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Catechumens sign the Book of Elect to become the Elect March 6 during the Rite of Election at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen.

The Elect were scheduled to be baptized at the Easter Vigil Mass at their respective parishes. See coverage 13-14.

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Bishop: spread God’s peace, hope through Acts of Mercy Christ is Risen. He is truly Risen! Easter greetings and blessings to everyone in our beautiful diocese!

Bishop James Checchio Easter is the high point of the entire Church year. Holy Week and the Sacred Triduum: Holy Thursday, Good Friday and the Great Easter Vigil, is a time of great hope for us as we remember these sacred events of our salvation. Easter is truly the Solemnity of Hope! Of course, our great Christian hope is directed to eternal life for those who believe. Hope is given to us by God as a grace, a supernatural virtue, and it helps to get us through everything. Hope helps us to remember and believe that God is at work to redeem all things, regardless of how things happen to be turning out for me or us today.

This is an important message for us this year as we have struggled through these past two pandemic years which have caused us to question many things. The situation in Ukraine does the same. Likewise, perhaps we are confronted with challenging things in our own life and we certainly have challenges in our beloved Church.

Hope is a graceful character trait that assists us in such times. St. Thomas Aquinas, one of the greatest theologians of the Church, says that hope allows us to believe even when it does not seem possible.

Gratefully, the night before He died, Jesus gathered His disciples to celebrate the Last Supper. At that meal, we see communion and also what destroys communion: deception,

betrayal, violence, cowardice. Jesus believe, if we choose not to respond bring.

As we continue with our fortieth freely embraced all those things. His to this great event, then we do not resurrection is a triumph over them change. We are not really renewed by anniversary year celebration, I encourand all evil. On that awful yet wonder- the Easter mystery. This is the chal- age you to continue to deepen your ful Thursday night, Jesus gave us the lenge for us in our day, a day when friendship with Jesus throughout this Eucharist, the extravamany choose not to Easter Season. Make extra time to gant sacrament of hope It is only through believe, or do not let it spend with Jesus in prayer, with the for abundant life. At the prayer that hearts change them into mis- Scriptures or in the Eucharist. He is time when everything sionary disciples who our Hope! May your friendship with looked hopeless, Jesus are truly changed have to share the good Him help you to continue to spread His peace and hope through our Forty gave us Himself. others. and transformed newsInwiththese How we need the coming Acts of Mercy campaign throughout Eucharist and we need to by the power of days of the Easter season, the Easter Season. It is only through be people of hope, to live I pray that we all would prayer that hearts are truly changed and the Holy Spirit, always with the hope the re-double our efforts to transformed by the power of the Holy Eucharist and Resurrecbe people truly on fire Spirit, first our own hearts, then others first our own tion give us. At times with God’s love. We have through our prayer and acts of mercy. we may wonder where hearts, then others to be like the Apostles, Let’s choose to believe and be agents of we are heading. The after the resurrection hope in a time that so needs it. through our prayer who Know of my love and prayers for future may seem unsure and Pentecost, are on fire and at times confusing, and acts of mercy. and share the Good News you, and I count on your prayers for even threatening. That with everyone. The chal- me. This Easter, I once again entrust is particularly when we lenges we have faced in you and our diocese to the joyful heart need hope. Our belief is not supersti- our world and country over these past of the Virgin Mary, who is the Queen tion, naivete nor irrational nonsense. two years are signs that all is not well that rejoices, that her Son, who once Rather it is the decision to accept in with our world. Perhaps you know of was dead, is now alive and reigns!

Easter Peace and Joy, trust what God has spoken about Him- other challenges or losses, even within self. This decision is not irrational but your own life or with family and friends. rather goes beyond reason, above rea- Many people, and especially our young, son. It represents the opening of our are searching, confused, unsettled and heart to another, to God, who reveals hungry. Many are really yearning for Himself through Jesus Christ. a relationship, whether they know it or Most Reverend James F. Checchio, JCD, It is interesting that our Church not, with Jesus and to experience the MBA in her sacred liturgy on Easter Sunday peace and hope that only His love can Bishop of Metuchen does not present us with the Risen Christ in our Gospel. No, we are faced on Easter Sunday morning with the Gospel account from St. John and we are brought to the empty tomb. We are asked to be like the Apostles who run Bishop James F. Checchio is scheduled to the tomb, and discovering it empty, to ordain 15 men to the diaconate for the diocese choose to see and believe. There must have been plenty of other people who at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, saw the same empty tomb, but did not May 14, 10:30 a.m. The Class of 2022 is the first composed believe. They made excuses and rationalized the event, even suggesting of all Spanish-speaking candidates. that His body must have been stolen.

The resurrection of Jesus Christ is the definitive event that has changed the world, forever, but if we do not

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Bishop James F. Checchio announced the following assignments: Monsignor Joseph M. Curry, from parochial vicar, Immaculate Conception Parish, Somerville, to pastor, Mary, Mother of God Parish, Hillsborough, effective March 11 Father Mhonchan Ezung, from parochial vicar, St. Peter the Apostle University and Community Parish, and chaplain, the Catholic Center at Rutgers, New Brunswick, to parochial vicar, Immaculate Conception Parish, Somerville, effective April 1 Father Piotr Grzeskiewicz, C.Ss.R., new to the diocese, to parochial vicar, Christ the Redeemer Parish, Manville, effective March 25 Father John R. Pringle, to temporary administrator, St. Luke Parish, North Plainfield, effective February 14 Father John M. Rozembajgier, from pastor, Mary, Mother of God Parish, Hillsborough, to parochial vicar, Saint Thomas the Apostle Parish, Old Bridge, effective April 9, Father David V. Skoblow, from administrator to pastor, Our Lady of Mount Virgin Parish, Middlesex, effective February 11.

Franciscan Father Luke Mary Fletcher, to chaplain, The Blue Army Shrine, Asbury

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and that’s what everyone’s been doing here, including myself. That’s how the Lord has shown me his face.”

Other speakers talked of friendship with the Lord. Presenter Hillary Draftz, in sharing her personal testimony, said, “I knew that if God was going to be my best friend I had to talk to him every day.

“As hard as life with Christ is, it is absolutely worth it," she added.

Many said they were touched by

her words, including Break Ministry member Jasmin Alfaro.

“What the Lord has been speaking to me is to just really trust him, to dive more deeper into him,” Alfaro said.

“Being here made me realize how little time I give to him,” she added.

“The question that resonated with me was like, ‘Am I a good friend to God?’ ‘Am I being a best friend to him?’ ‘Is he my best friend?’

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THE CATHOLIC SPIRIT Posing at St. Cecelia Parish, Iselin, from left, back row: Ramil Caragay, Gabe Galvez, Fabian Duran, Dylan Mitzak, Erin Twohig, Father Jim, Zach Callahan, (middle) Maria Aria Miranda, (front row) Victoria Lindo, Sister Monique Eloizard, Jenthel Reyes, Carmela Sadaya, Kipsy Quevada, Sister Anna Nguyen and Megan Vantslot.

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from distinguished Catholic speakers, including Sister of Life Bethany For the second consecutive year, Madonna, Jason Evert, Father Mike Break Ministry, a young adult ministry Schmitz, Tina Augustine, and Dr. Edin the diocese, hosted a SEEK confer- ward Sri. In one of the keynote talks, Auence at St. Cecelia Church, Iselin, and gustine spoke about the importance St. James Church, Woodbridge.

The SEEK Conference, held Feb. of walking with one another in com4-6, was coordinated nationally by the munity.

“Fellowship is entering into the Fellowship of Catholic University Stulife of the people around dents (FOCUS). Typically, SEEK is held in a major “SEEK has really us. It’s entering into the parts of life,” she city where thousands of been pushing messy said, adding, “we are not college students and young adults gather in person. me to do more. meant to walk alone. We are meant to walk in comBecause of the coronavirus pandemic, however, this To be more ac- munity!”

Break Ministry smallyear (as well as last year), tive in my prayer group leader Gabe Galvez FOCUS adopted a hybrid version of the conference time and prayer spoke about what he and community experiwith livestream options for life and not to his enced during the weekend. people across the country “The Lord is showand the world to tune in shut myself up ing himself, like always with the goal of growing in loneliness for me, through secondfaith, engaging in fellowship, and encountering the or exile, but to ary means, through my brothers and sisters here,” broader Church. enjoy solitude Galvez said. “Being a Over the course of the leader lets weekend, about 30 young with him [God].” small-group me see how they gauge adults from the diocese’s —Fabian Duran the questions I ask and Break Ministry gathered how they engage each to participate in talks, Eucharistic adoration, small-group other in conversation. Through this discussions, Mass, confession, prayer, experience, I’m learning that the Lord and streamed keynote presentations wants each of us to wrestle with him,

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Life can knock us down, but story does not end there Body & Soul

By Father Glenn J. Comandini, STD When we think about the events leading up to the Passion, one theme is constant: Jesus was continually knocked down.

In fact, Jesus was knocked down in more ways than one. He was rejected by his own people. He was betrayed by one of his own friends. He was disowned by many of his relatives. And, when we thought it could not get any worse, he was executed on the Cross.

But the story didn’t end there. Jesus got up again! Not even death could keep him down. Not even the weight of our sins could keep him down. Not even the tug and pull of the devil could keep him down. Amen I say to you: Jesus got knocked down…but he got up again…because nothing could keep him down.

Like our risen Savior we, too, get knocked down from time to time, sometimes by disease, sometimes by

the infidelities of people dear to our collected and sent en masse, food, hearts. Sometimes we get knocked clothing, ammunition, weapons and down by high bills and low credit. medical supplies. More than 11 milSometimes we get knocked down by lion have become refugees in neighaddictions, domestic violence, abuse, boring Poland, Moldova, Romania, unemployment, by divorce or, worse, Hungary and Slovakia, In addition to the death of a loved one. those who have sought We’ve all got the bruises refuge in neighboring For Ukrainian to show how life in an countries, there are milOrthodox and lions who are displaced imperfect world can knock us down. fleeing their cities Byzantine Chris- after The poor souls which have been detians, Easter is a stroyed. Yes, the Ukraiin Ukraine have been knocked down by Rusnians have been knocked sian bombs, tanks and reminder that just down but they refuse to ground troops who, folas Jesus’ resur- stay down. They get up lowing the orders of a again as a people of faith, war-criminal, a dictator, rection followed a people of resilience, Vladimir Putin, are dehis crucifixion, who have a deep love stroying Ukranian cities, for their country, their so joy follows including their hospitals, culture and their history. schools, apartment buildFurthermore they are destruggle. ings and other facilities termined to keep Ukraine frequented by civilians. independent, sovereign Yet, under the leadership of Volodi- and united like the yellow and blue mir Zelensky, these Ukrainians have colors that make up their flag and held their own in this ongoing battle the words of their one verse national to remain independent of and over- anthem that every Ukrainian knows come Putin’s tyranny. The nations of and sings proudly regardless of the N.A.T.O. are all concerned as they see circumstances.

Ukrainians knocked down. They have For the Ukrainian Orthodox and

Byzantine Christians, Easter is a reminder that just as Jesus’ resurrection followed his crucifixion, so joy follows struggle. Easter is glimmer of hope that eclipses the atrocities and casualties of war that have painted the landscape of their beloved country.

As a global community, as members of the same species, as fellow children of God, we will gather this Easter to proclaim to the world that, despite the blow to our minds, hearts and bodies, “we got up again.” And we will continue to get up again because, as water was poured over our heads in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, we united ourselves to Jesus who, in turn, united us to our God and to each other who are the Church! From that moment on, we became heirs to the merits of the Cross, which means, we are beneficiaries to the glorious Resurrection!

Yes, my friends, our Lord does not promise that we will be immune from getting knocked down here or there, but he does promise that he will always be there to catch us when we fall! Happy Easter!

Father Comandiini is managing editor of “The Catholic Spirit.”

Faithful encouraged to participate in Synod process Over the past several months, the world has been struggling to recover from the social isolation caused by the pandemic. At the same time, political divisiveness and hostility is at an alltime high, making it difficult to have meaningful conversations. In recent days, we have been faced with horrendous images from the brutal conflict in Ukraine. Indeed, these are historic times.

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By Jennifer Ruggiero At such a time as this, Pope Francis is asking people across the globe to rediscover the forgotten art of “listening.” With his “Synod on Synodality,” Pope Francis is asking the whole Church to consciously imitate the listening style of Jesus.

Many people ask, “What is a Syn-

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od?” A Synod is both an event and a process where clergy, religious and the laity gather to discuss important matters of the faith. It is a collegial way of governing. By gathering and consulting the whole Church, Pope Francis is providing a path to renewal for both the Church and society.

To start, Pope Francis invited each local diocese to participate in the Synod and the Diocese of Metuchen is actively responding to his call.

We began our Synod process with an opening Mass and Meeting in October 2021, and subsequently formed a planning committee. which has worked behind the scenes to prepare the website (https://www.diometuchen.org/ synod2023) and materials for Synod Listening Sessions, including a Host Resource Guide, a Facilitator Guide and a Participant Guide (also available in Spanish). These resources, which have been made available to parishes and ministry groups who wish to hold their own sessions, were developed to help plan a listening session process that is consistent with Pope Francis’

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call to “Journey Together.” The Committee also ran two virtual Facilitator Training Sessions to prepare leaders for effective, spiritual conversations.

At the end of January, a 40-hour Eucharistic Adoration was hosted in a parish in each of the eight deaneries of the diocese as a way to help people to spiritually prepare for the Synod process by prayerfully reflecting on the questions put before us by our Holy Father. To date, we have held 13 Deanery Listening Sessions and at least seven Listening Sessions have been scheduled throughout the diocese for those who speak Spanish.

Listening Sessions have also been held for clergy and religious, Catholic school principals and teachers, Parish Catechetical Leaders and catechists, liturgical ministers, youth ministers and college and high school students.

