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Atlanta is a great place to be gay, but once a year to be gay in Atlanta means to be gay somewhere else. Hordes of your local gay brethren are heading to Pensacola for beach days and party nights, and there’s still time to get in on it. Read our preview in this issue.
Continuing its theme nights paying homage to iconic divas we love, the party people at For All Humans return. This time, it’s the Bee Hive they’re crazy in love with, so don your Bey looks and get ready for a whole night of music, performances and surprise treats in her honor.
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When what you need is some smooth grooves and cool croons, look no further than singer-songwriter David Gray. He hits town behind his latest, Mutineers, where he aims to cultivate a pugnacious but respectful relationship with his history. Face and let go of your own past during this cathartic show.
One of the biggest reasons to stay in town Memorial Weekend is the national gay tournament hosted by Hotlanta Softball League. Teams from across the U.S. descend on the city to see who comes out on top during onfield play and enjoy our local charms during off-the-field parties each night.
What do you get when you mix a popular worthy cause, a truckload of sand, sexy lifeguards, hilarious entertainers, scads of guys in swimsuits and cocktails in the sun? Why, it’s the annual gay beach party with the guys from Heretic and Joining Hearts.
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SUNDAY FUNDAY AT ZOCALO PHOTOS: Russ Youngblood
you want to sleep with me in three minutes. Was it my fake name that I gave you? Was it the way I whispered into your ear because it’s loud at the club? No. It was not. I’m not going to lie. There have been three times in my life that people have not taken me home because I do not look like my pictures. I was having a bad day and thought I could coast by on the ghost of illusion.
IF AT FIRST YOU DON’T SUCCEED BY SCOTT KING
THE ART OF HANDLING – AND HANDING OUT – REJECTION. “HEY! HOW’S IT GOING?”
“Great.”
“I’m good. How are you?”
“I’m not really interested in hooking up, but hanging out is cool.”
“I’m GOOD! I’m Alex, by the way.”
Turns out, I needed to brush my hair. So I went to the supermarket bought some toothpaste went to the gym and pulled my shit together. Needless to say it all ended very happily. WHAT DOESN’T END HAPPILY IS WHEN you wander around the world like a gopher in a fishbowl, projecting all your insecurities onto the hottest guy in the room. Ain’t nobody got time for that. What are you attracted to in a person both on the surface and underneath? Do you see that in the mirror? Do you see that in your poetry journal? If you don’t, may I suggest some self-help books or fitness routine. Please excuse me, I’m actually trying to be bitchy. You’ll thank me later. Once you learn how to accept compliments, you can actually learn how to accept rejection. The important thing is to wholly and completely believe both of them. And know that they’re true.
“What? Why not?” “Nice to meet you, Alex by the Way! I’m Christopher.”
“Because I don’t want to have sex with you.”
“Haha. Great name.” “Why? You seemed really interested.” “Thanks.” Three minutes later…
“In talking to you at a bar, yes. In having sex at a house, no.”
“What was your name again?
“Ugh. I hate guys that are superficial.”
“Christopher.”
DEAR GOD. I’M SORRY. I KNOW THAT was real fuckin’ bad. It should be people who are superficial. I’ll give you a hint: My name’s not Christopher.
“Oh yeah. I knew that. Heh. So. Let me give you my number. I’d love to hang out sometime.” “Cool.”
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I’m also perplexed at how I am superficial for not wanting to sleep with you, but you were not superficial in deciding
WHEN YOU ACTUALLY DO GET THE chance to reject someone, don’t be nice about it. Men do this to women too, but they will hang on you like a friend for six months and then get drunk and say something stupid. Then you will at least say no and they will resent you forever. You really could have been spending that those six months with a lot more dynamic people. Buy your friends dinner. Never split the check. That way it will feel like you’re dating, but no awkward sex stuff. Plenty more fish in the sea. If at first you don’t succeed…Move On! Any questions?
