Dainty Obsessions v.1 | no.2 Wedding Magazine

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Volume 1 | No. 2 From the creators of 605 Magazine

Winter 2012

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2012 Winter CONTENTS 104

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74 IN EVERY ISSUE 6 Editor’s Letter

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Kaitlin & Matt

14 Q&A

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Laura & Dan

30 Get to Know

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Summer & Ryan

104 Food & Drink

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Jolleen & Dan

110 Honeymoon Diaries

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Niki & Jed

114 Giveaway 120 Happily Married

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REAL WEDDINGS

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96 STYLED SHOOTS

FEATURES + INSPIRATION

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Bluegrass Love

16 Wedding Reception Games

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Intimate Details

50 Spark Letterpress

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The Great Gatsby

82 Brides’ Real Advice 116 Resources 118 Vendor Guide

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Editor Portrait: Jeff Sampson Photography

dain·ty [deyn-tee] adjective, dain·ti·er, dain·ti·est, noun, plural dain·ties. adjective 1. of delicate beauty; exquisite: a dainty lace handkerchief.

2. pleasing to the taste and, often, temptingly served or delicate; delicious: dainty pastries.

3. of delicate discrimination or taste; particular; fastidious: a dainty eater.

4. overly particular; finicky. noun 5. something delicious to the taste; a delicacy.

Origin: 1175–1225; Middle English deinte worthiness, happiness, delicacy < Anglo-French ( Old French deint ( i ) e ) < Latin dignitāt- (stem of dignitās)

It’s finally here! Volume 1 | No. 2 of Dainty Obsessions-- (Yep, still exciting). On one hand, our very first issue of DO hitting shelves seems like yesterday; however, on the other hand, our winter issue couldn’t have come soon enough. Being the “type A”, perfectionists that we are, we’ve spent the past two months finding every possible way to make our second issue even prettier than the last. With even more jaw-dropping Midwest weddings, take-your-breath-away styled shoots, and simple photographs that inspire creativity, we’ve fashioned a winter issue that we are sure will leave you wanting more.

And that’s not all. In the past couple months we’ve already added a larger distribution range (we now span a six-state region), added and collaborated with even more fabulous wedding professionals, increased the page count of inspiration, filled subscriptions for DO across the country, and personally met and talked with hundreds of brides who, just like us, are hungry for a quality resource.

Thank you to all who took the time to express your love for us! The overwhelming support from all your conversations, e-mails, text messages, Facebook “likes,” etc. have meant the world to us. Thank you for picking up our second issue of Dainty Obsessions. We hope these pages will bring a smile to your face and add some sparkle to your wedding day!

Valerie Sampson Managing Editor

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Publisher The Mighty Bowtones, LLC Managing Editor Valerie Sampson Sales manager Valerie Sampson Art Director Kerry McDonald Cover Photography Kelli Lyn Photography ContributING Writer Jessica Weischedel correspondence 300 N. Cherapa Place, Suite 504 Sioux Falls, SD 57103 605.274.1999 | contact@daintyobsessions.com Advertising Inquiries 605.274.1999 ex. 4 sales@daintyobsessions.com Check us out www.daintyobsessions.com www.facebook.com/daintyobsessions or www.twitter.com/daintyobsess From the creators of 605 Magazine, Dainty Obsessions is printed quarterly by The Mighty Bowtones, LLC in Sioux Falls, S.D. Š2012 Dainty Obsessions. All rights reserved. Content in this magazine should not be copied in any way without written permission from the publisher. Dainty Obsessions assumes no responsibility for unsolicited manuscripts or photographs. Materials will be returned only if accompanied by a stamped, selfaddressed envelope. Content in articles, editorial material and advertisements are not necessarily endorsed by Dainty Obsessions.

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DO behind the scenes

Top Left: The Dainty/605 crew at the Dainty Obsessions’ launch party.

Top Right: Andrea of Confetti Creative Co. watching Shalista Photography photograph The Great Gatsby styled shoot.

Left: Kelli of Kelli Lyn Photography capturing cakes from the Bluegrass shoot.

Right: Dave of Perceptive Cinematic Films among a table of details.

Bottom Left: The Dainty crew touring the magazine’s printer with Gary of Color FX. Bottom Right: Adam of AJ Production Company showing Avian Sunrise a peek of his footage.

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DO question & answer Etiquette Q&A Owner & Event Coordinator Alicia Weigel of Bliss Events & Weddings

No, you do not. Address the invitation with just the single person’s name on it. Most people will understand that the invitation does not include another guest. If you do start seeing +1’s appearing in your RSVP’s, it is best to call the guests and explain that you are not able to invite everyone, but that there will be other single guests attending.

We are having an adult-only wedding (no kids). How can we make sure this is clear to our guests?

Bliss Events & Weddings: 701.261.4730 Fargo, North Dakota www.blissweddingsfargo.com

Make sure to only address the envelope in the adult guests’ name. The term “and family” or listing each child is the proper way to invite children, but “Mr. and Mrs. Anderson” indicates just those two guests are invited. If RSVPs come in and includes children, it is best to call and explain to the guest that it is an adults-only event.

Do I need to have the same number of bridesmaids as groomsmen?

No! It is your wedding, so you pick the people that are closest to you, whether the number matches up or not. There are a variety of fun ways to arrange your attendants for pictures and during the ceremony, so matching numbers will not matter.

My fiancé and I are getting married in Jamaica. Are we expected to help any members of our bridal party pay for their airfare?

Typically, your bridal party will pay for their travel expenses, although any meals during the wedding itself need to be covered if they are not already included. Remember that if you are not paying for travel expenses, the decision is up to the guest if they can be in the wedding. If you are planning to contribute towards travel expenses, it is best to be up front right away with that information.

Who pays for the rehearsal dinner?

Traditionally it has been the groom’s family paying for the rehearsal dinner, but in recent trends, wedding expenses are being split between both the bride and groom’s families. The best way to approach who pays for what is to have a conversation with both families and whoever is involved with financials and discuss exactly what everyone wishes to contribute to. This eliminates confusion and frustration when bills start coming due.

How do I let guests know what the dress code is?

If you are having a specific dress code, it is best to list this at the bottom of the invitation or on the reception information card. The most well-known dress code categories are: Black-Tie, Cocktail Attire, or Formal Attire.

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Do I have to include a +1 on my invitations for single guests?

Suit or tuxedo with coordinating shirt and tie or bowtie

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Reception Games More and more couples are planning their weddings with their guestsâ&#x20AC;&#x2122; entertainment in mind. A current wedding trend is incorporating games into the wedding reception.

