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Bishop James F. Checchio (back row, center); Deacon Stephen Kern, director, diocesan Office of the Diaconate (front row, far right); and Deacon Edgar Chavez, associate director for Formation (back row, far left); pose with the newly-ordained deacons – all of whom speak Spanish — after Mass at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assis, Metuchen, May 14. Front row, from left: Paul Flor and Jose Fritz Molina. Second row, from left, Jose R. Diaz, German Gonzalez, Ubaldo Valdez, Francisco Jaurides, Pedro Sanchez Duval, Ysidro Abreu and Richard Ferreira. Third row (in front of bishop), Jose Suarez Aular. Back row, from left, Freddy A. Perez, Vidál González Zelaya, Hernando Patino, William Chirinos and Sergio Diaz. See coverage of the Mass and profiles of the deacons pages 12-22. — Ed Koskey Jr. photo

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Joyful to see Spirit working to renew face of earth, diocese

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My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

Christian. This spring has spoiled me in that I have so readily seen the Spirit working to renew the face of the earth and our diocese. The work of the Spirit has been evident to me as throughout our diocese thousands of children and hundreds of adults received their first holy Communion. I have seen the Spirit at work in scores of confirmations celOn Sunday, June 5, we celebrated ebrated over the past few months. The the beautiful Solemnity of Pentecost. As Spirit was shared as our new deacons and you might know, it is one of the most priest were ordained for service in our important celebrations on the Church’s diocese. I also witnessed the Holy Spirit liturgical calendar. Afin our graduates at the ter the Sacred Triduum four Catholic high school (Holy Thursday, Good graduations I attended With Jesus’ death, and heard such wonderFriday and the Solemnity of Easter) and the speeches given by our God’s work in the ful celebration of the Incarstudents about the faith nation at Christmas, the imparted to them during world does not Solemnity of Pentecost their years at our schools. is the next most impor- come to an end. The How grateful we should tant celebration. To mark Church, founded on be to our administrators, the occasion, our diocese teachers and staff, and Pentecost with the their generous parents, hosted a vigil of prayer at the Cathedral beginning gift of the Holy Spirit, too. No doubt, the Holy with the evening’s vigil Spirit is moving the hearts Mass through midnight, carries on Christ’s of all our elementary, high hosted by our Office of school and college gradupresence in the Youth and Young Adult ates as they prepare for Ministry along with St. the next phase of their world. Peter the Apostle Unilives. versity and Community Another exciting Parish, the Catholic CenSpirit-filled celebration ter at Rutgers University will be the upcoming in New Brunswick, as well as the Ca- Solemnity of Corpus Christi on June 19. thedral parish. How wonderful to see so That day will be the start of our diocesan many young people gather for this time phase of the National Eucharistic Revival of prayer with the Holy Spirit. Pentecost being promoted by the Bishops of our is such an important Solemnity because country. I was asked to serve on the comit is the Holy Spirit that continues the mittee of Bishops serving as an advisory Divine Presence of God in our world, board for this initiative. At the end of our carrying on the work of Jesus in reconcil- noon Mass at the Cathedral, we will have ing the world to the Father. With Jesus’ a Eucharistic Procession through the death, God’s work in the world does not streets of Metuchen. Many parishes will come to an end. The Church, founded likewise host Eucharistic Processions on on Pentecost with the gift of the Holy this day. The main mission of the revival, Spirit, carries on Christ’s presence in the starting on the diocesan level, followed world. That means He can continue to by the parish level and culminating in the act through you and me and every other national Eucharistic Congress in the sum-

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mer of 2024, is to “renew the Church by enkindling a living relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ in the Holy Eucharist.” The goals of the revival are: 1. Fostering encounters with the Eucharist through kerygamtic proclamations and experiences of Eucharistic devotion 2. Contemplating and proclaiming the doctrine of the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist 3. Empowering grassroots creativity within our diocese 4. Initiating encounters with the Lord (small groups, parish etc.) 5. Experiencing rich intercultural Eucharistic traditions You will be hearing more from your parishes and the diocese about the Eucharistic revival. I am grateful to Father James De Fillipps who will be coordinating this initiative and providing resources for our parishes to begin planning and executing the vision for our diocese and local parishes.

Indeed, may the Holy Spirit pour out His gifts across our diocese. Know of my love, prayers and gratitude for you. Please pray for me, too, that the Spirit may guide me always in shepherding this blessed diocese! May the prayer of St. Augustine be our own, too: Breathe into me, Holy Spirit, that my thoughts may all be holy. Move in me, Holy Spirit that my work, too, may be holy. Attract my heart, Holy Spirit, that I may love only what is holy. Strengthen me, Holy Spirit, that I may defend all that is holy. Protect me, Holy Spirit, that I may always be holy. Amen

Most Reverend James F. Checchio, JCD, MBA Bishop of Metuchen

Editor’s Note Father Kenneth Doyle has retired from publishing so “The Catholic Spirit will no longer carry Father Doyle’s “Question Corner” columns which has been part of the paper’s Our Faith section.

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By Christina Leslie Correspondent METUCHEN — Though thousands held an audience with the young visionary, each private encounter was different and life-affirming. Reverent and curious and filled with love for the Blessed Mother and the young French maiden who followed her instruction, hundreds flocked to the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi May 19 to venerate the relics of St. Bernadette Soubirous during their first pilgrimage to the United

States. Organized in partnership with the Sanctuary of Our Lady of Lourdes, the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, the North American Volunteers, Hospitalité of Miami and the Order of Malta, the U.S. tour of St. Bernadette’s relics, which began in April and will end in August. The visit to the Cathedral, another to Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick, and one to Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Milltown, were the reliquary’s only stops in New Jersey. Throughout the day, school-

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Top of page, worshipers at Mass at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, renact a candlelight procession at Lourdes, France. Above, with the reliquary holding relics of St. Bernadatte in the backgroud, Bishop James F. Checchio, left, and Father Timothy A. Christy, rector, Cathedral Parish, distribute Communion. — John Batkowski photos

children and adults visited the relics Mary Bernard to a poor family in during daily Mass, exposition of the Lourdes, a small village in the south Blessed Sacrament, the praying of the of France, in 1844. In 1858, a series rosary and films of a virtual pilgrim- of 18 apparitions of a lady calling age experience. Long lines of pilgrims herself the “Immaculate Conception” waited patiently to approach the gold- appeared to her in a grotto, requesten reliquary, inlaid with stones show- ing she drink of the water that flowed ing the Blessed Virgin in a grotto as there and wash in it. Church officials a plainly dressed young maiden, Ber- and the French government vigorously nadette, knelt revinterviewed the girl, erently before her and by 1862 con“I believe Our Lady of heavenly mother. firmed she spoke Ushers assisted the Lourdes is the reason I am the truth. faithful by pressing After the conpreaching to you tonight, struction their prayer cards or of a charosaries to the firstpel at the site, and because I believe she class relic to obtain numerous miracles grabbed hold of me and of healing for those a blessing. Bishop James who bathed in the became my mother...” F. Checchio prespring, Bernadette —Father Timothy A. Christy sided at an evening withdrew from publiturgy, which drew lic life and joined hundreds more to venerate the relics. the Sisters of Notre Dame in Nemours. Father Timothy A. Christy, Cathedral She died at the age of 35 in 1879. In rector, gave the homily in which he 1925, her incorrupt body was exsaid the Blessed Mother was entrusted humed so that first-class relics could to be the Mother of the Church as she be retrieved. She was canonized by and the disciple John stood at the foot Pope Pius XI in 1933. Her feast day of Jesus’ cross. is April 16. “A good mother never wants her Father Christy continued, “This children to go astray. She wants the little girl was visited by the Mother of best for them,” Father Christy said. God in a little backward town called “She shows up so we don’t lose our Lourdes. God’s mysterious plan is that way. And so, it was in the 1850s, in a He picks someone that no one else little village in southern France, Our thinks about, chooses unsuspecting Lady approached the little girl Berna- people to do great things. dette, uncatechized but with a love for “Bernadette became a prophet for God. Our Lady spoke to her, entrusted a renewed spirituality to come to the to her nothing new, but to refresh the Church,” he said. “If you ever have Church.” woken up and said to yourself, Continued on page 8 Bernadette Soubirous was born


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How dads have broken their own ‘glass ceiling’ in home

It was March 19, 1962, and my mother went into labor with my youngest brother, Tommy. After she was taken to the hospital, my paternal grandmother turned to my father and said: “John, there’s nothing for you to do here. Go play golf!” And guess what? He did! In my youth, the father was seen first and foremost as the provider — and the mother was portrayed as the nurturer. Roles were defined in black and white. If the baby awoke in the night, it was my mom who got up. If the baby needed a bath, it was my mom who took care of this. When it came to faith, it was my mom who taught us our prayers and made sure we went to church. Dad, on the other hand, taught us how to catch a ball, play football, baseball and, of course, golf.

It was mom who chauffeured us to Cub Scouts, but dad who brought us to the pinewood derby. It was mom who did the housework, from laundry to cooking, from making beds to doing the dishes. It was dad who threw out the garbage, took care of the pool and cut the grass. Then, in the 1970’s, thanks in part to the liberation movement of women, and with more and more mothers working full-time, those black and white job descriptions which accompanied each parent became fuzzy and now appeared in shades of gray. In some homes, wives were providing more revenue than their husbands, and with maternity leaves limited to three months, dads had to begin the share in the role of nurturer. Women were now demanding that their husbands share in parenting more than they had in the past. How did this translate into ordinary domestic life? Dads were no longer dispatched to play golf when their wives entered labor and delivery. To the contrary, dads were expected to be, and still are, at the sides of their wives at the birth of their children. When the babies awake in the middle of the night for feedings, dads and moms share the feeding schedule, change diapers, bathe the baby when warranted and rock the baby to sleep again. In my day, all

of this fell on poor mom’s shoulders. Yes, dads have evolved! When it was time for toddlerdom, dads and moms were now equi-present and involved in the play dates, pre-school presentations and sports. In my day, mom was the pre-school (with the help of Romper Room and Captain Kangaroo), the taxi driver to sports activities or club meetings and referee when my brothers and I would argue over rules to games. When we were tweens, Dad introduced us to go-carts and minibikes, eventually field motorcycles, fishing and hunting. Mom introduced us to chores around the house and taking care of the family dog, chickens, ducks, yes, even a French-Alpine goat! When we’d go to the shore for a day trip, mom would pack eggplant and salami sandwiches, dad would stuff as much patio furniture as possible into the trunk. On the beach, dad was the lifeguard, mom was the snack bar. On the boardwalk, mom took a backseat as dad would not leave until he won all three of his sons a bazooka air-gun. Some would say he was, by nature, a socialist but he always voted Republican. As teens, it was dad who made sure we all had cars on our 17th birthday. He also serviced our cars for nothing! It was

mom who taught us how to drive! It was dad who got us our first jobs as caddies. It was mom who taught us how to treat a girl the right way on dates. Now, Dads have the aforementioned honors as well. They also learned real fast how to clean, do laundry and cook. In fact, they began to take a more active role in the faith formation of their children, teaching CCD, mentoring a high school faith sharing group, being a chaperone on a mission trip, workshopping a young person before an Antioch talk. Dads are Lectors, Eucharistic ministers and even Permanent Deacons! Yes, dads have evolved but we must avoid the temptation of being anachronistic and looking pejoratively on dads of old. They did what was expected of them at that time in history. My dad passed away in November. I miss his presence very much, especially on holidays, Sundays and special occasions, like Christmas, Easter and the anniversary of my ordination. On this Father’s Day, we salute both the old and the new species of dads. They all deserve our respect and love. “God ever close to us, we rejoice to call you, Father…and dads of all ages, we wish you one and all, a very, Happy Father’s Day!” Father Comandini is managing editor of “The Catholic Spirit”

Pope Francis’s recent announcement that he will create 21 new cardinals on August 27, 16 of whom would vote in a conclave held after that date, set off the usual flurry of speculations about the shape of the next papal election. Much of that crystal ballgazing was less than useful, based as it was on numerous myths about conclaves. Demythologizing those tropes will, I hope, function as a stabilizer, as the waters surrounding the Barque of Peter will likely get more turbulent before the next conclave meets in the Sistine Chapel beneath the stern gaze of Christ the Judge. Myth 1: A pope who names a significant percentage of the cardinals who elect his successor thereby determines the succession. Not true. In 1878, the cardinal-electors were all

nominees of either Gregory XVI or Pius IX; they elected Vincenzo Gioacchino Pecci who, as Leo XIII, took the Church in a very different direction than his two immediate predecessors. In 1903, 61 of the 62 cardinalelectors who chose Pope Leo’s successor had been named by the man who, over 25 years, launched the Leonine Revolution and Catholicism’s engagement with modern culture and politics — cardinals who might have been expected to elect a man in Leo XIII’s image. Instead, after an interfering veto cast by that paladin of contemporary Catholic integralists, the Habsburg emperor, they elected Giuseppe Melchiore Sarto, who as Pius X firmly applied the brakes to Leo’s bolder initiatives. In 1958, the cardinal-electors were all nominees of Pius XI and Pius XII, and it was widely assumed that the next pope would be in that line (Pius XII, as Eugenio Pacelli, having been Pius XI’s Secretary of State). Instead, the cardinal-electors chose an elderly placeholder, Angelo Giuseppe Roncalli. As John XXIII, he led the Church into an ecumenical council that both Pius XI and Pius XII had considered summoning

before rejecting the idea; the rest is the history of our Catholic moment. In 2013, the overwhelming majority of electors had been created cardinals by John Paul II and Benedict XVI. The man they chose, who took the unprecedented papal name Francis, has quietly but determinedly dismantled the legacy of John Paul II and Benedict XVI in numerous respects. Myth 2: He who enters the conclave a pope leaves the conclave a cardinal. Not true. In 1878, Leo XIII was chosen quickly, which suggests that he must have been very papabile before the conclave. Giacomo Della Chiesa, the cardinal-archbishop of Bologna and a veteran papal diplomat, was certainly papabile entering the wartime conclave of 1914, although it took a bruising struggle to get him elected. Just about everyone who knew anything expected Eugenio Pacelli to succeed Pius XI (including Pius XI), and he was indeed rapidly chosen. Giovanni Battista Montini was certainly very papabile in 1963, in part because many cardinal-electors had regarded him as the logical successor to Pius XII in 1958; but for some yet-unexplained reason, Montini, though archbishop of Milan, was not a cardinal when Pius XII died. For those free of prejudices and appropriately skeptical of Italian media fantasies, Joseph Ratzinger entered the conclave of 2005 very papabile, and left the conclave as pope after brief balloting. Similarly, in 2013, those with real sources (which usually do

not include Italian newspapers) knew that Jorge Mario Bergoglio, SJ, was a prime contender, and his election after a brief conclave was no surprise to them. Myth 3: A lengthy, contentious conclave leads to a disempowered pontificate. Not true. Giacomo Della Chiesa, Achille Ratti, and Karol Wojtyla were all elected after rather lengthy conclaves; moreover, the conclaves of 1914 and 1922 were rife with contention, as the cardinals continued to battle over the legacy of the Leonine Revolution. Yet Benedict XV, Pius XI and John Paul II were all great popes who made significant contributions to the Church. The lesson? A long conclave can produce a considered, thoughtful result. Myth 4: The only cardinals who count are the cardinals who actually vote. Not true. Since Paul VI reformed conclave procedures, only cardinals who have not reached their 80th birthday when the conclave opens can vote. However, all cardinals participate in the General Congregations of cardinals between a pope’s death or abdication and the immurement of the conclave. And they can have a real effect, as Britain’s Cormac Murphy-O’Connor proved by his advocacy of the Bergoglio candidacy in 2013. With over-80 cardinals of great moral authority like Francis Arinze, Wilfred Fox Napier, George Pell, Camillo Ruini and Joseph Zen participating, the discussions in the next General Congregations can be similarly influential.

Unlike God the Father, who is immutable, a glance at past and the present will show that our earthly fathers have not only changed, they’ve evolved!

Body & Soul By Father Glenn J. Comandini, STD

JUNE 16, 2021

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For four days, ‘heaven touched earth’ at church, hospital, cathedral By Chris Donahue Associate Editor MILLTOWN — The demographics at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish have changed since it was founded in 1921 to serve the spiritual and pastoral needs of French families who came to work at the borough’s new Michelin plant in 1907. In the decades that followed, it became the spiritual home to generations of Catholics of different ethnicities and races. From 1985 until 2016, it was shepherded by Father Thomas V. Perunilam, a native of India and beloved pastor who died in July 2018. However, in 2021, when the parish planned to celebrate its 100th anniversary, COVID-19 postponed it until 2022. The 2021 celebration would have included a pilgrimage to the Marian shrine in Lourdes, France, where the Blessed Mother appeared to the future saint, Bernadette Soubirous, patroness of the sick and shepherds. On May 16, Lourdes came to the parish when a small van that carried first-class relics of St. Bernadette (1844-1879) entered the parking lot at Our Lady of Lourdes Church. Among those who welcomed the sacred cargo and helped put it on display in the church under a statue of Mary were Father Michael E. Crummy, in residence at the parish; Deacon Steven J. Holzinger II, who exercises

his ministry there, and members of the from their motherhouse in Round Top, Altar Rosary Society and Knights of N.Y. During their visit, the sisters Columbus Council 7250. venerated the relics, prayed and sang The reliquary and statue stayed at hymns. the church until after the 7 a.m. Mass In a phone call to the motherMay 18, when they were brought to house a couple days later, Sister Marie the chapel at the Collette, who was diocese-sponsored “I also experienced some- among the pilgrims, Saint Peter’s Unisaid the sisters versity Hospital, thing I had previously felt learned of the St. New Brunswick, for Bernadette relics Mass and venera- during my trip to Lourdes. because one of its tion. members monitors The vast majority of The visit to tours of relics to the the Diocese of people who go to Lourdes United States. Metuchen, conclud“Besides being in hopes of a miraculous ed at the Cathedral one of the patron cure do not receive one, saints of our conof St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, May St. Berbut, as many others have gregation, 19, with veneration nadette is a favorite of the relics and among the sisters. observed, the biggest Mass. The stops in Her simplicity, miracle is the feeling of obedience, and esthe diocese were the only ones the tour peace that so many of the pecially her love for made in New Jersey. the Blessed Mother Some pilgrims pilgrims appear to find. It present a powerful came to venerate example and mowas in the air.” the relics from as far tivation to us who —Edward Zukowski away as the Catskill strive to follow in Mountains in New her footsteps,” SisYork. On May 16, a couple hours ter Marie Collette said. before the regular Monday 7 p.m. no“As for the veneration of relics in vena Mass, about 30 members of the general, not only does it give glory to Daughters of Mary, Mother of Our God, but it also puts before our minds Savior, including novices and postu- the particular saint’s virtues for imitalants, arrived at Our Lady of Lourdes tion. It, thus, helps us draw closer to Church after a three-hour trip by van those who are the special friends of

Clockwise from below left: Grand Knight Will Young and Faithful Navigator Steve Svonavec of Knights of Columbus Council 7250, Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Milltown, move a crate holding relics of St. Bernadette up a ramp at Our Lady of Lourdes Church May 16; Deacon Stephen J. Holzinger II. (white vestment) leads a prayer service with Father Michael Crummy (left), Paul Gallo, Svonavec, Barbara Gallo (right) and Pat Laudino outside the church after crates holding the relics and a statue of Our Lady of Lourdes were unloaded from a van; members of the Daughters of Mary, Mother of Our Savior from Round Top, N.Y., venerate the relics; and Father Michael J. Krull gives the homily from the ambo at Mass in honor of the relics of Bernadette Soubirous May 17. — Chris Donahue, Paul Gallo, John Batkowski photos

