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PUBLISHER’S NOTES The Heartland St. Louis Black Chamber of Commerce (HSBCC) works tirelessly to serve businesses in our community. As a voice for and capacity builder of Black owned businesses in the St. Louis region, HSBCC has played an essential role in identifying, soliciting and providing the supports these businesses will need to survive and recover post COVID-19 and offer stabilization assistance to area. Black owned businesses that need triage as well as growth and acceleration supports to those poised to take advantage of disruptive economic opportunities.
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“Never give up on a dream just becasue of the time it will take to accomplish it.” WE ARE BACK ST. LOUIS!!! Thank you for all the support and positivity you all have shown over the past 12 years. We’ve obviously have had our ups and downs as any business has but we have contiued to strive to bring you what we consider the “positive” of St Louis. We hope you all enjoyed our 3rd annual 314 Day Edition Cover. Obviously we cant put the whole St Louis on the cover but we do our best to be as inclusive as possible because ALL of us is what makes St Louis Amazing. 314 Day is about the people and places rooted in culture and creativity that makes our city so special. Throughout the pages of our special edition, we will celebrate the contributions and collaborations that have given us monumental moments as a collective community. If you didnt make it this year it doesnt mean we dont see you or that you also arent GREAT. Just keep moving that needle. We SEE you! One Love.
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Dr. Sebi
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he inspiration behind the Dr. Sebi diet comes from native H o n d u r a n , Dr. Sebi (real name Alfredo Darrington Bowman), who acknowledges himself as an herbalist, natural healer, and intracellular therapist that was originally inspired by an herbalist in Mexico.
The methodology of Dr Sebi is rather interesting and involves focusing of natural, alkaline, plant-based foods and herbs while staying away from acidic, hybrid foods that can damage the cell. By following the approach of Alfredo Bowman (aka Dr Sebi), you can prevent mucus build up, which can lead to the development of diseases. Dr. Sebi is the founder of the USHA Healing Village based
in Honduras, which not only provides healing, but also teaches people how to live an alkaline lifestyle. Medical professionals often believe that the Dr Sebi herbs approach to curing disease is ineffective because they were taught to believe in the medicine approach to treating patients. This thought process led to Alfredo Bowman and his amazing herbal compounds appearing on front page news for being sent to the Supreme Court in New York of the United States, accusing Dr Sebi of making false claims of curing people and practicing medicine without a license. However, many people have claimed that the Dr Sebi diet has improved their health significantly with the compounds from Alfredo Bowman and that
the herbal approach to human healing has worked better than the medical approach to medicine. Dr Sebi’s thoughts about nutritional compounds and herbal therapy are found all throughout Youtube, helping to teach and promote healthy living even after his death. Bowman is an inspiration to many and is quite the herbalist because he discovered a way to heal life-threatening diseases that have been considered incurable. He was an herbalist for 40 plus years and claims to heal people from AIDS, asthma, cancer, diabetes, eczema, epilepsy, fibroids, heart disease, high blood pressure, inflammation, lupus, multiple sclerosis, and sickle cell among other things.
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JAMI.
The Art Of Winning
This Master Connector Has Built an Authentic Reputation in St. Louis and She Shares Her Latest Business Venture With DELUX Magazine Words By Tiffany Byndom
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losed doors and empty rooms.That is how many businesses looked when mandated lockdowns occurred across the region due to the novel coronavirus.
It’s no exaggeration to say that the pandemic has decimated small businesses, especially those owned by women and people of color, leaving Black female business owners in a state of uncertainty, waiting for relief they fear will never come. Despite these circumstances, Black women’s resilience in the context of common adversities and their power to overcome these obstacles have allowed them to thrive in a complex environment. Enter Jami Dolby, founder and CEO of Kazi Society, a collaboration workspace in Downtown St. Louis and the first podcasting studio owned by a Black woman in Missouri. Dolby’s expertise in being a master connector, and her deep love for her culture and the St. Louis region, pushed her to launch a company in a field with few Black and brown leaders.
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black owned “I opened up a space where people were supposed to come together, and work closely and meet new people 45 days before the city shut down and implemented social distancing measures,” said Dolby. “Despite the feeling of not knowing what was next, I had no option on failing. I knew I could survive.”
“I am a person who doesn’t believe in code switching, and that we should all be our authentic selves,” said Dolby. “I realized a lot of the coworking spaces in St. Louis were not created with us in mind, rather it be the background music or the snacks that they serve, and I often felt like an outsider when I visited these places.” After pitching her idea of the collaborative space to a few executives for funding opportunities, and later being rejected, she took matters into her own hands and signed a lease for the building in fall of 2019. 45 days after opening to the public, the city shut down in response to rising COVID-19 cases.
Dolby established Kazi Society to connect executives, creatives, and rising entrepreneurs through an inclusive network full of culture and opportunity. Membership includes exclusive events, a diverse network, podcasting services and a collaborative environment to spark creativity and create the change needed in the St. Louis region so that all industries can recruit and retain a diverse workforce through a sense of community. Armed with creativity and gumption, Dolby managed to turn a tough season on its head and closed the doors of her business for four months to align her practices with local and state health guidelines. “I shopped and hunted for Lysol, hand sanitizer, microphone covers and headphone covers, so that when you go to our collaboration space everything is cleaned and sanitized,” said Dolby. “I didn’t plan for the pandemic, but I did plan for success.”
Dolby’s full service podcast studio is the first in Missouri to be owned by a Black woman and is the most lucrative part of her business. From retired professional athletes, C-suite executives to up-andcoming artists, members enjoy exclusive perks with access to branding and full scale production tools and resources. On the wall of the studio hangs pictures from Black artists around the St. Louis region and a 2 Chainz Pink Trap House plaque. “Kazi is open to all members, but when I created this space I knew I wanted Black and brown people to walk in and immediately feel comfortable,” said Dolby. “I knew I had to find a space that felt like home.This building is Black-owned, including every business residing in this facility.” Dolby, who has more than a decade of experience connecting ideas, people and cultures in the corporate, sports and entertainment sector while keeping her commitment to the nonprofit sector, recalls a conversation that left a lasting impression on how she wanted to show up in her career and life. “I was in a meeting with an executive, a woman, who sat down in front of me, looked me in my face and she said, “You have a lot of confidence, and I don’t mean that as a compliment.” And I realized that even though she saw having too much confidence as a weakness, it was my superpower. To walk in any room and walk out with new friends, business partners and connections. Confidence in my survival and success is DELUX MAGAZINE
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“I love St. Louis, and I’m always finding ways to creatively give back.” helping me continue my family legacy.” Dolby’s confidence in her abilities were honed from her childhood and growing up from a family of entrepreneurs. Now, she leads a company connecting professionals with the resources they need to grow throughout the region. With an ever-expanding reach, Dolby keeps it completely real when asked about stability as an entrepreneur. “Too often we see the outcome of success without understanding the sacrifices made to achieve it,” said Dolby. “We see on social media the ‘no new friends’ and ‘no sleep’ trend of being overworked and keeping your circle small. After two major health challenges that kept me out of the office, it was the friends that I encountered throughout my journey that kept the doors open and the business running.” What advice would she give to other entrepreneurs? Go to sleep and meet new people.
