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ELAINE MILLER Loves Kingston

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Boost your chances

WITH IVF

Rid yourself of aches and pains

WITH PILATES Inspiration for

CHRISTMAS GIFTS Learn to dance like a

STRICTLY STAR

Extend your home for the

What are your children up to on

HOT-HOUSE EFFECT

SOCIAL MEDIA?

How to RELAX

INTO CHRISTMAS

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editor’s letter

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Dear Darling reader, Cover: ELAINE MILLER Photography: Annie Armitage Photographed at: Warren House, Warren Road, Kingston Jewellery from Expressions Des Bijoux Dress from Maggie Killick Hair and make-up by Vinnie from Beaut Hairdressers

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Publisher Darling Magazine UK Karine Torr Editor Marja-Leena Toseland All Enquiries 07802 949836 Email kingston@ darlingmagazine.co.uk

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t’s that time of year again. The fireworks are still going off around town, the Christmas countdown is about to start and the lights will be switched on in local high streets. Don’t panic yet, there’s still plenty of time to get it all done in time. So until then, embrace this wonderful season of giving and celebration with all the festive food, drink, parties and pantomimes with the colour, light and energy it brings to our darkest and coldest time of the year.

Our glamorous model on the cover, Elaine Miller, tells us about Love Kingston – the amazing charity initiative.This issue also brings you great ideas for Christmas gifts; advice on how to keep your stress levels under control; how pilates can rid you of your aches and pains; KAOS artists’ art trail to our twin town; tips on wines to go with your festive fare; who can help you to get ahead in business; ballroom dancing Strictly style and much more.

Contributors Lyndsay Russell, Paul Mendelson

I wish you a wonderful festive season and a prosperous 2015!

Photography Annie Armitage annie@anniearmitage.com

Marja-Leena Toseland Editor | kingston@darlingmagazine.co.uk

Design Anu West info@apila.co.uk Printer Aquatint/bsc jane@aquatintbsc.co.uk Distribution Three Colours Ltd info@3colours.co.uk Darling Wimbledon Karine Torr: 07930 396356 Darling Cobham, Esher & Weybridge Philippa Hennessy: 07772 633339

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Whilst every care has been taken to ensure that the data in this publication is accurate, neither the publisher nor its editorial contributors can accept, and hereby disclaim, any liability to any party to loss or damage caused by errors or omissions resulting from negligence, accident or any other cause. Darling Magazine does not officially endorse any advertising material included within this publication. All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced, stored in any retrieval system, or transmitted in any form – electronic, recording or otherwise, without prior permission from the publisher.

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Elaine Miller loves Kingston Morzine – the ski resort that ticks all the boxes Christmas gift ideas Fantasy jewels Art in transit We can find your right foot Christmas in a tea shop Cook's corner Boost your chances of pregnancy What's up in social media?

A bright idea Until death (or divorce ) do us part The season of pleasure or pressure?

Calling all astute business-people Book review: Unseen London Oh, the heavenly relief Social pages – people out and about in and around Kingston Winter warmers – Want the hot-house effect?

Accessing solutions Ooh the scent of a real Christmas tree!

What's on?

Paul Mendelson's bridge tips 'Twas the diet before Christmas – Lyndsay Russell's point of view

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inspiring woman

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The lady loves Kingston Elaine Miller invites locals to fall in love with their town

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arling editor MarjaLeena Toseland discovers Elaine Miller's journey from Walton on Thames, where she was born, to her current passion of running Love Kingston and why she loves Kingston so much that she’s either lived or worked here most of her life.

“We’re incredibly lucky to live in such a lovely part of the world” says Elaine. There’s a constant buzz, always something to do and having a great variety of shopping on the doorstep is a great bonus.

I adore the green open spaces with the Thames running through and the stunning waterfront tow paths bring back fond memories of my years of competitive rowing. We’re a really active family and, with a South African as a husband, rugby and cricket have become a family affair.

Finally succumbing to years of the children's pestering, we now have the most gorgeous Labrador puppy, Harley, who ensures we’re out every day exploring new places.”

What’s made you dedicate your professional life to helping others?

“I appreciate that many have more harrowing stories to tell but, as a child, I thought that life was tough. My parents 4

Elaine with husband Andy and sons Jamie (13) and Chad (12)

separated when I was 8 and their relationship hit rock bottom.

I remember an almost daily routine of shouting, screaming, fists flying and the police arriving.”

My brother, sister and I moved away with our mother and all seemed quiet for a while. Yet with the pressure, and a huge sense of loneliness, alcohol took advantage of my only parent. It consumed everything – money, love and a safe environment every child should take for granted.

This had a lasting effect on me and my siblings. We know what it is like to be hungry and live in poverty in the UK. I can remember times when I couldn’t

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go to school because I didn’t have any shoes to wear and I laugh now when I recall hanging out the tea bags on the washing line to dry.

Almost all of my childhood memories seemed to go from bad to worse and living from pillar to post, before finally spending my teenage years in children’s homes.

