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From the Editor

Summer is in full swing, and so are we. In this issue, our main focus is on weddings (naturally). The summer months are popular for weddings, and for good reason. It’s easier to take an extended leave from work or school during June, July, and August. If kids are involved in the wedding party, you don’t have to worry about getting them out of school (although they would probably prefer it). Back in the day, fresh flowers were easier to come by during the summer. We don’t have to worry about that in modern times. Flowers can be shipped from anywhere. Fun fact: The tradition of the “June Bride” actually dates back to Roman times when the festival of Juno (June) and his wife Jupiter (the goddess of marriage and childbirth) was celebrated on the first day of June. Anytime is a good time for a wedding celebration, however. So, keep this issue handy as a guide to planning and executing your special event.

We neglected to identify the gorgeous lady on the cover of last month’s issue. She was the recipient of our “Day of Pampering,” Jamie Standridge, the amazing mother of eight children. Her daughter, Gracie, submitted her name along with a short essay. We were so taken by what she had to say about her mother that we gifted her with a Day of Pampering as well. Also featured is Dr. Ken Sanders, standing next to his pride and joy race car. Dr. Sanders is one of the area’s premier plastic surgeons whose hobby happens to be racing. He is also part owner of the Paddock, where you can have your luxury and exotic vehicles pampered and stored for safekeeping.

SB Magazine has a new face. We welcome Diane VanHoozer, the newest member of our SB team. As Assistant Editor, Diane hit the ground running with her exceptional writing and photography skills. Her organizational skills will, no doubt, keep us all on track. We are thrilled and fortunate to have found her and know you will enjoy reading her contributions in each issue.

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ARTini

Presented by the Bossier Arts Council, the 14th annual ARTini fundraiser is a signature martini competition set amongst live music and visual art. Held at Sam’s Town Hotel & Casino, guests of this year’s event celebrated the “Rhinestone Cowboy” theme with all things denim, fringe, and bling! Congratulations to Bear’s, the favorite martini of the night in several categories, and to the evening’s featured artist — Rachel McDonald, a vibrant mixed media artist, painter, and graphic designer.

Creative Ball

Area makers, creators, and artists celebrated all things CREATIVE at the 2nd biennial Creative Ball hosted by James Michael LeBlanc and J Michael Photography. The Horseshoe Riverdome was transformed into a “Grunge Glam” wonderland, and guests decked out in this year’s theme enjoyed eclectic innovation and art in various forms, including live performances, visual art, and a style show by nationally known Shreveport Designer Steven Goudeau.

Andy Shehee and Renee Watkins
Anna Dickson, Ricky Bridges, and Jenny
Corey & Tamra Wichelns
DJ Garder and Laurie Beth Fontenot
Caroline Brazzel and Kelly Silvio

EYE ON

Derby Day

Shreveport’s seventh annual “Derby Day” honored the tradition and pageantry of the Kentucky Derby with mint juleps in engraved julep cups and vibrant attire that ranged from whimsical to elegant. Set outdoors in the Provenance Community, guests in festive hats, dresses, and suits danced to music by Flow Tribe, enjoyed food by Chef Blake Jackson, played yard games, and cheered on their favorite horses.

Mudbug Madness

With beautiful weather over Memorial Day weekend, Shreveport’s Festival Plaza was busy with festival-goers celebrating FORTY years of Mudbug Madness. This year’s festival included two stages, 30 bands, fun and fabulous food, drinks aplenty, art vendors, activities for the kiddos, crawfish eating contests, and mucho MUDBUGS. Music headliners included Sammy Kershaw, Cowboy Mouth, Terrance Simien, Johnny Earthquake & the Moondogs, and Dwayne Dopsie.

Katy Kent Richea & Michael Corbin with Mary Louise & Chris Stansell Gauthier
Laurie Beth Fontenot, Nimzo DeGrazia, Ashley
Mayor Tom & Elizabeth Arceneaux with entertainer
Linda & Guy Bretches with Bobby Smith and Waynette Balangee
Renee Berry and daughter

RFC Robbys

It was “the red carpet meets Alfred Hitchcock” at this year’s annual Robinson Film Center fundraiser - The Robbys. Dressed for Hitchcockinspired glamour, guests enjoyed a night of suspense and intrigue with thrillers on the big screen, specialty cocktails, fabulous food, and live music set amongst favorite scenes from Hitchcock movies.

Gale Funk
Sondra King, Anna Wittenbarger, Meagan Moton
Rachel Yee

Choosing Home

Each July 4th, we Americans look forward to the countless displays of passionate patriotism, such as fireworks lighting up the night sky, colorful parades, gatherings with family and friends, and savoring those special summer recipes and dishes that we associate with Independence Day. Indeed, throughout the month, we reflect as a nation on the history of how this great country came to be.

For the Poljak family, this time of year is particularly poignant; even though we are not “from here,” we are Americans by choice. My brother, Davor, and I were born far away in a country that no longer exists--the former Socialist Federal Republic of Yugoslavia. We grew up about 40 miles from Sarajevo (now the capital of Bosnia and Herzegovina and host of the 1984 Winter Olympic Games). As children of strong, hardworking, principled parents, we experienced the best of a comfortable life, followed by the tremendous

difficulties of the collapse of our beloved country. Like many immigrants, having to leave difficult circumstances meant that we were able to choose and create a life in America, that has been more rewarding than we could have dreamed.

Making a new home in Shreveport allowed us to pursue our educational goals and professional dreams, but it has really done even more than that. Becoming American citizens and finding a home in Shreveport has allowed us to redevelop a deep love of country and community and restored our place in the world. Our love of Shreveport is so big that we proudly chose to join other local companies and organizations in displaying a billboard declaring “I Shreveport”.

A Note on Gratitude

So why do we believe we are among the most patriotic people you’ll ever meet? For Davor and me, the answer is simple: we have a deep and unwavering gratitude for the life and success we have built in America. Personally, we are grateful that in Shreveport, we were able to meet our wives, raise our children, and cultivate good friendships. Professionally, we are grateful that we could establish a thriving business that allows us to work every day with amazing professionals and cultivate enduring multigenerational client relationships. Every day, we have the privilege to work for and be a part of our clients’ success.

Our life experience has taught us the value of perseverance in challenging times, trust, integrity, compassion, and connection to our community. We have also learned that dreams can be achieved and life is to be celebrated. We honor this, as we honor what it took all those years ago when history was made when American colonies wanted to start anew and realize their collective dream to become their own country—to create their own home.

Paying it Forward

We talked in our last column about the joy of giving back and the personal satisfaction that it brings. Part of that joy to be celebrated is our freedom to choose how and where we invest our charitable dollars to help preserve and grow the place we call home for generations to come. Whether guided by our hearts, passion, or patriotism, the opportunity to pay our good fortune forward to help others is, perhaps, the greatest gift of all.

Denis Poljak is a Managing Director and a Wealth Manager with the Poljak Group Wealth Management at Steward Partners in Shreveport, Louisiana.  The views expressed herein are those of the author and may not necessarily reflect the views of Steward Partners or its affiliates. Information contained herein has been obtained from sources considered to be reliable, but we do not guarantee their accuracy or completeness. Steward Partners Investment Solutions, LLC Member SIPC.

Season THE STRAND THEATRE

Ushers are the unsung heroes of the theater world.

They know their way around the theater when us patrons don’t have a clue where we’re going.

Charlie Upchurch, the Top Usher at the Strand Theatre, has been helping people navigate the terrain for 17 years.

“I haven’t missed any days since I started,” says Upchurch. “Sometimes, I don’t even know what’s playing, I just show up. I just like being around people.”

The Strand holds a lot of memories for Upchurch. He saw John Wayne there when he was in town for his movie, The Horse Soldiers, which played at the Strand.

“I used to go to all the picture shows there in the ’50s,” says Upchurch. “I remember seeing Gone with the Wind there with my mother.”

All the Strand’s ushers are volunteers.

They do it because they love people.

And they love live theater.

“When there is a play, I can’t wait to see it,” says Rosemary Short, who has been a Strand usher for 25 years.

“I have been to the Pantages Theater in Toronto and countless Broadway shows, and the Strand is the epitome of grandeur and luxury. It’s the elegance of the building

for me. I just can’t explain it.”

When Rosemary escorts a Strand rookie to their seat, she says she doesn’t always sit them down right away.

“What I love is the people who attend,” says Short. “I just feel I can offer something to someone who has never been there before.”