take time away from your business it will still run per usual.” Dolby considers herself to be “So St. Louis” and is best known for her commitment to the community and giving back through her work with various nonprofits and local organizations. While Dolby is considered a St. Louis socialite, she best identifies with her passion to give back and networking to cultivate positive connections. “I hear too often that our city doesn’t have this or we don’t support it, but I just haven’t found that to be true,” said Dolby. “St. Louis is a great place for young professionals to become engaged, grow and really provide the input our city needs to become a leader in so many areas.” Dolby will be launching a new apparel and accessories line to showcase the finest of St. Louis culture. “I love St. Louis, and I’m always finding ways to creatively give back.”
“Your health is a priority; get some rest,” said Dolby. “Meet new p e o p l e and build a strong team so when you
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hun Ashe has a passion for helping St. Louis achieve financial and racial equity. She practices both Social and Economic Activism with the intent of achieving Social and Economic Justice for the people. As a Social Activist she has organized and protested along side groups such as #ExpectUs and others, speaking out and bringing attention to events and injustices. Through Economic Activism she seeks to use economic power to foster change with Fortheculturestl. com. Whether it is on the front lines of the streets or her FortheCulturalSTL Central Command, she is building bridges that empowers and encourages the community to look within itself and participate. Placing herself on those frontlines have not been without incident. Last week Ohun, using her Social Media Platform recounted a tragic event where she was unjustly targeted by the police. All was fine until they ran her name. What followed could bear be described as a gross overreaction on part of law enforcement. She eventually found herself at the Justice Center cuffed, mistreated, and detained for several hours. Others with less of an activist background or of a different race would have not have been treated in such a manner. As she described her ordeal and how thoughts of Sandra Bland surfaced while she experienced this horror, one cannot help but to be moved to anger. Ohun wrote about the incident stating, “I may never get justice but I don’t want anyone else to go through it. A lot of inhumane stuff happens from the moment you encounter a cop to the moment you’re released from jail and after.” She lived through
St. Louis, right now, is at a pivotal point for change and equity. We have, Cori Bush, a progressive Black woman in the U.S. Congress and a Black progressive woman, Tishaura Jones, running for mayor in St. Louis City. Pair this political movement with activists, grassroots organizations and Black folks doing phenomenal community work and we have the blueprint for equitable change. St. Louis needs
radical and righteous revamping and with these intersections uniting, we have the opportunity to make it happen.”
it, in the hope that others will not have to. In February Ohun Ashe was nominated for Good Morning America’s BHM Inspiration List by Congresswoman Cori Bush for her tireless efforts in fighting for Equity. She believes the fight must go on and she is in it. Ohun is now in the process of creating The Black Owned Spring/Summer Catalog 2021. A follow up to her Black Owned Holiday Gift Guide, the new catalog will be available April 1st and will allow for more businesses to sign up and
attract customers. Previous catalogs have generated thousands of users for black owned businesses generating hundreds of dollars in revenue. Revenue that circulates within our community, keeps and grows wealth in our community. Always on the go and ready to stand in the breach for others is a tough path to follow. Join with us and support her as she fights for us all and be in the look out for the Spring/Summer Catalog and support the community.
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BLACK DESIGNER BRANDS Discover and shop jewelry from the very best national black brands including Third Crown, Ashya, SoCoCo, and Talley & Twine.
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black brands
THIRD CROWN @THIRDCROWN
New York based co-designers Kristin and Kofi Essel fuse their love of geometric shapes with the details found in their architectural surroundings to create their collection of men’s and women’s jewelry. The brand creates gender neutral everyday statement pieces. The designers celebrate a fascination with structure, architectural lines, and bold accents.
TALLEY & TWINE @TALLEYANDTWINE Talley & Twine was created after realizing that most watch companies just emulated the most popular brands. Our goal was to create a quality, detailed, attention-grabbing timepiece that didn’t cost $1000 or more. We like to operate outside of the “norms” and away from the longstanding gatekeepers of the watch industry.
ASHYA @ASHYA.CO Established in 2017 by co-founders Ashley Cimone and Moya Annece, ASHYA (pronounced “agh-shya”) is a New York design label featuring unisex travel accessories. ASHYA is dedicated to creating well-crafted designs that unify luxury and utility and all ASHYA bags are made in small batches and feature custom hardware.
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MWANZI CO MWANZI.COM Mwanzi Co. is a boutique, custom furniture consulting and artist studio based in Saint Louis, MO for both residential and commercial clients and founded in 2005 by owner and acclaimed furniture designer and maker Jermain Todd.
SOCOCO LLC MYSOCOCO.COM
choose from another exclusive scent in Our Saint Louis scent pays homage to the city that brought you Sococo Co., and reminds us that no matter where our journey in life takes us, there’s no place like home. Order our hometown scent today or choose from another exclusive scent in our hand poured candle collection.
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KEEYAHRI @KEEYAHRI Her iconic “swirl” heel was inspired by Hiroshi’s Nakamura & NAP architects “Ribbon Chapel” in Japan. With global and aesthetic inspirations, Keeyahri shoes are a trendsetter must-have and even feature a leather thigh boot collab with Beyonce’s stylist Zerina Akers. Founded by Keya Martin, Keeyahri shoes are for the woman who walks with confidence.
ANYA LUST @ANYA_LUST Anya Lust is a lingerie dreamland, created for free-spirited women to revel in pleasure and all that makes life so incredibly beautiful. Find in-house brands and curated collections of the silkiest teddies, lace bras and panties, stockings and garters. Based in New York, Anya Lust ships across the US and to 200 countries worldwide.
DISTRICT OF CLOTHING @DISTRICTOFCLOTHING Founded in 2014 by owner and designer, Dionna Dorsey, District of Clothing is a lifestyle brand encouraging progression, inspiring action and supporting self-love. Our items are for the sideline rejectors who awake with passion for progress and desire to make their dreams reality.
