The Local: We Are Winter Garden Edition — November/December 2022 by Em Agency

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Michelle Meachem In The Middle Of It All

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HOLIDAY HAPPENINGS IN DOWNTOWN WINTER GARDEN November 26

• Shop Small Business Saturday and Downtown Sidewalk Sale, Daylong

December 2

• Light Up Winter Garden, 6-9 pm

December 3

• A Very Merry Farmers Market, 8 am-1 pm • Winter Garden Christmas Parade, 10 am • Christmas Golf Cart Parade, 6 pm • A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm

December 4

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm* • A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm

December 5

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 6

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 7

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 8

• Holiday Boutique Stroll Downtown, 5-8 pm

December 9

• A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm • Live Holiday Music - Fridays on the Plaza, 7-9 pm

December 10

• A Very Merry Farmers Market (Santa Visit), 8 am-1 pm • A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm

December 11

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm* • A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm

December 12

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 13

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 14

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 16

• A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm • Live Holiday Music - Fridays on the Plaza, 7-9 pm

December 17

• A Very Merry Farmers Market (Santa Visit), 8 am-1 pm • A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm

December 18

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm* • A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm

December 19

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 20

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 21

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 23

• A Merry Winter Garden Light Show, 6-9 pm • Live Holiday Music - Fridays on the Plaza, 7-9 pm

December 24

• A Very Merry Farmers Market, 8 am-1 pm

December 26

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 27

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 28

• Horse Drawn Holiday Carriage Tours, 5:30-9:30 pm*

December 30

• Live Holiday Music – Fridays on the Plaza, 7-9 pm

December 31

• A Very Merry Farmers Market, 8 am-1 pm

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Wheels of Fortune

Jana Shelfer shares how radical gratitude saved her life. HEATHER ANNE LEE

The Lo’ Down

12 Garden Variety

12 The Bradfords’ secret surprise wedding 14 Local History: You’ve Got Mail 14 Market Watch: Indulgences 15 Charitable Spotlight: Our favorite local causes

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On the Record In the Middle with Mayor Rees of Everything Mayor John Rees knows his city better than anyone. But how well does his city know him?

18 Tails to Tell

Melvin’s hog-wild history

58 Oh, Well!

Meet social media maven Michelle Meachem—if you haven’t already. HEATHER ANNE LEE

82 Rhetoric

My AC unit was busted for three weeks. But it wasn’t all terrible—just mostly.

For Angie and Noah Layfield, type 1 diabetes is a family affair

66 Eats+Drinks

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66 Breaking Bread at Bosphorous. 70 Get in the holiday spirit with three recipes for holiday-themed spirits

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FLORAL

21 Rilla Tomyn Betty J’s Florist

RESTORATIVE DENTISTRY

22 Roberto Gil, DMD

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Beacon Mortgage LIFE INSURANCE

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MORTGAGE

23 Ralph DiSciullo

24 Gus Aref Plan Life Insurance

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We live

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our lives second by second, and sometimes it feels impossible to take a moment to step back and survey what is right in front of us. The goodness. The lessons, even the hard ones. We don’t take the time to see how all the little pieces fit together.

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But maybe we should. Maybe you and I should step back more often to see just how much we’ve been blessed and count it out loud. In fact, I cannot think of a better activity to pursue during this season—in between shopping for superfluous gifts that may be shoved in a closet and forgotten the next day—than saying “thank you.” Which is why I’m writing dozens of thank-you notes, choosing to feel every sweep of the pen, every dot of the i, every cramp of the rapidly developing carpal tunnel. It’s worth all the extra effort, simply because each person I have encountered this year has impacted me in a remarkable manner that no one could ever replicate. Jana Shelfer is certainly one of them. Even when we first met, somehow our souls just knew one another immediately. Michelle Meachem is another. I’ve yet to encounter another person who so effortlessly embodies the character of an entire community. Mark Schmidt, who took me under his wing at my very first chamber meeting. Kirsten Harrington, with whom I share a passion for food and hiking. Rich Pooley, for showing me a love I never knew possible. Austin Arthur. Karen Pazik. Jessica Villegas. Mirsha Alexandre. Gus Aref. Laura Senzamici. Jon Barrett. Joe Walsh. Anna Hunt. Jason Cannon. The list goes on. Now I’m not a gratitude expert, but I have been practicing long enough to know that it multiplies. The more I say “thank you” for the little things, the more I find things to be thankful for. I know, I know. The concept isn’t radical or new—the idea of “thanksgiving” is the Bible. Nonetheless, gratitude causes explosions in our hearts that ripple outward, enveloping others. Unlike that cashmere sweater or air fryer, gratitude is a gift that grows. That said, this letter is for all of you. It holds my gratitude. My love. A breadcrumb trail of thankfulness to the ones who encouraged and challenged me. A community that believed in me and the mission of this humble, yet heartfelt magazine. I look around at my life, and I see it very clearly: I am better for knowing every one of you. And for that, I am so very grateful.

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Dr. Kim Dawson

Ralph Disciullo

Healthcare entrepreneur and owner of Pearle Vision in Ocoee and Hamlin. Kim has been passionate about health and wellness for over 20 years. She received her doctorate in Health Science at MUSC in South Carolina. Kim has lived in Winter Garden for 10 years and is inspired daily by her two children, Symone and Desiree. In her free time, Kim likes to cook, travel, and read novels.

Branch Manager with Success Mortgage Partners, setting the highest standards in the industry by putting people first. Prior to the mortgage industry Ralph played a key role in the startup of several businesses. Originally from Emerson, NJ, Ralph attended USF in Tampa and now resides in Winter Garden with his wife of 17 years, Sandi, and their two daughters Daniella and Avery.

Tracey Forrester

Bryan Fifer

Tracey is a community advocate helping individuals, families and small business owners gain access to affordable legal coverage with LegalShield, as well as help protect against identity theft through IDShield. She has been a resident of Horizon West since 2007 with her beautiful teenage girls, Averie and Bryce. Cofounder of Horizon West Professionals and founding member of the Rotary Club of Horizon West, Tracey believes lasting relationships start with community .

Local agent with State Farm Insurance. Bryan is a Central Florida native, Founding President of the Rotary Club of Horizon West, Horizon West Who’s Who Award Winner, and Team Captain for All-Pro Dad. He is married to his beautiful wife Angie and they have two wonderful children. Bryan is highly invested in making Horizon West the best place to work, live, and play.

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Mark Schmidt

Owner of Winter Garden Senior Home Care. Becca is a second-generation Winter Garden resident, and her local roots run deep. She is the true embodiment of joy, and has never met a stranger. Becca loves living the “bubble life,” where her golf cart is her primary mode of transportation. She has dedicated her life to tending to the special needs of our local senior adults.

Owner of Pammie’s Sammies, a “thoughtfully sourced, tastefully adventurous” restaurant in the heart of downtown. She is a passionate foodie with a degree in Wine, Spirits, and Beverage Management at the International Culinary School in Tampa. Pam is a staple of the Central Florida community, having operated in Universal Orlando, Dr. Phillips, and now Winter Garden.

Mark has been a resident of Central Florida for 34 years. He spent over 30 years in the Radio and Television industry and currently works for Boyer Building Corp. as the New Business Development Manager. Interests include cheering on the Buffalo Bills, golf and enjoying the next great glass of wine. He is married to his wife, Gina, and has a “Morkie” named Finley!

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Kirsten Harrington

Executive Director at The Blake at Hamlin, a senior living and memory care community in Hamlin Town Center. Angie has been in the senior housing industry for over 20 years and brings a wealth of knowledge, experience, and insight to our Horizon West seniors and their families. Though originally from Maryland, she has called Horizon West home since 2016. Angie and her family reside in Village F’s Watermark.

and passion are the three major pillars of Iliana’s life. She and her brothers own Empire Finish Systems, of which she is the active CFO. A retired marathon runner, she has transitioned to the more tranquil pastime of acquiring house plants. When not working, she loves spending time with her amazing husband, Charlie, discovering new food, traveling and quiet evenings on Lake Apopka.

Kirsten is a freelance magazine writer who just returned to Winter Garden after two years of living in China. She loves to travel and explore new places, especially where food is concerned. You can often find her out on the bike trail, in the kitchen with her family, or checking out the local food scene and sharing her finds on Instagram, @ wintergardenfoodie.

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They Do?! Guests show up for what they think is a surprise engagement and find out that the real surprise was for them!

hen Jeremiah Bradford asks you to do something, you just do it. If you don’t know him, it may be because a guy his size is a guy you typically don’t want to say no to. But if you do know him, even a little bit, you do it because this gentle giant is about the nicest guy you’ve ever met and you’ll do anything to help him. So when he asks you to be part of his surprise engagement to his girlfriend of three years, Rebecca Lanterman, you do it. In fact, there is nothing else you would rather do. Rebecca may be physically small standing next to him, but everyone knows she stands eye-to-eye with Jeremiah when measured by her heart. That they are together just feels… right. Water is wet. The sky is blue. Jeremiah and Rebecca belong together. This is the fundamental truth that prompted more than 100 people to get all dressed up and gather at Pilars Loft one beautiful fall Saturday afternoon. The conversation among the guests was a mixture

of shared stories about the couple,expressions of just how happy people were to be there, and, of course, excited murmurs about how Rebecca would react. The buzz of anticipation and excitement filled the room with a wonderful energy that fell to a hush as Jeremiah entered the room. This was it! He crossed the room to stand near the windows and

turned toward the crowd with a warm smile.Then he was followed by another pair of people. Then another. Then we began to realize what was really happening. “I think this is the freakin’ wedding!” escaped the lips of one attendee. Which was perfectly OK because most of us were thinking it. By the time the bride entered, it was to the sound of uproarious applause.

