Your Sussex Wedding - Aug/Sept 2023 (Issue 104)

YOUR VENUE YOUR WAY

Tilgate Park has long been known as a top visitor destination in the heart of the south. Fans come from far and wide to enjoy more than 200 acres of woodland, gardens, lakes and even a mini zoo. Now this beautiful venue has opened its doors for unique weddings.

THE WALLED GARDEN

Playing host to peaceful formal gardens and ponds, an evergreen hedge maze, events arena and cafe, the Walled Garden is the perfect location for celebrations like yours.

Entering the magnificent tall wooden gates of the Walled Garden, it’s like stepping into a secret garden, being greeted by a 40-metre long pergola of beautiful wisteria, roses, clematis and grape vines. The Family Garden within has been transformed into a magical private garden, able to seat up to 100 guests either side of the aisle leading to a wooden arbour where the ceremony can take place.

Afterwards, it’s the ideal location to serve your guests with some prereception drinks whilst you take the opportunity to explore the rest of the park with your photographer. For something different, animal lovers may want to visit the Nature Centre to take photos with the fun-loving meerkats or adorable goats.

EVENTS ARENA

At the other end of the pergola, the Arena is the perfect location to host a wedding breakfast and/or evening reception in our brand new marquee. Our 24m x 12m marquee is fully lined with ivory drapes, has chandeliers, fairy lights, and a hard floor which is carpeted. It also includes an amazing Zone Array speaker system which provides fantastic sound for dancing but also ensures your guests can chat amongst themselves comfortably whilst sitting only a few metres away.

Outside the marquee the Arena, which measures more than 1,000 square metres, provides ample room for extra entertainment like giant garden games, a mobile bar or catering and it’s conveniently located next to the evergreen hedge maze where both young and old enjoy finding each other around each twist and turn.

Although there’s no guarantee that the sun will shine, we have the advantage of also having The Barn, which is licensed, so you can choose to move indoors if you prefer.

On the cover

This issue’s beautiful cover was captured by Alessandro Piolanti Photography (www.alessandropiolanti.com) at Hyde Estate in Haywards Heath. You can enjoy the shoot in its entirety from page 49.

FEATURES

49 LOVE’S YOUNG DREAM

Pampas grass is still having a moment thanks to its versatility. Here, it’s showcased alongside pops of opulent burgundy and rust

59 OH, GO ON THEN!

Wedding cake trends to look out for

53 PICTURE THIS

Find out what to expect from your wedding photographer every step of the way

FASHION & BEAUTY

65 FASHION FOCUS

The latest bridal fashion news, buys and launches

66 IT’S AN ILLUSION

These bridal dresses with barely-there detail are sheer perfection

73 LOOK SHARP

Nothing says girl power like a tailored bridal suit or jumpsuit

79 BEAUTY Q&A

Look and feel your big-day best with help from the professionals

80 BEAUTY BUZZ

Get the look with the latest must-haves

82 BEING SOPHIE

Sophie Stonehouse on body positivity, selflove and flawless skin

REAL WEDDINGS

30 SUMMERTIME DUSKY BLUES

Jo and Jonah tied the knot at Gildredge Manor on 28th August, 2022

37 GOTHIC ROMANCE

Zoe and Nick celebrated their wedding day with a super-cool and edgy Tim Burton theme

43 A FAMILY AFFAIR

Rachael and Mathew opted for a fun, relaxed, garden party vibe for their big day, and made sure their children were involved every step of the way

HONEYMOONS

84 HONEYMOON NEWS

Our travel editor reveals the newest openings and honeymoon essentials

86 MY FIRST, MY LAST, MY EVERYTHING

Discover five-star, desert island luxury at Conrad Maldives Rangali Island

88 A CELTIC HAVEN

Peace and tranquillity await honeymoons at Galgorm in Northern Ireland

GROOMS

76 GROOMS’ NEWS

The latest best buys and product launches

CB Event group was incorporated in 2017 as a disco and event company establishing relationships with hotels and late-night economy venues. With highly experienced DJ’s our team are on hand to make your event special and run smoothly getting your guests to fill the dancefloor and feel like VIP’s.

We treat your big day as if it was our own by doing this we offer free consultations to our couples to talk about your big day to take the stress away of your entertainment needs.

We also offer other services for your big day including:

The perfect country wedding venue set within 247 acres of stunning Sussex countryside

Ceremony Room, Reception Rooms, Enclosed Courtyard, Outdoor Ceremony Space, Lakes, Bar & Restaurant, 26 Hotel Rooms, 7 Self-Catering Lodges, Health Club, Swimming Pool, Beauty Salon & 27 Holes of Golf

Cottesmore Hotel Golf & Country Club, Buchan Hill, Pease Pottage, Crawley, West Sussex, RH11 9AT T: 01293 528256 E: events@cottesmoregolf.co.uk

Brand new function rooms and romantic outdoor ceremony space nestled within a tranquil tree lined glade licensed for up to 150 guests

Photography by jacobmalinski.com

ADVERTISING

Account Manager

Lorraine Whitehead | 01376 535 607 lorraine.whitehead@county.wedding

Walking on sunshine

Icannot believe that my dear friends Melissa and Dave have just celebrated their first anniversary! Where on earth did that year go? For those of you who are new to the magazine and, possibly happily for you, missed my endless and excited rambles about preparing to be a bridesmaid for fellow CWM editor Melissa, I hope you’ll indulge me as I reminisce!

Not wanting to start out on a negative note, but hands up: I hate the summer. It’s just too hot! Many a time I’ve contemplated taking a summer home in Iceland, but alas the budget doesn’t permit. But in 2022, my season horribilis was made all the merrier by the excitement of a wedding. Sage green and blush pink was the palette of choice, while the vibe was rustic. Still on trend this year, I would hazard to say that it’s a timeless theme. On 22nd July, we’d just about made it through the hottest days of the year, when thank goodness, the temperatures started to cool to a bearable level. An al fresco ceremony, a reception with the venues’ folding doors flung open, and some memorable moments for the newlyweds spent with their photographer in the nearby cornfields during golden hour: It was all a summer wedding should be, and more.

EDITORIAL

Deputy Managing Editor

Kelly Andrews | 01376 535 611 kelly.andrews@county.wedding

I’ll admit to liking one thing about the season though, and it came into play on Melissa and Dave’s big day, as indeed it would at any wonderful summer wedding. First and foremost, it’s the long days. Making the best of the great outdoors is something we can do to the max at this time of year. There are no more hours in the day, of course, but somehow it feels like there are, which is a huge plus when you’re celebrating such a momentous occasion. So, if you’re thinking about hosting your entire day outside, you won’t want to miss the advice of our experts over in Hot Topic from page 62. Or if you want to at least have the option to spill out of your venue and into some glorious surroundings, check out our waterside venues feature from page 25.

I hope you find inspiration aplenty among the pages of our summer issue. And, as ever, enjoy and keeeep planning!

Kelly Andrews, editor

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MANAGING DIRECTOR

Sarah Ellis | 01376 535 602 sarah.ellis@county.wedding

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37 DO YOUR THING

Beetlejuice is a huge childhood favourite of mine, so when I saw Zoe and Nick’s photos from their Tim Burton-themed nuptials, I immediately knew what they were referencing in this one. Love it!

Your Sussex Wedding is solely owned, published and designed by KD Events & Publishing Ltd. Whilst every effort was made to ensure the information in this magazine was correct at the time of going to press, the publishers cannot accept legal responsibility for any errors or omissions, nor can they accept responsibility for advert content, or of the standing of advertisers or by the editorial contributions. The views expressed do not necessarily reflect those of the publisher. Your Sussex Wedding is published six times a year.

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UNDERNEATH THE ARCHES

Pampas grass is oh-so on trend for rustic and boho weddings.

I’m obsessed with this amazing wedding breakfast table tunnel. It must have been even more stunning and romantic blowing in the breeze.

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PERFECTLY PLANNED

Real bride Jo says, “We went to different venues’ open days and to wedding fairs to meet suppliers, and carefully did our own research before booking the key elements three years in advance to make sure we got exactly what we wanted. We then wrote a list of everything else we needed to think about, and took it all in bite-sized chunks. Even in the last few weeks there was no stress or rush because everything had been carefully planned and taken care of.”

91 WIN!

A honeymoon in Koh Samui, Thailand

Set in the South Downs National Park on the outskirts of Worthing, this stunning Grade I listed Castle was described as “The most romantic Castle in the Land,” by the Great Romantic poet, Lord Byron.

The Castle has many magnificent areas that can be used to stage your fairy tale day, including the grand State Rooms and State Dining Room with the table formerly used at Buckingham Palace. The Castle’s famous horseshoe staircase, installed by Queen Victoria’s Equerry, is one of the most popular settings for wedding party photographs.

We offer two stunning locations to hold your Ceremony, the beautiful Ceremonial Hall with its double height ceiling, or on the South Lawns with the fabled GrecoRoman façade as your backdrop or alter. Combined with our award-winning catering, Castle Goring provides one of the most breathtaking wedding venues anywhere.

ONE LIFE AT A TIME

Sam Dickinson, a 25-year-old who has recently started working at Ashdown Park Hotel & Country Club in the kitchen, has a story to tell. He’d been living at Crawley Open House Hostel for the last three months after running out of accommodation options. An initiative set up by the hostel to help residents into work gave Sam the opportunity to participate in a cooking workshop at the Parsons Pig Pub in Crawley, where he impressed so much that he came to the attention of the team at Ashdown Park.

Executive chef, Tony Sanders, agreed to give Sam a trial and was immediately impressed, and soon after offered him a live-in commis chef job working alongside him. Sam has been working at the Hotel for four months now and absolutely loves it.

Tina Bricknell, sales and marketing manager at Ashdown Park Hotel & Country Club says, “Sam has seamlessly integrated into the team here. We’re overjoyed by his progress and sincerely wish him the utmost success in his future endeavours. This is how you help to make a dent in homelessness, one life at a time.”

Find out more about the venue at www.ashdownpark.com

Nearlywed

NEWS

Catch up on the latest from around the county

IN WITH THE NEW

Kane Harman of East Sussex-based Kandid Kane Photography, captures weddings all over the South East. His preferred style of photography is to shoot real, genuine moments of you and your loved ones celebrating your big day. Kane is passionate about taking a candid approach, getting natural shots while avoiding the need to take you away from your guests for too long. He’ll work with you and around your schedule to ensure any posed and formal group shots are as quick and efficient as possible helping your day to move along smoothly.

Kane says, “Being a wedding photographer is more than turning up with a camera. It’s noticing the little details you’ve gone to so much effort to create. It’s capturing the moments you’ll never forget but love to look at over and over again. It’s capturing those moments you missed. It’s anticipating guests’ embraces after too long apart. It’s noticing the way your loved one looks at you, as you see each other for the first time.”

RAISE YOUR GLASS

When Lucy Prout-Laing from Uniquely You Ceremonies started life as a celebrant she was surprised by how many people told her they hated speaking in public, and that although they loved the wedding, they were filled with dread when it came to making the speech. “As someone who, once upon a time, would melt into a bucket of nerves at the mere idea of standing up and speaking in front of people I was in a good position to help,” she says.

Lucy has recently added the offer of speech writing and coaching to Uniquely You Ceremonies, which also covers ceremonies and inclusive wedding planning. During a free consultation, Lucy will talk through the sticking points of speech writing and what happens when you speak in public. “Keeping services personal and individually focused remains at the heart of every aspect of my business,” she continues. Speech coaching sessions cover everything from writing the speech to the technical side of speech delivery and, importantly, how to deal with those pesky public speaking nerves.

To find out more or book a free consultation, head over to www.uniquelyyouceremonies.co.uk

Now, it’s even easier to find out what Kandid Kane can bring to your wedding day as he’s recently launched a swish new website featuring all of his latest package options including Bronze, Silver and Gold levels. Other new offerings include albums, highlight videos and same-day sneak peek photos.

Why not check it out? Head over to www.kandidkane.co.uk

LIFE’S A BEACH

Are you in search of somewhere extraordinary to host your hen party? Look no further than the recently revealed i360 Beach Club, situated on the renowned beachfront in Brighton.

If you’ve been dreaming of the vibrant party scenes of Mykonos or Ibiza but can’t quite make it there, this vibrant and trendy establishment offers everything you need for an unforgettable hen party experience, making it the ideal choice for your celebration.

The Club offers good music, fun and friendly staff, comfortable seating and plenty of photo opportunities. Its prime location, right on Brighton’s buzzing seafront, allows you to enjoy stunning beach views with the lively atmosphere, while soaking up the sun and party vibes.

The i360 Beach Club is open from Thursday to Monday throughout the summer, so gather your gang and get ready for an incredible day or night out.

Check out https://brightoni360.co.uk

THINK PINK

Surrounded by English vineyards and tucked behind the steep sand dunes of Camber Sands, The Gallivant’s summer terrace is the destination for wine lovers this summer, as it looks to pay homage to the UK’s finest pours of rosé. Home to one of the largest English wine lists in the country and with privileged access to some of the finest local producers, the boutique property has curated a delectable menu of carefully selected rosé wines, all English, for its idyllic summer terrace.

The menu boasts an impressive selection, featuring Folc Dry English Rosé, the enticing vegan Simpsons Railway Hill Pinot Noir Rosé with its alluring aromas of watermelon and crushed strawberries, the refreshing and crisp Oxney Organic Rosé, Artelium Pinto Meunier Rosé and Gusbourne English Rosé. Guests can delight in delicate wine with floral expressions to bold and fruity notes. Wine is paired with seasonal seafood such as fresh Atlantic prawns, steamed mussels, Maldon rock oysters, and Dungeness crab cocktail, with vegetarian options also available. Bookings for the terrace are advised, check out https://thegallivant.co.uk for more.

AL FRESCO “I DOS”

The latest exciting news to come from The Grand Hotel in Eastbourne is that it’s now offering outdoor ceremonies for up to 120 guests. The al fresco ceremony space provides a stunning backdrop for you to exchange your vows in the tranquillity of a garden setting by the sea.

Whether you dream of an intimate gathering or a grand affair, the outdoor ceremony area at The Grand can accommodate your vision and ensure a truly unforgettable experience. What’s more, the venue’s team of dedicated wedding coordinators are on hand to help create your perfect nuptials working closely with you to bring it all to life. For further information contact the events team on 01323 412 345 or at weddings@grandeastbourne.com

Known by locals as The White Palace the five-star Hotel has also recently seen the complete refurbishment of 28 superior bedrooms, as well as a total overhaul of the bathrooms in the luxury suites. The new-look rooms showcase a combination of understated luxury with topof-the-range amenities and stylish, warm lighting and interiors.