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DALLAS HOLLAND
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he is Beyond anything you may assume. She is the definition of a woman on the go. How does this loving mother of one, serial entrepreneur, mentor, devoted family member and friend find the time to do it all—and still manage to serve up every bit and embody the term DIVA? I don’t know. Moreover, how she pulls it all off with an air of confidence and certitude while never missing a beat, is enough to make the world take notice. She is Dallas Holland. After embarking on her entrepreneurial aspirations as a teen, Dallas Holland spent her early adult life learning to navigate through the wild waters of the business world. As 19year old entrepreneur, Holland faithfully and fearlessly launched her first business and never looked back. In 2012, Holland shifted her brand to the Beyond conglomerate with the launch of Beyond Care Property Management, which still serves to assist property owners with property-management needs, including providing credit screenings for prospective tenants. Nearly a decade later, she’s expanded her emerging empire to include multiple
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services and increased her reach by starting a series of ventures that have blossomed far beyond her wildest dreams. Because she understands the importance of quality care in the home as well as the importance of social interactions for the clients she serves, she expanded her vision. Holland, a nurturer by nature, began Beyond Care brand in 2014 with Beyond Care Home Services (5227 Delmar Blvd.) and Beyond Care Adult Day Center (5225 Delmar Blvd.). On a mission to help families care for their loved-ones by a team of professionals trained to provide services with care and compassion—whether in the home or at the adult day care center—Beyond Care allows families peace and comfort while they work to maintain their busy lives. Holland recently created educational opportunities for the people of the community with the start of her BeyondEDU Medical Training School (www.BeyondEDU.com). Offering affordable educational options allowing for an increase in employment opportunities as a Certified Nurse’s Assistant
black owned and Phlebotomy Technician, BeyondEDU is poised to be an educational asset to the community. EKG Technician, Patient Care Technician, and Medical Billing and Coding courses will be offered soon, as she plans to expand her educational portfolio in the near future. BeyondEDU also offers courses for healthcare workers that include Blood borne Pathogens and CPR certifications—both providing the necessary continued education courses needed to properly fulfill regulatory requirements. Holland gained national recognition with her Beyond Sweet brand. Offering savory shakes with flavors like banana pudding, turtle, and cookies and cream—each of her many combinations exist to excite the palate into sensory overload. While satisfying the cravings of the crowds of customers that cram into her shop located at 5109 Delmar Blvd., Beyond Sweets also offers an array of food for fans of the brand to feast. Her bold and exciting combinations coupled with a delicious dessert is a hit across the board— so much that the Beyond Sweet brand has a franchised location in Dallas, TX. As a mentor, a motivator, and philanthropist, Holland made a move founded the Facebook group BillionHeiress Girls Club, where a network of emerging and established entrepreneurs come together to support and uplift each other as they grow. “BillionHeiress Girls Club started as a name of myself and my closest friends’ group chat name.” Holland added, “We, the founders, are all entrepreneurs and have always done community outreach and we just decided to bring others into a group that helps with best practices and holding the hands of other black women in business.” “I set the page up about 9pm one night and literally when I woke up, there were thousands of members. It was very exciting and overwhelming.” Since its inception, the BillionHeiress Girls Club on Facebook has over 35 thousand members exchanging resources and building a beautiful black business community that connects women of color beyond the borders of state lines. “I firmly stand on the motto, ‘collaboration not competition.’” Holland elaborates, “I believe that being there to assist other women in business and also gravitating to a woman in business that you
can learn from is pivotal.” The sisterhood and connections sustained in the group make the BillionHeiress Girls Club a staple in social media circles. Even with her hectic schedule, Holland always makes time for her most important role of all, being an incredible mom to her 11-year-old son, Austin. “As a mother, I limit my days so I get off every day no later than 5pm. It’s dinner being cooked, homework with the kid and TV shows after that.” With a firm understanding of the importance of ownership, financial freedom, and generational wealth, Holland has a goal of ensuring Austin’s financial future is secure. Along with her collection of companies, Holland’s moniker, Ms. Monopoly, stems from the board game she enjoyed since childhood. With plans to buy back the block, she began purchasing property in the community she called home as a child. “Buying the neighborhood in which I grew up in is important to me. I have multiple properties that I have purchased in the community that I grew up in—and up until a matter of months ago—lived in.” Holland continued, “I am very passionate about being a huge part of the revitalization that’s going on in what used to be my Black neighborhood, and now 50% of the street is diverse. It’s been our neighborhood for years. The values are going up, and I will make sure that we still own it!” Holland currently stands as an influencer, educator, mentor, and philanthropist with a passion for progression in both her personal life and in the community as a whole. Whether she’s organizing exclusive events or serving free food to the city, every person in which she interacts leaves with knowledge, love, motivation to strive to achieve higher heights in life. The gems the gains as she travels the world, somehow ends up serving the city. When asked about advice she’d give to people who want to carve their own path as entrepreneurs, she encourages everyone, “Just do it! Don’t let doubt and fear live in your mind. Take the chance. It’s worth it.” Find out what Dallas Holland is up to at: IG: @DallasHolland Email: DallasHolland@gmail.com
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St. Louis Owned Skincare Brands You Must Try Words by: Jasmine Osby
Everyone knows winter months in the Midwest can get cold and, for some, colder weather means dry or irritated skin! This spring, boost your current skincare regiment by checking out six skincare brands created by entrepreneurs from St. Louis.
Ziya Soul’s Base Coat is a must-have product that’s better than most lotions on the market and their Creamer, a vegan milk bath made of oatmeal, coconut milk, and essential oils, is perfect for everyone’s self-care regimen. @ziyasoulco
@tcmcollection
TCM is redefining cosmetics for men and changing the gender stigma’s associated with self-care. Most men not only neglect self-care, but also work in harsh conditions that can be rough on their skin. TCM seeks to change this and to create a space for black skin to receive proper care and nourishment.
