some famous botanists, and so forth.
To start, research evening primrose and primrose. Evening primrose isn’t even related to the pretty garden primrose! Evening primrose is a native species in the eastern United States, while primroses are lovely plants that originated in Great Britain—an entirely different plant! (I have a small collection and want more.)
Be aware dear readers and be informed. Botany is great fun!
I love hearing from you: caharlos@ verizon.net FY
Carol Ann Harlos is an awardwinning retired math and science teacher, Master Gardener, beekeeper, writer, and speaker. She tends extensive gardens, including herbs, and loves learning from others and sharing her knowledge. Send gardening questions and comments to caharlos@verizon.net.
Datura Impomea alba
Finding family online Google Books for genealogy
Imagineopening a book and finding your ancestors names inside. Too good to be true, right? But not impossible. Recently, I began working on a friend’s genealogy brick wall—a spot at which she was just stuck. I highly recommend this; just swap brick walls and see what happens! This brick wall ancestor had a common Irish surname, and details were scarce. After running through my usual checklist of genealogy site searches with no luck, I searched the name in Google Books. Lo and behold, I find a story about this ancestor heading to America in 1826 only to be shipwrecked on an island, where he and his shipmates remained for three months until being rescued by a passing ship. Besides this amazing story of survival, it also included details about his marriage soon after arriving in the US, his parents, and subsequent children. Jackpot!
Google Books is essentially a library collection of digitized books and magazines from around the world that are out of copyright or in the public domain—a library you can visit from the comfort of your home. As of 2019, more than forty million books have been scanned and that number continues to rise. Google Books is at your fingertips and should always be on your checklist when researching family trees. Highlights of what genealogists might find on Google Books: Family histories: One of the most common searches for genealogists. Please remember that not all family histories will contain sources, so be wary and confirm information.
County histories: A favorite as they often list information on families as well. The area’s history, settlers, and even religious affiliations are often included. City directories: Created for salesmen and merchants, these list adult residents, often with addresses, occupations, and spouse names.
Church histories: If your ancestor lived in a faith-based community, you may find them in a church directory/history.
When starting your research, instead of the basic search form, try Google Books’ Advanced Search, which makes even complex searches a simple matter of filling in blanks. Common surnames may yield millions of results, but you can narrow your search by weeding out certain phrases and words while focusing on terms such as “genealogy,” “family,” or “history.”
Still getting too many results?
Narrow the search further by adding a date range, e.g. the range of years your ancestor lived in the “All of the Words” box. Use two dots to separate the earliest and latest years, i.e. 1800..1852.
Any genealogist knows an ancestor’s name might be spelled differently in different records—and sometimes even in the same record! Search alternate spellings by including each variation in
GENEALOGY
the “At Least One of the Words” boxes connecting the first and last names with a hyphen, e.g. (Christopher-McCormick Christopher-McCermick). This can narrow your search quickly.
If you’re still getting a lot of irrelevant results, try adding other known facts such as a spouse name, location, or even occupation to the “All of the Words” box. You can also search by event or profession within a region. Experiment with different search combinations until the results refine.
Spend time exploring Google Books and let me know what you find! Happy hunting! FY
Carol DiPirro-Stipkovits is a member of both the National Genealogical Society and Association of Professional Genealogists. She is also Vice-President and Board Chairman of the Niagara County Genealogical Society.
FALL FOLIAGE
Come see the most beautiful hills in Western New York as the leaves change colors.
TICKETS: $24.00/Adults, $22.00/Seniors, Veterans, and Children Weekends in October at 11:00am & 2:00pm
Senior Fall Foliage rides available on October 2nd, 9th and 16th at 1:00pm
SANTA’S WONDERLAND EXPRESS
All aboard the Wonderland Express! Journey to the “North Pole” for activities the whole family to enjoy, including a visit from Santa and his reindeer, mailing wish-lists, visiting the Elf House, and so much more!
TICKETS: $36.00/Adults, $34.00/Seniors, Veterans, $33.00/Children November & December
Antique road trip
Hunting for treasure beyond Buffalo
STORY AND PHOTOS BY CHRISTINE A. SMYCZYNSKI
New York is a fabulous antiquing region, but for those who love searching through stores full of history, new ones are always exciting. To check out some beyond our borders, plan a day trip or overnight getaway to visit shops a short drive from home.
