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Iwas a kid in Alabama when Taylor Swift’s 2006 debut album was released. Her country-meets-pop ingenuity and innocent views of love and love lost won me over, and I’ve been following her career ever since. I followed along as she created art out of heartbreaks, new crushes and lasting romance. I could go on and on about my admiration for Swift’s craft, but I’m sure that’s not why you’re here. Stick with me on this.
I’m bringing up Taylor Swift because I’m inspired by her growth into healthier and happier mindsets. In her 2012 single “Red,” she sings about love as this passionate whirlwind, speeding fast and crashing into rubble. The song’s chorus repeats, “loving him was red,” summing up the burning intensity and initial thrills of an unhealthy relationship.
Seven years later, Swift released a love-smitten album, “Lover,” featuring the melodic track “Daylight.” The song is riddled with romantic lyrics, but notably, she draws a parallel to her “Red” lyrics with the verse, “I once believed love would be burning red, but it’s golden.”
To Swift, love is no longer about fervid yearning and burning emotion. Love is the refreshing and warm feeling of the sun glowing on your skin. It is comforting, temperate, and gleaming.
So how does this tie into your wedding planning? While researching and preparing for this issue I repeatedly came across wedding planning content saturated with negative language. Many resources emphasized how stressful, expensive and frustrating the wedding planning process is. And that’s not what I believe in.
Once we believed that wedding planning would be burning red. But it’s golden. You’re marrying the love of your life and you’re hosting a celebration that honors the gift of loving and being loved in return. If you go into this chapter preparing for stress and angst, that is what you’ll feel. But when you look at the beauty of a wedding through a golden lens, a new experience materializes.
Throughout this issue, we’ve done our best to remove the negative language, while still being realistic and practical. We’ve let Chicago wedding industry professionals share their expert advice to showcase the glimmering reality of wedding planning. Yes, there will be hiccups, but it’s nothing you can’t get past with a solid team on your side.
With this attitude in mind, we’ve thoughtfully curated every page of this magazine to help you plan with confidence. From venue guides to vendor viewpoints to wedding fashion inspiration, in these pages, you’ll find a planning blueprint. I sincerely hope this issue leaves you feeling “like daylight” as you embark on this exciting chapter. And if things get rough or stressful, take a step back and step into the sun. It’s time to celebrate your love.
Happy planning and stay golden,
I’d be remiss to not include some sincere thank-yous. This is my first full issue of Chicago Style Weddings and this incredible wedding community has welcomed me.
Thank you to my Chicago Style Weddings team and family at NeiTurner Media Group. You let me run free and I thank you for believing in my vision and working side-by-side to bring our dreams to paper.
Thank you to our contributors and industry partners. You’ve dedicated so much of your time and resources to providing content for this magazine and it is immensely appreciated.
Thank you to my husband, Keenan. Without you, I wouldn’t be able to authentically reflect on marriages and love. I often let my work pour over into after-hours, but you are patient with me as I problem-solve and you encourage me endlessly along the way. I wish for every nearly-wed that reads this magazine to have a partner like you.
Alexandra Dillard Editorial DirectorAnd lastly, thank you to our readers. This magazine is my love letter to you: the newly engaged couple, the industry professionals, the doting parents, the champions of love. Thank you for planning a beautiful celebration and for letting us be a small part of that.
September/October
GOWN Bri’Zan Couture; Amaré Couture Bridal “Ivy”
JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
HAIR & MAKEUP WarPaint International LOCATION Wildman BT
PHOTOGRAPHY Stephanie Wood Photography
STYLING Alexandra Dillard
GROUP PUBLISHER & CEO Barbara Krause
VICE PRESIDENT OF PUBLICATIONS Becky Peck
EDITORIAL DIRECTOR Alexandra Dillard
ART DIRECTOR Lauren Harrigan
DIRECTOR OF SALES & ACCOUNT SERVICES, ASSOCIATE EDITOR Denise Bruscher
DIRECTOR OF SALES & ACCOUNT SERVICES Barb Montagano
DIRECTOR OF SALES & ACCOUNT SERVICES Laura Wrasman
ADVERTISING COORDINATOR Amy Jacobs
GRAPHIC DESIGNER Jerriann Mullen
DIGITAL MANAGER Kristen Rouse
SOCIAL MEDIA MANAGER Kristin Dvorak
NEWSSTAND SALES CONSULTANT JK Associates
CONTRIBUTORS Christine Boulton | Kelly Delamater | Rob Gorman
November/December
FORMALWEAR PROVENANCE by Diana Michelle GROOMING WarPaint International LOCATION The Thompson Hotel
PHOTOGRAPHY PhotoRSH
STYLING, DÉCOR & FLORAL Maison Du Prince
January/February
GOWN Veiled by ChaCha; Love Story Bridal
JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
HAIR & MAKEUP WarPaint International LOCATION Wildman BT
PHOTOGRAPHY Stephanie Wood Photography
STYLING Alexandra Dillard
Victoria Greatrix | Aly Heintz Raddatz | Patty McGuire | Bradley Moss
Anna Novak | Amy Reifenstuhl | Lisa Shaw
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FEATURE WRITER
Anna Novak is the Marketing Manager at Kathryn’s Bridal, a family-run boutique with designer wedding gowns & accessories.
“To Veil or Not to Veil” - pg 88
Rachael Schirano of Rachael Schirano
Photography is a documentarian wedding photographer, specializing in the transformation of genuine interactions and unplanned moments into romantic artistry.
”For The True Love Believers” - pg 64
“Taste Buds” - pg 288
Stephanie Wood is a fine art and documentary wedding photographer with a passion for energetic, authentic and lively photography.
“Hopelessly Devoted” - pg 68
ART DIRECTION
Ramsey Prince is the owner of Maison Du Prince, a bespoke floral and event design destination in Chicago’s North Shore.
“Well Groomed” - pg 78
FEATURE WRITER
Patty McGuire is the owner of Patty McGuire Hair & Makeup Artists, a hair and makeup artist collective specializing in wedding and event hair and makeup.
“Before You Say ‘I Do’” - pg 92
FEATURE WRITER
Rob Gorman is the co-owner (along with his wife, Tone) of The BRIX on The Fox, a historic and industrial wedding venue in Carpentersville.
“Will My friends and Family Have a Great Time?” - pg 144
Ross Haley (PhotoRSH) is a photographer specializing in editorial, fashion, and boudoir work.
“Well Groomed” - pg 78
FEATURE WRITER
Kelly Delamater is the owner and lead planner of Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events, a Rockford-based event planning and design business.
“Planner Knows Best” - pg 250
FEATURE WRITER
Christine Boulton is the co-owner of Branching Out Event Florist-Chicago, a floral company specializing in weddings, corporate events, and social occasions.
“What You Need To Know About Wedding Florals” - pg 260
FEATURE WRITER
Lisa Shaw is the owner and executive chef of Lisa’s Boutique Catering, a catering business with a passion for uniting people through food.
“How to Plan a Custom Menu that Reflects You” - pg 267
FEATURE WRITER + PHOTOGRAPHY CONTRIBUTOR
Bradley Moss is an editorial and wedding photographer with additional experience in stop-motion animation, cinemagraphs, graphic design and videography.
“Honey, I Do” - pg 104 “A Chic Civil Ceremony” - pg 150
Jasko Omerovic Photography is a fullservice wedding photography business, excelling at capturing elegant photography with a personalized approach.
“Kindred Spirits” - pg 276
FEATURE WRITER
Victoria Greatrix is the owner of The Quintessential Cake, a premier cake studio specializing in designer cakes.
“Selecting Your Wedding Cake Maker” - pg 282
FEATURE WRITER
Amy Reifenstuhl is the owner and lead designer of Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor, leading her business with a tailored and polished aesthetic.
“How To Find And Refine Your Aesthetic” - pg 295
FEATURE WRITER
Aly Heintz Raddatz is the Creative Director of Elevated Events, running the business alongside her husband, Patrick. Together they provide wedding entertainment and decor services with a modern twist.
“The Ultimate Wedding Soundtrack” - pg 307
They say that getting started is the hardest part. Saying “Yes!” to your partner was easy, but starting the planning process can feel daunting. With plenty to do before you walk down the aisle, our 12-month planning checklist will help you stay organized and as stressfree as possible. Use this timeline to break down the planning process into bite-sized chunks that will (hopefully!) ease overwhelming feelings.
___ Establish your budget
___ Begin researching wedding vendors (peruse the pages in your hands or head to chicagostyleweddings.com to get started!)
___ Begin planning the guest list to get a rough idea of headcount
___ Narrow down potential wedding dates
___ Select and book your venue(s) based on available dates
___ Discuss your wedding priorities with your partner and family
___ Decide if you’ll be using a wedding planner (we recommend!) and hire them now
___ Finalize your guest list
___ Determine your wedding theme, colors and level of formality
___ Begin wedding day attire shopping
___ If you’re having a destination or holiday weekend wedding, mail savethe-dates now
___ Choose your wedding party and invite them to be by your side
___ Meet with and make final decisions on your team of vendors – these book up quick, so the sooner you decide the better. Priorities: floral and decor provider, caterer, photographer and videographer.
___ Take engagement photos
___ Purchase your dress and accessories, and schedule delivery date and fittings
___ Begin to plan groom and groom’s attendant’s attire
___ Create your gift registry and wedding website
___ Book hotel room blocks and transportation to and from
___ Reserve any rental equipment, such as tables, chairs and tents (if necessary) Choose a cake designer for your cakes Plan entertainment options and book your DJ/musicians
___ Select hair and makeup vendors
___ Mail your save-the-dates
___ Finalize rehearsal dinner plans
___ Shop for wedding bands and arrange for engraving
Reserve/purchase groom’s attire
___ Select wedding party attire and schedule fittings (if needed)
Select your officiant and meet with them to learn about any potential premarital requirements
Ensure all vendor hires are booked
Meet with your caterer to plan menu details and tastings
___ Establish your honeymoon plans and book as needed. Don’t forget to check that your passport is valid!
___ Plan welcome bags and day-of stationery like signage, programs and menus
Choose the ceremony music, and discuss reception music with your band or DJ
Confirm out-of-town guest accommodations
___ Order formal invitations and book calligrapher (if needed)
Schedule hair and makeup trials
TWO MONTHS
___ Mail your invitations with RSVPs due one month before the wedding
Extended rehearsal dinner invitations
___ Attend wedding attire fitting
___ Begin to write your wedding vows
___ Embark on bachelor/bachelorette parties
___ Confirm details for rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception
Research local marriage license and name change requirements
ONE MONTH
___ Pay your vendors in full
Apply for your wedding license
___ Have your final dress fitting
Create a seating chart
Have a final venue walk-through
Confirm details with the florist, caterer, entertainers and officiant
Have a trial run for full hair and makeup
Purchase gifts for attendants, flower girl, ring bearer, fiance, parents, etc. Plan for floral and dress preservation Decide who will do readings and toasts
Finalize wedding vows
TWO WEEKS
___ Finalize seating arrangements
___ Give your caterer and venue a final guest count
___ Break-in your wedding shoes
___ Get your last pre-wedding haircut
___ Practice your wedding vows
___ Confirm all RSVPs
Touch base with all your vendors
Schedule final meeting with your planner or day-of coordinator
___ Give assignments to your wedding party members and remind them of rehearsal details
Confirm timelines and details with all vendors
Assign an attendant to collect gifts and cards
Prepare tip envelopes for vendors and arrange for someone to distribute them the day of the wedding
___ Designate various point people — who is taking care of what on the big day?
Get a manicure and pedicure
___ Eat safe and clean — this is not the time to try new ingredients!
___ Stay hydrated — drink lots of water!
___ Clean your ring
___ Host rehearsal dinner and hand out special gifts to the wedding party and family
Ensure dress, shoes, jewelry and accessories are all ready to go Pack overnight bag if you are staying at a hotel the night of your wedding
Practice your vows out loud
___ Relax and enjoy the day, knowing you’ve planned everything up to this point well!
AFTER
___ Write thank-you notes
Change your name (optional)
___ Preserve your gown and florals
Write online reviews of your vendors
Both partners must appear together in person at the county clerk at the time of application.
Unmarried people who are 18 years of age or older and not blood relatives can apply for a marriage license.
Exceptions:
• First cousins older than 50 years of age may marry and apply for a marriage license.
• Individuals who are 16 and 17 years of age must provide the following information: in-person sworn consent from each parent or legal guardian before the county clerk at the time of application, as well as a form of valid identification (ID) to show their date of birth. Those giving consent must provide proper ID, including a valid driver’s license, state ID or a valid U.S. passport. If a legal guardian is giving consent, a certified copy of his or her guardianship papers must be provided.
You must provide one of the following to receive your marriage license: a valid U.S. driver’s license or state ID, valid U.S. passport or U.S. Armed Forces ID card. If the above is not available, you must provide two of the following: a certified copy of your birth certificate, U.S. naturalization papers or resident alien card, valid foreign passport, life insurance policy that has been in effect for at least one year, a baptismal record showing the birth date of the applicant or a consulate ID card. Counties
may vary when it comes to forms of acceptable ID. Call your county clerk to verify what documentation you should bring.
If previously married, most counties require divorce decrees and/or death certificates of former spouses.
Civil unions are legal and valid, and offered to all couples in the state of Illinois, as long as both partners are age 18 or older and are not blood relatives. It is not required that a civil union be converted into a marriage. If couples would like to convert their civil union into a marriage, the marriage license fee will be waived if the couple applies for their license and has their ceremony within 60 days of the date their civil union was actualized.
Depending on your county, the cost to obtain a marriage license is between $30 and $60. Certain counties only accept cash, so call ahead to confirm what types of payment the clerk will accept. If you intend to request multiple copies of your marriage license, be prepared to pay replication fees.
A marriage license becomes effective 24 hours after it is issued. After the document becomes effective, couples have 60 days to hold their ceremony and make their marriage official. The couple must hold their ceremony in the same county that issued their marriage license for it to be recognized.
Your marriage license must be obtained in the county where your ceremony is being performed. Call your county clerk’s office to verify requirements, hours and additional locations. We recommend getting two or three certified copies of your marriage license for name change and/or filing purposes.
COOK COUNTY
Downtown Chicago
118 N. Clark St., Room 120 Chicago, IL 60602 312-603-7790
South Suburbs - Markham
16501 S. Kedzie, Room 238 Markham, IL 60426 708-232-4150
North Suburbs - Skokie 5600 W. Old Orchard Rd., Room 149 Skokie, IL 60077 847-470-7200
West Suburbs - Maywood 1311 Maybrook Square, Room 104 Maywood, IL 60153 708-865-6010
DEKALB COUNTY
110 E. Sycamore St. Sycamore, IL 60178 815-895-7149
DUPAGE COUNTY
421 N. County Farm Rd. Wheaton, IL 60187 630-407-5500
KANE COUNTY
719 S. Batavia Ave., Building B Geneva, IL 60134 630-232-5950
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5 E. Downer Place, Unit F Aurora, IL 60505
LAKE COUNTY
18 N. County St., Room 101 Waukegan, IL 60085 847-377-2400
WILL COUNTY
302 N. Chicago St. Joliet, IL 60432 815-740-4615
*Appointment required
There are so many options when it comes to allocating your money. Start the process by nailing down a total budget. Once that is set, you can break down the entire budget using this helpful guide. Based on national averages, this guide will give you a good starting point to know what amount you should be willing to spend for each vendor. Of course, this is a fluid guide. If you are set on splurging for your dream wedding dress, accounting for 30% of your wedding budget, go for it! Just be sure to adjust the other items accordingly.
40% Venue and Catering
16% Décor (flowers, lighting, rentals)
12% Photography and Videography
11% Wedding Attire (formalwear, wedding bands, accessories)
8% Music and Entertainment (DJs, band, orchestra)
3% Wedding Planner
3% Stationery (invitation suite, programs, menus, table cards, thank-you notes)
2% Transportation (limousine, trolley, buses, classic car)
2% Beauty (hair, makeup, grooming, spa services)
2% Cake (sweets, dessert bar)
1% Extras
Once you’ve established your budget and allocated it accordingly, you’re all done thinking about finances, right? Wrong! Enter the taboo world of tipping. No one wants to intentionally stiff someone, but how do you know what is standard? Let’s break it down.
To start off, aside from contracts that include it, tipping is not required for most vendors. However, when a vendor goes above and beyond for you, tipping is greatly appreciated! Typically, it is not standard practice to tip the owner of the service provided. However, many vendors — such as catering — have waitstaff that deserve special thanks.
Sometimes, gratuity is included in your invoice, so be sure to check and don’t assume it is or isn’t. Some vendors include total gratuity for their staff in the fee, so don’t hesitate to doublecheck.
Pro Tip: To avoid forgetting during the whirlwind of your big day, prepare your tips beforehand. Head to the bank for some cash and create tip envelopes, labeled for each vendor. You can assign one of your attendants or family members the task of distributing the tips on the wedding day.
15-20% Catering Managers, of catering expense
15-20% Venue Coordinators
10-15% Bartenders, of bar tab
15-20% Hair and Makeup Artists, each
15-20% Chauffeurs or Drivers
15% Wedding Consultant/Planner
10-15% DJ
$50-200 Photographer/Videographer Assistants, each
$20-50 Live Musicians, per member
$15-20 Waitstaff, per server
$1-2 Valet Attendants, per car
$1-2 Coat Check Attendants, per guest
What’s almost as good as a tip? A glowing review and referrals! If you enjoyed your service, leave your vendor a positive review — they will be grateful!
Knowing exactly what to ask vendors can be overwhelming. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of some of the most important ones for you to get started with. Let these questions begin to guide your conversations as you assemble your dream wedding team. With their answers, you can feel confident in their abilities to make your day truly memorable.
Throughout this issue, you will find our suggestions for questions to ask specific vendors. Find these guides here:
Questions to ask your fashion retailer pg. 56
Questions to ask your beauty team pg. 57
Questions to ask your venue pg. 112
Questions to ask your officiant pg. 113
Questions to ask your wedding planner pg. 248
Questions to ask your florist pg. 258
Questions to ask your caterer pg. 266
Questions to ask your bakery pg. 282
Questions to ask your decorator pg. 294
Questions to ask your photographer pg. 298
Questions to ask your videographer pg. 302
Questions to ask your entertainment vendor pg. 306
• Are you/your services available for our wedding date?
• Can you accommodate our budget? Can you share with us what a reasonable budget is for our requests?
• What’s the payment plan for the full bill? What forms of payment do you accept?
• What are your cancellation and rescheduling policies? Are any fees refundable?
• What is the timeline for making final decisions during the planning process? For example — guest count, gown purchase, cake tasting?
• Do you carry personal liability insurance, professional indemnity insurance and appropriate licenses?
• What is your social media policy regarding sharing our wedding on your channels?
• What happens if you are unable to be present the day of our wedding?
• How long have you been in business or in the industry?
• What sets you apart from other vendors and why should we hire you?
• How far in advance do we need to book you?
EXCLUSIVE
AN COLLABORATION WITH WEDDING DRESS DESIGNER HAYLEY PAIGE3 E. Main St. | St. Charles, IL 60174 331.235.5803 | thegracefulordinary.com
From its riverfront location to its acclaimed chef, this newly opened restaurant and event venue in downtown St. Charles is anything but ordinary. In a sophisticated setting along the scenic Fox River, rustic fare from Executive Chef Chris Curren dazzles. Their chef-driven cuisine is centered around the kitchen’s wood-burning hearth with a menu of elevated, yet approachable tavern fare. The Graceful Ordinary is the ideal setting for all your wedding celebrations, with 4,700 square feet of interior space and 2,200 square feet of waterfront terrace space outside. Unforgettable views, chef-driven cuisine and gracious hospitality — The Graceful Ordinary is the memorable backdrop to your life’s special events.
6430 Hamlin Ave. | Lincolnwood, IL 60712 224.251.7614 | lolavalentina.com
Lola Valentina is revolutionizing fine linen rentals and event branding by offering access to original designs and fully custom options for all your event rental needs, including tablecloths, table runners, decor placemats, napkins and more. There is a full team of designers in-house, so customers can access fresh and exclusive designs without any limitations. All items are environmentally conscious and proudly crafted in the U.S.
On-site Beauty. Whenever. Wherever. | Chicago, IL 917.740.2896 | warpaintinternational.com
WarPaint International is an on-site “beauty-on-demand” agency. We specialize in intimate, luxurious, on-location wedding hair and makeup experiences in Chicago. We know weddings! With thousands of happy brides serviced over 10 years in business, we are true professionals that strive to make your day flawless. Our team of hand-selected and experienced Artisans are passionate about perfecting your special day. WPI Artisans are interviewed, technically tested, receive ongoing education, are nationally background-checked for your safety and expected to have the highest standard of sanitary practices. WarPaint International is the ultimate symbol of luxury and excellence in hair and makeup artistry.
180 N. Field Blvd. | Chicago, IL 60601
312.600.9997 | avli.us
Avli on The Park opened in May 2021 and is centrally located in Chicago with easy access to hotels, Maggie Daley Park and all the city has to offer. Curate the perfect destination-style celebration in downtown Chicago with stunning rooftop cabanas, skyline views, a beautiful private banquet room in the main hall and more. Along with contemporary Greek cuisine and a lively beverage program, Avli on The Park is an unparalleled choice for group dining, birthdays, celebrations and events that’ll transport your guests seamlessly to a seaside resort in Greece.
675 S. River St. | Batavia, IL 60510 630.940.8987 | revelry675.com
From Exceptional Events by Shuki Moran comes Revelry 675, a new and elegant wedding and events venue. Located along the Fox River in the heart of Batavia, Revelry 675 boasts a luxurious and spacious 8,000-square-foot indoor and outdoor property. Just as the name “Revelry” implies, the venue is synonymous with dancing, festivities and celebrating the night away in style. Adorned with gold starburst chandeliers, white marble flooring and an outdoor patio with strung bistro lights, this newly renovated space has found new vibrancy. With an established presence as a luxury and celebrity event planner, Shuki Moran knows how to host an unforgettable fete, and this new venue continues that legacy.
350 W. Wolf Point Plaza | Chicago, IL 60654 Hotel: 312.836.5000 | Catering: 312.529.1124 vocohotels.com/chicagoil
Chicago’s newest wedding venue, voco Chicago Downtown, is located at the confluence of the Chicago River on iconic Wolf Point. Defined by Chicago’s urban style and an unrivaled location at the heart of River North, The Loop and Fulton Market, voco Chicago Downtown features dazzling city and river views from the 15th floor of 350 North Orleans. The venue offers three upscale ceremony and reception spaces — two with floor-to-ceiling windows — and warm and inviting guest rooms for you and your guests. Whatever you need, they’ve got it covered.
600 E. Grand Ave. | Chicago, IL 60611
888.741.0282 | citycruises.com/chicago
Whether enjoying the breathtaking cityscape while cruising the Chicago River or the city’s striking skyline from Lake Michigan, you’ll love Chicago’s most unique and elegant wedding venue. Say your vows aboard the Spirit of Navy Pier, the newly renovated tri-deck vessel expanded to provide ample space for cocktail hour, formal dining and dancing. The rooftop bar has been completely reimagined to create a luxurious top-deck lounge with photo-perfect, openair views. Relax and let their complimentary event planners provide City Cruises’ signature service, delicious dining, custom décor and distinctive entertainment. Bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, engagement parties or postwedding brunches — the event of your dreams is waiting on the water!
477 S. 3rd St. | Geneva, IL 60134 331.248.0422 | copper-fox.com
Copper Fox by FoxFire is one of the newest, most complete event spaces in downtown Geneva. FoxFire, being well known since 2003, has always had requests for larger parties, so the family owned, small business decided it was time to take the event venue world by storm. With over 20 years of event experience, and a full remodel inside and out, Copper Fox was born. They offer full catering, event décor and design, indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces, and a team of professional event staff. Their Event Coordinator will be with you from the beginning of planning, through to the big day and will assist you in planning the wedding day of your dreams.
808 S. Route 59 | Naperville, IL 60540 630.581.7200 | matrixvenue.com
The Matrix Club is a new premier wedding, banquet, convention and performance venue, opening in the summer of 2022. Their talented and versatile events team creates exquisite engagement and wedding ceremonies for diverse cultures. Award-winning chefs create worldclass culinary delicacies from around the world in their in-house stateof-the-art kitchens. Your wedding should transcend your expectations and The Matrix Club’s goal is to make that happen. Delivering an immersive experience, it’ll be unique and one that’ll linger with you and your guests for years to come. Details matter, and The Matrix Club will take care of every single one for you.
5514 Lincoln Ave. | Lisle, IL 60532 630.946.6807 | weddingdesignstudiochicago.com
The Wedding Design Studio is a 7,000-square-foot space created by 1440 Event Design. A collaborative concept, drawing together a group of industry experts and artists with decades of experience in wedding, floral and decor design, bridal gowns, and custom design and alterations. WDS Chicago offers full-service event design and production alongside an expansive collection of designer gowns in a one-stop shop for all things bridal. Offering a sense of genuine expertise and enthusiasm, specializing in thorough and informative service, the WDS team invites you to discover “Your Wedding Wonderland.”
122 N. Main St. | Wheaton, IL 60187 630.433.8906 | themomentonmain.com
The Moment on Main is the new urban event venue located within the heart of downtown Wheaton. Offering modern elegance with a minimal design concept, the venue’s goal is to inspire couples with personalized planning so their vision becomes a reality. Creating a venue that is carte blanche was and is their core inspiration to everything they do. The experienced and talented vendors partnering with The Moment on Main will ensure each wedding is perfected and a moment in time to remember forever. Outside of their four walls, The Moment on Main is surrounded by beautiful city parks, urban streetscapes, eateries and bars to enhance your wedding getaway experience.
519 W. Algonquin Rd. | Arlington Heights, IL 60005 847.437.5590 | chezhotel.com
Be one of the first couples to celebrate in the new Chez Hotel, opening in 2022! Situated in the charming suburb of Arlington Heights, Chez Hotel is a high-end 4-star luxury boutique hotel offering reception halls, luxury dining, a modern rooftop terrace, beautifully appointed rooms and friendly multilingual staff. Make a grand and glamorous entrance with beautifully curated spaces and the only luxury outdoor rooftop venue in the Chicago suburbs. From cocktail receptions, rehearsal dinners or brunches on the rooftop to formal weddings in the European Crystal Banquet Grand Ballroom, you’ll find the ideal reflection of contemporary luxury. An exceptionally well-prepared on-site event team will help you realize your vision and ensure your big day experience is a memorable one.
Your wedding day is about much more than what you’re wearing. But isn’t it a bit fun to play dress-up and live out the phrase, “look good, feel good?” We’ve collected some of our favorite wedding fashion trends and beauty tips to ensure you’re feeling your most beautiful on your wedding day.
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HANDPICKED BY Monarch Creative Events
The Guesthouse Hotel C.D. Peacock
FOR THE TRUE LOVE BELIEVERS
Featuring Chicago bridal designer, Goli June
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HOPELESSLY DEVOTED
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WELL GROOMED
A bridal fashion editorial at Wildman BT
The Thompson Hotel hosts a groom-centric editorial, directed by Maison Du Prince
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TREND REPORT Chicago Style Weddings’ favorite wedding attire trends
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PRE-WEDDING PAMPERING Sit back, relax and treat yourself
TO VEIL OR NOT TO VEIL Take your aisle style to the next level with a veil
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BEFORE YOU SAY “I DO”
The perfect wedding morning routine with hair and makeup artist Patty McGuire
INSIDE & OUT
Look and feel your best on your wedding day
• Are appointments required to visit and try on wedding attire in the shop?
• Approximately how long are the appointments and how far in advance should I book my appointment?
• How many guests can attend the appointment with me?
• Should I bring special undergarments, shoes or accessories? If so, what?
• How long does it take for my dress to arrive after placing the order?
• How many fittings do you suggest?
• Do you have any special trunk shows coming up?
• Do you have any collections or brands that are exclusive to you in this region?
• Can I request a sample gown from a brand you carry that I don’t see in store?
• Do you sell any sample gowns off the rack?
• What deposit do you require?
• What is your sample size range?
• What is the anticipated cost and process of alterations?
• Do you offer consultations and trials? If so, what is the charge?
• How far in advance should I book my trial appointment?
• Will you be able to accommodate all of my bridal party?
• How much time should I allow for hair and makeup on my wedding day?
• Do you offer on-site services? How far will you travel?
• What products and brands do you use?
• What is the range of skin tones and hair textures you are experienced working with? Do you have makeup and products that will match my skin tone?
• Based on your experiences, what look would you suggest for me?
• Are you available for touchups? If not, will you provide tips and tools to allow for touch-ups throughout the day?
ALEXA MCNISH
OWNER / WEDDING PLANNER, MONARCH CREATIVE EVENTS
Color is back, baby! I am drawn to muted colors that have a romantic feel. The cake and floral installation were the first items I found and instantly knew they would be the focal point of my picks. Everything else builds from this coming up roses vibe!
CHELSEA HOLTZMAN LAWRENCE
VICE PRESIDENT OF SALES & MARKETING, C.D. PEACOCK
Taking a cue from sparkling gemstones, jewel-tones create a luxe and timeless environment. Let your wedding jewelry be the star of the show and build a vision around the hues of sapphire, ruby, emerald, topaz, amethyst, and – of course – the shine of a diamond.
Fueled by a swirl of almond latte art, Goli Parvinian Young creates bridal attire for the true believers. Having lived in Chicago, London, Auckland, New York City and Melbourne, she embodies a restless urge to absorb the world. Throughout her years of international travel and moves, a vision for her own bridal line marinated and, in 2019, Goli June was born.
The Goli June wearer is non-traditional and unapologetic. She doesn’t mind breaking the rules ... in fact, she doesn’t see that there are rules. She has a specific style and wants to express that on her wedding day, while still achieving timelessness and establishing an heirloom. The Goli June collections are full of bridal separates, jumpsuits, short dresses and suiting — really whatever makes the wearer feel most themself.
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Moved to Chicago to begin school at Columbia College
Chicago in the Fashion Design program
Studied abroad at London College of Fashion
Started job as Sales Associate/ Stylist at newly-opened BHLDN Chicago. The launch of BHLDN marked the beginnings of thinking non-traditionally. Working here taught Parvinian Young that bridal could be something outside of what she always thought it to be.
Successfully presented her senior thesis collection of non-traditional bridal separates
Graduated from Columbia College Chicago with a BFA in Fashion Design and a minor in Fashion Business
Moved to Auckland, New Zealand for a summer internship with Rue De Seine, a made-to-order bridal line known for custom lace, attention to the female form and bohemian spirit
“You don’t have to ask for permission,” says Parvinian Young, who believes rules and standards are meant to be tested and wedding attire is no different.
In her line, you won’t find a lot of voluptuous ball gowns or puffy details. Instead, the racks are marked with sleek lines and modern silhouettes. Comfort is a pillar of the brand, so you will also find stretch fabrics, buttery linings, soft organza and — sometimes — pockets.
Adaptability is another pillar of Goli June. The garments are designed to be integrated into the client’s wardrobe and to go beyond the aisle. With this ideal, the collections include separates like organza coats, detachable belts and accent armbands that can be intermingled into regular wardrobe rotation. These mix-and-match pieces are integral to the brand and create garment longevity, and therefore, a layer of sustainability.
As with many creative minds, Parvinian Young is inspired by her environment and surroundings. She primarily works out of her home, so the space is warm and well-curated. Persian rugs, blooming orchids and vintage furniture set the scene.
Some flights below the window sills overflowing with organic matter, is her basement studio. Goli June headquarters is down the stairs and past the washing machines. In a spare room with low ceilings and a space heater, a cutting table with bolts of fabric underneath takes up most of the space.
Inspiration images, fabric swatches, tech packs and croquis variations cling to the plaster walls with masking tape. And on a singular clothing rack are white garments in varying stages of completion.
Notions of what a traditional bridal atelier looks like don’t live here. But redefining is what the brand is all about.
Beyond her quiet home and workspace, a life full of travel and living abroad influence her designs. Goli June’s first collection, “Stray Here,” was inspired by the designer’s time in Australia and her second collection, “Light & Brightness,” drew from her Persian heritage.
Parvinian Young is the daughter of Iranian immigrants. With her mother a physician and her father a developer, entering the creative field wasn’t necessarily an expected career path. But this background only enriches her points of inspiration and world view. And mixed into everything else,
you can’t forget the essence of hopeless romanticism. After all, Parvinian Young spent years pouring her love across continents and time zones in a long-distance relationship. While personal life often is separated from one’s career, this dedicated relationship with her New Zealandbased partner can’t be overlooked. That plucky, hopeful, and devoted practice is in the brand’s DNA.
Alongside the brand’s tactile comfort comes emotional comfort. A lot goes into buying wedding attire: financial parameters, external approval, body image, decision paralysis. It’s an emotionally charged purchase and can be different for everyone. Parvinian Young has seen a lot of clients through the process and makes the experience welcoming and kind. She stands by the tenets of investing in self-care acts, surrounding oneself with those whose opinions will be productive, and being nice to yourself.
With this gentle and encouraging relationship between the designer and
Moved to NYC and worked at Sarah Seven, a modern and sleek bridal brand on the rise. Here she transitioned through multiple titles, including alterations manager, stylist and lead draper.
Started her master’s degree at RMIT University in Melbourne, Australia
Graduated from RMIT with a Master of Business Administration
Entered Chicago Fashion Incubator as a Designer in Residence. The Chicago Fashion Incubator provides emerging local designers with resources to help grow their careers in fashion. Designers in Residence receive mentorship, studio space, workshops and introductions to a network of industry professionals.
The Goli June Brand officially launches with a ripple of earned press in its wake
client, Parvinian Young teaches selftrust. You’ve been dressing yourself your whole life, you likely know what you like best and what you’re repeatedly drawn towards — trust that instinct. Deciding between this style and that style can feel like a heavy choice, but it doesn’t need to be a stressful event.
“Brides will get stressed out because they will pick out a dress and then they’re like, there are so many other dresses out there! What if someone comes out with another collection? But you’ve got a dress that you love,” the designer says.
“It is similar to when you get engaged. You found a person whom you want to share your life with. And there could be hundreds of other people out there that you maybe could fall in love with as well. But you found your favorite, you found your person. You’re not going to go out and keep looking. So once you find the dress that you love, stop looking.”
The brand’s collections define the pillars of Goli June, but at the end of the day, it’s all about the client and what makes them feel best.
“We are not very much stuck in our ways, we want it to be a collaborative process with the bride,” says Parvinian Young. “So [the client] can take these elements that are really strong to our brand and make them herself as well.”
Goli June is made-to-order, so each garment has the ability to be customized to the client’s taste — beyond just fit and size.
In addition to collaboration with the garment’s wearer, Goli June benefits from collaboration with peers. Virtually every step of a collection is completed in Chicago — and that is important to the designer. Parvinian Young has trusted seamstresses and pattern makers throughout the city whom she nurtures partnerships with. “I like being able to meet with my seamstresses. I know everyone who is making everything,” says Parvinian Young. And with this intimate relationship, the seamstresses or patternmakers feel comfortable suggesting technical alterations to the designs. The results are synergistic pieces made in and by Chicago.
Pulling inspiration from home and abroad, Parvinian Young is always thinking forward. Currently, one focus is an emphasis on fit and expanding her size range. While all her pieces are made-to-order, the industry-standard sample size that gets sent out to retailers and trunk shows is typically a size four. Wanting to make sure all potential Goli June clients can see themselves in her works, this year she hopes to add sample sizes of 12 and 22 into the rotation.
The vision forward for the Goli June brand is fluid, but the principles are established. Whatever comes to be from future collections will be infused with ideals of sustainability, authenticity, and conviction. Shifting the collective mindset of the wedding attire shopper, the industry needs to support brands who prioritize diversity and inclusion, brands that encourage personal style alongside individual culture, religion, and creed. Brands like Goli June. ■
LOCATION Wildman BT
PHOTOGRAPHY
Stephanie Wood Photography
STYLING
Alexandra Dillard
To see the video and more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/fashion-feature.
See additional credits on page 77.
OPPOSITE (LEFT)
GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture; Vera Wang “Elizabeth”
HEART SHAPE DROP NECKLACE Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
DIAMOND STUDS Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
OVAL ETERNITY BAND Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
STRETCH ETERNITY BAND Razny Jewelers; Picchiotti
VEIL Volle’s Bridal & Boutique; Victoria Sdoukos Couture
SHOES Lori’s; Jeffrey Campbell “Fluxx Sandal”
OPPOSITE (RIGHT)
GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture; Rivini “Nicks”
BOLERO Bella Bianca Bridal Couture; Rivini “Nico”
DIAMOND DROP EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Rahaminov
THREE STONE EMERALD CUT ENGAGEMENT RING Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
EMERALD CUT ETERNITY BAND Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
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GOWN LBR Bridal; Eva Lendel “Aretta”
FLORAL DROP EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
STRETCH ETERNITY BAND Razny Jewelers; Picchiotti
GOWN Veiled by ChaCha; Love Story Bridal
MULTI SHAPE DIAMOND
NECKLACE Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
MULTI SHAPE DIAMOND
DROP EARRINGS Razny
Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
OVAL ENGAGEMENT RING
Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
MULTI SHAPE DIAMOND
BAND Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
GOWN LBR Bridal; Eva Lendel “Werti”
NECKLACE Razny Jewelers; Rahaminov
BRACELET Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny
EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny STRETCH ETERNITY BAND
Razny
Jewelers; Picchiotti SHOES Lori’s; Jeffrey Campbell “Geometric Sandal” GOWN Wedding Design Studio; Pronovias “Geiranger” CAPE LBR Bridal; Eva Lendel “Charlie” DIAMOND RIVIERA NECKLACE Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny DIAMOND STUD EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny ROUND DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT RING Razny Jewelers; Bespoke by Razny DIAMOND BAND Razny Jewelers; MémoireTo see the video and more photos from this fashion
The Thompson Hotel
PHOTOGRAPHY PhotoRSH
To see the video and more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/well-groomed.
See additional credits on page 83.
THE GROOM.
But not anymore.
A vision for showcasing luxurious possibilities for grooms came to life in the hands of Ramsey Prince of Maison Du Prince. Prince is known for turning heads with his recognizable flair and bespoke styling, so these scenes came together beautifully in his handwriting.
With rich orchids, gilded accents, and incredible menswear, a fabulous grooms’ weekend at The Thompson Hotel unfolded.
Opening up celebrations for the weekend is a bachelor party at The Thompson Hotel’s Nico Osteria. With cocktails in hand, grooms Jason and Daniel don suiting from Formally Modern in stunning jewel tones. Groomsman Matt (pictured far left) wears a custom look from Provenance, including a herringbone suit jacket, floral shirt, silk pocket square, and Brackish feather lapel pin.
GROOMS’ FORMALWEAR Slim-fit Ike Behar Suits via Formally Modern GROOMSMAN’S FORMALWEAR PROVENANCE by Diana Michelle
The best wedding days begin surrounded by dear friends. A mimosa bar and silk robes aren’t just for the bride and bridesmaids! Hosted in one of The Thompson’s junior suites, the grooms and their groomsmen started the festivities with lighthearted fun and laughter.