My mother died some time ago and, sadly, alcohol abuse also claimed my younger brother. He was only 36.

Finally my luck changed! I was determined to break the mould and achieve something. I studied hard and had great mentors.

My lifelong friend, Dr Amir

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told me ‘you are the product of people you surround yourself with’. I love that phrase. After a successful media career working in radio for Kiss 100, Xfm, and as an Entertainment Manager at Capital Radio, I turned my hand to fundraising, not only because I had transferrable skills and it fitted in with being a mum, but because I never forget the past.

Now I’m in a position to help, in some small way, people who are seeking a better life.”

Can you tell us how Love Kingston started and what are your ambitions for it now?

“Through a mum at the school gates I heard that The London Community Foundation and Kingston Voluntary Action were looking for an experienced fundraiser to set up a local fundraising initiative that could respond over time to changing needs in the community.

The brief was exciting. Half of the donations would support five local projects working on ‘pathways out of poverty’, tackling issues such as debt, youth engagement, crime prevention, homelessness, domestic violence and hunger.

The other half of donations would form a Kingston Legacy Fund – with 50% match funding from the Government Community First Programme, to provide sustainable giving in grants for more local projects.

After some weeks of research, speaking to local residents, businesses and the press, I quickly realised that we were onto something special. The enthusiasm and willingness of everyone to get involved was overwhelming.

“I can remember times when I couldn’t go to school because I didn’t have any shoes to wear.”

We launched on 4th October 2012 with Edward Bentall and Shiraz Mirza as Founding Patrons.

Community support ranges from running marathons, cycling, dragon boat racing and rowing with activities culminating each year in Love Kingston Day on 14th February – where local people are invited to ‘Fall in Love with their town’ and have fun fundraising for Love Kingston.

Ambassadors who bring a wealth of passion and skills. Thousands of caring residents and businesses have collectively raised over £250,000 so far.

The campaign continues to gather pace with new Patrons, businessman Paul Cox and Edward Davey MP and ten

It’s easy to see why Love Kingston has captured the imagination of local people. It is the only borough-wide philanthropic platform that makes it simple to donate to a diverse range of causes within our local community. Our ambition is that thousands of residents left on the margins of our beautiful borough are not forgotten.”

Elaine with MPs Zac Goldsmith and Edward Davey

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Christmas Dining

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holiday feature

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Morzine

The ski resort that ticks all the boxes!

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s Morgan Jupe approach their third winter season in Morzine, they reflect on why and how they’ve grown to love this gem of a ski town so much.

Jess: Before we started our business, I knew Morzine from happy family holidays. From the moment Josh and I arrived to prepare for our first season we were instantly charmed by the authentic atmosphere and the more than helpful local people. It was such a pleasure to be made to feel at home almost immediately.

Morzine is situated at the heart of the Portes du Soleil, an area with over 650km of pistes making it one of the largest ski areas in the world. Whilst other European resorts have become increasingly expensive in recent years, Morzine has remained affordable and has kept its unpretentious, Savoyard appeal. Many Brits have decided that it’s such a fantastic place to call home they’ve built and renovated properties out there, bringing another dimension to the local community. However the majority of restaurants and bars remain French-owned, which helps Morzine retain its traditional character.

Josh: Morzine has plenty to offer not only in the way of fantastic, varied skiing but also for glorious

mountain lunches and lively après ski. We have great relationships with the restaurant and bar owners in the centre of town and our guests are always thrilled with their experiences in our favourite spots: L’Etale, Le Vaffieu and The Tibetan Café, to name a few.

With easy access to Avoriaz, Châtel and the Swiss resorts there is something for everyone to enjoy. Morzine-Les Gets is an intermediate skier's paradise with endless forests and cruising blue runs. The rest of the Portes du Soleil offers more varied skiing, with steeper runs and plenty of off-piste areas for adventurous types.

Some people place an overemphasis on a connection between low altitude resorts and poor snow fall. Not in the Portes du Soleil! Avoriaz receives an average 8m of fresh powder per season, which is the third highest record in Europe; no other French resort comes close!

The crowning accolade is Morzine’s unrivalled convenience.

The proximity to Geneva means airport transfers are just over an hour, making this unspoilt dreamworld the perfect retreat for short breaks and for families with young children.

To book your next holiday with us please go to morganjupe.co.uk

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Kingston's artists go places KAOS takes 'Art in transit' exhibition to Kingston's twin in Germany

by Artist Hanna ten Doornkaat

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t the end of September, eleven artists were absolutely delighted, immensely proud and even 'haben sich wahnsinnig gefreut' (tickled pink) to find themselves in the BBK gallery, Oldenburg in Germany, for the private view of their exhibition ‘art in transit’. A whole delegation from Kingston Council, headed by the Leader, Councillor Kevin Davis, Brigitte Pfender Commissioning Manager International Cooperation and

Lao-tzu (as I’m sure you all know) said ‘A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step’.

