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Contents
JULY - AUGUST 2015 Summer edition
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Always on ‘cue Barbecue connoisseurs like the Shermans are always ready to grill and entertain friends.
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Antiques road trip!
Discover all the great places to hunt for treasures.
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Call a lawyer! Know when you need to seek expert legal advice.
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GCW Idea House
Explore a beautiful home designed for entertaining, family occasions and fun.
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IN EVERY ISSUE
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Money Just how much money do you need to have set aside for a job loss or other emergency?
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Success Karen Sock: Failure provides the opportunity for us to begin anew. 6
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Home Many people are choosing to live simpler in tiny houses. You won’t believe what you can fit in this one!
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Fashion & Beauty Fabulous, fun and 50 — and older!
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Food If you want real southern cooking, visit Ms. Audrey’s Kitchen in Gulfport.
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Women have so many responsiblities for their families, and we stay busy from sunup to late night, long after we leave our jobs. It’s wonderful when we can break from the routine and relax by the pool. But even more enjoyable are the times we spend with our families on summer vacations. My children are grown and have busy careers of their own so I look forward to that one time of the year when we all can hang out, explore new places, laugh till we gasp for air and stay up late watching movies and playing cards. To me, the best part of the trip is not some adventuresome theme park or resort but the car ride! That’s when we reminisce, catch up and act silly, seeing who can count the most Alexander Shunarah billboards and, of course, who can tell the best “remember when ...” stories. We encourage you to enjoy your own time with family, taking a staycation on the Coast if you can’t get away. In this issue, we’ve served up some great ideas to get you up and out. Keep preparation and stress minimal by getting away to your back deck. Light up the grill and try some of the recipes and party-planning tips in this issue (pages 13 and 68). If you love shopping for treasures, you don’t want to miss the antiques road trip, starting on page 26. If you love the outdoors, find out about nearby bird-watching trails (page 46). You can lose yourself in the wonders of nature right here on the Coast. Or enjoy a great book under an umbrella, with sounds of the sea or bayou nearby. Check out the great reads on page 81. As you can see, Gulf Coast Woman is your magazine! We work hard to give you a great publication brimming with helpful information. Get out and enjoy this season. It’s not so much about what you do or where you go; it’s about realizing what really matters in life and taking time to enjoy it. My publishing partner, Angela, and I usually share this column, but I bet she must be out sneaking in a fun escape — without me! Happy summer!
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Financial planning involves assessing your financial situation, determining your objectives and formulating financial strategies to pursue them. Financial planning should become a continuous activity where your plan is reviewed regularly and performance measured in relation to your goals. The benefits of planning include: • Identifying and prioritizing financial objectives. • Documenting a “roadmap” for financial decisions based on unique financial needs and objectives. • Producing investment recommendations based on your current situation. • Providing ongoing review to identify financial needs and investment opportunities as things change. Taking the time to analyze your situation can provide you with the knowledge to gain control of your financial future. How a financial plan can help guide your financial future Questions to ask yourself:
WILL I BE ABLE TO HAVE A COMFORTABLE INCOME THROUGHOUT MY RETIREMENT YEARS?
• What is my net worth? • Are my loved ones financially protected if I lose my job or die? • What is my asset allocation, and is it appropriate for my and risk tolerance? • Many people do not know the answers to these and other important financial questions, and are unaware of what the implications are.
SOME FACTORS TO CONSIDER:
• Age: In general, younger investors can invest more aggressively since volatility evens out over time. • Are you looking for growth or investments that will provide income? • Your financial timeframe greatly influences the type of investments you choose.
THE PLANNING PROCESS
• Gather information about financial goals, current and future savings, as well as current and future income sources. • Assess financial goals to determine whether expected excess or shortfall to goal. • Evaluate your present financial plan. • Develop an action plan for addressing shortfalls. • Implement action plan. • Monitor the financial plan and make adjustments as needed.
WHERE DO WE BEGIN?
• Gather relevant financial information. • Determine appropriate analysis tool and complete questionnaire.
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Emergency funds: How much is enough? By Wealth Management Systems An emergency fund can provide a financial cushion in the event of a loss of income. But today’s low interest rates and longer time between jobs may require a reconsideration of the old rules of thumb. According to research by Bankrate.com, 67 percent of Americans have an emergency fund that holds enough to cover at least three months of expenses. Access to an emergency fund is essential in the event of an unexpected event that reduces your regular income. Emergency funds have the potential to help cover your everyday expenses so you can avoid tapping into your savings for retirement, college and other long-term needs. There are a number of considerations in determining the amount to put aside for short-term needs. It must first be stated, however, that the question is often answered not by a dollar figure, but in terms of the length of time an individual believes the funds will be needed. Consider, as well, that today’s low interest rates translate into a relatively low gain on the account, necessitating a greater level of savings or new strategies for investing for the short term. We will examine first the question of the time period for which to cover. An old rule of thumb states that an emergency fund should consist of three to six months’ worth of expenses. This may not be sufficient in today’s environment due to low interest rates and long stretches of unemployment. In an April 2014 data release, the U.S. Department of Labor stated that 57 percent of unemployed Americans
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were out of work for at least 15 weeks, and 38 percent had been unemployed for at least 27 weeks. The same report concluded that the average length of unemployment, without seasonal adjustments, was 37 weeks, or roughly eight-and-a-half months. Revisiting the Bankrate. com study, only 24 percent of respondents had at least six months’ of savings in their emergency accounts. In terms of vehicles, savings accounts or money-market mutual funds offer instant access, although current yields are low and may not keep up with inflation. You may also be able to use your Roth IRA as an option, as Roth IRA owners may withdraw their contribution principal at any time for any reason, without tax or penalty. Roth IRA withdrawal of earnings or conversion amounts under specific circumstances may be subject to taxes and penalty. One thing you will want to think about is the percentage of current income you would want to replace, which may be less than 100 percent depending upon your current income and expenses. On the other hand, you may need a larger emergency fund if you have a mortgage, children and/or a nonworking spouse. Finally, no matter how much you set aside and how you choose to allocate your short-term savings, revisit your plan periodically to make sure you are on track as living expenses rise. Article by Wealth Management Systems Inc. provided courtesy of Brenda Whitwell, a Morgan Stanley financial advisor. Reach her at Brenda.Whitwell@morganstanley.com.
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Financing your business venture
For most aspiring business owners, the most intimidating or challenging aspect of the start-up process is financing. There are some businesses that do not require large amounts of capital to start-up: professional services, cleaning companies, internet-based websites, etc. but for many, the start-up process is not quite that simple. Although securing business funds is not easy, trying these resources may help:
TRADITIONAL LOANS
Visiting your local bank where you have established a history is still the most common method of securing start-up capital. Try looking for SBA-approved banks; the two most utilized loans that the Small Business Administration offers for small business startups are: 7(a) guaranteed loan program and the 504 fixed-asset small business finance program.
CROWD FUNDING
Crowd funding is the practice of funding a project or venture by raising monetary contributions from a large number of people, typically via the Internet. Develop a great campaign pitch and share your campaign with the online community. Some of the available crowdsourcing platforms include websites such as: Kickstarter and GoFundMe.
INVESTMENTS
Another alternative in securing start-up capital is to seek out financial investors. Starting with a well- thought-out business plan will increase your chances of gaining attention from angel investors, venture capitalists, and/or potential partners. Although investments are not considered loans, most investors only inject capital into a start-up program that they will receive a partial ownership in or have an agreement in place to ensure they receive a return on their investment.
ONLINE LENDING
For those unconventional entrepreneurs who are unable to borrow from traditional banks but have been in business long enough to establish a revenue record, there are online lending establishments that are quickly gaining popularity among borrowers. They offer varying loan amounts based on your businesses’ previous sales records. The application process is less than an hour and the approval and disbursement process is often completed within days. Visit Kabbage or OnDeck online for more details.
FACTORING
Services such as factoring or invoice advancing will provide business owners with cash based on the business’s accounts
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On ‘cue
The Shermans love serving a side of laughter with the grillin’ By Dana Sleger
Renny and Linda Sherman at their home in Florence Gardens. Below, Renny’s pulled pork sandwich is a crowd pleaser.
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items to be made, but pulled pork is at the top of the list, and it’s a favorite for a number of reasons. “A pulled pork sandwich is wonderful, but what do you do with all that meat afterward?” Renny asks. “Do you keep eating pulled pork sandwiches or do you get creative? One of my favorites is smoked pork chili and it’s one-of-a-kind. Anyone that has ever had it loves it — it’s evil it’s so good.” “It’s the best,” Linda echoes. “Our son could eat his way through some smoked pork chili!” And if that’s not enough, Renny adds a dollop of his own sauce made with sour cream, cream cheese, cilantro and cucumber, and then crowns the chili with homemade cheese straws. Salivating yet?
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Unfortunately, don’t even think about asking him for the recipe. Lucky for us, his smoked chicken wings is another popular request and he’s happy to share that recipe. Just add celery and blue cheese dressing, and you have a party hit! Watching Renny at the grill over the years has taught Linda some tricks of her own. One staple item in the Sherman household was a result of an accidental grilling delight. Renny was on his way back from Nashville and Linda wanted to get the grill started to cook some chicken breasts. While prepping the chicken, the usual go-to Zatarain’s Creole Seasoning was almost out, so she opted to mix it with Cavender’s Greek Seasoning. That marriage turned into unforgettable smoky
s. Cook the wings the first part of the grilling proces turning occasionally utes min under indirect heat* for 60 additional seasoning to prevent burning. Sprinkle a little on wings during cooking. Cheese Dressing Serve with Marzetti Ultimate Blue and celery sticks. ector of some *Indirect heat: Many grills offer a defl Egg offers a en Gre type to prevent flare ups. The Big Plate Setter that can be used under the grates to prevent flames from burning the wings. Do not wrap the grate in foil. The wings will stick and could result in a serious burn for the griller.
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10 TIPS TO UP YOUR BARBECUE GAME Grilling season is in full swing, and whether novice or master, there’s always room to learn new things in ‘cue school! Check out these tips to help improve your skills and take your grilling game to the next level.
FLIRT WITH A NEW FLAME
Loyal to gas or committed to charcoal? No matter your flame of choice, experimenting with a new style can sharpen your approach and reveal new ways to enjoy your food. Try switching up gas for charcoal, or vice versa. Borrow a smoker from a neighbor, try wood pellet grilling, or go low and slow with a ceramic grill. Taste the difference.
MASTER MARINADES
Many consider barbecuing to be all about the sauce — that’s why 46 percent of online grill owners prefer marinating before grilling.* Consider creating and perfecting your own special marinade blend to give your backyard edibles a distinct, signature flavor.
PAIR UP WITH PRODUCE
While four in 10 (44 percent) barbecuers regularly cook with corn,* try perfecting new produce items on the grill, such as watermelon, pineapple, apples, peaches and pears. They grill best when firm and barely ripe.
VISIT A BARBECUE COMPETITION
Find true barbecue inspiration by witnessing (and tasting) the masters in their element. The Mississippi Gulf Coast is home to several large competitions throughout the year, including ‘Que At the View — a Kansas City Barbecue Society sanctioned event.
Put your barbecuing skills to the test with a neighborhood cook-off. Invite neighbors to gather up the grills and fire up their favorite recipes. Let area kids and adults serve as judges for an unforgettable block party.
BEFRIEND YOUR BUTCHER
GO WHOLE HOG ON ACCESSORIES
Beyond a new spatula or tongs, go all in with new accessory purchases such as smoker boxes, rotisseries or a side burner for a major refresh in what and how you cook.
While 68 percent of online grill owners barbecue on the July Fourth,* consider declaring full independence from your indoor kitchen for the holiday by cooking up breakfast, lunch and dinner on your grill. And don’t forget a Labor Day barbecue is right around the corner!
TOP-OFF WITH DESSERTS
Celebrate the end of a great meal not with ice cream from the freezer, but rather decadent desserts over an open flame. Think donuts, cakes, or even s’mores cooked in a grill pot.
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Mix up your outdoor meal plans by trying full ethnic flavored dinners — like all Asian cuisine (kebobs and satay) or French delicacies (canapés or niçoise salads) that even Julia Child would admire. Few know meats better than your neighborhood butcher. Take the time to regularly ask him or her for the best cuts for barbecuing — and tips for bringing out its best flavor.
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TIPS FOR BEGINNERS • Use a meat thermometer to make sure smokecooked foods are done but not overcooked. Smoke-cooked foods look different than other grilled or oven-prepared foods. They may be pink or red when completely cooked (apple wood especially will make chicken look red, for example). • Use tongs and barbecue mitts to add charcoal, turn meats, refill the water pan, or adjust vents. • Do not use charcoal infused with starter fluid — it can add an unpleasant taste to your smoked foods. • Experiment with different woods and meats until you find the right combination for your tastes. • Start with a small amount of wood to see how you like the flavor, then add more for more intense smoky taste. (Just don’t overdo it; too much wood smoke over long periods can make food taste bitter.) • Try combining woods as you get more experienced for unique and flavorful results. • Keep a smoker’s notebook while experimenting. Jot down ingredients, wood amounts and combinations, and results so you can repeat successes. (Unless, of course, you want to keep your best recipes a secret!)
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By Dana Sleger
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arbecue is one of America’s favorite pastimes. Whether a holiday or just a weekend gathering on a crisp summer day, something special happens when family, friends, food and fire come together. And on the Mississippi Gulf Coast, we take our barbecue seriously — and have a lot of fun at the same time! Being a backyard pro is one thing, but then there are the big leagues with competitions on a local to global scale that have awarded coveted trophies to some of our own Coast connoisseurs. Just recently, The Shed Barbeque & Blues Joint, which has restaurant locations in Ocean Springs and Gulfport, secured the top prize as the new Grand Champion of the Memphis in May World Championship Barbecue Cooking Contest. What started out in the history books as a simple fire in an open pit hundreds of years ago has turned into a technologically advanced industry full of grills, gadgets and gurus, and South Mississippi is certainly a rich haven dripping with barbecue blessings. Ever been to a Coast competition? Try Barbecue Under the Oaks in Gulfport, D’Iberville BBQ Throwdown, Grillin’ on the Green in Biloxi, or Island View Casino’s ‘Que At the View, which is a Kansas City Barbecue Society sanctioned event. One name well known in the Coast competition circuit is Terry Welch with BBQ World Catering. Known as the “Godfather of Barbecue” by some, Welch has amassed an impressive collection of trophies over the years and his knowledge is sought after by people near and far who regularly visit headquarters in Gulfport to chat all things Q. Take his jalapeno peppers for example. If you have ever been to a festival in the region, chances are you have seen the long line waiting for the bacon-wrapped deliciousness stuffed with cream
cheese and green onion sausage that are smoked to perfection. It’s that smoking technique people want to know about, and he’s more than happy to share a few of his secrets. “Don’t be afraid to step out and get involved in the world of barbecue,” Welch says. “It’s not as complicated as people think it is, and if you think you got what it takes, dare to enter a local competition. If your name gets called, it’s over. You’re hooked and your barbecue competition journey begins.” Another heavy hitter in the pit master league is Matt Compton with Compton & Son Appliance and Outdoor Living Center on Pass Road in Gulfport. His family’s three-generation company has grown to include a full-line grill store with top brands exclusively available as the only vendor within the state. A 3,000-square-foot showroom includes an extensive collection of grills, patio furniture, competition rubs and sauces, different types of lighters, a variety of woods from chunks to chips in all kinds of flavors, and accessories galore. “We offer all types of grills with everything from charcoal, gas, and an electric pellet smoker to a traditional smoker, and if we don’t have it in the store, we can get it for you,” Compton says. “The seasoning shelf rotates in and out because I sell what I use in the circuit and keep up with what’s hot.” For beginners looking to venture into smoking, Compton suggests trying a pellet smoker, which is considered the new hit thing in the grilling world. Pellets come in 10 different flavors such as traditional hickory, oak and pecan to cherry, apple, special blends, and even a Jack Daniel’s mix. And here’s the kicker: it can be controlled without ever getting off the couch. Once the hopper is filled with pellets and the smoker’s temp is set, a wi-fi signal built in allows it to be operated via cell phone through a downloaded app. Just put the chicken on and go about your day! So, whether you’re a barbecue novice or have a trophy case, enjoy the ride along the way and have fun. As Compton likes to say, “Start livin’ and get grillin’!”
