Defining Moments

Defining Moments Generally speaking, people are usually under the impression that they have to explain themselves in detail when cornered or questioned. But in reality, it is doesn’t necessarily have to be that way, if and only if what you do is done conscientiously and legally. What we fails to realize and accept is that, nothing you say or do will help change your situation, once it is out there in black and white… absolutely nothing!!

That’s when you feel exposed completely you change the way you think, even if it is for a fraction of a second. You are either angry or ecstatic – depending on what your current circumstances were. Either way, you stop to think and feel ‘your presence’. You’re in awe and in a few moments you comprehend fully well, no matter where you are not only your physical presence but your mental presence as well.

It’s the moment you realize that nothing is a ‘big deal’ at all and life goes on. It’s all just over and you move on to the next phase of your present situation. What actually lives on with you are those few fractions of defining moments that take your breath away. It all happens so fast. There is no time to even wonder when you’ll get a chance to celebrate that moment. And yet, it’s all over.

So what’s next, you wonder. Will there be another moment like this one that just disappeared? Will I get what just happened, again? When will there be another glorious feeling like this one, again? All these questions running through your head at the same time just can’t seem to stop in amazement. All the same, you’ve got to move on to the next issue.

And before you know it, considerable time has gone by, and those glorious ecstatical moments just became a distant memory. Nothing to worry about… since, some of us don’t have time to think about it, let alone celebrate those ‘glorious’ times!! But all the same, what’s important to realize is that you are aware of your ‘presence’ – not just in other peoples’ lives or the situation you just made peace with, but more importantly, you ‘see’ YOU – just YOU. You ‘feel’ YOU. You ‘wow’ you!! This is your ‘present moment’. And that is all that matters to you. And so, life goes on without you even knowing it, and before you know it, you’re on to something else.