God,” she added. On May 17, Father Michael J. Krull, pastor, Our Lady of Peace Parish, North Brunswick, presided at a vigil Mass in honor of the visit of the relics and gave the homily. For Father Krull, being able to preside at Mass for the relics had special significance — he grew up in Milltown, Our Lady of Lourdes was his family’s parish and he served as a parochial vicar there in 1994-95. In his homily, Father Krull noted how Lourdes and Milltown are small towns and that Mary appeared to Bernadette in Lourdes and Bernadette “comes to each of us” in Milltown. “Yet, in an even more profound way, heaven touches earth, here, there and everywhere,” he continued. “And we are given a share of that. As we celebrate this Mass heaven touches earth as simple bread and wine become the body, blood, soul and divinity of Jesus Christ himself that we receive here.” He also hoped the relics, which are “ex-carne” or of the flesh, would have a transformative effect on those who came to venerate them and worship at Mass. He described Mary’s 18 apparitions to Bernadette from Feb. 11 to Ju1y 16, 1858, in a “backwater town” as a “wake-up call to the people of that time,” and that after initial skepticism, ridicule and harassment, “hearts were Continued on page 7


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Bernadette Olson, a member of the parish and Altar Rosary Society, said the spiritual impact the relics had on her and fellow parishioners exceeded her expectations. She believes the relics helped bring parishioners closer not only because of the five Masses celebrated during the visit and veneration, but many volunteers were needed to welcome, display and watch over the reliquary. Among the worshipers at the Mass was Edward Zukowski, a member of St. Mary of Ostrabrama Parish, South River, who recently retired as a theology professor at the College of Mount St. Vincent, Bronx, N.Y. “I have been fascinated by Lourdes since high school when I read ‘Voyage to Lourdes’ by the scientist Alexis Carrel, who won the Nobel Prize in Medicine in 1912,” Zukowski said. “Although he went to Lourdes as an agnostic in 1902, he describes witnessing a rather astounding healing which,

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however, he wasn’t then prepared to call a miracle. It would not be until 1942 that he did accept it as a miracle as part of his confessed return to the Catholic faith. “I went to Lourdes in 1981 and lugged back a large soda bottle of water from the spring there and have kept track of any new miracles pronounced by the Church as ‘worthy of belief” of which there are only 70. So, when a colleague invited me to Our Lady of Lourdes for Mass and veneration of the relics of St. Bernadette, I knew I had to come. “The evening was wonderful in every respect. Some of the special music sung by the choir lent majesty to the atmosphere. The congregational singing was resounding and expressive of a strong, shared faith, especially the ‘Oldies but Goodies’ like ‘Immaculate Mary.’ “The homily by Father Mike [Krull], a son of the parish, was brilliant and inspirational, combining some historical background of Our Lady of Lourdes Parish in Milltown and its mystical connection with the Lourdes of France, both places where ‘heaven touched earth’ in a special way. “At the end of Mass, it was heartwarming to see both the young and the old venerate the relics of St. Bernadette. Some had rosaries, which the ushers touched to the reliquary. At the same time, many were going to confession and/or receiving the anointing of the sick. Taking all of this in, I thought to myself, ‘Boy, am I glad to be a Catholic!’ “I also experienced something I had previously felt during my trip to Lourdes. The vast majority of people who go to Lourdes in hopes of a miraculous cure do not receive one, but, as many others have observed, the biggest miracle is the feeling of peace that so many of the pilgrims appear to find. It was in the air. I felt that again at Our Lady of Lourdes that evening where, as Father Mike said, ‘Heaven was touching earth’ in a special way.”

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converted and lives changed.’ “I truly believe and hope,” he continued, “that this pilgrimage of St. Bernadette’s relics through our country will have the same effect… “By our coming here tonight, each of us will be touched in some way. Maybe not like St. Paul getting knocked off his horse on the road to Damascus, but in some small way perhaps…We will begin to live our lives differently – how we treat our families and friends, how we get along with the people who rub us the wrong way, how we speak to those who may disagree with us.” After Mass, Father Crummy and Father Krull administered the sacrament of reconciliation for about 45 minutes, while Father Michael Fragoso, pastor, Parish of the Visitation, New Brunswick, and Father Edmund A. Luciano III, parochial vicar that parish, administered the sacrament of anointing of the sick.

Above, Father Michael Fragoso (left) and Father Edmund A. Luciano administer the anointing of the sick after Mass May 17. Right, Fourth Degree Knight of Columbus Paul Gallo holds rosary beads owned by one of the faithful to the glass of the reliquary holding relics of St. Bernadette, patroness of the sick. Below, Father Michael Crummy, (right) presided at Mass May 16 assisted by Deacon Stephen J. Holzinger II. — John Batkowski and Chris Donahue photos

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The tour of relics of St. Bernadette, patroness of the sick, included a stop in the chapel at Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick, May 18. Posing with the reliquary holding the first-class relics after Mass, from left: chaplain Govinda N. Dasi; Father A. David Chalackal; Deacon Bill Weber; chaplain Adriana Mastandino; Deacon Vincent Brigande, director, Pastoral Care Department, and Judith GeorgeRoopnarine, secretary. From April to August, the relics of St. Bernadette are touring the United States for the first time. The stops at Our Lady of Lourdes Church, Milltown; the diocese-sponsored hospital and the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, were the only ones in New Jersey. The tour also includes a statue of Our Lady of Lourdes — a “lady in white” who made 18 appearances to 14-yearold Bernadette Soubirous from Feb. 11 to July 16, 1858. The Sanctuary of Our Lady of Lourdes is organizing the pilgrimage of the relics in partnership with the Conference of the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops, North American Volunteers, Hospitalité of Miami and the Order of Malta.


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‘I’m a nobody. What can I do,’ you are exactly the candidate God wants to do something extraordinary.” Father Christy called his three visits to Lourdes “transformational,” and had been one of the deciding factors to become a priest. “I had one foot out of the seminary,” he said. “I believe Our Lady of Lourdes is the reason I am preaching to you tonight, because I believe she grabbed hold of me and became my mother... Never be discouraged: Our Lady is with us. It is no accident you are here tonight: Our Lady wants to touch your heart.” The smiles and tears on the faces of the congregation showed they took Father Christy’s message to heart. Bishop Checchio concluded the liturgy with a reenactment of a Lourdes pilgrimage procession. Candlelight illuminated the clerical procession throughout the dimmed Cathedral as the faithful sang the hymn “Immaculate Mary” fervently. Echoing the refrain, which implored the Blessed Mother’s intercession, all raised their candles high as they repeated “Ave, ave, ave Maria.” After the liturgy, numerous pilgrims from the area and beyond filed toward the reliquary with prayers to be

collected and forwarded to Lourdes. Whispering as people slowly walked up the center aisle, some shared their petitions and messages to the Blessed Mother. John and Kathleen Burke, members of the Cathedral parish, were inspired to come after Kathleen spotted her son on the church’s livestream earlier in the day at one of the school visits. John shared he was in attendance “to feel closer to Lourdes and

pray for a family member.” Stephen and Michelle Pieczatkowski, members of St. Peter Parish, Merchantville, drove more than an hour to see the relics and pray. Stephen said, “It will help me with some challenges,” while Michelle noted, “We need a lot of healing, and want to pray for my father.” The Jude family, members of St. Helena Parish, Edison, smiled as they approached the reliquary with their

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MONROE TOWNSHIP — They came to Nativity of Our Lord Church wearing uniforms from different sports and bearing gifts such as baseballs, basketballs, footballs and lacrosse sticks, which they placed in front of the altar. The gift bearers, mostly young members of Nativity of Our Lord Parish’s religious education program, did not mistake the church for a gymnasium, but were invited by Father Nalaka Silva, pastor, to worship at the parish’s first sports Mass. “We always believe that all our gifts and talents are from God. The Mass is an act of thanksgiving for them,” Father Silva said after the liturgy.

“It is also a Mass of opportunity for the children and the rest of the family to get connected.” In his homily, Father Silva told the congregation he loved participating in sports such as cricket and basketball while growing up in Sri Lanka. Addressing the athletes specifically, Father Silva told them there are some important lessons they can learn from Jesus’ teaching and apply them at athletic fields, courts and arenas. “Just as Jesus taught his followers to believe in God, athletes must also believe in themselves,” Father Silva said. “It is also important to persevere in life. Jesus is an example. He never gave up and as he carried his cross to be crucified at Calvary. Three times he fell and each time he got up. We need to be like our Savior — stand up and

keep going.” He also encouraged them to glorify God in victory and “be grateful for the gifts he has given us.” Afterwards, Father Silva blessed the athletes, asking God to “keep them safe from injury and harm; fill them with hope and determination; give them perseverance, and help them to show good sportsmanship.” After blessing the athletes’ equipment, Father Silva asked coaches who were present to come forward for a blessing. Among those who attended the Mass and a reception were Ricardo Carneiro and his wife, Christine, and their sons, Emilio, 12, and Christo, 7; and daughter, Adelina, 10. Emilio and Adelina play soccer and Christo plays lacrosse.

“My wife and I loved it [the Mass],” he said. “When we told the kids about it, they were excited. “And it was really nice that he blessed the coaches, too, because that is their personal time they are using. You have to have a lot of patience. I know because I was a [youth soccer] coach and I understand it.” Meg, a 28-year-old member of the parish who declined to give her last name, said she attended because she rides horses in dressage events for recreation. “I really enjoyed the Mass,” she said. Her mother, Connie, who also declined to give her last name, said the Mass was a good way to encourage children in their sporting life and to worship at Mass.

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Left, Father Nalaka Silva pastor, Nativity of Our Lord Parish, greets the faithful at its first sports Mass at Nativity of Our Lord Church. Above, athletes and staff pose after the liturgy. Above rght, Father Silva follows athletes wearing uniforms in the procession. Right, athletes, mainly from the parish’s religious education program, listen to Father Silva, who blessed coaches (below right and left) and athletes. — Chris Donahue photos

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METUCHEN – It began with the presentation of the candidates. As Deacon Stephen F. Kern read their names, one-by-one the 15 men rose from their pews, stood next to their spouses and families, and stated clearly throughout the church, “Presente” – Present in Spanish – before moving to the altar. With that, the candidates ended their several-years journey of preparation and education that culminated May 14 with

Above Bishop James F. Checchio clasps the hands of Deacon candidate Freddy A. Perez as he makes his “Promise of Obedience” to the bishop. He urged the candidates to never cease being obedient to the call to serve.

Bishop James F. Checchio conferring the numbered 121,000 in the diocese, making sacrament of holy orders during the Rite that group the second largest after whites. of Ordination of Deacons at the Cathe- At that time, the diocese had counted 17 dral of St. Francis of Assisi. Hispanic or Latino deacons. Hispanics It marked the first ordination of account for about 50 percent of the apdeacons since 2019, and the first since proximately 78 million Catholics in the the start of the U.S., according to pandemic in 2020. evangelization data Most importantly, from the Center for “The people from the perhaps, it was the Applied Research first fully Spanishin the Apostolate, diocese are going to speaking class of with 25 percent of benefit from the new diaconate candiall parishes serving dates to be ordained Hispanics. ministers for decades in the diocese. Deacon Edgar Thirteen of the Chaves, who exerto come. They are a 15 newly ordained cises his ministry very spiritual group deacons came to the at Our Lady of United States from Mount Virgin Parof men, very very Spanish-speaking ish, Middlesex, and spiritual, and I’m just nations, according served as the class’ to Deacon Kern, formation direcso excited for what director, diocesan tor, said more than Office of the Diatwo dozen diocesan their ministry holds conate. parishes have orout for the diocese So, each candiganized Hispanic date’s response was ministries. Against and the people as unique as their that backdrop, and they work with.” backgrounds. And, after hearing from the Rite, which pastors throughout —Deacon Stephen F. Kern was held during the the diocese, Bishop Mass, recalled the Checchio realized discipline it took for soon after comthe men to take educational deep dives ing to Metuchen in 2016 that there was into studying the faith despite holding a growing need for Spanish-speaking full-time jobs and having familial re- clergy. sponsibilities. The bishop recited prayers and In 2016, the most recent year statis- spoke at times in Spanish during the tics were available, Hispanic Catholics Mass and Rite – that also took place in

Above, as a sign of humility, the 15 deacon candidates prostrate themselves on the altar floor as the Litany of Saints is sung. Bishop Checchio then laid his hands on each man’s head and said the Prayer of Ordination. — Ed Koskey Jr. photos

English. He also expressed the sentiment “whatever it takes” several times, including in his homily, during which the men moved from their pews upon being presented to sit on chairs in front of the altar, near their spiritual leader. “You’re saying to the Church that you are willing to give whatever it takes to serve Christ,” the bishop said, as he smiled at them. He also noted the men were participating in a sacred and historic ritual traceable to the first apostles of Jesus Christ. The early apostles discerned the needs of the Church, “much the same in our day, the need of the growing Latino community in our diocese calls forth these men, with God’s grace, to meet this need.” He also urged the deacons to never cease being obedient to the call to serve. “Resolve each day to say, ‘Yes Lord, here I am. Send me.’” After the homily, the candidates made their promises that include celibacy and service. Each candidate then kneeled before the bishop, placing his joined hands between the bishop’s hands. Next, in one of the dramatic moments in the liturgy, the candidates laid prostrate on the altar floor, as the “Litany Continued on next page


pated in the liturgy, including clergy, the diocesan choir and musicians. He also acknowledged directors at Seton Hall University’s Immaculate Conception Seminary, South Orange, for providing the deacons’ education. “We asked them five or six years ago to start a program in Spanish,” the bishop said. “They hadn’t done one, so they put it together. We do whatever it takes.” He humorously expressed gratitude to the congregation for “patience with my lousy Spanish.” After Mass, the bishop posed for photographs with the class, then went to the Cathedral entrance to greet the faithful and take more photos. Standing outside not far from the bishop, Deacon Kern said he and Deacon Chaves felt like “proud parents” on the momentous occasion. “I think the people from the diocese are going to benefit from the new ministers for decades to come,” said Deacon Kern, who serves at St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington. “They are a very spiritual group of men, very very spiritual, and I’m just so excited for what their ministry holds out for the diocese and the people they work with.” Two parishes in Perth Amboy, Most Holy Name of Jesus and Our Lady of Fatima, provided a combined five new deacons, while St. Philip and St. James, Phillipsburg contributed two men to the diaconate.

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of the Saints” was sung. Then Bishop Checchio laid his hands on each man’s head and said the Prayer of Ordination, after which the deacons were vested with their stole and dalmatic. The spouses of the deacons presented the vestments, and various clergy helped in vesting the new deacons. Each deacon then received a Book of the Gospels, hearing the bishop pray to them individually: “Receive the Gospel of Christ whose herald you have become. Believe what you read, teach what you believe, and practice what you teach.” Lastly, the bishop offered the new deacons a fraternal kiss of peace, which was followed by clergy from the diocese repeating the embrace. Deacons help their parish priests by proclaiming the Gospel and preaching. They also perform baptisms, assist at funerals and marriages, leading the faithful in prayer and more. They are also considered “ministers of Charity,” and carriers of fruits of the Holy Spirit that include love, peace, joy and generosity. “May the Holy Spirit … continue to inspire you to service, enrich your liturgical ministry, and deepen your life of faith, and help you in your mission to do whatever it takes to build up the Body of Christ here in the Church of Metuchen,” the bishop said. Before the recessional, Bishop Checchio thanked many who partici-

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At top Bissop Checchio blesses the newly ordained deacons. Above, the bishop addresses the congregation which filled the Cathedral. At right the wives of the deacons present their husbands with their vestments, a stole and dalmatic. Clergy then helped vest the new deacons. — Ed Koskey Jr. photos

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Newly-ordained, Dominican Republic-born Deacon Ysidro Abreau believes God called him “for years for one reason or another” and finally decided to answer that calling. “I refused the call for more than 10 years and one day a deacon that I did not know approached me and asked me if I wanted to attend an orientation meeting for a diaconate program in Spanish and I told him to call me, so that gave me the date of that meeting,” he said. Deacon Abreu, who was one of 15 men ordained to the permanent diaconate for the diocese by Bishop James F. Checchio at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, May 14, was raised in a Catholic family and graduated from a Catholic high school. “I was born in the [Dominican Republic] countryside, where I had to walk four kilometers to go to Mass and, at the age of 16, I was admitted by the Salesian congregation to go live as a seminarian to discern my vocation to the priesthood, and there I lived for four years until I finished high school,” he said. “I came to the United States at the age of 21 and only

my father could come with me.” Jewelry, on Smith Street in Perth AmAfter moving to the U.S. in 1978, boy, which he operated for 20 years. Deacon Abreu attended college for He said he used to buy and fix two years, but did not bank-owned properties graduate. sell or rent them, “What I would tell and Deacon Abreu is a adding that he has only member of St. Joseph people that are kept two of these propParish, North Plainfield, erties. “In all of this I considering any only see God next to me. where he served as an extraordinary minister [There is] no way I could religious vocaof holy Communion and do any of this without is active in its Society tion is that, never him,” he noted. of Saint Vincent de Paul asked what consider yourself the When chapter. biggest challenges He and his wife, incapable or that were for him becoming Milagros, have two sons, a deacon, he replied, you are not smart “Going back to school Jamil A. and Wilbert A. Deacon Abreu, who enough. That was after decades, to have to also has four brothers do school papers and to and three sisters living in my case, but it got have to learn how to use the U.S., said his family in class.” to a point that I technology was “very supportive” of In 1995, he bought him becoming a deacon. told God, ‘This is part of Quisqueya Meat Professionally, DeaMarket in Perth Amboy, con Abreu spent four what I have, I put it which he ran until 2009 years working in restauin your hands.’” when he sold it. rants and factories in the In 1998, Deacon U.S. He started his own Abreau started a real esbusiness in 1982, selling tate business. gold jewelry in Perth Amboy. He later Deacon Abreu said what he looks opened a small jewelry shop, Abreau forward to most in exercising his min-

Many have spoken about life’s journey being its own reward. For Deacon William Chirinos, his path towards the diaconate illustrates that idea. It has been a long journey for Deacon Chirinos, literally and figuratively, on his way to his ordination by Bishop James F. Checchio on May 14 at the Cathedral of Saint Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. Chirinos is part of a historic class of deacons in which all members speak Spanish, either as a first or second language. Born and raised in Lima, Peru, Deacon Chirinos came to the United States as a youth and settled in New Jersey. After graduating from Mainland Regional High School, Linwood, he earned a bachelor’s degree in accounting and a master’s degree in business administration with a specialization in finance at Rutgers University, New Brunswick. A certified public accountant, Deacon Chirinos worked previously as an auditor, an accountant, a financial analyst and a financial manager before taking his current position at Johnson & Johnson. Deacon Chirinos’ wife, Mai, is originally from Vietnam. They have two daughters, Khiem and Micaela.