Games can help guests relax, keep children entertained, or give non-dancers something to do while mingling. Here are a few of our favorite games for your guests.

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Personalized Coloring Books

If you are concerned about the amount of children attending your wedding, be sure to include activities for the younger crowd. Crayons and coloring books are a classic way for children to pass time and will get their creativity flowing.

Add a personal touch by having custom coloring books created to depict your special day.

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Having a backyard affair or not into dancing? Croquet, Bocce Ball, or Bags are always a hit. These outdoor, leisurely activities are low-key and encourage family and friends to mingle and have fun. Grab a cocktail and challenge another couple to Horseshoes.

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Photos: Jeff Sampson Photography (Yard Games).

Lawn Games

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I Spy

Create an adorable list of photo ideas and leave the list on each table.

Encourage people to take photos with their camera or phone, upload them to Facebook and tag you and your hubby in them. You will be delighted with the random moments your friends and family capture throughout the evening.

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Mad Libs

Yep, Mad Libs are back--wedding style! Have these on the table for guests to have a little fun, or better yet, incorporate this idea as a twist to the traditional guest book. Collect them in a drop box, and after the big day you can bind them into a book. These will be entertaining to read for years down the road.

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Pop Quiz

Have your guests answer trivia questions about your relationship. Each of your guests may know you individually, as a couple, or from different avenues of life. Create an entertaining list of questions for friends and family. This will encourage chatting amongst themselves to find the right answer.

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Bluegrass Love

Historic Madison Ranch Bed & Breakfast, Black Hills, South Dakota Photography by Kelli Lyn Photography

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Soft, rolling hills, rustic barn wood, and â&#x20AC;&#x153;West Riverâ&#x20AC;? sunlight naturally brings us to the Black Hills of South Dakota. Stylist Kelli of Kelli Lyn Photography envisioned cool colors like champagne, blush, and hints of navy blue harmonizing with a soft, ethereal feel. In the heart of the nationally historic area, nestled in the trees, sits Madison Ranch B&B. Their natural and organic backdrop exudes a romantic ambiance and a peaceful state, creating the perfect locale for love. We dug deep to our grassroots to pull together a style that not only paints a bluegrass picture, but adds a delicate touch of sophistication.

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Amanda and Tanner Sogge were styled by the talented Stormy Lermeny of AJâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Wicked Salon & Spa. Going for the au naturel, Stormy created a soft, romantic look with relaxed waves paired with pale pink cheeks and nude lips, which enhanced the natural beauty of Amanda. Effortless in Rucheâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Gwen gown, Amanda owned the ever-so charming sweetheart neckline and beautifully textured bodice that gave way to a tulle dress cascading with layers for graceful movement. The show stopping Mi Amour lace hairpiece by Ruche pulled the look all together.

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Taking serious notes from his â&#x20AC;&#x153;bride,â&#x20AC;? Tanner found a casual, yet fashionable outfit in his own personal closet, combining khakis with suspenders and a snap buttoned-up collared shirt. Kelli created the head table to reflect the free spirit couple and down-to-earth compositions. Using an old band stand on the Madison Ranch property, she styled crisp-blue place settings amongst an eclectic mix of silver urns and platters. Hand making name cards out of blue terracotta coasters and chicken wire, we inserted custom-designed pieces from Alyssa McDowell of Hyacinth Mine. Using warm colors, a natural envelope, and her pretty designs, Alyssa created a suite set that perfectly coordinated with the aesthetic of the shoot.

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Using varied sizes of antique crates for height and decor, we placed six and three-inch-round confections from Piece of Cake Bakery and Cafe.

Frosted with simple, vertical lines out of butter cream frosting, the bakery accented the delicacies with some of Mother Nature’s favorite “candies.” Topped with raspberries, blueberries and pistachios, and accented with plums and dried mangos, they truly nailed the meaning of organic. Envisioning flowers to coordinate with the Hills of the west, Paula and Diana of Flowers by LeRoy created a stunning and an assorted mix of white roses, blue and purple thistle, allium, black millet, spray safari sunset, scabiosa pods and varigated pittosporum. With something nostalgic about the Black Hills, our Bluegrass affair oozes a bit of amour for everyone.

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Models: Amanda and Tanner Sogge Assistant Styling: Kelli Lyn of Kelli Lyn Photography Hair & Makeup: Stormy Lermeny of AJ’s Wicked Salon and Spa dress: Ruche Headpiece: Ruche Jewelry: Riddle’s Jewelry FloWERS: Flowers by LeRoy cake: Piece of Cake Bakery and Cafe caterer: Angel’s Catering Stationery: Hyacinth Mine Venue: Historic Madison Ranch Bed and Breakfast Cinematography: Perceptive Cinematic Films photography: Kelli Lyn Photography

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The Cake Lady Owner and baker, Anna Andachter of The Cake Lady specializes in custom wedding cakes and specialty confections. The Cake Lady masters her skills with self-developed recipes and cake-crafting techniques.

1. How did you start your business?

The Cake Lady: 605-370-1909 Sioux Falls, South Dakota www.thecakeladysf.com

From humble beginnings in my mom’s kitchen, the original Cake Lady was created. Before I was born, [my mom] began creating for friends and family and continued with me by her side for over 40 years.

After marrying, I moved from Washington to South Dakota, and after my father’s passing my mom moved to the state as well. With her move in November of 2009, we started a licensed kitchen and became The Cake Lady’s Cakes & Confections. My mom is now semi-retired (we love having her back to help in the kitchen) and now we are The Cake Lady.

2. What sets you and your work apart?

Our process starts with a consultation. The consultation is where I sit down with the couple and after learning about them and their wedding plans, I sketch what I envision their wedding cake could be like. They are able to look through our portfolio and taste different flavors and fillings we have to offer. Official booking usually follows with a short homework list for the couple. One to two weeks prior to their wedding there is a final consultation when we need the color swatches, cake toppers, and we finalize the number of servings needed. Last is delivery and occasionally cut-and-serving at the reception.

4. What inspires you and your designs?

My designs are inspired by my couples, fashion and other works of art. It is fun to follow current trends in other areas of events and fashion and watch them

Photos: AC Ellis Photography.

I think what sets us apart is our history and our passion for both the art of the flavor as well as the presentation. Our recipes have been handcrafted through the years, while our custom sketches are brought to life with carefully-honed skills.

3. What is the process for a bride and groom to work with you?

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trickle into weddings. We try to stay a step ahead by developing and trying new techniques with flavors, frosting, and even hand painting.

5. What are some trends you are noticing?

The biggest trend tends to be individuality. The range of ideas, requests, and customization are wonderful. We are getting more requests for 3D cakes, lots of textures, and naked cakes (no icing).

