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A growing need for counselling Samaritans to expand services to meet rise in calls for help By Bejay Browne
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YPRUS Samaritans are urging anyone who feels lonely or depressed at this time of year to call them, and say they have expanded their services to cope with the growing number of people needing someone to talk to. The Paphos-based volunteer organisation is now offering a free helpline number, which can be accessed from all over the island, has opened a new listening centre in Limassol and has expanded into email and social media in order to reach more people. “Since the economic crisis took hold, we are receiving more calls from people who are losing their jobs; needing places to stay and are worried about money. People are really suffering from a lack of money and we are being contacted by people of all ages,” said director of the Cyprus Samaritans, Sally Unsworth. According to Unsworth, in the past year or so, the Samaritans have seen the biggest increase in the number of people contacting them via email. “I can’t give out any statistics as we don’t divulge this kind of information, but we also have a PO Box address for those who prefer to write us a letter,” she said. There is also a face to face service available by
appointment. “If people are feeling unhappy, sad, depressed, despairing or lonely, or they feel they don’t want to live, they should call us. These are all a range of normal human emotions; some people feel them worse than others. If you’re in a vulnerable position, it’s always good to talk. It’s important to remember that you’re not alone. We’re here to listen,” said Unsworth. “Often people feel that they have no one to turn to, they don’t want to burden family and friends with their problems or they feel that others may not understand and accept them; this is where we can be useful.” The Cyprus Samaritans was established in 1997 and is affiliated to the International Network of Befrienders Worldwide which operates in close to forty countries all over the world. The Cyprus organisation is based on the same principles as that of the UK Samaritans. Unsworth has been with the Cyprus Samaritans for the past eight years and will hold the position of director for three years, as the position is rotating. “We are now expanding the services and have now opened a centre in Limassol which is staffed mainly with new volunteers,” Unsworth said. This is another area where they
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Fireworks explode over the Sydney Harbour Bridge and Sydney Opera House during New Year celebrations last night. More than 1.5 million people lined the shores of the harbour to watch the annual firework display (AFP)
More women than men join adultery dating website after Christmas UNDERCOVERLOVERS.COM, a British-based dating website for married people seeking extra-marital affairs, has reported a record postChristmas surge in women joining the site. Since Christmas Day 13,835 new female members have registered, substantially exceeding the number of men who’ve signed up. “We experience a huge surge in new registrations on Undercover Lovers immediately after every Christmas however this is the first year in which more women than men have joined the site in this period,” Undercover-
Lovers.com spokesperson and adultery expert Emily Pope said yesterday. Since December 25, Undercover Lovers has registered 24,671 new members of whom 13,835 (56 per cent) are women and 10,836 (44 per cent) men. “The run-up to Christmas is hugely stressful and typically the bulk of responsibility for ensuring a happy and successful festive season falls on the shoulders of wives and mothers,” said Pope. “If come Christmas Day, it doesn’t match up to expectations or if exhausted wives feel that their huge effort has not been appreciated, it is un-
derstandable that many are seeking attention and approval elsewhere.” She said that when Undercover Lovers was launched three years ago the website had approximately seven men joining for every three women. Since then however the gender ratio of its membership has been moving progressively towards parity. “If the trend of the past week continues into 2013 we could soon reach the point where ladies outnumber the gents using the site, which would finally put paid to the preconception that men are intrinsically more adulterous than women,” she said.