Well, KAOS artists didn't have to travel nearly that far but it was a struggle nevertheless and, with little money available, the logistical problems seemed insurmountable. One of the major obstacles was the expense of transporting the artworks of thirteen people and that is how the idea for ‘art in transit’ came about. All the works submitted had to fit into Ryanair exhibition will run in the upstairs gallery in Kingston museum from 12 December to 17 January with a private view on 11 December.

Partnership in Kingston, and the dean of Kingston University had also travelled to Kingston’s twin town.

cabin allowance bags. The BBK artists have only to make sure that their works fit into the car being driven here by two of their artists.

Back in 2012 two artists, one from Kingston and one from Oldenburg, came up with the ambitious idea of two exhibitions. One of Kingston artists exhibiting in Oldenburg with a return exhibition in Kingston for the artists of BBK Oldenburg.

KAOS members are now very much looking forward to their chance to repay some of the wonderfully generous hospitality they all received in Germany, when the BBK artists come to Kingston for their return exhibition ‘Northern Attitudes’. This

In the meantime, from 25 October, members of KAOS will feature rolling exhibitions, they will change every 2 months, at Jax Caffe and at various other venues in Old London Road. Their aim is to ‘fill Old London Road with art, artists and art lovers’. I’m pretty sure that they want to fill the rest of Kingston as well. More information on Facebook: Art at caffee J A X

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emember that childhood taunt “If you stay there long enough, your face will stay like that!” It’s the same with our bodies. If we don’t move them we will stiffen and age. Most of us feel the need to move more but few of us find the thing that really gets us going.

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Christmas in a tea shop

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rowing up in a family tea shop I knew that Christmas was coming when my father, Peter, started baking big batches of Christmas cakes, mince pies and other festive goodies.

Christmas was the busiest time of year at Peter’s in Weybridge – the tea shop my parents ran from 1958 to 2000.

I can picture Dad pulling a tray of ten fruit cakes out of the oven, the scent of Christmas filling the air. The bakehouse overflowed with mince pies, chocolate yule logs and Christmas biscuits.

Aside from being a baker Dad was also a chocolatier. My mother, Frankie, the welcoming face of the tea shop, presented Dad’s chocolates and petit fours to customers in gold boxes tied with red ribbon. My favourites were chocolate peppermint creams which Dad made for me every Christmas.

My three siblings (Gordon, Johnny, Georgina) and I all helped out. Johnny decorated the Christmas biscuits. I filled the pastry cases with mincemeat and dipped Florentines in chocolate.

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Cook's corner

Winter Warmer Recipe – Spicy Butternut Squash Soup • 1 tablespoon coconut oil • 4 carrots (finely chopped) • 2 stalks celery (finely chopped) • 1 large onion (finely chopped) • 1 large Butternut Squash (diced) • 2cm grated ginger • 1 ½ tablespoons ground coriander • 2 fresh chillies, finely chopped or use ground chilli • 3 cloves of garlic (finely chopped or crushed) • 1 tin reduced fat coconut milk • 2 litres water • 2 organic and low salt vegetable stock cubes • Black pepper Gently heat the oil in a large saucepan. Chop the carrots, butternut squash, celery and onion and place in the pan. Add the herbs, garlic and ginger. Allow the vegetables to soften. Make the stock and add when hot to the pan. Bring the soup to the boil and simmer for 20 minutes until the vegetables are soft. Lastly, add the coconut milk, stir well and take off heat. Blend the soup for a smooth consistency or leave if you prefer a chunkier soup. www.thenutritionnut.co.uk Season with black pepper.

Chocolate Florentines Makes 20 • • • • • • • •

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Bring mixture to the boil, stirring constantly until it thickens slightly and comes away from sides of pan. Take pan off heat.

Stir in cherries, almonds, mixed peel. Place spoonfuls of mixture onto baking sheet, shaping into flattened circles. Bake 6-8 mins until lightly golden.

Cool. Melt chocolate in bowl over pan of simmering water.

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Roasted Butternut Squash, Roasted Vegetables, Goat's Cheese, Spicy Tomato Sauce and Basil Pesto (V) • Butternut squash • Red onion • Mixed peppers • Thyme • Olive oil • Garlic • Rosemary • Pesto • Tomato sauce • Rocket • Goat's cheese • Fennel • Rock salt Cut the butternut squash in half and remove the seeds, roast with garlic, olive oil and rock salt. Chop a red onion and some mixed peppers and roast with fennel, thyme, rosemary, garlic, olive oil and rock salt. Put the vegetables onto the squash where the seeds were removed and cover with goat's cheese. Cook in the oven until the cheese has started to melt. Serve with rocket, basil pesto and tomato sauce.

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Nordic Christmas Gingerbread • 200ml golden syrup • 350ml demerara sugar • 3 teaspoons of ground ginger • 3 teaspoons of ground clove • 3 teaspoons of ground nutmeg • 3 teaspoons of cinnamon • 300g salted butter • 3 medium eggs • 750g plain flour • 3 teaspoons of bicarbonate of soda • + a rolling pin and gingerbread cutters Measure the syrup, butter, sugar and spices into a pan. Bring to boil and mix well. Remove from the heat and cool down by whisking vigorously.

