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Bishop James F. Checchio walks with pilgrims in the “The Way of St. Juan Diego,” a nine-mile walk in Hunterdon County that included prayer and hymns. The walk ended at Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, where the bishop presided at an outdoor Mass.

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Pilgrims walk ‘Way’ of saint as part of Year of Spiritual Awakening

By Anthony Salamone Correspondent ANNANDALE — Tara Paccillo, who is a massage therapist, usually works Saturdays.

However, on Sept. 21, she took the day off to join 700 other individuals on a

nine-mile walk through parts of Hunterdon County. She was not trying to meet new clients or network but wanted to be part of the diocese’s pilgrimage, “The Way of St. Juan Diego.”

The walk reenacted that of St. Juan Diego, a 16th-century Mexican, who, after being visited by Mary, walked nine

miles from his home to his class where he was preparing to become a Catholic. The diocese sponsored the pilgrimage as part of its Year of Spiritual Awakening, which will culminate in the consecration of the diocese to Jesus through Our Lady of Guadalupe on Dec. 12, her feast day.

After completing the walk, a smiling

Paccillo, a member of Our Lady of Peace Parish, North Brunswick, said, “It was really quite moving.” She made the pilgrimage with her mother, Mary Paccillo, her sister, Melanie Paccillo, and her sister’s boyfriend, Anthony Valentino, Tara Paccillo said the event moved Continued on page 8

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My dear brothers and sisters in Christ,

Bishop James Checchio I have been on plenty of pilgrimages during my life, but one of the best was two weeks ago, when our diocese was blessed with a memorable experience as we went on a Walking Pilgrimage in Annandale, “The Way of St. Juan Diego.” I will not forget it! More than 700 pilgrims walked the nine-mile journey in imitation of the nine miles that St. Juan Diego regularly walked from his home to get to his catechism lessons while becoming a Catholic in Mexico in 1524.

Pilgrimages are an ancient practice of the Church and even took place in Old Testament times. They are journeys for a sacred purpose, to remind the pilgrim that on this earth he or she is on the way to heaven. In ancient Israel, the Jewish faithful had to go on a pilgrimage to the Temple in Jerusalem every year. Even Jesus, with Mary and St. Joseph, made that sacred pilgrimage, and we read in the Scriptures about Jesus being lost on one of them.

Besides Jerusalem, many pilgrimage sites arose in the history of the Church such as the Camino Santiago Pilgrimage (the way of St. James) in Compostela Spain to the tomb of the Apostle, James, St. Peter’s in Rome with the tomb of St. Peter, as well as many of the Marian apparition sites, including Guadalupe where many from our diocese are traveling during our year of Spiritual Awakening in preparation for our consecration to Jesus through Our Lady of Guadalupe.

These pilgrimages are meant to provide a snapshot of our eternal pilgrimage to heaven. That’s why pilgrimages are different than vacations, as these trips often involve sacrifices and are usually

done in groups, so we help one another carry our crosses. Likewise, we usually have guides on our pilgrimage to lead us on our way, as we did on Sept. 21, in Annandale with the police and young volunteers providing us with safe passage through the streets.

As we walked, we carried our prayers and intentions along with us, asking the Lord to make us His disciples, witnesses, to lead others in our diocese to Him, too. On pilgrimage, we try not to be weighed down, so we only take essentials with us, what we need to sustain us. Of course, Jesus encourages His disciples to approach our life on earth in this same way. Our ultimate pilgrimage on earth is to lead us to heaven, and to take along as many others as we can.

So when we go on a pilgrimage we go with a goal in mind, we are going someplace, and we went on our Walking Pilgrimage to prepare for the consecration of our diocese on Dec. 12. We went with the Lord, in prayer, ending with our final Mass on the grounds of Immaculate Conception with a Mass with more than 1,000 people in attendance. What an inspiring sight!

It was edifying to see so many families, youth from our Catholic schools and religious education programs, many of our seminarians and those in consecrated life from our diocese, and even many seniors making this pilgrimage. St. Juan Diego’s heart burned in love of Jesus, Mary and His Church. Nothing was going to stop him from making his pilgrimage for his catechism lessons to prepare him for his first holy Communion. Certainly, I prayed that we, too, would have such love in our hearts for Jesus, His Church and Our Lady!

The Walk actually began at 11 a.m. with everyone praying the rosary together, then singing hymns and songs of praise and worship along the walk.

We were blessed with 23 priests who accompanied the pilgrimage group along the route in prayer and offered to hear

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confessions. An outdoor Eucharistic Holy Hour in a park along the way was a memorable highlight, and the final three miles included carrying the Eucharist in procession back to Immaculate Conception Church in Annandale.

It truly was a joy-filled day, bringing together people from across our diocese. The Church was indeed alive, inspiring and full of hope! The Office of Evangelization, which largely organized the day under the leadership of Jodie D’Angiolillo, who had served as our department director for many years, as well as her staff, did a wonderful job organizing the pilgrimage.

Father Tim Christy, our Vicar General, was involved every step of the way, from the planning to the walking! From our diocesan center, Laura Ferreras, John Glynn, and Sister Anna Nguyen, SCC, tended to the many details of the pilgrimage together with Deacon Tom Griffoul, who also charted the route. They were assisted by more than 40 people working on a core team who generously gave of themselves over the past 18 months to make this spiritual project come to fruition. Father Jay Toborowsky, pastor of Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, graciously hosted us along with his good and faithful parishioners and the Knights of Columbus. The barbeque after Mass was a relaxing, delicious end to the day many participants will always remember.

Yes, Our Lady always wants to lead

us into deeper union with Her Son, and she did just that this past weekend. As we continue with our year of Spiritual Awakening, we ask Mary to look on us with love and to carry our petitions to her Son, who always wants to give us what we need to assist us on our way home to Him! I look forward to going on pilgrimage next month to Mexico City and to Mary’s Shrine there. I encourage you to join us in daily prayer as we prepare for this next pilgrimage, most especially during our diocese’s Week of the Rosary, Oct. 6 to 13. See page 14 for more on this special week.

Knowing that our pilgrimage to Mexico will be a very powerful experience, I want to invite everyone in the diocese to send your prayer intentions to my office so we can take them to the shrine of Our Lady of Guadalupe and prayerfully present them to her confident she will take them to her Son. As always, know that I am praying for you and your loved ones, too. May our year of Spiritual Awakening bring our diocese abundant graces. Know, too, of my love for all of you. God bless you!

The Most Reverend James F. Checchio, JCD, MBA Bishop of Metuchen

The Bishop’s Schedule Oct. 3

5 p.m. Confirmation at Most Holy Redeemer Parish, Old Bridge

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4 p.m. Mass for the 75th Anniversary of St. Edward the Confessor Parish, Milford

Oct. 8 -10 Annual Convocation of Priests for the Diocese of Metuchen – private event Oct. 12 5:30 p.m. Mass at Our Lady of Perpetual Help Parish, Bernardsville Oct. 13 10 a.m. Mass at Christ the Redeemer Parish at Sacred Heart worship site, Manville Oct. 13 Noon Mass at St. James Parish, Basking Ridge Oct. 15 12:30 p.m. Sukkah in the Sky Gathering at the Anshe Emeth Memorial Temple, New Brunswick Oct. 15 4 p.m. Confirmation at St. Cecelia Parish, Iselin with St. Anthony of Padua Parish, Port Reading Oct. 16 10:30 a.m. College of Consultors – private event Oct. 16 4 p.m. Confirmation at Corpus Christi Parish, South River Oct. 17 10:30 a.m. Blue Mass at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen Oct. 17 6 p.m. Champions for Catholic Charities at The Palace at Somerset Park, Somerset Oct. 18 10:30 a.m. Priest Personnel Meeting – private event Oct. 18 4 p.m. Confirmation at Immaculate Conception Parish, Spotswood Oct. 19 Noon Mass for the 100th Anniversary of the Holy Redeemer Cemetery and Mausoleum, Holy Redeemer Mausoleum Chapel, South Plainfield For updates on Bishop Checchio's schedule visit: http://diometuchen.org/bishop/schedule

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By Christina Leslie Correspondent METUCHEN — “We must, in all sincerity, ask ourselves tonight, ‘Am I a disciple of Jesus Christ?’” Father Timothy A. Christy asked the hundreds seated before him Sept. 20 at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi. “We must not answer too quickly — to be a true disciple of Jesus, we must consider the cost.”

Those hundreds of faithful attending the annual diocesan Hispanic Heritage Mass were indeed ready to spread the Good News in prayer, song and action. Families and individuals of all ages filled the pews of the diocese’s mother church to witness Father Christy, diocesan vicar general, and priests and deacons from throughout the diocese lead them through a liturgy celebrated solely in Spanish and focused fervently on Jesus and his beloved mother, Mary.

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As the choir sang a hymn invit- munion, his Holy Word from the saing the congregants to approach the cred Scriptures — these become ways altar, roughly two dozen faithful did that knit us together as one body in just that, all carrying colorful banners Christ,” the vicar general said. “The which originated from their Spanish Holy Spirit is alive, drawing us ever speaking congregations. Posting them deeper into his love for us, even in along the side walls of the cathedral, our brokenness. You are here tonight they served as a joybecause God wants to filled reminder that love awaken faith anew… of God in the Diocese He loves us and will "You are of Metuchen knows no never abandon us on our single tongue nor backjourney.” here tonight ground.

A highlight of the because God In his homily, Father Mass was a procession Christy reminded the of Marian images. One wants to faithful that the Church by one, as their counexists for the sake of tries of origin were anawaken faith evangelization, and they nounced, men and womanew… He must heed Jesus’ love, en in ethnic costume which opens the gatestrode forward, holding loves us and way to heaven’s eternal aloft a picture of the will never life.

Blessed Mother unique “We must respond their Central or South abandon us on to to that love, that inviAmerican country. They our journey.” tation to new life,” he lined the communion said. “Salvation is free, rail proudly, display—Father Timothy A. but there is a cost: the ing the differently hued Christy cost of discipleship… manifestations of the To be a true disciple, Blessed Mother. we must be willing to Father Christy resurrender our own preoccupation with minded the assembled that the diocese worldly securities and success, and is preparing to be consecrated to Jesus entrust ourselves to the mystery of through Our Lady of Guadalupe, “askGod’s love.” ing Blessed Mother to once again look They need not worry about the upon us with her maternal love and task at hand, Father Christy said, for to bring us more fully into a saving Jesus’ gifts will arm us in this battle friendship with her son, Jesus Christ. between good and evil.

“We believe that this consecration “With the Sacraments he gives us will be for us a supernatural source of — his Body and Blood in holy Com- new strength for everyone who sincerely seeks to be renewed,” he conTop of page, worshipers at the Hispanic tinued. “We believe that the renewal Heritage Mass hold images of the Blessed of the whole Church begins with one Mother unique to the country of their de- heart, becoming overwhelmed with scendants. Left, in the procession, a man God’s love and surrendering their life carries a banner representing Most Holy to become a disciple of Jesus.”

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Humility incarnate radiates under lens of love Body & Soul

By Father Glenn J. Comandini, STD She never went on missions, never founded a religious order, never performed great works. Marie-Françoise Thérèse Martin was only 15 when she entered the Carmelite Monastery and was given the religious name of Sister Thérèse of the Child Jesus and the Holy Face.The only book of hers, published after her death is a brief edited version of her autobiographical journal called “Story of a Soul.” Within 28 years after her death, however, the public demand was so great that she be made a saint that Pius XI canonized her on Oct. 3, 1923.

Born on Jan. 2, 1873, Therese was content being her daddy’s “Little Queen.”

She loved life and the simplicity of that life at Les Buissonets in Alencon in the province of Normandy, France. Yet, this girl who embraced religious life at the age of 15, would die when she was 24, after having lived as a cloistered Carmelite for less than 10 years. Therese knew as a Carmelite that she would never be able to perform great deeds. “Love proves itself by deeds,”

she wrote…” so how can I show my love?”

She concludes: “The only way I can prove my love is by scattering flowers and these flowers are every little sacrifice, every glance and word, and the doing of the least actions for love.” Therese took every chance to sacrifice, no matter how miniscule it might seem. “In order to live in one single act of perfect Love, I offer myself as a victim of holocaust to your merciful love, asking You to consume me incessantly, allowing the waves of infinite tenderness shut upon within You to overflow into my soul, and that thus I may become a martyr of Your Love, O my God!” [“Story of a Soul, pp.

276-277] She took the blame for things that she did not do. After her death, this spirituality would become known as “the Little Way of Spiritual Childhood.”

Therese used the phrase “Little Way” only once in her writings. Her sister, Pauline, in editing her journal, added the phrase “of Spiritual Childhood” at a later day. It was this “way” however which convinced then Pope, now St. John Paul II that she should be declared a Doctor of the Church on Oct.

19, 1997, the youngest person and at that time, only the third woman to be so honored. Her feast day is October 1.

During her short life, Therese worried much about how she could achieve holiness in the life she led. Why? She did not just want to be good.

She wanted to be a saint. But she knew in her heart that God would not put a desire in her that was impossible to attain. So, in perusing the Gospels, she came across a verse: “Whoever is a little one, come to me.” (Mt 18:3) She writes “it is your arms, Jesus, that are the elevator to carry me to heaven. And so there is no need for me to grow up: I must stay little and become less and less…” [“Story of a Soul”] Prior to her death, in her last conversations with her blood sister and Carmelite, Mother Agnes Of Jesus, who was the Prioress, Therese goes into detail about Spiritual Childhood and her vocation. The content of these conversations were documented

by Mother Agnes in the latter’s “Yellow Notebooks.” These span the last months of Therese’s life from April 6 to her death on Sept. 30, 1897. These can now be found in

a compendium entitled: “Last Conversations.” Here she reveals her spirituality. “I feel that my mission is about to begin, my mission to make God loved as I love him, to teach souls my little way.” [“Last Conversations,” 102] With so many of her blood sisters in the same Carmel, her sister, Agnes, who became Prioress, asked Therese to remain a permanent Novice since the buzz around the cloister was that the Martin sisters would take over the governance of Carmel in Lisieux. Therese agreed — yet, paradoxically, she would be the Mistress of Novices.

In 1896 she began coughing up blood — which it turned out was tuberculosis. At this time, there was no cure for this disease.

The pain that accrued was so great that had she not some faith, she would have taken her own life without hesitation. But she tried to remain smiling and cheerful.

Before her death in 1897, she reported that her work would begin in earnest after her death.

“If God answers my desires, my heaven will be spent on earth until the end of the world. Yes, I want to spend my heaven doing good on earth. [“Last Conversations,” 102] Father Comandini is managing editor of “The Catholic Spirit”

inadequate for a prosecution.

June 2017: Charges of “historic sexual abuse” from 20 years prior are announced by the Director of Public Prosecutions and Pell is ordered home. The cardinal vehemently denies any misconduct and, despite his Vatican diplomatic immunity, immediately returns to Australia to defend his honor and that of the Church.

May 2018: At the “committal hearing,” a magistrate dismisses several charges against Pell but sends others to trial, saying that, whatever their arguable plausibility, they should be aired publicly in a criminal court.

Meanwhile, a vicious, lynch-mob atmosphere continues to surround Cardinal Pell, in public and in much of the Australian media.

September 2018: At the trial, the prosecution presents no corroborating evidence that the alleged crimes ever took place; the prosecution’s case is the tale told by the complainant, who only appears on videotape. Numerous witnesses for the defense testify that the alleged acts of abuse could not have happened in a secured area of a busy cathedral immediately after Sunday Mass,

with then-Archbishop Pell fully vested and surrounded by liturgical ministers, in the time-frame alleged. After several days of deliberation, the trial judge tells the jury that he will accept an 11-1 verdict, if one juror is blocking unanimity. The jury then returns a hung verdict — 10-2 for acquittal — the jury foreman weeping when announcing the jury’s inability to reach a legal conclusion; other jurors are also reported in tears.

