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Photo of Ms. Marilyn I d o n’ t k n o w w h o h a s m o r e f u n e v e r y We d n e s d a y morning … my granddaughter or me! Sitting for a half hour at Old Bridge Librar y’s “Stor y T i m e” w i t h M s . M a r i l y n i s exciting and one of the best of all the public Librar y Stor y Times that my granddaughter Reagan and I have experienced …. As a retired educator for many years working with children and adolescents, I, along w i t h t h e t o d d l e r s i nv o l v e d Continued on page 16
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NICHOLAS JEWELERS PROVIDING 40 YEARS OF LOCAL EXPERTISE For Nicholas Raymond, p r ov i d i n g o u t s t a n d i n g s e r v i c e to h i s c u stom ers is the key to success. Raymond (or Nick, as everybody calls him) is the owner of Nicholas Jewelers, the Browntown Shopping Center store that has been in Old Bridge for nearly four decades. “It’s kind of hard to believe so much time has gone by,” says Nick. “I’m selling engagement rings to the children of parents who bought their engagement rings here. It’s pretty amazing. “Essentially, we’re the jeweler for Old Bridge,” Nick notes. “I can’t even think of another jewelry store here. And because it’s such a local, neighborhood store it’s
so important to be service-oriented.” Nicholas Jewelers prides itself on providing a “no pressure” atmosphere for its customers who can take their time finding the perfect piece. The store offers a vast array of fine jewelry, diamonds, gems, estate pieces, gold and sterling
silver. “We’re a very small location, but we have the inventory of any large store,” Nick says. The married father of two who grew up in Middletown got into the business back in the early 1980s when the gold boom started. He was a business major at Rutgers New Brunswick and when the boom began he opened a booth at the Route 18 Flea Market buying and selling gold. “That was the first time gold skyrocketed,” he recalls. “It went from $100 an ounce to $800. Then it happened again in 2008/2009 when gold jumped to about $1,900 an ounce. When things like that happen the world goes crazy and Continued on page 13
OLD BRIDGE RESIDENT VALLEJO SWORN IN AS HCBA SECRETARY AND FIRST FILIPINO-AMERICAN OFFICER
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Attorney Maria Vallejo, a former Hudson County Bar Association Trustee, was sworn in as the organization’s secretary on Wednesday,
January 18, 2016, at the Liberty House Restaurant, Jersey City, N.J. Vallejo, an Old Bridge Township resident, who is Of Counsel at the law firm of Chasan Lamparello Mallon & Cappuzzo, PC, Secaucus, N.J., is on track to become president of the Hudson County Bar Association in 2023. She will be the first Filipino-American to lead the organization. Vallejo is a civil litigation attorney, focusing her practice in commercial, government-entity defense, personal injury and complex appeals. She has received numerous accolades,
including being named a “Rising Star” in the field of General Litigation by New Jersey Monthly Magazine for three consecutive years. A former business journalist, Vallejo also sits on the New Jersey State Board of Accountancy by gubernatorial appointment. Vallejo said it is an honor to join the leadership of an organization that seeks to elevate the practice of law and ensure that the highest level of service is provided to the Hudson County community. “I am grateful for this opportuContinued on page 13
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LDN - A WONDER DRUG?? LDN is prescribed for various conditions such as multiple sclerosis, inflammatory bowel disease, fibromyalgia, as well as many other illnesses. This article contains information about LDN, how it works, and what conditions it may be used to treat.
What is LDN and can it help me? LDN is short for low dose naltrexone. Naltrexone is an FDA approved medication that for decades has been used to treat alcohol and opioid dependence. For those needs it is usually given in 50mg to 300mg daily doses. LDN is prescribed as an off-labeled use, meaning that its use for these conditions has not been approved by the FDA, however the FDA has approved its safety. Typically, it is given as a 1.5mg to 4.5mg daily bedtime dose. In order to be prescribed this low of a dose, it is necessary to have it made at a compounding pharmacy such as Old Bridge Drugs and Surgicals. How does LDN work? LDN is thought to have s e veral mechanisms of ac tion. Naltrexone is an opioid receptor blocker. When LDN is taken at night, it temporarily blocks the opioid receptors for a few hours fooling the brain into increasing production of the body’s own endogenous opioid called endorphins, as well as enkephalin production. The increased production promotes the bodies healing and reduces inflammation. An endorphin is the body’s endogenous morphine and it is produced in the both the central nervous system and the pituitary gland, it controls both the immune and endocrine systems. Many autoimmune diseases as well as cancer are thought to be triggered by low levels or deficiencies of endorphins. LDN may have the ability to help correct these deficiencies. How did we find out about LDN? LDN was first discovered by a team of physicians at Hershey Medical Center in 1980. Shortly after, a physician in NYC first started using it to treat HIV patients and discovered it enhanced patients’ responses to the virus that causes AIDS. Some years later he began treating cancer patients with LDN (it was reported he treated over 400 of these patients). There are currently approximately 90 research studies available online proving LDN’s effectiveness in different disease states done by many distinguished medical centers.
What are some of the conditions that might be helped with LDN? There are approximately 100 disease states in which LDN is currently being used to help treat. Among them are: Graves’ disease / Hashimoto’s thyroiditis/ Multiple Sclerosis /Cancer / Irritable bowel disease/Fibromyalgia /HIV /Obesity/Parkinson’s disease / Autism /ALS /PTSD /Lupus /Crohn’s disease /Asthma /Celiac disease / Chronic fatigue syndrome /Psoriasis/ Rheumatoid Arthritis and many more. What are the side effects of LDN? LDN is generally well tolerated. Most of the side effects usually occur at the start of therapy, and go away over time. The potential side effects include sleeplessness, vivid dreams, and sometimes headaches. Are there drugs I should not take with LDN? B ecause LDN is an opioid blocker, patients who are currently dependent on narcotic pain relievers should not use LDN. Transplant patients who use immunosuppressant drugs are also not candidates for treatment with LDN. Why d o I h ave to g e t it at a compounding pharmacy? Naltrexone is an off-patent drug, and pharmaceutical companies are not willing to invest money into developing a drug that does not have patent protection. Therefore, low doses of naltrexone are not available commercially. Because it is important to have proven accurate dosing of the compounded medication we strongly suggest you seek out a PCAB accredited pharmacy such as Old Bridge Drugs and Surgicals. This accreditation is achieved by only about 1% of the compounding pharmacies in the United States and Old Bridge Drugs and Surgicals is one of only a few PCAB accredited in NJ. At O l d B r i d g e D r u g s a n d Surgicals Compounding: • We use the best practices in the c omp ou n d i n g i n du s t r y w h i c h include the highest quality ingredients, equipment, and processes • We have established quality controls • Our compounded medications are independently third party tested to ensure potency
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The American Medical Association (AMA) recommends only using an accredited pharmacy for compounded drug products. This accreditation is the patient’s assurance that we meet the ethical and quality assurance dictated by PCAB, the FDA, USP and our own State Pharmacy Boards. For more information please call us at 732-952-2244. Our pharmacists would be happy to discuss any questions you might have and direct you towards a practitioner who is experienced in its use.
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Achilles Alon PharmD RPh Dr. Achilles Alon is the Director of Specialty Pharmacy and co-owner of ACE-Rx Specialty & Compounding. As the Director of Specialty Pharmacy, he serves as the head pharmacist and operations lead for all specialty pharmacy programs.