shop local Created by Monique Renee, BRAVE Essentials was born after Monique lost her hair after battling and conquering cancer. After the hair loss, she sought out over the counter products to help her, but nothing was successful. One day, a close friend suggested she try making her own skincare and hair products. Her results were incredible and BRAVE began to transform the skincare health of herself and others around her. @brave_essentials
Get Leighed Cosmetics Self Love. Self Care. Skincare. Beauty made easy with natural, healthy, skin loving ingredients. Being mindful of the products you use on your skin is self love. @getleighedcos
Pure Vibes is bridging the gap between skincare and mental health with branded products that don’t just make your skin look good, but make you feel good inside too! Founded by Tiffany Wesley and Demetrius Neal, PV emerged after Wesley struggled with polycystic ovary syndrome (PCOS), a disorder that often affects your mood and mental state. So Wesley created the natural product she needed, one designed to make you Feel Well and Live Well. @ hellopurevibes
The self-proclaimed ‘Beard Collector’, Murphy has shipped her signature balm scent, Ego, all over the country since starting BTB during #NoShaveNovember and will be shipping her first international orders in a few weeks. BTB is also developing a beard growth oil to further heighten the male cosmetic experience. DELUX MAGAZINE
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e chose the name NandoSTL so you know exactly where he is coming from. This rapper/drummer has been smashing the gas making amazing music and bringing it to the music loving masses. I first caught up with NandoSTL at Starbucks on West Florissant in Ferguson, Missouri, a suburb of St. Louis Couny, Pre Covid on December 8, 2019. The brother was clean cut and dressed nicely in a suit jacket, matching trousers, and dress shoes. Flashing a winning smile he introduced himself and I got to know the relatively new, yet hungry artist. Beginning his music career one year prior to this meeting, I felt he was enthusiastic and also in for a number of dues that would soon need to be paid. Unflinching and with much confidence Nando discussed musical influences and experiences, even asking me, how it was that I came to know about him. I enjoyed being asked that question. I explained how someone shared a Facebook in studio performance that I thought was amazing, and that I noticed he was getting a lot of respect for his music from tastemakers I knew. All of this led me to search for other music and inquire more about him. It was a very impressive interview on a “Cool Lil Sunday”, which is the song I first heard of the artist. I sat down to write the story in February and the next thing I knew, my piece entitled, “Outside with NandoSTL”, was shut down along with the entire country. Now listening to a recording of our 2019 interview it’s funny and
almost sad listening to us talk about plans for the upcoming year. It was going to be huge for NandoSTL, ten paid gigs already lined up, plans being formulated for the upcoming project entitled, Bamboo dropping in March, which would feature his current hit, “Outside”, and much more. He told me that bamboo is the fastest growing plant in the world. The project was appropriately named and set to mirror his current progress as an artist but 2020 had different plans but would it stunt his growth? A whole year later and NandoSTL is still going strong. His Bamboo EP was well received by critics and adored by fans. While all his shows that were booked got cancelled including his own sold out, Steal the Show Concert, postponed twice before cancelling; he remained undeterred. “We had all these plans and the next week the whole world was shut down,” he told me as we talked over the phone in a follow up interview. He mentioned having to make business decisions for Bamboo, which minimized it’s overall impact. Fans loved it and were supporting the project but, it did not make sense to release visuals and not be able to perform. Nando decided to keep creating in the studio to be prepared when things would open up and slowly but surely that time is coming. NandoSTL’s first single of the year, “Here I Go”, dropped in February and is available now on all streaming services. It’s a bouncy bop that blends Soul and Funk genres produced by PDub the Producer. Recorded in Chicago at Classick Studios in November of 2020, the
whole band was on scene. Nando and background vocalist Bleu knocked it out of the park. Stylistically, the song checks every box braggadocious lyrics, emotion, dope cadence/flow, and sound of voice. Time spent in the studio creating paid off big. NandoSTL is honing his craft and is near mastery of his art; he is sure to garner even more attention in the days to come, but has no plans to release an album this year. Instead he will drop singles and visuals in preparation to perform in markets where his buzz is growing. In his voice you can hear how anxious he is to drop music. “Man I just want to kill these n*****s musically, because they are all saying the same sh*t!”, he tells me. The next single he will drop is, “Tinted Windows”, on 314 Day, March 14th, a day held in high regard for all St. Louisans due to our area code. His focus is now on preparing for more national exposure along with some surprises for his fans. It is very interesting how much difference a year can make especially one marked by COVID restrictions. For some they may have decided to slack and that is just blood in the water for someone as hungry as NandoSTL. When I asked him where he saw himself going with his music. He told me that he doesn’t even like the question or to consider it these days. “Five years from now as long as I am happy and NandoSTL the brand is happy I am cool,” he says. “As long as I am making music that I love and people can appreciate, then i’ll be cool”. Very wise and impressive words for an artist with so much promise and intellect ready to take rap music to a higher level. Stay tuned into NandoSTL.
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In the parallel of the onset of COVID-19 and the battle against the injustices that our Black communities are facing many are seeking out opportunities to enrich and support Black. In St. Louis, there are Black-owned restaurants and food businesses who have a broad range of cuisines, soul food, and vegan options that are true delectables. DELUX MAGAZINE
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GOURMET SOUL
1620 DELMAR AVE ST LOUIS MO 63103
Nothing beats great soul food and Gourmet Soul takes the cake or in this case, the Peach Cobbler! Gourmet Soul offers what it describes as Urban Soul Fusion Cuisine. Located in downtown St. Louis in a beautifully stored building, diners may have their fill of Gourmet Soul’s tasty offerings from Chef Lavinia McCoy’s kitchen. Reward yourself with their to live for Lamb Chops or Shrimp and Grits.
BEST STEAK
PRIME 55
6100 DELMAR BLVD ST. LOUIS MO 63112 This Upscale Urban Chophouse is Grade A and the perfect place for a date night or dinner party. Prime 55 takes fine dining and blends it with an urban chic vibe that is almost as juicy and delicious as their Char Grilled Bourbon Street 8 oz. Rib Eye. Prime 55 has two levels filled with ambiance each with it’s own full bar
BEST DONUTS
PHAROH DONUTS
202 N 9TH ST DOWNTOWN ST LOUI Pharoah’s Donuts owner Amon Aziz has been making donuts in St. Louis for two decades, but he’s only had Pharoah’s Donuts downtown since 2014. Keep an eye out, because the sign is hard to find, but once you step into this little donut shop, you’ll be a return customer. 26 March | April 2021
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THE MARQUEE RESTAURANT + LOUNGE 1911 locust st. louis mo 63103
The Marquee Restaurant + Lounge is a crowd favorite when it comes to having a blast with friends. Boasting a great menu with Lobster Rockefeller, Melanie’s Deluxe Cajun Pasta (our favorite), and other standard fare like wings in an assortment of flavors and you cannot go wrong. Add delicious cocktails and a turnt up house DJ then it is time to let the festivities begin! All of those elements would be reason enough to pop out to the Marquee on the weekend, but a wonderful atmosphere and professional and friendly staff is what makes it DELUX List 2021 material. For a great time that you know will last all night visit the Marquee!
CHINESE CUISINE
BEST VEGAN
LEFTY’S FRIED RICE
SWEET ART
Lefty’s Fried Rice has a menu that reflects its particular brand of Americanized Chinese food, blended with a couple of classic American items like burgers and fries. Customers can go for the assortment of fried rices – plain, pork, ham, chicken, beef, shrimp, duck, special (chicken, beef, pork, shrimp) and seafood (shrimp, crab, lobster) – or one of the spot’s variations on lo mein or the St. Louis classic St. Paul sandwich. Love crab rangoons? Make sure to try Lefty’s take on a spicy crab rangoon, or the fancier lobster rangoon.
SweetArt has become a staple both in the Shaw neighborhood and in St. Louis’ vegan and vegetarian community. Whether you are looking for a vegan sweet – a raspberry-lemon cupcake, cinnamon roll or fudge brownie – or a vegan dish – like the signature Sweet Burger or a Philly “cheezesteak” – SweetArt has food that will satisfy both vegans and carnivores alike.
