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Bishop James F. Checchio presided at the closing Mass of “Quo Vadis,” a vocation awareness retreat for young men (right) held at the Salesian Shrine of Mary Help of Christians, Stony Point, N.Y., June 25-27. “Quo Vadis,” in Latin, means “Where are you going?” based on the Gospel passage John 13:36. See more photos on page 5.

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since my arrival in the diocese. I regularly have people tell me while visiting parishes that they enjoy our paper; some even tell me that they regularly read my column and check my schedule because they like to know where I am going in the upcoming weeks. I am always happy that someone besides my mother is reading my column. Obviously, “The Catholic Spirit” staff being given these awards is encouraging for those who put so much time and effort into making the paper what it is. Our readers also help, by being so generous with their contributions, in our annual collection held during Catholic Press Month and through the subsidy which the Diocese gives to support the paper. We are working to connect more of our print edition of the newspaper with our electronic media, so as to share events and happenings with you in a more timely way and with various

means. In our day, the work of evangelization needs to use every means possible, and I am grateful that our staff is working on these initiatives. So, keep reading and enjoying “The Catholic Spirit,” and thanks for your donations which help keep it going. Although our staff is not doing this work to be noticed, it certainly is nice that their hard work is recognized and appreciated by so many! God bless and be assured of my ongoing prayers and love for you. As always, I ask you to keep me in your prayers, too.

The Most Reverend James F. Checchio, JCD, MBA Bishop of Metuchen

The Bishop’s Schedule Aug. 4 10 a.m. Mass at Our Lady of Mount Virgin Parish, Middlesex Aug. 4 12:15 p.m. Opening Mass for the 60th Anniversary of St. John Vianney Parish, Colonia Aug. 7 1:30 p.m. Mass at Avenel Diagnostic and Treatment Center, Avenel – private event Aug. 8 2 p.m. Episcopal Ordination and Installation of Bishop Douglas J. Lucia at the Cathedral of the Immaculate Conception, Syracuse, NY Aug. 11

10:30 a.m. Mass at St. Mary of Ostrabama Parish, South River

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Spiritual Support Bishop James F. Checchio, right, presided at Mass and gave the homily at JFK Hartwyck Nursing & Rehabilitation Center, Edison, July 10. Father George C. Targonski, pastor, St. Matthew the Apostle Parish, Edison, concelebrated. A priest from St. Matthew’s celebrates Mass at the facility every week and has for about 30 years, while volunteers from the parish assist the residents to attend Mass and prepare the altar, Father Targonski said. — Frank Wojciechowski photo

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By Stacey Daly Correspondent NORTH BRUNSWICK — June began and ended with bittersweet celebrations for the faith community of Our Lady of Peace Parish. On June 1, Bishop James F. Checchio joined parishioners in celebrating Father John V. Polyak’s 50 years as a priest at the parish’s 50th anniversary gala. Father Polyak, who was born and raised in Perth Amboy, retired from active ministry on July 1. (Father Michael G. Krull was appointed from pastor at Good Shepherd Parish, Hopelawn, to pastor of Our Lady of Peace.) At the gala, Deacon David A. DeFrange, who exercises his ministry at Our Lady of Peace, served as master of

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Above, Bishop James F. Checchio, right, poses with Father John V. Polyak at a gala celebrating Our Lady of Peace Parish's 50th anniversary and Father Polyak's 50 years as a priest. — Ed Koskey Jr. photo On Pentecost Sunday in 1947, the first Mass was offered there by Father Charles LaCavera, the curate at Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Milltown, assigned to the mission. In 1951, for the first time, Our Lady of Peace celebrated its own first holy Communion with eight communicants. The next year, 23 children were confirmed, the first and only such ceremony to take place in the life of that chapel. Through the years, the six or seven families that formed the first congregation grew to 500. The population of North Brunswick had swelled from 6,450 in 1950 to almost 17,000 residents in 1969. In the fall of that year, Bishop George W. Ahr established Our Lady of Continued on page 7

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ceremonies. Parishioners Brian Dixon, Theresa Bellevia and Charlene Harrington presented Father Polyak with a plaque, honoring him for his service as pastor of Our Lady of Peace and his 50 years as a priest. Parishioners Brian McNamara and his mother, Joanne McNamara, presented a gift box to Father Polyak containing notes wishing him well and letters from parishioners. On June 30, Our Lady of Peace marked its 50th anniversary as a parish at a Mass and reception. According to parish archives, Our Lady of Peace traces its roots to 1944, when permission to form as a new mission was granted by Bishop William Grifﬁn. Palm Sunday Mass was celebrated in the home of the Walus family on Riva Avenue. Within a month, a small bungalow on Church Lane was rented and converted into a chapel. As a tribute to those serving their country and in memory of those who lost their lives in the war, it was given the name The Chapel of Our Lady of Peace. As the parish grew, a permanent location was sought. North Brunswick Mayor Fred Hermann suggested a site on Route 130 that was being sold at a tax sale and the property was bought for $350. With a campaign goal of $10,000, pews from a Baptist church, and altar rail from a Catholic church, a Protestant handmade altar, donated materials and much labor and sweat by the parishio ners, a permanent chapel slowly took shape.

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We are children of God’s gentle, loving Providence For the past year, we Little Sisters of the Poor have been celebrating the 150th anniversary of our Congregation’s arrival in the United States.

Year of Consecrated Life By Sister Constance Veit, l.s.p. Our sesquicentennial year will officially close Aug. 30, the feast day of our foundress, St. Jeanne Jugan. This anniversary has been a wonderful opportunity to rediscover the experiences of our pioneering Little Sisters and to become acquainted with the many people who helped them. As I read through the annals of our first communities, I recognized a pattern. Beginning in August 1868, small bands of mostly young, non-English speaking Little Sisters bravely set sail from France destined for one American city after another – first Brooklyn, then Cincinnati, New Orleans, Baltimore and Philadelphia. The wave of charity, which had begun in the humble heart of our foundress, quickly spread across this vast nation. These Little Sisters would arrive at

their destination with only the most basic provisions, taking possession of empty, often dirty or rundown buildings that had been procured for them. They would begin by placing statues of the Virgin Mary and St. Joseph that they had preciously carried from the motherhouse on a mantle and then kneeling in prayer to ask God’s blessings on their new dwelling and those who would make it their home. Thanks to hard work and the generosity of local citizens, these empty buildings would soon be cleaned and furnished with everything needed to care for the destitute elderly who would arrive at their doorstep. In each city the Little Sisters were assisted by local clergy and communities of women and men religious. The very ﬁrst donation the Sisters received in this country was a $20 bill from Father Isaac Hecker, founder of the newly-established Paulist Fathers. The Sisters were also generously supported by the laity – people of all ages and every social status, Catholic and non-Catholic alike. Local school children brought their meager offerings — a few dishes or a loaf of bread. In Cleveland, a German family put themselves completely at the service of the Little Sisters as a way of paying back a debt owed to God. Boston’s wealthiest

woman brought the elderly rosaries, fresh oranges and good wine. Louisville’s best hotel donated a restaurant-quality Christmas dinner. In Philadelphia, three wealthy young girls sold their Christmas gifts and donated the proceeds to the Sisters. One of them would eventually become a canonized saint. In the first months of the foundation in Pittsburgh, two young Little Sisters died of typhoid fever in a matter of days. The remaining Sisters were devastated but the bishop and local religious communities drew close to the newcomers and supported them through their ordeal. The Little Sisters wrote that God had made use of this tragedy to make their work better known in the city. In fact, our pioneering Little Sisters saw in all the events of their daily lives – and in all the people they encountered – the Providence of God. If I had to sum up our Congregation’s history in America in one word it would be just that — Providence. During the very years when our first American foundations were being made, the Fathers of the first Vatican Council wrote, “God in his Providence watches over and governs all the things that he made, reaching from end to end with might and disposing all things with gentleness.” God not only knows what is

going on in the world, he directs it all, down to the smallest and most insignificant details, holding everything in existence and guiding it all according to his mysterious plan! The Fathers of the first Vatican Council taught that God governs the world with gentleness. He is not loud or flashy; he does not get in our face or demand our attention – and this is a problem in our media-saturated, sensoryoverloaded culture. How easy it is to miss the signs of God’s Providence in our lives, to be deceived by his gentleness and to fail to realize that underlying this gentleness is omnipotence. God really is in charge! And he governs all things according to his plan of love! Our pioneering Little Sisters knew this in the depths of their hearts. In their simple faith they were able to see the traces of God’s Providence in both joys and sorrows, in good times and bad. This is the most important lesson I have learned during our sesquicentennial year. No matter how dark or fraught with troubles our world may seem, we are all the children of God’s gentle, loving Providence. Let’s trust in him! Sister Constance Veit is director of communications for the Little Sisters of the Poor.