He credits his strong family bond with but it was something I wanted to make helping him on his journey towards sure went well,” he said. becoming a deacon. Reflecting on the inspiration that “They have been very support- guided him on his path, Deacon Chiriive,” he said. “My wife nos noted, “I would and kids have always like to think that the “I would like to think Holy Spirit inspired helped me throughout the process. My wife that the Holy Spirit in- me to become a deahas been an amazing con. It was never in support system, mak- spired me to become my plans, but one day ing sure everything a deacon. It was never during daily Mass I was being taken care was strongly drawn of so I could focus on in my plans, but one towards the Eucharist the studies.” during consecration. As a member of day during daily Mass As I walked out of the Mary Mother of I was strongly drawn the chapel the current God Parish, Hillsbordeacon asked me if ough, Deacon Chirinos towards the Eucharist I would consider beis active in the Men’s a deacon. So, during consecration. coming group, Children’s no particular person liturgy ministry, and As I walked out of the inspired me to become served as an extraora deacon. It was the chapel the current dinary minister of holy Holy Spirit and our Communion. deacon asked me if I Lord Jesus Christ.” For Deacon ChiriDeacon Chirinos would consider be- holds very traditional nos, who also coached youth soccer, maincoming a deacon.” views of his role as a taining a good balance deacon and his goals between school, work for assisting parishioand family has never ners on their individbeen difficult. ual faith journeys. “Helping the com“My wife and kids made this easy, munity and parishioners in general get

istry, he noted: “Being able to help my brothers and sisters so we can go together to heaven.” As for what advice he would give someone considering becoming a priest, deacon or religious, h noted: “Never consider yourself incapable or that you are not smart enough. That was my case, but it got to a point that I told God, ‘This is what I have, I put it in your hands.’” — Paul J. Peyton

closer to our Lord Jesus, through his sacraments, the Bible, and teachings of Holy Mother Church,” is what he wants to achieve. Offering advice to men who might feel a similar calling to serve the Lord, Deacon Chirinos said, “It is a wonderful journey. Pray about it because it is not about you, but what God is calling you to do. If you are doing it for any selfish reasons, then don’t do it. The diaconate is about service and helping to save souls.” — Alex Lowe


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dozen years. visited the sick at their homes to spend His leadership is not limited to time with them and share the Euchathe youth of the rist and Gospel. These are remote United States. “I directed an encounter areas where “I do missionary with the youth and young work wherever priests may come only once every the Lord leads adults, and ministered to two weeks or me,” Deacon Diaz them throughout various so… there are no continued. Beginning last year, he to be able towns within the city of Azua priests to celebrate Mass has worked with people of all ages [Dominican Republic]. I also in these rural areas.” in the Dominican Republic through visited the sick at their homes Deacon Diaz his Divine Mercy to spend time with them and completed his diaconate trainMissionary Minshare the Eucharist and Gos- ing at Immacuistry. Conception “I enjoy vispel. These are remote areas late Seminary, Seton iting the elderly at a food pantry and where priests may come only Hall University, sharing dinner South Orange, with them along once every two weeks or so… and was ordained with the Gospel there are no priests to be able to the permanent diaconate May message,” he to celebrate Mass in these 14. His vesting said. “I directed an encounter with priest was Father rural areas.” the youth and Alberto Ruiz, young adults, and former pastor of ministered to them throughout various Our Lady of Fatima Parish. Illustrattowns within the city of Azua. I also ing that service and love of the Lord

For his formation to the diaconate, Deacon Diaz earned a master’s degree in theology this year at Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology, Seton Hall University, South Orange. His wife, Ramona, and daughters, Michelle and Raquel, were very supportive, for faith runs deep in this extended family. “I grew in a very Catholic family. So did my wife,” Diaz said. “Her younger sister is a nun, and her older sister is married to a fellow diaconate candidate, German Gonzalez, whose son, Matthew, was ordained to the priesthood for the Archdiocese of Newark [May 28 at the Cathedral Basilica of the Sacred Heart, Newark]. “Another man in my diaconate class, Jose Diaz, is a cousin. There is also great support from the parish. The excitement from others is truly humbling.” As for what advice he would give

runs in the family, the deacon was ordained alongside his cousin, Sergio Diaz. Deacon Diaz works as an EDI Coordinator at United Legwear and Apparel Company, is a professional photographer and enjoys bowling. He and his wife, Alitza, have two daughters, Kiera and Nichole. — Christina Leslie

to someone considering a vocation to the diaconate, he said, “Open your heart to the Lord. Don’t rush into it, but if you hear the call, listen.” — Christina Leslie

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On the faith journey of Deacon Sergio ness development officer for ColumDiaz, Christ’s call to the diaconate bia Bank. was clear to everyone… save its inDespite his success in the busitended recipient. After some 30 years ness world, many felt his faith life of persuasion from many clergy and might be expanded to further serve members of Our Lady others, he recalled. of Fatima Parish, Perth “Since the midDespite his Amboy, that call was 1990s, [the parish’s late] answered May 14 when succcess in the Deacon [Herminio] Rihe joined the ranks of vera and his wife tried the newest class of per- business world, to convince me to pursue manent deacons for the the diaconate, but it was many felt his diocese. not for me at that time,” faith life might said Deacon Diaz. “Many Deacon Diaz was born in Yaque Abajo, fellow parishioners also be expanded Janico, Dominican Retried to persuade me. public, one of six chil- to further serve Our former pastor, Father dren of Jesus and Maria Alberto Ruiz, also asked others...”Many me to consider it, but I Diaz. He attended Perth Amboy’s Shull elementa- fellow parishio- was busy serving as parry school and was active ish council president and in the parish as an altar ners also tried to vice chair of the parish server. After graduating council.” persuade me.” financial from Perth Amboy High Instead, Diaz threw School, Deacon Diaz his hat into politics, runearned a bachelor’s degree in business ning for Perth Amboy City council. administration and Spanish at Rutgers Losing by just a handful of votes, he University, New Brunswick. was puzzled by an elderly parishioDeacon Diaz worked as a claims ner’s reaction as she met him in church adjustor with various insurance com- a few days later. panies and law firms, then became a “She came up to me and confield representative in the urban en- gratulated me,” he remembered with terprise zone/business improvement a chuckle. “I told her, ‘No, I lost the district as an employee of the City election,’ to which she replied, ‘I of Perth Amboy. He later served as know, I am glad.’ branch manager and business devel“She pointed to the cross over the opment officer for First Constitution altar and said, ‘Jesus wants you here Bank, and currently serves as the busi- and not out there.’”

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It came as a surprise to no one when Deacon Jose R. Diaz, a member of Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Perth Amboy, began studying for the diaconate. The fervent Catholic had already dedicated himself to ministering to anyone open to the Good News. Born in Perth Amboy, he was one of three children of Juan and Dulce Diaz. Deacon Diaz attended the city’s Holy Trinity Catholic School and after graduating from Perth Amboy High School, he studied at Middlesex County College, Edison. Deacon Diaz was active at his parish before he began formation to the diaconate. He served as an extraordinary minister of holy Communion, lector and coordinator for ushers. “I am passionate about working with youth and take every opportunity in sharing the Good News,” he continued. From 2009-2011, he ministered to Our Lady of Fatima youth in the “Spirit and Truth” young adult ministry, then transitioned to the role of youth ministry founder and coordinator of the parish’s J.R.I.C. Ministry (Jovenes Rooted in Christ) for the past


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Richard Ferreira grew up with a deep appreciation for the role that deacons play in their church communities. As a child, Ferreira had a front row seat watching his father, Emeterio, serve as a deacon at St. Mary’s Church in Manhattan. “He planted the seeds of Catholic growth in me,” states Ferreira. The Ferreiras worked hard to send their seven children to Catholic school in New York City, and when it was time for Richard to start thinking about what he wanted to do with his life, he knew helping others would be a focal point. “I’ve always been drawn to helping those in need and working in underserved communities,” he states. Ferreira earned a master’s degree from Columbia University School of Social Work and started working at non-profits. His work included helping individuals during the HIV pandemic, working at a foster care agency, and doing community development projects. Currently, Ferreira serves as the program director for Catholic Charities, Diocese of Trenton, where he runs the community services and food pantry programs for Burlington and Mercer counties. His programs serve nearly 1,800 people monthly. Despite his busy day job, and a full homelife as a husband and father, Ferreira made time to answer the Lord’s call

to become a deacon. Ferreira had been a it was a second language to Ferreira, and parishioner at the Church of St. Matthew his skills were mainly conversational at the Apostle in Edison for about eight first. years and served the parish in various “Doing the program was very chalways, but Ferreira felt he could do more. lenging for me,” states Ferreira. “Here “I’ve always had a I was learning at a colcalling to serve the church “Doing the prgram legiate level in Spanish, and the community. When the scripwas very challeng- contemplating I moved to New Jersey tures in Spanish, and reand found St. Matthew’s, ing for me,” states learning the Spanish lanI sat down with my pastor, guage at the same time… Father George Targonski, Ferreira. “Here I was The first few months were and said, ‘I need to give learning at a colle- very overwhelming to the more to the parish and to point that I wasn’t sure the community. I’m here to giate level in Spanish, I’d be able to finish the serve. Where do you need What’s more, contemplating the program.” me?’” much of this was hapFather George encour- Scriptures in Spanish pening through virtual aged him to consider belearning as a result of the coming a deacon. “Though and re-learning the COVID-19 pandemic. my father was a deacon, Spanish language...” Ferreira was fearand I had been involved in ful of falling behind. He the church for many years, prayed for clarity, and I hadn’t thought about heard a voice inside enthis before. Hearing it from my pastor, courage him to keep going: “I felt Him though, made me want to give it some say, ‘I know you can do it in English, but deep thought,” states Ferreira. I need for you do it Spanish.” Several months later, Ferreira heard So rather than give up, Ferreira from his pastor that a new Deaconate worked twice as hard. He learned to lisprogram was starting at Seaton Hall Uni- ten to the teachings in Spanish, take notes versity, and he was encouraged to apply. in English, then translate everything to The catch, however, was that the group Spanish to prepare for tests and papers. would be studying in Spanish. While He grew closer to colleagues in the proFerreira’s parents are Spanish speakers, gram who encouraged and helped him,

and slowly but surely, Ferreira saw his academic learnings grow and his Spanish language skills improve. “I was blessed to finish the program,” says Ferreira. Despite the challenges, Ferreira wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. “I have learned through prayer and the Lord to embrace my challenges to be a better servant to His mission,” he states. Ferreira has “anxious job” about the road that lies ahead. “I can’t wait to see where I’m placed, to start working with the community, and to spread God’s love.” Ferreira is married to his wife, Anna, and has two adult sons, Richard, Jr., and Emmanual. — Kaylynn Ebner


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Deacon Paul Flor came to the United States about 35 years ago from Guayaquil, Ecuador, to earn a master’s degree and advance his career. He teaches about HVAC (heating, ventilating and air conditioning), and environmental control technology as an associate professor at Raritan Valley Community College, Branchburg. While the 59-year-old Flor has found acceptance in the United States, he has had to hear “no” sometimes. The Catholic Church, which nurtured him from youth and to which he had even considered becoming a priest, turned him down twice to serve as a permanent deacon. At the end of the Spanish Mass at his parish, St. Philip and St. James, Phillipsburg, a few years ago, parishioner Magnolia Mateo asked Flor about applying to be a deacon. “I told her, ‘They had rejected me twice. I think it is going to be useis also taken up with his lay job, beless.’” Flor said. Why was Flor snubbed? His wife, ing a husband to Wang, and with her Wentsai Wang, a Taiwanese native parenting their son, Andrei, 27, and whom Flor met while the two of them daughter Hannah, 23. “It is a big commitment in terms were studying at Stevens Institute of of time that needs to be devoted to Technology, Hoboken, is Buddhist. “One of the things in the diacon- study, learning and growing in faith,” he said. ate is the wife has to sign But Flor relishes a paper in which she comWhile wives are academic challenges, mits to come to spiritual formation classes,” Flor not obligated to noting they “light up said. “She told me, ‘If participte in all a huge bonfire within. I have enjoyed every your God is calling you, go, but why do they have training sessioins minute of it.” As the date of his to ask me to join? I don’t for a candidate ordination neared, Flor have that faith.’” said he was excited at to become a While wives are not being a member of the obligated to participate in deacon, they play first all-Spanish-speakall training sessions for a candidate to become a a significant role ing diaconate class, whose members are deacon, they play a “significant role” in respond- in responding to of Hispanic descent. are unknowns he ing to their husband’s call their husband’s There said, including where to serve, according to the call to serve...a he winds up serving as diocesan website. A wife deacon. must also give consent wife must also “My preference is for the husband to enter to be in the trenches, and be ordained. give consent serving the needy…” “The last time, the for the husband Flor said. “I look forday before I had to return to meeting pathe paper, she signed it,” to enter and be ward rishioners and, God Flor said, adding his wife willing, being able to ordained. has attended several sesgive help to them.” sions with him. And whatever hapFaith is paramount for Flor, pened to Flor becoming a priest? who lives in Stewartsville and has “I didn’t last three months,” he served St. Philip and St. James as a lector and extraordinary minister of said with a smile. “It was too quiet holy Communion. He previously had … too hard. “I thought about religious life in served in the parish choir, on council my youth,” he said, “so becoming a and wherever else he was needed. deacon is perhaps the next thing. The classes in preparing for the — Anthony Salamone diaconate have consumed much of his time more recently, he said. His time


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“Great things happen with a humble ‘yes,’” said German Gonzalez, one of 15 Spanish-speaking permanent deacons ordained for service in the diocese May 14. That simple yes began with his birth family, echoed in his own life, and continues to ring in the lives of his children. Deacon Gonzalez was born in Colombia and completed his elementary and high school studies in the city of Manizales. His father, Leon, and mother, Adíela Escalante, had seven children. “My mother was a woman of strong faith,” he remembered. Gonzalez’ journey to the diaconate stemmed from his time serving young Catholics. “In my previous parish, St. John the Evangelist in Bergenfield, I volunteered in the youth ministry alongside my family for over 10 years,” he said. “I served them in their music ministry and in their spiritual formation. I was inspired by the fruits of the ministry in their lives. “My faith was being formed and strengthened through the many talks, testimonies, preachings and retreats we attended,” he continued. “This journey influenced me, at some point,

to consider the diaconate.” Deacon Gonzalez affirmed. “The The deacon, whose spiritual home family that prays, forms, and serves is St. John Paul II Parish, together grows together. Perth Amboy, served as This statement is a rean extraordinary minis- The support of the flection of the fruits I see ter of holy Communion, family is integral today flowing from my lector and confirmation own family. My wife has for the permanent always and continues to catechist. He has worked as me to come diaconate, Dacon encourage an independent truck out of my comfort zone operator for 22 years. Gonzalez affirmed. and to serve the Lord He and his wife, Maria, without limitations. “ The family that have been married for 32 “This influence years. fueled my decision to prays together The couple’s strong enter the program,” he grows together.” continued. Catholic faith has mani“Without fested itself in their three her support and underThis statement is standing, I am certain children, Gonzalez noted. “Our eldest daughter, a reflection of the that I would not be at Anacelis Diaz, is the moment in my life. fruits I see today this principal of Perth AmMy children have also boy Catholic School. Our flowing from my been very encouraging son, Nicholas, is studythroughout this whole own family. ing at Rutgers University process, whether it was [New Brunswick], and proofreading, quizzing —Deacon Gonzalez our son, Matthew, will be me before exams, or ordained a priest [for the merely listening to my Archdiocese of Newark] many mock preachings, in May,” he said happily. their willingness to share in my jourThe support of the family is in- ney helped stretch my limits. My famtegral for the permanent diaconate, ily believed in me and I’m grateful to

Deacon Vidál González Zelaya was born in San Salvador, the capital city of the Republic of El Salvador. Having been born in a city and a country named after Jesus Christ as the Savior of the World and being raised in the city of Santa Tecla, named after a first century martyr, Catholicism has framed the life of Deacon González Zelaya. He cannot remember a time when his religion has not been a major influence in his life. After attending grammar school at Nazareth, Santa Tecla, he graduated from high school --- Colegio Santa Cecilia, Santa Tecla, in technical studies. He studied engineering at the Technical University of San Salvador before Moving to the United States, where he worked in information technology in banking. For the past 12 years, he has been a field surveyor in the construction industry. After ordination, Deacon González Zelaya was assigned to St Joseph Parish, Carteret, where he, his wife, Carolina Lopez González, and their two sons, José Ramon and Francis José, are members. It was through his activities in the family ministry of the parish that the idea of the diaconate was first planted. Although he states he initially knew nothing about the ministry of the permanent diaconate, Deacon González `Zelaya became aware of it through a combination of people and events that inspired him. He particularly credits

Sister Francisca Tamayo, who encourThe formation process has many aged him to seek other ways to serve challenges for the candidate and his members of the parish .He and Caro- family, but Deacon González Zelaya lina took part in various ssaid that from the first courses and workshops Although the five- day of the program he offered by the diocese had “100 percent support year time frame from Carolina and the to deepen their faith and an appreciation of from application two boys.” the Church’s teachings. The biggest chalEventually they received to ordination was lenge was the need to detheir certificates in the velop a rhythm to allow long and at times for the triple requirements “Theology of the Body.” It was during stressful, Deacon of family, job and study. this time that Deacon This sometimes required González Zelaya very early mornings and González Zelaya met Deacon Reinaldo López, late nights. Howbelieves that once some who introduced him to ever, with encouragethe ministry, encouraged someone is called ment of his family` it was him to pursue ordination. possible to plan times to by the Lord to He immediately decided connect with them and to to find out more about let them understand how serve...God will the requirements and the important it was to fulfill intercede to process. When he was his commitment. told that the diocese was Deacon González support and guide Zelaya recruiting applicants for firmly believes a formation Program that that if someone is conhis journey. would be taught entirely sidering a vocational call in Spanish he began the to the diaconate he must application procedure without any discuss it with his wife, if married, and hesitation. his family so that they can fully apAlthough the five-year time frame preciate the commitment that will be from application to ordination was required and its impact of their lives. long and at times stressful, Deacon He should try to assess his preparation González Zelaya believes that once and aptitude for the academic portion someone is called by the Lord to serve of formation. And finally and most imhim and his Church, God will intercede portantly, he must seek and f,ollow the to guide and support the journey. inspiration of the Holy Spirit.

God for their love and support.” His advice to those considering the diaconate program is “to be open to the Holy Spirit and to trust in God.” “The Holy Spirit will guide you,” he said. “Prayer is also key. Prayer will nourish your soul as God fulfills his great works in your life.” — Christina Leslie

The new deacon hopes that as he continues to grow in his ministry he will be able to share, “with my community what I have learned and to put into practice the life of service of the deacon.” While Deacon González Zelaya looks forward to fulfilling his threefold ministry of Word, sacrament and charity, he realizes that on occasion he will have to say “no” to some requests because of his commitments to his wife and family and job. He knows this will be difficult for him but he has dealt successfully with these situations for the past five years. — Deacon Patrick J. Cline


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the diaconate program,” he said. signments.” He noted that his family and chilHe was excited when, after all the dren not only gave him the support he hard work, he was finally able to see needed but also expressed happiness the results. On May 14, Bishop James with his decision to become a deacon. F. Checchio ordained Molina to the diBorn and raised in aconate at the Cathedral San Miguel, El Salvaof St. Francis of Assisi, dor, Deacon Molina atDeacon Moli“...my family pro- Metuchen. tended the Basic School na is part of the diocese’s of the National Institute vided a tremen- first class of deacons, all “Isidro Menendez” and of whom speak Spanish. dous amount of the “Colegio del Sagrado Prior to pursuing Corazón de Jesus.” He encouragement the diaconate, Deacon attended Secondary Molina worked as a foreSchool at the “Marista” by extending their man at Moldieco Plastic Catholic College and Fords; and as support and help- Products, earned a degree at the a Process Technician at National University of ing me with the Viant. El Salvador. In his spare time, assignments.” When he was studyhe enjoys reading and —Deacon Molina ing for the diaconate at spending time with Seton Hall University, his family. He and his South Orange, Deacon wife have a son, Fritz Molina said that in the Rene, and a daughter, beginning it was very challenging to Michelle. Fritz and his wife, Jessica, return to study at the university level have a daughter, Lidia, the deacon’s after many years away from the school first granddaughter. Michelle and her environment. husband, Oscar, recently welcomed “However,” he noted, “my fam- their son, Valentino, the deacon’s first ily provided a tremendous amount grandson. of encouragement by extending their Deacon Molina said what he was support and helping me with the as- looking forward to most in his minis-

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try is serving the community “with all my heart and put into practice all the knowledge I learned during my study [at Seton Hall].” As for what advice he would give someone who is considering a vocation to the diaconate, he said, “If they feel a calling to consecrate their services to God and their community, all they must do is surrender and God will take care of the rest.” — Kyra Stevko

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Like some other men discerning a vocation to the diaconate, Jose Fritz Molina saw becoming a deacon as “something unattainable,” adding he “did not feel worthy to be consecrated as such.” He admits, however, that throughout the years, God manifested himself to him when as a layman he helped others with a lot of love. Serving others, he said, is what inspired him to become a deacon as it led him to feel that “God had called me to serve him in a deeper way.” One of the places Deacon Molina has served the Church is at his parish, Most Holy Name of Jesus, Perth Amboy, as an extraordinary minister of holy Communion. He is also active in Charismatic Renewal and Group of Couples of Christ, You, and I. He also enjoys participating in other parish groups, when asked to help by his pastor, Father Ronald Machado. When Deacon Molina told his family that he wanted to become a deacon, they were very supportive of him, especially his wife of 36 years, Molina, which he described as “fundamental.” “She motivated me to apply for

got from this diaconate formation.” Jaurides also wants to be more than someone dressed in clergy clothes at the altar. “I want to help my community no matter where they send me, and grow myself and help my family as we grow spiritually,” he said. To Jaurides, growing a faith community starts with helping fathers in their faith. But overall, his goal is to bring all people closer to God.