3000 S JEFFERSON AVE ST. LOUIS MO 63118
6100 DELMAR BLVD ST. LOUIS MO 63112
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RANCE JOHN
2901 S JEFFERSON ST LOUIS MO 63118 A patron walks into Rance John’s barbershop and is instantly transformed into a King or Queen. Transformation from pauper to prince happens daily, several times a day in fact, all courtesy of the house professional groomers. People literally drive miles from one side of town to the Southside of St. Louis to sit down and have their mane tamed at Rance John Styles & Barbering. A professional with over 20 years in the business, a master barber and educator. Rance has created an experience and following to be admired.
BEST FULL FIGURE BOUTIQUE
HONEY’S CHILD BOUTIQUE
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Located in Unversity City, the Hideaway offers all the best flavors of Hookah and has really great food! From Wayback Wednesday to Trap Thursday ease the weekday stress and step into the best or for the weekend turn up you better arrive early enough because the Hookahs arent the only thing getting packed!
Established in 2012 this Upscale St. Louis fashion boutique sprang onto the scene and has been serving up the best contemporary styles and designs available. Sporting both women and men’s styles in their showroom and online you are guaranteed to be the freshest dressed at the event or just lounging. It takes time to build up a reputation as great as Mtrlstc and it is very well deserved.
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Honey’s Child Boutique is St. Louis’ first and only premier boutique for full figure women. We offer unique, fashion-forward pieces created by some of today’s most renown PlusSize designers. Each item is hand selected by the owner, Letitia Young, to ensure that only the highest in quality and fashion is represented in our store. With new weekly arrivals, there’s always something dope to add to your wardrobe. They offer a wide array of flattering dresses, fabulous tops, skirts, denim and accessories that can take you from work to play, all in one day!
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KAZI SOCIETY
1204 WASHINGTON AVE #402 stlmo Kazi Society prides itself with connecting executives, creatives, and rising entrepreneurs through an inclusive network full of culture and opportunity. “Kazi”, translated as “work”, in Swahili captures the essence of what this studio is all about. This Podcast studio, Collaborative Space, and Community building platform is the brainchild of native St. Louisan Jami Dolby. Join Kazi Society today.
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When these three get to talking there is no telling where the conversation will lead. Show hosts Allen Brown, Harlem B Marie, and Rhashad Whittier keep the topics fresh and relevant as they explore popular topics. Apart of the SOLC Network the crew can be seen and heard on your favorite podcast streaming platform. Witty, irreverent, and always honest tune in and get hip. Show topics such as,” Lori Harvey Runs the Streets” or “Are You Going to Delete Your Exes Nudes” will not only keep you laughing but you may also learn something.
Born out of the experiences and knowledge gained on the northeast corner of the intersection of 39th Street and Castleman Avenue, in St. Louis’ historic Shaw Neighborhood, 39 Castles Sneakers & Style is the culmination of everything that makes this city and the sneaker community great! 39 Castles Sneakers & Style is THE intersection of community, style, art, innovation and the love of sneakers. Always remember, at 39 Castles Sneakers & Style, (YOU) our clients will always be treated like royalty and like family. Kicks. Style. Glory. Your Throne Awaits.
8369 olive blvd university city mo 63130 A professional and luxurious salon setting with hospitable amenities and infinite service possibilities. Formation Salon and Spa is the home to highly motivated business professional with industry leading technical abilities. We hope you will come visit and love the Formation Salon and Spa family. a dynamic collection of beauty brands and customer service driven professionals. Individually each of us has worked hard to brand ourselves/business in our own image and collectively we value three core principles for success: Professionalism...... Integrity
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delux 314 day 314 Day is about the people and places rooted in culture and creativity that makes our city so special. Throughout the pages of our special edition, we will celebrate the contributions and collaborations that have given us monumental moments as a collective community.
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ver since, vegan company The Slutty Vegan expanded to a permanent location in Atlanta to alleviate the five-hour wait times that 500 customers endure during the winter at its food truck. The Slutty Vegan truck debuted in August with a menu comprised of provocatively named vegan burgers, including The Fussy Hussy, One Night Stand, and Ménage à Trois—all made with an Impossible Burger patty. “We know it’s bigger than just burgers and fries. We are connecting the culture to something new,” owner Pinky Coles told local news station 11Alive.
“For years, veganism has not been something that has been welcome in our community because we probably didn’t have the resources or the information. Most of the people who come out here are loyal supporters; they wait five hours in line to support us.” Cole encourages meat-eaters to sample her burgers in an effort to spark positive conversation around vegan food in Atlanta. In addition to the permanent restaurant (which attracted 1,200 customers on opening day), Cole will continue to operate the food truck, where she has served celebrity guests such as musician Snoop Dogg and actor Tyler Perry.
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NIDDY Words by: Seven L. Maxwell
ornell Thirdkill, Jr. has talked himself into some incredible opportunities to reimage the social landscape in St. Louis. Known affectionately to many as Niddy, he took an interest in entertainment at an early age and pursued a path as an artist in the music industry. Through a series of conversations and connections, he became a tour manager for artists, arranging international events and tours before transitioning into an entrepreneur, hosting the most elite events in the bi-state area and beyond. After working for years in the background of some of the hippest hangouts in town, Niddy began brand building in the late 2000s after learning from the leaders of local club scene and his travels. He created a Nightlife luxury lifestyle brand that catered to young professionals. “I always wanted to bring the nightlife to the city, for the love
of the city. I was like, ‘Damn, this is home for us, why do we have to pay for a flight, go get a hotel room, get a rental car, just so we can go to Miami and pay nine hundred dollars for a bottle; or pay two, three, four, five thousand dollars for a booth?’” He continued, “Obviously it’s cool to be in a vacation mindset, and people want to get out the city and enjoy themselves, but at the same time, it’s like, why not have something like that at the crib?” Thirdkill worked very hard and created Fetish Fridays, a weekly series hosted by celebrities. Everyone from Kevin Hart, Nelly, Angela Simmons, Karreuche, and more hosted. 50 Cent, Ghost, and Tommy would also make an appearance. Other successful series would be developed, like STL Live, a Wednesday, mid-week affair also for young professionals. A live band, an open bar, and light Hor d’euvers for attendees making it through the work
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week. It would be the weekend; however, where Niddy loved to create social event masterpieces, Social Saturdays, Status Sundays were all packed with tastemakers, local, and national celebrities. All of Niddy’s events were spectacles, even his Bubbles, Brunch and Beats concept Hookah and Syrup drew packed venues, so logically the next step was expansion, Hush LA and Hush Miami took those cities by storm and at the center was Niddy. Of course, we can’t forget club Envy—which became a status symbol in St. Louis where the exclusive hosted events, and the upscale clientele went to party. While managing his projects from inception to implementation, the Privileged Society, LLC, president’s creative collaborations often leave St. Louis socialites with memories of a magical evening. Eventually, Niddy expanded his business portfolio from night life to restaurants. With the launch of Cork and Slice, he brought the city a niche restaurant that focused on perfectly pairing specialty pizzas and wines 36 March | April 2021
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for consumers’ date night delights. Life came to a halt when he found himself facing legal troubles, leading to a 26-month bid in a federal camp. “Everything I was doing was a blur. So I had I to take an introspective look at a lot of things and I had to figure out how do I grow. I spent a lot of time reading. I tried to read at least one book every couple of days. I was just really growing and trying to polish up and perfect my craft. “My time away was really healthy. I was always in good spirits. My lady was always there for me. She always held me down, so my spirit was always high. I just always knew that I really didn’t have to change nothing I was doing when I came back. The only thing I had to do was do what I was doing—better. I spent that time just growing. I wasn’t really concerned about what was going on with the nightlife. I was really focused on just building me.”