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SMOKING WOODS CHART Hungry for great smoked flavor? This comprehensive smoking woods chart will help match the right woods with specific foods for an impressive summer spread. WOOD TYPE
CHARACTERISTICS
GOOD FOOD MATCHES
Hickory
Pungent, smoky, bacon-like flavor.
Pork, chicken, beef, wild game, cheeses.
Pecan
Rich and more subtle than hickory, but similar in taste. Burns cool, so ideal for very low heat smoking.
Pork, chicken, lamb, fish, cheeses.
Mesquite
Sweeter, more delicate flavor than hickory. Tends to burn hot, so use carefully.
Most meats, especially beef. Most vegetables.
Alder
Delicate flavor that enhances lighter meats.
Salmon, swordfish, sturgeon, other fish. Also good with chicken and pork.
Oak
Forthright but pleasant flavor. Blends well with a variety of textures and flavors.
Beef (particularly brisket), poultry, pork.
Maple
Mildly smoky, somewhat sweet flavor. Try mixing maple with corncobs for ham or bacon.
Poultry, vegetables, ham.
Cherry
Slightly sweet, fruity smoke flavor.
Poultry, game birds, pork.
Apple
Slightly sweet but denser, fruity smoke flavor.
Beef, poultry, game birds, pork (particularly ham).
Peach or pear
Slightly sweet, woodsy flavor.
Poultry, game birds, pork.
Grape vines
Aromatic, similar to fruit woods.
Turkey, chicken, beef.
Wine barrel chips
Wine and oak flavors. A flavorful novelty that smells wonderful, too.
Beef, turkey, chicken, cheeses.
Seaweed
Tangy and smoky flavors. (Wash and dry in sun before use.)
Lobster, crab, shrimp, mussels, clams.
Herbs and spices (bay leaves, rosemary, garlic, mint, orange or lemon peels, whole nutmeg, cinnamon sticks, and others)
Vary from spicy (bay leaves or garlic) to sweet (other seasonings), delicate to mild. Generally, herbs and spices with higher oil content will provide stronger flavoring. Soak branches and stems in water before adding to fire. They burn quickly, so you may need to replenish often.
Vegetables, cheeses, and a variety of small pieces of meat (lighter and thin-cut meats, fish steaks and fillets, and kabobs).
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Find out more about women-owned business certifications By Marcia McDowell
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What does WOSB, EDWOSB and WBE mean and how do you use these to benefit your business? First let’s understand the terminology: WOSB is an acronym for Woman-Owned Small Business; EDWOSB stands for Economically Disadvantaged Woman-Owned Small Business; and WBE stands for Woman Business Enterprise. You may self-certify as a woman-owned business. To self-certify you simply state that your business is at least 51% owned by a woman when completing online registrations or forms required when doing business with a government agencies or prime contractors. However, having a formal certification may be required in certain circumstances. In the past, to participate in the WOSB or EDWOSB you have been allowed to self certify if you had previously uploaded all supporting documentation to the General Login System (GLS). However, this self certification is now in question. The SBA may be forced to create their own certification or continue to outsource the formal certification to a third party certifier. The State of Mississippi offers a WBE certification program as does the Women’s Business Enterprise National Council, the U.S. Women’s Chamber of Commerce, etc. The U.S. Small Business Administration (SBA) oversees the WOSB and EDWOSB program. However, they do not currently have a certification program for WOSB or EDWOSB. They have outsourced the certification process to several approved agencies. When deciding which certification(s) to pursue, you need to consider who you want to contract with or with whom you want to sell your goods and/or services to and which certifications they require, if any. The information required and the process to register is much the same for each certifying entity. Normally you will need the following items: 1) 3 years of company tax returns; 2) 3 years of personal tax returns; 3) Articles of Incorporation; 4) Shareholder or Operating Agreement; 5) personal financial statement; 6) business and personal resumes; along with various other documents. To be considered competitive, you may be required to obtain a formal certification through an approved entity. If the certifying entity is not a federal or state agency, there are costs involved for these certifications and for the annual renewal. However, this may be a good business expense if you plan to work in the federal government contracting world. If you are interested in learning more about government contracting and the processes, registrations and certifications involved, the South Mississippi Contract Procurement Center (SMCPC) is available to assist you. SMCPC is part of the federal Procurement Technical Assistance Center (PTAC) program which is administered through the Defense Logistics Agency (DLA). The PTAC program operates through a federal matching grant and offers its services at no charge to the business community. The Mississippi Development Authority (MDA) holds the grant for the State of Mississippi and SMCPC operates under the guidance of MDA. For more information on the services offered by SMCPC please visit our website at www.mscpc.com or contact our office at (228) 3961288.
McDowell is executive director of the South Mississippi Contract Procurement Center. For more information on the services offered by SMCPC, visit www.mscpc.com or call (228) 396-1288.
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SUCCESS through failure
At some point in our lives, we all experience some kind of failure. Perhaps, it is in a relationship with family, friends or colleagues, or in achieving a personal or professional goal, or in running a business. In all cases, it can be devastating, demoralizing, embarrassing and painful. Ultimately, what is important is extracting the lessons learned from the experience. You must ask yourself what have I learned and how may I apply these principles in order to recalibrate and recover. As I look at the many highly successful individuals who have made significant contributions to every aspect of our society including politics, science, sports, the arts and business, they have all experienced failure along the way. In the end it is our ability to rise above the emotion of the situation, heed the lessons and apply them that result in eventual success. Failure provides the opportunity for us to begin anew. Here are some quotes from those who took the challenge and made a huge impact: “When you take risks, you learn that there will be times when you succeed and there will be times when you fail, and both are equally important. … It’s failure that gives you the proper perspective on success.” — Ellen DeGeneres “I really don’t think life is about the I-could-have-beens. Life is only about the I-tried-to-do. I don’t mind the failure but I can’t imagine that I’d forgive myself if I didn’t try.” — Nikki Giovanni “It is impossible to live without failing at something, unless you live so cautiously that you might as well not have lived at all, in which case you have failed by default.” — J.K. Rowling “Do the one thing you think you cannot do. Fail at it. Try again. Do better the second time. The only people who never tumble are those who never mount the high wire. This is your moment. Own it.” — Oprah Winfrey “I’m the only person I know that’s lost a quarter of a billion dollars in one year. … It’s very character-building.” — Steve Jobs “I’ve missed more than 9,000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. Twenty-six times I’ve been trusted to take the game-winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” — Michael Jordan “Success is not final, failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.” — Winston Churchill
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By Lashaundra McCarty Technology is an unavoidable facet of business. Whether you desire to create a website, offer a loyalty app, send a newsletter or connect with your clients via social media, you must engage with online technology. If this is an industry that is unfamiliar, it can be a daunting task to incorporate these tools into your business but it is a necessary. As you prepare, here are five aspects to consider:
BE MOBILE-READY!
If you decide to have a website created or already have one, be sure that it is mobile ready. On April 21, 2015, Google implemented a new search indexing system that will increase the search ranking of websites created to display properly on a tablet and smartphone. Being mobileready does not mean that your website displays on a smartphone or tablet. Mobile-ready means the site is easy to navigate, has legible text on smaller screens and allows users to easily complete common tasks. Using a responsive web design is the most efficient method to create a website for computers, tablets and smartphones because responsive sites automatically adjust pending upon the user’s device.
CHOOSE YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA CHANNELS
Being on Twitter, Facebook, Instagram, Google+ and the myriad of other social media sites can be great but yields the most success if your desired audience is on that platform. Choose online communication that is most appropriate for your target audience and the format you intend to use to share your information.
KEEP YOUR CONTENT FRESH AND RELEVANT
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Websites and social media that are not updated frequently look unattended. If the company is not maintaining its online space, why should a user visit? Show your potential customers that you are just as excited about your company as you hope they will become. Occasionally, share specials or deals but maximize this opportunity to build a relationship with your clientele by using your social media presence as a service to educate, engage or entertain them.
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There are new developments occurring in your industry all the time. Tap into reliable sources so that you and your customers can benefit from the expertise of others. Take the time to read trade magazines and attend workshops. You will stay ahead of competitors who don’t take the time to learn. As you continuously expand your knowledge base, you can use the information you gain as content for your social media outlets.
BRAND EVERYTHING
When you choose to venture into social-media marketing, brand all of your material. LinkedIn, Twitter, Facebook and Google+ all have a place for background images in the profile. Use that space to present a consistent look throughout your accounts so that your logo, slogan and web address are regularly before your client. Remember to include this information on your business cards, letterhead, email signature and e-newsletter as well. Develop a plan of action or hire a consultant to provide the service. Technology is literally at our fingertips. Your company should be at other’s fingertips, too!
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Book’s tools will help you get a grip on your business
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By Ryan Giles I love business books. In fact, when a new book from one of my favorite authors hits the shelves, I feel like a pre-teen girl at a Justin Bieber concert. You can learn a lot from business greats such as Michael Gerber, Patrick Lencioni, Jim Collins and Verne Harnish. Unfortunately, however, many of the books written by these authors are strong on theory and weak on application. That’s where today’s book, “Get A Grip: An Entrepreneurial Fable,” shines. More than a decade ago, Gino Wickman inherited his family’s business in Michigan. He quickly realized that the business was in dire straits, but he made a commitment to turn it around. Wickman studied the classic business material, including books from the authors listed above, and he came to the same conclusion many others reached. However, he took the next step and began creating systems to implement the theories he learned. Wickman hired a stellar team to help him on his business turnaround journey, and he eventually succeeded and sold the company for a handsome profit. Shortly after, he began getting requests to help friends with their struggling businesses. After helping a few businesses achieve the same success that he had achieved, Wickman wrote his first book, “Traction: Get A Grip On Your Business.” This book is loaded with great content, but honestly, I don’t recommend it unless you’re having trouble sleeping at night — let’s just say that it’s a bit dry. His next book, “Get A Grip: An Entrepreneurial Fable” is the real page-turner. In this book, Wickman and his coauthor Mike Paton take us behind the scenes of the fictional company Swan Services. Using the story of Swan Services, the authors describe the systems needed in every business to ensure success today and tomorrow. The process begins by creating your business’ values and goals and learning to communicate these with your team. But just in case you think it’s all touchy-feely, you’ll quickly learn to implement successful staff meetings, set individual goals for your team members (called rocks and to-dos), and learn how to LMA (lead, manage, and hold people accountable). Wickman calls this new business management system the “Entrepreneurial Operating System” (EOS). Along the journey, you’ll learn all about EOS and more than 30 tools that comprise your EOS implementation. Tools like the “People Analyzer” will help you hire and fire to make sure that you have the right people in the right “seats on the bus.” The “Vision/Traction Organizer” tool will assist in your three-, five- and 10-year vision and with keeping everyone on the same page. And finally, “Identify, Discuss, Solve” will help you keep your meetings on track to make sure problems are solved. This is my favorite book, and I recommend that you pick it up today. If you aren’t an avid reader, check out Audible.com to download this book (and many others). With Audible, you can download audio books to your smartphone, tablet, PC, or even burn them to CDs (so there’s no excuse not to check this book out). I give it 4.9 out of 5 stars! If you like “Get A Grip,” check out a list of my favorite books at www. agjsystems.com/library. If you have any favorites that I missed, shoot me an email. Reach Giles at rgiles@agjsystems.com. Learn more about AGJ Systems at www.agjsystems.com. www.gcwmultimedia.com
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Are you efficient —
or just busy?
By Stephanie Shaw We all want to achieve success. Often what sets achievers apart from those still on “the journey” is efficiency. Make no mistake about it: Being busy is NOT the same as being efficient! While there are many books available with practical tips for being efficient, it took a life-altering event for me to reconsider my priorities and to understand that time is the currency of life and it must be spent it as carefully as dollars. July 20, 2014, I received a text message that would remain unseen until it was too late to respond. I did not see it because I was “busy.” While busy can be productive, most of the time it is just that, busy. As 2013 ended, I was organized and excited about my goals. I was poised to break company records and I was going to serve as president of the Gulf Coast Association of Realtors, an organization I cherished. My 2014 planner arrived and I spent a few seconds admiring the pages void of obligations but they quickly began to fill it up. There was so much to accomplish and so little time. I quickly added a legal pad to the mix to keep up with a running “to-do” list. There was no room for error or the unexpected. On July 25, 2014, while sitting in my office, awarding myself checkmarks for completing task and reaching goals, I received a phone call. I was informed my younger brother had passed away. I was bombarded with phone calls, text messages and email condolences. It was while going through these messages trying to regroup that I ran across a text from July 20. It was short and sweet: “Just wanted you to know last pic I saw of you, you look great, proud of you and I love you!” It was from my brother. I had been too busy, and this message had been overlooked when it was sent originally. Days had flown by and my obligations were met, but I never replied to my brother’s message. I had found professional success, but on my journey I had mastered being too “busy.” Shaw is the broker/owner of Latter & Blum Shaw Properties, a boutique real estate company in Gulfport. To reach her, call (228) 860-5245. TURN “BUSY” INTO EFFICIENT • Spend time reflecting on how you spend your time. This can be accomplished by reviewing your planner and to-do list every 30 days. • Consider a not-to-do list may be more important than a to-do list. • Do not compare yourself to others, but reflect on what you do well and what sets you apart. • Do not measure your success by all the tasks you complete, but instead by the results you achieve. Through the above steps, I have not only become more efficient, but found alignment for my head and my heart, making success not only professional but personal.
