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Join in a classic Third Thursday Networking group as they celebrate MAAP’s second year of bringing gay business professionals together. There will be light bites and a cash bar to help loosen you up for a few hours of open networking. Reminder: Kat’s Café is just below Helmet Salon, and there will be valet parking available.
Inspired by the 1953 Tennessee Williams play of the same name, the story is told from the perspective of Kilroy, a character based on patriotic iconography from the WWII era. They have commissioned a brand new score for this ballet, performed live by the Atlanta Ballet Orchestra.
A Capella has seen a massive resurgence of interest over the past couple of years, due in large part to movies like Pitch Perfect. At the forefront of this revival is Pentatonix, a five-piece who put their own meticulously in-tune spin on everything from Katy Perry to Marvin Gaye, with a Daft Punk mash-up/medley quickly becoming their signature number.
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The Atlanta Freedom band will use its talents and music to honor local people and organizations doing heroic work to make our community a better place. The heroic music combined with the inspiring stories of the honorees will provide a powerful experience for the audience.
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Well, I’ll tell you what went wrong. The CAKE!! The cake was a total fucking nightmare. I’ve never seen anything so hideous in my entire life. The first obstacle to the cake-of-doom encounter, was working with a Wedding Planner that lived 2,000 miles away in Victoria BC. The second issue was my language barrier with the Pastry Chef of the gorgeous Fairmont Empress. He was from a French-speaking Caribbean Island, and I couldn’t communicate well over the phone. So, I thought emails and pictures through my planner would suffice, and all would be well. However, three pictures showcasing the style, shape, and coloring of our perfect wedding cake...only added more confusion. The end result was a wedding cake like no other. It looked like a cake made for a proud parents’ baby shower. All in shades of powder blues and silver; not the planned dark golds, and hunter greens, and wine reds, and moonlight blue Carnivale colors of Fall. When it entered my field of view at the Reception, I was mortified. What the fuck was this ugly ass cake doing in my perfectly themed wedding extravaganza??? Well, no sooner did my eyes connect to my brain, then my lovely wedding planner entered my field of vision and asked how my very FREE wedding cake looked? Bless her heart; she apparently had dealt with enough Gays on a Rampage to know that Tokyo was about to set loose Gayzilla. Needless to say, it was very tasty...that gloriously free wedding cake. It was buttercream frosted (under that hideous fondant) over a vanilla lemon cake, layered with raspberry preserves. So even though it was about as attractive as a tent boy in Cypress, it was the best cake we’ve ever eaten.
Love, Stress, and Marriage! Why are we so obsessed with getting married? Is it the romantic moments suggested to us by parents, while growing up? Or is it more like some check-the-box achievement badge for adulthood? Whichever the case, just know that no wedding is perfect. I don’t care who you are, or how much money you have, no amount of stressful worrying or planning will change that fact. Mine and Andrew’s wedding was planned within an inch of its life, and was to be nothing short of the “Perfect Wedding” for the two of us. Ever since I was a wee fag, I had dreamed about my wedding day. We had some money saved to do it right. And with my attention to detail, and my obsession to make the impossible...fanfuckingtastic, I just knew it would be a snap.
Andrew and I have been together almost 20 years, and we still laugh and talk about that ugly fucking cake. Your wedding won’t be perfect, but it’ll definitely be memorable...because you’ll be there!!