free or safe from government,” he added. The bill’s author, state Democratic Sen. Jerry Hill of San Mateo decided to shelve his bill after learning that it did not have enough votes to pass out of the committee. Hill’s decision came on the same day that the Public Safety Committee released a staff report raising serious First Amendment and enforceability concerns about the proposed law, while noting that no other state had taken such an approach to the sacrament. In its original form, S.B. 360 would have ordered priests to disclose any information they might hear in confession concerning the sexual abuse of minors. An amended version of the bill , which would deny conﬁdential confessions to priests and Church personnel who work with priests, passed the California Senate in a 30-2 vote May 24. Archbishop Gomez had previously called the proposed legislation “a mortal threat to the religious freedom of every

Catholic” in a May 17 column for “Angelus,” and was joined by the rest of the state’s Catholic bishops in asking faithful to urge their state representatives to oppose the bill. The safety committee analysis noted that more than 125,000 people had expressed their opposition to the bill to lawmakers. But Catholic analysts called that number low. The #KeepTheSeal campaign launched in the Archdiocese of Los Angeles resulted in the delivery of more than 140,000 letters to the State Capitol building in Sacramento as of July 8, the day before the committee vote. Another 16,700 e-mails were sent to representatives from concerned Catholics in Los Angeles. Archbishop Gomez had asked that a letter be read in all parishes at every Mass June 15-16. “We cannot allow the government to enter into our confessionals to dictate the terms of our personal relationship with Jesus,” the archbishop said in his letter, calling on Catholics to speak out against the bill. The archdiocese also set up a website, KeepTheSeal.com, as a hub for faithful to write to their representatives and learn more about the sacrament of reconciliation. Critics pointed out that no evidence was presented in the legislature that would suggest confession is being used to conceal the sexual abuse of minors. At the same time, growing concerns about the legislation were voiced from many Catholics around the country and from

other faith leaders. The publicity culminated July 1 when the Vatican issued a document from the head of the Holy See’s highest court reafﬁrming the importance and inviolability of the confessional seal. On July 2, James Sonne, director of Stanford University’s Religious Liberty Clinic, wrote to Public Safety Committee Chairman Reginald Byron Jones-Sawyer in opposition to the bill, which he called “constitutionally problematic because it singles out religious exercise for disfavorable treatment.” On July 8, a statement signed by Muslim, Orthodox, Lutheran, Anglican, and Baptist faith leaders, as well as representatives from Eastern Catholic Rites and historic Black churches was delivered to committee members declaring that “we are all one with American Roman Catholics in condemning the attack on religious freedom that the current version of California Senate Bill 360 represents.” Andrew Rivas, executive director of the California Catholic Conference, expressed his thanks to the Californians who reached out to their legislators to oppose S.B. 360. “An amazing number of people spoke to their legislators to explain the sacred nature of the sacrament of reconciliation,” said Rivas. “It is important to our spirituality and our relation to God and to others. Our thanks go to all who played a part.” Kay is editor of Angelus, the news outlet of the Archdiocese of Los Angeles.

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By Pablo Kay Catholic News Service LOS ANGELES — In a last-minute twist, a California bill that would have required priests to break the sacramental seal of confession was shelved by its sponsor amid a remarkable grassroots campaign mounted by the state’s Catholics, members of other faith groups, and religious liberty advocates from across the country. S.B. Bill 360 was withdrawn the day before a scheduled July 9 hearing in the California Assembly Public Safety Committee, effectively removing it from any further consideration this year. “S.B. 360 was a dangerous piece of legislation,” said Los Angeles Archbishop Jose H. Gomez, who had led the California bishops in opposing the bill. “If any legislature can force believers to reveal their innermost thoughts and feelings shared with God in confession, then truly there is no area of human life that is

How to report abuse If you were sexually abused by a member of the clergy or anyone representing the Catholic Church, or you know of someone who was, you are encouraged to report that abuse to law enforcement and/or by contacting the Diocesan Response Officer at (908) 930-4558 (24 hours/7 days a week). For more information on how to report abuse, visit our diocesan website: https://diometuchen.org/report-a-suspected-abuse.

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Bishop James F. Checchio presided at the closing Mass of “Quo Vadis,” a vocation awareness retreat held at the Salesian Shrine of Mary Help of Christians, Stony Point, N.Y., June 25-27. “Quo Vadis,” in Latin, means “Where are you going?” and was taken from the story in John 13:36 about St. Peter, who was fleeing Rome during the persecution of Christians and had a vision of Jesus. “Peter said to Him, ‘Lord, where are You going?’ Jesus answered, ‘Where I go, you cannot follow Me now; but you will follow later.’” Sponsored by the diocesan Office of Vocations, the event included reciting the rosary, sports, fellowship and small-group discussions. The young men who attended, with the assistance of priests and seminarians from the diocese, learned more about what God may be calling them to do with their lives. — Jose Lim photos

Parochial school to be first classical institution in diocese and goodness — through their everyday curriculum and the eventual creative offerings of things such as gardening, Gregorian chant and mystery plays. In the near future, the study of Latin will also be integrated across the eight-year curriculum as a means to learn, to think critically and to have access to the sources that shaped the history of western civilization. “I am truly excited and encouraged by this bold new educational venture here at St. Ann’s and I also believe that the mission of classical education fits perfectly with the charism of the Oratory of St. Philip Neri, whose charism we follow as a religious congregation leading St. Ann’s Parish,” said Father Cebulka. Living during the greater part of the 16th century, St. Philip Neri, who founded the Congregation of the Oratory and was known as the Second Apostle of Rome, was a great reformer of the Church and Roman society. He accomplished this through study of Scripture, the wisdom of the Church Fathers and leading a life of joyful witness to Christ. St. Ann School is enrolling students for the 2019-2020 school year. To learn more about the school and its new classical education approach, please call St. Ann School at (908)725-7787.

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“This approach to education is meant dependent schools committed to clasto engage students in a natural way, to stir sical liberal arts education. up their thinking and encourage them to “Before our students can be actively pursue knowledge, rather than formed to seek God through the meanuncritical acceptance,” said Religious ing and purpose of all things, our Teachers Filippini teachers must be Sister Margaret Mary formed so that they Hanlon, principal, St. can continue that “The content of the Ann School. “The same adventure in curriculum will be content of the curlearning,” said Orariculum will be torian Father Peter ordered toward the ordered toward the R. Cebulka, Provost natural development natural development of the Congregation of the child and of the Oratory in of the child and focuses on promptRaritan, who will ing students to ask also serve on the focuses on promptquestions and seek faculty of St. Ann ing students to ask satisfying answers, School this coming rather than teaching year. questions and seek toward standardized “As Catholic satisfying answers, testing.” educators, we are At St. Ann called to strive for rather than teaching School, the classical sainthood and, in education approach turn, inspire our toward standardized will begin this fall students to be saints testing.” with a “phased in — they make great —Sister Margaret approach.” citizens and are big Administracontributors to the Mary Hanlon tors and teachers goodness and beauty are in a formation of this world, too!” process themselves, receiving training Classical education seeks to harfrom the Institute for Catholic Liberal monize all of reality through an honest Education, a national organization that lens of faith and reason. The approach supports a growing affiliation of more allows for students to be formed and than 130 diocesan, religious, and in- immersed in virtue — truth, beauty

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RARITAN BOROUGH — When students and teachers return to St. Ann School in September, they will be part of a fundamental renewal of the Catholic school as it embraces a classical approach to education. A growing number of both Catholic and independent academies across the nation are rediscovering the beauty and dynamic power of classical education — a return to the purpose of education — to free the mind from the modern preoccupation with the pragmatic. Classical education leads with wonder and awe for all of creation, along with the accompanying perennial questions of: Why? How? And how come? The Pre-K–8 school will be the first institution in the Diocese of Metuchen to implement a classical education approach, utilizing a threepart process, also known as the classical trivium, of grammar, logic and rhetoric to assist in allowing students to discover the organic unity of all creation — both educationally and culturally — and to teach students how to learn, how to think and how to assess reality. The classical education approach that will be implemented at St. Ann School aims to bring forward the great thinkers, artists, musicians and poets of western civilization to inform and inspire the students of today.

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Parents of seminarian watch son take major step towards priesthood By Christina Leslie Correspondent NEW BRUNSWICK — Before dozens of joyful family, friends, fellow seminarians, and priests, Jose Manuel Lim stated, “I will,” as he publicly declared his intention to take another important step on his journey towards the priesthood. Bishop James F. Checchio presided at a Mass at St. Peter the Apostle University and Community Parish, June 28, during which Lim, a seminarian for the diocese, took his next step to becoming a priest through the Rite of Admission to Candidacy for Holy Orders. The rite is celebrated when a seminarian, usually in his second year of graduate study, has demonstrated a maturity of purpose and the necessary qualiﬁcations for priestly ordination. In the presence of the bishop and the faith community, he publicly expresses his intention to prepare for holy orders and service to Christ and the Church. Lim, who grew up in Paramus, began his studies in Immaculate Conception School of Theology, South Orange. He spent his undergraduate years at Rutgers University, New Brunswick, and was deeply involved in its Catholic Center, part of the St. Peter the Apostle Parish. Lim worked as a nurse with a specialization in cardiology and hospice before he entered the seminary in the fall of 2017.

