SEX TOYS A beginners guide

POV: you have entered the wonderful world of masturbation and solo sex. However you’re not really sure on how to learn the do’s and dont’s. Im sure that there are loads of unanswered questions you may have as you try to navigate where to begin and how to properly self-please. Everyone starts with their trusty fingers, and whilst yes, they do the job. There are so many other options out there to boost that orgasm - enter, the vibrator. Here is a safe space for you to get started, and we couldn’t be more excited for you!

You know the famous saying, a dog is a mans best friend. Well ladies, this here is your best friend. Vibrators have entered the chat, a bullet vibrator is the perfect start. They are small and affordable but without a doubt do the job. The little button on the end will kickstart the vibrations, hold it agaisnt your clitoris and simply enjoy. If you are looking for something bigger that you wanted to insert as well as clitoral stimulation, then a bigger vibrator with bunny ears is a great option. However these can be more on the pricey side. “Masturbation is a great stress reliever and the beauty of it is you don’t need to rely on anyone to help you out with it,” said by Dr. Lincoln, a medical advisor for ‘The body agency’. Using a vibrator not only helps with figuring out what you like on your own, but it becomes your best friend during sex too. It is a handy tool during foreplay with a partner as it gives you that extra hand getting wet and wild. Not to take the fun out of this, but it is so important that your vibrator is cleaned after use, read the instructions after purchasing so that you know how to properly clean it and it is ready to be used again. They usually range from around £5-£20 so super affordable.

What you see may look extremely daunting, and of course not everybodys cup of tea. But for the girls and boys who are thinking they want to try anal sex, you need to be prepared. The bottom is a sensitive area and it needs a lil time for it to get used to things inside of it. Anal sex needs to be planned out, fully consensual from your partner and it needs patience. Don’t be disheartened if it doesn’t work out the way you thought it might the first time around as it takes weeks/months for your rectum to get used to it. Never ever ever attempt penetration on the first go. The first time you try anything, there needs to be lots and lots of lube. This is where your anal starter kit comes in to play. It’s sort of like a step by step system, with a small, medium and large butt plug, that with time you can build it up until your partner feels that they’re ready for something as thick and large as a penis. These plugs prepare the rectum in getting it used to relaxing around an object. This is why it is so vital to start out with this kit, so that you do not end up injuring your partner. If the rectum isn’t ready it can really be quite painful and potentially make your partner not open to trying anymore. Lube is also so important, which comes in anal starter kits. It helps the plugs enter and exit with ease and will relieve more of the uncomfortableness. You can buy the starter kits from Ann Summers or Love Honey online.

If you are abit of newbie to the scene of toys and props then handcuffs and blindfolds may seem abit strange to you. These two things are more for using in the bedroom with your partner. If you were looking to spice things up abit but didn’t know how, thank us now for these two items. First of all the blindfold, its a game changer and your partner will thank you for it. Simply tie it over you or your partners eyes, and just like that you have elevated the sex. It’s known that depriving one of your senses heightens others, which makes the anticipation so exciting. You dont know whats going to happen once the blindfold is on, and if you like your partner taking abit more control, this makes the anticipation even better. Enter, the handcuffs. You can be so experimental with these if you’re into it. But if you’re new to it, make sure you get some handcuffs that have a soft wrist support and velcro straps so you can get in and out of them easier. We know the full on heavy duty metal ones can be quite scary, so we leave that to the bdsm queens. You can use handcuffs in many positions if you’re open to it and even wrap the handcuffs round the bed, a chair or anything that takes you and your partner’s fancy! This one is perfect for you dominance lovers. But remember, anything and everything needs to be discussed with you’re partner wether its a long term relationship or just casual sex. If everyone is happy, we’re happy.