Letters from CAMP Rehoboth, Vol. 28, No. 13

Block Party 2018 Last Days of Summer

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September 21, 2018 Volume 28, Number 13 camprehoboth.com

Inside This Issue

In Brief....................................................................................... 4 CAMP Matters — The Last Days of Summer............................. 6 CAMP Out — Avez-vous Any Ice?.............................................. 8 CAMP News..............................................................................12 Block Party 2018: Creating Community................................... 14 Intentionally Inclusive — The Bachelorettes............................16 Community Feature — Pets R Us............................................18 CAMP Critters ......................................................................... 20 Sundance Wrap-Up — All the Tribes....................................... 25 CAMP Heath and Wellness...................................................... 32 CAMP Cheers!......................................................................... 40 It’s My Life — Back to Fifth Grade........................................... 44 CAMP Stories — Frat Boys and Football................................. 46 Volunteer Spotlight — Terry Kistler and Chris Berg................ 48 Community Health — PrEP...................................................... 50 Community News.................................................................... 52 Straight Talk — Hocus Pocus on SCOTUS............................... 56 View Point — Beating Back the Trolls..................................... 62 Millennial Times — Letting Go of Objects............................... 64 CAMP Shots — In the Name of Love....................................... 68 The Real Dirt — Hydrangea Everywhere................................ 78 Q Puzzle — Zany Wealthy Persons.......................................... 86 Out & Proud —That “I Voted” Sticker...................................... 88 Amazon Trail — Those Slippers Were Not Ruby Red.............. 96 Out & About — Jack Ryan – The Series.................................. 98 CAMP Arts — Orange is the New Green................................100 Booked Solid — Whiskey When We’re Dry ...........................104 Reb Lisa Levine — Seaside Jewish Community Center.........108 Eating Out — go fish!............................................................. 110 CAMP Dates — September 21 – October 20..........................114 Letters from CAMP Rehoboth welcomes submissions.

Email editor@camprehoboth.com. Photographs must be high resolution (300 dpi). Documents should be sent as attachments in Microsoft Word®. Deadline for submissions is two weeks prior to the issue release date.

On the cover

Block by Block, cover design by Mary Beth Ramsey.

Resources Serving Delaware’s Coastal Area ACLU of DE Lesbian & Gay Civil Rights Project ..................................................... 302-654-3966 AIDS Delaware New Castle County........................................................................ 302-652-6776 AIDS Delaware Kent & Sussex Counties................................................................ 302-226-3519 AIDS Hotline Delaware statewide.......................................................................... 800-422-0429 CAMP Chorus a program of the CAMP Rehoboth Community Center................... 302-227-5620 CAMP Rehoboth Community Center LGBTQ Community Service Organization ....... 302-227-5620 CAMP Rehoboth Families allows LGBTQ parents to connect.................................. 302-227-5620 CAMP Rehoboth Parents of Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Children........... 302-227-5620 CAMPsafe AIDS Education & Prevention program of CAMP Rehoboth ................ 302-227-5620 Christiana Care HIV Wellness Clinic AIDS Support Services, Georgetown............... 302-933-3420 Christiana Care LGBTQ Health Initiatives TRodden@christianacare.org................... 302-733-1227 Delaware HIV Consortium HIV Treatment & Prevention, Statewide ....................... 302-654-5471 Delaware Human Relations Commission Housing & Public Accomodation ............. 877-544-8626 Delaware Pride Community events, annual Pride Festival.................................... 302-265-3020 Delaware Transgender Support Support for Trans Men & Women......................... 302-402-3033 Gay/Lesbian Alcoholics Anonymous Call for other schedules................................... 302-856-6452 Saturdays at 6 pm: Epworth Church, 19285 Holland Glade Rd. (Step Meeting) Saturdays at 7:30 pm: All Saint’s Church, 18 Olive Ave. (Step Meeting) Tuesdays at Noon: St. Peter’s Church, 211 Mulberry St., Lewes (Step Meeting) Thursdays at Noon: CAMP Rehoboth, 37 Baltimore Ave. (Open Discussion) Gay Men’s Support Group a program of the CAMP Rehoboth Community Center............. 302-227-5620 LGBT Student Union University of DE, Newark........................................................ 302-831-8066 Lesbian Support Group a program of the CAMP Rehoboth Community Center...............302-227-5620 Letters from CAMP Rehoboth LGBTQ Magazine...................................................... 302-227-5620 National Alliance on Mental Illness of DE (NAMI)....................................................... 302-427-0787 PFLAG - Rehoboth 2nd Tuesday, Public Library, 111 Adams Ave., Lewes............. 302-841-1339 SLAA and SAA Thursdays at 7:30 pm.................................................................... 302-745-7929 All Saint’s Church, 18 Olive Ave. (Church Hall-Lower Level), Rehoboth TransLiance of Delaware Rehoboth TransLiance meets the 4th Tuesday of every month 7 pm at MCC Church. Contact TransLiance@gmail.com

HELP KEEP THIS LIST CURRENT BY CALLING 302-227-5620 IF A LISTING IS INCORRECT.

CAMP Rehoboth Mission Statement and Purpose CAMP Rehoboth is a nonprofit community service organization dedicated to creating a more positive environment in Rehoboth Beach and its related communities. We seek to promote cooperation and understanding among all people, as we work to build safe, inclusive communities with room for all.

We seek to promote community well-being on all levels; to foster the development of community groups; to develop community space; to promote human and civil rights; to work against prejudice and discrimination; to lessen tensions among the community at large; and to help foster the economic growth of the area. We work toward these ends through activities such as the following: Fundraising for other organizations, such as AIDS service organizations, gay and lesbian community organizations, recycling programs, environmental projects, literacy training, and other ventures for the general betterment of the community.

Networking resources and information by publishing a newsletter, and functioning as an alternative tourist bureau and information center.

Promoting artistic expressions and creative thinking, and giving aid to artists and craftspeople with an emphasis on the works of lesbians and gay men.

Education and outreach to the larger community, including sensitivity training seminars, and printed materials to promote positive images of gay and lesbian people and others.

Promoting political awareness to build safe and inclusive community through voter information, education, and registration; and analysis of issues and candidates.

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EDITOR IN CHIEF Murray Archibald INTERIM EDITOR Fay Jacobs DESIGN AND LAYOUT Mary Beth Ramsey EDITORIAL ASSISTANCE Marj Shannon ADVERTISING SALES MANAGER Tricia Massella ADMINISTRATIVE SUPPORT Monica Parr, Barb Ralph DISTRIBUTION Tom Craft, Corky Fitzpatrick CONTRIBUTORS Murray Archibald, Sondra N. Arkin, Rich Barnett, Tony Burns, William Chasanov, Wesley Combs, Stefani Deoul, Michael Thomas Ford, David Garrett, Michael Gilles, Fay Jacobs, Lee Lynch, Tricia Massella, Monica Parr, Eric C. Peterson, Mary Beth Ramsey, Richard Rosendall, Terri Schlichenmeyer, James Adams Smith, Eric W. Wahl, Debbie Woods, Doug Yetter VOLUME 28, NUMBER 13 • September 21, 2018 Letters from CAMP Rehoboth is published 15 times per year, between February and Thanksgiving, as a program of CAMP Rehoboth Inc., a non-profit community service organization.

CAMP Rehoboth seeks to create a more positive environment of cooperation and understanding among all people. Revenue generated by advertisements supports CAMP Rehoboth’s purpose as outlined in our mission statement.

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PRESIDENT • Chris Beagle VICE PRESIDENT • Leslie Sinclair SECRETARY • Shelley Couch TREASURER • Natalie Moss, CPA AT-LARGE DIRECTORS Jane Blue, Mike DeFlavia, Max Dick, Kathy McGuiness, Jack Morrison, Glen Pruitt, Mark Purpura, Tara Sheldon, Kathy Wiz INTERIM EXECUTIVE DIRECTOR • Murray Archibald HEALTH PROGRAM DIRECTOR • Sal Seeley CAMP Rehoboth 37 Baltimore Avenue Rehoboth Beach, DE 19971 302-227-5620 • Fax 302-227-5604 e-mail: editor@camprehoboth.com www.camprehoboth.com CAMP Rehoboth, Inc. is tax-exempt under section 501(c)(3) of the United States Internal Revenue Code. Contributions to CAMP Rehoboth are considered charitable contributions for federal income tax purposes and may be deducted to the fullest extent of the law. A copy of our exemption document is available for public inspection.

The Way I See It

by Murray Archibald I’M ALWAYS A LITTLE SURPRISED TO DISCOVER THAT WE’VE MADE IT THROUGH ANOTHER BUSY summer season—and another Sundance. Though still busy, September still brings a respite for the intense pace of summertime, and I’m happy to say that we are now back on our monthly publication schedule for Letters from CAMP Rehoboth.▽ I AM DEEPLY GRATEFUL TO EVERYONE WHO WORKED TO MAKE THIS YEAR’S SUNDANCE A BIG success. The event would not happen without incredible support from Sponsors, Supporters, Hosts, Auction Donors, and Volunteers. All of them are listed on our Sundance Thank You pages in this issue. I was happy to see that the addition of the Sundance Disco Twilight Tea with Robbie Leslie was a big hit. I don’t think I’ve ever seen the dance floor explode like that. A halfhour after the doors opened, a full blown dance party was in full swing. By the time the first beat of Kelly Marie’s “Feels Like I’m in Love” hit the floor at just under 43 minutes into the dance, no one could sit still, and there were smiles all around. That was followed by “No Regrets”— something none of us on the dance floor had that night. For those who do regret missing the evening, take heart, Robbie has already agreed to come back next year. Disco lives!▽ FOR ALL THOSE ON OUR CONSTANT CONTACT EMAIL LIST, I HOPE YOU ARE ENJOYING OUR weekly updates. We have tried this summer to consolidate all our messages to make it easy to keep up with what’s happening at CAMP Rehoboth and to avoid an inundating flood of different emails—something we all have enough of as it is. For those not receiving the emails, please subscribe. A word of caution: if at any point you have ever unsubscribed—deliberately or accidentally—to CAMP Rehoboth Constant Contacts, we cannot add you back without your permission by email. We can forward an email to you with a subscribe button in it, but we cannot do it for you.▽ ONE OF THE NEWEST CAMP REHOBOTH EVENTS HAS QUICKLY BECOME A COMMUNITY FAVORITE. Though only in its fourth year, the CAMP Rehoboth Block Party has grown, not only in popularity but in size. For more about CAMP Rehoboth Block Party 2018, check out the article in this issue. For vendor or sponsor information call the CAMP Rehoboth office. Block Party 2018 is Sunday, October 14 from noon to 4 p.m. in the second block of Baltimore Avenue.▽ AS WE MOVE INTO THE FALL SEASON, OUR STRATEGIC PLANNING PROCESS CONTINUES, AND AS I announced at Sundance, on Saturday, September 29 there will be a community meeting at CAMP Rehoboth. Space for the meeting is limited and all participants must register. As we go to press there are still some spaces available, but I have no idea if that will still be the case by the time this issue hits the streets a week later. The meeting is open to all who have not previously participated in a focus group or an interview. If space is still available, register at camprehoboth.com.▽ CAMP REHOBOTH IS A BUSY PLACE AND THE FALL SEASON COMES WITH A VARIETY OF ACTIVITIES and programs at the CAMP Rehoboth Community Center. In addition to our regular support groups and free HIV testing (at multiple sites, too), Tai Chi starts back on September 26 (1 p.m.), and Jana Kamminga and Niki Nicholson are leading group walks on the beautiful trails of Rehoboth and Lewes. See CAMP Health and Wellness in this issue for more.▽ THIS YEAR’S SUNDANCE WAS IN MEMORY OF MY HUSBAND AND SUNDANCE AND CAMP REHOBOTH Co-founder, Steve Elkins. He would be very proud of all of us. At the beginning of the summer I was uncertain if I could make it all the way through the season—and I’m quite sure I would not have without the community-wide support I received along the way. Thank you!▽

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InBrief Around the World with Letters!

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ATLANTIS CRUISE - ITALY AND GREECE Ed Miller, Ed Hotaling, Tom Negran, Jim Newkirk, Leon Wilkowsky, Marc-Anthony Worosilo, Max Dick

PROVINCETOWN Eric Engelhart and Chris Beagle Letters 4

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Free Flu Shots at CAMP—October 2 Don’t take a chance on getting sick this winter! On Tuesday, October 2, CAMP Rehoboth once again teams up with Beebe Healthcare to offer free flu shots at the CAMP Rehoboth Community Center. Flu shots will be available all afternoon, (from 1:30 until 6 p.m.). Just walk in. ▼

It’s Bear Weekend in Rehoboth Beach An amazing roster of events and entertainment are planned for the 4th Annual Rehoboth Beach Bear Weekend September 21-23 with tickets at RehobothBeachBears.com.

Bears and their admirers can get their paws on weekend passes ($115) or individual tickets. ▼

The Ladies of the 80s Meet the Ladies of the White House! Drag Volleyball Turns 30!

In a “who wore it better moment,”The Ladies of the White House and The Ladies of the 80s Aerobic Team strutted onto Poodle Beach. It was a great game and a good time for participants and spectators alike. Congrats to the Ladies of the White House for their 25-19 victory. Celebrating 30 years, Drag Volleyball on Poodle Beach has become a Rehoboth Beach Labor Day weekend tradition. ▼

news and notes

Labor Day Weekend: Celebrating Sundance 2018! Disco and Joy In the Name of Love!

Back home in the Rehoboth Beach Convention Center, the 31st Sundance benefit— Rainbow XXXI: In the Name of Love—on Labor Day weekend was a huge success and will net more than $135,000 thanks to hundreds of Sponsors, Supporters, Hosts, volunteers, auction donors, and attendees. DJs Robbie Leslie and Joe Gauthreaux kept the dance floor packed all night. ▼

The Very First Annual Rainbow Raft-Up and Bay Pride Celebration Rocked—and Raised Funds (and Fun) for CAMP Rehoboth The August 26 Rainbow Raft-up on Rehoboth Bay brought out 27 boats, plus 40 party-goers on the Sand Dollar Pontoon Boat. Besides the swimming, schmoozing, and sandbar fun, the event raised $1000 for CAMP Rehoboth. ▼ SEPTEMBER 21, 2018

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CAMP Matters

by Murray Archibald

THE LAST DAYS OF

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That’s what life is, joy and pain all wrapped up together—the highs and the lows, success and failure, abundance and loss. I am thankful to be living in a generous, loving, and caring community that supports us through both the good times and the bad.

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all is a lovely time of the year. It is also bittersweet, like a flower moments past its prime—still beautiful in all its glory but with a foreshadowing of decay not quite visible, made manifest only by an almost imperceptible curling around the outer edges.

Fall is a time of harvest—a time to reap the bounty of the summer season.

Fall is a time of preparation for the coming winter months. Fall is a time for reflection and evaluation.

So here I am. The summer season is over for this year. Sundance, for the most part, has been wrapped up, labeled, and packed away until next August. The day is wet and the skies are gray.

Ahead of us: strategic planning, staff analysis, meetings, reports, the Block Party, World AIDS Day, the Film Festival, publishing deadlines—the business of CAMP Rehoboth.

As a diversion I look back at the photos I took during the summer. There are not as many as usual, but I pull a few favorites and contemplate for a time writing a photo essay.

Then I remember.

Today is the actual day of my anniversary. Sundance was the party.

Today was the day we always set aside for the two of us. I am incapable of evaluating the summer without taking into account Steve’s absence—that void that I attempted to fill all summer by working seven days a week and pushing myself into an exhausted sleep every night.

I’ve long said that our success at CAMP Rehoboth over the years was not our skill but our persistence, and that just might be the way I made it through the season—by not giving up—step by step, day by day.

What I do know on this most bittersweet of all days is that we have done some good work over the months since Steve passed away. Most impressive to me is that the production of Letters from CAMP Rehoboth is no longer something that lives only inside my head. The magazine has been analyzed, documented, and properly staffed. I am deeply grateful to our brilliant friend Sondra Arkin who continues to serve behind the scenes as Transition Consultant, taking on much of my former volunteer work in communications so that I can do my work as Interim Executive Director. Her efforts along with those of Mary Beth Ramsey, Fay Jacobs, Tricia Massella, Marj Shannon, Monica Parr, and Barb Ralph—as well as all of our advertisers and writers—have made Letters a better communications tool. All of it now resides in the cloud, enabling staff to work from multiple locations and with far more flexibility than ever before.

Over the past few months our almost year-long strategic planning process continued, with most of the summer taken up with information gathering in the form of individual interviews and small forums led by our DANA consultant Sheila Bravo. At the same time, a complete staff analysis is also in progress to properly account for all paid and unpaid positions and resources needed to support our work.

I certainly can’t, at this point, predict the final outcome of all this planning and hard work. But in the end, I’m confident we will have a well-crafted plan for the future of CAMP Rehoboth.

Since 1997, the history of CAMP Rehoboth has been archived on our website as each issue of Letters was added online. Granted, some of those earlier years are not in great shape, and don’t seem to have weathered the more recent website redesigns as well as the newer pages, but most of the information is still intact—even if some of the spacing and punctuation is not.

In contemplating our history on this day of our 40th anniversary, I searched our

THANK YOU to our sponsors! website for Steve’s column and September, knowing that I would find his thoughts regarding both this time of year and the aftermath of Sundance. 9/11 is there of course, and so are remembrances of past Sundance successes—especially in the years before the recession when auction prices soared and so did our profits.

In September of 2004, his words seemed particularly fitting. He began by marveling over the success of Sundance that year (which I believe was our all-time high), and then stating: “At the same time, our beloved dog Sam got sick and went into the hospital and died. That’s what life is, joy and pain all wrapped up together—the highs and the lows, success and failure, abundance and loss. I am thankful to be living in a generous, loving, and caring community that supports us through both the good times and the bad.”

I echo those words today, knowing all the more the truth of finding joy even when pain and grief are overwhelming.

There will never be any doubt in my mind about the loving nature of this community we call home.

So yes, today is bittersweet. We’ve had a great success with Sundance, but Steve’s loss is still very much with me— and with our organization. On a whim, I went all the way back to Steve’s column in the 1997 issue of Letters—the first one online—and discovered this passage written in CAMP Rehoboth’s seventh year: “Remember that song with the line: ‘my head is in a spin, my feet won’t touch the ground?’ That’s the way I have felt after this past summer. Now, however, there is a little breathing space between deadlines, and there is more time for me to think about the direction CAMP Rehoboth needs to move in the next few years. More and more in conversations around the CAMP office we find ourselves talking about the need to develop into a Community Center.

This summer Murray even suggested a retreat center, and we’ve laughingly talked about a retirement center for years, only the older we get the less we seem to laugh about it.

Some things remain only dreams; others become the stuff of which the future is made. Of course we have to keep in mind the first rule of Sussex County—all in good time. It’s taken us seven years to get to this point. I wonder where the next seven years will take us?”

Well, we know the answer to that question now, but, of course, it’s time to ask it all over again.

Where will the next seven years take us?

All in good time, my friends, all in good time. ▼

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CAMP Out Fay’s Rehoboth Journal

by Fay Jacobs

Avez-vous Any Ice?

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onnie and I just blew out our travel budget with two weeks in France and Switzerland following our week at the Paris Gay Games. Next summer we get to travel to Millsboro.

Instead of my writing about the magnificent sights, here are some insights we gleaned.

In big cities, like Paris and Geneva, hundreds of grown men in business suits commute on teeny tiny stand-up scooters like we rode in our toddlerhoods. It’s a bit oxymoronic.

Europeans don’t understand ice. For the most part they make awful cocktails and serve them and soft drinks lukewarm with one or two small cubes at most.

Water is served only slightly chilled.

Since it was over 95 degrees for most of the trip, we resorted to guzzling ice cold beer every single day—once, at a late breakfast. Beer saved our hydration levels and our vacation. We’re now doing caloric penance.

In the Alps, even without a fear of heights, you’ll reconsider by the time you get up to the Mont Blanc viewing platform via two cable cars, an elevator, and a set of daunting metal steps. Then you step out onto the glass floor of a two-person glass cube, suspended in mid-air over snowy pointy peaks.

Gorgeously unnerving.