Showcased during these vignettes are luxurious undergarments from famed designer Richard Dayhoff. In intentionally selecting these undergarments for the wedding day, there’s mindfulness on a groom’s first layer of clothing. Such premium undergarments establish confident beginnings of the dressing process. Whether topped with a satin robe in the morning or a beautiful velvet tuxedo in the evening, every layer has a story and is important to how the groom feels and carries himself.
The moment we’ve all been waiting for, the ceremony. Speaking to the organic lines of the venue, Maison Du Prince crafted a non-traditional triangular wedding structure in front of the Thompson Hotel’s Froines Room clock window. The natural light elegantly frames the gentlemen beneath a spray of vibrant orchids by Maison Du Prince. The grooms and groomsmen donned hand-crafted coordinating boutonnieres to tie the scene together.
Eat, drink and be married — the vows have been said and we transition into the reception at The Thompson’s Chelsea Private Dining Room. Overlooking Bellevue Street, the reception dinner table is handsome and whimsical. Jewel-toned orchids sing against black and gold-veined custom linens and chargers from Lola Valentina Designs. Cheeky touches like the golden diver sculpture help unite the personality of the grooms into the decor.
LEFT & OPPOSITE GROOMS’ FORMALWEAR PROVENANCE by Diana Michelle GROOMSMENS’ FORMALWEAR PROVENANCE by Diana Michelle
LOCATION The Thompson Hotel
PHOTOGRAPHY PhotoRSH
STYLING, DÉCOR & FLORAL Maison Du Prince
LINENS Lola Valentina
DRINKS Nico Osteria
GROOMING WarPaint International
FORMALWEAR & APPAREL PROVENANCE, Formally Modern Tuxedo
MODELS Jason Cates, Jack Fogarty, Matt Negron, Daniel Vasquez
To see more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/well-groomed.
Who says bridal clothes always need to be white? Black wedding dresses are having a dramatic moment.
Architectural structures and exposed boning bring corset-inspired looks into the modern age.
Put a sleeve on it! Statement sleeves might cover more skin, but bring the drama.
Lace will never go out of bridal style, and these new lace interpretations are anything but old-fashioned.
Whether it’s for the reception, the ceremony itself, or a courthouse wedding, go flirty and fun with a mini dress.
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Support your local wedding industry by rocking a look from one of Chicago’s most skilled bridal designers.
Fairytales aren’t just for movies, walk down the aisle dripping in romantic, dreamy elegance.
Wedding dresses get a lot of love and attention, and rightfully so! But oftentimes, it’s the veil and accessories that take a bride’s aisle style to the next level. McHenry-based bridal salon Kathryn’s Bridal shares insight into deciding if a veil is right for you and how to pick the perfect one.
Are you considering wearing a veil when you walk down the aisle? “We promise that you will never regret wearing one,” says Kathryn Trocki, owner of Kathryn’s Bridal. “A veil can make you look even more stunning by adding magical sheerness and softness all around. The photo opportunities with a veil are endless! Some of the most romantic and sexy pictures we have ever seen involve a simple veil.”
Begin your search by seeing if you can borrow a veil from a happily married family member or friend (so it can double as your “something borrowed”). If borrowing is not an option, then plan to budget up to $300 for a fingertip length or shorter veil. And for longer lengths, multi-layer, and lace or beaded edging, expect significant increases in price.
If your veil is the whipped cream on top of your wedding attire sundae, then its details are the sprinkles. From the dramatic cathedral length to short and sweet, you can lean into tradition or add a whimsical flair by adding lace and/or sparkles. Lately, we’ve been seeing veil trends like pearls, 3D floral applique, colored veils or colored embroidery, and custom monogramming. These reimaginings of how veils are executed give so much room for your personality and style to shine.
As small as they might seem, details of a veil can add up and increase the overall cost. So, if you are budget savvy, be open-minded and never doubt the magical impact of a plain, single-tier, tulle veil.
Before you select a veil, decide on your hairstyle. The placement of a veil will vary based on how you plan to wear your hair. The placement of the veil will also impact where it falls. Will you wear the veil on top of your head at the crown? Or under your updo? A seamstress can often alter the length of your veil a few inches when needed.
In our experience, the most important detail of a veil is choosing the most lovely length to flatter your dress and frame your smiling face. Here are some of the most common lengths and styles:
Birdcage Wedding Veil: 4-9"
A small and flirty veil that may just cover the eye(s), nose and/or entire face. Often seen in a vintage net type fabric.
Shoulder-Length Wedding Veil: 20-22"
This traditional type of veil falls to your shoulders. It is most preferred by brides looking for a simple veil that does not compete with the gown.
Blusher Wedding Veil: 30"
This veil has a very traditional look. It is worn over the face and ends near the top of the dress. The bride walks down the aisle with her face covered, then at the altar, it’s pulled back to reveal her face for the first time to the groom.
Elbow Wedding Veil: 32"
Elegant and conservative brides are drawn to the elbow-length veil. This
veil gives the appearance of shoulder coverage and is favored for ceremonies in a formal house of worship.
Fingertip Wedding Veil: 38-40"
A fingertip veil ends just beyond the bride’s fingertips. It falls over the bride’s hips, yet is soft and flowing. It’s a popular choice because it allows freedom of movement and is still very romantic.
Ballet Waltz Veil: 48-60"
This longer veil graces over the knees to the calf area. It is dramatic and elegant while allowing movement that doesn’t drag on the floor. Brides who plan to wear their veil while dancing find this an appealing length.
Floor-Length Wedding Veil: 72"
As the name implies, this veil just touches the floor. It is intended to be the same length as the bride’s gown. The flowing fabric adds extra softness and volume to the gown.
Chapel Wedding Veil: 90"
For brides wearing a dress without a
train, a chapel veil gives the illusion of a train by extending past the length of the gown’s hem. It’s often preferred by the bride who doesn’t want to be bothered with bustling a train. The veil can simply be removed to reveal a floor-length gown after the ceremony.
Cathedral Wedding Veil: 108-120"
Cathedral-length veils are the most regal and memorable of all the veils. This veil extends well beyond the train of the bride’s gown and offers true dramatic appeal. It’s often associated with a fairy-tale or royal wedding. ■
It’s no secret that wedding planning can be stressful. To keep yourself feeling refreshed and relaxed, be sure to schedule time to pamper yourself and prepare for the big day. Whether that be a relaxing massage to ease stress or regular hair blow-outs to keep your hair shining, check out these options for some much-needed pre-wedding pampering.
Treat yourself and get a massage! Not only are massages deeply relaxing and great for stress relief, but they have many health benefits, including posture improvement and energy stimulation. Your wedding photographer will thank you.
Chicago Style Weddings Suggestion: Windy City Massage Windy City Massage has the unique business model of coming to you. Available for booking at hotels such as Swissôtel , Kimpton Gray , The Drake Oak Brook and The Allegro Royal Sonesta Hotel , Windy City Massage professionals will come to your room for some on-location pampering.
On your wedding day, your face and the joy it exudes are the stars of the show! A facial can make you feel rejuvenated and ready to shine and smile big. Pro tip: If you plan on booking facial treatments, be sure to plan a trial facial a few months out. You don’t want to risk any breakouts or reactions to the treatment on your wedding day!
Chicago Style Weddings Suggestion: The Peninsula Spa
The Peninsula Spa will have you feeling on top of the world with a glowing face to match. From deep-cleanings and relaxing facials to cutting-edge services, The Peninsula Spa can provide whatever you need in order to put your best face forward.
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On the road to your wedding, a lot of your quality time with your partner will be spent planning. Be sure to plan dedicated time to relax with your loved one. As an alternative to a dinner date night, plan a spa treatment together. Couples’ treatments are romantic, relaxing, and beneficial to the mind and body.
Chicago Style Weddings Suggestion: The Spa at Trump
The Spa at Trump has a variety of couples experiences for you and your soon-to-be spouse to indulge in. The variety of treatments include couple’s massages and soaking tub experiences, complete with champagne, candles and complete tranquility.
While we love a bachelorette out on the town, there’s something to be said for a relaxing time with your closest friends. Your wedding will go by in a blur, so take time to spend time with your treasured attendants and family by planning a spa getaway.
Chicago Style Weddings Suggestion: Eagle Ridge Resort & Spa
Located in Galena, Eagle Ridge Resort and Spa provides the perfect backdrop for a getaway. Their Stonedrift Spa offers an extensive menu of spa services and therapies, from full “Head To Toe” packages to Gentleman’s Treatments to waxing services.
The getting ready process on the wedding morning is a fun and celebratory time that sets the tone for the rest of the day’s events. What could be better than having your hair and makeup done to your favorite song with the people you love the most while indulging in champagne and sweet treats? As a professional hair and makeup team, we are privileged to have witnessed a lot of touching moments during our travels. While there are certain traditions that will never go out of style, we’ve seen some new and meaningful trends that are on the rise. Instead of the focus being solely on the bride or groom, there is a heartwarming shift happening. With more emphasis on lifting up the wedding party members by recognizing them as individuals, our nearlyweds are shining a spotlight on what each attendant means to them. The events of the last few years have made us all want to love harder and to be more expressive when it comes to letting people we care for know how much they mean to us. These 12 must-haves are inspired by the incredible nearlyweds who are taking things to another level and making the wedding day morning truly unforgettable.
Choosing the wedding party attendants is not an easy decision, but is an essential part of creating the perfect wedding day. One of the best parts of getting to know our couples is learning about who they’ve chosen to share their wedding day morning with. Whether it’s family members, childhood friends or college roommates, these “ride or die” confidants have walked alongside our nearlyweds through it all. What better way to start the day than with a spirit of celebration, friendship and love?
The getting ready process on the wedding day morning takes time. Depending on how many people are having their hair and makeup done, the process can take several hours. While bridal suites are often the most desired getting-ready location, they don’t always work because of the hours they are available. Be sure to ask about how early you’re able to arrive in order to decide on the best location for you and your wedding party. If 10 a.m. is the earliest you’re able to arrive, that likely will not work unless your end time is late afternoon. Choose a location that has plenty of space for the hair and makeup artists, as well as the wedding party. An early arrival time will allow for the relaxed morning you had hoped for.
Create a unique and memorable getting-ready environment by bringing in some of your attendants’ favorite things that will make the morning truly special. Whether it’s their favorite smoothies, special coffees or sweets, incorporating things that your friends love creates a celebratory spirit that will be remembered.
Real Wedding Example: One memorable moment at a recent wedding was seeing the bride set out a collection of photographs in beautiful frames, scattered around the bridal suite of her and her bridesmaids. Those photos gave the space a personal touch that resulted in a lot of belly laughs and stories from the past.
Giving the bridesmaids/bridesmen a special gift is a tradition that never goes out of style. A thoughtful gift with a personal touch is a great way to say “thank you” to your crew for their friendship and participation in the events surrounding the wedding day. Whether it’s gifting them their hair or makeup service, a luxe handmade boho robe or a pair of cozy slippers, nothing sparks joy like a thoughtful gift.
There has always been special attention paid to creating a fun, upbeat music playlist to enjoy while getting ready for the big day. Music is such a powerful way to communicate our feelings for one another and is an essential part of setting the mood for the day.
Real Wedding Example: We witnessed something really touching recently where a bride selected individual songs
for each of her bridal party. The bride chose songs that reminded her of each attendant and presented the soundtrack on a record that had their names beautifully written across each one. These personalized details make the day even that much more special.
In the days of emails and texts, there is nothing like the handwritten word. A handwritten letter engages our senses in a way that technology can’t. There are often handwritten letters presented to the bride from their fiancé/e, but a sweet gesture we’ve been seeing lately are handwritten notes written by the bride to her bridal party. The letters can contain personal memories, what she admires about them and why she wanted them by her side on such a significant day. Presented in a beautiful envelope with their name on it, these letters are treasured gifts never to be forgotten.
Having hair and makeup done on the wedding day is something the wedding party looks forward to and gets excited about. Pamper yourself and your attendants by hiring a professional bridal beauty team that provides luxury services and will travel to your home, hotel or bridal suite. A luxury service includes airbrush and lashes for everyone, a relaxed service timeline and artists who use only highend cosmetics and tools. Having your hair and makeup done by a team of industry professionals will ensure that your photographs will reflect beautiful, cohesive looks that will stand the test of time.
One of the best gifts a bride can give to her bridesmaids is allowing them to be themselves when it comes to hairstyles and dress selection. Allowing your party to have some input when it comes to their hairstyle and what they
will wear gives them the confidence to go throughout the day feeling comfortable and their most beautiful. For makeup, it’s best that there’s a consistent flow that coordinates with the color palette of the wedding and that the bride leads in terms of the style and amount of makeup. Glowy, radiant skin with subtle pops of color produces timeless makeup looks that are soft, natural, and beautiful.
Men’s grooming services are on the rise for the wedding day morning and can include a haircut, shave, manicure and simple makeup touch-ups.
Be sure to have plenty of food around in the morning to keep everyone’s energy up. Because alcohol is frequently involved in the getting ready process, have a good supply of water bottles so that everyone stays hydrated. Specialty cupcakes, cookies or other treats from a boutique cake shop bring some sweetness that only adds to the celebration.
With all of the thoughtful attention to details, gifts and creative ways to celebrate the wedding party, it’s important to hire a wedding photographer that will understand the importance of capturing all the planned and unplanned moments that mean so much. While Pinterest can provide inspiration for wedding day photos, allowing the photographer to use their own creativity will most certainly guarantee you getting more exceptional images that are unique to your personal style.
The wedding day morning goes by so quickly, it’s important to stay in the present moment and not jump ahead
to what’s coming later. There is so much excitement and anticipation surrounding the ceremony and reception that anxiety can start setting in because of how fast things are moving. Even though it’s very exciting, don’t let what’s to come rob you of staying present and enjoying every last detail and effort you put into making the day so memorable.
No wedding day morning is complete without a champagne toast, so before you say “I Do,” let’s finish the morning off right! We love a great photo opportunity and there’s none better than sharing one final celebratory moment with your attendants by raising a glass to family, friendship
About the Author
Patty McGuire is a hair and makeup artist specializing in wedding and event hair and makeup for the past 25 years. As a former salon owner and educator, she gained valuable experience as an artist and mentor. She loves the relationships she develops with her brides and feels it to be an incredible honor to be part of the journey leading up to their wedding day. After years of enhancing brides on their big day, McGuire knows a thing or two about how to create the perfect “before the ceremony” routine.
and love! All the preparations and well wishes have led to this final moment, but the best is still to come. As you walk out the door and head to the ceremony, take with you all the love and support that these special people have brought to your life. Ahead is a whole new chapter that your family and friends are getting ready to celebrate, so enjoy every beautiful moment.
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Many find that lessening their alcohol consumption makes them feel happier and healthier. Opt for some non-alcoholic cocktails and still enjoy your favorite drinks, but without the liquor.
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Anticipating gorgeous ring photographs and holding hands with your partner, make sure your nails are healthy and happy. Use a nourishing cuticle oil daily to promote strong nails and happy cuticles.
Scent Workshop
It is proven that our minds connect scents with memories. Assign a special fragrance to your wedding season and that scent will always remind you of this time in your life! Quintessentially soft, this Scent Workshop perfume is romantic and floral.
Remix by Giselle Wasfie, D.A.C.M.
Embrace the ancient East Asian technique of facial gua sha to help relax and define your face. Use this facial massage tool to relieve headaches, bloating, stress and tension.
No nearlywed should feel they need to change their appearance for their wedding. However, it’s understandable if you’d want to incorporate some new pampering elements into your routine. In the spirit of embarking on a new chapter, try out some new inner and outer beauty regimens. If you’re looking to enliven your everyday look and feel for your wedding, here are
The special and personalized details are what make a wedding memorable. Hone in on what you want to inspire you — whether that be overarching themes or specific anecdotes — and let them guide your wedding planning experience. These pages are here to get your mind dreaming … and don’t be afraid to dream big!
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Flowers and lace defined the vision behind this styled shoot at Wandering Tree Estate. Designed by Wandering Tree Estate and Alicja Events, this showcase of femininity illustrated a romantic setting for the most timeless of love stories. Thoughtfully set up alongside the pond and gazebo, dining tables were sheltered by cream Mediterranean teak umbrellas from Well Dressed Tables. Place settings were thoughtfully adorned with vintage china from Royal Table Settings and Dupioni napkins hand-tied with lace. Showcasing the exquisite beauty of the private estate, this shoot incorporated Englishcountryside aesthetics and vintage details to evoke a step into a simpler, more serene time.
The inspiration came from the English and Japanese Gardens at Wandering Tree Estate. The elegance and timeless beauty of each setting evoke love, enchantment and everlasting memories.
ALICJA BUREK EVENT PRODUCER, ALICJA EVENTS & MODELS INC.Vendor List
PHOTOGRAPHY: Maksym Prokopiv Photography; Daniela Cardili Photography
VENUE: Wandering Tree Estate
DESIGN: Wandering Tree Estate and Alicja Events Inc.
FLORAL: Dagny and Lane Floral; Stems by Sue
BOUQUET: Red Carpet Events
TABLETOP DÉCOR & NAPKINS: Royal Table Settings
FURNITURE, DÉCOR & LINENS: Well Dressed Tables; Elegant Presentations
CUSTOM TABLECLOTHS: Wandering Tree Estate
CAKE & DESSERTS:
Toni Patisserie & Café
HAIR & MAKEUP: Tamara Makeup + Hair Artistry
STATIONERY: Eloquent Impressions
GOWN: Watters Designs via Couture Bridal Outlet
BRIDAL ACCESSORIES: William John Accessories
FORMALWEAR: Essence Weddings
MODELS: Elizabeth Nevarez & Drew, Alicja Models Inc.
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlighton-style.
Inspired by the vibrant colors and romantic rave-stylings of the ‘90s, this styled shoot by Fierce Productions celebrated the unapologetic magic of love. At the forefront of inclusivity in the Chicago wedding scene, Fierce Productions specializes in events that are bold, non-traditional and fearless. Complete with cosmic brownies, neon lights and heart-shaped sunglasses, this faux wedding showcased all the liveliness that comes with being authentic to who you are.
I wanted to plan and design a styled wedding at the brand new Chicago venue, The Arbory, that was funky, punchy and off-beat. It was really important to the team that we featured a BIPOC, LGBTQ+ couple. Inclusivity is part of our mission at Fierce Productions so anytime we do a shoot we are looking to represent every couple!
LAURA REITSMA OWNER, FIERCE PRODUCTIONSPHOTOGRAPHY:
Madi Ellis Photography
VENUE: The Arbory
PLANNER & STYLING: Fierce Productions
FASHION STYLING: Alysia Cole Styling
DESIGN: Colibri Curates
VIDEOGRAPHY: AJ Grimm
FLORAL: Black Rabbit
LINENS: BBJ Linen
CATERING: Paramount Events
DESSERTS: Azucar Rococo
HAIR & MAKEUP: The Bridal Beauty Team
STATIONERY: Clementine Studio
GOWN: Savannah Miller Bridal
FORMALWEAR: Belle Atelier
JUMPSUIT: Viktor & Rolf
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlighton-style.
This cotton candy daydream at Walden Chicago intertwined modernity with rose-colored nostalgia. The colors and fashions of garden parties inspired Walden’s Natalia Mangieri to assemble a vendor team and craft this city-chic interpretation. With this youthful garden party in mind, the vendors spread their wings to showcase whimsical florals, delectable desserts and punchy tablescapes. The fun flowed with lovely libations by Walden’s in-house bar team and their popular custom cocktail menu. To capture the fanciful vision, hi-contrast flash photography by Bradley Moss showcased a new wave of wedding photography. Sticky, sweet and oh-so-delicious, this styled shoot is as flirty as can be.
Weddings can be playful and colorful, and highlight your personality in all types of ways ... They’re so inherently personal and a reflection of everything you love and value.
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PHOTOGRAPHY: Bradley Moss
VENUE: Walden Chicago
PLANNER: Natalia Mangieri at Walden Chicago
FLORAL: Thistle & Plume
DÉCOR: MDM Entertainment
LINENS: F&S Linens
CHAIRS & RENTALS: Ellie & Rose
TABLESCAPE RENTALS: The Festive Frog
CAKE & DESSERTS: Bittersweet
HAIR: Rare Bird Beauties
MAKEUP: Joey Claeyssen
STATIONERY: Ink Love and Paper
GOWN: Selkie
FORMALWEAR: SuitShop
JEWELRY: Grace Von
MODELS: Mary O’Sullivan, Jason Booth
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlighton-style.
NATALIA MANGIERI SENIOR EVENT PLANNER, WALDEN CHICAGOWe’ve seen traditional gift registries decline in popularity. If looking for an alternative to gifts, ask your guests to donate to a charity or cause that means a lot to you.
Your wedding day is a complete reflection of you and your partner. You put everything you love into this day. From including your best friends as your wedding attendants to crafting a menu of favorite dishes to marrying your favorite person in the world, your wedding is all about what you love most. So why not tie your ideals and values in as well?
The ceremony itself is the most integral part of a wedding. It sets the scene for your marriage and reminds you, your partner and your guests what the basis of your marriage will be built on. In the whirlwind of planning, the ceremony can get overlooked. So don’t forget to really lean into your ideals and passions with special readings, such as a scripture passage from your faith’s holy text, or poems or lyrics that spell out your most important ideals.
We’ve been loving alternative bachelor/bachelorette parties lately. Invite your best pals to join in on a day of volunteering for something that’s important to you. Help out at an animal shelter or food bank, run a charity race together or spend a day at a nursing home. Whatever cause tugs at your heartstrings, celebrate your love by sharing love!
Make sure your vendors align or at least understand what values mean most to you. This will help ensure that all your wedding details are just right and that you are supporting businesses whom you agree with. Are you environmentally minded? Hire a vendor from Chicago’s Green Wedding Alliance , a community of event vendors with the environment and social responsibility at their core.
Whether you have children already, younger siblings or are a blended family, including the kids most special to you into your wedding day is important. While a full wedding day might not be thrilling to a little one, use these options to make sure all your guests — no matter their age — feel welcomed and ready to celebrate.
Depending on the child’s personality and outgoingness, inviting them to speak in the ceremony is a fun touch. This can be as complex as having them prepare a speech or simply having them read a poem or scripture. And of course, we can’t forget the crucial role of being a flower girl or ring bearer!
Traditionally, it is common for weddings to have a dedicated cake for both spouses. Feel free to keep the two cakes, but also have a kids’ cake — or even cupcakes! Any excuse to have a funfetti cake and some sprinkles, right?
Let’s be honest, weddings might be arduous to some kids! Give the day some extra fun by offering games and activities. This can include weddingthemed coloring pages and word
searches, an I-Spy Bingo board, kid-friendly snack packs or backyard games.
This might be the kid’s favorite part of the whole wedding process! Inviting them to your cake tasting will let them know they are involved in the wedding and that their opinions are valued in this marriage.
What could be sweeter than crayonillustrated table name cards? If your wedding has a more relaxed air to it, don’t be afraid to let your special children join in on the decorating. This could mean giving them the task of sprinkling flower petals/confetti throughout or allowing them to get creative in outfitting the photo booth. Kids are great at thinking outside of the box, so you might as well tap into that creativity!
Is your pet just as important to you as your significant other? For many couples, incorporating their furry friends into their wedding is a must. While they might not make the invite list, they certainly deserve to be represented in the festivities one way or the other.
What is cuter than a portrait of your pet on a deliciously designed cookie? Include these sweet treats in your guests’ welcome bags, at the reception dessert table or as a departing gift.
Dedicate a cocktail or two to your pet by including them on the bar menu. Go simple with a name like “The Fido” or get creative with a play on words.
Maybe having your pet in attendance for the whole wedding isn’t the right fit. But an option is to coordinate with your pet sitter to bring the pet to your wedding during your scheduled photo time. Having your pet in some of your wedding photos will be a priceless keepsake!
As guests leave the wedding, invite them to take a “doggie bag” of cat or dog treats with them — a gift from your pet to theirs.
Whiskers might not be in attendance, but his/her presence will be known! Create photo booth props of your pets so that they get to be in your guests’ photos and very much a part of the big day. ■
Where you host your wedding and reception can define your day more than anything else. Your venue sets the tone and communicates what your festivities will be like. In this section, see what types of venues are out there and read about all sorts of ceremony and reception details.
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SETTING THE SCENE Types of wedding celebration venues
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PARTIES, PARTIES, PARTIES! Types of parties surrounding the wedding
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ALL ABOUT THE MEHNDI A look into the Indian tradition
A WORK OF ART Live wedding painting with Rosemary Fanti
FROM THIS DAY FORWARD
Writing authentic wedding vows
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WILL MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS HAVE A GREAT TIME?
The BRIX on The Fox venue’s viewpoint on throwing a great wedding
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A CHIC CIVIL CEREMONY Photographer Bradley Moss captures a darling courthouse wedding
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TWO FOR THE ROAD All about destination weddings
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A VERY CHICAGO CELEBRATION Incorporating Chicago into your big day
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THE PERFECT SPOT Venue Features
CELEBRATION LOCATIONS Ceremony and reception venue directory
PRELUDE TO THE PARTY Venues for everything but the aisle
• What is your capacity? Seated capacity?
• Do you offer venue space for the ceremony and reception?
• How do you transition the room from ceremony to reception and what is the floor plan?
• What is the length of time included in our booking?
• If needed, what are the alternatives for inclement weather?
• Can the wedding party get ready at the venue? Where?
• Are there any planned building works or renovations before/near the wedding date?
• What are the bathroom facilities?
• Are there any other items included in the booking, such as linens, tables, furniture, etc.?
• Are we required to use your preferred vendors, including catering?
• Are we permitted to bring our own alcohol?
• What time can we gain access to set up?
• What are the parking options for guests?
• What time do we have to exit the venue?
• Are you legally able to perform a marriage at our location?
• Are we able to personalize our ceremony? To what extent?
• How would you describe your ceremony style? Is it casual and comedic or formal and momentous?
• Do you file the marriage license for us or will we?
• What does your package include and what are the costs?
• Do you have a video we can watch of you performing a recent ceremony?
• Do you require any pre-marital counseling or classes?
• Can we include religious, cultural and personal touches if desired? Or can we omit religious mentions?
• How long do your ceremonies usually last?
• Will you attend and help guide our rehearsal?
When planning their wedding, many couples start with selecting and securing their venue. After all, your venue will ultimately influence the mood, logistics and design choices of your celebration. From the rehearsal dinner to the ceremony to the reception, there are a lot of options for what your wedding landscape will be. Keep things simple and streamlined by planning all your festivities in one spot or treat your guests to several locations. There are a lot of options! Whatever you choose as your venue(s), take into account the aesthetics and overall vision, but also think about these important aspects:
• Location – How easily will guests be able to access the venue? Is the venue located near hotels? Do you want something within the city or in the suburbs? How far are you willing to travel?
• Cost – Will you have to move around other items in your budget to accommodate for a certain venue? Does your desired wedding date have a higher peak-season rate?
• Amenities – How much is provided by the venue and how much will you need to bring in? How many restrooms are there and what are they like? Is it handicap accessible? Is there a catering kitchen?
• Size – What is the maximum capacity? Will the venue be too large or too small for your guest list?
• Preferred Vendors – Does the venue have a list of preferred vendors that you’re limited to?
• Privacy – How private or public will the venue be? Is there a risk of strangers and passersby stumbling into it? Does the venue offer a security team?
Wedding logistics are a breeze when you book a hotel wedding. Hosting your wedding at a hotel or resort is a great option if you anticipate a lot of out-of-town guests. On-site accommodations ease the need for wedding-day transportation, and it helps keep everyone in a central locale. Plus, there’s an added layer of guest safety, as no one will need to find a sober driver at the end of the night — they can just go up the elevator to their room! Many hotels and resorts offer a variety of celebration locations, from their hotel restaurant as the rehearsal dinner venue to a ballroom for the ceremony to a hospitality suite for getting ready the day of. The value of all the amenities a hotel provides is hard to overlook.
Gardens are a charming and undeniably beautiful venue for a spring or summer wedding (perhaps a conservatory or greenhouse in the winter). Let nature guide your décor, allowing the expert landscaping to lead the way with ample greenery and blossoms. The depth and texture of garden venues allow you to be transported to a full sensory experience.
Banquet halls are dedicated to events. They offer a turn-key location that is a blank slate for you to build on. The purpose of these venues is to host events like weddings or conferences, so you can be confident that they have every detail accounted for. Most banquet halls have an in-house team dedicated to making your wedding perfect. This can include in-house catering, planners, designers and event staff. Another benefit comes with the assets. Banquet halls typically are equipped with a range of necessary wedding essentials, including sound systems, furniture and decor.
Private residences have added sentimental value that a standard venue can’t replicate. They offer an entirely private and intimate experience, as the venue is not publicly accessible. However, they can come with hiccups, like not being equipped for events and not having staff dedicated to making everything run smoothly. While this type of venue might not cost anything for you to book (in the case that it is a residence of a family member or friend), it might not necessarily save you money. You’ll likely need to bring in external coordinators, staff, set-up crews and more to ensure the venue operates as cohesively as a dedicated event venue would. But you can’t beat the emotional value of getting married in grandma’s garden or your childhood home!
While your wedding will be the star of the show, a museum venue adds a layer of entertainment and culture to your festivities. Guests can meander through the museum’s exhibits and immerse themselves in a unique and textured experience. Thought-provoking and conversation-starting, museums are good options for when you have a lot of guests from different social circles. What better way to break the ice! When your love story is a piece of art itself, a museum is a great backdrop setting for your celebration.
Let our creative catering team enhance your wedding, social event or themed party in Glenview. From cocktail hours to reception dinners, our custom catering is available in all party venues. Book a block of rooms and receive a special group rate when you stay at our hotel in Glenview. Relax while our skilled planners handle all the details of your reception from start to finish.
A modern and elegant venue for your upcoming special day! Providing sophisticated fun and customized events to suit your personal style. Boasting an Italian-American bistro menu with the classic games of bowling and bocce ball to provide unique entertainment for your guests. Let our team help you bring your dream wedding to life and create a perfect day that you and all your guests will be sure to remember.
Views and greens abound! Country clubs and golf courses lend themselves to some stunning panoramic photo opportunities and event backdrops, something you can’t replicate in the city. Besides the aesthetic appeal of country clubs and golf courses, these venues come with white-glove service, multiple rooms available, and experienced staff and catering. Many country clubs offer events to their members only, so be sure to check before you get your heart set on one. However, this does add extra privacy and security for your special day.
Character abounds with a historic site or estate as a venue. By leaning into the splendor of the past, you can ease up on decor rentals and let the space speak for itself. These venues typically have sweeping gardens, breathtaking architecture and the irreplaceable richness of history. If you’re looking for a venue that is timeless and welcoming, a historic estate might be up your alley. However, due to the quaint charm of the past, these venues can lack modern amenities like ample restrooms or grounded power outlets, so keep that in mind!
Gilded halls and china place settings aren’t for everyone. Some couples feel more comfortable celebrating among wooden kegs and saying “cheers!” with pint glasses. A brewery or distillery wedding can feel industrial, relaxed and true to the couple. Many breweries have on-site kitchens available, which makes for some ideal food and drink pairings. If there are no kitchen or catering options, bring in some local food trucks to set up in the parking lot.
Like the idea of hosting your wedding at a distillery, but want something a touch more formal than a beer hall? Try a winery! While we are not in Napa Valley, our region does have several beautiful vineyard estates. As the wine ages in caskets around you, your love will be one that grows better with age too.
Rustic charm and serenity come easily at a barn or farmhouse. Barns offer up a lot of space, so these are ideal for large weddings, especially if you intend on having both indoor and outdoor festivities. All the outdoor grounds give room for elements like a fire pit, yard games and maybe even some barn animal cameos. And don’t feel boxed-in by the rustic aesthetic. These venues are versatile and can be dressed up to create an engaging juxtaposition of glamour and homespun charm. For a breath of fresh air and a step away from the hustle of city life, a barn or farmhouse is a lovely choice for a blissful wedding.
Left: Northfork Farm. Photography by Rachael Watson Photography
For some texture, exposed brick and high ceilings, urban lofts or warehouses are great options. An urban loft is the versatile and industrial take on a classic barn wedding. For city-dwellers, the urban loft or warehouse route adds an undeniable city flair. Plus, these venues are often centrally located, which is also great for out-of-town guests. With past lives as train depots or industrial stock houses, urban loft or warehouse venues have tenacity and a rich history perfect for starting your future in.
Right: Loft 21. Photography by City Savvy Imaging
By picking a restaurant, café or bar whose aesthetics you enjoy, you will have built-in décor! Save for any personalized details you want to decorate with, a stylish eatery comes with the restaurant’s existing décor as well as tabletop needs like silverware and plating. And of course, you know the food and drink will be spectacular. Typically, a restaurant wedding will require a smaller guest list due to venue capacity. If you want an intimate wedding that doesn’t feel empty, a venue like this is perfect. Certain restaurants or bars have private rooms available for rent, while others offer the possibility to buy-out the entire venue, so there’s still room for a wide headcount range.
A bonus: You now have an automatic anniversary date night planned for years to come. What’s more special than celebrating in the very spot you tied the knot?
Above: Untitled Supper Club
Romanticism comes with the territory of a waterfront wedding. No matter how high your wedding-day nerves might be, ultimate relaxation comes with getting married in front of a cacophony of trickling water or crashing waves. A waterfront wedding can take place in a variety of places, like on a yacht or private charter, on a beach, at a marina or at a dock. For a midwestern state, there’s a surprising number of options near Chicagoland! Opt for something on Lake Michigan or plan a mini-destination wedding to surrounding waterfront areas like Lake Geneva, Wisconsin. ■
Above: Lake Geneva Cruise Line. Photography by Kristina Lorraine Photography
WILDMAN BT IS A SPECIAL PLACE FOR WEDDINGS. Unassuming on the outside, magnificent on the inside, your guests will be transfixed in the moments of your big day. The natural light streaming from double clerestory windows, warmth of the century old exposed brick, and luxury in the details designed in the space provide an incredible surrounding for the day you both say, I do.
It is wise to book a hotel block for your guests. However, in the thrill of your wedding planning, it is easy to forget that other big events are happening! In a city as bustling as Chicago, there are a number of significant dates that might affect the cost and busyness of hotels, as well as traffic and road closures. Here are a few events and holiday weekends to take note of:
Pitchfork Music Festival: July 15-17
Lollapalooza: July 28-31
Windy City Smokeout: August 4-7
Chicago Comic & Entertainment Expo: August 5-7
Market Days: August 6-7
Chicago Air & Water Show: August 20-21
Chicago Triathlon: August 27–28
ARC Music Festival: September 2-4
Labor Day: September 5
Riot Fest: September 16-18
Oktoberfest: September 23-25
Loyola University Family Weekend: September 24-25
Chicago Marathon: October 9
DePaul University Alumni and Family Weekend: October 13-16
Chicago International Film Festival: October 12-23
University of Chicago Family Weekend: October 14-16
Halloween Weekend: October 29-30
Veteran’s Day Weekend: November 11-13
Thanksgiving Parade: November 24
Start of Hanukkah: December 18
Christmas Weekend: December 24-25
New Year’s Weekend: December 31-January 1
JANUARY 2023
Martin Luther King Jr. Day Weekend: January 14-16
Chinese New Year: January 22
FEBRUARY 2023
Chicago Auto Show: February 11-20
Presidents’ Day Weekend: February 18-20
MARCH 2023
St Patrick’s Day: March 17
APRIL 2023
Easter Weekend: April 8-9
The International Exposition of Contemporary & Modern Art (EXPO Chicago): April 13-16
Eid al-Fitr Weekend: April 21-23
MAY 2023
Mother’s Day: May 14
Memorial Day Weekend: May 27-29
Father’s Day: June 18
Independence Day Weekend: July 1-2
San Francisco 49ers: September 11
Houston Texans: September 25
Washington Commanders: October 13
Miami Dolphins:
November 6
Detroit Lions:
November 13
Green Bay Packers:
December 4
Philadelphia Eagles:
December 18
Buffalo Bills:
December 24
Note: dates of the events listed might change, so be sure to double-check! ■
Silver Lake Country Club is a breathtaking venue for your next event. The indoor event spaces feature floor-to-ceiling wall-to-wall windows overlooking lush gardens. This entire scene is illuminated in the evening with thousands of lights so guests may enjoy the gardens all evening. The outdoor event spaces are surrounded by a variety of annual and perennial flowers, a sparkling lake and big blue skies making a perfect backdrop for your big day. With amazing views, gourmet food, and an excellent staff, your event at Silver Lake is sure to be perfect.
The ceremony and reception get a lot of attention — as they should! — but there are a lot of other events surrounding a wedding. For a full celebration, pre- and post- wedding parties are not to be overlooked. Here are some options to get the soirées started … and to keep them going. You certainly don’t need to take part in all of these, just do whatever fits you, your relationship and your culture best!
The bridal shower is a daytime party hosted by friends and non-immediate family. No planning needed for the nearlywed! This event often is a ladiesonly festivity in the form of a luncheon, tea party or light hors d’oeuvres social. A shower is a great opportunity to embrace a theme and light-hearted games that you might love, but not want to incorporate into the wedding itself.
Traditionally, this is an occasion to celebrate the bride herself, but as our culture shifts, it’s not uncommon to see these being replaced with couples’ showers, a joint event celebrating both partners.
WHEN: One to two months before the wedding
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Your wedding is all about your relationship with your future spouse. But the bachelor/ bachelorette party allows some time to just celebrate you as an individual. For the rest of your life, you will be joined with your partner, but this is a party for you. This celebration involves you and your closest friends in one final revelry of being single (legally speaking). This celebration can be anything from one fun night out on the town all the way to a multiday destination adventure.
The quintessential bachelor/bachelorette party involves a same-sex guest list, but some couples — especially ones with a blended friend group — may prefer to have a joint party, which can be just as fun! So don’t be afraid of this alternate option.
WHEN: Six to eight weeks prior to the wedding
For couples anticipating a lot of out-of-town guests, the welcome party is a great way to usher in your big weekend. This event gets your guests together to break the ice and set the scene for fun. Consider a cocktail party at the hotel’s bar, a private room at a nearby restaurant or a casual backyard cook-out. Your wedding day will be busy, so this is the perfect opportunity to spend some quality time with the family and friends you don’t see often.
WHEN: One or two nights before the wedding
The rehearsal dinner is the last official celebration before the wedding itself! As the name implies, this dinner occurs after the ceremony rehearsal. Usually, the rehearsal dinner is for immediate family and the wedding party (and anyone who is involved in the ceremony itself), but invitations can also be extended to out-oftown guests. The rehearsal dinner is often hosted by the groom’s parents, although it is just as frequently hosted by the couple themselves. Locations for rehearsal dinners vary, but private rooms at restaurants or private residences are top options.