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A MESSAGE FROM MAYOR HENRY
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TOWNSHIP SPOTLIGHT
COUNCIL UPDATE
In addition to our on-going focus on public safety, the Township is also committed to providing recreational opportunities for residents of all ages. The winter season is underway at the John Piccolo Ice Arena. The Township continues to partner with the Old Bridge Board of Education on skating activities and events for our students. Once a month, the veterans from Operation Beachhead also visit the arena and I am privileged to skate alongside our heroes. Please be sure to visit the ice arena and enjoy a day with your family and friends. For complete details and additional information, residents can visit www.oldbridge. com or contact the Department of Recreation at 732-721-5600 ext. 4010. And finally, once again this year, I am excited to sponsor the New Jersey League of Municipalities’ Future Municipal Leaders Scholarship Competition for high school juniors and seniors plan-
ning to continue their education after graduation. The purpose of this scholarship is to advance the virtues of elected and volunteer positions in municipal government, while raising awareness of municipal government in general. The $1,000 scholarship is offered to all high school students who are residents of Old Bridge Township, attending both public and private schools. To compete in the scholarship, the student must write an essay with the theme, “What My Municipal Government Does Best” and it must be approximately 500 words. The deadline to submit the essay to the Mayor’s office is March 10, 2017. Once my office receives the essay, it will be judged by our committee and then forwarded to the League of Municipalities for their consideration. Please go to our website: www.oldbridge.com for the application and complete details. Please feel free to contact my office at 732721-5600 ext. 2040 with any questions. Mayor Owen Henry
By Christopher Marion, Business Administrator Township of Old Bridge
Photo of Evelyn C. Lenard Evelyn C. Lenard is a 15 year resident of Old Bridge, who top producing Multimillion dollar producer and real estate agent working out of REMAX Central’s Manalapan Office. An experienced realtor, she has assisted many first time home buyers, investors, and families realize their real estate goals. As a resident of Old Bridge she is uniquely qualified to serve the residents with her local township knowledge. Evelyn is committed to her community, she is an active member of the Filipino American Community of Old Bridge, as well as a parishioner of St. Thomas the Apostle. She is fluent in English and Filipino.
2017 is in full swing and I am excited for all of the initiatives and new programs that are moving forward this year! What better way to start the year than with the hiring of three new patrol officers and the promotion of three outstanding senior officers in the Old Bridge Police Department. Congratulations to: Jonathan Ditmars, Antonino Grigoli and Joseph Ramm who will be entering the Cape May Police Academy in January. Special recognition should also be given to Captain Joseph Mandola, Lieutenant Scott Gumprecht and Sargent Richard Tulko on their recent promotions. The Old Bridge Police Department is a dedicated and talented group of individuals who keep our residents safe every day. I am proud of their accomplishments to date and look forward to several important initiatives scheduled for 2017.
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Photo of Christopher R. Marion, Business Administrator 1. NEW JERSEY DEPARTMENT OF THE TREASURY BLUE ACRES DEMOLITION PROJECT. In December of 2016, the New Jersey Department of the Treasury Division of Property Management & Construction provided the Township with a bid and award schedule for the demolition of twelve of the residential properties purchased by the State through the NJDEP Blue Acres Program. A pre-bid meeting for contractors was held on January 4, 2017. Bids were received on January 17, 2017. A post-bid review meeting
was held on January 19, 2017. Award of bid and notice to proceed are tentatively scheduled for January 30, 2017. 2. ANNUAL TAX SALE. On December 14, 2016 the Township Division of Tax Collection held the 2016 Tax Sale. At the sale, 425 liens were sold to third parties and 31 liens were struck off to the Township. The total amount collected from the sale was $872,098.79 ($542,623.54 for taxes, interest, penalty and property clean-up charges and $329,475.25 for OBMUA water and sewer). 3. MIDDLESEX COUNTY IMPROVEMENT AUTHORITY (MCIA) CURBSIDE RECYCLING COLLECTION PROGRAM. The 2017 curbside recycling schedule for Old Bridge is available on the on the Township Website at oldbridge.com and on the MCIA Website at mciauth.com. 4. FIRST QUARTER TAX PAYMENTS. The Township Division of Tax Collection will be open Monday through Friday, between the hours of 8:00 AM and 5:00 PM, during the first quarter tax collection period. The tax office will also be open between the hours of 9:00 AM and 1:00 PM on February 4, 2017 and between the hours of 8:00 AM and 7:00 PM on February 10, 2017. For additional information, residents should contact the Division of Tax Collection at (732) 721-5600 ext. 2999. 5. 2017 MUNICIPAL BUDGET. The State Division of Local Government Services has notified municipalities that the Local Finance Board has modified
the statutory dates for introduction and adoption of municipal budgets for Calendar Year 2017. The statutory date for the introduction and approval of the budget has been changed from February 10, 2017 to March 17, 2017. The statutory date for budget adoption has been changed from March 20, 2017 to April 21, 2017. The Mayor’s proposed budget will be transmitted to Township Council in early February. 6. LINCOLN’S BIRTHDAY AND PRESIDENTS DAY HOLIDAYS. On February 13, 2017 and February 20, 2017, all municipal offices will be closed for business in observance of the Lincoln’s Birthday and Presidents Day Holidays, respectively. 7. JCP&L NOTICE OF PENDING DISTRIBUTION VEGETATION MANAGEMENT ACTIVITY. JCP&L has notified the Township that during the first quarter of 2017, JCP&L contractors will be performing distribution vegetation management activities in Old Bridge including: routine trimming of limbs to provide clearance for electric wires, selective removal of limbs overhaning electrical conductors and removal of hazard trees that pose a risk to electric facilities. All tree removals are performed in accordance with JCP&L’s easement rights or with the written consent of the property owner Additional notice to the Township will be provided by JCP&L approximately two weeks prior to the start of each distribution vegetation management activity.
8. JERSEY CENTRAL POWER & LIGHT (JCP&L) NOTICE OF PENDING TRANSMISSION VEGETATION MANAGEMENT ACTIVITY. JCP&L has also notified the Township that over the course of the 2017 calendar year, JCP&L contractors will be performing various Transmsission Vegetation Management (TVM) activities in Old Bridge including: removal of incompatible vegetation within transmission right-of-ways, trimming of limbs that encroach into transmission right-of-ways (including possible use of an aerial saw) and removal of hazard priority trees that pose an imminent risk to transmission facilities. Additional notice to the Township will be provided by JCP&L approximately two weeks prior to the start of each TVM activity. 9. NEW JERSEY LEAGUE OF MUNICIPALITIES (NJLOM) LOUIS BAY ANNUAL FUTURE MUNICIPAL LEADERS SCHOLARSHIP COMPETITION. The NJLOM Future Municipal Leaders Scholarship Competition is open to all high school juniors and seniors who are residents of New Jersey and plan to continue their education after high school. The deadline for the submission of essays to Mayor Henry is March 10, 2017. For additional information, residents should contact the Mayor’s Office at (732) 721-5600 ext. 2040 or visit the Township Website at oldbridge.com.
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THINK OLD BRIDGE by Economic Development Dept.
Photo of Steve Mamakas is the Executive Director of the Mayor’s Office It w i l l b e a g re at 2017, Business meets Government in the Economic Development Office We hope you had a happy New Year’s Eve. Now that the celebrations are over, the Mayor’s Office of Economic Development will be getting down to business in 2017. Our top priority is to continue to assist all businesses
achieve long term success in Old Bridge. We look forward to partnering up with the business community to drive new and exciting programs that benefit everyone. Our office will be focused on bringing in new, traditional and unique companies aside from working on attracting more industry for our outlying areas. We will continue to work on our strategic plan and road map to assist the Mayor’s long term goals to help the town reach financial security. The plan is to focus on what we call the three food groups of growth: retail, commercial and light industry that will drive our local economy to new heights and to economic security. All our efforts will be focused on encouraging local economic growth in the Township and create awareness that the local administration is focused on helping businesses in the community to provide positive growth for all. We will continue to engage with the both the business community and residents, working together creating different opportunities that will help foster local business growth and benefits for the residents to continue to save, shop and dine locally.
