INSIDE THIS ISSUE
RABBI MELMAN’S MINUTES
balance, when we stray from the midpoint.This time of year, just past the halfway mark of our calendar, just past the midway point of the Torah, is the perfect time for each of us to reflect on what has been.
not too many of us are thinking about Rosh Hashanah andYom Kippur. Recently I spoke about the fact that as we enter the month of Nisan, the month in which we celebrate Pesach, we are halfway through the Jewish calendar year. While we might wait until Elul, the month prior to the High Holidays to begin to look inward and examine ourselves, we really ought to be doing this sooner.
The midpoint of our year is a perfect place to take a timeout and do some soul searching. What have we accomplished since Rosh Hashanah? Where have we made missteps? What do we want to continue doing? And where do we need to correct our wrongs? These are critical questions to ask now, and not wait until we have almost the entire year behind us. It is so much easier to course correct now, instead of waiting until the entire year is behind us.
Maimonides believed that living a life with balance and not being too far to any extreme of our character traits was the proper way to live. He wrote about trying to do our best to live at the midpoint.This is sage advice from one of the greatest Jews of all time.There are plenty of times when our lives get out of
For some, it has been a year filled with joy. For others, it has been a year filled with sadness, and for others, everything in between. There are so many ways to take moments out of our busy lives and reflect on the last several months. Whether it is through meditation, yoga, quiet music, a walk outdoors, or just closing our eyes and slowing our breathing and to just think. Admittedly, we don’t always want to think about the past, confront our mistakes or relive painful moments. But if we are to grow and learn in order to move forward, it is incumbent upon us all to take moments out of our lives and reflect.
Our community is strongest when we help each other through change or just assist by giving support. I and the rest of the clergy are here to help if you need it. Sometimes, talking with a neutral party is helpful when we want to adjust something in our lives or just need someone to listen. As we move from Pesach to Shavuot, from Exodus to the Revelation at Mt. Sinai, I hope we will all embrace the concept of change and bask in the light that radiated from Moses’ face as he came down the mountain.
MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81
It has been a month since Pesach and we are all looking forward to the summer but, I would guess that
Shavuot/Schedule of Services.................2 President’s Message 3 Cantor’s Notes 4 Rabbi Chapman’s Installation 5 Religious School/Youth............................6 B’nai Mitzvah/Youth..................................7 CBS U/Adult Education/ Programming/HAZAK...........................8 Families With Young Children...............9 Sisterhood 10-11 Men’s Club 12-13 CBS Annual Meeting/Slate 2023-24 14 See What’s Happening @ CBS........... 15 CBS Happenings................................ 16-19 Social Action............................................ 20 Birthdays & Anniversaries 21 Donations 22-23 Milestones 24 Yahrzeits................................................... 25 Ads ....................................................... 26-27 Candle Lighting & Service Times........ 28 Head Rabbi............................................Aaron Melman Senior Cantor Steven
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Executive Director ..............................Michael
Director of Jewish Life and Learning................................................. Leann Blue Director of Communications Deanne Friedman Controller ............................................Susan Karlinsky Director of Youth, Family & Young Adult Engagement.....................................Michael Schneider Director of Education Stacy Ybarra President.....................................................Bob Spector Sisterhood President Jackie Zelkowitz Men’s Club Co-Presidents Dr. Andrew Wagner & Steven Lessman USY President Dylan Adler Shalom Designer/Editor Deanne Friedman SHALOM INFO Shalom is published monthly by Congregation Beth Shalom, 3433 Walters, Northbrook, Illinois 60062-3217 for the exclusive use of its members and staff. All material contained herein is the property of Congregation Beth Shalom. IYAR/SIVAN 5783 | MAY 2023 | VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81
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,” the festival of the first fruits, which our ancestors observed hopes that Shavuot, the end of the Omer counting, would yield a bountiful crop. Coincidently, the Omer
In addition to being an agricultural festival, Shavuot is also a celebration of the Jewish Peoples’ receiving the
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SHAVUOT
FROM THE CONGREGATION PRESIDENT
Bob Spector
Shalom Chaverim,
As our April showers have turned to May flowers, I hope you are enjoying our springtime weather and planning opportunities to spend quality time with your family and friends. This is usually the time in our CBS Presidents’ term that they begin to reflect upon their two years in their privileged role as your President and prepare to pass the baton to their successor. If you read the April bulletin or noticed the posting of the 2023-24 Board of Trustees slate on the office window, you are aware that the recommendation of the Board is for me to remain as your President for a third (and final) year. Our Congregation must approve the slate (and our budget) at our CBS Annual Meeting which is scheduled for Monday, May 15th. Please join us to learn about how your dues and generous donations are being utilized in making CBS such a vibrant community and to learn about how your lay leaders and staff tirelessly work on your behalf.
Many of our congregants have asked - Bob, ‘What were you thinking, agreeing to continue as President for a third year?’ as if I must have had a momentary lapse of rational thought. This question was then sometimes followed by ‘Is everything okay with the Board of Trustees?’ I would first reassure my questioners that my thinking processes are quite intact and that in fact we have one of the most enthusiastic, hard working and committed group of lay leaders in recent memory on the Board today, and that we have a strong succession plan in place. My goal, as I believe the goal has been for all my predecessors, is to be able finish what I started so my successor has the best opportunity to establish their own leadership style and to create initiatives that further our growth and development as a community. We have several projects going on right now including the completion of a Strategic Plan that will be our road map to continued growth and success as a community, and the review and change of our Governance model and by-laws that will enhance our effectiveness as a leadership group to implement our Strategic Plan.
I am thrilled to have the privilege to continue in my current role (pending your approval) and to be part of something so special for one more year. I look forward to greeting you on Shabbat mornings and sharing the bimah with such an amazing clergy team for another year. Our Board of Trustees along with our dedicated staff will continue to create more opportunities for us to learn, pray, and play together as a community, BUT we cannot do it without your assistance. More about that next month.
L'Shalom, Bob
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 3
CANTOR’S NOTES
LIFE GOES ON by Sue C.
Wallingford
(edited by SS for this publication’s purposes)
I can’t remember the first time we met… But I do know that from the beginning we formed a lifetime bond. Maybe many lifetime bonds. You were comfortable, familiar as if I had known you forever.
It was so easy to just be with you. I think everyone felt that way around you. Actually when I think about it, I think you were around much longer, and before we even met, maybe even before I was born.
When I look at old pictures of my family I see you there too, in the faces and in the places. What a loyal friend you have been to all of us, showing up at every occasion...even when no one else was there. Never intrusive really, sometimes not even noticeable, sometimes you were the life of the party. When I met you, I knew you would never leave me, and you always made me feel better no matter what.
I’m not sure when all that changed; you exited as subtly and quietly as you entered. But in your wake you left your mark of … heartache. But life goes on you see, new generations are on the horizon, and we’ll be ok
As a middle aged man I have only now come to the realization that I have an addiction. Not to dismiss the anguish which other addictions cause, but I must confess that mine was to my mother. Spending time with her multiple days a week, over these past 7 ½ years, had become habitual.
I compare Grieff and Addiction based on an article I found entitled, On Mourning and Recovery: Integrating Stages of Grief and Change Toward a Neuroscience-based Model of Attachment Adaptation in Addiction Treatment.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6383361/ (author’s names embedded in the link)
They offer, (in much greater depth), “attention to the process of addiction recovery as a form of grieving in which Kubler-Ross’s Stages of Grief and Prochaska’s Stages of Change are ultimately describing complimentary viewpoints on a general process of neural network and attachment remodeling, could lead to more effective and integrative psychotherapy and medication strategies.….The parallels between love vs. becoming addicted are remarkable. The early stages of both are marked by arousal, euphoria, and increasing preoccupations with the love object (person/drug) including a growing desire to be around, and, in some way or another, to consume, be consumed by, or merge with the ‘person/ drug’. In more progressed stages, separation and withdrawal from the ‘person/drug’ correlates with a sense of loss, dysphoria, changes in sleep and appetite, and yearning, all congealing to vigorous efforts to re-establish access to the ‘person/drug’….Recognizing these parallels brings us to taking a closer look at the extent to which addiction is not just a disease of the motivational system, but a disease of the social attachment system of the brain.”