6. What advice would you give to engaged couples?

Most decisions made while planning a wedding reflect things about the couple. Choose flavors that you love, or even flavors that your mother or grandmother made you as a child. Do not choose flavors based on what you think your guests might want to eat.

7. Tell us about your re-branding. What do you want people to know?

We are excited about our new brand. Timed to coincide with the opening of our retail location, our new brand will reflect our hand baked goods, fun approach and fresh feel. We hope that the community will enjoy our new presentation and continue to trust us to prepare the desserts that their family will enjoy at weddings, holidays and other family events.

5 fun facts about Anna.. ^ Iâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;ve probably watched 2012 about 2012 times. ^ I prefer my cake without frosting. ^ Our wedding was a small, intimate wedding in a park with just a witness and no cake. ^ I dream in color. ^ I enjoy my saltwater aquarium from my desk.

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kaitlinâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s inspiration

Kaitlin & Matt Private FAmily Residence, Deadwood, South Dakota Photography by The photography shoppe

From the bride...

Atop a Mountain

Who would have thought a trip to South Dakota in the middle of a blizzard would lead to love?

Matt and I met through his cousin who lives in Albuquerque, New Mexico, where I am from. With Matt being in South Dakota and myself in New Mexico, we relied on the Internet. Shortly after a few video chats and phone calls, I decided to fly to South Dakota for New Yearâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Eve.

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;After our first kiss in a bustling airport before a word was even spoken; the rest was a fairy tale!â&#x20AC;? ^ Kaitlin

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Our first kiss was at the Sioux Falls Regional Airport as I came down the escalator, literally before we even said a word to each other. Five months later--and after several flights across country--Matt got down on one knee in the Sandia Mountains near Albuquerque, and the rest is history! After we spent a great deal of time searching for the best venue, we decided on an intimate, backyard wedding. Mattâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s aunt and uncleâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s home is perched on a mountain in the Northern Black Hills. We knew this would be the perfect place to celebrate our vintage-rustic themed celebration.

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Planning a wedding long distance proved to be challenging. Quite a few weekends were consumed with traveling to the Black Hills, meeting with vendors, and discussing ideas. Our core elements became mason jars and burlap. We didn’t start out with a main color combo in mind. Instead, we settled on mustard yellow after deciding to incorporate Billy Balls in our floral arrangements--that, and the fact that both Matt and I have fancy yellow diamonds in our rings. Matt and I, along with our families, spent many weekends working on the DIY projects. We made burlap napkin holders and added buttons from Matt’s grandmother’s button collection. We also wrapped wine bottles with burlap and painted numbers on them for each table.

Name tags were made out of cardboard found from Hobby Lobby, and we spray painted them with chalkboard paint and wrote each guest’s name with their assigned table number. Wildflowers were handpicked from the area just two days before the wedding and placed into mason jars that hung from chairs that lined the aisles.

One of my favorite wedding moments was hearing Matt sing during our ceremony while I walked down the aisle. It was very special, because during our engagement Matt would frequently serenade me with his voice and guitar. He told me he loved me for the first time through a song he wrote and recorded!

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“After five long months, we eventually realized that we couldn’t survive being that far apart!” ^ Kaitlin and Matt

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Kaitlin’s Vendor List dress: Vera Wang Shoes: Toms- Isabel Burlap Ballet Flats Jewelry: New Mexican Turquoise Bridesmaid Dresses: Alfred Angelo Bridesmaid Shoes: Make Me Chic Bridesmaid Jewelry: Turquoise

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Grooms attire: Express Grooms Shoes: Toms Burlap Shoes Rentals: Dakota Equipment Rental FloWERS: Bloomers Flowers & Gifts Caterer: Rent-a-Chef Cake: Piece of Cake Bakery & Cafe

Linens: Servall Invites/Wedding Stationery: Paperwerks Venue/Reception: Private Family Residence DJ/Lighting: Jarryd Haag Cinematography: Perceptive Cinematic Films photography: The Photography Shoppe

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laura’s inspiration

Laura & Dan Zart1312, Des Moines, Iowa Photography by Amy Allen Photography

Downtown Des Moines

From the bride...

Dan and I are from the same hometown, but we didn’t meet until freshman year of college through mutual friends. Fast forward seven years, we decided to take the big jump into marriage and haven’t looked back since! I knew I was in trouble when I began finding projects and inspiration on wedding blogs and Pinterest before we even got engaged. Luckily, my crafty mother helped turned my vision into reality. First and foremost, we knew we wanted a smaller, more intimate gathering. With only 90 people, we were close with each guest. Our number-one goal was to make everyone feel welcomed and appreciated. Between welcome bags being filled with goodies for guests upon arrival of their hotel and Jimmy John’s catering at the end of the night, we know everyone had a wonderful evening! I decided on a color scheme of mostly blues, greens, bronzes, and burlap.

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A couple of favored elements were the seating chart and the guest book. My mom and I crafted the seating chart out of an old wooden frame we picked up at a craft store. We clipped our table listings to twine with mini clothes pins. Instead of the traditional guest book, Dan and I each picked a coffee table book we liked and had our guests leave their well wishes. We also made postcards and placed one at each seat. We asked our guests to give us their marriage advice and drop the cards in our homemade mailbox. It was so fun going through and reading everyoneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s response.

My absolute favorite element of dĂŠcor was the upside-down umbrellas! I hand selected each umbrella design, which gave the ending to our evening the perfect touch.

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“Guests tossed rosemary and lavender from cones--these must have been a hit, because we were covered!” ^ Laura

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Lauraâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s Vendor List dress: Paloma Blanca Shoes: Badgley Mischka Jewelry: Nordstroms Bridesmaid Dresses: Watters Bridesmaid Shoes: Nine West Bridesmaid Jewelry: Etsy

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Invites: Zephyr Weddings Church: Capital Hill Lutheran Officiant: Leighton Carlson Reception: Zart1312 DJ: Musical Edge DJ photography: Amy Allen Photography

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DO newsworthy Spark Letterpress

by Jessica Weischedel

Throughout the process of planning a wedding, stationery is one thing that comes up as a continuous need. From save-thedates and invitations to programs and menus, the printing needs for such an event are unavoidable. Even after a wedding, the aftermath of thank you and holiday cards are always there to send out to your loved ones to show you care.

When it comes to your wedding, the look and feel of the stationery you choose should stay consistent throughout the process. The details involved with designing your suite can be overwhelming. Fortunately, Spark Letterpress has a new storefront that can help you with your personal needs in designing that perfect piece for the occasion.