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BIG PEACH HOTLANTA SOFTBALL TOURNAMENT BRINGS TEAMS AND PLAYERS TO ATL FOR MEMORIAL WEEKEND BY MATTHEW HOLLEY Gay Memorial Day is right around the corner and with that rolls into town a lot of scrumptious peaches as the national Big Peach gay softball tournament commences for the long, jock filled weekend on the field by day and in the bars by night. The Big Peach Softball Tournament is one of the largest gay softball competitions in the United States. Hundreds of fellas on more than 50 teams descend upon Midtown with their bats and balls in hand. Players travel far and wide from places like Boston, Las Vegas and Texas to prove who has the best softball skills in the country. Hosted by Hotlanta Softball League, the annual event is highly anticipated and never disappoints. Our own gay Atlanta fields teams in each of the selected Divisions. The League Board extends its heartfelt congratulations and warm welcome to 22 | 5.24.17
its newest Co-Director Kyle Erickson, who joins veteran Terry McGee as Co-Director of the 2017 Tournament. Both men have worked diligently to comfortably and fabulously host all the visitors The Big Peach tournament Divisions A/B, C & D take place in two parks, Southside Softball Complex in Atlanta, and Johnson Park in Conyers. Conveniently located close to the host hotel, Crowne Plaza Midtown, players, friends and all guests receive special rate offers with tournament credentials, including access to all events, markdowns on hotel outlets, complimentary drinks and the always-expedient valet parking. Patrons will also be within walking distance to most of the restaurant and bar sponsors. Check out the following, full rundown of daily events and game schedule below. From morning to night, every day is jam-
packed with opportunities to enjoy the best gay Atlanta has to offer, including all the moments to kick-it and sneak in a few butt pats.
PLAYER BAG STUFFING & BEER BUST Thursday, May 25 Join all of your Big Peach bigwigs, players and volunteers for a $10 beer bust, full, delicious menu, the booty grinding DJ Kenny De, the traditional bag-stuffing and just all around feeling froggy at FROGS Midtown, one of the tournament’s highly supportive sponsors.
REGISTRATION & OPENING PARTY Friday, May 26 The infamous, yet ever so fun Player Registration Party kicks off on Crown Plaza Midtown Atlanta’s gorgeous rooftop pool deck. Serene and stunning views of the Atlanta skyline sets the backdrop as guests will enjoy a lavish dinner complete with poolside drinks, fun activities and one banging DJ.
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games will last, once the sun goes down Big Peach officials encourage all players and patrons to visit the restaurant and bar sponsors for all of your team outings and dinners. Known as the Big Peach Bar Crawl, you and your friends will have the limitless opportunity to mix and mingle with cute local and out-of-town players at hotspots such as the Atlanta Eagle, Heretic, Woof’s, Blake’s on the Park, etc.
AWARDS CEREMONY & CLOSING PARTY Sunday, May 28 The final games continue on Sunday morning then join all the boys back at the Heretic for another off-the-chain Closing Party from 6 p.m. to 11 p.m. Word on the street is this year’s send-off will be the hugest yet. The Big Peach Closing Party crowns all tournament winners and celebrate another successful weekend in style, and it continues the day-long Summer Kickoff Party at Heretic (See our preview in this issue). There’s no cover with the official tournament wristband (given at registration). As last year, DJ Mike Pope keeps the beats strong and all night long as the sun goes down. Dance, drink and rock the front patio like there is no tomorrow. Beginning with 1984’s Armory Classic, the Big Peach Softball Tournament has flourished and transformed what was once a small gathering of players into a colossal jamboree of LGBT athletes who revel in fierce competition and the riches this tournament brings to Atlanta’s local charities.
Player registration begins at 5:00pm and runs until 10:00pm. According to Big Peach officials, “All registrants will automatically be eligible for some awesome giveaways prizes throughout the night. Giveaways include a complimentary room, Braves memorabilia, gift cards, and a liquor basket! *(no purchase necessary!)*” And to top the night off, the guest emcee will host a smoldering, pants-tightening Mr. Big Peach contest. Winning contestants will receive a complimentary room, cash prizes, and gift cards. Get ready boys to show off that peach for all to see. 24 | 5.24.17
BIG PEACH GAMES & BAR CRAWL Saturday, May 27 Strap on those booty-hugging pants, grab your bat and bet ready to play ball. The day everyone has been waiting for arrives and excitement builds up as A/B & D Divisions play at Southside, while across town C Divisions prepare to run the field at Johnson Park. Both Divisions begin that morning at 8 a.m. and 9 a.m., respectively. Don’t forget your water, sunscreen and whopping team spirit as you cheer on these boys in the summer sun. Although no official events are planned Saturday night due to the length the
Percentages of proceeds raised throughout the weekend goes directly back to gay Atlanta, allowing the community to continue to strive for the betterment of those less fortunate and to foster the relationships built by all of the fantastic men from around the nation. Big Peach Tournament takes place May 25-May 28 at Southside Softball Complex, 3460 Jonesboro Road; and Johnson Park, 1781 Ebenezer Road NW, Conyers, with off-site events planned each evening. Visit hslbigpeach.org. For host hotel, visit cpatlantamidtown. com, and use group code HSC.