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These initiatives, coupled together with our high profile branding and marketing campaigns show Old Bridge as the place to do business. We do promote our town as location, location, location to the business world because we have an area that is very attractive to current and prospective employers due to our location; we have quick access to the city and other points with quick transit and roadway access. We have coined Old Bridge as being in the golden triangle of roads with five major roadways running through our town; RT 9, 18, 34, 35 & the GSP, making it conducive to commerce and small and large business growth. If you really view it, you cannot get to the Jersey shore or south unless you pass through Old Bridge. Some of the exciting plans for 2017 The continued success and growth of this newspaper which is supported by the Old Bridge Alliance Members and the overall business community. The production of the 2017 edition of the Old Bridge Township Magazine. This publication showcases the community, history, business and government of Old Bridge. The publication is funded by the local businesses through
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their advertisements. Last year all the proceeds had benefited four nonprofit organizations in the community. Mayor Henry and Steve Mamakas were pleased to present the donations checks to Camp Robin, The Municipal Alliance, Families Against Addiction and the OB Chamber of Commerce. The debut of the new TV show on OBTV 15 “The Health Kitchen” bridging a collaborative concept from the Mayor’s Office of Economic Development together with the Mayor’s Wellness Campaign, local business and Raritan Bay Medical Center in their new Joslyn Diabetes Center. The shows will feature our hometown restaurant Chefs cooking healthy meals and discussing healthy options alongside the Medical Center’s registered dietitian. The show also incorporates segments featuring healthcare tips from doctors and medical professionals as well as fitness tips with modified exercise routines by personal trainers from local fitness centers. The show is scheduled to air in January. We will see the first hotel built in Old Bridge that will service the area and bring in ratable. The Hotel will be located just off of Spring Valley Rd. and
Route 18 and anticipate putting shovels in the ground in the near future. We look forward to seeing a 315.000 sq ft warehouse be built off of Old Waterworks Road, bringing light industry to Old Bridge and prompting more industry to make Old Bridge their home. Together we are creating what we will call a “Wave of the future in Old Bridge” and want to make sure we are all riding it together. This months spotlighted business and Old Bridge Alliance Member is WONDERSUB located at 2591 RT 516
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WIFI HOT SPOTS NOW AVAILABLE AT OLD BRIDGE LIBRARY THE OLD BRIDGE PUBLIC LIBRARY
Photo of Nancy Cohen Library Director The Old Bridge Public Library offers patrons numerous online resources, ranging from Tutor.com to HeritageQuest, to Hoopla and Lumos
Step-up learning. There are also programs to download books, audiobooks and movies. Now, in an effort to promote access to these resources, the Library is pleased to announce the availability of free mobile WiFi hot spots. A limited number of hot spots will be available for loan in this pilot program. Old Bridge Library adult card holders in good standing (i.e. account s not blocked due to unpaid fines or fees) will be eligible to check out the hot spots for a three-week period. Parents and guardians may borrow one for children under 18. Hot spot checkout
is limited to one per household, and hot spots cannot be renewed or reserved. These hot spots will allow patrons who do not have WiFi at home to be able to access the internet for free on their personal computers or electronic devices. It will be particularly helpful for job seekers and students doing homework without requiring them to come into the Library. The hot spots can also be used when patrons are traveling, allowing them to get online without using data or paying expensive fees. The devices will be available starting in February at the Circulation Desk on
a first-come, first-served basis. Each hot spot comes with a charger, user guide and policy guidelines. Further details can be found at the Library’s web site at www.oldbridgelibrary.org. We’re very pleased to be able to offer this valuable resource to the community and hope it will be well-utilized. On another note, we are looking forward to participating once again in National “Take Your Child to The Library Day” on Sat. Feb. 4th. This event was a big success last year and we expect even greater attendance this year. It’s a wonderful opportunity to bring children
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into the Library to sign up for their own Library card, and engage in various activities such as craft projects, story times and games. They will also have a chance to participate in a scavenger hunt and LEGO lab. Our staff will be available to provide more information about our myriad resources available to patrons of all ages, and a local Girl Scout troop will be helping out with the activities. Please check our website for further details about this fun, informative day of family events. See you at the Library!
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PROTECT YOUR FAMILY FROM UNSEEN DANGER By: Scott Skrivanek Some of the greatest dangers around your home may be unseen, such as gas leaks, carbon monoxide and radon. But avoiding these unseen dangers and alerting your family to danger can be as simple as checking your appliances regularly and purchasing a few affordable alarms. Leaking gas can lead to asphyxiation - the inability to breathe leading to suffocation – as well as dangerous explosions. Luckily, commercial gasses, such as the kind of gas your stove or heater uses, have a strong odor added to them so you can smell leaks. If you do smell a gas leak in your home, you need to act quickly – first, get out of your home as quickly as possible and dial 9-1-1 and your gas company immediately from outside to report the leak. If you live in an apartment building or near other homes, alert your neighbors so they can leave too. Take care not to trigger an explosion. Put out all open flames like matches, lighters, candles, and even cigarettes, that could set the gas on fire. An electrical current could trigger an explosion, so avoid turning any appliances on or off, including lights. If you know
where the leak is coming from and can shut off the gas supply, do so at once. What’s invisible and has no smell but can kill you? Carbon monoxide is an odorless gas and the most common cause of death by poison in the U.S., killing almost 4,000 people a year. It is one of the most dangerous household poisons because often people don’t know it’s there until it’s too late. Carbon monoxide comes from your furnace, boiler, hot water heater, oven, woodstove, fireplace or anything that burns fuel. The best way to protect yourself and your family is to buy a carbon monoxide (sometimes referred to as CO) alarm for your home. If you live in a home that is two stories or more, you should consider purchasing two or more alarms. Here are some simple steps to avoid CO poisoning in your home: • Ma ke su re you r f i re pl a c e, chimney, furnace and gas water heater are inspected and cleaned yearly • Don’t block heating or external vents • Never use your oven or stovetop to heat your home • Never use gas fireplaces or space heaters as main heating sources
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CAN PREVENT SERIOUS BIRTH DEFECTS By: Steven Berkman, M.D. Each year we observe Folic Acid Awareness Week in January as part of National Birth Defects Prevention Month. Start the New Year off right by taking a multivitamin with 400 micrograms (mcg) of folic acid every day. Your body uses folic acid to stay healthy, and it is an important supplement for pregnant women as well. Many women ignore multivitamins because they eat healthy foods. However, it is hard to get certain vitamins from food alone. Folate, a different form of folic acid, is found in foods such as leafy green vegetables, beans, liver and some fruit, but 50 to 90 percent of food folate is destroyed in cooking. Folic acid is a B-vitamin that is necessary for proper cell growth. If taken before and during early pregnancy, folic acid can prevent up to 70 percent of some of the serious birth defects that can affect the fetal brain and spine, called neural tube defects (NTD), which include spina bifida and anencephaly. Folic acid is easier for your body to absorb than folate and is easily ingested through multivitamins and fortified foods like breakfast cereal, pasta and bread. Multivitamins help fill those nutritional gaps in the diet, especially when it comes to getting enough folic acid.
The CDC and the U.S. Public Health Service recommend that all women between the ages of 15 and 45 consume 400 micrograms (mcg) of folic acid daily. Since birth defects can develop within the first few weeks of pregnancy, it is important to have enough folic acid in your body BEFORE becoming pregnant and continue getting enough folic acid during early pregnancy. Women need folic acid even if they are not planning to become pregnant since almost half of all pregnancies in the United States are unplanned. Some women may be at higher risk. Not only do Latinas have higher rates of NTD-affected pregnancies, but they also have the lowest awareness/knowledge about folic acid than non-Hispanic women. In addition, Latinas consume less folic acid than non-Hispanic women. But, regardless of ethnicity, folic acid is an important nutrient for all women. Dr. Steven R. Berkman is part of Bay Obstetrics and Gynecology, affiliated with Raritan Bay Medical Center, a member of the Hackensack Meridian Health family. The Bay physicians are all board certified and provide comprehensive healthcare for women of all ages. Dr. Berkman’s office is located at 740 Route 1 North, Iselin, NJ. To schedule an appointment, call 732-362-3840.