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burg, was assisting Jaurides’ wife, out on his own, he said. He studied Suyapa, in faith formation. Jaurides automobiles and English, and today, attended the sessions to offer support. Jaurides works for Caliber Collision “Father Juan Carlos would ask near Allentown, Pa. me questions every time we met,” Jaurides and his wife live in Jaurides recalled. “Until Easton with their three “I represent the children, Francisco E., one day, he said, ‘Wait a minute, you would be Church. So the Jessica and Frank Anthony. At St. Philip and a good candidate for the way I act and St. James, the Jaurideses diaconate.’ “Father Juan Carlos active members; they express myself is are saw something just by also bring communion to talking to me.” as a role model the elderly living at a local nursing home. He was dubious at for my kids, my first, but Jaurides told Jaurides is proud yet humbled to be a member the priest he would think wife, my parish about it. He attended of the first all- Spanishthe parish’s Eucharistic and everywhere I speaking diaconate class, whose members are of adoration for 30 straight go. Even on Hispanic descent. days. On the final day, “You keep wonderhe made his decision. vacation.” “I was sure saying yes ing, is this my call?” Jau—Deacon Jaurides rides said. “I don’t want to the deacon formation was the right thing to to do this myself. I want Jesus and Mary to be by my side.” do,” he said. He said upon being ordained, “I Raised in Caguas, Puerto Rico, Jaurides came to the United States in represent the Church. So the way I act 1993, living in Staten Island, N.Y., and express myself is as a role model at the behest of his father. It helped for my kids, my wife, my parish and that Jaurides’ sister was living in the everywhere I go. Even on vacation … metropolitan area, but he soon went I represent the Church. That’s what I

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Deacon Francisco Jaurides said he hopes to focus on parents, specifically fathers, in his role as a permanent deacon. “I believe if you educate them spiritually, it will transfer to the kids,” said Jaurides, a member of St. Philip and St. James Parish, Phillipsburg. Several years ago, he recalled, while visiting a friend, he learned his friend had stopped attending Mass. “I had a talk prepared [for him],” he said, and the pair spoke at the friend’s dining room table about being a spiritually fulfilled parent. More recently, the friend’s wife told Jaurides “You remember that speech on the dining room table? Well thank you, because he did change.” The man became more involved in Church life and is teaching his children to become more active spiritually. Jaurides recalled telling the wife, “Don’t thank me, it’s God.” A resident of Easton, Pa., Jaurides, 48, received his own spiritual awakening to the diaconate around 2017. Father Juan Carlos Gaviria, who was then a parochial vicar at St. Philip and James and currently administrator at St. James the Less Parish, James-


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Deacon Hernando Patino is a man of diverse interests and talents. A medical doctor with a passion for pediatric care; an active leader in the Hispanic community throughout New Jersey; a student and practitioner of classical Spanish guitar and now a deacon who can exercise his ministry at his home parish -- St. Magdalen de Pazzi, Flemington. Born in Bucaramanga, Columbia, near the border with Venezuela, Deacon Patino was raised mostly in Cali, Columbia. His father was a highway supervisor and initially the family moved with his work. After graduating from high school in Cali, Deacon Patino attended the Universidad del Valle, where he earned his medical degree. In his first position as a doctor, he worked at the hospital of the university where he met his wife, Franci, who was a nurse at that facility. They have three grown children, Nataly and Mitchell both born in Columbia, and Peter, who was born in the United States. Once Deacon Patino moved to the United States with his family, he accepted an offer to join the medical staff at Malmonides Medical Center, Brooklyn, N.Y., where he completed his residency in pediatric medicine. While the family lived in Brooklyn, they joined and became active in the parish of St. Mary of the Assumption, Elizabeth, attending Mass there most weekends. At the parish, Deacon Patino served as a lector and taught Bible studies. His

activities, however, were not limited a long while that this was the path to to Elizabeth. He helped organize and which the Lord was calling him. worked with Latino communities in Deacon Patino was a part of the other areas in Northern New Jersey. diocese’s first diaconate formation When the family moved to Flem- program taught entirely in Spanish. On ington, they were drawn May 14, along with 14 to St. Magdalen de Pazzi Once Deacon [Her- other men, he was ordue in no small part dained by Bishop James to the adoration of the nando] Patino moved F. Checchio at the CaBlessed Sacrament that of St. Francis of to the United States thedral the parish offers. Once Assisi, Metuchen. again, they became very with his family, he acWith his commitactive with the Hispanic ment to pediatric health, community this time in cepted an offer to join his career has been Flemington. It was there the medical staff at devoted to that area of that the idea of applying medicine. He has held to become a deacon first Malmonides Medical research and manageentered Deacon Patino’s Center, Brooklyn, N.Y., ment positions at Scherthoughts. ing Plough, Merck, and Although he had where he completed Cubist Pharmaceutia very close friend and cals. He now serves as his residency in pedi- senior medical director a godparent to Peter, who was a deacon at St. at Janssen Pharmaceuatric medicine. Mary of the Assumption ticals in Pediatric Drug in Elizabeth, Deacon Development. Patino had never conDeacon Patino has sidered the vocation for himself. Then, written numerous journal articles and his pastor at St. Magdalen de Pazzi, given presentations that have contribFather Timothy A. Christy, and Father uted to the advancement of research in Antony L. Arockiadoss, parochial vic- his area of interests and expertise. ar, both asked him to consider applying Given his academic background, to the permanent diaconate. So, with Deacon Patino did not find the eduthe encouragement of a number of pa- cational component of the formation rishioners and friends, too, he applied, program to be a problem. The strong was accepted, and began his journey to support he received from Franci, his becoming a deacon. children and extended family and Franci said she had known for friends throughout the five years of

PERTH AMBOY— “You did not choose me, but I chose you and appointed you so that you might go and bear fruit — fruit that will last — and so that whatever you ask in my name the Father will give you” (Jn 15:16). This is the Scripture that Deacon Freddy A. Perez lives by, advising that we should always follow God’s will without second guessing or looking back. He is the epitome of practicing what he preaches, having suffered a stroke during his diaconate formation, but still followed his path when many others may have given up on both themselves and their God. “I believe that there have been many small moments in my life over a long period of time that have led me here to God’s calling and this ministry,” said Deacon Perez. “I am just so thankful that I have answered [the call] and been obedient in the Lord, and am allowing his will to be done.” Born and raised in Neyba, Dominican Republic, Deacon Perez attended Arzobispo Valera Elementary School and Manuel de Jesús Galvan High School. He then found his way to the United States, where he met his wife, Bernarda. Married for 35 years they have two daughters, Bernys Perez and Flerida Perez-Wright, and four grandchildren, whom he called, “wonderful.”

“My family has been extremely sup- ferent. However, a few years later, a converportive throughout my journey [to become sation with Deacon Tony Besares changed a deacon]. When I told them of my plans, his mind. When he told Deacon Besares they were proud and happy, and they con- he was not interested in the diaconate, he tinue to be my support system,” Deacon looked him in the eye and said, “Freddy God Perez said. is calling you.” “My family has His first calling was Years later, this was reto the steel workers union, inforced when a good friend, been extremely Dimas Espejo, invited him to where he has been a member for over 30 years, workan Emaus retreat. It was here supportive ing for Mauser Packaging that the true desire to seek the throughout my theology education needed solutions in Woodbridge. Deacon Perez began journey...When I to become a deacon was inhis unofficial journey to the stilled. This was the moment told them of my he felt God’s calling. diaconate as a lector at La Asunción Church, now one this mileplans, they were stone“Reaching of three parishes that make was an enormous chalup Most Holy Name of proud and happy, lenge for me. I had to enroll Jesus Parish, Perth Amboy, in a certificate program at which he has attended for and they continue Seton Hall University, South more than 30 years. to be my support Orange, and that meant very “I remember that ofintense theology courses and system.” tentimes church members a great deal of studying,” he would compliment me and said. tell me that they saw diaconate qualities in Deacon Perez suffered the stroke near me that at that time I did not see in myself,” the end of his studies. he said, adding that a former parish secre“I was very fearful my health would tary would often refer to him as the parish’s not allow me to finish my program on time “future deacon.” with my classmates,” he said. At the time, he was content with being However, his fears were cast aside. a lector, noting his priorities were very dif- thanks to the help of his classmates and pro-

preparation allowed him to deal with the changes and adjustments that were present in his personal and professional activities. One area of his life that was impacted negatively was the lack of time he could devote to his study of classical Spanish guitar music. It is an omission he plans to correct. In his new role, Deacon Patino said that he looks forward to giving back to the various individuals and communities that have supported him on his journey [to the diaconate]. He hopes to be involved in the various aspects of parish life and to assist all the members of St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish. — Deacon Patrick J. Cline

fessors, whose support helped him complete his formation on time. He noted the stroke affected his voice, but he has now recovered. He stressed the importance of trusting in God, leaving everything in his hands. “I am aware that as a deacon I am merely an instrument for the Lord” he said. “I am eager to do his work and allow myself to be guided by the Holy Spirit, and I intend on serving the Lord and his people incessantly.” — Stacey Daly


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versity, Washington, D.C., where he for the diaconate required many reearned a bachelor of business adminis- sources such as time, money and a lot of effort. tration in marketing. “But above all,” he stated, “it reHis career then blossomed into many management and administration quired the grace of God in our lives positions, such as a LAto be able to endure with TAM Marketing specialthe ups and downs that “My family sup- joy ist and a Antia’s Dairy involve the coexistence ported me from between studies, family Farm supply manager, and work.” among others. the beginning One of the driving Deacon Suarez and his “beloved wife,” because for some inspirations for pursuing a Adriana, of 25 years, are vocation to the diaconate, time we were parfents of daughters, he said, is that it is “the Maria-Victoria, 18, and all participating sum of a life surrounded by wonderful people of Maria-Lucia, 11. in activities and God as priests, deacons, When asked how they reacted to his deciand friends” given ministries within family sion to become a deacon, to him by the Lord. As for what advice Deacon Suarez said, “My the Church and he would give to a man family supported me from the beginning be- the decision to be considering a vocation cause for some time we a deacon was a joy to the diaconate, Deacon Suarez described his own were all participating in for all of us.” journey. activities and ministries “A long time ago I within the Church and felt the call, but it was not the decision to be a deacon was a joy for all of us.” my moment,” he said, noting that he The journey was not easy, how- had to wait for “the moment that God ever. As with many graduate studies, proposes,” as opposed to the first moDeacon Suarez pointed out, the studies ment the option presented itself.

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He had to “go through several tests together with my family in order to mature the call and have perseverance in prayer and service.” For anyone considering the call, he said, “Being in the presence of the Lord, that call will definitely take shape and color until the time comes to formalize the call to the diaconate. Continue forward in union with your loved ones and your parish and believe that God’s timing is perfect.” — Kyra Stevko

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Days after his ordination to the permanent diaconate for the diocese, Deacon Jose Miguel Suarez Aular reflected on the future of his ministry. “I look forward to being able to have the blessing of serving Christ and his Gospel within the Church for the building of the kingdom of God and the salvation of our brothers and sisters,” he said. “This is a path that I desire with all my heart and I hope that with the grace of the Holy Spirit I will be able to fulfill God’s will with the help of Mother Mary and St. Joseph.” Deacon Suarez was ordained to the permanent diaconate for the diocese with 14 other men by Bishop James F. Checchio at Mass at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, May 14. The class of deacons is the first entirely composed of Spanish-speaking candidates. Deacon Suarez was a member of St. Augustine of Canterbury Parish, Kendall Park, until about a year ago, when he joined Parish of the Visitation, New Brunswick. Born in Caracas, Venezuela, he attended general school there before coming to the United States to study marketing at George Washington Uni-

With them, Deacon Sanchez Duval will be ministering at a parish that serves 3,000 families and has been described as an important cultural site to many Hispanics in New Brunswick for more than 40 years. As for what advice he would give to a man considering a vocation to the diaconate, Deacon Sanchez Duval said, “First, pray to God to guide you.”

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baptismal preparation for parents and wherever needed. “I am looking forward to serving godparents, pre-cana preparation for engaged couples, and lector. He was my parish in the areas of matrimony also a leader of the parish’s Youth and baptismal preparations,” he said. Group. He admitted that while preparHe believes the Lord ing to become a deacon, inspired him to pursue a “I am looking dividing his time between studying and being availvocation to the diaconate. forward to able to his wife and chil“I wanted to serve God in a dren was a challenge. more active way,” he said. serving my Deacon Sanchez DuHis wife, Siernia Garcia, noted, “When he told val and his wife are parparish in the the family he wanted to ents to Alexandra Sanchez areas of Garcia, Mayra A. Sanchez become a deacon, we were very supportive of his de- matrimony and Garcia, Pedro Sanchez Garcia and Isabell Sanchez cision.” baptismal Reflecting on his Garcia. coming to the journey to the diaconate, preparations.” U.S.,Since Deacon Sanchez DuDeacon Sanchez Duval val has worked at Durham said, “Studying through the years of preparation and going on a Woods Association, Edison, as a superweeklong retreat as a group all speak- intendent. Father Ramón L. Nacarino, pasing Spanish as their main language was very helpful.” tor, Our Lady of Mount Carmel, vested Since being ordained, Deacon Deacon Sanchez Duval at his ordinaSanchez Duval has proclaimed the tion. The new deacon serves at his parGospel at Mass. He is very happy with ish with Father Nacarino; Father José his new life with the Lord and will Lorente, parochial vicar, and Father give 100 percent to him and the parish Bonfilo Enriquez, parochial vicar.

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With the ordination of Pedro B. Sanchez Duval to the diaconate for Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish, New Brunswick, known as a national Hispanic Parish, now has a deacon to whom parishioners can easily relate. On May 14, Bishop James F. Checchio ordained Deacon Sanchez Duval and 14 other members of his class to the permanent diaconate for the diocese at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. It was the diocese’s first class of deacons in which Spanish is their main language and 13 of whom emigrnated to the United States from Spanishspeaking nations. Deacon Sanchez Duval was born and raised in the Dominican Republic, where he attended Club Caamano Elementary School. After graduating from Liceo Buenos Aires High School, he earned a degree in marketing at the Dominican University O and M. In 2003, he came to the U.S. and settled in Middlesex County, where he became an active member of Our Lady of Mount Carmel Parish. His ministry experience included


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Ever since he was a 14-year-old attending the minor seminary of the Salesian Missions in the Dominican Republic, Ubaldo Valdez has contemplated serving God in some capacity. Born and raised in the Caribbean nation, he immigrated to New Jersey in 1993 at the age of 21 and soon became an active member of Most Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Perth Amboy, where he and his wife served as extraordinary ministers of holy Communion. However, in order to pursue his calling to be an ordained minister, he knew he would have to perfect his English to enroll in the program. His prayers were answered when his cousin and future classmate in the formation program, Deacon Isidro Abreu – who was unaware of his relative’s desire to become a religious – mentioned that the diocese was creating the first diaconate program for Spanish-speaking men. The effort would require a strong commitment from his family, but he was confident they would help. “My family already knew my feelings and vocation. They were [a] great support for me throughout the preparation and studies process,” he said. “My biggest challenges were being able to undertake my studies, my work, and my family at the same time

and continue with some responsibili- and the support of our Bishop [James ties with the community.” F. Checchio] and his joy of preparing During formation, his duties in- 15 new deacons for his diocese.” cluded helping to clean and restore a Deacon Valdez’ spiritual counconvent in Flemington selor and friend of many with the other diacon“I am a witness years, Father Nicolas ate candidates. He also Francisco Noreňa, served worked with seniors, of the greatness in the vesting role at his visited the elderly, and ordination. Father of God — how in recent brought the Eucharist to Noreňa is the parochial those confined at home these five years vicar at Most Holy Name during the pandemic. of Jesus Parish. he has been He attended to some inThe next personal dividually, carrying the with me and my goal in Deacon Valdez’ word, praying with them, vocation involves learnfamily. I owe or just listening. In ading how to deliver an dition, he managed the effective homily while everything grocery store he owns continuing in his theoin Plainfield during the logical education. He is to him.” program’s five years of eager to establish a clos—Deacon Valdez intense studying and er bond with his commuworkshops. nity through baptizing, “I had many beauconducting funerals, and tiful experiences,” he witnessing marriages as noted about the formation process. he “serves God as a consecrated,” he “I met 14 great brothers who are now wrote. deacons, their families who are now Deacon Valdez expressed his apmy families, from acceptance to aco- preciation for the creation of the inlyte. I met great teachers who formed augural Spanish formation program to us and gave everything so that we Bishop Checchio and Deacon Stephen would be good deacons, the spiritual F. Kern, director, diocesan Office direction of our deacons, and the joy of the Diaconate, “for their support, of seeing my family and community dedication, and effort” in this opporpraying and supporting me every day, tunity. In addition, he expressed kind words for Deacon Edgar Chaves, interim co-director of the diocesan Office of Hispanic Evangelization and Ministry, “for giving himself to this great project” and for his “advice and knowledge.” “May the Lord bless him and his

family,” he added. For those considering a call to the diaconate Deacon Valdez offered this advice: “If you feel the vocation to serve God, he will give you the strength and the gifts to make it possible to say ‘yes’ to the Lord. “I am a witness of the greatness of God – how in these five years he has been with me and my family. I owe everything to him.” When the opportunity allows time away from his religious and workplace obligations, Valdez takes pleasure in dining out with his wife, Mercedes D. Castillo, and their two sons. He also enjoys bike riding, swimming, and going to the movies during his leisure time. — Debra Stevko Miller

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Bishop James F. Checchio prays during a Holy Hour for Vocations at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi June 10. Assisting are then-seminarian, now Father Ronal Vega-Pastrana (left) and Randy J. Gamboa Espinoza, a seminarian for the diocese. Father Vega-Pastrana was ordained to the priesthood for the diocese by Bishop Checchio the following morning at the Cathedral. — Gerald Wutkowski Jr. photo


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SOMERVILLE --- The Immaculata High School class of 2022 gathered with faculty, family and friends June 3 at Immaculate Conception Church for the institution’s 56th commencement exercises. The graduating class was comprised of 101 students. Bishop James F. Checchio addressed the class before helping to distribute the diplomas to the students. “The skill you have learned during the pandemic the last two-and-a-half years will serve you throughout life. You have learned perseverance and flexibility to be able to adjust and pivot to what needs to be done,” the bishop said. He reminded the class that there was one constant throughout these years: “The love of God for us and his protection.” He told them not to be afraid to give themselves to Jesus. “He wants to be with you throughout your lives. Give yourselves to him as you enter this next phase in your lives.” “Today as you begin this new journey in life, we ask the Lord to continue to guide you, protect you and keep you from every harm.” In her speech, salutatorian Olivia Jeannine Gaibor said, “Sophomore year taught us to expect the unexpected. Going on the longest ‘two-week’ break of our lives we all learned that the universe has a funny way of giving us gifts and obstacles to help us get closer to the person God created us to be.” She reminded her classmates, “Don’t be afraid to leave this behind you. Be grateful that this happened. The world is now at our fingertips. We will find our people again. We will make new memories again. We will achieve success again, and we will feel blessed for all that

Above, after commencement exercises June 3, two of Immaculata High School’s 101 graduates, like many of their classmates, pose for a photo with a friend. Right Zachary Schippnick holds his cap as he returns to his seat after receiving his diploma from Bishop James F. Checchio. — Ed Koskey Jr. photos ence the same things you did is a very positive experience,” she said. Theresa Knapp Plocic, Class of 1987, and her husband Michael Plocic, Class of 1983, were thrilled to be able to participate in their son James’ graduation. “This is so emotional. I am so excited for him. These four years have gone by so fast. The memories came flooding back when he had some of the same teachers I had and participated in the marching band like I did,” asserted Theresa.

