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The Seven Easiest Ways to Kill Your Fellowship By Joseph Akinrinola The wellbeing or otherwise of any gathering is a corporate responsibility. Still, the individual roles amount to the overall result you see about the gathering. I detest hearing people saying we do not have love in our church anymore. My response is to agree with that statement on one side. On the other side, I ask the speaker what he or she contributes to changing the narratives. After all, he or she could be a model of love so others can copy him or her. Every fellowship stands or falls on how responsible members of that fellowship are. Today, I will share the seven easiest ways to kill your fellowship. Let each member of any gathering, be it church, community, family union, professional body, or social gatherings, adopt this lifestyle and the group will die before you know it. Let us go over them. 1. Do not take your attendance seriously. I observed those who complain about events, meetings, or programs closing late are those who do not arrive on time. In my opinion, one of the ways to kill your fellowship is always to go late for the program. Even at that, do not contribute to the discussion while the meeting lasts. Just behave as you are not in the meeting. Besides that, ensure you leave before the close of the fellowship. With that, you will send the fellowship to its early grave.
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2. Be a passive member. Nothing frustrates a group leader more than insincere members. He can’t predict them. The leader doesn’t know who is on his side. So another habit that can kill your fellowship is to agree with the consensus, but do not play your part. Instead, gather people behind the leaders to show why the general agreement will not work. Through that, you will prepare the group for its funeral. 3. Be a consumer only. Check a living church or organization and you will find contributing members. Jesus even taught us it is more blessed to give than to receive. Consider if everyone in the fellowship only wants to be given, where would the resources come from. Thus, the habit of enjoying the benefit of the fellowship without the corresponding giving is a way to kill the fellowship. 4. Always shift responsibility. One mark of failure is shifting responsibility. It is easier to complain about the leadership if you are not in the camp. However, you will see clearly when you partake in decision-making. So always give reasons you could not accept any leadership role in your group and you will be among the people killing the association.
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