Um, no...no it wasn’t. Do you have any idea how many kinds of invitation paper there are?? And that you have to order samples to feel and see the true textures and colors, because the Internet lies to you??!! That was when reality starting seeping in, planning a wedding was going to be really HARD!! I had a graphic designer create the most gorgeous wedding invitation on iridescent velvet purple card stock in dark gold lettering, served in a blood red enamel-lined cream envelope. We had custom-made Venetian Carnivale masks made for all the Guests, to match their formal wear, with our wedding date and signature inside of them; to take as their favor for attending. It was a late fall sunset wedding on the verandah of the Fairmont Empress, overlooking the harbor of Vancouver Island. What could possibly go wrong??? 22 | 3.18.15
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SB: It was more of a disadvantage for me. I’m a crazy super-fan, and have watched every episode many times. I knew that people that faded into the background don’t win. So on the Glamazon challenge I decided to be this nerd girl, who whips off her glasses and undoes her hair to become a sexy chick. A She’s All That transformation. It just looked stupid. That’s what was frustrating. There was no way I could have won that challenge with only three lines. I had to try something. DA: How would describe Sasha’s style of drag to be? SB: I like to be a chameleon. I dance, I do camp drag. I’ve done pageants, so I can do glamour. I like to do everything. It’s hard to put a label on me. I think they kind of like the girls who are one specific character, but I just can’t put myself into a box like that. I would get bored. I like all the genres of drag too much. DA: How did that evolve? SB: I mean when I started my name was Frisbee Jenkins and I only did camp drag. Only comedy. Then someone convinced me to do a pageant, put me in a gown and painted me, and I realized that I could be cute. So then I started working on my paint-game, now I just like to do it all.
Sasha Belle The Chameleon of Drag
DA: Who are your favorite girls from this season? SB: I knew Ginger before, so we were already friends. Jayden [Diore Fierce] and Kandi [Ho] …I love them. I call Kandi ‘My Little Slut Pig’.
David Atlanta: Did you enjoy your experience on DA: Ha, ha, why is that? the show? SB: I don’t know why. She’s just a little slut pig I guess. She’s Sasha Belle: Yes, I did. I was bummed that I went so early, but actually really cool and nice. I really love Tempest [DuJour] and Kasha Davis. I learned a lot from them. They’re like married I wouldn’t have traded it for anything. women with children! DA: You had auditioned five times in total. What do you think was different about this last audition? DA: What’s next for Sasha? SB: I was better? No, I think that I was more myself. The first few times I was trying to be someone who I wasn’t. I was acting very Laganja Estranja…saying things like ‘Mama!’ and ‘Gurl!’ and all that stuff. I think they saw right through me. I was trying to give them what I thought a drag queen acted like. The last time I was just myself…and more relaxed.
SB: I going to ride this wave and get some bookings. I’ve been really trying to build up my YouTube channel with this exposure. I went to school for film, so I really enjoy editing and doing all that. Maybe down the line Wow Presents DA: You and Pearl had a little bit of a falling out at the would let me work with them. top of the episode. You had called her out in the previ- I would love to be more behind ous episode in front of the judge’s panel. Do you care to the scenes. Like if I could help the comment on that? show by being a producer, I would love that. SB: I always said to myself that if they asked me ‘who should go home?’, I wouldn’t be like the rest of the girls and just vote for Watch every week as David the person who was obviously going home. I decided to say the Atlanta interviews each one who they didn’t expect, the one who was competition. So queen hours after the sashay that’s why I chose Pearl We’re totally good now. away. We’ll release it online and then in print the followDA: You have a wonderful YouTube channel where ing issue. It’s the best way you’ve spoofed the previous season’s queens. Do you to know your queens this think that being such a mega-fan was an advantage? season. For the full interview check out davidatlanta.com. 24 | 3.18.15
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DAVID TUTERA Guru On Planning That Special Day by Gregg Wynn
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or 30 years, David Tutera has brought his boundless imagination, creativity, and resourcefulness to the event planning industry. Starting at age 19 with just one customer, he has since assembled a roster of clients that would make a red-carpet reporter blush: Elton John, Barbara Walters, Jennifer Lopez, Vice President Al Gorem, Tommy Hilfiger, The Rolling Stones, and scores of others.