Beat the eggs lightly and add to the mixture. Mix bicarbonate of soda and flour, sieve and fold into the syrup and butter mixture. Mix well. Cover the dough with cling film and leave to set in the fridge overnight.

Sprinkle a clean surface with flour, scoop up roughly a quarter of the dough and roll with the rolling pin into a 1cm thin square (the thinner the crispier they’ll be). Cut gingerbread shapes out and place on a baking sheet covered with baking paper. Bake at 200 C/180 C fan for about 8 minutes or until golden brown. Decorate with icing or enjoy plain.

By Marja-Leena Toseland, Editor

food and drink

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A guide to a white,red and sparkling Christmas!

by Céline de Andria from the French Connoisseur

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hen it comes to wine and food pairing, I believe that the best choice is always your own personal taste. Of course, there are some pairing rules but what is the point in recommending a powerful red if all you enjoy drinking is a light and fruity one? If you do want some guidance however, here are my personal picks from a couple of local retailers.

Christmas – For a glass of light and delicate Champagne which will not alter your taste buds before your festive meal, try Autréau Brut Blanc de Blancs1. To accompany your traditional Christmas roast turkey and trimmings, I recommend the rich and smooth Saint Aubin (2011)2 as your white and the velvety-like and wonderfully complex

Bergerac Rouge AOC L’Audace (2011)3 as your red.

New Year’s Eve – You may spend the whole evening drinking champagne so choose a well-balanced champagne such as Alain Bernard Tradition Brut3, perfect on its own or with simple but classy party food. As for still wines, I would select lighter and highly refreshing ones. I suggest a Picpoul de Pinet (2013)2 for a white or a Beaujolais Fleurie (2012)1 for a red.

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BOOST YOUR CHANCES Preparation for IVF can influence the outcome. Kate Llewellyn-Waters emphasises the importance of the right nutrition and shares some ideas to get you going DETOX Cleansing the liver before an IVF cycle will

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Zinc for hormone production and implantation.

• 2 slices rye toast and 1 boiled egg.

• Natural yogurt with fruit and sunflower seeds.

• Baked potato with cottage cheese and salad.

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• Chicken fillet with spinach and kale.

• Vegetable chilli with wholegrain rice or quinoa.

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What’s up in social media?

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eenagers are spending an ever-increasing amount of time on social media sites to interact with their friends, post pictures and stalk people. However do you really know what social media sites your daughter/son uses most?

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by Darling Intern Elizabeth Plumb

I recommend getting onto Facebook with 94% of all teenagers having a Facebook ‘profile’, or Instagram with 83% of teenagers having a ‘profile’.These would be the best apps to download to keep an eye on your child…if they accept your friend/follow request, that is.

With 71% of all teenagers having social media sites downloaded to their phones, there is no wonder why they are on their phones all the time! From when teenagers first wake up 55% of them go straight to their phone to check how many ‘likes’ they have for their Facebook profile picture.

However, now that 40-65 year olds see their children on social media sites, they feel it is only right to download some for themselves. But if they download WhatsApp, with only 26% of teenagers actively using it, they have downloaded the least popular social media app they could find – LOL! darlingmagazine.co.uk | nov 2014 – jan 2015

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A Bright Idea The Laserlight – a beautiful innovation for cyclists, designed to save their lives.

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It was there, after falling in love with cycling on a 1,000 mile charity ride, she decided to tackle the greatest prob-

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lem for cyclists – being caught in the blind spot – and created the Laserlight.

It is a front white light, required by law for all cyclists, but in addition, it also has a laser, which projects the symbol of a bike down onto the road in front of the rider. A bright green symbol of a bike travels ahead of the cyclist in traffic, warning other road users of its presence, preventing them turning across its path.

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“Until death (or divorce) do us part …”

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new will is perhaps not the first thing that comes to mind when dealing with a family separation, but in view of the new intestacy rules coming into force on 1 October 2014, if you don’t already have one, it really should be. Even if you have a will, you should review it.

For those couples who do not have children, if you die without a will and before the divorce has concluded with the Decree Absolute being pronounced, all of your assets will pass immediately to your (now estranged) spouse.

This is a significant change from the old rules under which your other family members could also benefit from your estate.

Arguably the biggest change will be felt by those couples who do have children. Under the old intestacy rules, if you died without a will and before the Decree Absolute had been pronounced, only the first £250,000 of your estate, together with your personal belongings, would pass directly to your spouse. The remaining estate would then be divided 50% into a trust for your spouse and 50% to your children, providing some peace of mind that your children would benefit from your assets

both on your death and then on your spouse’s death.

This is no longer the case. With the dawn of the new rules, as of 1 October 2014, if you do not have a will and you die before the Decree Absolute has been pronounced, the half share that would have been held in trust for your spouse will now pass to him or her outright to do with as they wish.

