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DEAR READER,
As a true dawdler, the editor’s letter is the very last piece of the magazine I work on. Being a visual person, my goal for these pages of inspiration and advice is that they’ll speak for themselves. However, I’m aware of how fortunate I am to have a blank space in this magazine dedicated entirely to my own thoughts and opinions. Therefore, I would like to take this opportunity to talk about something dear to my heart: Taylor Swift.
Bear with me here! I’m writing this just 24 hours before attending Taylor Swift’s The Eras Tour at Soldier Field. Needless to say, crafting an editor’s letter is at the very bottom of my to-do list, ranking below breaking in my sparkly booties and stringing alphabet beads onto Swiftie friendship bracelets. All I can think about is eras.
If you’re unfamiliar (where have you been?), The Eras Tour is Taylor Swift’s stadium concert junket that celebrates the artist’s different musical phases, or “eras.” Inspired by Swift’s approach, I believe that we should all adopt the practice of celebrating our own eras, particularly the eras of our love stories. From the butterflies of a budding romance to the deep-rooted connection of a lifelong partnership, each era of love brings its own evolution.
As a wedding magazine, I’m sure you expect me to continue this letter by declaring that your wedding day will be the most important day of your life. However, love, commitment and the growth of your relationship extend far beyond the boundaries of a single day. While your wedding day is undoubtedly special, remember it merely serves as the gateway to a new era — one that will continue to unfold, grow and flourish long after the celebration ends. By approaching wedding planning through this perspective, you can shift your focus from creating a flawless event to cherishing the era you are currently in and the one you are about to enter.
During my research and preparation for this issue, I repeatedly encountered wedding planning content saturated with negative language. Many resources emphasized the stress, expense and frustration associated with the process. So in this issue, we have made an effort to remove such negative language, while still being realistic. Because if you approach this chapter preparing for stress and anxiety, that’s what you’ll feel. But when you look at the beauty of a wedding through the lens of entering an era, a new experience materializes.
With this mindset, we’ve thoughtfully curated every page of this magazine to help you plan with confidence. From venue guides to vendor viewpoints to wedding fashion inspiration, you will find a comprehensive planning blueprint within these pages. My sincere hope is that this issue leaves you as excited about your wedding planning journey as I am about attending The Eras Tour. And if the process becomes challenging or stressful, remember: breathe in, breathe through, breathe deep, breathe out. It’s time to celebrate your new era.
Stay Beautiful,
Alexandra Dillard Editorial DirectorCOVERS
2023-2024 Edition
September/October
GOWN The Crystal Bride; The Crystal Bride Private Label “Elwood”
JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
HAIR & MAKEUP Bella Bridal Beauty
LOCATION Nobu Hotel Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen Photography
STYLING Alexandra Dillard
November/December
GOWN & VEIL Bella Bianca Bridal Couture; Alon Livné “Gemma”
JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
HAIR & MAKEUP Bella Bridal Beauty
LOCATION Nobu Hotel Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen Photography
STYLING Alexandra Dillard
January/February
GOWN Kathryn’s Bridal; Enzoani “Sarah”
JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
FLORAL Ashland Addison Florist
HAIR & MAKEUP Bella Bridal Beauty
LOCATION Nobu Hotel Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen Photography
STYLING Alexandra Dillard
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Ed & Aileen Ciesielski
EDITORIAL PHOTOGRAPHER
Ed and Aileen Ciesielski are the husband and wife wedding photography team behind Ed & Aileen Photography, a moment-driven photo and video company made for couples madly in love.
“Late Check Out” - pg 58
Tionna M. Van Gundy
FEATURE WRITER
Tionna M. Van Gundy, CSEP, is the founder and CEO of Wedicity Wedding Day Detailing, a wedding and event planning company with over 10 years of hospitality and event experience.
“Get A Room” - pg 140
Tanvi Chauhan
FEATURE WRITER
Tanvi Chauhan is the Communications Manager for Visit Savannah and Savannah Area Chamber of Commerce, the tourism department for one of the most charming cities in the south.
“Why Chicago Couples Say ‘I Do’ In Savannah” - pg 174
James Cox
FEATURE WRITER
James Cox is the owner and executive chef of Chicago Sugar Daddy Patisserie, a Lakeview bakery with a mission of giving back to the LGBTQ+ community.
“Piece of Cake” - pg 275
Contributors
Celyse Biesiada
ART
DIRECTION
Celyse Biesiada is the Social Media and Marketing Coordinator for Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits, a custom and bespoke menswear house in Chicago’s River North neighborhood.
“Destination: I Do” - pg 76
Christine Gaither
FEATURE WRITER
Christine Gaither is the General Manager at The Armour House at Lake Forest Academy, a wedding venue that exudes old world charm with the excitement of what is in vogue.
“Why Not A Sunday?” - pg 146
Gina Anderson
FEATURE WRITER
Gina Anderson is the Destination Events Manager and Lead Wedding Planner with Urban Allure Events, a Chicago-based inclusive event planning company.
“Wedding Wanderlust” - pg 178
Zach Caddy EDITORIAL PHOTOGRAPHER
Zach Caddy is a wedding and music photographer based in Avondale. Empathy and inclusivity are the values behind his cinematically inspired approach to documenting love.
“J’Adorn” - pg 80
Audrey Jonas
FEATURE WRITER
Audrey Jonas is a stand up comedian, former faculty at the Second City Training Center and the instructor of the Wedding Toast Warm Up, a class to learn how to write a killer wedding toast.
“Raise Your Glass” - pg 150
Amy Reifenstuhl
FEATURE EXPERT
Amy Reifenstuhl is the owner and lead designer of Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor, a boutique event design and lifestyle company based in Naperville.
“Define Your Aesthetic” - pg 247
Liz Babinski
FEATURE EXPERT
Liz Babinski is the author of “I Just Want to Say” and officiant of 10 years with Liz Rae & Co., specializing in authentic and inclusive wedding ceremonies.
“I Just Want To Say” - pg 134
Sam Haywood
FEATURE WRITER
Sam Haywood is the Event Coordinator at Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom, a performing arts theater and events venue in Aurora.
“The Venue Search Starter Kit” - pg 158
Christine Boulton
FEATURE WRITER
Christine Boulton is the co-owner of Branching Out Chicago, a floral company specializing in weddings, corporate events and social occasions.
“Floral Color Forecast” - pg 260
Don’t hesitate to email our editor at ald@ntmediagroup.com to discuss!
12-MONTH
Planning Checklist
They say that getting started is the hardest part. Saying “Yes!” to your partner was easy, but starting the planning process can feel daunting. With plenty to do before you walk down the aisle, our 12-month planning checklist will help you stay organized and as stressfree as possible. Use this timeline to break down the planning process into bite-sized chunks that will (hopefully!) ease overwhelming feelings.
ONE YEAR OUT
___ Establish your budget
___ Begin researching wedding vendors (peruse the pages in your hands or head to chicagostyleweddings.com to get started!)
___ Begin planning the guest list to get a rough idea of headcount
___ Narrow down potential wedding dates
___ Select and book your venue(s) based on available dates
___ Discuss your wedding priorities with your partner and family
___ Decide if you’ll be using a wedding planner (we recommend!) and hire them now
TEN TO TWELVE MONTHS
___ Finalize your guest list
___ Determine your wedding theme, colors and level of formality
___ Begin wedding day attire shopping
___ If you’re having a destination or holiday weekend wedding, mail savethe-dates now
___ Choose your wedding party and invite them to be by your side
___ Meet with and make final decisions on your team of vendors — these book up quick, so the sooner you decide the better. Priorities: floral and decor provider, caterer, photographer and videographer.
___ Take engagement photos
NINE MONTHS
___ Purchase your dress and accessories, and schedule delivery date and fittings
___ Begin to plan groom and groom’s attendants’ attire
___ Create your gift registry and wedding website
___ Book hotel room blocks and transportation to and from
___ Reserve any rental equipment, such as tables, chairs and tents (if necessary) Choose a cake designer for your cakes
Plan entertainment options and book your DJ/musicians
___ Select hair and makeup vendors
SIX TO EIGHT MONTHS
___ Mail your save-the-dates
___ Finalize rehearsal dinner plans
___ Shop for wedding bands and arrange for engraving
Reserve/purchase groom’s attire
___ Select wedding party attire and schedule fittings (if needed)
Select your officiant and meet with them to learn about any potential premarital requirements
Ensure all vendor hires are booked
THREE TO FIVE MONTHS
Meet with your caterer to plan menu details and tastings
___ Establish your honeymoon plans and book as needed. Don’t forget to check that your passport is valid!
___ Plan welcome bags and day-of stationery like signage, programs and menus
Choose the ceremony music, and discuss reception music with your band or DJ
Confirm out-of-town guest accommodations
___ Order formal invitations and book calligrapher (if needed)
Schedule hair and makeup trials
TWO MONTHS
___ Mail your invitations with RSVPs due one month before the wedding
Extend rehearsal dinner invitations
___ Attend wedding attire fitting
___ Begin to write your wedding vows
___ Embark on bachelor/bachelorette parties
___ Confirm details for rehearsal dinner, ceremony and reception
Research local marriage license and name change requirements
ONE MONTH
___ Pay your vendors in full
Apply for your wedding license
___ Have your final dress fitting
Create a seating chart
Have a final venue walk-through
Confirm details with the florist, caterer, entertainers and officiant
Have a trial run for full hair and makeup
Purchase gifts for attendants, flower girl, ring bearer, fiance, parents, etc.
Plan for floral and dress preservation
Decide who will do readings and toasts
Finalize wedding vows
TWO WEEKS
___ Finalize seating arrangements
___ Give your caterer and venue a final guest count
___ Break-in your wedding shoes
___ Get your last pre-wedding haircut
___ Practice your wedding vows
___ Confirm all RSVPs
Touch base with all your vendors
Schedule final meeting with your planner or day-of coordinator
ONE WEEK
___ Give assignments to your wedding party members and remind them of rehearsal details
Confirm timelines and details with all vendors
Assign an attendant to collect gifts and cards
Prepare tip envelopes for vendors and arrange for someone to distribute them the day of the wedding
___ Designate various point people — who is taking care of what on the big day?
ONE DAY
Get a manicure and pedicure
___ Eat safe and clean — this is not the time to try new ingredients!
___ Stay hydrated — drink lots of water!
___ Clean your ring
___ Host rehearsal dinner and hand out special gifts to the wedding party and family
Ensure dress, shoes, jewelry and accessories are all ready to go
Pack overnight bag if you are staying at a hotel the night of your wedding
Practice your vows out loud
WEDDING DAY
___ Relax and enjoy the day, knowing you’ve planned everything up to this point well!
AFTER
___ Write thank-you notes
Change your name (optional)
___ Preserve your gown and florals
Write online reviews of your vendors
Obtaining an Illinois Marriage License
REQUIREMENTS
Both partners must appear together in person at the county clerk at the time of application.
WHO MAY APPLY
Unmarried people who are 18 years of age or older and not blood relatives can apply for a marriage license.
Exceptions:
• First cousins older than 50 years of age may marry and apply for a marriage license.
• Individuals who are 16 and 17 years of age must provide the following information: in-person sworn consent from each parent or legal guardian before the county clerk at the time of application, as well as a form of valid identification (ID) to show their date of birth. Those giving consent must provide proper ID, including a valid driver’s license, state ID or a valid U.S. passport. If a legal guardian is giving consent, a certified copy of his or her guardianship papers must be provided.
WHAT TO PROVIDE
You must provide one of the following to receive your marriage license: a valid U.S. driver’s license or state ID, valid U.S. passport or U.S. Armed Forces ID card. If the above is not available, you must provide two of the following: a certified copy of your birth certificate, U.S. naturalization papers or resident alien card, valid foreign passport, life insurance policy that has been in effect for at least one year, a baptismal record showing the birth date of the applicant or a consulate ID card. Counties
may vary when it comes to forms of acceptable ID. Call your county clerk to verify what documentation you should bring.
If previously married, most counties require divorce decrees and/or death certificates of former spouses.
CIVIL UNIONS
Civil unions are legal and valid, and offered to all couples in the state of Illinois, as long as both partners are age 18 or older and are not blood relatives. It is not required that a civil union be converted into a marriage. If couples would like to convert their civil union into a marriage, the marriage license fee will be waived if the couple applies for their license and has their ceremony within 60 days of the date their civil union was actualized.
COST
Depending on your county, the cost to obtain a marriage license is between $30 and $60. Certain counties only accept cash, so call ahead to confirm what types of payment the clerk will accept. If you intend to request multiple copies of your marriage license, be prepared to pay replication fees.
WAITING PERIOD/ EXPIRATION OF LICENSE
A marriage license becomes effective 24 hours after it is issued. After the document becomes effective, couples have 60 days to hold their ceremony and make their marriage official. The couple must hold their ceremony in the same county that issued their marriage license for it to be recognized.
Where to Go
Your marriage license must be obtained in the county where your ceremony is being performed. Call your county clerk’s office to verify requirements, hours and additional locations. We recommend getting two or three certified copies of your marriage license for name change and/or filing purposes.
COOK COUNTY
Downtown Chicago
118 N. Clark St., Room 120 Chicago, IL 60602 312-603-7790
South Suburbs - Markham 16501 S. Kedzie, Room 238 Markham, IL 60426 708-232-4150
North Suburbs - Skokie 5600 W. Old Orchard Rd., Room 149 Skokie, IL 60077 847-470-7200
West Suburbs - Maywood 1311 Maybrook Square, Room 104 Maywood, IL 60153 708-865-6010
DEKALB COUNTY
110 E. Sycamore St. Sycamore, IL 60178 815-895-7149
DUPAGE COUNTY
421 N. County Farm Rd. Wheaton, IL 60187 630-407-5500
KANE COUNTY
719 S. Batavia Ave., Building B Geneva, IL 60134 630-232-5950 -or-
5 E. Downer Place, Unit F Aurora, IL 60505
LAKE COUNTY
18 N. County St., Room 101 Waukegan, IL 60085
847-377-2400
WILL COUNTY
302 N. Chicago St. Joliet, IL 60432 815-740-4615
*Appointment required
Wedding Budget Breakdown
There are so many options when it comes to allocating your money. Start the process by nailing down a total budget. Once that is set, you can break down the entire budget using this helpful guide. Based on national averages, this guide will give you a good starting point to know what amount you should be willing to spend for each vendor. Of course, this is a fluid guide. If you are set on splurging for your dream wedding dress, accounting for 30% of your wedding budget, go for it! Just be sure to adjust the other items accordingly.
38% Venue and Catering
16% Décor (flowers, lighting, rentals)
12% Photography and Videography
11% Wedding Attire (formalwear, wedding bands, accessories)
8% Music and Entertainment (DJs, band, orchestra)
5% Wedding Planner
3% Stationery (invitation suite, programs, menus, table cards, thank-you notes)
2% Transportation (limousine, trolley, buses, classic car)
2% Beauty (hair, makeup, grooming, spa services)
2% Cake (sweets, dessert bar)
1% Extras
Tipping Etiquette Guide
Once you’ve established your budget and allocated it accordingly, you’re all done thinking about finances, right? Wrong! Enter the taboo world of tipping. No one wants to intentionally stiff someone, but how do you know what is standard? Let’s break it down.
To start off, aside from contracts that include it, tipping is not required for most vendors. However, when a vendor goes above and beyond for you, tipping is greatly appreciated! Typically, it is not standard practice to tip the owner of the service provided. However, many vendors — such as catering — have waitstaff that deserve special thanks.
Sometimes, gratuity is included in your invoice, so be sure to check and don’t assume it is or isn’t. Some vendors include total gratuity for their staff in the fee, so don’t hesitate to doublecheck.
Pro Tip: To avoid forgetting during the whirlwind of your big day, prepare your tips beforehand. Head to the bank for some cash and create tip envelopes, labeled for each vendor. You can assign one of your attendants or family members the task of distributing the tips on the wedding day.
15-20% Hair and Makeup Artists, each
15-20% Chauffeurs or Drivers 15% Wedding Consultant/Planner
10-15% Bartenders, of bar tab
10-15% DJ
$100-200 Venue Coordinator
$100-200 Catering Manager
$50-200 Photographer/Videographer Assistants, each
$20-50 Live Musicians, per member
$15-20 Waitstaff, per server
$1-2 Valet Attendants, per car
$1-2
Coat Check Attendants, per guest
What’s almost as good as a tip? A glowing review and referrals! If you enjoyed your service, leave your vendor a positive review — they will be grateful!
Knowing exactly what to ask vendors can be overwhelming. That’s why we’ve compiled a list of some of the most important questions for you to get started with. Let these questions begin to guide your conversations as you assemble your dream wedding team. With their answers, you can feel confident in their abilities to make your day truly memorable.
Throughout this issue, you will find our suggestions for questions to ask specific vendors. Find these guides here:
Questions to ask your fashion retailer pg. 54
Questions to ask your beauty team pg. 86
Questions to ask your venue pg. 110
Questions to ask your officiant pg. 111
Questions to ask your wedding planner pg. 240
Questions to ask your decorator pg. 246
Questions to ask your stationer pg. 248
Questions to ask your florist pg. 254
Questions to ask your caterer pg. 264
Questions to ask your bakery pg. 274
Questions to ask your photographer pg. 280
Questions to ask your entertainment pg. 288
Questions to Ask
Every Vendor
• Are you/your services available for our wedding date?
• Can you accommodate our budget? Can you share with us what a reasonable budget is for our requests?
• What’s the payment plan for the full bill? What forms of payment do you accept?
• What are your cancellation and rescheduling policies? Are any fees refundable?
• What is the timeline for making final decisions during the planning process? For example — guest count, gown purchase, cake tasting?
• Do you carry personal liability insurance, professional indemnity insurance and appropriate licenses?
• What is your social media policy regarding sharing our wedding on your channels?
• What happens if you are unable to be present the day of our wedding?
• How long have you been in business or in the industry?
• What sets you apart from other vendors and why should we hire you?
• How far in advance do we need to book you?
New to the Scene
The Birchstone
CD Peacock
4999 Old Orchard Ctr., Ste. N3 | Skokie, IL 60077
847.679.1837 | cdpeacock.com
CD Peacock’s recently opened Bridal Boutique takes engagement shopping to new heights in Old Orchard. This North Shore location from Chicago’s first business ushers in a new level of luxury, personal service and jewelry options, catering to the modern consumer. The boutique carries a vast selection of both sustainably sourced and mined diamond engagement rings and wedding bands. Clients can custom design their rings with on-site jewelers to suit their tastes and state-of-the-art technology creates 3D renditions of their custom pieces in real time. The CD Peacock Bridal Boutique can also be reserved for a private shopping experience or function.
200 Barclay Blvd. | Lincolnshire, IL 60069
847.383.6216 | thebirchstonevenue.com
Inviting. Unique. Unforgettable. The Birchstone specializes in creating unforgettable memories for your wedding. Their team of expert planners and coordinators work alongside you and behind the scenes to bring your unique vision to life. Their indoor ballroom is timeless and provides an open air, classic warmth that allows for pictureperfect moments around every corner. With four distinct spaces — including an outdoor courtyard — it is easy to create an event that reflects your personality and vision. The Birchstone is the perfect place to begin your happily ever after!
Photo by Kristin La Voie Photography167 Events
167 Green St., 17th Fl. | Chicago, IL 60607
167greenst.com
Lettuce Entertain You brings a new event and catering experience to Chicago’s Fulton Market District with 167 Events. In collaboration with 167 Green, this innovative venue is located on the 17th floor of 167 Green St. and features a Town Hall that transforms into a fullsized, professional basketball court, a sitting room, game room and a terrace. Floor-to-ceiling windows and the terrace surround the space with breathtaking skyline views of Chicago, a perfect backdrop to any event. With versatile space layouts that can accommodate up to 400 people, the venue is suited for social and corporate gatherings. From custom menus from Lettuce Entertain You’s most iconic culinary offerings to vendor connections, the 167 Events team will leave no detail unnoticed.
Bittersweet Pastry Shop
1114 W. Belmont Ave. | Chicago, IL 60657
773.929.1100 | bittersweetpastry.com
The original Chicago pastry shop, Bittersweet has been creating the most delicious and beautiful wedding cakes for 30 years. And to celebrate, they’ve revamped their busy Bittersweet pastry shop and cafe to include a cozy corner for couples to enjoy their wedding cake tasting. Semiprivate with a sneak peak of the 5,000-square-foot kitchen, couples can book an in-person tasting of Bittersweet’s cake and filling flavors, plus their flawless Italian meringue buttercream. Tastings fill up fast during the season, so get started at bittersweetpastry.com.
B’s Gourmet Nuts
Winnetka, IL 60093
312.415.1005 | thecharcuterienut.com
Looking for a thoughtful welcoming gift to provide out-of-town guests? Or a simple, yet elegant “thank you” to those who helped make your day memorable? Give them “a little bit of perfect.” B’s Gourmet Nuts are small-batch, handcrafted nuts focused on blending complementary flavors to provide a depth and texture not found in a standard nut. Their three flavor profiles can accessorize a charcuterie board or instantly enhance a cocktail hour. Not to mention, the packaging easily nestles into a thoughtful gift basket. Portion of net proceeds benefits Cancer Wellness Center.
Photoby Marie Brand Photography
The Forum
120 N. Wacker | Chicago, IL 60606
312.587.0508 | grgmc.com
The Forum is a new, premier event venue located in Chicago’s Loop above the two newly opened restaurants from Gibsons Restaurant Group and José Andrés Group, Bazaar Meat and Bar Mar. Situated on the third floor of the brand new Bank of America building, The Forum features modern decor with floor-to-ceiling windows overlooking Chicago’s bustling downtown and river. This stunning space can accommodate between 25 and 270 seated and up to 400 for a reception. This joint venture represents an unprecedented pairing of Gibsons Restaurant Group with the twoMichelin star Chef Andrés. The expert private dining team offers conciergelevel service and will work with clients individually to create a completely unique and custom experience.
6ixStory Events
Chicago, IL 60616
312.463.9096 | 6ixstoryevents.com
With 6ixStory Events, the most important part of your wedding is sharing your journey, your identity and your story with family and friends. Every element of the wedding, from the food to the decor to the entertainment, builds upon your love story. 6ixStory Events can not only organize the final details through wedding coordination, but also bring the perfect team together to create it with full-service planning. A team of “6ix” that becomes a part of your story and you a part of ours includes #1 Venue, #2 Food, #3 Entertainment, #4 Decor, #5
Photo and Video and last but not least, #6ixStory Events. Couples celebrating their love and the love of those around them is the story the team at 6ixStory Events will tell.
Photo by Ed & Aileen PhotographyVault 232
35 W. Main St. | Lake Zurich, IL 60047
847.438.4900 | vault232.com
Vault 232 is Lake Zurich’s newest dining and event hotspot. Located in a reimagined 1930s bank, Vault 232 offers a modern surf-and-turf menu in an industrial-chic setting. Tucked behind towering double vault doors, the private dining hall has stylish seating for up to 110. Steps from the town’s scenic waterfront, the venue has quickly become a coveted spot for intimate receptions, rehearsal dinners and wedding weekend events. For larger parties, their full dining room, raw bar and cocktail bar can accommodate up to 275 guests. Expect gracious service, an impeccable dining experience and a truly memorable event at Vault 232. You can bank on it!
Photo by Something Blue PhotographySOPHY Hotel
1411 E. 53rd St. | Chicago, IL 60615
773.289.1003 | sophyhotel.com
SOPHY offers everything today’s couples require to make their most memorable moment a treasured, picture-perfect day. The hip neighborhood vibe and creative event spaces make weddings at SOPHY feel welcoming and personal. Festive reception fare comes from the hotel’s popular Mesler Chicago restaurant overseen by Executive Chef Alejandro “Eddie” Arreola, the former chef de cuisine at Four Seasons Hotel Chicago and The Ritz-Carlton Chicago. To meet the budgets and preferences of Chicago couples, the hotel now offers a tiered menu of special wedding packages. Various packages are available, ranging from the “Just Enough” package at $100 per person to the “VIP Access” package at $225 per person. Explore all the options and let the intoxicating energy of Hyde Park be the inspiration for your unforgettable day.
Photo by Candace Sims PhotographyWatermark Events
2300 Bushwood Dr. | Elgin, IL 60124
847.303.4444 ext. 3 | watermarkuniqueevents.com
The Chicago Firehouse Restaurant
1401 S. Michigan Ave. | Chicago, IL 60605
312.786.1401 | chicagofirehouse.com
If you follow the soft murmur of music and laughter through the dining room and down the stairs, you’ll find the Blue Room hidden in the depths of the Chicago Firehouse Restaurant. The Blue Room is nestled in the basement of the building, tucked away from the wandering eyes of pedestrians, a secret kept between the restaurant and its patrons. However, as you step inside, you’ll find that its secrecy does not undermine its liveliness. The perfect setting for an intimate dinner or cocktail reception for up to 50 guests, The Blue Room is an exciting addition to the array of indoor and outdoor spaces at The Chicago Firehouse Restaurant.
Morgan Arts Complex
3622 S. Morgan St. | Chicago, IL 60609 630.450.4054 | morganartscomplex.com
The Morgan Arts Complex is a versatile wedding venue situated in the historic Bridgeport neighborhood. This recently renovated building flawlessly blends old-world charm with modern sophistication, creating an ideal backdrop for your unforgettable celebration of love. The venue’s versatility allows it to accommodate any theme, also with the convenience of hosting both your ceremony and reception in one all-inclusive location. Multiple indoor and outdoor spaces are available to suit your preferences, as well. The walls showcase vibrant, world-class artwork, while the exposed brick elements add an industrial edge to the overall aesthetic. The Morgan Arts Complex can accommodate 300-350 cherished guests, making it a perfect spot to mark your big occasion.
Photo by Marcin Cymmer, Smart Pixel StudiosIntroducing Watermark Events, the brand new event space at Moretti’s in Elgin. The casually elegant venue can accommodate up to 400 guests, all against expansive water and nature views from floor-to-ceiling windows. Newly constructed, the flexible venue opened in March of 2023. Watermark Events’ operator, Ala Carte Entertainment, has more than 30 years of hospitality experience, with over one million satisfied private event customers. Enjoy high ceilings throughout, imagine your reception’s grand entrance against the water wall and soak in the waterfront views under the covered outdoor deck. Living out a motto of “Let our family serve yours!” Ala Carte Entertainment can’t wait to make your wedding dreams come true.
FASHION & STYLE
Your wedding day is about much more than what you’re wearing. But isn’t it a bit fun to play dress-up and live out the phrase, “look good, feel good?” We’ve collected some of our favorite wedding fashion trends and beauty tips to ensure you’re feeling your most beautiful on your wedding day.
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Something White Styling, Richard Dayhoff
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A bridal jewelry editorial with CD Peacock
A bridal fashion editorial at Nobu Hotel Chicago
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DESTINATION: I DO Menswear styling for any occasion
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FEEL BEAUTIFUL, LOOK BEAUTIFUL Look and feel your best
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OH ME, EAU MY Wedding day fragrance discovery
Fashion Retailer Questions to Ask Your
• Are appointments required to visit and try on wedding attire in the shop?
• Approximately how long are the appointments and how far in advance should I book my appointment?
• How many guests can attend the appointment with me?
• Should I bring special undergarments, shoes or accessories? If so, what?
• How long does it take for my dress to arrive after placing the order?
• How many fittings do you suggest?
• Do you have any special trunk shows coming up?
• Do you have any collections or brands that are exclusive to you in this region?
• Can I request a sample gown from a brand you carry that I don’t see in store?
• Do you sell any sample gowns off the rack?
• What deposit do you require?
• What is your sample size range?
• What is the anticipated cost and process of alterations?
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DROPWAIST
Reminiscent of Audrey Hepburn’s iconic “Funny Face” look, the drop-waist trend adds some vintage glamour while elongating the torso.
APPLIQUÉS
Embroidered and 3D appliqués are a work of fine art, taking classic floral imagery and applying it in a fresh way.
PRETTY IN PASTEL
Pastel shades of pink, blue and lilac have taken over. Rather than a white garment, this color palette sprinkles in some femininity without straying too far from tradition.
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Wedding attire doesn’t always mean big gowns. A sharp suiting look is just as glamorous, while still feeling appropriate for the occasion.
SUITS YOU WELL COATS
REGAL NECKLINES
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If capes are the new veil, then coats are the new cape. As the wedding festivities progress, these pieces can be removed to reveal an ensemble change.
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STATUESQUE
With smooth lines and striking structure, these minimalist takes on the fitand-flare silhouette don’t need appliques to make a statement.
1980s nostalgia makes a comeback, this time in the form of a strong shoulder. The large shoulder accents create a strong silhouette that will make you feel powerful and confident.
Bows have long been a prominent feature of feminine style, and now an oversized version is taking stage. So put a big bow on, you are a gift!
LOCATION
Nobu Hotel Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHY
Ed & Aileen Photography
To see more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/fashion-feature.
See additional credits on page 71.
GOWN & VEIL Bella Bianca
Bridal Couture; Alon Livné
“Gemma” YELLOW & WHITE
DIAMOND EARRINGS
Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
YELLOW & WHITE
DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT
RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
ABOVE (LEFT) GOWN Bri’Zan Couture; Sottero and Midgley “Juliette” | JACKET Bri’Zan Couture; Sottero and Midgley “Juliette Jacket” | DIAMOND NECKLACE Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | DIAMOND EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | DIAMOND RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
ABOVE (RIGHT) GOWN LBR Bridal; Julie Vino “Kelsey” | DIAMOND NECKLACE Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | DIAMOND EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | YELLOW & WHITE DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
ABOVE GOWN Volle’s Bridal & Boutique; Randy Fenoli Bridal “Declan” | VEIL Veiled by ChaCha; Custom by Veiled by ChaCha | YELLOW & WHITE DIAMOND BRACELET Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | DIAMOND EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | YELLOW DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | DIAMOND RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection OPPOSITE GOWN Bri’Zan Couture; Disney Weddings by Allure “DP307 Snow White” | DIAMOND BRACELET Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
LEFT GOWN The Crystal Bride; Sottero and Midgley “Cezanne”
DIAMOND NECKLACES
Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
YELLOW DIAMOND
BRACELET Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
DIAMOND EARRINGS
Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
YELLOW & WHITE
DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT
RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
SHOES Alterre; “White V Mule” with “Twiggy Strap”
OPPOSITE GOWN All About the Gown; Sarah Alouache “Paris”
DIAMOND NECKLACE
Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
DIAMOND EARRINGS
Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT
RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
SWEETS Vanille Chicago
GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture; Alon Livné “Hunter” | 18K YELLOW GOLD & DIAMOND NECKLACE Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | 18K YELLOW GOLD & DIAMOND EARRINGS Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | 18K
GOLD & DIAMOND ENGAGEMENT RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection | 18K YELLOW GOLD & DIAMOND RING Razny Jewelers; Razny Collection
LOCATION Nobu Hotel Chicago | PHOTOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen Photography
STYLING Alexandra Dillard | HAIR & MAKEUP Bella Bridal Beauty
VIDEOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen Photography | JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
GOWN PROVIDERS All About the Gown, Bella Bianca Bridal Couture, Bri’Zan Couture, The Crystal Bride, Here Comes the Bride Bridal Boutique, Kathryn’s Bridal, LBR Bridal, Veiled By ChaCha, Volle’s Bridal & Boutique | SHOES Alterre
MODELS Carlee Lefebvre, Rune Models; Ashley Voom, One Management; Portia Watznauer, Rune Models
To see the video and more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/fashion-feature.
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SOMETHING WHITE STYLING
KATE LOSCALZO FOUNDER & LEAD STYLIST, SOMETHING WHITE STYLING
Celebrity wardrobe stylist Kate Loscalzo believes bridal shopping should be fun and easy, so she created Something White Styling, a platform specializing in exclusive rentals for brides. With this platform, she offers both rental options and styling services for carefully curated, gently-worn bridal attire and accessories. With this service, you can achieve both sustainability and style for all your wedding-related occasions.
CSW: Tell us a bit about Something White Styling and what products and services you offer?
KL: Something White Styling is a luxury bridal styling and designer rental service.
We offer curated styling packages for every event leading up to the wedding day. Whether you need help choosing your wedding dress or simply want to pick out looks for any of the other bridal events, such as rehearsal dinner or bridal shower, our bespoke styling services will help you find and plan out your perfect wedding wardrobe.
In addition to these styling packages, we offer designer little white dress rentals and accessories. Think of it as a rotating closet exclusive to bridal, available for 5-10 day rental periods. Something White Styling designer rentals allow you to wear multiple outfits and experiment with style at a fraction of the cost [of buying new].
Once the wedding celebration is over, brides are left with a section in their closet full of white, which usually never gets worn again. Something White Styling’s solution is a bridal consignment program. We work with brides post-wedding to consign
cocktail pieces for commission on rentals up to 35% of the initial cost of the item. Not only is it sustainable to give fashion a longer life, but you can also put some money back in your pocket after the big day.
Our goal in all of our offerings is to make brides’ style dreams become a reality. We understand that wedding planning can be stressful at times, and it’s easy to feel overwhelmed by all the choices involved in making your special day special! We are here to alleviate that stress by helping you look and feel your absolute best by curating all the outfits you may need as a bride.
CSW: What inspired you to start Something White Styling?
KL: Once my friends started getting married and asking for fashion advice, I realized there was an incredible opportunity in the bridal fashion market. For wedding events, you hire a professional to do your hair and makeup, so why not hire a professional to help you get dressed for one of the biggest events in your life?
CSW: What sets you apart in the wedding attire industry?
KL: What sets Something White Styling apart in the wedding attire industry is our commitment to accessibility and passion for sustainability. I believe that fashion is for everyone. My aim was to build a platform that was easily customizable and accessible to each person and their needs. I am a lover of vintage and secondhand fashion, and I wanted to translate that into my business. The SWS platform allows brides to participate in a circular fashion cycle. By renting, you have access to fabulous pieces without needlessly contributing to fashion waste all while extending the piece’s life cycle. ■
Find Something White Styling: SomethingWhiteStyling.com | Instagram & Pinterest: @SomethingWhiteStyling | Showroom by appointment only
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RICHARD DAYHOFF
RICHARD DAYHOFF
DESIGNER, DAYHOFF, ZEGLIO BESPOKE TAILORSIn the world of menswear, the name Richard Dayhoff has become synonymous with elegant simplicity. His talent has led to wide success in creating ready-to-wear garments. This artist of personal presentation constantly innovates and sets new standards, most recently introducing a line of men’s premium performance underwear, DAYHOFF.
For over two decades, Dayhoff has introduced intriguing, attention-commanding collections with his eponymous line as well as in his work with Zeglio Bespoke Tailors.
CSW: Tell us a bit about your work and what you offer?
RD: When I joined Zeglio Bespoke Tailors, it was a very lucky partnership for both of us. They needed someone with just the kind of expertise and personality I have; not only able to advise men in search of a sharper image, but to ensure a perfect fit and supervise its execution by craftsmen.
Bespoke is not the same as custom, in which a base model gets adjusted for each client. Bespoke is an entire garment — or at Zeglio, a whole suit —
designed, tailored and assembled for a specific individual.
So while I was advising men for clothes that made them look best, it was a basic part of my craft to also use my own DAYHOFF brand underwear as an ideal “first layer.” Undergarments can’t be seen, but as a luxury product designed with opulent, durable fabric and comforting design features, it is a foundation on which the wearer can start out feeling good. Then, the wearer can feel even better when well-chosen, tailored clothes get added as outerwear.
CSW: What is your personal background in the apparel/menswear space?
RD: I have been the in-house designer for Zeglio for over 10 years. My background in my own design collections helps me guide men and women with fabric and style details, and to give a personalized design experience like no other. I always approach clients as an “educator.” That is, I don’t just tell them what to wear: I explain to them why my selections are best for their build, personality or a specific occasion.
This can lead to a partnership between us, wherein they understand my clothing recommendations better and how they can further enhance their effect themselves. For my male clients, I am often teaching them things about dressing well they have never considered before. And if they do the work of learning what makes them look their best (and why), the effect can be transformational for their entire self-presentation and outlook, and also permanent. As the saying goes, I don’t just give them a fish; I teach them how to fish.
CSW: What advice would you give to those who are shopping for their wedding day look?
RD: Resist the urge to overdress, even for such a special occasion. Dress so the focus is more on you as a person than on what you’re wearing. Your clothes should enhance your presence, not be a substitute for it.
This advice is especially true for men. Strive for quiet elegance; quality and fit in fine, comfortable fabrics, tailored to show you at your real best — not to re-make you — are key to looking your best. ■
Find Richard Dayhoff and Zeglio: RichardDayhoff.com, Zeglio.com | Instagram: @RichardDayhoff, @ZeglioChicago | In Person: Zeglio Custom Clothiers, 3245 N. Broadway St., Chicago, IL; 306 S. Dearborn St., Chicago, IL
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SUITING STYLING FOR ALL YOUR WEDDING EVENTS WITH NICHOLAS JOSEPH CUSTOM SUITS
Discover the impeccable craftsmanship of custom suits with Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits. Whether you are embarking on a romantic destination in the hills of Tuscany or savoring the sacred moment at the end of the aisle, ensure an extraordinary wedding ensemble that transcends any off-the-rack suit. Pack your bags and a steamer as Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits takes you down the aisle in style.
welcome party
As heartfelt speeches are shared and toasts are raised, our groom stands out at his welcome party as a beacon
Our groom takes his place by the side of his beloved in a Nicholas Joseph three-piece tuxedo. The crisp lines of the tailored ensemble accentuate his sartorial acclivity as he professes his vows with sophistication.
Our groom trades his traditional black tuxedo for a bold, 100% Italian wool dinner jacket and brocade loafers. With this second ensemble, he sets the tone for the rest of the evening and ensures that it is infused with personality.
morning-after brunch
Echoes of vows and the revelry of the reception fade into cherished memories as we enter the morning-after brunch. Amidst the relaxed setting, our groom exudes effortless charm, clad in a custom sage pique polo, tailored beige cotton pants and white leather sneakers. His attire choices reflect the essence of this post-wedding rendezvous, where comfort intertwines with style.
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ADORED AND ADORNED –A SYMPHONY OF ELEGANCE SINGS THROUGH FINE JEWELRY
PHOTOGRAPHY
Zach Caddy
JEWELRY
CD Peacock
All That Glitters
BANDS CD Peacock; Hearts On Fire, CD Peacock
BRACELETS CD Peacock; Smiling Rocks, CD Peacock
EARRINGS CD Peacock; Spark
ENGAGEMENT RINGS
CD Peacock; Hearts On Fire
NECKLACE CD Peacock; CD Peacock
TANZANITE RING CD
Peacock; CD Peacock
GOWN Grace + Ivory; Grace + Ivory “Malia”
Mine, Not Mined
BANDS CD Peacock; Haute Carat, Smiling Rocks
TENNIS BRACELETS CD Peacock; Haute Carat, Smiling Rocks
EARRINGS CD Peacock; Haute Carat
ENGAGEMENT RINGS CD Peacock; Smiling Rocks
EMERALD CUT RING CD Peacock; Haute Carat
NECKLACE CD Peacock; Haute Carat
GOWN Grace + Ivory; Goli June “Sheffield Shortie”
OPPOSITE (LEFT)
BANDS CD Peacock; Smiling Rocks
BRACELETS CD Peacock; CD Peacock, Memoire
COCKTAIL RING CD Peacock; Oscar Heyman
EARRINGS CD Peacock; Smiling Rocks
NECKLACES CD Peacock; CD Peacock, Smiling Rocks
RAINBOW BRACELET
CD Peacock; CD Peacock
YELLOW SAPPHIRE RING
CD Peacock; Spark
GOWN Grace + Ivory; Grace + Ivory “Logan Top”
Diamonds are Forever
GOWN
RIGHT EARRINGS CD Peacock; Hearts on Fire NECKLACE CD Peacock; CD Peacock Grace + Ivory; Goli June “Ashland Shortie” OpulenceEternally
BAND CD Peacock; CD Peacock, Smiling Rocks
BRACELET CD Peacock; CD Peacock
DIAMOND NECKLACE
CD Peacock; Smiling Rocks
EARRINGS CD Peacock; Mikimoto
ENGAGEMENT RING
CD Peacock; CD Peacock
PEARL NECKLACE
CD Peacock; Mikimoto
GOWN Grace + Ivory; Grace + Ivory “Gemma”
To see the video and more photos from this fashion shoot, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/jewelry-features
Questions to Ask Your cheers
Beauty Team
• Do you offer consultations and trials? If so, what is the charge?
• How far in advance should I book my trial appointment?
• Will you be able to accommodate all of my bridal party?
• How much time should I allow for hair and makeup on my wedding day?
• Do you offer on-site services? How far will you travel?
• What products and brands do you use?
• What is the range of skin tones and hair textures you are experienced working with? Do you have makeup and products that will match my skin tone?
• Based on your experiences, what look would you suggest for me?
• Are you available for touchups? If not, will you provide tips and tools to allow for touch-ups throughout the day?
FEEL BEAUTIFUL, LOOK BEAUTIFUL
While you don’t need to change anything about your appearance, it’s understandable if you wish to include some new pampering elements into your pre-wedding routine. In the spirit of entering this new chapter, consider some new inner and outer beauty regimens. If you’re looking to enliven your beauty routine for the occasion, keep in mind these tips to feel beautiful and look beautiful.
TIP: Enjoy primping and pampering, but don’t forget to exercise self-love. If you spend the months leading up to your wedding trying to change your appearance, you won’t look or feel like yourself on the big day. Remember: confidence and self-assurance are the most radiant beauty enhancers.
BEST FACE FORWARD
Your face and the joy it exudes are the stars of the show for your wedding. If you have skin concerns you want to address, consult a dermatologist at least six months before your wedding. They’ll be able to give you the best advice on what to do — and what not to do — to prep your skin. Alternatively, see an esthetician for facial treatment and product recommendations. In the spirit of pampering, we recommend getting a few relaxing facials during your planning process. A facial can make you feel rejuvenated and ready to shine!