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Take a tour of South Mississippi’s finest vintage shopping By Dana Sleger
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Hancock County On the far end of the Gulf Coast, Waveland boasts one the most upscale antique shops in the region. Countryside Antiques is frequented by out-of-state visitors because of the one-of-a-kind 18th and 19th century French and English pieces. Customers will find furniture, silver, oil paintings, art glass, majolica, Staffordshire, cut glass, Persian carpets, religious artifacts, jewelry and miscellaneous decorative accessories. Owners Mike Mayo and Tom Cottom travel to Europe twice a year during January and August to search for prized items such as a cherry wood farmhouse table from 1850 they found in northern France. Mayo says the ever-changing inventory of antiques sets a precedent that if a customer has a connection with a particular item, it’s best to act because it could be gone tomorrow. “Buy what you like; buy what speaks to you,” Mayo says. “If you pass it this time and it speaks to you, it may never come back again.” Opened since 1978, Countryside Antiques is now on third and fourth generation customers who continue to rely on the elegant quality of timeless pieces. Also in Waveland is Treasures of the Bay, a gift shop with coastal home décor. About 20 percent of items in the store are various types of antiques like furniture, clocks, and accessories. Take a drive into the neighboring city of Bay St. Louis and prepare to spend the day browsing the downtown area. Within a one-block radius, there are five antique stores on the corner of Second and Main streets: Antique Maison, Bay Emporium, Something Special, The French Potager and Magnolia Antiques, which is home to a “doll hospital” that specializes in doll repair from various time periods. Don’t forget to take a break from shopping and step into one of the surrounding cafés for a bite to eat. The Buttercup, Cypress Café, Mockingbird Café and the Starfish Café are all within walking distance. On Ulman Avenue, Antique Maison has a second store that features a lovely tearoom. Drive a short ways up Main Street to visit Blue Rose Estate Sales, where you will find a large room full of exquisite items — even some from the 1700s — that were purchased from high-end estates found in South Florida. Also, Upscale Resale Estate Sales, a premier estate sale and liquidation company, conducts sales on location at houses and businesses along the Coast.
More than 70 vendors and consigners are located in the mall and all specialize in selling different items such as a sewing machine from 1915, a record player from 1913, vintage costume jewelry — collectibles that can’t be found in retail stores. One of Barzé’s most diverse vendors is an international flight attendant for Delta airlines. “She has everything: masks from Africa, nesting dolls from Russia, jewelry from Turkey, rosaries from Rome, clothes from India, natural glass from Egypt that goes back to the days of Pompeii, hand-carved birds that sit on natural rock from Peru,” Barzé says. “These are authentic items from around the world. When she has layovers, she shops and brings it home.” After perusing all the fabulous booths, stop in at one of Picayune’s delicious places to eat. Maybe try a delectable filet mignon at Southern Char Steakhouse, a bowl of red beans and rice with fried catfish at Two Sisters Creole Kitchen, or a chili cheese hot dog with deep fried Oreos on the side at Dog-N-Burger. Just like antique, vintage and collectible items, it’s all a matter of personal taste. Now let’s head east.
Pearl River County While you’re on the west side of the Coast, drive over to Picayune, another city that is a fantastic hub for antiques and collectibles. Just park your car downtown and enjoy a day of walking shop to shop to find those rare items that would be perfect additions to the homestead. Make sure to also visit stores in the surrounding area. It’s worth the drive! Gibson House Antiques, Treasures & More, Now & Then and Nostalgia are just a handful of places to check out in Picayune. One of the most interesting venues of shopping activity is Barzé Place Antiques & Collectibles Mall. Owner Lynne Barzé was raised with family heirlooms and her appreciation for craftsmanship and artistry from the past inspired a business dedicated to “preserving yesterday’s memories.” Countr ysid e
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Harrison County There are some key places for shopping in Harrison County. Iron Magnolia Antiques & Collectibles is a gem of a place in Pass Christian that is chock-full of items that tell a story. Make sure to take a walk through the eclectic collectible-laced garden that owner Linda Ladnier built in honor of her mother, Mary Belle, who was a farmer and raised seven children. In Ladnier’s shop, you will find items from the most interesting places — an old ship, Oak Crest Mansion, a church in New Orleans, and many more. “If I like something, I figure someone else will like it, too,” Ladnier says about her collection. “I specialize in vintage iron like beautiful old gates, tables and chairs. You will find a treasure-trove of antiques at our shop with selections to fit every budget.” Along Pass Road in Gulfport, there are three shops: Right Stuff Antiques, The Vintage Store and Circa 1909. Dianna Kopszywa, owner of Circa 1909, carries French, English and American furniture from the 1850s to 1940s, along with vintage china and linens, jewelry, glassware, silver, and a wide range of collectibles. Kopszywa says antiques are a worthy investment for the home: “If you buy an antique desk today, when you go to sell it later on, it will hold it’s value and appreciate,” she says. “New things depreciate, but old things appreciate or hold up. They are unique pieces with lasting quality.” Antique Hall and More on Popps Ferry Road in Biloxi has a nice collection of antique guns, old coins, Depression-era glass,
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have customers that come in everyday to see what’s new.” Right next door is The Yellow Gift Shop and they carry some antiques, as well as jewelry, candles and purses. These two neighboring stores are sandwiched in between exceptional eateries well known in Wiggins. A block away on one end is the Frosty Mug (established in 1960) and a block away on the other end is The Whistle Stop Café where fried green tomatoes are a menu favorite. The most recent antique shop to set up in the area is Lisa’s Art, Antiques and Collectibles on Frontage Road in Wiggins. Old china cabinets, clocks, cradles, baby beds and dressers are some of the items you will find, as well as vintage jewelry, glassware, and more. This locale also features Joyful Java Deli and Desserts right in the shop and it’s open for lunch Monday through Saturday. At this unique place, daily lunch and antique specials go hand in hand: a barbecue sandwich and a corner curio, soup and a cedar trunk, a chef salad and a buffet. Next up is the eastern end of the Coast.
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watches and jewelry, as a well as furniture. Owner Pam Hall lost all her grandmother’s antiques in Katrina, so after attending auctions to replace those items, she decided to open her own shop that has a “certain style and flair.” “I love antiques and I love the people I meet,” Hall says. “Everyone has a story and when they see pieces in my shop, they walk back in history and say, ‘I remember my grandmother had one of those,’ or ‘I had that same vanity growing up.’ It takes you down memory lane.” On Suzanne Drive in D’Iberville, visit Centuries, dubbed as the largest indoor antique mall on the Gulf Coast. Sixty dealers share 15,000-square-feet of space that feature a huge selection of items such as chandeliers, artwork, retro and mid-century furniture, pottery, silver, jewelry, and much more. Right across the street from Centuries is Southern Vintage Antiques. Aside from a delightful collection of items, owner Pam Swisher teaches chalk paint classes, which is a method of painting furniture to get that distressed, shabby chic look. She also does custom painting for clients. Before continuing eastward, swing northward for 30 or so minutes to Wiggins.
Stone County Kloze Klozet on Magnolia Drive in Wiggins is a spectacular consignment shop with a 22,000-square-foot showroom full of items sure to please a collector’s heart. In addition to plenty of clothing for all ages and styles, there’s even a “man cave” with some neat things. Rita Cooley opened the store 20 years ago and now has a second location in Poplarville. Both places have a number of antiques like end tables and sofas, but customers need to be quick on their feet. “We get quite a bit of antiques, but you have to catch it as they come in,” Cooley says. “We have lots of collectibles and put out new items everyday, all day long. It’s a shopper’s paradise and we literally www.gcwmultimedia.com
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elsewhere,” he says. “Antique tools and saws, fishing lures, reels, knives, old porcelain signs like the Coca-Cola signs from the general store and gas and oil memorabilia, musical instruments, glassware and bottles, cast iron skillets — we have a good variety of everything.” Vieux Marche Antiques on Bienville Boulevard also is located in Ocean Springs and it features a nice selection of German, English and American clocks. A little further east in Pascagoula is Antiques, Treasures and Treats on Krebs Avenue. It has been in business for 20 years and carry a wide range of items that include Empire and Eastlake
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What impact does domestic violence have on divorce proceedings? By Dianne Herman Ellis
The law in Mississippi sets out rights for both parents and children, with the understanding that both the mother and the father of a child have equal rights to parent. The courts usually weigh a set of factors referred to as the Albright determine which parent is more suited for the primary custody of a child. The law, however, carves out a special exception when a parent is a perpetrator of domestic violence. The law in Mississippi recognizes the very specific and real damage that is inflicted upon a child — mentally, psychologically, and often physically — when a child is raised in a home with or is a witness to domestic violence. Miss. Code. Ann. §93-5-24 (9)(a)(i) starts with the requirement that “[i]n every proceeding where the custody of a child is in dispute, there shall be a rebuttable presumption that it is detrimental to the child and not in the best interest of the child to be placed in sole custody, joint legal custody or joint physical custody of a parent who has a history of perpetrating family violence.” Essentially, this means that the law assumes that a parent who has committed acts of violence upon a family member is simply not fit to have custody of a child, either legal or physical, and visitation may also be limited or supervised. A history of family violence is defined in this statute as one “incident of family violence that has resulted in serious bodily injury to, or a pattern of family violence against, the party making the allegation or a family household member of either party.” Violence against a previous spouse, a child, or other family is included in this definition. Notably, this does not require a conviction for domestic violence, but rather it requires some proof that family violence is likely to have occurred. This is obviously much easier to establish when a parent has medical records, has law enforcement records, or has witnesses to the violence.
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In the absence of any documentation whatsoever, it is unlikely that a history of family violence can be established. This is particularly problematic because abusers often hide their abuse in the presence of others, and victims of abuse often cover for their abusers, both with law enforcement and when receiving treatment for injuries. These acts ofprotecting the abuser can ultimately leave the children of that abusive relationship without protection from the violent parent. The presumption that a parent who has a history of perpetrating violence is unfit for custody is a rebuttable presumption. It does not mean that this parent cannot have custody or visitation, but it does mean that once a history of violence has been establisshed, the parent who is the perpetrator then must prove to the court that he or she is fit to have custody or visitation. Sometimes this can occur when the violent parent is the lesser of twoevils for some reason, such as drug use by the other parent. Treatment for psychiatric problems that contributed to the violence, remoteness in time since the last violent act, completion of parenting or family violence prevention classes, drug and alcohol treatment, and other factors may be considered. Once the legal presumption of unfitness has been triggered, the court must make findings on the record as to how and why the presumption was or was not rebutted. Additionally, the court must make provisions for the safety of the victim parent. Ultimately, most parents are entitled to visitation and custody, but the right of a child to be protected from a violent parent is the most important right of all. Dianne Herman Ellis of Ellis Law Firm is an attorney practicing primarily in the field of family and domestic law. Reach her at (228) 447-4118.
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What are my options if I don’t have a long-term care plan? Do you understand the importance of planning for long-term care? By Dennie Mayhone Jr. Long-term care can happen in a variety of settings — the home, an assisted-living facility, or a nursing home. Entering long-term care can cause a great deal of stress. For many, the most difficult task — how to locate, get, and pay for good quality of care — is just beginning. Longterm care planning issues can be particularly complex. What benefits may be available will rely on what planning has been done, and what planning can be accomplished now that a crisis has arisen. When considering the planning options, remember that protecting yourself starts with an effective estate plan. Most want to provide enough assets for the security of the spouse and family. The benefit rules for Medicare, Medicaid, and Veterans Administration are extremely complicated and confusing. The result is that without planning, many people spend more than they should on long-term care and jeopardize family security. A LongTerm Care Plan should be designed so that you: • Integrate the legal, financial, and personal care needs into a plan to allow you to stay at home as long as possible and when it is not possible, to protect you and your family. • Protect yourself from running out of money, and therefore, options. • Attain peace of mind. • Maintain control of your assets. The decision to move a loved one into the long-term care arena is one of the most difficult decisions a family will have to make. No matter the reason, those involved are almost always under great stress. At times like these, it is important that you have a long-term care plan in place to protect you and your family to allow for the right choices to be made.
Mayhone is an elder care attorney with Mayhone Elder Law in Ocean Springs. He is licensed to practice law in the state of Mississippi and has been accredited by the Veterans Administration to assist veterans and their spouses with VA benefits, including “Aid and Attendance” pension benefits. He is a member of Elder Law Answers, Elder Counsel, the National Academy of Elder Law Attorneys (NAELA), and Life Care Planning Law Firms Association. Reach him at (228) 215-1223.
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What is the purpose of personal injury law suits? By Douglas “Monte” Tynes Jr. Have you ever though when you’ve watched a TV ad of some lawyer, or seen a billboard of a lawyer advertising for injuries as a result of car wrecks, bad drugs, or anything you can really possibly think of, and wondered what is the purpose of all of this? Most people look at some stuffy attorney, standing outside on a hot day in a suit saying he can get you money, and think well its greed, that’s the purpose. Unfortunately, that is what most people believe. But, I ask you to read this with an open mind and look a little further into what the real purpose of a personal injury law suit is. It is about the protection of you, your family, and your friends from unnecessary dangerous actions others. Our founding fathers of this nation, decided that if someone caused harm to others, then they should have to pay for the harm that they cause. The reasoning behind it is two folds. First, it attempts to make-up for the harmed caused. Second, and more far reaching reason, is to send a message to those in the community that people in the community are required to live by certain rules to make the community safer. I remember as a young boy, going into Salmagundi’s and seeing a sign, that said “you break it, you bought it” and unfortunately for me, I broke something because I wasn’t paying attention to what I was doing. My mom made me do chores to earn money, and then take that money up to the owners and pay them myself. Looking back, this was a very valuable lesson, to be careful, or there was consequences.
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That is similar to personal injury law. The purpose of it is to send a message to people that violate safety rules that violating the safety rules will not be tolerated. The beauty of personal injury law, is that it is applicable in any context. Whether it be a dangerous driver on the roadway, a company that dumps harmful contaminates into the ground water, a pharmaceutical company that sells a drug that causes horrible injuries, or any other situation where injuries are caused by the actions of others, personal injury law is there to protect all of us. Personal injury lawsuits have been the cause of saving countless lives, by holding people accountable for their actions. Holding a company accountable for selling a product that isn’t the safest it can be, holding a doctor accountable for not following normal medical procedures, or holding a trucking company accountable for making their truck drivers work to many hours and falling asleep at the wheel. The one thing that makes people follow the rules they are required to follow is the fact that they may one day be held accountable for their actions. That is what protects us, the accountability that personal injury lawsuits enforce. Attorney Douglas “Monte” Tynes, Jr., is the owner of Tynes Law Firm in Pascagoula. To reach Monte call 228-769-7736.
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I’ve been injured in an accident; now what? By Rick Amos When you’ve been injured in an accident, you can easily be overwhelmed by the restrain that follows — loss of wages from missed work days, medical bills, and trepidation about an uncertain future. You need to know that there is help for you. Attorneys who handle these types of cases are trained in every aspect of the aftermath their clients can get mired in. An attorney’s firm has experts who can handle all the details, such as notifying your creditors of your situation and helping you make payment arrangements with hospitals and doctors, leaving you free from worry and able to recover, both mentally and physically. For starters, there are things your attorney likely will ask you to do and things he or she will ask you to avoid doing. Here is a list outlining those kinds of things: DO • Maintain a daily diary, including notes about your physical and mental state. This can be very useful when you are asked to describe your injuries and the impact they have had on you. You should include notes about pain; doctors’ visits; dates of physical therapies; dates you could stop use of neck collars, crutches, braces, canes, etc.; any pain medications you must rely on; dates you could resume normal activities; and any other details about your condition. • Maintain a travel log. • Maintain a summary of medications you are taking as a result of the accident. Keep medicine containers. • Cooperate with your attorney. • Attend your scheduled doctor’s appointments. • Inform your doctor of any changes in your mental or physical condition.
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DON’T • Discuss your case with others unless your attorney gives permission to do so. Do not discuss details of your accident with anyone other than immediate family. Explain to anyone who wants information from you that your attorney has advised you to not discuss the matter. Refer him or her to your attorney and contact your attorney yourself as well. • Do not discuss your case with an insurance adjuster unless your attorney says it is OK to do so. • Do not give a recorded statement to anyone without the approval of your attorney. • Your attorney also will review with you some very important information about how to ensure your case goes as smoothly as possible and how to avoid pitfalls that could hurt your case.
