DE-STRESS FOR SUCCESS MATTIE BRADFORD | Western Region Vice President
What’s the most stressful thing you’ve ever done?
2. TALK IT OUT AND VENT
For me, it was campaigning to become DECA’s Western Region Vice President. To tell you why, I have to take you back. Around this time last year, I knew that I wanted to run for the position. It had been the journey of a lifetime to serve as an association officer, and serving as WRVP would allow me to continue to make an impact on our members. But the idea of actually doing it was terrifying!
It has never been easier to call your best friend on FaceTime or Zoom to talk things through or walk into the living room to rant to your mom, even if she may not completely understand what is bothering you. It’s often helpful to release your bottled-up emotions and potentially even gain new insights on ways to cope with them.
I had to go through the gauntlet of Arizona DECA’s interview process and prepare all aspects of my campaign. Soon after, COVID-19 arrived and threw all my plans in disarray.
3. CREATE A WORK ENVIRONMENT THAT BRINGS JOY
The key I have learned is that stress is not something you should try to eliminate, but rather manage. Life will always throw challenges your way, but the biggest challenges present opportunities for the greatest rewards. If you learn to manage it, stress will become less of a burden on your everyday life. So, what’s the best way to manage stress? While there is no one-size-fits-all answer, here are some of the ways that work best for me.
1. PRIORITIZE YOUR WELL-BEING ABOVE ALL ELSE Although this may seem obvious to many people, for others, including myself, it is not. It is common for leaders to sacrifice taking care of themselves properly in an attempt to be more productive. However, it’s important to recognize that getting a proper amount of sleep, eating healthy and taking time to disconnect will help you feel and do better. This looks different for everyone. For me, it looks like taking regular breaks between work and giving myself grace for not being productive 100% of the time. (Bonus tip: An energy drink does not count as breakfast.)
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It’s difficult for me to start an assignment without thoroughly cleaning my room, organizing my workstation, turning on music and lighting a candle. I’m convinced there is some science behind it. Those simple things put me in a better mood and give me the much-needed motivation to be most productive. Experiment in your room or work area until you find your ideal space. These are just a few simple things that I have found success with, but is by no means an all-inclusive list of every way to reduce stress and achieve relaxation. You must discover what works best for you and set yourself up for success by consistently utilizing the same techniques. Know that the most important things you do in life will cause you stress. That’s a sign that you care about what you are doing. Stress and anxiety are unavoidable, but finding ways to limit their negative impacts can make a huge difference in your life. I know I will continue to battle stress for the rest of my term, but it is worth it because I get to do what I genuinely love—serving the members of DECA. If the reward outweighs the stress, the awesome moments of the journey will be the parts you remember, not the stressful nights you spent worrying. So, continue chasing your dreams, keep pursuing your passions and knockdown stress whenever it decides to pop up.