“Don’t sit in the seat yet. Come with me. This is the grandeur. Look up and see the chandelier. It brings you right into the scene that you’re going to be watching.”

“So many people have thanked me for showing them around.”

Caden Ingram, a student at Captain Shreve High School, also loves speaking with patrons of the Strand whenever he ushers shows.

“I love all my patrons,” says Ingram. “I love explaining the history of the Strand and of downtown Shreveport.”

“It’s just a fun experience,” says Angela Roberson-King, who has been a Strand usher for about 10 years.

“I recognize a lot of the regular season ticket holders, and you just never know who else is going to show up!”

Say “hey” to your usher when you go check out the 40th season.

They will be happy to show you around and point you in the right direction. It’s their job.

But really, it’s their passion.

Candi Bagley
Diane Broadwell
Kim Green Liz Scalf
Charlie Upchurch

The 40th Season of the Strand includes:

•LeAnn Rimes Sep 20, 2024

•Indigo Girls Oct 12, 2024

•A Christmas Carol Dec 8, 2024

•Ben Folds Dec 15, 2024

•Black Jacket Symphony presents Led Zeppelin IV Apr 5, 2024

•The Addams Family: A Musical Comedy Jun 25, 2024

Season tickets were made available to “Friends of the Strand” (Donors) on June 20, 2024. The general public may purchase tickets beginning July 22, 2024. Ticket Prices are subject to change per show.

Bill Ward

Ernie Cowger

Gregg Trusty

Troy Stubblefield

Vince Scholtes

Frank Lozano

Charlie Upchurch

Byron Tooley

Martha DeSoto

Tom Craig

Janice Crosbie

Barbara Ward

Donna Gunter

Patsy Brittain

Marilyn Varnell

Candi Bagley

Karen Grubb

Mary Ann Brownsberger

Judy Trout

Diane Broadwell

Liz Scalf

NON-PROFIT

It is said that not all heroes wear capes. Sometimes they wear scrubs.

Hurricane Rita made landfall in September 2005. Roads were filled with debris. Many parts of Shreveport lost power for days, including MLK Health Center & Pharmacy.

Fortunately, MLK Health’s backup generator kicked on, enabling their community pharmacy to be functional. Together, MLK Health’s executive director, their pharmacy team, and a devoted volunteer, Dr. Philip Kinnebrew, worked through that crisis, determined to continue providing their patients with uninterrupted access to their

Dr. Kinnebrew joined MLK Health Center & Pharmacy’s volunteer provider team the previous year and has been providing exceptional care to patients ever since.

According to Jordan Ring Scroggs, Executive Director, “He arrives on Saturday mornings around 7:45 (or a little earlier during the fall, if his beloved Tigers have an especially early kickoff), ready to see his patients. Dr. Kinnebrew’s people-focused approach to care creates the feeling for each one of his patients that he or she is his most important patient. He listens, and works handin-hand with each one to build a plan to help them live

Sue Walden, MLK Patient Advocate, added “We are the ones blessed to have Dr. Kinnebrew on our team.”

What inspires you about MLKHC and its

“I have long been inspired by the MLK Health Center and its mission. For many years, I have volunteered my time and resources to help uninsured patients in our community, most of which would not otherwise be able to receive the care that they so desperately need. MLKHC has made this possible for many individuals in our area. Also, because the clinic has its own in-house pharmacy, patients are able to receive necessary medications that they might not otherwise be able to afford. It is our mission at MLKHC to help uninsured adult patients struggling with various chronic diseases. We provide no-cost primary health care, including doctor visits, lab work, pharmacy services, and patient education. I am continually encouraged and motivated by our entire staff as they generously and compassionately fulfill this

How do you personally gain purpose from the work you perform for the cause?

“Offering my services to the patients at MLKHC always has been personally rewarding to me. Interacting with all of the individuals I meet there is very special. I have gotten to know so many patients personally over the years, and participating in their care has enriched my life tremendously. Working alongside the wonderful and caring staff has given me great satisfaction and pleasure. I believe in a small way I have been able to give back to our local community in a fulfilling manner. When I decided at a fairly young age that I wanted to become a physician, I knew that I wanted to choose a profession that would allow me to help others, especially those who, due to special circumstances, were unable to help themselves. Being involved with the MLK Health Center has helped me achieve that goal and with great personal satisfaction.”

What are some shorter- and longer-term goals of the organization that keep you passionate and motivated to continue working with them?

“Our goal at MLKHC is to continue to serve our community as we have for the past 40 years, providing health care to those who are in need but unable to afford it elsewhere. We are working hard to ever increase our capacity to do more, adding partners who are willing to invest in the health and welfare of those in our community. The goal will continue to be to serve compassionately those in need for the next 40 years and beyond. These goals help me to remain committed and passionate to the cause and keep me motivated to continue to do what I can to help. I plan to continue to dedicate my time and effort to helping MLKHC to grow and provide the community with quality and affordable care.”

LASH FAMILY YMCA The

The Lash Family YMCA—located at 9440 Ellerbe Road in the Camp Forbing Town Center—marked an important return of the YMCA to south Shreveport on Saturday, January 27, 2024. Named after the family of the Chief Executive Officer of the YMCA of Northwest Louisiana, Gary Lash, this state-of-the-art 42,000-square-foot facility includes all new equipment, two group exercise studios, a weight room, a full-size indoor basketball court, an indoor walking track,

and an outdoor, heated 25-yard swimming pool.

The mission of the YMCA is simple—put Christian principles into practice through programs that build healthy spirit, mind, and body for all. Members not only be able to use the YMCA on Ellerbe Road but will have membership access to the Downtown and BHP YMCA branches, as well. And to think, it almost never happened. Gary Lash and his family have long been associated with the YMCA of Northwest Louisiana. When Lash finished college at Northwestern State

University in 1974, he began coaching basketball—first at Haughton High School, then at Parkway High School in Bossier City. After practice, he would drive to the Downtown YMCA in Shreveport to play pickup games and lift weights. His wife, Renee’, taught group exercise classes at the Broadmoor YMCA in the early 2000s. When his sons, Austin and Tyler, were old enough, they worked as lifeguards at the old Camp Forbing summer camp. But in 2003, Gary Lash was in a very low spot in his life—he was unemployed,

and often found himself praying to God for guidance. That same year, the YMCA of Northwest Louisiana was in search of a new Executive Director. Gary applied and was offered the job. It wasn’t until after taking the job that Lash realized the YMCA of Northwest Louisiana was on life support. “Renee’ was shocked when I took the job because she knew the shape the organization was in. There was $600 in the bank account,” recalled Lash, “and we owed $600,000.” But, according to Lash, Renee’ never once tried to talk her husband out of taking the

job. “Honestly, I could not have done this without the support of my wife, and her knowledge of the YMCA as an organization, and allowing me the time to do it.”

Success is almost totally dependent upon drive and persistence. The extra energy required to make another effort or try another approach is the secret of winning. Eventually, the fortunes of the YMCA began to turn. In 2004, the City of Shreveport approached Lash asking to buy approximately five acres from the old Camp Forbing property—

they wished to move the intersection of Flournoy Lucas and Ellerbe Road to make room for what is now Camp Forbing Marketplace Shopping Center. With that land purchase, Lash was able to pay off some debt. And being out of debt meant they could focus on new beginnings—like building a new facility. That ‘focus’ timed perfectly with the explosion of Haynesville Shale. BHP Billiton, an international natural resources company that specializes in operating oil and gas field properties, built an office complex at the corner of Preston Road and Knight Street. “With Haynesville Shale, and the intervention of God, I started talking to BHP amount becoming a corporate donor,” said Lash. “They gave us almost $11 million—$8 million in cash and $2.7 million in property value—to build what became BHP YMCA facility off Clyde Fant. That facility—with its world class competition pool and workout facilities— opened the floodgates.”

With the success of the BHP YMCA, it was only a matter of time before a new YMCA facility was needed in Shreveport. That new facility—which is now the Lash Family YMCA— was made possible by the donation of an anonymous donor of whom twenty years ago, according to Lash, he prayed would be successful both spiritually and financially. The donor said that he would give Lash the money for a new facility in south Shreveport. “Great,” recalled Lash, “but I told him we needed to sit down and talk about how much it’s going to cost.”

But the donor insisted that money wasn’t a problem.