As I have completed my first two months of mourning, I know that anyone who experiences the death of a friend or family member go through similar stages, but each grieves in a unique way from anyone else. I wish each of you as much comfort from your community as with which I have been blessed.
With Mother’s Day this month I offer the final paragraph of a lovely poem/parable. (Sadly has been ascribed to multiple authors and thus I apologize that I cannot offer proper attribution to the author).
Your Mother is always with you. She's the whisper of the leaves as you walk down the street, she's the smell of bleach in your freshly laundered socks, and she’s the cool hand on your brow when you're not well.
Your Mother lives inside your laughter and she's crystallized in every teardrop. She's the place you came from, your first home; and she's the map you follow with every step you take. She's your first love and your first heartbreak, and nothing on earth can separate you… Not time...not space...not even death.
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 5
CHAPMAN’S INSTALLATION
RABBI
RELIGIOUS SCHOOL/YOUTH
Dear CBS Families,
Thank you for another good school year. We are so impressed with the strides the students have made in Hebrew and t’filah! Please join us for our last month of the 2022-23 school year. Our final class will be Sunday, May 7th. Any awards will be distributed with the students during class. We look forward to working with you again next year – we will have a “Meet the Teacher” Day on Sunday, August 27th!
B’Shalom, Stacy Ybarra, Director of Education
Kindergarten, 1st and 2nd Grades Shabbat B’Yachad
Please join us as our kindergarten, 1st grade and 2nd grade students lead a very special Friday night service at 6:00 pm on Friday, May 5th followed by a Shabbat Dinner planned by the students. RSVP on the CBS website.
Registration
Religious School Registration for next school year has begun. Registration is online only. Go to www.bethshalomnb.org and click on ”MyCBS” and log in to your account.
Times for next school year!
Kindergarten – 2nd Grade Sundays - 9:30 a.m. to 12 p.m.
3rd, 4th and 5th Grades* Sundays - 9:30 a.m. to 12:00 p.m. AND Tuesdays - 4 to 6 p.m.
6th & 7th Grades Saturdays - 10 a.m. to 12:30 p.m. AND Tuesdays - 6:15 to 8:15 p.m.
*Options for individual lessons in place of group classes. See registration flyer when you login for more information.
FREE tuition for student’s first year in Religious School for kindergarten, 1st and 2nd grades.
Teachers Wanted
We are looking for teachers in our Religious School. If interested please contact Stacy Ybarra at sybarra@bethshalomnb.org for more information.
Hiring teens!
The Religious School is looking to hire youth entering 8th through 12th grades in the fall to work in the school as madrichol. All madrichol will be required to be enrolled in Jewish day school or in our CBS High Program. Apply online at www.tinyurl.com/Apply5784 . Contact Stacy Ybarra at sybarra@bethshalomnb.org for more information and to set up an interview.
I love this time of year. Not because school is almost out and fun times at camp begin soon, but because as our year winds down, we still have so much to celebrate here at CBS.
The End of theYear Bash is on the Sunday, May 7th, Rabbi Chapman’s Installation is the weekend of May12th-13th, the Congregation Annual Meeting is coming up, and the CBS USY teens have their elections and culminating dinner as well. It’s a marathon, and I am fortunate to have a supporting cast of dedicated staff, clergy, and fabulous families always lending a hand and participating in what we have to offer.
I hope you will join me to celebrate all the hard work of this past year with the CBS community.
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Stacy Ybarra
Michael Schneider
Anna Hartzman
Daughter of Jill Hartzman
Granddaughter of Alan Hartzman and Carol Hartzman of blessed memory
Great Granddaughter of Mollie Hartzman
Olivia Bauer
Daughter of Lauren and Aaron Bauer
Sister of Miles Bauer
Granddaughter of Dr. Jerry and Adrienne Bauer, Lawrence and Fran Kohn
MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 7 B’NAI MITZVAH/YOUTH
MAZEL TOV TO OUR B’NAI MITZVAH
Sunday Funday - K-2nd & 3rd-5th
USY Escape Room
CBS U/ADULT EDUCATION/HAZAK
HAZAK presents: Understanding the World Through Wine
Tuesday, May 9, 2023 | 11:45 am - 2:00 pm
This event will be held in person -- hopefully outside (weather permitting) -at Congregation Beth Shalom
Join us for a Lag B'Omer picnic for lunch and then learn with our own wine expert, Ann Matasar. Ann will teach us many things about the wine industry including how world events have shaped the wine industry and how changes in society have allowed different groups to enter the wine business.
Ann is an expert in the wine industry and wrote a book called Women of Wine: The Rise of Women in the Global Wine Industry published in 2006.
We hope to have a Zoom link for the presentation if you are unable to attend in person...it will begin after lunch at approximately 12:30 pm. Let us know during the registration process that you would like a Zoom link and we will email it to you closer to the event.
Register for this event no later than Tuesday, May 2nd by going to: tinyurl.com/hazakwine
Questions? Contact Audrey at ATaxer@BethShalomNB.org
Many of you may know Ann Matasar as a Congregation Beth Shalom member. You may not know that she has had a long career in higher education in fields such as Business, Economics, Banking, Management and Women's Studies. Among the many titles Ann has held are: Dean, Walter E. Heller College of Business Administration; The Amoco Distinguished Professor of International Business, Departments of Finance and Political Science; and Professor of Business Emerita, Roosevelt University.
New CBS U class beginning in May
Great Jewish Plays of the 20th Century
From The Melting Pot (1908) to Indecent (2015), Jewish dramas have long graced the American stage. Join Rabbi Chapman (a former theater director) for a survey of the greatest Jewish American theatrical works. Since plays are meant to be heard out loud, expect to do “cold readings” (but no acting required to enjoy the class!).
Instructor: Rabbi David Chapman
Dates: Tuesdays in May 6:30-7:40 pm
Register at: tinyurl.com/CBSUclassreg
Questions ? Contact Audrey at ATaxer@BethShalomNB.org
Classes are being developed now for this summer. Watch your email for more information!
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 9 FAMILIES WITH YOUNG CHILDREN Register: tinyurl.com/MayArk56 or tinyurl.com/MayArk1920
SISTERHOOD
Jackie Zelkowitz
One of our big Sisterhood projects is cooking and baking for our Pesach Kiddushim. Everyone enjoyed the wonderful variety of food that our Sisterhood volunteers prepared. A big thank you to Robin Bright for all her time and effort in organizing and planning the different recipes for Pesach and to Maria Catezone for going to the store numerous times to make sure we had all of our ingredients. A huge thank you to everyone that came out to bake as well. We could not have done it without all of you.
On Sunday, April 16th, Sisterhood joined CBS Social Action and Religious School for Mitzvah Day (Good Deeds Day). We worked on projects with the Religious School students. Thank you to the many Sisterhood members who came to show support and thank you so much to Suzy Hakimian, Social Action VP and Robyn Rosengard, School VP for allowing Sisterhood to join in this wonderful event. It was so nice that we could all come together for a good cause.
