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Mike and Jules Guzzardo with Angela and Vinny DiNicola enjoy the Giant’s World Series on the Bay. Photo by Carol Young | www.CarolYoungPhotography.com

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of a Feather 32 Birds Survive Together

Headliner 34 Comic Mickey Joseph Delta Smilz

12 Words from Bubba Paris

22 The Silence of Elder Abuse

13 My Little Girl is Growing Up

24 What Ingredients Really Do to your Hair

14 Dance Moms: The Real Ones

28 John Marsh Historic Trust: Partners in Park’s Future

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Sisters run their magazine Letters from the Editor & Publisher With winter fast exiting and the cherry blossoms awaking our realization that spring is on its way, you will certainly enjoy the freshness this issue brings. I was enlightened

by Kristine’s article, Body, Mind & Spirit (pg. 10) where spring cleaning takes on a new and deeper meaning!

I was deeply touched by two endearing articles, Corrie’s “My Little Girl is Growing Up,” and “Imagine”

by Bubba Paris (pgs. 12 and 13). I was transported by Mike Guzzardo’s trip on the Bay (pg. 18) as well as Walter's “nearcation” to local San Francisco (pg. 26). The Delta and Bay Area offers a wealth of experiences at our fingertips. So enjoy dear readers, I assure you these pages will leave you thirsting for more.

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contributors

Rita Caruso | Editor-in-Chief Rita, a mortgage loan consultant for Guild Mortgage, has been in the mortgage industry for over 30 years. She served two terms as President of the Discovery Bay Chamber of Commerce. With a deep love for journalism and an avid reader, she brings a love to her role as Editor-in-Chief. She's also an avid runner, hiker, cycler and caterer, who loves to spend time with her husband, celebrating 20 years together. Reach her at RCaruso@GuildMortgage.net.

F.D. Purcell | Writer Felicia, an East County resident for nearly 20-years, found her passion for writing when she won Student-of-the-Month honors at age 10. Her love for sports began early while sitting on her late dad’s knee watching football. A certified make-up artist and animal-lover, Felicia lives by her dad’s favorite quote: “Treat others the way you wish to be treated.” Follow her on Twitter @sportsinthebay_, Facebook: Sports in the Bay or sportsinthebay1.blogspot.com.

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When she is not busy behind the lens or chasing after her toddler, Maria enjoys reading fiction, getting hooked on T.V. shows on Netflix, boating, swimming and socializing. She also visits her parents in Elk Grove, Ca. as often as she can. Maria also loves baseball, chocolate and a good bottle of wine. See her work at FiestaFlixPhotography.shutterfl y.com.

Read her blog, “Life Through the Lens” at FiestaFlix.blogspot.com.

Conrad Borba | Graphic Designer Conrad is a graphic and web designer, who spent much time in his youth drawing and creating, with his earliest memories of working on a computer as a kindergartner. He studied graphic and web design at Modesto Junior College and the Institute of Technology of Modesto. With over 10 years experience in graphic design and six years as a freelancer, Borba stays abreast industry standards in order to provide his clients with fresh and new ideas. Reach him at conradborba@gmail.com.

Kristine R. Cataldo, MSCIS, MAed | Writer/Blogger Kristine is a proud mama of two, a college instructor and curriculum developer. Her passion as a blogger, author and speaker is etched on her heart. She uses her story to inspire, motivate and empower women to live healthy, happy lifestyles through mind, body and spirit. Kristine is an avid cyclist, hiker and adventurous free-spirit.

Reach her at omnigal@gmail.com or www. kristinecataldo.net

Walter Ruehlig | Writer Walter graduated cum laude with a degree in English from the State University of New York at Albany and career counsels adults with disabilities. He’s the former President of the Antioch School Board, founded the Antioch Music Foundation, and is the 2012 Antioch Citizen of the Year-Lifetime Achievement award recipient. He regularly contributes to three local newspapers.

Email him at walter.ruehlig@gmail.com.

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Vinny DiNicola | Writer Vinny is a Certified Senior Advisor® and owner of HomeLife Senior Care in Brentwood with wife Angela, a provider of professional, dependable in-home senior care.

Vinny graduated with honors from Menlo College, Atherton, CA, earning a Bachelors degree in Management with a focus in International Management. Vinny’s passion is providing world-class home care for their elderly clients. Reach him at vinny@ homelifesc.com.

Emily Wesolek | Writer Emily, who has a passion for making those around her feel great, is a licensed Cosmetologist since 2009 and works as a hair stylist in Brentwood. She’s also a Certified Cosmetology Instructor and taught at Paris Beauty College in Concord. Writing is another talent of hers since she was young. Always willing and eager to learn new beauty techniques, Emily loves her career. Got hair questions? Reach her at emilyw1722@gmail.com.

Nina Koch | Writer Nina, owner of East County Performing Arts Center for the last 12 years, has lived in Brentwood, CA for 14 years. When not running her business, she enjoys spending time with her husband and two children, writing and visiting fun and exciting places. You can reach Nina at 925.240.5556 or visit her at www.BrentwoodDance.com.