• Turn off ovens, space heaters and other heating appliances before going to bed or leaving your home • Never use grills inside the home in a closed space • Never use gas generators inside the home and follow the manufacturer’s instructions about placement outside and away from your home • Never keep a car running inside an enclosed space like a garage or shed Carbon monoxide poisoning can feel much like the flu. Signs of CO poisoning include headaches, dizziness, nausea, confusion, weakness, vision or hearing impairment, and drowsiness. If you notice these symptoms and suspect that carbon monoxide is the cause, you should get fresh air immediately and dial 9-1-1. With the exception of smoking, studies have shown that radon causes more lung cancer than anything else in the U.S. The Environmental Protection Agency estimates that household exposure to radon causes up to 30,000 lung cancer deaths per year. Radon is a radioactive gas that comes from the earth and rock beneath your home,
well-water, and building materials. Like CO, radon is an odorless gas that’s hard to detect. Also like carbon monoxide, the easiest way to protect you and your household from radon is to buy a detector to measure the levels of radon in your home. Both short-term and longterm detection devices are available. For more information about where to get radon detection devices, what the radon levels are in your area of the country, and more, visit the Environmental Protection Agency web site’s Radon section. Scott Skrivanek is the Life Safety & Emergency Management Coordinator at Raritan Bay Medical Center, a member of the Hackensack Meridian Health family. Raritan Bay Medical Center – Old Bridge and Perth Amboy, is a recipient of the American Heart Association’s Mission: Lifeline® EMS Gold Award for implementing quality improvement measures for the treatment of patients who experience severe heart attacks. Heart attack patients, on average, receive potentially life-saving coronary intervention within 62 minutes at Raritan Bay, significantly shorter time than the national benchmark of 90 minutes.
By: Dragana Jokic, M.D. Even before conception, untreated thyroid conditions can hinder a woman’s ability to become pregnant or can lead to miscarriage. Fortunately, most thyroid problems that affect pregnancy are easily treated. The difficulty lies in recognizing a thyroid problem during a time when some of the chief complaints — fatigue, constipation, heat intolerance and excessive sweating – signs of hypothyroidism, all can be expected during normal pregnancy. January is Thyroid Awareness Month, an important opportunity to encourage women to take charge of their thyroid health, especially women in their child-bearing years. Understanding the ramifications of an undiagnosed or under-treated thyroid condition on a mother and her fetus, as well as proper testing, can make all the difference in a positive outcome for both mother and child. Hypothyroidism, an underactive thyroid, increases the risk of pregnancy complications such as miscarriage still birth, infertility, maternal anemia, preeclampsia, placental abruption, postpartum hemorrhage, premature
delivery, low birth weight, and deficits in intellectual development in infants. A woman with untreated hypothyroidism is at the greatest risk for a miscarriage during her first trimester. Although detecting a thyroid problem is important, it is equally necessary for those already diagnosed with a condition to have the thyroid checked if they are planning to become pregnant or are pregnant. Thyroid hormone is necessary for normal brain development. In early pregnancy, babies get thyroid hormone from their mothers. Later on, as the baby’s thyroid develops, it makes its own thyroid hormone. An adequate amount of iodine is needed to produce fetal and maternal thyroid hormone. The best way to ensure adequate amounts of iodine reach the unborn child is for the mother to take a prenatal vitamin with a sufficient amount of iodine. Not all prenatal vitamins contain iodine, so be sure to check labels properly. Most women who develop hypothyroidism during pregnancy have mild disease and may experience only mild symptoms or sometimes no symptoms. However, having a mild, undiagnosed condition before becoming pregnant may worsen a woman’s condition. A range of signs and symptoms may be experienced, but it is important to be aware that these can be easily written off as normal features of pregnancy.
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FEBRUARY 2017 RARITAN BAY MEDICAL CENTER FOUNDATION RECEIVES DONATION FROM THE MIDDLESEX COUNTY ASSOCIATION OF CHIEFS OF POLICE
PERTH AMBOY, NJ, January 10, 2017… Raritan Bay Medical Center Foundation received a $1,500 donation over the holidays from the Middlesex County Association of Chiefs of Police. Pictured, from left, at the check presentation held in the Raritan Bay Medical Center – Perth Amboy lobby is Chief John J. Zebrowski, (Sayreville PD); Captain Jack Fitzsimmons (Sayreville PD); Executive Director of the Raritan Bay Medical Center Foundation Linda Hill; Raritan Bay Medical Center President Michael R. D’Agnes, and Deputy Chief Larry Cattano (Perth Amboy PD). Raritan Bay is a member of the Hackensack Meridian Health network family. An estimated 20 million Americans have some form of thyroid disease although it is estimated that up to 60 percent of those with thyroid disease are unaware of their condition. Women are five to eight times more likely than men to have thyroid problems. Doctors recommend that all women at high risk for thyroid disease or women who are experiencing symptoms should be tested, if warranted. A woman is at a high risk if she has a history of thyroid disease or thyroid autoimmunity, a family history of thyroid disease, type 1 diabetes mellitus, or any other autoimmune condition. Anyone with these risk factors should be sure to tell their obstetrician or family physician. Dr. Dragana Jokic is part of the Joslin Diabetes Center, Affiliate at Raritan Bay Medical Center, a member of the Hackensack Meridian Health family. She is board certified in Diabetes, Endocrinology and Metabolism, and Internal Medicine. Raritan Bay provides the latest advances in diabetes treatment, patient education and support services and is recognized with the American Diabetes Association Education Recognition Certificate. Dr. Jokic is fluent in English and Serbo-Croatian. Offices are located in Suite 420, 2 Hospital Plaza, Old Bridge, NJ. For an appointment, call 732-360-4070.
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THE SENIOR SCENE Diane Amabile, Senior Center Mgr. Are you still sitting at home wondering what to do for the day? Please join us at the Senior Center if you are an Old Bridge senior age 60+ to register with us. Get out! Meet new people! Join in the fun! Our monthly schedule of events can be found on our website at www. oldbridge.com/seniorcenter. We have a variety of activities for everyone to enjoy. Mark your calendar for some great February programs and events beginning with our very popular ice cream social on February 3rd with live entertainment by “Happy Feet DJ”. Are you a bingo enthusiast? Then be sure to sign up for our Bingo lunch programs. Is dancing and exercising your thing? We have a wonderful Yoga class every Wednesday morning and a low impact Move 2 the Groove exercise program every Wednesday afternoon. Do you like to sing? If so, be sure to join us on Valentine’s Day, February 14th as we provide an afternoon of Senior
Karaoke. Don’t be shy. Come on over and belt out some of your favorite tunes. There will be over 2,000 songs for you to pick from. Even if you can’t sing, don’t worry about it. It’s all for fun anyway. It’s that time of the year again…. income tax time. The AARP Foundation Tax Aides will be at the senior center to help low-to-moderate income tax by assisting with income tax preparation services and ensuring they receive applicable tax credits and deductions. AARP Foundation Tax-Aide is available free with special attention to those residents 60 years of age and over, low to moderate income. Please call the senior center to schedule your income tax preparation appointment and to receive the appropriate information on what you will need to bring with you for your appointment. A photo ID is required for services. Please call Nancy Reich to schedule your appointment at 732-721-5600 ext. 6615. This is a just a small portion of the programs and activities we offer at the senior center. Please stop by or visit us on the web for more detailed information about programs, activities, events, and upcoming trips. I hope to see you soon.
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MEDICAID “SPEND-DOWN” – IS A FUNERAL PLAN IDEAL?
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COMPLIMENTS OF OUR LAW FIRM Written By: Jason Alguram, Esq.