December 2018: At Cardinal Pell’s retrial, his defense team further demolishes the prosecution case, for which, again, no corroborating evidence is presented. The jury then returns a 12-0 verdict of guilty, shocking virtually everyone in attendance at the trial (and, according to some present, the trial judge).

March 2019: While sentencing the cardinal to six years in prison, the trial judge never indicates that he agrees with the second jury’s verdict, stating only that he is doing what the law requires under the circumstances.

June 2019: At an appeal hearing before a three-member panel of the Victoria Supreme Court, the judges sharply criticize the flimsiness of the prosecution’s case.

August 21, 2019: The appellate panel rejects Cardinal Pell’s appeal by a 2-1 vote.

The dissenting judge, Mark Weinberg, is Australia’s most prominent criminal-law jurist; the two judges rejecting the appeal have little or no criminal-law experience. Judge Weinberg’s 202-page dissent eviscerates his colleagues’ position, which raises the gravest questions as to whether “guilty beyond a

reasonable doubt” remains the standard necessary for conviction in Victoria — not least on a completely uncorroborated charge.

In the wake of last month’s incomprehensible and (as measured by Judge Weinberg’s dissent) dangerous rejection of Cardinal Pell’s appeal, Catholic voices were heard expressing (or demanding) respect for the justice system in Australia. Perhaps the Vatican press spokesman must say such things for diplomatic purposes, although the reason why diplomatic concerns trump truth and justice in the Holy See Press Office is unclear. But as this chronology indicates, there is no reason to respect a process that reeks of system-failure at every point, from the dubious and perhaps corrupt police investigation through the committal hearing, the two trials, and the appeal. There are guilty parties here. But Cardinal George Pell is not one of them.

As this scandalous process approaches the High Court of Australia, friends of Australia, both Down Under and throughout the world, must send a simple message, repeatedly: George Pell is an innocent man who was falsely accused and has been unjustly convicted of crimes he did not commit. It is not George Pell who is in the dock, now, but the administration of justice in Australia.

And the only way to restore justice is for Cardinal Pell to be vindicated by the highest court in the land.

Those who cannot bring themselves to say that, in Australia or elsewhere, necessarily share in the ignominy that Australian criminal justice has, thus far, brought upon itself.

Imprisoned cardinal unjustly charged, convicted of crimes Consider this sequence of events, familiar to some but evidently not to others:

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By George Weigel March 2013: Prior to any credible reports of misbehavior being made against Cardinal George Pell, police in Australia’s state of Victoria launch “Operation Tethering,” a sting aimed at the former archbishop of Melbourne (who by this time is prefect of the Vatican Secretariat for the economy).

“Tethering” includes newspaper ads seeking information on previously unreported, untoward goings-on at the Melbourne cathedral in the past.

Early 2017: The office of Public Prosecutions in Melbourne twice returns a brief to those who mounted “Operation Tethering,” criticizing the Victoria Police brief as

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Pope encourages bishops to promote ecumenism Panelists examine moral costs of migration crisis VATICAN CITY — Praising the fidelity of Eastern Catholics, Pope Francis also urged them to be more active in the search for Christian unity, especially unity with their Orthodox counterparts. In heaven, he said, “the Lord will not seek an account of which or how many territories remained under our jurisdiction. He will not ask how we contributed to the development of our national identities. Instead, he will ask how much we loved our neighbor, every neighbor, and how well we were able to proclaim the Gospel of salvation to those we met along the road of life.” The pope met Sept. 14 with about 40 bishops in Europe from Eastern Catholic churches; they included bishops from the Eastern-rite Ukrainian, Romanian, Greek and Slovak churches, but also those who minister to migrant communities from outside of Europe, including the Coptic, Chaldean and Syriac Catholic Churches from the Middle East and the Syro-Malabar and Syro-Malankara Catholic churches of India. The multiple expressions of Catholic liturgy, spirituality and governance are a sign of the Catholic

Pope Francis greets bishops from Eastern Catholic churches during a meeting at the Vatican Sept. 14. Meeting some 40 bishops serving in Europe, the pope praised them for their fidelity to Rome and encouraged them to be more active in seeking Christian unity.

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Church’s true unity, Pope Francis said.

“Uniformity is the destruction of unity; Christian truth is not monotonous, but ‘symphonic,’ otherwise it would not come from the Holy Spirit.”

Clericalism at heart of crisis, its ‘day coming to end’

Denis McDonough, an executive fellow of the Keough School’s Global Policy Initiative at the University of Notre Dame, South Bend, Ind., speaks during a panel discussion at Georgetown University, Washington, D.C., Sept. 11, on the global refugee and migration crisis. By the end of 2018, 70.8 million people had been forcibly displaced worldwide, according to the Keough School’s initiative.

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lighting the current immigration crisis — the image of a father and young daughter drowned together in the Rio Grande.

The Catholic response to this crisis, Carr said, is guided by the biblical principles of welcoming the stranger and upholding the dignity of immigrants and refugees as children of God.

Cardinal spent more than two decades in Japan

Marie Collins, a clerical sexual abuse survivor from Ireland and a member of the new Pontifical Commission for the Protection of Minors, is seen at the World Meeting of Families in Dublin Aug. 24, 2018. She is a survivor of clerical sex abuse and a former member of the Pontifical Commission for Protection of Minors. Collins kicked off a fivecity U.S. speaking tour in Baltimore Sept. 10.

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protocols for addressing abuse claims, with the intent of holding church leaders accountable for actions or omissions related to the handling of such reports.

“It’s still bishops investigating bishops,” she said of the new norms. “Many would see that as just inappropriate and not the answer.”

OXFORD, England — Luxembourg’s first cardinal will help defend Europe against populism and nationalism, while bringing his small country’s diplomatic traditions to bear in church affairs, said a close associate. Cardinal-designate Jean-Claude Hollerich “is a true European, who can articulate the Catholic Church’s message to Europe with a clear voice,” said Roger Nilles, communications officer for the Luxembourg Catholic Church. “Like the pope, he sees the European Union as a vital peace project, tackling international questions which can’t be resolved regionally or nationally. With his appointment, the pope seeks to encourage and open doors for those working in the same direction.” Cardinal-designate Hollerich was scheduled to recive his red hat at the Vatican Oct. 5 as one of 13 new cardinals named by Pope Francis. Nilles said the 61-year-old prelate was viewed as “open-minded and approachable,” having spent more than two decades in Japan, and had emerged as an international figure as president of COMECE, the Brussels-based commission representing Europe’s Catholic bishops.

COMECE said the appointment would

Archbishop Jean-Claude Hollerich of Luxembourg was one of 13 new cardinals named by Pope Francis Sept. 1.

He is pictured at a news conference to discuss the Synod of Bishops on young people, the faith and vocational discernment at the Vatican in this Oct. 10, 2018, file photo.

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strengthen Cardinal-designate Hollerich’s responsibility “for the Church in the EU.” It said he “has been committed to the common good in Europe and the world, devoting himself to key issues, including youth, migration and asylum and climate.”

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BALTIMORE — Vatican officials needed “a safeguarding policy” in place ages ago to prevent abuse and address it when it occurred, said Marie Collins, a clergy sexual abuse survivor from Ireland. The promise for such a policy came out of the Vatican summit on child protection in February, but it never materialized, said Collins, who was one of the original members of the Pontifical Commission for the Protection of Minors. For this reason and several others, she said was disappointed with the outcome of the summit. “We had been told it would be about responsibility, accountability and transparency,” she told the Catholic Review, Baltimore’s archdiocesan media outlet, just prior to the kick off of a five-city U.S. speaking tour on “The Catholic Tipping Point” in Baltimore Sept. 10. “What we saw come out of it was a (promise of a) handbook for bishops – that has not come out yet – and a safeguarding policy for Vatican City, which if you look at it is nothing to boast about, because this is 2019. They should have had a safeguarding policy in position decades ago.” Collins, who resigned from the Vatican commission in 2017 because she was concerned that promised reforms were not being implemented and Vatican leaders were impeding the commission’s work, also found fault with the pope’s recent “moto proprio” – “Vos Estis Lux Mundi” (“You are the light of the world”).

The document includes a number of

WASHINGTON — Facing the challenge of the migration crisis will require voices and actions taken up in solidarity with migrants across the globe, said a speaker at a Sept. 11 dialogue on immigration at Georgetown University. According to statistics reported by the U.N. High Commissioner for Refugees, by the end of 2018, “70.8 million individuals have been forcibly displaced worldwide as a result of persecution, conflict, violence or human rights violations. These are unprecedented numbers, the largest in human history,” said Maura Policelli, executive director of the Washington office of the University of Notre Dame’s Keough School of Global Affairs. She opened the dialogue on “The U.S. Response to the Global Migration Crisis: Human Costs, Moral Implications and Policy Choices.”

It was hosted by Georgetown’s Initiative on Catholic Social Thought and Public Life and Notre Dame’s Keough School, marking their first partnership. In convening the dialogue, held on the 18th anniversary of 9/11, John Carr, director of Georgetown’s Initiative on Catholic Social Thought and Public Life, remarked that to commemorate the anniversary, students had planted 3,000 small flags on campus to honor the lives lost in the terrorist attacks. He recalled the horrific scene of the World Trade Center’s twin towers collapsing that day but also the recent, equally unforgettable scene high-

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Special delivery: Bishop blesses new Mary V. O'Shea Birth Center NEW BRUNSWICK — A unique birthing experience awaits expecting families with the expected opening of Saint Peter’s University Hospital’s new Mary V. O’Shea Birth Center in October.

The state-of-the-art Birth Center is New Jersey’s first Birth Center found on the grounds of a hospital and also the new home of Saint Peter’s midwifery practice – where expectant mothers and their families will also go for office visits, birthing classes and the birth of their baby.

According to The American Association of Birth Centers (AABC), a birth center is defined as a “home-like setting where care providers, usually midwives provide family-centered care to healthy pregnant women.” To be a true birth center, AABC stipulates that one connected to a hospital must meet certain standards for independence and also be separate from the Labor and Delivery unit.

At 4,100 square feet, the Birth Center includes two birthing suites

The family of Mary V. O'Shea poses for a photo with Bishop James F. Checchio and Msgr. Joseph M. Curry, former pastor of St. Peter the Apostle University and Community Parish, New Brunswick.

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with the look and feel of a residential bedroom, a reception area, exam rooms, a lounge area, dining area and

full-size kitchen. Each birthing suite has a queen bed, spa-size tub and shower, plus space and furnishings to accommodate family and other support individuals.

A distinctive factor from other birth centers in the region, the Mary V. O’Shea Birth Center is in close proximity to the leading-edge services, expertise and technology of Saint Peter’s University Hospital’s Labor and Delivery and renowned Regional Perinatal Center with its Level III

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Right, Leslie D. Hirsch, CEO and President of St. Peter's Healthcare System looks on as Bishop Checchio, left, blesses one of the two birthing suites at the Mary V. O'Shea Birth Center.

Neonatal Intensive Care Unit should medical intervention be needed.

“It truly is the best of both worlds,” said Joanne Cunha, MS, certified nurse-midwife and clinical director of Saint Peter’s Midwifery Services. “A stunningly beautiful, quiet and comfortable space to bring a new life into the world, but with all the resources of the hospital, just a few floors away,” she said.

The growth of the birth center concept coincides with an evolution in obstetrics care, regarding pregnancy and childbirth as a healthy, normal part of life – not something to be treated as a medical condition. The Birth Center team embraces that wellness model.

They provide continuous, supportive care and use interventions only when medically necessary.

Each birth is attended by a midwife, a registered nurse and a patient care technician who is trained as a doula. The Saint Peter’s team is exclusive to the Birth Center. All Saint Peter’s midwives are certified by the American Midwifery Certification Board.

“We respect each woman’s right to decide the circumstances of her birth experience,” Cuhna said. “Our expectant mothers can eat when hungry, spend time in the tub and labor in the most comfortable position, specific to them. Fetal monitoring is done by handheld Doppler so women can move about freely. We attend to her every need and serve as her partner in the decision making about her birth plan,” she added.

Central to the experience is the mother’s birth plan, developed at the beginning of the pregnancy. Expectant mothers use it as a tool to document their personal preferences and wishes for how the labor should progress – everything from designating family members and support individuals in attendance to labor expectations and directions regarding medical intervention, should the need arise.

This philosophy of care is part of a holistic approach, developing real relationships and considering all aspects of the expecting mother’s life.

“It’s low-tech and high-touch, incorporating the family. We spend time.

We educate. It’s an inclusive, personalized, one-on-one approach,” Cuhna explained.

The Birth Center was named to honor the memory of Mary V. O’Shea, benefactor, longtime area resident and member of St. Peter the Apostle University and Community Parish, New Brunswick.

For more information or to schedule a tour, call (732) 339-7880 or visit www.saintpetershcs.com/birthcenter, where you may also download the birth plan

take place, these complex components or substrates begin to accumulate in the cells, hence the name “storage diseases.”

Day-Salvatore’s patient presented with multiple symptoms including failureto-thrive, albinism, diarrhea, large liver and kidneys, and global developmental delays.

While most lysosomal storage disorders are inherited in a recessive manner, in which an individual inherits an alteration in the same gene for the same trait from each parent, she found that her patient instead had a single, brand new change in a gene previously associated with osteopetrosis (a disorder with abnormally dense bones prone to fracture), a condition her patient did not have.

Day-Salvatore suspected that the change in this gene known as CLCN7, which controls movement of chloride molecules across the lysosomal membrane, created a “gain-of-function” that caused the gene to work in overdrive. In order for a lysosome to work properly, it must maintain a very specific pH environment through various ion channels and transporters. Day-Salvatore theorized that while all the enzymes required for the lysosomes to perform their duties were present and not deficient in her patient’s case, they were unable to work properly because the environment had been altered by the genetic change.

Day-Salvatore believed that the condition was so unique that she was inspired to find out more about it and in doing so identified a colleague at the National Institute of

Health (NIH) who had also recently identified a child with the same de novo (not inherited from a parent) CLCN7 variant. Both children had delayed myelination (nerve function development) and development, organomegaly (abnormal enlargement of specific organs) and hypopigmentation (loss of skin pigment or color). A collaboration ensued and studies on both patients showed an increase in acidity of the lysosomal environment.

Additional studies using other laboratory and mouse models not only showed a direct impact of the genetic change on movement of molecules across the chloride channel resulting in hyperacidity, but also confirmed cause and effect between this variant and the clinical features that were observed.

The findings prompted the team to attempt to alkalinize or lower the increased acidity of the lysosome. Chloroquine (CQ), an FDA-approved drug used to treat malaria, is a known alkalinizing agent.

Chloroquine is rapidly absorbed from the gastrointestinal tract and deposited in tissues like the liver, spleen, kidney, lung, brain and spinal cord, and in considerable amounts. This is key because its ability to penetrate the blood-brain barrier means that it has potential to treat complications involving all of the major organs including the central nervous system. Chloroquine did in fact rescue cells in the laboratory — the question was whether or not it would

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NEW BRUNSWICK — Dr. Debra DaySalvatore, chairman of the Department of Medical Genetics and Genomic Medicine at Saint Peter’s University Hospital, identified a new lysosomal storage disease linked to a unique genetic variant, a finding so significant that it was recently published in “The American Journal of Human Genetics” (AJHG).

The published paper, titled “Lysosomal Storage and Albinism Due to Effects of a de novo CLCN7 Variant on Acidification,” describes the first gain-of-function genetic alteration to result in lysosomal dysfunction. Lysosomal storage diseases (LSDs) are inherited metabolic diseases that are characterized by an abnormal accumulation of various toxic materials in the body’s cells. There are nearly 70 of these disorders that affect different parts of the body, for example the brain, eyes, heart, kidneys, liver, spleen, bones, and central nervous system.