Carol Young | Photographer Born and raised in the Bay Area, newlywed Carol Young is sought-after for her creative images and sparkling personality. With an uncanny way of putting people at ease and connecting with her subjects, whether at the studio or on location, Carol has a sincere enthusiasm for photography that is truly inspirational. Contact her at 925.586.0555 or www.CarolYoungPhotography.com.

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Spring Cleaning… Body, Mind, Spirit

By Kristine R. Cataldo, MSCIS, MAed kristine@kristinecataldo.net

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s the hills become anew with their green hue and yellow carpet of mustard flowers in the shadow of my favorite mountain, I realize spring is here. Once again I drag out my broom and don my finest work clothes for my annual, ceremonial Spring-cleaning. I look to clear pesky cobwebs, purge accumulated clutter in the dark recesses of my little cottage, and sort through ‘important’ papers stacked neatly in teetering piles. This year proves to be a much more profound cleansing than those of years past. I reflect upon the concept of Spring-cleaning as a deeper ‘whole life’ cleanse… body, mind, spirit.

As I move from room to room purging, a growing sense of appreciation warms my heart as my physical space is in order. It not only provides me with a sense of organization, but peace of mind; all seems to fall into place as the location I ‘hang my hat’ becomes more serene.

I have a renewed focus on health and fitness and have begun to follow a ‘clean’ eating and fitness plan. I also uncover the prematurely ‘shelved’ journals documenting my three-year healthy living journey. With a twist on the traditional Spring-cleaning process, I begin to dust them off and share them with others. Sharing the trials and successes documented in the journals not only allows me to keep moving forward, but it also satisfies the giver in me. I get satisfaction in paying-it-forward and helping others succeed in their journeys.

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My most profound realization has been that I have overlooked the two most important and inner-connected areas in living healthy, mind and spirit, in my Spring-cleaning processes of late. In the past, I rarely prioritized these areas, much less identified the need to clean them. However, as with my increased desire to allow happiness to flood my life as my Creator has intended, I fast discover that I had only done surface cleaning in the past. My journey had primarily focused on cleaning my health, fitness, circles of influence and outlook on life.

To address this, I have decided to identify the roles mind and spirit play in my life and to pinpoint effective ways to cleanse those areas. I have come to realize that, while I have a grasp on how to find joy even in the darkest of days, my mind and heart are still cluttered with the angst of the past buried deep within. I have started to cleanse these areas by replacing the negative self-talk the past conditioned me to speak – with positive energy, people and situations. I now reflect upon my blessings and give thanks for all of my vast gifts.

Lastly, as with my body cleansing, I have begun to look outwardly and identify the best way to use my gifts in order to help others.

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Most creations were forged from a place where imaginary thoughts became tangible realities. Albert Einstein once said, “Imagination is more important than knowledge. For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand.”

This is the 30-year anniversary of one of the most exciting moments of my life. A moment that began in my imagination and dreams when I was a six-year-old boy playing football in my backyard. As a child I was an outcast because I was very large for my age. I was bullied and abused all because I was different. I felt as though my very existence was a mistake, because so much negative attention was given to the fact that I was so big.

The only place where life made sense to me was when I was playing football. When playing football, I was no longer an outcast. I was normal. I was a natural!

As a child – through my imagination – I would escape the reality of a life where I was seen as an aberration, a freak of nature perfect to make fun of. When I was called Frankenstein, baby Huey and a number of other derogatory nicknames meant to draw negative comparison to my size; I imagined that I was 12

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a pro football player. I dreamt of playing in the Super Bowl. And, 30 years ago, I played in my first of three Super Bowls.

Escape the limits of your present life through your imagination. See all that is possible. Your imagination allows you to flee reality and see what you could possibly do without the limits of what you perceive as real life.

Find the thing that makes time disappear; when you do, you find what you are born to do. In this activity you will discover you are a natural. It will be a perfect expression of your nature. Your purpose is revealed and you discover you are perfect. In this activity your imaginary thoughts are like pictures of the future. Your dreams are like educational training videos, preparing you for their execution. In this activity you discover why you are created in your present form. When doing this activity you don’t see it as work.You see it as that thing that makes life complete and without it – you are empty in your present form.

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My Little Girl is Growing Up

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addy? I think I’d like to try and fall asleep without you singing to me tonight.” -

Gwenlyn Every evening while your mother and I would be watching TV, you would come into the library when you were ready to go to sleep and ask me to sing to you.Your teeth had been brushed, books had been read and you were now ready to turn off the lights. I would theatrically roll my eyes, give a huge sigh, feign sleeping or claim I had an invisible cat on my lap and therefore couldn’t get up. It had become of a tradition to tease you about your nighttime serenade.You would say, “Daddy!” in mock anguish, shoo away the invisible cat or poke me to interrupt my exaggerated snores until I got up and laughingly tucked you in to bed and sing a silly fatherised version of “Hush Little Baby.” It was a cherished nightly ritual I always looked forward to.

Something you may not understand about parents yet, is that there’s always at least a small part of us that will never want you to grow up. We’ll hang on to those moments when you needed help tying your shoes, or couldn’t quite reach something, or wanted us to read you a book, sit in our lap or push you on the swing. Parents forever cherish those moments because we all know that one day they’ll be gone.You’ll no longer need us to help you get ready for bed or tuck you in. The zipping of jackets has been mastered and pulling down that favorite puzzle with missing pieces is no longer a task that requires assistance. Each day, time takes yet another step www.deltalivingmagazine.com

forward and suddenly there are things that at one time were blissfully commonplace are now a memory. Each milestone, no matter how small, can be stark reminders that time marches on for all of us, a train ride that keeps going faster and faster until a mere blink causes you to miss something.