Each listening session begins with prayer followed by brief instructions about the Synod process and ground rules for spiritual conversations. After this, small group discussions take place to reflect on questions such as, “How is journeying together happening at your parish today?” and “How does God speak to you through the voices of those in your parish and others in your life?” Participants are asked to share and to actively listen with an open heart to others and to the Holy Spirit. Comments are recorded for each group on a Synod reporting form that is later sent to the diocesan

Synod committee.

Plans are underway to reach out to those on the peripheries such as the homebound, those at homeless shelters, nursing homes, food pantries, the veterans’ home, immigrants and others who feel marginalized or do not share our Catholic faith. In late May, we hope to schedule additional listening sessions, both remote and in-person, for those who feel they have not yet been heard. Finally, we also have an online questionnaire available and we have already received many responses.

The diocesan phase of the Synod will be completed by the end of May, at which time all of the input from the many listening sessions will be synthesized into a 10-page diocesan report and sent to the United Sates Conference of Catholic Bishops.

The ultimate goal of the Synod is to practice a way of listening and hearing, of discernment and action, which remains faithful to the truths received, but pastorally responds to these truths in the context of the present time.

Hopefully, the Synod process provides a template for how to sit in the presence of each other, brothers and sisters, as people of God and members of the Body of Christ, to share joys, hopes and sorrows and to reaffirm the good and to reimagine what could be better in a post-pandemic world.

Ruggiero is secretary, diocesan Secretariat for Family and Pastoral Life

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Holy Father asks bishops to join consecration

First lady details suffering of civilians in letter

VATICAN CITY — Pope Francis has asked bishops around the world to join him March 25 in consecrating Ukraine and Russia to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, something bishops in every part of the globe had started announcing the minute they heard what the pope had planned. “Pope Francis has invited the bishops of the whole world, along with their priests, to join him in the prayer for peace and in the consecration and entrustment of Russia and of Ukraine to the Immaculate Heart of Mary,” Matteo Bruni, director of the Vatican press office, said March 18. Three days earlier, the Vatican had announced the pope lead the prayer in St. Peter’s Basilica during a Lenten penance service and that, on the same day, the feast of the Annunciation, Cardinal Konrad Krajewski, the papal almoner, would lead a similar act of consecration at the Shrine of Our Lady of Fatima in Portugal. When Mary appeared to three shepherd children at Fatima in 1917 with a message encouraging prayer and repentance, she also asked for the consecration of Russia.

LVIV, Ukraine — Ukraine’s first lady appealed to the World Council of Churches to “be the voice of those who suffer from war today.” In a letter to the Rev. Ioan Sauca, acting general secretary of the World Council of Churches, first lady Olena Zelenska detailed the pain she has seen in the weeks of the war. “I’m writing to you not as the first lady, but as a Ukrainian woman, a mother and a wife,” she said in the March 19 letter. “This is not even a letter, but the voice of my pain accumulated during these days of the war. It is horrifying to read the messages of Ukrainians on social media, searching in vain for their loved ones who have disappeared,” she wrote. “’The last time my sister [(brother, mother] called from the basement 10 days ago’ is how the messages begin.

Enemy forces cut off these cities from any help and opportunity to get out.

So thousands of Ukrainians are comforting themselves that their loved one is just in the basement without a connection. Everyone prays for them to be alive and finally pick up the phone! Today, our primary goal is for these people to finally pick up the phone, eat hot food, and receive the necessary treatment. But the enemy

Pope Francis touches the original statue of Our Lady of Fatima during a Mass at which he consecrated the world to Mary, in St. Peter’s Square at the Vatican in this Oct. 13, 2013, file photo. The pope has invited the bishops of the world to join him in “consecrating and entrusting” Russia and Ukraine to Mary March 25.

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Ukraine’s first lady, Olena Zelenska, shown in an undated photo, has appealed to the World Council of Churches to “be the voice of those who suffer from war today.”

—CNS photo/courtesy Ukrainian president’s press service

regularly thwarts our tries to create ‘roads of life.’ People who walk miles from the occupied cities on foot, carrying children, the elderly and animals are shot in the backs. That’s how six adults and a child died the other day while trying to enter the village of Peremoha in the Kyiv region.”

Saint’s relics to visit Diocese of Metuchen in May Support of refugees follows Jesus’ teaching

Relics of St. Bernadette are seen in this undated photo. The first U.S. tour of St. Bernadette’s relics began April 7 in the Archdiocese of Miami. They will travel to a total of 26 dioceses, visiting 34 churches, cathedrals and shrines, through the beginning of August. In 1858, between Feb. 11 and July 16, when she was 14, Bernadette Soubirous experienced 18 visions of the Virgin Mary, who called herself the Immaculate Conception.

Bernadette to make them aware of this grace,” he said, and the result is the upcoming tour.

A Ukrainian refugee at North Railway Station in Bucharest, Romania, cries as she says goodbye to a family member March 14, following the Russian invasion of Ukraine.

— CNS photo/Edgard Garrido, Reuters

faced rising challenges from those who say doing so encourages more people to come to the United States, especially from along the southern border.

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— CNS photo/Pierre Vincent, Sanctuary Our Lady of Lourdes, courtesy StBernadetteUSA.org

WASHINGTON — The Church’s charitable outreach to people fleeing war, political instability, poverty and other threats is a requirement for followers of Jesus, the Administrative Committee of the U.S. Conference of Catholic Bishops said in a March 17 statement. “Some may question why and how the Church supports refugees and migrants, regardless of race, creed or color, but the simple truth is that Christ identifies with those in need: ‘For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, a stranger and you welcomed me,’” the committee said, citing Matthew 25:35. Led by Los Angeles Archbishop José H. Gomez as USCCB president, the committee said various challenges have forced people to flee in search of safety and security and that their plight requires a Christian response. “This means that when people are hungry and knock at our door, we feed them. When they come to our door cold, we clothe them. And when someone who is a stranger comes, we welcome him or her. The Church does this everywhere she exists,” it said.

The statement comes as the efforts of U.S.-based Church agencies in ministering to migrants and refugees have

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MIAMI — The relics of St. Bernadette, the Marian visionary of Lourdes, France, will tour the United States for the first time. The visit began in South Florida at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in Miami, with a morning welcome Mass April 7. The next day the relics visited St. Bernadette Church in Hollywood, Florida, then returned to Our Lady of Lourdes Church. On April 11, Monday of Holy Week, Archbishop Thomas G. Wenski of Miami celebrated an evening Mass at the church, which was followed by a candlelight procession. The relics will stay at Our Lady of Lourdes until April 18, Easter Monday, when a multilingual farewell Mass will be celebrated.

The relics will go to two other Florida dioceses, Palm Beach and St. Petersburg, and then zigzag across the country to 23 other dioceses, visiting 34 churches, cathedrals and shrines. The last stop is St. Bernadette Church in Los Angeles July 31-Aug. 4. The full schedule of the relics’ U.S. tour can be found at stbernadetteusa.org. “I saw a great opportunity here, particularly with the current state of our world,” said Msgr. Kenneth Schwanger, pastor of Miami’s Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, who was instrumental in making this tour happen. “I started calling parishes across the country with the names of Our Lady of Lourdes and St.

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“So, I want to strive to be a better friend to him.”

In addition to hearing wisdom from speakers, and engaging in smallgroup discussion, the Break Ministry provided opportunities for adoration of the Blessed Sacrament and the sacrament of reconciliation.

Kipsy Quevada, vice president of Ministry Advancement for Break Ministry, who coordinated to bring the conference to the diocese, said, “I have a tendency to checklist my life and to rigiditize my schedule. And when I make a checklist of my life, especially my spiritual life, I lose intimacy with God. So, I want to figure out how to bring back that intimacy and rebuild my relationship with him.”

In a similar sentiment, Fabian Duran said he believes God has been speaking to him, that he needs to develop a better and closer relationship with him.

“SEEK has really been pushing me to do more,” Duran said. “To be more active in my prayer time and prayer life and not to shut myself up in loneliness or exile, but to enjoy solitude with him.”

The impact of SEEK22 empowered attendees to take on the missionary habits of growing deeper in their relationship with God, and to continue forming intentional friendships for the glory of God and the good of the Church.

Vantslot is director, diocesan Office of Youth and Young Adult Ministry

Unity Square awarded DCA grant

By Tiffany Workman NEW BRUNSWICK — Unity Square, a community organizing and social concerns initiative of Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen, was recently awarded $428,243 as part of the New Jersey Department of Community Affairs’ Neighborhood Revitalization Tax Credit (NRTC) Program.

“We are very pleased to be funded again by the Department of Community Affairs for our fourteenth Neighborhood Revitalization Tax Credit grant,” said Jennifer Hinton, program director for Unity Square. “The money will go to fund our initiatives at Unity Square, focusing on our Housing Resource Center, a variety of economic development and community programs, and food distribution through our Choice Food Resource Center.”

In addition to the awarded funding, Unity Square just completed and submitted its second 10-year Neighborhood Plan, “which was quite an achievement,” Hinton added.

The community center, located at 81 Remsen Ave., serves city residents living in the 36-block residential neighborhood, where it holds free food distribution

twice a week, offers housing assistance and community programs, and serves as a continued resource for residents in the community. During the pandemic, the site also offered PPE and free Covid-19 test kits, when available.

According to the website for the Department of Community Affairs, which administers the Neighborhood Revitalization Tax Credit Program, the program “is designed to foster the revitalization of New Jersey's distressed neighborhoods. NRTC offers business entities a 100 percent tax credit against various New Jersey state taxes.”

Unity Square was selected by Horizon Healthcare Services and TD Bank to receive funding and was among 19 nonprofit organizations in the state to receive a total of $14.25 million through the program, the largest amount ever awarded through the NRTC program.

Program funding is earmarked for revitalization plans that address housing and economic development, as well as complementary activities such as social services, recreation programs, employment training and open space improvements.

Workman is the Communications Specialist in the Office of Communications and Public Relations

Hospital receives Platinum Award

Above, young Catholics from the diocese participate in a small-group discussion about the impact of the Synod preparation process on their lives at the SEEK-22 Conference. Right, attendees also had the opportunity to pray before the Blessed Sacrament at St. Cecelia Church, including Ramil Caragay (left) and Kipsy Quevada.

The sacrament of reconciliation was also offered at the conference, which began at St. Cecelia Parish Feb. 4.

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The Commerce and Industry Association of New Jersey (CIANJ) and “COMMERCE Magazine” hosted the 2022 Companies That Care Awards Reception at Nanina’s in the Park March 23, paying tribute to the kindness and generosity of the business community.

Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick, as well as 44 companies, including leading manufacturers, retailers, banks and colleges and universities, were honored at the reception, attended by more than 100 business executives.

The diocese-sponsored Saint Peter’s University Hospital received a Platinum Award for its COVID-19 Community Response and Support. The hospital’s Community Health Services department has been at the forefront of efforts to reduce the risk of COVID-19. Saint Peter’s, whose Catholic mission is to provide humble service to humanity, especially the most vulnerable, administered 36,000-plus vaccines to adults and children, including those attending Catholic schools in the Diocese of Metuchen, at the hospital’s vaccine clinics and onsite at Carteret and New Brunswick public schools.

In partnership with Middlesex County’s Office of Health Services and the Healthier Middlesex Consortium, Saint Peter’s distributed Coronavirus Care Kits to New Brunswick’s hardest hit neighborhoods, Esperanza and Unity Square. According to registered nurse Marge Drozd, director, Community Health Services.

“These neighborhoods primarily consist of multi-family dwellings where many individuals live together in poor housing conditions, thereby increasing adverse

health conditions and the risk of spread. Our community outreach efforts seek to eliminate disparities that have a direct impact on personal health and access to healthcare resources. The materials we distributed included bilingual healthcare information, masks, hand sanitizer and soap to support residents’ prevention efforts.”

Distribution sites included local parks, churches and food distribution centers.

“Giving back and helping those in need is a part of the culture for all of the companies and organizations we are honoring,” said Anthony Russo, President of CIANJ. “We are glad that we can showcase all of their good works and honor them for their commitment to service even through the last two years while dealing with the global pandemic,” Russo added.

CIANJ is a statewide business advocacy organization, representing more than 900 corporate members from every industry sector. The organization asked the business community to share stories of its philanthropy. Their stories became a special section of the March issue of COMMERCE Magazine that was also distributed digitally.

This year’s winners were selected by a blue-ribbon panel of judges which included CIANJ board members John Corcoran, president and chief operating officer, D’Alessandro, Inc.; Cindy Myer, president, Ridgewood Moving Services; and Peter Webster, resident managing director, AON Insurance.

CIANJ is a unique network of businesses committed to improving and advancing the cause of free enterprise in the Garden State.

NEW BRUNSWICK — The scores of faithful inside Our Lady of Mount Carmel Church on a snowy March 12 morning dabbed at their eyes and sorrowfully walked towards the open casket of Father Manuel Lorente before the start of his funeral Mass. Many paused to make the Sign of the Cross, while others touched the hand of their beloved parochial vicar.

Music ministers began a familiar hymn, and the entire congregation joined in singing how God’s help would help them in their time of need: “Levanto mis manos, Aunque no tenga fuerzas, Aunque tenga mil problemas…

Todo eso es possible, todo eso es possible Cuando levanto mis manos. (“I raise my hands, even if I have no strength, even if I have a thousand problems…all is possible when I raise my hands.”)

Bishop James F. Checchio presided at the Mass for the longtime priest, who was ordained in Spain and served at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish for 20 years. Priests from the diocese, including Father Raymond L. Nacarino, pastor, and the deceased priest’s brother, Father Jose Lorente, also a parochial vicar in the New Brunswick parish, were among the concelebrants.

Father Lorente, 79, who died March 8 at his residence in East Brunswick, was born in Murcia, Spain, to José and

Ana Lorente. After graduating from high school, he entered the Major Seminary of San Fulgencio at age 19, where he studied philosophy and theology. He was ordained to the priesthood June 12, 1968, at St. Andrew the Apostle Church, Murcia.