“Well, I told him then if he was going to be that generous, then we’d put his name on the building. I told him that’s not what we do. But he said if that’s the case, then I won’t give you any money.” The rest, as they say, is history. “He told me because of our long-term involvement with the YMCA, going back to when your kids were in diapers. When Renee’ taught group exercise classes—that helped save the Y. There were 2,000 women in those group exercise classes at the Broadmoor Y. If it wasn’t for the Lash Family, there would be no YMCA in Shreveport.”

Lash thanks God for the success of the YMCA and its recent success, not himself, or the efforts of his family.

“It’s extremely humbling because putting my name on a building is not the motivation for what I do. My motivation is knowing that there are a lot of kids ... a lot of people … and a lot of families that are going to hear about Christ by coming into this building and being in a class that is being offered. And, yes, I’ll admit I had some difficulty with that, but it’s all in the providence of God, and I’m going to go with it.”

YMCA stands for Young Men’s Christian Association.

The first YMCA was conceived in industrial London in 1844 when a then farmer-turned-departmentstore-apprentice, named George Williams, organized a bible study with eleven fellow colleagues to create a refuge for young men seeking escape from the hazards of the streets. The idea found a home in the

United States seven years later at the Old South Church in Boston in 1851. In 1880, a YMCA was established in Shreveport with the mission to improve well-being, inspire action, strengthen communities, and ensure everyone has the same opportunity to become healthier, more confident, connected, and secure. Today, at a global scale, the YMCA still harkens back to its roots in creating safe, enriching spaces for communities across the globe.

“To put it simply,” says Lash, “the YMCA is a ministry. A lot of people don’t think of us as a non-profit, but we are. Yes, it’s run like any other business, but having the word ‘Christian’ in the name—nobody can come and challenge you and say, ‘You’re not allowed to do that. You can’t pray.’ It’s part of our mission, as an organization, to bring Christian principles into focus, and to treat all people equally. We pray before ball games. We pray before events.”

Today, the YMCA of Northwest Louisiana is thriving. While Lash won’t comment on how well the YMCA is doing financially— suffice to say there’s more than $600 in the bank account. “I’m here in my opinion by the grace of God. I am being used to improve our community, give some quality of life to our families in town, and try and make this a better place.” If you need more proof, just look at the new YMCA at Camp Forbing Town Center. As you walk inside, don’t forget to look at the name above the door.

2024 Summer Trends

At the core of the feel-good interior design trend lies the incorporation of elements that bring a sense of nature indoors. Natural materials such as wood, stone, and plants are extensively used to create a connection with the outdoors and instill a feeling of serenity. The earthy textures of these materials add depth and warmth to the space, while the presence of greenery promotes a sense of rejuvenation. Soft, soothing colors like pastels and earth tones are favored in this trend for their calming effect on the mind. Natural light and open spaces enhance the airiness and tranquility of the environment, allowing for a seamless flow of energy throughout the room.

pACKING

In recent years, there has been a notable increase in interest in wellness retreats and a demand for unique outdoor destinations that go beyond the typical beach and mountain settings. Travelers are seeking experiences that cater to their emotional, psychological, and spiritual well-being. This trend has resulted in the emergence of destinations and retreats specifically designed to promote holistic wellness and self-care. Whether it's biohacking beach vacations in Hawaii or intimate retreats in Spain, travelers are approaching wellness travel with a more intentional mindset than ever before.

Embark on a journey of luxury and elegance with the VIP Duffle Bag Collection. With the pearlized vegan leather and unique Greek Key Quilting, this divine travel companion redefines opulence and organization. Available at Jolie Blonde.

Comfort and style meet in a way that elevates the feminine in any scenario. It’s all about sporty or traditionally masculine ideas reinvented with feminine accessories. This could be a jersey with a skirt, a letter jacket with delicate bow earrings, or jeans and blouse. It’s about the little details, taking the retro sporty looks and making them into something softer.

Rainbow hair is still all the rage, but the nuance of the holographic hair colors makes this something to try. Much like the bright and saturated colors of the rainbow hair, holographic hair is more iridescent and subtle than full rainbow. It is made to look almost natural with a shine that is unmistakably otherworldly. When done well, it is as colorful as rainbow but faded so that it’s not as noticeable at first.

This is all about the vibes. If you haven’t heard, Bridgerton is a Netflix original series that aired its third season from May-June 2024. The hit series is a historical fantasy, and fans are swept up into the romantic lives of the upper class of regency era England. Fans of the show have taken to watching episodes together dressed in period appropriate costumes and drinking tea (or coffee if you like that more) in the fanciest tea sets they can find. Tea parties are not just for little girls.

&Registering at Ivy & Stone is a whole new experience! Working with one of their interior stylists and the best brands available, they will help you create the perfect registry for your entire home. Not only do they offer popular lines like Vietri, Casafina and Beatriz Ball - they can also help you select bedding, furniture, rugs, and other home decor items. Setting new standards in the registry world, it is not just about the kitchen anymore.

Though it was invented in 19th century China, there’s a fresh wave of players of the game. The game is like dominos or poker, because it takes both luck and skill to play. The rules are simple to learn but can take a lifetime to fully master. A unique aspect of the game is that it takes four people to play. It is good for your brain, as it helps develop better cognitive strength and memory. Find a group of friends and give it a try for yourself!

The best way to experience summer is experimenting with food. Maybe it’s a matter of a new shape, a new color, or a new place to go out with loved ones. Maybe try some pineapple on your pizza, a new punch recipe, or pasta in a new shape. Whatever your fancy, this is the best time to revisit the old favorites in new ways.

Speed-Brite

Supercenter Laundromat, announces the construction of its sixth location of a locally owned full-service Laundromat in Haughton, LA. Speed-Brite is locally owned and operated by Je Camden and his son, Scotti Camden, and revolutionizes the way people tackle a variety of laundry needs.

The business provides state-of-the-art facilities with premium and e cient laundry experiences unlike any other in the state of Louisiana. Speed-Brite o ers over 100 high-speed washers and dryers with 80lb capacity; which signi cantly reduces wait times and ensures a quick and e cient laundry process. We go beyond just washing and drying. Our comprehensive range of services includes expert dry cleaning, meticulous hand ironing, and precise pressing to ensure your clothes are not just clean, but perfectly cared for. Our attendants are on hand to assist customers and we take pride in maintaining a clean and safe facility. Other amenities that help pass the time include Wi-Fi, comfortable seating, a children’s play area, vending machines with drinks, snacks, and detergent, an arcade, big-screen TVs, and electronic charging stations.

In the meantime, come visit us at one of our 5 other locations located in the Shreveport area!

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20 YourFairytale Begins Here

A Comprehensive Guide for a Stress-Free and Spectacular Day

Planning a wedding can be a daunting task, filled with endless decisions and details to consider. From setting a budget to choosing vendors and designing the perfect look, every aspect of the planning process requires careful attention to ensure a stress-free and spectacular day. In this comprehensive guide, we will explore the key steps involved in planning the perfect wedding, covering everything from establishing the foundation to ensuring smooth logistics and coordination. We highly recommend that you attend a few bridal fairs such as the events that I Do Bridal produces to help you begin the planning process.

Setting the foundation for a perfect wedding begins with establishing a realistic budget. Couples should sit down together and determine how much they are willing to spend on their special day, considering their priorities and must-have elements. Creating a timeline for planning and preparations is essential to stay organized and on track. By breaking down tasks into manageable steps and setting deadlines, couples can avoid last-minute stress and ensure that everything is in place on the big day. Selecting a suitable wedding theme and style sets the tone for the entire event, from the invitations to the décor and attire. Whether opting for a romantic garden party or a glamorous black-tie affair, choosing a cohesive theme helps create a memorable and organized

PERFECT PLANNING = PLANNING PERFECT

Traditionally, the groom selects an engagement ring to present to his future bride upon proposing marriage. Family-owned Lee Michael’s specializes in taking the mystery out of gem selection. Locally owned (and a Shreveport mainstay) Louisiana Coin and Jewelry offers a unique selection of engagement rings, wedding bands, and anniversary gifts.

Once you hear the word “Yes,” the real work begins. Choosing the ideal venue and vendors is crucial to bringing the wedding vision to life. Researching and visiting potential wedding venues allows couples to find a location that fits their style and guest count. When selecting vendors for catering, photography, and entertainment, it is essential to read reviews, ask for recommendations, and review portfolios to ensure quality and reliability. Negotiating contracts and finalizing agreements with vendors should be done carefully, with attention to details such as payment schedules, cancellation policies, and inclusions, to avoid any misunderstandings down the line.