Photo of Jason Alguram, Esq Nationwide, 50% of seniors depend on Medicaid to cover the cost of nursing home care. In order for a senior to be approved, an income test and asset test will be required. If the assets are above the allowable amount of $2,000, the
applicant must spend-down the excess assets. Many seniors are advised to purchase a pre-paid funeral as part of their spend-down plan. They are told that funeral plans are considered exempt assets for purposes of the Medicaid tests. Is this always correct? No, not always. Spend-Down Requirements Medicaid, as opposed to Medicare, is a joint Federal and State “needs based” program. Medicare does not cover much of long-term care and most medical and insurance policies do not cover long-term care. In order for a policy to cover this, it must be a long-term care insurance policy or a life insurance policy with a long-term care rider. The average monthly cost of a nursing home is over $9,000 in New Jersey and this number seems to be rising rather quickly. Since many of us who do not have long-term care coverage cannot afford to cover the nursing home care at this level, Medicaid is the alternative but will only apply if we meet the limits referred to above. In order to determine whether someone exceeds the asset test, an analysis of the
“countable resources” valued at more than $2,000. Or if a couple is applying for Medicaid, more than $3,000. These countable resources are often also referred to non-exempt assets. Where an applicant has non-exempt assets in excess of the limit, it is imperative to have the applicant “spend-down” or use those assets for allowable purposes prior to being approved. Sometimes this spending-down is as simple as paying monthly nursing home expenses until the limit is reached. Another thought is to pre-pay a funeral plan since generally funeral plans are considered exempt assets but as will be discussed below, that is not always the case. E x amp l e s of E x e mpt As s e t s Us u a l e x e mp t a s s e t s w h i c h are not counted in determining whether someone is eligible for Medicaid include, but are certainly not limited to, the following: • Equity in primary residence (up to $828,000 in New Jersey). • Household goods and furnishings • Personal effects • One auto
• Cash value life insurance with a $1,500 or less face value • Term life insurance • In certain circumstances, income-producing property • Burial plot(s), headstone and casket Funeral Plans It is often suggested that a good expenditure for purposes of spending-down non-exempt assets would be to purchase a funeral plan for the applicant. The funeral plan will of course be of use at some point. Care must be taken in purchasing these plans so that over-expenditures do not apply. People have suggested that any excess in the funeral plan purchased will be refunded to the decedent’s estate and otherwise available to the family. A funeral or burial plan must be irrevocable for it to be considered an exempt resource. That means that once purchased, there can be no refunds. New Jersey has a liberal view as to whether the plan will be considered exempt. Whereas in other states there may be a limit which may influence whether the cash value life insurance is exempt or
otherwise limit the value of the services and the goods that can be purchased. Some states not only exempt burial plots but will also allow for burial plots for the members of the applicant’s household and/or immediate family. Purchasing in excess of goods and services to be used may be foolish since the Medicaid Estate Recovery program may have a right to be reimbursed for those funds. In most cases, purchasing funeral and/or burial plans are a good choice in determining where assets that must be spent-down are invested. Nevertheless, it is important to discuss this planning with a qualified Elder Law attorney to be sure that this purchase is considered to result in the plan being an exempt asset. The information in this article is not intended to and does not offer legal advice, legal recommendations or legal representation on any matter. Hiring an attorney is an important decision, which should not be based on advertising. You need to consult an attorney in person for legal advice regarding your individual situation.
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By Lloyd Pulley Senior Pastor, Calvary Chapel Old Bridge “Many a man’s tongue broke his nose.” Oh, the truth in these words from the 16th centur y English poet Seamus MacManus! The human tongue is perhaps the single most significant muscle in the entire body. With it, wars have been
averted and waged, relationships lost and won, physical violence avoided and, in the MacManus’ observation, incited. Consider the impact of your own words. How many times have you deeply regretted something you have said, wishing you could have a do-over? How many times have your words been misunderstood, misconstrued or misapplied and the result has been colossal damage? How often has a nasty rumor, an angry tirade or a snide, unnecessary word destroyed relationships that took years to build? The old childhood chant of “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me,” is epically erroneous! In the Bible, the tongue is likened to the rudder of a massive ship directing tons of metal and to a tiny match igniting a whole forest fire. Last year alone, we witnessed the devastating effects of worldwide wildfires originating from one tiny flame! Controlling the tongue is like preventing an out of control fire. Now, we may have opened 2017 with the best of intentions to tame the bad habits of yesteryear. But, have we addressed what possibly can be done to tame that most powerful
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muscle between our nose and our chin? The entire solution can be boiled down, ironically, to simply, “Say less!” What would happen if you simply chose to say less, even when provoked? What would happen if you chose not to share that tasty morsel of gossip, or to unleash that criticism? One of the wisest men who ever lived put it this way, “When words are many, transgression is not lacking, but whoever restrains his lips is prudent… Whoever restrains his words has knowledge, and he who has a cool spirit is a man of understanding. Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise; when he closes his lips, he is deemed intelligent” (Proverbs 10:19, 17:27-28). Think about beginning this “say less” practice at home. What would happen if we walked away to cool off rather than respond to our spouses or our children in fury? I often say that real “religion” begins at home. We often fail in private long before we fail in public. What better place to exercise saying less than right in our own homes! From my own life, I know how incredibly difficult this is and I believe we truly need help to control our words.
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Self-control is a highly valued fruit among professing Christians. Saying less won’t come by mere will power because, ultimately, our speech is a matter of the heart. It was Jesus who said, “Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks.” So the only way to change our words is, ultimately, to have a change of heart, and heart change is a supernatural phenomenon. As a pastor for over 30 years, I have seen the best and worst of humanity. I have seen people run to Ground Zero within hours of 9/11 or to the Jersey shore after Superstorm Sandy to serve the needs of the hurting. And sadly, I have seen these same people rip each other apart with their words. The critical lesson I have learned, in it all, is that God has given us two ears and one mouth for a reason. We ought to listen twice as much as we speak. In fact, the Bible instructs us to be 1- swift to hear, 2 - slow to speak, and 3 - slow to anger, because human wrath never brings about the righteousness of God. Note that order – first, to be swift to hear. In the days following 9/11, I learned this lesson ever so well. Sitting in Union Square with people experi-
encing unspeakable shock and grief, I realized how incredibly important it is to simply listen to people. Just listen. Don’t interrupt and don’t be thinking about what you are going to say. Just listen. Second, be slow to speak. If you are not sure what to say, don’t say anything at all. If you are angry, just don’t talk. Don’t blow up. Walk away. Put it this way – how many times have you gotten in trouble for what you did not say? And lastly, be slow to anger. That may be the subject of my next column: our penchant for anger. But for now, in the context of saying less, remember, nothing good ever comes out of a furious tirade. Nothing. Fight the urge to take to social media to blow off steam, or blowing up someones phone with angry texts. Careers and relationships have been destroyed by us saying too much, especially online. My greatest counsel to us all – say less. American writer Will Durant put it this way, “Talk is cheap because the supply always exceeds the demand. One of the lessons of history is that nothing is often a good thing to do and always a clever thing to say.”
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NICHOLAS JEWELERS PROVIDING 40 YEARS OF LOCAL EXPERTISE Continued from page 1 everybody was selling. “ To d a y, g o l d i s about $1,200 an ounce – a moderately high price. We still will buy your gold – and give you a great deal – but it’s not t he f renzy that it used to be.” On staff helping Nick is store manager Melissa Perez, who is GIA (Gemological Institute of America) trained. A master jeweler is also on the premises. “About half of our business is repairs and special work,” says Nick. “And we’ll do
everything from replacing a watch batter y to diamond mounting.” As for the fine quality jewelry, Nick says he’s able to keep prices reasonable and competitive through “internet pricing. “Today everybody is an expert on the prices of things,” he notes. “Like buying a car or whatever, people can go on the internet and get prices for essentially anything. Now everybody is an expert on the prices of things. “I’m acutely aware of that – it’s my thing, my shtick. So I’m very competitive with my prices. That, combined with neighborhood service is why our little store is doing so well.” Customer feedback indic a t e s t h a t Ni c k i s o f f e r i n g a “gem” of a shopping experience. “My f am i ly and I have purc h a s e d m any pi e c e s an d h ave
home to the largest number of Filipino residents in the State. Her involvement in the association is extensive. She has been a trustee of the Hudson County Bar Association since 2011 and has been involved in multiple committees to enhance programing and diversity. She is also a member of the Hudson County Bar Foun-
dation’s Scholarship Committee and the New Jersey State Bar Association’s Diversity Committee. Vallejo earned her bachelor’s degree from Rutgers University in 1997 and her J.D. from Seton Hall School of Law in 2007. She lives in Old Bridge, New Jersey, with her husband, Antonio.