Father Lorente served in a number of parishes in Spain and Ecuador before serving as parochial vicar at Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish from 1989-1996.

Returning to Spain, he ministered as pastor and parochial vicar in a number of parishes there.

In 2007, Father Lorente spent a year as parochial vicar in Dumas, Texas, before returning again to Our Lady of Mount Carmel, where he served as parochial vicar until his death.

At the conclusion of the funeral Mass, Bishop Checchio shared his reflections on Father Lorente, his words translated into Spanish by Father Nacarino.

“Today, we have a natural sadness as we mourn the loss of our friend and good priest,” the bishop said. “Whenever I visited, Father Manuel was always here, hearing confessions or tending to the kids. He always had a smile. He loved being a priest so much that it was obvious to everyone.”

Bishop Checchio extended his sympathies to the parishioners, who sat shoulder to shoulder in the pews, as well as those viewing the Mass via livestream, including the deceased’s brother and sister in Spain.

He concluded, “We are grateful you are here today to share in this moment of prayer. Father Manuel would want us to

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Bishop: It was obvious ‘Father Manuel Lorente loved being a priest’

Above, At the end of the Funeral Mass for Father Manuel Lorente, pictured at right, Bishop James F. Checchio says the prayer of commendation. To the right of him, standing in the middle of the casket, is Father Jose Lorente, parochial vicar, Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, where the brothers served. — John Batkowski photo carry on his work to bring more souls to Jesus… We are united in Christ.”

Father Lorente is survived by his brothers, Father José Lorente and Antonio Lorente, and sister, Ana Lorente.

Burial was at St. Peter’s Cemetery, New Brunswick.

Arrangements were handled by The Crabiel Home for Funerals, Milltown.

High school community mourns loss of coach who rebuilt program

By Alex Lowe Correspondent

Brian Meeney, 46, head football coach at St. Thomas Aquinas High School, Edison, died of a heart attack March 17.

— Michael Kowalczyk photo

ucation Association and the Bergen County Education Association.

Meeney is survived by his wife, Randi Cabana, and daughters, Madison and Reilly; and mother, Helene (nee Barchuk), and brother, Keith Meeney.

He was predeceased by his father, Laurence Meeney.

Visitation was held March 23 at the Trinka-Faustini Funeral Home, Maywood.

Cremation was private.

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“When I got the position as the AD at STA, there were only nine football players in the program,” said Smith. “I told Brian we have a lot of work to do. Going out every night to speak with youth programs, we enticed sixteen eighth-graders to enroll at STA.” Inheriting a team that went 2-8 prior to his taking over as head coach, Meeney led the Trojans to four wins in each of the next two seasons. In 2021, Meeney’s efforts bore great fruit as the Trojans went undefeated during the regular season, captured a divisional championship and registered eight shutout victories before finally being knocked out in the playoffs.

In his three seasons as head coach at St. Thomas Aquinas, Meeney watched more than a dozen of his players graduate and go on to play college football at institutions such as Villanova University (Pa.), University of Maine and Morehouse College, Ga. “He is known by all of us as a builder of programs,” said Smith.

Meeney also coached basketball and softball for the Maywood Recreation Department.

He was a member of the National Education Association, the New Jersey Ed-

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Brian Meeney, head coach of the varsity football team at Saint Thomas Aquinas High School, Edison, died of a heart attack while driving to work March 17. Meeney, of Maywood, was 46.

Meeney became head coach at Saint Thomas Aquinas High School (STA), Edison, three years ago when newly arrived athletic director (AD), Jerry Smith, called him to help revive a program that was languishing on the field and having trouble attracting players. The two had known each other from their days together at John F. Kennedy Memorial High School, Iselin, (JFK) where Meeney was a player and Smith was an assistant coach for the varsity team.

The two men traveled different paths before eventually reuniting at St. Thomas Aquinas. A football standout at JFK High, Meeney transferred to Perth Amboy Tech for his final two years of high school. While there, Meeney led its basketball program to the Group 1 state title as a senior in 1993.

He later played football and basketball at Rowan University, Glassboro.

Meeney went on to a head coaching

position at Newark East Side, where his team snapped a 55-game losing streak in 2017. Meeney also coached at Memorial of West New York; Bergen Technical Schools, Paramus, where he was a teacher; and McCorristin Catholic High School, now Trenton Catholic Academy.

Smith, meanwhile, eventually settled in as AD at Saint Joseph High School, Metuchen, where he helped develop that school’s successful varsity football program. While there, Smith got a phone call from his former player.

“Due to my relationship with Brian, once he heard I was an AD he reached out to me inquiring about the head coaching position at Saint Joseph,” said Smith.

“I told him I was sorry, I already hired a coach, but if ever I got a chance to hire a head coach no matter where I was, I’d give him a call. As fate would have it, I got hired at STA and immediately gave Brian a call to apply.”

By the time Smith was hired as the athletic director at St. Thomas Aquinas, he had to deal with a varsity football program that was not successful on the field and was struggling to attract players. Smith knew just the man he wanted to help him rebuild the Trojan football team.

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Bishop calls faithful to overcome indifference about war-torn Ukraine

By Tara Smith METUCHEN — Standing at the pulpit at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, with the sun shining through the stained-glass window, depicting the Annunciation, lighting his face, Bishop James F. Checchio reminded the congregation that filled the pews and those watching the livestream of Mary’s “yes” — her perfect model of discipleship and her missionary spirit.

“We are to be people of prayer, like Mary was. People who speak after listening to God. Then, we are supposed to bring the presence of Christ to others, to those especially who are in need of that Word,” the bishop said in his homily at the March 25 Mass on the Solemnity of the Annunciation of the Lord.

“Yes, we are called to help others recognize the presence of Christ that is already here right now. This is why the consecration of Russia and Ukraine are so relevant to us,” he said.

“We entrust them and all of us anew to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, but we also pray that we become missionaries to all people, especially to the vulnerable victims of this unjust aggression in Ukraine.”

On the same day and at the same time, thousands of miles away in Rome, Pope Francis also reflected on

the Blessed Mother’s “yes” and her The Pope’s renewal of the conintimate sharing in God’s plan, before secration came in response to the consecrating Russia and Ukraine to war in Ukraine and at the request of the Immaculate Heart of Mary. To- the Blessed Virgin Mary, who in her gether with bishops around the world, 1917 apparition to the three shepherd Bishop Checchio children in Fatima, joined in prayer and in Portugal, asked for the ‘Our hearts break communion with the consecration of RusHoly Father, so that all sia to her Immaculate as we see over might enter into and be Heart and encouraged three million fully at the disposal of prayer and repentance.

God’s plan.

She stated that if the women and In a letter to bishrequest was grated, ops worldwide, the “Russia will be conchildren fleeing Holy Father wrote, verted, and there will from their homes, “This Act of Consebe peace.” She warned, cration is meant to be leaving their home- “if not, she will spread a gesture of the uniher errors throughout land, and going versal Church, which the world, causing in this dramatic mowars and persecutions to generous ment lifts up to God, of the Church. The through his Mother good will be martyred; neighboring and ours, the cry of the Holy Father will countries’ pain of all those who have much to suffer; suffer and implore an —Bishop James F. Checchio various nations will be end to the violence, annihilated. In the end, and to entrust the fumy Immaculate Heart ture of our human famwill triumph. The ily to the Queen of Peace. I ask you to Holy Father will consecrate Russia to join in this Act by inviting the priests, me, and she shall be converted, and a religious and faithful to assemble in period of peace will be granted to the their churches and places of prayer on world.”

25 March, so that God’s Holy People The diocesan Mass and participamay raise a heartfelt and choral plea to tion in the Holy Father’s consecration Mary our Mother.” of Russia and Ukraine to the Immacu-

Clockwise from top left: the faithful receive Communion at Mass, during which Bishop James F. Checchio, who presided and gave the homily, consecrated Russia and Ukraine to the Immaculate Heart of Mary, at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi; students pray during the liturgy; Christian Charity Sister Mathilde DeLucy served as cantor; and many religious were among the congregation that filled trhe pews.

— Gerald Wutkowski Jr. photos

late Heart of Mary were the latest in a series of diocesan efforts to respond to growing calls for prayer and the needs of the Ukrainian people. Earlier in the month, Bishop Checchio participated in a Divine Liturgy at Ukrainian Catholic Church of the Assumption, Perth Amboy, and also invited parishes in the diocese to participate in a special Collection to Aid the Church in Central and Eastern Europe, which will allow the faithful to provide assistance to the victims of war in Ukraine and many other projects in the region, especially with refugees entering neighboring countries. Anyone wishing to support to the collection is invited to donate online by visiting: diometuchen.org/ Ukraine.

“Our hearts break as we see over 3 million women and children fleeing from their homes, leaving their homeland, and going to generous neighboring countries,” said Bishop Checchio.

“We are called upon not to be indifferent, not to be indifferent and think: ‘this is some far place away, what does it have to do with me?’

“But as Christians, as faithful disciples of Jesus, we are called not to be indifferent ever, but to join in assisting them, witnessing to Christ, praying and working for his peace to prevail.”

Smith is director, diocesan Office of Communications

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Green Day Bishop James F. Checchio, below right, marched in the Woodbridge American Irish Association’s 49th St. Patrick’s Day Parade March 13 in Woodbridge. Above, prior to the parade, Bishop Checchio posed with, from left, Ken Gardner, director, American Irish Association, and a member of St. James Parish, Woodbridge, who also serves on its finance council; Vocationist Father Thomas Naduviedathu, pastor, St. James Parish; and Mayor John E. McCormac. Right, Bishop Checchio poses for a photo with grand marshal Charles Kenny, and, below, Jim Leatham, the association’s “Irish Man of the Year.” Leatham is an extraordinary minister of holy Communion and president of the Society of St. Vincent de Paul chapter at St. John Vianney Conference, St. John Vianney Parish, Colonia. He and his wife, Lee Ann, have assisted at the St. Vincent de Paul Food Pantry in Perth Amboy for many years. Recently, Leatham was recognized by the New Jersey Senate and General Assembly for his commitment to fighting food insecurity. He was also recognized by Perth Amboy Mayor Helmin Caba for his assistance to feeding the underserved during the coronavirus pandemic.

— Frank Wojciechowski photos

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Attendees of ‘Critical Life’ event reminded how much ‘Choices Matter’ cipal celebrant in the diocese’s oldest church.

In his homily, Bishop Checchio NEW BRUNSWICK — “This is noted the prior day’s Feast of the Anan opportunity to come together to nunciation was itself a life-affirming learn about and reflect more deeply event. The Blessed Virgin Mary set an on God’s precious gift of life,” said example for us on how to best prepare Bishop James F. Checchio March 26 to receive Christ in our lives, he said.

“Mary prepared herself by prayat St. Peter the Apostle Church. “It is fitting we host this conference. It is ing and reading Scripture, but also evangelizes with her a wonderful opporElizabeth,” tunity to refresh our “There are no limits on cousin, he reminded the conknowledge and fire us when abortions can gregation. “All of us up.” asked to do the To illustrate the be done, up to nine are same thing: receive many life-affirming choices available to months… New Jersey the Word, be attentive to the Word, lisfaithful of all ages, the diocesan Office of has no interest in life in ten to God in prayer Human Life and Dig- the womb, but don’t be and share the Word, speaking it in such nity and the Catholic discouraged, for New a way it brings joy, Student Association and peace to of Rutgers University Jersey Right to Life and hope others… Mary, intersponsored the daylong 2022 “Choices Matother pro-life entities cede for us today and every day; bless our ter,” the 20th annual will continue to fight.” work to protect life.”

Critical Life Issues Speakers of diConference, at the —Marie Tasy, executive director, verse ages and backSt. Peter University New Jersey Right to Life grounds added their & Community Parish voices to the converHall. The program of a legislative panel discussion, speak- sation on life. Grace Rykaczewski, a ers, prayer, fellowship and the oppor- spokesperson for Students for Life of tunities for Eucharistic Adoration and America, shared the struggles she had the sacrament of reconciliation began for acceptance among her peers, many with a Mass with the bishop as prin- of them either pro-abortion or unwillBy Christina Leslie Correspondent

Above, employees of Life Choices Resource Center, Metuchen, sit at one of the booths at the “Choices Matter” Critical Life Issues Conference, at St. Peter University & Community Parish, New Brunswick. Right, a procession begins the event’s opening Mass.

— John Batkowski photos

ing to support life. Former firefighter and paramedic D.J. Hueneman, director of training and formation at faithbased Ruah Woods Press, gave helpful suggestions for those who may have been exposed to the power of pornography, while Laura Strietmann, executive director of Cincinnati Right Continued on next page

to Life, gave a Lenten reflection on the Seven Sorrows of the Blessed Mother and Choice.

Three keynote speakers formed a panel and fielded questions to both inform and galvanize the attendees to action: Marie Tasy, executive director of the Piscataway-based New Jersey Right to Life (NJRTL) and a member of Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Milltown; James J. King, executive director, New Jersey Catholic Conference (NJCC), and Dr. Gerald V. Burke, a practicing attorney and medical doctor who is board certified in obstetrics and gynecology. Each shared a unique perspective on current pro-life legislation and the possibilities facing citizens with regards to the outcomes of “Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization” under consideration by the U.S. Supreme Court, legislation that may overturn or roll back the Roe v. Wade decision.

“New Jersey has passed one of the most extreme abortion laws,” Tasy told the audience, referring to S49/ A6260, an expansion of the abortion Reproductive Freedom Act. Lastminute hearings scheduled far short of the customary five days’ notice to the public assured its Jan. 13 passage and signature by Gov. Phil Murphy, Tasy maintained.

“There are no limits on when abortions can be done, up to nine months… New Jersey has no interest in life in the womb,” she said, adding, “but don’t be discouraged, for

[NJRTL] and other pro-life entities] will continue to fight.”