We’d have spent more time up top but started suffering hypoxia, described on a warning sign as trouble breathing and, from lack of oxygen, decreased brain activity. These days I can’t afford a decrease.

By the way, immediately after descending from our scary sunrise adventure, we had that breakfast beer.

Between the deep freeze up top at 12,600 feet and global warming on the ground, I’d never been so cold and so hot on the same day.

A Mont Blanc pen purchase was out as it cost almost as much as the vacation.

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thousands of shops with windows full of absurdly expensive wrist watches. Neon signs shine atop skyscrapers, reading Rolex, Patek Phillipe, TAG Heuer, Tissot, and even Swatch. Nobody has to ask anybody for the time.

Also in Geneva, the owner of a charming little restaurant asked “What state are you from?” We said “Delaware,” expecting a blank look, but he said “Ahhh, tax shelters!” Our reputation precedes us.

Between the deep freeze up top at 12,600 feet and global warming on the ground, I’d never been so cold and so hot on the same day.

Arriving in Zermatt in late afternoon with plans to leave early the next morning, we rushed to a cable car for our only chance to see the Matterhorn. But billowing clouds completely shrouded the famed peak. An hour later, after checking into our boutique hotel room (a synonym for boutique is miniscule) we stepped out onto the tiny balcony and there it was, a cloudless, stunning Matterhorn. We hit the mini-bar, then sat and savored the view.

In all the small towns, and some larger cities, you could easily make a film spanning several centuries without having to cover up any signs of contemporary life. I’m sure inside the houses there were computers, 55inch TVs and Roombas, but other than moving a few late model Audis, BMWs, and satellite dishes, all the exteriors remain historically intact. No vinyl siding anywhere.

Did you know there are more than 60 miles of champagne cellars (Mumm, Veuve Cliquot, Tattinger, Pommery, and lots more) weaving their way under the city of Reims? Excavated in the 1700s for building material for the city, the resulting caves have been producing champagne for three centuries. The caves also served as hospitals, schools, and housing during the relentless bombing by the Germans in both world wars.

We toured, tasted, and learned that the Veuve in Cliquot means ‘widow’ and the veuve Cliquot, in 1805, at age 27, was the first woman to take over operation of a major champagne house.

I’ll drink to that.

We took comfortable trains through the Alps, laughing, holding onto our sliding wine glasses in the dining car as we headed steeply up or down mountains. We drove from the Alps back to flatter terrain in Dijon (“Have you any Grey Poupon?”) with Bonnie handling the ridiculously twisting, switchback roads like a NASCAR driver.

And then there were the dogs, absolutely everywhere, including dining with us inside most restaurants. We ate Gruyere cheese fondue in the town of Gruyere; photographed the Paris house where Gertrude Stein and Alice B. Toklas lived; ate chocolate croissants, baguettes, and crepes to die for. Also snails. And a ton of cheese. I could go on….

But we were happy to come home to our much-missed dog, a mountain of ice in our Cokes, well-mixed drinks, and our boutique-like manufactured home with its vinyl siding. Oh, and the best Sundance weekend EVER. But I kinda miss the excuse for having a guilt-free cold brewski. ▼ Fay Jacobs is an author of five published memoirs. Her newest is Fried & Convicted: Rehoboth Beach Uncorked. As a humorist, she’s touring with her show Aging Gracelessly: 50 Shades of Fay. See fayjacobs.com

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CAMPNews CROP: Cultivating Community, One Project at a Time Stakeholder

Community Meeting

by Debbie Woods

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e are all strengthened by the community in which we live.

CAMP Rehoboth Outreach Program (CROP) promotes this vision by cultivating relationships and partnering with local organizations that provide a variety of community benefits.

CROP recently helped at the International Student Outreach Program (ISOP), and it was enlightening. Not only was a delicious meal served to the visiting students, there was a bounty of food available for the students to take home.

Students selected from a cornucopia of fresh fruits and vegetables—peaches, tomatoes, peppers, and more—to provide Volunteer Peter Keeble nourishing meals throughout the week. A second highlight was the camaraderie. Volunteers interacted with students from around the world—Moldova, Romania, Turkey, and more. The students worked on refining their English language skills and willingly shared about their homeland studies and their summer experiences in Rehoboth Beach.

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 28

As is done periodically, and as CAMP Rehoboth faces the future, strategic plans are underway. Community input is crucial; ideas and opinions matter. Come join the discussion at a special stakeholder meeting on Saturday, September 29, in the Community Center. It’s free to attend, but space is limited, so go online to camprehoboth.com and make a reservation for the morning event. ▼

Upcoming CROPportunities Saturday, September 22 AIDS Walk Delaware Rehoboth, 8:30 a.m. to noon

Join us at the 32nd Annual AIDS Walk Delaware, which starts in Grove Park, Rehoboth. If you did not sign up to volunteer, please consider walking or donate! Registration begins at 9 a.m.

Saturday, October 20 Delaware Botanic Gardens Dagsboro, 8:30 a.m. to noon

We will be digging in, both metaphorically and literally, as CROP returns to the Delaware Botanic Gardens in Dagsboro. We will help to keep the momentum going as DBG continues to grow and become a world-class, inspirational, educational, and sustainable public botanic garden in southern Delaware. As an option, you can bring a brown-bag lunch and have a tour of the gardens and woodland afterwards.

Saturday, November 10 Rehoboth Beach Film Festival Cape Henlopen High School Lewes

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help. The volunteer team will assist with ticket taking and more. There will be several shifts throughout the day.

Tuesday, November 13 Food Bank of Delaware Milford, 1 to 4 p.m.

The Food Bank of Delaware provides low and no-cost food to qualified programs throughout the greater Delaware region. CROP will once again be sorting and packing food so that families in need will have a happy and nourishing Thanksgiving holiday.

CROP has a project for everyone!

Come join us and cultivate community by strengthening relationships and the deep levels of connection between us all. If you are interested in participating in one of these projects, or would like more information, please email crop@ camprehoboth.com. ▼ Debbie is an active volunteer with CAMP Rehoboth and also serves on the Membership Committee. She has lived full time in Rehoboth since 2009, when she retired after a long career in the Federal Government.

Author Reading

SATURDAY, SEPTEMBER 29 8:30-9:30 A.M., LEWES PUBLIC LIBRARY PRESENTATION ROOM A Join other book lovers as CAMP Rehoboth introduces Robert Fieseler, author of Tinderbox: The Untold Story of the Up Stairs Lounge Fire and the Rise of Gay Liberation at the History Book Festival. This essential work of American civil rights history reconstructs the 1973 arsonist’s fire that was the largest mass murder of gays until 2016. Fieseler is a recipient of the Pulitzer Traveling Fellowship and the Lynton Fellowship in Book Writing. The History Book Festival in Lewes September 28-30 is a first-ofits-kind way to hear more than 20 bestselling authors of current non-fiction and fiction. ▼

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fter the huge success of the first three CAMP Rehoboth block parties, get ready for an even bigger, better Block Party for 2018.

On Sunday, October 14, from 12-4 p.m., the second block of Baltimore Avenue will once again welcome locals, visitors, entertainers, vendors, artists, and non-profits. Last fall it was estimated that the block party drew well over a thousand attendees, and there was plenty of room, food, and goodies to accommodate an even larger crowd.

Local favorite Anna Rexia returns to emcee again, this year assisted by the lovely Fancie P. Charmington for double the fun. As for the entertainment, there is a lengthy roster of performers who will now grace two performance stages: in addition to the stage in front of the CAMP Rehoboth Courtyard, a West End Stage will have non-stop entertainment near Second Street at Aqua.

Performers are being added daily, with the roster (so far) including the extremely popular Bettenroo duo, Mona Lotts and those amazing Blue Moon performers, the stellar talents of the CAMP Rehoboth Chorus Ensemble, a group of brilliant Clear Space Theatre performers, the remarkable duo The Family Jewells, the rocking, rolling Girlfriends, chanteuse/mixologist Holly Lane, the lightning piano craft of Matt Kenworthy, and the Purple Parrot Bird Cage Bad Girls, who are a tradition all their own.

What’s a party without food?

There are lots of loyal vendors who have been at the block party every year and will be back again. There will certainly be hot dogs, overstuffed sandwiches, fish and chips, tacos, health food, pizza, and some interesting gourmet choices.

Plus you can browse the arts with a host of artists and galleries there with paintings, photography, and more. Shoppers can have a field day with home accents, T-shirts, fine clothing, jewelry, and lots of surprises. There’s even a bounce house for youngsters!

And if it’s information about health, travel, investing, or carbuying you’re seeking—that too will be available. Even the Delaware Humane Association will be there with new family member candidates.

The giant block party runs from 12-4 p.m. Entry to the party is always free, but donations to CAMP Rehoboth are appreciated.

You can donate on the website (camprehoboth.com) or at any block party entrance.

CAMP Rehoboth Board President Chris Beagle, heading up the block party effort, says “We are very excited about the increase in artisans this year and seeing the block party continue to grow. With additional vendors and entertainment, and with a second stage, the afternoon should have something for everyone to enjoy. The block party truly embodies community and what Rehoboth means by room for all.”

A limited number of new vendor spaces is available for reservation on a first-come basis. The block party is a tremendous way to reach a broad and diverse group of people, while supporting CAMP Rehoboth. So sign up with the vendor form online or call 302-227-5620.

It’ll be a beautiful day in the neighborhood! Don’t miss it. ▼

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by Wesley Combs

Oh No! Here Comes Another Bachelorette Party!

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f you want to stir up some controversy among a group of gay men who frequent gay bars, ask them what they think about heterosexual bachelorette parties. Some of you may wonder why gay men would have a strong opinion on this topic at a time when marriage equality is the law of the land. For those of you with a quizzical look on your face, let me take a moment to explain.

Media coverage over the past 30 years of the struggle to secure LGBTQ civil rights protections has helped to dispel negative stereotypes about LGBTQ people. In fact, I played a role in helping shine a light on our community back in the mid-90s and early 2000s when I co-owned a communications and marketing consultancy with my good friend Bob Witeck.

Our work with clients like the International Gay and Lesbian Travel Association raised awareness about the impact of discrimination in public accommodations like hotels, restaurants, and bars. Part of the story we wanted journalists to understand was how the LGBTQ community created its own safe spaces where they could be around people like them and know they would not have to worry about being mistreated.

Establishments like The Blue Moon here in Rehoboth and Nellie’s in Washington, DC were soon being featured in mainstream news stories in the travel section as top destinations in each city for LGBTQ people. One thing that both bars had in common were the wildly popular drag shows that caught the attention of non-LGBTQ people looking to be entertained.

Flash forward to 2010 when heterosexual bachelorette parties began to include one of these popular spots as a stop on their nightly party train. In my experience, the first groups of women were mostly low key, mingling well with the rest of the group while wearing those ridiculous “Bride Squad” sashes and sipping drinks with a penis shaped straw.

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As LGBTQ people became more mainstream and shows like RuPaul’s Drag Race showcased the over-the-top performers, the audiences got bigger and feistier. In the “be careful what you wish for” department, this is where the story begins to look less like Will and Grace and more like the Hatfields and McCoys.

Soon, not only was it commonplace for multiple bachelorette parties to be at a bar on a weekend night but they were increasingly comfortable being “themselves,” which included letting their hair down in a big way—getting louder the more drunk they got.

It was not what they were doing that rubbed people the wrong way, it was how and why they were doing it. I cannot tell you how many times I have been asked to join these little celebrations even when I clearly was not interested.

This is where the story begins to look less like Will and Grace and more like the Hatfields and McCoys.

Recently, a friend told me that after he politely declined a similar offer, a woman wearing a “The Bride’s Entourage” T-shirt asked if he were gay or straight. “I told her I was gay and she replied ‘what a waste’ and walked away.”

In a 2017 New York Times article, a drag queen known as Miz Cracker spoke about the way tensions may escalate at drag shows. “A straight girl, with the strength of merlot, will stand in front of you, stick her pelvis out and rub it on you. And you can’t get her to sit down. That can grind the show to a halt.”

Following complaints from the regulars, some bars have decided enough is enough. In 2012, the West Hollywood, CA bar The Abbey banned bachelorette parties, explaining they would reverse the policy once gay people earned marriage equality in the state. Recently, a gay man who was part of a bachelorette party posted on the DC blog PoPville that the group was denied entry to Pitchers DC, the new LGBTQ bar in Adams Morgan. When asked why, the owner said, “We don’t do bachelorette parties here.”

While the comments posted to the blog were largely supportive, there are many who think otherwise...and for good reason. For one, it’s just plain discrimination. For years, we as a community have protested and lobbied for equal protection under the law yet are quick to turn around and apply limitations to other groups with which we take issue. In addition, it appears to be sexist because we tolerate rowdiness from other gay men in the bar.

I can see both sides, but as someone who has dedicated much of his adult life to removing barriers that intentionally or unintentionally make LGBTQ people feel like they do not belong, denying entry is not the answer. Instead, perhaps we need to engage with these groups or maybe the bridal industry as a whole, letting them know how this behavior makes us feel and why. It comes down to respect, and it goes both ways. ▼ Wesley Combs is a diversity and inclusion expert and a passionate social justice advocate. He is the founding Principal of Combs Advisory Services, working with clients who share his values of enabling equity, equality and opportunity in the workplace and community.

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COMMUNITY: PETS R US

Pet Boutiques in and about Rehoboth

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n a bright, sunny day on Rehoboth Avenue, it’s practically impossible to walk a block without seeing a dog being petted by a swarm of awestruck kids (and, let’s face it, adults) with the proud and very patient owner standing by. Rehoboth is incredibly pet-friendly, where wellbehaved dogs are regulars at local outdoor eateries, and pets are treated like customers at local pet hangouts.

Pet shop owners tell tales of visitors such as potbelly pigs, parrots, and even a chicken showing up to sample a treat or escape the heat for a few minutes. Witness the annual Sea Witch Halloween Festival (this year October 26-28), where thousands of people gather to see, among other fun events, a costumed pet promenade. Rehoboth might be the most pet-friendly town on the planet.

And, the pet shop owners and staff members are soooo nice. Whether lending an ear to concerned pet owners, treating puppies like princes and princesses, or taking time to welcome an inquisitive reporter, they are funny, friendly, knowledgeable, and animalloving folks.

Critter Beach

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Owner Tracy Rossetto and his lovely store offer gourmet treats and gifts for pets and the people that love them.

Critter Beach has been pampering pets for 24 years and was the first shop of its kind in Rehoboth Beach.

Tracy laughingly says, “We accept all dogs and cats; we only turn away humans!”

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by Michael Gilles

Critter Beach sees pets as loyal, stress-relievers, and tremendous companions. For Tracy, the animals are why he owns the store. Seeing animals, especially those that return often over the years, “never gets old.” Whether it’s the pet-themed pillows, the fun Christmas toys, or the clever puppy/kitty T-shirts, Critter Beach is a great stop on your way to the boardwalk. Find the store at 156 Rehoboth Avenue.

Pet Wants, Rehoboth Beach

Local owner Chad Miller has a goal in mind: help pets live their best lives with nutritious, human-grade food. He actually lowered his shelves so the pets could do their own shopping.

Chad points out that many of his customers are sophisticated pet owners who have researched their pets’ health problems and are looking for access to a fresh, high-quality pet food option. His shop provides samples to customers so that they can find the right solutions for their furry-footed friends.

The shop offers a variety of food blends for dogs and cats as well as healing salve, calming balm, anti-itch spray, paw wax, and more. In addition to its in-store service, Pet Wants also offers free delivery to Rehoboth and various other towns in the area. 146 Rehoboth Avenue.

P.U.P.S. of Lewes

P.U.P.S. calls itself a “Pawsitively Unique Pet Shop,” and that it is. This boutique in Lewes is a must-see for local pet owners. Owner Linda Madrid and her staff are known for their excellent customer service and the shop’s allaround positive atmosphere.

P.U.P.S. has gifts and treats for dogs and cats and gifts for their humans too.

There are clothes for pets and owners alike. There is an excellent selection of collars, leashes, and toys, and the

inventory is always refreshed with new and unique items.

When a dog walks into P.U.P.S., he or she is met with an enticing treat. These delicious morsels are all natural and hail from America, and pups of all ages love them. This is a must visit for all canine visitors to downtown Lewes. 117 Second Street.

Salty Paws Ice Cream Bar and Bakery

An ice cream shop for dogs. How cool is that!

Salty Paws is actually two shops in one. On one side, owner Suzanne Tretowicz and crew sell healthy alternatives to the usual treats offered for pets. This half of the shop, All Dried Out, provides pets with grainfree, dehydrated treats and other contributions to a raw and healthy diet.

But it’s the ice cream parlor side that is jaw dropping. The idea of healthy ice cream formulated for dogs is not a new one, but a parlor catering to doggie customers is. And in this place, the dog is just that…the customer.

Open for a few months now, the bar offers pet versions of our favorite treats.

Bring the pets and watch them have fun.

They deserve it! 149 Rehoboth Avenue, Suite 6A.

The Ruff Life

The Ruff Life is a “New Dog-Art Beach Boutique,” opened this spring by accomplished artist and dog lover Sara England. The shop features her fun, whimsical designs on dozens of unique products like license plates, sandstone coasters, cheese platters, cutting boards, and personalized T-shirts.

Sara’s sense of humor shines through her creations as she mingles her happy style with

the essence of the dog breeds to create lively art.

Sara opened The Ruff Life to focus on customizing art for pet lovers and working with local animal welfare organizations to further their missions of hope and a future for neglected dogs and cats. She creates one-of-a-kind keepsakes. Stop in for a visit; the shop is open year-round. 46 Baltimore Avenue, Rehoboth.

Yarn and Bone

Yarn and Bone is a niche store off of Rehoboth Avenue specializing in nutrition. Their pet foods are all natural, minimally processed, and biologically appropriate. They offer health consultations and free samples to customers.

Owners Matthew Moorefield and Michael Morris opened their Rehoboth shop in 2017. They feature food and treats made only in North America, and most of their toys are made in America.

They also sell leashes and other items on consignment from Delaware providers.

The Rehoboth shop has a fun feature…canine doorbells. Open the door and be announced not by bells but by two tiny doggie greeters, whose wagging tails and high-pitched yips bring the owner to the front. It is a charming feature of this small neighborhood shop. 3 North First Street, Rehoboth. ▼

VISIT THEM REHOBOTH BEACH CRITTER BEACH 156 Rehoboth Ave (302) 226-2690 HOURS SUN-THURS: 9 AM–10 PM FRI-SAT: 9 AM–11 PM

SALTY PAWS 149 Rehoboth Avenue, Suite 6A (484) 667-7122 HOURS MON-SUN: 9:00 AM–10:00 PM

THE RUFF LIFE 46 Baltimore Avenue (301) 685-1239 HOURS MON-SUN: 9:00 AM–8:00 PM

YARN AND BONE 3 N. 1st Street (302) 278-7845 HOURS MON-SUN: 10:00 AM–8:00 PM

LEWES P.U.P.S. OF LEWES 117 2nd Street (302) 645-9010 HOURS WED-SAT: 10 AM–8 PM SUN-TUES: 10 AM–5 PM

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CAMP

Critters

HEATH One Smart Kat! Heath is a genuine cuddle bug and loves being social when Tim and Mike have guests. As you can see, he’s just exhausted from reading a recent issue of Letters.

FUN FACT

This year, Letters introduced a new feature: CAMP Critters. As part of this issue focusing on community, and in honor of our coverage of the petfriendly retail in the area, it seemed appropriate to catch up with some critters in the queue. If you’ve submitted, you’re in the hopper! Keep your submissions coming. We’ll continue to capture shots when we can.

When he’s not cuddling or napping Heath likes to chase his older brother Ben around.

#kittiesarethekoolest

GRACIE Wiggles in Delight Gracie is a one and half year old golden retriever with no ability to sit still. She loves her steak medium rare with crab meat, and she knows that martinis with Michael are at 5pm.

FUN FACT

When she is excited, she wiggles.

#caninesinthecourtyard

KATIE Think Big! Katie is a cockapoo rescue. She is a certified therapy dog who lives with Jack and Bob, and works with Alzheimer’s patients at a local memory care center.

FUN FACT

She loves treats and although she is only 12 pounds, she thinks she is a very large dog!

