GUIDE FOR

As we all know, boys are harder to understand than maths sometimes. That is why we are here to guide you into a better and healthier sex life, whether it is with a partner or just casual sex. Of course everything needs to be discussed with the boy before doing to check that he is comfortable with it. It is super vital that you are in a suitable environment and you are both consenting. Make sure you are both really relaxed and you start the right way. Girls, we know that there needs to be lots of kissing, eye contact and foreplay so that we get wet, but it is the exact same for the boys. In order for the boy to get an erection, take the time to learn about eachother, what turns him on, what feels good and if you’re really comfortable with eachother then what toys he may like.

Men really like it if you are the one to make the first move, it can definitely feel daunting but it shows that you’re feeling him and you’re not afraid. It can even just be something as small as unbuttoning his shirt or a kiss on the neck, just to show that you are in the mood.

Girls and Boys, this is where most people get nervous. Giving a boy head. Honestly, the most important part of this is enjoying it, try not to see it as a chore or something to get over and done with, pleasing your partner should be fun and turn you on more. If you do find it a chore, it is probably because you’re not mixing it up. If you are sticking to the up and down motion it’s not going to be very exciting for either of you. The best tip is that you have a tongue, use it! On a boy, the most sensitive part of the penis is the tip, and when you lick it, it feels even better for them. Whilst you are using the up and down motion, break it up and glide your tongue up the dick, they love it. Give them eye contact, they are looking down at you so look up at them! Of course dont just stare at them, look up occasionaly and show them that you’re loving it, this will drive them crazy.

If you are lucky enough to not have a gag reflex you will be perfect with this one. Try going down further to get more of the dick in your mouth. The more the merrier. You definitely cannot go wrong with this one, as it impresses your partner, however if it’s abit too much to handle, just take your time with it and dont force it, practice will always make perfect!

Its never a bad time to add a hand or two if you can. With the movement of your hand at the base of the penis and your mouth at the top, its giving them the best of both worlds and they love that. Speaking of hands... give the balls some attention! Whilst doing your thing, play with the balls a little, with a gentle pressure as they are a very sensitive part of the male genitals. If you’re feeling extra, suck on them a little! They will find it incredibly sexy. If swallowing is not your thing then leave this part out, but if you love this then it will 100% add to the intimacy. It also means less mess and more time for cuddling afterwards. You could take the messier route and let them finish on your chest or your face as this is just as much fun as swallowing, although you will need lots of tissues!

During the deed there’s not a great deal that you could get wrong, however there are ways to make the sex more pleasurable for the both of you. For example when you are in the doggy position, push yourself back as well as the movement from him. This allows the penis to penetrate further, this might actually make you orgasm! Whilst you’re having sex, try and clench your vagina. Bear with me here. It sounds strange, but this makes your vagina feel tighter for the boy, which they find really pleasurable, it may not have much of a feeling change for you, but if you feel like treating him then this is a perfect option.

Dont forget to include bits of foreplay during sex too, like lip biting, neck kisses and maybe a little nibble on the ear lobe as the boys are mad for that stuff! But do not forget to enjoy it yourself too and make sure you do not rush into anything.