In his homily, Bishop Checchio shared with the congregation the scene which greets visitors to the Pontifical North American College in Rome, where at the end of July, Lim will continue his priestly studies “When you arrive … the very first thing you will see as you drive through the gates is a statue of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, the Lord’s heart burning for others,” he said. “In the main chapel of the Immaculate Conception is a side altar with the Sacred Heart. These are bold reminders to us priests and future priests who pray there that the priest’s heart must be made more like his.” Reminding the assembled that Jesus’ heart is meek and humble, and that he beckons us to find refuge in it, Bishop Checchio continued, “What a place to put yourself as you became a candidate for holy orders today and are about to begin your major theological studies. It is also where each seminarian and priest should find himself resting in the very heart of Jesus. Where else should we be?” As a member of a papal audience of thousands of priests on the Sacred Heart of Jesus feast day a few years ago, the bishop had heard the words of Pope Emeritus Pope Benedict XVI: the Sacred Heart of Jesus shows us the perennial foundation and the effective criterion for all priestly ministry, which must be anchored in the

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Bishop James F. Checchio, second from right, poses with (from left) Vicente and Noemi Lim, and their son and seminarian, Jose; and Father Mauricio Tabera-Vasquez after Mass at St. Peter the Apostle University and Community Parish. — John Batkowski photo

heart of Jesus and lived out from that starting point. The bishop concluded, “Only hearts filled with divine love will make us confident, courageous and humble enough to lay down our lives in service to others. How we yearn to have our hearts on fire for serving the needs of all each day.” The Rite of Admission to Candidacy for Holy Orders, though brief, demanded of Lim a profound knowledge of self and faith and his life’s purpose. Bishop Checchio called the young seminarian to him and said, “Jose, the pastors and teachers in charge of your formation, and others who know you, have given a favorable account of you, and we have full confidence in their testimony. In response to the Lord’s call, do you resolve to complete your preparation so that, in due time, through holy orders, you will be prepared to assume ministry within the Church?” Lim declared, “I do.” The bishop asked, “Are you resolved to prepare yourself in mind and spirit to give faithful and compassionate service to Christ the Lord and his body, the Church,” to which Lim again answered, “I do.” “The Church receives your resolve

with joy,” Bishop Checchio answered. “May God who has begun the good work in you bring it to fulfillment.” Msgr. Joseph G. Celano, pastor, St. Peter University and Community Parish and episcopal vicar, the diocesan Vicariate for Administration, addressed Lim, saying, “Jose, thank you for your ‘yes.’ Your family and community look forward to the day we welcome you to the table of the Lord as one of us.” “Persevere, we need you,” the bishop added. After the Mass and rite, Lim’s parents, Noemi and Vicente, embraced their son. Noemi beamed as she clutched a colorful bouquet of flowers he had given her, noting the dahlias looked like those she had planted in her native Philippines. Noemi said her son was “a regular kid” who had enjoyed his time in nursing. She recalled her advice to him when he was struggling with his decision to leave the medical field to pursue the priesthood. “I told him, ‘Do whatever God has planned for you,’” Noemi said, smiling through her tears. “He is in charge; I am just the caretaker.”

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Clockwise from above, Father John V. Polyak greets the faithful after Mass at Front Our Lady of Peace Church June 30; cuts a cake at a reception; and holds a plaque presented by parishioners Brian Dixon, Front Charlene Harrington and Theresa Bellevia for his 50 years as a priest at a gala June 1. — Sean DaleyFront and Ed Koskey Jr. photos

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Lauren and Flavio Pocino, members of the parish for more than 20 years, were teary eyed as they left the reception honoring Father John. “He’s helped my family a lot and he’s also been my neighbor, so I’ve known him a long time,” Lauren said. “Any time I had a problem, all I had to do was walk across the street,” said Lauren, adding she also turned 50 this year. “We’ve all been here that long, and it will be weird with him not here. He’s helped build this community, and he does a lot for kids. I work for North Brunswick Public Schools, and if the kids didn’t have enough supplies, he would send over a wish list for them. He will really be missed.” Fran Shine, a member of the parish since 1990, said, “My daughter suggested I come to church here because it is a very friendly parish. She had ﬁnished college and moved to the area, and she was looking for a church closer to home. She came here and really liked it and told me I should come. “It is so warm and welcoming. The people are so nice and Father John is just exceptional. He makes you feel very comfortable and he listens. He is just a wonderful pastor.” BE LOUD WITHOUT LIMITS Shine added that she has enjoyed participating in parish activities, including choir with her daughter, the prayer chain and helping in fundraisers. While she has seen many changes through the years, including seeing a very diverse group of parishioners, she said that one thing remains the same: “It just feels like a family here. HERE’S All parishes should be like this.” B

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Peace Parish and named Father Joseph Mizerak as its first pastor. Father Mizerak and his parishioners immediately sought a church to replace the small chapel that could no longer serve their needs. By early 1971, plans had been drafted for a church and all-purpose center, along with a fundraising campaign. However, after assessing the final plans, the cost involved and the fiscal condition of the parish, the bishop determined that the proposal was not feasible and only approved the construction of a parish center. Ground was broken March 11, 1973, and the first Mass was celebrated in the new structure March 4, 1974. All that remained of the Little Mission Chapel was its one stained glass window and the statues of Our Lady and Saint Joseph which were enshrined in the new center. As the parish continued to grow, the need for a permanent church was reevaluated. Under the leadership of Father John Polyak, who was assigned to the parish in 1985, and with the help and support of his parishioners, another push was made BE LOUD WITHOUT LIMITS toward building a permanent church. With permission from Bishop Edward T. Hughes to explore the possibility of building a new church, Father Polyak appointed a Parish Steering Committee BE LOUD WITHOUT LIMITS and conducted a parish survey to ascertain the feelings and opinions of parishioners concerning the right time to proceed with a building campaign. Ninety percent of the parishioners who responded agreed that a HERE’S new church was needed now — a traditionYOUR PROOF al church to serve as a place for weddings, for baptisms and funerals, and as a special JOB # 60075 place for worship. Based on that clear mandate, the PRODUCT STD Card HERE’S Parish Steering Committee proceeded with SIZE 9”w x 6”h YOUR the development of plansPROOF to build a new TBDcommittee acted church. The QUANTITY 11-member JOB # 60075 in a consultativeCLIENT capacity to Father Polyak St Law PRODUCT in planning and building theCard church, which STD February11,201911:08AM was completed inDATE 1990. SIZE 9”w x 6”h Father Polyak continued to shepherd It is veryTBD important that QUANTITY his parishioners and form them into the you review this proof’s “family” it is today. After his final Mass, CLIENT Law contentStfor accuracy. and 34 years of calling Our Lady of Peace DATE February 11,201911:08AM We aresaid, not responsible Parish his home, he there were “no for any errors after words” to express how he felt. It is proof very important approval. that However, you his parishioners had a great review this proof’s deal of praise in recalling all Father Please Note: This PDF is content for accuracy.Polyak quality and maya comhas done, whichproof includes building We be aresuitable not responsible not for print munity of approximately 1,500 registered forreproduction. any errors after families and around 500 children enrolled proof approval. in religious education. NOTES Note: This to PDF “It seems Please more like going seeis famquality and may outline ily than goingDotted toproof church,” said Jim Arcure, not for print the edge and pawho noted heindicates andbe hissuitable wife have been reproduction. not print. rishioners forwill 19 years. “For me to be here NOTES now serving at an event like this, I would never have done this at another parish.” Dotted Arcure hopes theoutline new pastor will carry the Polyak edge and on some of indicates what Father started. willnot nottalk print. “Father John did down to anyone,” Arcure said. “Even the deacons that Father John has trained. They are telling a story when they speak that is interesting to listen to, which keeps parishioner’s attention.”

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Bishop Checchio encourages veterans, families to ‘rely on the Lord’ By Christina Leslie Correspondent EDISON — Bishop James F. Checchio had some sage advice for those in wheelchairs and hospital beds assembled before him in an airy meeting room. “[The Lord] is with you. Rely on him, throughout all your challenges and difficulties,” he said. “He will never ever abandon you.” The bishop’s message offered hope to the veterans assembled before him. He had come to the New Jersey Veterans Memorial Home, July 1, to preside at a Mass for them, their family members, staff and administrators. Among the concelebrants was Divine Word Father Thomas Naduviledathu, pastor, St. Cecilia Parish, Iselin, whose faith community frequently arranges for Masses at the facility. Nestled in the woods just off Route 1, the Memorial Home, a 312-bed skilled nursing facility, is operated by the State Department of Military and Veterans Affairs primarily for aged and disabled United States armed forces veterans, scores of whom worshiped at the Mass. The home’s central “Town Square” meeting room boasted gleaming white walls, bright blue beams and a domed glass ceiling. Flags fluttered throughout the room, each signifying a branch of the U.S. Armed Forces, and medical and residential wings were named with military values and symbols such as Eagle, Freedom, Liberty and Stars and Stripes. In his homily, Bishop Checchio said, “Our Gospel today [Matthew 8:18-22] gives us a little challenge.” The Scripture reading quoted Jesus advising a potential disciple, “Follow me, and let the dead

bury their dead.” “Jesus’ point is that, if you want to follow me, you have to give it your all. It has to permeate what you do each day,” he continued. “It’s an urgent message to choose wisely. Persevere, don’t give in so quickly, and be assured that the Lord is with you.” Standing before the residents, Bishop Checchio said, “You can certainly relate this to yourselves: how many of you choose to come here freely? You come here out of need. Thank God there is someone to take care of us. “He is with you. He encourages us, builds us up, and asks that we stay with him. Make that the overarching decision of our lives. The Lord never abandons us. That’s why we have the Eucharist which strengthens us and fills us up with grace and wisdom.” At a reception, members of the congregation expressed their gratitude for the bishop’s visit. The Mass was the first celebrated by Bishop Checchio that Tracy Brennan of Woodbridge attended. “It’s an honor to see the bishop,” she said. “I come here to Mass every Monday to be with my uncle, Tony Intili, who lives here.” Grace Bertucci, a member of Church of the Sacred Heart, South Plainfield, was pleased to meet the bishop as well. “My husband lived here. He died three years ago,” she stated, “but I still come to volunteer.” James Carolan, a veteran’s home resident, and his wife, Donna, waved the bishop to their side and smiled broadly as others took a picture of the trio. Donna, a member of Parish of the Visitation, New Brunswick, confided, “This means so much to us for us to get his blessing.”