I hope that you will join us for our Culminating, Installation, and Valued Volunteer Dinner on Wednesday, May 17th. This is a special evening for Sisterhood when we thank our Sisterhood Officers and Board for all their hard work and outstanding programs this past year. We then install our new Sisterhood Officers and Board for 2023-2024. We will honor Jody Sigal as our 2023 Valued Volunteer, and will celebrate the installation of our new Sisterhood President, Elana Schrank. Fred Zimmerman will provide the entertainment for the evening. Fred is a respected Chicago actor who uses his theatrical skills, along with some trick psychology, to create the experience of Pysch-Out Cafe. Come help us celebrate this very special evening on Wednesday, May 17th .
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Sisterhood is excited to introduce our beautiful new Tribute Cards available in the Judaica Shop or on our website
For additional information or to schedule an in-person appointment, contact our Co-Managers, Diana Lewis 847-903-6175 or Darlene Padnos 847-217-4531 or email Diana at cbsjudaica@gmail.com.
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 11 SISTERHOOD
MEN’S CLUB
The month of May is here and we are taking a bit of a breather after a very busy couple of months at CBS. We are still on a high from a memorable Men’s Club Shabbat. We had the pleasure to honor 49 previous Kavod Award Honorees and their families along with our newest Kavod Award Honoree, Norm Padnos. It was so nice to see so many Congregation Beth Shalom families celebrating together both young and old on Men’s Club Shabbat. Special thanks go to our VP of Ritual Alan Wernick and Andy Wagner for putting the service together and Michael Schnitzler for leading our Men’s Club Choir.
This month, our Men’s Club will be assisting the Religious School on Sunday, May 7th for the End of Year Bash serving hot dogs to the families. Please mark your calendar for Thursday, June 15th, our Men’s Club Golf Outing at Buffalo Grove Golf Club with dinner at Congregation Beth Shalom to follow. See flyer on page 13 of the bulletin.
Sunday, June 4th will be the Men’s Club Installation Breakfast as we install our new Executive Board and Board. Breakfast will begin at 9:30 am following Minyan.
Continuing our meet the Board series, we would like to introduce one of our Men’s Club Board Members who also sits on the CBS Executive Board, Randy Samborn. Randy was born in Toledo, Ohio. His family was very active at the Orthodox synagogue in Toledo formerly known as B’nai Jacob, now known as Congregation Etz Chayim, and this is where Randy had his Bar Mitzvah. Randy’s father, Alfred Sambornz”l, was President of B’nai Jacob and very active in the synagogue and Jewish philanthropy. Randy attended Maumee Valley Country Day School from third grade through senior year of high school. He wrote his first article about sports for his school newspaper in the seventh grade and eventually became editor-in-chief in high school. He was also active in student government, wrestled, and played soccer. He also participated in NCSY, the youth organization of Orthodox synagogues.
Randy got Potomac fever when he first visited Washington, DC, in 1974 amid Watergate and he was inspired by Woodward and Bernstein. He majored in history at Washington University in St. Louis and set his sights on law school but pursued being a journalist by writing for and editing various student publications. He happily admits that he also “studied” baseball and became an undying fan of the St. Louis Cardinals. After college, he landed his dream job as an intern for The Blade, his hometown daily newspaper. The same year, he enrolled at University of Toledo Law School and also continued working part-time at The Blade. After passing the bar, Randy continued as a full-time reporter, covering crime, the courts, and legal affairs. While at The Blade, he attended a law school party and met Hope Viner, a Chicago native who was working as a reporter in Findlay, Ohio, while attending law school in Toledo. Soon after, Hope went to work at The Blade, and they were married the following year. They have three children: Eve, who is married to Brandt McCool and lives in Louisville with a new daughter, Ali; Sarah, a third grade teacher in Wilmette; and Ben, an engineer living in Chicago.
Randy left The Blade and joined the Lucas County Prosecutor’s Office as a state court prosecutor for two years. Randy and Hope then moved to Chicago and Randy became bureau chief of The National Law Journal. After six years, he joined the U.S. Attorney’s Office in Chicago as an Assistant U.S. Attorney and the first full-time public information officer, serving for 20 years. Currently, Randy is the principal of Randall A. Samborn & Associates LLC, a strategic communications consultant.
Randy and Hope moved to Glenview, first joined Ezra Habonim, and then CBS. All three of their children had their B’nai Mitzvah at CBS. Randy has been active in Men’s Club as VP of House and Membership and, at the synagogue level, he was VP Membership and is currently VP Programming and is on the CBS Executive Board. The Samborn family also has been very active members with Hope in Sisterhood, the CBS Board and VP Social Action and Eve was active in CBS USY.
We thank Randy and Hope for their service to Congregation Beth Shalom and look forward to their continued involvement for years to come.
Enjoy the weather in May. See you on June 4th for our Men’s Club Installation and on June 15th for our Golf Outing.
Steve and Andy
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Steve Lessman Dr. Andrew Wagner
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 13 DONATIONS MEN’S CLUB
ANNUAL MEETING OF THE CONGREGATION
Congregation Beth Shalom Annual Meeting 5783/2023
The Annual Meeting of the Congregation will be held on Monday, May 15, 2023 at 8:15 pm
The Agenda is as follows:
1. D’var Torah
2. President’s Welcome
3. Committee Reports and Highlights
4. Presentation of Endowment Report
5. Presentation of the 2023-2024 Slate of Officers and Board of Trustees Members
6. Presentation and Vote on the 2023-2024 Budget
EXECUTIVE COMMITTEE:
President
Executive Vice President
VP Fundraising
VP House
VP Membership
VP Programming
VP Ritual
VP School
VP Social Action
VP Youth
Accounts Receivable Secretary
Dr. Bob Spector
Sue Lampert*
Ellen Grossman
Arlen Lasinsky
Jackie Zelkowitz*
Randy Samborn
Steve Lessman*
Charlotte Stern*
Robyn Rosengard*
Dr. Rachel Laven*
Raymond Rokni
Rick Dissen* Treasurer
Financial Secretary
Administrative Secretary
Not slated by this committee but members of Executive Committee
Sisterhood President
Men’s Club President
Immediate Past President
Howard Freidin*
Andy Lebovitz*
Elana Schrank*
Bob Goldwin*
Tanya Solomon
* new to executive board or position for 2023-2024
BOARD OF TRUSTEES (25-36 members as required by CBS bylaws)
Becky Becker**
Talia Block**
Cheryl Braude*
Harold Dembo
Steven Elisco
Hillary Elkins
Ari Footlik
Linda Foster*
Annie Goldman
Suzy Hakimian*
Jill Hartzman**
Dr. Wendy Latash**
Diana Lewis
Bret Maxwell
Roz Mokhtarian
Jill Olefsky
Fern Roseman
Neil Rosengard
Jill Roter*
Edna Schrank
Dr. Alan Shapiro
Brad Shaps
Laura Shulman
Howard Sigal
Dr. Andy Wagner*
Sara Weinstein
Alyssa Weisbach
Alan Zelkowitz
* denotes new to this position
** denotes new to the BOT
Thank you to the following members for their service on the Board of Trustees at Congregation Beth Shalom: Judy Balter, Jim Donenberg, Sandee Levin, Marjorie Maxwell, Amy Offenbach, Mitch Padnos, Leslie Rogoff, Seth Schrank, Bill Shulman, Dan Sher, Jay Silver, and Adam Weinstock
Respectfully submitted by the 2023 Nominating Committee: Hillary Elkins, Sue Lampert, Steve Lessman (Men’s Club CoPresident), Roz Mokhtarian, Jill Olefsky, Neil Rosengard, Dr. Bob Spector (President), Debbie Solomon, Tanya Solomon (Immediate Past President), Jackie Zelkowitz (Sisterhood President), and Lily Zoberman
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 15 “SEE” WHAT’S HAPPENING @ CBS See What’s Happening at Beth Shalom VISIT THE CBS PHOTO GALLERY: tinyurl.com/cbsphotos2022
CBS HAPPENINGS
WLCJ Convention 2023
Sunday, July 16-Wednesday, July 19, 2023 Schaumburg, IL
Shabbaton
Friday, July 14-Saturday, July 15, 2023 Congregation Beth Shalom and Schaumburg
Convention registration is now open!!!