WHEN: The night before the wedding
A Sangeet is a colorful Indian pre-wedding tradition in which family joins to sing, dance, eat and celebrate the upcoming marriage festivities. Compared to western tradition, a sangeet is similar to a rehearsal dinner, but even more vibrant and lively. This celebration is centered around music and involves choreographed dances, ornate attire and freeform dancing — wishing the best for the couple while joining the two families together with joy.
WHEN: The day before the wedding
An Aufruf is a Jewish ceremony hosted at a synagogue on the Saturday before the wedding. Aufruf translates to “calling up” in Yiddish, and the customary ceremony tradition involves just the groom, but more liberal synagogues have expanded to include both partners. The ceremony calls for the groom (or the couple) to recite a blessing followed by the congregation showering him (or both partners) with candies as a symbol of sweetness and fruitfulness.
WHEN: Saturday before the wedding
Depending on your reception venue’s hours or noise restrictions, your party might have to close down before you’re done celebrating. To keep the party going, many couples have an after-party held at a hotel room, nearby bar or a friend’s house. Your parents and grandparents can head back to get some rest while you and your close friends continue on into the night with loosened ties and kicked off shoes.
WHEN: After the reception ends
You’re recovering from a long weekend with a packed timeline; consider the day-after brunch as a relaxed closing to it all. An informal buffet-style brunch works great for this, as guests can come and go as they please. Depending on how the night ended, this allows guests to say their goodbyes and not feel rushed. Plus, who doesn’t love some coffee and pastries among loved ones?
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Over the course of two weekends, Meraj and Omar hosted three days of spirited wedding celebrations. With a great love uniting them, they wanted to host a celebration that merged their differing personalities and cultures.
Meraj and Omar were both born and raised in Chicago as firstgeneration Americans. Meraj grew up in a traditional Indian household while Omar comes from an Arab Muslim upbringing with Egyptian and Syrian roots. It was important that the couple incorporate aspects of both their cultures into all the festivities, food, clothing, music and rituals.
Kicking off the couple’s series of celebrations was the Mehndi (also known as Mehendi or henna) ceremony, a customary Indian pre-wedding event in which the bride is adorned in intricate henna designs on her hands and feet. Henna is a body art form originating in India and serves both aesthetic and symbolic purposes. The designs are undeniably beautiful and intricate, often incorporating symbols of luck, joy and love.
On the other hand, Mehndi utilizes ancient herbal remedies. The henna paste has natural cooling properties that help the body regulate
temperature and soothe nerves. The cooling properties can provide stress relief and a calming effect when applied to hands and feet. So beyond having her skin beautifully adorned, the bride’s henna application also eases the tense nerves often associated with weddings.
Traditionally, this type of celebration is marked with colorful throw pillows and festive décor in hues of orange, pink, green and yellow — and Meraj’s Mehndi celebration was no different! Hosted at The Heritage Ballroom at the Centre of Elgin, this night was bursting with colors, traditional food and attire, choreographed dances (both Indian Bollywood-style and Middle Eastern Dabke), special entrances and a whole lot of music and dancing. ■
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MEHNDI Meraj and Omar, August 13, 2021
VENUE The Heritage Ballroom at the Centre of Elgin
FLORAL, DÉCOR & LINENS Amer Design
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BRIDE’S GOWN Tabarruj Bridal
HAIR & MAKEUP Makeup by Nadia Tikki
CATERING Fattoush Restaurant
CAKE & SWEETS Sweet Reserve Bakery
ENTERTAINMENT DJ Sunny Entertainment
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Beyond all the pomp and circumstance and decor, what happens at the altar is the most meaningful part of your wedding. You’ll have an officiant to guide the ceremony, but when it comes to exchanging vows, this is your time to really focus on what matters most. You’ll enter your own bubble as you look into your loved one’s eyes and swear your best and worst days to them. Guests, musicians, officiant and wedding attendants will fade into the background as you have these few minutes to soak in what this celebration is all about. So how do you even start writing such an important collection of words? Let’s get started.
While you’re likely busy with apparel fittings, cake tastings and RSVP collections, don’t wait until the last minute to write your vows. To make sure you’re not rushing and end up with
something you’re not satisfied with, get started writing early.
As you start brainstorming, set aside a notebook or create a document on your phone/computer to begin compiling tidbits you want to include in your vows. This can be as simple as a bulleted list or as complex as full sentences. By adding ideas and nuggets all along the way, when you finally sit down to perfect it all, you’ll have a good start.
Some of the most special and unique vows include storytelling elements. While a vow template from the internet will do the trick, it’s special to personalize your vows with inside jokes, memories together and uniquely “you” references. In your notebook, jot down stories about your first meeting or “the moment you knew” as the memories pop into your head. Include favorite songs, TV series and any other special connection you two share. These specifics can be just vague lists, but they will help you start to see patterns you might want to incorporate. The most important part is that you don’t have to do all of this in one sitting.
Writing one or two notes down every few days or weeks is all you need!
In this step of the process, it can be helpful to practice some freewriting. When you are in a good mood and have some time to spare, grab a pen and paper and just start writing. Freely write about your partner, your relationship, what marriage means to you, etc. These scribbled notes do not need to be perfect poetry, this is just your moment to write completely uninhibited. You’ll be surprised to find what lovely tidbits will come out of just writing pressure-free. You don’t need to write in complete sentences or include every small detail, what’s important is that you get your thoughts out in front of you.
We are gathered here to celebrate two becoming one through the tradition of marriage. Likely, you and your partner are different in personalities, which is why you’re joining together to bring out the best parts of each other! So it wouldn’t be a surprise that your
approach to writing vows would be different. However, it can be a bit awkward when one partner reads a 10-minute, heartfelt speech, followed by the other sharing only a few (just as heartfelt!) words.
To keep your vows on the same page, discuss with your partner what they are planning on writing. You don’t need to reveal specifics, but it is good to have that conversation and see eye to eye. It can be helpful to set a word count range or time limit that you both can stay within so that the speeches are similar in duration.
Just as important as length, make sure that you two match tones. One partner might fill their vows with jokes and lighthearted fun, while the other plans a tear-jerking and poetry-ridden declaration. Both of these are great vow directions, but finding a middle ground will keep the ceremony cohesive while still including the best parts of you into the vows.
We are not all naturally gifted with words, and that’s okay! If you’re feeling nervous about writing, use vow templates to help you get started. By looking at examples, your mind will automatically start putting things together. There are a lot of examples out there, from videos published on YouTube to written blog posts. Note what styles you don’t like and remember the parts that make your heart skip a beat. Feel free to mix and match your favorite elements from these examples to create something that fits you.
Inspiration doesn’t have to strike just from other people’s vow examples either. We live in a romantic world and love songs, poems, movies and art pieces abound. Think of some of your favorite love songs and incorporate the lyrics into your vows. You can do this word-for-word or break apart a song and interject personal details into each verse. This is especially memorable if it’s from an artist you’ve seen in concert together, “your song” or a song you sing around the house together.
When you’ve gathered all your inspiration and are ready to write, set
a cozy scene for yourself. You have the groundwork for your vows, thanks to your research and planning. Now it is time to bring it all together. As you sit down to write your final draft, find a quiet, stress-free place to be alone and really think about your relationship. Perhaps light a candle, throw on some serene music, find your favorite pen and get comfortable. As you write, reflect on what this marriage means to you. What do you love most about your future spouse? What kind of journeys have you gone through together to get to where you are today? What makes them The One? What are you most looking forward to in your life together? What do you want to promise to them? Thinking of these questions will put you in the mindset to write in your authentic voice and create something lovely and unique.
When you are feeling comfortable about the state of your vows, show them to someone you trust. You likely have been so engulfed in the vows and every specific word that it’ll be hard to take a step back and look at them as a whole. Be open to honest feedback, it’s better to receive that now than when you’re reading the vows in front of
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everyone! While getting a second opinion is useful, keep in mind that your vows are ultimately yours. Some people might disagree with a phrase or two, but if you feel something is important to your relationship, keep it. You know your relationship best and you know what vows will be the most special.
Sharing your vows with a friend or family member is also a great way to practice reciting them. Even just practicing saying them out loud in front of a mirror is crucial. When you’re at the altar and nerves are high, you won’t want the words to feel foreign on your tongue. Play around with your delivery, pace and how you’ll express your emotions. Sometimes how you say something is just as important as the words themselves. As you practice, it can be helpful to make notes to yourself like, “take a breath here” or “pause for laughter” so you don’t get tripped up.
Most couples don’t memorize their vows. Emotions run high during the ceremony and adding a memorized script to the mix can be intimidating. If you’re comfortable with doing so, go for it! But it is just as special to have your vows written down so you can ensure your thoughtful words are spoken as you intended.
Some couples enlist their stationer or calligrapher to transcribe their vows into a beautifully designed memento. This can be your script for the ceremony, but also serves as an heirloom you can cherish for years to come. We’ve seen some beautifully designed vow booklets, scrolls and notecards. If you decide to have children, these keepsakes can maybe even help them write their own vows someday!
1. Lavender Sprig Candle, Bright Endeavors Ambiance is everything. The right scent and environment will get you in the mood to write out your most loving vows.
2. Signature Pen, Shinola
Good vow writing begins with a good pen!
3. Tying The Knot Panama Notebook, Smythson
Allocate a notebook to journal your wedding thoughts, feelings and ideas into. This special place can house all your vow ideas until you’re ready to officially write them.
4. Handkerchief, The Handkerchief Shop
Let’s be real, tears might be shed during your vow writing process. And especially when you’re saying them at the altar. Prepare to wipe those happy tears away in style.
5. Wedding Vows Books Letterpress on Handmade Paper, Seniman Calligraphy
Have your vows written up in a beautiful notebook or stationery. Not only will this look nice at the altar, but it will make for a great keepsake for years to come.
6. Wedding Readings: Centuries of Writing and Rituals on Love and Marriage, Penguin Books
Don’t know where to start? Consult a book!
Collections of wedding readings and love poems are sure to inspire your own vows.
7. La’Amour Stoneware Mug, Le Creuset Fueled by love (and caffeine)
No matter what direction you decide to go with your vows, the most important thing is to be true to yourself. You’re giving your authentic self to your partner and you want your words to come out naturally. But with the right preparation, you’ll be ready to speak from the heart and focus on what really matters: promising your commitment to the love of your life. ■
Reception entertainment, a timeless keepsake and a work of art all encapsulated in one canvas. Live wedding paintings and illustrations are growing in popularity by adding flair and uniqueness to your day.
It’s fun to walk through extravagant museum halls and see portraits of important figures painted with careful detail and preserved for centuries. Most of us see the experience of a quality painted portrait as a thing of the past, but it doesn’t have to be. Likely, you’re already planning for an incredible photographer to capture your day. But add another layer to that by hiring a live wedding painter. Photography is documentarian, but a painting done in the moment can capture the full essence of the day.
We spoke with live event painter Rosemary Fanti to share a bit more on live painting and illustrating, and how it enhances your wedding experience. Fanti is a classically trained fine artist with extensive experience as an advertising art director and fashion illustrator. A graduate of The Fashion Institute of Technology (FIT), she worked in New York for five years before calling Chicago home and dazzling clients with her artistic talents.
What led you to a career in fashionable live art creation?
After leaving the advertising world full-time, I continued to freelance by creating custom artwork, fashion illustrations and such for a variety of clients. What started as a few requests for “wedding art,” I [then] combined my talents in fine portraiture with a fashion-style look [with my] experience and ease of working “live” during advertising assignments.
What is a live wedding painting or illustration?
Live wedding painting/illustrating to me is capturing that one magical moment in time in real-time — a quick sketch on paper or a large painted canvas. The work is unique in detail to each wedding couple — their own original work of art — created during their wedding event.
What makes this service special to a wedding day?
Each live wedding painting on canvas or illustration on paper demands the perfect detail of the subject with the spontaneity of brushstroke or line. The emotion and vibe of the actual event dictate the tempo of the finished work.
How do you describe your style and work?
My work is impressionistic, strongly emphasizing the effects of light in the style of fashion illustration. Quickly applied brush strokes or lines give the painterly illusion of movement and spontaneity.
What is your setup? How much space do you need and what supplies do you bring?
When painting live, I bring the canvas, easel, all supplies, drop cloth, lighting, cords, etc. I need to be located near electricity and will require one chair from the venue. An average of six square feet is adequate to work.
Can guests watch you while you work at the event?
Yes! Guests love to watch the painting “come to life” throughout the event. A live painting adds interest and anticipation to the guest experience, and especially to the big reveal to the wedding couple.
How much do your works typically cost?
Fees for a live wedding acrylic painting on canvas begin at $2,900. Live illustration(s) with color pencil/ ink wash on paper begin at $1,800. ■
Yes, you are getting married, but you are also throwing the biggest party of your lives. Weddings are a celebration of the couple, and a celebration of family and friends. How can we make sure that your family and friends have almost as amazing of a time as the couple? (Because let’s be clear, the couple should have the most amazing time!)
When The BRIX on the Fox was designed, it was based on creating a beautiful place to celebrate, and a venue that fulfilled all the needs of ensuring an entertaining and meaningful wedding.
Was this mission successful? Take a look at the owners’ very own daughter and son-in-law’s wedding at The BRIX on the Fox and see for yourself.
Alyssa and Shane’s wedding took place on a rainy day in May of 2021. Weddings were just beginning to start again after a pandemic-induced hiatus, and the warm glow of The BRIX venue set the scene for the much-anticipated return of gatherings.
As with any couple’s wedding, every detail was thought out, vendors were chosen with care and the result was undeniably lovely. But unlike most couples, the bride Alyssa had a hand in the design of the venue itself.
In early 2018, Rob and Tone Gorman, the “memory makers” (aka owners) of The BRIX on the Fox, shifted their careers to creating a wedding venue. With no experience in the industry, but with plenty of experience
”going to weddings, they designed The BRIX around what couples and their guests would enjoy. Fortunately, Rob and Tone had their own focus group with six children spanning from teens to 30s, plus their friends. Every plan and design decision was passed by the focus group and industry professionals. Their daughter Alyssa was quite involved in the planning process, from the bridal suite to the overall flow of the rooms. (She might have even thought about her soon-to-be husband, Shane, when planning it!)
Long before Alyssa and Shane said “I do,” The BRIX on the Fox had seen a rich history. Located on the scenic Fox River in Carpentersville, the building itself was constructed in the late
1800s as a dairy, supplying the historic condensed milk factory in nearby Elgin. While the dairy survived only three decades, the building later served the region as a manufacturing plant for other food and animal products until the late 1980s. In 2014, it was purchased by a developer who had started restoration for general warehouse and office space. In early 2018, the Gormans took over and began renovations to complete their dream venue: The BRIX on the Fox.
Thus, a vast venue with endless opportunities emerged. Their flagship space, “The Two-Sixty,” offers 9,000 square feet of rustic elegance and their newest space, “The Industria,” provides a separate 7,000 industrial chic square feet. Between the two wide-open spaces, the venue intentionally left ample room for imaginations to soar. Beyond flexibility in aesthetics and event flow, the venue prides itself in transparent pricing, allowing couples to choose their own vendors and live out the motto: “Your Life. Your Style.”
The venue opened in September 2018 with a huge thanks to the whole family’s input. Having never been in the industry before, people often ask the owners how they got it “so right.” Their response is, “We listened to a lot of people.” Key to this was relying on their children and their friends. After all, they knew best what their generation of engaged couples was looking for.
So when it came to planning their daughter Alyssa’s wedding, all the fundamentals were already in place. For Alyssa, getting married at The BRIX was always her desire; she helped create it, after all! Not many brides get to say that they had a hand in not only making their dream wedding come true, but in creating a venue in which many other dream weddings can occur as well.
About to become wedding guests at their own venue, Rob and Tone got to see their vision and goals in action. Weddings are designed to be wonderful for the newlyweds, but to The BRIX, how the guests enjoy their time is just as important. Just like no couple has the same style, guests are very different too. Some will celebrate by dancing while others will have their best night chatting it up with old, as well as new friends.
One thing is for sure though: all guests want to engage with the couple and be a close part of the celebration. This tenet was kept in mind when executing Alyssa and Shane’s wedding. From darling mini teepees for the children to choreographed dance routines to a live painter documenting the first dance, multiple layers of personalization and entertainment were infused from start to finish. The bride wanted her wedding to be “elegant, yet fun,” and the inviting and joyful atmosphere certainly came to life.
To further ensure that everyone feels close to the couple, The BRIX designed custom farm tables from reclaimed wood. Not only are they easy to decorate and work with many decor styles, they orient all the guests so they can see the couple and vice versa. It’s an entirely different experience for both guests and the couple when they can look into the faces of their friends versus just seeing the backs of their friends. The farm table experience allows guests to interact more naturally, in the same way they would engage in a spirited family table conversation at home. The intimacy created among guests is game changing when compared to traditional wedding seating approaches.
Clearly, the venue was already thoughtfully planned to host a great event. So with the basics of a successful wedding well established, the Gormans had space to incorporate some surprises for their daughter. Alyssa is a professional dancer and has taught dance for years. For a touching and joyful moment, some of Alyssa’s long-time students surprised her with a performance. This spirit of movement kicked off the beginning of a night full of dancing — both professionalgrade and carefree.
As for dancing and music, they are not an afterthought for the venue. The BRIX prides itself on its worldclass sound system. Thanks to this precise audio engineering, the venue is optimized so that the dance floor can be packed and lively while conversations are still able to flow just 20 feet away. While this sound system was not unique to Alyssa’s wedding, having it in place created the perfect atmosphere for dance to be a priority without diminishing the ability for mingling.
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Needless to say, The BRIX was created for the couple and their guests. No element was overlooked and it showed. Both for their daughter’s wedding and every other wedding, Rob and Tone find it the most rewarding when couples leave and say to them, “Our friends had such an amazing night. They can’t get over the fun they had.” It validates all the design decisions that Alyssa — and so many others — contributed into helping create The BRIX.
While Alyssa and Shane’s wedding was undoubtedly a special one, it was treated no differently than any other client. “We followed the same advice we give couples as we help them plan. Follow the process then relax,” says Rob. When you have a family business, all your clients are family, too.
Part of this advice includes The BRIX’s carefully curated network of trusted wedding professionals. While the venue has no restrictions on what wedding vendors can be used, they’ve found that this short list of vetted vendors is extremely helpful. Alyssa and Shane themselves hired vendors from that list to create their wedding. On the wedding night, Rob and Tone say that knowing trusted professionals were serving their family and friends allowed them to celebrate with no concerns.
Overall, The BRIX is undeniably beautiful and enables a great guest experience, but the owners don’t take credit for each night. That credit belongs to the couple. While the owners love what they’ve created at The BRIX, a wedding is not just about the venue itself, but rather how the celebration uniquely reflects the couple. With a groundwork in place for personalization, The BRIX has instilled a new era of custom and oh-so special celebrations. ■
PHOTOGRAPHY Beth Joy Photography
VIDEOGRAPHY Daniel D Video
VENUE The BRIX on the Fox
DÉCOR Rustique Swan
FLORAL JC Eden
DAY OF COORDINATION Day of Divas
HAIR & MAKEUP BLOVD Beauty Bar
BRIDE’S GOWN Calla Blanche from Genevieve’s Bridal Couture
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR Generation Tux
BRIDEMAIDS’ DRESSES Kennedy Blue
CALLIGRAPHY The Blonde Scribe
LIVE PAINTING Phillip A. Ferguson
CATERING TRUE CUISINE
Mary and Sébastien wanted to get married in Chicago ahead of their wedding in France, Sébastien’s home country. They decided they would make sure their city hall wedding felt just as special as their more formal celebration abroad. After all, it was the official start of being husband and wife! They hoped these photos would feel different from the airy photos they anticipate for their second wedding, but still wanted to incorporate a few French elements as a nod to their next steps. Their hopes and my vision came together to serve that purpose perfectly.
Planning their intimate civil ceremony alongside planning a wedding and a move abroad proved to have its challenges. Through it all, Mary and Sébastien kept their spirits up and each other in mind.
In addition to the photographer, only one witness was allowed downstairs in Chicago’s marriage court. Mary’s sister Anna fulfilled the witness role that day.
Mary had put together the perfect bridal look complete with her mother’s wedding earrings. The bouquet and boutonniere were made by her mother as well.
Outside City Hall’s doors, Mary’s brother, parents and the couple’s golden retriever, Archie, patiently waited for the new husband and wife to make their grand exit. Sébastien’s new in-laws had a bottle of Provence rosé in tow for a
toast. Archie was stylishly dressed with a tuxedo collar and a “Dog of Honor” tag, eager to see his parents. Their reunion with Archie was of high importance because the golden pup sent his regrets for the next wedding.
Since they only had a few months left in Chicago, Mary and Sébastien wanted the city to be the backdrop for many of their portraits. These two braved
the classic Chicago cold to make their first memories as husband and wife.
Our next step was the couple’s first dance class where they rehearsed for their summer wedding reception in France. They were naturals dancing to “Baby I’m Yours” by the Arctic Monkeys.
We ended our day together at a French restaurant, Francois Frankie, for
drinks and a place to sit. They had been on their feet all day and the French spot was a great tie-in. Here Mary brought jacket number two out. It was personalized with their civil ceremony date and her new last name on the back.
These two were able to take a quick courthouse ceremony and turn it into a beautiful, memorable day. It was the perfect precursor to their French wedding! ■
WHE THER YOU’RE HOSTING YOUR CELEBRATION IN THE HEART OF DOWNTOWN CHICAGO OR IN THE SUBURBS, IT’S ALWAYS FUN TO GIVE A TASTE OF CHICAGO TO YOUR GUESTS. TRY TO INCORPORATE SOME OF THESE ELEMENTS TO MAKE YOUR DAY A WINDY CITY EXPERIENCE.
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Chicago loves baseball. Whether you’re rooting for the Cubs or the White Sox, a concession stand themed snack bar at your reception is a great nod to the city’s favorite pastime.
SNACK OPTIONS: Garrett Popcorn, Portillo’s hot dogs, Cotton Candy Cart from Von Poof Cotton Candy, Cracker Jack
The Chicago skyline is undeniably picturesque. To really embrace the city, include some portraits with the skyline as the backdrop. There are so many spots along the water or on a rooftop that capture this view well.
MID-CENTURY MOTIFS
Art Deco, mid-century modern and the legacy of Frank Lloyd Wright are ingrained in the DNA of Chicago. Select a mid-century modern venue or go subtle with stained glass and rich wood details.
MID-CENTURY VIBES VENUES: Emil Bach House, Lang House, Untitled Supper Club, The Graceful Ordinary, Salvage One, Firehouse Chicago, Row 24, Bridgeport Art Center, The Robey, The Thompson Hotel
MAP STATIONERY
Let guests get their bearings before they even arrive. Including personalized city maps in your invitation suite is a useful and sentimental touch. Go simple with highlights of major landmarks or create something custom and map out all the places special to you and your partner.
Quintessentially Chicago, jazz music will make the perfect background for your celebrations. Who doesn’t like grooving to some Prohibition age bluesy saxophone and stand-up bass?
JAZZ ENTERTAINERS: Bluewater Kings Band, The Party Faithful (BeatMix), Trio One, Jim Sellers Trio, The Chicago Jazz Quartet
Yes limos and party buses are fun, but a trolley lends itself some old town charm! Transport your wedding party with this darling alternative.
TROLLEYS FOR RENT: Second City Trolley, Absolute Dream Limousines, Chicago Trolley, Premier Trolley and Limo
DINING ROOM with gorgeous antique chandeliers and Ti any Lamps.
PATIO under the beautiful pergola.
ROOFTOP DECK overlooking lush grapevines.
There are a few dishes that are synonymous with Chicago cuisine. From hot dogs to deep dish pizza to Garrett’s popcorn, serving up Chicago food staples adds a delicious nod to the city.
As the comedy capital of the country and home to the iconic Second City comedy club, add some humor into your celebrations. Not a fan of dancing? Rather than a live band, entertain your guests at the reception with a stand-up routine or a light-hearted roast.
Chicago is known for housing some of the most iconic art pieces in the world. Take inspiration from the pieces at The Art Institute of Chicago or the Museum of Contemporary Art and adapt your color palette or thematic elements from your favorite pieces. ■
There’s an undeniable allure to a destination wedding. It’s easy to understand why. Nothing says romance quite like getting hitched on a beach while palm fronds flutter overhead and your worries are thousands of miles away.
Hosting a destination wedding can be a memorable event your guests won’t soon forget, however, there can be challenges that you should account for during your planning. How will you get there? What hotel should you stay at? What should you budget for? How do you pack?
Not to derail your dreams, there are plenty of positives if you’re currently weighing the pros and cons of having a destination wedding! One benefit is that you can treat your guests to a whole new seasonal and visual experience beyond where you live currently, especially if it’s winter where you live and you’re imagining getting married somewhere warm. Living in the Chicagoland area, it’s also an opportunity to get out of the city and opt for an entirely different type of setting, like a gorgeous mountain wedding or a beachside
escape. If you live in a rural area, you can hold your destination wedding in a major metropolitan area so you and your guests can experience the lights and action. It’s always wonderful if you give your guests a change of scenery through your wedding, so they feel they are getting away also!
Perhaps, when you picture your destination wedding, it’s nestled in the Italian countryside or in the sea breeze of the Grecian waterfront. In this case, you’ll need to think through some considerations for an international event.
First of all, there are seasonal hazards to ponder. For your desired destination, is this the rainy season or peak tourist season?
Then there are those extra precautions you’ll need to take for traveling. Your location may require additional vaccines or special paperwork for guests to attend. You will want to review the COVID-19 vaccination or testing requirements carefully (and monitor them in case of changes).
Last thing to consider for an international destination are the legal requirements. You’ll need to learn about the local marriage requirements. Can you legally get married here? Or will you have to get married at home and just celebrate your ceremony with your guests?
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If you decide to change your last name, debut your new monogram on some fresh luggage.
2. “Just Married” Eye Mask, Hill House Home
You’ve likely had a long wedding week and planning process. Time to make sure you get plenty of rest and relaxation!
3. Old Lomo Camera, Paper Shoot Camera
If you want to capture memories, but not be tied to your phone screen all trip, try this modern take on the disposal camera. All digital but with no screen, capture photos and review them later.
4. Mr./Mrs. Slipper, Stubbs and Wootton
Celebrate your new title with some stylish slides. Comfortable and chic, you’re all set!
5. Travel Guided Journal, 1Canoe2 Bring a travel journal so both you and your partner can reflect on each day of your new life together. A honeymoon is the perfect time to sit back and journal the new feelings you’re experiencing.
6. Smudge Ink Thank You Card Set, Paper Source While the presents you received are still fresh on your mind, bring along thank you notes and begin expressing gratitude.
7. Everyday SPF Face Moisturizer, Oars and Alps You should be wearing sunscreen daily, but definitely on vacation! You don’t want to spend your honeymoon with a sunburn.
Like any wedding, your guest count will depend on the type of event you want to host and how easy it will be for everyone to meet you there. For a destination wedding, typically, inviting less than 100 guests is a good amount for it to still feel like a party but also be intimate. Traditionally, couples are looking for a more intimate experience when they choose a destination wedding compared to a local event.
In addition to being costly, destination weddings can put an extra dose of pressure on your guests, too. On top of having to do quite a bit of extra traveling to even attend your wedding, your friends and family have to take time off of work and pay for a flight and multiple nights at a hotel. These
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hurdles may prevent your loved ones from being able to show up for your special day, which can be a dealbreaker for some. If several guests won’t be able to join you at this destination wedding, this dream location may be better suited for a magical honeymoon getaway.
For international destinations, savethe-date cards should be sent out at least 12 months before the event. If it’s within the United States, nine to 12 months is sufficient, as a lot of guests might already be traveling no matter if it’s at home or somewhere else nationally located. So you will want
to finalize your guest list as quickly as possible in order to give your guests ample time to plan ahead.
Hotel room blocks are an absolute must when planning a destination wedding. Guests are already coordinating their own travel and other expenses — it’s great to have this decision checked off the list for them. Let them have one or two options that are very near the ceremony and reception (or in some cases, in the same building) — then they don’t have to think too hard about how to find a great hotel in the area. Plus, it’s always fun to have everyone staying at the same place to keep the party going!
If you believe that a destination wedding will be more expensive than a local wedding, think again. The reality is that destination wedding budgets span the gamut. The price of your wedding will truly depend on the time of year, your preferred location and any activities you have planned along the way. An intimate beach wedding at an all-inclusive resort can be very cost effective, both for you as well as for your guests, but an elaborate castle wedding in the hills of Germany could easily double that budget.
When budgeting for a destination wedding, the biggest items to budget for after the venue and catering
(things that are true of any wedding) include airfare, hotel rooms and transportation.
When planning a destination wedding, you should think through one basic question for you and your guests: How will we get there?
Flying is always a quick way to start your wedding weekend. But keep in mind that flight costs, cancellation policies and schedule changes are always something to be aware of. Play it extra safe and give yourself plenty of time to arrive on site in case there is a flight delay.
On the other hand, driving is also
advantageous because you have a bit more control and you can bring along special decor items or signage instead of shipping them ahead or stuffing them into your carry-on. And you won’t have to worry so much about transporting your wedding dress. There’s a comfort that comes with knowing you have a (more) guaranteed arrival time when you drive yourself.
If driving sounds more appealing, there are some lovely driveable locations near Chicago. One locale to consider for your destination wedding is nearby Lake Geneva, Wisconsin. It’ll still feel like a world away from Chicago, but it’s less than a two-hour drive, something that undoubtedly
your guests will appreciate. Other top choices are Saugatuck, Michigan; Michigan City, Indiana; Eau Claire, Wisconsin; and Munising, Michigan (Pictured Rocks National Lakeshore).
Welcome bags or baskets are always a nice way to welcome your guests to the area and give them ideas for fun things to do locally. You can make recommendations for restaurants, activities and other interesting sights to see, and share a few little treats to say, “Thank you for making the trip.” Make sure to include local area visitor guides or maps, and a schedule of your wedding events.
At Dreamscape Travel Group, our destination travel specialist assist in planning, and coordinating all types of vacation packages — your way. We cater to your unique travel spirit and offer full service travel and wedding planning whether you travel with a group or independently. Your assigned travel advisor and our preferred Tuscany partners will help remove headaches of travel obstacles, and assist YOU in navigating the unknown, creating an experience that you and your guests will remember for a lifetime.
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Keep in mind that for a destination wedding, you may want to hold a couple of bonus events for your guests who may have traveled far. For instance, you could have a welcome dinner. Or at a minimum, you could host a cocktail hour. It’s an opportunity to say, “Welcome, and thank you for being here” and chat before the busyness sets in. Especially with destination weddings, you’ll want to get some personal time with each guest — they’ve sacrificed a lot to be there! Not to worry, the traditional rehearsal dinner can still be planned as just a special moment for your closest family, friends and wedding party members.
For the big day, you’ll need to think about how to transport the two of you, your wedding party and your guests from point A to point B.
Frequently, destination weddings are held at all-inclusive locations, which don’t require off-site travel between event locations. But if they aren’t at an all-inclusive location, arranging transportation options for your wedding party and guests is always an excellent idea. Just like the hotel options, guests are already putting together an extensive travel plan. Removing another item off their research list is extremely helpful. It’s also less likely that they will get lost or go to the wrong site, or, worst case scenario, be late to your ceremony or reception.
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An extra benefit to planning a domestic destination wedding is extending your stay past the wedding. Lots of couples stay in the immediate area for their honeymoon, or jet set off to a new location nearby and leave their friends and family to enjoy the local area. It’s up to you whether you want to share your first days as a married couple or have some time for just the two of you. Whatever you decide, remember that your wedding is about the celebration of your love, not where your gatechecked luggage ended up. ■
Your reception site is often one of the first decisions you’ll make as you begin to plan your wedding, driving your aesthetic as well as many other elements of the day. There are so many options and the sheer number of choices can be overwhelming. From ballrooms and mansions to lofts and gardens, these venues and more can be found on the following pages. Keep this resource handy during your planning to help navigate this important decision, ensuring a picture-perfect venue fit for your big day.
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 450
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Industrial / Loft
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Valet Available
4242 N. CENTRAL AVE., CHICAGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — From intimate to extravagant, from the traditional to the unexpected, we here at Biagio are dedicated to helping you create your own, one of a kind experience. Our team of dedicated wedding professionals can customize everything from concept to clean up, so that your focus is on your celebration.
Biagio’s multiple and unique ballrooms provide the perfect setting for a variety of events and ensure that you will find the space that is perfectly suited to your needs. Guests can sip a drink in our unique cocktail lounge and then move to a plentiful dinner in our grand ballroom.
Your Biagio event coordinator can also be your own personal wedding consultant, who will make your event flawless and effortless for you and your partner. Whether you desire opulence or chic simplicity, Biagio will work with you every step of the way.
SPECIAL FEATURES — City venue with restaurant attached for late night continuation of your event. We offer a variety of cuisines, centerpieces and colored linen napkins if desired.
CONTACT — SALES MANAGER | 773.736.9009 | INFO@BIAGIOEVENTS.COM
BIAGIOEVENTS.COM
339 N. BELL AVE., CHICAGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Boasting a combined available 15,000 square feet across the building’s ceremony and reception area and adjacent mezzanines and dressing lounges, Fairlie provides tables and seating for up to 250 guests with an additional 10 cocktail tables available for use. Its interior space juxtaposes warm, exposed-brick walls, raw steel, and marbled concrete accents, creating a modern, yet timeless atmosphere.
Skylight atrium windows allow natural light to blend with industrial-style lighting fixtures within the main hall and flowing voile drapes incorporate a soft elegance. A custom-designed steel and grid staircase grants guests access to the second-floor loft and lounge space.
SPECIAL FEATURES — 35' ceilings, custom floor to ceiling draping, 12' drive-in access and dramatic staircase.
CONTACT — ALEXIS LEVERENZ | 312.622.1152 | ALEXIS@FAIRLIECHICAGO.COM FAIRLIECHICAGO.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE: Industrial / Loft, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
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# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 850
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Hotel / Resort
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Valet Available
200 N. COLUMBUS DR., CHICAGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Fairmont Chicago, Millennium Park offers sophisticated, modern luxury in the heart of downtown Chicago. Overlooking Lake Michigan, Grant and Millennium Parks, and the legendary skyline, the Fairmont Chicago is the perfect backdrop for a fabulous urban event.
Let this dynamic setting inspire every moment of your wedding celebration. The Fairmont Weddings & Catering Teams take the stress out of your big event. From engagement parties and showers to the ceremony, reception and even your honeymoon, our wedding specialists can handle all the details for you.
As a full-service hotel, we can provide many amenities to you and your guests, from spa services to custom welcome packages, just ask and we’ll deliver. Contact our wedding team to get started.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Exquisite luxury hotel in the heart of downtown Chicago.
CONTACT — JULIA VINSON | 312.565.6671 | RFP-CHI@FAIRMONT.COM
FAIRMONTCHICAGO.COM/MEET/WEDDINGS
3020 W. CARROLL AVE., CHICAGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Lofty. Posh. Perfect. Wildman BT is a special place for weddings. Unassuming on the outside, magnificent on the inside, your guests will be transfixed in the moments of your big day. The natural light streaming from double clerestory windows, warmth of the century old exposed brick, and luxury in the details designed in the space provide an incredible surrounding for the day you both say, I do. Our historic double-bow truss building offers the ample, flexible space needed for the largest of ceremonies and receptions with an intimate energy just as perfect for smaller events. Luxury draping, stylish lounge settings, a light-filled private dressing studio, vintage bar and many other special touches round out the impeccable style of Wildman BT.
As a woman and minority owned venue, inclusion is our mission. We welcome all people, we welcome all love. We welcome you and yours to Wildman BT.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Double clerestory skylights, glamorous modern lighting, unobstructed layout, unique luxury restrooms, 23' media wall with integrated projection/AV.
CONTACT — MICHELLE O’SULLIVAN | 312.248.2828 | INFO@WILDMANBT.COM
WILDMANBT.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Industrial / Loft, Historic Location, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
808 S. ROUTE 59, NAPERVILLE, IL 60540
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Matrix Club is a premier new wedding, banquet, convention, and performance venue opening summer 2022. Our talented and versatile events team will create exquisite engagement and wedding ceremonies for diverse cultures. Our award-winning chefs will create world class culinary delicacies from around the world in our stateof-the-art kitchens.
We believe your wedding should transcend your expectations. We will deliver an immersive experience which will be unique and one that will linger with you and your guests for years to come. Details matter, and we will take care of every single one for you.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Water fountain/reflection pool in foyer for creative photo ops, private bridal suites with full baths, state of the art in-house A/V.
CONTACT — CHERRYL MARCEY | 630.581.7200 | INFO@MATRIXVENUE.COM MATRIXVENUE.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 10
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 1,200
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Art Gallery / Museum, Ballroom, Banquet Hall, Restaurant, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
# OF EVENT SPACES: 6
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor
Event Space, Garden, Historic
Location, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
1500 W. KENNEDY RD., LAKE FOREST, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Armour House Mansion & Gardens provides a uniquely beautiful setting for your special event offering the best indoor and outdoor spaces, all within a magnificent historical setting.
SPECIAL FEATURES — The picturesque gardens and fountain provide a stunning backdrop for a ceremony and reception but inside, the ornate Grand Staircase is breathtaking. Chiavari chairs available at a reduced rate.
CONTACT — CHRISTINE GAITHER | 847.615.3219 | CGAITHER@LFANET.ORG
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9111 ASHLEY RD., YORKVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Ashley Farm offers couples the unique opportunity to host their reception in their newly restored white barn, nestled on the Ashley Homestead that dates back to 1845. It features a dramatic open-beam ceiling with elegant chandeliers, accented in rustic decor and providing a romantic atmosphere. The original farmhouse with its wrap-around porch, outdoor courtyards, and farm vignettes offers impressive photo opportunities. Couples can also have beautiful moments around the outside pine grove and rustic hay barn, perfect for both a ceremony site and bridal party portraits. With a choice of four site options, couples can host up to 225 of their closest friends and family.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Indoor and outdoor ceremony options, heated and air conditioned barn, private groom’s barn and bride’s farmhouse for getting ready.
CONTACT — ASHLEY JOHNSON | 630.882.8988 | ASHLEY@WHITETAILRIDGEGC.COM
ASHLEYFARMWEDDINGS.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 250
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Barn / Farm, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 500
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space
Ballroom, Banquet Hall
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering, Preferred Caterers, All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
1050 NORTHWEST HWY., FOX RIVER GROVE, IL ABOUT THE VENUE — At Avanté Banquets, we strive to make every wedding elegant, easy, affordable, and fun. With great care and attention to detail, we have created a space that welcomes all, with its classic glamour and modern touches that inspire those “wow” moments that will forever belong to our clients and their guests.
Choose from our all-inclusive wedding package, or allow our experienced event coordinators the opportunity to create a customized wedding package just for you. Avanté offers indoor and outdoor event spaces, a private bridal suite, premium liquor, and features a menu crafted by professional chefs from our sister restaurant, Chicago Prime Steakhouse.