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Letterpress is an old-world printing method that is used to print one-of-a-kind pieces, including all types of wedding stationery. It has a look you can see and feel, with deep impressions, custom ink options, and soft cotton papers that exude luxury and craftsmanship. Some say once you see what

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Husband and wife team Jim and Valerie Carlson are the owners and designers behind the â&#x20AC;&#x153;Letterpress Love.â&#x20AC;? After designing their own wedding invitation, they realized they both had a passion and talent for the ability to create something original, using their quality printers, materials, and impressive design experience.

Spark Letterpress has been in the Sioux Falls area for more than six years. In that time, the Carlsons have grown their business while designing and printing their stationery on genuine letterpress printers in the Spark Letterpress warehouse, sending their designs out to more than 110 retailers nationally and internationally.

Their business has been recognized by a number of national and regional bridal magazines and blogs, including Martha Stewart Weddings, Inside Weddings, Style Me Pretty, and Brides Magazine. This exposure and recognition made the business realize how much it meant to them to not just sell their designs to brides who are located thousands of miles away, but to sell them to brides who can come into their storefront and meet their team while working one-on-one to achieve the wedding stationery of their dreams.

Spark Letterpress recently opened their retail storefront, located in the Tri-State Creamery Building on Main Avenue in Sioux Falls. The storefront displays a variety of options for anyoneâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s stationery needs. The presentation of custom letterpress invitations, note cards, party paper goods, greeting cards, and more will most likely get any bride filled to the brim with inspiration and brand new ideas for their wedding the minute they enter the store.

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having consults in person so they can physically touch and feel the products available to them. “One of our goals is to bring more stationery awareness to Sioux Falls with paper focus. Technology is everywhere, and this storefront is a reminder of a more personal way to communicate,” she says. “ Our printing is fully customizable. We will work one on one with you to create whatever it is you want to customize your wedding.”

The design process for your own unique stationery is an exciting and personal experience. First, you select your paper type and color choices, including what kind of envelope and what sizes you would like for each piece. Choose your font(s) and ink color, and any optional accessories such as laser cutting, ribbing bands, or pocket folding. There is also the option of using blind letterpress, where no ink is used on the paper, just an impression, creating a very classic and subtle look. Also available are custom ink colors, which are mixed to match a PMS number or a favorite fabric or paper swatch.

When your order is placed, the design is created in the Spark Letterpress warehouse, using a restored original Heidelberg press and the intricate handiwork of the designers in-house. A design proof is issued within 2-5 business days for your review and approval. The design then goes into production, with the end result typically taking 15-18 business days.

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Visit the Spark Letterpress storefront in the Tri-State Creamery Building on Main Avenue to see what design you can come up with for some beautiful custom wedding stationery to make a lasting impression.

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Intimate Details

Tablescapes

Styled Shoot

Table styling by Confetti Creative Co.

Set

the ambiance for a cozy wedding with bare branches warmed by soft candlelight.

Incorporate clean and modern dishware with sleek square white plates. Add a simple white napkin with a mini wreath of twigs and a shimmery gold name card.

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a frosty tone with a white glitter runner and an ice-blue tinted glass vase. Fill with white simple flowers for height and accent with a clear sparkly charger to match.

Wintery Confections Desserts by Sinful Things Gourmet Desserts

Forget about your six-tier wedding cake. Smaller sweets are making a big and decadent

statement on todayâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dessert tables. Treat your guests to the perfect winter indulgence with four incredible, edible works of art.

Macaroons Single-bite cookie with the perfect balance of crunchy and chewy textures

Strawberry champagne cake topped with a mint frosting accented with â&#x20AC;&#x153;Sâ&#x20AC;? swirl scallops

Partridge in a pear tree cookies with a sugar-glazed icing, airbrushed with an antiqued design

Petite white top hat wedding cake

Stationery Invitation Suites by spark letterpress love

Creating

anticipation and excitement for your wedding day begins with the arrival of invites to your guests. Your stationery can speak wonders of your style and feel for your wedding day. Try setting the tone with a few of these lovely pieces.

The Chelsea Suite

The Hilary Suite

The Amelie Suite

The Daphne Suite

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summer’s inspiration

Summer & Ryan Terry Peak Chalets, Black Hills, South Dakota Photography by Jessica Simons Photography

Romance in the Chalets

From the bride...

Ryan and I went to high school together. We knew of each other, but didn’t hang out in the same crowd. Almost 10 years after high school, we ran into each other in our hometown. He asked me to go fishing and I told him I would think about it, but ended up going golfing with friends instead. Luckily Ryan was persistent and asked if he could make me dinner. I agreed. He came to my house and made shrimp tacos. I fell in love with tacos that night, and shortly thereafter I fell in love with him!

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;Add personal touches.

Your guests want to see elements that represent you as a couple.â&#x20AC;? ^ Summer

We wanted an intimate wedding that doubled as a minivacation for our families and closest friends. Having the whole event outside was also important to us, and Terry Peak Chalets was the perfect venue because they had a beautiful outdoor pavilion.

We were going for a rustic, yet modern and romantic vibe, but--most importantly--we tried to include personal touches and elements that are important to me and Ryan. We decided on serving shrimp tacos as our entrée because of our first date. Instead of bridesmaids and groomsmen, we had our siblings stand up for each of us.

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Ryan’s sister-in-law spoke at the ceremony, which made it much more meaningful. The fireplace mantel in the pavilion was decorated with my late father’s snowshoes that he made from scratch. Our signature drink was my stepfather’s Bloody Mary. Our dance playlist was a compilation of our guests’ favorite dance songs that they requested via our RSVP cards. Our programs included bios about our family members and games with questions about the bride and groom. My mom helped with the large task of collecting mismatched china to use at every place setting.

Our biggest inspiration for our wedding was to make sure that we expressed who we are as a couple, while making sure that our guests were laughing, dancing, and having a great time.

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“Relax and soak in every minute of it!” ^ Summer

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Summer’s Vendor List ^^^ Dress: Bridal Gallery shoes: Anne Klein Bridesmaid Dresses: Asos Grooms attire: Halberstadt’s rings: Woelfel Jewelry

Hair Stylist: Madisson’s Two Rentals: Dakota Rental Equipment Flowers: Bouquets by Bent Willow Designs/ Centerpieces by Jennifer DeJong Invites: Minted

Officiant: Taffy Tucker Venue: Terry Peak Chalets DJ: Powerhouse DJ Services photography: Jessica Simons Photography

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jolleenâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s inspiration

Jolleen & Dan Jacques Riley Barn, Eden Prairie, Minnesota Photography by Eden Photography

A Woodsy Motif From the bride...