To get started on full recovery and to regain your life, the first step is to contact an attorney who has experience in this field. Your burden should be lifted immediately, and the road to recovery should start coming into clear view. Amos is an attorney/owner of Amos Law Firm in Gulfport.
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Who will get custody of the child? By R. Scott Pietrowski, Attorney at law One of the most serious aspects in a divorce is child custody. If you (3) which parent has the better parenting skills find yourself contemplating divorce and have children involved, you are (4) which has the willingness and capacity to probably very concerned and have a lot of questions about the process. provide primary child care When facing a legal matter as serious as child custody, one should (5) employment responsibilities of both parents thoroughly understand the legal guidelines. (6) physical and mental health and age of parents There is a common misperception that once a child reaches a certain (7) emotional ties of the parent and child age, he or she can choose which parent he prefers to live with in the (8) parents’ moral fitness event of divorce or separation. While the preference of a child at age 12 (9) child’s home, school, and community record is a relevant factor, custody determinations are far more complicated than (10) the preference of a child at the age of 12 most divorcing parents realize. (11) stability of the home environment and Mississippi courts determine custody based on a child’s best interests. employment of each parent As the Mississippi Supreme Court has routinely emphasized, “the polestar (12) other relevant factors consideration in child custody cases is the best interest and welfare of the The list is not exhaustive as courts may consider other relevant factors. child.” Mississippi’s Supreme Courthas enumerated several factors that Indeed, each case is different, and judges are given great discretion in provide a guideline for analyzing a child’s best interests. making custody decisions that best serve the needs of a particular child. With the 1983 decision of Albright v. Albright, However, anyone contemplating divorce with children can expect the 437 So.2d 1003 (Miss. 1983), the Court set out 12 factors for chancery court to consider these 12 factors at a minimum. court judges to weigh in awarding custody: (1) age, health, and sex of a child Pietrowski, Esq., managing member of The Pietrowski Group, LLC, has 16 (2) which parent had continuing care of the child prior to separation years’ experience in the legal profession. Reach him at (228) 388-1254.
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Divorce is not an event, but a process. I want a divorce; where do I start? By Stephanie Beaver Once you have decided that divorce is the solution, you will need to gather the details of the date and location of your wedding, as well as financial information like bank accounts and balances. Call your divorced friends for recommendations and do some research on the Internet for blogs on the subject, such as the one published by this firm: Set appointments to meet with at least two or three attorneys. You will be discussing the most intimate and important details of your life with your attorney. You should feel comfortable discussing these aspects. Don’t be afraid to ask how long the attorney has been handling divorce cases or in what types of domestic cases he or she has experience. You should ask for the attorney’s opinion of your case and get an estimate of fees and expenses. If you have children and property acquired during the marriage you need to explore the realities of financing two households instead of one, and understand the likelihood of temporary child support, exclusive possession orders (when the court awards the use of the marital home to only one spouse) and temporary child support for the duration of your divorce proceedings. You must be realistic and know that even the best attorneys are not magicians, so don’t expect one. We cannot promise or guarantee anything, but we can offer our opinion based on past experiences and the current state of the law. Divorce and all of the decisions that go along with it, are anything but instant. We are all governed by case law, statutes, calendars of judges and opposing attorneys, and many factors beyond our control. Unless you and your spouse agree on every aspect of the divorce, child custody and distribution of your marital assets and liabilities, do not expect a final resolution within a few months and be wary of anyone who tells you otherwise. You should also look for someone who will tell you what you need to know, not just what you want to hear. It does not benefit you for someone to tell you what you want to hear if the law, or your facts, or both are actually adverse to you. Beaver, attorney with Daniel Coker Horton & Bell, has been counseling divorce clients for a decade. As a wife and mother, Beaver understands the complexities of marriage; as a domestic relations attorney, she understands how to best protect her clients against future contingencies. She can be reached at (228) 864-8117 or sbeaver@danielcoker.com.
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am San Fillippo is one of the few female career fire chiefs in the country — and the first one in the state. When Fire Chief Ed Friloux recruited San Fillippo to join the Diamondhead Fire Department, she thought to herself, “This sounds like fun!” Although San Fillippo had no inkling as a child that she would become a firefighter, her occasional presence at the Diamondhead fire station when she was 12 or 13 years old may have presaged what has become a lifelong career in Fire Chief Pam San Fillippo serving the public as a firefighter. San Fillippo is now Chief of Bay St. Louis’ Fire Department. San Fillippo has had ties to Bay St. Louis ever since she was a child. Born in New Orleans, she and her parents often visited family who had a little place on Texas Flat Road and other family who lived in Bay St. Louis and Waveland. San Fillippo and her parents, the Jordans, moved permanently to Diamondhead in the early 1970s, when she was 12 years old. San Fillippo literally has climbed many fire ladders in her advancement up the ranks from 1986, when she first joined the Bay St. Louis Fire Department as a firefighter. Representatives of the Mississippi Fire Academy in Jackson where new recruits are trained, affirm to the best of their knowledge that “Chief San Fillippo is the first and currently, the only, female chief of a career fire department in the state of Mississippi.” Whether she is or not, San Fillippo makes no big deal about it. She is there to do her job and do it well. San Fillippo’s demeanor is calm, cool and collected, even in stressful situations. In short, San Fillippo is the kind of person people look to in times of disaster to take charge and to do the right thing. Once, when San Fillippo “was on the receiving end,” getting help from the fire department when her own mother fell ill, “I realized then how important the role of a firefighter really is. Their very presence helps bring a feeling of safety,” she says. San Fillippo served eight years as a firefighter, from 1986 to 2002; she was shift captain from 1997 to 2002. She then moved into the role of assistant chief and later deputy chief from 2002 to 2010. She received her appointment as fire chief later in 2010. The transition from “blue shirt” to “white shirt” upon leaving the ranks of the firefighters took some time. For her, “the most fun thing about her job was riding the fire truck.” As an administrator, moving up the ranks meant riding a desk chair instead. One of P San Fillippo’s goals is to let the public know what the fire department does. Sure, it answers fire alarms, but also are around for lifethreatening trauma calls, vehicular accidents and chemical spills, just to name a few. “You never know from one second to the next what you’ll be doing in the course of a shift,” she says.
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etting up early when you’re going to work is one thing. Rising before dawn when you’re heading out on an expedition is another experience completely. Kid energy surged through me on this morning as I raced the sun’s rising to leave. Thankfully, my sensible adult part — although not fully awake — somehow remembered to double-check the items I’d be taking along: camera, extra battery, hat, wading boots and a fully charged cell phone. I dressed in long, light nylon pants with lots of pockets and a light cotton long-sleeved shirt I borrowed from my husband’s closet. The lightening sky revealed a heavy fog as I drove down to Waveland to pick up my partner in this morning adventure, photographer P. Chris Christofferson. She brought along her own camera equipment, mosquito repellent, several bottles of water and a picnic lunch. She also gifted me with a nifty fluorescent orange vest. While it Caption 46
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wasn’t hunting season, we didn’t want to be mistaken for wild boars by anyone else we might come across while trekking through the Hancock County wetlands. The two of us would be stalking birds, armed with cameras rather than guns. As another safety precaution, we’d also told our husbands where we were going, so in case we went missing for a few days, they might come and look for us. We were headed to Napoleon (or Napoleonville, as it’s called on the Mississippi Gulf Coast Birding Trail map), the site of a centuries-old historic community on the east bank of the Pearl River. Its residents were resettled when Stennis Space Center was constructed in the 1960s, so now it’s officially “extinct.” But 14,000 years or so before this place was named after a French emperor, Native American civilizations made this magical land their home, hunting camels and tigers and mastadons. Later cultures built earthworks and mounds that have survived thousands of years.
The incredible pine forests that sheltered eons of animals and humans — ones that must have rivaled the West Coast redwoods — did not survive. They were completely razed by shortsighted lumber barons in the late 1800s and early 1900s. “Completely” is not hyperbole in this case. To my knowledge, there’s not a stand of them remaining on the entire Mississippi Coast. Yet the landscape near the Pearl still oozes with a primordial atmosphere. One wouldn’t be awfully surprised if a bison came lumbering through the underbrush. Chris and I were using the new Mississippi Coast birding trail online guide. The Napoleonville site is one of the places recommended for year-round observation of several “sought after species.” The sighting of one of these birds scores major points in the serious bird-watching world. Both Chris and I are novice birdwatchers, so approached the morning’s expedition with an open mind. Good thing. While we didn’t succeed in getting any spectacular photos of birds, we both reveled in having a good excuse to go tromping around in the woods, immersing ourselves in the natural world and for that morning at least, becoming just two more creatures in a forest swarming with life. The stress of our everyday lives melted away. We found ourselves in a different world, one where deadlines and obligations became meaningless. Off of a shell road, the old Napoleon Cemetery is a picturesque spot with oaks, Spanish moss and worn tombstones — and some new ones, too. The cemetery road is just a short stub, so we followed it back out and turned toward the Pearl River boat launch. We passed several small ponds marked with bird signage. They’re evidently related to abandoned gravel pits hidden by the woods. There’s a well-maintained fishing pier on the banks of the Pearl and a boat launch that’s popular with local fishermen. After exploring the area and taking several photographs, we left the car in the shelled lot and headed back up the road. Just a stone’s throw away, between the river and the ponds, is one of the most picture perfect swamps we’d ever seen. It hummed with sound and drew us back irresistibly. Since the bog is right by the side of the unpaved road, it’s easy to observe without wading in. Cypress rise up on their knees from the surface of water that’s not moving, but is certainly not stagnant — it’s rippling with life that’s invisible to our eyes. The symphony of sounds generated from this small patch of swamp silences our conversation. Nothing we could say to each other is as fascinating as the calls and cries emerging from the marsh. Our bird-photography score for the day may have been exceedingly low, yet we both reveled in the joy of spotting a prothonotary warbler. Although I recognized it from photographs, it’s the first live one I’ve ever seen. At once, I understand the thrill of bird-watching. Before this trip, I would have rated the excitement of the hobby as being slightly above the level of glacier racing. The yellow bird flitted from limb to limb before us and refused to pose for our cameras, but that didn’t dampen our joy. However, the jungle-like flora of the area did model for our cameras. Chris ended up snagging the Awesome Shot of the Day, capturing the image of a bee gathering the nectar of a white bloom. I can identify neither the plant nor the insect. It doesn’t seem to matter. Our morning ends when I am impaled in the thumb by a rusty fishhook while pushing myself up from the bank of a pond. Leaving near noon, we were still besotted by the swamp experience. On the way home, we detour and sample the Possum Walk Heritage Trail in Logtown and the Ansley birding site, scouting them out for future expeditions.
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Here’s a quick run-down on what to expect at Napoleon if you’d like to take your own birding expedition. Head north on Mississippi 607, past the 1-10 Exit 2 interchange, toward the Stennis Space Center complex gate. You’ll see a brown sign pointing to the Napoleon turnoff; turn left there. Eventually, you’ll come to sign pointing to another turn-off to your right, onto a gravel/dirt road.
TIPS FOR BEGINNING BIRD-WATCHERS Use 8x binoculars instead of the 10x ones. Mozart Mark Dedeaux, the education coordinatorfor the Pascagoula River Audubon Center, says that too much magnification can actually make it more difficult to sight birds. Look for movement before raising your binoculars, then bring them up and zero in. According to wildlife photographer P. Chris Christofferson, mornings and evenings are the best times to spot birds. Birds tend to feed more in mornings and afternoons, but shes points out another bonus: the light at those times of day is “spectacular.” 47
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Frequent flushed face may be rosacea By Maria A. Barberee
Do you have constant facial redness or flushing? Does your face tend to turn red when you are more stressed, eat spicy foods, drink alcohol or red wine? Do you have broken capillaries or patches of tiny redness with small pimples? You most probably have sensitive skin and/or rosacea. Just so you know, you are not alone. According to the International Rosacea Foundation, approximately 100 million of the 7 billion people on earth have rosacea symptoms. Rosacea and sensitive skin conditions tend to run in fair skinned individuals or other ethnic groups with lighter toned skin. However, non-Caucasian individuals with these symptoms appear to be on the rise. Women tend to get rosacea and sensitive skin issues on the cheeks and chin areas of the face. Men on the other hand, tend to get rosacea on the nose. Rosacea and sensitive skin are very moody. Lack of sleep, stress, diet, anxiety, hormonal fluctuations seem to cause what is known as a vasodilation of the facial skin (flushing), which is called “rosacea redness.” This condition oftentimes cannot be cured; however there is hope — it can be controlled with proper anti-inflammatory, calming skin treatments and a more alkaline-based diet. With rosacea, tiny blood vessels near the surface of the skin become inflamed or dilated. This inflammation is not acne. Blackheads and whiteheads can be present. Doctors try to label the two skin disorders together as acne rosacea. This may be a surprise, but according to the Academy of Dermatology report, mounting evidence shows that rosacea may be related to “H-pylori,” the nasty bug that causes ulcers. According to these studies, patients who were treated with bismuth subcitrate plus an antibiotic saw their Rosacea appear to clear up almost immediately. This may sound creepy: Some doctors and researchers agree that one of the causes of rosacea can be a mite that feels comfortable in our beds — the demodex mite! These skin mites live on our skin and hair, and the dead skin cells we shed are food for those mites. According to rosacea research teams at John Hopkins MD, the cause of rosacea is an immune system disorder. The cause continues to be a hotly debated topic. The overall question: “If they can’t understand the cause, then how can we effectively treat rosacea?” The stated diagnosis is
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both intrinsic and extrinsic, meaning inside and outside your body. The rosacea patient can eliminate the cause of rosacea by learning to maintain their “acidic” levels and to remedy their food, drinks and medications for healthier skin, body organs and better mental skills. All seem to work in cohesion when a diet is more alkaline based as opposed to acidic; eating more greens, vegetables, and non-acidic fruits as opposed to acidic foods, soft drinks, etc. An effective rosacea treatment begins with a visit to your dermatologist or naturopathic doctor for proper diagnosis. Estheticians can work in conjunction with your doctor in treating the skin for rosacea, setting the client up on a strict skin regimen to help improve the skins appearance; the stratum corneum barrier, the outermost layer of the epidermis, by using soothing, cooling and healing treatments. They can also help to educate you with material on diet and products designed for your skin condition. These treatments will help improve your appearance that will make you look and feel better, not to mention boost your self esteem!