New LSDs continue to be identified and while clinical trials are in progress for some, for most there is no treatment.

Signs and symptoms vary from disease to disease within this group, but in each case described so far, they occur due to an enzyme deficiency that inhibits the ability of the cell’s lysosomes to perform their normal function. A lysosome’s role is to act as the primary digestive unit within the cell, breaking down complex components such as proteins, sugars and lipids into simpler components. When this process does not

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work in humans. Day-Salvatore developed a treatment protocol, and, with the consent of the hospital’s research arm and the family, began treating her patient whose symptoms had progressed and was critically ill.

Results will be published in a subsequent manuscript, however, there was clearly reversal of symptoms and marked improvement in development.

Her discovery is significant in that it confirmed the identification of a new lysosomal storage disease and mechanism of action along with offering promising therapeutic intervention.

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her because of “being part of something greater than myself.”

The event could not have been greater weather-wise, with a sun-splashed sky, warm temperature and relatively low humidity. Starting in the morning from Immaculate Conception Parish, participants walked three sets of three miles, stopping for lunch at Lake Solitude around noon, and attending an afternoon adoration service at Union Forge Park, both in the High Bridge area.

The walk included prayers and hymns. Some 23 priests accompanied the walkers at various points, along with a host of religious, according to Father Timothy A. Christy, diocesan vicar general.

The walkers arrived back at Immaculate Conception shortly after 5 p.m.

There, Bishop James F. Checchio, who was unable to walk the entire route because of another commitment earlier in the day but joined in the last three miles, greeted walkers as they climbed the hill to Immaculate Conception. The bishop looked “incognito,” as one man said, dressed in sneakers and a New York Giants bucket hat.

“Glad to be here, great turnout.”

said the bishop, who had called on parishioners from throughout the diocese to make the pilgrimage as part of the diocese’s Year of Spiritual Awakening.

“The Way of St. Juan Diego” culminated in an outdoor guitar Mass with Bishop Checchio presiding. It was held next to the parish cemetery, with a large, granite crucifix behind the portable altar, and an approximate 10-by-20-foot rendering of Our Lady of Guadalupe to the left of the cross.

In his homily, the bishop spoke of “true discipleship.” He said God, through Jesus’ parable about the man who squandered his master’s wealth (Luke 16:1-13) is not looking for superficial disciples.

Rather he desires people who are totally committed.

“If we’re not willing to accept the consequences of discipleship, we should be careful about calling ourselves disciples,” he added.

Motioning with his left arm toward the portable altar, the bishop continued, “We bring so many needs with us and place them right here, where heaven comes to us again through the Eucharist.

God comes to be with us, unites heaven and earth. He desires to draw close to us, and Lord, today we open our hearts more

widely to you. God bless you.”

Speaking at the Concluding Rite, Father Christy encouraged the crowd, which had swelled to about 1,000, to move forward from the pilgrimage and seek ways to perform acts of discipleship.

“I know that one of the ways we respond is through the young church … because of the Holy Spirit,” Father Christy said. He then called on deacons or young men thinking about joining the priesthood, young women considering the religious life, and young couples about to enter into matrimony to come forth to the center aisle toward the bishop, who bestowed separate blessings upon each group.

Members of St. Bernadette Parish, Parlin, marched with their parish’s banner. Its pastor, Father James W. Hagerman, said some parishioners walked in memory of David Mundy, whose parents and relatives belong to the parish. Mundy, 28, died June 1 of a drug overdose; his birthday fell on Sept. 21.

“My husband and I wanted to do the pilgrimage just for the spiritual guidance and everything that we are appreciative of,” said Karen Gumprecht, Mundy’s aunt. “But it was also fitting that today

would have been his [Mundy’s] birthday.”

Other people offered a story about why they participated. A mother of eight children, Mary Margaret Molnar of St. Mary-Stony Hill Parish, Watchung, came because she often asks for Mary’s intercession. Father John M. Rozembajgier, who was installed Feb. 2 as pastor of Mary, Mother of God Parish, Hillsborough, credits the Virgin of Guadalupe for reviving his faith and helping solidify his decision to become a priest.

“Being so connected in purpose gives you a visual of the Body of Christ as the church,” said Valentino, a Hazlet resident and member of St. Benedict Parish, Holmdel. “We were all here walking in one direction and with one motivation and one goal, and I think that’s beautiful.”

Music was performed by members of Immaculate Conception Parish and school, Sisters of Christian Charity in Mendham and a diocesan-wide college outreach group known as Break Ministry.

Father Christy thanked Father Jonathan S. Toborowsky, pastor, Immaculate Conception, as well as its staff, several diocesan employees and clergy for their roles in coordinating the pilgrimage.

Clockwise from above, Bishop James F. Checchio gives the homily at Mass at Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, after pilgrims walked nine miles through Hunterdon County as part of "The Way of St. Juan Diego;" a pilgrim carries a banner; some of the 700 pilgrims walk during the event; Bishop Checchio raises the host during the consecration; and Father Tholitho is shown with pilgrims. Music was performed by members of Immaculate Conception Parish and school, Sisters of Christian Charity in Mendham and a diocesan-wide college outreach group known as Break Ministry.

— Ed Koskey Jr. photos

The faithful clapped and danced in the pews as the choir sang the closing hymn to Our Lady of Guadalupe, calling her “star of the morning, protector of the poor.” Joyous congregants seemed reluctant to leave the Cathedral, instead gathering in groups to greet friends from their parishes and meet new friends.

Sara Sharlow and her husband,

Tom, “come to this every year,” she said. “This Mass is always so exciting.” fellow Cathedral parishioner Patricia Bixel agreed.

“The Hispanic Catholics are full of life,” Bixel said. “I knew I should come

here for prayers and the celebration.”

Reflecting on the Mass, Allan Caballero, director, diocesan Office of Hispanic Evangelization and Pastoral Ministry stated: “I am grateful for the outpouring support of the many lay

leaders that volunteered to organize this important Liturgy for the Hispanic community. It was amazing to see more than 15 priests and 700 parishioners from our 24 Hispanic parishes coming together to celebrate the Hispanic Heritage Mass. It was a joyful celebration with a clear message: we are one Church with one body and one mission.”

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Left, Father Timothy A. Christy, who presided and gave the homily at the Hispanic Heritage Mass, accepts a traditional gift of food. Above, Father Christy (center) is joined at the altar by (from left) Msgr. John B. Gordon, Deacon Reynaldo Lopez and Father Juan Carlos Gaviria during the consecration. Right, the Mass included a procession of members of parishes in the diocese carrying images of the Blessed Mother unique to the country of their descendants.

— Mike Ehrmann photos

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By Teresa Murphy Correspondent Father Jonathan S. Toborowsky and Father John J. O’Kane are both new shepherds of parishes with Catholic schools. Father Toborowsky was installed as pastor of Immaculate Conception Parish, Annandale, in 2018. Father O’Kane was appointed administrator of Immaculate Conception Parish, Spotswood, in July.

Knowing that neither of them had experience heading a Catholic school before their assignment, Bishop James F. Checchio decided to get them some help. He asked both to attend a three-day conference at the School Pastors Institute, a leadership symposium offered by the Alliance for Catholic Education (ACE) at Notre Dame University, South Bend, Ind. The Alliance exists to promote the value and accessibility of a quality Catholic education. More than 1,100 priests have attended the School Pastors Institute since its beginning in 2011.

Father Toborowsky said that although he had no previous experience managing a school, he came away from the conference feeling more confident in his role.

“A school is a blessing. It’s a wonderful thing, a wonderful piece of the life of a parish,” Father Toborowsky said, but “there’s Father John J. O’Kane, top, and Father also a side of it that’s a business.”

The business aspect — relationships Jonathan S. Toborowsky attended a conwith principals, parents, school board; fund- ference at the School Pastors Institute. ing; enrollment — can make priests uncom- available for enrollment to continue to grow fortable and afraid of failure, he said. This from its current total of of about 200 stuwas a theme discussed by keynote speaker dents, it is not struggling with enrollment.

Bishop Mario Aviles, auxiliary bishop of the “Immaculate Conception is here to stay,” he Diocese of Brownsville, Texas. said. “The school is built to thrive.”

“Sometimes as pastors we internalize Father O’Kane said he was inspired by it,” Father Toborowsky said. “Somehow, if Father Joseph Corpora, director, ACE, who something goes wrong in the school, this is spoke about the importance of Catholic going to reflect on me.” Supporting a parish schools for the Church. “There are many alschool is “extra work, but it’s very fulfill- ternatives to Catholic schools … but there’s ing,” he stated. no substitute,” Father O’Kane said, recallFather Toborowsky said myriad pieces ing the words of Father Corpora. “Only our of practical advice offered by presenters Catholic schools can really offer everything provided a valuable education for a first- we do, including that closeness with Jesus time Catholic school pastor. But getting Christ. I’m a product of Catholic school the chance to connect with other pastors myself. I believe that.” who have experienced the same “initial Father Corpora cited statistics that overwhelm” and networking with the nearly show families whose children attend Catho100 attending priests was the most helpful lic school have significantly higher Sunday aspect, he said, adding that the symposium Mass attendance rates than families whose also encouraged him to consider what his children receive their education in a public parish is doing “to reach out to the ones who school with separate religious education would love to have a Catholic education but through parish catechetical programs. can’t afford it.”

According to Father Corpora, 27 perFather O’Kane said the conference cent of Catholic children in Catholic schools gave him renewed energy toward his goal to attend Mass weekly with their families, make his parochial school “the powerhouse compared to only 2 percent of students atit deserves to be.” Another takeaway from tending public schools and parish catechetithe conference for Father O’Kane was the cal programs. “Twenty-seven percent is not need to constantly work on fundraising, a great number, but it’s far different from marketing, and enrollment so that the par- virtually none,” Father O’Kane said. He Rutgers Student Center ish is not drained to support the school. He added that the statistics were sobering and 126 College NJ 08901 said he learned that “enrollment is yourAve, best New show Brunswick, that Catholic schools are essential for fundraiser” — not only because ofevent tuition,is sponsored the life of the Church and for evangelizing This by the but because students’ parents often become to families.

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“The mission of Catholic schools is to ministryHe of the Diocese of Metuchen. found this encouraging, because while get children and their families to heaven,” Immaculate Conception School has seats he said.

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Priest’s spiritual journey continues as shepherd of Dunellen parish

By Christina Leslie Correspondent DUNELLEN — More than 7,000 miles between a small village in Kenya and a small town in Middlesex County were bridged Sept. 15 when Bishop James F. Checchio installed Father Alphonsus Mwariri Kariuki as the new pastor of St. John the Evangelist Parish.

The celebration included English readers, a Spanish choir and Kenyan dancers which seemed to reinforce how God’s love has no single language nor geographical boundary.

“The defining mark of being a Christian is to be merciful. All of us need to ask for mercy at times,” reminded Bishop Checchio in his homily on the story of the Prodigal Son (Luke 15: 1-32). “Because we are treated mercifully by God, we must show mercy to one another.”

He continued, “This is the defining mark of being a disciple: loving one another. Don’t just follow the Golden Rule, but live the Divine Rule: treat others as God would treat them. Participate in the ways of heaven right now.”

Preparing to install Father Kariuki, Bishop Checchio said with a smile, “This is such an exciting day. Father Alphonsus has distinguished himself by his work in our diocese. This is his first time as a pastor, be gentle with him. He will teach this community in the ways of the Gospel.”

Father Kariuki was ordained in his native Kenya in 1986 and first assigned to minister to nomads there. In 1991, he left the African continent to serve with the Consolata Missionaries around the world, including the United States, Toronto, Italy, Colombia and Ecuador.

In addition to speaking Kiswahili, the Kenyan national language, the new pastor has learned to converse in English, Italian and Spanish.

In the Diocese of Metuchen, Father Kariuki has served as a parochial vicar at Immaculate Conception Parish, Spotswood; St. Phillip and St. James Parish, Phillipsburg, and St. Matthew the Apostle Parish, Edison. He was incardinated into the diocese in 2011.

At the rite of installation, the bishop asked the parish staff, finance council and trustees to stand, indicating their acceptance of the new pastor’s role in the 140-year-old faith community. The congregation’s invitation to applaud was met with cheers, drum rolls from the Spanish choir, and ululations from the Kenyan dancers.

“Remember, my brother, always be a loving father, a gentle shepherd and a wise teacher of your people,” Bishop Checchio advised, “so that you may lead them to Christ who will strengthen all that you do.”

Father Kariuki responded with his

profession of faith and oath, saying, “With firm faith, I also believe everything contained in God’s Word, written or handed down in tradition … accept and hold each and every thing that is proposed by the Church… [and] adhere to the teachings [of] the Roman Pontiff and college of bishops.”

As pastor of St. John the Evangelist Parish, Father Kariuki will guide about 600 registered families. There are 166 children in its religion education program.

As for what he enjoys about being a pastor, Father Kariuki told “The Catholic Spirit,” “I can make decisions that I think are good for my parish without having to wait for another pastor’s approval.”

He added, "Among the challenges of being a pastor are a declining weekly collection and wondering how I will get the salaries and other bills paid."

Father Kariuki said he does not plan to make changes in ministries in the near future “other than small things here and there that people think are long overdue in getting improved.”

“However, the church roof needs urgent repairs and I plan to organize a capital campaign to raise funds for that,” he said.

After the Mass, congregants greeted their new pastor and shared their joy at his installation.

One Dunellen resident, Homer Mosely, plans to attend St. John’s more often because of the strength of Father Kariuki’s homilies. “I have lived in this town for 36 years but go to Blessed Sacrament-St. Charles Borromeo Church in Newark,” the Kenyan native said, “but I will start coming here more. [Father Kariuki] has very good preaching. You can tell the preaching is good when the congregation doesn’t beat you out the door.”

Serah Munyin, a member of St. Bartholomew Parish, East Brunswick, served as one of the Kenyan dancers at the Mass, clad in vibrant blue dresses and headdresses bearing their motto “Pray without Ceasing” and adorned with pictures of St. Monica. She said the group, which totals about 100 faithful, meets twice a month for prayer and liturgies. Expressing appreciation for Father Kariuki’s leadership of his fellow Kenyans, Munyin said, “It is good for us to teach our ways to our children.”

Nancy Macharia, a member of St. Matthew the Apostle Parish, Edison, got to know Father Kariuki in his role of co-coordinator of the diocesan AfricanAmerican, African and Caribbean Apostolate.

“We come to the Masses twice a month, to pray and have dinner together,” Macharia explained. “We love Father Alphonsus. He is so spirited.”

Above, Bishop James F. Checchio (left) and Father Alphonsus M. Kariuki embrace after the bishop led the rite of installation of Father Kariuki as pastor of St. John the Evangelist Parish. Right, the newlyinstalled pastor prays the consecration as Bishop Checchio, who presided at the Mass and gave the homily, listens.

Above, a group of Catholics of Kenyan descent dressed in traditional garb process while singing the "Alleluia" verse during the Mass of installation of Father Kariuki as pastor at St. John the Evangelist Church. Left, Mary Kahonu, chairlady of the Kenyan American Catholic Community, presents a Lectionary to Deacon Enock Berluche Sr. prior to the proclamation of the Gospel. Father Kariuki, who was born in Kenya, was ordained to the priesthood in 1986. His first assignment was ministering to nomads. In 1991, he began serving at various sites around the world with the Consolota Missionaries.

Father Kariuki was incardinated in the Diocese of Metuchen in 2011.