Avanté is proud to be a premier wedding venue in Fox River Grove and the Greater Chicagoland area. With the personal touches our team puts into your entire planning process, your perfect event awaits you.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Beautiful grounds, new facility, marble dance floor, 40' ceilings, grand entrance with elegant chandelier, two grand staircases.
CONTACT — KATHY MOURAFETIS | 847.287.1006 | OFFICE@AVANTEBANQUETS.COM AVANTEBANQUETS.COM
100 S. BARNES RD., AURORA, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Blackberry Farm wedding team is excited to create an experience which delivers a lifetime of memories for you and your guests. Our one-of-a-kind setting features country elegance and personalized service that caters to your needs – all at a value that can’t be matched. Planning the big day is a piece of cake. We’ll remove any stress, answer all your questions, and anticipate and communicate every detail in advance of your event. Our space is flexible and beautifully appointed, featuring rustic touches and country charm amidst Blackberry Farm’s historic backdrop. With a convenient location and ample parking, The Barn at Blackberry Farm is the perfect showcase for your big day. As you browse information regarding your wedding, please note that ALL packages include tables and chairs at no extra cost. We hope to extend every hospitality to you along your decision-making process and are here to answer any questions or schedule a tour at your request.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Picturesque locations throughout Blackberry Farm, outdoor ceremony options, whiskey barrel cocktail tables, rustic bar, outdoor patio and lawn space.
CONTACT — EVENTS SPECIALIST | 630.892.1550 | BLACKBERRYRESERVATIONS@FVPD.NET
BLACKBERRYFARM.INFO/WEDDINGS-AT-THE-FARM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 220
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event
Space, Barn / Farm
CATERING CHOICES: All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
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# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 1,000
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event
Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
1170 W. DEVON AVE., ELK GROVE VILLAGE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Step into Belvedere Events & Banquets and be welcomed by the subtle elegance of all we have to offer. Soft tones of white, silver and ivory, each room is turn-key with elegant mosaic tiles, chandeliers and lighting that can be customized for your desired ambiance. Each room stands alone or can be configured for additional possibilities for seated, cocktail or lounge receptions. Our full kitchen provides a variety of cuisines. We also offer centerpieces and a quaint, outdoor courtyard for cocktail hour, sweets display or just mingling outside near a fireplace for a warm, cozy feel.
From your first contact with Belvedere, our dedicated wedding professionals will be by your side during the planning process and on-site for your special day. We are here to assist you with all of your needs including your engagement party, bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, after party and post wedding brunch. Belvedere is centrally located in the Greater O’Hare area of Chicago and conveniently attached to a hotel for your overnight accommodations.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Bridal suites with iron staircases leading into the event spaces, fireplace, outdoor patio with seating, grand windows, lobby fountain.
CONTACT — SALES MANAGER | 847.534.0600 | INFO@BELVEDEREBANQUETS.COM
BELVEDEREBANQUETS.COM
350 BOULDER DR., LAKE IN THE HILLS, IL 60156
ABOUT THE VENUE — Located in stunning Lake in the Hills, we pride ourselves on being the premier event space in the Northwest Suburbs of Chicago. Our ballroom accommodates up to 300 guests and no matter the size we host only one wedding at a time. Our event team wants to give their exclusive attention to you on your special day. With our bridal ready room you are welcome to spend your wedding day relaxing at the club as we finalize all the elements for you. Our on-site wedding specialists will meet with your vendors and ensure all the details are in place and on schedule. The club’s picturesque elegance, both indoors and out combine to create an exquisite and timeless experience. Our clubhouse is decorated with rustic stone that is surrounded by greenery and water features to give you endless photo opportunities. We feature all-inclusive wedding packages to cover all the items necessary to ensure an elegant, customized wedding of your dreams.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Rustic stone, water features with bridge, one wedding per night, bridal ready room, outdoor ceremony, private outdoor veranda, day-of coordination.
CONTACT — SARA GILMORE | 847.854.3000 | SGILMORE@HERITAGEGOLFGROUP.COM
BOULDERRIDGE.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Country Club / Golf Course
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
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# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 320
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Industrial / Loft, Historic Location
CATERING CHOICES: All Caterers Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, Chairs and Photo Booth
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
260 S. WASHINGTON ST., CARPENTERSVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Choose from two wide open spaces that can handle everyone and everything — including your imagination. Restored from the 1890s, The BRIX provides you the sought after transparent approach of choice. Ceremony included. 12 hours for you and your vendors. Open vendor list. Premium bar, open all night, about $12 per person! Tired of all the extra fees? Transparent pricing on our website.
Your Life. Your Style.™ Two separate venues: The Two-Sixty, rustic elegance for up to 300+ or The Industria, industrial chic for up to 200. Both with the windows, the brick, the Fox River, 15+ foot ceilings, and the freedom you love. And plenty more details to discover, including a photo booth, custom sound system, dance lighting, reclaimed wood tables, wedding suite, free parking, and much more. Yes, all included for one price. Stop on by and you will discover why The BRIX has become Chicago’s favorite local “destination” wedding venue.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Historic venue with choice of industrial or rustic vibe on the Fox River. Open vendor list. Rental includes ceremony, tables, chairs and photobooth.
CONTACT — ROB AND TONE GORMAN | 847.844.8010 | INFO@BRIXONFOX.COM
BRIXONFOX.COM
20922 N. RAND RD., KILDEER, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Nestled in a private setting where gentle swans rest quietly in the pond — just beside our magnificent gazebo — our renowned banquet facility is elegantly designed to host grand weddings, anniversaries, conferences and other special events for up to 800 guests.
Concorde Banquets is the perfect place for any wedding or event destination. We offer the most luxurious and extravagant reception options in the area. Our location has been a top choice for events and banquets in Kildeer and the surrounding Chicagoland for over 30 years. Our selection of rooms and wide range of menu options make Concorde one of the most versatile choices for events and banquets in Illinois. Our services allow you to truly customize your experience and create lasting memories.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Lush gardens with a beautiful gazebo and pergola, accompanied by a picturesque swan-filled pond.
CONTACT — JOHN KALYVIARIS | 847.438.0025 | SALES@CONCORDEBANQUETS.COM
CONCORDEBANQUETS.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 800
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 5
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Historic Location, Restaurant, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Nearby / Parking Garage
477 S. 3RD ST., GENEVA, IL 60134
ABOUT THE VENUE — Copper Fox, a newly renovated event space on historic downtown Geneva’s 3rd Street, is ideal for your big day. Copper Fox offers two unique ballrooms, indoor and outdoor ceremony spaces to accommodate your wedding party and guests as well as a craft kitchen and bar. Our experienced event staff will coordinate with you to create a custom wedding reception from the decor to the menu. We can easily accommodate allergies and restrictions. In addition, we can create a wine and cocktail list to suit the tastes of all your guests including custom ‘His & Hers’ cocktails. We offer ample parking, and we are close to Geneva’s train station for easy Metra access.
If you’re planning a small gathering of 10 people or a much larger reception with 200 guests, Copper Fox offers all the amenities you’ll need.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Newly remodeled ballrooms, bridal suite on-site, outdoor and indoor ceremony space, crystal chandeliers, multiple ballrooms, private entrances.
CONTACT — NIKKI M. RODGERS | 331.248.0422 | NIKKIR@FOXFIREGENEVA.COM
COPPER-FOX.COM
360 CREEKSIDE DR., PALATINE, IL 60074
ABOUT THE VENUE — At Cotillion Banquets, declare your love with a spirited celebration. We take great pride in each and every event we host and are confident your guests will leave here talking about our impeccable food cooked by our own chefs and optimal service that is unrivaled in the banquet industry. Our rooms are designed to accommodate wedding receptions, ceremonies, showers and other special events for up to 700 people. We offer you all the advantages of a family-owned and operated business for over 30 years. Experience the attention to detail at Cotillion Banquets. It would be our honor to host your special event.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Grand staircases, crystal chandeliers, porcelain dance floor and ornate outdoor gazebo.
CONTACT — TOM SIZOPOULOS | 847.934.5500 | COTILLIONBANQUETS@SBCGLOBAL.NET
COTILLIONBANQUETS.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 700
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Banquet Hall
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 7
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 1,800
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Hotel / Resort, Historic Location, Restaurant
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site
Catering, All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
100 DRURY LN., OAKBROOK TERRACE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Celebrate under the chandeliers at Drury Lane! Featuring Swarovski crystal chandeliers in every room, your Drury Lane wedding will be an unforgettable experience for you and your guests alike. Whether you are planning an intimate family celebration or a grand-scale reception, our dedicated Event Specialists are here to make your wedding dreams come true with uncompromising service and a stress-free wedding day.
Every wedding package includes a delectable five-course dinner, four hours of open bar, a champagne toast, and more. Stunning ceremony spaces are available at Drury Lane, and we can meet all of your pre- and post-wedding needs such as hosting your shower, rehearsal dinner and day-after brunch.
Located next door to the Hilton Suites and Garden Inn, you will enjoy a complimentary wedding night suite, and your guests will appreciate the convenience of being steps away from their hotel. We are also pleased to offer complimentary Sunday Brunch for two on your first anniversary.
CONTACT — EVENT SPECIALIST | 630.530.0202 | EVENTS@DRURYLANE.COM
DRURYLANE.COM
1 ILLINOIS ST., UNIT 160, ST. CHARLES, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Nestled in historic downtown St. Charles, Eden Weddings & Events overlooks the scenic Fox River and offers a warm and inviting atmosphere to celebrate your big day. Treat your guests to an evening of creative and modern cuisine paired with craft cocktails from the full bar. With on-site options for both the ceremony and reception, your party will be hassle-free and one-of-a-kind. During the warmer seasons, open the sides of the enclosed patio to fully enjoy the beauty of the river. We also offer in-house event support to help with any of your planning needs. From start to finish, your day will be a beautiful masterpiece when selecting Eden Weddings & Events.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Climate controlled indoor patio with open air siding (weather permitting), full bar, modern creative cuisine, bridal suite, live music capable.
CONTACT — OMAR ALMUSFI & KRISTINA JONES | 630.945.3332 | INFO@EDENSTC.NET
EDENSTC.NET/BANQUETS-WEDDINGS
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 170
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Industrial / Loft, Restaurant, Unique / Alternative, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Nearby / Parking Garage
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
16235 LA GRANGE RD., ORLAND PARK, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — COMPLETELY REMODELED IN 2021
Start the journey you have dreamed about with Elements by The Odyssey! Our experienced Event Specialists, Banquet Staff and Culinary Department are here to guide you through the planning process to make it as simple and stress-free as possible. Accommodating up to 400 guests, Elements offers a dinner package, including ballroom rental for 5½ hours, a 4-course gourmet meal with 4 hours of a premium open bar, champagne for the Bridal Party, unlimited wine throughout dinner, a complimentary tasting for 2, centerpieces and much more. Whether you desire an intimate setting , prefer a lavish look, or an outdoor setting, our Event Specialists have the ability to turn your vision into reality.
With the unbeatable convenience of the adjoining Homewood Suites by Hilton, couples along with their guests can experience the finest in cuisine and service, with the peace of mind that overnight accommodations are attached to the venue.
SPECIAL FEATURES — The refined ambiance and splendor of Elements by The Odyssey is evident from the moment you walk through our doors.
CONTACT — EVENT SPECIALIST | 708.981.3608 | SALES@ELEMENTSBYTHEODYSSEY.COM
ELEMENTSBYTHEODYSSEY.COM
200 E. LAKE ST., ADDISON, IL 60101
ABOUT THE VENUE — Where beautiful beginnings start … and are never forgotten.
Your wedding day will be one of the most special days of your life. Share this joyous occasion with all of your guests at our beautiful and stunning venue at The Empress. With ample parking and a newly remodeled modern facility, you can leave a lasting and memorable impression on all your family, friends and guests. We also offer a variety of customized packages to meet your personal needs.
From planning to execution, our team provides comprehensive, hands-on event services to make your special day as stress-free as possible so you can relax, celebrate and enjoy the festivities with your loved ones. See more photos on Instagram @empressbanquets.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Beautiful glam feel including rhinestone-encrusted door handles and stunning chandeliers. Enjoy our lavishly appointed bridal suites.
CONTACT — GUS KARANTONIS | 630.279.5900 | EMPRESSBANQUETS@ICLOUD.COM
THEEMPRESSBANQUETS.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 500
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Banquet Hall
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
2300 MANNHEIM RD., DES PLAINES, IL ABOUT THE VENUE — Looking for something unique? At Fountain Blue, you will enjoy our elegant rooms, award-winning cuisine and first-rate service.
We pride ourselves in preparing a banquet experience that makes your event truly special.
We strive to help you host a successful event and create memories that will last a lifetime. Our newly renovated rooms are sure to impress your guests.
Whether it’s a wedding, luncheon or corporate gathering, our experienced staff will assist you in planning every detail of your event of 50 to 400 guests.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Our gorgeous private garden full of lush foliage and brightly colored flowers, ivory-colored gazebo and beautiful fountain offer plenty of photo opportunities.
CONTACT — CONNIE MANIOS | 847.298.3636 | INFO@FOUNTAINBLUE.COM
FOUNTAINBLUE.COM
3 E. MAIN ST., ST. CHARLES, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Graceful Ordinary is a full-service riverfront restaurant that also has the ability to service large semi-private and smaller private events. Our menu features American Contemporary cuisine that is centered around our 12-foot wood-fired hearth. With a stunning open concept kitchen and Executive Chef Chris Curren’s menu of rusticrefined cuisine, an amazing craft cocktail program, collection of bourbons, beautiful wine display cabinet with American wines and breathtaking views of downtown St. Charles and the Fox River, there is something for everyone!
SPECIAL FEATURES — We have up to 1,000 sq. ft. of outdoor terrace space that overlooks the beautiful Fox River!
CONTACT — MEGAN CURREN | 331.235.5803 | MEGAN@THEGRACEFULORDINARY.COM
THEGRACEFULORDINARY.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 70
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event
Space, Restaurant, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Nearby / Parking Garage
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Historic Location
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, Chiavari Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
50 E. JEFFERSON ST., JOLIET, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Grand Ballroom at Joliet Union Station occupies one of Joliet’s most historic buildings. What was once the bustling hub for travelers waiting to catch their trains, is now a beautiful and unique setting for your wedding day. It is a versatile space with both indoor and outdoor locations.
Guests are able to enter the space via a grand, marble staircase leading to the second floor ballroom. The arching ceiling and stunning chandeliers provide a glamorous setting for any reception. Couples can choose to host their cocktail hour amidst the old fashioned ticket windows, outside on the old train platform or on the front balcony overlooking the plaza.
The Grand Ballroom’s team of experienced staff will help you bring any vision to life and can customize menu selections, suggest decor items and refer exceptional vendors who reflect your styles and tastes. The unique menu has been designed in a way that allows you to create your own package and provides flexibility with each course.
SPECIAL FEATURES — One ballroom, ceremony space, chiavari chairs and bridal suite included.
CONTACT — TAYLOR PRIEBOY | 815.254.7003 | EVENTS@MISTWOODGC.COM
JOLIETUNIONSTATION.COM
100 SYMPHONY WAY, ELGIN, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — With seating for up to 300 guests, the Heritage Ballroom is the perfect venue for your dream wedding. Indoor/outdoor ceremony sites are available. We can design your perfect event to fit your budget.
With a full bar and kitchen facilities, multimedia capabilities, dance floor and a complete sound system, we offer many cost-effective services that will make your whole wedding day come together.
For pricing information visit The Centre of Elgin’s website, or call our banquet offices at 847-531-7047.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Panoramic window views looking out onto beautiful Walton Island create the right ambiance for your day.
CONTACT — ANNA MORETTI | 847.531.7047 | BANQUETS@CITYOFELGIN.ORG CITYOFELGIN.ORG/BALLROOM
TWAPHOTOGRAPHIC ARTISTS
# OF EVENT SPACES: 8
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES: All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 600
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Industrial / Loft, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
168 E. HIGHLAND AVE., ELGIN, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Highland Loft Event Venue is a unique, versatile venue that can be divided or used as one large space and can accommodate intimate parties of 50 or up to 500 guests comfortably. The Highland Loft is the perfect setting for your event: whether it is sophisticated or trendy, intimate or elaborate, your guests are sure to never forget your special day.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Second and third floor converted lofts, original exposed brick walls and windows throughout, spacious bridal suite, grooms room, hair & makeup room.
CONTACT — MARILYN MENSCHING | 847.254.0621 | INFO@THEHIGHLANDLOFTEVENTS.COM
THEHIGHLANDLOFT.COM
100 W. MAIN ST., ST. CHARLES, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Searching for a unique venue with beautiful reception and outdoor ceremony spaces? Recite your wedding vows on our Waterfront Patio or near our blooming Rose Garden with the scenic Fox River as your backdrop. Our Waterfront Room is sure to dazzle guests with its elegance and stunning view of the river. Dance the night away among the multicolored lights of the historic, two-tiered Rainbow Room as a newly married couple.
The expertise of our exceptional staff will ensure that every detail, from setting to décor, is executed perfectly for your special day. We ensure that the sumptuous cuisine, polished service and historic splendor of Hotel Baker will create lasting memories to be remembered for years to come.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Wedding venue and historic landmark featuring grand ballrooms and an outdoor garden and patio.
CONTACT — 630.584.2100 | EVENTS@HOTELBAKER.COM
HOTELBAKER.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Historic Location, Hotel / Resort, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Nearby / Parking Garage
# OF EVENT SPACES: 5
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event
Space, Ballroom, Hotel / Resort, Restaurant, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering, Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
2815 JORIE BLVD., OAK BROOK, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Vows with a View. Celebrate the next chapter of your love story at Hyatt Lodge Oak Brook. The hotel is a hidden gem nestled on 88 acres of stunning natural scenery just outside the city and around the corner from the heart of Oak Brook. Our serene setting is the perfect backdrop for weddings set in any season. The panoramic floor to ceiling windows in Grand Oaks Pavilion showcase our natural surroundings, blending with the venue’s prairie style architecture.
Whether you’re looking for a sophisticated ballroom soirée or an open-air lakeside ceremony, our countless combinations of space and scenery can accommodate events for guests ranging from 30 to 300.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Waterfront ceremony space, panoramic ballroom surrounded by foliage, lakeside patio perfect for your cocktail hour or rehearsal dinner.
CONTACT — HYATT LODGE SALES DEPARTMENT | 630.581.6620 | MICHELLE.MARVIN@HYATT.COM
HYATTLODGE.COM
20 S. EASTERN AVE., JOLIET, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Jacob Henry Mansion Estate contributes to the beauty of your wedding day by offering a unique setting for both your wedding ceremony and reception. The Jacob Henry Mansion, the flagship of our Estate, is known for its Gilded Age architecture, decadent hand carved woodwork, and lavish period decoration. A winding path leads from the Mansion, through the Gardens, to the Ballroom and Old Central Church. Built in 1895 of locally excavated limestone, The Old Central Church’s splendor includes three stunning stained glass windows, and its original 2,000-pipe organ. From an era of wealth, opulence and romance are three historic landmarks — a Mansion, Ballroom and a Church — combined to make your wedding celebration an unforgettable experience!
SPECIAL FEATURES — On-site ceremony in the Church or Gardens; our full service, on-site planners offer personalized attention to help make your wedding dreams come true!
CONTACT — SARAH ORR | 815.722.1420 | SARAH@JACOBHENRYMANSION.COM
JACOBHENRYMANSION.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 275
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event
Space, Historic Location, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 225
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Banquet Hall, Barn / Farm, Country Club / Golf Course, Outdoor, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
24000 N. OLD MCHENRY RD., KILDEER, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Couples can invite up to 220 guests to join them on their big day at Kemper Lakes Golf Club. An outdoor ceremony takes place under the romantic sweeping branches of a willow tree, with a lake and lush fairways as the backdrop. Wedding photos across the property showcase the couple’s beauty. Inside the ballroom, a high wooden ceiling with skylights shines down on the guests, while surrounding floor-to-ceiling windows make the space feel open and full of light. The tall wood ceilings are complemented by beautiful grand sparkling chandeliers. Kemper Lakes is now offering an additional space to be used for pre-functions and cocktail hours. It includes a large main bar, fireplace, soft seating and high boys.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Pristine championship golf course as backdrop, beautiful indoor/ outdoor cocktail hour locations, surrounded by annual and perennial gardens.
CONTACT — JESSICA A. TRZOP | 847.726.5544 | JTRZOP@KEMPERLAKESGOLFCLUB.COM
KEMPERLAKESGOLF.COM
TWA PHOTOGRAPHIC ARTISTS
1N333 PLEASANT HILL RD., WINFIELD, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Our ambience, amenities, and newly renovated tented pavilion make Klein Creek Golf Club and Banquets the answer to all your needs. Whether it is an intimate ceremony or a lavish reception, we provide individual attention to each and every event. Our experienced and professional event coordinators work diligently to respond to every detail in order to provide you with an unforgettable experience. We provide custom menu options tailored specifically to your event and personal taste!
SPECIAL FEATURES — Unforgettable wedding photos on the golf course, multiple location sites for ceremonies, Lakeside Pier 19 available for outdoor cocktail hour.
CONTACT — THERESA DAHLY | 630.632.1196 | THERESA@KLEINCREEK.COM
KLEINCREEK.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Banquet Hall, Country Club / Golf Course, Restaurant
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Valet Available
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 225
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Barn / Farm, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
1N318 WATSON RD., MAPLE PARK, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The orchard estate is nestled on 230 serene acres just 50 miles west of Chicago. Your guests can relax on the long front porch taking in the picturesque view of the orchard in spring bloom, enjoy lawn games or a train ride on a summer evening and taste the flavors of our delicious farmstead cuisine in the majestic Orchard Barn. Amazing photo opportunities will help to create the lasting memories you’re dreaming of.
One of our most unique offerings is the invitation to visit the orchard each year after your wedding to relive where your story together began. We are open to the public each fall for our annual apple harvest celebration.
The Orchard Barn is a full service venue with all the amenities needed to provide a unique, elegant, all-inclusive and comfortable guest experience.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Exclusive use of orchard. Unique silo bar, climate-controlled venue, complimentary ceremony coordinator, lawn games, farmview railway, cider doughnuts.
CONTACT — WEDDING SPECIALIST | 815.827.5200 | EVENTDIRECTOR@KUIPERSFAMILYFARM.COM
KUIPERSWEDDINGVENUE.COM
1700 W. RENWICK RD., ROMEOVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Mistwood Golf Club is located in Romeoville, and overlooks the rolling greens and water features of a world-class golf course. There are beautiful decorative details throughout the grounds, including, but not limited to, seasonal gardens, gazebos, charming stone bridges and a bell tower. Mistwood offers a ballroom that can seat up to 220 guests with dance floor, and comes complete with chandeliers, chiavari chairs, fireplace and private terraces that overlook our gorgeous course. Our Courtyard is the perfect place to have your ceremony and is completed with paver stones and a beautiful garden. Mistwood Golf Club provides old-world charm with all the modern conveniences and amenities for you and your guests. Our team is honored to share your day and is committed to providing you with the most memorable experience!
SPECIAL FEATURES — One ballroom, two private terraces, ceremony space overlooking course, chiavari chairs, dance floor, bridal suite and picturesque backdrop for photos.
CONTACT — TAYLOR PRIEBOY | 815.254.3333 | EVENTS@MISTWOODGC.COM
MISTWOODGC.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 220
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Country Club / Golf Course
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 180
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Historic Location, Industrial / Loft
CATERING CHOICES:
Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, Chiavari Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site (Street) Parking, Valet Available, Nearby / Parking Garage
122 N. MAIN ST., WHEATON, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Our goal is to inspire our community with personalized planning so that every individual’s vision becomes a reality.
• We have a minimal design concept that provides a modern elegance to your event.
• We only work with a collection of reputable rental and decor companies to customize your event space.
• We collaborate with reliable caterers that help satisfy a variety of taste palates and price ranges.
• We built trusted relationships with creative vendors to piece together every detail of your event.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Luxury bridal suite, picturesque parks, charming downtown backdrop, 100" ambient fireplace, modern aesthetic, carte blanche, fully customizable, 12 hour private space.
CONTACT — ALEXIS HELLER | 630.868.3703 | CONTACTUS@THEMOMENTONMAIN.COM
THEMOMENTONMAIN.COM
1998 JOHNSON RD., OSWEGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Our wedding venue features thoroughbred race horses with Kentucky Derby and Breeder’s Cup bloodlines that offers the perfect setting for your ceremony and reception. The beautifully manicured yard and pastures offers multiple ceremony location options.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Air-conditioned or heated permanent reception tent. Rich green pastures with 100 different species of trees and majestic flower gardens. Rustic arbors, patio with fire pit, decorations, chandeliers, Edison & twinkle lights.
CONTACT — PETER PASTERIS | 815.768.5400 | NORTHFORKFARMWEDDING@GMAIL.COM
NFORKFARM.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE:
Outdoor Event Space, Barn
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 250
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari-hybrid Chairs, Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Street Parking, Valet Available, Nearby / Parking Garage (2 within a block of venue)
8 E. GALENA BLVD., AURORA, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Impress your guests with the stunningly beautiful Meyer Ballroom! The jaw-dropping space includes floor-to-ceiling windows with panoramic views overlooking the beautiful Fox River and historic Paramount Theatre. Open year-round, the Meyer Ballroom offers happy couples comprehensive wedding packages that include a 6-hour reception, 5-hour open top shelf bar, an outdoor patio space, multiple ceremony locations, a preferred caterer list to suit your specific palate, linens, centerpieces, valet parking, security guard and unlimited personal consultations with an event manager. Plus, we’ll even throw in a complimentary Broadway show ticket for each of your guests as a wedding favor! With a modern, neutral motif and experts waiting to customize your dream wedding, the Meyer Ballroom’s possibilities are endless for the big day.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Multiple ceremony locations, valet parking, unlimited personal consultations, personal event manager and day-of coordinator, 5 hour open top shelf bar, floor to ceiling windows overlooking the Fox River, outdoor patio with riverfront view and a ticket voucher for each guest.
CONTACT — JENNIFER HAHN | 630.723.2488 | JENNIFERH@PARAMOUNTARTS.COM
PARAMOUNTAURORA.COM/BALLROOM
100 OAKWOOD BLVD., ELGIN, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The two-story Pavilion, built in 1898, is one of the city’s most valued historical landmarks. It is located in the picturesque Lords Park, a photographic 108-acre site. This elegant event space features a Victorian banquet facility with hardwood floors.
This park has a wonderful history and offers numerous facilities in a beautiful setting of mature hickory and oak trees on rolling terrain.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Vaulted ceilings, large windows, scenic park views, covered wraparound porch, outdoor ceremony grounds with ponds, fountains and wooden bridge.
CONTACT — ANNA MORETTI | 847.531.7047 | BANQUETS@CITYOFELGIN.ORG
CITYOFELGIN.ORG/478/LORDS-PARK-PAVILION
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 250
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event
Space, Historic Location
CATERING CHOICES: All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers, All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
675 S. RIVER ST., BATAVIA, IL 60510
ABOUT THE VENUE — Revelry 675, where elegance meets luxury. Our venue has a 5,000-squarefoot reception space with an additional 1,200-square-foot patio. Our lush lawn connects our patio all the way to the Fox River. Revelry 675 is adorned throughout with brand new gold chandeliers, gold sconces, a white marble floor, modern wallpaper, a newly remodeled bar and much more. By booking Revelry 675, we provide you with a multitude of round tables and high top tables, as well as up to six rectangular glass mirror tables. Revelry 675 also offers gold Chameleon chairs as well as in-house linens. Our large back patio is also adorned with bistro lighting overhead and offers a beautiful view of the river and surrounding forest. At Revelry 675, we strive to ensure you are a guest at your own event.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Bridal suite, groom suite, large patio with modern lounge furniture, lush lawn, renovated bar, black white gold color scheme and large on-site parking. Rental includes round tables, several mirrored tables and gold chameleon chairs.
CONTACT — SHUKI MORAN, OWNER | 630.940.8987 | INFO@REVELRY675.COM REVELRY675.COM
100 S. RIVER ST., AURORA, IL 60506
ABOUT THE VENUE — IF THESE WALLS COULD TALK…
They’d invite you inside, tell a story or two, and then make sure you leave with a few of your own. That’s Society 57 — where rich history and modern design converge to create a one-of-a-kind event experience. Located along the picturesque Fox River, Society 57 is the quintessential wedding and private event destination for Chicago’s western suburbs.
Our historic building has been completely re-imagined, providing abundant space and an aesthetic that can be described as comfortable elegance. Complemented by ample nearby, enchanting photo opportunities of both river and city, and flexible catering and vendor options — it’s where the past meets the present to create memories that will stay with you and your guests forever.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Beautiful riverfront location.
CONTACT — EVENTS SPECIALIST | 331.205.8073 | EVENTS@SOCIETY57.COM SOCIETY57.COM
KATIE PERK PHOTOGRAPHY
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 150
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Historic Location, Industrial / Loft, Unique / Alternative, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Nearby / Parking Garage
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 225
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Barn / Farm
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
5126 STEPHENS RD., OSWEGO, IL 60543
ABOUT THE VENUE — Venue 5126 is an elegant, rustic country barn venue, perfect for your upcoming wedding and reception! Enjoy our exclusive 7 acres of picturesque farmland with our barn and outdoor ceremony spaces. From east to west our property is covered with gorgeous scenery for first looks, wedding photos and guest selfies! As a result, no matter where you wander around our property, you will always find a photo op behind you. Along with the beautiful scenery and elegant barn, we have a friendly staff that will make your family their own, and go above and beyond to make your wedding an unforgettable day. So whether you want to get married inside our gorgeous barn, or out in the pergola, overlooking 500 acres of farmland, your wedding at Venue 5126 will be stunning.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Bridal suite, groom’s room, indoor/outdoor ceremony spaces, 500 acre farmland view, outdoor stone patio with fire pits, rental boutique, all-inclusive.
CONTACT — EVENTS TEAM | 630.554.7100 | EVENTS@VENUE5126.COM
VENUE5126.COM
2251 W. LAKE ST., ADDISON, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Venuti Family would like the opportunity to graciously host and serve your special day. We are known for our attention to detail, our 5 star service, our ability to customize your special event and our exquisite food.
Celebrate with up to 1,000 of your closest family and friends in our opulent grand ballroom as well as recite your vows in our quaint circular chapel. The gorgeous marble staircase provides a stunning backdrop for photos.
Our event specialists are here to help you plan: From exceptional authentic Italian cuisine options to beautiful decor and lighting solutions, your wedding will be picturesque and unforgettable!
SPECIAL FEATURES — Picturesque marble double staircase, fountain, patio and circular chapel, rental also includes centerpieces and audio/visual.
CONTACT — CIARA RIVERA | 630.376.1500 | CRIVERA@VENUTISBANQUETS.COM
VENUTIS.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 600
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 150
VENUE STYLE: Country Club / Golf Course
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
250 W. GREGG’S PKWY., VERNON HILLS, IL 60061
ABOUT THE VENUE — For unforgettable gatherings and picturesque views of our championship golf course, White Deer Run Golf Club is the place for you.
A welcoming entry draws your guests into our elegant dining room, which features panoramic views, warm colors and arched windows. Guests will love our grassy knoll for the ceremony and after the ceremony, guests will enjoy butler passed hors d’oeuvres on the patio. Dinner can then be held in the gorgeous indoor space seating up to 150 guests.
An exceptional culinary staff offers signature menu entrée options, tantalizing appetizers and outstanding desserts. Our friendly and attentive staff is dedicated to providing the utmost quality.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Chair covers and tie, beautiful patio overlooking Lake Charles, floor length linen, votive candles, mirror, lanterns, uplighting, photos on the course.
CONTACT — HEATHER EDSON | 847.680.6188 | HEDSON@HERITAGEGOLFGROUP.COM
WHITEDEERGOLF.COM
7671 CLUBHOUSE DR., YORKVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Whitetail Ridge Golf Club is an elegant golf and country club located in Yorkville. This award-winning venue creates one-of-a-kind weddings that fit within your budget, suit your personal style and produce everlasting memories. Whitetail Ridge offers the perfect combination of rustic, elegance and comfort. Our facility produces a warm feeling with neutral colors, dark wood trim, rich barn door accents and exquisite chandeliers. We provide a variety of backgrounds for your photos, including a white barn, an s-shaped bridge, lush forests and open fields. Enjoy the picturesque sunset from our main level balcony as you celebrate your reception at Whitetail Ridge! Whether it’s an intimate gathering or a grand affair, Whitetail Ridge Golf Club is a one-stop shop for all of your wedding wants and needs.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Separate cocktail hour space, private balcony, entire main level booked for wedding.
CONTACT — ASHLEY JOHNSON | 630.882.8988 | ASHLEY@WHITETAILRIDGEGC.COM
WHITETAILRIDGEGC.COM
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 350
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Country Club / Golf Course, Unique / Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 240
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Country Club / Golf Course
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering, Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES:
Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
6996 PENNSYLVANIA ST., OCONOMOWOC, WI
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Carriage House and 1896 Room are more than just event spaces, they are a completely new experience like none other in Lake Country. Set in the completely renovated Club at Lac La Belle golf course in Oconomowoc, the two unique venues have something unique to offer no matter the season. From Weddings and Receptions — to Corporate and Community Events in the Oconomowoc area — The Carriage House and 1896 Rooms have you covered.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Modern elegance on one of Wisconsin’s oldest golf courses.
CONTACT — 414.567.7833 | INFO@CLUBATLACLABELLE.COM
CARRIAGEHOUSEATLACLABELLE.COM
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To learn more, including amenities and estimated investment, visit chicagostyleweddings.com/venues. Information is subject to change. Contact venue for details and availability.
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Your ceremony and reception venues are probably the first locations you think of when planning your wedding. But there’s more than just one big party to select a venue for! From rehearsal dinners to bridal showers to welcome parties, here’s a variety of options for where you can host your pre-wedding festivities. CHICAGO
171 W. Randolph St., Chicago 312.236.0123
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
The perfect venue for the perfect day, The Allegro Royal Sonesta Hotel is where your lifetime of memories begins. With a stunning location in the Chicago Loop, The Allegro Royal Sonesta Hotel boasts old-school glamour with a modern twist with 483 generously appointed rooms and suites, event spaces designed to dazzle, and a dedicated catering staff to plan every detail.
sonesta.com/chicago-royals
600 E. Grand Ave., Chicago 312.815.3213
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 600
Whether cruising the Chicago River’s cityscape or Lake Michigan’s skyline, you’ll love Chicago’s most unique wedding venue. Trust our complimentary event planners with City Cruises’ exceptional service, delicious dining, and customizable décor and entertainment. Bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, engagement parties, or post-wedding brunches—the event of your dreams is waiting on the water!
citycruises.com/chicago
5940 N. Sheridan Rd., Chicago 773.654.2999
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
A historic Edgewater mansion with sweeping lake views, Colvin House is your home for intimate gatherings before and after your wedding, and the perfect venue for the big day! With a unique open floor plan, lush gardens, spacious courtyard, and cozy coach house, we create garden-to-table events designed especially for you.
colvinevents.com
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520 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago 312.427.3800 ext. 5071
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
This downtown Chicago hotel offers a convenient location across from Grant Park and close to Lake Michigan. Since hosting its first wedding in 1893, the Congress Plaza Hotel & Convention Center has upheld an enduring tradition as one of Chicago’s premier settings for unforgettable celebrations.
congressplazahotel.com
200 N. Columbus Dr., Chicago 312.565.6671
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 850
The exclusive weddings and receptions we stage here are nothing short of captivating. Picture the fine china, crystal, linens, flowers, ribbons and twinkle lights adorning our dazzling International Ballroom. Whether it’s over-the-top glamour or understated chic you’ve got in mind, our experienced staff will create the wedding you’ve always imagined.
fairmontchicago.com/meet/weddings
122 W. Monroe St., Chicago 312.950.7012
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 250
Boleo, the year-round rooftop lounge at The Kimpton Gray Hotel, may only be 15 floors up, but you’ll feel like you’ve been transported all the way to Argentina. Contact us to plan your timeless celebration under the stars. The drinks flow, the music is always playing, and the food is irresistible!
grayhotelchicago.com
233 S. Wacker Dr., 66th & 67th Fl., Chicago 312.876.3200
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 230
Located on the 66th & 67th floors of the iconic Willis Tower, experience stunning panoramic views of the Chicago skyline while enjoying world class cuisine and service. Impress your guests with a unique Chicago experience. The Private Event Team at The Metropolitan is ready to assist in turning your vision into a night to remember!
themetropolitanchicago.com
1401 N. Wells St., Chicago 312.787.6604
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
Old World charm in the heart of Old Town. We offer a variety of options to host rehearsal dinners, engagement events and weddings. Our beautiful outdoor garden can accommodate up to 100 people for a traditional sit-down dinner or up to 125 for a cocktail reception. With keen attention to detail, Orso’s seasoned Event Planners will help make your vision a unique memorable experience for all.
orsosrestaurant.com
108 E. Superior St., Chicago 312.573.6701
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 150
The sophisticated and intimate environment of Millennium Park creates an ideal venue for mid-sized events, such as welcome receptions and wedding rehearsal dinners. The pairing of classic and modern touches, from a stunning crystal chandelier to beautiful wood grain inlays and a marble feature wall, ensures an exquisite ambiance as you welcome guests for your special day.
peninsula.com/chicago
435 E. Illinois St., Chicago 312.527.3140
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 200
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food, gracious service and fun as you gather with family and friends for your special day. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 200 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or an outdoor patio with picturesque views of Chicago. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration!
pinstripes.com
315 N. LaSalle St., Chicago 312.527.1417
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 1,000
Located on the Chicago River, River Roast offers dramatic city and water views from every seat. Executive Chef Cedric Harden’s menu of contemporary American tavern fare is satisfying and soul warming. Our private rooms can accommodate intimate affairs of 10 to larger than life events of 1,000 for cocktails and dinner with access to a private outdoor veranda.
riverroastchicago.com
71 E. Wacker Dr., Chicago 312.346.7100
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 320
Your lifetime of memories begins at Royal Sonesta Chicago Downtown. Over 16,000 square feet of spectacular Chicago wedding venues include two glamorous ballrooms, including the impressive 39th Floor Penthouse Ballroom with views of the Windy City skyline. The stunning outdoor terrace event space is an unforgettable, sky-high setting to say, “We do.”
sonesta.com/chicago-royals
505 N. State St., Chicago 312.755.9703
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 230
The Canvas Room, a non-traditional space, boasts highlights like floor-to-ceiling windows, outdoor patio space, and the capacity for interactive chef events, thanks to an open-kitchen layout. The sophisticated style of our River North luxury lifestyle hotel make us the ideal setting for your next to-do.
sonesta.com/chicago-royals
Terrace 16
401 N. Wabash Ave., Chicago 312.588.8030
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 50
A rehearsal dinner marks the beginning of your celebration and Terrace 16 will create a truly memorable evening. Our private dining rooms and seasonal rooftop patio offer breathtaking views of the Chicago River, Lake Michigan, and the city’s prized architecture. Terrace 16 offers new American cuisine with highquality, approachable dining and a vivacious atmosphere.
trumphotels.com/chicago
21 E. Bellevue Pl., Chicago 312.266.2100
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 150
Create your own fairytale. Thompson Chicago has some of the most unique event spaces for Chicago weddings, offering bold interior design, rich décor accents, and floor-to-ceiling windows that overlook the heart of Chicago’s Gold Coast. Thompson Chicago is the perfect setting for your special day. No matter your guest count, we invite you to create your unforgettable memories in our beautiful spaces.
thompsonchicago.com
To learn more, including amenities and estimated investment, visit chicagostyleweddings.com/venues. Information is subject to change. Contact venue for details and availability.