We knew that an event such as the one in Flint, Michigan could occur at any moment and we take proactive measures to ensure our drinking water here at home is both safe and sound. As a result, OBMUA’s drinking water quality has exceeded both State and Federal standards for safety throughout the past couple of years, while also upgrading and expanding our system to ensure a more than adequate water supply, even in times of low water supply throughout the region and neighboring communities. We believe infrastructure to be the most important aspect of providing safe drinking water to communities. At the OBMUA, we have adopted a five-year capital improvement plan and a 20-year capital improvement plan, which should ensure that all critical needs for our water system are addressed proactively, rather than reactively to emergencies. One project in our capital improvement plan that has recently been completed is the upgrading of our 10-million-gallon water storage tank on Perrine Road, thus continually addressing our safety and infrastructure needs. The OBMUA has also upgraded
our drinking water treatment plants at Pine Street and Throckmorton Lane within the past five years. That work included replacing aeration treatment process units, new booster pumps, new water quality analyzers, clarifier upgrades, chemical feed upgrades and new emergency back-up power generators. Recently, the OBMUA has also updated its computerized water distribution and sewage collection control systems. They have been updated to each operate by means of a new, state of the art, computerized control system allowing us to supervise and control the entire water and sewerage systems from centralize control centers. We are committed to ensuring the safety of drinking water and sewage collection for all Old Bridge residents for years to come. Please visit our web site at www.obmua.com for further information concerning the OBMUA, or to contact us with any of your questions. Also, “like” us on our Facebook page at Old Bridge Municipal Utilities Authority. 732-679-8565. Arthur M. Haney Chairman, Old Bridge MUA
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“I am grateful for this opportunity and look forward to working with the trustees and Executive Committee in continuing the Association’s goals. I am proud to be the first Filipino-American officer of the Hudson County Bar Association.” According to the 2010 C e nsu s , Hu d s on C ou nt y i s
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Over the past year, the drinking water crisis in Flint, Michigan has elevated our nation’s awareness surrounding the importance of infrastructure and access to safe drinking water. Though lead contamination has not been an issue here at Old Bridge Municipal Utilities Authority (OBMUA); parents, childrent and elected officials are right to exercise great caution when it comes to their health and well-being. Here at OBMUA, we take no greater pride than providing comfort to our residents with the quality assurance of safe and affordable drinking water at all times.
always been very pleased. The staff is friendly and always very helpful,” wrote one customer on Facebook. Said another: “I’m loving my newly upgraded engagement ring! I’ve known Nick for over 10 years and there is no one else I’d trust with my jewelry.” When asked what the best part of his job is, Nick doesn’t hesitate in responding: “Without sounding weird, I get into the fact that for everyone jewelry is a real personal thing. I like being confident that when a person walks into our shop they won’t walk out disappointed in any way. “The goal is that every single person leave happy – no matter what they came in for, a battery or an engagement ring.” Another service Nick provides is the appraisal of estate pieces. A service that is very dear to him. “If s om e on e c om e s i n af t e r
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someone passes away and they’re not sure the value of what they have, we will carefully appraise their old jewelry, coins or diamonds. I do it exactly the way I would want it done if I was in that situation,” he says. “That’s the difference between us and a typical gold-buying place or the bigger stores that are all ver y gimmicky.,” Nick adds. “ We’r e a t h r o w b a c k t o a n actual jeweler who is selling and bu y i n g re a l a n d f i n e j e w e l r y. “I feel good about what I’m doing.” (Nicholas Jewelers is located at 2705 Route 516. Phone: 732-679-0102. Go to www.nicholasjewelersnj.com
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IN MEMORIAM
EDITH CHEVALIER August 13, 1944January 16, 2017 Edith Chevalier, wife of Rob-Bob Chevalier passed from her body to spirit peacefully in Old Bridge, NJ after 48 years of a deeply loving marriage to Robert Chevalier. The love between Bob and Edith made us believers in love stories ever after. Edith, while living in Perth Amboy was active in the community. With her good heart and an open door, she welcoming all those who pass through them. Edith was always ready with words of the heart offered with tea and homemade bread. She was a member of the Planned Parenthood Board, was a member of WATER which worked for the preservation of the Water Front and Ferry Slip, was an active member of the #1 School and Perth Amboy High School OTA and PA Alternative high school. Edith was an ardent quilter and had shows in various libraries and museums throughout New Jersey,
New York and Pennsylvania, as well as making over 150 quilts she gifted to her many friends throughout the world. Written for Edith Chevalier(The Weaver ) by Karen Breuel. Everyone thinks she is a quilt maker. But I know she is a wonderful weaver. She is a weaver of lives http://www.valweb. org/edith/edith2.htm Edith transformed the heart of those she touched with great warmth and energy. She will be remembered for her positive outlook on life, love and generosity to any she knew or met who needed a helping hand. Edith is survived by her husband Robert Chevalier, her son Phill Chevalier and his wife Angelia Chevalier and her daughter Leah Chevalier and four grandchildren, Devon Golez, Zenobia Chevalier, Miles Chevalier and Oliva Chevalier and her sister Autricia Enill of New York
LEWIS E. BRUNO L e w i s E . B r u n o, 8 6 , of O l d Bridge, NJ, passed away on Tuesday January 10, 2017 at his home surrounde d by h is lov ing f am i ly. Born and raised in Union City, NJ, Lewis moved to North Bergen, NJ before settling in Old Bridge, NJ in 1961. Lewis served his country proudly in the US Navy as a Radioman. After his military service he worked at Ford Motor Company for 33 years. Lewis enjoyed watching sports he was a fan of the NY Yankees, the NY Giants, and the NY Rangers. Lewis was always an athlete he was an All-star basketball and baseball player for Holy Family High School in Union City NJ. He stayed very active he played softball in an adult league in Florida for many years playing into his 70’s. Most important to him was spending time with his family especially his grandchildren and great grandchildren. He will be missed by all who knew and loved him. He w a s p r e d e c e a s e d by h i s
parents Louis and Evelyn Bruno, as well as a granddaughter Rebecca. Surviving is his loving wife of 62 years Catherine, a son Lewis and wife Elizabeth Bruno, two daughters Katherine and husband James DiFabio, and Kelly and wife Beth Donnelly Bruno, a sister Evelyn and her husband Ralph Rocco, 5 grandchildren Mary Kate and husband Chris Molla, Kelly and husband Dan Umlauf, Lewis Bruno Jr, Brian Bruno, and Gabriella DiFabio as well as 4 great grandchildren Riley Molla, Brent Molla, Daniel Umlauf, and Cameron Umlauf. Relatives and friends were invited to visit the Old Bridge Funeral Home 2350 Route 516, Old Bridge, NJ on Thursday January 12, 2017 from 4-8pm. A funeral mass was held on Friday January 13, 2017 at St, Ambrose Church, Old Bridge, NJ followed by entombment in Holmdel Cemetery, Holmdel, NJ. In lieu of flowers donation can be made in Lewis’ name to St. Jude’s Children’s Hospital at www.stjude.org/donate
JERRY WASSERMAN Jerry Wasserman, 67 of Boca Raton Florida passed away at home on January 14th, 2017. He was a life long resident of Brooklyn before recently moving to Boca Raton. Jerry was an avid sports fan. He worked as a Region Dispatch Manager for Star Cruiser Medical Transport Service before retiring. Jerry is predeceased by his parents Abr a h am an d ro s e G ol d s t e i n .
