Paradigm Shift

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Paradigm Shift There have been many times when we have to view issues differently. Not because we want to but because our circumstances oblige us to do so. All the same it has to be done. Reasons that may make us feel unworthy of ourselves but be still do what we have to do with a heavy heart. A calm way of living through such circumstances is simply to be quiet and still. No matter how ‘desperate’ circumstances presented to you may be, the simplest step is to be quiet and hear the issue out. Give the other person the opportunity to complete his / her thoughts. Give them the chance to express themselves in the best possible way they can. You can never know what good will or may come out of a situation that ‘felt’ like the world was weighing in on your shoulders, and in a matter of moments, you felt as free as a bird flying high. A simple thought to think about is, simply to be calm and present in the moment. It really makes all the difference you need to improve the way you think and feel. Just stop and watch the other person talking, while hearing every word that spills out of the mouth. The point is, every person speaks from the heart, whether good, bad, or ugly. It doesn’t matter. Human beings are constructed differently to blend in with the rest on earth. If each of us is stuck with an opinion that our minds are fixed with, your hope for any sort of self progress is minimal. Nothing works in your favor henceforth. Shifting the way you think about others alleviates a whole lot of personal nerve damage. It helps you understand and accept, nobody is completely right or completely wrong in what has to be accomplished. Your ‘shifted’ thoughts are not meant for intentional exposure unless your opinion is specifically asked for. Nor is it a topic for gossip or entertainment. Frankly speaking, nobody cares anyway, so why gossip about it? Thinking ‘differently’ is not a revelation. It’s just a change in your mannerisms to ease you into comfort levels of your current situation. All that’s required is complete presence in the moment with deep thought and regard to the other person’s circumstances and overall solving issues presented for assistance.


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