Food for thought indeed; particularly if your children are young and you wish to provide them with assets, or income, when they grow up.

The solution is simple. If you do not yet have a will, you need one.

If you have minor children, this will also allow you to set out who you wish to be their guardian, or guardians, in the event of your and/or your spouse’s deaths, and who you wish to be responsible for administering your estate.

If you already have a will does it provide for everything to pass to your spouse? Is that what you still want?

This is not the only practical matter you should consider upon separation. If you own property

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with your spouse as joint tenants, upon your death they will own the entire property. Consideration should therefore be given to applying to the Land Registry to sever the joint tenancy so that you each own the property in two very distinct shares. This is known as tenants in common. Once you have done so, upon your death, your share in the property will form part of your estate and will therefore be distributed in accordance with the terms of your will, assuming that you have made one.

At Hart Brown we have specialist lawyers who will be able to assist you with any queries you may have about wills and estates and/or family matters. We look forward to hearing from you.

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The Season of pleasure

...or PRESSURE?

by Dr Mariette Jansen, Dr De-Stress, confidence & stress coach and meditation teacher

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ots of parties, special events, food and drinks galore, commitments, deadlines – the 25th is just one of them, expectations and celebrations.

Fabulous isn’t it? Yes, if your mind doesn’t nag you to deliver the right presents, the right food, the right dress, the right weight, the right mood, the right planning and all under your perfect control. In other words, demanding the impossible.

that pumps up your stress levels and sets you up for failure. Every time you fail to meet your expectations you let yourself down and create disappointment undermining your confidence.

It is an easy trap to fall into as we are bombarded with picture purrrrrfect; on telly, billboards and films about this lovely, peaceful time of the year.

Happy relaxed season!

Trying always to do the right thing is a form of perfectionism. Being perfect is an unrealistic illusion

For a more enjoyable time this season, check out where your expectations could be lowered and put that into practice. Try to step out of your selfinflicted stress cycle and go with the flow.

For other de-stressing tips and for more tips and information about mindfulness, visit www.drdestress.co.uk

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Oh, the heavenly relief!

Bringing your body back into balance

by Christine Carter Pilates and Gyrotonic® instructor

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pinalis Pilates is all about corrective exercise, pilates equipment and one-to-one sessions.

You can’t help but get it right.

Christine Carter, the founder of Spinalis Pilates, explains that her remedial approach addresses back problems, neck and shoulder pain, hip discomfort, leg and knee issues, sciatica, arthritis and osteoporosis. The list is endless.

Helping individuals is her passion “for me it's understanding why the pain or discomfort is there that enables me to sort it out” so she assesses the client on all levels: postural, muscle imbalances, alignment and life style influences. All affect the mechanics of body.

Time is needed for this and the results are good.

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If it’s pure exercise you want for flexibility, strength, tone and ‘know how’ then a personalised approach like Spinalis Pilates is the place for you. If you are problem free, sharing a session with one other client is an option. The Pilates equipment is designed to help you at the beginning and later it can be set to challenge you. It is suitable for all ages and fitness levels.

The Kingston based studio also offers Gyrotonic®.

An exciting exercise modality based around the Gyrotonic® Pulley Tower which gives full regard to total freedom in movement, with no restrictions on speed or versatility. Equipment Pilates and Gyrotonic® perfectly complement each other.

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people out and about in and around Kingston

Love Kingston VIP networking breakfast at John Lewis

L-R: Mayor of Kingston Cllr Ken Smith, Elaine Miller, Edward Davey MP and Deputy Mayor Cllr Cathy Roberts

L-R: Chantal and Paul Cox with Elaine Miller, Fundraising Manager for Love Kingston

Sara May and Terence Arpino exhibit at CornerHOUSE Neil Dawson exhibits at Castle Art Gallery in Kingston

L-R: Neil Dawson with Galia Kirilova, Jacob Hashem and Edward Robardet

L-R: Terence Arpino and Aine Lark, Kingston Arts with Joe Worthy and Harry Barrett, both from Schizothemia Theatre Company

L-R: Xavier Saramiento, Sara May artist, Bruno Wizard and Jo Keogh

L-R: Enjoying Later Life Festival coffee morning in Canbury Arms

Talia Sloane launches its fabulous furs at Warren House

L-R: Andrea Craig Cllr, Zac Goldsmith MP and Julie Pickering Cllr and Lead Member for Adult, Social Care, Health and Voluntary services for Kingston

L-R: Signem Caouki fromTalia Sloane, Audrey Weston, Sandra Baxter, Anne Watkins, Elaine Miller and Zoe Watkins from Talia Sloane

Surbexpo - part of the Surbo week organised by Surbiton Rotary Club

L-R: Lue Tassell, Optional Vitality; Sarah Halestrap, Neil's Yard Remedies, Jules Hammond, Palm Osteopathy and Annette Self, congnitive hypnotherapist

Surbiton Festival fever in September

L-R: Catherine Watkin delivered 'Selling from the Heart' talk with organisers Bob Noble and Kat Phipsey