Check out www.grandeastbourne.com

EDITOR LOVES

Pssst... We recently discovered that Cottesmore Hotel Golf & Country Club has a beautiful new Getting Ready Dressing Room just waiting for its brides and their squad. It’s adorned with no fewer than five seated make-up stations for you and your bridesmaids to use! Check out the sneak peak images we managed to get our hands on! Find out more at www.cottesmoregolf.co.uk

Image courtesy of Brighton

Hi, I’m Vicky,

With a background as an actor, broadcaster and writer, I’m a celebrant with a broad skill set, a big imagination and a fabulous network of contacts.

From romantic elopements to weddings with bells, whistles and Mariachi bands, I’ll ensure that your ceremony is as individual as you are; an occasion that ts you as comfortably as a pair of trusty old Doc Martens, but that sparkles like crystal-encrusted Jimmy Choos.

WIN A STUNNING LOCKET FROM POSH TOTTY DESIGNS

Brighton-based Posh Totty Designs creates original handmade and personalised jewellery in its coastal workshop. The female founder-led team of professional jewellers believe in unique, forever jewellery using recycled sterling silver and gold, and ethically-sourced gemstones. They also plant a tree with every order.

Posh Totty Designs has now created a Wedding Shop Collection, full of gorgeous crafted jewellery for the whole wedding party, including beautifully handmade engagement and wedding rings. The team will even send you a video from the workshop of your ring being created.

Now, you have the chance to own your very own piece of the magic. This issue we’re offering readers of Your Sussex Wedding the opportunity to win the timeless Floral Wedding Initials Round Locket, worth from £79, which combines classic and contemporary design. The locket pendant is intricately engraved with your chosen initials, and can also be fitted with your precious photos to create a truly personal piece. The locket is available in sterling silver or with a high quality yellow or rose gold plate. Head over to www.your-sussex.wedding/giveaways to enter before 30th September, 2023.

Find out more at www.poshtottydesigns.com

GET 15% OFF ONLINE AT THE LITTLE BOTANICAL

Make your wedding day a feast for the senses with gorgeous greenery from Sussex-based The Little Botanical, whether you’re looking to elevate your big day décor with living plants, or searching for the perfect gifts for your wedding party.

From centrepieces infused with fragrant herbs and large plants adding architectural interest, to the sweetest personalised succulent wedding favours, The Little Botanical’s range of plants and stylish pots are guaranteed to add a beautiful touch to your big day.

We’re excited to tell you that Your Sussex Wedding readers can enjoy 15% off everything when you shop online at The Little Botanical. Just use the code YOURSUSSEX15 at the checkout to claim your offer. Offer ends 30th September, 2023.

Freebies & OFFERS

Great discounts and giveaways up for grabs

Find out more at https://thelittlebotanical.com

WIN A STAY IN THE LAKE DISTRICT

Lakeside Hotel & Spa blends country house character with contemporary four-star luxury set within the stunning panoramic views of Lake Windermere – part of the spectacular Lake District World Heritage Site. With its unique location and choice of reception rooms and private suites, the hotel can cater for intimate wedding parties, larger weddings of up to 80 guests and even secret escape weddings just for two, making it the ideal setting and venue for an unforgettable Lake District wedding.

The winner of this fantastic prize will be greeted with a glass of Lanson Champagne upon arrival and enjoy a three-course dinner for two before settling down for a good night’s sleep in a double room. The following morning, the winner can enjoy a delicious full English breakfast or Continental version.

Classic Lodges is a nationwide collection of exclusive hotels that all have exceptional charm and character, whether that’s a peaceful country getaway or a city centre stay.

Each of the hotels provides a friendly, relaxing atmosphere while maintaining Classic Lodges’ signature style, comfort and luxury. Steeped in history, all of the hotels have equally stunning views to accompany the suites and rooms.

Visit www.classiclodges.co.uk/specialoffers to book a stay. For your chance to win, visit our website. Terms and conditions apply.

WEDDING SHOWS AUTUMN 2023

ALL EVENTS 11AM - 3PM

unless otherwise stated

At County Wedding Events each show is professionally and meticulously run to ensure a variety of suppliers are on hand to help you plan your big day and are hosted by some of the loveliest premier venues in your area.

All our shows offer you free entry and parking, a goody bag each containing gifts, and useful local information to plan your wedding. You will also have the opportunity to enter prize draw competitions and take advantage of exclusive offers and discounts on the day.

EAST MIDLANDS

SURREY

SUSSEX

SUN 8 OCT | LAYER MARNEY TOWER Layer Marney, Colchester, CO5 9US

SUN 29 OCT | HOUCHINS WEDDING VENUE Houchin’s Lane, Coggeshall, Colchester, CO6 1RT

SUN 1 OCT | MULBERRY HOUSE Chelmsford Road, High Ongar, CM5 9NL

SUN 22 OCT | BRAXTED PARK Great Braxted, Witham, CM8 3EN

SUN 15 OCT | THAT AMAZING PLACE Hubbards Hall Farm, Harlow, CM17 0NH

SUN 22 OCT | SELDEN BARNS Selden Lane, Patching, Worthing, BN13 3UL

SUN 15 OCT | RUSHTON HALL Desborough Road, Rushton, Kettering, NN14 1RR

SUN 1 OCT | NUTFIELD PRIORY Nutfield Road, Nutfield, Redbridge, RH1 4EL

Signature

WEDDING SHOWS

• Free entry • First 100 couples receive a free wedding journal keepsake

• Goody bag for each couple • Up to 200 stands • Bridal fashion shows

• Huge number of wedding specialists including venues

• Competitions

• Entertainment

ASCOT RACECOURSE

High Street, Berkshire, SL5 7JX

SUNDAY 1 OCTOBER 2023 | 11AM - 3.30PM

WEMBLEY STADIUM

London, HA9 0WS

SUNDAY 8 OCTOBER 2023 | 11AM - 4PM

MERCEDES-BENZ WORLD

Brooklands Drive, Weybridge, KT13 0SL

SUNDAY 29 OCTOBER 2023 | 11AM - 3:30PM

Pre-register and attend the show to have a chance to win a fabulous spa break worth £250 courtesy of

• Demonstration areas

• Refreshments

• And more...

Pre-register at www.countyweddingevents.com/registration

GREAT EXPECTATIONS

Here at County Wedding Magazines and Events HQ we’re looking forward to kickstarting our Autumn 2023 wedding show season – perfect for all those couples that got engaged over the Summer period.

From must-visit local fairs in some of the region’s best wedding venues to our larger Signature Wedding Shows, we can’t wait to welcome nearlyweds to our events and help plan their wedding day.

Each event will boast a huge range of specialists who will be on hand to talk through your planning ideas and requirements; venues, bridal boutiques, photographers, florists, cake makers and more, there’s everything you could need to plan your wedding under one roof.

On the day refreshments will be available to purchase from each of the venue’s on-site restaurants, bars and cafés.

Couples will need to pre-register in advance for an allocated arrival time, although on the day visitors are always welcome, and attending our shows are free!

For more information, visit County Wedding Events’ website.

We look forward to seeing you at one of our events.

X Sarah

A date for your diary...

Sarah Ellis, Sales and Events Director County Wedding Events.

Psst! Our pre-registered Signature Wedding Show visitors will have the chance to win a £250 gift voucher courtesy of Spabreaks.com

For the most important day of your life, look no further than Sandman Signature London Gatwick Hotel.

We know that your wedding day is the realisation of your dreams, so let us tailor-make an event so it is as individual as you are.

Our beautiful Vancouver Suite is the perfect place to say ‘I do’ with a license to welcome up to 150 special guests to watch you become legally married.

We welcome you to the Canadian Suite, our wedding receptions space. Adjoining a private pre-event area including a full bar it’s the perfect place to celebrate your love and dance the night away.

Scent My Wedding

by Sassy & Lolla

Sassy & Lolla specialise in beautiful fragrances for your home & now for your wedding.

Whether you are looking for bespoke wedding favours or for your actual wedding day to be scented, we have an incredible range of scents to choose from or we can find a scent just for you.

CRAWLEY AND HORSHAMSpotlight on...

Tie the knot in a local hotspot

BALCOMBE PLACE

01444 811 167 | www.balcombeplace.com

Tucked away at the end of a private drive, in the heart of the Sussex countryside, surrounded by the greater Balcombe Estate, you’ll find Balcombe Place. With views of the landscaped garden and the farreaching Downs, the house epitomises British country living.

Available as an exclusive-use property, Balcombe Place is the perfect house for you to make your home. Whether you’re there for the day, or the weekend, it will only be filled with your guests. It offers flexibility to use it as you wish, allowing you to create the day you’ve always dreamed of. The luxury, elegance and grandeur of Balcombe Place makes it an idyllic backdrop for your celebrations.

The location of your ceremony is completely up to you, depending on your requirements and subject to the signing of the register. Choose anywhere from the opulent drawing room to keeping it simple on the lawn accompanied by 120 loved ones. The Library boasts dark wood panelling and an ornate ceiling. It’s an intimate space to say “I do” surrounded by

30 guests. The Music Room is a showstopping space with a tall arched ceiling, wooden panelling, an organ and minstrel gallery. It’s a room like none you’ve seen before and can host 120 nearest and dearest.

If you’d prefer a traditional church wedding however, there are a number of local churches nearby. St Mary’s in Balcombe for example is just three minutes down the road.

After your vows, enjoy drinks and canapés on the lawn, with the house as your backdrop allowing guests to wander around the house’s five glorious reception rooms. Whether it’s garden games and Pimm’s in the sunshine, or warming fires and mulled wine, Balcombe Place is ready to celebrate whatever the season.

The Music Room and Drawing Room can also host receptions for 80 and 40 guests seated respectively. The Billiard Room, connected to the Music Room by two large archways, offers additional seating for another 30 guests at round tables. Finally, you can extend the house with a marquee to seat more guests. You can open the sides to enjoy the garden and views. Here, you can accommodate up to 350 loved ones.

SANDMAN SIGNATURE LONDON GATWICK HOTEL

01293 561 186 | www.sandmansignature.co.uk

Near to Gatwick Airport, close to vibrant Brighton and a leisurely hours’ drive from the beautiful South Downs, you’ll find this super-stylish hotel. With so much to see and do nearby, your guests won’t be short of a spot of sightseeing if they’re staying over after your big day. Nymans Gardens, Hever Castle, Wakehurst Place, Tilgate Park and Bluebell Steam Railway are all only a short drive away.

The wedding team here is fully aware that your wedding day is the realisation of your dreams, and offers a selection of flexible wedding options. Alternatively, tailor-make an event that’s as individual as you are. These dedicated folks will be on hand to ensure your day goes off without a hitch leaving you to relax and make memories. They’re ready and waiting to talk to you about your ideas and share some new ones; after all, your wish is their command!

The Hotel’s dedicated events floor includes the Vancouver Suite. Flooded with natural daylight, it holds a licence to welcome up to 150 loved ones. If you’d prefer a more intimate ceremony however, the team are more than happy to assist in your planning.

The Canadian Suite is the place to be for wedding receptions. Adjoining a private pre-event area including a full bar, it’s the perfect place to celebrate your big-day and dance the night away. With space for up to 150 guests, this suite provides an ideal bright, blank canvas to create your own backdrop. The team can introduce you to their trusted suppliers, and with private facilities you’ll feel happily enclosed in your own bubble.

Here, you can make the most of your celebrations and invite your guests to stay overnight and benefit from special accommodation rates. Each of the Hotel’s 151 bedrooms has air conditioning, en-suite bathrooms, flat screen LCD TVs and complimentary Wi-Fi.

LEONARDSLEE LAKES & GARDENS

01403 220 345 | www.leonardsleegardens.co.uk/weddings

The beautiful 19th-century Italianate-style mansion house offers the perfect setting for a stylish wedding ceremony and reception, with additional space in the bespoke marquee alongside the house. The rooms are spacious, with high ceilings and views across the magnificent grounds.

The classic style of the mansion with its beautiful new fountain, offers a romantic setting for your arrival. The imposing front of the house features impressive trees and shrubs, collected from around the world, all well-

tended and nurtured. One of the finest woodland gardens in England, the Grade I listed grounds here offer outstanding displays of rhododendrons, azaelas, camellias, magnolias and bluebells. Plus, the 240-acre estate features lakes, woodlands and parkland, a Pulham rock garden built in 1890 and a dolls’ house museum and vineyard.

Ceremonies witnessed by 90 nearest and dearest take place in the main room of the mansion house. While receptions are hosted in the 200-guest capacity marquee alongside it. The venue runs a series of wedding fairs throughout the year with free entry, so do keep an eye on its website and social media for updates.

Hardings are a family run bespoke catering business based in Sussex who specialise in weddings, private and corporate events.

We pride ourselves on our exceptional service and strive to help our clients to create bespoke packages to suit all requirements, tastes, and budgets which will ensure that your event runs with seamless precision.

www.hardingscatering.co.uk info@hardingscatering.co.uk 01903 212 869

Balcombe Place is a shining example of a large country house set within stunning grounds with far-reaching views of the Sussex Downs. Balcombe Place is a property to be envied and desired and

COTTESMORE HOTEL GOLF AND COUNTRY CLUB

01293 528 256 | www.cottesmoregolf.co.uk

This stunning West Sussex countryside wedding venue offers stylish wedding function rooms, a farmhouse-styled restaurant, health club, swimming pool and beauty salon. The beautiful Getting Ready Dressing Room is adorned with five seated make-up stations for you and your bridesmaids to use. Plus, the welcoming hotel reception hosts a log burner and bespoke furnishings to welcome your guests.

The existing club house and hotel is part of the original charm and character of the 1884 farm buildings. The new parts have been carefully constructed to match the original brickwork, while dark drey window frames and panoramic views over the courses add to that contemporary look that’s sought after in buildings today.

The venue is set within 247 acres of beautiful tree-lined Sussex countryside, hosting 27 holes of golf, two lakes, a 26 bedroom hotel and seven self-catering lodges. The French-styled courtyard complete with

ornate fountain, pretty pots and planters, offers a wonderful outdoor location for your drinks reception, canapés and photos. Plus, the decked area is ideal for live music, while your guests are sipping Pimm’s or prosecco.

Cottesmore can host civil ceremonies both indoors in the oak-beamed Barn Room, and al fresco on the immaculate ceremony lawn, nestled within a tree-lined glade offering you and your guests, peace, tranquillity, and romance. Both options have space for up to 150 loved ones.

The Challis Suite, Buchan Suite and Barn Room host up to 150 guests for a wedding breakfast and up to 200 for an evening do. Their connected, flexible and multi-functional layout allows for a more personal and bespoke reception. Ambient, colour-themed lighting, plus Bose and SONOS sound systems ensure maximum impact.