#caninesinthecommunity

Interested in having your critter(s) featured in Letters from CAMP Rehoboth? Send a high resolution picture (300 dpi) along with their name(s) and one fun fact to editor@camprehoboth.com.

PUA AND LANI Two-Headed Beast Pua (top) was rescued from Alabama. Lani (bottom) was rescued from West Virginia, but their names are Hawaiian (flower and heavenly, respectively) because Robb and Mike love all things Hawaiian.

FUN FACT Ever since Pua met Lani— in February—they have played like this. #loversinthelivingroom Letters 20

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THANK YOU to all the Sponsors, Supporters, Hosts, Auction Donors, and Volunteers who helped make SUNDANCE 2018 a great success. to benefit camp rehoboth | in memory of steve elkins

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SUNDANCE 2018 S PON SO RS, SUPPORTERS, AND H OSTS

DIAMOND SPONSORS Strasser Studio Accent On Travel Dos Locos Fajita & Stonegrill Restaurant Signarama Smirnoff - Breakthru Beverage The SEA BOVA Associates

GOLD SPONSORS Sondra N. Arkin CIO Federal IT Maplewood Dental Associates Outlet Liquors

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Cathin Bishop & Laura Simon SPONSORS Carol Bresler & Carolyn Billinghurst Murray Archibald, In Memory of Steve Elkins Gary Gajewski Atlantic Liquors Imaging Zone Beauty and the Beach Leslie Sinclair & Debbie Woods Beebe Medical Foundation Best Bus SUPPORTERS Blue Moon Arena’s Deli Cape Gazette/Beach Paper At Melissa’s B & B Creative Concepts Eddie Barnes & Delaware Beach Life Thomas Dietz Della Torre Mortgage Team Dr. Carl Brown & Eden Restaurant Charles Carpenter Joe Filipek & Jay Chalmers & Larry Richardson John Potthast Rick Fischer & Kate Balaban Edward Chrzanowski & James Flower & Talmage Sykes Thomas Flower Crawford Auction House Randy Gross Curtis Leciejewski, D.D.S, P.A. Harbor Healthcare & Dewson Construction Rehabilitation Company Diane Huber - Love Conquers Hate, Live Proud DJ Nan Richard Gamble & Iguana Grill Paul Lindsey In Memory of Al Bulliner Dave Gold, In Memory of Jam Bistro Jim Yiaski Allen Jarmon & Perry Gottlieb & Tim White Ward Ellinger Amanda & Melissa Kaufman Wayne Hodge & Tracy Limmer Laurie Kuebler Holland Jewelers Letters from CAMP Ed Hotaling & Ed Miller Rehoboth Hotel Rehoboth Chris & Diane Martin Steve Hoult & Rick Bane Bill Miller & Joe Mirabella Paul & Anne Michele Kuhns Miller & Shook Kevin LaBarge Morris James, LLP Christine Lay Natalie B. Moss, CPA, Stephen Manos & (MD), EA Greg Burton Move2Rehoboth.com Karen Gustafson,REALTOR® Alice & Bob Mazur Jim Mease & Phil Vehslage Olivia Companies, LLC Merck Rainbow Alliance Parsell Funeral Homes & One Spirit Massage Studio Crematorium, Pre-need John Padden & Specialist, Scott Burdette Howard Brevard Rick Perry Emilie Paternoster & Keith Petrack & Monica Parr Michael Fetchko Peninsula Gallery Plate Catering Joe Resch & Gordon & Porter Family Alex Lichtenstein Price Medical Sandra Skidmore & Purple Parrot Jonathan Handy Mark Purpura Libby Stiff & Bea Wagner Mary Beth Ramsey, Vizual-i Lloyd & Chris Wickersham Art & Design Studio Woody’s Philadelphia & Bob Ramsey Beth Yocum & RCI Systems - Ray Swadley Deborah Kennedy Rehoboth Breeze Robert Schwerdtfeger & Michael Green Len Smith Stephan & Co. Salon & Spa

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Ed Gmoch Gail Gormley Susan Goudy Bill Graff & Jeff Schuck Ken Green & Joe Kearney Karl Grimmer & Derek Trent Fran & Rich Grote John Hackett & Tom Newton David Hagelin & Andy Brangenberg Jack Harmon Kerri Evelyn Harris for DE Thom Harris, In Memory of Brian Christman Daniel Hayes Steve Hayes Nancy Hewish & Vicki Martina Muriel Hogan & Kathy Wiz Harris Holden Janet Idema In Memory of Chris Monismith In Memory of Mark Thomas In Memory of Steve from his mother Lucille, Judy, Amy & Emily Claire Ippoliti Pete Jakubowski Tom Jamison & Don Wainwright Tom Jones Jocelyn Kaplan & Idalie Adams Jon Adler Kaplan Ruth Kloetzli & Lisa Scholl Lisa C. Kniceley, LMT Eric Korpon & Steven Haber Suzanne Krupa Leslie Ledogar & Marilyn Hewitt Pat Loughlin Cindy Lukenda & Mary Backstrom David Lyons & Rick Hardy Eddie Major Robert Malmborg Robb Mapou & Mike Zufall Charles & Alan Marino-Berman Michael W. Marion Tricia Massella Mark Matey & Jay Kottoff Nancie Mathews Eric Matuszak Evelyn Maurmeyer David McCarthy John McLaughlin Mickie McManamon Chris McNichol Howard Menaker & Partick Gossett Jason Mills & Matt Sokolowski Linda Miniscalco & Jeanne Drake Judy & Norm Moore Rebecca Moscoso & Maggie Kilroy Dennis Neason & Steven Bendyna David Nelson & William McManus Mowry Spencer & John Newton Niki Nicholson & Jana Kamminga

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SUNDANCE 2018 VO LUN TEERS AND AUCTION D ONORS

VOLUNTEERS Dawn Alexander Mark Archibald Murray Archibald Sally Archibald Sondra Arkin Loree Arnold Carla Avery Brian Bailey Brian Bartels Chris Beagle Christian Becker Bud Beehler Sharon Bembry Chris Berg Sherry Berman Peter Bish Cathin Bishop Dennis Bland Johnny Bland Jane Blue Robin Bond Nancy Bouse Carolyn Brady John Brady Karen Brause Carol Brice Briley Brookes Jean Burgess Kathryn Burgwin Tony Burns Kathy Casey Pat Catanzariti Kate Cauley Anthony Chiffolo Ron Childress Jim Chupella Dottie Cirelli Paul Cline Lois Cortese Shelley Couch Michael Cover Becky Craft Joseph Crawford Lorne Crawford Tim Creadle Mary Jo Crimmins Bobby Croker Don Crowl Kay Cummings Will Darding Kathy Davison Linda Dean Michael DeFlavia Karen DeSantis Donald Dewey Rob Dick Tony DiMichele Bob Dobbs Donna Dolce Teri Dunbar Ward Ellinger Eric Engelhart Mark Eubanks Lisa Evans Michael Fetchko Corky Fitzpatrick Kathy Fitzpatrick Monica Fleischmann Karen Frank Amanda French Neil Frock Sue Gaggiotti Eric Gannon

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David Garrett Tillie Geyer Ken Gillespie Jordan Gipple Joan Glass Fran Grote Rich Grote Joann Gusdanovic Karen Gustafson Ken Haag Marie Haag John Hammett Bob Harrison Daniel Hayes Mark Henckel Dawn Henderson Rusty Hesse Nancy Hewish Marilyn Hewitt Pat Higgins Keith Hopkins Frank Hornstein Tom Horvath Janet Idema Terry Isner Allen Jarmon Rob Jasinski Leanna Johannes Derrick Johnson Dorsey Johnson Christian Jones Jana Kamminga Marilyn Kates Maureen Keenan Joanne Kempton Maggie Kilroy Terry Kistler Dennis Konzelman Myra Kramer Laurie Kuebler Wayne Lamode Leslie Ledogar Wayne Lemon Adam Linder Kenny Mahan Stephen Manos Marsha Mark Tricia Massella Jim Mastoris Mark Matey Evelyn Maurmeyer Alice Mazur Bob Mazur Michael McNamara Valerie McNickol Jim Mease Nate Metz Linda Miniscalco Joe Mirabella Anne Morillon Jack Morrison Norma Morrison Natalie Moss Anne Mundel Pat Newcomb Niki Nicholson Alli Noorali Ed Noyalis Donna Ohle Steve Ortlieb Gwen Osborne Richie Pagnotta Monica Parr Anthony Peel Sarah Peel

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Cooter Brown’s Twisted Southern Kitchen & Bourbon Bar Creative Concepts Creative Impressions Deanna’s Deborah Bosick Delaware Beach Life Delaware HIV Consortium Dewey Beer Company Diane K. Huber Dianne Davis Dimitra Yoga District of Columbia Republican Committee Don Wessel Dos Locos Fajita & Stonegrill Restaurant Eberle Watercolors Ed Brubaker & Mike Gordy Edible Arrangements Egg Extended Play Fading Ad Blog Fay Jacobs & Bonnie Quesenberry Flamingo Crossing Floyd & John Merchant Francis Andrew Wood Frank & Louie’s Italian Specialties Freddie’s Beach Bar & Restaurant Friend of CAMP Rehoboth Fulton Bank Furniture Gallery Gail Gormley Gail Jackson & Donna Davis Gail M. Tannenbaum Gallery 50 Gary’s Dewey Beach Grill Gel Z Art and Surf Georgiana Ibach Go Fish Go Brit grandpa (MAC) Hector J. Torres Hillwood Estate Museum & Gardens Holland Jewelers Holly Lane Holly Moore Human Rights Campaign Ibach’s/Dolle’s Candyland Indigo Indian Restaurant Iron Hill Brewery Jackie Goff Jane Blue Java Jukebox Jay Chalmers & John Potthast Jeffrey Coover

Jewelry Exchange of Delaware JL Restaurant Group (Hanks) Joe Bellano & Marshall Ziplin Joe Filipek John Brady KARATOART Karen Smail Kate Nagle Katherine Cauley Kathy Wiz & Muriel Hogan Keith & John Riley-Spillane Ken Gillespie Kevin McDuffie & Gianni Ballarin Kid’s Ketch Kilwins L.E.H Soap Company La Fable Restaurant Laura Glenn & Marilyn Kates Lavender Fields Lewes Gifts Lewes Mercantile Antique Gallery Libby Stiff & Bea Wagner Loree Arnold Lori’s Café Lorne Crawford Auction Collection Louie’s Pizza Louisa Watrel Maggie Ottato Mariachi Fine Authentic Spanish & Mexican Cuisine Mark Grabowski & Jim Paslawski Market to Table Mary Bode Byrd Mary Jo Tarallo & Linda Rikard Max Dick Meals on Wheels Delaware MGT & Co. Men’s Toggery Shop Michael Muller Michael Stover Michy’s Relaxed Dining Mod Cottage Murph’s Beef & Ale Nassau Valley Vineyards Natalie Moss Nectar Café & Juice Bar Nellie’s Sports Bar Nettie’s Pots Never Never Land Kennel & Cattery New Beginnings, Lisa C. Kniceley, LMT New Wave Spas No Skin Off My Back Ocean Boulevard Furniture

One Day At A Time Gift Shop Outback Steak House P.U.P.S. of Lewes Painting with a Twist Pamala Stanley Paul & Anne Michele Kuhns Paul Cline Po Boys Creole & Fresh Catch Polo Ralph Lauren Factory Store Purple Parrot Grill Quillen’s Hardware R Squared Home Rehoboth Art & Framing Rehoboth Auto Repair Rehoboth Beach Dental Rehoboth Beach Farmer’s Market Rehoboth Beach Main Street Rehoboth Breeze Rehoboth Main Street & Edward J. Chrzanowski Rich Grote Richard Blob Richard Gamble & Paul Lindsey Richard Thibodeau Rita Sharp at Beauty and the Beach Robert Wright & Jack Lim Robin Bond, Esq. Robin Hood Restaurant Rodney Cook Ron Glick & Tien Pham Ronald Butt Rosanne Smith Rosenfeld’s Jewish Deli Round House Theatre Salon Milton Sam Profeta Sammy’s Kitchen Sandra Skidmore Sara Tammany & Carole Levitsky Sea Screens, Inc. Sedona Semra’s Mediterranean Grill Shademakers Eyewear Sharyn G. Warwick Shorebreak Lodge Shorebreak Men’s Outfitters Signature Theatre SoDel Concepts Southern Delaware Therapeutic Riding, Inc. State Farm Jeanine O’Donnell Stephan and Co. Salon and Spa

Stephen Pleskach Sterling Optical Stoneworks Lapidary Striper Bites Susan Frey Susan Goudy Susan Lynham, CSW Sussex Family YMCA Tall Oak Trading Company Terry Isner The Aesthetic Center The Back Porch Café The Blue Hen The Canalside Inn The Dirty Dog The Edge The Focus Group with Tim Bennett & John Nash The Goldmine Jewelers, Nancy Lennon The Lighthouse The Milton Theatre The Pelican Loft The Rookery North The Ruff Life The Suburban Farmhouse The Wooden Indian Thomas R. Carper, United States Senator Thread Shed Tommy Gibson, LMT, RKRM, RMP Totem Farms Totes of the Town Touch of Italy True Blue Jazz Festival Twila Farrell Twist Juice Bar and Café Valerie McNickol & Carol Scileppi Vanns Spices VegRehoboth Vera Bradley Vernon Powell Ward Ellinger & Allen Jarmon Ward Ellinger Gallery Wayne H. Messick Woody’s of Dewey Beach

SUNDANCE 2018: It’s a Wrap!

Many Tribes Under the Same Roof

by Sondra N. Arkin

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veryone is talking about it. From 7 p.m. until closing, the dance floor was packed. Gin was dry by 8:15 (who knew? as much was ordered as usual!). By 9:30 a team was sent out to double down on the ice order. At 10 p.m., when Robbie Leslie ended to applause and howling, the demographics slowly shifted as the early crowd left and the late crowd arrived. All hail the Sundance two-dance, one-ticket combo. We shimmied our hips all night. Steve’s spirit was strong and with us. It worked!

It worked to bring more people together and out on the dance floor to raise arms and lift spirits.

It worked to bring different tribes and a broader community under the same roof.

It worked to give us a retro boost and a contemporary infusion.

It worked to make us laugh and to cry.

It worked to keep smiles stretched across faces all night long.

It was a joy to see.

In addition to the twofer, another new tradition was started. We brought our Disco Lottery game into the public—after years of talking about it. Nineteen people submitted songs they hoped or thought the DJs would play. There were many winners. Even me! Since we don’t track the winners per se, and I’ve already admitted that I’m audio-challenged, I can only say that I wish we’d heard them all.

They were all great choices. Several people picked the same songs (allowed). Some picked two, some four, one five (a bonus! allowed). We were all winners when we heard “In The Name of Love.”

If there’s a number following the song title, that song was selected by more than one person. Some folks included performers, others did not. Here is an awesome start to your next playlist.

There’s no doubt, it was a night in the name of love. And a sweet, sweet success. ▼

All hail the Sundance two-dance, one-ticket combo.

We shimmied our hips all night.

Steve’s spirit was strong and with us. It worked!

“A Rose Is Still a Rose” Aretha Franklin “Age of Reason” “Ain’t No Mountain High Enough” Diana Ross “Blue Savannah” “Dancing Queen” “Dancing” Kylie Minogue “Do or Die” Grace Jones (2) “Dolce Vita” Ryan Paris “Don’t Leave Me This Way” (2) “Music: Hey Mr. DJ” Madonna “Gonna Get Along Without You Now” Viola Wills “High” “I Was Born To Love You” Freddy Mercury “I Will Love Again” “I Will Survive” Gloria Gaynor (3) “It’s Raining Men” “Let The Music Play” Shannon “Let The Sunshine” “Little Bird” Kim Sozzi (2) “Love Is in The Air” “Love to Love You Baby” “Made for Now” Janet Jackson “You’re the First, the Last, My Everything” “Natural Woman” “Night Fever” “No More Tears to Cry” Ariana Grande “No Regrets” “Pandora’s Box” “Perfect Day” “Rescue Me” Aretha Franklin “Respect” Aretha Franklin (2) “Ring My Bell” “Ritmo De La Noche” “Shame” The Best of Evelyn “Champagne” King “Shape of You” “Simply the Best” “Soldier” “Stop in the Name of Love” “The Only Way Is Up” Yazz “This Is Me” (4) “Unspeakable Joy” Kim English (2) “Wait” Maroon Five “We Found Love” Rihanna “What the World Needs Now Is Love” “You Know How to Love Me” Phyllis Hyman “Your Love Is a Lifesaver” Gayle Adams

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Poise and presentation can make you a star. But with the incidence of many sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs) on the rise, the same prevention you use for HIV works to halt the spread of other diseases. Dress for success: always use a latex condom. Tune in to Health.

Sponsored by CAMPsafe. Š 2006 CAMP Rehoboth, Inc. Photography by Judy Rolfe. For more information, call CAMP Rehoboth at 302-227-5620, the Delaware HIV/STD Hotline at 1-800-422-0429 or the CDC National AIDS Hotline (English) 1-800-CDC-INFO. Funding provided through a contract with Delaware Health and Social Services Division of Public Health. CAMPsafe is a program of CAMP Rehoboth.

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health+wellness Quality Living Programs All Through The Year

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t CAMP Rehoboth, the Health and Wellness programs cover more than HIV prevention, education & testing— they cover a full gamut of health programs to help the community live full and productive lives.

Wellness programs focus on preventive and positive care, improving socialization, and support. All Health and Wellness programs are organized by Sal Seeley, many require registration, many are free, and all are presented by thoughtful experts in their fields.

Here is a round-up of programs available through CAMP Rehoboth this Fall.

Parents of Transgender and Gender Non-Conforming Children Discussion Group CAMP Rehoboth, last Tuesday of each month. September 25 at 6 p.m.

Parents will be able to network with other families who are going through similar experiences while raising a transgender or gender non-conforming child. The goal of the group is to provide parents a safe space where they can discuss issues which are important to them. They can raise questions, share resources, network, and listen to the experiences of other parents whose children are gender diverse. Issues explored include school, legal matters, privacy, siblings, extended family, and medical issues.

For more information, please contact Salvatore Seeley at CAMP Rehoboth (302-227-5620).

Tai Chi Wednesdays CAMP Rehoboth, starts September 26 at 1 p.m.

For a day-by-day listing of programs sponsored by CAMP Rehoboth, either onsite or elsewhere, check out the CAMP Calendar on the website.

Stressed Out? Anxious? Unbalanced?

Tai Chi is the answer. Classes are every Wednesday and are open to the public.

Classes are free but free will giving is encouraged. For more information, please contact Salvatore Seeley at CAMP Rehoboth (302-227-5620).

Get Walking With Jana and Niki Cape Henlopen State Park, Friday, September 28 at 10 a.m.

Walking is one of the best and easiest movements for your health. Come join leaders Jana Kamminga and Niki Nicholson for a walk on some of the most gorgeous trails in Rehoboth Beach and Lewes. Meet at the Picnic Pavilion of Gordon’s Pond parking area north of Rehoboth Beach via Ocean Drive through North Shores. The group will set off at 10:15 a.m. for a two mile hike on the Gordon’s Pond Trail, a hard packed flat trail that meanders along a pond, trees, and grasses. Sign up at eventbrite.com.

Medicine Wheel Journey CAMP Rehoboth, last Sunday of each month. September 30 at 5 p.m.

Gather around the stone circle in sacred space to track your personal evolution during this shamanic healing circle. All are welcome. Dress comfortably. Bring a notepad and writing utensil to record notes for your personal reference. Art materials and supplies will be provided. For more information contact Nate Metz at nate@natemetz.com with any questions.

Free Flu Shots CAMP Rehoboth, Tuesday, October 2, 1:30-6 p.m.

Beebe Health Care will be at the CAMP Rehoboth Community Center offering free flu shots for any community members.

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Fall Grief and Loss Group (four-week support group) CAMP Rehoboth, starts October 4 at 6 p.m.

This four-week (October 4, 11, 25, and November 1) grief and loss support group offers adults the opportunity to learn about grief and share their experiences in a supportive, safe environment. This group is open to any adult who is dealing with grief and loss of any kind. The group is free of charge, but will be limited to 10 people. This group is not an open group and will close to new participants after October 11.