It’s a bittersweet moment for parents when that happens, and while there’s a sense of loss at the reminder of what once was and is no longer there is also a fierce sense of pride. We’re so proud of you when you can do something you were never able to do before. The first time tying a shoe, the first solo bike ride, the first time reading a book.

But now, after uncounted knots unraveled and block towers built, the monsters in the closet are no longer threatening after the sun goes down. Those strange sounds outside are merely the winds whispering good night. The last glass of water was remembered and is sitting on the nightstand next to the stuffed animal that, while still dearly loved, is no longer quite as urgently needed to help you fall asleep.

I will always look back on those moments when you called my name to heroically handle a spider or check under the bed one more time (just in case). And each night I will always sing to you. Every day I will tell you stories and each time I see you stumble, I will reach out to catch you.You may not always see it.You may not always hear it. But no matter what, you will always be my little girl. I am so looking forward to further adventures and new firsts, but most of all, the continuation of the love that is being built on such a wonderful foundation of happy memories.

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Dance Moms … the REAL ones resiliency. Dance teachers are kind and loving and give up so much to nurture these kids simply because we are so passionate about our art. We want to inspire kids to love dance as we do. I feel it is a privilege to work with kids everyday and to have the opportunity to help them grow into happy, healthy, confident people who can take on the world. My biggest success is when a child graduates from the dance studio and gets into college. That is more important than any child becoming a “star.”

There are quite a few dance studios in our area, and from what I know, they all have something special to offer and you won’t find a “reality show” experience at any of them. I am confident you will find teachers who love their students, parents who support their kids and each other and dancers with big smiles who strive to be the best people they can be.

So turn off the reality show and make your own dance reality. Visit the studios in our area, find one that is a good fit for your family and watch your child grow and thrive in the arts.

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have been a dance teacher for 25 years. To say it has been my life’s work is an understatement.

When I was a child, dance was something every little kid did at one point or another. Parents knew it was a great way to teach children grace and poise, help with good posture and flexibility and enhance confidence. There were also no reality shows to showcase our art, in a very poor fashion.

Fast forward to 2015. Turn on the TV and tune into Dance Moms. What do you see? A horrible woman who screams at children and mothers who behave like classless prima donnas, who think the world revolves around themselves and their dancers.

All of the adults on the show are mean, nasty and out for themselves.

Dance Moms is fake, and the competitions are special events put together for the show. It gives as much of a real representation of dance as The Bachelor gives to dating. In the real world, dancers do not learn a routine in a week, moms do not behave like the ones on TV and dance teachers do not treat their dancers or their parents badly.

I can attest the dance moms at my studio are hardworking, smart, supportive women who want to see their children happy and successful. I know I can turn to any of my dance moms or dads for help. I know they will take care of my child, or anyone else’s, that was in need. If there is a difference in opinion, or a conflict, it is handled with respect and dignity.

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Photos by Maria Tavares Dance mom Jacelyn Chin of Brentwood is proud of her daughter Valia Chin, 10, who has been competing and dancing at Brentwood Dance for the last two years. Valia trains in ballet, jazz, tap, contemporary and tumbling, competes on four teams and dances about 11 hours a week.

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“I design for all ani“I would place random strangmals,” she says. “If it can ers on a canvas and build a piece be dreamed of, it can be around them in my mind,” says created here.”

Roni, founder and creator of From concept to Hobo Cwab Canine Couture, completion, she says the where she creates elaborate custime involved greatly tom outfits for pets. “The style, depends on the commaterials, color palette, weight, plexity of the pieces.

Photo by Sunny Skyes Photography tone and feel were created head- Gia is "Mermaid in Bloom," “I’m creating for a y mulberr wired fi ns, sculpted e turquois shells, sea leaves, hed acid-etc to-toe countless times a day.” paper fl owers, New York fashion show She moved to the Marina Dis- tortoises and Swarovski crystals. at the moment and Photo by Kristen Coo ns these 10 pieces will take trict in San Francisco 20 years ago to carve out a career in corporate finance with Cocoa Puff Pomeranian. Raw silk, vertical cascade drop, exterior bustle, bird netting and her Bachelors Degree in accounting from San Francisco State University – until roughly five months to pancake hat. she created an outfit for a dog in 2012, placed it for sale, sold it - and realized there create, while 10 daywear was a demand for beautiful, tasteful pet clothing. pieces would require roughly two months.”

“I love designing. I love the utter lack of boundaries in creating anything in my The outfits are not sold at Petco prices. Be prepared to spoil Fido or FeeFee mind. I love and respect couture endlessly and don’t feel anyone or anything wear- with couture pieces ranging from $150 to $9,000. Fittingly, Roni uses premium ing clothing should be relegated to flammable, kitschy, garish attire,” says Roni. fabrics and materials to include boucle, cashmere, silk damasks, vintage French “Lastly, I love my clients.Their life stories, excitement, appreciation and collabora- textiles, mohair blends, cotton, and unusual natural elements treated and placed tion are a constant joy.” within designs.

