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Bishop James F. Checchio, holding crozier, and Bishop Emeritus Paul. G. Bootkoski, to his right, pose with (from left) newly ordained transitional deacons Gilbert Starcher, Thomas Lanza and Gustavo Rodriguez-Perez; and permanent deacons Anthony Cozzi, William Weber Jr., Kevin O’Brien, Patrick O’Boyle and Steven Fortier at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi.

— Mike Ehrmann photo

Bishop Checchio encourages faithful to support newly ordained deacons

By Anthony Salamone Correspondent METUCHEN — Before ordaining eight men deacons at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Bishop James F. Checchio encouraged them to live the Gospel call

“with authenticity and with joy.”

The bishop also reminded them during the Rite of Ordination of Deacons on June 15 that the cathedral is named for a saint who also served as a deacon and led a life of selflessness.

“Francis lived in a time when some

of the clergy were not building up the kingdom the way it should have been, when the Gospel call to holiness was not being universally heard,” Bishop Checchio said during his homily. “And society was moving further away from living lives based on Christian values. Sounds

very familiar.”

The bishop went on to ordain the men during the solemn Mass and rite.

Three of the men are preparing for service to the priesthood and were thus ordained “transitional” deacons. A year Continued on page 14

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Dear Brothers and Sisters in Christ,

Bishop James Checchio Thanks be to God, our diocese has recently been blessed with new deacons and priests that were ordained at our Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi during June. We have five new permanent deacons, three new transitional deacons — who join Deacon Fredy Triana Beltran from our oratory in Raritan who was ordained in February — and three new priests. The generosity and perseverance of these men in their preparation for ordination is something that we should all thank God for! At a time when the priesthood of Jesus Christ is under such intense scrutiny because of the crimes and sins of some priests and lack of appropriate action by some bishops, to have these 11 men dedicate their lives to the service of Christ and His Church is a breath of fresh air for the lungs of our diocese.

I know, too, that our people love their faithful priests and deacons. I hear it all the time as I travel throughout our diocese visiting parishes. As horrified as we are by what we learn and read about past heinous acts, our people are grateful for the service of their faithful parish priests and deacons. The Church has made great strides since 2002 and the commitment made by bishops to not allow any cleric with a credible claim of sexual abuse to serve in any public ministry. The many programs that have been started to ensure child protection in our parishes and institutions, puts the Church now at the forefront of protecting our youth as incidence of abuse by clerics has dropped precipitously in recent decades. The survivors of cleri-

cal child sexual abuse and their families have suffered terribly, and we owe them our support and prayers. I do not know of a priest or bishop who is not ashamed of this part of our history and are working hard to ensure those days never return.

At the June 15 ordination to the diaconate at our Cathedral, I encouraged our new deacons who are now configured to Christ the Servant to live that role with authenticity and joy. The chaste, obedient and prayerful living of their promises is the witness which will help the Church to build up the Kingdom of God in our day and likewise it is the clerics’ road to their own salvation. At our priesthood ordinations the following weekend, I encouraged our new priests to always imitate our High Priest, Jesus Christ, who not only offered the sacrifice but became the sacrifice too. So, we priests are to live in imitation of Jesus which is to live a life of sacrifice and obviously not privilege. We have all seen the damage done when that life of privilege is embraced instead. The renewal of the Church in our day will come about in part by priests living our call as we follow in Christ’s footsteps.

The many good priests and deacons serving our diocese are an inspiration to me, and I know to countless others, too. I was ordained a priest 27 years ago this past June 20 and there has not been a day that I have ever regretted responding to our Lord’s call. It has been a blessed, happy and fruitful life and I am honored and privileged to share in the priesthood of Jesus Christ.

I love being and serving as a priest of Jesus Christ. I cannot imagine doing something else with my life. Likewise, I am blessed that the Lord has called me here to Metuchen to share in this presbyterate and the life of this good local Church. You have enriched me in my three years here in ways that I would never have imagined. For that

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have my heartfelt thanks!

Yes, June provided us with two important opportunities to thank God for the blessings He has provided for our local Church as we celebrated two ordinations. Please God, we will have many more reasons to celebrate in the future as we currently have 16 Latino men in formation for the permanent diaconate and we are currently beginning to process candidates for a new diaconate class. Deacons are configured to Christ the Servant and serve in parishes as well as in many other ministries to the poor, those in prisons and hospitals.

We likewise benefit from the service of their wives who join them in serving our parishes and diocesan ministries.

In addition, we have 22 seminarians in formation for the priesthood, which is the most we have had in over 25 years.

While in seminary, they participate in human, pastoral, intellectual and spiritual formation as they prepare to dedicate their lives in service to Christ and

His Church as celibate, prayerful and obedient servants of the Gospel. We have much to be grateful for.

Please join me in thanking God for these blessings and pray for our priests and me, too! If you know someone who would make a good deacon or priest, let them know. Survey after survey shows that people do not think of becoming a priest or deacon, because no one had ever asked them. Maybe you could be the one to inspire someone to prayerfully contemplate such a life of selfless service to God and His Church. Know of my love and prayers for you, and God bless you as we enjoy the graces of these Spirit-filled days!

The Most Reverend James F. Checchio, JCD, MBA Bishop of Metuchen

The Bishop’s Schedule June 27 11 a.m. Closing Mass for Quo Vadis Retreat for priesthood discernment at Mary Help of Christians Church, Stony Point, N.Y. June 28 10 a.m. United States Conference of Catholic Bishops Committee on Clergy, Consecrated Life and Vocations Meeting June 28 4 p.m. Candidacy for Holy Orders Mass for Jose Lim at St. Peter the Apostle Parish, New Brunswick June 29 5 p.m. Mass at Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway June 30 9 a.m. Mass at Sacred Heart Parish, South Plainfield June 30 11 a.m. Mass at St. Mary of Czestochowa Parish, Bound Brook July 1 1:15 p.m. Mass at the New Jersey Veterans Memorial Home, Edison July 2

10:30 a.m. College of Consultors Meeting– private event

July 10 10 a.m. Mass at JFK Hartwyck Nursing & Rehabilitation Center, Edison July 11 7 p.m. Mass at Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway July 12 11:45 a.m. Mass at McAuley Hall Health Care Center, Watchung July 13 10 a.m. Mass for the Installation of New Jersey State Officers of the Knights of Columbus at St. Cecilia Parish, Monmouth Junction July 13 5 p.m. Mass at St. John the Evangelist Parish, Lambertville July 14 9 a.m. Mass at Our Lady of Victories Parish, Baptistown July 14 11 a.m. Mass at St. Mary Parish, Alpha July 15 9 a.m. United States Conference of Catholic Bishops Committee on Budget and Finance Meeting, Washington, D.C. July 18 11 a.m. Mass at St. Joseph Senior Home, Woodbridge For updates on Bishop Checchio's schedule visit: http://diometuchen.org/bishop/schedule

Correction

In a story about the Immaculata High School graduation on page 15 of the June 13 issue of “The Catholic Spirit,” the last name of Rich and Colleen Hendrzak was misspelled and Colleen’s first name.

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Bishop James F. Checchio has announced the following appointments:

• In “Best Photograph - General News Photo,” Mike Ehrmann won a Second Place award for “Veterans Day.” • In “Best Special Supplement, Regular Special Supplement,” The Catholic Spirit staff won Third Place for “Religious Milestones.”

Full details of the awards will be published in the next edition of “The Catholic Spirit.”

The image, which was featured on page 3 of the June 13 issue of The Catholic Spirit, can be found at St. Edward the Confessor Parish, Milford.

The winner is...

Theresa Ravenburg, parishioner at St. Edward the Confessor, Milford.

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a Second Place award for his “Two Part Series: Family Continues to Heal After Drug Overdose Death.”

• In “Best News Writing on a Local or Regional Event,” correspondent Karen Corpora received a Second Place award for “Bishop Visits Women’s Prison;” and correspondent Christina Leslie received an Honorable Mention award for “God’s Special People.”

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BISHOPS APPOINTMENTS

Rev. Msgr. William Benwell, administrator at St. John the Evangelist Parish, Dunellen, has been appointed pastor at St. Mary’s Stony Hill Parish, Watchung, effective July 1 Rev. Msgr. Eugene Prus, administrator at Blessed Sacrament Parish, Martinsville, has returned to retirement, effective July 1 Rev. Krystian S. Burdzy, parochial vicar at St. James Parish, Basking Ridge, has been appointed administrator of Good Shepherd Parish, Hopelawn, effective, July 1 Rev. James DeFillipps, parochial vicar at St. Peter the Apostle University and Community Parish, and Chaplain, The Catholic Center at Rutgers University, New Brunswick, has been appointed as parochial vicar at St Bartholomew Parish, East Brunswick, effective July 8 Rev. Lukasz Drosak, C.Ss.R., parochial vicar at St. John Paul II Parish, Perth Amboy, to future ministry as assigned by his religious community, effective July 1 Rev. Dario Endiape, parochial vicar at St. Bartholomew Parish, East Brunswick, has been appointed parochial vicar at St. Peter the Apostle University and Community Parish, and Chaplain, The Catholic Center at Rutgers University, New Brunswick, effective July 8 Rev. Martin Espinoza, parochial vicar at Immaculate Conception Parish, Somerville, has been assigned as parochial vicar at St. Ambrose Parish, Old Bridge, effective July 8 Rev. Marcin Gacek, C.Ss.R., has been assigned as parochial vicar of Christ the Redeemer Parish, Manville, effective Aug. 1 Rev. Joseph Kabali, from assignment at Catholic Charities, to parochial vicar at St. Matthew the Apostle Parish, Edison, effective July 8 Rev. Alphonsus M. Kariuki, parochial vicar at St. Matthew the Apostle Parish, Edison, has been assigned as pastor at St. John the Evangelist Parish, Dunellen, effective July 1 Rev. Michael G. Krull, pastor of Good Shepherd Parish, Hopelawn, has been assigned as pastor of Our Lady of Peace Parish, North Brunswick, effective July 1 Rev. Wojciech Kusek, C.Ss.R., parochial vicar at Christ the Redeemer Parish, Manville, has been assigned as parochial vicar at St. Philip and St. James Parish, Phillipsburg, effective Oct. 1 Rev. Waldemar Latkowski, C.Ss.R., pastor of St. John Paul II Parish, Perth Amboy, to future ministry as assigned by his religious community, effective Aug. 1 Rev. Edgar A. Madarang, parochial vicar at Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, has been assigned as parochial vicar at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi Parish, Metuchen, effective July 8 Rev. Robert V. Meyers, parochial vicar at Our Lady of Peace Parish, Fords, has been assigned as part time parochial vicar at Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, and part time Tribunal Canonical Staff, effective July 8 Rev. Brian J. Nolan, pastor at St. Mary’s Stony Hill Parish, Watchung, has been assigned pastor of Blessed Sacrament Parish, Martinsville, effective July 1 Rev. John J. O’Kane, parochial vicar at St. Ambrose Parish, Old Bridge, has been assigned administrator at Immaculate Conception Parish, Spotswood, effective July 8 Rev. John V. Polyak, pastor of Our Lady of Peace Parish, North Brunswick, will retire effective July 1 Rev. Slawomir Romanowski, C.Ss.R., has been assigned as administrator of St. John Paul II Parish, Perth Amboy, effective Aug. 1 Rev. Leopoldo Salvania, parochial vicar at St. Philip and St. James Parish, Phillipsburg, has been assigned as parochial vicar at St. James Parish, Basking Ridge, effective July 8 Rev. Virgilio T. Tolentino, parochial vicar at Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, has been assigned as parochial vicar at Our Lady of Peace Parish, Fords, effective July 8 Rev. Waldemar Wieladek, C.Ss.R., has been assigned as parochial vicar, St. John Paul II, Perth Amboy, effective Aug. 1 Rev. Wladyslaw Wiktorek, parochial vicar at St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington, has been assigned as parochial vicar at Holy Family Parish, New Brunswick, effective July 8 Rev. Joseph Illes, newly ordained, has been assigned as parochial vicar at Immaculate Conception Parish, Somerville, effective July 8 Rev. Matthew Marinelli, newly ordained, has been assigned as parochial vicar at St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington, effective July 8 Rev. Michael Tabernero, newly ordained, has been assigned as parochial vicar at Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, effective July 8

The Catholic Spirit received six Catholic Press Awards, including Third Place in the category of “Best Newspaper,” announced at the Catholic Media Conference Gabriel Awards Banquet June 21 in St. Petersburg, Fla. The awards for 2019 were chosen for “Non-weekly Diocesan Newspaper, Circulation 25,000 or Less.”

• In “Best Feature Writing,” associate editor Chris Donahue received

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Corpus Christi from a Portuguese perspective accentuates that that this solemnity is all must increase,” [Jn. 3:30] pointing to the about the Eucharist, as the object of our Lord – so this cascade of flower pedals devotion. was meant to pay homage to the glorified What impressed me Christ present in the Eumost about the obsercharist. Clearly, this was vance of Corpus Christi a public manifestation of in Portugal was the great faith. ...the mission devotion that the people Without doubt, the demonstrated toward the Portuguese people were of the new Blessed Sacrament. In proud to display their love evangelizafact, as the Eucharist was for the Eucharist. The carried through the streets procession through the tion is not to of the city where I lived, streets served to remind convert but to people lined the roads people that Jesus, whose with their foyer carpets coming as Messiah had awaken and because they wanted the been proclaimed by John monstrance bearing the renew the faith the Baptizer, is still present Eucharist to bless the to his people in a tangible of believers. thing that symbolized way, in the Eucharist. “welcome in their homes” Although we are – a simple rug. I also noguaranteed freedom of reticed that many people ligion in the Constitution, showered rose pedals from their second some Americans would argue that a public floor windows onto the procession path- display of faith in our country would be way. seen by some as propaganda, as an atJust as John the Baptist, who told tempt to proselytize, that is, to attempt to his disciples “I must decrease while he convert others to Catholicism.

Throughout our nation, myriad parishes display their faith through a yearly procession on Corpus Christi. “Are they forcing their faith on others?” No! That would not be in keeping with the biblical Jesus. “Why?” Because conversion is something, which only God can effect. No matter how much we try – no matter what techniques we might employ – nobody but God can convert people.

While it is true that the religious processions of yesteryear are rare, the same Jesus who told his friends to “do this in memory of me” is still in our midst. This is why we, Catholics, continue to escort the Blessed Sacrament through the streets of our communities year after year. Even though the feast has passed, may we always remember that the mission of the new evangelization is not to convert but to awaken and renew the faith of believers.

As such, we who believe give thanks and praise to the God who chose to sanctify matter through his Spirit, in the Body and Blood of his only Son! Father Comandini is managing editor of “The Catholic Spirit”

rience the joy promised to Christian religious life (Matthew 22:30). I conbelievers, a joy which overflows and tend that married persons are particularly given the opportunity to ensure enhances every human relationship.

Undoubtedly, the link between that heaven is at the forefront of their obedience and joy in the realm of minds through the periodic abstinence required in Natural sexuality is a difficult Family Planning. When topic for our current culBy Cristina D’Averso-Collins we cultivate this eternal ture in which happiness is defined almost solely perspective, we find our In the second chapter of Philippians, NFP is a self-gratification. earthly lives more enSt. Paul reminds us that Christ be- as manner of riched, as a result. came “obedient to death, even death Even within the Church Times of abstinence on a cross” (2:8). In communicating however, discipline and living which ensure that neither the beauty of the Church’s teachings obedience are seldom spouse is a victim of use on human sexuality and child spac- spoken of in relation to yields, in addiand offer opportunities ing, little is mentioned of the Cross of marital chastity. We oftion to physifor a deepening of mariChrist and yet this is precisely where ten extol the practice of tal friendship consistent we must begin during Natural Family pre-marital abstinence cal fruit, deep and yet this remains inwith St. John Paul II’s Planning Awareness Week. spiritual fruit understanding of love Far more than a simple practice adequate when the focus expressed in his book within marriage, NFP is a manner of becomes extreme selffor a couple... denial until marriage, “Love and Responsibilliving which yields, in addition to ity” as involving the physical fruit, deep spiritual fruit for a at which point there is whole person and encouple, not least of which, is this spirit an acceptable and sanccompassing “the bond of radical obedience exemplified by tioned outlet for sexual Christ. In marriage, couples are chal- desires. Here, we must reflect on the of a common good and of a common lenged to love freely, faithfully and meaning of true happiness, which can- aim” (p. 28). They also allow couples fruitfully, just as Christ demonstrates not be understood apart from heaven, to live out (in a manner appropriate through his sacrifice on the cross. In our true home. Christ tells us that to their state of life) the evangelidoing so, they are also able to expe- there is no marriage in heaven, and yet cal counsels of poverty, chastity and heaven is the goal of both married and obedience. Dr. David Crawford of The Pontifical John Paul II Institute asserts in his dissertation, “Marriage and the Sequela Christi,” that it is, in fact, “marriage’s own nature to posIf you were sexually abused by a member of the clergy or anyone representing sess at its heart a literal [if analogous] the Catholic Church, or you know of someone who was, you are encouraged poverty, chastity, and obedience” (p. to report that abuse to law enforcement and/or by contacting the Diocesan 284). Thus, Natural Family Planning safeguards the complete availability Response Officer at (908) 930-4558 (24 hours/7 days a week). to the will of God and enables the married couple to remain in a state For more information on how to report abuse, visit our diocesan of active readiness in order to obey

his promptings similar to those in religious life who profess such vows.

In so doing, couples open themselves to receiving God’s plentiful graces, which far surpass human expectation.

In my own marriage, this was in no way more prevalent than when my husband told me last summer, while praying the Novena to St. Anne, that he felt the Holy Spirit encouraging him to ask that we are blessed with a little girl.

As we later discovered, to our surprise, I was already pregnant at the time of the novena. At 20 weeks, we were overjoyed to learn that the baby was indeed a girl. Our daughter is truly a reminder to us of the spiritual fruits of Natural Family Planning. When we adhere to God’s plan for human sexuality, we stand ever ready to proclaim like our Blessed Mother, “May it be done to me according to your word” (Lk 1:38), and thus to experience an ever greater abundance in our lives.

It is my hope that these seldomdiscussed aspects of NFP are the subject of further discussion and prayer among the Catholic community during this Natural Family Planning Awareness Week. Indeed, there is a depth of beauty which far surpasses methodology, if we dare to undertake the challenge entrusted to us.

For more information about Natural Family Planning visit https://diometuchen.org/offices-and-ministries/ family-and-pastoral-life/family-life/ natural-family-planning/.