TIP: If you plan to book facial treatments, start early and get your skin
accustomed to the process. You don’t want to risk any uncomfortable breakouts or reactions too close to your wedding day.
FROM THE INSIDE OUT
The simplest way to improve your overall health is to hydrate, hydrate, hydrate. You’ll be surprised how much of a difference getting your eight glasses of water per day will make. Entice yourself to stay hydrated by purchasing a cute water bottle and always keep it nearby.
TIP: Many find that lowering alcohol consumption makes them feel happier and healthier. Opt for non-alcoholic cocktails made with zero-proof spirits or have some fun with flavorful mocktails.
MANE ATTRACTION
Even if you’re growing your hair out, regular trims are a must. No matter how talented your wedding day hairstylist is, you have to give them a good base to work with. While you’re at the salon, talk with your stylist about your hair type and the look you’d like to have on your wedding day. They can give product suggestions and tips for how to enhance your natural shine.
TIP: To avoid wispy frizzes and breakage, avoid daily washing and heated styling products. If you feel too far gone, try a deep conditioning treatment about a month before your big day.
CAREFUL WITH COLOR
If you regularly get your hair dyed, you know that nothing makes your hair look shinier and lovelier than a fresh dye job! However, we recommend sticking with a color or look you’ve rocked before. Experimenting with dyes right before your wedding could lead to a color you really aren’t thrilled about — and we all know how difficult and damaging it can be to try and fix hair hues.
TIP: For any color processes, talk with your stylist about the best shades for you. Mention the color of your wedding attire, if you plan on getting a spray tan, what your wedding party will wear and the overall aesthetic of your day.
BODY BEAUTIFUL
The face is not the only place that deserves some wedding TLC — your whole body should be pampered! To avoid skin blemishes or discolorations, regularly use a loofah or body scrub to exfoliate. Exfoliation washes away any
dead skin and excess oils that could clog pores, leaving your skin soft, smooth and glowing for your wedding.
TIP: Because your loofah helps get rid of the dead skin cells on your body, it’s a prime location for bacteria to grow. Make sure you’re replacing your loofah every month or so.
UP THE SPF
We are all about having a fun, sun-kissed glow, but no tan is worth damaging your skin. And we’re not just talking about long-term damages, but immediate ones like sunburns and discoloration, too. Get in the habit of applying sunscreen or a moisturizer with SPF every day — even if it looks overcast. The American Academy of Dermatology recommends sunscreens that have broad-spectrum protection (against UVA and UVB rays), an SPF of 30 or higher and is water resistant (aad.org). Don’t forget to stay in the shade when the UV index is high!
TIP: If you’re set on being a few hues darker on your wedding day, skip the tanning bed and consider a custom airbrush spray tan or gradual self-tanner mousse. Start testing your options a couple of months out to make sure you’re happy with the results by the time the wedding comes along.
STRESS BUSTERS
It has long been proven that exercise and physical activity decrease stress. Taking a run or quick walk regularly can help ease wedding planning headaches. Oftentimes, the discussion around fitness is about changing your physical appearance, but remember to keep a productive mindset! Instead of striving for a specific appearance or weight, shift your focus towards prioritizing overall well-being and celebrating what your body can do.
TIP: Get your heart rate up by taking dance classes. Ease the wedding planning stresses while breaking a sweat and learning a salsa routine to tear up the dance floor with.
NAILED IT
More people will ask to see your ring than you could ever imagine, so make sure those nails are looking their best. Achieve healthy, strong and dazzling nails by scheduling routine manicure appointments. Complete with a hand massage and moisturizing treatments, manicures help release the stress that you’re holding in your digits. Plus, who can resist all the fun nail polish options? Take a pause from sending emails give your hands some love.
TIP: Well-hydrated feet resist blisters better than dry, cracked feet. When scheduling your manicure appointments, don’t forget to add on a pampering pedicure, too.
GET ACCUSTOMED
If you want to deviate from your everyday look for the aisle, consider giving some new elements a test run. The months leading up to your wedding provide the opportunity to experiment with false lashes, hair extensions and other beauty enhancements you may have been hesitant to try in the past. For instance, if you’ve never worn false lashes before, they may initially feel uncomfortable and heavy. However, if you adore the way they make your eyes pop and want them for your wedding look, consider gradually incorporating them into your beauty routine to get accustomed to the feel. Some beauty additions require time to adjust to, like hair extensions, acrylic nails and matte lipstick, to name a few.
TIP: Be honest. If you’re not feeling confident with the results of your beauty trial, tell your artist(s). A professional won’t get upset or offended. Instead, they will appreciate your honesty and work to achieve something you both love.
MAKE A MOOD BOARD
When it comes to your wedding day hair and makeup, putting into words what you want can be hard. What you think is a smokey eye could mean something else to a makeup artist! When you’re working with your makeup artist, provide them with reference photos. Photos can better articulate what you have in mind than vague descriptive words like “bronzed” or “natural.”
TIP: Curate a digital mood board by gathering your favorite looks as you come across them. Whether it’s a Pinterest board, folder on your computer desktop or a “saved collection” on Instagram, having a centralized place to save beauty looks will help refine your preferences. When it comes time for your beauty trial, be prepared to wow your stylists with the clarity of your vision!
POSITIVE INFLUENCES ONLY
Prioritize a supportive and positive circle of family and friends to uplift you. When looking through beauty inspiration, cosmetic treatments and advice, it can be a lot to take in. As hard as it is, avoid negative self-talk and comparisons to others. Surround yourself with people who love the way you look, whether glammed up or comfy cozy.
TIP: Unfollow or mute anyone on social media who makes you feel lesser. Even the most confident people fall victim to comparing themselves to others. Remove the temptation of negative thoughts and curate feed that empowers your own beauty.
DIAL IT UP … A BIT
Your makeup artist undoubtedly has some jaw-dropping makeup looks in their portfolio, but be cautious with how bold you go for this occasion. It’s tempting to go all out and transform yourself, but we suggest only dialing your natural beauty up a few notches. You don’t want to look like a stranger to your partner!
TIP: Tell your makeup artist what your regular makeup routine is and what makeup looks you feel best in. They’ll be able to take your daily look and elevate it into a wedding vibe that is enhanced, but still “you.”
SWEET DREAMS ARE MADE OF THIS
As cliche as it sounds, don’t discount the value of a good
night’s sleep. This isn’t something you can procrastinate on! Keep dark circles and fatigue at bay by establishing a healthy sleep schedule. We recommend turning bedtime into a luxurious experience by crafting a glamorous routine. Consider adding relaxing accessories such as a sound machine, silk sleep mask, earplugs, sleep-enhancing pillow mist or a cozy weighted blanket. These additions can enhance your sleep environment and promote a more indulgent and restful night’s sleep.
TIP: If stress is keeping you from a good night’s sleep, try out natural sleep aids like melatonin, magnesium or lavender. There’s no shame in getting a bit of help! ■
classic BEAUTY & timeless GRACE
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DISCOVER YOUR WEDDING DAY FRAGRANCE
WRITTEN BY Alexandra Dillard | PHOTOGRAPHY BY Stephanie Wood PhotographyAmidst the glimmer of heirloom jewels and your face-framing lace veil, the perfume you adorn yourself with becomes an essential part of curating your wedding-day aura. Fragrance has a remarkable ability to stir emotions, evoke memories and enhance your overall experience. Join us on a fragrant journey as we explore the various scent profiles and their significance in the context of your special day.
FRAGRANCE NOTES
Floral
Floral fragrances have always held a special place in the realm of wedding perfumes, embodying the essence of romance, femininity and elegance. They capture the essence of blooming flowers, evoking the whiff of a bouquet and bringing forth a sense of freshness and beauty. Jasmine, rose, lily of the valley and peony are popular floral
notes found in perfumes. These scents can evoke feelings of love, joy and grace, making them an ideal choice for brides seeking a romantic ambiance on their wedding day.
Citrus and Fruity
If you want a fragrance that exudes energy, vibrancy and zest, consider citrus or fruity scents. Notes of orange, lemon, grapefruit and mandarin create a lively
and invigorating atmosphere, perfect for a summer or waterfront wedding. These fragrances can uplift the spirit and feel like a zesty cocktail on a warm day. The invigorating notes of citrus fruits and succulent berries infuse your wedding day with a delightful splash of freshness and a playful spirit. Citrus scents are also known to enhance focus and uplift mood, which makes them perfect for calming pre-wedding jitters and ensuring a vibrant start to your new chapter.
Cozy and Warm
Cozy and warm fragrances evoke a sense of comfort and familiarity, enveloping you in a tender embrace. Like a soft and cozy blanket on a chilly evening, these scents create an ambiance of warmth and intimacy. They exude a sense of sweetness and invoke cherished memories, making them a perfect choice for wedding perfumes. These fragrances often feature notes such as vanilla, caramel, cinnamon, amber and nutmeg. When wearing a warm fragrance on your wedding day, the sweet and inviting aroma can create an atmosphere of togetherness and make you, your partner and your guests feel at ease.
Musky and Spicy
For a more mysterious and seductive scent, musky and spicy fragrances are an excellent choice. Composed of exotic notes like amber, patchouli and incense, they evoke a sense of sensuality and intrigue. These resinous scents leave a lasting impression and can add a touch of depth and allure to your wedding day persona. Ideal for evening weddings, black-tie affairs or occasions where you want to leave an indelible mark, these fragrances will create an air of mystique around you.
Woody and Earthy
Woody and earthy scents bring a touch of natural elegance and sophistication to your wedding day. Composed of notes like sandalwood, vetiver and cedar, they evoke a sense of grounding and stability. The earthy elements also help to calm the nerves and instill a sense of tranquility on your big day. These fragrances have a timeless quality and can create a refined
ambiance, perfect for a traditional or rustic-themed wedding.
Fresh and Clean
If you prefer a minimalist and clean scent, light and fresh fragrances are an ideal choice. These scents often incorporate notes like bergamot, aquatic accords and green leaves, creating an aura of purity and serenity. Fresh fragrances are perfect for outdoor weddings or those seeking a light and breezy atmosphere. They offer a sense of freshness and clarity,
MAKE IT LAST
• Fragrance lasts longer on hydrated skin. Apply your perfume post-shower or after applying unscented moisturizer.
• Scents blossom when warm, so spray or dab your fragrance on your pulse points. Areas to focus on are your wrists, nape of the neck, behind ears, inside elbows and even the creases behind knees! As those parts of your body warm up, the perfume will react and emit scent throughout the day.
• Sensitive skin? No problem! Perfume also holds well in your hair. Let your signature scent radiate from your head by spraying a bit of your fragrance onto a brush before running it through your hair.
• Even the finest perfumes work best when reapplied. Keep a mini atomizer of your chosen scent on hand for a postceremony pick-me-up.
• You’ve found your perfect scent, so make sure you preserve it properly! Keep your perfume fresh and potent by storing it in a cool, dry place. For best results, keep the bottle away from sunny windowsills or humid bathroom counters.
making them a popular choice for spring and summer weddings.
YOUR VERY OWN SCENT
Different skin types and pH levels can cause scents to react uniquely, so don’t solely rely on how a perfume smells out of the bottle or on someone else. What might be delightful on a friend might have a different aroma on your skin! Take the opportunity to test and experience various fragrances on yourself. Fortunately, many beauty retailers provide travel-sized fragrances
or free samples, allowing you to do some trial runs with the scents. This way, you can truly discover how each fragrance interacts with your body chemistry before committing to a particular one.
As you select your wedding fragrance, consider the personality and style you wish to convey, as well as the season and theme of your wedding. On your wedding day, the scent you choose will become a part of your everlasting memory, forever associated with the joy, love and happiness that filled the air. ■
INSPIRATION & DETAILS
The special and personalized details are what make a wedding memorable. Hone in on what you want to inspire you — whether that be overarching themes or specific anecdotes — and let them guide your wedding planning experience. These pages are here to get your mind dreaming … and don’t be afraid to dream big!
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STYLED SHOOT SHOWCASE Opulence, Revisited
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STYLED SHOOT SHOWCASE
P.S. I Love You
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HOT NIGHTS, COOL VIBES
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STYLED SHOOT SHOWCASE Tickled Pink
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MIND & BODY
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COSMIC LOVE
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Styled Shoot Showcase Opulence, Revisited
Art Deco style, which symbolized hope amidst upheaval a century ago, is brought to life at The LaSalle Chicago in a stylish vision of opulence and optimism. The grand staircase and lavish ballroom, adorned with rich wood, luxurious stone and gold accents, set the stage for a celebration of heritage and luxury. Gilt-edged plates and gold serving ware from The Festive Frog grace the tables, while StemLine Creative’s towering floral structures burst with roses and orchids. From the geometric textiles to the commanding views of Chicago’s skyscrapers, every detail signals the luxury and heritage that belong at The LaSalle — hearkening to the past while boldly looking into the future.
From the planner…
The idea of luxury and architecture came into play with all of the design choices. Design is curated and collected; it is to be felt all the way through.
KERRIE GALLAGHER
WEDDING & EVENT SPECIALIST, NOUVELLE EVENTS
Vendor List
PHOTOGRAPHY: Tuan B & Co.
VENUE: The LaSalle Chicago, Autograph Collection
PLANNER: Kerrie Gallagher with Nouvelle Events
FLORAL: StemLine Creative
LINENS: Nuage Designs
CHAIR RENTALS: Hall’s Rental
TABLETOP DÉCOR: The Festive Frog
HAIR: Livia Caporale
MAKEUP: Joanna B Artistry
STATIONERY: Double Trip Press
GOWNS: Alon Livne, Rita Vinieris from Bella Bianca
FORMALWEAR: SuitShop
FAVORS: Tura Lura Co
MODELS: Alexis Abarca, Huy Nguyen
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlight-on-style.
Styled Shoot Showcase
Tickled Pink
Smiles can light up a room, but the grins on display at this West Loop love affair could light up the whole city. At Morgan’s on Fulton, the essence of the neighborhood was showcased with a chic and sexy flair — and a whole lot of pink. From champagne towers to espresso martinis, each element embodied a fun and flirty vibe. With cake icing covering a mischievous fingertip and hot pink pumps kicked up in the air, this shoot captures the youthful giddiness that comes from being swept off your feet.
From the planner...
The champagne tower, the outfit change, the bouquet, the makeup, the hair ... all of those little details really bring this fun flirty vision to life!
NATALIA MANGIERI OWNER & PLANNER, NCM EVENTS CO.Vendor List
PHOTOGRAPHY: Photographs by Teresa
VENUE: Morgan’s on Fulton
PLANNER: NCM Events Co.
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Thrive Floral Designs
LINENS: Windy City Linen
CAKE: ECBG Cake Studio
HAIR: Brooke Klay Artistry
MAKEUP: Joey Claeyssen
STATIONERY: Ink Love and Paper
GOWNS: Lovely Bride Chicago
FORMALWEAR: SuitShop
JEWELRY: grace von, Gage Diamonds
MODELS: Jayda Perry, Warren Baskin III
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlight-on-style.
Styled Shoot Showcase
P.S. I Love You
Drawing inspiration from the playful love stories in romantic comedies, a vision of pink, sage and ivory unfolded in the Emerald Room at Chicago Gaelic Park. As is often seen in romcoms, this styled shoot showcased the unlikely couple: a mix of traditional and modern. The venue itself, Chicago Gaelic Park, is a cultural center dedicated to preserving Irish heritage and traditions. However, this styled shoot proved that opposites attract and modern weddings can thrive in this kind of setting. From ribbon-bound vow books, a private vow reading in the venue’s Claddagh Falls unfolded like a scene out of “When Harry Met Sally.” While on the other end of tradition, flash photography captured the couple playfully raising their glasses of Guinness at The Carraig Pub. These romantic scenes would make Nora Ephron herself swoon.
Romcoms and our Emerald Room inspired us to create this elegant ballroom wedding. After all, a ballroom has plenty of room to fit you and your love’s many supporting characters.
MARY O’SULLIVAN MARKETING, CHICAGO GAELIC PARK
Vendor List
PHOTOGRAPHER: Aly Jo Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Vander Film Co
VENUE: Chicago Gaelic Park
FLORAL: Belles & Thistles
DÉCOR: Elegant Event Decor
LINENS: Chair Covers by Sylwia
CAKE: Creative Cakes
HAIR & MAKEUP: Elizabeth Scott Company
STATIONERY: From Ashley Calligraphy
GOWN: David’s Bridal
FORMALWEAR: Black Tie
Formalwear - Orland Park
JEWELRY: grace von, Gage Diamonds
MODELS: Anna Page, Jason Booth
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlight-on-style.
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CHRIS SCHMIDT ASSOCIATE DIRECTOR OF SALES & EVENTS, PARK HYATT CHICAGOThroughout the wedding planning experience, it’s easy to forget to take a moment for yourself. Recenter your wellbeing as you luxuriate in elegance, beauty and serenity.
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SARAH RODRIGUEZ OWNER, SARAH KATHLEEN EVENTS
Inspired by the bright lights and bold colors found in Miami, vibrant wedding details are making a big splash. Statement shoes paired with short dresses help beat the heat and the fun fashions don’t have to stop with the bridal gowns. Unique neon touches will show guests the way and keep the party going all night long!
hot nights,
cool vibes
Venue Sourcing
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CARLITA KELLY MARKETING DIRECTOR, CITY CRUISESThis love was written in the stars. Dance the night away under the moonlight and infuse a sense of cosmic wonder and magic into your wedding. With a bit of gold and nods to the twinkling lights of both the city and stars above, celebrate with the constellations shining down on you.
love cosmic
SOARING
CELEBRATION LOCATIONS
Where you host your wedding and reception can define your day more than anything else. Your venue sets the tone and communicates what your festivities will be like. In this section, see what types of venues are out there and read about all sorts of ceremony and reception details.
SETTING THE SCENE
Types of wedding celebration venues
I JUST WANT TO SAY
Writing authentic wedding vows
WHY NOT A SUNDAY?
Considering a Sunday date
TO MY BELOVED
The art of the wedding morning letter
HOW TO INCORPORATE…
Kids, pets and in memoriam
PACK YOUR BAGS
Packing essentials for weddings
WEDDING WANDERLUST
All about planning a destination wedding
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CELEBRATION LOCATIONS
Ceremony and reception venue directory
BEYOND THE AISLE
Types of parties surrounding the wedding
GET A ROOM
Host hotel and hotel blocking tips
RAISE YOUR GLASS
Write and deliver a great toast
THE VENUE SEARCH STARTER KIT
Begin the venue search right
LOOKING FOR A WEDDING CONCIERGE?
Working with a convention and visitors bureau
WHY COUPLES SAY “I DO” IN SAVANNAH
America’s favorite wedding destination city
THE PERFECT SPOT
Venue Features PRELUDE TO THE PARTY
Venues for everything but the aisle
Venue Questions to Ask Your
• What is your capacity? Seated capacity?
• Do you offer venue space for the ceremony and reception?
• How do you transition the room from ceremony to reception and what is the floor plan?
• What is the length of time included in our booking?
• If needed, what are the alternatives for inclement weather?
• Can the wedding party get ready at the venue? Where?
• Are there any planned building works or renovations before/near the wedding date?
• What are the bathroom facilities?
• Are there any other items included in the booking, such as linens, tables, furniture, etc.?
• Are we required to use your preferred vendors, including catering?
• Are we permitted to bring our own alcohol?
• What time can we gain access to set up?
• What are the parking options for guests?
• What time do we have to exit the venue?
Timeless Elegance …
Questions to Ask Your
• Are you legally able to perform a marriage at our location?
• Are we able to personalize our ceremony? To what extent?
• How would you describe your ceremony style? Is it casual and comedic or formal and momentous?
• Do you file the marriage license for us or will we?
• What does your package include and what are the costs?
• Do you have a video we can watch of you performing a recent ceremony?
• Do you require any pre-marital counseling or classes?
• Can we include religious, cultural and personal touches if desired? Or can we omit religious mentions?
• How long do your ceremonies usually last?
• Will you attend and help guide our rehearsal?
CHICAGO
SETTING SCENE THE Types of Wedding Celebration Venues
When planning your wedding, you’ll most likely start with selecting and securing the venue. After all, your venue will ultimately influence the mood, logistics and design choices of your celebration. From the rehearsal dinner to the ceremony to the reception, there are a lot of options for what your wedding landscape will be. Keep things simple and streamlined by planning all your festivities in one spot or treat your guests to several locations. There are a lot of options! Whatever you choose as your venue(s), take into account the aesthetics and overall vision, but also think about these important aspects:
• Location – How easily will guests be able to access the venue? Is the venue located near hotels? Do you want something within the city or in the suburbs? How far are you willing to travel?
• Cost – Will you have to move around other items in your budget to accommodate for a certain venue? Does your desired wedding date have a higher peak-season rate?
• Amenities – How much is provided by the venue and how much will you need to bring in? How many restrooms are there and what are they like? Is it handicap accessible? Is there a catering kitchen?
• Size – What is the maximum capacity? Will the venue be too large or too small for your guest list?
• Preferred Vendors – Does the venue have a list of preferred vendors that you’re limited to?
• Privacy – How private or public will the venue be? Is there a risk of strangers and passersby stumbling into it? Does the venue offer a security team?
COUNTRY CLUB
Views and greens abound! Country clubs and golf courses lend themselves to some stunning panoramic photo opportunities and event backdrops, something you can’t replicate in the city. Besides the aesthetic appeal of country clubs and golf courses, these venues come with white-glove service, multiple rooms available, and experienced staff and catering. Many country clubs offer events to their members only, so be sure to check before you get your heart set on one. However, this does add extra privacy and security for your special day.
HISTORIC ESTATE OR SITE
BREWERY OR DISTILLERY
Gilded halls and china place settings aren’t for everyone. Some couples feel more comfortable celebrating among wooden kegs and saying “cheers!” with pint glasses. A brewery or distillery wedding can feel industrial, relaxed and true to the couple. Many breweries have on-site kitchens available, which makes for some ideal food and drink pairings. If there are no kitchen or catering options, bring in some local food trucks to set up in the parking lot.
Character abounds with a historic site or estate as a venue. By leaning into the splendor of the past, you can ease up on decor rentals and let the space speak for itself. These venues typically have sweeping gardens, breathtaking architecture and the irreplaceable richness of history. If you’re looking for a venue that is timeless and welcoming, a historic estate might be up your alley. However, due to the quaint charm of the past, these venues can lack modern amenities like ample restrooms or grounded power outlets, so keep that in mind!
Like the idea of hosting your wedding at a distillery, but want something a touch more formal than a beer hall? Try a winery! While we are not in Napa Valley, our region does have several beautiful vineyard estates. As the wine ages in caskets around you, your love will be one that grows better with age too.
Above: Revolution Brewing. Photography by
Photography
PRIVATE RESIDENCE
Private residences have added sentimental value that a standard venue can’t replicate. They offer an entirely private and intimate experience, as the venue is not publicly accessible. However, they can come with hiccups, like not being equipped for events and not having staff dedicated to making everything run smoothly. While this type of venue might not cost anything for you to book (in the case that it is a residence of a family member or friend), it might not necessarily save you money. You’ll likely need to bring in external coordinators, staff, set-up crews and more to ensure the venue operates as cohesively as a dedicated event venue would. But you can’t beat the emotional value of getting married in grandma’s garden or your childhood home!
HOTEL OR RESORT
Wedding logistics are a breeze when you book a hotel wedding. Hosting your wedding at a hotel or resort is a great option if you anticipate a lot of out-of-town guests. On-site accommodations ease the need for wedding-day transportation, and it helps keep everyone in a central locale. Plus, there’s an added layer of guest safety, as no one will need to find a sober driver at the end of the night — they can just go up the elevator to their room! Many hotels and resorts offer a variety of celebration locations, from their hotel restaurant as the rehearsal dinner venue to a ballroom for the ceremony to a hospitality suite for getting ready the day of. The value of all the amenities a hotel provides is hard to overlook.
Below: The Langham. Photography by Alex Ferreri Photography
BANQUET HALL
Banquet halls are dedicated to events. They offer a turn-key location that is a blank slate for you to build on. The purpose of these venues is to host events like weddings or conferences, so you can be confident that they have every detail accounted for. Most banquet halls have an in-house team dedicated to making your wedding perfect. This can include in-house catering, planners, designers and event staff. Another benefit comes with the assets. Banquet halls typically are equipped with a range of necessary wedding essentials, including sound systems, furniture and decor.
GARDEN
Gardens are charming and undeniably beautiful venues for spring or summer weddings (perhaps a conservatory or greenhouse in the winter, though). Let nature guide your décor, allowing the expert landscaping to lead the way with ample greenery and blossoms. The depth and texture of garden venues allow you to be transported to a full sensory experience.
MUSEUM
While your wedding will be the star of the show, a museum venue adds a layer of entertainment and culture to your festivities. Guests can meander through the museum’s exhibits and immerse themselves in a unique and textured experience. Thought-provoking and conversation-starting, museums are good options for when you have a lot of guests from different social circles. No better way to break the ice! When your love story is a piece of art itself, a museum is a great backdrop setting for your celebration.
Left: The Adler Planetarium. Photography by Anamaria Vieriu Photography
RESTAURANT
By picking a restaurant, café or bar whose aesthetics you enjoy, you will have built-in décor! Save for any personalized details you want to decorate with, a stylish eatery comes with the restaurant’s existing décor as well as tabletop needs like silverware and plating. And of course, you know the food and drink will be spectacular. Typically, a restaurant wedding will require a smaller guest list due to venue capacity. If you want an intimate wedding that doesn’t feel empty, a venue like this is perfect. Certain restaurants or bars have private rooms available for rent, while others offer the possibility to buy out the entire venue, so there’s still room for a wide headcount range.
BARN
Rustic charm and serenity come easily at a barn or farmhouse. Barns offer up a lot of space, so these are ideal for large weddings, especially if you intend on having both indoor and outdoor festivities. All the outdoor grounds give room for elements like a fire pit, yard games and maybe even some barn animal cameos. And don’t feel boxed in by the rustic aesthetic. These venues are versatile and can be dressed up to create an engaging juxtaposition of glamour and homespun charm. For a breath of fresh air and a step away from the hustle of city life, a barn or farmhouse is a lovely choice for a blissful wedding.
Left: St. Joe Farm. Photography by Nicodem Creative
URBAN LOFT / WAREHOUSE
For some texture, exposed brick and high ceilings, urban lofts or warehouses are great options. An urban loft is a versatile and industrial take on a classic barn wedding. For city dwellers, the urban loft or warehouse route adds an undeniable city flair. Plus, these venues are often centrally located, which is also great for out-of-town guests. With past lives as train depots or industrial stock houses, urban loft or warehouse venues have tenacity and a rich history perfect for starting your future in.
Right: Fairlie. Photography by Alex Ferreri Photography
WATERFRONT
A bonus: You now have an automatic anniversary date night planned for years to come. What’s more special than celebrating in the very spot you tied the knot?
Above: Orso’s Restaurant. Photography by AJ Abelman Photography
Romanticism comes with the territory of a waterfront wedding. No matter how high your wedding-day nerves might be, ultimate relaxation comes with getting married in front of a cacophony of trickling water or crashing waves. A waterfront wedding can take place in a variety of places, like on a yacht or private charter, on a beach, at a marina or at a dock. For a midwestern state, there’s a surprising number of options near Chicagoland! Opt for something on Lake Michigan or plan a mini-destination wedding to surrounding waterfront areas like Lake Geneva, Wisconsin. ■
Above: Theater on the Lake. Photography by Nicodem Creative
Beyond the Aisle
Wedding Shower
What
A “wedding shower” is the more inclusive iteration of a conventional bridal shower. While a bridal shower is customarily reserved for the bride and only her female friends and family, a wedding shower is a co-ed version that can be customized to fit any style or preference.
Although we will refer to this event as a “wedding shower,” it is entirely up to the hosts and guests to choose a name that suits them best. Whether it is a “bridal shower” for ladies only, a “groom’s shower” for the gentlemen, a
As you diligently plan and prepare for your nuptials, it can be easy to overlook the various events that precede and succeed your big day. These events, ranging from an engagement party all the way to a day-after brunch, present opportunities to commemorate your love story in a medley of ways.
However, more events can mean a host of additional logistical questions. So we’ve compiled a list of the most common wedding-related events and their respective traditions and etiquettes. While it is worth bearing in mind that none of these events are mandatory (apart from the ceremony, of course), the more occasions to rejoice in, the more delightful the festivities will be!
“nearlywed shower” for a nonbinary celebrant or a “Jack and Jill party” for the couple hosting together, the spirit of the celebration remains the same. The shower usually takes place during the day, with options like a luncheon, tea party or light hors d’oeuvres social. As the name implies, the event is a time to shower you with love and gifts. It’s an excellent opportunity to incorporate a unique theme or light-hearted games, such as the shoe game, couples trivia matches or yard games like bocce and ladder toss.
Who Typically, the wedding shower is hosted by friends or family members of the couple, and the nearlywed does not need to do any planning themselves. Put your maid of honor, wedding attendant, aunt or mother’s bestie in charge and let them take care of planning and organizing the celebration.
While the guest list can include anyone you desire, it’s best to keep it limited to those who are also invited to the wedding itself. This usually includes immediate family members, wedding
attendants (such as bridesmaids and groomsmen) and close friends of the couple. A smaller and more intimate celebration is easier to manage and allows for more meaningful interactions.
When
One to three months before the wedding.
Where
While the home of the shower's host is a common venue for this celebration, other popular and charming options include private dining areas of restaurants or cafes, outdoor patios, gardens, wineries or hotel event spaces.
Bachelorette / Bachelor Party Beyond the Aisle
What
Your wedding is undoubtedly a celebration of your relationship with your future spouse, but the bachelor/ bachelorette party provides an opportunity to celebrate you as an individual. Although you’ll be spending the rest of your life with your partner, this is a party just for you and your closest friends.
It’s a chance to revel in your single life (legally speaking) one last time before tying the knot. The lively celebration can range from a singular fun night out on the town to a multiday destination adventure.
Who
The quintessential bachelor/ bachelorette party typically involves a same-sex guest list, but some couples with blended friend groups may prefer to have a joint celebration. This larger alternative
can be equally as enjoyable, so don’t be afraid of this option!
To fully let loose and enjoy the festivities, keep the guest list restricted to your close friends. After all, you’ll have plenty of opportunities to celebrate with extended family and professional colleagues during other wedding festivities.
When Six to eight weeks prior to the wedding.
Where When it comes to choosing a venue for your bachelor/ bachelorette party, the possibilities are endless. The scale of the celebration is entirely up to you, but keep in mind that you should consider your guests’ ability to participate in the festivities. While you may be excited about a week-long cruise,
a friend or family member with a newborn might not be able to attend, and you wouldn’t want them to miss out!
If you’re interested in a destination weekend, some of
the most popular locations are Las Vegas, Nashville, Miami, Savannah, New Orleans, Napa Valley and The Hamptons.
If you prefer to plan a local celebration,
popular options include a relaxing spa day, staycation at a luxury downtown hotel, chartered boat excursion, bar crawl around the city or dancing the night away at a nightclub.
Beyond the Aisle
Welcome Party
What
A wedding welcome party is a casual pre-wedding event that kicks off the wedding festivities. It’s a perfect way to welcome out-of-town guests and bring everyone together before the big day. The welcome party can be a replacement for a traditional rehearsal dinner or an additional, separate event held before or after the rehearsal dinner.
This event typically involves light bites, cocktails and some ice-breaking activities. Get ready for corn hole, jumbo Jenga, bocce or maybe even a scavenger hunt. Use your welcome party as a time to have some lighthearted fun and set the tone for the weekend.
Who
The welcome party is a perfect opportunity
to spend some quality time with your out-of-town guests. There will be people who traveled in especially for the occasion, so make sure to invite all of your non-local loved ones! Use this party to break the ice and say “thank you” for making the trip.
When
One or two nights before the wedding.
Where Consider hosting the welcome party at a hotel bar (bonus if it’s the hotel where your guests are staying), private room at your favorite restaurant, picturesque public park or even in your own backyard for a casual cook-out.
A modern and elegant venue for your upcoming special day! Providing sophisticated fun and customized events to suit your personal style. Boasting an Italian-American bistro menu with the classic games of bowling and bocce ball to provide unique entertainment for your guests. Let our team help you bring your dream wedding to life and create a perfect day that you and all your guests will be sure to remember.
Beyond the Aisle
What
The rehearsal dinner is the last official celebration before the wedding itself! After you and your wedding party rehearse the ceremony at the venue, you’ll head to dinner to celebrate with close relatives and friends. While you and your partner’s parents, best man/maid and maid/man of honor will give speeches at the reception itself, the rehearsal dinner is time for other guests to share their fond memories and well wishes. For a special touch, you can put together a slideshow or video presentation full of scenes from your relationship to watch after or during dinner. Dinner and a show!
Rehearsal Dinner
Who
The rehearsal dinner is for immediate family and the wedding party (and anyone who is involved in the ceremony itself), but invitations can also be extended to out-of-town guests.
It’s traditional for the groom’s parents to host
the rehearsal. However, modern couples just as frequently host the dinner themselves.
When The night before the wedding.
Where Optimal locations for rehearsal dinners include private rooms at restaurants, private residences or event halls. The key is to keep it nearby! Ideally, the rehearsal dinner should be held within a 20-mile radius to the guests’ hotel or your wedding venue. Guests are in town to celebrate with you, so you don’t want to inconvenience them with too
many long commutes throughout the weekend. It’s always helpful to provide clear directions or arrange transportation for guests, making their travel easier and more enjoyable.
The rehearsal dinner is the perfect time to introduce some personal details about your relationship. Is your favorite date night at a local restaurant? Host the rehearsal dinner there. Was your first date at a microbrewery? Serve brews from that brewery. If your wedding is far from memorable spots, showcase your chosen destination’s local cuisine.
Beyond the Aisle
Mehendi Party
What
The Mehendi (also known as Mehndi or henna) ceremony is a pre-wedding ritual common in South Asian cultures, particularly in India, Pakistan and Bangladesh. During this event, the bride’s hands and feet are adorned with intricate henna designs, often including traditional motifs and symbols. The application of henna is accompanied by music, choreographed dancing and lots of food, making for a lively and festive event.
Henna serves both aesthetic and symbolic purposes. Its designs are renowned for their intricate beauty and often incorporate
symbols of luck, joy and love.
Additionally, Mehendi incorporates ancient herbal remedies. The henna paste has natural cooling properties that help the body regulate temperature and soothe nerves. As a result, the bride’s henna application not only produces beautiful skin enhancements but also has a calming effect on the tension and anxiety often associated with weddings.
Who The Mehendi ceremony is traditionally a female-only event. In some multi-cultural unions, this event may have a co-ed guest list and
serve as a combination of Mehendi and rehearsal dinner. However, it’s traditionally an evening reserved for mothers, bridesmaids, future in-laws and other female family members and friends.
And the ceremony isn’t just for the bride! Guests from both sides of the aisle are invited to participate in the
ceremony by getting smaller-scale henna designs applied to their hands.
When One night before the wedding.
Where
The Mehendi ceremony is a lively and colorful celebration, often decorated with festive hues of orange, pink, green and yellow. It is a joyous occasion that benefits from a
neutral backdrop to let the colors shine. Hence, many nearlyweds choose event halls, industrial lofts or banquet venues as their Mehendi ceremony locations. These venues provide a great blank canvas to create the cheerful and vibrant atmosphere.
PHOTOGRAPHY Maha Studios WEDDING Aman and Irum, September 2, 2022
VENUE Belvedere Banquets PLANNING, FLORAL & DÉCOR Hana April Inc.
Beyond the Aisle
What
Depending on your reception venue’s hours or noise restrictions, your party might have to close down before you’re done celebrating. This is when the afterparty comes in! Whether you want to wind down with a drink or dance the night away, many couples choose to extend the festivities beyond the reception itself.
While it’s a good idea to have some after-party plans in mind, it’s often an event that arises spontaneously. As the night progresses and last call approaches, you and your guests may realize you’re not quite ready to call it a night. Don’t feel pressured to plan an elaborate after-party that you may be too exhausted to enjoy. Keep some ideas in mind, but remember that most wedding after-parties occur organically.
After-Party
Who
Your parents and grandparents can head home to get some rest while you and your close friends continue on into the night with loosened ties and kicked-off shoes. Anyone who has the stamina to keep the festivities going is invited.
Even though you might want to keep the party going, let guests know that it is not expected for them to do the same. Some may be ready to go to sleep, so be clear that it’s perfectly acceptable to skip the after-party. This one is for the night owls and young-at-heart!
When
Right after the reception ends.
Where
Many couples have an after-party held at a hotel room, nearby bar or a friend’s house. The two things to keep in mind for the after-party are proximity and size. Ensure
the after-party location is easily accessible from your reception venue. Even better, continue the party on premise if there are spots available (we’re talking hotel rooms, the venue’s public bar, etc.).
Second, make sure that the after-party spot has enough room for everyone who is coming. It might sound fun to go to your favorite cocktail bar, but the intimate environment might not be able to accommodate a group of 30.
Beyond the Aisle
Farewell Brunch
What
You’re recovering from a long weekend with a packed timeline; consider the farewell brunch as a relaxed closing to it all. Depending on how the night ended, this gathering allows guests to say their goodbyes and not feel rushed. An informal buffetstyle brunch works great, as guests can come and go as they please. Let attendees know that they can stop by anytime within a two- or three-hour period to offer any final congratulations and grab a bite.
A buffet or an à la carte menu are easy ways to feed your guests without much stress; offer light breakfast options that do not require a sitdown meal, like muffins, quiche or donuts. While a mimosa or Bloody Mary bar is always festive, be sure to have plenty of coffee and water as well!
Who
If your budget allows for it, everyone who attended the wedding can be invited to the farewell brunch. However, if you’re wanting a more intimate fete, inviting just your
immediate family, wedding party and key, close friends is enough.
When Morning after the wedding.
Where
The most convenient location for a farewell brunch is at the host hotel. However, it is just as common to rent out an event space in a restaurant or host the brunch at a private residence. If your farewell brunch is intimate and relaxed, you may even want to host it in your own home — sweatpants and sneakers are encouraged! ■
I JUST WANT TO SAY WITH A LITTLE GUIDANCE FROM LIZ BABINSKI ’S “ I JUST WANT TO SAY VOW JOURNAL,” WRITING YOUR VOWS ISN’T SO HARD AFTER ALL
WRITTEN BY
Alexandra DillardPHOTOGRAPHY BY
Nicole DefilippisPhotography
By unveiling the heartfelt promises that bind two in matrimony, wedding vows hold a profound significance. Crafting vows that encapsulate one’s emotions can be both exhilarating and daunting. To shed light on this craft and offer guidance, we spoke with Liz Babinski, the author of “I Just Want to Say Vow Journal.” Also a wedding officiant with Liz Rae & Co, Babinski shares vow writing tips and offers a sampling of what you can find in the journal itself.
Tell us about yourself and your wedding industry experience.
Hello, I’m Liz! I’m first a writer, but second, an officiant for the last decade or so. I started working in the wedding industry by accident. I always loved writing and knew it was a career path I wanted to pursue. When my friends, who couldn’t find an LGBTQ-friendly officiant that actually wrote the entire wedding ceremony, asked me to officiate theirs, I decided to start a business totally dedicated to ceremonies for everyone that were 100% custom.
What is the “I Just Want to Say Vow Journal?”
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Q. Q. A. A. A.
“The Vow Journal” is a colorful prompt and brainstorming journal
that guides couples through questions about their relationship, and then walks them through how to use that content to write wedding vows.
Why is this useful to couples?
Journaling has been helpful for me to narrow down my own thoughts and create new ideas. While couples could use an app or website to write their vows, the journals take them away from the distractions online and slow down the process to better harness thoughts and stories about their relationship. The prompts in the journals dive deeper than surface-level questions, extracting emotions, rather than simple one-line answers. There’s also something so intimate about handwriting, and having that to look back on later is a beautiful memory that you can’t get with something digital.
The other useful part of the journal is the color! So many journals are black-and-white with simple, blank lines, which works great for everyday journaling! But when writing something as emotional as wedding vows, that little extra bit of design makes the process more approachable, even for those that might not have ever considered writing their own vows.
Just Write
Prepare to write and preserve your vows in style. These essentials will help make the vow writing process a breeze.
1. Lavender Sprig Candle, Bright Endeavors Ambiance is everything. The right scent and environment will get you in the mood to write out your most loving vows.
2. Signature Pen, Shinola Good vow writing begins with a good pen! Don’t risk running out of ink just as your ideas begin to flow. A new pen will smoothly guide your thoughts.
3. “The Vow Journal,” I Just Want to Say Journals
Allocate a notebook to journal your wedding thoughts, feelings and ideas into. This special place can house all your vow ideas up until you’re ready to officially write them.
4. Wafu Japanese Handkerchief, Topdrawer Let’s be real, tears might be shed during your vow writing process. And especially when you’re saying
them at the altar. Prepare to wipe those happy tears away in style.
5. Vow Book, Artifact Uprising Write your final draft of vows in a beautiful notebook or stationery. Not only will this look nice at the altar, but it will make for a great keepsake for years to come.
6. “Wedding Readings: Centuries of Writing and Rituals on Love and Marriage,” Penguin Books Don’t know where to start? Consult a book! Collections of wedding readings and love poems are sure to inspire your own vows.
7. XO Mugs Johnny Cash Mug, Art Effect Fueled by love (and caffeine) — write your vows with a clear and energetic mind. Brought to you by coffee or tea in a darling mug!
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What gave you the idea to create this product?
Couples always ask me for help with writing their wedding vows, and I’ve given them prompts in the past. About three or so years ago, I picked up a story prompt journal. I had gone back to school for screenwriting, and rapidly producing ideas is part of the industry, so I wanted to see if it would help me generate interesting and different ideas faster. And it worked!
I thought, “It would be SO cool if there was a similar journal called The Vow Journal and it had prompts and you could keep it forever!” I created a really ugly version and for two years I tested it with the couples I officiated for. One of these couples worked in design and mentioned she’d love it if there were colors and stickers and scratch-offs. I contacted the design company that did our Liz Rae & Co. branding, and one year and many more tests later, here we are!