Early Bird deadline May 3
https://www.wizevents.com/wlcj2023/
Central Great Lakes Region is the host Region and CBS Sisterhood and Congregation Beth Shalom is the host for Shabbaton
Details on Shabbat dinner to follow Contact Edna Schrank eschrank@comcast.net
Convention Scholarships available contact Jackie Zelkowitz jzelkowitz@comcast.net
Office Closings (closed all day unless noted)
Shavuot
Thursday, May 25 @ 12:00 pm
Friday, May 26 Memorial Day
Monday, May 29
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Tracy Safron Suggests
By the Rivers of Babylon
is Mary Glickman’s latest novel. The fascinating story begins in South Carolina in June of 1997. The plot revolves around Abigail and Joe Becker, a Jewish couple from Boston. Aged somewhere in their 30’s, they have been married seven years. Abigail is a schoolteacher and Joe is a successful children’s author. They have come to spend the summer on Sweetgrass Island in a lovely home that Abigail inherited from her great aunt. If they enjoy living on the island, they might stay on past the summer.
Abigail, a beautiful woman, is described as “a marvel.” She often has male admirers, but they usually fade away when they realize Abigail is interested only in friendship. Abigail instantly attracts the attention of Billy Euston, an older man known as both the island’s acclaimed BBQ pitmaster and leading lothario. Billy befriends the couple, but his sights are set solely on Abigail. Will Abigail succumb to his charm?
Abigail and Joe settle into the island life. They enjoy the live music scene, become acquainted with the locals, buy guns, and learn to shoot them. As they adjust to the intricacies of Southern life, Abigail and Joe are stunned by the antisemitism they encounter on their idyllic island. They wonder how much they really know about the people they have gotten close to. The couple forges ahead with trying to educate their new friends about Judaism and decide to make Sweetgrass Island their permanent home. Both resolutions have shocking consequences.
Glickman describes her plot as having “several love stories, a lust story, and a murder investigation.” These themes, along with the current of antisemitism, are what make By the Rivers of Babylon a novel of great depth.
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 17 LIBRARY/CBS HAPPENINGS
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Celebrate your Son’s Brit Milah Your Daughter’s Simchat Bat At Beth Shalom!
Welcoming a new baby to the family and to the Jewish community is a wonderful event for families to celebrate.
How meaningful it is for Beth Shalom families to have a Brit Milah or Simchat Bat at Beth Shalom.
Please contact Maria Catezone, Office Manager, at 847-498-4100x26 or email MCatezone@BethShalomNB.org for more information and synagogue availability.
Having A Simcha ?
Baby Naming, Auf Ruf, Anniversary, Special Birthday, Graduation, etc...
Consider Hosting a Kiddush on Shabbat to Celebrate!
$180 sponsorship - includes up to 8 guests, Kiddush lunch and a custom decorated cake
$500 sponsorship - includes up to 15 guests, embellished Kiddush lunch, custom decorated cake, personalized napkins and large celebration table for your guests including a floral centerpiece (for $750 sponsorship, same as above but includes up to 24 guests and two celebration tables.)
$1,800 sponsorship - includes up to 50 guests, embellished Kiddush lunch, custom decorated cake, personalized napkins, choice of fabric table linens, bottle of sparkling wine.
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MAY 2023 • VOLUME 111 ISSUE 81 21 Happy Anniversary - June Happy Birthday to the Women of the Congregation from the CBS Sisterhood: Marla Kazan 1 Talia Block 1 Paula Fohrman 2 Fay Wasserman 2 Becky Charous 3 Frances Binder 4 Rosalind Schwartz 5 Susan Elbaum 5 Rita Janowitz 5 Roz Mokhtarian 6 Carol Abrahams 7 Gail Meyers 7 Eva Footlik 7 Fern Netzky 8 Marla Patzik 8 Fern King 8 Shirley Kessler 10 Revelle Schachter 11 Beverly Weisenberg 11 Gabrielle Sanders 12 Claudia Travis 13 Marjorie Maxwell 13 Barbara Tatz 13 Meryl Auslander 13 Gdalina Novitsky 13 Risa Appelbaum 14 Lana Goldman 14 Harriet Goldberg 15 Linda Weingart 15 Rachel Birkner 15 Jill Carter 16 Simone Toubes 17 Zhanna Plotkin 17 Elyssa Siegel 18 Ruth Baruch 18 Linda Adler 18 Helene Becker 18 Carol Schnitzler 19 Tammy Lew 19 Eileen Sherman 20 Merle Fishman Nathan 20 Sandra Abrams 20 Rachel Grossman 20 Suzanne Gilford 20 Linda Foster 21 Leslie Berkowitz 21 Lisa Rosengard Lawyer 22 Sharon Yusim 23 Carli Jaffe 23 Laurie Shapiro 23 Stephanie Roseman 23 Lauri Shamis 24 Ann Lessman 25 Adrianne Varhula 25 Julie Pearlman Pick 26 Sally Evans 26 Sandy Falkin 26 Lisa Ackerman 26 Beverly Binstein 26 Jennifer Schwartz 26 Judy Sandack 26 Sue Drayer 26 Ann Matasar 27 Lisa Gaffen 27 Regina Silverman 29 Judi Steinberg 29 Melanie Arons 29 Renee Cohen 29 Judith Rowe 30 Jane Siedband 30 Ilene Iglarsh 30 Marc Glickman & Lisa Block 1 Donald & Barbara Newman 1 Wesley & Susan Nissen 1 Howard & Judith Sandler 1 Jeffrey Smoler & Helen Dym-Smoler 1 Charles & Faye Feinstein 50 yrs 2 Bernard & Marlene Lipson 10 yrs 2 Michael & Wendy Latash 2 Raymond & Tami Rokni 3 Irving & Andrea Shainberg 4 Jonathan & Rachel Laven 5 Laura & Rob Hochstein 5 Charles & Cathy Schwartz 6 Michael & Judith Balter 8 Liad & Shira Rozgovich 8 Jacob & Ruth Baruch 20 yrs 8 Bruce & Nancy Chudacoff 55 yrs 9 Alexandra & Jordan Light 10 William & Sherry Weinstein 10 Gary & Sandra Abrams 11 Joel & Susan Fink 11 Jeffrey & Judith Graff 11 Howard & Paula Serlin 11 Michael & Donna Pekay 12 David & Pauline Gimbel 35 yrs 12 Jeff & Myndee Balkan 14 Richard & Nancy Sher 14 William & Leslie Schloss 14 Jeffrey & Hillary Cohen 20 yrs 15 Stanley & Barbara Neimark 15 Barbara & Larry Libauer 15 David & Randi Starkston 15 A. Jerald & Bonnie Rothenberg 60 yrs 16 Alan & Karen Hoffman 17 Harold & Andrea Kessler 17 Lawrence & Beth Levine 17 Herbert & Shirley Roskin 17 Stuart & Phyllis Simon 50 yrs 17 Ronald & Shelly Betman 18 David & Barbara Menn 45 yrs 18 Charles & Karen Schulman 18 Donielle & Sergio Escalante 18 Irving & Shirley Fuld 19 Donald & Marcy Grant Projansky 19 Dan & Joyce Rabinowitz 35 yrs 19 Greg Fleytlikh & Abby Weinstein 19 Steven & Susan Stoehr 35 yrs 19 Mark & Susan Jesselson 20 Jeffrey & Barbara Lerch 20 David & Leslie Abramson 21 