D’Averso-Collins is the new director, diocesan Office of Family Life Ministry

Body & Soul

By Father Glenn J. Comandini, STD Last weekend the Church celebrated the solemnity of the Body and Blood of Christ, also known as “Corpus Christi.”

This feast makes me nostalgic for a summer I spent in Portugal as a young priest. There, the feast in honor of the Eucharist was held on a Thursday, not on Sunday as it is in the United States.

Also noteworthy is that the solemnity is called “Corpo de Deus,” or “Body of God.” This underscores the Incarnation, that moment in time when the eternal Son of God became man. Since Christ’s person is divine, we very well could label this holyday “The Body of God.” Some might argue that this would cause some confusion among the faithful. I believe that “Body and Blood of Christ” is a better name for the feast because this

Natural Family Planning yields much fruit

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How to report abuse

website: https://diometuchen.org/report-a-suspected-abuse.

to the IVCP will come from Church In an abundance of caution, the funds. No public money will be used to Diocese of Metuchen recently completpay eligible claims. Each diocese will ed another review of all its files by an provide funding according to their own outside, independent law firm. No new abilities, but in the Diocese of Metuchen accusations were found in the current funds are expected to be paid through review. self-funded insurance reserves and in“The allegations that have been surance policies where received by our diocese available. The Diocese as related to the sexual of Metuchen will not use abuse of minors by dioc“As sad as money donated to supesan priests in our parport the Bishop’s Annual ishes and schools are, in this day is for Appeal, nor money given all cases, decades old,” the Church, I by a donor for a specific said Bishop James F. ministry or apostolate.

Checchio of the Diocese remember daily Since its founding 38 of Metuchen. “While that God has years ago, the Diocese our present Church has of Metuchen has paid apbeen entrusted with the called me to this proximately $1.5 million responsibility of handollars in settlements to dling the misdeeds of diocese, to be 21 survivors. the past, our diocese has here with you.”

In 2002, the Diocese taken significant steps to —Bishop James F. of Metuchen examined create safe environments all clergy files to review in our parishes and our Checchio any reasonably available schools to ensure that and relevant information these crimes and sins pertaining to allegations will not be repeated or of sexual abuse, in an tolerated, in any way, in audit conducted by an outside law firm our future.” and the diocesan chancellor. As a result Transparency, justice and truth, reof that audit, the Diocese turned over to main a top priority for Bishop Checchio, law enforcement every alleged case of who in a February letter to the Church sexual abuse or misconduct, including of Metuchen, said, “As sad as this day cases that pre-dated the founding of the is for the Church, I remember daily that Diocese, many of which were reported God has called me to this diocese, to to have happened between the 1960s be here with you and to walk down this and 1980s. Since that audit, it has been road back to Him with transparency, justhe practice of the Diocese of Metuchen tice and truth to promote healing, confito turn over to the County Prosecutors’ dence and renewal. The challenges the Offices every single reported claim of Church faces now may seem daunting, sexual abuse of a minor. but we must not fear the days ahead;

Christ walks with us. Together, we will journey toward a new day.”

Important features of the IVCP include: 1. The two administrators will operate in complete independence of the Arch/Diocese in determining eligibility and the amount of compensation.

2. The program is completely voluntary; no individual claimant is required to participate.

3. All payments authorized by the administrators will come from Church funds; no public money will be used to compensate victims.

4. Only if the individual victim accepts the amount offered by the administrators will a signed release be required, in which the victim agrees not to engage in any further litigation against the particular diocese.

5. The program will give first priority to claimants who previously filed a complaint directly to diocesan officials about sexual abuse, prior to the establishment of the IVCP. 6. Beginning June 17, those claimants who previously filed a complaint directly to diocesan officials will be sent a program claim packet from the administrators.

The IVCP will close Dec. 31, 2019.

All individual claims must be submitted during this period. All victims – no matter when the abuse occurred – are eligible to participate, and all matters will be handled confidentially.

Victims of clergy sexual abuse of minors can begin the claims process by going to www.NJdiocesesIVCP.com and reviewing the program protocol.

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PISCATAWAY — On June 15, the New Jersey Independent Victim Compensation Program (IVCP) began accepting claims related to the sexual abuse of minors by diocesan priests and deacons in the five Roman Catholic Arch/Dioceses of Metuchen, Camden, Newark, Paterson and Trenton.

The statewide IVCP will be independently administered by Kenneth R. Feinberg and Camille S. Biros, two noted victims’ compensation experts who have designed and administered similar compensation programs for Catholic dioceses in New York and Pennsylvania.

They have also administered compensation programs for victims of the Penn State sexual abuse claims, the 9/11 terrorist attacks, and the Boston Marathon bombing.

The IVCP was established to compensate those who, as children or young adults, were sexually abused by a priest or deacon of the Diocese. This program is endorsed by all five Roman Catholic Dioceses in New Jersey and their bishops who are united in supporting abuse survivors by providing them with an efficient alternative to litigation, that is both speedy and transparent, to resolve their claims with a significantly lower level of proof and corroboration than required in a court of law.

Feinberg and Biros will have complete autonomy to determine the eligibility of a claim and the amount of compensation. Church officials will have no authority to challenge the decisions or the amounts awarded as determined by the administrators.

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Bishops approve steps to improve accountability

by USCCB President Cardinal DiNardo throughout the process: filled the gaps in the “Charter for the Protection of Children and Young People” and now build upon its success.

The Holy Father’s “Motu Proprio,” the new “Directives,’ the renewed

“Episcopal Commitments,” the thirdparty reporting system, and the heavy emphasis and reliance on lay expertise in the United States will bring unprecedented accountability throughout the hierarchy of the American Church,” the USCCB said.

For information about the Year of Spiritual Renewal and consecration to Our Lady of Guadalupe go to: LightingHeartsOnFire.org

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tablished practice of lay expertise in the Church, starting at the very beginning of this process. Laypeople will assist us in informing the public about how to utilize our new reporting mechanism. A lay person will be informed any time a Diocese of Metuchen complaint comes through that process.

Lay investigators will be identified at the provincial level by Metropolitan Archbishops and will play an active role in investigating individual complaints against bishops.”

Pope Francis’ “Motu Proprio” includes whistleblower protections that will allow anyone making a complaint to publicize it however they wish.

The new “Directives” require those making a complaint to be given documents describing the process. As noted, the bishops are also committed to lay involvement in both the receiving of complaints against bishops and in any investigations. With these safeguards, the bishops are committed to making the process as transparent as they possibly can.

The bishops achieved a goal stated

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During its 2019 Spring General Assembly in Baltimore, June 11-14, the United States Conference of Catholic Bishops (USCCB) voted on several proposals to hold bishops accountable for instances of sexual abuse of children or vulnerable persons, sexual misconduct, or the intentional mishandling of such cases.

The USCCB specifically committed to involving and utilizing lay professional experts.

It also established a new, independent mechanism for the reporting of such cases. While it has seen Metropolitan investigations achieve success in uncovering, publicizing and punishing bishop misconduct multiple times in the past year, the body of bishops agreed that independent lay oversight is crucial.

“The combination of lay involvement, Metropolitan leadership and the final judgment of the Holy See will ensure that complaints are evaluated thoroughly, and justice is achieved for victims and survivors,” the USCCB said in a release.

“We’re building upon the well-es-

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Editor's note: Coverage of the June 22 ordination of our new priests and their first Masses will appear in the next issue of "The Catholic Spirit."

For Father Joseph Illes, the inspiration to become a priest grew from the examples of two earthly shepherds and one divine liturgy.

Father Illes, whose home parish is St. Philip and St. James, Phillipsburg, said, “Our own Msgr. David Fulton confirmed me. His preaching and presence in the parish I would use as my example to see if I could live the life of a priest.

“Benedictine Father Gregory Gresko was my first spiritual director in college. He showed me the depth of God’s love in the life and spiritual fatherhood of priestly ministry, and I wanted to do that for others.”

Father Illes found his third inspiration in the liturgy itself, calling it “beautiful and formal, regular but changing in small ways, [with] great music and

Father Joseph Illes

genuine gestures of piety. Its roots stretch back thousands of years. It is totally engaging, and I wanted to be the priest leading it.

“As my faith developed and I came to understand the Eucharist,” he continued, “I wanted even more so to be the one who stands in ‘persona Christi capitis’ to consecrate the bread and wine to become Our Lord.”

The Phillipsburg native graduated from Delaware Valley Regional High School, Frenchtown, then earned a bachelor’s degree in history at the University of Richmond, Va. He earned a Master of Divinity and Sacred Theology degrees at St. Mary’s Seminary and University, Baltimore.

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There is much to joyfully anticipate, the newly-ordained priest said. “I’m really looking forward to the two things that brought me to discerning a vocation in the first place: offering the sacrifice of the Mass, and being the instrument of

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have to have the capacity to be authentic, not be afraid, and remember that I enter into a role as priest. I need to be there in a way that [the people] need.”

But he is confident his metamorphosis will be complete as he remembers one important fact. “They see Christ in the priesthood, not me.

They will see me and love me because I stand in the place of God. I also anticipate celebrating the Eucharist with the people of God.” Though he enjoyed his shorter assignments thus far, Father Marinelli most anticipates immersion into the lives of his parishioners and the formation of long-time bonds in a parish.

“I most look forward to being in people’s lives,” he said. “In the seminary, you get a taste of the future, but you work with the people temporarily.

Now, as a priest, I will be there the whole year long.”

Father Marinelli then reflected upon one of the vows he took when he was ordained at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, by Bishop James F. Checchio, the morning of June 22.

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“They had a small Spanish comFor Father Matthew J. Marinelli, a Phillipsburg native and member of St. munity there which was super loving, Phillip and St. James Parish, the seeds devout and hospitable,” Father Mariof the priesthood were nelli said.

An assignment planted and nurtured the previous summer close to home.

“They see Christ “I’ve had some in Bolivia had helped sharpen his language really good priests at in the priesthood, my parish,” said Father skills, skills which not me. They would be further exerMarinelli, recalling conversations and guidcised within the Diowill see me and cese of Metuchen as he ance over the years from love me because served a summer in the clergy such as Msgr.

Hispanic community Michael J. Corona and I stand in the Father James A. Kyrpof Most Holy Name of czak. “They had an imJesus Parish, Perth Amplace of God. I boy. pact on me and helped also anticipate Another favorite me discern.” memory from his semiFather Marinelli celebrating the nary days involved a is a graduate of PhilEucharist with the baby’s first sacrament. lipsburg High School and earned a bachelor’s “I really enjoyed perpeople of God.” forming a baptism,” degree in philosophihe said. “It was such a cal theology at Seton beautiful moment.”

Hall University, South Father Marinelli cited his innate Orange. While studying for a master’s degree in divinity at St. Vincent shyness as one of his biggest chalSeminary, Latrobe, Pa., he undertook lenges in pursuing the priesthood. “I a diaconate assignment in a small have to reach outside myself a bit and minister with leadership,” he said. “I Pittsburgh parish.

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good things, like community projects,” he said.

His greatest challenge lies within himself, Father Tabernero admitted.

During seminary and while stationed in Our Lady of Perpetual Help, Bernardsville, he began to conquer his solitary, introspective manner.

“I am growing into a public person,” he said. “As a priest, I must be always available, not so much an introvert. Now I am coming out of my shell.”

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In the case of Father Michael Tabernero, home is where the heart, and faith, are.

“My mother first mentioned becoming a priest,” he remembered, adding that his pastor also “nurtured that deep sense of intimacy with the Lord.”

Father Tabernero, born in Summit, graduated from Hillsborough High School. He earned a bachelor’s degree in Catholic theology and philosophy at Seton Hall University, South Orange. Upon his graduation from St. Vincent Seminary, Latrobe, Pa., Deacon Tabernero had earned a master’s degree in divinity, cum laude; a bachelor’s degree in sacred theology degree, and the seminary’s Benedictine Father Demetrius R. Dumm Sacred Scripture Award, which is given by the faculty to the student “who most demonstrates excellence in the study of Sacred Scripture.”

Not surprisingly, Father Tabernero declared, “I enjoyed my studies. I like to learn.”

He recounted other joys from his years at the seminary, noting he “made really good friends from all over” “It was a great experience to learn about the faith and the intellectual background of it. There was a lot to dig my teeth into,” he said. “I also developed a deeper prayer life and experienced greater spiritual blessings.”

A member of St. Joseph Parish, Hillsborough, Father Tabernero said he eagerly anticipates many aspects of parish life. “I want to help out in the parish, be a part of the community, and start

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Help Build a Civilization of Love With 97% pledged, we can achieve our goal for the 3rd consecutive year through your ongoing support!

Listed alphabetically by Parish City; figures as of June 19, 2019 Parish Name Parish City Pastor Name Goal Saint Mary Church Alpha Monsignor Lawler $ 54,000 Immaculate Conception Church Annandale Father Toborowsky $ 167,000 Saint Andrew Church Avenel Father Kosmoski $ 41,000 Our Lady of Victories Church Baptistown Father Kaczynski $ 32,000 Saint James Church Basking Ridge Monsignor Cronin $ 342,000 Saint Patrick Church Belvidere Father Pekola $ 29,000 Saint Rose of Lima Church (Oxford) Belvidere Father Pekola $ 11,000 Our Lady of Perpetual Help Church Bernardsville Father Siceloff $ 188,000 Saint Jude Church Blairstown Father Jandernoa $ 42,000 Church of the Annunciation Bloomsbury Father Coruna $ 13,000 Saint Joseph Church Bound Brook Father Pringle $ 29,000 Saint Mary of Czestochowa Church Bound Brook Father Stec $ 33,000 Church of the Holy Trinity Bridgewater Father Calia $ 69,000 Saint Bernard of Clairvaux Church Bridgewater Monsignor Vashon $ 135,000 Saint John Neumann Church Califon Father Rusk $ 38,000 Saint Joseph Church Carteret Father McGuffey $ 32,000 Divine Mercy Parish Carteret Father Shallow $ 25,000 Saint John Vianney Church Colonia Father Gloss $ 122,000 Saint John the Evangelist Church Dunellen Monsignor Benwell $ 32,000 Saint Bartholomew Church East Brunswick Father Walsh $ 173,000 Saint Helena Church Edison Father Sirianni $ 157,000 Saint Matthew the Apostle Church Edison Father Targonski $ 59,000 Saint Magdalen de Pazzi Church Flemington Father Brighenti $ 158,000 Our Lady of Peace Church Fords Father Paratore $ 64,000 Saints Peter & Paul Church Great Meadows Father Podsiadlo $ 15,000 Assumption of Mary Church Hackettstown Father Arockiadoss $ 45,000 Saint Ann Church Hampton Father Saharic $ 33,000 Holy Trinity Church Helmetta Father Wieliczko $ 15,000 Saint Joseph Church High Bridge Father Kyrpczak $ 37,000 Transfiguration of the Lord Highland Park Father Lotha $ 48,000 Saint Joseph Church Hillsborough Father Hilton $ 130,000 Mary, Mother of God Church Hillsborough Father Rozembajgier $ 166,000 Saint Cecelia Church Iselin Father Naduviledathu $ 64,000 Saint James the Less Church Jamesburg Father Fragoso $ 90,000 Saint Augustine of Canterbury Church Kendall Park Father Lynam $ 146,000 Saint John the Evangelist Church Lambertville Father Kolakowski $ 125,000 Saint Lawrence Church Laurence Harbor Father Kehoe $ 30,000 Christ the Redeemer Parish Manville Father Slaby $ 52,000 Blessed Sacrament Church Martinsville Monsignor Prus $ 150,000 Most Holy Redeemer Church Matawan Father Carina $ 65,000 Cathedral of Saint Francis of Assisi Metuchen Monsignor Zamorski $ 338,000 Our Lady of Mt. Virgin Church Middlesex Father Skoblow $ 74,000 Saint Edward the Confessor Church Milford Father Kaczynski $ 27,000 Our Lady of Lourdes Church Milltown Father Czarcinski $ 59,000 Saint Cecilia Church Monmouth Junction Father O'Connor $ 69,000 Nativity of Our Lord Church Monroe Township Father Flanagan $ 88,000 Parish of the Visitation New Brunswick Father Chittilappilly $ 47,000 Our Lady of Mt. Carmel Church New Brunswick Father Nacarino $ 37,000 Saint Peter the Apostle Parish New Brunswick Monsignor Celano $ 50,000 Holy Family Parish New Brunswick Monsignor Kerrigan $ 14,000 Our Lady of Peace Church North Brunswick Father Polyak $ 124,000 Saint Joseph Church North Plainfield Father Farrell $ 33,000 Saint Luke Church North Plainfield Monsignor Corona $ 28,000 Saint Ambrose Church Old Bridge Father Grimes $ 80,000 Saint Thomas the Apostle Church Old Bridge Father Johnson $ 85,000 Saint Bernadette Church Parlin Father Hagerman $ 58,000 Saint Elizabeth-Saint Brigid Church Peapack Monsignor Puleo $ 230,000 Good Shepherd Perth Amboy Father Krull $ 24,000 Saint John Paul II Parish Perth Amboy Father Latkowski $ 23,000 Our Lady of Fatima Church Perth Amboy Father Ruiz $ 14,000 Most Holy Name of Jesus Perth Amboy Monsignor Gordon $ 18,000 Saint Philip & Saint James Church Phillipsburg Father Barbella $ 78,000 Saint Frances Cabrini Church Piscataway Father Considine $ 35,000 Listed alphabetically by Parish City; figures as of June 19, 2019 Our Lady of Fatima Church Piscataway Father Da Silva $ 80,000 Saint Catherine of Siena Church Pittstown Father Zalubski $ 38,000 Parish Name Parish City Pastor Name Goal151,000 Queenship of Mary Church Plainsboro Monsignor Medley $ Saint Theodore Church Port Murray Father Tomiczek $ 7,000 Saint Anthony of Padua Church Port Reading Father Smith $ 24,000 Saint Joseph Church Raritan Father Kolibas $ 25,000 Saint Ann Church Raritan Father Odorizzi $ 65,000 Saint Stanislaus Kostka Church Sayreville Father Murphy $ 48,000 Our Lady of Victories Church Sayreville Father Ryan $ 91,000 Saint Charles Borromeo Church Skillman Monsignor Malovetz $ 124,000 Saint Matthias Church Somerset Father Orapankal $ 172,000 Immaculate Conception Church Somerville Monsignor Brennan $ 179,000 Sacred Heart Church South Amboy Father Gromadzki $ 55,000 Saint Mary Church South Amboy Father Weezorak $ 49,000 Our Lady of Mercy Church South Bound Brook Father Lee $ 35,000 Sacred Heart Church South Plainfield Father Alvarado $ 95,000 Our Lady of Czestochowa Church South Plainfield Father Tran $ 34,000 Corpus Christi Church South River Father Breen $ 33,000 Saint Mary of Ostrabrama Church South River Father Gromadzki $ 42,000 Saint Stephen Protomartyr Church South River Father Szczepanik $ 19,000 Immaculate Conception Church Spotswood Monsignor Curry $ 85,000 Saint Elizabeth Ann Seton Church Three Bridges Father Serafin $ 127,000 Our Lady of the Mount Church Warren Father Kenney $ 378,000 Saint Joseph Church Washington Father Selvester $ 27,000 Saint Mary's-Stony Hill Church Watchung Father Nolan $ 297,000 Our Lady of Lourdes Church Whitehouse Station Father Rusay $ 110,000 Saint James Church Woodbridge Monsignor Cicerale $ 63,000 * Diocesan totals include gifts with no parish designation $ 7,200,000