COLORS, SCHEMES, & THEMES

Designing the perfect wedding look involves careful consideration of attire, décor, and stationery. Choosing the wedding dress and attire for the bridal party is a significant decision that reflects the overall style of the wedding. Relying on professional stylists like locally owned Happily Ever After will take the “Is this the right dress for me?” and turn it into “I feel like a princess!” on your special day. Designing invitations, programs, and other stationery items provides an opportunity to showcase the wedding theme and create anticipation for the event among guests. Flowers should always be a part of the wedding and add to the overall look and feel that you are seeking. Colony House can help in that regard.

MAN OF THE HOUR:

A Glimpse into the Groom’s Role

When it comes to planning a wedding, all eyes tend to be on the bride. But let's not forget about the unsung hero of this special day – the groom! Gentlemen, grab your tuxes and get ready to take on these essential tasks with style and

. These are the people who will be celebrating your special day with you, so make sure to include friends and family members who are important to both of you. Send out those invitations on time – no lastminute emails or texts, please!

The groomsmen. Your best buddies who will be standing by your side as you say "I do" deserve a little extra attention. Choose stylish suits or tuxedos for them to wear on the big day. Don't forget about the groomsmen’s gifts – a little token of your gratitude goes a long way.

The Wedding day: As the groom, it's your job to keep calm and collected throughout the chaos. Whether it's ensuring the rings are safely tucked away or making sure the groomsmen are all in line, being the calm voice of reason is key. And don't forget to show some love to your bride – a sweet gesture or a heartfelt note will go a long way in making her feel special on this momentous occasion.

The honeymoon . Plan a trip that reflects both of your interests and personalities and don't be afraid to get a little creative. Whether it's a relaxing beach vacation or a thrilling adventure, make sure to take the time to relax and enjoy each other's company after the whirlwind of wedding planning.

Embrace your role as the groom and take on these responsibilities with pride and joy. Your bride will appreciate your hard work and dedication in creating memories that will last a lifetime. Here's to a happy and stress-free wedding day for both of you!

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Crafting a delicious and memorable menu is a key aspect of the wedding experience. Experienced caterers such as those at Superior Steak House, Ernest’s Orleans, Fat Calf, and 2nd Act can help you plan a diverse menu that caters to different dietary preferences ensuring that all guests can enjoy the meal. Tasting and selecting the final menu items with the caterer allows couples to ensure that the food meets their expectations in terms of taste and presentation. Locally-owned Thrifty Liquor suggests adding special touches such as signature cocktails or dessert bars to add a personal and memorable element to the dining experience. The venue is equally important and should reflect the couple's personalities. The nature lover may opt for an outdoor setting like Twisted Pine in Marshall, Texas. Closer to Shreveport-Bossier is Minden’s Estate Les Chenes with its historical charm and numerous amenities. East Ridge Country Club in Shreveport is also a good choice.

Keep Calm and Plan the Wedding

Planning your dream wedding can be a daunting task. To eliminate a little pressure, here is the ultimate wedding planning checklist to help you stay organized and stress-free during the planning process.

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Set a Date and Budget:

The first step in planning your wedding is to choose a date and set a budget. Consider factors such as season, weather, and availability of vendors. Determine how much you are willing to spend on each aspect of your wedding, including venue, catering, photography, and entertainment.

3. Choose a Venue:

Consider factors such as location, capacity, and ambiance. Book your venue as soon as possible to secure your preferred date. Some of the local venues are booked out for YEARS!

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Create a Guest List:

Sit down with your partner and create a list of guests you would like to invite to your wedding. This will help you determine the size of your venue, catering needs, and overall budget.

4. Hire Vendors:

This includes caterers, photographers, florists, and entertainment. Read reviews and schedule consultations to ensure you are hiring vendors that align with your vision for your wedding.

SMOOTHING OUT THE DETAILS

Ensuring smooth logistics and coordination on the wedding day is essential for a seamless and stress-free event. Creating a detailed schedule that outlines the timeline for the day's events helps keep everyone on track and ensures that everything runs smoothly. Coordinating transportation for the wedding party and guests, whether through shuttles or car services, helps ensure that everyone arrives on time and safely. Assigning roles and responsibilities to trusted individuals, such as wedding planners or bridal party members, can help alleviate stress and ensure that all tasks are taken care of efficiently.

5. Select Attire: Start shopping for your wedding attire: wedding dress, suits for your partner and groomsmen, bridesmaid dresses, and accessories.

8. Order Invitations:

Once you have finalized your guest list and venue, order your wedding invitations. Don't forget to include RSVP cards and other important details, such as dress code and registry information.

6. Create a Wedding Website: Create a wedding website to share important information with your guests, including date, location, accommodations, and registry details. This can also serve as a helpful tool for RSVPs and updates.

9. Finalize Details:

As your wedding day approaches, finalize details such as transportation, accommodations for out-of-town guests, and day-of schedules. Consider creating a timeline to ensure everything runs smoothly on the big day.

7. Plan the Ceremony and Reception:

Work with your officiant to create a meaningful ceremony that reflects your relationship. Plan your reception, including seating arrangements, menu selections, and entertainment options.

10.Enjoy Your Wedding Day: On your wedding day, take a moment to relax and soak in the love and joy surrounding you. Trust that you have done everything you can to plan a beautiful and unforgettable day.

Welcome to Twisted Pines Winery, where passion meets tradition, and the story of the founder's family intertwines with the roots of our wines.

Our story begins with a young boy named Victor, who grew up on a small piece of land nestled amidst the beauty of the pines, just down the road from Twisted Pines Winery.

In the heart of that plot stood a magnificent, large, twisted pine tree that would come to symbolize the journey of his family.

As Victor watched the seasons change and his family grow around that tree, he developed a deep appreciation for the land and its bounty. The twist of the pine tree’s branches mirrored the unique and intricate path that led his family to their lifelong dream – creating a family business that utilizes the land.

With the enduring spirit of that twisted pine as his inspiration, Victor and his family established Twisted Pines Winery. Here, we celebrate the harmonious blend of tradition and innovation. We invite you to join us for all of your special occasions, large or small.

Blossom Dearie Designs is a custom design florist specializing in weddings and events. As a former dance artist and nature lover, owner, Olivia Davis, draws her inspiration from movement and the natural beauty of her East Texas surroundings to create a one of a kind floral experience for your events. For your own custom floral design, contact us through our website.

“Much like dance, I believe floral design is an art form that can express a wide range of human emotion. And much like that human life, flowers only have a short amount of time for expression. I’m here to help you make life’s most special moments bloom!” – Blossom Dearie Designs

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Creating unforgettable moments and entertainment is key to making the wedding day truly memorable for the couple and their guests. Planning special moments, such as the first dance and cake-cutting ceremony, adds a personal touch to the event and creates lasting memories. Selecting entertainment options, whether live music, Spin doctors such as AJ the DJ, or other performers, sets the tone for the celebration and keeps guests engaged and entertained. The latest trend is using fireworks and sparklers for the couple’s send-off. Hiring a professional company like Pyromania Fireworks can create a dazzling and safe display. Incorporating personalized touches that reflect the couple's story and interests adds a unique and meaningful element to the wedding experience.

Addressing the legal and administrative details is an essential part of planning a wedding to ensure that everything runs smoothly and according to regulations. This includes obtaining necessary permits and licenses for the wedding venue, catering, and any other relevant aspects of the event. Planning for marriage officiation and obtaining the marriage license well in advance is crucial to avoid any last-minute hiccups. Managing logistical details such as parking, security, and insurance ensures that the wedding day proceeds without any unforeseen issues.

Your Wedding Venue

One of the most exciting parts of wedding planning is choosing a wedding venue. After all, it sets the scene for your special day! With so many options out there, how do you choose the perfect venue that reflects your style and personality? We’ve got you covered with some important aspects to consider when selecting your dream wedding venue!

1. The budget. While it may be tempting to fall in love with a venue way above your price range, it’s important to stay realistic and stick to a budget that works for you and your partner. Remember, there are plenty of affordable yet stunning venues out there – you just have to do some digging!

2. The guest list. Choose a venue that can comfortably accommodate all your loved ones, so be sure to have an accurate count of your guest list before making any decisions. Whether you’re planning an intimate affair or a grand extravaganza, make sure your venue can handle the crowd.

3. The location. Do you envision a beachside wedding with the sound of crashing waves in the background, or a rustic barn wedding in the countryside? Think about the atmosphere you want to create and choose a venue that aligns with your vision.