— John Batkowski photos

Above, Bishop James F. Checchio holds the chalice during the consecration at a Mass for the installation of Father Brian J. Nolan (far right, standing) as pastor of Blessed Sacrament Parish. Also shown are, from left, Father Lukasz Blicharski, Msgr. Eugene Prus and Father Mauricio Tabera-Vasquez. Right, Father Nolan, who is the sixth pastor of the 51-yearold parish, listens to applause from the faithful after being introduced by Bishop Checchio. A native of Newark, Father Nolan grew up in Edison, where he attended St. Matthew School and Edison High School.

— Frank Wojciechowski photos

Above, a Knights of Columbus Color Corps leads the procession at the Mass of installation.

Left, Bishop Checchio, who presided at the Mass and gave the homily, greets the faithful before the liturgy. Father Nolan was ordained to the priesthood

by Bishop Edward T. Hughes, May 25, 1991, at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi. Blessed Sacrament Parish has 2,067 registered families and 450 children in religious education classes.

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MARTINSVILLE — The faithful of Blessed Sacrament Parish warmly welcomed Bishop James F. Checchio Sept. 22 for the installation of Father Brian J. Nolan as pastor. Hundreds of congregants, including the priest’s mother, Esther, worshiped at the Mass, during which the parish’s sixth shepherd was installed.

In his homily, Bishop Checchio reflected upon the Gospel of St. Luke (16:1-13) in which Jesus tells his disciples, “The person who is trustworthy in very small matters is also trustworthy in great ones… You cannot serve both God and mammon. In that moment of decision, true discipleship will become important. We need to grow in faith, turn away from sin.

There will come a time in life when we will have to choose… The desire to spend our lives in heaven is what Jesus says should permeate our lives.

“True discipleship is a worthy subject to discuss and pray about as you install your new pastor of Blessed Sacrament, and what kind of disciples you will be under the leadership of Father Nolan. This parish has not been built up by lukewarm disciples.

You have done so well through your prayer, sacrifice and hard work.”

During the installation, Bishop Checchio invited the parish staff, finance council and trustees of the parish to stand to indicate their approval of Father Nolan’s leadership. At the congregation’s hearty applause, the parish’s new pastor joyfully hugged the bishop, then recited his oath to believe God’s word, adhere to the Church’s precepts and heed his bishop and Pope Francis as he exercised his ministry.

Father Nolan was born in Newark to Esther and the late Joseph Nolan.

Growing up in Edison, he attended St. Matthew School and Edison High School, and graduated with a bachelor’s degree in Christian tradition from the University of Scranton (Pa.).

Father Nolan continued his education at Immaculate Conception Seminary, Seton Hall University, South Orange, earning first a Master of Divinity degree, then a Master of Theology degree. He also earned a master’s degree in adult education and a doctorate of ministry at Fordham University, Bronx, N.Y. Bishop Edward T. Hughes ordained Father Nolan to the priesthood May 25, 1991, at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. He has participated in the U.S.A.F. Chaplain Candidate Program. His service on the diocesan level includes the positions Delegate for Dispensations in the Secretariat for Canonical Affairs and di-

rector of the Diocesan Formation and Leadership Department.

Father Nolan’s parish assignments include ministry in Our Lady of Lourdes, Milltown; Our Lady of Victories, Sayreville, and Immaculate Conception, Somerville. Just prior to being appointed pastor of Blessed Sacrament Parish, he served for almost two decades as pastor of St. Mary-Stony Hill Parish, Watchung.

After the Mass, two of the congregants smiled as they shared their recollections about Father Nolan.

“He was our pastor for 19 years, and was wonderful and very kind,” said Nancy Ebler of St. Mary-Stony Hill. Her husband, Joseph, added, “He was the one who made St. Mary’s a home.”

Amy Nocera, a member of the parish’s Council of Catholic Women, had come to appreciate Father Nolan’s homilies during daily Mass. “He’s a great ‘people person,’” she said, “and very open.”

Another daily communicant, Knights of Columbus member Al LoGiudice, noted Blessed Sacrament Parish, founded in 1968, was once a mission church of Our Lady of the Mount, Warren. LoGiudice, an extraordinary minister of holy Communion, added, “Father Brian is a gem, I love him. I am looking forward to a great relationship.”

In an interview with “The Catholic Spirit,” Father Nolan shared his goals to nurture the connection between his congregation of 2,067 registered families and 450 children in religious education classes. He advocated expanding the Exposition of the Blessed Sacrament and “learning to juxtapose the mundane and routine with profound moments.”

“The congregation is getting grayer, getting older,” he added. “The U.S. Census figures for Bridgewater shows the average age is 43 years old. But people are living longer and healthier lives. We have to nurture the social and the spiritual needs of our older parishioners, and yet we need to investigate how to connect with the young.”

In a column posted on the parish website prior to his installation, Father Nolan shared his vision of the pastorate. “The moments of grace become beautiful when we are leading someone to Christ in a visible way…I pray for the grace and wisdom to accompany you in our journey pilgrimage,” he wrote.

The priest, drew inspiration from a 1936 novel penned by the French writer Georges Bernanos. “As [he] said in his classic Catholic novel, ‘The Diary of a Country Priest,’” Father Nolan concluded, “‘All is grace.’ Let us welcome graces yet to be received.”

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Faithful in diocese encouraged to pray rosary daily Oct. 6-13 As the faithful prepare for the consecration of the diocese to Jesus through Our Lady of Guadalupe, Bishop James F. Checchio has designated the week of Oct. 6-13 as diocesan Week of the Rosary.

During the week, all people of the diocese, young and old alike, are encouraged to pray the rosary daily, confident that her intercession directs us to her son, Jesus, and our call to discipleship. What better way to show our love for the Blessed Mother?

The Week of the Rosary begins Oct. 6, which is Respect Life Sunday.

This is a day when people from across the diocese will join others from across the nation to take part in Life Chain, a peaceful, prayerful, public witness in support of the sanctity of all human life. This is an opportunity for us to pray to the Queen of Mercy, rosary in hand, for all those babies lost to abortion and for all those in our society who are vulnerable.

Oct. 7 marks the Feast of Our Lady of the Holy Rosary. On this day

and the days that follow, the faithful are encouraged to meditate on the mysteries of salvation as they ask her to set their hearts on fire in preparation to be consecrated to her maternal care.

The Week of the Rosary will culminate Oct. 13, which is the 102nd anniversary of the Fatima Miracle of the Sun. The faithful are urged to pray in solidarity with people across the country who will gather for rosary rallies (https://rosarycoasttocoast.com/) pleading for the return of the nation to God and to holiness.

Together, pray that an ever increasing number of faithful turn to Mary as a means of growing closer to the Lord. Mother of the Americas and Star of the New Evangelization, pray for us!

For reflections for the year of Preparation for Consecration of the Diocese of Metuchen to Jesus through Our Lady of Guadalupe as you pray the Joyful Mysteries of the Rosary, visit the diocesan website https:// lightingheartsonfire.org/

Charismatic Renewal Community event focuses on healing, music On Sept. 7, more than 300 families of Hispanic descent from around the diocese attended a worship night at Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway.

The event was organized by the Charismatic Renewal Community and sponsored by the diocesan Office of Family Life. It focused on healing and the impact of music in our lives.

The performances ranged from concerts and worship sessions to benediction and hymns. Among the singers was Carilu Colon, a member of Immaculate Conception Parish, Somerville. She shared an emotional talk about the healing power of music on her family and invited others to reflect on the many blessings they have received from God throughout the years.

Attendees participated in Eucharistic Adoration in a “Praise and Worship” musical style. The night was inspiring and emotional. Many

Allan E. Caballero, right, director of the diocesan Hispanic Evangelization and Pastoral Ministry, poses with Aida Santiago and Angelina Rodriguez at a display table during a worship night at Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, Sept. 7.

— photo courtesy of Allan E. Caballero

felt blessed to be part of this joyful celebration where people of all ages came together to worship God.

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Jubilarians celebrate milestone anniversaries in consecrated service PISCATAWAY — Celebrating a collective 830 years of consecrated life, 15 religious jubilarians from the diocese were honored at a Sept. 12 luncheon at the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center.

One of this year’s jubilarians, Religious Teachers Filippini Sister Dolores Toscano, who celebrated 75 years of consecrated life, took her final vows when she was 18.

“I never knew I would reach 75 years of consecrated life at 93 years old,” said Sister Dolores. “But it’s whatever God wants. He has our lives in his hands.”

Sister Dolores, who was the longest-serving religious brother or sister at the table, said God has richly blessed her in her ministry, especially in her service to the elderly and homebound.

For the last 10 years, Sister Dolores has traveled to the Religious Teachers Filippini’s motherhouse in Morristown, where she cuts hair, and gives facials and manicures to the other religious sisters, mostly in their last 80s and 90s.

At 93, she still gladly makes the 20mile trip from her residence at the St. Ann Convent in Raritan Borough to the congregation’s motherhouse.

“The homebound are full of wisdom,” she said. “They teach me.”

The jubilarians were joined at the luncheon by Bishop James F. Checchio, Msgr. Edward C. Puleo, Episcopal Vicar for Clergy and Consecrated Life, and Christian Charity Sister Anna Nguyen, Delegate for Religious.

In celebration of the jubilarians

2019 Jubilarians 75 Years

Sister Dolores Toscano, MPF

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Sister Joan Gavron, RSM Sister Mary Karen Horan, RSM Sister Joyce Marie Riley, RSM Sister Mary Edwina Rudolph, RSM

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Bishop James F. Checchio, back row, center, Msgr. Edward C. Puleo, (right) Episcopal Vicar for Clergy and Consecrated Life, and Christian Charity Sister Anna Nguyen (left), Delegate for Religious, pose at the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center with religious from the diocese celebrating signifcant anniversaries.

— Mike Ehrmann photo and their milestone anniversaries – 25, 50, 60, 70 and 75 years – Msgr. Puleo toasted the group.

“Serving the young, the old, the rich, the poor, males and females, you have given of yourselves – your mind, your body, your hearts and souls – to Christ and His Church,” said Msgr.

Puleo. “As Christ worked with human hands, thought with a human mind and loved with a human heart, so you have been imitations of the Master.”

Each jubilarian was presented with a statue of Our Lady of Guadalupe, in honor of the diocese’s consecration to Jesus, through the powerful interces-

sion of Our Lady of Guadalupe, and was asked to pray, in a special way, for the bishop as he leads a pilgrimage to Mexico from Oct. 20-24. They were also given chaplets, handmade by Sister Wilma at the Our Lady of Tenderness Hermitage in Piscataway.

Before blessing the statues and the chaplets, Bishop Checchio thanked the jubilarians for their years of consecrated life and for attending the luncheon.

“We are grateful to have you and are even more grateful for your witness, for the lives that you live and the prayers that you say for our Church,”

Sister Eileen McNamee, RSM Sister Benda Rowe, RSM Sister Mary Stanislaus Zita, RSM Sister Barbara Ortmann, OP Brother Richard Leven, SC

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Sister M. Antonia Cooper, OSF Sister M. Veronica Simpson, OSF

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Sister Lorraine Doiron, SJH Sister Donna Marie Lasota, SJH Sister Judith Andrews, SJH said Bishop Checchio. “You can imagine the graces and the souls that have been affected by your witness, your evangelization, and by your work through your collective 830 years of service…it’s an honor to be present with you and I’m grateful we had this moment to, in a small way, thank you.”

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EDUCATION Learning can be fun, even in higher education. Right, sophomore Megan Kibalo (left), and senior Faith Smith work on a robot in the Makerspace as part of the Robotics Club last year at St. Thomas Aquinas High School, Edison. Below, the diocesan institution’s name of Bishop George Ahr High School was changed effective July 1 to return to the name of St. Thomas Aquinas, which opened its doors in 1969. The name was changed in 1983 to honor Bishop George Ahr’s 30 years of service to the Diocese of Trenton, which included founding the four-year college preparatory school. The name St. Thomas Aquinas High School “better reflects the mission of the school and was made after prayerful consideration and with the best interest of our students — past, present and future — in mind,” school officials said. St. Thomas Aquinas is the patron of intellectual pursuit.

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Seton Hall University partners with high schools for college credit

By Dr. Robert Lockwood In my Back to School opening article, I shared that I embarked on a journey to develop a stronger academic relationship between our schools and Seton Hall University, South Orange.

The first phase of the relationship was to provide our high school students with greater access to college level classes. That has been accomplished through Seton Hall’s Project Acceleration. Project Acceleration allows high school students in New Jersey to get an early start on college. While still in high school, students enroll concurrently within the College of Arts and Sciences at Seton Hall University. In essence, the high school teacher becomes a professor through Seton Hall. A student’s regular high school class doubles as a Seton

Hall college class earning them three or Immaculata and St. Thomas Aquifour credits per course. Over the course nas joins Saint Joseph High School in of their high school Metuchen, which career, students can already participates Over the course of earn up to 22 credits in Project Accelerafrom Seton Hall Unition. The administratheir high school versity for approved tions at Immaculata career, students can courses taken in their High School and high school. The colSt. Thomas Aquinas earn up to 22 credits lege credits earned High School spent through Project Acmany months workfrom Seton Hall celeration are accepting with the univerUniversity for ed at more than 200 sity to prepare for colleges and universithe project. approved courses ties. Immaculata and St. Thomas taken in their high St. Thomas Aquinas Aquinas is starting join 175 high schools with two classes — school.... and approximately world literature, a 3,000 students around senior level class, the country who participate in Project and Religion 2, a sophomore level Acceleration each year. class. Immaculata has eight courses

with Project Acceleration — calculus, computer science, Spanish, chemistry, music theory, European history, English literature, and English language.

Both Immaculata and St. Thomas Aquinas High Schools are enthusiastic about opportunities for students afforded by the partnership. Harry Zeigler, associate principal at St. Thomas Aquinas High School, says that, “The dual enrollment partnership with Seton Hall provides our students with the invaluable opportunity to earn college credit during their time at St. Thomas Aquinas, offering them yet another academic advantage as they prepare to enter the competitive world of higher education.”

Joan Silo, head of school at Immaculata High School, is also eager for the partnership: “Immaculata is excited to offer our students the opportunity to take college level courses through our distinguished teachers and challenging curriculum, in partnership with an elite Catholic university. The value is unmatched. When participating students graduate from Immaculata High School, they will bring credits with them, and they will be fully prepared for the rigor of college as they will have already engaged academically at that level.”

On Oct. 2, I traveled to Seton Hall University with Joan Silo and Harry Zeigler for an official signing of the partnership between Seton Hall and the two high schools. We met with Christopher Kaiser, associate dean of the College of Arts and Sciences, and Peter Shoemaker, dean of the College of Arts and Sciences.

We are delighted by this new partnership as we work to grow the hearts and minds of our teachers and students.

Thank you for your ongoing support as we continue to strengthen our schools through rigorous academics as we prepare students to be Disciples of Christ in this world and the next.

Dr. Lockwood is superintendent, diocesan Office of Schools

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Julia Brawley, a senior at Immaculata University, poses with Barbara Lettiere, president of the institution, after receiving the Saint Catherine of Alexandria Medal for 2019-2020.

— photo courtesy of Immaculata University Julia Brawley, a graduate of Immaculata High School, Somerville, who is a senior at Immaculata University (Pa.), recently received the Saint Catherine of Alexandria Medal for 2019-2020.

Brawley received the medal at the annual Mass of the Holy Spirit.

Kappa Gamma Pi, a national honor society for graduates of Catholic colleges, sponsors this medal, which is named after Saint Catherine of Alexandria, who represents wisdom, fortitude, and Christian service. Kappa Gamma Pi offers the medal to a student at the conclusion of his/her junior year. The selection is made by the university’s faculty and/ or classmates on the basis of leadership and service to the institution.