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Memory loss, senility or overload? By Myrna Beth Haskell Did you ever walk into a room and forget why you were headed in that direction? This sound familiar to you? How about words? Are you running into trouble lately trying to formulate them in your mouth? The other day, I asked my husband to bring me — I pointed — “that thing.” “What thing?” he asked. “You know, that thing. That THING from the cabinet!” I shouted back, exasperated. I was shouting because I couldn’t remember the thing’s name. Back in the day, I didn’t have trouble formulating words in my mouth. I also knew where I was going, especially once I got there. Short term memory loss is not uncommon in middle-age for a variety of reasons, so women need to get a handle on it. Many women fear that their memory lapses could be the early stages of Alzheimer’s disease. Understanding why we begin to lose our memory skills is the first step toward learning to compensate for our aging brains. Some studies have concluded that menopausal memory loss is due to fluctuating levels of estrogen. Others point to the symptoms of oncoming menopause — lack of sleep or anxiety — which in themselves can cause memory problems. Sandra Bond Chapman, Ph.D., founder and chief director of the Center for BrainHealth at the University of Texas at Dallas and author of “Make Your Brain Smarter: Increase Your Brain’s Creativity, Energy and Focus” (Free Press, 2013), explains, “Science shows that all of us commonly experience cognitive decline as we age. Women of all ages,
but especially during menopausal/perimenopausal stages, should know that memory is a very complex system and influenced by many factors, such as insufficient sleep, stress, depressed mood, information overload, and chronic multitasking, to mention a few.” Fortunately, there are ways to help your brain function at a more optimal level. Some things Chapman suggest include “innovative and inspired thinking” as well as exercise, a healthy diet, adequate rest, and meaningful friendships to keep the mind and body functioning well. Women should know when it’s necessary to seek help from a professional. Forgetting where you put your keys isn’t uncommon. However, memory problems that leave you confused or completely disoriented can be a sign of a more serious condition. “When forgetting regularly interferes with your performance, it may be a sign that something more concerning than benign memory glitches are taking over. Pay attention to signs of cognitive decline, such as the ability to make decisions,” Chapman clarifies. The good news: Chapman describes, “In absence of disease, declining memory is one of the easiest cognitive losses to compensate for. One sure-fire way to compensate for forgetfulness is to write down what you are trying to remember. You over-tax your cognitive resources by trying to retain what you want to remember in your mind.” Studies also show that many post-menopausal women find that their memory returns to normal. Haskell is an author, columnist and speaker. Reach her at myrnahaskell@hvc.rr.com.
Great news: Biloxi Regional Medical Center is now Merit Health Biloxi.
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Get rid of those lower eyelid bags By Dr. Eric J. Wyble Treatment for baggy lower eyelids and discoloration can involve several factors. There are three fat pads in the lower eyelid that increasingly protrude as we age. They become especially noticeable in the late 30s and early 40s. If there is a genetic factor, they can show up much earlier in life. If severe enough, they will need surgery to trim the excess fat that is protruding. There is no reliable nonsurgical procedure to remove the fat. Commonly seen with baggy eyelids is a tear trough that presents as a diagonal groove separating the lower eyelid from the upper cheek. Usually the surgery blephalplasty will remove the protruding fat pads and tightening the skin will improve the tear trough. However, the grooves may need to be filled with a injectable filler to fill the trough. Commonly used fillers include Radiesse and early FDA approved Voluma, a Juvederm product, to add volume to the mid-face and cheekbones. Both Radiesse and Voluma work well to treat the tear trough area. Fat injections, in the appropriate patient, can be used for a more lasting effect. For discolorazation, many of the high-grade medical products such as Zo skin care, make specific products to help lighten the pigment. In certain individuals, fillers used in the same area also can
diminish the dark circles. Fine lines in the lower eyelid represent intrinsic loss of collagen and elastin of the skin from aging genetics and sun damage. These fine lines respond to topical medical grade skin-care products, and if severe, laser Dr. Eric J. Wyble resurfacing such as the Fraxel laser can help reverse. To find the best treatment for you and options available, contact your plastic surgeon’s office. Dr. Wyble has been in practice on the Mississippi Gulf Coast for 23 years and is Board Certified in plastic surgery.
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Sign up for Adopt-A-Grandparent visit on Sept. 12 The second annual communitywide Adopt-A-Grandparent Day is scheduled for Sept. 12, the day before the national holiday bearing the same name. Volunteers are needed to visit the elderly in South Mississippi nursing homes and senior living facilities. The mission of this special day is to connect the generations and create meaningful, one-on-one relationships with seniors in the community. “Many seniors, particularly those in nursing homes, feel lonely and isolated,” says Lee Rogers, the event organizer. Rogers and his wife, Kathy, operate two Gulfport businesses, Rogers Insurance and Marston Rogers Group. The National Center for Health Statistics says 50 percent of nursing home residents have no close relatives and 46 percent have no living children. “There is a real need here to help improve quality of life,” Rogers says. “Our elders have made many sacrifices for their children, employers and community, and they should be honored for that. We want them to know how special they are to us and we want them to know they are not alone.” Last year, 326 volunteers participated and the goal this year is to increase to 500 volunteers. “We witnessed exactly what we hoped would happen — people were asking if they could visit again,” Rogers says. “We hope that the volunteers from last year are able to join us again and continue to build on those relationships they started.” Adopt-A-Grandparent Day volunteers may sign up at www. marstonrogers.com. For more information, call Kate Lawler at (228) 832-9313.
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FAITH
Release forgiveness and free yourself By Randolf Robbins
I never really remember my dad being at home. It seems that, by the time I came along, he and mom were already having a troubled marriage. I seem to remember Mom finding a note on her dresser one day — I think it was note from Dad — basically saying he was leaving. Dad stayed in the small town, got remarried within a few weeks of the divorce. I remember him coming to visit in front of the house. I would sit in the car with him for a while and visit. These were always good, pleasant visits, as far as I remember. I remember us kissing goodbye at the end of our visits. As I grew into my mid-teen years, I would spend the night with Dad and his family. By that time, I had not only stepsiblings, but also some half-siblings as well. We were close and in good relationship, all the family and me. My oldest stepbrother in the family and I became close, hang-out-together friends. He and my mom actually became very close. He sent her Mother’s Day cards as long as she lived. As Dad got older, had a stroke and started declining in health, we remained close. I was a Christian by then, and had a richer view of it all. I decided one day to have a talk with him about some things. I went to his home. He was there alone. We talked, had a good visit and I told him there was something I wanted to say to Him. I don’t remember the exact words … “Dad, I’ve been thinking … I just want you to know I love you very much. I’m proud that you are my dad, and I’m proud to be your son. I know that things did not go well for you and Mom, and it must have been hard for both of you. I just want you to know I love you and I forgive you for any way that you hurt Mom and our family. I’m so glad that you are a Christian and that you believe in Jesus Christ. I’m glad you’ve got a good family who loves you very much, and I’m so thankful to be able to spend time with you like this. “I also want to say that I’m sorry for any way that I’ve ever hurt you or let you down and want to ask, “Will you forgive me?” I don’t really
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remember his words, but I already knew that I was loved, forgiven. It was another good visit with Dad. You might not understand why I felt the need to tell Dad that I forgave him and certainly not why I asked him to forgive me. Unforgiveness is a self-imposed trap. It reminds me of a story I heard about natives in the jungle who would hunt and trap monkeys in a very effective manner. The natives would secure a container so it could not be dragged away. The container would have a small opening in the top. They would place bananas in the container. Monkeys would approach the container and reach in to get the bananas. Their hand with the banana would be too large to get back out of the container. The monkeys would not release the bananas in order to get their hand free. The hunters would simply walk up to the monkeys and capture them. Forgiveness is very central and vitally important to God. It is so important that Jesus said that if we do not forgive others, he will not forgive us. Wow! How do we forgive? The same way that God forgives us. We forgive because we are forgiven; we forgive because what is owed us cannot be compared to what we owed God — or to what our offender owes God. We release our offender and the offense, not scot-free, as we might fear. Forgiveness is from the heart. It’s releasing your offender and the offense into the justice, into the mercy of God. It’s because we’ve been loved and forgiven so much. It’s because we trust. Release it, and let it go.
The value of ‘little things’ By Tammy Turnage
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right red rose bushes perfectly frame the walkway to the front door of our home, yet these pretty roses and I have had our share of confrontations. Often, I just can’t seem to avoid their sharp points. Yet, when their beautiful blooms are sitting in a little vase on my kitchen table, it seems to be worth the attention, time, and yes, occasional mishaps it takes to keep their branches neatly pruned. One early morning, our humid South Mississippi temperature was surprisingly a few degrees cooler than usual, so I decided to do a little “early morning” yard work. I tidied up the small flowerbed of bright yellow marigolds along my back patio. Then, after trimming a few small shrubs that boarder the front of our home, I headed back over to the rose bushes. And, as predicted, the one prickly thorn that I thought I had missed didn’t miss me! I look down at my punctured thumb and observed the result of a “less than perfect” pruning experience of being in to big of a hurry, and consequently not quite careful enough. Bringing a few roses through the front door of our home, I placed them in a small glass vase in my kitchen and headed down the hall. So many little things to do: Fold another load of laundry, clean up the breakfast dishes, straighten up the kitchen, check the items needed in the pantry, make out a weekly menu, and work on a grocery list for the upcoming week. Yes, it seemed like an ordinary morning full of all the “little things” it takes to keep our home and family running smoothly. But, when we are not caring for the “little things” in our daily lives — the mundane chores, laundry, gardening, and cooking — it can quickly add up to a family that feels a little less cared for, and possibly a little neglected, too. How easily it can happen! I heard a funny story years ago of a man who came home to a really messy house. The kitchen was a disaster, with a sink overflowing with dirty dishes, the unfolded laundry was all over the couch, beds were unmade, toys were all over the floor, it was quite a mess. When he asked his wife “What happened?” She said, “Honey, you know all those little ‘seemingly insignificant’ things I do every day?” He said, “Yes, I think so.” She replied, “Well, today I didn’t do them.” Yes, the little things we do everyday really DO matter! And it’s in taking care of our family where everything begins. It’s definitely important to contribute to the needs in our community, churches, extended family and friends lives. But, if we are meeting all those needs at the expense of caring for our own immediate family, then often
what we need to do is to stop and reassess our priorities. I know I’ve had to do this many times. I remember years ago resigning from being a member of a wonderful women’s club when my children were little. One that I really enjoyed. But I did, because it was taking more of my time than I really could give — precious time away from my sweet family. How did I know? Because the “little things” in my house began to be neglected. The laundry, ironing, yard, home-cooked meals, and the many “little things” that made our house more of a home. Although, to others it may not seem to matter that much, to my precious family it mattered greatly. You see, it’s in the small, seemingly little insignificant details of our daily lives where we show our love and attention to our families the most. After I finished the yard work and gardening, I found a few summer decorations and began to decorate my kitchen table. (It’s amazing what you can do with a few items found around your house and in your yard! And it saves money too!) Placing a large clear jar full on lemons on my table, I added a few yellow summer flowers and twigs for the centerpiece. After adding colorful summer floral napkins, with napkin rings of different flowers on each place setting, our “summer-themed” table was finally complete. Then, I decorated the front and back doors with a few handmade wreaths. While I was outside, I also decided to cut a few roses and place them in a small clear vase by my daughter’s chair in her bedroom, adding a tiny little encouraging note written on a index card and colored with a few markers. I came inside and folded a load of clothes, and instead of wishing I could just be finished with the laundry, took extra care to stop to give a prayer of thankfulness to God for each member of my family. I also tucked a little note by my husband’s nightstand, took a quick meal to my mother nearby, and sent my oldest daughter a text message to just say how proud we were of her. Just little things. Lots of little things that mothers do every day. But, this afternoon I wanted my family to feel happy when they walked through the doors of our home that evening. And the little homemade table decorations? I’m not sure they would grace the pages of any home- decor magazine, but they were for my family — and that’s all that mattered. So that evening when my husband walked through the kitchen door, he quickly looked around and said, “The house looks amazing!” I smiled, and quietly thought about how grateful I was for the sweet lesson I learned that day — and one I hope to always remember: “The ‘little things’ we do for our families really do make a difference”
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Kelly Spinner desired to create a home her family and friends could enjoy when she and her husband, Ivan, built their house in Biloxi, six years ago. The Goose Point house features inviting spaces decorated with a contemporary flair — and plenty of ways to be entertained. “Entertaining, having our family and friends over, is one of our greatest joys,” she says. Spinner tapped a number of suppliers to achieve the look she wanted. “Villa Vici in New Orleans is where I purchased several pieces for our White Room,” she says.
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ABOUT THE SPINNERS Kelly was born and raised here in D’Iberville. She moved to South Florida after college, where she met her husband, Ivan, who was from Boca Raton. They have three children: Logan, 14; Austin 13; and Bella, 6. They moved to Mississippi in 2009 to be closer to Kelly’s family and raise their children “with traditional Southern morals and values,” Kelly says. “We always came to Mississippi for holidays and summers, and Ivan fell in love with the people.”
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Bob McVadon built the main house, and later the Spinners acquired the lot next next door. They hired Garlon Homes to build an addition featuring a garage, office, the “White Room,” a pavilion, a new laundry room and turf field last year. “Don Parker was the architect that helped us bring our vision to life,” Spinner says. Christian Preus, landscape architect, made the two properties blend as one. Mercier’s Cabinetry provided the cabinetry. With so much to like in her home, what is her favorite area? “We built three fabulous fire pits under our outdoor pavilion that overlook the Back Bay. They are draped in a seamless piece of granite, which makes it look like one long piece. The turf field is probably the most favorite. The kids can play football, soccer, we have cross-fit training sessions once or twice a week with several people from Iron Works Gym. We have movie night, where we blow up a huge screen and furniture,” Spinner says. “We wanted to create a space for our children and their friends, and our family and friends.”
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Summer outdoor party By John Folding
This is No. 1 on the list of things to prepare for if you plan an outdoor event. If your event is a small family-and-friends affair, then this is not as big a concern because you can move inside pretty quickly. However, if you are planning an event for more people than can sit at your dining-room table, you should plan on having a tent as a backup.
on making the environment fun and festive (more on that later). But even potlucks can be a disaster without a little advance planning. You don’t want everyone bringing their favorite fried chicken and no one bringing the baked beans! The best way to manage this is to gently assign your guests, at the least a category (side, bread, dip, dessert), or at the most a specific dish (“Joan, you make such a great seven-layer salad, would you mind making that as you contribution?”). If you want a fancy al fresco dining experience (floor length linen, crystal, china, etc.), consider a cool menu or foods that taste great even at room temperature. One of my favorites is salade nicoise with potatoes, capers and fresh tuna. You also can rely on your favorite caterer or restaurant to provide a great meal for you from barbecue to Mexican and everything in between.
ENTERTAINMENT. HOUSE SOUND OR LIVE MUSIC?
THEMES. WHAT ABOUT THESE IDEAS?
Not being a huge fan of the great outdoors, what jumps to my mind immediately when thinking about a perfect summer outdoor party is “don’t do it” or “hire someone to do it for you.” With our steamy summers and unpredictable weather, a summer outdoor party is not really advisable. But, if you insist, here is how to do it perfectly (but really, plan your outdoor events in March or October — the two perfect months for an outdoor event on the Coast).
IT WILL RAIN. WHAT IS YOUR BACKUP PLAN?
Music makes any party much more lively. Plus, if you are theming your event, then you can plan a play list that goes with it. For instance, zydeco for a crawfish boil or light classical for a garden party. If you are planning to hire someone to play, be sure to include this item in your budget. Plan on at least $500 for a two-person group and up to $2,000 for larger or more popular groups.
GUEST COMFORT #1. MOSQUITOES, GNATS AND FIRE ANTS! OH, MY!
Be sure to have a few cans of insect repellant at the ready. While there are many other products claiming to control flying/biting bugs, repellant applied directly to your skin/clothing is the best option. If you are hosting an event under a tent, be sure to scout the area for fire ant hills. During the rainy season, these pests can build nests within hours. Spread poison at least 24 hours before the party. After the party is over, be careful when removing anything that has lain directly on the ground (boxes, dance floor). Fire ants, in particular, can quickly move in under a flat surface. You don’t want to see them angry!