4. The logistics. Consider factors such as parking, accessibility for guests, and any restrictions or rules the venue may have. You want your wedding day to run as smoothly as possible, so make sure your venue can accommodate all of your needs.

No matter what kind of wedding venue you're dreaming of, Shreveport-Bossier has something for everyone. So go ahead and start planning your dream wedding in this charming city – we promise it will be a day you'll never forget!

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Addressing the legal and administrative details is an essential part of planning a wedding to ensure that everything runs smoothly and according to regulations. This includes obtaining necessary permits and licenses for the wedding venue, catering, and any other relevant aspects of the event. Planning for marriage officiation and obtaining the marriage license well in advance is crucial to avoid any last-minute hiccups. Managing logistical details such as parking, security, and insurance ensures that the wedding day proceeds without any unforeseen issues.

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Ensuring a smooth transition to the honeymoon is the final step in the wedding planning process, setting the stage for a relaxing and enjoyable post-wedding getaway. Couples should pack and organize essentials for the honeymoon in advance, considering the destination and duration of the trip. Coordinating travel arrangements and accommodations ensures a seamless transition from the wedding festivities to the honeymoon relaxation. Planning for postwedding tasks such as thank-you notes and name changes allows couples to tie up loose ends and start their new chapter with ease.

CONTINGENCY

Finally, it’s always good to have a Plan B. Handling unexpected challenges and contingencies is a vital skill for couples and wedding planners to navigate any unforeseen circumstances that may arise. Developing a contingency plan for unexpected weather, vendor issues, or emergencies can help mitigate the impact of such situations on the wedding day. Effective communication with vendors and guests in case of changes or emergencies is key to managing expectations and ensuring a smooth transition. Maintaining a positive and adaptable attitude throughout the planning process can help couples overcome obstacles and focus on the joyous celebration of their love.

Planning a wedding or special event? Fat Calf Catering and Events offers everything from elegant seated and full-service dinners, to elaborate station-style menus, buffets, and everything in between. Their team will cover every detail to ensure you have a relaxing and memorable event.

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Fat Calf’s new event space, 2nd Act Supper Club, is the perfect venue for an intimate wedding shower or rehearsal dinner.

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The perfect venue for wedding receptions East Ridge Country Club

• Open floor plan ballroom adorned with two crystal chandeliers.

• Room capacity 500

• 1600 Sq Ft built in dance floor

• Beautiful outdoor patio overlooking golf course

Redefining elegance, the Ballroom is perfect for wedding receptions. Adorned with: a 1600 square foot built in dance floor, two crystal chandeliers, a floor to ceiling wall of windows with a gorgeous golf course view. The Ballroom capacity for a reception is 500.

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HILL COUNTRY VENUE

Embrace the charm of a bygone era at Hill Country Venue in Shreveport, LA! Nestled amidst the beautiful landscapes, our rustic old country store sets the stage for a wedding straight out of a fairytale.

Step into a world where weathered wooden beams and the scent of history create an enchanting backdrop for your special day. Our venue exudes the warmth of a rustic old country store, o ering a timeless setting for couples seeking a touch of vintage elegance.

Transform your business meetings, family reunions, birthday parties, and rehearsal dinners into unforgettable moments in our versatile space. The centerpiece of our venue is the rustic barn, featuring enchanting sliding doors that open to reveal a world of timeless elegance.

Picture your business strategy sessions or corporate retreats taking place in the heart of history, surrounded by the authenticity of weathered wood and the rustic allure of sliding barn doors. Our venue o ers a unique and inspiring backdrop that fosters creativity and collaboration.

For family reunions and birthday parties, the barn becomes a canvas for memories, with its rusting charm adding character to every moment. Create lasting memories against the backdrop of history, where laughter and joy resonate in a space that feels both intimate and expan-

sive. Rehearsal dinners acquire a magical ambiance as the barn doors slide open to reveal a space that perfectly complements the anticipation of the upcoming nuptials. The rusting charm of the barn becomes a symbol of enduring love, setting the tone for a beautiful celebration.

At Hill Country Venue, we invite you to embrace the versatility of our rustic setting – where sliding barn doors and rusting charm enhance every occasion.

Whether it’s a business a air or a family celebration, let the warmth of history and the magic of the barn make your event truly special. =

3201 CENTENARY VENUE

3201 Centenary isn’t just for events: it’s an experience where old-world charm meets modern-day fairy tales.

3201 Centenary Venue is a captivating blend of history and celebration, nestled within the walls of a beautifully transformed historical church. As you step through the grand entrance, you are greeted by the timeless charm of tall arches that reach towards the heavens, creating an atmosphere of elegance and grace. The venue’s original pews, once witnesses to solemn vows and heartfelt prayers, now stand as a testament to the rich history that permeates the space.

The heart of 3201 Centenary Venue is its enchanting main floor, where the magic of weddings comes to life. Imagine exchanging

421 TEXAS VENUE

Built in the 1940’s, 421 Texas has always been a space where attention to detail is held in highregard. One of Shreveport’s greatest examples of the Art Deco movement, the space needs no added frills. From the aluminum carved staircase railing to the mesmerizing chandeliers, the space’s perfect geometric forms and swooping curves are enough to transport you and your guests to that bygone era of jazz and opulence.

At 421 Texas we put the same attention to detail into each of our events. We are here to provide you with an all inclusive experience that both you and your guests won’t soon forget. We work with you step by step through the complete planning process to make your vision a reality.

If you are looking for sophistication, this is the venue for you. Located conveniently in the heart of downtown Shreveport, 421 Texas is one of Shreveport’s best kept secrets. You’ll also love our exceptional service, from the moment you grace our doors, our sta will be taking care of you and your guests. Simply relax and enjoy your moment.=

vows under the warm glow of natural light from the large glass windows, spreading light across the room. The small stage, adorned with subtle details, provides the perfect focal point for the couple to declare their love.

After the heartfelt ceremony, the celebration continues seamlessly to the main floor party space. A large and well-stocked bar awaits, ready to serve refreshing libations to the joyous guests. The expansive layout allows for a spacious dance floor, encouraging laughter and celebration. The venue e ortlessly accommodates tables for dining, providing ample seating for over 200 guests to enjoy a delectable feast in an atmosphere that resonates with the echoes of the past.

3201 Centenary Venue is not just a location for weddings; it is a living testament to the enduring power of love and celebration. This historic church turned venue o ers a unique and enchanting setting that elevates every moment, creating memories that will last a lifetime.

Ever wondered about the history of anniversary gifts and what they represent?

Every year has a traditional gift and flowers, colors, and gemstones that correspond to the specific celebration. These longstanding traditions have a history extending back to the medieval period and were considered agents of good fortune and prosperity in marriage. However, giving anniversary gifts to loved ones wasn’t prevalent until the Victorian era.

Today, popular opinion differs from traditional legend, which suggests that each gift should be chosen to increase in value as you spend more time together, acknowledging a successful marriage.

Sort of a “thank you for hanging in there with me through thick and thin” gift. So, whether it’s your first year of marriage or you’re shopping for the perfect sentimental gold gift for your parents’ 50th, here are a few suggestions as to what is appropriate.

For your one-year anniversary, give a gift of paper or a clock. Your fifth year should be something wood or a piece of silverware will do. In the tenth year, a traditional gift would be tin or aluminum (not a box of tin foil). The modern gift is a little more expensive –diamonds. Jumping ahead to the 20th year anniversary, China or platinum. The 30th gets a little more expensive with pearls or diamonds (again). Your 40th is easy. Both traditional and modern gifts should be rubies. Same with the 50th and 60th but with gold and diamonds, respectively. You will notice that with each decade of marriage, the gifts tend to get more expensive, and for good reason. There should be a celebration and a reward for staying together, through thick and thin, in sickness and in health.

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Kendra and Jeremy Dobbins met online in February 2020 right before the COVID-19 lockdowns. “The time off with COVID-19 allowed us to spend time together. We

Texas. They also had a special dessert-only reception with guests who were entertained by a DJ afterwards. bridesmaids’ names were Ashley Belden and Wendy Terrill. They were joined by the junior bridesmaids Avery had recently passed away before the wedding.

The honeymoon will be an Alaskan cruise later this year.

Charming and Fun Customs at MEXICAN WEDDINGS

Mexico is a world of culture and tradition, and weddings are no exception. Many of its traditions are similar to those of other countries, such as the use of a white wedding dress or the belief that the bride and groom should not see each other before the ceremony. However, here are some of the most entertaining and deeply rooted customs in Mexican culture.