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STAYING IN ATLANTA FOR MEMORIAL DAY? WE GOT YA COVERED FOR LOCAL EVENTS. READY? SET. GAY! There was a time in gay Atlanta when if you didn’t play or cheer softball, you were a little lonely for stuff to do over Memorial Weekend. That was then. Today there are options for those who don’t do sports and can’t or won’t make treks all hinder and yon. But while gay-away like Pensacola and the legendary Big Peach softball tournament are still going strong (see our previews in this issue), the LGBT-ATL has stepped up its game over the years 28 | 5.24.17
to keep the rest of us company over the long weekend. All of your favorite gay bars are open, pouring and hosting a good time, so drop by for the cure to what ails ya. Of course, some are going all out with a little something extra for the big holi-gay weekend. The biggest may be Heretic’s annual Summer Kickoff on Sunday. And it gets more epic every year. The beach-themed party features lifeguards,
guys in swimsuits, games to play and specials to drink. What’s more? The whole thing benefits Joining Hearts, gay Atlanta’s unofficial sponsor of summer as it raises fun and funds against HIV leading up to its signature pool party in July. Starting with the Big Peach but going so much further, here are our favorite options for Memorial Weekend gay staycays right here at home.
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MEMORIAL DAY WEEKEND, Continued
SATURDAY
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BIG PEACH SOFTBALL TOURNAMENT Friday, May 26 – Sunday, May 28 AB&D Divisions, Southside Park C Division Johnson Park, Conyers hslbigpeach.org
FUKR With DJ J Warren (Boston) Friday, May 26, 10pm Heretic 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road NE hereticatlanta.com
DEEP SOUTH With Scooter McCreight, Chelsea Starr & Vicki Powell Saturday, May 27, 10pm Heretic 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road NE hereticatlanta.com
MEMORIAL WEEKEND COOKOUT Sunday, May 28, 2pm Tripps 1931 Piedmont Circle NE facebook.com/trippsbar
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JOINING HEARTS SUMMER KICKOFF & BIG PEACH CLOSING CEREMONIES Sunday, May 28, 3pm Heretic 2069 Cheshire Bridge Road NE hereticatlanta.com
MEMORIAL SUNDAY FUNDAY Sunday, May 28, 2017 Ten Atlanta Blake’s on the Park Henry’s Zocalo 10th Street @ Piedmont Ave.
MEMORIAL LATE NIGHT DANCE After Armorettes and Tossed Salad Burkhart’s 1492 Piedmont Road NE burkharts.com
MEMORIAL DAY PARTY Monday, May 29, 2017 Cockpit 465 Boulevard SE
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NON-STOP PARTY BY MATTHEW HOLLEY
MEMORIAL GAY WEEKEND IN PENSACOLA REMAINS THE PLACE TO SKIP TOWN FOR THE HOLIGAY. Which gay party is the biggest, dirtiest and naughtiest of them all this month? Pensacola Memorial Gay Weekend May 25 – May 30, of course. Thousands of gays rain down upon the gorgeous Gulf beach for some sun, sand, surf and sexy soirées. Throwing it all the way back to the 1980s, Gay Memorial Weekend began with few small groups of gay men and women meeting up on the beach. Since those original, intimate gatherings, the weekend has humped and thrived into the balls out, carefree party that it is today. The party fever still rages on as more and more carousers start the summer off with a bang getting their drink and freak on like it could be their last. The festival serves up a stimulating display of bulges, butts, thongs and enough stiff cocktails to keep any gayby flying higher than the burning sun. Weekend festivities officially kick off on Friday, May 26 with three nightly events at Park East from 9 p.m. to 3 a.m. hosted by Johnny Chisholm. Get ready to get turnt all the way up at the GLOW Paint Party with DJ Joe Gauthreaux. Bare it all in the moonlight, as you douse yourself and others in glow paint. Hold on. The weekend is just getting started. On Saturday, triple your dares and don’t sleep until lunch as the annual all daytime beach bash begins with a sea 34 | 5.24.17