Just west of Binghamton, the village of Owego is about four hours from Buffalo. It’s home to several shops,
including the Early Owego Antique Center, located in the former J.J. Newberry department store building.
The store, open 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. Wednesday-Monday, features more than ninety-five vendors on two floors.
One can easily spend hours there! The prices are reasonable too; I bought a couple stools for my kitchen for $30. Riverow Bookshop offers three floors of used and new books as well as a bargain basement. On our last visit, my daughter and I bought music CDs for a dollar each.
While in Owego, check out retail shops in the historic downtown. Two of my favorites include the Goat Boy, which has Vera Bradley, baby gifts, Corral boots, and much more; and the Black Cat Gallery, which has handcrafted jewelry, local artwork, and gifts. Town restaurants include Owego Kitchen, 1867 Parkview Inn and Restaurant, and MJ’s Bar & Grill. Accommodations range from bed & breakfast inns to chain hotels. For help planning, visit owego.org.
A bit closer to home, Mount Morris in Livingston County is about an hour from Buffalo. It’s a great destination this time of year, as it’s right by the north entrance to Letchworth State Park, so you take in fall foliage after antiquing. Several antique shops located along the village’s main street include Allegiance Antiques and Carvings and More. “Allegiance” is a popular word in Mount Morris, as it’s the birthplace of Frances Bellamy, who wrote the Pledge of Allegiance. Allegiance Bed & Breakfast has nine guest rooms in an 1838 Victorian mansion and is within walking distance to shops and restaurants. For help planning, go to visitlivco.com.
LW Emporium is in Ontario, New York, northeast of Rochester, about an hour and half from Buffalo. This shop, which has more than sixty vendors displaying wares in a threestory barn, has reasonably priced antiques and vintage items. I’ve been here a few times, most recently last November over Veterans Day weekend. The annual Wayne County Shopping Fling was taking place that weekend, so we got free gifts at each of the shops; about twenty stores and businesses throughout the county participate in the event ( waynecountyshoppingfling.com ). A couple other shops are in the same complex, including the Whistle Stop Antique Center and the Feathered
The entrance of LW Emporium in Ontario, New York.
line
Nest Gift Shop. All are open Tuesday-Sunday 10 a.m. to 5 p.m. If you travel along Routes 5 & 20
just west of Canandaigua, about ninety minutes from Buffalo, you’ll find antique shops in the Bloomfield
just north of Canandaigua to visit Ontario Mall Antiques, which has 30,000 square feet of antiques, gifts, and furniture. It is the largest antique store in New York State. For help planning, go to visitfingerlakes.com. The Madison-Bouckville area, located about three hours from Buffalo between Syracuse and Utica, is known for its many antique shops open year-round. But what it’s especially known for is the two huge multi-day antique shows held each June and August. These shows feature over 2,000 dealers and vendors on twelve show fields. The shops in this area also host an annual Holiday Open House in November (this year, November 8-10). For help planning, visit madison-bouckville.com. FY
area, including Peddlers Antiques and One Potato Two. After checking out Bloomfield, head up Route 332
Christine A. Smyczynski is the author of several travel guides about Western New York and New York State. In addition, she has written hundreds of articles for local, regional, and national publications.
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Antique shops
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We invite you to join us at the 2024 Forever Young Expo from 9 a.m. to 1 p.m. on Thursday, October 31 at Grapevine Banquets (333 Dick Road, Depew). As in years past, the event is held in partnership with our friends at BIG WECK Radio—Buffalo’s OLDIES Station.
This totally free event is open to the public and there is no registration required. Parking is also free and the venue is easy to navigate for those with wheelchairs or walkers.
The day’s itinerary includes free health screenings, vaccines courtesy of Tops Pharmacy (for those who qualify), and fun giveaways at the door every hour.
Stop by and say hello to your favorite Forever Young columnists, chat with more than thirty Western New York experts specializing in products and services for the fifty-
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Join us and learn about everything available to help you get the most out of life in Western New York. For more information, call 972-2230 or visit foreveryoungwny.com. See you there! FY
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Navigating
Myths and must-knows about the program
BY JILLIAN MCGARRY
Caring for our bodies and maintaining wellness often includes medical appointments from annual checkups to weekly specialist appointments. As we get older, these needs may increase, which means more time navigating the often dizzying landscape of healthcare coverage.