Please register with Salvatore Seeley at CAMP Rehoboth (302-227-5620).

Healthy Living Workshop for Chronic Conditions (free six-week class) CAMP Rehoboth, starts October 9. Tuesdays at 5 p.m.

FREE six-week Healthy Living Workshops for Chronic Conditions are presented in conjunction with Beebe Healthcare. Designed to help adults who are either living with or trying to prevent a chronic condition, take charge of their health and their lives. (Examples of chronic conditions include heart disease, diabetes, cancer, depression, chronic pain, arthritis, lung disease, asthma, and multiple sclerosis.)

Adults caring for someone living with a chronic condition are also welcome to come. Sign up at eventbrite.com.

Alzheimer’s Caregivers Group CAMP Rehoboth, second Wednesday of each month. Next Meeting October 10.

Caring for someone with Alzheimer’s disease or a related disorder can be super stressful for the caregiver. This caregivers support group, facilitated by an Alzheimer’s specialist, encourages members to share information, and to give and receive mutual support. For more information or to sign-up for the group, please contact Ruth Pryor at RFCpryor@gmail.com.

Ukulele Classes have started at CAMP Rehoboth, but there may still be a slot or two in the intermediate class if you need to brush up on your hootenanny skills. It’s fun and fairly easy and nominally priced at $25. Nancy Schroeck leads the intermediate levels on October 18 or November 1. Sign up at eventbrite.com.

Free HIV Testing—Whenever you need it.

CAMP Rehoboth offers FREE HIV rapid testing at multiple sites in Sussex County. If you would like testing at one of our sites or if you’re looking for testing early morning or evening hours, contact Salvatore Seeley at CAMP Rehoboth (302-227-5620) to make an appointment. ▼

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CAMP Rehoboth Membership 2018 PURPLE LEVEL Sondra N. Arkin* Aaron, Heather, Gia & Joe Book* Karen Brause & Kim Sheaffer Carol Bresler & Carolyn Billinghurst* Tony Burns* Edward Joseph Chrzanowski & Talmage Wesley Sykes Skip Dye & Steven King* Randy Gross Window Treatments* Diane Huber Allen Jarmon & Ward Ellinger* James W. Johnson & Matthew H. Shepard* Christine Lay* Diane & Chris Martin* Richard Morgante & Edward McHale* Beth Pile & S.A. White* Mark Purpura* Jennifer Rubenstein & Diane Scobey* Evie Simmons & Barb Thompson* Leonard Smith* The Robert V. Hauff & John F. Dreeland Foundation Jennifer Walker & Mary Ann Veitch Renee & Steven Wright DMD PA*

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It’s My Life

by Michael Thomas Ford

Back to School, or Close Encounters of the Fifth Kind

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y sister, a teacher, went back to school this week. She’s teaching fifth grade this year.

Watching her prepare over the past month, I couldn’t help but think about my own first day of fifth grade, in September of 1978. It was particularly memorable because it was also my first day at a new school after my family moved back to the town where my father had grown up.

The school was a small one, kindergarten through 12th grade in one building. Most of the kids had been together from their very first day in a classroom. All of them knew one another. Many of them were related.

Despite the fact that my father’s family had lived in the town for three generations and the school was populated with my cousins, I was an outsider. This was made abundantly clear to me within minutes of my getting on the bus, when none of the other kids would allow me to sit with them.

It continued through that first day, during which I was informed that the t-shirt I had chosen to wear was “faggy” and that I carried my books “like a girl,” and culminated with a run-in with the class bully on the playground where I was informed that I should expect to have my ass kicked on a regular basis.

That more or less set the tone for the next seven years.

I dreaded going to school, as every day was an exercise in humiliation and misery. At the same time, every summer as the first day of the new year neared, I got excited. I liked school. It was the other kids I couldn’t stand. But maybe, I thought, things would be different this time, as if during the three months they hadn’t seen me my classmates would have forgotten how much they hated me.

This never happened, of course.

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slut, the class clown, I became the class fag. If it had come with a crown, it might not have been so bad, but there wasn’t even a sash.

Unsurprisingly, I haven’t kept in touch with many people from that time in my life. But I do have a couple of friends from that period, and some of them have remained connected to our classmates on social media. This has afforded me the occasional glimpse of how their lives turned out, and this week that has meant seeing photos and posts about their kids and grandkids heading back to school and, in some instances, college.

The schoolyard bully I mentioned earlier died about ten years after we graduated, of a heart attack. At the time, he was divorced from another of our classmates, with whom he had produced a son. I’ve watched the boy grow up through his mother’s Facebook posts.

He looks very much like his father, but appears (as much as one can tell from what people choose to put on social media) to be his emotional opposite, a kind and gentle person. It’s strange to see his father’s face on him and to think about the things his father said and did to me, much as it must be

He looks very much like his father, but appears (as much as one can tell from what people choose to put on social media) to be his emotional opposite, a kind and gentle person.

strange for his mother, who experienced the man’s dark side in much more brutal ways during their marriage.

I’m writing a novel at the moment that is set in the world of a fifth-grade classroom, and so I’ve been thinking a lot about that time of my life. Ten-yearold me wanted to be a writer, and he got to be one. Other aspects of my life have turned out much differently than I dreamed of back then. I suspect they have for my classmates as well, as the dreams of fifth graders are generally unrestricted by the realities that hit a few years later.

While many of these back to school and off to college moments remind me of a life that was, others are reminders of the life that wasn’t. I don’t have children, and I don’t regret this. Still, when my best friend from the time I was five posts photos of her daughter starting her first day of third grade, I wonder what it would be like, and if I’ve missed out in some way.

I’m supposed to go speak to my sister’s class later this year about being a writer. To them I will seem impossibly old, an age they can’t imagine ever being. To me they will seem impossibly young, and I’ll wonder how 40 years could have passed so quickly.

I’ll ask them what they want to be when they grow up, and listen as they tell me their hopes and dreams. Maybe one or two will stand out as the weird kids, the ones who dread coming to school because it reminds them that they don’t fit in, that they make the others uncomfortable.

“Don’t worry,” I’ll tell those kids. “Fifth grade isn’t forever. It just feels like it.” ▼ Michael Thomas Ford is a much-published Lambda Literary award-winning author. Visit Michael at michaelthomasford.com

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By Rich Barnett

The Most Wonderful Time of the Year

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ow that Labor Day is in the rear-view mirror, lots of Rehobothians will tell you the late summer/early fall season is hands down their favorite time here on the shore. The crowds are gone. You can find a parking spot.

The restaurants and bars are still open. The ocean temperature is warm. And the weather is usually spectacular, give or take the occasional hurricane scare.

Yeah, yeah.… I’ll agree with all that. But, for me, the reason this time of the year is so wonderful is because the college football season is upon us.

I grew up in the South where college football was and still remains king. My grandfather played for the Florida Gators and my grandmother’s brother taught at the university. Both my parents were Gators. I sneaked my first Bloody Mary at a pre-game party in Gainesville, followed by absconding with someone’s bourbon and coke in an orange plastic University of Florida cup at a game versus the University of North Carolina. I was ten years old and mesmerized by the shirtless fraternity boys in the student section who hugged and danced in the dizzying heat whenever the Gators scored.

Ten years later, I was one of those fraternity boys in the student section holding a plastic orange cup full of bourbon and coke. Only we weren’t shirtless. No Siree! Blue blazers and either a tie or bowtie and a blue cap with an orange V were de rigueur for a Virginia gentleman in That is until an inebriated sorority the early 1980s. And it didn’t matter how hot girl whipped out the pinking it got in Scott Stadium because tradition shears and turned trousers into trumped comfort at Mr. Jefferson’s university. shorts while somehow avoiding That is until an everyone’s bits and pieces. inebriated sorority girl whipped out the pinking shears and turned trousers into shorts while somehow avoiding everyone’s bits and pieces. We did hug and dance, though, mostly whenever the Cavaliers made a first down. Touchdowns and wins were few and far between during my tenure in Charlottesville.

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a nice relief to root for a winning team. And, I loved that the team mascot was a white English bulldog wearing a red sweater. I bet you didn’t know that each deceased bulldog is buried in a marble vault near the main gate of the football stadium. Fresh flowers adorn the graves before each home game.

My time in Georgia nearly sent my Florida grandmother to an early grave, so she said. It didn’t keep her from phoning me from her hospital bed every Saturday night to review the day’s football scores or to celebrate when her beloved Gators beat Alabama in the 2008 SEC Championship game. I still remember how we used to toss raw hot dogs to the alligators in the pond behind my father’s house. She named each alligator after a favorite Florida football coach.

That’s the thing about college football. At its heart it’s about family and traditions and friends and memories. And it’s not limited to the South.

Have you noticed all the Penn State stickers around Rehoboth? Sure, all the hoopla surrounding a football game might come across to the uninitiated as juvenile or silly, a bunch of grownups living in the past. But it’s also about community—and fried chicken and bourbon and coke and waving pompoms in the stands. Yes, we can be of different races, faiths, careers, and political persuasions, but come Saturdays we’re all fans of college football.

On a windy and rainy Saturday night outside at Aqua recently, a group of us huddled beneath an umbrella. And don’t you know, the primary topic of conversation among the sons of the South in attendance was college football. One fella even sported orange eyewear because any Auburn fan worth his salt had to wear his “colors” on game day.

Heck, I even texted my Trump-loving baby brother to commiserate Florida’s loss to Kentucky for the first time in 31 years. It was hard, but never once did I make a “Stormy” reference or mention Bob Woodward’s book. That’s because Saturday game days are sacred. All bets are off, though, when it’s a Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday, Thursday, or Friday. ▼ Rich Barnett is the author of The Discreet Charms of a Bourgeois Beach Town, and Fun with Dick and James.

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CAMP Volunteer Spotlight

by Monica Parr

Terry Kistler and Chris Berg Terry Kistler and Chris Berg met online 10 years ago, and were married in May 2012. Chris is a native Delawarean and his family has had a house at the beach since 1981. Lucky for him, he spent every summer on the shore while growing up.

Chris works for IHG (InterContinental Hotels Group) as a Portfolio Revenue Manager.

Terry grew up in Titusville, Pennsylvania and has been a resident of all three Delaware counties at some point in his professional career. Terry is employed as a Vice President at WSFS Bank. They are the loving parents to two Saint Bernards, Stella and Rocky, and one cat, Blackberry.

When did you start volunteering at CAMP Rehoboth?

About four years ago.

What events/activities have you been involved with as a volunteer?

The CAMP Chorus and Sundance (so far).

What’s your best volunteer memory?

Chris: It’s hearing the audience’s reaction to the performances by the CAMP Chorus—it’s a fun time for all involved!

Terry: Volunteering for the Sundance Live Auction is very exciting—it’s great to have the support of so many businesses and community members providing items for the auction, and it is fun to see how much money is raised for CAMP Rehoboth.

Of the many events held by CAMP Rehoboth, which is your favorite?

We are torn between Sundance and the Block Party. We are big fans of events that bring folks from all walks together for a good time and positive purpose!

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Favorite season at the beach?

It has to be fall. There are lots of events, and beautiful weather.

If you could go back to the age of 18, what do you know now that you wish you knew then?

Chris: To know it’s ok to fail so long as you are willing to learn from it.

Terry: To know it will be ok, and that there are others out there just like you.

Do you have an LGBTQ hero?

Chris: While there have been many famous names worthy of consideration as LGBTQ heroes, I don’t have to look far to find mine. I met Steve Elkins and Murray Archibald in 1994 while attending Epworth Church in downtown Rehoboth Beach. Sadly, it wasn’t really until Steve’s passing earlier this year that I took the time to reflect on all that these heroes have done for our community.

The two literally shaped some of the most important, formative years of my teens and 20s when I was realizing my identity as a gay man. Steve and Murray helped create a more tolerant and accepting community in Rehoboth— one in which I, and other LGBTQ youth, would ultimately become beneficiaries of a safe environment in which to accept ourselves as we were born to be.

Favorite holiday?

Christmas—the family, the music, the sentiment, and the decorations!

The LGBTQ community has made significant progress in the fight for equality over recent years. Did you expect to see this in your lifetime?

Simply, no. Since we both grew up in small towns where tolerance was negligible at best, neither of us felt equality would be likely in our lifetime.

And while there have been gains, a long fight still exists.

Given the new political climate, are you concerned about the possible loss of rights for the LGBTQ Community?

Absolutely. At the rate the current administration has been reversing the past several years—if not decades—of positive policy advancement on many fronts, LGBTQ rights are not immune from arbitrary crosshairs of an intolerant and divisive man-child and his minions.

And while we hope this current trend is temporary, we are encouraged about the future generation of leaders. As board members of the Rehoboth Beach Bears organization, we are inspired by the young leaders we have met through our partnership with the Cape Henlopen Gay Straight Alliance. Their passion and energy is amazing and we encourage our community to support their great purpose!

What advice would you give to the younger LGBTQ community?

Don’t be afraid to be yourself. It is exhausting to edit your life for the satisfaction of others.

How long have you been coming to Rehoboth?

Chris: All 41 years of my life.

Terry: About 25 years.

Since you began coming to Rehoboth, name the biggest change you’ve seen.

The vast development—both residential and commercial, the burgeoning and sophisticated culinary culture, the extraordinary arts scene, and the improved relations between the gay and straight communities.

As board members of the Rehoboth Beach Bears organization, we are inspired by the young leaders we have met through our partnership with the Cape Henlopen Gay Straight Alliance.

Their passion and energy is amazing and we encourage our community to support their great purpose!

What are you most thankful for?

We are thankful for one another, and the fact we can live in an amazing community where we are not embarrassed or afraid to be ourselves!

Chris and Terry, thank you for the time you spend volunteering for CAMP Rehoboth. We need more of the younger generation like you to continue the mission of CAMP Rehoboth. We hope you will continue to volunteer, and look forward to working Project1_Layout 1 4/1/2018 4:49with PM you Pageat1 our next event. ▼

thank you to all the CAMP Rehoboth Community Center Volunteers for the period: August 19 – September 13.

COMMUNITY CENTER Sondra Arkin Bud Beehler David Carder Ron Childress Shelley Couch Max Dick Ann Evans Corky Fitzpatrick Kathy Fitzpatrick Muriel Hogan Mickie McManamon Jack Morrison Natalie Moss Patricia Stiles Russell Stiles CAMP MAINTENANCE Eric Korpon

Your volunteer efforts benefit you and others.

Find out about opportunities with CAMP Rehoboth and other area non-profits today.

CALL MONICA PARR AT 302-227-5620 FOR MORE INFORMATION

ISOP AT EPWORTH Babs Butta Donna Hitchens Muriel Hogan Peter Keeble Dotti Outland Carol Scileppi Bob Scofield Leslie Sinclair Kathy Wiz LETTERS MAILING TEAM Andy Brangenberg David Carder David Hagelin Nancy Hewish Grant Kingswell Vickie Martina

Fran Sneider Russell Stiles Linda Yingst MEMBERSHIP COMMITTEE Jane Blue Don Crowl Ann Evans Glen Pruitt Debbie Woods RAINBOW THUMB CLUB Chris Bowers Carol Brice Linda DeFeo Karen DeSantis Ward Ellinger Monica Fleischmann Carolyn Ortwein Kim Schilpp Diane Scobey Ed Shockley Frank Shockley Theresa Shockley Barb Thompson Jeffrey Trunzo Evie Simmons Elva Weininger George Yaksic SUNDANCE RACING FESTIVAL Chris Beagle Roxy Castillo Jim Chupella Paul Cline Deb Dobransky Pete Drake Eric Engelhart

Michael Fetchko Sue Gaggiotti Steve Hoult Derrick Johnson Myra Kramer Joey Kwit Keith Petrack Stephanie Wingert VOLUNTEER DEVELOPMENT COMMITTEE Dusty Abshire Pat Catanzariti Donna Dolce Jaye Laszcynski Michael Safina Angie Strano Leslie Sinclair WOMEN’S FEST COMMITTEE Dottie Cirelli Fay Jacobs Susan Jimenez Nancy Hewish Pam Kozey Margie Moore Rebecca Moscoso Gail Tannenbaum Kathy Wiz

For a complete list of Sundance Volunteers please see page 24

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Is PrEP Right for You? Learn about Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis for HIV

William Chasanov, DO, MBA, is a Board Certified Infectious Disease and Internal Medicine physician with Beebe Infectious Disease. Learn more about Dr. Chasanov: beebehealthcare. org/doctors/william-chasanov-do.

by William Chasanov, DO, MBA, Beebe Infectious Diseases

What is PrEP? PrEP is pre-exposure prophylaxis for Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV), the virus responsible for Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome (AIDS). In the simplest form, PrEP is medication taken prior to potential or actual high-risk exposure to HIV to decrease the chance of HIV transmission.

It’s important to know that PrEP is not 100% effective. However in recent studies it has been shown to be effective up to 90% of the time, with even higher likelihood of effectiveness when used properly and in combination with other exposure prophylaxis measures. PrEP is not to be confused with PEP which is Post-Exposure Prophylaxis, meaning medication taken after a potential or known exposure to body fluids that contain HIV. In the United States, one drug is currently FDA approved for PrEP. It’s a combination antiretroviral drug known as Truvada®. The two components are tenofovir disoproxil fumarate and emtricitabine. It’s a combination, fixed-dosage medication that is taken on a daily basis.

Some common questions include: Who is PrEP for? Is PrEP something I should consider?

My approach with each patient is to discuss past, current, and perhaps anticipated sexual relationships moving forward. Per Centers of Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) guidelines, PrEP should be considered for people who are HIV negative and are at substantial risk for HIV infection. These at-risk individuals include: • Those in an ongoing sexual relationship with an HIV positive partner • Those not in a mutually monogamous relationship with a partner who recently tested HIV negative

• A gay or bisexual man who has had unprotected anal sex • A gay or bisexual man who has been diagnosed with a sexually transmitted disease (STD) in the past six months • A heterosexual male or female who is having unprotected sex with partner(s) of unknown HIV status and who is at substantial risk of HIV infection • Those who inject illicit drugs, share needles, or have been in a drug treatment program for injection drug use in the past six months • Heterosexual couples in which one partner is HIV positive, the other is HIV negative, and there is a plan for conception and pregnancy Each individual and situation is different. But if the guidelines above seem to fit a scenario you may be in, it may be worth a conversation with a PrEP-versed healthcare provider to see if PrEP may have a place in your life.

Are there side effects with PrEP? Like all medications, there are potential side effects that need to be discussed and monitored regularly with a healthcare provider. This includes monitoring kidney function, screening for HIV infection and other STDs, and checking bone density depending on how long the medication is used.

It is important to stress again that PrEP is not 100% effective for prevention of HIV; it should still be used with other means of protection—i.e., condoms.

In the last five years, the United States has seen an increase in other sexually transmitted diseases, including chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis. PrEP does not provide protection against chlamydia, gonorrhea, or syphilis. ▼

Looking for additional resources on PrEP? Here are a few websites to get you started:

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All of our patients’ needs are supported including counseling, social worker assistance, nutritional counseling and prescription assistance. For those who qualify, transportation is offered. The patient comes first.

Beebe Healthcare offers clinical trials sponsored by the National Cancer Institute’s Community Oncology Research Program through Christiana Care’s Helen F. Graham Cancer Center & Research Institute. This is just one more way Beebe offers the most advanced treatments that allow patients to stay close to home.

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IN THE Community The Beach Is Going to the Dogs Join the Golden Jubilee—September 28-30

On the weekend of September 28-30, there will be a “Golden Jubilee” in Dewey.

No, it’s not the town’s golden anniversary or anything like that—it’s a jubilee for the beloved dog breed, the Golden Retriever.

Previous years have brought close to 200 goldens to the area, with the pups running blissfully free on the beach, chasing tennis balls, and swimming together in the surf. This year, might it be possible to beat the headcount at the July jubilee in Scotland, which attracted 361 goldens, assembling to celebrate the breed’s 150th anniversary?

The “Gold” Rush begins on Friday night at the Rehoboth Bandstand for a furry meet and greet—not on the boardwalk (not permitted) but throughout town.

There’s a pet costume parade, with prizes, and a strut around Rehoboth.