Total Pledged $ 43,312 $ 135,940 $ 34,427 $ 34,806 $ 330,664 $ 24,724 $ 11,055 $ 148,237 $ 36,129 $ 14,788 $ 34,614 $ 33,326 $ 53,110 $ 136,470 $ 27,401 $ 24,194 $ 20,805 $ 101,097 $ 29,393 $ 158,416 $ 142,052 $ 58,619 $ 134,427 $ 49,905 $ 13,167 $ 35,399 $ 31,658 $ 11,531 $ 31,536 $ 34,127 $ 144,694 $ 156,147 $ 52,817 $ 71,724 $ 116,470 $ 110,138 $ 26,460 $ 35,418 $ 129,915 $ 51,061 $ 305,445 $ 74,607 $ 21,406 $ 45,792 $ 73,283 $ 58,671 $ 34,761 $ 41,988 $ 45,625 $ 14,205 $ 96,297 $ 35,804 $ 32,590 $ 76,503 $ 93,262 $ 45,746 $ 237,966 $ 22,900 $ 20,438 $ 15,852 $ 25,936 $ 47,796 $ 36,795 $ 77,658 Total $ 34,920 Pledged $ 164,267 $ 6,350 $ 26,667 $ 21,995 $ 77,963 $ 49,253 $ 86,998 $ 118,214 $ 138,306 $ 161,787 $ 45,753 $ 48,551 $ 36,889 $ 94,332 $ 37,644 $ 30,053 $ 35,030 $ 19,365 $ 63,354 $ 161,459 $ 386,302 $ 35,238 $ 312,574 $ 111,224 $ 65,429 $ 6,967,265

Percent Pledged 80.21 81.40 83.97 108.77 96.69 85.26 100.50 78.85 86.02 113.75 119.36 100.99 76.97 101.09 72.11 75.61 83.21 82.87 91.85 91.57 90.48 99.35 85.08 77.98 87.78 78.66 95.93 76.87 85.23 71.10 111.30 94.06 82.53 79.69 79.77 88.11 88.20 68.11 86.61 78.56 90.37 100.82 79.28 77.61 106.21 66.67 73.96 113.48 91.25 101.47 77.66 108.50 116.39 95.63 109.72 78.87 103.46 95.42 88.86 113.23 144.08 61.28 105.13 97.07 Percent 91.89 Pledged 108.79 90.71 111.11 87.98 119.94 102.61 95.60 95.33 80.41 90.38 83.19 99.08 105.40 99.30 110.72 91.07 83.41 101.92 74.53 127.13 102.20 130.51 105.24 101.11 103.85 96.77

Estimated Donors Rebate 269 376 248 $ 1,403 90 613 143 $ 28 47 212 125 $ 894 73 $ 2,807 178 $ 163 136 222 $ 735 454 92 196 131 443 157 506 373 350 464 297 82 152 193 70 119 166 $ 7,347 432 481 305 246 440 195 141 284 383 252 630 $ 304 401 102 304 $ 2,141 214 368 147 $ 2,494 320 136 $ 103 73 179 $ 1,402 183 $ 2,295 89 412 $ 4,131 512 207 $ 3,983 256 150 176 $ 926 86 $ 3,968 232 241 $ 897 164 348 Estimated 111 Rebate $ 6,634 Donors 260 38 $ 1,333 215 96 $ 6,482 253 $ 626 285 366 295 342 401 230 310 $ 944 165 379 $ 1,822 177 207 158 $ 183 42 333 $ 17,229 423 $ 4,151 358 $ 4,119 170 $ 7,787 216 $ 612 415 $ 1,214 386 $ 89,156 22,874

Your financial support of the Bishop’s Annual Appeal advances our mission to make Christ known throughout the Diocese of Metuchen and in our parishes.

The 2019 campaign remains open for new gifts and payments until October 31.

Note: Parish results as of June 19, 2019 * Diocesan Total includes gifts with no parish designation

Your generous and faithful support of the ministries of the Diocese of Metuchen is an inspiration to me and gives me great hope. As of this date, we are just shy of 97% of goal for the 2019 Bishop’s Annual Appeal and on our way to reaching 100% for the third consecutive year! I am particularly grateful to our pastors, parish staff, and parish coordinators for their ongoing efforts on behalf of this campaign which remains open to receive new pledges and payments through October 2019. The extraordinary generosity of our parishioners is already having a significant impact on the lives of so many and will help provide the necessary resources as we double our efforts to be truly people on fire with God’s love.

ethnicities and languages all depend on your generosity. In addition, $1.7 million has been earmarked for our Catholic Charities which is dedicated to providing basic needs and counseling services for those struggling with the hardships of life.

Please continue praying for the graces God may send us during our year of spiritual renewal under the guidance of Our Lady of Guadalupe. We need her powerful intercession. Together, let us turn with renewed confidence and outstretched arms to Our Virgin Mother of Guadalupe to set our hearts on fire as we prepare to be consecrated to her maternal care.

With renewed best wishes, I remain Yours in Christ,

Most Reverend James F. Checchio, JCD, MBA Bishop of Metuchen

Bishop’s Annual Appeal nearly 100 percent again

• Cathedral of St. Francis, Metuchen • St. James, Basking Ridge • St. Thomas, Old Bridge • St. Bartholomew, East Brunswick • Mary, Mother of God, Hillsborough TOP 5 PARISHES: Dollars Pledged • Our Lady of the Mount, Warren • St. James, Basking Ridge • St. Mary-Stony Hill, Watchung • Cathedral of St. Francis, Metuchen • St. Elizabeth-St. Brigid, Peapack TOP 5 PARISHES: Largest Rebate • St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Three Bridges • St. Mary-Stony Hill, Watchung • St. Joseph, Hillsborough • Queenship of Mary, Plainsboro • St. Ann, Raritan TOP 5 PARISHES: Greatest Increase in # of Donors over prior year • Our Lady of Mercy, South Bound Brook • St. James, Woodbridge • St. Stanislaus Kostka, Sayreville • St. Joseph, North Plainfield • St. Mary, South Amboy TOP 5 PARISHES: Greatest Percent Increase in pledge amount over prior year • Our Lady of Mercy, South Bound Brook • St. Ann, Raritan • St. Catherine of Siena, Pittstown • St. Joseph, Bound Brook • Annunciation, Bloomsbury TOP 5 PARISHES: Greatest Increase in # of In-Pew Gifts over prior year • St. Stanislaus Kostka, Sayreville • St. James, Woodbridge • St. Mary, South Amboy • Our Lady of the Mount, Warren • St. Joseph, North Plainfield TOP 5 PARISHES: Greatest Increase in In-Pew pledge amount over prior year • Immaculate Conception, Somerville • Our Lady of the Mount, Warren • St. Cecilia, Monmouth Junction • St. Elizabeth-St. Brigid, Peapack • St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Three Bridges

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returned to the parish), it is never viewed to “team effort” as the key to success. as a reward but rather as an opportunity Parochial vicars, deacons and lay leadto pay it forward and further expand the ers play a vital role and hope to inspire mission. every family to participate at a level most St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, comfortable for them.

Three Bridges, and St. Mary Stony-Hill Msgr. Sylvester J. Cronin, pastor, Parish, Watchung, are on target to receive St. James Parish, Basking Ridge, credits the highest rebates at the end of this cam- Appeal co-chairs Mary Corbet and Steve paign. Sharing his pastoral Wetzel with organizing approach to the Appeal, Fathe local effort and added, Regardless ther Thomas J. Serafin, pas“Whenever the good people of the size, tor of Elizabeth Ann Seton of St. James Parish are said, “There is one theme I location, ethnic made aware that there is repeat each year concerning a need to be met, they recomposition the Bishops’ Annual Apspond. The Bishop’s annual peal: our parish is blessed Appeal is just one example or financial with so many things that of their generosity. Showothers can only dream of, so ing the video on the In-Pew capacity of we must share our resourcWeekend is a wonderful the parish, the visual reminder to us of the es and our know-how. We share not only our finances, pastors repeat- genuine compassion of our we also help train others to Bishop and the many people edly pointed do what we do well, such that benefit from the Apas, our Lazarus Ministries Hearing that any gift, to “team effort” peal. and Children’s Liturgy of no matter the size, is apprethe Word.” ciated makes it possible for as the key to Father Brian J. Nolan, many families to take part in success. pastor, St. Mary Stonythe good works of the DioHill, also uses the rebate to cese of Metuchen.” further the mission of the Church. “We It is not too late to join Bishop Checlook forward to introducing some excit- chio and your fellow parishioners in this ing new evangelization programs to our great diocesan-wide effort in support of parishioners in the fall,” said Father No- the pastoral, educational and charitable lan. “Our Adult Faith Formation/Evan- ministries reaching thousands of people gelization staff member will be working every day. We cannot do it alone, but towith our newly formed Evangelization gether we can “Help Build a Civilization Team to research and select the specific of Love.” programs. Our Bishop’s Appeal rebate Send your check made payable to will be used for the benefit of all our pa- the Diocese of Metuchen-Bishop’s Anrishioners who wish to participate.” nual Appeal to: Diocese of Metuchen, Regardless of the size, location, eth- PO Box 4000, Metuchen, NJ 08840-0191 nic composition or financial capacity of or go to our secure website at https://dithe parish, the pastors repeatedly pointed ometuchen.org/BAA

TOP 5 PARISHES: # of Donors

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There are many ways to measure success. Whether it is a grade on a term paper or the final score of a baseball game, the numbers are never the full story. The same can be said for a fundraising campaign like the Bishop’s Annual Appeal.

The top five parishes achieving success in various quantifiable categories are high-lighted on these pages, but — the story behind the numbers — the spiritual aspect of intentional, charitable giving by our family of faith does not go unnoticed by our pastors.

“I repeatedly ask parishioners to prayerfully consider a pledge to the Bishop’s Annual Appeal, regardless of the amount,” said Msgr. Robert J. Zamorski, pastor, Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi Parish, Metuchen. “I’m happy more people are participating because it shows they are knowledgeable about what the diocese is doing. Spreading information about the diocesan mission is very important. Even if giving is minimal, having more donors mean more parishioners are participating in diocesan life.”

Msgr. John B. Gordon, pastor, Most Holy Name of Jesus Parish, Perth Amboy, agrees that the mission of the Church is primary and has seen his parish go well beyond its goal the past three years. “As pastor of Most Holy Name of Jesus Parish, I am very grateful to our parishioners for their sacrificial giving to the Appeal.

Their generosity expresses a deep faith in the Holy Spirit inspiring our bishop and believing that continued blessing will be given as the vision and mission of our Church are supported and strengthened.”

While exceeding goal allows a parish to share in the success of the Appeal in the form of a financial rebate (50 percent of the amount collected over goal is

• Most Holy Name of Jesus, Perth Amboy • St. Joseph, Washington • St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Three Bridges • St. Ann, Raritan • St. Joseph, Bound Brook

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Bishop James Checchio

We all agree that our Church and our world are in great need of healing and spiritual renewal, but are encouraged in knowing the light of Christ will lead us as together we Help Build a Civilization of Love—one that is anchored in prayer and worship, invites all people to grow in personal friendship with Our Lord Jesus, and offers a compassionate presence for those who are hurting and vulnerable.

Please be assured that your gift is being used exclusively for the ministries outlined in the Appeal materials. The settlements that we reached in the past regarding sexual misconduct from clergy was paid from insurance reserves. The Appeal money is restricted to the many vital needs funded by your support for such things as the formation of our seminarians and deacons, outreach to our youth and young adults, and programs to assist couples through marriage preparation. Our ongoing efforts in evangelization and catechesis, advocacy for human life and dignity, and effectively ministering to people of varied

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Bishop thanks contributors for ‘overwhelming response’

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Faithful prepare for dedication of diocese at all-night Pentecost Vigil Lady of Guadalupe.

The liturgy’s music, always an integral part of worship, was an eclectic METUCHEN — “People have come mix of chant, antiphons, psalms and tonight with a sense of longing and Christian praise songs by choir and anticipation,” declared Father Timo- instrumentalists under the direction of Thomas A. Dethy A. Christy to the Lessio, coordinator, hundreds seated bediocesan Liturgical fore him in the CaThe vigil was part Music. A schola of thedral of St. Fransingers from the Cathcis of Assisi June 8. of the Diocese of olic Center at Rutgers’ “Tonight is a time to Metuchen’s 2018Young Adult Group be refreshed in the shared their talents, fact that God will do 2019 “Year of Awaktoo. They were led something awesome

by Anthony Nardino, in our midst.” ening,” which will director of music at Father Christy, end Dec. 12 when St. Peter the Apostle diocesan Vicar GenUniversity and Comeral and Moderator Bishop James F. munity Parish, New of the Curia, preChecchio dedicates Brunswick. sided at the Mass, In his homily, Fawhich was followed the diocese to ther Christy noted the by all-night Euchaliturgy brings forward Jesus through the ristic adoration, sacthe past and makes it rament of reconcilaintercession of Our present, thus assuring tion, music, praise modern Christians and catechetical Lady of Guadalupe. they are, in a sense, at talks. The vigil was the first Pentecost. part of the Diocese “We need to be of Metuchen’s 20182019 “Year of Awakening,” which sober and alert,” he said. “Being a Chriswill end Dec. 12 when Bishop James tian is not a matter of business as usual.

F. Checchio dedicates the diocese to We claim a Lord and Savior who sets the Jesus through the intercession of Our world on fire.”

By Christina Leslie Correspondent

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The Gospel of St. John, detailing Jesus’ arrival in Jerusalem for the Feast of Tabernacles, plots a course for believers, Father Christy asserted.

On the final day of the feast, the Son of God arose and said, “Let anyone who thirsts come to me and drink.

Whoever believes in me, as Scripture

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Graduate of academy in diocese one of four new Sisters of Mercy there, she volunteered at McAuley Hall, the retirement facility for the SisMarjorie Tapia, a 2004 graduate of ters of Mercy on the school’s campus.

Sister Marjorie became a Mercy Mount Saint Mary Acadamy, was one of four women who professed final associate in her junior year of college at vows as Sisters of Mercy of the Ameri- Boston College, Chestnut Hill, Mass., cas, Mid-Atlantic Community, in the where she earned a nursing degree.

Next, with a chapel in the Convent master’s degree in of Mercy, Merion, Pa., A licensed nursing nursing from New June 8.

York University, she More than 500 home administrator, worked as a geriatric sisters, family memSister Marjorie (Tapia) nurse practitioner and bers, associates and as an adjunct faculty friends attended the currently serves as member for the ColMass. Augustinian Falege of St. Elizabeth, ther Kevin DiPrinzio a director of healthMorris Township. A presided at the liturgy. care/aging services licensed nursing home The others who administrator, Sister professed final vows for the Religious Marjorie currently were: Sister Marybeth Teachers Filippini in serves as a director of Beretta, president of healthcare/aging serSt. Mary Academy– Morristown. Several vices for the Religious Bay View, Riverside, R.I.; Sister Jennifer sisters from that con- Teachers Filippini in Morristown. Several Barrow, an attorney in gregation attended sisters from that conBrooklyn, N.Y.; and gregation attended her Sister Danielle Gaher profession. profession. gnon, a development Mercy Sister consultant in PhiladelPatricia Vetrano, phia.

Sister Marjorie discovered the president of the Sisters of Mercy, Sisters of Mercy while attending The Mid-Atlantic Community, welcomed Mount, a private Catholic girls’ high the guests. Mercy Sister Patricia Mcschool in Watchung. During her time Dermott, president of the Institute of

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the Sisters of Mercy of the Americas, questioned the women regarding their desire to live religious life. Next, the four sisters individually pronounced and signed their vows and received their rings, which symbolize the Sisters of Mercy, Mid-Atlantic Community’s promise of their vows and are inscribed with their personalized mottos that inspire their lives.

The perpetual vows the women professed were chastity, poverty, obedience, and service to people who are poor, sick, and ignorant.

“These four extraordinary women decided to dedicate their lives to God and live in community as Sisters of Mercy. Through prayer and service, they will respond to the changing needs of our times,” said Sister Patricia. “The Sisters of Mercy welcomed these four faith-filled newly-professed members with open arms, joyful applause, affirmation and song.”

Sister Jennifer attended Boston College, where she earned a bachelor’s degree in theology and Hispanic studies. In 2003, she spent a year in Laredo, Texas, with Mercy Volunteer Corps, serving as a bilingual case manager in the Hachar-Cigarroa Women’s Clinic.

In 2010, Sister Jennifer graduated from Boston College Law School with a Doctor of Law degree. She was admitted to the New York Bar Association in that same year. She currently ministers as an immigration lawyer at Brooklyn Legal Services in Brooklyn, N.Y. Sister Marybeth first encountered the Sisters of Mercy while attending Salve Regina University in Newport, R.I. After more than 20 years as the

chief financial officer of LaSalle Academy, Providence, R.I., she decided to become a Sister of Mercy.

Sister Danielle met the Sisters of Mercy when she worked for Medicines for Humanity, a nonprofit organization that operates maternal/child health projects in developing countries. She also worked at Hope Partnership for Education, an education center in North Philadelphia and served as executive director of St. Patrick’s Center in Wilmington, Del., a nonprofit center that provides services for people who are homeless.

Currently, she is serving as a development consultant to Cranaleith Spiritual Center, a conference and retreat center in Philadelphia. She is also studying to be a spiritual director.

The Sisters of Mercy, an international religious community of Roman Catholic women, minister to people who are poor, sick, and in need of education, especially women and children.