Formality in the Invitation:

The way to invite someone to a wedding is very formal. Most of the time, the bride and groom personally deliver the invitation. Wedding parties are often very large, with hundreds of guests. How is it possible to have such large weddings without bankrupting the couple? The answer is simple: "padrinos," or godparents, who sponsor everything. This is why, when delivering the invitation, the sponsorship of a "Godfather" for the wedding is requested. The Godparents or Padrinos: The basic godparents are for rings, coins, bouquet, cushions, Bible, vigil, and rosary. They are usually chosen from close family and friends. But in many popular weddings, sponsors are requested for everything from photography, video, venue, banquet, music, food, to decoration!

The Money Dance or “El Baile del Billete”:

All Mexicans know that you should go to a wedding with money in your wallet. Once the bride and groom open the dance with the waltz, guests dance with them and pin bills to their clothes. This is to wish prosperity to the newlyweds and help them finance their honeymoon.

The Groom Dance or “El Muertito”:

This traditional Mexican dance is an essential element of the wedding. It involves men lifting the groom in the air as if carrying a coffin, which is why it is called "El Muertito" or "the Little Dead," and tossing him up to the rhythm of the "funeral march". This dance symbolizes the groom bidding farewell to his bachelorhood and committing to spending the rest of his time with his wife and future children.

The Three Bouquets:

Brides who marry under the Catholic religion usually carry three bouquets. The first bouquet is left in the church as an offering to the Virgin, another is for the ceremony and is usually preserved. A simpler third bouquet is thrown to single female guests during the party; whoever catches it is believed to be the next to marry.

Bride's Charms:

The bride must wear something blue during the wedding, symbolizing the fidelity desired in marriage. Something Old: usually relates to friendship and good fortune. Something New: symbolizes the future of the newlywed couple. Something Borrowed: the bride usually wears a family jewel from someone happily married.

The Sea Snake Dance or Víbora de la Mar: This dance involves the groom and the bride standing on chairs facing each other, holding hands to form an arch. The godparents hold them to prevent them from falling, while guests run under the arch to the rhythm of the song "La Vibora de la Mar" or "The Sea Snake". This dance represents the problems the couple will face together and the need to overcome obstacles as a team.

Post-Wedding Celebrations or Torna Boda:

This is a celebration held the day after the wedding, where the closest relatives gather at someone's house. Leftovers from the wedding are eaten or traditional Mexican dishes such as menudo or barbecue are prepared.

These are some of the Mexican traditions at weddings. If you have had the opportunity to attend one, you will agree that they are unique, fun, and very lively!

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A Spectacular ‘SANCTUARY’ on Lake Bistineau

Step inside and experience the pinnacle of luxury with this contemporary waterfront estate … proving that modern and organic—along with sophisticated, savvy and fun—aren’t mutually exclusive.

Elm Gove, LA. Lake Bistineau in northwest Louisiana is a gem for anyone who likes to spend time outdoors. Wide-trunked cypress trees lure photographers, boaters, and nature lovers of all types. A bonus is that it is located a short half-hour drive from Shreveport and Bossier City. If you want to experience north Louisiana’s pristine wetlands at their wildest—this is the place to be. And, if you’re looking to buy a lakefront, state-of-the-art property that is full of charm and sophistication, look no further.

Nestled on a private peninsula in a finger of Lake Bistineau known as “Spring Branch” is an 11-acre estate known as Sanctuary. Behind its private gate you’ll find a pristine contemporary main house, a guest house, panoramic views, and over 1,200 feet of seawall. Listed for $5.25 million by REALTORS® Lynn Roos and Adrienne Frierson of Coldwell Banker Apex, this striking residence features a design unlike anything in the area. If it reads like a modern-day take of Henry David Thoreau’s “Walden,” architect Mike McSwain doesn’t mind. If it reads like a love poem to the surrounding forest and lake, even better.

“It was a purposeful intention to weave the building into the landscape,” says McSwain, a Shreveport architect whose firm specializes in contemporary design. In 2004, he was hired to create a utopian vision for the homeowner—one that unplugs from city life. The main goal was for the future home to be nestled into the existing hillside and engage with nature. General contracting services were provided by Shreveport’s premier design-build construction company Commercial Construction & Development (also known as CC&D).

Embracing a simplistic design, the main structure took four years to design and complete. As you snake down the driveway, the house seems hidden, as if it had just crawled out of the earth—and there are minimal differences in material deployment inside and out of the home. There is a spirit of escape, as well as of personal discovery—seeing something that rises out of somewhere uniquely special—was a big part of the design. The visioning, the framing of

spaces and the detailing was meticulously planned. As a designer, McSwain recalled how he was constantly challenged by the homeowner. “He was a collaborative partner from beginning to end. It was a fun process, and final results speak for themselves.”

Though modern, the home’s vernacular focused on cultivating a vibrant, family-centric lifestyle melding indoor and outdoor gatherings. “Taking advantage of the lake views was key, as was creating a home that would seamlessly blend indoor and outdoor living,” says McSwain. To create these seamless spaces between indoor and outdoor, McSwain integrated the structure using the terrain to his advantage. By positioning decks and patios—over 8,000 square feet in total—he was able to take advantage of the lake to beautifully capture the surrounding views. All primary living spaces, such as the family room, dining area, and kitchen, are placed strategically next to exterior living spaces, with large sliding doors that lead to the great outdoors. “Moving indoors to outdoors is very easy in this home,” says McSwain.

The home was also carefully positioned on the site to maximize natural light and follow the path of the sun— the roof is pitched perfectly, and the structure is precisely aligned, to accommodate large windows that effectively combat heat gain from the hot Louisiana summers. The interiors are clean-lined and spare yet warm, making use of materials for the custom cabinetry, unique flooring, and exposed ceiling beams throughout. The living areas are placed

at the heart of the home, surrounding it with glass on the sides, which brings the outside in, revealing more of the surrounding landscape. Case in point—the vast, north-facing windows frame cinematic views over the estate. These floor-to-ceiling steel-frame glass walls on the main level bring 180-degree views directly into the main living areas with as little obstruction as possible. All primary living spaces—such as the family room, dining area, and kitchen— were placed strategically next to exterior living spaces, where Nana sliding glass doors open for airflow (if desired). A tall ceiling helps keep the space cool. While the architect admitted that the focus was the outdoors, he also wanted the interiors to be easy and comfortable. The modern, exaggerated roofline combines form and function. And because of the contemporary design, the architect wasn’t constrained by traditional details—allowing the structure to have a clear and strong relationship with the environment. By night, the home glows from the inside thanks to the abundance of windows.

While public living spaces are exposed to nature with its expansive glass windows and doors, as a counterpoint, private spaces—like bedrooms

and bathrooms—are cloistered for privacy. “Those spaces feel more cocoon-like and intimate,” says McSwain, making their attention to design and detail unparalleled. The primary suite offers two bathrooms separated by an oversized walk-in closet. On the lower level find two additional suites, a private kitchen, theater room, gym, craft room, and additional living spaces.

In all the bedroom suites, the same floor-to-ceiling window design frames the view of the outdoors. Hurd windows offer an elevated living experience—featuring a unique design component that allows fresh air to be brought inside. Two types of environments— exposed and intimate—are linked through a series of intentional passages. “Movement through the building was very important—how you arrive and what you see as you circulate between the spaces,” says McSwain. For instance, moving up the stairs, you feel as if you are outside, with similar materials in the stairwells are carried to the porches and patios. “When you move through the building, there is a choreography where you understand the site more clearly because of the views you see through the different windows,” says McSwain. “And even though this is a very large house, there is a ‘tease’ of what lies around the corner. You can never see everything at once—which, as a designer, I find absolutely fascinating.”

If connecting with all spaces was important, that meant that finding the right interior designer was paramount. That’s why the homeowner brought in interior designer Kirk Thomas. For anyone who steps foot in the home, they would immediately sense that a lot of inspiration came from Kirk Thomas— referring to the sleek minimalism prevalent throughout the interior rooms.

Thomas fleshed out the luminous interior spaces with an eclectic blend of art and decor. For example, some walls are adorned with custom Venetian plaster wallpaper—offering a symphony of design and craftsmanship that invites you to experience luxury at its finest. Each stroke of that plaster tells a story of meticulous craftsmanship, creating a canvas that transforms the living spaces into a work of art. A one-of-akind custom limestone “hanging” fireplace, expertly crafted from Portugal, was thoughtfully designed to allow stunning view of the lake as you enter the front door. An Ingo Maurer

Chandelier enhances the grandeur of the dining room.