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“The materials are as varied as the designs, but I do love Britex Fabrics here in San Francisco and certain sites for finding the rare and vintage,” says Roni, who is ‘mom’ to Roy, a seven-year-old Pomeranian and Winston, a one-year-old white Chihuahua.

“I never had children and didn’t have a dog until much later in life – though I’m an avid animal lover – and I can tell you the experience changed my life,” she adds.

“I didn’t expect two hearts to become the center of my world. It’s nice to know that life can still completely surprise you in a tender and beautiful way.”

Designing couture for pets is not a job for Roni, it’s a language.

“The greatest passion of my life has been couture. From as early as I can remember, as a young child, I was drawn to fashion,” she says. “It’s the language I’m most fluent in, the one thing that excites me down to my authentic core with no effort.”

Photo by Darsey Mitchell.

Millie La Rue. Reindeer Eclair: Snow treated branches, mulberry accents, silk satin and silver treated frawns.

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Life on the Delta – Best Observed at a Slow Pace The smell of the barbecues, sound of the crowd and PA anmike@guzzardohomes.com nouncer was awesome. We watched boats coming and going including a water-bound flying y wife Jules and I love to saucer, which was clearly a hit as cruise the Delta.We've been the sun set. all over, even cruising up into the The Giants didn't disappoint eiAmerican River past Sacramento. ther by winning the game as the Last year we bought our 42' yacht ballpark erupted with fireworks, Akvavit and planned a trip to San an amazing capper to our evening.

Francisco Bay with our best friends The next day in Sausalito feaAngela and Vinny and their boat Paso tured a low-key stroll down Tiempo. Little did we know at the Bridgeway sampling wine at a lotime that it would involve fireworks cal shop. and the World Series.

From there we headed back to We left Discovery Bay on a gorSouth Beach harbor where we geous October morning and headed watched the final World Series to Benicia, cruising easily at just 10 game on TV with ATT Park in knots. Life on the Delta is best obthe background and played tourist served at a slow pace, enjoying the Photo courtesy of Jules Guzzardo wildlife and history that magically Anchored out at McCovey Cove for the 2014 Giant’s World Series, Discovery Bay residents Mike and at Fisherman’s Wharf.

Now that we'd seen so many envelopes you as you tour through it. Jules Guzzardo and Vinny and Angela DiNicola enjoy boating and baseball together. wonderful sights it was time to Now this is where it got really fun! We secured Benicia is a great stopping point somewhat midway to the bay featuring good cui- our Paso Tiempo in Sausalito and the four of us head home, but not without another stop in Benicia sine and views from the many restaurants and shops. boogied over to McCovey Cove on Akvavit, pausing where we spent one last night.

After a wonderful night we steamed toward the briefly under the Golden Gate for a photo op.

Our final morning was Halloween day and fitAs we rolled by the city front and under the Bay bay and San Francisco Yacht Club, passing the histingly, it started to get foggy and then poured down Bridge, McCovey Cove came into view and our rain from the heavens. toric C & H Sugar Factory.

Cruising by Angel Island through my home wa- excitement grew. It was our first time anchoring Our bay trip was over, but the memories will ters of Raccoon Straits was a special treat; as was there and this was the last home game of the series. live on.

We expected pandemonium with tangled anchor tying up at SFYC for the night.

As luck would have it the Giants were in the lines and bruised egos but with the water patrols in For more information World Series and we watched the G-Men on TV place it was only mildly chaotic. about life on the Delta, We got our anchor down, side tied to our friend at the club, enjoyed a nice meal, then headed off to visit: www.deltalifestyle.com Chris, and settled in for a great evening.

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From Santana to Hosanna Christian Artist Leon Patillo Leads by Example

By Felicia Purcell

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olossians 3:16 - Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another one with psalms and hymns and spiritual goings, singing with grace in your hearts unto God. This is the scripture that singer/songwriter Leon Patillo applies to his own life.The gifted 68-year-old musician has seen his life go (in his own words) from “Santana to Hosanna.” Leon was the eldest of two children from southern parents; a strict retired staff sergeant father who served in the Army and owned his own cab company, and a nurturing homemaker mother. As with many of his generation, Leon’s talent started in the church and his own life would take a world tour as the lead vocalist for Carlos Santana and later a lifetime vocalist for the Lord.

four doors down and was my childhood friend. It was a peaceful time, no fights or guns, just family.

Yes, the 60’s were a beautiful time for that. How was your gift recognized? At five-years-old, my teacher Mrs. Hughes handed us different objects to improvise with and I got a cardboard with piano keys painted on it. I mimicked like I was playing and she got on the piano and played with me.

Did you start singing and playing elsewhere ~ church maybe? My mother was Baptist and my father an African Methodist Episcopal and I played the organ and piano for the youth choir and we’d rock the house.

You started Creation, which later became Leon’s Creation, and then Carlos Santana needed a lead vocalist? I started You were born and raised in San Fran- the VIP’s, which came out of necessity cisco, in the Haight-Ashbury area. In a to do traditional music. That’s when I nutshell how would you paint a visual saw the light, lol. We were booked up of your childhood and the neighborhood for like a year in advance. Eventually I you grew up in? Colorful with hippies. began working with groups like Martha Religion was the common denomina- and the Vandellas and Funkadelic, gettor in those days and that helped build ting writing credits. Carlos had come in the bridge together of all ethnicities to listen to one of our (Creation) sets. and music. Actor Danny Glover lived He had a cassette of mine.

