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Divorce stigma gone, break-ups on the rise As times have
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changed, women are no longer
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ready to accept the restrictions imposed
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by the society and couples today are not ready to compromise and put in extra time and effort to save their marriages
HAMOOD AL BREIKI MUSCAT: Economic and social issues, and interference by relatives are some of the reasons for married couples seeking divorce in Oman. Recent figures indicate that there has been an increase in the number of divorces and a decrease in marriages in Oman. There were 3,622 divorce cases in 2014 as against 3,550 in 2013, while there 28,152 marriage certificates were issued, as compared to 28,515 in 2013. Amjad Hassan Al Haj, working in the Sociology and Social Work Department at the Sultan Qaboos University, said there are several
reasons for the increase in the number of divorces, but mainly it is social and economic issues as well as interference by relatives in the decision-making process within the family. According to Al Haj, the society in the past looked down on divorces but that is no longer the case now as attitudes have changed. Jane Jaffer, an Oman-based counsellor, who has been speaking to married couples, said that many couples have relationship issues, especially in the first few years of marriage. “I believe there are many factors contributing to the rising divorce rate in Oman. The first reason has to do with expectations. The previous generation was perhaps more stoic. Couples generally tolerated unhappy marriages because there was considerable stigma attached to being divorced. This generation expects instant gratification and couples are sometimes unwilling to put in
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time and effort needed to ensure a happy marriage. Marriage requires a huge amount of compromise from both partners. Some are unwilling to make that commitment,” she said. Jane said that in Oman arranged marriages can lead to dif-
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ficulties as the couple may know very little about each other prior to their wedding. “They may find that they have very little in common with each other and feel disappointed and unhappy when their partner’s true character is revealed. But ‘love is blind’ and a couple who marry for love may also find that they have little in common once the phase of romantic love has passed,” she said. “It goes without saying that, in this culture, a man who chooses to take a second wife is bound to suffer from relationship issues with the first wife. Sometimes the problems start later, when the children come along. Husbands can often feel excluded and left out in the cold. When a baby arrives, the dynamics of the relationship change and fatigue sets in. Couples may no longer be able to devote sufficient time to meeting each other’s needs,” explained Jane. >A6
Police rescue three tourists, one missing Staff Reporter MUSCAT: Three of the four tourists who reportedly went missing in Wadi Sameeni near Buraimi in Oman, have been found, while one is still missing, said the police on Saturday. “They have been rescued by our personnel and are safe,” the police said in its tweet. Earlier, the civil defence offi-
cials had tweeted on their official Twitter handle at around 4:45pm yesterday that four tourists had reportedly gone missing at Wadi Sameeni near Buraimi. “There were 12 people in the group. Eight have been rescued, however, four are still missing,” the Public Authority for Civil Defence and Ambulance had said in its tweet. The nationality of the missing tourist is not known.
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Oman, France sign air deal MUSCAT: A Memorandum of Understanding (MoU) in the field of air transport was signed in the premises of the Public Authority for Civil Aviation between the civil aviation authori-
ties of Oman and France. The agreement allows the aviation companies of the Sultanate of Oman and France to operate seven flights a week between the two countries. >A2