Having attended Catholic schools in New Jersey, Brawley admired the Sisters, Servants of the Immaculate Heart of Mary (IHM) and decided to attend Immaculata as an elementary and special education major, minoring in theology. She has served or is serving as president for Macs Respect Life, treasurer of the Class of 2020, secretary for Crown of Creation, ambassador for

the university’s chapter of Catholic Relief Services, liturgical minister, and an admissions ambassador.

When Brawley was notified during the summer that she was the recipient of the Saint Catherine Medal, she was overjoyed.

“It means more than I can say because I feel like there are so many candidates who would have been awesome choices to receive the award. I am kind of overwhelmed that I was chosen,” she said.

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In September, 26 children started the school year with scholarships from a new, independent nonprofit called Hope through Education — “A Fund for Better Futures.” Hope was founded to help close the gap between available aid and desperately needed aid, and to ensure that economically disadvantaged children have the opportunity to reach their full potential.

To be eligible for a Hope Scholarship, a student must: • Rank in the neediest percentile of all applicants who apply through FACTS Grant & Aid, a nationally recognized Aid Assessment system; • Be entering grades K-12 in the year they are applying for financial aid; and • Must live in either Hunterdon, Middlesex, Somerset or Warren county.

This year’s recipients will be attending all four Catholic high schools and five of the Catholic grade schools in the diocese. They come from diverse faith backgrounds, but they all have one thing in common — they love their schools, their teachers and their friends — and they love to learn in a welcoming and safe environment.

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New Jersey college to receive grant from nonprofit for students’ well-being RUTHERFORD — Felician University is set to collaborate with the JED Foundation, a nonprofit organization dedicated to the protection of mental health and prevention of teen and young adult suicide.

As a JED Campus, Felician will be part of a nationwide initiative of the JED Foundation (JED) designed to guide schools through a process of comprehensive systems, program and policy development with customized support to build upon existing student mental health, substance abuse and sui-

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The scholarship will allow Felician University to embark on a strategic partnership with JED that assesses and enhances existing work and helps to create positive, lasting, systemic change in the campus community.

As a JED Campus Felician will establish an interdisciplinary, campuswide team to assess, support and implement improvements. The team will work with JED over four years to identify opportunities to enhance emotional health and suicide prevention efforts.

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School’s program seeks to instill love for learning, understanding of intercon EDISON — As a long-standing cornerstone of St. Thomas Aquinas High School’s academic offerings, the Honors Program is inspired by the school patron saint’s tireless search for the ways in which faith and reason are revealed in human knowledge.

To that end, the Honors Program at St. Thomas Aquinas (STA) seeks to form well-rounded, articulate, and inquisitive students who are exceptionally prepared for the rigors of top colleges and challenging professions.

The Honors Program, offered to high-achieving students upon admission as freshmen, is a four-year academic track based on a challenging, interdisciplinary, Honors and AP® curriculum that prepares students for college and beyond. By virtue of the rigorous courses that are offered, students are also able to claim college credits from Seton Hall University, South Orange, for certain classes, credits that are transferrable to any university that accepts Seton Hall courses.

Students in this cohort have the opportunity to learn and grow together as they take unique classes that are offered only to students in the Program and that are led by a group of teachers who work together to develop and enrich the Program. A working group such as this

Father Keith M. Cervine, left, director, Catholic Identity and religion teacher at St. Thomas Aquinas High School, attends one of Dan Mulvihill’s Biology Honors labs at a nearby pond.

— photo courtesy of St. Thomas Aquinas High School

allows for even deeper interdisciplinary learning opportunities, team teaching programs, and cross-curricular inquiry.

Examples include in-depth discussions of bioethics between in freshmen biology classes led by science teacher Dan

Mulvihill and Father Keith M. Cervine, director, Catholic Identity and religion teacher.

Honors Program students are also immersed in project-based learning experiences, one of the driving forces be-

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The latest additions to give to the Honors Program skills the include a senior capstone experience that acts as an be artic all-encompassing culmiconfide nation of the classes and experiences that students men and have undertaken and the — Patricia offering of numerous elective workshops that Honors involve project managementoring ment, problem solving, public speaking, time management, and team building. The Program also features an active peer mentoring program in which upperclassmen mentor and guide freshmen and sophomore students, forming

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Paul Nolan, Honors Program chairperson, strongly believes that “STA strives to create a challenging curriculum with in-depth content and superior instruction designed to inspire student curiosity, independent thinking, and creativity. We supplement a challenging scholastic curriculum with softer skills and underscore everything we do with civic and religious ideals in building a well-rounded person.”

Students who experience the STA Honors Program leave with a profound love for learning, a deep understanding of the interconnectedness of the various disciplines, and a comprehensive education in the liberal arts.

Students and teachers from the Honors Program are scheduled to be available to talk more about the program and answer questions at St. Thomas Aquinas’ fall open house, Oct. 13, 1 to 4 p.m.

St. Thomas Aquinas High School is a private, coeducational college preparatory school of the Diocese of Metuchen.

To address increasing enrollment and the desire to maintain cutting-edge offerings, the school underwent a capital expansion that opened in January 2006 and included new classrooms, a video studio, two computer labs, a second gym, a weight room, server space, and other

academic facilities.

St. Thomas Aquinas’ enrollment is open to young men and women of all faiths. It does not discriminate on the basis of race, color, national origin, sex, or creed in the administration of its educational, admission or financial policies, activities, athletics, or any schoolsanctioned program.

However, as St. Thomas Aquinas High School is a Catholic institution, all students, regardless of background, are required to complete our religious curriculum and participate in worship services.

The school has a diverse population of students hailing from more than 60 districts, primarily from Middlesex, Monmouth, Somerset and Union Counties. It also has a global reach, and consistently welcomes international students.

In October 2014, St. Thomas Aquinas High School received full re-accreditation through AdvancEd, the parent organization of the North Central Association Commission on Accreditation and School Improvement.

In accordance with its mission statement, the school seeks to develop students spiritually and to foster a sense of social and moral responsibility. As part of their faith foundation and education, St. Thomas Aquinas High School students are encouraged to serve the St. Thomas Aquinas community as well as their local communities. Students can volunteer at area soup kitchen, houses of worship, schools, hospitals and nursing homes.

Freshman students are required to complete 50 hours of service for the school year. Service hours account for

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friendships and allowing them to offer advice on everything from time management to navigating the building.

Patricia Krupinski, Honors Program mentoring coordinamentoring tor, said “The mentoring program is meant m is meant not only to create y to create a sense of family among the honors stue of family dents, but also to give the honors them the skills they need to be articulate s, but also and confident young men and women. This them the program is student ey need to driven and explores issues that are perculate and tinent to them, from ent young study skills to how to set and achieve their d women.” own personal goals.” a Krupinski, Students in the Honors Program also s Program benefit, in the same g coordinator way as every other student at STA, from a meaningful use of technology, including 1:1 Chromebook allocation, the latest software and hardware throughout the building, and a state-of-the art Makerspace and newly

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nnectedness of various disciplines, comprehensive education in liberal arts

Paul Nolan is the Honors Program coordinator who teaches Western Civilization, a course specifically for Honors Program students, at St. Thomas Aquinas High School.

— photo courtesy of St. Thomas Aquinas High School

A knowledgeable and dedicated team of religious and lay administration, faculty and staff collaborate with a large community of parents, alumni and benefactors to provide a quality Catholic education.

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College’s new chapel includes design by member of parish in diocese CALDWELL — Meg Poltorak Keyes, a member of St. Joseph Parish, North Plainfield, was the liturgical designer and project manager for Caldwell University’s new chapel.

Caldwell University alumni, benefactors, faculty, staff, students and other guests gathered for the dedication and blessing Mass for the new Sister Mary Dominic Tweedus Chapel Sept. 20.

Caldwell University President Nancy Blattner told those gathered that Poltorak Keyes’ artistic and design expertise “helped turn our vision into a reality far more beautiful than we could have imagined.” The new house of worship marries 900 years of the Dominican tradition with the contemporary, a space that appeals to the contemplative.

Poltorak Keyes has been renovating and restoring churches for more than 20 years. Among the list of her accomplishments: the floral design work at Sacred Heart Church, South Plainfield; and at the Cathedral of St. Francis, Metuchen, for the ordination and instillation of the fifth bishop of the Diocese of Metuchen, Bishop James F. Checchio. She also directed the renovation of St. Thomas the Apostle Church, Old Bridge, and St. Joseph in North Plainfield.

Poltorak Keyes was the first student to receive a bachelor of fine arts from what was then Caldwell College for Women.

Dominican Sister Gerardine Mueller, pro-

fessor emerita and the founder of the Art Department at Caldwell, was Poltorak Keyes’ professor when she was in college and this summer they had the chance to work together again on some work for the new chapel.

“Sister Gerardine did the design of the entry doors and she wanted me to finish it, like all good apprentices finish it for their masters,” said Poltorak Keyes. Sister Gerardine also did the numerals for the stations of the cross and the processional cross she created years ago is now in the new chapel.

Located “at the heart of our campus,” said Blattner, the chapel “provides more access to sacred space in a heavily traveled area of the campus” and serves as a daily reminder of Caldwell’s Catholic and Dominican heritage. Blattner pointed out that the site overlooks the cemetery of the Sisters of Saint Dominic, the founders of Caldwell University, and the burial place of Dominican Sister Mary Dominic Tweedus, the aunt of the new chapel’s primary benefactor.

In designing the new chapel, careful consideration was given to preserve many of the distinctive features of the old chapel “so that there remains an unbroken bond between Caldwell’s past and its present, between its founding and its future,” said Blattner.

Msgr. Robert Emery, pastor, St. Aloy-

From left, Meg Poltorak Keyes, Caldwell University President Nancy Blattner and Dominican Sister Gerardine Mueller, professor emerita of art at Caldwell University, pose at the dedication and blessing Mass for the new campus chapel for which Poltorak Keyes was the liturgical designer and project manager.

— photo courtesy of Caldwell University

sius Parish, Caldwell, and episcopal vicar for Essex County, presided at the Mass and gave the homily.

“This chapel leads us to God,” Father Emery said. “It opens our minds to his truth and our hearts to his goodness. Above all, it speaks of his longing to dwell in our souls — if only we would come here and put ourselves in his presence.” The doors of “this chapel will lead many people to Christ,” Father Emery said.

Concelebrants were Father Albert

Berner and Franciscan Father Thomas Orians, who had served as chaplains at the university, and Father Thomas Dente, pastor, Notre Dame Parish, North Caldwell.

The Sister Mary Dominic Tweedus Chapel was made possible by a gift from alumna Elaine Tweedus and her late husband, Ed Lonyai, in honor of their beloved “Aunt Mary,” Sister Mary Dominic Tweedus, who taught in Catholic grammar schools in New Jersey and cared for the elderly sisters.

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others, Christine responded, “In the hospital, there was a quote posted that said, ‘These children may never know your name, but they will never forget your kindness.’

“I didn’t appreciate the real truth behind this quote until a few days into surgery.”

She continued, “One day, I began playing with this young girl named Maureen, who was one of the most energetic and fun-loving children I have ever met. Unfortunately, her surgery on the first day got canceled because she had something to eat within 12 hours of when her surgery was scheduled.

“The next day, when she walked into the pre-op room, she recognized me and ran over to give me a big hug. In this moment I remembered the quote, and it made me realize the great impact we were making in the children’s lives. Though they don’t know our names, they are grateful for our efforts to make a difference in their lives.

“I would definitely recommend this experience to other Mount students because of the perspective I gained from my trip. I have learned to further appreciate everything in my life, and overall feel I approach things with more optimism and positivity than before. I think experiencing the change you are making in others’ lives is a once-in-alifetime opportunity full of memories I will never forget.”

Polakiewicz continues her involvement with Operation Smile this school year as a member of the National Leadership

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WATCHUNG — Christine Polakiewicz, a senior at Mount Saint Mary Academy, was transformed by her medical mission trip to Zomba, Malawi, in Africa with Operation Smile.

A member of the Operation Smile Club at the Mount since her freshman year, Polakiewicz’ mission trip took place June 19 to June 30. Operation Smile is an international medical charity that has provided hundreds of thousands of free surgeries for children and young adults in developing countries who are born with cleft lip, cleft palate or other dental and facial conditions.

“Before going on the trip, I was excited and remained open-minded about what was to come, but I honestly didn’t know what to expect since every mission experience is so unique and different,” Polakiewicz said. “I couldn’t have ever predicted the amazing journey that was ahead of me, but I don’t think I could have asked for a more positive and life-changing experience.

“During the mission, my responsibility was to entertain the children and make sure they remained calm. Before they go in for surgery, if their heart rate is too high, they end up being turned away. To prevent this, the other students and I played with them with calming toys such as bubbles, dolls, and coloring supplies,” Polakiewicz said.

When she was asked about a specific memory from the experience that impacted her and the impact she believes she made on

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During ‘amazing journey’ student had positive impact on children’s lives

Christine Polakiewicz, a senior at Mount Saint Mary Academy, holds one of the children she assisted during a medical mission trip to Africa with Operation Smile. She has has been a member of Mount Saint Mary’s Operation Smile Club since she was a freshman.

—photo courtesy of Mount Saint Mary Academy Council with a few other students throughout the country.

“On this council, we encourage schools to create clubs to increase Operation Smile involvement, implement nationwide fundraisers for students and clubs, and plan the

annual international conference,” she said.

Polakiewicz is also a member of the Mount’s Peer Ministry Club, Art Club, Yearbook Club and Book Club. She also sings in the choir at her church at Mass every Sunday.

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High School has had a complete renovaIn addition, Bob Petix, (a parent of tion of its cafeteria. three alumni, Robert ‘95, Brian ‘98 and Previous projects for the campaign Lisa ‘06) of MAP Restaurant Supplies, included the state-of-the-art Immaculata Newark, has been the lead in purchasing Theater, roof enhancements at Immacu- new equipment for the serving area. lata, renovation of the “The cafeteria renoImmaculate Conception vation is so exciting to “Key to this School Cafeteria and Art the entire Immaculata Room and replacement of community,” said Joan project and all several large sections of Silo, Immaculata’s head the church’s roof. Plans of school. “This will our innovations for a final project for the serve our Spartans for is the financial Parish Center are under generations to come. careful consideration and The whole look has such and professional will be presented once a contemporary feel support of our finalized. and all of us appreciate The Immaculata the added bonus of airparents, alumni, Cafeteria, which is origiconditioning, new furnal to the 1962 main nishings, and technology and donor building, will now feaenhancements, which infriends.” ture: a new heating and clude four TV monitors.

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Retired deacon remembered as a model of faith, hope, charity

By Christina Leslie Correspondent METUCHEN — The Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi bade farewell to one of its own, Deacon Emeritus Paul G. Licameli, at a funeral Mass Sept. 17 that celebrated the humble, faith-filled family man and servant of Christ. Deacon Licameli, of Metuchen, died Sept. 12 at the age of 91.

With fellow deacons flanking the center aisle, the earthly remains of the deacon were wheeled to the front of the Cathedral as the choir sang the “Ode to Joy” for a life well lived. Msgr. Robert J. Zamorski, Cathedral rector, presided at the Mass; priests who had once served with the late deacon, concelebrated.

Msgr. William Benwell, pastor, St. Mary’s-Stony Hill Parish, Watchung and a fellow Franciscan, gave the homily.

“He was a loving and devoted husband and father, a model to be admired,” said Msgr. Benwell of the deacon, a 54-year member of the St. Anthony’s Fraternity of the Secular Franciscan Order and known in the order as Brother Joseph. “Nothing he owned was more important than his faith. He had an unconditional love for his natural and his church families.”