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He hired you and God used him as a vessel so you could serve HIM? When I visited Carlos he was always religious, and was burning incense the first day I visited and it reminded me of prayers going up to God. I was dating a girl in San Francisco whose brother was a preacher. The same day I joined the group I got saved right there in the car, in the driveway of his house July 4, 1974.

Then you began your solo career? Yes. I wanted to speak a message of love and be inspirational for the next generation. This was early 80s and I was attending service in Orange County under Chuck Smith at Calvary Chapel. He was a dynamic pastor ahead of his time. I did my first CD “Dance Children Dance” and it gave me a lot more access. One thing led to another and I did a co-host gig with former disco singer Candi Staton on TBN (Trinity Broadcasting Network).

After that, I was approached about doing a variety show, “Leon and Friends.”

Are any of your six children in the business? I have one son following me in music named Gabriel. He lives in Nashville and has been the right hand man for Christian rapper tobyMac for

the past 12 years. My son Noel is a youth pastor at True Vine Ministries in Oakland, CA. You’ve been dedicated to working with youth in your Las Vegas community? Yes. Las Vegas has one of the highest dropout rates and my foundation S.I.N.G. (Sowing Into Next Generation) is an arts program for boys and girls ages 8-15 of ALL backgrounds. They make music and the kids get an opportunity to sing alongside me on a CD. It’s something to keep kids positively involved.

Future goals: Leon tours regularly and shares his spiritual gifts through music, song and public speaking. His goal is to pass the baton to the next generation of young kids in Las Vegas and beyond, to prepare and allow them to understand what he’s experienced.

“As long as I’m mentoring the right way, I’m fulfilled.” Last March, 2014, he released the CD called "You Can Begin Again," and features The S.I.N.G. Kids (Sowing Into Next Generation).

Leon’s wife Renee recently started her own ministry called WomenShare, giving women an opportunity to share their amazing stories of survival. With its new beginnings, it's already a thousand members strong.

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The Silence of Elder Abuse

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he California Bar Journal calls elder abuse the crime of the 21st Century. One study reports a staggering 14% of those age 65 and older are abused annually in this nation. Sadly, the vast majority of abusers are family members or caregivers, most often adult children, spouses and partners. Those who abuse drugs or alcohol, or who have a mental/emotional illness, and who feel burdened by their caregiving responsibilities abuse at higher rates.

There are four common kinds of elder abuse: Physical: Hitting, pushing, sexually molesting, forced confinement in a room, bed or chair, over-medication.

Emotional/psychological: Humiliating, insulting, name-calling or threatening.

Neglect: Withholding food or medical attention or leaving a senior in an unsafe or isolated place.

Financial: Withholding money, forcing an elder to sell personal property, embezzling, forging or stealing an older person’s money or possessions, and misusing Power of Attorney.

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their life savings. Once their money for housing, food, medical care and medicine is gone, elders lose their livelihood and ability to live independently.

For every one case of abuse reported to authorities, an estimated four or more cases go unreported. Many seniors don't report the abuse they face even if they’re able. Some fear retaliation from the abuser, while others believe that if they turn in their abusers, no one else will take care of them. When the caregivers are their children, they may be ashamed that their children are

behaving abusively or blame themselves: “If I’d been a better parent when they were younger, this wouldn’t be happening.” Or they just may not want children they love to get into trouble with the law.

To protect seniors against elder abuse, all of us need to listen to the seniors in our lives, call or visit with them as often as possible, and intervene when abuse is suspected by reporting it to the local Adult Protective Services agency. As a senior, you can protect yourself by making sure your financial and legal affairs are in order by enlisting the help of a professional or a trusted relative, keep in touch with family and friends, and speak up if you are unhappy with the care you’re receiving from a caregiver or facility.

As a caregiver, there are steps you can take to make sure you don’t find yourself in a situation where you feel you are reaching your breaking point and are in jeopardy of crossing the line into elder abuse.Take care of your own health. Ask for help from family and friends or an agency that provides respite care so you can take a break from your caregiving responsibilities on a regular basis. Find a support group for caregivers and seek counseling if you are struggling with depression or need someone to talk to about the difficulties of caregiving.

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What Ingredients Really do to Our Hair

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ave you ever wondered what those long, hard-to-pronounce ingredients are in the hair products you use? I’ve always found it interesting to learn what the ingredients are and what, if anything, they do to our hair.

bacteria from growing in your favorite products. Although it hasn’t been scientifically proven, many scientists have been debating if these harsh chemicals have any dangerous or negative affect on our skin and hair.