On Saturday there’s a romp on the beach at Van Dyke Street with speakers, photos, prizes, and more, ending the day with the jubilee signature event, the beach bonfire. All of this is followed by a Sunday morning Poop Patrol Beach Sweep, just in case….

Organizers are asking Golden Retriever owners to be certain to check in at the Hyatt in Dewey. Numbers are important if the Dewey Jubilee group hopes to beat Scotland’s record of 361 goldens at their gathering! ▼ For more information about this free event celebrating the breed, check out deweysgoldenjubilee.com

Gather with the Greyhounds! October 4-7

Animal lovers always delight in the October 4-7 “Greyhounds Reach the Beach Weekend” at the coast. Locals and visitors who have Greyhound companions or folks who just love these majestic and affectionate animals, descend on the Rehoboth and Dewey beaches in droves to frolic with their canines.

The event puts humans and hounds together for social gatherings, a silent auction, a Beer and Biscuit Mixer, and lots of other activities. The best part is that there are packs of these graceful animals parading all around town.

The event creates awareness of the need for foster and adoptive homes for the dogs and raises funds to help in that effort.

The Hyatt Place Hotel in Dewey plays host to the gathering, including a welcome party with music, vendors, and much more. There will be a bonfire at Read Street beach and boat tours, culminating Sunday in a Greyhound parade on the Rehoboth Boardwalk. ▼ To register hounds and companions, or learn more, contact grtb.org.

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Wings & Wheels 2018 October 6 in Georgetown

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t’s wheels up fun at the Delaware Coastal Airport in Georgetown DE on October 6. Saturday’s free event runs from 10 a.m.-4 p.m., beginning with an opening ceremony including the national anthem and presentation of colors by the Sussex Central JROTC Color Guard. Events at the airport throughout the day include a vintage aircraft fly-in, a car show, featured speakers, live entertainment, and craft and food vendors. The fan-favorite Flour Bombing Competition will return, as well as the Official Naval Academy Parachute Team.▼ For car show registration information, or other information, go to wings-wheels.com.

LOTS TO DO New 50s-inspired Friday night dinner show.

Perhaps the largest contingent of WWII aircraft ever assembled at Delaware Coastal Airport.

Jazz is in the air OCTOBER 10-14

Matt Marshak, the 2018 Artist of the Year

There are so many jazz lovers in the area that two big jazz organizations are in town for the annual Jazz weekend, October 10-14. All day long, Friday, Saturday, and Sunday throughout town there are ticketed and non-ticketed performances at a host of venues. It’s impossible to be in Rehoboth, Dewey, or Lewes on Jazz Fest Weekend and miss the jazz vibe.

And don’t forget, on Sunday, October 14, the CAMP Rehoboth Block Party will be in full swing, too.

The Delaware Celebration of Jazz Wycliffe Gordon

This is a locally created non-profit which has been celebrating jazz in town for almost 30 years. Thursday night through Sunday, they will host shows at the Rehoboth Beach Convention Center, the Performing Theater at Rehoboth Beach Elementary School, the Rusty Rudder, the Performing Arts Theater at Cape Henlopen High School, Epworth United Methodist Church, and multiple Dogfish Head sites.

The line-up for 2018 includes Brian Culbertson, Art Sherrod Jr and the ASJ Orchestra presenting “Mo-JAZZ: When Motown Meets Jazz,” JJ Sansaverino, Gerald Albright, Incognito featuring Maysa, Mindi Abair and the Boneshakers, Keiko Matsui with the Ebony Strings, Kim Waters and Marion Meadows, Nick Colionne, Eric Darius and Selina Albright, Eric Roberson, the Urban Jazz Coalition, and lots more. ▼ For more information and tickets contact rehobothjazz.com.

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True Blue Too

TRUE BLUE JAZZ Inc. is a second nonprofit organization producing a fest in town and this is their sixth year. They feature songs of the Great American Standards Songbook from 1900 to now, from the birth of the Blues and Dixieland to popular tunes of the day. Their venues include The Atlantic Sands Hotel, Clear Space Theatre, the Rehoboth Beach Bandstand, Saleros, and more.

The line-up includes Bobby Sanabria and Ascension, Wycliffe Gordon and the Mid-Atlantic Jazz All-Stars, Lawrence “Lipbone” Redding, and much more.

Close to home, the True Blue Jazz Festival will host a Director’s Screening Room, located at CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, from Thursday, October 11 to Saturday, October 13, showcasing films, jazz documentaries, art, and photography. ▼ For tickets and information, reach them at truebluejazz.org.

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Did you know that CAMP Rehoboth provides • Community Space, Meeting Rooms, Public Courtyard • Diversity Training for City & Park Police •Advocacy for LGBTQ & Other Human Rights Issues • Sexual Health Counseling (Couples & Individuals) • Health Testing (partnership/Beebe Medical Center) • HIV Prevention, Education & Testing • CAMP Rehoboth Chorus • Support Groups • Safe Haven for Youth • Grief Counseling • Public WiFi • Information Resources on Area Services • Tourist Information Services • Gallery & Performance Space for Artists • Fundraising Assistance for Other Area Non-Profits • Ticket Sales for Other Organizations • Women’s FEST Weekend • Promotion for Local Non-profit Events

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Straight Talk

by David Garrett

Hocus Pocus on SCOTUS

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housands of people across the country were enthralled with the amazing performances of Erik Weisz. For a decade, beginning in 1907, Weisz traveled from town to town as the main-stage event. Erik Weisz, of course, was better known as Harry Houdini. His escape routines were extremely difficult and captivated audiences with seemingly impossible escapes.

Houdini’s most famous act was his escape from a Chinese Water Torture Cell, in which he was suspended upside down in a locked glass and steel cabinet, full to overflowing with water.

He was able to hold his breath for three minutes, giving him enough time to safely escape.

Many people today are collectively holding their breath as Brett Kavanaugh makes his escape from properly answering questions asked by various senators. Facing his own Congressional Testimony Torture Cell, Kavanaugh has thus far been able to remove the rhetorical handcuffs presented to him by such folks as Kamala Harris and Cory Booker.

In some editors’ minds, Harris and Booker are using this forum to test the waters for a presidential bid in 2020.

But this assumption is short-sighted and disingenuous; it overlooks the depth of concern over getting honest answers from a man who may spend forty years or more on the Supreme Court.

The opening session of nominee introductions and statements was littered with outbursts from the gallery and parliamentary maneuvers from Democratic Senators. The hearings eventually settled into an expected rhythm of Republican softballs and Democratic curve balls.

What makes this hearing difficult to accept is that Kavanaugh has one of the longest trails of documents and court decisions of other recent nominees, thanks to his decade-long tenure on the D.C. Court of Appeals, his five years as part of the White House Counsel’s Office in the George W. Bush administration, and his three years’ service Letters 56

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with the Ken Starr independent counsel investigation of Bill Clinton.

“My judicial philosophy is straightforward,” Kavanaugh said. “A judge must be independent and must interpret the law, not make the law. A judge must interpret statutes as written. A judge must interpret the Constitution as written, informed by history and tradition and precedent.”

See how those handcuffs are slipping off his wrists, as he twists his way out of the straitjacket? But the hocus pocus on SCOTUS is not all about Brett.

Before making the statue [of Liberty] reappear, Copperfield explained why he wanted to perform this illusion.

Other magicians include those whose expertise is making things disappear. David Seth Kotkin, better known by his stage name David Copperfield, had a tremendously successful career as an illusionist. He became the youngest member of the Society of Amateur Magicians (SAM) at age twelve (Houdini served as President of SAM during his career!).

Recent Supreme Court rulings are making LGBTQ rights disappear. The June, 2018 ruling on behalf of Masterpiece Bakery, the Colorado baker who refused to bake a wedding cake for a gay couple, has opened the door to further legal action against the LGBTQ community. This is being coordinated on behalf of those whose religious beliefs do not view gay relationships and lifestyles as acceptable—or even legal. The door to further discrimination based on sexual orientation or gender identity has been left ajar by the sleight of hand on SCOTUS. It was interesting, then, that on Au-

gust 30 the Supreme Court declined to provide injunctive relief to Catholic Social Services (CSS) in Philadelphia. They had appealed to Justice Samuel Alito for such in light of having funding withheld from their adoption services. The City of Philadelphia stopped funding them after they discovered in March, 2018 that two Catholic foster care placement agencies were excluding gay couples.

“No child should ever be denied a safe and happy home because of who their qualified prospective parents or guardians are,” Susan Warbelow, legal director for the Human Rights Council, stated. “In a nation of over 400,000 foster children, it is inexcusable that some would choose to play politics rather than prioritize the security and well-being of children in need of a loving family.”

The question remains, however, what tricks SCOTUS will play in the coming session and beyond. Making the Statue of Liberty disappear was one of David Copperfield’s best-known illusions. This television event in 1983 had a group of 20 tourists seated beside Lady Liberty.

A curtain was raised around the statue and lowered a few seconds later. It disappeared! A helicopter overhead confirmed that it had disappeared, leaving only the circle of lights around its base shining on empty space.

Before making the statue reappear, Copperfield explained why he wanted to perform this illusion. He wanted people to imagine what it would be like if there were no liberty or freedom in the world today, and what the world would be like without the freedoms and rights we enjoy.

How prophetic his words seem today. Thank goodness he ended his illusion by restoring Liberty to her rightful place. Let us hope SCOTUS will do the same. Here, take a card…any card…. ▼ David Garrett is a straight advocate for equality and inclusion. He is also the proud father of an adult transdaughter. Email David Garrrett at dlgarrett4rb@gmail.com

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Kandler Memorial Awards Dinner

Courage & Vision: Honoring S TEV E E L K INS

For over a quarter century, Steve epitomized the inclusive spirit of CAMP Rehoboth. We recognize that spirit and the indelible mark that Steve left on Delaware’s LGBTQ+ community by honoring him with the 2018 Kandler Award.

Wednesday, October 17, 2018 Chase Center on the Riverfront 5:30 p.m. Hors D’oeuvres & No-Host Bar 6:30 p.m. Dinner To purchase tickets, become a sponsor, or place an advertisement in the program booklet, please visit bit.ly/Kandler2018 or contact David Bever at dbever@aclu-de.org or 302-654-5326 x100.

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FUNERAL SERVICES •• McCrery & Harra............................................................302-478-2204 •• Parsell Funeral Homes & Crematorium.........................302-645-9520 HAIR SALONS/TATTOO & PIERCING 72 Bad Hair Day? 20 Lake Ave............................................302-227-HAIR 62 Beach Cuts, 214 Rehoboth Ave................................... 302-226-ROBB •• Salon Milton, 517 Chestnut St., Milton..........................302-684-1880 99 Gregory Meyers Hair Studio, 20245 Bay Vista Rd & Rt 1.................................................................................302-727-5331 INSURANCE 100 George Bunting, State Farm..........................................302-227-3891 109 Jeanine O’Donnell, State Farm......................................302-645-7283 109 Eric Blondin, State Farm................................................302-644-3276 LEGAL/ACCOUNTING/TRUST SERVICES 79 Lawson Firm, 402 Rehoboth Ave..................................302-226-3700 79 Morris James, 402 Rehoboth Ave.................................302-260-7290 •• Fuqua, Willard, Stevens, & Schab, PA, 26 The Circle, Georgetown...................................................................302-856-7777 MASSAGE THERAPY/FITNESS 72 Bad Hair Day? 20 Lake Ave............................................302-227-HAIR •• Jeffrey Socorso, LMT.....................................................302-227-0731 8 Konrad Noebel, LMT, 26 Baltimore Ave........................302-226-8833

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View Point

by Richard J. Rosendall

Insurgent Democrats Beat Back the Trolls

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amn the torpedoes! Four bells.

Captain Drayton, go ahead!

Jouett, full speed!” Thus did Union Admiral David Farragut order an attack on the Confederate fleet at Mobile Bay in 1864. As with Farragut, defeating Donald Trump’s tide of racist populism calls not for caution but for boldness and conviction like that of Tallahassee Mayor Andrew Gillum.

Gillum, who last week won the Democratic nomination for governor of Florida, is dismissed as a socialist and a communist by partisans of a president whose lips are firmly planted on the butt of veteran KGB agent Vladimir Putin.

Gillum’s issues page states, “Andrew is running for Governor so that Florida can finally confront the challenges we’ve shrunk from over the past 20 years: rebuilding our economy, revitalizing public education, protecting and expanding healthcare access, and addressing our climate change crisis with a clean energy economy.”

Somehow Republican nominee Ron DeSantis interprets this as Gillum wanting “to turn Florida into Venezuela,” though it’s DeSantis backer Trump who appears bent on turning America into a banana republic.

DeSantis indignantly denied any racist intent in his “monkey this up” reference to Gillum. That‘s how it works: blow the dog whistle and play innocent.

Two days later, DeSantis had to denounce robocalls by an Idaho-based Neo-Nazi group portraying Gillum with a minstrel voice and jungle noises.

Trump’s diehards don’t want honest debate. They prefer to smear and caricature. Gillum sticks to his positive message. He exemplifies the appeal of fresh voices who focus on solutions rather than kowtowing to fearmongers.

Stacey Abrams, the Democratic nominee for Georgia governor, is a progressive whose bipartisan efforts in the General Assembly belie Republican labels of her as radical. She can win not just because her proposals like

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Medicaid expansion and small business investment address popular needs, but because the diversity some decry as a leftist slogan describes a changing electorate.

Another impressive Democrat is Beto O’Rourke, challenging Texas Sen. Ted Cruz. His answer to a question about NFL player protests has gone viral. Here is a portion: “The freedoms that we have were purchased not just by those in uniform, and they definitely

In our click wars we are like someone walking down the street who is too fixated on his smartphone to notice the open sewer grate he is approaching. were. But also by...peaceful, nonviolent protests, including taking a knee at a football game to point out that Black men, unarmed; Black teenagers, unarmed; and Black children, unarmed, are being killed at a frightening level right now, including by members of law enforcement, without accountability and without justice.... I can think of nothing more American than to peacefully stand up or take a knee for your rights anytime, anywhere, anyplace.”

Cruz twisted this into an attack on wounded veterans.

If Trump’s desired autocracy takes hold—and we are on the knife’s edge—the main cause will not be white nationalist stockpiles but a fatal decline in our habits of thought and discourse.

In our click wars we are like someone walking down the street who is too fixated on his smartphone to notice the

open sewer grate he is approaching.

Trump has lately threatened Big Tech companies, not because their platforms help disseminate misinformation but because he is a thin-skinned bully. He doesn’t want Google’s search algorithm to be fair and unbiased, but only to be flattering towards him.

Reality is like that sewer grate. If we are distracted by bots and trolls, we are in for a fall.

Mockery and epithets have replaced arguments. Solving our shared problems requires connecting across various divides. It requires mutually recognized facts, norms, and authorities. These foundations of our republic are under assault by Trump and his enablers in the GOP. In his latest display of family values, Trump has ramped up passport denials to Americans born in Texas’s Rio Grande Valley; one report blamed President Obama despite his having settled in 2009 an ACLU case begun under George W. Bush. A gunman echoing Trump’s “enemy of the people” mantra threatened to kill Boston Globe employees, yet Trump calls Democrats violent.

This madness can only be countered by a voter turnout large enough to overcome vote suppression.

Our country is governed by an unrepresentative minority determined to lock in its power. If we don’t rise to this fight like many insurgent Democratic candidates, that may happen. ▼ Richard J. Rosendall is a writer and activist who can be reached at rrosendall@me.com.

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by James Adams Smith

Letting Go of Objects

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he other day I was at the library and checked out The spark joy?” If the object did not spark joy, I would donate it to Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of the thrift store, sell it, or throw it away. So many objects, I quickly Decluttering and Organizing by Marie Kondo. In the book, realized, had been keeping me from enjoying my life.

Kondo suggests that we allow in our lives only objects that “spark I am not, I realized, obligated to keep anything I don’t want. I joy.” I thought it seemed ridiculous. How can a toothbrush spark can choose what I want to keep and what I don’t want to keep. joy? Or an ironing board? Or a plunger?

I remembered where the objects had I, like other millennials gently approaching come from. Sometimes they had stories. middle age, am at the point in my life of reFaces of people I haven’t spoken to in years.

What helped me was organizing. I have filled my life with material It’s time to move on, I would remind mythinking of decluttering objects, some of them meaningful, some of self. It’s time to let go. The past is the past. them merely occupying space, some of them The process of decluttering is not always not as a “task” or “work,” attached to stories—both happy stories and easy. It can mean aligning ourselves with the which have a negative sad stories. truth of who we are, and that means facing As ridiculous as the book sounded, I connotation, but thinking of our fears, releasing that which no longer began to follow Kondo’s cleaning method, serves us, and learning to embrace that it as a path to freedom. which she calls the “KonMari Method.” which makes us feel happy. It is a giant risk, I feel as though I’ve been hauling around but a necessary risk. my own past, energetically, and now am What helped me was thinking of declutready to let go. That letting go begins with throwing away or dotering not as a “task” or “work,” which have a negative connonating material objects attached to those parts of my life to which tation, but thinking of it as a path to freedom. It was difficult at I no longer wish to be connected. first, but became easier the more I let go.

I’ve realized that objects are not merely objects. They can Every time I dropped something off at a thrift store or let go carry a kind of nonphysical weight; they can burden us or they of a trash bag, I felt a kind of ease. The sky looked clearer. My can bring us joy. We collect them, and they inevitably become mind became spacious. part of our lives, sharing our energy, our dust. Some objects I’m almost finished with the discarding phase. Now on to the have been with us so long we may forget they are even there. If next challenge: organizing. ▼ we wish to change our lives, one approach is to start by changing what we keep in our homes.

Kondo writes to “…start by discarding, all at once, intensely and James Adams Smith works as an English tutor at Delaware Technical & Community College and is studying to become an occupational therapist. completely…” before even beginning the process of organizing.

You can reach him at JamesAdamsSmith@gmail.com So I did. I would touch an object and ask myself, “Does this

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SCENES FROM REHOBOTH BEACH In the Name of Love! All About Sundance 2018— the Auction, the Dance! Plus Drag Volleyball, RB Museum Reopening, Rainbow Raft-up, and More Scenes from Labor Day Weekend 2018.

THIS PAGE 1) Lorne Crawford, Jeff Smith, Tony DiMichele, Carol Bresler, Carolyn Billinghurst, Bridget Bauer, Linda Bova, Philip Vehslage, Carol Schwartz, Jim Mease, Jane Blue, Diane Lusk, Ruth Kloetzli, Lisa Scholl, Christa Rompala, Terry Isner, Adam Linder, Maggie Ottato, Barbara Carr, Richie Gehman, Patti Kim, David Mayne, Raquel Mayne, Paul Kuhns, and Anne Michele Kuhns at the Sundance 2018 Auction at the Rehoboth Beach Convention Center.

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THE REAL DIRT

by Eric W. Wahl

Hydrangea, Hydrangea Everywhere, But When Do I Prune?

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ydrangeas are one of my favorite flowering shrubs, as well as my mom’s. One type or another was always in bloom around the house, providing fresh cut flowers for the dining room table.

I think I might have given my mom a small potted hydrangea every year for Mother’s Day. She planted it with care in an empty space in the garden or repotted it in larger containers. I don’t know if every single one survived, but many did and they provided years of enjoyment.

There are numerous species and cultivars to choose from so it can be mind-boggling. Mom had a Vanilla Strawberry™ Hydrangea just off the rear deck, a few ‘Limelight’ hydrangeas in the back as well, and some in containers. She had a lacecap hydrangea near the side yard. But my mom’s favorites are the ones that turn blue and pink, depending on the soil pH—and she strived for all the blue she could muster. There was a huge bigleaf hydrangea below our front porch that bloomed consistently every year, and it was a magnificent electric blue (now memorialized in a watercolor by one of our dear friends.)

With all these varieties it can get confusing on care and maintenance. Here are some pointers in order to get the most out these gorgeous shrubs.

There are five major groups of hydrangea: Bigleaf hydrangea include the mopheads (think traditional blue and pink), the lacecaps which have a different flowering pattern, and mountain hydrangeas that have smaller flowers but sturdier stems. You might recognize some of the names in this group such as ‘Endless Summer,’ ‘Twist-N-Shout,’ or ‘Tuff Stuff.’

