Get a Mentor whoisdylancooper.com /2014/04/27/mentor/ Dylan Cooper Posted in Start Marketing Online
In any endeavour in life that is even a tiny bit complicated or tough to achieve, there is nothing that can help you progress faster than finding a good coach or mentor. When you think about it, people rarely go it alone and get very far in other disciplines: Learning a language, the piano or improving your golf game for example. We’d usually think about a coach or teacher straight away for these things, so why go through the pain of being a lone wolf when trying to build a business on the internet? A mentor can be formal in the corporate world of course but otherwise, the relationship can often be more like a friendship with a role model. A good mentor is somebody who helps guide your development and it is important to remember that this relationship should be valuable for both parties. These are some things you should look to get out of interaction with a mentor: Improve skills Improve confidence Accelerate development Learn from somebody else’s experiences Obtain new perspectives Refocusing How do you find a good mentor? It is important to realise firstly, that a mentor won’t be armed with some magic dust. They won’t automatically know where you want to go or what you want to achieve. So some planning has to be done on your side too. Be specific and map out goals. Have a vision of how your mentor can help get you where you want to go and this will both help your mentor come up with the most useful advice and also allow you to pull things back if you think the advice is going off course. A mentor should be successful in the area you want to be successful in. It sounds obvious, yes, but so many people make the mistake of taking advice from somebody they like and know well, because they may trust that person’s opinion and it is the easy option. This can be such a mistake. I have seen many people do it and I have too. For example, your well-meaning uncle who talks you out of following through with an idea and who is totally inappropriate to give advice on the subject. It’s not because they don’t want to see you succeed, it’s because they don’t want to see you blow your money/waste your time/get hurt. Bypass the well-meaning close relatives and friends and find somebody who is successful in the area you are interested in and been where you want to go. Some ideas of where to find your mentor/s are:
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