Msgr. Benwell continued, “There’s a saying attributed to St. Francis that sums up Paul’s life succinctly and beautifully: preach the Gospel at all times, and use words as necessary. The irony is that for all his years in journalism, for all the millions of words he wrote, what we will most remember is not anything he wrote down but that he modeled, taught with his deeds: the Christian virtues of faith, hope, charity, fortitude, Justice, prudence, discretion and temperance.”

“In his final hours,” Msgr. Benwell added, St. Francis wrote two more verses to his famous ‘Canticle of Creatures:’ ‘All praise be yours, my Lord through Sister Death, from whose embrace no

mortal can escape… Happy those she finds doing your will; the second death can do them no harm.’

“Death found him in God’s most holy will. Paul died on the feast of the Most Holy Name of Mary, and his mortal remains are laid to rest today on the Franciscan feast of the Stigmata of St. Francis. Thank you, Lord for this boost to our faith, reminding us you are in charge of Paul right now.”

Deacon Licameli, one of 13 children of the late Mary and Charles Licameli, was born in West New York. He was a 1946 graduate of Seton Hall Preparatory School and a 1950 graduate with a bachelor’s degree in Latin from Seton Hall University, both in South Orange.

Deacon Licameli’s career in journalism spanned 40 years; he worked as an associate editor, editorial writer, managing editor and copy editor at the “Hudson Dispatch,” Union City; the “Record of Hackensack;” “The News Tribune,” Woodbridge, and other publications.

In Catholic media, he was an associate editor at the Milwaukee Archdiocesan weekly; New York area correspondent for the “National Catholic News Service;” managing editor of “Florida Catholic;” newspaper for the Archdiocese of Miami and the dioceses of Orlando, Palm Beach and Venice; and a member of the advisory board of “The Monitor” of the Diocese of Trenton and “The Catholic Spirit.”

Deacon Licameli was ordained to the diaconate by Bishop Edward T. Hughes in 1996. He exercised his ministry at the Cathedral Parish until his retirement in 2006. His ministry included Eucharistic visits at Raritan Bay Medical Center, Perth Amboy; and membership in the Metuchen Edison Area Interfaith Clergy Association.

He and his wife, Marian, received the Regina Nostra medal in 2006.

Deacon Licameli was predeceased

Msgr. Robert J. Zamorski, above right, rector, Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, watches the family of Deacon Emeritus Paul G. Licameli place a pall on a casket holding his remains at a funeral Mass.

Deacon Licameli was ordained to the diaconate at the Cathedral in 1996 and exercised his ministry there until he retired.

— Christina Leslie and The Catholic Spirit photos

by four brothers and five sisters. In addition to his wife, Marian, whom he married in 1964, he is survived by two brothers and a sister; two sons and a daughter and their spouses, and a granddaughter.

Elaine Yunker, wife of Deacon Robert Yunker, who serves at St. Helena Parish, Edison, said, “Deacon Paul was a mentor to my husband when he was studying. He and Marian prayed with us and for us, encouraged us and lifted us up. They gave us practical advice on how to mix the diaconate and family life.”

Margaret Manza recalled, “Deacon Paul led the Thursday morning faith sharing for more than 10 years, and would go

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OBITUARY Dominican Sister Mary Trinitas Sullivan, 87, of Raritan Township, a former educator at schools in the diocese who had vast experience in music ministry, died Sept. 16 at her convent. She had lived in the Flemington area since 2006.

And avid New York Yankees fan, Sister Trinitas was born in Bronx, N.Y., June 3, 1932, the daughter of the late John J. and Dorothy Becker Sullivan. Her only sibling, Dorothy, was married to William Moran, both of whom predeceased her in 2015. Today she is survived by many cousins.

She earned a bachelor’s degree in education and sacred music, respectively, at St. Thomas Aquinas College, Sparkill, N.Y., and Manhattanville College, Purchase, N.Y. She earned a master’s degree in education – administration and supervision of secondary schools, at Rutgers University, New Brunswick, and a master’s degree in sacred music at Villa Schifanoia Graduate School

of Fine Arts, Florence, Italy.

She was a member of the religious community of the Dominican Congregation of Our Lady of the Rosary, Sparkill, N.Y., from 1956-1982, and then the Dominican Sisters of Divine Providence, Flemington, since 1982.

Sister Trinitas taught at various schools in the Archdiocese of New York from 1960 to 1973 and in the Diocese of Metuchen from 1983 to 1989. She served as principal of the now-closed Our Lady of Peace School, Fords, and associate principal of the now-closed St. Pius X High School, Piscataway.

Sister Trinitas received several awards for her outstanding work in education, and contributed several articles to education, music, and Catholic publications.

Sister Trinitas was music consultant for the Archdiocese of New York; co-foundress of the New York School of Liturgical Music;

appointed by Cardinal Terence J. Cooke as the first executive secretary for the Commission on Church Music, cantor/song leader/ soloist at various special Masses at St. Patrick’s Cathedral, St. John the Evangelist Church and St. Joseph’s Seminary in the Archdiocese of New York; director of music at St. Cecelia Parish, Iselin and was a member of the Diocese of Metuchen’s Festival Choir.

A funeral Mass was celebrated Sept.

20 at St. Elizabeth Ann Seton Church, Three Bridges.

Interment was at St. Magdalen’s Cemetery, Flemington.

Arrangements were handled by Holcombe-Fisher Funeral Home, Flemington, NJ. Memorial contributions may be made to the Dominican Sisters of Divine Providence, 25 Harmony School Road, Flemington, NJ 08822.

to the parishioners’ homes to do family consecration to the Sacred Heart and the Immaculate Heart of Mary.”

“He baptized my youngest son, Joseph,” added parishioner Lorraine Taurone. “He was always so sweet. You could feel how sincere he was.”

Deacon Licameli was buried at Hillside Cemetery, Metuchen. Arrangements were handled by Costello-Runyon Funeral Home, Metuchen.

Memorials may be made to Life Choices Resource Center, 503 Main St., Metuchen, NJ 08840, or St. Francis Cathedral Social Concerns Ministry, 45 Library Place, Metuchen, NJ 08840.

READ MORE ABOUT IT: 2 KINGS 5 Q&A: 1. Who needed to be cured of leprosy?

2. What cure did Elisha prescribe?

PUZZLE: Using the hints provided, draw a line between the miracle Elisha performed with God’s help and the person(s) who received the miracle.

Made a little oil fill many jars

The Shunammite woman (2 Kings 4:32-37)

Made poisoned stew edible

A prophet’s widow (2 Kings 4:1-7)

Raised a dead child

Gehazi (2 Kings 5:25-27)

Caused a person’s leprosy

The guild prophets (2 Kings 4:38-41)

Puzzle Answer: The Shunammite woman/Raised a dead child; A prophet’s widow/ Made a little oil fill many jars; Gehazi/Caused a person’s leprosy; The guild prophets/ Made poisoned stew edible

A gentile man named Naaman was commander of the king of Aram’s army. He was very successful in his raids on Israel, which pleased the king very much.

Since the Israelites did not always follow God, sometimes God allowed their enemies to be victorious against them. That is why Naaman was so successful.

Even though Naaman was powerful and victorious, he had one problem: He was a leper.

During one of the raids on Israel, a little girl was captured and became a servant to Naaman’s wife. When the girl saw Naaman’s leprosy, she told her mistress about the prophet Elisha.

“If only my master would present himself to the prophet in Samaria!” the little girl said to Naaman’s wife.

“He would cure him of his leprosy.”

Naaman desperately wanted to be cured. He told the king of Aram what the girl had said. So the king gave Naaman money, garments and a letter to present to the king of Israel.

“With this letter I am sending my servant Naaman to you, that you may cure him of his leprosy,” the king wrote.

When the king of Israel read the letter Naaman handed him, he became very upset. He thought the king

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of Aram was trying to pick a fight with him.

When Elisha heard this, he told the king to send Naaman to him.

Naaman drove his horses and chariot to Elisha’s house.

Elisha did not come out to greet Naaman. Instead, he sent Naaman a message, instructing him to wash in the Jordan River seven times to be healed.

Naaman was furious. He had expected Elisha to treat him like a very important person and perform a special healing ritual over him.

He wasn’t going to do something as simple as bathing, he thought.

He left Elisha’s house in a huff.

But his servants reasoned with him and got him to do as Elisha had "[Elisha]...sent Naaman a message, instructing him to wash in the Jordan River seven times to be healed.”

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I have not been to confession in at least 10 years. I want to go, but I have no idea what to say. How am I to remember all of my sins and the number of times that I have committed them? (Columbus, Ohio)

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September 25, 2019 Dear Brothers and Sisters: In our catechesis on the Acts of the Apostles, we continue to follow the spread of the Gospel throughout the world. In the early Christian community some complained that their widows were being neglected in the distribution of bread. The Apostles, aware of their principal calling to preach the Word of God, discerned a solution to maintain the harmony between the service of the Word and service to the poor. They instituted seven men, on whom they imposed hands, to carry out works of charity. One of these seven deacons, Stephen, proclaimed Christ’s Paschal Mystery as the key to the whole history of the covenant, but his words met with resistance. Yet, even when condemned to death, Stephen entrusted his life into the Lord’s hands and forgave his adversaries. The actions of this first martyr teach us that our identity as God’s children consists in abandoning ourselves to the Father and forgiving those who offend us. Let us ask the Lord that, by contemplating the martyrs of the past and present, we may live a full life, accepting the martyrdom of daily fidelity to the Gospel and conformity to Christ.

Question Corner

By Father Kenneth Doyle Don’t worry; the priest is there to help you, and he will try to make things easy. (He will also have heard the confessions of a number of others in your same situation.)

Tell the priest that you have not been to the sacrament of penance in many years and worry that you cannot remember the exact number of times you have committed each specific sin. (The priest has the right to lift the penitent's obligation to do so.)

Tell him that you would like to make this a general confession, that you are sorry for any and all sins — including those you don't remember. He may ask you whether there are any particular serious sins that you do recall, and you will

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Good St. Francis, you loved all of God's creatures. To you they were your brothers and sisters. Help us to follow your example of treating every living thing with kindness. St. Francis, Patron Saint of animals, watch over my pet and keep my companion safe and healthy. Amen.

Can we please begin to restore reverence at Mass? I see young women wearing short shorts, men in flip-flops and other inappropriate clothing. Shouldn’t we dress nicely while visiting God in his house?

Also, parishioners socialize — laughing and talking loudly — while others are trying to pray prior to Mass.

I do not consider myself old-fashioned, but I go to Mass to interact with God. These distractions may seem small, but to me they take away from the dignity that should prevail at the Eucharist.

Though I try to rise above these things and look for the goodness of the celebration, I still leave church feeling disappointed. There must be some churches somewhere that have established guidelines for the conduct they expect. (Fishers, Ind.)

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The Catholic Church has no universal dress code for attendance at Mass — perhaps

necessarily so, given the diverse cultural standards in a worldwide church. The Church does say in the Catechism of the Catholic Church that “bodily demeanor (gestures, clothing) ought to convey the respect, solemnity and joy of this moment when Christ becomes our guest” (No. 1387).

Over the last half-century of my priesthood, I have observed a pattern of more casual dress at Mass — no longer the “Sunday best” — with the result that a number of parishes, even dioceses, have chosen to publish more specific guidelines. Some of the Roman basilicas require that women should not wear sleeveless blouses, men should not wear shorts and women’s skirts should reach below the knees. In 2007, the Archdiocese of Manila in the Philippines asked men to wear collared shirts with sleeves at Mass and provided examples of “improper” attire for women, including miniskirts or skimpy shorts.

As to socializing in church before Mass, some parishes encourage parishioners to greet each other and converse in the vestibule or gathering area, but note that once inside the church proper, a respectful silence should prevail to allow for quiet prayer in preparation for the Eucharist.

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My time with my dad was always filled with family stories, made up stories, Bible stories or ancient myths and they all left an impression on my young heart.

My dad was especially fond of sharing his love of Native Americans, who had a deep spirituality and special relationship with creation born of respect and gratitude.

One of my favorite stories was the Iroquois tale of the Great Peacemaker, the Great Law of Peace and the Peace Tree.

Years later I would learn how instrumental the Iroquois and the Great Law of Peace would be in American history, but, as a child, I was enamored of the image of a great peace hero and the roots of the peace tree reaching out to join all people in unity.

It is no surprise that, as a teen graduating from high school, I chose a Beatitude as the verse that would appear under my yearbook photo: “Blessed are the peacemakers for they shall be called the children of God.” When my youthful, naïve, romantic

vision of peacemaking came face-to- face with the actual violence and cruelty that existed in the world, even among Native American tribes, I discovered that peacemaking wasn’t as easy I believed it to be.

What I have come to understand over many years is that peace needs to be cultivated. It is a task that needs to be undertaken interiorly, in our hearts, and exteriorly, through our actions.

For us, as children of God, peace must be something more than simply the absence of war. Peace must flow from our relationships — with God, with creation, and with others.

Years ago, during an annual conference for Catholic school teachers and catechists, I gave a workshop entitled, “Is Peace the Piece that is Missing?”

During the presentation I offered a few questions for reflection: How many of you have spoken about peace to your students in the last week; given a homework assignment relating to peace; offered prayers for peace with your class; undertaken some action for peace with your class; have a peace bulletin board; have the word peace visible somewhere in your classroom?

The most provocative question, apparently, was, “How many of you know, without a doubt, where you stand on the issue of peace and the need for war?”

The answers were not encouraging.

One teacher walked out.

She had lost a brother in the Twin Towers attack and was very angry with me and the ideas I was sharing regarding the way of peace. Two years later, a woman stopped me at the same annual conference and asked if I had given a peace workshop a few years prior. When I acknowledged that I had, she said, “I am the woman who walked out. It took me a long time, more than a year, but I finally got it.” Then she hugged me.

Servant of God Dorothy Day once said, “The greatest challenge of the day is: how to bring about a revolution of the heart, a revolution which has to start with each one of us.”

For many, that personal challenge is very difficult because, sometimes, the most troubling reality is the one we come face-toface with in our own hearts. So, how are we to take up the great task of peacemaking?

I am encouraged always by prayer and, again, by the words of Dorothy Day: “We must lay one brick at a time, take one step at a time; we can be responsible only for the one action of the present moment.

But we can beg for an increase of love in our hearts that will vitalize and transform all our individual actions, and know that God will take them and multiply them, as Jesus multiplied the loaves and fishes.”

Mary Morrell is the author of “Let Go and Live,” and “Things My Father Taught Me About Love,” both available as ebooks on Amazon.

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Genuine faith is powerful Our readings this Sunday focus on the faith and constancy required of Jesus’ followers. In response to his disciples’ request “Increase our faith,” (Lk 17:5) Jesus responds that their faith already gives them great power — “If you have faith the size of a mustard seed, you would say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be uprooted and planted in the sea,’ and it would obey you’” (Lk 17:6). Genuine faith is incredibly powerful. It has the capacity to change lives and overcome whatever obstacles appear in its path.

Steadfastness in their faith is what was required of Jesus’ followers. These readings should give us great comfort as we contemplate the steep road ahead on this Respect Life Sunday.

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This reading opens with a cry of weak faith, “How long, O Lord? I cry for help but you do not listen!” (Hb 1:2). The prophet cries out in anguish to God; his people are suffering and God does not seem to intervene. The prophet seems to question — is his faith in vain? Will God ever reach down to save his people? This same thought is quite easily imagined in our own day when we consider the assaults on faith and life so prevalent in modern society. In answer to his people’s pleas, the voice of the Lord booms forth — God will save his people in his own time. Habakkuk and his followers must remain faithful, even when such faithfulness does not seem to produce immediate dividends; God’s SCRIPTURE STUDY saving action “will surely come!” (Hb 2:3d). It is the people’s place to remain faithful — take heart,

By Msgr. John N. Fell God’s plan will be accomplished.