Isopropyl alcohol is an ingredient, also found in many shamSulfates, aka Sodium Laureth Sul- poos, that deprives the moisture fate and Sodium Lauryl Sulfate can our hair needs. If you’ve ever felt be found in shampoos. They’re most isopropyl alcohol or products that commonly known for making sham- have a lot of alcohol in it, you poo soapy and sudsy.These sulfates are may notice it dries out your skin. also found in many detergents that Having alcohol in your hair care help cut grease and dirt. So how does products not only leaves hair dry, this affect your hair? Like cutting the but can also lead to hair breakage grease and dirt found on your dishes, and even hair loss. it does the same to your scalp and hair Although it may not seem – it strips your hair of its natural oils, which our hair needs and leaves hair like a big deal, these harsh infeeling dry. For those who have color- gredients deprive our hair of its treated hair, these sulfates make your natural oils, which leaves our hair shiny, silky, and moisturized, and color fade faster. even helps hair grow. These inParabens are another popular gredients also strip the hair and ingredient that is found in our hair can cause hair damage. Many of care products. Many products are get- our hair and beauty products are ting rid of parabens that are found in becoming more readily available beauty products. Parabens are used as without these ingredients. So try preservatives in a lot of beauty prod- to buy professional products that ucts, such as shampoos, mascara’s and don’t have these ingredients in lotions, helping to stop fungus and them, and your hair will love it!

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Travel Junkie, That’s Me

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dmittedly, I’m a travel junkie. Some people salivate over menus; I crave the latest posting on Travelzoo. Frankly, the day after returning from one trip I’m feverishly planning the next. As some shop ‘till they drop, I get fevered lamenting, ‘so many places to see, so little time to see them.’

On my journey of wanderlust I have frequented various travel styles; from the hip youth hostel scene to the bourgeois embrace of island cruising. In between, this gypsy has dabbled in staycation day trips, campgrounds, ‘leave the lights on for you’ cross-country motel hopping; and the nine capitals in eleven days European, who needs amphetamines?, sojourns.

Short of safari, I thought I had run the travel gamut only to recently explore, at a friend’s suggestion, a two night ‘nearcation’ utilizing a raffle prize for the Mark Hopkins Hotel on Nob Hill. I’m now sold on this vacation variation. Heck, no surprise as we’re nearcation heaven, with BART proximity to Baghdad by the Bay, perhaps the most enchanting city on earth.

No airlines tickets, no rented car. No familiar confines to come home to each night to remind us of the weeded garden and the creaking gate on the to-do list. No last train to rush for. Sweetest of all, no last call tinged with suppressed anxiety of a tail light going out and a peace officer running a sobriety check.

Fringe benefits? We squeezed the day and still enjoyed one of life’s little pleasures, afternoon booster naps.

We even hobnobbed with the so-called beautiful people at our four star hotel.

Previously, Union Square conjured images for me of the park and encircling ritzy stores. Amazing the Square’s multi-faceted dimensions we discovered in 48 hours.

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Thai Cuisine on Geary before taking the cable car up Nob Hill. After hotel check-in we headed back to the Square to check the holiday window displays before boarding a City Line double-decker for a holiday lights tour. It culminated with hot chocolate at Treasure Island overlooking the twinkling Embarcadero and Coit Tower.

Back downtown, we headed to Johnny Foley’s Irish House on O’Farrell Street for their dueling piano bar and some awesome lamb sliders. We finished carousing at Lefty O-Douls Restaurant on Geary Street. Like Foleys, it was a crowd fully intent on having fun.

The next day we did the obligatory pancakes and waffles at Sears Fine Food before browsing the cavernous SF Centre shops and food court on Market.We then lunched at The Rotunda at Neiman Marcus, canopied by 38,000 pieces of colored glass dome, with full view of the sixty-foot Christmas tree and bustling Square. Note, reservations helpful and tea and cookies is an alternative on their tasty menu.

Next call of duty was a nap. Refreshed, we then headed to Little Paris, a hidden jewel of alleys off the Square that boast cafes and exquisite boutiques. After requisite meandering we enjoyed French-driven culinary expressions at Café Claude and the ambience of a jazz trio and a beret-wearing, oh-so-continental waiter.

Then off to the Punch Line Comedy Club SF before punctuating the night dancing at the Starlight Lounge atop the Sir Francis Drake Hotel. The huge windows gaze down at incandescent Powell Street and the Square.

You’re in a bubble tripping the light fantastic between the cable cars and the stars.

Final morning on the way to BART we paid homage to my New York roots with lox and bagels at David’s Delicatessen. 48 hours jam-packed fun and yet we still missed ice-skating, the Theatre and the Cheesecake Factory. How’d you guess?; I’m already planning my next nearcation. www.deltalivingmagazine.com

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John Marsh Historic Trust: Partners in Park's Future T

he effort to save John Marsh’s historic Stone House and open the Marsh Creek State Park took another step forward last month when the John Marsh Historic Trust was named the newest Cooperating Association for California State Parks.

Cooperating associations are non-profit charitable organizations dedicated to enhancing educational and interpretive programs in California State Parks. The Trust is the 88th coop serving at least one of the 280 state parks.

The status will help the Trust broaden its 20year mission to save and restore the 159-yearold sandstone mansion. Since 2010, the house has been part of the 3,700-acre Marsh Creek State Park, where plans also call for 70 miles of trails and hundreds of campgrounds and dayuse sites. Native American and Hispanic cultural history is also rich in the park.

“There is enormous potential for the park, once we can get it open,” said Trust Executive Director Rick Lemyre. “Being a co-op will allow us to help get lots of things done in addition to restoring the house.”