Next are the panicle hydrangeas; they have more spike-like or cone-shaped flowers and can come in a wide range of colors. These seem to be a little more durable in our planting zone. ‘Strawberry Shake,’ ‘Limelight,’ and ‘Tinky Winky’ come to mind in this group.

Smooth hydrangeas are another group and are actually native to the southeastern United States. They can grow very large and, if left to their own devices, be used as privacy hedges. ‘Annabelle,’ ‘Incrediball,’ and ‘Invincibelle’ are a few common names you will see at the nursery.

The next group is my favorite, the oakleaf hydrangeas, named for the large leaves that resemble those of an oak.

These shrubs are native to the southeastern and Mid-Atlantic region, and the leaves can turn a brilliant shade of reddish-purple in autumn. Flowers can be large and have a cone-like form.

‘Snow Queen,’ ‘Ruby Slippers,’ and ‘Alice’ are a few examples.

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The last group of hydrangea is the climbing hydrangea. It’s a vine that can climb structures by using suckers that attach themselves and hold fast. They need major support as they get rather large and heavy with age. They display a white profusion of flowers all over the vines and can be quite stunning.

If you have the traditional pink/blue mophead hydrangea in your garden and would like to steer the color to more blue, you must amend your soil and make it more acidic. This can be done by adding sulfur to the soil. To make them more pinkish, make the soil more alkaline by adding ground lime. If your soil pH is in the mid range (6.0 to 7.0), you may get a purplish color or a mix of blue and pink.

Now, about pruning: The mophead hydrangeas do not really need to be pruned, ever. You can remove dead stems and the spent blooms as you see fit. This type of hydrangea blooms on old wood, so if you prune back this shrub you will not get new blooms the following season. If you need to invigorate the shrub after a few years, then cut 1/3 of the older stems to the ground.

Lacecap or oakleaf hydrangea must be pruned in early summer, so the opportunity is past. This way they have a chance of setting buds for the following year.

The panicle hydrangeas and smooth hydrangeas bloom on new wood. These types can be pruned almost anytime with the exception of spring or early summer when they are just about to bloom. Some gardeners prune smooth hydrangeas down to the ground to keep them in a manageable size, however, this may cause the blooms to be very heavy on the stems and they will flop over.

Panicle hydrangeas really only need to be pruned about once every three years. Taking out crossed branches (that rub each other) will also help keep the plant in better form.

A tip for cutting blooms to bring indoors: If cutting blooms after August 1, cut down only to the first set of large leaves without disturbing the buds for next year’s blooms.

The hydrangeas’ beauty comes every year, putting smiles on all that behold them. Every shade is special and each one is unique. I’m reminded of another quote from a nature lover, Lady Bird Johnson: “Where flowers bloom, so does hope.” ▼ Eric W. Wahl, RLA is a landscape architect at Element Design Group and president of the Delaware Native Plant Society.

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THIS PAGE 2) Monica Parr, Valerie McNickol, Gwen Osborne, Rusty Hesse, Michael Welborn, Gary Danforth, Eric Cylc, Susan Shollenberger, and Deb Bievenour at Sundance 2018. 3) Ryan Adamczyk, Jamie Peck, George Johnson, and Bob Ramsey at the Sundance Second Auction. 4) Delaware Speaker of the House Pete Schwartzkopf, Rehoboth Beach Commissioner Kathy McGuiness, Spiro Mantzavios, Dale Sheldon, Mark Hunker, Rehoboth Beach Commissioner Pat Coluzzi, Fay Jacobs, and Rehoboth Beach Commissioner Lisa Schlosser at Kathy’s Primary Night Party at Grotto’s. 5) Dan Kyle, Cheryl Lennon, Marvin Miller, Eha Grover, Eric Phelps, Malcolm Grover, Donna Grover, and Neil Grover at Clear Space Theatre. 6) Chris Beagle, Steve Hoult, Joey Kwit, and Roxy Castillo at the Sundance Racing Festival.

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Out & Proud

by Stefani Deoul

Where Did that “I Voted” Sticker Come From?

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ast week, Delaware had its primary elections, and first and foremost, thank you to everyone who ran for office.

This issue is about community, and to those who won, and to those who didn’t win, thank you for caring enough about our First State to put yourself out there.

I’d also like to take a moment and give a special shout out to two of the candidates who ran for the U.S. Senate this year, Democrat Kerri Harris and Republican Gene Truono, both of whom are openly gay. And that’s a good thing.

As I kept an eye on the returns, something on CNN struck a chord. In speaking about Harris’s challenge to Senator Tom Carper, they commented, “Respectful, per Delaware’s exacting demands for politeness in the political arena.…”

Per our demands for politeness in the political arena.

How cool is it that we demand politeness? How sad is it that we seem to be an anomaly? How lucky we are that we had people who cared enough to be classy!

And as the b-roll aired, I smiled as I caught sight of the multitudes of “I Voted” stickers, and then wondered, when exactly did that become a thing?

Time for the magic Google-lator machine…which led me down the rabbit hole to the history of the campaign button.

Which, it turns out goes back quite a ways. Seems during the very first United States of America inauguration, back in 1789, there was a metal pin, kind of like a brass button, given as a commemoration to Washington’s supporters. It had the initials GW and read, “Long Live the President.”

History doesn’t seem to know if that was simply happenstance wording or a deliberate dig at their old frenemy from across the pond. Hmmmm.…

But leaping forward, for a while it seems the odd commemorative button was given out here and there, right up until 1828. That would be the year Andrew Jackson ran against John Quincy Adams. Jackson, you may recall, first ran for president in 1824. He lost. So this time he threw himself parades, events, and tossed about lots of memorabilia. There were snuff boxes, flasks, and assorted buttons all designed to showcase his military successes.

In turn, the campaign became a mudslinging fest, with each candidate trying to discredit the other.

In the end, Jackson’s merchandizing is credited with winning the day, as he defeated John Quincy Adams handily. It is also credited with helping to set a precedent for all following elections, giving rise to the merchandised campaigns we see today.

And time marches on. In 1861, as Abraham Lincoln ran for president, pins with a ferrotype (a photograph made of tin

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and dark enamel or lacquer) of his image became the first campaign buttons to use a picture of a presidential candidate.

These pins featured Lincoln’s image on the front and a locking pin on the back.

By 1896, the first mass-produced and collectible buttons for presidential campaigns arrived in time for William McKinley running against William Jennings Bryan.

That’s when the company Whitehead and Hoag in Newark, New Jersey, patented pin-back celluloid buttons. They had a metal back, with a straight pin attached. On the front, there was a celluloid covering to protect the image.

These buttons could be produced for a reasonable price allowing candidates to distribute them widely and use them as true campaigning tools.

The McKinley/Bryan campaign buttons are remembered for more than just their look. That election year there had been a lunar eclipse. Playing on what was happening celestially, campaign pins for McKinley depicted the Democrat’s photo crossing over and “eclipsing” a photo of his Republican rival. Bryan’s campaign did the same, with slogans including “Total eclipse Nov. 6” and “Partial eclipse will be total in November.”

And now, there was no stopping it. In 1924, Calvin wanted us to “Keep Coolidge” and in 1952, perhaps the most famous of them all made its debut, the very simple Dwight David Eisenhower’s “I Like Ike.” As an aside, this was also the first campaign to successfully employ the “bumper sticker,” leading us to “bumper sticker politics,” which is still with us today. Bumper sticker politics. People relying on slogans or soundbites rather than researching issues for themselves, giving us politicians more concerned with branding and marketing than with actual content.

As for my original question about the appearance of the “I Voted” sticker, funnily enough, no one knows for sure when that happened. It seems to have first appeared in 1982 in Ft. Lauderdale, but that’s a best guess. What’s not a best guess is they are now a $30 million per year business!

So button or bumper sticker, “All The Way With JFK” or “Wild About Harry,” the point is to take pride, wear your campaign gear, and whatever you do, get up and vote. Your community needs you.

And remember, let’s do it the Delaware way: keep it civil and classy. ▼ Stefani Deoul is a television producer and author of the award-winning YA mystery On a LARP.

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THIS PAGE 5) Michael Day, Chuck McSweeney, Jared Schrader, Bruce Clayton, Phillip Flowers, Maggie Praley, and Anna Rexia at Purple Parrot. 6) Christiana McBride, Kathy Carpenter, Suzanne Freed, Marcy Kratz, Kristen Nelson, and Jessica Lynn at Jessica’s Presentation at CAMP Rehoboth. 7) Fay Jacobs, Mary Delaney, Bonnie Quesenberry Lee Walters, Patti Kim, Jason Bounds, Geoff Jackson, and Myrna Kelley at Rainbow Raftup. 8) Marty Smith, Jeff Haslon, Gary Pete, Greg Berman, Scott Sylvester, Scott Wagner, John Sohonage, Courtney Breneman, Ginger Breneman, Pete Borsari, and Joe Roy at Pete’s Birthday Party at The Pond.

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OPPOSITE PAGE 1) Keith Krueger, Jack Harman, Jimmy Friedman, Bob Jennings, John McCall, Joel Lawson, Ken Lane, Dan Hicks, Tony Burns, Tim Carr, Bill Schachte, Christopher Kaufman, and Charles Wilcher at 23 Robinson’s Summer Bash. 2) Sam Cooper, Diane Cooper, Rehoboth Beach Mayor Paul Kuhns, Nancy Alexander, Barbara Warnell, Doug Wingate, Trish Vernon, Anne Michele Kuhns, Rehoboth Beach Commissioner Lisa Schlosser, Kit Carson, Margaret Carson, John Newton, Robert Thompson, and Mowry Spencer at the Rehoboth Beach Museum Reopening Reception. 3) Bobby Hughes, Chris Turone, Vincent Cavuto, Darryl Ciarlante, Joe Zuber, and David Voight at Dos Locos. 4) Emilie Paternoster, Monica Parr, Joe Walker, Robert Simpson, Tony Burns, Trent Lawless, Eric Engelhart, Eric Gannon, Mychal Harrison, Billy Chen, Topher Hoffman, Chris Beagle, James Rhodes, Ariel Levinsky, Bob McCullough, Frank Trotter, Joe DiSalvo, and Michael Morrison at Aqua.

THIS PAGE 5) Anthony Colajezzi and Bill Shields at Aqua. 6) David Lewis, Mike Naida, Ken Mortensen, VJ Tran, Ed Cong, Paul Brenner, Greg Borrelli, Juan Oliveira, Darrell Watson, Bill Eullie, Paul Frene, Gary Adler, Telly Leung, JJ Johnson, Roxy Overbrooke, Magnolia Applebottom, Mona Lotts, Daniel Cannizio, and Pamala Stanley at Blue Moon. 7) Jason Wright, John VIdrih, Josh Bushey, Michael Reamy, and Gary Fisher at Gallery 50. 8) Richie Pagnotta, Bill Snow, Joe Filipek, and Larry Richardson at Bill & Richie’s Bastille Party. 9) Larry Pennington, David Lasher, Christine Moore, Cathy Liberty, Susannah Griffin, Ross Fusca, Edward Celata, Charles Plante, and Christian Cosden at Charles’ White Party.

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by Lee Lynch

There Is No Place Like Home

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was recently contemplating my shoes, which, along with clothes and boxes of books, are the only closeted things in our home.

That morning I had noticed my sweetheart attached a magnet depicting Dorothy’s ruby shoes to our back door. Now I’m as big a fan of The Wizard of Oz as the next gay person, but those shoes were never particularly significant to me. That might be because, as a little kid, I read and reread the 1903 edition of The Wizard of Oz handed down to me from my considerably older brother and, perhaps, from my father before him. The inscription from Grandma and Grandpa Lynch to my father is: “To read on train to North Dakota. March, 1939.”

Of course, the shoes were not rubycolored, as pointed out by the witty and erudite Kajmeister, in her blog The Page Turns, on kajmeister.com. Not long after the ruby slippers magnet went up, she posted “L. Frank Baum, author of all the Oz books, originally put the witch and Dorothy into silver, not ruby, shoes. The color was changed to ruby so that the new color process used by MGM could show the shoes off better against the yellow brick road.”

I checked the book. The color plates are in orange, blue, and yellow, no reds.

The road, by the way, is definitely yellow and the artist, W.W. Denslow, outlined bricks on one of the color pages. Baum describes the shoes as silver and pointed and “tinkling merrily on the hard, yellow roadbed.”

All that ruby slipper focus led to my footwear contemplations. Aside from tap shoes, the first pair I remember caring about were in a Medford, Massachusetts store front and made of faux alligator leather. Why I longed for them I have no idea, and I never got them. They were probably too expensive for my family.

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scarecrow. I wasn’t exactly a demure little girl. I used a lot of white liquid polish to cover scuffs and stains on my white sneaks, which were made of cotton. The stain also worked on white leather shoes, but the Mary Jane style didn’t suit me at all.

My mother always said loafers were bad for my feet, and they were, because I’ve had plantar fasciitis since the days we shopped at the Buster Brown shoe store on Main Street in Flushing, New York. But I loved my loafers, especially the ones dyed to the shade of a vanilla milkshake. These were the shoes of my coming out time. Nothing made me feel

L. Frank Baum, author of all the Oz books, originally put the witch and Dorothy into silver, not ruby, shoes. spiffier around town with my girlfriend Suzy than my vanilla loafers.

Except white sneakers, blue jeans, and a plain white sweatshirt, sleeves pushed up.

Except white bucks with crepe soles, blue jeans, a button-down shirt, and a golf jacket, collar up.

Then came the sixties. At college by then, I forswore shoes. As campus lesbian poet, it was practically expected.

There’s a photo of the barefoot student that was me in that yearbook, striding across campus like Dorothy, very much “a little girl…who had been suddenly whisked away from her own country and set down in the midst of a strange land.”

I found my “hippie sandals” at an upscale sidewalk sale in Boston. It was also the psychedelic era and sandals, among the liberal arts majors, were de rigueur.

Were any of these the silver (not ruby) shoes that would take me home?

Not yet. Not for a long while.

My generation of women got tired of doing the behind-the-scenes work for the revolution. We paradoxically experienced patriarchal oppression within the counterculture and got mad. No more Ms. Nice Girl; I bought shitkickers. In the 1970s, Army-Navy surplus stores carried the jump boots of paratroopers and the airborne forces. I felt pretty powerful lacing them up my calf and knowing the rigid toe cap could endanger male chauvinist pigs.

Next came the ankle-high Timberlands® which I bought to wear in chilly Connecticut. The tread didn’t cut it on the ice, and they did me no good whatsoever in deep snow so I made the sixties journey to California a little late (in the eighties) and bought my first Red Wing boots. Soon those Red Wings carried me west for good to the lesbian mountains, women’s land, and tall rubber mud boots.

Not that I left my Birkkies behind.

Arizonas, Bostons, I re-soled them until they weren’t fit to wear, then replaced them. I guess they were my middleage shoes, though I still wear the Arizona knock-offs recommended by my podiatrist. By the time one gets to Medicare, when plantar fasciitis rages and everything in Trumplandia costs double what it used to, the real thing isn’t as important as it once was.

Now that I can no longer run, the doc has put me in ASICS® running shoes. Men’s for the wide toe box. Neon green to honor the late young writer Sandra Moran, who ran in lively-colored shoes. My sweetheart and I even have waterproof Gore-Tex® ASICS®, for our Northwest rains and for walking our coastal beaches.

It seems like I never needed silver or ruby shoes to get home. ▼ Lee Lynch is a pioneering, award-winning LGBT writer, author of the classic novel The Swashbuckler. Her latest novel is Rainbow Gap.

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Out & About

by Eric C. Peterson

Jack Ryan, the Series and the Character, Are Not One-Note Portraits

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o, I went to visit my parents recently. It was a short visit, facilitated by a business trip to the Pacific Northwest, but since my clients were paying for it I took advantage of the holiday weekend and spent three days with my parents… my Catholic, politically conservative, ex-military parents.

Without much of a planned agenda or a houseful of nieces and nephews to keep us busy, at some point we naturally moved to the television. There, we set about locating a movie or show that none of us had seen, but all had at least a nominal interest in. After lobbing a few titles back and forth, we finally settled on Tom Clancy’s Jack Ryan, the new Amazon Prime series based on characters from Clancy’s novels, starring John Krasinski in the title role.

If I’m honest, had I not been sitting in my parents living room, outvoted, I probably would never have turned to Jack Ryan as my next binge. A series about CIA agents tracking radical Islamist terrorists isn’t really my standard oeuvre, and as I settled in to watch, I steeled myself for a barrage of explosions, ooh-rahs, toxic masculinity, and anti-Muslim stereotypes.

What I got, to my great surprise, was a much more nuanced portrait of the characters than I’d expected. Yes, Jack is a tall, white man who is something of a boy scout—a bit too good to be true in terms of moral compass, courage, detective work, and abdominal muscles. His primary antagonist, Sheikh Suleiman (Ali Suliman), is a Syrian terrorist who hates the West and willingly kills hundreds of innocent people to achieve political ends. That’s pretty much what I expected, and it’s all there.

And yet, there also was more. One of the most compelling characters in the series is Hanin Abdullah Suleiman (Dina Shihabi), who flees in the night with her two daughters from the Sheikh, her abusive husband—and only then learns the extent of his evil. As a woman, she clearly possesses less power than her husband—but as a character in the narrative, she’s just as compelling, if not more so. She doesn’t have strong political leanings; rather, is motivated primarily by maternal love and a fierce desire to protect her children.

Hanin’s story reflects the reality of women’s disempowerment, living in a particular part of the world, with a particular kind of man who practices a very particular kind of Islam. At the same time, it also creates a compelling character study; she knows that her life has been marked by injustice and that her children—particularly her two daughters—will be similarly unsafe if she doesn’t make a heroic effort to escape.

And then there is Sheikh Suleiman himself. Yes, he’s a mass murderer. He’s also a charismatic one, who smiles easily and treats his followers with respect and care. Additionally, the show takes great pains to let you know that he wasn’t born a monstrous sociopath. The opening moments of the very first episode depict a pair of Lebanese boys diligently doing their chores, who notice a formation of fighter jets above them.

Moments later, they are suddenly and violently the victims of a bombing, presumably at the hands of Americans. One of those boys grows up to be Sheikh Suleiman.

Later in the show, flashbacks depict a much younger Suleiman attempting to find work at a high-end bank in Paris. The interview is a disaster, and the white Frenchmen who condescend to him throughout are portrayed as despicable bigots. Of course, none of this excuses his actions as an adult, but the show does note that his anger at the West isn’t entirely unfounded—and might, in fact, be something that the West itself created.

And still, Muslims, all 1.8 billion of them, are roughly a quarter of the world’s population, and the show, being what it is, portrays a murderous religious fervor that is entirely foreign to most of those people. Luckily (or more accurately, by design), the show also features an American Muslim: Jack’s boss at the CIA, James Greer (Wendell Pierce).

He’s not especially devout as the story begins, but there is a terrific scene between Greer and a blatantly Islamophobic French spy, wherein Greer quietly shuts down a bigoted rant simply by removing his prayer beads from his pocket.

If you’re into spy thrillers, Jack Ryan is a fun ride. As I’ve noted, it’s not my preferred genre, but I’m likely to finish Season 1, if only to spend a little more time mooning at John Krasinski’s handsome face. And secure in the knowledge that the creators of this show took great pains to avoid furthering blind hatred of “the other,” and opted instead for a subtler— and therefore richer and more rewarding—story.

She knows that her life has been marked by injustice and that her children—particularly her two daughters—will be similarly unsafe if she doesn’t make a heroic effort to escape.

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Imagine—New Works by Terrance Vann

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Imagine opens October 1, with a reception Sunday, October 14 during the Block Party (12-4 p.m.).

’m fascinated as to why we have two words for the season we’re now entering. Fall and autumn were employed by virtually every English-speaking country in the world, and though both made their way to the colonies, we Americans tend to use fall more than autumn.

Though autumn has been in use since the 1300s, the season was also known as harvest—a lovely term, but most of us don’t really have much to harvest these days.

Those darned 17th century British poets became enchanted by the phrase ‘the fall of the leaves’ and shortened it to fall.