Floor-to-ceiling windows flood the room with natural daylight, while charming antler chandeliers adorn the exposed beams. The marbletopped bar too is an impressive feature, as well as being fully-stocked with the latest draught beers, wines and spirits.

MANNINGS HEATH GOLF & WINE ESTATE

01403 220 345 | www.manningsheath.com/weddings

Set amongst more than 500 acres of exceptional natural beauty you’ll find Mannings Heath Estate. Paired with Benguela Cove Wine Estate in South Africa, it’s the UK’s first and only combined golf and wine venue. Nestled deep in the heart of the Sussex countryside it includes a beautiful clubhouse and two terraces overlooking the magnificent Waterfall golf course.

The beamed interiors date back to the 17th century and exude rustic charm. The large reception room can accommodate 150 loved ones seated, and offers breathtaking views of the landscaped golf course

and estate. There are also three additional rooms, two of which are licensed for civil ceremonies. The main function rooms here are beautifully decorated for wedding breakfasts and ceremonies.

In The Vineyard Kitchen, the venue’s recently-renovated restaurant, the art of gourmet dining harmonises with glorious views, creating an experience to delight your tastebuds and your senses. In the Wine Lounge you can immerse yourself in an unparalleled experience, sure to leave a lasting impression. With its elegant ambience and exquisite selection of wines, it’s the perfect venue for an intimate wedding reception.

The venue can offer your party wine estate tastings and vineyard tours. There’s also a four-bedroom cottage on-site, which can be rented as a whole.

Adding a touch of rustic charm to your event

WEDDINGS

At DoubleTree by Hilton Brighton Metropole

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All event spaces have been fully refurbished ready for your perfect day.

With a variety of event rooms to pick from, this venue is the perfect mix of Brighton's colourful culture and the hotel's Victorian charm.

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Weddings at The Observatory

Celebrations under the stars, amongst our historic telescope domes. Offering a unique experience with total flexibility. The Observatory Science Centre, Herstmonceux, East Sussex BN27 1RN the-observatory.org | celebrations@the-observatory.org | 01323 832731

Photo by Fizzy Robot Photography

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THE FLOW

We round up some of the county’s finest waterside venues

THE OBSERVATORY

01323 832 731 | www.the-observatory.org

The Observatory is a one-of-a-kind spot in the heart of the East Sussex countryside. Previously home to the Royal Greenwich Observatory, it now operates as an attraction with extensive science exhibits and charitable status promoting science for all. The six iconic telescope domes provide an unforgettable setting if you’re looking for something totally different for added entertainment, while the permanent marquees offer complete flexibility to create a reception style as unique as the two of you.

Located in the picturesque village of Herstmonceux, the grounds provide the wow factor in spades! Driving up to The Observatory you can’t help but be intrigued by the other-worldly green domes emerging from the local countryside.

Ceremonies take place in Telescope Dome E, which is licensed for 60 guests. It features an incredible historical telescope in the centre of the room. For larger gatherings, the permanent geodesic marquee can be used for the “I dos,” accompanied by 100 loved ones. This boasts an unusual shape offering opportunities for decoration with ultimate flexibility.

You can also opt to host your reception in the Geodesic Dome for 100 or more guests. Alternatively, choose The Big Space (the main marquee). It’s practical and spacious, light and airy, with a large decking area. It’s perfect for a sit-down wedding breakfast for 104 guests seated, or something more casual for 150 guests dining buffet style. It can host upwards of 150 too for the evening do.

FIESTA FIELDS, MAPLEHURST FARM

07539 880 031 | https://fiestafields.co.uk

Fiesta Fields is an outdoor wedding and events company, representing a range of gorgeous outdoor venues including Maplehurst Farm near Horsham. It offers a beautiful and peaceful waterside setting on a working deer farm. The farm creates a relaxed and tranquil vibe, perfect for celebrating your wedding surrounded by idyllic countryside.

The venue offers an idyllic blank canvas if you’re looking to celebrate in a way that’s unique to you. The team at Fiesta Fields brings a wealth of event and project management experience, along with creativity, attention to detail and a knowledge of local suppliers. You’re offered full or partial coordination, or an essentials package that includes land hire,

ROMANTIC REFLECTIONS

THE RAVENSWOOD 01342 810 216 | https://theravenswood.co.uk

TILGATE PARK 01293 438 437 | https://tilgateparkweddings.co.uk

SOUTHLANDS BARN 01798 306 550 | www.southlandsbarn.co.uk

FOUR OAKS WEDDINGS 01273 891446 | www.fouroaksweddings.co.uk

FRICKLEY LAKE

07976 704 632 | www.frickleylake.com

power, loos, security and on-the-day coordination. Check out https://fiestafields.co.uk/packages. You have full flexibility with your choice of suppliers and the blank canvas of a field means you can have input on every last detail, giving you a day that’s personal to you.

Situated in the quiet village of Nuthurst, just 15 minutes from Horsham, Maplehurst Farm, the site offers the essentials you need for an al fresco wedding including secure parking and mains water. Best of all, you can host your ceremony wherever you wish among the grounds. There’s also overnight camping or glamping on site. You’re welcome to invite up to 180 guests to your wedding breakfast, and the same number to the big evening bash.

SLAUGHAM PLACE 01444 702 458 | www.slaughamplace-weddings.co.uk

MICHELHAM PRIORY HOUSE & GARDENS 01323 844224 | www.sussexpast.co.uk/venue-hire

YOGHURT ROOMS 01342 323 238 | https://yoghurtrooms.com

BUXTED PARK 01825 733 333 | www.handpickedhotels.co.uk/buxtedpark

BROOKFIELD BARN 01403 900 606 | https://brookfieldbarn.co.uk

THE RAVENSWOOD TILGATE PARK

WEALD & DOWNLAND LIVING MUSEUM 01243 811 032 | www.wealddown.co.uk/weddings

Located among the rolling hills of the South Downs National Park, Weald & Downland Living Museum is a venue like no other. The Museum’s picturesque 40-acre site offers an atmosphere of quiet tranquillity and is peppered with fascinating historical buildings, woodland areas, grazing farm animals and a beautiful mill pond. This authentic setting combined with limited availability makes for a characterful and exclusive wedding venue, ideal if you’re looking for that little something different.

The Museum currently has three spaces licensed for civil wedding ceremonies. The Downland Gridshell offers an exquisite setting for both civil ceremonies and receptions accompanied by up to 120 guests. Each year a limited number of dates are released for couples who want to use this exceptional space for their big day.

Crawley Hall situated at the heart of the Museum’s Medieval market

LIFE’S A BEACH!

THE RELAIS COODEN BEACH 01424 842 281 | www.therelaisretreats.com/coodenbeach

THE GALLIVANT 01797 225 057 | https://thegallivant.co.uk

THE GRAND EASTBOURNE 01323 412 345 | www.grandeastbourne.com

MERCURE BRIGHTON SEAFRONT HOTEL 01273 351 012 | www.mercurebrighton.co.uk

DOUBLETREE BY HILTON BRIGHTON METROPOLE 01273 720 710 | www.doubletree.com/brightonmetropole

ROYAL VICTORIA HOTEL HASTINGS

01424 445 544 | https://royalvichotel.co.uk

square, surrounded by cobbled paths and historical buildings. This charming timber-framed barn can host civil ceremonies and receptions of up to 50 guests followed by an informal buffet reception or picnic. If you decide to tie the knot here, you can take up the offer of the West Sussex Package. Celebrating the best the county has to offer, it includes use the Hall followed by a delivery of grazing hampers featuring plenty of locally-sourced food and drink to be enjoyed in one of the venue’s many picture-perfect picnic spots overlooking the South Downs National Park.

Greenways Field is a completely blank canvas for those looking for a marquee-style wedding for 250 guests. Nestled among the Museum’s sublime countryside, it offers an idyllic and tranquil setting for your ceremony and celebrations, and offers access to scenic areas ideal for stunning photo opportunities.

THE VIEW HOTEL EASTBOURNE 01323 433 900 | www.theviewhoteleastbourne.com

THE BURLINGTON HOTEL, WORTHING 01903 211 222 | www.theburlington.net

BAILIFFSCOURT HOTEL & SPA 01903 723511 | www.hshotels.co.uk/bailiffscourt-hotel-and-spa

BRIGHTON HAROUR HOTEL 0127323 221 | www.harbourhotels.co.uk/brighton

DE LA WARR PAVILION 01424 229 117 | www.dlwp.com

LANSDOWNE HOTEL 01323 745 485 | www.bw-lansdownehotel.co.uk

THE VIEW FROM THE GALLIVANT

DOUBLETREE BY HILTON BRIGHTON METROPOLE

SUMMERTIME

dusky blues

Jo and Jonah tied the knot at Gildredge Manor on 28th August, 2022

Images courtesy of DB Photography Sussex

Jo and Jonah met in the workplace where their desks were near one another. “Jonah is six years younger than me, and I always used to say: ‘If only he were older!’” Jo says. “I guess after a while it just didn’t seem as important.” She asked him if he’d like to go for a walk on the beach with her and he agreed. Jonah says, “We didn’t really have anything in common, but always had so much to talk about. Although we had different interests, it was clear from the beginning that we both had similar morals and outlook on life.”

The couple headed to the Isle of Wight for a long weekend to celebrate their five-year anniversary, and were having drinks in the hotel gardens when Jonah produced an engagement ring. He didn’t even get a chance to pop the question, as Jo had said, “Yes,” straight away. “We both cried happy tears for ages,” she remembers.

It was important to the pair that their guests should feel comfortable and have fun on their big day, and they chose Gildredge Manor, which felt perfect. “It had lots of different spaces so people could dance if they wanted to, or chat at the bar,” Jo explains. “There was a room with a pool table and foosball table, as well as a lounge away from the noise of the party.” With the venue’s gorgeous Georgian elegance and light, airy nature, it was easy to see that this was the one. So, the date was set for 28th August, 2022...

Read on as the couple tell us more about their beautiful big day...

SETTING THE SCENE

For the ceremony, white chiffon sashes were tied around each chair, and standing at the altar was a big white blossom cherry tree, which the couple stood beneath as they said their vows. Their florist had also dotted vases of flowers here and here, and after the “I dos” the bridesmaids’ flowers and bridal bouquet were added to vases too. “The venue was gorgeous, so we didn’t feel we needed to add anything else,” Jo says.

Jo and Jonah picked a beautifully contrasting palette of dusky blue, burgundy and cream for their styling. Jonah’s suit was burgundy, while Jo’s dress was blush and the bridesmaids were dressed in blue, so the flowers would need to pull everything together. They briefed their florist that they didn’t want the florals to be too perfectly neat – no precise, round ball bouquets or centrepieces for them. Instead, Jo wanted to go for something big yet natural. They were also keen to include jasmine flowers as a way of incorporating their daughter, Jasmine.

Jonah wanted white cherry blossom trees, while Jo had her heart set on flower arrangements to match the bridal party for the centrepieces. “Everyone tells you marriage is about compromise,” Jo tells us. “So, we did half and half, and I think it worked really well!”

The couple were keen to gift their guests wedding favours, but they’d read that they should approach with caution as anything disposable often gets left behind. With that in mind, they decided instead to donate the money they’d set aside for favours to a few different charities close to their hearts (RSPCA, East Sussex Air Ambulance, and Cancer Research UK). They also bought pin badges from each charity, which came on little cards to inform them of the donation made in their name. “This way, guests could have the pin badge if they wanted, but if they got left behind, at least we knew the money hadn’t gone to waste,” Jo says.

The couple wrote everyone’s menu choice on little cards that matched the ones the pins were attached to, and tied the two

together with blue ribbon, before adding each person’s name to the front. Simple, but effective. The tables were seemingly numbered randomly, but they actually signified something for Jo and Jonah as a couple. For example, 16 was the day of their first date, and 14 was the number of pets they’ve had together.

The three-tier big day bake featured one layer of chocolate (Jasmine’s favourite), one of lemon (Jonah’s favourite), and one of coffee (Jo’s favourite). It was decorated with white fondant icing and Willow Tree figurines to represent their little family, including their four cats. Finally, the florist provided some flowers to complete the showstopper.

LOOKING THE PART

Jo had been dreaming of a big princess ballgown since she was six years old, so she knew exactly what she was looking for, and found Wesley by Maggie Sottero in blush. The bodice was covered in hundreds of pearls and Swarovski crystals and it was only the fourth dress the bride tried on. “I never doubted my choice,” she remembers. “When you know, you know.”

Jonah had his suit custom made. “So much is centred around the bride’s dress, but he deserved to feel amazing too,” Jo says. The pair visited a specialist tailor and the groom was able to choose every aspect of this suit, from the style and fabric right down to the angle of the pockets and colour of the stitching. “There were 84 options for the lining alone!” Jo remembers. He also had “You and Me” embroidered underneath the collar as this is something the two have always said to each other.

The groomsmen were dressed in blue suits with burgundy ties that matched Jonah’s suit. Meanwhile, the bride tribe all wore dresses of their own choosing. “I wanted my bridesmaids to look and feel beautiful,” Jo says. “ I knew I wouldn’t be able to find something that everyone loved and felt totally comfortable in, so I asked them all to pick their own. I just asked that they be floor-length and any shade of blue. In the end, I think they did a better job than I ever could have!”

TIME TO CELEBRATE

Weddings are long days, so Jo and Jonah were keen that their loved ones should have plenty to keep them occupied. A singer and pianist played as guests arrived, which set the scene beautifully. Then, during the canapés and photos a singer/ guitarist entertained all assembled. The newlyweds knew him to be a hit as two other couples asked for his details for their own weddings!

Five white space hoppers and two giant Jengas were laid out on the lawn for everyone to enjoy throughout the day, and the venue’s games room proved popular with those who didn’t want to dance.

In the evening, a live band filled the dancefloor, but when feet tired, there was plenty else to do. A candy cart, photo booth and close-up magician were also on hand. “The reams of pictures we got back from the photo booth told us it was a hit, and plenty of people told us afterwards how much they enjoyed the magic. It was great to see their amazement captured on camera when we got our pictures back.”

“I could go on about our suppliers forever. We chose carefully and they really did make the day perfect. We can’t decide who we’re most grateful to!”

– Jo

MEMORABLE MOMENTS

“Jonah was very emotional in the morning,” Jo remembers. “I have so many photos of him crying!” The bride though was the opposite, the picture of clam and serenity. “I kept waiting for the nerves to kick in but they never did,” she says. Even waiting to walk down the aisle was a moment of complete clarity for Jo. “I remember thinking how right and normal it felt,” she shares.

Indeed, the ceremony was the most memorable part of the day for Jonah. “I was really emotional seeing Jo walk down the aisle and seeing her dress. It’s a bit of a blur but I remember sitting down while someone was reading and holding her hand. It was like it was just her and me, and that was good,” he recalls.