What can couples expect to find in the journal?
Lots of helpful writing prompts, for sure! The journal will also walk them through every step of the process from literally beginning to end. Each of the prompts has a different design to it so they’ll never get bored (I hope!). In between the prompts are memory pages where couples can write extra details or paste in photos. At the end of the journal, it walks them step by step through writing the first draft of their vows, referencing the different prompts. And in case that isn’t enough, they can contact our writing support line for some additional advice, if they need it.
READY TO GET STARTED? Here are some samples of the prompts you can find in the “I Just Want To Say Vow Journal.” Grab a pen and get your ideas flowing.
What are some of your shared favorite songs, movies or books?
When do you feel relaxed together?
What are some of your favorite memories with your family and friends?
When do you feel most loved?
What gives you butterflies about your partner?
Don’t let this be the end of your journaling! Grab a notebook (or your copy of “I Just Want To Say Vow Journal”) and keep writing. Continue your adventure into self-expression and love as you craft your ideal wedding vows. ■
About the Expert
When Liz Babinski, an officiant of 10 years with Liz Rae & Co, had clients struggling to write wedding vows, she developed a set of prompts and put them into a rough booklet to guide them. Noticing the writing prompts worked well for crafting wedding vows and served as a memory-keeper, she then developed “I Just Want to Say” to help others write for all those big moments.
Babinski continues to create new ideas for these journals while writing her own books and continuing to officiate weddings, memorials and baby blessings.
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Don’t think. Really, don’t think about what you’re writing. Write whatever comes to mind. You can edit and format it later.
Write too much. Way, way too much. It’s easier to edit a draft with a lot of content than too little.
Write in your own voice, as if you were talking to your partner. Not sure how to do so? Try recording your thoughts and then transcribing them onto paper.
Talk to your partner about length and tone. Choose a rough estimate of how long (either word count or speaking time) you’d like your vows and just how balanced you’d like humor and seriousness to be.
Get Room A
Working with couples all across the country, our team realized how little information there is about wedding hotel room blocks, why you need them and what you need to know about them. So we’ve crafted this guide to explain everything you need to consider when contracting a hotel room block for your wedding guests.
WHAT IS A WEDDING ROOM BLOCK?
A room block is a reservation for ten-plus rooms at a specific hotel, which is considered your “host hotel” for the wedding. Typically this hotel is nearby the ceremony or reception
HOTEL BLOCK
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location for easy guest accessibility. The reservation is an agreement with the hotel to lock in a discounted rate for your guests for a specific amount of rooms, pre-determined by your needs and the hotel’s inventory.
A room block is a contractual agreement with the hotel, so be sure to read the contract carefully to fully understand what you are committing yourself and/or your guests to! A traditional room block comes with an attrition clause, which is a commitment to pay for a specific number of rooms
Pro- Tips:
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MULTIPLE BLOCKS
We suggest 2-3 hotel room blocks, unless your wedding reception is at the host hotel itself. Give your guests options at different price points!
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COURTESY AGREEMENT
(typically in the form of a percentage of 80-90%).
Example: If contracting a 20-room block with an 80% attrition clause; you are financially responsible for 16 of those rooms to be booked by your guests. If fewer than 16 rooms are booked, you are personally responsible to pay the difference.
WHAT IS A COURTESY AGREEMENT?
A courtesy agreement is a reservation
FIRST DIBS
Consider giving your wedding party and immediate family the hotel booking link and rates first to ensure they have first dibs on making room reservations.
Request a courtesy agreement in which you are not contractually financially responsible for unbooked rooms. Be sure to ask for the maximum amount of rooms offered for a courtesy agreement.
of 10 to 15 rooms (or less) that the hotel agrees to lock in at a discounted rate for, but not in a contractually binding agreement. Meaning, if all, some or none of the rooms are booked, you are not obligated to pay any fees to the hotel.
Unless you are confident that your guests are able to fill the requirements of a room block agreement, we highly suggest requesting a courtesy agreement.
WHEN DO I NEED TO MAKE A WEDDING ROOM BLOCK RESERVATION?
We suggest booking your room block about 8-11 months in advance of your wedding date. Hotel rates fluctuate based on inventory, which can be highly affected by the city’s convention calendar and major events in the area (i.e. large city-wide conventions like NeoCon, festivals like Lollapalooza, city-based events such as the Chicago Marathon and more), so we suggest locking in your rates as early as possible, especially in larger cities like Chicago.
CAN I NEGOTIATE MY WEDDING ROOM BLOCK RATE?
The higher the number of rooms that are needed, the more likely you’ll
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NEGOTIATE
For the best perks, always negotiate your contract concessions.
be able to negotiate the rate itself. However, there is likely more flexibility in the other contract concessions in the negotiation process. Items to consider negotiating are:
• Parking/valet rates
• Welcome bag drop fees
• Number of upgraded rooms based on contract fulfillment
• Attrition percentage (you’ll want this percentage to be as low as possible!)
• Number of rooms allotted for a
About the Author
courtesy agreement
• Cut-off date for rooms to be booked (you’ll want this to be as close to your wedding date as possible!)
• Free Wi-Fi
• Shuttle transportation
• Breakfast vouchers
• Loyalty points
• Getting ready room (ask if the hotel can allot your crew a conference room or hospitality suite to get ready in so your newlywed suite stays nice and clean for the wedding night!) ■
Tionna M. Van Gundy, CSEP is the Founder and CEO of Wedicity Wedding Day Detailing. Along with her event planning firm, Fueled Events, she works within most segments of the event planning and hospitality industries, allowing her to provide clients with a genuine white glove experience and impeccable service. In 2004, Van Gundy became a certified wedding planner, which furthered her passion for the wedding industry. With over 15 years of experience, she skillfully incorporates appropriate design elements into receptions, crafting an ambiance that beautifully reflects each couple’s love story.
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WHY NOT
A SUNDAY?
WRITTEN BY Christine Gaither, The Armour House at Lake Forest AcademyPHOTOGRAPHY BY
Stephanie Pana PhotographyAs you plan your special day, dare to embrace the allure of a Sunday wedding. With Saturdays often in high demand, this alternative presents its own offering of benefits. So why not consider hosting your wedding on a Sunday? Both Saturday and Sunday are during the weekend, it’s just a question of whether you want a day before or after the wedding to enjoy your guests. Let’s delve into the realm of Sunday weddings and explore why this choice is poised to captivate your heart. After all, the distinction lies not in the day of the week itself, but in the enchanting moments that follow.
HERE ARE FIVE REASONS SUNDAYS ARE A GREAT OPTION:
AVAILABILITY AFFORDABILITY
Looking for a late spring or fall wedding date? Brace yourself for a surprise — most Saturdays are snatched up 12-18 months in advance. Unlock prime weather months by booking on a Sunday, as spring and fall dates are much more available that day.
If your budget is a primary deciding factor in your wedding vendor selection, Sundays offer economic benefits. Typically, venues and vendors paint their offerings with more enticing, competitive price tags on Sunday dates.
LESS COMPETITION
Sundays open the doors to booking your dream vendor team. Having a wedding on a Sunday can make it easier to get the top vendors you want for your wedding, as they likely have more open schedules on that day. Don’t settle based on who is available; take your pick on a Sunday! The lack of competition grants you freedom of choice.
EXTEND THE WEEKEND
If you have guests traveling from out of town, a Sunday wedding becomes a generous gift, granting them an extended weekend vacation. Let them savor each moment and make the most of their trip before bidding farewell on a leisurely Monday. And let’s not forget the cherry on top — flights might be less expensive for their journey back home if they choose to travel on Monday.
RELAXATION
Don’t sweat about a time crunch and luxuriate the whole wedding weekend! Picture a crescendo of celebrations from Friday all the way to Sunday. Indulge in the bliss of a leisurely weekend, commencing with a Friday rehearsal, followed by a blissful spa day with your bridal party and a casual barbecue on Saturday. Then on Sunday, you will feel relaxed and ready to say “I do.” As the reception unfolds, you’ll celebrate in the moment, free from the need to visit every table since you already greeted everyone in the pre-nuptial celebrations. ■
About the Author
Christine Gaither is the General Manager at The Armour House at Lake Forest Academy, a North Shore event space and college preparatory school. Gaither brings a wealth of experience, an unparalleled eye for detail and an infectious passion for creating unforgettable moments. With a background steeped in the realm of hospitality and event management, Gaither ensures that The Armour House at Lake Forest Academy remains a sought-after destination for discerning couples and distinguished organizations alike.
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HOW TO WRITE (AND DELIVER!) A GREAT WEDDING
TOAST
WRITTEN BY Audrey JonasRaise Glass Your
Weddings are about public declarations of love, and not just between the newlyweds. Guests giving toasts and speeches at the wedding reception are important traditions. It’s a chance to include some close family or friends on your big day and hear their reflections and well wishes upon the marriage.
When it comes to toasts, couples should choose a few people important to them to make a few remarks, give them plenty of notice and make sure to express their gratitude for their time and effort.
But sometimes — a few weeks before the wedding — the couple gets a panicked text. Their friend is freaking out. They procrastinated and they don’t know where to start! Wedding speech writing can be nerve-wracking, but here is a basic guide to the structure of a wedding speech, and a few other tips to keep in mind on the big day.
START WITH A BRIEF GREETING
No need to say “for those of you who don’t know me.” You’re making a speech, so guests know you’re important! Somewhere early in the speech, drop a reference to your college days or crawling around in diapers together and the guests will put together how you know each other.
TELL A QUICK STORY OR ANECDOTE
Think about the earliest memory of your friend/family member, a funny story that would be relatable to everyone there or a time they showed you what a great loved one they are.
their future, a theme throughout their life or relationship that you want them to continue, a short cultural reference or traditional phrase (like an Irish blessing, an enthusiastic “L’chaim!” or an old proverb) or saying from their culture
This is your time to be funny, but don’t let that overwhelm you! Try to interject humor by borrowing some of the same tactics stand-up comedians use — exaggerating stories slightly for impact, using analogies and calling back something from earlier in the speech. Taking a wedding speech writing class with other people is a great way to get feedback and learn from professionals about how to punch up jokes and get the whole wedding rolling with laughter.
times. Make sure to acknowledge your first impressions of their new spouse, how you feel they are a good pairing or what you admire about them. This is the time to be sincere and heartfelt.
AVOID CLICHÉS
INTRODUCTION: YOUR COMPANY’S LOGO
Try to avoid terms like “peas in a pod,” “always has my back” or “ride or die,” but instead think about what feelings or experiences these phrases convey and personalize them to your friend or the couple. Again, personal anecdotes go a long way!
Logos are a critical aspect of business marketing. As the company’s major graphical representation, a logo anchors a company’s brand and becomes the single most visible manifestation of the company within the target market. Logos are also a shorthand way of referring to the company in advertising and marketing materials; they also provide an anchor point for the various fonts, colors, and design choices in all other business marketing materials. A company’s logo appears on stationery, websites, business cards and advertising. For that reason, a well-designed logo can contribute to business success. A logo should cohere
REFLECT ON THE RELATIONSHIP
Sometimes you know one person in the couple a lot better than the other, and that’s OK! It’s normal to have only met the bride or groom a handful of
END ON A WELL-WISH
Most importantly — end on a well-wish! It’s a toast after all — what do you want everyone to toast to? Some ideas for an ending line include: a brief wish for
When you’re writing, keep it short. Plan for no more than five minutes, which is slightly less than one singlespaced typed page. Before the big day, print your speech on paper or write it out — it’s an extra step that makes a big difference in pictures — and it’s easier to see than your phone screen! Don’t forget to bring your drink up with you so you can raise your glass while speaking. If you’re using a microphone, remember to hold it close to your mouth. If you don’t have a lot of experience with a microphone, it’s OK to ask the DJ for a mic check to practice using it.
Approach confidently and wait for everyone’s attention to get started — you got this!
No matter what, remember that the couple asked you because they wanted to hear your kind words or unique perspective. It is an honor to be asked to be a part of a special day. We only have a few opportunities in life to tell the people we love what they mean to us, so get started early, come prepared and have fun! ■
About the Contributor
Audrey Jonas is a standup comedian, former faculty at the Second City Training Center and the instructor of Wedding Toast Warm Up, a fun two-day, four hour class to learn how to write a killer wedding toast, held in June and August of 2023.
After spending years helping her friends express their love, calm their nerves, and punch up their jokes, she knew she could lend her talents to people all over the Chicagoland area at the Lincoln Lodge Training Center, one of the city’s best places to see stand up and take comedy writing classes. For professional guidance on your wedding speeches, you can reach her directly at
To My Beloved
POUR YOUR HEART OUT ON PAPER AND START YOUR WEDDING DAY WITH THE BEAUTY OF HANDWRITTEN NOTIONS
WRITTEN BY Alexandra DillardYour future spouse is the one you instinctively seek comfort from, especially during your most emotional moments. Your wedding morning will undoubtedly be a day where emotions are high! As your wedding day nerves are coursing, you might long for nothing more than to embrace your partner in a big, warm hug. But with wedding preparations in full swing, you and your wedding parties will be busy getting glammed up! Instead of spending the morning physically together, make your presence known through a heartfelt, handwritten note.
The tradition of exchanging letters with your partner on your wedding day has stood the test of time. Sure, it might feel old-fashioned to dust off the stationery set and find a pen that still has ink in it, but don’t overlook this gesture.
For many, articulating their true emotions can be challenging. Yet, expressing yourself through written words on paper can offer a sense of ease. Not only will it allow for more thoughtful phrasing, but the letter itself can be treasured and revisited throughout the wedding morning and for years to come. By putting your feelings of love into writing, you ensure that the words endure in a way that spoken phrases may not. As the years pass, your love will mature, but the sentiments expressed in these letters will serve as a poignant reminder of the feelings you experienced on your wedding day.
Just as with wedding vows, the content and style of these letters can vary. Some couples prefer to write poetic and romantic letters, while others lean towards light-hearted and humorous notes. Unlike vows, which require a polished and suitable tone for all attendees, your wedding morning letter allows for the inclusion of intimate details and private notions. The key is to be genuine and capture the essence of your relationship to the best of your abilities.
As you write your letter, here are eight things to consider when putting pen to paper:
1. Reflect on your relationship: Take some time to think about your journey as a couple, from when you first met to the sweet moments that have brought you to this day. Reflect on the special memories, challenges you’ve overcome together and the reasons why you love your partner.
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2. Think about what your partner wants to read: Your tone can be romantic, poetic, sincere or even inject a touch of humor. When deciding what tone to go with, think about what will resonate most with your partner. While you might be a natural jokester, if your partner loves a sappy declaration, try
to cater your letter to what they will appreciate reading the most.
3. Find a quiet and comfortable space: As you sit down to write, choose a peaceful and undisturbed space where you can let your thoughts flow freely. Create an ambiance that helps you feel relaxed and inspired, which can include lighting candles or playing your favorite songs. Pick a space that has a natural writing surface, like a table or desk. Writing in your lap might be comfy, but you want your handwriting to be legible!
4. Express your love and gratitude: Write about how much you love and appreciate your partner, highlighting the qualities that make them special to you. You may often tell your significant other you love them, but how often do you tell them you’re thankful for their partnership? Express gratitude for their presence in your life and the joy they bring.
5. Show don’t tell: Rather than saying how much you love and appreciate them, show them with recountings of your favorite memories. Recall and describe cherished moments and experiences you’ve shared together. It could be about the day you met, a special trip or just an everyday, household moment that defines your relationship.
6. Talk about the future: Express your hopes and dreams for your future together. Discuss the life you envision as a married couple, the goals you want to achieve and the adventures you wish to embark on. Share your commitment to supporting each other through thick and thin.
7. Write about your excitement for the day: Express your anticipation for the wedding day itself. Share your anticipation about exchanging vows, celebrating with loved ones and officially beginning your life together. Let your partner know how much you’re looking forward to marrying them in the time-honored tradition of a wedding.
8. End with a loving closing: Conclude the letter with a heartfelt closing. Your partner will probably read the letter more than once throughout the morning, but this final sentiment will be the one that lingers. In the closing, authentically convey your everlasting love and commitment and then sign the letter with your name or special nickname. ■
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The Venue Search Starter Kit
WRITTEN BY Sam Haywood, Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom PHOTOGRAPHY BY Lauren Ashley StudiosWhen you begin your venue search, you don’t always know what you’re looking for. To get you started, here are some tips and important elements to consider.
LOCATION
Are you getting married at a church and want a reception venue nearby? Do you want a countryside or a city venue? Do you want a venue near/at a location that is special to you? These are all great things to think about when you are first starting your search for the perfect venue.
AESTHETIC
Deciding what you want your wedding to look like can be difficult, but the
venue is a great place to start with choosing an aesthetic. This can also make choosing your attire easier!
CAPACITY
Before you even start looking for a venue, you will want an estimated guest count. Make sure the venues you are looking at can accommodate an event of your size. Many venues have minimums you have to
meet, or you could pay a different rate than their normal pricing. You don’t want to fall in love with a space that is nowhere near enough room for your guest count.
BUDGET
BUT WHAT ARE THE TYPES AND STYLES OF VENUES?
Discuss your budget with your partner before you start your search. The amount you are willing to pay will heavily impact your decision and could even rule out some venues completely.
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Not every venue includes everything you need in their price. For some venues, you may pay
a per-person price, at other venues you may pay a flat rate for the room rental and at others, you may pay a combination of both! Take an in-depth look at their wedding information and make sure you’re aware of any extra fees for the add-ons you need for your wedding. You don’t want to pay extra for your guests to access the restrooms or have a surprise service and bar fee added after you have fallen in love with the venue.
REVIEWS
Reviews can tell you so much about any business, but when it comes to venues, they can tell you everything! While their overall rating is important, take a look at individual reviews and don’t just look at the ones at the top of the page. In the same vein, take the bad reviews with a grain of salt. You can’t please everyone and there will always be some sour grapes, but do make note if there seems to be a pattern of dissatisfaction.
LIKE A LOCAL
PHOTO OPPORTUNITIES
Are there good photo locations in and around your venue? This could be one of the biggest deciding factors when choosing a venue. Does the venue have a lot of photos from past weddings in locations that you like? Do they have photographers that they can recommend that know the area? Do they have a map of good locations or a list of suggestions you can give to your photographer? These are all questions to consider when taking into account your dream shot list.
CATERING OPTIONS
Each venue you look at will have different rules and types of catering. Some have in-house catering that goes directly through the venue, some have a list of caterers you must choose from and some let you choose any caterer you want. A venue’s catering policy can easily weed out some of your options without wasting your time with a tour. ■
About the Author
Sam Haywood is the Event Coordinator at Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom, where she has been since January 2020. With a background in hospitality administration and dance performance, she ready to help make your wedding Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom’s next big production.
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kids HOW TO INCORPORATE...
CAKE TASTING
This might be the kid’s favorite part of the whole wedding process! Inviting them to your cake tasting will let them know they are involved in the wedding and that their opinions are valued in this marriage.
DECORATORS
Whether you already have children together, younger siblings or are part of a blended family, including the kids most special to you on your wedding day is important. While a full wedding day might not be thrilling to a little one, use these options to make sure all your guests — no matter their age — feel welcomed and ready to celebrate.
CEREMONY ROLES
Depending on the child’s personality and outgoingness, inviting them to speak in the ceremony is a fun touch. This can be as complex as having them prepare a speech or simply having them read a poem or scripture. And of course, we can’t forget the crucial role of being a flower girl or ring bearer!
CUPCAKES
Traditionally, it is common for weddings to have a dedicated cake for both spouses. Feel free to keep the
two cakes, but also consider a kids’ cake — or even cupcakes! Any excuse to have a funfetti cake and some sprinkles, right?
ENTERTAINMENT
Let’s be honest, weddings might be arduous for some kids. Give the adult day some youthful fun by offering games and activities. This can include wedding-themed coloring pages and word searches, an I-Spy Bingo board, kid-friendly snack packs or backyard games like jumbo Jenga.
What could be sweeter than crayonillustrated table name cards? If your wedding has a more relaxed air to it, don’t be afraid to let your special children join in on the decorating. This could mean giving them the task of sprinkling flower petals/confetti throughout or allowing them to get creative in outfitting the photo booth. Kids are great at thinking outside of the box, so you might as well tap into that creativity!
pets
Is your pet just as important to you as your significant other? For many couples, incorporating their furry friends into their wedding is a must. While they might not make the invite list, they certainly deserve to be represented in the festivities one way or the other.
CUSTOM COOKIES
What is cuter than a portrait of your pet on a deliciously designed cookie? Include these sweet treats in your guests’ welcome bags, at the reception dessert table or as a departing gift.
STATIONERY ILLUSTRATIONS
Make your stationery stand out with pet illustrations. This can add an artistic touch to your wedding invitations, save-the-dates and other paper goods. Plus, the illustration will make for a special keepsake for years to come.
SPECIALTY COCKTAIL NAME
Dedicate a cocktail or two to your furry friend(s) by including them on the bar menu. Go simple with a name like “The Fido” or get creative with a play on words.
INVITE THEM FOR THE PHOTOS
Maybe having your pet in attendance for the whole wedding isn’t the right fit. But an option is to coordinate with your pet sitter to bring them to your wedding during your scheduled photo time. Having your pet in some of your wedding photos will be a priceless keepsake!
“DOGGIE BAG”
As guests leave the wedding, invite them to take a “doggie bag” of cat or dog treats with them — a gift from your pet to theirs.
PHOTO BOOTH PROPS
Whiskers might not be in attendance, but his/her presence will be known! Create photo booth props of your pets so that they get to be in your guests’ photos and very much a part of the big day.
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THE ELEMENT OF SURPRISE … AWAITS YOU
in memoriam
Your wedding day is a time of celebration, but it can be challenging to feel truly joyous in the absence of a loved one. However, incorporating meaningful moments or gestures into your wedding can be a beautiful way to honor their memory. Whether you opt to commemorate them publicly or privately, consider including their impact on you in some way.
SAVE A SEAT
Even though they may not be present physically, your loved one can still have a special place at your wedding. Consider placing a framed photo, corsage or another meaningful item on a designated seat during your ceremony to honor their memory and acknowledge their absence.
MEMORIAM TABLE
Create a special space at your reception by setting up a table filled with framed photos of the person or people you are honoring. Display a selection of your favorite photos and consider using their wedding photos, if applicable, for an extra special touch.
LIGHT A CANDLE
The practice of lighting a candle in honor of a loved one who has passed away is a time-honored tradition found across many cultures and eras. It is a meaningful way to symbolize the ongoing connection between this world and the afterlife. Consider keeping a candle lit throughout your wedding day, or speak to your officiant about incorporating a candle lighting ritual into your ceremony.
HEIRLOOMS
Keep the memory of your late loved one close to you on your wedding
day by incorporating their heirlooms or sentimental trinkets. You can wrap their handkerchief or rosary around the bouquet handle, or attach a locket with their photo to your bouquet, dress lining or suit lapel.
IN LIEU OF GIFTS
As traditional gift registries are declining in popularity, consider asking your guests to donate to your late loved one’s favorite charity instead of bringing gifts. You can include a sign at the gift and guestbook table that requests a donation in place of gifts, along with a note that explains the significance of the charity to your friend or family member.
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If you want to honor a passed loved one who had good taste, consider incorporating their favorite dishes or drinks. Whether you use Grandma’s favorite cookie recipe to complete your dessert table or name a cocktail after Dad’s go-to bar order — whatever it is, your guests will enjoy this thoughtful nod. ■
There are a lot of factors to consider when planning a wedding in a city you don’t live in. But with the guidance of a local Convention and Visitors Bureau (commonly known as a CVB), your wedding away from home can come to life.
Destination weddings are becoming increasingly popular, as they offer a unique and unforgettable vacation and wedding wrapped in one. However, planning a destination wedding can be a daunting task, especially if you are unfamiliar with the area and its local vendors. This is where working with a local CVB can be incredibly helpful.
At DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau (also referred to as DuPage CVB or Discover DuPage), we offer complimentary planning services for those looking to get married in DuPage County. While we cannot help you book hotel accommodations in Malibu or arrange site visits in Miami Beach, we can shed some light on what a CVB can do for you when planning your wedding. Each CVB operates differently; we cannot guarantee what services other cities will provide, but we can let you know that the resources are out there. Let’s get started!
IDENTIFY A CVB
The first step in working with a CVB is to find one! Once you’ve decided what county or city you wish to say “I do” in, a simple online search
of “‘Convention and Visitors Bureau’ or ‘CVB’ + ‘Wedding City’” should bring up any official CVB websites or directories.
LOCALS KNOW BEST
One of the most significant benefits of working with a CVB is their in-depth knowledge of the area. While we love a good online search, there’s nothing like boots-on-the-ground expertise. Not only do CVBs know a lot about their
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respective area, but they often partner with a number of local businesses as well. This means they already have direct contact information for whoever you want to learn more about!
Being a partner to many businesses in DuPage County, we have close relationships with some of the best wedding venues and vendors within the 38 municipalities of the county. From their pricing and availability to their preferred methods of communication,
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these are our colleagues and we know them well.
RESOURCES GALORE
CVBs offer a wide range of resources and services that can make planning your wedding much easier. Overall, a CVB can provide you with information on local accommodations, transportation options and things to do in the area.
Looking for the right venue to host your celebrations but don’t know where to start? At DuPage CVB, we help couples find the perfect venue for their wedding ceremony and/or reception. As part of this process, we also obtain proposals from venues, coordinate
and attend the site visits and create a customized itinerary showcasing venues and hotels of interest. Each couple receives a customized spreadsheet from us of the venues and hotels available, making it easy to compare and find the right match for their atmosphere and budget.
Beyond accommodations and venue, we also can recommend transportation services, florists, bridal salons, photographers, printing services and more. From beginning to end, we pride ourselves in making your wedding experience in our county the best. After all, a good CVB’s goal is to ensure guests have a great experience — and weddings are a big part of that!
RESPECT YOUR DESTINATION
Especially if you’re planning a wedding abroad, a CVB can provide invaluable insight into local customs and traditions. Wherever your destination wedding takes place, there will likely be customs and traditions you aren’t knowledgeable about. With the guidance of a CVB, you can be educated about the local etiquette, traditions and customs unique to the area. For example, it will be important to know about appropriate dress codes, wedding rituals, food and drink customs, and even language translation nuances. By welcoming local customs into your celebration,
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you can gain a deeper understanding and respect for the resident community. Not only will the celebration be memorable for you and your guests, but it can also honor the city, state or country you’re celebrating in. After all, this location is not just a beautiful venue for your celebrations, but rather its own community rich with its own culture, identities and history.
Working with a local CVB can make planning a wedding away from where you live a much easier process. A CVB can provide local knowledge and personalized recommendations, offer a wide range of resources and services, help you stay within your budget and keep you organized throughout the planning process … to name a few perks! With the help of a CVB, you can plan your dream destination wedding and create memories that will last a lifetime. ■
About the Author
The DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau (“DCVB”) is the official destination marketing organization for DuPage County. The DCVB works in partnership with community businesses to maximize travel and opportunities, which ultimately contribute to the economic vitality of the county and its residents. One of the things that helps DuPage’s economy is weddings. To plan your DuPage County wedding, take advantage of DCVB’s complimentary wedding concierge services to make your decision-making process a breeze.
To take advantage of DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau’s wedding offerings, visit discoverdupage.com/weddings and get started today.
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Eight Beautiful Boats HOSTING UP TO 225 GUESTS
Pack Your Bags
WHETHER YOUR WEDDING IS HOSTED NEAR OR FAR AWAY, YOU’LL WANT TO HAVE A WEDDING DAY TOOLKIT PACKED. FULL OF ESSENTIALS AND “IN CASE OF EMERGENCY” ITEMS, CONSIDER PACKING THESE GOODS WITH YOU AS YOU ARRIVE ON YOUR BIG DAY.
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Why Chicago Couples Say
“I Do” in
Savannah
WRITTEN BY Tanvi Chauhan, Visit SavannahAcharming and romantic atmosphere nestled in timelessness awaits you in Savannah, Georgia. The city oozes with historic charm, from the magnificent oak trees draping the skies with Spanish moss to the cobblestone streets carpeting the ground. Discover why Savannah stands out as the ideal wedding destination for Chicago couples to start their forever.
Savannah boasts a mild climate year-round, making it an ideal location for weddings. With warm temperatures in the spring and mild winters, couples can plan their special day without worrying about extreme weather conditions. This comfortable climate allows for outdoor ceremonies and receptions in various seasons, providing flexibility in wedding planning. The temperate weather also means couples have a range of beautiful outdoor spaces to choose from. Savannah is home to many parks, gardens and squares that provide stunning settings for weddings. Forsyth Park, with its iconic fountain and lush greenery, is a popular choice for outdoor ceremonies, while the Savannah Botanical Gardens also offer picturesque backdrops for photos.
Couples can also take advantage of the city’s riverfront, which provides a romantic backdrop for sunset cruises or waterfront weddings. They may even rent one of the 22 grassy squares for
their ceremony for less than $500, which is permissible through the City of Savannah. Lafayette Square is a popular choice, located close to other famous colonial homes and the majestic Cathedral of St. John the Baptist.
Savannah offers a diverse range of wedding venues to suit different tastes and styles. Couples can choose from historic mansions like The Mackey House or Harper-Fowlkes House, museums like Davenport House Museum, riverfront hotels like J.W. Marriott Kessler Collection or Westin Savannah or rooftop ceremonies at Drayton or Perry Lane Hotel. Those wanting a taste of Savannah without compromising their beach wedding dream can drive 20 minutes out of the city and say “I do” on nearby Tybee Island.
But what about the guests? Savannah’s excellent connectivity through major airports and highways makes it easily accessible for out-oftown guests. The Savannah/Hilton Head International Airport offers direct flights to several major cities, making travel convenient for guests flying in from afar. The city’s walkability and compact size also make it easy for guests to get around and explore the area. Savannah’s vibrant arts and culture scene provides ample opportunities for couples and their guests to enjoy preand post-wedding activities. From art galleries and theaters to live music and historic tours, there is something for everyone to enjoy in this city.
Couples can also take advantage of Savannah’s renowned culinary scene, with numerous restaurants and cafes offering delicious Southern cuisine. Restaurants like Mrs. Wilkes’s Dining Room and The Pirates’ House can accommodate large group parties.
Savannah offers a rich wedding experience, with a perfect blend of historic charm and Southern hospitality, a temperate climate, beautiful outdoor spaces, and a variety of cultural attractions. All of this is finely ensconced in an Instagram-ready backdrop to immortalize your wedding memories forever! ■
About the Author Tanvi Chauhan is the Communications Manager for Visit Savannah and Savannah Area Chamber of Commerce. She has built a career off of working with travel brands, publications and destination marketing organizations to inform readers about Savannah and vacationing in the American South. Chauhan loves sharing firsthand knowledge of Savannah’s new attractions, tours, culinary additions, as well as the city’s unforgettable creative experiences and annual festivals. In her free time, she walks the ornate Savannah squares, bikes on the beach, attends global seminars and volunteers at community fests.
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WEDDING WANDERLUST
What
You Need To Know When Planning a Destination Wedding
WRITTEN BY Gina Anderson, Urban Allure EventsAre you dreaming of saying your vows atop the mountains of Aspen or perhaps barefoot on a gorgeous beach off the Pacific Ocean? What about among the lush treetops in the jungles of Costa Rica? The world is your oyster and there are a lot of visions to decide between! Before you dive deep into destination wedding planning, start by clearly discussing with your partner about what you both want. But wherever your destination wedding vision takes you, here’s everything you need to know.
1. HIRE THE RIGHT DESTINATION PLANNER FOR YOU
You can find your planner through a variety of channels. Maybe it’s a referral from a friend or family member, or someone you feel connected to through social media. Whatever way you choose to go about it, find a wedding planner that you feel ultra comfortable with. You’ll be working with them for a LONG time, so make sure you select the one that you feel is a perfect fit and set all realistic expectations ahead of time.
Separately write out your desires for your wedding — where you imagine it taking place, the overall setting and scenery, how many guests you’ll want, what time of year, any specific season that calls to you and also what you DON’T want. Take turns sharing with your partner what you’ve come up with and discuss the similarities and differences. Once you’ve narrowed down what you both want, it’s time to get started!
Every planner approaches destination planning differently, but you can expect your destination planner to do the following:
• Help narrow down locations
• Provide guidance on local marriage laws, permits and requirements
• Work directly with venue contacts to set up meetings (even if they’re virtual)
• Comb through contracts
• Set the planning timeline of deadlines and expectations
• Build a budget tracker
• Be there to help take the stress and overwhelming feelings away
2. UNDERSTAND YOUR FINANCIAL COMFORT ZONE (AKA BUDGET)
What are you and your partner comfortable with spending? It is imperative to talk about money — both as a couple and with your planner. Be as transparent as possible! Before we get into vendor and venue costs, factors that will initially play into the budget of your wedding include:
• The market you want to have your celebration in — a wedding in Bali will cost differently from a Maui wedding.
• Amount of guests you want to have — are you thinking of an intimate wedding with 50 guests or fewer or does your guest list include over 50 people?
• The duration of your wedding — do you want a multiple-day excursion with an event or activity each day?
• Time of year and seasonality — each state, continent and country have its own peak seasons where you can expect to pay a premium price versus off-season pricing.
• Are you going to cover the cost of accommodation and travel for all of your guests?
3. CONSIDER THE GUEST EXPERIENCE
The best destination weddings are the ones where the couple keeps their guest experience at the forefront of planning. Some questions to think about as you plan:
• Do the venues you love provide accommodations on property for you and your guests?
• If that’s not the case, how far are accommodations from the venue?
Keep travel and transport under 20 minutes, if possible.
• Is the venue complicated to get to? Will your guests need to take multiple methods of transportation in order to arrive?
• Are there restaurants, shops and things to do nearby or on-property?
• How much will flights or transportation cost?
• Is the venue handicap accessible or will guests be walking on uneven ground, traversing hills or across cobblestone?
One of the hottest wedding destinations everyone is talking about is Lake Como. But did you know that in order to get to popular venues like Villa del Balbianello
in Tremezzina, Lake Como, it is not possible to reach directly by car, bus or public transport services? One option is to walk a 1-km footpath from Via Degli Artigiani, which no planner would recommend you or your guests do on your wedding day. The other more reasonable option is by a taxi-boat from the Lenno beach, which takes less than 10 minutes. See, it’s not as easy as a plane, train, car or bus ride! It takes thought and consideration to plan such details.
4. VETTING YOUR VENDORS
Before you start doing your own vendor research, communicate with your partner about what is important to you
both. Do you want a 10-piece band or a high-energy DJ set? Is it a top priority that the food be personally curated along with an open bar of exceptional options? Or are the florals, rentals and design what you need to complete the dream vision? Once those details have been communicated to your planner, they will start vetting vendor options. The first decision to work through is if your venue has a preferred or a required list of vendors to select from. If not, the decision comes down to either hiring someone local to the area or bringing someone from your home location to the destination. This ties back to your financial comfort zone — do you have the flexibility to pay for vendor travel and accommodation costs?
There are many things to consider when planning your destination wedding, but if you start with these basics early, it will be less overwhelming. And of course, a great planner will be with you every step of the way. ■
The award-winning Lake Lawn Resort is the region’s premier lakefront destination wedding venue. Just minutes outside of Lake Geneva, Lake Lawn Resort is easily accessible from Chicago, Milwaukee, Madison, and Rockford. The resort sits on over two miles of shoreline along Delavan Lake and features rolling lawns, charming courtyards, and sweeping views of the lake. Offering a unique blend of rich history, contemporary updates, and amenities. Have your dream wedding outdoors at one of our two romantic lakefront ceremony sites, or select beamed ceilings, fireplaces, and beautiful lake views of our warm and elegant indoor spaces.
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Your reception site is often one of the first decisions you’ll make as you begin to plan your wedding, driving your aesthetic as well as many other elements of the day. There are so many options and the sheer number of choices can be overwhelming. From ballrooms and mansions to lofts and gardens, these venues and more can be found on the following pages. Keep this resource handy during your planning to help navigate this important decision, ensuring a picture-perfect venue fit for your big day.
FAIRLIE
339 N. BELL AVE., CHICAGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Boasting a combined available 15,000 square feet across the building’s ceremony and reception area and adjacent mezzanines and dressing lounges, Fairlie provides tables and seating for up to 250 guests with an additional 10 cocktail tables available for use. Its interior space juxtaposes warm, exposed-brick walls, raw steel, and marbled concrete accents, creating a modern, yet timeless atmosphere.
Skylight atrium windows allow natural light to blend with industrial-style lighting fixtures within the main hall and flowing voile drapes incorporate a soft elegance. A customdesigned steel and grid staircase grants guests access to the second-floor loft and lounge space.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE: Industrial/Loft, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
SPECIAL FEATURES — 35' ceilings, custom floor-to-ceiling draping, 12' drive-in access and dramatic staircase.
CONTACT — ALEXIS LEVERENZ | 312.622.1152 | ALEXIS@FAIRLIECHICAGO.COM FAIRLIECHICAGO.COM
MORGAN ARTS COMPLEX
3622 S. MORGAN ST., CHICAGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — LET US HOST YOUR DREAM WEDDING! Looking for an enchanting setting to say “I do”? Look no further than Morgan Arts Complex, Chicago’s premier wedding venue. Our stunning venue offers the perfect backdrop for your special day. We can accommodate 300 seated & larger groups for cocktail receptions. We have a beautiful outdoor patio and on-site parking.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Stunning loft-style venue with a patio. We accommodate receptions & ceremonies, on-site parking, 300 seated, larger groups for cocktail receptions. CONTACT — MADISON MCLAUGHLIN |
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering, Preferred Catering, All Catering Welcome
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available, Nearby Street Parking
WILDMAN BT
3020 W. CARROLL AVE., CHICAGO, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Lofty. Posh. Perfect. Wildman BT is a special place for weddings. Unassuming on the outside, magnificent on the inside, your guests will be transfixed in the moments of your big day. The natural light streaming from double clerestory windows, warmth of the century-old exposed brick, and luxury in the details designed in the space provide an incredible surrounding for the day you both say, I do.
Our historic double-bow truss building offers the ample, flexible space needed for the largest of ceremonies and receptions with an intimate energy just as perfect for smaller events. Luxury draping, stylish lounge settings, a light-filled private dressing studio, a vintage bar and many other special touches round out the impeccable style of Wildman BT.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Historic Location, Industrial/Loft, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS:
Valet Available
As a woman and minority-owned venue, inclusion is our mission. We welcome all people, we welcome all love. We welcome you and yours to Wildman BT.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Double clerestory skylights, glamorous modern lighting, unobstructed layout, unique luxury restrooms, 23' media wall with integrated projection/AV and lounge furniture.
CONTACT — MICHELLE O’SULLIVAN | 312.248.2828 | INFO@WILDMANBT.COM WILDMANBT.COM
CARRIAGE HOUSE AT THE CLUB AT LAC LA BELLE
6996 PENNSYLVANIA ST., OCONOMOWOC, WI
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Club at Lac La Belle showcases two beautifully modern wedding venues featuring amazing natural lighting, scenic views, and an unmatched guest experience. From our in-house catering to a personal venue coordinator, we ensure your wedding day is everything you ever dreamed of. The Carriage House holds up to 240 guests with vaulted ceilings, wooden beams, and stunning views of the surrounding landscape. Our newly-renovated 1896 Room brings rich warmth to intimate affairs of up to 190 guests. Set in the completely renovated historic Club at Lac La Belle golf course in Oconomowoc, the two unique venues have something unique to offer no matter the season. From Weddings and Receptions — to Corporate and Community Events in the Oconomowoc area — The Carriage House and 1896 Room have you covered. We look forward to celebrating with you!
SPECIAL FEATURES — Modern elegance on one of Wisconsin’s oldest golf courses.
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CONTACT — 414.567.7833 | INFO@CLUBATLACLABELLE.COM CARRIAGEHOUSEATLACLABELLE.COM AT LAC LA BELLE
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 240
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Country Club/Golf Course
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
THE MATRIX CLUB
808 S. ROUTE 59, NAPERVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Matrix Club is a premier new wedding, banquet, convention, and performance venue opening summer 2023. Our talented and versatile events team will create exquisite engagement and wedding ceremonies for diverse cultures. Our awardwinning chefs will create world-class culinary delicacies from around the world in our stateof-the-art kitchens.
We believe your wedding should transcend your expectations. We will deliver an immersive experience which will be unique and one that will linger with you and your guests for years to come. Details matter, and we will take care of every single one for you.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Water fountain/reflection pool in foyer for creative photo ops, private bridal suites with full baths, state-of-the-art in-house A/V. CONTACT —
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 10
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 1,200
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Art Gallery/Museum, Ballroom, Banquet Hall, Restaurant, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
ACQUAVIVA WINERY
47W614 IL RT. 38, MAPLE PARK, IL
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 230
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Barn/Farm, Hotel/Resort, Outdoor, Restaurant, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
ABOUT THE VENUE — Acquaviva Winery is an exclusive, private 85-acre estate just 50 miles west of Chicago. Charm your senses and your guests with breathtaking views, decadent cuisine, and unparalleled services. Our venue offers gorgeous outdoor ceremonies in the vineyard, as well as patio and indoor ceremony options. Our culinary team prepares the highest quality fare, and we strive for unsurpassed satisfaction in all areas of our service. Our event coordinators will handle each detail of your special event, ensuring your wedding vision is accomplished and every expectation is met. The Acquaviva guest house offers premier accommodations to enchant guests with six delightfully appointed private suites, and additional hotel accommodations are available within 10 miles of our venue. Acquaviva Winery strives for intimacy and creativity, and we work closely with you to ensure your expectations are exceeded.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Gorgeous vineyard, winery, picturesque views, two patios, delicious cuisine, master artist frescoes, guest house, family-owned 85-acre estate
THE ARMOUR HOUSE AT LAKE FOREST ACADEMY
1500 W. KENNEDY RD., LAKE FOREST, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Nestled amidst the serene beauty of Lake Forest Academy, the Armour House exudes timeless elegance and charm. With stunning architecture, meticulously manicured gardens and a grand ballroom, it provides the perfect backdrop for a memorable wedding experience.