I say we ditch the names the rest of the world uses and call spring “Rise,” or substitute “Hot” or “Happy” for summer, and “Cold” or “Misery” for winter! I mean we’ve already swapped British car part terms like boot for trunk and bonnet for hood, and we eat potato chips instead of crisps; their chips are our French fries, our cookies are their biscuits… it’s exhausting.

Ultimately I don’t care what you call this delightful time of year.

I’m going to savor these cooler days, gaze endlessly at the leaves as they change color, pull out the sweaters, flannel shirts, and long pants, stock up on good Scotch and replenish my tea cabinet…and organize my calendar so that I don’t miss any of the arts-related bounty of the season! I urge you, gentle reader, to do the same before you autumn into binge-watching Netflix all winter. Orange is the new green.

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Terrace Vann is a graduate of Wilmington’s Cab Calloway School for the Arts and also studied at the School of Visual Arts in New York and at the Art Institute in Philadelphia.

He was a 2017 Delaware Division of the Arts Individual Artist Fellowship recipient and is excited to exhibit his work at CAMP Rehoboth.

Vann explores the human experience by infusing elements of contemporary street culture into his work. His distinctive style calls to mind both ornate street art and surrealism. “The overall thing I’m trying to establish with my art is something I’m calling neo-Afro-surrealism,” says Vann. “We’ve seen so many art movements that have been spearheaded by different artists, but there hasn’t been a whole lot of genres that are attributed to African-Americans.

“It’s everyday city life, which a lot of people shy away from. I try to highlight what never gets highlighted, in a way that’s appealing visually but leaves questions—what neighborhood are they from? Why’s that expression on their faces? That’s what we should be asking about—the people who are going through things that we may not understand.”

Vann’s art was recently featured at the Delaware Art Museum in an exhibition called Uprising, a multidisciplinary art production that also features choreography by Ashley SK Davis. He is excited to announce he has been selected to participate in the Ante Art Fair, one of the biggest new art fairs across the pond in London!

CAMP Rehoboth’s October 14 Block Party is a wonderful community celebration that includes the arts! Stop by the CAMP Rehoboth Gallery to see Vann’s exhibition, and visit with the many artists and arts organization who will have booths along the block. ▼

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Here’s Some Show Biz Our very active theater community appears to have not only next season on their minds, but a heap of brick and mortar as well! All four of our local groups—Clear Space Theatre Company, Milton Theatre, Second Street Players, and Possum Point Players have announced plans to remodel, renovate, or re-locate.

Second Street closes mid-December for a major renovation; Possum Point is working toward a renovation of their lobby; Milton Theatre has announced a capital campaign to buy the property and make significant renovations; and Clear Space (as reported in the Cape Gazette) may be looking for a new space in the next few years and has begun their own capital campaign.

This is an excellent indicator of the growth of our arts community. While fundraising can be a daunting journey, I predict success for each organization—but only with your assistance! You’ll find links to all four groups listed under Performing Arts, and I’m certain you can navigate to their donation page. It’s time to be as generous with our resources as they have been providing us with bountiful entertainment. ▼

arts+entertainment PERFORMING ARTS CAMP Rehoboth Chorus (37 Baltimore Ave.; 302-227-5620; camprehoboth.com) begins rehearsals on October 1 for their President’s Day Weekend 2019 presentation of Seasons of Love—celebrating their first decade of making music. The Chorus was founded by Bill McManus and our own Fay Jacobs in 2010, and has grown from 27 voices to 93! Since many of us don’t have our 2019 calendars yet, put a post-it on the ‘fridge to remind you to get tickets early, as last season’s concerts were completely sold out.

Capital Ringers (capitalringers.org) starts rehearsals for their holiday concerts soon and are always looking for “ringers.” Contact them if you’re an English handbell ringer or support them as a fan by attending their touring performances.

Clear Space Theatre Company (20 Baltimore Avenue; 302-227-2270; ClearSpaceTheatre.org) produces the winner of the 2007 Pulitzer Prize—David Lindsay-Abaire’s drama Rabbit Hole.

Trust me, it’s a life-changer! September 21-October 7. Next up: Heathers—the “killer” musical based on the classic 1989 film, with music by my talented Broadway buddy Laurence O’Keefe! On the Clear Space boards October 19-31.

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Premier Centre for the Arts at Milton Theater (110 Union St., Milton; 302-6843038; miltontheatre.com) “keeps Milton weird”! September 21: Psychic Deanna Fitzpatrick; September 22: The Ultimate Robin Williams Experience; September 23: Singer/Songwriter Evening featuring Sol Knopf, Ed Shockley, Keith Mack & Cliff Hillis; September 28/29: Assisted Living the Musical—How the Older Half Lives!; September 30: Christine Havrilla and Gypsy Fuzz, Porter & Sayles; October 4: Wall of Cain; October 5: Joey Callahan Comedy; October 7: Delmarva Big Band; October 12: Delaware Comedy Theatre; October 14: Abbamania; October 18: Revival House film They Live; October 19: Magnolia Applebottom’s Night of the Living Drag; October 20: Milton Zombie Fest (matinee)/Rocky Horror Picture Show (evening); October 25: Kirtan: Transcendental Jam Session; October 26: Dynamo; October 27: Divine Hand Ensemble; October 28: Coco.

Rehoboth Concert Band (703-598-9867; rehobothconcertband.org) is looking for new members—especially clarinet and percussion, so go buy a new reed and a set of drum sticks and join this terrific organization. They rehearse Thursday evenings (7p.m.) at the Rehoboth Senior Center.

Independent films at their Cinema Art Theatre. Check their website for updates and show times. The Met: Live in HD fall opera season kicks off with Verdi’s Aida (October 13-16), followed by Saint-Saëns’ Samson et Dalila (October 27 & 29).

Mark your calendars for the Rehoboth Beach Independent Film Festival— November 1-11!

Second Street Players (2 South Walnut Street, Milford; 302-422-0220/800-8383006; secondstreetplayers.com) opens their Children’s Theatre production of Rumpelstiltskin (October 5-7), followed by their holiday offering Miracle on 34th Street (November 23–December 2). The theatre will be closed for renovations through March 2019, and celebrate the event with Bryan Clark on December 7.

Southern Delaware Chorale (P.O. Box 444; 302-260-7022; southerndelawarechorale.org) performs a broad variety of liturgical and secular choral music from many traditions and genres under the direction of Dr. Colin Armstrong, and begins rehearsing for their presentation of Handel’s Messiah in September. Interested singers may contact them with the information provided.

VISUAL ARTS

Abraxas Studio of Art (515 Federal Mercy’s Well—Epworth UMC (19285 Street, Lewes; 302-645-9119; abraxasart.

Holland Glade Rd.; 302-227-7743; com) features the oil portraits and landRehoboth Beach Film Society (17701 eumcrb.org/mercyswell/) welcomes scape paintings of Abraxas and his own Dartmouth Drive, Lewes; 302-313-4032; Mercy’s Well—one of the country’s rehobothfilm.com) screens the best new style of illuminated reality. most talented Gospel/Contemporary Reflector, painting by Howard Eberle at Peninsula Gallery.

Christian trios on September 29 (7p.m.).

Tickets are available at the door or in the main office during business hours. The concert benefits Epworth’s Christmas Joy 365 Ministry which provides assistance to needy families at the holidays.

Possum Point Players (441 Old Laurel Road, Georgetown; 302-856-4560; possumpointplayers.org) presents A Night of Motown Hits starring a talented cast, directed by Claudius Bowden and Lillian Blake. October 27 (7:30p.m.) and October 28 (2:00p.m.). The show is a fundraiser for the Possum’s lobby refurbishment and includes a 50/50 raffle, SEPTEMBER 21, 2018

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arts+entertainment Delaware Art Gallery (239 Rehoboth Avenue; 302-853-5099; kevinfleming. com) offers new and classic Delaware photographs by Kevin Fleming.

Painting by Kyle Hackett at Rehoboth Art League.

Anna Hazzard Museum (17 Christian Street, 302-2261119) is a captivating look at the early history of Rehoboth Beach as a religious retreat.

The museum is housed in one of the original “tent” houses from Rehoboth’s 1870s campmeeting era and is named for former owner and civic leader, Anna Hazzard.

The Brush Factory on Kings (830 Kings Highway, Lewes; 302-745-2229; Facebook@ brushlewes) an artist/craft co-op: furniture, art, clothing, antiques, and more.

CAMP Rehoboth Gallery (37 Baltimore Avenue; 302-2275620; camprehoboth.com) on display through September 30 is Scratched—presented in conjunction with the Rehoboth Beach Bears Weekend, featuring works by area artists depicting the bear/cub community. Artists’ reception is Saturday, September 22 (4:30-6:30 p.m.). Imagine, works by Terrace Vann, opens October 1, with a reception Sunday, October 14 during the Block Party (12-4p.m.).

Cape Artists Gallery (110 W. 3rd Street, Lewes; 302-644-7733) represents two dozen artists, with much of their work focusing on beach scenes.

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Gallery 50 Contemporary Art & Frame Shop (50 A-B Wilmington Avenue; 302227-2050; gallery50art. com) features a variety of artworks in painting, jewelry, glass, sculpture, ceramics, mixed media, mobiles, as well as special events. Sallie Otenasek opens a new show September 28.

Heidi Lowe Gallery (328 Rehoboth Avenue; 302-2279203; heidilowejewelry.com) has beautiful and unique hand-made pieces (including wedding rings!) and offers classes in jewelry making.

Painting With a Twist (17723 Coastal Highway; 302-3135769; paintingwithatwist. com/lewes/) offers painting classes and “pARTies” for all occasions. Visit their website for details.

Peninsula Gallery (520 E. Savannah Road, Lewes; 302-645-0551; peninsula-gallery.com) presents An Hour in Pastel by Laura Hickman, Rehoboth Art League.

the Quiet featuring works by pastel artist Nick Serratore, inspired by the images of Delaware State Parks’ official photographer, April Allyson Abel. Through September 30.

Opening October 6—Mutual Interests with work by Richard Calvo, Howard Eberle, and Steve Rogers. Opening reception: Saturday, October 6.

Rehoboth Art League (12 Dodds Lane, Henlopen Acres; 302-227-8408; rehobothartleague.org) has a fantastic schedule of classes—pottery to pen and ink technique to jewelry making…something for everyone. Current exhibitions: About Face—A Members’ Showcase Exhibition (through October 31); Beach Blowout— Juried Members’ Showcase Exhibition (through December 30); and the 8th Regional Juried Biennial Exhibition (through October 13). Check their website for a complete schedule of exhibits, salons, and gallery talks.

Rehoboth Beach Museum (511 Rehoboth Avenue at the Canal; 302-227-7310; rehobothbeachmuseum.org) has completed renovations to their second floor and revamped their permanent collection exhibits, and is OPEN! Check their website for some great walking tours of the area and fascinating lectures.

Stuart Kingston (1 Grenoble Place; 302-227-2524; stuartkingston.com) is an auction house and retail store offering fine art and home furnishings.

The Studio on 24 (20231 John J. Williams Highway, Lewes; 302-644-4424; thestudioon24.com) is open by appointment only, but worth it

Painting by Frank Williams, Rehoboth Art League.

to visit with owner and artisan Deb Appleby and view her custom-made glassware.

Tideline Gallery (146 Rehoboth Avenue; 302-227-4444; tidelinegallery.com) offers unique gifts, jewelry, pottery, and art glass.

Ward Ellinger Gallery (CAMP Rehoboth Courtyard, 39 Baltimore Avenue; 302-227-2710) features art in different mediums by abstract expressionist Ward Ellinger and Sondra N. Arkin.▼ Doug is the Artistic and Musical Director for CAMP Rehoboth Chorus, Director of Music Ministries at Epworth UMC, and co-founder and Artistic Director emeritus of the Clear Space Theater Company. Contact Doug at dougyetter@gmail.com if you want to add your events to the calendar. Check out CAMP Arts on our website at camprehoboth. com for links to all the listed theatres, galleries and museums This program is supported, in part, by a grant from the Delaware Division of the Arts, a state agency, in partnership with the National Endowment for the Arts. The Division promotes Delaware arts events on www.DelawareScene.com.

November 1 - 11

November 1 - 11 Featuring the best American and International independent feature, documentary, and short films.

Featuring the best American and International independent feature, • 11 days of films documentary, and short films.

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This organization is supported, in part, by a grant from the Delaware Division of the Arts, a state agency, in partnership with the National Endowment for the Arts. The Division promotes Delaware arts events on www.DelawareScene.com.

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by Terri Schlichenmeyer

BOOKED SOLID Whiskey When We’re Dry

by John Larison c.2018, Viking, $28.00/$35.00 Canada

It was right here a minute ago.

You saw it, but now it’s gone and you have to find it.

Beneath a newspaper, atop a shelf, under a blanket, wherever it is, it was just right here—and as in the new book Whiskey When We’re Dry by John Larison, you’d search years to have it back.

Jessilyn Harney never knew her mother.

She died in childbirth, leaving Jessilyn’s father to raise Jessilyn and her brother, Noah, who was five years older.

Noah took care of Jessilyn when their father drank too much syrup. He was a good brother, making sure she was warm, dressed, and protected—until the year she turned thirteen and, as young men are wont to do, Noah had a fight with his father and rode away.

For a few years, Jessilyn did what she could to help her father run things, but he’d gotten addled in that fight, and was never the same. Sensing the truth, perhaps, he schooled her on sharp-shooting for protection, and he talked of marrying her off. Six days after he left on a solitary ride, Jessilyn found his bones scattered. Not knowing what to do, she asked if the nearby Mormon family might take her in, and she was denied.

That was when Jessilyn went into the old wooden box that Noah left behind. She found some of his outgrown clothes—

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things that fit her fine—and she became Jesse.

Women on the frontier stuck out, he learned, but a baby-faced man was mostly ignored. Still, he was soft and that cost him; he was unwise to the world, and that cost more, though guns would ultimately protect Jesse and they’d generate money in wagers with fools who thought a lad wasn’t good with a Colt.

But Jesse didn’t want money; he only wanted one thing.

Noah had taken up with some outlaws, and there was a bounty on his head, dead or alive. Sharp-shooting was fun, but Jesse only wanted to find Noah before the law did.

Reading Whiskey When We’re Dry is like opening dozens of little gifts at Christmas: each time a surprise occurs, it’s a delight—the last, no less than the first. Author John Larison does that over and over again, gifting readers with a great opening, exceptional characters, and plenty to unwrap.

Set in the years following the Civil War, in an unnamed state, this book offers a lot to fans of many genres: for sure, this is an oater, complete with hosses and outlaws. With stunningly-described scenery, it’s a book for adventurers. There’s a gauzily-told romance with another woman here, and small crushes on gun-slinging men. It’s un-PC, so beware! There’s heroism in this novel, but not where you might anticipate it.

Take this book on that last-minute vacation you’ve got.

Take it to bed, and don’t expect to sleep. Take Whiskey When We’re Dry—take it, take it wherever you go. If you’re in need of a sweeping epic that offers plenty of mini-shocks throughout, it’s right here. ▼ Terri Schlichenmeyer has been reading since she was three years old and never goes anywhere without a book. Always Overbooked, she lives on a hill in Wisconsin with two dogs and 15,000 books.

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Reb Lisa Levine Joins Seaside Jewish Community as Religious Leader

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easide Jewish Community of Rehotake these reins,” she says. “Rabbi Beth both Beach is pleased to announce has built a strong congregation. I see that Cantor/Rabbinic Pastor Lisa Seaside as a wheel with all of us conLevine has become its new Religious nected to the spiritual center. I want to Leader. be of service and I am here to help guide Reb Lisa, using the title ‘Reb’ signifying this wheel. It is all about relationships.” the pastoral focus of her rabbinic studies, Buddy Feldman adds, “Rabbi Beth succeeds Rabbi Beth Cohen, Seaside’s Cohen, Seaside Jewish Community’s first religious leader, who retired this year first spiritual leader, has been instruand who will remain Rabbi Emeritus. mental in the success and growth of “Reb Lisa Levine is a welcome adSeaside, in terms of its inclusive apdition to the Seaside community,” says proach, increasing membership, and Buddy Feldman, co-president of Seaparticipation in interfaith activities in the side Jewish Community. “She brings a larger Sussex County community.” special talent in music and a passion for Reb Lisa and her husband, Andy new ideas and expanded programming.

Levine, will divide their time between We look forward to seeing how her crehomes in Rehoboth Beach and Brookeativity will bring new energy to all of our ville, Maryland. Reb Lisa has been spiritual and educational activities. I look serving as a Cantor for nearly 30 years. forward to working with her for many Over the past 10 years, she served as years to come.” the cantor at Temple Shalom in Chevy Reb Lisa said she is honored to step Chase and has been active with the into Rabbi Beth’s shoes.

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Montgomery County. She is a nationally recognized songwriter, having released multiple albums.▼

Ward Ellinger located in the camp rehoboth courtyard

works by ward ellinger at the ward ellinger gallery 39 baltimore avenue, rehoboth beach For more information, call 302-227-2710 or visit our Facebook page at Ward Ellinger Gallery

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Eating Out The British Are Coming!

Oh Wait, They’re Already Here.

by Michael Gilles

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o fish!, the popular fish and chips restaurant on the ocean block of Rehoboth Avenue, is a tiny eatery that thinks big. Providing fish and chips to the area since 2002, owner and London native Alison Blyth has brought to the states a wide choice of British dishes: beer-battered fish and chips, bangers and mash, shepherd’s pie, mushy peas, and sticky toffee pudding (featured on The Today Show).

She also gives American food its due, with boardwalk favorites like crabcakes, stuffed flounder and shrimp, steak, softshell crabs, and fish tacos.

Seven days a week throughout the year, you can have all of this with a pint of hard-to-find English beer.

Our first lunch visit to this fine little restaurant found us splitting our allegiances. Sally ordered the “Brighton Beach” Crabcake Sandwich. The sandwich was a good size and the crab featured a spice used in excellent proportion to the cake. The sandwich stayed together and the crab wasn’t dry.

A buttery bun only added to the flavor.

Feeling more British than Sally, I ordered the go fish! Shepherd’s Pie. This pie was huge, almost twice the size I am used to. The beef was flavorful, and finely complemented by carrots and onions. All of this covered by an ample portion of mashed potato, with just the right fluffy consistency and slightly crusted on top.

We planned to leave the restaurant totally satisfied, so convinced ourselves to try their brownie covered in chocolate sauce, caramel sauce, and whipped cream. To our credit, we ate only half and took the rest home to devour later.

I’ve also found myself outside Rehoboth proper having a particular yen…beer-battered anything. Ms. Blyth has taken care of that problem. In 2017, go brit!, go fish!’s “little sister,” opened up on Route 1 in Lewes. It mostly mirrors go fish!, except that the menu is slightly smaller

Feeling more British than Sally, I ordered the go fish!

Shepherd’s Pie.

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and food is ordered at a counter, then delivered to your table. It has the same good service, though.

In lieu of a server taking your order, a person behind the counter does the same. Our order taker was every bit as helpful as a server. Adrienne explained the menu, helped us choose our meals, and brightened our day with her sunny disposition.

In addition to the tiny British flags ringing the dining area, there is a Mini Cooper right inside the door! By the counter area, there are life-size cardboard cutouts of the Queen and Prince Harry who, it turns out, is my height.

At go brit!, I tried the clam chowder as my starter. It had a heavenly flavor I couldn’t identify. One of the helpful staff scurrying around delivering food divulged the secret: Chardonnay! This chowder was memorable. Sally had chips and three kinds of sauces (sweet chili, curry, and chipotle) that were delicious.

The never-frozen chips were thick, crispy on the outside with a soft center.

I then ordered what the sister restaurants are famous for, their beerbattered fish and chips, while Sally tried the beer-battered shrimp atop a Caesar salad. The fish was Alaskan pollock dipped in a homemade, light and crispy batter. The salad consisted of romaine hearts, a small detail but one missed by many restaurants.

My new love is beer batter! Sally loves it too. Our pollock and shrimp were enveloped in the light and crunchy batter, which is not greasy and complements the seafood perfectly. go fish! and go brit! offer area diners the best of both worlds, British comfort food and American seafood favorites served in large portions by chipper staffs for reasonable prices. Yes, the British are here, and we are glad! ▼ Michael Gilles is a writer, playwright, and theatrical producer, retired to Milton, and gleefully scoping out the culinary coast. Sally is his fellow dining adventurer.