Jo Leslie and Kate Johnston from Made in Surbiton L-R: Karen Baker and Philippa Willes from Seething Wells and Aniela Zaba, creative director of International Youth Arts Festival

L-R: Diana Double, Elaine Deeney, Ayesha Sodhi, Theresa Garnhan and Sergio Dellagrotte raising money for Alfriston Day Centre

Coffee and cakes at McMillan Big Coffee Mornings at Cheeky Pea and Henry's Kitchen

The long legged jiving tea lady

L-R: Lesley Dove, Tal Maginelle from Cheeky Pea, Richard Molyneux, Laura Drewett from Laura's Beautiful Bakes with baby Summer

L-R: Reza Amini, owner of Henry's Kitchen, Mayor of Elmbridge, Barry Fairbank, Alison Davey from Real Eyes Marketing and Mayoress Gill Smith

Chamber of Commerce Merton and Kingston meet at Warren House

L-R: Amanda Mellett, Wanda McFarlane, Emma Cox and Victoria Long

Designer sale in Coombe fundraising for The Daisy Garland charity

L-R: Francesca Chowdhary, Hannah Pettit, Sarah Brown and Morena Byrnel

Nikken Magnetics talk at Cheeky Pea

L-R: Alessandro Ferullo, Riki Davies, Shay Maginelle (owner of the Cheeky Pea) David Saunders and Annerose Adams

Metro Bank's monthly networking evening

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At Annie Armitage's sparkly party

Shoes At Last photo shoot with gorgeous Surbiton models

Shernette Ranson ,Vicky Wilson, Madeleine Babey, Gitte Kindrup and Katherine Ross (photo by David Jacobson) L-R: Sarah Yates, Laura Couchman, Andrea Freeman, Annie Armitage, Paula Trovalusci and Kashmira Jhaveri

At the fabulous Absolute Abode in Raynes Park

L-R: Georgia Richards, Kirsty McMorren, owner of Absolute Abode, Bronwyn Loucks and Linn Georgson

Bella Velo opening UK's first women only cycling shop in Surbiton

L-R: Lizzie Armitstead, Commonwealth Champion, Olivia Bleitz, Women's Business Manager at Spesialized and Australian cyclist Tiffany Cromwell

Surbiton SKI Sunday and Seething Luge Want to be seen?

Laugh Kingston Comedy Festival at Ravens Ait Island

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The Really Helpful Club event at Warren House

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By adding a loft conversion you can certainly increase the insulation to your home. Building regulations over the past few years have become really stringent with regard to insulating lofts. The U-value (measure of heat loss) that needs to be achieved is very low in order to get your building control sign-off. With a wellinsulated loft, the rising heat can’t escape. The result is a warm, cosy home without the expense of wasted heating. And in the depths of winter, you’ll find that yours is the only house in the road where the snow doesn’t melt on the roof – proof that you’re getting the most out of your energy bills.

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The thought of a cold house this winter should no longer be a concern. These are just three of the ways you could significantly warm up your home.

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e are often asked about “difficult deliveries”, “tricky access” and “funny shaped spaces”. Many customers believe their entrance restricts the size of possible seating, regardless of how large the actual room is. Here are some ideas to help you better understand what may be possible.

Customised modular/ sectional seating These are good options for most, as the modules may be purchased in a variety of shapes and sizes, and may be bracketed together in situ.

Modules tend to be compact enough to go through the tightest of access points and are therefore ideal solutions for basements and attic rooms.

A tip - if access is really challenging to work with, buy several smaller modules to bracket together instead of larger sections. This may be a bit more expensive but at least you know you’ll get the furniture in (and out again).

Bolt on arms/bolt in two frame These are the most cost effective solution for many people selecting a sofa, as taking the arms off for delivery and bolting them on in situ allows the piece to be manoeuvred through narrow spaces. An alternative may be to purchase your sofa in two (or more) sections to be bolted together on arrival. It may be necessary to combine this solution with bolt on arms, where the access is particularly tricky (like going down the hatch of a house boat!).

Split frame Occasionally customers desiring a large, deep sofa order the frame split in two. This approach allows the delivery team to get the piece into the room where ceiling height and other obstacles would otherwise prevent them doing so.

Bespoking Finally, there is nothing to stop you ordering a piece that’s made uniquely for you, assuming you know exactly what you want – in terms of seat comfort as well as style and size(s). To purchase a quality, handcrafted piece is generally more affordable than people expect.

If you’re looking for affordable, quality upholstery, with plenty of choice, Seriously Sofas will be delighted to offer you expert advice and assistance.

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Ooh, the scent of a real Christmas tree!

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he perennial question in our house is not merely ‘where will we put the tree this year?’ but more like ‘where will our fully lit tree complete with dangly tinsel balls of all sizes and colours be safe from the night-time marauding antics of two fully grown moggies?’

While I am vexing over this, here are some handy hints on getting the best out of your real tree.