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David Atlanta: Ideally, how long before the ceremony should a couple start planning? David Tutera: A good time frame for a couple to plan their wedding is about a year, but more and more couples are choosing longer engagements and stretching out this process to be a year and a half to two years. A year or more will give you plenty of time to research and book the perfect vendors, order the wedding attire of your dreams, and relax a little during the planning stages rather than trying to cram everything in. But, of course, weddings can certainly be planned in shorter time frames. And speaking of planning—I’m teaming up with some of the top vendors in the Atlanta area on June 14, 2015 at the Georgia World Congress Center to host the first stop of my newest project, Your Wedding Experience presented by David Tutera—a one-of-a kind event tailored to couples, offering endless wedding inspiration, reputable vendors and the best possible resources all under one roof. [yourweddingexperience.com]
Today, openly-gay David Tutera heads a rapidly growing brand empire replete with books, television programs, bridal gowns & wedding accessories, a line of jewelry, designer fabrics, and a shoe collection. He has even developed a mobile app that DA: What is the most unusual event helps keep a wedding plan on track. theme you’ve ever been asked to David Tutera found a few minutes in ad- produce? vance of his live appearance Atlanta this summer, to answer a few questions from DT: I’ve definitely had some strange ones over the years on my television show, David Atlanta.
including a request for a “swamp” themed wedding or a monster truck filled ceremony. But I try to tell all of my clients that a wedding isn’t a birthday party and it doesn’t have to have a literal theme, you just need to find a wedding style that fits you and your personality as a couple. DA: What demands do celebrities make that are different than those of us average folks? DT: At the end of the day, everyone just wants a dream wedding, celebrity or not. Most of the celebrities that I’ve worked with don’t have any completely outrageous requests, although I have had a few ask for things like performances from their favorite band or private jets to transport all of their guests! DA: Black tuxedos can be so ho-hum; what are the latest trends in men’s formal wear? DT: We’re seeing more and more color and personality in men’s fashion, especially when it comes to wedding attire. Many grooms are opting for a suit, instead of a tux, which allows them to bring in their own style through colored shirts, patterns and fun accessories, and it’s a great pairing for today’s lessformal events. If you’re planning a more traditional event, a navy tuxedo is a fun and modern twist on the old classic. DA: What special Georgia influences would you bring to a celebration held here? DT: I just planned an event in Atlanta for my television show, David Tutera’s
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CELEBrations, this past fall, and I loved bringing in elements of the city. We went with a really classic, old-school southern vibe, and it couldn’t have been more perfect! There are so many historical venues in Georgia, and I knew that would provide the perfect backdrop for this event rather than the more modern venues I find in other cities. Instead of doing a literal “Georgia peach” theme, we brought in soft colors through the flowers and other decor to really pump up the Southern Charm.
remember, if your hair isn’t exactly how you wanted it or if the shade of the cake doesn’t perfectly match your wedding party’s attire. The only important thing is that, at the end of the day, you will be married to your one true love! Plus, a glass of champagne never hurt anyone!
event to take place anywhere in the world, where would it be? DT: Though I’ve already planned weddings there, I always dream about planning another event in Italy. It’s my favorite place in the world, and there’s nothing wrong with having your dream come true twice.