111 W. Kinzie St., Chicago 312.880.1511
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 350
With its vintage Prohibition Era-inspired design, Untitled has been a darling of Chicago nightlife since opening in 2012. The sumptuous 18,000-square-foot restaurant, bar and live entertainment space hosts the largest selection of American whiskeys in the world, seven Michelin Bib Gourmand awards, and world-class entertainment.
untitledsupperclub.com
2008 W. Roscoe St., Chicago 773.348.4600
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
Volo has been fortunate to have hosted many rehearsal dinners, post-wedding brunches and other wedding related celebrations that have been truly special. We’d love to create a unique and memorable celebration for you. Our “#1 Hidden City Patio” (Chicago Magazine), 100 year old patinated barn, and urban chic dining room combine to create an ideal wedding venue. volorestaurant.com
812 Wrigley Dr., Lake Geneva, WI 262.248.6206
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 165
Discover the possibilities aboard our award-winning fleet of eight beautiful boats! Host your engagement party, bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, wedding pictures, water limo, cocktail hour or day-after brunch out on the water. The perfect complement to your Lake Geneva wedding weekend!
cruiselakegeneva.com
N4403 County Hwy. H, Elkhorn, WI 262.249.1112
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 125
Choose from two distinct spaces for your celebration, just minutes from Lake Geneva, WI. The Todd Venue seats up to 125 in a spacious, airy room with new hardwood floors and retro bar area. The Barn can host up to 100 in a rustic, light-filled setting with the best sunset view in the Lake Geneva area. Our five acres of manicured grounds are also available for an outdoor event.
toddvenue.com
401 N. Roselle Rd., Schaumburg 847.885.9009
2475 W. Higgins Rd., Hoffman Estates 847.885.0400
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 200
Chandler’s has been awarded “Best of Knot Weddings” multiple years in a row. Unmatched gorgeous views of landscaped golf course acreage and Frank Lloyd Wright inspired prairie style architecture are an amazing setting for any event. Value pricing, attentive service and easy planning with event professionals create an event to remember!
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300 chandlerschophouse.com
Moretti’s is known for amazing events and value priced packages. The Hoffman Estates location stands out by offering a separate adjacent building “Moretti’s Unique Events,” that is dedicated for private events. With a fascinating rustic decor, separate kitchen and two patios, it’s the perfect setting for any event up to 250 guests. Attentive service and easy planning create an event to remember!
morettisevents.com
1120 W. Devon, Elk Grove Village 847.534.5000
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 80
This high end sports bar and entertainment restaurant focuses on great food, a “Real Good Time” and exceptional service. Our party packages are a great option for rehearsal dinners and all celebrations. From appetizers and entrees to Italian specialties and tailgate fare, Real Time Sports Bar and Grill has you covered. We also offer off premise catering services.
realtimesportsbar.com
1400 Milwaukee Ave., Glenview 847.803.9800
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 250
Relying on experience, training, tradition and old-fashioned intuition, Marriott Certified Wedding Planners can help you determine an overall vision for your wedding and help you execute each detail. That includes setting an event budget; deciding on a menu; arranging table settings; and finding florists, photographers, a band and other entertainment for the big day.
marriott.com/chibc
1150 Willow Rd., Northbrook 847.480.7676
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 500
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 500 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or a grand outdoor patio surrounded by picturesque wetlands. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration!
pinstripes.com
418 Sheridan Rd., Highland Park 847.266.5066
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 275
Internationally renowned, the private spaces at Ravinia are the perfect setting for your rehearsal dinner. Our indoor and outdoor spaces along with our world-class menus will make every moment of your extraordinary event unforgettable. Begin your love story on a high note and let Ravinia’s landscape and history be the backdrop to this special time in your lives.
ravinia.org
2034 Ridge Rd., Homewood 708.798.6000
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 90
Located inside the luxury boutique hotel, La Banque, La Voûte features French inspired cuisine in a warm, bistro style environment. From casual celebrations to black tie events, this space is perfect for rehearsal dinners, bachelor/bachelorette parties, bridal showers and morning after brunches. Choose La Voûte for an exquisite experience unlike anywhere else.
lavoutebistro.com
100 W. Higgins Rd., South Barrington 847.844.4810
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food, gracious service and fun as you gather with family and friends for your special day. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 300 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or a rustic grand outdoor patio complete with a fire pit. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration! pinstripes.com
To learn more, including amenities and estimated investment, visit chicagostyleweddings.com/venues. Information is subject to change. Contact venue for details and availability.
18231 Park Ave., Homewood 708.798.5600
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
Ambiance, great food, impeccable presentation and flawless service are all part of the ultimate Ravisloe Country Club experience. Whether you are planning an intimate luncheon or a lavish rehearsal dinner party with live entertainment for a few hundred guests, we are ready to accommodate your vision of a dream celebration.
ravisloeweddings.com
Wheaton · Geneva · Aurora
630.386.6400
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 150
Voted Top 10 Fusion Restaurants in Illinois, #1 Best of the West, and #1 in West Suburban Living. Altiro is a family owned restaurant with locations throughout northern IL, offering tapas-style, inspired Latin fusion cuisine with infused new flavors from Spain, Mexico, and South America. The menu is designed to share. With our vast experience, we can serve a group of 10 or over 1,000. altirolatinfusion.com
2301 York Rd., Oak Brook
630.571.0000
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 350
Escape to The Drake Oak Brook, boasting a natural grandeur and history of hosting events of all kinds. Create memorable moments while experiencing elegant venues, legendary and attentive service, delectable cuisine, and unique amenities.
thedrakeoakbrookhotel.com
1 Illinois St., Unit 160, St. Charles 630.945.3332
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 170
Overlooking the Fox River, Eden Weddings & Events is perfect for any celebration. Enjoy stunning views in the climate controlled enclosed patio, or open the sides to the outdoors if the weather is just right. The creative and modern cuisine paired with the craft cocktails from the house bar will leave your guests in awe.
edenstc.net/banquets-weddings
17 W. State St., Geneva 331.248.0422
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 200
Established in 2003, FoxFire is a premier restaurant and essential part of experiencing the charm and hospitality of beautiful Geneva. We offer an intimate, yet elegant setting of original brick & wooden trellises dating from the early 1900s when horses and carriages roamed the streets. Your Event will be the priority of our experienced and professional Event Staff.
foxfiregeneva.com
3 E. Main St., St. Charles 331.235.5803
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 70
The Graceful Ordinary is a modern take on the traditional tavern that serves Chef-driven cuisine centered around the kitchen’s wood burning hearth. With 4,700 sq. ft. of interior space and also 2,200 sq. ft. of waterfront terrace space – our venue allows couples to create a customized event that is unique to them! Book your riverfront engagement/rehearsal dinner, bridal shower or bachelor-x party!
thegracefulordinary.com
6201 Joliet Rd., Countryside 708.310.7920
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
The SW Suburbs‘ Premier Steakhouse. Jameson‘s is the perfect venue for rehearsal dinners, showers, private parties and farewell breakfasts. Nestled in the Holiday Inn Countryside, your guests can enjoy your special day all in one location, with guest room accommodations. Let our event specialists create the perfect event for you. Private dining and event menus tailored to your special day. jamesonscs.com
1N333 Pleasant Hill Rd., Winfield 630.690.0101
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 200
Whether you are hosting an intimate dinner, luncheon or lavish reception, Klein Creek Golf Club can also host events in the Pier 19 Restaurant. Pier 19 provides custom menu options tailored specifically to your event and personal taste! Our experienced and professional event coordinators work diligently to respond to every detail in order to provide you with an unforgettable experience.
pier-19.net
808 S. Route 59 630.581.7200
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 225
Celebrate your special occasion while enjoying diverse cultures, music and cuisine from across the globe when you dine at The Matrix Room! Stimulating ambiance, a world-class bar and international music lounge, and our Michelin Starred Chef's unique menu; a memorable dining experience for all! Available for engagement dinners, wedding showers, intimate gatherings and more!
matrixvenue.com/matrix-room
800 E Roosevelt Rd, Lombard 630.376.6895
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
Farm style wooden tables. Gunmetal chairs. Edison café string lighting. The warm, cozy feel of our Barrel Room is just what you need to bring your intimate engagement party, wedding shower, rehearsal dinner or reception to life. Surrounded by dozens of rustic wooden barrels, we celebrate with you in the heart of our brewery.
noonwhistlebrewing.com
7 Oakbrook Ctr., Oak Brook 630.575.8744
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 250
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. Our elegant ballrooms seat up to 250 guests. For a more intimate experience, choose from private reception rooms or a rustic grand outdoor patio complete with a fire pit. Pair with deluxe bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a simply unique wedding celebration!
pinstripes.com
2251 W. Lake St., Addison 630.376.1500
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 600
Enjoy your party at Chicagoland’s most dramatic special events property. Old world architecture mixed with contemporary artwork offers the elegance and warmth that you deserve on your special day. Known for our attention to detail, five star service and our exquisite food, let Venuti’s customize your private event.
venutis.com
To learn more, including amenities and estimated investment, visit chicagostyleweddings.com/venues. Information is subject to change. Contact venue for details and availability.
A wedding is never a one-person show. Bringing on a cohesive and reputable team of wedding vendors is a crucial part of hosting a beautiful and thoughtful event. Read on for some vendor viewpoints, advice and tips. Remember, a thoughtfully chosen team is the special ingredient to making your wedding dreams come true.
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FLORAL ENTERTAINMENT
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PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY
We live and breathe wedding inspiration here at Chicago Style Weddings. When working with couples on their dream wedding, vendors are pros at making those visions come to life. But what happens when we give vendors free rein? With no rules or regulations, we invited a handful of Chicagoland vendors to let their creative minds run wild and show us what they’ve got.
We created four impressive teams, joining a planner, florist, venue, bakery, stationer, linens provider and photographer together to bring one collective vision to life. Get inspired by their designs here and head online to vote for your favorite. May the best design win the Designers’ Challenge crown!
Planned and detailed by Wedicity, this Designer’s Challenge team created a romantic Santorini affair in the heart of Chicago’s Millennium Park neighborhood. The contemporary Greek venue, Avli On the Park, served as the team’s starting point for inspiration. Achieving a stunning display of bougainvillea pink, azure and sailing rope tan, Marc & Mindy Photography captured the works of ECBG Cake Studio, F&S Linens, Maison Du Prince, Nerissa B Modern Calligraphy and Wedicity at Avli On The Park.
An ambiance of Mediterranean life wafts through Avli’s fresh and bright dining room. On any given day, this ambiance is
present, but Wedicity’s vision and Maison Du Prince’s florals and decor add a new vibrancy. Playing off traditional Greek tile motifs, Chinoiserie vases and vintage tableware added gloss and Grecian blue punches to the wicker accents and lush linens. Grecian tile work was echoed again on ECBG Cake Studio’s five-tier cake and Nerissa B Modern Calligraphy’s signage.
Evoking the breeze of salty ocean air and the smell of lush lemon trees, this team’s design shows that the Cyclades islands aren’t so far away after all.
PLANNER
Wedicity Wedding & Event Detailing
FLORAL & DÉCOR
Maison Du Prince
CAKE & SWEETS
ECBG Cake Studio
STATIONERY
Nerissa B Modern Calligraphy
LINENS & RENTALS
F&S Linens
RENTALS
Tablescapes Event Rentals
VENUE
Avli On The Park
PHOTOGRAPHY
Marc & Mindy
Vote for your favorite design at chicagostyleweddings.com/ designers-challenge
In our design, we really wanted to capture bringing the outdoors in with a heavy accent of bright, colorful florals and rich Grecian blues. With this theme, we incorporated a lot of texture in each of the details.
GIOVANNA DANNO WEDICITY WEDDING & EVENT DETAILINGFront Row (Left to Right)
Mindy Pollak
MARC & MINDY
Giovanna Danno
WEDICITY WEDDING & EVENT DETAILING
Tionna Van Gundy
WEDICITY WEDDING & EVENT DETAILING
Back Row (Left to Right)
Nerissa Israel
NERISSA B MODERN CALLIGRAPHY
Julia Smith
AVLI ON THE PARK
Saxon Harrar
MAISON DU PRINCE
Ramsey Prince
MAISON DU PRINCE
Erin Martin
ECBG CAKE STUDIO
Andrew Fisher
MAISON DU PRINCE
Not Pictured
Faraz Iyoob
F&S LINENS
A romantic art deco vision unfolded at St. Charles’ The Graceful Ordinary. Kristina Jones Events organized this moody and intimate scene to create a once-in-a-lifetime experience for a once-in-a-lifetime kind of love. To showcase this vision, Emma Belen Photography captured the works of Creative Cakes, Kristina Jones Events, Lola Valentina, Maxe Designs and Town & Country Gardens in The Graceful Ordinary’s fine-dining riverfront destination.
The Graceful Ordinary is rich with historically inspired details. From custom wallpaper to the timeless bar to the taxidermy
stag head standing guard, this environment set the scene for this Designers’ Challenge team to build off. As a result, we were transported to a world defined by logs crackling in the fire, flickering candles aglow and the faint smell of small batch whiskey.
Taking cues from the past, the team was inspired by the art deco movement. This design era is defined by symmetry, gold metallics, layered elements and the juxtaposition of geometric and curved shapes. Together, the team echoed such design elements and revealed a timeless interpretation.
PLANNER
Kristina Jones Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR
Town & Country Gardens
CAKE & SWEETS
Creative Cakes Bakery
STATIONERY
Maxe Designs
LINENS & RENTALS
Lola Valentina
VENUE
The Graceful Ordinary
PHOTOGRAPHY
Emma Belen Photography
Vote for your favorite design at chicagostyleweddings.com/ designers-challenge
Pulling in the deep navy peony with pops of a rich red wine and creams really helped the team create that intimate, romantic feel for the design. This created a soft balance between the moody feel of the space and the light, natural backdrop of the Fox River just outside the private dining room.
KRISTINA JONES KRISTINA JONES EVENTSBecky Palermo
CREATIVE CAKES BAKERY
Valentina Fonseca Krug
LOLA VALENTINA
Emma Duarte
EMMA BELEN PHOTOGRAPHY
Megan Curren
THE GRACEFUL ORDINARY
Caitlin Walker
TOWN & COUNTRY GARDENS
Jamie Lea Power
TOWN & COUNTRY GARDENS
Molly Axe
MAXE DESIGNS
Kristina Jones
KRISTINA JONES EVENTS
Sarah Kathleen Events led their Designers’ Challenge team into a mauve and moody atmosphere at The Moment on Main in downtown Wheaton. The venue's minimal and sleek design concept provided a blank canvas for this team to infuse dramatics and texture. Emily Elizabeth Photos captured the vision of Floral Expressions, F&S Linens, The Quintessential Cake, Sarah Kathleen Events and Your Little Details beautifully at the sparkling new venue.
The team’s goal was to capture the clean lines and contemporary feel of the venue while keeping decor soft. The
Moment on Main’s accents like silver sputnik lights, marble tile and textured white walls made for some crisp undertones to draw from. Against this backdrop, the team crafted a decadent, dark romance.
With the challenge of creating something modern, but delicate, this team achieved their vision with distinctive place settings, raspberry hues and opulent florals. By mixing cool gray tones with softer pinks and rich burgundies, fresh design ideas emerged and a new kind of romance was successfully showcased.
Our vision was to be “mauvelously daring” with the color palette for this shoot. We want to show clients that you can venture out from the traditional wedding colors and work in bold accents, while still evoking an elegant and romantic atmosphere appropriate for a wedding.
SARAH RODRIGUEZ SARAH KATHLEEN EVENTSKara Neeley
SARAH KATHLEEN EVENTS
Alexis Heller
THE MOMENT ON MAIN
Emily Mondragon
EMILY ELIZABETH PHOTOS
Sarah Rodriguez
SARAH KATHLEEN EVENTS
Victoria Greatrix
THE QUINTESSENTIAL CAKE
Allison Kelley
YOUR LITTLE DETAILS
Nick Frank
FLORAL EXPRESSIONS & GIFTS
Megan Dell’Aringa
FLORAL EXPRESSIONS & GIFTS
Jake Mondragon
EMILY ELIZABETH PHOTOS
Not Pictured
Faraz Iyoob
F&S LINENS
BW Studio + Events transformed the Chicago Riverwalk into the Seine in an impressionist vision. Hosted at River Roast, the artistic visions of Branching Out Chicago, BW Studio + Events, Lola Valentina, Maxe Designs and Toni Patisserie were captured by Jasko Omerovic Photography.
The basis of this team’s inspiration came from 19th-century impressionist paintings and the en plein air method, specifically Claude Monet’s Water Lilies series. The French “en plein air” refers to the art movement of outdoor painting. Artists embracing this method created impressionist masterpieces
marked by pastel colors, free brushstrokes and softness.
To emulate this style of painting, the team eliminated sharp corners and opted for soft curves. Their periwinkle and punchy yellow color palette danced with European terrazzo and brushstroke patterns to create a romantic setting.
In the heart of bustling Chicago, this transition to an open-air softness was a welcome change of pace. Influenced by River Roast's front-row views of the Chicago River, BW Studio + Events crafted a real-life impressionist painting.
PLANNER
BW Studio + Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR
Branching Out Chicago
CAKE & SWEETS
Toni Patisserie & Cafe
STATIONERY Maxe Designs
LINENS & RENTALS
Lola Valentina
VENUE
River Roast
PHOTOGRAPHY
Jasko Omerovic Photography
Vote for your favorite design at chicagostyleweddings.com/ designers-challenge
Our team wanted to capture the magic of being right on the Chicago River, but also bring in softer brushstrokes of purple and blue flowers to contrast the sharp lines of the Chicago skyline.
BLAIR WOERFELBW STUDIO + EVENTS
Christie Lindquist Delort BRANCHING OUT CHICAGO
Toni Cox
TONI PATISSERIE & CAFE
Christine Boulton BRANCHING OUT CHICAGO
Blair Woerfel
BW STUDIO + EVENTS
Molly Axe MAXE DESIGNS
Sandy Territo BRANCHING OUT CHICAGO
Jasko Omerovic
JASKO OMEROVIC PHOTOGRAPHY
Erika Shapcott RIVER ROAST
Alyssa Rossetti RIVER ROAST
Not Pictured
Valentina Krug LOLA VALENTINA
• What tiers of planning do you offer and what is included in each? (Full planning, the month of, day of?)
• Do you offer event design and styling as well?
• How often will we communicate and what is your preference: phone, text, email or via an online app?
• Do you have a preferred vendor list for us to reference?
• Do we need to pay our vendors directly or do we pay them through you?
• Do you coordinate deliveries, rentals, set-up times and other meetings with various vendors on the wedding day?
• Will you be creating a timeline and schedule for everyone involved on the wedding day?
• Have you planned any other weddings at our venue?
• Do you also plan events surrounding the wedding, like the rehearsal dinner or day-after brunch?
• How many meetings will we have together and how involved would you like us to be?
• On the wedding day, how many people from your team will be at the wedding?
• How many weddings have you planned?
• What made you want to be a wedding planner?
• After we provide our budget, will you help us break down how it will be allocated?
About the Author
Kelly Delamater is the owner and lead planner of Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events.
Delamater has 20+ years of experience in event planning and designing all types of celebrations. Having served alongside some of the highest level executive teams in the country, her corporate background in the planning of events across the United States, combined with her love for people and marking moments, created a natural transition for launching Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events in 2010.
Located in Rockford, Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events is proud of its team, the excellent reputation it enjoys and the strong relationships with venues and vendors it has earned across the midwest and beyond.
Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events | backyardsoiree.com
You likely haven’t planned a wedding before and it’s hard to know what questions to ask or what you should even be aware of. Hiring a professional planner is a wise move to alleviate the stress and guide decision-making. To get you started on where your mind should be, Kelly Delamater of Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events shares some tips from her experience as a wedding and event planner.
There are so many to-dos when it comes to planning, but Delamater offers this as her biggest tip: If you are thinking that you can or will enjoy planning your own wedding: don’t. Do it for your best friend or cousin, but don’t plan to spend your wedding day managing vendors and details. Hire a professional: a good planner pays for themself. They know how to construct a strategic, realistic and detailed timeline with margin. And they know how to make your budget work per your priorities. Don’t assume you will know how to plan and execute a type of event you’ve never done before. With emotions on the line, it’s not the time to try out your project management skills. Professional wedding planners exist for a reason. Let them own your day so that you can be fully present and able to enjoy it.
Budget is the “not fun, but necessary” part of planning. You want to ensure your budget goes as far as it can to avoid spending unnecessarily. According to
WITH 20 YEARS OF EXPERIENCE WORKING WITH EVERY KIND OF NEARLYWED, KELLY DELAMATER OF BACKYARD SOIR É E OFFERS A SAMPLING OF HER BEST ADVICE
What about children? While the little ones obviously won’t be consuming alcoholic beverages, they will still need a seat and meal, thus having a part in the number of place settings, centerpieces and linens needed. If you must have your nieces, nephews and all your friends’ littles in attendance, plan with both the children and parents in mind. To help, Delamater provides her couples with fun ideas designed just for the littles to help keep them entertained during the ceremony and reception. But if you are on the fence, remember that this is an adult occasion. When it’s not fun for the littles, it’s not fun for their parents.
THE DAY-OF TIMELINE
Your wedding day has 24 hours like every other, and it is going to fly by. Every minute of every hour has a price tag attached to it and if you did the math you’d be shocked. A detailed, well-constructed and realistic timeline is imperative and must have margins built within. Drafting the day-of timeline is the first order of business with Delamater’s couples. She notes that it opens the couple’s eyes to all the moving parts of planning and always kicks off the excitement as they begin to envision their actual wedding day.
ready. The day-of timeline must also include any travel time for the wedding party and guests. It's easy to make a schedule and forget about the time it takes to get from point A to point B!
Delamater focuses on constructing a day-of timeline that will be the most cost-effective for the couple. This means comparing and scheduling with vendors per the hours that they are contracted. Once the timeline is determined, it should be sent off to every vendor to ensure it fits into their scheduling too. You don’t want to have everything scheduled only to realize the florist you booked isn’t available until later in the day!
Planners know that hair and makeup often take longer than anticipated, thus putting the whole day’s schedule behind. To ensure your day doesn’t begin behind, know the solid number of attendants and family members who will want hair and makeup done. Communicate to the stylists and artists about this headcount and ask when they must begin working in order to have everyone completed by the timeline’s schedule. Then, slot everyone into an actual appointment and communicate this to all involved prior to the morning of. If you have a large party or the proposed schedule is longer than you’d like, consider hiring extra stylists and makeup artists. It’s worth it!
Another pro tip: It is worth the extra travel charge for the beauty teams to provide services on-location. This saves time and stress of trying to get everyone to and from the salon. Plus, hair and makeup with mimosas and muffins in your home or at your hotel or venue make for a more comfortable and relaxing morning.
Traditionally the reveal to each other occurred when the bride appeared at the beginning of the aisle. Today’s reveal that is also known as “the first look,” is when the couple plans to meet for a sweet moment before the ceremony and rush of the day. It can be as private or public as they wish.
There are so many great reasons
for this type of reveal. It allows the couple to enjoy the wedding day together and with their favorite people. It affords the couple the opportunity to make the most of the photographer and videographer investment and then the couple, as well as their parents and wedding party, can all be a part of cocktail hour. It’s exciting for guests to be with you at this time and to congratulate you! This is also the perfect time for the couple and family to be intentional with guests whom they know may leave right after dinner. You’ve invested so much into this one day, you should ensure that it can be captured without the pressure of time. By getting the essential photography taken care of before the “I do’s,” the couple can feel free to enjoy every moment on their wedding day.
Delamater says that a planner’s involvement throughout the entire planning process ensures that the couple has a joyful experience from “I will” to “I do,” while also allowing all
vendors to be able to operate at the highest level.
Delamater is intentional to understand her couple’s vision and marry it to the venue, season and budget. She loves getting to know the couple and helping them to incorporate special details, which are true to them and ‘wow’ while helping them to keep the big picture in mind.
Delamater encourages you to allow your planner to take care of the logistical details so you can enjoy the most important day in your life. Every guest can feel when a wedding is well planned and executed. Guests can and should leave saying, “That was the best wedding ever.”
Take these tokens of advice to heart. Planners go into the business because their hearts beat for this type of celebration and they want to ensure couples have their best day ever. ■
WEDDING Megan and Mike, August 13, 2021 PLANNER Backyard Soirée Weddings and Events
VENUE The Abbey Resort, Fontana, WI
Oh, the stationery suite! Revered for its ability to set the scene for the event, a wedding stationery suite is made up of all the paper goods included with the invitation itself. With a beautiful suite, couples have the opportunity to communicate the overall feel of their wedding day while also sharing the important details. While aesthetics are obviously important, review this guide and make sure you don't miss any crucial elements while dreaming up your design.
Reception Card
Outer Envelope
Inner Envelope
Wedding Invitation
Details and Accommodations Card
Place Card (for the table)
Menu (for the table)
Response Card Response Envelope
Yes, you’ve been knee-deep in wedding planning and dreaming since your engagement, but your guests’ first entry into your wedding world comes with the invitations. The stationery (or invitation) suite is the place to really set the scene for your celebrations. Couples have the opportunity to communicate a lot more than just the date and time on their wedding invitations. A wisely crafted invitation suite can share everything from event logistics to the overall feel to attire expectations.
In a digital w sent in the mail are a treasured rarity. So it can be confusing to understand the details like how to address them, how to word the invite itself and whom to include in the address.
A good designer can make sure the stationery aesthetics are just right, but you have to know what details to print on them! Here is a quick guide to what information to include and how to say it.
Start off the invitation with who is hosting the festivities. In the past, this opening line often referenced the bride’s parents, but nowadays we see weddings hosted by the couple themselves, both sets of parents, one set of parents or an omission of this line altogether. It isn’t necessary to include the names of all the hosts, a simple “Together with their parents [...]” gets the message across.
Not to be overlooked, be sure to ask for the pleasure of your guests’ company. It might seem obvious, but including an
explicit invitation to attend lets guests know they are excitedly welcomed to the celebrations. There are many ways to phrase this request, depending on formality and your personality. Here are some examples:
• “[NAME & NAME] request the honor of your presence [...]”
• “[NAME & NAME] invite you to celebrate with them [...]”
• “[NAME & NAME] would love for you to join [...]”
• “[NAME & NAME] invite the pleasure of your company [...]”
If not already named in the host line, this is your time to loudly and clearly let your guests know who is getting married! Often, this part of the invitation gets some special typographic treatment and can be printed large and in a statement script. Formal invitations often include the full names of each partner — so get ready to show off your middle name!
Depending on the formality of your
event, you can write out the date and time in full, or you can use numerals. Whatever works best for you! Formality aside, the most important thing is to be clear and avoid confusion. Some fonts have numerals that are hard to read, so if you’re using figures be sure to select a clear font with no room for misinterpretation.
In the past, writing out the year was optional, but as weddings are being planned more and more in advance, it is wise to include the year no matter what.
It is important for guests to know exactly where they are expected to be! Include the name of your venue and its full address (street, city, state and ZIP code). Some venues with straightforward locations do not require the address to be spelled out entirely, but no matter what, you should include the city and state. This shows guests right off the bat where they should be planning their travel (if needed).
Some invitation suites include a separate stationery piece with all the reception details, or it can be printed on the main invitation if space allows. If your reception is at the same venue as your ceremony, phrasing like, “reception to follow” will suffice. However, if there is a different location, be sure to clearly note its address and arrival information. When there is a separate venue for the reception, this is when an additional stationery piece is useful.
While not absolutely necessary, including a dress code guide for your guests is helpful as they plan to attend your big day. Not to distract from the main event (your wedding details!), include dress code guidance in the bottom corner of your invitation, or use a separate details card to communicate this information. While the style of the invitation itself should communicate the level of formality expected, spelling it out helps.
Dress Code Examples:
• Black Tie
• Formal or Black-Tie Optional
• Cocktail
• Semi-Formal
• Beach Formal
• Festive
• Garden Party
• Smart Casual
• Casual
8.
Lastly, let your guests know how they
can accept with pleasure or decline with regrets. RSVP is short for “Répondez, s’il vous plaît,” which means “please respond” in French. It is common for the RSVP information to be included on a separate response card for guests to complete and mail back to you by a specific date. However, many couples are saving on postage and track their RSVPs via a wedding website or other online platform. Whatever method you decide, be sure to clearly communicate how your guests are to respond. ■
• Can you recommend seasonal flowers based on the time of year/ season, color palette and budget?
• Do you provide mockup designs for centerpieces, bouquets and more? If so, what is the charge?
• Do you have a minimum floral budget? If so, what is it?
• What recommendations can you give us to maximize our budget?
• What is your cost structure for delivery and setup?
• Do you book other weddings on the same date as mine?
• Do you know or regularly work with our venue or our other vendors?
• Do you provide rental items (vases, trellis, votives, aisle runners, etc.) or must they be procured elsewhere?
• How far in advance do you create the bouquets and arrangements? How are they stored until the wedding?
• How would you describe your design style?
• Do you offer bouquet preservation services? If not, do you have a reference for someone you recommend?
• Are you willing to work with our cake designer if we want to add flowers to our wedding cake?
Flowers are one of the most magical parts of a wedding. They breathe life and energy into a space. They soften harsh lines and brighten dark spaces. Your wedding flowers communicate the style and feel you want to flow through your day. Your flowers are going to be in nearly every picture taken. The question is, where do you begin?
WRITTEN BY Christine Boulton, Branching Out Event Florist - Chicago PHOTOGRAPHY BY Adams Photography, Emma Belen Photography, Mandelette PhotographyTo help you gain some understanding of wedding flowers and their cost, below are some of the more popular flowers and foliage from luxury blooms to some that fit into any budget. As a side note, anything used in mass can get pricey, even baby’s breath and greenery.
LUXURY
Peonies, garden roses, Vanda orchids, Cymbidium orchids, colored hydrangea (except light blue), calla lilies, Stephanotis, lily of the valley, tropical flowers such as protea and anthurium
PREMIUM
Standard roses, spray roses, Dendrobium orchids, dahlias, white and light blue hydrangea, ranunculus, anemones, dusty miller, exotic foliage, Italian Pittosporum, Italian Ruscus
Sunflowers, gerbera daisy, spider mum, delphinium, larkspur, eucalyptus, stock, lemon leaf, Israeli Ruscus
Alstroemeria, iris, carnations, leatherleaf fern, baby’s breath
Oh sure, you’ve bought flowers before, but probably not on this level. This is big, this is important, this is maybe even a little scary. I’ve got you. Let me walk you through the process from “I have no idea,” to “Well, that was easy.”
You start the process by getting an idea of just what your style is. Pinterest is good for that, it will give you loads of options with even the barest of search parameters. One thing I have noticed lately on Pinterest is that a lot of what comes up, especially for bouquets, is silk. While that may be fine for getting an idea of your style, Mother Nature may not play along. For instance, there are no real navy blue roses. Still, it is a really great place to gather all your thoughts and will come in useful when you start meeting with floral designers.
Once you have an idea of the look or feel you want to evoke with your flowers, head to Instagram. When you see something you like, save it to your own Pinterest board. I can guarantee, you will start to see patterns emerging. Even if you can’t, a good wedding floral designer can.
When it comes to centerpieces and ceremony decor, you can find some solid inspiration by reviewing images online of real weddings at your reception venue and your ceremony site. What you see may not necessarily be your style or color palette but it will give you a good idea of what works in the room.
Another place to find inspiration is the weddings you have attended recently. Did you see something you just loved? Or just hated? Make a note of it. Sometimes what you don’t like is just as important as what you do like.
That should get the creative juices flowing. Picking your wedding flowers is all about personal style. This is your
Now let’s see what all of this is going to cost.
Conventional wisdom says that you should allot about 10% of your total wedding budget for your floral and decor. That isn’t a bad place to start. I have brides that come to me thinking everything from, “I guess I need flowers” to “There must be flowers everywhere!” Where you fall on that scale will have a major influence on whether or not that 10% budget is right.
There are gorgeous flowers in all price ranges. As you think about your wedding flowers, decide where your heart lies. Are there specific flowers that you must have or is it more an overall look that you want to achieve?
The more flexible you are, the more likely it is that your floral designer will be able to stay within your budget. Other things that can affect your floral budget are the number of people in your wedding party and the number of guests. The date you pick can also play a role. For instance, it is best to avoid the weeks before and right after Valentine’s Day and Mother’s Day. The price of flowers skyrockets around those dates and your florist will pass that on to you.
My point is, when you set your floral budget, take these things into account and plan accordingly. The best thing I can tell you is to be flexible and work with a floral designer who understands your style and your budget. Adjustments can be made.
Now that you have some idea of what you want your flowers to be and how much your budget is, you will need to find someone to make that happen. There are a couple of ways you can go, either a retail florist or someone who specializes in weddings and events. If flowers are one of your priorities,
I recommend that you hire a floral designer specializing in weddings.
Personal referrals are always a good place to start. Have any of your friends or family gotten married recently and just loved their flowers? Ask them who they used. You can also ask your venue or caterer for floral designers that they love. Of course, if you are using a planner, they will know just where to point you.
You are looking for someone who sees your vision and can articulate it back to you. Someone who gets you. Your wedding flowers are kind of a big deal. You really want to make sure you are both on the same page
Social media can give you some leads, especially Instagram. Most floral designers will post using something like #chicagoweddingflorist. If you find someone whose style matches yours, check out their profile and the photos they are tagged in.
Look at their website and check their gallery. Does their style match yours? If everything they do is classic and you want a boho look, they probably aren’t for you. And read their reviews. They may have reviews in several places, so look around beyond their website, like on Facebook, Yelp or Google Business.
When you meet with possible floral designers they are going to ask for information. Share the details of what you have already planned so they can bring it all together as one cohesive event. The more clearly you can articulate your vision, the better they will be able to create it.
The basic information to provide:
• Date and venue
• Number of guests
• Number in the bridal party
• Types of tables (farm table, square, round)
• Ceremony location
• Your style and color palette
• Budget
• Pictures, pictures, pictures
Don’t be afraid to ask questions. How long have they been in business? Are they licensed and insured? Do they
have a team backing them up? If not, what happens if they get sick or injured and aren’t able to fulfill their contract? What are their cancellation policies?
If everything clicks up to this point, you should get a proposal of what they have in mind. At the very least there should be an itemized list of what is included and the total cost, including tax and any additional fees like delivery and event breakdown. A designer who specializes in weddings and events will most likely include inspiration pictures, color palette and the flowers they plan to use for your wedding. It should also include complete information for delivery times and locations.
Look everything over, and again, don’t be afraid to ask questions. This is your day. If you want to make any adjustments, now is the time to do it. You can probably make some small changes once the paperwork is signed, but it’s best to get the big stuff and the basics out of the way now. All of that should be in their contract, but ask if you need clarification. They will likely require a signed contract and a retainer to book your date.
Flowers are the pretty accent that flows through your wedding day tying it all together. They are what will color so many of your pictures and your memories. Now that you know what you need and what to expect, enjoy the process. Flowers should be fun, always. ■
Atalented florist will guide you into the perfect flower choices for your budget, season and style. But when it comes to bouquet size and structure selection, there are options to consider!
As the name suggests, a cascade bouquet resembles a dripping waterfall, typically with a focus on florals in the center and tapering into greenery and foliage around the edges. Elongated and dramatic, this type of bouquet creates a drape down the front of the arrangement, often covering the holder’s hands.
Also known as the presentation bouquet or arm sheath, the pageant bouquet is designed to be carried in the crook of the arm, almost like an infant. This creates a vintage and effortless look without being too dramatic.
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A classic and timeless choice is the posy bouquet. Ever popular, this bouquet is small enough to be held with one hand and often incorporates more florals than filler foliage. The size also makes it great for wedding attendants, flower girls or petite soon-to-be-weds.
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The hand-tied bouquet thrives on fluidity. Its boho feel includes a mix of loose stems
and greenery working in harmony. As the name suggests, these bouquets are handtied together at the stems with ribbon, twine or another fabric and do not rely on floral wire or foam to hold anything in place.
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Round bouquets are perfectly spherical orbs, oftentimes using a single type/color of flower in abundance. If using more than one type of flower, this style of bouquet still typically remains in
a similar monochromatic color palette or texture. These bouquets are tightly structured and honor the natural splendor of circular shaped flowers.
The nosegay is a traditional and popular bouquet option, consisting of a tightly packed bunch of flowers all cut to a uniform length and tied off with an accent wrap. The result is a chic, small and not overwhelming bouquet for a bride to hold. Typically, this bouquet style focuses on one flower or color, also possibly including a few more blooms to complement. ■
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• Do you offer menu tastings?
• Are the menus fixed or can we make a custom menu together?
• Is there a food and beverage minimum? What is it?
• How late will the bar be open? Is there a charge for a bar extension?
• What are the standard alcohol choices, and what are the upgrade costs?
• Are there any additional charges for bar staff, waitstaff or corkage fees?
• Do you cater to special dietary requirements?
• Do we need to provide our own plates, flatware, glasses, etc. or are those included?
CHEF LISA SHAW OF LISA’S BOUTIQUE CATERING SHARES HER THOUGHTS ON HOW COUPLES CAN SERVE UP SOMETHING TRULY SPECIAL ON THEIR WEDDING DAY
WRITTEN BY Chef Lisa Shaw, Lisa’s Boutique Catering PHOTOGRAPHY BY Dayson E. RoaWe can all agree the celebration of marriage is one of the greatest milestones in life with your partner. The excitement of the engagement alone is a beautiful moment that lasts a lifetime. Many couples get married within a year or two of their engagement. Some couples have it all planned out, while others take their time to do their due diligence.
No matter how large or small your wedding is, it can be a little tricky navigating the planning process due to all the moving parts. When selecting the venue, wedding party, theme,
wedding dress/attire, catering, etc., many couples are stepping outside of the box, moving away from or elevating traditional wedding themes, especially when it comes to the menu.
As a caterer, I have noticed this trend with my own clients. They come to me and say, “I don’t want the traditional chicken, fish or beef offerings with basic sides,” and “I want something different, but I’m not sure how to select the appropriate menu.” I like to start advising my clients about selecting their menu by finding out their overall vision of their wedding day.
What theme or look are they going for? Then I ask them for their service style: is this going to be plated, family-style or cocktail style?