Most of the cut plants that are being sold locally will have made quite a journey already. Here’s a quick way that you can test the freshness of your choice. Hold the tree about 10 cm above the ground, and drop it onto its cut end. A less energetic way would be to run a branch through your hand.

Either way, if the tree is in good condition, then you should not expect to see many needles dropping off.

Before even thinking of decorating it, saw about one cm off the bottom of the stem. As quickly as you can, plunge this cut end of the stem into a bucket of water and allow the tree to stand like that in a cool place for about 24 hours. This will allow the plant to re-hydrate, and will go some way to slowing down the inevitable needle drop.

Sad to say, there is no such thing

as a non-needle-drop tree – except an artificial one!

the hotter the room, the more it will drink.

If you have a custom-made tree stand with an integrated water reservoir, check it for leaks. Having filled it up with water on the Christmas tree’s first day, don’t forget to check this level regularly. It’s important that the cut end of the stem constantly remains below the water level otherwise the tree will stop drinking, and then rapidly dry out.

Before you buy what you think is a Christmas tree in a pot, with roots, do check it's what it says on the tin. Some cheeky traders simply stick the cut end of a tree into a pot filled with soil – it could take a week or two before you discover the awful truth!

Hard to believe, but a cut tree can imbibe from 0.5 litres to nearly 4 litres a day. Obviously

© 2014 Valerie McBride-Munro Auntie Planty is a qualified horticulturist. She offers gardening master classes and plant guidance in your own garden.

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What's on?

Kingston Rotary Club and Kingston Round Table Fireworks Spectacular Fri 7th Nov Gates open at 6.30pm, display starts at 8.00pm (Last entry at 7.45pm) Kingstonian Stadium in Kingston Road, KT1 3PB. All profits going to local charities.

Tickets in advance: adults £5, children (5-11) £3. Tickets on the day: adults £6, children (5-11) £4. Tickets available from www.kingstonfireworks.co.uk and the Market House, Kingfisher Leisure, Centre, The Malden Centre, Kingsmeadow and Tolworth Leisure Centre.

22nd Wimbledon Scouts fireworks display Sat 8th Nov. Gates open at 7pm. Fireworks start at 7.30pm Tickets are limited for safety reasons so advanced booking is recommended.

Tickets £3 before Thurs 6th Nov or £4 on the night (subject to availability).

In aid of 22nd Wimbledon Scout Group.

Arthur Road, Motspur Park, SW19 8AQ Email: akela22@fsmail.net Visit www.22nd.org.uk Kingston Christmas Lights Switch-on Thurs 13th Nov, lights will go on at 6pm This year merging the magical world of Narnia’s The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe with music and traditional Christmas entertainment across the town centre. www.kingstonfirst.co.uk/visitkingston Royal Kingston Christmas Fair Thurs 13th-24th Dec All Saints Parish Church grounds, Clarence Street, Kingston Upon Thames, Surrey, KT1 1JS www.edencrafts.co.uk The Kings Feast Gala Dinner Fri 14th Nov, 7:30-11:30pm All Saints Church , Market Place, Kingston . In support of All Saints Church Development Project (ASK) that will create a heritage centre and community hub celebrating the rich history of Kingston as the site where the first Kings of England were crowned. Gala Dinner, Auction and entertainment by local favourites The Reptiles.

Tickets £40.

Email: office@kingstonchamber.co.uk www.whereenglandbegan.co.uk Surbiton Farmers’ Market Sat 15th Nov, Sat 20th Dec and Sat 18th Jan, 9am-1pm Award-winning market with 26 stalls of

fabulous fresh produce.

Maple Road, Surbiton, KT6 November Fayre in aid of 1st Tolworth (St Matthews) Scout Group Sat 15th Nov, 2- 4pm Tolworth Girls School, Fullers Way North, Tolworth A traditional community Fayre. Lots of table top games, gift tombola, bottle tombola, cake stall, lucky dip, visit Father Christmas Cost: Adult 50p entry, children free www.1sttolworthscouts.org.uk/ Performance Skills Workshop 16 Nov, 11am The Bell Inn, 8 Thames Street, TW12 2EA, Hampton The workshop is led by two experienced performers.

Vocal coach, multi-instrumentalist, choir leader and yoga teacher Hannah Rose Tristram, and published singer, songwriter and vocal technique instructor Sacha Morgan.

Talk by Mr Ian Porter on The Suffragettes Tues 18th Nov, 2 pm Surbiton & District Historical Society, Surbiton Library Hall, Ewell Rd, Surbiton Cost: Contribution of £2 appreciated Email: lenandmarilyn@virginmedia.com Tartuffe by Moliere Wed 19th Nov 19 - Sat 22nd Nov, 7:45pm The play is a comic masterpiece which highlights the dangers of blind faith. cornerHOUSE, Douglas Road, Tolworth £8 (£6 concessions).

There is an additional booking fee for using the Ticket Source website.

Christmas Shopping Evening Fri 21st Nov from 6:30-9pm The Holy Cross School, Sandal Road, New Malden.