“While I was still busy on my mission of connecting you with someone single, you had already decided on someone. I was the last to know that was me.” — Rebecca Lanterman

Under the guise of surprising Rebecca, the two had conspired to surprise everyone else. This was no ordinary couple. And it was no ordinary wedding. Sure, it had the basics: some music, a pastor, the exchanging of vows. But this pastor cracked jokes, and these vows included a recounting of how Jeremiah impossibly contorted his frame to fit into Rebecca’s Mini Cooper, how they got together as Rebecca tried to set him up with someone else. Those vows were followed by enthusiastic applause—something I’m not sure I’ve ever seen at a wedding before.But this gathering wasn’t concerned with decorum.This wasn’t about ceremony. This wedding was about love. And their love for each other filled the room to be shared with all. When the ceremony was over, we all knew we had witnessed something very special.This was a wedding we would all remember. Time to celebrate! —Jamie Ezra Mark

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Garden Variety LOCAL HISTORY

You’ve Got Mail In the era of e-vites, emails, and text messages, the art of letter writing is quickly being lost. In fact, many people don’t know the pleasure of stationery and stamps. But in 1930s Winter Garden, the post office was not only a social hub, but letters were the focal point of people’s lives and family connections. As Winter Garden grew, so did the need for a central post office. Soon the city would open an office in 1933, under Postmaster E.M. Henderson, in the Black Cappleman building on Plant Street, channeling thousands of letters over the next 20 years. Postcards and letters, filled with the love of relatives and the news of the time. The post office would soon become a bustling place of senders and receivers, prompting the need for a larger facility. In 1950, a building on the corner of Plant Street and North Lakeview Avenue would become the ideal spot to officially place the Winter Garden Post Office. With some minor renovations here and there over the past 70 years, this post office still stands at 207 W. Plant Street today.

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MARKET WATCH

Art as Indulgence For Juanita Granados, it is essential to “find beauty in anything.” And she does just this, with her beautiful and unique jewelry business, Indulgences Unique Handmade Art Pieces. Whether it is simplistic, such as tiny, dried flowers, or as vivid and great as the galaxy, Juanita’s jewelry and art pieces spark joy to those who come across her. Having grown up in Colombia in an artistic family, Juanita has spent most of her life on the creative side. “In my family, art and crafts were the main reason for gatherings where everyone spent hours creating. So I am a designer who enjoys every

moment I dedicate to creating a wearable design.” Juanita works meticulously on each piece, her nimble fingers guided by her innate style and inspiration.“We never create two of the same pieces, giving the chance to my followers to have a truly unique handmade art piece to wear as jewelry.” Juanita and her husband can be seen every Saturday at the Market, beaming to all those who pass, their energy as exuberant as their colorful jewelry. Whether you choose one for yourself or for a holiday gift (hint, hint), be sure to stop by their booth and admire Juanita’s talent. Tell her The Local sent you.

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THERE IS ALWAYS GOOD NEWS IN THE GARDEN

Have you heard? Amazon Fresh is the new grocery store coming to Daniels Road Business Park in 2023. While they certainly won’t be serving up Pub Subs, you can pretty much bet there will be a “prime” option. We were also excited to hear about AdventHealth and Rothman Orthopaedic Institute partnering up to bring world-renowned orthopaedic care to Winter Garden at 2200 Fowler Grove Blvd., Suite 320. There’s a ton of gossip swirling about several new businesses coming in 2023, but we’ll share that another time. Because there’s so much better stuff to celebrate this time of year and we are here for it. (If this were an Instagram caption, there would clap emojis.) Starting with the opening of Brunos Oysters at Plant Street Market. You’ll find most of The Local team slurping bivalves and mignonette all season long, while we’re anxiously awaiting the opening of Norikase, which will feature high-quality hand rolls and raw delights like bluefin toro, California uni and Hokkaido scallops. If buckets of beer and football is more your speed, gather around the big screens at the newest location of Miller’s Ale House in Hamlin. And don’t forget to mark your calendars for Flavor Fest of Horizon West, fusing local fare, art, music and f-u-n on 11/12. Which pretty much kicks off a very busy season of spectacular events. The ones we’re most looking forward to already? Thanksgiving at the Market on 11/19. Shop Small Business Saturday on 11/26. Light Up Winter Garden on 12/2. And no holiday would be complete with We Are Winter Garden’s 26 Days of Giveaways!

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Extra Generous While many of us look forward to the holidays, this time of year may not be so joyous for those who are struggling to make ends meet. Mountains of gifts paired with phenomenal feasts aren’t a reality — or even a concern — for many of our neighbors who don’t know where they’ll sleep for the night or what they’ll eat for dinner. So we’re wrapping up the year by resharing some of our favorite local charities, and encouraging everyone to help bring real joy and hope to the lives of our underserved neighbors. West Orange Habitat for Humanity Making decent housing affordable. westorangehabitat.org

The Nurture Place Providing accessible, child-focused support for families. thenurtureplace.org

Polkadogz Rescuing, rehabilitating, and re-homing dogs.

Second Harvest Food Bank Collecting, storing, and distributing food to neighbors in need.

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Holiday Gifts Police Athletic League Fostering and encouraging, in the youth community

The Lift Network Providing events and family services that elevate life for those impacted by disability.

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Addendum 185 Assisting families financially and emotionally through adoption grants.

Matthew’s Hope Serving the homeless men, women, and children in our community.

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Shepherd’s Hope Proving access to free high-qualty healthcare for all.

American Legion Post 63 Veterans strengthening community since 1920

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Tails to Tell

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Melvin the Long-nosed Potbellied Pig, age 16 I may not look it now, but back in my heyday I was quite the party animal. I snuck out a time or two. I’ve lived all over the country. I’ve had some runins with the cops, and even got arrested once. Good times. Now that I’m sweet 16, I’d rather be pigging out than sneaking out. But I keep on having fun, and I’m as happy as a pig in… a blanket. It’s all thanks to my human. She’s cared for me since I was a wiggly piglet, and she’s never stopped loving me. Even when I peed at her wedding. Does your pet have a tail to tell? in.thelocalwg.com/tell-tails

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Rilla Tomyn Betty J’s Florist 403 S. Dillard Street Winter Garden 407-656-3526 | 800-771-1379 myorlandoflorist.com

With all the florists out there, how do I pick the best one?

Indeed, there are hundreds of websites, flower shops, corner flower sellers, grocery stores, and big box stores. They all want a piece of that big, fresh flower pie. So who do you call? The simple answer is—the one that knows how to stand out from the competition, and knows what it takes to earn the community’s business. Ordering from Betty J’s is not like ordering from a catalog online or over the phone and hoping what you get will look like the picture. Ours is a family-owned-and-run business. Our arrangements are literally created by someone in our family for

We’ve staked our reputations and our futures on creating better flower arrangements than you can find anywhere else.

your family. It’s not just a business transaction to us. It’s not just fulfilling orders. Flowers are perishable items. So are flower shops. We’ve staked our reputations and our futures on creating better arrangements than you can find anywhere else. That is how important your arrangement is to us. We serve West Orange County, but also have the ability to deliver flowers throughout the state and even nationwide through our network of associated florists. Our customers know that we pride ourselves on prompt, friendly, professional service focused on exceeding their expectations. Most

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don’t just order from the sample pictures; they trust us to create the perfect expression for their occasion. There’s nothing we love more than a creative challenge, because that’s usually when our best work manifests itself. From dinosaur-themed weddings to sports- or music-themed celebrations of life—even the perfect just-because bouquet—we pour our heart and soul into every arrangement we deliver. We go the extra mile. It’s why we treat our customers like family. Sounds simple, but that simplicity is what has kept Betty J’s Florist in business for almost half a century!

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Restorative Dentistry

Roberto Gil, DMD Winter Garden Smiles 1317 Winter Garden Vineland Road, Suite 110 Winter Garden 407-614-5955 wintergardensmiles.com

Can I really get a crown in just one day?

Sounds too good to be true, doesn’t it? If you’ve ever had a crown, you know the drill. You’ll need at least two visits to the dentist: One to prep the tooth, then another to seat the new crown. In between those appointments, you wear a glued-on, temporary crown while you wait for your permanent crown to arrive. The wait can be weeks, depending on the lab! Those days—and those weeks—are over. So, how can our dentists at Winter Garden Smiles do what others cannot? As a service to our clients—in our pediatric and adult

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practices—we made a significant investment in a CEREC system. That stands for Chairside Economical Restoration Esthetic Ceramic. It is basically a mill linked to a highly sophisticated CAD software program that can create a brand-new ceramic crown while you wait! Often, when our patients find out

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they can actually watch their own crown being created, they jump at the chance. How long is a typical same-day appointment? The short answer is one-and-ahalf to two hours. If extra prep time is required, it may take longer. Therefore, you come in with a bad tooth, and leave two hours later with a beautiful new crown. We know what you’re thinking: “That sounds great, but how much does it cost? How much more does a same-day crown cost than the old-fashioned, wait-afew-weeks kind?” Glad you asked: Nothing more. They cost the same.

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There are no extra markups for a same-day crown. Another benefit—CEREC crowns always seem to fit better. Probably because we’re right there to make adjustments if needed, while we create them. Back to that question: Can you really get a crown in one day? Absolutely. With a phenomenal fit, at no increased cost, and within hours, not days. Are you smiling yet? Call me, Dr. Roberto Gil, DMD, or one of my associates, Dr. Joseph Orlando, DMD, or Dr. Nadia Ramdin, DDS, and put us to the test. Getting patients to smile is what we do.