Michael stated, “We are very proud of the man he is becoming. We highly recommend Immaculata for those looking for a family experience for their children. It is full of great memories from my time to now. It’s like coming home.” Msgr. Joseph G. Celano, pastor, Immaculate Conception Parish, presided at Immaculata’s Baccalaureate Mass June 2 at Immaculate Conception Church.

Excellence in Mathematics Gift of the IHS Administration Brendan David Lanka Excellence in Physics Gift of the IHS Administration Michael Anthony Harkins Excellence in Social Studies Gift of the Fraternal Order of Eagles 2137 and Knights of Columbus, Somerville Council 1432 Brendan David Lanka Excellence in Spanish Gift of the IHS Administration Olivia Jeannine Gaibor

Victoria Lauren Coey Valedictorian ment Isabella Marie Flood Excellence in Music and Service to Church and Community Gift of the Music Department Victoria Lauren Coey, Karis Nicole Mathias

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Music and Arts Awards “Semper Fidelis” Award Gift of the Marine Corps/Music Department James Francis Plocic Connie Tarentino Memorial Award Gift of the Tarentino Family Christa Grace Holland Excellence in the Visual Arts Gift of the Visual Arts Department Lauren Faith Antonacci Excellence in Digital Arts Gift of the Art Club Matthew J. Warzeniak Excellence in Dramatics Gift of the Drama Depart-

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Highest General Average (Valedictorian) Gift of the Spartan Parent Club Victoria Lauren Coey Highest General Average (Salutatorian) Gift of the Spartan Parent Club Olivia Jeannine Gaibor Excellence in Theology Gift of the Most Rev. James F. Checchio, JCD, MBA, Fraternal Order of Eagles 2137, and Knights of Columbus, Somerville Council 1432 Olivia Jeannine Gaibor Excellence in Biology Gift of the IHS Administration Alicia Paige Leclerc Excellence in Business Education Gift of the Vossen Family Brian Kenneth Bull Excellence in Chemistry Gift of the IHS Administration Michael Anthony Harkins Excellence in Computer Science Gift of the Vossen Family Jacob Paul Fickas Excellence in English Gift of the Fraternal Order of Eagles 2137 Alicia Paige Leclerc Excellence in French Gift of the Kline Family Julia Nicole Pinckert Excellence in Journalism Gift of the Journalism Program Julia Nicole Pinckert

happened while being students of Immaculata, because it was this school that set us on our path to lives of adventure, promise and whatever it is we seek.” In her speech, valedictorian Victoria Lauren Coey said, “We are about to experience some major changes. We are heading in different directions, off to chart our own paths and begin new adventures. It is important to remember that while we will be separated by distance, the bonds of friendship we have formed will keep us connected. “The faith Immaculata has infused in us these last four years affirms the truth that we are not alone because Jesus is in our midst. He will be there to celebrate our victories and to lift us up during our lowest moments. “While our high school days are over, our actions will continue to represent where we came from and who we are. ‘Once a Spartan always a Spartan.’ When we spread the faith and love we have gained here, we fulfill the duty we have both to our school and to our God,” she added. Head of School Joan Silo, who is completing her fourth year at the institution, had the honor of announcing dozens of awards and scholarships granted to the graduating class members. They totaled more than $21.5 million. Legacy mother Patricia Shea Hummel, Class of 1993, was there to support her son, Jacob Hummel, as he graduated. “This is very special. More than I realized it would be. It has been a great experience being on the other end and seeing the traditions that have stayed at Immaculata,” she said. Jacob is the oldest of five children, so Hummel noted there will be more graduations. “We will be doing this again and again. Watching your children experi-

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Music Department Award Gift of Mary Francis Gertsen Jacob Paul Fickas President of Tri-M Music Honor Society Gift of the Sister Dolores Margaret Scholarship Fund Jacob Paul Fickas The Sister Dolores Margaret Scholarship for Excellence Gift of the Sister Dolores Margaret Scholarship Fund Victoria Lauren Coey The Edward “Ted” Gaughan Memorial Award Gift of the Gaughan Family Karis Nicole Mathias The John Philip Sousa Award Gift of the Music Department Christa Grace Holland The Louis Armstrong Award Gift of the Music Department Christopher R. Castro The Susan Bruns ‘75 Award Gift of the Music Department Shannon Elizabeth Daly Service Awards Campus Ministry Award Gift of the Campus Ministry Department Christopher R. Castro, Lucy Grace Cornyn Christian Spirit Award Gift of the Spartan Parent Club Jacob Paul Fickas Law Enforcement Gift of the Somerville Police Benevolent Association, Local 147 Shannon Elizabeth Daly President of National Honor Society Gift of the National Honor Society Jacob Paul Fickas National Honor Society Tutorial Services Gift of the National Honor Society Alicia Paige Leclerc, Lillian Margaret Henry President of Senior Class Gift of the Student Council Brendan David Lanka President of Student Council Gift of Monsignor Joseph G. Celano Quinn Kathleen Callahan Service to Magnificat Yearbook Gift of the Journal-

ism Program Amanda Faith Bonastia Recognition Awards Alice McIntyre, RN Memorial Award Gift of David Boyda Kathryn Hannah de Marcellus Branchburg Rotary Scholarship Gift of Branchburg Rotary Alexander Mordecai Brawley, Brendan David Lanka Italian American Club at Canal Walk Scholarship Gift of Italian American Club at Canal Walk Samantha Anne Fronio, Devin Pombo Rotary Club of Hillsborough Scholarship Gift of Hillsborough Rotary Brian Kenneth Bull Spartan Academic Award Gift of the IHS Administration Alicia Paige Leclerc Spartan Alumni Award Gift of the Spartan Alumni Association Jacob Nicholas Hummel, James Francis Plocic Spartan Athletic Award Gift of the IHS Administration Shahkai Zamir Matthews The Advancement Office Spartan Ambassador Award Gift of Rich and Tara Rau ‘89 Isabella Marie Flood The Angelo Mystrena Memorial Award Gift of Aaron ‘89 and Michele Kowalski Daniel Estigarribia The Goitz Family Award Gift of the Goitz Family Lillian Margaret Henry The J. Brandon (Mackie) Maxwell Award for Merit Gift of Mr. and Mrs. Robert Ribbans Gianna Marie Duncan The John Collins ‘76 Memorial Award Gift of the Knights of Columbus, Somerville Council 1432, and AOH Somerset County, Saint Patrick Division 1 Anthony Carmen Ruscetta

In a tradition held at many high schools, members of Immacualata High School’s Class of 2022 jubilantly toss their caps up their flagpole after commencement exercises June 3. — Ed Koskey Jr. photo The Kenneth G. Herrmann ‘81 Memorial Award Gift of the Unitas Caritas Foundation and the Susan Kelly ’80 Golf Outing Benefactors Lauren Faith Antonacci The Michael Vecchio Memorial Award Gift of Irene Vecchio Stephen Richard Dowe, Joseph Ouellette Kerekes The Richard D. Tyler Memorial Award Gift of Mrs. Mary Jane Tyler Dominic A. Giampino The Robert Briski Citizenship Award Gift of Mrs. Carol Briski Patrick Joseph Repak The Robert Colucci ’08 Award for Leadership Gift of the friends of Rob Colucci ’08 Brendan David Lanka The Rotary Club of Somerville and Bridgewater Scholarship Gift of the Rotary Club of Somerville and Bridgewater Eliana Marie Jaskolski

The Sheila M. White Memorial Award Gift of the Office of School Counseling Dylan J. Loughran, Matthew J. Warzeniak The Susan Kelly ‘80 Memorial Award Gift of the Unitas Caritas Foundation and the Susan Kelly ’80 Golf Outing Benefactors Nicasia Faith Santos The Thomas M. Jubak Jr. ‘80 Memorial Award Gift of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Jubak Sr. Colleen Anne Kane U.S. Army Green Beret Staff Sergeant Andrew T. Lobosco ‘98 Scholarship Award Gift of James Boyda ’12 Alexander Mordecai Brawley The Monsignor Eugene B. Kelly Award Gift of the IHS Administration Devin Pombo

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All-girls, Catholic preparatory institution graduates 78 in ceremony By Christina Leslie Correspondent WATCHUNG – Laughter, tears, faith and anticipation of a bright future were the hallmarks of the Mount Saint Mary Academy Class of 2022 graduation. Held June 4 inside the academy’s Immaculate Conception Chapel, perched atop a ridge of the Watchung Mountains, the ceremony was a tradition-laden celebration of the achievements of its 78 members. With the tolling of the bell, the white-gowned seniors took their places in the chapel for the last time as students. Jerrine George, the class salutatorian, shared the wisdom of St. Teresa of Kolkata in her address. “[This ceremony is] a stop on this journey of life. The lessons we Above, Mount Saint Mary Academy’s Imhave learned at the Mount will not maculate Conception Chapel was filled end here, but carry us into the futo capacity June 4 for the graduation of ture,” George asserted. “If I had one the 78 members of the Class of 2022. piece of advice to give, it would be Faculty, staff, family and friends joined the wise words of Mother Teresa: the graduates as they received their ‘Reach high, for stars lie hidden in diplomas from the Mount’s directess, your souls. Dream big, for every Mercy Sister Lisa D. Gambacorto, and dream precedes the goal.’” listened to the message Bishop James Valedictorian Diana Neste ad- F. Checchio delivered. Above right, two vised her fellow graduates to set graduates beam as they return to their their future goals with forethought. seats after receiving their diploma. At “[The] goals should be more right MSMA’s Class of 2022, process to focused in order to actually be ful- the chapel for their graduation. filled,” Neste said. “We cannot wait for the future to come to us, for it is already here… As we do this, it is your wings.” The beloved seniors answered important to remember the message featured on the signs in most of our in kind, assuring their elders they Mount classrooms: ‘Strive for grace, will return to the Mount to visit. “You can learn to fly and you could not perfection.’” change your dreams/ Mercy Sister Lisa D. Gambacorto, “We cannot wait for You can laugh and cry, but everybody directress, and Bishthe future to come knows/You’ll always op James F. Checyour way back chio presented the to us, for it is already find home,” they sang. graduates with their In his address diplomas as family here… As we do this, to the graduates, and friends snapped it is important to re- Bishop Checchio cellphone photos. Pairs of girls stood member the message acknowledged that COVID-19 had had together and turned the tassel on the cap featured on the signs an impact on their of a fellow gradu- in most of our Mount academic life. “Your formaate, signifying the conclusion of their classrooms: ‘Strive for tion was a lot different. You learned Catholic secondary grace, not perfection.’” a lot of extra things. school careers. Your flexibility and Both faculty —Diana Neste, Valedictorian perseverance cermembers and stutainly have created a dents chose to exstrength within you press their unbreakthat will carry you able bonds with one another through music. Black- through life,” he said. Reminding them to keep their gowned teachers and administrators addressed the new graduates, faith always foremost, the bishop singing, “I pray that God would fill concluded, “Jesus wants nothing your heart with dreams/and that faith from you. He just wants to be with gives you the courage to dare to do you through all life’s ups and downs. great things/I’m here for you what- You are never alone, start anew in ever this life brings/So let my love your friendship with Christ -- you give you roots/and help you find won’t regret it.”

Above, Bishop James F. Checchio, congratulates a Mount Saint Mary Academy graduate. In his address, the bishop reminded the Class of 2022, to keep their faith foremost. At right, Mercy Sister Lisa D. Gambacorto, directess of MSMA, presents a diploma to one of the academy’s 78 graduates. — John Batkowski photos


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Mercy Sister Lisa D. Gambacorto, directess of MSMA, raises the hands of Diana Neste, at left, valedictorian, of the Mount’s Class of 2022, and Jerrine George, class salutatorian. —photo courtesy of Mount Saint Mary Academy

General Excellence – Four Years – Valedictorian (Gift of the Mercy Guild): Diana Neste Excellence – Four Years – Salutatorian (Gift of the Fathers Club): Jerrine George High Honors – Four Years – Gift of the Mount Saint Mary Academy Administration: Margaret Ferris, Jerrine George, Claire King, Bridget Mooney, Diana Neste, Riley Newall, Mary Wieszczek Bishop Checchio Religion Medal 2022 – Gift of the Diocese of Metuchen: Jerrine George School Leadership Award – Gift of the Alumnae: Caitlin Cotter, Hannah Cunniffe, Margaret Ferris, Alexandrea Pace, Arianna Salerno School Spirit Award – Gift of the Fathers Club: Hannah Cunniffe, Margaret Ferris and Rebecca Gagliano

Catherine McAuley Award – Gift of the Sisters of Mercy: Sarah Gresham and Olivia Haynes Christian Leadership Award – Gift of Campus Ministry: Mei Chiang and Diana Neste Sister M. Eloise Claire Kays Memorial Award – Former Directress of Mount Saint Mary Academy: Reagan DeMarco and Katherine Kenny Sister Mary Kerwin ’45 Memorial Award – Former Directress of Mount Saint Mary Academy: Caitlin Cotter and Langley Murray Sister Diane Szubrowski Humanitarian Memorial Service Award – Former New Jersey Regional Community President of the Sisters of Mercy: Claire King, Bridget Mooney, and Gabriella Robinson Outstanding Leadership Award – Gift of the Directress: Sidra Alktaish

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Our 78 Graduates in the Class of 2022 Received a Total of Over $24 Million in Scholarships/Grants

Emily Abbott Julia Agosta Leah Alberto Sidra Al-Ktaish Kayla Barreto Emily Benewiat Grace Brautigan Sheridan Burke Rebecca (Qiaowei) Cai Jolcy (Zhouqi) Cao Molly Catchpole Cassandra Cavuoto Mei Chiang Caitlin Cotter Hannah Cunniffe Reagan DeMarco Angelika Demetrick Kate Ducoff Margaret Ferris Julianne Fontana

Rebecca Gagliano Erin Geib Jerrine George** Sarah Gresham Olivia Haynes Mariella Hilyard Karoline Hocevar Marley Hughes Antonia Iadevaia Gianna Iuliano Ava Janish Caitlin Kearney Katherine Kenny Claire King Sydney Kress Lara Kuglin Olivia LaBruno Natalie Leonardis Avery Longstreet Nicole MacKinnon

Grace Marquez Lauren McNamara Catherine Meisner Julia Meisner Mikayla Melvin Reilly Melvin Bridget Mooney Alexandra Mueller Sarah Murphy Langley Murray Diana Neste* Riley Newall Semrit Nijjar Olivia Ong Alexandrea Pace Julianna Peluso Sydney Phillips Courtney Pinkin Victoria Pitonzo Grace Ramirez

Gabriella Robinson Mary Rojack Ella Romeo Shannon Ryan Arianna Salerno Megan Sandstedt Grace Schwartz Lindsey Sieman Nicolle Silva Mariangela Tapia Victoria Townsend Kaelyn Twaskas Laurel Valente Sophie Vastine Lindsey Verbaro Mary Wieszczek Honor Winter Karlie (Tingyu) Zhang *Valedictorian **Salutatorian

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SOUTH PLAINFIELD — The Class of 2022 was all about change, both positive and negative, declared St. Thomas Aquinas High School valedictorian Shivali Vora. “I was surprised to find that, just as the bad stuff stands out in good times, the good stuff stands out in tough times,” Vora said to the 162 graduating seniors of the Edison Catholic high school, school officials, family and friends during the Baccalaureate Mass and graduation ceremony May 25 at the Church of the Sacred Heart. Father Keith M. Cervine, the school’s director of Catholic identity, served as principal celebrant and homilist and was assisted by fellow St. Thomas campus minister, Father Michael Tabernero. In his homily, Father Cervine reminded the students, “Commencement means beginning, an opportunity to go out and reinvent yourself... We started the year with a liturgy and concluded it with one as well. We as Catholics profess it as the source and summit of our faith. “As you go out into the world, you will go to college and you will have choices. You can still use the tools we have given you at St. Thomas [for] education is a life-long process. May God bless you on your journey.” Vora, in her valedictory speech, noted that the pandemic had caused her youthful tendency of looking for the negative to give way to seeking the positive. “What I’ve learned is that hard does not equal bad,” she said. “Quite the contrary: challenge builds strength out of thin air, and it is essential for positive change.” After thanking parents and fac-

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Above, seniors at St. Thomas Aquinas High School, Edison, process into Church of the Sacred Heart for commencement exercises May 25. Above right, valedictorian Shivali Vora addresses the graduates. Right, one of the 162 graduates receives holy Communion. ulty who had supported the St. Thomas Aquinas seniors through their fouryear academic career, salutatorian Vera McCoy said, “You have yourselves to thank… you have made your own way. Some say high school graduation is the end of a chapter in our lives. I’d say it’s more like the end of a book. Let’s write a great sequel.” Harry Ziegler, school principal, expressed his admiration for the class, and advised them to, “feel the fear, then go forward.” “COVID showed your unbreakable determination. You are an inspiration to all of us,” he added. Kevin McCarthy, director of service opportunities and member of the school’s class of 2009, read the names

of the graduates, all beaming widely as they received their diplomas from Bishop James F. Checchio. As they turned their cap’s tassels from right to left to indicate their graduation was complete, students and parents applauded enthusiastically. The bishop extended his congratulations to the class and gave them parting advice to “remember that our one constant is our Lord. He never changes… Keep close to the sacraments, find a chapel or the Neumann Center on your college campus.” The parking lot was a sea of red

as jubilant graduates sought out friends and family for pictures. Gwendolyn Lentz, whose newly-graduated son, Scott, plans to continue his studies at Rutgers Business School in New Brunswick, explained why a Catholic high school education was a priority for their family. “He was in Catholic school from the start,” she said. “It is important for them to learn about the sacraments, and not just once a week on Sundays.” She continued, “Catholic schools are better than public schools. Students are held to higher standards.”