Once I understand the theme and service, I ask three questions:
1. What are your favorite foods?
2. Where do you eat when you travel locally or internationally?
3. How do you feel about incorporating these items into your menu?
For example, I have a bride who is having a late afternoon wedding and her favorite meal type is brunch, but she wasn’t sure how to incorporate this into her menu. I suggested a brunch tasting plate with sweet and savory brunch options accompanied by some family-style sides in addition to a smoked salmon and bagel bar display. There you have it! Super easy and simply executed
with a mimosa bar!
However, what do you do when your family has strong views and input? How do you navigate that space without hurting their feelings? This is a very tough spot to be in especially when they may be contributing to the cost and feel as if they have a say in everything — including the menu planning.
What these concerns really amount to is a fear of the unknown. Family members who are stuck on tradition are often fearful that the food will be “too different,” and that guests may not appreciate all the different flavors. This could be potentially true depending on the crowd. In my view, it is important to know your people, and a tasting
can remedy all of that. I always offer tastings, especially when there are different options for what kind of food should be served. I have gone as far as to offer both traditional (grilled chicken and beef with gravy and a green salad and vegetables) and non traditional menus of grilled Latin chicken, Brazilian-style steak with chimichurri sauce and kale salad. Both were delicious and beautifully plated. I was amazed that I was able to persuade the traditional crowd to the more diverse preferences of the couple.
Tastings can play an important role in resolving menu conflicts between family members. When all else fails, you can always compromise and offer a little bit of both, this way everyone is happy. Remember this is supposed to be a happy time for everyone, especially the couple.
Lastly, a menu trend I have noticed post-pandemic is that couples are
skipping tables and chairs altogether. They are choosing a more fluid theme with highboys and couches where people are constantly moving about the space. They are going for a more interactive menu with food trucks, action stations and passed hors d’oeuvres and opting for a sweets table instead of a traditional wedding cake. Whether you choose to go with a more traditional wedding or do things your way, don’t be afraid to incorporate your personality into the menu. You will be surprised by how excited your guests will be to try something new and different. ■
About the Author
Lisa Shaw is the owner and executive chef of Lisa’s Boutique Catering. In her catering business, Shaw’s passion is uniting people through food. Whether it’s an intimate dinner, a family-style spread, or a corporate event — Lisa’s Boutique Catering understands the details that truly tie the evening together. Shaw has studied under Chef Philippe Kaemmerle at the Art Institute of New York City and draws inspiration from both Brooklyn’s East Coast consciousness and Charleston, South Carolina’s Southern charm.
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Chicago’s culinary scene is unmatched and attracts some of the world’s top chefs. By pairing a sincere passion for food with pure talent, these Chicago culinary artists are sure to elevate your wedding day meal. Not only will you be served a work of art, but your guests will also talk about the delectable meal for years to come.
Adam Wendt
Executive Sous Chef, The Metropolitan
Chef Adam Wendt started cooking at the age of 14 at an Italian bistro in Rockford, Illinois. Realizing his passion for cooking was real, he continued to cook his way through many restaurants in the area. After attending Northern Illinois University, he decided to pursue a career in cooking and move to Chicago to attend culinary school at the Cooking and Hospitality Institute of Chicago. After working in many award-winning and Michelinstarred kitchens, Wendt transitioned to The Metropolitan. Upon hearing of the Metropolitan’s revamp of its fine dining room and the open position in the kitchen, Wendt became their new Executive Sous Chef.
Executive Chef, Altiro Latin Fusion
A former professional soccer player for Mexico, Executive Chef Roberto Avila went from real estate guru in Mexico to restauranteur in Illinois with his wife, Erika Villanueva, who is the interior designer and special events coordinator of Altiro’s restaurants. Roberto has been successful in every journey that he has embarked on. The tenets of love and passion are reflected in the culture of Altiro’s restaurants, from their interior decor, dish presentations, menu development, to sourcing of their ingredients and warm customer service.
Dish: Ala Paella consisting of pan-seared tilapia, salmon, ahi tuna, shrimp and mussels, creamy tomato sauce, and arborio sauce, served with grilled rustic bread.
Dish: A delectable Seared Spanish Mackerel dish completed with coconut milk and roasted chili oil.
With nearly two decades of experience in top restaurants in Chicago and Cleveland, Chris Curren has become a fixture on the Midwestern culinary scene. Curren graduated from the Pennsylvania Culinary Institute, and in 2006, opened the critically-renowned fine-dining concept Blue 13, which garnered recognition in the prestigious Michelin guide. Curren has a unique style of marrying traditional American cuisine with global influences and earned Jean Banchet Award nominations in both the Rising Star Chef and Best Fine Dining categories in 2011. In 2021, Curren, alongside his wife, Megan, debuted The Graceful Ordinary, a convivial upscale American tavern, in St. Charles, where he utilizes his extensive culinary talents and creativity to present an elevated, yet approachable menu of refined rustic cuisine.
Dish: This Tuna “Conserva” features raw tuna and conserva dressing served with puffed black rice, sliced shallots, avocado and peanuts.
Executive Chef, Mistwood Golf Club
Chef Dan graduated from Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts in Chicago and has over 16 years of professional experience. He joined the culinary team at Mistwood in 2016 after working for Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts at the Ritz Carlton Chicago, where he received a Michelin Bib Gourmand. He has also worked for Caesar’s Entertainment at Harrah’s Joliet and Walt Disney World Resort. “I like to think I have a child’s perspective on our industry, and I get excited about the small things that are done really well. That reminds the people around me to look at everything with a fresh set of eyes, allow creativity to happen and not be afraid to take chances while having fun.”
Executive Chef Esequiel Dominguez has curated classic American cuisine, traditional British high tea and Spanishinspired tapas. His nearly 20 years of culinary experience started at Café Iberica, graduating to become a sous chef for 10 years, and upon mastering the tapas concept, he advanced to Executive Chef. Recruited for his culinary expertise, he opened two new establishments before joining The Drake Oak Brook as their Executive Chef in 2014. Chef Esequiel is intrigued by sophisticated dining experiences that leave everlasting impressions.
Dish: Citrus Crusted Chilean Sea Bass is served on a chiffonade of spinach and roasted vegetable quinoa, with a soy maple vinaigrette.
Dish: Prepared to perfection, this roasted leg of lamb is paired with feta cheese aligot potatoes, and served with caramelized shallots and a colorful tomato vinaigrette.
Chef Neb Miljkovic began studying culinary arts at the Culinary Institute of Belgrade, Serbia. Promptly after graduating in 1984, Neb incorporated his traditional European culinary knowledge into a position as Chef de Partie at Hotel Moscow, where he worked for three years. In 1989, Chef Neb came to Chicago to pursue his career in several restaurants within the city. He began to bring his global knowledge of food and dining to the cityscape until the summer of 2002 when he began at the Sheraton Hotel in suburban Arlington Heights. Neb created distinctive menus for gatherings and VIP events between many positions in the Chicago suburbs. Now, Chef Neb leads a great team and prepares delicious dining and event menus at the Holiday Inn and Jameson’s Charhouse located in Countryside.
Dish: Crab cakes drizzled with honey chipotle sauce and garnished with parsley.
Chef Cedric Harden leads the culinary program at River Roast in Chicago. Growing up in a family with deep Southern roots, Harden’s passion for food was sparked at a very early age. Harden studied culinary arts at the Le Cordon Bleu Institute of Chicago and has worked in kitchens at Joey’s Brickhouse, Le Lan, SOUL and Wolfgang Puck Catering, plus a seven-year tenure as sous chef at Urbanbelly, Belly Shack and BellyQ. Prior to joining River Roast, he served as executive chef at III Forks Steakhouse, where he brought a Southern spin to classic Midwest American Steakhouse fare.
Dish: Hors d’oeuvres for all! A finger-licking southern-style crispy chicken slider and crowd-pleasing mini burgers topped with American cheese and a special house sauce.
Executive Chef, Belvedere Events & Banquets, Biagio Events & Catering
Chef Mick comes to Biagio Events with 40 years of culinary experience. After six years as the Chef de Cuisine at the InterContinental Chicago, he joined the Wolfgang Puck Restaurant team and opened the Wolfgang Puck Grand Cafe in Evanston where he was Executive Chef for seven years as well as a key member of the Puck Culinary Council. Chef Mick has also overseen kitchens at such notable establishments as Gibsons Steakhouse and McCormick & Schmick’s before bringing his talents to Biagio Events & Catering and Belvedere Events & Banquets.
Dish: Imported and domestic meats and cheeses, marinated bocconcini, roasted vegetables, stuffed mushrooms and roasted peppers, served with gourmet crackers and Italian breads.
Leading the innovative culinary team at The Odyssey is Executive Chef Kenneth Regan. Born and raised in the south suburbs of Chicago, Chef Ken brings his love and passion for seasonal and local ingredients to The Odyssey. Chef Regan believes in sourcing local ingredients, such as locally grown produce, cheese and meat. Midwest Craftsmanship plays a major role while creating his menus, as Chef Regan is constantly seeking out the freshest and best ingredients. “The goal is to cook as you would for family,” he says.
Dish: Pan-seared farmed Maine scallops with wild mushroom and braised leek risotto.
Executive Chef, Nico Osteria at Thompson Chicago
Executive Chef Jacob Verstegen oversees and leads the culinary team at The Thompson Chicago and Nico Osteria.
With a varied background, Jacob builds creative menus that focus on the best produce and ingredients available that grow right in our backyard. He works under a philosophy that the food and beverage blend well to create a unique and curated experience. His menus at Nico Osteria reflect these fundamental values by utilizing ingredients that are grown and made by the farmers and artisans around Chicago.
Chef Bruno is an esteemed culinary professional with an extensive background as a pastry chef. He was born in Brazil and received formal training at Le Cordon Bleu in Paris. After leaving his position as Executive Pastry Chef at Jewell a few years ago to pursue positions at other respected organizations, he has returned to Jewell as the Executive Chef. His unique background affords him a level of creativity rarely seen in the culinary field. Chef Bruno enjoys reinventing classic dishes, transforming them into unforgettable cuisine.
Dish: A stunning work of culinary art, this elderflower whipped ganache is served with a citrus sponge and topped with oatmeal streusel and meringue.
Dish: A vibrant Nichols Farm Beet Salad topped with gorgonzola, almond and elderflower dressing.
When clinking glasses are the soundtrack behind your wedding toasts, let’s make sure what’s in those glasses is just as memorable as the salutes raised. Setting the scene for a wedding celebration, drinks play a large part.
If you’re looking for a way to add something extra to your wedding beverage service, consider signature drinks. “Signature drinks represent sentimental value to the couple,” says Alex Tornai, Binny’s Beverage Depot’s Event Planner. Maybe your first date was over tacos and margaritas. Maybe you met your partner at a coffee shop. Or maybe a certain drink reminds you of where you grew up (ex: Kentucky Mule, Manhattan). Whatever the specifics, many couples can find a beverage that holds a special place in their hearts. And your guests will enjoy sipping on a delicious part of your story!
In addition to the sentimental value, signature cocktails can be very cost-effective. According to Binny’s, rather than a full carte blanche bar, a specialty cocktail menu puts a limit on the number of spirits ordered for the wedding. Oftentimes, the bar tab can be a daunting detail to consider when planning your reception. But with a set signature cocktail menu, some of that trepidation about your final bill will be relieved.
WITH HELP FROM BINNY’S BEVERAGE DEPOT AND THEIR PARTY PLANNING CONCIERGE SERVICE, WE PRESENT YOU WITH A TASTE OF SOME CUSTOM COCKTAILS TO PERSONALIZE YOUR WEDDING BAR.
The Aperol Spritz is a go-to for a summery, exhilarating cocktail. The distinctive orange and rhubarb flavors in Aperol create a refreshing and pleasant citrus taste, complemented by the prosecco’s crisp tang and frothy bubbles. Perfect for a cocktail hour or starter, the vibrant orange appearance and invigorating taste is always a crowd-pleaser.
3 oz. prosecco
2 oz. Aperol
1 oz. club soda
¼ oz. lemon juice
Dash of orange bitters
Orange slice garnish
Combine ingredients and pour over ice in a white wine glass. Garnish with an orange moon or whole circle slice.
With over two centuries of history, the Old Fashioned is a classic for a reason. The boldness of whiskey (typically bourbon or rye) married with the contrast of sugar and bitters creates a full flavor profile. It is important to note, a drink as boozy as this one can pack a big punch in a small glass. If you want to ensure all your guests remember the night, consider having your bartender limit the amount of Old Fashioned cocktails they will serve.
Want to go the extra mile? A whiskey and cigar bar is a fun cocktail hour feature that couples and guests have been loving lately!
2 oz. bourbon
¼ oz. demerara syrup
2 dashes Angostura bitters
2 dashes orange bitters
Orange slice garnish
Cherry garnish
Combine ingredients, stir and then strain through a Julep or Hawthorne strainer. Serve over a large ice rock in a rocks glass. Garnish with an orange rind and/or a maraschino cherry
Effervescent and perfect to sip on is the French 75. The evening-time big sister to the popular brunch mimosa, the French 75 fulfills the hunger for a citrusy and bubbly beverage. Imbibers beware, this botanical beverage is stronger than its delicate flute glass implies, hailing its name from the notion that it is as powerful as a French 75mm field gun!
1½ oz. gin
¾ oz. lemon juice
¾ oz. simple syrup
3-4 oz. prosecco
Combine gin, lemon juice and simple syrup in a shaker, shake well and strain. Pour strained shaker ingredients into a flute glass and top off with 3-4 oz of prosecco.
Garnish with a lemon twist
If you want to keep your dance floor buzzing, an Espresso Martini is the way to go. In addition to the standard after-dessert coffee serving, offer up this cocktail. With just the right amount of coffee buzz meets boozy buzz, this drink will ensure no one calls it an early night.
2 oz. vodka
½ oz. dark coffee liquor
¼ oz. demerara syrup
1 oz. freshly brewed espresso
Coffee beans/grounds garnish
Combine ingredients in a shaker and shake well. Strain into a coupe or martini glass. Garnish with 3-5 whole coffee beans or a sprinkle of coffee grounds. Alternatively, use chocolatecovered coffee beans as a garnish for something sweet. ■
Binny’s Party Planning offers couples the ability to design their own liquor packages with expert guidance and customer service to support them along the way. The Party Planning team is here to assist with every step in the process, from helping couples with appropriate quantities to designing signature drinks and pairing wines with the dinner menu. More importantly, their Party Planners make sure that there is ample supply of beverages for everyone during the entire evening. Worried about transportation? Binny’s offers delivery and pickup services as well. You could say, Binny’s does the lifting, while you do all the drinking!
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Going back centuries, wedding cakes have been an integral part of weddings. Originally they were not only a sign of celebration, but of social status as well. The more tiers and the whiter the frosting, the higher the social standing of the two families. Wedding cakes were said to ensure fertility for the bride and bring good fortune to the couple and all who ate it.
While nowadays most don’t subscribe to the notion that a cake’s size is a direct correlation to the couple’s importance, a wedding cake still has modern relevance. The cutting of the cake is a rite of passage; it is one of the first acts newlyweds do together as a married couple, and symbolizes unity and teamwork. Following the cutting, the couple feeds each other a bite, representing affection and a playful spirit. These little actions symbolize the start of a beautiful marriage.
Choosing a wedding cake can be a big deal! And let’s be honest, you’ve tasted a bad wedding cake before. I don’t have to go into much detail, you probably know that dry, tasteless cake that leaves you thinking, “Why did I just eat that?” No one wants their cake to fall into that category, and I promise you it doesn’t have to be that way. So how do you go about selecting your wedding cake? And more importantly, who do you choose to create it for you?
I’m sharing some advice about how to find a great cake maker that will be the right fit for you:
First things first, before reaching out to any cake makers, you need to nail down the main details of your wedding. You should have your date selected and venue(s) booked, know a rough guest count, and have your budget outlined. Cake prices not only vary wildly depending on size and complexity of design, but also based on the skill level and experience of the person making it. Cakes can range from $3-$18+ per serving. Be up front about how much you’ve allocated to your cake budget and communicate said budget with potential cake makers you’re considering. When you’re on the same page, the cake maker will provide suggestions that will work within your budget, or recommend receiving services elsewhere. There’s someone out there in every style and price point!
Next, ask around for personal recommendations and referrals.
A good place to start is with your venue(s). Venues often have a preferred vendors list, and be mindful that some venues charge vendors to be added to their list, so it’s not always objective. Feel free to ask your venue what their preferred vendor selection process is like. Beyond your venue, ask other vendors for their recommendations. At The Quintessential Cake, we have vendors that we enjoy collaborating with. But in my experience, photographers and planners are all-seeing and allknowing. They are on the frontline of every wedding from start to finish and get to experience everything, the good, the bad and the ugly! When asking any venue or vendor for a referral, be sure to ask specifically why they recommend them. Is it because they love the vendor’s work and/or professional work ethic or is it because they are getting a referral kick back?
(It happens!)
After you have some recommendations, it’s time to do some research. Visit the cake maker’s website and check out their portfolio. This will give you an idea of their general style, but most importantly their skill level. You should also find information on their process, menu and basic pricing. Like what you see? Head on over to
Instagram and follow the cake makers you are most drawn to. Even before you’ve booked a vendor, following them on social media gives you a more personal look into who they are and their work style.
Finally, read vendor reviews online. On a vendor’s website there might be words of praise from past clients, but take a look at Google, Yelp, Wedding Wire or other similar platforms to get a full picture of client experiences. One or two poor reviews usually can be explained or forgiven, but a pattern of negative reviews is a red flag!
Check that your cake maker is licensed and insured. Some cake decorators work out of their home, and thus, without the proper health department licenses/inspections. For liability reasons, your venue will most likely insist on a licensed cake maker. This is often overlooked but it’s important to check ... you don’t want an unlicensed vendor being turned away from the venue on the day of your wedding, and taking your cake with them!
Once you have your list narrowed down to a few choices, it’s time to reach out to them. Many cake makers have forms on their website you can submit or you can simply send an email. Calling is also an option, but to be honest, we are often unable to answer the phone because we are either “in
the zone” decorating someone else’s dream cake or are up to our elbows in flour or sugar!
Now things get more fun! You’ve looked at their portfolio and followed along on social media and can confirm your cake maker can create some beautiful displays. But you want to make sure your vendor’s cakes taste as good as they look! So it’s time for a tasting! Assuming the cake maker got back to you with all the pertinent information and you liked what you read, go ahead and schedule a consultation and tasting. There may be a charge for the tasting, which is perfectly reasonable — small businesses can’t afford to be giving product away to non-serious shoppers. However, many cake makers will credit the tasting fee back to you when you confirm an order with them.
Don’t expect to taste their entire menu at the tasting. The tasting selection is a representative sample of their menu to give you an indication of the quality of their baking and their skill with flavor profiles. Hopefully your favorites were included, but if the flavor you want wasn’t sampled and the three cakes you did try were all moist and delicious, it’s a pretty safe bet all their other offerings are equally as good.
Make sure you are clear on all of their policies. Be clear on delivery
and set-up fees, amendments and cancellation policies. For example, can you rent a cake stand from them? If so, what is the return policy?
At this point, you should (hopefully) be feeling pretty confident about your choice. You have received recommendations, made sure they have the appropriate licenses, checked out their portfolio, have a feel for their overall style and the quality of their work, sampled their baking, had a chat about design concepts and have a ballpark idea of what the cake will cost you. Hopefully all your boxes have been checked and you are now ready to pay them a deposit. Most reputable bakers are booked up to six months in advance, sometimes even longer during the peak season, so once you have found someone who is a good fit, lock that cake maker in and get ready to have your guests coming back for seconds! ■
Victoria Greatrix is the owner of The Quintessential Cake, a premier cake studio specializing in designer cakes. With creative, hand-made designs and attention to detail, each cake is individually designed to reflect its clients’ unique style and taste, ensuring an edible piece of art that perfectly complements the aesthetic of the event and is ultimately a oneof-a kind centerpiece.
Greatrix is a graduate of the Institute of Culinary Education in New York City. Creating cakes is the perfect fit for Greatrix, as she gets to utilize her culinary skills while also nurturing her artistic side. She spends countless hours perfecting her recipes and flavor combinations, continually striving to further her skills. The Quintessential Cake’s philosophy is that — while cakes can be works of art — they should taste just as good as they look … or what’s the point?
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FIVE CHICAGOLAND CAKE ARTISTS WERE TASKED WITH CREATING A CAKE INSPIRED BY THE ESSENCE OF A SPECIFIC FLOWER. THE RESULT WAS A COLLECTION OF CAKES WORTHY OF THEIR OWN SPOT IN A FLOWER SHOP.
Lavandula (Lavender)
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Lavender symbolizes devotion and serenity and is well-known for its calming scent. Their clustered blooms are tiny individual buds, branching together to create a fragrant bunch. Bittersweet Pastry adorned their creation with buzzing hummingbirds, showcasing pollination and the beginnings of something new blooming.
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Hellebore is a flower associated with serenity and peace. Often this flower is seen as holding a calming air around it, sending a message of stillness in the chaos. This flower comes in many colors and petal/ leaf variations, giving it the flexibility to fit into different aesthetics. In capturing the essence of this bloom, Toni Patisserie chose to make the flowers on this cake out of wafer paper. The result showcased a translucent and airy quality reminiscent of the flower itself.
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The peony is one of the most common wedding florals for a reason. Symbolic of happiness, beauty and romance, this ravishing bloom is considered a good omen for a happy marriage ahead. ECBG Cake Studio played off of the signature texture and color tones of the peony to create a stately but feminine cake.
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Widely seen as a flower to celebrate life's precious moments with, the orchid symbolizes love, elegance and virility. Orchids are the epitome of grace and luxury, but also are resilient and durable. Beauty backed by strength is certainly a tenant to be embraced in wedding design. Showcasing this principle, Quintessential Cake handcrafted sugar orchids cascading down a sleek and dramatic silver-banded canvas.
BEST AVAILABILITY: Year-Round
Orchidaceae (Orchid) The Quintessential CakeLathyrus odoratus (Sweet Pea)
Creative Cakes Bakery
The sweet pea flower evokes bliss and symbolizes well wishes, kindness and friendship. The annual floral blooms in sprawling clusters, emitting a sweet fragrance widely desired for perfumes, candles and other home scents. Creative Cakes brought the delicate femininity of the sweet pea to life on a basket woven canvas, topped with climbing pink and purple buds.
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oho pampas grass or metallic opulence? Moody romance or vibrant jubilation? Neon signs or flickering candles? Deciding on your wedding aesthetic and theme can be daunting. There are so many directions to go in, and all of them are just as beautiful as the next! So how do you and your partner get started?
WRITTEN BY Amy Reifenstuhl, owner of Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor and Alexandra DillardPHOTOGRAPHY BY Photography By Lauryn
While many different themes you’ve seen on Pinterest look stunning, do they match who you are and your relationship? “Creating a personal and meaningful event, with special attention to detail that represents the couple is always my ultimate goal,” says Amy Reifenstuhl of Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor. Reifenstuhl has built her career around designing intentional and personalized events and knows how to translate facets of her clients into tangible scenes.
By defining your aesthetic early on in the planning process, you can communicate with your vendors more effectively and you are more likely to achieve the results you’re looking for. Let’s start by identifying your personal style with specific and descriptive words.
Reifenstuhl often asks her clients to complete the following exercise as a place to start:
List three to five words that describe the look and feel you’d like to create:
1. 2.
Example words:
Antique, Bohemian, Bright, Bucolic, Charming, Classic, Delicate, Earthy, Eclectic, Edgy, Ethereal, Fairy Tale, Glamorous, Global, Industrial, Light, Modern, Moody, Natural, Opulent, Organic, Playful, Preppy, Quirky, Regal, Rustic, Sleek, Sophisticated, Timeless, Traditional, Urban, Vintage, Whimsical
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Now list three to five words that describe the feeling and emotion you hope that your guests (and yourself!) come away with:
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5. 5.
Example words:
Awe, Bliss, Carefree, Celebratory, Charmed, Cheeky, Cheerful, Creative, Delight, Elevated, Enchanted, Energized, Euphoria, Festive, Fondness, Glee, Grateful, Happy, Hopeful, Inclusion, Inspired, Jovial, Joy, Jubilant, Lively, Loving, Merry, Passion, Playful, Refreshed, Romance, Sentimental, Serene, Support, Tender, Touched, Trust, Up, Warm
These choice words will help you and/or your designer establish an overarching concept prior to making any final selections like booking the venue, purchasing wedding attire, selecting florals or any other unique details.
wedding won’t look like, it’ll be easier to nail down how it will.
Note that the visuals and decor of a wedding set the tone for the overall ambiance of the event. Centerpieces of vibrant bird of paradise arrangements will evoke a much different feel than a round arrangement of pale pink roses. Both options are equally as lovely, but combining too many design styles will result in a disjointed environment. And that’s the last thing anyone wants on their day of bliss! A skilled decor vendor will be able to marry different visions together, so don’t worry if you and your partner have different ideas in mind.
Once this overall style is identified, the refining process begins naturally. Now your decorator has a definition of your big picture and will use their expertise to make it come to life. Reifenstuhl works hard to ensure that the event feels unified and intentional while also representing the couple and their wishes.
Speaking of the big picture … there are so many design ideas out there — but we don’t recommend incorporating them all! Cohesion is key. When determining your wedding
details, continuously refer back to your selected words and opt for what fits into that vision.
A wedding’s overall design aesthetic can come from paying respect to one’s family traditions and heritage, an extension of the couple's personal style or the desire to create an atmosphere that transports guests to another place. This overall aesthetic can be inspired by the couple’s interests, where/how they met and their goals for the future. Reifenstuhl notes that she even had a couple once draw inspiration from the architecture of the home they were building together! No inspiration point is too out-of-the-box to draw from. So when narrowing down what your wedding’s aesthetic will be, take these pieces of advice to heart and you’ll likely end up with something oh-so handsome. ■
PHOTOGRAPHY Photography By Lauryn WEDDING Jenna and Jason, April 30, 2022
PLANNING & DÉCOR Rustique Swan VENUE Harold Washington Library
FLORAL Aysel Cristian Floral Atelier
CALLIGRAPHY Jessica Draper Calligraphy
About the Author Tailored. Sophisticated. Elegant.
Amy Reifenstuhl is the owner and lead designer of Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor. Reifenstuhl’s aesthetic is driven by her unwavering belief that simple and beautiful always triumphs over the excessively ornate and complicated. Reifenstuhl’s design, styling and decor have served as the backdrop to countless weddings and special events, and her ability to tailor and style life’s greatest events with the utmost precision and care makes her an industry leader.
Located in Naperville, Rustique Swan is a boutique wedding and event company ready to personalize and customize your next event.
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• How would you describe your style of photography?
• Will you be shooting solo or will you have a second shooter/ assistant with you?
• What happens if the photographer is ill on the day of the wedding?
• What is included in your pricing tiers — albums, hours of coverage, pre-wedding events, engagement session, etc.?
• Do you offer a photo booth?
• Will we have the rights to the images? How and where can we use the images?
• Do you offer retouching services? How involved is your editing process?
• How long after the wedding will the photos be ready?
• Can we see a few full galleries from some of your recent weddings?
Selecting your wedding photographer can feel like a daunting task. The cake will be eaten, the dress will be worn, but the photos are what will last for years to come. As you search for your wedding photographer, start the process by determining what style of photography you want. Some photographers are able to shoot and edit in a number of styles, while others have one signature look. Whatever photographer you choose, you’ll want to be able to effectively communicate to them what style you’re looking for. Here are some popular photography styles for you to consider.
Traditional is a tried-and-true style of wedding photography. In this style, you’ll see lots of classic and posed shots, including family formals, group shots and portraits. Most of these shots are posed, to ensure the perfect frame. In this style, you’ll likely have a hands-on photographer who will guide and direct you as you pose — they know what they’re looking for and what works!
It is less common for an entire wedding to be shot in the black and white style, but photographers are incorporating many black and white shots into their albums. Taking away color, these images can either be bolder or quieter. Often, seeing an image in black and white can change the whole feel of it. Couples love this option because it is undeniably timeless and can be quite striking.
Documentary, also referred to as photojournalistic, is a popular photography style focusing on storytelling and unguarded moments. In this style, you’ll find lots of candid moments, showcasing the range of emotions a couple experiences on their wedding day. The results are authentic and capture not only how the day looks, but how it feels.
Dark and moody photography style emphasizes shadows and drama. Strategic beams of light contrasting with moody shadows capture tender moments. In this style, the photographer is looking to play with unique compositions and how lighting helps bring a scene together.
On the opposite end of the spectrum from dark and moody is the light and airy photography style. These images are romantic, pastel, organic and soft. The style often uses natural lighting and frames playing with composition and white space. The images have room to breathe and are timelessly fresh.
Editorial, also called fashion, wedding photography takes a page from traditional’s book, but with some added flair. Fashion style wedding photography is treated similar to an editorial photoshoot. The result is a luxury, chic collection of images fit for a magazine.
Film photography has withstood the test of time and isn’t going away! While the sharp and clean style of digital photography is appealing, film photography adds a soft, grainy flare to your day. Film is imperfect and because there are only so many frames on a roll, each image is more intentionally captured.
Direct flash photography is a new wave of wedding photography style that is sweeping the industry. This style nods to the nostalgia of 1990's childhood many couples experienced. This style is flirty and fun, blurring the lines between the modern age and a blast from the past. This style looks especially good on the dance floor and provides paparazzi-esque and crisp images.
HDR
HDR, or High Dynamic Range, photography captures several exposures of the same shot, as to create a dimensional and dramatic final outcome. Common characteristics of this style include rich saturation and contrasting colors, and special attention to post-production editing.
LANDSCAPE
When you have a venue or setting that is stunning, you want that captured as part of your day! For many couples, their venue is an important character in their wedding day and it should be captured as such! A landscape photography style is not necessarily its own style but rather an add-on to the rest of your wedding. So if you are wanting sweeping images, be sure your photographer knows! ■
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1. Determine your ideal photography style (as outlined on the previous pages).
2. Meet with several photographers to get to know them personally.
3. Ask for sample galleries to get a holistic picture — many photographers can get a few stunning shots, but you want to see the whole package!
4. Look at the various packages offered and weigh their costs and any additional fees.
5. Use them as your engagement photographer. This gets you comfortable around them and you won’t have a near-stranger
shooting some of your most romantic moments.
6. L ook at the photographer’s work versus your venue. Do they primarily have sweeping landscapes and outdoor ceremonies, but yours is indoors in an industrial venue?
7. Ask for referrals!
8. Trust yourself. You can’t re-do your photos, so if you are having any reservations, trust your gut! ■
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• How long will the video be? Do you also provide a highlight/ preview reel?
• Will you be filming alone or will you have a second shooter present?
• What is your typical turnaround time for delivering the video?
For many couples, photography is one of the most important aspects of their big day. Couples want to be wrapped up in the joy of the wedding festivities, but it is in the photographer’s hands to capture those moments. From pre-wedding primping to dancing the night away at the reception, it is important for these moments to be photographed just as you’ve dreamed.
A good wedding photographer typically has their own shot list, addressing shots they know are winners. But here are some tips on how to make sure you and your photographer are on the same page.
Did you create a specialty menu you want to be captured on film? Does the bouquet have family heirlooms incorporated? Every wedding is full of these special details that turn the event into your very own special day. Be sure to let your photographer know which important details of your day you'd like captured, they won’t know unless you tell them!
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If you have specific photos in mind that your heart is set on, be sure to let your photographer know. Compile a list of a few “must-have” shots so that the photographer knows how to prioritize their time. If having individual photos with each of your siblings or a dramatic sunset dip-and-kiss are important to you, make sure you communicate that.
Assign an attendant, family member or friend to be in charge of herding people for photos. This person can wrangle everyone needed for each group shot, saving time and ensuring no one is missing!
Your photographer knows what they are doing! They know what lighting, backgrounds and arrangements of
people look best on camera. Sometimes, they might even instruct you to do something that feels silly and unnatural, but trust them that it’ll look good. They want you to look good — it’s their job!
• Wedding attire hanging in your getting ready venue (hanging on a wardrobe, draped over a settee, backlit in front of a window, etc.)
• Wedding attire details (showing texture, buttons, beading, brand label, etc.)
• Stationery flat lay
• Flat lay including accessories like jewelry, shoes, heirlooms, stationery suite, perfume/cologne, florals, etc.
• Bouquet and boutonniere shots
• Detail of wedding rings together
• Candids of hairstyling and makeup application
• Final hair and makeup
• Parent or wedding party member helping the to-be-wed into their attire (zipping up a dress, placing a veil, tying a bow tie, attaching cufflinks, etc.)
• Putting on shoes
• Reflection in a full-length mirror once fully dressed and accessorized
• Solo portrait
• First look reveal with the wedding party and/or parents and family
• Toasting with the wedding party
• Gift giving and opening with the wedding party and special helpers
First Look
• Solo focus on each partner as they anticipate seeing the other
• One partner approaches the other from behind, tapping on the shoulder
• Turning around to see each other for the first time
• Close up reaction shots of couple’s faces
• Embracing
• Reading their wedding letters to each other
• Holding hands
• Posed couple portraits
Couple Portraits
*These can be taken before the festivities or during cocktail hour. It’s up to you and how you want to use your time.
• Individual portraits
• Smiling, looking at the camera
• Smiling, looking at each other
• Lovingly looking into partner's eyes
• Forehead to forehead
• Hugging or kissing
• Kissing on the cheek
• Kissing on the forehead
• Dancing together
• Walking towards the camera
• Walking away from the camera
• Partner twirls the other around
Ceremony
• Details of the empty ceremony site (reserved seating, altar decor, florals, candles, etc.)
• Guests arriving at their seats
• Ushers guiding guests to their seats
• Close-ups of each partner waiting for each other
• Immediate family members coming down the aisle
• Wedding attendants coming down the aisle
• Flower girl, ring bearer or honored pet coming down the aisle
• Wedding attendants lined up and waiting by the altar
• Partners individually coming down the aisle (with or without parents)
• Couple meeting face to face at the altar for the first time
• Officiant conducting the ceremony
• The audience from the couple's vantage point (shot from behind the altar)
• Each partner ’s face as they exchange vows
• Close up of rings being placed on each partner’s finger
• The first kiss
• Couple happily recessing back down the aisle as a married couple
• Couple exiting the ceremony venue
• Couple greeting and embracing guests outside the venue
• Signing the marriage certificate
Family & Wedding Party Photos
• The whole wedding party together
• The whole wedding party walking towards the camera, laughing
• Everyone joyously looking on as the couple kisses
• Just one partner and their attendants, then the other partner and their attendants
• Each partner with each individual member of their wedding party
• Each partner with their immediate family
• Each partner with their parents, then add in the other partner
• Each partner with their siblings, then add in the other partner
• Each partner with their grandparents, then add in the other partner
• Couple with both sets of parents
• Couple with ring bearer and/or flower girl
Reception
• Exterior of the reception site
• Empty, decorated reception site
• Table settings and floral arrangements
• Centerpieces
• Name cards, menu and signs
• Guest book and gift-receiving table
• Each appetizer
• Each course of the meal
• Custom drinks or bar menu
• Wedding party entering the reception with introduction
• The couple entering with fanfare
• The first dance as a married couple
• Dances with each partner’s respective parents
• Guests raising glasses for a cheers
• Guests conversing over dinner
• Couple at head table
• Parents’ table
• Each speechmaker
• Couple reacting to each speech
• Cake or dessert table
• Couple cutting the cake
• Feeding the cake to each other
• The band/DJ performing
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• Guests partying on the dance floor
• Parents dancing together
• Grandparents dancing together
• Couple leaving the reception
• Couple getting into the getaway car and departing ■
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• How much time will you need for setup and soundcheck?
• Do you have demos online where we can view your performances?
• How would you describe your signature sound?
• How do you feel about a request list? Can you include any song that is important to us?
• How extensive is your music library or song list?
• Will you help select songs for special moments like entrance, parent-child dances, etc.?
• How many breaks will you need? What music will be provided during the breaks?
• What kind of space or stage do you require for your services?
• What is your experience being the master of ceremonies (MC)?
• What is your strategy for keeping the dance floor lively?
• What do you typically wear when you perform?
• What are your power and amplifier requirements?
You’ve got the date, the venue, the wardrobe and your hype crew — next up: the soundtrack! For most couples, choosing songs for their wedding is either super exciting or very overwhelming, but it is an important step in creating a vibe and sound that makes your wedding unique to the two of you.
A great DJ/music consultant will give you steps to guide you along the way. At Elevated Events, we have blog posts and planning questionnaires to help couples no matter where they are on the music selection spectrum, from super-involved to “please-do-it-for-me.” Here are some of our tips for making your ultimate wedding soundtrack.
The rules are that there are no rules when it comes to your wedding, but if you’re looking for some guidance, here are some general things to consider.
• Keep a Spotify or Apple Music playlist (or a note on your phone) so that whenever you hear a song you both like, you can add it so you remember it.
• Create your list of “must-play” songs so that you’re sure to hear your absolute favorites.
• Create your list of “do-not-play” songs, so that you’re sure to avoid ones associated with bad memories, or that you just don’t like!
• Choose songs that are important to the two of you.
• Consider the event occurring (entrances, cake cutting, first dances) and be sure to pick a song that fits that specific moment.
• Think ahead: Is there a certain part of the song you want played at a particular moment? Things can happen quicker than we anticipate, so if there's a particular part of a song you want played during your unity ceremony, be sure to tell your sound operator during your planning sessions so that they can edit or cue up when appropriate.
• Throwing in songs you know are important or loved by your guests will help get them on the dance floor!
• If some songs don’t fit into the dancing portion of the evening, they can be used during dinner (or allocated to your ceremony soundtrack, too).
When it comes to planning music choices for those important reception moments, we look for songs that aren’t overused or too cliché. Here are some of our favorites:
For family members:
1. “Days Like This” by Van Morrison
2. “These Are The Days” by 10,000 Maniacs
3. “Beautiful Day” by U2
4. “You Make My Dreams Come True” by Hall and Oates
5. “Accidentally in Love” by Counting Crows
For wedding party:
1. “What is Love” by Haddaway
2. “Can’t Hold Us” by Macklemore & Ryan Lewis
3. “Wannabe” by Spice Girls
4. “Let’s Go Crazy” by Prince
5. “Let’s Dance” by David Bowie
For the couple:
1. “I Got You (I Feel Good)” by James Brown
2. “White Wedding” by Billy Idol
3. “Hooked On A Feeling” by Blue Swede
4. “You Really Got Me” by The Kinks
5. “Got To Get You Into My Life” by The Beatles
Cake cutting
1. “How Sweet It Is To Be Loved By You” by James Taylor
2. “Pour Some Sugar On Me” by Def Leppard
3. “Just Can’t Get Enough” by Depeche Mode
4. “Sugar ” by Maroon 5
5. “Sugar, Sugar” by The Archies
6. “Melt With You” by Modern English
7. “Love You Madly” by Cake
8. “I Can’t Help Myself (Sugar Pie, Honey Bunch)” by The Four Tops
9. “Cake by the Ocean” by DNCE
10. “Watermelon Sugar” by Harry Styles
Parent/relative/loved one dances
1. “Stand By You” by The Pretenders
2. “Beautiful Boy” by John Lennon
3. “My Wish” by Rascal Flatts
4. “Simple Man” by Lynyrd Skynyrd
5. “Humble and Kind” by Tim McGraw
6. “A Song For Mama” by Boyz II Men
7. “May Each Day” by Andy Williams
8. “Landslide” by Fleetwood Mac
9. “Wild World” by Cat Stevens
10. “Wildflowers” by Tom Petty
11. “Daughters” by John Mayer
12. “Across the Universe” by The Beatles
13. “Vienna” by Billy Joel
14. “You’ve Got A Friend” by James Taylor or Carole King
15. “Forever Young” by Rod Stewart
First dance
1. “Speechless” by Dan + Shay
2. “I Won’t Give Up” by Jason Mraz
3. “Wild Horses” by The Sundays
4. “Oh My Love” by John Lennon
5. “Heroes” by David Bowie
6. “Lover” by Taylor Swift
7. “Crash Into Me” by Dave Matthews Band
8. “XO” by John Mayer
9. “Love Like This” by Ben Rector
10. “Thinking Out Loud” by Ed Sheeran
Bouquet toss
1. “Addicted to Love” by Robert Palmer
2. “Venus” by Bananarama
3. “It’s Raining Men” by The Weather Girls
4. “Obsession” by Animotion
5. “Woman” by Kesha (Beware, it’s explicit but cheeky and a power song!)