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CAMPDates SUNDAYS

• Alcoholics Anon. Open Discussion.

CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 9 am.

• Brunch w/Pamala Stanley. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 10 am. 302-227-6515 • 3rd Sunday. Drag Brunch. Goolee’s Grille, 11 S. 1st St. 1-3 pm. 302-227-7653 • T-Dance. Diego’s Hideaway, 37298 Rehoboth Ave. 3 pm.

• 4th Sunday. Healing Circle.

CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 5 pm.

• Ed Mills. Rigby’s Grill, 404 Rehoboth Ave. 5 pm. 302-227-6080 • Pamala Stanley. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 6 pm. 302-227-6515 • Last Sunday of each month. TransSocial of Delaware. Metropolitan Community Church, 19369 Plantations Rd., Lewes.

7 pm. Visit meetup.com/RehobothTransLiance • Last Dance. Diego’s Hideaway, 37298 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm.

• Games w/Magnolia. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 9:30 pm. 302-227-6515 • The Birdcage Bad Girls Drag Show.

Purple Parrot Grill, 134 Rehoboth Ave. 10 pm. 302-226-1139

MONDAYS

• Insight Meditation. St. Peters, Mulberry St, Lewes. 4 pm. 302-644-2514 • Matthew Kenworthy. Rigby’s Grill, 404 Rehoboth Ave. 5 pm. 302-227-6080 • Pamala Stanley. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 6 pm. 302-227-6515 • Bandeoke! Karaoke with a live band.

Murph’s Beef & Ale, 37169 Rehoboth Ave. 7 pm. 302-212-5355

TUESDAYS

• Pamala Stanley. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 6 pm. 302-227-6515 • 2nd Tuesday. PFLAG. Lewes Library, 111 Adams St. 6 pm. pflagrehobothbeach@ gmail.com • 3rd Tuesday. Kent County LGBT Dover Support and Social Group. Christ Episcopal Church, 523 South State St., Dover. 7 pm. lgbtdover_kent@yahoo.com • Young People’s AA. CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 8 pm.

• Bingo w/the Blue Moon Divas. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 9:30 pm. 302-227-6515

WEDNESDAYS

• John Flynn. Shorebreak Lodge, A Restaurant. 10 Wilmington Ave. 5 pm.

302-227-1007 • Pamala Stanley. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 6 pm. 302-227-6515

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• 2nd Wednesday. Alzheimer’s Caregiver Support Group. CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 6:30 pm. 302-227-5620 • Alt. Wednesdays. Men’s Discussion Group.

Epworth United Methodist Church, 19285 Holland Glade Rd. 7 pm. 302-227-5620 • Karaoke. Rigby’s Grill, 404 Rehoboth Ave. 8 pm. 302-227-6080 • Showcase w/Mona Lotts. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 9:30 pm. 302-227-6515

THURSDAYS

• Alcoholics Anon. CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 12 noon. 302-856-6452 • Pamala Stanley. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 6 pm. 302-227-6515 • Holly Lane w/John Flynn. Café Azafran, 18 Baltimore Ave. 7 pm. 302-227-8100 • SLAA/SAA Meeting. All Saints Church Hall, Lower Level, 18 Olive Ave. 7:30 pm.

302-745-7929 • Lower Case Blues. Murph’s Beef & Ale, 37169 Rehoboth Ave Ext. 7:30 pm.

302-212-5355 • Karaoke. Rigby’s Grill, 404 Rehoboth Ave. 8 pm. 302-227-6080 • Karaoke. Purple Parrot Grill, 134 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm. 302-226-1139 • Karaoke with the Blue Moon Divas.

Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 9:30 pm.

302-227-6515

FRIDAYS

• 1st Friday. FURst Friday Bear Happy Hour.

The Pond, 3 S. First St. 302-227-2234 • John Flynn. Shorebreak Lodge, A Restaurant. 10 Wilmington Ave. 5 pm.

302-227-1007 • Karaoke. Rigby’s Grill, 404 Rehoboth Ave. 8 pm. 302-227-6080 • Karaoke. Purple Parrot Grill, 134 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm. 302-226-1139 • Gear It UP Fridays. Diego’s Hideaway, 37298 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm. 302-227-1023 • Spotlight Show. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 9:45 pm. 302-227-6515

SATURDAYS

• 1st & 3rd Saturdays. Women’s Coffee Talk.

CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 10 am. 302-227-5620 • Karaoke. Rigby’s Grill, 404 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm. 302-227-6080 • Karaoke. Purple Parrot Grill, 134 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm. 302-226-1139 • ManDance. Diego’s Hideaway, 37298 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm. 302-227-1023 • Legends. Blue Moon, 35 Baltimore Ave. 9:30 pm. 302-227-6515

SEPTEMBER 21 • Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 7 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets • CAMP Rehoboth Women’s FEST Presents “The Reunion Tour 2018” with Cris Williamson, Barbara Higbie, and Teresa Trull. Epworth United Methodist Church, 19285 Holland Glade Rd. $35 pp. 7:30 pm • Deanna Fitzpatrick. Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302-684-3038. 8 pm.

Tickets: miltontheatre.com

• Assisted Living the Musical—How the Older Half Lives. Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302-684-3038. 8 pm. Tickets: miltontheatre.com

SEPTEMBER 30 • Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 3 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets

OCTOBER 2

• JamBEARee w/DJ Ryan. Diego’s Hideaway, 37298 Rehoboth Ave. 9 pm

• FREE Flu Shots. CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 1:306 pm. Call 302-227-5620

SEPTEMBER 22

OCTOBER 5-7

• Bearhole Farms Fun Fest to benefit the Joshua M. Freeman Foundation. 37756 Bearhole Rd., Selbyville. 10 am-3 pm.

Information: bearholefarms.com

• 42nd Annual Fall Sidewalk Sale, 10 am to 8 pm.

• Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 7 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets

• Buddy Up Party to benefit the Boardwalk Buddy Walk. Dewey Beach Lions Club, 115 McKinley St. & the Bay. 5 pm. Information boardwalkbuddywalk.com

SEPTEMBER 23 • Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 3 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets • Honey T-Dance w/DJ Biff. Diego’s Hideaway, 37298 Rehoboth Ave. 3-8 pm.

SEPTEMBER 27 • Grief Support Group. CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 3 pm. 302-754-1954 or kevin@kevinblisscoaching.com • Transcendental Jam Session w/Kirtan.

Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302-6843038. 6 pm. Tickets: miltontheatre.com

SEPTEMBER 28 • Assisted Living the Musical—How the Older Half Lives. Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302-684-3038. 8 pm.

Tickets: miltontheatre.com

OCTOBER 5

• Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 7 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets

OCTOBER 6 • Boardwalk Buddy Walk. Rehoboth Beach Bandstand. 9 am. Register at boardwalkbuddywalk.com • Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 7 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets

OCTOBER 7 • 10th Annual Celebrity Chefs’ Beach Brunch to benefit Meals on Wheels. Rusty Rudder, Dewey Beach. Tickets: mealsonwheelsde. org/event/celebrity-chefs-beach-brunch/ • Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 3 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets

• Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 7 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets

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OCTOBER 10

• Historic Lewes Farmer’s Market. George H.P. Smith Park, Lewes 8 am-12 pm.

302-644-1436 • 4th Annual Southern Delaware Wine, Food, Music Festival. Independence Clubhouse, Millsboro. Noon-4pm. $75 pp Tickets: sodelfest.com • Assisted Living the Musical—How the Older Half Lives. Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302-684-3038. 2 pm.

Tickets: miltontheatre.com • Rabbit Hole. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270. 7 pm.

Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/buy-tickets

• True Blue Jazz Festival. Complete schedule of events: truebluejazz.org

• Fall in Love with NYC Bus Trip presented

by CAMP Rehoboth. 7 am-11 pm.

• Harriet Tubman Bus Tour presented by CAMP Rehoboth and Southern Delaware Alliance for Racial Justice. 8 am-3 pm.

OCTOBER 11-14 • Rehoboth Beach Jazz Festival. Complete schedule of events: rehobothbeachjazz.com

OCTOBER 11 • Notes on the Beach. Cuvee Ray, 236 Rehoboth Ave. 4 pm. 302-567-2942

SEPTEMBER 21–OCTOBER 27

• Lower Case Blues. Murph’s Beef & Ale, 37169 Rehoboth Ave. Ext. 7:30 pm.

302-212-5355

OCTOBER 12 • Crescent City Collection. Cuvee Ray, 236 Rehoboth Ave. 4 pm. 302-567-2942 • Holly Lane w/Bob Diener. Café Azafran, 18 Baltimore Ave. 6:30 pm. 302-227-8100 • The Girlfriends. Murph’s Beef & Ale, 37169 Rehoboth Ave. Ext. 7 pm.

302-212-5355 • Bobby Sanabria & Ascension. The Atlantic Sands Ballroom, Baltimore Ave. & The Boardwalk. 8 pm Tickets: truebluejazz.org • Elwood Bishop Plus. Cuvee Ray, 236 Rehoboth Ave. 8:30 pm. 302-567-2942

OCTOBER 13 • Vincent Varrassi. Cuvee Ray, 236 Rehoboth Ave. 4 pm. 302-567-2942 • Holly Lane w/Bob Diener. Café Azafran, 18 Baltimore Ave. 6:30 pm. 302-227-8100 • Fil Rhythm Band. Murph’s Beef & Ale, 37169 Rehoboth Ave. Ext. 7 pm.

302-212-5355

• Wycliffe Gordon & The Mid-Atlantic Jazz All Stars. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 7:30 pm & 9:30 pm.

Tickets: truebluejazz.org • Hot Sauce. Cuvee Ray, 236 Rehoboth Ave. 8:30 pm. 302-567-2942

OCTOBER 14 • Holly Lane w/Bob Diener. Blue Coast, 30115 Veterans Way. 11am-2 pm. 302-278-7395 • CAMP Rehoboth Block Party. Baltimore Ave. noon-4 pm. Information: 302-2275620, camprehoboth.com • Sean Lane w/Justine Miller. Cuvee Ray, 236 Rehoboth Ave. 5 pm. 302-567-2942

OCTOBER 17 • ACLU Kandler Memorial Awards Dinner Honoring Steve Elkins. Chase Center on the Riverfront, Wilmington, DE. Contact David Bever at dbever@alu-de.org or 302-654-5326 x 100

OCTOBER 18 • They Live. Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302684-3038. 7 pm. Tickets: miltontheatre.com

OCTOBER 19

OCTOBER 24

• Heathers the Musical. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270.

7 pm. Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/ buy-tickets

• Ghosts of Delaware presented by CAMP Rehoboth. CAMP Rehoboth Community Center, 37 Baltimore Ave. 7 pm

• Magnolia Applebottom. Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302-684-3038. 8 pm.

Tickets: miltontheatre.com

OCTOBER 20

OCTOBER 25 • Heathers the Musical. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270.

7 pm. Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/ buy-tickets

• Milton Zombie Fest. Milton Theatre, 110 Union St. 302-684-3038. 12 pm.

Tickets: miltontheatre.com

OCTOBER 26-28

• Heathers the Musical. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270.

7 pm. Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/ buy-tickets

OCTOBER 26

OCTOBER 21 • Heathers the Musical. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270.

3 pm. Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/ buy-tickets

• Rehoboth Beach Seawitch Festival

• Heathers the Musical. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270.

7 pm. Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/ buy-tickets

OCTOBER 27 • Heathers the Musical. Clear Space Theatre, 20 Baltimore Ave. 302-227-2270.

7 pm. Tickets: clearspacetheatre.org/ buy-tickets

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All Saints’ Episcopal Church

Westminster Presbyterian Church

18 Olive Avenue Rehoboth Beach (302) 227-7202 SUNDAY SERVICES 8:00 & 10:00 a.m. Holy Communion 9:00 a.m. Breakfast in the Parish Hall

WELCOMES YOU!

St. George’s Chapel, Rt. 23 - 20274 Beaver Dam Rd., Harbeson at 9:30 a.m.

Thursday Service • 11:30 a.m. Holy Communion and Healing

A friendly and fully inclusive parish. www.allsaintsandstgeorges.org

Seaside Jewish Community an unaffiliated, egalitarian congregation

18970 Holland Glade Road Rehoboth Beach, Delaware www.seasidejewishcommunity.com 302-226-8977 Mailing address: P.O. Box 1472, Rehoboth, DE 19971

Shabbat services, 7:30 pm first Fridays; 10 am third Saturdays.

Weekly summer services. Holiday services.

Educational programs, social events, school.

First Street • 4 blocks south of Rehoboth Avenue 302-227-2109

Sunday Worship 10:00 a.m.

(Summer 8:30 and 10:00 a.m.)

We invite you to make us your church family!

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If you need a referral for a doctor, lawyer, spiritual advisor, or just a place to hang out, call CAMP Rehoboth at 302-227-5620.

We’re here to help!

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EXPERIENCE SOMETHING NEW at the Milton Theatre!

September 23 - SINGER SONGWRITER'S NIGHT with Sol Knopf, Keith Mack, Ed Shockley & Cliff Hillis | 7:30PM September 30 - Christine Havrilla with Gypsy Fuzz & Porter and Sayles | 8PM October 4 - WALL OF CAIN | 8PM October 6 - Milton Theatre Member & Volunteer APPRECIATION NIGHT | 7PM October 7 - DELMARVA BIG BAND | 3PM October 12 - Delaware Comedy Theatre | 8PM October 14 - ABBAMANIA | 2PM & 8PM October 18 - Revival House Theatre presents THEY LIVE | 7PM October 19 - Magnolia Applebottom | 8PM

www.MiltonThea tr e.com 302.684 .3038

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Senior Adult Resources ADVOCACY

AARP of Delaware ............................................................... 302-498-6511

HOTLINES

Delaware Senior Services Help Line ................................... 800-223-9074 Delaware Information Line .......................................................... Dial 2-1-1

MEALS

Meals on Wheels ................................................................. 302-856-5187

SENIOR ACTIVITY CENTERS

CAMP Rehoboth................................................................... 302-227-5620 Cape Henlopen Senior Center - Rehoboth Beach .............. 303-227-2055 Cheer Center of Sussex County .......................................... 302-856-5187 Lewes Senior Center ........................................................... 302-645-9293

The Marine Education, Research and Rehabilitation Institute, Inc. is a non-profit stranding response and rehabilitation organization dedicated to the conservation of marine mammals and sea turtles in Delaware.

BENEFITS/FINANCIAL ASSISTANCE

Delaware Department of Health and Social Services ........ 302-856-5586 Social Security ..................................................................... 866-864-1803

HOSPICE

Delaware Hospice ............................................................... 800-838-9800

TRANSPORTATION

Cheer Transportation ........................................................... 302-856-5187 ITN Southern Delaware ....................................................... 302-448-8486

For more info, call CAMP Rehoboth, 302-227-5620

call: 302.228.5029 or join on our website at merrinsittue.org SEPTEMBER 21, 2018

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AD INDEX 2019 Summer Rental.......................................... 75 Accent On Travel................................................45 AG Renovations .................................................28 AIDS Walk Delaware......................................... 109 Allen Jarmon, Realtor.........................................63 Alzheimer’s Caregiver Support Group.............. 112 American Civil Liberties Union of Delaware ......59 Atlantic Jewelry ...................................................9 Back Porch Café..................................................10 Bad Hair Day......................................................28 Beach Cuts Hair Salon........................................38 Beagle Real Estate Group...................................10 Beebe Healthcare...............................................51 Beebe Healthcare Career Opportunities........... 87 Blue Moon ......................................................... 73 Boom Box Party Bus ..........................................38 Brandywine Baroque ....................................... 105 Brandywine Valley SPCA....................................83 Breakthru Beverage........................................... 47 Browseabout Books......................................... 104 BSD......................................................................41 Café Azafran.......................................................40 CAMP Rehoboth Afternoon Grief Counseling....111 CAMP Rehoboth Annual Premier Sponsors......... 7 CAMP Rehoboth Beach Guide Business Partners.............................................................. 75 CAMP Rehoboth Block Party...............................31 CAMP Rehoboth Community Center..................54 CAMP Rehoboth Fall Grief Counseling.............. 112 CAMP Rehoboth Families...................................38 CAMP Rehoboth Free Flu Shots.........................111

CAMP Rehoboth Letters Subscription................ 72 CAMP Rehoboth Membership............................ 34 CAMP Rehoboth Mental Health..........................111 CAMP Rehoboth Tai Chi.................................... 112 CAMP Rehoboth Trans Discussion.....................111 CAMP Rehoboth Ukulele Lessons .................... 115 CAMP Rehoboth Volunteer Opportunities ......... 72 CAMPSafe....................................................30, 107 Celebrity Chefs’ Brunch - Meals On Wheels...... 43 Clear Space Theatre - Heathers......................... 75 Clear Space Theatre - Rabbit Hole.....................86 Community Pride Financial Advisors..................82 Country Lawn Care..............................................10 County Bank.......................................................86 Cuvee Ray...........................................................21 Delaware Hospice ............................................. 74 Delaware Humane Association........................ 106 Delaware Valley Legacy Fund............................89 Dos Locos........................................................... 79 Eric Atkins, Realtor..............................................21 Fuqua, Willard, Stevens & Schab, PA................. 67 Gay Men’s Group............................................... 112 Gay Women of Rehoboth Meet-Up.................... 67 General Dentistry ............................................. 115 go fish!/go brit!................................................. 106 God’s Greyts Senior Greyhounds....................... 27 Gregory Meyers Hair Studio............................... 67 HIV Testing......................................................... 74 Houses Of Worship............................................ 116 Iguana Grill......................................................... 77 Immanuel Shelter............................................... 72

Jack Lingo, Realtor.............................................39 John Black/Bill Peiffer, Realtors ........................90 Jolly Trolley........................................................ 67 Just In Thyme Restaurant...................................38 Lana Warfield, Realtor........................................ 27 Lee Ann Wilkinson Group, Realtors....................38 Lori’s Café..........................................................29 Luxury Motors......................................................15 M.G.T. & Co. Toggery Shop.................................42 MERR Institute ...................................................117 Midway Fitness & Racquetball.......................... 119 Milton Theatre....................................................117 Milton Zombie Fest 2018.................................... 97 Mirabelle............................................................82 Morris James LLP................................................ 11 Murph’s Beef & Ale.............................................26 Nancy Sakaduski................................................58 New Wave Spas.................................................. 67 Olivia Travel........................................................65 One Day At A Time Gift Shop.............................38 One Spirit Massage............................................66 Paint and Patches Handyman Service ...............17 Palate................................................................ 118 Pet Portraits by Monique....................................58 Photo Restoration..............................................58 Purple Parrot...................................................... 76 Randall Douglass................................................55 Randy Mason / Shirley Kalvinsky, Realtors.........66 Randy’s Custom Window Treatments................85 Rehoboth Art League.........................................29 Rehoboth Beach Bears .......................................91

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Rehoboth Beach Bears ANT...............................99 Rehoboth Beach Dental.....................................42 Rehoboth Beach Independent Film Festival.... 103 Rehoboth Beach Museum..................................42 Rehoboth Guest House......................................28 Rehoboth Massage & Alignment........................28 Ron’s Repairs .....................................................28 Salty Paws ..........................................................21 Saved Souls Animal Rescue...............................82 Sea Bova Associates, Realtors......................... 120 Senior Adult Resources......................................117 Shademakers......................................................15 Shorebreak Lodge Restaurant ..........................66 SoDel Concepts ................................................. 57 Southern Delaware Festival ............................. 113 State Farm - Eric Blondin & Jeanine O’Donnell....55 State Farm - George Bunting............................. 27 SUN Behavioral - Delaware ...............................26 Sundance 2018...................................................22 Sussex Family YMCA.........................................107 The Lawson Firm................................................26 Tinder Box .........................................................28 Troy Roberts, Realtor..........................................29 True Blue Jazz Festival........................................13 Unfinished Business...........................................64 Union Home Mortgage.......................................30 Volunteer Thank You .........................................49 Ward Ellinger Gallery........................................ 108 Windsor’s Flowers ............................................. 75 Woman of Distinction honor Fay Jacobs ...........84 Women’s Coffee Talk ......................................... 27

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