The couple’s daughter took her role as chief bridesmaid very seriously. During the morning, she had a detailed timetable of who should be where and when, and we’re told was very strict! She made sure everyone had their readings and that the best man had the rings. In fact, she made sure everyone kept to schedule and as a result the ceremony started right on time.

ROLL CREDITS

Venue, Gildredge Manor, www.gildredgemanor.co.uk | Photographer, DB Photography Sussex, www.dbphotographysussex.com | Bride’s dress, Confetti and Lace, www.confettiandlace.com | Groom’s and groomsmen’s suits, Anthony Formal Wear, www.anthonyformalwear.co.uk

Accessories, Swarovski | Michael Kors | Astrid and Miyu | Hair stylist, Emma Heritage Hair Design, www.emmaheritagehair.co.uk | Make-up artist, Grace Benson Makup, www.gracebensonmakeup.com | Bridesmaids’ dresses, ASOS | Ever Pretty | JJ’s House | Flowers, Jo Frost Flowers, www.facebook.com/jofrostflowers | Entertainment, Alexander James Magician, www.alexanderjamesmagic.com | Spenser, via www.bandsforhire.net | Catering, Green Fig Catering Company, www.greenfigcateringcompany.com

A perfect blank canvas for your special event

A charming, rustic, spacious, DIY venue. The site features the stunning, Grade II listed, traditional Sussex flint barn, and enclosed outdoor spaces front and back.

Available for hire between 1st April and 31st December peelingsmanorbarns.co.uk

Contact Sarah Blessington on 07933 092102 or email: hello@peelingsmanorbarns.co.uk

1 Peelings Farm Cottages, Hankham Road, Hankham,

CAT BURGLAR DOUGH CO.

Cat Burglar Dough Co wedding doughnuts are here to delight your guests and help you celebrate your wedding in a way that will leave everyone talking. From mini doughnuts, to full size tiered doughnut wedding cakes, we take pride in every product we make. We know you’ll love them as much as we do!

Our fresh, delicious treats are handmade in our bakery in West Sussex and delivered to your venue by our trusted drivers to leave you with some much needed peace of mind on your special day.

Pevesnsey, East Sussex, BN24 5AP

ROMANCEGothic

Zoe and Nick celebrated their wedding day with a super-cool and edgy Tim Burton theme

Images courtesy of Chris Giles Photography

Zoe and Nick met via MSN Messenger when they both received a silly chainletter email from a mutual friend. Nick’s address got added to Zoe’s MSN account and from there, the two became best friends and discovered that they worked in the same department store.

Zoe proposed to Nick on 29th April, when she got up early, gave Nick a card and got down on one knee. Happily, Nick said, “Yes,” before Zoe disappeared on a weekend away with a friend!

The couple found themselves attracted to Southend Barns when they came across it while searching for a wedding venue. “It was beautiful, and had a timeless feel with benches along the barn’s long aisle,” Zoe says. “The toilets were also a big thing as I knew I wanted a big dress!” So, that settled, the date was booked for 4th November, 2022.

Read on as the bride tells us more about the big day...

Nick wore traditional tails, with a pale blue tie, while his groomsmen wore the same accessorised with black ties.

We both felt great on the day, apart from my awful cold. There were no nerves though and even our photographer and make-up artist commented that it was the most relaxed wedding morning they’d been part of!

Black dresses are hard to come by but I knew from my 30th birthday party that I wanted Velvet Birdcage to make it. I designed an empireline, black Mikado satin gown with a cathedral-length train. It featured plenty of tulle and a removable black cape attached at the shoulders.

Our table plan was handmade using a Jack Skellington wreath with ribbons and name cards hanging from it. Tables were named after Tim Burton movies including Beetljuice, Batman, Alice in Wonderland, Corpse Bride, Nightmare Before Christmas, Sweeney Todd, and Edward Scissorhands.

When I walked down the aisle I swept up all the little pumpkins and petals with my dress as I went!

My bridesmaids were dressed in dusky blue floor-length tulle dresses with sequins adorning the bodices.

“Just keep calm. Nothing matters but you and your partner.” – Zoe

As our wedding favours we had lemon-flavoured shortbread biscuits with white icing and a black Z & N for decoration.

Nick made a ‘Til Death light for the occasion, while further decorative highlights included a moon gate with curtain and flowers, and various Jack and Sally pumpkin lights placed along the aisle, around the venue and on the dancefloor.

The centrepieces were black trees with perspex discs holding images from Tim Burton films and VHS tapes with a film still on the front and purple LEDs inside.

Unfortunately, I’m highly allergic to flowers, so we used faux blooms. Myself and my bridesmaids had bouquets made by Maddison Rocks

Instead of a traditional wedding cake we opted for vegan doughnuts.

We laid out a game of hammerschlagen to keep guests occupied while we did the boring photo bit.

All of our catering was provided by Roots Catering. It was all unbelievably yummy, and everyone still talks about the food to this day! We had pie and mash, which used to be one of our date-night favourites when we’d head to the local pub.

We had a live band, Husk, supplied by Entertainment Nation, as well as a photo booth, both of which were a huge hit.

The smoke bomb made for some epic photos, but they went terribly wrong! The whole wedding party was in fits of laughter, as they choked on smoke trying to get away from it all.

The staff working on the day were amazing, and really helped to organise everything and keep it all to time. Everyone made the day extra special, we couldn’t fault anything.

We travelled to Northern Ireland for a mini-moon break where we met up with some friends. We went for a week and had an incredible time exploring. We plan to go on a big honeymoon in 2024.

THE W-DAY TEAM

Venue, Southend Barns, https://southendbarns.co.uk | Photographer, Chris Giles Photography, www.chrisgilesphotography.com | Bride’s dress, Velvet Birdcage, www.velvetbirdcage.co.uk | Hair and make-up, Kitty-Boo Creative, https://kitty-boocreative.godaddysites.com | Groom’s suit, Greys Suit Hire, www.greyssuithire.co.uk | Cake, Cat Burglar Dough Co., www.catburglardoughco.co.uk | Flowers, Maddison Rocks, www.etsy.com/uk/shop/MaddisonRocks | Entertainment, Husk via Entertainment Nation, www.entertainment-nation.co.uk | Catering, Roots

Catering at Southend Barns | Videography, Foster Filming, www.fosterfilming.com

Weddings at the oldest pub in Brighton

Intimate wedding venue set in the heart of 'The Lanes'

Just a stones throw away from Brighton Town Hall and the famous Brighton Bandstand we're the perfect venue for your intimate wedding reception.

Available for exclusive hire, late license and is perfect for Weddings, Engagement parties and other celebrations.

Three stylish interlinked rooms hold up to 70 people with buffet or canapes, or 45 people for a sit down meal.

Private Bar Sound System & TV Bespoke Food & Drink Options

Visit our website now to enquire or drop us an email

The Greene Room @ The Cricketers 15 Black Lion Street, Brighton, BN1 1ND www.cricketersbrighton.co.uk 01273 329472

Wedding Receptions at

The Ladies Mile FUNCTION HALL

Paul, Gayle and the amazing team at the mile are at hand to make sure your day is as special as can be!

Located on the outskirts of Brighton in Patcham

holds up to 120 guests sit down & buffet options own bar & facilities large car park

A FAMILY AFFAIR

Rachael and Mathew opted for a fun, relaxed, garden party vibe for their big day, and made sure their children were involved every step of the way

Images courtesy of Chrissie Brooks Photography

Rachael and Mathew met as many couples do in today’s world, online. Rachael had two very young children, so she was struggling to find opportunities to go out and meet new people, and her friends convinced her to give online dating a try. “I was really against it at first but thought I’d give it a go as a bit of a laugh,” she says. “Within a week, Mathew had messaged me and it went from there!” They met up six months later at a local pub for a drink. The idea was to stay for one drink, but they ended up chatting all afternoon and didn’t leave until closing!

Mathew popped the question on Rachael’s birthday, as she sat on the bed with the children opening her presents. She knew he’d bought her a Garmin running watch, so when she opened the box that’s what she expected to find. Instead, she lifted the lid to find an engagement ring. Rachael remembers, “I was so shocked, I started crying, then Mathew started crying, which made my youngest cry as she thought we were sad! I had to explain to her that they were happy tears!”

Slaugham Place was only the second venue the couple viewed, but as soon as they saw it they knew that was it. “We were looking for something that wasn’t too formal, which would give us the space and something a bit different,” Rachael explains. They knew there’d be a lot of children joining them on their big day, 43 in fact, so they wanted somewhere with plenty of room for them run around and play in safety, while the adults could have some down time. “We met Carolina at the venue and she was so accommodating. We just fell in love with it and didn’t look at any others. Within the week, we’d booked it for 17th June, 2023.” Read on as the bride tells us more about that oh-so special day...

Our four children made our day extra special. Our three girls walked ahead of me, while my son Oscar walked me down the aisle with my dad. For us, including them in the wedding was the most important aspect as we were bringing our families together. It wasn’t just about Mathew and I but about the six of us.

Carolina, the owner of Slaugham Place organised the flowers for us. She created all of the bouquets, buttonholes, table flowers and thank you bouquets.

Mat and his groomsmen all wore the same sage green tweed three-piece suits.

I wore a Stella York gown, style 7531 in Ivory, which I purchased from Fross Wedding Collections.

Alice Flower sang for us throughout the day including during the ceremony as I walked down the aisle, as we signed the register, and as we exited. She then performed all afternoon until we went inside for our wedding breakfast. She was absolutely sensational and everyone commented on how beautiful the music was. It gave a lovely atmosphere to the afternoon.

Our centrepieces were flower arrangements put together by our venue in tall vases, including a beautiful mix of white peonies, roses and daisies with eucalyptus.

We created our own table plan using a second-hand mirror, which I wrote on.

Instead of favours I made children’s activity boxes, which included games and colouring packs. We thought that as long as the kids were happy, their parents would be happy!

One of our friends offered to make our wedding cake as a gift, as she used to be a pastry chef. It was a three-tier vanilla sponge with fresh cream, jam and fresh fruit. It was delicious!

My bridesmaids wore the Keeva Maxi Bridesmaid dress from Silk Fred in nude.

Mid Sussex Hog Roast catered our wedding breakfast, providing amazing food and fantastic service. They even staffed the bar. They honestly couldn’t have done enough for us.

I asked an old friend of mine, Darren Kane, to DJ during the evening.

When planning, share the workload with your partner. Research, pre-plan and when the day comes, just enjoy.

We just sat on one of the benches for 10 minutes or so and watched everyone laughing and drinking. The kids were running around, playing. It was all we’d asked for and more.

RACHAEL AND MATHEW’S SUPPLIERS

Venue and flowers, Slaugham Place, www.slaughamplace-weddings.co.uk | Photographer, Chrissie Brooks Photography, https://chrissiebrooksphotography.co.uk | Bride’s dress, Fross Wedding Collections, https://frossweddingcollections.co.uk | Bridesmaids’ dresses, Silk Fred | Hair stylist, Hair By Milly and Stacey, www.instagram.com/hairbymillyandstacey | Make-up artist, Makeup by Becky Flynn, www.makeupbybeckyflynn.com | Stationery, Co-ordination Event Hire, https://co-ordination.net | Entertainment, Alice Flower Music, www.aliceflowermusic.com | Catering, Mid Sussex Hog Roast, www.midsussexhogroast.co.uk

Sunday 29 th October 2023 11am to 3.30pm

One of the largest wedding shows to be held in the South of England. A huge number of wedding specialists on hand to inspire and advise on how to bring your wedding dreams to life.

PLUS! Special offers on the day • The chance to win a luxury honeymoon

• Entertainment • Refreshments • and more...

For your FREE tickets and the chance to win a £250 voucher courtesy of SpaBreaks.com pre-register at: www.countyweddingevents.com/registration

Love’s youngDREAM

Pampas grass is still having a moment thanks to its versatility. Here, it’s showcased alongside pops of opulent burgundy and rust

Images courtesy of Alessandro Piolanti

Pampas grass is still living its best life at weddings, remaining a firm favourite among venue stylists and couples this year, and beyond we hope.

It’s light, fluffy, voluminous nature makes it the perfect go-to for quickly, easily and effectively filling a space, while simultaneously bringing the drama and soft romanticism. Traditionally, we’ve seen it most at home in rustic, boho and outdoor weddings, but it also works like a dream with the latest on-trend colour palette – rust.

Here, our beloved pampas grass takes centre stage, making a huge statement in the shape of a ceremony moongate, which is complemented by extra touches in the bride’s bouquet, groom’s buttonhole, centrepieces, and don’t get us started on the jaw-dropping tunnel of arches created for the wedding breakfast table. This team of local wedding aficionados has certainly beautifully demonstrated how it’s done!

THE DREAM TEAM

Shoot coordinator, The Little Details Events, www.instagram.com/thelittledetails_events | Venue, Hyde Estate, www.hydeestate.co.uk Photographer, Alessandro Piolanti, www.instagram.com/alesspiolantiphoto | Dresses, Velvet Birdcage, www.velvetbirdcage.co.uk | Accessories, Inna Walker Headpieces, www.innawalker.co.uk | Hair and make-up, Jane Rosemary, www.jrmakeupartistry.com | Suits, ASOS, www.asos.com | Cake, Cake Gallery London | Flowers, Tony Dunn Flowers, www.tonydunnflowers.co.uk | Venue styling, Hire Your Day, www.hireyourday.com | Jewellery, L.Guess Jewellers, https://lguess.co.uk | Stationery, Wild Moon Wedding Stationery, www.wildmoonstationery.co.uk | Tableware, Co-ordination Event Hire, https://co-ordination.net | Videographer, Marina Papapetrou, www.marinapapap.com | Celebrant, Days To Remember Independent Celebrants, https://days-to-remember-celebrant.co.uk Models, Will & Jessica, @w.j.couple

PAINTING WORKSHOPS

GEM HARRIS

Wedding Photographer

BESPOKE ART WORKSHOPS FOR TEAMS, HEN PARTIES & PRIVATE GROUPS

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Fear of the unknown can become overwhelming when planning a wedding. After all, it’s not something you do every day! So, we’ve decided to remove that for you when it comes to one of the most important elements of your day – the photography. Here, some of the region’s finest wedding photographers, tell us what to expect from the moment you set out on your planning journey to the time you spend putting your album together.

BEFORE THE BIG DAY FINDING THE ONE

“Finding the right photographer can be a daunting task,” says Toni Heath at Worthing-based Cuttlebone Photography. “Don’t rush into it. Take your time to research, read reviews, and ask for recommendations. It’s essential to find a photographer with a style to match your taste.” Gem Harris from Gem Harris Photography also recommends thorough research. “Magazines and wedding fairs are great places to find photographers, as well as word of mouth,” she says.