The Trust is also looking for board members to help grow the organization and conduct capital campaigns.

“If you love history or the outdoors, and Photo by Doug Reid want to be part of bringing this jewel of a park John Marsh Historic Trust Executive Director Rick Lemyre tells high school students participating in the City of Brentwood Youth in on line, we want to hear from you,” said Le- Government program about John Marsh and the Marsh Creek State Park. The Trust has been named a Cooperating Association to raise money to open the park to the public. myre.

For more information on joining the Trust The Trust also announced that the 2015 presentations and performances enjoyed by more board or on Heritage Day, contact Lemyre Stone House Heritage Day would be held in the than 800 people at last year’s inaugural event, a at ricklemyre@gmail.com. park on Oct. 17, 2015. In addition to the activities, hike through the park is also on tap.

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Photo by Richard Wisdom Construction manager Rod Tuttle and Associate State Archaeologist Pete Hanchett go over blueprints for a stabilization project on the John Marsh stone house. The John Marsh Historic Trust has been named a State Parks Cooperating Association to help further work on the house and get the Marsh Creek State Park open to the public.

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hile in her thirties, Nikkola Peterson bought her mother June Peterson’s hair salon, About Hair, Etc. in Brentwood a few years ago, however, she says the ‘business of hair’ has always been in her family bloodline.

“My uncle Mike Arends has owned a hair salon in Pleasant Hill for over 30 years. I used to get my hair cut by him when I was little!” says Nikkola, of Brentwood, CA. The creative-type and mother of two teenage boys, Nikkola first learned the business end of hair while working at Headlines Salon in Walnut Creek for four years. Later she became a certified beautician and color specialist from Paris Beauty College in Concord and Deluxe Beauty School (now closed).

Her hair salon is one of the first salons in Brentwood, of course under different names/ownerships.

“It’s been here since the 80s,” says Nikkola. “A lot of people say ‘we didn't even know you were here. Really!’”

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Birds of a Feather … Survive Together At Harvest Home Animal Sanctuary

By Charleen Earley

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veryone has a story, including birds. Take Kona the turkey for example. Set to be a fat turkey dinner in 2009, he was rescued by Harvest Home Animal Sanctuary in Stockton before he hit the chopping block.

Now Kona has his own Facebook page.

“He’s a big flirt! He loves to follow the women around.When we took him to a photography studio in Oakland, he totally strutted his stuff for the camera,” says Christine Morrissey, Sanctuary manager since 2007.

Fittingly, the sanctuary opened on Thanksgiving Day, 2004, when the first animals and humans moved in. A private house for staff, built in 1919, sits on 2.5 acres with outside animal pens and lodging, and is home to mostly birds, rabbits and pigs with some goats and an occasional horse, dog and cat.

“Our main message is for people to consider the untold story of animals who are completely surrounded by us (humans) in terms of what we eat.

When people sit down for dinner, people see nothing more than a piece of meat wrapped in Styrofoam or plastic packaging. People don’t know what goes into producing these products or how these animals are raised,” says Morrissey.

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Morrissey. “We promote a vegan diet and encourage the public to make compassionate choices on behalf of farm animals through their dietary choices.”

With names like Mohawk, Joe Pesci, Maui and Kimo, every animal at the shelter – even the pigeons - has a name and personal story.

“Our mission is to save the lives of animals who are often overlooked in society,” says Morrissey.“We have a huge responsibility on our shoulders.When people visit here, they have a paradigm shift, especially about the turkeys, who are interestingly like dogs. These animals are incredibly smart and interactive. Many people have never seen a turkey before, other than in a sandwich or on their plate on Thanksgiving.”

Supported solely on creative and fun fundraisers, donations and grants, they offer interactive 90-minute sanctuary tours the second Saturday of every month at $10 per adult, kids are free. Guests feed the animals, interact with them and learn their stories.

“We celebrate individuality of animals and shine a light on a dark industry that abuses animals to a tune Kona the Turkey is a huge flirt and has his own Facebook page of billions each year,” says Morrissey, who did her at www.facebook.com/Konaturkey. undergrad work at University of California, Berke- ley, and her Masters at Texas A&M University in poultry science.

Growing up in Pleasanton, she never imagined living life on a farm.

“This sanctuary is like a living being – our work to help animals is a 24/7 endeavor.There are no holidays or weekends, but it’s a labor of love,” she says.

“There’s always something happening; new arrivals, someone is sick, weather issues; always some excitement. We are always on our toes!”

To learn more and to volunteer or donate, visit www.harvesthomesanctuary.org. Visit Kona the turkey at www.facebook.com/Konaturkey. www.deltalivingmagazine.com

Photo by Charleen Earley Christine Morrissey, Sanctuary Manager of Harvest Home Animal Sanctuary in Stockton for the last 8 years, said their mission is to save the lives of animals who are often overlooked in society.