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Bishop James F. Checchio congratulates a beaming graduate as he presents her with her diploma. The bishop presided at the school’s Baccalaureate Mass and afterwards distributed diplomas to the Class of 2022. — Frank Wojciechowski photos


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Valedictorian /Salutatorian Trophies Valedictorian: Shivali Vora Salutatorian: Vera McCoy Student Council President : Joseph Vergel Vice President: Emily Drill Athletic Chairperson: Tyler Kadi Ahr Star Chairperson: Morgan Brennan Social Events Chairperson: Grace Neno Social Media Representatives: Sophia Cascio, Morgan Lavelle Shivali Vora Valedictorian

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Director’s Award for Excellence in Dance: Jamie Metz, Joseph Vergel Director’s Award for Most Improved Performer Over Four Years: Erin Ptack, Jaylene Lugo Director’s Award for Outstanding Stage Performance Over Four Years: Tamia Burton, David Irizarry, Nicholas Lieggi, Joshua Pereira, Patrick Ponik, Jennifer Rihacek, Gianna Vaynberg

Drama Department Awards 20212022 Director’s Award for Participatory Excellence in the STA Drama Department 2-3 years: Kiran Bhattacharya, Brian Bonura, Emily Drill, Brian Marchev, Erin Safian Director’s Award for Outstanding Dedication to the STA Drama Department over Four Years: Tamia Burton, David Irizarry, Nicholas Lieggi, Jaylene Lugo, Jamie Metz, Joshua Pereira, Patrick Ponik, Erin Ptack, Jenn Rihacek, Gianna Vaynberg, Joseph Vergel

Band and Music Awards 4 Year Award (Stayed active on a Music Roster for 8 full seasons): Alyssa Aure, Kiran Bhattacharya Tamia Burton, Anne Marie Chiricolo, Beatrice DeLeon David Irizarry, Megan Kibalo, Emily Lim, Jaylene Lugo Lesly Mayta, Jamie Metz, Joshua Pereira, Patrick Ponik Elizabeth Powers, Erin Ptack, Jennifer Rihacek, Ferdinand Robles, Aliyah Schmidt, Eugene Tak, Gianna Vaynberg, Joseph Vergel, Shivali Vora, Raymond Zebrowski, William Zhang

Director’s Award for Band: Beatrice DeLeon Leonard Bernstein Musicianship: Shivali Vora Quincy Jones Musicianship: Ferdinand Robles National School Choral Award: David Irizarry, Jennifer Rihacek, Tamia Burton, Megan Kibalo Frederick Chopin Piano Award: William Zhang Most Improved Over Four Years – Chorus: Gianna Vaynberg, Joshua Pereira STA Outstanding Contribution to Music: Sarah Langdon, Emily Lim, Eugene Tak, Elizabeth Powers, Jaylene Lugo, Gianna Vaynberg, Lesly Mayta

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Top 10% Aadesh Arul, Beatrice DeLeon, Katherine Gleason, Abigail Marzan, Vera McCoy, Jamie Metz, Elizabeth Pepe, Whitney Pepe, Ashley Perez, Jacob Pil, Michael Rivera, Olivia Rivera, Valery Romero, Aliyah Schmidt, Joseph Spaltro Jr., Steven Takel, Gianna Vaynberg, Elijah Villar Shivali Vora, Thomas Wyskowski

Most Improved over 4 Years Band: Thomas Wyskowski, Sarah Langdon, Tanya Androshchuk Chorus: Gianna Vaynberg, Joshua Pereira Semper Fi Marine Corps Marching Award: Raymond Zebrowski, Jennifer Rihacek, Woody Herman Jazz Award: Emily Lim Louis Armstrong Award: Aliyah Schmidt John Phillip Sousa Award: Raymond Zebrowski Patrick S. Gilmore Award: Alyssa Aure Fred Waring Award For Chorus: Sarah Langdon, Patrick Ponik, Ferdinand Robles, Erin Ptack Video Production/On Camera Excellence: Joshua Pereira, Erin Ptack, Prince Swain Video Production/Outstanding Contribution Behind the Scenes: Alexandra Kachurick, Patrick Ponik, Joseph Vergel Subject Awards (medals) Art Award: Emily Lim English Award: Elizabeth Pepe Health & Physical Education Award Boy: Tyler Kadi Girl: Jenna Campagna Italian Award: Aliyah Schmidt Latin Award: Shivali Vora Math Award: Vera McCoy Physical Science Award: Vera McCoy Biological Science Award: Thomas Wyskowski Social Studies Award: Shivali Vora Spanish Award: Ava Cruz Bishop Checchio Religion Award: Olivia Rivera Perfect Attendance: Madyson Epps, Vera McCoy, Elizabeth Powers Excellence Awards Excellence in S.T.E.M.: Vera McCoy Satoma Participant: Tamia Burton Excellence in Writing: Vera McCoy Four years Principal’s List : Genna Arduini, Aadesh Arul, Alexis Citro, Ava Marie Cruz, Beatrice deLeon, Katherine Gleason, Giovanna Jaramillo, Tyler Kadi, Abigail Marzan, Vera McCoy, Jamie Metz, Elizabeth Pepe, Whitney Pepe, Jacob Pil, Olivia Ribera, Valery Romero, Joseph Spaltro Jr., Steven Tekel, Gianna Vaynberg, Shivali Voa,

Thomas Wyskowski, Ella Young 2021/2022 Principal’s List: Lia Acosta, Tanya Androshchuk, Diana Arango, Genna Arduini, Aadesh Arul, Tamia Burton, Jenna Campagna, Anne Marie Chiricolo, Alexis Citro, Ava Cruz, Renzo Cuyuche, Alexandra Eve Delabar, Beatrice deLeon, Claire English, Madyson Epps, Patrick Frazee, Katherine Gleason, Danelys Gomez, Rachel Halasz, Kanela Hislop, David Irizarry, Giovanna Jaramillo, Sofia Jonte, Alexandra Kachurick Tyler Kadi, Morgan Lavelle, Nicholas Lieggi, Matthew MacPherson, Abigail Marzan, Lesly Mayta, Dominick Mazzeo, Vera McCoy, Jamie Metz, Brian Mohabeer, Grace Neno, Carlos Ortiz, Elizabeth Pepe, Whitney Pepe, Joshua Pereira, Ashley Perez, Jacob Pil, Victoria Poliseno, Patrick Ponik, Jennifer Rihacek, Olivia Rivera Valery Romero, Andrew Salotti, Aliyah Schmidt, Sarah Shao, Zaida Smikle, Miguel Soler, Joseph Spaltro Jr., Prince Swain, Steven Tekel, Gianna Vaynberg, Elijah Villar, Shivali Vora, Italia Wiley, Thomas Wyskowski Ella Young, William Zhang 4 Years Honors Program: Amanda Cariaga, Beatrice DeLeon, Emily Drill, Alexander Enfield, Claire English, Isabella Fredericks, Laura Grausam, Joshua Hebbe, Ethan Hung, Megan Kibalo, Scott Lentz, Vera McCoy, Dhvani Parikh, Elizabeth Pepe, Whitney Pepe, Ashley Perez, Jacob Pil, Jennifer Rihacek, Michael Rivera, Olivia Rivera, Valery Romero, Altis Scafe Jr., Aliyah Schmidt, Eugene Tak, Gianna Vaynberg, Ayden Villamar, Elijah Villar, Shivali Vora, William Zhang Middlesex County Scholar Athlete Award Boy: Kenny Coghan Girl: Katherine Gleason NJSIAA Scholar Athlete: Tyler Kadi Robin Cone Memorial Award: Sydney Zeszotarski Air Force Math & Science Award: Jacob Pil Air Force Technology Education Award: William Zhang American Irish Association of Woodbridge Award: Liam Walsh Middlesex County Principal’s & Supervisor’s Outstanding Student: Shivali Vora Scott Stringer Award: Patrick Frazee Society of Women Engineers: Beatrice deLeon U.S. Marine Corp. Athletic Award: Samar Abdulla U.S. Marine Corp. Scholastic Achievement Award: Katie Gleason U.S. Marine Corp. Semper Fi – Musical Excellence Award: Raymond Zebrowski Zolnier’s Student Leadership & Service Award: Joseph Vergel Brian Crelin Memorial Scholarship: Ryan O’Connor Kathleen Duffy Memorial Award: Tyler Kadi Ronald Reagan Leadership Medal: Raymond Zebrowski National Merit Scholarship Program – Letter of Commendation: Olivia Rivera National Merit Scholarship Program – Letter of Commendation: Vera McCoy National Merit Scholarship Program – Letter of Commendation: Eugene Tak National Merit Scholarship Program – Letter of Commendation: William Zhang National Merit Scholarship Program – Letter of Commendation: Jacob Pil National Merit Scholarship Program – Letter of Commendation: Shivali Vora Spirit of Blessed Angela Award: Morgan Brennan, Erin Zafian St. Vincent De Paul Award: Genna Arduini Girl Scout Award: Isabella Fredericks


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Graduates of all-boys prep school encouraged to blaze own path By Christina Leslie Correspondent SOUTH PLAINFIELD -- “Everywhere we go, we will be in the shadow of others,” observed St. Joseph High School valedictorian Aayush Agnihotri during his speech at Church of the Sacred Heart. “We will have to work hard in every endeavor to set ourselves apart.” The all-boys Catholic high school in Metuchen, operated by the Brothers of the Sacred Hart, feted 114 seniors May 22 at a baccalaureate Mass and graduation ceremony four years in the making. Father Michael G. Krull, pastor, Our Lady of Peace Parish, North Brunswick, and member of the St. Joseph Class of 1976, presided at the Mass and gave the homily. He told the graduates that their apprehension resembled that of the disciples as Jesus prepared to ascend to his Father. “You know your gifts, your talents,” Father Krull said. “God has a special plan for each of you as he does for us all. As you go forth, you are called to use those gifts and talents, not just for yourself, but for others, to make a difference.” During his salutatory address, Matthew DaSilva, who plans to study at Brown University, Providence, R.I., in the fall, reflected upon his St. Joseph career of friendships, change and self-discovery. “Where I am now -- where all of us are now -- is a culmination of our personal and class growth,” he said. “We are all the same. We arrived at a more fulfilled and confident version of ourselves, yet our paths were different.” Agnihotri, bound for Cornell University (N.Y.), recalled the struggles of his freshman year as he tried to live up to the academic and sports achievements of his older brother. “I learned that expectations didn’t matter in forming my own path in the world,” he said. “In fact, they were the only things

keeping me from becoming who I wanted to be… We have developed the tools necessary to not only succeed but thrive.” Anne Rivera, principal, told the young men, “You have the tools and the talent to live a good life. Today is a great day to be a Falcon.” School president John G. Nolan Jr. said, “Our goal is simple -- to prepare your sons for life. I hope we have accomplished that… You make a difference. Please keep God and St. Joseph in your hearts.” Jessamyn Bergin, dean of studies, read aloud the names of the students who had earned their diplomas, including three sets of twins. All maintained a quiet, reverent demeanor, but as the final name was announced, the boys turned as one to face their parents, roaring in delight, and hearing their families’ answering applause. In his closing remarks, Bishop James F. Checchio noted how he enjoyed greeting the students who intersected his morning walking route through the school campus. “You young men have been challenged in extraordinary ways,” he said, referring to pandemic adjustments during their school year. “You have a lot to be proud of. Keep those lessons with you.” The bishop reminded them to practice their faith while in college. “You have nothing to lose if you give yourself to Jesus,” Bishop Checchio said. “He wants nothing from you, just to accompany you throughout your lives. He knows best. Don’t be afraid or embarrassed to stay close to him.” The members of the Class of 2022 had been awarded $ in scholarships. Following the ceremony, each entered nearby Holy Savior Academy to change out of their green gowns and emerged with new white ballcaps emblazoned with the green Falcon insignia and the word “Alumni” on its back. Proud parents snapped pictures with their sons and extended family and explained

Above Bishop James F. Checchio, center, poses with, from left: John Langdon, Saint Joseph High Class of 1980 and chairman, Board of Directors; Sacred Heart Brother Richard Leven; Sacred Heart Brother Gary Humes; Anne RIvera, principal; John G. Nolan Jr., president, and Father Michael G. Krull, a member of the school’s Class of 1976 after graduation ceremonies at the Church of the Sacred Heart, South Plainfield. At right a graduate and Father Krull distribute holy Communion at the baccalureate Mass celebrated during Saint Joseph’s graduation. — Marlo Williamson photos why they prioritized Catholic education. “We’re Catholic,” stated Anna Zsak, mother to new graduate Donovan, who will study at the University of Virginia [Charlottesville] in the fall. “[St. Joseph] better prepared him for college and gave him a leg up.” The Van Der Veer family had double the reason to celebrate: twins Thomas and Ryan were new Falcon alumni. This fall, they will be joining older brother Nicholas

(St. Joseph Class of 2019) to continue their studies at The College of New Jersey, Ewing Township. The three men, along with their sister, Caleigh, attended St. Augustine of Canterbury School, Kendall Park, from kindergarten to the eighth grade, said their mother, Cathy. “Catholic school gave them a good foundation, had smaller class sizes and had dedicated teachers,” she stated.

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Salutatorian Award: Matthew DaSilva Valedictorian Award: Aayush Agnihotri Clubs and Activities Awards 2022 (Sacré Coeur Award and Falcon Award)-- Art National Honor Society Wenze Zhong, ZhengYang Wu Chess Team Roman Modhera College Bowl Matthew San Miguel, Francisco Tellez Computer Club Aayush Agnihotri, Akshat Neerati German National Honor Society: Bence Kovacs, Benjamin Beczynski Investment Club: Roman Modhera Literary Magazine Vignette: Abel Stephen Math League: Benjamin Beczynski, Matthew DaSilva Mock Trial: Matthew DaSilva, Aayush Agnihotri Model United Nations: Abel Stephen, Aayush Agnihotri National Honor Society: Matthew San Miguel, Srikrishna Ammu Newspaper, The Falcon: Abel Stephen, Aayush Agnihotri Robotics Team: Matthew San Miguel, Christian Muce Science League: Benjamin Beczynski, Matthew DaSilva

Science National Honor Society: Srikrishna Ammu, Frank Bunks S.J. Broadcasting: Kyle Moyer, Benjamin Beczynski Spanish National Honor Society: Michael Weikum, Emmanuel Brito Theatre Company Actors: Miguel Castro, Michael Weikum Theatre Company Tech: Christian Muce, Elijah Levantino Tri M Music National Honor Society: Arvin IslamGomes, Wenze Zhong Service Club Awards 2022 Campus Ministry: Michael Altobelli, Brian Zafian Falcons and Friends: Thomas Freda Falcons For Safety: Animesh Borad, Abhishek Borad Justiceworx Club: John Toolan, Benjamin Beczynski Respect Life Club: Miguel Castro, Elijah Levantino Student Council: Jamie Wood, Thomas Freda Special Awards Alumni Award: Michael Altobelli, Michael Weikum Anthony S. Spezio Memorial Award: Kyle Moyer

Aayush Agnihotri Valedictorian

Matthew DaSilva Salutatorian

Bishop Checchio Medal: Colin Formisano Curtis Nurnberger Memorial Award for Excellence in Music: Anthony Wright Gavid Macdonald Memorial Scholarship for Excellence: Joseph DeRosa

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Nonfiction: Animesh Borad – “Oh, So Many Places to Go!”, Joseph DeRosa – “June Day”, Gianmarco Iparraguirre – “I Am Puruvian” Poetry: Abel Stephen – “Summer Storms”, Miguel Castro – “As We Go Our Way”, Steven Podczerwinski – “A History Rediscovered” Edison Rotary Seniors of the Month: Aayush Agnihotri, Daniel Aitken, Michael Altobelli, Benjamin Beczynski, Miguel Castro, Connor Craig, Xavier Daly, Matthew DaSilva, Colin Formisano, Jacob Franco-Wadley, Thomas Freda, Arvin Islam-Gomes, Bence Kovacs, Elijah Levantino, Mekai Mathews, Roman Modhera, Rohan Patel, Aidan Pierce, Michael Weikum, Anthony Wright Senior of the Year as Chosen by the Edison Rotary: Benjamin Beczynski National Latin Exam Lative IV- Advanced Prose: Magna Cum Laude: Miguel Castro American Scholastic Press Association, The Vignette Magazine, Outstanding Photograph: Roman Modhera Youth Advisory Council Exceptional Academic Achievement, Athletics and Community Service: Michael Weikum ATHLETICS- NJSIAA Scholar Athlete Award: Anthony Bistany GMC Scholar Athlete Award: Ethan Simmon GMC Sportsmanship Award: Ricardo Venegas Banuelos National Merit Commended Students: Aayush Agnihotri, Benjamin Beczynski, Animesh Borad, Matthew DaSilva, Joseph DeRosa, Bence Kovacs, Roman Modhera, Rohan Patel, Abel Stephen National Hispanic Recognition Program Scholars: Jacob Franco-Wadley, Nicholas Robertson, Brandon Ruoff, Francisco Tellez National African American Recognition Program Scholars: Jacob Franco-Wadley

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Ryan Terracciano ‘09 Memorial Scholarship: Brian Zafian William Perdue Memorial Award for Excellence in Mathematics: Akshat Neerati Captain Walter C. Callari “Lead by Example” Award: Varad Donwad and John Smolenski Department Awards (for excellence and department awards) Computer Science and Applied Technology: Sriram Ammu, Department Award: Samuel Makowski English: Matthew San Miguel, Devlin Hernandez Fine and Performing Arts: Wenze Zhong, ZhengYang Wu Health and Physical Education: Spencer Angeles, Kwame Herod Mathematics: Benjamin Beczynski, Roman Modhera Science: Animesh Borad, Benjamin Beczynski Social Studies: Roman Modhera, Francisco Tellez Theology: Dennis Babynyuk, Elijah Levantino WORLD LANGUAGES- German: Benjamin Beczynski, Bence Kovacs Latin: Miguel Castro, Jamie Wood Spanish: Emmanuel Brito, Joseph DeRosa Honors Diploma: Aayush Agnihotri, Benjamin Beczynski, Animesh Borad, Matthew DaSilva, Joseph DeRosa, Roman Modhera, Akshat Neerati, Matthew San Miguel, Brian Zafian Scholar-Athlete Award: Darien Betances, Tyler Knurek, Benjamin Lockey, Richard Park Honors Previous Awarded (first, second and third place) 47th Annual Robert Frost Literary Contest- SENIOR DIVISION- Fiction: Michael Weikum – “Beauty in the Eye of the Beholder”, Elijah Levantino – “In a Little World”, Francisco Tellez – “Falling Up”

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Above after receiving their diplomas, following a baccalaureate Mass, presided by Father Michael G. Krull, class of ‘76, and graduation cermony, May 22, at the Church of the Sacred Heart, South Plainfield, graduates of Saint Joseph High School pose for a photo. At right Bishop James F. Checchio congratulates a Saint Joseph graduate. In remarks, the bishop told the graduates not to be afraid or embarrassed to stay close to Jesus. — Marlo Williamson photos

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Class of 2022 Statistics Scholarship Dollars:

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$34.8 Million

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Average Claimed Scholarship Per Student:

$96,903

Received Scholarships Totaling in Excess of Their 4-Year Saint Joe’s Tuition


and happiness, and may God bless you all the days of your lives. And don’t forget to come back to UC. You are always welcome.’’ Hunsinger, who will attend Bentley University, said the Class of 2022 is forever linked together. “We, as a class, have a legacy,’’ she said. “Union Catholic has brought us together, from being a group of strangers, to a community of individuals who have grown close to one another over the past four years. Regardless of the time we spend apart or the distance that continually grows over time, we will always be members of the Union Catholic Class of 2022, linked together in that community; the legacy of our class is incarnated within the things we accomplish as a collective entity and the impression we impart on the world. It is our responsibility to uphold and fulfill that legacy as we take our first steps into a new chapter in our lives.’’ Agyapong said members of the Class of 2022 should never stop believing in themselves. “I want you to have the confidence and inner strength to leave this lawn today and turn the world absolutely upside down, no matter what you do and how challenging it may be,’’ said the Yale-bound Agyapong. “You have 167 classmates who can’t wait to watch you do it. With that, I leave you with this advice for the road ahead: life will always be 100 percent worth

living, but it might not always be worth loving, so I hope you can at least love every version of yourself along the arduous way. Once again, it has been an honor to speak to you all. The biggest of congratulations to the Class of 2022!’’ Perona, who will attend the University of South Carolina, said the Class of 2022 will always be remembered as the “Comeback Class.’’ Lined up in front of their high school, the 168 gradu“Our high school ates of Union Catholic toss their caps into the air after experience was disrupted receiving their diplomas. The class has been dubbed, from Covid,” said Perona. ‘The ‘Comeback Class. ‘ — photo courtesy of Union Catholic “Fortunately, we were able to have our senior year in lots and lots of tears.” person. Despite being apart for so long; we Listed below are some of the members were able to come together as a community, of the Class of 2022 who received special which was the theme for this school year, awards that were handed out during the and make this senior year special. ceremony: “In spite of the challenges, the Class of The Spirit Award 2022 had lots of full, special days. From the Ava Perona and Ryan Hatzlhoffer first day back as we were all anticipating a Michael Marotti Award full year in person, to Mr. UC, and all of the Nicolette Jimenez memories in between. One day in particular Jane Albert Award that was a full and special day for me was Madison Duca our last day here at UC. Skirt decorating and School Consultative Board Award t-shirt signing was the perfect way to end a Michael Palacio and Yvonne Agyapong perfect senior year. The day was filled with Principal’s Award lots of laughs, thoughts about the future, and Jada Mia Puryear