Mortgage

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Ralph DiSciullo Beacon Mortgage 160 E Plant Street Winter Garden ralph@mybeaconmortgage.com 407-718-2223

Interest rates are getting scary. How do I keep that interest rate down?

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The real estate market is making a definite shift toward a buyer’s market and away from a seller’s market. How far it will swing is anyone’s guess, but inventories of homes are certainly going up. Unfortunately for homebuyers, interest rates are doing the exact same thing. Which brings us to our question: How do you keep the interest rate down? We may have an answer— it’s called a 2-1 Buydown. With a 2-1 Buydown loan, interest rates are lowered by 2% for the first year. They’re lowered by 1% the second year. And on the third year, they resume the original rate.

Let’s plug in some numbers and give you a better idea of how it works: Say you’re buying a $450,000 house with a 20% down payment for a mortgage loan of $360,000 at an interest rate of 7% and APR of 7.094%. Your monthly principal and interest (P&I) payment would be about $2,395.05. But, with a 2-1 Buydown, your interest rate would decrease from 7% to 5% for the first year. With the new interest rate, your monthly P&I payment would be $1,932.56. The following year, your interest rate would be

lowered to one percentage point less than the original rate, from 7% to 6%. The monthly P&I amount you’d be paying would be $2,158.38. Your payment would then return to the original 7% interest rate from the third year onward. Bear in mind that this scenario doesn’t factor in taxes and insurance, so your actual

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monthly payment would vary. But you can see the differences between years 1 and 2 versus year 3 and after. Important note: a 2-1 Buydown is a temporary loan. Unlike the ARM loan nightmares of the past, you are protected. You still get to lock in your mortgage at a fixed interest rate. Is a 2-1 Buydown right for you? Could you live with today’s rates after two years if your present circumstances don’t improve? Maybe. One thing is for certain; it will definitely shine a glimmer of hope for some homebuyers on the volatility of today’s market.

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Life Insurance

Gus Aref PlanLife Insurance 6735 Conroy Road, Suite 411 Orlando 407-557-3100 planlifeusa.com

Do I really need life insurance?

A better question would be, “can I really use life insurance?” And the answer to that is a resounding “yes!” Life insurance is a tool that can serve many purposes. While many see it as strictly a death benefit, payable to your beneficiaries/survivors to protect them from an unexpected and sudden loss of income, the fact is life insurance has many more uses than that. So many, in fact, that we often refer to it as the ‘Swiss army knife’ of financial planning. For instance, if funded with cash value, life insurance can be used as a form of asset protection and as part of tax

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deferral strategy. It can be used as a way to save toward a future goal like retirement or college. When used for estate planning, life insurance can protect the integrity of inheritance. It can even be used to fund business buy/ sell agreements, and not to forget legacy planning and income protection. Life insurance has so many specialized uses it can be hard to catalog them all. It can be combined with important living benefits riders like critical illness and long-term care. Those can help an insured pay for care and receive an indemnity

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while coping with a serious, protracted illness. Clearly, life insurance needs and uses change as we move through life. And your needs can change with you. A younger person just starting out needs life insurance as a bridge between the need to earn an income today while working toward financial independence tomorrow. Furthermore, a wealthy individual who’s already achieved financial freedom needs life insurance to protect and preserve their assets by utilizing it as an estate-planning tool. So, do you need life insurance? The best way to

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answer that is to seek out an insurance professional to help you navigate through all the benefits of this incredibly useful financial tool. We have only scratched the surface here, but one benefit stands out above the rest: however you use it, when life comes at you, life insurance will be the safety net that will better position you and your family for whatever life has in store for you.

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Chef Paola Santagati Italia Cuisine Co. 3601 Vineland Road, Suite 1, Orlando chefpaola@italiacuisineco.com 407-375-5338 italiacuisineco.com

How is authentic Italian cuisine different from what most of us are used to?

Here in the United States, most Americans enjoy what I call Italian-American food. It might have started out as pure Italian, but somewhere along the way it gradually

succumbed to influences from the American palate. Americans tend to go bigger and bolder, eschewing the delicacy and nuance of flavor. They use more cheese, more meat, and more garlic, with fewer vegetables in their pasta dishes. While delicious and authentically Italian-American, these dishes are not authentic Italian. When I think of authentic Italian cuisine, my first thoughts always turn to my mother, Nella, and my grandmother, Mara, working in their kitchens. I loved to be close by, listening to them discuss their recipes. I liked seeing the simple,

fresh ingredients on the countertop. I can still smell the aroma of olive oil as it fused with the herbs they had just picked from their windowsill gardens. My mother and grandmother had been cooking authentic Italian food for their families all their lives. They cooked simply, using fresh vegetables, olive oil, salt and pepper, garlic, and herbs— their mainstays were fresh basil and oregano. And, of course, there was pasta. Authentic Italian food is not smothered in cheese and heavy sauce. Sauces are light, and cheese is often served on the side. Authentic

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Italian food is also not heavy with garlic. In fact, in a quest for balance in its dishes, authentic Italian food is made so that no one ingredient stands out or overpowers the rest. Rather, each ingredient is there to support and complement the others. Also, in contrast to mounded spaghetti and meatball dinner plates in Italian-American food, authentic Italian foods are most often served in small portions. To experience and, more importantly, taste what I am talking about, visit me at ChefPaola.com and I will teach you what it takes to cook authentic Italian cuisine.

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Financial Planning

Andy Ortiz IQ Portfolios 13790 Bridgewater Crossings Blvd., Suite 1080 Windermere 800-558-7969 iqportfolios.com

What is the Economic Cycle and why should I care?

Our economy is subject to cycles of ebb and flow like the tides of the ocean. When the tide is low, water recedes, and you can go look for shells. When the tide is high, water comes in and if you’re not careful, you’ll get wet. We refer to those periods in the economy as expansion and contraction. Expansion is when businesses steadily grow their production and profits, unemployment remains low, and the stock market performs well. Consumers are buying and investing. This is the most desirable state of the economy. The “tide is in” and everything is humming along nicely.

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Then we reach the “peak.” It always happens. (Remember, this is a cycle.) After a while, numbers begin to look inflated beyond what is healthy. The economy starts growing out of control. Companies may have been overly optimistic and, banking on a continuation of the fast-flowing economy, expanded more than they should have. Same with investors; they might become overconfident, aggressively snapping up assets right and left and driving prices up. Everything, for everyone, starts to cost too much. When that happens, when you can’t expand anymore, there’s only one way to go…

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Contraction (think recession) is the next phase of the cycle. The tide has turned. The bulls on the stock market start to pull in their horns and change into bears. Economic activity slows. Unemployment typically spikes. GDP (gross domestic product) growth falls as a result of business cutbacks and slowing. Caution becomes the watchword for the day, and you can almost hear the gears of the big machine grinding down. If the economy’s high point is a “peak,” in a recession, its low point is a “trough.” Recession spans the time between peak and trough.

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The silver lining is, when the contraction phase of the cycle bottoms out, when we reach that trough, the only way ahead is up, and the economy is in for a rebound. Expansion starts up and the cycle continues all over again. Sounds good on paper. But none of this, neither the ups nor the downs, follows a straight line. It all takes time. None of it is quick, and there are many factors that cause hiccups and fits and starts along the way. Oftentimes people refer to the economy and “the market” interchangeably. Though they are integrally related, they are quite

The economy moves in cycles that can affect financial markets. Take heart in the fact that no one phase of the cycle will last forever.

different. Investors and the buying and selling of stocks are what determine the state of “the market.” In a contraction phase—which, by the way, I believe we are in right now—investors sell their holdings and depress the price of stocks. We end up smack in a bear market. In an expansion, investors go on a buying spree and stock prices rise. We get the opposite, a bull market. So what does all this mean in the real world? In broad strokes, in today’s “contraction,” finding

work often becomes more difficult. Individuals may opt for less-than-ideal jobs, waiting for wages to turn upward. Spending may tail off, especially when it comes to decisions on high-ticket items like a new car or home. Consumers tend to be wary of using their savings because they fear they might need them later. Purchasing power erodes as inflation grows and the cost of money (interest rates) skyrockets with no end in sight. Whew. Living in a recession can be tough, and

people often feel helpless in the face of rising costs for everything from food to gas, mortgages to rent, with no corresponding rise in income to combat it all. But everything is not doom and gloom. If there is anything to take away from today’s small economic lesson it is this: what goes up, must come down again, and vice versa. Remember? The economy is cyclical. After a recession, we will eventually move on to rebound in the next phase of the cycle and a natural recovery should follow.

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The point is, take heart and take charge. Meet with a financial professional now that you are armed with a new appreciation for the ebb and flow of our economy. Ask pointed questions, learn even more, and see what solutions they might be able to recommend for you and your family. If you do, I am confident that knowing you are taking an active role in harnessing the ups and downs of our economy for your own financial wellbeing will help you sleep much better at night.

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Pet Waste Removal

Mike Wright Poop Bandit Winter Garden 407-604-1008 poopbandit.com

What do you do with all that poop?

That is a question we get asked a lot, and it is a great one, because the answer is so important. Just to be clear about an icky subject, dog poop builds up awfully fast and can quickly get out of control. The average dog creates four pounds of poop per week—or 205 pounds per year! Where indeed does it all go? Poop Bandit, unlike some poop removal services, carts off all the waste we remove from your yard. We have made special arrangements with the local landfill to offload our dog waste with them. It is the safest, healthiest way to dispose of it.

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Many people are unaware that a service like ours actually exists. Why would anyone hire somebody to pick up the dog poop in their yard when they can easily do it themselves? Answers vary but most of them boil down to: Yes, they can do it themselves, but no, they don’t. It takes time, and for a poop-free yard, you really need to be consistent about the cleanup. We get it. It’s not a fun job. It takes time that people never seem to have enough of. The kids complain and it’s always a fight to get it done. They won’t stay on task. It’s a pain.