He is survived by his sisters Francine Brill, Estie Miller, his nieces and nephew, Alexis, Jason, Amanda, Dayna, and his two great nieces and nephew, Rylie, Mason, and Harper. Graveside services were held on Thursday, January 19th at New Montifiore Cemetery, Long Island, NY. Memorial Contributions may be made in Jerry’s name to the American Heart Association.
CHARLES G. SESSO Charles G. Sesso, 67 of Old Bridge passed away suddenly on January 22, 2017. Born in Brooklyn to the late Pasquale and Adeline Sesso, he resided there until moving got Old Bridge in 1967. Charles enlisted in the US Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War. During his life, he held many occupations including working on Wall Street and most recently for JC Penny. He was an avid sports fan as well as enjoyed researching his Native American heritage. He is survived by his brothers James Allen Sesso and John Barry Sesso of Old Bridge, his sister Roberta Sesso, God-daughter, Amy Dody and dear friend James Dody of Easton , PA.
Visitation were be held on Sunday, January 29 from 4-8 P.M. at Old Bridge Funeral Home, 2350 Route 516, Old Bridge. A funeral service was in the funeral home on Monday at 10:30, interment to follow in Brig William C. Doyle Veteran’s Cemetery.
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5 ft. big stuffed Clifford!) that all the little ones can hug and p e t . M s . Mar i ly n is f r i e nd ly,
Continued from page 1 find this 30 minutes very special. Ms. Marilyn tries to engage all the children by not just reading three or four exciting, rele vant b o oks to thes e 2 and 3 y e a r o l d s s u c h a s “ T h a t ’s Mine” but by var ying activities with songs, rhyme, dance, easel work, music, pupp et r y and … . a l l ( i n c lu d i n g t h e a du lt s i n t h e r o o m ) c a n’ t w a i t f o r bubbles! Ms. Marilyn doesn’t’ just stand by and watch but actively participates with these youngsters. Most of the time we have a visit f rom C lif ford, t he Big Re d D og (t r y a 5 f t x
tries to encourage all to participate and she also doesn’t hesitate to kindly remind these to ddlers to exercis e p olite and appropriate behaviors… My granddaughter Reagan is now in preschool and I am fortunate enough to enjoy Ms. M a r i l y n’s S t o r y T i m e o n c e again with my now 2 year old grandson Lucas and… I just can’t wait ! Thank you Ms. Marilyn Barbara Puglia Toms River, N.J. Retired Educator Mother, and now very happily Grandmother who attends Toddler Storytime in Old Bridge N.J Public Library with my two grandchildren
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Valentine’s Day is February 14th...a day when people shower those they love with flowers, chocolates, and gifts. But what about a gift that is invaluable? Life Insurance is certainly not as shiny as a diamond bracelet, but may be much more valuable for you and your loved ones. Many people ask how life insurance can be considered a gift. It’s neither an exciting topic, nor a flashy purchase sealed with a glittery bow, but it is extremely significant. Human nature makes us all somewhat hesitant to discuss life insurance, because it is paralleled to a discussion about death. It forces us to deal with the consideration that someone we love may eventually pass. Although we cannot control that aspect of life, we ARE able to plan and manage the possible financial repercussions of losing a loved one, especially one who is a main source of income in a family. To that effect, there are various life insurance product lines offered to best secure your family and loved ones for the future. Term Life Insurance is the most basic and straight-forward form of life insurance. It is considered a “pure”
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product because it does not accrue/ build/develop any sort of cash value. It can be an affordable way to give your family peace of mind that, if something should happen to you, the money will be there to help that day, as well as in the future. Term policies can be tailored to provide a specific benefit, for a specified period of time. Universal Life Insurance addresses a wide variety of financial needs. First and foremost, it provides death benefit protection. Additionally, it provides flexibility regarding the payment of premiums, ways to accumulate cash, and death benefit flexibility. Wouldn’t it be nice to be able to adjust the amount you are paying, based on your current life situation? Of course, there are always minimum and maximum payment guidelines within which the policies must function. In a universal life contract there are those options to adjust the amount within the proposed guidelines. Optional Guarantees are also available as aspects of most Universal Life policies. These provide guaranteed premiums that do not increase with age, guaranteed death benefit that will remain steady as the years mount, and
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satisfy a college tuition, a 0% interest self-held car loan, or your mortgage. I understand what you are probably thinking right now - this is WAY too much information to handle. I agree. This is why there are local licensed professionals who are equipped to explain everything to you, tailor policies to best fit YOUR needs, and assist you in making these important decisions. Together, you and your agent will develop a financial plan for you and your loved ones. A Life Insurance policy may not be as sweet as chocolate covered strawberries, and it certainly doesn’t sparkle on your neck, but it will definitely provide you with much more value - peace of mind for years to come.
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NEW OWNERSHIP, NEW YOU! Let’s welcome Alberto Siaba and Roberto Fajardo, the new owners of Club Metro, 2685 Route 516, Old Bridge. They are here to bring your fitness goals to a new level in 2017! Not only are they excited to introduce you to an amazing state of the art facility, but their priority is to offer you exceptional customer service in a clean environment that motivates! With over 60 pieces of cardio equip-
ment including treadmills, ellipticals, steppers, bikes and stair masters, there is something for everyone. Club Metro has more than 30 fitness classes weekly with plenty of options to work into your lifestyle and to accommodate your personal goals. St o p i n t o d ay, m e nt i o n A l l Around Old Bridge Newspaper and receive 50% off enrollment!
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FAMILIES AGAINST ADDICTION
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I saw a need to help families who were struggling silently in their homes as they witnessed how drug addiction destroyed their families. As a social worker, I felt the need to address the social problem which plagued every community across the country. I was not immune, no different from the next mom as my son had a substance abuse disorder and struggled years before getting the appropriate help needed. Reaching a life of recovery for my son as well as the whole family, at the time felt, almost impossible to foresee. Our family struggled years revolving around the addiction cycle. Each family member reacted differently and eventually the family dynamic broke down. I took the lead in the family and decided to practice what I preached. Since, I had a BSW from Georgian Court University, and a MSW from Monmouth University along with a certification in Social work, I took a step back and viewed my own personal family crisis in a more objective way. I was self-determined to help my own family and others at this point in time. In addition, a degree in business administration was a plus. Therefore, out of a personal crisis Families Against Addiction Inc. came to fruition. No one should have to suffer in silence. Now, I facilitate a support group in Old Bridge NJ for any family member who has been effected by a loved one that has succumbed to drug addiction. I promote social responsibility and self-determination.
