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Sexy Cop

Show them who’s in charge with this costume, with novelty handcuffs this outfit is perfect for playing games with your partner.

Dreamgirl Blue Lieutenant Lusty Sex Cop Costume £39.99.

Bad Bunny

This gorgeous pink velvet body is fun and playful and will definitely bring the excitement.

Ann Summers Tuxedo Bunny Outfit £28.

Frisky Flight

This flight attendant can help more then the plane go up as this costume is perfect for fulfilling those mile high club fantasies.

Love honey Fantasy Frisky Flight Attendant Costume £34.99.

Naughty nurse

Fancy a cheeky medical role play, then this costume is perfect for you to get their heartbeat racing!

Love honey Fantasy Heartbeat Hottie Nurse £29.99.

Your under Arrest

These boxers come with a zipper so your partner can see what you’re hiding.

Love honey Power Sexy Cop Costume £26.99.

Cheeky Cheetah

This plunging neckline body is perfect for sexy dress up and role play to tease your partner with.

Love honey Mapale Cheeky Cheetah Costume £34.99.

2. Don’t rush foreplay

While everyone loves a good quickie, it’s important that not ALL of your sex is short and to the point. Afterall, foreplay can be one of the most fun parts of sex. Extending foreplay helps build up the anticipation of actually having sex, and can make the sex more enjoyable overall. Foreplay is fun regardless of if you are “giving” or “receiving” pleasure. It’s a way to increase the intimacy of your sex, by encorperating touching and kissing and all the other good stuff. Foreplay can also make sex more playful. Sex doesn’t have to be pure passion all the time, incorporating teasing and things of the sort in your foreplay can also lead to great sex. Get creative with it, draw it out for as long as you can stand, and then think of the sex as the cherry on top.

3. Mutual masturbation

Let’s face it. Oftentimes, you know how to do it best. Masturbation is a good habit to keep up, regardless of if you are in an intimate relationship or not. Masterbation increases endorphins and provides sexual and emotional release that is necessary to live your life. It also allows you to know your body, which is important when you are trying to communicate your sexual needs to your partner. And while solo masturbation is awesome, it can also be fun to masturbate in the presence of, or even with your partner. Incorporating masturbation into your foreplay allows you to take an active role in arousing yourself and it also shows your partner exactly what you like and how you like it. This can often feel too vulnerable for many people, but if you take the leap of faith and just try it out, it will totally pay off.

1. Take it out of the bedroom

While it can be helpful to block off your schedule to ensure that you find some intimate time together, don’t forget how sexy spontaneity can be!! As much as we try to control our emotions and what not, you can’t always control when sexual desire comes over you. Sex does not need to be contained to a romantic bedroom set-up like we see in movies. Capitalizing on your sex drive where and when it hits you can lead to super exciting sex. Having sex outside of the bedroom can be a fun and spontaneous way to spice up your sex life. Countertops, couches, the shower, you name it.