The US Census Bureau reported in 2023 that 98.9 percent of adults over sixty-five qualify for Medicare coverage. And yet, seventy-two percent wish they had a better understanding of Medicare coverage, according to a Nationwide Retirement Institute study. Amid the glut of misconceptions and misinformation, we aim to demystify common myths and outline what you need to know.
Myth: Your eligibility for Medicare coverage is dependent on your income level and/or health. Good news! Medicare coverage is available to everyone sixty-five and older regardless of income level, illness, or preexisting conditions. Individuals with disabilities, end-stage renal disease, or amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS, or Lou Gehrig’s
disease) may be able to get coverage earlier, regardless of age.
Myth: Medicare covers everything. While access to Medicare coverage isn’t responsive to income level, the type of coverage you receive is. Depending on your situation, you may be responsible for a premium, deductible, copay, and/ or coinsurance, according to United Healthcare.
The US Department of Health and Human Services reports that most people don’t pay a premium for Medicare Part A (often called “premium-free Part A”). But even if you don’t qualify for premium-free, you can buy Part A. This covers inpatient care in hospitals, critical access hospitals, and skilled nursing facilities, but not custodial or long-term care. If you meet
certain conditions, it can also include home health and/or hospice care.
Myth: Medicare will alert you when it’s time to enroll. The Initial Enrollment Period for most people begins three months before the month of their sixty-fifth birthday and lasts seven months. The US Department of Health and Human Services recommends signing up during this period to avoid lapses in coverage; after the seven months has passed, financial penalties may be assessed for late enrollment.
If you’re still working past age sixty-five, this timeline shifts, so check with your employer to see if you have creditable coverage to delay enrollment. If so, you can enroll in Medicare immediately upon losing
employer coverage during what’s called a Special Enrollment Period, per United Healthcare.
If you’re already enrolled in Social Security or the Railroad Retirement Board, or are under sixty-five and receive disability benefits, you are automatically enrolled in Medicare Part A and Medicare Part B, and a Medicare card will be mailed to you three months prior to your entitlement date.
Must-Know: You are able to change your plan after you choose it. During the initial enrollment process and during select times of the year, Medicare plans can be changed. There are currently two main options: Original Medicare and Medicare Advantage (also known as Part C). There are also special enrollment periods throughout the year when you can change your prescription coverage. Must-Know: Experts strongly recommend coverage beyond Original Medicare. Erie County Department of Senior Services’ William Daniel has been managing senior services in the region for over forty years. Because Medicare’s premium cap is percentage-based with no cap on outof-pocket expenses, costs can balloon if a person comes down with a serious medical condition. Daniel advises individuals to carry supplemental insurance, Medicare Advantage, or Medicaid, if their income qualifies. The twenty percent of costs not covered by Original Medicare could be anything, but with Medicare Advantage there is a cap for A and B drug costs (not D). Additionally, low-income individuals may be eligible for state coverage for Part B premiums.
Must-Know: Professionals are ready to help you! The system can be hard to navigate, so the team at Erie County Department of Senior Services is poised to help! Get connected through its website (erie. gov/seniorservices) or call 858-8526, and Daniel and his team will answer your questions, provide unbiased information, and help you find the coverage solution you need. FY
Jillian McGarry is a freelancer writer from Hamburg, New York.
Major Medicare milestones
BY AMY LYNN HARDY
As Medicare prepares to celebrate its sixtieth anniversary in 2025, let’s look at how the program came to be—and how it’s changed over the years.
The idea of government-sponsored healthcare for the elderly gained momentum in the 1960s, though President Harry S. Truman is known as the “real daddy of Medicare,” as he called for a national health insurance program for all in 1945 (though legislators at the time didn’t pass the bill).
This cycle repeated in 1947 and 1949 when Truman unsuccessfully introduced the bill again and again. Later, under John F. Kennedy’s presidency, a task force recommended a national health insurance program for individuals over sixty-five that mirrored Truman’s idea.
After Kennedy’s assassination, the torch was passed on to Lyndon B. Johnson. After years of debate and negotiation, Medicare and Medicaid were signed into law as part of the Social Security Amendments of 1965, key components of Johnson’s Great Society initiatives. Beside him sat eighty-one-year-old Harry Truman, witnessing his vision come to fruition.
In the decades since, Medicare continued to evolve and expand:
• 1972: Richard M. Nixon extends Medicare eligibility to individuals with long-term disabilities under the age of sixty-five.