More than 2,500 Sisters of Mercy serve in 11 countries and 42 states by helping people in need, especially women and children, with Mercy and compassion.

For more information about the Sisters of Mercy, visit www.sistersofmercy.org Della Porta is director of Communications, Sisters of Mercy of the Americas, Mid-Atlantic Community

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From left, Deacon Gustavo Rodriguez-Perez, Deacon Thomas Lanza and Deacon Gilbert Starcher pose in the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center chapel, Piscataway. They were ordained to the transitional diaconate June 15 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. —Tara Smith photo

What is a transitional deacon?

By Father Glenn J. Comandini, STD

usually practice their diaconal ministry at their home parishes for an indefinite period of time, usually until their retirement.

Transitional deacons, on the other hand, are assigned by the bishop to a parish anywhere in the diocese, normally for a term of office, be it anywhere from three months to a year. Most transitional deacons have to return to the seminary for their fourth and final year of theology.

Transitional deacons cannot hear confessions, anoint the sick or confirm. They do have faculties to baptize, to officiate at a simple nuptial ceremony and to conduct the Rite of Committal at the cemetery (internment in the ground or entombment in a mausoleum) following the funeral at the Church.

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Father Comandini has a doctorate in theology from the Pontifical Gregorian University in Rome. He has taught theology at Seton Hall University, the College of St. Elizabeth and St. John’s University.

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On June 9, 1985, I was ordained a transitional deacon. What does this “transitional” imply? Following four years of college and three more years at the major seminary, I was called to holy orders by the Bishop of Metuchen. A bishop only calls a man to become a transitional deacon if it is his intention that following one year as a deacon, he would then ordain this man to the priesthood.

For most transitional deacons, this year is a pastoral, liturgical and educational preparation period for the priesthood. You see, when considering the sacrament of holy orders, there are three degrees of the sacrament: deacon, priest, bishop.

Entering the first level of holy orders, the bishop authorized the following “faculties,” or “permissions.” I was called to assist the presider of the Mass by invoking God’s mercy during the Penitential Rite.

After the “Alleluia verse,” I was called

to proclaim the Gospel. At the discretion consisting of three psalms, a reading from of the pastor to whom I was assigned, I Scripture and petitions, is a participation in could be asked to deliver the Perpetual Liturgy going the homily. At the Prayer on in Heaven. At the same of the Faithful, I was called time, through the Breviary, Transitional to offer up the petitions. At we sanctify the secular deacons...are the Sign of Peace, I was hours of the day and night called to elicit the exchange on earth. assigned by of peace with each other.

Both permanent and the bishop to a During Communion, it transitional deacons make was my responsibility to promise to obey their parish anywhere abishop be a Minister of the Cup. and his successors. in the diocese, Following the Prayer After Unlike the permanent Communion, it was my role deacons, most of whom normally for a to dismiss the people with are married, I had to promthese or other permissible ise my bishop to embrace term of office... dismissals: “Go in peace, celibacy. This means that I from three the Mass is ended.” have to forego any excluThere are three prom- months to a year. sive relationships in order ises made by the transitional to love the Church with my deacon: to pray the Liturgy whole being as if she were of the Hours, Obedience my spouse, the mother of and Celibacy. The Liturgy of the Hours is my children. also known as the “Breviary.” This prayer, Permanent deacons are ordained and

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Bishop ordains eight men to diaconate for diocese at Mass at Cathedral liturgy with words such as “awesome,” from now, they will receive the sac- “overwhelming” and “peaceful.” rament of holy orders and become “It was a very moving experipriests. ence, but I felt a little bit nervous at The five others serve as “perma- the beginning,” said Deacon Thomas nent” deacons. Much like the transi- William Lanza, one of the three transitional deacons, permanent deacons tional deacons. undergo a rigorous period of preparaOnce Mass began, Deacon Lanza tion and education before ordination. said he felt peace, then he took a deep The Rite of Ordination, most breath and described the event as “sort of which took place following the of like a big release … and now it’s bishop’s homily, included centuries- good.” old traditions, such as the “invitation Both Deacon Lanza, 33, whose to prayer.” As the bishop invited the home parish is St. Augustine of Canassembly to pray, the candidates terbury, Kendall Park, and Deacon prostrated themselves in front of the Gustavo Andres Rodriguez-Perez, 34, altar in a biblical gesture of humility. who grew up in Colombia, entered the Meanwhile, the choir led the beautiful seminary after spending years in the “Litany of Supplicabusiness world. Deation.” con Starcher, howevThe Rite of OrdinaThe bishop then er, said he knew early extended his hands on he was called to tion, most of which over each candidate, serve the Church. an ancient sign with “I feel happy and took place following the prayer of conjoyful,” said Deacon the bishop’s homily, secration that conStarcher, who served stituted the heart of as an emcee accomincluded centuriesthe ordination rite. panying the bishop at old traditions, such The newly ordained various times during deacons were then the liturgy. “It’s been as the “invitation vested with the stole five years in the semand dalmatic by a inary, but before that, to prayer.” As the religious representasince I was young, I bishop invited the tive chosen by each served Mass, I was one. assembly to pray, the thinking of a call to Later, the bishthe priesthood around candidates prostrated 5 or 6. I was talking op and other clergy extended a sign of it all the time.” themselves in front of aboutHis peace — a handparents, shake and hug — as Robert and Linda the altar in a biblical a fraternal greeting Starcher, agreed. “He gesture of humility. symbolizing the new used to introduce deacons and their Meanwhile, the choir himself to people — welcome into the ‘You can call me Faled the beautiful ministry. ther Gilbert’ — when The liturgy drew “Litany of Supplication.” he was little,” Robert dozens of clergy, Starcher said. including current But when did permanent deacons. The latest class Deacon Starcher seriously consider of lay deacons brings the total in the becoming a priest? His father said it diocese to 153. was a “continuous progression” and, The three transitional deacons are “there was no lull in the action.” among 21 seminarians preparing for The oldest deacon, Weber, who the priesthood, making the total num- turned 62 on June 12, perhaps has ber among the largest of seminarians faced the toughest climb on the road the diocese has seen since its forma- to his ministry. tion in 1981.

The retired software development Applause rang out several times executive, whose first wife, Laurie, during the 90-minute liturgy, most died at a young age, remarried. His notably at the recessional. Families, second spouse, Lisa, whose first husfriends and relatives of the newly or- band had also died, went through the dained men filled the cathedral, and Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults joined with the deacons afterward for formation. It was through RCIA, a photographs, hugs and a reception in sort of relearning of Catholicism, that the community room.

Deacon Weber’s faith grew and led The eight men ranged in age from him to pursue the diaconate. Besides 26 (Deacon Gilbert Zachariah Starch- becoming a permanent deacon, he er) to 62 (Deacon William P. Weber wants to become a hospital chaplain, Jr.). Five are New Jersey natives, with having served 40 hours of commufive of the deacons’ home parishes in nity service during his formation as a Hunterdon County. volunteer at Saint Peter’s University The newly ordained described the Hospital, New Brunswick. He said

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From top, during the Rite of Ordination, candidates for the transitional and permanent diaconate prostrate themselves as a gesture of humility at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi; Bishop James F. Checchio lays hands on the head of transitional deacon candidate Gustavo Rodriguez-Perez and recites the Prayer of Ordination; the bishop asks permanent deacon candidate Anthony Cozzi to make the promise of obedience to him and his successors; and newly ordained permanent deacon Patrick O'Boyle is vested by Father Krzystof Kaczynski.

— Mike Ehrmann photos the process takes about two years.

“It’s a long process …” he said of becoming a chaplain. “It’s very intensive.”

But he’s also looking forward to it. “The whole idea of the diaconate

is service,” he said. “So the 40-hour requirement grew out of it.”

Family members spoke of the pride at seeing their son or relative ordained into the Church. “They put Continued on next page

“Pray for all these guys,” Robert Starcher said, pulling out a small piece of paper from his wallet with a petition dedicated to clergy. “Just keep praying.”

The bishop recognized or thanked several people who coordinated the liturgy, including Bishop Emeritus Paul G. Bootkoski, Father Mauricio TaberaVasquez, director, diocesan Office of Vocations, and Deacon Stephen F. Kern, director, diocesan Office of the Diaconate.

The Diocesan Festival Choir performed under the direction of Thomas A. DeLessio, coordinator, diocesan Liturgical Music.

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in a lot of hard work, dedication and prayer to get here today, and I’m just really proud of them,” said Rachele Fortier, who with her brother Zachary Fortier, was chosen to present the gifts during the offertory procession. Their father, Steven Fortier, was among the five permanent deacons.

The other men ordained in the latest permanent diaconate class are Anthony Cozzi, Kevin O’Brien, and Patrick O’Boyle.

The bishop and others encouraged the assembly to support the newly ordained deacons.

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Happy Hundredth

Bishop James F. Checchio, left, embraces newly ordained Deacon William Weber Jr. at Mass at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi. Deacon Weber was one of five permanent deacons ordained by the bishop at the Mass. — Mike Ehrmann photo

Mercy Sister Mary Stanislaus celebrated her 100th Birthday on May 31 at McAuley Hall Health Care Center, Watchung, although her official birthday was on June 2. To begin the afternoon, she was honored by crowning the Blessed Mother. Pictured with her as an assistant was Mercy Sister Rita McGurk, standing to her left. After a moving May Crowning in chapel, the group went to another space for the cutting of the cake and much singing to celebrate the occasion. Sister Stanislaus will also celebrate her 60th Jubilee as a Sister of Mercy in September.

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Deacon Thomas Lanza “I definitely do not feel worthy, but I feel prepared,” Deacon Thomas Lanza said before Bishop James F. Checchio ordained him to the transitional diaconate June 15. It took Deacon Lanza six years to reach this last step before his ordination to the priesthood next year, and some priests will tell you no one feels worthy of serving in the name of Christ.

The son of Tom and Karen (Forgrieve), Deacon Lanza grew up in Kendall Park. He has one sister, Courtney, married to Brian Franzyshen. They have a daughter, Haley. He said his parents have been very supportive of his decision to pursue the priesthood. In fact, this past spring, his mother transitioned from being a Presbyterian to enter fully into the Catholic Church. “It brought me great joy to share my ordination fully with her,” he said.

After high school, Deacon Lanza entered Ramapo College in Mahwah, where he studied sociology and business marking and earned a Bachelor of Arts degree.

Currently, he is finishing his studies for the priesthood at St. Mary’s Seminary and University in Baltimore. There, he has received a second bachelor’s degree in philosophy and is working on earing a master of divinity degree and an STB, Roman ecclesiastical degree.

For the 2019-2020 academic year, Deacon Lanza has been named the Cardinal Keeler Scholar. This achievement is

awarded to one seminarian every year for excellence in studies, spiritual and community leadership, potential for ministry, and pastoral sensitivity to ecumenical and interfaith issues.

Before he entered the seminary, Deacon Lanza said he “worked and dated for years.” His first position after college was as assistant manager/business account manage for Enterprise. During his two years with the company, he led his region in sales for six consecutive months and won 12 sales competitions. In 2012, he accepted a position as sales representative/ operations manager for Tailor Cut Produce in North Brunswick. A year later, he said, he was looking to switch industries and wanted to find work as a pharmaceutical or medical device sales representative.

Reflecting on that period in his life, Deacon Lanza said, “During this time I was asking myself some really tough questions: What do I want to do with the rest of my life? Was I happy? Was I living my life well?”

The questions prompted Deacon Lanza, a member of St. Augustine of Canterbury Parish, Kendall Park,to begin a dialogue with Father Robert G. Lynam, his pastor, about how he could become more involved in the Church. “I took baby steps as I became a eucharistic minister, religious education teacher, and volunteer at Saint Peter’s University Hospital in

New Brunswick,” he said, adding, “Serving others in the name of God really felt like I was doing something meaningful. I was no longer the center of my own life’s quest, focusing on others and growing in my relationship with Christ brought me peace and happiness. I knew that I needed to give the seminary and priesthood a shot.”

At St. Mary’s Seminary, Deacon Lanza was taught by the Sulpicians, diocesan priests of the Society of St. Sulpice whose mission is the initial and ongoing formation of diocesan priests around the world. “The Sulpicians use a very collaborative formational model that values the input of faculty, seminarians, and the laity to improve their program. They don’t use a cookie-cutter approach to formation, they meet men where they are at, young or older, experienced or not,” Deacon Lanza said.

“The seminary can be a challenging transition at times but having the good spiritual guidance of the Sulpicians and a solid mentor in Father Bob, made all the difference for me,” he stated.

Deacon Lanza said he also feels “a sense of gratitude to the Bishop, the diocese, and his formators at St. Mary’s for all of the time and energy they have invested in me.

I also feel an immense level of thankfulness to all the parishioners of our diocese for their resources, support and especially

Deacon Thomas Lanza was ordained to the transitional diaconate on June 15

by Bishop James F. Checchio. their prayers.”

As a transitional deacon, Deacon Lanza is looking forward most “to all of the many firsts he will experience: first time assisting the priest at Mass, first time proclaiming the Good News, first time preaching, first time administering baptism, first time presiding at a wedding.”

— Joanne Ward

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Deacon Gustavo Rodriguez-Perez For Deacon Gustavo Rodriguez-Perez, his ongoing journey approaching the priesthood hasn’t been an easy march.

He entered the seminary when he was 22 years old; it has taken him 12 years to reach the transitional diaconate, which is one year away from becoming a priest.

The duration of formal studies and formation can vary based upon an individual’s previous academic background, according to the Diocese of Metuchen.

It takes about the same amount of preparation to be a priest as any professional person -- four years after college or eight years after high school.

In his case, Deacon Rodriguez, 34, was quick to credit others for his formation. “I have received a lot of support from the diocese,” he said. That’s because the Colombian-born Rodriguez needed help with English. When Msgr.

Randall J. Vashon was director, diocesan Office of Vocations, he interviewed the student.

“He opened doors for me,” Deacon Rodriguez recalled of Msgr. Vashon.

“He introduced me to Bishop Paul [Bootkoski], and they asked me to go to Rutgers [University, New Brunswick], because I didn’t speak any English.”

Deacon Rodriguez admitted he struggled understanding his new language, especially with his religious studies mixed in. But he has persevered, and

there is no misunderstanding Deacon Rodriguez’ fervor and excitement about his upcoming ordination that will place him one year away from the priesthood.

As a transitional deacon, he will be an ordinary minister of baptism. He will be able to preside at weddings, assist the priest at Mass, proclaim the Gospel and preach, as well as preside at funeral services.

Deacon Rodriguez has served at three diocesan parishes during summers and holidays while continuing his theological studies at St. Vincent Seminary, Latrobe, Pa. He has been stationed at Mary, Mother of God Parish. Hillsborough; St. Ambrose Parish, Old Bridge; and the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen.

While using words such as “amazing” and “awesome” with each parish stay, Deacon Rodriguez particularly credited St. Ambrose’s pastor, Father Jack C. Grimes, with helping him through a rough stretch.

“I was in second [year] theology when I got that assignment,” Deacoon Rodriguez said. “Academically, it was a difficult year, and spiritually, it was intense, too.”

Father Grimes “really showed me the light,” said Deacon Rodriguez, with the pastor counseling the young seminarian that the experiences of working

with parishioners and being part of a faith community outweigh the personal struggles.

The second oldest of six children born to Gustavo Rodriguez and Maria del Carmen Perez, Deacon Rodriguez worked a couple of years before entering the seminary. His family thought he would become successful in business, marry and settle down, he said. God had other plans.

“It wasn’t easy for me in the beginning,” Deacon Rodriguez said. “My family had different expectations for me. It took them a while to understand my decision, but they respect and support my decision now.”

He said no one from his family will be able to attend his ordination, but he hopes relatives will attend next year’s celebration of his priesthood.

“It would be a great gift,” he said.

Deacon Rodriguez said he has been able to travel to his homeland, and he keeps in touch with family and friends via Skype and phone calls. “If I don’t call, they call me and say, ‘Hey what is wrong with you? You went to the United States, but you are still present with us.’”

For now, Deacon Rodriguez appreciates the gift of God’s calling and the people he has encountered in New Jersey and Pennsylvania. While Deacon

Deacon Gustavo Rodriguez-Perez was ordained a transitional deacon on June 15 by Bishop James F. Checchio.

Rodriguez’s discernment began in his South American homeland, clergy like Msgr. Vashon and Father Grimes helped nurture that love of God and the call.

They can be proud of their role in translating and turning God’s message to Rodriguez into priestly reality.

— Anthony Salamone

ing forward to his diaconal ministry.

“As a deacon, I look forward to serving in the parish in which I will spend the coming year and preaching at Mass.”

Thinking about when he will be ordained, Deacon Starcher said: “I look forward to celebrating Mass for the people of my parish and celebrating the sacraments with them,” he said “I also look forward to celebrating the sacraments with the sick and those who are otherwise unable to come to church on Sunday.”

— Alexandra Gillett

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Deacon Gilbert Starcher says he began a Catholic family where daily Mass, prayer thinking about the priesthood at age 5. Now, together, and Eucharistic Adoration played 21 years later, he is about to take another a significant part. My family has been supstep toward making that thought a reality. portive since I first started talking about it.

As a seminarian in the Diocese of Growing up, it was a life-choice my parents Metuchen, Deacon Starcher has already encouraged”, he noted. gone through three important Deacon Starcher’s exrites of passage: “admission perience as a seminarian so to candidacy,” “institution far has only served to solidify “As a deacon as lector” and “institution his certainty. “I have enjoyed as acolyte.” These last two my pastoral assignments and I look forward allow the seminarian to read studying with my brother to serving in the first and second readings seminarians...especially at Mass, serve at the altar and when working with the sick the parish in act as an extraordinary minisand in my assignments at which I will ter of the Eucharist. hospitals.”

Deacon Starcher grew When asked what he spend the up in Glen Gardner, where found most challenging so he attended Mass with his far, Deacon Starcher spoke coming year parents and six siblings at about last year’s summer and preaching assignment in Bolivia. The St. Ann Church, Hampton.

When asked what first inmain goal of this “study at Mass.” spired him to seriously conabroad” was to learn to speak sider the priesthood, Deacon Spanish. The six-week trip was with three other semiStarcher credited his parish narians from the diocese. In priest, Father Michael C. the city of Cochabamba, the students stayed Saharic.

“I was attracted by his beautiful with local families and walked to the center celebration of the Mass and his devoted care of town for daily classes.