DA: Your grandfather was a florist and a big influence on your career. DA: How do you unwind after a gruSo, what are your favorite wedding eling day on the job? flowers? DT: My favorite thing to do when I get DT: It’s hard for me to pick a favorite be- home after a hard day is play with my DA: What one wedding detail is most cause it really depends on the season and beautiful daughter, Cielo. No matter what frequently overlooked? the design of the event itself, but person- crisis is going on at work, she always really I have always loved gardenias and lieves my stress and reminds me what is DT: Most couples don’t spend enough roses. They’re just so classic and beautiful most important in life: family and happitime thinking about the entertainment at in any setting. ness. [Cielo will be two-years old in June.] their event. Your guests have spent a lot of time and money to be a part of your DA: What is your most treasured DA: What’s on the horizon for the celebration, and the day should be just as wedding tradition? Tutera brand? much about their enjoyment as it is about yours. Entertainment can make or break DT: Though I love every element of a wed- DT: I’m currently in the midst of launching an event, so it’s vital to have something ding, my favorite part is always when a a new home collection for my brand, which great that’s really going to wow your couple reads personal vows to each other. encompasses several different lines: evguests. I love to do a mixture of live music It’s so much more special and meaningful, erything from home furniture and decor to and a DJ to cater to guests of all ages, or and is something you both will treasure candles, tabletop items and frames! My split up the evening with a specialty per- about the day your entire lives. new menswear line is also just arriving in formance in the middle of dinner. stores along with a new shoe collection DA: What is your worst fear as an and accessories which will actually debut DA: Nerves often play a big part on event planner? on the catwalk at Atlanta’s Your Wedding the big day; how do you help everyExperience event on June 14th—defibody stay calm? DT: My worst fear as an event planner is nitely a great opportunity to sit front row having a bride not make it down the aisle. and see my newest designs. And over the DT: My biggest piece of advice for ner- Fortunately for me, that hasn’t happened next few months, I’ll be working on an vous couples is just to remember what (knock on wood)! evening gown line and the next season of the day is really about: your marriage! my show, David Tutera’s CELEBrations…so None of your guests will notice, let alone DA: If you could plan your dream definitely stay tuned. 30 | 3.18.15
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Madonna Bares Her Rebel Heart by Jeffery Silvey
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hey say the number 13 is unlucky, and at first glance it would seem that Madonna knows first hand considering everything she has been through with her thirteenth studio album. She was forced to rush release part of the album following a series of hacks and leaks. Then she was yanked onto her back on stage live at the Brit Awards. After being down for a few seconds (and hitting the back of her head) she stood back up and finished her song victoriously, proving that you can’t keep the Queen down.
Rebel Heart, the singer’s new album, may have started out unlucky, but Madonna has managed to make the most of the situation. The energetic post-breakup anthem “Living For Love” opens the 19-track set and manages to keep the momentum going. She shows how much stronger her vocals are on the ballad “Ghosttown” and nods to her acoustic days of 2000’s Music on “Devil Pray.” Ever the perfectionist and serious businesswoman, she lets down her guard and shows off her playful side on songs like “Bitch I’m Madonna” and “Body Shop.”
“Holy Water,” “Best Night,” and of course “S.E.X.” The woman who literally wrote the book on sex, shows off her dominatrix side through dark beats, but she also shines a light through soaring songs like “Hold Tight” and “Iconic.” She indulges her ego on “Vini Vidi Vici,” but she flawlessly counters that song with the vulnerable, and brilliant, “Joan of Arc.” With this album she allows her past to influence the present, but she takes it all in stride as she uses it to keep moving forward. The Queen lets down her armor with this new set, but she still remains brandishing her sword, ready to slay. Overall, the thing that critics hold against her is the very thing that makes this a great album; her age. When it comes to listening to advice on getting over heartbreak, on making it to the top and being successful, on sexual pleasures, and assuring me that I can do anything I want to, I want that advice to come from a living legend who has forged her place in history and still has something to say at the age of 56. It doesn’t matter what age you are, just as long as you live for love.
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WHY SHOULD WE ATTEMPT TO MIMIC THOSE TIRED OLD, STRAIGHT WEDDING TRADITIONS? WHY IN THE WORLD SHOULDN’T WE BEGIN NEW TRADITIONS FOR A NEW DAY OF MARRIAGE EQUALITY?
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s the inevitably of same-sex marriage finally comes to the peach state, looking towards the future of gay marriage has come to the forefront. Most of us have been to a bunch of straight weddings and now that you’re planning your own gay wedding, it seems obvious to look to those straight weddings for inspiration. After all, it’s what we grew up knowing. I’ve been talking to a bunch of couples lately who are struggling with what traditions to keep and what to kick when planning their own wedding. One tradition that I heard of was the double aisle ceremony. Each person’s attendants alternatively go down the respective aisle. Then the brides/ grooms each walk down their aisles 36 | 3.18.15
simultaneously. If you think about it, it makes great sense. In a gay or lesbian wedding, there is not necessarily a “bride” who is expected to be the center of attention. Many gay and lesbian couples who are marrying have been together already for years and want to walk separately and meet in the middle. There is one recommendation that was uncovered by this unconventional ceremony style: it is highly recommended that you have your photographer get an assistant to make sure you capture both parties on their special day. Having your wedding photographed is paramount. If done well, it will not interfere with your enjoyment of the day. And leave you with timeless visual memories for all time.