GUEST COMFORT #2. KEEPING IT COOL.
Plenty of cold water and fans are the name of the game when it comes to outdoor parties. Cold beer and other alcoholic beverages are good, too, but the best way to stay hydrated is to drink plenty of water, so have lots on hand. Tent fans, which are available for rent, are usually about 10 to 12 inches in diameter and attach directly to the tent poles. They are usually white and blend into the tent ceiling so they aren’t too ugly. However, if décor isn’t a concern, large air movers (4 to 5 feet in diameter) are a great way to keep things cool. Generally the ones made for party rental companies aren’t as loaded as the industrial ones.
MENU. PERFECTING THE FOOD.
Maybe this should be closer to the top of the list because the food is usually one of things most people remember about a really great party. I have always loved a potluck. This is a great outdoor party idea for lots of reasons, but the main one is the host has plenty of time to spend
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Themes with a food basis are usually the easiest and most fun to plan. Cinco de Mayo, Cajun seafood boil, Chinese new year are all fun ways to showcase food and fun decorations. A little more complicated, but equally as fun, might be doing something like a contest (pie or best fried chicken). A summer fair theme is a good way to get those nostalgic favorites like funnel cakes, fried corn, cotton candy and turkey legs. Throw a corn hole tournament in for kicks, and you’ve got the makings for a perfect outdoor party! Food trucks are becoming more popular too and are always a great interactive element to a party. How fun would it be to have the ice cream man show up just in time for dessert! Well, I guess outdoor parties are way more fun now that I really think about it! Sangria, anyone?
PACK A PICNIC There’s something so romantic about a picnic basket. It must be because they are limited in capacity; they are perfect vehicles for a meal made for two. Jumping in the car with your sweetheart and driving to a shady spot for the afternoon of lazy relaxation is something that should be required for all couples every once in a while. So make a date and consider bringing these basics in addition to what you plan to eat: • An old blanket to spread on the ground. • A small trash bag. • Sunscreen. • Pack your meal in disposable containers so there is less to clean up when you get home. • Small battery-powered radio so you can set the mood. • Umbrella (just in case).
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Waveland tiny house has big advantages
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lthough they call it a tiny house, its visual impact is enormous. Any passer-by can see that this 576-square-foot home is shining with star power. Rising from pilings and tucked into the boughs of a Live oak tree, the sleek new house looks like it could be featured in some upscale architectural magazine. Or on a hit television show. One like “Tiny House Nation.” That impression would be right on target. In April, a one-hour episode of “Tiny House Nation” featured the construction of this very special home (Scan the QR code to watch it right now!).
WATCH TV EPISODE The episode and the house at 224 Terrace Ave. in Waveland made a splash, locally and nationally. It may even have kicked off a new concept for redeveloping Waveland. It all started with Pye Parson, a landscape designer who lived in Waveland pre-Katrina. She owned the popular Sol Gardens on Main Street in Old Town Bay St. Louis. Like thousands of Coast residents, Pye and her family evacuated from their Waveland home in 2005, believing they’d be returning in a few days. After the storm, nothing but a set of brick steps remained. The family relocated to Birmingham for son Quen’s schooling. He was 5 at the time. Although, they struggled together through the abrupt adjustment, the couple’s marriage ended eventually, along with Pye’s hopes of living on the Mississippi Coast. Yet, she found herself unable to completely relinquish the Waveland dream even though she remarried in recent years and built a busy career as a real-estate broker. Realizing the costs of rebuilding on the Coast had risen because of fortification techniques and elevation requirements, she began to research tiny house living. The trend to build smaller has been blossoming on the international scene for decades and has recently caught fire in the U.S. The environmental impact of living small appealed to Pye, as did the lower rebuilding costs. One evening, while doing more tiny house research online, Pye ran across a call for people wanting to build a small house as part of 70
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a major network TV show. Pye wrote a letter explaining her situation and two days later, heard back from New York. Thus began a six-week series of interviews during the screening process. Finally, the producers selected Pye, her husband Roald and son Quen, to be featured in a firstseason episode. Although Pye had found a Waveland builder she wanted to work with, she didn’t have plans. Her sister’s husband, Birmingham architect Bruce Lanier worked overtime at his office and gifted Pye with a set of plans, managing to tick off everything on her “must-have” list: Lots of light, a large bathroom area, a space for Quen and his computer set up. The entire structure would be built to satisfy fortified coastal building codes. During the following weeks, Pye and her family became used to being interviewed and having camera crews filming every reaction and casual comment — both in their Birmingham home and at the site of the Waveland build. Pye and the producers spent the next year wrestling with roadblocks like zoning, variances and builders who were reluctant to vary from the norm. The house was smaller than regulations — ones put in place in a different era when size equated with quality — allowed. Because of the delays, the house ended up being featured in season three instead of season one. But finally, in January, Pye and her family were introduced to their
new Waveland home. The cameras were running the first time they entered the finished house and captured the family’s excitement and awe. “When we walked into the house, we hadn’t seen the interior before,” Pye says. “We were totally surprised. The show really blew it out of the water with the efficient use of space. “Plus, I love the way the elements of tile, wood, and metal all work together. “ The show’s producers modified the original plan somewhat to meet their own criteria, but Lanier’s sophisticated beach style comes through loud and clear. Fourteen-foot ceilings in the main living and bedroom area make the 576 square foot house sing with spaciousness and light. Pye says that her favorite part of the new house is the master bedroom. “I’m up in the tree with the birds,” she says. “And at sunset, when the light comes in from the west, it’s amazing.” The bathroom runs a close second. Pye had wanted a spa-like feel and clever use of the square footage gave her just that. “You give up a lot of space and privacy in a tiny house,” she says. “So you need to splurge elsewhere. Once you close the door to the bathroom, you’re in your own world, with a big tiled shower. It’s amazing.” The kitchen, according to Pye, is a model of efficiency and a cinch to clean — from top to bottom, she can have it sparkling in just 20 minutes. The loft area includes a small office space for Pye and Quen’s living area with a custom-built computer desk. The custom feature that’s a design and efficiency hit are the “barn doors,” that separate the living area from the master bedroom. The
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massive doors are hung from the top and slide easily into place on tracks. One of the doors contains a fold-down table, while the other serves as storage for two bench-style seats. When the family’s hosting a dinner party, the living area transforms instantly into a dining room. Two distinct outdoor living areas lay claim to space beneath the house and add hundreds of square feet to the home. “In the beginning, one of our hardest decisions was where to eat our meals,” Pye says. “We have several outdoor spaces that are really unique. The balcony right off the kitchen has become our favorite place for breakfast, while we tend to have most of our dinners in the living room beneath the house. Then we’ll enjoy a drink around the fire pit in the evening.” Although the family hasn’t been able to leave Birmingham as quickly as they’d planned because of jobs and school for Quen, they’re hoping to move down to the Coast full time as soon as practical. In the meantime, they’re spending as much time in the house as possible. Has the family found disadvantages in living small? Turns out the main one is acoustical. Since the house is so small, Pye and Roald can sometimes hear night-owl Quen when he’s up late working on his computer. They’ve solved the problem by creating sound panels that Quen can easily take up and put down. “I’m excited to be back. The people are wonderful, the landscape is beautiful and Waveland is in the position of being a really cool, eco-friendly place. Our asset is this incredible natural world. You don’t have to invest any money. The beauty’s already here. You just have to promote it.”
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Fabric fab! PLAY WITH FABRICS TO CHANGE YOUR LOOK By Dane Hewes Change your home décor by changing things up! Fabrics is a good place to start. Odd numbers of fabrics tend to look best. You may have up to five different fabrics in a room. Use varying scales of patterns so the prints don’t compete with each other.
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As a rule, large patterns work best on larger pieces and small prints on smaller pieces. Large patterns look great on window treatments and area rugs and small to medium patterns on furniture and accent pieces. Choose a large pattern that incorporates all of your colors. A large pattern can be your anchor in a space with several colors. It should be the biggest and boldest to incorporate all of your colors in your room. From there, pick a medium sized pattern (about half the size of your large pattern) that uses some of your colors. The small pattern may have only two or three of your colors.
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If you choose a single color, play with different shades of the color. As long as you vary the pattern scale, you can create a very unique look with mixed patterns.
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GROUPING
Group patterns with similar styles. Traditional patterns sometimes mix easier with traditional patterns. This doesn’t mean you can’t mix patterns across style. An unexpected print gives a “pop” to the room.
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Use consistent hues. Within your color palette, use colors with consistent intensities. For example, if your palette is pastel, it is best not to mix in a bold jewel tone.
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SOFAS TRENDING TOWARD COMFORT AND HIGH STYLE By Billie Celine Comeaux What’s new in sofas? Color, texture, comfort and an ocean of style to fit your décor! The sofa may be the largest investment you make in choosing furniture for your living room, so it’s important to plan ahead and consider a number of factors.
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Shoppers are not just walking into a showroom and choosing what’s on the floor these days. They want the option to choose fabric, color and style for this valuable centerpiece of their living space. Modern furniture design for living and great rooms is all about comfort, multifunctionality and clean lines. Fine linen- upholstered couches with clean modern lines and classic throwback looks are both trendy now. And sectionals are still high on the list of family choices. The soft back, loosely covered, extremely comfortable sofa is back, as are elegant vintage-looking designs with wooden trim and curvy legs.
COLOR
Neutral colors — greys, beige and tans — help create the new sophisticated look of living rooms. These neutrals also help ground all the beautiful color that has come to rugs, vases, etc. That’s not to say that brightly hued sofas are out. Bright colors also reign in living room upholstery. Reds, teals, purples, golds and navy are all popular choices. Decorating with a neutral palette and layering with bold and metallic fabrics create a high fashion look.
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How to select a Realtor By Lynn Wade Purchasing or selling real estate is most likely the largest financial transaction in most people’s lifetime. In hiring a real-estate agent, there are a few suggestions that are more important than any others to consider in making the experience successful for all parties involved.
FIND A REALTOR
First and foremost, it is important to select a Realtor, not just a licensed real estate agent. Realtors are members of the National Association of Realtors and pledge to follow a code of ethics that establishes levels of conduct that are higher than ordinary business practices or those required by law.
SEEK FULL-TIME REPRESENTATIVE
Secondly, find a Realtor who is full time in the business. A full-time agent is more equipped with the knowledge to better service clients, whether in purchasing or selling properties. There also will be a better sense of dedication and accountability from a Realtor who has chosen to make real estate a career.
CHECK FOR EXPERIENCE
Also, choose a Realtor who has proven knowledge and expertise. Your Realtor should be knowledgeable about the local market, pricing, availability and lending. Marketing, negotiating and general loan regulations are just a few aspects of purchasing and selling that can vary dramatically between price ranges and locations. The Realtor can make the experience more enjoyable and ensure it runs smoothly.
REPUTATION IS IMPORTANT
Lastly, choose a company with a good reputation. A strong name and/ or reputation can go a long way in gaining favor in the local market. The company’s strength in leadership, integrity, and even longevity are important considerations in choosing someone to help you pursue your real estate dream.
GET REFERRALS
Be sure to ask friends and family members for referrals of Realtors they would recommend and interview the potential Realtor to ensure you are comfortable with his or her approach to buying and selling real estate. Wade, GRI, CRL, ABR, is a preview specialist and broker associate with Coldwell Banker Alfonso. Reach her at (228) 297-9911.
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Life’s lagniappes By John Folding
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la•gniappe, lan’yap, ’lan’yap A small gift given with a purchase to a customer, by way of compliment or for good measure; bonus. (Dictionary.com) We are always looking for ways to make our lives a little easier. That’s why “how-to” books and “life-hack” videos are so popular. They lure you in with provocative captions and titles. One of my favorites is the CrazyRussianHacker. He has produced a ton of funny ways to do ordinary tasks — like peeling potatoes with a paint stirring attachment on a drill or the fastest way to peel a dozen eggs (just shake them around in the pan). His popularity along with more classic helpful hinters like Heloise, is the inspiration for this column. Each issue, I’ll give a few hints on how to make life a little easier; call it a “lagniappe.”
LAGNIAPPE #1: KNIFE SAFETY You know the usual tips like never put your knife in sink full of soapy water. For all of us who have been cut by finding that little surprise, it’s a no-brainer. But here are some other things to help you be safe and keep your knives sharp. • Wash your knives by hand. Never put them in the dishwasher and if by chance you do put them in the dishwasher, lay them flat on the upper rack. Never put them point up in the silverware holder. • Apparently those nifty sheaths you can buy for your knives are a nono. Sliding them in and out of the sheath dulls the blade. The best way to store your knives is by hanging them from a magnetic strip. Throwing them in a drawer with the rest of your utensils dulls the blades as well. • A dull knife is a safety hazard. You should be able to effortlessly slice through anything you are cutting. If you can’t, then hone your blade on a steel until it cuts smoothly. If you realize that honing is cutting it (sorry, but I had to), then that means your knives need to be sharpened. Unfortunately, I couldn’t find any professional knife sharpeners in the area. However, most people who sharpen scissors for hairstylists also can sharpen knives. They come to town and do a rotation at the salons, so ask your stylist when her scissors are scheduled to be sharpened and see if you can pile on.
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LAGNIAPPE #2: CLEANING YOUR EYEGLASSES Put a 10-to-1 solution of rubbing alcohol and water in a small spray bottle and keep a small piece of an old white 100 percent cotton T-shirt attached to it with a rubber band. The solution has just enough alcohol to clean facial oils and makeup from the lens and frames without being too harsh. Once a day will keep you seeing clearly.
LAGNIAPPE #3: HAVE YOU TRIED BRUSSELS SPROUTS LATELY? Chock-full of vitamins C, K and the B (plus a component being studied as a cancer preventative), these yummy little nuggets are crazy good and super easy to prepare. Lately, they have been popping up sliced with kale, cabbage and broccoli as a slaw. What’s not to like about that? Did you know they grow on a stalk? This might help your kids think they are cool. Every once in a while you can find a stalk at the grocery store. www.gcwmultimedia.com
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Drama Queens Foxgloves make a dramatic impact By Gary R. Bachman
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oxglove can create a dramatic effect with its tall spires of flowers but is an underused plant in Mississippi, especially in the Southern counties. Foxglove, known botanically as Digitalis, is a member of a somewhat curious group of plants called biennials. These plants typically take two years to complete their lifecycles. After germination, the plants only grow vegetatively (leaves, stems and roots), usually forming a low-growing rosette. During the second year, after a period of cooler weather, the plants generate tall spikes on which the flowers and seeds are produced. Most home gardeners want plants to bloom the year they are transplanted into the garden. Fortunately, foxglove varieties have been developed that will bloom from seed during the first year. Camelot foxgloves have turned out to be a good selection for our gardens and landscapes, especially in the southern half of the state. These vigorous plants produce strong branches, which are good for supporting the robust flower spikes. Camelot foxglove is a popular choice because they bloom from seed the first year. This group is also more heat tolerant. Common recommendations are for foxgloves to be transplanted to the garden during the fall season for flowering the following spring. Camelot plants can be transplanted as late as early March to still enjoy a nice flowering show well into late May through mid-June. Camelot foxgloves are available in rose, lavender, creamy white and white. Camelot’s flowers are very interesting. Typically, the bellshaped blooms of foxglove hang down, but the flowers of Camelot are displayed horizontally and allow a better appreciation of the freckled interior of the blossoms. Foxgloves are classified as flowering perennials, but I consider them to be short-lived perennials. It’s common for foxglove to become
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perennial through reseeding, though this is not a reliable occurrence in Mississippi. We should consider using them as annuals in Mississippi. Transplanting young plants in late fall will certainly reward you with spectacular flowers in the spring, as the plants develop a robust root system over the winter months. There is no need to worry about covering these hardy plants during low temperatures. Transplanting in the spring will produce nice flower spikes. The past couple of years, I’ve noticed that garden centers have been carrying larger containerized foxgloves already in bloom and ready for instant impact in gardens. Selecting the proper planting site is pretty easy, and, as with other cool-season, flowering plants, you can’t go wrong with full sun exposure. Just make sure the planting bed is well drained and has plenty of organic matter mixed in. Bachman is an associate Extension and research professor of horticulture at the Mississippi State University Coastal Research and Extension Center in Biloxi. He is also the host of the popular Southern Gardening television and radio programs. Locate Southern Gardening products online at msucares.com/news.