of come one, come all tents lining the sands. Tent crawl from one to the next meeting and mingling. The highlight of the day happens before you know it as the WAVE dance party with DJ Dani Toro crashes ashore. At WAVE, the weekend’s only ticketed element gets underway at 10 p.m. The music starts thumping and the drinks start flowing as you dance night away. The Memorial Day celebration surfs out in style on Sunday, as DJ Grind grinds like no other for the closing BATHHOUSE Foam Party. Mixes spin as you float amongst a sea of men and all that good white stuff, soaking up the last moments of a truly unforgettable weekend. As far as accommodations go, crashing on the beach is not an option. Don’t let your fears of being too drunk and having nowhere to go chide you too much, as the organizers of Memorial Gay Weekend have diligently lined up three official host hotels right on the beach so that you, your friends and all the beautiful strangers have a place to recuperate each night. Keep in mind with the festival growing every year, hotel/motel options could get slim if you haven’t already booked a spot. Check with Hilton Pensacola Beach Gulf Front, Holiday Inn Resort Pensacola Beach Gulf Front Hotel, and Hampton Inn Pensacola Beach – most establishments should still have a few rooms available. If
luck runs out, give your other favorite gay-friendly Pensacola hotels and inns located across the bridge a ring. Although Friday, Saturday and Sunday helm the main attractions, not all of the delicious, sweaty fun is constricted to the Johnny Chisholm events. Pensacola is home to numerous hot gay bars, where unofficial in-between and after-hours parties swing long, low and heavy. The most famous is Emerald City, a historic 18-and-up high energy dance bar hosting parties beginning as early as Wednesday night and lasting until Monday evening. It hosts everything from the opening Drink & Drown party on Wednesday, all the way to the SWEAT party on Saturday, to an underwear party on Sunday. Ever so conveniently, a free shuttle bus will run from the Portofino at Pensacola Beach to Emerald City each day. Other fantastic spots to hit up include the Roundup, Top of the Town, The Cabaret, and Red Carpet Lounge. All of them will also be celebrating all weekend. For more info on Memorial Day events, accommodations and tourist attractions check out the full roster at Memorial Weekend Pensacola on Facebook.
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SURE, DATING AND HOOKUPS CAN BE AUTOMATED NOW, BUT HERE’S HOW TO FIND THE ONE THAT’S RIGHT FOR YOU. BY H. MATTHEWS Nothing changes faster in the the world of gay dating more than dating apps. Just when you think you’ve found the one that meets your needs, your needs change or a new one pops up that promises a new experience. It doesn’t matter if you want to make new friends, find someone to hook up with, or get into a serious relationship — these apps are out there, and maybe so is Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now. Dates? Hookups? No muss, no fuss. Check out these
Zoosk Zoosk is exploding in popularity with LGBT singles righ tnow, and it boasts one of the slickest apps on the market. Getting started is free and easy, as is finding like-minded singles in and around any zip code. No need to waste time on long surveys either: just a couple questions and the app will start working its magic for you.
Elite Singles Elite Singles is a fantastic option for those who value education and are a little older. More than 80% of members have earned a bachelor’s, master’s, or doctorate degree (or some combo of the three), and more than 90% are aged 30 or over. For free, you can get the app, create a profile, and browse for and receive matches — among other things.
AdultFriendFinder It’s known that AdultFriendFinder is a popular choice among straight singles, but it’s also a go-to for homosexual and bisexual singles. The site has more than 40 million members and sees more than 25.5 million visitors a month — 38 | 5.24.17
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Hornet With over 10 million gay members, Hornet is the second largest gay Hookup app out there, after you know which. Not to mention, they have numerous high star ratings from users. Besides being such a popular app, Hornet also has a user-friendly desktop version too, making it easy to meet like-minded men no matter what device you’re using or where you are.
Tindr Who knew a swipe right could mean so much? Tinder is one of the simplest dating apps on the market. It uses your Facebook profile to build your base and geographic location to find you some nearby friends. Bonus: With Tinder Plus, you can undo an accidental swipe.