I set a nonjudgmental atmosphere for anyone in need to elaborate on their personal family problem. I offer an alternative to the traditional 12 step programs. I engage with family members with a solution focused approach. I advocate for families by attending township meetings. Through my networking I offer referral services and follow up with each family on a weekly basis. I practice the social work core values, and ethical practices. I educate families about addiction and drugs. I help empower families to make changes by offering multiple options leading to healthier decision. Mostly, help families live a more balanced healthier life. Opiates and heroin use has increased in our nation and spreading like a plague in local towns everywhere. It is evident we are losing the war on drugs as families are destroyed by this drug crisis. Sadly, New Jersey residents are not immune by this crippling disease and families across the state are struggling in shame Families Against Addiction ® INC. is a nonprofit organization created to remove the stigma of addiction. The group focuses on families that are effected by their loved ones, who have a substance abuse disorder plus any co-occurring mental health disorders. Families Against Addiction ® Inc. gives you an alternative choice from the traditional 12 step programs. Families Against Addiction ® Inc. specifically focuses on each family member, helps identify their issues, solution focused to develop new coping skills to reach a healthy balance in life. Families Against Addiction ® Inc. is knowledge driven. Motto: EDUCATE CHANGE LIVE. • EDUCATE: Understanding how addiction and mental health has impacted the family unit. Knowing the cycle of addiction and how the disease concept relates to the current drug crises. Aware of drug addiction and mental health advocacies. Informed healthy decisions based on realistic findings. • CHANGE: Implementing new communication skills. Acknowledging emotions and feelings at the height of a crisis and throughout the analytical process. Developing new thought patterns to alter negative attitudes by instilling hope and change. Maintaining healthy habits by examining ob-
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jective realities. Focusing on the facts remove negative behavior. • LIVE: Families begin to realize that their self-worth is important and start to have a healthier relationship within the family unit. Being able to empower oneself leads to creating an identity valuable to the reunification of one’s family unit. Implementing various skills learned in support group is an ongoing life lesson. Support group services: set in a nonjudgmental setting, which allows family members to tell their stories, while facilitator pay attention to the way members perceive their family dynamic. An analysis on how the pattern flows between environment and family is taken into account. Autonomy is the right to make critical decisions about one’s own destiny which is encouraged. Referrals resources related to individual circumstance is given when appropriately needed. Group meets every Tuesday night at 7pm -8:45pm in the Old Bridge library. Contact: Maureen McLoughlin MSW CSW Families Against Addiction ® Inc. Founder/Executive Director FamiliesAgainstAddictionCNJ@gmail.com FamiliesAgainstAddiction.org 732-991-1022 TESTIMONIAL FROM FAMILIES AGAINST ADDICTION
Today I have been in recovery for 949 days, I have done this through vigorous action on my myself and with others like me. I live a life today I never could’ve imagine for myself, posses a hope for the future I never thought possible and have a purpose I didn’t think I deserved. This life I live today would not be complete without the love and acceptance of my family. These people who I dragged to hell with me and held hostage throughout my active addiction, found a way to grow through this experience with me-and the Families Against Addiction group is a huge part of how they did that. The same way I work my recovery program and use my experience to help other addicts like me, my family has been able to do the same through this group. It has been my experience that using that tragic experience my addiction provided me with to help others has been the cornerstone of how I’ve grown
in my recovery, my family came to this conclusion through their experience in Families Against Addictions-and that has given us a foundation to build on. On a personal note, knowing this group exists to support families affected by active addiction and that people are taking action to raise awareness warms my heart and gives me hope. The disease of addiction thrives in silence and isolation, this group is working to change that; and that alone will make such a difference. I’m grateful for the existence for this group, and I hope any person who’s affected by the active addiction of a loved one reaches out to find some support and hope in this group! Thank you ToniMarie Mendez
CHARITABLE PAINT NIGHT Sponsored by: Families Against Addiction 732-9911022 Food – Soft Drinks Dessert -Coffee DATE: February 20, 2017 TIME: 6:00 PM - 9:00 PM LOCATION: St. Thomas Church 333 State Route 18 Old Bridge, NJ 08857 Register at EventBrite.com www.eventbrite.com/e/families-against-addiction-charitable-paint-night-2017-tickets-30373928237?aff=es2 $50.00 Artist/Instructor: Kelli Stockley
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OLD BRIDGE HIGH SCHOOL 5TH ANNUAL TRICKY TRAY
Old Bridge High School’s 5th Annual Tricky Tray- A Knight at the Jersey Shore will be held on Friday, April 21st. Tickets will be going on sale Thursday, February 9th at the Old Bridge High School Main Lobby from 5- 8pm. You must be 18 years or older to purchase a ticket. Ticket packages are as follow: “Daily” Beach Badge $50 ($70 value) includes: - 5 Level 1 Sheets ($25 value) - 3 Level 2 Sheets ($30 value) - Admission ($15) For those of you that do not want to wait on line to purchase
tickets for the other levels we will be offering a time saver package, “ S e a s o n” B e a c h B a d g e $100 which includes: The $50 package plus: -1 Level 3 Sheet- $20 -1 Alcohol Level sheet- $10 -1 Grand Prize Ticket- $10 -1 Semi-Grand Prize Ticket $5 -1 Ticket for “A chance at Every Prize”- $5 Start getting your tables of 10 together now. Tickets sell out quickly. If you have any questions please email obhstrickytray@gmail.com
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OLD BRIDGE HIGH SCHOOL MARCHING KNIGHTS
I represent Traveling Knights of Old Bridge, a 503(c)3 registered charity working to support the Old Bridge High School Marching Knights. We are hosting our 3rd annual Wine and Dine event, on Saturday February 4th 2017, from 7p-11p in the St Lawrence Parish Center, 109 Laurence Parkway, Laurence Harbor NJ, and would love the event to be featured on your newsletter for January 2017. The evening allows guests to sample wines and spirits from a variety of local vendors, enjoy a buffet style dinner, participate in a basket auction and other games of chance. It is sure to be a fun evening for all. All profits from the event are used to support the Marching Knights. The link to the webpage for the event is http://www.tkob.org/wine---dine.html
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Photo of Doug Collier On February 12th at 9:30 am, the nor’s Council on Alcoholism and Drug Social Action Committee of Temple Abuse (GCADA). He brings his 30 years Shalom will sponsor a free breakfast of experience to the program and will program open to the community to share his knowledge and experience on address the current opiate drug and the risk factors of opioids and heroin heroin epidemic. Temple Shalom is and how it affects the individual. He located at 5 Ayrmont Lane in Aberdeen. will discuss “the red flags” to look out This is a program to educate parents, for and what to do about them. We teachers, students and other concerned will learn where to go for resources. The program will also include a community members about the practical risk factors involved with opioid and panel discussion and a Q and A period. With the recent epidemic of heroin abuse. The program will cover understanding addictive behaviors, the opioid and heroin in the area, this is stigma involved and where to go for help. an important information opportuDoug Collier, a retired DEA agent nity that everyone; parent, teacher who works with the New Jersey At- or friend needs to know in order to torney General’s Office to educate the help those who are abusing or addictpublic on this topic, will be the featured ed to drugs. For more information, speaker. He has served on the Gover- contact Lenore Robinson at paullenrob@verizon.net or 732-264-2458.
Freezing cold weather finally arrived in our area, how to keep you and your furry family safe in natural disasters and everyday emergency is very important, the best way to ensure the safety of your family and pets is to be prepared with an emergency plan for you and your pets. Being prepared can help save lives. 1. Start planning now ID your pet – make sure that cats and dogs are wearing collars and identification tags that are up to date. You’ll increase your chances of being reunited with pets who get lost by having them micro-chipped; Please make sure you do register in your name or add emergency contact with all information are up to date. Just remember the average people who finds your pet won’t be able to scan for a chip when they first found them, but they will be able to read a basic tag. Make sure you put your cell phone number on your pet’s tag. It may also be a good idea to include the phone number of a friend or relative outside your area- in case you have had to evacuate. Put together your emergency kit. (including your pet med record/ medicine/special food). Check list My basic emergency kit includes: • Food and water for at least five days for each pet, bowls and a manual can opener if you are packing canned
pet food.People need at least one gallon of water per person per day. While your pet may not need that much, keep an extra gallon on hand to use if your pet has been exposed to chemicals or flood waters and needs to be rinsed. • Me d i c ati on s an d m e d i c a l records stored in a waterproof container and a first-aid kit. A pet first-aid book is also a good idea. • Cat litter box, litter, litter scoop and garbage bags to collect all your pets’ waste. • Sturdy leashes, harnesses and carriers to transport pets safely and to ensure that your pets can’t escape. Make sure that your cat or dog is wearing a collar and identification that is up to date and visible at all times. Carriers should be large enough to allow your pet to stand comfortably, turn around and lie down. (Your pet may have to stay in the carrier for hours at a time.) Be sure to have a secure cage with no loose objects inside it to accommodate smaller pets—who
may also need blankets or towels for bedding and warmth as well as special items, depending on their species. • Current photos of you with your pets and descriptions of your pets to help others identify them in case you and your pets become separated—and to prove that they are yours once you’re reunited. • Written information about your pets’ feeding schedules, medical conditions and behavior issues along with the name and number of your veterinarian in case you have to board your pets or place them in foster care. Other useful items include: • Newspapers • Blanket • Paper towels • Plastic trash bags • Grooming items • Household bleach by OB Animal Shelter
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