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Johnson reflects, conveys humanity By Scott Naugle There is a space, intellectual and personal, from where an extraordinary writer considers and ponders our existence. Courageous and eloquent, he or she brings us into a place and time we’ve often overlooked or misunderstood. Rheta Grimsley Johnson is the rare seer with a warm and knowing introspection shared within her writing. Johnson is a columnist, reporter, speaker, author and a 1991 finalist for the Pulitzer Prize for commentary. A graduate of Auburn University, in 1994 she replaced the popular and conservative columnist Lewis Grizzard at the Atlanta Journal Constitution. “It was a bit of a shock to readers, and I questioned the editor’s wisdom as to whether readers accustomed to a conservative columnist would appreciate my more liberal views,” Grimsley noted in a recent public speech. The concerns were unfounded as her column was very popular. Johnson’s biography of the Peanuts
cartoonist, “Good Grief: The Story of Charles M. Schultz,” was published in 1984. “Poor Man’s Provence: Finding Myself in Cajun Louisiana,” “Enchanted Evening Barbie and the Second Coming,” and “Hank Hung the Moon and Warmed Our Cold, Cold Hearts” all chronicle experiences in Johnson’s life as she encountered the late 20th century in the South. I did not know of Johnson nor her work until a year or so ago. She recently moved to a tree-lined and quiet street near my home in Pass Christian. A mutual friend insisted I hear her speak during a luncheon at the Pass Christian Yacht Club. It was arranged to introduce Johnson to the community. It may seem peculiar in the two items I clearly recall from that day and every time I have visited with Johnson since: the blue eyes and her clarity in speaking. To my way of thinking, one cannot write well if one cannot speak eloquently. Both acts involve language and careful thought. In individual
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What holds our interest is the writer’s enthusiasm, affection, and involvement with the subject. conversations over the past year with the novelist Richard Ford, essayist Rick Bragg, or neighbor/ award-winning author Margaret McMullan, I find my theory to remain unshaken. All speak lyrically without the appearance of hesitation and are exceptional writers. Add Johnson to this list. But now I have to explain the blue eyes and how they are incisive to Johnson’s writing. And it is not specifically the blue, I know of other exceptional writers with brown, black, or even red bloodshot eyes, but it is what is silently conveyed through the eyes. Johnson reflects and conveys humanity. It is a hack’s error to believe that the topic written about is what holds the reader’s interest. What holds our interest is the writer’s enthusiasm, affection, and involvement with the subject. Decades ago in high school, I was taught never to use “I” nor allow myself to personally be present in an essay. This suits me fine as I’m a private person anyway. But I understand now that this approach weakens my writing, another item in the long list reducing my prose to the attractiveness of watery pudding in a dirty plastic bowl. I’m absent so the reader withdraws. But not so with Johnson, her heart is inseparable from the
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situation, people, and surroundings. Describing a wedding between “two lovebirds in their sixties” in “Poor Man’s Provence,” she writes, “It’s my first traditional Cajun Wedding, and I love it … . Everyone dances with everyone else, from babies to octogenarians, no lead feet here. Even I get a dance with the groom, who makes it look easy … . There is an innocence about the whole event.” Johnson leaves any preconceptions or stereotypes at the door, becoming part of the wedding celebration, dancing and conversing with the families and friends of the bride and groom. Through a clear lens, eyes open to learning and understanding, her cerulean insight and wisdom invites the reader to jig to the same accordion music, hear the bride refer to friends as “Punkin” in the local accent, while wedded in the “forgiveness of candlelight.” In her remarks at the Pass Christian Yacht Club, Johnson also noted that a good writer “never buries his lead.” In other words, the first sentence of an article should state the purpose and instantly draw the reader to continue. Had I not buried my lead above, I would have begun by stating that one of the best living writers resides on the Mississippi Coast and the pleasurable time spent reading Johnson’s work is transformative.
Summer reads By Dr. Philip Levin
Here on the Gulf Coast, summertime means relaxing on your beach chair with a good book. Whether your taste runs to murder mysteries, drama, children’s fiction, or Katrina memoirs, these local authors offer a wide selection of fascinating reads. Check them out at your favorite local bookshop or download to your electronic reader. This Aug. 29th marks the 10th anniversary of Hurricane Katrina, the most disruptive Gulf Coast event of the 21st century. “Katrina Memories” presents the memories, stories, and poetry of 40 Katrina survivors. From Florida to New Orleans, these poignant tales bring you the terror of tragedy and the joy of the humanity of survivors. Edited by Dr. Philip Levin, this book is the seventh Gulf Coast Writers anthology, following last year’s “Mississippi Profiles” and the preceding “Mississippi Coast.” Pick up your copy at Southern Bound Books, the Biloxi Visitors Center, or other local book and tourist outlets. $17. Death after death of unrelated older people in the peaceful town of West Port, Miss., at the hand of an unknown assailant sets off a panic. Eliminating motives of money, sex, or revenge, Chief Detective Bird follows the trail of victims, noting one major recurring clue. The final explosive ending of “Yellow Ribbon Murders” points to an intriguingly unique solution. Author Selden Lambert, a rehabilitation counselor from Columbus, has been interested in crime her whole life. Her dissertation topic was a qualitative study of serial rapists. List price is $11.66 and it is available on Amazon Prime for $8.89 and Kindle for $2.99, or ask for a copy at your local Barnes & Noble. Set on the Gulf Coast and Ship Island, Fran McNabb’s “On the Crest of a Wave” tells of a young woman’s struggle to keep her family safe during the Civil War. Falling in love with Union officer Jake Warren, Camille must face hard personal values, as well as the scorn of her friends and family questioning her loyalty. Eventually she must decide if she should leave the only home she’s ever known to be with the man she loves. A finalist in the National Readers’ Choice Awards, it’s available on Amazon Kindle for $2.99 or in paperback for $9.99 www.gcwmultimedia.com
Little girls watch their mothers all of the time, and every mother has an intriguing boutique behind her closet door. Little girls of all ages will delight in Alice Rhea Mitchell’s 40-page “My Mama’s Closet.” Eighteen charming paintings vividly depict the little girl’s actions. Available at many local stores such as Miner’s Books in Ocean Springs, from Amazon.com, or from the author’s website, www. alicerheamitchell.com. $20.
Melanie Atkins’ “Sealing His Fate” brings international terror to the forefront, as heroine Miranda Gibson searches for her children after her abusive ex-husband kidnaps them, whisking them off to parts unknown. The cops won’t help, because Harper comes off as a nice family man. Miranda is forced to beg a private investigator to go after her kids. Available in both eBook and print formats, purchase your copies through Amazon.
Escape to exotic Romania in local lawyer Patti Jane Golden’s new mystery, “Secrets in the Vines.” When protagonist Jeni becomes bored with life as a diplomat’s wife, her involvement in a social club gets complicated after a member dies during a wine tasting. Author Golden drew on her own time in Bucharest to set up this tale, her observations about life as a foreigner trying to make sense of a new culture are spot-on and often funny. Blue Ink Reviews reports “It’s juicy escapism.” Purchase a copy at local bookstores or Amazon, hardcover $22.99, softcover $15.99, or eBook $5.99. 81
When a widow hires Gulf War Veteran Phil Pfeiffer to investigate the death of her husband in a Mexican boating accident, people start dying. In the style of Craig Johnson’s “Longmire,” and with the gritty realism of James Lee Burke’s memorable characters, award winning author Oliver F. Chase takes us for a ride to remote “Marsh Island,” Louisiana by way of Las Vegas, the Bahamas, and Mexico. The follow-up novel, “Blind Marsh,” concludes the Hirebomber Crime series when a lovely Las Vegas lounge singer, afraid of her ex-boyfriend, hires Phil for protection. The PI uncovers an intricate plot to steal a trillion dollar industry intertwined with the widowed husband’s disappearance. Available at Bay Books and Southern Bound; through Amazon and Smashwords as an eBook; Ingram Spark catalog as a paperback (soon Amazon); or signed and directly from the author with an email and return by postage. $14 plus $2.66 postage
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Summer-proof your makeup! By Mallory Fitzgerald
USE A LIGHTWEIGHT MOISTURIZER
You get bonus points if you can get one with an SPF built in! Moisturizing is never a step you can skip, even in the heat. It will bump up the health and elasticity of your skin, making it easier for any makeup to hold on longer. A moisturizer with a gel consistency will soak into the face instead of sitting on top of it and won’t feel greasy or lotion-like. Product recommendations: MAC Mineralize moisture gel, or Garnier Moisture Rescue Refresh Gel Cream.
PRIME!
WATERPROOF YOUR MASCARA
Need I say more? A waterproof mascara will stand up to heat, humidity, sweating, running, dancing, and a sudden coastal downpour. When removing at night, be sure to use a makeup remover with a natural oil in it to break down the mascara. Product recommendations: L’oreal Voluminous Carbon Black Waterproof mascara or Tarte Lights, Camera, Splashes Waterproof Mascara.
CREAM/GEL BLUSH
You’ve heard it enough, but a primer really does make a world of a difference. It will be that extra step you need, holding onto your foundation all day, and smoothing out texture on the face. Use a translucent, lightweight primer in the summer months to keep it light and invisible. Product recommendations: Smashbox Photofinish Primer Water, Tarte Clean Slate Powerless 12-Hr Perfecting Primer.
Many people are afraid of cream blush, believing it must feel greasy or appear shiny on the skin, but this is a big misconception! Cream blush blends onto the skin flawlessly, leaving a natural looking flush to the cheeks that dries down to a smudge proof, budge proof, soft focus finish! Apply on the apples of the cheeks with fingertips or a duo fiber face brush. Product recommendations: MAC Cosmetics Cremeblend Blush or Sonia Kashuk Creme Blush.
SILICONE-BASED FOUNDATION
LIP TINT/STAIN
A silicone-based foundation will stay on top of the skin and be more likely to hold together. It won’t seep into the pores, oxidize, or break apart into a splotchy mess. Basically, it won’t melt off. Apply with a brush or damp sponge to get an even, airbrushed finish. Product recommendations: Covergirl TruBlend Foundation or Cover FX Custom Color Drops (available at Sephora).
CREAM EYESHADOW
In the heat of summer, touching up your lip color is probably not high on your priority list. You want a lightweight, long-wear lip color that will be low maintenance and kissable. A lip tint or stain will give you all of that plus a beautiful wash of color you wont have to keep reapplying. Product recommendations: Benefit Cosmetics Benetint, Tarte LipSurgence Lip Tint and Revlon Color Stay Just Bitten Kissable Balm Stain.
Cream eyeshadow will usually have a primer built in and will move with you throughout the day without creasing. This option offers much longer wear than its powder counterpart. You can tap it on the lids with your fingertip or blend it on with a synthetic blending brush (my favorite way to apply it). It’s anti-melt and looks beautiful on the eyelids! Product recommendations: Benefit Cosmetics Creaseless Cream Shadow, Make Up For Ever Aqua Cream, Maybelline Eye Studio Color Tattoo 24Hr Eyeshadow.
FINISH
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Throw your lip color and your powder in your bag and go! With these changes to your beauty routine this summer, you can take on the heat, sun, humidity, long days, and nights out with your friends without worry. And don’t forget the sunscreen — your skin will thank you!
There are a multitude of smudge-proof, waterproof eyeliners on the market that are built to withstand tropical climates. This is a must to keep your liner in place all day without any transfer or melting. These liners usually go on creamy (yes!) and dry down to a non-sticky finish. Whether you prefer pencil eyeliner, cream or liquid, there’s something for everyone. Product recommendations: Stila Smudge Stick Waterproof Eye Liner (huge color range!), or Physician’s Formula Eye Boosting Liquid Liner
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Set your foundation by dusting a blot powder or translucent finishing powder in your T-zone with a fluffy brush. This will mattify any shine and further set your makeup with a lightweight, barely there powder. Throw it in your bag and take it with you in case of any shine reemerging throughout the day. Product recommendations: MAC Cosmetics Blot Powder, Make Up For Ever HD Microfinish Powder and Coty Airspun Loose Face Powder in Translucent.
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Fabulous, fun, flirty! By Elaine Stevens
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omen have heard it all regarding beauty and aging, from the cheapest facelift is a smile to age is just a number; don’t let it be a state of mind. Or, how about the endless advice from health gurus on age- defying diets, extreme workouts, fat-reducing pills, and wrinkle-erasing creams? In truth, life often just beats the heck out of you, and no amount of Vogue, Elle, Glamour, or even Oprah is a magical fountain of youth. What can help, however, is the genius of Island View Casino Resort’s Kathy Santiago and Alicia Ladnier and the array of talented beauty experts who united their efforts for Fabulous at 50 & Beyond, one in a series of how-to classes featured at the casino. Santiago is director of Player Relations/Business Development; Ladnier is the business development coordinator. Tips about skin care, makeup and basic wardrobe essentials were featured from professionals who generously contributed to the event, including Jerrilyn Lanier, owner of JL Image Consulting; Allison Kingston, owner of Exit 16 Boutique and Merle Norman in Diamondhead; Emma Baines, owner of Red Lily Spa in Ocean Springs; and Tanya Tancredi Hair Salon, downtown Gulfport. Participants from the how-to classes were given an opportunity to enter their names in a drawing to win a complete makeover, which included a limousine ride, private beauty and fashion consultations, and a delicious Island View lunch. Two were selected. Proud grandmother and Ocean Springs resident Carol Morancie had recently lost more than 50 pounds and was ready for a new look. Cathy Remus of Biloxi, getting ready for her 40th class reunion, wants to make a great impression on her former classmates. The makeup ideas, hairstyling and fashion changes really made a difference for Carol and Cathy, who both said the makeovers, came at just the right time in their lives. They also received a large bouquet of flowers and a complimentary manicure and pedicure at Island View’s new Blue Shell Spa. Meanwhile, a group of volunteer models took the stage modeling Exit 16 Boutique fashions, selected with the help of owner Allison Kingston. Proving it’s never too late to make some fashion changes, Yvonne Killegrew was the most senior of the group at a vibrant 79.
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Born deaf, Killegrew reads lips and uses sign language to communicate. Her runway entrance made quite a hit as she smiled and appreciated the kudos from the crowd in her stylish capris. Losing the fear of growing old and taking a chance on fashion were the final missives to the crowd of mostly women. However, the few men who attended obviously began to understand that they, too, could probably use a little help from the professionals. After all, fabulous, fun and flirty women at 50 and beyond no doubt would enjoy handsome, hunky, and happy men to fully appreciate them!