Above, Bishop James F. Checchio gives the homily at Mass at the New Jersey Veterans Memorial Home, Edison. Right, Bishop Checchio poses with James Carolan, a resident of the 312bed skilled nursing facility, and his wife, Donna, a member of Parish of the Visitation, New Brunswick. — Christina Leslie photos

Dr. Thomas Kaylen, one of the facility’s physicians, smiled as he watched patients gratefully grasping Bishop Checchio’s hand during the Kiss of Peace. Later, he said, “This really lifts the spirits of the vets here for weeks. They will smile for days to come.”

Inspirational Image Father David V. Skoblow (front row, right), pastor, Our Lady of Mount Virgin Parish, Middlesex; Deacon Thomas G. Sommero (center), and David Carollo (next to Deacon Sommero), executive director, World Apostolate of FatimaUSA (WAF-USA), pose with a part of the congregation that worshiped at a special votive Mass in honor of the Blessed Virgin at Our Lady of Mount Virgin Church. The parish hosted the International Pilgrim Virgin statue of Fatima (in background) June 26-27. The image was designed by Portuguese sculptor Jose Thedim in 1947. It was sculpted to depict the Virgin Mary as she appeared to the three shepherd children, Lucia dos Santos, and her cousins, Francisco and Jacinta Marto in 1916. It is said that Sister Lucia herself instructed the sculptor, and, according to the WAF-USA, “she later remarked that she had never seen any image which so resembled the actual apparition of Our Lady.” It has travelled around the world many times. In 2014, the statue was placed in the care of the WAF-USA, which is headquartered at the National Blue Army Shrine of Our Lady of Fatima, Asbury. — Christine Casale and Father David V. Skoblow photos

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Above, Deacon Vincent Brigande (left) holds the chalice as Msgr. John N. Fell prays the consecration at Mass at Saint Peter’s University Hospital chapel, New Brunswick. Right, Deacon Brigande pauses for a photo with his family (from left) — son, Jonathan, daughter, Rosemarie, and wife, Denise — at his ordination at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. Below, Deacon Brigande proclaims the Gospel at Saint Peter’s.

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together with the diaconate.” Deacon Brigande said he often reflects on St. Peter’s words in his epistle (4:10), “As each one has received a gift, use it to serve one another as good stewards of God’s varied grace.” “I truly feel this is where the diaconate has led me…God has a plan for us all, and I’ve learned that keeping my heart open to which way the spirit moves is the best way. When we fight it, is when our life feels unfulfilled. A life of serving has always been the only way for me,” he said. To report suspected abuse, call (908) 930-4558 (available 24 hours, seven days a week)

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drawing on his experience as a deacon and a nurse to care for the spiritual wellness of patients of all faiths, and even those who claim to have none. He and his wife, a physician’s assistant at Saint Peter’s, have made living a life of service a family tradition. Their son is studying to be a nurse, while their daughter majored in public health and is working as a wellness center affiliate with a local hospital. “I couldn’t be more proud of my children and my wife and where our life’s journey has taken us,” Deacon Brigande said. “It seems as though my whole life has been in preparation for this moment right now. It’s all comes

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The coursework was challenging, and finding the time to complete four years of study while raising a family wasn’t The Lord’s words in Jeremiah 29:11, easy. “I’d often get up at 4:30 in the “For I know well the plans I have in morning to study or work on papers so mind for you,” should give each of us I could have time for my children,” he comfort as we make our way through recalls. “All through it, as the work got life. When we are not sure if we are harder, the call became stronger. It was headed down the right path — and even remarkable…and I’d do it all again in a when we believe we are — the Lord heartbeat to be where I am today.” Ordination day, with his family often has a way of redirecting us and looking on, was an immensely proud paving the way to his planned destinamoment for Deacon Brigande. “The tion for us. Such was the case for Deacon whole four years of study comes down Vincent Brigande, who last summer to that moment in the Church. It’s the end of your studies, but was selected to serve as it’s also the beginning of response officer, diocesan a new life,” he said. “It seems as Office of Child and Youth That “new life” Protection, and in Februthough my includes preaching the ary, accepted the position, Gospel at Mass, teachdirector, Pastoral Care, whole life has ing couples in pre-Cana Saint Peter’s University been in prepaclasses, and administerHospital, New Brunsing the sacrament of wick. ration for this baptism. “When I moved to moment right In August 2018, New Jersey, I didn’t think Deacon Brigande joined I’d become a deacon, now. It’s all the diocesan Office of but boy, did God have Child and Youth Proother plans for me,” said come together tection. Christopher J. Deacon Brigande, who with the Fusco, who heads the exercises his ministry at office, said, “Deacon St. John Vianney Parish, diaconate.” Brigande’s service as a Colonia. —Deacon Vincent deacon, in addition to It’s not that Deacon Brigande his previous service as Brigande had not heard a New York police dethe calling to the diacontective — as well as a ate when he was living in Staten Island, N.Y. He had considered it, but as he registered nurse — all come together as said his wife, Denise, wisely observed, he compassionately and professionally “It was the right path to take, just the responds to allegations and reports of sexual abuse of children and vulnerable wrong time to travel it.” Deacon Brigande graduated from adults.” Once Deacon Brigande learns of the College of Staten Island (N.Y.) in 1986 and began working as a registered abuse, he gathers information, connurse. Six months later, he decided to ducts investigations, prepares a report join the New York City Police Depart- about his findings for his supervisor, ment. During his 20-year career there, as well as reports anything that might he taught in the police academy and need appropriate attention to law enworked six consecutive weeks in the forcement. “In every instance,” noted rescue and recovery efforts at Ground Fusco, “It is obvious Deacon Vincent receives such reports with a sensitivity Zero after 9/11. One of his greatest joys and honors to all involved and a commitment of as a young New York City police officer service to the Church and the safety of was covering St. Patrick’s Cathedral on its most vulnerable members.” “Our bishop [James F. Checchio] a foot patrol twice a week. Despite the long days and being a has always taken a hard stand on this father of two, Deacon Brigande contin- issue [sexual abuse],” Deacon Briganued his work in health care as a visit- de said. “I’m glad to be part of his coming nurse in New York. “The Gospel mitment to protecting God’s children.” In his role at Saint Peter’s, he teaches us to care for others — those we know and those we don’t know,” works with two priests and several he said. “To me, it was always about chaplains. Deacon Brigande and the service, doing for others. I credit that pastoral team baptize children who are mentality to my parents and my Catho- very ill and provide hope, comfort, and lic school education, which gave me a encouragement to patients and their strong foundation to be who I am to- families. “It’s the corporal works of mercy in action,” he said, noting that day.” After he and his family moved to care at Saint Peter’s goes beyond diagNew Jersey, Deacon Brigande felt the nosing and treating illnesses. Ministering to the sick and suffercalling to enroll in the diaconate program at Seton Hall University, South ing is certainly not easy work, but DeaOrange, and was ordained in 2015. con Brigande has never once regretted