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SCOTCH PLAINS -- Blue caps went airborne through the sun-splashed sky when Union Catholic’s Class of 2022 graduated during a ceremony held in front of the school June 8. The 168 members of the Class of 2022, who will forever be remembered as the “Comeback Class,’’ let their emotions flow as they celebrated their memorable accomplishment with classmates, family, and members of the UC faculty on a beautiful day on the campus. Union Catholic’s 57th annual commencement ceremony was an emotional, exciting, uplifting, and reflective event as a huge crowd gathered to honor UC’s Class of 2022, and members of UC’s Class of 1972, who celebrated their 50th anniversary. The day was also filled with inspiring, passionate, and heartfelt speeches from Mercy Sister Percylee Hart; co-valedictorians Abby Hunsinger and Yvonne Agyapong; Ava Perona, Student Council president, and Mike Conte, a school counselor at Union Catholic for the past 10 years In her comments, Sister Percylee said, “Class of 2022, here at Union Catholic, things are better, change abounds, and advances have been made because of you, your presence will be missed as you pursue your college and career goals. But your many contributions will remain as a valued testament of your talents and gifts you so generously shared with the UC community. “Graduates, I wish you much success

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Worthy Recipients The Knights of Columbus Council 6930, Whitehouse Station, awarded $1,000 college scholarships to three members of Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Whitehouse Station, after Mass at Our Lady of Lourdes Church May 22. Grand Knight James Siessel (left) and Scholarship Committee member Gary Drzewiecki (far right), pose with the recipients (from left): Claire Kuo, who is studying at the Ernest Mario School of Pharmacy at Rutgers University, New Brunswick; Lauren Antonacci, who plans to attend the University of Dallas in the fall and study fine arts; and Diana Neste, who plans to attend Johns Hopkins University, Baltimore, in the fall. The scholarships are awarded for involvement in parish ministries, community service and academics. — photo courtesy of Knights of Columbus Council 6930

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Graduates earn more than $13.7 million in awards CLARK — Charity Sister Jacquelyn Balasia, principal, Mother Seton Regional High School, presented diplomas to graduates at commencement exercises May 26. The Class of 2022 received more than $13.7 million dollars in academic scholarships and awards. In her comments, Sister Jacquelyn said, “Please do not take anything for granted. Always be grateful – spend a few minutes each day in grateful thanksgiving to our God. Appreciate those around you! “What you accomplish in life is not for you alone, but in service to others – that is how you will make a difference in our world. If we believe that we can change the world, God will show us how to do it. Go now and know that you are loved very much by our God and by us and you are always welcome to come home, here to MSR.” The Principal’s Award for Academic Excellence during the past four years was awarded to valedictorian Emily Destito and salutatorian Raquel Pita. The Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton Award for Exemplary Witness to Christian Values during the past four years was awarded to Devon Moses. In her comments, Destito said,

The graduates of Mother Seton Regional High School Class of 2022, pose for a photo. Charity Sister Jacquelyn Balasia, principal, told the graduates to always be grateful. The school’s valedictorian, Emily Destito will attend Cornell University where she plans to study chemical engineering. Salutatorian, Raquel Pita will major in cybersecurity at the University of New Haven, Conn. —photo courtesy of Mother Seton Regional High School “Mother Seton has not only become a school that I love, but also my second home. It has been a safe place that has allowed me to feel comfortable to express myself and be who I am. The countless memories and innumerable friendships that I have made here show why Mother Seton will forever hold an extra special place in my heart. I know

that I will always have this community to return to for whatever I may need as I leave these halls and enter into the world. Destito plans to study chemical engineering at Cornell University in September and Pita will be majoring in Cybersecurity at the Universality of New Haven (Conn.).

Simone Thomas-Rowe, Senior Class president, invited the members of the Class of 2022 to join her in turning their tassels as a symbol of their graduation from Mother Seton. Thomas-Rowe plans to study film at Loyola Marymount University, Los Angeles, in the fall. Awards for Academic Excellence in the following areas were awarded to: Yaoguang Huang, of China, Art; Nathalia Abrams, AP Biology; Emily Destito AP Calculus, AP Chemistry, AP English, AP Physics and AP US History; Moses AP US History and Physical Education; Adryanna Young, AP French; Ashley Carranza, AP Spanish; Marie Cajoux, Religious Studies; Morgan Miranda, Physical Education. Special academic awards were presented to Seton Distinguished Scholars: Marie Cajoux, Destito, Adelina Marinello, Amelia Moraghan and Pita. Scholar Athletes awards are: NJ State Interscholastic Athletic Association Scholar Athlete, Nathalia Abrams; Greater Middlesex Conference Scholar Athlete, Devan Moses; Greater Middlesex Conference Sportsmanship Award, Olivia Muir; Seton Hall National Women in Sports Outstanding Athlete Award, Morgan Miranda.

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As Principal of Saint Augustine of Canterbury School 2001 - 2022 “The Miracle of Saint Lucy Filippini”

OUR DIOCESE

In Gratitude for the Leadership of Sister Mary Louise Shulas MPF, LHS

“Father Bob, I have a Sister in mind that will run with it as your principal.” Sister Frances Lauretti, then Mother Provincial, 2001

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Foreign-born religious workers needed By Bishop Nicholas DiMarzio Catholic News Service

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May 22, 2022 Peace I leave with you: Jesus demonstrates that meekness is possible. He incarnated it specifically in the most difficult moment, and he wants us to behave that way too, since we too are heirs of his peace. He wants us to be meek, open, available to listen, capable of defusing tensions and weaving harmony. This is witnessing to Jesus and is worth more than a thousand words and many sermons. The witness of peace. As disciples of Jesus, let us ask ourselves if we behave like this where we live – do we ease tensions, and defuse conflicts? Are we too at odds with someone, always ready to react, explode, or do we know how to respond nonviolently, do we know how to respond with peaceful actions? How do I react? Everyone can ask themselves this…. Dear brothers and sisters, no sin, no failure, no grudge should discourage us from insistently asking for this gift from the Holy Spirit who gives us peace. The more we feel our hearts are agitated, the more we sense we are nervous, impatient, angry inside, the more we need to ask the Lord for the Spirit of peace. Let us learn to say every day: “Lord, give me your peace, give me your Holy Spirit.”

The United States immigration system should meet the needs of our communities and nation, but it often fails to do so. One issue that greatly affects the Catholic Church in the U.S. and many other religious and nonprofit organizations is the special provision in the law for religious workers. Prior to passage of the Immigration Act of 1990, there were no discrete visas for religious workers who were not ministers. Thus, the Church viewed the Immigration Act of 1990 as an important step forward in its ability to bring foreignborn religious workers, including priests, into the country. It has long depended on these workers to meet the needs of immigrant communities. After passage of the Immigration and Nationality Act of 1965, this need significantly increased, as many more foreign-born Catholics arrived, but there were not sufficient priests and religious who could speak their languages and who understood their cultures. Adding to this need has been the lack of vocations in the U.S. The religious workers came not only to serve their co-nationals, but to meet the broader needs of the Church. They are truly essential workers, and their work benefits Church organizations that serve the public. Some provide pastoral services and others related social services. The R-1 religious worker visa allows

With Earth Day fresh in our memories, serving as a reminder of our intimate connection with God’s creation, I recalled an experience which served as an unlikely lesson in divine mystery.

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process, compared to other employmentbased visas. In addition, once religious workers arrive, it takes months for the government to provide them with employment authorization, which hampers their ability to work, obtain a driver’s license and otherwise function in the U.S. This issue is worthy of our advocacy since it affects many dioceses and religious orders and deprives our foreign-born parishioners and many others of pastoral and social services. A full explanation of these problems in the religious worker immigration program can be obtained from Catholic Legal Immigration Network in a policy brief, “The Human Consequences of USCIS Policies and Backlogs on Religious Workers and the Communities They Serve.” CLINIC is a powerful advocate for religious workers, providing both legal representation in individual matters and supporting our dioceses and religious communities in this difficult part of immigration law. Editor’s Note: Read the CLINIC policy brief here: https://cliniclegal.org/ resources/federal-administrative-advocacy/policy-brief-human-consequencesuscis-policies-and Bishop DiMazrio who retired in 2021 as shepherd of the Diocese of Brooklyn, N.Y., also served as leader of the Diocese of Camden and as an auxiliary bishop of the Archdiocese of Newark

something to learn from the experience. As scavengers, vultures have a tarnished image. They live off dead and rotting carcasses, something abhorrent to people. They are equated with death and destruction and things foul, but without vultures, and similar members of the avian clean-up and sanitation crew, humanity would suffer. After all, God created every living creature, vultures, and humans, alike, with a purpose. Vultures play a significant role in the cycle of life, providing opportunities for regeneration, purification, and new beginnings. They get rid of the old, not only what’s not needed but what can be detrimental to humans, like bacteria that can lead to contagious diseases. Now, when I see a vulture being a vulture on the side of the road or flying overhead, I consider what it is that needs purification and renewal in my life. What is happening in my life that is detrimental to my mental, physical or spiritual life, or that of my family? What resources are available to me to help me make that change? Most importantly, I remember that the vulture is living its God-given purpose, which causes me to reflect on whether I am living my purpose, as well. One of my favorite quotes about

creation comes from famed Russian novelist, and Orthodox Christian, Fyodor Dostoyevsky, who wrote, “Love all God’s creation, the whole and every grain of sand of it. Love every leaf, every ray of God’s light. Love the animals, love the plants, love everything. If you love everything, you will perceive the divine mystery in things. Once you perceive it, you will begin to comprehend it better every day. And you will come at last to love the whole world with an all-embracing love.” Vultures may not be the most loveable of birds, but they have been part of my lesson that God’s creation has the power to teach us about God, about ourselves and the relationships that bind us. Earth Day has passed but for us, every day is a day to embrace our role as protectors of creation, a term used often by Pope Francis. During his homily for his inauguration in 2013, Pope Francis said, “The vocation of being a ‘protector,’ however, is not just something involving us Christians alone; it also has a prior dimension which is simply human, involving everyone. It means protecting all creation, the beauty of the created world, as the Book of Genesis tells us and as St. Francis of Assisi showed us. It means respecting each of God’s creatures and respecting the environment in which we live.”

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Act of Faith in the divine Eucharist I believe in my heart and openly profess that the bread and wine which are placed upon the altar are by the mystery of the sacred prayer and the words of the Redeemer substantially changed into the true and life-giving Flesh and Blood of Jesus Christ Our Lord and after the Consecration there is present the true Body of Christ which was born of the Virgin Mary and offered up for the salvation of the world, hung upon the Cross, and now sits at the right hand of the Father and there is present the true Blood of Christ which flowed from his side. They are present not only by means of a sign and of the efficacy of the Sacrament, but also in the very reality and truth of their nature and substance. Amen

qualified persons to come for an initial period of two-and-a-half years, which is renewable for two-and-a-half- more years. But the system that once worked is now burdened with many problems. Religious workers seeking permanent resident status are facing unprecedented administrative delays. The processing times for the immigration forms required have gotten beyond reasonable time frames. For example, a form that allows a person to stay as a resident, after the R-1 visa expires, would take more than two years to process. As a result, many religious workers and their sponsors face the difficult situation of whether the worker should leave the U.S. or should remain and risk falling into unlawful status as their cases are processed, jeopardizing their eligibility to become permanent residents. There is also the negative impact on the people and communities these religious workers serve if they leave. It is clear that an overhaul of the system is necessary. A related problem is the excessive fees charged for processing these applications. Because of the long processing times, most applicants try to use premium processing, which costs $1,500, besides the normal processing fees for applications. However, this extra fee does not ensure a smooth process, as adjudicators frequently request additional evidence and reject applications at high rates. There is also a requirement for site visits to our ministries, which are difficult to schedule. As a result, religious visas take an excessive time to

As my husband and I pulled into a diner for lunch, I noticed a large black bird with a wide wingspan swooping overhead. Exiting my car and walking toward the building, I realized the bird, a black vulture, had alighted on the roof edge along the gutter, now perched wingto-wing with a second vulture. As we got closer, we could see them both looking intently at us with beady eyes, their heads moving ever so slightly lower as we got closer. “Keep moving,” my husband chuckled, “so they don’t think we’re their next meal.” I laughed, but I was taught that vultures do not attack people. Still, it was eerie, knowing how intently they were watching us. I imagined there would be


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Eternal memorial of Calvary This Sunday, this Solemnity of the Body and Blood of Christ, begins a multi-year mission called for by the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops to reassure us of the living presence of Jesus Christ — Body, Blood, Soul, and Divinity — among us in the Eucharist. Our world is surely filled with troubles, frustrations, sins — but we are reassured that even among the very many real difficulties that weigh us down, the Living, Loving God is always among us, always lifting us closer to his Divine Majesty. This is very much in line with the Church’s traditions. In fact, it was to foster reverence for the Eucharist and revitalize Catholic belief in the Real Presence, that Pope Urban IV originally instituted the Feast of Corpus Christi in 1264. Each year this feast affords us the privileged opportunity to revere and give thanks for the Eucharist, “the source and summit of the Chris-

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Not mentioned in the Bible, Joachim and Anne are first named as the parents of Mary in the apocryphal Protoevangelium of James, which may date from the second century. In this story, they are old and childless, like the Old Testament Hannah, mother of Samuel, when angels deliver the news that Anne will conceive a child. Anne was an especially popular saint in medieval England, and her feast was celebrated in the West by 1350; Joachim’s feast was authorized or suppressed by various popes, but was joined with Anne’s in 1969. They are the patrons of married couples; Anne is also the patron of childless women, expectant mothers and miners.

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tinued, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood” (1 Cor 11:25b). In this passage Jesus identifies the cup with his own blood that would be poured out for the world on Calvary. Just as the Hebrews had ritually entered into the Old Covenant by sprinkling themselves with the blood of holocausts which were offered again and again in sacrifice, so now the followers of Jesus unite themselves to the New and Eternal Covenant by partaking of the cup of the blood of Jesus, the sacrificial victim offered once and for all on the altar of the cross. Finally, Paul exhorts his readers, “as often as you eat this bread and drink this cup, you proclaim the death of the Lord until he comes” (1 Cor 11:26). Paul’s words here tie together the past, the present, and the future in the ambient of the Eucharistic celebration. Each Eucharist is truly a remembrance of Jesus’ sacrifice on the cross, a remembrance in which we gain access once again to past events. The Catechism of the Catholic Church teaches that “When the Church SCRIPTURE STUDY celebrates the Eucharist, she commemorates By Msgr. John N. Fell Christ’s Passover, and it is made present: the sacrifice Christ offered once for all on the cross tian life” (Lumen Gentium, 11). remains forever present” (para. 1364). The Our second reading this Sunday, excerpted Eucharist is also oriented to the future; as the from St. Paul’s First Letter to the Corinthi- Catechism further teaches, “the Eucharist is ans, is one of the most ancient and important also an anticipation of the heavenly glory . . . statements of the early Church concerning the Participation in the Holy Sacrifice identifies us Eucharist. St. Paul begins “I received from with [Jesus’] heart, sustains our strength along the Lord what I also handed on to you . . .” the pilgrimage of this life, makes us long for (1 Cor. 11:23a). With this stateeternal life, and unites us even St. Paul begins “I ment Paul emphasizes that the now to the Church in heaven, the Eucharistic doctrine he espouses Virgin Mary, and all the received from the Blessed is not his own creation, but rather saints” (para. 1402, 1419). something he has authentically The Eucharistic pledge of Lord what I also received from the Lord. eternal glory is foreshadowed in Tying the institution of the handed on to you . . this Sunday’s Gospel reading. In Eucharist to the Last Supper, Paul .” (1 Cor 11:23a). With this text, St. Luke’s presentation states that the event of which he of Jesus miraculously feeding speaks occurred on “the night this statement Paul the five thousand, we learn of [Jesus] was handed over” (1 Cor assembled masses that “all emphasizes that the the 11:23b). Taking the bread, Jesus ate and were satisfied. And when said, “This is my body that is for Eucharistic doctrine the leftover fragments were you . . .” (1 Cor 11: 24b). After picked up, they filled twelve identifying the bread really and he espouses is not wicker baskets” (Lk 9:17). The substantially with his body, Jesus his own creation, point is that Jesus provides not reveals the purpose of this sacrisimply sufficiently but in superbut rather some- abundance, prefiguring the eterfice — it is for us. Just like the cross, Jesus emphasizes that this nal banquet in heaven. God’s thing he has aueternal memorial of Calvary is amazing, overabundant love for dedicated to our good, to the re- thentically received his people is the theme of our demption of all people. Eucharistic celebration every from the Lord. Jesus then lays a commisSunday and particularly of our sion upon his hearers, “Do this feast today. in remembrance of me” (1 Cor Again, this special feast pro11:24c). The Eucharistic sacrifice is always a vides the opportunity to praise and thank Jesus remembrance of Jesus and his saving action in Christ present in the Eucharist. May this special the world. These words speak in a particular time of adoration make us more Christ-centered, way to those ordained to the priesthood, but are so that, having witnessed faithfully to him in also delivered to all Christians who are called this life, we may one day share in the glory of to bring their whole lives in conformity with the his eternal banquet in heaven. Together with the Lord every time they celebrate the Eucharist. church throughout the world, we pray that we Paul prophetically reminds all Jesus’ followers may “so revere the sacred mysteries of [Christ’s] that they must actually practice the faith that body and blood that we may always experience in they celebrate in their liturgy; the memory of ourselves the fruits of [his] redemption.” (From Jesus should set aside all laxity, conflict, and the Collect, Mass of Corpus Christi). division within the Christian community. Msgr. Fell is a Scripture scholar and direcTaking the cup of wine, Jesus then con- tor, diocesan Office for Priest Personnel

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Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen joined with child care providers across the nation to celebrate the Week of the Young Child from April 4th to April 8th. Week of the Young Child is a program run by the National Association for the Education of Young Children. It takes place every year in April and brings focus to young children, their families and the childhood programs that they need. The National Association for the Education of Young Children began Week of the Young Child back in 1971 and now the association has over 60,000 members and Catholic Charities Diocese of Metuchen’s child care programs are included in that number. Week of the Young Child Activities at the childcare centers were incorporated throughout the week and focused around the daily themes: Music Monday, Tasty Tuesday, Work Together Wednesday, Artsy Thursday, and Family Friday. The New Brunswick and Phillipsburg Early Learning Centers also expanded on the daily themes with additional activities including: local police reading to the children, a visit from the Robert Wood Johnson ambulance, planting herbs and flowers, creating handprint posters, and a teddy bear picnic. “Child care continues to provide support and continuity to the children and families we serve especially the most vulnerable. Now more than ever, the programs we offer are crucial to families getting back on their feet and ensuring their children grow developmentally and socially in their preschool years. We also thank the staff for their continued hard work throughout this pandemic. Their commitment and dedication is unwavering! ”, said Krista Glynn, Child Care Service Area Director. Catholic Charities Diocese of

At right is the banner celebrating the Week of the Young Child. It was made with the handprints and photos of some of the young children, who participate in Catholic Charities' child care programs. Below are photos of the children engaged in the week's special activities. — photo courtesy of CCDOM

Metuchen has 3 different centers that provide preschool programs in New Jersey and has over 30 years of experience in childcare. Catholic Charities has 11 school aged child care programs as well. They offer early childcare development, school aged childcare and 2 summer camps, which are now enrolling. If you are looking for a childcare option for your child, Catholic Charities has many options. Information and questions about enrolling in a childcare center in Warren and Morris Counties can be answered by calling 908-454-2074. More information about enrolling in childcare in Somerset and Middlesex Counties can be found by calling 732934-2800. Summer Camp enrollment and questions can be found at ccdom.org/camp or by calling 908-454-2074 (Hackettstown) or 732-934-2800 (Hillsborough). Catholic Charities encourages those who need help paying for child care, to contact your local Child Care Resource and Referral Agency. Workman is the Communications Specialist in the diocesan Office of Communications and Public Relations

“Now more than ever, the programs we offer are crucial to families getting back on their feet and ensuring their children grow developmentally and socially in their preschool years.” —Krista Glynn, area director, Child Care Service