In addition to the intense study, the for his parishioners especially in times of need,” he said. students also were able to enjoy some of the This initial inspiration was backed up local culture on trips to historical, cultural, with a devoted Catholic family life as well and natural attractions. as direct support for vocations. “I grew up in Now, Deacon Starcher said he is look-

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Deacon Gilbert Starcher

Deacon Gilbert Starcher was ordained to the transitional diaconate on June 15 by Bishop James F. Checchio.

Gilbert Starcher

on the occasion of his ordination as a Transitional Deacon.

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Gilbert, may Our Lady continue to bless you and guide you as you take one step closer to the Altar of her Divine Son. Saint Ann intercede for him

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Fr. Michael Saharic, pastor of Saint Ann’s Church, Hampton congratulates

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After one of their final classes at the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway, the five men ordained to the permanent diaconate for the diocese June 15 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen, pose in the chapel with Deacon Stephen F. Kern, left, director, diocesan Office of the Diaconate; Deacon Peter E. Barcellona, second from left, Assistant Director for Formation; Deacon Rick Fortune, far right, Assistant Director for Formation; and Deacon Patrick Cline, second from right, Associate Director for Formation. The newly ordained deacons are: front row, from left, Kevin O’Brien and Steven Fortier; back row, from left, William P. Weber Jr., Patrick O’Boyle and Anthony Cozzi.

Mike Ehrmann photo

Three pillars of the diaconate: Word, Liturgy, Charity

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By Father Glenn J. Comandini, S.T.D. The first evidence for the existence of deacons would be in Philippians 1:1 where they appear as a permanent ministry in the community, as they work under the bishops. If then the apostles, prophets and teachers can be traced back to Jewish (Hebrew-speaking Masoretic) traditions, the bishops and deacons appear to be rather in the Hellenistic (Greek-speaking Gentile) communities.

The term “deacon” comes from the Greek language “diakonoi” and expresses the idea of service. Originally, deacons were probably those who acted as table-servers for the cultic banquets.

Later, the deacons catered the communal meals. The deacons in the Christian community probably fulfilled a similar service (see 1 Timothy 3:8-13). The appointment of the seven in Acts 6:16 does not seem to refer to the term deacon as found in the other communities. On the contrary, these people, here mentioned, seem to be identified with those, later called “presbyters” or

“elders.” We do not know then about the exact origin of the diaconate and its original function. We merely know that the deacons existed in the Pauline communities, the task of whom was to care for the poor or administer material possessions.

In “The Didache,” [“The Teaching of the Twelve Apostles”] composed between 90-100 A.D., the primary decision-making body is the Christian community itself. The injunctions concerning baptism and the celebration of the Eucharist are directed to the community (chs. 7, 9). The community decides about a true or false prophet (chs.

11, 12, 13) and appoints bishops and deacons (ch. 15). The functionaries are prophets, apostles, teachers, bishops and deacons. The role of leadership belongs especially to the prophets. While there is a form for the celebration of the Eucharist, the prophets may celebrate the Eucharist as they will (chs. 10, 7).

Since a community cannot be certain of always having prophets, “The Didache” exhorts the churches to appoint bishops and deacons because they are a

substitute for the prophets and teachers (ch. 15:1, 2). At this point, there is still no evidence of a monarchical episcopate. In retrospect, the prophets and teachers were more highly regarded than the bishops and deacons, the latter two taking care of the financial needs of the community.

Thus, in the early Christian communities, deacons exist alongside the presbyters or bishops.

In Timothy 3:8-12, Paul discusses the qualities, which the deacon should possess. In general, the deacons assisted the presbyters or bishops. In the “Roman Pontifical” we read: “Diaconi denim porte ministrare ad altare, battimare et predicare.”

[Translations: “The deacon’s minister at the altar, they baptize and preach.”]

Silence over Centuries

The permanent diaconate was never suppressed. Sadly, what began as an end in itself, namely, the vocation to the diaconate, became a means to a greater end, namely, the priesthood.

As such, the permanent diaconate be-

came a transitional stage of formation among many. There were minor orders including tonsure, followed by acolyte, lector, sub-deacon and deacon. The deacons no longer focused on the three pillars of Word, Liturgy and Charity but on the administration of the sacraments that accrued from ordination to the priesthood. The fiscal and administrative nature of the diaconate was also absorbed by the priests as their bishops named them “pastors.”

Vocation Awoken

In the early Church, the ordination of deacons occurred through the imposition of the hands similar to the rite by which the bishops or presbyters were ordained. Like the latter two orders, the deacon according to the authors received ordination by a sign that would also give grace so that the ordained fulfill his work.

The Second Vatican Council’s document “On the Constitution of the Church” [“Lumen Pentium”] mentions the deacons who are said to be at the lower level of the hierarchy. Upon them

“Sacrum Diaconatus Ordinem”

Section V: Duties of deacons

It is here where the Church enumerates the very ministry of the deacon in the light of the Second Vatican Council.

1) To assist the bishop and the priest during liturgical actions.

2) To administer baptism solemnly and to supply the ceremonies which may have been omitted when conferring it on children or adults.

3) To reserve the Eucharist and to distribute it to himself and to others, to bring it as a Viaticum to the dying and to impart to the people benediction with the Blessed Sacrament.

4) In the absence of priests, to assist at and to bless marriages in the name

of the Church by delegation from the bishop or pastor.

5) To administer sacramentals and to officiate at funeral and burial services.

6) To read the sacred books of Scripture to the faithful and to instruct and exhort the people.

7) To preside at the worship and prayers of the people when a priest is not present.

8) To direct the liturgy of the word, particularly in the absence of a priest.

9) To carry out, in the name of the hierarchy, the duties of charity and of administration as well as works of social assistance.

10) To guide legitimately, in the name of the parish priest and the bishop, remote Christian communities.

11) To promote and sustain the apostolic activities of laymen.

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This apostolic letter promulgated by Pope St. Paul VI on June 18, 1967, lays outs the general norms for restoring the permanent diaconate in the Latin Church.

From the onset, the pontiff is crystal clear about the vocation as an end in itself as he writes: “Although some functions of the deacons, especially in missionary countries, are in fact accustomed to be entrusted to lay men it is nevertheless ‘beneficial that those who perform a truly diaconal ministry be strengthened by the imposition of hands, a tradition going back to the Apostles, and be more closely joined to the altar so that they may more effectively carry out their ministry through the sacramental grace of the diaconate.” (4) Notice how the Holy Father reiterates how men are “ordained” to the diaconate. In addition, he notes, “Certainly in this way the special nature of this order will be shown most clearly. It not to be considered as a mere step towards the priesthood, but it is so adorned with its own indelible character and its own special grace so that those who are called to it ‘can permanently serve the mysteries of Christ and the Church.” (5) In keeping with the ecclesial concept of subsidiarity, the Moto Propio of this exhortation underscores that it is

the task of the episcopal conferences to discuss, in concert with the Holy Father, whether and where the diaconate is to be instituted as a proper and permanent rank of the hierarchy.

Young, single candidates, called to the diaconate, after prayerful consideration and proper formation, must adhere to a life of celibacy; however, single men may not be ordained under the age of 25. Those who are married may not be ordained until they are 35. They may remain married, however, upon the death of their spouse, may not remarry.

The papal document also accentuates that the formation period for the permanent diaconate should be spread over a period of at least three years.

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hands are imposed not unto the priesthood but unto a ministry of service. Ordination is said to be a sacrament: “For strengthened by sacramental grace, they are dedicated to the People of God, in conjunction with the bishop and his body of priests, in the service of the liturgy, of the Gospel and of works of charity.” [LG, 29] From the aforementioned description of the diaconate, theologians today refer to the “Three Pillars of Diaconate” as Word, Liturgy and Charity. The Second Vatican Council goes into more detail as to the exact nature of the ministries that weave through these pillars in the following: “It pertains to the office of a deacon, in so far as it may be assigned to him by the competent authority, to administer Baptism solemnly, to be custodian and distributor of the Eucharist, in the name of the Church, to assist at and to bless marriages, to bring Viaticum to the dying, to read the sacred scripture to the faithful, to instruct and exhort the people, to preside over the worship and the prayer at funeral and burial services.

Dedicated to works of charity and functions of administration, deacons should recall the admonition of St. Polycarp: “Let them be merciful, and zealous, and let them walk according to the truth of the Lord, who became the servant of all.”

[LG, 29]

All of these functions must be carried out in perfect communion with the bishop and with his presbytery, that is to say, under the authority of the bishop and the priest who are in charge of the care of souls in that place.

Father Comandini is managing editor of “The Catholic Spirit” and has a doctorate in Sacred Theology from the Pontifical Gregorian University in Rome. This article first appeared in the Jan. 10, 2019 edition of “The Catholic Spirit.”

The Office of the Diaconate extends its

CONGRATULATIONS TO THE CLASS OF 2019 on their ordination to the Permanent Diaconate

JUNE 27, 2019

Deacon Stephen F. Kern, Director Barbara Urcinas, Administrative Assistant

THE CATHOLIC SPIRIT

As Deacons conformed to Christ the Servant, may you be filled with the Holy Spirit so that you will be effective ministers of Liturgy, Word and Charity.

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Deacon Anthony Cozzi The Lord calls men to the diaconate in many ways.

Deacon Anthony Cozzi remembers the Lord calling him several times. Each time he was speaking through someone else and each time he questioned if it was really the Lord speaking to him. Finally, he decided to follow the voice to see where it would lead and has been overjoyed with the results of his journey.

Deacon Cozzi’s inspiration came from several sources throughout the years. The first was his cousin, Dominican Father Jude Siciliano.

“He has inspired me and encouraged me in my spiritual growth,” Deacon Cozzi said.

Other priests who have had an influence on him include: Father John J. O’Kane, who will be his vesting clergy at his ordination; Father Timothy A. Christy, his pastor at St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington, when he began formation for the diaconate; Father Kenneth D. Brighenti, his current pastor, and Father Joseph Kabali.

“They have all been very supportive of me and guided me throughout the process,” Deacon Cozzi said.

The other men studying for the diaconate have also been a wonderful support. “These are some of the finest men I know.”

Cozzi and his wife, Linda, have

been members of St. Magdalen de tradition. “Going to the classes helped Pazzi Parish for 21 years. They have me to see that everything just makes been married for 27 years and have sense.” three children, Christopher 21, Jason Through this formation he has 18 and Alex 13. “Linda was the spiritu- come to a greater love and appreciation al one and always more of his family for their involved in church. She unfailing support of “I feel that I am has been so supportive him. “I couldn’t have of me,” he said. done it without them.” not worthy to He noted his wife Cozzi is currently be here where I attended all of the speserving the parish as cial sessions that the a lector, extraordinary am. God called wives were invited to minister of holy Comattend and has made munion, Knights of the me for a reason. I some wonderful friends Holy Altar Ministry will serve and in with the other wives.

Leader, assistant adAll three of their sons vocate at the diocesan serving I hope to are altar servers and Tribunal and the Parish find out what God Ministry chair. plan to serve for their father’s first Mass of He is a Fourth has planned for Thanksgiving after his Degree member of the ordination.

Knights of Columbus, me and my new “The journey has Knights of Columbus NJ ministry.” been wonderful,” he State Squires Regional said. “Our faith as a Coordinator (Knights family has grown treYouth Program), and a mendously since starting this journey youth baseball and football coach. five years ago. It was a great learning He earned a degree in computer tool for all of us. We would have fam- science and business management. His ily discussions on the materials I would trade is in the field of technology and bring home from class.” he is currently employed as a program Through the process, they learned manager at SHI International. as a family that everything done in the After ordination, Deacon Cozzi Church has a purpose and is rich in is looking forward to serving God, the

Anthony Cozzi

May God’s love and blessing be upon you, and may He give you continued grace, peace and wisdom as you are ordained a deacon The Parish Family of

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St. Magdalen de Pazzi Flemington

Deacon Anthony Cozzi was ordained June 15 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. people of his parish and all those in need in any way that he is called.

“I feel that I am not worthy to be here where I am. God called me for a reason. I will serve and in serving I hope to find out what God has planned for me and my new ministry,” he said.

— Karen Corpora

The Holy Name Society of Saint Ann’s Parish in Hampton extends prayerful congratulations to

Gilbert Starcher

on the occasion of his ordination as a Transitional Deacon.

Gilbert, we ask God’s continued blessings on you as you continue to follow His call.

to the kids and their activities while they recently retired pastor Father Maurice T. were young,” he said.

Carlton; and Father Gerard Lair, who asThe perfect storm came together sisted at the parish on the weekends. as the diocese was forming his class. “I “I came to understand through these attended the information men that I could be called night for the class and with all my flaws,” Dea“I attended the inhere I am, five years latcon Fortier said. “These formation night for men of God reassured er,” he said. “It’s been an experience of a lifetime that I should pursue the class and here I me and has greatly deepened my calling as they were my faith. Sometimes am, five years later. regular guys like me that there are just no words answered God’s call. I It’s been an experi- was blessed to have them to describe it.” He added, “Michele attended all in my life at that time. ence of a lifetime the informational meet“One of the most and has greatly ings and has always been rewarding aspects of supportive. She goes to diaconate for me deepened my faith. the everything she is invited is the brotherhood that to.”

I’ve developed with the Sometimes there The Fortiers have men in the class,” he are just no words been married for 31 years added. “Their friendship, and have three children, prayers, love and support to describe it.”

Rachele, 30, Stephanie, has been great for me. I 26, and Zachary, 22. now have a new deeper A master plumber by trade, Deacon understanding of my faith.”

Fortier has been working in the field Deacon Fortier is also active in faith since he was 15. For the past 30 years, formation — confirmation PREP; and he has worked at Berkeley Heights-based serves as a lector and extraordinary minWeltman Home Services and is its gen- ister of holy Communion. He also visits eral manager. the homebound and sick in the hospital.

Deacon Fortier cited three men who Some of his interests include campwere very inspirational on his journey ing, gardening, cooking, working on the to the diaconate: Deacon McGovern, house and entertaining friends. his vesting clergy at his ordination; his “It is a gift to have been called, accepted

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Less than 15 years ago, deacon candidate Deacon Steven Fortier seemed like the typical father, married, working, juggling activities for his three children, trying to maintain the house and doing what he thought needed to be done.

However, his wife, Michele, was much more active in the Church and made it her job to have the children receive religious formation.

“I would go to Mass occasionally for the major holidays and when the kids were giving my wife a hard time about going to church. As long as I went everybody else would get in the car,” Deacon Fortier said.

When asked to make a Cornerstone Retreat at his parish, St. Joseph in High Bridge, he very reluctantly attended. “I went mostly because my wife wanted me to go,” but, he admitted, “it had a profound impact on my life.”

During the retreat, Tom McGovern, who is now a deacon, shared a very moving reflection, which resulted in Deacon Fortier attending Mass more regularly.

He began helping with future Cornerstone Retreats and getting more and more involved in activities at the parish, which ultimately led him to the diaconate.

Deacon Fortier noted that he thought about joining the diaconate on several occasions, but things always seemed to get in the way. “I wanted to give my time

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Deacon Steven Fortier

Steven Fortier was ordained June 15 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Meuchen. and then to actually make it through this process,” he said. “I believe the only reason I have been able to succeed is because of all the prayers and through the power of the Holy Spirit. It’s a true blessing. My biggest hope is that I can give back enough and share this blessing.”

— Karen Corpora

Congratulations

Deacon Steve Fortier from your Family Parish at St. Joseph Church in High Bridge THE CATHOLIC SPIRIT

May you be filled with the Spirit of Wisdom during many years of Ministry as a Holy Deacon!

JUNE 27, 2019

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Deacon Patrick O'Boyle Years of praying daily for the Blessed Mother’s intercession inspired Deacon Patrick O’Boyle to hear God’s call to pursue the permanent diaconate.

“I credit the Blessed Virgin Mary through devotion to the rosary for my decision to enter my diaconate formation,” Deacon O’Boyle said. “I was born on our Lady of Mount Carmel’s feast day and always felt close to her.”

The youngest child of MaryAnn and the late Leo O’Boyle, he grew up in Dunmore, Pa., a community where the Catholic faith had a strong presence.

Deacon O’Boyle’s entire family practiced the Catholic faith, but his mother was the one who “planted a lot of seeds,” including his devotion to Mary.

“My mother was probably the one with the most faith,” he said. “She is a rock in her faith.”

He attended Dunmore Elementary School through the fifth grade and completed his elementary education at St. Mary of Mount Carmel School, also in Dunmore. He graduated from Dunmore High School.

He earned a bachelor’s degree in criminal justice at the University of Scranton (Pa.), and worked as a police officer with the Dunmore Police Department from 1990 until 1994, when he began his career at Unifirst Corpo-

ration, where he is currently a district service supervisor.

Deacon O’Boyle continued the habit of praying a daily rosary throughout his life, and he and his wife Karen frequently pray the rosary with their three children, Kara, about to graduate high school; Kaitlin, a freshman in high school; and Patrick Jr., a sixth-grader.

“It’s a tremendous peace I get from praying the rosary,” Deacon O’Boyle said. “You get graces from God. It gets you through all the difficult things in life.”

A member of Our Lady of Victories Parish, Baptistown, Deacon O’Boyle has served as an extraordinary minister of holy Communion and as a lector since 2012. His desire to be a permanent deacon sprang from his devotion to Mary and his experience in these positions of service.

“It came from there — it felt like a calling,” he said.

Deacon O’Boyle went to an informational session hosted by the diocese in 2014 and “kept going” after that.

His wife was “all for it,” telling him: “I think this is right up your alley,” he recalled.

With young children at home, the time commitment required to attend classes, minister in the parish, and

complete community service as he prepared for his vocation has been a challenge.

“It’s a big sacrifice,” he said. Yet, his children have all supported him, although it has meant being away from home more and struggling to balance work, family, and school.

“The kids were at peace with it,” he said. When he first broached the idea, they were enthusiastic.

“They actually were just telling me to do it,” he said. “They thought it was a great idea.”

Throughout his diaconal education — two nights each week — he did not get home until 10:30 p.m.

“I would have to say it was challenging but yet very rewarding,” Deacon O’Boyle said. “The education was outstanding. It was second-to-none as far as preparing us to go out there and to be of service to the Church and be able to answer people’s questions with confidence.”

Thanks to his studies at Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology at Seton Hall University, South Orange, Deacon O’Boyle said he’s learned things about the Catholic faith that he used to “have no clue about,” including the history of the Church, the Gospel writings and the people of Jesus’s time.

Deacon Patrick O'Boyle was ordained June 15 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen.

He is especially looking forward to proclaiming the Gospel and elevating the chalice during the Canon of the Mass.