Marshall & Barbara Dickler 21 Leonard & Rochelle Millman 21 Steven & Lila Weiland 21 Ben & Jennifer Dolin 21 David & Audrey LeCavalier 21 Gerald & Renee Cohen 22 Paul & Lorna Cohen 22 Jeffrey & Bonnie Kramer 22 Lawrence & Sandra Levin 22 Bradley & Donna Sabin 20 yrs 22 Ira & Eileen Rosenbaum 22 Foster & Dana Elliott 20 yrs 22 Brian & Lisa Ackerman 23 Jeffrey & Carol Apfelbaum 23 Myron & Marsha Glassenberg 23 Steven & Karen Grad 23 David & Cheryl Ginsburg 10 yrs 23 Ronald & Sherry Rubinstein 23 Joel & Sharon Schwartz 23 Paul & Susan Eisenstadt 23 Robert & Arona Boron 24 Gary & Deborah Greenspan 24 Robert & Marla Israel 24 Maurice & Sheila Netter 50 yrs 24 Mark & Michelle Schneider 24 Hillary & Jeremy Elkins 5 yrs 24 Ellen & Jeffrey Gluskin 24 Gloria & Denis Weinberg 24 Andrew & Mona Berman 45 yrs 25 David & Susanna Hakimian 25 Steve & Heidi Reitman 25 Herbert Lesnoy & Maria (Loly) Farnos 25 Dan & Beth Levin 25 Howard & Eileen Bengelsdorf 26 Michael & Karla Goldman 40 yrs 26 Murry & Sandra Randell 26 James & Deborah Hamilton 35 yrs 26 Tommy & Helen Rifkin 26 Marc & Judy Samotny 26 Marilyn & Don Sneider 26 Morris & Irene Kletzel 26 Rick & Robin Dissen 27 Steven & Sandy Sandler 27 Kenneth & Joan Siegan 27 Brian & Dana Millman 27 Arie & Julie Degabli 25 yrs 28 Marvin & Catheryn Rotstein 28 Norman & Darlene Padnos 28 David & Diana Freeman 28 Leonard Gilbert & Abby Strauss 28 Enric & Hilary Braun 29 Jim & Francine Donenberg 29 Joel & Lee Meyers 20 yrs 29 Aaron & Lauren Bauer 15 yrs 29 Richard & Susan Weiss 55 yrs 30 BIRTHDAYS
ANNIVERSARIES
&
Happy Birthday - June
DONATIONS
THE CONGREGATION GRATEFULLY ACKNOWLEDGES THE FOLLOWING CONTRIBUTIONS:
Rabbi Melman's Good and Welfare Fund
Rabbi Aaron Melman and Elisa Rotman In appreciation of you leading a fun and delicious trip to Israel. Jeff and Barbara Lerch
Rabbi Aaron Melman In honor of you and the entire Congregation Beth Shalom Team. Thank you so much for all of your support, coordination and generosity to host an amazing 75th Celebration for Camp Ramah! Thank you! Camp Ramah in Wisconsin
Rabbi Aaron Melman and Elisa Rotman In appreciation of you leading a meaningful Israel experience.
Monyca and Steven Flack
Sarah and Al Budweg In honor of the forthcoming marriage of your son Jeff and Katherine. Mazel Tov! Eitan and Barbara Ben-Dov
David and Suzy Hakimian In appreciation of you leading a fun and delicious trip to Israel. Jeff and Barbara
Lerch
Hope and Randy Samborn For the birth of your granddaughter. Congratulations! Deborah Elbaum and Barry Rubin
Barbara and Larry Libauer In memory of Sheri Ilene
Bram. Eitan and Barbara Ben-Dov
Terri Schwartz In memory of your father, Louis Braver. Barbara and Jeff Lerch, Bob and Cindy Marder, Jan Gaines and Andy Kenoe
Michelle Schneider In memory of Bernard Lipsitz. Bob and Cindy Marder
John, Elissa, Aaron and Dylan Pelts In memory of James Pelts. We’re so sorry for your loss. May your father and grandfather’s memory be for a blessing. Jeffrey and Susan Lasky
Sara Kushnir In memory of Richard Kushnir. Sandi Abel
Cantor Stoehr's Good and Welfare Fund
Cantor Steven Stoehr In memory of Irene Stoehr. Jane Pomerantz, Solomon Schechter Day School of Metropolitan Chicago, Sally Rogalsky, Howard Friedland, Davida Horwitz, Sarita Eisner, Norman and Ilene Iglarsh, Alan Wernick and Jennifer Field, David and Marsha Hochman, Ronald Heftman, Charles and Faye Feinstein, Fredric Elliott, Sharon and Aaron Taskin, Barbara, Kent, Marcy, and Mark Saltzman, Michael and Judi Greenberg, Michael and Leslie Berkowitz, Missy and Allan Malmed, Neal and Carol Blustein, Nessa Holzman and Family, Paula and Stan Resnick, Randee and Howard Blair, The Pelts Family
Cindy Tauberg and Family In memory of Irene Stoehr. Dr. Mario and Rebecca Czonsctkowsky, Barb Weizenbaum and Bob Gorby
Abby, Jeremy and Hillary Elkins In memory of Gary Elkins. Glen and Jill Roter
Marla Patzik In memory of our dear Aunt Sally Keene. Babette and Marc Kreiter
Terri Schwartz and Family In memory of your loving father, grandfather and great-grandfather. May you only have good memories Adele Gorenstein, Cece and Arlen
Lasinsky
John, Elissa, Aaron, and Dylan Pelts In memory of your father and grandfather. We are so sorry for your loss. Allan and Marsha Goldstein and Family, Ephraim and Gloria Knopoff, Joel and Judy Greenman
Penny Lamn In memory of Gary Elkins. Debbie Lenardi
Sara Kushnir In memory of your beloved husband, Richard. Iris and Ira Lerner
Michelle and Mark Schneider and Judie and Eric Smith In memory of Bernard Lipsitz. Joel and Judy Greenman, Marcy and Mark Saltzman
Barbara and Larry Libauer In memory of your beloved daughter, Sheri Ilene Bram. Joel and Judy Greenman
Holly Forman and Family In memory of your beloved brother, Keith Epstein. Judy and Joel Greenman
Rabbi Chapman's Good and Welfare Fund
Rabbi David and Jonathan Chapman For the birth of Amitai Nathaniel. Mazel Tov. Jane Pomerantz, Barbara Chotiner, Paula and Carl Resnick
Donna Fox In honor of your grandson Casey Schwartz's bar mitzvah. Bruce and Nancy Chudacoff
Susan Solarz and Bruce Notareus In honor of your wedding. Gail Kara and Phillip Guddemi
Matty Schectman For a speedy recovery - you are in our prayers! Gloria and Denis Weinberg
Burton Benjamin and Family In memory of Donald Benjamin. Marilyn Oglander, Gail and Brian Levine Jeremy Elkins and Family In memory of Gary Elkins. May you find comfort in wonderful memories. Gloria and Denis Weinberg, Judy and Joel Greenman
Terri Schwartz and Family In memory of Louis Braver. May you be comforted by wonderful memories of your father. Gloria and Denis Weinberg, Daniel and Eva Sideman
The Varhula Family In memory of Adrianne Varhula. Judy and Joel Greenman
John and Elissa Pelts and Family In memory of your father, James Pelts. Karen and Jeffrey Stepen
Bernard Grad Memorial Chesed Fund
Fern and Larry Roseman In appreciation of you. Happy Passover and we always appreciate your hospitality. Gail and Michael Rabin
Ron and Laura Schoeneman For the birth of Sadie Wynn. Mazel Tov grandma and grandpa. Larry and Fern Roseman
Francine Shapiro Memorial Scholarship Fund
Sara Kushnir In memory of Richard Kushnir. Fay and Richard Wasserman
Gold Family Sabbath Fund
Ethel Obrand In honor of your 90th birthday! David Fishman and Julie Rosner