• 1997: Under Bill Clinton, Medicare+Choice (Part C), later named Medicare Advantage, gives beneficiaries the choice of choosing an HMO-style plan instead of the traditional fee-for-service plan.
• 2003: George W. Bush introduces the Medicare Modernization Act, which provides prescription drug coverage. This expansion is a major victory for seniors who struggle to afford necessary medications. This optional coverage is known as Medicare Part D, though not everyone is eligible.
• 2010: Barack Obama signs the Affordable Care Act (ACA) into law, which introduces several reforms that affect Medicare, including the expansion of preventive services and the creation of Medicare Advantage plans, which offer additional benefits beyond traditional Medicare.
• 2018: Medicare recipients received new cards with a unique elevendigit combination of numbers and letters rather than a social security number. And in 2019, Medicare Advantage plans began to offer enrollees with chronic conditions additional medical-related benefits, including transportation to doctor appointments and overthe-counter medicines.
• 2020: Medicare begins paying for support such as meal delivery, wheelchair ramps, and transportation to the grocery store.
• 2022: The Inflation Reduction Act allows Medicare to negotiate prices for some medications with drugmakers and penalizes pharmaceutical companies if they raise their prices more than the rate of inflation. Medicare has improved quality of life for many by offering financial protection from the high costs of healthcare, access to preventative care, diagnostic testing, and treatment of chronic conditions. In the words of Susan of East Aurora, “I’m glad I have it, even if it doesn’t cover everything.” FY
Amy Lynn Hardy is a teacher and freelance writer.
True community treasures
More senior centers in WNY
BY WENDY GUILD
InJune, Forever Young shared a selection of senior centers throughout Western New York along with the benefits and activities they offer. This month, we continue and expand our exploration of these integral hubs of activity.
Social interaction
Forming and maintaining relationships is good for our brains. And who couldn’t use more friends? At senior centers, people foster camaraderie through group activities, such as card games, art classes, and outings. Holidays offer a special opportunity to come together, like at the Town of Hamburg’s Senior Services, where gatherings include a Hispanic Heritage Celebration on October 2 and a Halloween Party on October 21.
Maintaining health and fitness
Senior center fitness programs cater to various abilities and interests. These activities improve mobility and flexibility and boost cardiovascular health and strength. At the Lewiston Senior Center, recent programming has included chair yoga, Silver Sneakers, and more.
Health screenings and information
Many senior centers provide health education and screenings for issues like blood pressure and mobility, as well
as seasonal vaccinations for COVID, pneumonia, shingles, and flu. Plus, some senior centers host workshops about proactive measures to prevent illnesses and how to manage chronic conditions.
Nutrition support
With inflation impacting grocery prices, seniors are among the hardest hit, especially those on fixed incomes. Most senior centers provide nutritious meals, often for under $5. In Lackawanna, the suggested contribution for senior lunch is $3, and it’s served Monday through Friday at 11:45 a.m. (though meals should be ordered a week ahead). Weekly menus can often be found on the centers’ websites or by giving a quick call.
Keeping the mind sharp
Whether it’s participating in a monthly book club discussion or chatting while working a jigsaw puzzle with a fellow senior, engaging in stimulating activities increases cognitive vitality, which keeps minds sharp and active.
Take advantage of the free and/or deeply discounted offerings at a senior center near you!
Town of Lewiston Senior Center 4361 Lower River Road, Youngstown 754-2071, lewistonseniorcenter.com
The Lewiston Senior Center offers meals, affordable local produce for sale, yoga, art, pinochle, euchre, bingo, bridge, trivia, mahjong, Quilters, Knitters and Crochet Club, book club, travel club, scheduled programming and speakers, tech days, free legal and tax help, Silver Sneakers exercise
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program, wood carving, and grief support. You do not need to be a member to participate in any of the programs. No car? No problem. Transportation is provided for center activities, as well medical and salon appointments, shopping, and banking as van availability allows.