“It’s a tremendous honor to be elevating the Blood of Christ,” he said.

“It’s mind-boggling, it really is. It’s hard to comprehend.”

— Teresa Murphy

Congratulations

Kevin O’Brien

on your ordination to the diaconate May God watch over you and your family and guide you thru your journey Fr. Damian D. Breen, Pastor Fr. Roberto da Silva, Weekend Assistant and the Parish Community of

Corpus Christi

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South River

against becoming a priest, he holds a master’s in divinity and theology from his fouryear course of studies there. In 1993, he received his master’s degree in social work from Columbia University, New York.

From there, he began his work with poor and marginalized members of society as a social work supervisor with the Legal Aid Society in New York City. He interviewed people in jail to help prepare for criminal defense cases.

“I started looking at that as a ministry,” Deacon O’Brien said. “You know, I didn’t overtly preach the Gospel, but I kind of lived the Gospel with all these folks … it whetted my appetite in a way, to discern active ministry in the diaconate.”

Deacon O’Brien sees his career as an opportunity to serve in a Christ-like way. After leaving the Legal Aid Society, he has continued his social work career, working for Aetna in behavioral health clinical management since 2017.

“I see [social work] as an extension of the Gospel,” he said, referencing Matthew 20:28: “The Son of Man did not come to be served but to serve.”

Deacon O’Brien celebrated his 26th wedding anniversary with his wife, Humbelina, in June. They have one daughter and one granddaughter, who both live at home with them.

The couple has volunteered for years

as religious education instructors in their parish of Corpus Christi, South River. Deacon O’Brien also teaches Rite of Christian Initiation of Adults classes. Volunteering in the parish in the 1990s reignited his desire to be an ordained minister, as did meeting the late Deacon Paul Featherman, who came from St. Thomas the Apostle, Old Bridge, to help at Corpus Christi.

Deacon O’Brien marveled at Deacon Featherman’s ability to balance marriage, raising kids, a fulltime job, and the diaconate.

“We had some good talks,” O’Brien said, recalling Featherman’s advice to “stay focused, stay balanced, learn to say ‘no’ when you need to, constantly take it back to Jesus, and keep your prayer life focused.”

“He was a good mentor,” he said.

Deacon O’Brien postponed entering diaconal formation in order to devote more time to raising his daughter while she was young. Four years ago, he decided the time was right.

“My wife was very happy,” Deacon O’Brien said of his decision to pursue the diaconate. “It seemed like a natural fit for us.”

During formation, Deacon O’Brien chose the apostolate of visiting a skilled nursing center, Reformed Church Home in Old Bridge, and hopes to continue offering Communion services and visiting

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For Deacon Kevin V. O’Brien of Corpus Christi Parish, South River, the permanent diaconate is the perfect way to “meld together” his lifetime of service as a social worker and his background in theology from time spent discerning the priesthood as a young man.

“When Jesus talks about how he didn’t come to be served, but to serve, I see that as a model for myself,” he said.

Deacon O’Brien was one of four children raised by the late Cora and Vincent O’Brien, who were active in their parish.

He remembers going door-to-door with his father to take the parish census and ask registered parishioners to consider coming back to church. His mother volunteered to arrange entertainment for elderly parishioners at the parish.

“Seeing her putting the faith into practice, that was a witness to the rest of us, to see how the faith came into play,” Deacon O’Brien said.

He attended Our Lady of Mount Virgin School, Middlesex, graduated from Middlesex High School, Middlesex; and received his bachelor’s degree in communications at Seton Hall University, South Orange, where he first felt the call to ordained ministry.

From 1984 to 1988, he attended Mount St. Mary’s Seminary, Emmitsburg, Md., and while he ultimately decided

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Deacon Kevin V. O’Brien

Deacon Kevin V. O’Brien was ordained June 15 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. residents as a deacon. Although he is feeling nervous about beginning ministry as a deacon, he plans to “keep praying and keep focused.”

He is most looking forward to being able to help Corpus Christi parishioners, who he said have supported him and Humbelina throughout their marriage.

— Teresa Murphy

Deacon William P. Weber Jr. While preparing for the diaconate, Deacon Weber’s father, his wife’s father and his sister died. It was a challenge to be there for them while they were ill and dying or when periods of grief coincided with exams. “I just put it in God’s hands,” he said.

Despite the challenges, Deacon Weber has earned the Pope Francis Medal for Academic Excellence earlier this year from Immaculate Conception Seminary School of Theology at Seton Hall University.

He is pursuing certification from the National Association of Catholic Chaplains to be a hospital chaplain. In the third year of diaconate formation, candidates are required to perform 40 hours of community service, separate from their service in the parish.

Deacon Weber chose to visit patients at Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick.

“I tend to be fairly reserved, so it was very much out of my comfort zone to walk into a stranger’s room and strike up a conversation,” he said. “I discovered that there was something about that work that was very fulfilling and it just felt right … this is my ministry of charity that I’m being called to do.”

Toward this goal, he recently completed the first out of four units of clinical pastoral education. At completion of the program, he will have received 400 hours of instruction and spent a minimum of 1,200 hours ministering to patients.

Deacon Weber looks to the other dea-

Deacon William P. Weber Jr. was ordained June 15 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. cons at his parish for inspiration and guidance. Serving at the altar as an acolyte since last fall has been “incredible,” he said. “I don’t know how to express it. I can’t imagine what it will be like … it’s humbling.”

He particularly looks forward to being at the altar at the moment of the Consecration, “the center of our faith,” he said.

“As the deacon being at the Consecration, you’re right next to the priest during that miracle.”

— Teresa Murphy

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Raised in a deeply Catholic family, Deacon Weber attended Mass with his first wife, and after her death continued to bring his young children to Mass every week. But he became more involved in parish life in 2012, about a year after marrying his second wife, Lisa, whose first spouse had also died at a young age. When Lisa and her children went through the Rite of Chrsitian Initiaton of Adults formation, he learned more about the Catholic faith alongside her. Together, he and Lisa became extraordinary ministers of holy Communion. He also became a lector again, which he had done as a high school student.

When his younger sister was diagnosed with lung cancer, the same disease that had taken his first wife, Deacon Weber began attending daily Mass. At the end of each Mass, he joined in reciting a prayer for vocations, which specifically mentioned the permanent diaconate. It was this prayer that sparked his interest in joining the permanent diaconate class that formed in 2014.

When he told his wife Lisa that he felt he might have a calling to the permanent diaconate, she told him that seemed like “an awesome thing” for him and has enthusiastically supported him since, also helping him to balance his studies with family commitments.

His children and step-children have been supportive and understanding of the times he was away in order to complete his studies and volunteer commitments.

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Deacon William P. Weber Jr. has dedicated himself to the service of others for years and is looking forward to giving even more of himself to God in service of his people as a permanent deacon.

His parents, Mary and the late William Weber Sr., were practicing Catholics. His mother had a devotion to St. Jude, “patron of impossible cases,” whom she credited with healing Weber from frequent seizures that began occurring after he fell at age three but disappeared completely the following year.

He attended St. Peter’s Elementary School, Pleasantville; and Absegami High School, Galloway Township; before majoring in mathematics and computer science at Drexel University, Philadelphia, where he earned a bachelor’s degree. He earned a master’s degree in computer science at Brown University, Providence, R.I.; and certification as a project management professional from the executive program at Stanford University (Calif.). In addition, in his diaconal studies, he received his master’s degree in theology in December 2018.

Deacon Weber, a member of St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Parish, Three Bridges, has received the prestigious Seton Hall University (South Orange) Servant Leader award twice in recognition of his volunteer work as a Court Appointed Special Advocate (CASA), advocating for children in the New Jersey foster care system, a work he does together with his wife, Lisa.

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The Parish Family of Saint Ann, Hampton extends prayerful best wishes to

Gilbert Starcher

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on the occasion of his ordination as a Transitional Deacon.

GILBERT, MAY GOD CONTINUE TO BLESS, PROTECT AND GUIDE YOU.

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Sacred Heart Brother Louis Couvillon, and “Empowerment,” by Father Peter R. Cebulka, provost of the Congregation of the Oratory of St. Philip Neri.

Two men scheduled to ordained to the priesthood for the diocese June 22, Deacon Matthew Marinelli and Deacon Michael Tabernero, presented their reflections on the gifts of piety, fear of the Lord and fortitude. Christian Charity Sister Matilde DeLucy and Christian Charity Sister Faustina Nguyen led the chaplet of Divine Mercy, while Filippini Sister Barbara O’Kane conducted the Office of Readings.

Music and witness were shared by a Hispanic charismatic group at midnight, while others offered quiet, reflective songs and hymns during Adoration of the Blessed Sacrament.

The vigil ended early Sunday morning with a closing prayer and Eucharistic blessing by Father Christy.

Lizaine Saranglao, a member of St. Peter Parish and member of the schola that sang during the Mass, found the vigil invigorating.

“Through the reflections shared, the praise and worship, and the time to be with our Lord, it appeared as if we were in our own Upper Room,” Saranglao said. “There was a moment during the evening to pray over one another to invite the Holy Spirit and it was very humbling to witness the desire of those in our diocesan community to know the Holy Spirit in a new way and allow Him to transform their lives and the lives of those they love.”

This was the first all-night vigil for Deacon Tabernero’s mother, Mary, a member of St. Joseph Parish, Hillsborough. She found it “a fulfilling time with the Lord” in the days preceding her son’s ordination to the priesthood.

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motions. But when the Holy Spirit comes to a person of faith, it gives meaning, direction and purpose.

“Jesus promised the Holy Spirit will be your advocate, and lead you into all truth,” Father Christy continued. “If we can hold onto that truth in the midst of this life, know we are loved and willed and wanted by God, how different life can become.”

The Church needs to be reawakened in our time, and the Holy Spirit “gives us personal knowledge of the heart of God,” he said. “It sets us free and gives us the peace the world does not know: living water. Streams of water will flow from you,” Father Christy promised the congregation.

“The world is extraordinarily thirsty.”

The vicar general issued a challenge to the faithful seated before him: become a living Sacrament and be transformed by the Holy Spirit.

“Pray tonight as you never have before, with expectant faith,” Father Christy beseeched them. “Take a risk.

This Pentecost is a great opportunity.”

Silently, hour after hour, faithful from throughout the diocese took up that challenge, remaining in the Cathedral for all or parts of the 12hour vigil to hear clergy and men and women religious share their wisdom and faith in a series of presentations on the seven gifts of the Holy Spirit and related topics.

The catechetical talks included “With Mary in prayer in the Upper Room,” with Msgr. Joseph G. Celano, Episcopal Vicar for Administration and pastor of St. Peter Parish; “Who is the Holy Spirit,” by Brother Jude Lasota, a member of the Brotherhood of Hope; “The Gifts of Wisdom, Knowledge and Understanding,” with Jesus our Hope Sister Christine Quense; “The Gift of Counsel,” with

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All-night vigil included Mass, music, catechetical talks, reconciliation

Above, the faithful fill the pews at the Pentecost Vigil. Right, Msgr. Joseph G. Celano gives a catechetical talk. Below, Father Timothy A. Christy (second from left) presides at Eucharisitic adoration.

— John Batkowski photos

“I found great peace in my time of preparation,” Tabernero said. “There was camaraderie among the people in the pews. I met people I didn’t know

before, and we cried and laughed and prayed together during the night. I hope the diocese will consider holding this again. It had a great impact.”

Welcome at the Table

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—photos courtesy of Sister Kathleen Rooney

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Father Jonathan S. Toborowsky, center in both photos, recently presided at a Mass in which two inmates at Edna Mahon Women’s Correctional Facility, Union Township, were initiated into the Church. In photo at far left, Father Toborowsky, pastor, Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, is shown with (from left): Teresa Verbout, sponsor, and Deanna Joseph, newly initiated; and Evy Muniz, newly initiated, and Debra Beningo, sponsor. Also attending were other Catholic inmates, volunteers from Immaculate Conception Parish, and St. Joseph Sister Kathleen Rooney, chaplain.

In second photo, Father Toborowsky poses with (from left): Brian Lazarus, Nora Burke Klippstein, Ann Standley, John Pezik, Barbara Fredericks, Sister Kathleen and Dr. Joy Lynch, supervisor of chaplains.

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Parish bids farewell to religious congregation after 62 years

By Christina Leslie Correspondent SOMERVILLE — Immaculate Conception Parish bid a fond, tearful farewell to the Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary June 8 and 9 in a series of Masses and receptions designed to express gratitude for the order’s legacy of service in the parish and its elementary and high schools.

Because of fewer religious sisters available for its many obligations, Immaculate Heart of Mary Sister Mary Ellen Tennity, the order’s General Superior, notified Msgr. Brennan that the order would withdraw from Immaculate Conception Parish and schools at the end of the current school year.

“I am feeling mixed emotions,” admitted Msgr. Seamus F. Brennan, pastor and director of its elementary school and high school. “The sisters have been here for 62 years, since 1957, and we must honor and thank them for their vocations and service to the parish.”

On Pentecost Sunday, the congregation did just that, hundreds of them, filling the large church on Mountain Avenue. Seated in front as guests of honor were some three dozen IHM sisters, clad in their powder blue habits, serving as a living testament to the scores who had once fulfilled integral ministries in the

Msgr. Seamus F. Brennan (second row, center), pastor, Immaculate Conception Parish, Somerville, and director of its elementary and high schools, poses with members of the Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary at lunch at the Bridgewater Marriott June 9.

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life of the Somerville parish and schools.

“We pray for all of you, for your vocations and the marvelous ways you served this parish,” said Msgr. Brennan, who presided at the Mass.

Concelebrants were Father Tholitho, director of Catholic identity at Immaculata High School; Father Anthony M. Sirianni, pastor, St. Helena Parish, Edison, who

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had worked with the sisters in Somerville some years earlier, and Dominican Father John M. Devaney, a 1994 graduate of Immaculata who serves as a New York City hospital chaplain.

In his homily, Msgr. Brennan fought back tears as he acknowledged the large congregation which had arrived to stand witness to the religious sisters’ charism in the faith community.

“St. Luke tells us today that people gathered in Jerusalem and had come from many different places. We have that here today,” he began. “The sisters have come from near and far, as have alumni of our schools, and parents who have known and worked with the sisters. The Holy Spirit called these sisters … given them a mission, and they have committed themselves to fulfill their mission in this parish.

“I received your magazine on Friday, thank God,” Msgr. Brennan continued over the sound of laughter from the congregation, then read, “Your mission statement is, ‘The Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary of Immaculata, Pennsylvania, proclaim the Gospel message in the spirit of Jesus the Redeemer. Strengthened by a life of vowed consecration, nurtured by prayer and the Eucharist, and sustained by community living, we radiate joyful service and promote Gospel values, offering compassion to all God’s people through our mission to evangelize, to catechize, and to teach.’

“Since 1957, these sisters have lived that mission here… For that we say today, ‘Thank you, sisters,’” he said, pausing to wipe a tear from his eye as the congregation broke out into prolonged, enthusiastic applause. “As pastor, I speak on behalf of the entire community as I say, ‘This parish is grateful.’”

A reception in the school’s cafeteria proved to be a perfect place for parishioners and religious to renew old friend-

ships. Debbie Berger, a 33-year member of the parish, distributed sheet cake and smiles as she reminisced how she met her husband at the parish, then educated her children in the parish elementary school as she worked in the parish office.

“It’s unbelievable. I’m heartbroken,” Berger said of the sisters’ impending departure. “But their charism will live on. They were such a part of the school. Now my daughter teaches in the same kindergarten classroom she used to attend.”

When asked which religious sister had a major impact on her life, Elizabeth Amatucci Gleason immediately found Sister Brenda Query in the crowded cafeteria and posed for a photo with her.

Sister Brenda, formerly Sister Brandon Joseph, had taught the woman’s younger sister at the school and the two of them had kept in touch for decades after.

“We are friends for life,” Amatucci Gleason said of the religious standing beside her. Reflecting upon their departure from Immaculate Conception, she continued, “It’ll be an adjustment, but they have left us so much of their practices, we will continue their traditions.”

“I was here beginning in 1974, and it was my first assignment. I had a great foundation in teaching and the local community,” Sister Brenda continued, noting that she had been one of 25 religious sisters stationed at the parish.

“There was great spirit and camaraderie in communal life.”

At a luncheon later that day at the Bridgewater Marriott, Msgr. Brennan said, “We trust in God and his providence. While we prepare to say farewell to the sisters, we know that deep, spiritual bonds will always remain, and we will continue to support each other in prayer.”

Sister Mary Virginia Quinn, who had headed the convent for the two schools, thanked those with whom the IHM Sisters have worked over the years, saying, “We are united through Mary and her Son. We pledge to keep you in our prayers and memories.”

Because of scheduling conflicts, Bishop James F. Checchio was unable to attend the event but sent a framed letter commemorating the IHM Sisters’ service to the Diocese of Metuchen and a Papal Blessing marking their faithful service.

Supporters of the schools and parish raised $30,000 for “In Her Memory,” a scholarship and retirement fund that will support Immaculate Conception and Immaculata students in need and the retirement community of the IHMs. Contributions to the fund can be made through the end of June by texting a short message and a monetary designation to (908) 386-4696. Instructions on how to fulfill pledges will be sent by reply text.

cial obligations. While the hospital Hospital, “Our patient satisfaction has NICVIEW cameras in the NICU, numbers are impressive, but we’re alwhich allows parents to securely view ways striving to exceed expectations.

Launching FaceTime in their child at any time, this the Neonatal Intensive new program with audio, Only those allows parents to become Care Unit (NICU) brings who have us exciting new capabilistrategic partners in their ties as we now have the child’s care. been given ability to engage parents Saint Peter’s Univerthe user into the decision-making sity Hospital is the first process, in real time, reregional hospital to fully name and garding the critical care equip its NICU with livestreaming cameras that password by treatment of their newborns when they are not make it possible for parents the baby’s here in the NICU. to view their baby from a “Parents are by far secure online portal. The parents can the most important memwebcam system provides view the ber of the treatment team, real-time viewing. It does which typically includes not store any video or pavideo. neonatologists, neonatal tient information. Sharing intensive care nurses, viewing privileges with close family and friends who live out pharmacists, nutritionists, and social of town are some of the advantages workers. Some of our most fragile to the NICVIEW system. Only those newborns stay in our NICU for long who have been given the user name periods of time. Expanding our direct and password by the baby’s parents line of communication with parents allows them to continuously play an accan view the video.

According to Dr. Mark Hiatt, tive role in treatment decisions while chief of Neonatology at The Children’s they return to work or home to care for Hospital at Saint Peter’s University their family.”