King explained that the NJCC deserved as the nonpartisan public policy voice for the Catholic Church, advising the Catholic dioceses in the Garden State on matters of education, sanctity of life, social concerns and other public policy. The agency also e-mails action alerts to concerned voters as issues come to a legislative vote, and garners statements from the bishops of New Jersey that alert their flocks on the Church’s stance on important topics. Noting that the Diocese of Metuchen’s shepherd was always willing to assist the NJCC by calling legislators and issue statements, King said, “It helps me sleep easier having Bishop Checchio in New Jersey.”

King urged the audience to become informed on pro-life topics and let their voices be heard, continuing, “We cannot allow outside officials to tell us what we should be believing.

Reach out, go beyond your comfort zones.”

Burke presented the scientific evidence that shows human life begins at conception. “To remain silent is affirming the lies [pro-abortion proponents] proclaim. The only way to make science real is if it is based on truth.”

Reminding the group that respect for life should be from conception to natural death, he continued, “None of us is independently viable. We survive interdependently. What we do with newborns has to do with what we do with the elderly.”

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Keynote speaker: become informed on pro-life topics, let voices be heard

Clockwise from top of page: (from left) Dr. Gerald Burke, James King and Marie Tasy, keynote speakers, hold a panel session for attendees of the Critical Life Issues Conference; Bishop James F. Checchio gives the homily at the opening Mass; and Gwendelynn Albuquerque, a student intern at Rutgers University, New Brunswick, proclaims a reading from Scripture.

— John Batkowski photos

Administrator brings ‘wealth of experience’ to healthcare system tificate from the Human Resource Learning Partnership (HRLP) Executive Program — a premier strategic learning experience for senior level and high potential human resources professionals from leading global companies.

“Saint Peter’s is truly a special place filled with people who are passionate about the work we do,” Daech said. “Our organization is one that engages its employees, fostering an environment of mutual support and collaboration in implementing best practices to provide the highest level of quality care to our patients.

“I welcome the opportunity to lead a human resources team whose goal is to attract, retain and engage skilled and compassionate employees who believe in Saint Peter’s Catholic mission and strive for service excellence.”

Saint Peter’s Healthcare System Inc., parent company of the Saint Peter’s healthcare delivery system, is comprised of Saint Peter’s University Hospital, a 478bed acute-care teaching hospital and statedesignated children’s hospital and regional perinatal center that includes a nationally renowned Level IV Neonatal Intensive Care

Edward Daech is the new vice president and chief human resources officer at Saint Peter’s Healthcare System.

Unit; Saint Peter’s Foundation, the fundraising arm of the hospital; Saint Peter’s Health and Management Services Corp., which oversees outpatient facilities, including the CARES Surgicenter; and Saint Peter’s Physician Associates, a network of primary and specialty care physician practices.

Saint Peter’s is a regional sponsor of residency programs in obstetrics and gynecology, pediatrics, and internal medicine.

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as a regional vice president. In that role, he served as the leader for Ascension’s Nursing and Clinical Operations Division, as well as the Health Ministry Markets in Indiana, Tennessee and Alabama, which consisted of 35 hospitals and 32,000 employees.

Previously, at Ascension, he held positions as the vice president of human resources for the Tennessee Ministry Market and executive director of human resources for Saint Thomas Health.

Prior to Ascension, Daech was with Community Health Systems, a company that operates more than 80 affiliated hospitals in 16 states, where he first served as the human resources director, and then the assistant chief executive officer of Heartland Regional Medical Center. In this role he had a wide variety of operational responsibilities.

Daech earned a Master of Business Administration degree at North Central College, Chicago, and a Bachelor of Science degree in Workforce Education and Development from Southern Illinois University, Carbondale, Ill. He is certified as a Senior Professional in Human Resources and earned a cer-

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NEW BRUNSWICK — Saint Peter’s Healthcare System, the parent company of Saint Peter’s University Hospital, announced the appointment of Edward “Ed” Daech as vice president and chief human resources officer effective Feb. 21.

“Ed has a wealth of experience in health care, specifically with Catholic-based institutions, that will effectively support Saint Peter’s mission while continuing to advance our strategic vision for the future,” said Leslie D. Hirsch, chief executive officer and president, Saint Peter’s Healthcare System.

“We welcome Ed to the Saint Peter’s family and look forward to his leadership and expertise to help position Saint Peter’s as an employer of choice and to provide our employees with a great work environment and experience.”

Prior to joining Saint Peter’s, Daech was with Ascension, one of the nation’s largest Catholic health systems that operates 141 hospitals and other healthcare facilities in more than 20 different states with 150,000 employees. During his nine years at Ascension, he served in various human resource leadership positions, most recently

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Filipinos mark major milestone The 2022 USA Tour of

The RELICS of SAINT BERNADETTE May 17, 2022 Our Lady of Lourdes Milltown, NJ May 19, 2022 Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, NJ

The year-long diocesan commemoration of the Quincentennial Jubilee of Christianity in the Philippines was concluded in the diocese at Queenship of Mary Parish, Plainsboro, by Bishop James F. Checchio at Mass March 12.

Father Ricky Manalo, a renowned liturgical music composer of Filipino heritage, started the day with a historical presentation on “A Treasured Presence: Celebrating 500 Years of Filipino Catholicism.”

He explored, among other things, liturgies, devotions, and worship practices that may be known only to Filipino Catholics, and presented statistical data on how Filipino Catholics rank in comparison to others, etc.

Filipinos feel blessed for being the only nation in Asia that is predominantly Christian, of which 86 percent are Roman Catholics.

A bonus for attendees was learning some of Father Manalo’s songs during intermissions.

Christianity was introduced in the Philippines in 1521 when the Magellan Expedition made an unplanned stopover there to replenish their provisions before continuing their voyage to the Moluccas in search of valuable spices.

While there, the first Mass was celebrated in Limasawa on Easter Sunday, March 31, and the first baptisms were given to 800 natives in Cebu April 14.

Many believed that Christianity was used as an instrument of colonialism. In those days, the cross and the

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From April to August 2022, the relics of Saint Bernadette will tour the United States for the first time, bringing the grace of Lourdes to parishes across the country. The Sanctuary of Our Lady of Lourdes is organizing the pilgrimage of the relics in partnership with the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, North American Volunteers, Hospitalité of Miami and the Order of Malta.

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The Diocese of Metuchen will be the only diocese in New Jersey to welcome the relics.

Above, the procession at Mass at Queenship of Mary Church, Plainsboro, celebrated during the diocesan observance of the Quincentennial Jubilee of Christianity in the Philippines, includes a wooden cross. Right, Paulist Father Ricky Manalo, a renowned liturgical music composer of Filipino heritage, gives a historical presentation on “A Treasured Presence: Celebrating 500 Years of Filipino Catholicism.” Christianity was introduced in the Philippines when the Magellan Expedition made an unplanned stopover there for supplies.

— Mike Ehrmann photos

sword often came as a pair. Three and a half centuries later, the cross (representing Christianity) outlived the sword, and still exists today.

With deep abiding faith in God’s grace and providence, the early ancestors nurtured the first seed of faith that grew on the fertile ground of their spirituality. Despite some complexities along the way, they managed to endure and integrate the faith in the culture, tradition, and history of the country.

The Catholic Bishops’ Conference of the Philippines (CBCP) has chosen “Gifted to Give” as the theme of the quincentennial celebration. It is a reminder of how Filipinos truly embraced God’s gift of faith to his chosen people.

Filipinos have been challenged to share that gift wherever they may be, just as it was handed down to them from generation to generation by their ancestors.

Through their selfless service, genuine understanding and compassion for all of God’s people Filipino Catholics are hopeful that the faith could prosper for another 500 years for as long as the flame of the Gospel of love continues to burn.

The event was sponsored by the diocesan Filipino Apostolate, a vibrant community of Filipino-American priests and lay faithful in the diocese, under the leadership of Father Gerry Paderon, pastor, Queenship of Mary Parish.

— Paz E. Gatchalian

providing Bishop Checchio the means ministry supported by the appeal that to speak directly to the people, thanking Bishop Checchio mentioned in the video. them for their ongoing support and high“We’re blessed with our 21 seminarlighting some of the ministries supported ians, but it’s a great challenge to provide by the appeal. financially for their formation, healthcare “So much of our appeal goes to and tuition,” he said. “As many of you support the work of Catholic Charities,” who have children in college know well, Bishop said in the it is a great expense. video. “I’m grateful “So much of our appeal The appeal goes to that with your gift, fund that, too.” goes to support the Catholic Charities Bishop Checchio continues its strong work of Catholic Chari- concluded by saying, work throughout these “I am so grateful for ties. I’m grateful that unprecedented times, your generosity which even responding in with your gift, Catholic has helped us, espegreater ways than we cially the last couple of Charities continues its years when we faced so thought imaginable.”

Bishop Checchallenges and strong work throughout many chio also praised needed extra help. You campus ministry at these unprecedented responded even more the Catholic Center generously last year. I at Rutgers University, times, even responding ask you to do it again New Brunswick. “You in greater ways than we so that we can continue know the good work to serve those in need. thought imaginable.” If you can, give a little they do. The staff there does a phenommore, especially since —Bishop James F. Checchio enal job reaching out some people may be to the young men and unable to give due to women who come to study and spend the effects of the different crises that time there. The staff cooperates, too, with we’ve been facing. I know we can do it. our Office of Youth & Young Adult Min- Together we can ‘Fan the Flame of Faith istry, which does outreach to the youth into Service.’” throughout the entire diocese.”

Thank you to all who have given so Seminarian formation is another generously to the 2022 Bishop’s Annual

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During the Masses on March 26 and 27, parishes across the diocese celebrated the Bishop’s Annual Appeal In-Pew Weekend. The generous response from the faithful is helping to bring this year’s appeal closer to the $7.2 million goal.

With returns still coming in, the appeal has reached $6.4 million, 89.26 percent of the goal.

Just as important as the financial goal is the goal of 100 participation. Especially in celebration of the 40th anniversary year as a diocese, Bishop James F. Checchio is encouraging every family in the diocese to assist in this great effort.

A gift in any amount is greatly appreciated and, when combined with what others can contribute, can make a significant difference in the lives of those we serve.

“We want to provide our families with every opportunity to join in our shared mission,” said Richard W. Lanahan, director, diocesan Office of Stewardship & Development.

“The In-Pew is a way to reach new parishioners or others who, for whatever reason, may not be on the diocesan mailing list,” he added. “The collective response from the larger community makes a powerful statement and witness of our faith.”

Many of the parishes used the special In-Pew Weekend as an occasion to show the Bishop’s Annual Appeal video,

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Richard W. Lanahan, director, diocesan Office of Stewardship & Development Appeal. If you have not made a pledge but would like to, mail your gift to: Diocese of Metuchen, Bishop’s Annual Appeal, PO Box 4000, Metuchen, NJ 08840-4000 or give online on our secure website at https://diometuchen.org/BAA.

Grow more deeply in your faith.

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‘Elect’ in diocese take major step in faith journey to receive sacrame

By Anthony Salamone Correspondent METUCHEN — Michael Pantoja repairs appliances for a living. The Basking Ridge resident said he also needed to mend his ways.

“I realized that I led the wrong life,” Pantoja said, “and in order for me to lead a meaningful life, it means coming to Jesus.

And in order for me to come to Jesus, I had

Bishop James F. Checchio talks to Gabriel Washington, 9, from St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington, after Gabriel signed the Book of Elect.

to give myself to him, so that I can live the “If we use the word tempt in this conlife that he has for me.” text of the Gospel today,” the bishop said, Asked why he chose Catholicism, Pan- “we call this the testing of Jesus instead of toja said: “I believe this is the true, faithful the temptation of Jesus. Like any test, we church that leads back to have to be prepared.”

Jesus.”

Jesus was prepared, “This is what this Pantoja, wearing a blue Bishop Checchio said. shirt and tie, and a brightly Rite of Election is all “He passed the temptation colored smile, joined about because he was so well about … you have prepared. He had prepared 85 candidates, or catechumens, from 65 parishes in himself throughout his shown enough the diocese who attended life. He was a disciplined the Rite of Election March discipline, patience person who persevered in 6 at the Cathedral of St. prayer and strengthened Francis of Assisi. It is a rite and dedication that his relationship with the celebrated in every diocese Father.” today, your throughout the world.

He held up Jesus, as godparents and On the Rite of Elecwell as Olympic and Spetion, catechumens like Olympic athletes, as catechists testify to cial Pantoja, their families, examples for the catechugodparents, sponsors and the Church and God mens of how to stay the catechists from across the course of their faith. in your behalf.” diocese gathered to cele“My brothers and sisbrate this important process —Bishop James F. Checchio ters in Christ, we need such in the Christian initiation discipline and patience into the Catholic faith. The in our lives,” he said. “It catechumens were scheduled to be baptized takes discipline to be a faithful disciple of at Holy Saturday Easter Vigil Masses April Jesus in our world today.

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“This is what this Rite of Election is The March 6 liturgy included Scripture all about … you have shown enough disreadings, hymns, prayers and more, both cipline, patience and dedication that today, in English and Spanish. The Gospel was your godparents and catechists testify to the taken from Matthew Chapter 4 — also read Church and God in your behalf.” during the first Sunday of Lent. It recounts He told the catechumens that the Jesus being tempted by Satan in the desert, Church “happily and gratefully accepts you during which Our Lord fasted for 40 days. today,” based on the recommendations of In his homily, Bishop James F. Chec- sponsors, catechists and those supporting chio said another word for tempt is test. them. He also said he would continue pray-

Members of the Elect, sponsors and families Assisi, Metuchen, for the Rite of Election Mar first week of Lent, catechumens expressed Checchio, then signed their names in the Bo ing for them.