6. “Gimme! Gimme! Gimme!” by ABBA
7. “Maneater” by Hall & Oates (the Miley Cyrus version is also a banger)
8. “Sisters Are Doin’ It For Themselves” by Eurythmics
9. “Love On Top” by Beyoncé
10. “PYT” by Michael Jackson
Garter toss
11. “Work It” by Missy Elliott
1. “Rebel Yell” by Billy Idol
2. “You Shook Me All Night Long” by AC/DC
3. “Sexyback” by Justin Timberlake
4. “Pony” by Ginuwine
5. “Wild Thing” by Tone Loc
6. “A Little Less Conversation” by Elvis
7. “Danger Zone” by Kenny Loggins
8. “Evil Woman” by ELO
9. “Touch Me” by The Doors
Party starters
1. “Twist and Shout” by The Beatles
2. “Can’t Stop The Feeling” by Justin Timberlake
3. “Levitating” by Dua Lipa
4. “Shut Up and Dance” by Walk The Moon
5. “About Damn Time” by Lizzo
6. “Don’t Stop Til You Get Enough” by Michael Jackson
7. “Mr. Brightside” by The Killers
8. “Brown Eyed Girl” by Van Morrison
9. “Happy” by Pharrell Williams
10. “I Love It” by Icona Pop
Slow songs that won’t clear the dance floor
1. “At Last” by Etta James
2. “Crazy for You” by Madonna
3. “Unchained Melody” by The Righteous Brothers
4. “Maybe I’m Amazed” by Paul McCartney
5. “Red Red Wine” by UB40
6. “These Arms of Mine” by Otis Redding
7. “Only You” by Yaz
8. “I Only Have Eyes For You” by The Flamingos
9. “God Only Knows” by The Beach Boys
10. “Wonderful Tonight” by Eric Clapton
The best songs to pack the dance floor
1. “Don’t Stop Believin’” by Journey
2. “Living On A Prayer” by Bon Jovi
3. “Everybody” by Backstreet Boys
4. “Shout” by The Isley Brothers
5. “Uptown Funk” by Bruno Mars
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8. “Love Shack” by B52’s
9. “I Wanna Dance With Somebody” by Whitney Houston
10. “Hey Ya!” by Outkast
Last Song
1. “Hey Jude” by The Beatles
2. “Closing Time” by Semisonic
3. “Last Dance” by Donna Summer
4. “Piano Man” by Billy Joel
5. “(I’ve Had) The Time of My Life” by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes
6. “Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)” by Green Day
7. “I Don’t Want This Night To End” by Luke Bryant
8. “Bohemian Rhapsody” by Queen
9. “All You Need Is Love” by The Beatles
10. “Tiny Dancer” by Elton John
Ready to put together your own playlist? Remember that the most important thing to consider is if the songs are important to you! As long as you feel connected to the music, we promise that it is the right choice. Want to make sure that your guests get on the floor? Consider adding a song request line to your RSVP card. Weddings that get guests from all generations on the dance floor are some of our favorites and they make the best memories. Make sure to have a mix of older and modern hits, upbeat and slow songs, and some classic wedding hits and we promise that your guests won’t stop dancing. ■
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Aly Heintz Raddatz is the Creative Director of Elevated Events, running the business alongside her husband, Patrick. With an extensive background in live and theatrical entertainment, Patrick and Aly realized the elevated service they could bring to wedding entertainment and decor services. Allowing the same online browsing and shopping experience you're used to, now for planning your wedding, with the highest level of professional-grade equipment and skill, award-winning Elevated Events brings a modern twist to a traditional industry. Elevated Events is a wedding entertainment and decor company, offering service to Illinois, and some parts of Wisconsin, Michigan and Indiana.
Editorials and styled visions are fun, but let’s see how it’s really done! These Chicago-area real weddings will inspire and excite, providing ideas you can incorporate into your own love story.
With help from the hotel’s staff and backed by a Taylor Swift soundtrack, Kevin proposed to Ashley on the terrace of The Peninsula Chicago. “You’re so gorgeous,” crooned the Taylor Swift song as Kevin dropped to one knee and presented Ashley with a dazzling ring and The Big Question. And thus, the hotel began its place in their marriage story.
Since childhood, The Peninsula Chicago has hosted many precious memories for Ashley and her family. The incredible service, beautiful spaces, attention to detail and Asian influence of The Peninsula drew the couple to the venue, and the proposal there made it even more of a perfect wedding venue.
As children of immigrant parents and immensely grateful for their sacrifices, Ashley and Kevin wanted to celebrate their cultures. “We wanted to make sure that beyond celebrating our life together and love for each other, that the joining of our families was a central theme of our wedding,” the couple shared. The result was a classic and timeless event, with pastel pinks, flowing champagne and a luxurious menu.
Carrying on with a traditionalmeets-contemporary vision, Ashley wore an elegant gown and veil by designer Mira Zwillinger from Ultimate Bride. According to the designer, Ashley was the first-ever real bride to wear this “Limka” gown.
Surrounded by family and loved ones, the couple emotionally exchanged vows. “I simply couldn’t keep it together realizing that I’d somehow gotten this beautiful, incredible woman to promise to spend the rest of her life with me,” says the groom. Does it get more romantic than that?
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 100
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
PHOTOGRAPHER: Louie Abellera Weddings
VIDEOGRAPHER: Codi Palm of Fig Media
VENUE: The Peninsula Chicago
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Anthony Gowder Designs
JEWELRY: James Allen
BRIDE’S GOWN: Mira Zwillinger via Ultimate Bride
BRIDE’S SHOES: Jimmy Choo
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Vintage Ralph Lauren Purple Label, BLVDier
GROOM’S SHOES: Alden 907 via Dashing Chicago
GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: BLVDier, Tiffany & Co.
BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Bella Bridesmaids
GROOMSMEN'S FORMALWEAR: Bonobos
HAIR & MAKEUP: Lia Rivette of Nika Vaughan Bridal Artists
STATIONERY: Quintessence Papers
CATERING: The Peninsula Chicago
ENTERTAINMENT: Brent Rolland of Fig Media
TRANSPORTATION: Windy City Limousines
When Devon first introduced herself to Ben at work, Ben was immediately intrigued. Ben grew up in Devon, England, which is the very place Devon was named after. He knew there was something special there, and after their first real conversations, he felt sure that she was “the one.” Fortunately for him, Devon felt the same way.
Chicago played such a big part in the pair’s relationship — it’s where they met, dated and fell in love. So naturally, the city was cast as a crucial character on their wedding day. World’s Fair Era Chicago was the main inspiration behind their planning. While the couple wanted a retro speakeasy vibe, they didn't want to take away from the natural beauty of the city. To let the city speak for itself, they kept their color palette neutral with black, muted fall and sand tones, and champagne.
Their ceremony on the Odyssey Chicago River gave guests a glimpse into the magic of the city, skyscrapers and all. Following the ceremony, the reception was held at the Mid-America Club, located on the 80th floor of the AON Center. Needless to say, the views were priceless and wholly “Chicago.”
With most of the reception’s decor being moody, their bright dance floor was an attention grabber. This large, monogrammed dance floor created a stark contrast to the rest of the decor, which thus served as a beacon to get guests gathered and dancing. There was nothing quite like celebrating the night away from 80 stories above the city Devon and Ben so love.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 250
GETTING-READY VENUE: Renaissance Hotel Downtown Chicago
CEREMONY VENUE: City Cruises’ Odyssey Chicago River
RECEPTION VENUE: The Mid-America Club
FLORAL: Flowers for Dreams
BRIDE’S CEREMONY GOWN: Enzoani
BRIDE’S RECEPTION GOWN: Sarah Seven
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Formally Modern Tuxedos
GROOM’S SHOES: Magnanni
HAIR: Lira Guzi Salon
MAKEUP: Makeup by Elizabeth
CATERING: The Mid-America Club
CAKE & SWEETS: Bittersweet Pastry Shop
ENTERTAINMENT: Toast & Jam
MUSICIANS: Moeller Music
LIGHTING: Elegant Event Lighting
PHOTOBOOTH: Hipstr
TRANSPORTATION: Absolute Dream Limousines
As many great modern romances begin, Whitnee and LaShena’s love story started with a Facebook inbox message. Once they broke the ice and began talking, the two became inseparable.
Both Whitnee and LaShena selfidentify as coming from humble beginnings and have worked their way into abundant adulthoods. They wanted their wedding to be a gift to their family and friends, and a testament to their successes. The wedding celebrated their love story, but also allowed the couple to invite their guests to a type of lavish event they’d never been to before. “Our wedding represented what two inner-city LGBTQ girls can do when love is on the menu,” says Whitnee.
The couple wanted their venue to have the rawness and grit of Chicago, but still match their elegant and regal vision. Wildman BT’s exposed brick walls, concrete flooring and polished details fit the bill.
It was no surprise that this stylish couple could have some jaw-dropping wedding attire. Whitnee wore a custom two-piece Esé Azénabor gown, embellished with hand-sewn Swarovski crystals for some extra dazzle. LaShena stunned in an ivory embossed tuxedo jacket with satin emerald lapels and pants. The tuxedo by Miguel Wilson Collection had special customization, as the lining was printed with a collage of the couple’s engagement photos.
Whitnee and LaShena wanted to showcase that luxury weddings aren’t just for celebrities. They can be for anyone, no matter their upbringing, personal style or beliefs. This certainly was a wedding that showcased just that, and did so with a lot of fun.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 150
EVENT PLANNER: Joy Jones Planning & Design Co.
PHOTOGRAPHER: Luis Alvarado, Carasco Associates
VENUE: Wildman BT
OFFICIANT: Ajna Surah
BRIDE’S GOWN: Esé Azénabor
BRIDE’S FORMALWEAR: Miguel Wilson Collection
JEWELRY: Diamonds on Wabash
HAIR: Crissy LaJoy Hair, Mike Moton
MAKEUP: M.A.S. Makeup Artistry, D’Andre Gross, Diamond Hearn
INVITATIONS & STATIONERY: MarryMeMagazines
CALLIGRAPHY: Calligraphy By CT
FLORAL: Brittney Kee Floral Design
LINENS: F&S Linens
PRODUCTION: A Posh Production
CATERING: Edible Passport
CAKE: Flourish Cake Design
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Storm
TRANSPORTATION: RC Luxury Transportation
VALET: V12 Parking
Car troubles are responsible for Brianna and Joe’s love story. On the way to a party of a mutual friend, Brianna’s car broke down and Joe — a stranger at the time — was deployed to retrieve her. The two clicked immediately and skipped the party to talk more. And the rest is history.
Before their glamorous October 2021 reception at The Palmer House, the couple married in an intimate backyard ceremony. Their wedding reception had been postponed due to the COVID-19 pandemic, but it was well worth the wait. To kick off the celebration, the couple played their wedding video to their guests before making their grand entrance into the reception. Even though many guests couldn’t be there for their backyard wedding, they still got the chance to witness the ceremony on film.
The Hollywood glam-themed wedding centered around a black and gold color palette with all white florals. Glowing candles illuminated the space softly, as the glitz of rhinestones and the glamour of white roses sang. The Empire Room at The Palmer House served as the perfect backdrop for this aesthetic. “We chose this venue because it took our breath away,” shared the bride.
A glittery vision in white, Brianna wore a Lazaro dress with a custom Lazaro overskirt. She purchased the dress from the famous Kleinfeld Bridal with designer Lazaro himself present. For Brianna, bridal and weddings are particularly special. As the owner of Every Kind of Beautiful, she is accustomed to making brides look and feel their best on their big day. Having her team by her side to do her own hair and makeup was a special touch to the already special day.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 180
PHOTOGRAPHER: Being Joy Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Emily Hogan Visuals
VENUE: The Palmer House
EVENT PLANNER: Be Gold Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR: A Thymeless Bloom
RINGS: Timothy Grant Jewelry
BRIDE’S GOWN: Lazaro via Kleinfeld Bridal
BRIDE’S SHOES: Christian Louboutin
GROOM'S FORMALWEAR: Formally Modern
GROOM’S SHOES: Louis Vuitton
BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Sorella Vita
HAIR & MAKEUP: Every Kind Of Beautiful
STATIONERY: K&M Printing Company
CATERING: The Palmer House
CHARCUTERIE: The Grazing Olive
CAKE & SWEETS: Allegretti’s Bakery
ENTERTAINMENT: Elevated Event Design
PHOTO BOOTH: Magic Moment Photo Booth
LIVE WEDDING PAINTER: Brush and Heart
When it came to wedding planning, Maja and Alex’s priorities were: 1. to marry each other with their loved ones around; and 2. for the whole celebration to feel true to them. With a limited “must-have” list and in reaction to the COVID landscape, the couple took the leap to get married only five months after their engagement.
Held at the Art Center in Highland Park, the wedding was intimate and unconventional by design. The couple surprised their guests by conducting their ceremony during the standing cocktail hour in the venue’s Fireplace Gallery. The groom’s sister officiated a sweet, sentimental ceremony under a wild floral canopy designed by Maison Du Prince.
Personal style and little surprises echoed throughout the day. Maja couldn’t decide between a dress or a jumpsuit, so she did both! She wore a fitted Rime Arodaky jumpsuit for the reception and a strapless Lihi Hod gown for the ceremony.
As a final surprise, Maja grabbed the microphone and sang “At Last” by Etta James (a nod to the couple’s seven years together). Their band, The Party Faithful, helped the bride plan this surprise and the outcome had everyone — especially Alex — floored.
The food and drink were intentionally customized as well. As a foodie and whiskey connoisseur, Alex worked with the chefs at Catering by Michaels to craft an experiential menu that reflected the couple’s love story. Foregoing a groom’s cake, Alex followed his passion and incorporated a whiskey bar composed of spirits he had collected over the years.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 100
PHOTOGRAPHER: Kristin Sweeting Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: With This Ring Videography
VENUE: The Art Center Highland Park
MONTH-OF COORDINATOR: Moore Fun Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Maison Du Prince
RINGS & BRIDE’S JEWELRY: Custom, by Georgeous Custom Jewelry Designs
BRIDE’S CEREMONY GOWN: Lihi Hod from Gilded Rose Atelier
BRIDE’S RECEPTION ATTIRE: Rime Arodaky
BRIDE’S ACCESSORIES: Birdcage veil from Gilded Rose Atelier, reception veil from BHLDN
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Canali from Avant for Men
GROOM’S SHOES: Jo Ghost
GROOM’S ACCESSORIES: The Tie Bar
BRIDE'S ATTENDANTS’ ATTIRE: Bridesmaids: Jenny
Yoo; Bridesman: Karl Lagerfeld
HAIR & MAKEUP: Coleen the Stylist from Solo Salon
GROOM S GROOMING: Barber Moose from Solo Salon
STATIONERY: Minted
CATERING: Catering by Michaels
SWEETS: Catering by Michaels
LATE-NIGHT SNACKS: Portillo's
ENTERTAINMENT: The Party Faithful of BeatMix Music
PHOTO BOOTH: In Light Photo Booths
TRANSPORTATION: VIP Valet Services
On a crisp March morning, Parthu planned an early morning date to Adler Planetarium to “watch the sunrise.” As the sun was peeking up from Lake Michigan, Parthu presented Anjali with a custom book and a question: “Will you marry me?” And Anjali said yes!
Anjali and Parthu’s shared cultural background was pervasive throughout their wedding. From the Garba to the Sangeet to the attire, their Indian heritage and Hindu religion were celebrated fully. The couple's shared passion for nature and sustainability was also at the forefront. The venue, Hyatt Lodge, provided a blend of lushness and modernity with the ease of on-site accommodations for guests. Amidst the green scenery, Anjali loved the venue’s nods to classic Chicago mid-century and prairie-style architecture.
Because of their sunrise engagement, the couple wanted their wedding’s color palette to invoke the dawn of their new chapter together. As it is traditional for Indian brides to wear a red lehenga, this color story came naturally. The sunny motif continued as Anjali's embroidered bridal lehenga was followed by a marigold Tarun Tahiliani concept saree for the reception.
The two love visiting art museums together, so inspiration from Van Gogh’s “Starry Night” transitioned the sunrise-influenced ceremony into an evening soiree. Traditional vegetarian dishes from the couple’s respective families’ regional tastes were served and speeches, dancing and laughter ensued. Altogether, the event was a perfect representation of the confidence, powerful presence and energy that first drew the couple to each other.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 140
PHOTOGRAPHER: Connie Marina Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Aria Fine Art Films
VENUE: Hyatt Lodge Oak Brook
EVENT PLANNER: Sabrina Hans Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Dream Occasions
WEDDING RINGS: Brilliant Earth, Andaaz Jewelers
BRIDE’S CEREMONY ATTIRE: Nazranaa Boutique
BRIDE’S RECEPTION ATTIRE: Tarun Tahilani
BRIDE’S JEWELRY: Blossom Box, Nazranaa, Andaaz Jewelers, and heirloom
BRIDE’S ACCESSORIES: Dareth Colburn
GROOM’S RECEPTION FORMALWEAR: Classic Tuxedo & Custom Clothing
BRIDESMAIDS’ ATTIRE: Maya’s Desi Boutique
HAIR: Christina Crosthwaite, Salon Hex
MAKEUP: Carrie Novak, Appease Inc.
HENNA: Mehandi, Hairstyle, Makeup by Neela
STATIONERY: Custom Invitations by Raniti
CATERING: Indian Harvest, Bowl O Biryani
CAKE & SWEETS: Creative Cakes Bakery
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Aladdin
Ten beautiful years together led up to the New Year’s Eve wedding of Kristina and Kyle. The couple held a timeless and sophisticated event with a lively dance party. Being on New Year’s Eve, the couple and their guests danced into the new year with fanfare ... and confetti!
As for the ceremony, Kristina grew up in the Greek Orthodox faith, so having a traditional Greek Orthodox wedding was important to her. Following the vows, the festivities began at Loft 21, which was the first and only venue they toured, as they immediately knew it was the one. The high ceilings, exposed brick and dramatic loft gave the grand feeling the couple sought.
One memorable twist came with their first dance. Guests celebrated cocktail hour on the venue’s upper level, closed off from views of the reception space below. Towards the end of the cocktail hour, the doors opened and guests were instructed to gather around the balcony. From below, Kristina and Kyle surprised everyone with a first dance on the main floor. Being alone down below while everyone watched from above gave their first dance an intimate feeling.
The rest of the evening was spent dining, drinking and dancing the night away. The Music Trust kept the dance floor packed and HYPE Productions’ floor sparklers were a cherry on top. The celebrations carried on into the night, including a New Year’s countdown celebrating both the start of 2022 and of their marriage.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 140
PHOTOGRAPHER: City Savvy Imaging
CEREMONY VENUE: St. Demetrios Greek Orthodox Church
RECEPTION VENUE: Loft 21
EVENT PLANNER & DESIGNER: Wedicity Wedding & Event Detailing
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Addison Ashland Floral & Decor
JEWELRY: Flaherty Jewelers
BRIDE’S GOWN: Adrianna Papell via Complete Bridal
BRIDE S VEIL: Symphony Bridal
BRIDE S SHOES: Christian Louboutin
BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Portia & Scarlett via Luxe Bridal
FLOWER GIRL DRESS: David’s Bridal
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Suit Supply
GROOM’S SHOES: Louis Vuitton, Off-White
GROOMSMEN’S FORMALWEAR: Formally Modern
HAIR: Alexa Grace Bridal
MAKEUP: Makeup By Sofia
STATIONERY: Erickson Designs
CHANDELIERS & DRAPERY: Elegant Event Lighting
FLOOR SPARKLERS & CONFETTI:
H.Y.P.E. Productions Inc.
CATERING & LINENS: Chef By Request
CAKE & SWEETS: Lezza Bakery
PHOTO BOOTH: Magic Moment Photo Booth
ENTERTAINMENT (DJ): The Music Trust
TRANSPORTATION: 312 Limousine
Shaun and Mark wanted a masculine, moody and vibrant celebration of their love. Both grooms have experience in weddings and design, so it was no surprise that this celebration was nothing short of breathtaking.
Shaun is a wedding DJ (Shaun Anthony Signature Entertainment), and he sees about 60 weddings a year. As a result, he already knew what elements he did and didn't want to incorporate. Mark added another expert eye, as he is an interior decorator and owner of Warehouse 55, an antique and home decor store. Together, this couple had the taste and tools to create the oncein-a-lifetime event they dreamed of.
The wedding had no specific color palette, but colors in all hues took center stage. Why narrow yourself to a few colors when you can incorporate so many? King proteas and a diverse selection of rose varieties were highlighted by extensive pin spotlighting and uplighting. Seven disco balls surrounded by live floral and greenery hung above the dance floor. Shaun loves disco balls, so Mark designed this special, show-stopping piece for them.
As residents and business owners in downtown Aurora, the couple felt strongly about supporting as many local Aurora businesses as possible. Wholly Aurora and wholly Mark and Shaun, this wedding was a lush and luxurious celebration.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 175
PHOTOGRAPHER: Kyle Petit Media
CEREMONY VENUE: New England Congressional United Church of Christ
RECEPTION VENUE: Society 57
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Blissful Blooms
DÉCOR: Satin Chair, Warehouse 55
ENGAGEMENT RINGS: Rogers & Hollands Jewelers
WEDDING BANDS: Southern Classic Jewelry
GROOMING: Amber Waves Art of Hair Salon
STATIONERY: Minted
CATERING: Reuland Food Services
CAKE: Monzù Bakery & Custom Cakes
SWEETS: Krispy Kreme
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Frankie Novak of
Signature Entertainment
Beneath a wrought iron gazebo and against a backdrop of glimmering water, Ericka and Terence “Terry” celebrated finding their forever partner.
The Odyssey Venue in Tinley Park supplied the sleek and refined splendor the couple was looking for. Intimate yet grand, the venue was a crisp background that allowed their black, white and red color palette to take center stage.
Ericka describes herself as “the diva — the classy and unexpected bride.” This wedding was both Ericka and Terry’s second marriage, so the couple wanted to really do things their way and to make a splash. They finally found their perfect match in each other and it was time to celebrate with flair.
In the spirit of doing something unexpected yet true to her personality, Ericka left visions of a white dress behind and decided to shine in red. With the help of designer Jasmine Dean, Ericka created a custom, show-stopping gown. The bride shocked everyone as she made her dramatic entrance, arriving in a white Rolls-Royce Phantom and stepping out in her vibrant scarlet dress. “Keeping the gown a secret was hard but well worth it once I saw the look on my guests’ faces, but also my husband’s. He always looks at me like I’m the only woman in the world, but this time he did with tears,” shared Ericka.
The groom also had his own dramatic touches. Terry loves classic cars and is a member of the Chicago Crossroads Corvette Club, so the club escorted him to the venue in a parade of 45 Corvettes.
Unapologetic, dramatic and unforgettable — Ericka and Terry’s wedding was everything they dreamed of and more.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 175
PHOTOGRAPHER: Darryl Hammond
VENUE: The Odyssey Venue
VIDEOGRAPHER: 312 Visuals
FLORAL: Kloeckner Preferred Flowers
DÉCOR: One Magic Moment
JEWELRY: Jewelers Row Chicago
BRIDE S GOWN: Custom, designed by Ericka Williams & Jasmine Dean
BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: House of Brides
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Black Tie Formalwear, South Holland, IL
HAIR: Lisa Combs
MAKEUP: Sheena Marie Beauty Studios
CATERING & CAKE: Milette’s Cakes
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Mankey
TRANSPORTATION: CelebLux Limos
Mari and Michael celebrated an evening of intimate reflection. Running with a whimsical, modern and completely unique vision, the couple incorporated influences of their favorite artists, vibrant colors and mirrors all about.
When planning, Mari was inspired by two of artist Yayoi Kusama’s works, her Infinity Mirrored Rooms and Narcissus Garden. The use of mirrors and chrome balls served as her interpretation of how Kusama uses repetition of mirrors in her work.
The couple wanted the moonlight that filtered through Morgan Manufacturing’s skylights to reflect onto their mirrored aisle and chuppah in an ethereal way. The chrome spheres and glimmering candles lined the aisle and illuminated statement florals in hues of pink, purple and blue.
In a sea of lush black velvet, vibrant florals and chrome reflections, the bride stood out in a custom Galia Lahav trumpet gown. Originally, the dress was two-toned, but Mari had it customized to be all white to make the gown and bouquet the only white components of the entire wedding.
Adding an extra sweet touch, the bride’s mother surprised the couple with a “human champagne wall,” in which servers stuck their hands through the draping to pass cotton-candy topped champagne flutes to guests.
Ceremony elements seamlessly transitioned into the reception, as floral centerpieces burst like fireworks. The couple and their guests were fueled by this atypical and vibrant surrounding and happily danced the night away until the early hours of 3:30 a.m.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 400
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.PHOTOGRAPHER: Tim Tab Studios
VENUE: Morgan Manufacturing
VIDEOGRAPHER: Xpress Video Productions
PLANNER: So Stacy Events
ENGAGEMENT RING: Miles Goldberg Diamond Corporation
WEDDING RINGS: CY Fredrics
BRIDE’S GOWN: Galia Lahav
BRIDE’S SHOES: Stuart Weitzman
FORMALWEAR: Loro Piani Tuxedo via Knot Standard
GROOM’S SHOES: Dolce and Gabbana
HAIR: Ashley Young
MAKEUP: Suzanne Avakian
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Epic Events
STATIONERY: Invitation Creations
CATERING: Entertaining Company
CAKE & SWEETS: Cake Chicago
ENTERTAINMENT: The Chicago Players
DJ: The Diamond Event Group
Timeless. Memorable. Exceptional. The list of adjectives could go on when describing Ashley and Hunter’s wedding. Held at a private estate in Hoffman Estates, the suburb took a page from Hollywood’s book to host this celebrity-grade wedding.
Ashley and Hunter met while in college at Texas Christian University. Their friendship turned into a relationship, and that bond was made stronger by their mutual relationship with God. Their wedding ceremony and communion were led by their college pastor, someone who helped them grow together throughout the beginning of their partnership. For the couple, it was extremely important to have their relationship with God brought forth in the ceremony.
After the vows were exchanged and their oath to each other began, the celebration kicked off. The couple wanted their wedding to be one-ofa-kind and original, but still elegant and timeless. The pink and black color palette was initially a step out of their comfort zone, but once it came together it was stunning. Lots and lots of decadent florals were a priority and Avant Gardenia made sure that came to life. Accentuated by gold, mirrors and crystals, the whole event was glamorous and right out of a movie.
After running through a sparkler aisle created by all 250 of their guests, the couple surprised everyone with a spectacular fireworks show. As the sky lit up, Ashley and Hunter ran into the horizon for a romantic moment with just each other.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 250
PHOTOGRAPHER: Robert Evans Studios
VIDEOGRAPHER: Paul Ahrens Cinema
VENUE: Private property in Hoffman Estates
EVENT PLANNER & DESIGNER: Exceptional Events by Shuki Moran
FLORAL: Avant Gardenia
JEWELRY: New York Jewelers
BRIDE’S GOWN: Veiled in Elegance
BRIDESMAIDS’ DRESSES: Revelry
HAIR: Mixology Salon Spa
MAKEUP: Wendycityfaces
STATIONERY: LullaBelle Design
CALLIGRAPHY: Jessica Draper Calligraphy
DÉCOR RENTALS: Tablescapes; Elegant Presentations; Nüage Designs; Northern Décor Inc; Ellie & Rose
TENT: Blue Peak Tents
AV & DRAPING: MDM Entertainment
CATERING: Truffleberry Market
FOOD TRUCK: Lucky Burger & Grill
CAKE & SWEETS: BellaRose Sweets
CEREMONY MUSIC: Alex Murphy Jazz
ENTERTAINMENT: Andy Lysaker, Amp
Event Professionals
TRANSPORTATION: ChiTown Party Bus; Chicago
Motor Coach; Access Global
VALET: Silver Crown Valet
FIREWORKS: Mad Bomber Fireworks
Dripping in crystal chandeliers, pink roses and outdoor luxury, this wedding was brought to life by the creative expertise of Exceptional Events by Shuki Moran. As any experienced planner knows, the best events often come from clients who put their full trust in their planner’s vision. Ashley and Hunter did just this and allowed the Exceptional Events team to run with no limitations.
The wedding was held at a private equestrian resort rather than a conventional venue, so the team at Exceptional Events created everything from the ground up. The couple loved the location’s natural scenery and the planner loved that he could create a wholly personalized event. With a traditional venue, couples are somewhat limited by the existing decor and amenities, but a private residence wedding allowed for an extra wow factor to be achieved.
Having produced some of the most iconic celebrity events from his days in Los Angeles, Moran executed this wedding’s planning no differently. With this open-minded couple and an excellent team of vendors, a once-in-a-lifetime event came to life.
2023 Deluxe Edition of Chicago Style Weddings! On the pages leading up to this, you’ve seen some dazzling designs, amazing dresses and lots of ideas to make your special day one-of-a-kind. However, there is much more we want to share with you, that you’ll now find in the following pages of this deluxe edition. Everything from new bridal fashion trends for 2023, to helpful tips for updating documents after a name change, to more Real Wedding spotlights from local couples. We simply could not wait for our next issue to share all of these amazing ideas with you! And if you still are in need of more inspiration, visit us at chicagostyleweddings.com, as well as our Instagram, Pinterest and Facebook pages.
GOWN Mira Couture custom by Julie Mersine JEWELRY Rogers & Hollands HAIR JuanJose Herrera / Hair by JuanJose MAKEUP Aga Rhodes / Bridal by Aga LOCATION Celeste PHOTOGRAPHY Lisa Blume PhotographyS-6 Trend Report
S-10 The It Girl
S-18 Mrs. Who?
S-22 With Gratitude
S-24 Want a Happy Marriage? Take a Honeymoon
S-28 Q&A: Wedding Gown Preservation
S-32 Home Made
S-34 What To Do With Wedding Photos
S-36 Give My Compliments To The Chef
S-38 Happily Ever After: Navigating Prenuptial Agreements
S-48 Kailee & Joey
S-50 Jill & Ashley
S-52 Kara & Mrig
S-54 Kenny & Brad
Resources
S-1 Introduction to the Deluxe Edition
S-2 About the Covers
S-43 Celebration Locations
Ceremonies & Receptions
S-45 Prelude to the Party Rehearsals, Brunches & Events
March/April
GOWN Mira Couture; Allison Webb
FORMALWEAR Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits
JEWELRY Rogers & Hollands
HAIR JuanJose Herrera / Hair by JuanJose
MAKEUP Aga Rhodes / Bridal by Aga
CAKE ECBG Cake Studio LOCATION Disco Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHY Lisa Blume Photography
May/June
GOWN LBR Bridal; Eva Lendel
JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
HAIR & MAKEUP WarPaint International LOCATION Wildman BT
PHOTOGRAPHY Stephanie Wood Photography
July/August
GOWN Mira Couture; Kim Kassas Couture
JEWELRY Versace
HAIR JuanJose Herrera / Hair by JuanJose
MAKEUP Aga Rhodes / Bridal by Aga
LOCATION Beatnik West Town
PHOTOGRAPHY Lisa Blume Photography
REHEARSAL DINNERS
AVAILAB LE LOCATIONS
Capes are the new veil. As wedding day festivities progress, these dramatic pieces can be removed to reveal an ensemble change. In the same vein, other detachable pieces like overskirts, boleros, bows, sleeves and shrugs are just as fun.
The age of the party dress is back and festive feathers are along for the ride. Feather detailing moves like a dream, whether floating down the aisle or swaying on the dance floor.
Pastel shades of pink, blue and lilac have taken over. Rather than a white garment, this color palette sprinkles in some femininity without straying too far from tradition.
Opera gloves and similar styled above-the-elbow accoutrements bring an Old Hollywood flair to wedding style. Whether intricate lace, traditional satin or hand-beaded embellishments, the variety of options make this trend surprisingly versatile.
“Isabelle” by Dreams by Lihi Hod “Rowan” by RIVINI by Rita Vinieris “Wessex” by Anne BargeTodescribe the Chicago bride is to rattle off an adjective soup in vain. Because what makes her her cannot be pinned into explanation, she just has it. She doesn’t need to define herself with fashion trends or aesthetic boxes, she makes a name for herself by just being present.
So when the It Girl falls in love and decides to wed, the Chicago streets welcome her in. When it comes to wedding planning, there’s no reason to look beyond Chicago’s graffitied alleys and remnants of World’s Fair charm for inspiration.
The It Girl bride is playful, vibrant and a purveyor of fine things — and her wedding matches. “The 2023 bride is the epitome of the modern woman,” mused stylist Catherine Vreeland of Mira Couture. “She is a cool girl, intelligent, confident, electric and, of course, stylish.”
The Windy City’s home run roster of vendors and artistry energizes. Skipping through West Town in eclectic couture pieces, come step into the world of our It Girl bride.
RIGHT (TOP)
LOCATION Celeste
JUMPSUIT & CAPE Mira Couture; Kim Kassas Couture
JEWELRY Rogers & Hollands
FORMALWEAR Nicholas Joseph
Custom Suits
FLORAL Taylor & Co Events
DÉCOR Kenzy Gifts
STATIONERY Emily Baird Design
RIGHT (BOTTOM LEFT & RIGHT)
LOCATION Beatnik West Town
FLORAL Taylor & Co Events
TABLETOP DÉCOR Kenzy Gifts
STATIONERY Emily Baird Design
RIGHT (BOTTOM CENTER)
LOCATION Beatnik West Town
GOWN Mira Couture; Allison Webb
JEWELRY Rogers & Hollands
FLORAL Taylor & Co Events
OPPOSITE
LOCATION Celeste
GOWN Mira Couture custom by Julie Mersine
JEWELRY Rogers & Hollands
FORMALWEAR Nicholas Joseph
Custom Suits
ABOVE & RIGHT LOCATION Disco Chicago | GOWN Mira Couture; Allison Webb
SHOES Versace | JEWELRY Rogers & Hollands | FORMALWEAR Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits | CAKE ECBG Cake Studio
LOCATIONS Beatnik West Town, Celeste, Disco Chicago, Duk’s Red Hots
PHOTOGRAPHY Lisa Blume Photography | PLANNER The Gilded Aisle
STYLING Mira Couture | HAIR JuanJose Herrera / Hair by JuanJose
MAKEUP Aga Rhodes / Bridal by Aga | JEWELRY Rogers & Hollands
ACCESSORIES Versace | FLORAL Taylor & Co Events | GOWNS Mira Couture
FORMALWEAR Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits | RENTALS & DÉCOR Kenzy Gifts
CAKE ECBG Cake Studio | STATIONERY Emily Baird Design | MODELS One Management Chicago
To see more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/fashion-feature.
Starting your new life as a married couple comes with many exciting changes. One of the biggest changes is a new identity (so to speak). Let’s not make the assumption that everyone who gets married changes their last name. In fact, data analytics show that about 20-30% of women keep their maiden name after marriage. But that does leave 70-80% of newlyweds who do take their partner’s last name upon marriage. While the origins of taking your partner’s last name are admittedly outdated, the sentiment behind the practice remains. Many couples like having the same last name, as it makes them feel more unified. Other couples like the idea of creating a singular identity for when they plan to add children to their family. Others might just not like the sound of their maiden name! And every reason is perfectly valid and a good enough reason to take part in this age-old tradition. While this administrative, post-wedding task isn’t as fun as opening gifts or getting your wedding photos back, it is important that you do it correctly. To ease this daunting task, we’ve compiled a guide on how to legally change your last name in the state of Illinois.
RACHAEL SCHIRANO PHOTOGRAPHYand its copies are issued directly from the county and will have special seals that verify its authenticity. These embossed seals mean you can’t just make your own copy.
Not sure how many copies to order? Three to five is a good starting point, but don’t stress; if needed, you can simply order more copies down the road.
Cost: In Cook County, a certified legal copy of marriage records is $15 and $4 for each additional copy.
Reporting the change to the Social Security Administration (SSA) is the gateway to the name change process. This step is required before changing your name on anything else. You can do this either by mail or in person, but there’s no way to complete the process online. Why is this the crucial first step? Your SSA record is linked to your identity in the eyes of every federal and state entity. To change your name on anything official, it needs to match up with your SSA record. To get started, there are three steps:
*Disclaimer: These requirements are subject to change from institution to institution. Please be sure to confirm with each sector.
The first step in legally changing your name is physically obtaining your marriage certificate. It’s important to note that your marriage certificate is not the same as your marriage license. Your marriage license serves as proof of eligibility to marry, while the marriage certificate is the official documentation that your marriage occurred. So before moving on to any name-change tasks, you’ll need your county clerk’s office certified marriage certificate. Typically, you’ll receive this two to four weeks after your wedding. Even if you don’t decide to change your name, having multiple, certified copies of your marriage certificate is a good idea. You can purchase certified copies in advance when you first apply for your marriage license. This is a good idea, as you’ll already have it paid for and you can receive the certificate and certified copies all at the same time. Your official certificate
1. Ensure you have the following documents: one form of a valid photo ID, original or certified copy of your marriage certificate (no photocopies!) and proof of U.S. citizenship. For each document, you need to provide either the original document or a certified, government-issued copy.
2. Once your identification documents are in hand, you’ll need to fill out Form SS-5 (the application itself for a social security card). You can download the form from ssa.gov . Be sure to sign with your new name!
3. Lastly, you must submit your application. To do this, locate the closest SSA office by searching your ZIP code at ssa.gov/locator . Once you’ve found the most convenient location, you can either mail your application and documents to that SSA office or you can visit in person. We recommend doing this step in person to avoid mailing sensitive documents that you want to keep on-hand (like your driver’s license).
Once these steps are complete, you’ll receive your new SSA card in the mail in 10-14 business days (along with your documents — if you mailed them in).