Our talented chefs craft personalized menus to delight your and your guests’ palates. From hors d’oeuvres to delectable entrees and mouthwatering desserts, each dish is prepared with precision and artistry.
Our dedicated staff ensures seamless planning and coordination. With their impeccable service and attention to detail, your wedding day will be unforgettable.
SPECIAL FEATURES — The regal ballroom boasts soaring ceilings and exquisite detailing, setting the stage for a remarkable celebration of love. The picturesque gardens and fountain provide a stunning backdrop for a ceremony and reception but inside, the ornate Grand Staircase is breathtaking. Chiavari chairs available at a reduced rate.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 6
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Historic Location, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
ASHLEY FARM
9111 ASHLEY RD., YORKVILLE, IL
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 250
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Barn/Farm, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
ABOUT THE VENUE — Ashley Farm offers couples the opportunity to host their wedding reception in their newly restored white barn. Located on the Ashley Homestead, this unique property’s history can be traced all the way back to 1845. An elegant chandelier and openbeam ceiling provide a romantic atmosphere, accented with rustic decor and nods to the venue’s rich heritage. Featuring a wraparound porch, outdoor courtyards and farm vignettes, the original farmhouse offers impressive photo opportunities. Couples can also have beautiful photography moments around the outside pine grove and rustic hay barn. With a choice of four site options, couples can host up to 225 of their closest friends and family. Ashley Farm provides a first class facility, service and the ultimate in professionalism from their highly skilled staff, including a day-of coordinator. Ashley Farm is the perfect location if you’re looking for a wedding full of rustic elegance! !
SPECIAL FEATURES — Indoor and outdoor ceremony options, heated and air conditioned barn, private groom’s barn and bride’s farmhouse for getting ready. CONTACT — ASHLEY JOHNSON | 630.882.8988 | ASHLEY@WHITETAILRIDGEGC.COM ASHLEYFARMWEDDINGS.COM
BOULDER RIDGE COUNTRY CLUB
350 BOULDER DR., LAKE IN THE HILLS, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Located in stunning Lake in the Hills, we pride ourselves on being the premier event space in the Northwest Suburbs of Chicago. Our ballroom accommodates up to 300 guests and no matter the size we host only one wedding at a time. Our event team wants to give their exclusive attention to you on your special day. With our bridal room you are welcome to spend your wedding day relaxing at the club as we finalize all the elements for you. Our on-site wedding specialists will meet with your vendors and ensure all the details are in place and on schedule.
The club’s picturesque elegance, both indoors and out combine to create an exquisite and timeless experience. Our clubhouse is decorated with rustic stone that is surrounded by greenery and water features to give you endless photo opportunities. We feature all-inclusive wedding packages to cover all the items necessary to ensure an elegant, customized wedding of your dreams.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Rustic stone, water features with bridge, one wedding per night, bridal ready room, outdoor ceremony, private outdoor veranda, day-of coordination.
CONTACT — SARA GILMORE | 847.854.3000 | SGILMORE@HERITAGEGOLFGROUP.COM BOULDERRIDGE.COM
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Country Club/Golf Course
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 320
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Historic Location, Industrial/Loft
CATERING CHOICES: All Caterers Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
THE BRIX ON THE FOX
260 S. WASHINGTON ST., CARPENTERSVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Choose from two wide open spaces that can handle everyone and everything — including your imagination. Restored from the 1890s, The BRIX provides you the sought after transparent approach of choice. Ceremony included. 12 hours for you and your vendors. Open vendor list. Premium bar, open all night, about $12 per person! Tired of all the extra fees? Transparent pricing on our website.
Your Life. Your Style.™ Two separate venues: The Two-Sixty, rustic elegance for up to 300+ or The Industria, industrial chic for up to 200. Both with the windows, the brick, the Fox River, 15+ foot ceilings, and the freedom you love. And plenty more details to discover, including a photo booth, custom sound system, dance lighting, reclaimed wood tables, wedding suite, free parking, and much more. Yes, all included for one price. Stop on by and you will discover why The BRIX has become Chicago’s favorite local “destination” wedding venue.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Historic venue with choice of industrial or rustic vibe on the Fox River. Open vendor list. Rental includes ceremony, tables, chairs and photo booth.
CONCORDE BANQUETS
20922 N. RAND RD., KILDEER, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Nestled in a private setting where gentle swans rest quietly in the pond — just beside our magnificent gazebo — our renowned banquet facility is elegantly designed to host grand weddings, anniversaries, conferences and other special events for up to 800 guests.
Concorde Banquets is the perfect place for any wedding or event destination. We offer the most luxurious and extravagant reception options in the area. Our location has been a top choice for events and banquets in Kildeer and the surrounding Chicagoland for over 30 years.
Our selection of rooms and wide range of menu options make Concorde one of the most versatile choices for events and banquets in Illinois. Our services allow you to truly customize your experience and create lasting memories.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Lush gardens with a beautiful gazebo and pergola, accompanied by a picturesque swan-filled pond.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 800
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 5
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Historic Location, Restaurant, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering, All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Nearby/Parking Garage
COPPER FOX EVENTS & BANQUETS
477 S. 3RD ST., GENEVA, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — From your initial appointment to the day-of coordination, the dedicated and experienced event staff at Copper Fox will work closely with you to bring your wedding ceremony and reception visions to life. Copper Fox offers a range of packages tailored to different budgets, ensuring that every couple can be accommodated.
Copper Fox provides ample parking, and its location is just one block away from Geneva’s train station, making it easily accessible via Metra. Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering with 10 loved ones or a grand reception with 200 guests, Copper Fox offers all the amenities you need to create a memorable event.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Newly remodeled ballrooms (2020), bridal suite on-site, outdoor and indoor ceremony space, crystal chandeliers, multiple ballrooms, private entrances, private bars, coat room, private restrooms, brick walls, fireplace.
CONTACT — NIKKI M. RODGERS | 331.248.0422 | NIKKIR@FOXFIREGENEVA.COM COPPER-FOX.COM
COTILLION BANQUETS
360 CREEKSIDE DR., PALATINE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Cotillion Banquets endures as Chicagoland’s premier banquet facility — hosting grand weddings for up to 700 guests. Majestic columns welcome you as you arrive to Cotillion Banquets. Our venue features a neo-classic setting where grand staircases, crystal chandeliers, and porcelain dance floors accent every wedding. Experience the attention to detail at Cotillion Banquets.
When booking at Cotillion Banquets, you will enjoy distinctive menu options expertly prepared by our own chefs and optimal service that is unrivaled in the banquet industry. Our staff endeavors to make your celebration as special and memorable as you dream it will be. We will work with you to ensure an occasion you will reminisce about for a lifetime. We take great pride in each and every event we host and feel confident that you and your guests will leave our venue talking about our impeccable food, extravagant rooms and courteous staff. We consider it a privilege to play a part in the most important celebration of your life.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Grand staircases, crystal chandeliers, porcelain dance floor and ornate outdoor gazebo.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 700
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Banquet Hall
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 7
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 1,800
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Historic Location, Hotel/Resort, Restaurant
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering, All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
DRURY LANE THEATRE & EVENTS
100 DRURY LN., OAKBROOK TERRACE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Celebrate under the chandeliers at Drury Lane! Featuring Swarovski crystal chandeliers in every room, your Drury Lane wedding will be an unforgettable experience for you and your guests alike. Whether you are planning an intimate family celebration or a grand-scale reception, our dedicated Event Specialists are here to make your wedding dreams come true with uncompromising service and a stress-free wedding day.
Every wedding package includes a delectable five-course dinner, four hours of open bar, a champagne toast, and more. Stunning ceremony spaces are available at Drury Lane, and we can meet all of your pre- and post-wedding needs such as hosting your shower, rehearsal dinner and day-after brunch.
Located next door to the Hilton Suites and Garden Inn, you will enjoy a complimentary wedding night suite, and your guests will appreciate the convenience of being steps away from their hotel. We are also pleased to offer complimentary Sunday Brunch for two on your first anniversary.
ELEMENTS BY THE ODYSSEY
16235 LA GRANGE RD., ORLAND PARK, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — COMPLETELY REMODELED IN 2021
Start the journey you have dreamed about with Elements by The Odyssey! Our experienced Event Specialists, Banquet Staff and Culinary Department are here to guide you through the planning process to make it as simple and stress-free as possible. Accommodating up to 400 guests, Elements offers a dinner package, including ballroom rental for 5½ hours, a 4-course gourmet meal with 4 hours of a premium open bar, champagne for the Bridal Party, unlimited wine throughout dinner, a complimentary tasting for 2, centerpieces and much more. Whether you desire an intimate setting, prefer a lavish look or an outdoor setting, our Event Specialists have the ability to turn your vision into reality.
With the unbeatable convenience of the adjoining Homewood Suites by Hilton, couples along with their guests can experience the finest in cuisine and service, with the peace of mind that overnight accommodations are attached to the venue.
SPECIAL FEATURES — The refined ambiance and splendor of Elements by The Odyssey is evident from the moment you walk through our doors.
CONTACT — EVENT SPECIALIST | 708.981.3608 | SALES@ELEMENTSBYTHEODYSSEY.COM ELEMENTSBYTHEODYSSEY.COM
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
THE EMPRESS BANQUETS
200 E. LAKE ST., ADDISON, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Where beautiful beginnings start … and are never forgotten.
Your wedding day will be one of the most special days of your life. Share this joyous occasion with all of your guests at our beautiful and stunning venue at The Empress. With ample parking and a newly remodeled modern facility, you can leave a lasting and memorable impression on all your family, friends and guests. We also offer a variety of customized packages to meet your personal needs.
From planning to execution, our team provides comprehensive, hands-on event services to make your special day as stress-free as possible so you can relax, celebrate and enjoy the festivities with your loved ones. See more photos on Instagram @empressbanquets.
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 500
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Banquet Hall
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES:
House Chairs, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
On-Site Parking, Valet Available
SPECIAL FEATURES — Beautiful glam feel including rhinestone-encrusted door handles and stunning chandeliers. Enjoy our lavishly appointed bridal suites.
FOUNTAIN BLUE BANQUETS & CONFERENCE CENTER
2300 MANNHEIM RD., DES PLAINES, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Looking for something unique? At Fountain Blue, you will enjoy our elegant rooms, award-winning cuisine and first-rate service.
We pride ourselves in preparing a banquet experience that makes your event truly special.
We strive to help you host a successful event and create memories that will last a lifetime.
Our newly renovated rooms are sure to impress your guests.
Whether it’s a wedding, luncheon or corporate gathering, our experienced staff will assist you in planning every detail of your event of 50 to 400 guests.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Our gorgeous private garden full of lush foliage and brightly colored flowers, ivory-colored gazebo and beautiful fountain offer plenty of photo opportunities.
CONTACT — CONNIE MANIOS | 847.298.3636 | INFO@FOUNTAINBLUE.COM FOUNTAINBLUE.COM
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 400
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
THE GRAND BALLROOM AT JOLIET UNION STATION
50 E. JEFFERSON ST., JOLIET, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Grand Ballroom at Joliet Union Station occupies one of Joliet’s most historic buildings. What was once the bustling hub for travelers waiting to catch their trains, is now a beautiful and unique setting for your wedding day. It is a versatile space with both indoor and outdoor locations.
Guests are able to enter the space via a grand, marble staircase leading to the second floor ballroom. The arching ceiling and stunning chandeliers provide a glamorous setting for any reception. Couples can choose to host their cocktail hour amidst the old-fashioned ticket windows, outside on the old train platform or on the front balcony overlooking the plaza.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 200
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Historic Location
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
The Grand Ballroom’s team of experienced staff will help you bring any vision to life and can customize menu selections, suggest decor items and refer exceptional vendors who reflect your styles and tastes. The unique menu has been designed in a way that allows you to create your own package and provides flexibility with each course.
SPECIAL FEATURES — One ballroom, ceremony space, chiavari chairs and bridal suite included. CONTACT — TAYLOR PRIEBOY | 815.254.7003 | EVENTS@MISTWOODGC.COM JOLIETUNIONSTATION.COM
HERITAGE BALLROOM
100 SYMPHONY WAY, ELGIN, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — With seating for up to 300 guests, the Heritage Ballroom is the perfect venue for your dream wedding. Indoor/outdoor ceremony sites are available. We can design your perfect event to fit your budget.
Step outside the ballroom and experience the beautifully landscaped Walton Island and riverfront, ideal for scenic photo opportunities and for hosting wedding receptions after a wedding ceremony at the Walton Island gazebo. When you host your wedding day at Heritage Ballroom, expect nothing but rave reviews from your guests, not only for the food but for the service and ambiance as well.
With a full bar and kitchen facilities, multimedia capabilities, dance floor and a complete sound system, we offer many cost-effective services that will make your whole wedding day come together.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Panoramic window views looking out onto beautiful Walton Island create the right ambiance for your day.
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AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 6
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES: All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 600
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor Event Space, Industrial/Loft, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
THE HIGHLAND LOFT EVENT VENUE
168 E. HIGHLAND AVE., ELGIN, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Highland Loft now offers three incredible event spaces for weddings, rehearsal dinners and showers. We pride ourselves on offering customizable layouts and an open-vendor policy, giving you the freedom to bring your dream vision to life. Together with our affordable packages, stunning ceiling designs and amazing staff, The Highland Loft truly sets itself apart amongst Chicagoland event spaces. Whether you prefer a sophisticated or trendy ambiance, The Highland Loft has the versatility to accommodate your preferences — creating a day that your guests are sure never to forget!
Make your wedding experience even more convenient and enjoyable by inquiring about our exclusive Overnight Loft Apartment. Located within the same building, it offers a luxurious and comfortable stay in a beautiful two-bedroom suite, perfect for the night before or after your special day.
SPECIAL FEATURES — On-site ceremony, various decor included in rental, second and thirdfloor converted lofts, original exposed brick walls and windows throughout, spacious bridal suite, groom’s room, hair & makeup room.
HILTON CHICAGO/OAK LAWN
9333 S. CICERO AVE., OAK LAWN, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Hilton Chicago Oak Lawn welcomes guests with a grand lobby adorned with sparkling chandeliers and tasteful decor. From intimate banquet halls to spacious ballrooms, our newly renovated hotel offers a range of breathtaking event spaces suitable for your wedding vision.
Our experienced wedding specialists work closely with couples, providing personalized assistance from start to finish. From venue selection and catering coordination to recommending trusted vendors and customizing decor, our attention to detail guarantees a seamless and stress-free experience. The culinary team crafts delectable menus, featuring diverse cuisines and locally sourced ingredients. Whether it’s handcrafted hors d’oeuvres for cocktail receptions or multi-course plated dinners, the Hilton Chicago Oak Lawn ensures a memorable dining experience.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Two elegant, separate ballrooms. Out-of-town guests will enjoy comfortable and stylish accommodations with amenities including fitness facilities, a swimming pool, on-site dining options and a coffee bar. Close to Midway airport, complimentary shuttle for hotel guests.
CONTACT — 708.229.8850 | ANNE.MINNELLA@HILTON.COM
OAKLAWN.HILTON.COM
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 15
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 500
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Ballroom, Banquet Hall, Hotel/Resort, Restaurant, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, Flatware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
HYATT LODGE OAK BROOK
2815 JORIE BLVD., OAK BROOK, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Vows with a View. Celebrate the next chapter of your love story at Hyatt Lodge Oak Brook. The hotel is a hidden gem nestled on 88 acres of stunning natural scenery just outside the city and around the corner from the heart of Oak Brook.
Our serene setting is the perfect backdrop for weddings set in any season. The panoramic floor-to-ceiling windows in Grand Oaks Pavilion showcase our natural surroundings, blending with the venue’s prairie-style architecture.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 5
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 300
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Hotel/Resort, Restaurant, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES:
On-Site Catering, Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Valet Available
Whether you’re looking for a sophisticated ballroom soirée or an open-air lakeside ceremony, our countless combinations of space and scenery can accommodate events for guests ranging from 30 to 300.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Waterfront ceremony space, panoramic ballroom surrounded by foliage, lakeside patio perfect for your cocktail hour or rehearsal dinner.
CONTACT — HYATT LODGE SALES DEPT. | 630.581.6620 HYATTLODGESALES@HYATT.COM | HYATTLODGE.COM
JACOB HENRY MANSION ESTATE
20 S. EASTERN AVE., JOLIET, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Let The Ambiance Of The Past Create The Perfect Setting For Your Future Together.
The Jacob Henry Mansion Estate contributes to the beauty of your wedding day by offering a unique setting for both your wedding ceremony and reception. The Jacob Henry Mansion, the flagship of our Estate, is known for its Gilded Age architecture, decadent hand-carved woodwork, and lavish period decoration. A winding path leads from the Mansion, through the Gardens, to the Ballroom and Old Central Church.
Built in 1895 of locally excavated limestone, The Old Central Church’s splendor includes three stunning stained glass windows, and its original 2,000-pipe organ. From an era of wealth, opulence and romance are three historic landmarks — a Mansion, Ballroom and a Church — combined to make your wedding celebration an unforgettable experience!
SPECIAL FEATURES — On-site ceremony in the Church or Gardens; our full service, on-site planners offer personalized attention to help make your wedding dreams come true!
CONTACT — SARAH ORR | 815.722.1420 | SARAH@JACOBHENRYMANSION.COM JACOBHENRYMANSION.COM
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 3
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 275
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Historic Location, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 225
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Banquet Hall, Barn/Farm, Country Club/Golf Course, Outdoor, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
KEMPER LAKES GOLF CLUB
24000 N. OLD MCHENRY RD., KILDEER, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Couples can invite up to 220 guests to join them on their big day at Kemper Lakes Golf Club. An outdoor ceremony takes place under the romantic sweeping branches of a willow tree, with a lake and lush fairways as the backdrop. Wedding photos across the property showcase the couple’s beauty.
Inside the ballroom, a high wooden ceiling with skylights shines down on the guests, while surrounding floor-to-ceiling windows make the space feel open and full of light. The tall wood ceilings are complemented by beautiful grand sparkling chandeliers.
Kemper Lakes is now offering an additional space to be used for pre-functions and cocktail hours. It includes a large main bar, fireplace, soft seating and high boys.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Pristine championship golf course as backdrop, beautiful indoor/ outdoor cocktail hour locations, surrounded by annual and perennial gardens.
KUIPERS FAMILY FARM
1N318 WATSON RD., MAPLE PARK, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The orchard estate is nestled on 230 serene acres just 50 miles west of Chicago. Your guests can relax on the long front porch taking in the picturesque view of the orchard in spring bloom, enjoy lawn games or a train ride on a summer evening and taste the flavors of our delicious farmstead cuisine in the majestic Orchard Barn. Amazing photo opportunities will help to create the lasting memories you’re dreaming of.
One of our most unique offerings is the invitation to visit the orchard each year after your wedding to relive where your story together began. We are open to the public each fall for our annual apple harvest celebration.
The Orchard Barn is a full service venue with all the amenities needed to provide a unique, elegant, all-inclusive and comfortable guest experience.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Exclusive use of orchard. Unique silo bar, climate-controlled venue, complimentary ceremony coordinator, lawn games, farmview railway, cider doughnuts.
CONTACT — EVENT DIRECTOR | 815.827.5200
EVENTDIRECTOR@KUIPERSFAMILYFARM.COM | KUIPERSWEDDINGVENUE.COM
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 225
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Barn/Farm, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, China, Flatware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
MISTWOOD GOLF CLUB
1700 W. RENWICK RD., ROMEOVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Mistwood Golf Club is located in Romeoville, and overlooks the rolling greens and water features of a world-class golf course. There are beautiful decorative details throughout the grounds, including, but not limited to, seasonal gardens, gazebos, charming stone bridges and a bell tower.
Mistwood offers a ballroom that can seat up to 225 guests with dance floor, and comes complete with chandeliers, Chiavari chairs, fireplace and private terraces that overlook our gorgeous course. Our Courtyard is the perfect place to have your ceremony and is completed with paver stones and a beautiful garden.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 225
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Country Club/Golf Course
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking
Mistwood Golf Club provides old-world charm with all the modern conveniences and amenities for you and your guests. Our team is honored to share your day and is committed to providing you with the most memorable experience!
SPECIAL FEATURES — One ballroom, two private terraces, ceremony space overlooking course, Chiavari chairs, dance floor, bridal suite and picturesque backdrop for photos.
CONTACT — TAYLOR PRIEBOY | 815.254.3333 | EVENTS@MISTWOODGC.COM MISTWOODGC.COM
THE MOMENT ON MAIN
122 N. MAIN ST., WHEATON, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — We are located in the heart of downtown Wheaton, and given our reputation for service, incredible vendor connections, and our modern elegance mixed with a minimal design concept, we host some of the most exceptional events in the Chicago western suburbs. Our goal is to inspire our couples with personalized planning so that your vision becomes a reality.
We have a minimal design concept that provides a modern elegance to your event.
• The heart of downtown Wheaton offers picturesque parks and brick walls with creeping vines for stunning photography
• We provide an on-site day-of coordinator to ensure your day is seamless and stress-free. We have incredible vendor recommendations to help customize our event space to fit any style.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Fully customizable, luxury bridal suite, charming downtown location, ambient fireplace, carte blanche inspired, expert venue coordinators
CONTACT — ALEXIS HELLER | 630.868.3703 | CONTACTUS@THEMOMENTONMAIN.COM THEMOMENTONMAIN.COM
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 180
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Historic Location, Industrial/Loft
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Complimentary On-Site Parking, Nearby/Parking Garage
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 2
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 250
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES:
Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS:
Valet Available, Nearby/Parking Garage
PARAMOUNT’S MEYER BALLROOM
8 E. GALENA BLVD., AURORA, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Impress your guests with the stunningly beautiful Meyer Ballroom! Located in the heart of Historic Downtown Aurora, the striking space includes floor-to-ceiling windows with panoramic views of the beautiful Fox River and historic Paramount Theatre. With a modern, neutral pallet, the possibilities are endless.
Our award-winning staff will guide you every step of the way with our comprehensive wedding packages. Our packages include a 6-hour reception, 5 hours of open bar, a champagne toast for the head table, black or white linens, centerpiece options, 2 wedding party suites, unlimited personal consultations, a day of coordinator, security, coat check, access to the ballroom prior to reception for decorations, set up and take down of all tables and chairs, Chiavari hybrid chairs, and riverfront outdoor patio. Our staff helps with preferred caterer selections and vendor recommendations.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Multiple ceremony locations to choose from including an outdoor option, bar package, 5-hour open top shelf bar complimentary upgrade if the venue is booked within 30 days of the tour, complimentary valet parking, and complimentary ticket vouchers for each wedding guest to a Paramount Theatre Broadway Series show.
THE PAVILION AT LORDS PARK 100 OAKWOOD BLVD., ELGIN, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — This stunning special event location, located in the gorgeous Lords Park, can accommodate up to 250 guests. The magnificent Pavilion has hardwood flooring, vaulted ceilings, picket doors, wide windows with scenic park views, a covered wrap-around veranda, and outside ceremony grounds with ponds, fountains, and a wooden bridge. Weddings, quinceañeras, bridal and baby showers, birthday/anniversary parties, and so much more are all possible at this site. The Pavilion, a two-story structure built in 1898, is one of the city’s most important historical landmarks. It’s at 100 Oakwood Boulevard in Lords Park, a 108-acre photographic site in the magnificent historic Lords Park. Groups of up to 250 individuals can use the space; fees vary depending on size and rental terms. The scene of your wedding will be situated against a gorgeous lake with a plethora of trees and flowers. You can exchange vows beside the lake, and move inside for a reception inside the pavilion. The two levels of the historical building are perfect for a night of dancing! The stained glass windows are stunning and create a romantic setting in and of themselves. A wrap-around porch runs the length of the pavilion.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Vaulted ceilings, large windows, scenic park views, covered wraparound porch, outdoor ceremony grounds with ponds, fountains and wooden bridge.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 250
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Historic Location
CATERING CHOICES: All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
PEARL BANQUETS & CONFERENCE CENTER
1490 LAKE ST., ROSELLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Unique, Versatile Setting
Customization sets Pearl Banquet & Conference Center apart. A lavish atmosphere, dedicated staff, and hands-on services make our venue as inviting as it is glamorous and practical. It is our goal to give every couple a memorable experience from their first meeting with a caring wedding specialist through the months leading up to their ultimate celebration.
Our wedding designers offer top quality and value within an established budget. Our enthusiastic and experienced planners are passionate about producing extraordinary wedding celebrations. This extends to a variety of related special guest events, such as rehearsal dinners and morning-after brunches.
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 550
VENUE STYLE: Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Hotel/Resort, Outdoor
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site
Catering, All Catering Welcome
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
Adjacent Holiday Inn Express Hotel accommodations make it convenient for local and outof-town guests. No need for a shuttle!
SPECIAL FEATURES — Soaring 24-foot ceilings with customizable lighting, custom-placed furniture, dazzling chandeliers, and high-end wall vinyls.
SOCIETY 57
100 S. RIVER ST., AURORA, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — IF THESE WALLS COULD TALK…
They’d invite you inside, tell a story or two, and then make sure you leave with a few of your own. That’s Society 57 — where rich history and modern design converge to create a one-of-a-kind event experience. Located along the picturesque Fox River, Society 57 is the quintessential wedding and private event destination for Chicago’s western suburbs.
Our historic building has been completely re-imagined, providing abundant space and an aesthetic that can be described as comfortable elegance. Complemented by ample nearby, enchanting photo opportunities of both river and city, and flexible catering and vendor options — it’s where the past meets the present to create memories that will stay with you and your guests forever.
riverfront location.
AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 1
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 150
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Historic Location, Industrial/Loft, Unique/Alternative, Waterfront
CATERING CHOICES: Preferred Caterers
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs
PARKING OPTIONS: Nearby/Parking Garage
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 600
VENUE STYLE: Indoor Event Space, Ballroom
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, House Chairs, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
VENUTI’S RISTORANTE AND BANQUETS
2251 W. LAKE ST., ADDISON, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — The Venuti Family would like the opportunity to graciously host and serve your special day. We are known for our attention to detail, our 5-star service, our ability to customize your special event and our exquisite food.
Celebrate with up to 1,000 of your closest family and friends in our opulent grand ballroom as well as recite your vows in our quaint circular chapel. The gorgeous marble staircase provides a stunning backdrop for photos.
Our event specialists are here to help you plan: From exceptional authentic Italian cuisine options to beautiful decor and lighting solutions, your wedding will be picturesque and unforgettable!
SPECIAL FEATURES — Picturesque marble double staircase, fountain, patio and circular chapel, rental also includes centerpieces and audio/visual. CONTACT — CIARA RIVERA | 630.376.1500 | CRIVERA@VENUTISBANQUETS.COM VENUTIS.COM
WHITETAIL RIDGE GOLF CLUB
7671 CLUBHOUSE DR., YORKVILLE, IL
ABOUT THE VENUE — Whitetail Ridge Golf Club is an elegant golf and country club located in Yorkville. This award-winning venue creates one-of-a-kind weddings that fit within your budget, suit your personal style and produce everlasting memories.
Whitetail Ridge offers the perfect combination of rustic, elegance and comfort. Our facility produces a warm feeling with neutral colors, dark wood trim, rich barn door accents and exquisite chandeliers. We provide a variety of backgrounds for your photos, including a white barn, an S-shaped bridge, lush forests and open fields. Enjoy the picturesque sunset from our main-level balcony as you celebrate your reception at Whitetail Ridge!
Whether it’s an intimate gathering or a grand affair, Whitetail Ridge Golf Club is a one-stop shop for all of your wedding wants and needs.
SPECIAL FEATURES — Separate cocktail hour space, private balcony, entire main level booked for weddings.
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AT A GLANCE
# OF EVENT SPACES: 4
MAXIMUM SEATED CAPACITY: 350
VENUE STYLE:
Indoor and Outdoor Event Space, Ballroom, Country Club/Golf Course, Unique/Alternative
CATERING CHOICES: On-Site Catering
RENTAL INCLUDES: Tables, Chiavari Chairs, China, Flatware, Stemware, House Linens
PARKING OPTIONS: Complimentary On-Site Parking
BUILD YOUR VENDOR TEAM
A wedding is never a one-person show. Bringing on a cohesive and reputable team of wedding vendors is a crucial part of hosting a beautiful and thoughtful event. Read on for some vendor viewpoints, advice and tips. Remember, a thoughtfully chosen team is the special ingredient to making your wedding dreams come true.
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STATIONERY & GIFTS
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FOOD & BEVERAGE
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PHOTOGRAPHY & VIDEOGRAPHY
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ENTERTAINMENT
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PLANNING & DESIGNING
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FLORAL
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DESSERTS & SWEETS
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DESIGNERS’ CHALLENGE
We live and breathe wedding inspiration here at Chicago Style Weddings. When working with couples on their dream wedding, vendors are pros at making those visions come to life. But what happens when we give vendors free rein? With no rules or regulations, we invited a handful of Chicagoland vendors to let their creative minds run wild and show us what they’ve got.
We created four impressive teams, joining a planner, venue, florist, bakery, stationer, linens provider and photographer together to bring one collective vision to life. Get inspired by their designs here and head online to vote for your favorite. May the best design win the Designers’ Challenge crown!
Designers’ Challenge MOROCCAN SUNSET
Led by Wedicity, this Designers’ Challenge team created a stunning display that evoked a Moroccan sunset in the heart of downtown Chicago. Hosted at The Forum at 120 N. Wacker, the artistic visions of Amore Creative, Branching Out Chicago, ECBG Cake Studio, F&S Linens, Tablescapes Event Rentals, Wedicity and XO Art & Design were beautifully captured by Winterlyn Photography.
The team drew inspiration from Gibsons Restaurant Group’s riverside event space, The Forum, with its striking teal and orange entryway carpeting. From there, they created a color
palette of turmeric, vermilion, blush and teal, ultimately inspired by the gradations of a desert sunset. The design’s focus was on tonal variations reminiscent of desert dunes, but glass votives added teal punches and a nod to the Mediterranean Sea. Situated above Bar Mar by José Andrés, the venue’s views of the city and river are always captivating, but the team’s eclectic decorating added a new vibrancy.
The team’s design captured the energy of vibrant souks, showcasing that the essence of Marrakesh can be experienced along the Chicago Riverwalk.
The Team
PLANNER
Wedicity Wedding Day Detailing
FLORAL
Branching Out Chicago
CAKE
ECBG Cake Studio
STATIONERY
Amore Creative
CALLIGRAPHY
XO Art & Design
LINENS & RENTALS
F&S Linens
RENTALS
Tablescapes Event Rentals
VENUE The Forum
PHOTOGRAPHY Winterlyn Photography Vote
We wanted to play with color while incorporating Moroccan and Mediterranean elements. I knew I wanted a neutral base so the color would really shine through in florals and tablescape details.
KRISTINA FLENS WEDICITY WEDDING DAY DETAILING
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Tionna Van Gundy
WEDICITY WEDDING DAY DETAILING
Jessica D’Amore
AMORE CREATIVE
Erin Martin
ECBG CAKE STUDIO
Kristina Flens
WEDICITY WEDDING DAY DETAILING
Back Row (Left to Right)
Eric D’Amore
AMORE CREATIVE
Christie Lindquist Delort
BRANCHING OUT CHICAGO
Christine Boulton
BRANCHING OUT CHICAGO
Justin Johnson
BRANCHING OUT CHICAGO
Lynette Velez
GIBSONS RESTAURANT GROUP
Nina Martucci CBRE
Kayla Strain CBRE
Winterlyn Stebner
WINTERLYN PHOTOGRAPHY
Designers’ Challenge COME SAIL AWAY
Headed by Designed and Detailed Event Management, this Designers’ Challenge team made waves on Lake Michigan. Inspired by the sensation of being swept away by the water, they showcased innovative and playful ways to experiment at sea. Shane Cleminson Photography captured the dreamy work of BBJ La Tavola, Delish Cakes, Designed and Detailed, Marquee Event Rentals, Nerissa B Modern Calligraphy and Town & Country Gardens aboard the Spirit of Navy Pier.
The Spirit of Navy Pier is City Experiences’ newest vessel, complete with multiple dining decks and observation spaces.
With windows framing the enigmatic charm of Lake Michigan, this environment was the ideal setting for the Designers’ Challenge team to build on. As a result, they transported us to a world defined by crashing waves, freshwater breezes and blooming coral.
Challenged to create something seafaring but not typically “nautical,” the team embraced sea foam textures, driftwood touches and vivid florals. By combining crystal accents with a bold palette of coral, chartreuse and fuchsia, they produced fresh ideas sure to create a ripple effect for weddings to come.
Marquee
We wanted the design to feel like a wave had crashed over the ship’s bow and the ceremony florals just landed there in its wake.
ALISON GROSSMAN DESIGNED AND DETAILED EVENT MANAGEMENT
Seated (Left to Right)
Alicia Eisenmann DELISH CAKES
Jamie Lea Power
TOWN & COUNTRY GARDENS
Alison Grossman
DESIGNED AND DETAILED EVENT MANAGEMENT
Nicole Steuernagle
DESIGNED AND DETAILED EVENT MANAGEMENT
Standing (Left to Right)
Carlita Kelly CITY EXPERIENCES
Anton Engelmann
TOWN & COUNTRY GARDENS
Nerissa Israel
NERISSA B MODERN CALLIGRAPHY
Kayla McAndrews
BBJ LA TAVOLA
Shane Cleminson
SHANE CLEMINSON PHOTOGRAPHY
Designers’ Challenge THROUGH SEPIA-COLORED GLASSES
BW Studio + Events led their team to create a playful and whimsical setting, inviting guests to view a springtime garden through sepia-colored glasses. Esther Gallarday Photography captured the creations of BW Studio + Events, Creative Cakes, Elements Preserved Vintage Rental, Emery Ann Design, Floral Expressions and Marquee Event Rentals in the historic Grand Ballroom at Joliet Union Station.
Built in 1912, The Grand Ballroom at Joliet Union Station is one of Joliet’s most historic properties. Inspired by this history, the team drew inspiration from the past, but it wasn’t the 1910s that
caught their attention. Instead, the team looked to the 1970s. The venue’s sweeping granite staircase and antique ticketing booths were the perfect backdrop for this playful vision.
No longer filled with the echoes of trains, the former depot transformed into an environment better suited for the sounds of groovy vinyl records. Vintage furniture rentals, antique suitcases and collectible stamps all contributed to this retro atmosphere. What once was a bustling hub for travelers, the venue has been reimagined into a magical event space that offers a one-of-a-kind experience, regardless of the era.
The Team
PLANNER
BW Studio + Events
FLORAL
Floral Expressions & Gifts
CAKE
Creative Cakes
STATIONERY
Emery Ann Design
TABLETOP DÉCOR
Marquee Event Rentals
VINTAGE RENTALS
Elements Preserved Vintage Rental
VENUE
The Grand Ballroom at Joliet Union Station
PHOTOGRAPHY
Esther Gallarday Photography
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This design evokes a playful and colorful take on a vintage color palette. We showcased how you can take vintage elements and make them feel contemporary.
BLAIR WOERFEL BW STUDIO + EVENTS
Front Row Seated
Blair Woerfel BW STUDIO + EVENTS
Second Row Seated (Left to Right)
Kendale Brice
MARQUEE EVENT RENTALS
Becky Palermo CREATIVE CAKES
Audra Byrne THE GRAND BALLROOM AT JOLIET UNION STATION
Nick Frank FLORAL EXPRESSIONS & GIFTS
Taylor Prieboy THE GRAND BALLROOM AT JOLIET UNION STATION
Esther Gallarday ESTHER GALLARDAY PHOTOGRAPHY
Standing (Left to Right)
Beth Boelter
ELEMENTS PRESERVED VINTAGE RENTAL
Nicole Nechvatal
EMERY ANN DESIGN
Megan Dell’Aringa FLORAL EXPRESSIONS & GIFTS
Designers’ Challenge BLOWN AWAY BY LOVE
At The Highland Loft, Kristina Jones Events led their Designers’ Challenge team into a blown-glass dreamscape. To showcase this vision, The Black Tie Studio captured the works of Delish Cakes, Elegant Presentations, Kristina Jones Events, Maxe Designs and Willrett Flower Company against the textured, brick backdrop of the venue.
Inspired by the Chihuly Garden and Glass Museum in Seattle, the team sought to capture the asymmetry and flow of the famous artworks. In this same spirit of Dale Chihuly’s boldness and creativity, the Designers’ Challenge team embarked on
reimagining wedding decor into something playful and daring.
The exposed brick and wood beams of the venue provided the perfect backdrop for the team to infuse color and depth into the space. Against this rustic canvas, the team crafted a bold and asymmetric playground, using vibrant citrus and teal hues that permeated through every detail, from the plush velvets to the marbled stationery and bursting floral arrangements. The artistic and colorful inspiration shone through the natural light streaming into the venue, culminating in a stunning display of innovation and creativity.
Kristina
I really wanted our team to jump into color and art. With big, bold colors making a comeback in weddings, we aimed to showcase fun and creative ways to experiment with these beautiful elements.
KRISTINA JONESWedding Planner Questions to Ask Your
• What tiers of planning do you offer and what is included in each? (Full planning, the month of, day of?)
• Do you offer event design and styling as well?
• How often will we communicate and what is your preference: phone, text, email or via an online app?
• Do you have a preferred vendor list for us to reference?
• Do we need to pay our vendors directly or do we pay them through you?
• Do you coordinate deliveries, rentals, set-up times and other meetings with various vendors on the wedding day?
• Will you be creating a timeline and schedule for everyone involved on the wedding day?
• Have you planned any other weddings at our venue?
• Do you also plan events surrounding the wedding, like the rehearsal dinner or day-after brunch?
• How many meetings will we have together and how involved would you like us to be?
• On the wedding day, how many people from your team will be at the wedding?
• How many weddings have you planned?
• What made you want to be a wedding planner?
• After we provide our budget, will you help us break down how it will be allocated?
PERFECTLY
HOW A WEDDING PLANNER CAN MAKE YOUR BIG DAY A DREAMCOME-TRUE
WRITTEN BY Alexandra DillardArranging all the place settings and making an extra one for your college roommate’s plusone (who wasn’t even on the guest list). Checking every bathroom stall to ensure there’s enough toilet paper. Verifying that the DJ has the right electricity hookups. Sewing a button onto the best man’s suit. Driving back to the hotel to grab the right pair of undergarments (no, not the polka-dot ones).
Is this how you envision your wedding morning checklist? If you’re thinking “heck no!” (and who could blame you?), then it’s time to seriously consider hiring a wedding planner. From the dress to the decorations, the venue to the catering, there are so many pieces that need to be overseen to ensure that your big day is everything you dreamed of. A professional wedding planner can handle the details, both big and small, leaving you free to relax and enjoy your special day.
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A WEDDING PLANNER IS THE MASTERMIND WHO MAKES THE MAGIC HAPPEN.
YOU ’ VE GOT OPTIONS
There are various tiers of wedding planning services available, each providing a different level of involvement, support and financial obligation. From full-service planning to day-of coordination, you’ve got options!
Before hiring a wedding planner, it’s important to determine how much you’re willing to borrow from your budget and how much help you really need. Typically, comprehensive wedding planning services cost between 10-20% of your total budget. Once you have a clear understanding of how much planning you can take on and how much you want to outsource, you can start looking for a wedding planner who offers the level of assistance that meets your needs.
RELAX
One of the key advantages of hiring a wedding planner is that they can help you manage stress and “what could go wrong?” worries. Planning a wedding is
a significant occasion, and it’s normal to feel overwhelmed and a bit frazzled. A wedding planner can help ease some of this pressure by handling all the particulars and ensuring everything runs smoothly. They can also help you manage any unforeseen problems that emerge, allowing you to focus on remembering the steps to your choreographed first dance. Weddings involve a lot of moving pieces, which means a few minor hiccups are inevitable. Many planners have already addressed a range of crises, many of which happen without the couple even knowing what occurred. From a wedding cake melting in the sun to the bridal gown’s zipper splitting moments before walking down the aisle, wedding planners are natural problem solvers ready to hop into action. They come equipped with sewing kits and super glue and are two steps ahead of any snafu. The time your wedding planner spends serving Liquid I.V. to the best man to prevent a drunken speech is worth every penny spent.
FINANCIAL AND CONTRACTUAL
Weddings often require a significant financial investment, even for small, backyard affairs. When it comes to budgeting, it can be tempting to skimp on hiring a wedding planner and allocate those funds elsewhere. However, not hiring a professional planner can actually end up costing you more in the long run. Their expertise and experience helps avoid expensive mistakes, such as ending up paying overtime because you didn’t calculate the timeline properly. They can also help you negotiate better deals with vendors, making sure you get the best value. So, before opting to forgo a planner, consider the savings and peace of mind they can bring to your big day.
TIME IS MONEY
Hiring a wedding planner can help you save time. Planning a wedding is a demanding and intricate process, and it can be hard to balance all the
different elements while also sticking to your budget. Effectively manage your time with the assistance of a wedding planner. They’ll ensure every detail is attended to, relieving you of concerns about overlooking anything. They can also provide recommendations for vendors and services that align with your vision and budget, saving you the time and effort of researching and vetting them yourself. With a wedding planner on your team, you can focus on enjoying your engagement and preparing for your big day, while leaving the details and logistics to a professional.
VISION MEETS REALITY
You may have been dreaming of your wedding day since long before you even found your partner. Maybe you have a Pinterest board with years’ worth of ideas, overflowing with inspiration. Or perhaps you don’t have any specific details in mind beyond a general vibe or feeling.