Pantoja and others certainly learned the meaning of patience while studying the faith, having been students during the pandemic. The Rite of Election was not celebrated in 2021 because of the coronavirus pandemic, but catechumens were able to continue their preparations at their parishes either remotely or in small meetings.

“There was a difference, but it’s still rewarding, no matter how we do it,” said Theodore Petrock, who has served as a catechist for several years at Christ the

List of Elect from diocese scheduled to becom Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi Metuchen Rachael Albi, Cynthia Reif

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Christ the Redeemer Manville Jacob Kearse, Alena Petrock Holy Family Parish New Brunswick Abimael Caballero, Joanna Montero, Liset Montero, Emely Morales Immaculate Conception Spotswood Emily Obregon Most Holy Name of Jesus Perth Amboy Ashly Almonte, Neftali Gomez,

Juan Gonzalez Perez, Carlos Perez Jimenez, Adryanna Reyes, Roberto Rijo, Juan Carlos Rosario, Yenaira Valera Our Lady of Czestochowa South Plainfield Lee Saywack Our Lady of Fatima Perth Amboy Emily Espinal, Ana G. Lopez Our Lady of Fatima Piscataway Santiago Naranjo Our Lady of Lourdes Whitehouse Station Carlos Ruben Chaves Ramirez

Our Lady of Mercy South Bound Brook Jason Cho, Seara Moon

Our Lady of Perpetual Help Bernardsville Samantha Insler

Our Lady of Mt. Carmel New Brunswick Olga Reyes, Cecilia Romero

Our Lady of Victories Sayreville Sue Li

Our Lady of Mount Virgin Middlesex Nicholas Ikponmwosa, Chaney Dawson, Huiling Deng, Anthony Margaritondo, James Pellegrino, Alex Ramirez, Michael Shott

Parish of the Visitation New Brunswick Emily Ani-Zavala, Ashlyn Luna

Our Lady of Peace Fords Rihanna Bennett, Nilsson E. Rivera, Nilsson G. Rivera, Yorjelis Rivera, Korina Ruffino, Bianca Sanchez

Queenship of Mary Plainsboro Mackenzie Cannon Sacred Heart South Amboy Leon Hernandez, Carolina Paredes

— Ed Koskey Jr. photos

Redeemer Parish, Manville, and whose granddaughter, Alena Petrock, was part of the Rite of Election.

Cynthia Reif and Rachel Albi, both from the Cathedral parish, also recalled beginning the spiritual journey amid COVID; they held meetings in small groups or online.

“Then we were in person, then we were on the computer,” Reif said. “We’re back in person.” Throughout it all, she added, “It’s been a wonderful experience.”

Edison residents Reif and Albi attend-

my church,” said Delaplain, who has been with St. James’ RCIA team about 15 years.

When Pantoja came for an initial inquiry about the faith, Delaplain became part of the team who helped him. “And we just clicked, more or less,” Delaplain said.

“He’s my friend and we’re trying to make sure what he’s trying to do in his life, so I can show him an example or help him get there.”

Pantoja, Reif, Albi — all the catechumens — are “there” now. That much was as clear as the smiles of joy on their faces during and after the Rite of Election.

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s gathered at the Cathedral of St. Francis of rch 6. At the rite, which was held during the their desire for baptism to Bishop James F. ook of the Elect.

ed with their sponsors, Cynthia Pychewicz and Christine Riggio, who are members of the Cathedral parish, along with catechist Maggie Corson. Reif and Albi decided to become Catholic in part because their children attend St. Francis Cathedral School.

Albi, who was raised Presbyterian, also said she had been drawn to the Catholic church at a young age. “There was something in that, that I liked,” she said. “Something just felt right about it. I can’t really put words to it. I just felt this desire to be more involved in this beautiful place.”

After the homily, Sara A. Sharlow, director, diocesan Office of Christian Initiation of Adults, presented the catechumens to the bishop. Each candidate’s sponsor affirmed that the catechumens were ready to be enrolled among the elect for the coming celebration of Easter.

Each catechumen entered the sanctuary and signed the Book of the Elect, then crossed the sanctuary and approached Bishop Checchio. The bishop greeted each one with a few words and a fist bump.

Reif and Albi said the bishop congratulated them during their fist bumps, and he was looking forward to celebrating Easter with them.

Pantoja, who is studying at the St. James Parish, Basking Ridge, said the bishop told him he was going to pray for him throughout the Easter Vigil.

His catechist and sponsor, David Delaplain, said serving the parish’s RCIA has brought him and his wife, Laura, closer to their faith. “It’s made me learn more about my faith and made me more active in

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Right, Catechumen Bernadette Aidoo, a member ofof St. Augustine of Canterbury Parish, Kendall Park, sings during the Rite of Election. Below, Catechumens sign the Book of the Elect.

me initiated into full communion with Church St. Ambrose Old Bridge Nelson Gonzalez, Randi Hancock, Chris Velez St. Andrew Avenel Michael Fondi

St. Augustine of Canterbury Kendall Park Bernadette Aidoo, Bryan Ramirez

St. Frances Cabrini Piscataway April Fernandez

St. Magdalen de Pazzi Flemington Michael Cook, Matthew Howell, Willians Martinez, Gabriel Washington

St. James Basking Ridge Alexa Bezzek, Michael Pantoja St. John the Evangelist Lambertville Logan Hetzel St. Joseph North Plainfield Anderson Abrego, Mirka Vanesa Galeano Averos, Dennis Cooper, Andy Garcia,

St. Mary South Amboy Travis Dean St. Matthew the Apostle Edison Derick Nieto St. Matthias Somerset Diem Hoang

St. Peter the Apostle University & Community New Brunswick Nicholas Merino, Colin Payne-Rogers St. Philip & St. James Phillipsburg Ashley Castro, Jhoycet Paz Tadeo

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St. Ann Raritan Borough Shawn Williams

St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Three Bridges Julia Schmid

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Day of Recollection Bishop James F. Checchio, top right, joined his brother priests from the diocese for the annual “Lenten Day of Recollection” at the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. The event featured two presentations

by Father Roger G. Landry, above left and left, a priest from the Diocese of Fall River, Mass, in the chapel. Father Landry spoke on the topics: “Imitating What We Celebrate: The Priest as Catalyst for the Church’s Eucharistic Revitalization,” and “Ambassadors of Christ Appealing for Reconciliation: The Priest as Minister of Mercy.” He concluded his first talk by saying, “Let us ask Him [Jesus] for the grace to dare to do all we can, to cooperate fully with his desires so that through our Eucharistic love for him he can unleash his redeeming love for those he has entrusted to us and the whole world.” At the end of his second talk, Father Landry said, “God has chosen us as his ambassadors, appealing to others to be reconciled to him through us.” He added that now was the time for them to unleash the power of God’s grace “so that others can efficaciously respond to God’s call to conversion, seize the day of salvation, and make heaven erupt with joy.”

— Gerald R. Wutkowski Jr. photos

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OUR DIOCESE The Perinatal Care Team at Saint Peter’s University Hospital (SPUH), New Brunswick, recently posed for a photo. From left, Dolly Allen, nurse manager, Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at The Children’s Hospital at SPUH; Linda Carroll, vice president, Patient Care Services and chief nursing officer at Saint Peter’s Healthcare System; Dr. Carlos W. Benito, maternal-fetal medicine specialist and chair, Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at SPUH; Pam Harmon, nursing director, Saint Peter’s Women and Children’s Division; Tara Santiago, nurse manager, Labor and Delivery, High-Risk Antepartum, and Perinatal Evaluation and Treatment Units at SPUH; and Ashley Zapolski, nurse manager, Mother/Baby Unit at SPUH. — photo courtesy of Saint Peter’s University Hospital

Support System On March 10, Saint Peter’s Healthcare System welcomed guests back to the first in-person Gala since 2019 because of COVID-19. The Gala, held at The Palace at Somerset, raised more than $600,000, making it the most successful Saint Peter’s Gala. Proceeds from the Gala support priority projects as determined by the Board of Governors and hospital leadership. Bishop James F. Checchio congratulated representatives of Consulting & Municipal Engineers Associates for receiving the Bishop’s Award; Dr. Amar Bukhari and Dr. Henry Redel, Physician Appreciation Award; and registered nurse Linda Carroll, Nursing Appreciation Honoree.

— photos courtesy of Saint Peter’s University Hospital

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NEW BRUNSWICK — Saint Peter’s The Gold Seal of Approval from University Hospital, a member of Saint The Joint Commission reinforces Saint Peter’s Healthcare System, has once Peter’s existing reputation as a stateagain earned The Joint Commission’s wide leader in comprehensive maternal Gold Seal of Approval® for Perinatal and newborn health services. Saint PeCare Certification by demonstrating ter’s has a burgeoning list of distinctions continuous compliance with its perfor- and accolades: mance standards.

• The hospital is home to New The Gold Seal of Approval is a Jersey’s first state-designated Regional symbol of quality that reflects a health- Perinatal Center, providing an excepcare organization’s commitment to pro- tional level of high-risk maternity care viding safe and quality patient care. The for women experiencing complicated certification recognizes Saint Peter’s pregnancy and neonatal care for infants efforts to achieve integrated, coordi- born premature or with serious medical nated, patient-centered care for clini- issues. cally uncomplicated pregnancies and • Saint Peter’s Level IV Neobirths. The certificanatal Intensive Care tion uses standards, “Submitting one’s hospital Unit (NICU) is wellguidelines and The regionally for for perinatal certification known Joint Commission’s its expertise in properinatal care core by The Joint Commission is viding premature and performance meafragile infants with sures for manag- a voluntary process that is the highest level of ing and monitoring rigorous in its level of scru- care. aspects of perinatal • Saint Peter’s tiny, but it’s a process that is the only New Jercare that are critical to improving sey hospital in the and maintaining the we happily participate in so Council of Women’s health of newborns that expectant mothers can and Infants’ Speand their mothers. cialty Hospitals Saint Peter’s be blanketed with an extra (CWISH) and has University Hospital layer of confidence when held that member recently underwent designation since a rigorous, unan- they choose Saint Peter’s as 1997. CWISH is a nounced onsite reof 14 the place where they’ll be collaborative view that included hospitals across the observations regardcountry that works welcoming their baby ing clinical practice together to establish into this world.” and patient care, as best practices in supwell as individual —Pam Harmon, director, Women port of programs, and interviews. During national policy for and Children’s Division, Saint the visit, a team of women’s and infants’ Peter’s Universitry Hospital Joint Commission healthcare services. reviewers evaluated • The hospital compliance with perinatal care stan- is home to the Mary V. O’Shea Birth dards spanning several areas includ- Center, New Jersey’s first hospitaling care for high-risk births and birth based midwifery-led birth center where complications. The Joint Commission expectant mothers go for office visits, standards are developed in consultation birthing classes and the birth of their with healthcare experts and providers, baby. measurement experts and patients.

• The Children’s Hospital at “Perinatal Care Certification rec- Saint Peter’s is the only hospital in New ognizes healthcare organizations com- Jersey to be ranked among the Top 50 mitted to fostering continuous quality Best Hospitals in Neonatology three improvement in patient safety and qual- times in a row by “U.S. News & World ity of care,” said registered nurse Mark Report” 2021-22.

Pelletier, chief operating officer, Ac• The hospital received the 2022 creditation and Certification Operations, Women’s Choice Award for Best Hospiand chief nursing executive, The Joint tals for Obstetrics and Best Hospitals for Commission.”

Women’s Services.

“It’s truly an honor to receive According to Pam Harmon, nursperinatal recertification from The ing director of Saint Peter’s Women and Joint Commission,” said Dr. Carlos Children’s Division, “Submitting one’s W. Benito, maternal-fetal medicine hospital for perinatal certification by The specialist and chair of the Department Joint Commission is a voluntary process of Obstetrics and Gynecology at Saint that is rigorous in its level of scrutiny, Peter’s. “While Saint Peter’s is known but it’s a process that we happily paras a regional leader in maternal health ticipate in so that expectant mothers can services, the Perinatal Care Certification be blanketed with an extra layer of conoffers third party validation that we’ve fidence when they choose Saint Peter’s achieved the highest quality national as the place where they’ll be welcoming standards for perinatal health.” their baby into this world.”

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March 20, 2022 We must be careful: when evil oppresses us, we risk losing our clarity and, to find an easy answer to what we are unable to explain, we end up putting the blame on God. And so often the very bad habit of using profanities comes from this. How often we attribute to Him our woes and misfortunes in the world, to Him who instead leaves us always free and hence never intervenes imposing, but only proposing; He who never uses violence and instead suffers for us and with us! Indeed, Jesus refuses and contests strongly the idea of blaming God for our evils: those persons who were killed by Pilate and those who died when the tower collapsed on them were not any more at fault than others, and they were not victims of a ruthless and vindictive God, which does not exist! Evil can never come from God because “He does not deal with us according to our sins” (Ps 103:10), but according to His mercy. This is God’s style.

He cannot treat us otherwise. He always treats us with mercy. Rather than blaming God, Jesus says we need to look inside ourselves: it is sin that produces death; our selfishness can tear apart relationships; our wrong and violent choices can unleash evil. At this point the Lord offers the true solution, and that is conversion: He says, “unless you repent you will all likewise perish” (Lk 13:5….Let us turn from evil, let us renounce the sin that seduces us, let us be open to the logic of the Gospel because where love and fraternity reign, evil has no more power!

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Prayer during Difficult Times God of love and mercy, assist me in this time of trouble and anxiety, Ease my burdens. Strengthen my faith.

Increase my trust and confidence in your Compassionate care.

Grant me the courage I need, dear Lord, to face the difficulties before me, Knowing that with your help, miracles happen and lives are restored.

I pray for a share in your healing graces, and ask that you surround me with your Comforting goodness, for health in mind and body, and for a heart filled With hope and peace. Amen.