St. Paul’s Second Letter to Timothy offers Jesus cautioned his faithful followers against the same advice, “do not be ashamed of your assuming the attitude of the religious leaders of his testimony to our Lord . . . but bear your share of day — the belief that God owed them a reward hardship for the Gospel with the strength which as a result of their faithfulness. To emphasize this comes from God” (2 Tim 1:8). This letter presents point, Jesus told the story of servants diligently the scene of Paul, nearing the end of his own life, doing their duty. He asks whether the master will passing on important lessons to the early Christian give them a special reward for simcommunity. His counsel is that they ply doing their job, or whether it is must always remain faithful to the more likely that he will just expect teachings of Christ — that is their We can do them to keep doing it. Jesus calls highest mission. They are advised nothing to earn for his followers to acknowledge to “take as your norm the sound their total dependence on God’s words that you heard from me, in it (salvation) or mercy, saying “We are but useless the faith and love that are in Christ servants; we have done no more place a demand Jesus [and then to] guard this rich than our duty” (Lk 17:10). Such an trust with the help of the Holy Spirit upon it — only attitude precludes two claims — . . .” (2 Tim 1:14). Jesus’ followers one, that God owes us salvation, are called upon to embrace and live through God’s and two, that we have ever already out his teaching and example. That generous good- is the path that will lead to blesseddone enough for God. God’s plan will unfold as God intends. ness on earth; that is the path that ness do we Jesus’ point is that salvation is leads toward eternal life. These always God’s freely given, totally readings should encourage us to participate in merciful gift. We can do nothing redouble our efforts especially on his Heavenly to earn it or place a demand upon this Respect Life Sunday. Even it — only through God’s generous amid great challenges and frustratKingdom. goodness do we participate in his ing times, may we never shirk our Heavenly Kingdom. important responsibility of remaining devoted to Our first reading from the Book of Habak- the Lord, of cherishing the sacredness of each and kuk presents a message very similar to that of our every human life — a rich trust placed in our care reading from St. Luke. Habakkuk was a prophet in by the Lord who enables and expects and ultimateJudah in the late 7th and early 6th centuries before ly brings to fruitfulness our faithfulness.

Jesus. His words of advice, “the just man, because Msgr. Fell is a Scripture scholar and director, of his faith, shall live,” (Hb 2:4), serve to reinforce diocesan Office for Priest Personnel

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Rosario-Perales said he saw babies, children of all ages, pregnant women, single dads with kids, single moms with kids, but very rarely he would see an entire family, so he was especially moved to see a family who thought they would never see each other again be reunited.

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By Father John Gerard Hillier This section of the Catechism begins: “From a valid marriage arises a bond between the spouses which by its very nature is perpetual and exclusive; furthermore, in a Christian marriage the spouses are strengthened and, as it were, consecrated for the duties and the dignity of their state by a special sacrament” (ccc 1638).

I once highlighted this “strengthening” of spouses through the grace of the Sacrament of Matrimony in my book, “Anecdotes and Scripture Notes for All Occasions.” The couple referenced in the story (as follows) were my parents: “They had been married for more than 40 years and were a joy to be around because they were very much in love with each other. But when the husband had major surgery, the days that followed were difficult for him.

He woke up from surgery and was unable to return to sleep as he became agitated, anxious, and tired; he grew worse by the hour. The medical staff gave him medication to help him sleep and to numb the pain, but things just went from bad to worse. During the second night without sleep, he began to hallucinate and became paranoid from the medication. Thinking he was in danger, he unhooked the IV and other medical equipment and left his room and attempted to return to the ICU where he thought he would be safe.

The nurses found him and returned him to his bed. When the family was told about this incident, his wife went to his bedside to keep vigil. She was

at a loss as to how to calm him down, not only on the love they profess for so she asked him what he needed. one another, but also on their love for He needed her, he said. So when the God. nurses left the room, she took off her Yet, there are certain circumshoes and climbed into the bed next stances in which living together under to him and held him and prayed with one roof can become almost imposhim, and an hour later he was asleep. sible. In such cases, the Church allows He slept for 12 hours.” [Anecdotes the physical separation of the married and Scripture Notes, 23rd couple. The Catechism Publications, p. 93]. explains that under such “Christ dwells The Catechism capconditions “the spouses with them, tures these sentiments do not cease to be huswhen it says: “Christ band and wife before gives them the dwells with them, gives God and so are not free them the strength to take strength to take to contract a new union” up their crosses and so (ccc 1649). Therefore, up their crosses follow him...to bear one the best outcome for this another’s burdens, to be situation, the Catechism and so follow subject to one another out states, “would be, if poshim . . . to bear of reverence for Christ” sible, reconciliation” (ccc (ccc 1642). Therefore, the 1649). one another’s primary goal of marriage If one or both is the “procreation and burdens . . .” spouses in a valid sacraeducation” of children mental marriage attempts (ccc1642) (ccc 1652), and the secanother marriage (civondary goal is and must illy or in a non-Catholic be companionship shared ceremony), “...a new union cannot be by the spouses. recognized as valid, if the first marNevertheless, the Catechism also riage was” (ccc 1650). A couple findpoints out: “it can seem difficult, even ing themselves in such a situation, the impossible, to bind oneself for life to Catechism explains, “objectively conanother human being” (ccc 1648). This travenes God’s law” (ccc 1650). As is especially true when we consider Sacred Scripture teaches: “Whoever one another’s human weaknesses… divorces his wife and marries another, the sinful condition we inherited from commits adultery against her; and if our first parents. Still, the Catechism she divorces her husband and marries explains, “this makes it all the more another, she commits adultery” (Mk important to proclaim the Good News 10:11-12). that God loves us with a definitive and Again, reconciliation with God irrevocable love, that married couples and His Church is always available. share in this love, that it supports and Why else would Our Lord have given sustains them, and that by their own us the Sacrament of Penance (Reconfaithfulness they can be witnesses to ciliation)? (see John 20:23) The CatGod’s faithful love” (ccc 1648). As echism explains that without such resuch, Christian couples who remain pentance “they [spouses in an invalid faithful in their married love depend marriage] cannot receive Eucharistic

communion as long as this situation persists. For the same reason, they cannot exercise certain ecclesial responsibilities” (ccc 1650). Examples include serving as godparents or sacramental sponsors, as well as liturgical ministers.

In situations where reconciliation is impossible and an annulment has not been sought, “priests and the whole community,” the Catechism states, “must manifest an attentive solicitude, so that they [invalidly married couples] do not consider themselves separated from the Church” (ccc 1651).

Quoting from then-Pope, now St. John Paul’s 1981 Apostolic Exhortation, the Catechism continues: “They should be encouraged to listen to the Word of God, to attend the Sacrifice of the Mass, to persevere in prayer, to contribute to works of charity and to community efforts for justice, to bring up their children in the Christian faith, to cultivate the spirit and practice of penance and thus implore, day by day, God’s grace” (ccc 1651).

No doubt, the Catholic community includes faithful couples who received the Sacrament of Matrimony and continue to make sacrifices for their spouses and families. Unfortunately, others in sacramental marriages have lost their way due to a lack of affection or worse by one or both of the spouses. Still others have chosen to marry outside the Church, placing themselves outside the sacramental life of the Church. And still others find themselves in various other circumstances that include so-called “common-law marriages.” Whatever the situation of couples in our current culture, all are invited to reach higher to a life that includes being faithful to Jesus Christ.

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“The generosity and charity exemplified by these individuals, in their work and in their service, is a tangible way that Christ’s love is made known and present to us,” said Bishop James F. Checchio. “We are each called to follow Christ and to reach out to all in need of His mercy, and so I am grateful for our Champions, for their leadership and their efforts to make Christ’s love known to all those in need.”

Msgr. Curry, who was recently appointed as a parochial vicar at St. Matthias Parish, Somerset, has served on the Catholic Charities Solidarity Team, which works to reduce the injustice and suffering faced by the poor and vulnerable, both overseas and in the Diocese of Metuchen. As part of his ministry, he established support groups for those impacted by the opioid crisis and did extensive work for international missions and Catholic Relief Services. He is the pastor emeritus of Immaculate Concep-

tion Parish, Spotswood, where he served for nearly 14 years, and has been an instrumental part of many pastoral and administrative committees over the years.

Chiesa, a member of St. Joseph Parish, Raritan Borough, has dedicated his personal and professional life to supporting vital programs and services, and advocating for social justice efforts to aid those in need. Chiesa, who has served as a U.S. Senator, New Jersey State Attorney General, is presently a member of the law firm Chiesa, Shahinian, Giantomasi, PC. In his career, he led New Jersey’s public safety efforts following Superstorm Sandy, created safeguards to address prescription drug use, combated human traffickers and prosecuted violators. Among his many accomplishments to protect the vulnerable, Chiesa, most notably, prosecuted a multimillion-dollar Medicaid fraud case during his tenure in the Criminal Division at the U.S. Attorney’s Office.

In addition to honoring its two Champions, this year Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen will also honor individuals with the Spirit of Saint Francis

Award. The recipients of the award, who will be announced at the Dinner, were chosen for having carried out the virtue of charity by encouraging a sense of community among the forces that shape society and for their proven ability to promote a sense of Catholic social teaching in the wider community.

“Through their charity, the recipients of the Spirit of Saint Francis Award are witnesses to Christ the Servant, just as we know Saint Francis of Assisi to be, and their work inspires us and continues to give us hope,” said Bishop Checchio.

Catholic Charities, Diocese of Metuchen is one of the largest non-profit social service agencies in the state of New Jersey, assisting all those in need regardless of race, religion or ethnicity through more than 100 programs.

Tickets for the Champions for Catholic Charities Dinner are $250 per person and include a cocktail hour, full-course dinner and open bar. For reservations or to make a donation of any amount, go to https://diometuchen.org/champions or call (732) 562-2432.

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SOMERSET — Two individuals will receive awards for their work on behalf of those in need Oct. 17 at the 2019 Champions for Catholic Charities Dinner at the Palace.

People from around the four-counties served by the diocese — Middlesex, Somerset, Hunterdon and Warren — are expected to attend the dinner, which benefits the work of Catholic Charities in the diocese, while also honoring the work and service of local leaders who advocate for justice and, by their example, call others to do the same. For tickets, please visit https://diometuchen.org/champions.

This year’s honorees are Jeffrey S. Chiesa and Msgr. Joseph M. Curry. They will receive the 2019 Champions Award in recognition of their selfless commitment and dedication to the betterment of all people — especially the poor and vulnerable — through works of charity, advocacy and service.

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Church of St. Robert Bellarmine, Freehold, NJ “I will give you a new heart….” (Ez.36) This conference will focus on the “Heart Center” as the space within of healing, acceptance and compassion. The “prayer of the heart” is the journey to spiritual transformation and the True Self. “Translational prayer” is to seek in this world more financial success, avoidance of suffering, and goodness defined by a culture. The day will explore Christian and Jungian insights to differentiate translational from transformational prayer. The day will include input and prayer experiences.

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The St. Joseph Council Knights of Columbus Council 10627 in High Bridge conducted its 12th Annual Soccer Challenge competition for youths ages 9–14 at the Union Forge Soccer Fields, High Bridge. The competition is co-sponsored by the High Bridge Youth Soccer organization. Ten boys and girls from High Bridge were named local champions: (age and division): Nora Speckin, 9, girls, Tommy Fischer, boys; Leah Estrella, 10, girls, Conrad Geiger, 10, boys; Ashley Krushinski, 11, girls, Aedan Dorwart, 11, boys; Mary Speckin, 12, girls, Cooper Blackwell, 12, boys; Maggie Hann, 13, girls, Alex Kinsky, 13, boys. Aedan, Ashley, Maggie and Alex each had won the local tournament in previous years. Alex has won the local competition for three consecutive years. Each winner may compete in the district competitions in October. Winners advance to the state and then international levels. The Soccer Challenge is designed for players to demonstrate the most basic of soccer skills — the penalty kick. St. Joseph Council member Dave Kinsky organized the event assisted by other Knights. Shown in photo are the 2019 Champions and second-place winners. Back row includes Knights Dave Kinsky, Kevin Speckin, Bernabe Mariano and Chris Denis.

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OBITUARY Maria G. Harrison, 58, of Metuchen, wife of Bob Harrison, a part-time copy editor for “The Catholic Spirit,” died peacefully in her family’s Highland Park home Sept. 12. She was surrounded by her loving family.

Maria was a consummate caregiver who was adored by Bob; daughter, Lea; and son, Robert Jr. The heartbeat of her home, Maria also shared her warmth and exuberance with her extended family, friends and neighbors. She was lovingly known as “Mia” and “Aunt Mimi.

Born in New Brunswick March 7, 1961, she grew up in Highland Park and lived briefly in Edison before moving to Metuchen. She graduated from Highland Park High School and earned a degree in social work from Monmouth University, West Long Branch.

Maria had been employed by Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick, where she worked in emergency room admitting and medical

records. Later, she was a stay-at-home mom. When her children were school age, she returned to the workplace.

Then, she worked as a preschool aide, aftercare teacher and vacation Bible school teacher at St. Francis Cathedral School, Metuchen. She also was an administrative assistant and teacher at the Little Treasures Learning Center, Edison. She was active with the Mothers Club at Saint Joseph High School, Metuchen.

A faithful member of the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi Parish, she was religious and dedicated to those she loved. She was not only caregiver to her husband and children, but also to her aging grandparents and parents, her siblings and their children.

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Newly Professed On Aug. 16, Sister Graciela Colon (left) and Sister Paulina Navarro pronounced their vows as Sisters of Christian Charity, Mallinckrodt Convent, Mendham, in the Liturgy of First Profession. Bishop Arthur Serratelli of the Diocese of Paterson officiated. Sister Paulina will study for her degree and minister as a teacher aide. Sister Graciela will serve as a lawyer at the Immigration Services Program of the Diocese of Metuchen.

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Prayer and Worship

The Shrine of the Blessed Sacrament, Raritan, will celebrate a sung Mass every Sunday at 11 a.m. in the Extraordinary Form of the Roman Rite in Latin. The Mass is celebrated according to the 1962 Missal in compliance with the “Summorum Pontificum.”

For details, call the Shrine Rectory Office, (908) 300-8167.

Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, will hold a Holy Hour of Prayer for the Dying every Thursday from 3 to 4 p.m. in the church. Come and pray for those who are dying, especially those who die suddenly and unprepared to enter eternal life. For information, call (732) 968-5555.

Our Lady of Fatima Parish, Piscataway, will hold a Holy Hour for Religious Freedom and Persecuted Christians every Sunday at 7 p.m., in the Eucharistic Adoration Chapel, 50 Van Winkle Place, Piscataway. Participants are invited to silently pray the Rosary and special prayers for the intentions of Christians worldwide who are being persecuted for their faith.

For information, call Becky, (703) 625-5388.

Parish of the Visitation, St. Mary of Mount Virgin Worship Site, New Brunswick, invites all to come and recite The Scriptural Rosary, every Sunday, 7 to 7:30 p.m. in Visitation Chapel. The Scriptural Rosary is a modern version of the way the Ro-

sary was prayed throughout Western Christendom in the late Middle Ages.

Materials will be provided. For information, call (732) 545-5090.

Oct. 13, 4 p.m. — Rosary Coast to Coast Rallies will be held on Oct. 13, the anniversary of the Fatima Miracle of the Sun. Rallies will take place simultaneously from coast to coast. To participate or for information visit, RosaryCoastToCoast.com.

Fun and Food

Oct. 19, 5 to 7 p.m. — St. Mary of Ostrabrama Holy Name Society and Altar Rosary Society, South River, will hold a Fundraising Dinner. The menu is pierogi, stuffed cabbage, sauerkraut and kielbasa, rye bread, coffee, tea and dessert. Adults are $15; children under 12 $5.00 and children under 5 free. Take outs are available at 4 p.m.