Town of Hamburg Senior Services
4540 Southwestern Boulevard, Hamburg 646-0665
hamburg-youth-rec-seniors.com
The Town of Hamburg senior services include arts and crafts, caregiver training, congregate meals/nutrition sites, home
United Church Manor to host annual theme basket auction and brunch
The United Church Manor, a fiftyunit housing community sponsored by UCHS, Inc., is busy preparing for their annual “Baskets and Brunch” fundraiser on Saturday, November 2, at The Columns Banquets in Elma, NY. We invite the public to join us! The event features a basket and silent auction in addition to a delicious buffet lunch. Tickets are $40.00 a person or you can reserve a table of ten for $350.00. For more information or tickets please call 716-668-5804. Tickets are also available online at www.ucmanor.org
Proceeds from the event will provide our senior and disabled residents with transportation to shopping, holiday parties and a variety of resident social activities and programs that assist with maintaining an independent lifestyle.
United Church Manor provides affordable housing opportunities to
delivered meals, senior centers, senior community service employment programs, senior ride programs, and specialized information and referral.
Activities include billiards, travel clubs, club meetings, special events, van/wheelchair van service, hot lunches, defensive driving classes, Meals on Wheels, monthly newsletter, volunteer opportunities, caregivers program, and support groups. Health focused activities include aerobics, health maintenance center, “Are You Okay?” Program, arthritis exercise program, Silver Sneakers exercise program, and health insurance counseling. Pool programs include aqua strength and core, aqua aerobics and tai chi, and open swim.
Lackawanna Senior Center
230 Martin Road, Lackawanna 827-6669
lackawannany.gov/government/recreation
Lackawanna senior services include arts and crafts, congregate meals/ nutrition sites, driving safety education, exercise classes/groups, senior ride
programs, as well transportation to medical appointments, shopping, etc.
The Town of Lancaster Senior Center offers a variety of activities, including bingo, dominoes, UNO, chess, pinochle, euchre, bowling, Scrabble, cribbage, books, and puzzles. Additional special events also include Friday night movies, monthly birthday parties, dances, potluck dinners, and an AARP Driver Safety Course. Exercise activities include aerobics, walkers program, fitness room, exercise ball class, aquatic activities, tai chi, horseshoes, yoga, Zumba Gold, arthritis exercise videos, pickleball, and senior and family swim. FY
Wendy Guild is a local writer and the former editor of Forever Young.
those with very-low incomes. Located on beautiful, park-like grounds on North Avenue in West Seneca, United Church Manor proudly assists residents in remaining independent, while aging in place with grace and dignity. In addition to updated, open-concept one-bedroom and studio apartments, residents can enjoy a reading library with computer and internet access, a lunch program, on-site laundry, beautiful outdoor patios and private picnic grove. Small pets are welcome. All residents have access to a Service Coordinator who links them to services available in the community.
Apartment rents are based upon individual incomes and eligibility restrictions apply. Heat and hot water are included in the rent. For more information about United Church Manor visit us online at www.ucmanor. org or call 716-668-5804.
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History on the page Reenactor pens a book about General Bennet Riley
BY RICK FALKOWSKI
TomSchobert has channeled his lifelong affiliation as a historic reenactor into a historic fiction about General Bennet Riley, a heralded military commander and one of the people he portrays.
A retired Lieutenant Colonel from the US Army, Schobert has been interested in history since he was young. His passion for the Civil War began in the early 1960s and was fueled when his grandmother gave him a daguerreotype of his great grand uncle, a Union Army private killed in action during the war.
Schobert received a BA in History and an MA in Education from Canisius College with plans to become a history teacher. Seeking employment in the 1970s, he found abundant competition for few available teaching positions. After fulfilling his ROTC active duty requirement, he remained in the Army Reserves to complete
twenty-three years of service and obtained employment as a healthcare administrator, managing nursing homes including the Pines of Cattaraugus County in Machias and Olean.
Schobert’s appetite for history was piqued in the early 1980s when he was introduced to a local group forming a Civil War reenactment regiment. This activity also fulfilled his desire to educate by providing a platform to convey historical knowledge to attendees at reenactments, often referred to as living history. The 155th New York Volunteer Infantry Reenactment Regiment has participated in reenactments of many major engagements during the Civil War.
Schobert combined his career as a medical administrator with his reenactment identity when he transitioned into a Northern Army surgeon role. He researched Civil War era medicine and learned about operations (especially amputations) from surgeons at hospitals he managed. The reenactment summer schedule became a way of life. Events covered the geographic area of Civil War battles, providing lasting memories highlighted by 2016 and 2018 reenactments at the Alamo in San Antonio.