basically doubles as the guest book and allows the couple to have something that truly represents them. Plus, it’ll look great on the wall for years to come. There are tons of straight traditions associated with weddings and receptions: photos during cocktail hour, breaks between the ceremony and reception to let the couple bond, wedding party introduction, father-daughter dance, mother-son dance, line dancing, garter toss, bouquet toss, cake cutting, and on and on it goes. Why should we conform? We can ditch a lot of that stuff.
Why should the wedding party miss the cocktail hour to take photographs, shouldn’t they be able to enjoy a glass of celebratory bubbly with their guests? Some weddings even offer something When I was at my brother’s traditional stronger at the cocktail hour, but beJewish wedding, one thing that I loved ware that drunken guests are harder to was the ketubah. It is called different coral into the service when it’s time. things like Foundation Covenant and the like. The point I like about it is that What are two dudes supposed to do this sacred wedding text is officiated for the garter/bouquet toss? It’s just over by the presiding officiant and then soooo hetero-normative. How about signed by the wedding guests in affir- if both grooms toss their little black mation of what they have witnessed. It books (does anyone even have those
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Jungle was decked in a combination of Bollywaood and Birdcage for this very special wedding reception.
“Marriage is the state recognition and approval of a couple’s choice to live with each other, to remain committed to one another and to form a household based on their own feelings about one another and to join in an economic partnership and support one another and any dependents...
anymore)? Or maybe deleting their Grindr accounts simultaneously? Just choose something that works for you as a couple. Now let’s talk about the cake. White cake with white frosting is traditional but many people just do not like the combination. Think about having multiple cakes and different flavors. Many same-sex couples use rainbows to have gay cake look. Why not a rainbow of cakes? It will be a crowd pleaser. The nice about this day and age, is that gay cake toppers are widely available online. Some can even be customized to look like you! Maybe you’re one of those couples that is less interested in the ceremony that the reception. Why not really go all out and hold your reception at a nightclub? Puteet and Steven held their reception at Jungle and decorated the whole place to their specific theme: Bollywood meets Birdcage! The theme was determined by the backgrounds of the grooms. Included in this extravagant reception was a giant Ganesha 38 | 3.18.15
(Indian elephant-headed deity). After the reception, guests were treated to a very special drag show, themed by Ruby Redd. The first dance can be one of the most romantic moments of the day and a real tearjerker for the guests. It can also be a really nerve racking experience for those taking part! Remember – it is your choice if you choose to do a first dance – don’t be forced in to it but make sure you inform your DJ or band and your best man/best woman to ensure nobody puts pressure on you on the big day.
The right to marry has been historically and remains the right to choose a spouse and, with mutual consent, join together and form a household. Race and gender restrictions shaped marriage during eras of race and gender inequality, but such restrictions were never part of the historical core of the institution of marriage. Today, gender is not relevant to the state in determining spouses’ obligations to each other and to their dependents. Relative gender composition aside, same-sex couples are situated identically to opposite-sex couples in terms of their ability to perform the rights and obligations of marriage under California law. Gender no longer forms an essential part of marriage; marriage under law is a union of equals… They seek the mutual obligation and honor that attend marriage… seek recognition from the state that their union is ‘a coming together for better or for worse, hopefully enduring, and intimate to the degree of being sacred.”