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Some actually think dog poop is good fertilizer for the grass—we’ve heard that one more than once. It is BAD for your grass. It kills it. It’s not good for you or your animals, either. Dog poop attracts insects. It contains dangerous pathogens like E. coli, Salmonella, Giardia, fecal coliform, tapeworms, hookworms, whipworms, roundworms, parvovirus,

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coronavirus, and hundreds of other harmful organisms. Want to eat dinner out on the patio or have a backyard party with friends? Not with the smell of dog poop you don’t. We can fix that. Prices start at around $16 per week, depending on the size of your yard and the size and number of your dogs. We serve residential and commercial (HOAs) clients! Poop Bandit comes every week, at the same day and time. And if we miss a spot, we’ll come back and give your yard another service for free. So, call us. Fire up the barbecue and invite some friends over for the weekend. We’ve got this.

Primary Care

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P. Fabian Garcia, MD MedHealth Clinical 1327 Winter Garden Vineland Road Suite 130, Winter Garden 321-214-8860 medhealthclinic.com

Are antidepressant drugs my best option for treating depression?

Absolutely not. You might think so, with the way anxiety and depression have become such common pathologies in today’s society. But Xanax, Prozac, Zoloft, and

all their serotonin-regulating cousins are only moderately effective. And they come laden with significant baggage, side effects like weight gain, sexual dysfunction, insomnia, and even seizures. Sadly, in 2022 Big Pharma dictates what your doctor should prescribe for nearly all pathologies that exist today, from diabetes to depression. Because of Big Pharma’s stranglehold on American medicine in Washington, DC, prescriptions for Prozac, Celexa, Paxil, Abilify, Buspirone, and Zoloft have skyrocketed. In the process, billions of dollars have been made at the expense of a

depressed, overmedicated American public. What if I told you there is an answer? There’s a drug the American public has not been told about. It’s supported by decades of studies proving its absolute safety. It is far more effective than any antidepressant for treating anxiety and depression. It’s on the WHO’s list of essential medicines. And what’s more, let me repeat this—IT WORKS. The drug is ketamine; a common anesthetic used every day in hospitals across the country. A very low dose administered un-

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der the tongue (sublingual) for anxiety and depression has been shown to induce remission (that’s complete absence of symptoms) in 80% of patients! Since Big Pharma can’t make money off ketamine— it’s unpatentable—doctors who have been trained in the American medical system are only gradually becoming unaware of its remarkable benefits. If you or someone you know suffers from anxiety or depression and the information above has started you thinking, please contact us. We are here to help and we’ll answer all your questions.

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Residential Real Estate

Elle Probst The Property Pros Real Estate, Inc. Horizon West / Winter Garden 407-815-4420 ElleSellsFlorida.com

Should I sell my house now or should I wait?

Deciding to sell a home is a hard decision to make, especially as home prices rise, buyer demand lessens, and interest rates increase. The answer really depends on your MOTIVATION. Historically, spring and summer are the best times to sell a house. That being said, there will always be buyers who want to buy, and sellers who want to sell. So, a real estate agent will always tell you to sell. Today, buyer demand remains high due to low inventory. Bidding wars have eased a bit but still exist because of high buyer demand. But what about those rising interest rates? When

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you sell your home, you’ll still need to purchase a home to move into, right? Well, as the saying goes: “Marry the house. Date the interest rate.” You can always refinance later when interest rates drop. If you wait too long, you may lose that house you have your eye on. By the way, current rates are still

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below the overall 40-year average of 8% to 9%.

help the buyer see how their new home could look! Find a professional real esTips for selling tate agent who is an expert in the market area you are interyour home Make major repairs and ested in. He or she will guide de-clutter your home for you through the entire process better appeal inside and from pre-listing to post-closing. outside. Consider investing A true professional will see in home staging if your prop- you through and be there for erty will be vacant. This will you long after closing.

Conclusion With home shortages and high buyer demand, it is a great time to sell your home… IF…your motivation is high! Contact me for a free home evaluation if you are in the market to sell (or buy). I am happy to assist!

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Catering

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Pam Thomas Pammie’s Sammies 121 S. Boyd St. Winter Garden, FL 34787 407-730-3212 pammiessammies.com

How do I plan for food when hosting a party?

I say turn that chore over to a professional caterer and relax. Planning a holiday party should never be looked upon as an obligation or a chore. It’s your party as much as it is your guests’. You have a right to enjoy it, too, don’t you?

Trusting the right caterer can make all the difference. Tell the caterer what you want, give them a budget and the likes and dislikes of your guests (if you know them), and let them work their magic. Don’t micromanage. It can be as simple as “I’m expecting X number of people and I want to spend $X per person.” As we tell the guests who visit Pammie’s Sammies in downtown Winter Garden: rest your head, put up your feet, be yourself, close your eyes, breathe deeply, and feed your soul. When it’s your turn to host the next holiday party and you have a good caterer

on your side, you can afford to be that chill. You really can. Your guests will appreciate it almost as much as you will. They won’t feel as strong a need to add their own dish to your party fare. However, if some still want to contribute, by all means let them. People like to feel they’ve helped in some way and that will only add to their own enjoyment of your affair. If you need the name of a really excellent cater, I happen to know one who specializes in signature sandwiches—traditional, pressed, or wraps. (Sammies travel exceptionally well, by the way.)

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Because our creations are crafted from cherished family recipes, everything comes with a heaping helping of love, from our grilled flatbread pizzas, to salads, to fromscratch soups and desserts. The answer to “how do I plan food for my next holiday party?” is as close as a phone call. You can rest assured that everything we make is thoughtfully sourced, earth-friendly, and tastefully adventurous. I’ve made it my mission to feed the soul, craft with love, and serve from the heart. In the end, the best thing you can put on your party menu is hospitality.

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Wheels of Fortune Imagine a car accident taking away your ability to walk. Imagine your dream career requiring you to hide a piece of yourself. Imagine a depression so deep that it confines you to your home, to your bed, for years. Imagine being truly, radically grateful for it all. H E ATH E R AN N E LE E

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ana Shelfer wants you to know there is nothing wrong with you. How you are today, how you live and express yourself in the world, is exactly where you’re supposed to be. It has a purpose, and as a certified life coach and public speaker, her job is to help you discover that purpose. She calls it “Living Lucky,” and together with her husband, Jason, she’s taking that message from TedX stages to bookshops to YouTube

and beyond.However, the confident, charismatic woman she exudes today was forged in the fires of tragedy, in darkness so profound that it almost swallowed her whole. What saved her life? Radical gratitude. Here, she tells it in her own words.

I was 15 years old when my world changed forever. In an instant—the time it takes for a seat belt to snap—I went from a vibrant teenager dreaming of teaching gymnastics to sitting in physical therapy re-learning how to function without the use of my legs. I cried every single night I’m the Lucky One for months. But that wasn’t I’ve always been pretty hap- what changed my life. py, pretty positive, pretty op- After back surgery and timistic. My emotional home eight weeks in the hospihas always been gratitude. tal, I went to Colorado for But that gets tested in life. rehabilitation and that’s the

“I was 15 years old when my world changed forever. In an instant—the time it takes for a seat belt to snap...”

The last image of Jana before her accident in 1990.

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first time I met gratitude face to face. I was at Craig Hospital in Englewood. It was early on, maybe the second or third day. I was waiting for my physical therapist while sitting in my wheelchair— what I thought was the worst thing that could possibly happen—when a fellow patient asked me to scratch his nose. And when I did that, he said to me, “You have no idea how lucky you are.” It shocked me. Stunned me, actually. Here I was

feeling sorry for myself, while here’s this guy, a quadriplegic, paralyzed from the neck down, and he couldn’t even scratch his own nose. That moment shifted my perspective entirely. I mean, in that situation, I was the lucky one. I am the lucky one. I still have my hands, my brain, my voice. I can draw and sing and wheel my own chair around. Instead of focusing on what I had lost, I started focusing on what I had.

And from that subtle shift, opportunities started to open up for me—opportunities I never would have imagined. I was the first person in a wheelchair to win the title of Kansas Junior Miss. I won Miss Congeniality at America’s Junior Miss pageant. Former Inside Edition anchor Deborah Norville did a story on me and eventually included me in her book, Back On Track: How to Straighten Out Your Life When it Throws You a Curve.

I started playing wheelchair basketball and became a threetime Paralympian Gold Medalist. I started public speaking. All of these things happened after my accident, not before. These were opportunities to reach people, to have an impact, to have a life that I probably wouldn’t have had if as an able-bodied person. “You have no idea how lucky you are.” Those words changed my life.

“Learning how to be “I still have my thankful for what hands, I still have I have has been my brain, I still one of the most have my voice. I transformative can draw and sing experiences of my and wheel my life. It sounds simple, own chair around. I know — almost Instead of focusing At Craig Hospital in Englewood, Colorado for too simple for it to on what I had lost, rehabilitation in 1990 (shown above), where possibly be effective. I started focusing Jana first experienced radical gratitude. It But gratitude is on what I had” wasn’t until 2016 that she began the practice something that in earnest, penning daily gratitude posts in just keeps getting her journals (shown below). sweeter, something that enhances the beauty of everything else in your life.”

The Unspoken Rule In my 30s, things shifted. I couldn’t really tell you why. I had a fabulous husband, a great house in Windermere, a thriving career and social life… life was good. And yet, something in my soul was saying, “Jana, there’s more. There’s something bigger and better for you.” And being a sane, high-achieving, type-A personality, I didn’t want to hear it at first. I kept trying to suppress it. But the more I did, the louder it got.