“Now that I’m back, I tell people I’m better and not bitter. I’m not bitter because I was able to grow and I was able to learn myself more than I ever knew myself before. Now I was able to understand what people go through when they were incarcerated. Now to be able to relate and connect to those people who were at the lowest point in their lives, it makes me value life differently.” His understanding of sentence disparities brought to the forefront the realization that a lot of people are overcharged and over-sentenced changed his perspective to become more involved in criminal justice reform and social initiatives to boost the community value of the youth before they get caught up in a system that continues to fail them. His personal experiences motivated him to start his Grit and Grace foundation. “You gotta have grit when you’re going through something, and you always gotta believe that with grace, you’re gonna come out of it.” There’s a lot of people going through a lot, and it’s a lot of people getting left behind and overlooked. I just want to bring light to a dark situation.” Even in his darkest hour, Niddy had the love of his lady and their brand new baby to keep him optimistic. He even credits those around him for helping him to comeback stronger than ever before. With his eye on the future, Hush’s head honcho has plans on expanding the brand in other cities, implementing his Grit and Grace foundation; he’s working on a docuseries, a book, and podcast to help spread knowledge to anyone wanting to learn from his wealth of knowledge. “The love that I gave out has been reciprocated. I have so much gratitude and appreciation for the people who have reached out their arms. Whether it was a kind word, or a fist emoji, or they sent the strong arm or praying hands, or reaching out to my lady on her Instagram.” “At the end of the day the love’s been reciprocated and it only makes me wanna love the city back harder.” Keep up with Niddy at: IG: @NiddyGritty • Twitter: @Niddy314
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AGAINST ALL ODDS Words by: Seven L. Maxwell
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hen people hear the name Orlando “Pretty Boy” Watson, they are reminded of the entrepreneurial accolades he’s amassed in over two decades in the entertainment industry. He’s carved a lane that curated the hip hop culture in the city of St. Louis; founded the youth organization Lift to offer opportunities, education, and alternatives to the youth from areas plagued by poverty; brought fine dining to the Delmar Loop; and stood out on the front lines defending black bodies against police brutality. Quite simply put, Orlando is a St. Louis superhero—more importantly—to his wife and four children, he’s their entire world. He’s worked hard to provide for them, and now he’s fighting harder than ever to live for them. In 2006, Orlando discovered a hematoma between the joints in his knee causing him to seek alternative treatment options in Mexico. Upon his return, he elected to follow the prescribed course of treatment and received rounds of radiation, leading to his remission status. After reporting a clean bill of health for five years, the inaugural event he threw with the purpose of celebrating his life turned into a celebration of survivors and grew from there. Orlando lost his mother to lung cancer in 2012. This devastated him to the core, but it fueled his desire to continue the fight for families affected by cancer by honoring their strength though support and assistance in their time of need. For 13 and a half years, Orlando had no health issues. He spent those years as a serial entrepreneur, promoter, producer, and manager—wearing many hats and serving as a symbol of success for urban youth. 2019 brought back a familiar foe in the form
of a post-radiation sarcoma caused by the radiation he received in his previous battle with cancer. Because of its aggressive nature, the prescribed course of treatment involved him privately having the bone from his thigh to his knee removed and reconstructed. This temporarily provided a solution, until the pain in his lower extremity became extremely unbearable. Necrosis quietly crept in and Orlando was left with no option but to amputate his leg to save his life. For two weeks, Orlando has been recovering from his surgical procedure and adjusting to his new reality. Although Covid has slowed down business, Orlando has been spending his time bonding with his incredible wife of over 20 years, Michelle; his four beautiful children, ages 25, 15, 14, and 10 years of age; his father; and his amazing village which remained faithful to his focus and vision. Following his previous procedure, Orlando has been receiving treatment from top oncologists at the Siteman Cancer Center due to the metastasis of the cancer cells to his lungs. With his current course of treatment, there’s still light at the end of the tunnel. He’s faithfully following God on the journey in which he’s been assigned. Orlando wants to thank you for all of your incredible love, prayers, and support as he and his family continue along their faithfilled road ahead to healing. “Let’s use this time to focus on the important things. Too many people have been focused on the wrong things. 2020 taught us that anything can happen at any time, and it could all be over in an instant.” --Orlando Watson
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hat a ride!! Took us thirty years to get here, but what a ride. Eddie Murphy & Arsenio Hall are back as Akeem & Semmi in the sequel to Coming To America, Coming 2 America (See what they did there? Huh?) After three decades, we are returning to Zamunda to embark on another madcap adventure. Amazingly, almost every single actor still living from the original came back for the new film. The basic premise of the film is that Akeem’s father King Joffe (James Earl Jones) is on his deathbed and informs Akeem that he has a son he never knew about living in Queens, NY. The law in Zamunda says only a male heir can become King. Since Akeem and Lisa have only had daughters, Akeem is being encouraged by his father to find this “bastard” and bring him home. I’m not gonna give the play by play of this movie. Instead, I’m
going to say what you really came here to find out: Did Coming 2 America do justice to the original? Yes it does. The meticulous way they feed you fan service, bite by bite, is outstanding. This is a little more of a family film, but it still holds its own weight. Allow me to give Leslie Jones her flowers right now! She did an amazing job playing Akeem’s estranged “baby mama”. Her skillset was put to good use in a way that was so natural. Originally, Eddie wanted Tracy Morgan to play his son. Thank God Eddie was talked out of it, because Jermaine Fowler did a good job playing Akeem’s son Lavelle Junson. Tracy was better used as “Uncle Reem”, the only father figure Lavelle has ever known. It’s not the funniest comedy ever, nor is it unpredictable. The only true oddball moments in the movie are the music performances: adapting classic songs to fit the storyline was a little cringy, but adorable and
accepted. Wesley Snipes was over the top theatrical, yet convincing in his role as “General Izzi”, the lovable and ruthless dictator of the neighboring country Nextdoria. Fantastic performance from Kiki Layne, playing Princess Meeka, the underappreciated eldest daughter of Akeem. So many cultural topics/issues are addressed in a drive thru type way, but still were a strong part of the overall storyline. So much was covered in so little time. This film is a good old fashion wacky family comedy. It could never live up to the expectations of Coming To America’s die hard audience, but Coming 2 America did do the original justice. Their is no way you can watch this and not be nostalgically satisfied when the credits roll. Enjoy yourselves and let your soul glow while watching the pop culture family reunion that is Coming 2 America. Talk soon…. DELUX MAGAZINE
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AMERI ERICAN SKIN Why It Failed to Tap into My Black Imagination
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merican Skin, while attempting to be provocative left me feeling emotions that I have felt so many times before— annoyed, irritated, and triggered. For me, prior to watching, I had a sliver of hope the message would strongly resonate with me. Or at the very least leave me wrestling with what I had just witnessed, neither was achieved. In watching films like this I often remind myself of the targeted audience; of who the creator is directing their message to. Now, by no means am I saying do not watch this nor am I judging one for their emotions or perspective around it. I am merely one voice, with one perspective. Let me attempt to offer a bit of that perspective, now. Art is subjective, it is meant to provoke thought and emotion. It can and will be dissected or critiqued by the audience. It can bring forth folx to move into action and invoke change. For me, I can say that this film has brought forth further clarity and affirmation around the art I want to both digest and create. I am no longer interested in continuously subjecting myself to things that reminds me of the traumatic plight and experiences of Black people in this country. While, I recognize our stories of the Black experience must be told and the truths of these stories are often filled with pain and rage, I dare to push.