What do persons who don’t normally eat meat do about the Church’s rules on abstinence, such as on the Fridays during

By Father Kenneth Doyle Lent? Nowadays, many Catholics are mainly fish eaters anyway, or they are vegans or vegetarians. What can they do to participate in the discipline of the Church?

(New Middletown, Ind.) Your question prompts a question in my own mind: What’s the difference between a vegan and a vegetarian? On the off chance that any of our readers — like myself — might not have known this, here it is: Vegans eat no animal products at all, while vegetarians don’t eat animals but may eat products that come from them such as dairy and eggs. And yes, there are many of each: I’ve read that, at some point in their lives, more than 10 percent of Americans are vegans or vegetarians. So your question does have relevance, and the answer is simple: Pick your own penance. In 1966, when the U.S. Catholic bishops lifted the rule of mandatory abstinence on Fridays throughout the year, this is what they said: “Since the spirit of penance primarily suggests that we discipline ourselves in that

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which we enjoy most, to many in our day abstinence from meat no longer implies penance, while renunciation of other things would be more penitential” (No. 20). Vegans and vegetarians should choose their own sacrifice on the Fridays of Lent. How about refraining from your favorite meatless meal? And it doesn’t even have to be food-related: Since Fridays are set aside for grateful remembrance of the sacrifice of Jesus, how about taking an extra five minutes of prayer on Lenten Fridays to thank Jesus for dying on the cross?

is heartbreaking for us, but we don’t want to offend the Lord, even for the sake of our daughter. Any insight you could give would be appreciated — as would your prayers for her and for us. (Austin, Texas)

We just learned that our daughter is engaged. Her fiancé is not a Catholic and probably not a member of any religion. We raised our kids in the Church and they always attended Sunday Mass. But our daughter has problems with some of the Church’s teachings and has stopped going to Mass; now she is saying that she doesn’t want to be married in the Church, particularly since she’s horrified by the recent scandals. We plan on speaking to her again about the importance of being married in the Church. We’re having Masses said for that intention and have also asked some priest friends to pray for her. Should she persist, however, we do have some questions.I feel that our not attending her wedding would rupture our relationship with her and probably sink any chances of her ever returning to the church. But would it be wrong to participate in any way, such as by her dad’s walking her down the aisle, or helping to pay for the wedding or giving her a gift? She is our only daughter and this

I am edified by your question — both by your clear love for your daughter and by your strong commitment to the Church. I assure you that I will add my own prayers for her happiness in marriage and for her eventual return to Catholic practice.

As regards your daughter’s horror at recent scandals, would it help if you told her that you yourself are equally offended, but that you are not willing to let this criminal and sinful behavior do even more damage by depriving you of the support you experience from the sacraments? As to your participation in her wedding ceremony: You have explained to your daughter, and will again, your strong preference that she be married in the Church and your disappointment should she not be. But I agree that your absence from the ceremony might well eliminate any chance of her ever coming back to the sacraments. So long as she understands your feelings and your regard for the faith in which you raised your children, I think that you and your husband could participate in the wedding ceremony in the ways you mention.

Questions may be sent to Father Kenneth Doyle at askfatherdoyle@ gmail.com and 30 Columbia Circle Dr., Albany, NY 12203.

to terms with this kind of conflict is part of the process of faith, and it is put to the test during the worst of times, as when war or atrocity becomes a reality.

While the fighting is not yet at our doorsteps, the media now brings war into our homes daily. We see and hear the pain of those who are in death’s path. We watch bombs fall and homes go up in flames. We are appalled and heartbroken and when we hear the number of civilian deaths we wonder if our prayers will ever be answered. We may even ask, “Where are you, God? Why are you allowing your innocent children to suffer such inhumanity?”

And perhaps there, in that word “inhumanity,” is an answer. War is a human action, a choice, an evil that is a blot on human history throughout the ages, and yet it persists. Perhaps the real miracles are those we are now seeing on the television. The human miracles, the often-hidden stories of sacrifices people, once strangers, are making on behalf of others, the children of God being children of God. Beautiful stories, but not enough to make sense of so much death and horror.

Holocaust survivor and Nobel Peace Laureate Elie Wiesel experienced unspeakable atrocities that put a seemingly insurmountable distance between him and God.

In his renowned book, “Night,” Wiesel writes honestly, “For the first time, I felt anger rising within me. Why should I sanctify His name? The Almighty, the eternal and terrible Master of the Universe, chose to be silent. What was there to thank Him for?”

Many years later, Wiesel would also share his reconciliation with God in a “New York Times” column, writing of what he once called his “wounded faith,” saying, “I now realize I never lost it, not even over there, during the darkest hours of my life. I don’t know why I kept on whispering my daily prayers, and those one reserved for the Sabbath, and for the holidays, but I did recite them, often with my father and, on Rosh ha-Shanah eve, with hundreds of inmates at Auschwitz.”

He admitted being haunted for a lifetime with the question, “Where were you, God of kindness, in Auschwitz?” Yet, he entreated God: “Let us make up: for the child in me, it is unbearable to be divorced from you so long.”

As I watch the horror unfold in the Ukraine, and see the innocent, worried faces of Ukrainian children, their voices raised to God and their hands clasped in prayer, I question my God of love. Yet, I continue to pray that God will see and hear the children, and that Elie Wiesel has God’s ear.

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Even faith may be wounded by war Headlines recognized it as a miracle.

An earthquake let loose an avalanche from a nearby mountain, nearly wiping out the homes and businesses of a small community and killing thousands. But somehow, the boulders stopped within feet of the local church. It was deemed an act of God. The anger and frustration rose within me. “The real miracle,” I blurted out, “would have been if You had spared the thousands who died and not an empty building.”

Honesty with God comes from a lifetime of believing in, of praying and being faithful to God, but I would be lying if I said I never questioned the justice and mercy of God. I would be dishonest before God if I didn’t share my frustration with what often seems like God’s lack of interest in his children.

I’ve never questioned the existence of God, but I certainly do not pretend to understand God’s ways. I know I am not alone in this. We are only human, after all. Coming

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Light of Jesus’ Resurrection “I take it you know what has been reported all over Judea . . .” (Acts 10:34). With these words, Peter began his dramatic, faith-filled proclamation of Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection to Cornelius and his household. Peter spoke of the core of Christian belief: that Jesus, powerful in the Holy Spirit, went about doing good and releasing all from the clutches of evil; that this same Jesus was killed by evil schemers, but then raised by God on the third day; that he commissioned Peter and company to proclaim his Lordship over all; and that this Jesus is the one to whom all the Old Testament laws and prophecies had referred. By faith in this Jesus the world is transformed, and the whole human race is re-created as God’s

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dalene, the first to arrive at the empty tomb, runs away in fear and sorrow; she discounts the likelihood of Jesus’ resurrection, and instead worries that Jesus’ body has been stolen.

St. Peter, the spokesperson for the apostles and leader of the early Church, also comes to the empty tomb; he has not yet seen the Risen Christ or received the guidance of the Holy Spirit, and so he too is unable to understand what has occurred.

The Beloved Disciple, on the other hand, also goes to the empty tomb. At his arrival, however, his love for Jesus opens his eyes to the possibility of the resurrection. He looks in and sees that the physical body of Jesus is no longer present and immediately concludes that Jesus had been raised from the dead.

Because of his intense love for Jesus, this special disciple was not looking for proof of SCRIPTURE STUDY Jesus’ resurrection — he freely chose to beBy Msgr. John N. Fell lieve; his belief was motivated not by scientific evidence, but by the longing of his heart. people.

This Beloved Disciple is presented as a model Faith in this Jesus began early one morn- for all Christians to follow. The love and faith ing in a lonely graveyard on the outskirts of which so characterized his relationship with Jerusalem. Having just outrun Peter in his Jesus is the goal for all Jesus’ followers. zeal to check out Mary Magdalene’s report of Our belief in Jesus’ Resurrection must Jesus’ empty tomb, the unnot, however, be relegated named disciple’s deep love to belief in a past event. for Christ enabled him to be- Faith in this Jesus began The historical Resurrection come the very first of countearly one morning in a of Jesus which we celebrate less disciples to believe in this Easter Sunday is also the Risen Lord, as St. John’s lonely graveyard on the a challenge to a living and Gospel reports, “He saw and out faith in the current outskirts of Jerusalem. lived believed” (Jn 20:9). presence of the Risen Jesus.

If Jesus’ death on the Having just outrun Peter Both selections from St. cross was his ultimate mo(1Corinthians 5:6b-8 or in his zeal to check out Paul ment of glory in St. John’s Colossians 3:1-4) offer conGospel, then the Resurrection Mary Magdalene’s report crete advice on how Chrisis the event which explains tians ought to live their faith of Jesus’ empty tomb, in Christ’s Resurrection. The the cross. The light of Jesus’ Resurrection is what sheds the unnamed disciple’s Letter to the Colossians exthe glow of victory and vinhorts believers to “set your deep love for Christ dication on the wood of the hearts on what pertains to cross. The Resurrection is the realms” (Col 3:1). enabled him to become higher outcome of the cross — death Further, St. Paul advises gives way to everlasting life, the very first of countless us to “celebrate the feast not sin gives way to eternal glowith the old yeast of corry, and despair gives way to disciples to believe in the ruption and wickedness, but unbounded hope. If the cross Risen Lord, as St. John’s with the unleavened bread of was God’s supreme manifessincerity and truth” (1 Cor tation of love for his people, Gospel reports, “He saw 5:8). In this, the importance the Resurrection is the eterour Lenten observance and believed” (Jn 20:9). of nal revelation of the power comes to the fore. Lent was and possibilities of that love. our privileged opportunity Coming at the end of to remake ourselves into the our own journey through the image of Christ, a chance to discipline of Lent, this Gospel text give us a set aside whatever is base and unworthy of our brief glimpse of the possibility with which all faith in the Lord and to begin to live as those subsequent followers of Jesus are endowed, who are convinced of his abiding presence — the possibility of allowing our love for Jesus a presence as exciting and radiant and powerto guide us to an ever-deeper faith in him. In ful in 2022 as it was for the early disciples fact, this Easter morning Gospel provides us gathered around the empty tomb. with three different possibilities of how to Msgr. Fell is a Scripture scholar and director, understand Christ’s Resurrection. Mary Mag- diocesan Office for Priest Personnel

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Community-based program recognized by township

By Tiffany Workman

NORTH BRUNSWICK — Mobile Family Success Center, a program run by Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen that provides community-based, family-centered services utilizing neighborhood gathering places in Middlesex County, was honored with a proclamation from North Brunswick Mayor Francis M. Womack III and the Township Council during its March 7 virtual meeting.

With Rosela Roman, director, Mobile Family Success Center, and Rosmery Suarez, family partner, in attendance for the virtual meeting, North Brunswick Township Councilman Rajesh Mehta read the proclamation aloud.

“The Mobile Family Success Center programs are thoughtful and family oriented,” the proclamation states. “They require parent/child joint participation and promote interaction between children, parents, families and different cultures,” it continues.

Councilman Mehta, who also serves as a health ambassador for Mobile Family Success Center and has led breathing exercises and meditation events for the program in the past, offered his own accounting of how its offerings have helped shape the township.

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community. Last year, they did an event helping pregnant women, a fall event in Kilmer Homes, a rodeo in North Brunswick, painting events in the North Brunswick Senior Center and organized bingo for senior citizens,” the councilman said. “My wife showed how to prepare Indian food and I did breathing exercises and meditation on Zoom for the community. These activities they organize for the community all year-round help people learn and enjoy,” he graciously said of the programs organized by Mobile Family Success Center.

According to the proclamation, the Mobile Family Success Center of Middlesex County has offered free, high-quality programs to North Brunswick for more than nine years. The programs were started in the township’s Parsons Elementary School with two programs a month — one for children and one for parents — and have since expanded to offerings for the entire community, often including the township’s schools, police department, fire department and first aid squad.

Programs organized by Mobile Family Success Center are free and accessible to everyone. Their programs are often held virtually or in community-shared places such as schools, libraries, and community centers in Edison, Sayreville, Piscataway, East Bruns-

wick and North Brunswick. Past program offerings have included: COVID-19 vaccine clinics; wellness check-ins; “ice cream with a cop;” bingo; baking and cooking sessions; résumé writing; family budgeting; or family fun activities. Other services include information and referrals, as well as family success planning and case management.

“I have worked with Mobile Family Success Center for nine years and it is a perfect partnership,” said Debbie Druker, a teacher and collaborative partner at Parsons Elementary School who nominated Mobile Family Success Center for the recognition.

DRuker said Mobile Family Success Center offers two or three programs a month for students at the school and their families, which catalyzed change in the township and in families.

“Parents and students would bond and start to converse amongst different cultures, which didn’t happen often before Mobile Family Success Center’s events,” she noted.

More information about Mobile Family Success Center and its programs can be found on its social media pages@ mfscmiddlesex or by visiting their website: www.ccdom.org/mfscmiddlesex.

Workman is the Communications Specialist in the diocesan Office of Communications and Public Relations

·The St. Paul the Apostle Senior Residence opened in 2021, and the agency began providing low-income housing and case management services to its residents. ·Through its Basic Needs Programs, CCDOM provided outreach, financial assistance and emotional support to families affected by Tropical Storm Henri and Hurricane Ida. Support for those affected by Hurricane Ida is ongoing and anyone with outstanding needs as the result of Hurricane Ida is encouraged to contact idasupport@ ccdom.org to determine eligibility.

In a letter from Bishop James F. Checchio, it was announced last year — the same fiscal year of the 2021 Annual Report — that CCDOM would fall under the newly established Secretariat for Charity in order to further integrate the mission shared by the Catholic social service agency and that of the parishes, schools, and other institutions in the diocese.

While now under the auspices of the Secretariat for Charity, the nonprofit agency continues to be governed by a Board of Trustees, which is comprised mostly of lay people along with clergy of the diocese.