So, you hit the internet ready to research, but what are you looking for?

“Chemistry matters,” says Nick Barham from Rhythm and Romance Wedding Photography. “When you meet potential photographers, it’s important to ensure you click

(pun intended) on a personal level. You want someone who gets your vibe and can effortlessly blend into your wedding day shenanigans.

“Also, prepare to be dazzled by portfolios,” Nick continues. “Look for a photographer whose style makes your heart skip a beat. Find someone who makes you say: ‘Holy moly, I need them at my wedding!’”

STYLE IT OUT

Speaking of style, every photographer is likely to offer a little something unique to them, but in broad strokes there are some elements to look out for. Here, Nick sums up the big three: “If timeless elegance and picture-perfect poses float your boat, then classic photography is your jam. Think poised and polished, with every hair in place. If you’re a

Some of the county’s finest wedding photographers tell us what to expect from the process at every stage of your wedding journey

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fan of spontaneous moments and capturing genuine emotions on the other hand, candid photography is your go-to. These sneaky ninjas of photography will stealthily capture the laughter, tears and dancefloor fun without you even noticing. Finally, are you up for pushing the boundaries of creativity? If so, look out for photographers who can turn your wedding into an avant-garde masterpiece. Expect mind-bending compositions, experimental lighting, and awe-inspiring magical imagery.”

Kelsie Scully of Brighton-based Kelsie Scully Photography says, “Weddings are inherently documentary in style, where the photographer captures the day as it happens, but some then mix in a hybrid of other styles as and when appropriate, which is what I do. I transition between different styles depending on the wants and needs of my couples.”

JUST THE TWO OF US

“Engagement shoots are a great way to get to know your photographer before the big day,” Gem tells us. “This experience enables you to feel more relaxed and comfortable in front of the lens. Practice makes perfect!”

So true, and believe us, feeling chilled in front of your photographer makes the world of difference to the final images. Kelsie says, “Lots of people hate the idea of having their picture taken, but the massive difference I notice between the weddings of couples who’ve had an engagement shoot with me and those who haven’t is that they’re instantly comfortable around me. This is also true of their guests who’ve seen all these lovely photographs of the couple and that instant trust is invaluable for capturing great images on the day. If you’re on the fence about having an engagement shoot, there are a million reasons to go for it. I can’t recommend them enough.”

immortalised – exchanging vows, cutting the cake, Uncle Bob’s legendary dance moves... List them to ensure nothing’s missed in the wedding whirlwind. Don’t forget to leave room for spontaneity and candid captures though. Also, share the unique details that make your day special with your photographer. Perhaps you have a handmade wedding arch or your grandmother’s heirloom locket. They’ll love capturing these personal touches.

“Remember, the key to a successful wedding photography experience is a healthy balance of direction and creative freedom. Provide your photographer with the necessary guidance through a shot list, but also trust their expertise to capture the authentic emotions and unforgettable moments that will make your wedding album come to life.”

PLANNED TO PERFECTION

IN THE PICTURE

While any photographer worth their salt will be more than adept at capturing your big day to perfection, they’re not mind readers. So, providing them with a short list of must-have subjects is advisable. Toni says, “If you have specific shots or poses you want captured, be sure to supply your photographer with a shot list. I always suggest keeping the group shots to a maximum of eight as guests scatter like cats and it’s quite a task trying to round everyone up and not ideal if there are time restraints.” Making a list beforehand and discussing with your photographer in advance will also ensure you don’t forget any of your all-important nearest and dearest. “It’s important you both know exactly what images will be captured by the end of the day. If there’s a special great aunt you’d love to have a pic with, don’t forget to add her to the list,” Gem says.

Remember, it’s not just about people it’s about moments. Nick says, “A shot list is like a wedding photographer’s secret treasure map. It helps us capture all the essential moments and the best way to ensure we’re not left scratching our head. Think of the key moments you absolutely want

In preparation for the big day, you’ll need to discuss with your photographer detailed timings of how your day will unfold, so that your whole W-day team of suppliers can work together to make everything run like clockwork. After all, no one wants to be late for the “I dos” or wedding breakfast!

“Getting the timings spot on is crucial to ensure everything runs smoothly and all the necessary shots are captured,” Toni explains. “It helps to plan the

day image wise, such as when to capture group shots, and scheduling in a quiet moment away from everyone in golden hour.” Gem agrees and advises, “Make sure your photographer has a schedule of timings factoring in your group and couple shots.”

ON THE BIG DAY SEEING DOUBLE

Some photographers will offer you the opportunity of booking a second shooter, and now you’ve arrived at the big day, you’ll see just how invaluable they can be. For example, a second photographer enables you to have certain aspects of the day shot from different angles at the same time. Plus, this means your photographer can literally be in two places at once. One can be documenting your morning preparations, while the second shooter can head into the reception room to get pics of the details, before heading over to document how your other half is getting on. They’ll never miss a moment of those precious memories unfolding.

Toni says, “I can include a second shooter if certain shots are needed that can’t be covered by me alone. For example, getting ready shots of

both partners at different locations.” But there’s no need to worry if your budget won’t stretch to a second. “It’s a luxury, but not essential,” Gem says.

SAY CHEESE

Believe it or not the postceremony drinks reception can be a make or break situation depending on what you’ve decided to do with your group shots. The key is balance. Gem explains, “I think it’s really important to have some group or staged shots, but that doesn’t mean they have to be too formal or boring. But for the rest of the day I love to see relaxed, reportage photography.”

Try to keep the posed group formals to the absolute essentials only. Trust in the talents of your photographer to capture your loved ones in a natural candid way throughout the day, and allow all assembled to get on with the business at hand – celebrating your big day!

WHATEVER THE WEATHER

Ah, the great British weather! Ever the challenge, but it doesn’t need to negatively impact your big day if you roll with it. “The weather can be unpredictable, but don’t let it ruin your day,” Toni says. “Trust your photographer to find creative ways to work around it. Some of my favourite shots have been taken when it’s started raining and we have to think on our feet. Storm clouds make a great backdrop.” What’s more a

little preparation goes a long way as Gem says, “Be ready whatever the weather and always make sure someone has a beautiful umbrella to hand!”

AFTER THE BIG DAY

When the last of the confetti has been swept away and you’re headed off on honeymoon, your photographer will set to work on your images. You’ll find that each professional will work slightly differently, so your expectations should be based on exactly what you’ve discussed with them at time of booking. Here, our experts tell us how they prefer to work to give you an idea of the range available.

KELSIE SCULLY PHOTOGRAPHY

Kelsie says, “Every photographer will have different delivery schedules, which is dependent on so many factors from their editing style, conditions on the day, to their workload. Most deliver between four and 12 weeks, with many providing some sort of preview prior to that. This information should be in your contract with a rough delivery time provided shortly after your wedding. But whatever you do, don’t rush your photographer by asking for regular updates when they’re within the agreed time frame. These images will last a lifetime and are worth the wait.

“The safest place to protect your photographs is print. Image files degrade in quality over time, become corrupt and are easily lost on old laptops or when technology advances. You can rip a photograph in half and it can be restored, but a corrupt image file is usually gone forever. So, store your images on your computer or a cloud solution like Amazon’s free photo storage, but be sure to get some prints to treasure.

“Photographs print darker than what you’ll see on your device. I usually recommend turning down a screen to at least half brightness, even lower on a phone, to get a feel for what the images will look like before you print. If your photographer offers a printing service, I recommend going through them as they should ensure each meets their standards before sending to you.”

CUTTLEBONE PHOTOGRAPHY

Toni says, “The time it takes to deliver photos should be discussed way before your wedding day. As a guide, I give between four to six weeks for gallery delivery, but every photographer has a different timeline, so make sure you double check.

“Choosing the best images can be overwhelming, but your photographer will guide you through the process. There are a variety of options available for displaying your images, from prints to canvas and photo books. Be sure to choose the package that best suits your needs and budget and consider who else will want copies of the images.

“Finally, don’t forget to discuss copyright with your photographer. Ensure you have the rights to reproduce and share the images as you wish. Importantly, ensure you work with a photographer you can trust to deliver the perfect results.”

CONTACT OUR EXPERTS

Toni Heath, Cuttlebone Photography, www.cuttlebone.co.uk

GEM HARRIS PHOTOGRAPHY

Gem says, “Make sure you have a clear idea of when to expect your photographs. I try to give my couples a sneak peak a few days later and supply the full shoot on a memory stick two weeks later. I supply in black and white and colour, which gives couples the opportunity to arrange their own prices and books from whoever they like.”

Gem Harris, Gem Harris Weddings, www.gemharrisweddings.co.uk

Kelsie Scully, Kelsie Scully Photography, www.kelsiescullyphotography.com

Nick Barham, Rhythm and Romance Wedding Photography, www.nickbarham.com

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Discover what’s hot for 2023 in the wonderful world of wedding cakes

MAKE A STATEMENT

“Trends-wise, we’re seeing a huge surge in bookings for more extravagant statement cakes,” says Ashleigh Nicholson from Cakes by Ashleigh. “Whether that’s a super-tall beauty with floating tiers to add extra height using spacers, or something smaller with a display piece such as a hoop or an arch adorned with matching flowers. Much more focus is being placed on the styling to make the impact by tying the décor to the cake table.”

Emily Fitter from Emily’s Mixing Bowl says, “I’m offering a lot more styling options for my cakes this year, including a larger range of cake stands to buy or hire as well as signage. I'm also encouraging couples to repurpose their flowers, such as those from the ceremony, to go around the cake table later and make an incredible display of the setup. Styling

your cake table can make a great big-day bake look incredible and be a huge part of the décor or the reception room.”

TEXTURED TIERS

“A popular wedding cake style currently emerging is textured icing, such as hand-painted prints, patterns and more colour,” says Holly Fairall at Holly Ann Cake Design. “Clients are taking inspiration from the finer details of their wedding to better connect each element through décor.”

Textured icing effects include hand-painted botanical brush embroidery, such as the gold-highlighted technique used by Holly on the fondant icing tiers pictured over the page. She explains, “This design matched the bride’s dress with the effect complementing the lace on the gown.”

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Alice Marples from Marples Cakery is experiencing something similar: “I’m finding that a diagonal buttercream effect is becoming more sought after, as well as cascading floral displays on cakes,” she says.

FLORAL FUN

Emily tells us, “Semi-naked cakes seem to be on the decline after a strong presence for the last eight years or so. Taking their place are edible pressed flower designs or fully-iced, textured buttercream bakes decorated either with fresh flowers or palette knife painted abstract florals and colour.”

Ashleigh has experienced the same trend shift and says, “Pressed edible flower cakes are taking over from the semi-naked bakes for those couples choosing barn venues. These bring the outdoors in and match the rustic vibe perfectly.”

Emily continues, “For less rustic, more polished weddings, fondant iced cakes are sticking around and being styled with more loose-looking arrangements of fresh flowers and props such as flower crowns.”

TEMPT THE TASTEBUDS

“Couples are becoming more interested in different and unusual flavours,”

“Grand, tall cakes with minimal sugar detail are in, perhaps with an elegant rose or orchid spray embellishment.”

– Annie Bennett, Leading Lady Cakes

Annie Bennett from Leading Lake Cakes shares. “Rose is popular at the moment. I offer a blush pink, rose-flavoured sponge with fluffy buttercream also containing a floral hint. It looks fabulous and smells divine!”

Annie continues, “Fruit cakes also seem to be making a comeback. I’ve had quite a few bookings for those this year.”

Having safely been released from the various lockdowns of recent years, Leading Lady Cakes is now offering a full consultation service, at a venue of your choice (ideally your wedding venue), allowing couples to sample a selection of her mouthwatering cake flavours. Annie says, “This includes our newly-designed taster box, featuring up to six flavours. This follows an initial online consultation to decide on the basics, which is a fabulous way of getting the design details ironed out.”

On the flavour front, Alice is finding that her raspberry and white chocolate cake is most in demand – “The sweetness of the white chocolate complements the sharpness of the raspberries and makes the perfect sponge,” she explains.

IT’S ALL WHITE

“Classic yet simple styles are frequently being requested. Elegant white, with single roses and perhaps lace detail on the icing,” Annie tells us.

While Ashleigh says, “Pearls and whites are currently on trend. Think all-white cakes with loads of shimmery sugar pearls, which are our most requested style at the moment, decorated to match the also on trend pearl-covered veils and headbands. These tie in nicely with a venue filled with fresh white flowers and greenery.”

TREAT TIME

Cakes by Ashleigh’s newest product this year is the dessert table. “These have gone down a storm,” Ashleigh says. “They’ve simplified the booking process too as they come set from our menu as a package. All a couple need to do is tell us their colours and style and we do the rest. They include a two- or three-tier cake with matching items such as macarons, cupcakes and other delicious treats, all displayed on matching cake stands, plates and in trinket boxes.

Holly Ann Cake Design has also launched a new dessert table menu for 2023, which you can check out at www.hollyanncakedesign.co.uk/ dessert-tables.

Meanwhile, the latest sweet treat offering from Marples Cakery is deluxe chocolate dipped sprinkle strawberries. “These are popular for wedding champagne receptions,” Alice says. “Champagne and indulgent chocolate dipped strawberries make the most divine combination!” She too is finding that grazing treat tables are much requested, and says, “Couples are opting for a more al fresco type of dessert experience.”

CONTACT OUR EXPERTS

Ashleigh Nicholson, Cakes by Ashleigh, www.cakesbyashleigh.co.uk

Emily Fitter, Emily’s Mixing Bowl, https://emilysmixingbowl.co.uk

Holly Fairall, Holly Ann Cake Design, www.hollyanncakedesign.co.uk

Annie Bennett, Leading Lady Cakes, www.leadingladycakes.co.uk

Alice Marples, Marples Cakery, www.marplescakery.co.uk

“One to look out for is the Italian-style, which is a large flat wedding cake with piping. I have a feeling once they start to get out there, they’ll become popular. So, watch this space!”

– Emily Fitter, Emily’s Mixing Bowl

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HOT TOPIC: THE GREAT OUTDOORS

This issue, we asked the region’s experts for their advice on planning an outdoor wedding

CHIN CHIN!

William Coren, CEO and founder of House Coren (www.housecoren.co.uk) says: Planning drinks for your outdoor wedding reception is crucial for creating an unforgettable experience. Think about these key considerations...

•Guest preferences and dietary restrictions. Offer a diverse range of options, including sparkling wine, non-alcoholic alternatives, and cocktails to accommodate everyone.