Our favorite seasons are spring and fall, so we decided on a May wedding with fall colors. I have a love for the outdoors, so I knew that the wedding had to have an outdoor, natural quality. We wanted something more down to earth and casual--something out of the ordinary. The wedding gave me a chance to use my creativity, which had been put on the back burner since I graduated from college. I had a lot of fun designing the invitations, programs, and seed packet favors. I recruited my friends and family to help out with the details. It was definitely an adventure!

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“I wore my hair and makeup exactly how I wear it every other day.” ^ Jolleen

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I didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t want anything to be matchy-matchy, so all of our dresses were the same style, but different cuts, patterns, and colors. My mom made my sisterâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;s dress and hand-crocheted my garter. My dad cut wood from fallen trees in his backyard for our hand-burned, initialed centerpieces. Vintage bottles were picked from antique shops along with birdhouses and birds from craft stores. I wanted everything to be local or handmade. We created paper pinwheels, directional signs, and banners.

For our guest book, I wanted something interactive. We used an old vintage typewriter for guests to type out a personal message. I had preprinted and hand-trimmed cards that resembled old book pages and scrolls. I then used a paint pen on an old window to direct people on what they should do. Our natural-vintage theme, along with love birds and carved initials, were a repeated motif throughout the occasion.

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“My vintage bracelet was borrowed from my best friend, Erin. It was also my ‘something blue.’” ^ Jolleen

â&#x20AC;&#x153;She designed every print and stationery detail herself. Cool gal!â&#x20AC;? ^ Bethy, Photographer, Eden Photography

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Caterer: Chuckwagon Catering Linens: Cake Vintage Table & Home Venue & Reception: Jacques Riley Barn photography: Eden Photography

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Anna Vanderloo

Megan Peterson

“Have cheesecake instead of cake if you want to see people line up at the cake table!”

“My best piece of advice is to remember what all your planning and preparing is for. Don’t lose sight of the end result, and enjoy your journey to that point.”

Becky Berger

Mary Fischer

“If anything small can be delegated to a friend or family member, it truly does take a load of stress off your shoulders.”

“Plan for sunshine. But if it rains don’t forget...rain makes for beautiful pictures!”

Photos: Finished Vision Photography (Image 1); Katie Lewis Photography (Image 2); Wilcoxin Photography (Image 3); Jessica Simons Photography (Image 4).

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Dana Schuldt

Terra McNamara

“Have tons of fun planning even if it’s stressful. And love every moment.”

“Sit together with your fiancé and find out what are the top three things that are most important in your day.”

Alissa Colin

Jackie Shives

“The bride and groom should just set all cares aside and go with the flow. Don’t stress, and know that at the end of the day, you’re married.”

“Get organized ahead of time so that you can enjoy your wedding day. Feel every emotion, every moment, every hug, every word spoken, and every expression of love from your husband!”

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Let our professional chauffeurs treat you like royalty.

We proudly serve the region with 6, 8, 10 and 12 passenger limousines, sedans, vans, shuttle buses, limousine buses, 45-passenger coach and 56-passenger coach.

Celebrating 30 years, (605) 332-7952 www.sodakroyallimo.com sdrlimo@midconetwork.com

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Styled Shoot

The Great Gatsby Washington Pavilion Mary W. Sommervold Hall, Sioux Falls, South Dakota Photography by Shalista Photography

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The 1920s have long been remembered as the “Roaring Twenties”--an era where lavish parties were had, flappers smoked and danced, cocktails were mixed, and feathers and sequins dazzled. With the highly-anticipated blockbuster The Great Gatsby releasing in 2013, we channeled our inner theatrical and carefree spirit for a wedding-inspired styled shoot. We visualized a glitzy, glamorous affair in the Mary W. Sommervold Hall at the Washington Pavilion to compliment the grandness of the occasion. With its 1,800 seats, the Sommervold Great Hall is in the region’s premier cultural and entertainment district located in downtown Sioux Falls, South Dakota.

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Hair and Makeup designers Jenna Ruby and Ashley Stoner of Vanessen’s Hair Design reinterpreted the 1920’s ladylike sophistication and handsome movie star glamour on our models, Kayla O’Connor and Blake Thompson. Vanessen’s styled a short bob of finger waves for Kayla and a slick side comb for Blake. Smitten with the era, Kayla wore an ivory tulle dress beautifully detailed with lace accents, floral embroidery, sheer, scalloped sleeves, and a charming asymmetrical hem from Ruche. Replicating the Art Deco movement with geometric shapes and strong colors, Bechtold’s Jewelers styled appropriately with long, pearl strands, scalloped bracelets, and a square-cut emerald ring.

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Taking on the look of Mr. Gatsby himself, Blake was sharply dressed by Halberstadt’s Men’s Clothiers in a black Hugo Boss tuxedo and a Robert Talbott bowtie. Andrea Snaza, designer and owner of Confetti Creative Co., styled our Gatsby rendition, mixing modern and stunning while incorporating true facets of the time. She set our table with a standout gold-sequined runner, black chargers, and hints of the rich and deep tone, emerald green. Josephine’s Floral Design created lush bouquets of white roses, gold accents, and feathers arranged in vintage emerald green vases from Lost Marbles Antiques.

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Known for her custom, handmade brooch bouquets, Josephine’s created a sparkly and meaningful keepsake with vintage brooches, pearls and feathers that matched our swanky motif.

Hosting a “Roaring Twenties” themed celebration isn’t complete without music! Alternatively known as the “Jazz Age,” people took an interest in lively music, compelling people to get up and dance. Our present version included Avian Sunrise of Sioux Falls. Stepping in with their indie rock style, Avian created an upbeat atmosphere for our couple to dance and mingle the night away amongst cascading balloons and confetti.

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Models: Kayla O’Connor & Blake Thompson Assistant Styling: Andrea Snaza of Confetti Creative Co. Hair: Jenna Ruby of Vanessen’s Hair Design Makeup: Ashley Stoner of Vanessen’s Hair Design dress: Ruche Jewelry: Bechtold’s Jewelers Groom’s Attire: Halberstadt’s Men’s Clothiers FloWERS: Josephine’s Floral Design cake: Taylor’d Cakes table settings: World Market Stationery: Confetti Creative Co. Band: Avian Sunrise Rentals: Ideal Wedding & Events antiques: Lost Marbles Antiques Venue: Mary W. Sommervold; Washington Pavilion Cinematography: AJ Production Co. photography: Shalista Photography

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niki’s inspiration

Niki & Jed Strawbale Winery, Renner, South Dakota Photography by Jeff Sampson Photography

Sophist icated Fusion in t he Vineyard From the bride...