Bishop Checchio serves as the president of the Board; Anthony P. Kearns III, diocesan chancellor, serves as the chief executive officer and and chairman, and also serves as the

secretary for Charity; Julio Coto, a licensed clinical social woeker, serves as the executive director; and Carol A. Purcell, executive director, diocesan Vicariate for Administration, serves as the secretary and treasurer of the Board.

Day-to-day operations are under the guidance of the Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen executive leadership team, which includes the executive director, associate executive director, chief financial officer, and director of compliance, who rely of a wide network of support including service area directors, program directors, agency staff and volunteers. Together, they serve as the hands and feet of Christ in the Diocese of Metuchen, offering basic needs, childcare, counseling, housing and shelter, immigration, resource and referral, social concerns, and youth services to people from Middlesex, Somerset, Hunterdon and Warren counties, regardless of race, religion or economic status.

Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen is supported, in part, thanks to donations to the Bishop’s Annual Appeal.

Learn more or give by visiting: diometuchen. org/baa.

Workman is the Communications Specialist in the Office of Communications and Public Relations

Agency spends thousands of hours serving needy PERTH AMBOY — Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen (CCDOM), one of the largest nonprofit social service providers, recently released its Fiscal Year 2021 Annual Report. From providing outreach, financial assistance and emotional support to families affected by Tropical Storm Henri and Hurricane Ida, to providing low-income housing and case management for residents of the new St. Paul the Apostle Senior Residence, Edison, the report details the extensive work accomplished and the efforts made to keep program services fully operational even amidst the pandemic.

Some highlights include:

· Catholic Charities served 63,195 individuals in 2021, spending 60,519 days and 113,505 hours serving those in need. · 22,600 days of shelter care were provided to 320 individuals from 115 families and 12,306 days of shelter care were provided to 155 men. · 19,317 hours of counseling were provided to 2,160 individuals across four counties. · Child Care Programs, Social Concerns Programs and Housing and Homelessness Prevention Programs remained open and continued offering services during the pandemic.

Journey of Faith

By Father John Gerard Hillier Living a chaste life is meant for all people who recognize themselves as true children of God. Whether living the single state or the marital one, all are meant to practice chastity. This is not a rejection of sexuality outright or a decision to intentionally live the vow of celibacy within the legitimate bond of matrimony. Rather, it calls for us to respect ourselves as sexual persons and to offer to others the same abiding respect.

Following the Sixth Commandment: “You shall not commit adultery” (Ex 20:14), is one obvious way to respect one’s spouse “chastely,” because this Commandment “refers to marital infidelity” (ccc 2380), the absolute antithesis of living a chaste life. Those who commit adultery not only fail in their commitment to one another, but do “injury to the sign of the covenant which the marriage bond is, transgress the rights of the other spouse, and undermine the institution of marriage by breaking the contract on which it is based” (ccc 2381).

Jesus insists in Sacred Scripture that, from the beginning, God willed that marriage be upheld and not be dissolved by human beings (see: Matthew 5:31-32; 19:3-9; Mark 10:9; Luke 16:18). Quoting from Canon

Law (1141), the Catechism teaches: “Between the baptized, a ratified and consummated marriage cannot be dissolved by any human power or for any reason other than death” (ccc 2382).

The Catechism explains further: “the separation of spouses while maintaining the marriage bond can be legitimate in certain cases provided for by canon law” (ccc 2383). These “certain cases” include behaviors that put the other spouse or the children in grave spiritual danger, bodily danger, or in any other way make common life together intolerable. In such cases, civil divorce may be the only solution to ensure “certain legal rights, the care of the children, or the protection of inheritance” (ccc 2383).

Ordinarily, however, divorce is not recognized as virtuous or otherwise acceptable because of “the original intention of the Creator who willed that marriage be indissoluble” (ccc 2382). Therefore, “divorce is a grave offense against the natural law” (ccc 2384). It breaks the covenant to which the couple committed themselves to one another until death. What makes this all the more troubling, adding insult to injury, is when a new union is formed before the previous marriage is properly dissolved (through the annulment process).

The Catechism comments: “Contracting a new union, even if it is recognized by civil law, adds to the gravity of the rupture: the remarried spouse is then in a situation of public and permanent adultery” (ccc 2384).

Divorce is also wrong because it “brings grave harm to the deserted spouse, to children traumatized by the separation of their parents…and because of its contagious effect which makes it truly a plague

on society” (ccc 2385). The Catechism explains: “There is a considerable difference between a spouse who has sincerely tried to be faithful to the sacrament of marriage and is unjustly abandoned, and one who through his own grave fault destroys a canonically valid marriage” (ccc 2386).

Unfortunately, we are witnesses to much blatant destruction and undermining of marriage in our present culture. Only some 50 years ago it was still “shameful” or “embarrassing,” even for extended family members, when divorce occurred. For the most part, this is no longer the case. There is perhaps “sadness” or “sorrow.” but not “shame.”

Other offenses against the chaste dignity of marriage discussed in this section of the Catechism include: polygamy, incest, so-called “free love,” and the “right to a trial marriage.”

Polygamy “is contrary to the equal personal dignity of men and women who in matrimony give themselves with a love that is total and therefore unique and exclusive” (ccc 2387). However, a condition is provided for a convert to the faith who previously lived in polygamy. The Catechism states: “The Christian who has previously lived in polygamy has a grave duty in justice to honor the obligations contracted in regard to his former wives and his children” (ccc 2387).

Incest is always immoral. It “corrupts family relationships,” says the Catechism, “and marks a regression toward animality” (ccc 2088). Wow. “Animality” is not a word we hear every day.

Here, the Catechism is telling us outright that “incest” suggests animal characteristics and is deemed equivalent to people

behaving like animals!

“In a so-called free union, a man and a woman refuse to give juridical and public form to a liaison involving sexual intimacy” (ccc 2390). Such “unions” contradict Church teaching which states: “The sexual act must take place exclusively within marriage. Outside of marriage it always constitutes a grave sin and excludes one from sacramental communion” (ccc 2390).

Many in our culture also reject chaste living by opting for “a trial marriage” with “an intention of getting married later” (ccc 2391). The Catechism asserts that “human love does not tolerate trial marriages.

(Rather), it demands a total and definitive gift of persons to one another” (ccc 2391).

Sadly, statistics suggest that separation and divorce among Catholics is about the same as that of non-Catholics. Therefore, many parishes within many of our dioceses throughout the world offer support groups and other types of counseling for married couples who separate or divorce.

In conclusion, allow me to state that God’s grace is offered to all who embark upon the beautiful Sacrament of Matrimony with sincerity and in a spirit of truth.

How God’s grace is used depends on the sincere, faith-filled intentions of each partner within the marriage when the “two become one flesh” (Mk 10:8). If both persons give the best of themselves to God and one another, sacrificially and sincerely practicing chaste love, the fruit of that love will continue on throughout their marriage and beyond.

Father Hillier is Director, diocesan Office of Pontifical Mission Societies, the Office for Persons with Disabilities, and Censor Luborum

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Students at Somerville schools combine efforts for refugees

THE CATHOLIC SPIRIT Items donated by Immaculata High students for refugees from Ukraine include diapers, first-aid kits and protein bars. — photo courtesy of Immaculata High School understanding of the world around them while also nurturing their hearts and minds to feel compassion and empathy for others.

It is in times of war and darkness that we feel the urgency of Jesus’ commandment, to ‘love your neighbor as yourself.’”

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Immaculata High School and Immaculate pers, first aid kits, protein bars, and other Conception School in Somerville raised needed supplies. more than $8,500 from a recent ‘dressThe donations are scheduled to be down day fundraiser’ to sent to Poland and then “It is imperative brought to the border of assist with the humanitarian crisis in Ukraine. to aid in the refugee that we support Ukraine Immaculata High crisis. Many student organiour children in zations as well as individual School’s Ed Webber (Class of 1999), Dean of Students, including sophotheir pursuit of students, commented, “With such mores Angelica Ordonez short notice, I was worried knowledge and and Madison Schuhrer, that perhaps the response helped organize the effort. from the community would understanding of The students noted it be stifled somewhat. I the world around was “heartwarming to see couldn’t have been more our classmates and comthem...to feel wrong. I am simply blown munity come together so away by the generosity of and that they did compassion and quickly,” our community and the renot expect the amount of dosponse we have received to nations in such a short time. empathy this effort.”

Kelly Seccamanie, prinfor others.”

Typically, dress-down cipal, Immaculate Concep—Kelly Seccamanie day fundraisers raise about tion School, noted, “I have $800. Additionally, both overheard students talking schools encouraged students and faculty about the war with their friends and teachto support the relief effort by donating ers. It is imperative that we support our specific supplies. Donations included dia- children in their pursuit of knowledge and

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Felician Sister who guided generations of students plans to retire In 1970, when Felician Sister Donna Marie Trukowski first entered St. Thomas Aquinas High School as the chairperson of the mathematics department and as a teacher, the school was less than a year old.

Now, after having shepherded the school through a building expansion, its 50th anniversary, and a global pandemic, she plans to retire in June, leaving behind a lasting legacy and generations of grateful students and families.

Sister Donna, as she is affectionately called by those who know her, served as the school’s principal for more than 37 years until she was appointed as the school’s first president in 2020.

“It was a big change for me when I was appointed as president,” said Sister Donna, noting the adjustment from overseeing the day-to-day operations as principal to overseeing the key areas of school mission, financial management, facilities, alumni relations, and fundraising as president.

“I have always enjoyed working with the students and helping to pass on the Catholic faith to future generations, so this change will be an even bigger adjustment for me.”

When she first announced her retirement to Bishop James F. Checchio and Ellen Ayoub, superintendent, diocesan Office of Schools, there was a heaviness in the air, which was then quickly replaced with joyful gratitude.

“Sister Donna has served our school community so well over these many years,” said Bishop Checchio.

“It is certainly difficult to see her retire, but it is also fulfilling to know the impact she has made during her time at the school. She has been a constant source of strength for the school community and has, indeed, been a constant source of the Light of Christ for the many students under her care and their families. I am grateful to her for her faithful service to Catholic education and I know those she served will continue to do well in carrying forward the Light of Christ, which she devotedly shared with them.”

A native of Bayonne, Sister Donna was first introduced to religious life and to her passion for education while attending Our Lady of Mt. Carmel School in the city.

“The religious sisters who were serving in the school at the time had such zeal and joy, and an undeniable love for the Lord,” Sister Donna said, reflecting on her admiration for them.

“I was drawn to their happiness and their compassion for others. I knew I wanted the same for myself and I wanted to make the kind of difference I saw them make through their vocational ministry each day.”

After enrolling in Jersey City State College for a year, Sister Donna entered the religious congregation and professed her perpetual vows in 1962.

This year, she celebrated her 60th anniversary as a Felician Sister, a religious community marked by their “service of God and His people, so that in all and by all, God may be known, loved and glorified,” she added.

“I pray that my time in this school

Felician Sister Donna Marie Trukowski, shown at a recent event at St. Thomas Aquinas High School, Edison, served as its principal for more than 37 years until she was appointed as its first president in 2020. The photo, a screenshot taken from the school’s website, shows Sister Donna receiving applause from Bishop James F. Checchio, right, and Father Timothy A. Christy, left, diocesan vicar general and moderator of the curia. community has done just that – that my ‘service of God and His people’ in our school community has impacted and helped to fortify the faculty, students and their families, to go forward and proclaim the word of God, ‘so that in all and by all, God may be known, loved and glorified,’” said Sister Donna.

She earned a bachelor’s degree in elementary education at Felician College, Lodi, then began her career in Catholic education at St. Francis de Sales School, Lodi; Holy Cross School, Trenton; St. John Kanty School, Clifton; and St. Anthony High School, Jersey City.

Sister Donna first joined the staff of St. Thomas Aquinas High School, Edison, in 1970; she served as math-

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Acts of Kindness Bishop James F. Checchio asked that during the 40th anniversary celebration of the diocese, schools, parishes and the community embrace three priorities: increased prayer, works of mercy and vocations. He recently stated, “I am always so impressed by the outreach and acts of mercy that our school communities do within their school and parish, but also for others.” Faculty, children and students at St. Helena School, Edison, in grades pre-K3 through eighth grade responded by coming up with 40 Acts of Mercy during the Lenten Season in honor of the anniversary. Students decorated snack bags filled with bottles of water and bags of popcorn for local police officers, mail carriers, the school nurse, and custodian. They also crocheted hats for babies at hospitals and decorated rocks with inspiring words for St. Helena parishioners to take home after Mass.

— photo courtesy of St. Helena School

ematics department chairperson and photo teacher, mini-course coordinator, cheerleading moderator and bookstore manager. Simultaneously, she earned her state certification and master’s degree in mathematics at Rutgers University, New Brunswick. Feeling it was time for a new challenge, she accepted the position of principal of Most Sacred Heart of Jesus School, Wallington, and after a three-year term at the Bergen County school, she returned to St. Thomas Aquinas High School as principal.

In her tenure at the diocese’s co-educational college preparatory school, she has overseen advancements in technology for the school, the adoption of more athletic programs and extra-curricular activities, and a 12-year building and reconstruction project.

True to her vocation and calling to serve in boundless love and compassionate service, she humbly credited her success at the school to those who worked alongside her all these years.

“This school community – the students I have taught, the families I have served, and the faculty members and clergy whom I have worked with – has been a big part of my life and a big part of my religious vocation for a long time,” said Sister Donna.

“I am grateful to them each day for the joy they brought me, and sometimes even the headaches, over these,” she added with a smile.

“While I may no longer have responsibilities for the school, or a desk or office space there, the school community is ingrained in who I am and will forever be a part of my vocational story and my life. My hope and my prayer, as the school heads into its next 50 years, is that future generations of students can continue to find a home at St. Thomas Aquinas High School, one rooted in faith, dedicated to knowledge, and forever working to ensure their success.”

chaos and closer to his will.

Sister Lisa noted that there are two ways that work best to keep Jesus in our lives: reading Scripture and by breathing.