•Weather conditions. Adapt your drink selection based on the weather. Serve refreshing drinks like spritzers and fruity cocktails on hot summer days, and warm beverages like mulled wine for cooler weather.

•Time and duration of the reception. Provide a variety of drinks to keep guests hydrated and refreshed throughout the event. Include non-alcoholic options alongside sparkling wine for responsible consumption.

•Signature cocktails and personalisation Collaborate with your mixologist or wine stockist to create signature cocktails that reflect your style as a couple, offering an exclusive and memorable experience.

•Beverage service and presentation. Ensure you have suitable glassware, ice, garnishes and professional staff to manage the bar effectively. Use outdoorfriendly drinkware for safety and consider visually appealing drink stations.

•Toasting and celebratory moments. Ensure an ample supply of sparkling wine for toasting moments and provide elegant glassware for a photogenic touch.

House Coren is honoured to offer packages for outdoor receptions and would love to be part of your special day, providing exceptional sparkling wine made in England. Cheers to a wonderful wedding reception!

CREATURE COMFORTS

Your Sussex Wedding editor, Kelly Andrews, says: When you’re tying the knot al fresco, make sure everyone’s adequately informed in good time. When you send out your invitations be clear on which parts of your day will be celebrated outside, or indeed all of it, so that guests know to make their own arrangements in terms of attire and protection. Keep an open line of communication with your suppliers too, and collaborate with them on wetweather backup plans. For example, at which point will you be prepared to make the decision to take it all inside? Who is going to be responsible for moving the whole shebang?

Check on the access to your venue. If you’re tying the knot in a field, are there accessible roads and paths? If not, have a think about how you can overcome these challenges for your guests. Perhaps you need to lay on extra transport.

Sound has a tendency to drift away in the open air, so make sure you have all the tech in place to ensure everyone can hear you as you say “I do.” You’ll also need to check with the venue whether there are any restrictions on latenight music, as you don’t want to be disturbing the local wildlife or residents! Also on the tech front, do you have all of the creature comforts in place such as loos and generators?

Have a think about what cover you want to provide for you and your guests. This is, of course, crucial for the comfort of all, not only in terms of wet weather protection, but also from the sun – we’ve had some scorchers in recent years. Once you’ve settled on a vibe for your nuptials, this should all become clear. An elegant, lined marquee is ideal for a classic wedding, whereas a tipi is the prefect choice for a boho or rustic vibe.

Finally, why not make a weekend of it and invite your guests to camp? Better still if you’ve chosen an al fresco venue with on-site bell tent glamping facilities!

SUMMER SCORCHERS

CEO and co-founder of The Gilchrist Collection, owners of The Ravenswood (https://theravenswood.co.uk), Samantha Gilchrist says: With the summer wedding season in full swing and the English weather as unpredictable as ever, you may get more than you bargained for when it comes to wishing for a sunny day for your al fresco nuptials.

Don’t compromise your photographic backdrop for finding shade. Your wedding venue is the backdrop to your day and it’s important that it’s not lost in your photography when avoiding squinting eyes. Work with your venue and photographer in advance to discuss where you’ll take your couple shots and allow for early evening photographs in the iconic areas of your venue that might be too bright for the day. Ensure you have someone on hand to bring you water and canapés during your photo session and to top you up with suntan lotion, which can often get forgotten. Nobody wants a sunstroke headache on their wedding day!

As you’d make the decision to move your ceremony indoors if it rains, don’t feel pressured to stay outside if the sun becomes too hot. Consider your dress or suit and whether you’ll be too hot to enjoy the moment. If you’re intent on staying outside, maybe ditch the suit jackets and instead opt for braces or waistcoats that buttonholes can be pinned to. Think too about your guests. Will some be older and struggle with the temperatures? Work with your venue to understand if the area you’ve chosen is shaded or exposed to the sun. Otherwise, make the most of your venue’s inside space and move things to shelter so you can keep your cool at the altar.

If you’re worried about guests struggling with the heat while enjoying your venue’s grounds, incorporating some cooling wedding favours can help them deal with the soaring temperatures. My favourites include paper fans, sun cream, flavoured water dispensers, cooling mist stations, or even offer ice cream or ice lollies.

Don’t for get to take time out to refresh. Whether it’s packing a few extra shirts, arming your chief bridesmaid with powder for keeping the shine away or popping some refreshing towels and sprays into the venue’s toilets, all this can encourage that moment to refresh allowing your guests to feel their best.

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PARTY PIECE

This hand-beaded headpiece called Spring Laurel, £575, is adorned with colourful faux pearls. A must-have accessory for fashion-forward brides this summer, it’s from the new Flower Child Collection by https://alexandraharpermillinery.com

Written in the stars

The Zodiac Disc Necklaces, £50 each, from www.nikitabyniki.com are double-sided, 18-carat plated designs printed with the star sign and symbol on opposing sides, meaning they can be worn either way. The disc hangs on an adjustable chain that can be styled as a long pendant or choker and each one comes in a recyclable gift box printed with an empowering message and a jewellery cloth.

HAIR NECESSITIES

This soft pink bangle band adorned with a cute gold heart, £4.90, is the perfect pick for bridesmaids. It’s available in an array of pretty colours with a wide variety of charms available. Shopping for your honeymoon? Then check out the cute Summer Sorbet Set of three bangle bands with one boasting a diamanté strawberry ice cream, £21.50, https://byeloiselondon.com

FASHION

Fashion editor

Claire Ridley reveals the latest bridal news, buys and launches

Best food forward

This Bella Pump lace shoe is from the first dedicated capsule Wedding Collection by www.malonesouliers.com, a designer shoe brand. An ode to ever-lasting love, each of the five opulent styles can be worn on the big day – and beyond. The collection has been expertly crafted with the entire wedding party in mind, from the bride, bridesmaids and maid-of-honour to stylish guests and mums.

SWEET DREAMS

This 100% Mulberry silk eye mask, £59.95 is from the newly-launched accessories brand www.dreamiboutique.co.uk which also boasts luxurious silk pillowcases and scrunchies, perfect for brides. The brand’s passion for sustainability and compassion means their products are cruelty-free, eco-friendly and always affordable.

Model looks

Fashion brand SLA The Label, founded and designed by one of the UK’s most successful style influencers

Sarah Ashcroft, has launched its first-ever bridal collection. Ultra glam yet elegant, it features high-shine fabrics, embellishments, silhouette dresses and glitter tailoring, www.slathelabel.com/ collections/bridal

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UNVEILED

Six Stories, the cult fashion brand renowned for its contemporary bridal wear and accessories is now available to buy globally across platforms including ASOS (www.asos.com/women/a-to-z-ofbrands/six-stories) and will also soon be available from Selfridges. Accessories include this cute short embroidered tulle veil, £25, plus hair accessories, headpieces and trendy cowboy hats and caps, www.sixstories.co.uk

It’s an ILLUSION

These bridal dresses with barely-there detail are sheer perfection

WIN! A TRIP TO THAILAND

Win a romantic getaway to the upscale Avani+ Samui Resort in Thailand.

Located on Samui, Thailand’s third largest island famed for its white sandy beaches and dense rainforest, Avani+ Samui Resort is a relaxing hideaway that embodies the laid-back island lifestyle. Chill-out with a cocktail beside one of the two swimming pools, indulge in a treatment at the AvaniSpa or work up a sweat at the AvaniFit gym. Beyond the hotel, guests can book excursions to explore all that Samui has to offer, from zip lining and jungle trekking to historic temples and night markets. Visit www.avanihotels.com/en/samui for more information.

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White Aries top with white Santorini trousers, www.slathelabel.com/collections/bridal

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Baylis & Harding has launched a new range of men’s shower gels designed to elevate self-care routines. The Goodness Men’s Range includes four gels, each of which has been crafted using natural ingredients, taking inspiration from nature to cleanse the body and mind.

Kind to your skin and the planet, the collection has launched on Amazon and in selected Boots stores.

Visit www.baylisandharding.com to find out more information.

British shoe brand Chatham has unveiled its Spring/Summer 2023 Collection. The new collection draws inspiration from Chatham’s love for being outdoors, combined with its signature British style integrating traditional craftsmanship and the finest materials. It includes everything from deck shoes and loafers to trainers and boots.

The Rockwell II (pictured) is the bestselling style in the collection, which is famed for being long-lasting and highquality. Crafted from premium chestnut leather, this comfortable deck shoe is handstitched and boasts new sole spring poron performance cushioning, which is anti-bacterial and offers maximum comfort and shock absorption. All of the deck shoes in Chatham’s durable G2 collection benefit from a two-year manufacturer’s guarantee.

Check out www.chatham.co.uk to see the rest of the collection.

Sons of Adonis has released a new liquid concealer formulated specifically for men. Delivering environmentally sustainable, vegan and cruelty-free premium make-up, Sons of Adonis aims to empower grooms to look and feel their best by normalising cosmetics for men.

The brand’s liquid concealer discreetly covers dark circles and minor skin imperfections with a natural matte finish. It’s discrete, safe for sensitive skin, non-oily, and moisturising, meaning grooms-to-be can enjoy all the benefits of wearing concealer with an undetectable finish.

To find out more, visit www.sonsofadonis.com

Grooms’

NEWS

Melissa Cullen reveals the latest best buys and product launches

Grooms editor

The international best-selling Orient Bambino Watch Series now includes a long-awaited 38mm diameter case perfect for grooms-to-be.

The Classic and Simple Style Series, known as Orient Bambino by dedicated fans, features traditional design features such as a convex dial and domed glass. The series has been a consistent best-seller over the last decade in 70 countries around the world. Until now, they featured mostly 40.5-mm case diameters, however, these latest models feature a more compact 38-mm case.

The beautiful finish can be admired through the see-through back, and the domed glass and convex dial create a vintage feel. The dial is available in beige as well as black and white, which complements the simple design perfectly.

For more information about the Orient Bambino Watch Series, visit www.orient-watch.com

Groomed Mobile Barbers have seen a rise in bookings for home haircuts and beard trims for weddings. Able to set up anywhere, Groomed Mobile Barbers bring with them everything needed to ensure your hair is styled, beard is trimmed and shave is perfectly smooth.

Owner Giuliano Dore tells us: “In many cultures, the bride gathers with her bridesmaids to have her make-up and hair done just before the wedding, but in the past, men simply queued at their local barber shop waiting for their turn. Now, everyone wants to have memorable photos, look their best and make more of the morning preparations. I advise grooms-to-be to consult with a barber about the style that they want before the wedding. A dramatic change may not be the most sensible thing to do just before you say your vows. Have a restyle a month or two before so that your wedding cut is just a tidy up and there are no shocks on the day.”

Visit www.gogetgroomed.co.uk for more information.

MAKEUP ARTIST

Becky is a makeup artist who specialises in wedding makeup with nearly 10 years of creating beautiful looks for her brides. Her passion is creating bespoke makeup looks to compliment your style and enhance your natural beauty. Becky will listen carefully to your needs and is known for her ability to create a look that compliments you and photographs beautifully.

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BRIDAL SPECIALIST

Charmaine is a bridal specialist with over 10 years in the industry. Making sure to listen to how you want to look and feel, as well as providing a guided, professional opinion when needed.

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Q&A Beauty

Look and feel your big-day best with help from the professionals

TIME IS YOUR FRIEND

I’ve recently learned that my skin is not just dry but dehydrated! How can I combat the dry, rough patches so that my foundation looks flawless in time for W-day?

Kate Mitchell from Kate Mitchell Makeup Studio and Academy (https://katemitchellmakeupstudio.co.uk) says: The most important thing to remember about skincare before your wedding is time. How long do you have before your big day to start mixing up your usual skin care regime? As we all know, the skin is a temperamental and sensitive organ, which after introducing new skin care can often go through many questionable stages before showing off the flawless, finished results. It’s highly recommended that any changes to your skincare routine, including any professional facial treatments are started within six months of your wedding day. This allows for your skin to have time to fully adjust to the changes, with opportunity to make a few tweaks along the way to get it looking and feeling perfect.

If time is on your side, I’d always recommend starting a course of professional facials. There are hundreds on the market, so it’s important to seek advice from a fully-trained professional who’ll be best equipped to adapt treatments around your needs and achieve the results you’re hoping for. The Hydrafacial is an amazing treatment for anyone struggling with combination skin.

If you don’t have six months to experiment though, light exfoliations and hydrating face masks are going to be your best friends. Exfoliating toners with very little acid content are a great way to gently reset your complexion, enhancing your natural glow and evening out texture. Moisturising tissue face masks are then ideal for keeping your skin hydrated and plump, plus they’re incredibly relaxing. For home use, I recommend Pixi Glow Tonic Toner and Garnier Moisture Bomb Face Masks.

I’d always suggest seeking advice from a skin specialist before introducing anything acid-based to your routine. This will reduce the risk of using any contradicting products or medications, which may cause irritation.

BARELY THERE

I’m loving the fresh-faced no make-up make-up look, and would love to go with something similar on my wedding day. What do you recommend?

Claire Reed from The Beauty Ninjas (www.thebeautyninjas.co.uk) says: For a fresh-faced no make-up look, ditch regular foundation and opt for one of the new breed of CC creams. These have enough coverage to use in place of foundation, but wear more like a tinted moisturiser. This results in a your-skin-but-better finish. They’re therefore a great choice for more mature skins and brides wanting a minimal look. My absolute favourite is IT Cosmetics Your Skin But Better CC Cream, which also contains SFP50 – a must for sunny wedding days. This should be set with powder to lock it in place all day. Forget fussy eye shading, instead add a light shimmer to eyelids, such as Charlotte Tilbury Eyes to Mesmerise in shade Champagne and finish off with mascara. Add a touch of cream highlighter to the tops of cheekbones and sculpt underneath with a cool-toned bronzer. Finish the look with a pop of pink blusher and a nude pink lipstick. I currently love the Charlotte Tilbury Lip Cheat Lip Liner in shade Pillow Talk, used all over the lips with a slick of clear lip gloss.

THE PERFECT FIT

RoC Skincare has been revolutionising skincare for more than 60 years boasting a legacy of firsts from the first SPF sunscreen proactively preventing signs of ageing, to being the first to discover a method for stabilising retinol. Today, it’s able to offer bespoke prescriptions based on your specific skin type and concerns across several ranges.

I recently tried the Hydrate + Plump collection, formulated with hyaluronic acid. The highlight for me was the Eye Cream (£24.99) designed to visibly lift, smooth and awaken eyes. With a cooling gel-like formula, its doesn’t leave behind a sticky residue, sits perfectly beneath make-up and has visibly smoothed the skin around my eyes while improving the look of my dreaded dark circles. Discover the right products for you at https://rocskincare.co.uk

NO FILTER

The love for no make-up make-up shows no signs of abating, with TikTok tutorials on the subject gaining 868 million video views. We’re all looking for those minimal, multi-purpose everyday make-up items that enhance the skin to give maximum impact with minimal product, and it’s a notion that’s also made it’s way into the world of bridal beauty.