Scruff Scruff is not for wusses. This dating app for bi, gay and curious men with some hair on their chest and dirt under their nails, or at least the fantasy of such things. From gym rats to military men to outdoorsy types, Scruff hooks you up with just your type of dude. You can even filter out no-gos by height and weight.
GuySpy GuySpy lets you see men the way you want, whether it’s by geographic location or strictly by your preferred criteria. There’s also a travel mode for on-the-go guys while you’re trekking out of town for business or pleasure.
Growlr GROWLr defines its men as bears: masculine and on the prowl. You can get super specific in your search and your end goal for using the app, whether a casual hookup to a long-term relationship.
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a significant number of them being from the LGBT community. In addition to selecting the sexual orientation of your ideal match, you can also select your preferred location, age, and interests.
Match.com Yes, really. The world’s most famous dating site also happens to boast the most gay and lesbian users who are looking for serious dates and relationships. Its app is super intuitive and easy to use, and it’s truly refreshing to communicate with the mature, relationship-oriented singles you’ll find on Match.com. 40 | 5.24.17
Mister X is the bigger and better version of bringing your buddy out to the bar — he knows what you’re into but won’t get sloppy and spill beer down your shirt. This app for gay men uses a system that becomes accustomed to what guys you like and filters out the duds. It even has a MISTER X Code, a list of core values each user should have — acting like an adult tops the list of necessities.
DaddyHunt For men of a certain age and the guys who like them, identify your age and the age range of the guys you like, pop in a few pics from mild to wild, and go to town. Send and receive compliments from ‘handsome’ to ‘smoking hot,’ and chat with guys from all over the world as well as by GPS in your area.
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DAVID ATLANTA’S WEEKLY LIST OF TRUTHS ALL GAY MEN HAVE COME TO KNOW
SHARK ATTACK The oldest or biggest guy is the shark. Everyone else are the diver.
OGLE GUYS Wear sunglasses so no one catches you staring.
Bring a friend and drop a few juicy tidbits.
DRINK Beer and cocktails are always in order. No glass, playa.
CHICKEN FIGHT Two tops, two bottoms. Still as fun as you remember. Maybe more.
PLAN
FLOAT Take your cocktail to the water and chill while you cruise in every direction.
Let your mind wander. Think big picture. Imagine your next moves.
WORK
TAN Laying out can be its own pastime. Ask handsome friends for help applying oil or lotion.
Not our favorite, but your laptop and your phone are somehow way better with the sun on your skin.
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TO DO AT THE POOL
GOSSIP
MAKE A MOVIE Buy a cheap waterproof camera and film a little feature. No limits.
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Touching Up Our Pride Roots Trolley Tour Real Boy Documentary Screening Forever Strong: Orlando Tribute Sylvia Rivera Day of Service Out on Film Screening of Jewel's Catch One Georgia Equality's Evening for Equality Touching Up Our Pride Roots Trolley Tour Stonewall Poetry event Stride Into Pride at Six Flags Over Georgia
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991 Piedmont Ave NE
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502 Amsterdam Ave NE 227 10th St NE
B3 Bulldogs
893 Peachtree St NE
B4 Friends
736 Ponce De Leon Ave NE
B5 The Model T
699 Ponce De Leon Ave NE
B6 My Sister’s Room 66 12th St NE
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900 Monroe Dr NE
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Hair/Beauty H1 Helmet
990 Piedmont Ave NE
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970 Piedmont Ave NE
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R1 Barking Leather AfterDark 306 Ponce De Leon Ave NE
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500 Amsterdam Ave NE