On the lower level there are two large bedroom suites—each with ensuite bathrooms—along with a home theater, living room, kitchenette, exercise room, craft room, and over 1,900 square-feet of enclosed space for mechanical, storage, and garage. And, despite the total proportions of the home, McSwain managed to make the home feel cozy, not sprawling, which was key to the homeowner’s vision. A series of nest-like spaces are found throughout to contrast more expansive areas—alcove insets for beds, sunk-in seating, and plenty of built-in nooks. All-in-all, this beautifully designed home is any nature-lover’s dream—and is sure to create happy memories for any potential homebuyer for year to come. And just like the natural elements that surround it, there is a feeling it will only get

The following individuals and companies supplied consulting, products, and materials for The Sanctuary: Architecture—Mike McSwain, Mike McSwain Architect; LLC; Construction—Fred White, Commercial Construction & Development; Interior Design—Kirk Thomas, Kirt Thomas Design; Electric—Wilhite Electric; HVAC and Plumbing—FitzGerald Contractors, LLC; Lighting—Oldner Lighting.

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THE 2024 MISS LOUISIANA COMPETITION

The 2024 Miss Louisiana Competition was held Thursday, June 13 – Saturday, June 15 at the Monroe Civic Center’s WL “Jack” Howard Theatre. A press conference provided the media and public with an opportunity to hear from the Executive Director of the Miss Louisiana Organization, Dewana Little, the producer of the live televised finals, Wayne Gentry, City of Monroe Mayor, Friday Ellis, and the major television sponsors. It was also the first chance to meet the 33 candidates from all over the state vying for the title of Miss Louisiana.

she made contact. We look forward to watching and cheering Mackenzie on as her future unfolds.” Dewana Little, Executive Director. Preliminary competitions were held on Thursday and Friday evening, with the live statewide telecast on Saturday. This year’s show featured Miss Louisiana 2023, Makenzie Scroggs, the Miss Louisiana Band & Dancers, Miss Louisiana 2007, Amanda Joseph May, and many more. Ed Walsh and Melissa Whitworth will be our emcees, with special guest appearances from other former Miss Louisiana titleholders. Also featured will be the 33 candidates and Louisiana Fleur de Lis mentees.

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The Miss Louisiana Organization has a volunteerbased Board of Directors that works to share the accomplishments of the 33 candidates and provide scholarships to further their education. The Miss Louisiana Organization will award over $60,000 in cash scholarships this year, with over $500,000 in cash and in-kind scholarships made available. The Miss Louisiana Organization is part of the Miss America Organization, the number one provider of scholarships for women in the world.

WILLIS KNIGHTON CANCER CENTER INVITES CANCER SURVIVORS TO FIESTA!

Willis Knighton Cancer Center celebrated National Cancer Survivors Day on Sunday, June 2, from 1:30 to 4 p.m. at the Willis Knighton Eye

Institute, 2611 Greenwood Road.

This year’s event had a fiesta theme, “No Time to Siesta! It’s a Fiesta!” Each year cancer survivors and their families take this time to greet one another and reconnect with Cancer Center staff and physicians. It also offers a chance to get answers about their cancer from a team of experts.

“Willis Knighton Cancer Center Survivors Day celebration is such a great opportunity for doctors and staff to socialize with our former patients,” said Lane R. Rosen, MD, medical director of radiation oncology at Willis-Knighton Cancer Center. “Surviving cancer is a wonderful accomplishment, and these patients have earned the right to celebrate what they’ve achieved. We are excited to the upcoming event.”

National Cancer Survivors Day is observed each year on the first Sunday in June by communities throughout the world and is sponsored by the National Cancer Survivors Day Foundation. It serves as a celebration for those who

“Mackenzie Scroggs has done a phenomenal job representing our state and organization over the past year. She has blessed the lives of thousands of children, youth, adults, and senior adults across the bayou state. Mackenzie not only danced her way into our hearts but also used her gifts of love and compassion to make an impact on all with whom

The Miss Louisiana Organization would like to thank all of our sponsors because, without the support of our community, the Miss Louisiana Competition would not be the success that it is each year. Miss Louisiana Corporate Sponsors include: Discover Monroe/West Monroe, City of Monroe, the University of Louisiana Monroe, Propane Dealers of Louisiana, Blue Cross & Blue Shield of Louisiana, Louisiana

have survived, an inspiration for those recently diagnosed, a gathering of support for families, and an outreach to the community.

The U.S. has 18.1 million cancer survivors, and that number is projected to increase to 22.2 million by 2030.

WILLIS KNIGHTON TO PRESENT $54,000 CHECK TO FIRE DEPARTMENT

Willis Knighton Health has presented Shreveport Fire Department a $54,000 grant to purchase equipment to properly outfit six new SFD vehicles that will be used for emergency responses by the Bomb Squad and fire investigations unit. The check presentation from Willis Knighton President and CEO

Jaf Fielder to Shreveport Fire Chief Clarence Reese was at 9 a.m. on June 11th at Shreveport Fire Station No. 8, 2756 Greenwood Road.

“As a community healthcare organization, we at Willis Knighton recognize, perhaps more than others, the type of health risks that our Shreveport firefighters face. We understand that when we invest in the Shreveport Fire Department, we are investing in the safety and well-being of our community and our fellow residents,” Fielder said. “While we know they have the training to address dangerous emergency situations, we also want to be sure they have the right support equipment too.”

The fire department has purchased six Dodge crew cab trucks to replace the aging fleet of Bomb Squad/ fire investigation response vehicles. Specific accessories are needed for the vehicles

before they can be put into service. The equipment will be used to safely transport gear and tools necessary for render-safe procedures for hazardous devices located within the response area, as well as storing and transporting proper personal protective equipment. Willis Knighton’s grant to Shreveport Fire Department is the latest example of its “tithe the bottom line” philosophy of giving. Willis Knighton philanthropy focuses on healthcare, public education and humanitarian services to improve not only the health of the people who live here but their quality of life.

SUCCESSFULLY UTILIZES ANTILITTERING CAMERAS TO MAKE FIRST ARREST

In June, the Shreveport Police Department made their first arrest using the new antilittering cameras that have been installed around the city. These cameras were installed for the purpose of making sure that bad actors who litter and illegally dump in the city will be brought to justice. Mayor Tom Arceneaux expressed his pride in this achievement, stating, “Keeping our city clean is a shared responsibility, and it starts with each of us taking pride in our community. The successful use of these cameras underscores our commitment

KNOW Good to

to maintaining a clean and welcoming environment for everyone in Shreveport.”

The arrest highlights the effective use of technology by the Shreveport Police Department in their ongoing efforts to keep the city safe and clean. “I commend the SPD for their innovative approach and dedication to leveraging technology for the benefit of our community,” Mayor Arceneaux added.

The City of Shreveport remains dedicated to enhancing the quality of life for its residents through initiatives that promote cleanliness, safety, and community pride. This arrest serves as a reminder that littering will not be tolerated, and efforts to maintain a clean city will continue to be enforced.

CHRISTUS COUSHATTA HEALTH CARE CENTER LAUNCHES PATIENT TRANSPORT VAN

(COUSHATTA, Louisiana) –CHRISTUS Coushatta Health Care Center is excited to

introduce its new patient transport van and two special events to highlight the new transportation service available for outpatient services to community members in need.

“Delaying health care due to lack of transportation can have serious consequences on a patient’s health, especially those patients with chronic conditions,” said Brandon Hillman, administrator of CHRISTUS Coushatta. “The transport van will be a great resource for patients in managing their health.”

On Monday, June 10, at 11 a.m., a public blessing and dedication was held in the administration parking lot of CHRISTUS Coushatta Health Care Center, 1635 Marvel St., with a reception following in the administration building board room.

The public also had a chance to learn more about the transport van on Saturday, June 29, at the Hall Summit Hometown Festival and BBQ Cook-Off in Hall Summit.

With the new transport van, community members in need can now request transportation for outpatient services at CHRISTUS Coushatta Health Care Center.

Funds were raised for the new van through the Southwestern Energy Haynesville Charity Classic golf tournament held last October.