A great selection of cards, gifts, jewellery, books and much more. £2 for adults (including a mulled wine and a mince pie), children under 18 free.

The Truth About Angels Tue 25th Nov, 8:00pm The first of two one-night shows for Kingston Junior Drama Company's Autumn Season at the cornerHOUSE, Douglas Road, Tolworth Commissioned by 15 year old Kingston schoolgirl, Gabrielle Prabhavalkar.

Tickets are £4.00 each (no concessions) and can be reserved by emailing kingstonjdc@aol.com Traditional Christmas Fair Sat 29th Nov At Holy Cross Church Hall, Adela Avenue corner of Douglas Avenue,

Motspur Park. Time: 1pm-4pm Traditional Christmas Fair with mulled wine, mince pies, Father Christmas, tombolas and a grand raffle.

50p Admission (all proceeds go to church funds) Christmas Bazaar Sat 29th Nov, 1-4pm, at Our Lady Immaculate School, 399 Ewell Road, Tolworth. Wheel of Fortune, Grand Raffle, Bottle Tombola, Children's stalls Magic Show, Face Painting, Cake Café and Santa's Grotto. £1 Adults, 50p OAP's, children FREE. In aid of Our Lady Immaculate School The Lion, The Witch and The Wardrobe Sun 30th Nov to Sun 4th Jan. Rose Theatre Kingston and Rose Youth Theatre www.rosetheatrekingston.org New Malden Farmers’ Market Sat 6th Dec and Sat 3rd Jan, 9am-2pm The Fountain Pub Car Park, KT3 6DD Rose Christmas Concert 2014 Thu 11th Dec, 7:30pm An evening of festive music and carols featuring local community, school and university choirs.

A magical night for all the family with beautiful songs and carols and even the chance to sing along! www.rosetheatrekingston.org A Georgian Christmas Thu 11th Dec, 7:30-9:30pm The Lovekyn Consort mark the season with carols, songs and airs from 18thcentury England, together with a few Medieval carols and some new music. £10; £5 students and unemployed; free for under-16s The Lovekyn Chapel, Kingston Grammar School. www.lokimusic.co.uk Thames Youth Orchestra Christmas Concert Sat 20th Dec, 7:30pm Seasonal programme of works including Humperdinck’s Overture to Hansel and Gretel, the Sleigh Rides of both Delius and Anderson, excerpts from Tchaikovsky’s Nutcracker, and carols for audience participation.

St Andrew’s Church, Surbiton KT6 Adults £16, children £8 www.thamesconcerts.com/thames-youthorchestra/ Outside The Box comedy club Mondays, doors at 7:45 pm, show starts at 8pm The Fighting Cocks Pub 56 Old London Road, KT2 6QA www.outsidetheboxcomedy.co.uk

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'Twas the Diet before Christmas

By Lyndsay Russell

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ecently, a toned, ultra-fit friend shoved a book called Eat Right For Your Blood Type in my hand and made me take a pledge to try the O diet. I agreed, because some mornings all my joints ached and she insisted this showed a bad intolerance to something. It’s now day 12, and I know what that is – her. In my eyes, the ‘O’ diet stands for “Oh NO,” uttered every time I checked what else I couldn’t eat.

“You’ll soon feel fabulous,” crowed my healthy mate, emanating a glow so wondrous, it could eclipse The Angel Gabriel’s. Goody for her, all smug and satiated in her bloody group AB. If I now resemble an abused greyhound, it’s because the sustenance allowed in my group is in single digits - including water. She will accuse me of greatly exaggerating, but when you’re told you can’t eat potatoes, cheese, biscuits, cake or bread, it only takes days to lose your sanity. Even

stuff I believed good for me is a no-no. Bye-bye avocados, melons, strawberries, etc. etc. etc. and etc!

‘How do you feel now?’ she asked, checking daily.

‘Ready to slaughter every human being in group AB,’ I answered, uncharitably.

Worse, Christmas is a-coming, and it’s the party season. Canapés of dry Ryvita, anyone? “Bah, Humbug” to that. Eat my words? Am I even allowed…?

So in rebellion, I’m sitting in the Canbury Arms, sipping a latte – my cup runneth over with milk from a cow’s udder, and I have broken my gluten free, wheat free, dairy free, joy free diet. I contemplate leaving ‘my people’ – the sad-looking waifs haunting the Gluten Free supermarket shelves, forced to buy vile ‘Oat Only’ brands that even a Trojan Horse would hack up. Meanwhile, the ‘Special’ Milk section has many needs.

The classic Soya has less appeal than a tofu kelp sandwich, but trying to find an alternative to cow’s that doesn’t turn my tea into trough water, is making me go nuts. I’ve now tried Almond, Hazelnut, and Coconut milk. All foul. My thirst goes unquenched and I’m sprouting a fluffy tail.

In desperation I’m ready to try a Kitty Milk carton from Pets At Home, but it says online they’ve sold out. Help!

“Dear Santa, please get me a carton and stick it in (what will be by then) my limp, scrawny stocking…”

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