While it’s fun to live in wedding dreamland, bringing that vision to life is another story. One of the greatest benefits of a good wedding planner is their ability to listen to your wishes — however detailed or vague they may be — and then turn those requests into something real. Wedding inspiration can turn into an untamed beast — how do you pick a color palette that evokes the emotions you haven’t found words for yet? How do you achieve Edward and Bella’s wisteria-drenched ceremony within your budget? A wedding planner has the know-how to take your feelings and turn them into a tangible, cohesive wedding.
A good wedding planner also knows the difference between dreams and reality. Your budget may not line up with a replica of Sofia Richie Grainge’s South of France nuptials. However, a planner can help manipulate your budget and offer creative solutions while keeping things realistic.
It’s important to note that you shouldn’t expect your wedding planner to save you money when it comes to negotiating contracts. While your planner may have a working relationship with a company that could involve special pricing, a discount should never
be expected. These vendors set their prices where they are for a reason!
PERSONAL MEDIATOR
Although weddings are all about a celebration of love, they also are apt to uncover unique conflicts. Bringing together two families is inherently tricky and when you add in all the logistical details, budget and personal feelings, situations can get sticky. This is where a wedding planner can act as a mediator. If you don’t want to upset your future mother-in-law by telling her that the peach dahlias she keeps insisting on are not your vibe, your wedding planner can handle these conversations tactfully and without it feeling personal. A wedding planner can help ensure that everyone is on the same page, and that potential conflicts are resolved before they have a chance to escalate and spoil your special day.
PROS KNOW BEST
Having a wedding planner gives you unique access to their network of contacts and resources. Wedding planners work with a wide range of vendors, from seamstresses and photographers to catering staff and lighting technicians. They know which vendor teams have the best reputations, which ones are in-budget and which ones are a perfect fit for your specific vision. If you have a particular or unique theme in mind, your planner can help you identify vendors who specialize in that style and have experience creating it. They can also provide insights into the latest trends in weddings, so you can ensure your special day is as unique as you’d like it to be. By tapping into a wedding planner’s network and experience, you can navigate the world of wedding vendors with ease.
THE DAY-OF DETAILS
Perhaps the biggest service a wedding planner can provide is coordinating the actual wedding day. From what time your hair and makeup should be completed by to sending the wedding party down the aisle, a wedding planner has the expertise and knowledge to ensure a seamless flow of events. Hiring a wedding planner also frees up your family members to enjoy your day, instead of putting them to work.
Your maid-of-honor deserves to relax and enjoy your wedding day, too! And you certainly cannot coordinate your reception setup while you’re busy exchanging vows.
Although a talented wedding planner makes it look effortless, it takes a lot of work and expertise to execute a fairytale wedding. Even the most organized of couples may struggle to enjoy their special day if they are also trying to manage it. Before you make any other decisions, prioritize hiring a wedding planner. As you set your
budget, make sure there is room in it to cover the level of service needed. Even if you’ve attended dozens of weddings and been a wedding attendant in a handful too, a professional wedding planner offers an unparalleled level of experience and expertise. Simply put, they know more than you! From venue selection to crafting the day-of timeline, a wedding planner is the mastermind who makes the magic happen. Are you ready to cross off some tasks on your wedding to-do list and hire a wedding planner yet? ■
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Questions to Ask Your
Decorator
Event Rentals
Services
• Will you deliver and collect our rental items?
• Will you set up our rental items in the discussed layouts?
• Is there a cost difference if we pick up and return the items ourselves?
• Do you provide diagramming and site inspections with your service?
• How do items get returned after the wedding? Will you pick them up? What is your fee for pickup?
• What is the range of products you offer?
• Have you decorated our venue before?
• What are your most popular rental items?
• How would you describe your decorating style? What aesthetics are you drawn to and equipped to supply pieces for?
• How many weddings and events do you book each weekend? Will there be overlap between our event and another one of your clients’ events?
• What is the damage policy? What happens if a product gets scuffed or damaged?
Aesthetic YourDefine
Boho pampas grass or metallic opulence? Moody romance or vibrant jubilation? Deciding on your wedding aesthetic and theme is full of considerations. There are so many directions to go in, each as captivating as the next. Where do you and your partner begin?
According to Amy Reifenstuhl of Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor, the ultimate decor goal is to create a personal and meaningful event that reflects the couple’s essence. With her expertise in designing intentional and personalized occasions, Reifenstuhl loves to transform her clients’ individuality into tangible and captivating settings.
Let’s dive into the process of identifying your personal style. Reifenstuhl often guides her clients through the following exercise, encouraging them to use specific and descriptive words. So, grab a pen and begin to define the aesthetics that will guide your wedding decor.
List 3-5 words that describe the look and feel you’d like to create.
Example words: Antique, Bohemian, Bright, Bucolic, Charming, Classic, Delicate, Earthy, Eclectic, Edgy, Ethereal, Fairy Tale, Glamorous, Global, Industrial, Light, Modern, Moody, Natural, Opulent, Organic, Playful, Preppy, Quirky, Regal, Rustic, Sleek, Sophisticated, Timeless, Traditional, Urban, Vintage, Whimsical
List 3-5 words that describe the feeling and emotion you hope for your guests (and yourself!) to come away with.
Lively, Loving, Merry, Passion, Playful, Refreshed, Romance, Sentimental, Serene, Support, Tender, Touched, Trust, Warm
List 3-5 words that you do NOT want to describe the look or feel of your wedding. These can be negative adjectives, but also specific themes or motifs that you’re avoiding.
Example words: Awe, Blissful, Carefree, Celebratory, Charmed, Cheeky, Cheerful, Creative, Delight, Elevated, Enchanted, Energized, Euphoria, Festive, Fondness, Glee, Grateful, Happy, Hopeful, Inclusive, Inspired, Jovial, Joyful, Jubilant,
Example words: Alternative, Bohemian, Boring, Casual, Chaotic, Cheap, Cliche, Cluttered, Cold, Contrived, Crowded, Disorganized, Dull, Ethereal, Glitzy, Heavy, Hectic, Inauthentic, Minimalist, Monochrome, Nautical, Neon, OldFashioned, Outdated, Pretentious, Rustic, Stiff, Stuffy, Tacky, Quirky
These choice words will help you and/or your designer establish an overarching concept prior to making selections like booking the venue, purchasing wedding attire, selecting florals or any other unique details. Once this overall style is coined and communicated with your decorator, the refining process begins naturally. When determining all your beautiful wedding details, continuously refer back to these selected words and go with what fits into your defined vision best. ■
About the Expert Tailored. Sophisticated. Elegant. Amy Reifenstuhl is the owner and lead designer of Rustique Swan Event Design & Curated Decor. Reifenstuhl’s aesthetic is driven by her unwavering belief that simple and beautiful always triumphs over the excessively ornate and complicated. Reifenstuhl’s design, styling and decor have served as the backdrop to countless weddings and special events, and her ability to tailor and style life’s greatest events with the utmost precision and care makes her an industry leader.
Located in Naperville, Rustique Swan is a boutique wedding and event company ready to personalize and customize your next event.
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Stationer Questions to Ask Your
• Can I see physical samples of your previous work?
• Do you offer wholly customized designs or will I be selecting from an existing catalog of designs?
• What printing techniques do you offer? Digital printing, letterpress, foil, stamping, engraving, etc.
• Can you help with wording and etiquette or do you create the design only?
• How many revisions are included in the design process?
• Do you offer digital designs for our wedding website?
• Do you offer calligraphy services?
• Do you specialize in any design styles or specific watercolor drawings, monograms, etc.?
• Do you print in-house or do you send your work out to a third party?
• What is the typical timeline for your design and production process?
• How many months in advance do I need to book you?
• Do you offer assembly, envelope addressing and wax seal stamping?
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Yes, you’ve been knee-deep in wedding planning and dreaming since your engagement, but your guests’ first impression of your wedding world comes with the invitations. The stationery suite is the perfect opportunity to set the scene for your celebrations. Couples have the opportunity to communicate a lot more than just the date and time on their wedding invitations. A wellcrafted wedding invitation can convey more than just the date and time; it can communicate everything from event logistics to the overall vibe and dress code.
In a world where digital communication is the norm, formal invitations sent through the mail are a cherished rarity. As a result, it can be confusing to know how to address them, what wording to use and who should be included in the address.
While a skilled designer can ensure that the stationery aesthetics are just right, it’s up to you to determine what information to include and how to word it. To help you out, here is a quick guide on what information to include and how to convey it.
WHAT TO INCLUDE ON THE INVITATION
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HOST LINE
Start off the invitation with who is hosting the festivities. In the past, this opening line often referenced the bride’s parents, but nowadays we see weddings hosted by the couple themselves, both sets of parents, one set of parents, or an omission of this line altogether. It isn’t necessary to include the names of all the hosts, a simple “Together with their parents [...]” gets the message across.
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THE REQUEST TO ATTEND
Not to be overlooked, be sure to ask for the pleasure of your guests’ company. It might seem obvious, but including an explicit invitation to attend lets guests know they are excitedly welcome to the celebrations. There are many ways to phrase this request, depending on formality and your personality. Here are some examples:
• “[NAME & NAME] request the honor of your presence [...]”
• “[NAME & NAME] invite you to celebrate with them [...]”
• “[NAME & NAME] would love for you to join [...]”
• “[NAME & NAME] invite the pleasure of your company [...]”
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WHO IS GETTING MARRIED
If not already named in the host line, this is your time to loudly and clearly let your guests know who is getting married! Often, this part of the invitation gets some special typographic treatment and can be printed large and in a statement script. Formal invitations often include the full names of each partner — so get ready to show off your middle name!
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DATE AND TIME
Depending on the formality of your event, you can write out the date and time in full, or you can use numerals. Whatever works best for you! Formality aside, the most important thing is to be clear and avoid confusion. Some fonts have numerals that are hard to
read, so if you’re using figures be sure to select a clear font with no room for misinterpretation.
In the past, writing out the year was optional, but as weddings are being planned more and more in advance, it is wise to include the year no matter what.
LOCATION
It is important for guests to know exactly where they are expected to be! Include the name of your venue and its full address (street, city, state, and zip code). Some venues with straightforward locations do not require the address to be spelled out entirely, but no matter what you should include the city and state. This shows guests right off the bat where they should be making their travel itinerary (if needed).
RECEPTION DETAILS
Some invitation suites include a separate stationery piece with all the reception details, or it can be printed on the main invitation if space allows. If your reception is at the same venue as your ceremony, phrasing like, “reception to follow” will suffice. However, if there is a different location, be sure to clearly note its address and arrival information. When there is a separate venue for the reception, this is when an additional stationery piece is useful.
DRESS CODE
While not absolutely necessary, including a dress code guide for your guests is helpful as they plan to attend your big day. Not to distract from the main event, include dress code guidance in the bottom corner of your invitation, or use a separate details card to communicate this information.
Dress Code Examples:
• Black Tie
• Formal or Black-Tie Optional
• Cocktail
• Semi-Formal
• Festive
• Snappy Casual
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how they can accept with pleasure or decline with regrets. RSVP is short for “Répondez, s’il vous plaît,” which means “please respond” in French. It is common for the RSVP information to be included on a separate response card for guests to complete and mail back to you. However, many couples are saving on postage and track their RSVPs via a wedding website or other online platform. Whatever method you decide, be sure to clearly communicate how your guests are to respond. ■
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Ever since we were bright-eyed children at birthday parties, favors have held a special place in our hearts. Those delightful gift bags wrapped with vellum and curly ribbons were the ultimate take-home treasures after an unforgettable celebration. While the true gift lies in the experience of the party itself, these tangible mementos have always been a delight. Now, as you embark on planning your wedding — the grandest celebration yet — do not let the concept of party favors fade into the distant past of your seventh birthday party. Your wedding guests deserve a token of appreciation for joining you on this momentous day.
Wedding favors are small gifts given to guests at the reception, often found at their table settings or presented near the exit. These gifts serve two purposes: to thank guests for their presence and to be lasting reminders of the occasion.
By inviting guests to your wedding and reception, you extend an invitation for them to witness your vows to one another. Also, it’s not uncommon for ceremonies to include a “Community Vow of Support,” where guests pledge their love and lifelong support to the newlyweds. Offering a wedding favor to your guests is a great reminder of their commitment, allowing them to remember, support and cherish you whenever they see your gift around their house.
Wedding favors come in a variety of forms, ranging from modest trinkets to elaborate, personalized keepsakes. Get inspired by the examples showcased here and enjoy the process of determining your own special favors.
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Questions to Ask Your
Florist
• Can you recommend seasonal flowers based on the time of year/season, color palette and budget?
• Do you provide mockup designs for centerpieces, bouquets and more? If so, what is the charge?
• Do you have a minimum floral budget? If so, what is it?
• What recommendations can you give us to maximize our budget?
• What is your cost structure for delivery and setup?
• Do you book other weddings on the same date as mine?
• Do you know or regularly work with our venue or our other vendors?
• Do you provide rental items (vases, trellis, votives, aisle runners, etc.) or must they be procured elsewhere?
• How far in advance do you create the bouquets and arrangements? How are they stored until the wedding?
• How would you describe your design style?
• Are you willing to work with our cake designer if we want to add flowers to our wedding cake?
TO HAVE AND TO HOLD:
A BOUQUET STYLE GUIDE
Atalented florist will guide you to the perfect flower choices for your budget, season and style. But when it comes to bouquet size and structure selection, there are options to consider!
CASCADE
As the name suggests, a cascade bouquet resembles a dripping waterfall, typically with a focus on florals in the center and tapering into greenery and foliage around the edges. Elongated and dramatic, this type of bouquet creates a drape down the front of the arrangement, often covering the holder’s hands.
PAGEANT BOUQUET
Also known as the presentation bouquet or arm sheath, the pageant bouquet is designed to be carried in the crook of the arm, almost like an infant. This creates a vintage and effortless look without being too dramatic.
HAND-TIED BOUQUET
The hand-tied bouquet thrives on fluidity. Its boho feel includes a mix of loose stems and greenery working in harmony. As the name suggests, these bouquets are hand-tied together at the stems with ribbon, twine or another fabric and do not rely on floral wire or foam to hold anything in place.
POSY BOUQUET
A classic and timeless choice is the posy bouquet. Ever popular, this bouquet is small enough to be held with one hand and often incorporates more florals than filler foliage. The size also makes it great for wedding attendants, flower girls or petite soon-to-be-weds.
POMANDER
A pomander, also known as a kissing ball bouquet, is a unique and unconventional style of wedding floral. Instead of the traditional handheld bouquet, a pomander bouquet is designed as a sphere and attached to a ribbon or chain, allowing its carrier to wear it like a wrist corsage or handbag. These ball-shaped arrangements can be entirely made of flowers, but often they incorporate extra decorative elements like jewels, lace or family heirlooms. Pomander bouquets are particularly popular among those wanting a bit of sparkle and individuality. They are also a fantastic option for flower girls, as they are easy to hold.
HOOP
A hoop bouquet, also known as a floral wreath, is a modern and trendy alternative to traditional wedding bouquets. It involves arranging the flowers and greenery on a circular hoop or ring, creating a beautiful and unique floral display. The hoop used for a hoop bouquet is typically made of metal, such as aluminum or copper, but can also be made of wicker or organic materials. A hoop bouquet adds a contemporary and artistic touch to wedding floral arrangements, providing a distinctive alternative to traditional, handheld bouquets.
ROUND BOUQUET
Round bouquets are perfectly spherical orbs, oftentimes using a single type/ color of flower in abundance. If using more than one type of flower, this style of bouquet still typically remains in a similar monochromatic color palette or texture. These bouquets are tightly structured and honor the natural splendor of circular-shaped flowers.
NOSEGAY
The nosegay is a traditional and popular bouquet option, consisting of a tightly packed bunch of flowers all cut to a uniform length and tied off with an accent wrap. The result is a chic, small and not overwhelming bouquet for a bride to hold. Typically, this bouquet style focuses on one flower or color, also possibly including a few more blooms to complement. ■
Flowers are one of the most magical parts of a wedding. They breathe life and energy into a space while setting the tone for the celebrations. Your wedding flowers communicate the style and feel you want to flow through your day. So when it comes to what color palette and personality you want your florals to exude, where do you begin?
One of the things I love most about being in the wedding industry is how it is ever-changing. Every year brings a new look, style and floral trends. I am really excited about the colors that I see on the horizon for 2024. The couples I have been talking to aren’t afraid to change things up and it is so exciting to play with. Primarily, I see color trends for 2024 weddings falling into three categories: Bright and Bold, The Softest Pastels and Give Me Pink. Let’s get right to what each of those trends entails.
bright and
The bright and bold floral trend is all about deep, rich and saturated colors. I am seeing this trend embracing fuchsias and oranges, but it is also including a range of deep reds and luscious jewel tones. While some may think this vibrant color scheme is just for summertime jubilance, this coloration doesn’t discriminate between seasons. Just imagine — a palette of emerald green,
dark saturated blues and purples would be beautiful against the snowy backdrop of winter. No matter the season, this trend is about exuberance. This is certainly a style to have fun with, so don’t be afraid to bring it to your big day.
Some favorite bold and bright blooms include: Roses, tulips, carnations, gerbera daisies, peonies, ranunculus
When I say the softest pastels , I mean it. This color trend isn’t talking about the yellow of a butter stick, but rather the almost-white of whipped buttercream frosting fresh off the spatula. It’s pink, but so pale it is a barely-there pinch of blush on the cheeks. There is a soft, almost ethereal look to this trend. As with the bold and bright trend, this isn’t really about a specific color palette so much as it is
about the level of saturation. Here you have a lightness and airiness, colors as delicate as a whiff of fragrance in a summer’s breeze.
Florals perfect for the softest pastels palette include: Butterfly ranunculus, carnations, cremons, roses, garden roses, larkspur
give me
For the longest time, nearlyweds shied away from too much pink . Not anymore! I am seeing brides falling in love with all shades of pink. One bride of mine was very specific in wanting ballet slipper pink. Another one of my brides wanted all the pinks, ranging from delicate pale to bright fuchsia. The lovely thing about pink is that there is a shade to go with almost everything. If you want mostly white, add pops of blush. If you want a riot of colors, pull in the deep roses and fuchsia tones. Are you in love with tons of different foliage? Pink works with that. With wedding suits moving away from black tuxedos to menswear in gray or navy, pink is a perfect accent. So if pink is your favorite color, don’t be afraid to run with it!
Perfectly pink options: Just about any flower you love has a shade of pink you can work with, some favorites are peonies, carnations, bougainvillea, chrysanthemum and roses
As you contemplate the colors you want to use for your wedding flowers I have one bit of advice: Don’t pick a color just because it’s trendy. To really find the best color for you, go look in your closet. Why? People tend to wear clothes that flatter their complexion. On your wedding day, don’t you want to be surrounded by the colors that make you look and feel your best? ■
About the Author
Christine Boulton is the co-owner of Branching Out Chicago, an event floral design company. Specializing in weddings, corporate events and social occasions, Branching Out’s design team brings a casual, understated elegance to everything they touch. For over 30 years, Boulton has kept her finger on the pulse of wedding trends by running “Think Like a Bride,” a wedding blog and marketing guide. Possessed by a love of beauty and an eye for design, she turned her thoughts and life to flowers 10 years ago and never looked back.
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Questions to Ask Your Caterer
Do you offer menu tastings?
e the menus fixed or can we make a custom menu together?
Is there a food and beverage minimum? What is it?
How late will the bar be open? Is there a charge for a bar extension?
What are the standard alcohol choices, and what are the upgrade costs?
Are there any additional charges for bar staff, waitstaff or corkage fees?
Do you cater to special dietary requirements?
Do we need to provide our own plates, flatware, glasses, etc. or are those included?
On the Menu
FOOD AND DRINK TRENDS WE’RE LOVING
TASTY FAVORS
To keep your guests satisfied even after last call, craft special “doggy bag” snacks to grab on the way out. Your guests will be thankful for this parting gift!
DESSERT BAR
Cake is a classic, but dessert buffets are having their moment. Guests can enjoy a variety of flavors and styles. You even can incorporate sentimentality with Grandma’s famous chocolate pie recipe.
Casual
FOOD TRUCKS
For outdoor weddings or venues without catering kitchens, food trucks are the way to go. In addition to being convenient, they are photogenic and great conversation-starters!
FARE the BUBBLY! Pop
If a traditional steak and vegetable medley meal doesn’t feel right, don’t shy away from offering your favorite casual fare. French fries, pizza and sliders are crowd-pleasers no matter the occasion.
CUSTOM NAPKINS
In addition to fantastic food and drink, weddings can really stand out in the details. Customized napkins are great little accents to go alongside cocktail hour sips and carefully crafted dishes.
CUSTOM BOTTLES
CHAMPAGNE TOWERS
Champagne towers are a nod to the roaring ‘20s and an age of opulence and glamour. Besides being a great photo opportunity, pouring champagne together tests newlywed teamwork and makes for some good laughs!
Create an heirloom with a custom-designed label or hand-painted champagne bottle. Whether popped open on the wedding day or saved for an anniversary, this beautiful piece of art will last a lifetime.
Eat, Drink & Be Married
WRITTENBY Chicago Style Weddings Staff | PHOTOGRAPHY BY Bradley Moss
Grab your forks and knives it’s time to talk catering! With these seven tricks of the trade in mind, you and your caterer can create a meal to remember.
1. DECIDE HOW TO SERVE THE FOOD
Before deciding on the menu items, it’s important to consider how you want the food to be served. Food service sets the tone for the rest of the reception, so take time to mull over the following options before you pick.
Full-Service
Also called plated meals, full-service meals are for couples who want the meal to be the highlight of the event. For this method, individual courses are delivered to guests by servers, providing an elegant dining experience with professional service and minimal handling. While this is a glamorous option, do note that it takes more time out of the reception than a buffet alternative.
Buffet
A buffet is ideal for couples who can’t wait to get dancing and mingling. A buffetstyle dinner allows guests enough time to enjoy their food and hear a few toasts, but ultimately gets the party started sooner. Once everyone finishes eating dinner at their own pace, they can trickle onto the dance floor or go back for seconds.
Combination
A combination of plated and buffet serving styles is for couples who want the best of both worlds. Have the main course served directly to each guest, but skip waitstaff with self-serve desserts. This way, you get the elegant feel of a full-service dinner, but also the convenience of a buffet.
2. SELECT SIGNIFICANT DISHES
Collaborate with your caterer to design a menu that holds personal significance. Think about the best meals you and your soon-to-be spouse cook together. Or consider what foods evoke happy memories, like where you went to dinner before the proposal or your go-to take-out option. With these reflections in mind, compile a list of dishes that not only taste delicious but also have sentimental value. Communicate everything with your caterer and let them work their magic.
Note: Consider the preferences of your guests. You and your partner aren’t the only ones enjoying a meal at the reception! While you two may enjoy adventurous dishes, ensure there are options that cater to less adventurous palates, too.
3. SHARE THE MEANING
You’ve spent the time conjuring up meaningful dish ideas, so don’t forget
to share those stories with your guests! Work with your stationer to add personalized notes on the menu cards. For example, you could mention that ravioli was the first dinner cooked together or that lobster bisque reminds you of memorable summer trips to Maine. Sharing these special moments from your relationship will help your guests feel more connected to the wedding.
4. CELEBRATE YOUR CULTURE AND BACKGROUND
One of the most beautiful facets of marriage is its ability to unite people who come from different places and upbringings. Embrace the diversity of your backgrounds by incorporating culinary elements from different cultures into your menu. Whether you’re dishing out Italian Jordan almonds, Puerto Rican alcapurrias or Jewish Challah, serving foods that represent both your heritages can beautifully symbolize your union.
5. CONSIDER THE SEASON
Take into account the time of year
when selecting your menu. Just like flowers, certain foods are best enjoyed in specific seasons. Serving strawberries in January, for example, may be costly and compromise their quality. Aligning your menu with the season ensures that the ingredients are at their freshest and most flavorful. This choice will benefit your budget, caterer and guests, providing a cohesive and delicious dining experience.
6. ACCOMMODATE ALLERGIES AND FOOD RESTRICTIONS
To ensure all your guests feel safe and welcomed, communicate any dietary restrictions or allergies to your caterer. Consider including a card in your invitation suite where guests can indicate their entree choices and note any specific dietary needs. For guests with severe allergies, you can offer direct communication with the caterer to address concerns and safety. Most caterers are more than willing to accommodate dietary restrictions and provide safe and delicious meals. This attention to detail will make a
significant difference to guests with specific requirements, allowing them to fully enjoy the feast.
7. ENJOY YOUR MEAL
Most couples get so swept up in the excitement of their reception that they barely have time to eat. Remember to pause and enjoy the food you dedicated so much effort into selecting. Also, remember that food is fuel. How are you going to tear up the dance floor on an empty stomach? Take care of yourself and make the most of your dinner to avoid burning out prematurely.
Planning a menu for a large group of people can be a daunting task. After all, when was the last time that you had to plan a luxury meal for over 100 people? The best piece of advice is to trust your caterers. Feeding crowds is their expertise, so once you communicate your vision, it’s OK to let your caterer take the reins. Relinquishing control can feel scary, but when the result is a room full of cherished guests enjoying an amazing meal, it will be well worth it. ■
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Give my compliments TO THE CHEF
Chicago’s culinary scene is unmatched and attracts some of the world’s top chefs. By pairing a sincere passion for food with pure talent, these Chicago culinary artists are sure to elevate your wedding day meal. Not only will you be served a work of art, but your guests will also talk about the delectable meal for years to come.
Jason Qureshi
Executive Chef, River RoastRiver Roast’s Executive Chef Jason Qureshi has been part of Levy Restaurants’ portfolio since 2019, but has recently taken on the role of Executive Chef. A native of Los Angeles, he attended the culinary arts program at Los Angeles Harbor College. Immediately after, Chef Keven Lee hired Qureshi to join his elite Hollywood catering business, mentoring him for three years. After deciding to transition to restaurants, Qureshi landed at Bestia in the L.A. arts district. While there, he learned the arts and practices he now applies to his role at River Roast, and at his previous position at Tavern on the Park. Drawing from his childhood memories of dining out with his parents and siblings — and the notion that every good conversation starts over great food — Qureshi’s service philosophy is centered around creating lasting memories for each guest. Whether carving up River Roast’s signature roasts tableside, or developing menus for couples for their big day, Qureshi’s culinary team strives to make a lasting impression.
Chef Dan graduated from Le Cordon Bleu College of Culinary Arts in Chicago and has over 16 years of professional experience. He joined the culinary team at Mistwood in 2016 after working for Four Seasons Hotels and Resorts at the RitzCarlton Chicago, where he received a Michelin Bib Gourmand. He has also worked for Caesars Entertainment at Harrah’s Joliet and Walt Disney World Resort. “I like to think I have a child’s perspective on our industry, and I get excited about the small things that are done really well. That reminds the people around me to look at everything with a fresh set of eyes, allow creativity to happen and not be afraid to take chances while having fun.”
Dish: Riverence golden rainbow trout with saffron potato, roasted yellow pepper coulis and pickled yellow squash.
Dish: Pork belly bites topped with jalapeno jelly, pickled fresno and fresh cilantro.
Terence Zubieta
Executive Chef, NoMI at Park Hyatt
The Park Hyatt Chicago culinary team is led by Executive Chef Terence Zubieta. His menus present a modern American experience, rooted in French techniques. They thoughtfully highlight local ingredients, uniquely enhanced by subtle touches that honor his cultural and professional heritage. Chef Zubieta spends most of his days at NoMI involved in the details; from ordering and menu creation to helping prepare menu items, aiding on the line when needed, expediting during busy meal periods and constantly communicating with the front of the house. He enjoys getting to see and touch every aspect of the kitchen operation and customize the experience for wedding couples, ensuring their guests are truly getting the NoMI Chicago experience.
Dish: Scallop served with spring peas, roasted pearl onions, marcona almonds and garlic espuma.
Alejandro Arreola
Executive Chef, Mesler at SOPHY Hotel
Executive Chef Alejandro Arreola has been with Mesler Chicago restaurant, located within SOPHY Hotel Hyde Park, since it opened in 2018. Known as “Chef Eddie,” he was previously Chef de Cuisine at Four Seasons Hotel Chicago and The Ritz-Carlton, Chicago. Born in Mexico, his decades of culinary experience help him craft menus for guests, wedding parties and loyal neighborhood clientele in Hyde Park’s first boutique hotel. Chef Eddie has made Mesler Chicago a chef-driven destination with his inventive comfort food reimagined for Chicago’s sophisticated palates, creating a chic and stylish restaurant that serves as Hyde Park’s social hub.
Dish: Honey mustard glazed salmon served atop oyster mushrooms, squash puree, pomegranate seeds and pumpkin seeds, with lemon butter sauce and herb salad.
Ken Regan
Executive Chef, The Odyssey
Leading the innovative culinary team at The Odyssey is Executive Chef Kenneth Regan. Born and raised in the south suburbs of Chicago, Chef Ken brings his love and passion for seasonal and local ingredients to The Odyssey. Chef Regan believes in sourcing local ingredients, such as locally grown produce, cheese and meat. Midwest Craftsmanship plays a major role while creating his menus, as Chef Regan is constantly seeking out the freshest and best ingredients. “The goal is to cook as you would for your family,” he says.
Dish: Grilled veal chop with creamy goat cheese polenta, served with grilled spring vegetables and marsala pan sauce.
Tyler Nelson
Executive Chef, Elements at Water Street
Tyler Nelson became passionate about the industry after his first job at a midwestern, hometown barbecue restaurant. He then ventured into Chicago nightlife and worked in a high-end steak house, later accepting the position as the opening Sous Chef for Pata Negra Restaurant, where he was soon promoted to Chef de Cuisine. Chef Tyler’s colorful palette of experience in a variety of food cultures led to his interest in the art of fine dining and catering. Before making the leap into special events, he learned the art of butchery, how to process whole cattle, lamb and pork; and mastered the precision timing of meat cookery. Now Executive Chef at Naperville’s Elements at Water Street, he works with the finest of meats and freshest of ingredients to produce exceptional plates for a variety of different events.
Dish: Sesame-crusted salmon, served atop a gingered carrot puree and jasmine rice with sugar snap peas, basil emulsion and local micro blooms to top it off.
John K. Woods
Executive Chef, Onyx Events at Holiday Inn Countryside
Chef John Woods is in his element as the Food & Beverage Director/Executive Chef of Holiday Inn Countryside. With a career spent cooking at prestigious country clubs and hotels throughout Chicago, he has gained a wealth of invaluable experience — both through hands-on work and by learning from talented mentor chefs. Ever committed to sharing his expertise with others, he takes great pride in mentoring the cooks and sous chefs on his team, leading by example every day. Beyond his impressive culinary skills, Chef John is also a passionate advocate for reducing food waste in the hospitality industry, and his thought leadership on the topic has garnered attention on a global scale. At Holiday Inn Countryside, Chef John stays true to his hospitality roots, approaching his role with a meticulous attention to detail and elevating classic steakhouse fare with his signature, refined twist.
Dish: Herb-crusted rack of lamb with tarragon-infused lamb jus, accompanied by loaded baked potato and vegetables.
Jorge Ojeda
Executive Chef and General Manager, Vault 232
Jorge Ojeda developed his inventive freestyle culinary approach during a 20-year career in Chicago-area restaurants. Born in Mexico, he started as a teenage dishwasher. Ojeda then spent years assisting chefs while climbing the kitchen ranks at restaurants focused on Italian and American cuisine. At Franco’s Pescheria, he led a culinary team known for exquisite seafood dishes. In 2022, Ojeda partnered with Franco’s Pescheria’s owner, Frank Radogna, to open Vault 232 in a renovated, historic bank in downtown Lake Zurich. As Executive Chef, Ojeda preserves ocean-centric elements while creating an inclusive menu seasoned with hints of his Mexican culinary roots.
Dish: Tequila-marinated ribeye steak, garnished with sautéed cactus and Carolina reaper pepper flakes. On the side, a refreshing couscous and feta salad.
Antonio “Moe” Morales
Executive Chef, Kemper Lakes Golf Club
Chef Antonio “Moe” Morales has been Kemper Lakes Golf Club’s Executive Chef since February 2019. Chef Morales’ love for cooking ignited at a young age, as he eagerly assisted his grandmother in the family restaurant. After graduating from the International Culinary School at the Art Institute of Chicago, Chef Morales spent the first decade of his career refining his skills at restaurants throughout the Chicagoland area. Today, as the head chef at Kemper Lakes Golf Club, he continues his grandmother’s legacy by providing delicious and distinctive dishes to attendees. Chef Morales is also a passionate board member of The Club Chef Association of AmericaGreater Chicago Chapter.
Dish: Spicy Tuna Crudo
Devinder Utpaul
Executive Chef, The Matrix Club
Executive Chef Devinder Utpaul leads the charge on the culinary front for diverse events and catering at The Matrix Club. Internationally trained with a mastery in global cuisine, Chef Devinder has over 20 years of culinary and banquet experience — working for Hyatt Hotels & Resorts in the British West Indies and Eastern Caribbean Islands, Marriott Hotels in Washington D.C. and New York City and Maurya Sheraton Hotels in New Delhi, India. The acclaimed chef has developed menus for Qatar Airlines and was part of the opening team for the Emirates Airlines catering service. Chef Devinder has created and presented his unique cuisine for dignitaries from around the world throughout his career.
Dish: Classically prepared filet mignon accompanied by honey glazed tricolor carrots, herb-roasted potatoes and an exquisite bordelaise sauce
Osvaldo “Ozzy” Amelotti
Executive Chef, The Metropolitan
Raised in Córdoba, Argentina, Chef Osvaldo “Ozzy” Amelotti began honing his culinary skills at a young age. His youth was spent in the kitchen, preparing dinner for his single mother after she’d had a long day at work. By age eight, he began working a couple days a week at a neighborhood restaurant, Bettini, earning his pay in ice cream and mortadella sandwiches. For the past 25 years, Chef Ozzy has been cooking creative and delicious dishes in Chicago; delivering authentic Italian, Mediterranean, French, Spanish and American cuisines. Chef Ozzy found his perfect fit with The Metropolitan as the Executive Chef, displaying his creativity and passion by developing new menus, using innovative ingredients and utilizing his multi-ethnic cooking background to charm and entertain dining guests.
Dish: “Amazonas Ceviche” Brazilian heart of palm, aguachile pepino and toasted coconut atop a plantain chip
Questions to Ask Your
Bakery
• What are the details of the cake tasting process?
• What range of fillings and flavors do you offer?
• Do you offer cakes/desserts abiding by dietary restrictions such as gluten-free, vegan, nutfree, Kosher, etc.?
• What is your average cost per slice?
• What size should our cake be based on our guest list?
• Do you provide the cake stand?
• Is delivery included?
• What happens if something is damaged on the cake in transit?
• How long can the cake be out at room temperature?
• How can I maximize my budget? Are multiple, smaller cakes more cost-effective than one large cake?
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Determining the ideal size for your wedding cake can be a challenge. From guest count to budget to personal preferences, there’s a lot to consider! Let’s break it down.
GUEST COUNT
To begin, consider the number of guests who will be in attendance. It’s important to have a rough attendance estimate before placing your order, as this will determine the size of the
cake needed. A cake that’s too small leaves guests wanting, but a cake that is too large leads to waste and added expenses. A good rule of thumb is to have at least one slice of cake per guest, but it is always better to have a bit of extra cake in case unexpected guests make an appearance.
BUDGET
Budget considerations also play a significant role in selecting the
appropriate cake size. Wedding cake costs can add up, so it’s important to keep any financial constraints in mind from the start. Naturally, the larger the cake, the higher the price tag, so finding the right balance between size and cost is important.
CAKE ALTERNATIVES
Consider the types of alternative dessert options that will be available. If there will be other desserts available, such as cupcakes or a cookie bar, then a smaller cake will suffice. However, if your wedding cake is intended to be the primary dessert, a larger cake size will be necessary.
AESTHETIC PREFERENCES
Aesthetic preferences should also be taken into account when choosing your wedding cake size. Some people prefer larger, grander cakes with multiple tiers, while others prefer simpler, more modest designs. Aligning your cake with your wedding’s style and theme is important, as you want it to complement the overall atmosphere and reflect your unique tastes.
Alongside the cake’s footprint, its design, style and adornments should be taken into account. The cake’s aesthetics should harmonize with the overall theme and style of the wedding, and should also reflect the personality and preferences of the couple.
There are two camps when it comes to cake serving. Some couples opt to have their cake as a reception centerpiece and for a slicing ceremony, followed by a different cake to serve to their guests. On the other hand, it is just as common for couples to use the same cake for both aesthetic and serving purposes.
Ultimately, selecting your wedding cake size requires the thoughtful consideration of several factors. By taking into account guest count, budget, dessert alternatives and aesthetics, couples can make an informed decision that satisfies all attendees while remaining within budget. We recognize the importance of offering affordable options, especially in these challenging economic times. We want couples to celebrate their wedding and share the joy, one slice at a time.
Slice Guide
At Chicago Sugar Daddy, we prioritize educating couples about slicing guides and what is the reasonable size of cake they should have to ensure that every guest can enjoy a delectable slice. As a helpful reference, here’s a quick guide that shows the appropriate cake size based on guest count. ■
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About the Author
James Cox is the owner and Executive Chef of Chicago Sugar Daddy Patisserie. James and his partner, Rayann Ibasco, “The Daddies,” opened their bakery, Chicago Sugar Daddy, in Chicago’s Lakeview neighborhood in 2021. With a culinary arts education, Cox helps fill Sugar Daddy’s menu with everything from cakes, brownies, truffles, cupcakes and cookies to savory options like their breads. In addition to serving delicious treats, a priority for the bakery is to give back to the community. Chicago Sugar Daddy Patisserie is proud to say that they are a home away from home for many in the LGBTQIA+ community. They continuously support the community with various initiatives, including the most recent one in support of Free Mom Hugs.
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Slice, Slice Baby
Every morsel of cake is a moment to cherish, but with a chic napkin on hand, it’s OK to make a bit of a mess!
Nothing pairs better with cake than a glass of bubbly. Toast to forever, sip by sparkling sip.
A masterpiece is not complete without a proper frame, so think of your cake stand as just that.
4. Initial Dessert Dish, Versace
Guests can eat their cake slice off of whatever the caterer provides, but the happy couple deserve dessert plates with personality.
The act of cutting the wedding cake together represents support and teamwork. It’s the first task you’ll do “as one,” so you might as well do it in style! ■
Questions to Ask Your
Photographer
• How would you describe your style of photography?
• Will you be shooting solo or will you have a second shooter/ assistant with you?
• What happens if the photographer is ill on the day of the wedding?
• What is included in your pricing tiers — albums, hours of coverage, pre-wedding events, engagement session, etc.?
• Do you offer a photo booth?
• Will we have the rights to the images? How and where can we use the images?
• Do you offer retouching services? How involved is your editing process?
• How long after the wedding will the photos be ready?
• Can we see a few full galleries from some of your recent weddings?
Photography Essentials SHOT LIST
WRITTEN BY Alexandra DillardPHOTOGRAPHY BY
Alana Lindenfeld PhotographyFor most couples, photography is a crucial element of their wedding day. While they immerse themselves in the joy of the celebrations, it is the photographer’s responsibility to capture those precious moments. Whether it’s the pre-wedding primping or the energetic dance floor at the reception, every detail needs to be documented precisely as you’ve dreamed.
While a skilled wedding photographer usually has their own shot list of tried-and-true favorites, it’s a good idea to ensure that both you and your photographer are on the same page. Here are some helpful tips to make certain that you and your photographer are in sync.
1. GO OVER SPECIAL DETAILS
Did you create a specialty menu you want to be captured on film? Does the bouquet have family heirlooms incorporated? Your wedding day is full of personalized touches that make it uniquely yours. Let your photographer know which important details of your day you’d like captured; they won’t know unless you tell them!
2. CURATE YOUR “MUST-HAVES”
If you have specific photos in mind that your heart is set on, don’t hesitate to inform your photographer. Compile a list of a few “must-have” shots, so that the photographer understands
how to prioritize their time. Whether it’s a dramatic sunset dip-and-kiss or individual portraits with each sibling, ensure that your photographer is aware.
3. ENLIST HELP
Designate a trusted attendant, family
member or friend to be in charge of herding people for photographs. As the marrier, you don’t need this extra task of wrangling! This designated person can efficiently wrangle everyone necessary for each group shot, saving valuable time and ensuring no one is left out of the picture!
4. TRUST YOUR PHOTOGRAPHER
Remember, your photographer knows what they are doing! They have a keen eye for lighting, backgrounds and posing. Sometimes, they might even ask you to do something that feels odd or unnatural, but trust them. They want you to look good — it’s their job!
SAMPLE SHOT LIST
Getting Ready
• Wedding attire hanging in your getting ready venue (hanging on
a wardrobe, draped over a settee, backlit in front of a window, etc.)
• Wedding attire details (showing texture, buttons, beading, brand label, etc.)
• Stationery flat lay
• Flat lay including accessories like jewelry, shoes, heirlooms, stationery suite, perfume/cologne, florals, etc.
• Bouquet and boutonniere shots
• Detail of wedding rings together
• Candids of hairstyling and makeup application
• Final hair and makeup
• Parent or wedding party member helping the to-be-wed into their attire (zipping up a dress, placing a veil, tying a bow tie, attaching cufflinks, etc.)
• Putting on shoes
• Reflection in a full-length mirror once fully dressed and accessorized
• Solo portrait
• First look reveal with the wedding party and/or parents and family
• Toasting with the wedding party
• Gift giving and opening with the wedding party and special helpers
First Look
• Solo focus on each partner as they anticipate seeing the other
• One partner approaches the other from behind, tapping on the shoulder
• Turning around to see each other for the first time
• Close-up reaction shots of couple’s faces
• Embracing
• Reading their wedding letters to each other
• Holding hands
• Posed couple portraits
Couple Portraits
*These can be taken before the festivities or during cocktail hour. It’s up to you and how you want to use your time.