At America’s Junior Miss Pageant in 1994, where Jana won the Miss Congeniality award.

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I guess I ignored that voice, that instinct, long enough that it moved into my body. As if it needed to get my attention, and the only way to do it was to make me sick. I started getting allergies, insomnia, anxiety, panic attacks. My bones started hurting. My bladder stopped working; I had incontinence constantly. I was literally taking six pairs of pants with me to work every day so no one would know. It became such a chore to function.

My body was breaking down from the inside, and I couldn’t figure it out. My immediate thought was, it’s the stress of work. I loved what I was doing—the people I worked with had become my family, and I felt a connection with Orlando listeners. But I didn’t feel like I was being completely authentic, because we never talked about my disability on air. As long as I stuck with the “Jana Banana” character—positive, optimistic, funny—everything

“All of these things happened after my accident, not before. These were opportunities to reach people, to have an impact, to have a life that I probably wouldn’t have had if were an able-bodied person.”

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was great. It was this unspoken thing that my chair wasn’t good for the show. After 12 years at the Philips Phile, I was still part-time, even though the show had great ratings. So, I started standing up for myself, asking for promotions and raises. But when I asked for more, I was denied, denied, denied. The answer was always no, or not at this time. They even told me my salary was offset by living in Florida. That they “paid me in sunshine.” In sunshine!

Long story short, I decided to take a year off for introspection. Hopefully, figure out what was going on with my body. But things only got worse. My symptoms flared. I gained weight. I felt ashamed and embarrassed. And nothing really landed for me. I was sure that during that sabbatical, I would come to some sort of epiphany, but as each day went on, I became more and more upset with myself for not showing up as my best.

A three-time Paralympian, Jana competed at the 1996 Summer Paralympics as the youngest player on the bronze-medal winning roster. With President Bill Clinton in 1996 (shown right). In 2004, she helped earn the U.S. team a gold medal at the Summer Paralympics in Greece (shown above).

A year after leaving the radio, I was at home, transferring from my wheelchair to the couch — something I had done 20 times a day for years. But this time I fell and broke my leg in three places.That fall put me in bed, completely immobile, alone with my thoughts.

How Can I Be Grateful for That? I didn’t leave the house for two years. I wasn’t getting out of bed. I wasn’t washing my hair. I wasn’t brushing my teeth. I

“‘You have no idea how lucky you are.’ Those words changed my life.”

was tired, to the point where it didn’t feel like I would ever rejuvenate. I wanted to blame someone. I blamed God a lot. But I also felt like it wasn’t really anybody’s fault, except maybe my own. Jason was my rock during that time. But I was so down, I even started sabotaging that—like, how could he love me like this? It was a really low point in our marriage, and I’m not proud of it. It was when I really began to worry about him leaving me that I knew something needed to change.

I realized I was going through a transition, much like I did when I was 15. It felt like I needed to look back at my younger self to remember how to get up and keep going. And it was the day I scratched that guy’s nose that kept coming to mind. “You have no idea how lucky you are” played over and over in my head. So, I decided to research luck, which led to gratitude. “Gratitude, gratitude, gratitude”—I know. It’s such an overused word that even I was annoyed. But I knew

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something had to change, or I would die. That’s when I started my gratitude journal. I decided I would start by making a list of five things I was grateful for every day. Don’t let anyone tell you it’s easy. Gratitude journaling, especially in the beginning, is hard. My lens had become so distorted that my mind kept going to these dark emotions and circumstances. But instead of fighting it, I just wrote them down. And then I asked, “How can I be grateful for that?”

“I call it ‘radical gratitude,’ and it shifted my perspective entirely. It saved my life.”

One specific thing that came up was my paralysis. “How can I be grateful that this car accident happened to me?” I had to clean out those old emotions. And there were a lot of them— anger, disappointment, resentment—but also incredible gratitude for the opportunities that came up because of it. The truth is, I probably wouldn’t have explored some of these talents because I would’ve been … I mean, it’s hard to project

Jana and Jason Shelfer married in 2006 (left). Jason, an avid traveler and health enthusiast, enjoys helping Jana with her artistic endeavors, including music and bespoke wheel covers.

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what I would have been. But it wasn’t until after my accident that I really explored music and art, which I love. I slowly taught myself how to be grateful for all the things that didn’t go right in my life. I call it “radical gratitude,” and it shifted my perspective entirely. It saved my life.

Radical Gratitude In psychology, it’s called neuroplasticity: the idea that the way you think

“The first time I discovered gratitude, it was by concentrating on what I have, what I can control, what I can do. The second time, I became grateful for my disability.”

BESPOKE: Each of Jana’s spoke covers is one-of-a-kind, either custom manufactured or handmade by Jana and Jason. “I played wheelchair basketball for a time, so I had some spoke guards. But spoke guards have big holes in the center. I had never seen full covers like mine before I started making them. And the fact that I can include my art? That’s just amazing. Like gratitude journaling, it’s incredibly personal, but so gratifying. Inspiration comes from so many places—sometimes it’s just a colorful statement about something I’m feeling; other times, it’s simply to bring a smile to someone else’s face. But they are always unique and precious.”

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about something, good or bad, creates grooves in your brain. When I started having radical gratitude, it was almost like repaving the road in my mind. But even though gratitude can manifest miracles, it’s a process, and that’s what I tell my clients; it took five years to sink into my depression, and it’s taken five years to pull myself out. There is no overnight fix. I know that’s the worst thing to hear when you’re in the middle of it and just want help, but it’s true.

“Gratitude... I know. It’s such an overused word that even I was annoyed. But I knew something had to change, or I would die.”

“The way you think about something, good or bad, creates grooves in your brain. When I started having radical gratitude, it was almost like repaving the road in my mind.”

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The journey to honoring yourself is one that can feel long and tedious because the work is never finished. Like watering a plant every day, it takes commitment, but little things over time can get big results. The trick is to start with gratitude, go easy on yourself, and celebrate the small successes along the way. I’ve kept all my journals, and I’m so glad. It’s fun to see how far I’ve come. The first time I discovered gratitude, it was by concen-

trating on what I have, what I can control, what I can do. The second time, I became grateful for my disability. And when I did that, I realized, you know what? I hated going through that. I thought it was the worst thing ever. But now, almost 33 years later, I wouldn’t change it. I would not change it. Because no matter what happens in life, whether we perceive it to be a good thing or a not so good thing, it’s always working in our favor.

Jana and Jason are both personal coaches and keynote speakers; together they host daily “Living Lucky” Facebook Live videos (right) and run a YouTube Channel, Start Living Lucky.

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On the Record with Mayor Rees

PHOTO BY FRED LOPEZ

No one knows Winter Garden better than Mayor John Rees. But how well do we know him?

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Winter Garden native John Rees has spent his life working, playing, and serving our community. Yet many new to town never have the pleasure of his acquaintance. A true southern gentleman, always quick with a laugh, who loves a healthy debate but doesn’t suffer fools. A man who rises each day with a grateful heart for the city he has helped nourish and cultivate for more than 30 years. A man who knows that community is better when we do it together. We asked John about gratitude, and he imparted the wisdom of a mayor, a grandfather, a local, and a kindhearted human being.

What does gratitude mean to you? Being grateful and kind. Returning kindness to others.

What’s one thing that made you smile recently? The crazy things pets do. Every day, it makes me smile.

What are you most grateful for? The good Lord sending a cute 15-year-old girl into my life back in 1965. Linda and I have had 53 blessed years of marriage.

What is one small victory you had this month? Cleaning three yards after Hurricane Ian and getting a tree off of the roof.

What mayoral experience are you most grateful to have had? Working closely with thecity manager to ensure the success of our city. What non-mayoral experience are you most grateful to have had? Graduating in 1971 from the University of Florida in the gym where I played for the state basketball championship as a senior at Lakeview High School. Also, when Silver Springs Citrus was purchased by Toyota, it opened up a whole new world. What was your favorite moment of this year? Having our grandkids pull the switch to Light Up Winter Garden. What are you most proud of yourself this year? Throwing batting practice to our 15-year-old grandson and walking 15,000 steps per day. What’s the best advice you’ve received recently? To stop walking 15,000 steps per day.

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What’s one thing you do really well? Math. Name someone in your life (not a relative) you are grateful for. Pastor DeShay, who married us on Sept. 9, 1969, and baptized my sons and me at First Baptist Church. What book changed your life for the better? The Bible. Who makes you feel loved and why? My wife, Linda; sons, Johnathan and Justin, and grandkids, Emily, Madison, McKenzie, Morgan, Abigail, and John. The true enjoyment of each others’ company and willingness to do anything for each other. Name someone who goes unnoticed but deserves recognition. Nancy Barber and Amanda Booker Name an extraordinary act of kindness you witnessed recently. Fred and Sue Crabtree providing financial assistance for cancer patients.

For Mayor Rees, happiness is family: His wife, Linda; sons, Johnathan and Justin, and grandkids (shown above), Emily, Madison, McKenzie, Morgan, Abigail, and John.

Name one thing you are grateful to have. My health.

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Name something positive in your life that you didn’t have a year ago. Vehicles for our granddaughters in college. What person in your past are you most grateful for? Dr. Albert Gleason. He delivered me as a baby and took care of me until my 60s. What risk are you most grateful to have taken? Leaving a secure job to start a 43-year career at Silver Springs Citrus.

Name something in nature that you are grateful for. The one-legged sandhill crane that I care for. What challenge are you grateful to have overcome? Public speaking has become easier. What’s one thing someone told you about yourself that you never forgot? As a young boy, my father told me, “It’s better to keep your mouth shut and let people think you are a fool than to open it and remove all doubt.”

Describe a smell that always makes you smile. Orange blossoms and a citrus plant feed mill.