“SWN is proud to play a

critical role in providing the community with access to healthcare,” said Tommy Clark, senior government affairs manager at Southwestern Energy. “Transportation can often be a barrier to receiving that care, and the CHRISTUS Coushatta transport van will be a great resource to help overcome this issue.”

CHRISTUS Coushatta is grateful to have been the beneficiary of the company’s Haynesville Charity Classic.

“You can see the power of philanthropy exhibited through events like these,” said Amy Seitz Heron, executive director of philanthropy at CHRISTUS Foundation ShreveportBossier. “Donors can enjoy a round of golf and support their community at the same time.”

For more information on the CHRISTUS Coushatta transport van, contact CHRISTUS Coushatta Health Care Clinic at (318) 932-2081. To support programs like this, visit https://

christusfoundationshreveportbossier.org

BOSSIER CITY FARMERS’ MARKET

Location: Pierre Bossier Mall

Parking Lot

Date & Time: 9-1pm on July 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th

EVENTS

Info: BossierCityFarmersMarket.com

14TH ANNUAL KICKOFF DINNER BY RADIANCE TECHNOLOGIES INDEPENDENCE BOWL

Location: Shreveport Convention

Date & Time: July 15th

Info: IndependenceBowl.org/shop

RED RIVER BALLOON RALLY

Location: Louisiana Downs, Bossier City

Date & Time: July 12-13th

Info: redriverballoonrally. com

SHREVEPORT FARMERS’ MARKET

Location: Shreveport’s Festival Plaza

Date & Time: 7:30am-12:30pm on July 6th, 13th, 20th, 27th

Info: Facebook:ShreveportFar mersMarket

KREWE OF ATLAS CORONATION XVII

Location: Elks Club

Date & Time: 6-10pm July 13th

Info: Kreweofatlas.org

JULY 4TH KTBS FREEDOM FEST

Location: Riverview Park

Date & Time: 7-10pm, July 4th

Info: ktbs.com/ freedomfest

40TH ANNUAL FIRECRACKER 5K RACE FOR RESEARCH

Location: Mall St. Vincent

Date & Time: 7:30am July 4th

Info: Facebook:Firecrack er5kRaceforResearch

CAJUN CRUISERS CAR SHOW

Location: Louisiana Boardwalk

Date & Time: 11am-5pm, July 20th

Info: Facebook: LouisianaBoardwalk

Location: American Rose Center

Date & Time: 5:30pm-10pm, July 4, 2024

RED, WHITE, AND BLOOMS AT THE AMERICAN ROSE CENTER

Info: $10 per person or $30 per family 4-pack

MOVIE REVIEW

Good films do not have an expiration date. Being relatively new in terms of storytelling, movies are a unique medium that creates experiences for audiences in all walks of life. The birth of as we know them today can be traced back about a century ago with the technology to synchronize sound and moving images. With more and more films being released every year on every screen, finding new stories to enjoy has never been easier. However, as with most mediums, with variety comes the novelty of ‘new’. This has given some the idea that the newest is always the best option and that unless a film is exceptionally good, movies have an expiration date. I do not believe this to be the case. Allow me to introduce to you a movie that was released 65 years ago that is one of my personal favorites: The Five Pennies (1959).

Produced by Paramount Pictures, The Five Pennies (1959) is a musical that is loosely based on a true story. It was directed by Melville Shavelson, and stars Danny Kaye, Barbra Bel Geddes, and Louis Armstrong. Kaye plays Red Nichols, a small-town jazz musician who moves to New York City to try to make it big. He eventually succeeds and forms a band that has some of the greats in it like Jimmy Dorsey and Benny Goodman. However, when his daughter contracts polio he gives it all up to take care of his family. It’s a story that involves integrity, sacrifice, and when is it important to do what you love versus to be with the ones you love. If you like jazz, history, or old-fashioned family values being carefully discussed in your stories, you might like this movie.

If you are not a fan of musicals, I still highly recommend this movie. It is not simply a musical but a diegetic musical. Because it is about a composer and musician, every singing or main musical scene is purposely sung by characters who know they are singing. They don’t break out into song because their emotions get too big, and they barely dance if at all. When Nichols puts his daughter to sleep, he sings her a lullaby. When Nichols and his wife are in a hospital waiting room, they are too emotional to sing, but they recite lyrics to a hymn because they are trying to focus on hope.

If you do like music and musicals though, the complexity of the music will be what interests you. The film’s title comes from the real-life band that Red Nichols led in the late 1920’s, but the recurring theme of the movie is a lullaby that is an original song called The Five Pennines. It appears multiple times in the movie, but it also appears with two other stacking melodies that are also lullabies. At a few points in the film, there are a few moments with full counterbalance duets. An example is when Louis Armstrong is singing “Goodnight, Sleep Tight” in a nightclub scene, then Danny Kaye starts singing “Lullaby in Ragtime”, then Susan Gordon, who was about eight at the time, joins in and sings “The Five Pennies”. All three songs stack beautifully on top of each other yet are as wholesome as individual songs.

The movie has some heavy scenes to it, but I watch it whenever I’m in the mood to be cheered up. Danny Kaye’s signature humor keeps the darkness of childhood illness and daily struggles of life to a light level. Perfect for movie night when you just want to watch something beautiful. You can rent this movie on Amazon Prime, YouTube, or Apple TV, for less than five dollars. You can also stream the soundtrack on Spotify or YouTube.

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We are a ‘boutique’ publication — nearly 25 years old, by the way, thanks to you — and while we have a soft spot for the finer things, we honor our roots. Always.

So, while not all of us qualify as “redneck” or even wish to be, we at least recognize the shade. We are Southern as grits so … How I define “redneck” is in the same ballpark as how I define pornography: it’s tough to put into words, but I know it when I see it.

Some people are offended by the “R” word, but not the true redneck. True rednecks wear the label as a badge of honor. They are the “I’ve Been to Pigeon Forge!” bumper sticker crowd, the people who have kitchens that smell like Pabst and linoleum and cathead biscuits, the people whose jeans are ripped because they got caught on rebar, not because it’s the style. Their scent is Pledge and motor oil and Old Spice.

The rednecks I’m talking about are of the Jeff Foxworthy variety, the ones who put their new television sets on top of their old television sets.

A friend from redneck lineage told me this week that back in the day, when their TV practically gave out and was down to getting picture only, Uncle Lester brought over his TV because – talk about a match made in Redneck Heaven! – it would get sound only.

Stack the two, and bam! -- Redneck Entertainment Center. Just fry up the bologna sandwiches, adjust the rabbit ears, recline in the duct-taped easy chair, and stay tuned for “This Week in NASCAR.” Anybody got an onion?

I am hopeful that the Griswold Family franchise will eventually put out a movie called “Redneck Vacation.” There is a fertile field to plow here. The setting would be your greater Gulf Shores/Orange Beach area, I would hope. The Redneck Riviera.

The French Riviera has resorts like Capd’Ail and Beaulieu-sur-Mer, with yachting and real French people. The Redneck Riviera has Shoalwater Condos and parasailing off the fishing dock, and a real Cajun who’ll scream “Jellyfish!” just to make the guy standing next to him in waistdeep water spill his beer.

Hard to believe, but there are The Great Unwashed among us who still wonder why we call this beckoning stretch of sand the Redneck Riviera. All these summer beach trips, and they’ve missed seeing the wind and waves and tattoos? The unfiltereds and the red lipstick mixed with Coppertone? The vacationing truckers in cut-off blue jeans? Oh, how blind we can be…

Sometimes, to establish themselves, the redneck gods have to play hardball. This very thing happened years ago, not 20 feet

from my sandy beach chair, when a very senior citizen in Bermuda shorts put a beach towel around his waist, right there by your lapping Orange Beach waves. He had a pair of swim trunks in his hand. Suddenly, one hand went sort of under his towel at his waist area. The Bermuda shorts dropped to his ankles. Hello!

Then he bent and attempted to put on the trunks. The towel slipped a bit. Or maybe the towel cracked. It was supposed to stay up, I guess. It didn’t. Was this a circus act? Were we on Candid Camera?

Suddenly, there was a full moon, and not the pretty kind, at 9 a.m. But the (redneck) gentleman just pulled his trunks up and set about enjoying the rest of his day at the beach with his family, who didn’t even look up from reading their Popular Mechanics while he was changing because I suppose they’d seen it all before. Literally.

And there, in living color, is your Redneck Riviera defined. Hate to put that picture in your mind, but life is filled with hard lessons. Can’t wait to go back.

Teddy at teddy@latech.edu

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