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C1 Atlanta Eagle 306 Ponce De Leon Ave NE
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1842 Cheshire Bridge Rd
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1544 Piedmont Ave NE
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1492 Piedmont Ave NE
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1600 Piedmont Ave NE
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1579 Monroe Dr NE
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2219 Faulkner Rd NE
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Mary's
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Sister Louisa’s Church 466 Edgewood Ave SE
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3011 Buford Hwy NE
Club Rush
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FRIDAY
BLAKE’S Martini Monday's with David, Doug and Rod BURKHART’S Blue Monday Karaoke with Darlene at 10PM BULLDOGS Free Pool, Pool Tournament the last Monday of every month COCKPIT $3.00 House Draft EAGLE Music Videos with Kirby FRIENDS Texas Hold'em 8:30pm HIDEAWAY Industry Night 1/2 Off Well, Domestic, & Wine JUNGLE Stars of the Century Show 11:30pm MODEL T Monday Night Madness 8pm OSCAR’S Service Industry Night SWINGING RICHARDS Industry Free Entry, Free VIP Lounge for all. 8:30PM TRIPPS Customer Appreciation All Drinks $1.00 Off WOOFS Texas Hold'em Poker 7:30pm
BLAKE’S TGIF with Doug & Brent 3-9pm • Celestial Fridays with Celeste Holmes & Cast 11pm • Bill Berdeaux Spins Street Level BURKHART’S FEMME FATALE with Destiny Brooks and Justice Taylor at 11PM CLUB RUSH “Got Leche” Free entry until 11pm 18 & up - Open until 4am EAGLE DJ Dance Party HERETIC PUMP featuring Atlanta’s hottest deejays - Occasional special events. No cover b4 11 HIDEAWAY $5 Smirnoff drinks & Martinis DJ Marc J. Cubs @10pm in back room JUNGLE The Other Show with Edie Cheezburger 9:30pm LIPS ATLANTA Glitz & Glamour Las Vegas Style MODEL T Texas Hold’em Poker 9pm OSCAR’S Music Video Night SWINGING RICHARDS Sexy dancers pack the strage early! Drink Specials all night. Free before 8PM. $10 Cover before 12 TEN ATLANTA Music & Videos by DJ Daryl Cox 10pm TRIPPS Jeremy Presents “Skin” 4pm - 2am WOOFS Fur Fridays
TUESDAY
BLAKE’S Latin Night with DJ, Melo, 1/2 Priced Food Menu 'til Midnight BURKHART’S DRAG-EOKE with Angelica D’Paige at 10PM CLUB RUSH “Tipsy Tuesday” 18 & up - Open until 4am FRIENDS Let's Make A Deal with Ken 6pm HIDEAWAY Game night: Poker and blackjack 7:30 Trivia with Jason Walker 8:30 MODEL T Texas Hold’em Poker 7pm OSCAR’S Show Tune Tuesday SWINGING RICHARDS Titos Tuesdays! $6.25 Titos Cocktails with the hottest crowd in the ATL. Free before 8PM WOOFS Poker Professional Hour
WEDNESDAY BLAKE’S Party Pop Hits with Doug 3-9pm, "Voyeur Wednesday with Kyra Mora. Go-Go Guys 11pm - 2am BURKHART’S HUMPDAY KARAOKE with Darlene at 10PM COCKPIT Karaoke - Humpday Specials FRIENDS Hump Night with Regina Simms 8pm HERETIC WarpZone Video Game Night 7pm - Pig Dance Black Out Party DJ Stan Jackson 10pm-3am NO COVER HIDEAWAY Beauty and the beat! Ruby Redd Charity Bingo @8:30 free to play. karaoke W/ Tyler @ 11:00 $ 3.00 well drinks all day long LIPS ATLANTA Bitchy Bingo MODEL T Wonderful Wednesdays 7pm OSCAR'S JukeBox Wednesdays SWINGING RICHARDS Wasted Wednesdays! Free VIP Lounge. 2-4-1 VIP Rooms all night! TRIPPS Hump Day Buffet Free Food @ 5 pm w/ Drink Purchase WOOFS Trivia and Bear Hump Hour
THURSDAY BLAKE’S Texas Hold em Poker 7pm • #TBT 90's Divas with Shawnna Brooks 11pm BURKHART’S DANCEFLOOR DIVAS with Phoenix (RuPaul’s Drag Race s3) at 11:30PM BULLDOGS The busiest night of the week COCKPIT Customer Appreciation Night EAGLE Blackout Night with Gerry FACES LOUNGE The All Star Cabaret Drag Show & Karaoke FRIENDS Texas Hold'em 8:30pm; Regina hosts Ladies Nite 10pm HERETIC 3 Legged Cowboy Night 9pm Free dance lessons 8-9pm. No cover. HIDEAWAY Hot Mic’ Comedy w/ Ian Aber at 10pm followed by Karaoke at 11:30. Draft Beer Special JUNGLE True Thursday EDM Party 10pm LIPS ATLANTA Dinner with the Divas MODEL T Pre-Weekend Party! 7pm OSCAR’S Thirsty Thursday SWINGING RICHARDS 2-4-1 Entry and VIP All night! A Matthew & Billy Fav!! Fireball Shot Specials! WOOFS Country Music Night 7pm 62 | 5.24.17