List five people you are grateful for and why. 1. John and Marjorie Rees, my parents, for the positive upbringing. Describe something 2. Fred and Laura Johnson, weird or unexpected my wife’s parents, for lifethat brings you joy. long lessons and work ethic. Hiding and scaring the 3. Bill Youngblood for what grandkids as I did with our he taught me in business. two sons. 4. Will Wiener of Toyota, a Name five things that genius who constantly make you laugh. challenged me. Kids, pets, 5. Pastor Tim Grosshans dumb comedy, for being such a positive conversations with family, influence and encourager and friends in our lives, and Pastor Reynold Lemp for providDescribe the last time you truly felt at peace. ing a place for teenagers Right now. on Friday nights.

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List 10 things people don’t know about you. 1. I like quotes like, “It’s amazing what can be accomplished when you don’t care who gets the credit.” 2. I played the trumpet. 3. I wore bellbottoms and platform shoes to work. 4. I once had long, thick, black, wavy hair. 5. I love creating and analyzing spreadsheets. 6. I’m very hyper and have an overabundance of energy. 7. I also do not sleep much. 8. I loved to water ski. 9. I have coached Little League baseball, Pop Warner football, YMCA basketball, and soccer. 10.I’m passionate about animals and nature. More than once, I’ve stopped people from cutting down trees.

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List 5 things that make you really happy. 1. Being born in the USA. 2. Family activities, and making my beautiful wife happy. 3. Good debate. 4. Going to church. 5. Working outside.

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In the Middle of Everything with Michelle Meachem The “unofficial mayor” of Winter Garden, Michelle truly feels at home in her community, her body, and her life. H E ATH E R AN N E LE E F R E D LO PE Z

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t’s four o’clock on a calm Monday, and for once, there isn’t an event to attend later in the evening. Not that there isn’t anything to do; in Michelle Meachem’s world, there’s always fun on the horizon. After this interview, she’s off to check in with her dad who’s currently displaced from the hurricane. Then she’s going to swing by the Cannons’ to hold baby Evelyn and give new parents, Kara and Jason, a brief respite. Her best friend, Tracy Lewis, will be there, and then who knows where the evening will take them. Pilars? Impromptu dance party? Anything goes—but first, she stops for a selfie. That’s Michelle in a nutshell: She refuses any invitation to take herself seriously.“People are way more critical of themselves than anybody else ever is going to be. I never used to smile in photos with my mouth open because I have the worst teeth, but you know what? This is the mouth I was given, these are the teeth I have, this is how I was designed. I won’t miss out on my own life because I’m too afraid of what people think of me. No one is perfect, and that’s the point. Life is just too short to let that hold me back.” At 50 years young, Michelle is the kind of woman whose effervescence makes

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trying on bathing suits, getting a haircut, or even folding laundry into an adventure of epic proportions. The kind of woman who’s never met a stranger, and has yet to make an enemy. “My story isn’t that special,” she says, deflecting the attention. “I’m probably the least interesting person I know.” To which we disagree.

or something that I don’t stand with or agree with, I’ll just leave.” Boundless confidence. Unshakable conviction. And yet, like so many public personalities, she fights unexpected battles behind closed doors. “I’ve suffered with anxiety and depression since my daughter was 2. So, more than 25 years, on and off. I’ve lost jobs because of Picture Imperfect it—or, rather, gave up jobs Michelle is a Presence— because I couldn’t cope.” capital P—in the communiIt seems incomprehenty. If there’s an event within sible to an outsider that a 20-mile radius, she’s a woman who thrives on there, charming friends connection could carry and strangers alike into such a burden, and yet it unlikely conversations and has colored her life in a photo ops. Sure, it is part myriad of ways. Take, for of her job as Community example, the time she was Relations with We Are Win- a photographer at Walt ter Garden. But as anyone Disney World Resorts. who follows her on social “I wasn’t a great phomedia knows, that role may tographer, and I had no as well have been crafted formal experience, but I especially for her. loved meeting people and “I just love meeting peo- making them smile. I did ple,” she says. A statement that job just shy of 10 years. you simply know to be Then my depression and true. There is no carefully anxiety started setting in. crafted persona. Michelle The pressure of getting up is very much a what-youat a certain time became see-is-what-you-get kind overwhelming. I was giving of girl. up my shifts almost every In fact, she outright day. Finally, my boss calls refuses to be anything me in and he’s like, ‘Techelse. “I am a member of nically you haven’t done this community first,” she anything wrong, but do you says. “I’ve lived here a long even want to work here anytime. I deeply, deeply love more?’ The truth is, I did, the people. If you ever ask but I wasn’t mentally up to me to be somebody I’m not the task.”

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At its core, her anxiety stems not from work, but from schedule-keeping. “I prefer to wing it, which I know is not realistic for most people who have jobs and families and whatnot. I was even anxious about coming to this interview, and that’s crazy. I know you, I enjoy you, I’m comfortable in this space, but the anxiety … it’s palpable.” Michelle is many things, but a quitter is not one of them. She has learned to take life as it comes, and is grateful that her job allows for that. “I don’t punch a

“ Anxiety is part of my life, just like bad teeth and big thighs. But I’ve accepted it. It’s who I am. Why wouldn’t you celebrate it?”

clock. I have one morning a week where I have to attend a team meeting, and sometimes even that is a stretch. Thankfully, I get to work with my best friends, literally, and that helps so much.” Indeed, it was her friend Tracy who recruited her to We Are Winter Garden as part of an expansion of their business team. “Tracy was like, ‘I have the perfect person,’” Michelle says. “I actually said no for a long time, but she persisted, and it’s been a very good fit for me.”

One Life to Love If there’s one thing Michelle wants you to know, it’s that loving your life—your whole life—takes work, but it’s one of the worthiest challenges you will face. “Anxiety is part of my life, just like bad teeth and big thighs. But I’ve accepted it. In fact, I love it now. It’s who I am. It’s how God made me. Why wouldn’t you celebrate everything you have?” Fostering a loving relationship with all the quirks and deviations that make Michelle, Michelle, may very well be the reason we are so

Whether she’s trying on bathing suits, making home repairs, attending charity events or simply mugging for the camera, Michelle makes every day an adventure of epic proportions. Follow her on Facebook at @mdmeachem

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drawn to her. “Every day, I get to be me. I get up excited to see who I’m going to meet today. I love that people come up to me and say, ‘I know you from Facebook. Thank you for doing what you do!’ I just feel so lucky to live and work in a space where I can be everything to everybody that I would love to be.” Still, there are days when she struggles, the anxiety making her question her worth. “I have no tangible results here. I’m not creating anything. I’m just being nice to people and having fun. But my boss, Mark, always says, ‘Without the relationships, we don’t have a business, so don’t ever discount what you bring to the table.’ And that has been such a powerful motivator to me.” That attitude of gratitude infuses every moment of Michelle’s life, inspiring everyone she meets to do the same. “It’s OK to think that you’re great. There’s nothing wrong with loving yourself. You’re embracing where you are. Own it, and just have fun with it.” So whether you’re taking a bomb selfie, meeting new friends at a community event, or having a laugh with friends at happy hour, make the most of it. And take a moment to say hi to Michelle. She’s sure to be there.

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“I won’t miss out on my own life because I’m too afraid of what people think of me.”

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Just E Our Type For Angie and Noah Layfield, type 1 diabetes is a family affair. H E AT H ER LUX EM B U R G

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ver hear about mother’s intuition? Angela Layfield sure has. In fact, in early 2018 she experienced it firsthand. When she and her son, Noah, who was 9 at the time, attended a mother/son hockey game, Angie quickly realized any mother’s greatest fear— there was something very wrong with her child. Five, maybe six trips to the bathroom in the span of a few hours, and Angie’s

anxiety flared. Having worked with senior citizens, that symptom looked all too familiar. “Like any frantic mother, I went straight to Dr. Google and searched ‘juvenile diabetes.’ I’ll never forget reading the first sentence: ‘Juvenile diabetes is an autoimmune disease,’” she says. “Instantly I became more concerned because I also have a history of autoimmune issues. Was this my fault? Did I pass this on to my son?

And then I started reading the symptoms— excessive urination, an insatiable thirst, unexplained weight loss. Clearly Noah had all that, plus he was sweating a lot and was very lethargic.” Expecting the worst, Angie took Noah to the ER. The diagnosis? Exactly what Angie had suspected: juvenile type 1 diabetes. From that point, the Layfield family’s life turned upside down. A New Normal Angie dove head first into the into the whirlwind of information and education and treatments. From finger sticks to insulin injections, the Layfields learned everything they could for the next few years. Type 1 diabetes is thought to be caused by an autoimmune reaction, meaning the body attacks itself by mistake. This reaction destroys the cells in the pancreas that make insulin, called beta cells. “So, we started the process of learning how to manage the disease through finger sticks and other stuff. As well as insulin injections. When you’re a type 1 diabetic, you take insulin to correct blood sugar, but also to cover the carbohydrates that you eat. It’s very cumbersome, especially when you’re 9. You essentially go to school with a big equation.”

Even so, the medical side of the disease was easier to cope with than the emotional side. “I remember being so sad for him,” Angie says. “To be 9 years old and know that you’re going to have this disease for your whole life. And it’s every second of every day. It’s all night when you’re sleeping. There is no break from it, and that’s the hardest part. It’s overwhelming.” Thankfully, Noah handled it like a trooper, and the next few years brought some stability as they eased into a new normal. And, having learned to manage Noah’s disease, Angie finally began sleeping a little better at night.

“I’m not happy it happened, but there’s a sense of relief because now [Noah has] somebody who understands what he’s going through.”

