El Tecolote Vol. 51 Isssue 16

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PUBLISHED BY ACCIÓN LATINA

Vol. 51 No. 16

August 12-25, 2021

OUR COMMUNITY RECKONING WITH SEXUAL ASSAULT IS HERE, AND WE CANNOT BE SILENT NUESTRA COMUNIDAD NO DEBE GUARDAR SILENCIO ANTE LA VIOLENCIA SEXUAL Editorial

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omunidad, We’ve been witness to various reckonings in recent years. From the height of the #MeToo movement in 2017 that brought powerful well known abusers to supposed if not temporary justice, to last year’s mainstream acknowledgement of how racism is woven into the fabric of our historical institutions. And now we have a reckoning of our own. On Aug. 6, 2021, Sasha Perigo, a member of our San Francisco community and a tenant’s rights organizer, courageously came forward and publicly named the man who raped her last April, detailing the incident on Twitter by sharing a seven-page document that included her account of the events, discharge paperwork from SFGH and a letter from SFPD confirming that her rape kit had been processed. That man—well known in Mission politics and someone who El Tecolote has featured prominently in the past—is Jon Jacobo. The news that a woman of our community had been violated by someone she trusted, a man of our community who had orchestrated an image as a community servant, was devastating. But given the history of abuses committed by men of influence, it wasn’t a surprise. If anything, Sasha coming forward about her attack was a grim yet necessary reminder that abusers exist in all forms, including charismatic community leaders. “Coming forward publicly about your rape isn’t fun,” Sasha told El Tecolote over email. “I’ve been subjected to a barrage of comments picking apart every aspect of my life. Commenters have told me that I’m an unfaithful girlfriend, a whore, a liar, and even that I deserve to be raped repeatedly in order to “teach me a lesson.”” This incident is a microcosm of a greater issue that has long plagued our community and machismo culture at large, and one that has largely been ignored. Chances are that if you’re reading this, you are a survivor yourself, the child of a survivor, or at the very least have witnessed or experienced the frequent harassment of a catcall along 24th Street. Many of us have felt this toxicity fester for generations in our communities and yes, even in our homes. “But I am also very aware that the opportunity to come forward this publicly, and to receive the community support that I have, is not afforded to all survivors,” Sasha said. “For example, the media has heavily reported the fact that I am a Stanford alumna this week. While I am Latina, I am also a white girl, and I already had a large platform as a writer prior

“I stand with you. I believe you. You did not deserve this.” —Sasha Perigo, a message to survivors

Sasha Perigo, una defensora de los derechos de la vivienda, quien recientemente hizo público haber sido víctima de violación por parte de Jon Jacobo, un destacado líder de la comunidad. Sasha Perigo, a housing rights advocate who recently came forward about being sexually assaulted by prominent community leader Jon Jacobo, poses for a portrait in the Sunset, Tuesday August 10, 2021. Photo: Mabel Jiménez to this week. And, of course, the man who assaulted me is a dark skinned Latino man, which plays into people’s preconceived biases.” “Survivors who didn’t go to a fancy school, who aren’t white, or who don’t have an existing platform don’t always receive the same support that I do. That’s bullshit. My heart goes out to every survivor who is hurting because of this news story right now, especially the people who were not lucky enough to receive the support that I have,” Sasha said. How and when it became the preferred practice to protect abusers who perpetuate generational trauma, rather than protect and believe survivors, I don’t know. How and when we just collectively accepted that “abusers will always exist” in our homes and communities, I don’t know. But it’s time that we change that. And we have the collective power and responsibility to change this culture that has caused us, particularly women, so much harm. But change won’t come without cost. Even now, amid the bravery exhibited by Sasha (which she said has now prompted five more women to come forward), the trolls are hard at work in the putrid space that is social media, capitalizing on her pain in the vile attempts to push their own ridiculous recall campaigns. And sadly, the voices of some longtime community members, despite the evidence and testimony put forth by Sasha, have chosen the path of shaming and blaming her for being the victim of rape. See SURVIVOR, page 9