Cost: None
After you’ve received your new Social Security card, it’s time to update your driver’s license or state ID. For this step, you will need to go in-person to your local Secretary of State facility (yes, the DMV). Visit ILSOS.gov to find one convenient to you. One reason you need to do this process in-person is because you have to turn in your old license/state ID and provide acceptable new identification. When applying for an updated license/
state ID, be sure to bring along your new Social Security card, current driver’s license/state ID and certified marriage certificate.
The best part? No waiting! Your new driver’s license will be issued the same day you go in and apply. Don’t forget to prepare for the photo!
Cost: $5-$10
In Illinois, once your driver’s license
name is changed, you are also required to change the name on your vehicle’s title and registration. So this is your next step!
To complete this, you have to either visit an Illinois Secretary of State office or mail in the required paperwork. If you’re going in person, you’ll need to bring along a completed and printed “Application for Vehicle Transaction” (aka VSD 190 ), which you can find at ILSOS.gov/departments/vehicles/ title_and_registration . On this form, select the “Corrected Title” option and complete the form. If possible, you might want to get this step done the same day as your driver’s license update. Be prepared to provide your odometer reading, existing Illinois vehicle title and your signature.
Cost: $15 (with certified marriage certificate) or $95 (without marriage certificate)
If you don’t have a passport already, you can skip this step — or go ahead and apply for a passport for the first time! However, if you’re looking to update your name on an existing passport, here’s what to do.
You can either complete this process in person at a Passport Acceptance Facility (find a location at: iafdb.travel.state.gov ) or by mail.
Depending on how old your passport is, there will be a different application you’ll need to complete. All of these forms can be found at eforms.state.gov
• If your passport was issued more than a year ago, you’ll complete DS-82.
• If your passport was issued less than a year ago, you’ll complete DS-5504.
• If your passport was issued more than 15 years ago, or when you were under 16, you’ll complete DS-11.
In addition to the application form, you will need to provide your current U.S. passport and a certified copy of your marriage certificate.
And of course, you’ll need an updated color photo for this application. If you’re applying in person, the facility can take your photo.
But if you are mailing in, you’ll need to follow the U.S. Department of State’s guidelines. You can take the photo yourself, but we recommend you get an official photo taken at a business like The UPS Store. Walgreens, CVS or Walmart. This will ensure the photo checks all the necessary boxes. Basic requirements can be found on the U.S. Department of State’s website.
Once all the required elements are submitted, you will get your new passport in the mail. The timeline for this varies widely, so be patient!
Cost:
$140 for a passport book and card
$110 for a passport book
$30 for a passport card
$0 for existing passports less than a year old
It goes without saying that voting is important! You’ll want to make sure your voting registration is updated to match your new name.
Head to ova.elections.il.gov and
click the link “Update an Existing Registration.” Follow the instructions and you’re all set! Be prepared to provide the following information: Illinois Drivers License or Illinois State ID number, license/ID issue date, last four digits of your social security number and your birthdate.
Now that all of the government-related steps are complete, it’s time to change your name on personal accounts. First up, we recommend you change your name at your bank or credit union. In instances where businesses might ask for two forms of ID, your new license and a credit/debit card are often checked together, so you’ll want them to match!
To change the name on your account(s), most banks require you visit a physical branch office with your photo ID and a certified copy of your marriage certificate. While doing this, you can request new debit cards or checks and get it all done at once. However, if you don’t live near
your bank branch or you use remote banking, going to an office might not be possible. Each institution will have a variation of the in-person method. Call the customer support phone number on the back of your card to check and see what their process is.
And lastly, it’s time to update everything else! This includes everything from your social media accounts to your health insurance.
After a few months you’ll probably still be finding accounts out there with your old name, and that’s OK! You’d be surprised just how many places have your name on file. No sweat, you can just change them as you come by them.
Common accounts to get you started include: Home mortgage or rental lease, utilities, mobile plan, internet, pharmacies, medical providers, professional certifications, online subscriptions, investment accounts, loyalty programs (airlines, hotels, etc.) and social media accounts. ■
Thank-you notes can be time-consuming, so I recommend couples send them out as they receive gifts, even if it is before the wedding. A timely thank-you note lets the gift giver know their gift made it to the recipient and was appreciated. They aren’t left guessing if their card and check got lost in the mail or if the gift made it to the gift opening. Sending right away also means fewer thank-yous to write post-wedding. While some etiquette says you have up to a year to send your thankyou notes, I think it is impolite to wait that long. I tell couples they have three months, so plan accordingly!
I recommend dividing and conquering the thank-you notes. Do them in small batches once a week for a couple of weeks and they will be done before you know it. Some couples find it useful to divvy up notes by who knows the gift giver. That allows you to personalize the note a bit more.
Once you’ve settled back into “real life” post-wedding, there’s one wedding task that lingers still: writing thank-you notes.
You’ve just had the wedding of your dreams surrounded by some of your favorite people, many of which showered you with generous gifts. How can you ever properly express your gratitude? It might seem like a small gesture, but hand-writing personalized thank-you notes goes a long way. Good, old-fashioned thank-you notes are greatly appreciated, whether you received a gift in the form of an item, money or the presence of someone.
As a starting point, we asked industry professionals what their rules of thumb are for sending thank you-notes.
Thanking your guests should not be just about a physical gift that was given, but also the time your guests spent celebrating this milestone with you. For example, if your guests had to travel to attend your wedding, that should be acknowledged.
If the guests did give a physical item or monetary gift, it is often nice to share with your guests how you plan to utilize the gift to further show your appreciation. For example, “Thank you for the beautiful crystal bowl. It will look so lovely on our holiday table for years and years to come!” You could also show gratitude toward monetary gifts by saying, “Your generous gift will be put toward a china cabinet that will hold our family heirlooms. We can’t wait to show you when you visit us!”
Take the time to handwrite your message, if you can, because a handwritten note is another special way to show your loved ones that your message of gratitude is personalized just for them.
While many couples like to send their thank-you cards on stationery made with a wedding photo, it is not worth delaying writing your thank-you notes just to get your pictures back. We recommend making your stationery suite before the wedding so you can knock out your thank-you notes as soon as possible.
Nora Sheils Co-Founder, Rock Paper Coin; Founder, Bridal BlissMy thank-you hack is to purchase flat cards (not folding). Ideally, there is a monogram, name or “thank you” printed on top to take up a bit of space. The white space to fill in will be minimal so a few sentences will go a long way! Much better to have a filled card than a folding note that looks empty with the same amount of verbiage. ■
THE POST-WEDDING TRADITION OF A HONEYMOON IS A PRIVILEGE MANY COUPLES CHOOSE TO EXPERIENCE. WITH EVIDENCE PROVING THAT HONEYMOONING AND TRAVELING CREATE HAPPIER MARRIAGES, WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR? BOOK THAT ROMANTIC GETAWAY!
WRITTEN BY Honeyfund and Alexandra DillardThe utterance of the word “honeymoon” conjures visions of limbs intertwined in the sand, couples massages at sunset and clinking Mai-Tai glasses. If this sounds like a luxury, it’s because it is! The benefits of taking a honeymoon are great, as we will outline here shortly, but there’s an elephant in the room. Household income plays a natural part in who can afford to take a honeymoon — and since 92% of couples pay for their honeymoon on their own, heavy barriers emerge.
When discussing honeymoons, two factors rise to the top: the marital benefits and the financial costs. To address both of these subjects, we turned to none other than Honeyfund and its CEO and co-founder, Sara Margulis. If there’s anyone who knows about honeymooning and funding a honeymoon, it’s Sara!
Honeyfund is an online honeymoon registry that allows friends and family to contribute towards your dream honeymoon. The registry is broken into specific wishes, just like a traditional registry’s list of physical items. But instead of deciding between a set of wine glasses or an espresso machine, Honeyfund gift givers can give a plane ticket, guided tour or surf lessons, for example. Couples and gift givers are then connected in a special way, as the gift giver knows what part of the honeymoon they are contributing to.
The birth of Honeyfund came when its co-founders, Sara and Josh Margulis, were
engaged and planning their own wedding. They had a dream of honeymooning somewhere exotic and far away, but after paying for their own wedding, they didn’t have the funds. Instead of registering exclusively for traditional housewares, the couple created a makeshift wishlist for the costs associated with their Fiji honeymoon — things like excursions, resort nights and island-hopping flights. And their guests loved it! The couple was overwhelmed with more than $5,000 in contributions. This seemed to be something people wanted and enjoyed, and thus Honeyfund was born.
After the hustle and bustle of the wedding planning and the big day itself, couples need to “exhale” for a bit — so the honeymoon acts as a reset before jumping into married life. “It’s time to bond, create a vision for the future and start some ‘honeymoon habits’ — skills that serve the longterm marriage,” shares Margulis. These habits can be activities like taking a walk together, hosting an evening touch base or ensuring time for intimacy. Honeymoons provide a lot of quality time together, which is so important to the beginning stages of marriage.
Spending quality time with your partner is one of the most important things you can do for a happy marriage — and it’s
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the No. 1 reason people travel with their partner, according to Honeyfund’s data. In a survey of 1,000 married Americans, Honeyfund discovered that of those who rated their marital satisfaction as “excellent,” 84% of them also travel regularly. In fact, upwards of 90% of couples who have taken three or more romantic trips since their honeymoon rate their relationship as “good” or “excellent.” On the other hand, out of the couples who rated their marital satisfaction as “not so good,” 78% do not travel regularly.
The top reason couples travel is to spend quality time together. These numbers show that honeymooning, coupled with travel in general, might just be the key to a lasting marriage. “Once couples have had that experience, they might prioritize future travel when they need time together to focus on their relationship,” says Margulis.
Couples who don’t go on a honeymoon cite finances and trouble getting time
Sarah and Ray got married on September 10, 2022 in Elburn, but their celebrations were far from over. Awaiting them was an exquisite Mediterranean cruise honeymoon. By utilizing Honeyfund’s registry, the couple was able to have a once-in-a-lifetime experience. Here’s what the couple had to say.
What did you do with your Honeyfund?
For our honeymoon we did a Mediterranean cruise. We used the Honeyfund money to pay for our excursions for our cruise.
How was having a honeymoon important to your new marriage?
The honeymoon was the perfect time to celebrate our marriage with just the two of us. On your wedding day you are running around trying to entertain your guests and hardly get time for just the two of you. This was that time for us.
Why did you use a honeymoon registry?
We wanted to show our friends and family where we were going and what the money would be going to. We shared pictures with them throughout our honeymoon to show them what their contribution paid for, and it was really special.
What did your guests think of this registry option?
They loved it. They thought the website was user friendly and liked the page on the website we made. We are people who would rather have an experience than a gift, and our guests thought it was a special way to honor that while also celebrating in our marriage.
off of work as the top reasons. Many couples are at risk for these factors depending on their education level, income and even state of residence.
Given the importance of a honeymoon to the relationship, Honeyfund’s mission is to help all couples go on a honeymoon, with the help of friends and family. If you have enough kitchen utensils and bedroom linens, consider requesting a contribution to a Honeyfund. The connections and foundation you build honeymooning set up a marriage to last longer than any monogrammed towel set.
Don’t let funds be what’s holding you back from planning the honeymoon of your dreams. The size, timeframe and extravagance of your honeymoon are not as important as the plan to take one. You can dream big with an all-inclusive Cancun vacation, opt for a quiet weekend in a cozy cabin or even indulge in a staycation at a local hotel or resort, just don’t overlook the impact a romantic getaway can have! No matter where your honeymoon is, remember to treasure the sacred beginnings of your marriage. It just might be the key to everlasting bliss. ■
About the Contributor
Sara Margulis is the CEO and co-founder of Honeyfund. Sara drew from her background in digital marketing to launch Honeyfund in 2006. Now as CEO of the popular honeymoon registry service, Sara is ushering the company into its next phase as a life-long funding site where couples can receive the support of friends and family for all of life’s milestones and mishaps.
Sara’s winning appearance on Shark Tank in 2014 and partnership with Kevin O’Leary (“Mr. Wonderful”) propelled her into regional, national and international media. She’s sought as an expert on a variety of topics including weddings and honeymoons, crowdfunding, personal finance, entrepreneurship and women in business.
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Let us craft the perfect package for your destination wedding in beautiful Savannah. With care from our experienced wedding team, all the details of your celebration will come together seamlessly. Picture-perfect venues, unforgettable scenery, world-class catering, relaxing amenities, and exceptional accommodations, all in one inclusive package, just for you.
The wedding dress shopping process and purchase is frequently one of the most magical parts of the wedding planning process. But after the vows are said and the reception dance floor is empty, what happens to this beloved dress?
Just as you saved memories with beautiful photography and videography, don’t forget to properly preserve this part of your wedding day as well. Step one of that process begins here. We spoke with Jonathon Reckles, VP of Marketing at CD One Price Cleaners, to answer questions surrounding wedding gown preservation.
Why is it important to professionally clean and preserve my wedding dress?
There are many reasons to preserve your wedding dress. First, you want to ensure you are getting the dress clean after the wedding, otherwise soils and stains may set in, causing lasting harm. By preserving your dress, you are also preventing the buildup of browning, yellowing and fading. More importantly though, you want to preserve the memories of your wedding day and you may even want to pass the dress down to a future generation to enjoy. At CD One
Price Cleaners, we want you to be able to remember your special day every time you look at your perfectly preserved wedding dress or gown.
What does the cleaning and preservation process entail?
Each gown is pre-inspected for any damage, including rips, tears, stains, oxidation, etc. Then, notes are detailed and we notify our spotter about what to look for and what processes and stain removal techniques will be used for the best cleaning results possible. After getting either dry cleaned
INTERVIEW BY Alexandra Dillard ALISHA TOVA BACKGROUND IMAGE RACHAEL SCHIRANO PHOTOGRAPHYor wet cleaned (depending on the dress make up), the dress then goes through a thorough inspection to verify that all soil and stains are removed. Each gown is then ironed by hand or by finishing equipment designed for optimal results. And finally, after getting inspected once more, the gown is carefully placed into one of our custom boxes using a bust form and ribbons to keep the gown in place. We then shrink wrap and heat seal the box to ensure no moisture gets in over time, which will prevent future problems like yellowing or oxidation.
What is the difference between wedding dress preservation and standard dry cleaning?
Normal dry cleaning processes do not properly preserve a wedding dress or gown. Cleaners must use a specialized, oxygen-free and moisture-free method, depending on the dress type. So when looking for cleaners to preserve your wedding gown, ensure they are using an oxygen-free and moisture-free method!
How are stains addressed?
All garments are pre-inspected for stains
and all stains are addressed according to the nature of the stain (water based, solvent based, protein based, etc.). We are experts in stain removal and know the right technique for almost every type of stain.
How soon should I preserve my wedding dress?
A dress should be cleaned as soon as possible after the wedding to prevent soil or stains from setting. That being said, it’s always better late than never!
How long does a wedding dress preservation last? Will I need to get it redone down the road?
Wedding gown preservation should last a lifetime. Unless the seal is disturbed and the box or dress is exposed to light, oxygen or moisture, the life of the process should be lasting.
Once I drop my dress off, how long does it take you to preserve it and return to me?
With us, it will typically take between one and two weeks to preserve your wedding gown.
How do I decide where to take my dress to be cared for and preserved?
Do your research. Understand what techniques the vendor is using to clean and preserve the dress. While value is important, your wedding dress is irreplaceable. ■
The CD One Price Cleaners concept is the result of nearly 30 years of industry experience — applied with sophisticated business and process knowledge, techniques and discipline to create unrivaled quality and customer satisfaction. With CD One Price Cleaners, you can expect your wedding dress to be safeguarded and showcased for the flat price of just $199. In the Chicagoland area there are 38 locallyowned and operated CD One Price Cleaners, so finding a convenient location is painless.
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CRAFT A WEDDING REGISTRY THAT’LL START YOUR LOVE OFF ON THE RIGHT FOOT.
Pictures are a beautiful way to remember your wedding day. They capture memories you’ll remember forever and moments you may not notice while they’re happening. They deserve more than a picture album, especially for the standard cost of a wedding photographer’s time and skill.
Check out these creative ideas for what to do with your wedding photos. You’ll find new ways to use your favorite pictures and continue celebrating your big day long after it’s over.
Couples sometimes feel pressured to send thank you cards to their guests immediately after their wedding. Although sending them quickly demonstrates your grateful heart, most people mail them one to three months
after their big day.
It may take a few weeks or longer for your photographer to edit the hundreds of images they’ll get during your ceremony and reception. Use the photos as the backdrop of your thank you cards to commemorate the special day.
If your partner loves keeping a tidy home, they’ll appreciate a set of coasters. Place an order that uses a new picture for each coaster or replicates the same image for the entire set. You’ll never have to worry about water
rings on your lovely furniture or boring coasters ruining your interior design.
Numerous online businesses take custom orders for jigsaw puzzles. They create a perfect opportunity for a post-honeymoon date night and newly framed decor in your home. Think about how many pieces your puzzles should be depending on how much you and your partner enjoy them. A 500 or 1,000-piece puzzle would make a sweet gift for your spouse because it showcases your love better than flowers or a meal out in town.
Many couples choose their wedding venues by considering where they can
pose for pictures outside. You might pick a mountainside location for your winter wedding to capture the natural lighting on the snow capped peaks during your cocktail hour.
If your wedding pictures take place in a distinct season, make a seasonal collage to emphasize the time of year. You could find a large frame with multiple slots for photos or a shadowbox frame and hang it during correlating seasons or holidays.
People can make monthly calendars on most websites that also print photos. Look into various options to get quotes for a calendar. You could hang it in your home to keep track of upcoming dates or travel plans. Even if it’s just a gift for your partner, they’ll love seeing your photos displayed in a fun, practical way.
Anyone who loves using a weighted blanket to calm their mind before going to sleep every night should consider ordering one featuring their wedding pictures. All you need to do is contact a shop that custom-makes each order and send the photos you love the most to create your next favorite blanket.
After getting your wedding photos back from your photographer, print a few. With a couple of glass ornament bulbs and some fishing line, you can transform them into ornaments that will hang on your Christmas tree every year. Pop the photo inside the bulb or use modge podge to adhere the photos to the outside of the orb. This is an especially romantic way to use your portraits if you had a Christmas wedding or got engaged during the holiday.
Why stop at hanging just one picture from your wedding day? It’ll likely be hard to pick a single favorite out of the many, so take a handful and print them as large photos. This way, you can get a few shots with you and your partner, the wedding party and your families all in one beautiful gallery. You can either get uniform images or mix and match sizes and frames for visual variety.
If you don’t want to deal with picking out frames, print them on canvases instead. Then, you have more freedom to get varying sizes without having to worry about buying displays for them.
Now that you know what people can do with wedding photos, see which creative ideas would work best in your home. Whether your photos become blankets, framed collages or ornaments, you’ll love seeing them displayed uniquely throughout your living space. ■
Making sure your culinary team hits the mark is a crucial part of ensuring a memorable day for your guests. Luckily, Chicago is home to some of the most talented chefs in the world. Here are two you should know.
Executive Chef and General Manager, Vault 232
Jorge Ojeda developed his inventive freestyle culinary approach during a 20-year career in Chicago-area restaurants. Born in Mexico, he started as a teenage dishwasher. Ojeda then spent years assisting chefs while climbing the kitchen ranks at restaurants focused on Italian and American cuisine. At Franco’s Pescheria, he led a culinary team known for exquisite seafood dishes. In 2022, Ojeda partnered with Franco’s Pescheria’s owner, Frank Radogna, to open Vault 232 in a renovated, historic bank in downtown Lake Zurich. As Executive Chef, Ojeda preserves ocean-centric elements while creating an inclusive menu seasoned with hints of his Mexican culinary roots.
Dish: Tequila-marinated ribeye steak, garnished with sautéed cactus and Carolina reaper pepper flakes. On the side, a refreshing couscous and feta salad.
Executive Chef, Elements at Water Street
Tyler Nelson became passionate about the industry after his first job at a midwestern, hometown barbecue restaurant. He then ventured into Chicago nightlife and worked in a high-end steak house, later accepting the position as the opening Sous Chef for Pata Negra Restaurant, where he was soon promoted to Chef de Cuisine.
Chef Tyler’s colorful palette of experience in a variety of food cultures led to his interest in the art of fine dining and catering. Before making the leap into special events, he learned the art of butchery, how to process whole cattle, lamb and pork; and mastered the precision timing of meat cookery. Now Executive Chef at Naperville’s Elements at Water Street, he works with the finest of meats and freshest of ingredients to produce exceptional plates for a variety of different events.
Dish: Sesame crusted salmon, served atop a gingered carrot puree and jasmine rice with sugar snap peas, basil emulsion and local micro blooms to top it off.
It’s not glamorous to talk about, but couples engaged to be married often consider whether to have a prenuptial agreement or, less frequently, a postnuptial agreement. Breaking down certain provisions of Illinois law can be helpful in making this decision with your partner.
Engaged couples may choose not to create a prenuptial agreement for several reasons. They may feel that such an agreement detracts from their commitment, or they may believe they do not have sufficient assets to justify the time and expense required to create such a contract. While prenuptial and postnuptial agreements are commonly thought of as unromantic and strictly self-protective tools, they have a number of pragmatic legal uses. A majority of spouses could benefit from having a strong prenuptial or postnuptial agreement in place in some way, if only for peace of mind. Getting a prenuptial agreement does not mean that you are preparing for divorce — far from it! Couples who are able to successfully negotiate a prenuptial agreement show excellent communication and compromise skills, which are both indicative of a strong relationship.
Conversely, the benefits of a similar contract – the postnuptial agreement –may become clear. Similar to a prenuptial agreement, a postnuptial agreement can contain similar stipulations, the difference is that this agreement is filed after the marriage is official, rather than before. Creating a “postnup” does not mean you plan to get divorced; rather, it allows spouses to protect each other if a divorce does happen.
Having a prenuptial agreement in place can be extremely helpful in the event that you do get divorced, but the reasons you need one are not limited to divorce. Reasons you might want a prenuptial agreement include:
• Financial clarity – During the process of negotiating a prenuptial agreement, both of your complete financial situations will
come to light. This can help you enter your marriage with full knowledge of each other’s finances.
• Pre-marriage financial planning – Too few couples consider how expenses will be shared and how future assets will be acquired and held. Having a prenuptial agreement in place can assist in this process.
• Protecting children – Especially if either partner has children from a previous marriage or relationship, a prenuptial agreement can be useful for estate planning purposes. Family heirlooms or property can be identified as one spouse’s separate property, so if one partner passes away, you can be more sure that family property passes to the deceased spouse’s children.
• During marriage – Some couples use their prenuptial agreements to solidify agreements related to the marriage. This could involve just about anything that is not otherwise illegal.
• Estate plan – The terms of a prenuptial agreement can require one or both spouses to create an estate plan like a will or trust that leaves certain property to the other spouse.
• Lower risk – Prenuptial agreements will not be enforced if they are grossly unfair, or less commonly, if one spouse was coerced. Thus, you do not need to worry that you will be left with no way to support yourself if the agreement causes a financial hardship due to circumstances that were unforeseeable at the time of its entry.
• Ease of divorce – Of course, if you do divorce, it will be a much easier
Elements at Water Street is Naperville’s NEW premier event venue. Located in the heart of historic downtown Naperville, Elements occupies the entire 2nd floor of Hotel Indigo Naperville Riverwalk. Elements boasts a 4,200 sq. ft. ballroom with seating availability for 250, plus a large prereception lounge with open-air views of the beautiful Riverwalk. Adjacent to the lounge is an elegant meeting space accommodating 100 guests for private dining needs. With full menu planning, private tastings, a full-service bar, waitstaff and day-of event coordination, the rustic urban cuisine is locally sourced and chef-inspired. Elements’ organic, contemporary design consists of flowing water, ribboned hardwood ceilings, and a stunning pedestrian skywalk leading guests to Hotel Indigo’s 158 guest rooms with special rates on room blocks.
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process if you have a prenuptial agreement, as many of the issues have been decided in the prenup.
Now that we have discussed some of the purposes of a prenuptial agreement, we should talk about how to make sure it is enforceable. To be sure your prenuptial agreement is valid and its terms will be enforceable in the event of a divorce, there are a few things you and your future spouse must do. First, it is important that you each provide a full disclosure of all financial information, including income, assets and debts. You must also allow a reasonable amount of time before the wedding for each of you to consider the agreement and to enter into it voluntarily. Thrusting an agreement in front of a future spouse just hours or days before the wedding without prior discussion could be viewed as coercion. Lastly, each party should retain separate attorneys to ensure each receives adequate legal advice throughout the process.
Asking your fiancé for a “prenup” can be uncomfortable. If you ask in the wrong way, you risk damaging your relationship and possibly endangering your marriage. To avoid a negative reaction, you should discuss getting a prenuptial agreement in a way that allows your fiancé to feel comfortable and in control of the process.
Start the Conversation Early Broach the subject before you get engaged, letting your partner know that a prenup is something you are considering. That way, your fiancé shouldn’t be caught off guard when it comes up later. Ideally, you want to negotiate and complete the agreement months before your wedding. There are several reasons why a last-minute prenup is not advised:
• Your fiancé may feel pressured if you ask for a prenuptial agreement only a few weeks before the wedding.
• A divorce court may later find your agreement to be invalid if your spouse claims they signed it under duress.
• Your fiancé needs time to consider your request and find their own legal representation.
• The weeks leading up to a wedding are already hectic and stressful without adding the need to negotiate a prenuptial agreement.
Though you may have a greater interest in creating a prenuptial agreement, your fiancé needs to feel like an equal partner in the process. This starts with being honest about why you want a prenup and explaining how the agreement could benefit you both. Encourage your fiancé to hire their own family law attorney to make sure someone is representing them throughout the process. Conduct the negotiations in a way that gives your fiancé an equal voice in deciding on terms of the agreement. Creating a prenuptial agreement together can be practice for how you will collaborate when you are married.
In conclusion, prenuptial and postnuptial agreements can be effective tools in spelling out marital relationship parameters and promoting a harmonious relationship. It is always a good idea to address these issues early, and frankly, with full disclosure of all relevant information. Doing so can help ensure a happily ever after. ■
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Expand the search for your dream rehearsal dinner, bridal shower or welcome party venue with these bonus Prelude to the Party selections. When it comes to planning the events surrounding your wedding, there are a lot of spaces to consider. So take a look, make some notes and, if needed, refer back to PAGE 221 for more Prelude to the Party selections.
120 N. Wacker Dr., Chicago
312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 270
This location features two unique event spaces in the 120 N. Wacker building. Café by the River is a warm and welcoming space with an airy indoor-outdoor feel adjacent to a beautiful 30'x3' terrace with river views. The Forum at 110 N. Wacker is a stunning and modern private dining event space featuring 20' floor to ceiling windows with a bird’s eye view of the city and river.
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1401 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago, IL 312.786.1401
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 140
The Chicago Firehouse Restaurant offers four private dining room options accommodating parties of 10 – 200 guests. The Veranda adjoins one of the private dining rooms and affords a spectacular view of the South Loop skyline. A legend in its own time, we invite you to experience culinary excellence and impeccable service at this applauded landmark neighborhood restaurant. chicagofirehouse.com
1028 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 180
Always happening and consistently offering abundant portions of Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian Beef, pristine fish and homemade desserts. Entertainment radiates from the piano bar where locals, celebs and out-of-towners mix and mingle. Choose from six of the iconic steakhouse’s private dining rooms.
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To learn more, including amenities and estimated investment, visit chicagostyleweddings.com/venues. Information is subject to change. Contact venue for details and availability.
233 N. Canal St., Chicago 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 60
Located in the West Loop, Gibsons Italia is a three-level, modern Italian steakhouse that features outdoor dining and a retractable roof showcasing stunning views of the Chicago River. The menu includes seafood, vegetables, risotto, and gold-extruded pasta. At the heart of the menu is a world-class tour of beef featuring Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian, and Japanese Kobe.
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1024 N. Rush St., Chicago 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 180
Sharing six distinct private dining spaces with the iconic Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse, Hugo’s Rush Street location provides an elegant setting and outstanding seafood experience. From the second floor of Hugo’s Frog Bar, the private dining rooms offer a beautiful view of bustling downtown, as can only be offered in Chicago’s Gold Coast district.
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18 E. Bellevue Pl., Chicago 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 80
LUXBAR is the Gold Coast’s quintessential neighborhood bar, serving hand-crafted cocktails that complement the kitchen’s all-American feel good food. The soaring second floor private dining spaces offer ideal settings for events large and small with sweeping views of State Street & Bellevue Place.
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155 N. Peoria St., Chicago 312.779.8888
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 125
Our dedicated event professionals are at your service to provide guidance with pre- and post-wedding day events. Each gathering we host becomes our utmost priority, ensuring that all your guests are treated to gracious personal service at every touch point. Say I do in style with unique Nobu food experiences, modern design and stunning spaces.
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311 S. Wacker Dr., Chicago, IL 312.913.1600
Maximum # of Seated Guests:500
Pazzo’s is located in the incomparable atrium at 311 S. Wacker – one of the most beautiful venues in Chicago. We provide fullservice event planning for ceremonies, receptions, galas and gatherings of all kinds – from a few guests in a private room, up to 400 in our atrium. Plus, one of Chicago’s top-rated restaurants makes for very happy guests and an event to remember!
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626 N. State St., Chicago 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 110
River North’s most authentic urban Italian food and wine experience, Quartino features a menu of regional specialties including salumi, handmade pasta, Neapolitan pizza and house made cheeses.
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Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
5464 N. River Rd., Rosemont 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 120
This Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse location is situated in the heart of Chicagoland’s bustling Rosemont area, a stone’s throw from the Donald E. Stephens Convention Center, Allstate Arena and the Rosemont Theater. The classic American steakhouse features Gibsons Prime Angus beef along with fresh fish, classic cocktails, an extensive wine list and exceptional service.
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Vault 232
35 W. Main St., Lake Zurich 847.438.4900
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 110
Introducing Vault 232, the Northwest Suburbs’ newest restaurant and event space. Newly opened in a renovated historic bank in downtown Lake Zurich, Vault 232 offers an industrial chic vibe and superb menu. Exquisite seafood. House dry-aged beef. Handcrafted cocktails. Step through double vault doors into your own private party room and let our attentive staff handle the rest.
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Hilton Chicago/Oak Lawn
9333 S. Cicero Ave., Oak Lawn 708.229.8886
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 360
Hilton Chicago/Oak Lawn boasts full amenities for its guests. With multiple spaces for rehearsal dinners from our dining room to a full-service bar/nightclub, we can host any size rehearsal dinner or party. Whether it’s an intimate shower or an after-the-wedding brunch we are ready to accommodate your vision for a special celebration.
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The Oaks at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
2105 S. Spring Rd., Oak Brook 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
The Oaks is a nearly 6,000 sq. ft. private dining expansion at Gibsons’ Oak Brook location. The versatile and beautiful space, with hardwood floors, terrazzo entry, and custom wooden accents, is accompanied by Gibsons’ legendary food and service for events of all kinds. Customizable menus will be available from the expert private dining team.
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From high-school sweethearts to college classmates to coworkers, Kailee and Joey have taken on life hand-in-hand for nearly a decade. This strong base meant they were prepared for anything, including a COVID reschedule and a tornado warning on their wedding morning.
Now living in Minneapolis, the couple returned to their hometown of Naperville to celebrate their wedding. Kailee and Joey exchanged their hand-written vows in the classically beautiful Century Memorial Chapel at Naper Settlement as teary eyed friends and family filled the room. Guests were all touched by the heartfelt ceremony, but ready for a fun reception to come. A logistical dream, the reception and accommodations were held just across the street at Elements at Water Street and Hotel Indigo, respectively.
Once at Elements at Water Street, a traditional and sweet reception took place. Surrounded by white florals and greenery, the couple began the party with a cake cutting, because of course dessert should come first! As an inventory analyst at Target, one of Kailee’s clients is Funko. The company graciously custom-made Funko Pop figures of Kailee and Joey to be their oh-so-cute wedding cake topper. Some of the most memorable moments took place during the dances. Joey and his mother wowed guests with a mother-son dance, made possible by dance lessons from My Dance Hub. Then, Kailee and Joey performed their own self-choreographed first dance.
The couple’s July wedding was nothing short of timeless, romantic and classic. With equal parts sentimentality and merriment, it just doesn’t get better than this.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 150
PHOTOGRAPHER: Katherine Salvatori Photography
CEREMONY VENUE: Century Memorial Chapel at Naper Settlement
RECEPTION VENUE: Elements at Water Street
FLORAL: A Stem Above
BRIDE’S CEREMONY GOWN: Sottero and Midgley
BRIDE’S RECEPTION GOWN: Jenny Yoo
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Generation Tux
HAIR & MAKEUP: Tamara Makeup and Hair Artistry
CAKE: DeEtta’s Bakery
ENTERTAINMENT: Shaun Anthony Signature
Entertainment
Jill and Ashley’s wedding vision for an “overgrown, abandoned factory in a beautiful forest” came to life in the West Loop’s The Fairlie. The couple’s relationship began with football and IPAs, which, five years later, resulted in this mossy and stylish affair.
Floral installations from Adina Fried of Bottles & Bouquets throughout the industrial venue gave guests the feeling of stumbling upon a secret sanctuary. The couple achieved their goal of a wedding that felt natural and inviting, yet still was upscale and elegant.
Jill and Ashley come from different backgrounds. Jill’s family is mostly from the East Coast, while Ashley was born and raised in Chicago. It was important to the couple to create an event that felt welcoming to everyone, no matter their background. By serving a family-style dinner from Big Delicious Planet, the couple demonstrated the importance of community and love to their marriage. The atmosphere created intimacy that sparked conversation and brought guests even closer together.
The evening’s shining moment (beyond the ceremony itself!) came after Jill and Ashley changed into reception outfits and made their way back to the party. Unplanned, “Dancing Queen” by ABBA began playing, and all eyes were on the couple’s reemergence down The Fairlie’s dramatic staircase. The DJ took hold of this moment and asked everyone to sing along as the couple danced down the stairs. This beautiful and unexpected moment truly encapsulated what this wedding celebration was all about: love, community and a bit of serendipity.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 145
PHOTOGRAPHER: Alisha Tova
VIDEOGRAPHER: This Charming Heart
GETTING-READY VENUE: Renaissance Chicago
Downtown Hotel
VENUE: Fairlie
EVENT PLANNER & DESIGNER: Fierce Productions
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Bottles & Bouquets
RINGS: Brilliant Earth
JILL’S GOWN: Honey Bridal
ASHLEY’S FORMALWEAR: The Knot Standard
HAIR & MAKEUP: Kyra Brown, Emily Umunna,
We Only Do Pretty
CATERING & CAKE: Big Delicious Planet
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Van
TABLETOP DÉCOR: The Festive Frog, Tablescapes
Event Rentals
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
TRANSPORTATION: Apex Limo Services
Kara and Mrig hosted guests from around the globe for a weekend of colorful celebrations and a sentimental, culture-blending union.
The day before their ceremony and reception, Kara and Mrig hosted a Haldi ceremony and Mehendi at The Hall at The Robey. Following these Hindu traditions with immediate family and close friends, the couple opened up The Hall to all guests for a welcome cocktail party. Since many of their guests were coming from out of town, this opening reception at the hotel was a great way to settle in and get everyone acquainted.
On the wedding day, first looks were held at The Robey’s rooftop, The Up Room. While the views from this venue were breathtaking on their own, the couple shone all on their own in front of the sunny Chicago skyline.
Their ceremony and reception were held at The Joinery, just down the street from The Robey. A broad color palette of jewel tones, soft candle lighting and ample textures created a joyful, bohemian scene in the industrial setting.
Kara and Mrig wanted the festivities to be representative of their different cultures. The ceremony blended traditions and cultures, including Mrig’s Hindu traditions like the exchange of garlands, vows exchanged through the Hindu Saat Phere and the application of sindoor to Kara’s scalp. Kara’s traditions followed, with a poem reading, personal vows and a ring exchange.
Throughout the festivities, Kara and Mrig cherished quality time with friends and family. From the decor to their attire to their venue choices, the couple’s love for each other shone through every facet of their wedding weekend.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 48
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.PHOTOGRAPHER: Allison Williams Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Vanilla Video
VENUE: The Joinery
EVENT PLANNER & DESIGNER: Fierce Productions
FLORAL: Leelee’s Garden
DÉCOR: Bowery & Bash
RINGS: Windy City Diamonds
BRIDE’S GOWN: Louvienne from Lovely Bride
BRIDE’S DUPATTA: Harleen Kaur
GROOM’S CEREMONY ATTIRE: Manyavar, Pastels and Pop
GROOM’S RECEPTION FORMALWEAR: Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits
HAIR & MAKEUP: Fearless & Bella
HENNA: Hennaz Art
DAY-OF STATIONERY: XO Art & Design
CATERING: The Caterist
CAKE: ECBG Cake Studio
SWEETS: Tahoora Sweets & Bakery
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
ENTERTAINMENT: Cage and Aquarium
Kenny and Brad have a flair for life’s beautiful details — both professionally and in their home. In their wedding celebrations, these two creatives echoed how they live their enchanting everyday lives.
With their collection of antiques, tabletop decor and textiles, the couple loves to entertain and curate events. Their practice of putting found items together and exploring ways to reinvent carried through to their wedding day. Lanterns, hydrangeas and antique chinoiserie vases sat atop a variety of blue-and-white patterned linens to create a summer-chic fête.
The venue, Redfield Estate at The Grove, was the backdrop for an Englishhome-aesthetic the two desired. Their day began with an intimate ketubah signing inside the Redfield house, followed by an outdoor ceremony in the summer air. Welcomed with mimosas and lavender lemonade, guests watched as the couple beamed with joy and laughed in delight as they wed under a birch chuppah.
Kenny works for Entertaining Company, a renowned Chicago caterer. Naturally, a beautiful food station was the only way to go. The couple’s favorite vases and collected tabletop decor adorned the grazing table, creating a lovely and festive food experience for their guests. Their menu included delicacies like oysters, crab claws and lamb chops, but also casual fare like Skyline Chili hot dogs (an homage to Brad’s Ohio upbringing).
The dessert array included brookie skillets dotted with ice cream, mini milkshakes and a wedding cake with miniatures of their pets. These bite-sized desserts and a lively conga line made for a sweet finish for this stylish day.
NUMBER OF WEDDING GUESTS: 85
PHOTOGRAPHER: Ingrid Bonne Photography
VENUE: Redfield Estate at The Grove
EVENT PLANNER: Wedicity Wedding & Event
Detailing
FLORAL & DÉCOR: JK Fiori
CATERING: Entertaining Company
CAKE: Cake Chicago
STATIONERY: Pulp & Ink
TABLETOP DÉCOR: Tablescapes Event Rentals, Hall’s Rental
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
SIGNAGE: Erickson Design
CUSTOM CANDLES: Elle Candle Co.
CEREMONY MUSIC: Becca Kaufman with BeatMix Music
RECEPTION MUSIC: Howard Wallach with A-Z Entertainment