That is, until the fall of 2019 when her life changed forever—again. Family Ties “I just started feeling off,” Angie says. “I was always hungry, but I was also starting to lose weight, eating so much but still losing weight. And I was tired.” Symptoms that, once again, felt all too familiar from her experience in senior care. But this time, she thought, there had to be some other explanation. “I was 40, so I thought maybe menopause? Maybe stress from work? Maybe

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being overweight? I say that, but in the back of my head, I knew. I just didn’t want to face it.” Nevertheless, Angie got the bloodwork done. Her diagnosis? Type 1 diabetes. She struggled to come to terms with it at first. But breaking the news to her son changed her perspective. “I remember telling

Noah, and he smiled. He was so excited,” she says. “You can imagine how lonely it is when you’re the only one dealing with the disease. I’m not happy it happened, but there’s a sense of relief because now [Noah has] somebody who understands what he’s going through.” Angie talks about the matter optimistically, but

TOOLS OF THE TRADE From insulin pens to pumps to apps, Angie can monitor her own sugar, as well as her son’s, 24 hours a day.

WELLNESS COUNTS

37.3 MILLION

The number of Americans currently living with diabetes (11.3% of the population) SOURCE: cdc.gov

283K The estimated number of Americans under age 20 with diagnosed diabetes (around 7.5% of the diabetic population) SOURCE: cdc.gov

29%

The percentage of Americans age 65 and older with diagnosed or undiagnosed diabetes (15.9 million seniors) SOURCE: american diabetes assoc.

327

BILLION Total cost of diagnosed diabetes in the United States in 2017.

SOURCE: American Diabetes Assoc.

7th

Diabetes was the seventh leading cause of death in the United States in 2019. SOURCE: American Diabetes Assoc.

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the reality of the diagnosis is always on her mind. “We have been very lucky that neither of us has needed hospitalization since diagnosis. But at some point, something will happen; even a simple stomach virus can be significantly troublesome.” She is also very clear about the financial toll diabetes takes on a family. “Here we are in 2022, and not everyone has access to insulin, let alone the education needed to properly navigate the disease. That’s so frustrating and so scary,” she says. “I’m grateful that, being in the field, I have the exposure and access to healthcare Noah and I need. I’m also thankful for the tools we have, the medical devices. Even though it is 24 hours a day, all I have to do is glance at my pump and know what needs to be done. Even my phone has apps that help me manage my insulin, as well as Noah’s. It’s crazy how far the advancements have come.” Strength in Numbers Instead of allowing diabetes to get the best of them, Angie and her family have turned their story into an opportunity. “We celebrate Noah’s diagnosis day; his ‘dia-versary,’ as we call it. We celebrate it every year with a silly

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Their advocacy not only benefits diabetes research and awareness, but also, Angie hopes, builds Noah’s confidence and acceptance of himself as he is. “My biggest fear as his mom is that he is ashamed of it. This isn’t a disability; it’s a normal part of our lives. It’s a normal part of millions of lives,” she says. “But subliminally, I think that I became a type 1 diabetic so that I could better understand and support him. At 40 years old, that’s weird, but it gives me some peace of mind, feeling like I understand. I don’t understand what it’s like to be 9 or 14 or 25 living with it. But I do know what the stress and burdens feel like. I’m glad he has somebody to walk through it with.”

FAMILY INK The Layfield family commemorates each “dia-versary” in a variety of ways, including getting matching tattoos.

Know the signs. Save a life. Type 1 diabetes signs and symptoms can appear relatively suddenly and may include: • Irritability and other mood changes • Fatigue and weakness • Blurred vision • Increased urination, often at night • Increased thirst • Unintended weight loss • Extreme hunger • Numbness or tingling in the hands or feet • Fatigue or exhaustion • Very dry skin • Slower healing • More infections than usual. Nausea, vomiting, or stomach pains can also occur. Symptoms can develop in just a few weeks or months and can be severe. Type 1 diabetes usually starts when you’re a child, teen, or young adult, but it can happen at any age.

ANGIE SAYS: “Thankfully we had that hockey game. I was able to have two hours of uninterrupted time with Noah. Had I not been there, I might not have known.”

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“It was super easy for the kids. My gosh, Dr. Washington was fantastic; all the kids were comfortable with her.” —Jessica Villegas

ask how long the girls might wear their glasses during the day—longer times meant lighter frames. My girls narrowed their choices down to three or four each and we let the experts help them zero in on The One.” Once her kids were all squared away with new frames, Jessica decided it was her turn for a checkup. “Like Dr. Kim Dawson [owner of Pearle Vision of Ocoee] told me, ‘You never know how bad yours are until you see how good

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Breaking Bread Deck the halls with lavaş and friends. R H E YA TAN N E R

luten. Be still, my beating heart, I love gluten so much. I find it in so many of my guilty pleasure foods—cookies, french fries, candies, lasagna, knockoff cereal (see May 2022). But you know this article is about gluten’s greatest work: Bread. It’s one of those foods you can love in all kinds of unique forms (Ezekiel bread notwithstanding). Bosphorus in Hamlin serves this light, fluffy kind, lavaş (that’s la-VOSH), with hummus and dips of various flavors and textures. As an established bread-liker, I highly recommend it. But before you grab that bread knife and start

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sawing, there’s one important detail: lavaş is hollow. As in, that plump loaf is actually full of steam, and it’ll fall like a soufflé as soon as you tear off that first piece—yes, with your hands. So take that as a word of caution when you give it that first poke. Once it pops, though, the inside looks and feels fabulously bready, and tastes warm and soft and comfy in the way that only freshly baked bread can. Oh, and don’t mistake hollow bread for less bread; there’s enough for four people to tear this thing to shreds without feeling too full afterward. We confirmed that fact firsthand. It was Jamie, our

publisher, and of course our photographer, Fred, who were with me; our schedules were packed, and that lavaş was the first food any of us had had that day. Ravenous as we were, though, we were still plucking off the pieces on the bottom when the rest of the food came out. And the rest of the food was just as tasty and filling. I had four cute little stuffed cabbages, packed with rice, tomatoes, garlic, and ground lamb and topped with a sort of yogurt sauce. Fred and Jamie both ordered the Chicken Adana Kebap,aka grilled chicken skewers dressed up with spicy, savory seasonings and accompanied by a rain-

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Eats+Drinks bow of pickled cabbage, beets, carrots, and red onions with a Turkish vinaigrette drizzle. Two dishes we weren’t expecting to photograph until they came out so beautifully. I don’t mean to get all meta here, but let me talk about The Local’s food photo shoots for a minute. They’re usually pretty straightforward: We order the food, we receive the food, we photograph the food while it’s fresh—it doesn’t take long, since food can’t accidentally

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blink. And then, of course, we sit down to eat the food. Or, rather, the writer does. Everyone else basically peaces out immediately, either to return some business call or to head to the next shoot on the other side of town that starts in, like, three minutes. It’s such a little thing, breaking bread together. We often skip it during the busiest times, the times we see each other the least. But it’s during those times, somehow, that it feels like it matters the most.

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Making Spirits Bright You’ve already lit up your home for the holidays. Why not light up your cocktails? TAR I N SCAR BR O UG H

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nyone else tired of playing it safe? Social distancing, canceled flights, restaurants and bars with limited seating, holiday parties put on hold… The past two holiday seasons have certainly felt a little boring, am I right? Which is exactly why now is the absolute perfect time to take things up a notch. And when I say “a notch,” I mean completely over-thetop. Treat your senses to something truly decadent. Ignore the calories and inoculate yourself from the ghosts of Christmas past with three of my favorite embellished cocktails that treat your eye as much as your palate.

Homemade Eggnog Eggnog is notoriously one of the most luxurious beverages of the season. Originating in the 13th century, eggnog contains eggs, milk, and sherry—once expensive commodities combined to toast wealth and prosperity. Over the past millennium, eggnog has transformed in many ways, mainly with the spirit changing to rum, brandy, or my personal favorite, bourbon. INGREDIENTS (BATCHED FOR A CROWD)

12 eggs, room temp 1/2 c sugar 750 mL bourbon (1 bottle) 1/2 tsp salt 1 qt whipping cream grated nutmeg (garnish) INSTRUCTIONS

• Separate eggs. Cover egg whites and store in refrigerator. • In a large bowl, whisk yolks and sugar until thick and smooth, 5-7 mins (it should be lemon yellow in color). • Slowly add bourbon while beating at slow speed. Scrape sides of bowl. • Chill for several hours or overnight. • In a separate bowl, beat egg whites and salt until almost stiff. • Whip cream until stiff and fold into yolk mixture. Fold in egg whites. Let chill 1 hr to properly set. • Serve and garnish with nutmeg TARIN’S TIPS

For a thinner eggnog, add a cup of milk to the yolk mixture. For more spice, use one cup of bourbon and one cup of Cognac. If you have a glass moose cup and can pretend to be Uncle Eddie—even better.

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Pisco Apple Sour Eggnogged out? Try bringing Pisco to the party instead. This is a variation on a Flip, a cocktail commonly made with a whole egg and sugar. Pisco is a Peruvian brandy, but it differs greatly from other brandies; it’s robust yet sharp with an almost sweet, apple-like finish, so it only made sense to pair it with apple juice (I use Martinelli’s). Unconventional? Sure. But shouldn’t holiday dinners be a mix of classic dishes and Pinterest experiments? This checks both of those boxes.

INGREDIENTS (SINGLE SERVING)

2 oz Pisco 1 oz unfiltered apple juice 1�2 oz simple syrup 1�2 lemon juiced 1 whole egg grated cinnamon (garnish) INSTRUCTIONS

• In a shaker, add all ingredients. Shake vigorously with ice. • Strain into glass. Garnish with grated cinnamon. TARIN’S TIPS

• Try prepping the Pisco by adding 2 cinnamon sticks to the bottle and letting it infuse for 24 hours. • If preferred, you can skip the egg whites, but know that you’ll lose that special foaming top layer.