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Longevity is a blessing, but growing old is not always easy, or inexpensive! someone who will say “hello,” chat, in When a person can no longer a word, acknowledge their existence. care for him or herself, he or she may The vast majority of those who occupy have to resort to living in a long-term We are told in Scripture that longevity is the long-term care facility with my dad care facility, formerly called “nursing a gift from God. Thanks to the advances have their faculties; it’s their bodies homes.” The price of this living enviof medicine, technology and nutrition, that are comproronment is double people are living longer than ever. mised due to lonthat of the assisted However, growing old is not always gevity. living, approxieasy. Having two parents in their eightWhat is truly sad for me I do give the mately $9,000ies, and seeing their struggles in what facility credit, $12,000 per month. is supposed to be the “Golden Years,” I to see is whenever I however, for proMany people who have come to the conclusion that growviding the residents own homes are ing old comes with its challenges. visit my dad, who is in a with activities to forced to sell these First of all, it seems to me that most long-term care facility, take their minds off and put the money seniors, if they have not had physical of their loneliness. toward their care. problems already, begin to experience so many of the residents There is Bingo, ceMany have to surthe gradual break-down of muscle tisnever receive phone calls ramics, card games render their Social sue, an increase of arthritis, rheumatoid and garden club. Security benefits. or osteopathic, in the bones. 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Editor’s note: The following is a section years are often referred to as armored of “Transitions in Aging and Leader- retirees. Their need to keep active is ship Roles” by Marist Brother Seán D. an attempt to ward off their dread of Sammon, United States Conference of physical decline. Men and women who adjust well Catholic Bishops. Retirement should not be equated to retirement manage to stay active with the cessation of ministry. Many within the limits of their health and retired men and women remain in- life circumstances; they feel purposevolved, albeit in a more limited way, ful and productive. U n f o r t u n a t e l y, in familiar aposbrothers, sisters, and tolic activities; others priests who are angry quickly take up new Men and women or have low self-esteem ones such as volunwho adjust well generally adjust poorly teering. to retirement. They There are many to retirement may be bitter about not myths about health manage to stay having achieved their and the incidence life’s goals, often blame of death after retireactive within others for their disapment. In reality, peopointments, and have ple who fall into this the limits of difficulty reconciling category appear to their health themselves to the probe as healthy or even cess of aging. Feeling healthier after they and life circumdepressed, inadequate, stop working than stances; they feel and worthless as they they were before. grow older, they often Furthermore, retirepurposeful and look back on their life ment does not appear with a sense of failure to have a direct effect productive. and disappointment. on mortality or on the Living into the frequency of social later years of life, we and psychological problems among older priests, sisters, discover that it too is a time for conversion. and brothers. We have the opportunity to let go Some of us adjust well to retirement; others, unfortunately, do not. of old self images and understandings, The well-adjusted types include ma- but also to discover new ones. As we ture, rocking chair, and armored re- lose loved ones to death and surrender tirees. Those in the first group move old and familiar roles and even places easily into old age. Relatively free of residence, the meaning of life is of neurotic conflict they are realistic more apparent and the consequences about themselves and their situation of earlier decisions clearer. As we and get genuine satisfaction from their complete the work of this chapter of life, we grow to accept more fully one activities and personal relationships. Rocking chair retirees are gener- of life’s most significant learnings: at ally passive and welcome the opportu- the heart of all human and spiritual nity to be free of responsibility. This growth is Christianity’s central parabenefit compensates for any disadvan- dox, we must die in order to rise anew. Reassured by this knowledge, we are tages that old age might bring. Finally, men and women who at last able to own deeply, without find themselves unable to face passiv- cynicism or sentiment, the person that ity or helplessness during their later we are in fact.

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Are ﬁrst cousins allowed to be married in the Church? I have in mind a couple I know whose fathers are brothers. They hadn’t known each other as children but met later at a family reunion and then fell in love. They were married in a civil court, which is allowed in some states.

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Question Corner By Father Kenneth Doyle The parents of both have given their consent, but there are some other relatives who cannot accept the situation. I want to know whether this couple can now get married in the Catholic Church. (Arlington, Va.) The Church’s Code of Canon Law (Canon 1091) prohibits marriage between two ﬁrst cousins. However, this is considered to be an impediment by ecclesiastical rather than divine law, and the diocesan bishop can grant a dispensation for them to marry validly in the Church. As you mention, the civil law on this differs from state to state. Today, about half of our nation’s 50 states prohibit marriage between ﬁrst cousins,

while the other states either permit it or allow it under certain conditions. (In several states, it is permitted only if both parties are 65 or older or if one is infertile. The historical reason for regulating this, of course, has been the fear that genetic problems can arise in children whose parents are too closely related by blood.) So, to your question, the couple you write about should meet with their parish priest, who will assist them in seeking the bishop’s permission for them to be married in the Church. Our parish is blessed to have a small but extremely popular perpetual adoration chapel. Because so many who came for adoration were bringing lavish flower arrangements, our sacristan — with the pastor’s permission — forbade all plants, and there are now two signs declaring this ban on either side of the monstrance. I find these signs to be distracting and rather disrespectful of the Blessed Sacrament, especially since the prohibition of flowers has already been posted at the chapel’s entrance. Am I overreacting, or are there valid reasons for requesting the removal of the signs from the monstrance altar? (City of origin withheld)

No, I don’t think you are overreacting. You should speak with your pastor and

simply explain your feeling that the presence of the signs right next to the monstrance takes the focus away from the Blessed Sacrament. I am not aware of any specific Church regulations with regard to this, but I would think you could back up your argument by quoting from the “General Instruction of the Roman Missal,” the Church’s official liturgical guidebook. There it states, “Floral decorations should always show moderation and be arranged around the altar table rather than on the altar table” (No. 305). It seems to me that if flowers are not to be permitted right next to the Eucharist, then — even more — those distracting signs should be moved away. The U. S. Conference of Catholic Bishops does have on its website a document called “Perpetual Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament” that, although it does not speak directly to your question, addresses the reverent attention with which such adoration should take place. Quoting the Vatican’s “Congregation for Divine Worship and the Sacraments,” it notes that “every effort should be made to ensure that there be at least two people present. There must absolutely never be periods when the Blessed Sacrament is exposed and there is no one present for adoration.” Questions may be sent to Father Kenneth Doyle at askfatherdoyle@ gmail.com and 30 Columbia Circle Dr., Albany, NY 12203.

Christian joy can be found in job well done He was a realist. As cardinal archbishop of Milan before becoming pope, St. Paul VI was often found talking to workers in their workplaces. Getting to know them personally is one reason his thinking and writings were

The Human Side By Father Eugene Hemrick so practical. His realism comes through in his apostolic exhortation, “Gaudete in Domino,” on Christian joy, as well as his down-to-earth appraisal of joylessness in today's life. The “difficulty in attaining joy,” he wrote, “seems to us particularly acute today. ... Technological society has succeeded in multiplying the opportunities for pleasure, but it has great difficulty in generating joy. “For joy comes from another source. It is spiritual. Money, comfort, hygiene and material security are often not lacking; and yet boredom,

depression and sadness unhappily re- the achievement of a difficult task that main the lot of many. These feelings demanded our best.” I have often felt this satisfaction sometimes go as far as anguish and despair, which apparent carefreeness, when working in my garden during the frenzies of present good fortune a long, hot, humid day and stepping back to admire it. The and artificial paraelation of approval dises cannot assuage.” and gratification this This straightfor“For joy comes from produces is joy par ward appraisal focuses another source. It excellence. on one of the primary Retired Brazilcauses of life’s emptiis spiritual. Money, ian soccer player Pele ness despite its awesome amenities. comfort, hygiene and adds another element of joy-producing St. Paul VI material security are work in telling us, doesn’t leave us with pessimistic gloom but “Success is no acoften not lacking; cident. It is hard gives us one essential and yet boredom, de- work, perseverance, means for achieving true joy by pointing pression and sadness learning, studying, sacrifice and most of us to work and its unhappily remain the all, love of what you “sometimes austere joy [when] well done” are doing or learning lot of many.” and “the joy and satisto do.” —St. Paul VI faction of duty [when] In including work as an indispensperformed.” American psyable source of joy, St. chiatrist and author Theodore Isaac Paul VI points us to a reality in life Rubin echoes these sentiments in stat- many tend to overlook. Work posing, “Happiness does not come from sesses a precious source of joy when doing easy work but from the after- we love it and do it to the best of our glow of satisfaction that comes after ability.

Prayer a mark of good disciple In this Sunday’s Gospel, St. Luke presents Jesus speaking to his disciples about prayer. For the past few weeks our Gospel readings have focused on the marks of a good disciple — love and service of God and neighbor as well as devotion to Jesus — and now Jesus adds the necessity of prayer as another such characteristic.