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legitimate use of his talents to contribute to the abundance that will benefit all and to harvest the just fruits of his labor” (ccc 2429). “Access to employment and to professions must be open to all without unjust discrimination: men and women, healthy and disabled, natives and immigrants. For its part society should, according to circumstances, help citizens find work and employment” (ccc 2433). “A just wage is the legitimate fruit of work. To refuse or withhold it can be a grave injustice. In determining fair pay both the needs and the contributions of each person must be taken into account” (ccc 2434). “It is unjust not to pay the social security contributions required by legitimate authority” (ccc 2436). “Unemployment almost always wounds its victim’s dignity and threatens the equilibrium of his life. Besides the harm done to them personally, it entails many risks for their family” (ccc 2436). The commentary given in the Catechism for the Seventh Commandment provides greater insight into how people may have more than their possessions stolen from them. No doubt, people from places like Ukraine or Ethiopia understand how horrifying it is to have their homes, land and other possessions,

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Years ago, when pursuing my undergraduate studies, I was introduced to a movement called the Social Gospel movement. The young voices in our class, a mix of Protestants and Catholics, were overjoyed to hear about the social implications of the Synoptic Gospels as well as the Gospel of St. John. As we explored the topic over several weeks, it became crystal clear that the Christian principles being put forth to bring the social order into conformity with Christianity were already quite apparent in the Catholic Church. Put another way, although bringing good works and faith together was something unacceptable to Protestant reformers like John Calvin in the 16th century, it was something we Catholics were already actively engaged in from the beginning when the Church was founded by Jesus Christ. Curiously, what many Protestants rejected in the 16th century was reconsidered some 500 years later and put forth as the Social Gospel movement. Familiar in Protestant circles throughout the 20th century, this movement, based on the four Gospels in the New Testament, was meant to be innovative in its influence for the secular world. What they were really seeking to discover was something that we Catholics had never dismissed from the inspired Word of God. In the words of the Catechism, “Christian revelation…promotes deeper understanding of the laws of social living… The Church receives from the Gospel the full revelation of the truth about humanity. When she fulfills her mission of proclaiming the Gospel, she bears witness to humanity, in the name of Christ, to our dignity and our vocation to the communion of persons. She teaches us the demands of justice and peace in conformity with divine wis-

dom” (ccc 2419). As such, the Church is attentive to “the temporal aspects of the common good because they are ordered to the sovereign Good, our ultimate end” (ccc 2420). In this regard, the Mystical Body of Christ seeks to “inspire right attitudes with respect to earthly goods and in socio-economic relationships” (ccc 2420). “Right attitudes” dictate that everything under heaven is meant to be properly used and never taken from those who have a right to use them. The Catechism states: “every practice that reduces persons to nothing more than a means of profit enslaves them, leads to idolizing money, and contributes to the spread of atheism” (ccc 2424). This extends from the Church’s teaching that any theory or principle “that makes profit the exclusive norm and ultimate end of economic activity is morally unacceptable” (ccc 2424). As such, the Church clearly rejects “totalitarian and atheistic ideologies,” including “communism” or “socialism” (ccc 2425). Regarding the practice of capitalism, the Church deems unacceptable the notion of “individualism and the absolute primacy of the law of the marketplace over human labor” (ccc 2425). With respect to any economic system, but especially capitalism, “reasonable regulation of the marketplace and economic initiatives, in keeping with a just hierarchy of values and a view to the common good, is to be commended” (ccc 2425). Therefore, with reference to socio-economic matters, the dignity of the human person is paramount. A person ought to receive a just wage in relationship to the time and competency he or she directs into their workday. Economic life must be “ordered first of all to the service of persons…and of the entire human community…so as to correspond to God’s plan for man” (ccc 2426). In short, “work honors the Creator’s gifts and the talents received from him” (ccc 2427). In summary: “Work is for man, not man for work. Everyone should be able to draw from work the means of providing for his life and that of his family, and of serving the human community” (ccc 2428). “Everyone has the right of economic initiative; everyone should make

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Prayerful Procession Prayers, a procession and Mass highlighted the Hispanic Pilgrimage to the National Blue Army Shrine of Our Lady of Fatima, Asbury May 28. Father Nicolas F. Norena, parochial vicar, Most Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Perth Amboy, presided at the Mass and Father Louis A. Mattina, parochial vicar, of Our Lady of Mount Virgin Parish, Middlesex, gave the homily. Deacons from the diocese assisted. Rain changed a procession with a statue of the Blessed Mother from outdoors to under the roofcovered outdoor chapel, but did not seem to dampen the spirit of the people attending. — Ed Koskey Jr. photos

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Diocese-sponsored hospital honored for maternal, neonatal care Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick, renowned for its comprehensive care of expectant mothers and newborns, has been recognized by “Newsweek” as one of the nation’s Best Maternity Hospitals for 2022. The prestigious award is presented by “Newsweek” and Statista Inc., the world-leading statistics portal and industry ranking provider. The awards list was announced May 11 and can be viewed on “Newsweek’s” website. “Newsweek” and Statista developed a complex methodology to ensure the quality and validity of the ranking. Three data sources were used for the evaluation: • Nationwide online survey: hospital managers and healthcare professionals with knowledge about maternity processes e.g., OB/GYNs, maternal-fetal medicine physicians, neonatologists, midwives and nurses, were asked to recommend leading maternity hospitals in the U.S. • Medical key performance in-

dicators (KPIs) on hospitals with a fo- skilled physicians, nurses and other cus on indicators relevant to maternity healthcare professionals who provide care, including cesarecomprehensive and an birth, breastfeeding compassionate care to “Our priority is keep- expectant mothers and and perinatal care • Results from ing mother and baby their newborns – in our patient surveys hospital-based, mid“Newsweek” and safe while making sure wifery-led birth center, Statista invited more labor-deliveryindividual needs and our recovery suites and than 0,000 medical professionals to parpreferences are ac- mother-baby units, and ticipate in the survey. our state-designated Perinatal Only 350 winners were knowledged. That’s the Regional recognized on the Best reason we often see Center and Level IV Maternity Hospitals Neonatal Intensive multiple generations Care Unit for complex 2022 list. “It is a tremen- choosing to give birth and high-risk births.” “Saint Peter’s is dous honor to be at Saint Peter’s.” recognized on ‘Newsrenowned throughout the state for the excepweek’ list of Best Ma—registered nurse ternity Hospitals 2022 tional level of highPam Harmon list,” said Leslie D. risk maternity and neoHirsch, president and natal care we provide chief executive officer, Saint Peter’s and it’s extremely rewarding to know Healthcare System. “This recognition that more women will be aware of our validates the reputation of our highly services as a result of this national rec-

ognition,” said Dr. Carlos W. Benito, maternal-fetal medicine specialist and chair of the hospital’s Department of Obstetrics and Gynecology. “In addition to caring for women experiencing high-risk pregnancies and infants born prematurely, we care for hundreds of women annually who experience lowrisk pregnancies. For women who require a Cesarean birth, our Enhanced Recovery After Surgery program leads to faster recovery and a shorter hospital stay.” According to registered nurse Pam Harmon, nursing director, Women and Children’s Division, “Saint Peter’s’ point of difference is the compassionate care we deliver on par with medical excellence. Our priority is keeping mother and baby safe while making sure individual needs and preferences are acknowledged. That’s the reason we often see multiple generations choosing to give birth at Saint Peter’s.” Saint Peter’s delivered more than 5,300 babies in 2021.

Nonprofit scholarship group announces 2022 recipients at event On May 6, Hope Through Education hosted its Annual Spring Luncheon at Trump National Golf Club, Bedminister. The keynote speaker was author, television personality and political ana-

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School, Annandale. Because the lunch was held shortly before Mother’s Day, students presented flowers to their mothers. A Mother’s Day blessing was given by Father John G. Hillier. He serves as Director of the Diocesan Office of Pontifical Mission Societies, the Office for Persons with Disabilities, and Censor Luborum. Hope Through Education accepts applications from January 1 to March 31. Scholarships are awarded for one year at a time, and applicants are asked to reapply each school year. Scholarship levels are $2,000 for kindergarten to eighth

grade and $4,000 for grades nine through 12. Eligibility requirements can be found on the website: www.hopethrougheducationusa.org. Hope through Education is an independent 501 (c)(3) whose mission is to provide scholarships to economically disadvantaged families who wish to provide their children with the lifelong advantage of a quality private or valuesbased education. Recipients are selected based on an objective assessment by FACTS Grant & Aid Assessment to determine which candidates demonstrate the greatest need for assistance.

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Father John G. Hillier greets Hope Throuigh Education scholarship winners and their mothers at the nonprofit group’s annual luncheon at Trump National Golf Club, Bedminster, May 6. Father Hillier also gave a Mother’s Day blessing. Father Hillier serves as Director of the Diocesan Office of Pontifical Mission Societies, the Office for Persons with Disabilities, and Censor Luborum. — photo courtesy of Hope Through Education


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Memorial Mass Msgr. John N. Fell, director, diocesan Office for Priest Personnel, presided at a Mass on Memorial Day, May 30, at Holy Cross Cemetery, Jamesburg. After Mass, Army veterans Alex Monaco and Deandre Shields, foreman, diocesan Office of Cemeteries, participated in a wreath displaying ceremony to honor fallen military personnel. A Mass was celebrated at the same time at diocese’s other cemetery, Resurrection, in Piscataway. Msgr. Joseph G. Celano, pastor, Immaculate Conception Parish, Somerville, presided at the liturgy. The Masses were celebrated after a two-year absence because of COVID-19 or coronavirus pandemic. — Chris Donahue photos

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By Jennifer Ficcaglia Catholic News Service A man named Naboth lived in the city of Jezreel, which was located in the northern kingdom of Israel. Naboth owned a vineyard right next to the palace of King Ahab, the ruler of Israel’s northern kingdom who lived in the capital city of Samaria. One day, the king came to talk to Naboth about his vineyard. “Give me your vineyard to be my vegetable garden, since it is close by, next to my house. I will give you a better vineyard in exchange, or, if you prefer, I will give you its value in money,” the king said. “The Lord forbid that I should give you my ancestral heritage,” Naboth said in refusing the king’s request. King Ahab acted like a pouting child who didn’t get his way. He went back to his palace, climbed into his bed and refused to eat. His wife, the pagan Queen Jezebel, came to him. “Why are you so angry that you will not eat?” she asked. “Because I spoke to Naboth the Jezreelite and said to him, ‘Sell me your vineyard, or, if you prefer, I will give you a vineyard in

exchange.’ But he refused to let me have his vineyard,” the king said. “A fine ruler over Israel you are indeed!” she scoffed. “Get up. Eat and be cheerful. I will obtain the vineyard of Naboth the Jezreelite for you.” Queen Jezebel hatched an evil plan. She sent letters in the king’s name to the elders and nobles, telling them to proclaim a fast and set Naboth at the head of the people. “Next,” the queen wrote, “get two scoundrels to face him and accuse him of having cursed God and king. Then

take him out and stone him to death.” The elders and nobles did just as they had been told. When the evil deed was done, they sent word to Jezebel that Naboth had been stoned to death. When Jezebel learned that Naboth was dead, she returned to Ahab. “Go on, take possession of the vineyard of Naboth the Jezreelite that he refused to sell you, because Naboth is not alive, but dead,” she told the king. Then King Ahab arose and started off toward the vineyard to take possession of it.

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Interim rector, dean appointed The Archdiocese of Newark and Seton Hall University, South Orange, announced that Msgr. Gerard McCarren, S.T.D., is scheduled to begin a one-year appointment July 1 as the interim rector and dean of Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology at Seton Hall. Msgr. McCarren currently serves as associate professor of Systematic Theology and the seminary’s spiritual director. Seminarians and candidates for the permanent diaconate from the Diocese of Metuchen receive their formation at the seminary. Msgr. Joseph Reilly, S.T.L., is scheduled to conclude his tenure as rector and dean of Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology June 30. After Msgr. Reilly steps down, he will begin a sabbatical year, during which he will renew his vocation with study, travel, reflection and professional administrative development. “Msgr. McCarren is a well-respected priest, theologian, and seminary spiritual director, with excellent and relevant experiences that will allow him to continue our vital mission of supporting our seminarians as they discern God’s call to the priesthood,” said Cardinal Joseph W. Tobin, archbishop, Archdiocese of Newark. “I am confident he will guide the men closer to Christ our Redeemer and prepare them to be good shepherds who will minister to the flocks that will ultimately be entrusted to them. I am grateful for

Peace Maker Sister Hosea Rupprecht, a member of the Franciscan Sisters of Peace order, conducted a mini-retreat at St. John the Evangelist Parish, Lambertville June 2. Titled “Hidden Grace: Finding God in Unexpected Places,” the retreat combined prayer and media examples to focus on developing a “sacramental worldview” – being able to recognize God’s grace in everyday life. Viewing the Oscarwinning short film, “The Neighbors’ Window” prompted a lively discussion on ways the retreat participants could appreciate more the people and events in their lives and how to become better peacemakers. — photo courtesy of St. John the Evangelist Parish

Msgr. Gerard McCarren is scheduled to begin a one-year appointment as interim rector and dean of Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology July 1.

Prestigious Program Nina Heim, a sophomore at Mount Saint Mary Academy, Watchung, has been accepted into the Voltage Scholars program, an accelerated economics program at the University of Chicago June 22-24. Heim is among 45 students from across the country to be selected based on teacher recommendation, strong academic profile, and demonstrated interest in economics. The scholarship-based program provides students the opportunity to learn from hands-on lectures about the University of Chicago’s distinctive approach to research in the field of economics. In her application, Heim said, “Learning about economics has helped me to view some of the world’s most pressing choices through an entirely new and methodological lens.” — photo courtesy of Mount

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his gracious acceptance to join us in the Archdiocese as interim Rector and Dean of Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology.” Msgr. McCarren is a well-known scholar of Saint John Henry Newman and was a member of the Newman Association of America’s board of directors from 2001 to 2016. In addition to his work at Seton Hall, he has taught and provided spiritual direction at the Institute for Priestly Formation at Creighton University in Omaha, Neb.

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6/19

Diocesan Corpus Christi Mass and Procession, Solemnity of Corpus Christi, Bishop James F. Checchio will celebrate Mass at noon in the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. A Eucharistic Procession will follow. The Bishops of the United States are calling for a three-year grassroots revival of devotion and belief in the Real Presence of Jesus in the Eucharist. They believe that God wants to see a movement of Catholics across the United States, healed, converted, formed, and unified by an encounter with Jesus in the Eucharist—and sent out in mission “for the life of the world.”

6/25

Hispanic Youth Mass (Bilingual), Hispanic Youth between the ages of 16 and 22 are welcome to a youth evening with Mass, reflection, testimony, and music. from 6:30 to 9:00 p.m., at Mary Mother of God Church, 157 S Triangle Rd, Hillsborough. Special Guest: Father Michael Tabernero.

7/19 – 22 Quo Vadis Days, Young men ages 14-17 are invited to spend a few days living, praying and interacting with priests, seminarians and faith-filled teens their own age. The days will include dynamic talks, a visit from Bishop Checchio, sports and activities, prayer, small group discussion and so much more. For more information, email quovadis@diometuchen.org. 9/24

Diocesan pilgrimage to the Basilica of the National Shrine of the Immaculate Conception in Washington, D.C. It will conclude the diocese’s year-long 40th Anniversary celebration. It is hoped that as many Catholics as possible from the diocese will be in attendance at this joyous celebration of theconclusion of the diocesan anniversary. Please save the date. More information and materials will be forthcoming.

“The Chosen” Study Series All young adult engaged and married couples are invited to join in a virtual study series based on the hit series, “The Chosen.” A different episode will be discussed each meeting and virtual watch parties will be planned sporadically. Meetings will take place every other Monday evening at 7p.m. on Zoom beginning on January 24th. For details or to join, please contact Cristina D’Averso-Collins at cdaverso@diometuchen.org. WEEKLY PODCAST – Am I Not Here? Produced by the staff of the Office of Communications, “Am I Not Here?” – a weekly podcast – highlights the good news within our local Church and those working to minister to the people of the Diocese of Metuchen. New episodes are released each Monday and once aired they are archived. To listen to any episode, or to learn more, please click the links on the diocesan Facebook page or lighting hearts on fire website LECTIO DIVINA Mondays at 11 a.m. join faithful from around the diocese in a prayerful, virtual gathering of Lectio Divina, a method for praying with the Scriptures. As one reads and invites the Word to become a transforming lens that brings the events of daily living into focus, one can come to live more deeply and find the presence of God more readily in the events of each day. Start your week with prayer, community, and hope. To get the most out of these sessions, please remember to have your bible readily available. For the Zoom meeting information, please email: ssharlow@diometuchen.org

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DIOCESAN PROGRAMS Virtual Book Study for Women All ladies are invited to join in a study of Brandon Vogt’s “Return: How to Draw Your Child Back to the Church,” a book for anyone with family or friends separated from the Church. The group will meet each Sunday at 2:30 p.m. on Zoom, beginning on May 15th. For details or to join, please contact Cristina D’Averso-Collins, Director of Family Life, at cdaverso@diometuchen.org

AROUND THE DIOCESE July 4 -- The Knights of Columbus Council 7250, Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Milltown, is hosting the annual Milltown Firecracker 5K road race and one-mile fun run. Fun run starts promptly at 7:30 a.m., the 5K promptly at 8 a.m. Course is USATF certified. Race is chip-timed. Pre-registration fees (before July 4): 5K is $30, T-shirt guaranteed; fun run is $10 (no T-shirt), medals for all under 14. Registration on race day is $35 for 5K and $10 for fun run. Online registration is encouraged at www.bestrace. com/Milltown/Firecracker5l/ Both races will be held rain or shine. Make checks payable to: “Knights of Columbus” C/O: Tom Olson, 38 Howard St., Milltown, NJ 08850. For questions, e-mail btolson82@yahoo. com

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June 29, 7 to 9 p.m. – Mount Saint Mary House of Prayer, Watchung. Our relationship with God – the love story we are all living. The movement of our hearts toward Divine Liove is the essence of spiritual experience. It is the basis of who we are and all we do. Cost is $20-$30 (as you are able). Registration is required. Presented by Colette Lafia, a San Francisco-based spiritual director, author and international retreat leader. For questions, call (908) 753-2091. July 9, 10 a.m. to 3 p.m. -- Mount Saint Mary House of Prayer, Watchung. Women’s Spiritual Spa Day The day will include different forms of prayer and mindfulness meditation. There will be time for reflection and journaling. Lunch is included. Cost is $50-$60 (as you are able), Registration is required. Presenter is Isabel Gachko, who has completed 200 hours of yoga teaching training and is a certified mindfulness meditation teacher. For questions, call (908) 753-2091.

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June 25, 8:30 a.m. -- 2022 Spartan Spirit 5K, Somerville. The race will start and end at Immaculata High School, 240 Mountain Ave. Entry in the race entitles participants to Immaculata’s 60th Anniversary Picnic, where post-race awards and barbeque will be held. Alumni and friends will have the opportunity to tour the high school’s new cafeteria, theater, gym, weight room, and film room. Check-in and bib pickup: 7 to 8:15 a.m. Race and run start time: 8:30 a.m. Online registration is required in advance and includes an event T-shirt, 5K medal for all who finish the race, and tickets for the post-race picnic and awards presentation. 5k entry fee: $35 (USATF-NJ members, discount applied at check-out), $20 for students under 18 years of age. Picnic: 9:30

a.m. to 1 p.m. Tickets are $20 per person. Children; under the age of 12 are free and a Field of Dreams Dash by age will be held at 11 a.m. Limited on-site parking, use Bridgewater Commons Mall and access the race via the Staff Sgt. Andrew Thomas Lobosco Memorial Bridge or the Immaculate Conception Church and School parking lot. Parking will not be available on Mountain Avenue or adjacent side streets. For questions, contact alumni@immaculatahighschool.org or call (908) 722-0200 ext. 1222.

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