• Individual portraits
• Smiling, looking at the camera
• Smiling, looking at each other
• Lovingly looking into partner’s eyes
• Forehead to forehead
• Hugging or kissing
• Kissing on the cheek
• Kissing on the forehead
• Dancing together
• Walking towards the camera
• Walking away from the camera
• Partner twirls the other around Ceremony
• Details of the empty ceremony site (reserved seating, altar decor, florals, candles, etc.)
• Guests arriving at their seats
• Ushers guiding guests to their seats
• Close-ups of each partner waiting for each other
• Immediate family member procession
• Wedding attendants coming down the aisle
• Flower girl, ring bearer or honored pet coming down the aisle
• Wedding attendants lined up and waiting by the altar
• Partners individually coming down the aisle (with or without parents)
• Couple meeting face to face at the altar for the first time
• Officiant conducting the ceremony
• The audience from the couple’s vantage point (shot from behind the altar)
• Parents emotionally watching the ceremony
• Each partner ’s face as they exchange vows
• Close-up of rings being placed on each partner’s finger
• The first kiss
• Couple happily recessing back down the aisle as a married couple
• Couple exiting the ceremony venue
• Couple greeting and embracing guests outside the venue
• Signing the marriage certificate
Family & Wedding Party Photos
• The whole wedding party together
• The whole wedding party walking towards the camera, laughing
• Everyone joyously looking on as the couple kisses
• Just one partner and their attendants, then the other partner and their attendants
• Each partner with each individual member of their wedding party
• Each partner with their immediate family
• Each partner with their parents, then add in the other partner
• Each partner with their siblings, then add in the other partner
• Each partner with their grandparents, then add in the other partner
• Couple with both sets of parents
• Couple with ring bearer and/or flower girl
Reception
• Exterior of the reception site
• Empty, decorated reception site
• Table settings and floral arrangements
• Centerpieces
• Name cards, menu and signs
• Guest book and gift-receiving table
• Each appetizer
• Each course of the meal
• Custom drinks or bar menu
• Wedding party entering the reception with introduction
• The couple entering with fanfare
• The first dance as a married couple
• Dances with each partner’s respective parents
• Guests raising glasses for a cheers
• Guests conversing over dinner
• Couple at head table
• Parents’ table
• Vantage point of the entire reception
space (from above/second floor if available)
• Each speechmaker or toast giver
• Couple reacting to each speech
• Cake or dessert table
• Couple cutting the cake
• Feeding the cake to each other
• The band/DJ performing
• Guests partying on the dance floor
• Parents dancing together
• Grandparents dancing together
• Couple leaving the reception
• Couple getting into the getaway car and departing ■
Is a First Look Right for You?
LOVE, ANTICIPATION AND BEAUTIFUL MEMORIES — WEDDING FIRST LOOKS HAVE CAPTURED THE HEARTS OF COUPLES AROUND THE WORLD.
WRITTEN BY Alexandra Dillard | PHOTOGRAPHY BY Bradley MossDue to their historical and cultural significance, weddings themselves are time-honored traditions. Throughout history, weddings have been celebrated as a ceremonial union between two individuals, often accompanied by rituals, customs and traditions that have been passed down through generations. One of these enduring formalities is for the couple not to see one another before the ceremony. In fact, it used to be unheard of — and even bad luck — for couples to see each other before their wedding ceremony.
There is a romanticism inherent in this suspense. But within the last 20 years, this beloved custom has been upstaged by a modern addition to the wedding ritual arsenal: the first look. Once considered a wedding taboo, the first look allows couples to share an intimate moment together before saying “I do,” as well as an opportunity for some sweet photos before the rush of the day. With a perfect blend of efficiency and romance, you might consider skipping old-school conventions to embrace this new tradition.
EMOTIONALLY SOUND
Seeing your fiancé(e) for the very first time on your wedding day will no doubt stir up some powerful emotions. While some couples cherish the idea of that sentimental first glance happening at the end of the aisle,
others are more comfortable with a private moment before the ceremony.
Having a private first look with just you, your future spouse and your photographer allows you to express your genuine emotions without the pressure or stage fright that may come from being in front of all your loved ones. It’s an intimate setting where you can shed tears, laugh and truly be yourselves. A skilled photographer will capture these magical and tender moments authentically, creating lasting memories for you to revisit.
A MOMENT FOR YOU
After the ceremony, the whirlwind of the reception festivities will sweep you away (in the best way possible!). In the midst of all the celebrating, you might not be able to find a moment to candidly speak with your new spouse until much later. That’s where the first look comes in — it provides a precious opportunity to truly connect with your beloved before getting caught up in the revelries.
The pre-ceremony first look is a moment where couples can break away from prying eyes and be vulnerable with each other. So often weddings can feel like performances. However, during the first look, you can set aside the performance and simply be yourselves. It’s a chance to be real, raw and deeply connected with each other. It’s also a
time to regroup and reaffirm your love before the ceremony. During this time, some couples choose to read letters to each other, exchange special gifts, pray together or simply just express their excitement and expectations for the day ahead.
CAPTURE YOUR GOOD SIDE
A first look offers the opportunity to capture the reactions of both you and your partner, which can be more challenging when you’re separated by an aisle during the ceremony. Furthermore, a first look allows photographers to take advantage of ideal lighting and picturesque backdrops that the wedding venue may offer. While nighttime portraits are romantic in their own right, natural morning light is oh-so-dreamy.
TIMING
The ultimate time-efficiency, a first look allows you to complete most of your posed photos and couple portraits before the ceremony. Couples who wait until after the ceremony often find themselves missing out on parts of their cocktail hour as they’re busy taking all the must-have photos. By opting for a first look, you free up time to ensure that you capture all the pictures you want, leaving you more relaxed and fully able to enjoy the reception.
It’s no wonder why first looks have become increasingly popular — considering the benefits they offer from both a logistical and romantic standpoint. Logistically, this practice allows for a smoother wedding timeline, ensuring there is ample time to capture beautiful photos without feeling rushed. However, the romantic aspects of a first look are equally compelling. The intimate nature of this moment can help settle nerves and create the right emotional headspace for the rest of the day.
Whether you prefer the thrill of waiting until the ceremony to see your betrothed or you opt for the efficient first look, there’s no wrong decision. With a skilled photographer, you can rest assured that you’ll have wonderful photos capturing the essence of your special day. ■
ENJOY THE RIDE
It’s true, wedding transportation often gets overlooked in favor of the more flamboyant elements of the day. But you can’t discount the luxury of feeling prepared and staying on-schedule. From arriving at the ceremony in style to making a grand exit with your beloved, wedding transportation ensures everyone is in the right place at the right time. To navigate the world of wedding transportation, take these tips and considerations into account. Before you know it, you’ll be riding off into the sunset with your spouse!
REFLECT YOUR WEDDING STYLE
Your choice of wedding transportation should harmonize with the overall theme and style of your wedding. If you’re having a traditional and elegant affair, consider renting a classic car, like a Rolls-Royce or a vintage Bentley. For a rustic wedding, an old-school trolley adds a touch of whimsy. And contemporary weddings pair well with sleek limousines or luxury sedans. When considering practical aspects of your wedding (like transportation), you don’t have to sacrifice the overall aesthetic!
PLAN FOR GUEST TRANSPORTATION
When it comes to wedding transportation, you can’t forget about your guests’ needs! If your ceremony and reception are taking place at different locations or in a remote area, arranging transportation for your guests is considerate. In a city like Chicago, your venue(s) won’t always have ample parking, which means guests will need to arrive in a manner other than driving themselves. Start the party with some fun and ensure everyone arrives together in style by hiring a transportation service or shuttle. A bus or a trolley
WRITTEN BY Alexandra Dillard DANIELLE HEINSON PHOTOGRAPHY MACK JULION DANIELLEHEINSON PHOTOGRAPHYcan be a fun way to move your guests between ceremony and reception sites. Great photo ops and fun camaraderie! If you need more flexibility, consider rideshare services like Uber and Lyft, which allow you to reserve pre-paid ride codes for your event. Just designate event start and end times, define a pick-up/drop-off radius and distribute the unique vouchers/ codes for your guests to redeem. Depending on your guest count, this option can compete with the cost of chartering a bus — and all the unused vouchers get refunded to your account after the code expires! This option is great for weddings that want their guests to have flexibility of arrival and departure.
stops you may need to make. Allow some buffer time between each leg of the journey to ensure your wedding timeline stays on track.
PERSONALIZATION AND PHOTO OPPORTUNITIES
TIMING AND LOGISTICS
To avoid any logistical hiccups, plan your transportation schedule meticulously. Discuss the timeline with your transportation provider and factor in traffic conditions, photo session lengths and any additional
Thinking of a classic wedding exit conjures images of a vintage car with tin cans attached to the bumper and a “just married” banner draped over the rear window. Whether you opt for this tried-and-true exit, or something more playful like a motorcycle ride, tandem bike or water taxi, remember that your wedding transportation can be a great photo-op. Playful exits can infuse personality into your getaway while capturing the joy of driving away into marital bliss. As you take the wheel of your wedding planning journey, don’t put off transportation coordination. Since your transportation will guide the flow of your event, book your vehicles early on
Chicago’s Premier Wedding Transportation Company
and keep them looped in on the day-of timeline construction. From your wedding style to the practical needs and logistics, a well-planned transportation plan can create an enchanting experience that’s more than just getting from point A to point B. ■
Entertainment Questions to Ask Your
• How much time will you need for setup and soundcheck?
• Do you have demos online where we can view your performances?
• How would you describe your signature sound?
• How do you feel about a request list? Can you include any song that is important to us?
• How extensive is your music library or song list?
• Will you help select songs for special moments like entrance, parent-child dances, etc.?
• How many breaks will you need? What music will be provided during the breaks?
• What kind of space or stage do you require for your services?
• What is your experience being the master of ceremonies (MC)?
• What is your strategy for keeping the dance floor lively?
• What do you typically wear when you perform?
• What are your power and amplifier requirements?
The Ultimate Wedding Soundtrack
WRITTEN BY Alexandra DillardWhat is the soundtrack to your love story? Choosing songs for your wedding can either be super exciting or completely overwhelming. It is, however, an important step in establishing the vibe and sound that will make your wedding unique.
THE RULES
When planning the music for your wedding, it’s important to remember that there are no hard and fast rules. But, if you’re looking for some helpful guidance, here are a few things to consider:
• Create a Spotify or Apple Music playlist so that whenever you hear a song you both like, you can quickly add it to the playlist to remember for later.
• Make a list of “must-play” songs to ensure that your favorite tunes are included on your special day.
• Create your list of “do-not-play” songs, which might include tracks that hold bad memories or that you simply don’t like.
• Tailor your choices to your own favorite genres and use music as a storytelling device. Personalize your wedding soundtrack by including artists you’ve seen in concert together, “your song” and even covers of classics done by contemporary artists.
• Consider the special moments of the day — such as entrances, cake cutting, first dances and the bouquet toss — and select songs that fit the occasion in terms of tempo and theme.
• Think ahead and communicate any specific requests to your sound operator. Things can happen quicker than you anticipate, so if there’s a particular part of a song you want played during a specific moment, be sure to let them know so they can edit or cue up the song accordingly.
• Finally, don’t be afraid to include your favorite songs, even if they don’t fit into the dancing portion of the evening. These songs can be played during dinner or cocktail hour to ensure that they don’t go unheard.
When it comes to curating your wedding playlist, the most important thing to consider is if the songs are important to you. As long as you feel connected to the music, it is the right choice. There are many classic wedding tracks to choose from, but don’t be afraid to mix things up by including tracks from different genres and eras. Here are a few suggestions to add to your “must-play” list:
PROCESSIONAL
1. “Young and Beautiful” by Ashot Dumanyan
2. “Wildest Dreams” by Duomo
3. “Can’t Help Falling in Love” by Kinna Grannis
4. “Canon in D” by The Chillest
5. “Yellow” by Brooklyn Duo
6. “A Thousand Years” by The Piano Guys
7. “Hippípolla” by Sigur Rós
8. “Somewhere Only We Know” by Lily Allen
9. “Holocene” by Bon Iver
10. “To Build A Home” by The Cinematic Orchestra
RECESSIONAL
1. “First Day of My Life” by Brooklyn Duo
2. “This Will Be (An Everlasting Love)” by Natalie Cole
3. “Signed, Sealed, Delivered (I’m Yours)” by Stevie Wonder
4. “I’m In Love with You” by The 1975
5. “Paper Rings” by Taylor Swift
6. “Here Comes Your Man” by Vitamin String Quartet
7. “Sweet Disposition” by The Temper Trap
8. “Best Day of My Life” by American Authors
9. “You’re My Best Friend” by Queen
10. “I’m A Believer” by The Monkees
GRAND ENTRANCES INTO THE RECEPTION
1. “Marry You” by Bruno Mars
2. “Levels” by Avicii
3. “Chelsea Dagger ” by The Fratellis
4. “Music for a Sushi Restaurant” by Harry Styles
5. “Shut Up and Dance” by Walk The Moon
6. “Archie, Marry Me” by Alvvays
7. “Love On Top” by Beyoncé
8. “Blinding Lights” by The Weeknd
9. “Beggin’” by Måneskin
10. “Industry Baby (feat. Jack Harlow)” by Lil Nas X
PARENT DANCES
1. “Gracie” by Ben Folds
2. “Like My Father” by Jax
3. “Sweetest Devotion” by Adele
4. “Landslide” by Fleetwood Mac
5. “You’ve Got A Friend” by Carole King
6. “Forever Young” by Rod Stewart
7. “I Loved Her First” by Heartland
8. “Mom” by Meghan Trainor
9. “Humble and Kind” by Tim McGraw
10. “Shiny” by Sara Barielles
FIRST DANCE
1. “Thinking Out Loud” by Ed Sheeran
2. “Love” by Lana Del Rey
3. “Lover (First Dance Remix)” by Taylor Swift
4. “Baby I’m Yours” by Arctic Monkeys
5. “Sea of Love” by Cat Power
6. “God Only Knows” by She & Him
7. “The Wonder of You” by Villagers
8. “Heartbeats” by Jose González
9. “Beyond” by Leon Bridges
10. “The Luckiest” by Ben Folds
PARTY STARTERS & GUARANTEED BOPS
1. “Mr. Brightside” by The Killers
2. “Levitating” by Dua Lipa
3. “About Damn Time” by Lizzo
4. “I Love It (feat. Charli XCX)” by Icona Pop
5. “Dancing Queen” by ABBA
6. “Maneater” by Nelly Furtado
7. “Gimme More” by Britney Spears
8. “Valerie” by Mark Ronson, Amy Winehouse
9. “Come On Eileen” by Dexy’s Midnight Runners
10. “Man! I Feel Like A Woman” by Shania Twain
SLOW SONGS THAT WON’T CLEAR THE DANCE FLOOR
1. “Fade Into You” by Mazzy Star
2. “These Arms of Mine” by Otis Redding
3. “Until I Found You” by Stephan Sanchez
4. “Moon River” by Frank Ocean
5. “Perfect” by Ed Sheeran
6. “Dream” by Priscilla Ahn
7. “You Are The Best Thing” by Ray LaMontagne
8. “The Way I Am” by Ingrid Michaelson
9. “The Joker and the Queen” by Ed Sheeran, Taylor Swift
10. “Wild Horses” by The Sundays
FOR AFTER GRANDMA AND GRANDPA LEAVE
1. “Super Freaky Girl” by Nicki Minaj
2. “I Like It” by Cardi B
3. “2 Die 4” by Tove Lo
4. “Pony” by Genuwine
5. “Purple Hat” by Sofi Tukker
6. “Whole Lotta Money” by BIA, Nicki Minaj
7. “Paper Planes” by M.I.A.
8. “Rumors (feat. Cardi B)” by Lizzo
9. “7 Rings” by Ariana Grande
10. “Doses & Mimosas” by Cherub
LAST SONG
1. “XO” by Beyoncé
2. “Closing Time” by Semisonic
3. “Piano Man” by Billy Joel
4. “(I’ve Had) The Time of My Life” by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes
5. “Good Riddance (Time of Your Life)” by Green Day
6. “Bohemian Rhapsody” by Queen
7. “Take Me Home Tonight” by Eddie Money
8. “One More Time” by Daft Punk
9. “You Make My Dreams (Come True)” by Hall & Oates
10. “Just Can’t Get Enough” by Depeche Mode
From processional songs to after party hot hits, scan here to discover Spotify playlists for every wedding occasion. ■
REAL WEDDINGS
Editorials and styled visions are fun, but let’s see how it’s really done! These Chicago-area real weddings will inspire and excite, providing ideas you can incorporate into your own love story.
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KRYSTAL & ADDISON The Langham
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CARLY & PATRICK Fairlie
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MAGGIE & DAVID Chicago Botanic Gardens
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JOEY & JON Theater on the Lake
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NANCY & NEIL The Old Post Office Chicago
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ANTHONY & GARY Wandering Tree Estate
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CHARMAINE & JAMES Danada House
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KIMBERLY & KHLOE Penthouse Hyde Park
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GABRIELLE & KYLE Greenhouse Loft
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BRIGITTE & RAY Venue 5126
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THEODORA & DERRIUS
Penthouse Hyde Park
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IRUM & AMAN Renaissance Schaumburg
& DANIEL Alpine Banquets
KRYSTAL & ADDISON
As early 2020 stay-at-home orders proliferated, Krystal and Addison’s love story blossomed. Despite having only met one month before the COVID lockdown, the couple decided to quarantine together, believing that this “bubble” would be brief. Trapped indoors with only early 2000s dance routines to pass the time, the two danced their way into love.
When it came time to plan their wedding, The Langham had the honor of hosting the celebrations. Addison is a restaurateur, so quality service and exceptional food were important parts of their wedding. Aside from the stunning ambiance, the impeccable service and menu at The Langham sealed the deal.
In keeping with the elegance of The Langham, the couple chose a timeless and graceful theme for their wedding decor. Cascading flowers and classic black tuxedos set the tone for a luxurious affair.
Krystal and Addison share a love for karaoke, even proclaiming it as a part of their respective Filipino and Korean cultures. Instead of a traditional thankyou speech, they opted for a karaokestyle speech with customized lyrics to some of their favorite songs. During their first dance, the couple performed a quarantine-learned *NSYNC dance routine to an enthusiastic crowd. This fun-loving moment was followed by a sentimental one, as Addison surprised his bride by singing “Lay Me Down” by Sam Smith to her, complete with backing vocals by all his groomsmen.
Despite the challenges of quarantine, Krystal and Addison found joy in each other’s company. Their wedding celebrations were a testament to their shared first-generation Asian-American experiences and the delight of finding a soulmate during extraordinary times.
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Karlie Dru Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Oakhouse Visuals
VENUE: The Langham
PLANNER: 6ixStory Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Event Floral
ENGAGEMENT RING: Gruno’s Diamonds
WEDDING BANDS: The Diamond Center
BRIDE’S GOWN: Naama & Anat House of Couture from Haute Bridal Official
ALTERATIONS: Maríanela Terhark
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Hall Madden
BRIDESMAIDS GOWNS: David’s Bridal
GROOMSMEN’S FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux
GROOM & GROOMSMEN’S ACCESSORIES: Tag Heuer
HAIR & MAKEUP: Bridal Beauty Team
CAKE: Flourish Cake Design
RENTALS: Tablescapes Event Rentals DJ, AV, DRAPING & LIGHTING: Luxe Productions
TRANSPORTATION: Elite Chicago
CHARMAINE & JAMES
Charmaine and James had a clear vision for their wedding, and with some creative flair, they brought it to life. The couple wanted to honor their respective Filipino and Thai cultures while creating a cohesive and memorable experience. With the help of their friends and family, they embarked on a journey to create a wedding that was truly “theirs.”
For their overarching theme, Charmaine and James were inspired by the Art Deco movement, mythology and a blend of their cultures. As they dove into this concept, they discovered intriguing overlaps between Filipino and Thai legends. This revelation led them to incorporate naga (Thailand’s legendary water-dwelling serpents) and Bakunawa (a creature responsible for lunar eclipses in Filipino lore) motifs into their decor.
Drawing from more Thai legends, the couple envisioned their ceremony’s aisle as a telling of the Mekong River’s creation story. The aisle was lined with satin fabric that mimicked flowing water and was decorated with floating greenery. As Charmaine walked down the aisle towards James, it was as if they were walking along a river and inviting abundance in their marriage.
Handcrafted and custom-made details adorned the wedding — including the fashions. Charmaine co-designed a modern Filipiniana dress with Caroline Mangosing of VINTA Gallery, resulting in an elegant gown that highlighted their admiration for Filipino artists.
Ultimately, Charmaine and James created a wedding that celebrated their love, but also the fateful decisions of their parents to migrate from their motherlands, which ultimately led to their own meeting. This magical celebration was something that will be cherished for the rest of their years.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Zach Caddy
VIDEOGRAPHER: Lawrence Connor
VENUE: Danada House
BOUQUET: Debi’s Designs
FLORAL CROWN: Town & Country Gardens
CUSTOM DÉCOR: Mark Kachanthong (groom’s brother)
BRIDE’S GOWN: VINTA Gallery
BRIDE’S JEWELRY: Cambio & Co., Sinta & Co.
Filipino Weddings, Amami Filipino Jewelry
GROOM’S SUEA RAJ PATTERN: Custom from Thailand
BARONGS: Barong Warehouse
HAIR & MAKEUP: Diem Angie Beauty Team
CATERING: Marie’s Catering
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Nick2Bomb
CARLY & PATRICK
For Carly and Patrick, it was the digital realm of Tinder where their journey began in 2017. Both passionate about music, food, animals and the great outdoors, they quickly found common ground and their connection grew. After a memorable first date at Queen Mary Tavern — where they would later return to take wedding day photos at the exact table where they first met — their relationship blossomed.
Starting the wedding festivities off, Carly and Patrick rented the Publishing House Bed & Breakfast for their families to stay for the weekend. The colorful and eclectic decor of the bed and breakfast resembled the couple’s own home, making for an apt atmosphere.
For their October wedding, Carly and Patrick planned an emotional, autumnal, colorful dance party with rich, earthy tones like plum, forest green, rust and goldenrod to guide the decor. They wanted eclectic decorations, which included porcupine quills, taxidermy butterflies, disco balls and some Halloween-inspired spookiness. Choosing the perfect venue was crucial for the couple. Having previously worked in the events industry, Carly had experienced a lot of Chicago venues. However, the couple wanted their wedding to be held at a place that was new to both of them. Ultimately, Fairlie had a lot to offer, with its stunning view of the city, industrial look, grand staircase, adaptable space and unique built-in bar.
As music has played a significant role in their lives, key song choices were of utmost importance. Alternative musical choices defined the day, like walking down the aisle to “Don’t Worry Baby” by The Beach Boys or their first dance to The Foo Fighters’ “Everlong.”
Reflective of the couple’s novel tastes and fun-loving personalities, Carly and Patrick’s wedding dazzled with ease.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Hanna Walkowaik
VIDEOGRAPHER: Old North Film Company
VENUE: Fairlie
ACCOMMODATIONS/GETTING-READY VENUE: The Publishing House B&B
PLANNER: Wedicity Wedding Day Detailing
FLORAL: Life In Bloom
BRIDE’S GOWN: KYHA Studios
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Indochino
WEDDING PARTY FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux
HAIR & MAKEUP: Fearless and Bella
STATIONERY: Salix
CATERING & LINENS: Food For Thought
CAKE & DESSERTS: ECBG Cake Studio
ENTERTAINMENT: OVATION from Style Matters
KIMBERLY & KHLOE
Khloe and Kimberly first met in 2014 while both working at the YMCA, and soon their summer crush blossomed into a lifelong partnership built on unconditional love. To celebrate their timeless love, the couple hosted a stunning autumnal wedding at Penthouse Hyde Park. They envisioned a classic, romantic and sleek vibe, reflected in the spherical florals, black-and-white color palette and glimmering pillar candles throughout the venue.
The couple requested an all-black dress code for their guests. This decision allowed the couple to truly stand out among their loved ones on the dance floor. Khloe wore an embellished and textured mermaid gown, while Kimberly opted for a sleek and minimal crepe gown, both purchased from Brides by Young. For the reception, Khloe added a custom letterman jacket atop her gown and Kimberly changed into a white suit.
Khloe and Kimberly also incorporated their love for the West Side of Chicago. They named their tables after local landmarks and slang, including “Out West 290,” “What Up Joe?” and “Extra Lemon Pepper.” The seating chart itself read “Sit Yo Ass Down,” adding a touch of humor and authenticity.
As youth educators — Khloe being an elementary school teacher and Kimberly a high school basketball coach — the couple took to the court for some playful photo-ops. Despite the chilly October weather, their loved ones eagerly joined them on the outdoor basketball court.
Khloe and Kimberly’s wedding seamlessly blended the timelessness of a monochromatic theme with their jubilant personalities. Altogether, the event was a perfect representation of the couple’s caring attitudes, commanding presence and the energy that initially drew them to each other.
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Emily Melissa Photo
VENUE: Penthouse Hyde Park
PLANNER: CRW Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR: The Sunniest Designs
BRIDES’ GOWNS: Brides by Young
ALTERATIONS: Sew Bridal
HAIR & MAKEUP: Nicki Rouge Bridal Team
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Kid Clay
MAGGIE & DAVID
Maggie and David’s wedding day was a perfect blend of sentimentality and classic elegance, evident in the huge smiles and happy tears that defined their special day. With a clear vision in mind, the couple chose to wed in an intimate ceremony at the Rose Terrace of Chicago Botanic Gardens, surrounded by nature’s splendor. The fragrant scents of the rose garden filled the air as they exchanged their authentic vows, creating a truly enchanting atmosphere.
After the emotional ceremony, guests stepped into the romantic reception venue. Chandeliers dripping in greenery cast a romantic glow over the tented space. Flickering candles added warmth and intimacy, while chic details and modern, clean lines beautifully juxtaposed the organic and lush feel of the surrounding gardens. The crisp white linens, dance floor, Chiavari chairs and stunning florals joined accents of dusty blue and greenery to create a sea of elegance.
Maggie was a vision of grace, from her Jimmy Choo heels to her clean beauty hair and makeup by Tamara Holden and Joey Claeyssen, respectively. Clad in a Monique Lhuillier gown, she radiated elegance and joy as she walked down the aisle. David was equally dapper in his ESQ Clothing tuxedo, complemented by a Tom Ford bow tie, Trafalgar suspenders and Arny Oleinick Designs cufflinks. Talk about a handsome pair!
Whimsical, modern and timelessly romantic, Maggie and David’s wedding day was drenched in love and laughter. The couple stole precious moments together, cherishing their alone-time while also being surrounded by the love and support of family and friends. Their special day was a true reflection of their relationship, filled with heartfelt emotions and unforgettable memories.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Kristin La Voie Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Old North Film Company
VENUE: Chicago Botanic Gardens
OFFICIANT: Reverend Darian Bouie
PLANNER: Dana Konya with Clementine
Custom Events
FLORAL: Life In Bloom
BRIDE’S GOWN: Monique Lhuillier via Ultimate Bride
BRIDE’S JEWELRY: Aryn Oleinick Designs
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: ESQ Clothing
HAIR: Tamara Holden
MAKEUP: Joey Claeyssen
GROOMING: Lincoln Park Hair Salon
CATERING: Chicago Botanic Gardens
STATIONERY: Magnificent Milestones
CAKE: Sweet Mandy B’s
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
DANCE FLOOR: Elegant Event Lighting
PHOTO BOOTH: Magic Moment Photo Booth
GUESTBOOK: After the Tone
ENTERTAINMENT: Time Chicago
GABRIELLE & KYLE
From the moment Gabrielle and Kyle’s wedding guests received their invitations, they were whisked away to a world of enchantment. Inspired by the bride’s favorite painting at The Art Institute, “The Banquet” by Rene Magritte, this Greenhouse Loft wedding captured the breathtaking beauty of sunrise and sunset.
Guided by Priya Parker’s book, “The Art of Gathering: How We Meet and Why It Matters,” Gabrielle and Kyle sought to create a unique and purposeful experience for their guests. They settled on a concept of “Midsummer Night’s Dream themed Met Gala on a rooftop at sunset” to transport their guests to a temporary world of magic.
Gabrielle, who previously worked in theater production, utilized her skills in set design and stage management to bring their vision to life. Hanging installations of painted baby’s breath flowers evoked cloud-like formations and added a touch of whimsy. Just like in theater, the couple’s guiding principle was to prioritize the guest experience, ensuring that every moment was truly unforgettable.
Because of the post-COVID rush of weddings in 2022, the couple opted for a Friday wedding rather than a traditional Saturday date. To extend the celebrations throughout the weekend, Gabrielle and Kyle invited all their guests to an architecture river tour the day after the wedding. This also served as a wonderful introduction to the city of Chicago for many of their guests who were visiting the city for the first time.
With its carefully curated theme and unwavering focus on guest experience, Gabrielle and Kyle’s wedding was truly a magical affair. Accompanied by the melodies of a live jazz trio and the soft twinkle of fairy lights, the evening was a transportive experience to remember.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Alma Photography
VENUE: Greenhouse Loft
PORTRAITS VENUE: Garfield Park Conservatory
PLANNER: Designed and Detailed Event Management
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Flowerchild
BRIDE’S GOWN: Custom by Jane Pastor of Detroit Skating Co
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Suitsupply
CATERING & CAKE: Ovy Signature Catering
ENTERTAINMENT: Bluewater Kings Band
JOEY & JON
They say that the olfactory sense holds an intimate connection with sentimentality and emotions. For Jon and Joey, this was certainly the case. The couple met when Jon was subbing on Joey’s co-ed softball team. Drawn to Joey, Jon asked her what type of perfume she was wearing — and thus, Chance Chanel’s scent is what first brought them together.
Joey and Jon’s wedding day was inspired by the city of Chicago, “The Great Gatsby” and the Art Deco style of their wedding venue. The ceremony was held at one of the grandest cathedrals in Chicago: St. Mary of the Angels in Wicker Park. Its Renaissance Revival-style architecture, lofty ceilings and long aisle made it a bride’s dream.
Joey stunned in a gorgeous custom-made illusion top and silk organza overskirt for the Catholic church ceremony. For the reception, the modest look transformed into a modern iteration, showcasing a strapless, trumpet gown paired with tulle elbow gloves. The groom sported an outfit change for the reception as well, going from his traditional black tuxedo into a timeless white dinner tux jacket.
Gold touches adorned the reception, evoking the city’s twinkling skyline. In the 1920s-built Theater on the Lake, guests could enjoy views of both the skyline and Lake Michigan.
After two years and three date changes, this happy couple finally got to have the celebration they deserved, and every part of it was perfect.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Natalie Probst Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Bella Tiamo Films
CEREMONY VENUE: St. Mary of The Angels
RECEPTION VENUE: Theater on the Lake
PLANNER: Nouvelle Events
FLORAL: JK Fiori
DÉCOR, BARS & CHANDELIERS: Northern Decor
BRIDE’S GOWN: Monique Lhuillier
BRIDE’S SHOES: Manolo Blahnik
BRIDE’S JEWELRY: BHLDN
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux
HAIR: Livia Caporale
MAKEUP: Joanna B Artistry
CATERING: Entertaining Company
STATIONERY: Too Chic Little Shab
PRODUCTION AND LIGHTING: Luxe Pro Events
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
TABLETOP RENTALS: Tablescapes Event Rentals
ENTERTAINMENT: Hardy Boi Entertainment
GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS: The Thompson Hotel
BRIGITTE & RAY
He’s a senior graphic designer and she’s a marketer for a national clothing company — two creatives who found each other and married in a countryside dreamscape. Bursting forth from a time capsule, Brigitte and Ray’s wedding was a 1950s-meets-Jane Austen fairytale. Opera gloves, cherry red lips and Cuban cigars set the stage for a dazzling day.
Venue 5126 in Oswego provided the perfect setting for the wedding. The venue’s secluded location was a romantic escape from Chicago. A love story as timeless and thoughtful as this one deserved to be the biggest event in town. Their ceremony was held in the venue’s barn, followed by dinner underneath a connected tent space. At dusk, the barn’s large side doors opened to an exquisite sunset view, with acres of field adding to the rustic tranquility of the festivities.
Detail-oriented and stylish from head-to-toe, the bride enjoyed dwelling on the little things that brought the day to life. And that spirit of exactitude paid off, as the bride says, “The second my father took my arm to walk me down the aisle, everything from then on was a fever dream. It was such a perfect night.” The lavender haze of their romance mixed with careful thoughtfulness was a recipe for success.
From antique book pages as the table runners to Brigitte’s grandparents’ vintage mailbox as their cardholder, the details were sentimental and charming.
“In today’s world, it’s not easy to drop everything and attend an event,” says the bride. “I wanted these details to create an experience for everyone, a ‘thank you’ for being here with us to celebrate the start of our story.” With chandelier lights blurring and the dance floor twirling, Brigitte and Ray created an evening to remember — for all.
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Alexis Rae Photography
VENUE: Venue 5126
PLANNER: Kristen Gerwig
FLORAL: Schaefer Greenhouses Inc.
BRIDE’S GOWN: LBR Bridal
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Suitsupply
HAIR: Riley Eve
MAKEUP: Mariia Bedratenko
GROOMING: Double Trouble Barber Shop
STATIONERY: Minted
CATERING & CAKE: Venue 5126
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Suavesmooth
STRING QUARTET: Innocenti Strings
NANCY & NEIL
As the owner of Aisle Ai Weddings, Nancy leveraged her industry experience to plan her wedding to Neil as one that would be remembered for a lifetime. The result was a wedding that seamlessly combined modern elements with thoughtful nods to the couple’s Taiwanese-American and Japanese-Chinese-American heritages.
The ceremony took place in the lobby of the historic Old Post Office, which was turned into a lush meadow for the occasion. After exchanging heartfelt vows, the cocktail hour unfolded on the venue’s expansive 3.5-acre rooftop. Breathtaking cityscape views and delightful design details, such as custom wafer flowers adorning the drinks and a live electric violinist, completed the scene.
The evening continued with memorable moments on the dance floor, as Nancy and Neil shared their first dance, a choreographed number set to a song commissioned by R&B artist Phinisey. The wedding party also surprised everyone with a lively dance routine that incorporated music from various cultural backgrounds, representing the diverse backgrounds of the party.
A unique twist on the traditional bouquet toss, Nancy entertained guests with a bouquet ribbon cutting ceremony. With a handful of ribbons tied to her bouquet, all of the single guests surrounded Nancy as she closed her eyes and cut each ribbon one by one. The last remaining uncut ribbon holder “caught” the bouquet, making for a fun and inclusive enhancement to the festivities.
Nancy and Neil’s wedding was a perfect blend of modern and traditional elements, infused with their cultural backgrounds and wedding industry expertise. It’s not surprising that the bride plans weddings professionally!
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Erin Hoyt Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Michael Yoeung
VENUE: The Old Post Office Chicago
GETTING READY VENUE: The Allegro Royal Sonesta Hotel
PLANNER: Aisle Ai Weddings
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Ashland Addison
BRIDE’S GOWN: Essense of Australia, David’s Bridal
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Nordstrom, The Black Tux
HAIR & MAKEUP: Chylartistry
CATERING: Food for Thought
CAKE: Toni Patisserie
PHOTO BOOTH: Big Hugs Photo Booth
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ JayFunk with Momentz Productions
CEREMONY MUSIC: Adia Sound String Trio
TRANSPORTATION: M&M Limousine
GUEST ACCOMMODATIONS: Kimpton Gray Hotel
THEODORA & DERRIUS
Theodora and Derrius’ love story began serendipitously, as they met by chance at the Virgin Hotels Chicago’s rooftop bar, each celebrating different milestones with their respective friend groups. There was an instant magnetism between them, and they couldn’t help but catch each other’s eyes throughout the evening. Little did they know that this chance encounter would lead them to exchange vows on the sky level terrace of The Penthouse Hyde Park, completing a full circle rooftop love story.
The couple had a clear vision for their wedding day — an elegant, romantic and unforgettable event with a fusion of past and future elements. Drawing inspiration from The Penthouse Hyde Park’s authentic 1920s aesthetic, they embraced the venue’s ornate chandeliers, bold art deco flooring and gilded accents. Their chosen color palette of sage green, mint blue and ivory perfectly complemented the venue’s splendor, allowing their guests’ colorful attire to infuse vibrancy into the space.
The reception was a joyous and festive affair, with a full dance floor. As a first-generation Nigerian-American, Theodora incorporated Nigerian cultural touchstones into the celebration, including the tradition of “money spraying.” This ancient tradition from the Yoruba people involves loved ones showering the couple with money as a symbol of happiness, good fortune and affection.
Theodora and Derrius’ wedding was a curated and unforgettable experience that left their guests marveling for months afterward. It was a beautiful celebration of their love, their individual cultures and their shared passions, creating a cherished memory that they will treasure for a lifetime. From the couple’s heartfelt vows to the choreographed dance numbers, the whole day was a beautiful celebration.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Jermaine Horton
VENUE: Penthouse Hyde Park
GETTING READY VENUE: SOPHY Hotel
PLANNER: Kia Marie Events
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Siblana Events
BRIDE’S GOWN: Rita Vinieris via Bella
BRIDE’S JEWELRY: Maria Elena Bridal, Catbird
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Suitsupply
HAIR & MAKEUP: Crystal Eyez Makeup Lounge
STATIONERY: Kelly Schmidt Design
CATERING & CAKE: Edible Passport
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Flo
ANTHONY & GARY
Anthony and Gary’s journey to their wedding day at Wandering Tree Estate is a beautiful one. The couple first crossed paths in 2017 at O’Hare International Airport, where Anthony worked at a gallery store. Gary, who was browsing the shop before catching a flight, struck up a conversation with Anthony, and the two hit it off. They exchanged phone numbers and arranged their first date, never imagining that it would lead them down the path to marriage.
As their relationship blossomed, Anthony and Gary quickly realized that they were each other’s best friend and couldn’t imagine life without one another. In 2019, Anthony proposed to Gary on a cruise ship, and they began their threeyear engagement.
On their wedding day, Anthony and Gary decided to forgo tradition and got ready together, donning complementary navy and burgundy suits. It was their special day to share, and they wanted to start it off by being together.
When it came to the wedding itself, the lush grounds of Wandering Tree Estate provided the perfect backdrop. With its fragrant gardens and sparkling water, the picturesque location set the scene for an intimate celebration with their closest friends and family.
To maintain the intimate atmosphere, the couple shared their first dance alone in the venue’s waterfront gazebo. It was an emotional moment as they swayed to the music, surrounded by the beauty of their surroundings.
Anthony and Gary’s wedding day was a testament to their deep love and commitment to each other. From their initial meeting at the airport to their garden wedding, their journey is one filled with love, joy and the serenity that comes with marrying your best friend.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Joshua Harrison
VENUE: Wandering Tree Estate
OFFICIANT: Dr. Elizabeth-Anne Stewart
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Mayfield Flowers
GROOMS’ FORMALWEAR: The Tailor Foundation
GARY’S RING: CD Peacock
ANTHONY S RING: Helzberg Diamonds
CATERING: Elegante Cuisine
CAKE: The Baking Institute
LIVE MUSIC: Eddy Rivera
HARPIST: Matt Brauer
DJ: Chicago Cutting Crew DJ Team
IRUM & AMAN
Irum and Aman’s love story began in the midst of a global pandemic, when virtual connections became a lifeline for social interaction. Despite living on opposite coasts at the time, the couple hit it off immediately, bonding over FaceTime and virtual Netflix dates. This experience made them realize how crucial it is to hold onto special relationships, especially during instability.
So when it came to their wedding, the couple celebrated accordingly. Following Pakistani tradition, the couple hosted three days of festivities culminating in the Valima (or Walima), a formal reception to publicly announce their marriage.
The couple’s goal for the Valima was to transport guests to a world of wonder and awe, forgetting that they were still in Illinois. With cascading candlelight and a color scheme of pink and purple, the decor was both extravagant and intimate. Regal touches make it look as if a palace garden had been plucked up and placed inside Renaissance Schaumburg.
Unique entertainment was a highlight of the evening, with human statues carrying bouquets of flowers and aerial artists serving champagne from the “sky.” Rhythm Dhol Bass (RDB) brought lively music that kept the dance floor lively, even inviting the couple to the stage to joyfully douse their guests with a smoke cannon. With each turn, guests were constantly delighted throughout the night.
While all three days of events were breathtaking, it’s the memories made that tied everything together. Irum and Aman’s love persevered despite physical distance and a global pandemic, and their wedding was a testament to that strength.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Maha Studios
VIDEOGRAPHER: The Lotus Films Inc.
VENUE: Renaissance Schaumburg
PLANNER: Hana April Inc.
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Hana April Inc.
BRIDE’S ATTIRE: Suffuse
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Giorgio Armani
HAIR & MAKEUP: Nadia Tikki
MEHNDI ARTIST: Henna by Muzna Suriya
CATERING: Renaissance Schaumburg
DRAPERY: JRP Live
HUMAN STATUES & STILT WALKER: Greg Mimer
AERIALIST: NewMoon Chicago
ENTERTAINMENT: Sundeep Patel, RDB - Rhythm Dhol Bass
JOANNA & DANIEL
Joanna and Daniel’s love story began when they met at a wedding in 2018, where Daniel repeatedly told Joanna he was going to take her out on a date. And from that first date on, they embarked on a journey that led them to their own wedding day. Coming from similar Polish upbringings, they embraced their similarities and nourished a strong connection that was meant to be.
When it came to choosing a venue, Alpine Banquets was the obvious choice. The venue had been run by the bride’s parents for 26 years, and she had virtually grown up there. With this special place in her heart, she couldn’t imagine getting married anywhere else.
The overall theme of their wedding day was based on red roses, a symbol of love that held a special significance for the couple. The night of their engagement, Daniel surprised Joanna with an overflowing countertop of red roses and a bottle of champagne. Inspired by this gesture, the couple infused red rose thematics throughout their wedding decor. From centerpieces to the printed dance floor, the rich red color and petal motifs were infused wherever possible. Even their wedding cake had a roseflavored filling, adding in a delicious bit of romance.