SCRIPTURE STUDY By Msgr. John N. Fell The beginning of this text offers Jesus’ answer to the request, “Lord, teach us how to pray as John taught his disciples” (Lk 11:1). In response, Jesus teaches the most basic Christian prayer, the Our Father, to his followers. Even the beginning of the prayer, “Father,” says a great deal about our relationship with God. Never before had people dared to pray to God with such intimacy. As Jesus’ disciples we pray to God who is not some distant, unconcerned potentate, but rather to a God who has adopted each of us as his beloved child. All of our prayer and, in fact, all of our lives are forever colored by our inclusion in the loving embrace of the Father and the Son. “Hallowed be your name” (Lk 11:2b) expresses our humble desire that God’s name be revered throughout the whole of creation. God’s holiness is expressed primarily through his work in the created order. Each act of creative majesty, every mighty intervention into human history, every deed of love done by his disciples further manifests that infinite holiness which is God’s alone. This prayer is at once an act of worship as well as a promise on our part to live in such a way as to more fully demonstrate God’s glory. St. Peter Chrysologus wrote, “We ask God to hallow his name, which by its own holiness saves and makes holy all creation . . . God’s name is blessed when we live well . . .” (Sermon 71,4). Jesus next teaches us to pray, “your kingdom come” (Lk 11:2c). The Kingdom of God refers to God’s dynamic Lordship over all. The Kingdom will be fully complete in the heavenly recapitulation of all creation at the end of time. St. Paul tells us that the Kingdom is “justice, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit” (Rom 14:17). Inaugurated into this world by Jesus, the Kingdom of God is further expanded through the work of the Church. Our prayer for the coming of the Kingdom involves petitioning God to let his divine will be fully expressed throughout the earth, while at the same time recognizing that we are the instruments of that expression; our task

Gn 18:20-32 • Ps 138:1-2, 2-3, 6-7, 7-8 • Col 2:12-14 • Lk 11:1-13 Ex 32:15-24, 30-34 • Ps 106:19-20, 21-22, 23 • Jn 11:19-27 Ex 33:7-11; 34; 5b-9, 28 • Ps 103:6-7, 8-9, 12-13 • Mt 13:36-43 Ex 34:29-35 • Ps 99:5, 6, 7, 9 • Mt 13:44-46 Ex 40: 16-21, 34-38 • Ps 84:3, 4, 5-6a, 8a, 11 • Mt 13:47-53 Lv 23:1, 4-11, 15-16, 27, 34b-37 • Ps 81:3-4, 5-6, 10-11ab • Mt 13:54-58 Lv 25:1, 8-17 • Ps 67:2-3, 5, 7-8 • Mt 14:1-12 Eccl 1:2; 2:21-23 • Ps 90:3-4, 5-6, 12-13, 14, 17 • Col 3:1-5, 9-11 • Lk 12:13-21 Nm 11:4b-15 • Ps 81:12-13, 14-15, 16-17 • Mt 14:13-21 Dn 7:9-10, 13-14 • Ps 97:1-2, 5-6, 9 • 2 Pt 1:16-19 • Lk 9:28b-36 Nm 13:1-2, 25 – 14:1, 26-29a, 34-35 • Ps 106: 6-7ab, 13-14, 21-22, 23 • Mt 15:21-28 Nm 20:1-13 • Ps 95:1-2, 6-7, 8-9 • Mt 16:13-23 Dt 4:32-40 • Ps 77:12-13, 14-15, 16, 21 • Mt 16:24-28 2 Cor 9:6-10 • Ps 112:1-2, 5-6, 7-8, 9 • Jn 12:24-26

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as the daughters and sons of God is to strive mightily to make real here in this world all that we hope for in the blessedness of heaven. The next prayer is that God “give us each day our daily bread” (Lk 11:3). This petition is itself an act of faith in the God upon whom we depend to care for us daily. We acknowledge God as the Source of all that we have and are, and ask for his continuing good favor. Our daily bread refers to everything we need to live — both the nourishment for this life (food, shelter, etc.) as well as the nourishment needed for eternal life (Jesus, the Bread of Life). We next ask God to “forgive us our sins for we too forgive all who do us wrong” (Lk 11:4a-b). In this truly remarkable petition, we ask God’s mercy for all our failings and offences. We realize, however, that this mercy cannot come into hearts which are closed by the refusal to similarly reach out in forgiveness; and so we make our own ability to forgive a condition of even asking for God’s mercy. The Catechism of the Catholic Church states, “Forgiveness is a high point of Christian prayer; only hearts attuned to God’s compassion can receive the gift of prayer. Forgiveness also bears witness that, in our world, love is stronger than sin” (par. 2844). Finally, we pray that God “subject us not to the trial” (Lk 11:4c), that is, that God always give us the ability to resist whatever temptations we may face and protect us from the entrapments of the Evil One. (For a wonderful commentary on the beauty and importance of the Our Father, please see paragraphs 2759 through 2865 of the “Catechism of the Catholic Church,” which is available on the websites of both the Vatican and the Umited States Conference of Catholic Bishops.) Following this prayer, Jesus then tells two stories further clarifying the importance of prayer. In the first parable, the Story of the Persistent Friend, he emphasizes the need for persistence in prayer. Jesus assures his followers that persistence in prayer ALWAYS bears fruit (though not necessarily the fruit we initially intend); the fruitfulness of prayer is that it brings us closer to the heart and mind of Jesus. Jesus concludes this section of his teaching with words of great reassurance. Using the parentchild image, he offers a poignant message of hope for all who pray: “If you, with all your sins, know how to give your children good things, how much more will the Heavenly Father give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him” (Lk 11:13). Msgr. Fell is a Scripture scholar and director, diocesan Office of Priest Personnel

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Above, Hope House, an affiliate of St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington, assists the needy. Right, Father Timothy A. Christy was honored for his role in its success and contributions to the community. — St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish and The Catholic Spirit photos

“We are excited about what we’ve done for the first year. We are looking forward to possibly doing this on a yearly basis,” said Andrews. “Hope House has done a lot of great work and we wanted to help support them and get the word out about what they do. Hope House has been a well-kept secret.” Parishioners were the major supporters of the event, with several local businesses sponsoring the golf holes. Many local sponsors had never heard of Hope House and said they would love to help. The organizers are hopeful that, as word spreads, more people and businesses will support Hope House, which serves those in the Flemington community. Hope House is open Monday through Friday and provides services for 87 families. Christian Charity Sister Faustina Nguyen, who has been heading the operation for the past four years, works with the families to assess their needs. She has a group of more than 80 volunteers who help out each week. “We are here for the poor. Whatever they need, we try to help them. Whatever we have, we give,” she noted. Tom Jeffas, who has been a volunteer at Hope House for 12 years, runs the physical operation and shops for sales seven days a week. Hope House supplies nonperishable goods to families and operates entirely on donations. Volunteers are the key to its success. Lorraine Fowler a long-time volunteer, said, “Many people don’t even know there is a need for something like this in this area. Helping here gives me a sense of worth knowing that I am doing

something to help someone in need.” Father Kenneth D. Brighenti, pastor, St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, said, “We are hoping for a long-time tradition. We want to be able to serve the families in our community who need our help.” Hope House is open year-round. Donations come from parishioners, local businesses and the generosity of Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, and St. Elizabeth Ann Seaton Parish, Three Bridges. The event included a silent auction, basket raffle, 50/50 raffle and the awards banquet. According to Anclien, the event raised more than $15,000. All proceeds will benefit Hope House.

Hope House outreach in 2018:

· Delivered 850 Thanksgiving dinners to homebound individuals and served 250 dinners to individuals at St. Magdalen’s Parish Center. · The Lord’s Supper served 1,187 meals in 2018 and continues to serve 45 meals twice each month. · Provides groceries, toiletries and diapers to 82 families per month. During the Christmas season, gifts are provided to each member of these families. · Hope House also provides assistance for homebound seniors, bereavement support, divorce care and classes to teach English.

Journey of Faith By Father John Gerard Hillier Have you ever encountered a mean priest or a mean bishop? Perhaps… perhaps not. What we know, however, is that from the beginning there were some who were worse than mean. From Sacred Scripture, we know that among the 12 whom Jesus chose was the one who would even betray him. The good news for us is that no matter who the priest or bishop might be, “it is ultimately Christ who acts and effects salvation through the ordained minister [priest or bishop], the unworthiness of the latter does not prevent Christ from acting [in the sacraments]” (ccc 1584). In the fourth century, St. Augustine communicated the same sentiment in different language: “The spiritual power of the sacrament is indeed comparable to light: those to be enlightened receive it in its purity, and if it should pass through de-

filed beings, it is not itself defiled.” to exercise them; but he cannot become a None of this is meant to justify bad layman again in the strict sense, because behavior or any lack of virtue in ordained the character imprinted by ordination is clergy. The point is that, even if we encoun- forever. The vocation and mission received ter an undesirable character trait in a bishop on the day of his ordination mark him peror priest or deacon, the manently” (ccc 1583).] good news is that the “Since the beginThe point is that even ning, the ordained minsacraments they convey will not be illicit or inistry has been conferred if we encounter an valid or otherwise comand exercised in three promised. On the other undesirable character degrees: that of bishhand, Christ’s expectaops, that of presbyters trait in a bishop or tion and the Church’s is [priests], and that of that our bishops, priests deacons. The ministries priest or deacon, the and deacons will live conferred by ordination good news is that virtuous and holy lives! are irreplaceable for No doubt this is the the organic structure of the sacraments they reason the Sacrament the Church: without the of Holy Orders “conconvey will not be bishop, presbyters, and figures the recipient deacons, one cannot illicit or invalid to Christ by a special speak of the Church (cf. grace of the Holy Spirit, St. Ignatius of Antioch, or otherwise so that he may serve as Ad Trall. 3,1)” (ccc compromised. Christ’s instrument for 1593). his Church” (ccc 1581). What exactly Like the sacraments makes the newly ordained a minister of of Baptism and Confirmation, the Sacra- Christ? The Catechism tells us that it is the ment of Holy Orders “confers an indelible special grace of God’s Holy Spirit proper spiritual character and cannot be repeated” to the Sacrament of Holy Orders that con(ccc 1582). [“It is true that someone validly figures the newly ordained “to Christ as ordained can, for grave reasons, be dis- Priest, Teacher, and Pastor” (ccc 1585). charged from the obligations and functions For the newly ordained bishop, “this is first linked to ordination, or can be forbidden of all a grace of strength,” which includes “the grace to guide and defend his Church with strength and prudence as a father and pastor, with gratuitous love for all and a preferential love for the poor, the sick, and the needy. This grace impels him to proclaim the Gospel to all, to be the model for his flock, to go before it on the way of sanctification by identifying himself in the Eucharist with Christ the priest and victim, not fearing to give his life for his sheep” (ccc 1585). For the newly ordained priest, this entails “that he may be worthy to stand without reproach before the altar to proclaim the Gospel of God’s kingdom, to fulfill the ministry of God’s word of truth, to offer God spiritual gifts and sacrifices, to Diocese of Metuchen renew God’s people by the bath of rebirth; so that he may go out to meet our great

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people received services agency-wide in the counties serve by the diocese — Hunterdon, Somerset, Middlesex and Warren. More information about CCDOM can be found at www.ccdom.org.