SATURDAY 10TH & PIEDMONT Bottomless Mimosa Brunch BLAKE’S Open at 1pm • “Glitter Bomb” w Edie Cheezburger • Guest DJs Upstairs 10pm-close. BURKHART’S SYNERGY with Shawnna Brooks and Monica Van Pelt at 11PM BULLDOGS Free Pool CAMPAGNOLO Legendary Musician Robert Ray on the piano 10pm-1am COCKPIT Karaoke EAGLE DJ Dance Party FRIENDS Free Pool 2-6pm HERETIC Varies. EARLY COUNTRY (8pm-12:30am) & LATE NIGHT DANCE with Billboard DJ MIKE POPE @12:30-close. No cover except special events. HIDEAWAY $2.50 All Well Drinks JUNGLE Fantasy Girls 9pm; Club Night, Various Guest DJ's 10:30pm LIPS ATLANTA Glitz & Glamour Las Vegas Style MODEL T Texas Hold’em Poker 3pm OSCAR’S Music Video Night SWINGING RICHARDS T Shirt Review. Atlanta boys get crazy! Free before 8PM. $10 Cover before 12 TEN ATLANTA Music & Videos by DJ Rob Reum 10pm WOOFS Game Day
SUNDAY 10TH & PIEDMONT Bellini Brunch BLAKE’S Open at 1pm - Bloody Mary’s with Robin. Texas Hold em Poker Upstairs 2pm. • "Midtown Rouge" Drag Show w/ Peaches 8:30pm • High Energy with DJs Will Bryan & Bill Berdeaux. BURKHART’S Armorettes at Burkhart's, 7:30 p.m. before Tossed Salad • Tossed Salad hosted by Brigitte Bidet - Music & Drinks 10pm - Showtime 10:30pm BULLDOGS Evening Big Deck Party CLUB RUSH Hip Hop and R&B - 18 & up - Open until 4am COCKPIT Movie Night FRIENDS Open Sunday 2pm-12am HIDEAWAY $3.50 wells JUNGLE Cherry Bomb with Wild Cherry Sucret 8pm LIPS ATLANTA Gospel Brunch w/ Bubba D. Licious LAS MARGARITAS Papi’s $17.95 Unlimited Brunch & Choice of Mimosas, Sangrias, Bloody Maria’s, & Mojitos OSCAR'S Sunday Funday TEN ATLANTA Brunch 11am & music by DJ Rob Reum inside and DJ Robert Ansley on the patio 4pm TRIPPS 2nd & 4th Sunday - Open Mike Show 6pm WOOFS Sunday Funday
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The problem comes if you stop there. If you accept fear as a reason to avoid circumstances without assessing and making an informed decision, you’re stuck. BDSM wants to use fear to your sexual advantage. Turned on and intimidated at the same time? That’s the point. Adrenaline pumps, you’re short of breath, and your sweet relief comes from giving in. You owe it to yourself to try it. A whole community of people can teach you about passion via consent and trust. Forget naysayers who use their own fears to ostracize people they don’t understand. Stop making life decisions based on what others might think.
HEY,
DADDY!
DON’T FEED THE FEARS Hey, Daddy! Bondage porn is hot, but I’ve only had vanilla sex. When I cum, what’s going on in my head is way different than what’s going on in the bed. I’m afraid to try BDSM. The fetish guys I see at Pride fuel my fantasies, but also my fears. They’re intimidating. I’m also afraid of being seen as a freak. People ridicule fetishists behind their backs, and I’m afraid of being lumped in with them. Should I try it?
Always Fearful, Reticent And In Denial Dear AFRAID: Fears get a bad rap. They’re not all created equally. Natural “fight or flight” responses kick in as a warning to evaluate your situation.
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Hey, Daddy! I’m 42, and I’m still going to the same bars and restaurants, and running into the same men, from 10 years ago. It’s OK, but is that all there is? This isn’t where I saw myself going.
Sense That’s Unfulfilled Can’t Kick Dear STUCK: Many guys in their 40s take stock in life and come up wanting more. Welcome to midlife and its infamous “crisis.” But it’s more like an opportunity. Life’s proverbial halfway mark is a chance to identify and face down fears – of the unknown, of failure, and yes of success – that have held you back. What choices would you have made if you had not been afraid? What would you do if you could not fail? Is failing worse than not trying? Use the answers to define your next chapter. You can’t change the past or predict the future. You can act boldly and land in places that make you glad you did.