I love Pearl Beauty’s Setting Powder. Set your make-up to last all day with this lightweight formula that offers the perfect soft focused, almost filtered appearance, while controlling shine without adding any extra weight or texture to the skin. £24, www.pearlbeautycosmetics.com

PUCKER UP

Huda Beauty has welcomed its latest innovation and I’m here for it! Huda Beauty Lip Blush: Creamy Lip & Cheek Stain is a must-have for your wedding day as the ultimate go-to for buildable, hydrating, and long-lasting colour. The innovative formula has a plush, light, ultra-comfortable creamy feel, thanks to a boost of hyaluronic acid powder and coconut extract. £21, available in five shades, www.cultbeauty.co.uk

BUZZ Beauty

Beauty editor Kelly Andrews brings you the latest must-haves

EDITOR LOVES

Sculpted by Aimee is a beauty brand founded by Aimee Connolly, an MUA with an extensive background in bridal make-up. So, when it comes to big-day looks, this lady knows where it’s at, which is evident in the products she creates. The brand has some absolute winners when it comes to bridal beauty and I was lucky enough to have the opportunity to put some to the test. Click play or scan the QR code to find out how I got on and check out https://sculptedbyaimee.co.uk

DOUBLE DOWN

Clinique has recently launched a new version of its iconic Moisture Surge product, now containing sun protection. Moisture Surge SPF25 Sheer Hydrator is a cloud-like cream moisturiser that both protects from UVA and UVB, and offers all-day hydration. My go-to moisturiser has stepped up its game and as well as all this, also promises not to leave a white cast in photographs, just a gorgeous glow. So, there’s no need to compromise sun safety for gorgeous wedding shots. £28-£44, www.clinique.co.uk

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GETTING LIPPY

Just in time for the summer, Missguided Beauty’s new ShockInk markers are here to keep your lips kissable and colourful for up to 10 hours, with quick-drying, zero transfer colour and matte shades to complement all skin tones. With subtle nudes, a bold red and a bangon-trend coral, these are a summer make-up bag essential. £7.50, www.superdrug.com

HIGHLY RECOMMENDED

Wishful’s new Get Clean 2% PHA & Sea Moss Gentle Foaming Cleanser has been a real revelation for me. I’ve been trying to wean myself off of those awful make-up removing face wipes, and this has not only done the trick but improved the health of my dry skin enormously. Brand founder Huda Kattan says, “A simple, gentle but super-effective facial cleanser, Get Clean goes from a milky gel to a beautiful foamy texture that I’m obsessed with, it just feels so good on the skin.” I couldn’t have put it better myself! I’ve often struggled with face-wash cleansers, but this is so easy to use and crucially removes every last speck of make-up in double-quick time. I’ll never look back! £22, https://hudabeauty.com

UP IN SMOKE

If you’re a fan of a smoky eye, check out BPerfect Cosmetics’ new Gravity Shadow Palette. You can use it to create some beautiful smoky colour stories, and statement eyes à la the nineties eyeshadow trend, currently seeing a resurgence. Best of all, with highpigmentation and a luxe formula, your looks will last all day. £19.95, www.bperfectcosmetics.com

JET AWAY

If you’re heading off on honeymoon, you can avoid the usual 100ml headache at airport security with Ringana’s new travel sets. Combining the brand’s essentials for facial, body and washing care in mini size, they also come with a transparent travel bag. Available in light for oily skin, medium for normal to combination skin, and rich for dry skin, as well as one for men. £58.20-£62.38, www.ringana.com

GLOW UP

Bedew Skin’s new Pink Clay Glow Up Mask is nourishing, soothing and in possession of acne-friendly properties. With ingredients such as pink clay and kaolin, this mask works hard on blemishes while giving you a soft, hydrated glow. Luxuriously infused with cranberry and strawberry extracts as well as hyaluronic acid, this is a thick and creamy treat for your skin! £22.99, www.bedewskin.co.uk

POOL PARTY

Perfect for your honeymoon, DKNY’s new collection of limitededition fragrances, Pool Party, is inspired by famous cocktails. There are four to choose from: Coconuts About Summer, Bay Breeze, Mai Tai and Mojito. Make a match to complement your destination! £37, available nationwide.

Being Sophie

Sophie Stonehouse on body positivity, self-love and flawless skin

Social media sensation Sophie Stonehouse, is perhaps best known for her appearance on the fourth series of Netflix’s reality dating show, Too Hot To Handle. Hailing from Brighton, she was the only British cast member and made her mark as the group of risqué singletons were put to the test of abstinence in order to keep their prize money high and stay in with a chance of winning it. Since leaving the villa, she has dedicated her time to producing fashion and style content for her social media followers, now numbering in their hundreds of thousands. Lesser known however are her struggles with body dysmorphia and her fight to achieve body positivity. Being the centre of attention on their wedding day, isn’t every couple’s dream with issues such as Sophie’s becoming more prevalent, and importantly more commonly discussed. So, CWM’s beauty and wellness editor, Kelly Andrews, caught up with Sophie to find out how she overcame these personal challenges, as well as discovering her top health and wellbeing tips.

What will you take away from your time on Too Hot To Handle?

The experience really taught me about self-love and respect. It also taught me that the most incredible experiences in life, happen when you least expect it. I feel very lucky to have had the opportunity to go on the show.

What have you been up to since you left the show?

I’ve completely transformed my career to become a full-time content creator. It’s a job I’ve always wanted to do. It’s definitely not an easy one, but it’s very fulfilling. I’ve also found a new relationship since leaving the show, and I’m very happy.

You seem very at home in your own body. How did you find this confidence?

Body confidence is something I’ve definitely struggled with, and I’m definitely a victim of body dysmorphia. But, I found the confidence to be at home in my own body, when I realised that I was never truly going to be happy with it. I noticed that I was always finding something to complain about whether I was overweight or underweight. Once I learned to accept myself, only then did I truly feel at home.

Are you able to tell us a bit about your battle with body dysmorphia and coming out the other side?

I’ve suffered badly with it over the past couple years. Since being

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a young adult, my weight has fluctuated year after year, and when I turned 18, I put on quite a bit. Then, as the first Covid lockdown hit I fell in love with fitness and completely transformed my life and body. However, that did come with its own disadvantages. I became obsessed with it all and would really get down on myself when I didn’t work out or eat right. Ultimately though, it taught me that no matter where I am with my body, I’m always going to want to change something whether I’m in perfect shape or not. I feel that now I have a happy balance and have accepted myself the way I am. I know that I want to look good, but I also want to enjoy my fried chicken burger, fries and a gallon of mayo without feeling bad!

How do you want to encourage and inspire women to discover their own self-love?

I think it’s important to remember that no one really cares. That’s what I learnt after suffering with pretty bad acne. I thought everyone was looking at me and the reality was that they just weren’t. As soon as you start putting yourself outside of your comfort zone, your confidence will grow. Another big one: don’t be mean to yourself, give yourself a break.

Wedding dress shopping can be a stressful time for those with worries about certain aspects of their body. What should they be looking for to feel more confident on the big day?

I think it’s so important to leave any expectations at the door. Go into the shopping experience with an open mind and a clean canvas. I’d be looking for something I feel comfortable and myself in. I think it’s important to remember that most people aren’t completely happy with themselves, and that’s okay. Go with what feels right and remember: on the day you really won’t care about the little things.

For many, their wedding day is the first time a couple will find themselves the centre of attention with all eyes on them. Some may find this uncomfortable, particularly if they’re feeling self conscious about their body. What advice would you have for them?

As long as you’ve made the day enjoyable for yourself as well as your guests, you’ll get lost in the experience. I think a lot of couples get caught up in making the experience great for their guests, but forget about their own wants and needs. I think it’s important to have fun with the

whole thing, don’t do anything or wear anything that makes you feel uncomfortable or not yourself. This is your day to shine. If you don’t like wearing a high heel and it isn’t for you, then don’t! Make the day perfect for you and throw on those trainers.

What does a typical day look like for you?

My typical day at the moment starts with a dog walk and a coffee. I live next to a canal, so I walk my dog there every morning. I then get back and make myself some breakfast and start my working day. After work I’ll try to walk him again before heading home to make dinner and relax. At this point in my life, it’s all about career and I’m happy with that.

Your skin is flawless! Tell us about your daily skincare routine. Surprisingly I don’t do a lot! I have very sensitive skin, so I like to keep it minimal. My go-to everyday skincare routine consists of my Garnier Micellar Water on a cotton pad, which I use to clean my face and remove all make-up. I follow that with Simple’s Replenishing Rich Moisturiser and Eye Cream. It’s really just that simple… less is more!

Are there any products you’d recommend to a nearlywed looking to get their skin in top condition for the big day?

I’d highly recommend GlamGlow’s face masks. They’re incredible and will help to get your skin looking perfect for the big day. For those suffering with acne, my top tip is: stop touching your face! I’m a picker and once I stopped it went away, very quickly.

What make-up products can’t you live without?

Cream contours and eyebrow gel!

What’s next for Sophie Stonehouse?

At the moment I’m working towards growing my platform. We have some exciting things in the pipeline for this year so you’ll just have to wait and see!

You can follow Sophie on Instagram at www.instagram.com/sophiestonehouse and on Tik Tok at www.tiktok.com/@sophiedeanstonehouse

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openings and honeymoon essentials

HONEYMOON News:

SPA SPECIAL

THAILAND

Aleenta Retreat Chiang Mai is a new property in Northern Thailand. The spacious 44 rooms, one-and-two-bedroom pool residences and teak villa, merge traditional Thai design with a soothing palate of natural hues, sophisticated furnishings and tech-savvy facilities.

Embracing its spiritual location in the ancient city of Chiang Mai, the resort is home to one of the brand’s signature wellness centres. Retreats are enriched by healthy cuisine and a wellness cooking class, as well as bespoke nutritionist-led plans with plant-based options. Aleenta Retreat Chiang Mai enables couples to work with a resident ‘master healer’, doctor, nurse and nutritionist to achieve optimum wellness and balance.

Elevated gastronomy is available at the resort’s restaurant, which offers breakfast, lunch and a refined menu in the evening. Menus have been curated to provide nutritious dishes that preserve the flavours of traditional Northern Thai cuisine alongside Western cuisine with a Lanna twist.

For more information, visit www.aleenta.com

ITALY

Hilton Lake Como in Italy is offering new spa treatments for guests and locals at its award-winning eForea Spa and Health Club. A celebration of Lake Como’s centuries-old tradition of silk craft and the property’s history as a former silk factory, the ‘Signature Silk Touch Treatment’ harnesses the material’s relaxing and soothing benefits. Tailored entirely to the couple’s needs, the therapist will select an aromatic oil, then the skin is prepped to release toxins and the flowing massage works into areas of tension, encouraging optimum circulation.

Hilton Lake Como is a new-generation hotel with spectacular scenery, traditional charm, and jaw-dropping 360-degree views of the lake from its rooftop pool. Steeped in history, it’s home to 170 spacious guest rooms, with a variety of stunning suites to choose from, and a popular rooftop cocktail bar and restaurant. Check out www.hilton.com for more information.

CROATIA

Recently renovated for 2023, the Valamar Lacroma Dubrovnik Hotel offers luxury rooms and suites, a range of fabulous amenities and an exemplary culinary offering across multiple restaurants, including its new Mezzino Snack Bar and redesigned à la carte restaurant.

Creating the ultimate rejuvenation experience is the hotel’s luxurious Balance Mediterranean Spa, which has been fully upgraded with a complete redesign of both its wellness area and indoor pool. With complimentary access to the ‘Valamar Signature Wellness Programme’, guests can relax in the steam bath, Finnish sauna, soft sauna, sauna lounge, indoor pool and room with water beds. Those looking to indulge even further can book one of the spa’s extensive treatments, including soothing massages and refreshing facials.

Head over to www.valamar.com for more information.

MALDIVES

The eco-luxury resort, Gili Lankanfushi, has announced a new ‘Ultimate Vinotherapy Wellness Journey’ at its award-winning Meera Spa. The 150-minute wellness experience includes a relaxing foot ritual followed by a pampering body exfoliation. Next, guests are wrapped in a unique blend of cabernet, clay and fresh grapes to cleanse and tone the skin while boosting circulation. Couples will then enjoy a deep muscle fusion massage, leaving them floating on a cloud before they step into a candlelit rose and wine-infused bath for two.

Gili Lankanfushi’s luxurious spa is comprised of glass-floored treatment rooms, a sauna, a steam room and plentiful relaxation areas connected by open-air walkways.

From immersive, one-to-five-day wellness journeys to new active programmes that combine surfing and scuba diving with tailored spa treatments, there is something for everyone at Gili Lankanfushi.

Visit www.gili-lankanfushi.com for more information.

Travel editor Melissa Cullen reveals new

SOUTH AFRICA

Great Plains, an eco-tourism organisation, has announced an assortment of wildly relaxing treatments now available at Selinda Camp in Botswana. The treatments, which can be enjoyed within one of the tents or out on the pool deck, include the ‘Great Plains Renewal’, which consists of dry body brushing, exfoliation and an African back massage utilising local ingredients. Assisting with muscle relief, it provides a general feeling of well-being –perfect for combating jet lag on arrival.

Alternatively, the ‘Out of Africa Couples Treatment’ is an experience for two that includes body exfoliation, a facial massage and a body massage using a specially formulated tranquillity balm rich in natural extracts.

Resting on the banks of the Selinda Spillway, Selinda Camp is situated within the private 130,000-hectare Selinda reserve. This pristine area is home to elephants by the thousands, wild dogs and the famous Selinda Lion Pride. Selinda Camp was completely refurbished in June 2019 and can accommodate up to six guests sharing three tented villas, including a family room where children are welcome. Each room has a private pool and in-room exercise equipment to assist in working off the sensational food and wine served at the camp’s fine dining show kitchen. Activities include morning and evening game drives, guided walks, local culture visits, in-room spas, wellness treatments and so much more.

Discover more at www.greatplainsconservation.com

SPAIN

Luxury villa specialist Purple Summer has unveiled the newest addition to its portfolio, Villa Can Totxa in Mallorca. The breathtaking residence in Pollença sleeps up to eight people in four en-suite bedrooms and is available to book for stays throughout 2023.

The ideal pick for wellness-seekers, Purple Summer can arrange several in-villa spa treatments for guests of Can Totxa, from blow dries to massages and mani-pedis. Guests can even combine a scalp and head massage, which incorporates relaxing, local Mallorcan oils, with a spot of guided meditation and yoga for a truly restorative experience for the body and mind, all of which can be arranged within the lush greenery of the villa’s private garden.