During group exercises, faculty and staff focused particularly on the story of the Samaritan woman at Jacob’s well (John 4:4-42), in which Jesus helped her realize that he is the “living water.”

They also learned that the name “YAHWEH” imitates the same sounds as breathing — “yod, heh, vav, heh” and that every breath we take says ‘YAHWEH.’ After Sister Lisa’s presentation, Mass was celebrated at Immaculate Conception Chapel. Msgr. William Benwell, pastor, St. Mary’s-Stony Hill Parish, Watchung, presided.

The Mercy Guild prepared a lunch in the Student Center to show their appreciation for faculty and staff. Mercy guild members expressed their gratitude and raffle baskets and gifts were available.

For more than 110 years, Mount Saint Mary Academy has been a spon-

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WATCHUNG — A recent livestreamed presentation by Mercy Sister Lisa Atkins, director, Hysechia House of Prayer, New Blaine, Ark., breathed fresh life and inspiration into Mount Saint Mary faculty and staff at its Spirituality Day. The theme of the program, which was organized by Ruth Anne Munroe (director, Campus Ministry and Student Council moderator) was “Free Refills Here.”

While acknowledging the challenges and stressors of the school year and how well the faculty/staff have adapted and encouraged the students during tumultuous times, Sister Lisa said, “Whenever you take a deep breath, invite Jesus in to refill you.”

Sister Lisa, who is also a board-certified nurse, said that faculty/staff should look to Venerable Catherine McAuley as an example because she remained centered in God through contemplation and action, spending quiet time with Jesus and inviting him to direct her out of

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Faculty and staff at Mount Saint Mary Academy, Watchung, listen to a presentation by Mercy Sister Lisa Atkins during the institution’s Spirituality Day. The Mount is a Catholic, independent school that provides college preparatory education for girls and young women in grades nine through 12. Each year, 100 percent of its graduating class is accepted to college.

— photo courtesy of Mount Saint Mary Academy sored work of the Sisters of Mercy of the Americas. Mount Saint Mary Academy is dedicated to the education of the entire

person, with high academic standards, an emphasis on spiritual growth, and a multitude of extracurricular opportunities.

Students take time for fun, games with special needs ‘Friends’

By Tim LeCras

Above, “Friend” Paul Seifert, standing over ball, plays soccer with Saint Joseph High School students at the institution’s “Falcons & Friends” event March 22. Left, Saint Joe’s junior Daniel Bachenski (right) interacts with his “Friend,” Audrey.

— photos courtesy of Saint Joseph High School

their friends, even I didn’t and I started this,” Thomas Freda said. “At the end of the day, we were all doing it. When everyone of the Falcons started to step outside their comfort zone, you could see the reactions from our friends on the zoom. It was all worth it. It was really cool to see some of the high schoolers put their egos aside and do it for their friends.”

To learn more about “Falcons & Friends,” contact Tracey Coudriet at tcoudriet@stjoes.org.

LeCras is director, Communications and Marketing, Saint Joseph High School

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standstill during COVID-19.

Freda and the rest of the Falcons had to come up with a way to continue the program in the digital age of Zoom. So, in December 2020, in the Campus Ministry room at Saint Joe’s, a Zoom Christmas Party was held. Annual holiday traditions were shared, stories were told and there was even a visit from Santa Claus to each of the Zoom rooms. But what made the party special was what wasn’t planned -- a Christmas Carol sing-a-long.

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METUCHEN — A typical high school-aged boy is not one to step out of his comfort zone.

He typically doesn’t stay late after school to volunteer his time and he definitely doesn’t parade around a room singing Christmas carols and dressing up as Santa Claus with his closest friends.

Thomas Freda and the rest of the students that participate in the popular Saint Joseph High School’s “Falcons & Friends” are not your typical high school students.

The ideas of community service and helping those in need are ingrained in the minds of Saint Joe’s students from the time they step on campus their freshman year.

Each month, Freda gathers 75 of his fellow Falcons for a night of fun and games, though they are not the benefactors. Their “Friends” are. But these aren’t your classic high school friend circles. Their “Friends” are a group of local special needs and disabled people enjoying a night out.

“The idea was for the ‘Friends’ to get a lot out of it, which they still do,” Freda said. “But, also, there is a second part to it and that’s the students here. Up until now, I never really saw people my age embrace people with disabilities and now it’s become a culture that we have built here at Saint Joe’s, which is really heartwarming and awesome.”

Spending time around people with special needs is not something new to Freda.

Along with his older brother and Falcons and Friends co-founders Eric (Class of 2020) and their friend, Alessandro Pugliese (’21), their lives have been entrenched in the world of special needs advocacy. The Freda brothers’ uncle, Paul Seifert, has special needs, as does Pugliese’s older brother, Michele.

Thomas, Eric and Alex’s desire to

connect Paul and Michele to high school students is what led to the official formation of “Falcons & Friends” in 2019. Following a conversation with Tracey Coudriet, Saint Joe’s director of Campus Ministry, the trio developed the footprint for Falcons and Friends. Now, they just needed some help in the form of their fellow Falcons.

“Once the students here got to see what it was like, they enjoyed it,” Thomas Freda said. “They didn’t want to sign up just for service hours, they genuinely wanted to come back and help. It’s rewarding.”

From a “Friends” perspective, the growth has been unimaginable. What started as a handful of participants, mostly those connected to Uncle Paul and Michele, has transformed into a group of “Friends” that no one saw coming, with more than 30 “Friends” running around the gym each month.

“Getting people with special needs more involved, not just with sports, but coming to the school more often and meeting more students is extremely important,” junior Christian Cuccia said. “At first, it was a 10-15 Friend kind of thing, now it’s a 40 Friend thing. The program has really grown over the years. It’s very fun to be a part of.”

Junior Daniel Bachenski was on the fence about joining Falcons and Friends.

After receiving a text from Thomas before the September 2022 event, he decided to give it a try.

“The first time I was there, I was like ‘How do I talk to the Friends?’ I’m not going to know how,” Bachenski said. “Then, Audrey came in. She’s one of my really close friends. At first, I had to work hard to convince Audrey to go play. After a couple of times of playing around, she got used to me.”

Experiences like Bachenski’s are rampant throughout the program, but came to a

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Sharpshooters from diocese net trophies in free throw contests

By Christina Leslie Correspondent MILLTOWN — On March 5, the gymnasium at the now-closed Our Lady of Lourdes School echoed with the sound of bouncing basketballs and enthusiastic applause as boys and girls competed in the finals of the diocese’s annual Knights of Columbus Free Throw Tournament.

Each contestant, employing a unique blend of technique, skill and determination, strove to earn the coveted sound of a “swish” by shooting a 22-ounce orange rubber sphere through a nylon net 15 feet away and 10-feet high.

The field of competitors was winnowed down to 12 of the best sharpshooters; one boy and girl each from the age categories of nine through 14 took home a trophy and earned an invitation to the tournament’s state finals at St. Ambrose Parish, Old Bridge, April 2.

In the state finals, diocese competitors Michael Ferrer (24 shots made), boys 11-year-old division, and Nina Fama (19), girls 12-year-old, both of Our Lady of Louordes; and Kayla Duncan (19 made in regu-

lar competition, four of five in a tiebreaker round), girls 13-year-old, won titles.

At Our Lady of Lourdes, each competitor attempted 25 free throws. In total, the 11 winners scored 140 attempts to earn their trophies.

Members of Knights of Columbus Council 7250 at Our Lady of Lourdes volunteered as scorekeepers and rebounders, answering each child’s efforts with words of encouragement. Council member Thomas Olsen, who has assisted at the event for 15 years, said, “It doesn’t matter how big or tall the kids are, everyone has a chance to win.”

The council’s Grand Knight, William Young, added, “It’s a community project which brings people together. This year, it’s more important than ever to get people out and give the kids an opportunity to do something they enjoy.”

Now in its 50th year, the Knights’ Free Throw Tournament is one of its most successful youth activities. According to the men’s Catholic fraternal organization’s website, “Councils sponsor the tournament to provide an athletic outlet and encourage the values of sportsmanship and healthy competition.”

Knights of Columbus State Free Throw chairman, Grand Knight John A. Gazis, called the tournament a “valuable teaching tool” for the youth.

“They are competing against kids their own age, and they cheer for their friends, siblings, even strangers,” Gazis said. “It gives them the chance to learn sportsmanship.”

Diocese winners and free throws made, were:

Boys

14-year-old: Kristopher Mattos, 6 13-year-old: Leo Carone, 21 12-year-old: Sean Duncan, 18 11-year-old: Michael Ferrer, 21 10-year-old: Cece Calandruccio, 15 9-year-old: Michael Puppo, 16

Girls

14-year-old: Ashley Kruskinski, automatically advanced 13-year-old: Kayla Duncan, 17 12-year-old: Nina Fama, 14 11-year-old: Gabriella Sannwaldt, 5 10-year-old: Juliet Yasutis, 7 9-year-old: to be determeined

NIna Fanna, left, poses with her mother, Jeanine, after she won the 12-year-old division at the diocese’s Knights of Columbus Free Throw Tournament finals at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Milltown, March 5. Nina was one of three winners from the diocese who also won state titles April 2.

— Mike Ehrmann photo

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Jesus shared one last Passover meal with the apostles before he was crucified.

When the time came to eat, he took a cup and gave thanks. “Take this and share it among yourselves; for I tell you that from this time on I shall not drink of the fruit of the vine until the kingdom of God comes,” he said. Then he took the bread, said the blessing, broke it and gave it to them.

“This is my body, which will be given for you; do this in memory of me,” he said.

Then he took the cup in the same manner. “This cup is the new covenant in my blood, which will be shed for you,” he said. Jesus explained to his friends that the person who would betray him was at the table. The apostles began to debate who among them would do such a deed.

After the Passover meal, Jesus and his friends went to the Mount of Olives. “Pray that you may not undergo the test,” he said. Jesus withdrew from his friends and knelt about a stone’s throw away. He began to pray. “Father, if you are willing, take this cup away from me; still, not my will but yours be done,” he said. Jesus was in such agony and he was praying so hard that his sweat became like drops of blood falling to the ground. An angel from heaven appeared to him to strengthen

him. When he had finished praying, he rose and returned to the apostles. He found them sleeping from grief. “Why are you sleeping?” he asked. “Get up and pray that you may not undergo the test.” While Jesus was still speaking, a crowd approached. At the head of the crowd was the apostle Judas, who went up to Jesus and kissed him. “Judas, are you betraying the son of man with a kiss?” Jesus asked. When the apostles realized what was happening, they asked whether they should strike with a sword. One of them struck the high priest’s servant and cut off his right ear. “Stop, no more of this!”

Jesus said as he touched the servant’s ear and healed him.

The chief priests, elders and temple guards in the crowd led Jesus to the high priest’s house after arresting him.

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5/15 Statewide Youth Rally at Six Flags Great Adventure. Doors open at 8:30 a.m., the Opening Session will begin at 9:15 a.m. The park will be open to all from 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. and there will be a 5 p.m. Sunday Liturgy.

The Rally is open to Jr. High, High School, Youth Ministry, Young Adult Ministry, Scouting, Parish/School Athletic Programs, families, and all. Registration is now open. The cost for the day is $55 per person ($25 for season ticket holders) and includes advance entry into the park, a free return ticket to the park, a 3-hour all-you-can-eat buffet, Mass, the Opening Ceremony, and a free parking pass.To purchase tickets please visit the Office of Youth and Young Adult Ministry page on the diocesan website and register before the May 6th deadline. For more information email mvantslot@diometuchen.org.

5/17-20, the relics of Saint Bernadette will tour the United States for the first time, bringing the grace of Lourdes to parishes across the country. The Sanctuary of Our Lady of Lourdes is organizing the pilgrimage of the relics in partnership with the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, North American Volunteers, Hospitalité of Miami and the Order of Malta. The Relics of Saint Bernadette will visit the Diocese of Metuchen, the only diocesan stop in New Jersey. Details are available on our diocesan website at: Diometuchen.org/SaintBernadette DIOCESAN PROGRAMS “The Chosen” Study Series All young adult engaged and married couples are invited to join in a virtual study series based on the hit series, “The Chosen.” A different episode will be discussed each meeting and virtual watch parties will be planned sporadically. Meetings will take place every other Monday evening at 7p.m. on Zoom beginning on January 24th. For details or to join, please contact Cristina D’Averso-Collins at cdaverso@diometuchen.org.

WEEKLY PODCAST – Am I Not Here?

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First and third Thursday of each month, 3 to 4 p.m. via Zoom – Mount Saint Mary House of Prayer, Watchung. “Virtual Cup of Tea.” Lectio divina, prayer, conversation and small-group sharing. Freewill offering. Information and registration can be found at www.msmhope.org or call (908) 753-2091 or e-mail msmhope@ msmhope.org.

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May 22, 5 p.m. – Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi concert series concludes with the wind quartet “Quinception,” the New Jersey premiere of “A Walk Through the Garden” by Andrew Kosinski, and music

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April 17, Easter Sunday: Masses at 7:45 a.m., 9:30 a.m., 11:15 a.m. The blessing of Easter foods and baskets will take place at the end of each Mass.

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5/7 Prayer and meditation, 2 to 5 p.m. Parish Center at Mary Mother of God Church, Hillsborough. The Hispanic women of the diocese are welcome to join in an afternoon of prayer and meditation on their role as women, following the model of the Virgin Mary. Special Guest: Kathia Arango, Director of the Office for Hispanic Catholics at Archdiocese of Philadelphia. Donation: $15. Register at diometuchen.org/hispanicevangelization. For more information email: hispanic.ministry@diometuchen.org or contact Luz Escobar at (732) 243-4573.

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Divine Mercy Apostolate

Divine Mercy Sunday THE DIOCESE OF METUCHEN Invites all to attend

APRIL 24, 2022 St. Ambrose Church

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