Hope and Randy Samborn For the birth of your granddaughter, Alexandria Margaret. Merrill Medansky Cantor Steven Stoehr In memory of Irene Stoehr. Steven and Robin Bright
Mrs. Sharon Pinsky and Family In memory of your brother-in-law. Maxine Burke
The Varhula Family In memory of Adrianne Varhula. Cece and Arlen Lasinsky
Abby Elkins and Family In memory of Gary. My deepest regrets for your loss. May his memory be a blessing. Nancy Turner Jacobson
Harvey R. Gold Building Endowment Fund
Regina and Brandon Harris In memory of your dear father Larry Blacher who is gone too soon. May his memory be a blessing to you both. We are grateful to have met him at your wedding. B'Ahava. Eileen and Barry Brusso
Sandi and Myron Samole In memory of Pat Lanners who dedicated her work life to you and to whom you provided great care and support in her last year. May her memory be a blessing. B'Ahava. Eileen and Barry Brusso
Fred Fisher
In honor of your 92nd birthday! Marshall and Barbara Dickler
In appreciation of our CBS Family for our Purim Baskets Samuel Levin and Norma Rosen
The Varhula Family In memory of Adrianne Varhula. Marshall and Barbara Dickler
Terri Schwartz and Family In memory of Louis Braver. Larry and Fern Roseman, Marshall and Barbara Dickler, Sheryl and Fred Katzenstein
Carole and Janna Bernstein In memory of your beloved husband and father, Mike. Our hearts are with you. Howard and Paula Serlin
Rita Janowitz In memory of your brother, Jerry Berkelhamer. From Logan's Square to today, we have the fondest memories of him. Fern and Larry Roseman
Burt Patzik Scholarship Fund
Vicki Hass For a speedy recovery and so glad you are on the mends. Much love. Shirley Patzik Samuels
Marla Patzik and Family In memory of Sally Keene. Please know we are thinking about you and your family during this difficult time. Gail and Les Trubow, Beth and Mike Gilford, Leonard and Phyllis Mason, Laurie and Joel Shapiro, Shirley Patzik Samuels, Sherri and Brad Fishman
Carl and Judy Wolkin Innovations in Education
Fund
Ellen and Jeff Gluskin For the birth of your granddaughter, Dara. Mazel Tov. Jill and Glen Roter
Mr. and Mrs. Michael and Suzy Silverstein In honor of your 50th wedding anniversary! Naomi Weiss
Marla Patzik In memory of Sally Keene. Naomi Weiss
Jeremy Elkins In memory of Gary Elkins. Mark and Sharon Telpner
Terri Schwartz In memory of Louis Braver. Arnie Hoffman and Janet Jacobson, Naomi Weiss, Jill and Glen Roter, The Cooper Family and Arthur Schwartz, The Rutmans
Mr. And Mrs. John Pelts In memory of James Pelts. We are so very sorry for your loss. Adam and Dayle Levine and Family
The Varhula Family In memory of Adrianne Varhula. Arlene and Ray Handler, Sharon Telpner
Marc Kreiter In memory of Sally Keene. Loly Farnos and Herb Lesnoy
Terri and Marc Schwartz In memory of Louis Braver. We mourn the loss of your beloved father. Elissa and John Pelts, Jody and Howard Sigal, Judy and Michael Balter, Leslie and Scott Rogoff
Fred Varhula and Mitchell Varhula and Families In memory of Adrianne Varhula. Her smile and welcoming nature will be missed. Jody and Howard Sigal
Abby Elkins In memory of Gary Elkins. Judy and Michael Balter
Jeremy Elkins In memory of Gary Elkins. Judy and Michael Balter
Dr. Edward and Holly Forman In memory of your brother, Keith Epstein. Leslie and Scott Rogoff
Helene Hoffman Memorial Concert Fund
Mrs. Ann Hoffman and Mr. Brian Heltsley In honor of the birth of your grandson, Leo Hudson. Arnie Hoffman and Janet Jacobson
Mr. and Mrs. Burton Hoffman In honor of the birth of your great-grandson, Leo Hudson. Arnie Hoffman and Janet Jacobson
Sara Kushnir and Family In memory of Richard Kushnir…a wonderful husband, father, grandfather, brother and friend. Adele Gorenstein
The Elkins Family In memory of Gary Elkins, beloved husband, father, grandfather and son. Great friend to many. Adele Gorenstein
Terri and Marc Schwartz In memory of your father Louis, may his memory be a blessing. Ilene and Richard Fischman
HUGS Fund
Cantor Steven Stoehr In memory of Irene Stoehr, may her memory be a blessing. Michael and Leann Blue John and Elissa Pelts In memory of your father, James Pelts. Mark and Barbara Gelfeld
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Janna Sugar Memorial Israel Scholarship Fund
Susan and Robert Katz In honor of your 60th anniversary! Robert and Susan Katz
Ari Footlik In honor of your Megillah reading and making us so proud. Robert and Beth Footlik
Hope and Randy Samborn For the birth of Alexandria
Margaret. Jill and Les Olefsky
Bev and David Sugar In memory of Janna Sugar. Thinking of her on her yahrzeit and everyday. With much love. Sheryl Weissman, Shaynee Jankelovitz, Becky Sostrin
Michelle Schneider and Judie Smith In memory of Bernard Lipsitz. Marc and Terri Schwartz, Meryl and Carter Auslander
Mrs. Charlotte Kohn and Family In memory of Bertha Rosenfeld. Shaynee Jankelovitz
The Hutensky Family, The Sugar Family and The Roth Family In memory of Lillian Rosenfeld. Shaynee Jankelovitz
William Gordon In memory of your father. Lois Fischer Terri and Marc Schwartz In memory of Louis Braver. Alan and Susan Shapiro, Barbara and Joe Wolke, David and Bev Sugar, Seymour Politinsky and Reva Gomberg, The Rokni Family, Tom and Laura Lindsay
Joni Adams In memory of your beloved husband, Sandler Adams. We are so sorry that after all the happy years, you have lost your best friend. Please continue to think of happy times you had together. All our love. Arlene and Ray Handler
Marla and Alan Patzik In memory of Sally Keane. Barbara and Joe Wolke
Cheryl Kotsias In memory of your husband, Jeff Heilbrunn. Becky Sostrin
Jeremy and Hillary Elkins and Family In memory of Gary Elkins. Cece and Arlen Lasinsky, Mark and Sharon
Telpner
Shaynee Jankelovitz For the yahrzeit of David Jankelovitz. Our thoughts are of our dear cousin David and the many family simchas we all shared. David and Bev
Sugar
Debbie Dann In memory of Brandon. Never forgotten and always thinking of him. Nessa Holzman and Family
Jerome J. Kaplan Memorial Adult Program
Scholarship Fund
In appreciation of you. Thank you CBS for streaming daily minyan. It was a joy to daven with you from New Jersey and to say kaddish for my father at a reasonable morning time. Judy Richman
Laven Family Shabbat Celebration Fund
The Chapman Family For the birth of Amitai
Nathaniel. Seymour Politinsky and Reva Gomberg
Bobbie Fink and Family For the birth of Cai Jonah.