Beyond rose thematics, the couple’s shared Polish heritage was apparent throughout the wedding. Such elements included a traditional pre-ceremony family blessing at Joanna’s family home, Catholic ceremony and traditional Polish music and costume.
Joanna, Daniel and their guests danced the night away — surrounded by their culture and beauty of red roses. It was a romantic and unforgettable evening, and the perfect way to mark the start of their lifelong journey together.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Carnival Studio Photography
CEREMONY VENUE: SS. Cyril & Methodius Parish
RECEPTION VENUE: Alpine Banquets
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Yanni Design Studio, All Unique Events Inc.
BRIDE’S GOWN: Ultimate Bride
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Suitsupply
HAIR: Maven Hairsculpting by Maggie Balon
MAKEUP: Alex Caputi
STATIONERY: Carlson Craft
RENTALS: M&M Event Planners
MARQUEE & XL PAPER FLOWERS: Moments
Savored Events
CATERING & CAKE: Alpine Banquets
ENTERTAINMENT: KBE Entertainment, King’s Band
CEREMONIES & RECEPTIONS
THIS MUST BE the place &Prelude to the Party Celebration Locations
EVERYTHING BUT THE AISLE
Celebration Locations
CHICAGO
The Allegro Royal Sonesta Hotel sonesta.com/chicago-royals-weddings
Bazaar Meat & Bar Mar by José Andrés grgmc.com
Biagio Events & Catering biagioevents.com
Chicago Firehouse Restaurant chicagofirehouse.com
Chicago History Museum chicagohistory.org/weddings
Chicago Park District chicagoparkdistrict.com/permits-rentals/special-event-venues
City Cruises - Chicago citycruises.com/chicago
Colvin House colvinevents.com
fairliechicago.com
The Guesthouse Hotel theguesthousehotel.com
Gray Hotel + Boleo grayhotelchicago.com
N. Clark St., Chicago
773.256.0159
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Park Hyatt Chicago parkhyattchicago.com
Pazzo’s Chicago pazzoschicago.com
The Peninsula Chicago peninsula.com/en/chicago/5-star-luxury-hotel-downtown-chicago
Pinstripes - Chicago pinstripes.com
The Ritz-Carlton, Chicago ritzcarlton.com/chicago
River Roast riverroastchicago.com
The Rookery Building therookerybuilding.com
The Royal Sonesta Chicago Downtown sonesta.com/chicago-royals-weddings
The Royal Sonesta Chicago River North sonesta.com/chicago-royals-weddings
SOPHY
sophyhotel.com
The Study at University of Chicago thestudyatuniversityofchicago.com/Weddings
Swissôtel Chicago swissotel.com/chicago
Trump International Hotel & Tower Chicago trumphotels.com/chicago
The Quadrangle Club at the University of Chicago quadclub.uchicago.edu
E. Illinois St., Chicago
S. LaSalle St., Chicago
E. 60th St., Chicago
E. Upper Wacker Dr., Chicago
1155 E. 57th St., Chicago
Volo Restaurant Wine Bar volorestaurant.com 773.348.4600
WhirlyBall Chicago whirlyball.com/chicago
BT wildmanbt.com
The Abbey Resort & Avani Spa theabbeyresort.com
The Barn at Allen Acres thebarnatallenacres.com
847.687.3348
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Blue Harbor Resort blueharborresort.com
Carriage House at the Club at Lac La Belle carriagehouseatlaclabelle.com
Delamar Traverse City delamar.com/traverse-city
Eagle Ridge Resort & Spa eagleridge.com
Explore Charleston charlestonweddingguide.com
Hawk’s View Golf Club hawksviewgolfclub.com
The King and Prince Beach & Golf Resort kingandprince.com
Lake Geneva Cruise Line cruiselakegeneva.com
Blue Harbor Dr., Sheboygan, WI
Mansion staymaxwell.com
The Riviera Ballroom lakegenevariviera.com
WhirlyBall Brookfield whirlyball.com/brookfield
NORTH & NORTHWEST
Belvedere Events & Banquets belvederebanquets.com
boulderridge.com
brixonfox.com
Chandler’s Banquets chandlerschophouse.com/weddings 847.885.9009
N. Roselle Rd., Schaumburg
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Chez Hotel chezhotel.com
Concorde Banquets concordebanquets.com
Cotillion Banquets thecotillionbanquets.com
Crystal Lake Country Club clcountryclub.com
847.438.0025
Embassy Suites Schaumburg by Hilton/Onyx Events onyxeventspaces.com 847.397.6867
The Highland Loft Event Venue thehighlandloft.com
Kemper Lakes Golf Club kemperlakesgolf.com
Loft 21 loft21events.com
Metropolis Ballroom metropolisballroom.com
Moretti’s Hoffman Estates morettisevents.com
The Pavilion at Lords Park cityofelgin.org/478/Lords-Park-Pavilion
Pearl Banquets pearlbanquets.com
Pinstripes - South Barrington pinstripes.com
847.868.LOFT (5638) 1501 N. Milwaukee Ave., Lincolnshire
847.885.0400 2475 W. Higgins Rd., Hoffman Estates
847.531.7047
Sky on Nine skyonnine.com 847.292.3729 6600 Mannheim Rd., Rosemont
Vault 232 vault232.com
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Victoria In The Park victoriainthepark.com
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847.437.0255 1700 S. Elmhurst Rd., Mount Prospect
Wandering Tree Estate wanderingtree.com 847.381.1907 North Barrington
Watermark Events watermarkuniqueevents.com
WhirlyBall Vernon Hills whirlyball.com/vernon-hills
NORTH SHORE
The Armour House at Lake Forest Academy armourhousecatering.sodexomyway.com/weddings
The Crystal Ballroom crystalevanston.com
DoubleTree by Hilton Chicago - North Shore Conference Center bit.ly/doubletree-northshore
Mission Hills Country Club missionhillsclub.com
Pinstripes - Northbrook pinstripes.com
Ravinia Festival ravinia.org
Renaissance Chicago North Shore bit.ly/renaissance-northshore
White Eagle Events & Convention Center whiteeagleevents.com
847.303.4444
847.615.3219 1500 W. Kennedy Rd., Lake Forest
847.570.4400
418 Sheridan Rd., Highland
847.647.0660
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Hilton Chicago/Oak Lawn oaklawn.hilton.com 708.229.8850 9333 S. Cicero Ave., Oak Lawn
Holiday Inn Countryside/Onyx Events onyxeventspaces.com
Jacob Henry Mansion Estate jacobhenrymansion.com
La Voûte Bistro + Bar lavoutebistro.com
Mistwood Golf Club mistwoodgc.com
The Odyssey theodysseyvenue.com
Ridge Rd., Homewood
Whitetail Ridge Golf Club whitetailridgegc.com
WEST
Acquaviva Winery acquavivawinery.com
47W614 Rt. 38, Maple Park
Chicago Marriott Naperville chicagomarriottnaperville.com
Copper Fox Events & Banquets copper-fox.com
The Drake Oak Brook thedrakeoakbrookhotel.com
Drury Lane Theatre & Events drurylaneevents.com
DuPage Convention & Visitors Bureau discoverdupage.com
Eden Events edenweddingevents.com
Elements at Water Street elementsnaperville.com
The Empress Banquets theempressbanquets.com
1801 N. Naper Blvd., Naperville
2301 York Rd., Oak Brook
100 Drury Ln., Oakbrook Terrace
123 Water St., Naperville
630.279.5900 200 E. Lake St., Addison
Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse Oak Brook grgmc.com 312.587.0508 2105 Spring Rd., Oak Brook
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Hyatt Lodge Oak Brook hyattlodge.com
Family Farm kuipersweddingvenue.com
The Matrix Club matrixvenue.com
The Moment on Main themomentonmain.com
Naper Settlement napersettlement.org/weddings
Paramount’s Meyer Ballroom paramountaurora.com/ballroom
Pinstripes - Oak Brook pinstripes.com
Venuti’s Ristorante and Banquets venutis.com
WhirlyBall Naperville whirlyball.com/naperville
Mansion wildermansion.org
CHAPEL & CEREMONY SITES
Prelude to the Party
CHICAGO
The Allegro Royal Sonesta Hotel
171 W. Randolph St., Chicago
312.236.0123
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
The Allegro Royal Sonesta, a historic building in Chicago’s Downtown Loop neighborhood is where glamour meets modern sophistication. From the soaring 15-foot ceilings to its warm walnut accents and art deco chandeliers, it’s the ideal backdrop for your grand wedding celebrations.
sonesta.com/chicago-royals-weddings
Cindy’s Rooftop
12 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 30
Atop the Chicago Athletic Association hotel, Cindy’s offers stunning views of Millennium Park and Lake Michigan with an all-season outdoor terrace and a culinary team led by Chopped Grand Champion Chef Kaleena Bliss. While it provides an elegant setting for gatherings of all sizes, it’s ideal for small weddings, rehearsals, brunches and showers.
cindysrooftop.com
Bazaar Meat & Bar Mar by José Andrés 120
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 270
This location features two unique event spaces in the 120 N. Wacker building. Café by the River is a warm and welcoming space with an airy indoor-outdoor feel adjacent to a beautiful 30'x3' terrace with river views. The Forum at 110 N. Wacker is a stunning and modern private dining event space featuring 20' floor to ceiling windows with a bird’s eye view of the city and river.
thebazaar.com/private-events
City Cruises - Chicago
600 E. Grand Ave., Chicago
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 600
Whether cruising the Chicago River’s cityscape or Lake Michigan’s skyline, you’ll love Chicago’s most unique wedding venue. Trust our complimentary event planners with City Cruises’ exceptional service, delicious dining, and customizable décor and entertainment. Bridal showers, rehearsal dinners, engagement parties, or post-wedding brunches—the event of your dreams is waiting on the water! citycruises.com/chicago
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 140
The Chicago Firehouse Restaurant offers four private dining room options accommodating parties of 10 – 200 guests. The Veranda adjoins one of the private dining rooms and affords a spectacular view of the South Loop skyline. A legend in its own time, we invite you to experience culinary excellence and impeccable service at this applauded landmark neighborhood restaurant.
chicagofirehouse.com
Colvin House
5940 N. Sheridan Rd., Chicago
773.654.2999
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
A historic Edgewater mansion with sweeping lake views, Colvin House is your home for intimate gatherings before and after your wedding, and the perfect venue for the big day! With a unique open floor plan, lush gardens, spacious courtyard, and cozy coach house, we create garden-to-table events designed especially for you.
colvinevents.com
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The Congress Plaza Hotel
520 S. Michigan Ave., Chicago
ext. 5071
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
This downtown Chicago hotel offers a convenient location across from Grant Park and close to Lake Michigan. Since hosting its first wedding in 1893, the Congress Plaza Hotel & Convention Center has upheld an enduring tradition as one of Chicago’s premier settings for unforgettable celebrations.
congressplazahotel.com
1024 N. Rush St., Chicago
312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 180
Sharing six distinct private dining spaces with the iconic Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse, Hugo’s Rush Street location provides an elegant setting and outstanding seafood experience. From the second floor of Hugo’s Frog Bar, the private dining rooms offer a beautiful view of bustling downtown, as can only be offered in Chicago’s Gold Coast district.
grgmc.com
Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 180
Always happening and consistently offering abundant portions of Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian Beef, pristine fish and homemade desserts. Entertainment radiates from the piano bar where locals, celebs and out-of-towners mix and mingle. Choose from six of the iconic steakhouse’s private dining rooms.
grgmc.com Gibsons Italia 233 N. Canal St., Chicago
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 60
Located in the West Loop, Gibsons Italia is a three-level, modern Italian steakhouse that features outdoor dining and a retractable roof showcasing stunning views of the Chicago River. The menu includes seafood, vegetables, risotto, and gold-extruded pasta. At the heart of the menu is a world-class tour of beef featuring Gibsons Prime Angus, Gibsons Grassfed Australian, and Japanese Kobe.
grgmc.com
Kimpton Gray Hotel + Boleo
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 250
Boleo, the year-round rooftop lounge at The Kimpton Gray Hotel, may only be 15 floors up, but you’ll feel like you’ve been transported all the way to Argentina. Contact us to plan your timeless celebration under the stars. The drinks flow, the music is always playing, and the food is irresistible!
LUXBAR
18 E. Bellevue Pl., Chicago
312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 80
LUXBAR is the Gold Coast’s quintessential neighborhood bar, serving hand-crafted cocktails that complement the kitchen’s all-American feel-good food. The soaring second floor private dining spaces offer ideal settings for events large and small with sweeping views of State Street & Bellevue Place.
grgmc.com
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The Metropolitan
233 S. Wacker Dr., 66th & 67th Fl., Chicago
312.876.3200
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 240
Located on the 66th & 67th floors of the iconic Willis Tower, experience stunning panoramic views of the Chicago skyline while enjoying world-class cuisine and service. Impress your guests with a unique Chicago experience. The Private Event Team at The Metropolitan is ready to assist in turning your vision into a night to remember!
themetropolitanchicago.com
Orso’s Restaurant
1401 N. Wells St., Chicago
312.787.6604
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
Old World charm in the heart of Old Town. We offer a variety of options to host rehearsal dinners, engagement events and weddings. Our beautiful outdoor garden can accommodate up to 100 people for a traditional sit-down dinner or up to 125 for a cocktail reception. With keen attention to detail, Orso’s seasoned Event Planners will help make your vision a unique memorable experience for all.
orsosrestaurant.com
Morgan
Arts Complex
3622 S. Morgan St., Chicago
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
Looking for an enchanting setting to say “I do”? Look no further than Morgan Arts Complex, Chicago’s premier wedding venue. Our venue offers the perfect backdrop for your special day. We have on-site parking, a beautiful outdoor patio and areas for both your reception & ceremony. We can accommodate 300 seated & larger groups for cocktail receptions. Book a tour with us today!!
morganartscomplex.com
Park Hyatt Chicago
800 N. Michigan Ave., Chicago
312.335.1234
Maximum # of Seated Guests:100
Delight in timeless elegance at Park Hyatt Chicago. Our NoMI Kitchen, Garden and Private Dining Room provide an intimate backdrop for your rehearsal dinner, seven stories above a romantic Magnificent Mile.
parkhyattchicago.com
Nobu Hotel Chicago
155 N. Peoria St., Chicago
312.779.8888
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 125
Our dedicated event professionals are at your service to provide guidance with pre- and post-wedding day events. Each gathering we host becomes our utmost priority, ensuring that all your guests are treated to gracious personal service at every touch point. Say “I do” in style with unique Nobu food experiences, modern design and stunning spaces.
chicago.nobuhotels.com
Pazzo’s Chicago
311 S. Wacker Dr., Chicago
312.913.1600
Maximum # of Seated Guests:500
Pazzo’s is located in the incomparable atrium at 311 S. Wacker — one of the most beautiful venues in Chicago. We provide fullservice event planning for ceremonies, receptions, galas and gatherings of all kinds — from a few guests in a private room, up to 400 in our atrium. Plus, one of Chicago’s top-rated restaurants makes for very happy guests and an event to remember!
pazzoschicago.com
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The Peninsula Chicago
108 E. Superior St., Chicago
312.573.6701
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 150
The sophisticated and intimate environment of Millennium Park creates an ideal venue for mid-sized events, such as welcome receptions and wedding rehearsal dinners. The pairing of classic and modern touches, from a stunning crystal chandelier to beautiful wood grain inlays and a marble feature wall, ensure an exquisite ambiance as you welcome guests for your special day.
peninsula.com/chicago
Quartino
Ristorante & Wine Bar
626 N. State St., Chicago
312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 110
River North’s most authentic urban Italian food and wine experience, Quartino features a menu of regional specialties including salumi, handmade pasta, Neapolitan pizza and house made cheeses.
grgmc.com
Pinstripes - Chicago
435 E. Illinois St., Chicago
312.527.3140
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 170
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. We offer a variety of options to host your special day whether in our river-level patio, full customizable ballrooms or our grand outdoor patio with picturesque views of Chicago. Paired with our premium bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a truly unique wedding celebration.
pinstripes.com
The Ritz-Carlton, Chicago
160 E. Pearson St., Chicago
312.266.1000
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 850
Set against the iconic Chicago skyline, The Ritz-Carlton, Chicago offers a romantic venue for weddings and receptions. Showcasing the city’s largest luxury ballroom featuring a glittering chandelier adorned with 400,000 crystals and floor-to-ceiling windows. Our passionate team of wedding advisors and culinary experts will shape dreams into unforgettable memories.
ritzcarlton.com/chicago
The Quadrangle Club
1155 E. 57th St., Chicago
773.702.2550
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 150
Located in Hyde Park, the Quadrangle Club was built as a private membership club by famed Chicago architect Howard Van Doren Shaw in 1922. Our historic facility features classic wood accents and original stained-glass windows that offer an elevated touch of class and sophistication. The largest event space is located on the second floor, with a maximum capacity of 150 guests.
quadclub.uchicago.edu
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 1,000
Located on the Chicago River, River Roast offers dramatic city and water views from every seat. Executive Chef Jason Qureshi’s menu of contemporary American tavern fare is satisfying and soul-warming. Our private rooms can accommodate intimate affairs of 10 to larger-than-life events of 1,000 for cocktails and dinner with access to a private outdoor veranda.
riverroastchicago.com
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The Royal Sonesta Chicago Downtown
71 E. Wacker Dr., Chicago
312.346.7100
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 320
The Royal Sonesta Chicago Downtown has stunning river and city views that will serve as the perfect backdrop for all your photos. Floor-to-ceiling windows, innovative lighting and an open, airy feel gives the 16,000 square feet of event space an elegance all its own.
sonesta.com/chicago-royals-weddings
The Study at University of Chicago
1227 E. 60th St., Chicago
872.315.1316
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 140
Create your unique wedding in one of the spectacular spaces at The Study at University of Chicago. The open-air, light-filled space of our Winter Garden blurs lines between the sophisticated interior and landscaped exterior. The space features an enclosed garden terrace for ultimate privacy, beautiful landscaping with fire pits and a brightly lit pre-function hall.
thestudyatuniversityofchicago.com/weddings
The Royal Sonesta River North
505 N. State St., Chicago 312.755.9703
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 230
The Canvas Room, a non-traditional space, boasts highlights like floor-to-ceiling windows, outdoor patio space, and the capacity for interactive chef events, thanks to an open-kitchen layout. The sophisticated style of our River North luxury lifestyle hotel make us the ideal setting for your next to-do.
sonesta.com/chicago-royals-weddings SOPHY Hotel
1411 E. 53rd St.,
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 74
SOPHY Hotel offers beautifully designed spaces for pre-wedding events. The Opus Suite is a spacious apartment-style setting with hardwood floors, a fully equipped gourmet kitchen, a dining area and a King bedroom. The hotel’s restaurant, Mesler Chicago, features an elegant private dining room for dazzling rehearsal dinners and string light adorned outdoor sanctuary for romantic welcome receptions.
meslerchicago.com/weddings
Trump International Hotel & Tower® Chicago
401 N. Wabash Ave., Chicago
773.348.4600
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
Never settle for less than the most perfect wedding. However large or small, simple or elaborate a wedding may be, Trump Hotel Chicago wedding reception venues can be customized and transformed to create the perfect setting for your dream wedding. Pairing the largest guest rooms in the city with venues accented by breathtaking views, weddings at Trump Chicago are unrivaled.
trumphotels.com/chicago
Volo Restaurant Wine Bar
2008 W. Roscoe St., Chicago 773.348.4600
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
Volo has been fortunate to have hosted many rehearsal dinners, engagement parties, bridal showers, and more that have been truly special. We’d love to create a unique and memorable celebration for you. Our “#1 Hidden City Patio” (Chicago Magazine), rustic coach house, and urban chic dining room combine to create an ideal wedding venue.
volorestaurant.com
CELEBRATION LOCATIONS
NORTH
NORTHWEST
The Abbey Resort & Avani Spa
269 Fontana Blvd., Fontana, WI
800.709.1323
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 325
Located on the shores of Lake Geneva, The Abbey Resort & Avani Spa provides a vibrant backdrop for celebrations large and small, indoors or out. Not only an ideal location for your ceremony and reception, The Abbey also offers many unique options for memorable rehearsal dinners, bachelor/bachelorette gatherings and farewell brunches to round out your wedding celebration. theabbeyresort.com
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 120
This Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse location is situated in the heart of Chicagoland’s bustling Rosemont area, a stone’s throw from the Donald E. Stephens Convention Center, Allstate Arena and the Rosemont Theater. The classic American steakhouse features Gibsons Prime Angus beef along with fresh fish, classic cocktails, an extensive wine list and exceptional service.
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 165
Discover the possibilities aboard our award-winning fleet of eight beautiful boats! Host your engagement party, bridal shower, rehearsal dinner, ceremony, reception, wedding pictures, water limo, cocktail hour or day-after brunch out on the water. The perfect complement to your Lake Geneva wedding weekend!
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 200
Moretti’s is known for amazing events and value priced packages. The Hoffman Estates location stands out by offering a separate adjacent building “Moretti’s Unique Events,” that is dedicated to private events. With a fascinating rustic decor, separate kitchen and two patios, it’s the perfect setting for any event up to 250 guests. Attentive service and easy planning create an event to remember!
401 N. Roselle Rd., Schaumburg 847.885.9009
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
Chandler’s has been awarded “Best of Knot Weddings” multiple years in a row. Unmatched gorgeous views of landscaped golf course acreage and Frank Lloyd Wright inspired prairie style architecture are an amazing setting for any event. Value pricing, attentive service and easy planning with event professionals create an event to remember!
chandlerschophouse.com
- South Barrington 100 W. Higgins Rd., South Barrington 847.844.4810
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 600
grgmc.com Chandler’s Banquets
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. We offer a variety of options to host your special day whether in our all-seasons patio, full customizable ballrooms or our grand outdoor patio. Paired with our premium bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a truly unique wedding celebration.
pinstripes.com
NORTH & NORTHWEST
Vault 232
35 W. Main St., Lake Zurich
847.438.4900
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 110
Introducing Vault 232, the Northwest Suburbs’ newest restaurant and event space. Newly opened in a renovated historic bank in downtown Lake Zurich, Vault 232 offers an industrial chic vibe and superb menu. Exquisite seafood. House dry-aged beef. Handcrafted cocktails. Step through double vault doors into your own private party room and let our attentive staff handle the rest.
vault232.com
Renaissance Chicago North Shore
933 Skokie Blvd., Northbrook
847.498.6500
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 275
Look no further for the perfect place to say “I do.” The Renaissance Chicago North Shore Hotel has the perfect mix of unique and stylish event space to accommodate up to 275 guests and make your day truly special. From guest rooms to beautiful receptions, earn double Marriott Bonvoy® points for every dollar you spend. Start planning today!
bit.ly/renaissance-northshore
NORTH SHORE
Pinstripes - Northbrook
1150 Willow Rd., Northbrook
847.480.7676
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 600
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. We offer a variety of options to host your special day whether in our all-seasons patio, full customizable ballrooms or our grand outdoor patio. Paired with our premium bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a truly unique wedding celebration.
pinstripes.com
SOUTH & SOUTHWEST
La Voûte Bistro + Bar
2034 Ridge Rd., Homewood
708.798.6000
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 60
Located inside Homewood’s luxury boutique hotel, La Banque Hotel, La Voûte features French-inspired cuisine that’s rich in tradition. From casual celebrations to black-tie events, this space is perfect for rehearsal dinners, bachelor/bachelorette parties, bridal showers, and private brunches. Choose La Voûte for an exquisite and customizable experience unlike anywhere else.
lavoutebistro.com
Ravinia Festival 418 Sheridan Rd., Highland Park
847.266.5066
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 275
Internationally renowned, the private spaces at Ravinia are the perfect setting for your rehearsal dinner. Our indoor and outdoor spaces along with our world-class menus will make every moment of your extraordinary event unforgettable. Begin your love story on a high note and let Ravinia’s landscape and history be the backdrop to this special time in your lives.
ravinia.org
Ravisloe Country Club
18231 Park Ave., Homewood
708.798.5600
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
Ambiance, great food, impeccable presentation and flawless service are all part of the ultimate Ravisloe Country Club experience. Whether you are planning an intimate luncheon or a lavish rehearsal dinner party with live entertainment for a few hundred guests, we are ready to accommodate your vision of a dream celebration.
ravisloeweddings.com
The Drake Oak Brook 2301 York Rd., Oak Brook
630.571.0000
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 350
Escape to The Drake Oak Brook, boasting the beauty of the outdoors coupled with the iconic elegance of the indoors. Create memorable moments with our luxurious event space, sophisticated culinary artists and long-standing tradition of legendary service.
thedrakeoakbrookhotel.com
Eden Events
1 Illinois St., Unit 160, St. Charles 630.945.3332
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 150
Located in a historic landmark on the Fox River in downtown Saint Charles, this venue features exposed brick walls, wood beams and modern windows. The four seasons patio boasts panoramic river views, a stylish cocktail lounge and a one-of-a-kind bar. A short walk leads to scenic photo opportunities in the park, on stone-paved paths and river bridges.
edenweddingevents.com
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 200
Established in 2003, FoxFire is a premier restaurant and essential part of experiencing the charm and hospitality of beautiful Geneva. We offer an intimate and elegant setting of original 100-year-old brick and wooden trellises from the early 1900s, as well as locally sourced reclaimed wood walls. Your event will be the priority of our experienced, and professional event staff.
foxfiregeneva.com
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 360
Hilton Chicago/Oak Lawn boasts full amenities for its guests. With multiple spaces for rehearsal dinners from our dining room to a full-service bar/nightclub, we can host any size rehearsal dinner or party. Whether it’s an intimate shower or an after-thewedding brunch we are ready to accommodate your vision for a special celebration. hilton.com/en/hotels/oalhihf-hilton-chicago-oak-lawn
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 125
Looking to host a fun and unique pre-wedding celebration? Engagement Cocktail Events, Rehearsal Dinners, Bachelor Parties, and all occasions. Elevation Golf Burr Ridge offers a spacious area that can be reserved for your party, or full buyout. Simulation golf, live streaming, food, drinks, fun and more. Give your guests a Par-Tee to remember! elevationus.com
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
The SW Suburbs’ Premier Steakhouse. Jameson’s is the perfect venue for rehearsal dinners, showers, private parties and farewell breakfasts. Nestled in the Holiday Inn Countryside, your guests can enjoy your special day all in one location, with guest room accommodations. Let our event specialists create the perfect event for you. Private dining and event menus tailored to your special day.
jamesonscs.com
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The Matrix Room & Meg’s Lounge
808 S. Route 59, Naperville 630.869.9100
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 225
Celebrate your special occasion while enjoying diverse cultures, music and cuisine from across the globe when you dine at The Matrix Room! Stimulating ambiance, a world-class bar and international music lounge, and our talented Chef’s unique menu; a memorable dining experience for all! Available for engagement dinners, wedding showers, intimate gatherings and more!
matrixvenue.com/matrix-room
Pearl Banquets & Conference Center
1490 W. Lake St., Roselle
847.466.5777
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 550
Make your celebration truly unforgettable by hosting your guests at Pearl Banquets & Conference Center. Whether you prefer a sophisticated multi-course meal or a casual buffet-style feast for your rehearsal dinner, shower or any celebration, we have endless options to suit your taste, style and budget. Our expert event coordinators are happy to help.
pearlbanquets.com
Noon Whistle Brewing
800 E. Roosevelt Rd., Lombard 630.376.6895
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 100
Farm-style wooden tables. Gunmetal chairs. Edison café string lighting. The warm, cozy feel of our Barrel Room is just what you need to bring your intimate engagement party, wedding shower, rehearsal dinner or reception to life. Surrounded by dozens of rustic wooden barrels, we celebrate with you in the heart of our brewery.
noonwhistlebrewing.com
Pinstripes - Oak Brook
7 Oakbrook Ctr., Oak Brook 630.575.8744
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 250
Strike the perfect balance between exceptional food and fun as you gather with family and friends at Pinstripes. We offer a variety of options to host your special day whether in our all-seasons patio, full customizable ballrooms or our grand outdoor patio. Paired with our premium bowling lanes and bocce courts to create a truly unique wedding celebration.
pinstripes.com
The Oaks at Gibsons Bar & Steakhouse
2105 S. Spring Rd., Oak Brook 312.587.0508
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 300
The Oaks is a nearly 6,000 sq. ft. private dining expansion at Gibsons’ Oak Brook location. The versatile and beautiful space, with hardwood floors, terrazzo entry, and custom wooden accents, is accompanied by Gibsons’ legendary food and service for events of all kinds. Customizable menus will be available from the expert private dining team.
grgmc.com
Venuti’s
Ristorante and Banquets
2251 W. Lake St., Addison 630.376.1500
Maximum # of Seated Guests: 600
Enjoy your party at Chicagoland’s most dramatic special events property. Old-world architecture mixed with contemporary artwork offers the elegance and warmth that you deserve on your special day. Known for our attention to detail, five-star service and our exquisite food, let Venuti’s customize your private event.
venutis.com
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EXCLUSIVE Deluxe Edition
Spring/Summer
Welcome to the Spring/Summer 2024 Deluxe Edition of Chicago Style Weddings! The preceding pages of this magazine provided a wide range of ideas for enhancing your special day, but there’s so much more we want to share with you! As you continue your planning journey, we present to you our Deluxe Edition, full of even more ideas, advice and real weddings. We just couldn’t wait for our next release to share these!
For even more inspiration year-round, visit us at chicagostyleweddings.com and our Instagram, Pinterest and Facebook pages, @chicagostyleweddings
Let the journey to your dream wedding continue!
GOWN Veiled by ChaCha; Love Story “Mimi” JEWELRY Razny Jewelers HAIR & MAKEUP Bella Bridal Beauty LOCATION Nobu Hotel Chicago SWEETS Vanille Patisserie PHOTOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen PhotographyDeluxe Edition Contents
S-8 2023 Issue Release Party
S-10 New to the Scene
S-16 Mrs. Who?: A Guide to Changing Your Last Name in Illinois
S-24 Premarital & Relationship Counseling
S-30 Ditch the Aisle: Klaudia and James’ City Hall Elopement
S-34 5 Tips to Get the Most Out of Your Engagement Session
S-38 Registry Roadmap
S-44 Give My Compliments To The Chef
S-46 Something Old, Something New ...
S-50 From Vows to Views A Honeymooner’s Handbook
COVERS 2024 Edition
March/April
GOWN All About The Gown; Sarah Alouache “Chloe”
JEWELRY Razny Jewelers
FLORAL Ashland Addison Florist
HAIR & MAKEUP Bella Bridal Beauty
LOCATION Nobu Hotel Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHY Ed & Aileen Photography
Spotlight on Style
S-12 The Main Character
S-20 My Kind of Town
S-26 No Take Backs
Real Weddings
S-54 Suzette & Marc
S-56 Courtney & Juliana
S-58 Jenna & Kyle
S-60 Michelle & Shane
Resources
S-2 Introduction to the Deluxe Edition
S-62 Advertisers’ Index
May/June
GOWN Mira Couture; Stephen Yearick
FORMALWEAR Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits
JEWELRY Marshall Pierce & Co.
HAIR JuanJose Herrera / Hair by JuanJose
MAKEUP Aga Rhodes / Bridal by Aga
LOCATION On A Boat Sailing
EVENT STYLING The Gilded Aisle Weddings
PHOTOGRAPHY Lisa Blume Photography
July/August
GOWN Bella Bianca Bridal Couture; Lihi Hod “Genesis”
HAIR & MAKEUP Rare Bird Beauties
LOCATION Chicago Winery
PHOTOGRAPHY Ian Rempel Photography
DESIGNED FOR PERFECT MOMENTS
SOARING ABOVE THE CHICAGO RIVER, TAKE YOUR WEDDING TO THE NEXT LEVEL, WITH UNPARALLELED SERVICE AND EXCEPTIONAL VIEWS OF THE CITY.
Where Impeccable Style and Spectacular Service Define the Experience
2023 Issue Release Party
PHOTOGRAPHY BY Zach Caddy Photography
On July 12, 2023, the Chicago wedding scene was abuzz with excitement at our Chicago Style Weddings magazine release party. At Morgan Arts Complex, we welcomed over 400 industry professionals, real Chicago newlyweds and wedding enthusiasts to celebrate love and the art of matrimony.
The celebration wouldn’t have been possible without the brilliant planning of 6ixStory Events. Together, we crafted a truly special ambiance by curating sponsorships that showed off some of the city’s finest vendors.
SPECIAL THANKS TO:
6ixStory Events
AFR Furniture Rental
Ashland Addison Florist
AV Chicago
Bittersweet Pastry Shop
The Black Tie Studio
Chic Chef Catering
City BBQ
Creative Cakes Bakery
Dapper Brews Coffee
Dolce Arte
Doodlebooth
ECBG Cake Studio
F&S Linens
Flow Entertainment
Garrett Popcorn
Glam Atelier
Harry Caray’s Restaurant Group
Jewell Events Catering
Laine Too
Marquee Event Rentals
MK Event Photo
Morgan Arts Complex
Vanille Patisserie
WarPaint International
Zach Caddy Photography
To see more photos, video and a full recap from this event, scan here:
New to the Scene | WHAT’S NEW AROUND
CHICAGOLAND
Bella Glam Studio IL
712 W. Higgins Rd. | Park Ridge, IL 60068
602.350.5863 | bellabridalbeauty.com
Bella Glam Studio IL, a sister company of Bella Bridal Beauty, is a fresh and vibrant salon space in Park Ridge. This new salon offers a stunning space for bridal hair and makeup trials and the opportunity to extend Bella Bridal Beauty’s services beyond the wedding day. After you’ve loved your wedding experience with Bella Bridal Studio, enjoy the same level of service for future events, photoshoots or by booking appointments with their talented in-house stylists, estheticians or spray tan artists. Their commitment with this new salon is to maintain a pristine, enjoyable and inclusive atmosphere where everyone feels welcome and at home!
Photo by Brittany Chase PhotographyLove Linked x Winifred Grace
5632 N. Clark St. | Chicago, IL 60660
872.806.2455 | winifredgrace.com
Looking for a personalized, memorable experience for your bachelorette event or bridal party? Love Linked x Winifred Grace is Chicago’s premiere permanent jewelry experience. Their creative and interactive Forever Bracelets offer an alternative to more typical bridesmaids’ gifts. Located in the heart of the Winifred Grace boutique, Love Linked’s newly expanded brick and mortar space features a gorgeous marble service counter, comfy seating and expertly-trained welders. Make it a party! The light-filled corner shop in the beloved Andersonville neighborhood provides a beautiful setting and personalized experience for families, friends and couples alike. And now Love Linked can come to you, bringing their permanent jewelry services to the venue of your choice.
Gather
14N205 Reinking Rd. | Pingree Grove, IL 60140
224.801.4166 | gatherpingreegrove.com
Welcome to Gather, the ultimate stylish and unique event experience just for you. This venue is designed for those who appreciate an intimate, welcoming event. With a capacity of 80 guests or less, fill your special day with meaningful, intentional touches that will leave your loved ones feeling cherished. If you treasure the idea of knowing everyone at your table, you’re in the right place. A Gather wedding rental package includes exceptional value, ease, style and expert guidance, including dedicated staff by your side throughout the planning process. Choose the upper-level space for indoor ceremonies and dining, while the lower-level area is perfect for a cocktail hour. And don’t forget the patio space offering a stunning backdrop for outdoor gatherings and endless photo opportunities. If this sounds like the ideal start to your journey together, celebrate your incredible occasion with Gather.
Photo by Cling & PeckSky on Nine
6600 Mannheim Rd. | Rosemont, IL 60018
847.292.3729 | skyonnine.com
Sky on Nine, the newest event venue from Chicago-based LM Catering & Events, offers sweeping views of the Chicagoland area and is the ideal space to dance the night away. The light-filled setting features a fully open floor plan with three walls of floor-to-ceiling windows. The newly renovated modern space comes equipped with two custom bars and nine one-of-a-kind chandeliers. When you work with LM you can rest assured that they’ll take care of the details, paving the way for a stress free road to “I do!”
Spotlight on Style
The Main Character
If there’s ever an opportunity to embody main character energy, it’s your wedding day. And for this elegant wedding scene at Chicago Winery, the silver screen is the perfect stage.
The frames of this film reel are filled with the warm, urban glamour of Chicago Winery’s venue. Highlighting both the quiet luxury and sparkling disco bridal trends of the moment, Bella Bianca Bridal Couture styled models in Vera Wang, Lihi Hod, Galia Lahav and Lazaro.
Whether floating down sunlit stairs or reapplying peachy-nude lipstick for your close-up, it’s your day to radiate and turn heads. Shine like a star because the aisle is your red carpet.
... it’s a film and they are the main characters.KATIE MÁNTICA BELLA BIANCA BRIDAL COUTURE
Vendor List
PHOTOGRAPHY Ian Rempel Photography
VENUE: Chicago Winery
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Vrinspirations
HAIR & MAKEUP: Rare Bird Beauties
STYLING: Katie Mántica with Bella Bianca Bridal Couture
GOWNS: Bella Bianca Bridal Couture
FORMALWEAR: ESQ Clothing
MODELS: Hannah Debok, Roberto Mántica, Jalbelly Guzmán, Stephen Wilkes
Starting a new life as a married couple comes with many exciting changes, and one of the most significant changes is acquiring a new identity (so to speak). Name changes have long been a part of wedding traditions — whether changing one partner’s last name, hyphenating two names or creating a new last name altogether. While not everyone changes their last name after the aisle, data analytics reveal that 70% to 80% of newlyweds adopt their spouse’s last name. Many couples like having the same last name, making them feel more unified, while others enjoy creating a single identity for their future family. Some newlyweds just might not like the sound of their maiden name, which is a valid reason to make the switch! Any motivation is valid and a good enough reason to participate in this age-old tradition.
MRS. Who?
While this administrative, post-wedding task isn’t as fun as opening gifts or receiving your wedding photos, you must do it correctly. We’ve compiled a guide on legally changing your last name in Illinois to ease this daunting task.
A GUIDE TO CHANGING YOUR LAST NAME IN ILLINOIS
*Disclaimer: These requirements are subject to change from institution to institution. Please be sure to confirm with each sector.
MARRIAGE CERTIFICATE
The first step in legally changing your name is physically obtaining your marriage certificate. It’s important to note that your marriage certificate differs from your marriage license. Your marriage license is proof of eligibility to marry, while the marriage certificate is the documentation that your marriage occurred. So, before moving on to all your namechange tasks, you’ll need a certified marriage certificate from your county clerk’s office. Typically, you can expect to receive this within two to four weeks after your wedding. Even if you aren’t changing your name, having multiple certified copies of your marriage certificate is a good idea.
It’s also a good idea to go ahead and purchase certified copies at the same time as when you apply for your marriage license. That way, you’ll have already paid for them, and you
will receive the certificate and certified copies at the same time. Your official certificate and copies are issued directly from the county and have special seals that verify their authenticity. Because of these embossed seals, you can’t just make your own copies!
Not sure how many copies to order? Three to five is a good starting point, but don’t stress; if needed, you can order more copies later. In Cook County, a certified copy of marriage records is $15 and $4 for each additional copy.
SOCIAL SECURITY
Before changing your name anywhere else, you must report the change to the Social Security Administration (SSA). This is your official gateway to the name change process! Why is this the crucial first step? Your SSA record is linked to your identity in the eyes of every federal and state entity. For any official name change, it is essential that your name matches your SSA record. You can complete this process via mail or in person, but unfortunately you can’t do it online at this time. Here are the three steps you need to complete:
1. Ensure you have the following documents: one form of a valid photo ID, an original or certified copy of your marriage certificate (no photocopies!) and proof of U.S. citizenship. For each document, you need to provide either the original document or a certified, government-issued copy.
2. Once your identification documents are in hand, complete Form SS-5 (the application for a social security card). You can download the form from ssa.gov . Be sure to sign with your new name!
3. Lastly, you must submit your application. To do this, locate the closest SSA office by searching your ZIP code at ssa.gov/locator . Once you’ve found the most convenient location, you can mail your application and documents to that SSA office or visit in person. We recommend doing this step in person to avoid mailing sensitive documents you want to keep on hand (like your driver’s license and passport).
Once these steps are complete, you’ll receive your new SSA card in the mail in 10 to 14 business days — along with any documents you may have mailed in.
BEGIN WITH MARQUEE
From classic to contemporary, create the perfect atmosphere with our stunning range of tents for your special day. With the dedicated team at Marquee Event Rentals ensuring every detail is perfect, you can focus on making memories that last a lifetime.
DRIVER’S LICENSE OR STATE ID
After you’ve received your new Social Security card, it’s time to update your driver’s license or state ID.
For this step, you must physically go into your local Secretary of State facility (yes, the DMV). Visit ILSOS.gov to find a location convenient for you. You must do this in person because you must turn in your old license or state ID and provide acceptable new identification. When applying for an updated license or state ID, bring your new Social Security card, current driver’s license or state ID and a certified marriage certificate.
The best part? No waiting! Your new driver’s license will be issued the same day you apply. Don’t forget to prepare for the photo!
VEHICLE TITLE AND REGISTRATION
In Illinois, if your driver’s license name is changed, you must also change the name on your vehicle’s title and registration. So this is your next step!
To complete this, either visit an
Illinois Secretary of State office or mail in the required paperwork. If you’re going in person, bring along a completed and printed “Application for Vehicle Transaction” (aka VSD 190 ), which you can find at ILSOS. gov/departments/vehicles/title_and_ registration . Select the “Corrected Title” option and complete accordingly.
PASSPORT
Whether traveling abroad soon or not, it’s wise to update your passport along with everything else.
You can complete this process in person at a Passport Acceptance Facility (find a location at iafdb.travel. state.gov ) or by mail.
There are different applications depending on how old your passport is, and you can find all of these forms at eforms.state.gov.
You’ll also need an updated color photo for this application. If applying in person, the facility can take your photo. We suggest completing this step at a business that offers passport photo services, such as The UPS Store, Walgreens, CVS or Walmart. Though
you can take the picture yourself, it’s better to have it done by professionals to ensure it meets all the necessary requirements. You can find the basic photo requirements on the website of the U.S. Department of State.