Community Resources

Instituto Familiar de la Raza La Clínica, bilingual and culturally competent counseling and therapy Asesoramiento y terapia bilingües y culturalmente competentes (415) 229-0500 laclinica@ifrsf.org SF Women Against Rape Advocacy, accompanying to legal or medical appointments, counseling, support groups and technical assistance to professionals and providers Abogacía, acompañamiento a citas legales o médicas, consejería, grupos de apoyo y asistencia técnica a profesionales y proveedores. 24 hour crisis hotline 415-647-RAPE (24hr crisis hotline) General Inquiries: info@sfwar.org 415-861-2024 Bay Area Women Against Rape Crisis line, counseling and support and referral services Línea de crisis, asesoramiento y servicios de referencia y apoyo (510) 845-RAPE (24 hour crisis line) La Casa de las Madres Shelter for victims of domestic violence, drop-in counseling, phone and text counseling Refugio para víctimas de violencia doméstica, consejería sin cita previa, consejería por teléfono y mensaje de texto 24-Hour hotline: 877-503-1850 Text Support Line: 415-200-3575 RAINN National anti-sexual violence organization, advocacy and direct support Organización nacional contra la violencia sexual, abogacía y apoyo directo 24/7 hotline: 800-656-HOPE (4673) The Women’s Building Sexual Assault Harassment Prevention Project Proyecto de Prevención del Acoso y Agresión Sexual (415) 431-1180 ext. 20

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omunidad, Hemos sido testigos de varios llamados a rendir cuentas en los últimos años. Desde el auge del movimiento #MeToo en 2017, que llevó a poderosos y conocidos abusadores a una supuesta — cuando no temporal— justicia, hasta el reconocimiento generalizado del año pasado de cómo el racismo se encuentra hilado en el tejido de nuestras instituciones históricas. Ahora tenemos nuestro propio llamado a la rendición de cuentas. Este 6 de agosto, Sasha Perigo, miembro de nuestra comunidad y organizadora a favor de los derechos de los inquilinos, valientemente hizo público el nombre de quien la violó en abril pasado, detallando el incidente en Twitter al compartir un documento de siete páginas que incluye su relatoría de hechos, el papeleo del SFGH y una carta del SFPD confirmando que su kit de violación había sido procesado. Ese hombre, muy conocido en el ámbito político de la Misión y alguien sobre quien El Tecolote ha publicado en el pasado, es Jon Jacobo. La noticia de que una mujer de nuestra comunidad fue violada por alguien en quien confiaba, un hombre de nuestra comunidad que había construido su imagen como servidor comunitario, fue devastadora. Pero dada la historia de abusos cometidos por hombres influyentes, no fue una sorpresa. En todo caso, el hecho de que Sasha haya difundido su ataque es un recordatorio sombrío pero necesario de que los agresores existen en todas sus formas, incluidos los líderes carismáticos de la comunidad. “Hablar públicamente de tu violación no es divertido”, dijo Sasha a El Tecolote vía correo electrónico. “He sido objeto de un aluvión de comentarios que hurgan en todos los aspectos de mi vida. Los comentaristas me han dicho que soy una novia infiel, una puta, una mentirosa, incluso que merezco ser violada repetidamente para ‘darme una lección’”. Este incidente es microcosmos de un problema mayor que durante mucho tiempo ha plagado a nuestra comunidad y a la cultura del machismo en general, y que ha sido ampliamente ignorado. Lo más probable es que si está leyendo esto, usted mismo sea un sobreviviente, el hijo de un sobreviviente, o haya presenciado o experimentado el acoso frecuente como lo es el silbido que a veces se escucha a lo largo de la Calle 24. Muchos de nosotros hemos sentido esta toxicidad pudrise durante generaciones en nuestras comunidades y sí, incluso en nuestros hogares. “Pero también soy muy conscienVea SASHA, página 9


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