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ASBURY — Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen (CCDOM), honored its volunteers at a luncheon at the Willows June 27. Thirty-ﬁve volunteers attended the celebration. The volunteers serve at the Catholic Charites Social Service Center and Thrift Store, Phillipsburg. Mercy Sister Michaelita Popovice, program director, opened the festivities by quoting radio talk show host, Bernard Meltzer: “There is no better exercise for your heart, than reaching down and helping to lift someone up. “This is what we do at Catholic Charities,” she added. The guest speaker was Dr. Frank J. Gilly, whose specialties include geriatric and family medicine, is the former director of Warren Haven, the county’s nursing home in Oxford, and as medical director at Warren Hospital, Phillipsburg. Presently, he volunteers and shares his talent with Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen, at the agency’s Food Pantry and Thrift Store. The Food Pantry, operated by CCDOM, is the largest in Warren County and service more than 1,000 households. The Thrift Store provides discounted items to the needy and generates funds to help operate the Warren Basic Material Needs Program. Last year, more than 50,000

God and Savior Jesus Christ...on the day of his second coming” (ccc 1587). For the newly ordained deacons, this means that “strengthened by sacramental grace they are dedicated to the People of God...in the service (diakonia) of the liturgy, of the Gospel, and of works of charity” (ccc 1588). Given the “grandeur of the priestly grace and office” the early Fathers of the Church “felt an urgent call to conversion in order to conform their whole lives to him whose sacrament had made them ministers” (ccc 1589). As a very young priest, St. Gregory of Nazianzus, fourth century Archbishop of Constantinople, spoke the following which, down through the centuries, has become a model for all the ordained to imitate: “We must begin by purifying ourselves before purifying others; we must be instructed to be able to instruct, become light to illuminate, draw close to God to bring him close to others, be sanctified to sanctify, lead by the hand and counsel prudently. I know whose ministers we are, where we find ourselves and to where we strive. I know God's greatness and man's weakness, but also his potential. [Who then is the priest? He is] the defender of truth, who stands with angels, gives glory with archangels, causes sacrifices to rise to the altar on high, shares Christ’s priesthood, refashions creation, restores it in God’s image, recreates it for the world on high and, even greater, is divinized and divinizes” (ccc 1589). Years later in the 19th century, the French priest St. John Vianney (known also as the Curé d’Ars) offered the following for priests to consider: “The priest continues the work of redemption on earth...If we really understood the priest on earth, we would die not of fright but of love...The Priesthood is the love of the heart of Jesus” (ccc 1589). In the next few articles we will examine another great sacrament of vocation — the Sacrament of Matrimony. Father Hillier serves as Director of the Office of the Pontifical Mission Societies, Censor Librorum and oversees the Office for Persons with Disabilities

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Father Jack Grimes will preside at the monthly Mass of Remembrance Aug. 3 at 9 a.m. in the Mausoleum Chapel at Holy Cross Burial Park, East Brunswick. Father Alexander Carles will preside at the same time in the Mausoleum Chapel at Resurrection

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Knights in Action Members of Knights of Columbus Council 474 in Phillipsburg assemble their tent at the Ole Town Festival, which was held June 21-22. The Knights have been cooking and selling sausage at the festival since it began 32 years ago. Proceeds from the event and other fundraisers held by the Council during the year provide financial support for seminarians of the diocese studying to become priests, and for students at Saints Philip & James School, Phillipsburg. — Mike Sheeran photo

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The Shrine of the Blessed Sacrament, Raritan, will celebrate a sung Mass every Sunday at 11 a.m. in the Extraordinary Form of the Roman Rite in Latin. The Mass is celebrated according to the 1962 Missal in compliance with the “Summorum Pontificum.” For details, call the Shrine Rectory Office, (908) 300-8167. Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, will hold a Holy Hour of Prayer for the Dying every Thursday from 3 to 4 p.m. in the church. Come and pray for those who are dying, especially those who die suddenly and unprepared to enter eternal life. For information, call (732) 968-5555. Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, will hold a Holy Hour for Religious Freedom and Persecuted Christians every Sunday at 7 p.m., in the Eucharistic Adoration Chapel, 50 Van Winkle Place, Piscataway. Participants are invited to silently pray the Rosary and special prayers for the intentions of Christians worldwide who are being persecuted for their faith. For information, call Becky, (703) 625-5388. Parish of the Visitation, St. Mary of Mount Virgin Worship Site, New Brunswick, invites all to come and recite The Scriptural Rosary, every Sunday, 7 to 7:30 p.m. in Visitation Chapel. The

Scriptural Rosary is a modern version of the way the Rosary was prayed throughout Western Christendom in the late Middle Ages. Materials will be provided. For information, call (732) 545-5090. The Militia of the Immaculata Prayer Village will meet on the First Saturday of every month after the 9 a.m. Mass at St. Patrick Parish, Belvidere. Come and learn about St. Maximilian Kobe, pray the Rosary and consider consecrating yourself to Mary. For details, email mivillagebelvidere@gmail.com. Aug. 3, 10:30 a.m. — The World Apostolate of Fatima Blue Army Shrine of Our Lady of Fatima, Washington, invites all to First Five Saturdays of Reparation for five consecutive months. The speaker and main celebrant will be Father Matthew Mauriello. The day will include confession, Mass, recitation of the Rosary, brown scapular enrollment and more. The day will conclude with Divine Mercy Chaplet at 3 p.m. For details, call (908) 689-1700 ext. 224 or visit www. bluearmy.com. Aug. 4, 4 p.m. — All are invited to attend a Holy Hour with Rosary and Benediction to pray for priests and vocations on the first Sunday of the month at the Carmelite Monastery, 26 Harmony School Rd., Flemington.

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Double Blessings On the Feast of Corpus Christi, St. Augustine of Canterbury Parish, Kendall Park, celebrated two blessings at Mass. Right, Father Robert G. Lynam, pastor, blesses Deacon Denis Mayer, his wife, Carol, and Pastoral Board member Barbara Corio as they left to visit St. Augustine’s sister parish in Mongolia, Our Lady of Mercy, which is administered by the Consolata Fathers. Last year, at the request of Archbishop Alfred Xuereb, Apostolic Nuncio to South Korea and Mongolia, asked St. Augustine’s if it would adopt Our Lady of Mercy, one of the poorest in Mongolia. Catholicism is beginning to grow in Mongolia, and Our Lady of Mercy has 60 members. Deacon Mayer and his entourage was sent by the parish to witness firsthand the blessings of their adoption of this parish. In addition, parishioners and children at its parochial school have sent donations to Our Lady of Mercy to assist them in strengthening the mission of the Church. Above, the parish presented Papal Blessings from Pope Francis to 10 senior altar servers who graduated and are leaving for various colleges. The servers have been involved in this ministry since the fifth grade. The Papal Blessings were dated May 13, 2019, the Feast of Our Lady of Fatima and the anniversary of the assassination attempt on then-Pope, now St. John Paul II in 1981. —Marc Kollar photos

Aug. 5, 7 p.m. — Our Lady of Victories Parish, Sayreville, will hold a Mass and healing service. The celebrant will be Father John Campoli, director of His Love Ministries. Individual healing prayers will be given following Mass. For information, call Marilyn, (732) 9917379 or visit www.frjohncampoli.com.

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Aug. 7, 7 to 9 p.m. — Mount Saint Mary House of Prayer, Watchung, will present A Siesta Spirituality. Come and discover leisure’s role in your life and how it helps to renew your soul and refresh your spirit. The cost is $20-$30 as you are able to pay. To register, call (908) 753-2091 or email msmhope@msmhope.org. Aug. 10, noon to 2 p.m. — St. Thomas the Apostle Parish, Old Bridge, is offering a monthly soup kitchen in the school auditorium. For information contact, Mary Anne Donoghue, tdmaatwest@optonline.net or Chris Doyle, cdoyle167@optimum.net.