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SUMMER chic, coast style By Brenda Blount
As the temperatures are scorching and summer invitations are arriving, how do you stay on your chic game in the heat? If the attire is ‘Coast casual,” here are five ways to stay chic and cool.
1. When in doubt, choose a chic sundress. I’m thinking Lilly Pulitzer along with a pair of ballet flats. 2. When in doubt, go all white. White looks so crisp and clean. Try pairing a white cotton shirt with white capris. Add a bold dash of color with a turquoise necklace and don’t forget that now is the time for white sandals.
“But what about my black pants?” If you just can’t give up your black pants, please wear a bold, floral top or a crisp, white shirt. Turn up your collar and add jewelry. 4. Florals and stripes are always chic. Don’t shy away from a bright floral shirt paired with white pants or a white skirt. 5. And finally my personal favorite: A white sundress, pearls, and kitten heel mules. You can’t go wrong with white. It’s chic and neat and light and “summerful!”
3. Ok, let’s talk about black. If you must wear black, keep it simple. A black sundress is best paired with bold, colorful jewelry. I know all of the black disciples are saying,
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The gift of womanhood For a long time I did not consider my femininity an asset. Do you? By Dr. Michele Pisciotta I have had the privilege of caring for many dynamic women in my life and I have learned to value being a woman by learning from their example. As an OBGYN, I enter into a very intimate relationship with my patient and as with all of my intimate relationships they have changed me. I would like to share some of my thoughts and observations with our readers because I fear that many do not recognize the inherent value and influence that they have. When I began my medical career I got hooked on OBGYN as a specialty because I absolutely loved delivering babies. I had no idea that I would fall in love with my patients. Over time in my busy practice, the wide variety of stories that my patients would share revealed so many things to me. I had just turned 30 when I started practicing medicine in Gulfport in 1999. I had a lot to learn. The women of our coast have treated me so well. Through their example, I have discovered so much about a woman’s role on our Coast and in our family, our school and church community, our friendships, and our business world. Women, we have such a distinct privilege in our society. We get to birth our children, we get to nurse our families through good times and bad, we get to help our girlfriends through their stresses and illnesses. We also get to celebrate our successes together and watch our children and their friends mature and change. Although it is very demanding to wear the many hats and boots that we are expected to manage without difficulty, I feel so grateful to be able to share so many experiences with my loved ones. I get tired of tucking my kids in at night after a long day but then I think, “Thank you God for putting this little one in my life. Thank you for letting me be here to listen to the stories about the playground drama.” It seems to me that 55 is a wonderful age. The women who are healthy and active at that age have a great outlook on life. Usually they have survived the raising of children, they are more financially stable, and they have worked through their middle-age adjustments (I don’t like to think of it as a crisis!). These women have a lot of wisdom and more time to enjoy their blessings. All in all, ladies, let’s be kind to one another. We all have a story and we all have our stressors and we all need one another. Our next generation of girls will look to us to help them navigate their journey through life!
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FOOD
Ms. Audrey’s Southern Kitchen has all the favorites
Um, um good! By Philip L. Levin “If you go to China, you want the best Chinese food in town; in the South, we want to offer the best Southern food in town.” With this philosophy, Ms. Audrey offers up the most delicious Southern cooking you’ve ever tasted, from crisp batter-fried chicken, to shelled purple peas, to Delta farm-raised catfish fillets. The lunch buffet offers patrons a plethora of great Southern food prepared by a woman with 27 years of Mississippi cooking experience. Set on Gulfport’s 30th Avenue at 17th Street, the unimposing building opens for lunch at 11 a.m., with a dozen patrons awaiting the word “Go.” Each day of the week, there’s a special treat, such as Monday’s fried chicken, red beans and rice, and ham hocks, or Tuesday’s smothered liver, baked chicken, and pork neck bones. Does this sound like true heartfelt Southern cooking? You bet your sweet little heart. My favorite is Friday’s seafood buffet. This extravaganza for $16 includes garden salad, cucumber salad, mouth-watering macaroni and cheese, dirty rice, purple hull peas with okra, fried okra, fried catfish strips and catfish fillets, crawfish bread, fried shrimp, and the famous “Cajun boil” of cobbed corn, boiled jumbo shrimp, chopped potatoes, sausage and turkey necks. Add seafood gumbo, “Ms. Audrey’s saucy mashed potatoes,” and you’ll be so stuffed. But leave room for a serving of peach cobbler, banana pudding and lemon meringue pie. The breakfast buffets on weekdays offer hot buttered grits, oatmeal, scrambled eggs, countrystyle potatoes, buttermilk biscuits with country gravy, bacon, sausage, and hot fruit preserves. Breakfast specials include chicken wings with waffles, salmon croquettes, filet or whole catfish with grits, and smothered or fried chicken liver. Ms. Audrey opened her Southern Kitchen in March, coming directly from Gulfport’s beachfront Courtyard Marriott, where she served as food
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director for nine years. There she prepared their popular Southern buffet until recently when the management changed their theme, prompting Ms. Audrey to fulfill her lifelong dream of opening her own place. She noted that the Coast didn’t have a single Southern soul-food offering and vowed to provide a place where everything would be fresh and made from scratch. The catfish comes from the Delta, the shrimp from the Gulf. Most of the fresh produce comes from local farmers
markets, including the collard greens and sweet potatoes. “We don’t have even a single can in the kitchen,” Ms. Audrey reports. “I wanted to create the feel of mom’s cooking.” She joined hands with her friend, Kharima Muir, and together they saw the vision, connected by the grace of God, and made it happen, she says. “I love to bring people from all walks of life to break bread together.” Their success, encouraged by the locals who had enjoyed her Marriott servings, was immediate. In just two months, they opened up a back area to add more space, now can seat 150! Born in Natchez, Ms. Audrey received her culinary experience at the New Orleans Sheraton. Before the hurricane she worked as the food and production manager at Garden Park Hospital. The doctors there loved her cooking so much, they sponsored her first restaurant, the Four C’s on Dedeaux Road in Gulfport, named for Country, Cajun and Caribbean cuisine. “I’ve been in this business 27 years, cooking and catering for 22 years. Soon I’ll be looking to expand to new locations.” “Everyone is a friend when they come into Ms. Audrey’s,” she says, sitting next to me in her big white apron, watching her customers enjoying her fare. “There’s a difference between a cook who cooks for a living and one who cooks from her soul. You can tell the difference in the food. Love is the key ingredient.” Come for breakfast or lunch buffet at Ms. Audrey’s Southern Kitchen, and you’ll taste the love.
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By Andrea Yeager
chool or brown-bag lunches for kids and adults can be budget busters if a little creativity isn’t applied. The cost of meat seems to increase every trip to the market. Deli sliced turkey and roast beef weigh in between $7 and $8 a pound. Finding nutritional and protein substitutes for meat at least two to three times a week works to keep lunch prices in check. Flour or gluten-free tortillas and pita bread offer a twist to the typical wheat or white bread sandwich. Even peanut butter and jelly tastes great in a tortilla, especially when the wrap is cut into small pinwheel rounds. This is perfect for the youngsters who like bite-size pieces or hand-held food. But peanut butter, which is a good source of protein and still costs less than $5 a jar, can be packed in a small container and used as a dip for apple slices or celery sticks. Kids love to dip their food, like carrot or celery sticks and cucumber rounds with a low-fat ranch dressing. The younger set also enjoys foods that look like characters. A plain PB&J sandwich can be a work of art when a parent or grandparent cuts the bread with a cookie cutter. Cat- or dog-shaped sandwiches are a hit. Use raisins for the eyes and nose and a strip of red bell pepper for the mouth and this brightens a lunch box and increases the nutritive value. Individual packets of fresh fruit and vegetables are a money pit, costing upward of $2 or $3 for a few fruit or veggie slices. Purchasing a bunch or celery or a bag of carrots or apples will save dollars, and there’s enough for the whole week of lunches. Eggs also add protein to lunch, and a dozen eggs still costs under $4. An owl sandwich can be made with two slices of whole wheat bread, crusts removed, sliced hard-boiled egg, sandwich filling and American cheese. Cut the bread corners round. Fill the sandwich with egg or tuna salad. Use hard-boiled egg slices for eyes and cheese triangles for the beak. A celery stack at the bottom of the owl makes the branch and use
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two cheese cubes for the feet. Enclosing a note, such as “Who’s thinking of you?” is a sweet thought. Most parents and grandparents want their kids to eat healthy so it can be frustrating when lunch boxes come home with food still in them or that the foods been tossed in the cafeteria. One Long Beach grandmother says this to finicky eaters who want nothing but junk foods, “Out of sight, out of mind.” When grandkids come to visit, she lays out trays of fruit, veggie sticks, pretzels and nuts. Not a candy bar or chip in sight. This same strategy can be applied to school lunches. Pretzels are cheaper than chips and definitely lower in fat. They can be used as dippers for peanut butter and other dips. Nuts, which can be higher priced, can be purchased in a large size container and portioned out into plastic bags for the lunchbox. A lunch favorite for children and adults is hummus. The protein-rich chickpea dip can be spread on a pita with lettuce, sprouts and even sunflower seeds or pine nuts placed inside. A sweet idea finds favor with the kids and costs little. Spread 1 to 2 tablespoons of low-fat honey-nut cream cheese on a flour tortilla and top with apple slice. Roll up tortilla style. Shredded chicken mixed with barbecue sauce also makes a good filling for tortillas. On top of the chicken, coleslaw adds crunch. At a warehouse store, a 32-ounce bag of coleslaw mix is less than $3. Think how many uses you can get out of that bag. A chicken stir-fry with peanut sauce and coleslaw makes for an Asian-inspired adult lunch for less than $5. The price of chicken breasts and rotisserie chickens pay off at the checkout and in lunch preparation. A large rotisserie chicken can make at least two meals, a barbecue chicken wrap and chicken salad. A big plus is these birds cut time spent in the kitchen preparing lunches.Rotisserie chickens sell from $4.98 to $7,depending on where they are purchased. Thinking outside the lunchmeat counter can whittle lunch box costs and perhaps even give kids and adults food adventure.
WACK-O-TACO WILDEBEEST Makes 1 serving Soft tortilla Tuna, ham or egg salad Cheddar cheese Lunchmeat (only to make a tongue) Broccoli Cherry or grape tomatoes Olive slices Mayonnaise Celery sticks Raisins, optional Fill a soft tortilla with the filling of your choice and fold in half. Cut a long strip of Cheddar cheese and make zigzags along one edge of cheese for teeth. Put it along the inside rim of the tortilla. Add a “tongue” cut from lunchmeat and “ears” from broccoli. Cut the tomato in half for the eyes; set them on top of the taco. Dot olive slices with mayonnaise, and place them in front of the tomato eyes for irises. For antennae, cut a V in the tops of two celery sticks and diagonal slices along each edge. If you like, add a “fly” made from a raisin body and place on “tongue.”
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– From 2002 Kids in the Kitchen magazine GOOD-FOR-YOU GARDEN PITA POCKETS WITH EGG SALAD EGG SALAD: 6 large eggs 1/4 cup mayonnaise 1/4 teaspoon salt 1/4 teaspoon paprika PITA POCKETS: 3 pita bread rounds, each about 6 inches in diameter 1/4 cup mayonnaise or store-bought low-fat ranch dressing 1 avocado 1 1/2 cups egg salad, above 2 tablespoons shelled, roasted sunflower seeds Egg salad directions: Place the eggs, right out of the refrigerator, into a medium saucepan. Add cold water until the water is 1 inch higher than the eggs and bring to a boil over medium-high heat. Once the water comes to a boil, reduce the heat to medium-low, set a kitchen timer for 10 minutes, and cook the eggs at a low boil for exactly 10 minutes). Remove the saucepan from heat, place it in the sink, drain the hot water and run cold water over the eggs (still in saucepan) until they are cool enough to handle. Peel the eggs. Place the eggs on a cutting board. Cut each egg in half, then chop into 1/2-inch pieces. Place in a medium mixing bowl and add the remaining ingredients, mashing with a fork to blend. Serve immediately in pita pockets or cover lightly and refrigerate for up to 2 days. Yield: 6 servings. – From “Emeril’s There’s A Chef In My Soup”
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By Barbara Allen cancer survivor
Find support, answers as you fight cancer
One of the scariest moments in a person’s life is when you are diagnosed with cancer. The second scariest moment for many is when you are told you are in remission. That may sound positive, but actually oftentimes fear sets in as you worry about when the cancer may return. My cancer journey began with a diagnosis of ovarian stage 3B in August of 2013. I had multiple surgeries, starting with one to remove a 21-by-5-by 6-inch tumor along with a hysterectomy. I began chemotherapy in September and ended in February of 2014. After the last chemo treatment, I became severely ill and was rushed to the hospital and nearly died. It took five weeks in the hospital to get me where I was well enough to be discharged. Since then, I have worked diligently at changing my diet and lifestyle in order to rebuild my immune system and atrophied muscles. I now feel more alive and more fit than ever! I enjoy life by swimming, walking the Ocean Springs Bridge, off-roading in my all terrain vehicle, climbing mountains, exercising, eating organic foods, loving and enjoying my friends. When I completed my cancer therapy, I found very little information along the Gulf Coast to support people battling cancer. People with cancer find themselves with lots of unanswered questions. Then they begin seeking answers from friends, other survivors, and on the Internet, where much of the information is conflicting. Oncologists have chemotherapy, radiation and surgery in their arsenal, and we as patients can augment these with fundamental changes in our lifestyles. This is why I birthed Mind, Body and Spirit Cancer Support Group. Our group is about fellowship (you are not alone!). The group receives ongoing education covering the mind, body and spirit. We foster understanding (we know and support what you are going through). With love and compassion, we bring hope for a new beginning. We invite those with cancer and those in remission to come and join our support group and hear stimulating guest speakers, such as cuttingedge information from noted cancer researcher E.A. Helwick about the various changes you can implement in your daily lives for a profound effect on the quality and longevity of your life. Come prepared to laugh, love and learn. And hugs are mandatory! ATTEND THE MBS MEETINGS The Mind, Body and Spirit cancer support group meets every Wednesday from 1:30 - 3 p.m. at Trinity United Methodist Church, 5007 Lawson Ave. in Bayou View, Gulfport. For more information, call Barbara at (228) 669-9102.
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KNOW THE FACTS The newest statistics tell us that one out of two men and one out of three women will come down with some form of cancer in their lifetime. Approximately 90 percent of those who go into remission will typically see their cancer back in three to five years. The World Health Organization predicts that cancer rates worldwide are projected to rise 57 percent by 2030. According to WHO, about 90 percent of cancers are stimulated by environmental toxins/chemicals. People who get cancer basically have a poorly functioning immune system. This could be attributed to poor nutrition/diet and chemical exposure in the food we eat, the water we drink, and the air we breathe. Another common problem leading to this disease is chronic dehydration due to lack of adequate daily intake of pure clean water. There are multiple causative factors for developing cancer. There are more than 125 different kinds of cancers, not including the subsets. A few may be mild or docile. Others fit into the moderately/ aggressive group. Unfortunately, the vast majority are in the severe/ aggressive category.
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