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Photo by Charleen Earley (L-R) Lions Member Rod Linn, winner Amata Abatcha, with her mother Falmata Abatcha. Held at the Liberty Adult Education Center in Brentwood, CA on Feb. 11, 2015, The Lions of Multiple District 4 (California) Student Speakers Foundation Inc. sponsored it’s 78th Annual Student Speakers Contest based on the question, “Water Conservation – How Can We Reduce, Recycle and Reclaim?” Amata, an Independence High School student of Brentwood, CA, won $100 and the opportunity to go to the next level. The goals of the competition are to encourage high school students to hone their talents through research, speech-drafting and oration skills, and to gain confidence in themselves, become comfortable addressing audiences of various sizes and build skills that facilitate success throughout their educational years and beyond.

Perfect Photography by Rich Stockman Headliner Mickey Joseph balances his comedic talents on Jan. 9, 2015 for Delta Living Magazine. Visit him at www.mickeyjoseph.com.

Photo by Charleen Earley Diane Burgis represents the cities of Antioch, Bay Point, Bethel Island, Brentwood, Byron, Clyde, Crockett, Discovery Bay, Hercules, Martinez, Muir, Nevada Dock, Oakley, Oleum, Pacheco, part of Pinole, Pittsburg, Port Costa, Rodeo, Selby, and Tormey. Parks in her ward include Antioch/Oakley Shoreline, Bay Point, Big Break, Black Diamond Mines, the northwestern portion of Briones, Browns Island, Carquinez Strait Shoreline, Contra Loma, Crockett Hills, Martinez Shoreline, San Pablo Bay, Waterbird Preserve/McNabney Marsh, and Vasco Caves. “It is such a privilege to serve on the East Bay Regional Park District; it is one of the jewels of the Bay Area.

I look forward to creating more parks for our communities and engaging people, particularly our youth, in getting outside and becoming environmental stewards,” said Burgis.

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Perfect Photography by Rich Stockman Middle Act Pat McCoy, voted “Most likely to Recede” in High School joined Mickey on stage for Delta Living Magazine on Jan. 9, 2015. Visit him at www.facebook.com /funnyboypatmccoy.

Photo by Charleen Earley Diane Burgis of Oakley, CA was sworn into offi ce as Director of Ward 7, East Bay Regional Park District Board on Jan. 13, 2015.

Her sons and mother supported her (L-R) Sam, Diane, Jacob, Liz, and Dustin.

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One Husband, One Wife, Plenty of Excedrin Funny Side Up

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felt as though I were in New York hailing a cab from the Oakland Airport to my mother’s house (this was years ago). Once inside the backseat, luggage stowed in trunk, I told the Middle Eastern cab driver to take 17, take the 23rd Street exit, and we’d be on our way.

He appeared to be my age, brown hair with a friendly disposition and talkative nature. It wasn’t but two metered seconds into the ride when he asked me, “How long you’ve been away?”

“Been away?” I asked.

“From Oakland,” he added.

“Oh, well, I grew up here, but I don’t live that far away, so I’m not sure what you mean by ‘been away.’”

“It’s not called 17 anymore. It’s 880.

They stopped calling it 17 back in the early 80s!”

“Oh, yeah, I know,” I assured him.

“It’s just that it’s set in my brain as 17, you know, the Nimitz Freeway, so I guess that’s why I still call it that.”

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tions, like where my husband was and where was I coming back from. Nosey, huh? I like it!

I told him I was divorced 12 years and returning from Salt Lake City, Utah from a three-day writer’s conference.

He continued with more questions when I decided I’d turn the tables on him, being the newshound that I was, and asked him about marital status.

Turns out he was divorced too, four years, had two kids under the age of 11, pays child support (yah, I even asked him how much, but I’ll leave that part out) and that he was currently in the process of bringing his new fiancé to America.

“Where is she now?” I asked.

“In Afghanistan. It’s an arranged marriage!” he said, as the meter seemed to race on. I had no idea cab rides could be so expensive.

“Is it true that you get to have many wives at one time?” I didn’t hold back.

“We can have up to five,” he answered.

“And the women, do they get to have up to five husbands?” I thought I was being clever.

“No. The reason why the men can have that many, is because our country is always in war. Men are in short supply, so Islamic Law made it so women would not have to be without a man,”

he explained.

“Wow, I never knew that. So how many wives do you want?” I probed a little farther.

“Just one. If one gives me a headache, why would I want five headaches!” he laughed and I laughed with him.

I silently wondered how his second marriage would end up with his headache analogy at work.

“So compared to America, are divorces common in the Middle East?”

I continued.

“We have more divorces than here,” he said.

“Really!” I was shocked. I figured America was the leader in shattered homes, but it looks as if broken covenants are universal, and not countryspecific.

The meter sped faster than his driving, and how he kept his concentration while weaving through traffic between Islamic Law and child support payments was amazing to me.

But more amazing was how happy I was to be in America and not have to give my hand in marriage, by arrangement, to a man with four other wives.

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Summer Taste of Oakley

Saturday, May 30 Oakley City Council Chamber

Join us to sample del table food from various Oakley restaec u

by Movie in the Plazarants, followed Ratatouille. Pre Sale featuring ticke at City Hall $10 per p ts available erson.

Car Show

Saturday, June 20 10am-2pm Oakley Civic Center Amphi th Pre-Registration re qu

Movies in the Plaza

Saturday, May 30

Saturday, June 13

Saturday, July 25

Saturday, August 1

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High School Soccer Field

Bring your lawn chairs, and blankets to enjoy th e vendors and a firework

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