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The Father Capodanno Catholic War Veteran Post will meet at St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington on the first Wednesday of every month at 7 p.m. in the parish center. The veteran organization is dedicated to nourishing veterans in their love for country, family and the Catholic faith. You don’t have to be a War Veteran, just a Veteran to join. New members are welcome. For details, con-

tact Al Kosiarski, (908)782-7662 Ext.159 or email, al@fdsnj.com.

Book Clubs

Corpus Christi Parish, South River, will offer a book club studying books on Catholic spirituality and the impact of technology. The meetings will be held at 7 p.m. at the South River Public Library in the Meeting Room. All are welcome.

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Aug. 16-18 — The Benedictine Sisters of Elizabeth are offering a Vocation Discernment Retreat. Come and listen to God’s call by attending the retreat. For details, call Sr. Mariette Therese, (908) 352-4278, ext. 274 or email SrMariette@ bensisnj.org.

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The Pontifical Mission Office offers Mass Cards, Perpetual Masses and Gregorian Mass for the Living and Deceased. The suggested offering is from $5 to $300. To purchase a card, contact (732) 243-4580 or email pontifical.mission.societies@diometuchen.org. On December 12th Bishop Checchio inaugurated a year of preparation for the consecration of the Diocese of Metuchen to Our Lady of Guadalupe. His intention for this year is that we each open our heart wide to God’s grace so that authentic spiritual renewal can take place. In light of this you are invited to come to an evening of prayer, preaching and reflection on the message and meaning of Our Lady of Guadalupe’s apparitions on our continent in 1531. Discover how The Blessed Mother led nine million indigenous Mexican people into a life changing encounter with her Son, Jesus, and how she desires to lead you into a deep and vibrant relationship with Him as well. For a listing of participating parishes go to: www.LightingHeartsOnFire.org. 7/30 & 31 Summer School, Office of Ongoing Faith Formation, July 30, 7 to 8:30 p.m., and July 31, 10 to 11:30 a.m., St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. The presenter will be Father Greg Uhrig. The topic will be Our Lady of Guadalupe. All are welcome.

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8/23-25 Retrouvaille, Office of Family Life Ministry. Retrouvaille is a lifeline to help couples heal and renew their marriages. The program consists of a weekend experience (no group discussions) and six follow-up sessions. For details or to register, call Rich and Annette Colasuonno, (732) 236-0671 or email 3024@retrouvaille.org.

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9/21 “The Way of St. Juan Diego,” a one-day, 9-mile Walking Pilgrimage, Diocese of Metuchen, 10 a.m. to 8 p.m. beginning at Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale. All youth, families and people of faith are invited to attend. Mass will be celebrated by Bishop James F. Checchio. The cost is $20 by Aug. 30 or $25 thereafter. Registration is required. For details or to register, visit www.LightingHeartsOnFire.org/walkingpilgrimage.

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St. Bernard of Clairvaux Church, Bridgewater, NJ is seeking a full-time Parish Catechetical Leader (PCL). The responsibilities of the position include the administration and supervision of faith formation for adults and children. The program includes 650 children, grades 1-8. The PCL is responsible for sacramental preparation for First Penance, First Communion and Confirmation for children as well as the ongoing faith formation for catechists, parents and adults in the parish. Applicant must be a fully initiated, practicing Catholic and must be able to articulate the vision of the National Directory for Catechesis, and plan to implement this vision. A degree or certification in religious studies is preferred. Computer skills required. Candidates should have excellent organizational and pastoral skills in the area of faith formation, leadership, collaboration, office management, writing and personal communication. Candidates must be able to work collaboratively with the pastor and pastoral staff. Salary and benefits commensurate with education and experience and are available upon request. Send resume by August 5, 2019 to: Rev. Msgr. Randall J. Vashon, Pastor St. Bernard of Clairvaux Catholic Church 500 Route 22, Bridgewater, NJ 08807 Email address: HR@stbernardbridgewater.org

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DIRECTOR OF MUSIC and LITURGY Our Lady of Peace is a Roman Catholic Church established in 1919 located in Fords, NJ. OLP strives to be an active community that shares the love and good news of Jesus Christ with all in the parish. We are currently seeking a talented, dynamic and accomplished music professional for the position of Director of Music. As Director of Music, this faith-filled individual will report to and work collaboratively with the pastor and is responsible for designing, developing, directing, evaluating and expanding the parish’s existing liturgical music program and to enhance the worship of the parish community. In addition, will lead volunteer musicians and will accompany the cantor and choir at the organ during all liturgies. Additional responsibilities include, but are not limited to: • Select, plan and coordinate liturgically appropriate music for all liturgies of the parish, including funerals; • Recruit, schedule, direct and mentor music groups and musicians (choirs, cantors, bell choir and instrumentalists); • Be available when needed for additional services and events; • Oversee maintenance of church-owned instruments and musical library; • Communicate faithfully with the pastor; • Other duties as directed by the pastor for the liturgical and sacramental needs of the parish. QUALIFICATIONS: • Masters Degree in Music or comparable work experience in organ performance, conducting and directing choirs; • Strong professional competence in playing the organ and piano as well as reading music; • Minimum three to five years of previous work experience desired; • Possess a working knowledge of music in the Roman Catholic Liturgical tradition; • Ability to lead, train, and work well and collaboratively with others, both staff and congregation; • Committed to the Catholic Church’s vision and leadership; • Strong organizational, communication and interpersonal skills. ABOUT THE EMPLOYER: Our Lady of Peace is a Roman Catholic Church in the Diocese of Metuchen, NJ. Please send a detailed CV and three professional letters of recommendation to: Reverend Matthew R. Paratore, S.T.L., J.C.L., Pastor 26 Maple Avenue, Edison, NJ 08837

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8/7 A Catholic Prayer and Support for Families Affected by Mental Health Issues, Office for Persons with Disabilities, 10 a.m. and 7 p.m., St. Patrick Parish, Belvidere. The support group will offer spiritual support and tips on how to cope with mental health issues. The program will also be held through Dec. on the first Wednesday of the month. For details, call (732) 765-6432 or email catholicswithdisabilities@gmail.com.

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8/6 & 7 Summer School, Office of Ongoing Faith Formation, Aug. 6, 7 to 8:30 p.m., and Aug. 7, 10 to 11:30 a.m., St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. The presenter will be Father Greg Uhrig. The topic will be “The Afterlife: Heaven and Hell in the Bible.” All are welcome.

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Eucharistic Adoration is now being held in the chapel at the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. Adorers and intercessors are needed Monday through Friday 9 to 11:45 a.m. Daily Mass is held at 11:45 a.m. For information or to volunteer, call Laura Ferreras (732) 529-7932. To submit a prayer request, call (732) 765-6445.

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Diocesan-sponsored hospital named a top healthcare provider NEW BRUNSWICK — Saint Peter’s University Hospital has been named as one of America’s Best Hospitals by the Women’s Choice Award®, America’s trusted referral source for the best in health care, the diocesan sponsored health care facility announced July 2. The award signifies that Saint Peter’s is one of the top healthcare providers in the country based on a review of nearly 5,000 hospitals. Saint Peter’s has been recognized in four distinct areas: Best Hospitals for Cancer Care and Obstetrics; Best Breast Centers; and most notably for being named one of America’s 100 Best Hospitals for Patient Experience. “We are truly honored to have been recognized as one of America’s Best Hospitals,” said Leslie D. Hirsch, interim chief executive officer and president, Saint Peter’s Healthcare System. “We’re committed to delivering the best possible clinical care and strive every day to positively impact patient satisfaction with a caring human approach across all clinical areas.” The methodology for America’s Best Hospitals is unique in that it combines national accreditations, Hospital Consumer Assessment of Healthcare Providers and Systems (HCAHPS) survey results and hospital outcome scores with primary research about women’s healthcare preferences. It is

the only award recognizing excellence in patient services based on robust criteria that consider patient satisfaction and clinical excellence. Additionally, each service line award has specific supplementary criteria. Saint Peter’s’ recognition as a recipient of the 2019 Women’s Choice Award for Cancer Care indicates that the hospital is in the top 9 percent of 4,797 U.S. hospitals offering cancer care services. Low infection rates compared to the national average are another important factor for consideration as oncology patients are more susceptible than other patients to hospital-acquired infections because of their compromised immune systems. Recognition in Obstetrics reflects Saint Peter’s ranking is in the top 17 percent of 2,778 U.S. hospitals offering obstetrics. It is the only award recognizing excellence in obstetric services based on robust criteria that consider patient satisfaction and clinical excellence. The hospital’s Breast Center was also recognized, ranking in the top 8 percent of 4,797 U.S. hospitals offering breast care services. Saint Peter’s University Hospital was also recognized for its role in Patient Experience, an award signifying that the hospital ranked within the top 100 hospitals of similar size based on number of beds.

Shepherd's Touch Bishop James F. Checchio presided at a Mass and gave the homily during a pastoral visit to McAuley Hall Health Care Center, Watchung, July 12. Above, Bishop Checchio greets Sister Ann Bolte, a member of the Missionary Sisters of the Immaculate Conception of the Mother of God. Right, Bishop Checchio blesses Mercy Sister Mary Stanislaus, who celebrated her 100th birthday June 2. Below, Bishop Checchio prays the consecration.

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