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10 Important Gay Films You May Not Have Seen by Zak Horn
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ilms can provoke emotion and nostalgia on all audiences who flock to the screen to escape their real lives for a few hours. However, many notable and important gay films have yet to be seen by most of the public and even gay audiences today. Important films that have helped shape or show the lifestyle of generations past have been kept in the dark. These few films are important works in gay cinema that many may have not seen, but should:
10. SOLDIER’S GIRL (2003) Based on a true story, Soldier’s Girl follows a chance meeting between a soldier and a transgender woman during a bar visit away from his army base. The film tackles with acceptance of what it means to actually be a Trans woman and the obstacles that can arise in the wake of falling in love. The film is powerful and even more tragic because it is based on real life events.
9. EDGE OF SEVENTEEN (1998) This gay coming of age story is set in the Midwest during the mid-80s and tells the story of a high school senior as he tries to deal with accepting his sexuality. The realistic storyline and dialogue authenticates the films topics on family, identity, and sexuality.
8. THE BOYS IN THE BAND (1970) Based on Mart Crowley’s play with the same name, The Boys in the Band is set in New York in the beginnings of the gay liberation and follows eight friends. The film dives into the affects and abuse of alcoholism and the cattiness and jealousy between friends. The film’s stingingly truthful script holds up well with many of the hysterical moments throughout. 44 | 3.18.15
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7. BEAUTIFUL THING (1996) This British film follows two neighboring teenage boys as they discover they have feelings for one another in a suburb of 3. WEEKEND (2011) London. The films depiction of what it is to have a first love is extremely realistic with a positive portrayal of gay love. This film revolves around two UK men who meet in a bar and do the unthinkable: They contemplate a relationship after a hookup. The film is directed/written by Andrew Haigh (producer of 6. TORCH SONG TRILOGY (1988) HBO’s Looking) and explores the complications of a modern gay relationship and expectations. The beautiful cinematography Based on three plays by Harvey Fierstein, the film follows and honest dialogue help make Weekend and exceptional film Arnold through three very important relationships in the for the gay community. course of his life. The film tackles the complexities of love, tragedy, and gives a very in-depth look on the outside world’s view of what family can be.
2. PARIS IS BURNING (1990) This documentary was filmed in the mid-1980s and gave audiences a glimpse of the New York Ballroom Scene. The film 5. THE ADVENTURES OF PRISCILLA, QUEEN OF THE DESERT (1994) explores race, being transgender, social status, and teenage runaways and examined the fantasy and desire of having fame Priscilla is an Australian film with three heterosexual and very and a more luxurious lifestyle than what life dealt them as they well-known actors playing two drag queens and a transgender just try to survive on a daily basis. Most lingo heard in RuPaul’s woman as they travel across the Australian Outback. The film Drag Race and in gay culture originated from this film. has become one of the most well-known gay cult classics and was highly praised upon the theatrical release.
1. BROKEBACK MOUNTAIN (2005)
4. THE CELLULOID CLOSET (1995) This documentary narrated by Lily Tomlin explores the history of gay cinema and characters from the beginning of motion pictures. The film gives an in-depth look of the “gay” topic in these films and how the characters and film history has been altered from this to more modern days. Filled with celebrity, film theorist and critic interviews, The Celluloid Closet timelines the importance of queer cinema. 46 | 3.18.15
This multi award winning and highly praised film focuses on a 20 yearlong love affair between two married men who bond while herding sheep along Brokeback Mountain. The powerful story begins in the 1960s and ends in the 1980s and explores homophobia during this time and what it means to give up everything to not have their sexuality exposed. With many amazing performances from the actors, Brokeback Mountain was definitely a movie before it’s time that catapulted gay driven storylines into the Hollywood mainstream.