Residents of the sprawling property will have access to their very own private chef, who can continue their wellness journey with the creation of a bespoke healthy meal plan. From low-calorie tasting menus to freshlysqueezed detoxing juices, couples can choose nutritious options that utilise the freshest local produce, all without compromising on flavour.

Find out more at www.purplesummer.com

GREECE

Lango Design Hotel & Spa is an adults-only five-star boutique hotel nestled in a stunning location on the charming island of Kos, Greece, by the famous Lambi Beach. Recently opened for the season, its designed with the wellbeing and relaxation of its guests in mind. Chill by the pool or beach, rejuvenate at the Idolo Spa and indulge in the local astronomically inspired dishes at the KOAN restaurant.

The Lango experience starts from the minute couples check in to one of the 54 deluxe rooms and suites, some with private pools, others with views, but all feature luxurious amenities, high-end technology and modern comforts.

The Idolo Spa is inspired by the Mediterranean, it’s a 300-metre square haven where guests can relax at the heated indoor pool, sauna or steam bath and book a relaxing treatment or massage.

To find out more, visit www.langohotel.com

TURKEY

Set within a private bay in Fethiye, Turkey, the new chic boutique resort, Yazz Collective, invites guests to disconnect from everyday life and create long-lasting memories in its idyllic surroundings.

The 16 spacious guest houses are decorated in serene earth tones, complete with light chestnut furnishings to contrast the resort’s lush greenery, plush bedding, outdoor showers, colourful art pieces, and floor-to-ceiling windows that offer plenty of light to create an overall feeling of serenity.

An on-site art gallery showcasing works of renowned Turkish painters and sculptors is available to visit, and couples can also create their very own masterpieces in workshops led by resident artists.

Boasting an unrivalled location on the Aegean coastline, the resort is also home to an all-day beach restaurant with menus featuring seasonal ingredients and local produce, a bustling bar and relaxing spa cabanas that offer traditional Balinese treatments.

Click the link to find out more www.yazzcollective.com

MY EVERYTHINGMy first, my last,

Located in the South Ari Atoll, renowned for its marine life and coral gardens, the resort is spread over two islands: one, the blissfully peaceful adult only island; the other slightly more buzzy, welcoming families; both stunningly beautiful and connected via a 500m wooden bridge – the first of its kind in the Maldives! Getting there couldn’t be easier with BA flying direct from London Heathrow! Once you land in Malé, you can rest in the Conrad Lounge to cool off with a refreshing juice, bite to eat and even a shower if you so wish before you embark on your seaplane for a 30-minute breathtaking flight to your home for the duration of your honeymoon. And home it is. The resort’s friendliness is not to be taken for granted, expect warm smiles, relaxed vibes and no stuffiness often associated with such glamorous resorts.

AN ISLAND OF FIRSTS!

Conrad Maldives Rangali Island boasts the nation’s first underground wine cellar, first below sea level bedroom in The Muraka (with the first underwater elevator in the Maldives!), first dedicated cheese bar and the first to open an authentic Chinese restaurant in the Maldives, Ufaa – to name a few of its innovations. It’s only right to be the first destination to experience as a married couple. Goosebumps, right?

A ROOM WITH A VIEW

I was fortunate to stay in one of the sunset water villas complete with a private plunge infinity pool allowing you to watch the sky turn from the brightest blue to blazon orange with a glass of bubbles in hand. Utter indulgence. If staying over the water is not your thing, the opposing side of the island offers fabulously chic beach villas with private pool just steps away from the turquoise waters that you’ve only ever seen on postcards.

UNDERWATER LIFE

Maldives offers worldclass snorkelling and diving opportunities. On the Rangali Island’s house reef, I was lucky enough to spot a manta ray, baby black fin sharks, who have kept to the shallows to learn to feed and grow, parrot fish, turtles, reef sharks and shoals of colourful fish imitating a scene

Rachel Westall experienced five-star, desert island luxury at Conrad Maldives Rangali Island

from Finding Nemo! If this isn’t enough, the resort offers an excellent range of water sports and boasts a PADI 5* dive centre. I was lucky enough to enjoy a champagne sunset cruise where we viewed joyful spinner dolphins playing gleefully in the waves; as well as our search for the magnificent whale shark which, like us, enjoys bathing in these warm, tropical waters.

indulged in a 90-minute session entitled Mindful Bliss. Watching the fish beneath through the glass-bottomed treatment room, my therapist began the ritual to restore harmony and balance. She started with the most fabulous back massage, followed by a mini facial using clear quartz crystal wands and finished with the entrancing effect of fragrant coconut oil being gently poured on my forehead and hairline (often known as your Third-Eye Chakra). My hair has never felt so nourished following this invigorating hair and scalp massage.

A FOODIES’ PARADISE

Foodies are in for a treat with 12 restaurants to sample. Wake up to room service or enjoy breakfast at Vilu, the à la carte establishment offering dishes from smashed avocado with sourdough to eggs benedict to sensational pancakes for those with a sweet tooth, or head over to the very relaxed Atoll Market, the resort’s only buffet restaurant. Here you can sample many international cuisines, everything from sushi to freshlymade omelettes and help yourself to a smoothie pressed-to-order or a fruit platter from the cold room.

Another first, dine below deck at fine-dining restaurant, Ithaa. Here, I was lucky enough to enjoy a set menu which consisted of silky dill-infused salmon, foie gras torchon, and miso and truffle marinated black cod fillet, all beautifully paired with a sensational Sauvignon Blanc – all this whilst watching reef sharks gliding past the surrounding glass walls. As well as these choices, there’s Ufaa by Jereme Leung, where you can sample handmade noodles and dim sum; and the island’s health restaurant, Mandhoo – expect freshly caught seafood, lobster and fragrant flavours aplenty.

FEEL-GOOD TRAVEL

Eco-conscious travel is all the rage and Conrad Maldives Rangali Island is certainly getting involved in the promise to go green. You’d be hard pushed to find a single-use plastic in the resort as bamboo options (even your key card) are being introduced at every opportunity. Furthermore, and I was so excited to be a part of this, in 2017 the resort launched a coral regeneration programme, which aims to protect the surrounding reefs. With a complex eco-system and more than 10,000 species in the Maldives, the programme includes a coral nursery and a coral adoption programme for guests to partake in. The super-friendly dive team and I took to the waters to replant baby coral to flourish in their new home and hopefully thrive and grow. In six months’ time they’ll update me on my coral’s progress! Watch this space...

TRUE ROMANCE

It’s safe to say the staff at Conrad Maldives Rangali Island will do everything to make your stay one to remember whether you’d like to experience private dining beneath the stars on your veranda listening to the sea lap around your stilted accommodation; or a private beach dinner, just you, your love and the powder white sand beneath your feet. For total relaxation, a visit to one of the island’s two spas is a must. I

ONCE IN A LIFETIME

Bond. The name’s Bond. No this isn’t a new film location of an upcoming James Bond movie, it’s The Muraka - a first-of-its-kind, luxury two-level residence with a master bedroom submerged some 16ft below sea level in the Indian Ocean. If money’s no problem, then honeymoon like Paris Hilton and go for it!

There’s so much more to say, but I’ll leave you to find out the rest for yourselves. Do indulge, it’s worth it. To book, visit the website: www.conradmaldives.com

HAVEN A Celtic

Peace and tranquillity awaits honeymooners at Galgorm in Northern Ireland

WhileNorthern Ireland might not be the first place you think of when planning a mini-moon, having spent two nights at the incredible Galgorm Resort near Ballymena, CWM deputy managing editor Kelly Andrews is here to change that!

Northern Ireland’s premier luxury hotel and spa, located just 30 minutes from Belfast, offers the ultimate haven of relaxation. Set within 380 acres of parkland with the sometimes rushing, sometimes babbling River Maine running through it, Galgorm’s enviable location truly provides an escape from the real world.

A SPOT OF R&R

The jewel in Galgorm’s crown is the Thermal Spa Village, which I’d go so far as to say is unique, as I can honestly say I’ve never encountered its like. So vast is it that you need a map to orientate yourself! It’s fortunate indeed then that it has it’s own app containing just that, plus all the info you could possibly need during your stay. My accommodation was a mere two-minute walk to the entrance, so I was up bright and early, donned the robe and flip flops provided, and was off to investigate. Despite the flight from Stansted the previous day being one of the most stressful in recent memory, I could already feel the tension melt away as I strolled alongside the River nodding a cheerful, “good morning,” to fellow guests as I went.

If your experience of a spa is a pool, Jacuzzi, steam room and a sauna, maybe a hot tub if you’re really lucky, you’ll be swept off your feet by the Thermal Village! Mainly based in the open air it features a Wonderland of treats to explore and experience around every corner. I happened upon the Riverside Garden first; home to outdoor pools, hot tubs, The Salt Cave, a cafe and the Celtic Sauna. In some of the Resort’s packages you’ll receive a complementary 10-minute Celtic Sauna Infusion here, which was the case with my shepherd’s hut accommodation. So naturally, I wasted no time!

We were shown into the sauna by our sauna master, where I was pleasantly surprised to find a floor-to-ceiling window along one side acting as a frame for the stunning, tranquil landscape beyond. It occurred to me that what this place does so well is allow nature to do its thing in providing all the beauty and relaxation anyone could wish for. The landscape is part of the experience, not just a mere sideline, but I digress...

This treatment is a traditional Aufghuss ceremony consisting of three balls of ice being thrown onto hot coals, each one containing essential oils to benefit the body in a different way (breathing, circulation and skin) with each temperature more intense than the last. The air was circulated by the sauna master who used a towel to push the aromas towards us in the mesmerising, dance-like movements characteristic of the ceremony. As Celtic music played softly in the background, it was easy to drift away. When the ritual was over, we were escorted to the firepit area, where we were served a cool and refreshing watermelon punch to bring the body temperature back down.

As I continued my explorations, I came across The Walled Garden and couldn’t resist stopping for a cocktail in The Palm House, where I was able to recline and take in the views of the beautifully manicured gardens. Soon though, it was time for my private Riverside Bathing Experience. From reception, charming host Kenneth showed me the way to Birch, my very own secluded hot tub for the hour. The water is heated by log burner to 39 degrees, and the comforting smell of the wood burning only adds to the experience. A glass of prosecco waited for me and I was able to order more drinks using the QR code provided, which would be served tubside. All of my senses were engaged as I listened to the calming music and the sounds of the flowing river, sipped on my prosecco, enjoyed the smell of the wood smoke, and felt the warm water relax my muscles – this was the life!

The Thermal Village is actually open until 9pm, but by 6pm it was

time for me to reluctantly head back to the hut to get ready for dinner. I procrastinated all the way though, stopping en route for one last visit to my beloved River House (with its infared beds and views of the cascading River), a hot chocolate enjoyed on the riverside boardwalk, and a spell in The Alpine Garden’s vitality pool.

HEARTY FARE

The foodies amongst you will be equally as delighted by Galgorm as the spa aficionados since there are no fewer than three restaurants to choose from for dinner: Fratelli Ristorante, Gillies Grill and Castle Kitchen + Bar (the latter just a short transfer away). That’s not even counting the other options for afternoon tea in The Conservatory, where you can also find the Cocktail Bar & Gin Library, and McKendry’s, all up at the main house.

This was my first visit to Northern Ireland and I found the people to be some of the friendliest I’ve ever encountered while travelling. We honestly felt like we were among friends, and the staff at Galgorm can’t do enough for their guests. We didn’t have to make the walk from our shepherd’s hut to Gillies Grill once as we simply dialled reception and a short while later a thoroughly charming member of staff would be there to collect us, which was most appreciated, particularly when it rained.

Gillies Grill is reportedly a favourite amongst guests and locals alike, and it’s not difficult to see why. With a warm informal atmosphere, and hunting lodge vibes, it offers a menu sure to delight any palate. Interestingly, the menus for all of the eateries at the Resort are accessed via QR code, so you can peruse at leisure on your phone. No doubt developed during the pandemic, it helps to keep everyone safe, but is also kind to the environment cutting down on paper.

I opted for the barbecue pork bites, followed by the braised brisket of beef for main, finished off with a selection of delicious Irish cheeses. After thanking our super-sweet and helpful server, we made our way through to the adjoining McKendry’s. With a traditional Irish pub vibe, it’s also the Resort’s exclusive whiskey bar, offering an impressive collection of 300plus varieties from more than 21 countries. Here, we happily let our dinner go down while sipping on another cocktail and listening to the live music.

When it comes to culinary highlights, for me, it was breakfast. I’ll admit to being like a kid in a sweetshop! The spread was a joyous sight to behold with everything you could possibly dream of for the most important meal of the day from muffins and pastries; fish, cold meats and cheeses; cereals and fruit; to pancakes, full Irish breakfast, waffles and toast. Self control was most definitely needed!

HOME AWAY FROM HOME

Opened as a bed and breakfast more than 30 years ago, Galgorm has grown into the immense site it is today with 125 luxurious guestrooms, including 48 deluxe rooms, Junior and Signature suites, along with a range of more out-of-the-ordinary accommodation such as log cabins, cottage suites, shepherd’s huts and exclusive residences perfect for groups. But it hasn’t stopped there as it’s still growing with works currently underway and more in the pipeline. Even as I visited, work on a group of two storey cottages was nearing completion and land was about to be cleared for the new treehouse accommodation.

I was happily ensconced in one of the Resort’s shepherd’s huts during my stay. Welcomed by an electric woodburner cosily heating this home away from home, we quickly discovered all the comforts we could wish for were provided. I was obsessed with the huge outdoor copper bath, which I made a dive for as soon as I’d dumped my bags. The complimentary G&T and bath bomb, were much appreciated additions following the aforementioned airport hell.

For honeymooners though, there are two particular showstoppers that I would highly recommend! If you’re looking for ultimate luxury, Suite 1857 can be found in the original manor house and offers unrivalled views of the River from its Juliet balcony. Elegant and romantic, its rooms are decorated in brocade wall coverings in a muted palette, antique lighting, and French Baroque-style furniture, with solid oak floors and beams. It features a lounge area with sofa and two arm chairs for curling up in front of the TV, plus bathroom with free-standing bath and walk-in shower.

If a secluded, rustic, woodland escape is more your vibe the Shepherd’s Hut Suite is the place for you. Nestled in Galgorm Wood with the cascading River running alongside it, it’s luxuriously appointed with a lounge, mini kitchen, and bathroom with shower room and free-standing bath. But the stand-out features, without doubt, are your very own sauna and hot tub on the terrace. Enjoy a soak in the warm waters as you watch the sun set and raise a glass to yourselves, the newlyweds.

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