I’ll start by saying that I’m not your typical bride. I hadn’t been envisioning my dress or

planning the perfect day since I was 5. We got engaged in Greece and had almost a 24-hour travel day back home in which Jed had already started sketching his outfits, picking his groomsmen, and drafting the menu. I immediately started to feel overwhelmed!

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â&#x20AC;&#x153;For our color scheme, I got ideas from my closet. I wear a lot of neutral colors and wanted our outfits and decor to fit in with the natural elements around us.â&#x20AC;? ^ Niki

I knew my first task was to hire a wedding coordinator to help! I didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t do much DIY because it was long distance planning and I simply didnâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;t have the time. Instead, I relied on Pinterest for inspiration and hired wonderful wedding professionals that got what we were going for. Jed, along with his family, is mostly from the East Coast and both of our friends are spread out across the country. However, both Jed and I love South Dakota and wanted the wedding here as an experience for our guests. This gave us the opportunity to share my home state with everyone.

We wanted everything outdoors to bring in the country, while still keeping true to us with a little more sophistication. We created a lush, romantic setting among the vineyards of Strawbale Winery with a ceremony spot nestled in the trees, a casual cocktail hour with chickens and live music and a rustic, candlelit reception under a tent.

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The most important aspect of planning for us was the ceremony. Jed is Jewish, and I’m Catholic. Since we were having a mixed denomination ceremony, we wanted to make sure that both of our faiths and families were represented well. There were a lot of elements that overlapped, but also a lot of really neat Jewish elements I had never seen before. After we smashed the glass and everyone yelled “Mazel Tov,” Jed and I led the recessional and went to have a “Yichud” (time of reflection) with just the two of us to take in the importance of what just took place. This was the only five minutes of alone time we had all day, and I’m glad we took that. Our ceremony ended up being so meaningful, unique, and special to us. Everyone there got to see something they hadn’t seen in a ceremony before and it really was absolutely perfect!

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“My first inspiration came with picking the venue. Once I had this, visions of mason jars, a barn, and hay bales began dancing in my head!” ^ Niki

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“One of my absolute favorite parts of the ceremony was the reading of the 7 Blessings. We each had a different family member come up to toast us with a different blessing, which is a Jewish tradition.” | DO ^ ^ Niki

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^^^ event coordinator: Envision Wedding Studio Rentals: Ideal Weddings and Events Portable Restrooms: Molly’s Executive Restrooms FloWERS: The Flower Mill Caterer: Chef Dominique’s Catering and Banquet Facility Wedding Cake: The Cake Lady

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dress: Maggie Sottero; The French Door Shoes: Boots RCC Western Wear Jewelry: Tacori, The French Door Bridesmaid Dresses: J. Crew Bridesmaid Jewelry: Francesca’s Collection Grooms attire: John Varvatos Nordstrom Hair & Makeup: Platinum Imagination Hair and Makeup

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Niki’s Vendor List

Stationery: Envision Wedding Studio Transportation: School Bus Inc. Charters Officiant: Rabbi Guy Greene Venue: Strawbale Winery DJ/Lighting: DJ Jer Acoustic Guitarist: Dan Mahar Cinematography: AJ Production Co. photography: Jeff Sampson Photography

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Gourmet Butlered Hors d’oeuvres Chef Dominique’s Catering | Sioux Falls, South Dakota (605) 336-0455 www.chefdomscatering.com

Take your scrumptious reception to the next level with crowd pleasing spreads. This collection of hors d’oeuvres has something for everyone, from the traditional to the adventurous. From cream cheese stuffed smoked salmon bites to hearty swiss ham balls, Chef Dominique’s Catering will create an appetizing array.

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Photos: Jeff Sampson Photography; Table Settings: World Market

Smoked Salmon Timbale - salmon mousse wrapped with smoked salmon, topped with caviar then tied with a chive

Fresh Oysters -Â Kumamoto, West coast oysters on the half shell with a shot of Grey Goose Vodka

Swiss Ham Balls ground ham and pork mixed with crushed pineapple and Swiss cheese, simmered in a sweet and sour sauce Mini Twice-Baked Potatoes bacon stuffed and topped with melted cheese, bacon, and chives

Petit Brie en Croute puff pastry cups filled with brie then garnished with raspberry preserves

Manchego Stuffed Dates topped with a walnut

Quince Paste rolled in caramelized almonds, served with Manchego cheese and crackers

Grilled Bruschetta with havarti, honey, and figs

Hot Bruschetta open-faced French baguette, layered with garlic butter, Prosciutto ham, Roma tomatoes, mushrooms, and Provolone cheese

Crostini of Maytag Bleu Cheese country bread topped with a Maytag bleu cheese spread then finished with toasted slivered almonds, honey, and currant marinated in port wine

Multi-Grain Bread topped with feta cheese, jam, and fresh thyme

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Signature Holiday Cocktails Icon Lounge & Event Hall | Sioux Falls, South dakota (605) 444-4266 www.iconsiouxfalls.com Make your spirits brighter with these festive drinks created by Icon Lounge of downtown Sioux Falls. Serve your guests one of these cozy cocktails and warm up the night.

Hot Apple Pie

1 ½ oz. Warmed Brandy 2 oz. *House made apple simple syrup *(Torani apple syrup, vanilla, cinnamon, lemon juice)

Iced Coffee

1 oz. Kahlua ¾ oz. Frangelico 3 oz. Espresso coffee Chilled over ice

Pink Peppermint Patty

1 ½ oz. Peppermint Schnapps 1 ½ oz. White Cream De Coco 2 oz. Half and Half

Fall Manhattan

1 ½ oz. Irish Whiskey ¾ oz. Sweet Vermouth 2 dashes Regan’s Orange Bitters

Bridal Party Spa Day * massage * facials * wraps * wax * body brushing * elegant & quiet environment * call for details

Royal Table Massage & Spa.... for the REST of your day.

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The perfect ending... to the perfect beginning

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Alex & Blayne Hagen The Location: Italy (Rome, Venice and Malta)

Married: August 13th, 2011 Venue: Private Family Barn

For many, 12 days in the history and culture-rich country of Italia is the quintessential trip of a lifetime.

“Italy struck me as the ideal honeymoon destination— candle lit dinners over delicious food, exploring the nooks and crannies of thousands of years of history, the language, the fashion and an authentic Venetian gondola ride with my new husband,” says honeymooner Blayne Hagen.

Beginning their travels, Alex and Blayne spent three romantic days in Venice, getting lost among its many cafes, shops, museums and exploring the winding, narrow streets.

“If you go, you will want to see the Plaza San Marco and the Rialto Bridge over the Grand Canal. Anything else you do is simply icing on the cake,” Blayne describes.