Tickets will be sold in the parish office during business hours and at the door.

Oct. 26, 7 to 9 p.m. — Council 2393, Knights of Columbus, Basking Ridge, is hosting a wine tasting in the school gym. There will be seven tastings along with food pairings. Tickets are $60. To purchase tickets, call Peter, (908) 647 2274.

Special Programs

Oct. 8, 8 p.m. — The Rutgers Catholic Student Association in conjunction with the Thomistic Institute is sponsoring “Tolkien and the Eucharistic in

the Lord of the Rings” at Rutgers University, Trayes Hall, Douglass Student Center. The presenter will be Dr. Peter Kreeft. All are welcome.

Oct. 15, 7 to 9 p.m. — Mount Saint Mary House of Prayer, Watchung, will present “Social Mystic: Who, Me?” This program will focus on how we, like the saints are called to be social mystics, continuing the presence of Jesus each day in our own way. The cost is $20 to $30 as you are able to pay. To register, call (908) 753-2091 or visit www.msmhope.org.

Oct. 17, 7 p.m. — Our Lady of Lourdes Parish, Whitehouse Station, will host “Retirement Planning – the other side.” The program will focus on the non-financial aspects of the transition to life after full-time work. For information, call Ed Eisenberg, (908) 400-7287.

School Open Houses

Oct. 27, 1 to 4:30 p.m. — Mount Saint Mary Academy, Watchung, will hold an open house.

For information, call (908) 757-0108, ext. 4549.

Concerts

Oct. 20, 4 p.m. — St. Mary Parish, South Amboy, will present Music at St. Mary’s an American organ recital in the church. A suggested donation of $15 will be accepted. A wine and cheese reception will follow the concert. For information, call (732) 8570202.

Special Events

Oct. 25-26 — The New Jersey Catholic Charismatic Conference will be held St. Mary, Mary of God Parish, Middletown. The theme is “Arise!”

The keynote speaker will be Dr. Mary Healy. The conference will include workshops, a healing service, speakers and more. The suggested donation is $40. To register or for details, visit www.DOTCCR.org or call (732) 6710071, ext. 221.

Oct. 19, 9 a.m. — Our Lady of Lourdes Altar Rosary Society, Milltown, invites women to hear Vincentian Father Charles Krieg’s presentation of our life of “Martyrdom” at their annual spiritual reflection. No fee. Coffee, tea and desserts will be provided. To register, call Shirley Capella, (732) 846-1205.

Oct. 20, 4 p.m. — Music at Saint Mary’s presents an Americana Organ Recital by Shea Velloso and Christopher Deibert as they open the 2019-20 concert season at St. Mary Church, 256 Augusta St., South Amboy. The concert/singalong event will highlight the power and majesty of the church’s Jardine and Sons 1883 pipe organ.

Free admission ($15 donation suggested). A wine and cheese reception will follow the concert. For questions call MASM at (732) 857-0202.

Support Programs

Oct. 9, 7 p.m. — Church of the Sacred Heart Parish, South Plainfield, will offer “In God’s Image” a gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgender (GLBT) faith sharing group, on the second Wednesday of the month. The group will meet in the Annex, located off Leonard Ave. Adults 18 years old and over are welcome. For details, call Father John, (908) 756-0633 ext. 125.

Book Clubs

Corpus Christi Parish, South River, will hold a book club studying books

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Eucharistic Adoration is now being held in the chapel at the St. John Neumann Pastoral Center, Piscataway. Adorers and intercessors are needed Monday through Friday 9 to 11:45 a.m. Daily Mass is held at 11:45 a.m. For information or to volunteer, call Laura Ferreras (732) 529-7932. To submit a prayer request, call (732) 765-6445.

The Pontifical Mission Office offers Mass Cards, Perpetual Masses and Gregorian Mass for the Living and Deceased. The suggested offering is from $5 to $300. To purchase a card, contact (732) 243-4580 or email pontifical.mission.societies@diometuchen.org.

On December 12th Bishop Checchio inaugurated a year of preparation for the consecration of the Diocese of Metuchen to Our Lady of Guadalupe. His intention for this year is that we each open our heart wide to God’s grace so that authentic spiritual renewal can take place. In light of this you are invited to come to an evening of prayer, preaching and reflection on the message and meaning of Our Lady of Guadalupe’s apparitions on our continent in 1531. Discover how The Blessed Mother led nine million indigenous Mexican people into a life changing encounter with her Son, Jesus, and how she desires to lead you into a deep and vibrant relationship with Him as well. For a listing of participating parishes go to: www.LightingHeartsOnFire.org.

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Catholic Charities Solidarity Team, Harvest of Hope Dinner, 6:30 p.m., Sister Marie de Pazzi Conference Center, Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick. Tickets are $35 per person or $300 for a table of ten. To register online, visit www.ccsolidarity.org. For information, call (609) 235-6832.

10/12 Resurrection Catholic Cemetery Open House, Piscataway, Office of Cemeteries, Sat. 9 a.m. to & 10/13 4 p.m. and Sun. 11 a.m. to 4 p.m. Memorial Counselors will be on hand to help you with pre-planning. Incentives will be offered. For details, visit www.diometuchen.org/cemeteries or call (800) 943-8400.

10/17

Champions for Catholic Charities Dinner, 6:30 p.m., The Palace in Somerset Park, Business Attire. For information, call 732-562-2432 or email champions@diometuchen.org. To register online visit, www.diometuchen.org/champions.

10/20

World Mission Sunday Family Celebration, Office of the Pontifical Mission Society, 10:30 a.m.

Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. “Going the Extra Mile for Kids in Need of Jesus” a one-mile walk, will begin St. Francis CYO building. Mass will be celebrated at noon by Father John G. Hillier. A light reception will follow Mass. For a registration form, call (732) 243-4583.

10/24

Prayer Service for Those Touched by the Pain of Addiction, 7 p.m., Mary, Mother of God Parish, Hillsborough. All those who have been touched by addiction in some way or have suffered a loss of a loved are invited to attend. Pastoral ministers will be present to listen and speak with participants and to offer healing resources. Refreshments and fellowship will follow. For information, call (732) 243-4574.8

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2019 Choices Matter – A Critical Life Conference, Catholic Student Association, 8:30 a.m. to 3:30 p.m., Rutgers Student Center, 126 College Ave., New Brunswick. Mass will be celebrated at 8:30 a.m. by Bishop James F. Checchio at St. Peter’s University and Community Parish. The keynote speaker will be Leah Darrow. General registration is $25.

College and high school students are $10. Lunch is included. To register online, visit www.rutgerscatholic.org.

A Catholic Prayer and Support for Families Affected by Mental Health Issues, Office for Persons with Disabilities, 10 a.m. and 7 p.m., St. Patrick Parish, Belvidere. The support group will offer spiritual support and tips on how to cope with mental health issues. The program will also be held through Dec. on the first Wednesday of the month. For details, call (732) 765-6432 or email catholicswithdisabilities@gmail.com.

The Shrine of St. Joseph, the Mission of the Missionary Servants, Stirling, will hold Faith and Fellowship for high school students and young adults on the second Sunday of the month at 5 p.m. Activities will include bonfires, hiking, games, retreats, Eucharist and

WANTED more. For information,HELP contact Brother Aro Varnabas, (908) 647-0208 or email varnabas@yahoo.com.

The Shrine of St. Joseph, Stirling, will host a monthly Recovery Mass for those who participate in 12 Step Programs on the second Saturday of each month at noon. An open discussion meeting will follow Mass in the auditorium, applying the readings of the following Sunday’s Mass to the practice of the 12 Steps. For details, call (908) 647-0208 or visit www.stshrine.org.

CLASSIFIED For information call: (732 )529-7934 • Fax: (732) 562-0969 HELP WANTED

SCHOOL BUS DRIVER - Bus Driver wanted with valid CDL-B License with both P and S endorsements, updated medicals and d r i ve r histor y ex trac t.

Spotswood area. If interested please contact Mark Sahli at 732-251-3110.

HELP WANTED

PRO-LIFE NURSE MANAGER PART-TIME

Life Choices Resource Center, a pro-life pregnancy center in Middlesex County is seeking a part-time (10 hours) Nurse Manager.

A paid position; volunteers welcome.

Duties include: review patient records, chaperone exams, offer patient counsel, education & referrals.

Reply to Rosanda Grau at

lifechoices@optonline.net

POSITION WANTED

C A R E G I V E R - 20 years experience. Will take care of older persons. Live in. Call Natly: (917) 716-2008 CAREGIVER - Experienced care for the elderly including Dementia and Alzheimers. Good companion; responsible and reliable; will live in. References available. Call Beca: 1-908-9920511or (908) 240-6100.

HELP WANTED

Or call 732-516-0911 (24/7) • www.LifeChoicesRC.com

NEED PRO - LIFE HOUSEMOTHERS SHIFTS AVAILABLE - 7-3:30, 3-11:30, 11-7 Several Sources Shelters, a non-profit nonsectarian shelter for pregnant women is seeking kind, compassionate individuals, willing to serve God through those we help.

Drivers License required Reply to : Susan Harper - Lloyd, Email: susanharperlloyd@aol.com Or call: 201-819-4699 (M-F 9-5)

REAL ESTATE

SELLING YOUR HOME? Call George Pantozzi, Broker/Sales Associate, Berkshire Hathaway NJ Properties for a complimentary market analysis.

I also buy homes. Cell: 908.392.2677; Office: 908.874.3400 ext 324.

CLEANING SERVICES

DELUXE HOUSEKEEPING - Quality & Reliable Cleaning Service. Free Estimates.

Commercial and Residential. Call Tony or Karina: (732) 670-7437.

VOLUNTEERS The Diocesan O ffice of Stewardship and Development wants your . . .

• Superb organizational skills • Ability to do detailed work • Love for data management . . . to build Catholic school alumni databases.

Database builders should enjoy data entr y and be available for a minimum of 3 hours per week, any weekday between 9 am and 2 pm. Training will be provided. For more information or to join the Database Building Team.

Call: 732.562.2452 or Email: themingway@diometuchen.org

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THE CATHOLIC SPIRIT OCTOBER 3, 2019

Silver and Gold Wedding Anniversary Celebration, Diocese of Metuchen, 4 p.m., Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen. Renew your marriage vows with Bishop James F. Checchio during an Evening Prayer Service. Registration is required. To register visit, www.diometuchen.org/silver-and-gold or contact your parish office by Oct. 11. Although no fee is required, in the past many Jubilarians couples have given a donation of gratitude to the Church in memory of the occasion. A donation can be made online or by calling (732) 562-1543.

Outside the Diocese

RATES

October

on Catholic spirituality and the impact of technology on the first Tuesday of every month from 7 to 9 p.m. The club will meet at the South River Public Library in the Meeting Room. All are welcome.

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Public invited to annual Blue Mass

DIRECTORY ST. HELENA SCHOOL CHRISTMAS BAZAAR

OUR LADY OF VICTORIES PARISH CHRISTMAS BAZAAR

930 Grove Avenue, Edison

in Monsignor Dalton Hall 42 Main Street, Sayreville, NJ 08872

SA SATUR DAY NOVEMBER 2 9 am - 3 pm

SATURDAY NOVEMBER 9, 2019

Handmade crafters from Wood to Wool Jewelry · Accessories Crafts · Jewelry Holiday Items · Home Goods Many types of Vendors Great Food and much more!!!

Free Admission & Parking

Over 75+ Vendors Craft Items · Homemade Goodies Refreshments · Fantastic Prizes Activities & Games for Children Photos with Santa

Limited Vendor Tables available Vendors contact: RENEEWALL3@YAHOO.COM or call Renee at 732-259-9842 ASSUMPTION CATHOLIC SCHOOL CHRISTMAS BAZAAR & GIFT AUCTION 380 Meredith Street, Perth Amboy (in the school auditorium)

SUNDAY NOVEMBER 17 11:00 am - 5:00 pm

Great Prizes · Fabulous Food · Games Vendors · Fun for Everyone Free Admission assumptioncatholicschool.net mptioncatholicschool.net

OCTOBER 3, 2019 THE CATHOLIC SPIRIT

732-826-8721

10:00 am - 4:00 pm

Vendors & Crafters Wanted!

Contact Nicole at 732-857-5082

IMMACULATE CONCEPTION FALL FESTIVAL/ CRAFT SHOW (FORMERLY GRANNYS CELLAR)

Sponsored by the Rosary Altar Society 23 Manalapan Road, Spotswood

METUCHEN — Hundreds of local, “This liturgy offers us all — civilcounty, state and federal law enforcement ians and uniformed men and women personnel of all faiths will be recognized — an opportunity to be rejuvenated and for their commitment and self-sacrifice at nourished by the Bread of Life,” said the Diocese of Metuchen’s 18th Annual Bishop Checchio. “As we gather with Blue Mass on Oct. 17 at 10:30 a.m. at the these men and women who sacrifice for Cathedral of St. Francis us daily, we are joined of Assisi, 32 Elm Ave. in Christ, who “This liturgy offers together People of all faiths made the perfect sacriare encouraged to attend fice, and are strengthened us all — civilians and join the diocese in to follow his example.” and uniformed offering prayers of gratiThe Warren Towntude for the uniformed men and women ship Police Department, men and women, each of under the leadership of — an opportunity Chief William E. Keane, whom have responded to a call to serve the comserve as the host to be rejuvenated will mon good, to build a just agency of the Blue Mass and nourished by this year. society and to protect the vulnerable.

In keeping with trathe Bread of Life." dition from past years, the “As we come to—Bishop James F. gether for the Blue Mass names of those who have died in the line of duty each year, I am reminded Checchio and inspired by the comsince the inception of the mitment made by those in law enforce- Blue Mass will be read as a bell tolls to ment, and certainly the support offered commemorate their memory and sacrifice. by their families, and the profound perThe Mass will include bagpipes and sonal sacrifices they make daily for the drums, TAPS and a 21-gun salute. After betterment of all people,” said Bishop Mass there will be a State Police aircraft flyover as Bishop Checchio blesses and James F. Checchio.

Bishop Checchio will preside at the reviews officers outside the Cathedral.

A lunch reception will follow in the Mass, joined by priests from the diocese who will concelebrate, to honor law en- community room beneath the church.

For more information, visit https:// forcement personnel who live and work in the counties served by the diocese diometuchen.org/2019-blue-mass or call — Middlesex, Hunterdon, Somerset and (732) 765-6438.

Warren.

SA SATURDAY NOVEMBER 30 9 am -4 pm

Quality holiday and hand crafted items Free admission Kitchen open for Breakfast and Lunch Lots of free parking

Crafters tables available call Jay 609-409-0199

ST. MATTHIAS SCHOOL 33RD Annual CHRISTMAS CRAFT FAIR! 170 JFK Blvd., Somerset, NJ SUNDAY, DECEMBER 8, 2019 9am - 2pm Holiday Gifts • Over 50 Vendors • Bake Sale

Toy Tricky Tray & More! Free Admission & Parking

www.stmatthias.info ∙ Register to be a Vendor e-mail: colleenmeriksen@aol.com

To advertise your craft fair in our next directory call NAN at 732-765-6444

The Phillipsburg Police Department, host of the 2018 Blue Mass, stands with Bishop James F. Checchio after the liturgy. The Warren Township Police Department will serve as the host agency of the Mass this year. All are welcome to attend. Right, Bishop Checchio accepts the communion gifts from members of the host department at the 2018 Blue Mass.

Bishop Checchio will preside at this year's Mass, Oct. 17, 10:30 a.m., at the Cathedral of St. Francis of Assisi, Metuchen.

— The Catholic Spirit file photos