Push as it pertains to fictious storylines. Push to expand our imagination. Push that if we are going to promote and create art as a counter to these truths such as ‘American Skin’ and the film I love to hate, ’Queen & Slim’ then why leave us with outcomes that are not a counter at all. Why does it almost always end with the trauma and pain? Why can it never end with the joy, triumph or in this case revenge. I know I am not alone in the curiosity around viewing American Skin being partly due to the alluding that justice would prevail, by any means. That the Black man would avenge the death of his son, another victim of state violence, by any means. Instead, of the revenge story many of us were either overtly or covertly hoping for, we get another showcase of Black and Brown humanity. The most intense part of the film shifts into this showcase by way of dialogue that begs the viewer to understand the Black experience as it relates to policing and the systems of justice in this country. It becomes a film that shows and promotes Black and Brown folx humanity. In the end it becomes a film that creates space for the other side. For the soldiers that withhold these oppressive systems to promote and show their humanity as well.
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I know some are reading this asking “what’s wrong with that?” Nothing. There is nothing wrong with promoting our humanity, but why must Black folx go to such great lengths to do so. Why must we always expose our wounds, our tears, and get the perpetrators and offenders of our oppression to see that we are not inherently bad people. That we are some of the good ones.
I push myself daily to reimagine. I do work in social justice and so much inspiration comes from the “what we want the world to be”. I live by an ideology that is rooted in liberation by way of transformation and not reformation–which ultimately means I believe we must destroy and rebuild to see true change. As one who has curated art shows and art exhibitions
Why must we carve out space for the perpetrators and offenders of oppression and injustice to show us they have a soul, too. While, simultaneously killing us. If Black creatives are going to play with ideas that liberate Black folx, if nothing but in our imagination, then shoot for the stars. Allow us to feel liberated in the beginning, middle and most importantly the end. Too often in the end we still manage to appease those who don’t see us and don’t care to. We are careful to not make things too uncomfortable for the audience or risk the consequences of what such creation and promotion can do. Can we be successful and live with the aftermath of such consequences? Or are these consequences merely perceived in our minds? The mind of an oppressed psyche. The minds of Black folx. For some of us we can’t imagine beyond our traumas or pain. Our imaginations won’t allow us to see resistance, liberation and joy but so far.
in the city of St. Louis for a little under a decade, I am pushing myself to curate and create art that promotes this resistance, joy and liberation. Art that pushes Black folx to want more. For us to not accept business as usual. I am not saying we ignore reality or that we re-write history. However, I am saying if we are going to digest art then let’s digest art that inspires us to re-imagine and reenvision our lives, our Black experience.
Art that can push us to reimagine our realities in the country. Push to dismantle all these systems that did not have us in mind and build ones that we create. Imagine and envision liberation that is not just abstract but concrete. To do it radically and not passively. To see beyond the narratives that have been placed in front of us. Imagine our existence with an abolished prison system and police state. Imagine not subscribing to capitalism and c o n s u m e r i s m because its rooted in exploitation. Imagine our babies having access to quality public education. Imagine access to quality and affordable healthcare for all. Imagine everyone making a living wage. Imagine quality and affordable housing for all. Imagine us thriving and not simply surviving in this country. Imagining and believing that it can be real and most importantly, achieved. An existence where a 14-year boy doesn’t get killed in real life or on film by an officer because of bias and hate with no consequence or repercussion. An existence where a 14-year boy doesn’t get killed by one that looks like him because of the environment and circumstance in which he lives. An existence that has joy that is un-fleeting. I want art that makes me feel that, abundantly.
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hen I crave beef, and I need to satisfy my taste buds with a thick and juicy hamburger, I tend to stray away from typical fast food burgers, which is why I decided to pay Bus Loop Burgers a visit. I was enticed by their as advertised, Certified Angus Beef, cooked to order, 100% ground chuck, hand crafted smash burgers. So I walked in, I was greeted with a rich aroma of sizzling beef, while immediately noticing the open kitchen, and a large griddle steaming away with hot and juicy looking burgers. I couldn’t wait to order, but I didn’t want to rush; so I told the friendly attendant that I wanted to take my time and check out their menu. After a little deliberation, I decided to go with the Mushroom Swiss Supreme double patty, a Nathans Big Beef Dog, and a large fresh cut french fries. Yes, this is a lot of food, but I went in hungry, not wanting any competition in my tummy to ruin my appetite. After all, this was supposed to be an experience, a moment away from processed burgers at other restaurants; I wanted a gourmet burger, I wanted burger heaven, I wanted burger bliss. So do I take my burgers seriously…you darn
Merrily, I set the tone with a little, “Whats Beef” by Biggie Smalls…(just kidding)! No music needed, the symphony of paper bag rustling, and foil wrapped food unfolding was music enough for my ears. The optics were just like I like it, juicy looking beef patties hanging off the side of the bun, while garnished with just the right amount of topping. I don’t even want to eat it, I just want to stare at it, because it just looks so dang good… but I have to. I have no choice but to annihilate this illustration of burger nirvana. So here it goes, it’s hot, its juicy, it’s flavorful, it’s seasoned- I think I’m in love…bingo! Like any tag team or duo, what’s a burger without fries, like Batman and Robin. Before I could get in a good swallow, I had to blend the flavor of the fresh cut fries to see if their beef and potatoes could happily coexist. To their avail, the seasoned fries tasted right on time, and I found myself drifting away into burger and fries Americana. Oh, by the way, in case you were wondering what happened to the hot dog, I gave it to my partner. When I told her I was going to a burger joint I offered to bring her one back, and she said that she would rather have a hot dog, but I was unaware if they were available. Well, lo and behold, it looks like Bus Loop Burgers has a little something for everybody, and as far as the hot dog, it was tasty, alike the burger and fries.