Photos: Courtesy of Blayne Hagen.

Happily getting lost amid the streets of Venice, Alex and Blayne stumbled upon, Ristorante da Raffaele along the canal near their hotel. While enjoying gnocchi and spaghetti carbonara by candlelight, they watched gondolas pass by and contemplated the striking architecture before them.

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Penny Tree Events Your Private and Secluded Getaway

From small intimate ceremonies to more extravagant occasions, everyone has their own dream and our specialists will help you to organize every aspect of the day.

Penny Tree Events @ BBB Lodge 45618 278th St. Parker, South Dakota 605-360-5414 www.visitpennytree.com

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A train transported the couple to Rome where they spent four days hitting the many highlights the city has to offer: Trevi Fountain, the Spanish steps, the Colosseum, St. Peter’s Cathedral, and Vatican City, including the Sistine Chapel and the Borghese Gallery. Busy and modern, yet locked in time, this best describes the colorful and art filled city of Rome. Known as the “Eternal City,” Rome blends Greek culture with their own traditions. “Be sure to get the Roma Pass. It allows you to cut lines at major attractions and gives you free public transportation— completely worth it,” says Blayne.

Ready for sun and relaxation, the newlyweds flew to the island country of Malta for their final four days.

Here they spent most of their time on a chartered boat in the Mediterranean or lounging poolside at Hotel Ta Cenc on Gozo. The islands feature clear, azure waters and a strong touch of the exotic. Chameleon-like lizards, narrow streets, and architecture intertwine with a Middle-Eastern sensibility.

“The last day of our honeymoon was spent in Valleta,” says Blayne. “Valleta is the biggest city in Malta and a charming closing chapter to our honeymoon.”

“Must” List: • • • •

Roma Pass A sunset gondola ride Italian Gelato Ladies- cover your shoulders & knees to enter cathedrals

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Wedding & Honeymoon Packages in Paradise Our Travel Romance team will take the stress out of planning your romantic getaway, making it seamless and effortless.

We take care of all the details prior to your travel and we also have a 24-hour support line in case you need us while youâ&#x20AC;&#x2122;re away. www.travelpartners.tv www.travelromance.co

info@travelpartners.tv 5604 W 41st Street Sioux Falls, SD 57106

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DO giveaway Bachelor & Bachelorette Party Giveaway

This issue we are giving away two awesome packages; One for a bride-to-be, with a relaxing spa visit to Sunflower Salon & Spa, and another for the groom-to-be, with a 10 person clay target excursion at Hunter’s Pointe.

What You Win: - Sunflower Salon & Spa Bride gets complimentary facial, pedicure, and manicure.

- Hunter’s Pointe Bachelor party up to 10 people.

1/2 course (50 targets) with shells included (2 boxes).

How to Enter: Email us at: giveaway@daintyobsessions.com with your name, wedding date, and contact information for your chance to win!

The Details: Redeem by December 31st 2013.

- Sunflower Salon & Spa 1210 Main Avenue South Brookings, SD 57006 (605) 692-2315 www.sunflowersalonandspa.com

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- Hunter’s Pointe 45743 260th Street Humboldt, SD 57035 (605) 363-6489 www.hunterspointesd.com

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Our Hand Picked Resources Best go to Spots for online inspiration

daintyobsessions.com Check us out online! Films, engagements, more photos, DIY projects, and more!

siouxempire weddingnetwork.com Providing networking and education to the area bride and groom to enhance the wedding experience.

sdweddingstyle.com A location for couples to go for resources and direction in planning, preparing and brainstorming their South Dakota area wedding.

greylikesweddings.com A compilation of stylishly handsome finds for voracious lovers of the good and pretty.

pinterest.com Organize and share all the beautiful things you find on the web. Use pinboards to plan your wedding and get inspiration from people who share your interests.

stylemepretty.com Bringing chic, stylish weddings to the masses--wedding inspiration in the most beautiful gowns, the loveliest flowers, and perfectly crafted details.

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AJ’s Wicked Salon Rapid City, SD 605.791.5898 www.ajswickedsalonandspa.com

Bliss Bridal Mitchell, SD 605.990.3130 www.facebook.com/blissbridalsd

Ideal Wedding & Events Sioux Falls, SD 605.362.0223 Top of Form www.idealweddingandevents.com

Eclips Salon & Spa Sioux Falls, SD 605.274.2526 www.eclipssalonandsuites.com

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catering Angel’s Catering Rapid City, SD 605.721.9229 www.angelscatering.biz

Perceptive Cinematic Films Sioux Falls, SD 605.366.4190 www.perceptivefilms.com

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dj/entertainment

Pinnacle Productions Sioux Falls, SD 605.376.5716 www.pinnacleprodj.com

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AJ Production Co. Sioux Falls, SD 605.354.0364 www.ajproductionco.com

Sunflower Salon & Spa Brookings, SD 605.692.2315 www.sunflowersalonandspa.com Vanessen’s Hair Design Sioux Falls, SD 605.335.7900 www.vanessenshairdesign.com

Avian Sunrise Sioux Falls, SD booking@aviansunrise.net www.aviansunrise.com

Taylor’d Cakes Lake Wilson, MN 507.879.3591 www.taylorcakes.com

cinematography

Royal Table Massage Sioux Falls, SD 605.331.0588 www.royaltablemassage.net

World Market Sioux Falls, SD 605.323.1500 www.worldmarket.com

Sinful Things Gourmet Desserts Sioux Falls, SD 605.332.5522 www.sinfulthingsdesserts.com

Chef Dominique’s Catering & Banquet Facility Sioux Falls, SD 605.336.0455 www.chefdomscatering.com

Grand Falls Casino Resort & Spa Larchwood, IA 712.777.7777 www.grandfallscasinoresort.com

Lost Marbles Sioux Falls, SD 605.271.7698 www.facebook.com/pages/LostMarbles-Antiques

cakes/desserts Piece of Cake Bakery & Cafe Rapid City, SD 605.393.8234 www.pieceofcakesd.com

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Confetti Creative Co. Sioux Falls, SD 605.228.5986 www.confetticreativeco.com

The Bridal Shop Fargo, ND 701.235.0541 www.thebridalshopnd.com

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Audra’s Bridal Gallery Rapid City, SD 605.348.8816 www.audrasbridalgallery.com

Ruche Online www.shopruche.com

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hotel/lodging Custer State Park Custer, SD 888.875.0001 www.custerresorts.com