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3�4 c lime juice (4-6 limes) 1�2 c fresh mint 1�2 c white rum 1�2 c coconut rum 1 c coconut milk, canned 2-3 cans ginger beer lime zest pomegranate arils

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INSTRUCTIONS

• In a pitcher, muddle lime and mint. • Add rum and coconut milk. Stir until evenly combined. • Chill until ready to serve. • Serve in a glass. Top off with ginger beer and gently stir until combined. Garnish with lime zest and pomegrante arils. TARIN’S TIPS

• Coconut milk naturally separates, so make sure it is well mixed before using. Or, substitute with cream of coconut for a sweeter finish.

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Cariera’s Fresh Italian 1041 S. Dillard St., Winter Garden / 407-554-3622 carierasfreshitalian.com If there’s two things most people can agree on, it’s that a hearty plate of pasta is always a good choice, and the best place to get that fix is Cariera’s. Heavy with Italian tradition, Cariera’s features timeless favorites, such as spaghetti and meatballs to chicken Saltembocca, white Cacciatore to Eggplant Parmigiana. There’s even a lite menu featuring Keto versions of your Italian favorites! Whether celebrating a special occasion or simply feeding the family, Cariera’s strives to make every guest feel comfortable enough to laugh out loud, reminisce, and indulge.

CRISP & GREEN 16055 New Independence Pkwy, Ste. 130, Winter Garden / 689-946-5100 crispandgreen.com Welcome to CRISP & GREEN! We are opening our first Winter Garden location this November and are excited to be a part of the community. We provide nutritious and convenient food to fit a busy, wellness-driven lifestyle. While we believe that eating healthy should feel good, we also think it should taste good, too. That’s why every ingredient is prepared in our kitchen from start to finish. We craft every menu item to be full of flavors that are balanced, wholesome and unique, keeping your palate satisfied and your body nourished. Come in today to try our salads, grain bowls, and more.

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WINTER GARDEN 16412 New Independence Pkwy / 407-500-4050 WINDEMERE 5855 Winter Garden Vineland Rd / 407-500-0306 thefrenchcafe.com Do you feel like you’ve been transported to a cozy neighborhood café in Paris, sipping a French coffee while the smell of fresh pastries fills the air? You may be surprised to find you’re not in France at all; instead, you’re enjoying a meal at The French Café. Try our one-of-a-kind pastries baked fresh daily by our acclaimed chef. Join us for a relaxing breakfast on the weekend or stop in before that evening movie for a delightful dinner. We can’t wait to say bienvenue to you!

Gochi Japanese Kitchen 14195 W. Colonial Dr., Winter Garden / 407-877-0050 gochijapanesekitchen.com Since 2007, Gochi Japanese Kitchen has been providing Winter Garden with the highest-quality Japanese favorites. Raw a la carte options like nigiri, sashimi, and rolls, plus uniquely crafted noodles, yakiniku and yakiyasai bbq grill options. Need space for a special event? Ask about our private dining room and catering options!

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The Hangry Bison

250 W Plant St, Winter Garden / 407-347-9099 thehangrybison.com / Reservations Available The ultimate build-your-own-burger experience has landed in the heart of Winter Garden! The Hangry Bison is known for quality bourbon, craft beer and cocktails, and award-winning bison burgers, but our vast menu of savory appetizers, fresh salads, and hearty handhelds of all kinds has a little something for even the hangriest appetites. Check us out on weekday evenings for discounted selections of drinks and small plates. Your parents did happy hour; we do Hangry Hour! 4–7pm Mon-Thu and 4–6pm Fri.

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5845 Winter Garden Vineland Rd., Windermere / 407-347-5487 naanstopp.com If you haven’t soaked warm, garlic naan into velvety butter chicken sauce or scooped chana masala with tandoor roti, get ready to be delighted. Fresh, flavorful and well-priced modern Indian cuisine is finally here! This mouthwatering West Orange outpost glimmers with its roster of succulent tandoori, rice dishes, and fragrant curries—a world of vegetarian and non-vegetarian delights, each imbued with vivid seasonings that never lose their spark. You’re sure to be coming back naan-stopp.

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Orange Crate Cafe 360 W Plant St, Winter Garden / 407-614-0499 orangecratecafe.com It isn’t easy to find a menu with something for everyone. But at Orange Crate Cafe, that’s precisely the point. The family-owned, community-focused cafe serves up scratchmade, southern comfort food with a side of Winter Garden nostalgia. Choose from lunchtime staples like fried shrimp po’boys, cranberry-pecan chicken salad, or better-thanmom’s tuna melt. There are diner-style plates of fried catfish, pork chops, country-fried chicken, and chef’s daily specials. Be sure to try the fried green tomatoes, made fresh daily with an addictive housemade ranch, and no matter what, save room for a slice of homemade dessert.

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Market To Table 146 W Plant St, Winter Garden / 407-395-9871 market2table.com / Private Dining Available Nestled in the Heart of Historic Downtown, Market To Table creates Modern American cuisine with classical influences. Chef/Owner Ryan Freelove’s seasonal dinner menu offers a delightful mix of traditional, yet elevated, dishes, like the Filet Mignon or Braised Short Rib, along with an exciting array of specials. But it’s their new brunch menu that is truly buzzworthy. Come for the humongous Bloody Deluxe, Pork Belly B.L.T., and Steak & Eggs. Stay for the giant Cinnamon Roll and Bread Pudding French Toast. Before you leave, you’ll be making dinner reservations. It’s just that good.

Pilars Martini and Loft 146 W Plant St., Winter Garden / 407-369-8900 pilarsmartini.com Pilars brings to life martinis, mixology, music and more. Drop in for our wide selection of beer, wine and spirits, or try one of our specialty mixed cocktails. Pilars is a comfortable blend of ’30s deco décor, surrounded by the arts. Then wander upstairs to enjoy Pilars Loft, equal parts entertainment and inspiration. Because when it comes to putting on a good show on Plant Street, things are looking up.

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Pammie’s Sammies 121 S. Boyd St / 407-730-3212 / pammiesammies.com Feed the Soul. Craft with Love. Serve from the Heart. That’s the record-setting recipe behind Pammie’s Sammies, a fun sandwich space with funk woven into its atmosphere and baked into every dish. Kick your feet up, sing to the music, and talk with your neighbors. With food that is thoughtfully sourced, earth friendly, and tastefully adventurous, our menu is composed of old family recipes alongside new and tasty trends. Each visit delivers something new and different on the plate, perfectly paired with great tunes and better conversation among friends.

Poke by Gochi 13770 W. Colonial Dr., Winter Garden / 407-347-5091 pokebygochi.com Poke (pronounced poh-kay) is the bowl of the moment, and no one does it better than Gochi. This fast casual concept by the owners of Gochi Japanese Kitchen uses all the same, high quality ingredients as its sister location, only in a one-bowl concept. Choose from chef crafted options or customize your own with a variety of colorful sauces, piles of crunchy toppings, and a white rice, brown rice, or lettuce base. Always fresh, always your way.

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STK Steakhouse ORLANDO 1580 Buena Vista Drive / 407-917-7440 stksteakhouse.com/venues/orlando/ STK is “not your daddy’s steakhouse,” offering a high-energy dining experience combining the superior quality of a traditional steakhouse with a Vibe Dining atmosphere. Delectable cuisine, upscale cocktails, elevated Happy Hour and chic décor along with an in-house DJ, all come together to offer a memorable fine dining experience. The menu features reimagined classic American cuisine for lunch, brunch and dinner — the brand’s beef program focuses on the highest quality craveable steaks while emphasizing transparency and traceable sourcing practices.

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Thai Blossom 99 W. Plant St. Winter Garden / 407-905-9917 mythaiblossom.com

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Rhetoric Rheya Tanner muses on life as a local

Hot Takes What I gained from losing my cool.

ctober is kind of a toss-up weather-wise. Some years it’s brisk—chilly even—making for fantastic trick-or-treat weather for everyone who didn’t dress as a sexy potato or whatever. Other years, it stays uncompromisingly hot, and pumpkin spice has to do a lot of heavy lifting to put anyone in an autumn mood. As you already know, this October was the latter. Woulda been a crazy month to be without air conditioning, wouldn’t it? I mean, could you imagine? Well now you don’t have to, because I’m here to confirm that it sucks pretty bad. My system died three days before Ian hit, so I didn’t even bother trying to call anyone for the first week. Then came the schedule

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conflicts, the this-is-worsethan-you-thoughts, the SuPpLy ChAiN iSsUeS. Maybe I’m a little salty. I blame the sweat that now coats my skin and clothing at all times. But lo and behold, the worst is finally over. Installers from Cloud 9 AC are here setting up a new system (which apparently involves several loud power tools and the use of a blowtorch indoors). All this waiting gives me ample opportunity to reflect. This issue’s all about gratitude, right? I’m grateful this is gonna be over, for starters. But even during these restless, sticky-hot nights, I can’t say it was all bad.There are things I wouldn’t have tried, things I wouldn’t have come to appreciate, if I was comfortable in my own home and

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second one taught me there is a way to take cold showers wrong. • It’s OK to need people. My friends and family let me stay with them for a little while, allowing my dog and me to be spared from the hottest nights. • Hey, if you know your house has no way of cooling down? Don’t use the freaking oven. Idiot. Addendum: This is post-install Rheya checking in. I can lower the temperature again. I might not be able to stop until icicles start forming. Now I can impart one last lesson: Gratitude is a dish best served cold.

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