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Dear Dom, I’ve been seeing this guy. When we finally got to the bedroom, I found he has a distinct third nipple. I’m having a hard time looking at that gross thing. What can I do? Two Is Totally Sufficient Triple nipples are quite common, TITS. Often mistaken as just a skin mole, supernumerary nipples are found in about six percent of males. As a minor congenital defect, they are an evolutionary remnant from our mammalian ancestors. Usually just one will be found. Yet, some guys have as many as eight. You are being shallow, TITS. Beauty is far more than skin deep. Go get your boy’s itty-bitty bosom pierced, attach a tiny leash, and take him out on the town. Shirtless, triple nipple man’s bound to be a big hit at the fetish bar. Dear Dom,
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Every Single Question... Every Single Answer Dear Dom, My boyfriend likes it rough in the bedroom. So do I. However, his idea of rough involves using less lube than I prefer. He likes the traction. How do I tell him that if he’s going to continue to enjoy this rosebud he’ll need a little more grease? Squirt Lube On, Top-man
After years of contemplation, I’ve decided to transition into a woman. I’m very worried about how to tell my friends and family. Is there a way to ease the blow? What Would Jenner Do? Tabloid magazine coverage may be the method to reveal your transition, WWJD, if you’re a former Olympic champion with a couple of gold medals and cable-TV reality show. For us mere mortals, a bit more discretion is the way to go. Just getting a new hairdo can be tough enough for most people. The complete reforging of somebody’s gender-identity is a true challenge. The embrace of loved ones will be vital. Candor is key. Helpful online transgender resources abound. And those websites are fine & dandy. But, they can take you only so far. Before the big family reveal, you should build a solid, face-to-face support network. In Atlanta, you’re a lucky gal. Thanks to the city’s large LGBT population, you’ll find many local transgender options. Atlanta Gender Explorations is very good place to start. Held on the second Saturdays of each month at 6 p.m., their meeting locations are kept confidential. To find out more, contact them at 404-583-6423 or abfab3k@gmail.com.
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ARIES (Mar. 20 – Apr. 19): A relationship that may have in the past been based primarily on intellectual interests may take a sudden turn toward romance. If you aren’t careful, Aries, this could turn into an obsession!
LIBRA (Sep. 23 – Oct. 22): You could be planning a major journey of some kind. It may be a long vacation or travel to foreign countries, or it could be an intellectual or spiritual journey into new schools of thought.
TAURUS (Apr. 20 – May 20): If you’ve been feeling under the weather, expect to feel stronger than you were before. Your enthusiasm is up and new ideas are flowing into your brain. Whatever you work on this week should really stand out.
SCORPIO (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21): You’re practical and down to Earth. This week your intuition is more active than usual. You might receive some powerful messages from the higher planes that open up new doors for you. Don’t ignore them.
GEMINI (May 21- Jun. 20): Creative projects may take on a new intensity now. New ideas and visions may appear out of nowhere. Whatever you’re working on could have new meaning for you and others. You feel passionate about everything!
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 – Dec. 20): Travel by air seems possible this week. The appeal of foreign countries may be too strong to resist. If you don’t have a passport, you’d better apply! Friends may be planning a trip abroad and invite you to accompany them.
CANCER (Jun. 21- Jul. 22): Expect some changes in your household this week. You could finally be making some repairs or remodeling or redecorating. It’s also possible that someone could move in or out. There’s likely to be a lot of activity!
CAPRICORN (Dec. 21 – Jan. 19): The Universe is encouraging you to listen this week. It isn’t a week to try to win others over to your point of view. Really listen to what your friends, loved ones, and colleagues say with all of your attention and empathy.
LEO (Jul. 23 – Aug. 22): You’re a sociable person with a gift for small talk and interesting discussions. You will find some amazing information that will keep your conversations fascinating for months. It could involve a new discovery, possibly in a foreign land.
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18): Sudden opportunities for advancement may come your way this week. Innovative ideas may have paved the way for you, so your skills and abilities are appreciated now. Don’t be afraid to take the lead if necessary.
VIRGO (Aug. 23 – Sep. 22): Sudden, positive changes in your financial condition could come your way. This could be an increase in income or involve some kind of windfall. Whichever it is, it’s going to make a difference in your life. Go for it!
PISCES (Feb. 19 – Mar. 19): New and expansive ideas for investing time or funds could make a big difference to your future income. You feel especially in control of your life. You should have the power to put your plans in motion. Go for it!
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