Seymour Politinsky and Reva Gomberg
Ethel Obrand In honor of your 90th birthday
celebrations. Charlene Salzman, Lillian Herter
Hope and Randy Samborn For the birth of Alexandria
Margaret. Scott Bosley
The Starkston Family For the birth of Margalit June. Seymour Politinsky and Reva Gomberg
Edna Schrank and Family For the birth of your granddaughter, Zoe Madelyn. Seymour Politinsky and Reva Gomberg
Randi Simon and Family In memory of Jay Simon. Seymour Politinsky and Reva Gomberg
Hillary and Jeremy Elkins In memory of Gary Elkins. We are so sorry about your dad. Know that we are thinking about you and your family. Tamar and Scott Wolf
Lawrence B. Rosner Building Fund
The Family of Elaine Fermark In memory of the elegant Elaine Fermark. Judy Sheck
Margie Rodriquez and Family In memory of your beautiful and loving mother and grandmother, Margarita.
Danny and Lana Zakon
Kenny and Carolyn Spero and Family In memory of Neil Spero. Lisa and Evan Oblonsky
Judie and Eric Smith In memory of your dad, Bernie Lipsitz. Lisa and Evan Oblonsky
Michelle Schneider In memory of your dad, Bernie Lipsitz. Lisa and Evan Oblonsky
Lester and Richard Kurnick Youth Fund
In appreciation of the Purim basket, it was lovely Debby Kleifield
Sandee and Larry Levin For the birth of your grandson, Louis "Louie" Ascher. Scott and Leslie Rogoff
Mr. and Mrs. Dmitry Polyakov and Family In memory of your beloved father and grandfather. Dayle and Dennis Teven
Jeremy and Hillary Elkins In memory of your father, Gary. Roz and Steve Mokhtarian and Family
Men's Club Youth Scholarship Fund
Norman Padnos In honor of you for receiving the Kavod Award. Barbara Chotiner
Ellen and Jeffrey Gluskin For the birth of Dara Gila. Cece and Arlen Lasinsky
Hope and Randy Samborn For the birth of your granddaughter, Alexandria. Scott and Leslie Rogoff Diane and Shai Halivni In memory of Richard Kushnir. Ron and Missy Rabinowitz
Michelle Schneider In memory of Bernie Lipsitz. May his blessed memory be in your hearts forever! Sherri and Brad Fishman
Paul Wald Yahrzeit Fund
For the yahrzeit of Osher Karlinsky Sheldon and Susan Karlinsky
For the yahrzeit of my beloved sister-in-law, Doris Kessler Betty Ashman
In memory of Phil Cowan Barbara Lasky
For the yahrzeit of Sam Kwalwaser Mark and Sharon Telpner
In memory of my beloved mother, Jeanette Lowenthal, my beloved dad, David Lowenthal and my beloved husband, Harold Snite Gloria Snite
In memory of the one year anniversary of my brother's passing. Jonathan and Denise Handler
In memory of my loving father, Jacob Glikman Helene Becker
The Family of Phillip Cowan In memory of Phil Cowan. Barbara Lasky
In memory of Hyman Fridkin, our beloved father We will always miss you. Ray and Arlene Handler
In memory of Adolph Twersky. Ray and Arlene Handler
In memory of my father, Jacob Rotsin Frances Binder
For the yahrzeit of Esther Simon Stuart and Phyllis Simon
Mr. and Mrs. Norvil Redmond In memory of Judi McCarthy. Barbara Lasky
For the yahrzeit of Bernard Lifschitz Burt and Becky Ofsaiof
For the yahrzeit of my beloved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, Rochelle Lerner. Ellen and Jeffrey Gluskin and Family
For the yahrzeit of Helen Glazer, beloved mother, bubie and great bubie Fern and Mitchell King
In memory of our beloved father, Morton Stillman. Glenn and Cindy Schwartz
For the yahrzeit of my beloved mother, grandmother and great-grandmother, Lenore Gluskin Jeffrey and Ellen Gluskin and Family Howard Jeruchimowitz In memory of Stephen Geffon. Paula and Stan Resnick
Pay It Forward - Membership and Tuition Scholarship Funds
Hope and Randy Samborn For the birth of your granddaughter, Alexandria Margaret McCool - Mazel Tov!
Sue Lampert
Sandee and Larry Levin For the birth of your grandson, Louie Ascher Levin - Mazel Tov! Sue Lampert
Michelle and Mark Schneider and Judie and Eric Smith In memory of Bernie. I mourn his loss and I am thinking of all of you. I wish I had met Bernie. He raised a beautiful family. Michael Garlin
Sara Kushnir and Diane Halivni In memory of Richard Kushnir. May his memory be for a blessing. Sue Lampert
Jeremy and Hillary Elkins In memory of your beloved father, Gary Elkins. Sue Lampert
The Stoehr Family In memory of Irene Stoehr. Sue Lampert
Terri Schwartz and Family In memory of Louis Braver. May his memory be for a blessing. Sue Lampert and Sammi Berebitsky, The Lipsitz, Schneider and Smith
Families
Prayer Book Fund
Ethel Obrand In honor of your 90th birthday! Jan Obrand
Terri Schwartz In memory of Louis Braver. CBS Sisterhood
John and Elissa Pelts In memory of James Pelts. CBS Sisterhood
The Varhula Family In memory of Adrianne Varhula. Cindy and Bob Marder
Rosengard Museum Fund
Terri and Lauren Muehlenbeck In memory of Brian Muehlenbeck, beloved husband and father. Beth and Sheldon Gaffen and Family
Rubenstein Memorial Library Fund
Hope and Randy Samborn For the birth of Alexandria
Margaret. Sam and Becca Tatel
Fran Hakimian In honor of your birthday. Shelia Medvin For the yahrzeit of my grandfather, William Kaufman. Terry Saltzberg
For the yahrzeit of my beloved and deeply missed father, Edward Saltzberg. Terry Saltzberg
Sisterhood Eyshet Chayil Fund
Edna Schrank For the birth of your new granddaughter, Zoe Madelyn. Michael and Fern Ellison
The Varhula Family In memory of Adrianne Varhula. Michael and Carol Schnitzler, Adrienne Holtzman, Beth and Dan Sher, Edna Schrank
Jeremy and Hillary Elkins In memory of Gary Elkins. Michael and Carol Schnitzler, Edna Schrank
Terri and Marc Schwartz In memory of Louis Braver. Michael and Carol Schnitzler
Steven Teitelbaum Camp Ramah Scholarship
Fund
Sandee and Larry Levin For the birth of Louis Ascher. Jill and Les Olefsky
Larry Ordower For a speedy recovery. Bobbi and Harvey Teitelbaum
In memory of Dora Narter Samuel Levin
In memory of Esther Bolon Samuel Levin
Sara Kushnir and Family In memory of Richard Kushnir. We want to express our deepest sympathy on the death of your beloved husband, father and grandfather. May your wonderful memories always be a source of comfort. Darlene and Norman Padnos
Zaransky Family Ticktin Jewish Community Memorial Fund
Terri Schwartz In memory of your Father, Louis Braver. Barb and Michael Zaransky
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MILESTONES
WE PRAY THAT THESE FAMILIES WILL BUILD STRONG JEWISH HOMES AND CONTRIBUTE BLESSINGS TO THE PEOPLE OF ISRAEL AND TO ALL HUMANITY
Ellen & Jeffrey Gluskin are happy to announce the birth of their granddaughter, Dara Gila Gluskin.
Laura & Ron Schoeneman are proud to announce the birth of their granddaughter, Sadie Wynn Schoeneman.
Merle Fishman Nathan is happy to announce the birth of her granddaughter, Sadie Wynn Schoeneman.
The Congregation Extends Its Sympathy To:
Sandi (Barry) Marks on the passing of her mother, Sylvia Ebner.