You will receive your new passport in the mail. However, the timeline for this varies widely, so be patient!
VOTER REGISTRATION
To uphold your civic voting duty, update your voting registration to match your new name.
Visit ova.elections.il.gov and scroll down to select “Update an Existing Registration.” Follow the instructions and you’re all set!
BANK ACCOUNTS
With your government-related steps completed, it’s time to change your name on personal accounts. First, we recommend changing your name at your bank or credit union.
To change the name on your account(s), most banks require you visit a physical branch office with your photo ID and a certified copy of your marriage certificate. While doing this, you can request new debit cards or checks and get it all done at once.
If it’s not feasible for you to visit your bank (in cases of remote or international banking), call the customer support phone number on the back of your card. Each financial institution will have a variation of the in-person method.
PERSONAL ACCOUNTS
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And lastly, it’s time to update everything else! This includes everything from your social media accounts to your health insurance.
After a few months you’ll probably still be finding accounts out there with your old name, and that’s OK! You’d be surprised just how many places have your name on file. No sweat; you can change them as you come by them.
Some common accounts to get you started include home mortgage or rental lease, utilities, insurance policies, internet, medical providers, professional certifications, online subscriptions, loyalty programs (airlines, hotels, etc.) and social media accounts. ■
Your Happily Ever After Starts Here
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Spotlight on Style
My Kind of Town
From shooting 83 floors up at the newly renovated St. Regis to sailing away on a luxury sailboat on Lake Michigan, this editorial is a love letter to Chicago.
For the fashion, stylist Catherine Vreeland of Mira Couture was inspired by the city’s architecture. A mix of modern glass skyscrapers and gothic 1920s classics dominates Chicago’s skyline, and the gowns here reflect that modern-yet-worldly aesthetic. From custom in-house designs by Mira Couture to gowns by Kim Kassas and Marchesa, fashionable old-world touches played beautifully with modern silhouettes. Defined by movement and flow, each scene of this story reflects an artful juxtaposition and sky-high style.
This is my love letter to Chicago.
CATHERINE VREELAND MIRA COUTUREVendor List
PHOTOGRAPHY: Lisa Blume Photography
VIDEOGRAPHY: Morning Light Co.
VENUE: St. Regis
BOAT: On A Boat Sailing
FASHION DIRECTION & GOWNS: Mira Couture
EVENT STYLING, PLANNING & WELCOME
BOXES: The Gilded Aisle Weddings
FLORAL: Taylor & Co Events
FORMALWEAR: Nicholas Joseph Custom Suits
JEWELRY: Marshall Pierce & Co.
HAIR: Hair by Juan Jose
MAKEUP: Bridal by Aga Rhodes
RENTALS: Bowery and Bash, Ellie & Rose, The Festive Frog, Marquee Event Rentals, Stradley Davidson, Tablescapes, Windy City Linen
ENTERTAINMENT: Beat Mix Music
CAKE: Pastry Chef Juan Gutierrez with St. Regis
COOKIES: Smart Cookies by Jenna
TRANSPORTATION: McClaren Chicago
PHOTOGRAPHY ASSISTANTS: Alana Lindenfeld Photography, Mary Emily Moore
HAIR & MAKEUP ASSISTANT: Alma Armas Makeup
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlight-on-style.
Q & A & Premarital Relationship COUNSELING
INTERVIEW BY Alexandra DillardIn the radiant glow of engagement, it’s easy to become consumed by the whirlwind of wedding planning. From choosing the perfect dress to deciding on the ideal venue, there’s a thrilling journey toward matrimony ahead!
Yet amidst the excitement and anticipation, one oftenoverlooked aspect can make a profound difference in the success of a marriage: the relationship’s foundation.
Couples seeking not just a picture-perfect wedding day, but a lifetime of happiness might consider premarital counseling. Premarital counseling isn’t just for troubled waters, but it’s a tool for forming a more resilient and harmonious partnership. We turned to Operations Director Bailey Kraft, MS, LMFT and Clinical Director Mike Connell, MA, LMFT from Balanced Life Counseling to explore the keys to establishing a solid foundation for a flourishing marriage.
Chicago Style Weddings (CSW): What is premarital counseling and why is it important for couples?
Balanced Life Counseling (BLC): Premarital counseling uses both structured and unstructured conversation to cover a broad range of topics designed to help committed couples prepare for marriage. Its primary objective is to equip couples with the necessary skills, tools and insights to build a strong, healthy and enduring partnership.
CSW: How can relationship and/or premarital counseling contribute to a successful and lasting marriage?
BLC: It provides couples with a solid foundation to navigate the challenges of married life, fosters better understanding and empathy between partners and encourages proactive problem-solving. By engaging in these conversations prior to marriage, couples are able to develop a deeper understanding of one another by identifying potential growth areas, while also celebrating their strengths.
CSW: In your experience, what are some key factors that contribute to a successful marriage?
BLC: The most important factors vary from couple to couple, but a few key factors typically include open communication, a foundation of trust, and engaging in empathy with one another. In our experience, couples need to prioritize their friendship first. It’s from building a healthy friendship that these factors necessary for a healthy marriage are fostered and continue to grow.
CSW: What are some misconceptions or myths about premarital counseling that you encounter?
BLC: The most common misconception that we see is that premarital counseling, or couples counseling in general, is only for couples with severe doubts or concerns about their relationship. Engaging in premarital counseling is a proactive step that will only benefit relationships in the long term. Premarital counseling primarily focuses on existing strengths, as opposed to solely looking at growth areas. We hope that couples will see premarital counseling as an investment in their future, not a last resort before disaster.
It’s important to note that couples who participate in premarital counseling are statistically 30 percent more likely to stay together than couples who do not.
CSW: What are some examples of strategies you use in your premarital counseling sessions that help couples build a strong foundation for their marriage?
BLC: One of the most important skills, and typically where we start with couples in sessions, is using “I” statements. Talking only about what I feel instead of what you did is the best way to avoid a disagreement spiraling into a full blown argument. In addition, if those “I” statements don’t work and couples start to feel overwhelmed, taking a break or
timeout can be crucial to de-escalate the situation and lead to a productive resolution.
CSW: What are some of the most common challenges couples come to you with?
BLC: Some of the most common challenges couples face in premarital counseling are communication barriers, difficulties resolving conflicts effectively, differences in values and goals, and navigating wedding stress.
CSW: Are there any particular resources or books you recommend for couples who are considering premarital counseling or looking to strengthen their relationship?
BLC: A few books we commonly recommend include:
• “7 Principles for Making Marriage Work” by John M. Gottman and Nan Silver
• “Come As You Are” by Emily Nagoski
• “Attached” by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
Additionally, there’s a great app called the “Gottman Card Decks” that we encourage most of our premarital clients to explore with each other. ■
About the Contributors
Bailey Kraft, MS, LMFT and Mike Connell, MA, LMFT are part of the experienced team at Balanced Life Counseling. Whether you’re experiencing anxiety, depression, a life transition or communication concerns, Balanced Life Counseling helps you work through whatever difficulty you’re facing. Balanced Life therapists have experience in a range of situations and relationship dynamics, celebrating inclusivity in sexuality, relationship dynamics and multilingual needs.
Balanced Life Counseling balancedlifechicago.com
Spotlight on Style
No Take Backs
As white frosting on the heart-shaped cake taunts, “No Take Backs,” we are welcomed into this vibrant love story. Fun, creativity and a touch of whimsy certainly define the essence of this wedding vision at CSK (Centre Street Kitchen) in Lincoln Park.
In the wedding world, neutrals and pastels will always have a treasured home. But just because those color palettes are a reliable force doesn’t mean denying bold, colorful inspiration. When dreaming up this styled shoot, the team envisioned a not-so-bohemian garden party vibe. Thus a playful and zesty ambiance emerged, rather than the vintage vibe often associated with courtyard events. Unbridled fun thrives here, enlivened by elements like a rosé tower and vegan red velvet cake.
As if handwritten in glitter gel pen, this playful scene invites couples to embrace whimsy. Consider this your sign to explore the possibilities, deny the neutrals and let love lead the way.
We were inspired by the garden party aesthetic [...] a wildflower vibe that didn’t feel too bohemian.ALYSSA MENOSKY GRACE + IVORY
Vendor List
PHOTOGRAPHY Marissa Kelly Photography
VIDEOGRAPHY David Bustos
VENUE: CSK Lincoln Park
PLANNER: Bridget Mary Weddings
FLORAL: The Flower Club
CAKE: Gâteau Groovy
LINENS: Windy City Linen
TABLETOP DÉCOR: Hall’s Rental
HAIR: Lindsay Dee Beauty
MAKEUP: Erika Alexis Beauty
GOWNS: Grace + Ivory
FORMALWEAR: SuitShop
JEWELRY: Plum Diamonds
MODELS: Haley Huskey, Anthony Baldasare
To see more photos from this Styled Shoot Showcase, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/spotlight-on-style.
Have you been thinking about having a courthouse wedding?
Whether for sentimental intimacy, legal practicality or budgetary ease, a city hall wedding certainly has its charm. To give you a glimpse into the allure of city hall weddings, Klaudia Dworzanczyk shares the details she and her partner James incorporated to make their city-chic elopement come to life.
Klaudia was never the little girl imagining herself walking down the aisle. So when it came time to “make it official” with her partner James, a courthouse elopement felt right.
“For us, it was more of a ‘why not?’ moment than a ‘why.’ Our families are on the smaller side, and our family dynamics are a bit unconventional, so eloping just felt like the right fit. Both of us are pretty focused on our careers and building a future together. We didn’t want wedding planning to become a major distraction. Opting
Ditch the Aisle Klaudia and James’ City Hall Elopement
for an elopement allowed us to stay on track financially while still having a heartfelt, intimate ceremony.”
What guided the design of their day? A few weeks before their official engagement, Klaudia stumbled upon a bridal shop closing and found a beautiful white dress by V. Chapman. It just so happened it was the only one left and in her exact size. “I didn’t think it would all happen so soon,” says
Klaudia, but the details fell into place with the dress in hand. “The dress called for a vintage aesthetic, so every detail was very 1950s inspired — from the accessories to our rented car.”
Klaudia rented accessories from Aveil, a bridal accessories rental company, to complete the glam look. From Aveil, Klaudia rented a Cult Gaia freshwater pearl choker, a pearly minibag by Sophia Webster and shimmery
Amelie George earrings. Alongside these luxury rentals, Klaudia completed her 1950s bridal look with Jeffrey Campbell heels, a Monrowe brimmed hat with a birdcage veil, Dior sunglasses and For Love and Lemons lace gloves. With the fashions perfected, there were only a few choices left to nail down. “I only booked vendors that were important to us. We didn’t focus on things like flowers or food. Most of the day revolved around photos, so I prioritized everything ‘aesthetic’ — our outfits, my hair and makeup by Glam Atelier, photo permits and car rental. I’m extremely lucky to have had the opportunity to have celebrity photographer Lynn Yati create such timeless captures!”
Perhaps the biggest surprise of the day for Klaudia and James was learning just how common city hall weddings are. “We arrived at the courthouse when it opened, and within a few moments, a line out the door formed. It was wonderful to see all the happy couples from different walks of life, and all putting their own spin on their ceremony — from the fashion choices to the size of their party.” While not as publicized or heavily
the city hall wedding is alive and well in Chicago!
After the paperwork was signed and witnessed, Klaudia and James celebrated with an intimate dinner at Cindy’s Rooftop on the 13th floor of the Chicago Athletic Association. The hotel’s aesthetic matched their vintage style perfectly, making for some killer photo-ops. Wrapping up the oh-soeditorial day, they were treated to a classic Chicago scene: “We even got
to enjoy a firework show from their beautiful balcony overlooking the city!”
So what advice would Klaudia give to couples considering a civil ceremony or mini-celebration? “There is no right or wrong move. The only wrong decision would be one that’s skewed by others. As long as you follow what is important to you, make your day as elaborate or simple as you’d like, and remember that all this is to celebrate your love — it will be perfect.” ■
Klaudia owns Glam Atelier, a luxury on-site beauty services company specializing in glamorous and dramatic hair and beauty artistry. As a wedding industry professional, Klaudia is wellversed in the intricacies of wedding planning and execution.
Glam Atelier
glamatelier.com
PHOTOGRAPHY Lynn Yati Photography
HAIR & MAKEUP Glam Atelier
NAILS Nail Candy Sandie
HAIR CUT & COLOR Jillian Boeckh with Elle Salon
EXTENSIONS BELLAMI from Sarah Page Hair
PHOTOGRAPHY VENUES Chicago Athletic Association, Cindy’s BOUQUET East Olivia
DRESS V. Chapman
ACCESSORIES & JEWELRY Aveil
SHOES Jeffrey Campbell
HAT Monrowe
GLOVES For Love and Lemons
SUNGLASSES Dior
CAR RENTAL Chicago Vintage Vehicles
Tips to Get the Most Out of Your Engagement Session 5
WORDS AND PHOTOGRAPHY BY Stephanie Wood, Stephanie Wood Photography
Prepping for your engagement session sounds easy, right? Until you realize you need to figure out where to go, what to wear, how to do your hair and makeup, how to include your pets and the list goes on and on. Well, not to worry — I got you, boo! I’m delivering my most bangfor-your-buck engagement session planning advice so you can have the stunning photos you’ve always dreamed of — stress free!
#01 | LOCATION, LOCATION, LOCATION
Just as it’s important to select your wedding dress after choosing your wedding venue, you want to decide on photo locations before you go shopping for outfits. It’s best to stick with two locations to maximize your time at each and then select one wardrobe choice per location.
So here are some things to consider (and discuss with your photographer) when choosing a location for your engagement session:
• What is the overall vibe you’re going for? (Urban architecture, street chic, urban garden, skyline views, etc.)
• What is the lighting like at different times of day?
• Are there permits you need to secure prior to the shoot?
• Do you have any places that are special to the two of you? The place you got engaged or your favorite date night locale make for great storytelling images.
• Plan ahead for transportation. For example, is it better to drive yourself or take a rideshare to photo spots?
Pro Tip: Double check the date of your session with any big Chicago events (street fairs, music festivals, etc.) — it’s no fun planning everything out and arriving only to discover you can’t access the location you were dreaming of.
#02 | CONSIDER YOUR SEASON
Do you love the fall but prefer a spring color palette? Do you love the look of snowy pictures but can’t stand to be out in the cold for more than two minutes?
Before scheduling your session and planning all your wardrobe and styling around it, take a moment to consider what season helps tell your story and how you want to feel during your session. If you just love ice skating together at Millenium Park and “the cold never bothered you anyway” then by all means go for that winter session.
But if the idea of being outside in negative temps makes you tense up just thinking about it, it’s probably better to schedule something later in the spring or summer. Prioritize your experience over that one “must have” photo you saw on Instagram.
Pro Tip: Look up “Seasonal Color Analysis” online to discover which seasonal palettes suit you best!
#03 | DRESS IT ALL THE WAY UP
Have fun with your engagement session fashion! I recommend two different looks for both of you during the session. One that is more casual (think date night at a swanky rooftop bar) and one that is your “red carpet look.” Your engagement session wardrobe should be clean and minimal (avoid busy patterns like plaid). Choose classic pieces that deliver the “wow” factor, while still feeling like “you.” Keep your styling relatively timeless as these images will live with you well past the year they were taken.
Pro Tip: Coordinate your color palette across all your looks for a cohesive gallery and images that will mix and match well throughout your home.
#04 | TREAT YO’ SELF
There is no better time to pamper yourself than for your engagement session! Schedule a facial in the week leading up to your session. Book a professional hair and makeup artist. Get that mani/pedi. Wax your brows. Splurge on the shoes. Not only will this make you feel like a million bucks, but it’s a great way to discover your likes and dislikes before heading into your wedding day. You can’t buy confidence, but you can invest in things that will give you a good boost of it. And when
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you’re feeling confident that translates to images you will love even more.
Pro Tip: Take your fiancé(e) with you for your mani/pedi to clean up those cuticles of theirs and spend some quality time together — your partner deserves some pampering too.
#05 | GET YOUR PETS INVOLVED
Let’s face it, your pets are your babies and they just aren’t on this earth long
enough! Whether it’s a canine or feline companion, you can absolutely include them in your session. There are two ways I recommend including pets in your engagement session. The first is to do part of the session at home. This is a great way to also document your first place together, which is another great storytelling element.
The second is to recruit a friend or family member to be the “pet wrangler” at your engagement photo session. Arrange for them to join you on-location
with your pet for that segment of your session, and once the pet modeling is complete, they can safely take your pet back home. Whether at home or with a pet-wrangler, you’ll be able to stay relaxed while including your (let’s be honest) favorite “person” in your session.
Pro Tip: Be sure to keep your pets on-leash when on location and bring lots of treats to reward them for their excellent modeling skills.
BONUS | REMEMBER YOUR “WHY”
When you keep the love between the two of you at the forefront — and remember why you’re marrying this person in the first place — your love will inevitably shine through every image. During the session, let the rest of the world fade away and fully immerse yourself in the moment. You’ll get the most out of your time and leave feeling even more deeply in love — which is what this is all about to begin with!
Pro Tip: Take some time before the session to individually write some prewedding vows or love notes to each other that you can exchange during your engagement session to really help get those vibes flowing.
I hope these tips will help you not only tell your love story in an authentic and gorgeous way, but also allow you to have a blast in the process! ■
About the Author
Stephanie Wood is a visual storyteller and self-proclaimed hopeless romantic. In 2015, Wood founded Stephanie Wood Photography, where she specializes in documentary and fine art/editorial wedding photography. She combines artistic passion and technical expertise to capture every portion of your day skillfully — all with authenticity and intention.
Stephanie Wood Photography stephaniewoodphotography.com
REGISTRY
Roadmap
As the costs that come with planning a wedding add up, welcome to the reprieve that comes with making a wedding registry. Creating a wedding gift registry is one of the most fun parts of wedding planning and it costs you nothing. Now we’re talking!
Let your mind swirl with possibilities of splurge-worthy items you have always wanted but never pulled the trigger on purchasing yourself. We’re talking everything from the robin’s egg blue toaster of your dreams to a sumptuous towel warmer to turn your humble bathroom into a luxury spa.
But just like every other element of wedding planning, setting up your wedding registry comes with its fair share of etiquette. It might be your first time asking for these types of gifts and, admittedly, it can feel a bit awkward to compile a big wish list. So where do you start? From when to create a registry to what to include, let’s go over everything you need to know to create a thoughtful and well-curated wedding registry. Here are 14 things to keep in mind while setting up your wedding registry, plus a curated list of can’t-go-wrong gift options.
1
CREATE YOUR REGISTRY IN A TIMELY FASHION
As soon as you announce your engagement (or shortly after) get started on your wedding registry. If you’re planning for a long engagement, at least ensure that you have a registry shared four to seven months prior to your wedding date. The sooner you have a registry set up, the more time guests will have to browse and select gifts before the wedding. You might even line it up so guests can take advantage of seasonal deals and specials!
The most important deadline for when you should have a wedding registry complete is before any prewedding events (think engagement parties or wedding showers) where guests might want to bring a gift. People are going to want to bring you gifts, so you might as well make sure they are gifts you want.
2
REGISTER AT TWO TO THREE RETAILERS
When it comes to the number of places to register, keep things simple.
You won’t want to have guests sifting through a dozen different retailers to find the perfect gift! To get the right variety and optimal convenience for your guests, two to three retailers or online platforms is a sweet spot.
3
TAILOR INDIVIDUAL REGISTRIES
Since you’ll be registering at more than one spot, try not to repeat items from one registry to another. This risks receiving the same (or similar) item twice, and then you’ll have to go to the trouble of returning one and selecting another item with your store credit. We do recommend registering at multiple places, but be aware of what you’re including on each. It doesn’t hurt to do a cross check!
4
MAKE SURE GUESTS CAN EASILY FIND YOUR REGISTRIES
What good is a carefully curated registry when guests can’t find it? While this might seem obvious, it’s still important to note. You’re juggling a lot of moving parts right now and this is
For the Entertainers
one that can easily be forgotten!
For ease of findability, include a link to your registry on your wedding website. If you opt to not have a wedding website, include a written url on your physical invitation. Many websites will be able to provide shortened urls to keep your invitation from looking too wordy. Alternatively, use a service like Bitly, TinyUrl or Rebrandly to create a shortened url.
5
DON’T NOT REGISTER
“But what if I don’t want anything?” We get it! You might be downsizing while preparing for a move, embarking on a minimalistic lifestyle or just plain feel like you have everything you need already. Whatever the reason, it is perfectly acceptable to not want to create a traditional registry. But that doesn’t mean you should forgo a registry altogether. People will want to give you gifts, don’t leave them guessing!
Instead, you can kindly request monetary contributions towards specific goals (like a honeymoon or a down payment) or to a charitable cause dear to you. Alternatively, you can register for a number of experiences, like a romantic dinner or concert tickets. Rather than simply requesting cash, be transparent and clear about how the funds will be used. To be even more tactful include a preface on your registry or wedding website that explains your preference for nontangible gifts.
No matter what the registry is for, having one at all allows your loved ones to pick out a gift you’ll actually want — which is what everyone involved wants!
6
OFFER A RANGE OF PRICE POINTS
When curating your wedding registry, include a variety of price ranges to accommodate all guests. It is easy to get carried away and load up your registry with luxury goodies, but be sure to include a range of prices to ensure no guest feels ostracized or pressured to spend outside their means. A good rule of thumb is to include items that range from affordable to moderately priced, as well as a few special higher-
end items. This is one of the few times where you’ll be able (and expected!) to ask for specific gifts and you don’t want to go too far. People love giving gifts to honor important events and you want to contribute to a positive gifting experience for everyone.
7
INCLUDE WHATEVER YOU WANT!
It’s helpful to register at retailers that offer a wide range of items, from homewares to electronics to sporting goods. However, don’t be afraid to tailor your registry spots to retailers that match your personality. Wedding registries don’t have to be a one-sizefits all ordeal. Love supporting small businesses? Register on Etsy. Are you and your partner always embarking on a new adventure? REI’s registry could be a good fit. Have fun and register for what fits your lifestyle best! While nowadays many registries can be completed online, don’t overlook the fun of compiling your wedding registry in-person. Make a fun date out of it and head to a retailer. Armed with a barcode scanner, weld the power to make all your gifting dreams come true.
8
THINK ABOUT LONGEVITY AND THE MEMORIES
People love giving gifts that they know you’ll cherish for a long time. So be sure to consider longevity when adding to your registry. One of the most special parts of gift giving and receiving is the tie you’ll have between the gifter. Anytime you prepare some hot tea with the electric kettle, you’ll think of your dear college roommate who gifted it to you. By asking for long-lasting gifts, you’re giving yourself the present of sweet memories with loved ones.
9
ALLOW GUESTS TO BE SENTIMENTAL
Oftentimes, your guests will want their gift to pay special tribute to your big day. This means a personalized gift with your name, initials or wedding date. Be sure to include a few customizable options on your registry so that your sentimental friends and family have that option. And more importantly the
options you provide will be something you actually want! There’s a certain guilt that comes with receiving a heartfelt personalized gift that you frankly just don’t see yourself using or displaying. Examples of customizable items include coasters, linens, drinkware, picture frames, return address stamps and luggage. So many things can be embroidered or etched!
10
...BUT DON’T INCLUDE EVERYTHING
While it’s essential to create a wellrounded registry, there are a few things that etiquette suggests you avoid. For starters, steer clear from adding too many pricey or extravagant items. It’s ok to have some, but too many will come off as too covetous. Additionally, avoid items that are too personal, like clothing, jewelry, intimates or anything that’s geared towards one individual rather than your life together as a couple.
11
DOUBLE YOUR GUESTS
When it comes to how many items
should be in your registry, a good rule of thumb is to double your guest list. For example, if you’re inviting 100 people, your registry should include around 200 gifting options. This range allows for guests to have plenty of options, while also not risking everything being already fulfilled for the last-minute shoppers.
12
DON’T WASTE THE GIFTING OPPORTUNITY
If there are “typical” wedding registry items that you don’t really need, don’t feel you have to include them. Yes, you’ll be registering for quite a number of items, but choose wisely. You don’t need to add everything just for the sake of it. For example, if you’re satisfied with your current towel set, no need to register for more.
13
UPDATE FREQUENTLY
With how quickly retailers go through their inventory, items will sell out or otherwise become unavailable. To make sure your guests aren’t opening up a
registry of mostly unavailable items, be sure to check in on your registries at least once a month to ensure they are up to date. Typically, retailers will have a replacement item that can be an easy switch.
14
DON’T PUT OFF THE THANK YOU NOTES
When we talk about registries, we have to bring up thank-you notes, don’t we? While the traditional gift table at receptions is still widely loved, many people now opt to send their gifts by mail — either a month before or after the wedding day. Our pro tip here is to write each thank-you note as soon as you receive the present. Doing so will ensure a prompt reply and keep the notes sounding authentic. Writing these letters as you receive the gifts will prevent you from batching them all at once — talk about hand cramps!
Keep everything organized so no one slips through the cracks — whether that means a digital spreadsheet or a handwritten notebook documenting the gift and who it came from. ■
Give my compliments TO THE CHEF
Making sure your culinary team hits the mark is a crucial part of ensuring a memorable day for your guests. Luckily, Chicago is home to some of the most talented chefs in the world. Here are two you should know.
Guenther Moreno
Executive Chef, The Ritz-Carlton, Chicago
Executive Chef Guenther Moreno, a Florida native, began to hone his passion for cooking at a young age by helping his grandmother prep and cook their Sunday family dinners. Moreno later enhanced his culinary skills at the Florida Culinary Institute (now Lincoln Culinary Institute) before starting his career working alongside the chefs at the five-star Ritz-Carlton, Palm Beach. Seeking new challenges and wanting to be exposed to different cuisines and cooking techniques, Moreno moved to the Windy City to work for The Peninsula Chicago before joining The RitzCarlton, Chicago team. The Midwestern region’s abundant resources of livestock and seasonal produce and his family continue to inspire Chef Guenther’s globally-inspired cuisine.
Dish: The Ritz-Carlton’s take on the Chicago classic – Chicken Vesuvio – with a twist on traditional ingredients, adding seasonal turnips, celery root and parsnips for a heartier dish.
Justin Frankenberg
Executive Chef, Museum of Science and Industry
Originating from Washington, D.C., the allure and adrenaline of the kitchen brought Chef Justin Frankenberg to the restaurant industry at a young age. After earning degrees in food science education and foodservice management, Chef Justin worked at notable D.C.-area restaurants including The Red Sage and Bistro Bis. After gaining 15 years of experience in the restaurant industry, he relocated to Chicago and ventured into catering for large-scale events. In 2022, he took on the role of Executive Chef at the Museum of Science and Industry, where he delights guests with his inventive creations.
Dish: Spiced panna cotta, eucalyptus gelee, Zhatar crisps, local vegetables and blood orange.
SOMETHING OLD, SOMETHING NEW...
You’ve heard the old rhetoric, “Something old, something new, something borrowed, something blue,” but what does it mean? Let’s dive in. This proverb stems from English folklore and offers a recipe many couples believe to be the precursor to a successful marriage. The rhyme outlines four items you must carry or incorporate into your wedding day for good luck.
While the tradition behind the rhyme has evolved, many nearlyweds still choose to incorporate these four elements into their weddings to honor tradition and bring good luck to their marriages.
Something
Old
“Something old” represents continuity and a connection to the marrier’s past. By incorporating something old into their wedding attire, the marrier acknowledges and honors their heritage, family and the life they are leaving behind as they enter a new phase of life.
Examples: Heirloom Jewelry Ceremony Readings Family Photographs Antique Getaway Car Historic Venue
SomethingNew
“Something new” symbolizes optimism, hope and the couple’s future. It’s a token of good fortune for the newlyweds as they embark on their journey together. The “something new” is often seen as a representation of the couple’s new life and the prosperity that comes with it.
Examples: Bridal Gown
Shoes
New Initials/Monogram
Perfume/Cologne
Hair Accessories
Something Borrowed
The tradition of “something borrowed” involves borrowing an item from a happily married couple, with the belief that the couple’s good fortune will be passed on to the new marriage. It’s a great way to incorporate the support and love of friends and family into the marriage.
Examples:
Fashion Accessories
Family Handkerchief
Cake/Sweets Recipe
Parents’ First Dance Song
Fabric from a Relative’s Gown Bouquet Lockets
Something Blue
Blue
Wearing
Examples:
Bridesmaids Dresses
Getting-Ready Pajamas
Sapphire Jewelry
Garter
Nail Polish
Blue Thread Embroidery
Ceremonies & Receptions
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HONEYMOONER ’ S HANDBOOK
PHOTOGRAPHY BY The Snells
nce upon a registry, two hearts became one, and the adventure of a lifetime was set to begin. Now that the whirlwind of wedding planning is behind you, it’s time to embark on your honeymoon! Honeymoons are a treasured tradition, allowing time for couples to relax, bond, and soak up their new marriage status. So beyond the obvious considerations — like location and duration — we’ve compiled a guide with essential travel suggestions. Transition from aisle to isles and make your honeymoon one for the ages!
GET LOGISTICS TOGETHER
First things first, make sure you’re able to travel! Consider the logistics of your trip, like transportation to and from the destination, as well as any necessary visas or vaccinations.
While these logistics might not be the most thrilling aspects of honeymoon planning, addressing them early can significantly contribute to a hassle-free and enjoyable trip. Take care of the basics first, then enjoy creating unforgettable moments with your new spouse. Here are some practical things to consider:
• Travel Documents: Ensure you have all the necessary travel documents, including passports and visas. Check the expiration dates well in advance and renew if necessary.
• Flight Details: Double-check your flight details, including departure and arrival times, layovers and potential delays. Make copies of your tickets and keep them in a safe place.
• Transportation: Besides getting to your destination, plan transportation once on the ground. Consider how to get from the airport to your accommodation and how you will get around the duration of your trip. Research transportation options, such as rental cars, airport shuttles or public transportation, and book in advance if needed.
• Currency and Banking: Inform your bank about your travel dates and destination to avoid any issues with credit/ debit card transactions. Familiarize yourself with the local currency and exchange rates.
• Electronics and Adapters: Check the voltage requirements of your destination and bring the appropriate power adapters for your electronic devices. Ensure your chargers are compatible with the local outlets.
• Pet Care: If you have pets, plan for their own (perhaps less exciting) getaway! Their care might involve hiring a pet sitter, boarding them or asking a friend or family member
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for assistance. Depending on the time of year, pet boarding facilities can book up quickly, so don’t delay!
TIP: If you or your partner are changing your last name upon marriage, plan accordingly. Either hold off on making the legal name change until after your honeymoon or don’t book your honeymoon travel details until your name is solidified. The name change process can take a while, and travel goes so much smoother when the name on your boarding pass matches your passport and banking info!
PACK PREPARED
When it comes to packing, hope for the best, but plan for the worst. From hurricanes to ice storms, weather can be unpredictable (as much as we cross our fingers and toes for smooth sailing). Check the weather forecast for your destination and pack accordingly. Don’t forget essentials like sunscreen, raincoats, weather-friendly footwear or umbrellas. Even if the forecast doesn’t call for rain, it’s never a bad idea to at least pack a poncho.
Additionally, take health precautions into account. On top of your basic first aid kit and necessary medications, be sure to research additional health concerns, like water treatment practices or environmental allergens, and pack treatments accordingly.
From antacids and aloe vera to raincoats and a sun hat — the time on your honeymoon is precious and you won’t want a day wasted because you didn’t pack the right tools.
BALANCE ADVENTURE AND RELAXATION
You’ve just started this exciting new chapter and you might be in the mood to keep introducing new things into your life. And by all means so! Your honeymoon is a great time to try out new activities (surfing, skiing, hiking, oh my!), but don’t overdo it. Plan for activities and excursions but also downtime and relaxation together. Packing your days full of adventure will make the time pass so quickly — you’ll be back on the plane in a blink! Enjoy the thrill of new experiences and
balance out that euphoria with the sweet serenity of marital bliss.
TAKE PERSONAL TIME
Yes, you’re excited to start your forever together but don’t feel like you’re obliged to spend every waking second together. Everyone needs some “me time”! Part of a healthy relationship is balance. For instance, if your partner wants to go zip-lining through a rainforest but you’re scared of heights — you don’t need to join them! Let each other enjoy everything your honeymoon destination has to offer, even if that means going solo. Just make sure you’re both on the same page when it comes to making separate plans.
DISCONNECT FOR QUALITY TIME
Phones down! Live in the moment and plan for periods without technology. Go in the hot tub, do sunrise yoga or take a local cuisine cooking class. Smartphones are great for research, translation and photo-taking, but don’t let them control your trip.
That being said — consider mobile phone roaming charges! Communicate travel details with your cell phone provider or purchase a local SIM card or international phone plan to avoid excessive charges.
START SPREADING THE NEWS
Don’t be shy — share the news that this is your honeymoon! You’d be surprised how many upgrades or special gifts you’ll receive once word gets around that this is a special trip. From flight check-in (hello seat upgrades) to tagging your resort on social media posts, drop the H-word and see what happens. Certainly don’t expect special treatment, but also don’t shy away from letting folks know. People love celebrating romance, so let them! You never know what exciting bonuses could come your way.
Considering all these factors, you’ll be well on your way to creating a honeymoon that sets the tone for a lifetime of beautiful memories together. Cheers to the beginning of your happily ever after! ■
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SUZETTE & MARC
It took just one date for Suzette and Marc to know they had found something special. After five years of cherished adventures, the couple tied the knot alongside the iconic Chicago River. So, on a warm September morning, Suzette and Marc celebrated with a River Roast Sunday brunch wedding.
With Marc’s hometown of Kansas City and Suzette’s roots in the Philadelphia area, the couple wanted to treat their out-of-town visitors to a quintessential Chicago experience. River Roast, with its riverside setting and exceptional cuisine, was the perfect venue choice.
Florist and decorator Atmosphere Events Group curated a sophisticated fall ambiance at River Roast, with white flowers like striking king proteas and delicate garden roses. The olive green and gold color palette created a warm and sophisticated aura, adding the right earthy touch against all the textured shades of white.
Flickering candles flanked the aisle and cast a romantic ambiance on the ceremony. However, Suzette and Marc’s heartfelt vows alone would have been enough to illuminate the room. Guests were left happily teary-eyed as the couple exchanged loving words and proclaimed, “I do.”
The energy and beauty of the ceremony transitioned into an equally lovely reception. Guests enjoyed a delicious brunch spread, and the joy-filled celebration continued with speeches and dancing.
Suzette and Marc’s wedding day reflected the effortlessness of their relationship dynamic. From the venue that spoke for itself to the contagious grins on the couple’s faces, this September wedding was the epitome of elegance, beauty and grace.
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Anamaria Vieriu Photography
VENUE: River Roast
PLANNER: The Simply Elegant Group
FLORAL & DÉCOR: Atmosphere Events Group
BRIDE’S GOWN: Eisen Stein from Mira Couture
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux
HAIR: Viktoriia Kuznetsova
MAKEUP: Makeup by Alyssa Cruz
STATIONERY: Minted
CATERING: River Roast
CAKE: Bittersweet Pastry Shop
FAVORS: Garrett Popcorn
ENTERTAINMENT: Mattrix Music & Entertainment
COURTNEY & JULIANA
In an atmosphere resembling an exclusive dinner party, Courtney and Juliana celebrated their intimate wedding alongside 60 cherished guests.
Both originally from the East Coast, Courtney and Juliana only recently moved to Chicago. Hosting the wedding in their new city felt like the perfect way to kickstart this new chapter together. As they settled into their new home, they were delighted to gather their nearest and dearest to celebrate.
Besides celebrating their love, the couple wanted to express gratitude to those who supported them along the way. With this, finding the perfect venue was key — one that exuded intimacy but was spacious enough for both the ceremony and reception. In their venue search, Tied House in Lakeview immediately stole their hearts with its well-crafted menu, welcoming staff and a patina-finish fireplace that emanated charm.
The evening unfolded gracefully, transitioning from a heartfelt ceremony outdoors to Tied House’s cozy bar area, where guests mingled over cocktails. Before returning to the main floor, everyone enjoyed a sumptuous dinner on the venue’s second floor. Courtney and Juliana wanted their loved ones to connect and savor each other’s company, so they stirred up the seating arrangements, sparking new conversations and creating beautiful memories. By the time guests returned to the main floor for dancing, it was like everyone was old friends.
From a heartfelt ceremony officiated by their brother-in-law to personalized vows with a guitar serenade, every moment added up to a perfect day. Surrounded by loved ones from various stages of their lives, this wedding is a testament to the strength and beauty of shared experiences and treasured connections.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Tawny Ballard Photography
GETTING READY VENUE: The Robey Chicago
VENUE: Tied House
FLORAL: Field & Florist
COURTNEY’S GOWN: BHLDN
JULIANA’S TOP: BHLDN
JULIANA’S TROUSERS: Catherine Deane
STATIONERY: Zola
CATERING: Tied House
CAKE: Petal & Moon Pastry
ENTERTAINMENT: DJ Moonlanding
JENNA & KYLE
Jenna and Kyle’s love found its perfect stage in the heart of Chicago. Their traditional wedding day weaves a tapestry of timelessness, evoking both their classic love and the storied charm of the Second City.
The couple’s ceremony was held at Fourth Presbyterian Church, a gem among the city’s architectural wonders. Located in the heart of the Magnificent Mile, their grand ceremony exit onto Michigan Avenue makes for a picture-perfect first introduction as husband and wife.
For their reception, Theater on the Lake transformed into an ethereal space with an overarching black and white theme. Accented with subtle touches of gold and green, this aesthetic captured their subtle yet refined style. Modern elements — like clear ghost chairs and bold typographic fonts — intermingled seamlessly with the romantic ambiance crafted by chandeliers, string lighting and an abundance of greenery. Jenna, wearing a stunning bow-backed silk Mikado gown, and Kyle, resplendent in a sleek black tuxedo, presented an undeniable picture of elegance in this striking setting.
Jenna and Kyle’s day continued on as not just a wedding, but an allencompassing celebration. Their spirited entourage, led by all 24 members of their large wedding party, certainly kept spirits high throughout the festivities. Following suit, their reception band, Orchestra 33, ensured the dance floor was alive all night with a blend of modern beats with nostalgic tunes.
From the skyline views at Theater on the Lake to Lou Malnati’s deep-dish pizza as the reception late night snack, Jenna and Kyle’s wedding script wasn’t just their love story but also a love letter to the city of Chicago.
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
VENDOR LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Rachael Osborn Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Old North Film Company
CEREMONY VENUE: Fourth Presbyterian Church
RECEPTION VENUE: Theater on the Lake
PLANNER: Designed & Detailed Event Management
FLORAL: Flowers for Dreams
BRIDE’S GOWN: Justin Alexander from Wolsfelt’s Bridal
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: The Black Tux
RINGS: Windy City Diamonds
HAIR & MAKEUP: Tamara Makeup and Hair Artistry
STATIONERY: Sweet Thangs Design
SIGNAGE: XO Art & Design
CATERING: Food For Thought
CAKE: Fiene’s Bakery
GELATO: Black Dog Gelato
RENTALS: Hall’s Rental
LINENS: BBJ La Tavola
ENTERTAINMENT: Orchestra 33
WEDDING PARTY TROLLEY: Second City Trolley
GUEST TRANSPORTATION: Aries Charter
MICHELLE & SHANE
After 10 years as a luxury wedding planner at LOLA Event Productions, it’s safe to say Michelle and her partner Shane had dreamt of their own wedding day quite a bit. “We were excited to give our loved ones a taste of what we get to experience on an everyday basis,” says Michelle. So they poured their heart and souls into every detail to ensure the day was nothing less than their wildest dreams.
With the rich jewel tones, velvet and animal prints of the wedding party’s attire setting the tone, Michelle and Shane went on to kick off their wedding with a bang. The couple welcomed their guests into the venue with a preceremony cocktail hour — with the bride and groom themselves as the bartenders! As the couple whipped up signature cocktails and smiled for selfies with their “customers,” any of their pre-wedding nerves were relaxed.
The ceremony took place in the round under a breathtaking floating, floral altar by HMR Designs and Frost. Nodding to their global travels, the aisle was adorned with black and white striped planter boxes inspired by the Colonnes de Buren in Paris and they exchanged vows standing on a rug they’d purchased in Marrakech. Officiated by Michelle’s two brothers, the ceremony included musical vows, a unity cocktail ceremony and so much laughter.
A lively reception ensued, with Mae District’s reception space bursting with color, pattern and texture. “The goal for this space was to make it seem as though we were inviting guests into our home,” says Michelle. From sentimental handwritten escort cards to petite, boozy milkshakes on the dance floor, Michelle and Shane’s celebration was truly oneof-a-kind and entirely them.
To see more photos from this real wedding, go to chicagostyleweddings.com/real-weddings.
VENDOR
LIST
PHOTOGRAPHER: Erin Hoyt Photography
VIDEOGRAPHER: Hwu Studios
VENUE: Mae District
PLANNER: LOLA Event Productions
FLORAL & DÉCOR: HMR Designs
BRIDE’S GOWN: Eisen Stein Bridal from Mark Ingram Atelier
BRIDE’S SHOES: Sophia Webster
GROOM’S FORMALWEAR: Emanuele Tuxedo
GROOMSMEN’S JACKETS: Studio Suits
JEWELRY: Barbara Parker Fine Jewelry
RINGS: Blue Nile, Brilliant Earth
HAIR & MAKEUP: Bianca Sansosti Artistry
STATIONERY: Steracle Press
CATERING: Food for Thought
CAKE: ECBG Cake Studio
LINENS & RENTALS: BBJ La Tavola, Hall’s Rentals, Lola Valentina, Nuage Designs
LIGHTING: Frost Chicago
ENTERTAINMENT: Elegant Sound and Lighting
PHOTO BOOTH: ShutterBooth
TRANSPORTATION: Signature Transportation Group
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