Confetti Creative Co. Sioux Falls, SD 605.228.5986 www.confetticreativeco.com

Grand Falls Casino Resort Larchwood, IA 712.777.7777 www.grandfallscasinoresort.com

floral

Historic Madison Ranch B&B Rapid City, SD 605.342.6997 www.madisonranchbb.com

Flower’s by LeRoy Rapid City, SD 605.342.0128 www.flowersbyleroy.us Josephine’s Sioux Falls, SD 605.338.9290 www.josephinesfloral.com Meredith & Bridget’s Flower Shop Sioux Falls, SD 605.271.5500 www.mbpflowers.com The Flower Mill Sioux Falls, SD 605.274.6080 www.flower-mill.com

Holiday Inn Downtown City Centre Sioux Falls, SD 605.339.2000 www.sfcchotel.com Marina Inn Hotel & Conference Center Sioux City, IA 402.494.4000 www.marina-inn.com Penny Tree Events Parker, SD 605.360.5414 www.visitpennytree.com

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The Clubhouse Hotel & Suite Sioux Falls, SD 605.361.8700 www.siouxfalls.clubhouseinn.com

Shalista Photography Sioux Falls, SD 605.610.9557 www.shalista.com

jewelry

Studio Blu Photography Sioux Falls, SD 605.275.0337 www.studiobluphotography.com

Bechtold’s Jewelers Sioux Falls, SD 605.332.7151 www.bechtoldjewelry.com

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Gunderson’s Jewelry Sioux Falls, SD & Sioux City, IA 605.338.9060 www.gundersons.com

Luciano’s Sioux Falls, SD & Sioux City, IA 605.274.7626 712.258.5174 www.italiandiningsiouxcity.com www.lucianosnorth.com

Riddle’s Jewelry SD, ND & IA 1.800.741.7609 www.riddlesjewelry.com

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limo/transportation services Royal Limo Sioux Falls, SD 605.332.7952 www.sodakroyallimo.com

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Minverva’s SD & IA www.minervas.net

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other services

photography Finished Vision Photography Sioux Falls, SD 605.838.3634 www.finishedvision.com

Hyacinth Mine Sioux Falls, SD www.hyacinthmine.com Spark Sioux Falls, SD 605.413.6490 www.letterpresslove.com

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Kelli Lyn Photography Denver, CO 720.722.0878 www.kellilynphotography.com Picturesque Photography Sioux Falls, SD 612.386.2378 www.picturesque-photographs. com

travel Travel Leaders Sioux Falls, SD 605.335.6968 www.travelleaders.com/ brookingssd

Jeff Sampson Photography Sioux Falls, SD 605.610.8577 www.jeffreysampson.com Jessica Simons Rapid City, SD jessica@js-p.com www.js-p.com

stationery Confetti Creative Co. Sioux Falls, SD 605.228.5986 www.confetticreativeco.com

RJ Ries Valet Dry Cleaning Sioux Falls, SD 605.338.4821 www.rjries.com

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vehicles Acura Sioux Falls, SD 605.444.6500 www.verneideacura.com

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venues Chef Dominique’s Catering & Banquet Facility Sioux Falls, SD 605.336.0455 www.chefdomscatering.com Custer State Park Custer, SD 888.875.0001 www.custerresorts.com Grand Falls Casino Resort Larchwood, IA 712.777.7777 www.grandfallscasinoresort.com Historic Madison Ranch B&B Rapid City, SD 605.342.6997 www.madisonranchbb.com Holiday Inn Downtown City Centre Sioux Falls, SD 605.339.2000 www.sfcchotel.com Icon Lounge & Events Sioux Falls, SD 605.444.4260 www.iconsiouxfalls.com Luciano’s Sioux Falls, SD & Sioux City, IA 605.274.7626 712.258.5174 www.italiandiningsiouxcity.com www.lucianosnorth.com

Travel Partners Sioux Falls, SD 605.362.6771 www.travelpartners.tv

Marina Inn Hotel & Conference Center Sioux City, IA 402.494.4000 www.marina-inn.com

tuxedo’s/men’s clothiers

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Helene & Steve Duhamel

Meet sweethearts, Helene and Steve Duhamel. From finding love in the beginning of their careers at KOTA Territory News in Rapid City, South Dakota, to Celebrating 25 years of marriage this year, they know what it takes to maintain a strong and loving marriage. Steve and Helene have been each others’ passionate support system through their careers, three children, and battling Hodgkin’s disease.

We were both working at KOTA. In the summer of 1982, I was a TV news intern and Steve was a television advertising sales representative.

They say the first year of marriage is the hardest. What was yours like and what got you through it?

I don’t think the first year of marriage was then

hard. Maybe the hardest part for me was moving out of my parents’ home. I would say every year our marriage has become better and stronger.

What is your most memorable wedding moment?

Walking down the aisle at the cathedral

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will always remain my most memorable wedding moment. It finally dawned on me how much my life was changing.

Cathedral of Our Lady of Perpetual Help Rapid City, South DAkota August 8, 1987

What’s your biggest advice to current planning brides?

It’s the only time in your life that people throw you a great, big party. Enjoy! Savor each moment.

What makes your marriage successful?

We dated for five years before marriage.

We started our marriage as really good friends. Then, when you make a promise to someone else, to love and cherish for life, you work through any hurdles.

How do you deal with disagreements?

We discuss areas where we disagree.

When you care for your spouse, you let the little stuff roll off and only get concerned about something you feel really passionately about.

What was your support system like through Hodgkin’s disease?

The entire community became my support

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system since I went public on television with my fight with cancer. People throughout KOTA Territory sent cards and letters and

prayers, and it helped very much! I was also surrounded by my loving family. The cancer diagnosis was very hard on my husband, and he worried he would be left alone to raise [our toddler].

What is it like being married and in the spotlight?

Well, my husband doesn’t care for the spotlight, so I have to be sensitive to his concerns. I, on the other hand, am glad to share almost anything.

How do you keep your marriage “alive”?

It’s neat how our marriage has evolved. It was just the two of us for many years, then we shared the stage with little children. Now we’re at the stage where the kids are more independent. Their school activities are really our social life right now. Time is flying, and we’re both aware that it will be just the two of us again very soon. We like being with each other and try to find time for just the two of us.

What is one of your favorite moments in your marriage?

The birth of each of our children has been a very special moment for us.

What is marriage like once you have children?

We both have enjoyed growing our family, more than we ever dreamed. It’s been great!

We really look forward to a family vacation with all of us together, away from jobs and friends.

Top things any couple should absolutely know about each other before getting married: ^ We did a Catholic Engaged Encounter and it was very helpful. I would

recommend that before marriage you discuss having children and the faith of the family. ^ Finances are very big! You must be very compatible when it comes to spending priorities.

Photos: Courtesy of Helene Duhamel.

How did the two of you meet?