John (Elissa) Pelts on the passing of his father, James Pelts.
Michelle (Mark) Schneider on the passing of her father, Bernard Lipsitz.
Judi (Eric) Smith on the passing of her father, Bernard Lipsitz.
Terri (Marc) Schwartz on the passing of her father, Louis Braver.
Howard (Wendy Seltzer) Jeruchimowitz on the passing of his stepfather, Stephen Geffon.
Dmitry (Mara) Polyakov on the passing of his father, Mikhail Polyakov. The family of Howard Rothbart on his passing.
Rita Janowitz on the passing of her brother, Jerome Berkelhamer.
Marla (Alan) Patzik on the passing of her mother, Sally Keene.
Murray (Stephanie) Keene on the passing of his mother, Sally Keene. Jeremy (Hillary) Elkins on the passing of his father, Gary Elkins.
Holly (Dr. Edward) Forman on the passing of her brother, Keith Epstein.
Sara Kushnir on the passing of her husband, Richard Kushnir.
Diane (Shai) Halivni on the passing of her father, Richard Kushnir.
Bob (Rene) Cremer on the passing of his sister, Carole Hochman.
CBS Memorial Plaques
If you wish to honor the memory of a dear one, a most fitting, traditional and dignified remembrance is through a Memorial Plaque.
Each memorial plaque, bearing the name and yahrzeit date, is mounted on the tablet in the Moseson Alcove or Feather Beit Midrash. It is lit on the Shabbat of the week of the yahrzeit, on the day of the yahrzeit and on the four festivals during the year whenYizkor is recited.
Contact Maria Catezone by phone at 847-498-4100 x26 or email MCatezone@BethShalomNB.org for information or to order a plaque.
The following families have dedicated a memorial plaque in memory of their loved ones.
In memory of RONNA HEFTMAN
by Ronald Heftman
In memory of MARTIN MARTY WINN by sister of Barbara Winn, Roslyn & Mort
In memory of BARBARA BOSLEY
by Scott Bosley & Janet Miller
Heafitz
Death of Esteemed Members:
Adrianne Varhula
Richard Kushnir
A few important reminders
We ask that you sign in to your MyCBS account (ShulCloud) and make sure that your contact information is up to date including your cell phone number and email.
Please check the Congregation Beth Shalom website (www.bethshalomnb.org) for updates and be sure to open any emails that you receive from us.
Use the online calendar (for the most up-to-date information on what is happening at CBS! You can save to your own calendar & share with a friend from there.
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May 1-5
Marian Cohen
Celia W Ellis
Sylvia Goldman
Evelyn Kalter
Minnie Kriesman
Joseph Letwat
Allan Neimark
Ida Silberman Yaffe
Sheldon Yusim
Samuel Zakon
Celia Zaransky
Dora Abel
Frances Agrest
Helen Davis
Dr. Howard Glazier
Harry Lapofski
Donna Kay Lezberg
Gizella Schwartz
Elaine H Smith
Ronald Wellner
Carmela Arbel
Bernard Goldlust
Seymour Lampert
Leo Malkin
Dolly Oppman
Julius Rosenstein
Ida Rose Rotman
Myrtle Schwartz
Samuel Smithson
Irving Teplitz
Gladys Vission
Maurice Weiner
Dr. Bernard Widen
Louis Winokur
Sherry Adler
Richard Bosley
Ida Lewin
Natalie Ligier
Edward Norman Loeb
Samuel Millman
Kiva Radovskiy
Phyllis Schneider
Jay J. Strauss
Irving Zelkowitz
Leo Elbaum
Sydney Gainsberg
Marcia Gnippe
Dorothy Rosenberg
Sheldon L. Salter
Harry Adam Seltzer
Manuel Zaveduk
Belle Zeman
Marci A. Zeoli
May 6-12
Barbara Baren Cohen
David Goldstein
Elinore H Kaufmann
Yuri Koyfman
Richard Ludwig
Max Stepkin
Mr. & Mrs. Waldman
Norma Weinstein
Sally Zare
Paul Blitstein
Yenta Blitt
Florence Buchsbaum
Morris Kaplan
May Levy
Rose Rotman
Jerry Rotstein
Bert Sigal
Philip Steinway
Bess Weinstein
Jeanette Belle Berkelhamer
Alvin Dolnick
Estelle Dunn
Gertrude Epstein
Della Feather Rose Goberstein
Beth Fine Kaplan
Stanley Kazan
Frances Kessler
Gertrude Levinson
Abraham Levy
Meyer Lipschultz
Dolores Miller
Stewart Segal
Abraham Meyer Simon
Sylvia Solomon
Bessie Taplin
Martin B. Zells
Judith Cohen
Max Edelstein
Arnold Lee Greenberg
Ann Hochman
Bernard Lampert
Morris Zaransky
Barbara Bessinger
Fannie Binder
Mollie Cherney
Anne Cohen
Barry Edelman
Maurice Engerman
Herbert Forman
Sol Ganellen
Phil Harris
Florrie Janus
Eva Lew
Alex Lewitz
Anne Mermel
Blossom Mutchnik
Anna Neer
Marcia Nussbaum
James Pawlak
Myrtle Roskin
Ruth Bauer Schaeffer
Sally Zuckerman
Charles Berg
Clara Blustein
Mordechai Ceder
Benjamin Dubrow
Beatrice Feinstein
Esther Francis
Hyman Gebel
Doris Goldberg
Esther Heller
Edythe Horwitz
Theresa B. Levine
Leo Liberman
Gertrude Novish
Ernestine Perry
Stanley E. Samuels
Rose C. Sideman
Bessie Solomon
Dorothy Sugerman
Martin Saul Warshawsky
Mimi Barr
Bessie Berkowitz
Barbara Sharon Doppelt
Wilfred Greenberg
Marjory R. Kreda
Mary Lezak
Joan Schwade
Ofelia Shaftal
Lillian Spitzer
May 13-19
Harry Abrams
Molly Basofin
Henry Budweg
Susan Burstein
Lee Elliott
Rose Held
Nathan Kirshenbaum
Ruth Lieberman
Lena Ofengender
Fannie Rabinowitz
Irene Slotky
Morris Vodianoy
Suzanne Wilensky
Elsie Zeidman
Meyer Cohen
Kenneth Deutsch
Belle Goldin
Helen Handelsman
Alice Katzenstein
Joyce Leven
Jean Maxwell
Irving Rosenberg
Jeanne Nadelman Weislander
Harold Crafton
Gertrude Dubin
Grace Vento Friend
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Friday – May 5 (Candles 7:36 PM)
Shabbat B’Yachad K-2nd Grade 5:30 PM
Service 6:00 PM
Saturday – May 6 Shabbat Service / 9:30 AM
Birthday Shabbat Selahbrate Mincha 12:30 PM
Friday Evening – May 12 (Candles 7:44 PM)
Congregation Beth Shalom Celebrates the Installation of Rabbi David Chapman
Shabbat Service followed by Oneg Shabbat 6:30 PM & Learning Session/Anniversary Shabbat
Selahbrate
Saturday – May 13
Shabbat Service and Installation 9:30 AM followed by Kiddush Luncheon Mincha 12:30 PM
Saturday – May 20
AM
Festival Service 9:30
6:00 PM & Festival Ma’ariv
Shabbat
Festival Service/Yizkor 9:30 AM
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Mincha will take place at the conclusion of morning Shabbat services, but not before 12:30 PM.
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Shabbat
Shabbat Service 9:30
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Shavuot
Mincha/Shabbat
Friday- May 26 (Candles 7:57 PM)
AM
Mincha 12:30
Saturday- May 27
PM