After taking some time off from reenacting, Schobert returned as a Civil War surgeon at Lancaster’s Hull Family Home. His hair and beard had
turned grey, with some Confederate reenactors commenting that he looked like their commander General Robert E. Lee. Schobert researched Lee to impersonate his character and manner of dress. This resulted in a one-hour monologue, Four Days After Appomattox, which Schobert presented at local historical societies, senior citizens centers, schools, and independent living complexes.
At the Forest Lawn Cemetery Civil War tour, Schobert portrayed William Fargo, American Express/ Wells Fargo founder and Buffalo mayor during the Civil War. For the Sunday in the Cemetery tours, he was Erastus Granger before transforming into President Millard Fillmore. In 2024, Schobert became General Bennet Riley, and an authentic-looking uniform, sword, and feathered hat were created for him to wear.
Riley participated in the War of 1812, led military convoys on the Santa Fe Trail, fought against the Seminole Indians in Florida, was a decorated commander during the Mexican War and, during the gold
rush, was the last military governor of the territory of California.
The General was also commander of the Buffalo Barracks from 1842 to 1845. This fort was bounded by Main, Allen, and North Streets and Delaware Avenue. While commander, Riley lived in the officer’s home, which became the Wilcox Mansion where President Theodore Roosevelt was inaugurated. After retiring from the military in 1850, Riley returned to Buffalo and lived at 1238 Main Street until his death in 1853. He is interred at Forest Lawn Cemetery.
It was a natural progression for Schobert to write a history book influenced by the individuals he researched and impersonated. The release of Hush the Cannon’s Roar: The Life & Times of Bennet Riley, Defender of Buffalo further fulfills Schobert’s desire to teach history, this time through his writing.
Written from the perspective of the participant recalling events
as he observed them, the book documents Riley’s career and life but is considered historical fiction because Schobert adds reimagined conversation to expand upon events. This approach utilizes Schobert’s skill as a reenactor to give life to the story.
Hush the Cannon’s Roar is available at Schobert’s presentations and at area bookstores, gift shops, and historical societies across the region.
Visit tomschobert.com for outlets and upcoming talks. FY
Rick Falkowski gives presentations on Buffalo music and history. He is the author of History of Buffalo Music & Entertainment and Profiles Volume 1: Historic & Influential People from Buffalo & WNY – the 1800s.
Tom Schobert as General Bennet Riley Photos courtesy Tom Schobert
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4, 18, 20
25-26 Through 31
October 4, 18, 20
Eric Jones at Pumpkinville
Sculptor and Olean native Eric Jones holds the 2023 Guinness World Record for carving the largest jack-o’-lantern. He visits Great Valley for a handful of special classes and demos during Pumpkinville’s 2024 season. Visit the website for details.
(4844 Sugartown Road, Great Valley; pumpkinville.com, 699-2205)
October 25-26
Buffalo Rare Book Fair
The Buffalo Rare Book Fair welcomes rare book and ephemera exhibitors from across the country to the Saturn Club. Reserve tickets in advance online or purchase at the door.
Friday preview 4 to 6 p.m.; Saturday 10 a.m. to 6 p.m. (The Saturn Club, 977 Delaware Avenue; finefairs.com)
October 18
Ink & Insight: 20 Years of Adam Zyglis Cartoons
A twenty-year retrospective collection of dozens of Zyglis’s cartoons spanning four presidents and five governors opens as part of M&T Third Friday at Buffalo History Museum. The exhibition will be on view from 10 a.m. to 5 p.m., during which admission is free. An opening and ticketed reception with Zyglis will be held that evening from 6 to 8 p.m. Tickets are $25 or $15 for members.
(One Museum Court; buffalohistory.org, 873-9644)
Through October 31
Mutation Invasion: Flesh-eating Flora
The Buffalo and Erie County Botanical Gardens presents its first carnivorous plant exhibit—Mutation Invasion: Flesh-eating Flora—featuring hundreds of varieties alongside two special art installations, including larger-than-life, bugsnatching sculptures by Melanie Fisher. Admission is $15 for seniors (62+).
The gardens are open Monday through Sunday, 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. (2655 South Park Avenue, Buffalo; buffalogardens.com, 827-1584)
Eric Jones image courtesy of Pumpkinville; Mutation Invasion image courtesy of Buffalo and Erie County Botanical Gardens; Zyglis image by Adam Zyglis, courtesy of the Buffalo History Museum; Rare Book Fair image courtesy of Fine Book Fairs.