Saint Peter’s University Hospital, a member of Saint Peter’s Healthcare System, is a 478-bed acute-care teaching hospital sponsored by the Diocese of Metuchen.

Saint Peter’s is a state-designated children’s hospital and a regional perinatal center, and is a regional specialist in diabetes, gastroenterology with a specialized Heartburn and Reflux Center, oncology, orthopedics, and women’s services. The Children’s Hospital at Saint Peter’s University Hospital provides families with access to a full range of pediatric specialties, including the NICU, pediatric surgery and orthopedic surgery featuring innovative anterior scoliosis correction surgery. The hospital offers a midwifery service and has plans to open a brandnew state-of-the-art Birth Center in the fall.

Saint Peter’s is a sponsor of residency programs in obstetrics and gynecology, pediatrics and internal medicine, and is a major clinical affiliate with Rutgers Biomedical and Health Sciences.

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NEW BRUNSWICK — Saint Peter’s University Hospital’s Level III Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) provides advanced technologies, treatments and programs that address the needs of premature and fragile newborns. Saint Peter’s, which strives to be at the forefront of innovation in maternity services, is now the first in the state to offer LIVE video feed, with audio, in the NICU as part of its ongoing efforts to meet and exceed patient satisfaction.

The newly launched program uses FaceTime via iPads to keep new parents, not only visually connected to their newborns and their care, but also connected via audio. The technology makes it possible for families to bond with their premature or critical infant from any computer or mobile device from home, while at work or on-thego.

For parents of infants who require long-term care in the NICU, sometimes up to 70 to 80 days, it can be a challenging time as they’re often forced to return home just a few days after giving birth, to care for other siblings or resume work and finan-

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Saint Peter’s University Hospital ranked 34th in U.S. for neonatal care

Above left, Dr. Mark Hiatt, director, Neonatal Intensive Care Unit and chief of the Division of Neonatal Medicine at Saint Peter’s University Hospital. Above right, Registered nurse Delena Allen, nurse manager, Neonatal Intensive Care Unit at Saint Peter’s University Hospital. — photos courtesy of Saint Peter’s University Hospital in our NICU for several days or several months, our team truly makes a difference in the lives of families, ensuring that every premature or fragile newborn cared for in the NICU receives the highest level of quality care.

“Congratulations to Dr. Mark Hiatt, director of the NICU and chief of the Division of Neonatal Medicine, and [registered nurse] Delena Allen, NICU nurse manager, for their outstanding leadership of the NICU, as well as to every other member of the NICU team for achieving this unprecedented recognition of Saint Peter’s!”

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specialists. The rankings methodology factors in important patient outcomes measures, such as mortality and infection rates, as well as available clinical resources and compliance with best practices.

“We have long recognized the expertise and compassion of our physicians, nurses and support staff, but it is our families who have provided confirmation of today’s national ranking. Time and again, our families have sung the praises of our NICU team for providing a level of skill that is unmatched. Whether their child has been

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NEW BRUNSWICK — “U.S. News Association of Critical-Care Nurses, and World Report” has ranked Saint the first hospital in New Jersey to Peter’s University Hospital as one of achieve this distinction. the top 50 children’s hospitals in the “It is certainly an honor to be country for neonatology, Leslie D. among the best children’s hospitals in Hirsch, interim chief executive officer the country recognized for excellence and president of Saint in neonatal care. Our Peter’s Healthcare NICU provides adSystem, announced vanced technologies “Whether their child and treatment proJune 18.

Saint Peter’s was grams that translate has been in our ranked 34th and is to the best possible NICU for several days outcomes, but it is listed among some of the finest children’s our team of speciallyor several months, hospitals nationally, trained physicians, Hirsch said. nurses and support our team truly Saint Peter’s was staff that truly makes makes a difference the only children’s the difference.” hospital in New Jer“According to in the lives of famisey recognized among ‘U.S. News & World lies, ensuring that the top 50 nationally Report,’ the Best Chilfor neonatal care. “It dren’s Hospitals rankevery premature is the first time Saint ings were designed to Peter’s has received help provide families or fragile newborn such recognition and seeking the best medicared for in the NICU cal care for their sick we are very proud of this accomplishment,” child with access to receives the highest Hirsch said. the most comprehenlevel of quality care.” sive data available.

In a June 18 The rankings, coupled letter announcing —Leslie D. Hirsch the ranking for the with guidance from diocese-sponsored pediatricians, help hospital, Hirsch said, “Our Level III families make better-informed decisions Neonatal Intensive Care Unit (NICU) about where to find high-quality, comis among the largest in the country and passionate care for their children when has achieved numerous accolades over they need it most. the years. Most recently, the NICU “The ‘U.S. News’ Best Children’s received its second Beacon Award for Hospitals rankings rely on clinical data Nursing Excellence by the American and on an annual survey of pediatric

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June 19, 2019 Dear brothers and sisters: In our catechesis on the Acts of the Apostles, we now turn to the descent of the Holy Spirit upon the Apostles gathered in prayer with Mary, the Mother of Jesus, in the Upper Room. On the day of Pentecost, the Spirit came, in fulfilment of Christ’s promise, accompanied by violent wind and tongues of fire. These signs evoke God’s majestic self-manifestation to Moses in the burning bush and the giving of the Law on Mount Sinai. The Church was thus born from the fire of God’s love and the power of his word.

Peter, filled with the Holy Spirit, immediately inaugurates the Church’s mission of evangelization, proclaiming the Risen Jesus before the crowds and calling them to faith and conversion. The outpouring of the Spirit at Pentecost reveals that the heart of the new and eternal Covenant is no longer the written word of the Law, but the living presence of the Spirit, who renews all creation, dwells in our hearts, builds unity from diversity, and everywhere brings about reconciliation and communion. May the same Spirit lead us to experience a new Pentecost and to become joyful and convincing witnesses to the Risen Christ in our world.

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In the Nicene Creed, we recite that Christ "will come again in glory to judge the living and the dead." But many of us assume that we are judged individually (and hopefully off to heaven) at the moment of our death. So which is it -- are we judged by God as soon as we die or is it later, at Christ's return? (Herndon, Virginia)

Dear Lord, There is no greater feeling of liberation than to experience this freedom from sin and death that you have provided for me through Jesus Christ. Today my heart and my soul are free to praise you. For this I am very thankful.

On this Independence Day I am reminded of all those who have sacrificed for my freedom, following the example of your Son, Jesus Christ. Let me not take my freedom, both physical and spiritual, for granted. May I always remember that my freedom was purchases with a very high price. My freedom cost others their very lives.

Lord, today, bless those who have served and continue to give their lives for my freedom. With favor and bounty meet their needs and watch over their families.

Help me to live my life in a way that glorifies you, Lord. Give me the strength to be a blessing in someone else’s life today, and grant me the opportunity to lead others into the freedom that can be found in knowing Christ.

Amen.

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By Father Kenneth Doyle Both are true. The Catholic Church has always believed in a twofold judgment by God: a particular judgment at the moment of death and a general judgment at the end of time.

So immediately when we die, each individual is judged as either worthy of eternal life in heaven (there may be a temporary stop in purgatory for purification from the remnants of sin) or deserving of eternal punishment in hell.

In the words of the Catechism of the Catholic Church: "Each man receives his eternal retribution in his immortal soul at the very moment of his death, in a particular

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judgment that refers his life to Christ" (No. 1022). That particular judgment will be private.

But then at the end of the world, when Jesus returns in glory, there will be a public "general" judgment at which each one's particular judgment will be confirmed and revealed to all. Again, in the words of the catechism: "The Last Judgment will reveal even to its furthest consequences the good each person has done or failed to do during his earthly life" (No. 1039).

Are the movie ratings done by Catholic News Service binding in conscience? I am a young adult and am curious to know whether all movies rated as acceptable either for general patronage, for adults and adolescents or only for adults are OK for me to watch so long as they do not lead me to sin.

In other words, if a film contains occasional sinful action -- bad language, impure jokes, sexual content (no nudity), violence -- is it OK for me to attend or is my own presence scandalous since it might encourage attendance by others for whom the same scenes might be more troublesome? (Oklahoma City)

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As Catholic News Service explains on its website, the material provided by its Media Review Office is intended "to provide the public with a spiritual, moral and artistic evaluation … based on the standards of faith and morals presented in Scripture and transmitted by the church's teaching authority."

The office's determination of a movie's merit and acceptability is made not so much on whether a film portrays immoral and unethical behavior but on "the extent that any film ... positively endorses such behavior as either normative or acceptable."

The office's reviews and classifications are meant simply to offer guidance; only the individual knows how a film might affect him or her, and you correctly indicate that one should avoid any movie that might create temptations to which one is likely to succumb or move the viewer away from Christian values.

To your question, I think you needn't worry that your own presence at an A-I, A-II or A-III movie night be scandalous to someone else; that person needs to make his own decision. What I would not do, though, is bring anyone else to see a problematic film if I were not sure how that other person might react.

Questions may be sent to Father Kenneth Doyle at askfatherdoyle@gmail.com and 30 Columbia Circle Dr., Albany, NY 12203.

Honor elders' remembrance of the past In June, we observed the 75th anniversary of D-Day, the massive invasion in Normandy, France, that led to the Allied victory in World War II. Extensive media coverage allowed us to participate in the events surrounding this anniversary from afar.

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French young people who tend the graves of the fallen at the Normandy American cemetery, as well as a group of high school students in North Carolina even raised $25,000 to send two veterans to Normandy for the celebrations.

I was especially struck by one of the speakers who suggested that we should honor the D-Day survivors and learn from them by listening to them and sharing with them. Listening in order to remember and learn from the past – this is also a constant theme in the writings of Pope Francis, especially “Christus Vivit,” his recent letter on young people.

Quoting from the Book of Proverbs he encourages young people, “‘Listen to your father who begot you, and do not despise your mother when she is old.’ It is really a

matter of being open to receiving a wisdom passed down from generation to generation,” he writes, “a wisdom familiar with human weakness and not deserving to vanish before the novelties” of our current culture.

Pope Francis tells seniors that they should be “memory keepers.” He envisions elders “as a permanent choir of a great spiritual sanctuary, where prayers of supplication and songs of praise support the larger community that works and struggles in the field of life.”

To young people Pope Francis says, “It is a good thing to let older people tell their long stories, which sometimes seem legendary or fanciful – they are the dreams of old people – yet are often full of rich experiences, of eloquent symbols, of hidden messages. These stories take time to tell, and we should be prepared to listen patiently and let them sink in, even though they are much longer than what we are used to in the social media. We have to realize that the wisdom needed for life bursts the confines of our present-day media resources.”

Listening is a two-way street. The pope also tells older adults that they must know how to listen to the young and offer themselves as role models! He speaks of listening and accompaniment as charisms in the Church – gifts given to an individual for the good of all.

A group of delegates to last October’s Synod on Youth specified what they look

for in role models. The qualities of a good mentor, they said, include: “being a faithful Christian who engages with the Church and the world; someone who constantly seeks holiness; someone who is a confidant without judgment.

Similarly, someone who actively listens to the needs of young people and responds in kind; someone deeply loving and self-aware; someone who recognizes his or her limits and knows the joys and sorrows of the spiritual journey.”

The young people said that an especially important quality in mentors is “the acknowledgement of their own humanity” – the fact that they are human beings who make mistakes: not perfect people but forgiven sinners. Role models should walk alongside youth, they said, respecting their freedom and nurturing seeds of faith, without expecting to see immediate fruits.

This summer as we find ourselves gathered at picnics, vacation destinations and family reunions let’s honor this ideal of listening in order to remember and learn from the past.

Let’s share our memories, experiences, hopes and dreams across the generations and celebrate our common experiences as children of one heavenly Father!

Sister Constance Veit is director of communications for the Little Sisters of the Poor.

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Use freedom to follow Jesus We mark this 13th Sunday in Ordinary Time amid this Religious Freedom Week, a period of special prayer and reflection called by our American Catholic Bishops as a time for strengthening our hope in Jesus as the way of facing and solving the problems that plague our church and our nation.

As well, this is also the beginning of the week in which we will celebrate the 243rd anniversary of our nation’s founding this Fourth of July. During our Independence Day observances we will hear much about the blessings of freedom or liberty. It is fortuitous then that our second reading this Sunday, taken from St. Paul’s Letter to the Galatians, also speaks about freedom — freedom as understood by the Christian community.

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By Msgr. John N. Fell The freedom trumpeted in so many parts of secular society can be characterized as freedom from something -- it is the freedom of the selfpossessed individual to do whatever he or she likes. While this kind of freedom has been responsible for much human progress, especially in the political field, it also has the unfortunate tendency to degenerate into licentiousness, that is, the belief that because I am free, it is legitimate and moral to do whatever I want. We can mistakenly assume that it is simply our ability to make choices, rather than the particular choices we make, that form our personal integrity. For example, in just a couple of Sundays we will read the Gospel of the Good Samaritan — in that story, several people made choices — the robbers chose to beat the traveler, the priest and Levite chose to ignore the injured man, and the Samaritan chose to help the unfortunate victim. Obviously, it is not simply the fact that the various actors were free to make choices that matters, it is the choices they made that determine their moral standing. The robbers, and to a lesser extent the priest and the Levite, used their ability to choose, and they chose badly. They used their freedom sinfully and uncaringly, and in so doing degraded themselves. The Samaritan, on the other hand, used his freedom to reach out as an exemplar of God’s mercy to someone who needed him very much -- how blessed he was in the eyes of God! Christian freedom instead is understood as freedom for something — the type of freedom that clears away anything that could hinder us from be-

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Those acknowledging their Christianity were arrested and executed.

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The feast of these earliest martyrs of the Roman church is celebrated a day after the joint feast of Peter and Paul. The Roman historian Tacitus said the protomartyrs were to be pitied “for it was felt that they were being sacrificed to one man’s brutality.”

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coming the person God intends. It is the freedom to be the most we can be in God’s eyes. In this sense, freedom for God becomes freedom from sin and selfishness. St. Paul writes to the Galatians, “You were called for freedom, brothers and sisters,” but reminds them, “do not use this freedom as an opportunity for the flesh; rather, serve one another through love” (Gal 5:13). In warning the Galatians against the flesh, Paul is speaking not only about sexual excesses, but about anything that could block their progress toward God. The “Catechism of the Catholic Church” says that “human freedom is a force for growth and maturity in truth and goodness; it attains its perfection when directed toward God . . .” (par. 1731).

St. Paul tells us that Christ’s death on the cross won our freedom from sin; our freedom is a gift of God — to be used to come closer to him, not to do whatever we want. By Jesus’ dying and rising, he showed the world that the forces of evil could be mastered by those who love God. Paul understood well the value, but also the danger, of freedom. He encouraged all Christians to follow the guidance of the Holy Spirit in their use of this hard-won gift; without the constant guidance of the Holy Spirit, Paul knew that freedom could degenerate into wanton selfishness or worse. Paul recognizes that God is the source of freedom, but like any other of our great human capacities, without divine guidance, freedom can be misused and even turned against us.

We hear these readings at the end of the Religious Freedom Week. Our bishops have asked us to engage in prayer, fasting, and political action in order to make sure that our voices and those of others inspired by genuine religious faith and conscience can continue to be heard and operate freely within our culture. Powerful forces within our country conspire to pervert or silence those who dare to inject a moral viewpoint into our public debate; they are threatening to degrade our American tradition of liberty into a public expectation of freedom from religion for their own political ends. Once our religious voices have been silenced in the public arena, who will speak for the moral point of view?

As we reflect on the readings this Sunday, may we recognize our freedom ultimately as a tool God gives us to respond well to the call that Jesus addresses to each of us in this Sunday’s Gospel, “Follow me” (Lk 9:59), and in so doing, best serve to build up our communities, nation, and world.

Msgr. Fell is a Scripture scholar and director, diocesan Office of Priest Personnel

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Mockoviak, who also serves on the Steering Committee of the diocesan Catholic Charismatic Renewal, discovered that she was an outspoken Christian, opening and closing every JUNE 27, 2019

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“meet and greet” tour session with a prayer. She held Bible studies with the other contestants on “The Voice.”

She brought contestants to her home on holidays if they lived far from their own homes.

“God used her to touch my heart and soul,” Mockoviak said, struggling to hold back tears. “I learned more from her about faith than from anyone else. I am more firm and committed because of her. When she was interviewed, she wouldn’t let them get off her faith.”

Mockoviak’s book about her, “Forever in Our Hearts — The Life, Faith and Legacy of Christina Grim-

mie,” is scheduled to be published this summer by Covenant Books.

Mockoviak said Grimmie’s father read the manuscript and told him, “You captured her personality and faith to a T, including the horror of that day.”

On Sept. 2, 2018, Christina’s mother died of breast cancer. The twofold missions of the Christina Grimmie Foundation, based upon the two family tragedies, are victims of gun violence and breast cancer support.

More information about the foundation is available on the website www.ChristinaGrimmieFoundation. org

Journey of Faith

By Father John Gerard Hillier

consecrated in order to preach the Gospel and shepherd the faithful as well as to celebrate divine worship as true priests of the New Testament” (ccc 1564). In short, through the Sacrament of Holy Orders, “priests share in the universal dimensions of the mission that Christ entrusted to the apostles” (ccc 1565). “The bishop considers them his co-workers, his sons, his brothers and his friends” (ccc 1567).

“At a lower level of the hierarchy are to be found deacons” (ccc 1569). Deacons “assist the bishop and priests in the celebration of the divine mysteries, above all the Eucharist, in the distribution of Holy Communion, in assisting at and blessing marriages” (ccc 1570). The Sacrament of Holy Orders imprints an indelible sacramental character on the newly ordained deacons, “which cannot be removed and which configures them to Christ, who made himself the ‘deacon’ or servant of all” (ccc 1570).

It is important to emphasize, however, that those ordained to the diaconate do not share in ministerial priesthood of Jesus Christ. They continue to share in the common priesthood of the baptized.

Our next article will deal with the “Celebration of the Sacrament of Holy Orders.”

Father Hillier serves as Director of the Office of the Pontifical Mission Societies, Censor Librorum and oversees the Office for Persons with Disabilities

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Who is eligible to receive the Sacrament of Holy Orders? The quick answer: Faithful Catholic men who have received the three Sacraments of Initiation (Baptism, the Eucharist and Confirmation) are eligible to receive the Sacrament of Holy Orders. Additionally, in the Western Catholic Church (the Latin Rite), candidates for Holy Orders are to be unmarried. In the Eastern Catholic Church, married men are eligible to be ordained as priests, but not as bishops.