DADDY LOVES HIS BOYS He knows the answers you need, and you’re going to get them. Reach out to him with your burning questions via our editor, mike@davidatlanta.com. Warning: Advice given in this column is intended for entertainment and novelty purposes. Please proceed at your own risk.
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fairyscopes
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ARIES (Mar. 21 – Apr. 19):
LIBRA (Sep. 23 – Oct. 22):
Do not flirt at work. The gym maybe, but neither now. You seem to be mixing up flirtation with argument. Instead of trying to pick someone up you might rather pick a fight. Feistiness has its charm, if you can get the right balance.
Temptation to argue comes out of your own anxieties. Give yourself and everyone else a break by focusing on your own problems and unburden yourself with a therapist, a favorite aunt, or a good stand-in.
TAURUS (Apr. 20 – May 20):
SCORPIO (Oct. 23 – Nov. 21):
You are cute, charming and wonderful, but working it is going to draw unwanted attention and costs. Just be yourself without the self-conscious effort. If your usual divertissements just annoy you, try out some new amusements.
You can be a fierce advocate for the queer community or your own part of that. Be careful not to overplay your hand. Speak up for universal rights and equality over privilege and you’re sure to make your case.
GEMINI (May 21- Jun. 20):
SAGITTARIUS (Nov. 22 – Dec. 21):
A new relationship may be in the offing, or an old one is just off. Keeping your home together can require hard work (the easy part) and diplomacy (not so easy). Focus your criticisms on yourself.
Your partner or other connections can help you find a new job; move quickly. You may be a bit selfish in appraising your relationship, but if you’re not good for each other move on.
CANCER (Jun. 21- Jul. 22):
CAPRICORN (Dec. 22 – Jan. 19):
A new exercise program can do you a world of good, but start out easy! Learning a new skill can help you take advantage of changes at work. Your insights to team dynamics can also secure your position, but you don’t have to share them.
Focus on foresight and good behavior. Rash actions and outspokenness can undermine your work and get you into trouble with your boss or clients. Remember your colleagues are on your team. Approach problems as a healer, not as a critic.
LEO (Jul. 23 – Aug. 22):
AQUARIUS (Jan. 20 – Feb. 18):
A binge with your friends can get mighty expensive and lead to arguments. Before going out, think hard about whose company you value and why. Sometimes it’s best to “have previous plans.” Political action is good. Criticizing your comrades, not so much.
You’re itching for a good fight, but can too easily land in a bad one. To fix economic problems be a healer, not a warrior. You can get more flies with honey instead of vinegar without compromising your principles.
VIRGO (Aug. 23 – Sep. 22):
PISCES (Feb. 19 – Mar. 20):
You’re good with the boss. Don’t do anything that could look like you’re kissing up. Tips from experts can make your work more effective and less stressful. Some adventurous fun with your family can also turn things around for you.
Where has your life been heading and where do you want it to grow? Reexamine your priorities and goals. Domestic comforts and lessons are a basis for growing in new directions, not a cozy nest to hide in.
bitch session When your man crush Monday close the car door with his hip, and you swoon and cum a little.
Aaargghhh! I'm cute AF. Why won't anyone date me?!
If only Likes were Lays, then your thirsty ass would be all used up and you’d stop posting.
So I’m ‘out of my mind’ over you, huh? Baby, I haven’t checked out of there once since you finally left.
OMG you guys. What am I, flypaper for freaks?
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SEND US YOUR BITCHES! Text 404.969.BTCH, tweet @BitchSessionATL or email bitch@davidatlanta.com *This page reflects the bitchiness of the community not David Atlanta or its publisher (although we’re bitchy too!)
The fact that no one understands you doesn’t make you an artist.
I’m no longer interested in dating. Want to put out an ad that just says, “Seeking guy to ride my piece and GTFO.”
I don’t know what your problem is, but I bet it’s a long word and a long line of guys knows how to pronounce it.
You are validating my fear that there are no decent men left.
Thanks for the life lessons. We’re all refreshed and challenged by your unique point of view. #eyeroll #movingon