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fter a personal struggle with nurse burnout and talent acquisition challenges, I wanted to create an online labor marketplace connecting hospitals to nurses, on-demand. I then led Provider Pool from idea stage to revenue generation in less than 6 months, securing investors, customers and top talent along the way. After staffing dozens of healthcare organizations with nurses, two things really stood out to me: one, no matter how much tech we build, we still need more nurses! (Unless we start building robot nurses which will probably happen soon!) and two, we need more diverse nurses. 80% of nurses are white. I’m on a journey to ensure that the diversity within the workforce directly mirrors the diversity of the patient population we care for every single day. I’m doing this through my Future of Work/Future of Education platform, Provider Pool. Of the incredible people and organizations that have backed me on this journey, I give a HUGE thank you to Arch Grants for a $50,000 cash grant awarded to me back in 2019. Since then, I have raised over $1,000,000. DELUX MAGAZINE
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nrealistic expectations based on gender and race often reveal the unique challenges that keep Black men out of therapy. The expectation that being a man and being vulnerable shows a sign of weakness, in which they are often subject to ridicule and shaming for what are natural and healthy expressions of emotion. For these men, this creates a sense of isolation and resentment as they struggle with how to process and talk about their emotional experiences. Dear Fathers, an organization founded by St. Louis natives Jesse Alex and Lamar Johnson Jr., is aiming to address the inequities of Black mental health by building a therapy space and network for Black men and fathers to unpack, fellowship and connect. “We started brainstorming the black fatherhood space and seeing what was out there and wanted to come up with something that was impactful and wanted to do it differently,” said Alex. “We are responsible for our mental health, but we need help and support.”
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That’s when they reached out to Brad Edwards, another St. Louis native known for his community service work under his organization The Talented 10th Collective: a platform that provides manpower to area organizations tasked with uplifting and changing communities mentally, physically, and economically. Through their collective resources, they launched “STR8 MENTAL”, a free, virtual therapy service aimed at connecting Black men to mental health practitioners while also providing a safe space to those experiencing life-changing events to express their concerns through live discussions guided by a specialist. “I hosted our first session right before I went into the hospital to have my daughter,” said Edwards as he smiled. “For a lot of these guys it’s the first time they have had any experience with a healthcare professional. It’s therapeutic for us to hold these free flowing conversations and see the healing, and in turn heal ourselves.” The Str8 Mental virtual therapy sessions occur the last Sunday of each month in partnership with Dear Fathers and The Talented 10th Collective. The two-hour sessions, led by two Black male therapists, have had over 400 men participate since its start in May of 2020. Johnson, a father of two daughters, explained that the therapy sessions launched in the middle of the pandemic as COVID-19 started to uncover the systemic racial inequities evident in Black and brown communities. As a Black man, he felt ownership in addressing those issues facing his own people. “We ourselves are Black men and we all have things that we are going through,” said Johnson. “We just knew as men that we needed to talk. We didn’t think it would be this impactful and it just has been growing ever since.” After every session, the team receives praises from those participating about how the
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open dialogue amongst people that share similar experiences with them has been impactful and somewhat life changing. One participant acknowledged that: “It’s really crazy how few opportunities Black men have to be vulnerable in society – let alone amongst each other in real authentic ways.” Arron Muller, a clinical social worker and therapist based in New York who has attended the therapy sessions stated: “I enjoyed the opportunity to process, share and fellowship with the fathers during my time with them. Being able to engage in meaningful conversation about our mental health as men and fathers is the reason why! It makes me want to continue to do the work
as a mental health practitioner, because the work is important. Thank you to Dear Fathers and let’s continue to debunk the myths that men do not express their emotions.” Alex and Johnson started Dear Fathers in September 2019 based on conversations of growing up with an absent parent. The organization has become the premier media platform for black fatherhood by uplifting, educating, and telling stories from Black fathers around the world to their growing follower base. “We’re telling all these stories from the perspective of Black men, rather husbands, single fathers, stepdads, whatever it may be, I’m able to tap into that from every single story and now have access to so much information that I was missing growing
up,” said Johnson. “My perspective has changed on what a man is and even just what a Dad is.” Alex, who has suffered from anxiety and depression, explained that the Str8 Mental therapy sessions have created a safe space for him and others to open up about their personal issues and wants more people from St. Louis to get involved in the sessions. “We want to tap into all the communities that we are in, but most importantly the communities that we came from,” said Alex who grew up in the City of Jennings. “Our team is mostly people from St. Louis, and if we can work together, we can build something that’s bigger than all of us.”X Many therapists say that Black men are not receiving the care they need, either because of a lack of therapists in their communities, the high cost of care, or the stigma surrounding mental illness and getting treatment.
mental health services to Black men. “There’s so many different things that this platform can do, and we are doing, for the community,” said Edwards. “ People understand how important it is for the Black man to receive these services and to be exposed and normalize these conversations of taking care of your mental health. Coming to a session and being vulnerable and sharing is not a weakness. It’s strength to be able to face what it is that scares you and to be able to heal from it.” Dear Fathers continues to provide social support to Black men and fathers using information and prompts from their podcast, social media platforms and other community initiatives. This year, the organization hopes to connect with other like-minded individuals and businesses to strengthen their impact and reach through sponsored programs.
Dear Fathers is working on building a network of licensed mental health professionals and will be announcing an upcoming partnership to provide free
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lacluve pronounced (Black Love), is a collective made up of the two lead singers JLR aka BruvahLee, and MK (Ms. Kriss). Rhashad (Nerdee), Teddy Vee, James Daugherty of Cambrook Productions, and DJ Reminise make up the production and creative components of the group. The Blacluve collective formed out of the lack of substance they felt was missing from R&B, that boom clack soul BlacLuve’s first project, “Blacluve” focused on that organic sound from the 90’s, bringing that raw soul we have come to love from that era. On their most recent project “Blacluve, Vol 2.” they have focused on creating more of those harmonizing love songs we crave, and I suggest you check out their lead single “Vibrate”. BlacLuve... a soulful soundtrack to our lives, powered by love, and fueled by our being.
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