Who is eligible to administer the Sacrament of Holy Orders? The quick answer: Only validly ordained bishops are eligible to administer the Sacrament of Holy Orders.

It is important to mention that ordination to the diaconate and priesthood is not a right, but a privilege. That is why the Church continues to create ways to properly vet and discern those who come forward with an interest in pursuing a church vocation. As Sacred Scripture puts it, “Many are called but few are chosen” (Mt 22:14).

Following a lengthy seminary formation, candidates for the priesthood must first be ordained as (transitional) deacons before being ordained to the priesthood.

Before being ordained as a bishop, a man must first be ordained as a deacon, then a priest. In short, some who receive the Sacrament of Holy Orders remain as deacons their entire lives; (i.e., permanent deacons). Others go on to be ordained as priests, while fewer go on to be ordained as bishops.

Regarding the primary function of those who receive the Sacrament of Holy Orders, permanent and transitional Deacons have the authority to administer the sacraments of Baptism and Matrimony; (i.e., a wedding outside of Mass).

Priests have the power and authority to administer or celebrate the sacraments of Baptism, Penance, Holy Eucharist (the

Mass), Matrimony, Anointing of the Sick herd, and priest, and acts as his representaand Confirmation at the Easter Vigil (as tive” (ccc 1558). Although each bishop is well as in cases of emergency and by del- ordinarily “the lawful pastor only of the egation from the local bishop). portion of the flock entrusted to his care,” Bishops have the authority to offer as a legitimate successor of the apostles he all seven sacraments: is...responsible with the Baptism, Penance, other bishops for the Holy Eucharist, Conapostolic mission of the By the anointing firmation, Matrimony, Church” (ccc 1560). of the Holy Spirit, Anointing of the Sick, The second degree and Holy Orders. (ordination of priests) priests “are signed Although there is refers to the co-workonly one “Sacrament of with a special char- ers of bishops. “The Holy Orders,” we learn ministry was handed acter and so are from this section of the over in a subordinate Catechism that there configured to Christ degree to priests,” the are “three degrees” or Catechism tells us, “so the priest in such levels within this “dithat they might be apvinely instituted” sacrapointed in the order a way that they are ment. The Catechism of the priesthood and explains: “even from be co-workers of the able to act in the ancient times [the three episcopal order for the person of Christ the proper fulfillment of degrees] have been called bishops, priests, the apostolic mission head” (ccc 1563). and deacons...two that had been entrusted degrees of ministerial to it by Christ” (ccc participation in the priesthood of Christ 1562). By the anointing of the Holy Spirit, [include] the episcopacy (bishops) and the priests “are signed with a special character presbyterate (priests). The diaconate is in- and so are configured to Christ the priest tended to help and serve them” (ccc 1554). in such a way that they are able to act in A little later we read: “Catholic doctrine the person of Christ the head” (ccc 1563). teaches that the degrees of priestly parAlthough priests are dependent on the ticipation [episcopate and presbyterate] bishop to whom they have promised obediand the degree of service [diaconate] are ence, “after the image of Christ...priests are all three conferred by a sacramental act called “ordination”, that is, by the Sacrament of Holy Orders” (ccc 1554).

This section in the Catechism is mostly concerned about the details related to the first two degrees of the Sacrament of Holy Orders. Regarding the first degree (episcopacy or bishops), the Catechism states that they enjoy “the unbroken succession going back to the beginning [and] are regarded as transmitters of the apostolic line” (ccc 1555). The apostles were given “a special outpouring of the Holy Spirit coming upon them...by the imposiSPOTLIGHT PILGRIMAGE: tion of hands which is transmitted down to our day through episcopal consecration” (ccc 1556). The Second Vatican Council CHRISTMAS ON THE used the terminology “fullness of the SacDANUBE rament of Holy Orders” when referring to this unbroken transmitting. The consecrafeaturing a 6-night tion of a bishop “confers, together with Danube River cruise the office of sanctifying, also the offices of With Fr. Anthony Sirianni, pastor teaching and ruling” (ccc 1558). In an emSt. Helena Parish, Edison inent and visible manner, a bishop takes “the place of Christ himself, teacher, shep-

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OBITUARY

Helen M. Purcell, 87, of Hamilton Township, the mother of Carol A. Purcell, executive director, diocesan Vicariate for Administration, died June 7.

Born in Brooklyn, N.Y., she was a daughter, sister, wife, mother, auditor, grandmother, friend, cousin and aunt. No role was more rewarding to her than mother.

Helen was a lifelong learner, attending and graduating from Montclair State University in her 40s. She was an avid reader and a member of the YMCA and Mercer County Library Book Clubs. She did the daily crossword puzzle and was a master of many types of puzzles and games.

Helen volunteered throughout her life as a School Class Mother, Cub Scout Den Mother and by providing free tax preparation assistance. She was the accountant for 20 years for The Sampson WWII Navy Veterans and also served as the President of their Auxiliary Association.

Prior to her retirement, Helen was an Auditor for State of New Jersey, Office of Legislative Services, Office of State Auditor, which

she would say, was the best job of her life.

Daughter of the late James and Nora McCabe and sister of the late James, Hugh, Henry and Joseph McCabe; she is survived by her loving husband of 66 years, Raymond; her children, Raymond (Marybeth), John, Carol, Mary, Maureen (Dan) Hulik and Christine; her grandchildren, James (Danielle), Genevieve, Daniel and Mary Elizabeth; her sister Mary Hofmann; her sisters-in-law, Dottie McCabe, Mary McCabe and Betty Purcell; and many nieces and nephews.

A funeral Mass was celebrated June 12 at St. Raphael-Holy Angels Parish, St. Raphael Church, Trenton.

A burial of cremated remains will be held privately at a later time.

In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made in Helen’s memory to Trenton Area Soup Kitchen or a charity of the donor's choice by visiting In Memory Of at inmemof.org.

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The Shrine of the Blessed Sacrament, Raritan, will celebrate a sung Mass every Sunday at 11 a.m. in the Extraordinary Form of the Roman Rite in Latin. The Mass is celebrated according to the 1962 Missal in compliance with the “Summorum Pontificum.” For details, call the Shrine Rectory Office, (908) 300-8167.

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Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, will hold a Holy Hour for Religious Freedom and Persecuted Christians every Sunday at 7 p.m., in the Eucharistic Adoration Chapel, 50 Van Winkle Place, Piscataway. Participants are invited to silently pray the Rosary and special prayers for the intentions of Christians worldwide who are being persecuted for their faith. For information, call Becky, (703) 625-5388.

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Scriptural Rosary is a modern version of the way the Rosary was prayed throughout Western Christendom in the late Middle Ages. Materials will be provided.

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The Militia of the Immaculata Prayer Village will meet on the First Saturday of every month after the 9 a.m. Mass at St. Patrick Parish, Belvidere. Come and learn about St. Maximilian Kobe, pray the Rosary and consider consecrating yourself to Mary. For details, email mivillagebelvidere@gmail.com.

July 7, 4 p.m. — All are invited to attend a Holy Hour with Rosary and Benediction to pray for priests and vocations on the first Sunday of the month at the Carmelite Monastery, 26 Harmony School Rd., Flemington.

July 13, 10:30 a.m. — The World Apostolate of Fatima, Our Lady’s Blue Army Shrine, Washington, will celebrate the 100th anniversary of the building of the Capelinha. The day will include confessions, a Rosary Procession, a talk by Sacred Heart of Jesus Father Joshua Caswell and Mass celebrated by Bishop Joseph N. Perry. Divine Mercy Chaplet will be held at 3 p.m. followed by Fatima Farwell Procession. For details, call (908) 689-1700, ext. 224 or visit www. bluearmy.com.

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July 9-13 — St. John Vianney Parish, Colonia, invites all to its annual carnival held on the church grounds. The carnival will feature rides, games and food. Super Summer Splash will be held on July 13 at 11 p.m. For information, call (732) 5740150.

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The Father Capodanno Catholic War Veteran Post will meet at St. Magdalen de Pazzi Parish, Flemington on the first Wednesday of every month at 7 p.m. in the parish center. The veteran organization is dedicated to nourishing veterans in their love for country, family and the Catholic faith. You don’t have to be a War Veteran, just a Veteran to join. New members are welcome. For details, contact Al Kosiarski, (908)782-7662 Ext.159 or email, al@fdsnj.com.

July 14, noon to 2 p.m. — St. Thomas the Apostle Parish, Old Bridge, is offering a monthly soup kitchen in the school auditorium. For information contact, Mary Anne Donoghue, tdmaatwest@optonline.net or Chris Doyle, cdoyle167@ optimum.net.

July 20, 10:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m. — Mount St. Mary House of Prayer, Watchung, will present a women’s spiritual spa day.

The day will include prayer, meditation, yoga and more. Lunch is included. The cost is $45-$55 as you are able to pay.

To register, call (908) 753-2091 or visit www.msmhope.org.

July 26-28 — Worldwide Marriage Encounter of Central New Jersey will present a weekend of enrichment. The weekend will give you time and tools to

Carnivals

Members Needed

Support Programs

Catholic Charities of the Diocese of Metuchen is offering Counseling and wellness Services. If you or someone you know needs counseling or is impacted by addiction, we can help. Individual and family therapy for children and adults is available. For an appointment, call (800) 655-9491.

Hospital café rededicated to longtime volunteer, board member

JUNE 27, 2019 THE CATHOLIC SPIRIT

By Christina Leslie Correspondent NEW BRUNSWICK — “We name churches after saints,” observed Bishop James F. Checchio at a June 5 café rededication ceremony at Saint Peter’s University Hospital. “I guess we can name kitchens after future saints.”

Bishop Checchio was joined by family, friends and admirers of the late Yolanda Egan to rename the diocesan hospital’s coffee shop in honor of the long-time volunteer and board member.

Joined by Deacon Vincent Brigande, the hospital’s director of pastoral care, the bishop led a prayer service and blessing of the facility.

Leslie Hirsch, interim chief executive officer and president of the diocesan sponsored hospital, welcomed the group, observing, “Today we are celebrating the passing of a hero. No one can replace her, but we can remember her.”

Yolanda Egan, a New Brunswick native and communicant in the city’s St. Peter University and Community Parish, had served Saint Peter’s University Hospital as auxiliary president of the Hospital Foundation and member of the Board of Trustees. She spent more than 40 years overseeing the

hospital’s coffee and gift shop. Egan, infirmed.” married to state Assemblyman Joseph Egan gave a heartfelt and humorV. Egan, D-17th District, and mother of ous remembrance of his wife of nearly four children, died last Dec. 9.

60 years. He recalled her beginning “She is prominent by her love, had her work with the hospital’s auxiliary a big heart, was good to board soon after their all and saw God’s image marriage in April, 1959, "Yolanda’s faith in everyone,” the bishop including frequent trips in God and love said of the lifelong Cathby train into Manhattan, olic and volunteer. As N.Y., to buy gifts for of family spilled Egan’s husband unveiled hospitalized children. the plaque emblazoned “For Yolanda, out into this with the newly dedicated it was God, the famcoffee shop. She “Yolanda’s Café,” Bishily and Saint Peter’s,” op Checchio sprinkled it Egan said. The Deputy understood the with holy water.

Majority Leader of the mission of this The plaque, topped Assembly then amendby Egan’s smiling face, ed, “Sometimes, the hospital and contained a quote by order was reversed. She the bishop reading, would back out of pobrought the “Yolanda’s dedication litical events with me if coffee shop up to her many charitable there were a snowstorm, efforts, especially her saying, ‘I’m not sure to this mission." good work as a member if everyone can get in —Joseph V. Egan of the Saint Peter’s Uni[to work], but we only versity Hospital Board live 30 steps down the of Trustees and President of the Saint street.’”

Peter’s University Hospital Auxiliary, He concluded, “Yolanda’s faith are a testament to her faith and generos- in God and love of family spilled out ity. Her passion for the mission of Saint into this coffee shop. She understood Peter’s will serve as a reminder of the the mission of this hospital and brought Corporal Work of Mercy to care for and the coffee shop up to this mission. She spend time with those who are ill and loved every minute of it.”

Leslie D. Hirsch, interim CEO and president, Saint Peter's University Hospital, speaks about the late Yolanda Egan.

— Frank Wochowski photo

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On December 12th Bishop Checchio inaugurated a year of preparation for the consecration of the Diocese of Metuchen to Our Lady of Guadalupe. His intention for this year is that we each open our heart wide to God’s grace so that authentic spiritual renewal can take place. In light of this you are invited to come to an evening of prayer, preaching and reflection on the message and meaning of Our Lady of Guadalupe’s apparitions on our continent in 1531. Discover how The Blessed Mother led nine million indigenous Mexican people into a life changing encounter with her Son, Jesus, and how she desires to lead you into a deep and vibrant relationship with Him as well. For a listing of participating parishes go to: www.LightingHeartsOnFire.org.

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A Catholic Prayer and Support for Families Affected by Mental Health Issues, Office for Persons with Disabilities, 10 a.m. and 7 p.m., St. Patrick Parish, Belvidere. The support group will offer spiritual support and tips on how to cope with mental health issues.

The program will also be held through Dec. on the first Wednesday of the month.

For details, call (732) 765-6432 or email catholicswithdisabilities@gmail.com.

7/9 & 10 Summer School, Office of Ongoing Faith Formation, July 9, 7 to 8:30 p.m., and July 10, 10 to 11:30 a.m., St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. The presenter will be Father Greg Uhrig. The topic will be “The Priesthood and the Laity and Modern Day Clericalism.” All are welcome.

7/14

Holy Hour for Priests, Office of Evangelization, 3 p.m. St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. All are welcome.

7/16 & 17

Summer School, Office of Ongoing Faith Formation, July 16, 7 to 8:30 p.m., and July 17, 10 to 11:30 a.m., St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. The presenter will be Father Greg Uhrig. The topic will be “Laudato Si” Pope Francis’ encyclical on Care for Our Common Home (the environment.) All are welcome.

7/23 & 24

Summer School, Office of Ongoing Faith Formation, July 23, 7 to 8:30 p.m., and July 24, 10 to 11:30 a.m., St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. The presenter will be Father Greg Uhrig. The topic will be “Christus Vivit” Pope Francis’ writing on youth in the Church. All are welcome.

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7/30 & 31

Pastoral Musicians Summer Skills Enrichment Seminar, Office of Worship, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. This program is the second in a three-year series of summer seminars designed to evelop basic skills for parish pastoral musicians. The cost is $35 in advance and $40 onsite. Advance registration is requested. Lunch is included. For details and to register, visit: www.diometuchen.org/NPM. Summer School, Office of Ongoing Faith Formation, July 30, 7 to 8:30 p.m., and July 31, 10 to 11:30 a.m., St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. The presenter will be Father Greg Uhrig. The topic will be Our Lady of Guadalupe. All are welcome.

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DIRECTOR OF MUSIC and LITURGY Our Lady of Peace is a Roman Catholic Church established in 1919 located in Fords, NJ. OLP strives to be an active community that shares the love and good news of Jesus Christ with all in the parish.

We are currently seeking a talented, dynamic and accomplished music professional for the position of Director of Music. As Director of Music, this faith-filled individual will report to and work collaboratively with the pastor and is responsible for designing, developing, directing, evaluating and expanding the parish’s existing liturgical music program and to enhance the worship of the parish community. In addition, will lead volunteer musicians and will accompany the cantor and choir at the organ during all liturgies.

Additional responsibilities include, but are not limited to: • Select, plan and coordinate liturgically appropriate music for all liturgies of the parish, including funerals; • Recruit, schedule, direct and mentor music groups and musicians (choirs, cantors, bell choir and instrumentalists); • Be available when needed for additional services and events; • Oversee maintenance of church-owned instruments and musical library; • Communicate faithfully with the pastor; • Other duties as directed by the pastor for the liturgical and sacramental needs of the parish.

QUALIFICATIONS: • Masters Degree in Music or comparable work experience in organ performance, conducting and directing choirs; • Strong professional competence in playing the organ and piano as well as reading music; • Minimum three to five years of previous work experience desired; • Possess a working knowledge of music in the Roman Catholic Liturgical tradition; • Ability to lead, train, and work well and collaboratively with others, both staff and congregation; • Committed to the Catholic Church’s vision and leadership; • Strong organizational, communication and interpersonal skills.

ABOUT THE EMPLOYER: Our Lady of Peace is a Roman Catholic Church in the Diocese of Metuchen, NJ. Please send a detailed CV and three professional letters of recommendation to: Reverend Matthew R. Paratore, S.T.L., J.C.L., Pastor 26 Maple Avenue, Edison, NJ 08837

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The Pontifical Mission Office offers Mass Cards, Perpetual Masses and Gregorian Mass for the Living and Deceased. The suggested offering is from $5 to $300. To purchase a card, contact (732) 2434580 or email pontifical.mission.societies@diometuchen.org.

For information call: (732 )529-7934 • E-mail: jleviton@diometuchen.org

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Eucharistic Adoration is now being held in the chapel at the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. Adorers and intercessors are needed Monday through Friday 9 to 11:45 a.m. Daily Mass is held at 11:45 a.m. For information or to volunteer, call Laura Ferreras (732) 529-7932. To submit a prayer request, call (732) 765-6445.

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St. Anthony

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SUMMER BREAK 2019 for ages 5-13

OPEN FROM JUNE 24 AUGUST 30, 2019 field trips: activities:

• Crystal Springs Waterpark • Friday theatre shows @ MCC • Keansburg Amusement Park/ Runaway Rapids • Pool & Area Parks • Weekly Special Events

• Arts & Crafts • Baking • Canvas painting • Fitness fun • Organized sports / games • Weekly dance parties w/ DJ Mike

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St. Anthony Study Hall 436 Port Reading Avenue Port Reading, NJ—07064 Email: studyhalldirector@gmail.com 732-634-6800

Breakfast, Lunch & Snacks Included!

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Christ the Redeemer - Sacred Heart, Manville

51st Annual Summer Parish Festival July 23 - 27

on the church grounds at South 2nd Ave. & Filak Str.

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Tuesday THRU Friday: 6 – 10PM Saturday: 5 – 10PM

Live Music: Thurs., Fri. & Saturday DJ Every Night Wednesday is Polish Night Bouncy’s for the Kids Games and Family Fun!

HOMEMADE POLISH AND AMERICAN FOODS

including pierogi, stuffed cabbage, kielbasa sandwiches, potato pancakes, cabbage & noodles, sausage sandwiches, hamburgers, hot dogs, fries, pizza fritz and more!!!